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+*** START OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK 44071 ***
+
+Transcribers Note: The typesetting in the book was poor, all errors
+have been retained as printed.
+
+
+
+ [Illustration: G. L. Brown. S. Schoff.
+
+ LANDING OF THE PILGRIMS AT PLIMOUTH 11th. DEC. 1620.]
+
+
+
+
+ THE
+ SIN AND DANGER
+ OF
+ SELF-LOVE
+ DESCRIBED,
+ IN A
+ SERMON
+ PREACHED
+ AT PLYMOUTH, IN NEW-ENGLAND, 1621,
+ BY
+ ROBERT CUSHMAN.
+
+ WITH A MEMOIR OF THE AUTHOR.
+
+ BOSTON:
+ PUBLISHED BY CHARLES EWER,
+ AND FOR SALE BY CROCKER & BREWSTER, SAMUEL G. DRAKE,
+ LITTLE & BROWN, JAMES MUNROE & COMPANY,
+ BENJAMIN PERKINS, AND JAMES LORING.
+
+ DEC. 22, 1846.
+
+
+
+
+ BIOGRAPHICAL SKETCH,
+ BY
+ HON. JOHN DAVIS,
+
+ LATE JUDGE OF THE U. S. DISTRICT COURT, MASSACHUSETTS DISTRICT.
+
+
+ROBERT CUSHMAN, the author of the preceding discourse, was one
+of the most distinguished characters among that collection of
+worthies, who quitted England on account of their religious
+difficulties, and settled with Mr. _John Robinson_, their pastor
+in the city of Leyden, in Holland, in the year 1609. Proposing
+afterwards a removal to America in the year 1617, Mr. Cushman and
+Mr. John Carver, (afterwards the first Governor of New-Plymouth)
+were sent over to England, as their agents, to agree with the
+Virginia Company for a settlement, and to obtain, if possible, a
+grant of liberty of conscience in their intended plantation, from
+King James.
+
+From this negotiation though conducted on their part with great
+discretion and ability, they returned unsuccessful to Leyden, in
+May 1618. They met with no difficulty indeed with the Virginia
+Company, who were willing to grant them sufficient territory, with
+as ample privileges as they could bestow: but the pragmatical
+James, the pretended vicegerent of the Deity, refused to grant
+them that liberty in religious matters, which was their principal
+object--when this persevering people finally determined to
+transport themselves to this country, relying upon James's promise
+that he would _connive_ at, though not expressly _tolerate_ them;
+Mr. Cushman was again dispatched to England in February 1619, with
+Mr. William Bradford, another of the company, to agree with the
+Virginia Company on the terms of their removal and settlement.
+
+After much difficulty and delay, they obtained a patent in the
+September following, upon which part of the Church at Leyden, with
+their Elder Mr. Brewster determined to transport themselves as
+soon as possible. Mr. Cushman was one of the agents in England to
+procure money, shipping and other necessaries for the voyage, and
+finally embarked with them at South-Hampton, August 5th, 1620.
+But the ship, in which he sailed, proving leaky, and after twice
+putting into port to repair, being finally condemned as unfit to
+perform the voyage, Mr. Cushman with his family, and a number of
+others were obliged, though reluctantly, to relinquish the voyage
+for that time and returned to London. Those in the other ship
+proceeded and made their final settlement at Plymouth in December
+1620, where Mr. Cushman also arrived in the ship Fortune from
+London, on the 10th of November 1621, but took passage in the
+same ship back again, pursuant to the directions of the merchant
+adventurers in London, (who fitted out the ship and by whose
+assistance the first settlers were transported) to give them an
+account of the plantation.[A] He sailed from Plymouth December
+13th, 1621, and arriving on the coast of England, the ship, with
+a cargo, valued at 500l. sterling, was taken by the French. Mr.
+Cushman, with the crew, was carried into France; but arrived in
+London in the February following. During his short residence at
+Plymouth, though a mere lay character, he delivered the preceding
+discourse, which was printed in London in 1622, and afterwards
+re-printed in Boston in 1724. And though his name is not prefixed
+to either edition, yet unquestionable tradition renders it certain
+that he was the author, and even transmits to us a knowledge of
+the spot where it was delivered. Mr. Cushman, though he constantly
+corresponded with his friends here, and was very serviceable to
+their interest in London--never returned to the country again, but
+while preparing for it was removed to a better, in the year 1626.
+The news of his death and Mr. Robinson's arrived at the same time
+at Plymouth, by Captain Standish, and seem to have been equally
+lamented by their bereaved and suffering friends there. He was
+zealously engaged in the prosperity of the plantation, a man of
+activity and enterprise, well versed in business, respectable in
+point of intellectual abilities, well accomplished in scriptural
+knowledge, an unaffected professor, and a steady sincere practiser
+of religion. The design of the following discourse was to keep up
+the noble flow of public spirit, which perhaps began then to abate,
+but which was necessary for their preservation and security.
+
+[Footnote A: It seems to be a mistaken idea that Mr. Cushman
+started in the smaller vessel, which put back on account of its
+proving leaky. This mistake has arisen from the fact that Mr. C.
+was left in England in 1620, and did not come over in the Mayflower
+with the first emigrants. The fact is that Mr. Cushman procured
+'the larger vessel,' the Mayflower, and its pilot at London and
+left in that vessel; but in consequence of the unsoundness of the
+smaller vessel, the Speedwell, it became necessary that part of
+the pilgrims should be left behind, and consequently Mr. Cushman,
+whom Gov. Bradford called 'the right hand with the adventurers,'
+and who 'for divers years had managed all our business with them to
+our great advantage,' was selected as one who would be best able
+to keep together that portion of the flock left behind. Although
+Mr. Cushman did not come over in the Mayflower, yet such was the
+respect for him among those who did come, that his name is placed
+at the head of those who came in that ship, in the allotment of
+land at a time when he was not in New England.
+ N. B. S.]
+
+After the death of Mr. Cushman, his family came over to New
+England. His son, Thomas Cushman, succeeded Mr. Brewster, as ruling
+elder of the Church of Plymouth, being ordained to that office
+in 1649. He was a man of good gifts, and frequently assisted in
+carrying on the public worship, preaching, and catechising. For it
+was one professed principle of that Church, in its first formation,
+'to choose none for governing Elders, but such as were able to
+teach.' He continued in this office till he died, in 1691, in the
+eighty-fourth year of his age.
+
+
+
+
+ LETTER FROM JUDGE DAVIS.
+
+
+ BOSTON, DEC. 21, 1846.
+
+DEAR SIR:
+
+Having communicated to me your intention of publishing a new
+edition of Robert Cushman's memorable discourse, delivered in
+Plymouth, 1621, together with the memoir of the author, which I
+prepared for the edition printed by Nathaniel Coverly in Plymouth,
+in 1785; I take the liberty to advise you to follow for your
+purpose that copy of the memoir which was inserted by the Rev. Dr.
+Belknap in the second volume of his American Biography, with the
+addition of some particulars respecting the family, especially of
+elder Thomas Cushman, son of Robert Cushman, and who, like his
+father, was held in high esteem by all his cotemporaries.
+
+The original memoir prepared for the Plymouth edition, was
+anonymous. My highly esteemed friend the Rev. Dr. Belknap, in
+giving it a place in his valuable work was pleased to announce the
+name of the writer.
+
+The remarks on the discourse originally accompanying the memoir,
+were prompted by views supposed to have been adopted by the
+Plymouth pioneers respecting property and civil polity, in which
+I was afterwards convinced I had made a mistake. I had adopted an
+opinion corresponding with that of Dr. Robertson and other writers,
+that misguided by their religious theories and in imitation of the
+primitive christians, they voluntarily threw all their property
+into a common stock. And that their difficulties and embarrassments
+were greatly enhanced by adopting, and perseveringly adhering to an
+impracticable system. But further inquiry induced the conviction
+that this conjecture was erroneous, and that the severe pressure
+they experienced, was in a great degree produced by the operation
+of their articles of agreement with the adventurers in England,
+which established a community of interest for seven years, and
+prevented the holding in severalty the fruits of their industry
+and enterprise.
