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+The Project Gutenberg eBook, Sketches of Young Couples, by Charles Dickens
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+Title: Sketches of Young Couples
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+Author: Charles Dickens
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+[This file was first posted on May 22, 1997]
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+***START OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK SKETCHES OF YOUNG COUPLES***
+</pre>
+<p>Transcribed from the 1903 Chapman and Hall <i>Sketches by
+Boz</i> edition by David Price, email ccx074@pglaf.org</p>
+<h1>SKETCHES OF YOUNG COUPLES</h1>
+<h2>CONTENTS</h2>
+<table>
+<tr>
+<td><p>&nbsp;</p>
+</td>
+<td><p style="text-align: right"><span
+class="GutSmall">PAGE</span></p>
+</td>
+</tr>
+<tr>
+<td><p>An Urgent Remonstrance, &amp;c.</p>
+</td>
+<td><p style="text-align: right"><span class="indexpageno"><a
+href="#page447">447</a></span></p>
+</td>
+</tr>
+<tr>
+<td><p>The Young Couple</p>
+</td>
+<td><p style="text-align: right"><span class="indexpageno"><a
+href="#page451">451</a></span></p>
+</td>
+</tr>
+<tr>
+<td><p>The Formal Couple</p>
+</td>
+<td><p style="text-align: right"><span class="indexpageno"><a
+href="#page455">455</a></span></p>
+</td>
+</tr>
+<tr>
+<td><p>The Loving Couple</p>
+</td>
+<td><p style="text-align: right"><span class="indexpageno"><a
+href="#page458">458</a></span></p>
+</td>
+</tr>
+<tr>
+<td><p>The Contradictory Couple</p>
+</td>
+<td><p style="text-align: right"><span class="indexpageno"><a
+href="#page463">463</a></span></p>
+</td>
+</tr>
+<tr>
+<td><p>The Couple Who Dote Upon Their Children</p>
+</td>
+<td><p style="text-align: right"><span class="indexpageno"><a
+href="#page466">466</a></span></p>
+</td>
+</tr>
+<tr>
+<td><p>The Cool Couple</p>
+</td>
+<td><p style="text-align: right"><span class="indexpageno"><a
+href="#page471">471</a></span></p>
+</td>
+</tr>
+<tr>
+<td><p>The Plausible Couple</p>
+</td>
+<td><p style="text-align: right"><span class="indexpageno"><a
+href="#page474">474</a></span></p>
+</td>
+</tr>
+<tr>
+<td><p>The Nice Little Couple</p>
+</td>
+<td><p style="text-align: right"><span class="indexpageno"><a
+href="#page478">478</a></span></p>
+</td>
+</tr>
+<tr>
+<td><p>The Egotistical Couple</p>
+</td>
+<td><p style="text-align: right"><span class="indexpageno"><a
+href="#page481">481</a></span></p>
+</td>
+</tr>
+<tr>
+<td><p>The Couple Who Coddle Themselves</p>
+</td>
+<td><p style="text-align: right"><span class="indexpageno"><a
+href="#page485">485</a></span></p>
+</td>
+</tr>
+<tr>
+<td><p>The Old Couple</p>
+</td>
+<td><p style="text-align: right"><span class="indexpageno"><a
+href="#page489">489</a></span></p>
+</td>
+</tr>
+<tr>
+<td><p>Conclusion</p>
+</td>
+<td><p style="text-align: right"><span class="indexpageno"><a
+href="#page493">493</a></span></p>
+</td>
+</tr>
+</table>
+<h2><a name="page447"></a><span class="pagenum">p. 447</span>An
+Urgent Remonstrance, &amp;c.</h2>
+<p style="text-align: center">TO THE GENTLEMEN OF ENGLAND,<br />
+<span class="GutSmall">(BEING BACHELORS OR WIDOWERS,)</span></p>
+<p style="text-align: center"><span class="GutSmall">THE
+REMONSTRANCE OF THEIR FAITHFUL FELLOW-SUBJECT,</span></p>
+<p><span class="smcap">Sheweth</span>,&mdash;</p>
+<p><span class="smcap">That</span> Her Most Gracious Majesty,
+Victoria, by the Grace of God of the United Kingdom of Great
+Britain and Ireland Queen, Defender of the Faith, did, on the
+23rd day of November last past, declare and pronounce to Her Most
+Honourable Privy Council, Her Majesty&rsquo;s Most Gracious
+intention of entering into the bonds of wedlock.</p>
+<p><span class="smcap">That</span> Her Most Gracious Majesty, in
+so making known Her Most Gracious intention to Her Most
+Honourable Privy Council as aforesaid, did use and employ the
+words&mdash;&lsquo;It is my intention to ally myself in marriage
+with Prince Albert of Saxe Coburg and Gotha.&rsquo;</p>
+<p><span class="smcap">That</span> the present is Bissextile, or
+Leap Year, in which it is held and considered lawful for any lady
+to offer and submit proposals of marriage to any gentleman, and
+to enforce and insist upon acceptance of the same, under pain of
+a certain fine or penalty; to wit, one silk or satin dress of the
+first quality, to be chosen by the lady and paid (or owed) for,
+by the gentleman.</p>
+<p><span class="smcap">That</span> these and other the horrors
+and dangers with which the said Bissextile, or Leap Year,
+threatens the gentlemen of England on every occasion of its
+periodical return, have been greatly aggravated and augmented by
+the terms of Her Majesty&rsquo;s said Most Gracious
+communication, which have filled the heads of divers young ladies
+in this Realm with certain new ideas destructive to the peace of
+mankind, that never entered their imagination before.</p>
+<p><span class="smcap">That</span> a case has occurred in
+Camberwell, in which a young lady informed her Papa that
+&lsquo;she intended to ally herself in marriage&rsquo; with Mr.
+Smith of Stepney; and that another, and a very distressing case,
+has occurred at Tottenham, in which a young lady not only stated
+her intention of allying herself in marriage with her cousin
+John, but, taking violent possession of her said cousin, actually
+married him.</p>
+<p><span class="smcap">That</span> similar outrages are of
+constant occurrence, not only in the capital and its
+neighbourhood, but throughout the kingdom, and that unless the
+excited female populace be speedily checked and restrained in
+their lawless proceedings, most deplorable results must ensue
+therefrom; among which may be anticipated a most alarming
+increase in the population of the country, with which no efforts
+of the agricultural or manufacturing interest can possibly keep
+pace.</p>
+<p><span class="smcap">That</span> there is strong reason to
+suspect the existence of a most extensive plot, conspiracy, or
+design, secretly contrived by vast numbers of single ladies in
+the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Ireland, and now
+extending its ramifications in every quarter of the land; the
+object and intent of which plainly appears to be the holding and
+solemnising of an enormous and unprecedented number of marriages,
+on the day on which the nuptials of Her said Most Gracious
+Majesty are performed.</p>
+<p><span class="smcap">That</span> such plot, conspiracy, or
+design, strongly savours of Popery, as tending to the
+discomfiture of the Clergy of the Established Church, by
+entailing upon them great mental and physical exhaustion; and
+that such Popish plots are fomented and encouraged by Her
+Majesty&rsquo;s Ministers, which clearly appears&mdash;not only
+from Her Majesty&rsquo;s principal Secretary of State for Foreign
+Affairs traitorously getting married while holding office under
+the Crown; but from Mr. O&rsquo;Connell having been heard to
+declare and avow that, if he had a daughter to marry, she should
+be married on the same day as Her said Most Gracious Majesty.</p>
+<p><span class="smcap">That</span> such arch plots, conspiracies,
+and designs, besides being fraught with danger to the Established
+Church, and (consequently) to the State, cannot fail to bring
+ruin and bankruptcy upon a large class of Her Majesty&rsquo;s
+subjects; as a great and sudden increase in the number of married
+men occasioning the comparative desertion (for a time) of
+Taverns, Hotels, Billiard-rooms, and Gaming-Houses, will deprive
+the Proprietors of their accustomed profits and returns.&nbsp;
+And in further proof of the depth and baseness of such designs,
+it may be here observed, that all proprietors of Taverns, Hotels,
+Billiard-rooms, and Gaming-Houses, are (especially the last)
+solemnly devoted to the Protestant religion.</p>
+<p><span class="smcap">For</span> all these reasons, and many
+others of no less gravity and import, an urgent appeal is made to
+the gentlemen of England (being bachelors or widowers) to take
+immediate steps for convening a Public meeting; To consider of
+the best and surest means of averting the dangers with which they
+are threatened by the recurrence of Bissextile, or Leap Year, and
+the additional sensation created among single ladies by the terms
+of Her Majesty&rsquo;s Most Gracious Declaration; To take
+measures, without delay, for resisting the said single Ladies,
+and counteracting their evil designs; And to pray Her Majesty to
+dismiss her present Ministers, and to summon to her Councils
+those distinguished Gentlemen in various Honourable Professions
+who, by insulting on all occasions the only Lady in England who
+can be insulted with safety, have given a sufficient guarantee to
+Her Majesty&rsquo;s Loving Subjects that they, at least, are
+qualified to make war with women, and are already expert in the
+use of those weapons which are common to the lowest and most
+abandoned of the sex.</p>
+<h2><a name="page451"></a><span class="pagenum">p. 451</span>THE
+YOUNG COUPLE</h2>
+<p><span class="smcap">There</span> is to be a wedding this
+morning at the corner house in the terrace.&nbsp; The
+pastry-cook&rsquo;s people have been there half-a-dozen times
+already; all day yesterday there was a great stir and bustle, and
+they were up this morning as soon as it was light.&nbsp; Miss
+Emma Fielding is going to be married to young Mr. Harvey.</p>
+<p>Heaven alone can tell in what bright colours this marriage is
+painted upon the mind of the little housemaid at number six, who
+has hardly slept a wink all night with thinking of it, and now
+stands on the unswept door-steps leaning upon her broom, and
+looking wistfully towards the enchanted house.&nbsp; Nothing
+short of omniscience can divine what visions of the baker, or the
+green-grocer, or the smart and most insinuating butterman, are
+flitting across her mind&mdash;what thoughts of how she would
+dress on such an occasion, if she were a lady&mdash;of how she
+would dress, if she were only a bride&mdash;of how cook would
+dress, being bridesmaid, conjointly with her sister &lsquo;in
+place&rsquo; at Fulham, and how the clergyman, deeming them so
+many ladies, would be quite humbled and respectful.&nbsp; What
+day-dreams of hope and happiness&mdash;of life being one
+perpetual holiday, with no master and no mistress to grant or
+withhold it&mdash;of every Sunday being a Sunday out&mdash;of
+pure freedom as to curls and ringlets, and no obligation to hide
+fine heads of hair in caps&mdash;what pictures of happiness, vast
+and immense to her, but utterly ridiculous to us, bewilder the
+brain of the little housemaid at number six, all called into
+existence by the wedding at the corner!</p>
+<p>We smile at such things, and so we should, though perhaps for
+a better reason than commonly presents itself.&nbsp; It should be
+pleasant to us to know that there are notions of happiness so
+moderate and limited, since upon those who entertain them,
+happiness and lightness of heart are very easily bestowed.</p>
+<p>But the little housemaid is awakened from her reverie, for
+forth from the door of the magical corner house there runs
+towards her, all fluttering in smart new dress and streaming
+ribands, her friend Jane Adams, who comes all out of breath to
+redeem a solemn promise of taking her in, under cover of the
+confusion, to see the breakfast table spread forth in state,
+and&mdash;sight of sights!&mdash;her young mistress ready dressed
+for church.</p>
+<p>And there, in good truth, when they have stolen up-stairs on
+tip-toe and edged themselves in at the chamber-door&mdash;there
+is Miss Emma &lsquo;looking like the sweetest picter,&rsquo; in a
+white chip bonnet and orange flowers, and all other elegancies
+becoming a bride, (with the make, shape, and quality of every
+article of which the girl is perfectly familiar in one moment,
+and never forgets to her dying day)&mdash;and there is Miss
+Emma&rsquo;s mamma in tears, and Miss Emma&rsquo;s papa
+comforting her, and saying how that of course she has been long
+looking forward to this, and how happy she ought to be&mdash;and
+there too is Miss Emma&rsquo;s sister with her arms round her
+neck, and the other bridesmaid all smiles and tears, quieting the
+children, who would cry more but that they are so finely dressed,
+and yet sob for fear sister Emma should be taken away&mdash;and
+it is all so affecting, that the two servant-girls cry more than
+anybody; and Jane Adams, sitting down upon the stairs, when they
+have crept away, declares that her legs tremble so that she
+don&rsquo;t know what to do, and that she will say for Miss Emma,
+that she never had a hasty word from her, and that she does hope
+and pray she may be happy.</p>
+<p>But Jane soon comes round again, and then surely there never
+was anything like the breakfast table, glittering with plate and
+china, and set out with flowers and sweets, and long-necked
+bottles, in the most sumptuous and dazzling manner.&nbsp; In the
+centre, too, is the mighty charm, the cake, glistening with
+frosted sugar, and garnished beautifully.&nbsp; They agree that
+there ought to be a little Cupid under one of the barley-sugar
+temples, or at least two hearts and an arrow; but, with this
+exception, there is nothing to wish for, and a table could not be
+handsomer.&nbsp; As they arrive at this conclusion, who should
+come in but Mr. John! to whom Jane says that its only Anne from
+number six; and John says <i>he</i> knows, for he&rsquo;s often
+winked his eye down the area, which causes Anne to blush and look
+confused.&nbsp; She is going away, indeed; when Mr. John will
+have it that she must drink a glass of wine, and he says never
+mind it&rsquo;s being early in the morning, it won&rsquo;t hurt
+her: so they shut the door and pour out the wine; and Anne
+drinking lane&rsquo;s health, and adding, &lsquo;and here&rsquo;s
+wishing you yours, Mr. John,&rsquo; drinks it in a great many
+sips,&mdash;Mr. John all the time making jokes appropriate to the
+occasion.&nbsp; At last Mr. John, who has waxed bolder by
+degrees, pleads the usage at weddings, and claims the privilege
+of a kiss, which he obtains after a great scuffle; and footsteps
+being now heard on the stairs, they disperse suddenly.</p>
+<p>By this time a carriage has driven up to convey the bride to
+church, and Anne of number six prolonging the process of
+&lsquo;cleaning her door,&rsquo; has the satisfaction of
+beholding the bride and bridesmaids, and the papa and mamma,
+hurry into the same and drive rapidly off.&nbsp; Nor is this all,
+for soon other carriages begin to arrive with a posse of company
+all beautifully dressed, at whom she could stand and gaze for
+ever; but having something else to do, is compelled to take one
+last long look and shut the street-door.</p>
+<p>And now the company have gone down to breakfast, and tears
+have given place to smiles, for all the corks are out of the
+long-necked bottles, and their contents are disappearing
+rapidly.&nbsp; Miss Emma&rsquo;s papa is at the top of the table;
+Miss Emma&rsquo;s mamma at the bottom; and beside the latter are
+Miss Emma herself and her husband,&mdash;admitted on all hands to
+be the handsomest and most interesting young couple ever
