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-The Project Gutenberg eBook of Child Life and Sex Hygiene, by
-Otterbein O. Smith
-
-This eBook is for the use of anyone anywhere in the United States and
-most other parts of the world at no cost and with almost no restrictions
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-Title: Child Life and Sex Hygiene
- A Remarkable Message
-
-Author: Otterbein O. Smith
-
-Release Date: October 18, 2021 [eBook #66565]
-
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-*** START OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK CHILD LIFE AND SEX
-HYGIENE ***
-
-
-
-
-
- CHILD LIFE
- AND SEX HYGIENE
-
- A Remarkable Message
-
- By
- OTTERBEIN O. SMITH, D. D.
-
- Lecturer on Modern Psychics
- and Active Pastor
-
-
- Published by request of a section of the Women’s Club of
- Pierre, So. Dak., before whom the address
- was originally given
-
-
-
-
- COPYRIGHTED 1912
-
- By Otterbein O. Smith
-
-
-
-
- TO MY MOTHER
-
- _Who, Through the Upfloodings of a Pure Mother
- Heart, Kissed Nobleness and Courage Into
- the Heart of Her Boy, This
- Book Is Dedicated._
-
-
-
-
- PRESS OF
- THE MONARCH PRINTING CO.
- COUNCIL BLUFFS, IOWA
-
-
-
-
- A FOREWORD
-
-
-Sending this little book out into the world is like sending out one of
-my children, for as they came from my heart, so has it. My heart has
-ached for my children as it has been necessary for them to go out and
-meet the buffetings of an unsympathetic world and so aches it for this
-little fledgling. But still I have a hope that the world will not be
-wholly unkind to it and that it will find its place and accomplish that
-which has been hoped for it, in helping human lives and adding to the
-sum of purity in the world.
-
-This little message grew out of an address made before a section of the
-Women’s Club of the city and their request to have it published. I have
-not changed the literary style from that of public address, thinking
-that perhaps it would be more effective in that form.
-
-You will doubtless find some striking and unusual statements in this
-message, but all I ask is that you will give it careful thought and
-that you will remember that these statements have been made after
-twenty years of careful study of the mysteries of life and that they
-are backed up by the best of physical and psychic facts. I have
-not dared to go into detailed explanation for want of space and so
-may bring down on my head storms that I might easily dissipate if I
-were but in touch with the storm maker. But let the storms come if
-they must, I will rejoice amidst them all if only I can awaken the
-parenthood of this land to the dangers to which their children are
-exposed.
-
- Yours for purity,
-
- OTTERBEIN OSCAR SMITH.
-
-
-
-
- Child Life and Sex Hygiene
-
-
- SEX HYGIENE
-
-This word hygiene has its root in the word Hygeia. Hygeia was the
-daughter of one of the gods of the Classic Mythology, and was the
-goddess of health. Sex hygiene is then, sex health, or sex normality.
-
-Is there special danger of abnormal conditions or disease in the sex
-life of children and young people? We must answer this question before
-we can determine whether our time is well spent in the study which
-shall follow.
-
-To determine this we must make a brief study of the unfolding human
-life and note some of its component parts and their relative relations
-and values in the organism.
-
-We can best do this by a study of the accompanying chart. The lower
-line of the triangle represents the body, or physical life; the left
-side the feelings; the right side the intellect. If body, feelings and
-intellect were equal in any human being, then, we would have a perfect
-triangle, or a normal human life. But this is not true in any child or
-young person. This diagram illustrates the relative relations of these
-three elements of being as the child advances toward mature life.
-
-[Illustration: Note――For want of space the triangle is reduced from
-original drawing.]
-
-The early years of a child’s life is almost purely physical and the
-physical plays a large part in the life of the girl or boy till they
-are well advanced in their ’teens, as you will see by a study of this
-figure.
-
-Each side of this triangle is three inches long. The lines that run
-across the triangle represent feeling at the various stages of the
-child’s life. You can see that in the early years the feelings and the
-physical are very close together and are the dominating impulses of the
-life.
-
-The reader should bear in mind that the word feeling is not here used
-in the restricted sense of referring to physical feelings only, but to
-all the feelings which surge through the being from whatever source.
-We should not lose sight of the fact, however, that, because of the
-important part that is played in the organism during the teens by the
-impulses from a given nerve center, all feelings will be colored more
-or less by the outfloodings of that nerve center. As we have suggested,
-the child till well advanced in years is largely a creature of feeling,
-and what mind it has is what may be called a picture mind, or a mind
-for seeing things. How easy it will be for all the feelings of the
-being to become inoculated with impurity and place before this picture
-mind of the child such distorted views of life as will vitiate the
-entire organism! How important it is that a higher intelligence, that
-is the father and mother, create pure, noble and beautiful pictures and
-place them before this picture, or seeing mind, of the child.
-
-
- A CHILD’S LIFE EXPRESSED IN FIGURES
-
-Expressing the life of a child in figures, what do we find? As you
-will see, the baby has three inches of physical, three inches of
-feeling and but one-fourth of an inch of intellect. _This makes six
-inches of physical and feeling pitted against one-fourth of an inch
-of intellect._ The child of six years has six inches of physical and
-feeling and one-half an inch of intellect. The child of fourteen has
-six inches of physical and feeling and but one inch of intellect. _Even
-at eighteen the proportion is six inches of physical and feeling and
-but two inches of intellect._ How striking these proportions are when
-we put them in inches.
-
-I would not, however, have you think you can literally measure a child
-in yards and inches or that they will all measure the same, for no two
-children develope alike, but in a general way this scale holds good.
-While you will find some children developing the intellect much more
-rapidly than others, and more rapidly than is suggested here, still you
-will find on the whole that this scale of relative proportions is not
-far out of the way for the average child.
-
-I WOULD HAVE YOU STOP FOR A MOMENT AND GET THIS DIAGRAM AND RELATIVE
-PROPORTIONS WELL FIXED IN YOUR MINDS.
-
-Think what these proportions mean and to what constant danger this
-child is exposed in developing sex abnormality if not disease. If an
-abnormal sex condition obtains it will surely sooner or later lead to
-disease. We may therefore conclude that our study is worth while and of
-priceless value to all young life.
-
-The thoughtful study of this diagram convinces us beyond a peradventure
-that _there is vast danger of harmful and perhaps dangerous sex
-conditions obtaining without careful and intelligent guiding in the
-early life of the child_.
-
-
- SIX TO ONE
-
-Even at fourteen years of age the proportion of feeling and physical to
-intellect is as six to one. Where have you ever heard of a general who
-went out to fight a war with ten thousand men when his enemy had sixty
-thousand? He might make a momentary dash with such a force, but in the
-end he would be overcome. Still we allow our children to grow up with
-these odds against them and we seem to be entirely thoughtless as to
-the danger they are in.
-
-
- THE MELTING POWER OF THOUGHT
-
-Are you asking, why the human organism was not so constructed that the
-intellect would always be the dominant factor in the life? Had this
-been done there would be no possibility of the organism ever coming to
-perfection, for the impulses that are sent out from the inner life of
-man through the brain at the upper end of the spine are so powerful and
-so finely attenuated that they would entirely destroy the physical body
-before it has time to become strong and tense and able to carry them.
-_If the intellectual impulses of a grown man or woman were sent through
-the life of a child the body would be melted just as the fine wire is
-by a heavy voltage of electricity._
-
-God was wise in creating this sex nerve center, or physical brain, by
-which the organism builds and paints in glorious beauty and charming
-grace the wonderful machine, the human body, and makes it strong and
-tense so that when the work is complete the ego or spirit of man will
-have a perfect instrument through which to manifest itself to the world
-and perform its mission and live its life in highest nobleness upon the
-earth. Because of these facts _God has wisely wrapped the intellectual
-faculties of the child within its life, as he does the rose-buds in
-the rose-bush, that when the body work is completed, that crown of all
-His creation, the self conscious life of man, may manifest itself in
-all its glory through a perfect instrument and that instrument remain
-strong and proficient through the years_.
-
-We may add this further suggestion to make our point clear. In our
-statement of the slow growth of the intellect as compared to the other
-two elements of being, we are dealing with the reasoning faculties and
-not with memory, which is quite another element and is not dangerous to
-the physical development, and may show a marked unfoldment at quite an
-early age.
-
-
- IMPULSE AND VIBRATION
-
-Having got these relative proportions well in our minds we may for a
-brief time give our attention to an important scientific fact which is
-necessary to our study. Our lives are entirely controlled by impulses
-which originate in various parts of our personalities. Sometimes the
-impulse comes from our bodies; again the feelings are in control, and
-at times the memory asserts itself. Then again the intellect is the
-dominating factor. OF THIS WE MAY BE SURE, FROM WHATEVER ELEMENT OF
-BEING COMES THE STRONGEST IMPULSE, THERE FOR THE TIME BEING IS THE
-SEAT OF GOVERNMENT. We are also scientifically certain, _that the more
-finely attenuated an impulse is, and the more rapid the vibrations
-are which carry such an impulse, the more powerful it is and the more
-surely will it prevail over the slower impulses carried at a lower rate
-of vibration_. A current of electricity of high voltage will melt a bar
-of steel.
