diff options
Diffstat (limited to '34097.txt')
| -rw-r--r-- | 34097.txt | 4616 |
1 files changed, 4616 insertions, 0 deletions
diff --git a/34097.txt b/34097.txt new file mode 100644 index 0000000..54ef462 --- /dev/null +++ b/34097.txt @@ -0,0 +1,4616 @@ +The Project Gutenberg EBook of Household Organization, by Florence Caddy + +This eBook is for the use of anyone anywhere at no cost and with +almost no restrictions whatsoever. You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Household Organization + +Author: Florence Caddy + +Release Date: October 18, 2010 [EBook #34097] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ASCII + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK HOUSEHOLD ORGANIZATION *** + + + + +Produced by Julia Miller and the Online Distributed +Proofreading Team at https://www.pgdp.net (This file was +produced from images generously made available by The +Internet Archive/American Libraries.) + + + + + + +HOUSEHOLD ORGANIZATION. + + +BY + +MRS. CADDY. + + +"From my tutor I learnt endurance of labour, and to want little, and to +work with my own hands."--EMPEROR MARCUS AURELIUS. + + +LONDON: +CHAPMAN AND HALL, 193, PICCADILLY. +1877. + + + + +PREFACE. + + +One fine August bank-holiday many thoughts, more or less connected with +the day, prompted me to write this essay, so forcibly did it appear +that people required help to make their lives easier and happier. + +Since then there have been several bank-holidays; and though trade is +depressed throughout the country, though financial panic has ruined +thousands, yet the demand for beer, spirits, and tobacco is as great as +ever; the hollow gaieties of life are as noisy as ever--perhaps the +more so for being more hollow; still our most precious friends kill +themselves with overwork--mental pulverization. If they eased their +minds by employing their hands they might yet live, even though many +could not, last autumn, afford to buy the breath of sea or mountain air +which would have strengthened them for the burdens of the new year. +Those who were wise and who had capital invested it in health, that +being likely to bring them in the best return. + +We have had seven years of the highest national prosperity. Although +fictitious, it gave us pleasure while it lasted, and we were able to +enjoy all that life has to offer in its perfection. We may be going to +pass through seven years of dearth, so we must husband our resources of +health and wealth, instead of drawing upon them in the reckless way we +have lately accustomed ourselves to do. Some years of scarcity may be a +blessing to us all, if they lead us back from the habits of excess and +idleness we have fallen into, and particularly the craving for +excitement, whether in the form of literature, or by means of +stimulants and cordials (absinthe). + +A plain but short statement of our national losses will show the +necessity of economizing the goods we still possess, financial as well +as physical. + +Independent of the stagnation of trade which paralyzes every branch of +our commerce, we have lately had losses through foreign loans more +severe than any we have experienced during the present century. + +Since the announcement by Turkey in October, 1875, that the interest on +the Turkish debt would be reduced, there has been a great fall in +foreign stocks. The debt of Turkey--roughly speaking, L200,000,000--has +fallen, say, L125,000,000 in value. Egyptian securities, not including +the floating debt, approximately estimated at L60,000,000, have fallen +some L20,000,000 in value. In smaller stocks the fall has probably been +some L20,000,000; and since the breaking out of the Eastern Question, +Russian stocks, at an aggregate of about L165,000,000, have fallen 12 +per cent., or a sum equal to more than L20,000,000 sterling. + +Besides these calamities there have been in England, as shown by a +recent return, 1,797 commercial failures, representing liabilities of +L30,000,000 sterling, and it has been calculated that of the firms and +persons occupied in business, 3 per cent. have been unable to meet +their engagements. + +These losses will account for less familiar faces being seen in the +Park in the season, for the numerous houses unlet in fashionable +quarters, for grouse-moors going almost begging; and, among many other +significant facts, Tattersall, who generally has 150 applications for +coachmen on his books, has now 150 coachmen applying to him for +situations. + +In our present abundance of money, through dearth of safe investments, +many persons have purchased art treasures; which would be wise, but for +the pain it always causes to part with things that have once adorned +our homes, which makes this not a happy speculation. + +It would be the part of a screech-owl to cry Woe! woe! and hoot +triumphantly over the distresses of our country; but there seems so +much of hope and promise in the fact of our meeting reverses of fortune +with courage, that we cannot feel that a real disaster has overtaken +us. We have in the case of France an example of how a great nation can +rise renewed in strength out of overwhelming troubles, and our trial is +less severe than that of France. + +It is not good for any people to sit down to eat and drink and rise up +to play, any more than it is good for children to feed upon delicacies +in lieu of simple fare. Persons suddenly reduced from affluence to +comparative poverty may be glad of a few hints to show them how +happiness and refinement are by no means incompatible with a smaller +condition of fortune, with a shorter purse; for, after all, the purse +is not the pleasure, it only helps us to procure it; our own taste and +feeling must teach us what true pleasure is. + +It may be demurred that some of the household improvements suggested in +this book would be expensive to carry out--such, for instance, as the +arrangement of the kitchen; and this is true: but looked at as an +investment, they would yield large interest, and it might be prudent to +invest under one's own eye, in one's own house, some of the capital we +cannot afford to sink. If used in economizing wages, it will give us a +profitable return. + +We do not hesitate to lay out money in improvements on our farms. Why, +then, need we fear to arrange our dwellings in accordance with +principles of true economy, so that the ladies of our families may be +able to co-operate with us in advancing the benefit of all? Every +family might be its own Economical Housekeeping Company (Limited), +comprising in itself its shareholders and board of directors, realizing +cent. per cent. for its money, because L200 a year would go as far as +L400. + +If we save the money we now spend upon keeping servants to do our work +for us, we shall have more to spend on our holidays, and so shall feel +all the more refreshed by our respite from work. + +Much is said in this book about superfluities, but although some +passages may seem to give colour to such an idea, it is by no means +wished to convey the recommendation that our homes and lives are to be +bare of beauty. On the contrary, I hanker after profusion and love +plenty, but wish them to be placed where they will not give more labour +than pleasure, where they will not hamper our every movement at every +moment, making us ever wear a sort of moral tight kid-gloves, be the +weather hot or cold. + +The rock which theories split upon is that they generally presuppose +that we can make our lives, and are in independent position and good +circumstances, whereas this is seldom the case. The majority of us are +neither in good circumstances nor independent: often we have had no +control over the purchase of our very furniture; so we must make the +best of what we have, only, when we have the opportunity of making a +change, let it be a reform as well as a change. My main object in +writing this essay has been to show how frequently, and in how short a +time, the saving effected by a reform covers the cost of carrying it +out. + +In the case of young couples about to marry, and beginning to plan +their lives, any work will be good which aids them to lay down their +plans according to rules of economy and common sense. + +_January, 1877._ + + + + +CONTENTS + + + PAGE + +THE DIFFICULTY. + +Impossibility of getting good servants--Over-civilization--Labour has +been made hideous--Sleeping partnership--Wealth exempt from this +difficulty--Refinement of the professional class--Credit--Phase of +insecurity and scarcity--Sweet are the uses of adversity--English +people do not fear work--Servants too readily changed--Wilfulness of +servants--Upper servants are easily obtained--Servants feel the +pressure of the times--Ornamental servants costly luxuries--Two +questions--Work must be efficiently done--Woman's work--Misuse of +time--We keep servants to wait upon each other--Idleness--Pleasure +made a toil 1 + +THE REMEDY. + +Bad habits to be reformed--Late hours--Value of the long winter +evenings--Simplicity of manners--Over-carefulness--Instruction to +be gained from foreign nations--Our manners should be natural-- +_Impedimenta_ in our households--Comparison of former times with our +own--Children trained to habits of consideration--Young men and boys +over-indulged--Reduction of establishments--Lady-helps--What is menial +work?--Picturesque occupation--What is lady-like--Amateur millinery-- +Two subjects for an artist--Taste--Plan of the book--Eugenie de +Guerin 20 + +THE ENTRANCE-HALL. + +The evil of side doors--Difficulties with cooks--Who is to answer the +door?--Four classes of applicants--Arrangements for tradespeople-- +Visitors--Furniture of the hall--Warming the passages--Dirt and +door-mats--The door-step--Charwomen 40 + +BREAKFAST. + +Lighting gas-fire--Difficulty of rousing servants--Family breakfast-- +Cooking omelet--Hours of work and enjoyment--Duties of mothers and +householders--What is included in six hours' daily work--Clearing +away the breakfast--Bowl for washing the _vaisselle_--Ornamented +tea-cloths--Muslin cap worn while dusting--Use of feather-brush-- +Cleaning windows--Advantages of gas-fire 54 + +THE KITCHEN. + +Parisian markets--No refuse food brought into a house--Catering in +London--Cooking-stoves--Pretty kitchen--Underground kitchens +objectionable--Kitchen level with the street door--Larder and +store-room--The dresser--Kitchen in the Swiss style--Herbs in the +window--Hygienic value of aromatic plants--Polished sink--Earthenware +scrap-dish--Nothing but ashes in dust-bin--Soap-dish--Plate-rack-- +Kitchen cloths--Few cleaning materials necessary--Hand work better +than machine work--Washing at home--Knife-cleaning--Fuel-box--No work +in the kitchen unfit for a lady to do 68 + +THE LADY-HELP. + +True position of a lady-help--Division of work in a family--The mother +the best teacher--Marketing--Young lady-helps--Luncheon--Early dinners +for children--Recreation--Preparing the late dinner--Evening tea--The +lady-help a gentlewoman--Her assistance at breakfast--Her spare time-- +Tact 88 + +THE DINING-ROOM. + +Carpets and curtains--Picture hanging and frames--Distemper colouring +for cornices--Oval dining-table--Sideboard for breakfast service-- +Beauty of English porcelain--A London dining-room--Giulio Romano's +banquet--Growing plants--The large sideboard--Dinner-service--Styles +of dinner--Food in due season--Gracefulness of flowers and fruits-- +Fresh fruit better than preserves--Communication between kitchen and +dining-room--Remarks on plate--Table decorations 103 + +THE DRAWING-ROOM. + +Social pressure--Agreeable evening parties--Troubles of party-giving-- +Musical parties--Flowers on a balcony--Window-gardening--Crowded +drawing-rooms--The library or study--Gas, candles, and candlesticks-- +Original outlay on furniture--Different styles of furniture--Raffaelesque +decorations--Carpets, curtains, and chair coverings--Portieres--Window +blinds--Rugs--Care required in buying furniture--Ornaments--Dusting-- +Chiffoniers useless--Portfolio stand--Mirrors 127 + +BED AND DRESSING ROOMS. + +Ventilation--Window curtains and blinds--Bedsteads--Spring mattresses +--Towels--Danger of fire at the toilet--Mantelpiece--Pictures and +frames--Superfluous necessaries--Taine's criticisms--Aids to reading in +bed--Service of the bath--Improvements in washstands--Arranging the +rooms--Attics made beautiful--Sick-rooms--Neatness--Disinfectants-- +Chlorine gas--Condy's solution--Filters--Invalid chairs--Generous +efforts of the medical profession to improve the national health 155 + +THE EDUCATION OF GIRLS. + +To what age should boys' and girls' education be alike?--Accomplishments +fruitlessly taught--Nursery and school-room government--Helplessness +--Introduction to society--The convent system--Unhappy results-- +Scientific education--Geometrical illustration--Religion--Professional +life for women--Home training--Varied knowledge--Companionship of a +mother--Experience--Kindness--Truth 182 + +SUNDAY. + +Children's Sundays made wearisome--Sunday precious to workers--Moral +workers--Moral vices--Our gifts--Misuse of them--Necessary work on +Sunday--Diminished by management--Sunday prevents us living too +fast--The rest must be earned--Sunday repairs the human machine 202 + + + + +HOUSEHOLD ORGANIZATION. + + + + +THE DIFFICULTY. + +Impossibility of getting good servants--Over-civilization--Labour has +been made hideous--Sleeping partnership--Wealth exempt from this +difficulty--Refinement of the professional class--Credit--Phase of +insecurity and scarcity--Sweet are the uses of adversity--English +people do not fear work--Servants too readily changed--Wilfulness of +servants--Upper servants are easily obtained--Servants feel the +pressure of the times--Ornamental servants costly luxuries--Two +questions--Work must be efficiently done--Woman's work--Misuse of +time--We keep servants to wait upon each other--Idleness--Pleasure +made a toil. + + +For a long time past we, the middle-classes of England, have felt a +great household perplexity, one which has been a daily burden to us +all. This is the difficulty, almost impossibility, of getting good +servants. + +Machinery, though it has lightened other branches of labour and +cheapened production, has not helped us much here. Social science has +been deeply studied, but nothing practical has yet been brought to bear +upon this vexed question. The theories are good, the projected reforms +better; but so far there is nothing that people of average intellect, +and moderate income, can take hold of and apply to their own case. +During the late plethora of wealth throughout the nation, we have so +multiplied our wants, and so refined upon the ruder social ideas of the +early part of the century, that our servants have not been able to keep +pace with our requirements; and notwithstanding that the lower orders +have much more careful education than they had formerly, it seems to be +of a sort which makes them discontented with their work, rather than +instructing them how to do it better. + +In fact, we have degraded labour by making it hideous, by pushing it +into holes and corners, by shrinking from it ourselves, and casting it +entirely into the hands of the lower orders; until we English are +virtually divided into a contemplative and a working class. This would +be all very well if it were true that our class could afford to pay +liberally for work done well; but, in effect, the majority of those who +wish to be relieved from work cannot pay liberally for hired labour, +neither can the bulk of the labouring class perform their part of the +bargain in a manner deserving liberal payment. + +We have tried to keep ourselves as sleeping partners in the domestic +concern; we have derived profit from our money invested in service, and +we find that this is no longer a profitable investment. There is a +large wealthy order exempt from these difficulties. By having ample +means of recompense, it has the flower of service at its command, and +the domestic economy of the mansions of England is perfect. Under +steward and housekeeper, this may be compared to the beautiful system +seen on board a large ship of war, for discipline, routine, and +celerity of service. In both instances the reverse of the shield shows +the injurious effects on the lower ranks of a large proportion of +unoccupied time, spent in merely waiting for their hours of duty. + +The suggestions I have to offer are not required by this wealthy +class--the upper ten thousand, as they are popularly called, whose +incomes range among the four and five figures; but help seems to be +much needed by the upper twice ten hundred thousand who have incomes +described by three figures, and who yet, by good birth, breeding, and +education, form the backbone of England; whose boys, though only +home-boarders at Eton, Harrow, and Rugby, fill all the other large +schools of Great Britain, and whose daughters are the flowers of our +land. + +Of late years England has been passing through a period of unexampled +prosperity, so much so as to make the customs of wealth a familiar +habit with even those who only possess a competence. To them the +domestic difficulty is very great, since they exact from inferior +servants the quality of service that can only be obtained from the best +trained of their order. This occasions disappointment and irritation. +The people whose means are inadequate to the gratification of their +tastes belong mainly to the professional classes, whose brain-work most +demands repose at home; yet these are, beyond all others, perplexed by +the increasing toils and troubles of home life. They find that a +struggle which should be peace, and so the whole machinery of their +lives is thrown out of gear. + +This upper working-class is so occupied by endeavours to make the +fortune, or, if not fortune, at any rate to make both ends meet--which +has been denied them by birth or accident--that they have no time nor +energy left to think these things out for themselves. So they go on +bearing the yearly increasing load piled upon them by the tyranny of +fashion, of custom, or by their wish to keep up their credit in the +eyes of the world; for their credit is in many cases their fortune, and +it must be upheld at any sacrifice. A question occurs to many: Is this +credit best maintained by outward appearances, or is it more firmly +secured by seeming strong enough to dispense with artificial support? +And, again, Is our money credit the best we can have? + +A man of known wealth may go about in a shabby coat, a countess may +wear a cheap bonnet, a Sidonia may dine off bread and cheese. If +Gladstone fells trees, he is still Gladstone; if Ruskin grubs up a +wood, he is still a great poet. + +Without becoming mere _dilettanti_, may we not enjoy a reputation +for taste, and so allow ourselves to be heedless of a few of the +conventional proprieties of life; as a tree rises above the level of +the grass? May we not strive, by the culture of our manners and +discourse, to make our simpler social entertainments as highly prized +as the feasts of our richer neighbours? The years of prosperity have +passed away, and we seem to have entered upon a phase of society when +scarcity and insecurity overwhelm or threaten us all; when the wealth +of yesterday has crumbled into dust, the paper money shrivelled as if +it had been burnt. We still have the same high culture, the tastes and +feelings of yesterday; and unfortunately, the same habits of Idleness, +Helplessness, Waste, and Luxury. + +These are hard charges to bring against the cream of a nation which for +centuries has held its own by its energy, abundance of resource, +strength of character, and scorn of effeminacy; but it is impossible to +deny that these characteristics of the British race have been much less +strongly marked of late years. Still, these things are in our nature, +and we must not weakly let ourselves decline from our former high +standard. + +Let us, at the outset of our adversity, meet our altered circumstances +with the strength of mind and wisdom befitting English people. Although +wealth may be taken from us, we have our education and energy left, +which, if properly used, will not allow us to sink into a lower +condition than we have hitherto enjoyed; and while we hold our ground +we shall strengthen our health, develop our ability, and increase our +happiness. + +Let us, the women of England, encourage and support the men in an +endeavour to return to simplicity of life, to a more manly condition; +call it Spartan, Roman, republican, what you will, it is, in fact, the +training of soul and body. We have had a long holiday; let us return to +school with renewed vigour. We women have been much to blame for the +degeneracy which has been felt of late. If men trifle away their time +and health upon tobacco, women are foolishly helpless, and they permit +their dependents to be wantonly wasteful. Both men and women pass the +best hours of daylight in their beds, and make their meals the +important event of their days. + +Englishmen abroad do not mind work--indeed, they may be said to love +it--and never since the days of Drake have they felt it to be a +degradation. He said "he would like to see the gentleman that would not +set his hand to a rope and hale and draw with the mariners;" and herein +the English differ from continental nations. But in England they let +their love of bodily exertion have its scope almost exclusively in +their games. Nor do Englishwomen in the Colonies shrink from work, and +they are never in the least ashamed of it. You hear them talk quite +freely of how Colonel So-and-so called in the morning while they were +"stuffing the veal," to ask for the two first dances at the ball at +Government House in the evening. + +It seems to be only in England that we dread to be seen doing anything +useful. And unless we soon cast off this fear we shall be condemned to +the deadly-liveliness of Hotel Companies (Limited), with their +uninteresting routine; for the supply of servants not being forthcoming +at our price, we must of necessity be reduced to this levelling +American system, which will flatten all individuality out of us. + +One cause of the ever-increasing difficulty of holding a staff of +servants well in hand is that our connection with them is too easily +changed or dissolved at pleasure. We should bear ourselves very +differently towards each other if we knew we were compelled to live +together during even one year certain. As the case now is, we do not +get to know each other, and a small trial of temper on either side is +the prelude to a change. The old patriarchal feeling of considering the +servants as members of the family has quite died out, and so their +relation to us has become confused. At times we rate them with the +tradespeople who come periodically to polish our bright stoves, clean +our chandeliers, and wind our clocks, and so we only care whether they +do their specified work well or ill, taking no further trouble about +them; sometimes we treat them as the horses which draw our carriage, +and see that they are well fed accordingly; and sometimes we look upon +them as machines merely. + +We hear it said, servants do not take the interest in their places that +they used to do; they are ready to leave you on the smallest +provocation; they will not be told how to do any particular thing; they +have their way, and if you do not like it, well, they think your place +will not suit them. Indeed, one of the most docile and obliging among +the servants I have known, on differing with his employer about some +work in which he was engaged, said, "Well, I'll do it a little bit your +way, and a little bit my way; and that will be fair, won't it, mum?" + +It is easy enough to get servants of the superior +grades--ladies'-maids, parlour-maids, and even house-maids, where two +footmen are kept; but is there such a being as a really good plain +cook, or has a servant-of-all-work been heard of lately? Although it is +truly said that servants themselves are beginning to feel the pressure +of the times, this is not from their actual losses by money-market +panics, but from the fact that many domestics are out of place on +account of those families who have met with losses dispensing with +unnecessary assistance. But that does not ease our case, for we are +none the less helpless and dependent. Although many upper servants are +out of place, this does not make them seek our situations; and if they +did so, they would do us a positive injury by bringing into our houses +the habits of wealthier families. The reduction of wages, and lack of +suitable situations in England, will cause these unemployed servants to +seek in emigration the high wages they are still secure of in the +Colonies, or in America. There they will be a godsend, and they may +reasonably look forward to establishing themselves permanently and +happily. + +Independently of the collapse of foreign securities and the general +depression of trade, the increased cost of all necessaries makes it +impossible to many of us to allow ourselves luxuries, of which the most +costly are ornamental servants; and the difficulty of obtaining any +others makes it incumbent on us to put our own shoulders to the wheel, +and try by diligent self-help to solve some of the problems which so +miserably defy us to find a practical answer. + +In this consideration of the subject of domestic work in middle-class +households, I hope to show in what way the mistress may be rendered +more self-reliant, and how the master's purse may be spared the +perpetual drain the present system entails upon it at both ends, and +from every mesh. + +This is but a fraction of a vast subject, yet it is in itself so large, +and stretches out into such a variety of kindred topics, that it is +difficult to compress it into a form small enough to be easily handled, +and still more difficult to make suggestions of reform generally +palatable, since many vanities must be hurt by a proposal to reduce +establishments, and sensitive feelings wounded by the bluntness of two +direct practical questions-- + +1st. Must the great majority of our young ladies be elegant +superfluities? + +2nd. Must we keep many servants to wait upon each other? + +These questions I hope to answer usefully in the following pages. + +We must begin with the understanding that in every house there is work +to be done, and that somebody must do it. Our aim will be to reduce its +compass, and to do what remains in the cheapest and pleasantest way. +But it must be efficiently done, which is seldom the case when young +ladies play at housekeeping, which too often means giving out the +pepper, and such like. We have long shrunk from allowing our women to +work at all. Husbands and fathers have taken a pride in keeping the +ladies of their households in that state of ease that no call need be +made on them to lift a finger in the way of useful work; so that if +reverses befal them, their condition is deplorable indeed. + +Now we are turning round and insisting upon every woman being able to +support herself by her own exertions. Though a great part of woman's +natural work has been taken out of her hands by machinery, this, which +is mainly the preparation of clothing, was the occupation of her +uncultivated leisure, and did no more than fill up the time which we +now devote to culture. By retreating from our active household duties +we now divide our time between culture and idleness, or the union of +both in novel-reading. + +For many years conscientious teachers tried to drive us to household +work by calling it our duty: a dull name, sternly forbidding us to find +pleasure or interest therein. It was a moral dose of physic, salutary +but disagreeable. In the same way we were taught to make shirts and +mend stockings, but an evening dress was held to be frivolity. Taste +was discouraged, and beauty driven out of our work; no wonder, then, +that the young and careless shunned it altogether, and threw as much of +it as they could into the hands of hirelings. Is there no way of +teaching duty without making it repulsive by its dreariness and +ugliness? + +Now that we pride ourselves upon being no longer weak-minded and silly, +let us exert ourselves to act upon Lord Bacon's maxim, "Choose the life +that is most useful, and habit will make it the most agreeable." We +need not fear that the routine of daily handiwork--which will become +interesting to us as we try to make it agreeable--will interfere with +our further intellectual culture. And even should it do so, are not our +leaders of thought beginning to perceive that manual labour is more +commercially valuable than mental labour; that the demand for the +former is greater as the supply becomes perceptibly less? The deadness +of machine work causes us to prize the spirited and varied touch that +can only be imparted by the hand. Every woman, among her acquaintance, +knows some one who is a skilful, energetic manager of her house, and +yet whose reading and accomplishments are above the average. Indeed, as +I heard one of my friends of this stamp say, when asked how she found +time for so much sketching from nature, "One always finds time for what +one likes to do." + +We see what priceless possessions we lose by our misuse of time, or +waste of it in inanities, when we look at the embroideries and other +work of our ancestresses, and compare these with the poor results of +our months and years. We see splendid embroideries of the time of +Titian, with the needlework still strong enough to outlast all our +nonsense in "leviathan stitch" and "railroad stitch;" and old lace, by +the side of which our work of mingling woven braids and crochet in such +a manner as to get most show for the least cost of taste, labour, and +invention, is worth nothing at all. + +With regard to my second question--Must we keep many servants to wait +upon each other?--I will here make one observation. + +The heaviest part of the work of a cook and kitchen-maid consists in +preparing the kitchen meals. Six servants require as many potatoes +peeled, and as many plates, knives, forks, etc., cleaned, as six ladies +and gentlemen. Multiply their five meals a day by six, and you will +find that there are thirty plates, knives, forks spoons, cups or +glasses, and many other things, to be laid on the table, used, washed, +and put away again, at a computation of only one plate to each meal. + +Think of the time alone consumed in this, and the breakage; and this +merely in the meals. + +I am not considering the houses which require a complement of ten +servants to keep their machinery in motion, as these do not form part +of my subject; but this slight calculation will enable us to form some +estimate of the cost of maintaining a large retinue. + +We may well ask why we have drifted into this enormous expenditure, and +for what purpose we have gradually let our houses be filled up by a +greedy and destructive class, who, notwithstanding many bright +exceptions, seem to combine the vices of dirt, disorder, extravagance, +disobedience, and insolence. Why, indeed? For this simple reason, that +we are idle. Gloss it over as we may, by calling it a desire to secure +time for higher ends, the truth remains the same; we have neglected our +duty in order that we may live in idleness and devote ourselves to +pleasure. But if our lives are to be spent in pleasure, we shall +ourselves degenerate; for pleasure wears out the body more than work, +and excitement more than both. Let us take our appointed burden of +steady work, and bear it onwards cheerfully and patiently. By so doing +we shall feel it grow gradually lighter. It is not such slavery as the +oar to which we chain ourselves. The artificial strain on our lives +must be kept up by stimulants, and idleness must be roused by +excitement. But our routine of gaiety is no idleness; and as for its +name--gaiety--there never was a term more false. The gaiety is a hollow +mockery, masking fatigue, untruth, and disappointment. + +Sidney Smith says, "One of the greatest pleasures of our lives is +conversation." If we will simply allow ourselves to talk upon subjects +of common interest, we shall find social gatherings less wearisome than +when we have to manufacture small-talk for civility's sake alone. If we +meet together for enjoyment instead of for display, we shall replace +dissipation--mere dissipation of time (what an endeavour for mortals, +whose time is their life!)