+known.&nbsp; All down both sides of the table, too, are various
+young ladies, beautiful to see, and various young gentlemen who
+seem to think so; and there, in a post of honour, is an unmarried
+aunt of Miss Emma&rsquo;s, reported to possess unheard-of riches,
+and to have expressed vast testamentary intentions respecting her
+favourite niece and new nephew.&nbsp; This lady has been very
+liberal and generous already, as the jewels worn by the bride
+abundantly testify, but that is nothing to what she means to do,
+or even to what she has done, for she put herself in close
+communication with the dressmaker three months ago, and prepared
+a wardrobe (with some articles worked by her own hands) fit for a
+Princess.&nbsp; People may call her an old maid, and so she may
+be, but she is neither cross nor ugly for all that; on the
+contrary, she is very cheerful and pleasant-looking, and very
+kind and tender-hearted: which is no matter of surprise except to
+those who yield to popular prejudices without thinking why, and
+will never grow wiser and never know better.</p>
+<p>Of all the company though, none are more pleasant to behold or
+better pleased with themselves than two young children, who, in
+honour of the day, have seats among the guests.&nbsp; Of these,
+one is a little fellow of six or eight years old, brother to the
+bride,&mdash;and the other a girl of the same age, or something
+younger, whom he calls &lsquo;his wife.&rsquo;&nbsp; The real
+bride and bridegroom are not more devoted than they: he all love
+and attention, and she all blushes and fondness, toying with a
+little bouquet which he gave her this morning, and placing the
+scattered rose-leaves in her bosom with nature&rsquo;s own
+coquettishness.&nbsp; They have dreamt of each other in their
+quiet dreams, these children, and their little hearts have been
+nearly broken when the absent one has been dispraised in
+jest.&nbsp; When will there come in after-life a passion so
+earnest, generous, and true as theirs; what, even in its gentlest
+realities, can have the grace and charm that hover round such
+fairy lovers!</p>
+<p>By this time the merriment and happiness of the feast have
+gained their height; certain ominous looks begin to be exchanged
+between the bridesmaids, and somehow it gets whispered about that
+the carriage which is to take the young couple into the country
+has arrived.&nbsp; Such members of the party as are most disposed
+to prolong its enjoyments, affect to consider this a false alarm,
+but it turns out too true, being speedily confirmed, first by the
+retirement of the bride and a select file of intimates who are to
+prepare her for the journey, and secondly by the withdrawal of
+the ladies generally.&nbsp; To this there ensues a particularly
+awkward pause, in which everybody essays to be facetious, and
+nobody succeeds; at length the bridegroom makes a mysterious
+disappearance in obedience to some equally mysterious signal; and
+the table is deserted.</p>
+<p>Now, for at least six weeks last past it has been solemnly
+devised and settled that the young couple should go away in
+secret; but they no sooner appear without the door than the
+drawing-room windows are blocked up with ladies waving their
+handkerchiefs and kissing their hands, and the dining-room panes
+with gentlemen&rsquo;s faces beaming farewell in every queer
+variety of its expression.&nbsp; The hall and steps are crowded
+with servants in white favours, mixed up with particular friends
+and relations who have darted out to say good-bye; and foremost
+in the group are the tiny lovers arm in arm, thinking, with
+fluttering hearts, what happiness it would be to dash away
+together in that gallant coach, and never part again.</p>
+<p>The bride has barely time for one hurried glance at her old
+home, when the steps rattle, the door slams, the horses clatter
+on the pavement, and they have left it far away.</p>
+<p>A knot of women servants still remain clustered in the hall,
+whispering among themselves, and there of course is Anne from
+number six, who has made another escape on some plea or other,
+and been an admiring witness of the departure.&nbsp; There are
+two points on which Anne expatiates over and over again, without
+the smallest appearance of fatigue or intending to leave off; one
+is, that she &lsquo;never see in all her life such a&mdash;oh
+such a angel of a gentleman as Mr. Harvey&rsquo;&mdash;and the
+other, that she &lsquo;can&rsquo;t tell how it is, but it
+don&rsquo;t seem a bit like a work-a-day, or a Sunday
+neither&mdash;it&rsquo;s all so unsettled and
+unregular.&rsquo;</p>
+<p style="text-align: center">
+<a href="images/p454b.jpg">
+<img alt=
+"Departure of the Young Couple"
+title=
+"Departure of the Young Couple"
+ src="images/p454s.jpg" />
+</a></p>
+<h2><a name="page455"></a><span class="pagenum">p. 455</span>THE
+FORMAL COUPLE</h2>
+<p><span class="smcap">The</span> formal couple are the most
+prim, cold, immovable, and unsatisfactory people on the face of
+the earth.&nbsp; Their faces, voices, dress, house, furniture,
+walk, and manner, are all the essence of formality, unrelieved by
+one redeeming touch of frankness, heartiness, or nature.</p>
+<p>Everything with the formal couple resolves itself into a
+matter of form.&nbsp; They don&rsquo;t call upon you on your
+account, but their own; not to see how you are, but to show how
+they are: it is not a ceremony to do honour to you, but to
+themselves,&mdash;not due to your position, but to theirs.&nbsp;
+If one of a friend&rsquo;s children die, the formal couple are as
+sure and punctual in sending to the house as the undertaker; if a
+friend&rsquo;s family be increased, the monthly nurse is not more
+attentive than they.&nbsp; The formal couple, in fact, joyfully
+seize all occasions of testifying their good-breeding and precise
+observance of the little usages of society; and for you, who are
+the means to this end, they care as much as a man does for the
+tailor who has enabled him to cut a figure, or a woman for the
+milliner who has assisted her to a conquest.</p>
+<p>Having an extensive connexion among that kind of people who
+make acquaintances and eschew friends, the formal gentleman
+attends from time to time a great many funerals, to which he is
+formally invited, and to which he formally goes, as returning a
+call for the last time.&nbsp; Here his deportment is of the most
+faultless description; he knows the exact pitch of voice it is
+proper to assume, the sombre look he ought to wear, the
+melancholy tread which should be his gait for the day.&nbsp; He
+is perfectly acquainted with all the dreary courtesies to be
+observed in a mourning-coach; knows when to sigh, and when to
+hide his nose in the white handkerchief; and looks into the grave
+and shakes his head when the ceremony is concluded, with the sad
+formality of a mute.</p>
+<p>&lsquo;What kind of funeral was it?&rsquo; says the formal
+lady, when he returns home.&nbsp; &lsquo;Oh!&rsquo; replies the
+formal gentleman, &lsquo;there never was such a gross and
+disgusting impropriety; there were no feathers.&rsquo;&nbsp;
+&lsquo;No feathers!&rsquo; cries the lady, as if on wings of
+black feathers dead people fly to Heaven, and, lacking them, they
+must of necessity go elsewhere.&nbsp; Her husband shakes his
+head; and further adds, that they had seed-cake instead of
+plum-cake, and that it was all white wine.&nbsp; &lsquo;All white
+wine!&rsquo; exclaims his wife.&nbsp; &lsquo;Nothing but sherry
+and madeira,&rsquo; says the husband.&nbsp; &lsquo;What! no
+port?&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;Not a drop.&rsquo;&nbsp; No port, no
+plums, and no feathers!&nbsp; &lsquo;You will recollect, my
+dear,&rsquo; says the formal lady, in a voice of stately reproof,
+&lsquo;that when we first met this poor man who is now dead and
+gone, and he took that very strange course of addressing me at
+dinner without being previously introduced, I ventured to express
+my opinion that the family were quite ignorant of etiquette, and
+very imperfectly acquainted with the decencies of life.&nbsp; You
+have now had a good opportunity of judging for yourself, and all
+I have to say is, that I trust you will never go to a funeral
+<i>there</i> again.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;My dear,&rsquo; replies
+the formal gentleman, &lsquo;I never will.&rsquo;&nbsp; So the
+informal deceased is cut in his grave; and the formal couple,
+when they tell the story of the funeral, shake their heads, and
+wonder what some people&rsquo;s feelings <i>are</i> made of, and
+what their notions of propriety <i>can</i> be!</p>
+<p>If the formal couple have a family (which they sometimes
+have), they are not children, but little, pale, sour, sharp-nosed
+men and women; and so exquisitely brought up, that they might be
+very old dwarfs for anything that appeareth to the
+contrary.&nbsp; Indeed, they are so acquainted with forms and
+conventionalities, and conduct themselves with such strict
+decorum, that to see the little girl break a looking-glass in
+some wild outbreak, or the little boy kick his parents, would be
+to any visitor an unspeakable relief and consolation.</p>
+<p>The formal couple are always sticklers for what is rigidly
+proper, and have a great readiness in detecting hidden
+impropriety of speech or thought, which by less scrupulous people
+would be wholly unsuspected.&nbsp; Thus, if they pay a visit to
+the theatre, they sit all night in a perfect agony lest anything
+improper or immoral should proceed from the stage; and if
+anything should happen to be said which admits of a double
+construction, they never fail to take it up directly, and to
+express by their looks the great outrage which their feelings
+have sustained.&nbsp; Perhaps this is their chief reason for
+absenting themselves almost entirely from places of public
+amusement.&nbsp; They go sometimes to the Exhibition of the Royal
+Academy;&mdash;but that is often more shocking than the stage
+itself, and the formal lady thinks that it really is high time
+Mr. Etty was prosecuted and made a public example of.</p>
+<p>We made one at a christening party not long since, where there
+were amongst the guests a formal couple, who suffered the acutest
+torture from certain jokes, incidental to such an occasion,
+cut&mdash;and very likely dried also&mdash;by one of the
+godfathers; a red-faced elderly gentleman, who, being highly
+popular with the rest of the company, had it all his own way, and
+was in great spirits.&nbsp; It was at supper-time that this
+gentleman came out in full force.&nbsp; We&mdash;being of a grave
+and quiet demeanour&mdash;had been chosen to escort the formal
+lady down-stairs, and, sitting beside her, had a favourable
+opportunity of observing her emotions.</p>
+<p>We have a shrewd suspicion that, in the very beginning, and in
+the first blush&mdash;literally the first blush&mdash;of the
+matter, the formal lady had not felt quite certain whether the
+being present at such a ceremony, and encouraging, as it were,
+the public exhibition of a baby, was not an act involving some
+degree of indelicacy and impropriety; but certain we are that
+when that baby&rsquo;s health was drunk, and allusions were made,
+by a grey-headed gentleman proposing it, to the time when he had
+dandled in his arms the young Christian&rsquo;s
+mother,&mdash;certain we are that then the formal lady took the
+alarm, and recoiled from the old gentleman as from a hoary
+profligate.&nbsp; Still she bore it; she fanned herself with an
+indignant air, but still she bore it.&nbsp; A comic song was
+sung, involving a confession from some imaginary gentleman that
+he had kissed a female, and yet the formal lady bore it.&nbsp;
+But when at last, the health of the godfather before-mentioned
+being drunk, the godfather rose to return thanks, and in the
+course of his observations darkly hinted at babies yet unborn,
+and even contemplated the possibility of the subject of that
+festival having brothers and sisters, the formal lady could
+endure no more, but, bowing slightly round, and sweeping
+haughtily past the offender, left the room in tears, under the
+protection of the formal gentleman.</p>
+<h2><a name="page458"></a><span class="pagenum">p. 458</span>THE
+LOVING COUPLE</h2>
+<p><span class="smcap">There</span> cannot be a better practical
+illustration of the wise saw and ancient instance, that there may
+be too much of a good thing, than is presented by a loving
+couple.&nbsp; Undoubtedly it is meet and proper that two persons
+joined together in holy matrimony should be loving, and
+unquestionably it is pleasant to know and see that they are so;
+but there is a time for all things, and the couple who happen to
+be always in a loving state before company, are well-nigh
+intolerable.</p>
+<p>And in taking up this position we would have it distinctly
+understood that we do not seek alone the sympathy of bachelors,
+in whose objection to loving couples we recognise interested
+motives and personal considerations.&nbsp; We grant that to that
+unfortunate class of society there may be something very
+irritating, tantalising, and provoking, in being compelled to
+witness those gentle endearments and chaste interchanges which to
+loving couples are quite the ordinary business of life.&nbsp; But
+while we recognise the natural character of the prejudice to
+which these unhappy men are subject, we can neither receive their
+biassed evidence, nor address ourself to their inflamed and
+angered minds.&nbsp; Dispassionate experience is our only guide;
+and in these moral essays we seek no less to reform hymeneal
+offenders than to hold out a timely warning to all rising
+couples, and even to those who have not yet set forth upon their
+pilgrimage towards the matrimonial market.</p>
+<p>Let all couples, present or to come, therefore profit by the
+example of Mr. and Mrs. Leaver, themselves a loving couple in the
+first degree.</p>
+<p style="text-align: center">
+<a href="images/p458b.jpg">
+<img alt=
+"The Loving Couple"
+title=
+"The Loving Couple"
+ src="images/p458s.jpg" />
+</a></p>
+<p>Mr. and Mrs. Leaver are pronounced by Mrs. Starling, a widow
+lady who lost her husband when she was young, and lost herself
+about the same-time&mdash;for by her own count she has never
+since grown five years older&mdash;to be a perfect model of
+wedded felicity.&nbsp; &lsquo;You would suppose,&rsquo; says the
+romantic lady, &lsquo;that they were lovers only just now
+engaged.&nbsp; Never was such happiness!&nbsp; They are so
+tender, so affectionate, so attached to each other, so enamoured,
+that positively nothing can be more charming!&rsquo;</p>
+<p>&lsquo;Augusta, my soul,&rsquo; says Mr. Leaver.&nbsp;
+&lsquo;Augustus, my life,&rsquo; replies Mrs. Leaver.&nbsp;
+&lsquo;Sing some little ballad, darling,&rsquo; quoth Mr.
+Leaver.&nbsp; &lsquo;I couldn&rsquo;t, indeed, dearest,&rsquo;
+returns Mrs. Leaver.&nbsp; &lsquo;Do, my dove,&rsquo; says Mr.
+Leaver.&nbsp; &lsquo;I couldn&rsquo;t possibly, my love,&rsquo;
+replies Mrs. Leaver; &lsquo;and it&rsquo;s very naughty of you to
+ask me.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;Naughty, darling!&rsquo; cries Mr.
