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- THE
- EXPERT MAID-SERVANT
-
- BY
- CHRISTINE TERHUNE HERRICK
-
- AUTHOR OF "HOUSEKEEPING MADE EASY"
- "WHAT TO EAT AND HOW TO SERVE IT"
- "CRADLE AND NURSERY" ETC.
-
- NEW YORK AND LONDON
- HARPER & BROTHERS
- PUBLISHERS :: 1904
-
-
- Copyright, 1904, by Harper & Brothers.
- _All rights reserved._
- Published October, 1904.
-
-
-
-
- TO
- A FRIEND IN NEED
-
-
-
-
-CONTENTS
-
-
- CHAPTER PAGE
-
- I. Engaging the Maid 1
-
- II. When the Maid Arrives 19
-
- III. Mistress and Maid 36
-
- IV. The Duties of the Maid-of-all-work 52
-
- V. Duties of Two or More Servants 70
-
- VI. Certain Problems of Service 88
-
- VII. General Suggestions 104
-
- VIII. A Recapitulation of Daily Duties 125
-
-
-
-
- THE
- EXPERT MAID-SERVANT
-
-
-
-
-I
-
-ENGAGING THE MAID
-
-
-The most common method of engaging a servant is through an intelligence
-office. There are nearly as many different kinds of these as there are
-types of domestics who patronize them. An office with a high standing
-should be selected. This is not only because a lower grade of employées
-is to be found at the other variety, but also on account of the
-methods followed in some of the cheaper offices. Such establishments
-occasionally have unscrupulous managers, who make a business of
-encouraging the maids they place to change often, in order that the
-renewed fee of the employer may come to the office. This practice has
-become common enough in some States to justify legislative intervention.
-
-In nearly every city or town there are reputable agencies, sometimes
-conducted as business enterprises simply, sometimes run in connection
-with church or benevolent societies, where a register is kept of the
-references of servants for whom places are secured. These references
-are usually held as confidential between the agent and the would-be
-employer, and the latter is thus enabled to learn with some certainty
-the qualifications of the maid she thinks of engaging.
-
-Once in a while a mistress is so fortunate as to secure a maid by the
-recommendation of some other housekeeper or through a servant in her
-own or a friend's employ. Maids engaged in this fashion are often more
-satisfactory than those found at an office, from the fact that they
-enter their new positions somewhat prejudiced in favor of the employer,
-instead of holding the attitude of armed neutrality often found in
-servants who seek places through an office.
-
-Wherever the maid is met and in whatever capacity she is engaged, there
-should be a clear understanding from the beginning as to what her work
-shall be. The mistress should begin the interview with the maid she
-seeks to employ by stating what are the duties of the place she offers
-and inquiring as to the capabilities of the maid for the position. Often
-a few questions and answers will prove the unsatisfactoriness of the
-situation or of the applicant. In this case, the affair should be
-dropped at once. Never, no matter what the exigency, should the
-housekeeper endeavor to persuade a domestic into taking a place for
-which she is disinclined. It is a mistake almost sure to result badly.
-
-The housekeeper should come to an interview with a prospective maid with
-an open mind, and not allow herself to be prejudiced by appearances. An
-aspect of sullenness is frequently the result of shyness and does not
-indicate unwillingness to work or a bad temper. The would-be employer
-should speak gently and not ask questions with a manner of having the
-maid in the witness-box. Such treatment will sometimes frighten a timid
-maid into inability to answer intelligently, and the employer will
-produce an impression of her own hardness and severity which she will
-find it difficult to overcome later. The pert and self-sufficient maid
-is likely to declare her nature within a very few minutes. Kindness will
-not intensify these qualities in her, while it will enable a bashful
-girl to appear to better advantage.
-
-Before interviewing a maid, the mistress should have clearly framed
-in her own mind the outlines of the work required, and should know
-definitely what queries she means to put. Each mistress probably has her
-own way of learning the maid's capabilities and of explaining the work
-she wishes done. The housekeeper who has had little practice in engaging
-servants will do well to make up a formula of inquiries in advance. To
-begin with, it should be ascertained what experience the maid has
-had, what was her last place, how long she stayed in it, what were her
-reasons for leaving it. Having thus learned if the servant seems to
-be in the main satisfactory, so far as disposition and willingness are
-concerned, the mistress should proceed to explain what is the work of
-the house, putting such questions as will enable the girl to tell of her
-competency.
-
-For instance, in engaging a maid for general housework, she should be
-asked if she understands plain cooking of meats and vegetables; if she
-can make bread, biscuit and muffins, soups and plain puddings; if she
-can follow a recipe, etc. More elaborate culinary accomplishments can
-rarely be looked for in a maid-of-all-work. She should also be able
-to do washing and ironing, have some knowledge of chamber-work and of
-waiting, and be willing to learn. There are so many qualifications
-for the general-housework girl, who must be a sort of Pooh Bah in
-petticoats, that it is no wonder the supply is usually inadequate to the
-demand.
-
-There should be no attempt on the part of the mistress to make things in
-the place she offers seem better than they are. A servant who is brought
-into a house under false pretences is never likely to do well. If the
-prospective mistress entertains a good deal, if she is likely to have
-guests staying in the house often, she should give full notice of
-her intention from the start, explaining at the same time that she is
-willing to do all she can to lighten the burden of extra work. So far as
-possible, the amount of labor should be put clearly before the employée,
-so that if the place does not suit her she may know its drawbacks from
-the beginning. Naturally, it should also be the part of the mistress to
-point out what are the especial advantages of the situation, and to let
-the maid see that the employer is ready to do anything in her power to
-prevent unusual toil from being too heavily felt. No chance should be
-left for misunderstanding upon any point, and from the first it should
-be comprehended that a spirit of accommodation and kindliness will be
-accorded by the mistress and expected from the maid.
-
-After the mistress and maid have reached some kind of an adjustment that
-makes them feel the relation of employer and employed would be desirable
-to both, it is time for the housekeeper to make special inquiry about
-the maid's references. If the office is a reputable one it may be taken
-for granted that the servants' characters are in the main what they
-should be, but the mistress will wish to go into details and either see
-the former employer or write to her.
-
-This matter of references is most important. The mistress owes it to the
-maid as well as to herself to see that these are all they should be. No
-matter how excellent is the written reference shown by the servant,
-it should be verified by the prospective employer. In many cases the
-mistress of a departing maid will write for her an uncandid reference
-for the sake of saving herself an unpleasant scene or from a mistaken
-kindliness. She does not wish to endanger the maid's chances of securing
-further employment, and she prefers to stretch the truth to being honest
-in the recommendation she bestows. A lamentable want of honor prevails
-between housekeepers in this regard, and the woman who has not found
-a maid in the least satisfactory while in her own employ will send her
-forth with a reference which makes it tolerably sure she can obtain
-a situation elsewhere without difficulty. On the other hand, the new
-mistress is no less heedless and will take a servant into her employ
-simply on the strength of a written reference without giving herself the
-pains to inquire as to its accuracy.
-
-Too much stress can hardly be laid upon this necessity for honesty in
-the references given. It is the protection of the maid as well as of
-the mistress. So long as any servant can secure a good place by a forged
-reference or by one granted to incompetency by easy good-nature,
-she will not feel that her employment depends upon her merits. The
-conscientious trained worker stands on precisely the same plane as the
-careless, unqualified shirk. A good part of the reformation of the much
-criticised domestic service lies with the mistress who deplores its
-faults. When a maid understands that laziness, impertinence, dishonesty,
-ill-temper, incompetency, will be mentioned in her reference just
-as frankly as the contrary good qualities, she will take more pains
-concerning the recommendation that will win or lose her a place.
-
-As a matter of course, there is always the chance that an unscrupulous
-or bad-tempered mistress may take advantage of the power of the
-reference. But this risk is small, especially in the present condition
-of our domestic service. We have not yet reached the point attained by
-the English, with whom a false reference--that is, one not written by
-a genuine employer of the servant holding the reference--is punished by
-fine or imprisonment. From present appearances, it does not seem likely
-that we shall ever get to that. But the mistresses might at least have
-the sense of mutual responsibility that marks "living-out girls." If a
-place is once known as hard, or a mistress as unreasonable, unkind, or
-a "driver," it is difficult to find servants to fill it. There is an
-unorganized trades-union among servants which helps to protect them,
-in a measure. The mistresses have too little _esprit de corps_ when
-references are in question.
-
-It is difficult to describe to a prospective maid exactly what her
-work will be, but she can have a general outline of it given to her.
-Concerning her privileges it is possible to be more explicit, although
-the privileges vary with the position the maid occupies in the
-household. Where one servant is kept, it is customary to allow her every
-other Sunday afternoon and evening out, and an afternoon and evening
-besides on a week-day, once a fortnight--or else an evening every week.
-When two servants are employed the same privilege is allowed to each,
-and it is the general rule that one shall take the work of the other on
-the days and evenings out of the latter. Thus, the second maid prepares
-dinner as well as serves it, when the cook is out, while the cook does
-the waiting and serving and answers the bell, in addition to doing her
-own work, when the second maid has her holiday. In some households it is
-the custom to have supper instead of dinner on the night when the cook
-goes out, thus lightening the task of the waitress. The Sunday evening
-supper is practically universal, as it gives the maids their heaviest
-work in the early part of the day and lessens the labor of the afternoon
-and evening. In the household where three women servants are employed,
-it is the custom to have but one out at a time, except on Sundays. More
-or less planning is required to divide the work satisfactorily
-under these circumstances, and the method in which the division is
-accomplished must be decided by the features of each case. Whatever the
-peculiarities of the position, they must be made plain to the maid when
-she is engaged, and not left at random to be decided upon later.
-
-The arrangements once made, it must be understood that the rules formed
-are not to be lightly broken, either by mistress or maid. The employée
-is to know that she can count positively on a certain day a week, and
-the mistress must submit to great personal inconvenience sooner than
-vary from this rule. If, for instance, it is more agreeable for her to
-entertain guests on Thursday than on Wednesday, and the former is the
-maid's evening out, the mistress should waive her own preferences
-and convenience sooner than break in upon the maid's outing. The same
-principle should be followed by the maid. Her day out is agreed upon
-to be this or that. She should not feel that she can change it to suit
-herself, merely by requesting the indulgence of her mistress.
-
-In other matters about the household there should be a fixed routine,
-and this should be understood from the outset. Meals will be served at
-certain hours, the maid will be expected to have them on time and the
-family to be prompt at the table. Such system as this does much towards
-simplifying the work of a household and gives a maid a feeling of
-stability that helps her to do her work to better advantage. She knows
-what she has to do in the line of work and what to depend upon in the
-way of time, and as a consequence the wheels of the home move more
-smoothly.
-
-Such a hard-and-fast rule as this cannot prevail, perhaps, in every
-household. Take the case of a physician, for instance, of a newspaper
-man, of some business-men. It is almost out of the question for them to
-conform to an immutable regulation. If a doctor has been up all night
-with a patient, it is rank absurdity to say that he must be on hand in
-the morning for an eight-o'clock breakfast, or that if a commuter loses
-his train he must stop in town and get his dinner sooner than derange
-the times and seasons of the domestic economy. In such cases it is well
-to remember that the house is made for the family and not the family for
-the house. But instances like these are exceptions, and do not affect
-the general application of the rule.
-
-On the other hand, it may be urged that there are happy and, in the
-main, well-conducted homes where a different principle is followed. In
-these the establishment is considered more as the home and less as a
-piece of machinery. Concessions are rendered to the preferences of the
-servants when they wish to vary their days out, and they in turn are
-ready to accommodate themselves to the wishes of their employers when
-a change of holidays seems desirable. Such liberties as these it is
-not safe to advise. They are the exceptions, and, in the long run, the
-stricter plan will probably prove more satisfactory to all concerned.
-
-At the time of engaging the maid, the mistress should make stipulations
-as to the minutiæ of caps, aprons, broad collars and cuffs, and the
-like. In some parts of the country there are maids who object to
-anything that seems to suggest a livery or uniform, and, if there are
-protests to be made and met, the process should be disposed of at the
-start.
-
-Many mistresses and maids fail to grasp the fact that the engagement
-between them is in the nature of a legal contract. Mistress and maid are
-equals in the eyes of the law, and an agreement is as binding upon one
-as upon the other. It should be perfectly understood at the beginning
-for what term the maid is engaged and at what rates. In some places it
-is the custom to pay by the week, and the servant is then engaged by
-that term. In other localities she is engaged and paid by the month,
-although she is frequently taken at first on a week's trial, with the
-understanding that, if she gives satisfaction and is suited with the
-place, she is to continue her services by the month. When the latter
-period is the term of engagement, it is understood that the employer is
-expected to give not less than a week's notice of discharge to a maid,
-and that the latter should announce a week before her month is up her
-intention of leaving. Should the mistress prefer, she can give a week's
-wages in lieu of a week's notice, but the former method is in more
-general use.