+
+These views of the subject, and an acknowledgement of my previous
+mistake, were expressed in a discourse delivered at Plymouth, in
+the year 1800, on the anniversary of the landing of the fathers.
+The Rev. Mr. Abbot of Beverly, afterwards, on a like occasion,
+without any knowledge of the contents of that discourse, which was
+not published, was led in his investigation of the subject, into
+a similar conclusion, and fully vindicated the pilgrims from the
+censures which had been expressed relative to this branch of their
+proceedings. The onerous connection with the merchant adventurers
+remained until 1627, when an amicable and satisfactory settlement
+was made with them by a purchase of all their interest in the
+concern. The sum contracted to be given for this purchase, was 1800
+pounds sterling, payable by instalments of 200 pounds annually.
+
+Thus says Governor Bradford in one of his letters:
+
+ "All now is become our own, as we say in the proverb,
+ when our debts are paid. And doubtless this was a great
+ mercy of God unto us, and a great means of peace and
+ better subsistence, and wholly dashed all the plots and
+ devices of our enemies, both there and here, who daily
+ expected our ruin, dispersion and utter subversion by the
+ same; but their hopes were thus far prevented though with
+ great care and labor, we were left to struggle with the
+ payment of the money."
+
+Under these impressions I think it will be well for you to omit
+the insertion of the remarks above mentioned on Mr. Cushman's
+discourse. That discourse is a precious relic of ancient times,
+the sound sense, good advice, and pious spirit, which it manifests,
+will, it may be hoped, now, and in all future time, meet with
+approval and beneficial acceptance in our community.
+
+The information contained in the note of your correspondent
+respecting Mr. Cushman's embarcation, and the assignment of land
+made to him in the colony, is believed to be correct.
+
+ _Respectfully Your Ob't. Servant_,
+ J. DAVIS.
+
+ To CHARLES EWER, Esq.
+
+
+
+
+ TO HIS LOVING FRIENDS THE ADVENTURERS FOR NEW-ENGLAND.
+
+ TOGETHER
+ WITH ALL WELL-WILLERS, AND WELL-WISHERS THEREUNTO,
+ GRACE AND PEACE, &C.
+
+
+NEW-ENGLAND, so called, not only (to avoid novelties) because
+Captain _Smith_ hath so entitled it in his Description, but because
+of the resemblance that is in it, of _England_ the native soil of
+Englishmen; it being much what the same for heat and cold in Summer
+and Winter, it being champaign ground, but no high mountains,
+somewhat like the soil in _Kent_ and _Essex_; full of dales, and
+meadow ground, full of rivers and sweet springs, as _England_ is.
+But principally, so far as we can yet find, it is an island, and
+near about the quantity of _England_, being cut out from the main
+land in _America_, as _England_ is from the main of _Europe_, by a
+great arm of the sea, which entereth in forty degrees, and runneth
+up North West and by West, and goeth out either into the South-Sea,
+or else into the Bay of _Canada_. The certainty whereof, and
+secrets of which, we have not yet so found as that as eye-witnesses
+we can make narration thereof, but if God give time and means, we
+shall, ere long, discover both the extent of that river, together
+with the secrets thereof; and so try what territories, habitations,
+or commodities, may be found, either in it, or about it.
+
+It pertaineth not to my purpose to speak any thing either in
+praise, or dispraise of the country; so it is by God's Providence,
+that a few of us are there planted to our content, and have with
+great charge and difficulty attained quiet and competent dwellings
+there. And thus much I will say for the satisfaction of such as
+have any thought of going hither to inhabit? That for men which
+have a large heart, and look after great riches, ease, pleasures,
+dainties, and jollity in this world (except they will live by other
+men's sweat, or have great riches) I would not advise them to come
+there, for as yet the country will afford no such matters: But if
+there be any who are content to lay out their estates, spend their
+time, labors, and endeavors, for the benefit of them that shall
+come after, and in desire to further the gospel among those poor
+heathens, quietly contenting themselves with such hardship and
+difficulties, as by God's Providence shall fall upon them, being
+yet young, and in their strength, such men I would advise and
+encourage to go, for their ends cannot fail them.
+
+And if it should please God to punish his people in the Christian
+countries of _Europe_, (for their coldness, carnality, wanton
+abuse of the Gospel, contention, &c.) either by Turkish slavery,
+or by popish tyranny which God forbid, yet if the time be come,
+or shall come (as who knoweth) when Satan shall be let loose to
+cast out his floods against them, (_Rev._ 12. 14. 15.) here is a
+way opened for such as have wings to fly into this wilderness; and
+as by the dispersion of the Jewish church through persecution,
+the Lord brought in the fulness of the Gentiles, (_Act._ 11. 20,
+21.) so who knoweth, whether now by tyranny and affliction, he
+suffereth to come upon them, he will not by little and little chase
+them even amongst the heathens, that so a light may rise up in the
+dark, (_Luke_ 2. 32.) and the kingdom of Heaven be taken from them
+which now have it, and given to a people that shall bring forth the
+fruit of it. (_Mat._ 21. 43.) This I leave to the judgment of the
+godly wise, being neither prophet nor son of a prophet, (_Amos_ 7.
+14.) but considering God's dealing of old, (_2 Kings_ 17, 23.) and
+seeing the name of Christian to be very great, but the true nature
+thereof almost quite lost in all degrees and sects, I cannot think
+but that there is some judgment not far off, and that God will
+shortly, even of stones, raise up children unto _Abraham_. (_Mat._
+3. 5.)
+
+And who so rightly considereth what manner of entrance, abiding,
+and proceedings, we have had among these poor heathens since we
+came hither, will easily think, that God has some great work to do
+towards them.
+
+They were wont to be the most cruel and treacherous people in all
+these parts, even like lions, but to us they have been like lambs,
+so kind, so submissive, and trusty, as a man may truly say, many
+christians are not so kind, nor sincere.
+
+They were very much wasted of late, by reason of a great mortality
+that fell amongst them three years since, which together with their
+own civil dissentions and bloody wars, hath so wasted them, as I
+think the twentieth person is scarce left alive, and those that
+are left, have their courage much abated, and their countenance is
+dejected, and they seem as a people affrighted. And though when
+we came first into the Country, we were few, and many of us were
+sick, and many died by reason of the cold and wet, it being the
+depth of winter, and we having no houses, nor shelter, yet when
+there was not six able persons among us, and that they came daily
+to us by hundreds, with their _sachems_ or _kings_, and might in
+one hour have made a dispatch of us, yet such a fear was upon them,
+as that they never offered us the least injury in word or deed.
+And by reason of one _Tisquanto_, that lives amongst us, that can
+speak English, we have daily commerce with their kings, and can
+know what is done or intended towards us among the savages; also
+we can acquaint them with our courses and purposes, both human
+and religious. And the greatest commander of the country, called
+_Massasoit_, cometh often to visit us, tho' he lives 50 miles from
+us, often sends us presents, he having with many other of their
+governors, promised, yea, subscribed obedience to our sovereign
+Lord King James, and for his cause to spend both strength and life.
+And we for our parts, through God's grace, have with that equity,
+justice, and compassion, carried ourselves towards them, as that
+they have received much favor, help, and aid from us, but never the
+least injury or wrong by us.[A] We found the place where we live
+empty, the people being all dead and gone away, and none living
+near by 8 or 10 miles; and though in the time of some hardship we
+found (travelling abroad) near 8 bushels of corn hid up in a cave,
+and knew no owners of it, yet afterwards hearing of the owners of
+it, we gave them (in their estimation) double the value of it. Our
+care hath been to maintain peace amongst them, and have always set
+ourselves against such of them as used any rebellion, or treachery
+against their governors, and not only threatened such, but in some
+sort paid them their due deserts; and when any of them are in want,
+as often they are in the winter, when their corn is done, we supply
+them to our power, and have them in our houses eating and drinking,
+and warming themselves, which thing (though it be something a
+trouble to us) yet because they should see and take knowledge of
+our labors, order and diligence, both for this life and a better,
+we are content to bear it, and we find in many of them, especially,
+of the younger sort, such a tractable disposition, both to religion
+and humanity, as that if we had means to apparel them, and wholly
+to retain them with us (as their desire is) they would doubtless
+in time prove serviceable to God and man, and if ever God send us
+means we will bring up hundreds of their children, both to labor
+and learning.