-
-
- THE FINEST ORGANS――THEIR FUNCTIONS
-
-With the above thoughts well fixed in our minds we are ready to ask,
-what are the two finest and most sensitive organs in the human body and
-those capable of sending out the finest impulses? There is but one
-answer to this question. 1. The brain, or mind nerve center. 2. The sex
-nerve center. One of these nerve centers, the brain, is the instrument
-of the intellect and the other nerve center is the instrument of
-feeling, not of base and shameful feelings, as many people think, but
-of the most exquisite and beautiful feelings of which a human being
-is capable. _As the beautiful thoughts of man may be distorted into
-vicious and sinful things, so may the exquisite feelings which flood
-forth from the sex nerve center be debased and distorted into sins._
-
-With these glorious possibilities and purposes of this nerve center
-before us, what a horrid nightmare it is for anyone to think, as some
-people do, that this sex nerve center is the organ of humiliation and
-shame and is therefore not a proper subject of conversation in polite
-society. Nothing can be farther from the truth than this.
-
-
- THE BEAUTY IMPULSES
-
-Stop for a moment and think; from whence come the beautiful impulses,
-or thoughts OF HOME, MOTHERHOOD, FATHERHOOD, LOVE FOR AND PROTECTION
-OF CHILDREN, THE ART OF HOMEBUILDING AND HOME ADORNMENT? Come they not
-from this very nerve center? Destroy this nerve center in any young
-child and its life will be void of all these glorious impulses.
-
-In place then of this nerve center, or sex organ, being a blushing,
-shame-faced spirit that mutins in the life of humanity, it is _the
-producer of all highest physical beauty both in the human organism and
-in its surroundings_.
-
-
- THE MIND BRAIN AND THE BODY BRAIN
-
-May I ask how many of you have ever told your boys and girls this? Not
-one of you, because you never knew it before. You have always thought
-that our sense of beauty originated in the nerve center, which we call
-the brain. The mind of man directs, unifies and co-ordinates and should
-control these beauty impulses as they flood out into the being, but
-they have their origin in the sex nerve center.
-
-THIS ORGAN, OR NERVE CENTER, IS THE BRAIN OF THE PURELY PHYSICAL LIFE,
-AS TRULY AS THE GRAY MATTER, OR NERVE CENTER AT THE UPPER END OF THE
-SPINE, which we call the brain, IS THE BRAIN OF THE EGO, OR INNER LIFE.
-Through the sex organ, or nerve center, the physical life in its rarest
-and most delicate beauty finds expression, as through the brain the
-inner life, or ego, expresses itself in thought and will.
-
-Do you ask for proof of this somewhat remarkable statement? Let me
-answer by asking a question. When are the birds most beautiful in
-plumage and sweetest in song? AT MATING TIME. _It cannot be said that
-this is due to intellect, but upon the other hand it is the natural
-upflooding of the beauty impulses from the physical brain, or sex nerve
-center._
-
-We cannot here enter into the deeper psychological question involved
-in this somewhat unusual statement, that the sex nerve center is the
-physical brain, but it must be evident to any thoughtful person that
-the statement is not far out of the way, as is evidenced in its beauty
-building power in the lives of the birds. There is an intelligence or
-consciousness in this physical brain, but it is not a self-conscious
-intelligence, such as functions through the brain at the upper end of
-the spine.
-
-Because of the above facts and many others that might be presented, we
-feel justified in the statements we have made above.
-
-When we contemplate all this may we not well pray, _Oh, God forgive
-us our sins of ignorance and false modesty and help us rightly to
-appreciate this, one of Thy greatest gifts to the human race!_
-
-
- A STRIKING ILLUSTRATION
-
-Let me bring to you an illustration to make this thought clear. Suppose
-you could unsex every child in this city under six years of age; this
-would be before the sex nerve center had time to flood the life with
-the sense of beauty. Then build a wall about the city and leave these
-children to themselves, simply supplying them with food and clothing,
-but keeping away from them, as far as possible, all human beings, who
-through sex impulses were filled with thoughts of beauty. What would be
-the results and what kind of a city would you have here in forty years
-from now? There would be little, if any, physical beauty among these
-people as they grew up, for they would grow slatternly or slab-sided,
-or fat and stuffy, and having lost the sense of beauty with their
-unsexing they would let the buildings go to decay and the streets grow
-up to weeds, and what a dreary waste this once beautiful city would be!
-
-
- WHO HAS BEEN TEACHING THE CHILDREN?
-
-Though the thought is new to you, do you not begin to see the truth and
-beauty of what I have been saying about this wonderful nerve center, or
-brain of the physical life?
-
-What father or mother who may read this has ever felt it a religious
-joy to teach their children the truth about this wonderful gift of God
-to the human race?
-
-I am not going to ask you how many of you were so taught, for I feel
-very sure none of you were. Scarcely anyone has ever been taught any
-thing right about it, but most, if not all, have been left to stumble
-along in the dark, as you and I were, and if by chance they happened
-to hit upon a plan, or stumbled onto knowledge, which enabled them to
-live together happily after marriage, well and good; if not, the great
-American juggernaut, the divorce mill, makes another revolution, and a
-wrecked home and two broken lives are held up to public gaze, as the
-result of its deadly work. There is not the slightest doubt in the mind
-of the writer but that a large percent of the divorces of this country
-grow out of the absolute ignorance of young people as to how to live
-together happily.
-
-
- HELP!
-
-But what shall I say? I do not know how to teach my children.
-
-A most delightful book, which will put pure, noble, and instructive
-words into every parent’s mouth with which to approach their children
-from babyhood till they see them stand at the marriage altar, is “Four
-Epochs of Life,” by Elizabeth Hamilton-Muncie, M. D., Ph. M., Graves
-Publishing Co., New York. Let us ever remember that the education of
-a child along these lines should begin as suggested in this charming
-book, at a very early age, but it is better late than never, and if you
-have neglected your children before begin now.
-
-
- THE PHYSICAL BRAIN
-
-Let us return now to this wonderful nerve center, or brain of the
-physical life. When does it begin to send out _these finely attenuated
-beauty impulses, which must move at very high rates of vibration_?
-
-These impulses which give grace, form, and all other touches of
-indescribable charm to the body of the child.
-
-From the very beginning of its life to some small degree, and from
-twelve years of age they begin to show themselves the dominant impulses
-of the life. They rise in the body just like waves of heat on a summer
-day. _They are flooding every fiber of the being, giving roundness
-to the limbs, grace to the form, drawing beauty lines upon the face,
-painting roses in the cheeks, putting sparkles in the depths of liquid
-eyes._ All of this and more are these little builders, which we call
-sex impulses, doing in the years from twelve to eighteen. Is it any
-wonder with all this marvelous work to do, that like the sculptor who
-is to make a statue out of a block of marble, they must take possession
-of the body and become the dominant element in it? The heart, liver,
-digestive organs, and even the brain itself are subject to these
-outflooding impulses as they work out the beauty of the physical life.
-
-Turn back to your chart now and note what a small part the intellect
-plays in the life of the girl or boy between the ages of twelve and
-eighteen. Just enough to be a willing servant of the sex impulses, as
-they work out the plan of beauty, as given them by the hand of the
-Master of all life. In fact the brain is largely an automaton in this
-work, for the ego has not had time _to fully lay through the brain
-that fine system of telephone connections and wires by which the brain
-becomes a perfect instrument through which the ego or inner man may
-reason out the problems of life_, so that up to eighteen there is
-comparatively little reasoning ability in the life of children.
-
-
- IMPULSES MOVING AT RAPID RATES OF VIBRATION
-
-These beauty building impulses are sent out in such abundance during
-the teens, that they fairly cause the body to scintillate, the cheeks
-to glow and the eyes to sparkle. Here they come, wave after wave,
-_like shimmering light upon the mountains, trooping up through the
-physical life like angels of the Eternal, making the body glow with
-unspeakable beauty_.
-
-They should be guided by the finest and holiest thought, for _they are
-the elect angels of God to the physical life of man_. But what is done
-with them? Oh, sad! The parents have been led to think it is not quite
-the thing to talk to their children of these things and the child has
-not developed sufficient brain activity to reason about them and to
-understand them and translate them into elements of beauty and sacred
-service. Here the young life stands like a beautiful deer before the
-on-coming prairie fire, it feels the tremendous swish of the flood of
-feelings and physical life, like the hissing of the flames behind the
-deer. If only the deer can reach the lake for which he pants and swim
-out into its cool depths he will be safe; and if the child could creep,
-as it were, into the heart of father or mother and hear glorious,
-tender, holy words spoken of this flood of feelings, which is all so
-strange to it, and which sweeps up through its being like a storm in
-the forest, and have an intelligence translate them into God’s own
-beauty of life, what a joy it would be!
-
-When I see the mighty army of beautiful youth standing unprotected and
-in ignorance of the great danger before them, with no one to teach
-them and the very parents that gave them being, indifferent, is it any
-wonder that my heart cries out, Oh, sad?
-
-
- IGNORANT PARENTS――RUINED CHILDREN
-
-What usually happens if one of these elfs of human life has the
-temerity to speak to father or mother about these strange impulses? A
-blush of shame, perhaps, and the expression, “You better be thinking
-of something else,” or “You should be ashamed to be talking of such
-things,” ends the conversation.
-
-A lady in high station said to the writer, when talking upon this
-subject, “I went to my mother a few days before my marriage and asked
-her to tell me about the marriage state. My mother was a good woman,
-but all she said was, ‘You will find out soon enough.’” God forgive and
-pity the ignorance of such mothers!
