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-The Art of Living
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- The Art of
- Living
-
- BY
- _Robert Grant_
-
- [Illustration]
-
- New York
- _Charles Scribner’s Sons_
- MDCCCXCIX
-
- _Copyright, 1895 and 1899, by Charles Scribner’s Sons_
-
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-
-_Contents_
-
-
- ¶ _Income_
-
- Part I 1
-
- Part II 24
-
- ¶ The _Dwelling_
-
- Part I 33
-
- Part II 53
-
- ¶ _House-Furnishing_ and the _Commissariat_
-
- Part I 71
-
- Part II 85
-
- ¶ _Education_
-
- Part I 100
-
- Part II 118
-
- ¶ _Occupation_
-
- Part I 129
-
- Part II 144
-
- ¶ The _Use of Time_
-
- Part I 162
-
- Part II 181
-
- ¶ The _Summer Problem_
-
- Part I 203
-
- Part II 218
-
- ¶ The _Case of Man_
-
- Part I 230
-
- Part II 250
-
- ¶ The _Case of Woman_
-
- Part I 261
-
- Part II 278
-
- ¶ The _Conduct of Life_
-
- Part I 290
-
- Part II 309
-
-
-
-
-_Income._
-
-I.
-
-
-Rogers, the book-keeper for the past twenty-two years of my friend
-Patterson, the banker, told me the other day that he had reared a
-family of two boys and three girls on his annual salary of two thousand
-two hundred dollars; that he had put one of the boys through college,
-one through the School of Mines, brought up one of the girls to be a
-librarian, given one a coming-out party and a trousseau, and that the
-remaining daughter, a home body, was likely to be the domestic sunshine
-of his own and his wife’s old age. All this on two thousand two hundred
-dollars a year.
-
-Rogers told me with perfect modesty, with just a tremor of
-self-satisfaction in his tone, as though, all things considered,
-he felt that he had managed creditably, yet not in the least
-suggesting that he regarded his performance as out of the common
-run of happy household annals. He is a neat-looking, respectable,
-quiet, conservative little man, rising fifty, who, while in the bank,
-invariably wears a nankeen jacket all the year round, a narrow black
-necktie in winter, and a narrow yellow and red pongee wash tie in
-summer, and whose watch is no less invariably right to a second. As I
-often drop in to see Patterson, his employer, I depend upon it to keep
-mine straight, and it was while I was setting my chronometer the other
-day that he made me the foregoing confidence.
-
-Frankly, I felt as though I had been struck with a club. It happened
-to be the first of the month. Every visit of the postman had brought
-me a fresh batch of bills, each one of which was a little larger than
-I had expected. I was correspondingly depressed and remorseful, and
-had been asking myself from time to time during the day why it need
-cost so much to live. Yet here was a man who was able to give his
-daughter a coming-out party and a trousseau on two thousand two hundred
-dollars a year. I opened my mouth twice to ask him how in the name of
-thrift he had managed to do it, but somehow the discrepancy between
-his expenditures and mine seemed such a gulf that I was tongue-tied.
-“I suppose,” he added modestly, “that I have been very fortunate in my
-little family. It must indeed be sharper than a serpent’s tooth to have
-a thankless child.” Gratitude too! Gratitude and Shakespeare on two
-thousand two hundred dollars a year. I went my way without a word.
-
-There are various ways of treating remorse. Some take a Turkish bath or
-a pill. Others, while the day lasts, trample it under foot, and shut it
-out at night with the bed-clothes. Neither course has ever seemed to
-me exactly satisfactory or manly. Consequently I am apt to entertain
-my self-reproach and reason with it, and when one begins to wonder why
-it costs so much to live, he finds himself grappling with the entire
-problem of civilization, and presently his hydra has a hundred heads.
-The first of the month is apt to be a sorry day for my wife as well
-as for me, and I hastened on my return home to tell her, with just a
-shadow of reproach in my tone, what Mr. Rogers had confided to me.
-Indeed I saw fit to ask, “Why can’t we do the same?”
-
-“We could,” said Barbara.
-
-“Then why don’t we?”
-
-“Because you wouldn’t.”
-
-I had been reflecting in the brief interval between my wife’s first
-and second replies that, in the happy event of our imitating Rogers’s
-example from this time forth and forever more, I should be able to lay
-up over five thousand dollars a year, and that five thousand dollars
-a year saved for ten years would be fifty thousand dollars--a very
-neat little financial nest egg. But Barbara’s second reply upset my
-calculation utterly, and threw the responsibility of failure on me into
-the bargain.
-
-“Mr. Rogers is the salt of the earth, a highly respectable man and, if
-I am not mistaken, the deacon of a church,” I remarked not altogether
-relevantly. “Why should we spend four times as many thousand dollars a
-year as he?”
-
-“I wonder,” answered my wife, “if you really do appreciate how your
-friend Mr. Rogers lives. I am quite aware that you are talking now for
-effect--talking through your hat as the children say--because it’s
-the first of the month and you’re annoyed that the bills are worse
-than ever, and I understand that you don’t for one moment seriously
-entertain the hope that our establishment can be conducted on the same
-basis as his. But I should just like to explain to you for once how
-people who have only twenty-two hundred dollars a year and are the
-salt of the earth do live, if only to convince you that the sooner we
-stop comparing ourselves with them the better. I say ‘we’ because in
-my moments of depression over the household expenses I catch myself
-doing the same thing. Our butcher’s bill for this month is huge, and
-when you came in I was in the throes of despair over a letter in the
-newspaper from a woman who contends that a good housekeeper in modest
-circumstances can provide an excellent dinner for her family of six
-persons, including soup, fish, an entrée, meat, pudding, dessert, and
-coffee, for fifty-three cents. And she gives the dinner, which at
-first sight takes one’s breath away. But after you prune it of celery,
-parsley, salted peanuts, raisins, red cabbage, salad, and cheese, all
-there is left is bean-soup, cod sounds, fried liver, hot gingerbread,
-and apples.”
-
-“I should dine down town, if you set such repasts before me,” I
-answered.
-
-“Yes,” said Barbara. “And there is a very good point of departure for
-illustrating the domestic economies of the Rogers family. Mr. Rogers
-does dine down town. Not to avoid the fried liver and cod sounds, for
-probably he is partial to them, but because it is cheaper. When you
-take what you call your luncheon, and which is apt to include as much
-as he eats in the entire course of the day, Mr. Rogers dines; dines
-at a restaurant where he can get a modest meal for from fifteen to
-twenty-five cents. Sometimes it is pea-soup and a piece of squash-pie.
-The next day perhaps a mutton-stew and a slice of watermelon, or boiled
-beef and an éclair. Mrs. Rogers and the children have a pick-up dinner
-at home, which lasts them very well until night, when they and Rogers
-sit down to browned-hash mutton and a head of lettuce, or honey-comb
-tripe and corn-cake, and apple-sauce to wind up with.”
-
-“That isn’t so very bad.”
-
-“Why, they have a splendid time. They can abuse their social
-acquaintance and discuss family secrets without fear of being overheard
-by the servants because they don’t keep any servants to speak of.
-Probably they keep one girl. Or perhaps Mr. Rogers had a spinster
-sister who helped with the work for her board. Or it may be Mrs. Rogers
-kept one while the children were little; but after the daughters were
-old enough to do it themselves, they preferred not to keep anybody.
-They live extremely happily, but the children have to double up, for
-in their small house it is necessary to sleep two in a room if not a
-bed. The girls make most of their dresses, and the boys never dream
-of buying anything but ready-made clothing. By living in the suburbs
-they let one establishment serve for all seasons, unless it be for
-the two weeks when Rogers gets his vacation. Then, if nobody has been
-ill during the year, the family purse may stand the drain of a stay
-at the humblest watering-place in their vicinity, or a visit to the
-farm-house of some relative in the country. An engagement with the
-dentist is a serious disaster, and the plumber is kept at a respectable
-distance. The children go to the public schools, and the only club or
-organization to which Mr. Rogers belongs is a benefit association,
-which pays him so much a week if he is ill, and would present his
-family with a few hundred dollars if he were to die. The son who went
-through college must have got a scholarship or taken pupils. The girl
-who married undoubtedly made the greater portion of her trousseau with
-her own needle; and as to the coming-out party, some of the effects of
-splendor and all the delights of social intercourse can be produced
-by laying a white drugget on the parlor carpet, the judicious use of
-half a dozen lemons and a mould of ice-cream with angel-cake, and by
-imposing on the good nature of a friend who can play the piano for
-dancing. There, my dear, if you are willing to live like that, we
-should be able to get along on from twenty-two to twenty-five hundred
-dollars quite nicely.”
-
-My wife was perfectly correct in her declaration that I did not
-seriously entertain the hope of being able to imitate Mr. Rogers,
-worthy citizen and upright man as I believe him to be. I certainly was
-in some measure talking through my hat. This was not the first time
-I had brought home a Rogers to confront her. She is used to them and
-aware that they are chiefly bogies. I, as she knows, and indeed both
-of us, are never in quite a normal condition on the first day of the
-month, and are liable, sometimes the one of us and sometimes the other,
-to indulge in vagaries and resolutions which by the tenth, when the
-bills are paid, seem almost uncalled for or impracticable. One thing
-is certain, that if a man earns only twenty-two hundred dollars a
-year, and is an honest man withal, he has to live on it, even though
-he dines when others take luncheon, and is forced to avoid the dentist
-and the plumber. But a much more serious problem confronts the man who
-earns four times as much as Rogers, more serious because it involves
-an alternative. Rogers could not very well live on less if he tried,
-without feeling the stress of poverty. He has lived at hard pan, so to
-speak. But I could. Could if I would, as my wife has demonstrated. I
-am perfectly right, as she would agree, in being unwilling to try the
-experiment; and yet the consciousness that we spend a very large sum of
-money every year, as compared with Rogers and others like him, remains
-with us even after the bills are paid and we have exchanged remorse for
-contemplation.
-
-The moralist, who properly is always with us, would here insinuate,
-perhaps, that Rogers is happier than I. But I take issue with him
-promptly and deny the impeachment. Rogers may be happier than his
-employer Patterson, because Patterson, though the possessor of a
-steam-yacht, has a son who has just been through the Keeley cure and a
-daughter who is living apart from her husband. But there are no such
-flies in my pot of ointment. I deny the superior happiness of Rogers
-in entire consciousness of the moral beauty of his home. I recognize
-him to be an industrious, self-sacrificing, kind-hearted, sagacious
-husband and father, and I admit that the pen-picture which the moralist
-could draw of him sitting by the evening lamp in his well-worn
-dressing gown, with his well-darned feet adorned by carpet-slippers of
-filial manufacture supported by the table or a chair, would be justly
-entitled to kindle emotions of respect and admiration. But why, after
-all, should Rogers, ensconced in the family sitting-room with the
-cat on the hearth, a canary twittering in a cage and scattering seed
-in one corner, a sewing-machine in the other, and surrounded by all
-the comforts of home, consisting prominently of a peach-blow vase, a
-Japanese sun umbrella and engravings of George Washington and Horace
-Greeley, be regarded as happier than I in my modern drawing-room in
-evening dress? What is there moral in the simplicity of his frayed
-and somewhat ugly establishment except the spirit of contentment and
-the gentle feelings which sanctify it? Assuming that these are not
-lacking in my home, and I believe they are not, I see no reason for
-accepting the conclusion of the moralist. There is a beauty of living
-which the man with a small income is not apt to compass under present
-social conditions, the Declaration of Independence to the contrary
-notwithstanding. The doctrine so widely and vehemently promulgated in
-America that a Spartan inelegance of life is the duty of a leading
-citizen, seems to be dying from inanition; and the descendants of
-favorite sons who once triumphed by preaching and practising it are
-now outvying those whom they were taught to stigmatize as the effete
-civilizations of Europe, in their devotion to creature comforts.
-
-It seems to me true that in our day and generation the desire to live
-wisely here has eclipsed the desire to live safely hereafter. Moreover,
-to enjoy the earth and the fulness thereof, if it be legitimately
-within one’s reach, has come to be recognized all the world over, with
-a special point of view for each nationality, as a cardinal principle
-of living wisely. We have been the last to recognize it here for the
-reason that a contrary theory of life was for several generations
-regarded as one of the bulwarks of our Constitution. Never was the
-sympathy for the poor man greater than it is at present. Never was
-there warmer interest in his condition. The social atmosphere is rife
-with theories and schemes for his emancipation, and the best brains of
-civilization are at work in his behalf. But no one wishes to be like
-him. Canting churchmen still gain some credence by the assertion that
-indigence here will prove a saving grace in the world to come; but the
-American people, quick, when it recognizes that it has been fooled, to
-discard even a once sacred conviction, smiles to-day at the assumption
-that the owner of a log cabin is more inherently virtuous than the
-owner of a steam-yacht. Indeed the present signal vice of democracy
-seems to be the fury to grow rich, in the mad struggle to accomplish
-which character and happiness are too often sacrificed. But it may be
-safely said that, granting an equal amount of virtue to Rogers and
-to me, and that each pays his bills promptly, I am a more enviable
-individual in the public eye.
-
-In fact the pressing problem which confronts the civilized world
-to-day is the choice of what to have, for so many things have become
-necessaries of existence which were either done without or undiscovered
-in the days of our grandmothers, that only the really opulent can have
-everything. We sometimes hear it said that this or that person has too
-much for his own good. The saying is familiar, and doubtless it is true
-that luxury unappreciated and abused will cause degeneration; but the
-complaint seems to me to be a Sunday-school consoler for those who have
-too little rather than a sound argument against great possessions.
-Granting that this or that person referred to had the moral fibre of
-Rogers or of me, and were altogether an unexceptionable character, how
-could he have too much for his own good? Is the best any too good for
-any one of us?
-
-The sad part of it is, however, that even those of us who have four
-times, or thereabouts, the income of Rogers, are obliged to pick
-and choose and cannot have everything. Then is the opportunity for
-wisdom to step in and make her abode with us, if she only will. The
-perplexity, the distress, and too often the downfall of those who
-would fain live wisely, are largely the direct results of foolish or
-unintelligent selection on their part. And conversely, is not the
-secret of happy modern living, the art of knowing what to have when one
-cannot have everything there is?
-
-I coupled just now, in allusion to Rogers and myself, virtue and
-punctuality in the payment of bills, as though they were not altogether
-homogeneous. I did so designedly, not because I question that prompt
-payment is in the abstract a leading virtue, nor because I doubt
-that it has been absolutely imperative for Rogers, and one of the
-secrets of his happiness; but because I am not entirely sure whether,
-after ten years of prompt payment on the first of every month on my
-part, I have not been made the sorry victim of my own righteousness,
-self-righteousness I might say, for I have plumed myself on it when
-comparing myself with the ungodly. Although virtuous action looks for
-no reward, the man who pays his bills as soon as they are presented has
-the right to expect that he will not be obliged to pay anything extra
-for his honesty. He may not hope for a discount, but he does hope and
-believe--at least for a time--that beefsteak paid for within thirty
-days of purchase will not be taxed with the delinquencies of those who
-pay tardily or not at all. Slowly but sadly I and my wife have come to
-the conclusion that the butchers, bakers, and candlestick-makers of
-this great Republic who provide for the tolerably well-to-do make up
-their losses by assessing virtue. It is a melancholy conclusion for one
-who has been taught to believe that punctual payment is the first great
-cardinal principle of wise living, and it leaves one in rather a wobbly
-state of mind, not as regards the rank of the virtue in question, but
-as regards the desirability of strictly living up to it in practice. I
-have heard stated with authority that the leading butchers, grocers,
-stable-keepers, drygoods dealers, dress-makers, florists, and plumbers
-of our great cities divide the customers on their books into sheep
-and goats, so to speak; and the more prompt and willing a sheep, the
-deeper do they plunge the knife. Let one establish a reputation for
-prompt payment and make a purchase on the twenty-fifth of the month, he
-will receive on the first of the following a bill, on the twentieth,
-if this be not paid, a bill for “account rendered,” on the first of
-the next month a bill for “account rendered, please remit,” and on the
-tenth a visit from a collector. On the other hand I have known people
-who seem to live on the fat of the land, and to keep the tradesfolk in
-obsequious awe of them by force of letting their bills run indefinitely.
-
-Abroad, as many of us know, the status of the matter is very different.
-There interest is figured in advance, and those who pay promptly get
-a handsome discount on the face of their bills. While this custom
-may seem to encourage debt, it is at least a mutual arrangement, and
-seems to have proved satisfactory, to judge from the fact that the
-fashionable tailors and dress-makers of London and Paris are apt to
-demur or shrug their shoulders at immediate payment, and to be rather
-embarrassingly grateful if their accounts are settled by the end of a
-year. No one would wish to change the national inclination of upright
-people on this side of the water to pay on the spot, but the master and
-mistress of an establishment may well consider whether the fashionable
-tradesmen ought to oblige them to bear the entire penalty of being
-sheep instead of goats. With this qualification, which is set forth
-rather as a caveat than a doctrine, the prompt payment of one’s bills
-seems to be strictly co-ordinate with virtue, and may be properly
-described as the corner-stone of wise modern living.
-
-There are so many things which one has to have nowadays in order to
-be comfortable that it seems almost improvident to inquire how much
-one ought to save before facing the question of what one can possibly
-do without. Here the people who are said to have too much for their
-own good have an advantage over the rest of us. The future of their
-children is secure. If they dread death it is not because they fear
-to leave their wives and children unprovided for. Many of them go on
-saving, just the same, and talk poor if a railroad lowers a dividend,
-or there is not a ready market for their real estate at an exalted
-profit. Are there more irritating men or women in the world than the
-over-conservative persons of large means who are perpetually harping on
-saving, and worrying lest they may not be able to put by for a rainy
-day, as they call it, twenty-five per cent. or more of their annual
-income? The capitalist, careworn by solicitude of this sort, is the one
-fool in creation who is not entitled to some morsel of pity.
-
-How much ought the rest of us to save? I know a man--now you do not
-know him, and there is no use in racking your brains to discover who he
-is, which seems to be a principal motive for reading books nowadays,
-as though we writers had a cabinet photograph in our mind’s eye
-whenever we took a pen in hand. I know a man who divides his income
-into parts. “All Gaul is divided into three parts,” you will remember
-we read in the classics. Well, my friend, whom we will call Julius
-Cæsar for convenience and mystification, divides his income, on the
-first of January, into a certain number of parts or portions. He and
-his wife have a very absorbing and earnest pow-wow over it annually.
-They take the matter very seriously, and burn the midnight oil in the
-sober endeavor to map and figure out in advance a wise and unselfish
-exhibit. So much and no more for rent, so much for servants, so much
-for household supplies, so much for clothes, so much for amusements,
-so much for charity, so much to meet unlooked-for contingencies, and
-so much for investment. By the time the exhibit is finished it is
-mathematically and ethically irreproachable, and, what is more, Julius
-Cæsar and his wife live up to it so faithfully that they are sure to
-have some eight or ten dollars to the good on the morning of December
-thirty-first, which they commonly expend in a pair of canvas-back ducks
-and a bottle of champagne, for which they pay cash, in reward for their
-own virtue and to enable them at the stroke of midnight to submit to
-their own consciences a trial balance accurate to a cent.
-
-Now it should be stated that Mr. and Mrs. Julius Cæsar are not very
-busy people in other respects, and that their annual income, which
-is fifteen thousand dollars, and chiefly rent from improved real
-estate in the hands of a trustee, flows on as regularly and surely as
-a river. Wherefore it might perhaps be argued, if one were disposed
-to be sardonic, that this arithmetical system of life under the
-circumstances savors of a fad, and that Julius and his wife take
-themselves and their occupation a trifle too seriously, especially as
-they have both been known to inform, solemnly and augustly, more than
-one acquaintance who was struggling for a living, that it is every
-one’s duty to lay up at least one-tenth of his income and give at least
-another tenth in charity. And yet, when one has ceased to smile at the
-antics of this pair, the consciousness remains that they are right in
-their practice of foresight and arithmetical apportioning, and that
-one who would live wisely should, if possible, decide in advance how
-much he intends to give to the poor or put into the bank. Otherwise he
-is morally, or rather immorally, certain to spend everything, and to
-suffer disagreeable qualms instead of enjoying canvas-back ducks and a
-bottle of champagne on December thirty-first.
-
-As to what that much or little to be given and to be saved shall be,
-there is more room for discussion. Julius Cæsar and his wife have
-declared in favor of a tenth for each, which in their case means
-fifteen hundred dollars given, and fifteen hundred dollars saved,
-which leaves them a net income of twelve thousand dollars to spend,
-and they have no children. I am inclined to think that if every man
-with ten thousand dollars a year and a family were to give away three
-hundred dollars, and prudently invest seven hundred dollars, charity
-would not suffer so long as at present, and would be no less kind.
-Unquestionably those of us who come out on December thirty-first just
-even, or eight or nine dollars behind instead of ahead, and would
-have been able to spend a thousand or two more, are the ones who find
-charity and saving so difficult. Our friends who are said to have too
-much for their own good help to found a hospital or send a deserving
-youth through college without winking. It costs them merely the trouble
-of signing a check. But it behooves those who have only four instead
-of forty times as much as Rogers, if they wish to do their share in
-relieving the needs of others, to do so promptly and systematically
-before the fine edge of the good resolutions formed on the first of
-January is dulled by the pressure of a steadily depleted bank account,
-and a steadily increasing array of bills. Charity, indeed, is more
-difficult for us to practise than saving, for the simplest method of
-saving, life insurance, is enforced by the “stand and deliver” argument
-of an annual premium. Only he, who before the first crocus thrusts its
-gentle head above the winter’s snow has sent his check to the needy,
-and who can conscientiously hang upon his office door “Fully insured;
-life insurance agents need not apply,” is in a position to face with a
-calm mind the fall of the leaf and the December days when conscience,
-quickened by the dying year, inquires what we have done for our
-neighbor, and how the wife and the little ones would fare if we should
-be cut down in the strength of our manhood.
-
-And yet, too, important as saving is, there are so many things which
-we must have for the sake of this same wife and the little ones that
-we cannot afford to save too much. Are we to toil and moil all our
-days, go without fresh butter and never take six weeks in Europe or
-Japan because we wish to make sure that our sons and daughters will
-be amply provided for, as the obituary notices put it? Some men with
-daughters only have a craze of saving so that this one earthly life
-becomes a rasping, worrying ordeal, which is only too apt to find an
-end in the coolness of a premature grave. My friend Perkins--here is
-another chance, identity seekers, to wonder who Perkins really is--the
-father of four girls, is a thin, nervous lawyer, who ought to take a
-proper vacation every summer; but he rarely does, and the reason seems
-to be that he is saddled by the idea that to bring a girl up in luxury
-and leave her with anything less than five thousand dollars a year is
-a piece of paternal brutality. It seems to me that a father ought in
-the first place to remember that some girls marry. I reminded Perkins
-of this one day. “Some don’t,” he answered mournfully. “Marriage does
-not run in the female Perkins line. The chances are that two of my
-four will never marry. They might be able to get along, if they lived
-together and were careful, on seven thousand dollars a year, and I
-must leave them that somehow.” “Hoot toot,” said I, “that seems to me
-nonsense. Don’t let the spectre of decayed gentlewomen hound you into
-dyspepsia or Bright’s disease, but give yourself a chance and trust to
-your girls to look out for themselves. There are so many things for
-women to do now besides marry or pot jam, that a fond father ought to
-let his nervous system recuperate now and then.”
-
-“I suppose you mean that they might become teachers or physicians or
-hospital nurses or typewriters,” said Perkins. “Declined with thanks.”
-
-“Don’t you think,” I inquired with a little irritation, “that they
-would be happier so than in doing nothing on a fixed income, in simply
-being mildly cultivated and philanthropic on dividends, in moving to
-the sea-side in summer and back again in the autumn, and in dying at
-the last of some fashionable ailment?”
-
-“No, I don’t,” said Perkins. “Do you?”
-
-Were I to repeat my answer to this inquiry I should be inviting a
-discussion on woman, which is not in place at this stage of our
-reflections. Let me say, though, that I am still of the opinion that
-Perkins ought to give his nervous system a chance and not worry so much
-about his daughters.
-
-
-
-
-_Income._
-
-II.
-
-
-Seeing that there are so many things to have and that we cannot have
-everything, what are we to choose? I have sometimes, while trudging
-along in the sleighing season, noticed that many men, whose income I
-believe to be much smaller than mine, were able to ride behind fast
-trotters in fur overcoats. The reason upon reflection was obvious to
-me. Men of a certain class regard a diamond pin, a fur overcoat, and
-a fast horse as the first necessaries of existence after a bed, a
-hair-brush and one maid-of-all-work. In other words, they are willing
-to live in an inexpensive locality, with no regard to plumbing,
-society, or art, to have their food dropped upon the table, and to
-let their wives and daughters live with shopping as the one bright
-spot in the month’s horizon, if only they, the husbands and fathers,
-can satisfy the three-headed ruling ambition in question. The men to
-whom I am referring have not the moral or æsthetic tone of Rogers and
-myself, and belong to quite a distinct class of society from either of
-us. But among the friends of both of us there are people who act on
-precisely the same principle. A fine sense of selection ought to govern
-the expenditure of income, and the wise man will refrain from buying
-a steam-yacht for himself or a diamond crescent for his wife before
-he has secured a home with modern conveniences, an efficient staff of
-servants, a carefully chosen family physician, a summer home, or an
-ample margin wherewith to hire one, the best educational advantages
-for his children which the community will afford, and choice social
-surroundings. In order to have these comfortably and completely, and
-still not to be within sailing distance, so to speak, of a steam-yacht,
-one needs to have nowadays--certainly in large cities--an income of
-from seven thousand to eleven thousand dollars, according to where one
-lives.
-
-I make this assertion in the face of the fact that our legislators
-all over the country annually decree that from four to five thousand
-dollars a year is a fat salary in reward for public service, and that
-an official with a family who is given twenty-five hundred or three
-thousand is to be envied. Envied by whom, pray? By the ploughman, the
-horse-car conductor, and the corner grocery man, may be, but not by
-the average business or professional man who is doing well. To be
-sure, five thousand dollars in a country town _is_ affluence, if the
-beneficiary is content to stay there; but in a city the family man
-with only that income, provided he is ambitious, can only just live,
-and might fairly be described as the cousin german to a mendicant.
-And yet there are some worthy citizens still, who doubtless would be
-aghast at these statements, and would wish to know how one is to spend
-five thousand dollars a year without extravagance. We certainly did
-start in this country on a very different basis, and the doctrine of
-plain living was written between the lines of the Constitution. We were
-practically to do our own work, to be content with pie and doughnuts
-as the staple articles of nutrition, to abide in one locality all the
-year round, and to eschew color, ornament, and refined recreation. All
-this as an improvement over the civilization of Europe and a rebuke to
-it. Whatever the ethical value of this theory of existence in moulding
-the national character may have been, it has lost its hold to-day, and
-we as a nation have fallen into line with the once sneered-at older
-civilizations, though we honestly believe that we are giving and going
-to give a peculiar redeeming brand to the adopted, venerable customs
-which will purge them of dross and bale.
-
-Take the servant question, for instance. We are perpetually discussing
-how we are to do away with the social reproach which keeps native
-American women out of domestic service; yet at the same time in
-actual practice the demand for servants grows more and more urgent
-and wide-spread, and they are consigned still more hopelessly, though
-kindly, to the kitchen and servants’ hall in imitation of English
-upper-class life. In the days when our Emerson sought to practise the
-social equality for which he yearned, by requiring his maids to sit at
-his own dinner-table, a domestic establishment was a modest affair of a
-cook and a second girl. Now, the people who are said to have too much
-for their own good, keep butlers, ladies’ maids, governesses, who like
-Mahomet’s coffin hover between the parlor and the kitchen, superfine
-laundresses, pages in buttons, and other housekeeping accessories, and
-domestic life grows bravely more and more complex. To be sure, too,
-I am quite aware that, as society is at present constituted, only a
-comparatively small number out of our millions of free-born American
-citizens have or are able to earn the seven to eleven thousand dollars
-a year requisite for thorough comfort, and that the most interesting
-and serious problem which confronts human society to-day is the
-annihilation or lessening of the terrible existing inequalities in
-estate and welfare.
-
-This problem, absorbing as it is, can scarcely be solved in our time.
-But, whatever the solution, whether by socialism, government control,
-or brotherly love, is it not safe to assume that when every one shares
-alike, society is not going to be satisfied with humble, paltry, or
-ugly conditions as the universal weal? If the new dispensation does
-not provide a style and manner of living at least equal in comfort,
-luxury, and refinement to that which exists among the well-to-do
-to-day, it will be a failure. Humanity will never consent to be shut
-off from the best in order to be exempt from the worst. The millennium
-must supply not merely bread and butter, a house, a pig, a cow, and
-a sewing-machine for every one, but attractive homes, gardens, and
-galleries, literature and music, and all the range of æsthetic social
-adjuncts which tend to promote healthy bodies, delightful manners,
-fine sensibilities, and noble purposes, or it will be no millennium.
-
-Therefore one who would live wisely and has the present means, though
-he may deplore existing misery and seek to relieve it, does not give
-away to others all his substance but spends it chiefly on himself and
-his family until he has satisfied certain needs. By way of a house
-he feels that he requires not merely a frail, unornamental shelter,
-but a carefully constructed, well ventilated, cosily and artistically
-furnished dwelling, where his family will neither be scrimped for space
-nor exposed to discomforts, and where he can entertain his friends
-tastefully if not with elegance. All this costs money and involves
-large and recurrent outlays for heating, lighting, upholstery, sanitary
-appliances, silver, china, and glass. It is not sufficient for him that
-his children should be sure of their own father; he is solicitous,
-besides, that they should grow up as free as possible from physical
-blemishes, and mentally and spiritually sound and attractive. To
-promote this he must needs consult or engage from time to time skilled
-specialists, dentists, oculists, dancing and drawing masters, private
-tutors, and music-teachers. To enable these same sons and daughters
-to make the most of themselves, he must, during their early manhood
-and womanhood, enable them to pursue professional or other studies, to
-travel, and to mingle in cultivated and well-bred society. He must live
-in a choice neighborhood that he may surround himself and his family
-with refining influences, and accordingly he must pay from twelve
-hundred to twenty-five hundred or three thousand dollars a year for
-rent, according to the size and desirability of the premises. Unless he
-would have his wife and daughters merely household factors and drudges,
-he must keep from three to five or six servants, whose wages vary from
-four to six or seven dollars a week, and feed them.
-
-Nor can the athletic, æsthetic, or merely pleasurable needs of a
-growing or adolescent household be ignored. He must meet the steady
-and relentless drain from each of these sources, or be conscious that
-his flesh and blood have not the same advantages and opportunities
-which are enjoyed by their contemporaries. He must own a pew, a library
-share, a fancy dress costume, and a cemetery lot, and he must always
-have loose change on hand for the hotel waiter and the colored railway
-porter. The family man in a large city who meets these several demands
-to his entire satisfaction will have little of ten thousand dollars
-left for the purchase of a trotter, a fur overcoat, and a diamond pin.
-
-The growing consciousness of the value of these complex demands of our
-modern civilization, when intelligently gratified, acts at the present
-day as a cogent incentive to make money, not for the mere sake of
-accumulation, but to spend. Gross accumulation with scant expenditure
-has always been sanctioned here; but to grow rich and yet be lavish has
-only within a comparatively recent period among us seemed reconcilable
-with religious or national principles. Even yet he who many times a
-millionaire still walks unkempt, or merely plain and honest, has not
-entirely lost the halo of hero worship. But, though the old man is
-permitted to do as he prefers, better things are demanded of his sons
-and daughters. Nor can the argument that some of the greatest men in
-our history have been nurtured and brought up in cabins and away from
-refining influences be soundly used against the advisability of making
-the most of income, even though we now and then ask ourselves whether
-modern living is producing statesmen of equally firm mould. But we
-thrill no longer at mention of a log cabin or rail splitting, and the
-very name of hard cider suggests rather unpleasantly the corner grocery
-store and the pie-permeated, hair-cloth suited New England parlor.
-
-Merely because other nations have long been aware that it was wise and
-not immoral to try to live comfortably and beautifully our change of
-faith is no less absorbing to us. We confidently expect to win fresh
-laurels by our originality, intelligence, and unselfishness in this new
-old field. Already have we made such strides that our establishments
-on this side of the water make up in genuine comfort what they lack
-in ancient manorial picturesqueness and ghost-haunted grace. Each one
-of us who is in earnest is asking how he is to make the most of what
-he has or earns, so as to attain that charm of refined living which
-is civilization’s best flower--living which if merely material and
-unanimated by intelligence and noble aims is without charm, but which
-is made vastly more difficult of realization in case we are without
-means or refuse to spend them adequately.
-
-
-
-
-The _Dwelling_.
-
-I.
-
-
-Mr. and Mrs. Julius Cæsar, who, as you may remember, divide their
-income into parts with mathematical precision, were not as well off
-in this world’s goods at the time of their marriage as they are now.
-Neither Mr. Cæsar’s father nor Mrs. Cæsar’s grandmother was then
-dead, and consequently the newly wedded pair, though set up by their
-respective families with a comfortable income, felt that it was
-incumbent upon them to practise strict economy. Then it was that Julius
-conceived what seemed to them both the happy idea of buying a house
-dirt cheap in a neighborhood which was not yet improved, and improving
-the neighborhood, instead of paying an exorbitant price for a residence
-in a street which was already all it should be.
-
-“Why,” said Julius, “shouldn’t we buy one of those new houses in Sunset
-Terrace? They look very attractive, and if we can only induce two
-or three congenial couples to join forces with us we shall have the
-nucleus of a delightful colony.”
-
-“Besides, everything will be nice and new,” said Mrs. Julius, or Dolly
-Cæsar, as her friends know her. “No cockroaches, no mice, no moths, no
-family skeletons to torment us. Julius, you are a genius. We can just
-as well set the fashion as follow meekly in fashion’s wake.”
-
-So said, so done. Julius Cæsar bent his intellect upon the matter and
-soon found three congenial couples who were willing to join forces with
-him. Before another twelve months had passed, four baby-wagons--one of
-them double-seated--were to be seen on four sunny grass-plots in front
-of four attractive, artistic-looking villas on Sunset Terrace. Where
-lately sterility, mortar, and weeds had held carnival, there was now an
-air of tasteful gentility. Thanks to the example of Dolly Cæsar, who
-had an eye and an instinct for such matters, the four brass door-plates
-shone like the sun, the paint was spick and span, the four gravel
-paths were in apple-pie order, the four grass-plots were emerald from
-timely use of a revolving lawn sprinkler, and the four nurse-maids, who
-watched like dragons over the four baby-wagons, were neat-looking and
-comely. No wonder that by the end of the second year there was not a
-vacant house in the street, and that everybody who wished to live in
-a fashionable locality was eager for a chance to enter Sunset Terrace.
-No wonder, too, that Mr. and Mrs. Julius Cæsar were able, by the end
-of the fourth year, to emerge from Sunset Terrace with a profit on the
-sale of their villa which made it rent free for the entire period, and
-left them with a neat little surplus to boot, and to settle down with
-calm minds on really fashionable Belport Avenue, in the stately mansion
-devised to them by Mrs. Cæsar’s grandmother.
-
-Now, it must be borne in mind that a Mr. and Mrs. Julius Cæsar
-can sometimes do that which a Mr. and Mrs. George J. Spriggs find
-difficulty in accomplishing. Spriggs, at the time of his marriage to
-Miss Florence Green, the daughter of ex-Assistant Postmaster-General
-Homer W. Green, conceived the happy idea of setting up his household
-gods in Locust Road, which lies about as far from Belport Avenue in
-one direction as Sunset Terrace in the other. Both are semi-suburban.
-It also occurred to him at the outset to join forces with three or
-four congenial couples, but at the last moment the engagement of one
-of the couples in question was broken, and the other three decided to
-live somewhere else. To have changed his mind then would have involved
-the sacrifice of one hundred dollars paid to bind the bargain to the
-landowner. So it seemed best to them on the whole to move in, as they
-had to live somewhere.
-
-“It’s just a little bit dreary, isn’t it?” said Florence Spriggs,
-pathetically, as she looked out of her bow window at the newly finished
-street which was not finished, and at the grass-plot where there was no
-grass. “But I sha’n’t be a bit lonely with you, George.”
-
-“I wonder if the color of this house has been changed,” said Spriggs,
-presently, as he glanced up at the façade and from that to the other
-houses in the block, each of which was vacant. He and Florence had gone
-out after dinner to take a stroll and survey the neighborhood which
-they hoped to improve.
-
-“Of course it hasn’t! How could it be?” said Florence.
-
-“Somehow it looks a more staring shade of yellow than it did the first
-time we saw it. And I don’t fancy altogether the filigree work on the
-door, or that Egyptian renaissance scroll set into the eastern wall, do
-you, dearest? However, we’re in now and can’t get out, for the title
-has passed. I wonder who will buy the other houses?”
-
-They were soon to know. They were alone all winter, but in the
-early spring a family moved in on either side of them. The houses
-in Locust Road, like those in Sunset Terrace, were of the villa
-order, with grass-plots, which were almost lawns, appurtenant. Though
-less pleasing than those which had taken the more discerning eye of
-Mrs. Julius Cæsar, they were nevertheless comparatively inoffensive
-and sufficiently tasteful. Neighbor number one proved to be of an
-enterprising and imaginative turn. He changed the color of his villa
-from staring yellow to startling crushed strawberry, supplemented his
-Egyptian renaissance scroll and filigree with inlaid jewel and frost
-work, stationed a cast-iron stag in one corner of the grass-plot and a
-cast-iron Diana with a bow in another, and then rested on his laurels.
-Neighbor number two was shiftless and untidy. His grass-plot did not
-thrive, and the autumn leaves choked his gravel path. His windows were
-never washed, his blinds hung askew, and his one maid-of-all-work
-preferred the lawn to the laundry as a drying-room. His wife sunned
-herself in a wrapper, and he himself in his shirt sleeves. A big
-mongrel dog drooled perpetually on the piazza or tracked it with his
-muddy feet, and even the baby-wagon wore the appearance of dilapidation
-and halted because of a broken spring.
-
-The Spriggses tried to be lenient and even genial with both these
-neighbors, but somehow the attempt was not successful. Neighbor number
-one became huffy because Spriggs took no notice of his advice that
-he embellish his grass-plot with a stone mastiff or an umbrella and
-cherub fountain, and neighbor number two took offence because Spriggs
-complained that the ventilator on his chimney kept Mrs. Spriggs awake
-by squeaking. Mrs. Spriggs did her best to set them both a good example
-by having everything as tasteful on the one hand and as tidy on the
-other as it should be. In the hope of improving them she even dropped
-suggestive hints as to how people ought to live, but the hints were not
-taken. What was worse none of the other houses were taken. As Spriggs
-pathetically expressed it, the iron stag on the one side and the weekly
-wash on the other kept purchasers at bay. He tried to buoy himself up
-by believing that a glut in the real estate market was the cause why
-the remaining villas in Locust Road hung fire, but this consolation was
-taken away from him the following spring when an active buying movement
-all along the line still left them without other neighbors. The
-unoccupied villas had begun to wear an air of dilapidation, in spite
-of their Egyptian renaissance scrolls and the presence of a cast-iron
-Diana.
-
-To crown the situation the baby of neighbor number two caught
-diphtheria from being left in its halting wagon by the maid-of-all-work
-too near the cesspool on the lawn, and was kissed by the Spriggs baby
-before the fact was discovered. If there is one thing more irritating
-to the maternal mind than another, it is to have dear baby catch
-something from the child of people whom you reprobate. One feels that
-the original horrors of the disease are sure to be enhanced through
-such a medium. When the only child of the Julius Cæsars died of the
-same disease, contracted from a germ inhaled on Belport Avenue, the
-parents felt that only destiny was to blame. On the other hand, though
-the Spriggs baby recovered, Mrs. Spriggs never quite forgave herself
-for what had happened. Before the next autumn Spriggs parted with
-his estate on Locust Road for so much less than he had paid for it
-that he felt obliged to accept the hospitality of his wife’s father,
-ex-Assistant Postmaster-General Green, during the succeeding winter.
-
-The moral of this double-jointed tale is twofold; firstly that the
-young householder cannot always count upon improving the neighborhood
-in which he sets up his goods and chattels after marriage, and
-secondly, that, in case the neighborhood fails to improve, a tenancy
-for a year or two is a less serious burden than absolute ownership.
-It is extremely pleasant, to be sure, to be able to declare that one
-has paid for one’s house, and I am aware that the consciousness of
-unencumbered ownership in the roof over one’s head affords one of
-the most affecting and effective opportunities for oratory which the
-free-born citizen can desire. The hand of many a husband and father
-has been stayed from the wine-cup or the gaming-table by the pathetic
-thought that he owned his house. As a rule, too, it is cheaper to pay
-the interest on a mortgage than to pay rent, and if one is perfectly
-sure of being able to improve the neighborhood, or at least save it
-from degeneration, it certainly seems desirable to be the landlord of
-one’s house, even though it be mortgaged so cleverly that the equity
-of redemption is merely a name. But in this age of semi-suburban
-development, when Roads and Terraces and Parks and Gates and other
-Anglo-European substitutes for streets serve as “springes to catch
-woodcocks,” a young couple on real estate ownership bent should have
-the discerning eye of a Mrs. Julius Cæsar in order not to fall a prey
-to the specious land and lot speculator. If you happen to hit on a
-Sunset Terrace, everything is rose color, but to find one’s self an
-owner in fee on a Locust Road, next door to crushed strawberry and a
-cast-iron stag, will palsy the hopes of the hopeful.
-
-What attractive, roomy, tasteful affairs many of these semi-suburban
-villas, which are built nowadays on the new Roads, Terraces, Parks,
-Gates, and even Streets, are to be sure. There are plenty of homely
-ones too, but it is a simple matter to avoid the Egyptian renaissance
-scroll, and the inlaid jewel work and stained-glass bull’s eyes if
-one only will. They seem to be affording to many a happy solution of
-the ever new and ever old problem, which presents itself to every man
-who is about to take a wife, whether it is preferable to live in the
-city or the country. These new suburbs, or rather outlying wards of
-our large cities, which have been carved out of what, not many years
-ago, was real country where cows browsed and woods flourished, must be
-very alluring to people who would fain live out of town and still be in
-it. When, by stepping on an electric car or taking the train, you can,
-within a quarter of an hour, be on your own piazza inhaling fresh air
-and privileged to feast your eyes on a half acre or less of greensward
-belonging to yourself, there would seem to be strong inducements for
-refusing to settle down in a stuffy, smoky, dusty, wire-pestered city
-street, however fashionable. Rapid transit has made or is making the
-environs of our cities so accessible that the time-honored problem
-presents itself under different conditions than formerly. There is no
-such thing now as the real country for anybody who is not prepared
-to spend an hour in the train. Even then one is liable to encounter
-asphalt walks and a Soldier’s monument in the course of a sylvan
-stroll. But the intervening territory is ample and alluring.
-
-For one-half the rent demanded for a town house of meagre dimensions in
-the middle of a block, with no outlook whatever, new, spacious, airy,
-ornamental homes with a plot of land and a pleasing view attached,
-are to be had for the seeking within easy living distance from nearly
-every large city. When I begin to rhapsodize, as I sometimes do, I am
-apt to ask myself why it is that anybody continues to live in town. It
-was only the other day that I happened, while driving with my wife in
-the suburbs, to call her attention, enthusiastically, to the new house
-which Perkins has secured for himself. You may remember that Perkins is
-the thin, nervous lawyer with four daughters, who is solicitous as to
-what will become of them when he is dead. We drove by just as he came
-up the avenue from the station, which is only a three minutes’ walk
-from the house. He looked tired--he always does--but there was already
-a fresh jauntiness in his tread as though he sniffed ozone. He looked
-up at the new house complacently, as well he might, for it is large
-enough even for four daughters, and has all the engaging impressiveness
-of a not too quaintly proportioned and not too abnormally stained
-modern villa, a highly evolved composite of an old colonial mansion, a
-Queen Anne cottage, and a French château. Before he reached the front
-door, two of his daughters ran out to embrace him and relieve him of
-his bag and bundles, and a half-hour later, as we drove back, he was
-playing lawn tennis with three of his girls, in a white blazer with
-pink stripes and knickerbockers, which gave his thin and eminently
-respectable figure a rather rakish air.
-
-“Barbara,” I said to my wife, “why isn’t Perkins doing the sensible
-thing? That’s a charming house, double the size he could get for the
-same money in town--and the rent is eight hundred or a thousand dollars
-instead of fifteen hundred or two thousand. He needs fewer servants
-out here, for the parlor-maid isn’t kept on tenterhooks to answer the
-door-bell, and there is fresh air to come back to at night, and the
-means for outdoor exercise on his own or his neighbor’s lawn, which
-for a nervous, thin-chested, sedentary man like Perkins is better than
-cod-liver oil. Think what robust specimens those daughters should be
-with such opportunities for tennis, golf, skating, and bicycling.
-
-“On Sundays and holidays, if the spirit moves him and his wife and the
-girls to start off on an exploring expedition, they are not obliged to
-take a train or pound over dusty pavements before they begin; the wild
-flowers and autumn foliage and chestnut-burs are all to be had in the
-woods and glens within a mile or two of their own home. Or if he needs
-to be undisturbed, no noise, no interruption, but nine hours’ sleep
-and an atmosphere suited to rest and contemplation on his piazza or
-by his cheerful, tasteful fireside. Why isn’t this preferable to the
-artificial, restless life of the city?”
-
-“And yet,” said Barbara, “I have heard you state that only a rich man
-can afford to live in the country.”
-
-Women certainly delight to store up remarks made in quite another
-connection, and use them as random arguments against us.
-
-“My dear Barbara,” said I, “this is not the country. Of course in the
-real country, one needs so many things to be comfortable nowadays--a
-large house, stables, horses, and what not--it has always seemed to me
-that a poor man with social or cultivated instincts had better stay in
-town. But have not Perkins and these other semi-suburbanites hit the
-happy medium? They have railroads or electric cars at their doors, and
-yet they can get real barn-yard smells.”
-
-“I doubt if they can,” said Barbara. “That is, unless they start a
-barn-yard for the purpose, and that would bring the health authorities
-down upon them at once. If this _were_ the country, I could entirely
-thrill at the description you have just given of your friend Mr.
-Perkins. The real country is divine; but this is oleomargarine country.
-On the other hand, however, I quite agree with you that if Mr. Perkins
-is delicate, this is a far healthier place for him than the city, in
-spite of the journey in the train twice a day. The houses--his house
-in particular--are lovely, and I dare say we all ought to do the same.
-He can certainly come in contact with nature--such nature as there is
-left within walking distance--easier than city people. But to console
-me for not having one of these new, roomy villas, and to prevent you
-from doing anything rash, I may as well state a few objections to your
-paradise. As to expense, of course there is a saving in rent, and it
-is true that the parlor-maid does not have to answer the door-bell
-so often, and accordingly can do other things instead. Consequently,
-too, Mrs. Perkins and the four girls may get into the habit of going
-about untidy and in their old clothes. A dowdy girl with rosy cheeks
-and a fine constitution is a pitiable object in this age of feminine
-progress. Mr. Perkins will have to look out for this, and he may
-require cod-liver oil after all.
-
-“Then there is the question of schools. In many of these semi-suburban
-paradises there are no desirable schools, especially for girls, which
-necessitates perpetual coming and going on trains and cars, and will
-make education a wearisome thing, especially for Mrs. Perkins. She
-will find, too, that her servants are not so partial to wild flowers
-and chestnut-burs and fresh air as her husband and daughters. Only the
-inexperienced will apply, and they will come to her reluctantly, and as
-soon as she has accustomed them to her ways and made them skilful, they
-will tell her they are not happy, and need the society of their friends
-in town.
-
-“Those are a few of the drawbacks to the semi-suburban villa; but
-the crucial and most serious objection is, that unless one is very
-watchful, and often in spite of watchfulness, the semi-suburbanite
-shuts himself off from the best social interests and advantages. He
-begins by imagining that there will be no difference; that he will
-see just as much of his friends and go just as frequently to balls
-and dinner-parties, the concert and the theatre, the educational or
-philanthropic meeting. But just that requisite and impending twenty
-minutes in the train or electric car at the fag end of the day is
-liable to make a hermit of him to all intents and purposes by the
-end of the second year. Of course, if one is rich and has one’s own
-carriage, the process of growing rusty is more gradual, though none
-the less sure. On that very account most people with a large income
-come to town for a few months in winter at any rate. There are so
-many things in life to do, that even friends with the best and most
-loving intentions call once on those who retire to suburban villas
-and let that do for all time. To be sure, some people revel in being
-hermits and think social entertainments and excitements a mere waste
-of time and energy. I am merely suggesting that for those who wish to
-keep in close touch with the active human interests of the day, the
-semi-suburban villa is somewhat of a snare. The Perkinses will have to
-exercise eternal vigilance, or they will find themselves seven evenings
-out of seven nodding by their fireside after an ample meal, with all
-their social instincts relaxed.”
-
-Undeniably Barbara offered the best solution of this question in her
-remark, that those who can afford it spend the spring and autumn in
-the country and come to town for the winter months. Certainly, if I
-were one of the persons who are said to have too much for their own
-good, I should do something of the kind. I might not buy a suburban
-villa; indeed, I would rather go to the real country, where there are
-lowing kine, and rich cream and genuine barn-yard smells, instead of
-electric cars and soldiers’ monuments. There would I remain until it
-was time to kill the Thanksgiving turkey, and then I would hie me to
-town in order to refresh my mental faculties with city sights and
-sounds during the winter-spring solstice, when the lowing kine are
-all in the barn, and even one who owns a suburban villa has to fight
-his way from his front door through snow-drifts, and listen to the
-whistling wind instead of the robin red-breast or tinkling brook.
-
-Patterson, the banker, is surely to be envied in his enjoyment of two
-establishments, notwithstanding that the double ownership suggests
-again the effete civilizations of Europe, and was once considered
-undemocratic. Patterson, though his son has been through the Keeley
-cure, and his daughter lives apart from her husband, has a charming
-place thirty-five miles from town, where he has many acres and many
-horses, cows, and sheep, an expanse of woods, a running stream,
-delicious vegetables and fruit; golf links, and a fine country house
-with all the modern improvements, including a cosy, spacious library.
-Then he has another house--almost a palace--in town which he opens in
-the late autumn and occupies until the middle of May, for Patterson, in
-spite of some foibles, is no tax dodger.
-
-Yes, to have two houses and live half of the year in town and the
-other half in the country, with six to eight weeks at the sea-side
-or mountains, so as to give the children salt air and bathing,
-or a thorough change, is what most of us would choose in case we
-were blessed with too much for our own good. But, unfortunately or
-fortunately, most of us with even comfortable incomes cannot have
-two houses, and consequently must choose between town and country or
-semi-country, especially as the six or eight weeks at the sea-side or
-mountains is apt to seem imperative when midsummer comes. According,
-therefore, as we select to live in one or the other, it behooves us to
-practise eternal vigilance, so that we may not lose our love of nature
-and wreck our nerves in the worldly bustle of city life, or become
-inert, rusty, and narrow among the lowing kine or in semi-suburban
-seclusion. In order to live wisely, we who dwell in the cities
-should in our spare hours seek fresh air, sunlight, and intercourse
-with nature, and we whose homes are out of town should in our turn
-rehabilitate our social instincts and rub up our manners.
-
-Regarding the real country, there is one other consideration of which I
-am constantly reminded by a little water-color hanging in my library,
-painted by me a few years ago while I was staying with my friend
-Henley. It represents a modest but pretty house and a charming rustic
-landscape. I call it Henley’s Folly. Henley, who possessed ardent
-social instincts, had always lived in town; but he suddenly took it
-into his head to move thirty miles into the country. He told me that he
-did so primarily for the benefit of his wife and children, but added
-that it would be the best thing in the world for him, that it would
-domesticate him still more completely, and give him time to read and
-cultivate himself. When I went to stay with him six months later, he
-was jubilant regarding the delights of the country, and declared that
-he had become a genuine farmer. He pished at the suggestion that the
-daily journey to and from town was exhausting, and informed me that his
-one idea was to get away from the bricks and mortar as early in the
-afternoon as possible. Just two years later I heard with surprise, one
-day, that the Henleys had sold their farm and were coming back to town.
-The reason--confided to me by one of the family--was that his wife
-was so much alone that she could not endure the solitude any longer.
-“You see,” said my informant, “the nearest house of their friends
-was four miles off, and as Henley stayed in town until the last gun
-fired, the days he returned home at all, and as he had or invented a
-reason for staying in town all night at least once a week, poor Mrs.
-Henley realized that the lot of a farmer’s wife was not all roses and
-sunshine.” From this I opine that if one with ardent social instincts
-would live wisely he should not become a gentleman farmer merely for
-the sake of his wife and children.
-
-
-
-
-The _Dwelling_.
-
-II.
-
-
-Whether we live in the city or the country, it must be apparent to
-all of us that a great wave of architectural activity in respect to
-dwelling-houses has been spreading over our land during the past twenty
-years. The American architect has been getting in his work and showing
-what he could do, with the result that the long, monotonous row of
-brick or freestone custom-made city houses, and the stereotyped white
-country farm-house with green blinds and an ell or lean-to attached,
-have given place to a vivid and heterogeneous display of individual
-effort. Much of this is fine and some deadly, for the display includes
-not merely the generally tasteful and artistic conceptions of our
-trained native architects, who have studied in Paris, but the raw
-notions of all the builders of custom-made houses who, recognizing
-the public desire for striking and original effects, are bent upon
-surpassing one another.
-
-Therefore, while we have many examples, both urban and suburban, of
-beautiful and impressive house architecture, the new sections of our
-cities and suburbs fairly bristle with a multiplicity of individual
-experiments in which the salient features of every known type of
-architecture are blended fearlessly together. The native architect
-who has neither been to Paris nor been able to devote much time to
-study has not been limited in the expression of his genius by artistic
-codes or conventions. Consequently he has felt no hesitation in using
-extinguisher towers, mediæval walls, battlement effects, Queen Anne
-cottage lines, Old Colonial proportions, and Eastern imagery in the
-same design, and any one of them at any critical juncture when his work
-has seemed to him not sufficiently striking for his own or the owner’s
-taste.
-
-Satisfactory as all this is as evidence of a progressive spirit, and
-admitting that many of even these lawless manifestations of talent are
-not without merit, it is nevertheless aggressively true that the smug
-complacency of the proprietor of the suburban villa, which is hedged
-about by a stone rampart of variegated rough stone on an ordinary
-building lot, has no justification whatever. Nor has the master of
-the castellated, gloomy, half-Moorish, half-mediæval mansion, which
-disfigures the fashionable quarter of many of our cities, occasion to
-congratulate himself on having paid for a thing of beauty. The number
-of our well-trained architects, though constantly increasing, is still
-small, especially as compared with the number of people of means who
-are eager to occupy a thing of beauty; then, too, even the trained
-architect is apt to try experiments for the sake of testing his genius,
-on a dog, so to speak--some confiding plutocrat with a love of splendor
-who has left everything to him.
-
-The result is that grotesque and eye-distressing monsters of masonry
-stand side by side on many of our chief avenues with the most graceful
-and finished specimens of native architectural inspiration. As there is
-no law which prevents one from building or buying an ugly house, and
-as the architect, whose experiment on a dog tortures the public eye,
-suffers no penalty for his crime, our national house architecture may
-be said to be working out its own salvation at the public expense. It
-is the duty of a patriotic citizen to believe that in this, as in other
-matters of national welfare, the beautiful gradually will prevail; and
-assuredly the many very attractive private residences which one sees
-both in the city and the country should tend to make us hopeful.
-
-Why is it that the rich man who would live wisely feels the necessity
-for so large a house in the city? Almost the first thing that one who
-has accumulated or inherited great possessions does nowadays is to
-leave the house where very likely he has been comfortable and move
-into a mammoth establishment suggesting rather a palace or an emporium
-than a house. Why is this? Some one answers that it is for the sake
-of abundant light and extra space. Surely in a handsome house of
-twenty-five or thirty feet front there should be light and space enough
-for the average family, however fastidious or exacting. In the country,
-where one needs many spare rooms for the accommodation of guests, there
-are some advantages in the possession of an abnormally large house. But
-how is the comfort of the city man enhanced by one, that is, if the
-attendant discomforts are weighed in the same scale? It has sometimes
-seemed to me that the wealthy or successful man invests in a prodigious
-mansion as a sort of testimonial; as though he felt it incumbent on
-him to erect a conventional monument to his own grandeur or success,
-in order to let the public entertain no doubt about it. But so many
-otherwise sensible men have deliberately built huge city houses that
-this can scarcely be the controlling motive in all cases. Perhaps, if
-asked, they would throw the responsibility on their wives. But it is
-even more difficult to understand why a sensible woman should wish one
-of the vast houses which our rising architects are naturally eager to
-receive orders to construct. A handsome house where she can entertain
-attractively, yes: an exquisitely furnished, sunny, corner house by all
-means; a house where each child may have a room apart and where there
-are plenty of spare rooms, if you like; but why a mammoth cave? She is
-the person who will suffer the discomforts to be weighed in the same
-scale, for the care will fall on her.
-
-We have in this country neither trained servants nor the housekeeper
-system. The wife and mother who is the mistress of a huge establishment
-wishes it to be no less a home than her former residence, and her
-husband would be the first to demur were she to cast upon others the
-burdens of immediate supervision. A moderate-sized modern house is the
-cause of care enough, as we all know, and wherefore should any woman
-seek to multiply her domestic worries by duplicating or trebling the
-number of her servants? To become the manager of a hotel or to cater
-for an ocean steamship is perhaps a tempting ambition for one in search
-of fortune, but why should a woman, who can choose what she will have,
-elect to be the slave of a modern palace with extinguisher towers?
-Merely to be able to invite all her social acquaintance to her house
-once a year without crowding them? It would be simpler to hire one of
-the many halls now adapted for the purpose.
-
-The difficulty of obtaining efficient servants, and the worries
-consequent upon their inefficiency, is probably the chief cause of
-the rapid growth of the apartment-house among us. The contemporary
-architect has selected this class of building for some of his deadliest
-conceits. Great piles of fantastically disposed stone and iron tower
-up stories upon stories high, and frown upon us at the street-corners
-like so many Brobdingnagians. Most of them are very ugly; nevertheless
-they contain the homes of many citizens, and the continuous appearance
-of new and larger specimens attests their increasing popularity.
-Twenty years ago there was scarcely an apartment-house to be seen in
-our cities. There was a certain number of hotels where families could
-and did live all the year round, but the ten-story monster, with a
-janitor, an elevator, steam heat, electric light, and all the alleged
-comforts of home, was practically unknown. We have always professed to
-be such a home-loving people, and the so-called domestic hearth has
-always been such a touchstone of sentiment among us that the exchange
-of the family roof for the community of a flat by so many well-to-do
-persons certainly seems to suggest either that living cheek by jowl
-with a number of other households is not so distasteful as it seems to
-the uninitiated, or else that modern housekeeping is so irksome that
-women are tempted to swallow sentiment and escape from their trammels
-to the comparatively easy conditions of an apartment. It does seem
-as though one’s identity would be sacrificed or dimmed by becoming a
-tenant in common, and as though the family circle could never be quite
-the same thing to one who was conscious that his was only a part of one
-tremendous whole. And yet, more and more people seem to be anxious to
-share a janitor and front door, and, though the more fastidious insist
-on their own cuisine, there are not a few content to entrust even
-their gastronomic welfare to a kitchen in common.
-
-It must be admitted, even by those of us who rejoice in our homes,
-that there is much to be said in favor of the apartment-house as a
-solver of practical difficulties, and that our imaginations are largely
-responsible for our antipathy. When once inside a private apartment
-of the most desirable and highly evolved kind one cannot but admit
-that there is no real lack of privacy, and that the assertion that the
-owner has no domestic hearth is in the main incorrect. To be sure the
-domain belonging to each suite is comparatively circumscribed; there is
-no opportunity for roaming from garret to cellar; no private laundry;
-no private backyard; and no private front-door steps; but to all
-practical intents one is no less free from intrusion or inspection than
-in a private house, and it may also be said that reporters and other
-persevering visitors are kept at a more respectful distance by virtue
-of the janitor in common on the ground floor. The sentiment in favor of
-limited individual possession is difficult to eradicate from sensitive
-souls, and rightly, perhaps, many of us refuse to be convinced;
-but it remains true that the woman who has become the mistress of
-a commodious and well-managed apartment must have many agreeable
-quarters of an hour in congratulating herself that perplexities
-concerning chores, heating, lighting, flights of stairs, leaks, and a
-host of minor domestic matters no longer threaten her peace of mind,
-and--greatest boon of all--that she now can manage with two or three
-servants instead of five or six.
-
-In this newly developed fondness for flats we are again guilty of
-imitating one of the effete civilizations--France this time--where
-it has long been the custom for families to content themselves with
-a story or two instead of a house; though we can claim the size and
-style of architecture of the modern apartment pile as our special
-brand upon the adopted institution. The introduction of the custom
-here seems to me to be the result of exhaustion of the female nervous
-system. The American housewife, weary of the struggle to obtain
-efficient servants, having oscillated from all Catholics to all
-Protestants, from all Irish to all Swedes and back again, having
-experimented with negroes and Chinamen, and returned to pure white,
-having tried native help and been insulted, and reverted to the
-Celtic race, she--the long-suffering--has sought the apartment-house
-as a haven of rest. She--the long-suffering--has assuredly been in a
-false position since the Declaration of Independence declared that
-all men are created equal, for she has been forced to cherish and
-preserve a domestic institution which popular sentiment has refused to
-recognize as consistent with the principles of Democracy. Our National
-creed, whether presented in the primer or from the platform, has ever
-repudiated the idea of service when accompanied by an abatement of
-personal independence or confession of social inferiority. Therefore
-the native American woman has persistently refused, in the face of high
-wages and of exquisite moral suasion, to enter domestic service, and
-has preferred the shop or factory to a comfortable home where she would
-have to crook the knee and say “Yes, ma’am.”
-
-At the same time the native American woman, ever since “help” in the
-sense of social acquaintances willing to accommodate for hire and
-dine with the family has ceased to adorn her kitchen and parlor, has
-been steadily forced by the demands of complex modern living to have
-servants of her own. And where was she to obtain them? Excepting the
-negro, only among the emigrants of foreign countries, at first among
-the Irish, and presently among the English and Swedes, all of whom,
-unharassed by scruples as to a consequent loss of self-respect, have
-been prompt to recognize that this field of employment lay open to
-them and was undisputed. They have come, and they still come in herds
-to our shores, raw and undisciplined, the overflow from their own
-countries; and as fast as they arrive they are feverishly snapped up
-by the American housewife, who finds the need of servants more and
-more imperative; for some one must do the elaborate cooking, some one
-must do the fine washing, some one must polish the silver, rub the
-brasses, care for the lamps, and dust the bric-à-brac in her handsomest
-establishment. And no one but the emigrant, or the son and daughter of
-the emigrant, is willing to.
-
-The consequence is that, though the native American woman is as
-resolute as ever in her own refusal to be a cook or waitress in a
-private family, domestic service exists as an institution no less
-completely than it exists in Europe, and practically under the same
-conditions, save that servants here receive considerably higher wages
-than abroad because the demand is greater than the supply. There is
-a perpetual wail in all our cities and suburbs that the supply of
-competent cooks, and skilled laundresses and maids is so limited, and
-well-trained servants can demand practically their own prices. The
-conditions of service, however, are the same. That is, the servant
-in the household of the free-born is still the servant; and still
-the servant in the household where the mistress, who has prospered,
-would originally have gone into service had she not been free-born.
-For there is no one more prompt than the American housewife to keep a
-servant when she can afford one, and the more she is obliged to keep
-the prouder is she, though her nervous system may give way under the
-strain. By this I do not mean that the servants here are ill-treated.
-On the contrary, the consideration shown them is greater, and the
-quarters provided for them are far more comfortable on this side of the
-water than abroad. Indeed, servants fare nowhere in the world so well
-as in the establishments of the well-to-do people of our large cities.
-Their bedrooms are suitable and often tasteful, they are attended by
-the family physician if ill, they are not overworked, and very slight
-checks are put on their liberty. But they are undeniably servants. The
-free-born American mistress does not regard her servants as social
-equals. She expects them to stand up if they are sitting down when she
-enters the room. She expects them to address her sons and daughters as
-Mr. Samuel and Miss Fanny, and to be called in turn Maggie or Albertine
-(or Thompson or Jones, _à l’anglaise_) without a prefix. She does her
-best, in short, to preserve all the forms and all the deference on
-the one hand, and the haughtiness or condescension on the other which
-govern the relations between servant and mistress abroad.
-
-From the fact that we need so many more servants than formerly, to care
-properly for our establishments, the servant here is becoming more
-and more of a machine. That is, she is in nearly the same category
-with the electric light and the furnace. We expect him or her to be
-as unobtrusive as possible, to perform work without a hitch, and not
-to draw upon our sympathies unnecessarily. The mistress of one or
-two girls is sure to grow friendly and concerned as to their outside
-welfare, but when she has a staff of five or six, she is thankful if
-she is not obliged to know anything about them. The letter which
-appeared in a New York newspaper some years ago, from an American girl,
-in which she declared that she had left service because her master and
-his sons handed her their dripping umbrellas with the same air as they
-would have handed them to a graven image, was thoroughly in point. The
-reason the native American girl will not become a servant, in spite of
-the arguments of the rational and godly, is that service is the sole
-employment in this country in which she can be told with impunity that
-she is the social inferior of any one else. It is the telling which she
-cannot put up with. It is one thing to be conscious that the person you
-are constantly associated with is better educated, better mannered, and
-more attractive than yourself, and it is another to be told at every
-opportunity that this is so. In the shop, in the factory, and in other
-walks of life, whatever her real superiors may think of her, they must
-treat her as a social equal. Even that shrill-voiced, banged, bangled,
-impertinent, slangy, vulgar product of our mammoth retail drygoods
-system, who seems to believe herself a pattern of ladylike behavior, is
-aware in her heart that she does not know how to behave, and yearns to
-resemble the well-bred woman whom she daily insults. But the happiness
-of her life, and its main-spring, too, lies in the consciousness
-that she is free to become the first lady in the land, and that she
-herself is to be her sole critic and detractor. Why is she not right
-in refusing to sacrifice her independence? Why should she sell her
-birthright for a mess of pottage?
-
-An anomalous condition of affairs is presented by this contrast
-between the free-born American woman as a mistress and as a revolter
-against domestic service, and it seems to me that one of two things
-must come to pass. Necessarily we shall continue to have cooks,
-waiting-maids, and laundresses; at least our food must be prepared,
-our drawing-rooms dusted, and our linen ironed by some one. But either
-we shall have to accept and acknowledge the existence among us of a
-class, recruited from foreign emigrants and their descendants, which
-is tarred with the brush of social proscription in direct violation of
-democratic principles, or we must change the conditions of domestic
-service--change them so that condescension and servility vanish, and
-the contract of service becomes like the other contracts of employment
-between man and man, and man and woman.
-
-It is fruitless now to inquire what the free-born American woman
-would have done without the foreign emigrant to cook and wash for
-her. The question is whether, now that she has her, she is going to
-keep her, and keep her in the same comfortable and well-paid but
-palpable thraldom as at present. If so, she will be merely imitating
-the housewives of the effete civilizations; she will be doing simply
-what every English, French, and German woman does and has done ever
-since class distinctions began. But in that case, surely, we shall be
-no longer able to proclaim our immunity from caste, and our Fourth of
-July orators will find some difficulty in showing that other nations
-are more effete in this respect than ourselves. Twenty-five years more
-of development in our houses, hotels, and restaurants, if conducted
-on present lines, will produce an enormous ducking and scraping,
-fee-seeking, livery-wearing servant class, which will go far to
-establish the claim put forth by some of our critics, that equality
-on this side of the water means only political equality, and that our
-class distinctions, though not so obvious, are no less genuine than
-elsewhere. In this event the only logical note of explanation to send
-to the Powers will be that social equality was never contemplated by
-the signers of the Declaration of Independence, and that, though it is
-true that any man may become President of the United States, there are
-as great inequalities in morals, intellect, and manners among sons of
-liberty as among the subjects of the Czar. To this the Powers will be
-justified in uttering a disappointed and slightly ironical “Oh!” But
-perhaps the foreign emigrant will have something to say on the subject.
-Perhaps the horde from across the seas, now lured by high wages, will
-decrease in numbers, or it may be that their descendants here will
-learn through contact with the free-born revolter against domestic
-service to revolt too.
-
-What would the free-born American mistress do then? With the free-born
-revolter still obdurate, and the foreign emigrant ceasing to emigrate
-or recalcitrant, she would be in an unpleasant fix in her elaborate
-establishment conducted on effete principles. In this practical
-dilemma, rather than in an awakened moral sense, seems to lie our
-best hope of regeneration, for it cannot be denied that the free-born
-American mistress is doing all she can at present to perpetuate the
-foreign idea of domestic service, and it seems probable that so long
-as the foreign emigrant is willing to be bribed the true principles
-of democracy will be violated. Already the difficulty of obtaining
-servants is inducing home-loving families to seek the apartment-house.
-A more distinct dearth would speedily change the relations between
-mistress and servant into that of contractor and contractee, as in
-other employments in this country. It may be that the descendants of
-the emigrant will be unable to resist the lure offered them, and that
-the free-born mistress will triumph. If so, we shall become no better
-and possibly no worse than the effete civilizations we promised to make
-blush by the worth of our institutions.
-
-
-
-
-_House-Furnishing_ and the _Commissariat_.
-
-I.
-
-
-After a man and his wife have made up their minds whether to live in
-a town house or suburban villa, they are obliged to consider next
-what they will have in the way of furniture, and presently what they
-will have for dinner. The consciousness that a house has nothing in
-it but the barest fixtures--the gasometer, the water-tanks, and the
-electric wires--and that it is for you and your wife to decide exactly
-what shall go into it in the way of wall-papers, carpets, upholstery,
-and objects of virtu, is inspiring, even though your purse be not
-plethoric and your knowledge of æsthetics limited. The thought at once
-presents itself that here is the chance of your lifetime to demonstrate
-how beautiful and cosy a home may be, and you set eagerly to work to
-surpass your predecessors of equal means. It is a worthy ambition to
-endeavor to make the matrimonial nest or the home of maturer years
-attractive, and if we were to peer back far enough into the past of
-even this country, to the time when our great great-grandmothers
-set up housekeeping with our great great-grandfathers, we should
-find that furnishing was considered a seriously delightful matter,
-though not perhaps the almost sacred trust we regard it to-day. I mean
-our great great-grandparents who used to live in those charming old
-colonial houses, and who owned the mahogany desks with brass handles
-and claw feet, the tall clocks, the ravishing andirons, and all the
-other old-fashioned furniture which is now so precious and difficult
-to find. Distance may lend such enchantment to a spinning-wheel, a
-warming-pan, or a spinnet, that one is liable to become hysterical in
-praise of them, and a calm, æsthetic mind, outside the limits of an
-antique furniture dealer’s store, would be justified in stigmatizing
-many of the now cherished effects of our great great-grandparents as
-truck; but, on the other hand, who will dispute that they possessed
-very many lovely things? They had an eye for graceful shapes in their
-sideboards and tables; somehow the curves they imparted to the backs of
-their chairs cannot be duplicated now so as to look the same; and the
-patterns of the satins, flowered chintzes, and other stuffs which they
-used for covers and curtains, exercise a witchery upon us, even as we
-see them now frayed and faded, which cannot proceed wholly from the
-imagination.
-
-They had no modern comforts, poor things; no furnaces, no ice-chests,
-no set bath-tubs, no running water, no sanitary improvements, no gas
-or electric light; and their picturesque kitchen hearths, with great
-caldrons and cranes and leather blowers, must have been exceedingly
-inconvenient to cook in; but even their most incommodious appliances
-were not without artistic charm.
-
-After them came the deluge--the era of horse-hair, the Sahara of
-democratic unloveliness, when in every house, in every country town,
-the set best room, which was never used by the family, stood like a
-mortuary chapel solely for the reception of guests. In the cities,
-in the households of the then enlightened, rep--generally green--was
-frequently substituted for the sable horse-hair. Then came the days
-when a dining-room or drawing-room was furnished in one pervasive
-hue--a suit of sables, a brick red, a dark green, or a deep maroon.
-Everything matched; the chairs and tables, desks and book-cases were
-bought in sets at one fell swoop by the householder of the period who
-desired to produce artistic effects. For forty years or so this was the
-prevailing fashion, and the limit of purely indigenous expression.
-
-To it presently succeeded the æsthetic phase, borrowed from England.
-Then, instead of selecting everything to match, a young or old couple
-bought so as just not to match, but to harmonize. All sorts of queer
-and subtle shades and tints in wall-papers and fabrics appeared,
-principally dallyings with and improvisings upon green, brown, and
-yellow; frescos and dados were the rage; and a wave of interest in the
-scope and mission of eccentric color spread over the land. Valuable
-as this movement was as an educational factor, there was nothing
-American in it; or in other words, we were again simply imitative.
-The very fact, however, that we were ready to imitate, betokened that
-horse-hair and rep had ceased to satisfy national aspiration, and that
-we were willing to accept suggestions from without, inasmuch as no
-native prophet had arisen. But though the impetus came from abroad,
-the awakening was genuine. Since then the desire to furnish tastefully
-has been steadily waxing among the more well-to-do portion of the
-population. As in the case of architecture, the increasing interest
-has called into existence a professional class, which, though still
-small and less generally employed than their house-designing brethren,
-is beginning to play an important part in the education of the public
-taste in internal house decoration and equipment. The idea that any man
-or woman may be more fitted than his or her neighbor to choose a carpet
-or a wall-paper has been grudgingly admitted, and still irritates the
-average house-owner who is ready to furnish. But the masters, and more
-conspicuously the mistresses, of the competing superb establishments
-in our cities, have learned, from the sad experience of some of their
-predecessors, to swallow their individual trust in their own powers of
-selection, and to put themselves unreservedly into the clutches of a
-professional house decorator.
-
-Furnishing a mammoth establishment from top to bottom with somebody
-else’s money, and plenty of it, must be a delightful occupation. There
-can be no carking consciousness of price to act as a drag on genius,
-and it would seem as though the house decorator who was not interfered
-with under these circumstances had a rare chance to show what is
-what. When he fails, which is by no means out of the question, he can
-ordinarily shift the responsibility on to his employer, for an employer
-can rarely resist the temptation of insisting on some one touch to
-prove his or her own capacity, and of course it is a simple matter
-for the man of art to demonstrate that this one touch has spoiled
-everything. The temptation to try to be as original and captivating in
-results as possible must be almost irresistible, especially when one’s
-elbow is constantly jogged by furniture and other dealers, who are only
-too eager to reproduce a Directory drawing-room or any other old-time
-splendor. But there is no denying that, whatever his limitations, the
-house decorator is becoming the best of educators on this side of the
-water, for though we cannot afford or have too much confidence in our
-own taste to employ him, our wives watch him like cats and are taking
-in his ideas through the pores, if not directly.
-
-There are, it is true, almost as many diverse styles of internal
-ornamentation as of external architecture in our modern residences,
-for everyone who has, or thinks he has, an aptitude for furnishing is
-trying his professional or ’prentice hand, sometimes with startling
-results; yet the diversities seem less significant than in the case of
-external architecture, or perhaps it may be said that the sum total
-of effect is much nearer to finality or perfection. If as a nation we
-are deriving the inspiration for the furniture and upholsteries of
-our drawing-rooms and libraries from the best French and Dutch models
-of a century or more ago, we certainly can boast that the comfortable
-features which distinguish our apartments from their prototypes are a
-native growth. If as a people we cannot yet point to great original
-artistic triumphs, may we not claim the spacious and dignified
-contemporary refrigerator, the convenient laundry, the frequently
-occurring and palatial bath-room, the health-conducing ventilator-pipe
-and sanitary fixtures, and the various electrical and other pipes,
-tubes, and appliances which have become a part of every well-ordered
-house, as a national cult? To be genuinely comfortable in every-day
-life seems to have become the aim all the world over of the individual
-seeking to live wisely, and the rest of the world is in our debt for
-the many valuable mechanical aids to comfort in the home which have
-been invented on this side of the water.
-
-This quest for comfort is being constantly borne in mind also in the
-æsthetic sense. We fit our drawing-rooms now to live in as well as to
-look at. We expect to sit on our sofas and in our easy chairs; hence
-we try to make them attractive to the back as well as to the eye.
-Though our wives may still occasionally pull down the window-shades
-to exclude a too dangerous sun, they no longer compel us to view our
-best rooms from the threshold as a cold, flawless, forbidden land.
-The extreme æsthetic tendencies which were rampant twenty years
-ago have been toned down by this inclination, among even our most
-elaborate house-furnishers, to produce the effect that rooms are
-intended for every-day use by rational beings. The ultra-queer colors
-have disappeared, and the carpets and wall-papers no longer suggest
-perpetual biliousness or chronic nightmare.
-
-I think, too, the idea that a drawing-room can be made bewitchingly
-cosey by crowding it with all one’s beautiful and ugly earthly
-possessions has been demonstrated to be a delusion. In these days of
-many wedding presents, it is difficult for young people to resist
-the temptation of showing all they have received. I remember that
-Mrs. George J. Spriggs--she was the daughter, you will remember, of
-ex-Assistant Postmaster-General Homer W. Green--had seven lamps in her
-parlor in Locust Road, three of them with umbrageous Japanese shades.
-Her husband explained to me that there had been a run on lamps and
-pepper-pots in their individual case.
-
-Now, Mrs. Julius Cæsar would have managed more cleverly. She would have
-made the lamp-dealer exchange four or five of the lamps for, say, an
-ornamental brass fender, a brass coal-scuttle, or a Japanese tea-tray,
-and have made the jeweller substitute some equally desirable table
-ornaments for the pepper-pots. And yet, when I made my wedding call on
-Mrs. Cæsar, ten years ago, I remember thinking that her drawing-room
-was a sort of compromise between a curiosity shop and a menagerie. To
-begin with, I stumbled over the head of a tiger skin, which confronted
-me as I passed through the _portière_, so that I nearly fell into the
-arms of my hostess. It seemed to me that I had stepped into a veritable
-bazaar. A large bear skin lay before the fire as a hearth-rug, and
-on either side of the grate squatted a large, orientally conceived
-china dragon with an open mouth. Here and there, under furniture or in
-corners, were gaping frogs in bronze or china. A low plush-covered
-table was densely arrayed with small china dogs of every degree.
-On another table was spread a number of silver ornaments--a silver
-snuff-box, a silver whistle, a silver feather, a silver match-box,
-and a silver shoe-buckle--all objects of virtu of apparently antique
-workmanship. There were three lamps with ornamental shades--a fluted
-china shade, a paper shade in semblance of a full-blown rose, and a
-yellow satin shade with drooping fringe. From the low studded ceiling
-depended a vast Japanese paper lantern. Sundry and divers china
-vases and shepherdesses occupied the mantel-piece and the top of the
-book-case, and had overflowed on to a writing-table supplied with
-brass ornaments. There were numerous pictures, large and small, on the
-walls, under many of which colored china plates had been hung. There
-were photographs in frames everywhere. The actual space where I could
-stand without knocking over anything was about the size of a hat bath,
-and was shut in by a circle of low chairs and divans besprinkled with
-æsthetic yellow, green, and pink soft silk cushions. On one of these
-divans my hostess was reclining in a Grosvenor gallery tea-gown, so
-that she seemed to wallow in cushions, and Julius Cæsar himself was
-sunk in the depths of one of the chairs, so near the ground that his
-knees seemed to rest on his chin, and one might fairly have taken him
-for another china frog of extraordinary proportions. All this in a
-comparatively small room where there were several other knick-knacks
-which I have omitted to mention. Better this, perhaps, than the
-drawing-room of forty years ago, when the visitor’s gaze was bounded by
-cold green rep, and he was restrained only by decorum from hurling into
-the fire the tidy or antimacassar which tickled his neck, or detached
-itself and wriggled down between his back and the back of the chair.
-
-But Mrs. Cæsar’s drawing-room, in her new house on Belport Avenue, has
-been furnished from a very different point of view than her first one,
-which shows how rapidly tastes change in a progressive society. Mrs.