-
-When a servant is engaged by the week, two or three days' notice is
-demanded on either side. The "month's notice" with which English books
-have made us familiar is not common here, unless the servant has been
-for a long time in the place. Immorality, drunkenness, dishonesty, and
-absolute refusal to obey orders are sufficient causes for dismissing a
-servant without warning or wages; but this is an extreme measure, and
-should be resorted to only in circumstances of great provocation. Even
-then, complications are often avoided by paying a servant something, if
-not all of what is due. The servant who leaves without warning in the
-middle of her term is not legally entitled to her wages, but in this
-case, also, trouble is usually saved by paying her up to date.
-
-Among the stipulations incident to the engagement of a maid, it is well
-to make mention of breakages. This may not be needful when hiring a
-cook, but it is a safeguard when engaging a waitress or even a general
-housework servant. Inquiries should be put as to the maid's carefulness
-with china, and there should be an agreement that the maid is
-responsible for breakages except in cases of unavoidable accident. Such
-a proviso as this may deter some maids from taking a place, but the
-careful girl is not likely to object to the rule, and the mistress would
-probably be unfortunate should she engage a maid who resented such a
-regulation.
-
-
-
-
-II
-
-WHEN THE MAID ARRIVES
-
-
-The first days of a servant in a new place are not easy either for
-mistress or for maid. This should be recognized by the mistress, and she
-should lay in an extra supply of patience for the emergency. She will
-need it, in order to endure with equanimity the sins, negligences, and
-ignorances of the new-comer--especially the ignorances. Yet, looked at
-impartially, the blunders made by the maid are probably not so much the
-result of ignorance as of unaccustomedness. The situation is much
-harder for her than for the mistress. The latter is at least on familiar
-ground. To the former the place is an unknown quantity. She does not
-know where anything is kept. She is ignorant of the preferences of her
-new employer. She is encompassed by novel surroundings and faces; and--a
-fact that is not always recognized by employers--the very phraseology of
-the new mistress is strange to her. The maid lacks the mental
-training that would enable her to adapt herself quickly to the changed
-conditions, the unusual expressions. Under the circumstances, the wonder
-is not that she does things so badly, but that she accommodates herself
-as readily as she does to the fresh environment.
-
-I have spoken of the diffidence that sometimes produces the impression
-of sullenness. This same diffidence often takes other forms that are
-even more trying than gloom. I have known of one maid who, during the
-first fortnight of her stay in a new place, received every order with a
-loud giggle--the fashion in which her embarrassment manifested itself.
-Another was so much at a loss what to do with her hands when they were
-not occupied with her work, that she slapped them together constantly as
-she moved about the house or stood waiting for orders. Yet both of
-these maids, after their first shyness had worn off and they had found
-themselves and their relation to their work, became admirable servants
-and overcame the defects that had at first tried the patience of the
-mistress almost beyond endurance.
-
-In the average American household, where there is only a small domestic
-force, the mistress should always show the servant what are her duties
-or direct how these are to be performed. In large households, where
-there is a housekeeper, the training of the new servants may be
-delegated to her, but these establishments are too few to be weighed
-in making up the main account. As soon as the maid comes the mistress
-should direct her or show her to her room, and tell her to change her
-street garb for her working-dress and then to report herself to the
-mistress. She, on her own part, should be ready for the new-comer, not
-only with a clearly framed idea of the work she will put her to first,
-but also with the house in good order for the work that is to be done.
-
-Nothing is more discouraging to a servant than to come into a place that
-is dirty from the carelessness of the former occupant, or untidy and
-topsy-turvy. The maid is as susceptible to first impressions as the rest
-of us, and the moral effect of bringing her into a dirty and disorderly
-kitchen is distinctly bad. The mistress should have had the kitchen
-and pantries cleaned by the outgoing maid--and it should have been done
-under her own supervision or else thoroughly inspected after the work
-is finished. Should the maid who is leaving not have done her task
-thoroughly, it is better for the mistress to give her own time and labor
-to cleaning closets and shelves, or engage a charwoman to do it, than
-to permit the maid to come in before the work is properly performed. The
-servant who finds dust in the corners, the stove unpolished, the cellar
-and refrigerator uncleaned, is likely to draw the conclusion that the
-places can remain as she found them, or may be suffered to drift into
-the same condition again whenever she is too lazy or too careless to
-give them proper attention.
-
-A word about the maid's bedroom. In some circumstances it is impossible
-to make it very alluring. When all of a family are tucked away in dark,
-inside rooms, as is the case in many city apartments, it cannot be
-expected that the maid will fare better than her employers. But,
-fortunately, all humanity are not cliff-dwellers. There are plenty of
-homes where it is possible for the maid to have a light, airy bedroom,
-which could be made attractive at a small expenditure of time and money.
-Yet it is seldom that a servant's room has anything pleasing about
-it. The mistresses defend themselves by saying that the servants are
-heedless with good things, that they do not take care of what is given
-them, and any mistress can cite facts to prove this position.
-
-Without disputing the truth of these statements, it may yet be urged
-that it is hard for a servant to come into a room that bears plainly the
-traces of its former occupant's untidiness. Possibly the new-comer has
-in her the potentialities of neatness and cleanliness, and it is unfair
-to check these at the start. The room cannot be refurnished for every
-new maid; but the furniture it contains can be of a sort that is readily
-freshened. The white iron cots are neat as well as comfortable, and
-there should be a good mattress always. A hard-working maid has a
-right to a comfortable bed. If there are two servants, they should have
-separate beds. This should be an invariable rule. The mattress should be
-protected by one of the covers that come for this purpose. This can
-be washed as often as it needs it. The blankets, too, should be washed
-between the departure of one maid and the arrival of another. A neat
-iron wash-stand, a plain bureau that can have a fresh bureau-cover or a
-clean towel laid over it, a comfortable chair, a rug by the bed, are not
-expensive and add much to the comfort of a room. It is wiser to have the
-floor bare and painted, or spread with a matting, than covered with a
-shabby and worn-out carpet which gathers dust and dirt. The walls
-are better painted than papered. The mistress can consult her own
-preferences as to whether or not she shall put pictures on the walls,
-but she should not make of the maid's room a lumber place for the old
-engravings and chromos that will be tolerated in no other part of the
-house, and do it under the impression that she is making the place
-attractive to the maid-servant within her gates. The bed should, if
-possible, be made up before the maid arrives, with a fresh spread, and
-the room should have the absolute cleanliness that is always a charm.
-
-One more point should be looked after in preparing for the maid's
-arrival. The mistress should make sure that the supply of china and
-cutlery that the maid will use for her own meals is in decent order.
-It cannot be pleasant for any one to have bent and tarnished forks and
-spoons, cracked and stained cups, saucers, and plates for her food. The
-cost of replacing these by new is very slight and pays for itself in the
-agreeable impression given the maid by the fresh, bright articles.
-
-A list of the dining-room silver, linen, and china should be made by
-the mistress and gone over by her with the maid the day of the latter's
-arrival. By thus verifying the list the maid has a clear idea of
-the property that is given into her charge and knows for what she is
-responsible. If the china is nicked or cracked, mention should be made
-on the list of each piece thus disfigured, and there should be a note
-of linen that is worn or broken. By means of such a list the mistress is
-able to keep track of her possessions and there is no possibility of the
-maid's excusing a chipped plate or a cracked dish with the plea that
-it was injured before she came. Such a list is also a safeguard to the
-maid, who is by it enabled to prove that she is not to be blamed for
-disasters that occurred during the stay of a predecessor.
-
-When the servant presents herself ready dressed for her work, the
-mistress should tell her as simply as possible what this will be. The
-instruction would better be given in broken doses. The workings of the
-untrained mind are peculiar, and in mental equipment the average servant
-is often on a level with a child of ten or twelve. Bestow too many facts
-at once and you produce only confusion. So it is not well to make an
-attempt to give the maid a bird's-eye view of what will be her whole
-duty, but rather to acquaint her by degrees with her occupations. The
-first step is for the mistress to show her where her work is to be and
-the instruments with which she is to perform it. Should she be a cook,
-she must be introduced to the kitchen, the management of the range
-explained to her, the whereabouts of the principal utensils made clear.
-If it is the waitress who is to be inducted into office, she should be
-taken to the china-closet, the contents of this and of the silver and
-linen drawers displayed, and the particular pieces pointed out that are
-in daily service. When the waitress is also the chambermaid, there are
-explanations required as to the upstairs work. But, as I have said, it
-is better to supply these little by little.
-
-For example, if the cook comes into the house in the morning, give
-her time to get used to her kitchen and her tools before too much
-information is offered as to the preferences of the family in cookery.
-Since the first meal she will have to prepare will be luncheon, tell her
-about this, and do not burden her with the details of dinner until after
-lunch is over. Still less try to give her at one fell swoop all she
-will need to know about breakfast the next morning or what she will be
-expected to do on washing and ironing day.
-
-These instructions may sound unnecessary to the trained and experienced
-housekeeper; but the world is not entirely made up of these. The
-majority of women are more or less lacking in sense of proportion and
-in perspective, and this lack leads to a jumbling of their ideas which
-makes life complex for those to whom the ideas are to be imparted. Of
-course, once in a while one finds an intelligent servant who understands
-herself well enough to slip at once into her place and do the work of
-it smoothly, but she is the rare exception to the rule. The housekeeper
-must plan for the average, not for the exception.
-
-This way of giving orders naturally confines the housekeeper more or
-less during the first days of her new maid's arrival--but a domestic
-convulsion of any sort is attended with drawbacks. The mistress must
-appreciate the fact that she will have to sacrifice herself a little in
-order to train her new maid properly, and that the result will be worth
-the trouble.
-
-This does not mean that the mistress should stand over a servant and
-dictate the way in which every duty is to be performed. The employer
-should bear in mind that there is more than one right way of doing
-nearly everything, and if the new maid has a special way of her own of
-accomplishing this or that, she should be allowed to follow her custom
-until she has proved that it is not so good as that of her mistress.
-This may sound reckless, but it has common-sense to commend it. When the
-maid is given a chance to prove or disprove the excellence of her method
-and it turns out to be as good as that of the mistress, there is the
-saving of just so much friction and effort in teaching and learning a
-new way.
-
-In advocating this I am taking it for granted that the maid has some
-idea of the manner in which her work is to be done. If she is absolutely
-"green," she will have to be taught from the beginning, and then the
-mistress has no option. Such servants are discouraging and tiresome at
-the outset, but they often turn out the best in the long-run. In their
-cases the mistress has no bad impressions to efface and she can implant
-her own modes in virgin soil.
-
-When, however, the maid has some knowledge of her duties, the mistress
-should show her where she is to work, give her directions for the
-services that come next, and then leave her to herself. She will learn
-her way about her domain much more quickly if she is unembarrassed by
-the presence of an observer.
-
-The mistress must be prepared for blunders even after she has given
-explicit directions. As I have said, it is quite possible the maid
-may not understand the mistress at first, or, in the confusion of new
-impressions, she may forget or confound directions. Should she serve
-a dish in a different fashion from that in which it has been ordered,
-reproof should be reserved until the mistress has made sure of the
-reason for the variation. If the wrong china or silver or linen is
-used, corrections should be made judiciously. The fault may have been
-forgetfulness, it may have been misunderstanding, and, in any case,
-fresh confusion will be the result if too many blunders are commented
-upon at once. The maid should be directed to repair one or two
-omissions, and the rest should be ignored for the time being, to be put
-right later on.
-
-Occasionally a maid will be found who seems chronically unable to set a
-table right. I have known of several who persisted in putting on crooked
-the square of damask that was used at breakfast and luncheon instead
-of the large cloth that covered the entire table at dinner. The square
-would be laid in a slanting, to-one-side fashion that gave the whole
-table a drunken look. The mistress finally hit upon a successful plan.
-She put four chairs on the four sides of the table, each exactly in
-the middle of a side, and then laid on the cloth with each of its four
-corners precisely in front of a chair. The object-lesson worked to a
-charm and crooked cloths became a thing of the past.
-
-Forgetfulness of some piece of table-furniture is a more common fault
-and one more difficult to rectify. If it seems impossible to overcome it
-in any other way, the mistress may make a ground plan of the table as it
-should look when properly laid, or write a list of all the objects that
-should go on it for different meals. It is not necessary to resort to
-this, however, until several days' experience has proved the new maid's
-inability to grasp what is required.
-
-A chambermaid will make corresponding blunders for a time. She will
-have to be told more than once how the beds are to be made, will have
-to receive repeated instruction never to put the blankets on with the
-doubled end at the top, and to be careful about stretching tight the
-lower sheet and tucking in the coverings properly at the bottom. At the
-beginning the mistress should establish her standard about this sort of
-thing as she does about sweeping, dusting, and other cleaning, and
-she must never relax her requirements if she expects to have her house
-properly kept.