-
-Rebuffed at home, what happens? This child goes out upon the streets
-and from vulgar playmates, older than it is, through vulgar stories
-and suggestions, gets a base and lewd conception of all this in his or
-her life which God meant for beauty, for His glory and the glory of
-the race, or what is almost as bad, remains in stupid and dangerous
-ignorance till some vile octopus throws his tentacles about this dream
-of beauty and sparkling, buoyant youth, and the end of the tragedy is
-a ruined life, or what more often happens, two of these ignorant young
-people get together and because of their ignorance commit those acts
-against chastity which bring ruin and disgrace.
-
-“But,” you say, “such cases as you depict above are the exception and
-not the rule and I am not afraid of my child being caught in such ways.”
-
-
- YOUR CHILD IS NOT SAFE
-
-I grant you this and hope by all means it is so. But do not because of
-this, settle back into comfortable indifference, for there are greater
-dangers than those stated above from which you cannot say your children
-are so free.
-
-As children grow up in the home, if it is a right home, they often see
-father and mother kiss each other, and perhaps they see the mother
-sometimes lovingly drop down upon the lap of father and put her arms
-about his neck. The natural question that comes to the mind of the
-child is, “why does she do that?” No one has ever taken the trouble to
-anticipate this unspoken question and answer it, and the child goes out
-to mingle with its playmates of both sexes with this unspoken question
-unanswered.
-
-The natural outcome of the child reasoning will be, if one woman can
-kiss a man and sit upon his lap, then all women can kiss men and sit
-upon their laps. Why not reason in this way? No one has ever taken the
-trouble to explain the difference between the married and the unmarried
-state and the rights and privileges that belong to the wedded pair,
-which rights are recognized by both God and the laws of our land.
-
-
- NATURAL MATING
-
-If you will observe them, children mate as naturally as the birds do.
-Here they are dancing about us like the sunbeams in the forest, in
-pairs of natural selection. You may notice them in the home, in the
-school and on the streets. Innocent little things they are in these
-childish matings and might remain so to the end of life if some kind
-intelligence were directing them. But no such intelligence is at hand.
-The mothers joke about these matings and tease the children about them
-and that is the end of the parents’ relation to this gravest question
-in all life.
-
-These children grow to fourteen or fifteen years of age and the
-impulses from the sex nerve center begin to flood themselves out in
-a perfect submergence of the life. They get hold of some silly love
-stories, that have been written by some heartless person for so much
-per line, and were never intended for any normal person to believe or
-think possible, but to their childish minds it is a chapter from real
-life, for they are not in any sense normal beings at this age as you
-will see by a look at the triangle. At this age _the intelligence is
-but a mere pigmy_ in their lives as compared to the giants of feeling
-and physical life.
-
-
- IGNORANCE BRINGS RUIN
-
-Seeing and knowing no danger in it, they follow out the natural sex
-impulse to touch one another and to caress each other. Why not? Have
-they not read in the love story of the lover and the sweetheart kissing
-and caressing each other, and furthermore, and _the strongest possible
-evidence in the case, have they not seen father and mother kiss and
-caress each other_? Is it not the most natural thing, under these
-conditions, for these children to enter into such familiar relations as
-will lead to serious consequences in many cases?
-
-I know many a girl has lived through this period of ignorant familiarity
-with young men without having her character wholly ruined, and she
-appears before those of us who know the danger through which she has
-passed, as a living miracle.
-
-But having escaped these dangers herself, what has she done for the
-young man with whom she has had these familiar relations? She has,
-unwittingly of course, multiplied the sex impulses in his life till
-they sweep over him like a fire in the forest. He is a manly young
-fellow and would scorn the thought even of allowing these impulses to
-expend themselves upon the one who had awakened them and increased
-their outflooding. In the midst of these experiences he falls in
-with some young man older than himself, and they talk it over. This
-fellow prides himself on being worldly wise, and so the younger man
-is influenced by him. The result is that he goes to someone who will
-receive him for a money consideration. Then comes the awful awakening,
-and he recognizes the fact, that the blighting leprosy of the sin of
-lewdness has fastened itself upon him. But after the first shock his
-heart is lightened, because some physician assures him that he can cure
-him. But that man is either ignorant or he is wilfully deceiving this
-young man, for the Almighty himself cannot assure him that this plague
-will ever entirely leave his body. God will forgive his soul, but no
-one can honestly assure him that his body is not damned for all time.
-It is true some men seem to recover entirely, but no one can give them
-any assurance in this matter. The best medical science tells us that
-these germs may remain in the body for years and then show themselves
-in various forms and diseases.
-
-Is it not time for those of us who know of the awfulness of this dread
-plague to “cry aloud from the housetops,” if by chance we may awaken
-the fathers and mothers who sleep in ignorance and false modesty?
-
-
- AN APPALLING INSTANCE
-
-Will it help you any if I tell you of a single instance, which came
-under my notice some time ago, and is but one out of many that chills
-my blood as I write. A young girl came to a certain city and secured
-employment in one of the business houses of the city. She was of
-inferior intellect and had but little chance for development of that
-side of her nature, but the sex brain, or nerve center, had done much
-for her and built in her body lines of remarkable grace, had painted
-her cheeks with marvelous color and given unusual brilliancy to her
-eyes. A foul miscreant, in the form of a man of older years, saw this
-beautiful human creature and decoyed her into improper relations with
-him. His body was full of the leprosy of lewdness and he imparted it
-to this ignorant young creature. But sad as it would be it would not
-be so bad if the tragedy had stopped there, but it did not. Think of
-it friends! EIGHT OF THE UNTAUGHT AND UNPROTECTED BOYS OF THE HIGH
-SCHOOL OF THAT CITY, WHO HAD BEEN ALLOWED THE FREEDOM OF KISSES AND
-EMBRACES OF YOUNG GIRLS, AS IGNORANT AND UNPROTECTED AS THEY, saw this
-young creature and were drawn into improper relations with her and the
-leprosy was passed on to each of them. This is not an illustration
-merely, but a statement of fact, for I had the facts direct from the
-physicians who treated these boys.
-
-If this was your High School would you be alarmed? And would you cast
-aside your false modesty and in the name of God be frank and true to
-your children?
-
-Though it may not be your High School there are always dangers enough
-that if realized should make parents earnest and anxious for the safety
-of their loved ones.
-
-
- IGNORANCE AND A WRECKED HOME
-
-May I give you a single illustration of the wrecking of two lives,
-through the ignorance of a boy touching these grave questions?
-This sad story was told me by a medical friend, who was personally
-acquainted with these young people, and while an interne in a hospital,
-in one of our eastern cities, assisted in the operation referred to.
-
-A young boy of sixteen, of one of the refined and cultured families of
-the city, had grown up in ignorance as to sex relations and instincts.
-He was invited to a week-end party, at the home of friends, and while
-there, with a houseful of guests, fell in with a woman older than
-himself, who enticed him into improper relations with her. Whether she
-knew it or not, she was afflicted with the leprosy of lewdness and
-she passed it on to this boy. As soon as he discovered his condition
-he went to his father and told him about this incident and was taken
-to one of the best physicians in this country, who lived in the city.
-This physician treated the young man till he was twenty-four years
-old and assured him, so far as medical science could determine, he
-seemed to be entirely cured. The young man had become awakened by
-this sad experience and through this awakening learned of the awful
-fatality which attaches itself to this leprosy, so to be sure he went
-to another specialist and was examined and treated by him for a year.
-During these years, between the ages of sixteen and twenty-five, he had
-fallen in love with a beautiful young woman of one of the refined homes
-of the city; but so much of dread had he that he deferred his marriage
-for a year to make sure that the last vestige of the plague was gone.
-At last they were married with all the joys and delights of that hour.
-
-Vain hope was his, for in less than a year after their marriage the
-physicians were compelled to perform an operation to save the young
-woman’s life, which forever left that home childless and the young
-husband carrying in his heart an awful shadow which would never lift
-till the grave received him.
-
-This is not an isolated case, for such tragedies are multiplied by
-thousands all over this fair land of ours. And the appalling facts are
-that a large majority of them can be charged to a lack of education by
-the parents. Thousands of dollars are spent to educate the children in
-books and music, but not a moment of time given to teach them the truth
-about this one most important subject.
-
-
- THE AROUSED SOUL
-
-Are you startled and does your heart cry out, “What can I do? Oh! what
-can I do?”
-
-
- THE HELPER
-
-YOU CAN BE FRANK, INTELLIGENT AND HUMAN WITH YOUR CHILDREN. Let me tell
-you, if I may, some things you can do. Let us think of the daughter
-first, but not because she needs more protection than the son, for God
-knows they are both in need of all the protection loving, intelligent
-parents can give them.
-
-If the streets are sloppy and you want to protect your daughter, what
-do you advise her? To wear her rubbers, of course. If she has a cold
-and there is a raw wind blowing what do you advise her? Wrap up well
-and see that her throat is protected. Why do you give this advice?
-Because on the sloppy streets the feet are the points of attack, and in
-the raw wind the throat is the point of attack.
-
-Why not be just as sane in dealing with your daughter when you come to
-teach her to protect her character and self respect?
-
-At what points do these outflooding impulses of glorious womanhood
-manifest themselves at the surface of the body? The answer is
-self-evident, the lips and the bosom. You have known this all the time
-and you have sat idly by and seen your daughters go out into dangers
-far more deadly than wet feet or inflamed throat without ever saying a
-word to them about how to protect themselves. Why not sit down by your
-daughter of fourteen and tell her these truths; tell her there is a
-vital connection between the bosom and the sex nerve center which is
-more sensitive than the most delicate electric impulse and explain to
-her how wonderfully God has arranged the body of woman and why? Why
-not tell her the same truth as to her lips? _Tell her that unless God
-had made a vital connection between the lips of a woman and the sex
-nerve center she could not kiss love and nobleness into the life of her
-children during those glorious days of motherhood._ Tell her, with all
-the love a mother can put into the words, that will live forever in the
-heart of every true child, that because of these wonderful truths every
-_true young woman should protect her lips and bosom as she would the
-engagement ring, the pledge of love and approaching marriage_. Tell
-her, with the wifely love upflooding from your heart, why her father
-has a right to kiss and embrace you and _why it will mean the lowering
-of her character, if not its ultimate loss, for her to give these
-jewels of hers, even for a moment, into the hands of any man other than
-he who will be her husband, and as such has the loving right to them_.