--by gaiety of heart, which is the best +restorative to wearied spirits. + +Let us Englishwomen make a strong effort to rescue ourselves from this +bondage, this constant drain on our resources; and, leaving to men the +duty to the state, let us seek our work in what is our duty--the rule +and guidance of the house, securing, as Ruskin says, "its order, +comfort, and loveliness." + +But especially must we insist upon its loveliness, which is the point +most neglected in all that portion of our lives which does not lie +immediately upon the surface. + + + + +THE REMEDY. + +Bad habits to be reformed--Late hours--Value of the long winter +evenings--Simplicity of manners--Over-carefulness--Instruction to be +gained from foreign nations--Our manners should be natural--_Impedimenta_ +in our households--Comparison of former times with our own--Children +trained to habits of consideration--Young men and boys over-indulged +--Reduction of establishments--Lady helps--What is menial work?-- +Picturesque occupation--What is lady-like--Amateur millinery--Two +subjects for an artist--Taste--Plan of the book--Eugenie de Guerin. + + +Before speaking of work which has to be done in order to make our homes +comfortable and beautiful, it is necessary to point out what ought not +to be done. + +We have fallen into one form of self-indulgence which goes far towards +unfitting us for work, except under the stimulus of excitement. This is +our national habit of keeping late hours. + +This is an important matter, and one wherein every member of every +family may, if he pleases, aid reform. This, unless we are printers, +bakers, or policemen, is entirely in our own hands. + +Later hours are kept in England than in any other part of the world, +and they grow later and later. We read in the life of the Prince +Consort how painfully he felt this difference between England and +Germany; yet the latitude and climate of the two countries differ but +little, and we are of the same race. It is merely a matter of custom. + +Many persons pride themselves on breakfasting at ten o'clock, and nine +is thought quite an early hour in comfortable houses. It is deemed +aristocratic to breakfast late, as well as to dine late; and as the day +begun at ten o'clock would be too short for people to have a probable +chance of sleep at ten at night, they are obliged to sit up till after +midnight. Thus the best hours of the day are wasted, and the health of +many injured by remaining an unnecessary length of time in a gas or +paraffin laden atmosphere. + +This shows an astonishing contrariety of disposition on the part of +persons of refined sensations, so completely does it reverse the order +of nature, which gives us the early sunshine for our enjoyment. Sunrise +is the only beautiful natural spectacle that we modern English do not +care about, except once or twice in our lives, when we get a shivering +glimpse of it from an altitude of many thousand feet above the level of +the sea. + +From six to six is the natural day throughout by far the largest half +of the globe, and the nearer we bring our practice to this measure the +better; taking our day of sixteen hours (two-thirds of the twenty-four) +from six o'clock in the morning instead of from nine. Old folks in the +country ask their young people what is the good of sitting up burning +out fire and candle. We never ask ourselves this question in London. +Many persons take a nap after their heavy dinner, and only begin to +feel lively as the clock strikes ten. To these the midnight oil is +invigorating. + +We have a valuable provision of nature in our long winter evenings, +reckoning them at from five till ten. This gives us time for study, +which we need more than do southern nations, to learn to contend +against our climate. The northern peoples are famed for their mental +culture: Scotland and Iceland bear witness to this. This is the season, +too, for work in wool, to provide warm garments which are not required +in the south. The wise woman does not fear the cold when her household +is clothed in scarlet. This is the time when we may gather round the +lamp or the fireside, and draw closer the family links under the +influence of social warmth and progress. + +Simplicity in our meals and dress is another point in which we may +unite economy of money, time, and trouble, with comfort to ourselves +and a regard for the beautiful. We need not drift into the carelessness +of the picnic style of living, which is but the parody of simplicity. +The real picnic is only suited to a few exceptional days in the year, +and these our holidays. We may have simple meals indoors which should +have all the freedom of picnic without its inconveniences. + +Do we not all remember Swiss breakfasts with pleasure: the +thyme-flavoured honey, and the Alpine strawberries? Or, better still, +those at Athens, where the honey of Hymettus is nectar, and the freshly +made butter ambrosia; and our enjoyment of both was enhanced by the +scent of the orange blossoms coming in at the open windows, and the +sight of sunrise glowing on the purple hills? Or luncheons in Italy, +under a pergola of vines, where a melon, macaroni, a basket of grapes, +and a tricolour salad constituted the feast?[1] + + [1] The tricolour salad imitates the Italian banner--red, white, + and green. Green salad, beetroot, and cream, or white of egg + whipped to snow. + +These things dwell longer in our memories than does the aldermanic +banquet. + +Although every faculty need not be swamped in the gratification of the +palate, our meals ought to give us pleasure. It is only when they are +made of supreme importance that the satisfaction of a healthy appetite +degenerates into mere greed, and what we call housekeeping means merely +thinking of dinner. + +Simplicity allows play (not work) to our higher faculties, which cannot +be refreshed while we are overwhelmed with domestic cares. + +"Martha was cumbered about," not with serving, but with too much +serving. Doubtless, in the fulness of her hospitality, she tried to do +too much, and so she showed irritability. Our Lord's teaching is always +that there are good things prepared for us, which we cannot attain if +we are over-careful and troubled about provision for the body. + +There are roses in life for those who look for roses, if they will but +give themselves time to gather them. + +We may study with instruction and profit to ourselves the daily habits +of foreign nations, and see where they fail, and also wherein they +excel us. + +M. Taine has put into words an observation which must have occurred to +all of us who have travelled, how that "from England to France, and +from France to Italy, wants and preparations go on diminishing. Life is +more simple, and, if I may say so, more naked, more given up to chance, +less encumbered with incommodious commodities." + +From Italy we may go on to Arabia, and there see how little is used to +keep the body in health. A woollen garment, warm enough to sleep in the +open air (we cannot say out of doors where there are no doors), and +thick enough to keep off the scorching rays of the sun by day, and a +thin shawl for the head, is all their clothing; and the simplest meal +once a day seems to be enough to keep them strong and active. Arabs +have walked or run by my horse during whole days in the heat of the +sun, and lived upon air until sundown, when they seemed to eat nothing +but a little parched corn before stretching themselves down to sleep. +It is not customary, even among the upper classes in Southern Europe +and in the East, to eat more than two meals a day. + +Liebig tells us of the nutrition of plants from the atmosphere: we may +go further, and proclaim the nutrition of man from the atmosphere. On +the moorland, on the mountain side, at sea, and in the desert, I have +over and over again felt its feeding properties; and we know that +although we are, in such circumstances, hungry for our meals, we are +not at all exhausted, nor do we want to feed frequently. + +As the leaves of a plant absorb the carbon in the air and give back the +oxygen, so do we feed upon the oxygen and return the nitrogen. But we +must have the oxygen. By our own present system of frequent heavy meals +we throw all the hard work done by our bodies entirely upon the +digestive organs, and when these are exhausted with their efforts, we +feel faint, and mistakenly ply them with stimulants and concentrated +nourishment, until at last they break down under their load. + +But leaving the Arabs, who are types of a high race in a natural +(uneducated) condition, may we not learn much from more civilized +nations? + +Besides taking example by the early hours of the Germans, we may +imitate their industry, and, in our studies, their thoroughness and +diligence of research. + +From the bright, elastic French people we may (we women especially) +copy their cheerfulness, frugality, and their keen, clear-headed habits +of business. See how diligent they are at accounts, how quick at +estimates, in ways and means; how they sharpen their wit, until it +shines and makes their society sought as we in England seek a clever +book. The Frenchwoman works the machinery of her own house, goes into +the market and fixes the market-price of what she decides upon as +suitable to her purposes (she always has a purpose, this Frenchwoman); +she dresses herself and her children with taste, and she glitters in +society. + +From the Spaniards we may learn, by the warning of a proud race, what +it is to sink into the scorn of other countries through smoking and +debt. + +From the Dutch we may learn cleanliness, from the Swiss simplicity, and +from the Italians to foster our patriotism. Our American cousins are +part of our own family; they only differ from us in having carried our +virtues and some of our follies into the superlative. + +We should endeavour to be natural in all our doings: to be ourselves, +and not always acting a part, and that generally the part of a person +of rank, or a millionaire. Let whatever we do be openly done, though +not obtrusively nor boastfully; and this whether it is ornamental or +only useful. To be truly ornamental it must combine utility. Is not the +flower as useful as the leaf? + +As an example of what I mean, I will give two opposite instances. A +young lady was making the bodice of a dress when a visitor called; she +quickly pushed the work under a sofa pillow, and caught up a +gold-braided smoking-cap, half worked at the shop, which had lasted a +long time as a piece of show-needlework. + +The other case is that of a lady who set up for an example to her sex, +and always displayed, as a manifestation of superiority, a basket full +of gentlemen's stockings, which she seemed to be ever mending. Both of +these ladies were acting a part. + +Good taste has no false shame; so we need not add the vexations of +concealment to the accumulation of cares we have heaped upon our +houses, till they are so encumbered with _impedimenta_ of all kinds +that our whole strength is taken to keep them in order, and the +household machine has to move through such a mass of difficulties that +it is like a loaded carriage lumbering through a Turkish road. Why +should we add these things to life? + +We are daily bringing mechanism to greater perfection, and it is our +own fault that we do not make it perform for our houses what Manchester +has made it do for our looms, and render ourselves mistresses in +reality, instead of merely in name, of our own households. + +If we had to go back to the old flint-and-tinderbox days, when it was +an hour's hard work in the dark to strike a light, when gas was +unknown, when water was not laid on, when all bread must be made at +home, all stockings knitted; when there was no such thing as a ready +made shirt, much less gowns and polonaises; no perambulators, nor +washing machines;--we should not heap upon ourselves superfluous work +in the thoughtless way we do at present, and then leave all to the +attention of the most careless and irresponsible members of the +community. + +In a small family there is less work to be done; in a large one there +are more hands to do the work, and many hands make light labour. + +We would have no mistress of a family a household drudge, while her +daughters lounge over fancy-work or a novel; but we would ease her +hands, and uphold her in her true position of administratrix, +mainspring, guiding star of the home. + +Modern educational pressure causes too many of us to indulge our +children, and release them from every personal duty. They must have +time and quiet for their studies, and so they are allowed to become +selfish, and to think that everything must give way to their mental +improvement. Whereas we should train them to give as little trouble as +possible; and by good management, or by sacrifices, such as getting up +earlier, to do at least the extra work appertaining to their individual +enjoyment. Why should they, for instance, require hot water brought to +their rooms several times a day? Their grandparents used cold, and it +was better for them. Why must girls have their hair brushed and braided +for them? Why must their lost gloves be found for them, and their +wardrobes tidily arranged for them to throw into confusion in their +hurry? + +Boys, especially, are so seldom trained to habits of consideration, +that a young man in a house gives at least twice the trouble that his +father does. Boys ring bells with intense heedlessness of its being +some one's journey--oftener four journeys--to answer them. They make +their boots unnecessarily dirty, and their other clothes also; while +the extra baths on football days, and the cleansing of the white +garments, make many mothers wish the noble game were not so popular; +and to sweep up the dirt the boys bring into a house often constitutes +the chief work of a housemaid. We do not expect boys to mend their +clothes, but they should be made to put them away, and to keep their +books, papers, and toys in their proper places, and to take care of +their own pets. + +We excuse young men from doing these things, instead of smoking or +novel-reading through the whole of their spare time, on the plea that +they work at money-making, forgetting that they do so for themselves, +and not, like their father, for the family benefit. We might reform +these things materially, and remove much of the self-indulgence which +causes what has been truly called "the shame of mixed luxury and misery +over our native land." If we all habitually gave less trouble, we +should require fewer servants to wait upon us. + +There is a scarcity of good working servants, while the governess +market is largely over-stocked. How many thousand of the poorest +subjects of our Queen are now sinking, sick with hope deferred, into +despondence, hating the present, dreading the future. + +And yet on all hands we hear our lady friends say, "We must all wait +upon ourselves now." The impossibility of finding the average of three +servants for every house in London being now recognized. Why need there +be three servants to every house, when servants are the greatest drain +to the fortune of a family, worse even than the dress and society of +its lady members, or than the tobacco of the men? + +With study, and application of modern inventions, the three servants +might be reduced to two; the two-servant-power establishments might +dispense with one; and in many families where only one servant is kept, +a lady-help would be found more useful, as well as more ornamental, +than the "dolly-mop." + +Trade is bad, and many young women, such as lace-makers, seek service. +But being of the lower orders does not necessarily make them efficient +servants, not more so than young ladies who have never learnt household +work. + +The existing puzzle is how to utilize the lady-help, for we must always +bear in mind that she is a lady. She must not be merely ornamental, +nor may we expect her to do anything menial. And here we must +distinguish--this indeed is the great point for distinction--what is +menial and what is not, and then see if we can reduce the number of +works considered menial. + +When we read of Marie Antoinette's delightful playing at work at the +Trianon, and think of her in her bewitching costume, her work, the +work she supposed herself to be doing, is placed in the region of +picturesque poetry; as Tennyson's gardener's daughter, training her +wreaths over the porch, is as poetical a personage as his pensive +Adeline or stately Eleonoere. + +We hear that the daughters of Queen Victoria take pride in, and give +personal attention to, their dairies, and love to work among their +gardens and model farms. And the Prince Consort designed model cottages +for the poor in which it would be bliss to dwell, only it is +impracticable to make the poor endure novelties in domestic life. Why, +then, should we alone think it improper, unlady-like, and what not, to +study these every-day utilities, and plan improvements in sinks and +boilers? + +But things are not so bad as they were thirty and forty years ago, as +regards what is lady-like and what is not. We are emancipated from the +thraldom of its being considered genteel to be idle, and interesting to +be helpless, unable to dress ourselves, or tie our own bonnet-strings +without the assistance of our maid. In my young days we always had to +wait for a maid to come and hook our dresses; we should not endure this +now. + +The favourite story of the Queen always putting away her own bonnet, +and folding up the strings(!) helped much in sweeping away this +fanciful gentility. Since the introduction of the sewing-machine, made +as a piece of furniture fit for a lady's sitting-room, ladies have been +less ashamed to be seen making their own dresses; and every girl now, +of any pretension to taste, twists up her silk, tulle, and ribbons, +mingling them in hats and bonnets with flowers or feathers, the most +graceful objects in creation, until her skill produces a thing of +beauty which is a joy throughout the summer. + +What artist would desire a more charming subject for his picture than a +pretty girl before her glass, trying in which position these delicate +gauds best become the face they will adorn. It is holding nature up to +the mirror. Yet some years ago girls were ashamed of a home-made +bonnet, because their careful elders taught them it was more virtuous +to make shirts than to cultivate their taste. The consequence was they +were obliged to pay some guineas for a bonnet, as amateur millinery was +a tissue of horrors. + +The cooking-schools are helping us in another useful branch of +housewifery. Here again woman's work is being raised out of the dulness +of the "Berlin repository" into an atmosphere in which all the senses +may revel. Smell and taste are here perfectly satisfied, and here we +offer another picture for our imaginary artist--or perhaps the beholder +may be a lover. + +What more captivating sight than the girl of his heart deftly moving +about among bright pots and kettles, and delicious bits of blue and +other ware, gleaming among the copper stewpans? Dutch tiles all round +the stove, and everything as picturesque as in a Friesland kitchen +(which we admire enough to go a long way to see), and the young +housewife in a fresh and prettily worked dress of Holland or cambric, +made short, showing her red morocco shoes, her sleeves short to the +elbow, with a dainty bib and apron to keep her dress from soil: she +rolling out pastry at a marble table, having by her side a graceful +ewer of water, or fanciful milk-pot, and, in neat arrangement, quaint +jars for jams, and pails and tubs of the carved wood which is so +artistically made by the Norwegian peasants. But I must fill up my +outlines further on, as I enter into detail of each department of the +house, and show how the first steps may be made easy in the direction +of pleasant employment which shall be both useful and economical. + +Do not look upon the taste and beauty of details as unimportant. They +make up the harmony of our lives. Taste exercises a larger influence +than we give it credit for. What makes Paris flourish? Why do we all +enjoy it? Not for its Louvre galleries, nor for its intellectual life +and culture most, but for its tasty shops! + +We will speak of the house in the following order. First, the hall by +which we enter it from the street; then we will bring our housewife +into the kitchen, not necessarily, nor even advisably, downstairs, but +near the entrance-door, so that the goods brought into the house need +not have far to travel and be lifted (which would entail fatigue) +before they reach the scene of their transmutation; the dining-room +will come naturally next to the kitchen, as it should be nearest in a +topographical sense. + +Then we can adjourn to the withdrawing-room, and refresh ourselves with +_jardiniere_ or conservatory before undertaking the arrangement of the +bed-rooms and nurseries, where we pass so large a portion of our lives; +and lastly, we will speak of the inhabitants, more particularly of the +children. In considering the latter, we shall find the greatest benefit +of anything I have recommended in this book, namely, that in place of +the low-minded words and sentiments and vulgar habits of those who come +nearest to ourselves in the society of our children, we may have a +higher and purer association, so that the good of their future +education will not have already been neutralized by corrupted early +principles. + +By interesting occupation our young ladies will have less time for +sentimental troubles and fancied ill-health, which is nervousness. +Eugenie de Guerin hit the mark when she wrote, "Yes; work, work! Keep +busy the body, which does mischief to the soul! I have been so little +occupied to-day, and that is bad for one, and it gives a certain +_ennui_ which I have in me time to ferment." On another occasion +she speaks of having been writing and thinking, and then going back to +her spinning-wheel or a book, or taking a saucepan, or playing with her +dogs; and then she adds, "Such a life as this I call heaven upon +earth." + + + + +THE ENTRANCE-HALL. + +The evil of side doors--Difficulties with cooks--Who is to answer the +door?--Four classes of applicants--Arrangements for trades-people +--Visitors--Furniture of the hall--Warming the passages--Dirt and +door-mats--The door-step--Charwomen. + + +Many of the most respectable old houses in London and other large +cities have only one street door and no area gate; and this is a great +advantage, for of all inventions for the demoralization of households, +the side or servant's door is the one which does its work most surely. +There is no oversight of it; and neither master nor mistress can tell +what is going on below-stairs, or at the back of the house, when the +shutters are closed and the family are at dinner, or in the +drawing-room in the evening. + +The side door had its origin in a pride, or false shame, which could +not bear to see a vestige of the working of the machinery of the house, +and in that tendency to separate the ornamental from the necessary part +of the household economy which has worked so disastrously for us all, +making us, first, unwilling to take a practical share in the management +of our houses, so widening the class division between mistress and +servant; and secondly, has thrown us into such a state of dependence +upon our subordinates that the boldest of us dare not venture into the +kitchen except at stated hours; and then, having received the programme +of the proposed arrangements for the day from the cook, we are expected +to go away and be no further hindrance to the eleven o'clock luncheon, +which is one of the five solid meals daily required to sustain life in +the hardships of service. Most ladies know what it is to wince under +the sharp tongues of their cooks, who "don't like to have missuses come +messing about in their kitchens," and their sarcasms upon "ladies who +are not ladies," etc., etc., until many weak-minded victims retire +before the enemy, and, giving up the vain pretence of ordering the +dinner and examining the kitchen daily, send for the cook after +breakfast, and get the interview over as soon as may be. It requires a +very strong sense of duty to make one go where one is so palpably +unwelcome, where one's most innocent looks are construed into a mean +peeping and prying, and the least remonstrance is met by insolence. + +I have, as a rule, been fortunate with my servants, and of late years I +have successfully employed foreigners, who are generally more tractable +than English servants. + +I carried my point, when living in a villa near London, and locked the +side door, retaining the key. I found great advantage in so doing on +comparing notes with my neighbours, who told me their servants had +threatened to leave directly there was a question of closing the side +doors. + +But this is only a recommendation where servants are kept. A +responsible supervision of young servants is quite consistent with +allowing them due liberty. This should always be granted them, as a +dull imprisonment is misery to the young, and then they would not +endeavour to take it in a clandestine manner, and surreptitious +dealings with dishonest characters outside would be avoided. + +To our present argument it matters little whether there be a side door +or not, except that it affords greater facility to burglars; so we will +treat of the principal door as the only one, because this is most +frequently the case in town-houses where there is no area gate, and the +use of that does not enter into our plan of proceeding at all. + +One of the first difficulties that presents itself to the lady wishing +to maintain a small household staff is the opening of the front door. +The question meets us on the threshold, who is to answer the door? Who +will be the slave of the ring? + +A lady-help does not like to undertake this office, and to the mistress +it appears still more unsuitable. But let us analyze the subject. + +There are four classes of people who knock at our door: the family, +tradespeople, visitors, and casuals. The first division of the +difficulty may be easily disposed of. The master and mistress, for +these titles must be strictly maintained, have each a latch key; the +rest of the family may habitually use a particular knock agreed upon +between them, and then the person who happens to be nearest to the door +will open it. + +Schoolboys and girls return at stated hours, and one is prepared for +their appeal. For several years past my family has used four single +knocks, which is a sign sufficiently unlike other knocks to be +recognized immediately. + +The postman's knock is well known, and in families where there is no +great eagerness to get the letters, they fall naturally into the +letter-box, which should be made deep, and the slit large enough to +admit the _Times_ newspaper easily. + +In Italy it is usual to write the word _fuori_ on a card, and stick it +in the door when one is not at home; and in this case visiting-cards +would also be left in the letter-box. We might adopt this method, or +even the Temple fashion of saying when we are likely to be home again. + +The tradesmen are the most difficult to arrange for, and here invention +must be called into play. Tradespeople first call for orders, and then +with supplies. + +Suppose we had our doors fitted with a kind of turnstile door, +something like the birdcage gates which used to be at the Zoological +Gardens, only with the outside made of wood, closely fitting, so as to +admit no draught. This, by a push, would allow the goods to be +deposited within the door, on the table upon which the cage turns +round. The opening should be of a size to admit a leg of mutton easily. +The goods, once deposited, could not be removed from the outside, as +the door only works one way. + +Through this opening the lady-housekeeper might give her own orders +without their interpretation by an underling, and without being exposed +to the public gaze, as she would be if the front door were fully +opened, while the leg-of-mutton aperture would be sufficient for both +parties to see to whom they were speaking. In the case of a single +door, instead of the very general folding doors, it would be necessary +to have the cage made to fold back, and the table to let down with +hinges, to allow of the door being opened back against the wall; the +table might be lowered after midday. This arrangement would also +dispose of most of the casuals--the beggars, pedlars, and others who +haunt our door-steps--to the entire prevention of hall robberies. + +And now we come to the last and most considerable division of the +subject--our visitors; comprising relatives, friends, and strangers. If +we lived in Arcadia, or in the Colonies, we should most likely be so +glad to see our friends that we should joyfully run to welcome them. Or +if we were very great people indeed, we should not mind doing as Queen +Victoria does, going to receive them at the moment of their arrival. +But as we are middling people, and neither shepherdesses nor queens, we +dread being natural for fear of being thought poor. + +For people are very much more afraid of being thought poor than of +being poor, seeing how often they let themselves be dragged into +poverty by idleness and extravagance. The best remedy I know for the +fancied difficulty of opening our door to our visitors, is to have no +friends but those whom we are glad to see, and to begin every new +acquaintance by putting it at once on a footing of actual fact, letting +people understand that we try to make the best of our means, and live +within them. Then, if they will not take us upon our own terms, we need +not regret that they do not wish for our friendship. + +We shall find, in actual practice, that it makes very little difference +to their opinion of us, if when we are at home we have the courage to +tell them so ourselves; or if a dirty maid-servant, after an interval +of waiting, receives their cards in the corner of her apron because her +hands are black, and says she will go and see if "missis" is at home, +or even if a neat parlour-maid fulfils the