-Cæsar and Julius chose everything themselves this time as they did
-before, but they had learned from experience, and from the new work
-of the contemporary decorator. There is plenty of unoccupied space
-now to show her possessions to advantage, and there are not too many
-possessions visible for the size of the parlor; there is neither so
-much uniformity of color and design as to weary the eye, nor so much
-variety or eccentricity as to irritate it; consequently, the effect on
-the visitor is not that he is in a room intended for luxurious display,
-but in an exquisitely furnished room adapted for daily use. In other
-words, the controlling idea at present, of those who seek to make
-their houses charming, seems to be to combine comfort with elegance so
-skilfully that while one may realize the latter, one is conscious only
-of the former. Though decorators are still experimenting, as probably
-they always will be, to attain novel effects, they are disposed to
-make use of queer or attenuated hues, Moorish blazonry, stamped
-leather, peacock feathers, elephant tusks, stained-glass windows, and
-Japanese lacquer-work with much more discretion than a few years ago.
-Virgin-white instead of dirt-brown lights up our halls and stair-cases,
-and the vast chandeliers which used to dazzle the eye no longer dangle
-from the ceiling. Indeed, it seems as though it would be difficult to
-make the interior of the homes of our well-to-do class more comfortable
-and attractive than they are at present. It may be that some of our
-very rich people are disposed to waste their energies in devising and
-striving for more consummate elegance, thereby exposing us all to the
-charge that we are becoming too luxurious for our spiritual good. But
-there can be little question that the ambition to surround one’s self
-with as much beauty, consistent with comfort, as one can afford is
-desirable, even from the ethical standpoint.
-
-Undeniably our point of view has changed extraordinarily in the last
-thirty years in regard to house-furnishing, as in regard to so many
-other matters of our material welfare, and there certainly is some
-ground for fearing that the pendulum is swinging just at present
-too far in the direction opposite to that of high thinking and low
-living; but, after all, though the reaction from ugliness has been and
-continues to be exuberant, it is as yet by no means wide-embracing. In
-fact, our cultivated well-to-do class--though it is well abreast of
-the rest of the civilized world in aspiration and not far behind it in
-accomplishment, with certain vivifying traits of its own which the old
-world societies do not possess or have lost--is still comparatively
-small; and there is still so much Stygian darkness outside it in
-respect to house-furnishing and home comfort in general, that we can
-afford to have the exuberance continue for the present; for there is
-some reason to believe that most of the descendants of our old high
-thinkers have become high livers, or at least, if low livers, have
-ceased to be high thinkers. Mutton-soup for breakfast and unattractive
-domestic surroundings seem to comport nowadays with ignoble aims, if
-nothing worse; moreover, it must not be forgotten that the plain people
-of the present is no longer the plain people of forty years ago, but is
-largely the seed of the influx of foreign peasants, chiefly inferior
-and often scum, which the sacredness of our institutions has obliged us
-to receive.
-
-
-
-
-_House-Furnishing_ and the _Commissariat_.
-
-II.
-
-
-If we have become cosmopolitan in the matter of domestic comfort and
-elegance as regards our drawing-rooms, the same is certainly true of
-our dining-rooms, and dinner-tables. But here it seems to me that we
-are more justly open to criticism on the score of over-exuberance.
-That is, the fairly well-to-do class, for the plain people of foreign
-blood, and the low liver of native blood, eat almost as indigestible
-food, and quite as rapidly and unceremoniously, as the pie and doughnut
-nurtured yeoman of original Yankee stock, who thrived in spite of his
-diet, and left to his grandchildren the heritage of dyspepsia which
-has become nervous prostration in the present generation. It seems as
-though our instincts of hospitality have grown in direct ratio with
-our familiarity with and adoption of civilized creature comforts,
-and any charge of exuberance may doubtless be fairly ascribed to the
-national trait of generosity, the abuse of which is after all a noble
-blemish. But, on the other hand, facts remain, even after one has given
-a pleasing excuse for their existence, and it may be doubted if a
-spendthrift is long consoled by the reflection that his impecuniosity
-is due to his own disinclination to stint. May it not truthfully be
-charged against the reasonably well-to-do American citizen that he has
-a prejudice against thrift, especially where the entertainment of his
-fellow man or woman is concerned? The rapid growth of wealth and the
-comparative facility of becoming rich during the last half century of
-our development, has operated against the practice of small economies,
-so that we find ourselves now beset by extravagant traditions which we
-hesitate to deviate from for fear of seeming mean. Many a man to-day
-pays his quarter of a dollar ruefully and begrudgingly to the colored
-Pullman car porter at the end of his journey, when he is “brushed off,”
-because he cannot bring himself to break the custom which fixed the
-fee. It would be interesting to estimate what the grand total of saving
-to the American travelling public would have been if ten instead of
-twenty-five cents a head had been paid to the tyrant in question since
-he first darkened the situation. If not enough to maintain free schools
-for the negro, at least sufficient to compel railroad managements to
-give their employees suitable wages instead of letting the easy-going
-traveller, who has already paid for the privilege of a reserved seat,
-pay a premium on that. The exorbitant fees bestowed on waiters is but
-another instance of a tendency to be over-generous, which, once reduced
-to custom, becomes the severest kind of tax, in that it is likely to
-affect the warmest-hearted people.
-
-This tendency to be needlessly lavish in expenditure is most
-conspicuous when we are offering hospitality in our own homes. Among
-the viands which we have added to the bills of fare of humanity, roast
-turkey and cranberry-sauce, Indian meal, and probably baked beans, are
-entitled to conspicuous and honorable mention, but is it not true,
-notwithstanding champagne is a foreign wine, that the most prodigious
-discovery in the line of food or drink yet made by the well-to-do
-people of this country, is the discovery of champagne? Does it not flow
-in one golden effervescing stream, varied only by the pops caused by
-the drawing of fresh corks, from the Statue of Liberty Enlightening
-the World to the Golden Gate? And the circumstance that every pop
-costs the entertainer between three and four dollars, seems in no
-wise to interrupt the cheery explosions. There are some people who do
-not drink champagne or any other wine, from principle, and there are
-some with whom it does not agree, but the average individual finds
-that the interest of festive occasions is heightened by its presence
-in reasonable abundance, and is apt to deplore its total absence with
-internal groans. But surely ninety-nine men in our large cities out
-of one hundred, who are accustomed to entertain and be entertained,
-must be weary of the sight of this expensive tempter at the feast,
-which it is so difficult to refuse when set before one, and which is
-so often quaffed against better judgment or inclination. The champagne
-breakfast, the champagne luncheon, the champagne dinner, and the
-champagne supper, with a champagne cocktail tossed in as a stop-gap,
-hound the social favorite from January to December, until he is fain
-to dream of the Old Oaken Bucket, and sooner or later to drink Lithia
-water only.
-
-With perpetual and unremitting champagne as the key-note of social
-gatherings, no wonder that the table ornaments and the comestibles
-become more splendid. A little dinner of eight or ten is no longer a
-simple matter of a cordial invitation and an extra course. The hostess
-who bids her contemporaries to dine with her most informally ten days
-hence, uses a figure of speech which is innocuous from the fact that it
-is known to be a deliberate falsehood. She begins generally by engaging
-a cook from outside to prepare the dinner, which must surely wound the
-sensibilities of any self-respecting couple the first time, however
-hardened to the situation they may become later.
-
-At this stage of my reflections I am interrupted by my wife,
-Barbara--for I was thinking aloud--with a few words of expostulation.
-
-“Are you not a little severe? I assume that you are referring now to
-people with a comfortable income, but who are not disgustingly rich. Of
-course, nowadays, the very rich people keep cooks who can cook for a
-dinner-party, cooks at eight dollars or more a week and a kitchen maid;
-so it is only the hostess with a cook at four and a half to six dollars
-a week and no kitchen maid who is likely to engage an accommodator. But
-what is the poor thing to do? Give a wretched, or plain dinner which
-may make her hair grow white in a single night? Surely, when a woman
-invites friends to her house she does not wish them to go away half
-starved, or remembering that they have had disagreeable things to eat.
-In that case she would prefer not to entertain at all.”
-
-“The question is,” I answered, “whether it is more sensible to try to
-be content with what one has, or to vie with those who are better off.
-We do not attempt to dine on gold plate, nor have we a piano decorated
-with a five-thousand-dollar painting by one of the great artists, like
-Patterson, the banker. Why should we endeavor to compete with his
-kitchen?”
-
-“The clever thing, of course, is to find a cook for six dollars a week
-who can cook for a dinner-party,” answered Barbara, pensively; “and
-yet,” she added, “though our cook can, the chances are that nine out
-of ten of the people who dine with us think that we hired her for the
-occasion.”
-
-“Precisely. Just because the custom has grown so. It is sheer
-extravagance.”
-
-“After all, my dear, it is a comparatively small matter--a five-dollar
-bill.”
-
-“Pardon me. Five dollars for the cook, because one’s own cook is not
-good enough; three or five dollars for an accommodating maid or waiter,
-because you cannot trust your chamber-maid to assist your waitress;
-eight dollars for champagne, and so on.”
-
-“Do not say ‘your’--mine can.”
-
-“Her, then--the woman of the day. I am trying to show that a small
-informal dinner is a cruelly expensive affair for the average man with
-a comfortable working income.”
-
-“I admit that a dinner for eight or ten is expensive,” said Barbara.
-“It means twenty-five dollars at the lowest, even if you have your
-own cook. But what is one to do? You don’t seem to appreciate that a
-good plain cook cannot usually prepare dinner-party dishes, and that a
-plain dinner is now almost as different from a dinner-party dinner as a
-boiled egg is from caviare.”
-
-“Precisely. There is the pity of it. The growth here of the French
-restaurant and the taste for rich and elaborate cookery has doubtless
-been a good thing in its way, if only that it is now possible to obtain
-a tolerably well-cooked meal at most of the hotels in our large cities
-and principal watering-places; but why should people of moderate means
-and social instincts feel constrained to offer a banquet on every
-occasion when they entertain? I for one consider it a bore to have so
-much provided when I go out to dinner.”
-
-“You must admit,” said Barbara, “that dinners are not nearly so long
-as they were a few years ago. Now, by means of the extra service you
-complain of, and by keeping the number of courses down, a dinner ought
-not to last longer than an hour and a half, whereas it used to take
-two hours and over. In England they are much worse than here. You are
-given, for instance, two puddings, one after the other, and ices to
-follow.”
-
-“I agree,” said I, “that we have curtailed the length so that there
-is not much to complain of on that score. I think, though, that
-comparatively plain dishes well served are quite as apt to please as
-the aspics, chartreuses, timbales, and other impressive gallicisms
-under which the accommodating party cook is wont to cater to the
-palates of informally invited guests. I sometimes think that the very
-few of our great great-grandfathers who knew how to live at all must
-have had more appetizing tables than we. Their family cooks, from all
-accounts, knew how to roast and boil and bake and stew, culinary arts
-which somehow seem to be little understood by the chefs of to-day.
-Then again, the old-fashioned Delft crockery--blue ships sailing on a
-blue sea--was very attractive. Our modern dinner-tables, when arrayed
-for a party, have almost too much fuss and feathers. Women worry until
-they get cut glass, if it is not given them as a wedding present, and
-several sets of costly plates--Sèvres, Dresden, or Crown Derby--are apt
-to seem indispensable to housekeepers of comparatively limited means.”
-
-“Cut glass is lovely, and the same plates through seven courses are
-rather trying,” said Barbara, parenthetically.
-
-“Of course it is lovely, and I am very glad you have some. But
-is not the modern American woman of refined sensibilities just a
-little too eager to crowd her table with every article of virtu she
-possesses--every ornamental spoon, dish, cup, and candlestick--until
-one is unable to see at any one spot more than a square inch of
-tablecloth? In the centre of the table she sets a crystal bowl of
-flowers, a silver basket of ferns, or a dish of fruit. This is flanked
-by apostle or gold-lined spoons, silver dishes of confectionery of
-various kinds, silver candlesticks or candelabra fitted with pink or
-saffron shades, one or two of which are expected to catch fire, an
-array of cut glass or Venetian glass at every plate, and, like as not,
-pansies strewn all over the table.”
-
-“The modern dinner-table is very pretty,” responded Barbara. “I don’t
-see how it could be improved materially.”
-
-“I dare say, but somehow one can’t help thinking at times that the
-effort for effect is too noticeable, and that the real object of
-sitting down to dinner in company, agreeable social intercourse, is
-consequently lost sight of. If only the very rich were guilty of wanton
-display, the answer would be that the rank and file of our well-to-do,
-sensible people have very simple entertainments. Unfortunately, while
-the very rich are constantly vying to outstrip one another, the
-dinner-table and the dinner of the well-to-do American are each growing
-more and more complex and elaborate. Perhaps not more so than abroad
-among the nobility or people of means; but certainly we have been
-Europeanized in this respect to such an extent that, not only is there
-practically nothing left for us to learn in the way of being luxurious,
-but I am not sure that we are not disposed to convince the rest of the
-civilized world that a free-born American, when fully developed, can be
-the most luxurious individual on earth.”
-
-Barbara looked a little grave at this. “Everything used to be so ugly
-and unattractive a little while ago that I suppose our heads have been
-turned,” she answered. “After this I shall make a rule, when we give a
-dinner-party, to keep one-half of my table ornaments in the safe as a
-rebuke to my vanity. Only if I am to show so much of the tablecloth, I
-shall have to buy some with handsome patterns. Don’t you see?”
-
-Perhaps this suggestion that our heads have been turned for the time
-being by our national prosperity, and that they will become straight
-again in due course of time, is the most sensible view to take of the
-situation. There can be no doubt that among well-to-do people, who
-would object to be classed in “the smart set,” as the reporters of
-social gossip odiously characterize those prominent in fashionable
-society in our large cities, the changes in the last thirty years
-connected with every-day living, as well as with entertaining, have
-all been in the direction of cosmopolitan usage. It is now only a
-very old-fashioned or a very blatant person who objects to the use of
-evening dress at the dinner-table, or the theatre, as inconsistent
-with true patriotism. The dinner-hour has steadily progressed from
-twelve o’clock noon until it has halted at seven _post_ meridian, as
-the ordinary hour for the most formal meal of the day, with further
-postponement to half-past seven or even eight among the fashionable
-for the sake of company. The frying-pan and the tea-pot have
-ceased to reign supreme as the patron saints of female nutrition,
-and the beefsteak, the egg, both cooked and raw, milk and other
-flesh-and-blood-producing food are abundantly supplied to the rising
-generation of both sexes by the provident parent of to-day. The price
-of beef in our large cities has steadily advanced in price until its
-use as an article of diet is a serious monster to encounter in the
-monthly bills, but the husband and father who is seeking to live
-wisely, seems not to be deterred from providing it abundantly.
-
-From this it is evident that if we are unduly exuberant in the pursuit
-of creature comforts, it is not solely in the line of purely ornamental
-luxuries. If we continue to try our nervous systems by undue exertion,
-they are at least better fitted to stand the strain, by virtue of
-plenty of nutritious food, even though dinner-parties tempt us now
-and then to over-indulgence, or bore us by their elaborateness. Yet
-it remains to be seen whether the income of the American husband
-and father will be able to stand the steady drain occasioned by the
-liberal table he provides, and it may be that we have some lessons in
-thrift on this score still in store for us. There is this consolation,
-that if our heads have been turned in this respect also, and we are
-supplying more food for our human furnaces than they need, the force
-of any reaction will not fall on us, but on the market-men, who are
-such a privileged class that our candidates for public office commonly
-provide a rally for their special edification just before election-day,
-and whose white smock-frocks are commonly a cloak for fat though greasy
-purses. Yet Providence seems to smile on the market-man in that it has
-given him the telephone, through which the modern mistress can order
-her dinner, or command chops or birds, when unexpected guests are
-foreshadowed. Owing to the multiplicity of the demands upon the time of
-both men and women, the custom of going to market in person has largely
-fallen into decay. The butcher and grocer send assistants to the house
-for orders, and the daily personal encounter with the smug man in
-white, which used to be as inevitable as the dinner, has now mainly
-been relegated to the blushing bride of from one week to two years’
-standing, and the people who pay cash for everything. Very likely we
-are assessed for the privilege of not being obliged to nose our turkeys
-and see our chops weighed in advance, and it is difficult to answer the
-strictures of those who sigh for what they call the good old times,
-when it was every man’s duty, before he went to his office, to look
-over his butcher’s entire stock and select the fattest and juiciest
-edibles for the consumption of himself and family. As for paying cash
-for everything, my wife Barbara says that, unless people are obliged to
-be extremely economical, no woman in this age of nervous prostration
-ought to run the risk of bringing on that dire malady by any such
-imprudence, and that to save five dollars a month on a butcher’s
-bill, and pay twenty-five to a physician for ruined nerves, is false
-political economy.
-
-“I agree with you,” she added, “that we Americans live extravagantly
-in the matter of daily food--especially meat--as compared with the
-general run of people in other countries; but far more serious than
-our appetites and liberal habits, in my opinion, is the horrible waste
-which goes on in our kitchens, due to the fact that our cooks are
-totally ignorant of the art of making the most of things. Abroad,
-particularly on the Continent, they understand how to utilize every
-scrap, so that many a comfortable meal is provided from what our
-servants habitually cast into the swill-tub. Here there is perpetual
-waste--waste--waste, and no one seems to understand how to prevent it.
-There you have one never-failing reason for the size of our butchers’
-and grocers’ bills.”
-
-I assume that my wife, who is an intelligent person, must be correct
-in this accusation of general wastefulness which she makes against the
-American kitchen. If so, here we are confronted again with the question
-of domestic service from another point of view. How long can we afford
-to throw our substance into the swill-tub? If our emigrant cooks do not
-understand the art of utilizing scraps and remnants, are we to continue
-to enrich our butchers without let or hindrance? It would seem that
-if the American housewife does not take this matter in hand promptly,
-the cruel laws of political economy will soon convince her by grisly
-experience that neither poetry nor philanthropy can flourish in a land
-where there is perpetual waste below stairs.
-
-
-
-
-_Education._
-
-I.
-
-
-On occasions of oratory in this country, nothing will arouse an
-audience more quickly than an allusion to our public school system,
-and any speaker who sees fit to apostrophize it is certain to be
-fervidly applauded. Moreover, in private conversation, whether with our
-countrymen or with foreigners, every citizen is prone to indulge in
-the statement, commonly uttered with some degree of emotion, that our
-public schools are the great bulwarks of progressive democracy. Why,
-then, is the American parent, as soon as he becomes well-to-do, apt to
-send his children elsewhere?
-
-I was walking down town with a friend the other day, and he asked me
-casually where I sent my boys to school. When I told him that they
-attended a public school he said, promptly, “Good enough. I like to see
-a man do it. It’s the right thing.” I acquiesced modestly; then, as I
-knew that he had a boy of his own, I asked him the same question.
-
-“My son,” he replied slowly, “goes to Mr. Bingham’s”--indicating
-a private school for boys in the neighborhood. “He is a little
-delicate--that is, he had measles last summer, and has never quite
-recovered his strength. I had almost made up my mind to send him to a
-public school, so that he might mix with all kinds of boys, but his
-mother seemed to think that the chances of his catching scarlet fever
-or diphtheria would be greater, and she has an idea that he would make
-undesirable acquaintances and learn things which he shouldn’t. So, on
-the whole, we decided to send him to Bingham’s. But I agree that you
-are right.”
-
-There are many men in the community who, like my friend, believe
-thoroughly that every one would do well to send his boys to a public
-school--that is, every one but themselves. When it comes to the case
-of their own flesh and blood they hesitate, and in nine instances out
-of ten, on some plea or other, turn their backs on the principles they
-profess. This is especially true in our cities, and it has been more or
-less true ever since the Declaration of Independence; and as a proof of
-the flourishing condition of the tendency at present, it is necessary
-merely to instance the numerous private schools all over the country.
-The pupils at these private schools are the children of our people
-of means and social prominence, the people who ought to be the most
-patriotic citizens of the Republic.
-
-I frankly state that I, for one, would not send my boys to a public
-school unless I believed the school to be a good one. Whatever
-other motives may influence parents, there is no doubt that many
-are finally deterred from sending their boys to a public school by
-the conviction that the education offered to their sons in return
-for taxes is inferior to what can be obtained by private contract.
-Though a father may be desirous to have his boys understand early the
-theory of democratic equality, he may well hesitate to let them remain
-comparatively ignorant in order to impress upon them this doctrine.
-In this age, when so much stress is laid on the importance of giving
-one’s children the best education possible, it seems too large a price
-to pay. Why, after all, should a citizen send his boys to a school
-provided by the State, if better schools exist in the neighborhood
-which he can afford to have them attend?
-
-This conviction on the part of parents is certainly justified in many
-sections of the country, and when justifiable, disarms the critic who
-is prepared to take a father to task for sending his children to a
-private school. Also, it is the only argument which the well-to-do
-aristocrat can successfully protect himself behind. It is a full suit
-of armor in itself, but it is all he has. Every other excuse which he
-can give is flimsy as tissue-paper, and exposes him utterly. Therefore,
-if the State is desirous to educate the sons of its leading citizens,
-it ought to make sure that the public schools are second to none in
-the land. If it does not, it has only itself to blame if they are
-educated apart from the sons of the masses of the population. Nor is it
-an answer to quote the Fourth of July orator, that our public schools
-are second to none in the world; for one has only to investigate to
-be convinced that, both as regards the methods of teaching and as
-regards ventilation, many of them all over the country are signally
-inferior to the school as it should be, and the school, both public
-and private, as it is in certain localities. So long as school boards
-and committees, from the Atlantic to the Pacific, are composed mainly
-of political aspirants without experience in educational matters, and
-who seek to serve as a first or second step toward the White House,
-our public schools are likely to remain only pretty good. So long as
-people with axes to grind, or, more plainly speaking, text-books to
-circulate, are chosen to office, our public schools are not likely to
-improve. So long--and here is the most serious factor of all--so long
-as the well-to-do American father and mother continue to be sublimely
-indifferent to the condition of the public schools, the public schools
-will never be so good as they ought to be.
-
-It must certainly be a source of constant discouragement to the
-earnest-minded people in this country, who are interested in education,
-and are at the same time believers in our professed national hostility
-to class distinctions, that the well-to-do American parent so calmly
-turns his back on the public schools, and regards them very much from
-the lofty standpoint from which certain persons are wont to regard
-religion--as an excellent thing for the masses, but superfluous for
-themselves. Of course, if we are going, in this respect also, to model
-ourselves on and imitate the older civilizations, there is nothing
-to be said. If the public schools are to be merely a semi-charitable
-institution for children whose parents cannot afford to separate them
-from the common herd, the discussion ceases. But what becomes, then,
-of our cherished and Fourth of July sanctified theories of equality and
-common school education? And what do we mean when we prate of a common
-humanity, and no upper class?
-
-It is in the city or town, where the public school is equal or superior
-to the private school, that the real test comes. Yet in these places
-well-to-do parents seem almost as indifferent as when they have the
-righteous defence that their children would be imperfectly educated,
-or breathe foul air, were they to be sent to a public school. They
-take no interest, and they fairly bristle with polite and ingenious
-excuses for evading compliance with the institutions of their country.
-This is true, probably, of three-fifths of those parents, who can
-afford, if necessary, to pay for private instruction. And having once
-made the decision that, for some reason, a public school education
-is not desirable for their children, they feel absolved from further
-responsibility and practically wash their hands of the matter. It is
-notorious that a very large proportion of the children of the leading
-bankers, merchants, professional men, and other influential citizens,
-who reside in the so-called court end of our large cities, do not
-attend the public schools, and it is equally notorious that the
-existence of a well-conducted and satisfactory school in the district
-affects the attendance comparatively little. If only this element of
-the population, which is now so indifferent, would interest itself
-actively, what a vast improvement could be effected in our public
-school system! If the parents in the community, whose standards of life
-are the highest, and whose ideas are the most enlightened, would as a
-class co-operate in the advancement of common education, the charge
-that our public schools produce on the whole second-rate acquirements,
-and second-rate morals and manners, would soon be refuted, and the
-cause of popular education would cease to be handicapped, as it is
-at present, by the coolness of the well-to-do class. If the public
-schools, in those sections of our cities where our most intelligent and
-influential citizens have their homes, are unsatisfactory, they could
-speedily be made as good as any private school, were the same interest
-manifested by the tax-payers as is shown when an undesirable pavement
-is laid, or a company threatens to provide rapid transit before their
-doors. Unfortunately, that same spirit of aloofness, which has in the
-past operated largely to exclude this element in the nation from
-participation in the affairs of popular government, seems to be at the
-bottom of this matter. Certainly much progress has been made in the
-last twenty years in remedying the political evil, and the public good
-appears to demand a change of front from the same class of people on
-the subject of common education, unless we are prepared to advocate the
-existence and growth of a favored, special class, out of touch with,
-and at heart disdainful of, the average citizen.
-
-The most serious enemies of the public schools among well-to-do people
-appear to be women. Many a man, alive to the importance of educating
-his sons in conformity with the spirit of our Constitution, would like
-to send his boys to a public school, but is deterred by his wife. A
-mother accustomed to the refinements of modern civilization is apt to
-shrink from sending her fleckless darling to consort, and possibly
-become the boon companion or bosom friend, of a street waif.
-
-She urges the danger of contamination, both physical and moral, and
-is only too glad to discover an excuse for refusing to yield. “Would
-you like to have your precious boy sit side by side with a little
-negro?” I was asked one day, in horrified accents, by a well-to-do
-American mother; and I have heard many fears expressed by others that
-their offspring would learn vice, or contract disease, through daily
-association with the children of the mass. It is not unjust to state
-that the average well-to-do mother is gratified when the public school,
-to which her sons would otherwise be sent, is so unsatisfactory that
-their father’s patriotism is overborne by other considerations. All
-theories of government or humanity are lost sight of in her desire to
-shelter her boys, and the simplest way to her seems to be to set them
-apart from the rest of creation, instead of taking pains to make sure
-that they are suitably taught and protected side by side with the other
-children of the community.
-
-Excellent as many of our private schools are, it is doubtful if either
-the morals are better, or the liability to disease is less, among the
-children who attend them than at a public school of the best class. To
-begin with, the private schools in our cities are eagerly patronized by
-that not inconsiderable class of parents who hope or imagine that the
-social position of their children is to be established by association
-with the children of influential people. Falsehood, meanness, and
-unworthy ambitions are quite as dangerous to character, when the little
-man who suggests them has no patches on his breeches, as when he has,
-and unfortunately there are no outward signs on the moral nature,
-like holes in trousers, to serve as danger signals to our darlings.
-Then again, those of us who occupy comfortable houses in desirable
-localities, will generally find on investigation that the average of
-the class of children which attend the public school in such a district
-is much superior to what paternal or maternal fancy has painted. In
-such a district the children of the ignorant emigrant class are not
-to be found in large numbers. The pupils consist mainly of the rank
-and file of the native American population, whose tendencies and
-capacities for good have always been, and continue to be, the basis of
-our strength as a people. There is no need that a mother with delicate
-sensibilities should send her son into the slums in order to obtain for
-him a common school education; she has merely to consent that he take
-his chances with the rest of the children of the district in which he
-lives, and bend her own energies to make the standards of that school
-as high as possible. In that way she will best help to raise the tone
-of the community as a whole, and best aid to obliterate those class
-distinctions which, in spite of Fourth of July negations, are beginning
-to expose us to the charge of insincerity.
-
-When a boy has reached the age of eleven or twelve, another
-consideration presents itself which is a source of serious perplexity
-to parents. Shall he be educated at home--that is, attend school
-in his own city or town--or be sent to one of the boarding-schools
-or academies which are ready to open their doors to him and fit
-him for college? Here again we are met by the suggestion that the
-boarding-school of this type is not a native growth, but an exotic.
-England has supplied us with a precedent. The great boarding-schools,
-Rugby, Eton, and Harrow, are the resort of the gentlemen of England.
-Though termed public schools, they are class schools, reserved and
-intended for the education of only the highly respectable. The sons of
-the butcher, the baker, and candlestick-maker are not formally barred,
-but they are tacitly excluded. The pupils are the sons of the upper and
-well-to-do middle classes. A few boarding-schools for boys have been
-in existence here for many years, but in the last twenty there has
-been a notable increase in their number and importance. These, too, are
-essentially class schools, for though ostensibly open to everybody, the
-charges for tuition and living are beyond the means of parents with a
-small income. Most of them are schools of a religious denomination,
-though commonly a belief in the creed for which the institution stands
-is not made a formal requisite for admission. The most successful
-profess the Episcopalian faith, and in other essential respects are
-modelled deliberately on the English public schools.
-
-The strongest argument for sending a boy to one of these schools
-is the fresh-air plea. Undeniably, the growing boy in a large city
-is at a disadvantage. He can rarely, if ever, obtain opportunities
-for healthful exercise and recreation equal to those afforded by a
-well-conducted boarding-school. He is likely to become a little man too
-early, or else to sit in the house because there is nowhere to play.
-At a boarding-school he will, under firm but gentle discipline, keep
-regular hours, eat simple food, and between study times be stimulated
-to cultivate athletic or other outdoor pursuits. It is not strange that
-parents should be attracted by the comparison, and decide that, on
-the whole, their boys will fare better away from home. Obviously the
-aristocratic mother will point out to her husband that his predilection
-for the public school system is answered by the fact that the State
-does not supply schools away from the city, where abundant fresh air
-and a famous foot-ball field are appurtenant to the institution. Tom
-Brown at Rugby recurs to them both, and they conclude that what has
-been good enough for generations of English boys will be best for their
-own son and heir.
-
-On the other hand, have we Americans ever quite reconciled ourselves
-to, and sympathized with, the traditional attitude of English parents
-toward their sons as portrayed in veracious fiction? The day of parting
-comes; the mother, red-eyed from secret weeping, tries not to break
-down; the blubbering sisters throw their arms around the neck of the
-hero of the hour, and slip pen-wipers of their own precious making
-into his pockets; the father, abnormally stern to hide his emotion,
-says, bluffly, “Good-by, Tom; it’s time to be off, and we’ll see you
-again at Christmas.” And out goes Tom, a tender fledgeling, into the
-great world of the public school, and that is the last of home. His
-holidays arrive, but there is no more weeping. He is practically out
-of his parents’ lives, and the sweet influence of a good mother is
-exercised only through fairly regular correspondence. And Tom is said
-to be getting manly, and that the nonsense has nearly been knocked out
-of him. He has been bullied and has learned to bully; he has been a
-fag and is now a cock. Perhaps he is first scholar, if not a hero of
-the cricket or foot-ball field. Then off he goes to college, half a
-stranger to those who love him best.
-
-This is fine and manly perhaps, in the Anglo-Saxon sense, but does it
-not seem just a little brutal? Are we well-to-do Americans prepared to
-give up to others, however exemplary, the conduct of our children’s
-lives? Granting that the American private boarding-school is a
-delightful institution, where bullying and fags and cocks are not
-known, can it ever take the place of home, or supply the stimulus to
-individual life which is exercised by wise parental love and precept?
-Of course, it is easier, in a certain sense, to send one’s boy to a
-select boarding-school, where the conditions are known to be highly
-satisfactory. It shifts the responsibility on to other shoulders, and
-yet leaves one who is not sensitive, in the pleasing frame of mind
-that the very best thing has been done for the young idea. In our busy
-American life--more feverish than that of our English kinsfolk whose
-institution we have copied--many doubtless are induced to seek this
-solution of a perplexing problem by the consciousness of their own lack
-of efficiency, and their own lack of leisure to provide a continuous
-home influence superior or equal to what can be supplied by headmasters
-and their assistants, who are both churchmen and athletes. Many, too,
-especially fathers, are firm believers in that other English doctrine,
-that most boys need to have the nonsense knocked out of them, and that
-the best means of accomplishing this result is to cut them loose from
-their mothers’ apron-strings.
-
-It is to be borne in mind in this connection that the great English
-public schools are a national cult. That is, everybody above a certain
-class sends his sons to one of them. On the other hand, the private
-boarding-schools on this side of the water, fashioned after them,
-have thus far attracted the patronage of a very small element of the
-population. It is their misfortune, rather than their fault, that they
-are chiefly the resort of the sons of rich or fashionable people, and
-consequently are the most conspicuously class schools in the country.
-Doubtless the earnest men who conduct most of them regret that this is
-so, but it is one of the factors of the case which the American parent
-with sons must face at present. It may be that this is to be the type
-of school which is to become predominant here, and that, as in England,
-the nation will recognize it as a national force, even though here,
-as there, only the sons of the upper classes enjoy its advantages.
-That will depend partly on the extent to which we shall decide, as a
-society, to promote further class education. At present these schools
-are essentially private institutions. They are small; they do not,
-like our American colleges, offer scholarships, and thus invite the
-attendance of ambitious students without means. Moreover, they are
-almost universally conducted on a sectarian basis, or with a sectarian
-leaning, which is apt to proselytize, at least indirectly.
-
-While those in charge of them indisputably strive to inculcate every
-virtue, the well-to-do American father must remember that his sons
-will associate intimately there with many boys whose parents belong to
-that frivolous class which is to-day chiefly absorbed in beautiful
-establishments, elaborate cookery, and the wholly material vanities
-of life, and are out of sympathy with, or are indifferent to, the
-earnest temper and views of that already large and intelligent portion
-of the community, which views with horror the development among us
-of an aristocracy of wealth, which apes and is striving to outdo the
-heartless inanities of the Old World. He must remember that a taste for
-luxury and sensuous, material aims, even though they be held in check
-by youthful devotion to the rites of the church, will prove no less
-disastrous, in the long run, to manhood and patriotism, than the lack
-of fresh air or a famous foot-ball field.
-
-If, however, the American father chooses to keep his sons at home,
-he is bound to do all he can to overcome the physical disadvantages
-of city life. Fresh air and suitable exercise can be obtained in the
-suburbs of most cities by a little energy and co-operation on the
-part of parents. As an instance, in one or two of our leading cities,
-clubs of twelve to fifteen boys are sent out three or four afternoons
-a week under the charge of an older youth--usually a college or other
-student--who, without interfering with their liberty, supervises
-their sports, and sees that they are well occupied. On days when the
-weather is unsuitable for any kind of game, he will take them to
-museums, manufactories, or other places of interest in the vicinity. In
-this way some of the watchfulness and discipline which are constantly
-operative at a boarding-school, are exercised without injury to home
-ties. There is no doubt that, unless parents are vigilant and interest
-themselves unremittingly in providing necessary physical advantages,
-the boys in a crowded city are likely to be less healthy and vigorous
-in body, and perhaps in mind, than those educated at a first-class
-boarding-school. It may be, as our cities increase in size, and suburbs
-become more difficult of access, that the boarding-school will become
-more generally popular; but there is reason to believe that, before it
-is recognized as a national institution, sectarian religion will have
-ceased to control it, and it will be less imitative of England in its
-tone and social attitude. Until then, at least, many a parent will
-prefer to keep his boys at home.
-
-
-
-
-_Education._
-
-II.
-
-
-“Supposing you had four daughters, like Mr. Perkins, what would you do
-with them, educationally speaking?” I said to my wife Barbara, by way
-of turning my attention to the other sex.
-
-“You mean what would they do with me? They would drive me into my
-grave, I think,” she answered. “Woman’s horizon has become so enlarged
-that no mother can tell what her next daughter may not wish to do. I
-understand, though, that you are referring simply to schools. To begin
-with, I take for granted you will agree that American parents, who
-insist on sending their boys to a public school, very often hesitate or
-decline point-blank to send their girls.”
-
-“Precisely. And we are forthwith confronted by the question whether
-they are justified in so doing.”
-
-Barbara looked meditative for a moment, then she said: “I am quite
-aware there is no logical reason why girls should not be treated in the
-same way, and yet as a matter of fact I am not at all sure, patriotism
-and logic to the contrary notwithstanding, I should send a daughter to
-a public school unless I were convinced, from personal examination,
-that she would have neither a vulgar teacher nor vulgar associates.
-Manners mean so much to a woman, and by manners I refer chiefly to
-those nice perceptions of everything which stamp a lady, and which you
-can no more describe than you can describe the perfume of the violet.
-The objection to the public schools for a girl is that the unwritten
-constitution of this country declared years ago that every woman was a
-born lady, and that manners and nice perceptions were in the national
-blood, and required no cultivation for their production. Latterly, a
-good many people interested in educational matters have discovered
-the fallacy of this point of view; so that when the name of a woman
-to act as the head of a college or other first-class institution for
-girls is brought forward to-day, the first question asked is, ‘Is she
-a lady?’ Ten years ago mental acquirements would have been regarded
-as sufficient, and the questioner silenced with the severe answer
-that every American woman is a lady. The public school authorities
-are still harping too much on the original fallacy, or rather the
-new point of view has not spread sufficiently to cause the average
-American school-teacher to suspect that her manners might be improved
-and her sensibilities refined. There, that sounds like treason to the
-principles of democracy, yet you know I am at heart a patriot.”
-
-“And yet to bring up boys on a common basis and separate the girls by
-class education seems like a contradiction of terms,” I said.
-
-“I am confident--at least if we as a nation really do believe in
-obliterating class distinctions--that it won’t be long before those
-who control the public schools recognize more universally the value
-of manners, and of the other traits which distinguish the woman of
-breeding from the woman who has none,” said Barbara. “When that time
-comes the well-to-do American mother will have no more reason for not
-sending her daughters to a public school than her sons. As it is, they
-should send them oftener than they do.”
-
-“Of course,” continued Barbara, presently, “the best private schools
-are in the East, and a very much larger percentage, both of girls and
-boys, attends the public schools in the West than in the East. Indeed,
-I am inclined to think that comparatively few people west of Chicago
-do not send their children to public schools. But, on the other hand,
-there are boarding-schools for girls all over the East which are mainly
-supported by girls from the West, whose mothers wish to have them
-finished. They go to the public schools at home until they are thirteen
-or fourteen, and then are packed off to school for three or four years
-in order to teach them how to move, and wear their hair, and spell, and
-control their voices--for the proper modulation of the voice has at
-last been recognized as a necessary attribute of the well-bred American
-woman. As for the Eastern girl who is not sent to the public school,
-she usually attends a private day-school in her native city, the
-resources of which are supplemented by special instruction of various
-kinds, in order to produce the same finished specimen. But it isn’t
-the finished specimen who is really interesting from the educational
-point of view to-day; that is, the conventional, cosmopolitan, finished
-specimen such as is turned out with deportment and accomplishments from
-the hands of the English governess, the French Mother Superior, or the
-American private school-mistress.
-
-“After making due allowance for the national point of view, I don’t see
-very much difference in principle between the means adopted to finish
-the young lady of society here and elsewhere. There are thousands of
-daughters of well-to-do mothers in this country who are brought up
-on the old aristocratic theory that a woman should study moderately
-hard until she is eighteen, then look as pretty as she can, and devote
-herself until she is married to having what is called on this side of
-the Atlantic a good time. To be sure, in France the good time does not
-come until after marriage, and there are other differences, but the
-well-bred lady of social graces is the well-bred lady, whether it be
-in London, Paris, Vienna, or New York, and a ball-room in one capital
-is essentially the same as in all the others, unless it be that over
-here the very young people are allowed to crowd out everybody else.
-There are thousands of mothers who are content that this should be the
-limit of their daughter’s experience, a reasonably good education and
-perfect manners, four years of whirl, and then a husband, or no husband
-and a conservative afternoon tea-drinking spinsterhood--and they are
-thankful on the whole when their girls put their necks meekly beneath
-the yoke of convention and do as past generations of women all over the
-civilized world have done. For the reign of the unconventional society
-young woman is over. She shocks now her own countrywoman even more than
-foreigners; and though, like the buffalo, she is still extant, she is
-disappearing even more rapidly than that illustrious quadruped.”
-
-“Are you not wandering slightly from the topic?” I ventured to inquire.
-
-“Not at all,” said Barbara. “I was stating merely that the Old-World,
-New-World young lady, with all her originality and piquancy, however
-charming, and however delightfully inevitable she may be, is not
-interesting from the educational point of view. Or rather I will
-put it in this way: the thoughtful, well-to-do American mother is
-wondering hard whether she has a right to be content with the ancient
-programme for her daughters, and is watching with eager interest the
-experiments which some of her neighbors are trying with theirs. We
-cannot claim as an exclusive national invention collegiate education
-for women, and there’s no doubt that my sex in England is no less
-completely on the war-path than the female world here; but is there a
-question that the peculiar qualities of American womanhood are largely
-responsible for the awakening wherever it has taken place? My dear,
-you asked me just now what a man like Mr. Perkins should do with his
-four daughters. Probably Mrs. Perkins is trying to make up her mind
-whether she ought to send them to college. Very likely she is arguing
-with Mr. Perkins as to whether, all things considered, it wouldn’t
-be advisable to have one or two of them study a profession, or learn
-to do something bread-winning, so that in case he, poor man--for he
-_does_ look overworked--should not succeed in leaving them the five
-thousand dollars a year he hopes, they need not swell the category
-of the decayed gentlewoman of the day. I dare say they discuss the
-subject assiduously, in spite of the views Mr. Perkins has expressed
-to you regarding the sacredness of unemployed feminine gentility;
-for it costs so much to live that he can’t lay up a great deal, and
-there are certainly strong arguments in favor of giving such girls
-the opportunity to make the most of themselves, or at least to look
-at life from the self-supporting point of view. At first, of course,
-the students at the colleges for women were chiefly girls who hoped
-to utilize, as workers in various lines, the higher knowledge they
-acquired there; but every year sees more and more girls, who expect
-to be married sooner or later--the daughters of lawyers, physicians,
-merchants--apply for admission, on the theory that what is requisite
-for a man is none too good for them; and it is the example of these
-girls which is agitating the serenity of so many mothers, and
-suggesting to so many daughters the idea of doing likewise. Even the
-ranks of the most fashionable are being invaded, though undeniably
-it is still the fashion to stay at home, and I am inclined to think
-that it is only the lack of the seal of fashion that restrains many
-conservative people, like the Perkinses, from educating their daughters
-as though they probably would not be married, instead of as though they
-were almost certain to be.”
-
-“You may remember that Perkins assured me not long ago, that marriage
-did not run in the Perkins female line,” said I.
-
-“All the more reason, then, that his girls should be encouraged to
-equip themselves thoroughly in some direction or other, instead of
-waiting disconsolately to be chosen in marriage, keeping up their
-courage as the years slip away, with a few cold drops of Associated
-Charity. Of course the majority of us will continue to be wives and
-mothers--there is nothing equal to that when it is a success--but
-will not marriage become still more desirable if the choicest girls
-are educated to be the intellectual companions of men, and taught
-to familiarize themselves with the real conditions of life, instead
-of being limited to the rose garden of a harem, over the hedges of
-which they are expected only to peep at the busy world--the world of
-men, the world of action and toil and struggle and sin--the world
-into which their sons are graduated when cut loose from the maternal
-apron-strings? We intend to learn what to teach our sons, so that we
-may no longer be silenced with the plea that women do not know, and be
-put off with a secretive conjugal smile. And as for the girls who do
-not marry, the world is open to them--the world of art and song and
-charity and healing and brave endeavor in a hundred fields. Become just
-like men? Never. If there is one thing which the educated woman of the
-present is seeking to preserve and foster, it is the subtle delicacy
-of nature, it is the engaging charm of womanhood which distinguishes
-us from men. Who are the pupils at the colleges for women to-day?
-The dowdy, sexless, unattractive, masculine-minded beings who have
-served to typify for nine men out of ten the crowning joke of the
-age--the emancipation of women? No; but lovely, graceful, sympathetic,
-earnest, pure-minded girls in the flower of attractive maidenhood. And
-that is why the well-to-do American mother is asking herself whether
-she would be doing the best thing for her daughter if she were to
-encourage her to become merely a New-World, Old-World young lady of the
-ancient order of things. For centuries the women of civilization have
-worshipped chastity, suffering resignation and elegance as the ideals
-of femininity; now we mean to be intelligent besides, or at least as
-nearly so as possible.”
-
-“In truth a philippic, Barbara,” I said. “It would seem as though Mrs.
-Grundy would not be able to hold out much longer. Will you tell me, by
-the way, what you women intend to do after you are fully emancipated?”
-
-“One thing at a time,” she answered. “We have been talking of
-education, and I have simply been suggesting that no conscientious
-mother can afford to ignore or pass by with scorn the claims of higher
-education for girls--experimental and faulty as many of the present
-methods to attain it doubtless are. As to what women are going to
-do when our preliminary perplexities are solved and our sails are
-set before a favorable wind, I have my ideas on that score also, and
-some day I will discuss them with you. But just now I should like you
-to answer _me_ a question. What are the best occupations for sons to
-follow when they have left school or college?”
-
-Pertinent and interesting as was this inquiry of Barbara’s, I felt the
-necessity of drawing a long breath before I answered it.
-
-
-
-
-_Occupation._
-
-I.
-
-
-The American young man, in the selection of a vocation, is practically
-cut off from two callings which are dear to his contemporaries in
-other civilized countries--the Army and the Navy. The possibility of
-war, with all its horrors and its opportunities for personal renown,
-is always looming up before the English, French, German, or Russian
-youth, who is well content to live a life of gilded martial inactivity
-in the hope of sooner or later winning the cross for conspicuous
-service, if he escapes a soldier’s grave. We have endured one war,
-and we profoundly hope never to undergo another. Those of us who are
-ethically opposed to the slaughter of thousands of human beings in a
-single day by cannon, feel that we have geography on our side. Even the
-bloodthirsty are forced to acknowledge that the prospects here for a
-genuine contest of any kind are not favorable. Consequently, the ardor
-of the son and heir, who would like to be a great soldier or a sea
-captain, is very apt to be cooled by the representation that his days
-would be spent in watching Indians or cattle thieves on the Western
-plains, or in cruising uneventfully in the Mediterranean or the Gulf
-of Mexico. At all events our standing, or, more accurately speaking,
-sitting Army, and our Navy are so small, that the demand for generals
-and captains is very limited. Therefore, though we commend to our sons
-the prowess of Cæsar, Napoleon, Nelson, Von Moltke, and Grant, we are
-able to demonstrate to them, even without recourse to modern ethical
-arguments, that the opportunities for distinction on this side of the
-water are likely to be very meagre.
-
-Also, we Americans, unlike English parents, hesitate to hold out as
-offerings to the Church a younger son in every large family. We have no
-national Church; moreover, the calling of a clergyman in this country
-lacks the social picturesqueness which goes far, or did go far, to
-reconcile the British younger son to accept the living which fell
-to his lot through family influence. Then again, would the American
-mother, like the conventional mother of the older civilizations, as
-represented in biography and fiction, if asked which of all vocations
-she would prefer to have her son adopt, reply promptly and fervidly,
-“the ministry?”
-
-I put this question to my wife by way of obtaining an answer. She
-reflected a moment, then she said, “If one of my boys really felt
-called to be a clergyman, I should be a very happy woman; but I
-wouldn’t on any account have one of them enter the ministry unless he
-did.” This reply seems to me to express not merely the attitude of the
-American mother, but also the point of view from which the American
-young man of to-day is apt to look at the question. He no longer
-regards the ministry as a profession which he is free to prefer, merely
-because he needs to earn his daily bread; and he understands, when he
-becomes a clergyman, that lukewarm or merely conventional service will
-be utterly worthless in a community which is thirsty for inspirational
-suggestion, but which is soul-sick of cant and the perfervid
-reiteration of outworn delusions. The consciousness that he has no
-closer insight into the mysteries of the universe than his fellow-men,
-and the fear that he may be able to solace their doubts only by skilful
-concealment of his own, is tending, here and all over the civilized
-world, to deter many a young man from embracing that profession, which
-once seemed to offer a safe and legitimate niche for any pious youth
-who was uncertain what he wished to do for a living. Happy he who feels
-so closely in touch with the infinite that he is certain of his mission
-to his brother-man! But is any one more out of place than the priest
-who seems to know no more than we do of what we desire to know most?
-We demand that a poet should be heaven-born; why should we not require
-equivalent evidence of fitness from our spiritual advisers?
-
-And yet, on the other hand, when the conviction of fitness or mission
-exists, what calling is there which offers to-day more opportunities
-for usefulness than the ministry? The growing tendency of the Church is
-toward wider issues and a broader scope. Clergymen are now encouraged
-and expected to aid in the solution of problems of living no less than
-those of dying, and to lead in the discussion of matters regarding
-which they could not have ventured to express opinions fifty years
-ago without exposing themselves to the charge of being meddlesome or
-unclerical. The whole field of practical charity, economics, hygiene,
-and the relations of human beings to each other on this earth, are
-fast becoming the legitimate domain of the Church, and the general
-interest in this new phase of usefulness is serving to convince many of
-the clergy themselves that the existence of so many creeds, differing
-but slightly and unimportantly from one another, is a waste of vital
-force and machinery. In this age of trusts, a trust of all religious
-denominations for the common good of humanity would be a monopoly which
-could pay large dividends without fear of hostile legislation.
-
-In this matter of the choice of a vocation, the case of the ambitious,
-promising young man is the one which commends itself most to our
-sympathies; and next to it stands that of the general utility man--the
-youth who has no definite tastes or talents, and who selects his life
-occupation from considerations other than a consciousness of fitness or
-of natural inclination. There are here, as elsewhere, born merchants,
-lawyers, doctors, clergymen, architects, engineers, inventors, and
-poets, who promptly follow their natural bents without suggestion and
-in the teeth of difficulties. But the promising young man in search of
-a brilliant career, and the general utility man, are perhaps the best
-exponents of a nation’s temper and inclination.
-
-In every civilization many promising youths and the general run of
-utility men are apt to turn to business, for trade seems to offer the
-largest return in the way of money with the least amount of special
-knowledge. In this new country of ours the number of young men who have
-selected a business career during the last fifty years, from personal
-inclination, has been very much greater than elsewhere, and the tone
-and temper of the community has swept the general utility man into mere
-money making almost as a matter of course. The reasons for this up to
-this time have been obvious: The resources and industries of a vast and
-comparatively sparsely settled continent have been developed in the
-last fifty years, and the great prizes in the shape of large fortunes
-resulting from the process have naturally captivated the imagination of
-ambitious youth. We have unjustly been styled a nation of shopkeepers;
-but it may in all fairness be alleged that, until the last fifteen
-years, we have been under the spell of the commercial and industrial
-spirit, and that the intellectual faculties of the nation have been
-mainly absorbed in the introduction and maintenance of railroads and
-factories, in the raising and marketing of grain, in the development
-of real estate enterprises, and in trading in the commodities or
-securities which these various undertakings have produced.
-
-The resources of the country are by no means exhausted; there are
-doubtless more mines to open which will make their owners superbly
-rich; new discoveries in the mechanical or electrical field will afford
-fresh opportunities to discerning men of means; and individual or
-combined capital will continue to reap the reward of both legitimate
-and over-reaching commercial acumen. But it would seem as though the
-day of enormous fortunes, for men of average brains and luck, in this
-country were nearly over, and that the great pecuniary prizes of the
-business world would henceforth be gleaned only by extraordinary or
-exceptional individuals. The country is no longer sparsely settled;
-fierce competition speedily cuts the abnormal profit out of new
-enterprises which are not protected by a patent; and in order to be
-conspicuously successful in any branch of trade, one will have more and
-more need of unusual ability and untiring application.
-
-In other words, though ours is still a new country, it will not be
-very long before the opportunities and conditions of a business life
-resemble closely those which confront young men elsewhere. As in every
-civilized country, trade in some form will necessarily engage the
-attention of a large portion of the population. From physical causes,
-a vast majority of the citizens of the United States must continue to
-derive their support from agriculture and the callings which large
-crops of cereals, cotton, and sugar make occasion for. Consequently
-business will always furnish occupation for a vast army of young men
-in every generation, and few successes will seem more enviable than
-those of the powerful and scrupulous banker, or the broad-minded and
-capable railroad president. But, on the other hand, will the well-to-do
-American father and mother, eager to see their promising sons make the
-most of themselves, continue to advise them to go into business in
-preference to other callings? And will the general utility man still be
-encouraged to regard some form of trade as the most promising outlook,
-for one who does not know what he wishes to do, to adopt? He who hopes
-to become a great banker or illustrious railway man, must remember that
-the streets of all our large cities teem with young men whose breasts
-harbor similar ambitions.
-
-Doubtless, it was the expectation of our forefathers that our American
-civilization would add new occupations to the callings inherited from
-the old world, which would be alluring both to the promising young man
-and the youth without predilections, and no less valuable to society
-and elevating to the individual than the best of those by which men
-have earned their daily bread since civilization first was. As a
-matter of fact, we Americans have added just one, that of the modern
-stock-broker. To be sure, I am not including the ranchman. It did seem
-at one time as though we were going to add another in him--a sort of
-gentleman shepherd. But be it that the cattle have become too scarce or
-too numerous, be it that the demon of competition has planted his hoofs
-on the farthest prairie, one by one the brave youths who went West in
-search of fortune, have returned East for the last time, and abandoned
-the field to the cowboys and the native settler. The pioneers in this
-form of occupation made snug fortunes, but after them came a deluge
-of promising or unpromising youths who branded every animal within a
-radius of hundreds of miles with a letter of the alphabet. Their only
-living monument is the polo pony.
-
-Our single and signal contribution to the callings of the world has
-been the apotheosis of the stock-broker. For the last twenty-five
-years, the well-to-do father and mother and their sons, in our large
-cities, have been under the spell of a craze for the brokerage
-business. The consciousness that the refinements of modern living
-cannot adequately be supplied in a large city to a family whose income
-does not approximate ten thousand dollars a year, is a cogent argument
-in favor of trying to grow rich rapidly, and both the promising young
-man and the general utility man welcomed the new calling with open
-arms. Impelled by the notion that here was a vocation which required
-no special knowledge or attainments, and very little capital, which
-was pleasant, gentlemanly, and not unduly confining, and which
-promised large returns almost in the twinkling of an eye, hundreds and
-thousands of young men became brokers--chiefly stock-brokers, but also
-cotton-brokers, note-brokers, real-estate-brokers, insurance-brokers,
-and brokers in nearly everything. The field was undoubtedly a rich one
-for those who first entered it. There was a need for the broker, and
-he was speedily recognized as a valuable addition to the machinery of
-trade. Many huge fortunes were made, and we have learned to associate
-the word broker with the possession of large means, an imposing house
-on a fashionable street, and diverse docked and stylish horses.
-
-Of course, the king of all brokers has been the stock-broker, for
-to him was given the opportunity to buy and sell securities on his
-own account, though he held himself out to his customers as merely a
-poor thing who worked for a commission. No wonder that the young man,
-just out of college, listened open-mouthed to the tales of how many
-thousands of dollars a year so and so, who had been graduated only five
-years before, was making, and resolved to try his luck with the same
-Aladdin’s lamp. Nor was it strange that the sight of men scarcely out
-of their teens, driving down town in fur coats, in their own equipages,
-with the benison of successful capitalists in their salutations,
-settled the question of choice for the youth who was wavering or did
-not know what he wished to do.
-
-It is scarcely an extreme statement that the so-called aristocracy of
-our principal cities to-day is largely made up of men who are, or
-once were, stock-brokers, or who have made their millions by some of
-the forms of gambling which our easy-going euphemism styles modern
-commercial aggressiveness. Certainly, a very considerable number
-of our most splendid private residences have been built out of the
-proceeds of successful ventures in the stock market, or the wheat pit,
-or by some other purely speculative operations. Many stars have shone
-brilliantly for a season, and then plunged precipitately from the
-zenith to the horizon; and much has been wisely said as to the dangers
-of speculation; but the fact remains that a great many vast fortunes
-owe their existence to the broker’s office; fortunes which have been
-salted down, as the phrase is, and now furnish support and titillation
-for a leisurely, green old age, or enable the sons and daughters of the
-original maker to live in luxury.
-
-Whatever the American mother may feel as to her son becoming a
-clergyman, there is no doubt that many a mother to-day would say
-“God grant that no son of mine become a stock-broker.” I know
-stock-brokers--many indeed--who are whole-souled, noble-natured men,
-free from undue worldliness, and with refined instincts. But the
-stock-broker, as he exists in the every-day life of our community,
-typifies signally the gambler’s yearning to gain wealth by short cuts,
-and the monomania which regards as pitiable those who do not possess
-and display the gewgaws of feverish, fashionable materialism. There are
-stock-brokers in all the great capitals of the world, but nowhere has
-the vocation swallowed up the sons of the best people to the extent
-that it has done here during the last thirty years. And yet, apart from
-the opportunity it affords to grow rich rapidly, what one good reason
-is there why a promising young man should decide to buy and sell stocks
-for a living? Indeed, not merely decide, but select, that occupation as
-the most desirable calling open to him? Does it tend either to ennoble
-the nature or enrich the mental faculties? It is one of the formal
-occupations made necessary by the exigencies of the business world,
-and as such is legitimate and may be highly respectable; but surely it
-does not, from the nature of the services required, deserve to rank
-high; and really there would seem to be almost as much occasion for
-conferring the accolade of social distinction on a dealer in excellent
-fish as on a successful stock-broker.
-
-However, alas! it is easy enough to assign the reason why the
-business has been so popular. It appears that, even under the flag
-of our aspiring nationality, human nature is still so weak that
-the opportunity to grow rich quickly, when presented, is apt to
-over-ride all noble considerations. Foreign censors have ventured not
-infrequently to declare that there was never yet a race so hungry for
-money as we free-born Americans; and not even the pious ejaculation of
-one of our United States Senators, “What have we to do with abroad?”
-is conclusive proof that the accusation is not well founded. In fact:
-there seems to be ample proof that we, who sneered so austerely at the
-Faubourg St. Germain and the aristocracies of the Old World, and made
-Fourth of July protestations of poverty and chastity, have fallen down
-and worshipped the golden calf merely because it was made of gold.
-Because it seemed to be easier to make money as stock-brokers than in
-any other way, men have hastened to become stock-brokers. To be sure
-it may be answered that this is only human nature and the way of the
-world. True, perhaps; except that we started on the assumption that we
-were going to improve on the rest of the world, and that its human
-nature was not to be our human nature. Would not the Faubourg St.
-Germain be preferable to an aristocracy of stock-brokers?
-
-At all events, the law of supply and demand is beginning to redeem
-the situation, and, if not to restore our moral credit, at least
-to save the rising generation from falling into the same slough.
-The stock-broker industry has been overstocked, and the late young
-capitalists in fur overcoats, with benedictory manners, wear anxious
-countenances under the stress of that Old World demon, excessive
-competition. Youth can no longer wake up in the morning and find
-itself the proprietor of a rattling business justifying a steam-yacht
-and a four-in-hand. The good old days have gone forever, and there is
-weeping and gnashing of teeth where of late there was joy and much
-accumulation. There is not business enough for all the promising young
-men who are stock-brokers already, and the youth of promise must turn
-elsewhere.
-
-
-
-
-_Occupation._
-
-II.
-
-
-But though the occupation of broker has become less tempting, the
-promising youth has not ceased to look askance at any calling which
-does not seem to foreshadow a fortune in a short time. He is only
-just beginning to appreciate that we are getting down to hard pan,
-so to speak, and are nearly on a level, as regards the hardships of
-individual progress, with our old friends the effete civilizations.
-He finds it difficult to rid himself of the “Arabian Nights’” notion
-that he has merely to clap his hands to change ten dollars into a
-thousand in a single year, and to transform his bachelor apartments
-into a palace beautiful, with a wife, yacht, and horses, before he
-is thirty-five. He shrinks from the idea of being obliged to take
-seriously into account anything less than a hundred-dollar bill, and
-of earning a livelihood by slow yet persistent acceptance of tens and
-fives. His present ruling ambition is to be a promoter; that is, to be
-an organizer of schemes, and to let others do the real work and attend
-to the disgusting details. There are a great many gentry of this kind
-in the field just at present. Among them is, or rather was, Lewis Pell,
-as I will call him for the occasion. I don’t know exactly what he is
-doing now. But he was, until lately, a promoter.
-
-A handsome fellow was Lewis Pell. Tall, gentlemanly, and
-athletic-looking, with a gracious, imposing presence and manner, which
-made his rather commonplace conversation seem almost wisdom. He went
-into a broker’s office after leaving college, like many other promising
-young men of his time, but he was clever enough either to realize
-that he was a little late, or that the promoter business offered a
-more promising scope for his genius, for he soon disappeared from the
-purlieus of the Stock Exchange, and the next thing we heard of him
-was as the tenant of an exceedingly elaborate set of offices on the
-third floor of a most expensive modern monster building. Shortly after
-I read in the financial columns of the daily press that Mr. Lewis
-Pell had sold to a syndicate of bankers the first mortgage and the
-debenture bonds of the Light and Power Traction Company, an electrical
-corporation organized under the laws of the State of New Jersey. Thirty
-days later I saw again that he had sailed for Europe in order to
-interest London capital in a large enterprise, the nature of which was
-still withheld from the public.
-
-During the next two or three years I ran across Pell on several
-occasions. He seemed always to be living at the highest pressure,
-but the brilliancy of his career had not impaired his good manners
-or attractiveness. I refer to his career as brilliant at this time
-because both his operations and the consequent style of living which
-he pursued, as described by him on two different evenings when I
-dined with him, seemed to me in my capacity of ordinary citizen to
-savor of the marvellous, if not the supernatural. He frankly gave me
-to understand that it seemed to him a waste of time for an ambitious
-man to pay attention to details, and that his business was to
-originate vast undertakings, made possible only by large combinations
-of corporate or private capital. The word combination, which was
-frequently on his lips, seemed to be the corner-stone of his system. I
-gathered that the part which he sought to play in the battle of life
-was to breathe the breath, or the apparent breath, of existence into
-huge schemes, and after having given them a quick but comprehensive
-squeeze or two for his own pecuniary benefit, to hand them over to
-syndicates, or other aggregations of capitalists, for the benefit of
-whom they might concern. He confided to me that he employed eleven
-typewriters; that he had visited London seven, and Paris three times,
-in the last three years, on flying trips to accomplish brilliant deals;
-that though his headquarters were in New York, scarcely a week passed
-in which he was not obliged to run over to Chicago, Boston, Washington,
-Denver, Duluth, or Cincinnati, as the case might be. Without being
-boastful as to his profits, he did not hesitate to acknowledge to me
-that if he should do as well in the next three years as in the last, he
-would be able to retire from business with a million or so.
-
-Apart from this confession, his personal extravagance left no room for
-doubt that he must be very rich. Champagne flowed for him as Croton
-or Cochituate for most of us, and it was evident from his language
-that the hiring of special trains from time to time was a rather less
-serious matter than it would be for the ordinary citizen to take a
-cab. The account that he gave of three separate entertainments he
-had tendered to syndicates--of ten, twelve, and seventeen covers
-respectively, at twenty dollars a cover--fairly made my mouth water and
-my eyes stick out, so that I felt constrained to murmur, “Your profits
-must certainly be very large, if you can afford that sort of thing.”
-
-Pell smiled complacently and a little condescendingly. “I could
-tell you of things which I have done which would make that seem a
-bagatelle,” he answered, with engaging mystery. Then after a moment’s
-pause he said, “Do you know, my dear fellow, that when I was graduated
-I came very near going into the office of a pious old uncle of mine who
-has been a commission merchant all his life, and is as poor as Job’s
-turkey in spite of it all--that is, poor as men are rated nowadays. He
-offered to take me as a clerk at one thousand dollars a year, with the
-promise of a partnership before I was bald-headed in case I did well.
-Supposing I had accepted his offer, where should I be to-day? Grubbing
-at an office-desk and earning barely enough for board and lodging. I
-remember my dear mother took it terribly to heart because I went into a
-broker’s office instead. By the way, between ourselves, I’m building a
-steam-yacht--nothing very wonderful, but a neat, comfortable craft--and
-I’m looking forward next summer to inviting my pious old uncle to
-cruise on her just to see him open his eyes.”
-
-That was three years ago, and to-day I have every reason to believe
-that Lewis Pell is without a dollar in the world, or rather, that every
-dollar which he has belongs to his creditors. I had heard before his
-failure was announced that he was short of money, for the reason that
-several enterprises with which his name was connected had been left on
-his hands--neither the syndicates nor the public would touch them--so
-his suspension was scarcely a surprise. He at present, poor fellow,
-is only one of an army of young men wandering dejectedly through the
-streets of New York or Chicago in these days of financial depression,
-vainly seeking for something to promote.
-
-When the promising youth and the general utility man do get rid of the
-“Arabian Nights’” notion, and recognize that signal success here, in
-any form, is likely to become more and more difficult to attain, and
-will be the legitimate reward only of men of real might, of unusual
-abilities, originality, or dauntless industry, some of the callings
-which have fallen, as it were, into disrepute through their lack of
-gambling facilities, are likely to loom up again socially. It may be,
-however, that modern business methods and devices have had the effect
-of killing for all time that highly respectable pillar of society of
-fifty years ago, the old-fashioned merchant, who bought and sold on
-his own behalf, or on commission, real cargoes of merchandise, and
-real consignments of cotton, wheat, and corn. The telegraph and the
-warehouse certificate have worked such havoc that almost everything
-now is bought and sold over and over again before it is grown or
-manufactured, and by the time it is on the market there is not a shred
-of profit in it for anybody but the retail dealer. It remains to be
-seen whether, as the speculative spirit subsides, the merchant is going
-to reinstate himself and regain his former prestige. It may already be
-said that the promising youth does not regard him with quite so much
-contempt as he did.
-
-We have always professed in this country great theoretical respect
-for the schoolmaster, but we have been careful, as the nation waxed
-in material prosperity, to keep his pay down and to shove him into
-the social background more and more. The promising youth could not
-afford to spend his manhood in this wise, and we have all really been
-too busy making money to think very much about those who are doing
-the teaching. Have we not always heard it stated that our schools
-and colleges are second to none in the world? And if our schools, of
-course our schoolmasters. Therefore why bother our heads about them?
-It is indeed wonderful, considering the little popular interest in the
-subject until lately, that our schoolmasters and our college professors
-are so competent as they are, and that the profession has flourished on
-the whole in spite of indifference and superiority. How can men of the
-highest class be expected to devote their lives to a profession which
-yields little more than a pittance when one is thoroughly successful?
-And yet the education of our children ought to be one of our dearest
-concerns, and it is difficult to see why the State is satisfied to pay
-the average instructor or instructress of youth about as much as the
-city laborer or a horse-car conductor receives.
-
-There are signs that those in charge of our large educational
-institutions all over the country are beginning to recognize that ripe
-scholarship and rare abilities as a teacher are entitled to be well
-recompensed pecuniarily, and that the breed of such men is likely to
-increase somewhat in proportion to the size and number of the prizes
-offered. Our college presidents and professors, those at the head of
-our large schools and seminaries, should receive such salaries as will
-enable them to live adequately. By this policy not only would our
-promising young men be encouraged to pursue learning, but those in the
-highest places would not be forced by poverty to live in comparative
-retirement, but could become active social figures and leaders. In any
-profession or calling under present social conditions only those in the
-foremost rank can hope to earn more than a living, varying in quality
-according to the degree of success and the rank of the occupation; but
-it is to be hoped--and there seems some reason to believe--that the
-great rewards which come to those more able and industrious than their
-fellows will henceforth, in the process of our national evolution,
-be more evenly distributed, and not confined so conspicuously to
-gambling, speculative, or commercial successes. The leaders in the
-great professions of law and medicine have for some time past declined
-to serve the free-born community without liberal compensation, and the
-same community, which for half a century secretly believed that only a
-business man has the right to grow rich, has begun to recognize that
-there are even other things besides litigation and health which ought
-to come high. For instance, although the trained architect still meets
-serious and depressing competition from those ready-made experimenters
-in design who pronounce the first _c_ in the word architect as though
-it were an _s_, the public is rapidly discovering that a man cannot
-build an attractive house without special knowledge.
-
-In the same class with the law, medicine, and architecture, and
-seemingly offering at present a greater scope for an ambitious
-young man, is engineering in all its branches. The furnaces, mines,
-manufactories, and the hydraulic, electrical, or other plants connected
-with the numerous vast mechanical business enterprises of the country
-are furnishing immediate occupation for hundreds of graduates of the
-scientific or polytechnic schools at highly respectable salaries.
-This field of usefulness is certain for a long time to come to offer
-employment and a fair livelihood to many, and large returns to those
-who outstrip their contemporaries. More and more is the business man,
-the manufacturer, and the capitalist likely to be dependent for the
-economical or successful development and management of undertakings on
-the judgment of scientific experts in his own employment or called in
-to advise, and it is only meet that the counsel given should be paid
-for handsomely.
-
-Those who pursue literature or art in their various branches in this
-country, and have talents in some degree commensurate with their
-ambition, are now generally able to make a comfortable livelihood.
-Indeed the men and women in the very front rank are beginning to
-receive incomes which would be highly satisfactory to a leading lawyer
-or physician. Of course original work in literature or art demands
-special ability and fitness, but the general utility man is beginning
-to have many opportunities presented to him in connection with what
-may be called the clerical work of these professions. The great
-magazines and publishing houses have an increasing need for trained,
-scholarly men, for capable critics, and discerning advisers in the
-field both of letter-press and illustration. Another calling which
-seems to promise great possibilities both of usefulness and income to
-those who devote themselves to it earnestly is the comparatively new
-profession of journalism. The reporter, with all his present horrors,
-is in the process of evolution; but the journalist is sure to remain
-the high-priest of democracy. His influence is almost certain to
-increase materially, but it will not increase unless he seeks to lead
-public thought instead of bowing to it. The newspaper, in order to
-flourish, must be a moulder of opinion, and to accomplish this those
-who control its columns must more and more be men of education, force,
-and high ideals. Competition will winnow here as elsewhere, but those
-who by ability and industry win the chief places will stand high in the
-community and command large pay for their services.
-
-An aristocracy of brains--that is to say, an aristocracy composed of
-individuals successful and prominent in their several callings--seems
-to be the logical sequence of our institutions under present social
-and industrial conditions. The only aristocracy which can exist in a
-democracy is one of honorable success evidenced by wealth or a handsome
-income, but the character of such an aristocracy will depend on the
-ambitions and tastes of the nation. The inevitable economic law of
-supply and demand governs here as elsewhere, and will govern until such
-a time as society may be reconstructed on an entirely new basis. Only
-the leaders in any vocation can hope to grow rich, but in proportion as
-the demands of the nation for what is best increase will the type and
-characteristics of these leaders improve. The doing away with inherited
-orders of nobility and deliberate, patented class distinctions, gives
-the entire field to wealth. We boast proudly that no artificial
-barriers confine individual social promotion; but we must remember at
-the same time that those old barriers meant more than the perpetuation
-of perfumed ladies and idle gentlemen from century to century. We are
-too apt to forget that the aristocracies of the old world signified
-in the first place a process of selection. The kings and the nobles,
-the lords and the barons, the knights who fought and the ladies for
-whom they died, were the master-spirits of their days and generations,
-the strong arms and the strong brains of civilized communities. They
-stood for force, the force of the individual who was more intelligent,
-more capable, and mightier in soul and body than his neighbors, and
-who claimed the prerogatives of superiority on that account. These
-master-spirits, it is true, used these prerogatives in such a manner as
-to crystallize society into the classes and the masses, so hopelessly
-for the latter that the gulf between them still is wide as an ocean,
-notwithstanding that present nobilities have been shorn of their power
-so that they may be said to exist chiefly by sufferance. And yet the
-world is still the same in that there are men more intelligent, more
-capable, and mightier in soul and body than their fellows. The leaders
-of the past won their spurs by prowess with the battle-axe and spear,
-by wise counsel in affairs of state, by the sheer force of their
-superior manhood. The gentleman and lady stood for the best blood of
-the world, though they so often belied it by their actions.
-
-We, who are accustomed to applaud our civilization as the hope of the
-world, may well look across the water and take suggestions from the
-institutions of Great Britain, not with the idea of imitation, but with
-a view to consider the forces at work there. For nearly a century now
-the government, though in form a monarchy, has been substantially a
-constitutional republic, imbued with inherited traditions and somewhat
-galvanized by class distinctions, but nevertheless a constitutional
-republic. The nobility still exists as a sort of French roof or
-Eastern pagoda to give a pleasing appearance to the social edifice.
-The hereditary meaning of titles has been so largely negatived by
-the introduction of new blood--the blood of the strongest men of the
-period--that they have become, what they originally were, badges
-to distinguish the men most valuable to the State. Their abolition
-is merely a question of time, and many of the leaders to whom they
-are proffered reject them as they would a cockade or a yellow satin
-waistcoat. On the other hand, and here is the point of argument,
-the real aristocracy of England for the last hundred years has been
-an aristocracy of the foremost, ablest, and worthiest men of the
-nation, and with few exceptions the social and pecuniary rewards have
-been bestowed both by the State and by public appreciation on the
-master-spirits of the time in the best sense. Brilliant statesmanship,
-wisdom on the bench, the surgeon’s skill, the banker’s sound
-discernment, genius in literature and art, when signally contributed by
-the individual, have won him fame and fortune.
-
-It may be said, perhaps, that the pecuniary rewards of science and
-literature have been less conspicuous than those accorded to other
-successes, but that has been due to the inherent practical temperament
-and artistic limitations of the Englishman, and can scarcely be an
-argument against the contention that English society in the nineteenth
-century, with all its social idiosyncrasies, has really been graded on
-the order of merit.
-
-The tide of democracy has set in across the water and is running
-strongly, and there can be no doubt that the next century is likely to
-work great and strange changes in the conditions of society in England
-as well as here. The same questions practically are presented to each
-nation, except that there a carefully constructed and in many respects
-admirable system of society is to be disintegrated. We are a new
-country, and we have a right to be hopeful that we are sooner or later
-to outstrip all civilizations. Nor is it a blemish that the astonishing
-development of our material resources has absorbed the energies of
-our best blood. But it now remains to be seen whether the standards
-of pure democracy, without traditions or barriers to point the way,
-are to justify the experiment and improve the race. The character of
-our aristocracy will depend on the virtues and tastes of the people,
-and the struggle is to be between aspiration and contentment with low
-ambitions. Our original undertaking has been made far more difficult
-by the infusion of the worst blood in Christendom, the lees of foreign
-nations; but the result of the experiment will be much more convincing
-because of this change in conditions.
-
-Who are to be the men of might and heroes of democracy? That will
-depend on the demands and aspirations of the enfranchised people.
-With all its imperfections, the civilization of the past has fostered
-the noble arts and stirred genius to immortalize itself in bronze
-and marble, in cathedral spires, in masterpieces of painting and
-literature, in untiring scholarship, in fervent labors in law,
-medicine, and science. Democracy must care for these things, and
-encourage the individual to choose worthy occupations, or society
-will suffer. We hope and believe that, in the long run, the standards
-of humanity will be raised rather than lowered by the lifting of the
-flood-gates which divide the privileged classes from the mass; but
-it behooves us all to remember that while demand and supply must be
-the leading arbiters in the choice of a vocation, the responsibility
-of selection is left to each individual. Only by the example of
-individuals will society be saved from accepting the low, vulgar
-aims and ambitions of the mass as a desirable weal, and this is the
-strongest argument against the doctrines of those who would repress
-individuality for the alleged benefit of mankind as a whole. The past
-has given us many examples of the legislator who cannot be bribed, of
-the statesman faithful to principle, of the student who disdains to be
-superficial, of the gentleman who is noble in thought, and speech and
-action, and they stand on the roll of the world’s great men. Democracy
-cannot afford not to continue to add to this list, and either she must
-steel her countenance against the cheap man and his works, or sooner
-or later be confounded. Was Marie Antoinette a more dangerous enemy
-of the people than the newspaper proprietor who acquires fortune by
-catering to the lowest tastes and prejudices of the public, or the
-self-made capitalist who argues that every man has his price, and seeks
-to accomplish legislation by bribery?
-
-
-
-
-The _Use of Time_.
-
-I.
-
-
-I brought Rogers home with me again the other day. I do not mean
-Rogers in the flesh; but the example of Rogers as a bogy with which to
-confound my better half and myself. You may recall that Rogers is the
-book-keeper for Patterson the banker, and that he has brought up and
-educated a family on a salary of twenty-two hundred dollars a year.
-
-“Barbara,” said I, “we were reflecting yesterday that we never have
-time to do the things we really wish to do. Have you ever considered
-how Rogers spends his time?”
-
-My wife admitted that she had not, and she dutifully waited for me to
-proceed, though I could tell from the expression of her mouth that
-she did not expect to derive much assistance from the example of Mr.
-Rogers. Therefore I made an interesting pathological deduction to begin
-with.
-
-“Rogers does not live on his nerves from one year’s end to the other,
-as we do.”
-
-“I congratulate him,” said Barbara, with a sigh.
-
-“And yet,” I continued, “he leads a highly respectable and fairly
-interesting life. He gets up at precisely the same hour every morning,
-has his breakfast, reads the paper, and is at his desk punctually on
-time. He dines frugally, returns to his desk until half-past four or
-five, and after performing any errands which Mrs. Rogers has asked him
-to attend to, goes home to the bosom of his family. There he exchanges
-his coat and boots for a dressing-gown, or aged smoking-jacket, and
-slippers, and remains by his fireside absorbed in the evening paper
-until tea-time. Conversation with the members of his family beguiles
-him for half an hour after the completion of the meal; then he settles
-down to the family weekly magazine, or plays checkers or backgammon
-with his wife or daughters. After a while, if he is interested in
-ferns or grasses, he looks to see how his specimens are growing under
-the glass case in the corner. He pats the cat and makes sure that the
-canary is supplied with seed. Now and then he brings home a puzzle,
-like ‘Pigs in Clover,’ which keeps him up half an hour later than
-usual, but ordinarily his head is nodding before the stroke of ten
-warns him that his bed-hour has come. And just at the time that the
-wife of his employer, Patterson, may be setting out for a ball, he is
-tucking himself up in bed by the side of Mrs. Rogers.”
-
-“Poor man!” interjected Barbara.
-
-“He has his diversions,” said I. “Now and again neighbors drop in for
-a chat, and the evening is wound up with a pitcher of lemonade and
-angel-cake. He and his wife drop in, in their turn, or he goes to a
-political caucus. Once a fortnight comes the church sociable, and every
-now and then a wedding. From time to time he and Mrs. Rogers attend
-lectures. His young people entertain their friends, as the occasion
-offers, in a simple way, and on Sunday he goes to church in the morning
-and falls to sleep after a heavy dinner in the afternoon. He leads a
-quiet, peaceful, conservative existence, unharassed by social functions
-and perpetual excitement.”
-
-“And he prides himself, I dare say,” said Barbara, “on the score of its
-virtuousness. He saves his nerves and he congratulates himself that
-he is not a society person, as he calls it. Your Mr. Rogers may be a
-very estimable individual, dear, in his own sphere, and I do think he
-manages wonderfully on his twenty-two hundred dollars a year; but I
-should prefer to see you lose your nerves and become a gibbering victim
-of nervous prostration rather than that you should imitate him.”
-
-“I’m not proposing to imitate him, Barbara,” I answered, gravely. “I
-admit that his life seems rather dull and not altogether inspiring,
-but I do think that a little of his repose would be beneficial to many
-of us whose interests are more varied. We might borrow it to advantage
-for a few months in the year, don’t you think so? I believe, Barbara,
-that if you and I were each of us to lie flat on our backs for one
-hour every day and think of nothing--and not even clinch our hands--we
-should succeed in doing more things than we really wish to do.”
-
-“I suppose it’s the climate--they say it’s the climate,” said Barbara,
-pensively. “Foreigners don’t seem to be affected in that way. They’re
-not always in a hurry as we are, and yet they seem to accomplish
-very nearly as much. We all know what it is to be conscious of that
-dreadful, nervous, hurried feeling, even when we have plenty of time
-to do the things we have to do. I catch myself walking fast--racing,
-in fact--when there is not the least need of it. I don’t clinch my
-hands nearly so much as I used, and I’ve ceased to hold on to the
-pillow in bed as though it were a life-preserver, out of deference to
-Delsarte, but when it comes to lying down flat on my back for an hour
-a day--every day--really it isn’t feasible. It’s an ideal plan, I dare
-say, but the days are not long enough. Just take to-day, for instance,
-and tell me, please, when I had time to lie down.”
-
-“You are clinching your hands now,” I remarked.