-
-Why not teach your son the sacredness of womanhood and the manliness
-of protecting it? Pardon me, if I say I am not writing a theory, but
-am speaking out of my own heart. I commenced teaching my own son
-when he was twelve years old and had my last talk with him a month
-before he was married. He grew up to be a clean young man and I felt
-a thousand times repaid for my effort when his wife came to her new
-mother a short time after their marriage and told her with such delight
-how thoughtful, kind, gentle and refined her lover was in all their
-relations.
-
-
- THE DANCE AND ITS DANGERS
-
-I may at this point call attention to the dangers of the dance. Every
-girl who enjoys dancing, and most of them do, should be shown the
-dangers to both herself and the man in allowing herself to be drawn up
-too close to the person of the man she is dancing with. She should not
-only be told that she must not do so, but told plainly and lovingly
-why. There may be nothing impure in the thought of either, for when
-they are dancing they are usually not thinking. Music tends to quiet
-thought and under such conditions they will follow the sex impulse and
-unconsciously draw near to each other, and they are far more sure to do
-so while ignorant of the dangers in it. In like manner boys should be
-taught to carefully respect the person of girls and told in a plain,
-frank way the truth about their relations to the opposite sex.
-
-I believe, as a rule young people love to dance with the purest of
-motives. They are attracted to this form of amusement because of their
-love for music and the natural desire to keep time to it. The most
-zealous religionist finds himself patting his foot when a bit of lively
-music is played, which is but an evidence of the natural desire of any
-human being to keep time to music.
-
-Is there someone asking, “If it is true that young people have the
-purest of motives in their desire to dance, how comes it then that so
-many frightful mistakes are made as a result of the dance?” I might
-answer in a single word, by saying, IGNORANCE.
-
-It is the conviction of the writer, however, that no more mistakes are
-made in proportion, and perhaps not so many, as the result of the dance
-as by long night rides in buggies, or sitting in the shadow of trees in
-public parks. But the facts are more people dance than ride in buggies.
-
-
- THE PSYCHOLOGY OF THE DANCE
-
-The great danger in the dance is, to my mind, _a psychological one_,
-which might be overcome by knowledge upon the subject. Let us examine
-this thought for a time, for here is the crux of the whole matter.
-When your attention is called to it, you cannot think of more perfect
-relations existing between two persons for hypnosis, or hypnotic
-suggestion to take place than that which exists in the dance. To get
-this clearly before us let us note the steps taken by the hypnotist.
-He has his subject relax his body, and put his mind at rest and then
-he prefers to have soft music played. Under these conditions he most
-easily gets control of the mind of his subject.
-
-Let us now study the couple dancing. The body must be in a more or less
-relaxed state, for graceful motion would not be possible with a rigid
-body. The mind is at rest, because the music lulls it into quiet and
-makes the dominant element in the life the feelings, for _we do not
-think music, we feel it_. Just here you must recall, that the sex nerve
-center is the brain of the physical life and continually sends forth
-the most exquisite impulses of feeling, which manifest themselves in
-all the glory and beauty of bodily charm and these _must of necessity
-mingle in their outgoings with the vibrations of the music and the
-feelings which it induces_.
-
-Now you have these two persons, _with bodies relaxed, minds at rest,
-just floating over the floor, and carried, as it were, on waves of
-music_. Under just these conditions many an uninstructed and ignorant
-girl has passed under a hypnotic spell in which she has been led to do
-that which ruined her life and which she would have surrendered her
-life rather than have done, had she been in her normal state.
-
-Let me give you an instance in point. Some years ago I was lecturing on
-the psychic question, and among other things I spoke of _the psychology
-of the dance_. The next morning I met one of the fine, clean young
-men of the little city, who was teller in one of the banks. He said
-to me, “Doctor I enjoyed your lecture very much last night, and I
-believe you have the right idea as to the psychology of the dance.” He
-said, “Sometime ago I was dancing with one of the finest young ladies
-in this city, one who is absolutely above reproach. As you said, ‘we
-were just floating along over the floor charmed by the music.’ I was
-looking down at her (he was a tall man), and thinking what a nice young
-woman she was, when all at once she laid her face against mine. She did
-not excuse herself then and she has not apologized since and I do not
-believe she knew that she did it.” This is the conclusion of a sane,
-thoughtful young man, as he pondered over an unusual experience with a
-pure-minded and irreproachable young woman.
-
-May I here give the testimony of an educated, thoughtful young man of
-thirty? In a frank talk with me, he said: “There have been a few times
-in my life when I have found it necessary to stop dancing with certain
-ladies.”
-
-There might not have been the slightest wrong thought in the minds of
-this young man or the lady he was dancing with, but the outflooding
-impulses from the sex nerve center in the life of the lady might just
-at that time have been so vital and have been carried at such rapid
-rates of vibration as to make themselves felt in the atmosphere about
-her. This, my friends, might happen _without an evil thought upon the
-part of either, for this brain of the physical life may and does send
-out these impulses without the recognition of the intellect_.
-
-Had this young man observed these ladies he would have noted a charming
-and unusual color of the skin of the face and an unusual and bewitching
-sparkle in the eyes, both of which indicate marked activity of the sex
-brain, or nerve center.
-
-
- SHOULD THE DANCE BE ABOLISHED?
-
-There are many good people who would like to abolish the dance, and
-because of the ignorance of the larger number of people who engage in
-this amusement, I think I would join with them, but in all probability
-we will never be able to do it, so long as people love music and
-instinctively keep time to it.
-
-It may be in our zeal in this matter we are making a mistake and
-taking a wrong view of the question and by vicious, and sometimes
-senseless, attacks upon many good young people and this particular
-form of amusement in which they engage, doing both them and ourselves
-an injustice and keeping many of them out of the Kingdom. Of this I am
-sure, if young people are to dance _they should have proper chaperonage
-and a right knowledge of the possible dangers and how to avoid them_.
-NO GREATER MISTAKE COULD BE MADE THAN TO ALLOW YOUNG PEOPLE TO ATTEND
-PUBLIC DANCES.
-
-May I close this little message then, which goes out with a prayer
-for God’s blessings to rest upon all who read it, that it may be a
-helpful message to them; by urging frankness and candor upon the part
-of you, the parents, with your children, and if you are uninstructed
-inform yourselves and put such books in the hands of your children as
-will give them pure, wholesome information upon this most important
-subject in all the world, and God will bless you and them, and in joy
-and thankfulness you will see them grow up in the purity and nobleness
-of strong, helpful men and women. BE ASSURED OF THIS, IF YOU DO NOT
-EDUCATE THEM THE STREETS WILL.