+
+[Footnote A: They offer us to dwell where we will.]
+
+But leaving to speak of them till a further occasion be offered; if
+any shall marvel at the publishing of this treatise in _England_,
+seeing there is no want of good books, but rather want of men to
+use good books, let them know, that the especial end is, that we
+may keep those motives in memory for ourselves, and those that
+shall come after, to be a remedy against self love the bane of
+all societies. And that we also might testify to our Christian
+countrymen, who judge diversly of us, that though we be in a
+heathen country, yet the grace of Christ is not quenched in us, but
+we still hold and teach the same points of faith, mortification,
+and sanctification, which we have heard and learned, in a most
+ample and large manner in our own country. If any shall think it
+too rude and unlearned for this curious age, let them know, that to
+paint out the Gospel in plain and flat English, amongst a company
+of plain Englishmen (as we are) is the best and most profitablest
+teaching; and we will study plainness, not curiosity, neither in
+things human, nor heavenly. If any error or unsoundness be in
+it, (as who knoweth) impute it to that frail man which endited
+it, which professeth to know nothing as he ought to know it. I
+have not set down my name, partly because I seek no name, and
+principally, because I would have nothing esteemed by names, for I
+see a number of evils to arise through names, when the persons are
+either famous, or infamous, and God and man is often injured; if
+any good or profit arise to thee in the receiving of it, give God
+the praise and esteem me as a son of _Adam_, subject to all such
+frailties as other men are.
+
+And you my loving friends the adventurers to this plantation; as
+your care has been, first to settle religion here, before either
+profit or popularity, so I pray you, go on, to do it much more, and
+be careful to send godly men, though they want some of that worldly
+policy which this world hath in her own generation, and so though
+you lose, the Lord shall gain. I rejoice greatly in your free and
+ready minds to your powers, yea, and beyond your powers to further
+this work, that you thus honor God with your riches, and I trust
+you shall be repayed again double and treble in this world, yea,
+and the memory of this action shall never die, but above all adding
+unto this (as I trust you do) like freeness in all other God's
+services both at home and abroad, you shall find reward with God,
+ten thousand-fold surpassing all that you can do or think; be not
+therefore discouraged, for no labor is lost, nor money spent which
+is bestowed for God, your ends were good, your success is good, and
+your profit is coming, even in this life, and in the life to come
+much more: and what shall I say now, a word to men of understanding
+sufficeth, pardon I pray you my boldness, read over the ensuing
+treatise, and judge wisely of the poor weakling, and the Lord, the
+God of land and sea, stretch out his arm of protection over you and
+us, and over all our lawful and good enterprizes, either this, or
+any other way.
+
+ _Plymouth in New-England, December 12, 1621._
+
+
+
+
+ A
+ SERMON
+ _Preached at_ PLYMOUTH, _in_ New England, 1621.
+
+
+ 1 CORINTHIANS, 10. 24.
+
+ LET NO MAN SEEK HIS OWN: BUT EVERY MAN ANOTHER'S WEALTH.
+
+The occasion of these words of the Apostle _Paul_, was because of
+the abuses which were in the Church of _Corinth_. Which abuses
+arose chiefly through swelling pride, self-love and conceitedness,
+for although this church was planted by _Paul_ and watered by
+_Apollos_, and much increased by the Lord; yet the sower of
+tares was not wanting to stir up evil workers and fleshly minded
+hypocrites, under a shew of godliness, and with angel-like holiness
+in appearance, to creep in amongst them to disturb their peace, try
+their soundness, and prove their constancy. And this the Apostle
+complains of very often: as first, in their carnal divisions, chap.
+1. then in their extolling their eloquent teachers, and despising
+_Paul_, chap. 4. Then in their offensive going to Law, before the
+heathen judges, chap. 6. Then in eating things offered to idols, to
+the destroying of the tender consciences of their brethren, chap.
+8. Then in their insatiable love feasts, in the time and place
+of their church meetings, the rich which could together feed to
+fulness, despising and contemning the poor, that had not to lay it
+on as they had, chap. 11. Finally in both the epistles, he very
+often nippeth them for their pride, and self-love, straitness and
+censoriousness, so that in the last chapter he willeth them again
+and again to prove, try and examine themselves, to see whether
+Christ were in them or not, for howsoever many of them seemed, as
+thousands do at this day to soar aloft, and go with full sail to
+Heaven: yet as men that row in boats, set their faces one way,
+when yet their whole body goeth apace another way: so there are
+many which set such a face upon religion, and have their mouth full
+of great swelling words: as if they would even blow open the doors
+of heaven, despising all humble minded and broken-hearted people,
+as weak, simple, sottish, &c. when yet notwithstanding, these
+blusterers, which seem to go so fast, and leave all others behind
+them, if like these glosing _Corinthians_, they carry affectedly
+their own glory with them, and seem thus to stand for the glory of
+God. What do they else but join flesh to spirit, serving not God
+for nought, but for wages, and so serving their bellies, whose end
+will be damnation, except a speedy and sound remedy be thought of,
+which remedy is even that which our Saviour teacheth the rich young
+gallant, and which _Paul_ here prescribeth, in willing them not to
+seek their own, but every man another's wealth, which physic is as
+terrible to carnal professors, as abstinence from drink is to a man
+that hath the dropsy; and it is a sure note, that a man is sick of
+this disease of self-love, if this be grievous to him, as appeareth
+in the man whom Christ bid sell that he had, and he went away very
+sorrowful, yet surely this vein must be pricked, and this humor let
+out, else it will spoil all, it will infect both soul and body,
+yea, and the contagion of it is such (as we shall see anon) as will
+even hazard the welfare of that society where self seekers and self
+lovers are.
+
+As God then did direct this Apostle to lay down this brief
+direction as a remedy for that evil in _Corinth_, so you may think
+it is by God's special providence, that I am now to speak unto you
+from this text: and say in your hearts, surely something is amiss
+this way: let us know it and amend it.
+
+The parts of this text are two. 1. A _Dehortation_. 2. An
+_Exhortation_. The Dehortation, _Let no man seek his own_. The
+Exhortation, _But every man another's wealth_.
+
+In handling of which, I will first, open the words. Secondly,
+gather the doctrine. Thirdly illustrate the doctrine by scriptures,
+experience and reasons. Fourthly apply the same, to every one his
+portion.
+
+The proper drift of the Apostle here is not to tax the
+_Corinthians_, for seeking their own evil ends in evil actions,
+but for aiming at themselves, and their own benefits in actions
+lawful, and that appeareth in the former verse, where he saith,
+_All things are lawful, &c._ viz. all such things as now we speak
+of, to eat any of God's creatures, offered to idols or not, to
+feast and be merry together, to shew love and kindness to this or
+that person, &c. but when by such means we seek ourselves, and have
+not a charitable loving and reverent regard of others, then they
+are unexpedient, unprofitable, yea unlawful, and must be forborne,
+and he that hath not learned to deny himself even the very use
+of lawful things, when it tendeth to the contempt, reproach,
+grief, offence and shame of his other brethren and associates,
+hath learned nothing aright, but is, apparently, a man that seeks
+himself, and against whom the Apostle here dealeth most properly.