-
-“Because you have irritated me with your everlasting Mr. Rogers,”
-retorted Barbara. She examined, nevertheless, somewhat dejectedly, the
-marks of her nails in her palms. “In the morning, for instance, when I
-came down to breakfast there was the mail. Two dinner invitations and
-an afternoon tea; two sets of wedding-cards, and a notice of a lecture
-by Miss Clara Hatheway on the relative condition of primary schools
-here and abroad; requests for subscriptions to the new Cancer Hospital
-and the Children’s Fresh Air and Vacation Fund; an advertisement of an
-after-holiday sale of boys’ and girls’ clothes at Halliday’s; a note
-from Mrs. James Green asking particulars regarding our last cook,
-and a letter from the President of my Woman’s Club notifying me that
-I was expected to talk to them at the next meeting on the arguments
-in favor of and against the ownership by cities and towns of gas and
-water-works. All these had to be answered, noted, or considered. Then
-I had to interview the cook and the butcher and the grocer about the
-dinner, give orders that a button should be sewn on one pair of your
-trousers and a stain removed from another, and give directions to
-the chore-man to oil the lock of the front-door, and tell him to go
-post-haste for the plumber to extract the blotting-paper which the
-children yesterday stuffed down the drain-pipe in the bath-tub, so
-that the water could not escape. Then I had to sit down and read the
-newspaper. Not because I had time, or wished to, but to make sure
-that there was nothing in it which you could accuse me of not having
-read. After this I dressed to go out. I stopped at the florist’s to
-order some roses for Mrs. Julius Cæsar, whose mother is dead; at
-Hapgood & Wales’s and at Jones’s for cotton-batting, hooks and eyes,
-and three yards of ribbon; at Belcher’s for an umbrella to replace
-mine, which you left in the cable-cars, and at the library to select
-something to read. I arrived home breathless for the children’s
-dinner, and immediately afterward I dressed and went to the meeting
-of the Executive Committee of the Woman’s Club, stopping on the way
-to inquire if Mrs. Wilson’s little boy were better. We started by
-discussing a proposed change in our Constitution regarding the number
-of black-balls necessary to exclude a candidate, and drifted off on to
-‘Trilby.’ It was nearly five when I got away, and as I felt it on my
-conscience to go both to Mrs. Southwick’s and Mrs. Williams’s teas,
-I made my appearance at each for a few minutes, but managed to slip
-away so as to be at home at six. When you came in I had just been
-reading to the children and showing them about their lessons. Now I
-have only just time to dress for dinner, for we dine at the Gregory
-Browns, at half-past seven. We ought to go later to the reception at
-Mrs. Hollis’s--it is her last of three and we haven’t been yet--but I
-suppose you will say you are too tired. There! will you tell me when I
-could have found time to lie down for an hour to-day?”
-
-I was constrained to laugh at my wife’s recital, and I was not able at
-the moment to point out to her exactly what she might have omitted from
-her category so as to make room for the hour of repose. Nor, indeed, as
-I review the events of my own daily life and of the daily lives of my
-friends and acquaintances, am I able to define precisely where it could
-be brought in. And yet are we not--many of us who are in the thick of
-modern life--conscious that our days are, as it were, congested? We
-feel sure that so far as our physical comfort is concerned we ought
-to be doing less, and we shrewdly suspect that, if we had more time
-in which to think, our spiritual natures would be the gainers. The
-difficulty is to stop, or rather to reduce the speed of modern living
-to the point at which these high-pressure nervous symptoms disappear,
-and the days cease to seem too short for what we wish to accomplish.
-Perhaps those who take an intense interest in living will never be able
-to regain that delightful condition of equipoise, if it ever existed,
-which our ancestors both here and across the water are said to have
-experienced. Perhaps, too, our ancestors were more in a hurry when they
-were alive than they seem to have been now that they are dead; but,
-whether this be true or otherwise, we are confidently told by those
-who ought to know that we Americans of this day and generation are
-the most restless, nervous people under the sun, and live at a higher
-pressure than our contemporaries of the effete civilizations. It used
-to be charged that we were in such haste to grow rich that there was
-no health in us; and now that we are, or soon will be, the wealthiest
-nation in the world, they tell us that we continue to maintain the same
-feverish pace in all that we undertake or do.
-
-I am not sure that this charge could not be brought against the
-Englishman, Frenchman, or German of to-day with almost equal justice,
-or, in other words, that it is a characteristic of the age rather than
-of our nation; but that conviction would merely solace our pride and
-could not assuage “that tired feeling” of which so many are conscious.
-At all events, if we do not work harder than our kinsmen across the
-sea, we seem to bear the strain less well. It may be the climate,
-as my wife has said, which causes our nervous systems to rebel; but
-then, again, we cannot change the climate, and consequently must adapt
-ourselves to its idiosyncrasies.
-
-Ever since we first began to declare that we were superior to all
-other civilizations we have been noted for our energy. The way in
-which we did everything, from sawing wood to electing a President, was
-conspicuous by virtue of the bustling, hustling qualities displayed.
-But it is no longer high treason to state that our national life,
-in spite of its bustle, was, until comparatively recently, lacking
-in color and variety. The citizen who went to bed on the stroke of
-ten every night and did practically the same thing each day from one
-year’s end to the other was the ideal citizen of the Republic, and
-was popularly described as a conservative and a strong man. His life
-was led within very repressed limits, and anything more artistic than
-a chromo or religious motto was apt to irritate him and shock his
-principles. To be sure, we had then our cultivated class--more narrowly
-but possibly more deeply cultivated than its flourishing successor
-of to-day--but the average American, despite his civic virtues and
-consciousness of rectitude, led a humdrum existence, however hustling
-or bustling. There is a large percentage of our population that
-continues to live in much the same manner, notwithstanding the wave of
-enlightenment which has swept over the country and keyed us all up
-to concert pitch by multiplying the number of our interests. I feel a
-little guilty in having included Rogers among this number, for I really
-know of my own knowledge nothing about his individual home life. It
-may be that I have been doing him a rank injustice, and that his home
-is in reality a seething caldron of progress. I referred to him as a
-type rather than as an individual, knowing as I do that there are still
-too many homes in this country where music, art, literature, social
-tastes, and intelligent interest in human affairs in the abstract, when
-developed beyond mere rudimentary lines, are unappreciated and regarded
-as vanities or inanities.
-
-On the other hand, there is nothing more interesting in our present
-national evolution than the eager recognition by the intelligent and
-aspiring portion of the people that we have been and are ignorant,
-and that the true zest of life lies in its many-sidedness and its
-possibilities of development along æsthetic, social, and intellectual
-as well as moral lines. The United States to-day is fairly bristling
-with eager, ambitious students, and with people of both sexes, young
-and middle-aged, who are anxiously seeking how to make the most of
-life. This eagerness of soul is not confined to any social class,
-and is noticeable in every section of the country in greater or less
-degree. It is quite as likely to be found among people of very humble
-means as among those whose earliest associations have brought them
-into contact with the well-to-do and carefully educated. Therefore I
-beg the pardon of Rogers in case I have put him individually in the
-wrong category. A divine yet cheery activity has largely taken the
-place of sodden self-righteousness on the one hand, and analytical
-self-consciousness on the other. The class is not as yet very large as
-compared with the entire population of the country, but it is growing
-rapidly, and its members are the most interesting men and women of the
-Republic--those who are in the van of our development as a people.
-
-Overcrowded and congested lives signify at least earnestness and
-absorption. Human nature is more likely to aspire and advance
-when society is nervously active, than when it is bovine and
-self-congratulatory. But nerves can endure only a certain amount of
-strain without reminding human beings that strong and healthy bodies
-are essential to true national progress. Only recently in this country
-have we learned to consider the welfare of the body, and though
-we have begun to be deadly in earnest about athletics, the present
-generation of workers was, for the most part, brought up on the theory
-that flesh and blood was a limitation rather than a prerequisite.
-We are doing bravely in this matter so far as the education of our
-children is concerned, but it is too late to do much for our own
-nerves. Though stagnation is a more deplorable state, it behooves us,
-nevertheless, if possible, to rid ourselves of congestion for our
-ultimate safety.
-
-An active man or woman stopping to think in the morning may well
-be appalled at the variety of his or her life. The ubiquity of the
-modern American subconsciousness is something unique. We wish to
-know everything there is to know. We are interested not merely in
-our own and our neighbors’ affairs--with a knowledge of which so
-many citizens of other lands are peacefully contented--but we are
-eager to know, and to know with tolerable accuracy, what is going
-on all over the world--in England, China, Russia, and Australia.
-Not merely politically, but socially, artistically, scientifically,
-philosophically, and ethically. No subject is too technical for our
-interest, provided it comes in our way, whether it concern the canals
-in Mars or the antitoxin germ. The newspaper and the telegraph have
-done much to promote this ubiquity of the mind’s eye all over the
-world, but the interests of the average American are much wider and
-more diversified than those of any other people. An Englishman will
-have his hobbies and know them thoroughly, but regarding affairs beyond
-the pale of his limited inquiry he is deliberately and often densely
-ignorant. He reads, and reads augustly, one newspaper, one or two
-magazines--a few books; we, on the other hand, are not content unless
-we stretch out feelers in many directions and keep posted, as we call
-it, by hasty perusals of almost innumerable publications for fear lest
-something escape us. What does the Frenchman--the average intelligent
-Frenchman--know or care about the mode of our Presidential elections,
-and whether this Republican or that Democrat has made or marred his
-political reputation? We feel that we require to inform ourselves not
-only concerning the art and literature of France, but to have the names
-and doings of her statesmen at our fingers’ ends for use in polite
-conversation, and the satisfaction of the remains of the New England
-conscience. All this is highly commendable, if it does not tend to
-render us superficial. The more knowledge we have, the better, provided
-we do not fall into the slough of knowing nothing very well, or hunt
-our wits to death by over-acquisitiveness. There is so much nowadays
-to learn, and seemingly so little time in which to learn it, we cannot
-afford to spread ourselves too thin.
-
-The energy of our people has always been conspicuous in the case of
-women. The American woman, from the earliest days of our history,
-has refused to be prevented by the limitations of time or physique
-from trying to include the entire gamut of human feminine activity in
-her daily experience. There was a period when she could demonstrate
-successfully her ability to cook, sweep, rear and educate children,
-darn her husband’s stockings, and yet entertain delightfully, dress
-tastefully, and be well versed in literature and all the current
-phases of high thinking. The New England woman of fifty years ago was
-certainly an interesting specimen from this point of view, in spite
-of her morbid conscience and polar sexual proclivities. But among
-the well-to-do women of the nation to-day--the women who correspond
-socially to those just described--this achievement is possible only by
-taxing the human system to the point of distress, except in the newly
-or thinly settled portions of the country, where the style of living is
-simple and primitive.
-
-In the East, of course, in the cities and towns the women in question
-ceased long ago to do all the housework; and among the well-to-do,
-servants have relieved her of much, if not of all of the physical
-labor. But, on the other hand, the complexities of our modern
-establishments, and the worry which her domestics cause her, make the
-burden of her responsibilities fully equal to what they were when she
-cooked flap-jacks and darned stockings herself. In other countries
-the women conversant with literature, art, and science, who go in for
-philanthropy, photography, or the ornamentation of china, who write
-papers on sociological or educational matters, are, for the most part,
-women of leisure in other respects. The American woman is the only
-woman at large in the universe who aims to be the wife and mother of a
-family, the mistress of an establishment, a solver of world problems, a
-social leader, and a philanthropist or artistic devotee at one and the
-same time. Each of these interests has its determined followers among
-the women of other civilizations, but nowhere except here does the
-eternal feminine seek to manifest itself in so many directions in the
-same individual.
-
-This characteristic of our womanhood is a virtue up to a certain point.
-The American woman has certainly impressed her theory that her sex
-should cease to be merely pliant, credulous, and ignorantly complacent
-so forcibly on the world that society everywhere has been affected
-by it. Her desire to make the most of herself, and to participate
-as completely as possible in the vital work of the world without
-neglecting the duties allotted to her by the older civilizations,
-is in the line of desirable evolution. But there is such a thing as
-being superficial, which is far more to be dreaded than even nervous
-prostration. Those absorbed in the earnest struggle of modern living
-may perhaps justly claim that to work until one drops is a noble fault,
-and that disregard of one’s own sensations and comfort is almost
-indispensable in order to accomplish ever so little. But there is
-nothing noble in superficiality; and it would seem that the constant
-flitting from one interest to another, which so many American women
-seem unable to avoid, must necessarily tend to prevent them from
-knowing or doing anything thoroughly.
-
-As regards the creature man, the critics of this country have been
-accustomed to assert that he was so much absorbed in making money, or
-in business, as our popular phrase is, that he had no time for anything
-else. This accusation used to be extraordinarily true, and in certain
-parts of the country it has not altogether ceased to be true; though
-even there the persistent masculine dollar-hunter regards wistfully
-and proudly the æsthetic propensities of the female members of his
-family, and feels that his labors are sweetened thereby. This is a
-very different attitude from the self-sufficiency of half a century
-ago. The difficulty now is that our intelligent men, like our women,
-are apt to attempt too much, inclined to crowd into each and every day
-more sensations than they can assimilate. An Englishwoman, prominent
-in educational matters, and intelligent withal, recently expressed her
-surprise to my wife, Barbara, that the American gentleman existed.
-She had been long familiar with the American woman as a charming,
-if original, native product, but she had never heard of the American
-gentleman--meaning thereby the alert, thoughtful man of high purposes
-and good-breeding. “How many there are!” the Briton went on to say in
-the enthusiasm of her surprise. Indeed there are. The men prominent in
-the leading walks of life all over this country now compare favorably,
-at least, with the best of other nations, unless it be that our intense
-desire to know everything has rendered, or may render, us accomplished
-rather than profound.
-
-
-
-
-The _Use of Time_.
-
-II.
-
-
-After all, whether this suggestion of a tendency toward superficiality
-be well founded or not, the proper use of time has come to be a more
-serious problem than ever for the entire world. The demands of modern
-living are so exacting that men and women everywhere must exercise
-deliberate selection in order to live wisely. To lay down general
-rules for the use of time would be as futile as to insist that every
-one should use coats of the same size and color, and eat the same kind
-and quantity of food. The best modern living may perhaps be correctly
-defined as a happy compromise in the aims and actions of the individual
-between self-interest and altruism.
-
-If one seeks to illustrate this definition by example it is desirable
-in the first place to eliminate the individuals in the community whose
-use of time is so completely out of keeping with this doctrine that it
-is not worth while to consider them. Murderers, forgers, and criminals
-of all kinds, including business men who practise petty thefts,
-and respectable tradesmen who give short weight and overcharge,
-instinctively occur to us. So do mere pleasure-seekers, drunkards, and
-idle gentlemen. On the same theory we must exclude monks, deliberate
-celibates, nuns, and all fanatical or eccentric persons whose conduct
-of life, however serviceable in itself as a leaven or an exception,
-could not be generally imitated without disaster to society. It would
-seem also as though we must exclude those who have yet to acquire
-such elemental virtues of wise living as cleanliness, reverence for
-the beautiful, and a certain amount of altruism. There is nothing
-to learn as to the wise use of time from those whose conceptions of
-life are handicapped by the habitual use of slang and bad grammar and
-by untidiness; who regard the manifestations of good taste and fine
-scholarship as “frills,” and who, though they be unselfish in the
-bosoms of their families, take no interest in the general welfare of
-the community.
-
-Let me in this last connection anticipate the criticism of the
-sentimentalist and of the free-born American who wears a chip on his
-shoulder, by stating that time may be as beautifully and wisely spent,
-and life be as noble and serviceable to humanity in the home of the
-humblest citizen as in that of the well-to-do or rich. Of course
-it may. Who questions it? Did I not, in order not even to seem to
-doubt it, take back all I hazarded about the manner in which Rogers
-spends his time? It _may_ be just as beautifully and wisely spent, and
-very often is so. But, on the other hand, I suggest, timorously and
-respectfully, that it very often is not, and I venture further to ask
-whether the burden is not on democracy to show that the plain life of
-the plain people as at present conducted is a valuable example of wise
-and improving use of time? The future is to account for itself, and we
-all have faith in democracy. We are all plain people in this country.
-But just as a passing inquiry, uttered not under my breath, yet without
-levity or malice, what is the contribution so far made by plainness as
-plainness to the best progress of the world? Absolutely nothing, it
-seems to me. Progress has come from the superiority of individuals in
-every class of life to the mass of their contemporaries. The so-called
-plainness of the plain people too often serves at the present day as
-an influence to drag down the aspiring individual to the dead level of
-the mass which contents itself with bombastic cheapness of thought and
-action. This is no plea against democracy, for democracy has come to
-stay; but it is an argument why the best standards of living are more
-likely to be found among those who do not congratulate themselves on
-their plainness than those who are content to live no better and no
-worse than their neighbors. Discontent with self is a valuable Mentor
-in the apportionment of time.
-
-Therefore I offer as the most valuable study in the use of time under
-modern conditions the men and women in our large cities who are so
-far evolved that they are not tempted to commit common crimes, are
-well educated, earnest and pleasing, and are keenly desirous to effect
-in their daily lives that happy compromise between self-interest and
-altruism to which I have referred as the goal of success in the use of
-time. Let us consider them from the point of every day in the week and
-of the four seasons. In every man’s life his occupation, the calling or
-profession by which he earns his bread, must necessarily be the chief
-consumer of his time. We Americans have never been an idle race, and
-it is rare that the father of a family exposes himself to the charge
-of sloth. His work may be unintelligent or bungling, but he almost
-invariably spends rather too much than too little time over it. If
-you ask him why, he says he cannot help it; that in order to get on
-he must toil early and late. If he is successful, he tells you that
-otherwise he cannot attend to all he has to do. There is plausibility
-in this. Competition is undoubtedly so fierce that only those who
-devote themselves heart and soul to any calling are likely to succeed.
-Moreover, the consciousness of success is so engrossing and inspiriting
-that one may easily be tempted to sacrifice everything else to the game.
-
-But can it be doubted, on the other hand, that the man who refuses to
-become the complete slave either of endeavor or success is a better
-citizen than he who does? The chief sinners in this respect in our
-modern life are the successful men, those who are in the thick of
-life doing reasonably well. The man who has not arrived, or who is
-beginning, must necessarily have leisure for other things for the
-reason that his time is not fully employed, but the really busy worker
-must make an effort or he is lost. If he does not put his foot down
-and determine what else he will do beside pursuing his vocation every
-day in the year except Sunday, and often on Sunday to boot, he may be
-robust enough to escape a premature grave, but he will certainly not
-make the best use of his life.
-
-The difficulty for such men, of course, is to select what they will do.
-There are so many things, that it is easy to understand why the mind
-which abhors superficiality should be tempted to shut its ears out of
-sheer desperation to every other interest but business or profession.
-If every one were to do that what would be the result? Our leading men
-would simply be a horde of self-seekers, in spite of the fact that
-their individual work in their several callings was conscientious and
-unsparing of self. Deplorable as a too great multiplicity of interests
-is apt to be to the welfare and advancement of an ambitious man, the
-motive which prompts him to endeavor to do many things is in reality a
-more noble one, and one more beneficial to society than absorption to
-excess in a vocation. The cardinal principle in the wise use of time is
-to discover what one can do without and to select accordingly. Man’s
-duty to his spiritual nature, to his æsthetic nature, to his family, to
-public affairs, and to his social nature, are no less imperative than
-his duty to his daily calling. Unless each of these is in some measure
-catered to, man falls short in his true obligations. Not one of them
-can be neglected. Some men think they can lighten the load to advantage
-by disregarding their religious side. Others congratulate themselves
-that they never read novels or poetry, and speak disrespectfully of
-the works of new schools of art as daubs. A still larger number shirks
-attention to political and social problems, and declares bluffly that
-if a man votes twice a year and goes to a caucus, when he is sent for
-in a carriage by the committee, it is all that can be expected of a
-busy man. Another large contingent swathes itself in graceless virtue,
-and professes to thank God that it keeps aloof from society people and
-their doings. Then we are all familiar with the man who has no time to
-know his own family, though, fortunately, he is less common than he
-used to be.
-
-If I were asked to select what one influence more than another wastes
-the spare time of the modern man, I should be inclined to specify the
-reading of newspapers. The value of the modern daily newspaper as a
-short cut to knowledge of what is actually happening in two hemispheres
-is indisputable, provided it is read regularly so that one can
-eliminate from the consciousness those facts which are contradicted
-or qualified on the following day. Of course it is indispensable to
-read the morning, and perhaps the evening, newspaper in order to
-know what is going on in the world. But the persistent reading of
-many newspapers, or the whole of almost any newspaper, is nearly as
-detrimental to the economy of time as the cigarette habit to health.
-Fifteen minutes a day is ample time in which to glean the news, and
-the busy man who aspires to use his time to the best advantage may
-well skip the rest. There is no doubt that many of our newspapers
-contain some of the best thought of the day scattered through their
-encyclopædic columns; but there is still less doubt that they are
-conducted to please, first of all, those who otherwise would read
-nothing. From this point of view they are most valuable educators;
-moreover, the character of the newspaper is steadily improving, and
-it is evident that those in charge of the best of them are seeking
-to raise the public taste instead of writing down to it; but the
-fact remains that they at present contain comparatively little which
-the earnest man can afford to linger over if he would avoid mental
-dissipation of an insidious kind. A newspaper containing only the
-news and the really vital thought of the day compressed into short
-space is among the successful enterprises of the future which some
-genius will perpetuate. How many of us, already, weary of the social
-gossip, the sensational personalities, the nauseous details of crime,
-the custom-made articles, the Sunday special features, the ubiquitous
-portrait, and finally the colored cartoon, would write our names large
-on such a subscription-list!
-
-In the matter of books, too, the modern man and woman may well
-exercise a determined choice. There is so much printed nowadays
-between ornamental covers, that any one is liable to be misled by
-sheer bewilderment, and deliberate selection is necessary to save us
-from being mentally starved with plenty. We cannot always be reading
-to acquire positive knowledge; entertainment and self-oblivion
-are quite as legitimate motives for the hard worker as meditated
-self-improvement; but whether we read philosophy and history, or the
-novel, the poem, and the essay, it behooves us to read the best of its
-kind. From this standpoint the average book club is almost a positive
-curse. A weekly quota of books appears on our library tables, to be
-devoured in seven days. We read them because they come to us by lot,
-not because we have chosen them ourselves. There is published in every
-year of this publishing age a certain number of books of positive merit
-in the various departments of literature and thought, which a little
-intelligent inquiry would enable us to discover. By reading fewer
-books, and making sure that the serious ones were sound and the light
-or clever ones really diverting, the modern man and woman would be
-gainers both in time and approbation.
-
-In this connection let me head off again the sentimentalist and
-moralist by noting that old friends in literature are often more
-satisfying and engaging than new. Those of us who are in the thick of
-life are too apt to forget to take down from our shelves the comrades
-we loved when we were twenty-one--the essayists, the historians, the
-poets, and novelists whose delightful pages are the literature of
-the world. An evening at home with Shakespeare is not the depressing
-experience which some clever people imagine. One rises from the feast
-to go to bed with all one’s æsthetic being refreshed and fortified as
-though one had inhaled oxygen. What a contrast this to the stuffy taste
-in the roof of the mouth, and the weary, dejected frame of mind which
-follow the perusal of much of the current literature which cozening
-booksellers have induced the book club secretary to buy.
-
-A very little newspaper reading and a limited amount of selected
-reading will leave time for the hobby or avocation. Every man or woman
-ought to have one; something apart from business, profession, or
-housekeeping, in which he or she is interested as a study or pursuit.
-In this age of the world it may well take the form of educational,
-economic, or philanthropic investigation, or co-operation, if
-individual tastes happen to incline one to such work. The prominence
-of such matters in our present civilization is, of course, a magnet
-favorable to such a choice. In this way one can, as it were, kill two
-birds with one stone, develop one’s own resources and perform one’s
-duty toward the public. But, on the other hand, there will be many who
-have no sense of fitness for this service, and whose predilections lead
-them toward art, science, literature, or some of their ramifications.
-The amateur photographer, the extender of books, the observer of birds,
-are alike among the faithful. To have one hobby and not three or four,
-and to persevere slowly but steadily in the fulfilment of one’s
-selection, is an important factor in the wise disposal of time. It is a
-truism to declare that a few minutes in every day allotted to the same
-piece of work will accomplish wonders; but the result of trying will
-convince the incredulous. Indeed one’s avocation should progress and
-prevail by force of spare minutes allotted daily and continuously; just
-so much and no more, so as not to crowd out the other claimants for
-consideration. Fifteen minutes before breakfast, or between kissing the
-children good-night and the evening meal, or even every other Saturday
-afternoon and a part of every holiday, will make one’s hobby look
-well-fed and sleek at the end of a few years.
-
-Perhaps the most difficult side of one’s nature to provide for
-adequately is the social side. It is easy enough to make a hermit of
-one’s self and go nowhere; and it is easy enough to let one’s self
-be sucked into the vortex of endless social recreation until one’s
-sensations become akin to those of a highly varnished humming-top. I
-am not quite sure which is the worse; but I am inclined to believe
-that the hermit, especially if self-righteous, is more detestable in
-that he is less altruistic. He may be a more superior person than the
-gadfly of society, but ethics no longer sanctions self-cultivation
-purely for the benefit of self. Every man and woman who seeks to play
-an intelligent part in the world ought to manage to dine out and attend
-other social functions every now and then, even if it be necessary
-to bid for invitations. Most of us have more invitations than we
-can possibly accept, and find the problem of entertaining and being
-entertained an exceedingly perplexing one to solve from the standpoint
-of time. But in spite of the social proclivities of most of us, there
-are still many people who feel that they are fulfilling their complete
-duty as members of society if they live lives of strict rectitude far
-from the madding crowd of so-called society people, and never darken
-the doors of anybody. It is said that it takes all sorts of people to
-make up the world, but disciplinarians and spoil-sports of this sort
-are so tiresome that they would not be missed were they and their
-homilies to be translated prematurely to another sphere.
-
-Those of us, however, who profess a contrary faith, experience
-difficulty at times in being true to it, and are often tempted to slip
-back into domestic isolation by the feverishness of our social life.
-It sometimes seems as though there were no middle way between being
-a humming-top and a hermit. Yet nothing is more fatal to the wise
-use of time than the acceptance of every invitation received, unless
-it be the refusal of every one. Here again moderation and choice are
-the only safeguards, in spite of the assurance of friends that it is
-necessary to go a great deal in order to enjoy one’s self. In our
-cities the bulk of the entertainments of the year happen in the four
-winter months; from which many far from frivolous persons argue that
-the only way is to dine out every night, and go to everything to which
-one is asked during this period, and make up between April 15th and
-December 15th for any arrears due the other demands of one’s nature.
-This is plausible, but a dangerous theory, if carried to excess. Wise
-living consists in living wisely from day to day, without excepting any
-season. Three evenings in a week spent away from one’s own fireside may
-not be an easy limit for some whose social interests are varied, but
-both the married and the single who regret politely in order to remain
-tranquilly at home four evenings out of seven, need not fear that they
-have neglected the social side of life even in the gayest of seasons.
-
-And here, for the sake of our sometimes dense friend the
-moralist--especially the moralist of the press, who raves against
-society people from the virtuous limit of an occasional afternoon
-tea--let me add that by entertainments and recreation I intend to
-include not merely formal balls and dinner-parties, but all the forms
-of more or less innocent edification and diversion--teas, reform
-meetings, theatres, receptions, concerts, lectures, clubs, sociables,
-fairs, and tableaux, by which people all over the country are brought
-together to exchange ideas and opinions in good-humored fellowship.
-
-In the apportionment of time the consideration of one’s physical health
-is a paramount necessity, not merely for a reasonably long life, but
-to temper the mind’s eye so that the point of view remain sane and
-wholesome. An overwrought nervous system may be capable of spasmodic
-spurts, but sustained useful work is impossible under such conditions.
-To die in harness before one’s time may be fine, and in exceptional
-cases unavoidable, but how much better to live in harness and do the
-work which one has undertaken without breaking down. Happily the
-young men and women of the country of the present generation may
-almost be said to have athletics and fresh air on the brain. What with
-opportunity and precept they can scarcely help living up to the mark in
-this respect. The grown-up men and women, absorbed in the struggle of
-life, are the people who need to keep a watchful eye upon themselves.
-It is so easy to let the hour’s fresh air and exercise be crowded out
-by the things which one feels bound to do for the sake of others, and
-hence for one’s immortal soul. We argue that it will not matter if we
-omit our walk or rest for a day or two, and so we go on from day to
-day, until we are brought up with a round turn, as the saying is, and
-realize, in case we are still alive, that we are chronic invalids. The
-walk, the ride, the drive, the yacht, the bicycle, the search for wild
-flowers and birds, the angler’s outing, the excursion with a camera,
-the deliberate open-air breathing spell on the front platform of a
-street-car, some one of these is within the means and opportunities of
-every busy worker, male and female.
-
-For many of us the most begrudged undertaking of all is to find time
-for what we owe to the world at large or the State, the State with
-a capital S, as it is written nowadays. There is no money in such
-bestowals, no private gain or emolument. What we give we give as a
-tribute to pure altruism, or, in other words, because as men and women
-we feel that it is one of the most important elements in wise living.
-It is indisputable that there was never so much disinterested endeavor
-in behalf of the community at large as there is to-day, but at the
-same time it is true that the agitations and work are accomplished
-by a comparatively small number of people. There are probably among
-the intelligent, aspiring portion of the population at least five
-persons who intend to interest themselves in public affairs, and regard
-doing so as essential to a useful life, to every one who puts his
-theories into practice. No man or woman can do everything. We cannot
-as individuals at one and the same time busy ourselves successfully in
-education, philanthropy, political reform, and economic science. But if
-every one would take an active, earnest concern in something, in some
-one thing, and look into it slowly but thoroughly, this man or woman in
-the public schools, this in the methods of municipal government, and
-this in the problems of crime or poverty, reforms would necessarily
-proceed much faster. Just a little work every other day or every week.
-Let it be your hobby if you will, if you have no time for a hobby
-too. If five thousand men in every large city should take an active
-interest in and give a small amount of time in every week to the school
-question, we should soon have excellent public schools; if another five
-thousand would devote themselves to the affairs of municipal government
-in a similar fashion, would there be so much corruption as at present,
-and would so inferior a class of citizens be chosen to be aldermen and
-to fill the other city offices? And so on to the end of the chapter.
-Is not something of the kind the duty of every earnest man and woman?
-Let those who boast of being plain people put this into their pipes and
-smoke it. When the self-styled working-classes are prohibited by law
-from working more than eight hours, will they contribute of their spare
-time to help those who are trying to help them?
-
-American men have the reputation of being considerate husbands and
-indulgent fathers; but they have been apt at all events, until
-recently, to make permission to spend take the place of personal
-comradeship. This has been involuntarily and regretfully ascribed to
-business pressure; but fatalistic remorse is a poor substitute for
-duty, even though the loved ones eat off gold plate and ride in their
-own carriages as a consequence. We Americans who have begotten children
-in the last twenty years do not need to be informed that the time
-given to the society of one’s wife and family is the most precious
-expenditure of all, both for their sakes and our own. But though the
-truth is obvious to us, are we not sometimes conscious at the end of
-the week that the time due us and them has been squandered or otherwise
-appropriated? Those walks and talks, those pleasant excursions from
-city to country, or country to city, those quiet afternoons or evenings
-at home, which are possible to every man and woman who love each other
-and their children, are among the most valuable aids to wise living
-and peace of mind which daily existence affords. Intimacy and warm
-sympathy, precept and loving companionship, are worth all the indulgent
-permission and unexpected cheques in the world. Some people, when
-Sunday or a holiday comes, seem to do their best to get rid of their
-families and to try to amuse themselves apart from them. Such men
-and women are shutting out from their lives the purest oxygen which
-civilization affords; for genuine comradeship of husband and wife, and
-father or mother and child, purges the soul and tends to clear the
-mind’s eye more truly than any other influence.
-
-Lastly and firstly, and in close compact with sweet domesticity and
-faithful friendship, stand the spiritual demands of our natures. We
-must have time to think and meditate. Just as the flowers need the
-darkness and the refreshing dew, the human soul requires its quiet
-hours, its season for meditation and rest. Whatever we may believe,
-whatever doubts we may entertain regarding the mysteries of the
-universe, who will maintain that the aspiring side of man is a delusion
-and an unreality? In the time--often merely minutes--which we give
-to contemplation and serious review of what we are doing, lies the
-secret of the wise plan, if not the execution. To go on helter-skelter
-from day to day without a purpose in our hearts resembles playing a
-hurdy-gurdy for a living without the hope of pence. The use of Sunday
-in this country has changed so radically in the last twenty-five years
-that every one is free to spend it as he will, subject to certain
-restrictions as to sport and entertainment in public calculated to
-offend those who would prefer stricter usages. But whether we choose
-to go to church or not, whether our aspirations are fostered in the
-sanctuary or the fresh air, the eternal needs of the soul must be
-provided for. If we give our spare hours and minutes merely to careless
-amusement, we cannot fail to degenerate in nobility of nature, just
-as we lose the hue of health when we sully the red corpuscles of the
-body with foul air and steam heat. Are we not nowadays, even the plain
-people, God bless them, too much disposed to believe that merely to
-be comfortable and amused and rested is the sole requirement of the
-human soul? It does need rest most of the time in this age of pressure,
-Heaven knows, and comfort and amusement are necessary. But may we not,
-even while we rest and are comfortable, under the blue sky or on the
-peaceful river, if you will, lift up our spirits to the mystery of the
-ages, and reach out once more toward the eternal truths? Merely to be
-comfortable and to get rested once a week will not bring those truths
-nearer. May we not, in the pride of our democracy, afford to turn our
-glances back to the pages of history, to the long line of mighty
-men kneeling before the altar with their eyes turned up to God, and
-the prayer of faith and repentance on their lips? Did this all mean
-nothing? Are we so wise and certain and far-seeing that we need not do
-likewise?
-
-
-
-
-The _Summer Problem_.
-
-I.
-
-
-What is the good American to do with himself or herself in summer?
-The busiest worker nowadays admits that a vacation of a fortnight in
-hot weather is at least desirable. Philanthropy sends yearly more and
-more children on an outing in August, as one of the best contributions
-to the happiness and welfare of the poor. The atmosphere of our large
-cities in midsummer is so lifeless and oppressive that every one who
-can get away for some part of the summer plans to do so, and fathers of
-families find themselves annually confronted by a serious problem.
-
-I specify the father of a family because the problem is so much easier
-for a single man. The single man, and generally the single woman, can
-pack a bag and go to the beach or mountains, or to a hotel within
-easy distance from town, without much premeditation. The worst that
-can happen to them is that they may become engaged without intention;
-besides they can always come home if they are dissatisfied with their
-surroundings. But the family man who lives in a large city finds more
-and more difficulty every year, as the country increases in population,
-in making up his mind how best to provide for the midsummer necessities
-of his wife and children. There are several courses of action open to
-him.
-
-He can remain in town and keep his family there.
-
-He can remain in town himself and send his family to a distance.
-
-He can hire a house or lodgings by the sea or in the country within
-easy reach of town by railroad or steamboat.
-
-He can send his family to a summer hotel at a distance, or take a house
-or lodgings at a distance, making occasional flying trips to and from
-town, according to his opportunities.
-
-To stay in town and keep one’s family there is a far from disagreeable
-experience except in very large cities in unusually hot weather. The
-custom of going away from home in summer is one which has grown by
-force of imitation. The inclination to change one’s surroundings, and
-to give the wife and children a whiff of country or sea or mountain
-air for a few weeks in the course of the year is an ambition which
-is neither godless nor extravagant. But it is not worth while to set
-this necessity up as an idol to be worshipped at the expense of comfort
-for the rest of the year, for, after all, our ancestors successfully
-reared large families of children, including some of us, without going
-away from home in the summer, and “the-can’t-get-aways” in our largest
-and most uncomfortable cities still outnumber those who can and do in
-the proportion of at least five to one. It costs more to go away than
-to stay in town; from which certain native philosophers, who maintain
-that any one who spends more than twenty-five hundred dollars on his
-family in any one year is not a good American, may argue that those who
-have both a summer and a winter home are aristocrats and materialists.
-Their argument is not likely to diminish summer travel, to bankrupt the
-summer hotels, or to induce the well-to-do American citizen to shut
-up his cottage. A change in summer, for a longer or shorter period,
-is generally recognized as one of the most healthful and improving
-advantages which a father in our civilization can give his family and
-himself. On the other hand, to go out of town simply because one’s
-neighbors do, when one cannot afford it, is a pitiful performance.
-
-Moreover, the man who does not send his family out of town from
-motives of economy, has more than a clean conscience to comfort him.
-He can remember that probably one-third of the annual experiments
-in summer culture and health-giving recreation, made by his friends
-and acquaintance, turn out dire failures, and that another one-third
-result in mixed joy and comfort. He can reflect too, if he lives in
-the suburbs of a city, or in a town or small city, that, barring a few
-exceptionally hot days, he and his family are really very comfortable
-at home. Even if his household gods are in a parboiled metropolis, he
-will commonly be able to relieve his tedium and physical discomfort by
-some form of excursion. All our seaboard cities have their midsummer
-Meccas for the multitude in the form of beaches; and even where no
-ocean breezes blow, there is usually close at hand verdure, a lake,
-a grove, or a river where the philosophical soul can forget the
-thermometer, and cease to commiserate with itself on being kept in
-town. One’s own bed is never humpy, and the hollows in it are just
-fitted to one’s bones or adipose developments. One can eat and drink
-in one’s town-house without fear of indigestion or germs. Decidedly
-the happiness of staying at home is not much less than the happiness
-of passing one, two, or three months at a place where everything is
-uncomfortable or nasty, at a cost which one can ill afford, if at all.
-Good city milk and succulent city vegetables are luxuries which are
-rarely to be found at the ordinary summer resort.
-
-It is difficult to convince one’s family of this in advance. Besides,
-man is always to be blessed. We are always hoping that the next summer
-will be a grand improvement on those which have gone before, and
-generally by the first of May we believe, or at least imagine, that we
-have discovered the genuine article--the ideal spot at last. Discovered
-it for our families. The American father has the trick of sending
-his family out of town for the summer, and staying at home himself.
-This had its origin probably in his supposed inability to escape from
-business in the teeth of the family craving to see something of the
-world outside of their own social acquaintance. Yet he acknowledged the
-force of the family argument that with such a large country to explore
-it would be a pity not to explore it; and accordingly he said, “Go,
-and I will join you if and when I can.” Paterfamilias said this long
-ago, and in some instances he has vainly been trying to join them ever
-since. There are all sorts of trying in this world, and perhaps his
-has not been as determined as some; nevertheless, he has maintained
-tolerably well the reputation of trying. The Saturday night trains
-and steamboats all over the country are vehicles, from July first to
-October first, of an army of fathers who are trying successfully to
-join their nearest and dearest at the different summer-resorts of the
-land.
-
-To be separated for three months from one’s wife and children, except
-for a day or two once a fortnight, is scarcely an ideal domestic
-arrangement, in spite of the fact that it is more or less delightful
-for the dear ones to meet new people and see new scenes. The American
-father may not try very hard to leave his city home, but it must be
-admitted that he has been an amiable biped on the score of the summer
-question. He has been and is ready to suffer silently for the sake of
-his family and his business. But now that he has made up his mind at
-last that he prefers to leave his business for the sake of his family
-and his own health, the difficulties of sending them to a distance
-are more apparent to him. Ten or fifteen years ago it dawned upon him
-that the city in summer without his family was not the ideal spot his
-fancy had painted, and that the sea-side and country, especially the
-former, were, after all, the best place for an overworked, full-grown
-man on a summer’s afternoon. It dawned upon him, too, that there was
-sea-coast and country close at hand where he could establish his family
-and refresh himself at the end of every day’s work. Twenty-five years
-ago the marine and attractive suburban environs of our cities were
-substantially unappropriated. To-day they bristle with cottages, large
-and small, the summer homes of city men. Every available promontory,
-island, hill, nook, and crook, which commands a pleasing view or is
-visited by cooling breezes is, or soon will be, occupied. What can a
-busy man do better, if he can afford it, than buy or hire a cottage,
-as humble as you like, to which he can return in the afternoon to the
-bosom of his own family, and be comfortable and lazy until morning?
-
-From the domestic point of view this is assuredly the most satisfactory
-arrangement for the father, and the American paterfamilias, ever since
-the truth dawned upon him, has been prompt in recognizing the fact.
-He has builded, too, according to his taste, whim, and individual
-idiosyncrasies. A sea-side cottage within easy reach of town includes,
-to-day, every variety of shelter from a picturesque villa of the most
-super-civilized type to the hulk of a ship fitted up as a camping-out
-home. To a large extent, too, the hotel has been discarded in favor
-of the domestic hearth, even though the single chimney smokes so that
-tears are perpetually in the domestic eye. The well-to-do city man who
-comes to town every day appreciates that a hotel is a poor place for
-children; consequently the long piazzas, where the terrible infant
-forever used to abound, are now trodden chiefly by visitors from a
-distance and transients who have escaped from the city for a day in
-search of a sea-bath and a clam chowder.
-
-If the summer cottage to which the husband returns at night, is not the
-most satisfactory arrangement for the mother, she must blame herself
-or the civilization in which she lives. The sole argument in favor of
-passing the summer at a hotel is that the wife and mother escapes
-thereby the cares of housekeeping, too often so severe during the rest
-of the year that the prospect of not being obliged to order dinner for
-three months causes her to wake in the night and laugh hysterically.
-Formality and conventional ceremony are the lurking enemies of our
-American summer life, who threaten to deprive our mothers and daughters
-of the rest and vacation from the tension, excitement, and worry
-begotten by nine months of active domestic duties. Simplicity of living
-ought to be the controlling warm-weather maxim of every household where
-the woman at the head of the establishment does the housekeeping, as
-nine thousand nine hundred and ninety-nine women out of ten thousand in
-America do.
-
-It may be argued that greater simplicity in living all the year round
-would enable the wife and mother to do without a vacation. Possibly.
-But unfortunately for her the trend of the tide is all the other way.
-Besides, simplicity is such a difficult word to conjure with. Her
-interests have become so varied that the wear and tear is quite as
-likely to proceed from new mental strivings as from a multiplicity
-of sheer domestic duties. At least there seems to be no immediate
-prospect that she will be less tired in the spring, however exemplary
-her intentions, and it therefore behooves her not to allow the wave of
-increasing luxury to bear her on its crest through the summer and land
-her in her town-house in October a physical and mental wreck.
-
-The external attractiveness of the modern summer cottage, with its
-pleasing angles and comely stains, is easily made an excuse for an
-artistic interior and surroundings to match. But artistic beauty
-in summer can readily be produced without elaboration, and at
-comparatively slight cost, if we only choose to be content with simple
-effects. The bewitching charm of the summer girl, if analyzed, proves
-to be based on a few cents a yard and a happy knack of combining colors
-and trifles. Why need we be solicitous to have all the paraphernalia
-of winter-life--meals with many courses, a retinue of servants, wines,
-festal attire, and splendid entertainments? While we rejoice that
-the promiscuous comradeship of hotel life has largely given place at
-Newport, Bar Harbor, Lenox, and our other fashionable watering-places
-to the pleasant protection of the cottage home, is it not seriously
-deplorable that simplicity is too often lost sight of? To be
-comfortable is one thing, to be swathed in luxury or to be tortured by
-ceremony all the time is another. It seems strange to many of us, who
-cannot choose precisely what we will do and where we will go in summer,
-that those who can so often select a mere repetition of mid-winter
-social recreation.
-
-There is Patterson the banker for instance, the employer of Rogers. He
-can go where he pleases, and he goes to Newport. One can see him any
-afternoon driving augustly on Bellevue Avenue or along the ocean drive,
-well gloved, well shod, and brilliantly necktied, in his landau beside
-Mrs. Patterson. They have been to Newport for years in summer, and
-their house, with its beautiful outlook to sea, has doubled and trebled
-in value. How do they pass their time? Entertain and let themselves be
-entertained. Dinners with formal comestibles, late dances, champagne
-luncheons, _paté de fois gras_ picnics on a coach are their daily
-associations. Mr. and Mrs. Patterson are close upon sixty themselves,
-but they follow--a little more solemnly than formerly, but still
-without stint--the same programme, which grows more and more elaborate
-with each succeeding year. It was there that their youngest daughter
-was married six months ago, with widely heralded splendor, to a
-Russian nobleman who speaks beautiful English. May her lot be a happy
-one! The son, who went through the Keeley cure, and the elder daughter,
-who is separated from her husband, have spent their summers at Newport
-from their youth up.
-
-There are comparatively few who have the means to live, or who do live
-just like Patterson, but there is many a man of fine instincts and with
-a sufficient income to maintain a summer home, who finds himself to-day
-oppressed by the incubus of things. He seeks rest, books, fresh air,
-the opportunity to enjoy nature--the sea, the foliage, the flowers--and
-yet he is harassed by things, the very things he has all winter, with a
-garnishment suitable to hot weather. He wishes to be still; and things
-keep him moving. He yearns to strip off, if not all his clothing, at
-least enough of it to give his lungs and his soul full play; but things
-keep him faultlessly dressed. He intends to slake his thirst only from
-the old oaken bucket or the milk-pail, and things keep his palate
-titillated with champagne and cocktails. Our old-time simplicity in
-summer is perhaps no longer possible in the large watering-places. It
-is even with considerable satisfaction that we don, and see our wives
-and children don, the attractive clothing which has taken the place of
-shirt-sleeves and flannel shirts as articles of toilette; but is it not
-time to cry halt in our procession toward luxury, if we do not wish to
-live on our nerves all the year round?
-
-It is this difficulty in escaping the expenses and the formality of
-city life in the summer cottage or at the summer hotel, almost as
-much as the fact that the desirable locations near town have all been
-taken, which is inclining the American father to send his family
-to a distance. After twenty-five years of exploration the outlying
-beaches and other favorite resorts near our large cities have become
-so thoroughly appropriated that the man who wishes to build or own a
-summer home of his own is obliged to look elsewhere. As a consequence
-cottages have sprung up all along the line of our coast, from the
-farthest confines of Maine to New Jersey, on the shores of the lakes
-of the Middle West, and on the Pacific shore. Many of these are
-of a simple and attractive character, and generally they stand in
-small colonies, large enough for companionship and not too large for
-relaxation. With the similar double purpose of obtaining an attractive
-summer home at a reasonable price, and of avoiding the stock
-watering-place, city families are utilizing also the abandoned farm.
-There is not room for us all on the sea-coast; besides those of us
-whose winter homes are there are more likely to need inland or mountain
-air. There are thousands of beautiful country spots, many of them not
-so very far from our homes, where the run-down farm can be redeemed, if
-not to supply milk and butter, at least to afford a picturesque shelter
-and a lovely landscape during the season when we wish to be out of
-doors as much as possible. A very few changes, a very little painting
-and refurnishing will usually transform the farm-house itself into
-just the sort of establishment which a family seeking rest and quiet
-recreation ought to delight in. You may bring mosquito-frames for the
-windows if you like, and you must certainly test the well-water. Then
-swing your hammock between two apple-trees and thank Providence that
-you are not like so many of your friends and acquaintances, working the
-tread-mill of society in the dog-days.
-
-Of course most men who have homes of this description at a distance
-cannot be with their families all the time. But, on the other hand,
-the conviction that a busy man can do better work in ten or eleven
-months than in twelve, is gaining ground, and most of us, if we only
-choose to, can slip away for at least three weeks. Many of the demands
-of modern civilization on the family purse cannot be resisted without
-leaving the husband and parent a little depressed; but it seems to me
-that a serious item of expense may be avoided, and yet all the genuine
-benefits and pleasures of a change of scene and atmosphere be obtained,
-if we only dismiss from our minds the idea of living otherwise than
-simply. A little house with very little in it, with a modest piazza,
-a skiff or sail-boat which does not pretend to be a yacht, a garden
-hoe and rake, a camera, books and a hammock, a rod which is not too
-precious or costly to break, one nag of plebeian blood and something
-to harness him to, rabbits in the barn and sunflowers in the garden, a
-walk to sunset hill and a dialogue with the harvest moon--why should
-we not set our summer life to such a tune, rather than hanker for the
-neighborhood of the big steam-yacht and polo-ground, for the fringe of
-the fashionable bathing beach, for the dust of the stylish equipage,
-and try in our several ways, and beyond our means, to follow the pace
-which is set for us by others?
-
-
-
-
-The _Summer Problem_.
-
-II.
-
-
-Why? Largely on account of that newly created species, the American
-girl. From solicitude for her happiness and out of deference to her
-wishes. Many a father and mother would be delighted to pass the summer
-on an abandoned farm or in any other spot where it were possible to
-live simply and to be cool, comfortable, and lazy, but for fear of
-disappointing their young people--principally their daughters, who,
-unlike the sons, cannot yet come and go at will. Feminine youth has its
-inherent privileges everywhere, but the gentle sway which it exercises
-in other civilizations has become almost a sour tyranny here. Was there
-ever an American mother who knew anything portrayed in fiction? The
-American daughter is commonly presented as a noble-souled, original
-creature, whose principal mission in life, next to or incidental to
-refusing the man who is not her choice, is to let her own parents
-understand what weak, ignorant, foolish, unenlightened persons they
-are in comparison with the rising generation--both parents in
-some measure, but chiefly and utterly the mother. She is usually
-willing to concede that her father has a few glimmering ideas, and
-a certain amount of sense--horse business sense, not very elevating
-or inspiring--yet something withal. But she looks upon her poor dear
-mother as a feeble-minded individual of the first water. What we read
-in contemporary fiction in this realistic age is apt to be photographed
-from existing conditions. The newly created species of our homes does
-not always reveal these sentiments in so many words; indeed she is
-usually disposed to conceal from her parents as far as possible their
-own shortcomings, believing often, with ostrich-like complacency, that
-they have no idea what she really thinks of them. Quite frequently late
-in life it dawns upon her that they were not such complete imbeciles as
-she had adjudged them, and she revises her convictions accordingly. But
-often she lives superior to the end.
-
-It would be an excellent thing for the American girl if her eyes could
-be definitely opened to the fact that her parents, particularly her
-mother, are much more clever than she supposes, and that they are
-really her best counsellors. But on the other hand, is not the American
-mother herself chiefly responsible for this attitude of loving
-contempt and sweet but unfilial condescension on the part of her own
-flesh and blood? It sometimes seems as though we had fallen victims to
-our reluctance to thwart our children in any way lest we should destroy
-their love for us. But is it much preferable to be loved devotedly as
-foolish, weak, and amiable old things, than to be feared a little as
-individuals capable of exercising authority and having opinions of our
-own?
-
-This yielding, self-abnegating tendency on the part of parents,
-and consequent filial tyranny, are especially conspicuous in the
-case of that arch despot, the summer girl. I admit her fascination
-unreservedly, and am willing to concede that she has run the gauntlet
-of criticism hurled at her by the effete civilizations with an
-unblemished reputation. Though she may have become a little more
-conservative and conventional out of deference to good taste, she is
-still able to be lost in caves or stranded on islands with any young
-man of her acquaintance without bringing a blush to any cheek except
-that of the horror-stricken foreigner. But having admitted this, I
-am obliged to charge her with trampling on the prostrate form of her
-mother from the first of July to the first of October. She does so to
-a certain extent the year round, but the summer is the crowning season
-of her despotism.
-
-The first concern of the American father and mother in making plans for
-the summer is to go to some place which the children will like, and
-the summer girl in particular. This is natural and in keeping with the
-unselfish devotion shown by the present generation of parents toward
-their children. But it is one thing to endeavor to select a place which
-will be satisfactory to one’s eighteen-year-old daughter and another
-to be sweetly hectored by that talented young woman into going to some
-place selected by her of which you entirely disapprove. And just here
-it is that the American mother almost seems to be convicted of the
-feebleness of intellect ascribed to her by the newly created species.
-You, the father, are just screwing your courage up to say that you will
-be blessed if you will go to a summer hotel at Narragansett Pier (or
-wherever it is), when your wife, who has been cowed or cajoled by the
-despot in the interim, flops completely, as the saying is, and joins
-an almost tearful support to the summer girl’s petition. And there you
-are. What are you to do? Daughter and mother, the apple of your eye
-and the angel of your heart, leagued against you. Resistance becomes
-impossible, unless you are ready to incur the reputation of being a
-stony-hearted old curmudgeon.
-
-The summer girl invariably wishes to go where it is gay. Her idea of
-enjoyment does not admit domesticity and peaceful relaxation. She
-craves to be actively amused, if not blissfully excited. It is not
-strange that the tastes and sentiments of young persons from seventeen
-to twenty-three should differ considerably from those of mothers and
-fathers from forty to fifty, and it speaks well for the intelligence
-and unselfishness of middle-aged parents and guardians in this country
-that they so promptly recognize the legitimate claims of youth, and
-even are eager to give young people a chance to enjoy themselves
-before the cares of life hedge them in. But have we not gone to the
-other extreme? Is it meet that we should regard ourselves as moribund
-at fifty, and sacrifice all our own comfort and happiness in order to
-let a young girl have her head, and lead a life in summer of which we
-heartily disapprove? It is not an exaggeration to state that there is a
-growing disposition on the part of the rising hordes of young men and
-girls to regard any one in society over thirty-five as a fossil and an
-encumbrance, for whom, in a social sense, the grave is yawning. It is
-not uncommon to hear a comely matron of forty described as a frump by a
-youth scarcely out of his teens, and every old gentleman of thirty-nine
-has experienced the tactless pity which fashionable maidens under
-twenty-one endeavor to conceal in the presence of his senility.
-
-The summer girl is generally a young person who has been a winter
-girl for nine months. I am quite aware that some girls are much more
-effective in summer than at any other season, and it may be that in
-certain cases they appear to so little advantage in winter that to
-attempt to gratify parental inclinations at their expense would be
-rank unkindness. But it is safe to allege that the average summer
-girl in this country has been doing all she ought to do in the way of
-dancing, prancing, gadding, going, working, and generally spending her
-vital powers in the autumn, winter, and spring immediately preceding,
-and consequently when summer comes needs, quite as much as her
-parents, physical, mental, and moral ozone. But what does she prefer
-to do? Whither is she bent on leading her father by the nose with
-the assistance of her mother? To various places, according to her
-special predilection, and the farthest limit of the parental purse.
-If possible, to one of the gayest watering-places, where she hopes
-to bathe, play tennis, walk, talk, and drive during the day; paddle,
-stroll, or sit out during the evening, and dance until twelve o’clock
-at night two or three times a week. Else to some much-advertised
-mountain cataract or lake resort, to lead a stagnant hotel corridor
-and piazza life, in the fond hope of seeing the vividly imagined Him
-alight from the stage-coach some Saturday night. Meanwhile she is one
-of three-score forlorn girls who haunt the office and make eyes at the
-hotel clerk. The summer girl has a mania for the summer hotel. It seems
-to open to her radiant possibilities. She kindles at the mention of a
-hop in August, and if she is musical, the tinkle of her piano playing
-reverberates through the house all day until the other boarders are
-driven nearly crazy. In the gloaming after supper she flits off from
-the house with her best young man of the moment, and presently her
-mother is heard bleating along the piazza, “My Dorothy has gone without
-her shawl, and will catch her death a cold.”
-
-And so it goes all summer. When autumn comes and the leaf is about
-to fall, and Dorothy returns to town, what has she to show for it?
-A little tan and a callous heart, a promised winter correspondence
-with the hotel clerk, new slang, some knack at banjo-playing, and
-considerable uncertainty in her mind as to whom she is engaged to, or
-whether she is engaged at all. And like as not the doctor is sent for
-to build her up for the winter with cod-liver oil and quinine. There is
-too much ozone at some of these summer hotels.
-
-We cannot hope to do away wholly with either the summer hotel or the
-fashionable watering-place by the assertion of parental authority.
-Such an endeavor, indeed, would on the whole be an unjust as well as
-fruitless piece of virtue. The delightful comradeship between young men
-and young women, which is one of our national products, is typified
-most saliently by the summer girl and her attendant swains. Naturally
-she wishes to go to some place where swains are apt to congregate; and
-the swain is always in search of her. Moreover, the summer hotel must
-continue to be the summer home of thousands who, for one reason or
-another, have no cottage or abandoned farm. My plea is still the same,
-however. Why, now that the negro slave is free, and the workingman is
-being legislated into peace and plenty, and the wrongs of other women
-are being righted, should not the American mother try to burst her
-bonds? It would be a much more simple matter than it seems, for, after
-all, she has her own blood in her veins, and she has only to remember
-what a dogmatic person she herself was in the days of her youth. If the
-code of fathers and mothers, instead of that of girls and boys, were in
-force at our summer hotels and watering-places, a very different state
-of affairs would soon exist; and that, too, without undue interference
-with that inherent, cherished, and unalienable right of the American
-daughter, the maiden’s choice. We must not forget that though our
-civilization boasts the free exercise of the maiden’s choice as one of
-the brightest jewels in the crown of republican liberties, the crowded
-condition of our divorce courts forbids us to be too demonstrative in
-our self-satisfaction.
-
-It would be dire, indeed, to bore the young person, especially the
-summer girl. But does it necessarily follow that a summer home or a
-summer life indicated by the parent would induce such a disastrous
-result? I am advising neither a dungeon, a convent, nor some
-excruciatingly dull spot to which no fascinating youth is likely to
-penetrate. Verily, even the crowded bathing beach may not corrupt,
-provided that wise motherly control and companionship point out the
-dangers and protect the forming soul, mind, and manners, instead of
-allowing them to be distorted and poisoned by the ups and downs of
-promiscuous amatory summer guerilla warfare. But may it not happen,
-when the maternal foot is once firmly put down, that the summer
-girl will not be so easily bored as she or her mother fears, and
-will even be grateful for protection against her own ignorance and
-inexperience? Boating, sketching, riding, reading, bicycling, travel,
-sewing, and photography are pastimes which ought not to bore her, and
-would surely leave her more refreshed in the autumn than continuous
-gadding, dancing, and flirtation. To be a member of a small, pleasant
-colony, where the days are passed simply and lazily, yet interestingly;
-where the finer senses are constantly appealed to by the beauties of
-nature and the healthful character of one’s occupations, is a form of
-exile which many a summer girl would accommodate herself to gladly
-if she only understood what it was like, and understood, moreover,
-that the selection of a summer programme had ceased to be one of her
-prerogatives. A determined man who wishes to marry will discover the
-object of his affections on an abandoned farm or in the heart of the
-Maine woods, if he is worth his salt. In these days of many yachts
-and bicycles true love can travel rapidly, and there is no occasion
-for marriageable girls to select courting-grounds where their lovers
-can have close at hand a Casino and other conveniences, including the
-opportunity to flirt with their next best Dulcineas.
-
-If the summer-time is the time in which to recuperate and lie fallow,
-why should we have so many summer schools? After the grand panjandrum
-of Commencement exercises at the colleges is over, there ought to be
-a pause in the intellectual activity of the nation for at least sixty
-days; yet there seems to be a considerable body of men and women who,
-in spite of the fact that they exercise their brains vigorously during
-the rest of the year, insist on mental gymnastics when the thermometer
-is in the eighties. These schools--chiefly assemblies in the name of
-the ologies and osophies--bring together more or less people more or
-less learned, from all over the country, to talk at one another and
-read papers.
-
-Judging merely from the newspaper accounts of their proceedings, it is
-almost invariably impossible to discover the exact meaning of anything
-which is uttered, but this may be due to the absence of the regular
-reporters on their annual vacations, and the consequent delegation to
-tyros of the difficult duty in question. But even assuming that the
-utterances of the summer schools are both intelligible and stimulating,
-would not the serious-minded men and women concerned in them be better
-off lying in a hammock under a wide-spreading beech-tree, or, if this
-seems too relaxing an occupation, watching the bathers at Narragansett
-Pier? There is wisdom sometimes in sending young and very active boys
-to school for about an hour a day in summer, in order chiefly to
-know where they are and to prevent them from running their legs off;
-but with this exception the mental workers in this country, male and
-female, young and old, can afford to close their text-books with a bang
-on July 1st, and not peep at them again until September. Philosophy in
-August has much the flavor of asparagus in January.
-
-
-
-
-The _Case of Man_.
-
-I.
-
-
-A not inconsiderable portion of the women of the United States is
-inclined to regard man as a necessary evil. Their point of view is
-that he is here, and therefore is likely, for the present at least,
-to remain a formidable figure in human affairs, but that his ways are
-not their ways, that they disapprove of them and him, and that they
-intend to work out their lives and salvation as independently of him
-as possible. What man in the flush and prime of life has not been made
-conscious of this attitude of the modern woman? She is constantly
-passing us in the street with the manner of one haughtily and supremely
-indifferent. There are women enough still who look patterns of modesty,
-and yet let us feel at the same time that we are more or less an object
-of interest to them; but this particular type sails by in her trig
-and often stylish costume with the air not merely of not seeing us,
-but of wishing to ignore us. Her compressed lips suggest a judgment;
-a judgment born of meditated conviction which leaves no hope of
-reconsideration or exception. “You are all substantially alike,” she
-seems to say, “and we have had enough of you. Go your ways and we will
-go ours.”
-
-The Mecca of the modern woman’s hopes, as indicated by this point of
-view, would appear to be the ultimate disappearance of man from the
-face of the earth after the manner of the mastodon and other brutes.
-Nor are her hopes balked by physiological barriers. She is prepared
-to admit that it is not obvious, as yet, how girls alone are to be
-generated and boy babies given the cold maternal shoulder; but she
-trusts to science and the long results of time for a victory which will
-eliminate sexual relations and all their attendant perplexities and
-tragedies from the theatre of human life.
-
-We are not so sanguine as she that the kingdom of heaven is to be
-brought to pass in any so simple and purely feminine a fashion. That
-is, we men. Perhaps we are fatuous, but we see no reason to doubt that
-sexual relations will continue to the crack of doom, in spite of the
-perplexities and tragedies consequent upon them; and moreover, that
-man will continue to thrive like a young bay-tree, even though she
-continues to wear a chip on her tailor-made shoulder. And yet at the
-same time we feel sober. It is not pleasant to be regarded as brutes
-and to have judgment passed upon us by otherwise attractive women. It
-behooves us to scratch our heads and ask ourselves if we can possibly
-merit the haughty indifference and thinly disguised contempt which
-is entertained toward us. To be weighed in the balance and found
-wanting by a serene and beautiful young person is a far from agreeable
-experience. There must be something wrong with us, and if so, what is
-it?
-
-Of course there was a time--and not so very long ago--when men were
-tyrants and kept women under. Nowadays the only thing denied them in
-polite circles is to whisk around by themselves after dark, and plenty
-of them do that. The law is giving them, with both hands, almost
-everything they ask for nearly as rapidly as existing inequalities
-are pointed out, and the right of suffrage is withheld from them only
-because the majority of women are still averse to exercising it. Man,
-the tyrant and highwayman, has thrown up his arms and is allowing woman
-to pick his pockets. He is not willing to have her bore a hole in his
-upper lip, and drag him behind her with a rope, but he is disposed to
-consent to any reasonable legislative changes which she desires to have
-made, short of those which would involve masculine disfigurement or
-depreciation. It certainly cannot be his bullying qualities which have
-attracted her disdain, for he has given in. If woman to-day finds that
-the law discriminates unjustly between her and man, she has merely to
-ask for relief in sufficient numbers to show that she is not the tool
-of designing members of her own sex, in order to obtain it.
-
-Under the spur of these reflections I consulted my wife by way of
-obtaining light on this problem. “Barbara, why is it that modern women
-of a certain type are so sniffy toward men? You know what I mean; they
-speak to us, of course, and tolerate us, and they love us individually
-as husbands and fathers; but instead of counting for everything, as we
-once did, we don’t seem to count for anything unless it be dollars and
-cents. It isn’t merely that you all talk so fast and have so much to
-say without regard to us that we often feel left out in the cold, and
-even hurt, but there is a stern, relentless look on some of your faces
-which makes us feel as though we had stolen the Holy Grail. You must
-have noticed it.”
-
-“Oh, yes,” said Barbara, with a smile. “It doesn’t mean very much. Of
-course times are not what they were. Man used to be a demigod, now he
-is only a----”
-
-Barbara hesitated for a word, so I suggested, “Only a bank.”
-
-“Let us say only a man. Only a man in the eyes of reflective womanhood.
-We have caught up and are beginning to think for ourselves. You can’t
-expect us to hang on your every word and to fall down and worship
-you without reservation as we once did. Man used to be woman’s whole
-existence, often to her infinite sorrow, and now he is only part of it,
-just as she is only a part of his. You go to your clubs; we go to ours;
-and while you are playing cards we read or listen to papers, some of
-which are not intelligible to man. But we love you still, even though
-we have ceased to worship you. There are a few, I admit, who would
-like to do away with you altogether; but they are extremists--in every
-revolution, you know, there are fanatics and unreasonable persons--but
-the vast majority of us have a tender spot for you in our hearts, and
-regard your case in sorrow rather than in anger--and as probably not
-hopeless.”
-
-“What is the matter with us?”
-
-“Oh, everything. You are a failure fundamentally. To begin with,
-your theory of life is founded on compromise. We women--the modern
-woman--abhor compromise.”
-
-Although it was obvious that Barbara was trying to tease me, I realized
-from her expression that she intended to deal my sex a crucial stab
-by the word compromise. I must confess that I felt just a little
-uncomfortable under the white light of scorn which radiated from her
-eyes, while her general air reminded me for the first time disagreeably
-of the type of modern woman to whom I had referred.
-
-“The world progresses by compromise,” I replied, sententiously.
-
-“Yes, like a snail.”
-
-“Otherwise it would stand still. A man thinks so and so; another man
-thinks precisely opposite; they meet each other half-way and so much is
-gained.”
-
-“Oh, I know how they do. A man who stands for a principle meets another
-man; they argue and bluster for a few minutes, and presently they sit
-down and have something to eat or drink, and by the time they separate
-the man who stands for a principle has sacrificed all there is of it,
-except a tiny scrap or shred, in order not to incommode the man who has
-no principles at all; and what is almost worse, they part seemingly
-bosom friends and are apt to exchange rhetorical protestations of
-mutual esteem. The modern woman has no patience with such a way of
-doing things.”
-
-“I suppose,” said I, “that two modern women under similar circumstances
-would tear each other all to pieces; there would be nothing to eat or
-drink, except possibly tea and wafers, and the floor would be covered
-with fragments of skin, hair, and clothing. When they separated one
-would be dead and the other maimed for life, and the principle for
-which the victor stood would be set back about a century and a half.”
-
-Barbara winced a little, but she said, “What have you men accomplished
-all these years by your everlasting compromises? If you were really in
-earnest to solve the liquor problem, and the social evil, as you call
-it, and all the other abuses which exist in civilized and uncivilized
-society, you would certainly have been able to do more than you have.
-You have had free scope; we haven’t been consulted; we have stood
-aside and let you have your innings; now we merely wish to see what
-we can do. We shall make mistakes I dare say; even one or two of us
-may be torn to pieces or maimed for life; but the modern woman feels
-that she has the courage of her convictions and that she does not
-intend to let herself be thwarted or cajoled by masculine theories.
-That accounts largely for our apparent sniffiness. I say ‘apparent,’
-because we are not really at bottom so contemptuous as we seem--even
-the worst of us. I suppose you are right in declaring that the proud,
-superior, and beautiful young person of the present day is a little
-disdainful. But even she is less severe than she looks. She is simply
-a nineteenth-century Joan of Arc protesting against the man of the
-world and his works, asking to be allowed to lead her life without
-molestation from him in a shrine of her own tasteful yet simple
-construction--rooms or a room where she can practise her calling,
-follow her tastes, ambitions, or hobbies, pursue her charities, and
-amuse herself without being accountable to him. She wishes him to
-understand that, though she is attractive, she does not mean to be
-seduced or to be worried into matrimony against her will, and that she
-intends to use her earnings and her property to pay her own bills
-and provide for her own gratification, instead of to defray the debts
-of her vicious or easy-going male relations or admirers. There is
-really a long back account to settle, so it is not surprising that the
-pendulum should swing a little too far the other way. Of course she
-is wrong; woman can no more live wholly independent of man than he of
-her--and you know what a helpless being he would be without her--and
-the modern woman is bound to recognize, sooner or later, that the
-sympathetic companionship of women with men is the only basis of true
-social progress. Sexual affinity is stronger than the constitutions
-of all the women’s clubs combined, as eight out of ten young modern
-women discover to their cost, or rather to their happiness, sooner or
-later. Some brute of a man breaks into the shrine, and before she knows
-it she is wheeling a baby carriage. Even the novelist, with his or
-her fertile invention, has failed to discover any really satisfactory
-ending for the independent, disdainful heroine but marriage or the
-grave. Spinsterhood, even when illumined by a career, is a worthy and
-respectable lot, but not alluring.”
-
-It was something to be assured by my wife that the modern woman does
-not purpose to abolish either maternity or men, and that, so to speak,
-her bark is worse than her bite. Barbara belongs to a woman’s club, so
-she must know. We men are in such a nervous state, as a result of what
-Barbara calls the revolution, that very likely we are unduly sensitive
-and suspicious, and allow our imaginations to fly off at a tangent.
-Very likely, too, we are disposed to be a trifle irritable, for when
-one has been accustomed for long to sit on or club a person (literally
-or metaphorically, according to one’s social status) when she happens
-to express sentiments or opinions contrary to ours, it must needs take
-time to get used to the idea that she is really an equal, and to adjust
-one’s ratiocinations to suit. But even accepting as true the assurance
-that the forbidding air of the modern woman does not mean much, and
-that she loves us still though she has ceased to worship us, we have
-Barbara’s word for it, too, that the modern woman thinks we have made
-a mess of it and that man is a failure fundamentally. Love without
-respect! Sorrow rather than anger! It sobers one; it saddens one. For
-we must admit that man has had free scope and a long period in which
-to make the most of himself; and woman has not, which precludes us
-from answering back, as it were, which is always more or less of a
-consolation when one is brought to bay.
-
-A tendency to compromise is certainly one of man’s characteristics.
-Barbara has referred to it as a salient fault--a vice, and perhaps it
-is, though it is writ large in the annals of civilization as conducted
-by man. We must at least agree that it is not woman’s way, and that she
-expects to do without it when we are no more or are less than we are
-now. Probably we have been and are too easy-going, and no one will deny
-that one ought at all times to have the courage of one’s convictions,
-even in midsummer and on purely social occasions; nevertheless it would
-have been trying to the nervous system and conducive to the continuance
-and increase of standing armies, had we favored the policy of shooting
-at sight those whose views on the temperance question differed from
-ours, or of telling the host at whose house we had passed the evening
-that we had been bored to death.
-
-If one runs over in his mind the Madame Tussaud Gallery of masculine
-types, he cannot fail to acknowledge that, in our capacity of lords
-of creation and viceregents of Providence, we have produced and
-perpetuated a number of sorry specimens. First in the list stands the
-so-called man of the world, on account of whom in particular, according
-to Barbara, the nineteenth-century Joan of Arc looks askance at our
-sex. He is an old stager; he dates back very nearly, if not completely,
-to the garden of Eden, and he has always been a bugbear to woman.
-It is not necessary to describe him; he has ever stood for simply
-carnal interests and appetites, whether as a satyr, a voluptuary, a
-wine-bibber, a glutton, a miser, an idler, or a mere pleasure-seeker.
-If all the human industries which have owed and still owe their
-prosperity to his propensities were to be obliterated, there would be
-a large array of unemployed in the morning but a healthier world. The
-bully, or prevailer by brute force, the snob, the cynic, the parasite,
-the trimmer, and the conceited egotist are others prominent in the
-category, without regard to criminals and unvarnished offenders against
-whose noxious behavior men have protected themselves by positive law.
-
-On the other hand, our gallery of past types has many figures of which
-we have a right to be proud. Unfortunately we are barred again from
-comparison or answering back by the taunt that woman has never had a
-chance; nevertheless we may claim for what it is worth that, in the
-realm of intellect or of the spirit, there have been no women who
-have soared so high; seers, poets, law-givers, unfolders of nature’s
-secrets, administrators of affairs, healers and scholars have been
-chiefly or solely men. If some of us have fraternized with Belial,
-others have walked, or sought to walk, with God no less genuinely
-and fervently than any woman who ever breathed. In the matter of
-spirituality, indeed, some of us in the past having been led to
-believe that women knew more about the affairs of the other world
-than men, sought to cultivate the spindle-legged, thin-chested, pale,
-anæmic Christian as the type of humanity most acceptable to God and
-serviceable to society; but we have gone back to the bishop of sturdy
-frame and a reasonably healthy appetite as a more desirable mediator
-between ourselves and heaven.
-
-From the standpoint of our present inquiry, what man in his various
-types has been in the past is less pertinent than what he is at
-present. To begin with, certainly the modern man is not a picturesque
-figure. He no longer appeals to the feminine or any eye by virtue of
-imposing apparel or accoutrements. Foreign army officers and servants
-in livery are almost the only males who have not exchanged plumage for
-sober woollens, tweeds, or serges, and the varied resplendent materials
-and colors by means of which men used to distinguish themselves from
-one another and to negative their evil-doings in the eyes of women have
-been discarded. All men but one look alike to any woman, and even that
-one is liable to be confounded with the rest of mankind when he is more
-than half a block away.
-
-Nor is the homogeneous tendency limited to clothes; it includes
-manners, morals, and point of view. The extreme types approximate each
-other much more closely than formerly, and apart from criminals and
-deliberately evil-minded persons, women have some ground for their
-insinuation that we are all pretty much alike. Let it be said that this
-effect is in one sense a feather in our caps. The nineteenth-century
-Joan of Arc to the contrary notwithstanding, the modern man of the
-world is a manifest improvement on his predecessor. He is no longer to
-be found under the table after dinner as a social matter of course, and
-three-bottles-to-a-guest festivities have ceased to be an aristocratic
-function. Though on occasions still he will fumble with the latch-key,
-he mounts the stairs very little, if at all, after midnight with the
-nonchalance of self-congratulatory sobriety, and all those dire scenes
-of woman on the staircase with a lighted candle looking down at her
-prostrate lord and master belong to an almost dim past. True it may
-be that the man of the world fears God no more than formerly, but he
-has learned to have a wholesome dread of Bright’s disease, the insane
-asylum, and those varied forms of sudden and premature death which are
-included under the reportorial head of heart-failure. Mere brutishness
-in its various forms is less apparent. The coarse materialist still
-swaggers in public places and impudently puffs a cigar in the face of
-modesty, but he serves no longer as a model for envious contemporaries
-or an object of hero-worship to the rising generation. Good taste, if
-nothing better, has checked man’s tendencies to make a beast of himself
-in public or in private.
-
-Similarly, also, the type of man to whom we look up most proudly and
-confidently to-day is not altogether the same. The model whom we were
-urged, and whom we sought of old to imitate, was he who wrestled with
-God on the mountain-top, without a thought of earth’s smoke and din and
-wretchedness. Human life and its joys and interests served for him as a
-homily on vanity, or was regarded as a degradation in comparison with
-the revelations obtained by the priest, poet, or devotee of culture
-through the vista of aspiring imagination or zeal. The conservative
-man of affairs--vigorous, far-seeing, keenly alive to the joys and
-interests of this life, strongly sympathetic on the humanitarian side,
-a man of the world withal in a reasonable sense--has impressed his
-personality on modern society more successfully than any other type.
-The priest who cares not for his fellow-man, the poet whose dreams and
-visions include no human interest or passion, the devotee of culture
-who refines merely to refine, have been superseded, and in their stead
-we have the man of the world who is interested in the world and for the
-world.
-
-This change in the avowed aims and aspirations of man has not been
-without certain apparently melancholy results and manifestations of
-which society is feeling the effect at present, and which if allowed to
-prevail too far will undo us. The removal of the gaze of the priest,
-poet, and devotee of culture from the stars in contempt of earth, and
-the substitution of earth-gazing as a method for understanding the
-stars, has seemed to cast a damper on human imagination and has thereby
-caused many excellent women and some men to weep. If materialism be
-the science of trying to get the most out of this life, this is a
-material age; but at the same time it should be remembered that man
-in this age has ceased for the first time to be either a hypocrite
-or a fool. Undoubtedly the process of becoming both sincere and
-sensible, especially as it has substituted concern for the ignorant,
-the oppressed, and the vicious of this earth about whom we know next to
-nothing, in place of Pre-Raphaelite heavenly choirs, alabaster halls,
-and saints in glory about whom we thought we knew everything, has been
-a little trying for the rest of us as well as for the priests, poets,
-and devotees of culture. But the women must not be discouraged; we
-shall grow to the situation in time, and even the poets, who seem to be
-most down in the mouth at present, will sooner or later find a fresh
-well of inspiration by learning to study the reflection of the stars on
-the earth instead of looking directly at them. Let them be patient,
-though it be to death, and some day through others, if not through
-themselves, the immortal verse will flow and the immortal lyre sound
-again.
-
-Undoubtedly the modern man is at present a rather trying person to
-woman, for woman would have been glad, now that she is coming into her
-kingdom, to have him more of a crusader and less of a philosopher. To
-behold him lacking in picturesqueness and a philosopher addicted to
-compromise into the bargain is almost irritating to her, and she has
-certainly some ground for criticism. The man who sits opposite to her
-at the breakfast-table, even after he has overcome conservative fears
-of nothing to live on and dawdled into matrimony, is a lovable but not
-especially exciting person. He eats, works, and sleeps, does most of
-the things which he ought to do and leaves undone a commendable number
-of the things which he ought not to do, and is a rather respectable
-member of society of the machine-made order. He works very hard to
-supply her with money; he is kind to her and the children; he gives her
-her head, as he calls it; and he acquiesces pleasantly enough in the
-social plans which she entertains for herself and him, and ordinarily
-he is sleepy in the evening. Indeed, in moments of most serious
-depression she is tempted to think of him as a superior chore-man, a
-comparison which haunts her even in church. She would like, with one
-fell swoop of her broom, to clear the world of the social evil, the
-fruit of the grape, tobacco, and playing cards, to introduce drastic
-educational reforms which would, by kindergarten methods, familiarize
-every one on earth with art and culture, and to bring to pass within
-five, or possibly six years, a golden age of absolute reform inspired
-and established by woman. Life for her at present means one vast camp
-of committee meetings, varied only by frequent cups of tea; and that
-steaming beverage continues prominent in her radiant vision of the
-coming millennium. No wonder it disconcerts and annoys her to find so
-comparatively little enthusiastic confidence in the immediate success
-of her fell swoop, and to have her pathway blocked by grave or lazy
-ifs and buts and by cold contradictions of fact. No wonder she abhors
-compromise; no wonder she regards the man who goes on using tobacco and
-playing cards and drinking things stronger than tea as an inert and
-soulless creature.
-
-Yet smile as we may at the dull, sorry place the world would be were
-the golden age of her intention to come upon us over night like a cold
-wave, is she not justified in regarding the average custom-made man
-of the day as a highly respectable, well-to-do chore-man who earns
-fair wages and goes to sleep at night contented with a good meal and
-a pipe? Is he not machine-made? Sincere and wise as he is, now that
-his gaze is fixed on the needs of earth, has he not the philosophy of
-hygienic comfort and easy-going conservative materialism so completely
-on the brain that he is in danger of becoming ordinary instead of just
-a little lower than the angels? Let us consider him from this point of
-view more in detail.
-
-
-
-
-The _Case of Man_.
-
-II.
-
-
-The young man of the present era on his twenty-first birthday is
-apt to find himself in a very prudent and conservative atmosphere.
-The difficulties of getting on are explained to him; he is properly
-assured that, though there is plenty of room on the top benches, the
-occupations and professions are crowded, if not overcrowded, and that
-he must buckle down if he would succeed. It is obvious to him that the
-field of adventure and fortune-seeking in foreign or strange places
-is practically exhausted. It is open to him, to be sure, to go to
-the North Pole in search of some one already there, or to study in a
-cage in the jungles of Africa the linguistic value of the howls and
-chatterings of wild animals; but these are manifestly poor pickings
-compared with the opportunities of the past when a considerable
-portion of the globe was still uninvestigated soil, and a reputation
-or treasure-trove was the tolerably frequent reward of leaving the
-rut of civilized life. It is plainly pointed out to him, too, that to
-be florid is regarded as almost a mental weakness in intellectual or
-progressive circles. He sees the lawyer who makes use of metaphor,
-bombast, and the other arts of oratory, which used to captivate and
-convince, distanced in the race for eminence by him who employs a
-succinct, dispassionate, and almost colloquial form of statement.
-He recognizes that in every department of human activity, from the
-investigation of disease-germs to the management of railroads, steady,
-undemonstrative marshallings of fact, and cautious, unemotional
-deduction therefrom are considered the scientific and only appropriate
-method. He knows that the expression of unusual or erratic ideas will
-expose him to the stigma of being a crank, a reputation which, once
-acquired, sticks like pitch, and that the betrayal of sentiment will
-induce conservative people to put him on the suspected list.
