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-The Project Gutenberg eBook of Our Changing Morality, by Various
-
-This eBook is for the use of anyone anywhere in the United States and
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-Title: Our Changing Morality
- A Symposium
-
-Author: Various
-
-Editor: Freda Kirchwey
-
-Release Date: March 20, 2022 [eBook #67662]
-
-Language: English
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-*** START OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK OUR CHANGING MORALITY ***
-
-
-
-
-
- OUR
- CHANGING MORALITY
- _A SYMPOSIUM_
-
- EDITED BY
- FREDA KIRCHWEY
-
-
- ALBERT & CHARLES BONI
- NEW YORK 1924
-
-
-
-
- COPYRIGHT, 1924, BY ALBERT & CHARLES BONI, INC.
-
- _Printed in the United States of America by_
- J. J. LITTLE AND IVES COMPANY, NEW YORK
-
-
-
-
-INTRODUCTION
-
-BY FREDA KIRCHWEY
-
-
-The subject of sex has been treated in this generation with a strange,
-rather panic-stricken lack of balance. Obscenity hawks its old wares
-at one end of the road and dogmatic piety shouts warnings at the
-other--while between is chaos. And the chaos extends beyond ideas and
-talk, beyond novels and scenarios and Sunday feature stories, into the
-realm of actual conduct. Religion has indeed found substantial matter
-for its words of caution and disapproval: never in recent generations
-have human beings so floundered about outside the ropes of social and
-religious sanctions.
-
-But while John Roach Straton and Billy Sunday point a pleasant way
-toward hell, while sensationalism finds in new manners of life subject
-for five-inch headlines, and while modern novelists make their modern
-characters stumble through pages of inner conflict to ends of darkness
-and desperation, a few people are at work quietly sorting out the
-elements of chaos and holding fragments of conduct up in the sun and
-air to find what they really are made of.
-
-No one seeks to argue chaos away. Certainly Mr. Straton and Mr. Sunday
-are right: Men and women are ignoring old laws. In their relations
-with each other they are living according to tangled, conflicting
-codes. Remnants of early admonitions and relationships, the dictates of
-custom, the behavior of their friends, their own tastes and desires,
-elusive dreams of a loveliness not provided for by rules--all these are
-scrambling to fill the gap that was left when Right and Wrong finally
-followed the other absolute monarchs to an empty, nominal existence
-somewhere in exile. But the traditional, ministerial method with chaos
-was not Jehovah’s method. He brought order and light into the world;
-but the way of our current moralists has been to clamp down the hatches
-even though “sin” bubbled beneath. A few courageous, matter-of-fact
-glances into the depths have been embodied in the articles in this
-volume. The men and women who have written them have approached the
-subject variously; the fragments they have brought up to examine do
-not necessarily fit together. But none of these writers is afraid to
-saunter up to the edge and see what moral disorder looks like.
-
-Some of them find it thoroughly disagreeable. They believe that old
-laws were born of old desires and find their sanctions in the emotions
-of men. They seek for new and rational ways back to the sort of
-stability provided by the traditional relationships of men and women.
-Others find in contemporary manners merely the disorder incident to
-reconstruction; they find there tentative beginnings rather than
-ruinous endings. They see chaos as an interesting laboratory, filled
-with strange ferments and the pungent odors of new compounds. None of
-these writers offers dogmatic conclusions--and in this they differ
-delightfully from our most popular novelists and preachers. They
-present facts, they analyze and interpret; they suggest directions,
-they even prophesy. But they never announce or warn or reprove. When
-these chapters first appeared as articles in _The Nation_ it became
-evident that this exercise of thought was itself commonly held to be
-a simple blasphemy. Letters from readers came in scores charging the
-articles with the sin of intelligence where only faith and conformity
-were tolerable. Dogma is so deep in the bone of even the more
-enlightened and adult members of our modern world that the most modest
-doubt regarding the success of monogamy or the virtue of chastity
-becomes in some way an insult to Moses or Saint Paul.
-
-It is interesting to see how many of the authors of this group of
-articles find a connection between the changing standards of sex
-behavior and the increasing freedom of women. Are women forcing this
-change? Or does freedom itself make change inevitable? Possibly only
-the woman in the isolation of the home is able to sustain the double
-load of her own virtue and her husband’s ideals. Out in the world,
-in contact and competition with men, she is forced to discriminate;
-questions are thrust upon her. The old rules fail to work; bewildering
-inconsistencies confront her. Things that were sure become unsure. And
-slowly, clumsily, she is trying to construct a way out to a new sort of
-certainty in life; she is seeking something to take the place of the
-burden of solemn ideals and reverential attitudes that rolled off her
-shoulders when she emerged. That some such process may be going on is
-hinted at in more than one of these articles. Certainly, of the factors
-involved in modern sex relations, women and economic conditions are the
-two that have suffered the most revolutionary change; and men’s morals
-must largely shape themselves to the patterns laid down by these two
-masters of life.
-
-Much has been said about sex--and everything remains to be said.
-Largely, new conclusions will be reached through new processes of
-living. People will act--and then a new code will grow up. But along
-the way guidance and interpretation are deeply needed, if only to take
-the place of the pious imprecations of those who fear life and hate the
-dangers and uncertainties of thought and emotion.
-
-
-
-
-CONTENTS
-
- PAGE
-
- INTRODUCTION v
- _By Freda Kirchwey_
-
- STYLES IN ETHICS 3
- _By Bertrand Russell_
-
- MODERN MARRIAGE 19
- _By Arthur Garfield Hays_
-
- CHANGES IN SEX RELATIONS 37
- _By Elsie Clews Parsons_
-
- TOWARD MONOGAMY 53
- _By Charlotte Perkins Gilman_
-
- WOMEN--FREE FOR WHAT? 69
- _By Edwin Muir_
-
- VIRTUE AND WOMEN 85
- _By Isabel Leavenworth_
-
- WHERE ARE THE FEMALE GENIUSES? 107
- _By Sylvia Kopald_
-
- MAN AND WOMAN AS CREATORS 129
- _By Alexander Goldenweiser_
-
- DOMINANT SEXES 147
- _By M. Vaerting_
-
- MODERN LOVE AND MODERN FICTION 167
- _By J. W. Krutch_
-
- CAN MEN AND WOMEN BE FRIENDS? 183
- _By Floyd Dell_
-
- LOVE AND MARRIAGE 197
- _By Ludwig Lewisohn_
-
- COMMUNIST PURITANS 207
- _By Louis Fischer_
-
- STEREOTYPES 219
- _By Florence Guy Seabury_
-
- WOMEN AND THE NEW MORALITY 235
- _By Beatrice M. Hinkle_
-
-
-
-
- Styles in Ethics
- By Bertrand Russell
-
-
-
-
-Hon. Bertrand Arthur William Russell
-
-_is a mathematician, writer, and lecturer on international affairs and
-problems of government. Born at Trellech, England, May 18th, 1872.
-F.R.S. 1908; Late Lecturer and Fellow Trinity College, Cambridge. Heir
-presumptive to 2nd Earl Russell. Author of “German Social Democracy,”
-1896; “Essay on the Foundation of Geometry,” 1897; “Philosophy of
-Leibnitz,” 1900; “Principles of Mathematics,” 1903; with D. A. N.
-Whitehead, “Principia Mathematica,” 1910; “Our Knowledge of the
-External World as a Field for Scientific Method in Philosophy,” 1914;
-“Principles of Social Reconstruction,” 1917; “Why Men Fight,” 1917;
-“Mysticism and Logic,” 1918; “Roads to Freedom,” 1918; “Introduction
-to Mathematical Philosophy,” 1919; “The Practice and Theory of
-Bolshevism,” 1920; “The Analysis of the Mind,” 1921; “The Problem of
-China,” 1922; “The A. B. C. of Atoms,” 1923; “Icarus, or the Future of
-Science,” 1924._
-
-
-
-
-OUR CHANGING MORALITY
-
-
-
-
-STYLES IN ETHICS
-
-BY BERTRAND RUSSELL
-
-
-In all ages and nations positive morality has consisted almost wholly
-of prohibitions of various classes of actions, with the addition
-of a small number of commands to perform certain other actions.
-The Jews, for example, prohibited murder and theft, adultery and
-incest, the eating of pork and seething the kid in its mother’s
-milk. To us the last two precepts may seem less important than the
-others, but religious Jews have observed them far more scrupulously
-than what seem to us fundamental principles of morality. South Sea
-Islanders could imagine nothing more utterly wicked than eating
-out of a vessel reserved for the use of the chief. My friend Dr.
-Brogan made a statistical investigation into the ethical valuations
-of undergraduates in certain American colleges. Most considered
-Sabbath-breaking more wicked than lying, and extra-conjugal sexual
-relations more wicked than murder. The Japanese consider disobedience
-to parents the most atrocious of crimes. I was once at a charming spot
-on the outskirts of Kioto with several Japanese socialists, men who
-were among the most advanced thinkers in the country. They told me that
-a certain well beside which we were standing was a favorite spot for
-suicides, which were very frequent. When I asked why so many occurred
-they replied that most were those of young people in love whose parents
-had forbidden them to marry. To my suggestion that perhaps it would
-be better if parents had less power they all returned an emphatic
-negative. To Dr. Brogan’s undergraduates this power of Japanese parents
-to forbid love would seem monstrous, but the similar power of husbands
-or wives would seem a matter of course. Neither they nor the Japanese
-would examine the question rationally; both would decide unthinkingly
-on the basis of moral precepts learned in youth.
-
-When we study in the works of anthropologists the moral precepts which
-men have considered binding in different times and places we find the
-most bewildering variety. It is quite obvious to any modern reader
-that most of these customs are absurd. The Aztecs held that it was a
-duty to sacrifice and eat enemies captured in war, since otherwise
-the light of the sun would go out. The Book of Leviticus enjoins that
-when a married man dies without children his brother shall marry the
-widow, and the first son born shall count as the dead man’s son. The
-Romans, the Chinese, and many other nations secured a similar result by
-adoption. This custom originated in ancestor-worship; it was thought
-that the ghost would make himself a nuisance unless he had descendants
-(real or putative) to worship him. In India the remarriage of widows
-is traditionally considered something too horrible to contemplate.
-Many primitive races feel horror at the thought of marrying any one
-belonging to one’s own totem, though there may be only the most distant
-blood-relationship. After studying these various customs it begins at
-last to occur to the reader that possibly the customs of his own age
-and nation are not eternal, divine ordinances, but are susceptible
-of change, and even, in some respects, of improvement. Books such as
-Westermarck’s “History of Human Marriage” or Müller-Lyer’s “Phasen
-der Liebe,” which relate in a scientific spirit the marriage customs
-that have existed and the reasons which have led to their growth and
-decay, produce evidence which must convince any rational mind that
-our own customs are sure to change and that there is no reason to
-expect a change to be harmful. It thus becomes impossible to cling to
-the position of many who are earnest advocates of _political_ reform
-and yet hold that reform in our moral precepts is not needed. Moral
-precepts, like everything else, can be improved, and the true reformer
-will be as open-minded in regard to them as in regard to other matters.
-
-Müller-Lyer, from the point of view of family institutions, divides
-the history of civilization into three periods--the clan period, the
-family period, and the personal period. Of these the last is only now
-beginning; the other two are each divided into three stages--early,
-middle, and late. He shows that sexual and family ethics have at all
-times been dominated by economic considerations; hunting, pastoral,
-agricultural, and industrial tribes or nations have each their own
-special kinds of institutions. Economic causes determine whether a
-tribe will practice polygamy, polyandry, group marriage, or monogamy,
-and whether monogamy will be lifelong or dissoluble. Whatever the
-prevailing practice in a tribe it is thought to be the only one
-compatible with virtue, and all departures from it are regarded with
-moral horror. Owing to the force of custom it may take a long time for
-institutions to adapt themselves to economic circumstances; the process
-of adaptation may take centuries. Christian sexual ethics, according to
-this author, belong to the middle-family period; the personal period,
-now beginning, has not yet been embodied in the laws of most Christian
-countries, and even the late-family period, since it admits divorce
-under certain circumstances, involves an ethic to which the church is
-usually opposed.
-
-Müller-Lyer suggests a general law to the effect that where the state
-is strong the family is weak and the position of women is good,
-whereas where the state is weak the family is strong and the position
-of women is bad. It is of course obvious that where the family is
-strong the position of women must be bad, and vice versa, but the
-connection of these with the strength or weakness of the state is less
-obvious, though probably in the main no less true. Traditional China
-and Japan afforded good instances. In both the state was much weaker
-than in modern Europe, the family much stronger, and the position of
-women much worse. It is true that in modern Japan the state is very
-strong, yet the family also is strong and the position of women is
-bad; but this is a transitional condition. The whole tendency in Japan
-is for the family to grow weaker and the position of women to grow
-better. This tendency encounters grave difficulties. I met in Japan
-only one woman who appeared to be what we should consider emancipated
-in the West--she was charming, beautiful, high-minded, and prepared to
-make any sacrifice for her principles. After the earthquake in Tokio
-the officer in charge of the forces concerned in keeping order in the
-district where she lived seized her and the man with whom she lived
-in a free union and her twelve-year-old nephew, whom he believed to be
-her son; he took them to the police station and there murdered them
-by slow strangulation, taking about ten minutes over each except the
-boy. In his account of the matter he stated that he had not had much
-difficulty with the boy, because he had succeeded in making friends
-with him on the way to the police station. The boy was an American
-citizen. At the funeral, the remains of all three were seized by armed
-reactionaries and destroyed, with the passive acquiescence of the
-police. The question whether the murderer deserved well of his country
-is now set in schools, half the children answering affirmatively.
-We have here a dramatic confrontation of middle-family ethics with
-personal ethics. The officer’s views were those of feudalism, which is
-a middle-family system; his victims’ views were those of the nascent
-personal period. The Japanese state, which belongs to the late-family
-period, disapproved of both.
-
-The middle-family system involves cruelty and persecution. The
-indissolubility of marriage results in appalling misery for the wives
-of drunkards, sadists, and brutes of all kinds, as well as great
-unhappiness for many men and the unedifying spectacle of daily quarrels
-for the unfortunate children of ill-assorted couples. It involves also
-an immense amount of prostitution, with its inevitable consequence of
-widespread venereal disease. It makes marriage, in most cases, a matter
-of financial bargain between parents, and virtually proscribes love.
-It considers sexual intercourse always justifiable within marriage,
-even if no mutual affection exists. It is impossible to be too thankful
-that this system is nearly extinct in the Western nations (except
-France). But it is foolish to pretend that this ideal held by the
-Catholic church and in some degree by most Protestant churches is a
-lofty one. It is intolerant, gross, cruel, and hostile to all the best
-potentialities of human nature. Nothing is gained by continuing to pay
-lip-service to this musty Moloch.
-
-The American attitude on marriage is curious. America, in the main,
-does not object to easy divorce laws, and is tolerant of those who
-avail themselves of them. But it holds that those who live in
-countries where divorce is difficult or impossible ought to submit to
-hardships from which Americans are exempt, and deserve to be held up to
-obloquy if they do not do so. An interesting example of this attitude
-was afforded by the treatment of Gorki when he visited the United
-States.
-
-There are two different lines of argument by which it is possible to
-attack the general belief that there are universal absolute rules of
-moral conduct, and that any one who infringes them is wicked. One
-line of argument emerges from the anthropological facts which we have
-already considered. Broadly speaking the views of the average man on
-sexual ethics are those appropriate to the economic system existing
-in the time of his great-grandfather. Morality has varied as economic
-systems have varied, lagging always about three generations behind. As
-soon as people realize this they find it impossible to suppose that
-the particular brand of marriage customs prevailing in their own age
-and nation represents eternal verities, whereas all earlier and later
-marriage customs, and all those prevailing in other latitudes and
-longitudes, are vicious and degraded. This shows that we ought to be
-prepared for changes in marriage customs, but does not tell us what
-changes we ought to desire.
-
-The second line of argument is more positive and more important.
-Popular morality--including that of the churches, though not that of
-the great mystics--lays down rules of conduct rather than ends of life.
-The morality that ought to exist would lay down ends of life rather
-than rules of conduct. Christ says: “Thou shalt love thy neighbor as
-thyself”; this lays down one of the ends of life. The Decalogue says:
-“Remember that thou keep holy the Sabbath Day”; this lays down a rule
-of action. Christ’s conduct to the woman taken in adultery showed the
-conflict between love and moral rules. All his priests, down to our own
-day, have gone directly contrary to his teachings on this point, and
-have shown themselves invariably willing to cast the first stone. The
-belief in the importance of rules of conduct is superstitious; what
-is important is to care for good ends. A good man is a man who cares
-for the happiness of his relations and friends, and, if possible, for
-that of mankind in general, or, again, a man who cares for art and
-science. Whether such a man obeys the moral rules laid down by the Jews
-thousands of years ago is quite unimportant. Moreover a man may obey
-all these rules and yet be extremely bad.
-
-Let us take some illustrations. I have a friend, a high-minded man,
-who has taken part in arduous and dangerous enterprises of great
-public importance and is almost unbelievably kind in all his private
-relations. This man has a wife who is a dipsomaniac, who has become
-imbecile, and has to be kept in an institution. She cannot divorce him
-because she is imbecile; he cannot divorce her because she affords
-him no ground for divorce. He does not consider himself morally bound
-to her and is therefore, from a conventional point of view, a wicked
-man. On the other hand a man who is perpetually drunk, who kicks his
-wife when she is pregnant, and begets ten imbecile children, is not
-generally regarded as particularly wicked. A business man who is
-generous to all his employees but falls in love with his stenographer
-is wicked; another who bullies his employees but is faithful to his
-wife is virtuous. This attitude is rank superstition, and it is high
-time that it was got rid of.
-
-Sexual morality, freed from superstition, is a simple matter. Fraud and
-deceit, assault, seduction of persons under age, are proper matters for
-the criminal law. Relations between adults who are free agents are a
-private matter, and should not be interfered with either by the law or
-by public opinion, because no outsider can know whether they are good
-or bad. When children are involved the state becomes interested to the
-extent of seeing that they are properly educated and cared for, and it
-ought to insure that the father does his duty by them in the way of
-maintenance. But neither the state nor public opinion ought to insist
-on the parents living together if they are incompatible; the spectacle
-of parents’ quarrels is far worse for children than the separation of
-the parents could possibly be.
-
-The ideal to be aimed at is not life-long monogamy enforced by legal
-or social penalties. The ideal to be aimed at is that all sexual
-intercourse should spring from the free impulse of both parties, based
-upon mutual inclination and nothing else. At present a woman who sells
-herself successively to different men is branded as a prostitute,
-whereas a woman who sells herself for life to one rich man whom she
-does not love becomes a respected society leader. The one is exactly
-as bad as the other. The individual should not be condemned in either
-case; but the institutions producing the individual’s action should be
-condemned equally in both cases. The cramping of love by institutions
-is one of the major evils of the world. Every person who allows himself
-to think that an adulterer must be wicked adds his stone to the prison
-in which the source of poetry and beauty and life is incarcerated by
-“priests in black gowns.”
-
-Perhaps there is not, strictly speaking, any such thing as “scientific”
-ethics. It is not the province of science to decide on the ends of
-life. Science can show that an ethic is unscientific, in the sense that
-it does not minister to any desired end. Science also can show how to
-bring the interest of the individual into harmony with that of society.
-We make laws against theft, in order that theft may become contrary to
-self-interest. We might, on the same ground, make laws to diminish the
-number of imbecile children born into the world. There is no evidence
-that existing marriage laws, particularly where they are very strict,
-serve any social purpose; in this sense we may say that they are
-unscientific. But to proclaim the ends of life, and make men conscious
-of their value, is not the business of science; it is the business of
-the mystic, the artist, and the poet.
-
-
-
-
-Modern Marriage and Ancient Laws
-
-By Arthur Garfield Hays
-
-
-Arthur Garfield Hays
-
-_is an attorney practicing in New York City. He was manager of the New
-York State La Follette campaign, 1924._
-
-
-
-
-MODERN MARRIAGE AND ANCIENT LAWS
-
-BY ARTHUR GARFIELD HAYS
-
-
-“Are we married?” This was a query recently put to a New York lawyer.
-The woman wanted to have been married, but wished not to be married
-any longer; at the same time she rather objected to a divorce. The man
-did not care much about it, so long as he could marry, or marry again,
-without too much inconvenience arising from the earlier entanglement.
-The lawyer’s answer was so obvious that it might have been made by a
-layman: “How do I know?”
-
-The two had been living together, had called each other husband and
-wife, and had in general passed as such, but at the beginning of the
-relationship each had felt that if one wanted to be free the other
-would not hold him or her; it was agreed that they should have no
-financial responsibility for each other and that there should be
-nothing about the arrangement which would make it last “till death
-do us part.” In speaking of themselves as “husband and wife” they had
-intended the words to represent merely a formula of their own.
-
-Now common-law marriage as recognized in New York State consists in a
-meeting of the minds--a contract. Thus, if two people live together
-as husband and wife this may be evidence of a common-law marriage. No
-formal agreement is necessary. But if there has not been even a private
-agreement of marriage their living together would be unimportant. If
-they wished to separate they would need no divorce, for they would
-never have been married. By passing as husband and wife they might
-gain the social advantages that come from a recognized relationship,
-and, since there had been no definite agreement, they might save the
-inconvenience of divorce if they wished to separate. Difficulty arises
-only when both parties do not agree that there was no agreement.
-Sometimes one party claims there was and the other that there was not.
-Then the very indefiniteness of the tie means added difficulty and
-publicity in breaking it.
-
-In order to avoid future disagreement one couple made a contract in
-which they stated that they lived as husband and wife in order to avoid
-social stigma, but that as between themselves there was no agreement
-of marriage. The situation was trying because they always felt they
-were living a lie. Their answer was that society foolishly demanded
-either a penalty or a form and they preferred to provide the form.
-Fortunately, neither ever had to swear to the status and they felt that
-this contract--which provided for future maintenance of the wife and
-custody of the children--solved the problem or doubt of a life-long
-relationship. To those who made ethical objection, they answered that
-they were willing to contract on matters which concerned their wills,
-but knew it was contrary to human nature to contract on matters which
-concerned their emotions.
-
-Not long ago in New York City a young woman who had scruples about
-promising to love a man forever expressed to the city clerk her
-unwillingness to use the form of marriage ceremony which he had
-produced committing her to love, honor, and cherish the man for the
-rest of his or her life. She said she was in good faith willing to
-contract to marry, and that she would do the best she could to make the
-marriage successful, but that was all; to which the clerk answered that
-if she were entering marriage in that spirit she should not be married
-at all. He was finally persuaded that the parties could be tied merely
-by agreement on her part to become the man’s wife and on his part to
-become her husband.
-
-If the law seems full of vagaries on the problem of entering marriage
-it is still more perplexing and technical when it concerns the question
-whether or not two people are still legally married when one has
-obtained a supposed divorce--so much so that it is not at all uncommon
-for a lawyer to be faced by a client asking whether or not he, or she,
-is really married. Some years ago a man was married in Philadelphia
-and later, having separated from his wife, went to New York. She
-obtained a decree of divorce in Pennsylvania, the papers having been
-served on him in New York. He married again and died a generation
-later, leaving a considerable fortune and three children by his second
-marriage. The first wife, or her attorneys, then discovered that the
-original divorce was not legal, since the Pennsylvania courts had not
-acquired a jurisdiction which would be recognized in New York. Since
-the man had left the estate to his “wife,” there were complications.
-As the question involved the meaning of a will, the matter was one of
-intention and it was not difficult to prove that the deceased intended
-as his beneficiary the woman whom he regarded as his wife. But had
-he owned real estate at the time of his divorce the first wife might
-have had a dower interest, and had his status become one of public
-importance his enemies might successfully have charged him with bigamy.
-
-Ordinarily, people are satisfied with a decree of divorce. It gives
-them the desired social status. Its technical legality becomes of
-importance only in connection with estates or the legitimacy of
-children. But a difficult question arises in case of remarriage.
-Legality depends upon the jurisdiction of the court. This can be
-acquired by personal service of papers upon the defendant within the
-State or a voluntary submission to the jurisdiction by appearing
-in the case personally or by attorney. But State courts claim and
-recognize their own jurisdiction even though papers are served outside
-the State. Under these latter circumstances, suppose a divorce granted
-a man in Utah is not recognized in New York. If he remarries in Utah he
-will have one wife there, while in New York another woman would be his
-wife and he would be obliged to support her there. If his wife in New
-York married again, she would be guilty of bigamy. In Utah it would be
-his duty to live with one woman. New York would attempt to make it his
-pleasure to live with another, and this on the ground of morality, for,
-although, ordinarily, the law of the place of the new marriage (in this
-case, Utah) would apply, yet this would result in his having two wives
-in New York. So on legal grounds we disregard the divorce, and on moral
-grounds we negative the second marriage.