-
-All this need not be told the maid the first day she comes, but even
-then she may be made to understand that work is not to be slighted or
-neglected. This principle, at least, she must have clearly in her mind
-at the end of the first day's service, even although her thoughts may
-be a trifle chaotic as regards details. Those it will be the work of the
-mistress to make clear as time goes on and the maid becomes accustomed
-to her work.
-
-
-
-
-III
-
-MISTRESS AND MAID
-
-
-There is a type of mistress who seems to regard servants as beings of an
-inferior order. Her directions are given curtly--sometimes harshly.
-She takes the ground that the servant is paid for her work and that
-for anything beyond the business relation there is no need for
-consideration. She may be called one extreme type.
-
-The other extreme is more common. In her desire to propitiate her
-employée she is herself almost servile. She is in frank fear lest the
-servant may leave her, and in order to retain her services makes almost
-any concession. Such mistresses as these furnish materials for most of
-the jokes on the servant question--jokes that are hardly exaggerated.
-
-Between these two extremes there is room for a mistress who unites
-considerateness with self-respect. She speaks pleasantly to her
-servants, but she does not spoil them by an ingratiatory manner or show
-herself ready to make any sacrifice sooner than run the risk of parting
-with them. She gives orders as orders, instead of asking services as
-favors; but she issues her commands in a kindly way and with none of the
-tone or manner of a dictator, still less of a shrew. When her servants
-are to be reprimanded, she does it quietly, lowering rather than raising
-her voice. If a servant cannot be managed in this manner, she feels it
-is better to part with her. In the words of a veteran housekeeper of
-this variety, "I will not have a servant in my house whom I have to
-scold."
-
-Every one recollects the saying that in herding sheep it is necessary
-not only to teach the dogs to drive the sheep, but to accustom the sheep
-to obey the dogs. So it is as desirable for the mistress to learn
-the proper method of dealing with the maids as it is for the maids to
-understand the mistress. There are many kinds of manners in both.
-But few are the servants who do not respond more quickly to a kindly,
-gracious manner than to one tinged with severity.
-
-Mention has been made of the difficulty a maid sometimes has in
-accustoming herself to the phraseology of a new mistress. To the girl's
-hesitancy about asking for a repetition of an order, or an explanation,
-are due some of the blunders she makes. The mistress should be sure she
-is entirely understood before she sends the girl about her work.
-Also, she should be clear as to the cause of a mistake or of apparent
-disobedience before she finds fault. Always the mistress should be ready
-to make explanations about the work. When the maid comes for instruction
-she should be met patiently, and if there seems to be a difficulty of
-understanding, a practical illustration will often do more than half an
-hour of verbal directions. When the mistress can show the maid how
-the table is to be set, how the beds are to be made, can give her an
-object-lesson in sweeping or dusting or dish-washing, she will have
-accomplished more than a dozen lectures would have wrought. Nothing
-better in instruction has been devised than the Squeers method. "First
-they spells it and they goes and does it." But it is the mistress who
-does the spelling as well as the doing if she wishes the new maid to
-grasp a novel mode of performing a household duty.
-
-The mistress should not shrink from reproof when it has to be
-administered. There are very few employées in any walk of life who are
-possessed of so large a supply of conscientiousness that they discharge
-their duties as well without oversight as with it. To every gang of
-workmen there is an overseer. In housekeeping the mistress is overseer
-as well as planner. She must "follow up" her maids--not so obviously
-that they feel she does not trust them, but closely enough to produce
-the impression upon them that she takes an interest in their work and
-means to see that it is thoroughly done. When it is not accomplished to
-her liking she should call them to account, not unkindly, but decidedly.
-If a ring of dust around the bric-à-brac shows where the duster has
-been flourished about the furniture instead of being used to wipe each
-surface carefully, the mistress should call the maid to bring her cloth
-and point out to her the defects in that portion of her work. Should
-there be dirt left in the corners of the room, finger-marks on the
-paint, streaks on the windows, the same course should be pursued. When
-this has been done a few times, unless the employée is exceptionally
-slow-witted, she learns that it is less trouble to perform the work
-properly in the first place than to have to go over it twice, and the
-second time under the supervision of the mistress.
-
-All this the employer can do without joining the ranks of the fussers
-or belonging to that class known as the "nasty particular" housekeepers.
-The latter, who put the cleanliness of the house so far above the
-comfort of its inmates that these feel they would rather have dirt with
-peace than tidiness without it, are common enough to make a word of
-warning in place. But it is possible to accomplish neatness without
-sacrificing family concord, and in the desire to secure the latter the
-housekeeper should not permit herself or her servants to drift into
-carelessness.
-
-From the first the mistress should have it clearly understood that there
-is no place in the house into which she may not penetrate. Her daily
-inspection of the refrigerator and the pantries should be a matter of
-course. Her presence in the kitchen should never excite surprise or
-provoke criticism. Naturally, she should exercise tact in this as in
-every other relation of life. For instance, she should not choose the
-time for her morning visit to the kitchen when the maids are at their
-breakfast. In fact, she should be punctilious not to call her servants
-from their meals except in cases of absolute necessity. They have a
-right to take their food undisturbed, and this right the mistress should
-respect. Nor should the housekeeper choose the cook's busiest day for
-doing cooking on her own account, if this is going to add to the sum of
-the servant's labors. It is lack of consideration on these points that
-gives a house the reputation of being a "hard place." When such details
-as these are observed, servants are more likely to be contented, even if
-the work is heavy, than they are in a lighter place where they feel that
-their rights and privileges are disregarded.
-
-If a servant is to be reprimanded, it should never be done in the
-presence of a third person. The maid is no less human because she is
-in a subordinate position, and it is hard for any of us to take reproof
-kindly when it is bestowed in the hearing of some one else. If the
-mistress is inclined to be hasty, it is well for her to wait a few
-minutes after the discovery of the fault before she utters her rebuke.
-That will give her time to get the fault a little in perspective and
-to see its true proportions. Then she should summon the maid to her and
-deliver her words of warning or reprimand. Never should she go to the
-kitchen to scold the cook. There the knowledge of the latter that she
-is, so to speak, on her own ground has sometimes the unfortunate effect
-of provoking an impertinent rejoinder, which would not be forthcoming
-if the interview had taken place in the mistress's own room or in the
-drawing-room.
-
-There is a peculiar sting in a reproof given for a fault that is due to
-accident, to misunderstanding, or to some other pardonable cause. Very
-often the request for an explanation will bring out facts that
-the mistress had not known and which put a different face upon the
-occurrence. When rebuke is essential it should not only be delivered
-quietly, but there should be no mark of anger in the manner of the
-mistress. Such demeanor as this is more impressive than the harsh tones,
-the sharp words, for which the culprit might have been prepared.
-
-There are, of course, limits to which faults may be permitted to go. If
-it is impossible to conquer them by reproof, it is better to discharge a
-servant than to have to persist in fault-finding. Life is too short for
-perpetual rebukes.
-
-Never should the mistress forget that there is as much demand for
-courtesy in her terms with her servants as in any other relation in
-which she is placed. This is a fact that is often overlooked. A woman
-does not make herself less but more of a lady by prefixing "please" to
-her requests to her servants, or by rewarding a service with a word of
-thanks. This sounds so obvious that the injunction may seem absurd, but
-a little observation of mistresses and maids will convince any one that
-there is need for the advice. In many households not only the mistress
-but the master of the home gives orders harshly and discourteously, and
-the children are quick to take their cue from their elders. A degree of
-rudeness is permitted by parents in their children that should not
-be tolerated for an instant. The small boys and girls in presumably
-well-bred families bully and "sauce" the servants in a fashion that
-would do credit to a gang of hoodlums in a tough district. Sometimes the
-parents do not know it, at other times they know of it and do not take
-the pains to correct it. The children should be taught to show courtesy
-to servants as well as to any one else with whom they are brought
-into contact. The very fact that the employées are not at liberty
-to retaliate in kind should be used as an argument to teach them the
-cowardice of insolence and unkindness.
-
-When courtesy is given by the employers it seldom fails to be accorded
-by the employed. A courteous order meets a respectful response, and,
-as a rule, willing service is more likely to be granted. As a matter of
-course, the service is in a way an obligation that is bought and paid
-for, but the introduction of a little kindliness into the transaction
-does much to diminish friction. Apart from that, however, the courtesy
-is a duty the employer owes herself, quite irrespective of its effect
-upon her servants.
-
-While reproof should be given where it is needed, the mistress should
-never suffer herself to neglect the virtue of praise. It is a hard life
-when one's shortcomings only are recognized and one's good deeds are
-taken as a matter of course. If humanity were at its highest level the
-thought that the work was well done would perhaps be enough to bring
-satisfaction, but as it is, a word of commendation is grateful to all of
-us. It is a little thing to praise the latest baking as remarkably good,
-to commend the maid who has waited exceptionally well at a company lunch
-or dinner, to say a kindly word when a fault of heedlessness or neglect
-has been corrected; but such words as these are the oil that greases the
-domestic machinery. Without them it runs hard and demands more power to
-keep it in motion.
-
-There is always the possibility of such commendation being given so
-often that it comes to mean nothing. This danger the mistress must guard
-against. There is also the chance that the maid may be of the variety
-with whom praise must be cumulative in order to produce any effect. I
-have known one of that sort. If her biscuit were praised once as being
-good, they had to be called excellent the second time, surpassing the
-third, and so on, until the adjectives applicable to biscuit had been
-exhausted and the mistress saw dark gloom on the servant's face, and was
-asked coldly if the biscuit were not as good as usual. But such cases
-as these are not common, and in any circumstances the housekeeper must
-gauge the appetite for praise and administer it with judgment.
-
-Sometimes one meets a presuming maid who takes advantage of the kindness
-of the mistress to force an undue familiarity. This, too, must be
-watched for, but the possibility of this result does not do away with
-the desirability of consideration on the part of the mistress to the
-maid. Fully as often as one finds this trouble does one see a foolish
-mistress who, taking a fancy to a maid, lets the latter drift into
-a position of pseudo-intimacy which is hard to break off. It is not
-probable that the latter would have put herself forward without a
-certain amount of encouragement. Once in a blue moon one meets a pearl
-of a serving-woman who is worthy of all the confidence and affection
-that can be bestowed upon her, and who grants to her employers an
-unselfish devotion that one rarely gets from one's next of kin. Such
-cases are few and far between, and blessed among women is she who has
-such a treasure in her household. The average housekeeper should not
-be too ready to think she has drawn one of these prizes in the
-domestic-service lottery. If she goes ahead too quickly on this
-hypothesis, she may have an unpleasant awakening. When advances are
-made by the mistress, and the maid presumes upon them, it is only the
-mistress who is to blame if the maid "forgets her place."
-
-The mistress should avoid taking sides in any controversy between
-servants. Often there is a good deal of jealousy between the employées
-in a household, and if one maid is favored more than another there is
-likely to be hard feeling. This pitfall must be kept in mind by the
-mistress. Even without expressed preferences for one over the other, she
-is sometimes in danger of being drawn into quarrels the servants have
-between themselves. Almost always she is wise to decline to espouse the
-part of either one. Occasionally, if she has good servants who seem to
-misunderstand one another it may be worth while, for her own sake as
-well as for theirs, to attempt to adjust differences between them. As a
-rule, it is well for her to keep out of it after one trial has shown her
-that her intervention has worked no good. Never should the mistress
-be led into discussing one servant with another, or listening to the
-complaints that a domestic makes of her fellow-workers. Class-feeling
-is stronger than the relation of employer and employed, and the mistress
-who takes up the cause of one maid against another is by way of finding
-she has put her fingers between the bark and the tree. The two employées
-are likely to make up the quarrel and combine in common cause against
-the mistress. This does not bespeak any especial depravity on their
-part. They are simply human beings, and the tie that binds them together
-holds where that which attaches them to the mistress fails. They go with
-their own as she would with her own.
-
-In order to avert complications it is safe for the mistress to give her
-orders direct to her servants instead of sending them by one maid
-to another. The latter course makes room for misunderstanding and
-recriminations. When a maid has been in the same employ for a good
-while, this rule may be waived, but when she is new to the place there
-should be no go-between in the matter of giving directions. The mistress
-should announce her own orders.
-
-
-
-
-IV
-
-THE DUTIES OF THE MAID-OF-ALL-WORK
-
-
-The general housework servant has already been referred to as a Pooh Bah
-in petticoats. She takes practically all labor for her province. It
-is an illustration of the value of specialization that as a rule she
-commands lower wages for her services than does a maid who fills any one
-alone of the functions the general housework servant performs.
-
-Since the duties of the maid-of-all-work are what they are, the mistress
-should make a stipulation at the time of the engagement that the
-employée should be ready to "turn her hand to anything." For it is fatal
-if she once begins to say that this or that is not "her work." That
-phrase is reserved for the use of the specialist. The general servant
-should understand that one of the conditions of her position is
-the necessity for making herself useful in every department of the
-household.