-
-All this is imbibed by him as it should be, in the interest of
-sincerity and sense. Under the sobering restraint of it the young man
-begins to make his way with enthusiasm and energy, but circumspectly
-and deliberately. He mistrusts everything that he cannot pick to
-pieces on the spot and analyze, and though he is willing to be amused,
-beguiled, or even temporarily inspired by appeals to his imagination
-or emotions, he puts his doubts or qualms aside next morning at the
-behest of business. He wishes to get on. He is determined not to allow
-anything to interfere with that, and he understands that that is to
-be accomplished partly by hard work and partly by becoming a good
-fellow and showing common-sense. This is excellent reasoning until one
-examines too closely what is expected of him as a good fellow, and what
-is required of him in the name of common-sense.
-
-There have been good fellows in every age, and some of them have
-been tough specimens. Our good fellow is almost highly respectable.
-He wishes to live as long as he can, and to let others live as long
-as they can. His patron saints are his doctor, his bank account,
-prudence, and general toleration. If he were obliged to specify the
-vice not covered by the statute law which he most abhors, he would
-probably name slopping over. He aims to be genial, sympathetic, and
-knowing, but not obtrusively so, and he is becomingly suspicious
-and reticent regarding everything which cannot be demonstrated on
-a chart like an international yacht-race or a medical operation.
-He is quietly and moderately licentious, and justifies himself
-satisfactorily but mournfully on hygienic grounds or on the plea of
-masculine inevitability. He works hard, if he has to, for he wishes
-to live comfortably by the time he is forty, and comfort means, as it
-ought to mean, an attractive wife, an attractive establishment, and
-an attractive income. An imprudent marriage seems to him one of the
-most egregious forms of slopping over. If he hears that two of his
-contemporaries are engaged, his first inquiry is, “What have they to
-live on?” and if the answer is unsatisfactory, they fall a peg or two
-in his estimation, and he is likely, the next time he feels mellow
-after dinner, to descant on the impropriety of bringing children into
-the world who may be left penniless orphans. If he falls in love
-himself before he feels that his pecuniary position warrants it, he
-tries to shake out the arrow, and, if that fails, he cuts it out
-deliberately under antiseptic treatment to avoid blood-poisoning.
-All our large cities are full of young men who have undergone this
-operation. To lose one’s vermiform appendix is a perilous yet blessed
-experience; but this trifling with the human heart, however scientific
-the excision, can scarcely be regarded as beneficial unless we are to
-assume that it, like the fashionable sac, has become rudimentary.
-
-We see a great many allusions in our comic and satiric weeklies to
-marrying for money, but the good fellow of the best type ordinarily
-disdains such a proceeding. His self-respect is not offended but hugely
-gratified if the young woman with whom he intends to ally himself
-would be able immediately or prospectively to contribute a million or
-so to the domestic purse; but he would regard a deliberate sale of
-himself for cash as a dirty piece of business. On the other hand, he is
-very business-like where his heart is engaged, and is careful not to
-let his emotions or fancy get the better of him until he can see his
-ship--and a well-freighted one at that--on the near horizon. And what
-is to become of the young woman in the meantime? To let concealment,
-like a worm in the bud, feed on a damask cheek may be more fatal than
-masculine arrow extraction; for woman, less scientific in her methods
-than man, is less able to avoid blood-poisoning. She doses herself,
-probably, with anti-pyrine, burns her Emerson and her Tennyson, and
-after a period of nervous prostration devotes herself to charity toward
-the world at large with the exception of all good fellows.
-
-The good fellow after he marries continues to be a good fellow. He
-adapts himself to the humanitarian necessities of the situation; he
-becomes fond and domestic, almost oppressively so, and he is eager
-to indulge the slightest wish or fancy of his mate, provided it be
-within the bounds of easy-going rationalism. The conjugal pliability
-of the American husband is a well-recognized original feature of
-our institutions, nevertheless he is apt to develop kinks unless
-he be allowed to be indulgent and companionable in his own way. He
-works harder than ever, and she for whose sake he is ostensibly
-toiling is encouraged to make herself fetching and him comfortable as
-progressively as his income will permit. When the toil of the week
-is over he looks for his reward in the form of a Welsh-rarebit with
-theatrical celebrities, a little game of poker within his means, or,
-if he be musical, a small gathering of friends to sing or play, if
-possible in a so-called Bohemian spirit. It irks him to stand very
-upright or to converse for long, whether in masculine or feminine
-society. He likes to sprawl and to be entertained with the latest bit
-of humor, but he is willing, on a pleasant Sunday or holiday, to take
-exercise in order to perspire freely, and then to lie at ease under
-a tree or a bank, pleasantly refreshed with beer and tobacco, and at
-peace with the world. He prefers to have her with him everywhere,
-except at the little game of poker, and is conscious of an aching void
-if she be not at hand to help him recuperate, philosophize, and admire
-the view. But he expects her to do what he likes, and expects her to
-like it too.
-
-In no age of the world has the reasoning power of man been in better
-working order than at present. With all due respect to the statistics
-which show that the female is beginning to outstrip the male in
-academic competitive examinations, one has only to keep his ears and
-eyes open in the workaday world in order to be convinced that man’s
-purely mental processes suggest a razor and woman’s a corkscrew.
-The manager of corporate interests, the lawyer, the historian, the
-physician, the chemist, and the banker seek to-day to probe to the
-bottom that which they touch, and to expose to the acid of truth
-every rosy theory and seductive prospectus. This is in the line of
-progress; but to be satisfied with this alone would speedily reduce
-human society to the status of a highly organized racing stable. If man
-is to be merely a jockey, who is to ride as light as he can, there
-is nothing to be said; but even on that theory is it not possible to
-train too fine? With eloquence tabooed as savoring of insincerity,
-with conversation as a fine art starved to death, with melody in
-music sniffed at as sensational, and fancy in literature condemned as
-unscientific, with the loosening of all the bonds of conventionality
-which held civilization to the mark in matters of taste and elegance,
-and with a general doing away with color and emotion in all the
-practical affairs of life out of regard to the gospel of common-sense
-and machine-made utility, the jockey now is riding practically in his
-own skin.
-
-One has to go back but a little way in order to encounter among
-the moving spirits of society a radically different attitude.
-Unquestionably the temper of the present day is the result of a
-vigorous reaction against false or maudlin sentiment, florid drivel,
-and hypocritical posturing; but certainly a Welsh-rarebit at midnight,
-with easy-going companions, is a far remove as a spiritual stimulus
-from bread eaten in tears at the same hour. As has been intimated,
-this exaggeration of commonplaceness will probably right itself in
-time, but man’s lack of susceptibility to influences and impressions
-which cannot be weighed, fingered, smelt, looked at, or tasted, seems
-to justify at present the strictures of the modern woman, who, with
-all her bumptiousness, would fain continue to reverence him. Some in
-the van of feminine progress would be glad to see the inspiration and
-direction of all matters--spiritual, artistic, and social--apportioned
-to woman as her sole rightful prerogative, and consequently to see man
-become veritably a superior chore-man. Fortunately the world of men
-and women is likely to agree with Barbara that mutual sympathy and
-co-operation in these matters between the sexes are indispensable to
-the healthy development of human society.
-
-But even assuming that women were ready to accept the responsibility
-and men were willing to renounce it, I, for one, fear that civilization
-would find itself in a ditch rather speedily. All of us--we men, I
-mean--recognize the purifying and deterrent influence of woman as
-a Mentor and sweet critic at our elbows. We have learned to depend
-upon her to prod us when we lag, and to save us from ourselves when
-our brains get the better of our hearts. But, after all, woman is a
-clinging creature. She has been used to playing second fiddle; and it
-is quite a different affair to lead an orchestra. To point the way to
-spiritual or artistic progress needs, first of all, a clear intellect
-and a firm purpose, even though they alone are not sufficient. Woman is
-essentially yielding and impressionable. At the very moment when the
-modern Joan of Arc would be doing her best to make the world a better
-place, would not eleven other women out of the dozen be giving way to
-the captivating plausibility of some emotional situation?
-
-As an instance of what she is already capable of from a social point
-of view, now that she has been given her head, may well be cited the
-feverish eagerness with which some of the most highly cultivated
-and most subtly evolved American women of our large cities vie with
-each other for intimacy with artistic foreign lions of their own sex
-known to be unchaste. They seem to regard it as a privilege to play
-hostess to, or, at least, to be on familiar terms with, actresses,
-opera-singers, and other public characters quietly but notoriously
-erotic, the plea in each case being that they are ready to forgive,
-to forget, and ignore for the sake of art and the artist. Yes, ignore
-or forget, if you choose, so far as seeing the artist act or hearing
-her sing in public is concerned, where there are no social ceremonies
-or intercourse; but let us please remember at the same time that
-even those effete nations who believe that the world would be a dull
-place without courtesans, insist on excluding such persons from their
-drawing-rooms. Indeed there is reason to believe that some of the
-artists in question have become hilarious, when out of sight of our
-hospitable shores, over the wonders of American social usages among
-the pure and cultivated women. Before our young men will cease to
-sow wild oats their female relations must cease to run after other
-men’s mistresses. Decidedly, the modern Joan of Arc to the contrary
-notwithstanding, man cannot afford to abdicate just yet. But he needs
-to mend his hedges and to look after his preserves.
-
-
-
-
-The _Case of Woman_.
-
-I.
-
-
-A great many men, who are sane and reasonable in other matters, allow
-themselves, on the slightest provocation, to be worked up into a fever
-over the aspirations of woman. They decline to listen to argument,
-grow red in the face, and saw the air with their hands, if they do
-not pound on the table, to express their views on the subject--which,
-by the way, are as out of date and old-fashioned as a pine-tree
-shilling. They remind one of the ostrich in that they seem to imagine,
-because they have buried their heads in the sand, nothing has happened
-or is happening around them. They confront the problem of woman’s
-emancipation as though it were only just being broached instead of in
-the throes of delivery.
-
-For instance, my friend, Mr. Julius Cæsar, who though a conservative,
-cautious man by nature, is agreeably and commendably liberal in other
-matters, seems to be able to see only one side of this question. And
-one side seems to be all he wishes to see. “Take my wife,” he said
-to me the other day; “as women go she is a very clever and sensible
-woman. She was given the best advantages in the way of school-training
-open to young ladies of her day; she has accomplishments, domestic
-virtues, and fine religious instincts, and I adore her. But what does
-she know of politics? She couldn’t tell you the difference between a
-senator and an alderman, and her mind is practically a blank on the
-tariff or the silver question. I tell you, my dear fellow, that if
-woman is allowed to leave the domestic hearth and play ducks and drakes
-with the right of suffrage, every political caucus will become a retail
-drygoods store. If there is one thing which makes a philosopher despair
-of the future of the race, it is to stand in a crowded drygoods store
-and watch the jam of women perk and push and sidle and grab and covet
-and go well-nigh crazy over things to wear. The average woman knows
-about clothes, the next world, children, and her domestic duties. Let
-her stick to her sphere. A woman at a caucus? Who would see that my
-dinner was properly cooked, eh?”
-
-One would suppose from these remarks that the male American citizen
-spends his days chiefly at caucuses; whereas, as we all know when we
-reflect, he goes perhaps twice a year, if he be a punctilious patriot
-like Julius Cæsar, and if not, probably does not go at all. If the
-consciousness that his wife could vote at a caucus would act as a spur
-to the masculine political conscience, the male American citizen could
-well afford to dine at a restaurant on election-days, or to cook his
-own food now and then.
-
-Of course, even a man with views like Julius Cæsar would be sorry to
-have his wife the slavish, dollish, or unenlightened individual which
-she was apt to be before so-called women’s rights were heard of. As
-he himself has proclaimed, he adores his wife, and he is, moreover,
-secretly proud of her æsthetic presentability. Without being an
-advanced woman, Dolly Cæsar has the interests of the day and hour at
-her fingers’ ends, can talk intelligently on any subject, whether
-she knows anything about it or not, and is decidedly in the van,
-though she is not a leader. Julius does not take into account, when
-he anathematizes the sex because of its ambitions, the difference
-between her and her great-grandmother. He believes his wife to be a
-very charming specimen of what a woman ought to be, and that, barring
-a few differences of costume and hair arrangement, she is practically
-her great-grandmother over again. Fatuous Julius! There is where he is
-desperately in error. Dolly Cæsar’s great-grandmother may have been a
-radiant beauty and a famous housekeeper, but her brain never harbored
-one-tenth of the ideas and opinions which make her descendant so
-attractive.
-
-Those who argue on this matter like Julius Cæsar fail to take into
-account the gradual, silent results of time; and this is true of the
-results to come as well as those which have accrued. When the suffrage
-question is mooted one often hears sober men, more dispassionate men
-than Julius--Perkins, for instance, the thin, nervous lawyer and father
-of four girls, and a sober man indeed--ask judicially whether it is
-possible for female suffrage to be a success when not one woman in a
-thousand would know what was expected of her, or how to vote. “I tell
-you,” says Perkins, “they are utterly unfitted for it by training and
-education. Four-fifths of them wouldn’t vote if they were allowed to,
-and every one knows that ninety-nine women out of every hundred are
-profoundly ignorant of the matters in regard to which they would cast
-their ballots. Take my daughters; fine girls, talented, intelligent
-women--one of them a student of history; but what do they know of
-parties, and platforms, and political issues in general?”
-
-Perkins is less violently prejudiced than Julius Cæsar. He neither
-saws the air nor pounds on the table. Indeed, I have no doubt he
-believes that he entertains liberal, unbiassed views on the subject.
-I wonder, then, why it never occurs to him that everything which is
-new is adopted gradually, and that the world has to get accustomed to
-all novel situations. I happened to see Mr. Perkins the first time he
-rode a bicycle on the road, and his performance certainly justified
-the prediction that he would look like a guy to the end of his days,
-and yet he glides past me now with the ease and nonchalance of a
-possible “scorcher.” Similarly, if women were given universal suffrage,
-there would be a deal of fluttering in the dove-cotes for the first
-generation or so. Doubtless four-fifths of womankind would refuse or
-neglect to vote at all, and at least a quarter of those who went to the
-polls would cast their ballots as tools or blindly. But just so soon as
-it was understood that it was no less a woman’s duty to vote than it
-was to attend to her back hair, she would be educated from that point
-of view, and her present crass ignorance of political matters would be
-changed into at least a form of enlightenment. Man prides himself on
-his logic, but there is nothing logical in the argument that because a
-woman knows nothing about anything now, she can never be taught. If we
-have been content to have her remain ignorant for so many centuries,
-does it not savor both of despotism and lack of reasonableness to cast
-her ignorance in her teeth and to beat her about the head with it now
-that she is eager to rise? Decidedly it is high time for the man who
-orates tempestuously or argues dogmatically in the name of conservatism
-against the cause of woman on such flimsy pleas as these, to cease his
-gesticulations and wise saws. The modern woman is a potential reality,
-who is bound to develop and improve, in another generation or two, as
-far beyond the present interesting type as Mrs. Julius Cæsar is an
-advance on her great-grandmother.
-
-On the other hand, why do those who have woman’s cause at heart lay
-such formal stress on the right of the ballot as a factor in her
-development? There can be no doubt that, if the majority of women
-wish to vote on questions involving property or political interests,
-they will be enabled to do so sooner or later. It is chiefly now the
-conviction in the minds of legislatures that a large number of the
-intelligent women of their communities do not desire to exercise the
-right of suffrage which keeps the bars down. Doubtless these bodies
-will yield one after another to the clamor of even a few, and the
-experiment will be tried. It may not come this year or the next, but
-many busy people are so certain that its coming is merely a question of
-time that they do not allow themselves to be drawn into the fury of the
-fray. When it comes, however, it will come as a universal privilege,
-and not with a social or property qualification. I mention this
-simply for the enlightenment of those amiable members of the sex to
-be enfranchised who go about sighing and simpering in the interest of
-drawing the line. That question was settled a century ago. The action
-taken may have been an error on the part of those who framed the laws,
-but it has been settled forever. There would be no more chance of the
-passage by the legislature of one of the United States of a statute
-giving the right of suffrage to a limited class of women than there
-would be of one prescribing that only the good-looking members of that
-sex should be allowed to marry.
-
-Many people, who believe that woman should be denied no privilege
-enjoyed by man which she really desires to exercise, find much
-difficulty in regarding the right of suffrage as the vital end which
-it assumes in the minds of its advocates. One would suppose, by the
-clamor on the subject, that the ballot would enable her to change her
-spots in a twinkling, and to become an absolutely different creation.
-Lively imaginations do not hesitate to compare the proposed act of
-emancipation with the release of the colored race from bondage. We are
-appealed to by glowing rhetoric which celebrates the equity of the case
-and the moral significance of the impending victory. But the orators
-and triumphants stop short at the passage of the law and fail to tell
-us what is to come after. We are assured, indeed, that it will be all
-right, and that woman’s course after the Rubicon is crossed will be
-one grand march of progress to the music of the spheres; but, barring
-a pæan of this sort, we are given no light as to what she intends to
-do and become. She has stretched out her hand for the rattle and is
-determined to have it, but she does not appear to entertain any very
-definite ideas as to what she is going to do with it after she has it.
-
-Unquestionably, the development of the modern woman is one of the most
-interesting features of civilization to-day. But is it not true that
-the cause of woman is one concern, and the question of woman suffrage
-another? And are they not too often confounded, even deliberately
-confounded, by those who are willing to have them appear to be
-identical? Supposing that to-morrow the trumpet should sound and the
-walls of Jericho fall, and every woman be free to cast her individual
-ballot without let or hindrance from one confine of the civilized world
-to another, what would it amount to after all by way of elucidating
-the question of her future evolution? For it must be remembered that,
-apart from the question of her development in general, those who are
-clamoring for the ballot have been superbly vague so far as to the
-precise part which the gentle sex is to play in the political arena
-after she gets her rattle. They put their sisters off with the general
-assertion that things in the world, politically speaking, will be
-better, but neither their sisters nor their brothers are able to get a
-distinct notion of the platform on which woman means to stand after she
-becomes a voter. Is she going to enter into competition with men for
-the prizes and offices, to argue, manipulate, hustle, and do generally
-the things which have to be done in the name of political zeal and
-activity? Is it within the vista of her ambition to become a member of,
-and seek to control, legislative bodies, to be a police commissioner or
-a member of Congress? Those in the van decline to answer, or at least
-they do not answer. It may be, to be sure, the wisdom of the serpent
-which keeps them non-committal, for they stand, as it were, between the
-devil and the deep sea in that, though they and their supporters would
-perhaps like to declare boldly in favor of competition, or at least
-participation, in the duties and honors, they stand in wholesome awe of
-the hoarse murmur from the ranks of their sisters, “We don’t wish to be
-like men, and we have no intention of competing with them on their own
-lines.” Accordingly, the leaders seek refuge in the safe but indefinite
-assertion that of course women will never become men, but they have
-thus far neglected to tell us what they are to become.
-
-It really seems as though it were time for woman, in general congress
-of the women’s clubs assembled, to make a reasonably full and clear
-statement of her aims and principles--a declaration of faith which
-shall give her own sex and men the opportunity to know precisely
-what she is driving at. Her progress for the last hundred years has
-been gratifying to the world, with the exception of pig-headed or
-narrow-minded men, and civilization has been inestimably benefitted by
-the broadening of her intelligence and her interests. But she has now
-reached a point where there is a parting of the ways, and the world
-would very much like to know which she intends to take. The atmosphere
-of the women’s clubs is mysterious but unsuggestive, and consequently
-many of us feel inclined to murmur with the poet, “it is clever, but
-we don’t know what it means.” Unrepressed nervous mental activity
-easily becomes social affectation or tomfoolery, in the absence of a
-controlling aim or purpose. To exhaust one’s vitality in papers or
-literary teas, merely to express or simulate individual culture or
-freedom, may not land one in an insane asylum, but it is about as
-valuable to society, as an educating force, as the revolutions of
-the handle of a freezer, when the crank is off, are valuable to the
-production of ice-cream. For the benefit of such a congress, if haply
-it should be called together later, it will not be out of place to
-offer a few suggestions as to her future evolution. In this connection
-it seems to me imperative to go back to the original poetic conception
-of woman as the wife and mother, the domestic helpmate and loving,
-self-abnegating companion of man. Unedifying as this formula of
-description may seem to the active-minded modern woman, it is obvious
-that under existing physiological conditions she must remain the wife
-and mother, even though she declines to continue domestic, loving, and
-self-abnegating. And side by side with physiological conditions stands
-the intangible, ineffable force of sexual love, the poetic, entrancing
-ecstasy which no scientist has yet been able to reduce to a myth or to
-explode. Schopenhauer, to be sure, would have us believe that it is
-merely a delusion by which nature seeks to reproduce herself, but even
-on this material basis the women’s clubs find themselves face to face
-with an enemy more determined than any Amazon. A maid deluded becomes
-the sorriest of club members.
-
-What vision of life is nobler and more exquisite than that of complete
-and ideal marital happiness? To find it complete and ideal the modern
-woman, with all her charms and abilities, must figure in it, I grant;
-the mere domestic drudge; the tame, amiable house-cat; the doting doll,
-are no longer pleasing parties of the second part. To admit so much as
-this may seem to offer room for the argument that the modern woman of a
-hundred years hence will make her of the poet’s dream of to-day appear
-no less pitiable; but there we men are ready to take issue. We admit
-our past tyranny, we cry “Peccavi,” yet we claim at the same time that,
-having taken her to our bosoms as our veritable, loving companion and
-helpmate, there is no room left, or very little room left, for more
-progress in that particular direction. Her next steps, if taken, will
-be on new lines, not by way of making herself an equal. And therefore
-it is that we suggest the vision of perfect modern marital happiness
-as the leading consideration to be taken into account in dealing with
-this question. Even in the past, when woman was made a drudge and
-encouraged to remain a fool, the poetry and joy and stimulus of life
-for her, as well as for her despot mate, lay in the mystery of love,
-its joys and responsibilities. Even then, if her life were robbed of
-the opportunity to love and be loved, its savor was gone, however free
-she might be from masculine tyranny and coercion. Similarly, after
-making due allowance for the hyperbole as to the influence which woman
-has on man when he has made up his mind to act to the contrary, there
-is no power which works for righteousness upon him comparable to the
-influence of woman. There is always the possibility that the woman a
-man loves may not be consciously working for righteousness, but the
-fact that he believes so is the essential truth, even though he be
-the victim of self-delusion. This element of the case is pertinent to
-the question whether woman would really try to reform the world, if
-she had the chance, rather than to this particular consideration. The
-point of the argument is that the dependence of each sex on the other,
-and the loving sympathy between them, which is born of dissimilarity,
-is the salt of human life. The eternal feminine is what we prize in
-woman, and wherever she deflects from this there does her power wane
-and her usefulness become impaired. And conversely, the more and the
-higher she advances along the lines of her own nature, the better for
-the world. Nor does the claim that she has been hampered hitherto, and
-consequently been unable to show what her attributes really are, seem
-relevant; for it is only when she develops in directions which threaten
-to clash with the eternal feminine that she encounters opposition or
-serious criticism. And here even the excitability and unreasonableness
-of such men as our friend Julius Cæsar find a certain justification.
-Their fumes and fury, however unintelligent, proceed from an
-instinctive repugnance to the departure or deviation from nature which
-they find, or fear to find, in the modern woman. Once let them realize
-that there was no danger of anything of the kind, and they would become
-gentle as doves, if not all smiles and approval.
-
-There is no more beautiful and refining influence in the world than
-that of an attractive and noble woman. Unselfishness, tenderness,
-aspiring sentiment, long-suffering devotion, grace, tact, and
-quickly divining intelligence are her prerogatives, and she stands
-an ever-watchful guardian angel at the shoulder of man. The leading
-poetic and elevating associations of life are linked with her name. The
-lover’s passion, the husband’s worship, the son’s reverential affection
-are inspired by her. The strong man stays his hand and sides with mercy
-or honor when his mother speaks within him. In homelier language, she
-is the keeper of the hearth and home, the protector and trainer of her
-children, the adviser, consoler, and companion of her husband, father,
-son, brother, or other masculine associates.
-
-Now, the modern woman, up to this point, has been disposed, on the
-whole, to regard this as the part which she is to play in the drama of
-life. At least she has not materially deviated from it. Her progress
-has been simply in the way of enabling her to play that part more
-intelligently and worthily, and not toward usurpation, excepting that
-she claims the right to earn her daily bread. Higher education in its
-various branches has been the most signal fruit of her struggle for
-enlightenment and liberty, and this is certainly in entire keeping with
-the eternal feminine, and to-day seems indispensable to her suitable
-development. By means of education similar to that lavished upon man
-she has been enabled, it is true, to obtain employment of various
-kinds hitherto withheld from her, but the positions of professor,
-teacher, nurse, artist, and clerk, are amplifications of her natural
-aptitudes rather than encroachments. She has, however, finally reached
-the stage where she will soon have to decide whether the hearth and
-the home or down-town is to be the principal theatre of her activity
-and influence. Is she or is she not to participate with man in the
-tangible, obvious management of the affairs of the world?
-
-
-
-
-The _Case of Woman_.
-
-II.
-
-
-The mystic oracles of the women’s clubs do not give a straightforward
-answer to this question. Yet there are mutterings, mouthings, and
-signs from them which tend to arouse masculine suspicions. To use
-a colloquialism, woman fancies herself very much at present, and
-she spends considerable time in studying the set of her mind in the
-looking-glass. And her serenity is justified. In spite of ridicule,
-baiting, and delay for several generations, she has demonstrated her
-ability and fitness to do a number of things which we had adjudged her
-incapable of doing. She can almost take care of herself in the street
-after dark. She has become a most valuable member of committees to
-ameliorate the condition of the poor, the sick, and the insane. She has
-become the president and professors of colleges founded in her behalf.
-The noble and numerous army of teachers, typewriters, salesladies,
-nurses, and women doctors (including Christian Scientists), stands as
-ample proof of her intention and capacity to strike out for herself.
-No wonder, perhaps, that she is a little delirious and mounted in the
-head, and that she is tempted to exclaim, “Go to, I will do more than
-this. Why should I not practise law, and sell stocks, wheat, corn, and
-exchange, control the money markets of the world, administer trusts,
-manage corporations, sit in Congress, and be President of the United
-States?”
-
-The only things now done by man which the modern woman has not yet
-begun to cast sheep’s eyes at are labor requiring much physical
-strength and endurance, and military service. She is prepared to admit
-that she can never expect to be so muscular and powerful in body as
-man. But this has become rather a solace than a source of perplexity
-to her. Indeed, the women’s clubs are beginning to whisper under their
-breath, “Man is fitted to build and hew and cut and lift, and to do
-everything which demands brute force. We are not. We should like to
-think, plan, and execute. Let him do the heavy work. If he wishes to
-fight he may. Wars are wicked, and we shall vote against them and
-refuse to take part in them.”
-
-If woman is going in for this sort of thing, of course she needs
-the ballot. If she intends to manage corporations and do business
-generally, she ought to have a voice in the framing of the laws
-which manifest the policy of the state. But to earn one’s living as
-a college professor, nurse, typewriter, saleslady, or clerk, or to
-sit on boards of charity, education, or hygiene, is a far remove from
-becoming bank presidents, merchants, judges, bankers, or members of
-Congress. The one affords the means by which single women can earn a
-decent and independent livelihood, or devote their energies to work
-useful to society; the other would necessitate an absolute revolution
-in the habits, tastes, interests, proclivities, and nature of woman.
-The noble army of teachers, typewriters, nurses, and salesladies are in
-the heels of their boots hoping to be married some day or other. They
-have merely thrown an anchor to windward and taken up a calling which
-will enable them to live reasonably happy if the right man does not
-appear, or passes by on the other side. Those who sit on boards, and
-who are more apt to be middle-aged, are but interpreting and fulfilling
-the true mission of the modern woman, which is to supplement and modify
-the point of view of man, and to extend the kind of influence which
-she exercises at home to the conduct of public interests of a certain
-class.
-
-Now, some one must keep house. Some one must cook, wash, dust, sweep,
-darn, look after the children, and in general grease the wheels of
-domestic activity. If women are to become merchants, and manage
-corporations, who will bring up our families and manage the home?
-The majority of the noble army referred to are not able to escape
-from making their own beds and cooking their own breakfasts. If they
-occupied other than comparatively subordinate positions they would
-have to call Chinatown to the rescue; for the men would decline with
-thanks, relying on their brute force to protect them, and the other
-women would toss their heads and say “Make your own beds, you nasty
-things. We prefer to go to town too.” In fact the emancipation of
-women, so far as it relates to usurpation of the work of man, does
-not mean much in actual practice yet, in spite of the brave show and
-bustle of the noble army. The salesladies get their meals somehow,
-and the domestic hearth is still presided over by the mistress of
-the house and her daughters. But this cannot continue to be the case
-if women are going to do everything which men do except lift weights
-and fight. For we all know that our mothers, wives, and sisters,
-according to their own affidavits, have all they can do already to
-fulfil the requirements of modern life as mothers, wives, and sisters
-in the conventional yet modern sense. Many of them tell us that they
-would not have time to vote, to say nothing of qualifying themselves
-to vote. Indisputably they cannot become men and yet remain women in
-the matter of their daily occupations, unless they discover some new
-panacea against nervous prostration. The professions are open; the laws
-will allow them to establish banks and control corporate interests; but
-what is to become of the eternal feminine in the pow-wow, bustle, and
-materializing rush and competition of active business life? Whatever
-a few individuals may do, there seems to be no immediate or probably
-eventual prospect of a throwing off by woman of domestic ties and
-duties. Her physical and moral nature alike are formidable barriers in
-the way.
-
-Why, then, if women are not going to usurp or share to any great extent
-the occupations of men, and become familiar with the practical workings
-of professional, business, and public affairs, are they ever likely to
-be able to judge so intelligently as men as to the needs of the state?
-To hear many people discuss the subject, one would suppose that all
-the laws passed by legislative bodies were limited to questions of
-ethics and morality. If all political action were reduced to debates
-and ballots on the use of liquor, the social evil, and other moral
-or humanitarian topics, the claim that women ought to be allowed and
-encouraged to vote would be much stronger--that is, assuming that she
-herself preferred to use her influence directly instead of indirectly.
-But the advocates of female suffrage seem to forget that three-fifths
-of the laws passed relate to matters remotely if at all bearing upon
-ethics, and involve considerations of public policy from the point of
-view of what is best for the interests of the state and the various
-classes of individuals which compose it. We do not always remember
-in this age of afternoon teas and literary papers that the state is
-after all an artificial body, a form of compact under which human
-beings agree to live together for mutual benefit and protection.
-Before culture, æstheticism, or even ethics can be maintained there
-must be a readiness and ability to fight, if the necessity arises, and
-a capacity to do heavy work. Moreover, there must be ploughed fields
-and ship-yards and grain-elevators and engines and manufactories, and
-all the divers forms and phases of industrial and commercial endeavor
-and enterprise by which men earn their daily bread. If woman is going
-to participate in the material activities of the community she will
-be fit to deal with the questions which relate thereto, but otherwise
-she must necessarily remain unable to form a satisfactory judgment as
-to the merits of more than one-half the measures upon which she would
-be obliged to vote. Nor is it an argument in point that a large body
-of men is in the same predicament. Two evils do not make a benefit.
-There is a sufficient number of men conversant with every separate
-practical question which arises to insure an intelligent examination
-of it. The essential consideration is, what would the state gain, if
-woman suffrage were adopted, except an enlarged constituency of voters?
-What would woman, by means of the ballot, add to the better or smoother
-development of the social system under which we live?
-
-Unless the eternal feminine is to be sacrificed or to suffer, it
-seems to me that her sole influence would be an ethical or moral one.
-There are certainly strong grounds for the assumption that she would
-point the way to, or at least champion, the cause of reforms which
-man has perpetually dilly-dallied with and failed to do battle for.
-To be sure, many of her most virtuous endeavors would be likely to be
-focussed on matters where indulgences and weaknesses chiefly masculine
-were concerned--such as the liquor problem; but an alliance between
-her vote and that of the minority of men would probably be a blessing
-to the world, even though she showed herself somewhat a tyrant or a
-fanatic. Her advocacy of measures calculated to relieve society of
-abuses and curses, which have continued to afflict it because men have
-been only moderately in earnest for a change, could scarcely fail to
-produce valuable results. Perhaps this is enough in itself to outweigh
-the ignorance which she would bring to bear on matters which did not
-involve ethical or humanitarian principles; and it is indisputably
-the most legitimate argument in favor of woman suffrage. The notion
-that women ought to vote simply because men do is childish and born
-of vanity. On the other hand, if the state is to be a gainer by her
-participation in the perplexities of voting, the case takes on a very
-different aspect.
-
-I have been assuming that the influence of woman would be in behalf
-of ethics, but my wife Barbara assures me that I am thereby begging
-the question. She informs me that I have too exalted an idea of
-woman and her aims. She has confided to me that, though there is a
-number of noble and forceful women in every community, the general
-average, though prolific of moral and religious advice to men by way
-of fulfilling a sort of traditional feminine duty, is at heart rather
-flighty and less deeply interested in social progress than my sex.
-This testimony, taken in connection with the reference of Julius Cæsar
-to the disillusioning effect of a crowd of women in a drygoods store,
-introduces a new element into the discussion. Frankly, my estimate of
-women has always been high, and possibly unduly exalted. It may be
-I have been deceived by the moral and religious advice offered into
-believing that women are more serious than they really are. Reflection
-certainly does cause one to recollect that comparatively few women
-like to dwell on or to discuss for more than a few minutes any serious
-subject which requires earnest thought. They prefer to skim from one
-thing to another like swallows and to avoid dry depths. Those in the
-van will doubtless answer that this is due to the unfortunate training
-which woman has been subjected to for so many generations. True, in a
-measure; but ought she not, before she is allowed to vote, on the plea
-of bringing benefit to the state as an ethical adviser, to demonstrate
-by more than words her ethical superiority?
-
-We all know that women drink less intoxicating liquor than men, and
-are less addicted to fleshly excesses. Yet the whole mental temper
-and make-up of each sex ought to be taken into account in comparing
-them together; and with all the predisposition of a gallant and
-susceptible man to say the complimentary thing, I find myself asking
-the question whether the average woman does not prefer to jog along
-on a worsted-work-domestic-trusting-religious-advice-giving basis,
-rather than to grapple in a serious way with the formidable problems
-of living. At any rate I, for one, before the right of suffrage is
-bestowed upon her, would like to be convinced that she as a sex is
-really earnest-minded. If one stops to think, it is not easy to show
-that, excepting where liquor, other women, and rigid attendance at
-church are concerned, she has been wont to show any very decided bent
-for, or interest in, the great reforms of civilization--that is,
-nothing to distinguish her from a well-equipped and thoughtful man. It
-is significant, too, that where women in this country have been given
-the power to vote in local affairs, they have in several instances
-shown themselves to be more solicitous for the triumph of a religious
-creed or faction than to promote the public welfare.
-
-It is extremely probable, if not certain, that the laws of all
-civilized states will eventually be amended so as to give women the
-same voice in the affairs of government as men. But taking all the
-factors of the case into consideration, there seems to be no pressing
-haste for action. Even admitting for the sake of argument that woman’s
-apparent lack of seriousness is due to her past training, and that
-she is really the admirably earnest spirit which one is lured into
-believing her until he reflects, there can assuredly be no question
-that the temper and proclivities of the very large mass of women are
-not calculated at present to convict man of a lack of purpose by virtue
-of shining superiority in persevering mental and moral aggressiveness.
-Not merely the drygoods counter and the milliner’s store with their
-engaging seductions, but the ball-room, the fancy-work pattern, the
-sensational novel, nervous prostration, the school-girl’s giggle, the
-tea-pot without food, and a host of other tell-tale symptoms, suggest
-that there is a good deal of the old Eve left in the woman of to-day.
-And bless her sweet heart, Adam is in no haste to have it otherwise.
-Indeed, the eternal feminine seems to have staying qualities which bid
-fair to outlast the ages.
-
-
-
-
-The _Conduct of Life_.
-
-I.
-
-
-Now that more than a century has elapsed since our independence as
-a nation was accomplished, and we are sixty million strong, what do
-we stand for in the world? What is meant by the word American, and
-what are our salient qualities as a people? What is the contribution
-which we have made or are making to the progress of society and the
-advancement of civilization?
-
-There certainly used to be, and probably there is, no such egregiously
-patriotic individual in the world as an indiscriminately patriotic
-American, and there is no more familiar bit of rhetoric extant than
-that this is the greatest nation on earth. The type of citizen who
-gave obtrusive vent to this sentiment, both at home and abroad, is
-less common than formerly; nevertheless his clarion tones are still
-invariably to be heard in legislative assemblies when any opportunity
-is afforded to draw a comparison between ourselves and other nations.
-His extravagant and highfalutin boastings have undoubtedly been the
-occasion of a certain amount of seemingly lukewarm patriotism on the
-part of the educated and more intelligent portion of the American
-public, an attitude which has given foreigners the opportunity to
-declare that the best Americans are ashamed of their own institutions.
-But that apparent disposition to apologize already belongs to a past
-time. No American, unless a fool, denies to-day the force of the
-national character, whatever he or she may think of the behavior of
-individuals; and on the other hand, is it not true that every State
-in the Union has a rising population of young and middle-aged people
-who have discovered, Congress and the public schools to the contrary
-notwithstanding, that we do not know everything, and that the pathway
-of national progress is more full of perplexities than our forests
-were of trees when Daniel Boone built his log cabin in the wilds of
-Kentucky? In short, the period of unintelligent jubilation on one
-side, and carping cynicism on the other, have given place to a soberer
-self-satisfaction. We cannot--why should we?--forget that our territory
-is enormous, and that we soon shall be, if we are not already, the
-richest nation on earth; that the United States is the professed asylum
-and Mecca of hope for the despondent and oppressed of other countries;
-and that we are the cynosure of the universe, as being the most
-important exemplification of popular government which the world has
-ever seen. At the same time, the claims put forth by our progenitors,
-that American society is vastly superior to any other, and that the
-effete world of Europe is put to the blush by the civic virtues of
-the land of the free and the home of the brave, are no longer urged
-except for the purposes of rodomontade. The average American of fifty
-years ago--especially the frontiersman and pioneer, who swung his
-axe to clear a homestead, and squirted tobacco-juice while he tilled
-the prairie--really believed that our customs, opinions, and manner
-of living, whether viewed from the moral, artistic, or intellectual
-standpoint, were a vast improvement on those of any other nation.
-
-But though most of us to-day recognize the absurdity of such a view,
-we are most of us at the same time conscious of the belief that there
-is a difference between us and the European which is not imaginary,
-and which is the secret of our national force and originality.
-International intercourse has served to open our eyes until they
-have become as wide as saucers, with the consequence that, in
-hundreds of branches of industry and art, we are studying Old World
-methods; moreover, the pioneer strain of blood has been diluted by
-hordes of immigrants of the scum of the earth. In spite of both these
-circumstances, our faith in our originality and in the value of it
-remains unshaken, and we are no less sure at heart that our salient
-traits are noble ones, than the American of fifty years ago was sure
-that we had the monopoly of all the virtues and all the arts. He really
-meant only what we mean, but he had an unfortunate way of expressing
-himself. We have learned better taste, and we do not hesitate nowadays
-to devote our native humor to hitting hard the head of bunkum, which
-used to be as sacred as a Hindoo god, and as rife as apple-blossoms in
-this our beloved country.
-
-What is the recipe for Americanism--that condition of the system
-and blood, as it were, which even the immigrant without an ideal to
-his own soul, seems often to acquire to some extent as soon as he
-breathes the air of Castle Garden? It is difficult to define it in
-set speech, for it seems almost an illusive and intangible quality
-of being when fingered and held up to the light. It seems to me to
-be, first of all, a consciousness of unfettered individuality coupled
-with a determination to make the most of self. One great force of
-the American character is its naturalness, which proceeds from a
-total lack of traditional or inherited disposition to crook the knee
-to any one. It never occurs to a good American to be obsequious. In
-vulgar or ignorant personalities this point of view has sometimes
-manifested itself, and continues to manifest itself, in swagger or
-insolence, but in the finer form of nature appears as simplicity
-of an unassertive yet dignified type. Gracious politeness, without
-condescension on the one hand, or fawning on the other, is noticeably
-a trait of the best element of American society, both among men and
-women. Indeed, so valuable to character and ennobling is this native
-freedom from servility, that it has in many cases in the past made odd
-and unconventional manner and behavior seem attractive rather than a
-blemish. Unconventionality is getting to be a thing of the past in this
-country, and the representative American is at a disadvantage now, both
-at home and abroad, if he lacks the ways of the best social world; he
-can no longer afford to ignore cosmopolitan usages, and to rely solely
-on a forceful or imposing personality; the world of London and Paris,
-of New York and Washington and Chicago, has ceased to thrill, and is
-scarcely amused, if he shows himself merely in the guise of a splendid
-intellectual buffalo. But the best Americanism of to-day reveals itself
-no less distinctly and unequivocally in simplicity bred of a lack of
-self-consciousness and a lack of servility of mind. It seems to carry
-with it a birthright of self-respect, which, if fitly worn, ennobles
-the humblest citizen.
-
-This national quality of self-respect is apt to be associated with
-the desire for self-improvement or success. Indeed, it must engender
-it, for it provides hope, and hope is the touchstone of energy. The
-great energy of Americans is ascribed by some to the climate, and
-it is probably true that the nervous temperaments of our people are
-stimulated by the atmospheric conditions which surround us; but is it
-not much more true that, just as it never occurs to the good American
-to be servile, so he feels that his outlook upon the possibilities
-of life is not limited or qualified, and that the world is really
-his oyster? To be sure, this faith has been fostered by the almost
-Aladdin-like opportunities which this great and rich new country of
-ours has afforded. But whatever the reason for our native energy and
-self-reliance, it indisputably exists, and is signally typical of the
-American character. We are distinctly an ambitious, earnest people,
-eager to make the most of ourselves individually, and we have attracted
-the attention of the world by force of our independent activity of
-thought and action. The extraordinary personality of Abraham Lincoln
-is undoubtedly the best apotheosis yet presented of unadulterated
-Americanism. In him the native stock was free from the foreign
-influences and suggestions which affected, more or less, the people of
-the East. His origin was of the humblest sort, and yet he presented
-most saliently in his character the naturalness, nobility, and aspiring
-energy of the nation. He made the most of himself by virtue of unusual
-abilities, yet the key-note of their influence and force was a noble
-simplicity and farsighted independence. In him the quintessence of the
-Americanism of thirty years ago was summed up and expressed. In many
-ways he was a riddle at first to the people of the cities of the East
-in that, though their soul was his soul, his ways had almost ceased to
-be their ways; but he stands before the world to-day as the foremost
-interpreter of American ideas and American temper of thought as they
-then existed.
-
-In the thirty years since the death of Abraham Lincoln the country has
-been inundated with foreign blood. Irish, Germans, English, Poles, and
-Scandinavians, mainly of the pauper or peasant class, have landed in
-large numbers, settled in one State or another, and become a part of
-the population. The West, at the time of the Civil War, was chiefly
-occupied by settlers of New England or Eastern stock--pioneers from the
-older cities and towns who had sought fortune and a freer life in the
-new territory of prairies and unappropriated domain. The population
-of the whole country to-day bears many different strains of blood in
-its veins. The original settlers have chiefly prospered. The sons of
-those who split rails or followed kindred occupations in the fifties,
-and listened to the debates between Lincoln and Douglas, are the
-proprietors of Chicago, Denver, Cincinnati, Minneapolis, and Topeka.
-Johann Heintz now follows the plough and in turn squirts tobacco-juice
-while he tills the prairie; and Louis Levinsky, Paul Petrinoff, and
-Michael O’Neil forge the plough-shares, dig in the mine, or work in
-the factory side by side with John Smith and any descendant of Paul
-Revere who has failed to prosper in life’s battle. But this is not
-all. Not merely are the plain people in the dilemma of being unable
-to pronounce the names of their neighbors, but the same is getting to
-be true of the well-to-do merchants and tradespeople of many of our
-cities. The argus-eyed commercial foreigner has marked us for his own,
-and his kith and kin are to-day coming into possession of our drygoods
-establishments, our restaurants, our cigar stores, our hotels, our
-old furniture haunts, our theatres, our jewelry shops, and what not.
-One has merely to open a directory in order to find the names in any
-leading branch of trade plentifully larded with Adolph Stein, Simon
-Levi, Gustave Cohen, or something ending in berger. They sell our
-wool; they float our loans; they manufacture our sugar, our whiskey,
-and our beer; they influence Congress. They are here for what they can
-make, and they do not waste their time in sentiment. They did not come
-in time to reap the original harvest, but they have blown across the
-ocean to help the free-born American spend his money in the process of
-trying to out-civilize Paris and London. As a consequence, the leading
-wholesale and retail ornamental industries of New York and of some
-of our Western cities are in the grip of individuals whose surnames
-have a foreign twang. Of course, they have a right to be here; it is
-a free country, and no one can say them nay. But we must take them
-and their wives and daughters, their customs and their opinions, into
-consideration in making an estimate of who are the Americans of the
-present. They have not come here for their health, as the phrase is,
-but they have come to stay. We at present, in our social hunger and
-thirst, supply the grandest and dearest market of the world for the
-disposal of everything beautiful and costly and artistic which the Old
-World possesses, and all the shopkeepers of Europe, with the knowledge
-of generations on the tips of their tongues and in the corners of their
-brains, have come over to coin dowries for their daughters in the land
-of the free and the home of the brave. Many of them have already made
-large fortunes in the process, and are beginning to con the pages of
-the late Ward McAllister’s book on etiquette with a view to social
-aggressiveness.
-
-Despite this infusion of foreign blood, the native stock and the
-Anglo-Saxon nomenclature are still, of course, predominant in numbers.
-There are some portions of the country where the late immigrant is
-scarcely to be found. True also is it that these late-comers, like
-the immigrants of fifty years ago, have generally been prompt in
-appropriating the independent and energetic spirit typical of our
-people. But there is a significant distinction to be borne in mind
-in this connexion: The independent energy of the Americans of fifty
-years ago, whether in the East or among the pioneers of the Western
-frontier, was not, however crude its manifestations, mere bombastic
-assertiveness, but the expression of a faith and the expression of
-strong character. They were often ignorant, conceited, narrow, hard,
-and signally inartistic; but they stood for principle and right as they
-saw and believed it; they cherished ideals; they were firm as adamant
-in their convictions; and God talked with them whether in the store or
-workshop, or at the plough. This was essentially true of the rank and
-file of the people, no less true and perhaps more true of the humblest
-citizens than of the well-to-do and prominent.
-
-There can be little doubt that the foreign element which is now a part
-of the American people represents neither a faith nor the expression
-of ideals or convictions. The one, and the largest portion of it, is
-the overflow and riff-raff of the so-called proletariat of Europe;
-the other is the evidence of a hyena-like excursion for the purposes
-of plunder. In order to be a good American it is not enough to become
-independent and energetic. The desire to make the most of one’s self
-is a relative term; it must proceed from principle and be nourished
-by worthy, ethical aims; otherwise it satisfies itself with paltry
-conditions, or with easy-going florid materialism. The thieving and
-venality in municipal political affairs of the Irish-American, the dull
-squalor and brutish contentment of the Russian-Pole, and the commercial
-obliquity of vision and earthy ambitions of the German Jew, are factors
-in our national life which are totally foreign to the Americanism for
-which Abraham Lincoln stood. We have opened our gates to a horde of
-economic ruffians and malcontents, ethical bankrupts and social thugs,
-and we must needs be on our guard lest their aims and point of view be
-so engrafted on the public conscience as to sap the vital principles
-which are the foundation of our strength as a people. The danger from
-this source is all the greater from the fact that the point of view
-of the American people has been changed so radically during the last
-thirty years as a secondary result of our material prosperity. We have
-ceased to be the austere nation we once were, and we have sensibly
-let down the bars in the manner of our living; we have recognized the
-value of, and we enjoy, many things which our fathers put from them
-as inimical to republican virtue and demoralizing to society. Contact
-with older civilizations has made us wiser and more appreciative, and
-with this growth of perspective and the acquirement of an eye for
-color has come a liberality of sentiment which threatens to debauch us
-unless we are careful. There are many, especially among the wealthy and
-fashionable, who in their ecstasy over our emancipation are disposed
-to throw overboard everything which suggests the old _régime_, and to
-introduce any custom which will tend to make life more easy-going and
-spectacular. And in this they are supported by the immigrant foreigner,
-who would be only too glad to see the land of his adoption made to
-conform in all its usages to the land of his birth.
-
-The conduct of life here has necessarily and beneficially been affected
-by the almost general recognition that we have not a monopoly of all
-the virtues, and by the adoption of many customs and points of view
-recommended by cosmopolitan experience. The American people still
-believe, however, that our civilization is not merely a repetition
-of the older ones, and a duplication on new soil of the old social
-tread-mill. That it must be so in a measure every one will admit, but
-we still insist, and most of us believe, that we are to point the way
-to a new dispensation. We believe, but at the same time when we stop to
-think we find some difficulty in specifying exactly what we are doing
-to justify the faith. It is easy enough to get tangled up in the stars
-and stripes and cry “hurrah!” and to thrust the American eagle down the
-throats of a weary universe, but it is quite another to command the
-admiration of the world by behavior commensurate with our ambition and
-self-confidence. Our forefathers could point to their own nakedness
-as a proof of their greatness, but there seems to be some danger that
-we, now that we have clothed ourselves--and clothed ourselves as
-expensively as possible and not always in the best taste--will forget
-the ideas and ideals for which those fathers stood, and let ourselves
-be seduced by the specious doctrine that human nature is always human
-nature, and that all civilizations are alike. To be sure, an American
-now is apt to look and act like any other rational mortal, and there is
-no denying that the Atlantic cable and ocean greyhound have brought the
-nations of the world much closer together than they ever were before;
-but this merely proves that we can become just like the others, only
-worse, in case we choose to. But we intend to improve upon them.
-
-To those who believe that we are going to improve upon them it must be
-rather an edifying spectacle to observe the doings and sayings of that
-body of people in the city of New York who figure in the newspapers of
-the day as “the four hundred,” “the smart set,” or “the fashionable
-world.” After taking into full account the claims of the sensitive
-city of Chicago, it may be truthfully stated that the city of New
-York is the Paris of America. There are other municipalities which
-are doing their best in their several ways to rival her, but it is
-toward New York that all the eyes in the country are turned, and from
-which they take suggestion as a cat laps milk. The rest of us are in a
-measure provincial. Many of us profess not to approve of New York, but,
-though we cross ourselves piously, we take or read a New York daily
-paper. New York gives the cue alike to the Secretary of the Treasury
-and (by way of London) to the social swell. The ablest men in the
-country seek New York as a market for their brains, and the wealthiest
-people of the country move to New York to spend the patrimony which
-their rail-splitting fathers or grandfathers accumulated. Therefore
-it is perfectly just to refer to the social life of New York as
-representative of that element of the American people which has been
-most blessed with brains or fortune, and as representative of our most
-highly evolved civilization. It ought to be our best. The men and
-women who contribute to its movement and influence ought to be the
-pick of the country. But what do we find? We find as the ostensible
-leaders of New York society a set of shallow worldlings whose whole
-existence is given up to emulating one another in elaborate and
-splendid inane social fripperies. They dine and wine and dance and
-entertain from January to December. Their houses, whether in town or
-at the fashionable watering-places to which they move in summer, are
-as sumptuous, if not more so, than those of the French nobility in its
-palmiest days, and their energies are devoted to the discovery of new
-expensive luxuries and fresh titillating creature comforts. That such
-a body of people should exist in this country after little more than
-a century of democratic institutions is extraordinary, but much more
-extraordinary is the absorbing interest which a large portion of the
-American public takes in the doings and sayings of this fashionable
-rump. There is the disturbing feature of the case. Whatever these
-worldlings do is flashed over the entire country, and is copied into a
-thousand newspapers as being of vital concern to the health and home of
-the nation. The editors print it because it is demanded; because they
-have found that the free-born American citizen is keenly solicitous to
-know “what is going on in society,” and that he or she follows with
-almost feverish interest and with open-mouthed absorption the spangled
-and jewelled annual social circus parade which goes on in the Paris of
-America. The public is indifferently conscious that underneath this
-frothy upper-crust in New York there is a large number of the ablest
-men and women of the country by whose activities the great educational,
-philanthropic, and artistic enterprises of the day have been fostered,
-promoted, and made successful; but this consciousness pales into
-secondary importance in the democratic mind as compared with realistic
-details concerning this ball and that dinner-party where thousands
-of dollars are poured out in vulgar extravagance, or concerning the
-cost of the wedding-presents, the names and toilettes of the guests,
-and the number of bottles of champagne opened at the marriage of some
-millionaire’s daughter.
-
-No wonder that this aristocracy of ours plumes itself on its
-importance, and takes itself seriously when it finds its slightest
-doings telegraphed from the Atlantic to the Pacific. It feels itself
-called to new efforts, for it understands with native shrewdness that
-the American people requires novelty and fresh entertainment, or it
-looks elsewhere. Accordingly it is beginning to be unfaithful to its
-marriage vows. Until within a recent period the husbands and wives
-of this vapid society have, much to the bewilderment of warm-blooded
-students of manners and morals, been satisfied to flirt and produce the
-appearance of infidelity, and yet only pretend. Now the divorce court
-and the whispered or public scandal bear frequent testimony to the fact
-that it is not so fashionable or “smart” as it used to be merely to
-make believe.
-
-Was there ever a foreign court, when foreign courts were in their
-glory, where men and women were content merely to whisper and giggle
-behind a rubber-tree in order to appear vicious? It may be said at
-least that some of our fashionables have learned to be men and women
-instead of mere simpering marionettes. Still there was originality in
-being simpering marionettes: Marital infidelity has been the favorite
-excitement of every rotten aristocracy which the world has ever seen.
-
-
-
-
-The _Conduct of Life_.
-
-II.
-
-
-A manner of life of this description can scarcely be the ideal of
-the American people. Certainly neither George Washington, when he
-delivered his farewell address, nor Abraham Lincoln, on the occasion
-of his second inaugural, looked forward to the evolution of any such
-aristocracy as the fulfilment of the nation’s hopes. And yet this
-coterie of people has its representatives in all the large cities of
-the country, and there is no reason to doubt that in a short time the
-example set will be imitated to some extent, at least, and that one
-portion of the country will vie with another in extravagant social
-vanities and prodigal display on the part of a pleasure-seeking leisure
-class.
-
-Most of these people go to church, and, indeed, some of them are
-ostensibly regardful of church functions and ceremonies, and, as they
-do not openly violate any laws so as to subject themselves to terms of
-imprisonment, the patriotic American citizen finds himself able merely
-to frown by way of showing his dissatisfaction at this form of high
-treason against the morals and aims of democracy. To frown and to be
-grateful that one is not like certain pleasure-seeking millionaires
-is not much of a comfort, especially when it is obvious that the
-ignorant and semi-ignorant mass is fascinated by the extravagances and
-worldly manifestations of the individuals in question, and has made
-them its heroes on account of their unadulterated millions. Indeed,
-the self-respecting, patriotic American citizen finds himself to-day
-veritably between Scylla and Charybdis in the matter of the conduct
-of life. We are no longer the almost homogeneous nation we were fifty
-years ago. There are far greater extremes of wealth and poverty. Our
-economic conditions, or at least the conditions which exist in our
-principal cities, are closely approximating those which exist in the
-cities of the Old World. Outside of our cities the people for the most
-part live in respectable comfort by the practice of what passes in
-America for economy, which may be defined as a high but ignorant moral
-purpose negatived by waste and domestic incompetence. It has always
-been true of our beloved country that, though the ship of state has
-seemed on the point of floundering from time to time, disaster has
-invariably been averted at critical junctures by the saving grace of
-the common-sense and right-mindedness of the American people. This is
-not so complimentary as it sounds. It really means that the average
-sense and intelligence of the public is apt to be in the wrong at the
-outset, and to be converted to the right only after many days and much
-tribulation. In other words, our safety and our progress have been the
-result of a slow and often reluctant yielding of opinion by the mass
-to the superior judgment of a minority. This is merely another way of
-stating that, where every one has a right to individual opinion, and
-there are no arbitrary standards of conduct or of anything else outside
-the statute law, the mean is likely to fall far short of what is
-best. Our salvation in every instance of national perplexity has been
-the effectual working on the public conscience of the leaven of the
-best Americanism. A comparatively small proportion of the population
-have been the pioneers in thought and suggestion of subsequent ardent
-espousals by the entire public. This leaven, in the days when we were
-more homogeneous, was made up from all the elements of society; or, in
-other words, the best Americanism drew its representatives from every
-condition of life; the farmer of the Western prairie was just as likely
-to tower above his fellows and become a torch-bearer as the merchant or
-mechanic of the city.
-
-If we as a nation have needed a leaven in the past, we certainly have
-no less need of one to-day, now that we are in the flush of material
-prosperity and consciousness of power. Fortunately we have one. The
-public-spirited, nobly independent, earnest, conscientious, ambitious
-American exists to-day as indisputably and unmistakably as ever, and
-he is a finer specimen of humanity than he used to be, for he knows
-more and he poses much less. It is safe to assert, too, that he is
-still to be found in every walk of our national life. The existence
-of an aggravating and frivolous aristocracy on the surface, and an
-ignorant, unæsthetic mass underneath should not blind us to the fact
-that there is a sound core to our social system. The hope of the United
-States to-day lies in that large minority of the people who are really
-trying to solve the problems of life from more than a merely selfish
-standpoint. One has merely to think a moment in order to realize
-what a really numerous and significant body among us is endeavoring
-to promote the cause of American civilization by aspiring or decent
-behavior. Our clergymen, our lawyers, our doctors, our architects,
-our merchants, our teachers, some of our editors, our bankers, our
-scientists, our scholars, and our philanthropists, at once stand out as
-a generally sane and earnest force of citizens. The great educational,
-charitable, artistic, and other undertakings which have been begun and
-splendidly completed by individual energy and liberality since the
-death of Abraham Lincoln, bespeak eloquently the temper of a certain
-portion of the community. If it be true that the so-called aristocracy
-of New York City threatens the repute and sincerity of democracy
-by its heartlessness and unworthy attempts to ape the vices of a
-fifteenth-century European nobility, New York can fairly retort that
-it offers in its working force of well-to-do people the most vital,
-interesting, sympathetic, and effective force of men and women in the
-nation. If the Paris of America contains the most dangerous element
-of society, it also contains an element which is equal to the best
-elsewhere, and is more attractive than any. The New York man or woman
-who is in earnest is sure to accomplish something, for he or she is
-not likely to be handicapped by ignorant provincialism of ethics or art
-which plays havoc with many of the good intentions of the rest of the
-country.
-
-This versatile and interesting leaven of American society finds its
-counterpart, to a greater or less extent, in every section of the
-United States, but it is nowhere quite so attractive as in the Paris
-of America, for the reason that nowhere does the pulse of life move so
-keenly as there, and nowhere is the science of living absorbingly so
-well understood. The art of living has there reached a more interesting
-phase than in any part of America, if zest in life and the facilities
-to make the most of it are regarded as the test.
-
-This may sound worldly. The people of the United States used to
-consider it worldly to admire pictures or to listen to beautiful music.
-Some think so still. Many a citizen of what was lately the prairie
-sits down to his dinner in his shirt-sleeves to-day and pretends to
-be thankful that he is neither an aristocrat nor a gold-bug. The next
-week, perhaps, this same citizen will vote against a national bankrupt
-law because he does not wish to pay his debts, or vote for a bill
-which will enable him to pay them in depreciated currency. Many a
-clergyman who knows better gives his flock consolingly to understand
-that to be absorbed in the best human interests of life is unworthy
-of the Christian, and that to be ordinary and unattractive is a
-legitimate condition of mind and body. Surely the best Americanism is
-the Americanism of the man or woman who makes the most of what this
-life affords, and throws himself or herself keenly into the thick of
-it. The art of living is the science of living nobly and well, and
-how can one live either nobly or well by regarding life on the earth
-as a mere log-cabin existence? If we in this country who seek to live
-wisely are in danger from the extravagant vanities of the very rich,
-we are scarcely less menaced by that narrow spirit of ethical teaching
-which tries to inculcate that it does not much matter what our material
-surroundings are, and that any progress made by society, except in the
-direction of sheer morality, is a delusion and a snare.
-
-Character is the basis and the indispensable requisite of the finest
-humanity; without it refinement, appreciation, manners, fancy, and
-power of expression are like so many boughs on a tree which is dead.
-But, on the other hand, what is more uninspiring than an unadorned
-soul? That kind of virtue and morality which finds no interest in the
-affairs of this life is but a fresh contribution to the sum of human
-incompetence, and but serves to retard the progress of civilization.
-The true and the chief reason why there is less misery in the world
-than formerly is that men understand better how to live. That
-straight-laced type of American, who is content to be moral in his own
-narrow way, and to exclude from his scheme of life all those interests
-which serve to refine and to inspire, bears the same relation to the
-ideal man or woman that a chromo bears to a masterpiece of painting.
-
-We have no standards in this country. The individual is free to express
-himself here within the law in any way he sees fit, and the conduct
-of life comes always at last to an equation of the individual. Each
-one of us when we awake in the morning finds the problem of existence
-staring him anew in the face, and cannot always spare the time to
-remember that he is an American. And yet Americanism is the sum total
-of what all of us are. It will be very easy for us simply to imitate
-the civilizations of the past, but if our civilization is to stand for
-anything vital, and to be a step forward in the progress of humanity,
-we must do more than use the old combinations and devices of society in
-a new kaleidoscopic form. Our heritage as Americans is independence,
-originality, self-reliance, and sympathetic energy animated by a strong
-ethical instinct, and these are forces which can produce a higher and
-a broader civilization than the world has yet seen if we choose to
-have it so. But it is no longer a matter of cutting down forests and
-opening mines, of boasting beside the plough and building cities in
-a single year, of fabulous fortunes won in a trice, and of favorite
-sons in black broadcloth all the year round. It is a matter of a vast,
-populous country and a powerful, seething civilization where the same
-problems confront us which have taxed the minds and souls of the Old
-World for generations of men. It is for our originality to throw new
-light upon them, and it is for our independence to face them in the
-spirit of a deeper sympathy with humanity, and free from the canker of
-that utter selfishness which has made the prosperity and glory of other
-great nations culminate so often in a decadence of degrading luxury and
-fruitless culture.
-
-No civilization which regards the blessings and comforts of refined
-living as unworthy to be striven for and appropriated can hope to
-promote the cause of humanity. On the other hand, we Americans must
-remember that purely selfish appropriation and appreciation of
-these blessings and comforts has worked the ruin of the most famous
-civilizations of the past. Marie Antoinette was more elegant than the
-most fashionable woman in New York, and yet that did not save her
-from the tumbrel and the axe. The best Americanism of to-day and for
-the future is that which shall seek to use the fruits of the earth
-and the fulness thereof, and to develop all the manifestations of art
-and gentle living in the interest of humanity as a whole. But even
-heartless elegance is preferable to that self-righteous commonness
-of spirit which sits at home in its shirt-sleeves and is graceless,
-ascetic, and unimaginative in the name of God.
-
- _THE END_
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-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_i" id="Page_i">[i]</a></span></p>
-
-<h1>The Art of Living</h1>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_ii" id="Page_ii">[ii]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="figcenter" style="width: 432px;">
-<img src="images/cover.jpg" width="432" height="700" alt="Image of the front cover" />
-</div>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_iii" id="Page_iii">[iii]</a></span></p>
-
-<p class="titlepage larger red">The Art of<br />
-Living</p>
-
-<p class="titlepage">BY<br />
-<span class="larger red"><i>Robert Grant</i></span></p>
-
-<p class="titlepage">New York<br />
-<span class="red"><i>Charles Scribner’s Sons</i></span><br />
-MDCCCXCIX</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_iv" id="Page_iv">[iv]</a></span></p>
-
-<p class="titlepage smaller"><i>Copyright, 1895 and 1899, by Charles Scribner’s Sons</i></p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_v" id="Page_v">[v]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2><i>Contents</i></h2>
-
-</div>
-
-<table summary="Contents">
- <tr>
- <td colspan="2" class="tdc">¶<br /><i>Income</i></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part I</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_1">1</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part II</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_24">24</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td colspan="2" class="tdc">¶<br />The <i>Dwelling</i></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part I</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_33">33</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part II</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_53">53</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td colspan="2" class="tdc">¶<br /><i>House-Furnishing</i> and the <i>Commissariat</i></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part I</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_71">71</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part II</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_85">85</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td colspan="2" class="tdc">¶<br /><i>Education</i></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part I</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_100">100</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part II</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_118">118</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td colspan="2" class="tdc">¶<br /><i>Occupation</i></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part I</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_129">129</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part II</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_144">144</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td colspan="2" class="tdc">¶<br />The <i>Use of Time</i></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part I</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_162">162</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_vi" id="Page_vi">[vi]</a></span>Part II</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_181">181</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td colspan="2" class="tdc">¶<br />The <i>Summer Problem</i></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part I</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_203">203</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part II</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_218">218</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td colspan="2" class="tdc">¶<br />The <i>Case of Man</i></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part I</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_230">230</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part II</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_250">250</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td colspan="2" class="tdc">¶<br />The <i>Case of Woman</i></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part I</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_261">261</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part II</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_278">278</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td colspan="2" class="tdc">¶<br />The <i>Conduct of Life</i></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part I</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_290">290</a></td>
- </tr>
- <tr>
- <td>Part II</td><td class="tdr"><a href="#Page_309">309</a></td>
- </tr>
-</table>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_1" id="Page_1">[1]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2><i>Income.</i></h2>
-
-<h3>I.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-r.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">Rogers, the book-keeper for the
-past twenty-two years of my
-friend Patterson, the banker, told
-me the other day that he had
-reared a family of two boys and
-three girls on his annual salary of two thousand
-two hundred dollars; that he had put one of the
-boys through college, one through the School of
-Mines, brought up one of the girls to be a librarian,
-given one a coming-out party and a trousseau,
-and that the remaining daughter, a home
-body, was likely to be the domestic sunshine of
-his own and his wife’s old age. All this on two
-thousand two hundred dollars a year.</p>
-
-<p>Rogers told me with perfect modesty, with just
-a tremor of self-satisfaction in his tone, as though,
-all things considered, he felt that he had managed
-creditably, yet not in the least suggesting
-that he regarded his performance as out of the
-common run of happy household annals. He is
-a neat-looking, respectable, quiet, conservative
-little man, rising fifty, who, while in the bank,
-invariably wears a nankeen jacket all the year<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_2" id="Page_2">[2]</a></span>
-round, a narrow black necktie in winter, and a
-narrow yellow and red pongee wash tie in summer,
-and whose watch is no less invariably right
-to a second. As I often drop in to see Patterson,
-his employer, I depend upon it to keep mine
-straight, and it was while I was setting my chronometer
-the other day that he made me the foregoing
-confidence.</p>
-
-<p>Frankly, I felt as though I had been struck
-with a club. It happened to be the first of the
-month. Every visit of the postman had brought
-me a fresh batch of bills, each one of which was
-a little larger than I had expected. I was correspondingly
-depressed and remorseful, and had
-been asking myself from time to time during
-the day why it need cost so much to live. Yet
-here was a man who was able to give his daughter
-a coming-out party and a trousseau on two
-thousand two hundred dollars a year. I opened
-my mouth twice to ask him how in the name of
-thrift he had managed to do it, but somehow the
-discrepancy between his expenditures and mine
-seemed such a gulf that I was tongue-tied. “I
-suppose,” he added modestly, “that I have been
-very fortunate in my little family. It must indeed
-be sharper than a serpent’s tooth to have a thankless<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_3" id="Page_3">[3]</a></span>
-child.” Gratitude too! Gratitude and Shakespeare
-on two thousand two hundred dollars a
-year. I went my way without a word.</p>
-
-<p>There are various ways of treating remorse.
-Some take a Turkish bath or a pill. Others, while
-the day lasts, trample it under foot, and shut it
-out at night with the bed-clothes. Neither course
-has ever seemed to me exactly satisfactory or
-manly. Consequently I am apt to entertain my
-self-reproach and reason with it, and when one
-begins to wonder why it costs so much to live,
-he finds himself grappling with the entire problem
-of civilization, and presently his hydra has
-a hundred heads. The first of the month is apt
-to be a sorry day for my wife as well as for me,
-and I hastened on my return home to tell her,
-with just a shadow of reproach in my tone, what
-Mr. Rogers had confided to me. Indeed I saw
-fit to ask, “Why can’t we do the same?”</p>
-
-<p>“We could,” said Barbara.</p>
-
-<p>“Then why don’t we?”</p>
-
-<p>“Because you wouldn’t.”</p>
-
-<p>I had been reflecting in the brief interval between
-my wife’s first and second replies that, in
-the happy event of our imitating Rogers’s example
-from this time forth and forever more, I<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_4" id="Page_4">[4]</a></span>
-should be able to lay up over five thousand dollars
-a year, and that five thousand dollars a year
-saved for ten years would be fifty thousand dollars&mdash;a
-very neat little financial nest egg. But
-Barbara’s second reply upset my calculation utterly,
-and threw the responsibility of failure on
-me into the bargain.</p>
-
-<p>“Mr. Rogers is the salt of the earth, a highly
-respectable man and, if I am not mistaken, the
-deacon of a church,” I remarked not altogether
-relevantly. “Why should we spend four times
-as many thousand dollars a year as he?”</p>
-
-<p>“I wonder,” answered my wife, “if you really
-do appreciate how your friend Mr. Rogers lives.
-I am quite aware that you are talking now for
-effect&mdash;talking through your hat as the children
-say&mdash;because it’s the first of the month and
-you’re annoyed that the bills are worse than
-ever, and I understand that you don’t for one
-moment seriously entertain the hope that our
-establishment can be conducted on the same
-basis as his. But I should just like to explain to
-you for once how people who have only twenty-two
-hundred dollars a year and are the salt of
-the earth do live, if only to convince you that
-the sooner we stop comparing ourselves with<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_5" id="Page_5">[5]</a></span>
-them the better. I say ‘we’ because in my moments
-of depression over the household expenses
-I catch myself doing the same thing. Our
-butcher’s bill for this month is huge, and when
-you came in I was in the throes of despair over
-a letter in the newspaper from a woman who contends
-that a good housekeeper in modest circumstances
-can provide an excellent dinner for her
-family of six persons, including soup, fish, an
-entrée, meat, pudding, dessert, and coffee, for
-fifty-three cents. And she gives the dinner, which
-at first sight takes one’s breath away. But after
-you prune it of celery, parsley, salted peanuts,
-raisins, red cabbage, salad, and cheese, all there is
-left is bean-soup, cod sounds, fried liver, hot gingerbread,
-and apples.”</p>
-
-<p>“I should dine down town, if you set such
-repasts before me,” I answered.</p>
-
-<p>“Yes,” said Barbara. “And there is a very
-good point of departure for illustrating the domestic
-economies of the Rogers family. Mr. Rogers
-does dine down town. Not to avoid the fried
-liver and cod sounds, for probably he is partial to
-them, but because it is cheaper. When you take
-what you call your luncheon, and which is apt to
-include as much as he eats in the entire course of<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_6" id="Page_6">[6]</a></span>
-the day, Mr. Rogers dines; dines at a restaurant
-where he can get a modest meal for from fifteen
-to twenty-five cents. Sometimes it is pea-soup
-and a piece of squash-pie. The next day perhaps
-a mutton-stew and a slice of watermelon, or boiled
-beef and an éclair. Mrs. Rogers and the children
-have a pick-up dinner at home, which lasts them
-very well until night, when they and Rogers sit
-down to browned-hash mutton and a head of
-lettuce, or honey-comb tripe and corn-cake, and
-apple-sauce to wind up with.”</p>
-
-<p>“That isn’t so very bad.”</p>
-
-<p>“Why, they have a splendid time. They can
-abuse their social acquaintance and discuss family
-secrets without fear of being overheard by the
-servants because they don’t keep any servants to
-speak of. Probably they keep one girl. Or perhaps
-Mr. Rogers had a spinster sister who helped
-with the work for her board. Or it may be Mrs.
-Rogers kept one while the children were little;
-but after the daughters were old enough to do it
-themselves, they preferred not to keep anybody.
-They live extremely happily, but the children
-have to double up, for in their small house it is
-necessary to sleep two in a room if not a bed.
-The girls make most of their dresses, and the boys<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_7" id="Page_7">[7]</a></span>
-never dream of buying anything but ready-made
-clothing. By living in the suburbs they let one
-establishment serve for all seasons, unless it be
-for the two weeks when Rogers gets his vacation.
-Then, if nobody has been ill during the year, the
-family purse may stand the drain of a stay at the
-humblest watering-place in their vicinity, or a
-visit to the farm-house of some relative in the
-country. An engagement with the dentist is a
-serious disaster, and the plumber is kept at a respectable
-distance. The children go to the public
-schools, and the only club or organization to
-which Mr. Rogers belongs is a benefit association,
-which pays him so much a week if he is ill,
-and would present his family with a few hundred
-dollars if he were to die. The son who went
-through college must have got a scholarship or
-taken pupils. The girl who married undoubtedly
-made the greater portion of her trousseau with
-her own needle; and as to the coming-out party,
-some of the effects of splendor and all the delights
-of social intercourse can be produced by
-laying a white drugget on the parlor carpet, the
-judicious use of half a dozen lemons and a mould
-of ice-cream with angel-cake, and by imposing on
-the good nature of a friend who can play the piano<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_8" id="Page_8">[8]</a></span>
-for dancing. There, my dear, if you are willing
-to live like that, we should be able to get
-along on from twenty-two to twenty-five hundred
-dollars quite nicely.”</p>
-
-<p>My wife was perfectly correct in her declaration
-that I did not seriously entertain the hope of
-being able to imitate Mr. Rogers, worthy citizen
-and upright man as I believe him to be. I certainly
-was in some measure talking through my
-hat. This was not the first time I had brought
-home a Rogers to confront her. She is used to
-them and aware that they are chiefly bogies. I, as
-she knows, and indeed both of us, are never in
-quite a normal condition on the first day of the
-month, and are liable, sometimes the one of us
-and sometimes the other, to indulge in vagaries
-and resolutions which by the tenth, when the
-bills are paid, seem almost uncalled for or impracticable.
-One thing is certain, that if a man
-earns only twenty-two hundred dollars a year,
-and is an honest man withal, he has to live on it,
-even though he dines when others take luncheon,
-and is forced to avoid the dentist and the plumber.
-But a much more serious problem confronts
-the man who earns four times as much as Rogers,
-more serious because it involves an alternative.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_9" id="Page_9">[9]</a></span>
-Rogers could not very well live on less if he
-tried, without feeling the stress of poverty. He
-has lived at hard pan, so to speak. But I could.
-Could if I would, as my wife has demonstrated.
-I am perfectly right, as she would agree, in being
-unwilling to try the experiment; and yet the consciousness
-that we spend a very large sum of
-money every year, as compared with Rogers and
-others like him, remains with us even after the
-bills are paid and we have exchanged remorse
-for contemplation.</p>
-
-<p>The moralist, who properly is always with us,
-would here insinuate, perhaps, that Rogers is happier
-than I. But I take issue with him promptly
-and deny the impeachment. Rogers may be happier
-than his employer Patterson, because Patterson,
-though the possessor of a steam-yacht, has
-a son who has just been through the Keeley cure
-and a daughter who is living apart from her husband.
-But there are no such flies in my pot of
-ointment. I deny the superior happiness of Rogers
-in entire consciousness of the moral beauty of his
-home. I recognize him to be an industrious, self-sacrificing,
-kind-hearted, sagacious husband and
-father, and I admit that the pen-picture which
-the moralist could draw of him sitting by the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_10" id="Page_10">[10]</a></span>
-evening lamp in his well-worn dressing gown,
-with his well-darned feet adorned by carpet-slippers
-of filial manufacture supported by the table
-or a chair, would be justly entitled to kindle emotions
-of respect and admiration. But why, after
-all, should Rogers, ensconced in the family sitting-room
-with the cat on the hearth, a canary
-twittering in a cage and scattering seed in one
-corner, a sewing-machine in the other, and surrounded
-by all the comforts of home, consisting
-prominently of a peach-blow vase, a Japanese
-sun umbrella and engravings of George Washington
-and Horace Greeley, be regarded as happier
-than I in my modern drawing-room in evening
-dress? What is there moral in the simplicity
-of his frayed and somewhat ugly establishment
-except the spirit of contentment and the gentle
-feelings which sanctify it? Assuming that these
-are not lacking in my home, and I believe they
-are not, I see no reason for accepting the conclusion
-of the moralist. There is a beauty of living
-which the man with a small income is not apt
-to compass under present social conditions, the
-Declaration of Independence to the contrary notwithstanding.
-The doctrine so widely and vehemently
-promulgated in America that a Spartan<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_11" id="Page_11">[11]</a></span>
-inelegance of life is the duty of a leading citizen,
-seems to be dying from inanition; and the descendants
-of favorite sons who once triumphed
-by preaching and practising it are now outvying
-those whom they were taught to stigmatize as
-the effete civilizations of Europe, in their devotion
-to creature comforts.</p>
-
-<p>It seems to me true that in our day and generation
-the desire to live wisely here has eclipsed
-the desire to live safely hereafter. Moreover, to
-enjoy the earth and the fulness thereof, if it be
-legitimately within one’s reach, has come to be
-recognized all the world over, with a special point
-of view for each nationality, as a cardinal principle
-of living wisely. We have been the last to recognize
-it here for the reason that a contrary theory
-of life was for several generations regarded as one
-of the bulwarks of our Constitution. Never was
-the sympathy for the poor man greater than it
-is at present. Never was there warmer interest
-in his condition. The social atmosphere is rife
-with theories and schemes for his emancipation,
-and the best brains of civilization are at work in
-his behalf. But no one wishes to be like him.
-Canting churchmen still gain some credence by
-the assertion that indigence here will prove a saving<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_12" id="Page_12">[12]</a></span>
-grace in the world to come; but the American
-people, quick, when it recognizes that it has been
-fooled, to discard even a once sacred conviction,
-smiles to-day at the assumption that the owner
-of a log cabin is more inherently virtuous than
-the owner of a steam-yacht. Indeed the present
-signal vice of democracy seems to be the fury to
-grow rich, in the mad struggle to accomplish
-which character and happiness are too often sacrificed.
-But it may be safely said that, granting
-an equal amount of virtue to Rogers and to me,
-and that each pays his bills promptly, I am a
-more enviable individual in the public eye.</p>
-
-<p>In fact the pressing problem which confronts
-the civilized world to-day is the choice of what
-to have, for so many things have become necessaries
-of existence which were either done without
-or undiscovered in the days of our grandmothers,
-that only the really opulent can have
-everything. We sometimes hear it said that this
-or that person has too much for his own good.
-The saying is familiar, and doubtless it is true
-that luxury unappreciated and abused will cause
-degeneration; but the complaint seems to me to
-be a Sunday-school consoler for those who have
-too little rather than a sound argument against<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_13" id="Page_13">[13]</a></span>
-great possessions. Granting that this or that person
-referred to had the moral fibre of Rogers or
-of me, and were altogether an unexceptionable
-character, how could he have too much for his
-own good? Is the best any too good for any one
-of us?</p>
-
-<p>The sad part of it is, however, that even those
-of us who have four times, or thereabouts, the
-income of Rogers, are obliged to pick and choose
-and cannot have everything. Then is the opportunity
-for wisdom to step in and make her abode
-with us, if she only will. The perplexity, the distress,
-and too often the downfall of those who
-would fain live wisely, are largely the direct results
-of foolish or unintelligent selection on their
-part. And conversely, is not the secret of happy
-modern living, the art of knowing what to have
-when one cannot have everything there is?</p>
-
-<p>I coupled just now, in allusion to Rogers and
-myself, virtue and punctuality in the payment of
-bills, as though they were not altogether homogeneous.