-
-Foreign divorces raise the question not only of jurisdiction but
-of recognition by treaty of a judgment of the particular foreign
-country. For instance, judgments of French courts are not absolutely
-binding upon the courts of this country, as are the judgments of
-sister-States. In the case of Russia, where any two parties by
-agreement or a single person by request may become divorced, there is
-no treaty whatever. Occasionally, cases arise where persons abroad have
-obtained a decree for a rabbinical divorce. Under the old Jewish custom
-a rabbi could pronounce a divorce and the law of the state permitted a
-decree to be entered upon his pronouncement. Some states and countries
-make bids for the divorce business; not long ago an advertisement
-appeared announcing that a divorce might be had in Yucatan for $25,
-not, of course, including the expense of travel. Questions of the
-effect of interlocutory and final judgments, of the provisions of
-a divorce decree forbidding remarriage within a certain period, of
-the _bona fides_ of residence, of the jurisdiction of the court, of
-treaties with foreign countries may make it difficult to answer the
-question whether or not two people are legally married.
-
-All this confusion represents a beating of wings against a cage--an
-endeavor to obtain a legal paper with a red seal which will avoid a
-situation which two people find intolerable. We are tending toward a
-new moral conception of the marriage relationship, well expressed by
-Premier Zahle of Denmark when submitting a new liberal divorce law: “It
-is based on the fundamental conception that it is morally indefensible
-to maintain a marriage relation by legal statute where all the real
-bonds between the parties are broken. This is a measure which certainly
-means a great step forward in the recognition of marriage as a moral
-relation.”
-
-Marriage is a status resulting from a civil contract, but very few
-people who enter into it know what this contract is. It assumes
-certain rights and obligations. What are they? That the wage-earner
-will provide. This is enforcible, at least theoretically. What else?
-That the parties live in an emotional and mental state designated by
-an agreement “to love, honor, and cherish,” and, sometimes, “obey.”
-This is obviously unenforcible. (I make this assertion despite the
-recent Texas case in which a husband obtained an injunction restraining
-his wife’s employer from flirting with her.) The contract continues
-for life, subject to termination for causes which depend chiefly
-upon the place of residence, actual or acquired. If they live in
-South Carolina and stay there, the contract is indissoluble. In New
-York the contract may be terminated for adultery, unless the other
-party has likewise sought refuge outside of marriage; in Alabama, for
-habitual drunkenness; in Nevada, for neglect to provide for one year;
-in Kentucky and New Hampshire, for joining a religious sect which
-believes marriages unlawful; in New Jersey, for extreme cruelty; in
-Wisconsin, if the parties have voluntarily lived separately for five
-years; in Massachusetts and a host of other States, for desertion; in
-Pennsylvania and Oregon, for personal indignities or conduct rendering
-life burdensome; in Vermont, for intolerable severity; in France, if
-the parties have other emotional interests; in Denmark, by consent;
-in Russia, by request. Of course, in most of these states there are
-other grounds, but the result is that either party can bring about a
-situation which permits divorce or can make life so intolerable for
-the other that he or she consents to it. But these grounds must arise
-subsequent to marriage; the agreement cannot be made in advance.
-
-In life the duration of marriage depends upon the desires or consent
-of individuals. In law it is perpetual, subject to termination not
-by agreement made at the outset, or by later consent, but by court
-decree. At the time of entering into marriage people usually know
-merely that somehow, somewhere, some time there is a way out if the
-situation becomes too strained. Technically, since the contract is
-for life, a divorce is granted for a breach. Thus there is an implied
-term, as there is in every contract, that relief is granted for a
-breach--but what constitutes a breach depends not upon the terms of the
-contract or the law of the place where the contract is made but upon
-the jurisdiction where relief is sought--a matter of which the parties
-ordinarily know nothing when they make the contract. Convention seems
-to demand that the parties know not what they do.
-
-Modern society, this summary seems to show, has been moving toward
-freedom of contract in marriage. Those phases which concern the state,
-such as economic provision and children, must be conserved. But time
-was--and still is in some places--when marriage itself was a tribal
-or a state matter. Then it became a family matter, determined by
-the parents, and property and family rights and interests were the
-important considerations. But parents, knowing by experience that
-there can be no happiness without security--although there might
-be unhappiness with it--failed to take into sufficient account the
-emotional content, and, particularly in the Western World, there
-developed a certain freedom of contract in making a choice. To-day,
-when people have come to recognize the necessity of sexual and social
-compatibility, which cannot be determined in advance, there has come
-a demand for a further freedom of contract, to which society has
-responded by more liberal divorce laws. The laws which permit a divorce
-where parties have not lived together for a certain length of time make
-the duration of the marriage relation really a matter of consent. They
-mean in effect that a contract of marriage contains an implied term
-that it is to continue until the parties consent to its end, and in
-human relations this means until one party demands its end.
-
-If a person proposed that the law recognize a marriage contract which
-was to continue until either party desired its termination, he would
-be regarded as a wrecker of our institutions; but society is doing
-this very thing--obscurely, perhaps, as an after-effect, not as a
-preconceived design; blindly, and not with intelligent forethought.
-Many have suggested that marriages be made harder and divorces easier.
-But how revolutionary would seem a suggestion that marriage contracts
-be made in advance, conforming to the teachings of experience,
-providing for maintenance and custody of children and limited by the
-understanding of the parties; that those who, for religious or ethical
-reasons, wished to enter into a life contract be permitted to do so;
-that those who wished to enter into a contract to terminate by joint
-consent or at the option of either party likewise be permitted to do
-so? An objection that this would be dangerous assumes that people
-choose the present form only because compelled to do so. Individuals
-are breaking from the old conventions, and the law, usually a laggard
-by a generation, is following them. In forty-three States desertion is
-a ground for divorce; in twenty of them, desertion for one year. In
-seven States, failure or neglect to provide is a ground; in four of
-them, the period is one year. In some States, if the parties live apart
-for a certain length of time--in three of them for five years--that
-is ground for divorce. Is not this divorce by agreement? And by
-implication, since living together requires the willingness of two
-parties, the result is a contract which may be ended by either of the
-parties at any time he or she sees fit--after an intervening cooling
-period. Thus does freedom creep in by the back door.
-
-Does this work harm to society? There is little difference in the
-marital or social conditions or in the welfare of children in Norway
-and Sweden, where there are liberal laws, and in England, where divorce
-is a long, complicated, and expensive process. No one could discover
-that he had crossed the State line from New York to Pennsylvania by
-observation of the state of society, the happiness or apparent duration
-of marriage, the welfare of children, or the social conventions of
-the people. Yet in Pennsylvania there was one divorce for every 10.2
-marriages in 1922 and only one for every 22.6 in New York. In South
-Carolina there are no divorces; in Oregon, the number of marriages
-to one divorce was 2.6; in Wyoming, 3.9; in California, 5.1. In the
-District of Columbia, the banner section, there were 35.8 marriages
-to one divorce. There, as in New York, the only ground is adultery.
-Yet San Francisco society seems as stable as that of Washington. Of
-course, the figures do not mean that seven times as many Washington
-couples as California couples, and four times as many New York couples,
-make a success of marriage or live together when it has ceased to be a
-success; but rather, that New Yorkers and Washingtonians solve their
-marital troubles elsewhere than at home. Thus, in Nevada in 1922 there
-were more divorces than marriages, because people married in other
-States repented in Nevada.
-
-Whatever effect it may have on society, the extension of grounds for
-divorce which has taken place in the last decade, and the modern
-improvement in communication and travel, which opens other States or
-foreign countries to an increasing number, brings about a situation
-by which people, though not free to contract, do avail themselves
-of means which have the same effect. Revolutionary changes occur
-unnoticed, while our delusions persist and our sense of conservatism is
-gratified.
-
-
-
-
-Changes in Sex Relations
-
-By Elsie Clews Parsons
-
-
-
-
-Elsie Clews Parsons
-
-_is widely known as an anthropologist and writer. She has contributed
-largely to scientific journals and in 1922 edited the volume on
-American Indian Life by various students of the subject. Graduated
-from Barnard 1896; Ph.D. Columbia 1899. Fellow and Lecturer in
-Sociology at Barnard; Lecturer in Anthropology in New School for
-Social Research. She is editor of the_ Journal of American Folklore;
-_Treasurer of American Ethnological Society; President of Folk Lore
-Society. Is author of “The Family”; “The Old-Fashioned Woman”; “Fear
-and Conventionality”; “Social Freedom” and “Social Rule.”_
-
-
-
-
-CHANGES IN SEX RELATIONS
-
-BY ELSIE CLEWS PARSONS
-
-
-The other day I listened to a conversation on marriage and divorce
-between a well-known feminist, her daughter, and an Episcopal
-clergyman. The celibate cleric and the younger woman were in fair
-accord: the institution of marriage was invaluable to society and had
-to be protected. Let there be no divorce, said the cleric, on any
-ground, at least within the church; children should be cared for by
-both parents, divorce being sought only as an ultimate recourse, said
-the girl, who was two years married and had a son.
-
-The feminist was biding her time. Finally she said: “So much for the
-institution. What of the actual sex life? No divorce and continence or
-no divorce and intimacy with another?”
-
-“The first, of course,” said the cleric.
-
-“Not at all; the second,” said the girl. “And you, mother?”
-
-“Oh, on the whole I’m for the brittle marriage as against the lax, the
-American way against the European. But most of all I am for tolerance
-in sex relations and for respecting privacy. Why not all kinds of
-relations for all kinds of persons? Just as there are now, but with
-respect or tolerance for the individual and without hypocrisy.”
-
-“Even if we did not agree,” the cleric said later to the feminist, “we
-could talk about it as twenty years ago we could not. So much to the
-good.”
-
-“So much to the bad,” said the girl’s father, still later; “better for
-all of us the old reserve.” The speaker was a lawyer with divorce cases
-in his practice.
-
-Had we not here a mingling of currents from law, the church, feminism,
-and the younger generation which illustrates what divergency of
-attitude on sex and sex institutions or practices may exist to-day,
-even within the same cultural and local circle? Include circles of
-different education and locality and although the range of difference
-would be no larger the expressions of opinion would vary. Is the
-variation in opinion due to variation in experience or is it due
-to that contemporaneous lifting of the taboo on discussion which
-characterizes not only our talk about sex but about other interests as
-well? A remarkable and indisputable change of attitude, this release
-from verbal taboo, which often gives us a sense of change in general
-greater perhaps than the facts themselves warrant.
-
-In the conversation I quoted the women were on the whole the radicals,
-the men on the whole the conservatives. This alignment was far from
-typical, I think, and yet in contemporaneous life, whether or not
-in opinion, women have been the exponents of cultural change in sex
-relations. The increase in the divorce rate, it seems probable, has
-been effected predominantly by women; about two-thirds of the total
-number of divorces are granted to women. (Of course the tradition that
-it is decent for the man to let the woman get the divorce must not be
-ignored in this connection.) This increase in divorce may indicate a
-changing attitude toward the criteria of marriage on the part of women.
-Women may be demanding more of marriage than in the day when they had
-little to expect but marriage. In other words, marriage standards mount
-as marriage has other relations to compete with. At any rate in the
-talk of women it seems to me that desire for integral satisfaction
-in marriage is more consciously or realistically expressed than ever
-before. Emotional and sexual appeasements are considered as well as
-social or economic advantage. What of the part played by women in
-changes in sex relations outside marriage?
-
-Unfortunately, we have no dependable statistics of prostitution, but
-whatever decrease there has been in prostitution, and opinion is that
-with the passing of segregated districts there has been a decrease,
-may be, on the whole, put down to women, if only indirectly through an
-increase in illicit relations. Illicit relations are not subject to
-statistics, but that there has been an increase in them in this country
-in this century will be generally accepted, likewise that in this, too,
-the increase is due to women, alike more willing to participate in such
-relations and more tolerant of them in others. Again those curious
-suits for alienation of affection appear to be brought against women
-as much as against men; and theories of seduction by men have long
-since been sounding archaic to our ears. Even on the screen, the great
-present vehicle of traditional manners and morals, although rape is
-always in order, seduction is infrequent. Seduction with its complement
-of marital honor has been rendered an anachronism, through women.
-
-The theory of seduction is affiliated with the proprietary theory of
-woman and, needless to say, this general theory has been undergoing
-considerable change for several decades. To-day women are not only not
-property, they are property holders, and property holding has become a
-significant factor in the social independence of women. Of this social
-independence, independence in mating is the most recent expression,
-more recent even than political independence, and less fully realized
-or accomplished. Indeed it would be rash to predict how this type of
-independence may be expected to come about; apart from the gesture,
-sometimes gay, sometimes merely comic, of keeping one’s name in
-marriage, there is no conscious feministic movement, in this country at
-least, toward freedom in sex. The political emancipation of women came
-to us as a reflex from abroad, largely through England. Whatever the
-political effect of militancy in England, without the advertisement
-of the British suffragette American women would be voteless to-day.
-Quite likely the direction of emancipation in mating may be determined
-likewise from abroad, perhaps from innovating Scandinavia or from
-Soviet Russia, where the last legal word has been said on sex equality.
-
-In the soviet laws on marriage and domestic relations there is no
-mention of suit for breach of promise or for alimony whereby woman
-proclaims herself a chattel, and according to the soviet code husband
-as well as wife is entitled to support if incapacitated for work.
-Incapacity for work is the sole condition which entitles either spouse
-to support. In other words, the Russian state has interested itself
-not in maintaining the proprietary theory of woman; but in providing
-for the care of man or woman in distress. Of such clear distinction
-American law is innocent. In American law the husband is still the
-provider and in this law lags but little behind current opinion, which
-holds that a married woman should work only when she has to. Dr.
-Herskowits tells me that this American attitude is so well represented
-in the Negro population of Harlem that in gathering statistics of
-employment as soon as he learns the occupation of the husband he can
-predict whether or not the wife is at work. Low-paid employment for
-the husband means wage-earning by the wife, and highly paid employment
-means that the woman is not a wage-earner. Surveys in other parts of
-the country have shown the same condition. These surveys have been
-made among wage-earners, and concerned primarily with the margin of
-subsistence; but familiar enough is the record in other economic
-classes of the persuasion that marriage exempts a woman from industry
-or professional activity. The standing controversies about married
-women as school-teachers are fully documented instances. The Harvard
-prize play acted last year on Broadway hinged on the rigidity of the
-alternative of a man marrying and sacrificing his career or pursuing
-his career and sacrificing his love. There was not the faintest
-suggestion that the woman might contribute to the family income and so
-render marriage and career economically compatible. The young couple,
-to be sure, belonged to smart Suburbia, economically a conservative
-circle; but there was no indication in the play that the university
-intelligentsia did not hold to the theory of wifely parasitism, nor
-that audiences might question the theory. And I incline to think that
-few in those Broadway audiences, although drawn as they were from
-fairly composite circles, did question. Wifely parasitism is holding
-its own.
-
-In less invidious terms, where income permits, the wife continues to
-be the consumer, the husband the producer. Conjugal partnership in
-production, familiar in Europe, remains by and large unfamiliar in
-this country. Outside of marriage, on the other hand, the last years
-have seen considerable lessening in our American forms of segregating
-the sexes. Not only has there been an increase of women in gainful
-occupations together with an increase of occupations open to women, but
-between men and women in business and in the professions relations are
-increasingly less restricted, influenced less by sex taboo. There is
-more coöperation, more goodwill, more companionship.
-
-Possibly this companionship between the sexes at large will have a
-reflex upon marriage, and marriage will become a more comprehensive
-partnership. The question of the married woman in gainful occupations
-is related, however, to a larger economic issue. Our capitalistic and
-competitive economy not only suffers parasites and drones, it compels
-them by reason of its inelasticity in providing for part-time labor.
-The whole workday or no work at all is the notice given to women who
-would be part-day home-keepers, either in their child-bearing years or
-because of other family exigency, as well as to men who are aging or
-invalid. For this economic waste and loss to personal happiness and
-welfare there seems to be no promise of relief in prospect. Just the
-opposite, in fact, for women, since, given the increasing mechanization
-of housekeeping and the ramifying organization of hospital, nursery,
-and school, women at home may have a larger and larger part of the day
-on their hands and their functions become less and less significant.
-In this connection birth control has been for some time an important
-factor. As knowledge of contraception becomes surer and more widespread
-and births more spaced, even during her child-bearing period the
-home-staying woman will have less and less call on her vitality and
-energy.
-
-Discussion of contraception has been active in the last decade or
-so; but curiously enough its significance aside from contributing
-to directly saner ways of life[1] has been little realized. Birth
-control makes possible such clear-cut distinctions between mating and
-parenthood that it might be expected to produce radical changes in
-theories of sex attitude or relationship, forcing the discard of many
-an argument for personal suppression for the good of children or the
-honor of the family, and forcing redefinition of concepts of honor
-and sincerity between the sexes. In such redefinition reciprocity in
-passion, emotional integrity, and mutual enhancement of life might
-share in the approval once confined to constancy, fidelity, and duty,
-virtues that are obviously suggested by the hit or miss system of
-mating and reproducing our social organization has favored. With little
-or no self-knowledge or knowledge of men, a girl often marries in
-order to find out how much she cares or whether or not she qualifies,
-and then when her experience has but begun she finds herself an
-expectant mother, and maternity begins to supersede other interests.
-She may become a parent without the assurance of being well-mated, if
-not, more tragically, with the certainty of being mismated. Advocates
-of the monogamous family would do well to consider how essential to
-an enduring union, at least in our society, experience in love may
-be, together with restraint from child-bearing before experience is
-achieved.
-
-That neither such considerations nor other changes in the theory of sex
-morality have yet come to the fore in current discussion is perhaps
-because the technique of contraception is still in the experimental
-stage, perhaps because in popular consciousness the morality of
-contraception in itself is not fully established. How is it going
-to be established? I doubt if through rationalism or rationalistic
-propaganda. Social changes, we begin to know, are rarely due to
-deliberation, in any society. In our society they are due mainly to
-economic causes. Housing congestion in New York will in time affect
-birth-control legislation in Albany; and fear of an overpopulated
-world will drive church as well as state into a new attitude toward
-multiplying to the glory of God.
-
-As in birth control so in other matters of sex intimacy the growth
-of cities and the complexity of our economy may be the more potent
-factors of change. In very large communities there is an ignorance
-of the personal relations of others, an inevitable ignoring which
-contributes unconsciously to tolerance toward experiment and variation
-in sex relations. Indifference to the private life of others is almost
-an exigency of our economic organization. Attention is directed to the
-efficiency of the personality encountered and away from the individual
-means taken to induce that efficiency. What difference does it make
-to an employer how clerk or stenographer lives after hours provided
-he or she is competent, alert, and responsive to the business need?
-In office or in factory one may be but a cog in the machine and yet
-left larger personal freedom than in a more independent job in a small
-place or than in a household. Out of such urban influences--negatively,
-of indifference, and positively, of attention to personality _per
-se_--come opportunities for personal freedom that will set men and
-women to ordering their sex life to please themselves rather than to
-please society. That is, ordinary men and women; certain outstanding
-figures will have to continue to forego freedom. The President of the
-United States, presidents of banks or colleges, cinematograph stars,
-“society ladies,” now and again a clergyman or a prize-fighter--all
-these will continue to be observed closely in their private life, and,
-like the gods and goddesses of other cultures or times, will have to
-conform to popular preconceptions of marriage or celibacy, chastity or
-libertinism. For them, as for other personages in folk-lore, individual
-adjustment or variation would be out of the picture.
-
-
-FOOTNOTES:
-
-[1] Dr. Ogburn informs me that his recent and still unpublished
-analysis of the census of 1920 shows that in localities where birth
-control is presumedly practiced the marriage rate mounts. He states
-also that in the country at large there has been a higher marriage rate
-in the last census decade and that the age at marriage is earlier.
-
-
-
-
-Toward Monogamy
-
-By Charlotte Perkins Gilman
-
-
-
-
-Charlotte Perkins Gilman
-
-_feminist, philosopher, writer was born at Hartford, Conn., July 3rd,
-1860. Editor of the_ Forerunner _1909-1916; Author of “Women and
-Economics,” 1898; “In This, Our World,” 1898; “The Yellow Wall-Paper,”
-1899; “Concerning Children,” 1900; “The Home, Its Work and Influence,”
-1903; “Human Work,” 1904; “What Diantha Did,” 1910; “The Man-Made
-World,” 1910; “The Crux,” 1911; “Moving the Mountain,” 1911; “His
-Religion and Hers,” 1923._
-
-
-
-
-TOWARD MONOGAMY
-
-BY CHARLOTTE PERKINS GILMAN
-
-
-Physiologists tell us that in all our long ages of animal evolution
-we have not yet completed the physical changes incident to assuming
-an erect posture. Psychologists may as plainly see that in the short
-centuries of social evolution we have naturally failed to complete
-the changes incident to our growth from tribal to national and
-international relationships.
-
-Since we remained savages for some 90 per cent of the period of human
-life on earth, it is to be expected that the long-practiced tribal
-morals should have modified our characters more deeply than those
-evolved in the recent, varied, and fluctuating relationship of larger
-range. Yet we see, during the short period of progressive civilization,
-such swift and amazing development in some lines, such achievement in
-knowledge, in wealth, in ability, in breadth of thought, and nobility
-of feeling that our coincident stupidity and senseless misbehavior
-call for explanation.
-
-The main reason for this peculiar delay and irregularity in social
-evolution is that it has been limited to half the race, the other half
-being restricted to domestic industry and to the still lower level of
-misused sex. Our specialized knowledge, power, and skill are developed
-through the organic relationships of the social group; as are also
-those characteristics of mutual loyalty and love, of truth, honor, and
-courage which are as natural to a human society as the distinctive
-virtues of ants or beavers to their groups.
-
-Humanity’s major error, the exploitation of the female by the male,
-has not only kept her at the lowest step in social progress--solitary
-hand-labor in and for the family--but has resulted in excessive
-sex-development through prolonged misuse. This has made her
-ultra-feminine, to a degree often injurious to motherhood; and him
-ultra-masculine, his social advance confused, impeded, and repeatedly
-destroyed by his excessive emotions. In social morals he has of course
-outdistanced her, as he alone has entered into the relationships
-which develop them; but he has carefully exempted his essentially male
-activities from this elevating influence, maintaining that “all’s fair
-in love and war.” Of her, domestic morality demanded but one virtue,
-sex-loyalty; her mate or master taking it upon himself to be both judge
-and executioner in case of failure. She might be a liar and a coward,
-lazy, selfish, extravagant, or cruel, but if chaste these traits were
-overlooked. If unchaste, no array of other virtues was enough to save
-her. In her household labors she developed minor virtues natural to
-the position; a tireless industry, an instinct for cleanliness and
-order, with great capacity for self-denial and petty economy. Speaking
-broadly, of a race where the young, though necessarily inheriting
-from both parents, yet are divided almost from birth in training and
-experience, it may be said that the social virtues have belonged to
-men, the domestic virtues to women.
-
-Our present age, counting the incredible advance of the last century
-and the swift fruition of these immediate years, shows among its
-newly distinguishing social movements one of supreme importance.
-Within a hundred years women, in most civilized countries, have moved
-from domestic into social relationship. Such a sudden and enormous
-change, while inherently for the improvement of society, is naturally
-accompanied by much local and immediate dislocation in previously
-accepted conditions. Many are alarmed at what is considered “the danger
-to the home” resultant from the refusal of an increasing number of
-women to spend their lives as house-servants; they fear “the menace to
-the family” due to similarly increasing numbers of women who refuse
-compulsory motherhood; they are shocked at a looseness, even grossness,
-of behavior between the sexes which seems to threaten marriage
-itself. Few seem able to look beyond the present inconveniences to a
-specialized efficiency in household management which will raise the
-standard of public health and private comfort, with large reduction
-in the cost of living; to such general improvement in child-culture
-as will lift the average of citizenship and lower the death-rate
-appreciably; and to a rational and permanent basis for our monogamous
-marriage.
-
-To understand rightly this trying period, to be patient with its
-unavoidable reactions and excesses, to know what tendencies to approve
-and promote and what to condemn and oppose, requires some practical
-knowledge of biology and sociology. Men, though as yet beyond women
-in social morality, are unreliable judges in this time of change
-because their ox is gored--they are the ones who are losing a cherished
-possession. The overdeveloped sex instinct of men, requiring more
-than women were willing to give, has previously backed its demands
-by an imposing array of civil and religious laws requiring feminine
-submission, has not scrupled to use force or falsehood, and held final
-power through the economic dependence of women. It is easy to see that
-if women had been equally willing no such tremendous machinery of
-compulsion need have been evolved.