-
-This does not mean that she is to be a domestic drudge of the London
-"slavey" type. She needs no warning against this. Domestic service of
-a good sort is too hard to secure in this country for there to be any
-danger of the maid becoming down-trodden and imposed upon. The country
-bound-girl may have to submit to imposition, but it would not be
-tolerated for a moment by the ordinary independent serving-maid. If
-there is domination on either side it is more likely to be found on the
-part of the maid, who feels the advantage at which she holds her alleged
-mistress.
-
-Putting aside extreme cases and turning to the average maid and
-mistress, it may be repeated that it is difficult to define with
-clearness the exact duties of the maid-of-all-work. She understands that
-she is to do cooking, waiting, and chamber-work, and probably washing
-and ironing. Should the family be small she will perform nearly all
-these duties herself--that is, if the family live in a simple fashion.
-Should the household be large, the maid may expect a helper with the
-laundry-work, and the lighter house-work will devolve upon the mistress
-of the house or her daughters. One pair of hands, even when backed by a
-quick head and a willing heart, cannot accomplish everything in the work
-of the house without neglecting or slighting something. The mistress of
-one maid must recognize this and be prepared to take her share of the
-labor when this is heavy. What her part is to be she must define as
-clearly as possible at the first, in order that the maid may know just
-what she has to do and be able to arrange her occupations to the best
-advantage. When the mistress does something outside of the duties she
-has assumed, she should have it thoroughly understood that her act is
-an exception, performed for some specific reason. It is very easy to let
-the exception glide into a rule, and what the maid received at first as
-a favor which would spare her extra toil she regards later as a right to
-which she is entitled.
-
-At the beginning, the mistress does well to lay out the routine of the
-work of the day for the benefit of the new maid. After the latter
-has learned the ways of the house, and finds that she can make slight
-alterations which will render her work easier, she should be permitted
-to do so if the mistress finds that the tasks are discharged as well
-as under the earlier plan. Many a mistress gains good points from
-a servant, and the intelligent housekeeper, knowing this, is on the
-lookout for suggestions she may find of service.
-
-Certain regular duties are practically the same each day, no matter what
-the other work may be. Early rising should be insisted upon. Six o'clock
-is none too early for a maid to be up in a house where breakfast is
-at seven-thirty or eight o'clock. By half after six the maid should be
-dressed and down-stairs. If the care of the furnace falls upon her, her
-first duty in winter is to open the draughts of the furnace and put on
-a little coal. While this is kindling she can go back to her work
-up-stairs. The kitchen fire must be lighted, the kettle filled freshly
-and set to boil, the cereal put over the fire, before the maid goes into
-the living-rooms to open the windows. While these rooms are airing she
-may brush out the front hall and sweep off the steps, unless there is
-a man engaged to take care of the outside work of the house and to look
-after the furnace. When there is a gas-stove, the maid's work is
-much simpler, and in that case she may open the windows and do the
-brushing-up before she puts the kettle to boil. When the furnace fire
-has come up, she may go down, put on more coal, and close the draughts.
-
-In most families where but one maid is employed the mistress of the
-house dusts her drawing-room. When this is the rule, the maid has only
-to air the rooms, straighten the furniture that is out of place, and
-brush up any scraps or dust that need to be removed. If the floors
-or parts of them are bare, she should go over them with a damp cloth.
-Should the family be very small, consisting of but two or three persons,
-it is possible for the maid to do all the dusting. If this does not
-devolve upon her, there are other small duties she can perform at this
-time, such as filling and cleaning lamps. When there is a sitting-room,
-this, too, should be set in order.
-
-Whatever else may be postponed until after breakfast, the dining-room
-must not be overlooked. It must be brushed up and thoroughly dusted. Few
-things are more de-appetizing than to sit down to the first meal of
-the day in a room which is still, so to speak, in curl-papers. If the
-servant is brisk about her work she can look after the drawing-room,
-halls, and dining-room, and set the table before she has to go back to
-the kitchen. In households where a heavy breakfast is served, or where
-the rooms are elaborately furnished, she may have to get up earlier
-or leave part of the dusting to be done later. But the dusting of the
-dining-room must never be omitted. The morning tasks may be lightened a
-little by setting the breakfast-table overnight, and when this is done a
-thin cover--a sheet of cheese-cloth is excellent--should be thrown
-over the table after it is set to protect the dishes and other
-table-furniture from dust.
-
-The preparation of the breakfast is the maid's next duty. The extent of
-the work this involves varies, of course, in different households. In
-some homes the old-fashioned American breakfast of hot meat or fish,
-warm bread, and potatoes cooked in some form is still preserved. Other
-families have adopted a modification of the Continental breakfast, and
-find all they need for the morning meal in fruit, a cereal, rolls or
-toast, eggs or bacon, and coffee. The latter breakfast simplifies the
-work of the household, but it is not popular everywhere. Whatever the
-breakfast, it should be in readiness at the hour appointed, if the
-members of the family are on hand or not. It need not be served until it
-is ordered, but it should be entirely ready. When all the persons in a
-household can reconcile themselves to breakfasting together, it makes
-work easier and saves time. Should they find it impossible to partake of
-it in harmony as well as in unison, and each one eats alone, it renders
-the meal a more prolonged function. Under such circumstances, the food
-may be kept hot for the tardy ones and they may be granted the privilege
-of getting it for themselves from the kitchen when they arrive, instead
-of impeding progress by making the duties of the day yield to their
-convenience.
-
-The fruit-course may be on the table when the family is summoned. At
-breakfast they usually do for themselves such waiting as passing plates,
-cups and saucers, and the like. A plate and finger-bowl may be in front
-of each person, and the porridge-bowl and saucer may be close by also,
-if it is desirable to simplify the service. Or these dishes may be on
-the serving-table or sideboard, and the maid may put them on the table
-with the cereal when she comes in to take out the fruit-plates. After
-the cereal-dishes have been removed and the rest of the breakfast
-served, the maid may be excused to go about her other work. The time
-of her own breakfast may be settled by the mistress and herself. The
-sensible course is for the maid to eat something and take a cup of tea
-or coffee in the intervals of her early work, but there are few servants
-who can be persuaded to do this. If the maid prefers she can take her
-breakfast while the family is eating, but most maids and mistresses seem
-to find it more convenient to dispose of the bedroom work as early as
-possible.
-
-When this is the case the maid should go to the chambers as soon as the
-substantial part of the breakfast is on the table. The occupants of
-the beds should have stripped these on rising and opened the windows
-on leaving the rooms. If this has been done the bedclothing has had a
-chance to air. In order that such airing may be adequately done, the
-covers should be taken from the bed and spread across a couple of
-chairs placed back to back. The covers must not drag on the floor. The
-mattresses should be beaten and turned back over the foot of the bed
-that the air may reach them from both sides. To freshen them thoroughly,
-they should be left thus, the windows open, for from fifteen minutes to
-half an hour. While this is going on the rooms may be brushed or gone
-over with a carpet-sweeper--not thoroughly swept: this comes at another
-time. The beds may now be made and the dusting done.
-
-In a small family it is taken for granted that the maid should do this
-work, but in a household of more than two or three it is customary for
-the women of the family to look after the beds. In that case the maid
-need only brush up the rooms, strip the beds, and empty soiled water,
-leaving the rest of the up-stairs work undone while she goes back to
-the kitchen. She may now take her own breakfast if she has not had it
-earlier, and clear the table. After every meal the dishes should be
-removed from the table as soon as possible. They should be carried into
-the kitchen or the butler's pantry, the cloth brushed--never shaken--and
-folded, and the dining-room put in order, the crumbs brushed from about
-the table, the chairs put in their places, the room darkened, if it is
-warm weather. If the mistress of the house dusts the chambers, the maid
-may now wash the dishes; if not, she may scrape them and leave them to
-soak in warm water while she goes back to her dusting and cleans and
-arranges the bath-room.
-
-To clean the bath-room properly, there should always be a bottle
-of household ammonia at hand, one of forty per cent. solution of
-formaldehyde or other good disinfectant, a couple of cloths, a
-long-handled brush, and a scrubbing-brush. It is also well to have a can
-of concentrated lye or one of the preparations like it which will cut
-accumulations in waste-pipes. The hand-basin, tub, and closet should
-be scoured out each morning, the drain-pipes flushed twice a week with
-water to which has been added formaldehyde or the lye. The former
-is admirable for removing stains and deposits, but if these are very
-obstinate the formaldehyde must be left in the basin overnight.
-The long-handled brush enables the maid to clean the closet basin
-satisfactorily. Ammonia on the cloth used in washing the tub and basin
-will remove greasy deposits. The nickel fittings and woodwork must be
-wiped off, the soap-dishes and tooth-brush racks washed. The vessels
-used in the bedrooms must be cleansed in the same manner, the
-water-pitchers rinsed out and filled fresh every day, and the slop-jars
-and commodes scalded daily.
-
-The linen-closet should be in the charge of the mistress of the house,
-and the maid should have nothing to do with giving out fresh linen for
-the beds or towels for the bath-room.
-
-When the bath-room work is finished, the maid may return to the kitchen,
-wash and put away the dishes, and get the kitchen and pantries in order.
-The maid who takes proper care of her china, glass, and silver will
-rinse her dishes thoroughly in one water and then wash them in hot suds,
-the glass first, then the silver, and then the china, drying each piece
-as it comes from the suds. The breakfast-dishes washed, the dish-towels
-should be rubbed out. Once a day they should be boiled.
-
-This is the time when the mistress inspects the contents of the
-refrigerator and decides what shall be the meals for the day. Either
-before or after such inspection the maid must wipe off the shelves of
-the ice-box, and three times a week it must be scoured out with hot
-water and washing-soda.
-
-The general work of the house--of which more later--is undertaken now,
-and after it comes the preparation of the mid-day luncheon. At this meal
-little waiting is required. The table is set as for breakfast. If the
-work is properly managed there should be no heavy tasks for the maid to
-accomplish in the afternoon, except on washing and ironing days. She may
-perhaps attend to some light work like the polishing of silver, but,
-if her duties are arranged as they should be and she is brisk in their
-performance, she ought to be able to have a little time to herself in
-the afternoon. The preparation of dinner is seldom undertaken until
-after four o'clock in houses where dinner is served at seven.
-
-The maid is expected to discharge the work of a regular waitress at
-dinner, so far as serving the dishes, passing plates, and the like are
-concerned. She is not required to remain in the room, but to come when
-rung for. Her work of clearing away and washing dishes is practically
-the same after luncheon and dinner as after breakfast.
-
-The usual costume of the maid-of-all-work in the early part of the day
-is a neat wash-frock and white apron. While waiting at table she should
-wear a cap. She should have a colored apron on when working in the
-kitchen, but there should always be a fresh white apron at hand for her
-to slip on when she answers the bell. When she dresses to wait at dinner
-she should put on a black frock, white collar and apron and cap. Since
-she must wear the frock in the kitchen, it is better to have it of wash
-goods. The mistress should be in readiness to answer the bell when the
-maid is dressing for dinner, or when she is at the wash-tub or doing
-any other work it is difficult for her to leave. A great deal of
-consideration is demanded of both mistress and maid when there is but
-one servant and the family desires to live daintily and in accordance
-with good form.
-
-A general outline of the daily work has thus been given, but each day
-must have its share of the week's duties. By general consent Monday and
-Tuesday are given over to washing and ironing, and on these days, unless
-a laundress is hired to help, the mistress of the house must take charge
-of the chamber-work and of all the dusting, and, if the wash is large,
-will perhaps feel it well to wash the dishes after breakfast, and to
-lend a hand in the preparation of luncheon. The plan practised in some
-houses of having all the sweeping done on Friday is open to criticism.
-Even if there is baking to be done on Wednesday, a portion of
-the sweeping or other cleaning may also be accomplished then. The
-dining-room or drawing-room, as being near the kitchen, may be cleaned
-on the days when the maid must watch her cooking closely.
-
-This method of apportioning the work has much to commend it. Washing
-windows is tiresome, and the maid will feel it less if she does a few
-every day than if she gives a whole morning or afternoon to them. The
-scouring of large pieces of brass or silver and the cleaning of paint it
-is well to discharge all at one time, and this may be done on Thursday,
-while the sweeping of the bedrooms and cleaning of the upper part of
-the house may be reserved for Friday. The woodwork about the doorknobs
-should be wiped off, the stairs brushed down, and the halls gone over
-with the carpet-sweeper daily, and the house, from top to bottom, swept
-well at least once a week.
-
-
-
-
-V
-
-DUTIES OF TWO OR MORE SERVANTS
-
-
-With specialization in the household come complications. The manual
-labor of the mistress may be lessened when she adds to her domestic
-force, but with every new maid she assumes more responsibilities. She
-has to reconstruct the system to which she had become accustomed when
-she employed but one servant, and very often the whole tone of the
-establishment is changed from what it was in the days to which she
-sometimes looks back as comparatively care free.