same office, and ushers +visitors into a brown holland-encased room, leaving them to remark the +time the lady of the house takes arranging her dress and her smiles +previous to appearing. + +In whatsoever way the ceremonial may be performed is of importance to +none but ourselves. The visitor forgets it immediately, only retaining +a general impression, cheery or dismal, as the case may seem; and if we +are nice people and our visitors nice people, according to our +respective ideas on that subject, we shall cultivate each other's +acquaintance all the same. + +It is immensely hard work to make five hundred a year look like a +thousand. The effort to do so is seen through in an instant by a +keen-sighted observer, and then it is ten chances to one if you get +credit for what you really possess. It is never worth while to pinch +and pare our everyday life for the sake of a few occasions of display. + +Let us now go on to consider the best fittings and furniture for the +entrance-hall. + +Encaustic tiles make very good flooring for a hall, and are very easily +cleansed with a mop or a damp cloth wrapped round a broom. A good thick +door-mat is a great temptation to people to rub their boots well. This +is really better than one of those delightful indoor scrapers all set +round with brushes, which are seldom used after the first few weeks of +their introduction. Mine is as good as new, and as highly polished, and +I have had it for years. A couple of good door-mats are much more +useful. + +It is necessary to have a stand with a large drip-dish in a corner of +the hall, to hang up cloaks and mackintoshes, and hat-pegs of course, +but particularly a good-sized cupboard for boots, shoes, and goloshes, +so that the family may change them in the hall on entrance. A carved +_bahut_, or Italian linen coffer, is very useful in a hall for children +to keep their school and garden hats and bonnets in, the lid serving +for a bench; but many halls, which are often merely narrow passages, +would be inconveniently crowded by one of these rather ponderous pieces +of furniture; besides which, they are costly. + +A deep bowl of Oriental china is as nice as anything for a card-dish, +and the hall is a more appropriate place for it than the drawing-room. + +Where it is thought necessary to warm the house, hot-water pipes laid +from the kitchen are as cheap as anything. If the pipes are heated by a +separate gas-stove in the hall, they will supply hot water to the +bed-rooms also; but it is not a healthy practice to heat the passages +of a house: it causes the cold to be so much more felt on going out. +Where the influence of the stove is felt in the bed-rooms it often +prevents sleep. + +In many houses which are kept too close and warm the families are +subject to constant headache, and in others to a perpetual succession +of colds; according to their temperament requiring more oxygen, or +their susceptibility to the sudden change from the heated to the +outdoor air. + +Unpolished oak is the most usual and the best material for hall +furniture; it is cleaned by rubbing with a little oil, which shows the +grain and enriches its colour. + +One rule which in practice saves more dirt in the house than any other, +is that no member of the family be allowed to go upstairs in +walking-boots. I have carried out this law for some years, after having +long been troubled by my schoolboys rushing up and down stairs with +their dirty boots on; and the saving to my stair carpet is very +considerable. Boys and girls do not run up and down so often, if +compelled to exercise a little attention beforehand. + +But little boot blacking or brushing need be done in the house. +Gentlemen can easily have their boots cleaned out of doors, and ladies, +by the use of goloshes, may reduce this work for themselves to a +minimum, many kinds of boots being much better cleaned when sponged +over lightly than when they are brushed or blacked. Every member of the +family may not unreasonably be expected to take care of his or her own +boots. + +The door-step, or flight of steps, which is such an affliction to +householders and such a joy to servants, may be kept sufficiently clean +by being washed by the charwoman who comes one morning a week to do the +scrubbing and scouring; which would be too menial--in other words, too +public and too laborious--for any lady-help to endure. + +Hearthstoning the step seems a very useless practice; the grey stone +itself is a nicer colour, and only requires a mop or a broom to keep it +free from dirt, according to the weather. Much white dust is brought +into the house by the daily use of hearthstone, and precious time is +wasted in the operation. + +It may be well to understand, at the outset of our description of the +work of a house, what parts of it cannot usefully or practicably be +undertaken by women who have been gently nurtured, before discussing +the portions which their knowledge and skill are best calculated to +perform. For although we may by forethought reduce within a small +compass the toilsome part of the duties, there will always remain some +functions which it would uselessly tax a lady's valuable time and +strength to perform. For, after all, the office of the mistress is to +raise housekeeping to the level of the fine arts, "where the head, the +hand, and the heart work together." + +Incidental mention has already been made of the charwoman; she may be +employed for the harder work in the following manner:-- + +The charwoman should not have her meals in the house, but she should be +paid by the piece for certain work done; say, door-step, 1_d._ or +2_d._, according to size and number of steps; kitchen floor, 4_d._; +passages, according to size and requirements. Many charwomen would +gladly undertake work on this plan, and many poor women or strong girls +would rejoice to do a morning's work and get home early to their family +with what would pay for their dinner. + +It is impossible to lay down fixed prices for piece-work, as this must +necessarily vary with the size of houses and the habits of the owners. + +The charwoman can shake the heavy door-mats, and sweep out the kitchen +flue, if the species of stove used require sweeping--and most of them +do. She may also break the large lumps of coal into knobs of the size +necessary for the patent ranges needing fuel of a certain size, and she +might place the week's supply of coal in the fuel-box. + +It would be better in many cases to employ for this hard work a strong +boy with a Saturday half-holiday. He could do it all quite as well as a +woman, and much more easily; but as we find we shall be taxed for a +man-servant if we employ any arms but a woman's, we must make the best +use we can of the worse means, consoling ourselves with the idea that +the woman will use the money paid better than the boy might do. + + + + +BREAKFAST. + +Lighting gas-fire--Difficulty of rousing servants--Family breakfast +--Cooking omelet--Hours of work and enjoyment--Duties of mothers and +householders--What is included in six hours' daily work--Clearing away +the breakfast--Bowl for washing the _vaisselles_--Ornamented tea-cloths +--Muslin cap worn while dusting--Use of feather-brush--Cleaning +windows--Advantages of gas-fire. + + +The gas-fire is the key-note of my system of domestic economy. The +thing most impossible for a lady to contemplate doing, unless compelled +thereto by duty, is to get up early, and before the shutters are open +or the household stirring, to lay and light a fire, or light one +already laid. The thought of going to a coal-cellar, shovel in hand, to +bring in a scuttle of coals on a winter's morning is enough to make the +bravest shudder. It is work only suited to those who have strength and +hard nurture. + +But can the most delicate woman think it a hardship to light the +gas-stove, or tripod, in the dining-room, whereon stands an +enamel-lined kettle ready filled overnight, or else a coffee-pot +already full, and only waiting for the match to be struck to make it +hot? + +This is less trouble than to rouse one's self at seven o'clock to ring +the bed-room bell, which often fails to summon a sleepy maid: and few +English servants are early risers. Those who keep foreign servants have +greatly the advantage in this respect. + +Very many of us require our servants to rise and be downstairs before +seven, as most gentlemen have to be in the city, or at their offices or +chambers, by nine, and all schoolboys and girls at school. In the great +majority of families breakfast must be ready punctually at eight. + +While the family is assembling and prayers are being read, the kettle +is boiling, and the tripod is soon ready for eggs to be boiled upon it, +and bacon or kidneys fried. + +My experience of another plan for a very comfortable every-day +breakfast is, where a spirit lamp (methylated spirit, not petroleum) +stands on the breakfast-table at the mistress's right hand, and from a +plate containing eggs, butter, and some rashers of bacon, she cooks a +savoury omelet, and fries the rashers in a small china fryingpan over +the lamp, passing to each person the hot slices as they are done, and +serving the omelet fizzling from the pan to all. + +This process of cooking only takes five minutes, and the food is ready +to be eaten as soon as the tea is made or the coffee poured out; and it +is a pretty and cheerful occupation while letters are being read and +talked of, or the _Saturday Review_ cut. + +A few savoury herbs, such as parsley or chives, are a great addition to +the omelet; and it is easy to chop overnight the teaspoonful that is +sufficient for the purpose, and put it on the plate with the other +preparations. A few slices of cold potato are easily fried when the +bacon is taken out of the pan; the bacon fat fries them deliciously. +The china frying pans may be bought at many shops, particularly at No. +9, Oxford Street, London. + +Toast is not easily managed; but with hot rolls from the baker's, +marmalade, honey, and potted meat or ham, on the table, a very +substantial breakfast may be had with little trouble, and no delay in +its preparation. + +We will suppose the gentlemen of the family have left the house for the +business of the day, and the boys gone to school, and we will now, +before continuing our description of the house and its furniture, give +an outline sketch of the proceedings of the ladies during their +absence. + +For England expects every woman to do her duty, as well as every man, +and to prove herself a help-meet for man before pretending to rivalry. +The division of our time given in the old lines seems to be a very +rational one-- + + "Six hours to work, + To soothing slumber seven, + Ten to the world allot, + And all to heaven." + +This allows ample time for rest and enjoyment, and sets apart an hour +for daily service in the church for all who wish to attend it. + +In Utopia, Sir Thomas More allots six hours a day for work to all men +and women, and no longer; as he holds it to be important that we should +have more time available for enjoying the living we work for, than for +working to sustain it. + +We give ourselves so little enjoyment in our play, that a great man +once said, "Life would be very tolerable if it were not for its +pleasures." We have come to treat our play as if it were our work--and +no wonder, since we have made it so very troublesome--and having thrown +our appointed work upon the shoulders of other people, we now complain +how badly they do it. + +We mothers have a certain work given us to do, not by man, but by our +Maker, whose servants we are. This is to take care of our children. +Instead of doing this, we leave them almost entirely in the hands of +strangers, and during great part of the day we know nothing of their +doings, nor of what they are learning or thinking. + +What should we say to a nurse or a governess who neglected them as we +do, and how shall we answer for our lack of care? + +We householders have laid upon us the care of our houses. Yet it has +come to be a recognized thing that we are to touch nothing in them with +our own hands--at the utmost, we are to give our orders; and the +wealthy among us do not even do that, but are waited upon with every +luxury, and then sent ready-dressed into society. + +We are not our own, and we have little to do with the making of our +position in life. We must accept the _status quo_ and make the best of +it; so we may as well acquiesce cheerfully in our circumstances, doing +as much as we can, and see if regular occupation will not make our +hearts lighter, and help to bring back the days of Merry England again. + +But we have no time for preaching now, and I would not willingly give a +sermon in any case. I only threw out that suggestion of six hours' work +for fear you might think I meant you to be busily employed all day, and +then you would drop the book in disgust. But go on a little longer, and +you will find that I am less hard than the Ladies' Art-Needlework +Society, which insists upon eight hours of close application, and far +less hard than the Cambridge Board of Examiners, which drives you on +night and day, leaving no time for household duties; much less for +dancing, or picking flowers in country lanes. + +No; my six hours' work will include your music-practising, and your +attentive reading for purposes of study. For unless yours be the only +pair of feminine hands in the family, you will not find more than three +hours occupied with household work, and part of that time will comprise +a daily walk, a constitutional with an object, and the remaining part +will not be disagreeable; at least, I hope not, but it will be work and +not play. + +After this explanation let us return to our subject. We will take it +for granted that there are at least two ladies at home. One, the +lady-help or eldest daughter, for example, will dust and set in order +the drawing-room, whilst the mistress of the house proceeds to clear +away the breakfast somewhat after the following manner. + +When the coffee-pot was taken from the gas tripod to be placed on the +breakfast-table, the kettle was refilled from a tap fixed on one side +of the dining-room fire-place, and the water will be by this time hot +enough to wash the cups and plates in. + +Immediately under the tap stands a large bowl of Delft, or other ware +sufficiently strong for daily use, and yet ornamental or picturesque +enough to remain always in the dining-room. Terra-cotta is a good +material for this purpose, as the colour is always decorative to a +room. One might have a bowl of very elegant design made at the Watcombe +terra-cotta works. Better still, in the case of its being required to +be movable, would be a wooden bowl of the Norwegian carved work +manufactured by peasant artists of Thelemarken, under the direction +of M. de Coninck, of Christiania. Some one of Minton's vases or +_jardinieres_ would answer the purpose very well; but unless it had a +plug and a pipe for letting off the water, like many washstands have, +it would be heavy to lift with water in it. But a bowl with these +fittings, placed on a fixed stand near the fire-place, would be well +worth while taking some trouble to procure for the dining-room. It +would be quite as ornamental, and no more expensive, than the china +flower-pots on unsteady pedestals which are so universally popular; +indeed, it might balance one of these on the window-side of the +fire-place, if it were thought proper. A piece of oilcloth might be +spread under the pedestal, if it does not stand on the varnished floor. + +From the sideboard-drawer will be taken a neatly folded tea-cloth, +ornamented most probably with open work at each end, or adorned with +colour in the style of the Russian household linen in the collection of +the Duchess of Edinburgh, and the lady will proceed to rinse and wipe +the breakfast cups and saucers, together with the teaspoons, milk-jug, +and the cleaner plates, and will then lay the plates that have grease +upon them to soak in the hot water, to which some additional hot water +has been added. + +Before taking out the plates, the china which has been used at +breakfast should be neatly arranged on, or in, the sideboard. This +saves the trouble of carrying about trays of crockery, and the +consequent breakage. I will describe the china cabinet as I go more +particularly into the details of the dining-room. + +The remaining plates may now be wiped, and the _etceteras_ replaced, +the cloth brushed, neatly folded, and laid in a drawer with the table +napkins, and the fryingpan cleansed by relighting the spirit-lamp for a +minute while some hot water bubbles in it to clean it; the towel itself +taken away to dry, and the tea-leaves, and a small basin of eggshells +and scraps carried into the kitchen; the raw eggshells to be used to +wash decanters and glass, and the tea-leaves reserved for dusting +purposes. + +The windows are opened and the gas fire turned out, and this important +ceremonial of the day is at an end. + +By this time the drawing-room will have been dusted by the second lady, +the week's duster being kept in a convenient drawer. The feather-brush +is wielded as a wand by the graceful mistress of the instrument, whom I +should recommend to wear a muslin cap to keep the dust from falling on +her hair. + +These caps, when made of Swiss muslin and trimmed with a frill border +edged with Valenciennes lace, are most becoming. They are best and +prettiest when made in the shape of a large hair-net. A pretty bride +used to come down to breakfast at Interlaken wearing this kind of cap, +and other ladies at once adopted the style for wearing at their morning +work or sketching. This was some years ago, but a good shape is always +good. + +To any one unused to the mysteries of dusting, it is surprising to find +how easily the ornaments of a drawing-room may be kept in order, and +how well the gilt frames of pictures preserved, by a light play of the +feather-brush every morning. The French use the _plumeau_ in nearly all +cases where we rub with a hard duster, and with great advantage, +especially in the case of gilding. + +A man or woman hired once a month will keep the windows bright; they +are all the brighter if cleaned with newspaper dipped in cold +water--some mordant in the printer's ink has the property of rendering +them so--and they are the more easily wiped, having less fluff about +them than if cloths are used. + +A light rub with a leather makes bright stove bars more brilliant, and +in summer the fire-place will give very little trouble; though for +ladies managing their own work, andirons and a wood fire will be found +easier to keep in order, as well as being more picturesque. + +A gas fire, built with pumice and asbestos, lasts without needing a +touch for three years, and though less delightful than wood or coal, is +infinitely cleaner, and gives no trouble at all. A gas apparatus with +four jets can be laid in any ordinary fire-place, and fitted with +pumice and asbestos complete for seven and twenty shillings, perhaps +for less; but that is what I have paid. And when one considers the +saving of labour in carrying upstairs heavy scuttles of coal, besides +the original cost of the scuttles, with the ludicrous inappropriateness +of the ornamental varieties, the total abolition of fire-irons, +including that absurdity seen in many houses, the supplementary or +deputy poker, besides requiring no chimneysweep in the drawing-room at +all, it may be thought well worth while to have a gas fire laid at +first. The superior cleanliness and security against smoke are great +arguments for its general use, besides the ease with which it can be +lighted, or turned out when not wanted for use. Being in the +fire-place, the gas finds vent in the chimney, so there is no feeling +of closeness in the room. The disadvantage of a gas fire, in some +people's opinion, is that it may not be poked or touched; but this is +soon forgotten. Its appearance is like a clear fire of cinders, except +when the sun is shining, and then it burns with a greenish tint not at +all pretty. + +Breakfast cleared away, and the drawing-room neatly arranged, the beds +have next to be made. This is done with little exertion, as modern beds +have spring mattresses, and French wool mattresses above these which +require no shaking; so that bed-making gives only a little exercise +with a minimum of fatigue. Two people can make a bed with great ease, +but as a rule I should advocate every person making his or her own bed. + +I must not here go into the detail of setting the bed-rooms in order, +as this will come more properly into the description of the upper part +of the house. So I will only suggest that if one room be cleaned each +day, and the staircase on one day, the housework is not so heavy a task +as it appears. + + + + +THE KITCHEN. + +Parisian markets--No refuse food brought into a house--Catering in +London--Cooking-stoves--Pretty kitchen--Underground kitchens +objectionable--Kitchen level with the street door--Larder and +store-room--The dresser--Kitchen in the Swiss style--Herbs in the +window--Hygienic value of aromatic plants--Polished sink--Earthenware +scrap-dish--Nothing but ashes in dust-bin--Soap-dish--Plate-rack-- +Kitchen cloths--Few cleaning materials necessary--Hand work better +than machine work--Washing at home--Knife-cleaning--Fuel-box--No work +in the kitchen unfit for a lady to do. + + +Time works many changes; but will it ever bring into our English +markets the various and neatly arranged vegetables, the bouquets of +salad, pleasant to the eye as to the taste, the neat little joints and +divisions of meat, the temptingly prepared poultry and game, and the +many kinds of appetizing comestibles, which are to be found in the +markets of Paris? There a housekeeper may amuse herself by varying her +dinners for every day, having an embarrassment of choice between +countless delicacies. There the fillet of beef (the undercut of the +sirloin) is already larded for the roast; the pigeons are boned and +prepared for the _compote_; the veal is cut in shape and beaten for the +cutlets; the pigs'-feet are boned, stuffed, and truffled; slices of +galantine are ready to be laid on a dish for luncheon; crayfish woo the +_mayonnaise_; parsley and butter are waiting to be poured over potatoes +_a la maitre-d'hotel_. There the spinach may be bought ready boiled and +finely chopped, only needing to be warmed with its poached eggs; the +sorrel is already picked over and cooked; the carrots are cleanly +grown, and evenly selected, and sold with just the quantity of +feathered green tops useful for a garnish. In fact, all is so contrived +that the least possible refuse matter shall be brought into any house, +so saving the labour that this entails. + +Nor does this trimming and spoke-shaving add to the price of the +articles, as the surplus vegetable remains go into the ground at once, +but little of what is uneatable being taken to the market at all; thus +saving the cost of carriage, and paying for the little time expended in +its removal; while in the case of meat, the purchaser finds it more +profitable to cook only such parts as are entirely eatable, without +letting time and fire be consumed in preparing what is always wasted. + +This is not a cookery-book, though when I think of how much we have to +learn before we can make good use of our fine provisions, I feel +tempted to branch off on this line; but the lady amateur will learn +more by giving careful attention at the cooking-school than by reading +many books. + +In London we can buy peas ready shelled, fowls ready trussed, fish +prepared for the pot or pan, and sometimes our beans ready slit; but +carrots must be scraped, greens washed, and turnips peeled, and apples +also, though potatoes need not; tongues and hams may be bought boiled, +and cakes ready baked. Still, with us much more food has to be prepared +at home than in France, though we have this convenience--that the +provisions are brought by the tradesmen to our doors, which is seldom +the practice there. + +For general cooking, the gas tripod like that used at breakfast will +not serve our turn, except on cold-collation days in the heat of +summer, when cold lamb or salmon, salads and fruit, are more grateful +than anything else. + +Many people dislike to have their cooking done by gas, and it is +objectionable for roasting or broiling; still, there are such numerous +inventions in cooking-stoves, each simpler, cleaner, and more perfect +than the rest, that only the embarrassment of selection can cause +hesitation in making a choice. + +Near a nice bright stove, placed in a recess glittering with Dutch +tiles or Minton's artistic _plaques_, surrounded by burnished pans +and pots of well-lined copper or brass and neat enamelled saucepans, +the genius of the hearth presides over the mysteries of Hestia. + +The window, made with diamond panes mingled with a few lozenges of +bright colour, is mostly open in summer, and wreathed with climbing +plants--as vines, and ornamental gourds, with their curious black or +scarlet fruit, the rich foliage intercepting the sunshine--or closed if +it be winter, and draped in pleasant muslin. I would take great pains +to make my kitchen the most picturesque and cheerful room in the house, +as it is one of the most important. + +On no account would I use the great black beetle-trap cellar downstairs +and underground, which strikes with dismay the greater number of young +girls who have rushed from school into marriage, and who instantly +become the prey of the tyrant imprisoned in that dungeon, which is too +often also a den of iniquity. + +No; if obliged to have a house with one of these dismal caverns, I +would invent some useful purpose for it; but I would not willingly +select such a dwelling. These underground kitchens must eventually die +out, and our children will wonder why we used such airless, lightless +places. + +In a house arranged on my plan we aim upwards, not downwards. We might, +perhaps, on wet days, let the children go to these basement rooms to +skip or romp, as there they could not shake down the ceiling beneath +them, as sometimes happens in upstairs play-rooms; only the rooms must +be kept carefully whitewashed, and, as far as possible, well aired. + +Or the old kitchen might be fitted up with racks for guns and +fishing-rods, and used as a smoking-room, when cosily papered, and +carpeted with matting; and the back kitchen converted into a +carpenter's shop with lathe and tool-chest. + +But our kitchen, the pride of our house, will be level with the +dining-room and front door. It is a foolish practice to have all +vegetables, meat, coal, etc., taken downstairs for the purpose of +bringing them all up again. + +When it is impossible to spare two rooms on the ground floor for +household use, let both kitchen and dining-room be upstairs, while the +drawing-room might be on the ground floor. This would give no more work +than does our present custom. But where it is possible, it is better, +for obvious reasons, that the kitchen should be on a level with the +street door. + +When the room used as kitchen is large and has two windows, one side of +it may be partitioned off for a larder, or store closet; or if there is +a small third room near, it may be used for these purposes. But much +depends upon the aspect of the room and its means of ventilation. A +town larder need not be large, as the butcher, fishmonger, etc., can +keep the provisions far better than we can do in the best of larders. A +pantry and scullery will be quite unnecessary in a house arranged in +this way. Wine will be kept in the usual wine-cellar, but beer, in +bottles or in a small cask, may be kept in the cupboard under the +stairs which is so universal in town houses. + +The kitchen floor should not be carpeted; but one or two undyed +sheepskins make comfortable mats, and are easily cleaned. + +The kitchen dresser may be made of the usual shape, though the cornice +seems superfluous, as it is too high for anything but dust to rest upon +it. + +Where it is thought better to do so, the old kitchen dresser may be +brought bodily upstairs. If it is varnished and its back painted red, +and the edges of its shelves very dark brown, with bright brass hooks +in them, it may have bright brass handles put on its drawers, and it +will do very well; and white or blue-and-white ware will look extremely +well upon it. + +A kitchen may be very prettily fitted up in the Swiss style, with +unpainted deal employed decoratively whenever there is a fit occasion +for it. The back of the dresser may be made of narrow boards, each lath +cut out uniformly in a pattern at the top, forming a band of ornament. +The shelves will look very nice with a border of fretwork, in sycamore, +placed either above or below their edges. They are more easily cleaned +if the ornamental border is fastened on like barge-boarding, but this +plan is not so well adapted for hooks. + +Mottoes in old English character, which is similar to the German Gothic +type used in Switzerland, form an appropriate decoration to the cornice +of the room. + +The tables and chairs must be of unpainted wood, plain, but of good +form. All hooks and bars, or whatever cannot conveniently be made of +wood, should be of wrought iron. This gives a good opportunity for +having window-bars and fastenings, or even a balcony, made in +ornamental iron work. The window-curtains will be of Swiss muslin. + +Oval wooden pails, with a board on one side left tall and cut out for a +handle, made in various sizes for water, milk, etc., are as useful as +they are suitable to the style adopted; and baskets may be made like +those carried by the Swiss mountaineers at their backs. A cuckoo clock +and a few hooks of chamois horn carry out the effect. Characteristic +ornaments, such as paintings of Swiss scenery, and flowers in wooden +frames, wood carvings on brackets, wooden bears as matchboxes, wooden +screw nutcrackers, should be collected during visits to Switzerland; +and a Swiss costume will be found as practically useful as any dress +the young cook can wear, and will add a great charm and liveliness to +the scene. + +But be the style adopted what it may, and it is well to exercise +individual tastes, it need not be made expensive, or not more so than +an ugly kitchen. Thought and care should combine to make it cheerful +and attractive, in order that the real work to be done in it may not +have a depressing influence: that the lady, or her assistant, may not +pine for the greater excitement of the Row or the rink. The kitchen +window should be well furnished with scented plants; and in case of +having no garden, pots of parsley, mint, and thyme may be grown +successfully on a balcony. Every house might possess its sweet basil +plant, and every Isabella might rear it in as elegant a pot as that in +Holman Hunt's picture. Plentiful use should be made of it in cookery; +it is one of the best of herbs. Indeed, we too much neglect all these +aromatic plants, the hygienic value of their fragrance alone being very +great. Some girls might save the small fortune they now spend in +opopanax and patchouly, by cultivating lavender and thyme for their +wardrobes; while balm and bergamot are sweet enough to make the kitchen +smell like Araby the