-
-But now that the woman no longer admits that “he shall rule over her,”
-and is able to modify the laws; now that she has become braver, and
-above all is attaining financial freedom, her previous master has no
-hold upon her beyond natural attraction and--persuasion. Toward this
-end he manifests an instant and vigorous activity. Whereas in the past
-women were taught that they had no such “imperative instincts” as men,
-and the wooer, even the husband, sought to preserve this impression,
-now it is quite otherwise. All that elaborate theory of feminine
-chastity, that worship of virginity, goes by the board, and women are
-given a reversed theory--that they are just the same as men, if not
-more so; our “double standard” is undoubled and ironed flat--to the
-level of masculine desire.
-
-Clothed in the solemn, newly invented terms of psychoanalysis, a theory
-of sex is urged upon us which bases all our activities upon this one
-function. It is exalted as not only an imperative instinct, but as
-_the_ imperative instinct, no others being recognized save the demands
-of the stomach. Surely never was a more physical theory disguised in
-the technical verbiage of “psychology.” We should not too harshly blame
-the ingenious mind of man for thinking up a new theory to retain what
-the old ones no longer assured him; nor too severely criticize the
-subject class, so newly freed, for committing the same excesses, the
-same eager imitations of the previous master, which history shows
-in any recently enfranchised people. Just as women have imitated the
-drug-habits of men, without the faintest excuse or reason, merely
-to show that they can, so are they imitating men’s sex habits, in
-large measure. Those who go too far in such excesses will presumably
-die without issue, doing no permanent harm to the stock. This wild
-excitement over sex, as if it were a new discovery peculiar to our
-time, will be allayed by further knowledge. Even a little study of the
-common facts of nature has a cooling and heartening influence.
-
-The essential facts are these: That all living forms show the tendency
-to maintain and to reproduce themselves; that some, in differing
-degree, show tendencies to vary and to improve; that after an immense
-period of reproduction without it (showing that as the “life force”
-it was quite unnecessary) the distinction of sex appeared as a means
-to freer variation and improvement; that the male characteristics of
-intense desire for the female, personal display, and intermasculine
-combat, as well as the female’s instinct of selection, are visible
-contributions to the major purpose of improvement; that in the higher
-and later life-forms further and more rapid improvement has been made
-through the development in the female of new organs and functions
-for the benefit of the young; through her alone have come the upward
-steps of viviparous birth, the marsupial pouch, and that crowning
-advantage, the mammary glands; the female solely is responsible for the
-development of nature’s aristocracy, Order Mammalia.
-
-In the human species she adds to her previous contributions to racial
-progress the invention of our primitive industries, which were evolved
-by her in service to the young, and later carried out by men into the
-trades and crafts which support human life. In the developing care
-and nurture of her children she laid the foundation for those social
-functions of government, education, and coöperative industry which are
-so vitally important to social progress that we have called the family
-“the unit of the state.”
-
-This is an error. The family is the prototype of the state, a tiny
-primitive state in itself, often quite inimical to the interests of
-the larger state which has developed through the wider interaction of
-individuals. The state does not elect families, tax families, punish
-families, nor thrive where physical inheritance is made the basis of
-authority. Where the family persists too powerfully, as in China, there
-is a commensurate lack in the vitality and efficiency of the state. By
-restricting women to the family relationship, with its compulsory woman
-service and domestic morality, we have checked and perverted social
-growth by keeping out of it the most effective factor in that growth,
-the mother.
-
-The world having been for so long dominated by the individualistic
-and combative male, with that vast increment of masculine thought and
-emotion embodied in our literature, our religion, our art, modifying
-all our ideals, it is not to be wondered at that the newly freed women
-are as yet unable to see their opportunity, their power, and their
-long-prevented sex duty--race improvement.
-
-The collapse of the arbitrary and unjust domestic morality of the past
-will presently be followed by recognition of the social morality of
-the future. Rightly discarding artificial standards of virtue based
-on the pleasure of men, we shall establish new ones based on natural
-law. Repudiating their duty to an owner and master, women have yet
-to accept and fulfill their duty to society, to the human race. This
-is not generally clear to them. In their legitimate rebellion against
-domestic service and compulsory sex-service they almost inevitably
-confuse these things with marriage, with which indeed they have been
-long synonymous. Some of our most valuable women, as well as many of
-negligible importance, speak of marriage as if it were an invention
-of Queen Victoria. Surely no excessive education is needed to learn
-that monogamy, among many of the higher carnivora and birds, is as
-natural a form of sex union as the polygamy of the grass eaters or
-the promiscuity among insects, reptiles, and fish. Monogamy appears
-when it is to the advantage of the young to have the continued care
-of both parents. This means that the parents share in the activities
-of supporting the family; it does not mean that the female becomes
-the servant of the male. Because of the united activities and mutual
-services of the pair love is developed, and stays. Such profound
-affection is found in some of these natural “marriages” that if one
-of a pair is killed the other will not mate again. Mated leopards
-or ostriches do not remain together because they are “Victorian” or
-“puritanical,” but because they like to. They could form as many and as
-variegated “free unions” as Greenwich Villagers if they choose; there
-is nothing to stop them.
-
-But natural monogamy is as free from sex service as from domestic
-service. The pairing species adhere to their mating season as do the
-polygamous ones, or even the promiscuous. Man is the only animal using
-this function out of season and apart from its essential purpose.
-These natural monogamists are not “ascetics.” They are not dominated
-by religious doctrine or civil law. They fulfill their natural desires
-with the utmost freedom, but these desires do not move them out of
-season.
-
-The human species, with all its immense advantages, has made many
-conspicuous missteps. Its eating habits are such as to have induced a
-wide assortment of wholly unnecessary diseases; its drinking habits
-are glaringly injurious; and its excessive indulgence in sex-waste has
-imperiled the life of the race.
-
-Domestic morality vaguely recognized some duty to society and sought
-through religion to limit masculine desires or at least to restrict
-their indulgence to marriage. But the desires of a vigorous polygamist
-are not easily restricted to one wife; and our polygamous period was
-far longer than that of the recently established monogamy. It is a most
-reassuring fact in social evolution that monogamy, naturally belonging
-to our species, has persisted among the common people and in popular
-ideals: even in “The Arabian Nights” the love story is always about
-one man and one woman, never of the mad passion for a harem! So with
-the accelerated progress of recent centuries monogamous union becomes
-accepted, and is carefully buttressed by the law, while religion, with
-commandments and ceremonies, does its best to establish “the sanctity
-of marriage.” But as religion, law, and family authority were all in
-the hands of men, they naturally interpreted that sanctity to suit
-themselves, ignored the religious restrictions, and so handled the law
-as to apply its penalties to but one party in a dual offense.
-
-Social morality requires the promotion of such lines of conduct as are
-beneficial to the maintenance and improvement of society. It will
-demand of both man and woman the full development of personal health
-and vigor, careful selection of the best mate by both, with recognition
-on her side of special responsibility as the natural arbiter. It
-will encourage such sex relations as are proved advantageous both to
-individual happiness and to the race. We are as yet so hag-ridden
-by domestic morality, with its arbitrary restrictions, and by the
-threats and punishments of law and religion, that we shrink from the
-broader biological judgment as if it involved blame, punishment,
-compulsory reform. Not at all. Men and women are no more to blame for
-being oversexed than a prize hog for being over-fat. The portly pig
-is not sick or wicked, he is merely overdeveloped in adipose tissue.
-Our condition does not call for condemnation, nor can we expect any
-sudden and violent change in our behavior resting on foolish ideals of
-celibacy, of self-denial, or of “sublimated sex.” It will take several
-generations of progressive selection, with widely different cultural
-influences, to reëstablish a normal sex development in _genus homo_,
-with its consequences in happier marriage, better children, and wide
-improvement in the public health.
-
-It is to this end, with all its widening range of racial progress, that
-social morality tends.
-
-
-
-
-Women--Free for What?
-
-By Edwin Muir
-
-
-
-
-Edwin Muir,
-
-_poet and essayist, has been assistant editor of the_ New Age
-(_London_) _as well as dramatic critic for the_ Scotsman _and the_
-Athenæum. _He was a frequent contributor to_ The Freeman.
-
-
-
-
-WOMEN--FREE FOR WHAT?
-
-BY EDWIN MUIR
-
-
-In the beginning of the Scottish Shorter Catechism there is a beautiful
-affirmation. “The chief end of man,” it says, “is to glorify God and
-enjoy Him forever.”
-
-To any one nourished on the literature and thought of the last
-half-century that sentence, which defines the chief purpose of life as
-praise and enjoyment, comes like an audacious blasphemy, a blasphemy,
-however, bringing light and freedom. The terms of the dogma are a
-little antiquated now, but it would be easy to restate them in modern
-language. For “God” we might substitute “nature and man” or, if we
-were metaphysically inclined, “God in nature and man.” The authors of
-the Shorter Catechism, entangled as they were in a gloomy theology,
-recognized that the significance of life cannot reside in the labor by
-which men maintain it, but in some kind of realization of ourselves
-and of the world which is the highest enjoyment conceivable of both.
-
-Let us go back for a few decades and see if we can catch the values of
-our time confusedly shaping themselves within the framework of human
-life. I say shaping themselves, for as Nietzsche said fifty years ago,
-the time of the conscious valuers has passed; our values for a century
-have not been created, they have happened. They happened because men
-had become skeptical not merely of God, or of the existence of a moral
-order, but of life itself, and could not set before themselves any
-purpose justifying life, but only its bare mechanism, work, duty,
-the preservation of society. It has been, thus, one of the main
-achievements of modern thought to banish from the world the notion
-of enjoyment. This was begun first in a philosophical way by the
-utilitarians, who were reasonably convinced that, factories existing
-for the first time as far as they knew in history, it was incumbent
-on men to work in them. A fine philosophy, truly; yet men believed in
-it. After the utilitarians came the advocates of self-help, who showed
-that the utilitarian policy might not be without individual advantage;
-that if one cut off one’s pleasures, or at least those which cost
-money, one might win a bizarre, undreamed-of success. The anchorites of
-wealth arose, the great men who, when they had acquired riches which
-might have built a new Florence, if scarcely a new Jerusalem, could
-make no use of them, preferring to teach in Sunday-schools and endow
-universities. In the eyes of these men wealth was justified only if
-it could not be enjoyed, for enjoyment was the one thing which went
-against all their ideas, all those instincts which had set them where
-they stood. Wealth, thus, could not be enjoyed, could not be used, for
-when they had reached their end the means still remained means.
-
-The disciples of Smiles have disappeared; men get rich in other ways
-now; nevertheless a whole view of life has been left behind which we
-have not fundamentally questioned. The Victorians established the basis
-of morals in utility; we have come to the stage when we imagine that
-the basis of life itself is utility. For recreation as an end in itself
-we have so little appreciation that even sport has become a kind of
-duty, and nothing is more devastating than the scorn of a conscientious
-athlete for those who, enjoying perfectly good health, do not go
-to the trouble of keeping themselves fit. A little unpremeditated
-pleasure still persists in our common lives, in fox-trotting, drinking,
-and revues, but it is without either taste or resource; it is not
-expression but simply relaxation, an amusing way of being tired.
-The one thing that people will not pardon is the taking of pleasure
-seriously as an end in itself. The æsthete, at the Renaissance a type
-of the opulence of life, and quite a common, indeed an expected type,
-is in our day an aberration demanding our satire when once we have
-overcome our indignation. Nothing shows more disastrously how incapable
-we are of entertaining the conviction that life in itself, apart from
-the labor necessary to make it possible, is a thing worth living. Even
-art has justified itself for several decades chiefly by its social
-utility, and only now, against strong opposition, is it escaping from
-the barriers set up by the generation overawed by Mr. Shaw and Mr.
-Wells. The notion that men may be on the earth for something else than
-sweating is dead. We have arrived at an amazing incapacity for joy;
-and life is to us always less worth living than it should be.
-
-This exaltation of means has brought about a general
-instrumentalization of life. It weighs heavily upon men; but upon women
-its weight is crushing, for women have not such a ready capacity as
-men for transforming themselves to the image of their functions, and
-they disfigure themselves more in the attempt. Consequently, as woman
-has taken a large and larger part in our tentative and unsatisfactory
-civilization she has undergone, in fact and in people’s minds, a
-distorting process. It is true, woman, lovely woman, the fair charmer,
-has passed away; but we are hardly better off now when she has become
-a term like economics. After the economic man has come the economic
-woman; that is, an entity almost as useful as machinery, and for the
-inner culture of mankind almost as uninteresting.
-
-How, in striving for emancipation, woman has reached such a dismal
-stage in her development is one of the saddest stories of our time.
-The age is an age of work; woman desires freedom, the right of every
-human being; and freedom in such an age can only mean the freedom to
-work. But to work, except in a few vocations such as art, is in our
-time to specialize oneself, and the freedom of women has necessarily
-resolved itself into a permission to do little things which can give
-them no final satisfaction. Their freedom is bounded by the slavery
-under which men, too, suffer; and in changing their occupations they
-have not escaped from the cage, but only out of one compartment of
-it into another, a little more cheerless than the first. They have
-achieved a little more liberty than they had before; but this liberty
-is disenchanting because it leaves them as far away as ever from the
-full liberty of their spirit. Perhaps in no other age has woman been,
-in a deep, instinctive sense, so skeptical as she is at present.
-
-And for all this the age--an age in which labor has a fantastic
-prominence--is responsible; for it is in a time when everybody works,
-and when there is nothing conceivable that one can do but work, that
-the cantankerous question of inequality arises. Only in a race can one
-be slower than another; only then does the necessity to become as good
-a runner as the fastest come home poignantly to every one. But if it
-should happen that life is not a race at all? Where leisure is regarded
-as a more important thing than work and work falls into its proper,
-subordinate place as the mere means to leisure one does not think very
-much about inequality, for it has no longer any urgent importance.
-Nor does one set much value, except in superficials, on uniformity.
-Among people free from crushing labor (as the whole human race may
-some time be) there has always been delight in diversity and scorn
-for uniformity; for, to people enjoying their spirit and the world,
-diversity even when it is exasperating is of infinite interest, giving
-a satisfying sense of the richness of life.
-
-Comedy--and comedy is idleness tolerantly enjoying itself--is founded,
-it has been said, upon a recognition of the equality of the sexes; but
-it would be more just to say that it is founded upon a view of life
-into which the notions of equality and inequality do not enter at all,
-because they are unnecessary. To Congreve and Stendhal women were not
-the inferior sex, for, in spite of the conventions in which ostensibly
-they moved, they were free, and therefore interesting. And remote
-as these figures are from us, they demonstrate a very useful truth,
-that the way to get over our stupid obsession with inequality is to
-reach a stage where diversity will be the norm, involving disadvantage
-to no one. Toward that stage, which can only be made possible by a
-more general leisure, we are moving, if what the reformers and the
-scientists tell us is true. It will be a stage in which rules will have
-more importance than laws and spontaneous actions than obligations;
-and most of the things we do will be regarded as play rather than
-duty. Conduct will probably be about a fourth of life, instead of the
-three-fourths postulated by Matthew Arnold. And although this state
-has not come yet and may not come for a long time, it would be as
-sensible to found a philosophy upon it as upon a period of transition
-as dismal and impermanent as ours. Moreover the values of the past are
-against us as well as those of the future which we imagine. There is a
-certain ignobility in the dispute over human inequality, a failure to
-rise to the human level. It is not a question but a misunderstanding,
-which the accumulated imaginative culture of the world might have made
-impossible. A little sense of the richness of life would disperse
-it. Who would be so fantastic as to say that Falstaff is greater or
-less than Ophelia, or whether Uncle Toby is the exact equal of Anna
-Karenina? To ask the question is to evoke at once an image of the
-diverse riches of human nature and of the poverty of mind which can
-reduce it to such terms, destroying all interest and all nuance.
-
-But where our instrumental philosophy has had the most grotesque
-effect has been upon our conception of love. People have come to
-regard love as merely a device for propagating the race. Now this view
-of love is not new; it has always been dear to the bourgeoisie, who
-have always thought it a matter of immense moment that they should
-have sons to carry on their businesses when they were dead. It is the
-immemorial philistine conception of love: the strange thing is that it
-has been taken over by the intelligentsia and glorified. This is in
-the strictest sense a revolution in thought. No one who has written
-beautifully of love has thought of it as the intellectuals think. To
-Plato and Dante the essence of love did not reside in procreation;
-nor has procreation been anything but a divine accident to the poets.
-And that is in the human tradition, and probably in the natural order
-of things; for it is possible that both love and procreation are most
-perfect when they are unpremeditated, and the child comes as a gift and
-a surprise; for in the fruits of joy there is a principle of exuberance
-which distinguishes them from the fruits of duty.
-
-The intellectuals have destroyed the humanistic conception of love
-as pure spontaneity, as expression, by setting its justification not
-within itself, but in the child. In “Man and Superman” Mr. Shaw makes
-Tanner say that if our love did not produce another human being to
-serve the community, the community would have the sacred right of
-killing us off, just as the hive kills off the drones who do not attain
-the queen bee. But what does that mean? It means that happiness is of
-no importance, that it is a matter of the slightest moment whether, in
-a life which will never be given to us again, we realize some of the
-potentialities of our being or pass through it blind to the end. If it
-is worth while living at all, this must needs be the precise opposite
-of the truth. The child, like everything else, is justified; but it is
-not justified because it adds to the potential wealth of society, but
-because it adds to our present delight, and moreover lives a life as
-valid as our own. The truth is that we dare not admit that any pleasure
-whatever has a right to exist without serving society, and serving it
-deliberately. The joys of other generations have become our duties; and
-it is significant that Mr. Shaw and the bulk of the intelligentsia are
-at one on the birth-rate with the Roman Catholic Church, that church
-which has on many occasions through its theologians affirmed its belief
-that sensual love is a guilty thing, and, using its own kind of logic,
-has exhorted man to multiply and replenish the earth.
-
-“The chief end of man is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever”; and
-that being so, it is the task of those who are a little more serious
-than the serious to set about discovering the principles of glory
-and enjoyment in life. And--I am setting down a truism--the main
-principle of enjoyment for the human race is not art, nor thought, nor
-the practice of virtue, but for man, woman, and for woman, man. The
-exchange of happiness between the sexes is not only the creative agent
-in human life, perpetuating it; it is also the thing which gives the
-perpetuation of life its chief meaning. People have always felt this
-vaguely; it has made labor endurable to them; but hardly ever have they
-recognized it clearly, and to the poets and artists who know it they
-have always responded a little skeptically. They have thought of love
-as a justification a little too materialistic for life; but love is
-only materialistic when it is regarded as a means.
-
-To accept men and women as ends in themselves, to enter into their
-life as one of them, is to partake of absolute life, that life which
-at every moment realizes itself, existing for its own sake. We cannot
-live in that life continuously; for the accomplishment of the intricate
-purposes of society we must at certain times and with part of our
-minds regard our fellow-creatures as instruments; but the more we tend
-to do so the more we banish joy from life. Life does not consist,
-whatever the utilitarians may say, in functioning, but in living; and
-life comes into being where men and women, not as functions, but
-as self-constituted entities, intersect. This is the state which in
-religion as well as art has been called life; this is the final life
-of the earth, beyond which there is no other. We may accept it or pass
-it by; but whatever we may do with it, it is our chief end, giving
-meaning to the multitudinous pains of humanity. This commerce between
-men and women is not merely sexual, in the narrow sense which we have
-given the word; it involves every human joy, all the thoughts and
-aspirations of mankind stretching into infinity. It is the thing which
-has inspired all great artists, mystical as well as earthy. It is the
-point of reference for any morality which is not a disguised kind of
-adaptation; for virtue consists in the capacity to partake freely of
-human happiness. All reform, all economic and political theory has a
-meaning in so far as it makes for this; and that was recognized by the
-first reformers, the utopians who had not yet become mere specialists
-in reform.
-
-The libertarian movement has been such a dismal affair, thus, not
-because it has been too free, but because it has not been free enough.
-The democracies and the women of the world have been potentially
-liberated; but not so very long ago they were slaves, and they have
-still a slave’s idea of freedom. Instead of equal joys they have
-asked for equal obligations; and the whole world is in the grip of
-a psychological incapacity to escape from the idea of obligation.
-Against the unreasonable solemnity which this has imposed on everything
-there is little left for us except a deliberate and reasonable
-light-heartedness; this, and the faith that the human race will some
-time attain the only kind of freedom worth striving for, a freedom in
-joy.
-
-
-
-
-Virtue for Women
-
-By Isabel Leavenworth
-
-
-Isabel Leavenworth
-
-_is an instructor in philosophy at Barnard College_.
-
-
-
-
-VIRTUE FOR WOMEN
-
-BY ISABEL LEAVENWORTH
-
-
-In the turmoil of discussion regarding present modes of sex life one
-can discern a pretty general approval of just one element in the whole
-situation: the ideal by which the good woman has for so long been
-controlled. It is commonly held that if changes are to be made they
-should be in the direction of persuading men, and also the few women
-who have been at fault, to be just as good as our good women have
-always been. Thus the young girl of to-day is criticized on the ground
-that instead of raising men to her level she is descending to theirs.
-Even those who are inclined to belittle the damage which she is doing
-to the social structure accompany their mild defense with the consoling
-reminder that human nature does not change and that in the end the girl
-of to-day will turn out as well as did the girls of yesterday; that is,
-she will finally come around to the good old feminine way of doing
-things.
-
-It seems to me most unfortunate that the majority of people hope to
-improve matters through an extension of the feminine ideals of the
-past. In the established scheme of things one finds a peculiarly gross
-form of immorality, an immorality incommensurably greater than the
-dreaded evil of promiscuity; and it is only as an element in this total
-scheme that woman’s ideals have any significance. The fact that they
-have always constituted one side of a “double standard” is not merely
-something which may be said about their relation to other elements
-after their essential characteristics have been considered. These
-characteristics can be described only in terms of the double standard
-and of its attendant evils. It would be as impossible, then, to destroy
-the double standard and still keep the feminine ideal intact as it
-would be to preserve the convex nature of a mathematical curve while
-destroying the concave. According to the present system there is a
-standard of conduct set up for women which is to constitute virtue.
-This standard is a combination of specific positive commands and, more
-especially, of specific prohibitions. There are certain things which
-no nice woman will do--a great many things, in fact. She must learn
-them by heart and accept them on faith as the Pythagoreans must have
-had to learn their curious list of taboos, a list running from the
-taboo against eating beans to that against sitting on a quart measure.
-This ideal of virtue does not apply with equal rigidity to men; quite
-different things are expected of them and accepted for them. It is
-obvious that two such conflicting ideals by the very nature of their
-combination will produce a class of women who do not live up to the
-standard of virtue set them as members of their sex. This class is not
-merely an excrescence but an integral part of the situation created by
-the total sex ideal of society. The function of women of this class is
-to make possible for men the way of life commonly considered as suited
-to their sex and to make possible a virtuous life for the remainder of
-womankind. In fulfilling this function such women lose, in the eyes of
-society, their moral nature and forfeit the right to live within the
-pale of social morality. They are considered unfit for normal social
-intercourse and are denied those relationships and responsibilities
-which ordinarily serve as the basis for moral growth. From all normal
-responsibility toward them society regards itself as released. That
-which is personal, the inner life, the character, the soul--whatever
-one prefers to call it--having been sacrificed in the service of the
-social scheme, one is to treat what is left as of no value in itself,
-but merely as an instrument to be used in the service of man’s pleasure
-or woman’s virtue. The prostitute is to society that one thing, defined
-by the purpose which she serves, and that is all she is, all she is
-allowed to be. The depersonalization, the moral non-existence, one
-might call it, of a large number of women is, then, implicit in the
-social system currently accepted. It is not a punishment meted out to
-those who fail to act in accordance with the social scheme (though
-it is as such, of course, that society defends it) but is itself an
-absolutely essential element in the social scheme, an element woven in
-and out through the entire fabric of current sex morality.
-
-It is curious how many people feel that a choice between the present
-system and any other is reducible to a choice between different
-degrees of promiscuity. Promiscuity would be an evil, but it does
-not in itself involve this particular immorality. The worst evils in
-the present situation are due not to the “lower” half of the double
-standard but to the doubleness itself.
-
-It is true that the ideal of womanly virtue is only one element in the
-conventional system of sex morality. But, like a Leibnitzian monad, it
-reflects the whole universe within itself--the universe of sex mores.