+
+The manner of the speech, may seem as counsel left at liberty: as
+Mat. 27. 49. And in our ordinary speech, we think they be but weak
+charges, which are thus delivered, let a man do this, or let him
+do that. But we must learn the apostle's modesty, and know that
+whatsoever the terms seem to imply, yet even this and other the
+like in this epistle, are most absolute charges: as, _Let a man
+esteem of us, as the ministers of Christ_, _chap._ 41. That is, a
+man ought so to esteem of us. _Let a man examine himself_, _1 Cor._
+11. 28. That is, as if he said, a man must examine himself. _Let
+your women keep silence in the churches_, _1 Cor._ 14, 34. that is,
+they ought so to do.
+
+The meaning then summarily is, as if he said, the bane of all these
+mischiefs which arise among you is, that men are too cleaving to
+themselves and their own matters, and disregard and contemn all
+others: and therefore I charge you, let this self seeking be left
+off, and turn the stream another way, namely, seek the good of your
+brethren, please them, honor them, reverence them, for otherwise it
+will never go well amongst you.
+
+_Obj._ But doth not the Apostle elsewhere say? _That he, which
+careth not for his own, is worse than an infidel._ 1 _Tim._ 5. 8.
+
+_Ans._ True, but by (own) there, he meaneth properly, a man's
+kindred, and here by (own) he meaneth properly a man's self.
+
+Secondly, he there especially taxeth such as were negligent in
+their labors and callings, and so made themselves unable to give
+relief and entertainment to such poor widows and orphans as were of
+their own flesh and blood.
+
+Thirdly, be it so, that some man should even neglect his own self,
+his own wife, children, friends, &c. And give that he had to
+strangers, that were but some rare vice, in some one unnatural man,
+and if this vice slay a thousand, self-love slayeth ten thousands.
+
+And this the wisdom of God did well foresee, and hath set no
+caveats in the scriptures either to tax men, or forewarn them
+from loving others, neither saith God any where, let no man seek
+out the good of another, but let no man seek his own, and every
+where in the scriptures he hath set watch words against self good,
+self-profit, self-seeking, &c. And thus the sense being cleared, I
+come to the doctrine.
+
+Doct. 1. _All men are too apt and ready to seek themselves too
+much, and to prefer their own matters and causes beyond the due and
+lawful measure, even to excess and offence against God, yea danger
+of their own souls._
+
+And this is true not only in wicked men which are given over of
+God to vile lusts, as _Absalom_ in getting favor in his father's
+court: _Jereboam_, in settling his kingdom fast in _Samaria_,
+_Ahab_ in vehement seeking _Naboth's_ vineyard, but men, otherwise
+godly, have through frailty been foiled herein, and many thousands
+which have a shew of godliness, are lovers of themselves: _David_
+was about to seek himself when he was going to kill _Naball_:
+_Asa_ in putting _Hanani_ in prison: _Josiah_ when he would go to
+war with _Necho_, against the counsel of God, and reason; _Peter_
+when he dissembled about the ceremonies of the law, yea and _Paul_
+complains of all his followers (_Timothy_ excepted) that they
+sought their own too inordinately.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+And why else are these caveats in the scriptures, but to warn the
+godly that they be not tainted herewith? as, _Look not every man
+on his own things, but on the things of another: Love seeketh not
+her own things. Be not desirous of vain glory, &c._ Philip. 2. 4. 1
+Cor. 13. 6. Gal. 5. 26.
+
+Yea and doth not experience teach, that even amongst professors
+of religion, almost all the love and favor that is shewed unto
+others is with a secret aim at themselves, they will take pains
+to do a man good, provided that he will take twice so much for
+them, they will give a penny so as it may advantage them a pound,
+labor hard so as all the profit may come to themselves, else
+they are heartless and feeble. The vain and corrupt heart of man
+cannot better be resembled then by a belly-god, host, or innkeeper
+which welcometh his guests with smilings, and salutations, and a
+thousand welcomes, and rejoiceth greatly to have their company to
+dice, cards, eat, drink, and be merry, but should not the box be
+paid, the pot be filling, and the money telling, all this while,
+the epicure's joy would soon be turned into sorrow, and his smiles
+turned into frowns, and the door set open, and their absence
+craved: even so men blow the bellows hard, when they have an iron
+of their own a heating, work hard whilst their own house is in
+building, dig hard whilst their own garden is in planting, but
+is it so as the profit must go wholly or partly to others; their
+hands wax feeble, their hearts wax faint, they grow churlish, and
+give cross answers, like _Naball_, they are sour, discontent, and
+nothing will please them. And where is that man to be found, that
+will disperse abroad, and cast his bread upon the waters, that
+will lend, looking for nothing again, that will do all duties to
+other freely and cheerfully in conscience to God, and love unto
+men, without his close and secret ends or aiming at himself; such
+a man, out of doubt, is a black swan, a white crow almost, and yet
+such shall stand before God with boldness at the last day, when
+others which have sought themselves, though for love of themselves
+they have sought heaven, yea, and through self-love persuaded
+themselves they should find it, yet wanting love unto others, they
+will be found as sounding brass, and as a tinkling cimbal, and
+whilst they have neglected others, and not cared how others live,
+so as themselves may fare well, they will be found amongst them,
+that the Lord will say unto, _I know you not, depart ye cursed into
+everlasting fire_, Mat. 25. 41. 42.
+
+But that I may not walk in generalities, the particular ways by
+which men seek their own are these: First, such as are covetous,
+seek their own by seeking riches, wealth, money, as _Felix_
+pretending love unto _Paul_, sent for him often, but it was in hope
+of money. Many there are who say, _who will shew us any good_,
+Psal. 4. 7. And pretend religion, as some of the Jews did the
+keeping of the Sabbath, which yet cried out, when will the Sabbath
+be done, that we may sell corn, and get gain; if a man can tell how
+to get gold out of a flint, and silver out of the adamant, no pains
+shall be spared, no time shall be neglected, for gold is their
+hope, and the wedge of gold is their confidence, their hearts are
+set upon the pelf of this world, and for love of it, all things are
+let slip, even all duties to God or men, they care not how basely
+they serve, how wretchedly they neglect all others, so as they may
+get wealth: pinch who will, and wring who will; all times are alike
+with them, and they run for the bribe and _Gehazie_; and this is
+the first way that men seek their own.
+
+Now the contrary is seen in _Nehemiah_, who when the people were
+hard put to it, and the land raw, he took not the duties which
+were due to him being a magistrate, he bought no land, nor grew
+rich, for it was no time: but he maintained at his table many of
+his brethren the Jews, and so spent even his own proper goods.
+And _Paul_ sought no man's gold nor silver, but though he had
+authority, yet he took not bread of the churches, but labored with
+his hands: and why? It was no time to take, some churches were poor
+and stood in want, as _Thessalonica_, others were in danger to be
+preyed upon by covetous belly-gods, as _Corinth_: and therefore he
+saw it no fit time now to take any thing of them.
+
+And indeed here is the difference between a covetous worldling,
+and an honest thrifty Christian, it is lawful sometimes for men to
+gather wealth, and grow rich, even as there was a time for _Joseph_
+to store up corn, but a godly and sincere Christian will see when
+this time is, and will not hoard up when he seeth others of his
+brethren and associates to want, but then is a time, if he have any
+thing to fetch it out and disperse it, but the covetous gathers
+goods, he like _Achan_ covets all that he seeth; and neglects no
+time, but gathers still and holds all fast, and if it were to save
+the life of his brother, his bags must not be diminished, nor his
+chests lighted, nor his field set to sale, gather as much as he
+can, but it's death to diminish the least part of it.
+
+2. The second way by which men seek their own, is when they seek
+ease, or pleasure, as the _Scribes_ and _Pharisees_, who would
+not touch the burden with one of their fingers; for there is a
+generation, which think to have more in this world then _Adam's_
+felicity in innocency, being born (as they think) to take their
+pleasures, and their ease, let the roof of the house drop through,
+they stir not; let the field be overgrown with weeds, they care
+not, they must not foul their hand, nor wet their foot, it's enough
+for them to say, Go you, not let us go, though never so much need;
+such idle drones, are intollerable in a settled commonwealth, much
+more in a commonwealth which is but as it were in the bud; of what
+earth I pray thee art thou made, of any better than the other of
+the sons of _Adam_? And canst thou see other of thy brethren toil
+their hearts out, and thou sit idle at home, or takest thy pleasure
+abroad? Remember the example of _Uriah_, who would not take his
+ease nor his pleasure, though the King required him, and why?