-
-Yet with the increase in a family or with an alteration in the mode of
-living additional service becomes necessary, and, unless the housekeeper
-is of the type who takes life hard, there is no reason why she
-should not soon adapt herself to the new conditions. As in all other
-circumstances where she must make plans for her domestics, she should
-have her scheme of action clear in her own mind before she gives it to
-her servants. Vacillation and uncertainty on the part of the mistress
-shake the maid's confidence in the judgment of the ruling brain, and
-dispose her to question decisions and to neglect the duties which she
-thinks do not strike even the mistress as absolutely essential.
-
-It is hard to change the method of work when the former general
-household servant is put into the place of cook or waitress and a second
-maid engaged. The former factotum is likely to criticise the way in
-which her late duties are performed, and perhaps to feel that the lion's
-share still falls to her. So, unless it is an exceptionally competent
-maid who has been doing all the work, it is usually well to begin a new
-deal of this sort by getting two maids and dividing the work between
-them from the outset.
-
-The duties assigned to the different domestics in a house where two or
-more servants are employed are not easy to define explicitly. They must
-be determined largely by the individual wants and conditions. The size
-of the family, the arrangement of the house, the style of living,
-the fact of there being small children in the home, all suggest
-modifications of any general outline. Therefore, the schedule of
-ordinary household duties following must be subordinate to the
-conditions mentioned, and also to the capabilities of the individual
-servant. In a household where more than one servant is employed it is
-desirable that there should be from the beginning as clear as possible
-an understanding of the duties to be discharged, since with the
-specialization comes a disinclination to undertake any work outside of
-the particular line for which the servant was employed. In the household
-of more than one servant there is a strong probability that the
-statement, "I was not engaged to do this kind of work," will be heard,
-sooner or later.
-
-"It seems absurd that I should employ a man-servant besides the coachman
-and the gardener," said a housekeeper to me the other day. "I have
-plenty of maids, and, as nearly as I can make out, I took on this extra
-man for the sake of having him sweep off the stone platform in front
-of the porch steps. It was nobody's work. The waitress said she did not
-hire to do outside work, and the coachman said it had nothing to do
-with his work. It was not the gardener's business, and they were all so
-strenuous about it that I told my husband I seemed to be the only one
-to whose lot it really fell by rights to keep that platform clean. There
-was so much discussion over it that I finally hired a houseman for the
-especial purpose of having that platform swept. Of course, he looks
-after the furnace and brushes off the porch and washes windows and
-does other things of that sort, but they are merely incidents. The real
-reason I keep him is so that my husband or I won't have to sweep that
-platform!"
-
-Bearing in mind the possibility of such complications, the mistress
-should tell her second maid when she engages her that she may have to
-perform other tasks than those which lie exactly within an over-rigid
-conception of her duties. If this is understood from the start it averts
-later annoyance.
-
-In a family of adults where two maids are kept, these are usually the
-cook and the waitress and chambermaid. Unless some special provision has
-been made to that effect, the cook does nothing outside of the kitchen
-in the early morning. She may perhaps take care of the furnace (this
-would be her first duty when she came down-stairs), and it is also
-possible that she may brush off the front steps and sidewalk, but
-with that her extra kitchen-work ceases for the moment. She gets
-the breakfast and should be up early enough to do this, brush up her
-kitchen, and perhaps make preparations for cooking that is to be done
-later in the day. After breakfast she may assist the waitress to wash
-the dishes. This depends upon the work the latter has to do.
-
-Upon the waitress comes the work of opening and airing the living-rooms,
-brushing out the halls, sweeping down the stairs, and dusting the rooms.
-All this should be done before breakfast, and in order to achieve
-this, the waitress must rise as early as the cook. As with the general
-housework maid, the hour of rising should be not later than six when
-breakfast is at half-after seven or eight.
-
-In most homes it is customary to excuse the waitress as soon as the
-principal part of the breakfast has been served, that she may go about
-her chamber-work and be ready to come down to her breakfast by the time
-the family has finished. Before she goes to her own meal she clears
-the dining-room table and takes the dishes into the kitchen or butler's
-pantry.
-
-Even if the chambermaid is competent, it is well for the mistress to
-make it possible to enter the bedrooms occasionally while work is going
-on there to make sure that it is all being accomplished properly. It
-is easy for the best employées to drift into careless habits, and the
-details of bed-making are too often neglected. Under no circumstances
-should the mistress delegate the care of her linen-closet to a servant.
-She herself should lay out the linen that is to be used, taking it out
-in a certain routine so that it may all be worn alike. On the days when
-the beds are to be changed, she should select the sheets, pillow-slips,
-spreads, etc., before she goes down to breakfast, that the chambermaid
-may not be hindered in her work. Clean towels should also be given out
-by the mistress. In a very large establishment, or in the case of an
-exceptionally trustworthy maid, this work may perhaps be safe in the
-hands of some one besides the mistress, but, simple as is the task, it
-requires a discretion and familiarity with the household supplies that
-only the mistress is likely to possess.
-
-After the waitress has had her breakfast she returns and finishes any
-work she has left undone in the bedrooms. It is possible she may not
-have had time to dust properly, or that the dust had not had a chance to
-settle after she gave the room its morning brushing. The bath-room,
-too, is attended to at this time. After this the waitress washes the
-breakfast-dishes. Before she left the kitchen after her own breakfast
-she should have scraped the dishes and put them in soak. This will
-lessen the work of washing-up when she comes down. If there is a special
-arrangement by which the cook washes the dishes, the waitress is free
-for other work. Sometimes the dish-washing is divided, the cook taking
-charge of the dishes in which the food has been served, while the
-waitress looks after the glass, silver, and the finer china. It is not
-easy to apportion the work in this fashion if the dish-washing is
-all done in the kitchen, but where there is a butler's pantry it is
-comparatively simple. In this case the fine tableware should never go
-into the kitchen at all. This plan lightens the work of the waitress and
-makes her responsible for the more delicate dining-room ware.
-
-A word here about the dish-washing. If the maid is open to suggestion
-the time she takes to do her dishes may be shortened. The general
-habit of servants is to leave all the dishes until the entire meal is
-concluded and then attack the mountain that has accumulated. Much time
-can be saved if they will wash the dishes as they come from the table.
-As a matter of course, this cannot be done in a family where the
-waitress is required to remain in the room during the entire meal. But
-this is seldom the practice in the average home, when only the family
-is present. There is a preference for what some one has called
-"unexpurgated meals," and the freedom of conversation that is not
-possible when servants are present. If this is the case, it is an easy
-matter for the waitress to wash the soup-plates while the heaviest
-course of the meal is being eaten, and to get some of the dishes of the
-second course out of the way while the family is discussing the salad.
-In a large family all the china may not be washed then, but the silver
-at least and some of the smaller pieces may be clean and out of the way
-by the time the meal is at an end. The science that is known as "making
-the head save the heels" is not understood and appreciated by the
-average maid, and if she could receive and apply a little instruction
-along these lines she would find her hours of work shortened and her
-toil lightened. If the butler's pantry adjoins the dining-room too
-closely, it is not always feasible to wash dishes while the family is
-eating, unless it can be done so carefully that unpleasant clatter is
-spared. But a little thought and skill given to the matter will usually
-lessen the labor of washing-up after a long meal.
-
-To return to the routine of work. Except when there is a great deal of
-cooking done it is well to arrange to have the cook take a share in the
-sweeping. What part this shall be circumstances must decide. She
-may sweep the first floor, including dining-room, drawing-room,
-sitting-room, and halls, once a week. Or there may be a day on which she
-goes up-stairs and gives the bedrooms a thorough sweeping. Again, it may
-be stipulated when she is engaged that she is to wash the windows. If
-one set of these tasks devolves upon her it leaves the waitress more
-free for her special duties. These vary, according to the size of the
-family. When this consists of but two or three members, the second maid
-should have time in a small house to keep everything in her domain in
-perfect order and even to do a little of the mending. If the family is
-larger she will have leisure for nothing outside of her regular duties,
-and the case will be the same if there is a good deal of entertaining
-done.
-
-One part of the daily work of the waitress is to take care of the lamps,
-cleaning and filling these. When dusk draws on she should light these
-and the gas, pull down the shades, and make the living-rooms ready for
-the evening. It is also the work of the second maid to put the bedrooms
-in order for the night, closing the blinds, turning down the beds,
-removing spreads and day-pillows, and bringing iced water to each room
-the last thing before she goes to bed herself.
-
-In point of fact, the work of the waitress is nearly as general in
-its nature as that of the maid-of-all-work. She attends the door, as a
-matter of course, answers the bells from the chambers or drawing-room,
-brings hot water to the bedrooms in the morning, prepares and carries in
-the afternoon tea-tray, and must be on the alert to see that the house
-is in spick-and-span order. She has the charge of the silver, keeping it
-clean and polishing the brasses. For each of these especial duties she
-should have a regular time, and the mistress should see that the system
-she put into practice when she had but one servant is followed out after
-she has added to her household force. All the dusting falls to the care
-of the waitress, unless the mistress prefers to reserve for herself the
-handling of curios and choice bric-à-brac. The cook may sweep, but it is
-the waitress who follows her with a dust-cloth and who scrubs the paint
-and wipes off stray finger-marks from mouldings and window-panes.
-
-When there is a child in the house, and the second maid unites the
-offices of nurse and waitress, her work must be divided differently. She
-may do the chamber-work, but she cannot be expected to wash the dishes
-unless the mother or some other member of the family assumes the care
-of the infant while the nurse is otherwise employed. Nor can she be
-held responsible for all the details that would fall to her were
-she waitress, pure and simple. When a nurse is employed as well as a
-waitress, her work is usually absolutely separate from that of the other
-maid. She may do sewing and the baby's washing, help make the beds, and
-lend a hand on the afternoons and evenings out of the other maids, but
-she has little or nothing to do with the general work of the house.
-
-If the cook has thus far received slighter attention than the waitress,
-it is because her work is so much more closely confined to one
-department that it requires less minute consideration. She prepares the
-meals, takes charge of the kitchen, cellar, and pantries, inspects the
-latter and the refrigerator every morning in company with the mistress
-of the house, and reigns supreme in the lower realms. In small families
-where two servants are employed the cook usually is laundress as well.
-In that case the waitress generally takes part of the cook's work on
-washing and ironing days, preparing the luncheon on those days, washing
-all the dishes, and keeping the kitchen in order. The waitress often
-assists with the fine ironing on Tuesday. Cook and waitress relieve each
-other on their days out. The cook waits on table when the waitress
-goes out and attends the door, unless the mistress chooses to do this
-herself. When the cook takes her holiday the waitress assumes her
-duties.
-
-When the housekeeper has a force of more than two servants the
-complications thicken, since with the introduction of each new maid
-comes more specialization. Unless the new servant is engaged because the
-family is so large that the work is too heavy for two maids, or because
-of the need of a special servant, as a nurse, the addition is usually
-due to increased elaboration in the way of living, and this, of course,
-subdivides specialization still more as well as raises the scale of
-wages. The "professed cook," who does nothing but cook and demands a
-helper or scullery-maid, gets higher pay than the general cook who does
-the washing and ironing or the one who may refuse to do laundry-work
-but yet undertakes all the labor of the kitchen. The waitress who
-understands the service of wines and is an adept at handling large
-dinners and luncheons, demands--and gets--large wages and feels her
-dignity to an extent that makes her cling tenaciously to the rights and
-privileges of her position.
-
-The average American household which employs servants--and there is a
-surprisingly large proportion of the sum total who keep no servant at
-all--is contented with one, two, or, at the most, three servants. The
-third may be a nurse, as I have said, or a laundress, who, besides her
-washing and ironing, does the chamber-work and thus leaves the waitress
-free for her especial tasks in the dining-room and for the duties of
-a parlor-maid. The laundress may also wash windows or help in other
-cleaning. Or the third servant may be seamstress and chambermaid and
-have nothing to do with the dining-room or with the kitchen unless she
-fills one of these places on the "day off" of the regular incumbent.
-
-In a book that deals with the work of the maid-servant it is not worth
-while to go into the duties of the man-servant or to touch upon the
-possibilities of change latent in the introduction of Japanese and
-Chinese service. That all has its part in the domestic labor problem,
-but this is not the opportunity for discussing this phase of the servant
-question.