-It is in no real sense any “higher” than the ideal by which men have
-lived. They are warp and woof of the same fabric. According to this
-ideal it is woman’s prime duty to keep aloof from evil. This sounds
-commendable enough. And it would be at least innocuous if one could
-interpret it as meaning that woman should hold herself aloof from some
-imagined evil that would become existent were she to embrace it. This
-is not, however, a possible interpretation of the varied collection of
-prohibitions which it is her duty to respect. Their import is clearly
-enough that she is to keep aloof from evil which is already existent,
-which is an acknowledged part of her background. She is to shun all
-of those vulgarities, coarsenesses, and immoralities which are to
-enter into the lives of men and for which, one is forced to conclude,
-the “other” women are to provide. And from this other class of women
-she is, of course, to keep herself absolutely separate, distinct. I
-recently heard an elderly Boston lady make a remark which expresses the
-horror commonly aroused by any conduct which endangers the distinction
-between the two classes. “Do you know,” she said, “I heard that a young
-man of our set said he and his friends no longer had to go to girls of
-another kind for their enjoyment. They can get all they want from girls
-of their own class.” This was the outrage. The nice girls were allowing
-the classes to become confused. Much the same attitude is revealed in
-the frequent remark that the young girl of to-day appears like “any
-chorus girl” or like any “common woman.” The horrid picture is usually
-rounded off with the comment that you simply can’t tell the difference
-any more between the nice girl and the other kind. One can imagine that
-this might cause considerable inconvenience. Each of the two classes
-of women has served a special purpose and it is, to say the least,
-disconcerting for a person not to know which way to turn when he knows
-very well which purpose he wants fulfilled.
-
-The precautions which a good woman takes to preserve her purity are
-indeed legion. There are places where no nice woman will go, situations
-with which she must have no immediate acquaintance, people with whom
-she must not associate; there are various embodiments of evil, in
-short, to which she must not expose herself. That these evils should
-exist, that they should be tolerated as meeting certain needs in the
-lives of men and be made possible by other women--all this the average
-good woman swallows without repulsion, or, more commonly, ignores.
-She is aroused to a state of true indignation only when her own moral
-exclusiveness, or that of her kind, is threatened. The same woman who
-accepts with a good deal of equanimity the fact that men she associates
-with also associate with “gay” women would be considerably upset if
-these men were to attempt to associate with both kinds of women at
-the same time. Why is the average woman so upset if a man of her
-acquaintance makes “improper advances”? Is it that she is horrified to
-find that he is willing to indulge his irregular sex desires? No. She
-is outraged because he thinks she is willing to indulge hers, because
-he holds her virtue too lightly. Sex evils, coarsenesses are then to be
-part of the good woman’s environment in the intimate sense that they
-often enter into the lives of the men she accepts as friends, even of
-the men with whom she is to have the most personal and supposedly ideal
-relationships. Her sole function is to turn her back on these evils.
-The point of prime importance to her is that they should not pollute
-her; and the first demand which she makes upon men is that they shall
-show their respect for this ideal by keeping her apart.
-
-The acceptance of this situation is implied in the ideals which are
-passed down to girls by the good old-fashioned parent. Do the mothers
-who insist that their daughters shall not go with boys on certain
-occasions and at certain hours unchaperoned expect boys to refrain
-from seeing any girls except on occasions thus carefully timed and
-adequately supervised? I doubt it. Whatever their expectations may be,
-it is certain that they would rather that the good girl should cling
-to protection, letting the man seek gayety where he may, than that she
-should take the chance involved in seeking gayety by his side. They
-would rather have what they consider the evil sex element taken care
-of by men and by a class of women devoted by society to that purpose
-than to risk any slip in conduct on the part of their own daughters.
-Purity purchased at such a price may be purity in some magical sense,
-similar to that secured in the ancient mysteries by passing through
-fire or going in bathing with sacred pigs. Purity in any moral sense
-it certainly is not. It is simply a social asset, like physical beauty
-or pleasing accomplishments, so tremendously valuable to woman that
-for it she has been willing to pay any moral price, however degrading.
-Its non-moral character is revealed in the common assumption that any
-man can, without injury to himself, pass through experiences or be
-placed in situations from which, since they would pollute her, every
-good woman must be guarded. This assumption, so obviously insulting to
-women, is at present complacently accepted by them as something of a
-compliment.
-
-William Graham Sumner in his remarkably unemotional and objective
-treatment of social customs devotes some pages to a description of the
-houses of prostitution established and run by the cities of medieval
-Europe “in the interest of virtuous women.” In this connection Mr.
-Sumner for once indulges in terms of opprobrium, judging the custom
-as “the most incredible case” illustrating “the power of the mores
-to extend toleration and sanction to an evil thing.” The inmates of
-these houses were dedicated entirely to this special function, wore
-distinctive dress, and were taboo to all “good” women whose virtue,
-according to the scheme of things, they made possible. Authority for
-such a custom can be found, as Sumner points out, in Saint Augustine,
-the reformed rake. “The bishop,” writes Sumner, “has laid down the
-proposition that evil things in human society, under the great orderly
-scheme of things which he was trying to expound, are overruled to
-produce good.” Is not this the position taken by people who hold
-that it is better to have prostitution in order to provide for the
-assumed sex irregularity of men than to risk the loss of a woman’s
-“virtue” through the removal of those conventions and taboos which
-prevent her from coping with the situation herself and making her own
-moral decisions? I can see no difference. Has man at any period of
-his checkered moral career devised a more unpleasant method of saving
-his own soul? The good woman sits serenely on the structure upheld
-for her by prostitutes and occasionally even commits the absurdity of
-attempting to “reform” these women, the necessity for whose existence
-is implied by the beliefs according to which she herself lives.
-
-It is hard to follow the mental processes of those persons who, while
-deploring the increased freedom allowed women and the tendency to judge
-them less severely, still claim belief in a single standard for both
-sexes. In so far as woman’s virtue consists in aloofness from the evils
-which the double standard implies it quite obviously cannot be adopted
-as the single standard by which all members of society are to live.
-Even aside from this consideration it would seem to be as undesirable
-as it is impossible to extend to men the traditions and restrictions
-which have for so long governed women. Does any one really wish to
-have grown boys constantly accompanied and watched over by their
-elders? Does any one wish that the goings and comings of men should be
-as specifically determined as those of women have always been? Should
-we look forward to a day when a man will be judged as good or bad on
-the sole basis of whether or not he has ever had any irregular sex
-relation?
-
-One would think that the suspicions of even the most uncritical might
-be aroused by the rigidly absolute and impersonal nature of women’s
-sex ideals. The notion of purity as lying in the abstention from a
-particular act except under carefully prescribed circumstances has
-all the marks of a primitive taboo and none of the characteristics of
-a rational moral principle. The ideals of woman’s honor and chastity
-have without doubt been built up in answer to human wants--the defense
-which is invariably given of customs, good or bad. Probably those
-sociologists are not far wrong who hold that they have developed as
-a response, in early times, to the sentiments of man as a property
-owner; later, in response to masculine vanity and jealousy, though
-these motives have, of course, been idealized beyond all recognition.
-We need not be surprised, then, to find that they bear no relation
-to an interest in woman’s spiritual welfare and growth, an interest
-to which society is only now giving birth with pitiable pains of
-labor. To follow an ideal which almost entirely excludes sex interest
-as something evil is to condemn one of the richest elements in
-personal experience. And this ideal has regulated not only woman’s
-sex experience but has demanded and received incalculable sacrifices
-in all the phases of her life, mercilessly limiting the sphere of her
-activities, smothering interests of value and nourishing others to an
-unnatural state of development, and warping her character to satisfy
-its most exacting demands. Because she must first of all conform
-to an unpolluted archetype, and because society must be secure in
-the knowledge that she is indeed so conforming, she has never been
-able to meet life freely, to make what experience she could out of
-circumstances, to poke about here and there in the nooks and crannies
-of her surroundings better to understand the world in which she lives.
-We find here a more subtle but more deadly limitation than exclusion
-from institutions of learning or from political privileges. And under
-this limitation woman has labored in the service of a paltry ideal.
-
-Not only is it undesirable that men should attempt to follow such
-an ideal but it is quite obvious that as long as they accept it
-as adequate for women they are prevented in innumerable ways from
-developing intelligent principles for their own guidance. For one
-thing, they will come to look upon the sex element in most of its forms
-as a moral evil. Experience tells them, however, that it is, in their
-own case, a natural good. Thus they are led to accept a distinction
-fatal to moral integrity and progress. The sex element is admitted to
-the life of the average man by the back door; once within, it has fair
-run of the establishment though it is always looked on askance by the
-other members of the household. Sex interests are to be recognized and
-indulged but divorced from all that is “fine” and “ideal.” They are
-considered desirable though immoral and so are to be tolerated just to
-the extent that they are divorced from those elements in society--the
-family, the home, and good women--which are supposed to embody virtue.
-It is not realized that virtue, far from being a rival of the other
-good things of life, is to be attained only through an intelligent
-interest in good things, and that to divorce moral from natural good
-is to deal a death blow to both. We cannot wonder that at present sex
-interest so often expresses itself in the form of dubious stories,
-coarse revues, and degrading physical relations. While the “good” woman
-who considers sex somehow lowering is apt to develop a personality
-which is anemic and immature, the man who accepts the conventional
-scheme of life develops a personality coarse and uncoördinated.
-
-I do not mean to say that there have been no elements of value in the
-ideal of purity by which some women have lived. It is undoubtedly true
-that unregulated and impersonal sex desires and activities quarrel with
-more stable and fruitful interests in life. But while the most valuable
-experiences of love are, in general, to be found in more lasting
-relations, it does not follow that society should prescribe for every
-one of its members a particular line of sex conduct and attempt to see,
-through constant supervision, that its prescriptions are carried out.
-The sacrifice in terms of freedom of activity and experience is too
-great and the living flower of personal purity cannot be manufactured
-by any such artificial methods.
-
-The sex relations of an individual should no more be subjected to
-social regulation than his friendships. There is indeed a closely
-related matter for which he is immediately responsible to society--that
-is the welfare of any children resulting from such relations. The two
-matters are, however, quite distinguishable and no one could hold that
-the effort which society makes to control sex relations is to any
-extent based upon concern for the welfare of possible offspring. If
-this were so, one would not hear so much condemnation of birth-control
-measures on the ground that they “encourage immorality.” No. It is
-personal experience which society would like to prescribe for its
-members, personal virtue that it would like to mold for them. But
-virtue is not a predetermined result, a kind of spiritual dessert that
-any one can cook up who will follow with due care the proper ethical
-receipt. It is, on the contrary, something which is never twice alike;
-something which appears in ever new and lovely forms as the fruit
-of harmoniously developed elements in a unique character complex.
-Experience cannot be defined in terms of external circumstances and
-bodily acts and thus judged as absolutely good or bad. Sex experiences,
-like other experiences, can be judged of only on the basis of the part
-which they play in the creative drama of the individual soul. There
-are as many possibilities for successful sex life as there are men and
-women in the world. A significant single standard can be attained only
-through the habit of judging every case, man or woman, in the light of
-the character of the individual and of the particular circumstances in
-which he or she is placed.
-
-From the changes taking place in sex morality we may, with sufficient
-wisdom and courage, win inestimable gains. Certainly we should be
-grateful that young people are forming the habit of meeting this old
-problem in a quite new way--that is, with the coöperation of the two
-sexes. In the interest of this newer approach we should accord to
-girls as much freedom from immediate supervision as we have always
-given to boys. The old restrictions, imposed upon girls alone, imply,
-of course, the double standard with all its attendant evils; imply the
-placid acceptance of two essentially different systems of value; imply
-the preference for physical purity over personal responsibility and
-true moral development. We should encourage the daughters of to-day
-in their fast developing scorn for the “respect” which our feminine
-predecessors thought was their due--a respect which man was expected
-to reveal in the habit of keeping the nice woman untouched by certain
-rather conspicuous elements, interests, and activities in his own life.
-In so far as there is something truly gay in these aspects of life,
-something which men know at the bottom of their hearts they should not
-be called on to forego, there is much that women can learn. Most people
-to-day hold in their minds an image of two worlds--one of gayety and
-freedom, the other of morality. It is because gayety and morality are
-thus divorced that gayety becomes sordidness, morality dreariness.
-Not until men and women develop together the legitimate interests
-which both of these worlds satisfy will the present inconsistency and
-hypocrisy be done away with and both men and women be free to achieve,
-if they can, rich and unified personal lives.
-
-
-
-
-Where Are the Female Geniuses?
-
-By Sylvia Kopald
-
-
-
-
-Sylvia Kopald
-
-_is primarily a specialist in labor and the author of a recent study of
-outlaw strikes, “Rebellion in Labor Unions.”_
-
-
-
-
-WHERE ARE THE FEMALE GENIUSES?
-
-BY SYLVIA KOPALD
-
-
-Many years ago, Voltaire was initiated into the mysteries of Newton by
-Mme. du Châtelet. Finishing her translation and her rich commentary
-upon the _Principles_, in a glow he extended to her the greatest
-tribute which man has yet found for exceptional women. He said, “A
-woman who has translated and illuminated Newton is, in short, a very
-great man.” Genius has long been a masculine characteristic, although
-some more generous authors admit its possession by certain “depraved”
-women. Only the courtesans of classical antiquity could be women and
-individuals at once, and, therefore, Jean Finot found it necessary to
-remind us emphatically even in 1913 that “women of genius and talent
-are not necessarily depraved.” Not necessarily, mind you. No, the
-great woman may be, in short, a great man, but she is not necessarily
-depraved.
-
-As the twentieth century progresses and women capture the outposts of
-individuality one after the other, the old questions lose much of their
-old malignancy. Women battle with the problem of how to combine a home
-and a career and men become less sure (especially in these days of high
-living costs) that woman’s place is in the home. As women enter the
-trades and the arts and the professions, men begin to discover comrades
-where there were only girls and wives and mothers before. It is an
-exciting century, this women’s century, and even though prejudices
-crumble slowly, they crumble. Yet one of the old questions remains,
-stalwart and unyielding as ever: Where are the female geniuses?
-
-Even a pessimist may find cause for rejoicing in this final wording
-of the “woman question.” Man’s search for the female genius is more
-consoling than his sorrowful quest for the snows of yesteryear. For
-snows, like all beauty, have a way of melting with time; a mind ripens
-and mellows with age. Granted a mind which it is no longer a shame or a
-battle to develop, women can look upon the passing of the years with at
-least as great an equanimity as does man. She remains in the picture
-of life long after the Maker’s paints have begun to dry. And that is
-good. But as long as the female geniuses remain undiscovered, it must
-be also a bit insecure. Women may have minds--every average man will
-now grant that. But (he will quickly ask) have they ever much more than
-average minds? Look at history, which this time really does prove what
-you want it to. Every high peak in the historic landscape is masculine.
-Point them out just as they occur to you: Shakespeare, Dante, Goethe,
-Virgil, Horace, Catullus, Plato, Socrates, Newton, Darwin, Pasteur,
-Watt, Edison, Steinmetz, Heine, Shelley, Keats, Beethoven, Wagner,
-Bach, Tolstoi....
-
-Where are the _female_ geniuses?
-
-It has really become much more than a question of feminist
-conversation. Science has attempted to put its seal of approval upon
-the implied answer to this rhetorical question. It has sought to put
-the notion that “a woman is only a woman, but a genius is a man,” into
-impressively scientific lingo. The argument goes something like this:
-In regard to practically all anatomical, physiological, and psychic
-characteristics, the male exhibits a greater variability (i.e. a
-greater range of spreading down from and up above the average) than
-the female. The male is the agent of variation; the female is the
-agent of type conservation. This sex difference operates in the realm
-of mental ability as everywhere. In any comparable group of men and
-women, the distribution of intelligence will tend to follow the law of
-chances (Gaussian Curve). But female intelligence will cluster far more
-about its average than male. There will be more imbeciles and idiots
-among men, but there will also be more geniuses. It is really very
-simple, as the following arbitrary example will show. Supposing you
-take comparable sample groups of 1000 men and 1000 women from a given
-population. After testing them for grade of intelligence, you classify
-them according to previously accepted “intelligence classes.” Your
-results would tend to read a little like this:
-
- _Number_ _Number_
- _Intelligence Class_ _Men_ _Women_
- Idiots 10 3
- Inferior 100 50
- Slow 200 150
- Average 380 595
- Able 200 150
- Highly Talented 100 52
- Geniuses 10 ..
-
-Of course none of the proponents of this theory would state the alleged
-facts of man’s greater variability in such bald terms. But all of them
-would agree that men do vary more than women and in some such fashion.
-In this greater variability they see the explanation of men’s monopoly
-of genius.
-
-According to Karl Pearson this “law of the greater variability of the
-male” was first stated by Darwin. Somewhat earlier, the anatomist
-Meckel had concluded that the female is more variable than the male.
-It is interesting to note in passing that he consequently judged
-“variation a sign of inferiority.” By the time Burdach, Darwin, and
-others had declared the male more variable, however, variation had
-become an advantage and the basis and hope of all progress. To-day
-great social significance is attached to the comparative variability
-of the sexes, especially in its application to the questions of
-sex differences in mental achievement. Probably the outstanding
-English-speaking supporters of the theory in its modern form have been
-Havelock Ellis and Dr. G. Stanley Hall. But even so cautious a student
-as Dr. E. L. Thorndike has granted it his guarded support. And Dr.
-James McKeen Cattell has explained the results of his study of 1000
-eminent characters of history by means of it. Indeed many others hold
-the theory in one form or another--e.g. Münsterburg, Patrick. What is
-most important, of course, is that its supporters do not stop with the
-mere statement of the theory. They ascribe to it tremendous effects
-in the past and ask for it a large influence in the shaping of our
-policies in the present.
-
-For Havelock Ellis, the greater variability of the male “has social
-and practical consequences of the widest significance. The whole of
-our human civilization would have been a different thing if in early
-zoölogical epochs the male had not acquired a greater variational
-tendency than the female.” (“Man and Woman,” p. 387.) Professor Hall
-builds up upon it a scheme of gushingly paradisaical (and properly
-boring) education for the adolescent girl, which “keeps the purely
-mental back” and develops the soul, the body, and the intuitions.
-(“The Psychology of Adolescence,” Vol. II, Chap. 17.) Just because
-Professor Thorndike is so careful in his statements, his practical
-deductions from the theory are most interesting: “Thus the function of
-education for women, though not necessarily differentiated by the small
-differences in average capacity, is differentiated by the difference
-in range of ability. Not only the probability and desirability of
-marriage and the training of children as an essential feature of
-women’s career but also the restriction of women to the mediocre grades
-of ability and achievement should be reckoned with by our educational
-systems. The education of women for such professions as administration,
-statesmanship, philosophy, or scientific research, where a few very
-gifted individuals are what society requires, is far less needed
-than education for such professions as nursing, teaching, medicine,
-or architecture, where the average level is essential. Elementary
-education is probably an even better investment for the community in
-the case of girls than in the case of boys; for almost all girls profit
-by it, whereas the extremely low grade boy may not be up to his school
-education in zeal or capacity and the extremely high grade boy may get
-on better without it. So also with high school education. On the other
-hand, post graduate instruction to which women are flocking in great
-numbers is, at least in its higher reaches, a far more remunerative
-social investment in the case of men.” (“Sex in Education,” _Bookman_,
-Vol. XXIII, April, 1906, p. 213.)
-
-Before we begin the revision of our educational systems in accordance
-with this theory, we must make sure that it really explains away
-the “female geniuses.” For although the theory is still widely held
-by biologists and psychologists, it requires only a short study to
-discover how tenuous is the evidence adduced in support of it--in
-all its phases, but especially in regard to mental traits. Darwin
-apparently gave no statistical evidence to support “the principle,”
-as he called it, and those who have followed him have done little to
-fill the lack. Professor Hall offers evidence that is almost entirely
-empirical; Havelock Ellis has been attacked by Karl Pearson for
-doing much “to perpetuate some of the worst of the pseudo-scientific
-superstitions to which he [Ellis] refers, notably that of the greater
-variability of the male human being.” Professor Thorndike, in spite
-of his conclusions, admits that it “is unfortunate that so little
-information is available for a study of sex differences in the
-variability of mental traits in the case of individuals over fifteen.”
-And while the overwhelming majority of Professor Cattell’s 1000 eminent
-characters are men, he merely states without proving his explanation
-that “woman departs less from the normal than man.”
-
-Wise feminists to-day are concentrating their forces upon this theory.
-Women have won the right to an acknowledged mind; they want now the
-right to draw for genius and high talents in the “curve of chance.”
-And this is no merely academic question. For while genius may overcome
-the sternest physical barriers of environment, it is nourished and
-developed by tolerant expectancy. Men may accomplish anything,
-popular thought tells them, and so some men do. But if women are
-scientifically excluded from the popular expectation of big things, if
-their educations are toned down to preparation for “the average level,”
-if motherhood remains the _only_ respected career for _all_ women,
-then the female geniuses will remain few and far between. And, more
-important still, all thinking women will continue restless over the
-problem of how to secure the chance to vary in interests and abilities
-from the average of their sex, and at the same time to be wives and
-mothers.
-
-In this fight for a full chance to compete, woman may do one (or all)
-of three things. She may merely ignore the theory and go on “working
-and living,” trusting that as environmental barriers fall one after
-the other, this final question, too, will lose its meaning. She can
-point out in support of this attitude that the past does contain its
-female geniuses, however few; and certainly if all the barriers that
-have been set up against woman’s entry into the larger world have not
-entirely stifled female genius, we may at least look forward hopefully
-to a kinder future. Something of this attitude, of this demand for free
-experimentation, must make part of every woman’s armor against the
-implications of this theory. But taken alone, it becomes more merely
-defensive than the status of the theory deserves. For it is really the
-theory that must defend itself. It must not only bring forward more
-affirmative evidence, but it must also meet the contrary findings of
-such investigation as has been made. It must, again, prove its title
-to _the cause_ of the scarcity of female geniuses when so many other
-more eradicable causes may be at its bottom.
-
-The actual evidence that has been gathered on this question is still
-uncertain and fragmentary. While it does not yet establish anything
-definitely, it points to rather surprising conclusions. In all cases
-investigated the discovered differences in variability have been
-very slight, and if they balance either way tend to prove a greater
-variability among women. Neither sex need have a monopoly of either
-imbeciles or geniuses, but women may yet be found to be slightly more
-favored with both!
-
-The first painstaking investigation in this field was made by Dr. Karl
-Pearson who published his interesting results as one essay in his
-_Chances of Death and Other Studies in Evolution_ in 1897. Under the
-heading “Variation in Man and Woman” (Vol. I, pp. 256-377), written
-as a polemical attack upon Havelock Ellis’s stand in this theory, he
-set forth results of measurements upon men and women in seventeen
-anatomical characteristics. He obtained his data from statistics
-already collected, from measurements of living men and women, and
-from post-mortem and archeological examinations. Female variability
-(coefficients of variation) proved greater in eleven of these seventeen
-characteristics, male in six. He concluded among other things that
-“there is ... no evidence of greater male variability, but rather
-of a slightly greater female variability. Accordingly the principle
-that man is more variable than woman must be put on one side as a
-pseudo-scientific superstition until it has been demonstrated in a more
-scientific manner than has hitherto been attempted.”
-
-To round out this evidence Doctors Leta Hollingworth and Helen Montague
-measured 20,000 infants at their birth in the maternity wards of the
-New York Infirmary for Women and Children. They sought to discover
-whether environmental influences played any determining rôle in
-producing the results obtained by Pearson from measurements upon
-adults. From the ten anatomical measurements made upon these babies
-they found that “in all cases the differences in variability are very
-slight. In only two cases does the percentile variation differ in the
-first decimal place. In these two cases the variability is once greater
-for males and once greater for females.” (“The Comparative Variability
-of the Sexes at Birth,” _American Journal of Sociology_, Vol. XX,
-1914-1915, pp. 335-370.)
-
-The findings on anatomical variability do not, of course, necessarily
-prove anything about differences in the range of mental ability. They
-do, however, suggest the probability of parallel results and such
-studies as have been made tend, on the whole, to bear this out. All
-the recent work in this field (and it is still fragmentary) seems to
-point at least to equal mental variability among men and women. In
-1917, Terman and others in their “Stanford Revision of the Binet-Simon
-Scale for Measuring Intelligence” investigated this problem among
-school children from five to fourteen years old. They obtained the
-Intelligence Quotients of 457 boys and 448 girls and compared these
-I.Q.’s with teachers’ estimates and judgments of intelligence and work
-and with the age grade distribution of the sexes for the ages of 7 to
-14. After making all necessary qualifications, they concluded that
-the tests revealed a small superiority in the intelligence of the
-girls that “probably rests upon a real superiority in intelligence,
-age for age.” But “apart from the small superiority of the girls, the
-distribution of intelligence shows no significant differences in the
-sexes. The data offer no support to the wide-spread belief that girls
-group themselves more closely about the median or that extremes of
-intelligence are more common among boys” (p. 83).
-
-Dr. Hollingworth, again, has made a study of mental differences
-for adults. She has summarized the results of recent studies in
-sex differences in mental variability and in tastes, perceptions,
-interests, etc. Her conclusions on this score are interesting: “(1) The
-greater variability of males in anatomical traits is not established,
-but is debated by authorities of perhaps equal competence. (2) But even
-if it were established, it would only suggest, not prove, that men are
-more variable in mental traits also. The empirical data at present
-available on this point are inadequate and contradictory, and if they
-point either way, actually indicate greater female variability....”