-I did so designedly, not because I question
-that prompt payment is in the abstract a
-leading virtue, nor because I doubt that it has
-been absolutely imperative for Rogers, and one
-of the secrets of his happiness; but because I<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_14" id="Page_14">[14]</a></span>
-am not entirely sure whether, after ten years of
-prompt payment on the first of every month on
-my part, I have not been made the sorry victim
-of my own righteousness, self-righteousness I
-might say, for I have plumed myself on it when
-comparing myself with the ungodly. Although
-virtuous action looks for no reward, the man who
-pays his bills as soon as they are presented has
-the right to expect that he will not be obliged to
-pay anything extra for his honesty. He may not
-hope for a discount, but he does hope and believe&mdash;at
-least for a time&mdash;that beefsteak paid
-for within thirty days of purchase will not be
-taxed with the delinquencies of those who pay
-tardily or not at all. Slowly but sadly I and my
-wife have come to the conclusion that the butchers,
-bakers, and candlestick-makers of this great
-Republic who provide for the tolerably well-to-do
-make up their losses by assessing virtue. It
-is a melancholy conclusion for one who has been
-taught to believe that punctual payment is the
-first great cardinal principle of wise living, and
-it leaves one in rather a wobbly state of mind,
-not as regards the rank of the virtue in question,
-but as regards the desirability of strictly living
-up to it in practice. I have heard stated with<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_15" id="Page_15">[15]</a></span>
-authority that the leading butchers, grocers, stable-keepers,
-drygoods dealers, dress-makers,
-florists, and plumbers of our great cities divide
-the customers on their books into sheep and
-goats, so to speak; and the more prompt and
-willing a sheep, the deeper do they plunge the
-knife. Let one establish a reputation for prompt
-payment and make a purchase on the twenty-fifth
-of the month, he will receive on the first of the
-following a bill, on the twentieth, if this be not
-paid, a bill for “account rendered,” on the first
-of the next month a bill for “account rendered,
-please remit,” and on the tenth a visit from a collector.
-On the other hand I have known people
-who seem to live on the fat of the land, and to
-keep the tradesfolk in obsequious awe of them
-by force of letting their bills run indefinitely.</p>
-
-<p>Abroad, as many of us know, the status of the
-matter is very different. There interest is figured
-in advance, and those who pay promptly
-get a handsome discount on the face of their bills.
-While this custom may seem to encourage debt,
-it is at least a mutual arrangement, and seems to
-have proved satisfactory, to judge from the fact
-that the fashionable tailors and dress-makers of
-London and Paris are apt to demur or shrug<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_16" id="Page_16">[16]</a></span>
-their shoulders at immediate payment, and to be
-rather embarrassingly grateful if their accounts
-are settled by the end of a year. No one would
-wish to change the national inclination of upright
-people on this side of the water to pay on the
-spot, but the master and mistress of an establishment
-may well consider whether the fashionable
-tradesmen ought to oblige them to bear the entire
-penalty of being sheep instead of goats. With
-this qualification, which is set forth rather as a
-caveat than a doctrine, the prompt payment of
-one’s bills seems to be strictly co-ordinate with
-virtue, and may be properly described as the
-corner-stone of wise modern living.</p>
-
-<p>There are so many things which one has to
-have nowadays in order to be comfortable that
-it seems almost improvident to inquire how much
-one ought to save before facing the question of
-what one can possibly do without. Here the people
-who are said to have too much for their own
-good have an advantage over the rest of us. The
-future of their children is secure. If they dread
-death it is not because they fear to leave their
-wives and children unprovided for. Many of
-them go on saving, just the same, and talk poor
-if a railroad lowers a dividend, or there is not a<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_17" id="Page_17">[17]</a></span>
-ready market for their real estate at an exalted
-profit. Are there more irritating men or women
-in the world than the over-conservative persons
-of large means who are perpetually harping on
-saving, and worrying lest they may not be able
-to put by for a rainy day, as they call it, twenty-five
-per cent. or more of their annual income?
-The capitalist, careworn by solicitude of this sort,
-is the one fool in creation who is not entitled to
-some morsel of pity.</p>
-
-<p>How much ought the rest of us to save? I
-know a man&mdash;now you do not know him, and
-there is no use in racking your brains to discover
-who he is, which seems to be a principal motive
-for reading books nowadays, as though we
-writers had a cabinet photograph in our mind’s
-eye whenever we took a pen in hand. I know a
-man who divides his income into parts. “All
-Gaul is divided into three parts,” you will remember
-we read in the classics. Well, my friend,
-whom we will call Julius Cæsar for convenience
-and mystification, divides his income, on the
-first of January, into a certain number of parts
-or portions. He and his wife have a very absorbing
-and earnest pow-wow over it annually. They
-take the matter very seriously, and burn the midnight<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_18" id="Page_18">[18]</a></span>
-oil in the sober endeavor to map and figure
-out in advance a wise and unselfish exhibit.
-So much and no more for rent, so much for servants,
-so much for household supplies, so much
-for clothes, so much for amusements, so much for
-charity, so much to meet unlooked-for contingencies,
-and so much for investment. By the time
-the exhibit is finished it is mathematically and
-ethically irreproachable, and, what is more, Julius
-Cæsar and his wife live up to it so faithfully
-that they are sure to have some eight or ten dollars
-to the good on the morning of December
-thirty-first, which they commonly expend in a
-pair of canvas-back ducks and a bottle of champagne,
-for which they pay cash, in reward for
-their own virtue and to enable them at the stroke
-of midnight to submit to their own consciences
-a trial balance accurate to a cent.</p>
-
-<p>Now it should be stated that Mr. and Mrs.
-Julius Cæsar are not very busy people in other
-respects, and that their annual income, which is
-fifteen thousand dollars, and chiefly rent from
-improved real estate in the hands of a trustee,
-flows on as regularly and surely as a river.
-Wherefore it might perhaps be argued, if one
-were disposed to be sardonic, that this arithmetical<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_19" id="Page_19">[19]</a></span>
-system of life under the circumstances
-savors of a fad, and that Julius and his wife take
-themselves and their occupation a trifle too seriously,
-especially as they have both been known
-to inform, solemnly and augustly, more than
-one acquaintance who was struggling for a living,
-that it is every one’s duty to lay up at least
-one-tenth of his income and give at least another
-tenth in charity. And yet, when one has ceased
-to smile at the antics of this pair, the consciousness
-remains that they are right in their practice
-of foresight and arithmetical apportioning, and
-that one who would live wisely should, if possible,
-decide in advance how much he intends to
-give to the poor or put into the bank. Otherwise
-he is morally, or rather immorally, certain
-to spend everything, and to suffer disagreeable
-qualms instead of enjoying canvas-back ducks
-and a bottle of champagne on December thirty-first.</p>
-
-<p>As to what that much or little to be given
-and to be saved shall be, there is more room for
-discussion. Julius Cæsar and his wife have declared
-in favor of a tenth for each, which in
-their case means fifteen hundred dollars given,
-and fifteen hundred dollars saved, which leaves<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_20" id="Page_20">[20]</a></span>
-them a net income of twelve thousand dollars
-to spend, and they have no children. I am inclined
-to think that if every man with ten thousand
-dollars a year and a family were to give
-away three hundred dollars, and prudently invest
-seven hundred dollars, charity would not
-suffer so long as at present, and would be no
-less kind. Unquestionably those of us who come
-out on December thirty-first just even, or eight
-or nine dollars behind instead of ahead, and
-would have been able to spend a thousand or
-two more, are the ones who find charity and saving
-so difficult. Our friends who are said to have
-too much for their own good help to found a
-hospital or send a deserving youth through
-college without winking. It costs them merely
-the trouble of signing a check. But it behooves
-those who have only four instead of forty times
-as much as Rogers, if they wish to do their share
-in relieving the needs of others, to do so promptly
-and systematically before the fine edge of the
-good resolutions formed on the first of January
-is dulled by the pressure of a steadily depleted
-bank account, and a steadily increasing array of
-bills. Charity, indeed, is more difficult for us to
-practise than saving, for the simplest method of<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_21" id="Page_21">[21]</a></span>
-saving, life insurance, is enforced by the “stand
-and deliver” argument of an annual premium.
-Only he, who before the first crocus thrusts its
-gentle head above the winter’s snow has sent his
-check to the needy, and who can conscientiously
-hang upon his office door “Fully insured; life
-insurance agents need not apply,” is in a position
-to face with a calm mind the fall of the leaf
-and the December days when conscience, quickened
-by the dying year, inquires what we have
-done for our neighbor, and how the wife and the
-little ones would fare if we should be cut down
-in the strength of our manhood.</p>
-
-<p>And yet, too, important as saving is, there
-are so many things which we must have for the
-sake of this same wife and the little ones that
-we cannot afford to save too much. Are we to
-toil and moil all our days, go without fresh butter
-and never take six weeks in Europe or Japan
-because we wish to make sure that our sons and
-daughters will be amply provided for, as the
-obituary notices put it? Some men with daughters
-only have a craze of saving so that this one
-earthly life becomes a rasping, worrying ordeal,
-which is only too apt to find an end in the
-coolness of a premature grave. My friend<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_22" id="Page_22">[22]</a></span>
-Perkins&mdash;here is another chance, identity seekers,
-to wonder who Perkins really is&mdash;the father of
-four girls, is a thin, nervous lawyer, who ought
-to take a proper vacation every summer; but
-he rarely does, and the reason seems to be that
-he is saddled by the idea that to bring a girl up
-in luxury and leave her with anything less than
-five thousand dollars a year is a piece of paternal
-brutality. It seems to me that a father ought
-in the first place to remember that some girls
-marry. I reminded Perkins of this one day.
-“Some don’t,” he answered mournfully. “Marriage
-does not run in the female Perkins line. The
-chances are that two of my four will never marry.
-They might be able to get along, if they lived together
-and were careful, on seven thousand dollars
-a year, and I must leave them that somehow.”
-“Hoot toot,” said I, “that seems to me
-nonsense. Don’t let the spectre of decayed gentlewomen
-hound you into dyspepsia or Bright’s
-disease, but give yourself a chance and trust to
-your girls to look out for themselves. There are
-so many things for women to do now besides
-marry or pot jam, that a fond father ought to let
-his nervous system recuperate now and then.”</p>
-
-<p>“I suppose you mean that they might become<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_23" id="Page_23">[23]</a></span>
-teachers or physicians or hospital nurses or typewriters,”
-said Perkins. “Declined with thanks.”</p>
-
-<p>“Don’t you think,” I inquired with a little
-irritation, “that they would be happier so than
-in doing nothing on a fixed income, in simply
-being mildly cultivated and philanthropic on
-dividends, in moving to the sea-side in summer
-and back again in the autumn, and in dying at
-the last of some fashionable ailment?”</p>
-
-<p>“No, I don’t,” said Perkins. “Do you?”</p>
-
-<p>Were I to repeat my answer to this inquiry I
-should be inviting a discussion on woman, which
-is not in place at this stage of our reflections.
-Let me say, though, that I am still of the opinion
-that Perkins ought to give his nervous system
-a chance and not worry so much about his
-daughters.</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_24" id="Page_24">[24]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2><i>Income.</i></h2>
-
-<h3>II.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-s-1.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">Seeing that there are so many
-things to have and that we cannot
-have everything, what are we to
-choose? I have sometimes, while
-trudging along in the sleighing season, noticed
-that many men, whose income I believe to be
-much smaller than mine, were able to ride behind
-fast trotters in fur overcoats. The reason
-upon reflection was obvious to me. Men of a
-certain class regard a diamond pin, a fur overcoat,
-and a fast horse as the first necessaries of
-existence after a bed, a hair-brush and one maid-of-all-work.
-In other words, they are willing to
-live in an inexpensive locality, with no regard
-to plumbing, society, or art, to have their food
-dropped upon the table, and to let their wives
-and daughters live with shopping as the one
-bright spot in the month’s horizon, if only they,
-the husbands and fathers, can satisfy the three-headed
-ruling ambition in question. The men
-to whom I am referring have not the moral or
-æsthetic tone of Rogers and myself, and belong
-to quite a distinct class of society from either of<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_25" id="Page_25">[25]</a></span>
-us. But among the friends of both of us there
-are people who act on precisely the same principle.
-A fine sense of selection ought to govern
-the expenditure of income, and the wise man
-will refrain from buying a steam-yacht for himself
-or a diamond crescent for his wife before he
-has secured a home with modern conveniences,
-an efficient staff of servants, a carefully chosen
-family physician, a summer home, or an ample
-margin wherewith to hire one, the best educational
-advantages for his children which the community
-will afford, and choice social surroundings.
-In order to have these comfortably and
-completely, and still not to be within sailing distance,
-so to speak, of a steam-yacht, one needs
-to have nowadays&mdash;certainly in large cities&mdash;an
-income of from seven thousand to eleven
-thousand dollars, according to where one lives.</p>
-
-<p>I make this assertion in the face of the fact that
-our legislators all over the country annually
-decree that from four to five thousand dollars a
-year is a fat salary in reward for public service,
-and that an official with a family who is given
-twenty-five hundred or three thousand is to be
-envied. Envied by whom, pray? By the ploughman,
-the horse-car conductor, and the corner<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_26" id="Page_26">[26]</a></span>
-grocery man, may be, but not by the average
-business or professional man who is doing well.
-To be sure, five thousand dollars in a country
-town <em>is</em> affluence, if the beneficiary is content to
-stay there; but in a city the family man with
-only that income, provided he is ambitious, can
-only just live, and might fairly be described as
-the cousin german to a mendicant. And yet there
-are some worthy citizens still, who doubtless
-would be aghast at these statements, and would
-wish to know how one is to spend five thousand
-dollars a year without extravagance. We certainly
-did start in this country on a very different basis,
-and the doctrine of plain living was written
-between the lines of the Constitution. We were
-practically to do our own work, to be content
-with pie and doughnuts as the staple articles of
-nutrition, to abide in one locality all the year
-round, and to eschew color, ornament, and refined
-recreation. All this as an improvement over the
-civilization of Europe and a rebuke to it. Whatever
-the ethical value of this theory of existence
-in moulding the national character may have
-been, it has lost its hold to-day, and we as a
-nation have fallen into line with the once sneered-at
-older civilizations, though we honestly believe<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_27" id="Page_27">[27]</a></span>
-that we are giving and going to give a peculiar
-redeeming brand to the adopted, venerable customs
-which will purge them of dross and bale.</p>
-
-<p>Take the servant question, for instance. We
-are perpetually discussing how we are to do away
-with the social reproach which keeps native
-American women out of domestic service; yet
-at the same time in actual practice the demand
-for servants grows more and more urgent and
-wide-spread, and they are consigned still more
-hopelessly, though kindly, to the kitchen and
-servants’ hall in imitation of English upper-class
-life. In the days when our Emerson sought to
-practise the social equality for which he yearned,
-by requiring his maids to sit at his own dinner-table,
-a domestic establishment was a modest affair
-of a cook and a second girl. Now, the people
-who are said to have too much for their own
-good, keep butlers, ladies’ maids, governesses,
-who like Mahomet’s coffin hover between the
-parlor and the kitchen, superfine laundresses,
-pages in buttons, and other housekeeping accessories,
-and domestic life grows bravely more
-and more complex. To be sure, too, I am quite
-aware that, as society is at present constituted,
-only a comparatively small number out of our<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_28" id="Page_28">[28]</a></span>
-millions of free-born American citizens have or
-are able to earn the seven to eleven thousand dollars
-a year requisite for thorough comfort, and
-that the most interesting and serious problem
-which confronts human society to-day is the annihilation
-or lessening of the terrible existing inequalities
-in estate and welfare.</p>
-
-<p>This problem, absorbing as it is, can scarcely
-be solved in our time. But, whatever the solution,
-whether by socialism, government control,
-or brotherly love, is it not safe to assume that
-when every one shares alike, society is not going
-to be satisfied with humble, paltry, or ugly conditions
-as the universal weal? If the new dispensation
-does not provide a style and manner of
-living at least equal in comfort, luxury, and refinement
-to that which exists among the well-to-do
-to-day, it will be a failure. Humanity will
-never consent to be shut off from the best in
-order to be exempt from the worst. The millennium
-must supply not merely bread and butter, a
-house, a pig, a cow, and a sewing-machine for
-every one, but attractive homes, gardens, and
-galleries, literature and music, and all the range
-of æsthetic social adjuncts which tend to promote
-healthy bodies, delightful manners, fine<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_29" id="Page_29">[29]</a></span>
-sensibilities, and noble purposes, or it will be no
-millennium.</p>
-
-<p>Therefore one who would live wisely and has
-the present means, though he may deplore existing
-misery and seek to relieve it, does not give
-away to others all his substance but spends it
-chiefly on himself and his family until he has satisfied
-certain needs. By way of a house he feels
-that he requires not merely a frail, unornamental
-shelter, but a carefully constructed, well ventilated,
-cosily and artistically furnished dwelling,
-where his family will neither be scrimped for
-space nor exposed to discomforts, and where he
-can entertain his friends tastefully if not with elegance.
-All this costs money and involves large
-and recurrent outlays for heating, lighting, upholstery,
-sanitary appliances, silver, china, and
-glass. It is not sufficient for him that his children
-should be sure of their own father; he is
-solicitous, besides, that they should grow up as
-free as possible from physical blemishes, and
-mentally and spiritually sound and attractive.
-To promote this he must needs consult or engage
-from time to time skilled specialists, dentists,
-oculists, dancing and drawing masters, private
-tutors, and music-teachers. To enable these<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_30" id="Page_30">[30]</a></span>
-same sons and daughters to make the most of
-themselves, he must, during their early manhood
-and womanhood, enable them to pursue
-professional or other studies, to travel, and to
-mingle in cultivated and well-bred society. He
-must live in a choice neighborhood that he may
-surround himself and his family with refining
-influences, and accordingly he must pay from
-twelve hundred to twenty-five hundred or three
-thousand dollars a year for rent, according to the
-size and desirability of the premises. Unless he
-would have his wife and daughters merely household
-factors and drudges, he must keep from
-three to five or six servants, whose wages vary
-from four to six or seven dollars a week, and
-feed them.</p>
-
-<p>Nor can the athletic, æsthetic, or merely pleasurable
-needs of a growing or adolescent household
-be ignored. He must meet the steady and
-relentless drain from each of these sources, or be
-conscious that his flesh and blood have not the
-same advantages and opportunities which are enjoyed
-by their contemporaries. He must own a
-pew, a library share, a fancy dress costume, and
-a cemetery lot, and he must always have loose
-change on hand for the hotel waiter and the colored<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_31" id="Page_31">[31]</a></span>
-railway porter. The family man in a large
-city who meets these several demands to his
-entire satisfaction will have little of ten thousand
-dollars left for the purchase of a trotter, a fur
-overcoat, and a diamond pin.</p>
-
-<p>The growing consciousness of the value of
-these complex demands of our modern civilization,
-when intelligently gratified, acts at the present
-day as a cogent incentive to make money, not
-for the mere sake of accumulation, but to spend.
-Gross accumulation with scant expenditure has
-always been sanctioned here; but to grow rich
-and yet be lavish has only within a comparatively
-recent period among us seemed reconcilable
-with religious or national principles. Even
-yet he who many times a millionaire still walks
-unkempt, or merely plain and honest, has not entirely
-lost the halo of hero worship. But, though
-the old man is permitted to do as he prefers, better
-things are demanded of his sons and daughters.
-Nor can the argument that some of the
-greatest men in our history have been nurtured
-and brought up in cabins and away from refining
-influences be soundly used against the advisability
-of making the most of income, even
-though we now and then ask ourselves whether<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_32" id="Page_32">[32]</a></span>
-modern living is producing statesmen of equally
-firm mould. But we thrill no longer at mention
-of a log cabin or rail splitting, and the very name
-of hard cider suggests rather unpleasantly the
-corner grocery store and the pie-permeated, hair-cloth
-suited New England parlor.</p>
-
-<p>Merely because other nations have long been
-aware that it was wise and not immoral to try
-to live comfortably and beautifully our change
-of faith is no less absorbing to us. We confidently
-expect to win fresh laurels by our originality,
-intelligence, and unselfishness in this new
-old field. Already have we made such strides
-that our establishments on this side of the water
-make up in genuine comfort what they lack in
-ancient manorial picturesqueness and ghost-haunted
-grace. Each one of us who is in earnest
-is asking how he is to make the most of what he
-has or earns, so as to attain that charm of refined
-living which is civilization’s best flower&mdash;living
-which if merely material and unanimated by intelligence
-and noble aims is without charm, but
-which is made vastly more difficult of realization
-in case we are without means or refuse to spend
-them adequately.</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_33" id="Page_33">[33]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2>The <i>Dwelling</i>.</h2>
-
-<h3>I.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-m.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">Mr. and Mrs. Julius Cæsar, who,
-as you may remember, divide
-their income into parts with
-mathematical precision, were not
-as well off in this world’s goods
-at the time of their marriage as they are now.
-Neither Mr. Cæsar’s father nor Mrs. Cæsar’s
-grandmother was then dead, and consequently
-the newly wedded pair, though set up by their
-respective families with a comfortable income,
-felt that it was incumbent upon them to practise
-strict economy. Then it was that Julius conceived
-what seemed to them both the happy
-idea of buying a house dirt cheap in a neighborhood
-which was not yet improved, and improving
-the neighborhood, instead of paying an
-exorbitant price for a residence in a street which
-was already all it should be.</p>
-
-<p>“Why,” said Julius, “shouldn’t we buy one of
-those new houses in Sunset Terrace? They look
-very attractive, and if we can only induce two or
-three congenial couples to join forces with us we
-shall have the nucleus of a delightful colony.”</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_34" id="Page_34">[34]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>“Besides, everything will be nice and new,”
-said Mrs. Julius, or Dolly Cæsar, as her friends
-know her. “No cockroaches, no mice, no moths,
-no family skeletons to torment us. Julius, you are
-a genius. We can just as well set the fashion as
-follow meekly in fashion’s wake.”</p>
-
-<p>So said, so done. Julius Cæsar bent his intellect
-upon the matter and soon found three congenial
-couples who were willing to join forces with him.
-Before another twelve months had passed, four
-baby-wagons&mdash;one of them double-seated&mdash;were
-to be seen on four sunny grass-plots in
-front of four attractive, artistic-looking villas on
-Sunset Terrace. Where lately sterility, mortar,
-and weeds had held carnival, there was now an
-air of tasteful gentility. Thanks to the example
-of Dolly Cæsar, who had an eye and an instinct
-for such matters, the four brass door-plates
-shone like the sun, the paint was spick and
-span, the four gravel paths were in apple-pie
-order, the four grass-plots were emerald from
-timely use of a revolving lawn sprinkler, and
-the four nurse-maids, who watched like dragons
-over the four baby-wagons, were neat-looking
-and comely. No wonder that by the end of the
-second year there was not a vacant house in<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_35" id="Page_35">[35]</a></span>
-the street, and that everybody who wished to
-live in a fashionable locality was eager for a
-chance to enter Sunset Terrace. No wonder, too,
-that Mr. and Mrs. Julius Cæsar were able, by
-the end of the fourth year, to emerge from Sunset
-Terrace with a profit on the sale of their
-villa which made it rent free for the entire period,
-and left them with a neat little surplus to
-boot, and to settle down with calm minds on
-really fashionable Belport Avenue, in the stately
-mansion devised to them by Mrs. Cæsar’s grandmother.</p>
-
-<p>Now, it must be borne in mind that a Mr.
-and Mrs. Julius Cæsar can sometimes do that
-which a Mr. and Mrs. George J. Spriggs find
-difficulty in accomplishing. Spriggs, at the time
-of his marriage to Miss Florence Green, the
-daughter of ex-Assistant Postmaster-General
-Homer W. Green, conceived the happy idea of
-setting up his household gods in Locust Road,
-which lies about as far from Belport Avenue in
-one direction as Sunset Terrace in the other.
-Both are semi-suburban. It also occurred to him
-at the outset to join forces with three or four
-congenial couples, but at the last moment the
-engagement of one of the couples in question<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_36" id="Page_36">[36]</a></span>
-was broken, and the other three decided to live
-somewhere else. To have changed his mind then
-would have involved the sacrifice of one hundred
-dollars paid to bind the bargain to the landowner.
-So it seemed best to them on the whole
-to move in, as they had to live somewhere.</p>
-
-<p>“It’s just a little bit dreary, isn’t it?” said
-Florence Spriggs, pathetically, as she looked out
-of her bow window at the newly finished street
-which was not finished, and at the grass-plot
-where there was no grass. “But I sha’n’t be a
-bit lonely with you, George.”</p>
-
-<p>“I wonder if the color of this house has been
-changed,” said Spriggs, presently, as he glanced
-up at the façade and from that to the other houses
-in the block, each of which was vacant. He and
-Florence had gone out after dinner to take a
-stroll and survey the neighborhood which they
-hoped to improve.</p>
-
-<p>“Of course it hasn’t! How could it be?”
-said Florence.</p>
-
-<p>“Somehow it looks a more staring shade of
-yellow than it did the first time we saw it. And
-I don’t fancy altogether the filigree work on the
-door, or that Egyptian renaissance scroll set into
-the eastern wall, do you, dearest? However,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_37" id="Page_37">[37]</a></span>
-we’re in now and can’t get out, for the title has
-passed. I wonder who will buy the other
-houses?”</p>
-
-<p>They were soon to know. They were alone
-all winter, but in the early spring a family moved
-in on either side of them. The houses in Locust
-Road, like those in Sunset Terrace, were of the
-villa order, with grass-plots, which were almost
-lawns, appurtenant. Though less pleasing than
-those which had taken the more discerning eye
-of Mrs. Julius Cæsar, they were nevertheless
-comparatively inoffensive and sufficiently tasteful.
-Neighbor number one proved to be of an
-enterprising and imaginative turn. He changed
-the color of his villa from staring yellow to startling
-crushed strawberry, supplemented his Egyptian
-renaissance scroll and filigree with inlaid
-jewel and frost work, stationed a cast-iron stag
-in one corner of the grass-plot and a cast-iron
-Diana with a bow in another, and then rested on
-his laurels. Neighbor number two was shiftless
-and untidy. His grass-plot did not thrive, and
-the autumn leaves choked his gravel path. His
-windows were never washed, his blinds hung
-askew, and his one maid-of-all-work preferred
-the lawn to the laundry as a drying-room. His<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_38" id="Page_38">[38]</a></span>
-wife sunned herself in a wrapper, and he himself
-in his shirt sleeves. A big mongrel dog drooled
-perpetually on the piazza or tracked it with his
-muddy feet, and even the baby-wagon wore the
-appearance of dilapidation and halted because of
-a broken spring.</p>
-
-<p>The Spriggses tried to be lenient and even
-genial with both these neighbors, but somehow
-the attempt was not successful. Neighbor number
-one became huffy because Spriggs took no
-notice of his advice that he embellish his grass-plot
-with a stone mastiff or an umbrella and
-cherub fountain, and neighbor number two took
-offence because Spriggs complained that the ventilator
-on his chimney kept Mrs. Spriggs awake
-by squeaking. Mrs. Spriggs did her best to set
-them both a good example by having everything
-as tasteful on the one hand and as tidy on the
-other as it should be. In the hope of improving
-them she even dropped suggestive hints as to
-how people ought to live, but the hints were not
-taken. What was worse none of the other houses
-were taken. As Spriggs pathetically expressed it,
-the iron stag on the one side and the weekly
-wash on the other kept purchasers at bay. He
-tried to buoy himself up by believing that a glut<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_39" id="Page_39">[39]</a></span>
-in the real estate market was the cause why the
-remaining villas in Locust Road hung fire, but
-this consolation was taken away from him the
-following spring when an active buying movement
-all along the line still left them without
-other neighbors. The unoccupied villas had begun
-to wear an air of dilapidation, in spite of
-their Egyptian renaissance scrolls and the presence
-of a cast-iron Diana.</p>
-
-<p>To crown the situation the baby of neighbor
-number two caught diphtheria from being left in
-its halting wagon by the maid-of-all-work too
-near the cesspool on the lawn, and was kissed
-by the Spriggs baby before the fact was discovered.
-If there is one thing more irritating to the
-maternal mind than another, it is to have dear
-baby catch something from the child of people
-whom you reprobate. One feels that the original
-horrors of the disease are sure to be enhanced
-through such a medium. When the only child
-of the Julius Cæsars died of the same disease,
-contracted from a germ inhaled on Belport Avenue,
-the parents felt that only destiny was to
-blame. On the other hand, though the Spriggs
-baby recovered, Mrs. Spriggs never quite forgave
-herself for what had happened. Before the next<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_40" id="Page_40">[40]</a></span>
-autumn Spriggs parted with his estate on Locust
-Road for so much less than he had paid for
-it that he felt obliged to accept the hospitality
-of his wife’s father, ex-Assistant Postmaster-General
-Green, during the succeeding winter.</p>
-
-<p>The moral of this double-jointed tale is twofold;
-firstly that the young householder cannot
-always count upon improving the neighborhood
-in which he sets up his goods and chattels after
-marriage, and secondly, that, in case the neighborhood
-fails to improve, a tenancy for a year
-or two is a less serious burden than absolute
-ownership. It is extremely pleasant, to be sure,
-to be able to declare that one has paid for one’s
-house, and I am aware that the consciousness
-of unencumbered ownership in the roof over
-one’s head affords one of the most affecting and
-effective opportunities for oratory which the free-born
-citizen can desire. The hand of many a husband
-and father has been stayed from the wine-cup
-or the gaming-table by the pathetic thought
-that he owned his house. As a rule, too, it is
-cheaper to pay the interest on a mortgage than
-to pay rent, and if one is perfectly sure of being
-able to improve the neighborhood, or at least save
-it from degeneration, it certainly seems desirable<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_41" id="Page_41">[41]</a></span>
-to be the landlord of one’s house, even though it
-be mortgaged so cleverly that the equity of redemption
-is merely a name. But in this age of
-semi-suburban development, when Roads and
-Terraces and Parks and Gates and other Anglo-European
-substitutes for streets serve as “springes
-to catch woodcocks,” a young couple on real
-estate ownership bent should have the discerning
-eye of a Mrs. Julius Cæsar in order not to fall
-a prey to the specious land and lot speculator.
-If you happen to hit on a Sunset Terrace, everything
-is rose color, but to find one’s self an
-owner in fee on a Locust Road, next door to
-crushed strawberry and a cast-iron stag, will palsy
-the hopes of the hopeful.</p>
-
-<p>What attractive, roomy, tasteful affairs many
-of these semi-suburban villas, which are built
-nowadays on the new Roads, Terraces, Parks,
-Gates, and even Streets, are to be sure. There
-are plenty of homely ones too, but it is a simple
-matter to avoid the Egyptian renaissance scroll,
-and the inlaid jewel work and stained-glass bull’s
-eyes if one only will. They seem to be affording
-to many a happy solution of the ever new and
-ever old problem, which presents itself to every
-man who is about to take a wife, whether it is<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_42" id="Page_42">[42]</a></span>
-preferable to live in the city or the country.
-These new suburbs, or rather outlying wards of
-our large cities, which have been carved out of
-what, not many years ago, was real country where
-cows browsed and woods flourished, must be very
-alluring to people who would fain live out of
-town and still be in it. When, by stepping on
-an electric car or taking the train, you can, within
-a quarter of an hour, be on your own piazza inhaling
-fresh air and privileged to feast your eyes
-on a half acre or less of greensward belonging to
-yourself, there would seem to be strong inducements
-for refusing to settle down in a stuffy,
-smoky, dusty, wire-pestered city street, however
-fashionable. Rapid transit has made or is making
-the environs of our cities so accessible that
-the time-honored problem presents itself under
-different conditions than formerly. There is no
-such thing now as the real country for anybody
-who is not prepared to spend an hour in the train.
-Even then one is liable to encounter asphalt walks
-and a Soldier’s monument in the course of a sylvan
-stroll. But the intervening territory is ample
-and alluring.</p>
-
-<p>For one-half the rent demanded for a town
-house of meagre dimensions in the middle of a<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_43" id="Page_43">[43]</a></span>
-block, with no outlook whatever, new, spacious,
-airy, ornamental homes with a plot of land and a
-pleasing view attached, are to be had for the seeking
-within easy living distance from nearly every
-large city. When I begin to rhapsodize, as I
-sometimes do, I am apt to ask myself why it is
-that anybody continues to live in town. It was
-only the other day that I happened, while driving
-with my wife in the suburbs, to call her attention,
-enthusiastically, to the new house which Perkins
-has secured for himself. You may remember that
-Perkins is the thin, nervous lawyer with four
-daughters, who is solicitous as to what will become
-of them when he is dead. We drove by
-just as he came up the avenue from the station,
-which is only a three minutes’ walk from the
-house. He looked tired&mdash;he always does&mdash;but
-there was already a fresh jauntiness in his tread
-as though he sniffed ozone. He looked up at the
-new house complacently, as well he might, for it
-is large enough even for four daughters, and has
-all the engaging impressiveness of a not too
-quaintly proportioned and not too abnormally
-stained modern villa, a highly evolved composite
-of an old colonial mansion, a Queen Anne cottage,
-and a French château. Before he reached<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_44" id="Page_44">[44]</a></span>
-the front door, two of his daughters ran out to
-embrace him and relieve him of his bag and bundles,
-and a half-hour later, as we drove back, he
-was playing lawn tennis with three of his girls,
-in a white blazer with pink stripes and knickerbockers,
-which gave his thin and eminently respectable
-figure a rather rakish air.</p>
-
-<p>“Barbara,” I said to my wife, “why isn’t Perkins
-doing the sensible thing? That’s a charming
-house, double the size he could get for the same
-money in town&mdash;and the rent is eight hundred
-or a thousand dollars instead of fifteen hundred
-or two thousand. He needs fewer servants out
-here, for the parlor-maid isn’t kept on tenterhooks
-to answer the door-bell, and there is fresh
-air to come back to at night, and the means for
-outdoor exercise on his own or his neighbor’s
-lawn, which for a nervous, thin-chested, sedentary
-man like Perkins is better than cod-liver
-oil. Think what robust specimens those daughters
-should be with such opportunities for tennis,
-golf, skating, and bicycling.</p>
-
-<p>“On Sundays and holidays, if the spirit moves
-him and his wife and the girls to start off on an
-exploring expedition, they are not obliged to take
-a train or pound over dusty pavements before<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_45" id="Page_45">[45]</a></span>
-they begin; the wild flowers and autumn foliage
-and chestnut-burs are all to be had in the woods
-and glens within a mile or two of their own home.
-Or if he needs to be undisturbed, no noise, no
-interruption, but nine hours’ sleep and an atmosphere
-suited to rest and contemplation on his
-piazza or by his cheerful, tasteful fireside. Why
-isn’t this preferable to the artificial, restless life
-of the city?”</p>
-
-<p>“And yet,” said Barbara, “I have heard you
-state that only a rich man can afford to live in
-the country.”</p>
-
-<p>Women certainly delight to store up remarks
-made in quite another connection, and use them
-as random arguments against us.</p>
-
-<p>“My dear Barbara,” said I, “this is not the
-country. Of course in the real country, one needs
-so many things to be comfortable nowadays&mdash;a
-large house, stables, horses, and what not&mdash;it has
-always seemed to me that a poor man with social
-or cultivated instincts had better stay in town.
-But have not Perkins and these other semi-suburbanites
-hit the happy medium? They have
-railroads or electric cars at their doors, and yet
-they can get real barn-yard smells.”</p>
-
-<p>“I doubt if they can,” said Barbara. “That is,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_46" id="Page_46">[46]</a></span>
-unless they start a barn-yard for the purpose, and
-that would bring the health authorities down upon
-them at once. If this <em>were</em> the country, I could
-entirely thrill at the description you have just
-given of your friend Mr. Perkins. The real country
-is divine; but this is oleomargarine country.
-On the other hand, however, I quite agree with
-you that if Mr. Perkins is delicate, this is a far
-healthier place for him than the city, in spite of
-the journey in the train twice a day. The houses&mdash;his
-house in particular&mdash;are lovely, and I dare
-say we all ought to do the same. He can certainly
-come in contact with nature&mdash;such nature as
-there is left within walking distance&mdash;easier than
-city people. But to console me for not having one
-of these new, roomy villas, and to prevent you
-from doing anything rash, I may as well state a
-few objections to your paradise. As to expense,
-of course there is a saving in rent, and it is true
-that the parlor-maid does not have to answer the
-door-bell so often, and accordingly can do other
-things instead. Consequently, too, Mrs. Perkins
-and the four girls may get into the habit of going
-about untidy and in their old clothes. A dowdy
-girl with rosy cheeks and a fine constitution is a
-pitiable object in this age of feminine progress.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_47" id="Page_47">[47]</a></span>
-Mr. Perkins will have to look out for this, and
-he may require cod-liver oil after all.</p>
-
-<p>“Then there is the question of schools. In
-many of these semi-suburban paradises there are
-no desirable schools, especially for girls, which
-necessitates perpetual coming and going on trains
-and cars, and will make education a wearisome
-thing, especially for Mrs. Perkins. She will find,
-too, that her servants are not so partial to wild
-flowers and chestnut-burs and fresh air as her
-husband and daughters. Only the inexperienced
-will apply, and they will come to her reluctantly,
-and as soon as she has accustomed them to her
-ways and made them skilful, they will tell her
-they are not happy, and need the society of their
-friends in town.</p>
-
-<p>“Those are a few of the drawbacks to the
-semi-suburban villa; but the crucial and most serious
-objection is, that unless one is very watchful,
-and often in spite of watchfulness, the semi-suburbanite
-shuts himself off from the best social
-interests and advantages. He begins by imagining
-that there will be no difference; that he will
-see just as much of his friends and go just as frequently
-to balls and dinner-parties, the concert
-and the theatre, the educational or philanthropic<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_48" id="Page_48">[48]</a></span>
-meeting. But just that requisite and impending
-twenty minutes in the train or electric car at the
-fag end of the day is liable to make a hermit of
-him to all intents and purposes by the end of the
-second year. Of course, if one is rich and has one’s
-own carriage, the process of growing rusty is more
-gradual, though none the less sure. On that very
-account most people with a large income come to
-town for a few months in winter at any rate. There
-are so many things in life to do, that even friends
-with the best and most loving intentions call once
-on those who retire to suburban villas and let
-that do for all time. To be sure, some people
-revel in being hermits and think social entertainments
-and excitements a mere waste of time
-and energy. I am merely suggesting that for
-those who wish to keep in close touch with the
-active human interests of the day, the semi-suburban
-villa is somewhat of a snare. The Perkinses
-will have to exercise eternal vigilance, or they will
-find themselves seven evenings out of seven nodding
-by their fireside after an ample meal, with
-all their social instincts relaxed.”</p>
-
-<p>Undeniably Barbara offered the best solution
-of this question in her remark, that those who
-can afford it spend the spring and autumn in the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_49" id="Page_49">[49]</a></span>
-country and come to town for the winter months.
-Certainly, if I were one of the persons who are
-said to have too much for their own good, I
-should do something of the kind. I might not
-buy a suburban villa; indeed, I would rather go
-to the real country, where there are lowing kine,
-and rich cream and genuine barn-yard smells, instead
-of electric cars and soldiers’ monuments.
-There would I remain until it was time to kill
-the Thanksgiving turkey, and then I would hie
-me to town in order to refresh my mental faculties
-with city sights and sounds during the
-winter-spring solstice, when the lowing kine are
-all in the barn, and even one who owns a suburban
-villa has to fight his way from his front
-door through snow-drifts, and listen to the whistling
-wind instead of the robin red-breast or
-tinkling brook.</p>
-
-<p>Patterson, the banker, is surely to be envied
-in his enjoyment of two establishments, notwithstanding
-that the double ownership suggests
-again the effete civilizations of Europe, and was
-once considered undemocratic. Patterson, though
-his son has been through the Keeley cure, and
-his daughter lives apart from her husband, has
-a charming place thirty-five miles from town,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_50" id="Page_50">[50]</a></span>
-where he has many acres and many horses, cows,
-and sheep, an expanse of woods, a running stream,
-delicious vegetables and fruit; golf links, and a
-fine country house with all the modern improvements,
-including a cosy, spacious library. Then
-he has another house&mdash;almost a palace&mdash;in
-town which he opens in the late autumn and occupies
-until the middle of May, for Patterson, in
-spite of some foibles, is no tax dodger.</p>
-
-<p>Yes, to have two houses and live half of the
-year in town and the other half in the country,
-with six to eight weeks at the sea-side or mountains,
-so as to give the children salt air and bathing,
-or a thorough change, is what most of us
-would choose in case we were blessed with too
-much for our own good. But, unfortunately or
-fortunately, most of us with even comfortable
-incomes cannot have two houses, and consequently
-must choose between town and country
-or semi-country, especially as the six or eight
-weeks at the sea-side or mountains is apt to seem
-imperative when midsummer comes. According,
-therefore, as we select to live in one or the other,
-it behooves us to practise eternal vigilance, so
-that we may not lose our love of nature and
-wreck our nerves in the worldly bustle of city<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_51" id="Page_51">[51]</a></span>
-life, or become inert, rusty, and narrow among
-the lowing kine or in semi-suburban seclusion.
-In order to live wisely, we who dwell in the
-cities should in our spare hours seek fresh air,
-sunlight, and intercourse with nature, and we
-whose homes are out of town should in our turn
-rehabilitate our social instincts and rub up our
-manners.</p>
-
-<p>Regarding the real country, there is one other
-consideration of which I am constantly reminded
-by a little water-color hanging in my library,
-painted by me a few years ago while I was staying
-with my friend Henley. It represents a
-modest but pretty house and a charming rustic
-landscape. I call it Henley’s Folly. Henley, who
-possessed ardent social instincts, had always lived
-in town; but he suddenly took it into his head
-to move thirty miles into the country. He told
-me that he did so primarily for the benefit of
-his wife and children, but added that it would
-be the best thing in the world for him, that it
-would domesticate him still more completely,
-and give him time to read and cultivate himself.
-When I went to stay with him six months later,
-he was jubilant regarding the delights of the
-country, and declared that he had become a<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_52" id="Page_52">[52]</a></span>
-genuine farmer. He pished at the suggestion
-that the daily journey to and from town was exhausting,
-and informed me that his one idea was
-to get away from the bricks and mortar as early
-in the afternoon as possible. Just two years later
-I heard with surprise, one day, that the Henleys
-had sold their farm and were coming back to
-town. The reason&mdash;confided to me by one of the
-family&mdash;was that his wife was so much alone that
-she could not endure the solitude any longer.
-“You see,” said my informant, “the nearest
-house of their friends was four miles off, and as
-Henley stayed in town until the last gun fired, the
-days he returned home at all, and as he had or invented
-a reason for staying in town all night at
-least once a week, poor Mrs. Henley realized
-that the lot of a farmer’s wife was not all roses
-and sunshine.” From this I opine that if one
-with ardent social instincts would live wisely he
-should not become a gentleman farmer merely
-for the sake of his wife and children.</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_53" id="Page_53">[53]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2>The <i>Dwelling</i>.</h2>
-
-<h3>II.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-w-1.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">Whether we live in the city or the
-country, it must be apparent to all of
-us that a great wave of architectural
-activity in respect to dwelling-houses
-has been spreading over our land during the past
-twenty years. The American architect has been
-getting in his work and showing what he could
-do, with the result that the long, monotonous row
-of brick or freestone custom-made city houses,
-and the stereotyped white country farm-house
-with green blinds and an ell or lean-to attached,
-have given place to a vivid and heterogeneous
-display of individual effort. Much of this is fine
-and some deadly, for the display includes not
-merely the generally tasteful and artistic conceptions
-of our trained native architects, who
-have studied in Paris, but the raw notions of
-all the builders of custom-made houses who,
-recognizing the public desire for striking and
-original effects, are bent upon surpassing one
-another.</p>
-
-<p>Therefore, while we have many examples, both
-urban and suburban, of beautiful and impressive<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_54" id="Page_54">[54]</a></span>
-house architecture, the new sections of our cities
-and suburbs fairly bristle with a multiplicity of
-individual experiments in which the salient features
-of every known type of architecture are
-blended fearlessly together. The native architect
-who has neither been to Paris nor been able
-to devote much time to study has not been limited
-in the expression of his genius by artistic
-codes or conventions. Consequently he has felt
-no hesitation in using extinguisher towers, mediæval
-walls, battlement effects, Queen Anne cottage
-lines, Old Colonial proportions, and Eastern
-imagery in the same design, and any one of them
-at any critical juncture when his work has seemed
-to him not sufficiently striking for his own or the
-owner’s taste.</p>
-
-<p>Satisfactory as all this is as evidence of a progressive
-spirit, and admitting that many of even
-these lawless manifestations of talent are not without
-merit, it is nevertheless aggressively true that
-the smug complacency of the proprietor of the
-suburban villa, which is hedged about by a stone
-rampart of variegated rough stone on an ordinary
-building lot, has no justification whatever.
-Nor has the master of the castellated, gloomy,
-half-Moorish, half-mediæval mansion, which disfigures<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_55" id="Page_55">[55]</a></span>
-the fashionable quarter of many of our
-cities, occasion to congratulate himself on having
-paid for a thing of beauty. The number of our
-well-trained architects, though constantly increasing,
-is still small, especially as compared with the
-number of people of means who are eager to
-occupy a thing of beauty; then, too, even the
-trained architect is apt to try experiments for the
-sake of testing his genius, on a dog, so to speak&mdash;some
-confiding plutocrat with a love of splendor
-who has left everything to him.</p>
-
-<p>The result is that grotesque and eye-distressing
-monsters of masonry stand side by side on
-many of our chief avenues with the most graceful
-and finished specimens of native architectural
-inspiration. As there is no law which prevents
-one from building or buying an ugly house, and
-as the architect, whose experiment on a dog tortures
-the public eye, suffers no penalty for his
-crime, our national house architecture may be
-said to be working out its own salvation at the
-public expense. It is the duty of a patriotic citizen
-to believe that in this, as in other matters of
-national welfare, the beautiful gradually will prevail;
-and assuredly the many very attractive private
-residences which one sees both in the city<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_56" id="Page_56">[56]</a></span>
-and the country should tend to make us hopeful.</p>
-
-<p>Why is it that the rich man who would live
-wisely feels the necessity for so large a house in
-the city? Almost the first thing that one who has
-accumulated or inherited great possessions does
-nowadays is to leave the house where very likely
-he has been comfortable and move into a mammoth
-establishment suggesting rather a palace or
-an emporium than a house. Why is this? Some
-one answers that it is for the sake of abundant
-light and extra space. Surely in a handsome house
-of twenty-five or thirty feet front there should be
-light and space enough for the average family,
-however fastidious or exacting. In the country,
-where one needs many spare rooms for the accommodation
-of guests, there are some advantages
-in the possession of an abnormally large
-house. But how is the comfort of the city man
-enhanced by one, that is, if the attendant discomforts
-are weighed in the same scale? It has
-sometimes seemed to me that the wealthy or successful
-man invests in a prodigious mansion as
-a sort of testimonial; as though he felt it incumbent
-on him to erect a conventional monument
-to his own grandeur or success, in order to let
-the public entertain no doubt about it. But so<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_57" id="Page_57">[57]</a></span>
-many otherwise sensible men have deliberately
-built huge city houses that this can scarcely be
-the controlling motive in all cases. Perhaps, if
-asked, they would throw the responsibility on
-their wives. But it is even more difficult to understand
-why a sensible woman should wish one
-of the vast houses which our rising architects are
-naturally eager to receive orders to construct. A
-handsome house where she can entertain attractively,
-yes: an exquisitely furnished, sunny, corner
-house by all means; a house where each child
-may have a room apart and where there are plenty
-of spare rooms, if you like; but why a mammoth
-cave? She is the person who will suffer the discomforts
-to be weighed in the same scale, for the
-care will fall on her.</p>
-
-<p>We have in this country neither trained servants
-nor the housekeeper system. The wife and
-mother who is the mistress of a huge establishment
-wishes it to be no less a home than her
-former residence, and her husband would be the
-first to demur were she to cast upon others the
-burdens of immediate supervision. A moderate-sized
-modern house is the cause of care enough,
-as we all know, and wherefore should any woman
-seek to multiply her domestic worries by<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_58" id="Page_58">[58]</a></span>
-duplicating or trebling the number of her servants?
-To become the manager of a hotel or to
-cater for an ocean steamship is perhaps a tempting
-ambition for one in search of fortune, but
-why should a woman, who can choose what she
-will have, elect to be the slave of a modern palace
-with extinguisher towers? Merely to be able
-to invite all her social acquaintance to her house
-once a year without crowding them? It would
-be simpler to hire one of the many halls now
-adapted for the purpose.</p>
-
-<p>The difficulty of obtaining efficient servants,
-and the worries consequent upon their inefficiency,
-is probably the chief cause of the rapid
-growth of the apartment-house among us. The
-contemporary architect has selected this class of
-building for some of his deadliest conceits. Great
-piles of fantastically disposed stone and iron
-tower up stories upon stories high, and frown
-upon us at the street-corners like so many Brobdingnagians.
-Most of them are very ugly; nevertheless
-they contain the homes of many citizens,
-and the continuous appearance of new and
-larger specimens attests their increasing popularity.
-Twenty years ago there was scarcely an
-apartment-house to be seen in our cities. There<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_59" id="Page_59">[59]</a></span>
-was a certain number of hotels where families
-could and did live all the year round, but the
-ten-story monster, with a janitor, an elevator,
-steam heat, electric light, and all the alleged comforts
-of home, was practically unknown. We
-have always professed to be such a home-loving
-people, and the so-called domestic hearth has
-always been such a touchstone of sentiment
-among us that the exchange of the family roof
-for the community of a flat by so many well-to-do
-persons certainly seems to suggest either that
-living cheek by jowl with a number of other
-households is not so distasteful as it seems to
-the uninitiated, or else that modern housekeeping
-is so irksome that women are tempted to
-swallow sentiment and escape from their trammels
-to the comparatively easy conditions of an
-apartment. It does seem as though one’s identity
-would be sacrificed or dimmed by becoming
-a tenant in common, and as though the family
-circle could never be quite the same thing to
-one who was conscious that his was only a part
-of one tremendous whole. And yet, more and
-more people seem to be anxious to share a janitor
-and front door, and, though the more fastidious
-insist on their own cuisine, there are not<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_60" id="Page_60">[60]</a></span>
-a few content to entrust even their gastronomic
-welfare to a kitchen in common.</p>
-
-<p>It must be admitted, even by those of us who
-rejoice in our homes, that there is much to be said
-in favor of the apartment-house as a solver of
-practical difficulties, and that our imaginations
-are largely responsible for our antipathy. When
-once inside a private apartment of the most desirable
-and highly evolved kind one cannot but
-admit that there is no real lack of privacy, and
-that the assertion that the owner has no domestic
-hearth is in the main incorrect. To be sure
-the domain belonging to each suite is comparatively
-circumscribed; there is no opportunity for
-roaming from garret to cellar; no private laundry;
-no private backyard; and no private front-door
-steps; but to all practical intents one is no
-less free from intrusion or inspection than in a
-private house, and it may also be said that reporters
-and other persevering visitors are kept
-at a more respectful distance by virtue of the
-janitor in common on the ground floor. The
-sentiment in favor of limited individual possession
-is difficult to eradicate from sensitive souls,
-and rightly, perhaps, many of us refuse to be
-convinced; but it remains true that the woman<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_61" id="Page_61">[61]</a></span>
-who has become the mistress of a commodious
-and well-managed apartment must have many
-agreeable quarters of an hour in congratulating
-herself that perplexities concerning chores, heating,
-lighting, flights of stairs, leaks, and a host
-of minor domestic matters no longer threaten
-her peace of mind, and&mdash;greatest boon of all&mdash;that
-she now can manage with two or three
-servants instead of five or six.</p>
-
-<p>In this newly developed fondness for flats we
-are again guilty of imitating one of the effete
-civilizations&mdash;France this time&mdash;where it has
-long been the custom for families to content
-themselves with a story or two instead of a
-house; though we can claim the size and style
-of architecture of the modern apartment pile as
-our special brand upon the adopted institution.
-The introduction of the custom here seems to me
-to be the result of exhaustion of the female nervous
-system. The American housewife, weary of
-the struggle to obtain efficient servants, having
-oscillated from all Catholics to all Protestants,
-from all Irish to all Swedes and back again, having
-experimented with negroes and Chinamen,
-and returned to pure white, having tried native
-help and been insulted, and reverted to the Celtic<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_62" id="Page_62">[62]</a></span>
-race, she&mdash;the long-suffering&mdash;has sought
-the apartment-house as a haven of rest. She&mdash;the
-long-suffering&mdash;has assuredly been in a false
-position since the Declaration of Independence
-declared that all men are created equal, for she
-has been forced to cherish and preserve a domestic
-institution which popular sentiment has
-refused to recognize as consistent with the principles
-of Democracy. Our National creed, whether
-presented in the primer or from the platform,
-has ever repudiated the idea of service
-when accompanied by an abatement of personal
-independence or confession of social inferiority.
-Therefore the native American woman has persistently
-refused, in the face of high wages and
-of exquisite moral suasion, to enter domestic
-service, and has preferred the shop or factory
-to a comfortable home where she would have to
-crook the knee and say “Yes, ma’am.”</p>
-
-<p>At the same time the native American woman,
-ever since “help” in the sense of social acquaintances
-willing to accommodate for hire and dine
-with the family has ceased to adorn her kitchen
-and parlor, has been steadily forced by the demands
-of complex modern living to have servants
-of her own. And where was she to obtain<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_63" id="Page_63">[63]</a></span>
-them? Excepting the negro, only among the
-emigrants of foreign countries, at first among
-the Irish, and presently among the English and
-Swedes, all of whom, unharassed by scruples as
-to a consequent loss of self-respect, have been
-prompt to recognize that this field of employment
-lay open to them and was undisputed.
-They have come, and they still come in herds
-to our shores, raw and undisciplined, the overflow
-from their own countries; and as fast as
-they arrive they are feverishly snapped up by
-the American housewife, who finds the need of
-servants more and more imperative; for some
-one must do the elaborate cooking, some one
-must do the fine washing, some one must polish
-the silver, rub the brasses, care for the lamps,
-and dust the bric-à-brac in her handsomest establishment.
-And no one but the emigrant, or the
-son and daughter of the emigrant, is willing to.</p>
-
-<p>The consequence is that, though the native
-American woman is as resolute as ever in her
-own refusal to be a cook or waitress in a private
-family, domestic service exists as an institution
-no less completely than it exists in Europe, and
-practically under the same conditions, save that
-servants here receive considerably higher wages<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_64" id="Page_64">[64]</a></span>
-than abroad because the demand is greater than
-the supply. There is a perpetual wail in all our
-cities and suburbs that the supply of competent
-cooks, and skilled laundresses and maids is so
-limited, and well-trained servants can demand
-practically their own prices. The conditions of
-service, however, are the same. That is, the servant
-in the household of the free-born is still
-the servant; and still the servant in the household
-where the mistress, who has prospered,
-would originally have gone into service had she
-not been free-born. For there is no one more
-prompt than the American housewife to keep a
-servant when she can afford one, and the more
-she is obliged to keep the prouder is she, though
-her nervous system may give way under the
-strain. By this I do not mean that the servants
-here are ill-treated. On the contrary, the consideration
-shown them is greater, and the quarters
-provided for them are far more comfortable on
-this side of the water than abroad. Indeed, servants
-fare nowhere in the world so well as in the
-establishments of the well-to-do people of our
-large cities. Their bedrooms are suitable and often
-tasteful, they are attended by the family physician
-if ill, they are not overworked, and very<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_65" id="Page_65">[65]</a></span>
-slight checks are put on their liberty. But they
-are undeniably servants. The free-born American
-mistress does not regard her servants as social
-equals. She expects them to stand up if they
-are sitting down when she enters the room. She
-expects them to address her sons and daughters
-as Mr. Samuel and Miss Fanny, and to be called
-in turn Maggie or Albertine (or Thompson or
-Jones, <i lang="fr">à l’anglaise</i>) without a prefix. She does
-her best, in short, to preserve all the forms and
-all the deference on the one hand, and the haughtiness
-or condescension on the other which govern
-the relations between servant and mistress
-abroad.</p>
-
-<p>From the fact that we need so many more servants
-than formerly, to care properly for our establishments,
-the servant here is becoming more
-and more of a machine. That is, she is in nearly
-the same category with the electric light and the
-furnace. We expect him or her to be as unobtrusive
-as possible, to perform work without a hitch,
-and not to draw upon our sympathies unnecessarily.
-The mistress of one or two girls is sure to
-grow friendly and concerned as to their outside
-welfare, but when she has a staff of five or six, she
-is thankful if she is not obliged to know anything<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_66" id="Page_66">[66]</a></span>
-about them. The letter which appeared in a New
-York newspaper some years ago, from an American
-girl, in which she declared that she had left
-service because her master and his sons handed
-her their dripping umbrellas with the same air as
-they would have handed them to a graven image,
-was thoroughly in point. The reason the native
-American girl will not become a servant, in spite
-of the arguments of the rational and godly, is that
-service is the sole employment in this country in
-which she can be told with impunity that she is
-the social inferior of any one else. It is the telling
-which she cannot put up with. It is one thing to
-be conscious that the person you are constantly
-associated with is better educated, better mannered,
-and more attractive than yourself, and it is
-another to be told at every opportunity that this
-is so. In the shop, in the factory, and in other
-walks of life, whatever her real superiors may
-think of her, they must treat her as a social equal.
-Even that shrill-voiced, banged, bangled, impertinent,
-slangy, vulgar product of our mammoth
-retail drygoods system, who seems to believe
-herself a pattern of ladylike behavior, is aware
-in her heart that she does not know how to behave,
-and yearns to resemble the well-bred woman<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_67" id="Page_67">[67]</a></span>
-whom she daily insults. But the happiness of her
-life, and its main-spring, too, lies in the consciousness
-that she is free to become the first lady in
-the land, and that she herself is to be her sole
-critic and detractor. Why is she not right in refusing
-to sacrifice her independence? Why should
-she sell her birthright for a mess of pottage?</p>
-
-<p>An anomalous condition of affairs is presented
-by this contrast between the free-born American
-woman as a mistress and as a revolter against
-domestic service, and it seems to me that one of
-two things must come to pass. Necessarily we
-shall continue to have cooks, waiting-maids, and
-laundresses; at least our food must be prepared,
-our drawing-rooms dusted, and our linen ironed
-by some one. But either we shall have to accept
-and acknowledge the existence among us of a
-class, recruited from foreign emigrants and their
-descendants, which is tarred with the brush of
-social proscription in direct violation of democratic
-principles, or we must change the conditions
-of domestic service&mdash;change them so that
-condescension and servility vanish, and the contract
-of service becomes like the other contracts
-of employment between man and man, and man
-and woman.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_68" id="Page_68">[68]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>It is fruitless now to inquire what the free-born
-American woman would have done without the
-foreign emigrant to cook and wash for her. The
-question is whether, now that she has her, she is
-going to keep her, and keep her in the same comfortable
-and well-paid but palpable thraldom as
-at present. If so, she will be merely imitating the
-housewives of the effete civilizations; she will be
-doing simply what every English, French, and
-German woman does and has done ever since
-class distinctions began. But in that case, surely,
-we shall be no longer able to proclaim our immunity
-from caste, and our Fourth of July orators
-will find some difficulty in showing that other
-nations are more effete in this respect than ourselves.
-Twenty-five years more of development
-in our houses, hotels, and restaurants, if conducted
-on present lines, will produce an enormous
-ducking and scraping, fee-seeking, livery-wearing
-servant class, which will go far to establish
-the claim put forth by some of our critics, that
-equality on this side of the water means only political
-equality, and that our class distinctions,
-though not so obvious, are no less genuine than
-elsewhere. In this event the only logical note of
-explanation to send to the Powers will be that<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_69" id="Page_69">[69]</a></span>
-social equality was never contemplated by the
-signers of the Declaration of Independence, and
-that, though it is true that any man may become
-President of the United States, there are as great
-inequalities in morals, intellect, and manners
-among sons of liberty as among the subjects of
-the Czar. To this the Powers will be justified
-in uttering a disappointed and slightly ironical
-“Oh!” But perhaps the foreign emigrant will
-have something to say on the subject. Perhaps
-the horde from across the seas, now lured by
-high wages, will decrease in numbers, or it may
-be that their descendants here will learn through
-contact with the free-born revolter against domestic
-service to revolt too.</p>
-
-<p>What would the free-born American mistress
-do then? With the free-born revolter still obdurate,
-and the foreign emigrant ceasing to emigrate
-or recalcitrant, she would be in an unpleasant
-fix in her elaborate establishment conducted
-on effete principles. In this practical dilemma,
-rather than in an awakened moral sense, seems
-to lie our best hope of regeneration, for it cannot
-be denied that the free-born American mistress
-is doing all she can at present to perpetuate the
-foreign idea of domestic service, and it seems<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_70" id="Page_70">[70]</a></span>
-probable that so long as the foreign emigrant is
-willing to be bribed the true principles of democracy
-will be violated. Already the difficulty of
-obtaining servants is inducing home-loving families
-to seek the apartment-house. A more distinct
-dearth would speedily change the relations
-between mistress and servant into that of contractor
-and contractee, as in other employments
-in this country. It may be that the descendants
-of the emigrant will be unable to resist the lure
-offered them, and that the free-born mistress
-will triumph. If so, we shall become no better
-and possibly no worse than the effete civilizations
-we promised to make blush by the worth
-of our institutions.</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_71" id="Page_71">[71]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2><i>House-Furnishing</i> and the <i>Commissariat</i>.</h2>
-
-<h3>I.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-a-1.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">After a man and his wife have
-made up their minds whether to
-live in a town house or suburban
-villa, they are obliged to consider
-next what they will have
-in the way of furniture, and presently what they
-will have for dinner. The consciousness that a
-house has nothing in it but the barest fixtures&mdash;the
-gasometer, the water-tanks, and the electric
-wires&mdash;and that it is for you and your wife
-to decide exactly what shall go into it in the way
-of wall-papers, carpets, upholstery, and objects
-of virtu, is inspiring, even though your purse be
-not plethoric and your knowledge of æsthetics
-limited. The thought at once presents itself that
-here is the chance of your lifetime to demonstrate
-how beautiful and cosy a home may be, and you
-set eagerly to work to surpass your predecessors
-of equal means. It is a worthy ambition to endeavor
-to make the matrimonial nest or the
-home of maturer years attractive, and if we were
-to peer back far enough into the past of even
-this country, to the time when our great great-grandmothers<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_72" id="Page_72">[72]</a></span>
-set up housekeeping with our
-great great-grandfathers, we should find that furnishing
-was considered a seriously delightful matter,
-though not perhaps the almost sacred trust
-we regard it to-day. I mean our great great-grandparents
-who used to live in those charming
-old colonial houses, and who owned the mahogany
-desks with brass handles and claw feet, the
-tall clocks, the ravishing andirons, and all the
-other old-fashioned furniture which is now so
-precious and difficult to find. Distance may lend
-such enchantment to a spinning-wheel, a warming-pan,
-or a spinnet, that one is liable to become
-hysterical in praise of them, and a calm, æsthetic
-mind, outside the limits of an antique furniture
-dealer’s store, would be justified in stigmatizing
-many of the now cherished effects of our great
-great-grandparents as truck; but, on the other
-hand, who will dispute that they possessed very
-many lovely things? They had an eye for graceful
-shapes in their sideboards and tables; somehow
-the curves they imparted to the backs of
-their chairs cannot be duplicated now so as to
-look the same; and the patterns of the satins,
-flowered chintzes, and other stuffs which they
-used for covers and curtains, exercise a witchery<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_73" id="Page_73">[73]</a></span>
-upon us, even as we see them now frayed and
-faded, which cannot proceed wholly from the
-imagination.</p>
-
-<p>They had no modern comforts, poor things;
-no furnaces, no ice-chests, no set bath-tubs, no
-running water, no sanitary improvements, no
-gas or electric light; and their picturesque kitchen
-hearths, with great caldrons and cranes and leather
-blowers, must have been exceedingly inconvenient
-to cook in; but even their most incommodious
-appliances were not without artistic
-charm.</p>
-
-<p>After them came the deluge&mdash;the era of
-horse-hair, the Sahara of democratic unloveliness,
-when in every house, in every country
-town, the set best room, which was never used
-by the family, stood like a mortuary chapel
-solely for the reception of guests. In the cities,
-in the households of the then enlightened, rep&mdash;generally
-green&mdash;was frequently substituted
-for the sable horse-hair. Then came the days
-when a dining-room or drawing-room was furnished
-in one pervasive hue&mdash;a suit of sables, a
-brick red, a dark green, or a deep maroon. Everything
-matched; the chairs and tables, desks
-and book-cases were bought in sets at one fell<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_74" id="Page_74">[74]</a></span>
-swoop by the householder of the period who desired
-to produce artistic effects. For forty years
-or so this was the prevailing fashion, and the
-limit of purely indigenous expression.</p>
-
-<p>To it presently succeeded the æsthetic phase,
-borrowed from England. Then, instead of selecting
-everything to match, a young or old couple
-bought so as just not to match, but to harmonize.
-All sorts of queer and subtle shades and tints
-in wall-papers and fabrics appeared, principally
-dallyings with and improvisings upon green,
-brown, and yellow; frescos and dados were the
-rage; and a wave of interest in the scope and
-mission of eccentric color spread over the land.
-Valuable as this movement was as an educational
-factor, there was nothing American in it; or in
-other words, we were again simply imitative. The
-very fact, however, that we were ready to imitate,
-betokened that horse-hair and rep had ceased
-to satisfy national aspiration, and that we were
-willing to accept suggestions from without, inasmuch
-as no native prophet had arisen. But
-though the impetus came from abroad, the awakening
-was genuine. Since then the desire to furnish
-tastefully has been steadily waxing among
-the more well-to-do portion of the population.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_75" id="Page_75">[75]</a></span>
-As in the case of architecture, the increasing interest
-has called into existence a professional
-class, which, though still small and less generally
-employed than their house-designing brethren,
-is beginning to play an important part in the
-education of the public taste in internal house
-decoration and equipment. The idea that any
-man or woman may be more fitted than his
-or her neighbor to choose a carpet or a wall-paper
-has been grudgingly admitted, and still
-irritates the average house-owner who is ready
-to furnish. But the masters, and more conspicuously
-the mistresses, of the competing superb
-establishments in our cities, have learned, from
-the sad experience of some of their predecessors,
-to swallow their individual trust in their
-own powers of selection, and to put themselves
-unreservedly into the clutches of a professional
-house decorator.</p>
-
-<p>Furnishing a mammoth establishment from
-top to bottom with somebody else’s money, and
-plenty of it, must be a delightful occupation.
-There can be no carking consciousness of price
-to act as a drag on genius, and it would seem as
-though the house decorator who was not interfered
-with under these circumstances had a rare<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_76" id="Page_76">[76]</a></span>
-chance to show what is what. When he fails,
-which is by no means out of the question, he
-can ordinarily shift the responsibility on to his
-employer, for an employer can rarely resist the
-temptation of insisting on some one touch to
-prove his or her own capacity, and of course it
-is a simple matter for the man of art to demonstrate
-that this one touch has spoiled everything.
-The temptation to try to be as original and captivating
-in results as possible must be almost irresistible,
-especially when one’s elbow is constantly
-jogged by furniture and other dealers,
-who are only too eager to reproduce a Directory
-drawing-room or any other old-time splendor.
-But there is no denying that, whatever his limitations,
-the house decorator is becoming the best
-of educators on this side of the water, for though
-we cannot afford or have too much confidence in
-our own taste to employ him, our wives watch
-him like cats and are taking in his ideas through
-the pores, if not directly.</p>
-
-<p>There are, it is true, almost as many diverse
-styles of internal ornamentation as of external architecture
-in our modern residences, for everyone
-who has, or thinks he has, an aptitude for furnishing
-is trying his professional or ’prentice hand,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_77" id="Page_77">[77]</a></span>
-sometimes with startling results; yet the diversities
-seem less significant than in the case of external
-architecture, or perhaps it may be said that
-the sum total of effect is much nearer to finality
-or perfection. If as a nation we are deriving the
-inspiration for the furniture and upholsteries of
-our drawing-rooms and libraries from the best
-French and Dutch models of a century or more
-ago, we certainly can boast that the comfortable
-features which distinguish our apartments from
-their prototypes are a native growth. If as a people
-we cannot yet point to great original artistic
-triumphs, may we not claim the spacious and dignified
-contemporary refrigerator, the convenient
-laundry, the frequently occurring and palatial
-bath-room, the health-conducing ventilator-pipe
-and sanitary fixtures, and the various electrical
-and other pipes, tubes, and appliances which
-have become a part of every well-ordered house,
-as a national cult? To be genuinely comfortable
-in every-day life seems to have become the aim
-all the world over of the individual seeking to
-live wisely, and the rest of the world is in our
-debt for the many valuable mechanical aids to
-comfort in the home which have been invented
-on this side of the water.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_78" id="Page_78">[78]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>This quest for comfort is being constantly
-borne in mind also in the æsthetic sense. We
-fit our drawing-rooms now to live in as well as
-to look at. We expect to sit on our sofas and in
-our easy chairs; hence we try to make them attractive
-to the back as well as to the eye. Though
-our wives may still occasionally pull down the
-window-shades to exclude a too dangerous sun,
-they no longer compel us to view our best rooms
-from the threshold as a cold, flawless, forbidden
-land. The extreme æsthetic tendencies which were
-rampant twenty years ago have been toned down
-by this inclination, among even our most elaborate
-house-furnishers, to produce the effect that
-rooms are intended for every-day use by rational
-beings. The ultra-queer colors have disappeared,
-and the carpets and wall-papers no longer suggest
-perpetual biliousness or chronic nightmare.</p>
-
-<p>I think, too, the idea that a drawing-room can
-be made bewitchingly cosey by crowding it with
-all one’s beautiful and ugly earthly possessions
-has been demonstrated to be a delusion. In these
-days of many wedding presents, it is difficult for
-young people to resist the temptation of showing
-all they have received. I remember that Mrs.
-George J. Spriggs&mdash;she was the daughter, you<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_79" id="Page_79">[79]</a></span>
-will remember, of ex-Assistant Postmaster-General
-Homer W. Green&mdash;had seven lamps in her
-parlor in Locust Road, three of them with umbrageous
-Japanese shades. Her husband explained
-to me that there had been a run on
-lamps and pepper-pots in their individual case.</p>
-
-<p>Now, Mrs. Julius Cæsar would have managed
-more cleverly. She would have made the lamp-dealer
-exchange four or five of the lamps for, say,
-an ornamental brass fender, a brass coal-scuttle,
-or a Japanese tea-tray, and have made the jeweller
-substitute some equally desirable table ornaments
-for the pepper-pots. And yet, when I made
-my wedding call on Mrs. Cæsar, ten years ago, I
-remember thinking that her drawing-room was a
-sort of compromise between a curiosity shop and
-a menagerie. To begin with, I stumbled over the
-head of a tiger skin, which confronted me as I
-passed through the <i lang="fr">portière</i>, so that I nearly fell
-into the arms of my hostess. It seemed to me
-that I had stepped into a veritable bazaar. A large
-bear skin lay before the fire as a hearth-rug, and
-on either side of the grate squatted a large, orientally
-conceived china dragon with an open
-mouth. Here and there, under furniture or in
-corners, were gaping frogs in bronze or china. A<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_80" id="Page_80">[80]</a></span>
-low plush-covered table was densely arrayed with
-small china dogs of every degree. On another
-table was spread a number of silver ornaments&mdash;a
-silver snuff-box, a silver whistle, a silver feather,
-a silver match-box, and a silver shoe-buckle&mdash;all
-objects of virtu of apparently antique workmanship.
-There were three lamps with ornamental
-shades&mdash;a fluted china shade, a paper shade in
-semblance of a full-blown rose, and a yellow satin
-shade with drooping fringe. From the low studded
-ceiling depended a vast Japanese paper lantern.
-Sundry and divers china vases and shepherdesses
-occupied the mantel-piece and the top
-of the book-case, and had overflowed on to a writing-table
-supplied with brass ornaments. There
-were numerous pictures, large and small, on the
-walls, under many of which colored china plates
-had been hung. There were photographs in frames
-everywhere. The actual space where I could stand
-without knocking over anything was about the
-size of a hat bath, and was shut in by a circle of
-low chairs and divans besprinkled with æsthetic
-yellow, green, and pink soft silk cushions. On
-one of these divans my hostess was reclining in
-a Grosvenor gallery tea-gown, so that she seemed
-to wallow in cushions, and Julius Cæsar himself<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_81" id="Page_81">[81]</a></span>
-was sunk in the depths of one of the chairs, so
-near the ground that his knees seemed to rest on
-his chin, and one might fairly have taken him for
-another china frog of extraordinary proportions.
-All this in a comparatively small room where
-there were several other knick-knacks which I
-have omitted to mention. Better this, perhaps,
-than the drawing-room of forty years ago, when
-the visitor’s gaze was bounded by cold green rep,
-and he was restrained only by decorum from hurling
-into the fire the tidy or antimacassar which
-tickled his neck, or detached itself and wriggled
-down between his back and the back of the chair.</p>
-
-<p>But Mrs. Cæsar’s drawing-room, in her new
-house on Belport Avenue, has been furnished
-from a very different point of view than her first
-one, which shows how rapidly tastes change in
-a progressive society. Mrs. Cæsar and Julius
-chose everything themselves this time as they
-did before, but they had learned from experience,
-and from the new work of the contemporary
-decorator. There is plenty of unoccupied
-space now to show her possessions to advantage,
-and there are not too many possessions visible
-for the size of the parlor; there is neither so
-much uniformity of color and design as to weary<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_82" id="Page_82">[82]</a></span>
-the eye, nor so much variety or eccentricity as
-to irritate it; consequently, the effect on the visitor
-is not that he is in a room intended for luxurious
-display, but in an exquisitely furnished
-room adapted for daily use. In other words, the
-controlling idea at present, of those who seek to
-make their houses charming, seems to be to
-combine comfort with elegance so skilfully that
-while one may realize the latter, one is conscious
-only of the former. Though decorators are still
-experimenting, as probably they always will be,
-to attain novel effects, they are disposed to make
-use of queer or attenuated hues, Moorish blazonry,
-stamped leather, peacock feathers, elephant
-tusks, stained-glass windows, and Japanese
-lacquer-work with much more discretion than a
-few years ago. Virgin-white instead of dirt-brown
-lights up our halls and stair-cases, and the vast
-chandeliers which used to dazzle the eye no
-longer dangle from the ceiling. Indeed, it seems
-as though it would be difficult to make the interior
-of the homes of our well-to-do class more
-comfortable and attractive than they are at present.
-It may be that some of our very rich people
-are disposed to waste their energies in devising
-and striving for more consummate elegance,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_83" id="Page_83">[83]</a></span>
-thereby exposing us all to the charge that we are
-becoming too luxurious for our spiritual good.
-But there can be little question that the ambition
-to surround one’s self with as much beauty, consistent
-with comfort, as one can afford is desirable,
-even from the ethical standpoint.</p>
-
-<p>Undeniably our point of view has changed extraordinarily
-in the last thirty years in regard to
-house-furnishing, as in regard to so many other
-matters of our material welfare, and there certainly
-is some ground for fearing that the pendulum
-is swinging just at present too far in the
-direction opposite to that of high thinking and
-low living; but, after all, though the reaction
-from ugliness has been and continues to be exuberant,
-it is as yet by no means wide-embracing.
-In fact, our cultivated well-to-do class&mdash;though
-it is well abreast of the rest of the civilized world
-in aspiration and not far behind it in accomplishment,
-with certain vivifying traits of its own
-which the old world societies do not possess or
-have lost&mdash;is still comparatively small; and
-there is still so much Stygian darkness outside it
-in respect to house-furnishing and home comfort
-in general, that we can afford to have the exuberance
-continue for the present; for there is some<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_84" id="Page_84">[84]</a></span>
-reason to believe that most of the descendants
-of our old high thinkers have become high livers,
-or at least, if low livers, have ceased to be high
-thinkers. Mutton-soup for breakfast and unattractive
-domestic surroundings seem to comport
-nowadays with ignoble aims, if nothing worse;
-moreover, it must not be forgotten that the plain
-people of the present is no longer the plain people
-of forty years ago, but is largely the seed of
-the influx of foreign peasants, chiefly inferior
-and often scum, which the sacredness of our institutions
-has obliged us to receive.</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_85" id="Page_85">[85]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2><i>House-Furnishing</i> and the <i>Commissariat</i>.</h2>
-
-<h3>II.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-i-1.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">If we have become cosmopolitan in
-the matter of domestic comfort and
-elegance as regards our drawing-rooms,
-the same is certainly true of
-our dining-rooms, and dinner-tables. But here
-it seems to me that we are more justly open to
-criticism on the score of over-exuberance. That
-is, the fairly well-to-do class, for the plain people
-of foreign blood, and the low liver of native
-blood, eat almost as indigestible food, and quite
-as rapidly and unceremoniously, as the pie and
-doughnut nurtured yeoman of original Yankee
-stock, who thrived in spite of his diet, and left
-to his grandchildren the heritage of dyspepsia
-which has become nervous prostration in the present
-generation. It seems as though our instincts
-of hospitality have grown in direct ratio with our
-familiarity with and adoption of civilized creature
-comforts, and any charge of exuberance
-may doubtless be fairly ascribed to the national
-trait of generosity, the abuse of which is after
-all a noble blemish. But, on the other hand,
-facts remain, even after one has given a pleasing<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_86" id="Page_86">[86]</a></span>
-excuse for their existence, and it may be doubted
-if a spendthrift is long consoled by the reflection
-that his impecuniosity is due to his own disinclination
-to stint. May it not truthfully be
-charged against the reasonably well-to-do American
-citizen that he has a prejudice against thrift,
-especially where the entertainment of his fellow
-man or woman is concerned? The rapid growth
-of wealth and the comparative facility of becoming
-rich during the last half century of our development,
-has operated against the practice of
-small economies, so that we find ourselves now
-beset by extravagant traditions which we hesitate
-to deviate from for fear of seeming mean.
-Many a man to-day pays his quarter of a dollar
-ruefully and begrudgingly to the colored Pullman
-car porter at the end of his journey, when
-he is “brushed off,” because he cannot bring himself
-to break the custom which fixed the fee. It
-would be interesting to estimate what the grand
-total of saving to the American travelling public
-would have been if ten instead of twenty-five
-cents a head had been paid to the tyrant in question
-since he first darkened the situation. If not
-enough to maintain free schools for the negro, at
-least sufficient to compel railroad managements<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_87" id="Page_87">[87]</a></span>
-to give their employees suitable wages instead
-of letting the easy-going traveller, who has already
-paid for the privilege of a reserved seat,
-pay a premium on that. The exorbitant fees bestowed
-on waiters is but another instance of a
-tendency to be over-generous, which, once reduced
-to custom, becomes the severest kind of
-tax, in that it is likely to affect the warmest-hearted
-people.</p>
-
-<p>This tendency to be needlessly lavish in expenditure
-is most conspicuous when we are offering
-hospitality in our own homes. Among the
-viands which we have added to the bills of fare
-of humanity, roast turkey and cranberry-sauce,
-Indian meal, and probably baked beans, are entitled
-to conspicuous and honorable mention, but
-is it not true, notwithstanding champagne is a
-foreign wine, that the most prodigious discovery
-in the line of food or drink yet made by the well-to-do
-people of this country, is the discovery of
-champagne? Does it not flow in one golden effervescing
-stream, varied only by the pops caused
-by the drawing of fresh corks, from the Statue
-of Liberty Enlightening the World to the Golden
-Gate? And the circumstance that every pop
-costs the entertainer between three and four dollars,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_88" id="Page_88">[88]</a></span>
-seems in no wise to interrupt the cheery explosions.
-There are some people who do not
-drink champagne or any other wine, from principle,
-and there are some with whom it does not
-agree, but the average individual finds that the
-interest of festive occasions is heightened by its
-presence in reasonable abundance, and is apt to
-deplore its total absence with internal groans.
-But surely ninety-nine men in our large cities
-out of one hundred, who are accustomed to entertain
-and be entertained, must be weary of the
-sight of this expensive tempter at the feast, which
-it is so difficult to refuse when set before one, and
-which is so often quaffed against better judgment
-or inclination. The champagne breakfast, the
-champagne luncheon, the champagne dinner, and
-the champagne supper, with a champagne cocktail
-tossed in as a stop-gap, hound the social favorite
-from January to December, until he is fain
-to dream of the Old Oaken Bucket, and sooner
-or later to drink Lithia water only.</p>
-
-<p>With perpetual and unremitting champagne
-as the key-note of social gatherings, no wonder
-that the table ornaments and the comestibles become
-more splendid. A little dinner of eight or
-ten is no longer a simple matter of a cordial invitation<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_89" id="Page_89">[89]</a></span>
-and an extra course. The hostess who
-bids her contemporaries to dine with her most
-informally ten days hence, uses a figure of speech
-which is innocuous from the fact that it is known
-to be a deliberate falsehood. She begins generally
-by engaging a cook from outside to prepare
-the dinner, which must surely wound the sensibilities
-of any self-respecting couple the first time,
-however hardened to the situation they may become
-later.</p>
-
-<p>At this stage of my reflections I am interrupted
-by my wife, Barbara&mdash;for I was thinking aloud&mdash;with
-a few words of expostulation.</p>
-
-<p>“Are you not a little severe? I assume that
-you are referring now to people with a comfortable
-income, but who are not disgustingly rich.