-
-
-
-
-VI
-
-CERTAIN PROBLEMS OF SERVICE
-
-
-The tendency to introduce the wearing of livery into domestic service
-has grown within the past few years. There are still many protests
-against it, and writers are found who declare the cap and apron of the
-housemaid a badge of servitude. But the growth of the livery has been
-universal, and implies no more degradation in one relation of life
-than in another. The public servant, whether he be policeman or
-street-cleaner or motorman or car conductor or what you will, takes his
-uniform as a matter of course. The shop-girl, who often prides herself
-on belonging to a higher social class than the "living-out girl," does
-not feel disgraced if in the big department store where she works she
-is expected to conform to the rules of the establishment and don a black
-gown and a white collar. The trained nurse does not feel it an indignity
-to wear a cap. In truth, there is a great deal of nonsense talked about
-the livery of the servant-girl. I have known sensible young women--at
-least they were sensible in everything else--who would flatly refuse to
-wear a pretty and becoming cap, and would give up the chance of a good
-place sooner than put one on.
-
-The girl who surveys matters with an unprejudiced view will recognize
-a pretty little cap as an uncommonly becoming adjunct to her dress. She
-will also appreciate the fact that she looks much neater with her flying
-locks tucked back under a cap than she would with the stray tresses
-wandering over a forehead that is heated by brisk work. Rightly
-considered, the cap is no mark of servitude, and has a reason for
-its existence in the added neatness and freshness it imparts to the
-working-girl's garb.
-
-This, indeed, is the whole object of the livery. When the maid is
-at work she should be dressed in a manner that is suitable for her
-employment. In the morning when she is to be busy with her housework,
-in and out of the kitchen, handling a broom and dust-cloth, her dress
-should be a neat print. In houses where the mistress provides the
-working-frocks of the maids, as is sometimes done, she can have these
-frocks made all in one piece, but in the majority of homes, where
-but one or two maids are kept, they dress themselves. Under these
-circumstances they cannot be expected to conform to any especial color
-or style, and will probably wear shirtwaists and skirts. It is a pity if
-the skirts are dark woollen goods, because these gather dust and retain
-the odors of cookery, but a large apron will protect the skirt, and
-washing is saved to the maid if her whole gown is not of a light
-material. She is wise if she wears a large sweeping-cap in the morning
-when she is busy at work that is likely to make dust, but this can be
-exchanged for a smaller cap when the rougher parts of her labor are out
-of the way.
-
-For the afternoon, when it is feasible, the maid, whether she be the
-maid-of-all-work who discharges the functions of both cook and waitress,
-or the servant who is waitress and parlor-maid, should, if correctly
-dressed, wear a black frock with white collar and cuffs, and a white bib
-apron. The latter may be a little more elaborately trimmed than that she
-has on in the morning. In fact, with a morning apron she may dispense
-with the bib altogether and wear only a plain, large apron. Some
-mistresses demand the broad collar, although the cuffs may be omitted.
-I say "when it is feasible" the maid should make this change, because
-it is not always the most convenient thing in the world for the maid who
-has to do the cooking of the dinner before she serves it to be in her
-black frock all the afternoon. She may look neat in her gingham waist
-and skirt, and then, when she gets everything in order for the dinner,
-she may slip away to her room for a minute and get into the black waist.
-The waitress who has no kitchen work is usually expected to have on her
-black waist soon after luncheon in order to be ready to answer the bell
-properly dressed. The absolutely correct custom demands that she should
-be in this garb before luncheon is served, but this rule is not followed
-in the average household.
-
-There are many obstacles in the way of strict enforcement of various
-regulations which are insisted upon as essential by those who endeavor
-to make the social by-laws. To such rules the majority of housekeepers
-would be glad to conform if they could. Like Lady Teazle, they would
-be only too happy if roses grew under their feet and they could gather
-strawberries all the year round. But domestic exigencies forbid many
-indulgences, and the wise woman is she who adapts herself to things as
-they are and does not make herself wretched over non-essentials. When a
-woman keeps but one maid to do the work of a household of half a dozen
-members, she cannot hope to have her establishment conducted as it would
-be with a force of three or four maids. She may very properly insist
-upon certain niceties of serving and waiting, but if she does this she
-must make up for it in other ways. For instance, the woman who demands
-candles for her dinner-table instead of gas must not expect the maid who
-does all the work of the house to have time to keep the candlesticks in
-order. The care of the flowers that brighten the table must also come
-upon the mistress. She must take this sort of thing for granted as
-much as she does the necessity for relying upon her own efforts in the
-preparation of her more delicate desserts and salads. Such efforts are
-the price she pays for wishing to live in a certain fashion, and, since
-she has made her choice, she has no right to be dissatisfied with it.
-Plainer modes of life and ultimate salvation are not incompatible, but
-if she prefers the added daintiness to the lighter labor it devolves
-upon her to do the additional work necessarily implied by the touches of
-elegance.
-
-I have spoken of the habit of some mistresses of providing the maids'
-working-dress. This is done in large establishments where a certain
-livery is required, and in other homes, where the mistress feels it
-worth while, she supplies the black frock to be worn in the afternoon.
-Whether this is done or not it is customary for the mistress to provide
-the caps and white aprons worn by her maids, and the collars and cuffs,
-if she insists upon the latter. These belong to the mistress, and are
-not taken away by the maid when she leaves.
-
-The laundering of these articles is generally paid for by the mistress.
-That is, if the washing is put out or some one comes in to do it, the
-aprons are included in the family washing instead of being done by the
-maid herself with her own washing. In the average family, where two or
-three servants are employed, each does her own washing and has a fixed
-time for it, unless some other arrangement is made between the mistress
-and the servant. In some cases the mistress provides also colored aprons
-for the maid to wear at her heavy work, but this is not obligatory.
-There is not the same reason for this that there is for the mistress's
-purchasing the livery. It is taken for granted that the maid has enough
-clothing of her own to enable her to look decent about the house. If,
-however, the mistress has her decided preferences in favor of the maid
-dressing herself in a special fashion, it is her business to provide the
-raiment in which the maid is required to appear. Often it will be found
-that the maid has adapted herself to her work and has purchased for
-herself neat black waists or frocks to wear in the afternoon. In this
-case the mistress is saved just so much expense and may esteem herself
-fortunate, but she has no right to demand that the maid shall supply
-herself with such a garb at her own expense.
-
-The social relations of servants is a matter with which some mistresses
-exercise themselves over-much, while others, perhaps, give too little
-attention to it. According to the ideas of some persons, the affairs of
-a maid outside of working hours concern no one but herself. So long as
-she conforms to certain rules of the household, her coming and going,
-her associates and habits, are no one's business but her own, unless
-they interfere with the proper performance of her work. In a way this is
-entirely true, and a mistress has no more right to pry into the affairs
-of her maid than the maid has to be overcurious about the business of
-the mistress. But there is something to be said on the other side. Look
-at it in as matter-of-fact fashion as one will, relations of domestic
-service are different from any other business association. The mistress
-and maid do not only meet in the morning and part again at night, after
-having been together simply in the way of their work during the day;
-they eat and sleep under the same roof. Often they work side by side for
-an hour at a time. They see each other in bodily and mental dishabille.
-They are by way of asking or granting little kindly services that were
-never nominated in the bond. Without bringing too much sentiment into
-the relation, it may yet be asserted that it is next to impossible for
-them to meet on purely business terms.
-
-When this is admitted it opens the way for something more. Not
-familiarity or interference, but a kindly and friendly interest. This
-interest grows to be something very like a sense of responsibility if
-the maid is a young girl far removed--as she often is--from the family
-and associations amid which she was reared. The ties that used to hold
-her have been loosened, and it would be no wonder if in the feeling of
-irresponsibility that comes with novel freedom she should occasionally
-make a mistake which she afterwards has to repent more or less bitterly.
-In one sense it is none of the mistress's business. She is not her
-maid-servant's keeper. Yet she could hardly help reproaching herself if
-she thought that a kindly word, a query that showed her interest,
-might have spared the girl a blunder, even if this did not amount to
-wrong-doing.
-
-So, if the mistress can do it, she should try to establish some sort
-of an _entente_ with her maid. It can hardly be an _entente cordiale_,
-perhaps, until they have been together long enough to have broken down
-the little class antagonism that generally exists at first between
-mistress and maid and to convince the latter of the good-will of the
-former. It does not take much trouble to bring about this state of
-affairs. An interest in the girl's family, a question or two as to
-whether she has any of her own people on this side of the water, an
-inquiry as to her friends--not in a manner that seems to imply a
-mere curiosity or patronage, but in a fashion that shows a genuine
-friendliness is prompting the queries. The assurance of the maid that
-she may feel free to have her friends come to see her, a pleasant word
-of greeting to these if they come and the mistress happens to meet them,
-all do their part towards making the maid sure that her employer is in a
-measure her friend.
-
-When it comes to the question of "followers"--that vexed question in
-so many households--the mistress is wise if she pursues the straightest
-course. In the first place, she should recognize the fact that the
-maid-of-all-work should be permitted to have her men friends come to
-call on her. She did not enter a nunnery when she went into domestic
-service. She is a human being, and she has the right to friends among
-the opposite sex--just as good a right as the daughter of madam herself.
-Bearing this in mind, the employer should allow "followers" subject to
-the same rules which she would enforce with her own daughters. The
-young men should come at a suitable hour and go at a suitable hour. They
-should no more be granted permission to linger around the kitchen when
-the objects of their attention are busy with the daily toil than should
-the callers of mademoiselle be welcomed when she is at her music lesson
-or occupied with her language teacher. To do the followers justice, they
-do not often attempt it, nor do the maids encourage it. Of course, there
-are the stock jokes about the policeman on the beat and the milkman
-and the butcher's boy, but none of these--except the policeman--has
-sufficient leisure to spend much time in the kitchen or the front area
-during working hours. Even if there is violation of this rule once in a
-while--well, we have all had little occurrences of the same kind in our
-lives. Our chance meetings and partings out of canonical hours did
-not take place in the front area, perhaps, but that was because our
-employments did not lead either of us there.
-
-The responsibility of the mistress does not go so far as to make it
-necessary for her to inquire into the antecedents of the young men who
-visit in her kitchen as she would into those of the men callers in the
-drawing-room. That is outside of her province. Yet she may let the maid
-know that she feels an interest in her admirers and friends, and such an
-interest is likely to be appreciated.
-
-Again I feel I must defend myself against a charge of sentimentality.
-But I have seen these experiments tried with success. I do not mean by
-this that the maids were models of unending devotion and fidelity. We
-seldom find this sort of thing without flaw among our chosen associates.
-But I have known instances where the casual friendliness of the mistress
-was repaid tenfold in times of sickness or trouble by offices which
-could not be compensated for in money. And it was done freely and
-gladly, with no thought of anything out of the ordinary, with no hint
-that sacrifices were being made.
-
-"Yes," says some one, "and those very maids will talk you over behind
-your back."
-
-Quite true, dear madam. As the majority of us discuss not only our maids
-but our own familiar friends behind their backs--as they do us when our
-backs are turned. We are all of us as ready to resent criticism as we
-are to offer it. When we find the habits of high life below-stairs, it
-behooves us to ask ourselves what sort of an example along those lines
-we had set the maid-servants within our gates.
-
-Without hope of any reward, except that of the comfortable sensation we
-have when we have attempted to do the decent thing, let us try to make
-our maids feel at home in our houses. If it is possible, they should
-have a place in which to meet their friends. Where there is space, it
-is becoming more and more the custom to provide a sitting-room for the
-servants in which their visitors can be received. To many housekeepers
-such an arrangement as this would be impossible. In such cases there
-should at least be an effort to render the kitchen as pleasant as the
-circumstances will permit. It may be clean and neat, there may be a
-couple of chairs that are tolerably comfortable, and any little attempt
-the maid may wish to make to add to the attractiveness of the apartment
-should be encouraged.
-
-
-
-
-VII
-
-GENERAL SUGGESTIONS
-
-
-The mistress of a house must not look for bricks without straw. In other
-words, she must not demand good work from her maids if they lack the
-tools with which to achieve it.
-
-When women, in the course of discussions on domestic topics at clubs
-and elsewhere, declare that housekeeping can be practised on the same
-principles as those on which men conduct their business, when they
-affirm that housekeeping may be run like machinery, they sometimes
-forget what is meant by the management of machinery. The metaphor
-pleases them so much that they fail to examine it too closely. But any
-machinist will tell one that an engine does not go of itself. I do
-not mean only that the fires must be kept up and the water which is
-to generate steam must be provided. There is more to it than that. The
-machinery must be watched and oiled and kept in perfect repair. If
-any bit of it is injured it must at once be replaced. There must be a
-regular inspection made to see that there is not so much friction on one
-part as to make too much wear and tear, and that other portions
-which are temporarily out of use do not become rusty so that they are
-unmanageable when they come in demand.
-
-But what housekeeper takes such care of her home machinery as this? Here
-and there one may be found, but the majority, having started the works
-going, seem to have the impression that the wheels will continue to
-revolve with no further attention. It is taken for granted that the maid
-will pursue the even tenor of her way as if she were another piece of
-clockwork that has been wound up--or, perhaps, as if she were a part
-of the same big machine which comprises the household and all its
-appointments.