-
-
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-<h1 class="nobreak">CHILD LIFE<br />
-AND SEX HYGIENE</h1>
-</div>
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-<p class="noi subtitle">A Remarkable Message</p>
-
-<p class="p2 noic">By</p>
-
-<p class="noi author">OTTERBEIN O. SMITH, D. D.</p>
-
-<p class="noic">Lecturer on Modern Psychics<br />
-and Active Pastor</p>
-
-
-<p class="p2 noic">Published by request of a section of the Women’s Club of<br />
-Pierre, So. Dak., before whom the address<br />
-was originally given</p>
-
-
-
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-<hr class="chap x-ebookmaker-drop" />
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-<div class="chapter">
-<p class="noic">COPYRIGHTED 1912</p>
-
-<p class="noic"><span class="smcap">By Otterbein O. Smith</span></p>
-</div>
-
-
-
-
-<hr class="chap x-ebookmaker-drop" />
-
-<div class="chapter">
-<p class="noic author">TO MY MOTHER</p>
-
-<p class="noic"><i>Who, Through the Upfloodings of a Pure Mother<br />
-Heart, Kissed Nobleness and Courage Into<br />
-the Heart of Her Boy, This<br />
-Book Is Dedicated.</i></p>
-</div>
-
-
-
-
-<hr class="chap x-ebookmaker-drop" />
-
-<div class="chapter">
-<p class="noic">PRESS OF<br />
-THE MONARCH PRINTING CO.<br />
-COUNCIL BLUFFS, IOWA</p>
-</div>
-
-
-
-
-<hr class="chap x-ebookmaker-drop" />
-
-<div class="chapter">
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_5"></a>[5]</span></p>
-
-<h2 class="nobreak" id="FORWARD">A FOREWORD</h2>
-</div>
-
-
-<p>Sending this little book out into the world is
-like sending out one of my children, for as they
-came from my heart, so has it. My heart has
-ached for my children as it has been necessary for
-them to go out and meet the buffetings of an unsympathetic
-world and so aches it for this little
-fledgling. But still I have a hope that the world
-will not be wholly unkind to it and that it will
-find its place and accomplish that which has been
-hoped for it, in helping human lives and adding to
-the sum of purity in the world.</p>
-
-<p>This little message grew out of an address made
-before a section of the Women’s Club of the city
-and their request to have it published. I have not
-changed the literary style from that of public address,
-thinking that perhaps it would be more
-effective in that form.</p>
-
-<p>You will doubtless find some striking and unusual
-statements in this message, but all I ask is
-that you will give it careful thought and that you
-will remember that these statements have been
-made after twenty years of careful study of the
-mysteries of life and that they are backed up by<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_6"></a>[6]</span>
-the best of physical and psychic facts. I have not
-dared to go into detailed explanation for want of
-space and so may bring down on my head storms
-that I might easily dissipate if I were but in touch
-with the storm maker. But let the storms come if
-they must, I will rejoice amidst them all if only I
-can awaken the parenthood of this land to the
-dangers to which their children are exposed.</p>
-
-<p class="noic">Yours for purity,</p>
-
-<p class="right"><span class="smcap">Otterbein Oscar Smith</span>.</p>
-
-
-
-
-<hr class="chap x-ebookmaker-drop" />
-
-<div class="chapter">
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_7"></a>[7]</span></p>
-
-<h2 class="nobreak" id="CLaSH">Child Life and Sex Hygiene</h2>
-
-<hr class="r15" />
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">Sex Hygiene</span></h3>
-</div>
-
-<p>This word hygiene has its root in the word
-Hygeia. Hygeia was the daughter of one of the
-gods of the Classic Mythology, and was the goddess
-of health. Sex hygiene is then, sex health,
-or sex normality.</p>
-
-<p>Is there special danger of abnormal conditions
-or disease in the sex life of children and young
-people? We must answer this question before we
-can determine whether our time is well spent in
-the study which shall follow.</p>
-
-<p>To determine this we must make a brief study
-of the unfolding human life and note some of its
-component parts and their relative relations and
-values in the organism.</p>
-
-<p>We can best do this by a study of <a href="#i_p008">the accompanying
-chart</a>. The lower line of the triangle
-represents the body, or physical life; the left side
-the feelings; the right side the intellect. If body,
-feelings and intellect were equal in any human
-being, then, we would have a perfect triangle, or a
-normal human life. But this is not true in any<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_8"></a>[8]</span>
-child or young person. This diagram illustrates
-the relative relations of these three elements of
-being as the child advances toward mature life.</p>
-
-<div class="figcenter" id="i_p008">
- <img src="images/i_p008.jpg" alt="" title="" />
- <div class="caption">
- <p class="noic">Note—For want of space the triangle is reduced
-from original drawing.</p>
- </div>
-</div>
-
-<p>The early years of a child’s life is almost purely
-physical and the physical plays a large part in
-the life of the girl or boy till they are well advanced
-in their ’teens, as you will see by a study
-of this figure.</p>
-
-<p>Each side of this triangle is three inches long.
-The lines that run across the triangle represent
-feeling at the various stages of the child’s life.
-You can see that in the early years the feelings and<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_9"></a>[9]</span>
-the physical are very close together and are the
-dominating impulses of the life.</p>
-
-<p>The reader should bear in mind that the word
-feeling is not here used in the restricted sense of referring
-to physical feelings only, but to all the
-feelings which surge through the being from whatever
-source. We should not lose sight of the
-fact, however, that, because of the important part
-that is played in the organism during the teens by
-the impulses from a given nerve center, all
-feelings will be colored more or less by the outfloodings
-of that nerve center. As we have suggested,
-the child till well advanced in years is
-largely a creature of feeling, and what mind it has
-is what may be called a picture mind, or a mind
-for seeing things. How easy it will be for all the
-feelings of the being to become inoculated with
-impurity and place before this picture mind of the
-child such distorted views of life as will vitiate
-the entire organism! How important it is that a
-higher intelligence, that is the father and mother,
-create pure, noble and beautiful pictures and place
-them before this picture, or seeing mind, of the
-child.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_10"></a>[10]</span></p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">A Child’s Life Expressed in Figures</span></h3>
-
-<p>Expressing the life of a child in figures, what do
-we find? As you will see, the baby has three
-inches of physical, three inches of feeling and but
-one-fourth of an inch of intellect. <em>This makes six
-inches of physical and feeling pitted against one-fourth
-of an inch of intellect.</em> The child of six
-years has six inches of physical and feeling and
-one-half an inch of intellect. The child of fourteen
-has six inches of physical and feeling and but
-one inch of intellect. <em>Even at eighteen the proportion
-is six inches of physical and feeling and but
-two inches of intellect.</em> How striking these proportions
-are when we put them in inches.</p>
-
-<p>I would not, however, have you think you can
-literally measure a child in yards and inches or
-that they will all measure the same, for no two
-children develope alike, but in a general way this
-scale holds good. While you will find some children
-developing the intellect much more rapidly
-than others, and more rapidly than is suggested
-here, still you will find on the whole that this
-scale of relative proportions is not far out of the
-way for the average child.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_11"></a>[11]</span></p>
-
-<p><span class="smcap">I would have you stop for a moment
-and get this diagram and relative proportions
-well fixed in your minds.</span></p>
-
-<p>Think what these proportions mean and to
-what constant danger this child is exposed in developing
-sex abnormality if not disease. If an
-abnormal sex condition obtains it will surely sooner
-or later lead to disease. We may therefore
-conclude that our study is worth while and of
-priceless value to all young life.</p>
-
-<p>The thoughtful study of this diagram convinces
-us beyond a peradventure that <em>there is vast danger
-of harmful and perhaps dangerous sex conditions
-obtaining without careful and intelligent guiding
-in the early life of the child</em>.</p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">Six to One</span></h3>
-
-<p>Even at fourteen years of age the proportion of
-feeling and physical to intellect is as six to one.
-Where have you ever heard of a general who went
-out to fight a war with ten thousand men when
-his enemy had sixty thousand? He might make
-a momentary dash with such a force, but in the
-end he would be overcome. Still we allow our<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_12"></a>[12]</span>
-children to grow up with these odds against them
-and we seem to be entirely thoughtless as to the
-danger they are in.</p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">The Melting Power of Thought</span></h3>
-
-<p>Are you asking, why the human organism was
-not so constructed that the intellect would always
-be the dominant factor in the life? Had this been
-done there would be no possibility of the organism
-ever coming to perfection, for the impulses that are
-sent out from the inner life of man through the
-brain at the upper end of the spine are so powerful
-and so finely attenuated that they would entirely
-destroy the physical body before it has time
-to become strong and tense and able to carry them.
-<em>If the intellectual impulses of a grown man or
-woman were sent through the life of a child the
-body would be melted just as the fine wire is by a
-heavy voltage of electricity.</em></p>
-
-<p>God was wise in creating this sex nerve center,
-or physical brain, by which the organism builds
-and paints in glorious beauty and charming grace
-the wonderful machine, the human body, and
-makes it strong and tense so that when the work<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_13"></a>[13]</span>
-is complete the ego or spirit of man will have a
-perfect instrument through which to manifest itself
-to the world and perform its mission and live its
-life in highest nobleness upon the earth. Because
-of these facts <em>God has wisely wrapped the intellectual
-faculties of the child within its life, as he
-does the rose-buds in the rose-bush, that when
-the body work is completed, that crown of all His
-creation, the self conscious life of man, may manifest
-itself in all its glory through a perfect instrument
-and that instrument remain strong and proficient
-through the years</em>.</p>
-
-<p>We may add this further suggestion to make
-our point clear. In our statement of the slow
-growth of the intellect as compared to the other
-two elements of being, we are dealing with the
-reasoning faculties and not with memory, which is
-quite another element and is not dangerous to the
-physical development, and may show a marked
-unfoldment at quite an early age.</p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">Impulse and Vibration</span></h3>
-
-<p>Having got these relative proportions well in
-our minds we may for a brief time give our attention<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_14"></a>[14]</span>
-to an important scientific fact which is necessary
-to our study. Our lives are entirely controlled
-by impulses which originate in various parts
-of our personalities. Sometimes the impulse comes
-from our bodies; again the feelings are in control,
-and at times the memory asserts itself. Then again
-the intellect is the dominating factor. <span class="smcap">Of this
-we may be sure, from whatever element
-of being comes the strongest impulse,
-there for the time being is the seat of
-government.</span> We are also scientifically certain,
-<em>that the more finely attenuated an impulse is,
-and the more rapid the vibrations are which carry
-such an impulse, the more powerful it is and the
-more surely will it prevail over the slower impulses
-carried at a lower rate of vibration</em>. A current
-of electricity of high voltage will melt a bar
-of steel.</p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">The Finest Organs—Their Functions</span></h3>
-
-<p>With the above thoughts well fixed in our minds
-we are ready to ask, what are the two finest and
-most sensitive organs in the human body and those
-capable of sending out the finest impulses? There<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_15"></a>[15]</span>
-is but one answer to this question. 1. The brain,
-or mind nerve center. 2. The sex nerve center.