-Of course, nowadays, the very rich people keep
-cooks who can cook for a dinner-party, cooks at
-eight dollars or more a week and a kitchen maid;
-so it is only the hostess with a cook at four and
-a half to six dollars a week and no kitchen maid
-who is likely to engage an accommodator. But
-what is the poor thing to do? Give a wretched,
-or plain dinner which may make her hair grow
-white in a single night? Surely, when a woman
-invites friends to her house she does not wish<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_90" id="Page_90">[90]</a></span>
-them to go away half starved, or remembering
-that they have had disagreeable things to eat.
-In that case she would prefer not to entertain at
-all.”</p>
-
-<p>“The question is,” I answered, “whether it is
-more sensible to try to be content with what one
-has, or to vie with those who are better off. We
-do not attempt to dine on gold plate, nor have
-we a piano decorated with a five-thousand-dollar
-painting by one of the great artists, like Patterson,
-the banker. Why should we endeavor to
-compete with his kitchen?”</p>
-
-<p>“The clever thing, of course, is to find a cook
-for six dollars a week who can cook for a dinner-party,”
-answered Barbara, pensively; “and yet,”
-she added, “though our cook can, the chances are
-that nine out of ten of the people who dine with
-us think that we hired her for the occasion.”</p>
-
-<p>“Precisely. Just because the custom has grown
-so. It is sheer extravagance.”</p>
-
-<p>“After all, my dear, it is a comparatively small
-matter&mdash;a five-dollar bill.”</p>
-
-<p>“Pardon me. Five dollars for the cook, because
-one’s own cook is not good enough; three
-or five dollars for an accommodating maid or
-waiter, because you cannot trust your chamber-maid<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_91" id="Page_91">[91]</a></span>
-to assist your waitress; eight dollars for
-champagne, and so on.”</p>
-
-<p>“Do not say ‘your’&mdash;mine can.”</p>
-
-<p>“Her, then&mdash;the woman of the day. I am trying
-to show that a small informal dinner is a
-cruelly expensive affair for the average man with
-a comfortable working income.”</p>
-
-<p>“I admit that a dinner for eight or ten is expensive,”
-said Barbara. “It means twenty-five
-dollars at the lowest, even if you have your own
-cook. But what is one to do? You don’t seem
-to appreciate that a good plain cook cannot usually
-prepare dinner-party dishes, and that a plain
-dinner is now almost as different from a dinner-party
-dinner as a boiled egg is from caviare.”</p>
-
-<p>“Precisely. There is the pity of it. The growth
-here of the French restaurant and the taste for
-rich and elaborate cookery has doubtless been a
-good thing in its way, if only that it is now possible
-to obtain a tolerably well-cooked meal at
-most of the hotels in our large cities and principal
-watering-places; but why should people of moderate
-means and social instincts feel constrained
-to offer a banquet on every occasion when they
-entertain? I for one consider it a bore to have
-so much provided when I go out to dinner.”</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_92" id="Page_92">[92]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>“You must admit,” said Barbara, “that dinners
-are not nearly so long as they were a few
-years ago. Now, by means of the extra service
-you complain of, and by keeping the number of
-courses down, a dinner ought not to last longer
-than an hour and a half, whereas it used to take
-two hours and over. In England they are much
-worse than here. You are given, for instance,
-two puddings, one after the other, and ices to
-follow.”</p>
-
-<p>“I agree,” said I, “that we have curtailed the
-length so that there is not much to complain of
-on that score. I think, though, that comparatively
-plain dishes well served are quite as apt
-to please as the aspics, chartreuses, timbales, and
-other impressive gallicisms under which the accommodating
-party cook is wont to cater to the
-palates of informally invited guests. I sometimes
-think that the very few of our great great-grandfathers
-who knew how to live at all must have
-had more appetizing tables than we. Their family
-cooks, from all accounts, knew how to roast and
-boil and bake and stew, culinary arts which somehow
-seem to be little understood by the chefs
-of to-day. Then again, the old-fashioned Delft
-crockery&mdash;blue ships sailing on a blue sea&mdash;was<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_93" id="Page_93">[93]</a></span>
-very attractive. Our modern dinner-tables, when
-arrayed for a party, have almost too much fuss
-and feathers. Women worry until they get cut
-glass, if it is not given them as a wedding present,
-and several sets of costly plates&mdash;Sèvres,
-Dresden, or Crown Derby&mdash;are apt to seem
-indispensable to housekeepers of comparatively
-limited means.”</p>
-
-<p>“Cut glass is lovely, and the same plates
-through seven courses are rather trying,” said
-Barbara, parenthetically.</p>
-
-<p>“Of course it is lovely, and I am very glad
-you have some. But is not the modern American
-woman of refined sensibilities just a little too
-eager to crowd her table with every article of
-virtu she possesses&mdash;every ornamental spoon,
-dish, cup, and candlestick&mdash;until one is unable
-to see at any one spot more than a square inch
-of tablecloth? In the centre of the table she sets
-a crystal bowl of flowers, a silver basket of ferns,
-or a dish of fruit. This is flanked by apostle or
-gold-lined spoons, silver dishes of confectionery
-of various kinds, silver candlesticks or candelabra
-fitted with pink or saffron shades, one or two
-of which are expected to catch fire, an array of
-cut glass or Venetian glass at every plate, and,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_94" id="Page_94">[94]</a></span>
-like as not, pansies strewn all over the table.”</p>
-
-<p>“The modern dinner-table is very pretty,”
-responded Barbara. “I don’t see how it could
-be improved materially.”</p>
-
-<p>“I dare say, but somehow one can’t help
-thinking at times that the effort for effect is too
-noticeable, and that the real object of sitting down
-to dinner in company, agreeable social intercourse,
-is consequently lost sight of. If only the
-very rich were guilty of wanton display, the answer
-would be that the rank and file of our well-to-do,
-sensible people have very simple entertainments.
-Unfortunately, while the very rich
-are constantly vying to outstrip one another, the
-dinner-table and the dinner of the well-to-do
-American are each growing more and more complex
-and elaborate. Perhaps not more so than
-abroad among the nobility or people of means;
-but certainly we have been Europeanized in this
-respect to such an extent that, not only is there
-practically nothing left for us to learn in the way
-of being luxurious, but I am not sure that we
-are not disposed to convince the rest of the civilized
-world that a free-born American, when
-fully developed, can be the most luxurious individual
-on earth.”</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_95" id="Page_95">[95]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>Barbara looked a little grave at this. “Everything
-used to be so ugly and unattractive a little
-while ago that I suppose our heads have been
-turned,” she answered. “After this I shall make
-a rule, when we give a dinner-party, to keep one-half
-of my table ornaments in the safe as a rebuke
-to my vanity. Only if I am to show so
-much of the tablecloth, I shall have to buy some
-with handsome patterns. Don’t you see?”</p>
-
-<p>Perhaps this suggestion that our heads have
-been turned for the time being by our national
-prosperity, and that they will become straight
-again in due course of time, is the most sensible
-view to take of the situation. There can be no
-doubt that among well-to-do people, who would
-object to be classed in “the smart set,” as the reporters
-of social gossip odiously characterize
-those prominent in fashionable society in our
-large cities, the changes in the last thirty years
-connected with every-day living, as well as with
-entertaining, have all been in the direction of
-cosmopolitan usage. It is now only a very old-fashioned
-or a very blatant person who objects to
-the use of evening dress at the dinner-table, or
-the theatre, as inconsistent with true patriotism.
-The dinner-hour has steadily progressed from<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_96" id="Page_96">[96]</a></span>
-twelve o’clock noon until it has halted at seven
-<i lang="la">post</i> meridian, as the ordinary hour for the most
-formal meal of the day, with further postponement
-to half-past seven or even eight among the
-fashionable for the sake of company. The frying-pan
-and the tea-pot have ceased to reign supreme
-as the patron saints of female nutrition,
-and the beefsteak, the egg, both cooked and raw,
-milk and other flesh-and-blood-producing food
-are abundantly supplied to the rising generation
-of both sexes by the provident parent of to-day.
-The price of beef in our large cities has steadily
-advanced in price until its use as an article of
-diet is a serious monster to encounter in the
-monthly bills, but the husband and father who
-is seeking to live wisely, seems not to be deterred
-from providing it abundantly.</p>
-
-<p>From this it is evident that if we are unduly
-exuberant in the pursuit of creature comforts, it
-is not solely in the line of purely ornamental luxuries.
-If we continue to try our nervous systems
-by undue exertion, they are at least better fitted
-to stand the strain, by virtue of plenty of nutritious
-food, even though dinner-parties tempt us
-now and then to over-indulgence, or bore us by
-their elaborateness. Yet it remains to be seen<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_97" id="Page_97">[97]</a></span>
-whether the income of the American husband
-and father will be able to stand the steady drain
-occasioned by the liberal table he provides, and
-it may be that we have some lessons in thrift on
-this score still in store for us. There is this consolation,
-that if our heads have been turned in
-this respect also, and we are supplying more food
-for our human furnaces than they need, the force
-of any reaction will not fall on us, but on the
-market-men, who are such a privileged class that
-our candidates for public office commonly provide
-a rally for their special edification just before
-election-day, and whose white smock-frocks
-are commonly a cloak for fat though greasy
-purses. Yet Providence seems to smile on the
-market-man in that it has given him the telephone,
-through which the modern mistress can
-order her dinner, or command chops or birds,
-when unexpected guests are foreshadowed. Owing
-to the multiplicity of the demands upon the
-time of both men and women, the custom of
-going to market in person has largely fallen into
-decay. The butcher and grocer send assistants
-to the house for orders, and the daily personal
-encounter with the smug man in white, which
-used to be as inevitable as the dinner, has now<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_98" id="Page_98">[98]</a></span>
-mainly been relegated to the blushing bride of
-from one week to two years’ standing, and the
-people who pay cash for everything. Very likely
-we are assessed for the privilege of not being
-obliged to nose our turkeys and see our chops
-weighed in advance, and it is difficult to answer
-the strictures of those who sigh for what they
-call the good old times, when it was every man’s
-duty, before he went to his office, to look over
-his butcher’s entire stock and select the fattest
-and juiciest edibles for the consumption of himself
-and family. As for paying cash for everything,
-my wife Barbara says that, unless people
-are obliged to be extremely economical, no woman
-in this age of nervous prostration ought to
-run the risk of bringing on that dire malady by
-any such imprudence, and that to save five dollars
-a month on a butcher’s bill, and pay twenty-five
-to a physician for ruined nerves, is false political
-economy.</p>
-
-<p>“I agree with you,” she added, “that we
-Americans live extravagantly in the matter of
-daily food&mdash;especially meat&mdash;as compared with
-the general run of people in other countries; but
-far more serious than our appetites and liberal
-habits, in my opinion, is the horrible waste which<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_99" id="Page_99">[99]</a></span>
-goes on in our kitchens, due to the fact that our
-cooks are totally ignorant of the art of making the
-most of things. Abroad, particularly on the Continent,
-they understand how to utilize every scrap,
-so that many a comfortable meal is provided from
-what our servants habitually cast into the swill-tub.
-Here there is perpetual waste&mdash;waste&mdash;waste,
-and no one seems to understand how to prevent
-it. There you have one never-failing reason
-for the size of our butchers’ and grocers’ bills.”</p>
-
-<p>I assume that my wife, who is an intelligent
-person, must be correct in this accusation of
-general wastefulness which she makes against the
-American kitchen. If so, here we are confronted
-again with the question of domestic service from
-another point of view. How long can we afford
-to throw our substance into the swill-tub? If our
-emigrant cooks do not understand the art of utilizing
-scraps and remnants, are we to continue to
-enrich our butchers without let or hindrance? It
-would seem that if the American housewife does
-not take this matter in hand promptly, the cruel
-laws of political economy will soon convince her
-by grisly experience that neither poetry nor philanthropy
-can flourish in a land where there is
-perpetual waste below stairs.</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_100" id="Page_100">[100]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2><i>Education.</i></h2>
-
-<h3>I.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-o.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">On occasions of oratory in this
-country, nothing will arouse an
-audience more quickly than an
-allusion to our public school system,
-and any speaker who sees
-fit to apostrophize it is certain to be fervidly
-applauded. Moreover, in private conversation,
-whether with our countrymen or with foreigners,
-every citizen is prone to indulge in the statement,
-commonly uttered with some degree of
-emotion, that our public schools are the great
-bulwarks of progressive democracy. Why, then,
-is the American parent, as soon as he becomes
-well-to-do, apt to send his children elsewhere?</p>
-
-<p>I was walking down town with a friend the
-other day, and he asked me casually where I sent
-my boys to school. When I told him that they
-attended a public school he said, promptly, “Good
-enough. I like to see a man do it. It’s the right
-thing.” I acquiesced modestly; then, as I knew
-that he had a boy of his own, I asked him the
-same question.</p>
-
-<p>“My son,” he replied slowly, “goes to Mr.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_101" id="Page_101">[101]</a></span>
-Bingham’s”&mdash;indicating a private school for
-boys in the neighborhood. “He is a little delicate&mdash;that
-is, he had measles last summer, and
-has never quite recovered his strength. I had almost
-made up my mind to send him to a public
-school, so that he might mix with all kinds of
-boys, but his mother seemed to think that the
-chances of his catching scarlet fever or diphtheria
-would be greater, and she has an idea that he
-would make undesirable acquaintances and learn
-things which he shouldn’t. So, on the whole,
-we decided to send him to Bingham’s. But I
-agree that you are right.”</p>
-
-<p>There are many men in the community who,
-like my friend, believe thoroughly that every one
-would do well to send his boys to a public school&mdash;that
-is, every one but themselves. When it
-comes to the case of their own flesh and blood
-they hesitate, and in nine instances out of ten, on
-some plea or other, turn their backs on the principles
-they profess. This is especially true in our
-cities, and it has been more or less true ever since
-the Declaration of Independence; and as a proof
-of the flourishing condition of the tendency at
-present, it is necessary merely to instance the
-numerous private schools all over the country.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_102" id="Page_102">[102]</a></span>
-The pupils at these private schools are the children
-of our people of means and social prominence,
-the people who ought to be the most patriotic
-citizens of the Republic.</p>
-
-<p>I frankly state that I, for one, would not send
-my boys to a public school unless I believed the
-school to be a good one. Whatever other motives
-may influence parents, there is no doubt
-that many are finally deterred from sending their
-boys to a public school by the conviction that the
-education offered to their sons in return for taxes
-is inferior to what can be obtained by private contract.
-Though a father may be desirous to have
-his boys understand early the theory of democratic
-equality, he may well hesitate to let them
-remain comparatively ignorant in order to impress
-upon them this doctrine. In this age, when
-so much stress is laid on the importance of giving
-one’s children the best education possible, it seems
-too large a price to pay. Why, after all, should
-a citizen send his boys to a school provided by
-the State, if better schools exist in the neighborhood
-which he can afford to have them attend?</p>
-
-<p>This conviction on the part of parents is certainly
-justified in many sections of the country,
-and when justifiable, disarms the critic who is<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_103" id="Page_103">[103]</a></span>
-prepared to take a father to task for sending his
-children to a private school. Also, it is the only
-argument which the well-to-do aristocrat can successfully
-protect himself behind. It is a full suit
-of armor in itself, but it is all he has. Every other
-excuse which he can give is flimsy as tissue-paper,
-and exposes him utterly. Therefore, if the State
-is desirous to educate the sons of its leading citizens,
-it ought to make sure that the public schools
-are second to none in the land. If it does not, it
-has only itself to blame if they are educated apart
-from the sons of the masses of the population.
-Nor is it an answer to quote the Fourth of July
-orator, that our public schools are second to none
-in the world; for one has only to investigate to
-be convinced that, both as regards the methods
-of teaching and as regards ventilation, many of
-them all over the country are signally inferior to
-the school as it should be, and the school, both
-public and private, as it is in certain localities.
-So long as school boards and committees, from
-the Atlantic to the Pacific, are composed mainly
-of political aspirants without experience in educational
-matters, and who seek to serve as a first or
-second step toward the White House, our public
-schools are likely to remain only pretty good. So<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_104" id="Page_104">[104]</a></span>
-long as people with axes to grind, or, more plainly
-speaking, text-books to circulate, are chosen to
-office, our public schools are not likely to improve.
-So long&mdash;and here is the most serious
-factor of all&mdash;so long as the well-to-do American
-father and mother continue to be sublimely indifferent
-to the condition of the public schools,
-the public schools will never be so good as they
-ought to be.</p>
-
-<p>It must certainly be a source of constant discouragement
-to the earnest-minded people in this
-country, who are interested in education, and are
-at the same time believers in our professed national
-hostility to class distinctions, that the well-to-do
-American parent so calmly turns his back
-on the public schools, and regards them very
-much from the lofty standpoint from which certain
-persons are wont to regard religion&mdash;as an
-excellent thing for the masses, but superfluous for
-themselves. Of course, if we are going, in this respect
-also, to model ourselves on and imitate the
-older civilizations, there is nothing to be said. If
-the public schools are to be merely a semi-charitable
-institution for children whose parents cannot
-afford to separate them from the common
-herd, the discussion ceases. But what becomes,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_105" id="Page_105">[105]</a></span>
-then, of our cherished and Fourth of July sanctified
-theories of equality and common school
-education? And what do we mean when we prate
-of a common humanity, and no upper class?</p>
-
-<p>It is in the city or town, where the public
-school is equal or superior to the private school,
-that the real test comes. Yet in these places well-to-do
-parents seem almost as indifferent as when
-they have the righteous defence that their children
-would be imperfectly educated, or breathe
-foul air, were they to be sent to a public school.
-They take no interest, and they fairly bristle
-with polite and ingenious excuses for evading
-compliance with the institutions of their country.
-This is true, probably, of three-fifths of those
-parents, who can afford, if necessary, to pay for
-private instruction. And having once made the
-decision that, for some reason, a public school
-education is not desirable for their children, they
-feel absolved from further responsibility and
-practically wash their hands of the matter. It is
-notorious that a very large proportion of the
-children of the leading bankers, merchants, professional
-men, and other influential citizens, who
-reside in the so-called court end of our large
-cities, do not attend the public schools, and it is<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_106" id="Page_106">[106]</a></span>
-equally notorious that the existence of a well-conducted
-and satisfactory school in the district
-affects the attendance comparatively little. If
-only this element of the population, which is
-now so indifferent, would interest itself actively,
-what a vast improvement could be effected in
-our public school system! If the parents in the
-community, whose standards of life are the highest,
-and whose ideas are the most enlightened,
-would as a class co-operate in the advancement
-of common education, the charge that our public
-schools produce on the whole second-rate acquirements,
-and second-rate morals and manners,
-would soon be refuted, and the cause of popular
-education would cease to be handicapped, as it is
-at present, by the coolness of the well-to-do class.
-If the public schools, in those sections of our
-cities where our most intelligent and influential
-citizens have their homes, are unsatisfactory,
-they could speedily be made as good as any private
-school, were the same interest manifested
-by the tax-payers as is shown when an undesirable
-pavement is laid, or a company threatens to
-provide rapid transit before their doors. Unfortunately,
-that same spirit of aloofness, which has
-in the past operated largely to exclude this element<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_107" id="Page_107">[107]</a></span>
-in the nation from participation in the affairs
-of popular government, seems to be at the
-bottom of this matter. Certainly much progress
-has been made in the last twenty years in remedying
-the political evil, and the public good appears
-to demand a change of front from the same
-class of people on the subject of common education,
-unless we are prepared to advocate the existence
-and growth of a favored, special class, out
-of touch with, and at heart disdainful of, the
-average citizen.</p>
-
-<p>The most serious enemies of the public schools
-among well-to-do people appear to be women.
-Many a man, alive to the importance of educating
-his sons in conformity with the spirit of our
-Constitution, would like to send his boys to a
-public school, but is deterred by his wife. A
-mother accustomed to the refinements of modern
-civilization is apt to shrink from sending her
-fleckless darling to consort, and possibly become
-the boon companion or bosom friend, of a street
-waif.</p>
-
-<p>She urges the danger of contamination, both
-physical and moral, and is only too glad to discover
-an excuse for refusing to yield. “Would
-you like to have your precious boy sit side by<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_108" id="Page_108">[108]</a></span>
-side with a little negro?” I was asked one day,
-in horrified accents, by a well-to-do American
-mother; and I have heard many fears expressed
-by others that their offspring would learn vice,
-or contract disease, through daily association
-with the children of the mass. It is not unjust to
-state that the average well-to-do mother is gratified
-when the public school, to which her sons
-would otherwise be sent, is so unsatisfactory that
-their father’s patriotism is overborne by other
-considerations. All theories of government or humanity
-are lost sight of in her desire to shelter
-her boys, and the simplest way to her seems to
-be to set them apart from the rest of creation, instead
-of taking pains to make sure that they are
-suitably taught and protected side by side with
-the other children of the community.</p>
-
-<p>Excellent as many of our private schools are,
-it is doubtful if either the morals are better, or
-the liability to disease is less, among the children
-who attend them than at a public school of the
-best class. To begin with, the private schools in
-our cities are eagerly patronized by that not inconsiderable
-class of parents who hope or imagine
-that the social position of their children is to
-be established by association with the children of<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_109" id="Page_109">[109]</a></span>
-influential people. Falsehood, meanness, and unworthy
-ambitions are quite as dangerous to character,
-when the little man who suggests them has
-no patches on his breeches, as when he has, and
-unfortunately there are no outward signs on the
-moral nature, like holes in trousers, to serve as
-danger signals to our darlings. Then again, those
-of us who occupy comfortable houses in desirable
-localities, will generally find on investigation
-that the average of the class of children which attend
-the public school in such a district is much
-superior to what paternal or maternal fancy has
-painted. In such a district the children of the
-ignorant emigrant class are not to be found in
-large numbers. The pupils consist mainly of the
-rank and file of the native American population,
-whose tendencies and capacities for good have
-always been, and continue to be, the basis of our
-strength as a people. There is no need that a
-mother with delicate sensibilities should send her
-son into the slums in order to obtain for him a
-common school education; she has merely to consent
-that he take his chances with the rest of the
-children of the district in which he lives, and
-bend her own energies to make the standards of
-that school as high as possible. In that way she<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_110" id="Page_110">[110]</a></span>
-will best help to raise the tone of the community
-as a whole, and best aid to obliterate those
-class distinctions which, in spite of Fourth of
-July negations, are beginning to expose us to the
-charge of insincerity.</p>
-
-<p>When a boy has reached the age of eleven or
-twelve, another consideration presents itself
-which is a source of serious perplexity to parents.
-Shall he be educated at home&mdash;that is, attend
-school in his own city or town&mdash;or be sent
-to one of the boarding-schools or academies
-which are ready to open their doors to him and
-fit him for college? Here again we are met by
-the suggestion that the boarding-school of this
-type is not a native growth, but an exotic. England
-has supplied us with a precedent. The great
-boarding-schools, Rugby, Eton, and Harrow,
-are the resort of the gentlemen of England.
-Though termed public schools, they are class
-schools, reserved and intended for the education
-of only the highly respectable. The sons of the
-butcher, the baker, and candlestick-maker are not
-formally barred, but they are tacitly excluded.
-The pupils are the sons of the upper and well-to-do
-middle classes. A few boarding-schools for
-boys have been in existence here for many years,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_111" id="Page_111">[111]</a></span>
-but in the last twenty there has been a notable
-increase in their number and importance. These,
-too, are essentially class schools, for though ostensibly
-open to everybody, the charges for tuition
-and living are beyond the means of parents
-with a small income. Most of them are schools
-of a religious denomination, though commonly
-a belief in the creed for which the institution
-stands is not made a formal requisite for admission.
-The most successful profess the Episcopalian
-faith, and in other essential respects are
-modelled deliberately on the English public
-schools.</p>
-
-<p>The strongest argument for sending a boy to
-one of these schools is the fresh-air plea. Undeniably,
-the growing boy in a large city is at a disadvantage.
-He can rarely, if ever, obtain opportunities
-for healthful exercise and recreation
-equal to those afforded by a well-conducted
-boarding-school. He is likely to become a little
-man too early, or else to sit in the house because
-there is nowhere to play. At a boarding-school
-he will, under firm but gentle discipline, keep
-regular hours, eat simple food, and between study
-times be stimulated to cultivate athletic or other
-outdoor pursuits. It is not strange that parents<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_112" id="Page_112">[112]</a></span>
-should be attracted by the comparison, and decide
-that, on the whole, their boys will fare better
-away from home. Obviously the aristocratic
-mother will point out to her husband that his
-predilection for the public school system is answered
-by the fact that the State does not supply
-schools away from the city, where abundant fresh
-air and a famous foot-ball field are appurtenant
-to the institution. Tom Brown at Rugby recurs
-to them both, and they conclude that what has
-been good enough for generations of English
-boys will be best for their own son and heir.</p>
-
-<p>On the other hand, have we Americans ever
-quite reconciled ourselves to, and sympathized
-with, the traditional attitude of English parents
-toward their sons as portrayed in veracious fiction?
-The day of parting comes; the mother,
-red-eyed from secret weeping, tries not to break
-down; the blubbering sisters throw their arms
-around the neck of the hero of the hour, and slip
-pen-wipers of their own precious making into
-his pockets; the father, abnormally stern to hide
-his emotion, says, bluffly, “Good-by, Tom; it’s
-time to be off, and we’ll see you again at Christmas.”
-And out goes Tom, a tender fledgeling,
-into the great world of the public school, and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_113" id="Page_113">[113]</a></span>
-that is the last of home. His holidays arrive, but
-there is no more weeping. He is practically out
-of his parents’ lives, and the sweet influence of
-a good mother is exercised only through fairly
-regular correspondence. And Tom is said to be
-getting manly, and that the nonsense has nearly
-been knocked out of him. He has been bullied
-and has learned to bully; he has been a fag and
-is now a cock. Perhaps he is first scholar, if not
-a hero of the cricket or foot-ball field. Then off
-he goes to college, half a stranger to those who
-love him best.</p>
-
-<p>This is fine and manly perhaps, in the Anglo-Saxon
-sense, but does it not seem just a little
-brutal? Are we well-to-do Americans prepared
-to give up to others, however exemplary, the conduct
-of our children’s lives? Granting that the
-American private boarding-school is a delightful
-institution, where bullying and fags and cocks are
-not known, can it ever take the place of home, or
-supply the stimulus to individual life which is
-exercised by wise parental love and precept? Of
-course, it is easier, in a certain sense, to send one’s
-boy to a select boarding-school, where the conditions
-are known to be highly satisfactory. It
-shifts the responsibility on to other shoulders,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_114" id="Page_114">[114]</a></span>
-and yet leaves one who is not sensitive, in the
-pleasing frame of mind that the very best thing
-has been done for the young idea. In our busy
-American life&mdash;more feverish than that of our
-English kinsfolk whose institution we have copied&mdash;many
-doubtless are induced to seek this solution
-of a perplexing problem by the consciousness
-of their own lack of efficiency, and their own lack
-of leisure to provide a continuous home influence
-superior or equal to what can be supplied by headmasters
-and their assistants, who are both churchmen
-and athletes. Many, too, especially fathers,
-are firm believers in that other English doctrine,
-that most boys need to have the nonsense knocked
-out of them, and that the best means of accomplishing
-this result is to cut them loose from their
-mothers’ apron-strings.</p>
-
-<p>It is to be borne in mind in this connection
-that the great English public schools are a national
-cult. That is, everybody above a certain
-class sends his sons to one of them. On the other
-hand, the private boarding-schools on this side
-of the water, fashioned after them, have thus far
-attracted the patronage of a very small element
-of the population. It is their misfortune, rather
-than their fault, that they are chiefly the resort<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_115" id="Page_115">[115]</a></span>
-of the sons of rich or fashionable people, and
-consequently are the most conspicuously class
-schools in the country. Doubtless the earnest
-men who conduct most of them regret that this
-is so, but it is one of the factors of the case which
-the American parent with sons must face at present.
-It may be that this is to be the type of
-school which is to become predominant here, and
-that, as in England, the nation will recognize it
-as a national force, even though here, as there,
-only the sons of the upper classes enjoy its advantages.
-That will depend partly on the extent
-to which we shall decide, as a society, to promote
-further class education. At present these
-schools are essentially private institutions. They
-are small; they do not, like our American colleges,
-offer scholarships, and thus invite the attendance
-of ambitious students without means.
-Moreover, they are almost universally conducted
-on a sectarian basis, or with a sectarian leaning,
-which is apt to proselytize, at least indirectly.</p>
-
-<p>While those in charge of them indisputably
-strive to inculcate every virtue, the well-to-do
-American father must remember that his sons
-will associate intimately there with many boys
-whose parents belong to that frivolous class which<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_116" id="Page_116">[116]</a></span>
-is to-day chiefly absorbed in beautiful establishments,
-elaborate cookery, and the wholly material
-vanities of life, and are out of sympathy with,
-or are indifferent to, the earnest temper and views
-of that already large and intelligent portion of
-the community, which views with horror the development
-among us of an aristocracy of wealth,
-which apes and is striving to outdo the heartless
-inanities of the Old World. He must remember
-that a taste for luxury and sensuous, material
-aims, even though they be held in check by
-youthful devotion to the rites of the church, will
-prove no less disastrous, in the long run, to manhood
-and patriotism, than the lack of fresh air
-or a famous foot-ball field.</p>
-
-<p>If, however, the American father chooses to
-keep his sons at home, he is bound to do all he
-can to overcome the physical disadvantages of
-city life. Fresh air and suitable exercise can be
-obtained in the suburbs of most cities by a little
-energy and co-operation on the part of parents.
-As an instance, in one or two of our leading cities,
-clubs of twelve to fifteen boys are sent out three
-or four afternoons a week under the charge of an
-older youth&mdash;usually a college or other student&mdash;who,
-without interfering with their liberty, supervises<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_117" id="Page_117">[117]</a></span>
-their sports, and sees that they are well
-occupied. On days when the weather is unsuitable
-for any kind of game, he will take them to museums,
-manufactories, or other places of interest in
-the vicinity. In this way some of the watchfulness
-and discipline which are constantly operative
-at a boarding-school, are exercised without
-injury to home ties. There is no doubt that, unless
-parents are vigilant and interest themselves
-unremittingly in providing necessary physical
-advantages, the boys in a crowded city are likely
-to be less healthy and vigorous in body, and perhaps
-in mind, than those educated at a first-class
-boarding-school. It may be, as our cities increase
-in size, and suburbs become more difficult of access,
-that the boarding-school will become more
-generally popular; but there is reason to believe
-that, before it is recognized as a national institution,
-sectarian religion will have ceased to control
-it, and it will be less imitative of England in its
-tone and social attitude. Until then, at least, many
-a parent will prefer to keep his boys at home.</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_118" id="Page_118">[118]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2><i>Education.</i></h2>
-
-<h3>II.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-s-2.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">“Supposing you had four daughters,
-like Mr. Perkins, what would
-you do with them, educationally
-speaking?” I said to my wife Barbara,
-by way of turning my attention to the
-other sex.</p>
-
-<p>“You mean what would they do with me?
-They would drive me into my grave, I think,”
-she answered. “Woman’s horizon has become
-so enlarged that no mother can tell what her
-next daughter may not wish to do. I understand,
-though, that you are referring simply to schools.
-To begin with, I take for granted you will agree
-that American parents, who insist on sending
-their boys to a public school, very often hesitate
-or decline point-blank to send their girls.”</p>
-
-<p>“Precisely. And we are forthwith confronted
-by the question whether they are justified in so
-doing.”</p>
-
-<p>Barbara looked meditative for a moment, then
-she said: “I am quite aware there is no logical
-reason why girls should not be treated in the same
-way, and yet as a matter of fact I am not at all<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_119" id="Page_119">[119]</a></span>
-sure, patriotism and logic to the contrary notwithstanding,
-I should send a daughter to a public
-school unless I were convinced, from personal
-examination, that she would have neither a vulgar
-teacher nor vulgar associates. Manners mean
-so much to a woman, and by manners I refer
-chiefly to those nice perceptions of everything
-which stamp a lady, and which you can no more
-describe than you can describe the perfume of
-the violet. The objection to the public schools
-for a girl is that the unwritten constitution of this
-country declared years ago that every woman was
-a born lady, and that manners and nice perceptions
-were in the national blood, and required no
-cultivation for their production. Latterly, a good
-many people interested in educational matters
-have discovered the fallacy of this point of view;
-so that when the name of a woman to act as the
-head of a college or other first-class institution
-for girls is brought forward to-day, the first question
-asked is, ‘Is she a lady?’ Ten years ago
-mental acquirements would have been regarded
-as sufficient, and the questioner silenced with the
-severe answer that every American woman is a
-lady. The public school authorities are still harping
-too much on the original fallacy, or rather<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_120" id="Page_120">[120]</a></span>
-the new point of view has not spread sufficiently
-to cause the average American school-teacher to
-suspect that her manners might be improved and
-her sensibilities refined. There, that sounds like
-treason to the principles of democracy, yet you
-know I am at heart a patriot.”</p>
-
-<p>“And yet to bring up boys on a common basis
-and separate the girls by class education seems
-like a contradiction of terms,” I said.</p>
-
-<p>“I am confident&mdash;at least if we as a nation
-really do believe in obliterating class distinctions&mdash;that
-it won’t be long before those who control
-the public schools recognize more universally the
-value of manners, and of the other traits which
-distinguish the woman of breeding from the woman
-who has none,” said Barbara. “When that
-time comes the well-to-do American mother will
-have no more reason for not sending her daughters
-to a public school than her sons. As it is,
-they should send them oftener than they do.”</p>
-
-<p>“Of course,” continued Barbara, presently,
-“the best private schools are in the East, and a
-very much larger percentage, both of girls and
-boys, attends the public schools in the West than
-in the East. Indeed, I am inclined to think that
-comparatively few people west of Chicago do not<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_121" id="Page_121">[121]</a></span>
-send their children to public schools. But, on the
-other hand, there are boarding-schools for girls
-all over the East which are mainly supported by
-girls from the West, whose mothers wish to have
-them finished. They go to the public schools at
-home until they are thirteen or fourteen, and then
-are packed off to school for three or four years in
-order to teach them how to move, and wear their
-hair, and spell, and control their voices&mdash;for the
-proper modulation of the voice has at last been
-recognized as a necessary attribute of the well-bred
-American woman. As for the Eastern girl
-who is not sent to the public school, she usually
-attends a private day-school in her native city, the
-resources of which are supplemented by special
-instruction of various kinds, in order to produce
-the same finished specimen. But it isn’t the finished
-specimen who is really interesting from the
-educational point of view to-day; that is, the conventional,
-cosmopolitan, finished specimen such
-as is turned out with deportment and accomplishments
-from the hands of the English governess,
-the French Mother Superior, or the American
-private school-mistress.</p>
-
-<p>“After making due allowance for the national
-point of view, I don’t see very much difference<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_122" id="Page_122">[122]</a></span>
-in principle between the means adopted to finish
-the young lady of society here and elsewhere.
-There are thousands of daughters of well-to-do
-mothers in this country who are brought up on
-the old aristocratic theory that a woman should
-study moderately hard until she is eighteen, then
-look as pretty as she can, and devote herself until
-she is married to having what is called on this
-side of the Atlantic a good time. To be sure, in
-France the good time does not come until after
-marriage, and there are other differences, but the
-well-bred lady of social graces is the well-bred
-lady, whether it be in London, Paris, Vienna, or
-New York, and a ball-room in one capital is essentially
-the same as in all the others, unless it
-be that over here the very young people are allowed
-to crowd out everybody else. There are
-thousands of mothers who are content that this
-should be the limit of their daughter’s experience,
-a reasonably good education and perfect
-manners, four years of whirl, and then a husband,
-or no husband and a conservative afternoon tea-drinking
-spinsterhood&mdash;and they are thankful
-on the whole when their girls put their necks
-meekly beneath the yoke of convention and do
-as past generations of women all over the civilized<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_123" id="Page_123">[123]</a></span>
-world have done. For the reign of the unconventional
-society young woman is over. She
-shocks now her own countrywoman even more
-than foreigners; and though, like the buffalo, she
-is still extant, she is disappearing even more rapidly
-than that illustrious quadruped.”</p>
-
-<p>“Are you not wandering slightly from the
-topic?” I ventured to inquire.</p>
-
-<p>“Not at all,” said Barbara. “I was stating
-merely that the Old-World, New-World young
-lady, with all her originality and piquancy, however
-charming, and however delightfully inevitable
-she may be, is not interesting from the educational
-point of view. Or rather I will put it in
-this way: the thoughtful, well-to-do American
-mother is wondering hard whether she has a
-right to be content with the ancient programme
-for her daughters, and is watching with eager interest
-the experiments which some of her neighbors
-are trying with theirs. We cannot claim as
-an exclusive national invention collegiate education
-for women, and there’s no doubt that my
-sex in England is no less completely on the war-path
-than the female world here; but is there a
-question that the peculiar qualities of American
-womanhood are largely responsible for the awakening<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_124" id="Page_124">[124]</a></span>
-wherever it has taken place? My dear, you
-asked me just now what a man like Mr. Perkins
-should do with his four daughters. Probably
-Mrs. Perkins is trying to make up her mind
-whether she ought to send them to college. Very
-likely she is arguing with Mr. Perkins as to
-whether, all things considered, it wouldn’t be
-advisable to have one or two of them study a
-profession, or learn to do something bread-winning,
-so that in case he, poor man&mdash;for he <em>does</em>
-look overworked&mdash;should not succeed in leaving
-them the five thousand dollars a year he
-hopes, they need not swell the category of the
-decayed gentlewoman of the day. I dare say they
-discuss the subject assiduously, in spite of the
-views Mr. Perkins has expressed to you regarding
-the sacredness of unemployed feminine gentility;
-for it costs so much to live that he can’t
-lay up a great deal, and there are certainly strong
-arguments in favor of giving such girls the opportunity
-to make the most of themselves, or
-at least to look at life from the self-supporting
-point of view. At first, of course, the students
-at the colleges for women were chiefly girls who
-hoped to utilize, as workers in various lines, the
-higher knowledge they acquired there; but every<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_125" id="Page_125">[125]</a></span>
-year sees more and more girls, who expect to be
-married sooner or later&mdash;the daughters of lawyers,
-physicians, merchants&mdash;apply for admission,
-on the theory that what is requisite for a
-man is none too good for them; and it is the example
-of these girls which is agitating the serenity
-of so many mothers, and suggesting to so
-many daughters the idea of doing likewise. Even
-the ranks of the most fashionable are being invaded,
-though undeniably it is still the fashion
-to stay at home, and I am inclined to think that
-it is only the lack of the seal of fashion that restrains
-many conservative people, like the Perkinses,
-from educating their daughters as though
-they probably would not be married, instead of
-as though they were almost certain to be.”</p>
-
-<p>“You may remember that Perkins assured me
-not long ago, that marriage did not run in the
-Perkins female line,” said I.</p>
-
-<p>“All the more reason, then, that his girls should
-be encouraged to equip themselves thoroughly in
-some direction or other, instead of waiting disconsolately
-to be chosen in marriage, keeping up
-their courage as the years slip away, with a few
-cold drops of Associated Charity. Of course the
-majority of us will continue to be wives and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_126" id="Page_126">[126]</a></span>
-mothers&mdash;there is nothing equal to that when
-it is a success&mdash;but will not marriage become
-still more desirable if the choicest girls are educated
-to be the intellectual companions of men,
-and taught to familiarize themselves with the real
-conditions of life, instead of being limited to the
-rose garden of a harem, over the hedges of which
-they are expected only to peep at the busy world&mdash;the
-world of men, the world of action and toil
-and struggle and sin&mdash;the world into which
-their sons are graduated when cut loose from the
-maternal apron-strings? We intend to learn
-what to teach our sons, so that we may no longer
-be silenced with the plea that women do not
-know, and be put off with a secretive conjugal
-smile. And as for the girls who do not marry,
-the world is open to them&mdash;the world of art and
-song and charity and healing and brave endeavor
-in a hundred fields. Become just like men?
-Never. If there is one thing which the educated
-woman of the present is seeking to preserve and
-foster, it is the subtle delicacy of nature, it is the
-engaging charm of womanhood which distinguishes
-us from men. Who are the pupils at the
-colleges for women to-day? The dowdy, sexless,
-unattractive, masculine-minded beings who have<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_127" id="Page_127">[127]</a></span>
-served to typify for nine men out of ten the
-crowning joke of the age&mdash;the emancipation of
-women? No; but lovely, graceful, sympathetic,
-earnest, pure-minded girls in the flower of attractive
-maidenhood. And that is why the well-to-do
-American mother is asking herself whether
-she would be doing the best thing for her daughter
-if she were to encourage her to become merely
-a New-World, Old-World young lady of the ancient
-order of things. For centuries the women
-of civilization have worshipped chastity, suffering
-resignation and elegance as the ideals of femininity;
-now we mean to be intelligent besides, or
-at least as nearly so as possible.”</p>
-
-<p>“In truth a philippic, Barbara,” I said. “It
-would seem as though Mrs. Grundy would not
-be able to hold out much longer. Will you tell
-me, by the way, what you women intend to do
-after you are fully emancipated?”</p>
-
-<p>“One thing at a time,” she answered. “We
-have been talking of education, and I have simply
-been suggesting that no conscientious mother can
-afford to ignore or pass by with scorn the claims
-of higher education for girls&mdash;experimental and
-faulty as many of the present methods to attain
-it doubtless are. As to what women are going to<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_128" id="Page_128">[128]</a></span>
-do when our preliminary perplexities are solved
-and our sails are set before a favorable wind, I
-have my ideas on that score also, and some day
-I will discuss them with you. But just now I
-should like you to answer <em>me</em> a question. What
-are the best occupations for sons to follow when
-they have left school or college?”</p>
-
-<p>Pertinent and interesting as was this inquiry
-of Barbara’s, I felt the necessity of drawing a
-long breath before I answered it.</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_129" id="Page_129">[129]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2><i>Occupation.</i></h2>
-
-<h3>I.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-t-1.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">The American young man, in the
-selection of a vocation, is practically
-cut off from two callings
-which are dear to his contemporaries
-in other civilized countries&mdash;the
-Army and the Navy. The possibility of war,
-with all its horrors and its opportunities for personal
-renown, is always looming up before the
-English, French, German, or Russian youth,
-who is well content to live a life of gilded martial
-inactivity in the hope of sooner or later winning
-the cross for conspicuous service, if he escapes a
-soldier’s grave. We have endured one war, and
-we profoundly hope never to undergo another.
-Those of us who are ethically opposed to the
-slaughter of thousands of human beings in a
-single day by cannon, feel that we have geography
-on our side. Even the bloodthirsty are forced
-to acknowledge that the prospects here for a genuine
-contest of any kind are not favorable. Consequently,
-the ardor of the son and heir, who
-would like to be a great soldier or a sea captain,
-is very apt to be cooled by the representation<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_130" id="Page_130">[130]</a></span>
-that his days would be spent in watching Indians
-or cattle thieves on the Western plains, or in
-cruising uneventfully in the Mediterranean or
-the Gulf of Mexico. At all events our standing,
-or, more accurately speaking, sitting Army, and
-our Navy are so small, that the demand for generals
-and captains is very limited. Therefore,
-though we commend to our sons the prowess of
-Cæsar, Napoleon, Nelson, Von Moltke, and
-Grant, we are able to demonstrate to them,
-even without recourse to modern ethical arguments,
-that the opportunities for distinction
-on this side of the water are likely to be very
-meagre.</p>
-
-<p>Also, we Americans, unlike English parents,
-hesitate to hold out as offerings to the Church a
-younger son in every large family. We have no
-national Church; moreover, the calling of a clergyman
-in this country lacks the social picturesqueness
-which goes far, or did go far, to reconcile
-the British younger son to accept the living
-which fell to his lot through family influence.
-Then again, would the American mother, like
-the conventional mother of the older civilizations,
-as represented in biography and fiction,
-if asked which of all vocations she would prefer<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_131" id="Page_131">[131]</a></span>
-to have her son adopt, reply promptly and fervidly,
-“the ministry?”</p>
-
-<p>I put this question to my wife by way of obtaining
-an answer. She reflected a moment, then
-she said, “If one of my boys really felt called
-to be a clergyman, I should be a very happy
-woman; but I wouldn’t on any account have
-one of them enter the ministry unless he did.”
-This reply seems to me to express not merely
-the attitude of the American mother, but also
-the point of view from which the American
-young man of to-day is apt to look at the question.
-He no longer regards the ministry as a profession
-which he is free to prefer, merely because
-he needs to earn his daily bread; and he understands,
-when he becomes a clergyman, that lukewarm
-or merely conventional service will be utterly
-worthless in a community which is thirsty
-for inspirational suggestion, but which is soul-sick
-of cant and the perfervid reiteration of outworn
-delusions. The consciousness that he has
-no closer insight into the mysteries of the universe
-than his fellow-men, and the fear that he
-may be able to solace their doubts only by skilful
-concealment of his own, is tending, here and
-all over the civilized world, to deter many a<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_132" id="Page_132">[132]</a></span>
-young man from embracing that profession,
-which once seemed to offer a safe and legitimate
-niche for any pious youth who was uncertain
-what he wished to do for a living. Happy he who
-feels so closely in touch with the infinite that he
-is certain of his mission to his brother-man! But
-is any one more out of place than the priest who
-seems to know no more than we do of what we
-desire to know most? We demand that a poet
-should be heaven-born; why should we not require
-equivalent evidence of fitness from our
-spiritual advisers?</p>
-
-<p>And yet, on the other hand, when the conviction
-of fitness or mission exists, what calling
-is there which offers to-day more opportunities
-for usefulness than the ministry? The growing
-tendency of the Church is toward wider issues
-and a broader scope. Clergymen are now encouraged
-and expected to aid in the solution of problems
-of living no less than those of dying, and to
-lead in the discussion of matters regarding which
-they could not have ventured to express opinions
-fifty years ago without exposing themselves
-to the charge of being meddlesome or unclerical.
-The whole field of practical charity, economics,
-hygiene, and the relations of human beings to<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_133" id="Page_133">[133]</a></span>
-each other on this earth, are fast becoming
-the legitimate domain of the Church, and
-the general interest in this new phase of usefulness
-is serving to convince many of the
-clergy themselves that the existence of so
-many creeds, differing but slightly and unimportantly
-from one another, is a waste of vital
-force and machinery. In this age of trusts, a
-trust of all religious denominations for the
-common good of humanity would be a monopoly
-which could pay large dividends without
-fear of hostile legislation.</p>
-
-<p>In this matter of the choice of a vocation, the
-case of the ambitious, promising young man is
-the one which commends itself most to our sympathies;
-and next to it stands that of the general
-utility man&mdash;the youth who has no definite
-tastes or talents, and who selects his life occupation
-from considerations other than a consciousness
-of fitness or of natural inclination.
-There are here, as elsewhere, born merchants,
-lawyers, doctors, clergymen, architects, engineers,
-inventors, and poets, who promptly follow their
-natural bents without suggestion and in the teeth
-of difficulties. But the promising young man in
-search of a brilliant career, and the general utility<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_134" id="Page_134">[134]</a></span>
-man, are perhaps the best exponents of a nation’s
-temper and inclination.</p>
-
-<p>In every civilization many promising youths
-and the general run of utility men are apt to turn
-to business, for trade seems to offer the largest
-return in the way of money with the least amount
-of special knowledge. In this new country of ours
-the number of young men who have selected a
-business career during the last fifty years, from
-personal inclination, has been very much greater
-than elsewhere, and the tone and temper of the
-community has swept the general utility man
-into mere money making almost as a matter of
-course. The reasons for this up to this time have
-been obvious: The resources and industries of a
-vast and comparatively sparsely settled continent
-have been developed in the last fifty years, and
-the great prizes in the shape of large fortunes resulting
-from the process have naturally captivated
-the imagination of ambitious youth. We
-have unjustly been styled a nation of shopkeepers;
-but it may in all fairness be alleged that, until
-the last fifteen years, we have been under the
-spell of the commercial and industrial spirit, and
-that the intellectual faculties of the nation have
-been mainly absorbed in the introduction and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_135" id="Page_135">[135]</a></span>
-maintenance of railroads and factories, in the raising
-and marketing of grain, in the development
-of real estate enterprises, and in trading in the
-commodities or securities which these various
-undertakings have produced.</p>
-
-<p>The resources of the country are by no means
-exhausted; there are doubtless more mines to
-open which will make their owners superbly rich;
-new discoveries in the mechanical or electrical
-field will afford fresh opportunities to discerning
-men of means; and individual or combined capital
-will continue to reap the reward of both legitimate
-and over-reaching commercial acumen.
-But it would seem as though the day of enormous
-fortunes, for men of average brains and
-luck, in this country were nearly over, and that
-the great pecuniary prizes of the business world
-would henceforth be gleaned only by extraordinary
-or exceptional individuals. The country
-is no longer sparsely settled; fierce competition
-speedily cuts the abnormal profit out of new enterprises
-which are not protected by a patent;
-and in order to be conspicuously successful in
-any branch of trade, one will have more and more
-need of unusual ability and untiring application.</p>
-
-<p>In other words, though ours is still a new<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_136" id="Page_136">[136]</a></span>
-country, it will not be very long before the opportunities
-and conditions of a business life resemble
-closely those which confront young men
-elsewhere. As in every civilized country, trade
-in some form will necessarily engage the attention
-of a large portion of the population. From
-physical causes, a vast majority of the citizens
-of the United States must continue to derive
-their support from agriculture and the callings
-which large crops of cereals, cotton, and sugar
-make occasion for. Consequently business will
-always furnish occupation for a vast army of
-young men in every generation, and few successes
-will seem more enviable than those of the
-powerful and scrupulous banker, or the broad-minded
-and capable railroad president. But, on
-the other hand, will the well-to-do American
-father and mother, eager to see their promising
-sons make the most of themselves, continue to
-advise them to go into business in preference to
-other callings? And will the general utility man
-still be encouraged to regard some form of trade
-as the most promising outlook, for one who
-does not know what he wishes to do, to adopt?
-He who hopes to become a great banker or
-illustrious railway man, must remember that the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_137" id="Page_137">[137]</a></span>
-streets of all our large cities teem with young
-men whose breasts harbor similar ambitions.</p>
-
-<p>Doubtless, it was the expectation of our forefathers
-that our American civilization would add
-new occupations to the callings inherited from
-the old world, which would be alluring both to
-the promising young man and the youth without
-predilections, and no less valuable to society and
-elevating to the individual than the best of those
-by which men have earned their daily bread since
-civilization first was. As a matter of fact, we
-Americans have added just one, that of the modern
-stock-broker. To be sure, I am not including
-the ranchman. It did seem at one time as
-though we were going to add another in him&mdash;a
-sort of gentleman shepherd. But be it that the
-cattle have become too scarce or too numerous,
-be it that the demon of competition has planted
-his hoofs on the farthest prairie, one by one the
-brave youths who went West in search of fortune,
-have returned East for the last time, and
-abandoned the field to the cowboys and the native
-settler. The pioneers in this form of occupation
-made snug fortunes, but after them came
-a deluge of promising or unpromising youths
-who branded every animal within a radius of<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_138" id="Page_138">[138]</a></span>
-hundreds of miles with a letter of the alphabet.
-Their only living monument is the polo pony.</p>
-
-<p>Our single and signal contribution to the callings
-of the world has been the apotheosis of the
-stock-broker. For the last twenty-five years, the
-well-to-do father and mother and their sons, in
-our large cities, have been under the spell of a
-craze for the brokerage business. The consciousness
-that the refinements of modern living cannot
-adequately be supplied in a large city to a
-family whose income does not approximate ten
-thousand dollars a year, is a cogent argument in
-favor of trying to grow rich rapidly, and both
-the promising young man and the general utility
-man welcomed the new calling with open arms.
-Impelled by the notion that here was a vocation
-which required no special knowledge or attainments,
-and very little capital, which was pleasant,
-gentlemanly, and not unduly confining, and
-which promised large returns almost in the
-twinkling of an eye, hundreds and thousands
-of young men became brokers&mdash;chiefly stock-brokers,
-but also cotton-brokers, note-brokers,
-real-estate-brokers, insurance-brokers, and
-brokers in nearly everything. The field was
-undoubtedly a rich one for those who first entered<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_139" id="Page_139">[139]</a></span>
-it. There was a need for the broker, and
-he was speedily recognized as a valuable addition
-to the machinery of trade. Many huge fortunes
-were made, and we have learned to associate the
-word broker with the possession of large means,
-an imposing house on a fashionable street, and
-diverse docked and stylish horses.</p>
-
-<p>Of course, the king of all brokers has been the
-stock-broker, for to him was given the opportunity
-to buy and sell securities on his own account,
-though he held himself out to his customers
-as merely a poor thing who worked for
-a commission. No wonder that the young man,
-just out of college, listened open-mouthed to the
-tales of how many thousands of dollars a year
-so and so, who had been graduated only five
-years before, was making, and resolved to try his
-luck with the same Aladdin’s lamp. Nor was it
-strange that the sight of men scarcely out of
-their teens, driving down town in fur coats, in
-their own equipages, with the benison of successful
-capitalists in their salutations, settled the
-question of choice for the youth who was wavering
-or did not know what he wished to do.</p>
-
-<p>It is scarcely an extreme statement that the so-called
-aristocracy of our principal cities to-day is<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_140" id="Page_140">[140]</a></span>
-largely made up of men who are, or once were,
-stock-brokers, or who have made their millions
-by some of the forms of gambling which our
-easy-going euphemism styles modern commercial
-aggressiveness. Certainly, a very considerable
-number of our most splendid private residences
-have been built out of the proceeds of
-successful ventures in the stock market, or the
-wheat pit, or by some other purely speculative
-operations. Many stars have shone brilliantly for
-a season, and then plunged precipitately from the
-zenith to the horizon; and much has been wisely
-said as to the dangers of speculation; but the fact
-remains that a great many vast fortunes owe their
-existence to the broker’s office; fortunes which
-have been salted down, as the phrase is, and now
-furnish support and titillation for a leisurely,
-green old age, or enable the sons and daughters
-of the original maker to live in luxury.</p>
-
-<p>Whatever the American mother may feel as to
-her son becoming a clergyman, there is no doubt
-that many a mother to-day would say “God
-grant that no son of mine become a stock-broker.”
-I know stock-brokers&mdash;many indeed&mdash;who
-are whole-souled, noble-natured men,
-free from undue worldliness, and with refined<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_141" id="Page_141">[141]</a></span>
-instincts. But the stock-broker, as he exists in
-the every-day life of our community, typifies
-signally the gambler’s yearning to gain wealth
-by short cuts, and the monomania which regards
-as pitiable those who do not possess and display
-the gewgaws of feverish, fashionable materialism.
-There are stock-brokers in all the great capitals
-of the world, but nowhere has the vocation swallowed
-up the sons of the best people to the extent
-that it has done here during the last thirty
-years. And yet, apart from the opportunity it
-affords to grow rich rapidly, what one good reason
-is there why a promising young man should
-decide to buy and sell stocks for a living? Indeed,
-not merely decide, but select, that occupation
-as the most desirable calling open to him?
-Does it tend either to ennoble the nature or enrich
-the mental faculties? It is one of the formal
-occupations made necessary by the exigencies of
-the business world, and as such is legitimate and
-may be highly respectable; but surely it does
-not, from the nature of the services required,
-deserve to rank high; and really there would
-seem to be almost as much occasion for conferring
-the accolade of social distinction on a dealer
-in excellent fish as on a successful stock-broker.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_142" id="Page_142">[142]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>However, alas! it is easy enough to assign the
-reason why the business has been so popular. It
-appears that, even under the flag of our aspiring
-nationality, human nature is still so weak that
-the opportunity to grow rich quickly, when presented,
-is apt to over-ride all noble considerations.
-Foreign censors have ventured not infrequently
-to declare that there was never yet a race so hungry
-for money as we free-born Americans; and
-not even the pious ejaculation of one of our
-United States Senators, “What have we to do
-with abroad?” is conclusive proof that the accusation
-is not well founded. In fact: there seems
-to be ample proof that we, who sneered so austerely
-at the Faubourg St. Germain and the aristocracies
-of the Old World, and made Fourth
-of July protestations of poverty and chastity,
-have fallen down and worshipped the golden calf
-merely because it was made of gold. Because it
-seemed to be easier to make money as stock-brokers
-than in any other way, men have hastened
-to become stock-brokers. To be sure it
-may be answered that this is only human nature
-and the way of the world. True, perhaps; except
-that we started on the assumption that we were
-going to improve on the rest of the world, and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_143" id="Page_143">[143]</a></span>
-that its human nature was not to be our human
-nature. Would not the Faubourg St. Germain
-be preferable to an aristocracy of stock-brokers?</p>
-
-<p>At all events, the law of supply and demand
-is beginning to redeem the situation, and, if not
-to restore our moral credit, at least to save the rising
-generation from falling into the same slough.
-The stock-broker industry has been overstocked,
-and the late young capitalists in fur overcoats,
-with benedictory manners, wear anxious countenances
-under the stress of that Old World demon,
-excessive competition. Youth can no longer
-wake up in the morning and find itself the proprietor
-of a rattling business justifying a steam-yacht
-and a four-in-hand. The good old days
-have gone forever, and there is weeping and
-gnashing of teeth where of late there was joy
-and much accumulation. There is not business
-enough for all the promising young men who
-are stock-brokers already, and the youth of promise
-must turn elsewhere.</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_144" id="Page_144">[144]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2><i>Occupation.</i></h2>
-
-<h3>II.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-b.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">But though the occupation of broker
-has become less tempting, the promising
-youth has not ceased to look
-askance at any calling which does not
-seem to foreshadow a fortune in a short time.
-He is only just beginning to appreciate that we
-are getting down to hard pan, so to speak, and
-are nearly on a level, as regards the hardships of
-individual progress, with our old friends the effete
-civilizations. He finds it difficult to rid himself
-of the “Arabian Nights’” notion that he has
-merely to clap his hands to change ten dollars
-into a thousand in a single year, and to transform
-his bachelor apartments into a palace beautiful,
-with a wife, yacht, and horses, before he is
-thirty-five. He shrinks from the idea of being
-obliged to take seriously into account anything
-less than a hundred-dollar bill, and of earning a
-livelihood by slow yet persistent acceptance of
-tens and fives. His present ruling ambition is to
-be a promoter; that is, to be an organizer of
-schemes, and to let others do the real work and
-attend to the disgusting details. There are a great<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_145" id="Page_145">[145]</a></span>
-many gentry of this kind in the field just at present.
-Among them is, or rather was, Lewis Pell,
-as I will call him for the occasion. I don’t know
-exactly what he is doing now. But he was, until
-lately, a promoter.</p>
-
-<p>A handsome fellow was Lewis Pell. Tall, gentlemanly,
-and athletic-looking, with a gracious,
-imposing presence and manner, which made his
-rather commonplace conversation seem almost
-wisdom. He went into a broker’s office after leaving
-college, like many other promising young
-men of his time, but he was clever enough either
-to realize that he was a little late, or that the promoter
-business offered a more promising scope
-for his genius, for he soon disappeared from the
-purlieus of the Stock Exchange, and the next
-thing we heard of him was as the tenant of an
-exceedingly elaborate set of offices on the third
-floor of a most expensive modern monster building.
-Shortly after I read in the financial columns
-of the daily press that Mr. Lewis Pell had sold
-to a syndicate of bankers the first mortgage and
-the debenture bonds of the Light and Power
-Traction Company, an electrical corporation organized
-under the laws of the State of New Jersey.
-Thirty days later I saw again that he had<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_146" id="Page_146">[146]</a></span>
-sailed for Europe in order to interest London
-capital in a large enterprise, the nature of which
-was still withheld from the public.</p>
-
-<p>During the next two or three years I ran across
-Pell on several occasions. He seemed always to
-be living at the highest pressure, but the brilliancy
-of his career had not impaired his good
-manners or attractiveness. I refer to his career
-as brilliant at this time because both his operations
-and the consequent style of living which
-he pursued, as described by him on two different
-evenings when I dined with him, seemed to me in
-my capacity of ordinary citizen to savor of the
-marvellous, if not the supernatural. He frankly
-gave me to understand that it seemed to him a
-waste of time for an ambitious man to pay attention
-to details, and that his business was to originate
-vast undertakings, made possible only by
-large combinations of corporate or private capital.
-The word combination, which was frequently on
-his lips, seemed to be the corner-stone of his system.
-I gathered that the part which he sought to
-play in the battle of life was to breathe the breath,
-or the apparent breath, of existence into huge
-schemes, and after having given them a quick
-but comprehensive squeeze or two for his own<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_147" id="Page_147">[147]</a></span>
-pecuniary benefit, to hand them over to syndicates,
-or other aggregations of capitalists, for the
-benefit of whom they might concern. He confided
-to me that he employed eleven typewriters;
-that he had visited London seven, and Paris three
-times, in the last three years, on flying trips to
-accomplish brilliant deals; that though his headquarters
-were in New York, scarcely a week passed
-in which he was not obliged to run over to Chicago,
-Boston, Washington, Denver, Duluth, or
-Cincinnati, as the case might be. Without being
-boastful as to his profits, he did not hesitate to
-acknowledge to me that if he should do as well
-in the next three years as in the last, he would
-be able to retire from business with a million
-or so.</p>
-
-<p>Apart from this confession, his personal extravagance
-left no room for doubt that he must
-be very rich. Champagne flowed for him as Croton
-or Cochituate for most of us, and it was evident
-from his language that the hiring of special
-trains from time to time was a rather less serious
-matter than it would be for the ordinary citizen
-to take a cab. The account that he gave of three
-separate entertainments he had tendered to syndicates&mdash;of
-ten, twelve, and seventeen covers<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_148" id="Page_148">[148]</a></span>
-respectively, at twenty dollars a cover&mdash;fairly
-made my mouth water and my eyes stick out,
-so that I felt constrained to murmur, “Your
-profits must certainly be very large, if you can
-afford that sort of thing.”</p>
-
-<p>Pell smiled complacently and a little condescendingly.
-“I could tell you of things which I
-have done which would make that seem a bagatelle,”
-he answered, with engaging mystery.
-Then after a moment’s pause he said, “Do you
-know, my dear fellow, that when I was graduated
-I came very near going into the office of a
-pious old uncle of mine who has been a commission
-merchant all his life, and is as poor as Job’s
-turkey in spite of it all&mdash;that is, poor as men are
-rated nowadays. He offered to take me as a clerk
-at one thousand dollars a year, with the promise
-of a partnership before I was bald-headed in case
-I did well. Supposing I had accepted his offer,
-where should I be to-day? Grubbing at an office-desk
-and earning barely enough for board
-and lodging. I remember my dear mother took
-it terribly to heart because I went into a broker’s
-office instead. By the way, between ourselves,
-I’m building a steam-yacht&mdash;nothing very wonderful,
-but a neat, comfortable craft&mdash;and I’m<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_149" id="Page_149">[149]</a></span>
-looking forward next summer to inviting my
-pious old uncle to cruise on her just to see him
-open his eyes.”</p>
-
-<p>That was three years ago, and to-day I have
-every reason to believe that Lewis Pell is without
-a dollar in the world, or rather, that every dollar
-which he has belongs to his creditors. I had
-heard before his failure was announced that he
-was short of money, for the reason that several
-enterprises with which his name was connected
-had been left on his hands&mdash;neither the syndicates
-nor the public would touch them&mdash;so his
-suspension was scarcely a surprise. He at present,
-poor fellow, is only one of an army of young
-men wandering dejectedly through the streets
-of New York or Chicago in these days of financial
-depression, vainly seeking for something to
-promote.</p>
-
-<p>When the promising youth and the general
-utility man do get rid of the “Arabian Nights’”
-notion, and recognize that signal success here, in
-any form, is likely to become more and more
-difficult to attain, and will be the legitimate reward
-only of men of real might, of unusual abilities,
-originality, or dauntless industry, some of
-the callings which have fallen, as it were, into<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_150" id="Page_150">[150]</a></span>
-disrepute through their lack of gambling facilities,
-are likely to loom up again socially. It may
-be, however, that modern business methods and
-devices have had the effect of killing for all time
-that highly respectable pillar of society of fifty
-years ago, the old-fashioned merchant, who
-bought and sold on his own behalf, or on commission,
-real cargoes of merchandise, and real
-consignments of cotton, wheat, and corn. The
-telegraph and the warehouse certificate have
-worked such havoc that almost everything now
-is bought and sold over and over again before
-it is grown or manufactured, and by the time it
-is on the market there is not a shred of profit in
-it for anybody but the retail dealer. It remains
-to be seen whether, as the speculative spirit subsides,
-the merchant is going to reinstate himself
-and regain his former prestige. It may already
-be said that the promising youth does not regard
-him with quite so much contempt as he
-did.</p>
-
-<p>We have always professed in this country
-great theoretical respect for the schoolmaster,
-but we have been careful, as the nation waxed in
-material prosperity, to keep his pay down and
-to shove him into the social background more<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_151" id="Page_151">[151]</a></span>
-and more. The promising youth could not afford
-to spend his manhood in this wise, and we
-have all really been too busy making money to
-think very much about those who are doing the
-teaching. Have we not always heard it stated that
-our schools and colleges are second to none in
-the world? And if our schools, of course our
-schoolmasters. Therefore why bother our heads
-about them? It is indeed wonderful, considering
-the little popular interest in the subject until
-lately, that our schoolmasters and our college
-professors are so competent as they are, and that
-the profession has flourished on the whole in
-spite of indifference and superiority. How can
-men of the highest class be expected to devote
-their lives to a profession which yields little more
-than a pittance when one is thoroughly successful?
-And yet the education of our children ought
-to be one of our dearest concerns, and it is difficult
-to see why the State is satisfied to pay the
-average instructor or instructress of youth about
-as much as the city laborer or a horse-car conductor
-receives.</p>
-
-<p>There are signs that those in charge of our
-large educational institutions all over the country
-are beginning to recognize that ripe scholarship<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_152" id="Page_152">[152]</a></span>
-and rare abilities as a teacher are entitled to
-be well recompensed pecuniarily, and that the
-breed of such men is likely to increase somewhat
-in proportion to the size and number of the
-prizes offered. Our college presidents and professors,
-those at the head of our large schools
-and seminaries, should receive such salaries as
-will enable them to live adequately. By this
-policy not only would our promising young men
-be encouraged to pursue learning, but those in
-the highest places would not be forced by poverty
-to live in comparative retirement, but could
-become active social figures and leaders. In any
-profession or calling under present social conditions
-only those in the foremost rank can hope
-to earn more than a living, varying in quality
-according to the degree of success and the rank
-of the occupation; but it is to be hoped&mdash;and
-there seems some reason to believe&mdash;that the
-great rewards which come to those more able
-and industrious than their fellows will henceforth,
-in the process of our national evolution,
-be more evenly distributed, and not confined so
-conspicuously to gambling, speculative, or commercial
-successes. The leaders in the great professions
-of law and medicine have for some time<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_153" id="Page_153">[153]</a></span>
-past declined to serve the free-born community
-without liberal compensation, and the same community,
-which for half a century secretly believed
-that only a business man has the right to grow
-rich, has begun to recognize that there are even
-other things besides litigation and health which
-ought to come high. For instance, although the
-trained architect still meets serious and depressing
-competition from those ready-made experimenters
-in design who pronounce the first <i>c</i> in
-the word architect as though it were an <i>s</i>, the public
-is rapidly discovering that a man cannot build
-an attractive house without special knowledge.</p>
-
-<p>In the same class with the law, medicine, and
-architecture, and seemingly offering at present a
-greater scope for an ambitious young man, is engineering
-in all its branches. The furnaces, mines,
-manufactories, and the hydraulic, electrical, or
-other plants connected with the numerous vast
-mechanical business enterprises of the country
-are furnishing immediate occupation for hundreds
-of graduates of the scientific or polytechnic
-schools at highly respectable salaries. This field
-of usefulness is certain for a long time to come to
-offer employment and a fair livelihood to many,
-and large returns to those who outstrip their contemporaries.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_154" id="Page_154">[154]</a></span>
-More and more is the business man,
-the manufacturer, and the capitalist likely to be
-dependent for the economical or successful development
-and management of undertakings on
-the judgment of scientific experts in his own employment
-or called in to advise, and it is only
-meet that the counsel given should be paid for
-handsomely.</p>
-
-<p>Those who pursue literature or art in their
-various branches in this country, and have talents
-in some degree commensurate with their
-ambition, are now generally able to make a comfortable
-livelihood. Indeed the men and women
-in the very front rank are beginning to receive
-incomes which would be highly satisfactory to a
-leading lawyer or physician. Of course original
-work in literature or art demands special ability
-and fitness, but the general utility man is beginning
-to have many opportunities presented to
-him in connection with what may be called the
-clerical work of these professions. The great
-magazines and publishing houses have an increasing
-need for trained, scholarly men, for capable
-critics, and discerning advisers in the field
-both of letter-press and illustration. Another
-calling which seems to promise great possibilities<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_155" id="Page_155">[155]</a></span>
-both of usefulness and income to those who devote
-themselves to it earnestly is the comparatively
-new profession of journalism. The reporter,
-with all his present horrors, is in the process
-of evolution; but the journalist is sure to
-remain the high-priest of democracy. His influence
-is almost certain to increase materially, but
-it will not increase unless he seeks to lead public
-thought instead of bowing to it. The newspaper,
-in order to flourish, must be a moulder of opinion,
-and to accomplish this those who control its
-columns must more and more be men of education,
-force, and high ideals. Competition will
-winnow here as elsewhere, but those who by ability
-and industry win the chief places will stand
-high in the community and command large pay
-for their services.</p>
-
-<p>An aristocracy of brains&mdash;that is to say, an
-aristocracy composed of individuals successful
-and prominent in their several callings&mdash;seems
-to be the logical sequence of our institutions under
-present social and industrial conditions. The
-only aristocracy which can exist in a democracy
-is one of honorable success evidenced by wealth
-or a handsome income, but the character of such
-an aristocracy will depend on the ambitions and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_156" id="Page_156">[156]</a></span>
-tastes of the nation. The inevitable economic law
-of supply and demand governs here as elsewhere,
-and will govern until such a time as society may
-be reconstructed on an entirely new basis. Only
-the leaders in any vocation can hope to grow rich,
-but in proportion as the demands of the nation
-for what is best increase will the type and characteristics
-of these leaders improve. The doing
-away with inherited orders of nobility and deliberate,
-patented class distinctions, gives the entire
-field to wealth. We boast proudly that no artificial
-barriers confine individual social promotion;
-but we must remember at the same time
-that those old barriers meant more than the perpetuation
-of perfumed ladies and idle gentlemen
-from century to century. We are too apt to forget
-that the aristocracies of the old world signified
-in the first place a process of selection. The
-kings and the nobles, the lords and the barons,
-the knights who fought and the ladies for whom
-they died, were the master-spirits of their days
-and generations, the strong arms and the strong
-brains of civilized communities. They stood for
-force, the force of the individual who was more
-intelligent, more capable, and mightier in soul
-and body than his neighbors, and who claimed<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_157" id="Page_157">[157]</a></span>
-the prerogatives of superiority on that account.
-These master-spirits, it is true, used these prerogatives
-in such a manner as to crystallize society
-into the classes and the masses, so hopelessly
-for the latter that the gulf between them still is
-wide as an ocean, notwithstanding that present
-nobilities have been shorn of their power so that
-they may be said to exist chiefly by sufferance.
-And yet the world is still the same in that there
-are men more intelligent, more capable, and
-mightier in soul and body than their fellows.
-The leaders of the past won their spurs by prowess
-with the battle-axe and spear, by wise counsel
-in affairs of state, by the sheer force of their
-superior manhood. The gentleman and lady
-stood for the best blood of the world, though
-they so often belied it by their actions.</p>
-
-<p>We, who are accustomed to applaud our civilization
-as the hope of the world, may well look
-across the water and take suggestions from the
-institutions of Great Britain, not with the idea of
-imitation, but with a view to consider the forces
-at work there. For nearly a century now the government,
-though in form a monarchy, has been
-substantially a constitutional republic, imbued
-with inherited traditions and somewhat galvanized<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_158" id="Page_158">[158]</a></span>
-by class distinctions, but nevertheless a constitutional
-republic. The nobility still exists as a
-sort of French roof or Eastern pagoda to give
-a pleasing appearance to the social edifice. The
-hereditary meaning of titles has been so largely
-negatived by the introduction of new blood&mdash;the
-blood of the strongest men of the period&mdash;that
-they have become, what they originally
-were, badges to distinguish the men most valuable
-to the State. Their abolition is merely a
-question of time, and many of the leaders to
-whom they are proffered reject them as they
-would a cockade or a yellow satin waistcoat. On
-the other hand, and here is the point of argument,
-the real aristocracy of England for the last
-hundred years has been an aristocracy of the
-foremost, ablest, and worthiest men of the nation,
-and with few exceptions the social and
-pecuniary rewards have been bestowed both by
-the State and by public appreciation on the master-spirits
-of the time in the best sense. Brilliant
-statesmanship, wisdom on the bench, the surgeon’s
-skill, the banker’s sound discernment,
-genius in literature and art, when signally contributed
-by the individual, have won him fame
-and fortune.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_159" id="Page_159">[159]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>It may be said, perhaps, that the pecuniary
-rewards of science and literature have been less
-conspicuous than those accorded to other successes,
-but that has been due to the inherent
-practical temperament and artistic limitations of
-the Englishman, and can scarcely be an argument
-against the contention that English society
-in the nineteenth century, with all its social idiosyncrasies,
-has really been graded on the order
-of merit.</p>
-
-<p>The tide of democracy has set in across the
-water and is running strongly, and there can be
-no doubt that the next century is likely to work
-great and strange changes in the conditions of
-society in England as well as here. The same
-questions practically are presented to each nation,
-except that there a carefully constructed and in
-many respects admirable system of society is to
-be disintegrated. We are a new country, and we
-have a right to be hopeful that we are sooner or
-later to outstrip all civilizations. Nor is it a blemish
-that the astonishing development of our material
-resources has absorbed the energies of our
-best blood. But it now remains to be seen whether
-the standards of pure democracy, without traditions
-or barriers to point the way, are to justify<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_160" id="Page_160">[160]</a></span>
-the experiment and improve the race. The character
-of our aristocracy will depend on the virtues
-and tastes of the people, and the struggle
-is to be between aspiration and contentment with
-low ambitions. Our original undertaking has been
-made far more difficult by the infusion of the
-worst blood in Christendom, the lees of foreign
-nations; but the result of the experiment will be
-much more convincing because of this change in
-conditions.</p>
-
-<p>Who are to be the men of might and heroes
-of democracy? That will depend on the demands
-and aspirations of the enfranchised people. With
-all its imperfections, the civilization of the past
-has fostered the noble arts and stirred genius to
-immortalize itself in bronze and marble, in cathedral
-spires, in masterpieces of painting and literature,
-in untiring scholarship, in fervent labors in
-law, medicine, and science. Democracy must care
-for these things, and encourage the individual to
-choose worthy occupations, or society will suffer.
-We hope and believe that, in the long run, the
-standards of humanity will be raised rather than
-lowered by the lifting of the flood-gates which
-divide the privileged classes from the mass; but
-it behooves us all to remember that while demand<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_161" id="Page_161">[161]</a></span>
-and supply must be the leading arbiters
-in the choice of a vocation, the responsibility of
-selection is left to each individual. Only by the
-example of individuals will society be saved from
-accepting the low, vulgar aims and ambitions of
-the mass as a desirable weal, and this is the
-strongest argument against the doctrines of those
-who would repress individuality for the alleged
-benefit of mankind as a whole. The past has
-given us many examples of the legislator who
-cannot be bribed, of the statesman faithful to
-principle, of the student who disdains to be superficial,
-of the gentleman who is noble in
-thought, and speech and action, and they stand
-on the roll of the world’s great men. Democracy
-cannot afford not to continue to add to this list,
-and either she must steel her countenance against
-the cheap man and his works, or sooner or later
-be confounded. Was Marie Antoinette a more
-dangerous enemy of the people than the newspaper
-proprietor who acquires fortune by catering
-to the lowest tastes and prejudices of the
-public, or the self-made capitalist who argues
-that every man has his price, and seeks to accomplish
-legislation by bribery?</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_162" id="Page_162">[162]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2>The <i>Use of Time</i>.</h2>
-
-<h3>I.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-i-2.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">I brought Rogers home with
-me again the other day. I do not
-mean Rogers in the flesh; but
-the example of Rogers as a bogy
-with which to confound my better
-half and myself. You may recall that Rogers
-is the book-keeper for Patterson the banker,
-and that he has brought up and educated a
-family on a salary of twenty-two hundred dollars
-a year.</p>
-
-<p>“Barbara,” said I, “we were reflecting yesterday
-that we never have time to do the things
-we really wish to do. Have you ever considered
-how Rogers spends his time?”</p>
-
-<p>My wife admitted that she had not, and she
-dutifully waited for me to proceed, though I
-could tell from the expression of her mouth that
-she did not expect to derive much assistance
-from the example of Mr. Rogers. Therefore I
-made an interesting pathological deduction to
-begin with.</p>
-
-<p>“Rogers does not live on his nerves from
-one year’s end to the other, as we do.”</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_163" id="Page_163">[163]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>“I congratulate him,” said Barbara, with a
-sigh.</p>
-
-<p>“And yet,” I continued, “he leads a highly
-respectable and fairly interesting life. He gets up
-at precisely the same hour every morning, has
-his breakfast, reads the paper, and is at his desk
-punctually on time. He dines frugally, returns
-to his desk until half-past four or five, and after
-performing any errands which Mrs. Rogers has
-asked him to attend to, goes home to the bosom
-of his family. There he exchanges his coat and
-boots for a dressing-gown, or aged smoking-jacket,
-and slippers, and remains by his fireside
-absorbed in the evening paper until tea-time.
-Conversation with the members of his family
-beguiles him for half an hour after the completion
-of the meal; then he settles down to the
-family weekly magazine, or plays checkers or
-backgammon with his wife or daughters. After
-a while, if he is interested in ferns or grasses, he
-looks to see how his specimens are growing under
-the glass case in the corner. He pats the cat and
-makes sure that the canary is supplied with seed.
-Now and then he brings home a puzzle, like
-‘Pigs in Clover,’ which keeps him up half an
-hour later than usual, but ordinarily his head is<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_164" id="Page_164">[164]</a></span>
-nodding before the stroke of ten warns him that
-his bed-hour has come. And just at the time
-that the wife of his employer, Patterson, may be
-setting out for a ball, he is tucking himself up
-in bed by the side of Mrs. Rogers.”</p>
-
-<p>“Poor man!” interjected Barbara.</p>
-
-<p>“He has his diversions,” said I. “Now and
-again neighbors drop in for a chat, and the evening
-is wound up with a pitcher of lemonade and
-angel-cake. He and his wife drop in, in their
-turn, or he goes to a political caucus. Once a
-fortnight comes the church sociable, and every
-now and then a wedding. From time to time he
-and Mrs. Rogers attend lectures. His young people
-entertain their friends, as the occasion offers,
-in a simple way, and on Sunday he goes to church
-in the morning and falls to sleep after a heavy
-dinner in the afternoon. He leads a quiet, peaceful,
-conservative existence, unharassed by social
-functions and perpetual excitement.”</p>
-
-<p>“And he prides himself, I dare say,” said
-Barbara, “on the score of its virtuousness. He
-saves his nerves and he congratulates himself
-that he is not a society person, as he calls it.