Blest. + +China ginger-jars will be found good for preserving dried herbs for +winter use. + +The sink is a very important part of the kitchen furniture. This, in +our model kitchen, should be a shallow bath of Marezzo marble, which is +a strong, durable composition, finely coloured. We should select it of +a colour harmonizing with the general style of the kitchen. The sink +must rest upon two columns, or short shafts, of the Marezzo marble, +hollowed down the centre, to allow of the water running freely away at +both ends of the sink, each tube being stopped by a bell-trap. It must +stand on one side of the kitchen fire-place, so that a pipe and tap may +readily communicate with the self-supplying boiler. There must also be +the usual pipe to conduct cold water from the cistern. + +The best possible sink would be of real marble, highly polished; but +the cost of this would preclude its use in our economical household. +Enamelled slate would be cheaper and very good, and it would retain its +polish better than the Marezzo marble, or japanned metal might answer +the purpose pretty well. But doubtless a demand for such articles would +cause Messrs. Minton's factory to produce a sink in strong glazed +earthenware which should be finely coloured as well as elegant in form, +making, indeed, an object as beautiful as a Roman porphyry bath. Many +of the public washing fountains in Italy, or the south of France, would +serve as models for this purpose. One of the most important points to +be attended to is that it should be highly polished, as grease would be +more easily removed from it, and it would be cleaner. + +Beneath the sink is the pot for scraps and refuse, of which a small +quantity is inevitable, unless there is a garden, or poultry are kept; +in which cases all rubbish may be turned to account, the only exception +being fish-bones and scraps, which, under all circumstances, must be +burned. + +The refuse dish should be of earthenware to match the sink, or of +terra-cotta, glazed inside. It must be made in two compartments, one +for usable scraps and one for waste. Each division should have a cover +with a small air-hole in it, both covers made sufficiently heavy not to +be upset or opened by the cat; and there must be a handle to lift it +out once a week, or oftener, when its contents are disposed of, either +as gift, or to some person calling for it regularly. In all economical +families the dripping is consumed either for frying, or else clarified +for cakes, etc. Cinders, of course, are to be sifted in the covered +cinder-sieve, and the ashes only allowed in the dust-bin. By care on +this point, seven-tenths of all fevers might be prevented. + +By the side of the sink should stand a neat towel-horse for drying the +damp cloths; and a pretty dish made in two divisions, with a strainer +for soap and soda, should be hung in a convenient place. This dish +would be best made in earthenware, but it might be of carved wood in a +kitchen fitted up in the Swiss style. + +A plate-rack must be above the sink, and here is great scope for +tasteful decoration without interfering with its lightness or strength. +A rack like those in general use would, however, be perfectly +inoffensive, and so would our ordinary buckets and dish-tubs; but +souvenirs of travel, such as the quaint wooden pails seen at Antwerp, +or the brass fryingpan-shaped candlesticks at Ghent, should be eagerly +sought, as they add much to the picturesqueness and piquant liveliness +which are so desirable. + +A round towel, on a roller with nicely carved brackets, is +indispensable. This should be of finer holland than it is generally +made of, being for ladies' use; or it might preferably be of soft +Turkish towelling, with coloured stripes and a fringed end, and so be +pleasanter to the eye and touch than the ordinary jack-towel. + +The dresser-drawers must have their piles of kitchen cloths neatly +folded, and separated for their different services. These should be +the pride of the young housewife's heart, all of them having their +ends tastefully ornamented, either ravelled out or knotted into fringe +for the commonest, or open worked, or edged with Greek lace and +_guipure-d'art_, according to their quality; the dusters only being +plain, and these of two sorts, one stout for furniture, and the other +kind of soft muslin for ornaments. Housemaid's gloves, wash-leather, +and any favourite cleaning materials, should be kept in a drawer by +themselves; but in my experience I have found very few of these things +necessary. As is the case with all the arts, the more complete the +paraphernalia, the less is the work done. It takes so long to set in +order one's apparatus, and to play with it a little, that as soon as +something is begun to be done, it is time to put all away again. How +often we see this with amateur painters; they set out too heavily +equipped. + +The black-lead and brush, and broken saucer full of something pulpy, +the powder that is always falling out of its packet or bit of +newspaper, and the other odds and ends which crowd our house-maids' +dirty buckets, and the scrubbing brushes and hearthstone which encumber +our sinks, are only barbarisms trying to conceal the slovenliness they +pretend to correct. A house regularly and neatly attended to needs few +or none of these things, while sandpaper, rotten-stone, and whiting may +be almost entirely dispensed with. The homely old proverb should be +remembered, when tempted by advertisements of these things, +"Elbow-grease is the best furniture polish." + +Mincing-machines, apple-paring-machines, and toys of this kind, are all +very well when ladies use them themselves; but they represent so much +idleness, waste, and destruction in the hands of careless cooks, who +like to sit over their letter writing, or their weekly paper, while the +kitchen-maid does the work. And when a fragile machine breaks or gets +out of order under her heavy hand, she only "drats the nasty thing" and +throws away the broken part, pushing the rest aside to become a portion +of the dreadful accumulation of lumber to be seen in every house. + +My own practice as a wood-carver teaches me to prefer using that +perfect tool, the hand, in its ever adaptable way, to using it +servilely to grind out sausages. By the time one has prepared the meat +to feed the machine, set it in working order, and taken it to pieces +again to clean it, one might as soon have used a sharp knife, and the +meat would have tasted better than it does when its juice is squeezed +out and its fibre torn to rags, so that the insipid _rissoles_ made +from it need half a bottle of Harvey's sauce to make them eatable. It +may be a matter of taste, but the difference seems to me as great as +between music played on a piano and noise ground out of a barrel-organ. + +Washing-machines, I have found to my cost, are a failure also, at least +in hired hands. I bought one of the best, but as I had also a +washing-tray, the machine, warranted to do everything, was neglected, +and its lid employed as a table; as we too often see with our pianos, +telling thereby a tale of forgetfulness. The mangling part of the +machine, which was sometimes used by semi-compulsion, always had its +screw left turned on at full pressure, so that the spring would have +been powerless in a week, had I not loosened it myself. Washing at home +had better not be attempted in the case of ladies doing their own work. +We want to lighten the labour of the house; since, if we endeavour to +do too much, we shall either become household drudges, or else decline +the work altogether. + +But supposing a family has time and opportunity to do the laundry work +at home, a tablespoonful of liquid ammonia and a dessertspoonful of +turpentine used in the washing water, where a quarter of a pound of +soap has been finely sliced, will be found to remove dirt from the +clothes without rubbing, saving labour, much soap, and the wear and +tear of the things. + +In the case of large families, besides the greater economy of washing +at home, which is, however, doubtful when extra labour is hired, the +immunity from infectious diseases being brought home in the linen is a +powerful motive for undertaking the work, and doubly so where there is +a garden, as it is so much better for our health to wear linen dried in +the fresh air, rather than in the small courts of the neighbourhood +where our laundresses usually dwell, or in the close passages of their +houses. + +Kent's patent knife-cleaner is as much used, and as useful, as any of +these domestic machines, though I prefer the leather-covered board. +Pyro-silver knives seem to save labour, as they are cleaned like any +spoon; wiped first, as all greasy knives should be, with paper, then +washed in warm water and wiped with a cloth. My own pyro-silver knives +keep very well and remain bright, but as they have valuable handles of +elaborate Burmese ivory-carving they are carefully used. I have heard +people say that the pyro-silver does not wear well, being easily +scratched and otherwise injured. + +Balancing the sink on one side of the stove is the fuel-box, containing +a quarter of ton of coal. This, in most of the new stoves, will last +several weeks, and it may be bought in this small quantity at a time, +or replenished from the usual coal-cellar. This consideration would be +determined by the season, by whether the other stoves in the house burn +gas or coal, and by the number of rooms requiring daily fires. + +The fuel-box should have a lid, forming a table for any temporary uses, +or any of the less cleanly sorts of work--I will not say dirtier work, +because in this system there should be no dirty work, nothing but what +a lady may do without loss of dignity, and without injury to hands +which in the afternoon will handle delicate needlework, and in the +evening recreate themselves over the piano. + +And this leads us to speak of the systematic employment of lady-helps, +in such cases as they may be a real comfort and assistance in a family, +and not where they are expected to be perfect servants, who for small +wages will relieve idle ladies from the difficulty of first obtaining +and then enduring a few ignorant domestics. + + + + +THE LADY-HELP. + +True position of a lady-help--Division of work in a family--The mother +the best teacher--Marketing--Young lady-helps--Luncheon--Early dinners +for children--Recreation--Preparing the late dinner--Evening tea--The +lady-help a gentlewoman--Her assistance at breakfast--Her spare time +--Tact. + + +I use this title, not because I think it is the best, but because it is +already in general use; though, as yet, very few people have any clear +idea of what the true position of a lady-help should be. Some persons +suppose they must treat her as a visitor, in which case she would be +worse than useless, and such a situation could not possibly be +permanent. Others think she must be employed precisely like an upper +servant, and only look upon her as a means of escape from the penalties +of their own position. + +In houses where there are grown-up daughters it is not necessary, nor +even advisable, to employ any labour outside of the family beyond that +of the charwoman, as previously described. + +The work may be so divided as to press too heavily on none, always +bearing in mind, however, that, as "Life is real, life is earnest," +there is real work to be done in every household, the aim being to +lighten it by contrivance, and by utilizing modern inventions; in fact, +making of science and social economy two valuable servants, instead of +exalting them to be our masters, as we have all been doing lately. For, +notwithstanding all our brilliant inventions, we have so multiplied our +wants that life is neither easier nor cheaper than it was in the days +when we knitted our own stockings, spun our own flax, and used strong +handloom sheetings, and woollen cloths which were not made of shoddy. + +Let us take as a typical family a mother and three daughters, two of +them grown up and one still a child--a by no means uncommon instance. +The men and boys may be many or few, it makes little difference to our +example. + +Probably the mother is not so strong as the grown-up daughters. She +might make choice of the needlework department, or the teaching, +supposing her own education to have been good; in which case she would +add the benefit of her experience to every lesson given, rendering it +far more valuable than instruction from a young teacher; as in all +branches of study she would distinguish what is good and lasting from +what is merely ephemeral, and we should have fewer flimsy pieces of +music learnt to the exclusion of great masters, and fewer meretricious +drawings on tinted paper, as we grow out of our admiration for these +things at an early period, and home education would have a more solid +groundwork. Young teachers are too apt to think they know everything, +and only aim at their own standard of education, finished as they +believe it to be. + +Perhaps the mother might prefer to reserve a general oversight, with +only such lighter work as the breakfast-table as already described. The +daughters could share the remaining work in the following manner. + +While the breakfast is being cleared away, one daughter, accompanied by +her youngest sister, will arrange the bed-rooms, and dust the +drawing-room and such parts of the dining-room as have not been +included in the work of setting in order after breakfast. The little +girl would rejoice in helping in this way--all children do; and when +they have no real work of this kind, they imitate it with dolls' +houses. Housekeeping is one of a girl's natural instincts; it is only +quenched by accomplishments being put in its stead. + +While the manager of the needlework sees what requires her attention in +that department, and plans it for unoccupied hours--keeping, perhaps, +some fancy portion of it for pleasant work in the evening, while music +or reading is going on--the daughter who is housekeeper for the week +attends to the culinary arrangements, and considers what marketing will +be required. She will, either alone or accompanied by one of her +sisters, proceed to give her orders at the various shops, or go to the +market and make her own selection. She will bring home some of the +purchases herself--any parcel, for instance, that is no heavier than a +little dog--but mostly the things will be sent to the house. + +Co-operative stores may or may not be an advantage to their +customers--it is a disputed point; but two good things they have done +for us: first, making us pay ready money for what we buy; secondly, +doing away with the ridiculous fear we formerly had of being seen +carrying a parcel. + +This expedition will have given our young heroine the necessary morning +air and exercise, and it need not be so long as to prevent her +enjoyment of a more ornamental walk in the afternoon--visits, or a +cruise in the rink. + +In the case of there being only one grown-up daughter, a young +lady-help may be thought an agreeable addition to the family. She would +be a pleasant companion to the daughter, and they might share the work +in the same manner as two sisters would do. If she were more +accomplished, or better read, than the daughter of the house, this +would be a source of improvement to the latter; or if the superiority +were on the other side, the benefit resulting to the companion would be +such as to make her endeavour, by increased usefulness, to show her +sense of the advantages whereby she would be enabled to add to her +acquirements. + +Much ease in daily life is obtained by dining early; but as this is +seldom possible where fathers and husbands are out all day at their +employments, the necessarily late dinner involves a sacrifice of our +time and pleasure, which we must try to render as small a hardship as +may be, and take as a duty what is such in reality. + +Luncheon for ladies is easily provided where there are no ravenous +schoolboys and girls to cater for, because, as they will dine late, the +luncheon need not be a hot spread meal. A tray with slices of cold +meat, bread, butter, cheese, or perhaps some cold potatoes fried, or +any easily warmed little dish remaining from yesterday's dinner, will +make an ample luncheon, with a glass of beer or some claret. But if +there are schoolboys and girls who come home to an early dinner, it is +indispensable that it should be a real dinner, and no make-believe. The +experience of schools and large families shows us that the cheapest and +most wholesome fare for children is a joint of meat, with potatoes and +another vegetable, a daily pudding, varied according to circumstances, +bread, and beer. No adjuncts; neither pickles nor condiments, cheese +nor dessert. All these _etceteras_ are superfluous and unwholesome, +and entail extra plates and additional trouble to everybody. + +The joints of meat, with potatoes and Yorkshire pudding, are as well +cooked at the baker's as at home, and with much saving of heavy work. + +The following is a good working-plan for a large family: a joint of +meat roasted the first day, the next day cold, which is better for the +children than having the joint cut in two and both parts eaten +hot--cold meat is very good for them. The remainder may be stewed, or +otherwise warmed up on the third day; and so forth, varied with boiled +meat occasionally and fish once a week--on Friday in preference, as +there is a better choice of it on that day, it being purveyed for the +Roman Catholics and others who eat it on principle. Monday is the worst +day for fish. + +The daily pudding should be simple, without sauce, and with very little +spice. Spices become valuable medicines when not habitually taken with +the food. + +It is a mistake to feed children entirely on meat and potatoes; this +diet does not afford sufficient variety. Fruit and milk puddings are +very wholesome and nourishing for children, and so is simple pastry, +when made without baking powder, the frequent use of which is very +lowering, as is the case with all alkalies. + +Luncheon over, the hours from two till half-past four are free for +everybody. Now is the time for music-practice, walks, visits, and +general recreation. + +Visitors drop in about this time, and may be encouraged to stay by the +sight of the afternoon tea-table standing ready arranged in a corner of +the drawing-room. The descent for five minutes of one of the ladies +will be sufficient time to make the tea and produce a plate of +biscuits, or the cake-basket. The gas may be lighted under the kettle +at the time the door is opened to visitors. + +At half-past four the fire must be made up in the kitchen, and all +things put in readiness to prepare the late dinner. This, in the +interest of the health of all, and especially of those who return home +tired and hungry, should not be later than six o'clock, where it is +possible. + +The dinner and dessert occupy little more than an hour, and half an +hour is sufficient to clear all away, and set the things ready for the +next morning's breakfast. The cloth may be left spread on the table, +only brushed and neatly laid. + +We have then a pleasant social evening left us; two hours and a half +before ten o'clock, which may or may not be broken by an evening cup of +tea, according to taste. + +Luxurious people, whose days hang heavily on their hands, are the +fortune of the doctors. Among them we may include servants in large +houses, who are, perhaps, more self-indulgent than any. And it is the +habitual five meals a day required to fill up time in an opulent house, +that contribute most to fill the pockets of the physician. + +It is pleasant, certainly, for an occasional change, to stay in a house +where at nine o'clock the butler and two footmen stalk in with the +tea-tray and its appurtenances; but the main, though unacknowledged, +cause of the ceremonial is, that it may be seen that the men-servants +are at home in the evening, and not at the public-house. + +As a daily habit, however, the continual breaking up of time caused by +the ever-recurring meals is very tiresome to those whose occupations +are so unnecessarily hindered. + +It has been shown that the daily housework for a small family is not +too arduous to be undertaken by the members of that family, in any case +where the grown-up ladies in the house are two or more. But in the +circumstance of a young wife and mother, it were better that she should +not attempt to cope with the greater part of the household work, +especially if she be alone in the house all day, or with young children +only. The sense of solitude is too depressing, and all unshared labour +is much heavier. + +In case of her having no sister, or female friend or relation, to whom +she might be glad to offer a home, she should seek a cheerful +lady-help, who would be pleased to feel she is putting her time to +profit. And if strong, healthy, and a skilful manager, the lady-help +will find how far more interesting this varied work may be made, than +the drudgery of sitting in a dreary school-room as governess to a tribe +of tiresome children, where her only recreation is the monotonous daily +walk; or the more independent, but far more laborious, occupation of a +fine-art needleworker, to whom eight hours' continuous daily toil are +obligatory. + +As far as I can see and judge by letters written to the _Queen_ and +other papers, and the jokes in _Punch_, the difficulty, almost +impossibility, of getting gentlewomen as helps is the drawback to +their being put forward as a solution of the domestic difficulty. The +engagement of half-educated or pretentious daughters of small +tradespeople is by no means desirable, either for themselves or for us. +We do not wish them to be our companions, yet they must be treated with +a greater degree of familiarity than ordinary servants; and if they are +allowed to be on a nominal footing of equality, it can only tend to +lower the tone of the whole household. But the lady-help, in an +establishment suited to the feelings of such an one, may easily be a +gentlewoman by birth and education, and not a lady in name merely. + +As regards the invasion of domestic privacy, which has ever been found +such a disadvantage where a companion, or a governess, is always the +sharer of our meals and conversation, it is by no means necessary, +hardly even possible, that this should be the case with a lady-help; +except at breakfast, when it is surely no hardship, but the +contrary--indeed, it must be a pleasure--to have at our children's most +important meal the assistance of a lady whose care of their wants +prevents our own breakfast being uncomfortably hurried. + +For breakfast is unlike dinner-time in this, that as husband and wives +have already had plenty of time for all they wish to say to each other, +the presence of a third person is not inconvenient, while at their +reunion about dinner-time, when each has the day's adventures to relate +and comment upon, a stranger is sometimes in the way. + +Indeed, it is one of the greatest difficulties in the lady-help system, +that of necessity she cannot sit at table while serving the dinner. + +The greater number of ladies will be as well pleased to have their +spare time for their own pursuits, as to be obliged to sit in the +drawing-room all the evening, trying to seem amused with doing nothing. +A lady offering herself for work of this kind will generally be of an +energetic temperament, and able to employ her leisure profitably in +reading, drawing, or needlework, or perhaps she may have her own piano +in her room. + +It would frequently conduce to the comfort of all parties if she had an +invitation, which she might accept or refuse, to join the drawing-room +circle; and this should be given on occasions when it is likely to be +agreeable to her, at such times as her necessary duties will cause no +awkwardness to herself, the mistress, or the guests. Exercise of tact +will be frequently called for, no doubt, in this avowedly the weak part +of the scheme; but with wit, invention, and a hearty endeavour to make +a subordinate position as little painful as possible, many difficulties +will be tided over, and when once the novelty of the method is worn +off, many little complications, by being less thought of, will be less +felt. + +Where a governess is kept as well as a lady-help, the two ladies could +enjoy life together quite independently of the general company; and it +might be found perfectly compatible with their avocations to give them +permission to invite their personal friends to spend their evenings +occasionally with them. + +In the case of the daughters of the house taking its duties upon +themselves (and no one can consider it an ungraceful service to wait +upon a father), the way would be smoothed by common endeavour of all +the members of the family, and much kindly courtesy would be aroused, +and earnest effort to give the least possible trouble; all of which +should be done in the case of the lady-help. + +When we go more deeply into the detail of the dinner, which is the +_piece de resistance_ of the day's programme, we will endeavour to +show how, by careful fitting and steady guidance, the wheels of the +domestic machine may run smoothly and noiselessly in their grooves, +especially if the oil of good humour be plentifully supplied. And +several suggestions will be offered, which, however, must be looked on +merely as suggestions, and not as essential parts of the system; for in +every household there will be modifications, according to the infinite +variety of tempers, tastes, and habits of the family. + + + + +THE DINING-ROOM. + +Carpets and curtains--Picture hanging and frames--Distemper colouring +for cornices--Oval dining-table--Sideboard for breakfast service-- +Beauty of English porcelain--A London dining-room--Giulio Romano's +banquet--Growing plants--The large sideboard--Dinner-service--Styles of +dinner--Food in due season--Gracefulness of flowers and fruits--Fresh +fruit better than preserves--Communication between kitchen and dining-room +--Remarks on plate--Table decorations. + + +Having given a sketch of the kitchen, I must now fill up that of the +dining-room, which we left after the breakfast was cleared away. + +As the gas-tripod, the spirit-lamp, and the large bowl for washing the +china and other crockery have been already described, we may proceed to +consider what more immediately relates to the dinner-table; since the +rest of the furniture need not materially differ from what is at +present in use. + +In selecting a carpet for the dining-room, let us remember that a +Brussels carpet is more easily brushed and kept clean, than are Turkey +or Indian carpets. + +If it be made with a border, and the floor stained and varnished all +round at a width of from one to two feet from the wainscot, beside +being cheaper to begin with than a fitted carpet, it is more artistic +in appearance, and more readily taken up periodically to be beaten; +while a long brush easily dusts the varnished margin, and a damp cloth +tied over a harder broom will wash it in case of necessity. Bordered +square carpets are the more durable, as they are able to be turned +round as one part becomes unduly worn. + +The best kind of curtains for a dining-room are of some rich-looking +woollen stuff, thick enough not to require lining. Rep is very +serviceable, but there are many more curious foreign fabrics which may +sometimes be met with at no very great cost. + +Curtains ought to run easily on a pole, either of wood or metal. If of +metal, it should not be very large, as the size of a hollow rod does +not add to its strength. Curtain rings can be sewn on at home, and so +can any cord that may be thought desirable at the edge, though this +does not often improve curtains from an artistic point of view. There +is no need of the upholsterer's intervention, which mostly doubles the +price of the curtains. + +The height from the floor to the top of the window should be measured, +and the requisite number of yards of material bought, allowing a margin +for curves in the folds of the drapery. The rods should be sufficiently +long to allow the curtains to hang entirely upon the wall, not +overhanging the window in the least. This preserves the drapery, and +keeps it from fading, while it does not exclude the light. + +The curtains should be ample enough to cover the window completely when +the shutters are shut, without leaving a streak of opening. They should +likewise extend to the ends of the pole, so as comfortably to keep out +the draught. + +If muslin curtains are used, they may conveniently be tacked inside the +woollen ones about half-way; this will keep the latter from some dust. +A few additional rings can be slipped on the pole, to which the +remaining central parts of the muslin will be gathered. + +Curtains should touch the floor, or nearly so, but they need never be +allowed to lie in heaps on the ground, as was formerly the fashion; and +the voluminous folds sustained by brackets have been advantageously +exchanged for a simple band to hold back the curtain. + +Our mothers and grandmothers were certainly victims to their +upholstery; we have improved in this respect. It does not take many +minutes to unhook our curtains, shake them free from dust, and hang +them up again; we have no complicated pulleys to get out of order +perpetually, nor ponderous cornices with heavy valances, and wonderful +gimp and fringe. Those were fine times for the upholsterers! + +Do not hang your dining-room pictures very high; few of us tower above +six feet, and it is easier for those who do so to stoop, than for the +rest of us to stand on tip-toe; we must consider the convenience of the +majority. + +Money is well expended on picture-frames, as when they are handsome and +chosen with taste, they enhance our enjoyment of the pictures. But a +costly frame is not always a good one, and when gilt composition runs +riot in ferns and fantastic flames, as we frequently see it do around +mirrors, its effect is barbaric, rather than elegant. + +Broad flats in gilt plaster are less excellent than gold laid on the +wood itself. + +For prints, where economy has to be much considered, few frames are +better than those of flat oak with a bevelled edge, and on the flat a +slight design of graceful lines made with the parting-tool, and only +the lines gilt. + +Pictures, if small and numerous, should not be dotted about the walls, +but grouped. One sometimes see walls as spotted as a currant-dumpling. +A band of wood, called a grazing line, behind the chair-backs protects +the wall, and is an aid to picture hanging, by giving a line from which +we may measure their bases. + +If there are many large pictures, they should be hung from a rod placed +near the ceiling, or a foot lower, if an ornamental band of paper is +carried round the top of the room below the cornice. If the cornice is +not already "picked out," as the decorators term it, in colour--that +is, delicately tinted in distemper--it should be done, as it is a great +improvement. + +It is not difficult to do this for one's self. The necessary materials +are a pennyworth of whitening, a pennyworth of size, and of the +required tints a pennyworth. Break up some whitening into saucers, mix +it with water until it is of the consistence of thick cream, add a +tablespoonful of melted size to each saucer, shake in about a +teaspoonful of powdered colour to each, and apply with a badger or +hog-hair paintbrush. + +Strong colours become pale tints when mixed with the whitening, and the +mixture dries paler than it is applied. To paint the ground on which +the plaster design is embossed gives a cameo effect and is elegant, but +sometimes it is better to colour the raised ornaments. Taste must be +the guide here. This quantity of material is sufficient to tint every +cornice in the house. Splashes of the colour are easily wiped off while +the mixture is wet. + +Where the family is small, an oval table, like we generally see in +France, is the most convenient form; as the master and mistress sit +facing each other at the narrowest part of the oval, where they can +communicate freely with each other, and more easily dispense the +general hospitality. A table of this shape is lengthened by leaves +inserted in the central division; when quite closed it is a round +table. + +A dumb-waiter placed at the right hand of the mistress enables much +personal waiting to be dispensed with. + +If the dining-room be large, it is desirable to have two sideboards, +one larger than the other. The breakfast things should adorn (for that +is what they really ought to do) the smaller sideboard. + +With all the beauty and comparative cheapness of our Worcester and +other pottery, we ought, in every family, to possess such a collection +of beautiful objects for daily use as should for ever prevent our +sighing after the palmy days of Greek art. I was at Sevres not long +ago, and while going over the porcelain factory there, I mentioned that +I had been over that at Worcester. "Ah, then, madame," said the +official, "we can show you no more; you have indeed seen all." + +And had we no careless and ever-changing servants to shatter our +elegant treasures, we might have in daily use objects which would +enrich a museum, and train our eyes to a higher perception of beauty; +and we should learn to value our porcelain, not for its rarity, but for +its intrinsic merit. + +Look at our picturesque coffee and tea pots, our elegant cups, and +well-painted bowls. Why should they always be concealed in china +closets, or consigned to kitchen-dressers, while our dining-room walls +are too often bare and cheerless?