-One of these nerve centers, the brain, is the instrument
-of the intellect and the other nerve center is
-the instrument of feeling, not of base and shameful
-feelings, as many people think, but of the most
-exquisite and beautiful feelings of which a human
-being is capable. <em>As the beautiful thoughts of
-man may be distorted into vicious and sinful
-things, so may the exquisite feelings which flood
-forth from the sex nerve center be debased and distorted
-into sins.</em></p>
-
-<p>With these glorious possibilities and purposes
-of this nerve center before us, what a horrid nightmare
-it is for anyone to think, as some people do,
-that this sex nerve center is the organ of humiliation
-and shame and is therefore not a proper subject
-of conversation in polite society. Nothing can
-be farther from the truth than this.</p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">The Beauty Impulses</span></h3>
-
-<p>Stop for a moment and think; from whence
-come the beautiful impulses, or thoughts <span class="allsmcap">OF HOME,
-MOTHERHOOD, FATHERHOOD, LOVE FOR AND</span><span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_16"></a>[16]</span>
-<span class="allsmcap">PROTECTION OF CHILDREN, THE ART OF HOMEBUILDING
-AND HOME ADORNMENT</span>? Come they
-not from this very nerve center? Destroy this
-nerve center in any young child and its life will
-be void of all these glorious impulses.</p>
-
-<p>In place then of this nerve center, or sex organ,
-being a blushing, shame-faced spirit that mutins
-in the life of humanity, it is <em>the producer of all
-highest physical beauty both in the human organism
-and in its surroundings</em>.</p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">The Mind Brain and the Body Brain</span></h3>
-
-<p>May I ask how many of you have ever told
-your boys and girls this? Not one of you, because
-you never knew it before. You have always
-thought that our sense of beauty originated in the
-nerve center, which we call the brain. The mind
-of man directs, unifies and co-ordinates and should
-control these beauty impulses as they flood out into
-the being, but they have their origin in the sex
-nerve center.</p>
-
-<p><span class="smcap">This organ, or nerve center, is the
-brain of the purely physical life, as
-truly as the gray matter, or nerve center<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_17"></a>[17]</span></span>
-<span class="smcap">at the upper end of the spine</span>, which
-we call the brain, <span class="allsmcap">IS THE BRAIN OF THE EGO, OR
-INNER LIFE</span>. Through the sex organ, or nerve
-center, the physical life in its rarest and most delicate
-beauty finds expression, as through the brain
-the inner life, or ego, expresses itself in thought and
-will.</p>
-
-<p>Do you ask for proof of this somewhat remarkable
-statement? Let me answer by asking a question.
-When are the birds most beautiful in plumage
-and sweetest in song? <span class="smcap">At mating time.</span>
-<em>It cannot be said that this is due to intellect, but
-upon the other hand it is the natural upflooding of
-the beauty impulses from the physical brain, or
-sex nerve center.</em></p>
-
-<p>We cannot here enter into the deeper psychological
-question involved in this somewhat unusual
-statement, that the sex nerve center is the physical
-brain, but it must be evident to any thoughtful person
-that the statement is not far out of the way, as
-is evidenced in its beauty building power in the
-lives of the birds. There is an intelligence or consciousness
-in this physical brain, but it is not a
-self-conscious intelligence, such as functions through
-the brain at the upper end of the spine.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_18"></a>[18]</span></p>
-
-<p>Because of the above facts and many others
-that might be presented, we feel justified in the
-statements we have made above.</p>
-
-<p>When we contemplate all this may we not well
-pray, <em>Oh, God forgive us our sins of ignorance
-and false modesty and help us rightly to appreciate
-this, one of Thy greatest gifts to the human race!</em></p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">A Striking Illustration</span></h3>
-
-<p>Let me bring to you an illustration to make
-this thought clear. Suppose you could unsex
-every child in this city under six years of age;
-this would be before the sex nerve center had time
-to flood the life with the sense of beauty. Then
-build a wall about the city and leave these children
-to themselves, simply supplying them with
-food and clothing, but keeping away from them,
-as far as possible, all human beings, who through
-sex impulses were filled with thoughts of beauty.
-What would be the results and what kind of a
-city would you have here in forty years from now?
-There would be little, if any, physical beauty among
-these people as they grew up, for they would grow
-slatternly or slab-sided, or fat and stuffy, and having<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_19"></a>[19]</span>
-lost the sense of beauty with their unsexing they
-would let the buildings go to decay and the streets
-grow up to weeds, and what a dreary waste this
-once beautiful city would be!</p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">Who Has Been Teaching the Children?</span></h3>
-
-<p>Though the thought is new to you, do you not
-begin to see the truth and beauty of what I have
-been saying about this wonderful nerve center, or
-brain of the physical life?</p>
-
-<p>What father or mother who may read this has
-ever felt it a religious joy to teach their children
-the truth about this wonderful gift of God to the
-human race?</p>
-
-<p>I am not going to ask you how many of you
-were so taught, for I feel very sure none of you
-were. Scarcely anyone has ever been taught any
-thing right about it, but most, if not all, have been
-left to stumble along in the dark, as you and I
-were, and if by chance they happened to hit upon
-a plan, or stumbled onto knowledge, which enabled
-them to live together happily after marriage, well
-and good; if not, the great American juggernaut,
-the divorce mill, makes another revolution, and a<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_20"></a>[20]</span>
-wrecked home and two broken lives are held up to
-public gaze, as the result of its deadly work. There
-is not the slightest doubt in the mind of the writer
-but that a large percent of the divorces of this
-country grow out of the absolute ignorance of
-young people as to how to live together happily.</p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">Help!</span></h3>
-
-<p>But what shall I say? I do not know how to
-teach my children.</p>
-
-<p>A most delightful book, which will put pure,
-noble, and instructive words into every parent’s
-mouth with which to approach their children from
-babyhood till they see them stand at the marriage
-altar, is “Four Epochs of Life,” by Elizabeth
-Hamilton-Muncie, M. D., Ph. M., Graves Publishing
-Co., New York. Let us ever remember
-that the education of a child along these lines
-should begin as suggested in this charming book,
-at a very early age, but it is better late than never,
-and if you have neglected your children before
-begin now.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_21"></a>[21]</span></p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">The Physical Brain</span></h3>
-
-<p>Let us return now to this wonderful nerve center,
-or brain of the physical life. When does it
-begin to send out <em>these finely attenuated beauty
-impulses, which must move at very high rates of
-vibration</em>?</p>
-
-<p>These impulses which give grace, form, and all
-other touches of indescribable charm to the body
-of the child.</p>
-
-<p>From the very beginning of its life to some small
-degree, and from twelve years of age they begin
-to show themselves the dominant impulses of the
-life. They rise in the body just like waves of heat
-on a summer day. <em>They are flooding every fiber
-of the being, giving roundness to the limbs, grace
-to the form, drawing beauty lines upon the face,
-painting roses in the cheeks, putting sparkles in the
-depths of liquid eyes.</em> All of this and more are
-these little builders, which we call sex impulses,
-doing in the years from twelve to eighteen. Is it
-any wonder with all this marvelous work to do,
-that like the sculptor who is to make a statue out
-of a block of marble, they must take possession of
-the body and become the dominant element in it?<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_22"></a>[22]</span>
-The heart, liver, digestive organs, and even the
-brain itself are subject to these outflooding impulses
-as they work out the beauty of the physical
-life.</p>
-
-<p>Turn back to your <a href="#i_p008">chart</a> now and note what a
-small part the intellect plays in the life of the girl
-or boy between the ages of twelve and eighteen.
-Just enough to be a willing servant of the sex
-impulses, as they work out the plan of beauty, as
-given them by the hand of the Master of all life.
-In fact the brain is largely an automaton in this
-work, for the ego has not had time <em>to fully lay
-through the brain that fine system of telephone
-connections and wires by which the brain becomes
-a perfect instrument through which the ego or
-inner man may reason out the problems of life</em>, so
-that up to eighteen there is comparatively little
-reasoning ability in the life of children.</p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">Impulses Moving at Rapid Rates of
-Vibration</span></h3>
-
-<p>These beauty building impulses are sent out in
-such abundance during the teens, that they fairly
-cause the body to scintillate, the cheeks to glow<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_23"></a>[23]</span>
-and the eyes to sparkle. Here they come, wave
-after wave, <em>like shimmering light upon the mountains,
-trooping up through the physical life like
-angels of the Eternal, making the body glow with
-unspeakable beauty</em>.</p>
-
-<p>They should be guided by the finest and holiest
-thought, for <em>they are the elect angels of God to the
-physical life of man</em>. But what is done with them?
-Oh, sad! The parents have been led to think it
-is not quite the thing to talk to their children of
-these things and the child has not developed sufficient
-brain activity to reason about them and to
-understand them and translate them into elements
-of beauty and sacred service. Here the young
-life stands like a beautiful deer before the on-coming
-prairie fire, it feels the tremendous swish of
-the flood of feelings and physical life, like the
-hissing of the flames behind the deer. If only
-the deer can reach the lake for which he pants
-and swim out into its cool depths he will be safe;
-and if the child could creep, as it were, into the
-heart of father or mother and hear glorious, tender,
-holy words spoken of this flood of feelings, which
-is all so strange to it, and which sweeps up through<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_24"></a>[24]</span>
-its being like a storm in the forest, and have an
-intelligence translate them into God’s own beauty
-of life, what a joy it would be!</p>
-
-<p>When I see the mighty army of beautiful youth
-standing unprotected and in ignorance of the great
-danger before them, with no one to teach them and
-the very parents that gave them being, indifferent,
-is it any wonder that my heart cries out, Oh, sad?</p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">Ignorant Parents—Ruined Children</span></h3>
-
-<p>What usually happens if one of these elfs of
-human life has the temerity to speak to father or
-mother about these strange impulses? A blush of
-shame, perhaps, and the expression, “You better
-be thinking of something else,” or “You should be
-ashamed to be talking of such things,” ends the
-conversation.</p>
-
-<p>A lady in high station said to the writer, when
-talking upon this subject, “I went to my mother a
-few days before my marriage and asked her to
-tell me about the marriage state. My mother was
-a good woman, but all she said was, ‘You will
-find out soon enough.’” God forgive and pity the
-ignorance of such mothers!</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_25"></a>[25]</span></p>
-
-<p>Rebuffed at home, what happens? This child
-goes out upon the streets and from vulgar playmates,
-older than it is, through vulgar stories and
-suggestions, gets a base and lewd conception of
-all this in his or her life which God meant for
-beauty, for His glory and the glory of the race, or
-what is almost as bad, remains in stupid and dangerous
-ignorance till some vile octopus throws his
-tentacles about this dream of beauty and sparkling,
-buoyant youth, and the end of the tragedy is a
-ruined life, or what more often happens, two of
-these ignorant young people get together and because
-of their ignorance commit those acts against
-chastity which bring ruin and disgrace.</p>
-
-<p>“But,” you say, “such cases as you depict
-above are the exception and not the rule and I am
-not afraid of my child being caught in such ways.”</p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">Your Child Is Not Safe</span></h3>
-
-<p>I grant you this and hope by all means it is so.