-(“Variability as Related to Sex Differences in Achievement,” _American
-Journal of Sociology_, Vol. XIX, pp. 510-530, Jan., 1914.)
-
-It seems hardly safe scientifically, therefore, to restrict women to
-the average levels in education and work and profession on the ground
-that eminence is beyond their range. But if the female geniuses have
-not been cut off by a comparatively narrowed range of mental ability,
-where are they? Certainly history does not reveal them in anything like
-satisfactory number. And it is now that women may bring forward their
-third weapon of attack. The female geniuses may have been missing not
-because of an inherent lack in the make-up of the sex, but because of
-the oppressive, restrictive cultural conditions under which women have
-been forced to live.
-
-The important rôle played by cultural conditions in the cultural
-achievement of various nations and races has been noted with increasing
-emphasis by the newer schools of sociology and anthropology. No scholar
-can now defend unchallenged a thesis of “lower or higher races” by
-urging the achievements of any race as an index of its range of mental
-ability. Culture grows by its own laws and the high position of the
-white race may be as much a product of favorable circumstances as
-of exceptional innate capacities. Similarly the expression taken by
-the genius of various nations appears to vary strikingly. This is
-especially impressive in the realm of music. The Anglo-Saxon peoples
-are singularly lacking in great musical composers. Neither Britain nor
-America, nor indeed any of the northern countries have contributed
-one composer worthy of mention beside the Beethovens and Wagners and
-Chopins of this art. Indeed the great names in music are generally of
-German, Latin or Slavic origin. Yet no one thinks of urging this fact
-as evidence of an Anglo-Saxon failure of major creativeness. Instead
-we point to achievements in other fields or at most attempt to explain
-this peculiar lack by some external causation. Similarly all our
-impatience with the un-artistic approaches of the American people does
-not lead us to frame a theory of their lack of genius. There are many
-cultural factors to be considered first.
-
-But as soon as we approach the problem of female genius, too many of us
-are apt to bring forward an entirely different kind of interpretation.
-We pass over the undoubted female geniuses lightly--granting Sappho and
-Bonheur and Brunn and Eliot and Brontë and Amster and Madame Curie and
-Caroline Herschel and perhaps even Chaminade and Clara Schumann and
-several others. We admit the undoubtedly significant parts women are
-playing in modern literature. But the question always remains.
-
-Yet in no national or racial group have cultural influences exercised
-so restrictive an influence as among the entire female sex. Not only
-has the larger world been closed to them, not only has popular opinion
-assumed that “no woman has it in her,” but the bearing and rearing
-of children has carried with it in the past the inescapable drudgery
-of housework. And this is “a field,” as Dr. Hollingworth points out,
-“where eminence is not possible.”
-
-It was Prudhon who sneered in response to a similar argument that
-“women could not even invent their distaff.” But we now know enough
-about the laws of invention to realize how unfair such sneering
-is. Professor Franz Boas and his school have long demonstrated
-that cultural achievement and mental ability are not necessarily
-correlated. For material culture, once it begins, tends to grow by
-accumulation and diffusion. Each generation adds to the existing stock
-of knowledge, and as the stock grows the harvests necessarily become
-greater. Modern man need have no greater mental ability than the
-men of the ice ages to explain why his improvements upon the myriad
-machines and tools that are his yield so much larger a harvest than
-the Paleolithic hunters’ improvements upon their few flint weapons
-and industrial processes. For, as Professor Ogburn has well shown (in
-“Social Change,” Part III) all invention contains two elements--a
-growing cultural base and inventive genius to work with the materials
-it furnishes. The number of new inventions necessarily grows with the
-cultural base. Even 50 times 100 make only 5000, but 2 times 1,000,000
-make 2,000,000. Countless generations have added their share to the
-total material culture which is ours and which we shall hand down still
-more enriched to posterity.
-
-It must be at once obvious that there has been no such cultural
-growth in housework. Housework has long remained an individualized,
-non-cumulative industry, where daughter learns from mother the old
-ways of doing things. The small improvements and ingenuities which
-most housewives devise seldom find their way into the whole stream of
-culture. Thus it is that the recent great inventions which are slowly
-revolutionizing this last stronghold of petty individualism have come
-from the man-made world. Workers in electricity could more easily
-devise the vacuum cleaner than the solitary housewife; the electric
-washer, parquet floors, the tin can, quantity production of stockings,
-wool, clothing, bread, butter, and all the other instruments that have
-really made possible women’s emancipation have naturally come not from
-women’s minds (any more than from men’s) but from the growth of culture
-and the minds that utilize that growth for further expansion.
-
-Consequently, as women participate in the work of the world and win
-the right to acquire the results of past achievement in science and
-technique and art, we may expect their contributions to the social
-advance to appear in ever greater numbers. Until we give them this
-full chance to contribute, we have no right to explain the paucity of
-their gifts to society by inherent lacks. And it seems reasonable to
-expect that such a chance will render the old quest for female geniuses
-properly old-fashioned. For they will be there, these women--the able
-and talented and geniuses--working side by side with men, not as “very
-great men” nor as necessarily “depraved” nor in any way unusual. They
-will be there as human beings and as women.
-
-
-
-
-Man and Woman as Creators
-
-By Alexander Goldenweiser
-
-
-
-
-Alexander Goldenweiser,
-
-_psychologist and anthropologist, is a lecturer at the New School for
-Social Research in New York_.
-
-
-
-
-MAN AND WOMAN AS CREATORS
-
-BY ALEXANDER GOLDENWEISER
-
-
-“A hen is no bird, a woman--no human,” says a Russian proverb. In this
-drastic formulation stands written the history of centuries. Woman’s
-claim to “human”ness was at times accepted with reservations, at other
-times it was boldly challenged and even to-day when woman’s legal,
-social, economic and political disabilities have been largely removed,
-woman’s acceptance in society as man’s equal remains dependent on a
-definition of the “equal.”
-
-As in the case of the mental capacity of races, the question of woman’s
-intellectual status was never judged on its merits. Rather, it was
-accepted as a practical social postulate, then rationalized into the
-likeness of an inductive conclusion. The problem seems so replete with
-temptations for special pleading that a thoroughly impartial attitude
-becomes well-nigh impossible. However, let us attempt it!
-
-Is woman psychologically identical with man? or, if there is a
-difference, is it one of superiority and inferiority? And of what
-practical significance is this issue to society?
-
-Two ways of approach are open: subject men and women to psychological
-tests, or observe performance in life and, exercising due critical
-care, infer capacity.
-
-Both methods have been tried. The first enjoys to-day a certain vogue:
-it is the method of science, of experimental psychology. Unfortunately,
-the findings of science in this field have to date resulted in
-precisely nothing. It was feasible to assume that woman was man’s
-equal in elementary sensory capacity, in memory, types and varieties
-of associations, attention, sensitiveness to pain, heat and cold, etc.
-Experimental psychology has confirmed these assumptions. But what of
-it? What can we make of it? Precisely nothing. What we are interested
-in is whether woman can think “as logically” as man, whether she is
-more intuitive, more emotional, less imaginative, more practical, less
-honest, more sensitive, a better judge of human nature. These, among
-many other interesting issues cannot even be broached by experimental
-psychology “within the present state of our knowledge.”
-
-Remains the second method, to observe performance and infer capacity.
-
-To examine in this fashion all the issues involved would require a
-small library. I select only one, creativeness. Is woman man’s equal
-in creativeness? The choice is justified by the highly controversial
-character of the issue as well as its practical bearings.
-
-Two periods in the history of civilization lend themselves admirably
-for our purpose, the primitive and the modern.
-
-The primitive world was not innocent of discrimination against woman.
-In social and political leadership, in the ownership and disposition of
-property, in religion and ceremonialism, woman was subjected to more
-or less drastic restrictions. It would, therefore, be obviously unfair
-to expect her creativeness in these fields to have equaled or even
-approximated that of man. Not so in industry and art, where division of
-labor prevailed, but no sex disability. As one surveys the technical
-and artistic pursuits of primitive tribes, woman’s participation is
-everywhere in evidence. The baskets of California, the painted pots of
-the Pueblos, the beaded embroideries of the Plains, the famous Chilkat
-blankets, the tapa cloth of Polynesia, all of these were woman’s
-handiwork. Almost everywhere she plans and cuts and sews and decorates
-the garments worn by women as well as men. Also, in all primitive
-communities she gathers the wild products of vegetation and transforms
-them into palatable foods. More than this, in societies that know not
-the plow woman is, with few exceptions, the agriculturist. It follows
-that the observations, skills, techniques and inventions involved in
-these pursuits must also be credited to woman.
-
-It will be conceded that in primitive society woman’s record is
-impressive: wherever she is permitted to apply her creativeness she
-makes good, and the excellence of her achievement is equal to that of
-man, certainly not conspicuously inferior to his.
-
-In evaluating these findings, however, it is important to take
-cognizance of the submergence of individual initiative by the tribal
-pattern, a feature characteristic of primitive life. This applies
-to men and women, to artisans and artists. Imaginative flights being
-cut short by traditional norms, the individualism and subjectivism of
-modern art are here conspicuous by their absence.
-
-How does this record compare with a survey of the modern period?
-
-Here again woman’s disabilities in the social, political and religious
-realms were so marked that creative participation was impossible.
-The same is true of architecture. Then come philosophy, mathematics,
-science, and sculpture, painting, literature, music and the drama. In
-philosophy and mathematics there is no woman in the ranks of supreme
-excellence. Even Sonya Kovalevsky, though a talent, was not a great
-mathematician. In science also, where women have done fine things, none
-are found among the brightest luminaries. It must be added, moreover,
-that the few women who have made their mark in the scientific field,
-notably Mme. Curie, have done so in the laboratory, not in the more
-abstract and imaginative domain of theoretical science.
-
-At this point some may protest that the period during which women
-have had a chance to test their talents in philosophy, mathematics and
-science was too short, their number too small, and that here once more
-performance cannot fairly be used as a measure of possible achievement.
-We must heed this protest.
-
-As to sculpture, painting, literature, music and the drama, I claim
-that woman’s protracted disabilities cannot in any way be held
-accountable for whatever her performance may be found to be. Women
-artists, musicians, writers and, of course, actresses, have been with
-us for a long time. Their number is large and on the increase. Whether
-married or single, they devote their energies to these pursuits quite
-unhampered by social taboos. There are in this field no taboos against
-women. In the United States, in fact, these occupations are held to be
-more suitable for women than for men.
-
-But what do we find?
-
-In painting and sculpture, no women among the best, although
-considerable numbers among the second best and below. There is no woman
-Rodin or Meunier or Klinger or Renoir or Picasso.
-
-In literature the case for woman stands better. Here women have
-performed wonderfully, both in poetry and prose. If they have fallen
-short, it is only of supreme achievement.[2]
-
-Finally we come to music and the stage. The case of music is admirably
-suited for our purpose, is really a perfect test case. What do we find?
-As performers, where minor creativeness suffices, women have equaled
-the best among men. As composers, where creativeness of the highest
-order is essential, they have failed. We have a Carreño or Novaes to
-match a Hofmann or Levitski, a Melba or Sembrich to match a Caruso
-or deReszke, a Morini or Powell or Parlow to match a Heifetz or Elman
-or Kreisler; but there is no woman to match a Beethoven or Wagner or
-Strauss or Mahler or Stravinsky, or Rachmaninoff--a composer-performer.
-
-The situation in drama is almost equally illuminating. Here women
-have reached the top, have done it so frequently and persistently, in
-fact, as to challenge men, some think successfully so. But as dramatic
-writers the few women who tried have never succeeded to rise above
-moderate excellence. A Rachel or Duse can hold her own as against a
-Possart or Orlenyev, a Bernhardt looms as high as an Irving, Booth or
-Salvini; but there is no woman to compare with a Molière or Ostrovski
-or Rostand or Hauptmann or Chekhov or Kapek.
-
-If now we glance once more at the primitive record the conclusion
-suggested by an analysis of music and the drama is greatly reënforced.
-In primitive society woman, whenever opportunity was given her, equaled
-man in creativeness; in modern society she has uniformly failed in
-the highest ranges. The results are not incompatible. As indicated
-before, in early days cultural conditions precluded the exercise of
-creativeness on the part of the individual except on a minor scale, in
-modern society major creativeness is possible and has been realized.
-Woman’s creative achievement reaches the top when the top is relatively
-low; when the top itself rises, she falls behind.
-
-To analyze this fact further is no easy task. We may not assume, as
-some do, that the difference between major and minor creativeness
-lies in degrees of rationality. This is certainly erroneous. The true
-creator is what he is, not because of his rationality but because of
-what he does with it. The differentia, as I see them, are two: boldness
-of imagination and tremendous concentration on self. The creator, when
-he creates, is spiritually alone; he dominates his material by drawing
-it into the self and he permits his imagination, for once torn off the
-moorings of tradition and precedent, to indulge in flights of gigantic
-sweep. Imagination and personality exalted to the _n_th power--not
-rationality--are the marks of the highest creativeness.
-
-In the possession of these traits, then, as here understood, woman is
-somehow restricted. She has them, of course, and exercises them, but
-not on the very highest level.
-
-We might stop right here, but it is hard to suppress at least a
-tentative interpretation.
-
-If the personality-imagination complex is where woman fails at the
-top, then it becomes _a priori_ probable that this difference between
-man and woman constitutes a remote sex characteristic. And if this
-is so, then it may prove worth our while to look for a corresponding
-difference on a level more directly connected with sex life. No sooner
-is this done than a difference does indeed appear, and it meets
-our expectations, for it lies in the direction of personality or
-self-concentration as well as of imagination. Woman is never so much “a
-part of” as when she loves, man never so “whole”; her self dissolves,
-his crystallizes. Also, woman’s love is less imaginative than man’s:
-man is more like what woman’s love makes him out to be than woman is
-like what man’s love makes her out to be. Relatively speaking, his love
-is romantic, hers realistic.
-
-This difference in the diagnostic features of man’s love and woman’s
-love confirms our suspicion that the discrepancy in performance, where
-the personality-imagination complex is involved, constitutes a remote
-sex characteristic.
-
-We must now turn once more to woman’s achievement in the different
-fields of cultural creativeness, for the variation in the degree of
-excellence reached by her provides a valuable clue as to where her
-strength lies. In an ascending series of woman’s achievements musical
-composition is at the bottom of the list, then come sculpture and
-painting, then literature (with a strange drop in dramatic writing),
-then instrumental and vocal performance; acting, finally, heads the
-list.
-
-This order is most illuminating. The relative excellence of woman’s
-achievement is seen to rise with the concreteness of the task and
-the prominence of the technical and human elements. Creativeness is
-more abstract in music than in the plastic and graphic arts, more
-abstract in these than in literature; and in each case woman’s relative
-achievement increases as abstractness decreases. Even the peculiar drop
-in dramatic writing when compared with other forms of literature is
-explicable in terms of a more abstract sort of creativeness required
-by the formal elements of dramatic art. Again, the high position
-in the list of musical performers and actresses, must in part be
-ascribed to the importance of the technical element in these arts. The
-preeminence of the musical performers is probably entirely due to this
-factor, although the intrusion of the human element (performing for an
-audience) may also have a share in the result.
-
-In the case of acting the human element is the most important factor,
-for here there is not only an audience to act to but the human content
-of the acting itself. The human orientation also accounts for the
-relatively high position of literature in the list when compared
-to sculpture and painting and to musical composition. Finally, the
-creativeness of musical performance and acting--two fields in which
-woman excels--is concrete when compared to that of literature, the arts
-and musical composition. Incidentally, a sidelight is thus thrown on
-the case of science where woman’s relative preeminence is found in the
-concrete and technical domain of the laboratory.
-
-The preceding analysis leads to the conclusion that woman’s strength
-lies in the concrete as contrasted with the abstract, the technical
-as contrasted with the ideational, the human as contrasted with the
-universal and detached. This conclusion, it may be of interest to
-note, harmonizes perfectly with the general consensus of mankind, as
-expressed in lay opinion and the judgments of literary men.
-
-To summarize: in all fields of cultural activity opened to her, woman
-has shown creative ability, but since cultural conditions have made
-major creativeness possible, she has failed, in comparison with man, in
-the highest ranges of abstract creativeness. On the other hand, woman
-has shown in her psychic disposition affinities for the concrete, the
-technical and the human.
-
-Before closing, these findings may be utilized for a prognostication of
-woman’s activities in the immediate and more remote future.
-
-The present tendency toward equalizing the cultural opportunities
-of man and woman will no doubt persist. Thus the range of woman’s
-cultural contributions will expand and the excellence of her creative
-achievement will rise, especially in the fields in which she has so far
-had but little chance to try her hand. It is to be expected, however,
-that in the highest ranges of abstract creativeness in philosophy,
-science, art, music, and perhaps literature, she will fail as she
-has hitherto failed to equal man. Her concrete-mindedness will ever
-continue to provide a useful counterpoise to the more imaginative
-and abstract leanings of her male companion. Her technical talents
-will shine more brilliantly in a world in which the crafts will again
-occupy the prominent place which was theirs once before. But her unique
-contributions will come in the range of the human element.
-
-In this respect, woman’s principal affinity is calculated to bear
-its choicest fruits in a world better than the one we live in. When
-formalism recedes from the field of education, as indeed it has already
-begun to do, and gives room for more individual and psychologically
-refined processes, woman’s share in education will grow in scope and
-creativeness. When the family has left behind the agonies of its
-present readjustments, the reconstruction of a freer and happier family
-life will largely rest on the shoulders of woman. When prisons will
-be turned into hospitals and criminals will be treated as patients,
-woman’s sensitiveness, insight and tact will bring her leadership in
-this field. When a return of leisure and the reduction of economic
-pressure will permit a revival of the more intimate forms of social
-intercourse, woman’s social talents will find new fields to conquer.
-When the world of nations will sheathe its sword forever--an event
-toward the realization of which woman will probably contribute more
-than man--woman, to whom nothing human is foreign, will at last be free
-to show the world what she can accomplish as the mother of the family
-of man.
-
-
-FOOTNOTES:
-
-[2] We need not mention a Dante, Shakespeare, Cervantes or
-Milton. Perhaps these are too far back. Not so Tolstoi, Dostoyevski,
-Turgenev, Goethe, Heine, Balzac, Maupassant, the Goncourts, Flaubert,
-Byron, Browning, Shelley, Emerson, Walt Whitman. Where are their equals
-among women? And coming down to the modern period, when literature is
-flooded with feminine figures, is there one who can be placed beside
-Anatole France or d’Annunzio or Proust or Gorki or even Bernard Shaw
-(not to mention Ibsen)? The feminine names that might be cited in
-comparison are obvious enough, but would any of them measure up to
-these--quite? However, let me mention Katherine Mansfield, Edith
-Wharton, Edna St. Vincent Millay. And I may add Sheila Kaye-Smith,
-Willa Cather, Selma Lagerlöf and Marguérite Audou.
-
-I realize, of course, that such comparisons, except in a most sweeping
-statement, are invidious. A better picture could be obtained by
-juxtaposing, one to one, writers of similar type and literary form--but
-this is a task for a volume.
-
-
-
-
-Dominant Sexes
-
-By M. Vaerting
-
-
-
-
-M. Vaerting,
-
-_one of a group of German anthropologists whose lectures and articles
-have attracted much attention in Europe; is also part author of “The
-Dominant Sex,” recently published in the United States._
-
-
-
-
-DOMINANT SEXES
-
-BY M. VAERTING
-
-
-Certain peculiarities of physical form are to-day considered typical
-feminine sex characters. Thus roundness and fullness of figure are
-generally regarded as characteristic of women; larger size and strength
-among men are accepted as a sex difference, biologically determined.
-
-But this theory, like the entire doctrine of secondary sex characters,
-stands upon a doubtful basis. It has grown up out of a comparison of
-men and women in very unequal situations. The bodies of men and women
-whose field of work and type of occupation differ widely have been
-compared. The man attends to the extra-domestic activities, while the
-woman is chiefly occupied at home. Bachofen writes: “If a man sits at a
-spinning-wheel a weakening of body and of soul will inevitably follow.”
-Charles de Coster in his “Wedding Journey” makes the significant
-remark: “Work in the fields had given Liska hips like a robust man’s.”
-Certain of the physical differences between men and women may therefore
-be sociologically determined rather than due to inborn differences.
-
-One may object that the division of labor between the sexes, in which
-the woman takes the domestic and the man the extra-domestic sphere, is
-itself determined by inborn sex differences. Even in Socrates’s time
-it was believed that the nature of the sexes fixed their fields of
-activity. Man was unquestionably intended for matters which must be
-attended to outside the house, “while the weak and timid woman was by
-divine order assigned to the inner work of the home.” After thorough
-investigation it appears that this hoary theory, which still persists,
-is false. The division of labor between man and woman corresponds not
-to an innate difference but to their power-relation. If man dominates
-he says that woman’s place is the home, and that work outside the home
-is fit only for men. If woman is dominant then she has the opposite
-opinion, takes care of business outside the home, and leaves the man to
-take care of the family and the housekeeping. The ruling sex, whether
-male or female, always puts the domestic duties on the subordinate
-sex and takes to itself work outside the home. To-day man is dominant,
-but there have been many peoples among whom woman was dominant and the
-rôle of man and woman was the reverse of that common to-day. In ancient
-Egypt there was a period when women ruled. Herodotus reports that they
-unnaturally performed “masculine” activities, carried on commerce in
-the market-place, while the men stayed at home, sewed, and attended to
-domestic difficulties. To Herodotus, who came from a state where men
-were dominant, the work of the Egyptian women naturally seemed “male.”
-In the Talmud Herodotus’s report is confirmed. The children of Israel,
-it tells us, were disturbed because their men were forced to do women’s
-work and their women men’s work. In Sophocles’s “Œdipus Kolonos”
-Œdipus says to his two daughters: “Ha, how they imitate the Egyptians
-in the manner and meaning of life. There the men stay home and sit at
-the spinning-wheel, and the women go out to meet the needs of life.”
-Œdipus also mentions the fact reported also by Herodotus, that only
-the daughters, not the sons, were compelled in Egypt to support their
-parents. The sons could not fulfill that duty, Sophocles says, because,
-like the Greek girls, they stayed at home and had no income from their
-labor. Furthermore, they had only a limited right to own property.
-
-One might cite many other peoples where the woman was dominant. Among
-the Kamchadales the men, in the days of female dominance, were such
-complete housewives that they cooked, sewed, washed, and were never
-allowed to stay away from home for more than a day. Similarly among
-the Lapps there was a period when the men did the housework while the
-women fished and sailed the sea. Under such circumstances the men also
-took care of the children. Strabo and Humboldt both report of the
-Vasko-Iberian races that the women worked in the fields; after child
-birth they turned the child over to the man and themselves resumed
-their work in the fields. A similar arrangement prevailed in the days
-when women ruled Lybia, which bordered upon Egypt.
-
-When one sex is dominant there is always a division of labor.
-
-This differentiation of occupation is one of the chief causes of
-certain differences in physical form between men and women. It changes
-the fundamental conditions of development--among others the course
-of the inner secretions. Where man rules he does the active outside
-work and is accordingly larger and stronger; where woman rules and
-does the same “man’s work” her body assumes what are to-day regarded
-as typically male proportions, whereas the man develops what we call
-feminine characteristics. We have a few definite proofs of this from
-states dominated by women.
-
-When woman ruled among the Gauls, and worked outside the home, we are
-told by Strabo that the female was the larger and stronger sex.
-
-Among the Adombies on the Congo women were in power and did all the
-hard work. According to Ellis they were stronger and better developed
-than the men. The same was true of the Wateita in East Africa. Fritsch
-and Hellwald report that the woman is larger than the man among the
-Bushmen. Female and male pelvises show no differences, but are alike
-“male” in our sense of the word.
-
-The Spartan women in the days of their rule had a reputation for
-enormous strength. Aristophanes says that a Spartan woman could
-strangle an ox bare-handed. The Egyptian women at the height of their
-power were called by their neighbors the “lionesses of the Nile,”
-and they seemed to like the name. When Heracles visited the Lybians,
-whose state bordered on Egypt and of whose rule by women we have many
-witnesses, he had to work, like the other men of the country, with the
-distaff. His wife Omphale, however, wandered about clad in a lionskin
-and armed with a club, and won respect for her strength.
-
-A very striking report comes from near New Guinea, where the woman
-was stronger than the man. There it was a common sight to see a woman
-spanking her husband with a paddle. Through the brute force of superior
-strength she oppressed the man just as men oppress women where the
-woman is weaker.
-
-Thus through legend and the records of travelers we have clear
-testimony that man is not larger and stronger than woman because of
-innate differences, as is generally supposed, but that physical
-superiority is a characteristic of the dominant sex, regardless whether
-that be male or female.