+Leaver.&nbsp; &lsquo;Yes, very naughty, and very cruel,&rsquo;
+returns Mrs. Leaver, &lsquo;for you know I have a sore throat,
+and that to sing would give me great pain.&nbsp; You&rsquo;re a
+monster, and I hate you.&nbsp; Go away!&rsquo;&nbsp; Mrs. Leaver
+has said &lsquo;go away,&rsquo; because Mr. Leaver has tapped her
+under the chin: Mr. Leaver not doing as he is bid, but on the
+contrary, sitting down beside her, Mrs. Leaver slaps Mr. Leaver;
+and Mr. Leaver in return slaps Mrs. Leaver, and it being now time
+for all persons present to look the other way, they look the
+other way, and hear a still small sound as of kissing, at which
+Mrs. Starling is thoroughly enraptured, and whispers her
+neighbour that if all married couples were like that, what a
+heaven this earth would be!</p>
+<p>The loving couple are at home when this occurs, and maybe only
+three or four friends are present, but, unaccustomed to reserve
+upon this interesting point, they are pretty much the same
+abroad.&nbsp; Indeed upon some occasions, such as a pic-nic or a
+water-party, their lovingness is even more developed, as we had
+an opportunity last summer of observing in person.</p>
+<p>There was a great water-party made up to go to Twickenham and
+dine, and afterwards dance in an empty villa by the river-side,
+hired expressly for the purpose.&nbsp; Mr. and Mrs. Leaver were
+of the company; and it was our fortune to have a seat in the same
+boat, which was an eight-oared galley, manned by amateurs, with a
+blue striped awning of the same pattern as their Guernsey shirts,
+and a dingy red flag of the same shade as the whiskers of the
+stroke oar.&nbsp; A coxswain being appointed, and all other
+matters adjusted, the eight gentlemen threw themselves into
+strong paroxysms, and pulled up with the tide, stimulated by the
+compassionate remarks of the ladies, who one and all exclaimed,
+that it seemed an immense exertion&mdash;as indeed it did.&nbsp;
+At first we raced the other boat, which came alongside in gallant
+style; but this being found an unpleasant amusement, as giving
+rise to a great quantity of splashing, and rendering the cold
+pies and other viands very moist, it was unanimously voted down,
+and we were suffered to shoot a-head, while the second boat
+followed ingloriously in our wake.</p>
+<p>It was at this time that we first recognised Mr. Leaver.&nbsp;
+There were two firemen-watermen in the boat, lying by until
+somebody was exhausted; and one of them, who had taken upon
+himself the direction of affairs, was heard to cry in a gruff
+voice, &lsquo;Pull away, number two&mdash;give it her, number
+two&mdash;take a longer reach, number two&mdash;now, number two,
+sir, think you&rsquo;re winning a boat.&rsquo;&nbsp; The greater
+part of the company had no doubt begun to wonder which of the
+striped Guernseys it might be that stood in need of such
+encouragement, when a stifled shriek from Mrs. Leaver confirmed
+the doubtful and informed the ignorant; and Mr. Leaver, still
+further disguised in a straw hat and no neckcloth, was observed
+to be in a fearful perspiration, and failing visibly.&nbsp; Nor
+was the general consternation diminished at this instant by the
+same gentleman (in the performance of an accidental aquatic feat,
+termed &lsquo;catching a crab&rsquo;) plunging suddenly backward,
+and displaying nothing of himself to the company, but two
+violently struggling legs.&nbsp; Mrs. Leaver shrieked again
+several times, and cried piteously&mdash;&lsquo;Is he dead?&nbsp;
+Tell me the worst.&nbsp; Is he dead?&rsquo;</p>
+<p>Now, a moment&rsquo;s reflection might have convinced the
+loving wife, that unless her husband were endowed with some most
+surprising powers of muscular action, he never could be dead
+while he kicked so hard; but still Mrs. Leaver cried, &lsquo;Is
+he dead? is he dead?&rsquo; and still everybody else
+cried&mdash;&lsquo;No, no, no,&rsquo; until such time as Mr.
+Leaver was replaced in a sitting posture, and his oar (which had
+been going through all kinds of wrong-headed performances on its
+own account) was once more put in his hand, by the exertions of
+the two firemen-watermen.&nbsp; Mr. Leaver then exclaimed,
+&lsquo;Augustus, my child, come to me;&rsquo; and Mr. Leaver
+said, &lsquo;Augusta, my love, compose yourself, I am not
+injured.&rsquo;&nbsp; But Mrs. Leaver cried again more piteously
+than before, &lsquo;Augustus, my child, come to me;&rsquo; and
+now the company generally, who seemed to be apprehensive that if
+Mr. Leaver remained where he was, he might contribute more than
+his proper share towards the drowning of the party,
+disinterestedly took part with Mrs. Leaver, and said he really
+ought to go, and that he was not strong enough for such violent
+exercise, and ought never to have undertaken it.&nbsp;
+Reluctantly, Mr. Leaver went, and laid himself down at Mrs.
+Leaver&rsquo;s feet, and Mrs. Leaver stooping over him, said,
+&lsquo;Oh Augustus, how could you terrify me so?&rsquo; and Mr.
+Leaver said, &lsquo;Augusta, my sweet, I never meant to terrify
+you;&rsquo; and Mrs. Leaver said, &lsquo;You are faint, my
+dear;&rsquo; and Mr. Leaver said, &lsquo;I am rather so, my
+love;&rsquo; and they were very loving indeed under Mrs.
+Leaver&rsquo;s veil, until at length Mr. Leaver came forth again,
+and pleasantly asked if he had not heard something said about
+bottled stout and sandwiches.</p>
+<p>Mrs. Starling, who was one of the party, was perfectly
+delighted with this scene, and frequently murmured half-aside,
+&lsquo;What a loving couple you are!&rsquo; or &lsquo;How
+delightful it is to see man and wife so happy
+together!&rsquo;&nbsp; To us she was quite poetical, (for we are
+a kind of cousins,) observing that hearts beating in unison like
+that made life a paradise of sweets; and that when kindred
+creatures were drawn together by sympathies so fine and delicate,
+what more than mortal happiness did not our souls partake!&nbsp;
+To all this we answered &lsquo;Certainly,&rsquo; or &lsquo;Very
+true,&rsquo; or merely sighed, as the case might be.&nbsp; At
+every new act of the loving couple, the widow&rsquo;s admiration
+broke out afresh; and when Mrs. Leaver would not permit Mr.
+Leaver to keep his hat off, lest the sun should strike to his
+head, and give him a brain fever, Mrs. Starling actually shed
+tears, and said it reminded her of Adam and Eve.</p>
+<p>The loving couple were thus loving all the way to Twickenham,
+but when we arrived there (by which time the amateur crew looked
+very thirsty and vicious) they were more playful than ever, for
+Mrs. Leaver threw stones at Mr. Leaver, and Mr. Leaver ran after
+Mrs. Leaver on the grass, in a most innocent and enchanting
+manner.&nbsp; At dinner, too, Mr. Leaver <i>would</i> steal Mrs.
+Leaver&rsquo;s tongue, and Mrs. Leaver <i>would</i> retaliate
+upon Mr. Leaver&rsquo;s fowl; and when Mrs. Leaver was going to
+take some lobster salad, Mr. Leaver wouldn&rsquo;t let her have
+any, saying that it made her ill, and she was always sorry for it
+afterwards, which afforded Mrs. Leaver an opportunity of
+pretending to be cross, and showing many other
+prettinesses.&nbsp; But this was merely the smiling surface of
+their loves, not the mighty depths of the stream, down to which
+the company, to say the truth, dived rather unexpectedly, from
+the following accident.&nbsp; It chanced that Mr. Leaver took
+upon himself to propose the bachelors who had first originated
+the notion of that entertainment, in doing which, he affected to
+regret that he was no longer of their body himself, and pretended
+grievously to lament his fallen state.&nbsp; This Mrs.
+Leaver&rsquo;s feelings could not brook, even in jest, and
+consequently, exclaiming aloud, &lsquo;He loves me not, he loves
+me not!&rsquo; she fell in a very pitiable state into the arms of
+Mrs. Starling, and, directly becoming insensible, was conveyed by
+that lady and her husband into another room.&nbsp; Presently Mr.
+Leaver came running back to know if there was a medical gentleman
+in company, and as there was, (in what company is there not?)
+both Mr. Leaver and the medical gentleman hurried away
+together.</p>
+<p>The medical gentleman was the first who returned, and among
+his intimate friends he was observed to laugh and wink, and look
+as unmedical as might be; but when Mr. Leaver came back he was
+very solemn, and in answer to all inquiries, shook his head, and
+remarked that Augusta was far too sensitive to be trifled
+with&mdash;an opinion which the widow subsequently
+confirmed.&nbsp; Finding that she was in no imminent peril,
+however, the rest of the party betook themselves to dancing on
+the green, and very merry and happy they were, and a vast
+quantity of flirtation there was; the last circumstance being no
+doubt attributable, partly to the fineness of the weather, and
+partly to the locality, which is well known to be favourable to
+all harmless recreations.</p>
+<p>In the bustle of the scene, Mr. and Mrs. Leaver stole down to
+the boat, and disposed themselves under the awning, Mrs. Leaver
+reclining her head upon Mr. Leaver&rsquo;s shoulder, and Mr.
+Leaver grasping her hand with great fervour, and looking in her
+face from time to time with a melancholy and sympathetic
+aspect.&nbsp; The widow sat apart, feigning to be occupied with a
+book, but stealthily observing them from behind her fan; and the
+two firemen-watermen, smoking their pipes on the bank hard by,
+nudged each other, and grinned in enjoyment of the joke.&nbsp;
+Very few of the party missed the loving couple; and the few who
+did, heartily congratulated each other on their
+disappearance.</p>
+<h2><a name="page463"></a><span class="pagenum">p. 463</span>THE
+CONTRADICTORY COUPLE</h2>
+<p><span class="smcap">One</span> would suppose that two people
+who are to pass their whole lives together, and must necessarily
+be very often alone with each other, could find little pleasure
+in mutual contradiction; and yet what is more common than a
+contradictory couple?</p>
+<p>The contradictory couple agree in nothing but
+contradiction.&nbsp; They return home from Mrs.
+Bluebottle&rsquo;s dinner-party, each in an opposite corner of
+the coach, and do not exchange a syllable until they have been
+seated for at least twenty minutes by the fireside at home, when
+the gentleman, raising his eyes from the stove, all at once
+breaks silence:</p>
+<p>&lsquo;What a very extraordinary thing it is,&rsquo; says he,
+&lsquo;that you <i>will</i> contradict, Charlotte!&rsquo;&nbsp;
+&lsquo;<i>I</i> contradict!&rsquo; cries the lady, &lsquo;but
+that&rsquo;s just like you.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;What&rsquo;s like
+me?&rsquo; says the gentleman sharply.&nbsp; &lsquo;Saying that I
+contradict you,&rsquo; replies the lady.&nbsp; &lsquo;Do you mean
+to say that you do <i>not</i> contradict me?&rsquo; retorts the
+gentleman; &lsquo;do you mean to say that you have not been
+contradicting me the whole of this day?&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;Do
+you mean to tell me now, that you have not?&nbsp; I mean to tell
+you nothing of the kind,&rsquo; replies the lady quietly;
+&lsquo;when you are wrong, of course I shall contradict
+you.&rsquo;</p>
+<p>During this dialogue the gentleman has been taking his
+brandy-and-water on one side of the fire, and the lady, with her
+dressing-case on the table, has been curling her hair on the
+other.&nbsp; She now lets down her back hair, and proceeds to
+brush it; preserving at the same time an air of conscious
+rectitude and suffering virtue, which is intended to exasperate
+the gentleman&mdash;and does so.</p>
+<p>&lsquo;I do believe,&rsquo; he says, taking the spoon out of
+his glass, and tossing it on the table, &lsquo;that of all the
+obstinate, positive, wrong-headed creatures that were ever born,
+you are the most so, Charlotte.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;Certainly,
+certainly, have it your own way, pray.&nbsp; You see how much
+<i>I</i> contradict you,&rsquo; rejoins the lady.&nbsp; &lsquo;Of
+course, you didn&rsquo;t contradict me at dinner-time&mdash;oh
+no, not you!&rsquo; says the gentleman.&nbsp; &lsquo;Yes, I
+did,&rsquo; says the lady.&nbsp; &lsquo;Oh, you did,&rsquo; cries
+the gentleman &lsquo;you admit that?&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;If you
+call that contradiction, I do,&rsquo; the lady answers;
+&lsquo;and I say again, Edward, that when I know you are wrong, I
+will contradict you.&nbsp; I am not your slave.&rsquo;&nbsp;
+&lsquo;Not my slave!&rsquo; repeats the gentleman bitterly;
+&lsquo;and you still mean to say that in the Blackburns&rsquo;
+new house there are not more than fourteen doors, including the
+door of the wine-cellar!&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;I mean to
+say,&rsquo; retorts the lady, beating time with her hair-brush on
+the palm of her hand, &lsquo;that in that house there are
+fourteen doors and no more.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;Well
+then&mdash;&rsquo; cries the gentleman, rising in despair, and
+pacing the room with rapid strides.&nbsp; &lsquo;By G-, this is
+enough to destroy a man&rsquo;s intellect, and drive him
+mad!&rsquo;</p>
+<p>By and by the gentleman comes-to a little, and passing his
+hand gloomily across his forehead, reseats himself in his former
+chair.&nbsp; There is a long silence, and this time the lady
+begins.&nbsp; &lsquo;I appealed to Mr. Jenkins, who sat next to
+me on the sofa in the drawing-room during tea&mdash;&rsquo;&nbsp;
+&lsquo;Morgan, you mean,&rsquo; interrupts the gentleman.&nbsp;
+&lsquo;I do not mean anything of the kind,&rsquo; answers the
+lady.&nbsp; &lsquo;Now, by all that is aggravating and impossible
+to bear,&rsquo; cries the gentleman, clenching his hands and
+looking upwards in agony, &lsquo;she is going to insist upon it
+that Morgan is Jenkins!&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;Do you take me for a
+perfect fool?&rsquo; exclaims the lady; &lsquo;do you suppose I
+don&rsquo;t know the one from the other?&nbsp; Do you suppose I
+don&rsquo;t know that the man in the blue coat was Mr.
+Jenkins?&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;Jenkins in a blue coat!&rsquo; cries
+the gentleman with a groan; &lsquo;Jenkins in a blue coat! a man
+who would suffer death rather than wear anything but
+brown!&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;Do you dare to charge me with telling
+an untruth?&rsquo; demands the lady, bursting into tears.&nbsp;
+&lsquo;I charge you, ma&rsquo;am,&rsquo; retorts the gentleman,
+starting up, &lsquo;with being a monster of contradiction, a
+monster of aggravation, a&mdash;a&mdash;a&mdash;Jenkins in a blue
+coat!&mdash;what have I done that I should be doomed to hear such
+statements!&rsquo;</p>
+<p>Expressing himself with great scorn and anguish, the gentleman
+takes up his candle and stalks off to bed, where feigning to be
+fast asleep when the lady comes up-stairs drowned in tears,
+murmuring lamentations over her hard fate and indistinct
+intentions of consulting her brothers, he undergoes the secret
+torture of hearing her exclaim between whiles, &lsquo;I know
+there are only fourteen doors in the house, I know it was Mr.
+Jenkins, I know he had a blue coat on, and I would say it as
+positively as I do now, if they were the last words I had to
+speak!&rsquo;</p>
+<p>If the contradictory couple are blessed with children, they
+are not the less contradictory on that account.&nbsp; Master
+James and Miss Charlotte present themselves after dinner, and
+being in perfect good humour, and finding their parents in the
+same amiable state, augur from these appearances half a glass of
+wine a-piece and other extraordinary indulgences.&nbsp; But
+unfortunately Master James, growing talkative upon such
+prospects, asks his mamma how tall Mrs. Parsons is, and whether
+she is not six feet high; to which his mamma replies, &lsquo;Yes,
+she should think she was, for Mrs. Parsons is a very tall lady
+indeed; quite a giantess.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;For Heaven&rsquo;s
+sake, Charlotte,&rsquo; cries her husband, &lsquo;do not tell the
+child such preposterous nonsense.&nbsp; Six feet
+high!&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;Well,&rsquo; replies the lady,
+&lsquo;surely I may be permitted to have an opinion; my opinion
+is, that she is six feet high&mdash;at least six
+feet.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;Now you know, Charlotte,&rsquo; retorts
+the gentleman sternly, &lsquo;that that is <i>not</i> your
+opinion&mdash;that you have no such idea&mdash;and that you only
+say this for the sake of contradiction.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;You
+are exceedingly polite,&rsquo; his wife replies; &lsquo;to be
+wrong about such a paltry question as anybody&rsquo;s height,
+would be no great crime; but I say again, that I believe Mrs.