-But do not because of this, settle back into comfortable
-indifference, for there are greater dangers
-than those stated above from which you cannot
-say your children are so free.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_26"></a>[26]</span></p>
-
-<p>As children grow up in the home, if it is a right
-home, they often see father and mother kiss each
-other, and perhaps they see the mother sometimes
-lovingly drop down upon the lap of father and
-put her arms about his neck. The natural question
-that comes to the mind of the child is, “why
-does she do that?” No one has ever taken the
-trouble to anticipate this unspoken question and
-answer it, and the child goes out to mingle with
-its playmates of both sexes with this unspoken question
-unanswered.</p>
-
-<p>The natural outcome of the child reasoning will
-be, if one woman can kiss a man and sit upon his
-lap, then all women can kiss men and sit upon their
-laps. Why not reason in this way? No one has
-ever taken the trouble to explain the difference between
-the married and the unmarried state and
-the rights and privileges that belong to the wedded
-pair, which rights are recognized by both God and
-the laws of our land.</p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">Natural Mating</span></h3>
-
-<p>If you will observe them, children mate as naturally
-as the birds do. Here they are dancing<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_27"></a>[27]</span>
-about us like the sunbeams in the forest, in pairs
-of natural selection. You may notice them in the
-home, in the school and on the streets. Innocent
-little things they are in these childish matings and
-might remain so to the end of life if some kind
-intelligence were directing them. But no such intelligence
-is at hand. The mothers joke about these
-matings and tease the children about them and that
-is the end of the parents’ relation to this gravest
-question in all life.</p>
-
-<p>These children grow to fourteen or fifteen years
-of age and the impulses from the sex nerve center
-begin to flood themselves out in a perfect submergence
-of the life. They get hold of some silly love
-stories, that have been written by some heartless
-person for so much per line, and were never intended
-for any normal person to believe or think
-possible, but to their childish minds it is a chapter
-from real life, for they are not in any sense normal
-beings at this age as you will see by a look at the
-triangle. At this age <em>the intelligence is but a mere
-pigmy</em> in their lives as compared to the giants of
-feeling and physical life.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_28"></a>[28]</span></p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">Ignorance Brings Ruin</span></h3>
-
-<p>Seeing and knowing no danger in it, they follow
-out the natural sex impulse to touch one another
-and to caress each other. Why not? Have
-they not read in the love story of the lover and
-the sweetheart kissing and caressing each other,
-and furthermore, and <em>the strongest possible evidence
-in the case, have they not seen father and
-mother kiss and caress each other</em>? Is it not the
-most natural thing, under these conditions, for these
-children to enter into such familiar relations as will
-lead to serious consequences in many cases?</p>
-
-<p>I know many a girl has lived through this
-period of ignorant familiarity with young men without
-having her character wholly ruined, and she
-appears before those of us who know the danger
-through which she has passed, as a living miracle.</p>
-
-<p>But having escaped these dangers herself, what
-has she done for the young man with whom she
-has had these familiar relations? She has, unwittingly
-of course, multiplied the sex impulses in his
-life till they sweep over him like a fire in the forest.
-He is a manly young fellow and would scorn the
-thought even of allowing these impulses to expend<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_29"></a>[29]</span>
-themselves upon the one who had awakened them
-and increased their outflooding. In the midst of
-these experiences he falls in with some young man
-older than himself, and they talk it over. This
-fellow prides himself on being worldly wise, and
-so the younger man is influenced by him. The
-result is that he goes to someone who will receive
-him for a money consideration. Then comes the
-awful awakening, and he recognizes the fact, that
-the blighting leprosy of the sin of lewdness has
-fastened itself upon him. But after the first shock
-his heart is lightened, because some physician assures
-him that he can cure him. But that man is
-either ignorant or he is wilfully deceiving this
-young man, for the Almighty himself cannot assure
-him that this plague will ever entirely leave
-his body. God will forgive his soul, but no one
-can honestly assure him that his body is not damned
-for all time. It is true some men seem to recover
-entirely, but no one can give them any assurance
-in this matter. The best medical science tells us
-that these germs may remain in the body for years
-and then show themselves in various forms and diseases.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_30"></a>[30]</span></p>
-
-<p>Is it not time for those of us who know of the
-awfulness of this dread plague to “cry aloud from
-the housetops,” if by chance we may awaken the
-fathers and mothers who sleep in ignorance and
-false modesty?</p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">An Appalling Instance</span></h3>
-
-<p>Will it help you any if I tell you of a single instance,
-which came under my notice some time
-ago, and is but one out of many that chills my
-blood as I write. A young girl came to a certain
-city and secured employment in one of the business
-houses of the city. She was of inferior intellect
-and had but little chance for development of
-that side of her nature, but the sex brain, or
-nerve center, had done much for her and built in
-her body lines of remarkable grace, had painted
-her cheeks with marvelous color and given unusual
-brilliancy to her eyes. A foul miscreant,
-in the form of a man of older years, saw this
-beautiful human creature and decoyed her into improper
-relations with him. His body was full of
-the leprosy of lewdness and he imparted it to
-this ignorant young creature. But sad as it would<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_31"></a>[31]</span>
-be it would not be so bad if the tragedy had
-stopped there, but it did not. Think of it friends!
-<span class="smcap">Eight of the untaught and unprotected
-boys of the High School of that city,
-who had been allowed the freedom of
-kisses and embraces of young girls, as
-ignorant and unprotected as they</span>, saw
-this young creature and were drawn into improper
-relations with her and the leprosy was passed on
-to each of them. This is not an illustration merely,
-but a statement of fact, for I had the facts
-direct from the physicians who treated these boys.</p>
-
-<p>If this was your High School would you be
-alarmed? And would you cast aside your false
-modesty and in the name of God be frank and
-true to your children?</p>
-
-<p>Though it may not be your High School there
-are always dangers enough that if realized should
-make parents earnest and anxious for the safety of
-their loved ones.</p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">Ignorance and a Wrecked Home</span></h3>
-
-<p>May I give you a single illustration of the
-wrecking of two lives, through the ignorance of a<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_32"></a>[32]</span>
-boy touching these grave questions? This sad
-story was told me by a medical friend, who was
-personally acquainted with these young people,
-and while an interne in a hospital, in one of our
-eastern cities, assisted in the operation referred to.</p>
-
-<p>A young boy of sixteen, of one of the refined
-and cultured families of the city, had grown up
-in ignorance as to sex relations and instincts. He
-was invited to a week-end party, at the home of
-friends, and while there, with a houseful of guests,
-fell in with a woman older than himself, who
-enticed him into improper relations with her.
-Whether she knew it or not, she was afflicted with
-the leprosy of lewdness and she passed it on to this
-boy. As soon as he discovered his condition he
-went to his father and told him about this incident
-and was taken to one of the best physicians in this
-country, who lived in the city. This physician
-treated the young man till he was twenty-four
-years old and assured him, so far as medical science
-could determine, he seemed to be entirely cured.
-The young man had become awakened by this
-sad experience and through this awakening learned
-of the awful fatality which attaches itself to this<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_33"></a>[33]</span>
-leprosy, so to be sure he went to another specialist
-and was examined and treated by him for a
-year. During these years, between the ages of
-sixteen and twenty-five, he had fallen in love with
-a beautiful young woman of one of the refined
-homes of the city; but so much of dread had he
-that he deferred his marriage for a year to make
-sure that the last vestige of the plague was gone.