+Because his brethren, his associates, better men than himself (as
+he esteemed them) were under hard labors and conditions, lay in the
+field in tents, caves, &c.
+
+3. The third way is when men seek their own bellies, as some did
+in the Apostles' times, which went about with new doctrines and
+devices, knowing that the people had itching ears, and would
+easily entertain and willingly feed such novelists, which brought
+in dissensions, schisms, and contentions, and such were rocks, or
+pillars in their love-feasts, as _Jude_ speaketh, _ver. 12._ They
+were shadows in God's service, but when feasting came, then they
+were substances, then they were in their element. And certainly
+there are some men which shape even their religion, human state,
+and all, even as the belly cheer is best, and that they must have,
+else all heart and life is gone; let all conscience, care of others
+go, let _Lazarus_ starve at the gate, let _Joseph's_ affliction
+be increased, they must have their dishes, their dainties, or no
+content. The contrary was seen in _Nehemiah_, who would not take
+his large portion allotted to the governor, because he knew it went
+short with others of his brethren; and _Uriah_ would not receive
+the King's present, and go banquet with his wife, because he knew
+the whole host his brethren were fain to snap short in the fields.
+
+And the difference between a temperate good man, and a belly-god
+is this: A good man will not eat his morsels alone, especially, if
+he have better than others, but if by God's providence, he have
+gotten some meat which is better than ordinary, and better than
+his other brethren, he can have no rest in himself, except he make
+others partake with him. But a belly-god will slop all in his own
+throat, yea, though his neighbor come in and behold him eat, yet
+his griple-gut shameth not to swallow all. And this may be done
+sometimes, as well in mean fare as in greater dainties, for all
+countries afford not alike.
+
+4. The fourth way by which men seek their own, is by seeking
+outward honor, fame and respect with men; as King _Saul_ when he
+had lost all respect and favor with God, then thought to give
+content to his heart by being honored before the Elders of the
+people; and it is wonderful to see how some men are _desirous of
+vain glory_, _Gal._ 5. 26. And how earnestly they seek praise,
+favor, and respect with men, and can have no quiet longer than
+their worldly favor lasteth, and that they will have what dishonor
+soever come to God, or disgrace unto men, yea, they will disgrace,
+reproach, and disdain others, to gain honor and advancement to
+themselves, yea, they will make bold with the Scriptures and Word
+of God, to wrest and wring, and slight it over for their credit's
+sake. And let a man mark some men's talk, stories, discourses,
+&c. and he shall see their whole drift is to extol and set out
+themselves, and get praise and commendation of men.
+
+Now the contrary was seen in _Paul_, he saith, _He needed no
+letters of commendations_, 2 Cor. 3. 2. And again, _He is
+not affected with men's praise_, 1 Cor. 10. 12. And here is
+indeed the difference between an humble-minded Christian, and a
+proud self-lover; an humble man often hath praise, as _David_,
+_Hezekiah_, and _Josiah_, but he seeks it not, he desires it not,
+he is content to go without it, he loves not the praise of men,
+for he knows it but froth and vanity: but a proud self-lover, he
+seeks it still, get it or not get it, and if he get it he is fully
+satisfied, if he get it not he hangs his head like a bull-rush, and
+hath no comfort.
+
+5. The fifth way by which men seek their own, is _by seeking to
+have their wills_; as the wrong doers in _Corinth_, who thought
+it not enough to do wrong and harm to their brethren, but to
+have their wills enough of them, drew them before the Heathen
+magistrates.
+
+And truly some men are so prince-like, or rather Papal, that their
+very will and word is become a law, and if they have said it, it
+must be so, else there is no rest or quietness to be had, let never
+so many reasons be brought to the contrary, it is but fighting with
+the wind. They are like the obstinate Jews, who when against God's
+law, and reason, they asked a King, though _Samuel_ shewed them
+that it would turn in the end to their own smart, yet still held
+the conclusion, and said, nay, _But we will have a King_, 1 Sam.
+8. 19. Thus men are caught by their own words, and insnared by the
+straitness of their own hearts, and it is death to them not to have
+their wills, and howsoever sometimes (like _Jezebel_) they are cut
+short of their purposes, yet self-willed men will strut and swell
+like _Absalom_, saying neither _good nor bad_, 2 Sam. 13. 22. but
+hope for the day, and threaten like prophane _Esau_, Gen. 27. 41.
+Now the contrary is seen in _David_, though a prince, a captain, a
+warrior, who having said, yea sworn, that he would kill _Nabal_,
+and all his family that day, yet upon reasonable counsel given, and
+that by a weak woman, he changed his mind, altered his purpose,
+and returned, without striking one stroke, an example rare, and
+worthy imitation; and when men are sick of will, let them think of
+_David_, it was his grace and honor to go back from his word and
+practice, when reason came. So was it _Herod's_ disgrace and shame
+to hold his word and will against reason and conscience, _Math._
+14. 8, 9.
+
+_Quest._ But some men happily will say unto me, It is true, that
+men seek their own by all these ways, _But what should be the
+reason and cause of this? that men seek so earnestly themselves, in
+seeking riches, honor, ease, belly-cheer, will, &c. something there
+is that carrieth them_.
+
+_Ans._ True, and the reasons and causes are specially these three:
+
+First, pride and high conceitedness, when men overvalue themselves:
+and this made _Absalom_ to seek his father's kingdom, because he
+thought himself worthy of it. _2 Sam._ 15. 4. This made _Haman_ so
+sore vexed, because _Mordecai_ bowed not to him, because he highly
+valued himself, _Esther_, 3. 5.
+
+And surely that which a man valueth much, he giveth much respect
+to, and so it is a sure sign that a man loves himself most when
+he giveth most to himself; and some intolerable proud persons
+even think all the world is for them, and all their purposes and
+endeavors shew what a large conceit they have of themselves.
+
+Secondly, want of due consideration and valuation of other
+men's endowments, abilities and deserts; when men pass those
+things by, though they have both seen, heard, and felt them; as
+_Pharaoh's_ butler forgot _Joseph's_ eminency when he was restored
+to his place, _Gen._ 40. 23. So men used to write their own good
+actions in brass, but other men's in ashes, never remembering nor
+considering the pains, labor, good properties, &c. which others
+have, and so they have no love to them, but only to themselves; as
+if God had made all other men unreasonable beasts, and them only
+reasonable men.
+
+Thirdly, want of heavenly conversation, and spiritual eye to
+behold the glory, greatness, and majesty, and goodness of God;
+as the Queen of _Sheba_, thought highly of her own glory, wisdom
+and happiness, till she saw _Solomon's_ wisdom and glory, and
+then she cried out, not of the happiness of her own servants, but
+of his servants that stood before him, 1 _Kings_ 10. 7, 8. And
+verily, if men were conversant courtiers in Heaven, they would
+cry out with _Paul_, Rom. 11. 33. _Oh the depth of the riches,
+wisdom, and knowledge of God, &c._ and would be ashamed of their
+own sinfulness, nakedness and misery; for, as countrymen which
+never saw the state of cities, nor the glory of courts, admire even
+their own country Orders: And as the savages here which are clad in
+skins, and creep in woods and holes, think their own brutish and
+inhuman life the best, which if they saw and did rightly apprehend
+the benefit of comely humanity, the sweetness of religion and
+the service of God, they would even shamefully hide themselves
+from the eye of all noble Christians. Even so, if men in serious
+contemplation, by the eye of faith, would behold the glory of God,
+and what great riches, beauty, fulness, perfection, power, dignity
+and greatness is in God, they would leave admiring of themselves,
+and seeking of themselves, and would say with _David, What am I?