+Parsons to be six feet&mdash;more than six feet; nay, I believe
+you know her to be full six feet, and only say she is not,
+because I say she is.&rsquo;&nbsp; This taunt disposes the
+gentleman to become violent, but he cheeks himself, and is
+content to mutter, in a haughty tone, &lsquo;Six feet&mdash;ha!
+ha!&nbsp; Mrs. Parsons six feet!&rsquo; and the lady answers,
+&lsquo;Yes, six feet.&nbsp; I am sure I am glad you are amused,
+and I&rsquo;ll say it again&mdash;six feet.&rsquo;&nbsp; Thus the
+subject gradually drops off, and the contradiction begins to be
+forgotten, when Master James, with some undefined notion of
+making himself agreeable, and putting things to rights again,
+unfortunately asks his mamma what the moon&rsquo;s made of; which
+gives her occasion to say that he had better not ask her, for she
+is always wrong and never can be right; that he only exposes her
+to contradiction by asking any question of her; and that he had
+better ask his papa, who is infallible, and never can be
+wrong.&nbsp; Papa, smarting under this attack, gives a terrible
+pull at the bell, and says, that if the conversation is to
+proceed in this way, the children had better be removed.&nbsp;
+Removed they are, after a few tears and many struggles; and Pa
+having looked at Ma sideways for a minute or two, with a baleful
+eye, draws his pocket-handkerchief over his face, and composes
+himself for his after-dinner nap.</p>
+<p>The friends of the contradictory couple often deplore their
+frequent disputes, though they rather make light of them at the
+same time: observing, that there is no doubt they are very much
+attached to each other, and that they never quarrel except about
+trifles.&nbsp; But neither the friends of the contradictory
+couple, nor the contradictory couple themselves, reflect, that as
+the most stupendous objects in nature are but vast collections of
+minute particles, so the slightest and least considered trifles
+make up the sum of human happiness or misery.</p>
+<h2><a name="page466"></a><span class="pagenum">p. 466</span>THE
+COUPLE WHO DOTE UPON THEIR CHILDREN</h2>
+<p><span class="smcap">The</span> couple who dote upon their
+children have usually a great many of them: six or eight at
+least.&nbsp; The children are either the healthiest in all the
+world, or the most unfortunate in existence.&nbsp; In either
+case, they are equally the theme of their doting parents, and
+equally a source of mental anguish and irritation to their doting
+parents&rsquo; friends.</p>
+<p>The couple who dote upon their children recognise no dates but
+those connected with their births, accidents, illnesses, or
+remarkable deeds.&nbsp; They keep a mental almanack with a vast
+number of Innocents&rsquo;-days, all in red letters.&nbsp; They
+recollect the last coronation, because on that day little Tom
+fell down the kitchen stairs; the anniversary of the Gunpowder
+Plot, because it was on the fifth of November that Ned asked
+whether wooden legs were made in heaven and cocked hats grew in
+gardens.&nbsp; Mrs. Whiffler will never cease to recollect the
+last day of the old year as long as she lives, for it was on that
+day that the baby had the four red spots on its nose which they
+took for measles: nor Christmas-day, for twenty-one days after
+Christmas-day the twins were born; nor Good Friday, for it was on
+a Good Friday that she was frightened by the donkey-cart when she
+was in the family way with Georgiana.&nbsp; The movable feasts
+have no motion for Mr. and Mrs. Whiffler, but remain pinned down
+tight and fast to the shoulders of some small child, from whom
+they can never be separated any more.&nbsp; Time was made,
+according to their creed, not for slaves but for girls and boys;
+the restless sands in his glass are but little children at
+play.</p>
+<p style="text-align: center">
+<a href="images/p466b.jpg">
+<img alt=
+"The Couple who Dote upon their Children"
+title=
+"The Couple who Dote upon their Children"
+ src="images/p466s.jpg" />
+</a></p>
+<p>As we have already intimated, the children of this couple can
+know no medium.&nbsp; They are either prodigies of good health or
+prodigies of bad health; whatever they are, they must be
+prodigies.&nbsp; Mr. Whiffler must have to describe at his office
+such excruciating agonies constantly undergone by his eldest boy,
+as nobody else&rsquo;s eldest boy ever underwent; or he must be
+able to declare that there never was a child endowed with such
+amazing health, such an indomitable constitution, and such a
+cast-iron frame, as his child.&nbsp; His children must be, in
+some respect or other, above and beyond the children of all other
+people.&nbsp; To such an extent is this feeling pushed, that we
+were once slightly acquainted with a lady and gentleman who
+carried their heads so high and became so proud after their
+youngest child fell out of a two-pair-of-stairs window without
+hurting himself much, that the greater part of their friends were
+obliged to forego their acquaintance.&nbsp; But perhaps this may
+be an extreme case, and one not justly entitled to be considered
+as a precedent of general application.</p>
+<p>If a friend happen to dine in a friendly way with one of these
+couples who dote upon their children, it is nearly impossible for
+him to divert the conversation from their favourite topic.&nbsp;
+Everything reminds Mr. Whiffler of Ned, or Mrs. Whiffler of Mary
+Anne, or of the time before Ned was born, or the time before Mary
+Anne was thought of.&nbsp; The slightest remark, however harmless
+in itself, will awaken slumbering recollections of the
+twins.&nbsp; It is impossible to steer clear of them.&nbsp; They
+will come uppermost, let the poor man do what he may.&nbsp; Ned
+has been known to be lost sight of for half an hour, Dick has
+been forgotten, the name of Mary Anne has not been mentioned, but
+the twins will out.&nbsp; Nothing can keep down the twins.</p>
+<p>&lsquo;It&rsquo;s a very extraordinary thing, Saunders,&rsquo;
+says Mr. Whiffler to the visitor, &lsquo;but&mdash;you have seen
+our little babies, the&mdash;the&mdash;twins?&rsquo;&nbsp; The
+friend&rsquo;s heart sinks within him as he answers, &lsquo;Oh,
+yes&mdash;often.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;Your talking of the
+Pyramids,&rsquo; says Mr. Whiffler, quite as a matter of course,
+&lsquo;reminds me of the twins.&nbsp; It&rsquo;s a very
+extraordinary thing about those babies&mdash;what colour should
+you say their eyes were?&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;Upon my word,&rsquo;
+the friend stammers, &lsquo;I hardly know how to
+answer&rsquo;&mdash;the fact being, that except as the friend
+does not remember to have heard of any departure from the
+ordinary course of nature in the instance of these twins, they
+might have no eyes at all for aught he has observed to the
+contrary.&nbsp; &lsquo;You wouldn&rsquo;t say they were red, I
+suppose?&rsquo; says Mr. Whiffler.&nbsp; The friend hesitates,
+and rather thinks they are; but inferring from the expression of
+Mr. Whiffler&rsquo;s face that red is not the colour, smiles with
+some confidence, and says, &lsquo;No, no! very different from
+that.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;What should you say to blue?&rsquo;
+says Mr. Whiffler.&nbsp; The friend glances at him, and observing
+a different expression in his face, ventures to say, &lsquo;I
+should say they <i>were</i> blue&mdash;a decided
+blue.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;To be sure!&rsquo; cries Mr. Whiffler,
+triumphantly, &lsquo;I knew you would!&nbsp; But what should you
+say if I was to tell you that the boy&rsquo;s eyes are blue and
+the girl&rsquo;s hazel, eh?&rsquo;&nbsp;
+&lsquo;Impossible!&rsquo; exclaims the friend, not at all knowing
+why it should be impossible.&nbsp; &lsquo;A fact,
+notwithstanding,&rsquo; cries Mr. Whiffler; &lsquo;and let me
+tell you, Saunders, <i>that&rsquo;s</i> not a common thing in
+twins, or a circumstance that&rsquo;ll happen every
+day.&rsquo;</p>
+<p>In this dialogue Mrs. Whiffler, as being deeply responsible
+for the twins, their charms and singularities, has taken no
+share; but she now relates, in broken English, a witticism of
+little Dick&rsquo;s bearing upon the subject just discussed,
+which delights Mr. Whiffler beyond measure, and causes him to
+declare that he would have sworn that was Dick&rsquo;s if he had
+heard it anywhere.&nbsp; Then he requests that Mrs. Whiffler will
+tell Saunders what Tom said about mad bulls; and Mrs. Whiffler
+relating the anecdote, a discussion ensues upon the different
+character of Tom&rsquo;s wit and Dick&rsquo;s wit, from which it
+appears that Dick&rsquo;s humour is of a lively turn, while
+Tom&rsquo;s style is the dry and caustic.&nbsp; This discussion
+being enlivened by various illustrations, lasts a long time, and
+is only stopped by Mrs. Whiffler instructing the footman to ring
+the nursery bell, as the children were promised that they should
+come down and taste the pudding.</p>
+<p>The friend turns pale when this order is given, and paler
+still when it is followed up by a great pattering on the
+staircase, (not unlike the sound of rain upon a skylight,) a
+violent bursting open of the dining-room door, and the tumultuous
+appearance of six small children, closely succeeded by a strong
+nursery-maid with a twin in each arm.&nbsp; As the whole eight
+are screaming, shouting, or kicking&mdash;some influenced by a
+ravenous appetite, some by a horror of the stranger, and some by
+a conflict of the two feelings&mdash;a pretty long space elapses
+before all their heads can be ranged round the table and anything
+like order restored; in bringing about which happy state of
+things both the nurse and footman are severely scratched.&nbsp;
+At length Mrs. Whiffler is heard to say, &lsquo;Mr. Saunders,
+shall I give you some pudding?&rsquo;&nbsp; A breathless silence
+ensues, and sixteen small eyes are fixed upon the guest in
+expectation of his reply.&nbsp; A wild shout of joy proclaims
+that he has said &lsquo;No, thank you.&rsquo;&nbsp; Spoons are
+waved in the air, legs appear above the table-cloth in
+uncontrollable ecstasy, and eighty short fingers dabble in damson
+syrup.</p>
+<p>While the pudding is being disposed of, Mr. and Mrs. Whiffler
+look on with beaming countenances, and Mr. Whiffler nudging his
+friend Saunders, begs him to take notice of Tom&rsquo;s eyes, or
+Dick&rsquo;s chin, or Ned&rsquo;s nose, or Mary Anne&rsquo;s
+hair, or Emily&rsquo;s figure, or little Bob&rsquo;s calves, or
+Fanny&rsquo;s mouth, or Carry&rsquo;s head, as the case may
+be.&nbsp; Whatever the attention of Mr. Saunders is called to,
+Mr. Saunders admires of course; though he is rather confused
+about the sex of the youngest branches and looks at the wrong
+children, turning to a girl when Mr. Whiffler directs his
+attention to a boy, and falling into raptures with a boy when he
+ought to be enchanted with a girl.&nbsp; Then the dessert comes,
+and there is a vast deal of scrambling after fruit, and sudden
+spirting forth of juice out of tight oranges into infant eyes,
+and much screeching and wailing in consequence.&nbsp; At length
+it becomes time for Mrs. Whiffler to retire, and all the children
+are by force of arms compelled to kiss and love Mr. Saunders
+before going up-stairs, except Tom, who, lying on his back in the
+hall, proclaims that Mr. Saunders &lsquo;is a naughty
+beast;&rsquo; and Dick, who having drunk his father&rsquo;s wine
+when he was looking another way, is found to be intoxicated and
+is carried out, very limp and helpless.</p>
+<p>Mr. Whiffler and his friend are left alone together, but Mr.
+Whiffler&rsquo;s thoughts are still with his family, if his
+family are not with him.&nbsp; &lsquo;Saunders,&rsquo; says he,
+after a short silence, &lsquo;if you please, we&rsquo;ll drink
+Mrs. Whiffler and the children.&rsquo;&nbsp; Mr. Saunders feels
+this to be a reproach against himself for not proposing the same
+sentiment, and drinks it in some confusion.&nbsp;
+&lsquo;Ah!&rsquo; Mr. Whiffler sighs, &lsquo;these children,
+Saunders, make one quite an old man.&rsquo;&nbsp; Mr. Saunders
+thinks that if they were his, they would make him a very old man;
+but he says nothing.&nbsp; &lsquo;And yet,&rsquo; pursues Mr.
+Whiffler, &lsquo;what can equal domestic happiness? what can
+equal the engaging ways of children!&nbsp; Saunders, why
+don&rsquo;t you get married?&rsquo;&nbsp; Now, this is an
+embarrassing question, because Mr. Saunders has been thinking
+that if he had at any time entertained matrimonial designs, the
+revelation of that day would surely have routed them for
+ever.&nbsp; &lsquo;I am glad, however,&rsquo; says Mr. Whiffler,
+&lsquo;that you <i>are</i> a bachelor,&mdash;glad on one account,
+Saunders; a selfish one, I admit.&nbsp; Will you do Mrs. Whiffler
+and myself a favour?&rsquo;&nbsp; Mr. Saunders is
+surprised&mdash;evidently surprised; but he replies, &lsquo;with
+the greatest pleasure.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;Then, will you,
+Saunders,&rsquo; says Mr. Whiffler, in an impressive manner,
+&lsquo;will you cement and consolidate our friendship by coming
+into the family (so to speak) as a godfather?&rsquo;&nbsp;
+&lsquo;I shall be proud and delighted,&rsquo; replies Mr.
+Saunders: &lsquo;which of the children is it? really, I thought
+they were all christened; or&mdash;&rsquo;&nbsp;
+&lsquo;Saunders,&rsquo; Mr. Whiffler interposes, &lsquo;they
+<i>are</i> all christened; you are right.&nbsp; The fact is, that
+Mrs. Whiffler is&mdash;in short, we expect another.&rsquo;&nbsp;
+&lsquo;Not a ninth!&rsquo; cries the friend, all aghast at the
+idea.&nbsp; &lsquo;Yes, Saunders,&rsquo; rejoins Mr. Whiffler,
+solemnly, &lsquo;a ninth.&nbsp; Did we drink Mrs.