-
-The difference, of course, between the machinery and the home is that
-in the conduct of the latter the human equation has to be reckoned with
-constantly. It is not enough for the mistress to see that all parts
-of the engine are supplied, if this or that section is to be injured
-through carelessness as soon as her back is turned. The head machinist
-would probably drop a man on short notice who had proved himself to be
-persistently careless of the portion of labor committed to his charge.
-The fact that he could do other parts of his work well, that he was
-kindly and good-natured and never spoke an impertinent word, would weigh
-for little if he did not pay attention to his especial duty and take
-proper care of that which was committed to his charge. With the domestic
-servant matters are on a different footing. In counting up her good and
-bad qualities the mistress must keep a debit-and-credit account and feel
-that one positive virtue offsets many negative defects.
-
-Yet, even while she does this and puts up with shortcomings because of
-some one conspicuous merit, the mistress should not relax her effort to
-approximate, so far as she may, the performance of household duties to
-the workings of the machinery to which it is so often likened. And to
-do this she must see that everything necessary is at hand, to make the
-wheels turn smoothly.
-
-It is a proof of the carelessness with which many homes are managed,
-and of the slackness which maids take for granted, that the household
-equipment is so often conspicuously poor. I have been in houses that
-were well furnished above-stairs where I have seen the maids attempting
-to do careful cookery with utensils that were utterly inadequate. There
-were broken vegetable-graters, cream-churns, egg-beaters, flour-sifters,
-coffee-pots with parts of their mechanism missing, bowls and dishes
-with large sections gone from them, an insufficient supply of such small
-items as measuring-cups, mixing-spoons, vegetable-knives, and the like.
-I have also had a glimpse of the articles provided for keeping a house
-clean--stubby brooms, worn-out brushes, half-bristled scrubbing-brushes,
-a stingy provision of the detergents and cleansing fluids manufactured
-for household use. In the midst of this dearth the maids worked as best
-they could, accomplishing wonders when one thought of the means they had
-in hand.
-
-"But," some one will say, "these things were doubtless provided at
-first, and if they are lacking now it is because of the carelessness of
-the maids that had them in charge."
-
-Precisely so. But the maids ought not to have been permitted to be
-careless. If that consummation devoutly to be desired of making the
-house run like a machine is ever to be brought about, the methods of the
-shop must be introduced into domestic work. The maid should have given
-to her the utensils that she will need in order to do her work properly
-and then she should be held responsible for them--not responsible merely
-by word either. It will be necessary for the mistress to keep her eyes
-on these details just as the head machinist makes his inspection. She
-will have to see for herself that the broom is hung up or stood on the
-handle instead of on the bristle end, that the brushes and dust-pans
-not only have their nails or hooks, but are kept on them when not in use
-instead of being thrown into a corner of the kitchen and kicked about
-by any one who finds them in the way. She will have to inquire if the
-dish-towels are washed out after service, boiled once a day, and well
-dried and aired--not thrown carelessly over a clothes-horse or a line
-to dry with the grease and stains from carelessly washed dishes still
-clinging to them. Once in so often the mistress must make an examination
-of the contents of the pot-closet to ascertain for herself if the double
-boiler has been left on the fire until the water has cooked away and the
-bottom has cracked from dryness. She must see that her pans are scoured
-when they need it, that no utensil is ever put away with part of the
-contents sticking to the inside.
-
-Do some or all of these admonitions appear uncalled for? I hope they
-are, but I am afraid that at least five out of every ten housekeepers
-would find one of these defects in her pantries should she go there
-seeking perfection.
-
-When the mistress neglects matters in this way the maid-servant is not
-wholly to blame for her heedlessness. It must always be borne in mind
-that our domestic service is not recruited from training-schools.
-The maid comes to us from her own home or from a succession of other
-persons' homes, where she has been taught to do one thing in half a
-dozen different ways. From all these she has evolved her own method,
-which may be good and may be poor. Such as it is, she is likely to
-follow it, unless she is persuaded of a more excellent way or compelled
-into it by her new mistress. In the latter case she will probably "go
-back to the blanket" as soon as she is at liberty.
-
-I have already said that it is a mistake for the mistress to demand that
-the maid shall change her mode of doing a piece of work, provided
-the results are good. The mistress should allow time to discover the
-advantages or disadvantages of the servant's system. But if she feels
-that her own way is surely better than that the maid follows, she
-should insist upon a change. She should recognize the possibility of the
-employée's being a reasonable creature, and show her what she considers
-the merits of the new plan at the same time that she makes it clearly
-understood that, whether the maid sees these or not, the work is to be
-done in the manner prescribed by the mistress. She pays for the work and
-she has a right to say in what way it shall be performed.
-
-Sometimes one finds a maid who rebels against this sort of management.
-In that case a mistress is wise to discharge her at the end of the
-month--that is, unless she can be induced to do the work in the right
-fashion. Of course, it is always upon the cards that the maid may have
-so many other good qualities that they make up for this defect; but, as
-a rule, it will be found that the maid who persists in refusing to adopt
-a method of work ordered by her employer will be hard to manage in
-other ways. Before giving up such a servant, however, it is well for the
-mistress to think carefully of the question at issue and be very sure
-that the way she desires possesses enough advantages to make it worth
-while to raise an issue upon it.
-
-Sometimes a maid will come around to a new method of her own accord.
-I knew of a cook whose mistress had purchased one of the admirable
-bread-making machines. The housekeeper had investigated it thoroughly
-and become persuaded that it not only saved time and labor, but that the
-bread made from it was more wholesome than that mixed and kneaded in the
-ordinary manner. So she installed the machine in her kitchen, explained
-its workings and its virtues to the cook, and supposed that there would
-be no trouble about it. But the cook was an obstinate conservative. She
-had made good bread by the old way, and to the old way she would adhere.
-She did not absolutely refuse to use the machine, but she calmly went
-on making bread by hand. Excellent bread it was, too. The mistress could
-find no fault with it--but that was beside the point.
-
-Being a sensible woman, she hesitated to raise an issue and possibly
-lose a good cook and a trustworthy servant. She herself went into the
-kitchen and made bread two or three times with the machine. Her daughter
-did the same. In spite of herself the cook became interested in the
-new-fangled notion. She saw that it saved time and toil. At last she
-tried the machine herself. The results were so good and at so small a
-cost of work that she became an ardent convert.
-
-"Sure, it was wicked I used to be about it," she confessed to the
-mistress later. "When you and Miss Jane were making bread with it I used
-to be just prayin' that it would turn out bad."
-
-There are plenty of maids of this kind, although once in a while one
-finds a specimen of the other sort. Usually the latter kind is found
-among the older women who have become "set in their ways" and object to
-experiments of any nature. If the employer wishes to be mistress in her
-own house she can hardly retain one of this variety in her service. But
-if there are reasons that make her willing to waive her own authority
-for the sake of comfort in other directions, she is perhaps prudent to
-do it. This is a matter each housekeeper must settle for herself.
-
-To return to the first point for a moment. The mistress must give her
-maids what they need to do their work well before she expects to receive
-good work from them, and having done this shall demand that they keep
-their tools in order. At the same time that she makes adequate provision
-she should not encourage extravagance by overabundance. We all have a
-tendency to be lavish when we see before us what seems like more than
-enough. The maid should have what will suffice for the present need, but
-no more. There is no sense in having half a dozen double boilers, for
-instance, when the utmost need of the household does not call for more
-than four. Keep two in reserve until accident or use has disabled one
-of the others. The maid should not have so large a supply of kitchen
-and china towels that she feels it makes little difference if she takes
-proper care of them. Instead, she should have enough to wipe her dishes
-without having to stint herself, and if extra towels are needed for
-extra service they should be given for that time and then put away until
-the next occasion arises for their use. She should not have three or
-four dust-cloths in commission all the while, but should wash those
-she has every day or two and use them until they are worn out. Her
-cleaning-cloths--for lamps, bedroom crockery, and the like--should not
-be so numerous that she feels it is easier to throw them away than to
-take the trouble to rinse them after service.
-
-Not only the housekeeper is to be considered in the enforcement of these
-rules. The maid is being trained in habits of thrift or of wastefulness,
-and the housekeeper is preparing for her own kitchen or for the kitchen
-of some other woman a servant who will be valuable or the reverse. I
-have touched upon the responsibility of the housekeeper for her
-servants in other respects, and this is another way in which she should
-appreciate her duty to her neighbor.
-
-In some households the mistresses have slipped into the careless way of
-permitting the maid to give orders to the butcher and the grocer. This
-should only be done in unusual circumstances. The maid may be entirely
-honest and conscientious. At the same time, the mistress is not only
-putting her in the way of a temptation to extravagance, but is also
-neglecting one of her own duties. The maid should have a pad and pencil
-hanging in the kitchen. With these she should keep a list of what is
-wanted in the line of household supplies. When she takes the last of any
-kind of provision from its receptacle she should make a note of it on
-the pad. By this method there is never a discovery at the last moment
-that a supply of some desired grocery is exhausted. This memorandum the
-mistress must go over every morning when she makes her daily inspection
-of the kitchen and pantries. The slip she tears from the pad will serve
-as her list of purchases when she goes to market. This, too, should
-not be the work of the maid. Once in a while she can be sent out on an
-emergency errand, but, as a rule, it is the mistress who should do
-the buying. By following this plan she knows what is ordered, what
-delivered, and is able at the end of the week to check intelligently the
-record in her weekly book from the grocer or the market-man.
-
-In all that has been said there has been no attempt to consider the
-large establishment where there is a housekeeper who assumes the duties
-of the mistress of the home in the way of ordering meals, directing
-servants, and looking after all the details of the household. Such
-establishments are not plentiful enough to be considered in a book of
-this scope. It is in the homes where but one servant or at the most two
-or three are kept that problems of the sort we have touched upon present
-themselves for solution. In such homes these problems are often matters
-of daily or weekly consideration. The mistress desires to do all she can
-to enable the maid to make the best of her place; the maid's intentions
-are usually as good as those of the mistress, even if they are not quite
-so clearly formulated.
-
-Something may be said concerning payment for extra work. When a maid is
-engaged it is with the understanding that she is to do for a fixed
-wage all the work in her particular line. If hers is the place of a
-general-housework servant, the duties are, as already said, hard
-to define, but there may be an approximate idea formed of what they
-comprise. In other positions in the household it is a simpler matter to
-lay down with some precision what the avocations of each servant shall
-be. Except by special arrangement she should not be required to step
-outside her round. But there are times in nearly every family when some
-accident or set of unavoidable occurrences renders it necessary to ask
-one maid to do the work of another. Sudden illness, the departure of one
-maid before it is possible to engage another, the descent of unexpected
-guests--any one of these things may make it needful for the housekeeper
-to request a servant to do something besides her regular work.
-
-When this is the case it should be shown by the mistress that she
-appreciates the consideration of the servant, and there should be an
-effort made to compensate for such consideration--not necessarily by a
-payment of money, but by a gift, the granting of an unusual privilege,
-or by relieving the maid of a part of her own regular work. It is not a
-good principle for the mistress to fall into the habit of bestowing tips
-for any extra service. If matters were conducted on a purely business
-basis this might be desirable, but, as I have said before, in the
-relation of mistress and maid there are too many opportunities for
-mutual accommodation for either to stand upon a point of a kindliness
-granted by the other side.
-
-When it comes to tips from guests it is another matter. If a visitor
-feels more comfortable to offer a gift to a servant on leaving, there
-is no reason why it should not be done. I know of employers who say that
-they pay their servants adequate wages and do not thank their guests for
-feeling it obligatory upon them to supplement these by presents. This
-is not quite the point at issue. The guest does not mean to question the
-justice or generosity of his host, but he feels that he has caused extra
-labor and has received services for which he would like to make some
-return to the domestic. The gift is not taken by the servant as a
-supplement to her wages, but as an acknowledgment of services given, on
-her own part, and as a token of appreciation of these by the guest.
-The matter of tips in this country has never assumed the importance
-it possesses on the other side of the water, although it is by way of
-becoming a more serious matter with every year.
-
-At least once a week the maid should go over the list of silver, which
-the mistress should have put into her hands when she came first to the
-house, and see that no pieces are missing. In the same way it is well
-for her to keep track of the china. Whenever a piece is nicked, cracked,
-or broken she should report it at once. Few mistresses are severe when
-this is done, although they are rarely so amiable as not to be irritated
-to discover such damages by accident. There will be mishaps in the
-best-regulated household, but concealment of these or neglect to mention
-them is a mistake. It shakes the confidence of the employer and saves
-the employée no trouble, since the injury is bound to be discovered
-sooner or later, and the reproof is much sharper in those circumstances
-than it would be if the maid had made a virtue of necessity and told of
-the breakage when it occurred.