+And what is my father's house? that thou shouldest thus bless me?_
+2 Sam. 7. 18. Yea _What is man? or the son of man that thou so
+regardest him?_ Psal. 8. 3.
+
+But it is time to come to apply these things more particularly to
+ourselves, and see what Use is to be made of them:
+
+_Use 1._ Is it so, that God seeth a proneness in all the sons of
+_Adam_, to seek themselves too much, and hath given them warnings
+and watch-words thereof, as we have heard, and doth experience
+confirm it? Then hence are reproved a number of men, who think
+they can never shew love enough to themselves, nor seek their own
+enough, but think all cost, charges, cherishing, praise, honor,
+&c. too little for them, and no man needeth to say to them, as
+_Peter_ did to Christ, _favor thy self_; but if they do a little
+for another man, they account it a great matter, though it be but
+a morsel of bread, or a single penny; but no varieties of dainties
+is too good for them, no silk, purple, cloth, or stuff is too
+good to clothe them, the poor man's idleness and ill husbandry is
+oft thrown in his dish, but their own carnal delights and fleshy
+wantonness is never thought upon: and why? Because they think even
+God and man owes all to them, but they owe nothing to none. Why,
+thou foolish and besotted man, hath not the Holy Ghost read it in
+the very face of every son of _Adam_, that he is too apt to seek
+his own, and art thou wiser than God, to think thou never seekest
+thine own enough? or dreamest thou that thou art made of other, and
+better mettle than other men are? Surely, I know no way to escape,
+having of corruption to thy father, and the worm to thy sister and
+brother. And if God had any where in all the Scriptures said, love
+thyself, make much of thyself, provide for one, &c. there were
+some reason for thee to take up the niggard's proverbs, _Every
+man for himself, and God for us all; Charity beginneth at home,
+&c._ But God never taught thee these things; No, they are Satan's
+positions. Doth God ever commend a man for carnal love of himself?
+Nay he brands it, and disgraceth it, as _self love, taking thought
+for the flesh; loving of pleasure, &c._ Rom. 13. 14, 2 Tim. 34.
+
+_Obj._ _It is a point of good natural policy, for a man to care and
+provide for himself._
+
+_Ans._ Then the most fools have most natural policy, for you
+see not the greatest drones and novices, either in church, or
+commonwealth, to be the greatest scratchers and scrapers, and
+gatherers of riches? Are they not also for the most part, best fed
+and clad? And live they not most easily? What shall I say? Even
+hogs, dogs, and brute beasts know their own ease, and can seek
+that which is good for themselves; and what doth this shifting,
+progging, and fat feeding which some use, more resemble any thing
+than the fashion of hogs? And so let it be what natural policy it
+will.
+
+_Use 2._ If God see this disease of self-love so dangerous in
+us, then it standeth us all in hand to suspect ourselves, and so
+to seek out the root of this disease, that it may be cured. If a
+learned physician, shall see by our countenance and eye, that we
+have some dangerous disease growing on us, our hearts will smite
+us, and we will bethink ourselves where the most grief lieth, and
+how it should come, whether with cold, heat, surfeit, over-flowing
+of blood, or through grief, melancholy, or any such way, and every
+man will bestir himself to get rid of it, and will prevent always
+that which feeds the disease, and cherish all courses that would
+destroy it.
+
+Now, how much more ought we to bestir ourselves, for this matter
+of self love, since God himself hath cast all our waters, and felt
+all our pulses, and pronounceth us all dangerously sick of this
+disease? Believe it, God cannot lie, nor be deceived; He that made
+the heart, doth not he know it? Let every man's heart smite him,
+and let him fall to the examination of himself and see first,
+whether he love not riches and worldly wealth too much, whether his
+heart be not too jocund at the coming of it in, and too heavy at
+the going of it out, for if you find it so there is great danger,
+if thou canst not buy as if thou possessed not, and use this world
+as though thou used it not, (_1 Cor._ 7. 30, 31.) thou art sick,
+and had need to look to it. So, if thou lovest thine ease and
+pleasure, see whether thou can be content to receive at God's hands
+evil as well as good, (_Job_ 2. 10.) whether thou have learned as
+well to abound as to want, (_Phil._ 4. 10.) as well to endure hard
+labor, as to live at ease; and art as willing to go to the house of
+mourning as to the house of mirth, (_Eccl._ 7. 6.) for, else, out
+of doubt, thou lovest thy carnal pleasure and ease too much.
+
+Again, see whether thy heart cannot be as merry, and thy mind as
+joyful, and thy countenance as cheerful, with coarse fare, with
+pulse, with bread and water (if God offer thee no better, nor the
+times afford other) as if thou had the greatest dainties: (_Dan._
+1. 15.) So also whether thou can be content as well with scorns
+of men, when thou hast done well, as with their praises, so if
+thou can with comfort and good conscience say, I pass little for
+man's judgment; whether thou can do thy duty that God requireth,
+and despise the shame, referring thyself unto God, for if thou be
+disheartened, discouraged, and weakened in any duty because of
+men's dispraises, its a sign thou lovest thyself too much.
+
+So for the will, if thou can be content to give way even from that
+which thou hast said shall be, yea, vowed shall be, when better
+reason cometh, and hast that reverence of other men, as that
+when it standeth but upon a matter of will, thou art as willing
+their wills should stand as thine, and art not sad, churlish, or
+discontented, (_1 Kings_ 21. 4.) but cheerful in thine heart,
+though thy will be crossed, it is a good sign, but if not, thou
+art sick of a self-will, and must purge it out. I the rather press
+these things, because I see many men both wise and religious, which
+yet are so tainted with this pestilent self-love, as that it is in
+them even as a dead fly to the apothecaries' ointment, spoiling
+the efficacy of all their graces, making their lives uncomfortable
+to themselves, and unprofitable to others, being neither fit for
+church nor commonwealth, but have even their very souls in hazard
+thereby, and therefore who can say too much against it.
+
+It is reported, that there are many men gone to that other
+plantation in _Virginia_, which, whilst they lived in _England_,
+seemed very religious, zealous, and conscionable; and have now lost
+even the sap of grace, and edge to all goodness; and are become
+mere worldlings. This testimony I believe to be partly true, and
+amongst many causes of it, this self-love is not the least. It is
+indeed a matter of some commendation for a man to remove himself
+out of a thronged place into a wide wilderness; to take in hand
+so long and dangerous a journey, to be an instrument to carry the
+Gospel and humanity among the brutish heathen; but there may be
+many goodly shews and glosses and yet a pad in the straw, men may
+make a great appearance of respect unto God, and yet but dissemble
+with him, having their own lusts carrying them: and, out of doubt,
+men that have taken in hand hither to come, out of discontentment
+in regard of their estates in _England_; and aiming at great
+matters here, affecting it to be gentlemen, landed men, or hoping
+for office, place, dignity, or fleshly liberty; let the shew be
+what it will, the substance is naught, and that bird of self-love
+which was hatched at home, if it be not looked to, will eat out
+the life of all grace and goodness: and though men have escaped
+the danger of the sea, and that cruel mortality, which swept away
+so many of our loving friends and brethren; yet except they purge
+out this self-love, a worse mischief is prepared for them: And who
+knoweth whether God in mercy have delivered those just men which
+here departed, from the evils to come; and from unreasonable men,
+in whom there neither was, nor is, any comfort, but grief, sorrow,
+affliction, and misery, till they cast out this spawn of self-love.
+
+But I have dwelt too long upon this first part; I come now to the
+second, which concerns an Exhortation, as I shewed you, in the
+Division.
+
+_But every man another's wealth._
+
+In direct opposition, he should say, _Let every man seek
+another's_, but the first part being compared with the latter, and
+(_seek_) being taken out of the former and put to the latter, and
+(_wealth_) taken out or rather implied, in the former, the whole
+sentence is thus resolved, _Let no man seek his own wealth, but let
+every man seek another's wealth_.