+Whiffler&rsquo;s health?&nbsp; Let us drink it again, Saunders,
+and wish her well over it!&rsquo;</p>
+<p>Doctor Johnson used to tell a story of a man who had but one
+idea, which was a wrong one.&nbsp; The couple who dote upon their
+children are in the same predicament: at home or abroad, at all
+times, and in all places, their thoughts are bound up in this one
+subject, and have no sphere beyond.&nbsp; They relate the clever
+things their offspring say or do, and weary every company with
+their prolixity and absurdity.&nbsp; Mr. Whiffler takes a friend
+by the button at a street corner on a windy day to tell him a
+<i>bon mot</i> of his youngest boy&rsquo;s; and Mrs. Whiffler,
+calling to see a sick acquaintance, entertains her with a
+cheerful account of all her own past sufferings and present
+expectations.&nbsp; In such cases the sins of the fathers indeed
+descend upon the children; for people soon come to regard them as
+predestined little bores.&nbsp; The couple who dote upon their
+children cannot be said to be actuated by a general love for
+these engaging little people (which would be a great excuse); for
+they are apt to underrate and entertain a jealousy of any
+children but their own.&nbsp; If they examined their own hearts,
+they would, perhaps, find at the bottom of all this, more
+self-love and egotism than they think of.&nbsp; Self-love and
+egotism are bad qualities, of which the unrestrained exhibition,
+though it may be sometimes amusing, never fails to be wearisome
+and unpleasant.&nbsp; Couples who dote upon their children,
+therefore, are best avoided.</p>
+<h2><a name="page471"></a><span class="pagenum">p. 471</span>THE
+COOL COUPLE</h2>
+<p><span class="smcap">There</span> is an old-fashioned
+weather-glass representing a house with two doorways, in one of
+which is the figure of a gentleman, in the other the figure of a
+lady.&nbsp; When the weather is to be fine the lady comes out and
+the gentleman goes in; when wet, the gentleman comes out and the
+lady goes in.&nbsp; They never seek each other&rsquo;s society,
+are never elevated and depressed by the same cause, and have
+nothing in common.&nbsp; They are the model of a cool couple,
+except that there is something of politeness and consideration
+about the behaviour of the gentleman in the weather-glass, in
+which, neither of the cool couple can be said to participate.</p>
+<p>The cool couple are seldom alone together, and when they are,
+nothing can exceed their apathy and dulness: the gentleman being
+for the most part drowsy, and the lady silent.&nbsp; If they
+enter into conversation, it is usually of an ironical or
+recriminatory nature.&nbsp; Thus, when the gentleman has indulged
+in a very long yawn and settled himself more snugly in his
+easy-chair, the lady will perhaps remark, &lsquo;Well, I am sure,
+Charles!&nbsp; I hope you&rsquo;re comfortable.&rsquo;&nbsp; To
+which the gentleman replies, &lsquo;Oh yes, he&rsquo;s quite
+comfortable quite.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;There are not many married
+men, I hope,&rsquo; returns the lady, &lsquo;who seek comfort in
+such selfish gratifications as you do.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;Nor
+many wives who seek comfort in such selfish gratifications as
+<i>you</i> do, I hope,&rsquo; retorts the gentleman.&nbsp;
+&lsquo;Whose fault is that?&rsquo; demands the lady.&nbsp; The
+gentleman becoming more sleepy, returns no answer.&nbsp;
+&lsquo;Whose fault is that?&rsquo; the lady repeats.&nbsp; The
+gentleman still returning no answer, she goes on to say that she
+believes there never was in all this world anybody so attached to
+her home, so thoroughly domestic, so unwilling to seek a
+moment&rsquo;s gratification or pleasure beyond her own fireside
+as she.&nbsp; God knows that before she was married she never
+thought or dreamt of such a thing; and she remembers that her
+poor papa used to say again and again, almost every day of his
+life, &lsquo;Oh, my dear Louisa, if you only marry a man who
+understands you, and takes the trouble to consider your happiness
+and accommodate himself a very little to your disposition, what a
+treasure he will find in you!&rsquo;&nbsp; She supposes her papa
+knew what her disposition was&mdash;he had known her long
+enough&mdash;he ought to have been acquainted with it, but what
+can she do?&nbsp; If her home is always dull and lonely, and her
+husband is always absent and finds no pleasure in her society,
+she is naturally sometimes driven (seldom enough, she is sure) to
+seek a little recreation elsewhere; she is not expected to pine
+and mope to death, she hopes.&nbsp; &lsquo;Then come,
+Louisa,&rsquo; says the gentleman, waking up as suddenly as he
+fell asleep, &lsquo;stop at home this evening, and so will
+I.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;I should be sorry to suppose, Charles,
+that you took a pleasure in aggravating me,&rsquo; replies the
+lady; &lsquo;but you know as well as I do that I am particularly
+engaged to Mrs. Mortimer, and that it would be an act of the
+grossest rudeness and ill-breeding, after accepting a seat in her
+box and preventing her from inviting anybody else, not to
+go.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;Ah! there it is!&rsquo; says the
+gentleman, shrugging his shoulders, &lsquo;I knew that perfectly
+well.&nbsp; I knew you couldn&rsquo;t devote an evening to your
+own home.&nbsp; Now all I have to say, Louisa, is
+this&mdash;recollect that <i>I</i> was quite willing to stay at
+home, and that it&rsquo;s no fault of <i>mine</i> we are not
+oftener together.&rsquo;</p>
+<p>With that the gentleman goes away to keep an old appointment
+at his club, and the lady hurries off to dress for Mrs.
+Mortimer&rsquo;s; and neither thinks of the other until by some
+odd chance they find themselves alone again.</p>
+<p>But it must not be supposed that the cool couple are
+habitually a quarrelsome one.&nbsp; Quite the contrary.&nbsp;
+These differences are only occasions for a little
+self-excuse,&mdash;nothing more.&nbsp; In general they are as
+easy and careless, and dispute as seldom, as any common
+acquaintances may; for it is neither worth their while to put
+each other out of the way, nor to ruffle themselves.</p>
+<p>When they meet in society, the cool couple are the best-bred
+people in existence.&nbsp; The lady is seated in a corner among a
+little knot of lady friends, one of whom exclaims, &lsquo;Why, I
+vow and declare there is your husband, my dear!&rsquo;&nbsp;
+&lsquo;Whose?&mdash;mine?&rsquo; she says, carelessly.&nbsp;
+&lsquo;Ay, yours, and coming this way too.&rsquo;&nbsp;
+&lsquo;How very odd!&rsquo; says the lady, in a languid tone,
+&lsquo;I thought he had been at Dover.&rsquo;&nbsp; The gentleman
+coming up, and speaking to all the other ladies and nodding
+slightly to his wife, it turns out that he has been at Dover, and
+has just now returned.&nbsp; &lsquo;What a strange creature you
+are!&rsquo; cries his wife; &lsquo;and what on earth brought you
+here, I wonder?&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;I came to look after you,
+<i>of course</i>,&rsquo; rejoins her husband.&nbsp; This is so
+pleasant a jest that the lady is mightily amused, as are all the
+other ladies similarly situated who are within hearing; and while
+they are enjoying it to the full, the gentleman nods again, turns
+upon his heel, and saunters away.</p>
+<p>There are times, however, when his company is not so
+agreeable, though equally unexpected; such as when the lady has
+invited one or two particular friends to tea and scandal, and he
+happens to come home in the very midst of their diversion.&nbsp;
+It is a hundred chances to one that he remains in the house half
+an hour, but the lady is rather disturbed by the intrusion,
+notwithstanding, and reasons within herself,&mdash;&lsquo;I am
+sure I never interfere with him, and why should he interfere with
+me?&nbsp; It can scarcely be accidental; it never happens that I
+have a particular reason for not wishing him to come home, but he
+always comes.&nbsp; It&rsquo;s very provoking and tiresome; and I
+am sure when he leaves me so much alone for his own pleasure, the
+least he could do would be to do as much for mine.&rsquo;&nbsp;
+Observing what passes in her mind, the gentleman, who has come
+home for his own accommodation, makes a merit of it with himself;
+arrives at the conclusion that it is the very last place in which
+he can hope to be comfortable; and determines, as he takes up his
+hat and cane, never to be so virtuous again.</p>
+<p>Thus a great many cool couples go on until they are cold
+couples, and the grave has closed over their folly and
+indifference.&nbsp; Loss of name, station, character, life
+itself, has ensued from causes as slight as these, before now;
+and when gossips tell such tales, and aggravate their
+deformities, they elevate their hands and eyebrows, and call each
+other to witness what a cool couple Mr. and Mrs. So-and-so always
+were, even in the best of times.</p>
+<h2><a name="page474"></a><span class="pagenum">p. 474</span>THE
+PLAUSIBLE COUPLE</h2>
+<p><span class="smcap">The</span> plausible couple have many
+titles.&nbsp; They are &lsquo;a delightful couple,&rsquo; an
+&lsquo;affectionate couple,&rsquo; &lsquo;a most agreeable
+couple, &lsquo;a good-hearted couple,&rsquo; and &lsquo;the
+best-natured couple in existence.&rsquo;&nbsp; The truth is, that
+the plausible couple are people of the world; and either the way
+of pleasing the world has grown much easier than it was in the
+days of the old man and his ass, or the old man was but a bad
+hand at it, and knew very little of the trade.</p>
+<p>&lsquo;But is it really possible to please the world!&rsquo;
+says some doubting reader.&nbsp; It is indeed.&nbsp; Nay, it is
+not only very possible, but very easy.&nbsp; The ways are
+crooked, and sometimes foul and low.&nbsp; What then?&nbsp; A man
+need but crawl upon his hands and knees, know when to close his
+eyes and when his ears, when to stoop and when to stand upright;
+and if by the world is meant that atom of it in which he moves
+himself, he shall please it, never fear.</p>
+<p>Now, it will be readily seen, that if a plausible man or woman
+have an easy means of pleasing the world by an adaptation of self
+to all its twistings and twinings, a plausible man <i>and</i>
+woman, or, in other words, a plausible couple, playing into each
+other&rsquo;s hands, and acting in concert, have a manifest
+advantage.&nbsp; Hence it is that plausible couples scarcely ever
+fail of success on a pretty large scale; and hence it is that if
+the reader, laying down this unwieldy volume at the next full
+stop, will have the goodness to review his or her circle of
+acquaintance, and to search particularly for some man and wife
+with a large connexion and a good name, not easily referable to
+their abilities or their wealth, he or she (that is, the male or
+female reader) will certainly find that gentleman or lady, on a
+very short reflection, to be a plausible couple.</p>
+<p>The plausible couple are the most ecstatic people living: the
+most sensitive people&mdash;to merit&mdash;on the face of the
+earth.&nbsp; Nothing clever or virtuous escapes them.&nbsp; They
+have microscopic eyes for such endowments, and can find them
+anywhere.&nbsp; The plausible couple never fawn&mdash;oh
+no!&nbsp; They don&rsquo;t even scruple to tell their friends of
+their faults.&nbsp; One is too generous, another too candid; a
+third has a tendency to think all people like himself, and to
+regard mankind as a company of angels; a fourth is kind-hearted
+to a fault.&nbsp; &lsquo;We never flatter, my dear Mrs.
+Jackson,&rsquo; say the plausible couple; &lsquo;we speak our
+minds.&nbsp; Neither you nor Mr. Jackson have faults
+enough.&nbsp; It may sound strangely, but it is true.&nbsp; You
+have not faults enough.&nbsp; You know our way,&mdash;we must
+speak out, and always do.&nbsp; Quarrel with us for saying so, if
+you will; but we repeat it,&mdash;you have not faults
+enough!&rsquo;</p>
+<p>The plausible couple are no less plausible to each other than
+to third parties.&nbsp; They are always loving and
+harmonious.&nbsp; The plausible gentleman calls his wife
+&lsquo;darling,&rsquo; and the plausible lady addresses him as
+&lsquo;dearest.&rsquo;&nbsp; If it be Mr. and Mrs. Bobtail
+Widger, Mrs. Widger is &lsquo;Lavinia, darling,&rsquo; and Mr.
+Widger is &lsquo;Bobtail, dearest.&rsquo;&nbsp; Speaking of each
+other, they observe the same tender form.&nbsp; Mrs. Widger
+relates what &lsquo;Bobtail&rsquo; said, and Mr. Widger recounts
+what &lsquo;darling&rsquo; thought and did.</p>
+<p>If you sit next to the plausible lady at a dinner-table, she
+takes the earliest opportunity of expressing her belief that you
+are acquainted with the Clickits; she is sure she has heard the
+Clickits speak of you&mdash;she must not tell you in what terms,
+or you will take her for a flatterer.&nbsp; You admit a knowledge
+of the Clickits; the plausible lady immediately launches out in
+their praise.&nbsp; She quite loves the Clickits.&nbsp; Were
+there ever such true-hearted, hospitable, excellent
+people&mdash;such a gentle, interesting little woman as Mrs.
+Clickit, or such a frank, unaffected creature as Mr. Clickit?
+were there ever two people, in short, so little spoiled by the
+world as they are?&nbsp; &lsquo;As who, darling?&rsquo; cries Mr.
+Widger, from the opposite side of the table.&nbsp; &lsquo;The
+Clickits, dearest,&rsquo; replies Mrs. Widger.&nbsp;
+&lsquo;Indeed you are right, darling,&rsquo; Mr. Widger rejoins;
+&lsquo;the Clickits are a very high-minded, worthy, estimable
+couple.&rsquo;&nbsp; Mrs. Widger remarking that Bobtail always
+grows quite eloquent upon this subject, Mr. Widger admits that he
+feels very strongly whenever such people as the Clickits and some
+other friends of his (here he glances at the host and hostess)
+are mentioned; for they are an honour to human nature, and do one
+good to think of.&nbsp; &lsquo;<i>You</i> know the Clickits, Mrs.
+Jackson?&rsquo; he says, addressing the lady of the house.&nbsp;
+&lsquo;No, indeed; we have not that pleasure,&rsquo; she
+replies.&nbsp; &lsquo;You astonish me!&rsquo; exclaims Mr.
+Widger: &lsquo;not know the Clickits! why, you are the very
+people of all others who ought to be their bosom friends.&nbsp;
+You are kindred beings; you are one and the same thing:&mdash;not
+know the Clickits!&nbsp; Now <i>will</i> you know the
+Clickits?&nbsp; Will you make a point of knowing them?&nbsp; Will
+you meet them in a friendly way at our house one evening, and be
+acquainted with them?&rsquo;&nbsp; Mrs. Jackson will be quite
+delighted; nothing would give her more pleasure.&nbsp;
+&lsquo;Then, Lavinia, my darling,&rsquo; says Mr. Widger,
+&lsquo;mind you don&rsquo;t lose sight of that; now, pray take
+care that Mr. and Mrs. Jackson know the Clickits without loss of
+time.&nbsp; Such people ought not to be strangers to each
+other.&rsquo;&nbsp; Mrs. Widger books both families as the centre
+of attraction for her next party; and Mr. Widger, going on to
+expatiate upon the virtues of the Clickits, adds to their other
+moral qualities, that they keep one of the neatest phaetons in
+town, and have two thousand a year.</p>
+<p>As the plausible couple never laud the merits of any absent
+person, without dexterously contriving that their praises shall
+reflect upon somebody who is present, so they never depreciate
+anything or anybody, without turning their depreciation to the
+same account.&nbsp; Their friend, Mr. Slummery, say they, is
+unquestionably a clever painter, and would no doubt be very
+popular, and sell his pictures at a very high price, if that
+cruel Mr. Fithers had not forestalled him in his department of
+art, and made it thoroughly and completely his
+own;&mdash;Fithers, it is to be observed, being present and
+within hearing, and Slummery elsewhere.&nbsp; Is Mrs. Tabblewick
+really as beautiful as people say?&nbsp; Why, there indeed you
+ask them a very puzzling question, because there is no doubt that
+she is a very charming woman, and they have long known her
+intimately.&nbsp; She is no doubt beautiful, very beautiful; they
+once thought her the most beautiful woman ever seen; still if you
+press them for an honest answer, they are bound to say that this
+was before they had ever seen our lovely friend on the sofa, (the
+sofa is hard by, and our lovely friend can&rsquo;t help hearing
+the whispers in which this is said;) since that time, perhaps,
+they have been hardly fair judges; Mrs. Tabblewick is no doubt
+extremely handsome,&mdash;very like our friend, in fact, in the
+form of the features,&mdash;but in point of expression, and soul,
+and figure, and air altogether&mdash;oh dear!</p>
+<p>But while the plausible couple depreciate, they are still
+careful to preserve their character for amiability and kind
+feeling; indeed the depreciation itself is often made to grow out
+of their excessive sympathy and good will.&nbsp; The plausible
+lady calls on a lady who dotes upon her children, and is sitting
+with a little girl upon her knee, enraptured by her artless
+replies, and protesting that there is nothing she delights in so
+much as conversing with these fairies; when the other lady
+inquires if she has seen young Mrs. Finching lately, and whether
+the baby has turned out a finer one than it promised to be.&nbsp;
+&lsquo;Oh dear!&rsquo; cries the plausible lady, &lsquo;you
+cannot think how often Bobtail and I have talked about poor Mrs.