-
-When there has been an accident of this sort there should be judgment
-exercised on the part of the mistress as to enforcing the rule
-concerning payment for breakages. If the maid is usually careful and
-the accident was the result of circumstances she could not avoid, it is
-better not to deduct the value of the broken article from her wages. If
-she is habitually careless, she will learn a lesson by having to pay for
-her fault. If there is a clear understanding on this matter at the time
-the maid is engaged, there is no room for any feeling of being imposed
-upon when the rule is put into practice. Justice should be tempered
-with mercy, however, and allowances made for the first offence. The maid
-should be asked just how the accident happened, warned against holding
-wet china in slippery, moist fingers, crowding too many pieces into the
-dish-pan at once, attempting to carry too large a number at one time,
-and other methods of provoking casualties of this sort. Should she
-persist in such habits after the warning has been given, the payment for
-the broken articles should be insisted upon.
-
-
-
-
-VIII
-
-A RECAPITULATION OF DAILY DUTIES
-
-
-THE GENERAL-HOUSEWORK MAID
-
-Rise at six o'clock and have clothing in readiness, so as to be dressed
-and down-stairs by six-thirty. Strip the bed and open the window before
-leaving the room.
-
-If the care of the furnace is in your hands, open the draughts and put
-on a little coal.
-
-Light the kitchen fire, fill the kettle, put on the breakfast cereal and
-potatoes, or anything that requires some time to cook.
-
-Open the windows of rooms on first floor, brush up the floor and the
-halls, and sweep off the front steps. Go over bare floor in dining-room
-with a cloth and dust the dining-room. Put more coal in furnace, close
-draughts, and give a look at kitchen fire.
-
-Set table for breakfast. If a large cloth is used, put it on over the
-canton-flannel "silence cloth." If a square of damask or doilies are
-employed at breakfast, lay them on _evenly_. Crooked spreading of a
-table is an abomination.
-
-At each place put a plate, knife, fork, and two spoons, the knife and
-spoons to the right, with the napkin beside them; the tumbler also
-on the right. The fork must be on the left, and near it the
-bread-and-butter plate. If fruit is the first course, there should be at
-each place a fruit-plate with a doily, finger-bowl, and fruit-knife on
-it. For oranges an orange-spoon should also be laid on the plate. When
-a cereal is the first course, the porridge bowls or saucers should be at
-each plate.
-
-Arrange the cups and saucers, sugar-bowl, cream-jug, and other
-necessaries at the end of the table where the mistress of the house
-sits. At the other end place the carvers and lay the heavy mat for
-the hot dish the master of the house is to serve. See that there are
-tablespoons, salt-cellars, and pepper-cruets, and the call-bell on the
-table, a salt and pepper to every two persons, the tablespoons at the
-corners of the table, the call-bell near the mistress's hand.
-
-Return to kitchen and prepare breakfast. Cut bread, fill glasses,
-and bring in butter the last thing. Do not announce the meal until
-everything is ready to serve. Put on a clean apron to wait on table.
-
-While the family is eating the last course of breakfast go to the
-bedrooms, strip the beds, turn the mattresses, hang the bedclothing
-over chairs, and leave it to air while going over the floors with a
-carpet-sweeper. Empty soiled water in bedrooms.
-
-Go down-stairs and have your own breakfast. Clear the table, scrape
-dishes and put them in water. Return to second floor, make beds, dust
-and clean bath-room.
-
-Wash and put away dishes. Rinse out dish-towels and put them over to
-boil. See what is in the pantry and refrigerator. Wipe off the shelves
-of pantries and refrigerator every day. Scald out ice-box three times a
-week. Clean and fill lamps.
-
-Go now to any special work, such as sweeping, washing windows, or
-general cleaning. Stop this in time to prepare luncheon. Set the table
-for this meal as you did for breakfast. Be sure that the dining-room
-has been well aired and that there is no odor of stale food left from
-breakfast. Observe the same rules as at breakfast about serving butter,
-bread, and water.
-
-After luncheon clear table, darken dining-room, and finish any small
-duties that have been left over from the morning. Plan your work so as
-to have only light tasks in the afternoon.
-
-Change your dress, brush your hair, put on a fresh cap and a clean
-apron, and be ready to wait on the door. If afternoon tea is to be
-served at five o'clock, make the tray ready and carry it in at the
-proper hour. Start to get dinner in time so that there will not be a
-rush at the last moment. If possible, arrange the preparations so that
-the cooking can safely be left half an hour before dinner-time in order
-to set the table.
-
-Spread on the thick "silence cloth" smoothly and lay the table-cloth
-over it evenly and without a wrinkle. Place the centre-piece in the
-middle of the table with the vase of flowers or jardinière on it, lay a
-carving-cloth in front of the master of the house, with the carvers. If
-a mat is used under the meat dish, put it in place. At the other end of
-the table lay the soup-ladle. At each place there should be a service
-plate with the knife and soup-spoon to the right of this, with the
-tumbler and napkin; the fork or forks, if more than one will be needed,
-at the left. If butter is served at dinner, the bread-and-butter plate
-may be at the left. If not, a piece of bread, cut thick, may be laid on
-the napkin. In most households it is customary to give a clean napkin at
-dinner. This should be folded plainly. The tablespoons, salts, peppers,
-and call-bell should be in place as at other meals. If such articles as
-olives, salted nuts, and the like are used, they should be on the table
-before dinner is served. When soup is the first course the soup-plates
-may be put on the service plates and the tureen be placed in front of
-the mistress before dinner is announced. In houses where gongs or bells
-are not used, the maid comes to the door of the room where the mistress
-is seated and announces, "Dinner is served."
-
-If you have not dressed earlier, change your waist just before
-announcing dinner.
-
-After the soup is served, dish the rest of the dinner and be ready to
-bring it in when the soup has been eaten. Take out the tureen first,
-then the soup-plates, carrying out two at a time, one in each
-hand. Carry in all the hot dinner-plates at once, put them on the
-serving-table, and as you take up a service plate from the table put a
-hot dinner-plate in its place. Bring in the meat dish first and put it
-in front of the carver, and then bring in the vegetable dishes and place
-them on the serving-table or dinner-wagon. Pass meat and vegetables and
-see that every one has bread and that the glasses are filled. Return to
-the kitchen and wash the silver and china of the first course.
-
-When clearing the table after this course, take out the meat and
-vegetables first and then the soiled plates. If salad is to be served
-next, put down a salad-plate in place of the dinner-plate removed. Set
-the oil and vinegar cruets and the bowl for mixing the salad-dressing
-in front of the hostess, and pass the salad first and afterwards the
-dressing. The dishes of the preceding course may be washed during the
-salad course.
-
-If a sweet comes next or in place of a salad course, clear the table,
-removing salts and peppers, unused silver, and everything except
-glasses. Brush off the crumbs into a plate with a folded napkin, take
-off and fold the carving-cloth. Put the plates and finger-bowls on the
-table. Bring in the sweet. When this has been finished, take out the
-dish that has held it, remove the soiled plates, and bring in the
-coffee.
-
-Return to the kitchen, have your own dinner, and finish washing the
-dishes. By this time the family will have left the table. Clear this,
-remove the cloth, folding it in the creases, put away the china, and
-darken the room. Finish putting the kitchen in order for the night.
-
-On Monday morning rise early enough to get a good start at the washing.
-Any work of this sort that can be done before breakfast is just so much
-clear gain. Proceed with other work as on other days, except that the
-dusting of the rooms and the care of the chambers will probably be
-assumed by the mistress. Wash the sheets and other heavy pieces early
-in the day in order that they may have a chance to dry. Do the flannels
-early and follow them with the fine clothes. The second water from the
-flannels may be used for the first rinsing of the cotton clothes. If
-the worst-soiled pieces can be put in soak overnight it will lessen the
-labor on Monday morning.
-
-On Tuesday morning it is also well to get an early start in order to
-make a good beginning on the ironing. The same rule of early rising
-will be found helpful when there is any piece of extra work to be
-accomplished. A prompt beginning gives time for rest in the latter part
-of the day.
-
-
-THE COOK
-
-Rise at six o'clock and be down-stairs by six-thirty. Open draughts of
-furnace and put on a little coal. Fill the kettle and put the cereal
-over the fire. Make ready the materials for the breakfast. When the
-furnace fire has come up put on more coal and close draughts. Open the
-windows of the cellar, air the pantry, and see that the kitchen is in
-good order, the stove blacked, etc. After the family and the kitchen
-breakfast inspect the contents of the pantries and refrigerator and plan
-with the mistress for the best use that can be made of left-overs. If
-soup is to be made it should be put over now, and desserts that are to
-be served cold should be prepared. The ice-box must be scoured out with
-hot water and soda three times a week, the shelves of the pantry and the
-refrigerator wiped off every day.
-
-Each morning see what is wanted in the way of groceries and other
-provisions, and make a list of what is lacking, to be handed to the
-mistress before she goes to market. After the luncheon and dinner are
-planned there will probably be time to do a little work outside of
-the kitchen before the hour for making ready for luncheon. Never be
-behindhand in such preparations so that the waitress is delayed in
-serving. Keep the luncheon hot after it comes from the table, and have
-the kitchen table set ready for the maids.
-
-In the afternoon there is usually time for resting and changing the
-dress. The beginnings of the dinner should be made in season and the
-utensils used should, as far as possible, be washed as fast as they are
-done with in order to prevent a clutter of work when the meal is over.
-Wash the pots and pans in which the dinner is cooked as soon as the food
-is out of them. Scalding water should be put into a vessel as soon as
-you have finished using it. Scald out towels and fish and jelly cloths
-as soon as you have done with them. Keep the sink clean, and wash it out
-thoroughly after each meal.
-
-
-THE WAITRESS AND CHAMBERMAID
-
-Rise at six o'clock and be down-stairs at six-thirty. Open and air the
-rooms on the first floor, brush off the steps, sweep out the halls, and
-brush down the stairs. Brush up the drawing-room or go over the floor
-with a carpet-sweeper, wipe up the hard-wood floors, and dust the rooms.
-If the woodwork is painted, spots must be wiped from it. Take hot water
-up to bedrooms half to three-quarters of an hour before breakfast,
-according to directions previously given by mistress. Wait on table
-during the early part of the meal. Pass the fruit, offering it from the
-left side. Take off fruit-plates from the right side, putting porridge
-service in the place of the plate removed. Offer porridge, as sugar and
-cream, from the left side, remove soiled porridge service from right
-side, putting hot plate in its place. Offer other dishes from left side,
-or if the plate is served by the carver, put it in front of the guest
-from right side. Place cup and saucer on the right, offer sugar and
-cream from the left.
-
-When dismissed after the service of breakfast, go up-stairs to the
-bedrooms and proceed with them as directed previously in duties of
-"General-Housework Maid." Have breakfast when summoned by cook, clear
-table, and prepare dishes for washing. Return to the bedrooms, finish
-the work there and in the bath-room, and then wash dishes, put them
-away, and despatch other work of the dining-room. See if silver needs
-cleaning and that table-linen is in order. Polish brasses, rub off
-furniture, wash windows, or attend to other work of this sort. Make
-butter-balls for the next meal. Clean and fill lamps.
-
-Set table for lunch according to previous directions. Wait as at
-breakfast. Be careful that no glass is allowed to become empty, and keep
-a watch on the plate of each guest, offering to replenish it as it is
-emptied.
-
-After luncheon clear the table before going to luncheon in the kitchen.
-Wash dishes and dress for the afternoon, requesting the cook to answer
-the bell while you are in your room. Be in readiness to attend the door
-during the afternoon. Make the tray ready for tea at five o'clock, and
-carry it in at the appointed hour without waiting for the order. If the
-salad is in your care, prepare it in time and see that the mayonnaise,
-if this is needed, is made in season. Set the table according to
-directions already given. At dusk draw down the shades and light gas and
-lamps in hall and drawing-room.
-
-In passing the soup do not use a tray, but put the soup-plate down in
-front of each guest, from the right. Remove the soup-plate from the
-right, leaving the service plate untouched. When the hot dinner-plates
-are brought in, take up the service plate, substituting the
-dinner-plate. Bring the meat to the table first, then place the
-vegetables on the serving-table. Stand back of the carver, a little to
-the left. Take each plate as he serves it and put it down in front of
-the guest, from the right. Pass vegetables, etc., from the left. Follow
-the same plan as has been outlined earlier in serving salad, sweets, and
-coffee.
-
-Should you be expected to remain in the dining-room throughout the meal,
-the soiled dishes must remain untouched until after dinner. If you are
-permitted to wait in the pantry, many of the soiled dishes can be washed
-during the meal.
-
-When coffee has been served, go up to the chambers, remove spreads,
-shams, etc., turn down beds, and close the blinds. Come down to your
-own dinner, and then clear the table, wash the dishes, and put the
-dining-room in order for the night. Be ready to answer the bell during
-the evening. About ten o'clock take iced water to the chambers. If up
-later than the members of the family, turn out lights and lock up.
-
-
-THE END
-
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