-
-Similarly those secondary physical characteristics which are to-day
-regarded as female are found among males when they occupy the
-subordinate position in which woman lives to-day. Woman is inclined
-to-day to full, rounded curves and even to stoutness. Among the Celts
-the woman dominated, and according to Strabo the men of that people
-were inclined to be fat and heavy-paunched. The same was true of
-the Kamchadales in the days of woman rule. The men were strikingly
-voluptuous and well rounded. The male Eskimos too were inclined
-to fatness in the days when they did the housekeeping. The more
-subordinate the fatter.
-
-In this connection the Oriental women are typical; their exuberance
-of figure is as well known as their absolute subordination and their
-confinement to the home. They may be contrasted with the fat and
-subordinate male Kamchadales, whose wives were slim and firm breasted
-into old age.
-
-Equal rights do away with this division of labor. There are no longer
-male and female jobs; not sex but inclination and fitness now begin
-to determine the individual’s occupation. In late Egypt, when the
-domination of woman was merging into a period of equal rights, there
-are many indications that both sexes did the same work without any
-differentiation of occupation. In the marriage contract in the time of
-Darius, the woman--who then made the contract alone--says, “All, which
-you and I may together earn....” Victor Marx has studied the position
-of woman in Babylon in the period 604-485 B.C., and finds a similar
-situation. In an inheritance case of that period a woman recites that
-“I and my husband carried on business with my dowry and together
-bought a piece of land.” Such common businesses by man and woman are
-frequently mentioned. Under such circumstances it was natural that
-neither man nor woman bound themselves at marriage to live in the same
-house, for both went to work outside the home.
-
-To-day, when we are passing from male domination to equal rights it
-is natural that the woman should be seeking more and more to get out
-of the home. The greater her power the more she seeks to level the
-lines between male and female work. This effort is strongest in the
-subordinate sex--in this case the feminine--because it seeks naturally
-to better its position. In this transition period, therefore, women
-are pressing into male pursuits much faster than men into domestic
-occupations. Yet even in Germany a beginning has been made. For
-women the male professions seem higher and better, because they have
-hitherto belonged to the dominant sex, while for the men feminine
-occupations seem to have about them something degrading; but the more
-women approach equality the less odium attaches to what has been their
-sphere, and the more men tend to enter it.
-
-The same phenomenon may be observed in periods of transition from
-female to male domination. Among the Batta, for instance, both sexes
-worked in the fields, but the man alone cared for the children. This
-was obviously a step toward equal rights. The men already shared the
-extra-domestic occupations of the women, but the women still refused to
-share the work of the hitherto subordinate men.
-
-When equal rights put an end to the differentiation of occupation
-the physical differences between men and women also disappear. We are
-to-day still far enough away from equality of the sexes, but there
-have been people where equal rights prevailed, and among such people
-the physical form of the two sexes was so like that they could hardly
-be distinguished. In Tacitus’s day, when equality was probably general
-among the Germans, men and women are reported to have had exactly the
-same weight and strength. Albert Friedenthal says of the Cingalese
-that a stranger could not distinguish the sexes. Men and women were so
-alike among the Botocudos that one had to count their tresses to tell
-them apart. Lallemant found among this people “a swarm of men-women and
-women-men, not a single man or a single woman in the whole tribe.” This
-good man came from a state where men dominated and did not suspect that
-when the power-relation of the sexes changed their physical appearance
-changed too. If a Botocudo had come to Europe in those days he would
-presumably have judged by his own standards and noted with equal horror
-the outer differences of European men and women.
-
-Every age holds its own standards absolute. The domination of one sex
-depends upon the artificial development of as many and as striking
-bodily differences as possible, and therefore approves them and insists
-upon emphasizing them. Equal rights tend to develop the natural
-similarity of the sexes and considering that the norm, regards it as
-ideal.
-
-There is ample opportunity to observe to-day that equality of the sexes
-coincides with a tendency slowly to do away with artificial physical
-differences. The disappearance of the so-called feminine figure was
-so striking in America, where the sexes are more nearly equal than in
-Europe, that Sargent and Alexander prophesied in 1910 that soon men
-and women could hardly be distinguished from one another. A comparison
-with pictures of thirty or forty years ago makes it plain that even
-in Europe male and female figures are coming closer to each other.
-The narrow waists and full bosoms of the women and the full beards of
-the men have disappeared. And, as a result of our investigation, we
-may prophesy that the coming equality will still more completely iron
-out those differences which hitherto have been regarded as genuine
-secondary sex characters.
-
-Whenever one sex is dominant there is a tendency to differentiate male
-and female costume. The more completely one sex dominates the greater
-will be the differences in clothes, and as the sexes become equal the
-differences disappear. When the two sexes are really equal they will
-wear the same clothing.
-
-The clothing of the dominant sex usually tends to be uniform and
-tasteless, that of the subordinate to be varied and richly ornamented.
-To-day man is still dominant, and his clothes are monotonous, dull,
-and less subject to shifts of fashion. Especially in formal dress he
-wears a sort of uniform. All men, of whatever age or position, wear
-dress clothes of the same cut and color. A grandfather wears a dinner
-coat exactly like that of his eighteen-year-old grandson. This seems
-natural, but the situation is reversed with the subordinate sex, most
-completely when the subordination is most complete. Only twenty or
-thirty years ago it was a crime in Germany for a mother to dress as
-“youthfully” as her unmarried daughter. A grandmother who dared to
-dress like her eighteen-year-old granddaughter would have been laughed
-to scorn. As woman’s power has grown, this has changed. Custom no
-longer requires a grandmother to emphasize her age by her clothes.
-
-Where woman dominates she tends to wear darker and plainer clothing and
-the man dresses himself more richly and variously. Erman writes of the
-old Egyptians:
-
- While according to our conceptions it befits the woman to love finery
- and ornament, the Egyptians of the old Empire seem to have had an
- opposite opinion. Beside the elaborate costumes of the men the women’s
- clothing seems very monotonous, for, from the fourth to the eighteenth
- dynasty, all, from the king’s daughter to the peasant woman, wore the
- same garb--a simple garment without folds.
-
-Herodotus, indeed, reported that Egyptian men had two suits, women
-only one. Erman naturally cannot explain the simplicity of the women’s
-clothes and the eagerness of the men for color and ornament, because it
-contradicted current theories of the character of the two sexes. To-day
-the view is current which Runge expressed when he said that “Women’s
-desire to please and love of ornament is dependent upon her sex life.”
-This view, though still common, is fundamentally false. The inclination
-to bright and ornamental clothing is dependent not upon sex but upon
-the power-relation of the sexes. The subordinate sex, whether male or
-female, seeks ornament. Strabo tells of the love of finery and cult of
-the body among Lybian men. They curled their hair, even their beards,
-wore gold ornaments, diligently brushed their teeth and polished their
-finger-nails. “They arrange their hair so tenderly,” he writes, “that
-when walking they never touch one another, in order not to disturb it.”
-It is usual in states where women are dominant for the men to wear long
-hair and pay particular attention to their barbering. The men of Tana,
-in the Hebrides, wore their hair 18 to 20 inches long, divided into six
-or seven hundred tiny locks, in the days when women ruled. Among the
-Latuka the men wore their hair so elaborately that it took ten years to
-arrange it. The Konds also wore very long hair, elaborately arranged.
-
-The stronger tendency of the subordinate sex to ornamentation
-apparently is closely related to the division of labor. The subordinate
-sex, working at home, has more leisure and opportunity for ornament
-than the dominant. Furthermore, leisure stimulates the erotic feelings.
-Since the partner does not share the leisure the lonely erotic often
-seeks a way out in self-ornamentation. At the same time the ornament is
-intended for the partner, for the stimulated eroticism increases the
-desire to please the other sex.
-
-When the sexes are equal the clothes of the two sexes tend to be alike.
-We have noted that the Cingalese were physically similar; their clothes
-were exactly the same. The only difference was that the men wore a
-mother-of-pearl comb in the hair, the women none. Among the Lepka the
-sexes can be distinguished only by the fact that the men wear their
-hair in two braids, the women in one. Tacitus reports that the old
-Germans wore the same clothes and wore their hair alike.
-
-We can observe the tendency to similarity of costume in this transition
-period. Many such attempts fail the first time, but finally succeed.
-More than a decade ago Paris attempted to establish a fashion of
-knickerbockers and bobbed hair. The attempt failed, but to-day the
-bobbed head has invaded every civilized country, almost in direct
-proportion to the degree in which women have acquired equal rights.
-It is reported from England that English women can already go to
-their work in trousers, heavy shoes, and short hair without exciting
-attention. The reader may judge of the accuracy of these reports. In
-Germany the police forbid one sex to wear the clothes of the other, but
-during the war when German women had to enter male trades they usually
-wore men’s clothing.
-
-Among men too the tendency to similarity is evident. Thirty years ago
-the beard was a generally accepted sign of manhood; it has fallen out
-of fashion. In the Youth Movement there is a tendency to leave the
-shirt open at the neck and to adopt a hair-cut like a bobbed girl’s. A
-note in Jean Paul’s “Levana,” which appeared in 1806, is interesting.
-He writes: “A few years ago it was fashionable in Russia for the men to
-fill out their clothing with high false bosoms.” That was in the days
-following the French Revolution, when a short wave of freedom, even for
-women, swept across the earth. It showed also in the women’s fashion
-which Jean Paul mentions:
-
- A fortunate accident for daughters is the Grecian costume of the
- present Gymnosophists (naked female runners), which, it is true,
- injures the mothers but hardens the daughters; for as age and custom
- should avoid every fresh cold so youth exercises itself on it as on
- every hardship until it can bear greater.... So, likewise, the present
- naked manner of dressing is a cold bath into which the daughters are
- dipped, who are exhilarated by it.
-
-
-
-
-Modern Love and Modern Fiction
-
-By J. W. Krutch
-
-
-Joseph Wood Krutch
-
-_has been Professor of English at the Brooklyn Polytechnic Institute,
-and is now dramatic editor and regular critic of fiction of_ The Nation.
-
-
-
-
-MODERN LOVE AND MODERN FICTION
-
-BY J. W. KRUTCH
-
-
-Seeing upon the jacket of a recent book the legend “Solves the Sex
-Problem,” my first reaction was a fervent hope that it did nothing
-of the sort, for I had no desire that fiction should be rendered
-supererogatory or, what is the same thing, that life should be made a
-less difficult art. Problems of housing, wages, taxation, militarism,
-and the like may be solved, temporarily at least, but what a
-contemporary writer has called “the irony of being two” is a sufficient
-guaranty of one never-to-be-resolved complexity. Until each individual
-of the human species becomes a complete biological entity, until, that
-is to say, hermaphrodism is universal, there can be no fear lest we
-should cease to live dangerously.
-
-Were I speaking of happiness I should be compelled to argue that
-the attitude of society and the individual toward sex is the most
-important thing in the world, but speaking as I am of life as
-material for art I must maintain, on the contrary, that it is much
-less important. As long as they have an attitude and as long as that
-attitude remains, as it has always remained, an inadequate one, those
-unresolved discords which make living and reading interesting will
-continue to arise. As a critic I “view with alarm” nothing except
-the possibility that the problem should be solved to everybody’s
-satisfaction, but that calamity does not seem at all likely to occur
-since I have never heard of a saint in the desert or a debauché in a
-brothel who was not sufficiently maladjusted to be a fruitful subject
-for fiction.
-
-After all, the things we do are both more significant and less changing
-than our attitude toward our acts. We burn men at the stake to light
-a Roman garden, to save the world from the horror of heresy, or to
-protect the sanctity of female virtue and assure the supremacy of
-the white race, but we burn them always; we fight because arms are
-glorious, because the service of God demands the rescue of His holy
-sepulcher from the infidel, or because we must make the world safe
-for peace, but always we fight; and the most important thing is the
-insistent lust of cruelty or the impulse to fight rather than the
-rationalization of these motives. So, too, with love. Paphnutius is
-harried out of apathy into a state in which he sees visions because of
-the temptations of the devil, Milton because God gave Eve to Adam as a
-comforter, Shelley because woman is the symbol of the unutterable, and
-Shaw (presumably) because only by the process of reproduction can the
-Life Force perform its perfectionist experiments; but the resultant
-impulses are not so very different. Mr. F. W. Myers once referred to
-the procreation of children in these lines:
-
- Lo! When a man magnanimous and tender,
- Lo! When a woman desperate and true,
- Make the inevitable sweet surrender,
- Show one another what the Lord can do,...
-
-but I doubt if the states of mind which called forth these lines and,
-say, Swinburne’s Dolores were as different as the verses would suggest
-or as the authors imagined. Without going so far as to say that the two
-poems are of equal literary merit, one can at least say that they are
-almost equally interesting and delightful to the observer of life or
-art and that as long as the mystical, the ascetic, the sentimental, and
-the biological attitudes toward love continue to exist side by side or
-to follow one another in succeeding epochs, the critic will not find
-literature either dull or monotonous.
-
-If at the end of a period of twenty-five years during which fiction
-has frankly concerned itself to an unusual degree with sex the problem
-seems more complicated than ever before, there is no cause for
-surprise. Even the specious pretense that a solution has been found
-can only be maintained when, as during the Victorian era, the mass of
-men agree to assume that no difficulties exist which are not solvable
-by that rule of thumb known as the social and moral code, and insist
-that sexual battles shall be fought out behind closed doors in life and
-between the chapters in books. By dragging them out into public view we
-have been able, no doubt, to palliate some of the commoner tragedies
-of stupidity. But chiefly we have been upon a voyage of discovery,
-and it ought to be evident now, if it has never been evident before,
-that we cannot possibly solve the problem because its most important
-aspects are not social but human. They have their roots in man’s
-ironic predicament between gorilla and angel, a predicament perfectly
-typified by the fact that as he grows critical he realizes that love
-is at once sublime and obscene and that only by walking a spiritual
-tight-rope above the abysses can he be said to live at all in any true
-sense. The very fact that the social aspects can to a certain extent
-be worked out makes them less interesting and explains the fact that
-those novels intended to prove, for example, that the mother of an
-illegitimate child may still be within the human pale have come to seem
-so unutterably dull. No doubt they “did good,” but like all forms of
-useful literature their life was short. By far the most interesting
-contemporary writers who deal chiefly with sex are largely concerned
-with the individual problem.
-
-Thanks partially to modern fiction we have attained a certain measure
-of freedom. But freedom, as everybody who understands either the
-meaning of the word or the value of the thing knows, raises problems
-instead of settling them. It is true that our attitude has changed.
-There is hardly a serious contemporary novel which does not take for
-granted things which would have outraged even liberal thinkers of
-the past century, and the changes have been mostly in the direction
-of clarification. It would be impossible for any one to-day to fail
-to see, as George Eliot failed to see, that the natural working of
-the “inevitable moral law” which punished Hetty Sorrel was neither
-inevitable nor natural. The things which happened to her came entirely
-from society and not at all from nature, so that the story which
-the author meant to be a tragedy of the ineluctable becomes merely
-a description of human stupidity. So, too, we are clearer on other
-things; we are not quite so hopelessly at sea as we once were when it
-comes to distinguishing between frigidity and chastity or purity and
-prudishness. But these things mean only that more choices are open to
-us, that we have come to see that sexual conduct cannot be guided or
-judged by a few outwardly applied standards, and that, accordingly, the
-conduct of life has been made more thrillingly difficult.
-
-Most sex novels of the past have been concerned chiefly with what might
-be called the right to love. They have combated an extremely old idea
-which Christianity found congenial and embodied in the conception of
-love as a part of the curse pronounced upon man at the Fall, and hence
-at best a necessary evil. They have been compelled solemnly to assure
-us that the early Christian Fathers were wrong in assuming that the
-human race would have been better off if it had been able to propagate
-itself by means of some harmless system of vegetation, and they have
-had to fly in the face of all laws and social customs which are seen,
-if examined closely, to rest upon the assumption that desire is merely
-a dangerous nuisance, fatal to efficiency and order, and hence to be
-regimented at any cost. It is now pretty generally admitted among the
-educated class that love is legitimate, even that it has an æsthetic as
-well as a utilitarian function. We have got back to the point which
-Ovid had reached some two thousand years ago of realizing that there is
-an art of love. During the next quarter of a century fiction will be
-concerned, I think, more with the failure or success of individuals to
-attain this art than with the exposition of theses which most accept.
-
-No doubt some of the more naïvely enthusiastic crusaders really
-believed that as soon as man was freed from the more grossly stupid
-restrictions from without and from the artificially cultivated
-inhibitions within, love would become simple and idyllic, but one
-needs look only at the books of D. H. Lawrence or Aldous Huxley to
-be relieved of this stupid delusion. The characters of both of these
-authors have long ago ceased to care what law or society thinks and
-they are surely untroubled by traditional asceticism, but their
-problems are not less acute. Indeed it is just because these novelists
-are so completely concerned with love as a personal matter that they
-are the freshest of those contemporary writers with whom sex is the
-dominant interest. Each is concerned with something fundamental--the
-one with the problem of the adjustment of personalities and the other
-with the evaluation of sexual love.
-
-If by “immoral” is meant “tending to excite lubricity,” then nothing
-could be more absurd than the opinion, apparently held by some, that
-the books of these men are immoral. They are so completely unable to
-lose themselves carelessly in passion and so insistent upon the need of
-adjusting it somehow to the other interests of life that they strike
-one as more like saints than like gallants, and their books are far
-more chilling than inflammatory. Huxley and Joyce try to laugh sex
-away, but their scorn of the flesh suggests Erasmus more than Rabelais,
-and, as for Lawrence, his novels constitute so solemn a warning that
-one imagines him as thoroughly bored with the exigencies of passion and
-more likely to make his disciples celibates than debauchés.
-
-In Lawrence’s morbidly sensitive and exaggeratedly individualistic
-characters one sees as through a magnifying-glass the thousand
-impingements of personality upon personality which make love more and
-more difficult as it becomes more intimate and personal. His people,
-like Schopenhauer’s porcupines, are continually coming together for
-warmth only to find themselves pricked by one another’s quills and to
-part snarling, so that his perpetual prayer is a “Lord deliver us from
-this need which can be neither stilled nor satisfied.” And abnormal
-though he is, his abnormality is one of degree only, for when sexual
-love is developed beyond the impulse of the animal and desires the
-contact of spirit as well as body that contact is bound to be both
-incomplete and painful.
-
-Nor is the even more fundamental problem with which Aldous Huxley is
-concerned likely ever to receive a permanent or a general solution.
-He is in search of love, but he can find only ridiculous and obscene
-biological facts, for love, like God and the other most important human
-possessions, does not exist. It is an illusion created by the effort of
-the imagination to transform the unsatisfactory materials which life
-has furnished it into something acceptable to the soul; but being an
-illusion, it is unstable and perpetually tending, if not created anew,
-to dissolve into its elements. The racial need for the continuation
-of the species and the individual need for the satisfaction of a
-physiological impulse exist, but they are hard, unsatisfying realities,
-and the struggle of mankind is to create some fiction which will as far
-as possible include and at the same time transcend them.
-
-And nothing derogatory is, of course, meant by the word “fiction.” All
-that distinguishes man from nature is such a fiction, and it is by his
-insistent belief in these imaginary things that civilization has been
-created. All of Mr. Huxley’s books are confessions, first cynically
-triumphant and then despairing, of his inability to be poet or mystic
-or ironist enough to achieve this transcendence and find in his
-animal heritage a satisfaction for his spiritual needs. Like everyone
-else, he is compelled to love, and love implies a certain amount of
-idealization. How, he asks in effect, is he to poetize this ridiculous
-function, which he shares with the beasts, and concerning which science
-is constantly presenting us with an increasing amount of disillusioning
-knowledge? Exercising the most perverse ingenuity in confronting
-romance with biology and in establishing the identity (in the realm of
-fact) of love and lust, he has continually tracked the trail of the
-beast into the holy of holies--but only because it hurt him so much to
-find it there. The obscenities in which he seems to revel are defiances
-of the inner idealist who has dared to assimilate the loathsome
-trivialities of sex into something capable of satisfying spiritual
-desires. When he sings one of his philosopher’s songs or when, in
-“Antic Hay,” he describes some particularly revolting orgy there is
-nothing new in the psychological state which provokes his obscenity.
-His attitude is a result of failure to reconcile physical fact with
-spiritual feeling. He is not far from Huysmans, who ended “A Rebours”
-with the words: “For the man who has written such a book there are only
-two alternatives--a pistol or the foot of the cross.” Only of course
-Huysmans was wrong. Anatole France and James Branch Cabell are not less
-sophisticated, but through the perfection of sophistication they have
-achieved a peaceful irony in which they can worship a non-existent
-God and believe again in the illusions they create. Huxley, too
-sophisticated for simple faith and too downright for ironic worship, is
-lost.
-
-When the conception of love is, as it has tended to be in modern
-times, legalistic, these problems are submerged. As long as marriage
-is a matter of contract, the importance of the inward harmony of
-personalities is of the slightest, for children may be begotten
-and reared whether the parents love or hate. As long as passion is
-generally conceded to be but a shameful concession to unregenerate
-humanity, the average man is not likely to be concerned if he finds
-that the ideal of the poets is not realized in his own nuptial couch.
-But when love is free and unashamed then it is made ten times more
-difficult, for lives are recognized as frank failures which once would
-have seemed useful and satisfactory. Fiction, too, becomes, not more
-interesting, but more important. It ceases completely to be what it
-always tends to be when opinion is fixed, namely, a mere illustration
-of the working out of social or moral “laws”; it becomes frankly the
-record of individual souls in search of a successful way of life. It
-records, no doubt, more failures than successes, but it furnishes the
-best and perhaps only really important material for the study of that
-art of life which grows ever more complicated as we demand that it be
-more complete and beautiful.
-
-
-
-
-Can Men and Women Be Friends?
-
-By Floyd Dell
-
-
-
-
-Floyd Dell
-
-_was born at Barry, Illinois, June 28th, 1887. Is the author of several
-novels and collections of essays including “Janet March,” a story of
-a young woman and her adjustment to modern standards. His latest book
-is “Looking at Life.” Other books are “Women as World Builders,” 1913;
-“Were You Ever a Child?” 1919; “Moon Calf,” 1920; “The Briary Bush,”
-1921._
-
-
-
-
-CAN MEN AND WOMEN BE FRIENDS?
-
-BY FLOYD DELL
-
-
-Friendship between men and women is rather a new thing in the history
-of the world. Friendship depends upon equality and choice, and there
-has been very little of either in the relations of the sexes, up
-to the present. A woman does not choose her male relatives, nor is
-she according to archaic family laws their equal; motives other
-than personal choice might lead her to become a man’s wife; wholly
-impersonal reasons might place her in the relationship of kept
-mistress. Only in her rôle of paramour was there any implication of
-free choice; and even here there was no full equality, not even of
-danger. None of these customary relationships of the past can be said
-to have fostered friendship between men and women. Doubtless it did
-exist, but under difficulties.
-
-Family bonds, however, are being more and more relaxed, women are no
-longer the wards of their male relatives, and friendship with a father
-or brother is more than ever possible. Further, the free personal
-choice which marked only the romantic amours of the age of chivalry is
-now popularly regarded in America as essential to any decent marriage,
-while the possibility of divorce tends to make free choice something
-besides a mere youthful illusion. More than ever before, husbands and
-wives are friends.
-
-At the same time the intensity of friendships between people of the
-same sex appears to be diminishing. This intensity, in its classic
-instances, as in Greece, we now regard as an artificial product, the
-result of the segregation of the sexes and the low social position
-of women. As women become free and equal with men such romantic
-intensity of emotion finds a more biologically appropriate expression.
-Friendships between people of the same sex must to-day compete on the
-one hand with romantic love and on the other with the more fascinating
-though often less enduring friendships which can now be enjoyed between
-men and women. Neglect of these latter opportunities is coming to be
-regarded as a kind of spiritual cowardice, or at least as a failure in
-enterprise.
-
-The influences of the machine age, so destructive to fixed
-authoritarian relationships, appear to foster the growth of friendship
-between the sexes; so much so that we may expect it to become, in its
-further developments, a characteristic social feature of the age that
-lies immediately before us.
-
-Friendship will become a more and more important aspect of marriage
-itself; but, except in the effects of its wider spread, this will
-hardly be a new thing--we have friendships between husbands and
-wives now. Nor will extra-marital friendships between men and women
-be precisely a new thing. What will be new, furnishing us with an
-interesting theme for sociological speculation, are the conventions
-which will gradually come into existence to give social protection and
-dignity to extra-marital friendships.
-
-Conventions are, doubtless, always rather ridiculous, inevitably a
-shackle upon the free motions of the soul, being imposed by fear.