+Finching&mdash;she is such a dear soul, and was so anxious that
+the baby should be a fine child&mdash;and very naturally, because
+she was very much here at one time, and there is, you know, a
+natural emulation among mothers&mdash;that it is impossible to
+tell you how much we have felt for her.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;Is it
+weak or plain, or what?&rsquo; inquires the other.&nbsp;
+&lsquo;Weak or plain, my love,&rsquo; returns the plausible lady,
+&lsquo;it&rsquo;s a fright&mdash;a perfect little fright; you
+never saw such a miserable creature in all your days.&nbsp;
+Positively you must not let her see one of these beautiful dears
+again, or you&rsquo;ll break her heart, you will
+indeed.&mdash;Heaven bless this child, see how she is looking in
+my face! can you conceive anything prettier than that?&nbsp; If
+poor Mrs. Finching could only hope&mdash;but that&rsquo;s
+impossible&mdash;and the gifts of Providence, you know&mdash;What
+<i>did</i> I do with my pocket-handkerchief!&rsquo;</p>
+<p>What prompts the mother, who dotes upon her children, to
+comment to her lord that evening on the plausible lady&rsquo;s
+engaging qualities and feeling heart, and what is it that
+procures Mr. and Mrs. Bobtail Widger an immediate invitation to
+dinner?</p>
+<h2><a name="page478"></a><span class="pagenum">p. 478</span>THE
+NICE LITTLE COUPLE</h2>
+<p>A <span class="smcap">custom</span> once prevailed in
+old-fashioned circles, that when a lady or gentleman was unable
+to sing a song, he or she should enliven the company with a
+story.&nbsp; As we find ourself in the predicament of not being
+able to describe (to our own satisfaction) nice little couples in
+the abstract, we purpose telling in this place a little story
+about a nice little couple of our acquaintance.</p>
+<p>Mr. and Mrs. Chirrup are the nice little couple in
+question.&nbsp; Mr. Chirrup has the smartness, and something of
+the brisk, quick manner of a small bird.&nbsp; Mrs. Chirrup is
+the prettiest of all little women, and has the prettiest little
+figure conceivable.&nbsp; She has the neatest little foot, and
+the softest little voice, and the pleasantest little smile, and
+the tidiest little curls, and the brightest little eyes, and the
+quietest little manner, and is, in short, altogether one of the
+most engaging of all little women, dead or alive.&nbsp; She is a
+condensation of all the domestic virtues,&mdash;a pocket edition
+of the young man&rsquo;s best companion,&mdash;a little woman at
+a very high pressure, with an amazing quantity of goodness and
+usefulness in an exceedingly small space.&nbsp; Little as she is,
+Mrs. Chirrup might furnish forth matter for the moral equipment
+of a score of housewives, six feet high in their
+stockings&mdash;if, in the presence of ladies, we may be allowed
+the expression&mdash;and of corresponding robustness.</p>
+<p style="text-align: center">
+<a href="images/p478b.jpg">
+<img alt=
+"The Nice Little Couple"
+title=
+"The Nice Little Couple"
+ src="images/p478s.jpg" />
+</a></p>
+<p>Nobody knows all this better than Mr. Chirrup, though he
+rather takes on that he don&rsquo;t.&nbsp; Accordingly he is very
+proud of his better-half, and evidently considers himself, as all
+other people consider him, rather fortunate in having her to
+wife.&nbsp; We say evidently, because Mr. Chirrup is a
+warm-hearted little fellow; and if you catch his eye when he has
+been slyly glancing at Mrs. Chirrup in company, there is a
+certain complacent twinkle in it, accompanied, perhaps, by a
+half-expressed toss of the head, which as clearly indicates what
+has been passing in his mind as if he had put it into words, and
+shouted it out through a speaking-trumpet.&nbsp; Moreover, Mr.
+Chirrup has a particularly mild and bird-like manner of calling
+Mrs. Chirrup &lsquo;my dear;&rsquo; and&mdash;for he is of a
+jocose turn&mdash;of cutting little witticisms upon her, and
+making her the subject of various harmless pleasantries, which
+nobody enjoys more thoroughly than Mrs. Chirrup herself.&nbsp;
+Mr. Chirrup, too, now and then affects to deplore his
+bachelor-days, and to bemoan (with a marvellously contented and
+smirking face) the loss of his freedom, and the sorrow of his
+heart at having been taken captive by Mrs. Chirrup&mdash;all of
+which circumstances combine to show the secret triumph and
+satisfaction of Mr. Chirrup&rsquo;s soul.</p>
+<p>We have already had occasion to observe that Mrs. Chirrup is
+an incomparable housewife.&nbsp; In all the arts of domestic
+arrangement and management, in all the mysteries of
+confectionery-making, pickling, and preserving, never was such a
+thorough adept as that nice little body.&nbsp; She is, besides, a
+cunning worker in muslin and fine linen, and a special hand at
+marketing to the very best advantage.&nbsp; But if there be one
+branch of housekeeping in which she excels to an utterly
+unparalleled and unprecedented extent, it is in the important one
+of carving.&nbsp; A roast goose is universally allowed to be the
+great stumbling-block in the way of young aspirants to perfection
+in this department of science; many promising carvers, beginning
+with legs of mutton, and preserving a good reputation through
+fillets of veal, sirloins of beef, quarters of lamb, fowls, and
+even ducks, have sunk before a roast goose, and lost caste and
+character for ever.&nbsp; To Mrs. Chirrup the resolving a goose
+into its smallest component parts is a pleasant pastime&mdash;a
+practical joke&mdash;a thing to be done in a minute or so,
+without the smallest interruption to the conversation of the
+time.&nbsp; No handing the dish over to an unfortunate man upon
+her right or left, no wild sharpening of the knife, no hacking
+and sawing at an unruly joint, no noise, no splash, no heat, no
+leaving off in despair; all is confidence and cheerfulness.&nbsp;
+The dish is set upon the table, the cover is removed; for an
+instant, and only an instant, you observe that Mrs.
+Chirrup&rsquo;s attention is distracted; she smiles, but heareth
+not.&nbsp; You proceed with your story; meanwhile the glittering
+knife is slowly upraised, both Mrs. Chirrup&rsquo;s wrists are
+slightly but not ungracefully agitated, she compresses her lips
+for an instant, then breaks into a smile, and all is over.&nbsp;
+The legs of the bird slide gently down into a pool of gravy, the
+wings seem to melt from the body, the breast separates into a row
+of juicy slices, the smaller and more complicated parts of his
+anatomy are perfectly developed, a cavern of stuffing is
+revealed, and the goose is gone!</p>
+<p>To dine with Mr. and Mrs. Chirrup is one of the pleasantest
+things in the world.&nbsp; Mr. Chirrup has a bachelor friend, who
+lived with him in his own days of single blessedness, and to whom
+he is mightily attached.&nbsp; Contrary to the usual custom, this
+bachelor friend is no less a friend of Mrs. Chirrup&rsquo;s, and,
+consequently, whenever you dine with Mr. and Mrs. Chirrup, you
+meet the bachelor friend.&nbsp; It would put any
+reasonably-conditioned mortal into good-humour to observe the
+entire unanimity which subsists between these three; but there is
+a quiet welcome dimpling in Mrs. Chirrup&rsquo;s face, a bustling
+hospitality oozing as it were out of the waistcoat-pockets of Mr.
+Chirrup, and a patronising enjoyment of their cordiality and
+satisfaction on the part of the bachelor friend, which is quite
+delightful.&nbsp; On these occasions Mr. Chirrup usually takes an
+opportunity of rallying the friend on being single, and the
+friend retorts on Mr. Chirrup for being married, at which moments
+some single young ladies present are like to die of laughter; and
+we have more than once observed them bestow looks upon the
+friend, which convinces us that his position is by no means a
+safe one, as, indeed, we hold no bachelor&rsquo;s to be who
+visits married friends and cracks jokes on wedlock, for certain
+it is that such men walk among traps and nets and pitfalls
+innumerable, and often find themselves down upon their knees at
+the altar rails, taking M. or N. for their wedded wives, before
+they know anything about the matter.</p>
+<p>However, this is no business of Mr. Chirrup&rsquo;s, who
+talks, and laughs, and drinks his wine, and laughs again, and
+talks more, until it is time to repair to the drawing-room,
+where, coffee served and over, Mrs. Chirrup prepares for a round
+game, by sorting the nicest possible little fish into the nicest
+possible little pools, and calling Mr. Chirrup to assist her,
+which Mr. Chirrup does.&nbsp; As they stand side by side, you
+find that Mr. Chirrup is the least possible shadow of a shade
+taller than Mrs. Chirrup, and that they are the neatest and
+best-matched little couple that can be, which the chances are ten
+to one against your observing with such effect at any other time,
+unless you see them in the street arm-in-arm, or meet them some
+rainy day trotting along under a very small umbrella.&nbsp; The
+round game (at which Mr. Chirrup is the merriest of the party)
+being done and over, in course of time a nice little tray
+appears, on which is a nice little supper; and when that is
+finished likewise, and you have said &lsquo;Good night,&rsquo;
+you find yourself repeating a dozen times, as you ride home, that
+there never was such a nice little couple as Mr. and Mrs.
+Chirrup.</p>
+<p>Whether it is that pleasant qualities, being packed more
+closely in small bodies than in large, come more readily to hand
+than when they are diffused over a wider space, and have to be
+gathered together for use, we don&rsquo;t know, but as a general
+rule,&mdash;strengthened like all other rules by its
+exceptions,&mdash;we hold that little people are sprightly and
+good-natured.&nbsp; The more sprightly and good-natured people we
+have, the better; therefore, let us wish well to all nice little
+couples, and hope that they may increase and multiply.</p>
+<h2><a name="page481"></a><span class="pagenum">p. 481</span>THE
+EGOTISTICAL COUPLE</h2>
+<p><span class="smcap">Egotism</span> in couples is of two
+kinds.&mdash;It is our purpose to show this by two examples.</p>
+<p>The egotistical couple may be young, old, middle-aged, well to
+do, or ill to do; they may have a small family, a large family,
+or no family at all.&nbsp; There is no outward sign by which an
+egotistical couple may be known and avoided.&nbsp; They come upon
+you unawares; there is no guarding against them.&nbsp; No man can
+of himself be forewarned or forearmed against an egotistical
+couple.</p>
+<p>The egotistical couple have undergone every calamity, and
+experienced every pleasurable and painful sensation of which our
+nature is susceptible.&nbsp; You cannot by possibility tell the
+egotistical couple anything they don&rsquo;t know, or describe to
+them anything they have not felt.&nbsp; They have been everything
+but dead.&nbsp; Sometimes we are tempted to wish they had been
+even that, but only in our uncharitable moments, which are few
+and far between.</p>
+<p>We happened the other day, in the course of a morning call, to
+encounter an egotistical couple, nor were we suffered to remain
+long in ignorance of the fact, for our very first inquiry of the
+lady of the house brought them into active and vigorous
+operation.&nbsp; The inquiry was of course touching the
+lady&rsquo;s health, and the answer happened to be, that she had
+not been very well.&nbsp; &lsquo;Oh, my dear!&rsquo; said the
+egotistical lady, &lsquo;don&rsquo;t talk of not being
+well.&nbsp; We have been in <i>such</i> a state since we saw you
+last!&rsquo;&mdash;The lady of the house happening to remark that
+her lord had not been well either, the egotistical gentleman
+struck in: &lsquo;Never let Briggs complain of not being
+well&mdash;never let Briggs complain, my dear Mrs. Briggs, after
+what I have undergone within these six weeks.&nbsp; He
+doesn&rsquo;t know what it is to be ill, he hasn&rsquo;t the
+least idea of it; not the faintest
+conception.&rsquo;&mdash;&lsquo;My dear,&rsquo; interposed his
+wife smiling, &lsquo;you talk as if it were almost a crime in Mr.
+Briggs not to have been as ill as we have been, instead of
+feeling thankful to Providence that both he and our dear Mrs.