+
+And the word here translated _wealth_, is the same with that in
+_Rom._ 13. 4, and may not be taken only for riches, as Englishmen
+commonly understand it, but for all kinds of benefits, favors,
+comforts either for soul or body; and so here again, as before you
+must understand an Affirmative Commandment, as the Negative was
+before: and least any should say, If I may not seek my own good, I
+may do nothing; Yes saith _Paul_, I'll tell thee, thou shalt seek
+the good of another, whereas now all thy seeking helps but one, by
+this means thou shalt help many: and this is further enforced by
+these two circumstances, (no man) may seek his own, be he rich,
+learned, wise, &c. _But every man must seek the good of another_.
+
+The point of instruction is taken from the very letter and phrase,
+viz.
+
+Doct. 2. _A man_ must _seek the good, the wealth, the profit of
+others._
+
+I say he _must_ seek it, he must seek the comfort, profit and
+benefit of his neighbor, brother, associate, &c. His own good he
+need not seek, it will offer itself to him every hour; but the good
+of others must be sought, a man must not stay from doing good to
+others till he is sought unto, pulled and hauled, (as it were) like
+the unjust judge, for every benefit that is first craved, cometh
+too late. And thus the ancient patriarchs did practice, when the
+traveller and wayfaring men came by, they did not tarry till they
+came and asked relief and refreshment, but sat at the gates to
+watch for such, (_Judges_ 19. 20, 21) and looked in the streets to
+find them, yea, set open their doors that they might freely and
+boldly enter in. And howsoever, some may think this too large a
+practice, since now the world is so full of people, yet I see not
+but the more people there is, the larger charity ought to be.
+
+But be it so, as a man may neglect, in some sort the general
+world, yet those to whom he is bound, either in natural, civil,
+or religious bands, them he must seek how to do them good. A
+notable example you have in _David_, who, because there was twixt
+him and _Jonathan_ a band and covenant, therefore he enquired,
+_Whether there was any left of the house of Saul, to whom he might
+shew mercy for Jonathan's sake_, 2 Sam. 9.1. So this people of
+_Corinth_, to whom _Paul_ writeth, they were in a spiritual league
+and covenant in the _Gospel_, and so were a body. Now for one
+member in the body to seek himself, and neglect all others were, as
+if a man should clothe one arm or one leg of his body with gold and
+purple, and let all the rest of the members go naked. _1 Cor. 12.
+27._
+
+Now brethren, I pray you, remember yourselves, and know, that you
+are not in a retired monastical course, but have given your names
+and promises one to another and covenanted here to cleave together
+in the service of God, and the King; What then must you do? May
+you live as retired hermits? and look after no body? Nay, you must
+seek still the wealth of one another; and enquire as _David_, how
+liveth such a man? How is he clad? How is he fed? He is my brother,
+my associate; we ventured our lives together here, and had a hard
+brunt of it and we are in league together. Is his labor harder than
+mine? surely I will ease him; hath he no bed to lie on? why, I have
+two, I'll lend him one; hath he no apparel? why, I have two suits,
+I'll give him one of them; eats he coarse fare, bread and water,
+and I have better, why, surely we will part stakes. He is as good a
+man as I, and we are bound each to other, so that his wants must be
+my wants, his sorrows my sorrows, his sickness my sickness, and his
+welfare my welfare, for I am as he is. And such a sweet sympathy
+were excellent, comfortable, yea, heavenly, and is the only maker
+and conserver of churches and commonwealths, and where this is
+wanting, ruin comes on quickly, as it did here in _Corinth_.
+
+But besides these motives, there are other reasons to provoke us
+not only to do good one to another; but even to seek and search how
+to do it.
+
+1. As first, to maintain modesty in all our associates, that of
+hungry wanters, they become not bold beggars and impudent cravers;
+for as one saith of women, that, when they have lost their
+shamefacedness, they have lost half their honesty, so may it be
+truly said of a man that when he hath lost his modesty, and puts
+on a begging face, he hath lost his majesty, and the image of that
+noble creature; and man should not beg and crave of man, but only
+of God. True it is, that as Christ was fain to crave water of the
+Samaritan woman, (_John_ 4. 5.) so men are forced to ask sometimes
+rather than starve, but indeed in all societies it should be
+offered them. Men often complain of men's boldness in asking, but
+how cometh this to pass, but because the world have been so full
+of self-lovers as no man would offer their money, meat, garments,
+though they saw men hungry, harborless, poor, and naked in the
+streets; and what is it that makes men brazen-faced, bold, brutish,
+tumultuous, but because they are pinched with want, and see others
+of their companions (which it may be have less deserved) to live in
+prosperity and pleasure?
+
+2. It wonderfully encourageth men in their duties, when they see
+the burthen equally borne; but when some withdraw themselves and
+retire to their own particular ease, pleasure, or profit; what
+heart can men have to go on in their business? when men are come
+together to lift some weighty piece of timber or vessel; if one
+stand still and do not lift, shall not the rest be weakened and
+disheartened? Will not a few idle drones spoil the whole stock of
+laborious bees: so one idle-belly, one murmurer, one complainer,
+one self-lover will weaken and dishearten a whole colony. Great
+matters have been brought to pass where men have cheerfully as
+with one heart, hand, and shoulder, gone about it, both in wars,
+buildings, and plantations, but where every man seeks himself, all
+cometh to nothing.
+
+3. The present necessity requireth it, as it did in the days of the
+_Jews_, returning from captivity, and as it was here in _Corinth_.
+The country is yet raw, the land untilled, the cities not builded,
+the cattle not settled, we are compassed about with a helpless and
+idle people, the natives of the country, which cannot in any comely
+or comfortable manner help themselves, much less us. We also have
+been very chargeable to many of our loving friends, which helped
+us hither, and now again supplied us, so that before we think of
+gathering riches, we must even in conscience think of requiting
+their charge, love and labor, and cursed be that profit and gain
+which aimeth not at this. Besides, how many of our dear friends did
+here die at our first entrance, many of them no doubt for want of
+good lodging, shelter, and comfortable things, and many more may go
+after them quickly, if care be not taken. Is this then a time for
+men to begin to seek themselves? _Paul_ saith, that men in the last
+days shall be lovers of themselves, (_2 Tim._ 3. 2.) but it is here
+yet but the first days, and (as it were) the dawning of this new
+world, it is now therefore no time for men to look to get riches,
+brave clothes, dainty fare, but to look to present necessities; it
+is now no time to pamper the flesh, live at ease, snatch, catch,
+scrape, and pill, and hoard up, but rather to open the doors, the
+chests, and vessels, and say, brother, neighbor, friend, what
+want ye, any thing that I have? make bold with it, it is yours to
+command, to do you good, to comfort and cherish you, and glad I am
+that I have it for you.
+
+4. And even the example of God himself, whom we should follow
+in all things within our power and capacity, may teach us this
+lesson, for (with reverence to his Majesty be it spoken) he might
+have kept all grace, goodness, and glory to himself, but he hath
+communicated it to us, even as far as we are capable of it in this
+life, and will communicate his glory in all fulness with his elect
+in that life to come; even so his son Jesus Christ left his glory
+eclipsed for a time, and abased himself to a poor and distressed
+life in this world, that he might, by it, bring us to happiness in
+the world to come. If God then have delighted in thus doing good
+and relieving frail and miserable man, so far inferior to himself,
+what delight ought man to have to relieve and comfort man, which is
+equal to himself?
+
+5. Even as we deal with others, ourselves and others shall be
+dealt withal. Carest thou not how others fare, how they toil,
+are grieved, sick, pinched, cold, harborless, so as thou be in
+health, livest at ease, warm in thy nest, farest well? The days
+will come when thou shalt labor and none shall pity thee, be poor
+and none relieve thee, be sick, and lie and die and none visit
+thee, yea, and thy children shall lie and starve in the streets,
+and none shall relieve them, for _it is the merciful that shall
+obtain mercy_; Mat. 5. 7. and _the memory of the just shall be
+blessed_ even in his seed; _Prov._ 10. and a merciful and loving
+man when he dies, though he leave his children small and desolate,
+yet every one is mercifully stirred up for the father's sake to
+shew compassion, but the unkindness, currishness, and self-love
+of a father, is through God's just judgment recompensed upon the
+children with neglect and cruelty.