-But it will be remembered that we, in America, with a vast amount
-of freedom of intersexual association, have thus far only begun to
-dispense with the locks and bars and whippings and chaperons which
-were the appurtenances of a physical segregation of the sexes; the
-vast paraphernalia of psychic segregation, including sexual taboos
-which hark back to the primeval darkness, are with us still. Our minds
-are habituated to unreasonable fears in all matters concerning the
-relations of the sexes. For a long time, extra-marital friendships
-of men and women may be expected to be hedged about with elaborate
-and specific permissions, for the sake of keeping them under social
-control. Yet these conventions may be very convenient; and however
-irksome they may seem to the free spirits of a future day, they may
-still be such as would appear to us generously libertarian.
-
-To-day, in the absence of such conventions, it does not suffice that
-a man and woman, too well married to be afraid of extra-marital
-friendships, grant them to each other by private treaty; relatives,
-friends, and neighbors do not fail to be duly alarmed. Extra-marital
-friendship exists in an atmosphere of social suspicion which a few
-conventions would go far to alleviate.
-
-As an example in a different field, the convention with regard to
-dancing may be adduced. If dancing were not a general custom, if it
-were the enlightened practice of an advanced few, how peculiar and
-suspicious would seem the desire of Mr. X and Mrs. Y to embrace each
-other to music; and how scandalized the neighbors would be to hear that
-they _did_! No one would rest until the pair had been driven into an
-elopement.
-
-We build huge palaces for the kind of happy communion which dancing
-furnishes; we tend more and more to behave like civilized beings
-about the impulses which are thus given scope. We are less socially
-hospitable to the impulses of friendship between men and women.
-
-In friendship there are many moods; but the universal rite of
-friendship is _talk_. Talk needs no palaces for its encouragement;
-it is not an expensive affair; it would seem to be well within the
-reach of all. Yet it isn’t. For the talk of friendship requires
-privacy--though the privacy of a table for two in a crowded and noisy
-restaurant will suffice; and it requires time. Such talk does not
-readily adjust itself to the limitations of the dinner hour. It is a
-flower slow in unfolding; and it seems to come to its most perfect
-bloom only after midnight. But, unfortunately, not every restaurant
-keeps open all night. It is satisfied with two comfortable chairs;
-a table to lean elbows on is good, too; in winter an open fire,
-where friendly eyes may stare dreamily into the glowing coals--that
-is very good; hot or cold drinks according to the season, and a
-cigarette--these are almost the height of friendship’s luxury. These
-seem not too much to ask. Yet the desire for privacy and uncounted
-hours of time together is, when considered from that point of view,
-scandalous in its implications; quite as much so as the desire of Mr.
-X and Mrs. Y to embrace each other to music. However, Mr. X and Mrs. Y
-do, under the ægis of a convention, indulge their desire and embrace
-each other to their heart’s content with the full approval of civilized
-society; and it seems as though another convention might grow up, under
-the protection of which Mr. X and Mrs. Y might sit up and talk all
-night without its seeming queer of them.
-
-Queer, at the least, it does seem nowadays, except under the
-conventions of courtship; friends who happen to be married to each
-other can of course talk comfortably in bed. These bare facts are
-sufficient to explain why so many men and women who really want to
-be friends and sit up all night occasionally and talk find it easy
-to believe that they are in love with each other. They find it all
-the easier to believe this, because friendship between the sexes is
-usually spiced with some degree of sexual attraction. But a degree of
-sexual attraction which might have kept a friendship forever sweet
-may prove unequal to the requirements of a more serious and intimate
-relationship. Disillusionment is the penalty, at the very least.
-Society could well afford to grant more freedom to friendship between
-men and women, and save the expense of a large number of broken hearts.
-
-It is worth while to wonder if a good deal of “romance” is not, after
-all, friendship mistaking itself for something else; or rather, finding
-its only opportunity for expression in that mistake. Among civilized
-people, after the romance has ended, the friendship remains. It may
-perhaps have been worth while to imagine oneself in love, in order to
-enjoy a friendship; but it seems rather a wasteful proceeding.
-
-Yet those who, taking a merely economical view of the situation,
-attempt to enjoy such friendships without becoming involved or
-involving others in such waste, may with some embarrassment
-discover--what Mrs. Grundy could have told them all along--that
-friendship and sexual romance may sometimes be difficult to relegate
-to previously determined boundaries. Friendship between the sexes may,
-if only for a moment, seem to demand the same tokens of sincerity
-as romantic love. Does not this fact threaten the traditional,
-jealously-guarded dignity of marriage?
-
-Perhaps it does. At present, in any conflict of claims between a
-marriage and a friendship, there is “nothing to arbitrate”; marriage
-has all the rights, friendship none. If the rights of friendship are
-to be at all considered and protected, marriage may have to yield
-something. It may not be good manners for husbands and wives to be
-jealous of the quite possible momentary exuberances of each other’s
-friendships; it may be that such incidents will be regarded as being
-within the discretion of the persons immediately concerned, and not
-quite proper subjects for inquiry, speculation, or comment by anybody
-else.
-
-And this might have an effect unsuspected by those whom such a prospect
-of liberty would most alarm to-day. When a moment’s rashness does not
-necessarily imply red ruin and the breaking up of homes, when sex is
-freed to a degree from the sense of overwhelming social consequences,
-it may well become a matter of more profound personal consequence; and
-with nothing to fear except the spoiling of their friendship, men and
-women in an ardent friendship may yet prefer talk to kisses.
-
-“But what if they don’t?” A complete answer to that question, from the
-Utopian point of view, would take us far afield from the subject of
-friendship; yet some further answer may seem to be required, if only by
-way of confessing to Mrs. Grundy that the problem is not so simple as
-it may seem. Well, then, out of many possibilities which the future
-holds, I offer this one for what it may be worth. Such friendships,
-let us agree, tend to merge insensibly into romantic sexual love.
-But if marriage may be conceived as yielding some of its traditional
-rights, extra-marital romance may well be called upon for similar
-concessions. The first thing that extra-marital romance might be asked
-to surrender would be its intolerable and fatuous airs of _holiness_.
-Yes, “holiness” is the word--a holiness all the more asserted by such
-extra-marital lovers because their relations are likely to be taken
-disrespectfully by a stupid world. Oh, unquestionably, if you ask
-them, never was any legal and conventional love so high and holy as
-this romantic passion of theirs! Its transcendental holiness calls
-for sacrifices. So they sacrifice themselves--and, incidentally,
-others--to it. Anything less, they feel, would be cowardly. They must
-not palter with these sacred emotions--not even by the exercise of
-their dormant sense of humor!--So it is to-day: but perhaps in a future
-where extra-marital romance is made room for with a tender and humorous
-courtesy, it may give up these preposterous and solemn airs, and
-actually learn to smile at its illusions--illusions which will still
-give the zest of ultimate danger to relationships of merely happy and
-light-hearted play. Thus life will continue to be interesting.
-
-As for the talk of friendship, my Utopian speculations uncover for
-me no respect in which the thing itself can be improved upon. The
-circumstances can be made happier, the attitude of society can
-foster it; but the talk of friendship has already reached a splendid
-perfection beyond which my imagination is unable to soar. At its best
-it has, despite its personal aspect, an impersonal beauty; it is a
-poignant fulfillment of those profound impulses which we call curiosity
-and candor; it serves human needs as deep as those which poetry and
-music serve, and is in some sense an art like them. The art exists, and
-it remains only for the future to give it an adequate hospitality.
-
-
-
-
-Love and Marriage
-
-By Ludwig Lewisohn
-
-
-
-
-Ludwig Lewisohn
-
-_author of “Up Stream,” “Don Juan” and other books and contributing
-editor of_ The Nation, _is now studying conditions in Eastern Europe
-and Palestine. Was born May 30th, 1882, in Berlin--came to America
-in 1890--B.A. and M.A. College of Charleston, S. C., 1901--M. A.
-Columbia, 1903--Editorial staff, Doubleday, Page & Co., 1910-1911.
-Instructor in German, University of Wisconsin, and Literature at
-Ohio State University. Dramatic Editor_, Nation, _1919. Author of
-“The Broken Snare,” 1908;--“A Night in Alexandria,” 1909; “German
-Style--an Introduction to the Study of German Prose,”--1910; “The
-Modern Drama,” 1915; “The Spirit of Modern German Literature,” 1916;
-“The Poets of Modern France,” 1918; Editor with W. P. Trent of “Letters
-of an American Farmer,” 1909; “A Book of Modern Criticism,” 1909.
-Translator--Feuchlersleben’s “Health & Suggestion,” 1910; Sudermann’s
-“Judean City,” 1911; Halbe’s “Youth,” Hirschfeld’s “The Mothers,”
-1916; Latzko’s “The Judgment of Peace,” 1919; Wassermann’s “World’s
-Illusion.” Editor and chief translator of Gerhardt Hauptmann’s Dramatic
-Works, 1916, 1917; Contributing Editor, Warner’s Library of World’s
-Best Literature. His latest book is “The Creative Life,” 1924._
-
-
-
-
-LOVE AND MARRIAGE
-
-BY LUDWIG LEWISOHN
-
-
-Utopia is the loveliest of all countries; it is also the farthest away.
-One may make magnificent generalizations concerning the future of the
-relations of the sexes; one may set down truths that are theoretically
-unanswerable. Only one will change nothing, help not a single soul. Let
-me cling to a few humble facts....
-
-So far as any one can see the habit of one man living with one woman
-will persist. The young will hear of nothing else, since they are
-under the sway of romantic passion which is, subjectively, exclusive
-and final; those who are older will hear of nothing else because
-experience has shown this method of life capable of securing the
-healthiest freedom from preoccupation with sex and the maximum amount
-of ordered activity. To be a rake or even a fastidious “varietist” is
-the costliest of occupations. Rational monogamy is in no danger. The
-trouble lies elsewhere; it lies in the fact that current notions of
-monogamy are, I use the word advisedly, insane.
-
-Local bill-board advertisements of moving pictures have recently shown
-a ball-room in which an irate gentleman in evening-dress grasped the
-shoulder of another gentleman who looked crushed and crest-fallen. With
-an inimitable gesture of moral indignation the first gentleman pointed
-to a quivering female on the other side of the room. The caption of
-this stirring lithograph was “His Forgotten Wife.” The exquisite
-absurdity of this picture is clear. It is significant of the way in
-which we are all brow-beaten by the sodden nonsense of the tribe that
-it took me some minutes of reflection to come upon the unreason of the
-thing. If the crushed looking gentleman had forgotten the lady, she was
-not, of course, his wife and could never have truly been. If we are
-dealing with a euphemism and are to understand that he wanted to forget
-her, she may once have been his wife, but had, quite obviously, ceased
-to be.
-
-In this moving picture there is illustrated what I call the insane
-view of monogamic marriage, namely, that it is put on like a shirt or
-a coat and must be kept on however ill-fitting, comfortless, unclean,
-or dangerous, and that in this mere keeping on there is virtue. There
-is the further implication that marriage has nothing to do with good
-behavior, which is rewarded even in penitentiaries, or with ill; that
-it is, indeed, an abstract kind of fate, a magical or infernal machine,
-a metaphysical trap. Once you are caught in it, you must stay caught.
-To wriggle is sin.
-
-Do I seem to be discussing the matter on too low a plane? I wish I
-were. The truth is that cultivated and liberal people have not yet
-freed their minds from the concepts with which that amusing picture
-deals. It is in action, not in fireside talk that these things are
-tested. And it is true that even such people will pay an uninhibited
-respect to a depraved character, cruel, treacherous, stupid, who
-practices that moving-picture theory of marriage which, in ways no
-less real for being subtle and but half-conscious, they will be
-tempted to withhold from a person of the utmost spiritual grace and
-charm who practices that kind of marriage of which, theoretically and
-outspokenly, they so eloquently approve.
-
-This very tentative argument, then, is not directed against marriage. I
-am not even ready to plead--that would be Utopian--that the relations
-of the sexes be withdrawn from social control. Our first step, at
-least in America, must be an attempt to sanitate marriage. This can be
-done--if it can be done at all--by relating marriage and its practice
-to certain notions of good and decency and honor that already have a
-tenure, however feeble, upon the public consciousness. Marriage, in
-brief, should be held to be created by love and sustained by love. I
-shall, of course, be accused of meaning passion. I mean that precise
-blending of passion and spiritual harmony and solid friendship without
-which, as even those who will not admit it know, the close association
-of a man and a woman is as disgusting as it is degrading. And marriage
-should be dependent, though this matter is included in the first, on
-good behavior. I will not keep a man or a woman as my friend whom I
-discover to be a liar, slanderer, thief. Much less ought one to keep
-such a person as husband or wife. Who is to judge, it will be asked?
-No objective judgment is needed. A subjective conviction of this sort
-suffices to reduce the union in question to dust and ashes.
-
-Here is the one practical point; here the one possibility of hope. To
-frame a rational theory of the relations of men and women is easy and
-agreeable. The very fashioners of such theories, being human, will be
-brought, under the discomforts of social pressure, to _seem_ to assent
-to all that their minds most passionately deny. A man or a woman of
-the highest philosophic insight will struggle through the ignominy
-of the divorce courts not so much in order to dissolve a meaningless
-legal bond as to save some one whom he or she loves and reveres from
-the criticism of the vulgar. For we live in a vulgar world. There is no
-safe and ultimate escape; its vulgarity in precisely these matters will
-often affront us where we least expected it. To mitigate that vulgarity
-must be our first task.
-
-I do not know whether it can be done at all. But if so, then it must
-be done by making an unhappy union disgraceful. People who are always
-bickering with each other, who are obviously unhappy in each other’s
-presence, who always hold opinions acridly opposed, who are always
-trying either subtly or obviously to escape from each other--such
-couples must fall under social disapproval. And this disapproval
-must apply even though one of the two prefers possessiveness to
-either happiness or decency or self-respect. Similarly those who are
-deliberately unfaithful should be disgraced--not for the act of unfaith
-but for the hypocrisy of remaining in a union which that very act,
-which the temptation to that very act, shows to have lost its purpose
-and its meaning.
-
-This sort of social control is not my ideal. Love is like religion,
-a matter for the individual soul. To change partners in love is very
-much like changing one’s opinion on some deep and vital matter. The
-spirit must bear its own inherent witness. But I promised myself not
-to be Utopian. And may it not conceivably be brought home to a few
-people to begin with that the men who laugh so spontaneously when
-the song-and-dance man sings “My wife’s gone to the country, hurray,
-hurray!” are leading immoral lives and reducing their partners to the
-rôle of disagreeable prostitutes and unsatisfactory servants?
-
-I am not prepared to stress the point unendurably. True marriage,
-the true and lovely union of a man and a woman, body and spirit, is
-rare. But to-day it is not even an ideal, not even something admired
-and striven for. Love in itself is rare and married love is perhaps
-as rare as beauty or genius. Happiness, too, is rare, happiness in
-any relation. But even as a man or a woman has made an obvious and
-shattering mistake if his or her chosen work does not produce a
-reasonable minimum of lasting inner satisfaction, so may marriage also
-be tested by a reasonable minimum of lasting--let us say, preference
-and blessedness. To fall below that minimum is to cheat both the self
-and society, both the present and posterity, to sacrifice honor to a
-fetish and vitality to decay.
-
-
-
-
-Communist Puritans
-
-By Louis Fischer
-
-
-
-
-Louis Fischer
-
-_is Moscow correspondent of the New York_ Nation.
-
-
-
-
-COMMUNIST PURITANS
-
-BY LOUIS FISCHER
-
-
-The Soviet state is omnipotent and omnipresent. Bukharin, the
-arch-theorist, contends that this is a transitional phase in the
-development of Communism toward perfection. The Bolsheviks’ professed
-aim is the _reductio ad administratum_ of the functions of the state;
-they would make government the traffic cop of the nation but not the
-all-pervading busybody and touch-everybody-everywhere which it is
-now in Russia. The transitional period, however, may last long. In
-default of a world revolution it may project itself beyond the present
-generation and even beyond the next. And in the meantime it is good
-Communist doctrine to maintain an Argus-eyed, Herculanean-clubbed
-state. The Soviet Government is alike an administrator, politician,
-statesman, merchant, manufacturer, banker, shipbuilder, newspaper
-publisher, school-teacher, and preacher.
-
-Such a state is the highest expression of the anti-individualism of
-socialist philosophy. The single _simian erectus_ is nothing; it is the
-class, the nation which counts.
-
-The citizen lives for the state. Mind and muscle must ever be at its
-service. A Communist who is a loose liver is an anomaly. There is
-virtue even in a grain of asceticism and in “morality,” not, it is
-important to note, because luxury and license are sinful and lead to
-damnation and hell but because the excessive gratification of physical
-desires, be they for sex or for alcohol, and any over-indulgence of
-one’s selfish mental weaknesses reduce the energy and attention which
-the individual can offer to the state and to society.
-
-The Bolsheviks do not believe in evolution in the realm of politics;
-they are revolutionists. Eighteenth and nineteenth-century liberalism
-tended toward the survival of the fittest. But the essence of the
-Russian revolution is the protection of the under dog, of the
-proletarian and peasant who, unaided, would not survive in the unequal
-struggle with the capitalist and landowner. The function of the Soviet
-state is to support the oppressed majority against the vested and
-acquired interests of the economically powerful minority.
-
-The doctrine of the survival of the fittest, translated into every-day
-life, permits freedom of action, as little restraint as possible, the
-freest play for nature and human nature. Communist doctrine involves
-the negation of individual freedom; human nature is discounted in the
-socialist scale of weights and measures; laissez-faire is replaced by
-discipline, if need be, by force. Only once did the Communists reveal
-a liberal vein. It was in their treatment of conscientious objectors
-during the civil wars. Russia has many sects such as the Dukhobors who
-are opposed to violence on grounds of conscience. Though the Government
-was engaged in a death struggle, it respected these sentiments. But in
-all else, whenever its own interests have been at stake, the state has
-disregarded the wishes and inclinations of the human unit. Liberty of
-the individual is not as sacred an ikon as it is in the West. To give
-economic freedom to the mass is a nobler aim. Thus the Communists would
-explain and justify (but in my opinion this does not justify) the
-absence of a free press in Russia and the activities of the G. P. U.
-
-The aim of the Bolsheviks was not merely to overthrow one government
-and to establish their own. This was a means toward creating a new
-society. To that extent the Bolsheviks are as presumptuous as most
-reformers. In 1917 they must have argued to themselves much to this
-effect: “We are a minority. The majority has not invited us to rule
-it. But we know better than the majority what is good for it.” In the
-interest of the new society a powerful state was set up. The powerful
-state was privileged to ride roughshod over the individual. The
-Bolsheviks presume to tell the individual how to act and how to live.
-This is the “superiority complex” which is one of the most essential
-characteristics of puritanism. “I am perfect. Watch me. Go thou and do
-likewise.” The Russian Communists are puritans without religion.
-
-In matters of morals the Communists advocate and agitate but do not
-use force. Only in the case of members of the Communist Party do
-they interfere if the individual’s actions are likely “directly or
-indirectly to discredit the party.” (Such a phrase permits of the
-widest interpretation and misinterpretation.) Thus in an article in
-the _Pravda_ on The Party and Personal Life, O. Zortzeva, an official
-of the Central Control Committee, writes that “not long ago one of
-the representatives of the Control Committee in the South asked for
-instructions to combat the evil of divorce.” She cites an instance (and
-there must be many more such instances) where a Communist was required
-to explain why he left his wife. He replied he could not live with
-her because she was unfit to mingle in the society of his new friends
-and acquaintances. The reply was regarded as unsatisfactory. The
-Soviet state enforces a most liberal divorce law. But the Communists
-discourage divorce. Within the party it is looked upon with disfavor.
-
-The war, the revolution, the civil wars have worked havoc with the
-Russian family. It is perhaps no exaggeration to say that family
-life is crumbling. Trotzky, who has given more active attention to
-these questions of personal behavior than any other Communist leader,
-seeks to reënforce the collapsing buttresses of the family. (It
-will be recalled that Engels, the author with Marx of the “Communist
-Manifesto,” wrote the “Origin of the Family” to prove that the family
-was a new, unnecessary, and reactionary institution.) Trotzky urges the
-“communalization of the family household” so as to “disencumber the
-family of kitchen and laundry.” Take the burden of washing, cooking,
-sewing, child-raising from the family and “the relation between husband
-and wife will be cleansed of all that is external, foreign, forced,
-accidental. Each would cease to spoil the life of the other....”
-
-The family life of most Communist leaders would probably find favor
-in the eyes of the Bishop of New York, and we can imagine that Cotton
-Mather, if he returned to the flesh and visited Moscow, would hurry to
-Trotzky, slap him untheologically on the back, and say, “Thou art a
-man.” There was something ascetic and impersonal in the way Lenin used
-to live. There is something reminiscent of Christian self-abnegation
-in Chicherin’s, Bukharin’s, Radek’s disdain for good clothes. A
-Communist is required to contribute to the party treasury all the
-salary he earns above $95 a month. And even if his writings bring him a
-supplementary income he must not spend it for luxuries. The Communists
-are the shock troops of the Soviet régime. They must be like athletes
-in training. They must not consume mental and spiritual ice creams and
-pastries.
-
-Alexandra Kollontai, now Soviet ambassador in Christiania, stands for
-the utmost freedom in sexual relations. But a review in the official
-press of her book, “Love Among Laboring Bees,” stigmatizes her views
-on the subject as “prostitution” and “intellectual tomfoolery.” “It
-is imperative,” reads the last sentence of the criticism, “to guard
-against the harmful influence of Comrade Kollontai.” This is the
-attitude which in other countries leads to the appointment of vice
-censors. Russia, fortunately, is too advanced to subject itself to such
-a humiliation. Only the lives of Communists are censored. In respect
-to the great mass of the people the Bolsheviks content themselves with
-preaching.
-
-Trotzky’s sermons will certainly do the people no harm. Russians
-have barely a trace of puritanism. Take the instance of their
-famous, many-ply “mother” oaths. Beside them the worst product of the
-British navvy looks pale. Says Trotzky: “One would have to consult
-philologists, linguists, and folk-lore experts to find out whether
-any other people has such unrestrained, filthy, and disgusting oaths
-as we have. As far as I know, there is no other.” The Communists have
-initiated an anti-swearing campaign. In some factories the workers
-themselves decided to fine any one who used an “expression.” Wherever
-one goes, in industrial plants, in beer saloons, in clubs, one sees the
-colored “Don’t Swear” poster. Even in the army, where curses once found
-their most fertile field, they are becoming increasingly rare.
-
-A Communist should not play cards. A member of the party will not, if
-he is a good Communist, enter a gambling casino. (The Moscow gambling
-casinos, incidentally, have been closed by order of the Government.)
-Newly initiated Communists ask their instructors whether they are to
-permit their wives to powder their faces. A Communist would hardly come
-to her office with her lips rouged and even non-Communist workers in
-many Soviet commissariats feel that it is bad form to use the lipstick.
-Certainly very few if any women Communists dress to fashion. Most of
-them dress badly. There are more serious things to do than to mind the
-clothes on one’s back. It is unworthy of a Communist, and Communists
-think it is unworthy of all Russians, to give too much thought to the
-flesh. I know a non-Communist Soviet official who likes to carry a
-cane, but he leaves it home when he goes to work.
-
-There can be no let-up, says Trotzky, in the war against alcohol.
-The Government has abolished vodka, but the bootleg “samogonka” has
-replaced it. The police arrest men and women (in Russia most of
-the apprehended bootleggers are women) but force removes as little
-of the evil here as it does in the United States. So strong is the
-drink tradition in Russia that even many Communists indulge in the
-permissible wines and light beers. But the party reminds its members
-that they must inhibit such desires. It will not do for the best
-soldiers of the state and the master-builders of a new society to
-become inebriated, or lose their heads and time in the pursuit of
-women, or play cards, or stop to adjust their neckties while the
-foundations of the structure are being laid.
-
-
-
-
-Stereotypes
-
-By Florence Guy Seabury
-
-
-
-
-Florence Guy Seabury
-
-_is a frequent contributor to the_ New Republic _and to various popular
-magazines._
-
-
-
-
-STEREOTYPES
-
-BY FLORENCE GUY SEABURY
-
-
-If Clarissa Harlow could have stepped out of her pre-Victorian world
-to witness some of the women stevedores and “longshoremen” now at work
-along the New York water front, she would certainly have fainted so
-abruptly that no masculine aid could have restored consciousness. If
-we can believe the 1920 census, a goodly number of Clarissa’s timid
-and delicate sex are toiling gloriously in the most dangerous and
-violent occupations. Nor are they only engaged in handling steel beams
-and freight, running trucks and donkey engines, but as miners and
-steeplejacks, aviators and divers, sheriffs and explorers--everything,
-in fact that man ever did or thought of doing. They have proved,
-moreover, as successful in such a new occupation as capturing jungle
-tigers as in the old one of hunting husbands, as deft in managing big
-business as in running a little household.