+Briggs are in such blissful ignorance of real
+suffering.&rsquo;&mdash;&lsquo;My love,&rsquo; returned the
+egotistical gentleman, in a low and pious voice, &lsquo;you
+mistake me;&mdash;I feel grateful&mdash;very grateful.&nbsp; I
+trust our friends may never purchase their experience as dearly
+as we have bought ours; I hope they never may!&rsquo;</p>
+<p>Having put down Mrs. Briggs upon this theme, and settled the
+question thus, the egotistical gentleman turned to us, and, after
+a few preliminary remarks, all tending towards and leading up to
+the point he had in his mind, inquired if we happened to be
+acquainted with the Dowager Lady Snorflerer.&nbsp; On our
+replying in the negative, he presumed we had often met Lord
+Slang, or beyond all doubt, that we were on intimate terms with
+Sir Chipkins Glogwog.&nbsp; Finding that we were equally unable
+to lay claim to either of these distinctions, he expressed great
+astonishment, and turning to his wife with a retrospective smile,
+inquired who it was that had told that capital story about the
+mashed potatoes.&nbsp; &lsquo;Who, my dear?&rsquo; returned the
+egotistical lady, &lsquo;why Sir Chipkins, of course; how can you
+ask!&nbsp; Don&rsquo;t you remember his applying it to our cook,
+and saying that you and I were so like the Prince and Princess,
+that he could almost have sworn we were they?&rsquo;&nbsp;
+&lsquo;To be sure, I remember that,&rsquo; said the egotistical
+gentleman, &lsquo;but are you quite certain that didn&rsquo;t
+apply to the other anecdote about the Emperor of Austria and the
+pump?&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;Upon my word then, I think it
+did,&rsquo; replied his wife.&nbsp; &lsquo;To be sure it
+did,&rsquo; said the egotistical gentleman, &lsquo;it was
+Slang&rsquo;s story, I remember now, perfectly.&rsquo;&nbsp;
+However, it turned out, a few seconds afterwards, that the
+egotistical gentleman&rsquo;s memory was rather treacherous, as
+he began to have a misgiving that the story had been told by the
+Dowager Lady Snorflerer the very last time they dined there; but
+there appearing, on further consideration, strong circumstantial
+evidence tending to show that this couldn&rsquo;t be, inasmuch as
+the Dowager Lady Snorflerer had been, on the occasion in
+question, wholly engrossed by the egotistical lady, the
+egotistical gentleman recanted this opinion; and after laying the
+story at the doors of a great many great people, happily left it
+at last with the Duke of Scuttlewig:&mdash;observing that it was
+not extraordinary he had forgotten his Grace hitherto, as it
+often happened that the names of those with whom we were upon the
+most familiar footing were the very last to present themselves to
+our thoughts.</p>
+<p>It not only appeared that the egotistical couple knew
+everybody, but that scarcely any event of importance or notoriety
+had occurred for many years with which they had not been in some
+way or other connected.&nbsp; Thus we learned that when the
+well-known attempt upon the life of George the Third was made by
+Hatfield in Drury Lane theatre, the egotistical gentleman&rsquo;s
+grandfather sat upon his right hand and was the first man who
+collared him; and that the egotistical lady&rsquo;s aunt, sitting
+within a few boxes of the royal party, was the only person in the
+audience who heard his Majesty exclaim, &lsquo;Charlotte,
+Charlotte, don&rsquo;t be frightened, don&rsquo;t be frightened;
+they&rsquo;re letting off squibs, they&rsquo;re letting off
+squibs.&rsquo;&nbsp; When the fire broke out, which ended in the
+destruction of the two Houses of Parliament, the egotistical
+couple, being at the time at a drawing-room window on Blackheath,
+then and there simultaneously exclaimed, to the astonishment of a
+whole party&mdash;&lsquo;It&rsquo;s the House of
+Lords!&rsquo;&nbsp; Nor was this a solitary instance of their
+peculiar discernment, for chancing to be (as by a comparison of
+dates and circumstances they afterwards found) in the same
+omnibus with Mr. Greenacre, when he carried his victim&rsquo;s
+head about town in a blue bag, they both remarked a singular
+twitching in the muscles of his countenance; and walking down
+Fish Street Hill, a few weeks since, the egotistical gentleman
+said to his lady&mdash;slightly casting up his eyes to the top of
+the Monument&mdash;&lsquo;There&rsquo;s a boy up there, my dear,
+reading a Bible.&nbsp; It&rsquo;s very strange.&nbsp; I
+don&rsquo;t like it.&mdash;In five seconds afterwards,
+Sir,&rsquo; says the egotistical gentleman, bringing his hands
+together with one violent clap&mdash;&lsquo;the lad was
+over!&rsquo;</p>
+<p>Diversifying these topics by the introduction of many others
+of the same kind, and entertaining us between whiles with a
+minute account of what weather and diet agreed with them, and
+what weather and diet disagreed with them, and at what time they
+usually got up, and at what time went to bed, with many other
+particulars of their domestic economy too numerous to mention;
+the egotistical couple at length took their leave, and afforded
+us an opportunity of doing the same.</p>
+<p>Mr. and Mrs. Sliverstone are an egotistical couple of another
+class, for all the lady&rsquo;s egotism is about her husband, and
+all the gentleman&rsquo;s about his wife.&nbsp; For
+example:&mdash;Mr. Sliverstone is a clerical gentleman, and
+occasionally writes sermons, as clerical gentlemen do.&nbsp; If
+you happen to obtain admission at the street-door while he is so
+engaged, Mrs. Sliverstone appears on tip-toe, and speaking in a
+solemn whisper, as if there were at least three or four
+particular friends up-stairs, all upon the point of death,
+implores you to be very silent, for Mr. Sliverstone is composing,
+and she need not say how very important it is that he should not
+be disturbed.&nbsp; Unwilling to interrupt anything so serious,
+you hasten to withdraw, with many apologies; but this Mrs.
+Sliverstone will by no means allow, observing, that she knows you
+would like to see him, as it is very natural you should, and that
+she is determined to make a trial for you, as you are a great
+favourite.&nbsp; So you are led up-stairs&mdash;still on
+tip-toe&mdash;to the door of a little back room, in which, as the
+lady informs you in a whisper, Mr. Sliverstone always
+writes.&nbsp; No answer being returned to a couple of soft taps,
+the lady opens the door, and there, sure enough, is Mr.
+Sliverstone, with dishevelled hair, powdering away with pen, ink,
+and paper, at a rate which, if he has any power of sustaining it,
+would settle the longest sermon in no time.&nbsp; At first he is
+too much absorbed to be roused by this intrusion; but presently
+looking up, says faintly, &lsquo;Ah!&rsquo; and pointing to his
+desk with a weary and languid smile, extends his hand, and hopes
+you&rsquo;ll forgive him.&nbsp; Then Mrs. Sliverstone sits down
+beside him, and taking his hand in hers, tells you how that Mr.
+Sliverstone has been shut up there ever since nine o&rsquo;clock
+in the morning, (it is by this time twelve at noon,) and how she
+knows it cannot be good for his health, and is very uneasy about
+it.&nbsp; Unto this Mr. Sliverstone replies firmly, that
+&lsquo;It must be done;&rsquo; which agonizes Mrs. Sliverstone
+still more, and she goes on to tell you that such were Mr.
+Sliverstone&rsquo;s labours last week&mdash;what with the
+buryings, marryings, churchings, christenings, and all
+together,&mdash;that when he was going up the pulpit stairs on
+Sunday evening, he was obliged to hold on by the rails, or he
+would certainly have fallen over into his own pew.&nbsp; Mr.
+Sliverstone, who has been listening and smiling meekly, says,
+&lsquo;Not quite so bad as that, not quite so bad!&rsquo; he
+admits though, on cross-examination, that he <i>was</i> very near
+falling upon the verger who was following him up to bolt the
+door; but adds, that it was his duty as a Christian to fall upon
+him, if need were, and that he, Mr. Sliverstone, and (possibly
+the verger too) ought to glory in it.</p>
+<p>This sentiment communicates new impulse to Mrs. Sliverstone,
+who launches into new praises of Mr. Sliverstone&rsquo;s worth
+and excellence, to which he listens in the same meek silence,
+save when he puts in a word of self-denial relative to some
+question of fact, as&mdash;&lsquo;Not seventy-two christenings
+that week, my dear.&nbsp; Only seventy-one, only
+seventy-one.&rsquo;&nbsp; At length his lady has quite concluded,
+and then he says, Why should he repine, why should he give way,
+why should he suffer his heart to sink within him?&nbsp; Is it he
+alone who toils and suffers?&nbsp; What has she gone through, he
+should like to know?&nbsp; What does she go through every day for
+him and for society?</p>
+<p>With such an exordium Mr. Sliverstone launches out into
+glowing praises of the conduct of Mrs. Sliverstone in the
+production of eight young children, and the subsequent rearing
+and fostering of the same; and thus the husband magnifies the
+wife, and the wife the husband.</p>
+<p>This would be well enough if Mr. and Mrs. Sliverstone kept it
+to themselves, or even to themselves and a friend or two; but
+they do not.&nbsp; The more hearers they have, the more
+egotistical the couple become, and the more anxious they are to
+make believers in their merits.&nbsp; Perhaps this is the worst
+kind of egotism.&nbsp; It has not even the poor excuse of being
+spontaneous, but is the result of a deliberate system and malice
+aforethought.&nbsp; Mere empty-headed conceit excites our pity,
+but ostentatious hypocrisy awakens our disgust.</p>
+<h2><a name="page485"></a><span class="pagenum">p. 485</span>THE
+COUPLE WHO CODDLE THEMSELVES</h2>
+<p><span class="smcap">Mrs. Merrywinkle&rsquo;s</span> maiden
+name was Chopper.&nbsp; She was the only child of Mr. and Mrs.
+Chopper.&nbsp; Her father died when she was, as the play-books
+express it, &lsquo;yet an infant;&rsquo; and so old Mrs. Chopper,
+when her daughter married, made the house of her son-in-law her
+home from that time henceforth, and set up her staff of rest with
+Mr. and Mrs. Merrywinkle.</p>
+<p>Mr. and Mrs. Merrywinkle are a couple who coddle themselves;
+and the venerable Mrs. Chopper is an aider and abettor in the
+same.</p>
+<p>Mr. Merrywinkle is a rather lean and long-necked gentleman,
+middle-aged and middle-sized, and usually troubled with a cold in
+the head.&nbsp; Mrs. Merrywinkle is a delicate-looking lady, with
+very light hair, and is exceedingly subject to the same
+unpleasant disorder.&nbsp; The venerable Mrs. Chopper&mdash;who
+is strictly entitled to the appellation, her daughter not being
+very young, otherwise than by courtesy, at the time of her
+marriage, which was some years ago&mdash;is a mysterious old lady
+who lurks behind a pair of spectacles, and is afflicted with a
+chronic disease, respecting which she has taken a vast deal of
+medical advice, and referred to a vast number of medical books,
+without meeting any definition of symptoms that at all suits her,
+or enables her to say, &lsquo;That&rsquo;s my
+complaint.&rsquo;&nbsp; Indeed, the absence of authentic
+information upon the subject of this complaint would seem to be
+Mrs. Chopper&rsquo;s greatest ill, as in all other respects she
+is an uncommonly hale and hearty gentlewoman.</p>
+<p>Both Mr. and Mrs. Chopper wear an extraordinary quantity of
+flannel, and have a habit of putting their feet in hot water to
+an unnatural extent.&nbsp; They likewise indulge in chamomile tea
+and such-like compounds, and rub themselves on the slightest
+provocation with camphorated spirits and other lotions applicable
+to mumps, sore-throat, rheumatism, or lumbago.</p>
+<p>Mr. Merrywinkle&rsquo;s leaving home to go to business on a
+damp or wet morning is a very elaborate affair.&nbsp; He puts on
+wash-leather socks over his stockings, and India-rubber shoes
+above his boots, and wears under his waistcoat a cuirass of
+hare-skin.&nbsp; Besides these precautions, he winds a thick
+shawl round his throat, and blocks up his mouth with a large silk
+handkerchief.&nbsp; Thus accoutred, and furnished besides with a
+great-coat and umbrella, he braves the dangers of the streets;
+travelling in severe weather at a gentle trot, the better to
+preserve the circulation, and bringing his mouth to the surface
+to take breath, but very seldom, and with the utmost
+caution.&nbsp; His office-door opened, he shoots past his clerk
+at the same pace, and diving into his own private room, closes
+the door, examines the window-fastenings, and gradually unrobes
+himself: hanging his pocket-handkerchief on the fender to air,
+and determining to write to the newspapers about the fog, which,
+he says, &lsquo;has really got to that pitch that it is quite
+unbearable.&rsquo;</p>
+<p>In this last opinion Mrs. Merrywinkle and her respected mother
+fully concur; for though not present, their thoughts and tongues
+are occupied with the same subject, which is their constant theme
+all day.&nbsp; If anybody happens to call, Mrs. Merrywinkle
+opines that they must assuredly be mad, and her first salutation
+is, &lsquo;Why, what in the name of goodness can bring you out in
+such weather?&nbsp; You know you <i>must</i> catch your
+death.&rsquo;&nbsp; This assurance is corroborated by Mrs.
+Chopper, who adds, in further confirmation, a dismal legend
+concerning an individual of her acquaintance who, making a call
+under precisely parallel circumstances, and being then in the
+best health and spirits, expired in forty-eight hours afterwards,
+of a complication of inflammatory disorders.&nbsp; The visitor,
+rendered not altogether comfortable perhaps by this and other
+precedents, inquires very affectionately after Mr. Merrywinkle,
+but by so doing brings about no change of the subject; for Mr.
+Merrywinkle&rsquo;s name is inseparably connected with his
+complaints, and his complaints are inseparably connected with
+Mrs. Merrywinkle&rsquo;s; and when these are done with, Mrs.
+Chopper, who has been biding her time, cuts in with the chronic
+disorder&mdash;a subject upon which the amiable old lady never
+leaves off speaking until she is left alone, and very often not
+then.</p>
+<p style="text-align: center">
+<a href="images/p486b.jpg">
+<img alt=
+"The Couple who Coddle Themselves"
+title=
+"The Couple who Coddle Themselves"
+ src="images/p486s.jpg" />
+</a></p>
+<p>But Mr. Merrywinkle comes home to dinner.&nbsp; He is received
+by Mrs. Merrywinkle and Mrs. Chopper, who, on his remarking that
+he thinks his feet are damp, turn pale as ashes and drag him
+up-stairs, imploring him to have them rubbed directly with a dry
+coarse towel.&nbsp; Rubbed they are, one by Mrs. Merrywinkle and
+one by Mrs. Chopper, until the friction causes Mr. Merrywinkle to
+make horrible faces, and look as if he had been smelling very
+powerful onions; when they desist, and the patient, provided for
+his better security with thick worsted stockings and list
+slippers, is borne down-stairs to dinner.&nbsp; Now, the dinner
+is always a good one, the appetites of the diners being delicate,
+and requiring a little of what Mrs. Merrywinkle calls
+&lsquo;tittivation;&rsquo; the secret of which is understood to
+lie in good cookery and tasteful spices, and which process is so
+successfully performed in the present instance, that both Mr. and
+Mrs. Merrywinkle eat a remarkably good dinner, and even the
+afflicted Mrs. Chopper wields her knife and fork with much of the
+spirit and elasticity of youth.&nbsp; But Mr. Merrywinkle, in his
+desire to gratify his appetite, is not unmindful of his health,
+for he has a bottle of carbonate of soda with which to qualify
+his porter, and a little pair of scales in which to weigh it
+out.&nbsp; Neither in his anxiety to take care of his body is he
+unmindful of the welfare of his immortal part, as he always prays
+that for what he is going to receive he may be made truly
+thankful; and in order that he may be as thankful as possible,
+eats and drinks to the utmost.</p>
+<p>Either from eating and drinking so much, or from being the
+victim of this constitutional infirmity, among others, Mr.
+Merrywinkle, after two or three glasses of wine, falls fast
+asleep; and he has scarcely closed his eyes, when Mrs.
+Merrywinkle and Mrs. Chopper fall asleep likewise.&nbsp; It is on
+awakening at tea-time that their most alarming symptoms prevail;
+for then Mr. Merrywinkle feels as if his temples were tightly
+bound round with the chain of the street-door, and Mrs.
+Merrywinkle as if she had made a hearty dinner of
+half-hundredweights, and Mrs. Chopper as if cold water were
+running down her back, and oyster-knives with sharp points were
+plunging of their own accord into her ribs.&nbsp; Symptoms like
+these are enough to make people peevish, and no wonder that they
+remain so until supper-time, doing little more than doze and
+complain, unless Mr. Merrywinkle calls out very loudly to a
+servant &lsquo;to keep that draught out,&rsquo; or rushes into
+the passage to flourish his fist in the countenance of the
+twopenny-postman, for daring to give such a knock as he had just
+performed at the door of a private gentleman with nerves.</p>
+<p>Supper, coming after dinner, should consist of some gentle
+provocative; and therefore the tittivating art is again in
+requisition, and again&mdash;done honour to by Mr. and Mrs.