--a few dismal prints, hung too high +to be seen or easily dusted, being frequently the only adornments of a +darkened room, like a waiting-room at a railway station for emptiness +of anything to occupy the mind, yet which ought to be one of the +pleasantest and brightest in the house. Instead of which cheerful +appearance, here is a sketch of a regulation dining-room in one of +London's broadest brown streets: a room always dark in winter, but in +summer exposed to glaring sun and a plague of flies. + +As soon as a window is opened to cool the stifling air, a simoom of +dust rushes in from the road, and from the dust carts heavily moving to +the slow music of the "Trovatore's" _Miserere_, adding a bass to the +noise of cabs whirling by to the waltz tunes of "Daughter Angot" and +"La belle Helene." + +Tables, chairs, and sideboard are remarkable for nothing but +representing so many tons of mahogany embellished with the grinning +heads of griffins. Curtains powerfully scented with dust, a large +chimney-glass made over to the flies, a heavy bronze machine with +ponderous weights and pulleys, all smelling very strongly of gas, +chiefly useful for casting deep shadows upon the dining-table. The +bean-green carpet, monotonizing with the pea-green walls, whereon hang +divers prints of subjects undiscoverable, because they are skied as +high as the ceiling will allow, and two "old masters," as two oil +paintings are called; one a bitumen-brown Wouvermans, or somebody else, +with the hind leg of a gray horse in the foreground, and in the sky a +patch of cloud caught in a tree. The other "gem" had been bought at a +sale under the impression that its subject was "Angels adoring the +Infant Saviour," but which on closer investigation turned out to be two +wicked old drunkards playing at cards, purporting to be by a Dutch +master. + +Could even Giulio Romano's artistic festival have been enjoyed in such +a room as this, which is only a fair specimen of the modern British +banquet hall? Hear a short extract from Benvenuto Cellini's description +of it. After speaking of the rich dress of all the guests and the +beauty of the ladies, he continues: "When they had taken their seats, +every man produced a sonnet on some subject or other"--for they were a +company of poets and artists--"and Michelagnolo read them aloud in a +manner which infinitely increased the effect of their excellence. The +company fell into discourse, and many fine things were said, and dinner +was served up. Behind our backs there were rows of flower-pots, filled +with beautiful jessamines, which seemed to heighten the charms of the +young ladies beyond expression. Thus we all, with great cheerfulness, +began to regale ourselves at that elegant dinner. After our repast was +over we were entertained with a concert of music, both vocal and +instrumental, and an _improvisatore_ recited some admirable verses +in praise of the ladies." + +We could only on very rare occasions have rows of pots of jasmine +placed behind our chairs, but we might easily grow an elder plant to +keep off the flies. The Swiss scarlet-berried elder (_Sambucus rufus_) +is graceful in growth, and will endure some hard usage. + +Flower-pots may also be allowed to remain on the table, unless the +plants are cherished pets, and then they will be placed where they can +receive the sun and air. + +Plants growing outside the windows, especially climbers wreathing the +window-frames, give an appearance of size to rooms by bringing air into +the perspective. The picturesque effect of the forms of foliage +relieved against the paler sky is very pleasing, and it breaks the +stiff straight lines of the window better than any drapery. + +The glory of the dining-room is its large sideboard. This, where there +is a second sideboard, may be either in the same style or in complete +contrast to it. Here the larger pieces of earthenware and porcelain +should be displayed to advantage. These are such things as salad bowls +and outside pie-dishes, which may always remain in the dining-room, and +the whole of the dessert-service, with the ornaments and table +decorations. + +The glasses and decanters should always be elegant, and although in my +opinion the Venetian glass is by far the most beautiful kind, still our +own crystal and engraved glass is often exquisitely lovely, and the +sunshine playing through the prismatic decanter knobs, and other cut +glass ornaments, gives an unrivalled lustre to the summer dinner-table. +Breakages under careful, delicate handling would be less frequent than +they are now, so that the expense of procuring glass and porcelain the +best of their kind would not be felt to be the extravagance it is now. + +It will be said that for all this display of glass and china an +enormous sideboard will be required, at as enormous a cost. And the +first objection I concede, without, however, admitting it to be a +fault. + +Why should not the sideboard be, if necessary, as large as the side of +the room? But the cost may be less than that of an ordinary +dinner-waggon. It might be constructed as a series of shelves, ranged +as high as can be conveniently reached, broken by cellarettes and other +cupboards or cabinets, hung with worked curtains, the shelves merely +backed by paper made like embossed leather. There is an infinite +variety of styles and forms in which the sideboard may be made; from +the gorgeous mass of carved oak and velvet, set with golden shields, +and cups, and services of gold plate, such as I have admired on the +dining-room walls of a palace built on the ruins of an abbey, down to +the stained deal dresser-shaped sideboard of a house of fifty pounds a +year, where it would only be decked with graceful, yet unpretending, +china and terra-cotta, where its curtains would be of brown holland +worked in crewels, and its intrinsic ornaments the burnished brass +locks, hinges, and handles. Yet as fine taste might be visible in one +as in the other. + +The table-cloth, table-napkins, and spoons and forks should be laid in +drawers, as such seems their befitting place; and salt-cellars, and +other diminutive articles containing condiments, may be put away behind +small curtains, or veils, of decorative needlework, to shelter them +from the dust, as well as to give an opportunity for the display of +rich and elegant furniture embroidery, adapted in style to the +carvings, plaques, inlaid work, or other adornments of the sideboard. + +The piles of plates--as many of them must almost of necessity be in +piles--will be also concealed and protected by curtains, or behind +doors turning on pivots, which, where they are available, are far +better than hinges. + +The quantity of plates wanted for the daily use of the family must be +kept in the kitchen, as they will be washed there, and need to be +warmed in readiness for dinner; but dinner and dessert plates that are +not used for greasy comestibles will be rinsed in the dining-room, and +rearranged at once. + +I know some old Bristol china butter boats of such simple but elegant +form, that the curves of the nautilus shell are hardly more graceful. +Yet these things had been banished to a kitchen dresser until I +implored their release; and now, in the present Bristol china mania, +they are promoted to a drawing-room table, a place quite as unsuitable +as was the kitchen dresser. + +Among useful decorations for the sideboard, some of the prettiest I +have seen are the Venetian curved bottles for holding oil and vinegar. +They are fixed in a glass stand, and as the curved necks of the +flask-shaped bottles bend over across each other, by taking up the +stand either oil or vinegar may be poured out without spilling the +other condiment, and the flasks require no stoppers, as their curve is +sufficient to keep out the dust, though occasionally a glass dolphin is +stuck in the mouth of each bottle. This simple yet ingenious +contrivance is far prettier than our somewhat vulgar cruet-stand. +Moorish brass salvers add colour and brightness to the sideboard, in +families where silver salvers and presentation plate are not matters of +course. + +A simple style of dinner is more elegant, as well as more healthful, +than one more elaborate. Let it vary with each day rather than with +every course: the dinner will thus preserve a character of its own, +better than where this is frittered away among so many dishes that you +cannot remember off what you have dined. + +There is a medium between this fidgety _menu_ and the monster joints we +sometimes burden ourselves with. It requires judgment to take the right +line. We need not attempt, in our everyday dinner, to realize +Disraeli's ideal of dining: "eating ortolans to the sound of soft +music." But we may try to make our dinner an enjoyment as well as a +refreshment; and although our set banquets may be rare, taste and +attention will impart to every meal something of the character of a +feast. + +Stress must be laid on the importance of having every article of food +in its due season. + +Independently of the hygienic value of the change of diet so supplied, +which is in itself a substitute for many tonic and alternative +medicines, attention to this point will give us luxuries when we may +reasonably afford them. + +Salmon is as nice when it is a shilling a pound as when it is four +times that price, and venison is by no means an expensive viand if the +market be watched. If we only think of ribs of beef and legs of mutton, +we shall only get beef and mutton. But if we take Nature for our guide, +we need not deny ourselves the most gratifying and healthful variety. +It is essential that we should eat the fresh fruits as they are ripe, +and this rule is equally necessary as regards vegetables. + +Indeed, in summer we should accustom ourselves to think more of the +vegetable food than of meat; to arrange our dinner in this department +primarily, considering what dainty dishes we may concoct of flour and +vegetables fried, boiled, and baked, dressed with oil or milk, herbs or +spices, incidentally adding the meat--in fact, reversing our usual +order of proceedings, where we construct our dinner plan of solid meat, +only throwing in vegetables or fruit by way of garnish. But what I wish +to dwell on now is not so much the quantity of vegetable produce we +ought to consume, as the necessity of its seasonableness. + +When our cooks, be they noble, gentle, or simple, have come to study +the medicinal properties of plants--how they act upon the different +organs of the body, and so on--they will see how beautifully they are +adapted by the great Provider to our bodily requirements, according to +the weather and other circumstances, and how often what grows best in +any situation or soil is the aliment best suited to our own growth in +that situation. + +If we attended more to this point, our digestions would have +sufficiently varied exercise to keep them in healthy working order, and +we should hear less about what does or does not agree with people. It +is of more consequence that our digestions should be permitted to work +at regular hours, than that they should have an over-easy diet. This, +indeed, is absolutely injurious to them. + +Persons sometimes feel ill, and whatever they may happen to have fed +upon is loaded with the responsibility, and that article of diet is cut +off for ever from their list, and its hygienic benefit lost to the +constitution. The blame is never laid on irregularity, want of air, +exercise, or occupation, excitement or perhaps temper, or upon +circumstances generally. Either the weather or the food, irrespective +of the quantity taken, is charged with every ill. + +If we took care to make pictures of our dishes of fruit, they would +afford us two delightful sensations instead of one. To do this it is +not needful to have heaps of fruits, or pyramids of pines. A plum on a +leaf, an orange on a china tile, with a branch of flowers laid across +it, make exquisite pictures. + +See how we appreciate the form and grace of a single flower in a +specimen glass, so that we cannot now endure to see the mass of crushed +flowers we used to call a nosegay; the very word, so descriptive of the +bundle, being done away with the thing itself. The old nosegay gave us +the scent and gay colours of the flowers, but their tender grace had +fled. Now they are delightful to their very stems. + +Provident housekeepers have so impressed upon our minds the necessity +of caring for the future, that we have been taught to make jam of our +most delicious fruits, denying ourselves their fresh beauty and +fragrance at our tables, while we roast ourselves over preserving pans +in the hottest days of July. This, besides being martyrdom, is a work +of supererogation, as the fruit is nicer fresh, and to buy it for the +sake of keeping it is absurd, as it can but be eaten once. It is a very +reasonable practice in the case of persons possessing large +fruit-gardens, as much might otherwise be spoiled; but in our town +households it is trouble taken in vain. + +We all know the difference it makes to our dinners whether they are +served up hot, or only lukewarm; and this alone gives a sufficient +reason why we should insist upon the kitchen being close to the +dining-room. Where there is no possibility of making a door of +immediate communication, we should try our utmost to get a slide-window +between the two rooms, so that the dishes, and indeed the whole +paraphernalia that necessarily moves from kitchen to dining-room, may +be placed on a slab at the said window on one side, and taken in at the +other side. + +If two persons are engaged in performing this work, one dishing up and +placing on the window slab, and the other putting the things on the +dining-table, it will be very expeditious, but it may be quite easily +managed by one person. The slide-window, either a sash or a +sliding-door, saves much running to and fro. + +I will conclude my remarks upon dining-room furniture with a few words +about plate. + +The bulk of the plate in daily use in the houses of the upper +middle-class is electro-silver, and it is very admissible, being +strong, durable, and agreeable to use; and when made in the ordinary +fiddle or threaded patterns is useful without being pretentious. But +when it expands into Albert patterns, king's patterns, and the +like--when, in short, it claims intrinsic value, and pretends to be +silver--it becomes vulgar immediately, because it represents a snobbish +feeling which is bent on making a show with a sham. We cannot all +afford silver plate, though doubtless we should all like it, but all of +us wish to have the most agreeable medium with which to eat our food, +and for this purpose electro is as good as silver. + +It is better, in purchasing, to buy the best quality, as it is so much +more durable, and it always looks better. + +For dessert knives and forks, those with mother-of-pearl handles are +the best; the colour is so pleasant, and they are very easily cleaned. + +Should you happen to be the fortunate possessor of old plate, let +nothing induce you to do as many weak persons are talked into doing: +exchange it for modern patterns. + +Modern plate is seldom of even moderately good design. The object of +the manufacturer seems to be to crowd upon it as lumpy an embossed +ornament as possible, to make it massive, and remind us of so much per +ounce. This was not the motive of the old silversmiths, who more +frequently engraved than embossed their ornaments. Most of the old +engraved silver is delightful, and it is very light. + +The Queen-Anne plate, now so keenly sought, is of admirable workmanship +and good design, though the edges are rather thin and sharp for comfort +in use. + +It is worth while having nice electro dish-covers, as the ugly tin ones +sometimes seem to have such a very miserable appearance. It will not be +necessary to possess many, and they will come to no harm in our elegant +kitchen. They may be either hung up or stood on the dresser; the former +way is preferable, and rings to suspend them by are easily attached. +Dish-covers should be warmed before they are put on, as a cold metal +cavern chills a leg of mutton almost to the marrow. + +Real silver ornaments for the dinner-table are very precious, but +failing these, we may make our tables very elegant with Parian, glass, +or even wicker ornaments; and the most interesting of any adornments +are vases and dishes painted on porcelain by members of the family. I +am sorry to see so many small vulgarities introduced in the shops in +the way of _menu_ holders, and other so-called ornaments. + +Grotesque is all very well, but it should show a light, delicate play +of fancy; and things comic are very amusing when they are not vulgar. +But the degenerate caricatures we see about now, mark a tendency to +flatter the lowest order of taste, which, if followed, will inevitably +drag our conversation down with it. These silly table-decorations began +with caricatures of the men who carry the sandwich placards up and down +the streets, and daily I see them acquiring all the bad style of common +burlesques, or of the cheap valentines. + + + + +THE DRAWING-ROOM. + +Social pressure--Agreeable evening parties--Troubles of party-giving +--Musical parties--Flowers on a balcony--Window-gardening--Crowded +drawing-rooms--The library or study--Gas, candles, and candlesticks +--Original outlay on furniture--Different styles of furniture-- +Raffaelesque decorations--Carpets, curtains, and chair coverings-- +Portieres--Window blinds--Rugs--Care required in buying furniture-- +Ornaments--Dusting--Chiffoniers useless--Portfolio stand--Mirrors. + + +This section of our subject involves our relations with society; and +here not even our vanity can make us believe that modern customs are +really improvements. + +What chance has any lady of our time of emulating the graceful manner +in which Madame Recamier held her salon, although she may have as much +learning as Madame de Stael? + +We are too heavily weighted, our social intercourse is too complicated, +too much clogged with ceremony, to move easily; and where our highest +faculties should be allowed full play, we find so much hard work and +consequent fatigue, that we look upon every dinner and evening party in +the light of an uphill road with a difficult team to drive. + +We all know and applaud the French manner of visiting. Receiving +friends on a stated day of the week, simply enjoying their society, and +exerting the intellectual faculties instead of merely opening the purse +for their entertainment. + +Why have we so seldom the courage to follow this example? + +It is because we fear to show less well to the eyes of our acquaintance +if our own habits seem less expensive than theirs. A low purse-pride is +at the bottom of it all. Our dress must be costly and perpetually +changing, our servants and establishment must be displayed, if we are +ourselves smothered beneath their weight. + +So we give up our precious daylight to morning calls, as we +ridiculously call those visits of ceremony which are paid in the +afternoon. These afford us no pleasure, while they are an infliction to +the people called upon. Do not most of us know the feeling of relief +that we have after paying a round of visits, when, on finding, as the +day was fine, the greater number of our friends from home, we return +with an empty card-case, and say, with the complacency of +self-satisfied persons who have done their duty, "There, that is done +and need not be done again for a month." Whereas we are sorry when even +our slight acquaintances "regret they cannot accept" our invitations to +an evening party, when we might enjoy their company, and they the +society of each other, at the same time, and at a reasonable hour for +enjoyment. + +Our "at homes" are on a radically wrong principle. We crowd our rooms, +we insist on late hours and fullest dress, and our pleasure in +consequence becomes a toil. + +But how agreeable is the easy evening gathering in a cheerful and early +lighted drawing-room, where few or many welcome guests drop in, knowing +it to be our "at home" day. Where we talk and sip tea, play and sing, +or amuse ourselves, if clever, with paper games--capital promoters of +laughter and whetstones to the wits--and go away as early as we please. +All to be over by half-past ten, at any rate, in order not to interfere +with early rising next morning. I have found nothing, not even guinea +lessons from eminent masters, more conducive to family improvement in +music than this way of enjoying society, since one is obliged to have a +few new things always at one's fingers' ends ready to perform; and in +homely little parties like these, young girls "not yet out" may pass +many pleasant evenings under their mother's wing, with real advantage +to themselves. + +The simpler the dress worn by the ladies who are "at home," the better +the taste shown. Here again we may learn much from the French, who +perfectly understand the art of _demi-toilette_. + +Our theatres and concert-rooms are filled night after night by people +who pay to be entertained. They never take food in their pockets, and +the passing to and fro of sellers of refreshment is felt to be a +nuisance. Why should people who have dined late be supposed to want +supper, unless they have been dancing, or are sitting up later than is +good for them? And the proof that they do not want it is in the very +little they take of it, except some stout elderly ladies who prepared +for it before they came, and who consequently have felt too low all the +evening to be moderately cheerful. + +People who dine early always make a solid tea about six o'clock. It is +only the _bourgeois_ class who love their hot suppers, and the taste +stamps them. + +How can we use hospitality one towards another without grudging, when, +instead of being able to rejoice that a friend is sharing our daily +pursuits and repasts, we must spend a fortune in jellies, pastry, and +unwholesome sweets, whenever we invite our friends inside our doors; +when we are compelled to import from the confectioner piles of plates, +dishes, and hired cutlery, turn our houses into scenes of confusion +for a week, and feed our children upon what have been aptly called +"brass knockers," the remains of the feast? No wonder most of us +dread giving a party! No; I would have special banquets on special +occasions--Christmas, comings of age, marriages, silver, and above all +golden, weddings, welcomes from abroad, and other joyful days. But our +enjoyment of society need not be limited to such observances as these, +but rather the crop of friendship increased by attentive cultivation. + +"Has friendship increased?" asks wise Sir Arthur Helps. "Anxious as I +am to show the uniformity of human life, I should say that this, one of +the greatest soothers of human misery, has decreased." + +Lady Morgan, an experienced leader of society, used to tell me, "My +dear, give them plenty of wax-candles and people will enjoy +themselves;" to which I add, manage the music well, and teach your +daughters to help you, and cultivate musical young men, keeping, +however, the law in your own hands. + +Almost the only art we have not spoiled by machinery is music--for we +do not consider the barrel-organ in the light of music. + +Perhaps it is because in this art we had scope for invention, not +finding a good thing ready made to our hands by the Greeks, which we +might imitate mechanically, and become slaves of its tradition. +Possibly it is a blessing in disguise that the music of the ancients is +lost to us, for having no models we have no fetters. + +There is, however, in music, less liberty for the performer than for +the master-inventor; and this is as it should be: we interpret his +greater mind. Wilful music is seldom pleasing. + +What Ruskin says about truth of line in drawing applies equally to +music: In the rapid passages of a _presto_ by Beethoven, the audience +at St. James's Hall would know if Halle played one single note out, +even if he slightly touched the corner of a wrong black key; for our +ears have been wonderfully trained. And the time must be as accurate as +the tone, and the proper degree of light and shade must be expressed, +or you are no master. What must it be to be the creator of the music +which it is so difficult even to copy! + +Yet in our drawing-rooms we permit people to talk all the time music is +being played, showing respect neither to the composition nor to the +performer. This should not be, and abroad this ill-bred custom has not +obtained. + +There is, however, something to be said on the other side. The music we +hear in society is frequently either flimsy and not worth studying; or +it is too difficult for the capacity of the performer, perhaps having +been learnt in too idle a manner, in which case conversation shields +the composer. + +But the chief cause of the distressing rudeness complained of, is that +there is too much music at a party, and it is not well arranged. Glees +are got up and fail deplorably; harps and flutes are not in tune with +other instruments; people accompany songs they have never seen before; +and much time and talk are consumed in wishing for absent tenor or bass +voices. A little good music would have been delightful; the noise of so +many imperfect efforts is only a bore. + +In our parties we carelessly lose Nature's purest delights: those which +appeal most strongly to our finest perceptions. Is it not true +enjoyment to sit among the roses on a balcony listening to a sweet +voice within singing an air of Schubert or Mozart? And if the charm be +enhanced by moonlight, it is a pleasure for the gods! + +It is true that roses will not flourish on London balconies, the +coal-smoke being so injurious to them; but pinks, and many other +fragrant flowers, grow well and easily, without the cost of frequent +renewal required for roses. The general use of window gardens, and the +due encouragement of greenery over our houses, would tend much to +improve our vitiated atmosphere, and we may have the gratification of +feeling that we are doing good to our neighbours while we cultivate +plants for our own benefit. Perhaps, by-and-by, a tax may be charged +upon every empty window-sill. + +The front and back of every house would make a good-sized bit of +garden, only it will be perpendicular instead of horizontal. We ought +all to grow our own pears trained against the walls, as these ripen as +well in town as in the country; and most of us might dwell under our +own vines and fig-trees. + +A balcony, however small it may be, is an extra room, and frequently it +is a good play-room for children if kept clean and well syringed. No +training is better for children than the culture of flowers--it unites +work and play with every advantage of both. It is an education in +itself. Mr. Gladstone calls the love of flowers a peculiarly English +taste. He seems to have forgotten the special fondness for plants shown +by the French and Belgians; though the Dutch tulip mania reminds one +somewhat of a commercial speculation. His remarks on the children's +flower-show held at Grosvenor House merit particular attention. He +observes that owing to the increased value of land, large masses of the +population are removed from contact with nature, and at this period it +is important that every family should learn that they possess a +resource in the cultivation of flowers both in their cottages and +windows, and at every point where contact with the open air may be +obtained. He hopes that with the needful improvements in the dwellings +of the poor, some means may be devised for fostering cottage +horticulture and cottage floriculture. + +Wind and scorching sunshine are the great adversaries to window +gardening, but both of these evils may be obviated by simple +contrivances in the way of screens. + +Very few plants can be cultivated in our sitting-rooms with advantage +either to themselves or to our furniture. They are greatly injured by +gas, as well as by the dry heat of our fires, while they cause a +dampness in the atmosphere which speedily produces mildew and other ill +effects of moisture. + +We should bear in mind, in furnishing a drawing-room, that the guests +are the principal part of the furniture, and leave sufficient space for +the number we wish our room to hold. A drawing-room as empty as one of +Orchardson's pictures may be overcrowded by twenty people. + +The walls may be adorned to profusion with objects of taste, without +their inconveniently occupying space; but tiny tables and flower-pot +stands are often in jeopardy. + +In a room crowded with furniture the guests cannot circulate--one +because there is not space enough to pass between a lady's dress and +the small table with a vase upon it that is so likely to be upset; +another because an ottoman just before her keeps her a prisoner on the +sofa where she was planted on entering the room--until ladies are +thankful to do a little something inaudible at the piano as a pretext +for moving, and gentlemen are only too glad to be required to force a +passage in the service of a lady. And this not merely in the absurd and +terrible crush at an "at home" in the London season, but at a simple +evening party anywhere. + +It is often agreeable to have several afternoon tea-tables in the +drawing-room, as the ladies can pair off at each, and become pleasantly +acquainted while serving each other. But in the case of large musical +"at homes," it is better to have refreshments served in the +dining-room, as the clatter of spoons and the bustle of waiting +disturbs the music; besides injury being often done by ice plates left +about, tea spilt, and crumbs trodden into the carpet. + +We will now leave the subject of parties and study the drawing-room in +its ordinary appearance as the sitting-room of the family out of +working hours. A drawing-room should be used, and look as if it were +used, and if used properly it need never be dirty nor in disorder. A +library, or study, greatly aids the drawing-room by preventing its too +indiscriminate use. Indeed, where boys and girls have school-work to +prepare, this is almost a matter of necessity, as there is neither rest +nor comfort for their elders while lessons are going on; and if other +members of the family occupy themselves much in writing or painting, it +is a great hindrance to have to remove their paraphernalia every time +the table is required for some other purpose. + +The room may be called a study, morning-room, or library, according to +its purpose, bearing in mind that although the name is more high +sounding, a library with few books is only ridiculous. And when there +are many and good books, the room must be held in great respect, and +those who use it trained to extreme neatness and order. I find it a +good plan to instal my eldest son as responsible librarian at a small +salary; he sees that the younger children put away their books after +them. + +A gas-standard lights a study better than anything else for general +use, though "the Queen's reading lamp" is good for weak eyes. + +The standard must be firm on its base, so as not easily to upset; it is +less in the way if it stands on the floor rather than on the table, and +it should be capable of being raised to the height of six feet, or +lowered to any point. It ought to be easily movable in any direction, +and the tube long enough to admit of its being placed in any part of +the room. The only kind of tubing that really prevents a disagreeable +smell escaping from the gas is the snake tubing. I had at first a kind +that was dearer than the ordinary india-rubber tubing, but, although +assured by the gasfitter that it would be inodorous, I was obliged to +change it for the snake, for which I paid twelve shillings, and have +had no trouble since. + +We all know that wax candles are the nicest and most becoming light for +a drawing-room; but they are dear, and candlesticks, however elegant, +require frequent cleaning. The commoner kind of candles are greasy, and +grease is very troublesome when it drops about, though wax and sperm +are readily removed by warming the spots. There is a kind of candle +called the dropless candle which answers very well to its name. + +Paraffin, and almost all patent candles, fill the air with burnt smoke, +and this, to many people, is insufferable. + +Sperm candles are preferable to any others for general use at the piano +and for bed-rooms. And candles need not be an expensive item when a +house is well fitted with gas, as much music practising may be done by +daylight and gaslight; while in bed-rooms we ought not to require much +length of candlelight. + +There is no need of more than one candle to be carried about, and that +is for the person who turns off the gas to go upstairs with. + +An Italian _lucerna_ is a picturesque object for this purpose; oil is +burnt in it--colza will do, though they burn olive oil in Italy, and it +gives double the light of colza. On no account use petroleum, or any of +the mineral oils. Besides their horrible smell and associations, all +the kinds are more or less explosive, and for the little use for which +we should require lamps, the difference in cost is trifling. + +One occasionally sees curious and quaint old iron or bronze +candlesticks, and it is well to seize the opportunity of purchasing +such treasures; but if not fortunate enough to get a better thing, it +is easy to procure one of those funny little brass candlesticks, in the +shape of a frying-pan, so commonly used in the Belgian hotels. + +As there are no servants in our model establishment, tallow candles +need never be bought, and no candlebox will be required, nor any +kitchen candlesticks, to be stuck periodically in a row in the fender +to melt their grease and solder, and lose their extinguishers and +snuffers. + +So we see, even in this small instance, how a young couple beginning to +furnish will want few of these superfluities, and, not being compelled +to buy common things for servants, may afford things of choice quality +for themselves, and to these they may add others as time goes on. + +Take, for another example, the breakfast-cups; they may at first buy +two very pretty cups and saucers for their own use, and a third equally +pretty for their lady friend, or help, as they may like to call her; +and either title is honourable, only one seems kinder than the other. + +And so they need not purchase what is called a whole set, or, more +shopmanly, a "suite," comprising a dozen of almost everything, whose +chief merit is in its completeness, of which we tire; and this merit is +destroyed when on breaking one of the two bread-and-butter plates we +find it is a last year's pattern, and cannot be matched at the shop +without its being specially made for us. + +How much more we should be attached to a pretty thing if we could say +of it: "Don't you remember we bought that cup when So-and-So came to +stay with us?" Such associations endow everyday objects with life. + +The original outlay throughout the house may proceed in like manner, +and spare rooms may be furnished after the other rooms. + +This would enable more young people to marry, and they need not go to a +shop whose advertisements recommend them to furnish on the three years' +system, by the end of which time they will have paid double the value +of their furniture, and most of it will probably be discarded, or +broken in pieces. + +Perhaps a day may come when nobody will heed an advertisement, and only +look at a circular when they write memoranda on its clean side. Then +our postmen will be spared the bulk of their work, which makes it a +perpetual Valentine's-day for them. + +It is too visionary to hope that our eyes may cease to be distressed by +posters blazing everywhere, or that nearly half of every book or +newspaper we buy may not be made up of advertisements. + +But no more on this irritating topic, as I would only counsel those +about to furnish not to be too much tempted with novelties, especially +patent novelties. + +Some of us are beginning to tire of the mediaevalism which was the +natural reaction from the preposterous designs of the wall-papers, +curtains, and other furniture which disguised our rooms--the ridiculous +carpets with such patterns as orange-blossoms tied with white satin +favours ("So sweet for a bride"), and rugs with huge blue roses. + +But we have now gone too far the other way, and made all our houses +like "High" churches, not permitting even the simplest unconventional +design to interfere with the severity of our Gothic taste. This is a +mistake; for as our houses ought not to be turned into Greek temples, +as they were in the time of the first French Empire, as little should +they be decorated like Gothic churches. + +Many styles, and many beautiful yet diverse objects, may be made to +harmonize by tasteful arrangement; and this freer latitude is well +adapted to our varied moods and our many-sided lives. Few people of +moderate means can carry out one style in its entirety. + +I have seen a very handsome drawing-room fitted up perfectly in the +Louis Quatorze style, and spoiled by some German bead-mats on the +table; and some of the most beautiful upholstery I ever saw, of +Neo-Greek designs painted on straw-coloured satin, covering chairs of +purely Greek form, looked droll on a Brussels carpet with fuchsias upon +it. + +Twenty years ago, people of taste and pretension to archaeological +knowledge furnished their houses in the Elizabethan style, with the +result of uncomfortable furniture abounding in anachronisms. + +The Queen Anne style, so fashionable at present, is far better suited +to modern requirements than is the Elizabethan, which is of necessity +kept exclusively English. The Jacobean style too is less rigid, as we +may with propriety consider that much French and Italian elegance had +been imported into the court of Scotland by the two French queens and +Mary Stuart. The possession of a portrait by Vandyke would be of itself +enough to make one wish to furnish a house in the stately and elegant +style of his time. + +Although it may not be so pure in taste, the style of the Renaissance +is eminently adapted for comfortable household service. The delicate +arabesques and grotesques followed from Raffaelle's adornments of the +Vatican are not too precious for use in household decoration--where +painting cannot be expected to last as long as pictures framed and out +of reach of daily handling--and yet they are graceful enough to refresh +without exciting a tired mind. + +Any one possessing artistic taste and some training can work out these +fanciful decorations for home gratification, and being cherished, they +will last three or four times as long as the graining of the +house-painter. Besides, and this is a great consideration in cities, +all the majolica ornaments and tiles, which are so suitable to this +style of decoration, will wash, and be bright and clear for ever. Do +not despise the Renaissance, for there is much delight in it, though +not of the highest kind. We may keep the higher things for higher uses. + +A Brussels carpet of Persian pattern is very nice for a drawing-room, +as it is unobtrusive, and yet it is cheerful, and suits most styles of +furniture. This, like the dining-room carpet, had better be made with a +border, and so as to allow of a margin of the floor round it being +varnished. If edged with fringe its appearance is enriched; and I do +not in practice find the fringe inconveniently displaced by ladies' +dresses, nor in dusting, as I feared it might be when I added it to a +carpet which required enlarging. + +The remarks on dining-room curtains and rods apply equally here, as it +is of great consequence that the room should be easily cleaned. + +For a young couple beginning to furnish, it may be well to have some of +the pretty _cretonnes_ for curtains and chair-coverings, which would +last clean and bright while better were being worked on simple +materials from patterns, either original or borrowed from the Art +Needlework Society. Then the _cretonne_ curtains might be hung in the +newly furnished spare bed-room. The chair-coverings would be replaced +one by one as others were worked or nice materials met with. + +In doing fancy-work, it is better to make one good thing large enough +to take a pride in, than countless little elegances, such as mats, +antimacassars, table banner-screens, etc., which seldom last long, and +are terribly in the way. The time consumed in making pincushions, +pocket-tidies, and tiny knick-knacks, would serve to tapestry a room, +let alone making curtains for it. + +Where there are fine views from the windows, they are better framed as +pictures than curtained. Draperies, if they are very beautiful, are +more favourably displayed when facing the light (as in the case of +_portieres_) than at the windows, where they are liable to fade, and +the light shining through them hides their beauty. Draught more often +enters from doorways than by the windows; and in summer doors are often +unhung for the sake of coolness and additional space, and the +_portieres_ are comfortable to use on chilly days. + +Venetian blinds are the best of any interior blinds, though window +awnings are much pleasanter in summer. Red tammy enriches the colour of +the room, but it is not agreeable to sit long in a room filled with the +flame-coloured light, though this softens as the blinds fade, which +they soon do. Yellow blinds are very disagreeable, and tryingly sunny +in summer. Blue are as unpleasantly cold, and make people look like +ghosts. White holland gives as soft a light as any, and if carefully +used the blinds will not go awry. Green tammy is good, but it soon +fades. + +With a gas fire there is no occasion for a hearth-rug, though fur and +other large rugs look very comfortable spread before the windows in +winter, and Indian mats look cool in summer, and preserve the carpet +from fading. + +In buying furniture it is safer to move cautiously. Seize, by all +means, anything that strikes you as being "just the very thing," the +moment you see it, or it may escape you for ever; but do not be +beguiled into buying a whole "suite" of everything at once, because you +think you may as well finish the work while you are about it, but let +your taste, as well as wisdom, have time to grow. We all know the +feeling of vexation we endure when we have committed ourselves to any +particular thing, and find subsequently something which would have +suited us very much better. + +Whatever you buy or make, do not let it be rubbish. Things ill +considered get dreadfully in our way, and by-and-by we cannot endure +their discordance; that is, if they last long enough for us to weary of +them. When you purchase anything, remember that it has to be taken care +of and dusted every day, and the smaller the trifle the more +troublesome it is to keep clean. Think, before you buy it, whether or +not you will like it when it is tarnished, and if you can value it +sufficiently to devote thought and a minute of time to it every day for +years. + +We squander our money on frippery--not in dress merely, but in hideous +ornaments for our fire-places, in antimacassars of disagreeably +suggestive name, in toys and trinkets and imitation rubbish of all +kinds, which encumber our table-surfaces, and are dust-traps occupying +the minds and mornings of our parlour-maids to keep them clean. We +spend in this taste-destroying trash the change of the twenty pounds +which would have bought one ornament of real beauty, which would only +take the same time to dust as one of the fifty frivolities costing from +half-a-crown to seven-and-sixpence each. + +This is mostly so much waste, or worse, because it helps the habit of +foolish, ill-considered spending; and while we thus bedizen our +drawing-rooms, we render them so uninhabitable that they fall out of +use for our own comfort, and become merely show places for visitors. + +A long article might be written on dusting. We can hardly have too +little of the carpet-broom (which all housemaids love to use every week +to the detriment of our carpets), and hardly too much of the +feather-brush for lightly touching curtains, walls, and pictures, or of +the duster for rubbing furniture. If a little is done daily, furniture +will never need polishing, but will always look bright, as dust will +not have entered the crevices. + +It is easier, and also better for the durability of carpets, to take +them up occasionally to be beaten, and have the dusty floor beneath +them cleaned, than to have everything smothered weekly in the dust +raised by the carpet-broom. A pair of steps is necessary in a house +where cleanliness is attended to, to unhang curtains and pictures and +replace them after dusting. The walls need to be whisked over weekly +with the feather-brush. + +The elegant china and glass gaseliers which are now so general are +easily cleaned with a damp sponge; those of Venetian glass are still +more beautiful, and not much more expensive: these also can be washed +with little trouble. Adopting the plan of cleaning one room each day, +it will not take a great deal of time, or cause much fatigue; while the +light daily dusting required is a mere nothing to any one doing it +dexterously. + +I have a great dislike of chiffoniers; the very name presupposes them +receptacles of _chiffons_ and lumber. I cannot see any use for them in +a drawing-room. Music-books should be in the music-stand, a lady's work +in her work-table, and books either in use or put away in the +book-case. + +A portfolio-stand is of great service in preserving and displaying +drawings and prints which require careful and practised handling. Sir +Felix Slade, the eminent print-collector, used to complain that many +persons, especially young ladies, made a bent mark with their thumbs in +the margin of an engraving; he always insisted on having his prints +taken up by what he called their north-west corner, and carefully laid +on the print-stand. A portfolio-stand should have a piece of stuff laid +over the books and cases, wrapped inside the woodwork of the stand. +This is easily removed when the stand is in use; as it is left hanging +down on one side, it keeps much dust from the pictures, and if of some +nice silk or other stuff is ornamental in itself. + +A sofa with a rack-end to let down at pleasure at any angle is a great +convenience, but such couches are not often made, unless especially +ordered. + +Numerous mirrors injure the repose of a room, causing bewilderment; but +one or two are pleasing, as they have the effect of water in a +landscape, repeating the lines and echoing the forms of objects. They +also tend to give space, though not to the same extent as pictures do, +which are the most decorative of all ornaments; and when they are very +good they rank with our most precious possessions. + +Brackets may be appropriately used for ornaments, such as terra-cotta +and others; a few fine bronzes, besides being handsome in themselves, +give value to the colouring of a room. + + + + +BED AND DRESSING ROOMS. + +Ventilation--Window curtains and blinds--Bedsteads--Spring mattresses +--Towels--Danger of fire at the toilet--Mantelpiece--Pictures and +frames--Superfluous necessaries--Taine's criticisms--Aids to reading +in bed--Service of the bath--Improvements in washstands--Arranging the +rooms--Attics made beautiful--Sick-rooms--Neatness--Disinfectants-- +Chlorine gas--Condy's solution--Filters--Invalid chairs--Generous +efforts of the medical profession to improve the national health. + + +We pass a third of our time in our bed-rooms when we are in health, and +the whole of it when we are ill; therefore their ventilation and +general arrangement demand our most earnest consideration. + +Some bed-rooms are draughty, occasioning cold and neuralgia, but the +more common fault is that they are not airy enough; for with our +extreme attention to what is called "English comfort," we too +frequently make our bed-rooms almost air-tight. + +This causes restlessness by night and headache by day. It were far +better to accustom ourselves to sleep with our windows open, as the +night air is not at all injurious in dry weather, unless an east wind +is blowing. We must be guided by the weather, and trim to the wind; our +feeling will tell us whether we may, or may not, safely leave our +windows open much more surely than the almanac. The time when windows +should be shut throughout the house is when the dew is rising and +falling; then the damp enters and saturates everything. + +People seldom attend to this point, but keep their windows open too +late in the afternoon, which in Italy is recognized as the dangerous +time. We have but little malaria in England, but what little there is +is at work just before and after sunset. Many persons, too, who like +myself have immense faith in fresh air, throw open their windows on +leaving their rooms in the morning, regardless of whether the air be +dry and warm, or whether a fog or bitter east wind will penetrate the +whole house to damp or chill it. It is more prudent, in case of bleak +or raw weather, to wait for an hour or two before opening the windows, +ventilation from the door being sufficient for the room while it is +empty. + +It is useless to lay down laws as to the windows in our variable +climate. We must work by our natural thermometer, and let our skin +perform one of its most useful functions and tell us whether it is cold +or hot; but if our feelings are uncertain, give judgment in favour of +fresh air. + +If your rooms have the old-fashioned long and narrow windows which are +always found in houses built in the reigns of the early Georges, the +Japanese paper curtains, being very cheap, are as good as any, the +intention being to drape a skeleton window, which curtainless is a +dismal object. + +But more modern windows should not, or at least need not, have long +hanging curtains, but only just sufficient to cover the window without +leaving a streak of light. The drapery may hang from one side or from +both, according to taste; but unless you are very particular to admit +no light in your bed-room, a mere valance, or some ornament at the top +of the window, is enough. For instance, some pretty design in fretwork, +as the tracery of an Arabian arch, made of deal an inch thick, cut out +with a steam saw and stained or enamelled black, would be effective +when lined with rose colour, or any drapery suited to your room; and +you might furnish an appropriate design for the fretwork. This would be +easily dusted, and is not expensive. + +White blinds are clean and pleasant for bed-rooms, but dark-green ones +are better for persons with weak sight; either these or Venetian blinds +are very useful where there are no shutters. + +Brass and iron bedsteads have almost entirely superseded wooden ones, +and they are generally made without fittings for curtains. Indeed, in +our well-built modern houses there are so few draughts to be guarded +against that curtains are seldom necessary. + +In bed-rooms of the present time valances to the beds are quite +superfluous, as the bed-round is completely out of fashion. This was +the name of the breadth of carpet which went round three sides of the +bed, leaving the remainder of the floor bare. The fashion was healthy +and economical, certainly, but it was tryingly ugly and cheerless. + +For a bed-room, nothing is so good as the square carpet, with a broad +margin of the floor stained and varnished, as this is very easily taken +up for the floor and carpet to be cleaned. The carpet must be laid down +the first time by a man from the carpet-warehouse, so that it may be +evenly stretched, which is seldom done by a carpenter; but after that +it is easily spread, as it remains in shape, and needs very few nails +to keep it in position. + +Bed-room carpets need not have brown paper laid under them, though this +is an advantage in other rooms, as it keeps dust and draught from +coming through the cracks of the floor, besides saving the carpet from +being cut by the edges of the boards. Kidderminster carpets are now +made in very nice patterns, and are quite suitable for bed-rooms where +Brussels carpets may be thought too expensive. + +A hearth-rug is more useful in a bed-room than elsewhere, as a bed-room +fire should be of coal or wood, and not of gas, as this is injurious in +a bed-room. + +Take care never to let the head of the bed be placed before the +fire-place. This is sometimes foolishly done, and unsuspecting sleepers +get neuralgia from it. In summer a pretty pattern, cut out in +tissue-paper so as to resemble lace, tacked on a slight frame covered +with black tarletane, and fitted into the fire-place, allows +ventilation and keeps out the dust from the chimney. Little girls love +to cut these fire-papers, and one of them, with care, lasts two +summers, and often three. + +When there are no bed-curtains, it is sometimes advisable to line the +ironwork at the head of the bed, so that the sleeper may not be exposed +to draught. Spring mattresses, with soft woollen mattresses upon them, +are the most comfortable beds of any; and Heal's folding spring +mattresses, though expensive, cannot be too strongly recommended. These +spring beds are so easily made up, that this is a matter of very +trifling consideration in any house where there are two pairs of hands, +children's or grown-up people's. It is necessary to turn back the +bed-clothes completely over the foot of the bed, and leave it to air +for an hour, at least, after the window has been opened. There is a +great fancy now for having trimmed pillow-covers, and pieces of +ornamental needlework to spread over the bed after it is turned down; +the fashion is pretty, but superfluous, as a nicely worked counterpane +looks equally well, and need not be folded up at bedtime. + +Towels may, and should be, ornamented, but not so much as to make them +inconvenient for use. The collection of linen exhibited by the Duchess +of Edinburgh gave many of us an interesting lesson in things of this +kind. One of the silliest pieces of finery seen in a bed or dressing +room is the trimmed towel-horse cover. Towels cannot possibly dry if +the evaporation is stopped, and even when the cover is made of thin +muslin, it is only a troublesome frivolity. + +Every lady has her own particular taste about her toilet-table, so that +I only give a caution to let it be safe, and not liable to take fire. +We frequently want candles on our dressing-tables; therefore it stands +to reason that the veil often placed over the looking-glass is highly +dangerous. This drapery is intended to keep the sun from scorching the +back of the glass, but it is safer to stand the glass elsewhere than in +the window when the room is exposed to the midday sun, although it will +not be so pleasant for use. + +The rose-lined white muslin petticoat which was once such a popular way +of concealing a deal dressing-table is highly dangerous. Indeed, it is +difficult to conceive any combination more inflammable than the veiled +glass set in the midst of cotton window-curtains, and two candles +standing on a cotton toilet-cover, with a frilled muslin pincushion +between them, and full muslin drapery below. + +The most convenient table allows the large square-seated stool, so +comfortable to sit on while dressing the hair, to be pushed under it +when not in use. When light ornaments are placed on a bed-room +mantelpiece and exposed to a current of air, it is advisable to have +two upright pieces of board, painted, cut out, or otherwise made +ornamental, placed one on each side of the shelf to protect the +knick-knacks from being blown down; and if these are numerous, one or +two shelves may be put above the mantelpiece, forming a pretty little +museum of curiosities which may be too small, or too trifling, to be +placed with advantage in the drawing-room; and houses of the class I am +describing seldom have a boudoir. If the mantelpiece is covered with +cloth or velvet, the shelves and back might be covered with the same, +and this would be very becoming to the ornaments. Tunisian or point +lace forms a very good edging to a mantelboard, and when a foot deep, +or nearly so, it is extremely handsome. Water-colour sketches should +abound in a bed-room, souvenirs of places we have visited, or of +friends who have made the drawings, being doubly enjoyed when we are +recovering from illness, or when we are awake early in the summer +morning. Sketches are as pleasant as books, without the trouble of +holding them up to our eyes. They should be carefully arranged so as +not to look spotty; and they must be hung flat against the wall by +having the rings placed high in the frames, as, although it is becoming +to the pictures, the effect of them hanging much forward makes many +people giddy, and in an invalid will sometimes produce a feeling akin +to sea-sickness. + +Neatly made frames of the cheap German gilding (which will wash) answer +very well for sketches hung in the less prominent situations in a +bedroom, and bring a luxury within the reach of many who would not +otherwise afford it. + +Now I am come to the difficult part of my subject--the tug of war, in +fact--for I want men to do something for themselves, and women to do +without something dear to their hearts. I think I will speak of the +latter clause first. + +In bed-rooms especially is seen that truly English love of superfluous +comforts which we mistake for civilization: it meets us everywhere, in +and out of the house, but it abounds in our bed and dressing rooms. + +The amount of toilet so-called necessaries is incredible, and the +number of patent objects overwhelming. When we consider that seven +things only are necessary to our personal neatness and cleanliness--soap, +sponge, towel, and tooth-brush for washing, and brush and comb and +nail-scissors for the rest of the toilet--and then count the other +paraphernalia seen in our dressing-rooms, we shall discover how many +frivolous trades our superfluities maintain, to say nothing of +ingenuity misplaced in making advertisements of dressing-cases and +hair-restorers conspicuously attractive. + +The toilet-table is not alone to blame: the fault pervades the whole +house and overwhelms the bed-rooms. + +M. Taine, in his "Notes on England," amusingly describing an English +house, says, "In my bedroom is a table of rosewood, standing on an +oilcloth mat on the carpet; upon this table is a slab of marble, on the +marble a round straw mat--all this to bear an ornamented water-bottle +covered with a tumbler. One does not simply place one's book on a +table: upon the table is a small stand for holding it. One does not +have a plain candlestick: the candle is enclosed in a glass cylinder, +and is furnished with a self-acting extinguisher. All this apparatus +hampers; it involves too much trouble for the sake of comfort." + +This was only a bachelor's room; what would the French critic have +thought of the aids to reading in bed in an ordinarily well-appointed +bed-room where the master indulges in that practice? + +By the Englishman's bedside is also a small table standing on a mat, +and on this table another mat supporting a patent stand which screws up +and down, and on this another mat with a candlestick with a nozzle and +a patent protector of the candle from the draught, a glass shield set +in an ormolu frame which has an elaborate screw; and by the side of the +candlestick-stand another mat, on which is a patent screw for shading +the light from the aforesaid candle. Then, besides the extinguisher, +also on a stand and a mat, and patent matches in a patent box, he is +supplied with a book-rest which will turn in every possible way, with a +patent leaf-turner and leaf-holder, and a variety of other little +conveniences. He only lacks an electric communication between the +fire-escape outside and the patent night-bolt on his door, to prevent +him being burnt in his bed, to make the thing complete. + +We feel how difficult we have made life by having to put all these +indispensables to their intended use. We have multiplied these patent +gimcracks until we cannot move without being crushed by our comforts; +and the keeping of all this in order obliges us to have under us a +parlour-maid, an upper housemaid, and an under housemaid, to wait upon +these inventions. Helps, in one of his essays, says, "I have always +maintained that half the work of the world is useless, if subjected to +severe scrutiny. My idea of organization would be to diminish much of +this useless work." The same remark applies to our luggage when we +travel. We take things fancying. We may want them, forgetting that it +is easier to do without an article once, than to have the trouble of +packing it and looking after it every day; so we bury our pleasure +under a heap of care. + +I must give another extract from Taine's description of his bed-room +before I proceed to my second great battle-field, where I fear a harder +contest. + +After describing his dressing-table, Taine goes on to say of his +washstand: "It is furnished with one large jug, one small one, a medium +one for hot water, two porcelain basins, a dish for toothbrushes, two +soap-dishes, a water-bottle with its tumbler, a finger-glass with its +glass. Underneath is a very low table, a sponge, another basin, a large +shallow zinc bath for morning bathing. In a cupboard is a towel-horse +with four towels of different kinds, one of them thick and rough. +Napkins are under all the vessels and utensils; to provide for such a +service, when the house is occupied, it is necessary that washing +should be always going on. The servant comes four times a day into the +rooms: in the morning to draw the blinds and the curtains, open the +inner blinds, carry off the boots and clothes, and bring a large can of +hot water with a fluffy towel on which to place the feet; at midday and +at seven in the evening to bring water and the rest, in order that the +visitor may wash before luncheon and dinner; at night to shut the +window, arrange the bed, get the bath ready, renew the linen;--all this +with silence, gravity, and respect. Pardon these trifling details, but +they must be handled in order to figure to one's self the wants of an +Englishman in the direction of his luxury: what he expends in being +waited upon and comfort is enormous, and one may laughingly say that he +spends the fifth of his life in his tub." + +Men will do much for glory and for vainglory, even to using cold +shower-baths in winter, and boast of breaking the ice in them; but I +never yet heard of a man who would take the trouble to empty his bath +after using it. Now I maintain that every man who has not a valet ought +to do this. Few men consider the hard work it is to a woman to carry +upstairs heavy cans of water; but that is trifling, compared with the +difficulty to a woman of turning the water out of a large flat bath +into a pail. A man would find little difficulty in doing this; his arms +are longer, his back stronger, and his dress does not come in the way. + +When a man likes to have his bath regularly--and who does not?