-
-But the census bureau, compiling all the facts of feminine industry,
-forgot to note that woman might perform these amazingly varied
-operations, outside the home, without changing in any measurable degree
-the rooted conception of her nature and activities. She may step out
-of skirts into knickers, cut her hair in a dozen short shapes and
-even beat a man in a prize fight, but old ideas as to her place and
-qualities endure. She changes nothing as set as the stereotyped image
-of her sex which has persisted since Eve.
-
-The Inquiring Reporter of the New York _Sun_ recently asked five
-persons whether they would prefer to be tried by a jury of men or
-women. “Of men,” cried they all--two women and three men. “Women would
-be too likely to overlook the technical points of the law.” “Women are
-too sentimental.” “They are too easily swayed by an eloquent address.”
-“Women are by nature sentimental.” Almost anybody could complete the
-list. Ancient opinions of women’s characteristics have been so widely
-advertised that the youngest child in the kindergarten can chirp the
-whole story. Billy, aged ten, hopes fervently that this country may
-never have a woman president. “Women haven’t the brains--it’s a
-man’s job.” A. S. M. Hutchinson, considerably older than Billy, has
-equally juvenile fears: that the new freedom for women may endanger her
-functions in the home. Whatever and wherever the debate, the status
-and attributes of women are settled by neat and handy generalizations,
-passed down from father to son, and mother to daughter. For so far,
-most women accept the patterns made for them and are as likely as not
-to consider themselves the weaker vessel, the more emotional sex, a lay
-figure of biological functioning.
-
-Optimists are heralding a changed state in the relationship of men and
-women. They point to modern activities and interests as evidence of a
-different position in the world. They say that customs and traditions
-of past days are yielding to something freer and finer. The old order,
-as far as home life is concerned, has been turned topsy-turvy. Out of
-this chaos, interpreters of the coming morality declare that already
-better and happier ways have been established between man and maid.
-
-It sounds plausible enough, but the trouble remains, that, so far, it
-isn’t true. The intimate relationship of men and women is about as it
-was in the days of Cleopatra or Xanthippe. The most brawny stevedorette
-leaves her freight in the air when the whistle blows and rushes home
-to husband as if she were his most sheltered possession. Following the
-tradition of the centuries, the business woman, whose salary may double
-that of her mate, hands him her pay envelope and asks permission to
-buy a new hat. Busts and bustles are out, flat chests and orthopedic
-shoes are in, while the waist line moves steadily toward the thigh--but
-what of it? Actualities of present days leave the ancient phantasies
-unchanged.
-
-Current patterns for women, as formulated by the man in the street, by
-the movies, in the women’s clubs and lecture halls can be boiled down
-to one general cut. Whatever she actually is or does, in the stereotype
-she is a creature specialized to function. The girl on the magazine
-cover is her symbol. She holds a mirror, a fan, a flower and--at
-Christmas--a baby. Without variety, activity, or individuality her
-sugary smile pictures satisfying femininity. Men are allowed diversity.
-Some are libertines, others are husbands; a few are lawyers, many are
-clerks. They wear no insignia of masculinity or badge of paternity and
-they are never expected to live up to being Man or Mankind. But every
-woman has the whole weight of formulated Womanhood upon her shoulders.
-Even in new times, she must carry forward the design of the ages.
-
-One of the quaint hang-overs of the past is that men are the chief
-interpreters of even the modern woman. It may be that the conquest of
-varied fields and the strain of establishing the right to individuality
-has taken all her time and energy. Or it may be that the habit of
-vicarious expression has left her inarticulate. Whatever it is, in the
-voluminous literature of the changing order, from the earnest tracts on
-“How It Feels to Be a Woman,” by a leading male educator to the tawdry
-and flippant syndicated views of W. L. George, masculine understanders
-take the lead. And the strange part of their interpretations is that
-they run true to ancient form. Old adages are put in a more racy
-vernacular, the X-ray is turned on with less delicacy, but when the
-froth of their engaging frankness disappears, hoary old ideas remain
-thickly in the tumbler.
-
-Take the intimate life story of a girl of the younger
-generation--Janet March--written by that good friend of women, Floyd
-Dell. The blurb on the jacket of the book announces that she moves
-toward “not a happy ending but an intelligent one.” And the end? Janet
-finds her mate and the curtain falls to the soft music of maternity.
-“One has to risk something,” Janet cries. “All my life I’ve wanted to
-_do_ something with myself. Something exciting. And this is the one
-thing I can do. I can”--she hesitated. “I can create a breed of fierce
-and athletic girls, new artists, musicians, and singers.”
-
-As a conclusion this is acceptable to any one with a heart, but wherein
-is it intellectual and not happy? Queen Victoria, the Honorable Herbert
-Asquith, or the Reverend Lyman Abbott would be equally pleased by its
-one hundred per cent womanliness. And how does it differ from our
-cherished slogan, “Woman’s place is in the home”? Only because Floyd
-Dell cuts Janet in a large, free-hand design. The advance pattern calls
-for a wealth of biological and gynecological explanation, pictures the
-girl as a healthy young animal who “smoked but drew the line on grounds
-of health at inhaling,” and, following the fashion of peasants in
-foreign countries, consummated the marriage before it was celebrated.
-Yet Janet, who claimed her right to all experience and experiment,
-finally raises her banner on the platform of fireside and nursery.
-
-Despite its unquestionable orthodoxy, Janet March was retired from
-circulation. But no one has successfully dammed the flowing tide of W.
-L. George. He draws with somewhat futuristic effect, at times, but his
-conclusions are those of the old masters. “No woman,” he enunciates
-authoritatively, “values her freedom until she is married and then she
-is proud to surrender it to the man she has won.” Or take this: “All
-women are courtesans at heart, living only to please the other sex.”
-Wherein does this differ from the sentiment of Alexander Pope who,
-one hundred and fifty or more years before the birth of W. L. George,
-declared:
-
- Men, some to business, some to pleasures take,
- But every woman is at heart a rake.
-
-H. L. Mencken, stirred by debates about the intelligence of woman and
-her newer activities, essayed “In Defense of Women,” to put his old
-wine in a fancy bottle, but it was the same home brew. Generously
-conceding brains to women, he proves his point on the evidence that
-they are used to ensnare men, who weak-minded and feeble in flight are
-usually bowled over in the battle of wits. “Marriage,” he says, “is
-the best career a woman can reasonably aspire to--and in the case of
-very many women, the only one that actually offers a livelihood.”...
-“A childless woman remains more than a little ridiculous and ill at
-ease.”... “No sane woman has ever actually muffed a chance.”... “The
-majority of inflammatory suffragettes of the sex hygiene and birth
-control species are simply those who have done their best to snare a
-man and failed.”
-
-In H. L. Mencken’s favor is his absence of the usual gush about
-feminine beauty. He declares with refreshing honesty that in contrast
-to the female body a milk jug or even a cuspidor is a thing of
-intelligent and gratifying design. Of woman’s superior mental ability
-he says, “A cave man is all muscle and mush. Without a woman to think
-for him, he is truly a lamentable spectacle, a baby with whiskers,
-a rabbit with the frame of an aurochs, a feeble and preposterous
-caricature of God.” What a pity that women use all these advantages of
-superior mentality and ability only in the age-old game of man-hunting.
-But do they?
-
-D. H. Lawrence shares this philosophy of the chief business of women,
-and he is much more gloomy about it. In fact, he is decidedly neurotic
-in his fear of the ultimate absorption of man. Woman he describes
-perpetually as a great, magnetic womb, fecund, powerful, drawing,
-engulfing. Man he sees as a pitiful, struggling creature, ultimately
-devoured by fierce maternal force. “You absorb, absorb,” cries Paul
-to Miriam in “Sons and Lovers,” “as if you must fill yourself up with
-love because you’ve got a shortage somewhere.” The Lawrence model,
-madly, fiercely possessive, differs from older forms in the abundance
-of physiological and pathological trimming. His conclusion, as voiced
-again by Paul to Miriam is, “A woman only works with part of herself;
-the real and vital part is covered up.” And this hidden reality is her
-terrific, destructive, fervid determination to drown man in her embrace.
-
-So it goes. To Floyd Dell woman is a Mother, to H. L. Mencken a Wife,
-to W. L. George a Courtesan, and to D. H. Lawrence a Matrix--always
-specialized to sex. There may be men who are able to think of woman
-apart from the pattern of function, but they are inarticulate. Most of
-them spend their lives associating with a symbol. The set pieces they
-call Mary, Martha, Elaine, or Marguerite may follow the standardized
-design of grandmother, mother, or aunt. Or in more advanced circles,
-the pattern may call for bobbed hair, knickers, and cigarette case.
-Under any form of radicalism or conservatism the stereotype remains.
-
-The old morality was built upon this body of folk-lore about women.
-Whether pictured as a chaste and beautiful angel, remote and untainted
-by life’s realities, or more cynically regarded as a devil and the
-source of sin, the notion was always according to pattern. Naturally,
-the relationship of men and women has been built upon the design,
-and a great many of our social ideals and customs follow it. The
-angel concept led, of course, to the so-called double standard which
-provides for a class of Victorian dolls who personify goodness, while
-their sisters, the prostitutes, serve as sacrificial offerings to
-the wicked ways of men. The new morality, as yet rather nebulous and
-somewhat mythical, has fewer class distinctions. The angel picture,
-for instance, has had some rude blows. As portrayed by the vanguard of
-radicals and interpreters, however, the changing conventions have their
-roots in the old generalizations and phantasies.
-
-Perhaps this is only to be expected, for the man or woman does not
-exist whose mind has not become so filled with accepted ideas of human
-beings and relationships before maturity, or even adolescence, that
-what is seen thereafter is chiefly a fog of creeds and patterns. If
-several hundred babies, children of good inherited backgrounds, could
-be brought up on an isolated island, without a taint of superimposed
-custom and never hearing generalizations about themselves--never
-having standardized characteristics laid heavily upon their shoulders,
-perhaps a different type of relationship founded upon actualities,
-would be evolved. Without a mythology of attributes, based chiefly upon
-biological functions, real human beings might discover each other and
-create new and honest ways of comradeship and association. As it is
-to-day, we do not know what the pristine reactions of individuals, free
-from the modifications of stereotype, would be like.
-
-It was the development of means by which beliefs could be separated
-from actual facts which brought modern science into being and freed
-the world from the quaint superstitions of the ages. Not until the
-nature of substance could be proved and classified in contrast with the
-mass of ignorant notions which clogged ancient thought was the amazing
-mechanical, economic, and scientific advance of the last century
-possible. The world of antiquity had standardized life and tied thought
-down to speculative creeds. Empirical science discarded all supposition
-and centered itself upon building up another picture--life as an
-examination of its actual nature proved it to be.
-
-In the creating of a new order which will bring with it a different
-type of social and personal contact, something similar must take place.
-For most of our ideas, even those classified as liberal and advanced,
-are built upon the reactions of an alleged, not an actual human being.
-Men have suffered from pattern-making, but never have they been
-burdened with the mass of generalizations that are heaped upon women
-from birth. Nobody knows what women are really like because our minds
-are so filled with the stereotype of Woman. And this picture, even in
-the interpretations of those who claim to understand the modern woman,
-is chiefly of function, not character. It is impossible to create a
-satisfying relationship between a red-blooded individual and a symbol.
-A changed morality cannot successfully emerge when half of those who
-participate are regarded not as people but functions. As long as women
-are pictured chiefly as wife, mother, courtesan--or what not--defining
-merely a relationship to men--nothing new or strange or interesting is
-likely to happen. The old order is safe.
-
-
-
-
-Women and the New Morality
-
-By Beatrice M. Hinkle
-
-
-
-
-Beatrice M. Hinkle
-
-_is a physician and psycho-analyst who follows in general the beliefs
-of Jung. She is the author of “Recreating the Individual.”_
-
-
-
-
-WOMEN AND THE NEW MORALITY
-
-BY BEATRICE M. HINKLE, M.D.
-
-
-In the general discussions of morality which are the fashion just now,
-sex morality seems to occupy the chief place. Indeed, judging from
-the amount of talk on this subject one would be inclined to think it
-the outstanding problem of our time. Certainly the whole of humanity
-is concerned in and vitally affected by the sexual aspect of life.
-Sexuality in its capacity as an agent of transformation is the source
-of power underlying the creativeness of man. In its direct expression,
-including its influence upon human relationships in general, it is
-woman’s particular concern. The position of importance it is assuming
-seems, therefore, to be justified, regardless of the protests of the
-intellect and the wish of the ego to minimize its significance.
-
-A general weakening of traditional standards of ethics and morals and
-their gradual loss of control over the conduct of individuals have
-long been observed in other activities--in business affairs and in
-the world of men’s relations with each other. This has taken place so
-quietly and with so much specious rationalizing that sharp practices
-and shady conduct which formerly would have produced scandals, shame,
-and social taboos now scarcely cause a protest from society. These
-aspects of morality belong to the masculine world in particular and
-produce little agitation, while the upheaval in sex morals particularly
-affects the feminine world and by many people can scarcely be
-considered calmly enough for an examination. The changes in this field
-are the most recent and are being produced by women; they are taking
-place in full view of all with no apologies and with little hesitation.
-They appear, therefore, most striking and disturbing. It can be said
-that in the general disintegration of old standards, women are the
-active agents in the field of sexual morality and men the passive,
-almost bewildered accessories to the overthrow of their long and firmly
-organized control of women’s sexual conduct.
-
-The old sex morality, with its double standard, has for years been
-criticized and attacked by fair-minded persons of both sexes. It
-has been recognized that this unequal condition produced effects
-as unfortunate for the favored sex as for the restricted one, and
-that because of this it could not be maintained indefinitely by a
-psychologically developing people. As a matter of course, whenever
-the single standard was mentioned, the standard governing women was
-invariably meant, and the fact was ignored that it is easier to break
-down restrictions than to force them upon those who have hitherto
-enjoyed comparative freedom. Furthermore, it was not realized that a
-sex morality imposed by repression and the power of custom creates
-artificial conceptions and will eventually break down.
-
-This forced morality is in fact at the present time quite obviously
-disintegrating. We see women assuming the right to act as their
-impulses dictate with much the same freedom that men have enjoyed for
-so long. The single standard is rapidly becoming a _fait accompli_, but
-instead of the standard identified with women it is nearer the standard
-associated with men. According to a universal psychological law,
-actual reality eventually overtakes and replaces the cultural ideal.
-
-Although this overthrow of old customs and sex ideals must be chiefly
-attributed to the economic independence of women brought about through
-the industrialism of our age, it is safe to say that no man thought
-ahead far enough or understood the psychology of women sufficiently
-to anticipate the fruit of this economic emancipation. As long as
-women were dependent upon men for the support of themselves and their
-children there could be no development of a real morality, for the
-love and feelings of the woman were so intermingled with her economic
-necessities that the higher love impulse was largely undifferentiated
-from the impulse of self-preservation. True morality can only develop
-when the object or situation is considered for itself, not when it is
-bound up with ulterior and extraneous elements which vitiate the whole.
-The old morality has failed and is disintegrating fast, because it was
-imposed from without instead of evolving from within.
-
-A morality which has value for all time and is not dependent upon
-custom or external cultural fashions can arise only from a high
-development of the psychological functions of thinking and feeling,
-with the developed individual as the determiner of values instead of
-general custom or some one else’s opinion. The function of feeling and
-the realm of the emotions have been universally regarded as woman’s
-special province; therefore it is women who are specially concerned
-with testing out moral values involving sexual behavior. Women have
-been reproached by men again and again as being only sexual creatures,
-and they have meekly accepted the reproach. Now, instead of examining
-the statement, they have accepted the sexual problem of men as though
-it were their own, and with it the weight of man’s conflict and his
-articulateness. For sexuality as a problem and a conflict definitely
-belongs to man’s psychology; it is he primarily who has been ashamed
-of his domination by this power and has struggled valiantly to free
-himself; his egotistic and sexual impulses have always been at war with
-each other. But whoever heard of women being ashamed of yielding to the
-power of love? Instead they gloried in the surrender of themselves and
-counted themselves blessed when love ruled. It is this need of man to
-escape from the power of the sensual appeal that has made him scorn sex
-and look upon the great creative power of life as something shameful
-and inferior, and in modern days treat it as a joke or with the
-indifferent superficiality which betrays emasculation and inadequacy.
-
-One has only to “listen in” where any large group of men, young or
-old, are gathered together in easy familiarity (the army camps were
-recent examples on a large scale) to discover the degree to which
-sexuality still dominates the minds of men, even though its expression
-is confined so largely to the jocose and the obscene. Many men can
-corroborate this report from a military camp--“we have sexuality in
-all its dirty and infantile forms served daily for breakfast, lunch,
-and dinner.” It is the inferior and inadequate aspect of masculine
-sexuality that has made it necessary for man to conceive it as
-something shameful and unclean, and to insist that woman must carry his
-purity for him and live the restrictions and suppression that rightly
-belonged to him. Woman on her part became an easy victim of his ideas
-and convictions, because of the very fact that the function of feeling
-and the emotions so largely dominate her psychology. The translation
-of feeling into thought-forms has been slow and difficult. About
-herself woman has been quite inarticulate and largely unconscious.
-This inarticulateness inevitably made her accept man’s standards and
-values for her, for little directed thinking is achieved without form
-and words. Because of her sexual fertility and fruitfulness woman had
-no sexual conflict; therefore, man easily unloaded his psychological
-burden upon her, and claimed freedom for the satisfaction of his own
-desires.
-
-Thus, woman was made a symbol or personification of man’s morality. She
-had to live for him that which he was unable to live for himself. This
-was the reason for his indignation at moral transgressions on her part.
-She had injured the symbol and revealed his weakness to him. However,
-with the discovery by women that they could be economically independent
-of men, they commenced to find themselves interesting. As they have
-gradually come to think for themselves about fundamental questions,
-there has begun a tremendous activity and busyness in regard to the
-very subject which was previously taboo.
-
-A recent writer boasts that men have changed their attitude regarding
-sexual problems very little and are not much concerned in the new
-interest of women. This is probably true, for man has contributed
-all he has to give to the subject. He has laid down his taboos and
-externalized his restrictions, chiefly applicable to the other sex,
-and he is finished with the subject--bored by having it thrust forward
-as an unfinished problem needing reconsideration. All of his knowledge
-or understanding of the sexual aspect of life--the aspect underlying
-human creativeness, the faulty development of which is responsible
-for a large part of his woes, “can be told in two hours to any
-intelligent sixteen year old boy,” another writer recently stated. It
-is this youthful ignorance and assurance that the last word has been
-spoken on this subject that has awakened women, no longer dependent
-economically, to the fact that they must also become independent of men
-intellectually if they wish to gain expression for their knowledge
-or to form their own rules of conduct based on their psychology. In
-the true scientific spirit of the age they are now experimenting and
-using nature’s method of trial and error to find out for themselves by
-conscious living experience what feeling has vaguely told them. This is
-the first step towards objectifying and clarifying woman’s intuitive
-knowledge.
-
-With the revolt of women against the old restrictions and the demand
-for freedom to experience for themselves, there has appeared a most
-significant phase of the changed morality--the new relation of women
-toward each other. The significance of this enormous change which
-has been taking place very quietly and yet very rapidly is scarcely
-appreciated. However, when one realizes that only a generation ago the
-newspapers were still publishing their funny paragraphs at the expense
-of women (“The dear creatures; how they love one another”), the great
-difference in their relations today becomes evident. The generally
-accepted distinction between the personal loyalties of the sexes can be
-summed up in the statement that women are loyal in love and disloyal
-in friendship, while men are loyal in friendship and disloyal in love.
-It is this attitude of women that is gradually disappearing with the
-awakening of a new sense of themselves as individuals. Their changed
-attitude towards each other--the recognition of their own values, and
-the growing realization that only in solidarity can any permanent
-impression be made on the old conception of woman as an inferior,
-dependent creature, useful for one purpose only--constitutes the most
-marked difference between their present social condition and that of
-the past.
-
-As long as women remained psychologically unawakened, their individual
-values were swallowed up in their biological value for the race. They
-were under the unconscious domination of their sexual fruitfulness
-and an enemy of themselves as individuals. Weininger gives as the
-chief difference between the masculine and feminine creeds that “Man’s
-religion consists in a supreme belief in himself--woman’s in a supreme
-belief in other people.” These other people being men, the sex rivalry
-among women that has so long stood in the way of their further
-development is easily understood. It has been a vicious circle which
-could only be broken by women’s gaining another significance in the
-eyes of the world and in their own eyes. This other significance is the
-economic importance which they have acquired in the world of men.
-
-It makes little difference within the social structure how many
-individual women exist who have forged a position for themselves and
-have won a freedom and independence equal to that possessed by the
-ordinary man, so long as they are isolated phenomena having little
-understanding of the peculiar difficulties and problems of women as a
-whole, and no relation with each other. These women have always existed
-in all culture periods, but they have produced little effect upon the
-social condition or psychology of women in general. There was no group
-action because the majority of women were inarticulate. The woman who
-was different became abnormal in the eyes of the world.
-
-This lack of an adequate self-consciousness among women, their
-general inability to translate feeling into form capable of being
-understood by the masculine mind, accounts for their acceptance of the
-statements made about them by men in an effort to understand creatures
-apparently so different from themselves. There is no doubt that woman’s
-inarticulateness about herself, even when her feelings were very
-different from those she was told were normal, has been responsible for
-a vast amount of the nonsense written about her.
-
-This passive acceptance of the opinions of others has been most
-disastrous for woman’s development. Her superior psychological
-processes consist of feelings and intuitions, and when these are
-stultified or violated by being forced into a false relation, or are
-inhibited from development, the entire personality is crippled. The
-inadequate development of the function of thought and the dominating
-rôle played by the function of feeling in the psychology of woman have
-produced an obviously one-sided effect and have caused men to postulate
-theories about her, which are given forth as though they were the last
-word to be said--fixed and unchangeable. Indeed the statement that
-women are incapable of change and that no growth is possible for them
-is one of the favorite assertions of the masculine writers upon the
-subject of women’s psychology. As the present is the first time in our
-historical period in which there has been any general opportunity for
-women as a whole to think for themselves and to develop in new ways,
-the basis for this assertion does not exist, and it obviously conceals
-an unconscious wish that women should not change.
-
-The effect of collective ideas and cultural traditions upon the
-personality is immeasurable. The greatest general change that is
-taking place today is the weakening of these ideas and the refusal
-of women to be bound by them. Women are for the first time demanding
-to live the forbidden experiences directly and draw conclusions on
-this basis. I do not mean to imply that traditional moral standards
-controlling woman’s sexual conduct have never been transgressed in the
-past. They have very frequently been transgressed, but secretly and
-without inner justification. The great difference today lies in the
-open defiance of these customs with feelings of entire justification,
-or even a non-recognition of a necessity for justification. In other
-words, there has arisen a feeling of moral rightness in the present
-conduct, and wrongness in the former morality. Actually the condition
-is one in which natural, long-restrained desire is being substituted
-for collective moral rules, and individuals are largely becoming a law
-unto themselves. It is difficult to predict what will be the result
-of the revolt, but it is certain that this is the preceding condition
-which renders it possible for a new morality in the real sense to be
-born within the individual. It has already produced the first condition
-of all conscious psychic development--a moral conflict--and woman has
-gained a problem.
-
-In the general chaos of conflicting feelings she is losing her
-instinctive adaptation to her biological rôle as race bearer, and is
-attempting adaptation to man’s reality. She is making the effort to win
-for herself some differentiation and development of the ego function
-apart from her instinctive processes. This is the great problem
-confronting woman today; how can she gain a relation to both racial and
-individual obligations, instead of possessing one to the exclusion of
-the other? Must she lose that which has been and still is her greatest
-strength and value? I for one do not think so, although I am fully
-conscious of the tremendous psychic effort and responsibility involved
-in the changing standards. It is necessary that women learn to accept
-themselves and to value themselves as beings possessing a worth at
-least equal to that of the other sex, instead of unthinkingly accepting
-standards based on masculine psychology. Then women will recognize
-the necessity of developing their total psychic capacities just as
-it is necessary for men to do, but they will see that this does not
-involve imitation of men or repudiation of their most valuable psychic
-functioning. The real truth is that it has at last become apparent to
-many women that men cannot redeem them.
-
-It is not the purpose of this article to deal with the practical
-issues involved in the new moral freedom. One thing however is clearly
-evident: Women are demanding a reality in their relations with men
-that heretofore has been lacking, and they refuse longer to cater to
-the traditional notions of them created by men, in which their true
-feelings and personalities were disregarded and denied. This is the
-first result of the new morality.
-
-
-
-
-Transcriber’s Notes
-
-A few minor errors in punctuation have been corrected.
-
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