+Merrywinkle, still comforted and abetted by Mrs. Chopper.&nbsp;
+After supper, it is ten to one but the last-named old lady
+becomes worse, and is led off to bed with the chronic complaint
+in full vigour.&nbsp; Mr. and Mrs. Merrywinkle, having
+administered to her a warm cordial, which is something of the
+strongest, then repair to their own room, where Mr. Merrywinkle,
+with his legs and feet in hot water, superintends the mulling of
+some wine which he is to drink at the very moment he plunges into
+bed, while Mrs. Merrywinkle, in garments whose nature is unknown
+to and unimagined by all but married men, takes four small pills
+with a spasmodic look between each, and finally comes to
+something hot and fragrant out of another little saucepan, which
+serves as her composing-draught for the night.</p>
+<p>There is another kind of couple who coddle themselves, and who
+do so at a cheaper rate and on more spare diet, because they are
+niggardly and parsimonious; for which reason they are kind enough
+to coddle their visitors too.&nbsp; It is unnecessary to describe
+them, for our readers may rest assured of the accuracy of these
+general principles:&mdash;that all couples who coddle themselves
+are selfish and slothful,&mdash;that they charge upon every wind
+that blows, every rain that falls, and every vapour that hangs in
+the air, the evils which arise from their own imprudence or the
+gloom which is engendered in their own tempers,&mdash;and that
+all men and women, in couples or otherwise, who fall into
+exclusive habits of self-indulgence, and forget their natural
+sympathy and close connexion with everybody and everything in the
+world around them, not only neglect the first duty of life, but,
+by a happy retributive justice, deprive themselves of its truest
+and best enjoyment.</p>
+<h2><a name="page489"></a><span class="pagenum">p. 489</span>THE
+OLD COUPLE</h2>
+<p><span class="smcap">They</span> are grandfather and
+grandmother to a dozen grown people and have great-grandchildren
+besides; their bodies are bent, their hair is grey, their step
+tottering and infirm.&nbsp; Is this the lightsome pair whose
+wedding was so merry, and have the young couple indeed grown old
+so soon!</p>
+<p>It seems but yesterday&mdash;and yet what a host of cares and
+griefs are crowded into the intervening time which, reckoned by
+them, lengthens out into a century!&nbsp; How many new
+associations have wreathed themselves about their hearts since
+then!&nbsp; The old time is gone, and a new time has come for
+others&mdash;not for them.&nbsp; They are but the rusting link
+that feebly joins the two, and is silently loosening its hold and
+dropping asunder.</p>
+<p>It seems but yesterday&mdash;and yet three of their children
+have sunk into the grave, and the tree that shades it has grown
+quite old.&nbsp; One was an infant&mdash;they wept for him; the
+next a girl, a slight young thing too delicate for
+earth&mdash;her loss was hard indeed to bear.&nbsp; The third, a
+man.&nbsp; That was the worst of all, but even that grief is
+softened now.</p>
+<p>It seems but yesterday&mdash;and yet how the gay and laughing
+faces of that bright morning have changed and vanished from above
+ground!&nbsp; Faint likenesses of some remain about them yet, but
+they are very faint and scarcely to be traced.&nbsp; The rest are
+only seen in dreams, and even they are unlike what they were, in
+eyes so old and dim.</p>
+<p>One or two dresses from the bridal wardrobe are yet
+preserved.&nbsp; They are of a quaint and antique fashion, and
+seldom seen except in pictures.&nbsp; White has turned yellow,
+and brighter hues have faded.&nbsp; Do you wonder, child?&nbsp;
+The wrinkled face was once as smooth as yours, the eyes as
+bright, the shrivelled skin as fair and delicate.&nbsp; It is the
+work of hands that have been dust these many years.</p>
+<p>Where are the fairy lovers of that happy day whose annual
+return comes upon the old man and his wife, like the echo of some
+village bell which has long been silent?&nbsp; Let yonder peevish
+bachelor, racked by rheumatic pains, and quarrelling with the
+world, let him answer to the question.&nbsp; He recollects
+something of a favourite playmate; her name was Lucy&mdash;so
+they tell him.&nbsp; He is not sure whether she was married, or
+went abroad, or died.&nbsp; It is a long while ago, and he
+don&rsquo;t remember.</p>
+<p>Is nothing as it used to be; does no one feel, or think, or
+act, as in days of yore?&nbsp; Yes.&nbsp; There is an aged woman
+who once lived servant with the old lady&rsquo;s father, and is
+sheltered in an alms-house not far off.&nbsp; She is still
+attached to the family, and loves them all; she nursed the
+children in her lap, and tended in their sickness those who are
+no more.&nbsp; Her old mistress has still something of youth in
+her eyes; the young ladies are like what she was but not quite so
+handsome, nor are the gentlemen as stately as Mr. Harvey used to
+be.&nbsp; She has seen a great deal of trouble; her husband and
+her son died long ago; but she has got over that, and is happy
+now&mdash;quite happy.</p>
+<p>If ever her attachment to her old protectors were disturbed by
+fresher cares and hopes, it has long since resumed its former
+current.&nbsp; It has filled the void in the poor
+creature&rsquo;s heart, and replaced the love of kindred.&nbsp;
+Death has not left her alone, and this, with a roof above her
+head, and a warm hearth to sit by, makes her cheerful and
+contented.&nbsp; Does she remember the marriage of
+great-grandmamma?&nbsp; Ay, that she does, as well&mdash;as if it
+was only yesterday.&nbsp; You wouldn&rsquo;t think it to look at
+her now, and perhaps she ought not to say so of herself, but she
+was as smart a young girl then as you&rsquo;d wish to see.&nbsp;
+She recollects she took a friend of hers up-stairs to see Miss
+Emma dressed for church; her name was&mdash;ah! she forgets the
+name, but she remembers that she was a very pretty girl, and that
+she married not long afterwards, and lived&mdash;it has quite
+passed out of her mind where she lived, but she knows she had a
+bad husband who used her ill, and that she died in Lambeth
+work-house.&nbsp; Dear, dear, in Lambeth workhouse!</p>
+<p style="text-align: center">
+<a href="images/p490b.jpg">
+<img alt=
+"The Old Couple"
+title=
+"The Old Couple"
+ src="images/p490s.jpg" />
+</a></p>
+<p>And the old couple&mdash;have they no comfort or enjoyment of
+existence?&nbsp; See them among their grandchildren and
+great-grandchildren; how garrulous they are, how they compare one
+with another, and insist on likenesses which no one else can see;
+how gently the old lady lectures the girls on points of breeding
+and decorum, and points the moral by anecdotes of herself in her
+young days&mdash;how the old gentleman chuckles over boyish feats
+and roguish tricks, and tells long stories of a
+&lsquo;barring-out&rsquo; achieved at the school he went to:
+which was very wrong, he tells the boys, and never to be imitated
+of course, but which he cannot help letting them know was very
+pleasant too&mdash;especially when he kissed the master&rsquo;s
+niece.&nbsp; This last, however, is a point on which the old lady
+is very tender, for she considers it a shocking and indelicate
+thing to talk about, and always says so whenever it is mentioned,
+never failing to observe that he ought to be very penitent for
+having been so sinful.&nbsp; So the old gentleman gets no
+further, and what the schoolmaster&rsquo;s niece said afterwards
+(which he is always going to tell) is lost to posterity.</p>
+<p>The old gentleman is eighty years old,
+to-day&mdash;&lsquo;Eighty years old, Crofts, and never had a
+headache,&rsquo; he tells the barber who shaves him (the barber
+being a young fellow, and very subject to that complaint).&nbsp;
+&lsquo;That&rsquo;s a great age, Crofts,&rsquo; says the old
+gentleman.&nbsp; &lsquo;I don&rsquo;t think it&rsquo;s sich a
+wery great age, Sir,&rsquo; replied the barber.&nbsp;
+&lsquo;Crofts,&rsquo; rejoins the old gentleman,
+&lsquo;you&rsquo;re talking nonsense to me.&nbsp; Eighty not a
+great age?&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;It&rsquo;s a wery great age, Sir,
+for a gentleman to be as healthy and active as you are,&rsquo;
+returns the barber; &lsquo;but my grandfather, Sir, he was
+ninety-four.&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;You don&rsquo;t mean that,
+Crofts?&rsquo; says the old gentleman.&nbsp; &lsquo;I do indeed,
+Sir,&rsquo; retorts the barber, &lsquo;and as wiggerous as Julius
+C&aelig;sar, my grandfather was.&rsquo;&nbsp; The old gentleman
+muses a little time, and then says, &lsquo;What did he die of,
+Crofts?&rsquo;&nbsp; &lsquo;He died accidentally, Sir,&rsquo;
+returns the barber; &lsquo;he didn&rsquo;t mean to do it.&nbsp;
+He always would go a running about the streets&mdash;walking
+never satisfied <i>his</i> spirit&mdash;and he run against a post
+and died of a hurt in his chest.&rsquo;&nbsp; The old gentleman
+says no more until the shaving is concluded, and then he gives
+Crofts half-a-crown to drink his health.&nbsp; He is a little
+doubtful of the barber&rsquo;s veracity afterwards, and telling
+the anecdote to the old lady, affects to make very light of
+it&mdash;though to be sure (he adds) there was old Parr, and in
+some parts of England, ninety-five or so is a common age, quite a
+common age.</p>
+<p>This morning the old couple are cheerful but serious,
+recalling old times as well as they can remember them, and
+dwelling upon many passages in their past lives which the day
+brings to mind.&nbsp; The old lady reads aloud, in a tremulous
+voice, out of a great Bible, and the old gentleman with his hand
+to his ear, listens with profound respect.&nbsp; When the book is
+closed, they sit silent for a short space, and afterwards resume
+their conversation, with a reference perhaps to their dead
+children, as a subject not unsuited to that they have just
+left.&nbsp; By degrees they are led to consider which of those
+who survive are the most like those dearly-remembered objects,
+and so they fall into a less solemn strain, and become cheerful
+again.</p>
+<p>How many people in all, grandchildren, great-grandchildren,
+and one or two intimate friends of the family, dine together
+to-day at the eldest son&rsquo;s to congratulate the old couple,
+and wish them many happy returns, is a calculation beyond our
+powers; but this we know, that the old couple no sooner present
+themselves, very sprucely and carefully attired, than there is a
+violent shouting and rushing forward of the younger branches with
+all manner of presents, such as pocket-books, pencil-cases,
+pen-wipers, watch-papers, pin-cushions, sleeve-buckles,
+worked-slippers, watch-guards, and even a nutmeg-grater: the
+latter article being presented by a very chubby and very little
+boy, who exhibits it in great triumph as an extraordinary
+variety.&nbsp; The old couple&rsquo;s emotion at these tokens of
+remembrance occasions quite a pathetic scene, of which the chief
+ingredients are a vast quantity of kissing and hugging, and
+repeated wipings of small eyes and noses with small square
+pocket-handkerchiefs, which don&rsquo;t come at all easily out of
+small pockets.&nbsp; Even the peevish bachelor is moved, and he
+says, as he presents the old gentleman with a queer sort of
+antique ring from his own finger, that he&rsquo;ll be de&rsquo;ed
+if he doesn&rsquo;t think he looks younger than he did ten years
+ago.</p>
+<p>But the great time is after dinner, when the dessert and wine
+are on the table, which is pushed back to make plenty of room,
+and they are all gathered in a large circle round the fire, for
+it is then&mdash;the glasses being filled, and everybody ready to
+drink the toast&mdash;that two great-grandchildren rush out at a
+given signal, and presently return, dragging in old Jane Adams
+leaning upon her crutched stick, and trembling with age and
+pleasure.&nbsp; Who so popular as poor old Jane, nurse and
+story-teller in ordinary to two generations; and who so happy as
+she, striving to bend her stiff limbs into a curtsey, while tears
+of pleasure steal down her withered cheeks!</p>
+<p>The old couple sit side by side, and the old time seems like
+yesterday indeed.&nbsp; Looking back upon the path they have
+travelled, its dust and ashes disappear; the flowers that
+withered long ago, show brightly again upon its borders, and they
+grow young once more in the youth of those about them.</p>
+<h2><a name="page493"></a><span class="pagenum">p.
+493</span>CONCLUSION</h2>
+<p><span class="smcap">We</span> have taken for the subjects of
+the foregoing moral essays, twelve samples of married couples,
+carefully selected from a large stock on hand, open to the
+inspection of all comers.&nbsp; These samples are intended for
+the benefit of the rising generation of both sexes, and, for
+their more easy and pleasant information, have been separately
+ticketed and labelled in the manner they have seen.</p>
+<p>We have purposely excluded from consideration the couple in
+which the lady reigns paramount and supreme, holding such cases
+to be of a very unnatural kind, and like hideous births and other
+monstrous deformities, only to be discreetly and sparingly
+exhibited.</p>
+<p>And here our self-imposed task would have ended, but that to
+those young ladies and gentlemen who are yet revolving singly
+round the church, awaiting the advent of that time when the
+mysterious laws of attraction shall draw them towards it in
+couples, we are desirous of addressing a few last words.</p>
+<p>Before marriage and afterwards, let them learn to centre all
+their hopes of real and lasting happiness in their own fireside;
+let them cherish the faith that in home, and all the English
+virtues which the love of home engenders, lies the only true
+source of domestic felicity; let them believe that round the
+household gods, contentment and tranquillity cluster in their
+gentlest and most graceful forms; and that many weary hunters of
+happiness through the noisy world, have learnt this truth too
+late, and found a cheerful spirit and a quiet mind only at home
+at last.</p>
+<p>How much may depend on the education of daughters and the
+conduct of mothers; how much of the brightest part of our old
+national character may be perpetuated by their wisdom or
+frittered away by their folly&mdash;how much of it may have been
+lost already, and how much more in danger of vanishing every
+day&mdash;are questions too weighty for discussion here, but well
+deserving a little serious consideration from all young couples
+nevertheless.</p>
+<p>To that one young couple on whose bright destiny the thoughts
+of nations are fixed, may the youth of England look, and not in
+vain, for an example.&nbsp; From that one young couple, blessed
+and favoured as they are, may they learn that even the glare and
+glitter of a court, the splendour of a palace, and the pomp and
+glory of a throne, yield in their power of conferring happiness,
+to domestic worth and virtue.&nbsp; From that one young couple
+may they learn that the crown of a great empire, costly and
+jewelled though it be, gives place in the estimation of a Queen
+to the plain gold ring that links her woman&rsquo;s nature to
+that of tens of thousands of her humble subjects, and guards in
+her woman&rsquo;s heart one secret store of tenderness, whose
+proudest boast shall be that it knows no Royalty save
+Nature&rsquo;s own, and no pride of birth but being the child of
+heaven!</p>
+<p>So shall the highest young couple in the land for once hear
+the truth, when men throw up their caps, and cry with loving
+shouts&mdash;</p>
+<p style="text-align: center"><span class="smcap">God bless
+them</span>.</p>
+<p>***END OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK SKETCHES OF YOUNG COUPLES***</p>
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