-Your Mr. Rogers may be a very estimable individual,
-dear, in his own sphere, and I do think<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_165" id="Page_165">[165]</a></span>
-he manages wonderfully on his twenty-two hundred
-dollars a year; but I should prefer to see
-you lose your nerves and become a gibbering
-victim of nervous prostration rather than that
-you should imitate him.”</p>
-
-<p>“I’m not proposing to imitate him, Barbara,”
-I answered, gravely. “I admit that his life seems
-rather dull and not altogether inspiring, but I
-do think that a little of his repose would be
-beneficial to many of us whose interests are more
-varied. We might borrow it to advantage for a
-few months in the year, don’t you think so? I
-believe, Barbara, that if you and I were each of
-us to lie flat on our backs for one hour every
-day and think of nothing&mdash;and not even clinch
-our hands&mdash;we should succeed in doing more
-things than we really wish to do.”</p>
-
-<p>“I suppose it’s the climate&mdash;they say it’s
-the climate,” said Barbara, pensively. “Foreigners
-don’t seem to be affected in that way. They’re
-not always in a hurry as we are, and yet they
-seem to accomplish very nearly as much. We
-all know what it is to be conscious of that dreadful,
-nervous, hurried feeling, even when we have
-plenty of time to do the things we have to do.
-I catch myself walking fast&mdash;racing, in fact&mdash;when<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_166" id="Page_166">[166]</a></span>
-there is not the least need of it. I don’t
-clinch my hands nearly so much as I used, and
-I’ve ceased to hold on to the pillow in bed as
-though it were a life-preserver, out of deference
-to Delsarte, but when it comes to lying down
-flat on my back for an hour a day&mdash;every day&mdash;really
-it isn’t feasible. It’s an ideal plan, I
-dare say, but the days are not long enough. Just
-take to-day, for instance, and tell me, please,
-when I had time to lie down.”</p>
-
-<p>“You are clinching your hands now,” I remarked.</p>
-
-<p>“Because you have irritated me with your
-everlasting Mr. Rogers,” retorted Barbara. She
-examined, nevertheless, somewhat dejectedly,
-the marks of her nails in her palms. “In the
-morning, for instance, when I came down to
-breakfast there was the mail. Two dinner invitations
-and an afternoon tea; two sets of wedding-cards,
-and a notice of a lecture by Miss
-Clara Hatheway on the relative condition of
-primary schools here and abroad; requests for
-subscriptions to the new Cancer Hospital and
-the Children’s Fresh Air and Vacation Fund;
-an advertisement of an after-holiday sale of boys’
-and girls’ clothes at Halliday’s; a note from Mrs.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_167" id="Page_167">[167]</a></span>
-James Green asking particulars regarding our
-last cook, and a letter from the President of my
-Woman’s Club notifying me that I was expected
-to talk to them at the next meeting on the arguments
-in favor of and against the ownership
-by cities and towns of gas and water-works. All
-these had to be answered, noted, or considered.
-Then I had to interview the cook and the
-butcher and the grocer about the dinner, give
-orders that a button should be sewn on one pair
-of your trousers and a stain removed from another,
-and give directions to the chore-man to
-oil the lock of the front-door, and tell him to go
-post-haste for the plumber to extract the blotting-paper
-which the children yesterday stuffed
-down the drain-pipe in the bath-tub, so that the
-water could not escape. Then I had to sit down
-and read the newspaper. Not because I had time,
-or wished to, but to make sure that there was
-nothing in it which you could accuse me of not
-having read. After this I dressed to go out. I
-stopped at the florist’s to order some roses for
-Mrs. Julius Cæsar, whose mother is dead; at
-Hapgood &amp; Wales’s and at Jones’s for cotton-batting,
-hooks and eyes, and three yards of ribbon;
-at Belcher’s for an umbrella to replace<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_168" id="Page_168">[168]</a></span>
-mine, which you left in the cable-cars, and at
-the library to select something to read. I arrived
-home breathless for the children’s dinner, and
-immediately afterward I dressed and went to the
-meeting of the Executive Committee of the Woman’s
-Club, stopping on the way to inquire if
-Mrs. Wilson’s little boy were better. We started
-by discussing a proposed change in our Constitution
-regarding the number of black-balls necessary
-to exclude a candidate, and drifted off on
-to ‘Trilby.’ It was nearly five when I got away,
-and as I felt it on my conscience to go both to
-Mrs. Southwick’s and Mrs. Williams’s teas, I
-made my appearance at each for a few minutes,
-but managed to slip away so as to be at home
-at six. When you came in I had just been reading
-to the children and showing them about their
-lessons. Now I have only just time to dress for
-dinner, for we dine at the Gregory Browns, at
-half-past seven. We ought to go later to the reception
-at Mrs. Hollis’s&mdash;it is her last of three
-and we haven’t been yet&mdash;but I suppose you
-will say you are too tired. There! will you tell
-me when I could have found time to lie down
-for an hour to-day?”</p>
-
-<p>I was constrained to laugh at my wife’s recital,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_169" id="Page_169">[169]</a></span>
-and I was not able at the moment to point
-out to her exactly what she might have omitted
-from her category so as to make room for the
-hour of repose. Nor, indeed, as I review the
-events of my own daily life and of the daily lives
-of my friends and acquaintances, am I able to
-define precisely where it could be brought in.
-And yet are we not&mdash;many of us who are in the
-thick of modern life&mdash;conscious that our days
-are, as it were, congested? We feel sure that so
-far as our physical comfort is concerned we ought
-to be doing less, and we shrewdly suspect that, if
-we had more time in which to think, our spiritual
-natures would be the gainers. The difficulty
-is to stop, or rather to reduce the speed of modern
-living to the point at which these high-pressure
-nervous symptoms disappear, and the days
-cease to seem too short for what we wish to
-accomplish. Perhaps those who take an intense
-interest in living will never be able to regain that
-delightful condition of equipoise, if it ever existed,
-which our ancestors both here and across
-the water are said to have experienced. Perhaps,
-too, our ancestors were more in a hurry when
-they were alive than they seem to have been now
-that they are dead; but, whether this be true or<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_170" id="Page_170">[170]</a></span>
-otherwise, we are confidently told by those who
-ought to know that we Americans of this day and
-generation are the most restless, nervous people
-under the sun, and live at a higher pressure than
-our contemporaries of the effete civilizations. It
-used to be charged that we were in such haste to
-grow rich that there was no health in us; and
-now that we are, or soon will be, the wealthiest
-nation in the world, they tell us that we continue
-to maintain the same feverish pace in all that we
-undertake or do.</p>
-
-<p>I am not sure that this charge could not be
-brought against the Englishman, Frenchman, or
-German of to-day with almost equal justice, or,
-in other words, that it is a characteristic of the
-age rather than of our nation; but that conviction
-would merely solace our pride and could not
-assuage “that tired feeling” of which so many
-are conscious. At all events, if we do not work
-harder than our kinsmen across the sea, we seem
-to bear the strain less well. It may be the climate,
-as my wife has said, which causes our nervous
-systems to rebel; but then, again, we cannot
-change the climate, and consequently must adapt
-ourselves to its idiosyncrasies.</p>
-
-<p>Ever since we first began to declare that we<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_171" id="Page_171">[171]</a></span>
-were superior to all other civilizations we have
-been noted for our energy. The way in which we
-did everything, from sawing wood to electing a
-President, was conspicuous by virtue of the bustling,
-hustling qualities displayed. But it is no
-longer high treason to state that our national life,
-in spite of its bustle, was, until comparatively recently,
-lacking in color and variety. The citizen
-who went to bed on the stroke of ten every night
-and did practically the same thing each day from
-one year’s end to the other was the ideal citizen
-of the Republic, and was popularly described as
-a conservative and a strong man. His life was
-led within very repressed limits, and anything
-more artistic than a chromo or religious motto
-was apt to irritate him and shock his principles.
-To be sure, we had then our cultivated class&mdash;more
-narrowly but possibly more deeply cultivated
-than its flourishing successor of to-day&mdash;but
-the average American, despite his civic virtues
-and consciousness of rectitude, led a humdrum
-existence, however hustling or bustling.
-There is a large percentage of our population that
-continues to live in much the same manner, notwithstanding
-the wave of enlightenment which
-has swept over the country and keyed us all up<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_172" id="Page_172">[172]</a></span>
-to concert pitch by multiplying the number of
-our interests. I feel a little guilty in having included
-Rogers among this number, for I really
-know of my own knowledge nothing about his
-individual home life. It may be that I have been
-doing him a rank injustice, and that his home is
-in reality a seething caldron of progress. I referred
-to him as a type rather than as an individual,
-knowing as I do that there are still too
-many homes in this country where music, art,
-literature, social tastes, and intelligent interest in
-human affairs in the abstract, when developed
-beyond mere rudimentary lines, are unappreciated
-and regarded as vanities or inanities.</p>
-
-<p>On the other hand, there is nothing more interesting
-in our present national evolution than
-the eager recognition by the intelligent and aspiring
-portion of the people that we have been
-and are ignorant, and that the true zest of life
-lies in its many-sidedness and its possibilities of
-development along æsthetic, social, and intellectual
-as well as moral lines. The United States
-to-day is fairly bristling with eager, ambitious
-students, and with people of both sexes, young
-and middle-aged, who are anxiously seeking how
-to make the most of life. This eagerness of soul<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_173" id="Page_173">[173]</a></span>
-is not confined to any social class, and is noticeable
-in every section of the country in greater or
-less degree. It is quite as likely to be found among
-people of very humble means as among those
-whose earliest associations have brought them
-into contact with the well-to-do and carefully
-educated. Therefore I beg the pardon of Rogers
-in case I have put him individually in the wrong
-category. A divine yet cheery activity has largely
-taken the place of sodden self-righteousness on
-the one hand, and analytical self-consciousness
-on the other. The class is not as yet very large
-as compared with the entire population of the
-country, but it is growing rapidly, and its members
-are the most interesting men and women of
-the Republic&mdash;those who are in the van of our
-development as a people.</p>
-
-<p>Overcrowded and congested lives signify at
-least earnestness and absorption. Human nature
-is more likely to aspire and advance when society
-is nervously active, than when it is bovine
-and self-congratulatory. But nerves can endure
-only a certain amount of strain without reminding
-human beings that strong and healthy bodies
-are essential to true national progress. Only recently
-in this country have we learned to consider<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_174" id="Page_174">[174]</a></span>
-the welfare of the body, and though we
-have begun to be deadly in earnest about athletics,
-the present generation of workers was,
-for the most part, brought up on the theory that
-flesh and blood was a limitation rather than a
-prerequisite. We are doing bravely in this matter
-so far as the education of our children is concerned,
-but it is too late to do much for our own
-nerves. Though stagnation is a more deplorable
-state, it behooves us, nevertheless, if possible, to
-rid ourselves of congestion for our ultimate
-safety.</p>
-
-<p>An active man or woman stopping to think
-in the morning may well be appalled at the variety
-of his or her life. The ubiquity of the modern
-American subconsciousness is something
-unique. We wish to know everything there is
-to know. We are interested not merely in our
-own and our neighbors’ affairs&mdash;with a knowledge
-of which so many citizens of other lands
-are peacefully contented&mdash;but we are eager to
-know, and to know with tolerable accuracy, what
-is going on all over the world&mdash;in England,
-China, Russia, and Australia. Not merely politically,
-but socially, artistically, scientifically,
-philosophically, and ethically. No subject is too<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_175" id="Page_175">[175]</a></span>
-technical for our interest, provided it comes in
-our way, whether it concern the canals in Mars
-or the antitoxin germ. The newspaper and the
-telegraph have done much to promote this ubiquity
-of the mind’s eye all over the world, but the
-interests of the average American are much wider
-and more diversified than those of any other
-people. An Englishman will have his hobbies
-and know them thoroughly, but regarding affairs
-beyond the pale of his limited inquiry he
-is deliberately and often densely ignorant. He
-reads, and reads augustly, one newspaper, one or
-two magazines&mdash;a few books; we, on the other
-hand, are not content unless we stretch out feelers
-in many directions and keep posted, as we
-call it, by hasty perusals of almost innumerable
-publications for fear lest something escape us.
-What does the Frenchman&mdash;the average intelligent
-Frenchman&mdash;know or care about the mode
-of our Presidential elections, and whether this
-Republican or that Democrat has made or
-marred his political reputation? We feel that we
-require to inform ourselves not only concerning
-the art and literature of France, but to have the
-names and doings of her statesmen at our fingers’
-ends for use in polite conversation, and the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_176" id="Page_176">[176]</a></span>
-satisfaction of the remains of the New England
-conscience. All this is highly commendable, if
-it does not tend to render us superficial. The
-more knowledge we have, the better, provided
-we do not fall into the slough of knowing nothing
-very well, or hunt our wits to death by over-acquisitiveness.
-There is so much nowadays to
-learn, and seemingly so little time in which to
-learn it, we cannot afford to spread ourselves too
-thin.</p>
-
-<p>The energy of our people has always been
-conspicuous in the case of women. The American
-woman, from the earliest days of our history,
-has refused to be prevented by the limitations of
-time or physique from trying to include the entire
-gamut of human feminine activity in her daily
-experience. There was a period when she could
-demonstrate successfully her ability to cook,
-sweep, rear and educate children, darn her husband’s
-stockings, and yet entertain delightfully,
-dress tastefully, and be well versed in literature
-and all the current phases of high thinking. The
-New England woman of fifty years ago was certainly
-an interesting specimen from this point
-of view, in spite of her morbid conscience and
-polar sexual proclivities. But among the well-to-do<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_177" id="Page_177">[177]</a></span>
-women of the nation to-day&mdash;the women who
-correspond socially to those just described&mdash;this
-achievement is possible only by taxing the
-human system to the point of distress, except
-in the newly or thinly settled portions of the
-country, where the style of living is simple and
-primitive.</p>
-
-<p>In the East, of course, in the cities and towns
-the women in question ceased long ago to do all
-the housework; and among the well-to-do, servants
-have relieved her of much, if not of all of
-the physical labor. But, on the other hand, the
-complexities of our modern establishments, and
-the worry which her domestics cause her, make
-the burden of her responsibilities fully equal to
-what they were when she cooked flap-jacks and
-darned stockings herself. In other countries the
-women conversant with literature, art, and science,
-who go in for philanthropy, photography,
-or the ornamentation of china, who write papers
-on sociological or educational matters, are, for
-the most part, women of leisure in other respects.
-The American woman is the only woman at
-large in the universe who aims to be the wife
-and mother of a family, the mistress of an establishment,
-a solver of world problems, a social<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_178" id="Page_178">[178]</a></span>
-leader, and a philanthropist or artistic devotee
-at one and the same time. Each of these interests
-has its determined followers among the women
-of other civilizations, but nowhere except
-here does the eternal feminine seek to manifest
-itself in so many directions in the same individual.</p>
-
-<p>This characteristic of our womanhood is a virtue
-up to a certain point. The American woman
-has certainly impressed her theory that her sex
-should cease to be merely pliant, credulous, and
-ignorantly complacent so forcibly on the world
-that society everywhere has been affected by it.
-Her desire to make the most of herself, and to
-participate as completely as possible in the vital
-work of the world without neglecting the duties
-allotted to her by the older civilizations, is in the
-line of desirable evolution. But there is such a
-thing as being superficial, which is far more to be
-dreaded than even nervous prostration. Those
-absorbed in the earnest struggle of modern living
-may perhaps justly claim that to work until one
-drops is a noble fault, and that disregard of one’s
-own sensations and comfort is almost indispensable
-in order to accomplish ever so little. But
-there is nothing noble in superficiality; and it<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_179" id="Page_179">[179]</a></span>
-would seem that the constant flitting from one
-interest to another, which so many American women
-seem unable to avoid, must necessarily tend
-to prevent them from knowing or doing anything
-thoroughly.</p>
-
-<p>As regards the creature man, the critics of this
-country have been accustomed to assert that he
-was so much absorbed in making money, or in
-business, as our popular phrase is, that he had
-no time for anything else. This accusation used
-to be extraordinarily true, and in certain parts of
-the country it has not altogether ceased to be
-true; though even there the persistent masculine
-dollar-hunter regards wistfully and proudly the
-æsthetic propensities of the female members of
-his family, and feels that his labors are sweetened
-thereby. This is a very different attitude from
-the self-sufficiency of half a century ago. The
-difficulty now is that our intelligent men, like our
-women, are apt to attempt too much, inclined to
-crowd into each and every day more sensations
-than they can assimilate. An Englishwoman,
-prominent in educational matters, and intelligent
-withal, recently expressed her surprise to my
-wife, Barbara, that the American gentleman existed.
-She had been long familiar with the American<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_180" id="Page_180">[180]</a></span>
-woman as a charming, if original, native product,
-but she had never heard of the American
-gentleman&mdash;meaning thereby the alert, thoughtful
-man of high purposes and good-breeding.
-“How many there are!” the Briton went on to
-say in the enthusiasm of her surprise. Indeed
-there are. The men prominent in the leading
-walks of life all over this country now compare
-favorably, at least, with the best of other nations,
-unless it be that our intense desire to know
-everything has rendered, or may render, us accomplished
-rather than profound.</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_181" id="Page_181">[181]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2>The <i>Use of Time</i>.</h2>
-
-<h3>II.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-a-2.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">After all, whether this suggestion
-of a tendency toward superficiality
-be well founded or not, the proper
-use of time has come to be a more
-serious problem than ever for the entire world.
-The demands of modern living are so exacting
-that men and women everywhere must exercise
-deliberate selection in order to live wisely. To
-lay down general rules for the use of time would
-be as futile as to insist that every one should use
-coats of the same size and color, and eat the same
-kind and quantity of food. The best modern living
-may perhaps be correctly defined as a happy
-compromise in the aims and actions of the individual
-between self-interest and altruism.</p>
-
-<p>If one seeks to illustrate this definition by example
-it is desirable in the first place to eliminate
-the individuals in the community whose use of
-time is so completely out of keeping with this
-doctrine that it is not worth while to consider
-them. Murderers, forgers, and criminals of all
-kinds, including business men who practise petty
-thefts, and respectable tradesmen who give short<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_182" id="Page_182">[182]</a></span>
-weight and overcharge, instinctively occur to us.
-So do mere pleasure-seekers, drunkards, and idle
-gentlemen. On the same theory we must exclude
-monks, deliberate celibates, nuns, and all fanatical
-or eccentric persons whose conduct of life,
-however serviceable in itself as a leaven or an
-exception, could not be generally imitated without
-disaster to society. It would seem also as
-though we must exclude those who have yet to
-acquire such elemental virtues of wise living as
-cleanliness, reverence for the beautiful, and a certain
-amount of altruism. There is nothing to
-learn as to the wise use of time from those whose
-conceptions of life are handicapped by the habitual
-use of slang and bad grammar and by untidiness;
-who regard the manifestations of good
-taste and fine scholarship as “frills,” and who,
-though they be unselfish in the bosoms of their
-families, take no interest in the general welfare
-of the community.</p>
-
-<p>Let me in this last connection anticipate the
-criticism of the sentimentalist and of the free-born
-American who wears a chip on his shoulder, by
-stating that time may be as beautifully and wisely
-spent, and life be as noble and serviceable to
-humanity in the home of the humblest citizen<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_183" id="Page_183">[183]</a></span>
-as in that of the well-to-do or rich. Of course it
-may. Who questions it? Did I not, in order not
-even to seem to doubt it, take back all I hazarded
-about the manner in which Rogers spends his
-time? It <em>may</em> be just as beautifully and wisely
-spent, and very often is so. But, on the other
-hand, I suggest, timorously and respectfully, that
-it very often is not, and I venture further to ask
-whether the burden is not on democracy to show
-that the plain life of the plain people as at present
-conducted is a valuable example of wise and
-improving use of time? The future is to account
-for itself, and we all have faith in democracy. We
-are all plain people in this country. But just as a
-passing inquiry, uttered not under my breath,
-yet without levity or malice, what is the contribution
-so far made by plainness as plainness to
-the best progress of the world? Absolutely nothing,
-it seems to me. Progress has come from the
-superiority of individuals in every class of life to
-the mass of their contemporaries. The so-called
-plainness of the plain people too often serves at
-the present day as an influence to drag down the
-aspiring individual to the dead level of the mass
-which contents itself with bombastic cheapness
-of thought and action. This is no plea against<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_184" id="Page_184">[184]</a></span>
-democracy, for democracy has come to stay; but
-it is an argument why the best standards of living
-are more likely to be found among those who
-do not congratulate themselves on their plainness
-than those who are content to live no better
-and no worse than their neighbors. Discontent
-with self is a valuable Mentor in the apportionment
-of time.</p>
-
-<p>Therefore I offer as the most valuable study
-in the use of time under modern conditions the
-men and women in our large cities who are so
-far evolved that they are not tempted to commit
-common crimes, are well educated, earnest and
-pleasing, and are keenly desirous to effect in their
-daily lives that happy compromise between self-interest
-and altruism to which I have referred as
-the goal of success in the use of time. Let us consider
-them from the point of every day in the
-week and of the four seasons. In every man’s life
-his occupation, the calling or profession by which
-he earns his bread, must necessarily be the chief
-consumer of his time. We Americans have never
-been an idle race, and it is rare that the father of
-a family exposes himself to the charge of sloth.
-His work may be unintelligent or bungling, but
-he almost invariably spends rather too much than<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_185" id="Page_185">[185]</a></span>
-too little time over it. If you ask him why, he
-says he cannot help it; that in order to get on
-he must toil early and late. If he is successful,
-he tells you that otherwise he cannot attend to
-all he has to do. There is plausibility in this.
-Competition is undoubtedly so fierce that only
-those who devote themselves heart and soul to
-any calling are likely to succeed. Moreover, the
-consciousness of success is so engrossing and inspiriting
-that one may easily be tempted to sacrifice
-everything else to the game.</p>
-
-<p>But can it be doubted, on the other hand, that
-the man who refuses to become the complete
-slave either of endeavor or success is a better
-citizen than he who does? The chief sinners in
-this respect in our modern life are the successful
-men, those who are in the thick of life doing
-reasonably well. The man who has not arrived,
-or who is beginning, must necessarily have leisure
-for other things for the reason that his time
-is not fully employed, but the really busy worker
-must make an effort or he is lost. If he does not
-put his foot down and determine what else he
-will do beside pursuing his vocation every day
-in the year except Sunday, and often on Sunday
-to boot, he may be robust enough to escape a<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_186" id="Page_186">[186]</a></span>
-premature grave, but he will certainly not make
-the best use of his life.</p>
-
-<p>The difficulty for such men, of course, is to select
-what they will do. There are so many things,
-that it is easy to understand why the mind which
-abhors superficiality should be tempted to shut
-its ears out of sheer desperation to every other
-interest but business or profession. If every one
-were to do that what would be the result? Our
-leading men would simply be a horde of self-seekers,
-in spite of the fact that their individual
-work in their several callings was conscientious
-and unsparing of self. Deplorable as a too great
-multiplicity of interests is apt to be to the welfare
-and advancement of an ambitious man, the
-motive which prompts him to endeavor to do
-many things is in reality a more noble one, and
-one more beneficial to society than absorption
-to excess in a vocation. The cardinal principle
-in the wise use of time is to discover what one
-can do without and to select accordingly. Man’s
-duty to his spiritual nature, to his æsthetic nature,
-to his family, to public affairs, and to his
-social nature, are no less imperative than his duty
-to his daily calling. Unless each of these is in
-some measure catered to, man falls short in his<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_187" id="Page_187">[187]</a></span>
-true obligations. Not one of them can be neglected.
-Some men think they can lighten the
-load to advantage by disregarding their religious
-side. Others congratulate themselves that they
-never read novels or poetry, and speak disrespectfully
-of the works of new schools of art as
-daubs. A still larger number shirks attention to
-political and social problems, and declares bluffly
-that if a man votes twice a year and goes to a
-caucus, when he is sent for in a carriage by the
-committee, it is all that can be expected of a busy
-man. Another large contingent swathes itself in
-graceless virtue, and professes to thank God that
-it keeps aloof from society people and their doings.
-Then we are all familiar with the man who
-has no time to know his own family, though,
-fortunately, he is less common than he used to
-be.</p>
-
-<p>If I were asked to select what one influence
-more than another wastes the spare time of the
-modern man, I should be inclined to specify the
-reading of newspapers. The value of the modern
-daily newspaper as a short cut to knowledge of
-what is actually happening in two hemispheres
-is indisputable, provided it is read regularly so
-that one can eliminate from the consciousness<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_188" id="Page_188">[188]</a></span>
-those facts which are contradicted or qualified on
-the following day. Of course it is indispensable
-to read the morning, and perhaps the evening,
-newspaper in order to know what is going on
-in the world. But the persistent reading of many
-newspapers, or the whole of almost any newspaper,
-is nearly as detrimental to the economy
-of time as the cigarette habit to health. Fifteen
-minutes a day is ample time in which to glean
-the news, and the busy man who aspires to use
-his time to the best advantage may well skip the
-rest. There is no doubt that many of our newspapers
-contain some of the best thought of the
-day scattered through their encyclopædic columns;
-but there is still less doubt that they are
-conducted to please, first of all, those who otherwise
-would read nothing. From this point of
-view they are most valuable educators; moreover,
-the character of the newspaper is steadily
-improving, and it is evident that those in charge
-of the best of them are seeking to raise the public
-taste instead of writing down to it; but the
-fact remains that they at present contain comparatively
-little which the earnest man can afford
-to linger over if he would avoid mental dissipation
-of an insidious kind. A newspaper containing<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_189" id="Page_189">[189]</a></span>
-only the news and the really vital thought of
-the day compressed into short space is among the
-successful enterprises of the future which some
-genius will perpetuate. How many of us, already,
-weary of the social gossip, the sensational personalities,
-the nauseous details of crime, the custom-made
-articles, the Sunday special features,
-the ubiquitous portrait, and finally the colored
-cartoon, would write our names large on such a
-subscription-list!</p>
-
-<p>In the matter of books, too, the modern man
-and woman may well exercise a determined
-choice. There is so much printed nowadays between
-ornamental covers, that any one is liable
-to be misled by sheer bewilderment, and deliberate
-selection is necessary to save us from being
-mentally starved with plenty. We cannot always
-be reading to acquire positive knowledge; entertainment
-and self-oblivion are quite as legitimate
-motives for the hard worker as meditated self-improvement;
-but whether we read philosophy
-and history, or the novel, the poem, and the
-essay, it behooves us to read the best of its kind.
-From this standpoint the average book club is
-almost a positive curse. A weekly quota of books
-appears on our library tables, to be devoured in<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_190" id="Page_190">[190]</a></span>
-seven days. We read them because they come
-to us by lot, not because we have chosen them
-ourselves. There is published in every year of
-this publishing age a certain number of books
-of positive merit in the various departments of
-literature and thought, which a little intelligent
-inquiry would enable us to discover. By reading
-fewer books, and making sure that the serious
-ones were sound and the light or clever ones
-really diverting, the modern man and woman
-would be gainers both in time and approbation.</p>
-
-<p>In this connection let me head off again the sentimentalist
-and moralist by noting that old friends
-in literature are often more satisfying and engaging
-than new. Those of us who are in the thick
-of life are too apt to forget to take down from
-our shelves the comrades we loved when we
-were twenty-one&mdash;the essayists, the historians,
-the poets, and novelists whose delightful pages
-are the literature of the world. An evening at
-home with Shakespeare is not the depressing
-experience which some clever people imagine.
-One rises from the feast to go to bed with all
-one’s æsthetic being refreshed and fortified as
-though one had inhaled oxygen. What a contrast
-this to the stuffy taste in the roof of the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_191" id="Page_191">[191]</a></span>
-mouth, and the weary, dejected frame of mind
-which follow the perusal of much of the current
-literature which cozening booksellers have induced
-the book club secretary to buy.</p>
-
-<p>A very little newspaper reading and a limited
-amount of selected reading will leave time for
-the hobby or avocation. Every man or woman
-ought to have one; something apart from business,
-profession, or housekeeping, in which he
-or she is interested as a study or pursuit. In this
-age of the world it may well take the form of
-educational, economic, or philanthropic investigation,
-or co-operation, if individual tastes happen
-to incline one to such work. The prominence
-of such matters in our present civilization is, of
-course, a magnet favorable to such a choice. In
-this way one can, as it were, kill two birds with
-one stone, develop one’s own resources and perform
-one’s duty toward the public. But, on the
-other hand, there will be many who have no
-sense of fitness for this service, and whose predilections
-lead them toward art, science, literature,
-or some of their ramifications. The amateur
-photographer, the extender of books, the observer
-of birds, are alike among the faithful. To
-have one hobby and not three or four, and to persevere<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_192" id="Page_192">[192]</a></span>
-slowly but steadily in the fulfilment of
-one’s selection, is an important factor in the wise
-disposal of time. It is a truism to declare that a
-few minutes in every day allotted to the same
-piece of work will accomplish wonders; but the
-result of trying will convince the incredulous.
-Indeed one’s avocation should progress and prevail
-by force of spare minutes allotted daily and
-continuously; just so much and no more, so as
-not to crowd out the other claimants for consideration.
-Fifteen minutes before breakfast, or
-between kissing the children good-night and the
-evening meal, or even every other Saturday afternoon
-and a part of every holiday, will make
-one’s hobby look well-fed and sleek at the end
-of a few years.</p>
-
-<p>Perhaps the most difficult side of one’s nature
-to provide for adequately is the social side. It is
-easy enough to make a hermit of one’s self and
-go nowhere; and it is easy enough to let one’s
-self be sucked into the vortex of endless social
-recreation until one’s sensations become akin to
-those of a highly varnished humming-top. I am
-not quite sure which is the worse; but I am inclined
-to believe that the hermit, especially if
-self-righteous, is more detestable in that he is<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_193" id="Page_193">[193]</a></span>
-less altruistic. He may be a more superior person
-than the gadfly of society, but ethics no longer
-sanctions self-cultivation purely for the benefit
-of self. Every man and woman who seeks to play
-an intelligent part in the world ought to manage
-to dine out and attend other social functions
-every now and then, even if it be necessary to
-bid for invitations. Most of us have more invitations
-than we can possibly accept, and find the
-problem of entertaining and being entertained an
-exceedingly perplexing one to solve from the
-standpoint of time. But in spite of the social
-proclivities of most of us, there are still many
-people who feel that they are fulfilling their complete
-duty as members of society if they live
-lives of strict rectitude far from the madding
-crowd of so-called society people, and never
-darken the doors of anybody. It is said that it
-takes all sorts of people to make up the world,
-but disciplinarians and spoil-sports of this sort
-are so tiresome that they would not be missed
-were they and their homilies to be translated prematurely
-to another sphere.</p>
-
-<p>Those of us, however, who profess a contrary
-faith, experience difficulty at times in being true
-to it, and are often tempted to slip back into domestic<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_194" id="Page_194">[194]</a></span>
-isolation by the feverishness of our social
-life. It sometimes seems as though there were no
-middle way between being a humming-top and a
-hermit. Yet nothing is more fatal to the wise use
-of time than the acceptance of every invitation
-received, unless it be the refusal of every one.
-Here again moderation and choice are the only
-safeguards, in spite of the assurance of friends
-that it is necessary to go a great deal in order to
-enjoy one’s self. In our cities the bulk of the entertainments
-of the year happen in the four winter
-months; from which many far from frivolous
-persons argue that the only way is to dine out
-every night, and go to everything to which one
-is asked during this period, and make up between
-April 15th and December 15th for any
-arrears due the other demands of one’s nature.
-This is plausible, but a dangerous theory, if carried
-to excess. Wise living consists in living
-wisely from day to day, without excepting any
-season. Three evenings in a week spent away
-from one’s own fireside may not be an easy limit
-for some whose social interests are varied, but
-both the married and the single who regret politely
-in order to remain tranquilly at home four
-evenings out of seven, need not fear that they<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_195" id="Page_195">[195]</a></span>
-have neglected the social side of life even in the
-gayest of seasons.</p>
-
-<p>And here, for the sake of our sometimes dense
-friend the moralist&mdash;especially the moralist of
-the press, who raves against society people from
-the virtuous limit of an occasional afternoon tea&mdash;let
-me add that by entertainments and recreation
-I intend to include not merely formal balls
-and dinner-parties, but all the forms of more or
-less innocent edification and diversion&mdash;teas,
-reform meetings, theatres, receptions, concerts,
-lectures, clubs, sociables, fairs, and tableaux, by
-which people all over the country are brought
-together to exchange ideas and opinions in good-humored
-fellowship.</p>
-
-<p>In the apportionment of time the consideration
-of one’s physical health is a paramount necessity,
-not merely for a reasonably long life, but
-to temper the mind’s eye so that the point of
-view remain sane and wholesome. An overwrought
-nervous system may be capable of spasmodic
-spurts, but sustained useful work is impossible
-under such conditions. To die in harness
-before one’s time may be fine, and in exceptional
-cases unavoidable, but how much better to live
-in harness and do the work which one has undertaken<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_196" id="Page_196">[196]</a></span>
-without breaking down. Happily the
-young men and women of the country of the
-present generation may almost be said to have
-athletics and fresh air on the brain. What with
-opportunity and precept they can scarcely help
-living up to the mark in this respect. The grown-up
-men and women, absorbed in the struggle of
-life, are the people who need to keep a watchful
-eye upon themselves. It is so easy to let the
-hour’s fresh air and exercise be crowded out by
-the things which one feels bound to do for the
-sake of others, and hence for one’s immortal soul.
-We argue that it will not matter if we omit our
-walk or rest for a day or two, and so we go on
-from day to day, until we are brought up with
-a round turn, as the saying is, and realize, in case
-we are still alive, that we are chronic invalids.
-The walk, the ride, the drive, the yacht, the bicycle,
-the search for wild flowers and birds, the
-angler’s outing, the excursion with a camera,
-the deliberate open-air breathing spell on the
-front platform of a street-car, some one of these
-is within the means and opportunities of every
-busy worker, male and female.</p>
-
-<p>For many of us the most begrudged undertaking
-of all is to find time for what we owe to<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_197" id="Page_197">[197]</a></span>
-the world at large or the State, the State with a
-capital S, as it is written nowadays. There is no
-money in such bestowals, no private gain or emolument.
-What we give we give as a tribute to pure
-altruism, or, in other words, because as men and
-women we feel that it is one of the most important
-elements in wise living. It is indisputable
-that there was never so much disinterested endeavor
-in behalf of the community at large as
-there is to-day, but at the same time it is true
-that the agitations and work are accomplished by
-a comparatively small number of people. There
-are probably among the intelligent, aspiring portion
-of the population at least five persons who
-intend to interest themselves in public affairs, and
-regard doing so as essential to a useful life, to
-every one who puts his theories into practice.
-No man or woman can do everything. We cannot
-as individuals at one and the same time busy
-ourselves successfully in education, philanthropy,
-political reform, and economic science. But if
-every one would take an active, earnest concern
-in something, in some one thing, and look into
-it slowly but thoroughly, this man or woman in
-the public schools, this in the methods of municipal
-government, and this in the problems of<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_198" id="Page_198">[198]</a></span>
-crime or poverty, reforms would necessarily proceed
-much faster. Just a little work every other
-day or every week. Let it be your hobby if you
-will, if you have no time for a hobby too. If five
-thousand men in every large city should take an
-active interest in and give a small amount of time
-in every week to the school question, we should
-soon have excellent public schools; if another five
-thousand would devote themselves to the affairs
-of municipal government in a similar fashion,
-would there be so much corruption as at present,
-and would so inferior a class of citizens be
-chosen to be aldermen and to fill the other city
-offices? And so on to the end of the chapter. Is
-not something of the kind the duty of every earnest
-man and woman? Let those who boast of being
-plain people put this into their pipes and
-smoke it. When the self-styled working-classes
-are prohibited by law from working more than
-eight hours, will they contribute of their spare
-time to help those who are trying to help
-them?</p>
-
-<p>American men have the reputation of being
-considerate husbands and indulgent fathers; but
-they have been apt at all events, until recently,
-to make permission to spend take the place of<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_199" id="Page_199">[199]</a></span>
-personal comradeship. This has been involuntarily
-and regretfully ascribed to business pressure;
-but fatalistic remorse is a poor substitute
-for duty, even though the loved ones eat off gold
-plate and ride in their own carriages as a consequence.
-We Americans who have begotten children
-in the last twenty years do not need to be
-informed that the time given to the society of
-one’s wife and family is the most precious expenditure
-of all, both for their sakes and our own.
-But though the truth is obvious to us, are we not
-sometimes conscious at the end of the week that
-the time due us and them has been squandered
-or otherwise appropriated? Those walks and
-talks, those pleasant excursions from city to
-country, or country to city, those quiet afternoons
-or evenings at home, which are possible
-to every man and woman who love each other
-and their children, are among the most valuable
-aids to wise living and peace of mind which daily
-existence affords. Intimacy and warm sympathy,
-precept and loving companionship, are worth all
-the indulgent permission and unexpected cheques
-in the world. Some people, when Sunday or a
-holiday comes, seem to do their best to get rid
-of their families and to try to amuse themselves<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_200" id="Page_200">[200]</a></span>
-apart from them. Such men and women are shutting
-out from their lives the purest oxygen which
-civilization affords; for genuine comradeship of
-husband and wife, and father or mother and child,
-purges the soul and tends to clear the mind’s eye
-more truly than any other influence.</p>
-
-<p>Lastly and firstly, and in close compact with
-sweet domesticity and faithful friendship, stand
-the spiritual demands of our natures. We must
-have time to think and meditate. Just as the flowers
-need the darkness and the refreshing dew, the
-human soul requires its quiet hours, its season
-for meditation and rest. Whatever we may believe,
-whatever doubts we may entertain regarding
-the mysteries of the universe, who will maintain
-that the aspiring side of man is a delusion
-and an unreality? In the time&mdash;often merely
-minutes&mdash;which we give to contemplation and
-serious review of what we are doing, lies the secret
-of the wise plan, if not the execution. To go
-on helter-skelter from day to day without a purpose
-in our hearts resembles playing a hurdy-gurdy
-for a living without the hope of pence.
-The use of Sunday in this country has changed
-so radically in the last twenty-five years that
-every one is free to spend it as he will, subject<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_201" id="Page_201">[201]</a></span>
-to certain restrictions as to sport and entertainment
-in public calculated to offend those who
-would prefer stricter usages. But whether we
-choose to go to church or not, whether our aspirations
-are fostered in the sanctuary or the fresh
-air, the eternal needs of the soul must be provided
-for. If we give our spare hours and minutes
-merely to careless amusement, we cannot
-fail to degenerate in nobility of nature, just as
-we lose the hue of health when we sully the red
-corpuscles of the body with foul air and steam
-heat. Are we not nowadays, even the plain people,
-God bless them, too much disposed to believe
-that merely to be comfortable and amused
-and rested is the sole requirement of the human
-soul? It does need rest most of the time in this
-age of pressure, Heaven knows, and comfort and
-amusement are necessary. But may we not, even
-while we rest and are comfortable, under the blue
-sky or on the peaceful river, if you will, lift up
-our spirits to the mystery of the ages, and reach
-out once more toward the eternal truths? Merely
-to be comfortable and to get rested once a week
-will not bring those truths nearer. May we not,
-in the pride of our democracy, afford to turn our
-glances back to the pages of history, to the long<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_202" id="Page_202">[202]</a></span>
-line of mighty men kneeling before the altar with
-their eyes turned up to God, and the prayer of
-faith and repentance on their lips? Did this all
-mean nothing? Are we so wise and certain and
-far-seeing that we need not do likewise?</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_203" id="Page_203">[203]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2>The <i>Summer Problem</i>.</h2>
-
-<h3>I.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-w-2.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">What is the good American to
-do with himself or herself in summer?
-The busiest worker nowadays
-admits that a vacation of a
-fortnight in hot weather is at least
-desirable. Philanthropy sends yearly more and
-more children on an outing in August, as one of
-the best contributions to the happiness and welfare
-of the poor. The atmosphere of our large
-cities in midsummer is so lifeless and oppressive
-that every one who can get away for some part
-of the summer plans to do so, and fathers of
-families find themselves annually confronted by
-a serious problem.</p>
-
-<p>I specify the father of a family because the
-problem is so much easier for a single man. The
-single man, and generally the single woman, can
-pack a bag and go to the beach or mountains, or
-to a hotel within easy distance from town, without
-much premeditation. The worst that can happen
-to them is that they may become engaged
-without intention; besides they can always come
-home if they are dissatisfied with their surroundings.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_204" id="Page_204">[204]</a></span>
-But the family man who lives in a large
-city finds more and more difficulty every year,
-as the country increases in population, in making
-up his mind how best to provide for the
-midsummer necessities of his wife and children.
-There are several courses of action open to
-him.</p>
-
-<p>He can remain in town and keep his family
-there.</p>
-
-<p>He can remain in town himself and send his
-family to a distance.</p>
-
-<p>He can hire a house or lodgings by the sea or
-in the country within easy reach of town by railroad
-or steamboat.</p>
-
-<p>He can send his family to a summer hotel at a
-distance, or take a house or lodgings at a distance,
-making occasional flying trips to and from
-town, according to his opportunities.</p>
-
-<p>To stay in town and keep one’s family there
-is a far from disagreeable experience except in
-very large cities in unusually hot weather. The
-custom of going away from home in summer is
-one which has grown by force of imitation. The
-inclination to change one’s surroundings, and to
-give the wife and children a whiff of country or
-sea or mountain air for a few weeks in the course<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_205" id="Page_205">[205]</a></span>
-of the year is an ambition which is neither godless
-nor extravagant. But it is not worth while
-to set this necessity up as an idol to be worshipped
-at the expense of comfort for the rest of
-the year, for, after all, our ancestors successfully
-reared large families of children, including some
-of us, without going away from home in the summer,
-and “the-can’t-get-aways” in our largest
-and most uncomfortable cities still outnumber
-those who can and do in the proportion of at
-least five to one. It costs more to go away than
-to stay in town; from which certain native philosophers,
-who maintain that any one who spends
-more than twenty-five hundred dollars on his
-family in any one year is not a good American,
-may argue that those who have both a summer
-and a winter home are aristocrats and materialists.
-Their argument is not likely to diminish
-summer travel, to bankrupt the summer hotels,
-or to induce the well-to-do American citizen to
-shut up his cottage. A change in summer, for a
-longer or shorter period, is generally recognized
-as one of the most healthful and improving advantages
-which a father in our civilization can
-give his family and himself. On the other hand,
-to go out of town simply because one’s neighbors<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_206" id="Page_206">[206]</a></span>
-do, when one cannot afford it, is a pitiful
-performance.</p>
-
-<p>Moreover, the man who does not send his
-family out of town from motives of economy,
-has more than a clean conscience to comfort him.
-He can remember that probably one-third of
-the annual experiments in summer culture and
-health-giving recreation, made by his friends
-and acquaintance, turn out dire failures, and
-that another one-third result in mixed joy and
-comfort. He can reflect too, if he lives in the
-suburbs of a city, or in a town or small city, that,
-barring a few exceptionally hot days, he and his
-family are really very comfortable at home. Even
-if his household gods are in a parboiled metropolis,
-he will commonly be able to relieve his tedium
-and physical discomfort by some form of
-excursion. All our seaboard cities have their midsummer
-Meccas for the multitude in the form
-of beaches; and even where no ocean breezes
-blow, there is usually close at hand verdure, a
-lake, a grove, or a river where the philosophical
-soul can forget the thermometer, and cease to
-commiserate with itself on being kept in town.
-One’s own bed is never humpy, and the hollows
-in it are just fitted to one’s bones or adipose developments.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_207" id="Page_207">[207]</a></span>
-One can eat and drink in one’s
-town-house without fear of indigestion or germs.
-Decidedly the happiness of staying at home is
-not much less than the happiness of passing one,
-two, or three months at a place where everything
-is uncomfortable or nasty, at a cost which one
-can ill afford, if at all. Good city milk and succulent
-city vegetables are luxuries which are rarely
-to be found at the ordinary summer resort.</p>
-
-<p>It is difficult to convince one’s family of this
-in advance. Besides, man is always to be blessed.
-We are always hoping that the next summer will
-be a grand improvement on those which have
-gone before, and generally by the first of May we
-believe, or at least imagine, that we have discovered
-the genuine article&mdash;the ideal spot at last.
-Discovered it for our families. The American
-father has the trick of sending his family out of
-town for the summer, and staying at home himself.
-This had its origin probably in his supposed
-inability to escape from business in the
-teeth of the family craving to see something of
-the world outside of their own social acquaintance.
-Yet he acknowledged the force of the family
-argument that with such a large country to
-explore it would be a pity not to explore it; and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_208" id="Page_208">[208]</a></span>
-accordingly he said, “Go, and I will join you if
-and when I can.” Paterfamilias said this long
-ago, and in some instances he has vainly been
-trying to join them ever since. There are all
-sorts of trying in this world, and perhaps his has
-not been as determined as some; nevertheless,
-he has maintained tolerably well the reputation
-of trying. The Saturday night trains and steamboats
-all over the country are vehicles, from
-July first to October first, of an army of fathers
-who are trying successfully to join their nearest
-and dearest at the different summer-resorts of
-the land.</p>
-
-<p>To be separated for three months from one’s
-wife and children, except for a day or two once a
-fortnight, is scarcely an ideal domestic arrangement,
-in spite of the fact that it is more or less
-delightful for the dear ones to meet new people
-and see new scenes. The American father may
-not try very hard to leave his city home, but it
-must be admitted that he has been an amiable
-biped on the score of the summer question. He
-has been and is ready to suffer silently for the
-sake of his family and his business. But now that
-he has made up his mind at last that he prefers to
-leave his business for the sake of his family and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_209" id="Page_209">[209]</a></span>
-his own health, the difficulties of sending them to
-a distance are more apparent to him. Ten or fifteen
-years ago it dawned upon him that the city
-in summer without his family was not the ideal
-spot his fancy had painted, and that the sea-side
-and country, especially the former, were, after all,
-the best place for an overworked, full-grown
-man on a summer’s afternoon. It dawned upon
-him, too, that there was sea-coast and country
-close at hand where he could establish his family
-and refresh himself at the end of every day’s
-work. Twenty-five years ago the marine and attractive
-suburban environs of our cities were
-substantially unappropriated. To-day they bristle
-with cottages, large and small, the summer
-homes of city men. Every available promontory,
-island, hill, nook, and crook, which commands
-a pleasing view or is visited by cooling breezes
-is, or soon will be, occupied. What can a busy
-man do better, if he can afford it, than buy or
-hire a cottage, as humble as you like, to which
-he can return in the afternoon to the bosom of
-his own family, and be comfortable and lazy until
-morning?</p>
-
-<p>From the domestic point of view this is assuredly
-the most satisfactory arrangement for the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_210" id="Page_210">[210]</a></span>
-father, and the American paterfamilias, ever since
-the truth dawned upon him, has been prompt in
-recognizing the fact. He has builded, too, according
-to his taste, whim, and individual idiosyncrasies.
-A sea-side cottage within easy reach
-of town includes, to-day, every variety of shelter
-from a picturesque villa of the most super-civilized
-type to the hulk of a ship fitted up as a
-camping-out home. To a large extent, too, the
-hotel has been discarded in favor of the domestic
-hearth, even though the single chimney smokes
-so that tears are perpetually in the domestic eye.
-The well-to-do city man who comes to town
-every day appreciates that a hotel is a poor place
-for children; consequently the long piazzas,
-where the terrible infant forever used to abound,
-are now trodden chiefly by visitors from a distance
-and transients who have escaped from the
-city for a day in search of a sea-bath and a clam
-chowder.</p>
-
-<p>If the summer cottage to which the husband
-returns at night, is not the most satisfactory arrangement
-for the mother, she must blame herself
-or the civilization in which she lives. The
-sole argument in favor of passing the summer
-at a hotel is that the wife and mother escapes<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_211" id="Page_211">[211]</a></span>
-thereby the cares of housekeeping, too often so
-severe during the rest of the year that the prospect
-of not being obliged to order dinner for
-three months causes her to wake in the night
-and laugh hysterically. Formality and conventional
-ceremony are the lurking enemies of our
-American summer life, who threaten to deprive
-our mothers and daughters of the rest and vacation
-from the tension, excitement, and worry
-begotten by nine months of active domestic duties.
-Simplicity of living ought to be the controlling
-warm-weather maxim of every household
-where the woman at the head of the establishment
-does the housekeeping, as nine thousand
-nine hundred and ninety-nine women out of ten
-thousand in America do.</p>
-
-<p>It may be argued that greater simplicity in
-living all the year round would enable the wife
-and mother to do without a vacation. Possibly.
-But unfortunately for her the trend of the tide
-is all the other way. Besides, simplicity is such
-a difficult word to conjure with. Her interests
-have become so varied that the wear and tear is
-quite as likely to proceed from new mental strivings
-as from a multiplicity of sheer domestic
-duties. At least there seems to be no immediate<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_212" id="Page_212">[212]</a></span>
-prospect that she will be less tired in the spring,
-however exemplary her intentions, and it therefore
-behooves her not to allow the wave of increasing
-luxury to bear her on its crest through
-the summer and land her in her town-house in
-October a physical and mental wreck.</p>
-
-<p>The external attractiveness of the modern
-summer cottage, with its pleasing angles and
-comely stains, is easily made an excuse for an
-artistic interior and surroundings to match. But
-artistic beauty in summer can readily be produced
-without elaboration, and at comparatively
-slight cost, if we only choose to be content with
-simple effects. The bewitching charm of the summer
-girl, if analyzed, proves to be based on a
-few cents a yard and a happy knack of combining
-colors and trifles. Why need we be solicitous
-to have all the paraphernalia of winter-life&mdash;meals
-with many courses, a retinue of servants,
-wines, festal attire, and splendid entertainments?
-While we rejoice that the promiscuous comradeship
-of hotel life has largely given place at Newport,
-Bar Harbor, Lenox, and our other fashionable
-watering-places to the pleasant protection
-of the cottage home, is it not seriously deplorable
-that simplicity is too often lost sight of? To be<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_213" id="Page_213">[213]</a></span>
-comfortable is one thing, to be swathed in luxury
-or to be tortured by ceremony all the time is another.
-It seems strange to many of us, who cannot
-choose precisely what we will do and where we will
-go in summer, that those who can so often select a
-mere repetition of mid-winter social recreation.</p>
-
-<p>There is Patterson the banker for instance, the
-employer of Rogers. He can go where he pleases,
-and he goes to Newport. One can see him any
-afternoon driving augustly on Bellevue Avenue
-or along the ocean drive, well gloved, well shod,
-and brilliantly necktied, in his landau beside Mrs.
-Patterson. They have been to Newport for years
-in summer, and their house, with its beautiful outlook
-to sea, has doubled and trebled in value. How
-do they pass their time? Entertain and let themselves
-be entertained. Dinners with formal comestibles,
-late dances, champagne luncheons, <i lang="fr">paté
-de fois gras</i> picnics on a coach are their daily associations.
-Mr. and Mrs. Patterson are close upon
-sixty themselves, but they follow&mdash;a little more
-solemnly than formerly, but still without stint&mdash;the
-same programme, which grows more and more
-elaborate with each succeeding year. It was there
-that their youngest daughter was married six
-months ago, with widely heralded splendor, to a<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_214" id="Page_214">[214]</a></span>
-Russian nobleman who speaks beautiful English.
-May her lot be a happy one! The son, who went
-through the Keeley cure, and the elder daughter,
-who is separated from her husband, have spent
-their summers at Newport from their youth up.</p>
-
-<p>There are comparatively few who have the
-means to live, or who do live just like Patterson,
-but there is many a man of fine instincts and with
-a sufficient income to maintain a summer home,
-who finds himself to-day oppressed by the incubus
-of things. He seeks rest, books, fresh air,
-the opportunity to enjoy nature&mdash;the sea, the
-foliage, the flowers&mdash;and yet he is harassed by
-things, the very things he has all winter, with a
-garnishment suitable to hot weather. He wishes
-to be still; and things keep him moving. He
-yearns to strip off, if not all his clothing, at least
-enough of it to give his lungs and his soul full
-play; but things keep him faultlessly dressed.
-He intends to slake his thirst only from the old
-oaken bucket or the milk-pail, and things keep
-his palate titillated with champagne and cocktails.
-Our old-time simplicity in summer is perhaps
-no longer possible in the large watering-places.
-It is even with considerable satisfaction
-that we don, and see our wives and children don,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_215" id="Page_215">[215]</a></span>
-the attractive clothing which has taken the place
-of shirt-sleeves and flannel shirts as articles of
-toilette; but is it not time to cry halt in our procession
-toward luxury, if we do not wish to live
-on our nerves all the year round?</p>
-
-<p>It is this difficulty in escaping the expenses
-and the formality of city life in the summer cottage
-or at the summer hotel, almost as much as
-the fact that the desirable locations near town
-have all been taken, which is inclining the American
-father to send his family to a distance. After
-twenty-five years of exploration the outlying
-beaches and other favorite resorts near our large
-cities have become so thoroughly appropriated
-that the man who wishes to build or own a summer
-home of his own is obliged to look elsewhere.
-As a consequence cottages have sprung
-up all along the line of our coast, from the farthest
-confines of Maine to New Jersey, on the
-shores of the lakes of the Middle West, and on
-the Pacific shore. Many of these are of a simple
-and attractive character, and generally they stand
-in small colonies, large enough for companionship
-and not too large for relaxation. With the
-similar double purpose of obtaining an attractive
-summer home at a reasonable price, and of avoiding<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_216" id="Page_216">[216]</a></span>
-the stock watering-place, city families are
-utilizing also the abandoned farm. There is not
-room for us all on the sea-coast; besides those
-of us whose winter homes are there are more
-likely to need inland or mountain air. There are
-thousands of beautiful country spots, many of
-them not so very far from our homes, where the
-run-down farm can be redeemed, if not to supply
-milk and butter, at least to afford a picturesque
-shelter and a lovely landscape during the
-season when we wish to be out of doors as much
-as possible. A very few changes, a very little
-painting and refurnishing will usually transform
-the farm-house itself into just the sort of establishment
-which a family seeking rest and quiet
-recreation ought to delight in. You may bring
-mosquito-frames for the windows if you like, and
-you must certainly test the well-water. Then
-swing your hammock between two apple-trees
-and thank Providence that you are not like so
-many of your friends and acquaintances, working
-the tread-mill of society in the dog-days.</p>
-
-<p>Of course most men who have homes of this
-description at a distance cannot be with their
-families all the time. But, on the other hand, the
-conviction that a busy man can do better work in<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_217" id="Page_217">[217]</a></span>
-ten or eleven months than in twelve, is gaining
-ground, and most of us, if we only choose to, can
-slip away for at least three weeks. Many of the
-demands of modern civilization on the family
-purse cannot be resisted without leaving the husband
-and parent a little depressed; but it seems
-to me that a serious item of expense may be
-avoided, and yet all the genuine benefits and
-pleasures of a change of scene and atmosphere be
-obtained, if we only dismiss from our minds the
-idea of living otherwise than simply. A little
-house with very little in it, with a modest piazza,
-a skiff or sail-boat which does not pretend to be a
-yacht, a garden hoe and rake, a camera, books and
-a hammock, a rod which is not too precious or
-costly to break, one nag of plebeian blood and
-something to harness him to, rabbits in the barn
-and sunflowers in the garden, a walk to sunset
-hill and a dialogue with the harvest moon&mdash;why
-should we not set our summer life to such a tune,
-rather than hanker for the neighborhood of the
-big steam-yacht and polo-ground, for the fringe
-of the fashionable bathing beach, for the dust of
-the stylish equipage, and try in our several ways,
-and beyond our means, to follow the pace which
-is set for us by others?</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_218" id="Page_218">[218]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2>The <i>Summer Problem</i>.</h2>
-
-<h3>II.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-w-1.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">Why? Largely on account of that
-newly created species, the American
-girl. From solicitude for her happiness
-and out of deference to her
-wishes. Many a father and mother would be delighted
-to pass the summer on an abandoned
-farm or in any other spot where it were possible
-to live simply and to be cool, comfortable, and
-lazy, but for fear of disappointing their young
-people&mdash;principally their daughters, who, unlike
-the sons, cannot yet come and go at will.
-Feminine youth has its inherent privileges everywhere,
-but the gentle sway which it exercises in
-other civilizations has become almost a sour tyranny
-here. Was there ever an American mother
-who knew anything portrayed in fiction? The
-American daughter is commonly presented as a
-noble-souled, original creature, whose principal
-mission in life, next to or incidental to refusing
-the man who is not her choice, is to let her own
-parents understand what weak, ignorant, foolish,
-unenlightened persons they are in comparison
-with the rising generation&mdash;both parents in<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_219" id="Page_219">[219]</a></span>
-some measure, but chiefly and utterly the mother.
-She is usually willing to concede that her
-father has a few glimmering ideas, and a certain
-amount of sense&mdash;horse business sense, not very
-elevating or inspiring&mdash;yet something withal.
-But she looks upon her poor dear mother as a
-feeble-minded individual of the first water. What
-we read in contemporary fiction in this realistic
-age is apt to be photographed from existing conditions.
-The newly created species of our homes
-does not always reveal these sentiments in so
-many words; indeed she is usually disposed to
-conceal from her parents as far as possible their
-own shortcomings, believing often, with ostrich-like
-complacency, that they have no idea what
-she really thinks of them. Quite frequently late
-in life it dawns upon her that they were not such
-complete imbeciles as she had adjudged them,
-and she revises her convictions accordingly. But
-often she lives superior to the end.</p>
-
-<p>It would be an excellent thing for the American
-girl if her eyes could be definitely opened to
-the fact that her parents, particularly her mother,
-are much more clever than she supposes, and that
-they are really her best counsellors. But on the
-other hand, is not the American mother herself<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_220" id="Page_220">[220]</a></span>
-chiefly responsible for this attitude of loving contempt
-and sweet but unfilial condescension on
-the part of her own flesh and blood? It sometimes
-seems as though we had fallen victims to
-our reluctance to thwart our children in any way
-lest we should destroy their love for us. But is
-it much preferable to be loved devotedly as foolish,
-weak, and amiable old things, than to be
-feared a little as individuals capable of exercising
-authority and having opinions of our own?</p>
-
-<p>This yielding, self-abnegating tendency on the
-part of parents, and consequent filial tyranny, are
-especially conspicuous in the case of that arch
-despot, the summer girl. I admit her fascination
-unreservedly, and am willing to concede that she
-has run the gauntlet of criticism hurled at her by
-the effete civilizations with an unblemished reputation.
-Though she may have become a little
-more conservative and conventional out of deference
-to good taste, she is still able to be lost in
-caves or stranded on islands with any young man
-of her acquaintance without bringing a blush to
-any cheek except that of the horror-stricken foreigner.
-But having admitted this, I am obliged
-to charge her with trampling on the prostrate
-form of her mother from the first of July to the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_221" id="Page_221">[221]</a></span>
-first of October. She does so to a certain extent
-the year round, but the summer is the crowning
-season of her despotism.</p>
-
-<p>The first concern of the American father and
-mother in making plans for the summer is to go
-to some place which the children will like, and
-the summer girl in particular. This is natural and
-in keeping with the unselfish devotion shown by
-the present generation of parents toward their
-children. But it is one thing to endeavor to select
-a place which will be satisfactory to one’s
-eighteen-year-old daughter and another to be
-sweetly hectored by that talented young woman
-into going to some place selected by her of which
-you entirely disapprove. And just here it is that
-the American mother almost seems to be convicted
-of the feebleness of intellect ascribed to
-her by the newly created species. You, the father,
-are just screwing your courage up to say that you
-will be blessed if you will go to a summer hotel
-at Narragansett Pier (or wherever it is), when
-your wife, who has been cowed or cajoled by the
-despot in the interim, flops completely, as the
-saying is, and joins an almost tearful support to
-the summer girl’s petition. And there you are.
-What are you to do? Daughter and mother, the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_222" id="Page_222">[222]</a></span>
-apple of your eye and the angel of your heart,
-leagued against you. Resistance becomes impossible,
-unless you are ready to incur the reputation
-of being a stony-hearted old curmudgeon.</p>
-
-<p>The summer girl invariably wishes to go where
-it is gay. Her idea of enjoyment does not admit
-domesticity and peaceful relaxation. She craves
-to be actively amused, if not blissfully excited.
-It is not strange that the tastes and sentiments of
-young persons from seventeen to twenty-three
-should differ considerably from those of mothers
-and fathers from forty to fifty, and it speaks well
-for the intelligence and unselfishness of middle-aged
-parents and guardians in this country that
-they so promptly recognize the legitimate claims
-of youth, and even are eager to give young people
-a chance to enjoy themselves before the cares
-of life hedge them in. But have we not gone to
-the other extreme? Is it meet that we should regard
-ourselves as moribund at fifty, and sacrifice
-all our own comfort and happiness in order to let
-a young girl have her head, and lead a life in
-summer of which we heartily disapprove? It is
-not an exaggeration to state that there is a growing
-disposition on the part of the rising hordes
-of young men and girls to regard any one in<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_223" id="Page_223">[223]</a></span>
-society over thirty-five as a fossil and an encumbrance,
-for whom, in a social sense, the grave is
-yawning. It is not uncommon to hear a comely
-matron of forty described as a frump by a youth
-scarcely out of his teens, and every old gentleman
-of thirty-nine has experienced the tactless pity
-which fashionable maidens under twenty-one endeavor
-to conceal in the presence of his senility.</p>
-
-<p>The summer girl is generally a young person
-who has been a winter girl for nine months. I
-am quite aware that some girls are much more
-effective in summer than at any other season, and
-it may be that in certain cases they appear to so
-little advantage in winter that to attempt to gratify
-parental inclinations at their expense would
-be rank unkindness. But it is safe to allege that
-the average summer girl in this country has been
-doing all she ought to do in the way of dancing,
-prancing, gadding, going, working, and generally
-spending her vital powers in the autumn, winter,
-and spring immediately preceding, and consequently
-when summer comes needs, quite as
-much as her parents, physical, mental, and moral
-ozone. But what does she prefer to do? Whither
-is she bent on leading her father by the nose
-with the assistance of her mother? To various<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_224" id="Page_224">[224]</a></span>
-places, according to her special predilection, and
-the farthest limit of the parental purse. If possible,
-to one of the gayest watering-places, where
-she hopes to bathe, play tennis, walk, talk, and
-drive during the day; paddle, stroll, or sit out during
-the evening, and dance until twelve o’clock
-at night two or three times a week. Else to some
-much-advertised mountain cataract or lake resort,
-to lead a stagnant hotel corridor and piazza
-life, in the fond hope of seeing the vividly imagined
-Him alight from the stage-coach some
-Saturday night. Meanwhile she is one of three-score
-forlorn girls who haunt the office and make
-eyes at the hotel clerk. The summer girl has a
-mania for the summer hotel. It seems to open
-to her radiant possibilities. She kindles at the
-mention of a hop in August, and if she is musical,
-the tinkle of her piano playing reverberates
-through the house all day until the other boarders
-are driven nearly crazy. In the gloaming
-after supper she flits off from the house with her
-best young man of the moment, and presently
-her mother is heard bleating along the piazza,
-“My Dorothy has gone without her shawl, and
-will catch her death a cold.”</p>
-
-<p>And so it goes all summer. When autumn<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_225" id="Page_225">[225]</a></span>
-comes and the leaf is about to fall, and Dorothy
-returns to town, what has she to show for it?
-A little tan and a callous heart, a promised winter
-correspondence with the hotel clerk, new
-slang, some knack at banjo-playing, and considerable
-uncertainty in her mind as to whom she is
-engaged to, or whether she is engaged at all.
-And like as not the doctor is sent for to build
-her up for the winter with cod-liver oil and quinine.
-There is too much ozone at some of these
-summer hotels.</p>
-
-<p>We cannot hope to do away wholly with either
-the summer hotel or the fashionable watering-place
-by the assertion of parental authority. Such
-an endeavor, indeed, would on the whole be an
-unjust as well as fruitless piece of virtue. The
-delightful comradeship between young men and
-young women, which is one of our national products,
-is typified most saliently by the summer
-girl and her attendant swains. Naturally she
-wishes to go to some place where swains are apt
-to congregate; and the swain is always in search
-of her. Moreover, the summer hotel must continue
-to be the summer home of thousands who,
-for one reason or another, have no cottage or
-abandoned farm. My plea is still the same, however.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_226" id="Page_226">[226]</a></span>
-Why, now that the negro slave is free, and
-the workingman is being legislated into peace
-and plenty, and the wrongs of other women are
-being righted, should not the American mother
-try to burst her bonds? It would be a much
-more simple matter than it seems, for, after all,
-she has her own blood in her veins, and she has
-only to remember what a dogmatic person she
-herself was in the days of her youth. If the code
-of fathers and mothers, instead of that of girls
-and boys, were in force at our summer hotels
-and watering-places, a very different state of affairs
-would soon exist; and that, too, without
-undue interference with that inherent, cherished,
-and unalienable right of the American daughter,
-the maiden’s choice. We must not forget that
-though our civilization boasts the free exercise
-of the maiden’s choice as one of the brightest
-jewels in the crown of republican liberties, the
-crowded condition of our divorce courts forbids
-us to be too demonstrative in our self-satisfaction.</p>
-
-<p>It would be dire, indeed, to bore the young
-person, especially the summer girl. But does it
-necessarily follow that a summer home or a summer
-life indicated by the parent would induce
-such a disastrous result? I am advising neither a<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_227" id="Page_227">[227]</a></span>
-dungeon, a convent, nor some excruciatingly
-dull spot to which no fascinating youth is likely
-to penetrate. Verily, even the crowded bathing
-beach may not corrupt, provided that wise motherly
-control and companionship point out the
-dangers and protect the forming soul, mind, and
-manners, instead of allowing them to be distorted
-and poisoned by the ups and downs of
-promiscuous amatory summer guerilla warfare.
-But may it not happen, when the maternal foot
-is once firmly put down, that the summer girl
-will not be so easily bored as she or her mother
-fears, and will even be grateful for protection
-against her own ignorance and inexperience?
-Boating, sketching, riding, reading, bicycling,
-travel, sewing, and photography are pastimes
-which ought not to bore her, and would surely
-leave her more refreshed in the autumn than continuous
-gadding, dancing, and flirtation. To be a
-member of a small, pleasant colony, where the
-days are passed simply and lazily, yet interestingly;
-where the finer senses are constantly appealed
-to by the beauties of nature and the
-healthful character of one’s occupations, is a
-form of exile which many a summer girl would
-accommodate herself to gladly if she only understood<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_228" id="Page_228">[228]</a></span>
-what it was like, and understood, moreover,
-that the selection of a summer programme
-had ceased to be one of her prerogatives. A determined
-man who wishes to marry will discover
-the object of his affections on an abandoned farm
-or in the heart of the Maine woods, if he is
-worth his salt. In these days of many yachts and
-bicycles true love can travel rapidly, and there
-is no occasion for marriageable girls to select
-courting-grounds where their lovers can have
-close at hand a Casino and other conveniences,
-including the opportunity to flirt with their next
-best Dulcineas.</p>
-
-<p>If the summer-time is the time in which to recuperate
-and lie fallow, why should we have so
-many summer schools? After the grand panjandrum
-of Commencement exercises at the colleges
-is over, there ought to be a pause in the
-intellectual activity of the nation for at least sixty
-days; yet there seems to be a considerable body
-of men and women who, in spite of the fact that
-they exercise their brains vigorously during the
-rest of the year, insist on mental gymnastics when
-the thermometer is in the eighties. These schools&mdash;chiefly
-assemblies in the name of the ologies
-and osophies&mdash;bring together more or less people<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_229" id="Page_229">[229]</a></span>
-more or less learned, from all over the country,
-to talk at one another and read papers.</p>
-
-<p>Judging merely from the newspaper accounts
-of their proceedings, it is almost invariably impossible
-to discover the exact meaning of anything
-which is uttered, but this may be due to
-the absence of the regular reporters on their annual
-vacations, and the consequent delegation
-to tyros of the difficult duty in question. But
-even assuming that the utterances of the summer
-schools are both intelligible and stimulating,
-would not the serious-minded men and women
-concerned in them be better off lying in a hammock
-under a wide-spreading beech-tree, or, if
-this seems too relaxing an occupation, watching
-the bathers at Narragansett Pier? There is wisdom
-sometimes in sending young and very active
-boys to school for about an hour a day in
-summer, in order chiefly to know where they
-are and to prevent them from running their legs
-off; but with this exception the mental workers
-in this country, male and female, young and old,
-can afford to close their text-books with a bang
-on July 1st, and not peep at them again until
-September. Philosophy in August has much the
-flavor of asparagus in January.</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_230" id="Page_230">[230]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2>The <i>Case of Man</i>.</h2>
-
-<h3>I.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-a-1.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">A not inconsiderable portion of
-the women of the United States
-is inclined to regard man as a
-necessary evil. Their point of
-view is that he is here, and therefore
-is likely, for the present at least, to remain
-a formidable figure in human affairs, but that his
-ways are not their ways, that they disapprove of
-them and him, and that they intend to work out
-their lives and salvation as independently of him
-as possible. What man in the flush and prime
-of life has not been made conscious of this attitude
-of the modern woman? She is constantly
-passing us in the street with the manner of one
-haughtily and supremely indifferent. There are
-women enough still who look patterns of modesty,
-and yet let us feel at the same time that we
-are more or less an object of interest to them;
-but this particular type sails by in her trig and
-often stylish costume with the air not merely of
-not seeing us, but of wishing to ignore us. Her
-compressed lips suggest a judgment; a judgment
-born of meditated conviction which leaves no<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_231" id="Page_231">[231]</a></span>
-hope of reconsideration or exception. “You are
-all substantially alike,” she seems to say, “and
-we have had enough of you. Go your ways and
-we will go ours.”</p>
-
-<p>The Mecca of the modern woman’s hopes, as
-indicated by this point of view, would appear to
-be the ultimate disappearance of man from the
-face of the earth after the manner of the mastodon
-and other brutes. Nor are her hopes balked
-by physiological barriers. She is prepared to admit
-that it is not obvious, as yet, how girls alone
-are to be generated and boy babies given the cold
-maternal shoulder; but she trusts to science and
-the long results of time for a victory which will
-eliminate sexual relations and all their attendant
-perplexities and tragedies from the theatre of
-human life.</p>
-
-<p>We are not so sanguine as she that the kingdom
-of heaven is to be brought to pass in any so
-simple and purely feminine a fashion. That is,
-we men. Perhaps we are fatuous, but we see no
-reason to doubt that sexual relations will continue
-to the crack of doom, in spite of the perplexities
-and tragedies consequent upon them;
-and moreover, that man will continue to thrive
-like a young bay-tree, even though she continues<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_232" id="Page_232">[232]</a></span>
-to wear a chip on her tailor-made shoulder.
-And yet at the same time we feel sober. It is not
-pleasant to be regarded as brutes and to have
-judgment passed upon us by otherwise attractive
-women. It behooves us to scratch our heads
-and ask ourselves if we can possibly merit the
-haughty indifference and thinly disguised contempt
-which is entertained toward us. To be
-weighed in the balance and found wanting by a
-serene and beautiful young person is a far from
-agreeable experience. There must be something
-wrong with us, and if so, what is it?</p>
-
-<p>Of course there was a time&mdash;and not so very
-long ago&mdash;when men were tyrants and kept
-women under. Nowadays the only thing denied
-them in polite circles is to whisk around by
-themselves after dark, and plenty of them do
-that. The law is giving them, with both hands,
-almost everything they ask for nearly as rapidly
-as existing inequalities are pointed out, and the
-right of suffrage is withheld from them only because
-the majority of women are still averse to
-exercising it. Man, the tyrant and highwayman,
-has thrown up his arms and is allowing woman
-to pick his pockets. He is not willing to have
-her bore a hole in his upper lip, and drag him<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_233" id="Page_233">[233]</a></span>
-behind her with a rope, but he is disposed to
-consent to any reasonable legislative changes
-which she desires to have made, short of those
-which would involve masculine disfigurement or
-depreciation. It certainly cannot be his bullying
-qualities which have attracted her disdain, for he
-has given in. If woman to-day finds that the law
-discriminates unjustly between her and man, she
-has merely to ask for relief in sufficient numbers
-to show that she is not the tool of designing
-members of her own sex, in order to obtain it.</p>
-
-<p>Under the spur of these reflections I consulted
-my wife by way of obtaining light on this problem.
-“Barbara, why is it that modern women of
-a certain type are so sniffy toward men? You
-know what I mean; they speak to us, of course,
-and tolerate us, and they love us individually
-as husbands and fathers; but instead of counting
-for everything, as we once did, we don’t seem to
-count for anything unless it be dollars and cents.
-It isn’t merely that you all talk so fast and have
-so much to say without regard to us that we often
-feel left out in the cold, and even hurt, but there
-is a stern, relentless look on some of your faces
-which makes us feel as though we had stolen the
-Holy Grail. You must have noticed it.”</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_234" id="Page_234">[234]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>“Oh, yes,” said Barbara, with a smile. “It
-doesn’t mean very much. Of course times are
-not what they were. Man used to be a demigod,
-now he is only a&mdash;&mdash;”</p>
-
-<p>Barbara hesitated for a word, so I suggested,
-“Only a bank.”</p>
-
-<p>“Let us say only a man. Only a man in the
-eyes of reflective womanhood. We have caught
-up and are beginning to think for ourselves. You
-can’t expect us to hang on your every word and
-to fall down and worship you without reservation
-as we once did. Man used to be woman’s
-whole existence, often to her infinite sorrow, and
-now he is only part of it, just as she is only a
-part of his. You go to your clubs; we go to ours;
-and while you are playing cards we read or listen
-to papers, some of which are not intelligible to
-man. But we love you still, even though we have
-ceased to worship you. There are a few, I admit,
-who would like to do away with you altogether;
-but they are extremists&mdash;in every revolution,
-you know, there are fanatics and unreasonable
-persons&mdash;but the vast majority of us have a tender
-spot for you in our hearts, and regard your
-case in sorrow rather than in anger&mdash;and as
-probably not hopeless.”</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_235" id="Page_235">[235]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>“What is the matter with us?”</p>
-
-<p>“Oh, everything. You are a failure fundamentally.
-To begin with, your theory of life is founded
-on compromise. We women&mdash;the modern
-woman&mdash;abhor compromise.”</p>
-
-<p>Although it was obvious that Barbara was trying
-to tease me, I realized from her expression
-that she intended to deal my sex a crucial stab
-by the word compromise. I must confess that I
-felt just a little uncomfortable under the white
-light of scorn which radiated from her eyes, while
-her general air reminded me for the first time
-disagreeably of the type of modern woman to
-whom I had referred.</p>
-
-<p>“The world progresses by compromise,” I
-replied, sententiously.</p>
-
-<p>“Yes, like a snail.”</p>
-
-<p>“Otherwise it would stand still. A man thinks
-so and so; another man thinks precisely opposite;
-they meet each other half-way and so much is
-gained.”</p>
-
-<p>“Oh, I know how they do. A man who stands
-for a principle meets another man; they argue
-and bluster for a few minutes, and presently they
-sit down and have something to eat or drink, and
-by the time they separate the man who stands<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_236" id="Page_236">[236]</a></span>
-for a principle has sacrificed all there is of it, except
-a tiny scrap or shred, in order not to incommode
-the man who has no principles at all;
-and what is almost worse, they part seemingly
-bosom friends and are apt to exchange rhetorical
-protestations of mutual esteem. The modern
-woman has no patience with such a way of doing
-things.”</p>
-
-<p>“I suppose,” said I, “that two modern women
-under similar circumstances would tear each other
-all to pieces; there would be nothing to eat or
-drink, except possibly tea and wafers, and the
-floor would be covered with fragments of skin,
-hair, and clothing. When they separated one
-would be dead and the other maimed for life, and
-the principle for which the victor stood would
-be set back about a century and a half.”</p>
-
-<p>Barbara winced a little, but she said, “What
-have you men accomplished all these years by
-your everlasting compromises? If you were really
-in earnest to solve the liquor problem, and the
-social evil, as you call it, and all the other
-abuses which exist in civilized and uncivilized
-society, you would certainly have been able to do
-more than you have. You have had free scope;
-we haven’t been consulted; we have stood aside<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_237" id="Page_237">[237]</a></span>
-and let you have your innings; now we merely
-wish to see what we can do. We shall make mistakes
-I dare say; even one or two of us may be
-torn to pieces or maimed for life; but the modern
-woman feels that she has the courage of her
-convictions and that she does not intend to let
-herself be thwarted or cajoled by masculine theories.
-That accounts largely for our apparent sniffiness.
-I say ‘apparent,’ because we are not really
-at bottom so contemptuous as we seem&mdash;even
-the worst of us. I suppose you are right in declaring
-that the proud, superior, and beautiful
-young person of the present day is a little disdainful.
-But even she is less severe than she
-looks. She is simply a nineteenth-century Joan
-of Arc protesting against the man of the world
-and his works, asking to be allowed to lead her
-life without molestation from him in a shrine of
-her own tasteful yet simple construction&mdash;rooms
-or a room where she can practise her calling, follow
-her tastes, ambitions, or hobbies, pursue her
-charities, and amuse herself without being accountable
-to him. She wishes him to understand
-that, though she is attractive, she does not mean
-to be seduced or to be worried into matrimony
-against her will, and that she intends to use her<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_238" id="Page_238">[238]</a></span>
-earnings and her property to pay her own bills
-and provide for her own gratification, instead of
-to defray the debts of her vicious or easy-going
-male relations or admirers. There is really a long
-back account to settle, so it is not surprising that
-the pendulum should swing a little too far the
-other way. Of course she is wrong; woman can
-no more live wholly independent of man than
-he of her&mdash;and you know what a helpless being
-he would be without her&mdash;and the modern woman
-is bound to recognize, sooner or later, that
-the sympathetic companionship of women with
-men is the only basis of true social progress.
-Sexual affinity is stronger than the constitutions
-of all the women’s clubs combined, as eight out
-of ten young modern women discover to their
-cost, or rather to their happiness, sooner or later.
-Some brute of a man breaks into the shrine, and
-before she knows it she is wheeling a baby carriage.
-Even the novelist, with his or her fertile
-invention, has failed to discover any really satisfactory
-ending for the independent, disdainful
-heroine but marriage or the grave. Spinsterhood,
-even when illumined by a career, is a worthy and
-respectable lot, but not alluring.”</p>
-
-<p>It was something to be assured by my wife<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_239" id="Page_239">[239]</a></span>
-that the modern woman does not purpose to
-abolish either maternity or men, and that, so to
-speak, her bark is worse than her bite. Barbara
-belongs to a woman’s club, so she must know.
-We men are in such a nervous state, as a result
-of what Barbara calls the revolution, that very
-likely we are unduly sensitive and suspicious, and
-allow our imaginations to fly off at a tangent.
-Very likely, too, we are disposed to be a trifle irritable,
-for when one has been accustomed for
-long to sit on or club a person (literally or metaphorically,
-according to one’s social status) when
-she happens to express sentiments or opinions
-contrary to ours, it must needs take time to get
-used to the idea that she is really an equal, and
-to adjust one’s ratiocinations to suit. But even
-accepting as true the assurance that the forbidding
-air of the modern woman does not mean
-much, and that she loves us still though she has
-ceased to worship us, we have Barbara’s word for
-it, too, that the modern woman thinks we have
-made a mess of it and that man is a failure fundamentally.
-Love without respect! Sorrow rather
-than anger! It sobers one; it saddens one. For
-we must admit that man has had free scope and
-a long period in which to make the most of himself;<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_240" id="Page_240">[240]</a></span>
-and woman has not, which precludes us from
-answering back, as it were, which is always more
-or less of a consolation when one is brought to
-bay.</p>
-
-<p>A tendency to compromise is certainly one of
-man’s characteristics. Barbara has referred to it
-as a salient fault&mdash;a vice, and perhaps it is,
-though it is writ large in the annals of civilization
-as conducted by man. We must at least
-agree that it is not woman’s way, and that she
-expects to do without it when we are no more or
-are less than we are now. Probably we have been
-and are too easy-going, and no one will deny that
-one ought at all times to have the courage of
-one’s convictions, even in midsummer and on
-purely social occasions; nevertheless it would
-have been trying to the nervous system and conducive
-to the continuance and increase of standing
-armies, had we favored the policy of shooting
-at sight those whose views on the temperance
-question differed from ours, or of telling the host
-at whose house we had passed the evening that
-we had been bored to death.</p>
-
-<p>If one runs over in his mind the Madame
-Tussaud Gallery of masculine types, he cannot
-fail to acknowledge that, in our capacity of lords<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_241" id="Page_241">[241]</a></span>
-of creation and viceregents of Providence, we
-have produced and perpetuated a number of
-sorry specimens. First in the list stands the so-called
-man of the world, on account of whom in
-particular, according to Barbara, the nineteenth-century
-Joan of Arc looks askance at our sex.