--he +should think of the labour that half a dozen or more baths entail, and +in the evening prepare his can of water for to-morrow's use, place his +own bath on his piece of oil-cloth, enjoy his tub to his heart's +content, pour away the water, put up his tub, and say nothing about it. + +This disagreeable lecture over, we will go on and see how easy the +general dressing-room arrangements might be made. + +If, instead of our ordinary washstands with their jugs and basins, we +had fixed basins with plugs in them and taps above, much of the +water-bearing difficulty would be obviated. These washstands should be +placed back to back, as it were, in every two rooms, having only the +partition-wall between them, so that the same pipe would supply two +taps. + +I have three sorts of basins in use in my house: one kind has the +ordinary tap and plug, another kind has handles for supply and waste, +the water being sucked away on turning the waste handle. This is safe +for careless people who let rings or any other articles drop in the +basin, and nothing but water can go down to choke the pipe. But the +basin I find easiest and most pleasant to use, tilts out the water by +lifting a handle, or rather finger-niche, in front of the basin; and +when this is let fall it strikes on an india-rubber pad beneath the +tap, so that the basin cannot be cracked. All these different basins +are fitted into marble washstands with dishes for soap and tooth-brushes +hollowed in the marble, with holes for drainage connected with the +waste-pipe below. These conveniences, with a housemaid's-closet with +sink and tap on the same floor, save all carrying up and down of pails +and cans of water, and, in fact, the heaviest part of a housemaid's +work. + +Where the hall is warmed by hot-water pipes, water from the same source +will supply the bedrooms. It will be warm if the first quart is allowed +to flow away. Or the pipes may be connected with the kitchen boiler, +which, in the case of our kitchen on the ground floor, will not be so +expensive as where the pipes have to communicate with the basement. + +Supplying the taps is perfectly easy when only cold water is required, +and children and delicate persons may be indulged with jugs of warm +water, which, however, every boy using should fetch for himself. We +should thus be able to dispense with ewers and toilet-cans, which would +at once pay for the fitting of the pipe and tap to each room. + +It is better and nicer to use filtered water for the toilet-decanter, +and not water drawn directly from the cistern, unless it has been +tested and found pure. In such a case, which is rare, no decanter will +be needed, unless we like to have a Venetian glass one for the sake of +its beauty. + +Let all persons, in dressing, replace the things they have used, and +spread their towels on the horse to dry; then the rooms will be set in +order for the day, only needing the daily dusting, which will be done +after the beds are made. Boys and girls who go to school should make +their beds before they go, so they must open them to air immediately +they get up. + +"These seem little things: and so they are unless you neglect them" +(_Sir A. Helps_). + +Everybody should have his or her own wardrobe, and keep it in order. +Men and boys and little children will have everything neatly made and +mended for them, and laid in its proper place; so all they have to do +is to leave the drawers as tidy as they found them, taking heed not to +lose their gloves and neckties; the larger things take care of +themselves. The secret of keeping one's clothes tidy is not to have too +many. + +Of course, where there are no servants to provide for, the house has +fewer rooms than a family of the same size requires in our present +experience, and the uglier part of the house is abolished, or where not +abolished, is converted from servants' bed-rooms and attics--unpleasant, +dusty, and ill furnished; redolent of tallow candle, shoes, brushes, +and stale perfumery; with closed windows and the floor strewn with old +letters, hair-pins, half-empty matchboxes, and dogs-eared penny +novels--into a bower-like study or morning-room, where a young lady may +entertain herself and her own especial visitors. I have even known an +attic in Baker Street so converted by the invention and taste of a +young lady, as to live in one's recollection as as pretty a summer room +as any country rectory could boast, by being papered with bright +flowery paper all over its sloping roof, and its window made cheerful +with climbing plants and flowers; tasteful draperies, a work-table and +work-basket in embroidered green satin, book-shelves carved by friends, +a piano just good enough for practising upon, and water-colour drawings +on the walls. + +I have known another room, cheaply fitted up in a French style by a +French lady, as a dressing-room, with looking-glass wardrobe and +painted furniture. A small bed in an alcove, in case the room might be +wanted as a spare room, and lace curtains drawn over the alcove. The +head of the bed and all its plain wood-work covered in quilted white +cotton in large diamonds, and cross-barred with narrow blue satin +ribbon, and large blue bows here and there. The walls papered with a +paper resembling quilted muslin. The effect was soft, clean, and +extremely pretty. + +A few words on the topic of sick-rooms before quitting this part of the +subject. + +In cases of severe illness it is advisable to engage a professed nurse. +She is a great help to the physician, and a support to the family, who +too often, in their love for the sufferer, overtax their strength, and +break down at the moment this is most required. No person can long +sustain night and day nursing, particularly if to bodily fatigue +anxiety and distress of mind be added; nor can they keep up that +appearance of cheerfulness which is such a support to a sick person. It +is a great mistake to attempt to do this in any case, but more +especially if it is likely to be a prolonged illness. A sister of mercy +is often found a most valuable member of the household under such +circumstances. People often talk of not having had their clothes off +for a fortnight. One's first thought on hearing this said is, how glad +you will be to take a bath! And one's second thought, what good did it +do the patient? + +The sick-room should be kept as much as possible in its usual order. +The paraphernalia of illness distresses the sick person, causing +nervousness. Do not let physic bottles be visible in all directions, or +the patient will never feel well, and those in attendance will fancy +they have caught the infection, simply because they are nauseated with +the smell of the medicines, and the disagreeable sight of their dregs +left about in spoons and glasses. The medicines that have to be given +at stated hours should be neatly placed in readiness on a small tray, +near the clock if possible, so that they may be remembered and the +hours observed. Keep perfect cleanliness and neatness in the room, and +avoid clatter. Wear thin shoes, and do not let your dress rustle. A +woman's hand should at every touch improve or replace something, so +that there may never be a great bustle of setting to rights. We have +already spoken at length of ventilation: in sickness it must be +particularly attended to, as fresh air is the most beneficial of all +medicines. + +At the time of the great cattle-plague, fumigation with chlorine gas +was advocated, and beneficially employed, by Professor Stone, of Owen's +College, Manchester. It is simple for domestic use. + +One teaspoonful of powdered chlorate of potash should be loosely +stirred together with three table-spoonfuls of dry sand in an empty dry +pickle bottle; add to this nearly an ounce of muriatic acid; stand the +bottle on some warm embers in an old Australian-meat tin, or other +receptacle of this kind, and place it (with the embers in it) on a +shelf, or somewhere high up in the room, taking care not to scorch the +wood-work. The heavy chlorine gas will descend and so fill all parts of +the room, and in about three hours disinfection will be complete. + +It would be a good thing if district-visitors, and other charitable +persons, would instruct the clergy and their poor people in such +effectual means of stamping out infection. + +In all hospitals "Condy's solution" is placed with the water and towels +for the use of the visiting medical men. It is highly advisable to keep +this in every house for cleansing and disinfecting purposes, and for +the removal of unpleasant smells. It is useful in cleansing bird-cages +and gun-barrels, in preparing poultry or game, and in many other ways. + +The solution may be made at home. The British Pharmacopoeia allows +four grains of the permanganate of potash (the basis of the solution) +to the fluid ounce. It is chiefly for external use. The permanganate of +potash is sold in crystals of two kinds: the most expensive is the +purple, which is used in what is called the ozonized water, a very weak +solution of permanganate, sold by chemists for toilet use. The cheaper +and more general disinfectant is a greenish coarse powder, sold by any +honest chemist at under five shillings a pound. It may be bought of the +General Apothecaries' Company, 49, Berner's Street, London, for from +three shillings a pound to three-and-sixpence, as it varies with the +market; and this does as well as Condy's patent, and is 500 per cent. +cheaper, as fourteen gallons of disinfectant may be prepared from a +pound of the powdered crystals, and these again will be extensively +diluted for use. The purple crystals may be bought by the ounce. + +Be cautious in using this fluid, or the Condy, whichever you may happen +to prefer, as it turns almost everything brown that it touches. Very +deep stains will never come out; slight stains wash and wear out after +a time, but china and all white ware, and sponges and brushes, have +their appearance greatly injured by it. Bed-room floors may be washed +with it; they will be thoroughly purified, and the colour will be as if +they were stained dark oak previous to being varnished. Stains will +wear off the hands in a few days, and a weak solution will not +discolour them. The purple fluid is a test of water--if it turns brown +the water is impure. It decolorizes on contact with animal matter. + +It is a useful plan to keep a filter on every floor of a house; the +expense is not very great, while the increased safety is incalculable. +Spencer's patent, or magnetic-carbide, filter is one of the best. He +imitated nature's process when constructing it, having observed that +the purest water filtered through oxide of iron in the earth's strata. + +Two articles of furniture will be found of great use in a sick-room. +One is a chair back with bars of broad webbing, made to lift up and +down like the music-desk of a grand piano. This is a most comfortable +support to an invalid when sitting up to take food or medicine. When +closed flat it will slip easily under the pillow, and it can be raised +gently and gradually to the angle required. The other thing is an +arm-chair, stood and fastened on a board with four French castors. This +is a great assistance in cases of lameness or extreme weakness, as it +is easy for the invalid to sit on it and be wheeled to any part of the +room; and it costs less than a wheeled chair. + +None of the learned professions have advanced during the last thirty +years so much as the medical. Medicine has become a new science since +it has taken hold of the sanitary improvement of our towns and +dwellings. The profession, with a disinterestedness and devotion to +science worthy of liberal minds, combines to make the prevention of +disease its aim, even beyond its cure. It forms a noble co-operative +society. + +At the last meeting of the British Medical Association at Sheffield, it +was most truly said that independent medical officers of health would +before long change the character of disease throughout the nation, and +save future generations much misery. It is to be hoped that the +country, which will reap the benefit of their endeavours, will +strengthen the hands of those whose efforts are directed to raising the +standard of national health. + + + + +THE EDUCATION OF GIRLS. + +To what age should boys' and girls' education be alike?--Accomplishments +fruitlessly taught--Nursery and School-room government--Helplessness +--Introduction to society--The convent system--Unhappy results--Scientific +education--Geometrical illustration--Religion--Professional life for +women--Home training--Varied knowledge--Companionship of a mother-- +Experience--Kindness--Truth. + + +At what age should the training of boys and girls begin to differ? This +is a doubtful point, though we may consider that as, until about the +age of fourteen, their nature has been much the same, their strength of +mind and body nearly equal, and their tastes and dispositions much +alike, this may be the time when their training should begin to follow +each its own path; as the boy's strength grows from this time beyond +that of the girl, while she becomes more remarkable for the increasing +delicacy of her skill. + +Practically there is a divergence when their clothing begins to differ, +but this is merely artificial. The girl is made to wear finer and more +delicate clothing than the boy; its texture and form impede her +movements, and it is more easily injured by the weather. But where a +girl is sensibly dressed, so that her clothes will not spoil with the +rain, nor prevent her moving her limbs freely, this diversity between +the two disappears. + +But although it will not harm a girl to share her brother's pursuits +till the age of fourteen, the conditions of her so doing will depend +upon circumstances. Except in the case of twins, the boy will be rather +older or younger than the girl, if even she have brothers about her own +age at all, and many accidents will be found to control her education. +Besides these, nature works gradually, and there are seldom abrupt +transitions in her processes. The girl's future skill of hand and the +boy's strength of arm will be prepared for, and seen, in their +differences of taste and choice of pursuits and games; the girl will +prefer working for her doll and protecting it from the boy's rough +handling, and the boy will love his bat and knife. He will show his +instinct for construction, and she hers for preservation, after the +first early stage when both alike delight in destruction. Here +education comes into use, leading each child to exercise the good +instinct instead of its converse. + +When the conventional proprieties are not allowed to warp the natural +taste, a girl loves running and climbing as well as the boy does: she +likes to collect stamps, minerals, fossils, birds' eggs, insects, etc., +fully as much as he does. Their favourite books are identical, their +scrap-books equally enjoyed, the theatre and theatricals at home +delighted in by both, and their pets are much beloved. Why, then, +should we make so much difference between them where Nature has created +none? + +Girls of the upper classes are always at lessons of some kind from six +years old to eighteen; thus they have twelve years of instruction, and +we know that of old a seven year's apprenticeship was held sufficient +to make a master in some craft. What do the twelve years do for our +girls? Does their training enable them to maintain them decently in any +one line? What have they learnt, and what can they do? + +They have learnt music enough to play a _morceau de salon_ showily, and +the allegretto movement of a sonata stumblingly, and the latter only +because it was thought 'proper' that they should learn 'classical +music.' But they do not know enough even to learn another _morceau de +salon_ without the help of a master, so of course music cannot be +reckoned upon as doing much for them. + +I place music first, because the most time has been given to it; a +weary hour every day, had it not been so broken up by visits to the +clock. Practical girls grudge this hour wasted on a weakness they are +sure to give up when they marry, for they all think they are as certain +to marry as to give up their music. They are healthy and strong and +have good voices, but few of them can do more than incomprehensibly +murmur a few lines of twaddle to a feeble accompaniment, or sing out of +all time the top line of a glee, provided the piano helps them out with +the notes. So here is a physical gift thrown aside. + +Can anything be made of that pencil-stroking on buff paper, with some +splashes of white, which is held to represent a cottage, flanked on one +side by a gate-post which could never have been a good gate-post, and +on the other side by something smeary which is not at all like a tree, +nor any other created thing? + +Every willow-pattern plate has a better landscape on it than that. So +there are two hours a week gone, for the lop-sided chalk head is of no +more use to anybody than was the landscape. + +The girl has been taught French and German, but has not learnt enough +of either language to enjoy a good book, or to converse with +intelligence in either tongue, and her stock of dialogue-book phrases +is soon exhausted. Indeed, she can hardly talk better in English when +she gets beyond the depth of drawing-room chatter, as her knowledge of +facts is of a most uncertain sort; so in general conversation she +covers her deficiencies by slang, which, although it distresses us, we +forgive in a pretty, lively girl. + +She cannot cook, how should she? She was never permitted to peep inside +the kitchen, but was kept in an upstairs nursery until she was six +years old, under the stultifying dominion of "nurse," whose sole +training was "Miss, I'll tell your ma," when wicked or cruel teaching +did not replace this feebleness. When she was promoted to the +school-room and made over to the care of the governess, the system of +instruction was little more satisfactory. The list of the Kings of +England superseded standing in the corner as a punishment for +weariness, but her chief experience of life was gathered from tales in +cheap magazines, read surreptitiously; and as she grew older, the +railway novel by a sensational author replaced the serial in the penny +paper. + +The child saw her parents together for a quarter of an hour in the +evening, when she was full dressed to go down to dessert, and her +mother for about five minutes in the course of the morning, when she +came up to the school-room to find fault with the governess for the +children's bad grammar, or awkward behaviour, on the previous evening. +The round of the year brings the sea-side visit. Here, although health +is gained, there is no education beyond lodging-house gossip. The +children are put into the train like so many parcels, and in so many +hours are somewhere else; frocks suited to the sea-side are put on them +by the nurse, but these might have dropped from the clouds, and the +children have been none the wiser. Helplessness is the natural outcome +of all this. + +The school-room course begins in about six years to be agreeably +diversified by the visits of music and drawing-masters; which, if the +governess did not sit in the room all the time, trying to attract their +admiration, would be a really pleasant change. But nothing comes of the +lessons beyond the showy _morceau de salon_ aforesaid, the buff-paper +drawing, and the weak rhyme jingled to an accompaniment in quavers; +except an increase of energy in borrowing, or hiring, yellow-covered +books revealing stirring impossibilities in the lives of Edwin and +Angelina, over which a girl, according to her disposition, may weep or +rage. For this is the only outlet for her poor imprisoned life, until, +on her introduction to society, she is suddenly flung upon the world, +to make her way as best, or worst, she can; and now, and now only, does +her real education begin. + +This manner of bringing up our girls differs from the convent system in +this, that it is worldly instead of being religious, and needlework and +confectionery are worse taught; other things are about equal. Both we +and our continental neighbours imprison our girls in a school-room or +convent for twelve years, and yet boast of our superiority over the +Turks! + +After this, can we wonder at the weakness or the folly of girls, or be +surprised that society is at a dead-lock, or that our women eat bitter +bread? + +Can we marvel that women ruin their husbands by their dress and +extravagance; that they drive them to their clubs for companionship, +and freedom from the wretchedness of home; that they tyrannize over +their milliners, and are in their turn tyrannized over by their +servants; that their sons drink the brandy and smoke the tobacco of +idleness, and that their daughters grow up the patterns of themselves? +Only where the mother is passively useless, the daughter will be +actively mischievous; where the mother was merely frivolous, the +daughter will be actually wicked. + +Does all our boasted culture come to this; or will Cambridge +examinations and a scientific education set all right again? When an +hour a day, at least, for twelve years passed in the study of music has +failed to implant those habits of accuracy which this beautiful science +so pre-eminently combines with sweetness and grace, is a smattering of +geology certain to succeed? Will Greek strengthen the character more +than German? Or is one as likely as the other to puff the mind with +conceit, where it does not equally encourage a deceitful appearance of +knowledge. And is the new system better calculated than the old one to +prepare girls for fifty years of womanhood? + +People talk of depth, as if truth were only to be found at the bottom +of a well. What seems most wanted is breadth, free expansion all round +to keep the soul healthy. Let every branch have due encouragement to +stretch out towards the light, to receive the shower or sunshine as +they come. + +Some careful mothers say, "I keep my girls exclusively at 'studies' for +the piano; they make such a good groundwork." This may be so, but +finger training is not everything. The poor girls have had their souls +so sickened over melancholy minor "meditations," that their hearts are +closed to the tender or joyous melodies of music, and its rich, +majestic harmonies. + +Point out these things to the young, who will love them, at first +blindly, and afterwards with a gradually developing appreciation. + +Here a little, there a little, is a true precept in education. A thing +can never be completely taught, for there is infinity everywhere. How +rarely we can begin at the beginning, or even the unit, of anything; +multiplication and subdivision meet us at both ends, besides all the +collaterals. + +I have ever observed that those girls who have been the greatest number +of years at the same school know the least, and are the most stupid. It +is better to let children go to many different schools in succession, +than to remain long in one: they gain more experience, while the +chances of their learning evil are the same in both cases. In public +schools as boys go up through the forms, they meet different sets of +masters and subjects of study, so that these are, in fact, fresh +schools. + +To use a simile which will be intelligible to this generation, women +have been treated as if they were stones. Left shapeless under the +school-room prison system, they are only fit to be broken up for the +roads, as they will fit in nowhere. Our well-educated ancestresses, +down to the time of Hannah More, were formed into cubes, very solid and +steady on either of their bases, and suitable for many buildings, +though the finer kinds of stone are in this manner misapplied. Modern +science gives the stones more sides, and, while seeming to round them +into more adaptable forms, only produces a number of small facets, +making a somewhat polished dodecahedron, which rolls about in any +position and is of no particular service, except, maybe, to stick upon +a gate-post at a girl's school, though it has given a great deal of +trouble in the cutting. But the hourly guidance of the loving hands of +father and mother, aided by raspings and filings of circumstances, and +many blows from chisels more or less severe, produces at last a +beautiful statue, well shaped in all its parts, which becomes a perfect +and nobly planned Galatea. What is the best training for girls? That is +the question. What are they to be, or not to be? + +We have tried hitherto to bring up our girls so that they may be fitted +for the high position here that we all wish they may attain, making +their education tend solely to pleasure; forgetting how easily the +nature of woman adapts itself to any superior station, and how soon it +seems like everyday life, however high the rank or great the wealth to +which a girl may be suddenly raised. + +We teach religion, when it is taught at all, under the head of +"divinity," at school, where it is put on a par with the +multiplication-table; or as a series of "religious duties," to be +performed once a week and rendered as irksome as possible, quite +ignoring that everything we do is our duty towards God, or towards our +neighbour, which is part of the same duty; whereas we ought to train +our girls for "duties" here, and give them joy in preparing for their +high position as daughters of God in heaven. We should let our divine +life so permeate through every hour of our stay here, that it may be +the vivifying light shed upon everything we are concerned with, making +the trifles of this life unfold their beauties, comforting sadness and +gilding poverty, as the southern sunshine lights up squalid dwellings +till they shine like gold and silver, and makes rags glow with light +and colour. + +Our ideas have changed lately, and now we seem to think that all girls +who are not born to high position here must of necessity be trained to +professional life. But, after all, the demand for certified teachers, +heads of ladies' colleges, doctors, and other learned professions, will +never comprise the great bulk of the number of willing workers among +the unmarried women of England: nor do these things constitute a +quarter of the work to be done. + +Instances of marked talent or decided turn for some particular line of +study should be furthered and fostered to the utmost, consistently with +the possibility that after all the vocation may not be carried into +effect; but women are really more valuable, and more likely to be +happy, in what it is old-fashioned to call the sphere of a home. + +And this is best prepared for by home training; which does not mean +being pushed aside so as to be out of the way, and shut up in the +nursery or school-room, but enjoying the companionship of a judicious +and sensible mother, and the freedom of the house--where the child will +be taught to behave herself properly, and be useful and obliging; where +she will have regular hours of study with her mother, her governess, or +at school, and yet have opportunities of seeing how everything is +managed in the kitchen and throughout the house, being allowed +occasionally to do some little thing herself, and so acquire some of +the needful practice; where she can be taught needlework and the proper +use of many tools; learn to carve, to cut bread and butter, to help +dishes neatly at table, and gain a knowledge of gardening and +green-house culture. + +Children should be permitted to look on at the proceedings of all +workmen employed in or out of the house: the glazier, gasfitter, +gardener, carpet-stretcher, carpenter, locksmith, and piano-tuner; the +exceptions being the dustman and the sweep, because of the dirt. + +How much money might be saved in a house if people understood the use +of a few tools, the construction of a few fittings, or could take a +piano to pieces and tune it. If a bell-wire is broken, a man is sent +for; he charges half a day's work and some materials, and generally +makes a little bit of work for some other tradesman, whereas a +knowledge of how to unscrew and take off the bell-cover would often +enable a piece of copper wire to be joined, and the bell set in order. +How often people fail to force down a window whose weights are just +over-lapping, where a blow with a mallet on the shutterbox would have +shaken them into their places; or, failing