+
+6. Lastly, That we may draw to an end; A merciless man, and a man
+without natural affection or love, is reckoned among such as are
+given over of God to a reprobate mind, (_Rom._ 1. 30.) and (as it
+were) transformed into a beast-like humor; for, what is man if he
+be not sociable, kind, affable, free-hearted, liberal; he is a
+beast in the shape of a man; or rather an infernal spirit, walking
+amongst men, which makes the world a hell what in him lieth; for,
+it is even a hell to live where there are such men: such the
+Scriptures calleth _Nabals_, which signifieth _fools_, (_Psal._
+14. 1.) and decayed men, which have lost both the sap of grace
+and nature; and such merciless men are called goats, and shall be
+set at Christ's left hand at the last day, (_Math._ 25. 33.) _Oh
+therefore seek the wealth one of another_.
+
+_Obj._ But some will say, _It is true, and it were well if men
+would so do, but we see every man is so for himself, as that if I
+should not do so, I should do full ill, for if I have it not of
+my own, I may snap short sometimes, for I see no body showeth me
+any kindness, nor giveth me any thing; if I have gold or silver,
+that goeth for payment, and if I want it I may lie in the street,
+therefore I had best keep that I have, and not be so liberal as you
+would have me, except I saw others would be so towards me_.
+
+_Ans._ This Objection seemeth but equal and reasonable, as did the
+Answer of _Nabal_ to _David's_ men, but it is most foolish and
+carnal, as his also was; for, if we should measure our courses by
+most men's practices, a man should never do any godly duty; for,
+do not the most, yea, almost all, go the broad way that leadeth to
+death and damnation, (_Luke._ 13. 23, 24.) Who then will follow a
+multitude? It is the word of God, and the examples of the best men
+that we must follow. And what if others will do nothing for thee,
+but are unkind and unmerciful to thee? Knowest thou not that they
+which will be the children of God must be kind to the unkind,
+loving to their enemies, and bless those that curse them? (_Mat._
+5. 44, 47.) If all men were kind to thee, it were but _publicans'_
+righteousness to be kind to them? If all men be evil, wilt thou be
+so too? When _David_ cried out, _Help Lord, for not a godly man is
+left_, Psal. 12. 1. did he himself turn ungodly also? Nay, he was
+rather the more strict. So, if love and charity be departed out of
+this world, be thou one of them that shall first bring it in again.
+
+And let this be the first rule, which I will with two others
+conclude for this time.
+
+1. Never measure thy course by the most, but by the best, yea,
+and principally by God's word; Look not what others do to thee,
+but consider what thou art to do to them: seek to please God, not
+thyself. Did they in _Mat._ 25. 44. plead, that others did nothing
+for them? No such matter, no such plea will stand before God, his
+word is plain to the contrary, therefore, though all the world
+should neglect thee, disregard thee, and contemn thee, yet remember
+thou hast not to do with men, but with the highest God, and so thou
+must do thy duty to them notwithstanding.
+
+2. And let there be no prodigal person to come forth and say, Give
+me the portion of lands and goods that appertaineth to me, and let
+me shift for myself; _Luke_ 15. 12. It is yet too soon to put men
+to their shifts; _Israel_ was seven years in _Canaan_, before the
+land was divided unto tribes, much longer before it was divided
+unto families; and why wouldst thou have thy particular portion,
+but because thou thinkest to live better than thy neighbor, and
+scornest to live so meanly as he? but who, I pray thee, brought
+this particularizing first into the world? Did not Satan, who was
+not content to keep that equal state with his fellows, but would
+set his throne above the stars? Did not he also entice man to
+despise his general felicity and happiness, and go try particular
+knowledge of good and evil; and nothing in this world doth more
+resemble heavenly happiness, than for men to live as one, being of
+one heart, and one soul; neither any thing more resembles hellish
+horror, then for every man to shift for himself; for if it be a
+good mind and practise, thus to affect particulars, _mine_ and
+_thine_, then it should be best also for God to provide one heaven
+for thee, and another for thy neighbor.
+
+_Object._ But some will say, _If all men will do their endeavors as
+I do I could be content with this generality,--but many are idle
+and slothful, and eat up others' labors, and therefore it is best
+to part, and then every man may do his pleasure_.
+
+First, this, indeed, is the common plea of such as will endure no
+inconveniences, and so for the hardness of men's hearts, God and
+man doth often give way to that which is not best, nor perpetual,
+but indeed if we take this course to change ordinances and
+practices because of inconveniences, we shall have every day new
+laws.
+
+Secondly, if others be idle and thou diligent, thy fellowship,
+provocation, and example, may well help to cure that malady in
+them, being together, but being asunder, shall they not be more
+idle, and shall not gentry and beggary be quickly the glorious
+ensigns of your commonwealth?
+
+Thirdly, construe things in the best part, be not too hasty to
+say, men are idle and slothful, all men have not strength, skill,
+faculty, spirit, and courage to work alike; it is thy glory and
+credit, that thou canst do so well, and his shame and reproach,
+that can do no better; and are not these sufficient rewards to you
+both.
+
+Fourthly, if any be idle apparently, you have a law and governors
+to execute the same, and to follow that rule of the Apostle, to
+keep back their bread, and let them not eat, go not therefore
+whispering, to charge men with idleness; but go to the governor and
+prove them idle; and thou shall see them have their deserts. _Acts_
+19. 38. 2 _Thes._ 3. 10. _Deut._ 19. 15.
+
+And as you are a body together, so hang not together by skins and
+gymocks, but labor to be jointed together and knit by flesh and
+sinews; away with envy at the good of others, and rejoice in his
+good, and sorrow for his evil. Let his joy be thy joy, and his
+sorrow thy sorrow: Let his sickness be thy sickness: his hunger thy
+hunger: his poverty thy poverty; and if you profess friendship, be
+friends in adversity; for then a friend is known and tried, and not
+before.
+
+3. Lay away all thought of former things and forget them, and
+think upon the things that are; look not gapingly one upon other,
+pleading your goodness, your birth, your life you lived, your
+means you had and might have had; here you are by God's providence
+under difficulties; be thankful to God, it is no worse, and take
+it in good part that which is, and lift not up yourself because of
+former privileges; when _Job_ was brought to the dung-hill, he sat
+down upon it, _Job_ 2. 8. and when the Almighty had been bitter
+to _Naomi_, she would be called _Marah_; consider therefore what
+you are now, and whose you are; say not I could have lived thus,
+and thus; but say thus and thus I must live: for God and natural
+necessity requireth, if your difficulties be great, you had need
+to cleave the faster together, and comfort and cheer up one another,
+laboring to make each other's burden lighter; there is no grief
+so tedious as a churlish companion and nothing makes sorrows easy
+more than cheerful associates: bear ye therefore one another's
+burthen, and be not a burthen one to another; avoid all factions,
+frowardness, singularity and withdrawings, and cleave fast to the
+Lord, and one to another continually; so shall you be a notable
+precedent to these poor heathens, whose eyes are upon you, and who
+very brutishly and cruelly do daily eat and consume one another,
+through their emulations, ways and contentions; be you therefore
+ashamed of it, and win them to peace both with yourselves, and one
+another, by your peaceable examples, which will preach louder to
+them, than if you could cry in their barbarous language; so also
+shall you be an encouragement to many of your christian friends in
+your native country, to come to you, when they hear of your peace,
+love and kindness that is amongst you: but above all, it shall go
+well with your souls, when that God of peace and unity shall come
+to visit you with death as he hath done many of your associates,
+you being found of him, not in murmurings, discontent and jars, but
+in brotherly love, and peace, may be translated from this wandering
+wilderness unto that joyful and heavenly Canaan.
+
+ AMEN.
+
+
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