-He is an old stager; he dates back very nearly,
-if not completely, to the garden of Eden, and he
-has always been a bugbear to woman. It is not
-necessary to describe him; he has ever stood for
-simply carnal interests and appetites, whether as
-a satyr, a voluptuary, a wine-bibber, a glutton,
-a miser, an idler, or a mere pleasure-seeker. If all
-the human industries which have owed and still
-owe their prosperity to his propensities were to
-be obliterated, there would be a large array of
-unemployed in the morning but a healthier
-world. The bully, or prevailer by brute force, the
-snob, the cynic, the parasite, the trimmer, and
-the conceited egotist are others prominent in the
-category, without regard to criminals and unvarnished
-offenders against whose noxious behavior
-men have protected themselves by positive law.</p>
-
-<p>On the other hand, our gallery of past types
-has many figures of which we have a right to be
-proud. Unfortunately we are barred again from<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_242" id="Page_242">[242]</a></span>
-comparison or answering back by the taunt that
-woman has never had a chance; nevertheless we
-may claim for what it is worth that, in the realm
-of intellect or of the spirit, there have been no
-women who have soared so high; seers, poets,
-law-givers, unfolders of nature’s secrets, administrators
-of affairs, healers and scholars have been
-chiefly or solely men. If some of us have fraternized
-with Belial, others have walked, or sought
-to walk, with God no less genuinely and fervently
-than any woman who ever breathed. In the matter
-of spirituality, indeed, some of us in the past
-having been led to believe that women knew
-more about the affairs of the other world than
-men, sought to cultivate the spindle-legged,
-thin-chested, pale, anæmic Christian as the type
-of humanity most acceptable to God and serviceable
-to society; but we have gone back to
-the bishop of sturdy frame and a reasonably
-healthy appetite as a more desirable mediator
-between ourselves and heaven.</p>
-
-<p>From the standpoint of our present inquiry,
-what man in his various types has been in the
-past is less pertinent than what he is at present.
-To begin with, certainly the modern man is not
-a picturesque figure. He no longer appeals to the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_243" id="Page_243">[243]</a></span>
-feminine or any eye by virtue of imposing apparel
-or accoutrements. Foreign army officers
-and servants in livery are almost the only males
-who have not exchanged plumage for sober
-woollens, tweeds, or serges, and the varied resplendent
-materials and colors by means of
-which men used to distinguish themselves from
-one another and to negative their evil-doings in
-the eyes of women have been discarded. All men
-but one look alike to any woman, and even that
-one is liable to be confounded with the rest of
-mankind when he is more than half a block away.</p>
-
-<p>Nor is the homogeneous tendency limited to
-clothes; it includes manners, morals, and point
-of view. The extreme types approximate each
-other much more closely than formerly, and apart
-from criminals and deliberately evil-minded persons,
-women have some ground for their insinuation
-that we are all pretty much alike. Let it be
-said that this effect is in one sense a feather in
-our caps. The nineteenth-century Joan of Arc
-to the contrary notwithstanding, the modern man
-of the world is a manifest improvement on his
-predecessor. He is no longer to be found under
-the table after dinner as a social matter of course,
-and three-bottles-to-a-guest festivities have<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_244" id="Page_244">[244]</a></span>
-ceased to be an aristocratic function. Though on
-occasions still he will fumble with the latch-key,
-he mounts the stairs very little, if at all, after
-midnight with the nonchalance of self-congratulatory
-sobriety, and all those dire scenes of woman
-on the staircase with a lighted candle looking
-down at her prostrate lord and master belong to
-an almost dim past. True it may be that the man
-of the world fears God no more than formerly,
-but he has learned to have a wholesome dread
-of Bright’s disease, the insane asylum, and those
-varied forms of sudden and premature death
-which are included under the reportorial head
-of heart-failure. Mere brutishness in its various
-forms is less apparent. The coarse materialist still
-swaggers in public places and impudently puffs
-a cigar in the face of modesty, but he serves no
-longer as a model for envious contemporaries or
-an object of hero-worship to the rising generation.
-Good taste, if nothing better, has checked
-man’s tendencies to make a beast of himself in
-public or in private.</p>
-
-<p>Similarly, also, the type of man to whom we
-look up most proudly and confidently to-day is
-not altogether the same. The model whom we
-were urged, and whom we sought of old to imitate,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_245" id="Page_245">[245]</a></span>
-was he who wrestled with God on the
-mountain-top, without a thought of earth’s
-smoke and din and wretchedness. Human life
-and its joys and interests served for him as a
-homily on vanity, or was regarded as a degradation
-in comparison with the revelations obtained
-by the priest, poet, or devotee of culture
-through the vista of aspiring imagination or zeal.
-The conservative man of affairs&mdash;vigorous, far-seeing,
-keenly alive to the joys and interests of
-this life, strongly sympathetic on the humanitarian
-side, a man of the world withal in a reasonable
-sense&mdash;has impressed his personality on
-modern society more successfully than any other
-type. The priest who cares not for his fellow-man,
-the poet whose dreams and visions include no
-human interest or passion, the devotee of culture
-who refines merely to refine, have been superseded,
-and in their stead we have the man of the
-world who is interested in the world and for the
-world.</p>
-
-<p>This change in the avowed aims and aspirations
-of man has not been without certain apparently
-melancholy results and manifestations of
-which society is feeling the effect at present, and
-which if allowed to prevail too far will undo us.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_246" id="Page_246">[246]</a></span>
-The removal of the gaze of the priest, poet, and
-devotee of culture from the stars in contempt of
-earth, and the substitution of earth-gazing as a
-method for understanding the stars, has seemed
-to cast a damper on human imagination and has
-thereby caused many excellent women and some
-men to weep. If materialism be the science of
-trying to get the most out of this life, this is a
-material age; but at the same time it should be
-remembered that man in this age has ceased for
-the first time to be either a hypocrite or a fool.
-Undoubtedly the process of becoming both sincere
-and sensible, especially as it has substituted
-concern for the ignorant, the oppressed, and the
-vicious of this earth about whom we know next
-to nothing, in place of Pre-Raphaelite heavenly
-choirs, alabaster halls, and saints in glory about
-whom we thought we knew everything, has been
-a little trying for the rest of us as well as for the
-priests, poets, and devotees of culture. But the
-women must not be discouraged; we shall grow
-to the situation in time, and even the poets, who
-seem to be most down in the mouth at present,
-will sooner or later find a fresh well of inspiration
-by learning to study the reflection of the stars on
-the earth instead of looking directly at them. Let<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_247" id="Page_247">[247]</a></span>
-them be patient, though it be to death, and some
-day through others, if not through themselves,
-the immortal verse will flow and the immortal
-lyre sound again.</p>
-
-<p>Undoubtedly the modern man is at present a
-rather trying person to woman, for woman would
-have been glad, now that she is coming into
-her kingdom, to have him more of a crusader
-and less of a philosopher. To behold him lacking
-in picturesqueness and a philosopher addicted
-to compromise into the bargain is almost
-irritating to her, and she has certainly some
-ground for criticism. The man who sits opposite
-to her at the breakfast-table, even after he
-has overcome conservative fears of nothing to
-live on and dawdled into matrimony, is a lovable
-but not especially exciting person. He eats,
-works, and sleeps, does most of the things which
-he ought to do and leaves undone a commendable
-number of the things which he ought not to
-do, and is a rather respectable member of society
-of the machine-made order. He works very hard
-to supply her with money; he is kind to her and
-the children; he gives her her head, as he calls
-it; and he acquiesces pleasantly enough in the
-social plans which she entertains for herself and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_248" id="Page_248">[248]</a></span>
-him, and ordinarily he is sleepy in the evening.
-Indeed, in moments of most serious depression
-she is tempted to think of him as a superior
-chore-man, a comparison which haunts her even
-in church. She would like, with one fell swoop
-of her broom, to clear the world of the social
-evil, the fruit of the grape, tobacco, and playing
-cards, to introduce drastic educational reforms
-which would, by kindergarten methods, familiarize
-every one on earth with art and culture, and
-to bring to pass within five, or possibly six years,
-a golden age of absolute reform inspired and established
-by woman. Life for her at present
-means one vast camp of committee meetings,
-varied only by frequent cups of tea; and that
-steaming beverage continues prominent in her
-radiant vision of the coming millennium. No
-wonder it disconcerts and annoys her to find so
-comparatively little enthusiastic confidence in
-the immediate success of her fell swoop, and to
-have her pathway blocked by grave or lazy ifs
-and buts and by cold contradictions of fact. No
-wonder she abhors compromise; no wonder she
-regards the man who goes on using tobacco and
-playing cards and drinking things stronger than
-tea as an inert and soulless creature.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_249" id="Page_249">[249]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>Yet smile as we may at the dull, sorry place
-the world would be were the golden age of her
-intention to come upon us over night like a cold
-wave, is she not justified in regarding the average
-custom-made man of the day as a highly
-respectable, well-to-do chore-man who earns fair
-wages and goes to sleep at night contented with
-a good meal and a pipe? Is he not machine-made?
-Sincere and wise as he is, now that his
-gaze is fixed on the needs of earth, has he not
-the philosophy of hygienic comfort and easy-going
-conservative materialism so completely on
-the brain that he is in danger of becoming ordinary
-instead of just a little lower than the angels?
-Let us consider him from this point of
-view more in detail.</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_250" id="Page_250">[250]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2>The <i>Case of Man</i>.</h2>
-
-<h3>II.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-t-2.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">The young man of the present era
-on his twenty-first birthday is apt to
-find himself in a very prudent and
-conservative atmosphere. The difficulties
-of getting on are explained to him; he
-is properly assured that, though there is plenty
-of room on the top benches, the occupations
-and professions are crowded, if not overcrowded,
-and that he must buckle down if he would succeed.
-It is obvious to him that the field of adventure
-and fortune-seeking in foreign or strange
-places is practically exhausted. It is open to him,
-to be sure, to go to the North Pole in search of
-some one already there, or to study in a cage in
-the jungles of Africa the linguistic value of the
-howls and chatterings of wild animals; but these
-are manifestly poor pickings compared with the
-opportunities of the past when a considerable
-portion of the globe was still uninvestigated soil,
-and a reputation or treasure-trove was the tolerably
-frequent reward of leaving the rut of civilized
-life. It is plainly pointed out to him, too,
-that to be florid is regarded as almost a mental<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_251" id="Page_251">[251]</a></span>
-weakness in intellectual or progressive circles.
-He sees the lawyer who makes use of metaphor,
-bombast, and the other arts of oratory, which
-used to captivate and convince, distanced in the
-race for eminence by him who employs a succinct,
-dispassionate, and almost colloquial form
-of statement. He recognizes that in every department
-of human activity, from the investigation
-of disease-germs to the management of railroads,
-steady, undemonstrative marshallings of
-fact, and cautious, unemotional deduction therefrom
-are considered the scientific and only appropriate
-method. He knows that the expression
-of unusual or erratic ideas will expose him to the
-stigma of being a crank, a reputation which, once
-acquired, sticks like pitch, and that the betrayal
-of sentiment will induce conservative people to
-put him on the suspected list.</p>
-
-<p>All this is imbibed by him as it should be, in the
-interest of sincerity and sense. Under the sobering
-restraint of it the young man begins to make his
-way with enthusiasm and energy, but circumspectly
-and deliberately. He mistrusts everything
-that he cannot pick to pieces on the spot and analyze,
-and though he is willing to be amused, beguiled,
-or even temporarily inspired by appeals to<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_252" id="Page_252">[252]</a></span>
-his imagination or emotions, he puts his doubts or
-qualms aside next morning at the behest of business.
-He wishes to get on. He is determined not
-to allow anything to interfere with that, and he
-understands that that is to be accomplished partly
-by hard work and partly by becoming a good fellow
-and showing common-sense. This is excellent
-reasoning until one examines too closely what is
-expected of him as a good fellow, and what is required
-of him in the name of common-sense.</p>
-
-<p>There have been good fellows in every age,
-and some of them have been tough specimens.
-Our good fellow is almost highly respectable. He
-wishes to live as long as he can, and to let others
-live as long as they can. His patron saints are
-his doctor, his bank account, prudence, and general
-toleration. If he were obliged to specify the
-vice not covered by the statute law which he
-most abhors, he would probably name slopping
-over. He aims to be genial, sympathetic, and
-knowing, but not obtrusively so, and he is becomingly
-suspicious and reticent regarding everything
-which cannot be demonstrated on a chart
-like an international yacht-race or a medical operation.
-He is quietly and moderately licentious,
-and justifies himself satisfactorily but mournfully<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_253" id="Page_253">[253]</a></span>
-on hygienic grounds or on the plea of masculine
-inevitability. He works hard, if he has to, for he
-wishes to live comfortably by the time he is forty,
-and comfort means, as it ought to mean, an attractive
-wife, an attractive establishment, and an attractive
-income. An imprudent marriage seems
-to him one of the most egregious forms of slopping
-over. If he hears that two of his contemporaries
-are engaged, his first inquiry is, “What
-have they to live on?” and if the answer is unsatisfactory,
-they fall a peg or two in his estimation,
-and he is likely, the next time he feels mellow
-after dinner, to descant on the impropriety
-of bringing children into the world who may be
-left penniless orphans. If he falls in love himself
-before he feels that his pecuniary position warrants
-it, he tries to shake out the arrow, and, if
-that fails, he cuts it out deliberately under antiseptic
-treatment to avoid blood-poisoning. All our
-large cities are full of young men who have undergone
-this operation. To lose one’s vermiform
-appendix is a perilous yet blessed experience; but
-this trifling with the human heart, however scientific
-the excision, can scarcely be regarded as beneficial
-unless we are to assume that it, like the
-fashionable sac, has become rudimentary.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_254" id="Page_254">[254]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>We see a great many allusions in our comic
-and satiric weeklies to marrying for money, but
-the good fellow of the best type ordinarily disdains
-such a proceeding. His self-respect is not
-offended but hugely gratified if the young woman
-with whom he intends to ally himself would
-be able immediately or prospectively to contribute
-a million or so to the domestic purse; but
-he would regard a deliberate sale of himself for
-cash as a dirty piece of business. On the other
-hand, he is very business-like where his heart is
-engaged, and is careful not to let his emotions or
-fancy get the better of him until he can see his
-ship&mdash;and a well-freighted one at that&mdash;on the
-near horizon. And what is to become of the
-young woman in the meantime? To let concealment,
-like a worm in the bud, feed on a damask
-cheek may be more fatal than masculine arrow
-extraction; for woman, less scientific in her methods
-than man, is less able to avoid blood-poisoning.
-She doses herself, probably, with anti-pyrine,
-burns her Emerson and her Tennyson,
-and after a period of nervous prostration devotes
-herself to charity toward the world at large with
-the exception of all good fellows.</p>
-
-<p>The good fellow after he marries continues<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_255" id="Page_255">[255]</a></span>
-to be a good fellow. He adapts himself to the
-humanitarian necessities of the situation; he becomes
-fond and domestic, almost oppressively
-so, and he is eager to indulge the slightest wish
-or fancy of his mate, provided it be within the
-bounds of easy-going rationalism. The conjugal
-pliability of the American husband is a well-recognized
-original feature of our institutions,
-nevertheless he is apt to develop kinks unless he
-be allowed to be indulgent and companionable
-in his own way. He works harder than ever, and
-she for whose sake he is ostensibly toiling is encouraged
-to make herself fetching and him comfortable
-as progressively as his income will permit.
-When the toil of the week is over he looks
-for his reward in the form of a Welsh-rarebit
-with theatrical celebrities, a little game of poker
-within his means, or, if he be musical, a small
-gathering of friends to sing or play, if possible
-in a so-called Bohemian spirit. It irks him to
-stand very upright or to converse for long,
-whether in masculine or feminine society. He
-likes to sprawl and to be entertained with the
-latest bit of humor, but he is willing, on a pleasant
-Sunday or holiday, to take exercise in order
-to perspire freely, and then to lie at ease under<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_256" id="Page_256">[256]</a></span>
-a tree or a bank, pleasantly refreshed with beer
-and tobacco, and at peace with the world. He
-prefers to have her with him everywhere, except
-at the little game of poker, and is conscious of
-an aching void if she be not at hand to help him
-recuperate, philosophize, and admire the view.
-But he expects her to do what he likes, and expects
-her to like it too.</p>
-
-<p>In no age of the world has the reasoning power
-of man been in better working order than at
-present. With all due respect to the statistics
-which show that the female is beginning to outstrip
-the male in academic competitive examinations,
-one has only to keep his ears and eyes open
-in the workaday world in order to be convinced
-that man’s purely mental processes suggest a razor
-and woman’s a corkscrew. The manager of
-corporate interests, the lawyer, the historian, the
-physician, the chemist, and the banker seek to-day
-to probe to the bottom that which they
-touch, and to expose to the acid of truth every
-rosy theory and seductive prospectus. This is in
-the line of progress; but to be satisfied with this
-alone would speedily reduce human society to
-the status of a highly organized racing stable.
-If man is to be merely a jockey, who is to ride<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_257" id="Page_257">[257]</a></span>
-as light as he can, there is nothing to be said;
-but even on that theory is it not possible to train
-too fine? With eloquence tabooed as savoring
-of insincerity, with conversation as a fine art
-starved to death, with melody in music sniffed
-at as sensational, and fancy in literature condemned
-as unscientific, with the loosening of all
-the bonds of conventionality which held civilization
-to the mark in matters of taste and elegance,
-and with a general doing away with color
-and emotion in all the practical affairs of life out
-of regard to the gospel of common-sense and machine-made
-utility, the jockey now is riding practically
-in his own skin.</p>
-
-<p>One has to go back but a little way in order
-to encounter among the moving spirits of society
-a radically different attitude. Unquestionably the
-temper of the present day is the result of a vigorous
-reaction against false or maudlin sentiment,
-florid drivel, and hypocritical posturing; but certainly
-a Welsh-rarebit at midnight, with easy-going
-companions, is a far remove as a spiritual
-stimulus from bread eaten in tears at the same
-hour. As has been intimated, this exaggeration
-of commonplaceness will probably right itself in
-time, but man’s lack of susceptibility to influences<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_258" id="Page_258">[258]</a></span>
-and impressions which cannot be weighed,
-fingered, smelt, looked at, or tasted, seems to
-justify at present the strictures of the modern
-woman, who, with all her bumptiousness, would
-fain continue to reverence him. Some in the van
-of feminine progress would be glad to see the
-inspiration and direction of all matters&mdash;spiritual,
-artistic, and social&mdash;apportioned to woman
-as her sole rightful prerogative, and consequently
-to see man become veritably a superior chore-man.
-Fortunately the world of men and women
-is likely to agree with Barbara that mutual sympathy
-and co-operation in these matters between
-the sexes are indispensable to the healthy development
-of human society.</p>
-
-<p>But even assuming that women were ready to
-accept the responsibility and men were willing
-to renounce it, I, for one, fear that civilization
-would find itself in a ditch rather speedily. All
-of us&mdash;we men, I mean&mdash;recognize the purifying
-and deterrent influence of woman as a Mentor
-and sweet critic at our elbows. We have
-learned to depend upon her to prod us when we
-lag, and to save us from ourselves when our
-brains get the better of our hearts. But, after all,
-woman is a clinging creature. She has been used<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_259" id="Page_259">[259]</a></span>
-to playing second fiddle; and it is quite a different
-affair to lead an orchestra. To point the way
-to spiritual or artistic progress needs, first of all,
-a clear intellect and a firm purpose, even though
-they alone are not sufficient. Woman is essentially
-yielding and impressionable. At the very
-moment when the modern Joan of Arc would
-be doing her best to make the world a better
-place, would not eleven other women out of the
-dozen be giving way to the captivating plausibility
-of some emotional situation?</p>
-
-<p>As an instance of what she is already capable
-of from a social point of view, now that she has
-been given her head, may well be cited the feverish
-eagerness with which some of the most highly
-cultivated and most subtly evolved American
-women of our large cities vie with each other for
-intimacy with artistic foreign lions of their own
-sex known to be unchaste. They seem to regard
-it as a privilege to play hostess to, or, at least,
-to be on familiar terms with, actresses, opera-singers,
-and other public characters quietly but
-notoriously erotic, the plea in each case being
-that they are ready to forgive, to forget, and ignore
-for the sake of art and the artist. Yes, ignore
-or forget, if you choose, so far as seeing the artist<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_260" id="Page_260">[260]</a></span>
-act or hearing her sing in public is concerned,
-where there are no social ceremonies or intercourse;
-but let us please remember at the same
-time that even those effete nations who believe
-that the world would be a dull place without
-courtesans, insist on excluding such persons
-from their drawing-rooms. Indeed there is reason
-to believe that some of the artists in question
-have become hilarious, when out of sight
-of our hospitable shores, over the wonders of
-American social usages among the pure and cultivated
-women. Before our young men will cease
-to sow wild oats their female relations must
-cease to run after other men’s mistresses. Decidedly,
-the modern Joan of Arc to the contrary
-notwithstanding, man cannot afford to abdicate
-just yet. But he needs to mend his hedges and
-to look after his preserves.</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_261" id="Page_261">[261]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2>The <i>Case of Woman</i>.</h2>
-
-<h3>I.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-a-3.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">A great many men, who are
-sane and reasonable in other
-matters, allow themselves, on
-the slightest provocation, to be
-worked up into a fever over the
-aspirations of woman. They decline to listen to
-argument, grow red in the face, and saw the air
-with their hands, if they do not pound on the
-table, to express their views on the subject&mdash;which,
-by the way, are as out of date and old-fashioned
-as a pine-tree shilling. They remind
-one of the ostrich in that they seem to imagine,
-because they have buried their heads in the sand,
-nothing has happened or is happening around
-them. They confront the problem of woman’s
-emancipation as though it were only just being
-broached instead of in the throes of delivery.</p>
-
-<p>For instance, my friend, Mr. Julius Cæsar, who
-though a conservative, cautious man by nature, is
-agreeably and commendably liberal in other matters,
-seems to be able to see only one side of this
-question. And one side seems to be all he wishes
-to see. “Take my wife,” he said to me the other<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_262" id="Page_262">[262]</a></span>
-day; “as women go she is a very clever and sensible
-woman. She was given the best advantages in
-the way of school-training open to young ladies of
-her day; she has accomplishments, domestic virtues,
-and fine religious instincts, and I adore her.
-But what does she know of politics? She couldn’t
-tell you the difference between a senator and an
-alderman, and her mind is practically a blank on
-the tariff or the silver question. I tell you, my dear
-fellow, that if woman is allowed to leave the domestic
-hearth and play ducks and drakes with the
-right of suffrage, every political caucus will become
-a retail drygoods store. If there is one thing which
-makes a philosopher despair of the future of the
-race, it is to stand in a crowded drygoods store
-and watch the jam of women perk and push and
-sidle and grab and covet and go well-nigh crazy
-over things to wear. The average woman knows
-about clothes, the next world, children, and her
-domestic duties. Let her stick to her sphere. A
-woman at a caucus? Who would see that my dinner
-was properly cooked, eh?”</p>
-
-<p>One would suppose from these remarks that
-the male American citizen spends his days
-chiefly at caucuses; whereas, as we all know when
-we reflect, he goes perhaps twice a year, if he be<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_263" id="Page_263">[263]</a></span>
-a punctilious patriot like Julius Cæsar, and if not,
-probably does not go at all. If the consciousness
-that his wife could vote at a caucus would act as
-a spur to the masculine political conscience, the
-male American citizen could well afford to dine
-at a restaurant on election-days, or to cook his
-own food now and then.</p>
-
-<p>Of course, even a man with views like Julius
-Cæsar would be sorry to have his wife the slavish,
-dollish, or unenlightened individual which
-she was apt to be before so-called women’s rights
-were heard of. As he himself has proclaimed,
-he adores his wife, and he is, moreover, secretly
-proud of her æsthetic presentability. Without
-being an advanced woman, Dolly Cæsar has the
-interests of the day and hour at her fingers’ ends,
-can talk intelligently on any subject, whether she
-knows anything about it or not, and is decidedly
-in the van, though she is not a leader. Julius
-does not take into account, when he anathematizes
-the sex because of its ambitions, the difference
-between her and her great-grandmother.
-He believes his wife to be a very charming specimen
-of what a woman ought to be, and that,
-barring a few differences of costume and hair arrangement,
-she is practically her great-grandmother<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_264" id="Page_264">[264]</a></span>
-over again. Fatuous Julius! There is
-where he is desperately in error. Dolly Cæsar’s
-great-grandmother may have been a radiant
-beauty and a famous housekeeper, but her brain
-never harbored one-tenth of the ideas and opinions
-which make her descendant so attractive.</p>
-
-<p>Those who argue on this matter like Julius
-Cæsar fail to take into account the gradual, silent
-results of time; and this is true of the results to
-come as well as those which have accrued. When
-the suffrage question is mooted one often hears
-sober men, more dispassionate men than Julius&mdash;Perkins,
-for instance, the thin, nervous lawyer
-and father of four girls, and a sober man
-indeed&mdash;ask judicially whether it is possible for
-female suffrage to be a success when not one
-woman in a thousand would know what was expected
-of her, or how to vote. “I tell you,” says
-Perkins, “they are utterly unfitted for it by training
-and education. Four-fifths of them wouldn’t
-vote if they were allowed to, and every one
-knows that ninety-nine women out of every
-hundred are profoundly ignorant of the matters
-in regard to which they would cast their ballots.
-Take my daughters; fine girls, talented, intelligent
-women&mdash;one of them a student of history;<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_265" id="Page_265">[265]</a></span>
-but what do they know of parties, and platforms,
-and political issues in general?”</p>
-
-<p>Perkins is less violently prejudiced than Julius
-Cæsar. He neither saws the air nor pounds on
-the table. Indeed, I have no doubt he believes
-that he entertains liberal, unbiassed views on the
-subject. I wonder, then, why it never occurs to
-him that everything which is new is adopted
-gradually, and that the world has to get accustomed
-to all novel situations. I happened to see
-Mr. Perkins the first time he rode a bicycle on
-the road, and his performance certainly justified
-the prediction that he would look like a guy to
-the end of his days, and yet he glides past me
-now with the ease and nonchalance of a possible
-“scorcher.” Similarly, if women were given universal
-suffrage, there would be a deal of fluttering
-in the dove-cotes for the first generation or so.
-Doubtless four-fifths of womankind would refuse
-or neglect to vote at all, and at least a quarter
-of those who went to the polls would cast their
-ballots as tools or blindly. But just so soon as it
-was understood that it was no less a woman’s
-duty to vote than it was to attend to her back
-hair, she would be educated from that point of
-view, and her present crass ignorance of political<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_266" id="Page_266">[266]</a></span>
-matters would be changed into at least a form of
-enlightenment. Man prides himself on his logic,
-but there is nothing logical in the argument that
-because a woman knows nothing about anything
-now, she can never be taught. If we have been
-content to have her remain ignorant for so many
-centuries, does it not savor both of despotism and
-lack of reasonableness to cast her ignorance in
-her teeth and to beat her about the head with
-it now that she is eager to rise? Decidedly it is
-high time for the man who orates tempestuously
-or argues dogmatically in the name of conservatism
-against the cause of woman on such flimsy
-pleas as these, to cease his gesticulations and wise
-saws. The modern woman is a potential reality,
-who is bound to develop and improve, in another
-generation or two, as far beyond the present
-interesting type as Mrs. Julius Cæsar is an
-advance on her great-grandmother.</p>
-
-<p>On the other hand, why do those who have
-woman’s cause at heart lay such formal stress on
-the right of the ballot as a factor in her development?
-There can be no doubt that, if the majority
-of women wish to vote on questions involving
-property or political interests, they will
-be enabled to do so sooner or later. It is chiefly<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_267" id="Page_267">[267]</a></span>
-now the conviction in the minds of legislatures
-that a large number of the intelligent women of
-their communities do not desire to exercise the
-right of suffrage which keeps the bars down.
-Doubtless these bodies will yield one after another
-to the clamor of even a few, and the experiment
-will be tried. It may not come this year
-or the next, but many busy people are so certain
-that its coming is merely a question of time
-that they do not allow themselves to be drawn
-into the fury of the fray. When it comes, however,
-it will come as a universal privilege, and
-not with a social or property qualification. I mention
-this simply for the enlightenment of those
-amiable members of the sex to be enfranchised
-who go about sighing and simpering in the interest
-of drawing the line. That question was
-settled a century ago. The action taken may have
-been an error on the part of those who framed
-the laws, but it has been settled forever. There
-would be no more chance of the passage by the
-legislature of one of the United States of a statute
-giving the right of suffrage to a limited class of
-women than there would be of one prescribing
-that only the good-looking members of that sex
-should be allowed to marry.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_268" id="Page_268">[268]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>Many people, who believe that woman should
-be denied no privilege enjoyed by man which she
-really desires to exercise, find much difficulty in
-regarding the right of suffrage as the vital end
-which it assumes in the minds of its advocates.
-One would suppose, by the clamor on the subject,
-that the ballot would enable her to change her
-spots in a twinkling, and to become an absolutely
-different creation. Lively imaginations do not
-hesitate to compare the proposed act of emancipation
-with the release of the colored race from
-bondage. We are appealed to by glowing rhetoric
-which celebrates the equity of the case and
-the moral significance of the impending victory.
-But the orators and triumphants stop short at the
-passage of the law and fail to tell us what is to
-come after. We are assured, indeed, that it will
-be all right, and that woman’s course after the
-Rubicon is crossed will be one grand march of
-progress to the music of the spheres; but, barring
-a pæan of this sort, we are given no light as
-to what she intends to do and become. She has
-stretched out her hand for the rattle and is determined
-to have it, but she does not appear to
-entertain any very definite ideas as to what she
-is going to do with it after she has it.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_269" id="Page_269">[269]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>Unquestionably, the development of the modern
-woman is one of the most interesting features
-of civilization to-day. But is it not true that the
-cause of woman is one concern, and the question
-of woman suffrage another? And are they not too
-often confounded, even deliberately confounded,
-by those who are willing to have them appear
-to be identical? Supposing that to-morrow the
-trumpet should sound and the walls of Jericho
-fall, and every woman be free to cast her individual
-ballot without let or hindrance from one
-confine of the civilized world to another, what
-would it amount to after all by way of elucidating
-the question of her future evolution? For it must
-be remembered that, apart from the question of
-her development in general, those who are clamoring
-for the ballot have been superbly vague so
-far as to the precise part which the gentle sex is
-to play in the political arena after she gets her
-rattle. They put their sisters off with the general
-assertion that things in the world, politically
-speaking, will be better, but neither their sisters
-nor their brothers are able to get a distinct notion
-of the platform on which woman means to stand
-after she becomes a voter. Is she going to enter
-into competition with men for the prizes and offices,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_270" id="Page_270">[270]</a></span>
-to argue, manipulate, hustle, and do generally
-the things which have to be done in the
-name of political zeal and activity? Is it within
-the vista of her ambition to become a member of,
-and seek to control, legislative bodies, to be a
-police commissioner or a member of Congress?
-Those in the van decline to answer, or at least
-they do not answer. It may be, to be sure, the
-wisdom of the serpent which keeps them non-committal,
-for they stand, as it were, between the
-devil and the deep sea in that, though they and
-their supporters would perhaps like to declare
-boldly in favor of competition, or at least participation,
-in the duties and honors, they stand
-in wholesome awe of the hoarse murmur from
-the ranks of their sisters, “We don’t wish to be
-like men, and we have no intention of competing
-with them on their own lines.” Accordingly, the
-leaders seek refuge in the safe but indefinite assertion
-that of course women will never become
-men, but they have thus far neglected to tell us
-what they are to become.</p>
-
-<p>It really seems as though it were time for woman,
-in general congress of the women’s clubs
-assembled, to make a reasonably full and clear
-statement of her aims and principles&mdash;a declaration<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_271" id="Page_271">[271]</a></span>
-of faith which shall give her own sex and
-men the opportunity to know precisely what she
-is driving at. Her progress for the last hundred
-years has been gratifying to the world, with the
-exception of pig-headed or narrow-minded men,
-and civilization has been inestimably benefitted
-by the broadening of her intelligence and her interests.
-But she has now reached a point where
-there is a parting of the ways, and the world
-would very much like to know which she intends
-to take. The atmosphere of the women’s
-clubs is mysterious but unsuggestive, and consequently
-many of us feel inclined to murmur
-with the poet, “it is clever, but we don’t know
-what it means.” Unrepressed nervous mental
-activity easily becomes social affectation or tomfoolery,
-in the absence of a controlling aim or
-purpose. To exhaust one’s vitality in papers or
-literary teas, merely to express or simulate individual
-culture or freedom, may not land one in
-an insane asylum, but it is about as valuable to
-society, as an educating force, as the revolutions
-of the handle of a freezer, when the crank is off,
-are valuable to the production of ice-cream. For
-the benefit of such a congress, if haply it should
-be called together later, it will not be out of<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_272" id="Page_272">[272]</a></span>
-place to offer a few suggestions as to her future
-evolution. In this connection it seems to me imperative
-to go back to the original poetic conception
-of woman as the wife and mother, the
-domestic helpmate and loving, self-abnegating
-companion of man. Unedifying as this formula
-of description may seem to the active-minded
-modern woman, it is obvious that under existing
-physiological conditions she must remain
-the wife and mother, even though she declines
-to continue domestic, loving, and self-abnegating.
-And side by side with physiological conditions
-stands the intangible, ineffable force of
-sexual love, the poetic, entrancing ecstasy which
-no scientist has yet been able to reduce to a
-myth or to explode. Schopenhauer, to be sure,
-would have us believe that it is merely a delusion
-by which nature seeks to reproduce herself, but
-even on this material basis the women’s clubs
-find themselves face to face with an enemy more
-determined than any Amazon. A maid deluded
-becomes the sorriest of club members.</p>
-
-<p>What vision of life is nobler and more exquisite
-than that of complete and ideal marital happiness?
-To find it complete and ideal the modern
-woman, with all her charms and abilities,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_273" id="Page_273">[273]</a></span>
-must figure in it, I grant; the mere domestic
-drudge; the tame, amiable house-cat; the doting
-doll, are no longer pleasing parties of the second
-part. To admit so much as this may seem to offer
-room for the argument that the modern woman
-of a hundred years hence will make her of
-the poet’s dream of to-day appear no less pitiable;
-but there we men are ready to take issue.
-We admit our past tyranny, we cry “Peccavi,”
-yet we claim at the same time that, having taken
-her to our bosoms as our veritable, loving companion
-and helpmate, there is no room left, or
-very little room left, for more progress in that
-particular direction. Her next steps, if taken, will
-be on new lines, not by way of making herself
-an equal. And therefore it is that we suggest the
-vision of perfect modern marital happiness as
-the leading consideration to be taken into account
-in dealing with this question. Even in the
-past, when woman was made a drudge and encouraged
-to remain a fool, the poetry and joy and
-stimulus of life for her, as well as for her despot
-mate, lay in the mystery of love, its joys and responsibilities.
-Even then, if her life were robbed
-of the opportunity to love and be loved, its savor
-was gone, however free she might be from masculine<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_274" id="Page_274">[274]</a></span>
-tyranny and coercion. Similarly, after
-making due allowance for the hyperbole as to
-the influence which woman has on man when he
-has made up his mind to act to the contrary,
-there is no power which works for righteousness
-upon him comparable to the influence of
-woman. There is always the possibility that the
-woman a man loves may not be consciously
-working for righteousness, but the fact that he
-believes so is the essential truth, even though
-he be the victim of self-delusion. This element
-of the case is pertinent to the question whether
-woman would really try to reform the world, if
-she had the chance, rather than to this particular
-consideration. The point of the argument is
-that the dependence of each sex on the other,
-and the loving sympathy between them, which
-is born of dissimilarity, is the salt of human life.
-The eternal feminine is what we prize in woman,
-and wherever she deflects from this there does
-her power wane and her usefulness become impaired.
-And conversely, the more and the higher
-she advances along the lines of her own nature,
-the better for the world. Nor does the claim that
-she has been hampered hitherto, and consequently
-been unable to show what her attributes<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_275" id="Page_275">[275]</a></span>
-really are, seem relevant; for it is only when she
-develops in directions which threaten to clash
-with the eternal feminine that she encounters
-opposition or serious criticism. And here even
-the excitability and unreasonableness of such
-men as our friend Julius Cæsar find a certain justification.
-Their fumes and fury, however unintelligent,
-proceed from an instinctive repugnance
-to the departure or deviation from nature which
-they find, or fear to find, in the modern woman.
-Once let them realize that there was no danger
-of anything of the kind, and they would become
-gentle as doves, if not all smiles and approval.</p>
-
-<p>There is no more beautiful and refining influence
-in the world than that of an attractive and
-noble woman. Unselfishness, tenderness, aspiring
-sentiment, long-suffering devotion, grace,
-tact, and quickly divining intelligence are her
-prerogatives, and she stands an ever-watchful
-guardian angel at the shoulder of man. The leading
-poetic and elevating associations of life are
-linked with her name. The lover’s passion, the
-husband’s worship, the son’s reverential affection
-are inspired by her. The strong man stays his
-hand and sides with mercy or honor when his
-mother speaks within him. In homelier language,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_276" id="Page_276">[276]</a></span>
-she is the keeper of the hearth and home, the
-protector and trainer of her children, the adviser,
-consoler, and companion of her husband, father,
-son, brother, or other masculine associates.</p>
-
-<p>Now, the modern woman, up to this point,
-has been disposed, on the whole, to regard this
-as the part which she is to play in the drama of
-life. At least she has not materially deviated from
-it. Her progress has been simply in the way of
-enabling her to play that part more intelligently
-and worthily, and not toward usurpation, excepting
-that she claims the right to earn her daily
-bread. Higher education in its various branches
-has been the most signal fruit of her struggle for
-enlightenment and liberty, and this is certainly
-in entire keeping with the eternal feminine, and
-to-day seems indispensable to her suitable development.
-By means of education similar to
-that lavished upon man she has been enabled, it
-is true, to obtain employment of various kinds
-hitherto withheld from her, but the positions of
-professor, teacher, nurse, artist, and clerk, are
-amplifications of her natural aptitudes rather than
-encroachments. She has, however, finally reached
-the stage where she will soon have to decide whether
-the hearth and the home or down-town is to<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_277" id="Page_277">[277]</a></span>
-be the principal theatre of her activity and influence.
-Is she or is she not to participate with man
-in the tangible, obvious management of the affairs
-of the world?</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_278" id="Page_278">[278]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2>The <i>Case of Woman</i>.</h2>
-
-<h3>II.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-t-3.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">The mystic oracles of the women’s
-clubs do not give a straightforward
-answer to this question. Yet there are
-mutterings, mouthings, and signs
-from them which tend to arouse masculine suspicions.
-To use a colloquialism, woman fancies
-herself very much at present, and she spends considerable
-time in studying the set of her mind in
-the looking-glass. And her serenity is justified.
-In spite of ridicule, baiting, and delay for several
-generations, she has demonstrated her ability and
-fitness to do a number of things which we had
-adjudged her incapable of doing. She can almost
-take care of herself in the street after dark. She
-has become a most valuable member of committees
-to ameliorate the condition of the poor, the
-sick, and the insane. She has become the president
-and professors of colleges founded in her
-behalf. The noble and numerous army of teachers,
-typewriters, salesladies, nurses, and women
-doctors (including Christian Scientists), stands
-as ample proof of her intention and capacity to
-strike out for herself. No wonder, perhaps, that<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_279" id="Page_279">[279]</a></span>
-she is a little delirious and mounted in the head,
-and that she is tempted to exclaim, “Go to, I will
-do more than this. Why should I not practise
-law, and sell stocks, wheat, corn, and exchange,
-control the money markets of the world, administer
-trusts, manage corporations, sit in Congress,
-and be President of the United States?”</p>
-
-<p>The only things now done by man which the
-modern woman has not yet begun to cast sheep’s
-eyes at are labor requiring much physical strength
-and endurance, and military service. She is prepared
-to admit that she can never expect to be so
-muscular and powerful in body as man. But this
-has become rather a solace than a source of perplexity
-to her. Indeed, the women’s clubs are
-beginning to whisper under their breath, “Man
-is fitted to build and hew and cut and lift, and to
-do everything which demands brute force. We
-are not. We should like to think, plan, and execute.
-Let him do the heavy work. If he wishes
-to fight he may. Wars are wicked, and we shall
-vote against them and refuse to take part in
-them.”</p>
-
-<p>If woman is going in for this sort of thing, of
-course she needs the ballot. If she intends to
-manage corporations and do business generally,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_280" id="Page_280">[280]</a></span>
-she ought to have a voice in the framing of the
-laws which manifest the policy of the state. But
-to earn one’s living as a college professor, nurse,
-typewriter, saleslady, or clerk, or to sit on boards
-of charity, education, or hygiene, is a far remove
-from becoming bank presidents, merchants,
-judges, bankers, or members of Congress. The
-one affords the means by which single women can
-earn a decent and independent livelihood, or devote
-their energies to work useful to society; the
-other would necessitate an absolute revolution
-in the habits, tastes, interests, proclivities, and
-nature of woman. The noble army of teachers,
-typewriters, nurses, and salesladies are in the
-heels of their boots hoping to be married some
-day or other. They have merely thrown an
-anchor to windward and taken up a calling which
-will enable them to live reasonably happy if the
-right man does not appear, or passes by on the
-other side. Those who sit on boards, and who
-are more apt to be middle-aged, are but interpreting
-and fulfilling the true mission of the modern
-woman, which is to supplement and modify
-the point of view of man, and to extend the kind
-of influence which she exercises at home to the
-conduct of public interests of a certain class.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_281" id="Page_281">[281]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>Now, some one must keep house. Some one
-must cook, wash, dust, sweep, darn, look after
-the children, and in general grease the wheels of
-domestic activity. If women are to become merchants,
-and manage corporations, who will bring
-up our families and manage the home? The majority
-of the noble army referred to are not able
-to escape from making their own beds and cooking
-their own breakfasts. If they occupied other
-than comparatively subordinate positions they
-would have to call Chinatown to the rescue; for
-the men would decline with thanks, relying on
-their brute force to protect them, and the other
-women would toss their heads and say “Make
-your own beds, you nasty things. We prefer to
-go to town too.” In fact the emancipation of
-women, so far as it relates to usurpation of the
-work of man, does not mean much in actual
-practice yet, in spite of the brave show and bustle
-of the noble army. The salesladies get their
-meals somehow, and the domestic hearth is still
-presided over by the mistress of the house and
-her daughters. But this cannot continue to be
-the case if women are going to do everything
-which men do except lift weights and fight. For
-we all know that our mothers, wives, and sisters,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_282" id="Page_282">[282]</a></span>
-according to their own affidavits, have all they
-can do already to fulfil the requirements of modern
-life as mothers, wives, and sisters in the conventional
-yet modern sense. Many of them tell
-us that they would not have time to vote, to say
-nothing of qualifying themselves to vote. Indisputably
-they cannot become men and yet remain
-women in the matter of their daily occupations,
-unless they discover some new panacea against
-nervous prostration. The professions are open;
-the laws will allow them to establish banks and
-control corporate interests; but what is to become
-of the eternal feminine in the pow-wow,
-bustle, and materializing rush and competition of
-active business life? Whatever a few individuals
-may do, there seems to be no immediate or probably
-eventual prospect of a throwing off by woman
-of domestic ties and duties. Her physical
-and moral nature alike are formidable barriers
-in the way.</p>
-
-<p>Why, then, if women are not going to usurp
-or share to any great extent the occupations of
-men, and become familiar with the practical workings
-of professional, business, and public affairs,
-are they ever likely to be able to judge so intelligently
-as men as to the needs of the state? To<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_283" id="Page_283">[283]</a></span>
-hear many people discuss the subject, one would
-suppose that all the laws passed by legislative
-bodies were limited to questions of ethics and
-morality. If all political action were reduced to
-debates and ballots on the use of liquor, the social
-evil, and other moral or humanitarian topics, the
-claim that women ought to be allowed and encouraged
-to vote would be much stronger&mdash;that
-is, assuming that she herself preferred to use her
-influence directly instead of indirectly. But the
-advocates of female suffrage seem to forget that
-three-fifths of the laws passed relate to matters
-remotely if at all bearing upon ethics, and involve
-considerations of public policy from the point of
-view of what is best for the interests of the state
-and the various classes of individuals which compose
-it. We do not always remember in this age
-of afternoon teas and literary papers that the state
-is after all an artificial body, a form of compact
-under which human beings agree to live together
-for mutual benefit and protection. Before culture,
-æstheticism, or even ethics can be maintained
-there must be a readiness and ability to fight, if
-the necessity arises, and a capacity to do heavy
-work. Moreover, there must be ploughed fields
-and ship-yards and grain-elevators and engines<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_284" id="Page_284">[284]</a></span>
-and manufactories, and all the divers forms and
-phases of industrial and commercial endeavor and
-enterprise by which men earn their daily bread.
-If woman is going to participate in the material
-activities of the community she will be fit to deal
-with the questions which relate thereto, but otherwise
-she must necessarily remain unable to form
-a satisfactory judgment as to the merits of more
-than one-half the measures upon which she would
-be obliged to vote. Nor is it an argument in point
-that a large body of men is in the same predicament.
-Two evils do not make a benefit. There
-is a sufficient number of men conversant with
-every separate practical question which arises to
-insure an intelligent examination of it. The essential
-consideration is, what would the state gain,
-if woman suffrage were adopted, except an enlarged
-constituency of voters? What would woman,
-by means of the ballot, add to the better
-or smoother development of the social system
-under which we live?</p>
-
-<p>Unless the eternal feminine is to be sacrificed
-or to suffer, it seems to me that her sole influence
-would be an ethical or moral one. There are certainly
-strong grounds for the assumption that
-she would point the way to, or at least champion,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_285" id="Page_285">[285]</a></span>
-the cause of reforms which man has perpetually
-dilly-dallied with and failed to do battle for. To
-be sure, many of her most virtuous endeavors
-would be likely to be focussed on matters where
-indulgences and weaknesses chiefly masculine
-were concerned&mdash;such as the liquor problem;
-but an alliance between her vote and that of the
-minority of men would probably be a blessing to
-the world, even though she showed herself somewhat
-a tyrant or a fanatic. Her advocacy of measures
-calculated to relieve society of abuses and
-curses, which have continued to afflict it because
-men have been only moderately in earnest for a
-change, could scarcely fail to produce valuable
-results. Perhaps this is enough in itself to outweigh
-the ignorance which she would bring to
-bear on matters which did not involve ethical or
-humanitarian principles; and it is indisputably
-the most legitimate argument in favor of woman
-suffrage. The notion that women ought to vote
-simply because men do is childish and born of
-vanity. On the other hand, if the state is to be a
-gainer by her participation in the perplexities of
-voting, the case takes on a very different aspect.</p>
-
-<p>I have been assuming that the influence of
-woman would be in behalf of ethics, but my wife<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_286" id="Page_286">[286]</a></span>
-Barbara assures me that I am thereby begging
-the question. She informs me that I have too exalted
-an idea of woman and her aims. She has
-confided to me that, though there is a number of
-noble and forceful women in every community,
-the general average, though prolific of moral and
-religious advice to men by way of fulfilling a sort
-of traditional feminine duty, is at heart rather
-flighty and less deeply interested in social progress
-than my sex. This testimony, taken in connection
-with the reference of Julius Cæsar to the
-disillusioning effect of a crowd of women in a
-drygoods store, introduces a new element into
-the discussion. Frankly, my estimate of women
-has always been high, and possibly unduly exalted.
-It may be I have been deceived by the
-moral and religious advice offered into believing
-that women are more serious than they really
-are. Reflection certainly does cause one to recollect
-that comparatively few women like to dwell
-on or to discuss for more than a few minutes any
-serious subject which requires earnest thought.
-They prefer to skim from one thing to another
-like swallows and to avoid dry depths. Those in
-the van will doubtless answer that this is due to
-the unfortunate training which woman has been<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_287" id="Page_287">[287]</a></span>
-subjected to for so many generations. True, in a
-measure; but ought she not, before she is allowed
-to vote, on the plea of bringing benefit to the state
-as an ethical adviser, to demonstrate by more
-than words her ethical superiority?</p>
-
-<p>We all know that women drink less intoxicating
-liquor than men, and are less addicted to
-fleshly excesses. Yet the whole mental temper
-and make-up of each sex ought to be taken into
-account in comparing them together; and with
-all the predisposition of a gallant and susceptible
-man to say the complimentary thing, I find
-myself asking the question whether the average
-woman does not prefer to jog along on a
-worsted-work-domestic-trusting-religious-advice-giving
-basis, rather than to grapple in a serious way with
-the formidable problems of living. At any rate
-I, for one, before the right of suffrage is bestowed
-upon her, would like to be convinced
-that she as a sex is really earnest-minded. If one
-stops to think, it is not easy to show that, excepting
-where liquor, other women, and rigid
-attendance at church are concerned, she has been
-wont to show any very decided bent for, or interest
-in, the great reforms of civilization&mdash;that
-is, nothing to distinguish her from a well-equipped<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_288" id="Page_288">[288]</a></span>
-and thoughtful man. It is significant,
-too, that where women in this country have been
-given the power to vote in local affairs, they have
-in several instances shown themselves to be more
-solicitous for the triumph of a religious creed or
-faction than to promote the public welfare.</p>
-
-<p>It is extremely probable, if not certain, that
-the laws of all civilized states will eventually be
-amended so as to give women the same voice
-in the affairs of government as men. But taking
-all the factors of the case into consideration,
-there seems to be no pressing haste for action.
-Even admitting for the sake of argument that
-woman’s apparent lack of seriousness is due to
-her past training, and that she is really the admirably
-earnest spirit which one is lured into
-believing her until he reflects, there can assuredly
-be no question that the temper and proclivities
-of the very large mass of women are not calculated
-at present to convict man of a lack of purpose
-by virtue of shining superiority in persevering
-mental and moral aggressiveness. Not
-merely the drygoods counter and the milliner’s
-store with their engaging seductions, but the
-ball-room, the fancy-work pattern, the sensational
-novel, nervous prostration, the school-girl’s<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_289" id="Page_289">[289]</a></span>
-giggle, the tea-pot without food, and a host
-of other tell-tale symptoms, suggest that there
-is a good deal of the old Eve left in the woman
-of to-day. And bless her sweet heart, Adam is
-in no haste to have it otherwise. Indeed, the
-eternal feminine seems to have staying qualities
-which bid fair to outlast the ages.</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_290" id="Page_290">[290]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2>The <i>Conduct of Life</i>.</h2>
-
-<h3>I.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-n.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">Now that more than a century
-has elapsed since our independence
-as a nation was accomplished,
-and we are sixty million
-strong, what do we stand for in
-the world? What is meant by the word American,
-and what are our salient qualities as a people?
-What is the contribution which we have
-made or are making to the progress of society
-and the advancement of civilization?</p>
-
-<p>There certainly used to be, and probably there
-is, no such egregiously patriotic individual in the
-world as an indiscriminately patriotic American,
-and there is no more familiar bit of rhetoric extant
-than that this is the greatest nation on earth.
-The type of citizen who gave obtrusive vent to
-this sentiment, both at home and abroad, is less
-common than formerly; nevertheless his clarion
-tones are still invariably to be heard in legislative
-assemblies when any opportunity is afforded
-to draw a comparison between ourselves and
-other nations. His extravagant and highfalutin
-boastings have undoubtedly been the occasion of<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_291" id="Page_291">[291]</a></span>
-a certain amount of seemingly lukewarm patriotism
-on the part of the educated and more intelligent
-portion of the American public, an attitude
-which has given foreigners the opportunity
-to declare that the best Americans are ashamed
-of their own institutions. But that apparent disposition
-to apologize already belongs to a past
-time. No American, unless a fool, denies to-day
-the force of the national character, whatever he
-or she may think of the behavior of individuals;
-and on the other hand, is it not true that every
-State in the Union has a rising population of
-young and middle-aged people who have discovered,
-Congress and the public schools to the
-contrary notwithstanding, that we do not know
-everything, and that the pathway of national
-progress is more full of perplexities than our
-forests were of trees when Daniel Boone built
-his log cabin in the wilds of Kentucky? In short,
-the period of unintelligent jubilation on one side,
-and carping cynicism on the other, have given
-place to a soberer self-satisfaction. We cannot&mdash;why
-should we?&mdash;forget that our territory is
-enormous, and that we soon shall be, if we are
-not already, the richest nation on earth; that the
-United States is the professed asylum and Mecca<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_292" id="Page_292">[292]</a></span>
-of hope for the despondent and oppressed of
-other countries; and that we are the cynosure
-of the universe, as being the most important exemplification
-of popular government which the
-world has ever seen. At the same time, the claims
-put forth by our progenitors, that American society
-is vastly superior to any other, and that
-the effete world of Europe is put to the blush
-by the civic virtues of the land of the free and
-the home of the brave, are no longer urged except
-for the purposes of rodomontade. The average
-American of fifty years ago&mdash;especially the
-frontiersman and pioneer, who swung his axe to
-clear a homestead, and squirted tobacco-juice
-while he tilled the prairie&mdash;really believed that
-our customs, opinions, and manner of living,
-whether viewed from the moral, artistic, or intellectual
-standpoint, were a vast improvement
-on those of any other nation.</p>
-
-<p>But though most of us to-day recognize the
-absurdity of such a view, we are most of us at
-the same time conscious of the belief that there
-is a difference between us and the European
-which is not imaginary, and which is the secret
-of our national force and originality. International
-intercourse has served to open our eyes<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_293" id="Page_293">[293]</a></span>
-until they have become as wide as saucers, with
-the consequence that, in hundreds of branches
-of industry and art, we are studying Old World
-methods; moreover, the pioneer strain of blood
-has been diluted by hordes of immigrants of the
-scum of the earth. In spite of both these circumstances,
-our faith in our originality and in the
-value of it remains unshaken, and we are no less
-sure at heart that our salient traits are noble ones,
-than the American of fifty years ago was sure that
-we had the monopoly of all the virtues and all
-the arts. He really meant only what we mean,
-but he had an unfortunate way of expressing
-himself. We have learned better taste, and we
-do not hesitate nowadays to devote our native
-humor to hitting hard the head of bunkum,
-which used to be as sacred as a Hindoo god, and
-as rife as apple-blossoms in this our beloved
-country.</p>
-
-<p>What is the recipe for Americanism&mdash;that condition
-of the system and blood, as it were, which
-even the immigrant without an ideal to his own
-soul, seems often to acquire to some extent as
-soon as he breathes the air of Castle Garden?
-It is difficult to define it in set speech, for it
-seems almost an illusive and intangible quality<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_294" id="Page_294">[294]</a></span>
-of being when fingered and held up to the light.
-It seems to me to be, first of all, a consciousness
-of unfettered individuality coupled with a
-determination to make the most of self. One
-great force of the American character is its naturalness,
-which proceeds from a total lack of
-traditional or inherited disposition to crook the
-knee to any one. It never occurs to a good
-American to be obsequious. In vulgar or ignorant
-personalities this point of view has sometimes
-manifested itself, and continues to manifest
-itself, in swagger or insolence, but in the
-finer form of nature appears as simplicity of an
-unassertive yet dignified type. Gracious politeness,
-without condescension on the one hand,
-or fawning on the other, is noticeably a trait of
-the best element of American society, both
-among men and women. Indeed, so valuable to
-character and ennobling is this native freedom
-from servility, that it has in many cases in the
-past made odd and unconventional manner and
-behavior seem attractive rather than a blemish.
-Unconventionality is getting to be a thing of
-the past in this country, and the representative
-American is at a disadvantage now, both at
-home and abroad, if he lacks the ways of the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_295" id="Page_295">[295]</a></span>
-best social world; he can no longer afford to ignore
-cosmopolitan usages, and to rely solely on
-a forceful or imposing personality; the world of
-London and Paris, of New York and Washington
-and Chicago, has ceased to thrill, and is
-scarcely amused, if he shows himself merely in
-the guise of a splendid intellectual buffalo. But
-the best Americanism of to-day reveals itself no
-less distinctly and unequivocally in simplicity
-bred of a lack of self-consciousness and a lack
-of servility of mind. It seems to carry with it a
-birthright of self-respect, which, if fitly worn,
-ennobles the humblest citizen.</p>
-
-<p>This national quality of self-respect is apt to
-be associated with the desire for self-improvement
-or success. Indeed, it must engender it, for
-it provides hope, and hope is the touchstone of
-energy. The great energy of Americans is ascribed
-by some to the climate, and it is probably
-true that the nervous temperaments of our
-people are stimulated by the atmospheric conditions
-which surround us; but is it not much
-more true that, just as it never occurs to the
-good American to be servile, so he feels that his
-outlook upon the possibilities of life is not limited
-or qualified, and that the world is really his<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_296" id="Page_296">[296]</a></span>
-oyster? To be sure, this faith has been fostered
-by the almost Aladdin-like opportunities which
-this great and rich new country of ours has afforded.
-But whatever the reason for our native
-energy and self-reliance, it indisputably exists,
-and is signally typical of the American character.
-We are distinctly an ambitious, earnest people,
-eager to make the most of ourselves individually,
-and we have attracted the attention of the
-world by force of our independent activity of
-thought and action. The extraordinary personality
-of Abraham Lincoln is undoubtedly the
-best apotheosis yet presented of unadulterated
-Americanism. In him the native stock was free
-from the foreign influences and suggestions
-which affected, more or less, the people of the
-East. His origin was of the humblest sort, and
-yet he presented most saliently in his character
-the naturalness, nobility, and aspiring energy of
-the nation. He made the most of himself by
-virtue of unusual abilities, yet the key-note of
-their influence and force was a noble simplicity
-and farsighted independence. In him the quintessence
-of the Americanism of thirty years ago
-was summed up and expressed. In many ways
-he was a riddle at first to the people of the cities<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_297" id="Page_297">[297]</a></span>
-of the East in that, though their soul was his
-soul, his ways had almost ceased to be their
-ways; but he stands before the world to-day as
-the foremost interpreter of American ideas and
-American temper of thought as they then existed.</p>
-
-<p>In the thirty years since the death of Abraham
-Lincoln the country has been inundated with foreign
-blood. Irish, Germans, English, Poles, and
-Scandinavians, mainly of the pauper or peasant
-class, have landed in large numbers, settled in
-one State or another, and become a part of the
-population. The West, at the time of the Civil
-War, was chiefly occupied by settlers of New
-England or Eastern stock&mdash;pioneers from the
-older cities and towns who had sought fortune
-and a freer life in the new territory of prairies
-and unappropriated domain. The population of
-the whole country to-day bears many different
-strains of blood in its veins. The original settlers
-have chiefly prospered. The sons of those who
-split rails or followed kindred occupations in the
-fifties, and listened to the debates between Lincoln
-and Douglas, are the proprietors of Chicago,
-Denver, Cincinnati, Minneapolis, and Topeka.
-Johann Heintz now follows the plough and in
-turn squirts tobacco-juice while he tills the prairie;<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_298" id="Page_298">[298]</a></span>
-and Louis Levinsky, Paul Petrinoff, and
-Michael O’Neil forge the plough-shares, dig in
-the mine, or work in the factory side by side with
-John Smith and any descendant of Paul Revere
-who has failed to prosper in life’s battle. But this
-is not all. Not merely are the plain people in the
-dilemma of being unable to pronounce the names
-of their neighbors, but the same is getting to be
-true of the well-to-do merchants and tradespeople
-of many of our cities. The argus-eyed commercial
-foreigner has marked us for his own, and his
-kith and kin are to-day coming into possession
-of our drygoods establishments, our restaurants,
-our cigar stores, our hotels, our old furniture
-haunts, our theatres, our jewelry shops, and what
-not. One has merely to open a directory in order
-to find the names in any leading branch of trade
-plentifully larded with Adolph Stein, Simon Levi,
-Gustave Cohen, or something ending in berger.
-They sell our wool; they float our loans; they
-manufacture our sugar, our whiskey, and our
-beer; they influence Congress. They are here
-for what they can make, and they do not waste
-their time in sentiment. They did not come in
-time to reap the original harvest, but they have
-blown across the ocean to help the free-born<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_299" id="Page_299">[299]</a></span>
-American spend his money in the process of trying
-to out-civilize Paris and London. As a consequence,
-the leading wholesale and retail ornamental
-industries of New York and of some of
-our Western cities are in the grip of individuals
-whose surnames have a foreign twang. Of course,
-they have a right to be here; it is a free country,
-and no one can say them nay. But we must take
-them and their wives and daughters, their customs
-and their opinions, into consideration in
-making an estimate of who are the Americans of
-the present. They have not come here for their
-health, as the phrase is, but they have come to
-stay. We at present, in our social hunger and
-thirst, supply the grandest and dearest market
-of the world for the disposal of everything beautiful
-and costly and artistic which the Old World
-possesses, and all the shopkeepers of Europe,
-with the knowledge of generations on the tips
-of their tongues and in the corners of their brains,
-have come over to coin dowries for their daughters
-in the land of the free and the home of the
-brave. Many of them have already made large
-fortunes in the process, and are beginning to con
-the pages of the late Ward McAllister’s book on
-etiquette with a view to social aggressiveness.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_300" id="Page_300">[300]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>Despite this infusion of foreign blood, the native
-stock and the Anglo-Saxon nomenclature are
-still, of course, predominant in numbers. There
-are some portions of the country where the late
-immigrant is scarcely to be found. True also is
-it that these late-comers, like the immigrants of
-fifty years ago, have generally been prompt in
-appropriating the independent and energetic
-spirit typical of our people. But there is a significant
-distinction to be borne in mind in this
-connexion: The independent energy of the
-Americans of fifty years ago, whether in the East
-or among the pioneers of the Western frontier,
-was not, however crude its manifestations, mere
-bombastic assertiveness, but the expression of a
-faith and the expression of strong character.
-They were often ignorant, conceited, narrow,
-hard, and signally inartistic; but they stood for
-principle and right as they saw and believed it;
-they cherished ideals; they were firm as adamant
-in their convictions; and God talked with them
-whether in the store or workshop, or at the
-plough. This was essentially true of the rank
-and file of the people, no less true and perhaps
-more true of the humblest citizens than of the
-well-to-do and prominent.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_301" id="Page_301">[301]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>There can be little doubt that the foreign element
-which is now a part of the American people
-represents neither a faith nor the expression
-of ideals or convictions. The one, and the largest
-portion of it, is the overflow and riff-raff of the
-so-called proletariat of Europe; the other is
-the evidence of a hyena-like excursion for the
-purposes of plunder. In order to be a good
-American it is not enough to become independent
-and energetic. The desire to make the most
-of one’s self is a relative term; it must proceed
-from principle and be nourished by worthy, ethical
-aims; otherwise it satisfies itself with paltry
-conditions, or with easy-going florid materialism.
-The thieving and venality in municipal political
-affairs of the Irish-American, the dull squalor and
-brutish contentment of the Russian-Pole, and the
-commercial obliquity of vision and earthy ambitions
-of the German Jew, are factors in our
-national life which are totally foreign to the
-Americanism for which Abraham Lincoln stood.
-We have opened our gates to a horde of economic
-ruffians and malcontents, ethical bankrupts
-and social thugs, and we must needs be on our
-guard lest their aims and point of view be so
-engrafted on the public conscience as to sap the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_302" id="Page_302">[302]</a></span>
-vital principles which are the foundation of our
-strength as a people. The danger from this source
-is all the greater from the fact that the point of
-view of the American people has been changed
-so radically during the last thirty years as a
-secondary result of our material prosperity. We
-have ceased to be the austere nation we once
-were, and we have sensibly let down the bars in
-the manner of our living; we have recognized
-the value of, and we enjoy, many things which
-our fathers put from them as inimical to republican
-virtue and demoralizing to society. Contact
-with older civilizations has made us wiser and
-more appreciative, and with this growth of perspective
-and the acquirement of an eye for color
-has come a liberality of sentiment which threatens
-to debauch us unless we are careful. There are
-many, especially among the wealthy and fashionable,
-who in their ecstasy over our emancipation
-are disposed to throw overboard everything which
-suggests the old <i lang="fr">régime</i>, and to introduce any custom
-which will tend to make life more easy-going
-and spectacular. And in this they are supported
-by the immigrant foreigner, who would be only
-too glad to see the land of his adoption made to
-conform in all its usages to the land of his birth.</p>
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_303" id="Page_303">[303]</a></span></p>
-
-<p>The conduct of life here has necessarily and
-beneficially been affected by the almost general
-recognition that we have not a monopoly of all
-the virtues, and by the adoption of many customs
-and points of view recommended by cosmopolitan
-experience. The American people still
-believe, however, that our civilization is not
-merely a repetition of the older ones, and a duplication
-on new soil of the old social tread-mill.
-That it must be so in a measure every one will
-admit, but we still insist, and most of us believe,
-that we are to point the way to a new dispensation.
-We believe, but at the same time when we
-stop to think we find some difficulty in specifying
-exactly what we are doing to justify the
-faith. It is easy enough to get tangled up in
-the stars and stripes and cry “hurrah!” and to
-thrust the American eagle down the throats of a
-weary universe, but it is quite another to command
-the admiration of the world by behavior
-commensurate with our ambition and self-confidence.
-Our forefathers could point to their own
-nakedness as a proof of their greatness, but there
-seems to be some danger that we, now that we
-have clothed ourselves&mdash;and clothed ourselves
-as expensively as possible and not always in the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_304" id="Page_304">[304]</a></span>
-best taste&mdash;will forget the ideas and ideals for
-which those fathers stood, and let ourselves be
-seduced by the specious doctrine that human
-nature is always human nature, and that all civilizations
-are alike. To be sure, an American now
-is apt to look and act like any other rational mortal,
-and there is no denying that the Atlantic
-cable and ocean greyhound have brought the
-nations of the world much closer together than
-they ever were before; but this merely proves
-that we can become just like the others, only
-worse, in case we choose to. But we intend to
-improve upon them.</p>
-
-<p>To those who believe that we are going to
-improve upon them it must be rather an edifying
-spectacle to observe the doings and sayings
-of that body of people in the city of New York
-who figure in the newspapers of the day as “the
-four hundred,” “the smart set,” or “the fashionable
-world.” After taking into full account the
-claims of the sensitive city of Chicago, it may
-be truthfully stated that the city of New York
-is the Paris of America. There are other municipalities
-which are doing their best in their several
-ways to rival her, but it is toward New York
-that all the eyes in the country are turned, and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_305" id="Page_305">[305]</a></span>
-from which they take suggestion as a cat laps
-milk. The rest of us are in a measure provincial.
-Many of us profess not to approve of New
-York, but, though we cross ourselves piously,
-we take or read a New York daily paper. New
-York gives the cue alike to the Secretary of the
-Treasury and (by way of London) to the social
-swell. The ablest men in the country seek New
-York as a market for their brains, and the wealthiest
-people of the country move to New York
-to spend the patrimony which their rail-splitting
-fathers or grandfathers accumulated. Therefore
-it is perfectly just to refer to the social life of
-New York as representative of that element of
-the American people which has been most blessed
-with brains or fortune, and as representative of
-our most highly evolved civilization. It ought to
-be our best. The men and women who contribute
-to its movement and influence ought to be
-the pick of the country. But what do we find?
-We find as the ostensible leaders of New York
-society a set of shallow worldlings whose whole
-existence is given up to emulating one another
-in elaborate and splendid inane social fripperies.
-They dine and wine and dance and entertain from
-January to December. Their houses, whether in<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_306" id="Page_306">[306]</a></span>
-town or at the fashionable watering-places to
-which they move in summer, are as sumptuous,
-if not more so, than those of the French nobility
-in its palmiest days, and their energies are
-devoted to the discovery of new expensive luxuries
-and fresh titillating creature comforts. That
-such a body of people should exist in this country
-after little more than a century of democratic
-institutions is extraordinary, but much more extraordinary
-is the absorbing interest which a large
-portion of the American public takes in the doings
-and sayings of this fashionable rump. There
-is the disturbing feature of the case. Whatever
-these worldlings do is flashed over the entire
-country, and is copied into a thousand newspapers
-as being of vital concern to the health and
-home of the nation. The editors print it because
-it is demanded; because they have found that
-the free-born American citizen is keenly solicitous
-to know “what is going on in society,” and
-that he or she follows with almost feverish interest
-and with open-mouthed absorption the
-spangled and jewelled annual social circus parade
-which goes on in the Paris of America. The public
-is indifferently conscious that underneath this
-frothy upper-crust in New York there is a large<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_307" id="Page_307">[307]</a></span>
-number of the ablest men and women of the
-country by whose activities the great educational,
-philanthropic, and artistic enterprises of the day
-have been fostered, promoted, and made successful;
-but this consciousness pales into secondary
-importance in the democratic mind as compared
-with realistic details concerning this ball
-and that dinner-party where thousands of dollars
-are poured out in vulgar extravagance, or
-concerning the cost of the wedding-presents, the
-names and toilettes of the guests, and the number
-of bottles of champagne opened at the marriage
-of some millionaire’s daughter.</p>
-
-<p>No wonder that this aristocracy of ours plumes
-itself on its importance, and takes itself seriously
-when it finds its slightest doings telegraphed
-from the Atlantic to the Pacific. It feels itself
-called to new efforts, for it understands with native
-shrewdness that the American people requires
-novelty and fresh entertainment, or it
-looks elsewhere. Accordingly it is beginning to
-be unfaithful to its marriage vows. Until within
-a recent period the husbands and wives of this
-vapid society have, much to the bewilderment
-of warm-blooded students of manners and morals,
-been satisfied to flirt and produce the appearance<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_308" id="Page_308">[308]</a></span>
-of infidelity, and yet only pretend. Now
-the divorce court and the whispered or public
-scandal bear frequent testimony to the fact that
-it is not so fashionable or “smart” as it used to
-be merely to make believe.</p>
-
-<p>Was there ever a foreign court, when foreign
-courts were in their glory, where men and women
-were content merely to whisper and giggle
-behind a rubber-tree in order to appear vicious?
-It may be said at least that some of our fashionables
-have learned to be men and women instead
-of mere simpering marionettes. Still there was
-originality in being simpering marionettes: Marital
-infidelity has been the favorite excitement of
-every rotten aristocracy which the world has
-ever seen.</p>
-
-<hr />
-
-<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_309" id="Page_309">[309]</a></span></p>
-
-<div class="chapter">
-
-<h2>The <i>Conduct of Life</i>.</h2>
-
-<h3>II.</h3>
-
-</div>
-
-<div>
-<img class="dropcap" src="images/dropcap-a-2.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="" />
-</div>
-
-<p class="dropcap">A manner of life of this description
-can scarcely be the ideal of the
-American people. Certainly neither
-George Washington, when he delivered
-his farewell address, nor Abraham Lincoln,
-on the occasion of his second inaugural, looked
-forward to the evolution of any such aristocracy
-as the fulfilment of the nation’s hopes. And yet
-this coterie of people has its representatives in
-all the large cities of the country, and there is
-no reason to doubt that in a short time the example
-set will be imitated to some extent, at
-least, and that one portion of the country will
-vie with another in extravagant social vanities
-and prodigal display on the part of a pleasure-seeking
-leisure class.</p>
-
-<p>Most of these people go to church, and, indeed,
-some of them are ostensibly regardful of
-church functions and ceremonies, and, as they
-do not openly violate any laws so as to subject
-themselves to terms of imprisonment, the patriotic
-American citizen finds himself able merely
-to frown by way of showing his dissatisfaction<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_310" id="Page_310">[310]</a></span>
-at this form of high treason against the morals
-and aims of democracy. To frown and to be
-grateful that one is not like certain pleasure-seeking
-millionaires is not much of a comfort,
-especially when it is obvious that the ignorant
-and semi-ignorant mass is fascinated by the extravagances
-and worldly manifestations of the individuals
-in question, and has made them its heroes
-on account of their unadulterated millions.
-Indeed, the self-respecting, patriotic American
-citizen finds himself to-day veritably between
-Scylla and Charybdis in the matter of the conduct
-of life. We are no longer the almost homogeneous
-nation we were fifty years ago. There
-are far greater extremes of wealth and poverty.
-Our economic conditions, or at least the conditions
-which exist in our principal cities, are closely
-approximating those which exist in the cities of
-the Old World. Outside of our cities the people
-for the most part live in respectable comfort by
-the practice of what passes in America for economy,
-which may be defined as a high but ignorant
-moral purpose negatived by waste and domestic
-incompetence. It has always been true of
-our beloved country that, though the ship of
-state has seemed on the point of floundering<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_311" id="Page_311">[311]</a></span>
-from time to time, disaster has invariably been
-averted at critical junctures by the saving grace
-of the common-sense and right-mindedness of
-the American people. This is not so complimentary
-as it sounds. It really means that the average
-sense and intelligence of the public is apt to
-be in the wrong at the outset, and to be converted
-to the right only after many days and
-much tribulation. In other words, our safety and
-our progress have been the result of a slow and
-often reluctant yielding of opinion by the mass
-to the superior judgment of a minority. This is
-merely another way of stating that, where every
-one has a right to individual opinion, and there
-are no arbitrary standards of conduct or of anything
-else outside the statute law, the mean is
-likely to fall far short of what is best. Our salvation
-in every instance of national perplexity
-has been the effectual working on the public conscience
-of the leaven of the best Americanism.
-A comparatively small proportion of the population
-have been the pioneers in thought and suggestion
-of subsequent ardent espousals by the
-entire public. This leaven, in the days when we
-were more homogeneous, was made up from all
-the elements of society; or, in other words, the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_312" id="Page_312">[312]</a></span>
-best Americanism drew its representatives from
-every condition of life; the farmer of the Western
-prairie was just as likely to tower above his
-fellows and become a torch-bearer as the merchant
-or mechanic of the city.</p>
-
-<p>If we as a nation have needed a leaven in the
-past, we certainly have no less need of one to-day,
-now that we are in the flush of material prosperity
-and consciousness of power. Fortunately we
-have one. The public-spirited, nobly independent,
-earnest, conscientious, ambitious American
-exists to-day as indisputably and unmistakably
-as ever, and he is a finer specimen of humanity
-than he used to be, for he knows more and he
-poses much less. It is safe to assert, too, that he
-is still to be found in every walk of our national
-life. The existence of an aggravating and frivolous
-aristocracy on the surface, and an ignorant, unæsthetic
-mass underneath should not blind us to
-the fact that there is a sound core to our social
-system. The hope of the United States to-day
-lies in that large minority of the people who are
-really trying to solve the problems of life from
-more than a merely selfish standpoint. One has
-merely to think a moment in order to realize
-what a really numerous and significant body<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_313" id="Page_313">[313]</a></span>
-among us is endeavoring to promote the cause
-of American civilization by aspiring or decent
-behavior. Our clergymen, our lawyers, our doctors,
-our architects, our merchants, our teachers,
-some of our editors, our bankers, our scientists,
-our scholars, and our philanthropists, at once
-stand out as a generally sane and earnest force
-of citizens. The great educational, charitable, artistic,
-and other undertakings which have been
-begun and splendidly completed by individual
-energy and liberality since the death of Abraham
-Lincoln, bespeak eloquently the temper of a certain
-portion of the community. If it be true that
-the so-called aristocracy of New York City threatens
-the repute and sincerity of democracy by its
-heartlessness and unworthy attempts to ape the
-vices of a fifteenth-century European nobility,
-New York can fairly retort that it offers in its
-working force of well-to-do people the most vital,
-interesting, sympathetic, and effective force
-of men and women in the nation. If the Paris of
-America contains the most dangerous element
-of society, it also contains an element which is
-equal to the best elsewhere, and is more attractive
-than any. The New York man or woman
-who is in earnest is sure to accomplish something,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_314" id="Page_314">[314]</a></span>
-for he or she is not likely to be handicapped
-by ignorant provincialism of ethics or art
-which plays havoc with many of the good intentions
-of the rest of the country.</p>
-
-<p>This versatile and interesting leaven of American
-society finds its counterpart, to a greater or
-less extent, in every section of the United States,
-but it is nowhere quite so attractive as in the Paris
-of America, for the reason that nowhere does the
-pulse of life move so keenly as there, and nowhere
-is the science of living absorbingly so well
-understood. The art of living has there reached
-a more interesting phase than in any part of
-America, if zest in life and the facilities to make
-the most of it are regarded as the test.</p>
-
-<p>This may sound worldly. The people of the
-United States used to consider it worldly to
-admire pictures or to listen to beautiful music.
-Some think so still. Many a citizen of what was
-lately the prairie sits down to his dinner in his
-shirt-sleeves to-day and pretends to be thankful
-that he is neither an aristocrat nor a gold-bug.
-The next week, perhaps, this same citizen will
-vote against a national bankrupt law because he
-does not wish to pay his debts, or vote for a bill
-which will enable him to pay them in depreciated<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_315" id="Page_315">[315]</a></span>
-currency. Many a clergyman who knows better
-gives his flock consolingly to understand that to
-be absorbed in the best human interests of life
-is unworthy of the Christian, and that to be ordinary
-and unattractive is a legitimate condition
-of mind and body. Surely the best Americanism
-is the Americanism of the man or woman who
-makes the most of what this life affords, and
-throws himself or herself keenly into the thick
-of it. The art of living is the science of living
-nobly and well, and how can one live either nobly
-or well by regarding life on the earth as a
-mere log-cabin existence? If we in this country
-who seek to live wisely are in danger from the
-extravagant vanities of the very rich, we are
-scarcely less menaced by that narrow spirit of
-ethical teaching which tries to inculcate that it
-does not much matter what our material surroundings
-are, and that any progress made by
-society, except in the direction of sheer morality,
-is a delusion and a snare.</p>
-
-<p>Character is the basis and the indispensable requisite
-of the finest humanity; without it refinement,
-appreciation, manners, fancy, and power
-of expression are like so many boughs on a tree
-which is dead. But, on the other hand, what is<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_316" id="Page_316">[316]</a></span>
-more uninspiring than an unadorned soul? That
-kind of virtue and morality which finds no interest
-in the affairs of this life is but a fresh contribution
-to the sum of human incompetence,
-and but serves to retard the progress of civilization.
-The true and the chief reason why there is
-less misery in the world than formerly is that
-men understand better how to live. That straight-laced
-type of American, who is content to be
-moral in his own narrow way, and to exclude
-from his scheme of life all those interests which
-serve to refine and to inspire, bears the same relation
-to the ideal man or woman that a chromo
-bears to a masterpiece of painting.</p>
-
-<p>We have no standards in this country. The
-individual is free to express himself here within
-the law in any way he sees fit, and the conduct
-of life comes always at last to an equation of the
-individual. Each one of us when we awake in
-the morning finds the problem of existence staring
-him anew in the face, and cannot always spare
-the time to remember that he is an American.
-And yet Americanism is the sum total of what
-all of us are. It will be very easy for us simply
-to imitate the civilizations of the past, but if our
-civilization is to stand for anything vital, and to<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_317" id="Page_317">[317]</a></span>
-be a step forward in the progress of humanity,
-we must do more than use the old combinations
-and devices of society in a new kaleidoscopic
-form. Our heritage as Americans is independence,
-originality, self-reliance, and sympathetic
-energy animated by a strong ethical instinct, and
-these are forces which can produce a higher
-and a broader civilization than the world has yet
-seen if we choose to have it so. But it is no
-longer a matter of cutting down forests and opening
-mines, of boasting beside the plough and
-building cities in a single year, of fabulous fortunes
-won in a trice, and of favorite sons in black
-broadcloth all the year round. It is a matter of
-a vast, populous country and a powerful, seething
-civilization where the same problems confront
-us which have taxed the minds and souls of the
-Old World for generations of men. It is for our
-originality to throw new light upon them, and
-it is for our independence to face them in the
-spirit of a deeper sympathy with humanity, and
-free from the canker of that utter selfishness
-which has made the prosperity and glory of other
-great nations culminate so often in a decadence
-of degrading luxury and fruitless culture.</p>
-
-<p>No civilization which regards the blessings and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_318" id="Page_318">[318]</a></span>
-comforts of refined living as unworthy to be
-striven for and appropriated can hope to promote
-the cause of humanity. On the other hand,
-we Americans must remember that purely selfish
-appropriation and appreciation of these blessings
-and comforts has worked the ruin of the most
-famous civilizations of the past. Marie Antoinette
-was more elegant than the most fashionable
-woman in New York, and yet that did not save
-her from the tumbrel and the axe. The best
-Americanism of to-day and for the future is that
-which shall seek to use the fruits of the earth
-and the fulness thereof, and to develop all the
-manifestations of art and gentle living in the interest
-of humanity as a whole. But even heartless
-elegance is preferable to that self-righteous
-commonness of spirit which sits at home in its
-shirt-sleeves and is graceless, ascetic, and unimaginative
-in the name of God.</p>
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