that, the box containing the +sash-weights might be opened by taking off the beading near the +window-sash, the cords and weights put straight, and the beading +replaced by hammering the brads. But no; we send for a man. + +Our water-pipes burst in winter, because during a hard frost we have +not taken the precaution to turn the taps so that a few drops may pass +to relieve the pressure in thawing. + +We cannot even frame and hang up a picture when we have painted it, or +cover a chair with the piece of needlework we have made. We do not know +how to renew the cord of a spring blind, nor many a little thing +besides; and yet any one who keeps a house in order knows how +constantly these things are recurring, and what a source of expense +they are. + +Girls should be taken out shopping that they may learn the names and +qualities of things, the quantities of material required for different +purposes, and the value of money. The knowledge of how much it costs to +clothe a child will teach them more practical arithmetic than any +amount of extraction of the square root, and give an interest to their +tables of weights and measures besides. Let Euclid be learnt by all +means, if desired; but if it is only done for the sake of training, and +not to aid some particular purpose, as good, if not as exact, training +may be found in some study leading to a pleasing result, such as music, +drawing, or knowledge of architecture, as from the pure mathematics. + +Let the girls learn to fit their clothes exactly, estimate the needful +quantity of material, and calculate the cost of the quality. When the +mother is considering the size and price of a new carpet, if she +consult with her daughters about it, it will help their judgment at the +same time that it improves their arithmetic. Let girls learn to write +notes of invitation and letters of business, and write orders to +tradespeople; let them accompany their parents on house-hunting +expeditions--it is a school in itself--or when furniture is bought. +Elder girls may go with their mothers when they are treating for +schools for little brothers, and when servants are hired, or evening +parties catered for; when lodgings are taken for friends, and a +thousand and one other circumstances. + +It is all experience, and of the kind those girls never gain who are +always at school-work; so that those who have not this knowledge begin +life many years behind the home-trained girls, and commit many follies +owing to their want of it. It need not be feared that this experience +will destroy a girl's charm of manner. Ignorance is not simplicity, nor +silliness a grace, neither are awkwardness and affectation as dignified +as self-possession. + +I would on no account depreciate the efforts made for the higher +education of women. No one rejoices more than I do at seeing things +more thoroughly taught. Still, we cannot rest content with crumbs of +science; female education must be filled with the milk of human +kindness. It is not the nature of woman to stand Alp-like alone, with +one peak seeming to pierce the heavens; she should be like the +spreading tree which gives shelter and enjoyment to all within its +influence, its roots being firmly fixed in the good ground. + +The nursery training for children is merely repressive. They are told +not to be naughty, not to be greedy, not to break their toys, not to be +noisy. Whereas a teaching more calculated to develop their intelligence +would substitute some interesting occupation to counteract their +naughtiness; such as mending a toy they have broken, which would +delight them more than any new toy; and having seen the trouble it took +to mend it, and the time it took to dry it, they would learn +carefulness. If they wish to shout at inconvenient times and places, +teach them to sing a chorus, and if the noise is too great, let them +sing one at a time. If they are greedy, which often means hungry, for +children need frequent feeding, give them a piece of bread. + +But although tender kindness is the best of nurture, on no account let +it degenerate into weak indulgence. Compel instant obedience to the +slightest word, the minutest direction, enforcing habits of attention +and discipline. Never let children be obtrusive or feel that they are a +power in the house; and require of them the utmost respect to elders. + +The good example of parents is the safeguard of the children. If they +show reverence to all that is lovely, children will do so too. Above +all, parents should never break a promise, nor ever deceive their +children, even in play, or children will not honour their word. + +I do not like to see mothers or nurses take away from a child something +they do not wish it to have, and hide it, and pretend not to know where +it is gone; yet this is a very favourite form of play, and deemed quite +innocent. Surely it were better kindly, but firmly and openly, to +remove the object and turn the attention from the loss. + +I hope these few remarks will be found useful. I have tried to keep +them brief, but in writing on so important a topic as that of +education, it is difficult to bear in mind the clever old French +saying, "Woe to him who says all that can be said." + + + + +SUNDAY. + +Children's Sundays made wearisome--Sunday precious to workers--Moral +workers--Moral vices--Our gifts--Misuse of them--Necessary work on +Sunday--Diminished by management--Sunday prevents us living too +fast--The rest must be earned--Sunday repairs the human machine. + + +Do not let Sunday be turned into a day of dread to the children. It is +the day which the Lord has made; we will rejoice and be glad in it. For +years I lived in terror of the Sunday, and I feel for children who, +being brought more into the presence of their elders on that day, are +consequently more exposed to reproof for their natural animal spirits, +which are trying to jaded and irritable persons. An only child, I was +taken twice a day to a church built in the dismal style of the reign of +George III., and put into a high pew, "shut up in a cupboard," as I +have heard a little child express it, where I could only see a +frightful ornament like a row of teeth in painted woodwork that ran +round the upper part of the church. I sat contemplating this through +the long low church service and sermon, of which I was too young to +understand a word. The remainder of the day was filled up with collect, +epistle, and catechism, Bible questions to write and answer, the text +to remember, hymns to repeat to visitors, and a prolonged dessert, with +half a glass of sherry, which was like a dose of physic to me. The +"Life of Joseph" was my only recreation. + +Too often is Sunday given up to the display of toilet vanities out of +doors and listlessness at home. Those who have been really working +during the week know well what a blessing the Sunday rest is. Those who +have been idle cannot expect to feel this, and they experience such a +flatness in the quietly kept Sunday that they regard it as a weekly +penance which interrupts their pleasures. But they ought not to have +allowed themselves to get into this condition of feeling. There is work +for all in the world; none but the dead have a right to be idle. + +As Kingsley justly asks: "If vanity, profligacy, pride, and idleness be +not moral vices, what are?" What is more common than to find pride and +vanity leading our women to idleness, and that extravagance and craving +after gaiety which are the feminine form of profligacy? And Kingsley +goes on to show that beneath these vices, and perhaps the cause of them +all, lies another and deeper vice--godlessness, atheism. + +"I do not," continues he, "mean merely the want of religion, doctrinal +unbelief. I mean want of belief in duty, in responsibility. Want of +belief that there is a living God governing the universe, who has set +us our work, and will judge us according to our work." + +Why are our noble gifts given to us; such gifts as these-- + + "The reason firm, the temperate will, + Endurance, foresight, strength, and skill." + +Is it that we may become "tolerably harmless dolls?" How shall we +answer for having used our endurance only so much as may make us wait +with common patience for next month's number of _Belgravia_; our +foresight in choosing a pattern for a mantle which shall be fashionable +enough to be worn next autumn; our skill in crochet-work, and our +strength in skating on the outside edge. + +No wonder we do not value the Sunday rest. We know that heavenly +mansions are being prepared for us to enjoy the heavenly rest in, and +that we must prepare ourselves for these mansions, or we shall not be +permitted to enter them. Then let us take pains to prepare our earthly +houses for the right use of the day of rest, and be able to go up to +the house of the Lord with the multitude that keep holy-day. + +We should so put our houses in order on Saturday that we may really be +able to rest on Sunday. Some works of necessity must be done, such as +the dinner prepared; but by dining early, and doing as much as possible +on the previous day towards its preparation, the labour may be reduced +to a minimum. + +There will be no needlework, no cleaning or dusting, no marketing to be +done on Sunday. Pies and tarts should have been made on Saturday, a +double quantity of potatoes and other vegetables prepared, and a +general foresight used. + +Sunday is a good day for sending out a large joint to be baked, and a +pudding also; indeed, this seems the opportunity for the national roast +beef and plumpudding dinner. So that, in fact, beyond laying the cloth +and removing the things used at meals, there is absolutely no work to +be done beyond the five minutes' daily occupation of each person in +making his or her own bed, as the re-arrangement of the used dinner +things may be left till the following morning. The table is cleared as +if by magic, if every child is told to put in its place two things, or +three things, according to the number of things used and the number of +children to put them back. Each person replaces his or her own chair, +and the Sunday work is over. Life is not so hard to us as it was to the +country squire's wife half a century ago, who always gave her servants +physic on a Sunday because it was no loss of time. To us the Sunday is +very helpful in another way: it keeps us from living too fast; without +this wholesome stop we might drive ourselves on to frenzy. + +Many if not most of us feel lazy and desultory on Monday morning (which +therefore had better be employed on some kind of desultory and +irregular work), and we only get ourselves warm in the harness by the +middle of the week. We go on working with gradually increasing +excitement until Saturday night, when some sensible friend hints that +it is too late to make a bad week's work good; precious Sunday comes to +ease the strain, and the human machine is oiled and cooled. + +Let us be diligent during the week, and lengthen our days by beginning +them earlier, so as to do most of our work in the morning; then with a +clear conscience we may leave off our play as early as we please and go +to rest: we shall enjoy the Sunday repose which we have earned, and +find ourselves refreshed instead of wearied by it. + +I will conclude this essay in the words of Macaulay--words which he +considers among the very best he ever wrote. "Man, man is the great +instrument that produces wealth. The natural difference between +Campania and Spitzbergen is trifling when compared with the difference +between a country inhabited by men full of bodily and mental vigour, +and a country inhabited by men sunk in bodily and mental decrepitude. +Therefore it is that we are not poorer but richer, because we have, +through many ages, rested from our labour one day in seven. That day is +not lost. While industry is suspended, while the plough lies in the +furrow, while the Exchange is silent, while no smoke ascends from the +factory, a process is going on quite as important to the wealth of +nations as any process which is performed on more busy days. Man, the +machine of machines, the machine compared with which all the +contrivances of the Watts and Arkwrights are worthless, is repairing +and winding up, so that he returns to his labours on the Monday with +clearer intellect, with livelier spirits, with renewed corporal vigour. +Never will I believe that what makes a population stronger and +healthier and wiser and better can ultimately make it poorer. + +"If ever we are forced to yield the foremost place among commercial +nations, we shall yield it not to a race of degenerate dwarfs, but to +some people pre-eminently vigorous in body and in mind." + + +THE END. + +PRINTED AT THE CAXTON PRESS, BECCLES. + + + + + +End of Project Gutenberg's Household Organization, by Florence Caddy + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK HOUSEHOLD ORGANIZATION *** + +***** This file should be named 34097.txt or 34097.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + https://www.gutenberg.org/3/4/0/9/34097/ + +Produced by Julia Miller and the Online Distributed +Proofreading Team at https://www.pgdp.net (This file was +produced from images generously made available by The +Internet Archive/American Libraries.) + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. Special rules, +set forth in the General Terms of Use part of this license, apply to +copying and distributing Project Gutenberg-tm electronic works to +protect the PROJECT GUTENBERG-tm concept and trademark. Project +Gutenberg is a registered trademark, and may not be used if you +charge for the eBooks, unless you receive specific permission. If you +do not charge anything for copies of this eBook, complying with the +rules is very easy. You may use this eBook for nearly any purpose +such as creation of derivative works, reports, performances and +research. They may be modified and printed and given away--you may do +practically ANYTHING with public domain eBooks. Redistribution is +subject to the trademark license, especially commercial +redistribution. + + + +*** START: FULL LICENSE *** + +THE FULL PROJECT GUTENBERG LICENSE +PLEASE READ THIS BEFORE YOU DISTRIBUTE OR USE THIS WORK + +To protect the Project Gutenberg-tm mission of promoting the free +distribution of electronic works, by using or distributing this work +(or any other work associated in any way with the phrase "Project +Gutenberg"), you agree to comply with all the terms of the Full Project +Gutenberg-tm License (available with this file or online at +https://gutenberg.org/license). + + +Section 1. General Terms of Use and Redistributing Project Gutenberg-tm +electronic works + +1.A. By reading or using any part of this Project Gutenberg-tm +electronic work, you indicate that you have read, understand, agree to +and accept all the terms of this license and intellectual property +(trademark/copyright) agreement. If you do not agree to abide by all +the terms of this agreement, you must cease using and return or destroy +all copies of Project Gutenberg-tm electronic works in your possession. +If you paid a fee for obtaining a copy of or access to a Project +Gutenberg-tm electronic work and you do not agree to be bound by the +terms of this agreement, you may obtain a refund from the person or +entity to whom you paid the fee as set forth in paragraph 1.E.8. + +1.B. "Project Gutenberg" is a registered trademark. It may only be +used on or associated in any way with an electronic work by people who +agree to be bound by the terms of this agreement. There are a few +things that you can do with most Project Gutenberg-tm electronic works +even without complying with the full terms of this agreement. See +paragraph 1.C below. There are a lot of things you can do with Project +Gutenberg-tm electronic works if you follow the terms of this agreement +and help preserve free future access to Project Gutenberg-tm electronic +works. See paragraph 1.E below. + +1.C. The Project Gutenberg Literary Archive Foundation ("the Foundation" +or PGLAF), owns a compilation copyright in the collection of Project +Gutenberg-tm electronic works. Nearly all the individual works in the +collection are in the public domain in the United States. If an +individual work is in the public domain in the United States and you are +located in the United States, we do not claim a right to prevent you from +copying, distributing, performing, displaying or creating derivative +works based on the work as long as all references to Project Gutenberg +are removed. Of course, we hope that you will support the Project +Gutenberg-tm mission of promoting free access to electronic works by +freely sharing Project Gutenberg-tm works in compliance with the terms of +this agreement for keeping the Project Gutenberg-tm name associated with +the work. You can easily comply with the terms of this agreement by +keeping this work in the same format with its attached full Project +Gutenberg-tm License when you share it without charge with others. + +1.D. The copyright laws of the place where you are located also govern +what you can do with this work. Copyright laws in most countries are in +a constant state of change. If you are outside the United States, check +the laws of your country in addition to the terms of this agreement +before downloading, copying, displaying, performing, distributing or +creating derivative works based on this work or any other Project +Gutenberg-tm work. The Foundation makes no representations concerning +the copyright status of any work in any country outside the United +States. + +1.E. Unless you have removed all references to Project Gutenberg: + +1.E.1. The following sentence, with active links to, or other immediate +access to, the full Project Gutenberg-tm License must appear prominently +whenever any copy of a Project Gutenberg-tm work (any work on which the +phrase "Project Gutenberg" appears, or with which the phrase "Project +Gutenberg" is associated) is accessed, displayed, performed, viewed, +copied or distributed: + +This eBook is for the use of anyone anywhere at no cost and with +almost no restrictions whatsoever. You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + +1.E.2. If an individual Project Gutenberg-tm electronic work is derived +from the public domain (does not contain a notice indicating that it is +posted with permission of the copyright holder), the work can be copied +and distributed to anyone in the United States without paying any fees +or charges. If you are redistributing or providing access to a work +with the phrase "Project Gutenberg" associated with or appearing on the +work, you must comply either with the requirements of paragraphs 1.E.1 +through 1.E.7 or obtain permission for the use of the work and the +Project Gutenberg-tm trademark as set forth in paragraphs 1.E.8 or +1.E.9. + +1.E.3. If an individual Project Gutenberg-tm electronic work is posted +with the permission of the copyright holder, your use and distribution +must comply with both paragraphs 1.E.1 through 1.E.7 and any additional +terms imposed by the copyright holder. Additional terms will be linked +to the Project Gutenberg-tm License for all works posted with the +permission of the copyright holder found at the beginning of this work. + +1.E.4. Do not unlink or detach or remove the full Project Gutenberg-tm +License terms from this work, or any files containing a part of this +work or any other work associated with Project Gutenberg-tm. + +1.E.5. Do not copy, display, perform, distribute or redistribute this +electronic work, or any part of this electronic work, without +prominently displaying the sentence set forth in paragraph 1.E.1 with +active links or immediate access to the full terms of the Project +Gutenberg-tm License. + +1.E.6. You may convert to and distribute this work in any binary, +compressed, marked up, nonproprietary or proprietary form, including any +word processing or hypertext form. However, if you provide access to or +distribute copies of a Project Gutenberg-tm work in a format other than +"Plain Vanilla ASCII" or other format used in the official version +posted on the official Project Gutenberg-tm web site (www.gutenberg.org), +you must, at no additional cost, fee or expense to the user, provide a +copy, a means of exporting a copy, or a means of obtaining a copy upon +request, of the work in its original "Plain Vanilla ASCII" or other +form. Any alternate format must include the full Project Gutenberg-tm +License as specified in paragraph 1.E.1. + +1.E.7. Do not charge a fee for access to, viewing, displaying, +performing, copying or distributing any Project Gutenberg-tm works +unless you comply with paragraph 1.E.8 or 1.E.9. + +1.E.8. You may charge a reasonable fee for copies of or providing +access to or distributing Project Gutenberg-tm electronic works provided +that + +- You pay a royalty fee of 20% of the gross profits you derive from + the use of Project Gutenberg-tm works calculated using the method + you already use to calculate your applicable taxes. The fee is + owed to the owner of the Project Gutenberg-tm trademark, but he + has agreed to donate royalties under this paragraph to the + Project Gutenberg Literary Archive Foundation. Royalty payments + must be paid within 60 days following each date on which you + prepare (or are legally required to prepare) your periodic tax + returns. Royalty payments should be clearly marked as such and + sent to the Project Gutenberg Literary Archive Foundation at the + address specified in Section 4, "Information about donations to + the Project Gutenberg Literary Archive Foundation." + +- You provide a full refund of any money paid by a user who notifies + you in writing (or by e-mail) within 30 days of receipt that s/he + does not agree to the terms of the full Project Gutenberg-tm + License. You must require such a user to return or + destroy all copies of the works possessed in a physical medium + and discontinue all use of and all access to other copies of + Project Gutenberg-tm works. + +- You provide, in accordance with paragraph 1.F.3, a full refund of any + money paid for a work or a replacement copy, if a defect in the + electronic work is discovered and reported to you within 90 days + of receipt of the work. + +- You comply with all other terms of this agreement for free + distribution of Project Gutenberg-tm works. + +1.E.9. If you wish to charge a fee or distribute a Project Gutenberg-tm +electronic work or group of works on different terms than are set +forth in this agreement, you must obtain permission in writing from +both the Project Gutenberg Literary Archive Foundation and Michael +Hart, the owner of the Project Gutenberg-tm trademark. Contact the +Foundation as set forth in Section 3 below. + +1.F. + +1.F.1. Project Gutenberg volunteers and employees expend considerable +effort to identify, do copyright research on, transcribe and proofread +public domain works in creating the Project Gutenberg-tm +collection. Despite these efforts, Project Gutenberg-tm electronic +works, and the medium on which they may be stored, may contain +"Defects," such as, but not limited to, incomplete, inaccurate or +corrupt data, transcription errors, a copyright or other intellectual +property infringement, a defective or damaged disk or other medium, a +computer virus, or computer codes that damage or cannot be read by +your equipment. + +1.F.2. LIMITED WARRANTY, DISCLAIMER OF DAMAGES - Except for the "Right +of Replacement or Refund" described in paragraph 1.F.3, the Project +Gutenberg Literary Archive Foundation, the owner of the Project +Gutenberg-tm trademark, and any other party distributing a Project +Gutenberg-tm electronic work under this agreement, disclaim all +liability to you for damages, costs and expenses, including legal +fees. YOU AGREE THAT YOU HAVE NO REMEDIES FOR NEGLIGENCE, STRICT +LIABILITY, BREACH OF WARRANTY OR BREACH OF CONTRACT EXCEPT THOSE +PROVIDED IN PARAGRAPH 1.F.3. YOU AGREE THAT THE FOUNDATION, THE +TRADEMARK OWNER, AND ANY DISTRIBUTOR UNDER THIS AGREEMENT WILL NOT BE +LIABLE TO YOU FOR ACTUAL, DIRECT, INDIRECT, CONSEQUENTIAL, PUNITIVE OR +INCIDENTAL DAMAGES EVEN IF YOU GIVE NOTICE OF THE POSSIBILITY OF SUCH +DAMAGE. + +1.F.3. LIMITED RIGHT OF REPLACEMENT OR REFUND - If you discover a +defect in this electronic work within 90 days of receiving it, you can +receive a refund of the money (if any) you paid for it by sending a +written explanation to the person you received the work from. If you +received the work on a physical medium, you must return the medium with +your written explanation. The person or entity that provided you with +the defective work may elect to provide a replacement copy in lieu of a +refund. If you received the work electronically, the person or entity +providing it to you may choose to give you a second opportunity to +receive the work electronically in lieu of a refund. If the second copy +is also defective, you may demand a refund in writing without further +opportunities to fix the problem. + +1.F.4. Except for the limited right of replacement or refund set forth +in paragraph 1.F.3, this work is provided to you 'AS-IS' WITH NO OTHER +WARRANTIES OF ANY KIND, EXPRESS OR IMPLIED, INCLUDING BUT NOT LIMITED TO +WARRANTIES OF MERCHANTIBILITY OR FITNESS FOR ANY PURPOSE. + +1.F.5. Some states do not allow disclaimers of certain implied +warranties or the exclusion or limitation of certain types of damages. +If any disclaimer or limitation set forth in this agreement violates the +law of the state applicable to this agreement, the agreement shall be +interpreted to make the maximum disclaimer or limitation permitted by +the applicable state law. The invalidity or unenforceability of any +provision of this agreement shall not void the remaining provisions. + +1.F.6. INDEMNITY - You agree to indemnify and hold the Foundation, the +trademark owner, any agent or employee of the Foundation, anyone +providing copies of Project Gutenberg-tm electronic works in accordance +with this agreement, and any volunteers associated with the production, +promotion and distribution of Project Gutenberg-tm electronic works, +harmless from all liability, costs and expenses, including legal fees, +that arise directly or indirectly from any of the following which you do +or cause to occur: (a) distribution of this or any Project Gutenberg-tm +work, (b) alteration, modification, or additions or deletions to any +Project Gutenberg-tm work, and (c) any Defect you cause. + + +Section 2. Information about the Mission of Project Gutenberg-tm + +Project Gutenberg-tm is synonymous with the free distribution of +electronic works in formats readable by the widest variety of computers +including obsolete, old, middle-aged and new computers. It exists +because of the efforts of hundreds of volunteers and donations from +people in all walks of life. + +Volunteers and financial support to provide volunteers with the +assistance they need are critical to reaching Project Gutenberg-tm's +goals and ensuring that the Project Gutenberg-tm collection will +remain freely available for generations to come. In 2001, the Project +Gutenberg Literary Archive Foundation was created to provide a secure +and permanent future for Project Gutenberg-tm and future generations. +To learn more about the Project Gutenberg Literary Archive Foundation +and how your efforts and donations can help, see Sections 3 and 4 +and the Foundation web page at https://www.pglaf.org. + + +Section 3. Information about the Project Gutenberg Literary Archive +Foundation + +The Project Gutenberg Literary Archive Foundation is a non profit +501(c)(3) educational corporation organized under the laws of the +state of Mississippi and granted tax exempt status by the Internal +Revenue Service. The Foundation's EIN or federal tax identification +number is 64-6221541. Its 501(c)(3) letter is posted at +https://pglaf.org/fundraising. Contributions to the Project Gutenberg +Literary Archive Foundation are tax deductible to the full extent +permitted by U.S. federal laws and your state's laws. + +The Foundation's principal office is located at 4557 Melan Dr. S. +Fairbanks, AK, 99712., but its volunteers and employees are scattered +throughout numerous locations. Its business office is located at +809 North 1500 West, Salt Lake City, UT 84116, (801) 596-1887, email +business@pglaf.org. Email contact links and up to date contact +information can be found at the Foundation's web site and official +page at https://pglaf.org + +For additional contact information: + Dr. Gregory B. Newby + Chief Executive and Director + gbnewby@pglaf.org + + +Section 4. Information about Donations to the Project Gutenberg +Literary Archive Foundation + +Project Gutenberg-tm depends upon and cannot survive without wide +spread public support and donations to carry out its mission of +increasing the number of public domain and licensed works that can be +freely distributed in machine readable form accessible by the widest +array of equipment including outdated equipment. Many small donations +($1 to $5,000) are particularly important to maintaining tax exempt +status with the IRS. + +The Foundation is committed to complying with the laws regulating +charities and charitable donations in all 50 states of the United +States. Compliance requirements are not uniform and it takes a +considerable effort, much paperwork and many fees to meet and keep up +with these requirements. We do not solicit donations in locations +where we have not received written confirmation of compliance. To +SEND DONATIONS or determine the status of compliance for any +particular state visit https://pglaf.org + +While we cannot and do not solicit contributions from states where we +have not met the solicitation requirements, we know of no prohibition +against accepting unsolicited donations from donors in such states who +approach us with offers to donate. + +International donations are gratefully accepted, but we cannot make +any statements concerning tax treatment of donations received from +outside the United States. U.S. laws alone swamp our small staff. + +Please check the Project Gutenberg Web pages for current donation +methods and addresses. Donations are accepted in a number of other +ways including including checks, online payments and credit card +donations. To donate, please visit: https://pglaf.org/donate + + +Section 5. General Information About Project Gutenberg-tm electronic +works. + +Professor Michael S. Hart was the originator of the Project Gutenberg-tm +concept of a library of electronic works that could be freely shared +with anyone. For thirty years, he produced and distributed Project +Gutenberg-tm eBooks with only a loose network of volunteer support. + + +Project Gutenberg-tm eBooks are often created from several printed +editions, all of which are confirmed as Public Domain in the U.S. +unless a copyright notice is included. Thus, we do not necessarily +keep eBooks in compliance with any particular paper edition. + + +Most people start at our Web site which has the main PG search facility: + + https://www.gutenberg.org + +This Web site includes information about Project Gutenberg-tm, +including how to make donations to the Project Gutenberg Literary +Archive Foundation, how to help produce our new eBooks, and how to +subscribe to our email newsletter to hear about new eBooks. |