-At last they were married with all the joys and
-delights of that hour.</p>
-
-<p>Vain hope was his, for in less than a year after
-their marriage the physicians were compelled to
-perform an operation to save the young woman’s
-life, which forever left that home childless and
-the young husband carrying in his heart an awful
-shadow which would never lift till the grave received
-him.</p>
-
-<p>This is not an isolated case, for such tragedies
-are multiplied by thousands all over this fair land
-of ours. And the appalling facts are that a large
-majority of them can be charged to a lack of education
-by the parents. Thousands of dollars are
-spent to educate the children in books and music,
-but not a moment of time given to teach them the
-truth about this one most important subject.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_34"></a>[34]</span></p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">The Aroused Soul</span></h3>
-
-<p>Are you startled and does your heart cry out,
-“What can I do? Oh! what can I do?”</p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">The Helper</span></h3>
-
-<p><span class="smcap">You can be frank, intelligent and
-human with your children.</span> Let me tell
-you, if I may, some things you can do. Let us
-think of the daughter first, but not because she
-needs more protection than the son, for God
-knows they are both in need of all the protection
-loving, intelligent parents can give them.</p>
-
-<p>If the streets are sloppy and you want to protect
-your daughter, what do you advise her? To
-wear her rubbers, of course. If she has a cold
-and there is a raw wind blowing what do you advise
-her? Wrap up well and see that her throat
-is protected. Why do you give this advice? Because
-on the sloppy streets the feet are the points
-of attack, and in the raw wind the throat is the
-point of attack.</p>
-
-<p>Why not be just as sane in dealing with your
-daughter when you come to teach her to protect
-her character and self respect?</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_35"></a>[35]</span></p>
-
-<p>At what points do these outflooding impulses
-of glorious womanhood manifest themselves at
-the surface of the body? The answer is self-evident,
-the lips and the bosom. You have known
-this all the time and you have sat idly by and
-seen your daughters go out into dangers far more
-deadly than wet feet or inflamed throat without
-ever saying a word to them about how to protect
-themselves. Why not sit down by your daughter
-of fourteen and tell her these truths; tell her there
-is a vital connection between the bosom and the
-sex nerve center which is more sensitive than the
-most delicate electric impulse and explain to her
-how wonderfully God has arranged the body of
-woman and why? Why not tell her the same truth
-as to her lips? <em>Tell her that unless God had
-made a vital connection between the lips of a
-woman and the sex nerve center she could not kiss
-love and nobleness into the life of her children during
-those glorious days of motherhood.</em> Tell her,
-with all the love a mother can put into the words,
-that will live forever in the heart of every true
-child, that because of these wonderful truths every
-<em>true young woman should protect her lips and</em><span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_36"></a>[36]</span>
-<em>bosom as she would the engagement ring, the pledge
-of love and approaching marriage</em>. Tell her, with
-the wifely love upflooding from your heart, why
-her father has a right to kiss and embrace you and
-<em>why it will mean the lowering of her character, if
-not its ultimate loss, for her to give these jewels of
-hers, even for a moment, into the hands of any
-man other than he who will be her husband, and
-as such has the loving right to them</em>.</p>
-
-<p>Why not teach your son the sacredness of
-womanhood and the manliness of protecting it?
-Pardon me, if I say I am not writing a theory, but
-am speaking out of my own heart. I commenced
-teaching my own son when he was twelve years
-old and had my last talk with him a month before
-he was married. He grew up to be a clean young
-man and I felt a thousand times repaid for my
-effort when his wife came to her new mother a
-short time after their marriage and told her with
-such delight how thoughtful, kind, gentle and refined
-her lover was in all their relations.</p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">The Dance and Its Dangers</span></h3>
-
-<p>I may at this point call attention to the dangers
-of the dance. Every girl who enjoys dancing,<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_37"></a>[37]</span>
-and most of them do, should be shown the dangers
-to both herself and the man in allowing herself to
-be drawn up too close to the person of the man
-she is dancing with. She should not only be told
-that she must not do so, but told plainly and lovingly
-why. There may be nothing impure in the
-thought of either, for when they are dancing they
-are usually not thinking. Music tends to quiet
-thought and under such conditions they will follow
-the sex impulse and unconsciously draw near to
-each other, and they are far more sure to do so
-while ignorant of the dangers in it. In like manner
-boys should be taught to carefully respect the person
-of girls and told in a plain, frank way the
-truth about their relations to the opposite sex.</p>
-
-<p>I believe, as a rule young people love to dance
-with the purest of motives. They are attracted
-to this form of amusement because of their love
-for music and the natural desire to keep time to it.
-The most zealous religionist finds himself patting
-his foot when a bit of lively music is played, which
-is but an evidence of the natural desire of any
-human being to keep time to music.</p>
-
-<p>Is there someone asking, “If it is true that<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_38"></a>[38]</span>
-young people have the purest of motives in their
-desire to dance, how comes it then that so many
-frightful mistakes are made as a result of the
-dance?” I might answer in a single word, by
-saying, <span class="smcap">Ignorance</span>.</p>
-
-<p>It is the conviction of the writer, however, that
-no more mistakes are made in proportion, and perhaps
-not so many, as the result of the dance as by
-long night rides in buggies, or sitting in the shadow
-of trees in public parks. But the facts are more
-people dance than ride in buggies.</p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">The Psychology of the Dance</span></h3>
-
-<p>The great danger in the dance is, to my mind,
-<em>a psychological one</em>, which might be overcome by
-knowledge upon the subject. Let us examine this
-thought for a time, for here is the crux of the
-whole matter. When your attention is called to
-it, you cannot think of more perfect relations
-existing between two persons for hypnosis, or hypnotic
-suggestion to take place than that which
-exists in the dance. To get this clearly before us
-let us note the steps taken by the hypnotist. He
-has his subject relax his body, and put his mind<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_39"></a>[39]</span>
-at rest and then he prefers to have soft music
-played. Under these conditions he most easily
-gets control of the mind of his subject.</p>
-
-<p>Let us now study the couple dancing. The
-body must be in a more or less relaxed state, for
-graceful motion would not be possible with a rigid
-body. The mind is at rest, because the music lulls
-it into quiet and makes the dominant element in
-the life the feelings, for <em>we do not think music,
-we feel it</em>. Just here you must recall, that the
-sex nerve center is the brain of the physical life
-and continually sends forth the most exquisite impulses
-of feeling, which manifest themselves in all
-the glory and beauty of bodily charm and these
-<em>must of necessity mingle in their outgoings with the
-vibrations of the music and the feelings which it
-induces</em>.</p>
-
-<p>Now you have these two persons, <em>with bodies
-relaxed, minds at rest, just floating over the floor,
-and carried, as it were, on waves of music</em>. Under
-just these conditions many an uninstructed and
-ignorant girl has passed under a hypnotic spell in
-which she has been led to do that which ruined
-her life and which she would have surrendered her<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_40"></a>[40]</span>
-life rather than have done, had she been in her
-normal state.</p>
-
-<p>Let me give you an instance in point. Some
-years ago I was lecturing on the psychic question,
-and among other things I spoke of <em>the psychology
-of the dance</em>. The next morning I met one of the
-fine, clean young men of the little city, who was
-teller in one of the banks. He said to me, “Doctor
-I enjoyed your lecture very much last night,
-and I believe you have the right idea as to the
-psychology of the dance.” He said, “Sometime
-ago I was dancing with one of the finest young
-ladies in this city, one who is absolutely above
-reproach. As you said, ‘we were just floating
-along over the floor charmed by the music.’ I was
-looking down at her (he was a tall man), and
-thinking what a nice young woman she was, when
-all at once she laid her face against mine. She
-did not excuse herself then and she has not apologized
-since and I do not believe she knew that
-she did it.” This is the conclusion of a sane,
-thoughtful young man, as he pondered over an unusual
-experience with a pure-minded and irreproachable
-young woman.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_41"></a>[41]</span></p>
-
-<p>May I here give the testimony of an educated,
-thoughtful young man of thirty? In a frank talk
-with me, he said: “There have been a few times
-in my life when I have found it necessary to stop
-dancing with certain ladies.”</p>
-
-<p>There might not have been the slightest wrong
-thought in the minds of this young man or the
-lady he was dancing with, but the outflooding
-impulses from the sex nerve center in the life of the
-lady might just at that time have been so vital and
-have been carried at such rapid rates of vibration
-as to make themselves felt in the atmosphere about
-her. This, my friends, might happen <em>without an
-evil thought upon the part of either, for this brain
-of the physical life may and does send out these
-impulses without the recognition of the intellect</em>.</p>
-
-<p>Had this young man observed these ladies he
-would have noted a charming and unusual color
-of the skin of the face and an unusual and bewitching
-sparkle in the eyes, both of which indicate
-marked activity of the sex brain, or nerve
-center.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_42"></a>[42]</span></p>
-
-
-<h3><span class="smcap">Should the Dance Be Abolished?</span></h3>
-
-<p>There are many good people who would like
-to abolish the dance, and because of the ignorance
-of the larger number of people who engage
-in this amusement, I think I would join with them,
-but in all probability we will never be able to do it,
-so long as people love music and instinctively keep
-time to it.</p>
-
-<p>It may be in our zeal in this matter we are
-making a mistake and taking a wrong view of the
-question and by vicious, and sometimes senseless,
-attacks upon many good young people and this
-particular form of amusement in which they engage,
-doing both them and ourselves an injustice
-and keeping many of them out of the Kingdom.
-Of this I am sure, if young people are to dance
-<em>they should have proper chaperonage and a right
-knowledge of the possible dangers and how to
-avoid them</em>. <span class="smcap">No greater mistake could be
-made than to allow young people to attend
-public dances.</span></p>
-
-<p>May I close this little message then, which goes
-out with a prayer for God’s blessings to rest upon
-all who read it, that it may be a helpful message<span class="pagenum"><a id="Page_43"></a>[43]</span>
-to them; by urging frankness and candor upon the
-part of you, the parents, with your children, and if
-you are uninstructed inform yourselves and put such
-books in the hands of your children as will give
-them pure, wholesome information upon this most
-important subject in all the world, and God will
-bless you and them, and in joy and thankfulness
-you will see them grow up in the purity and nobleness
-of strong, helpful men and women. <span class="smcap">Be
-assured of this, if you do not educate
-them the streets will.</span></p>
-
-
-
-
-<hr class="chap" />
-<div class="tnote">
-<p class="noi tntitle">Transcriber’s Notes:</p>
-
-<p class="smfont">Punctuation and spelling inaccuracies were silently corrected.</p>
-
-<p class="smfont">Archaic and variable spelling has been preserved.</p>
-</div>
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