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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Sex-education + A series of lectures concerning knowledge of sex in its + relation to human life + +Author: Maurice Alpheus Bigelow + +Release Date: February 22, 2010 [EBook #31352] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK SEX-EDUCATION *** + + + + +Produced by Jeannie Howse, Bryan Ness and the Online +Distributed Proofreading Team at https://www.pgdp.net (This +file was produced from images generously made available +by The Internet Archive/American Libraries.) + + + + + + + * * * * * + + +-----------------------------------------------------------+ + | Transcriber's Note: | + | | + | Inconsistent hyphenation in the original document has | + | been preserved. | + | | + | Obvious typographical errors have been corrected. For | + | a complete list, please see the end of this document. | + | | + +-----------------------------------------------------------+ + + * * * * * + + + + +SEX-EDUCATION + + + + +[Illustration] + +THE MACMILLAN COMPANY + +NEW YORK · BOSTON · CHICAGO · DALLAS +ATLANTA · SAN FRANCISCO + +MACMILLAN & CO., LIMITED +LONDON · BOMBAY · CALCUTTA +MELBOURNE + +THE MACMILLAN CO. OF CANADA, LTD. +TORONTO + + [Illustration: PRINCE A. MORROW + Chief organizer of the American movement for sex-education. + Physician, educator, author, social reformer. Born in Kentucky, + December 19, 1864. Died in New York City, March 17, 1913. + _Courtesy of Dr. A.S. Morrow._] + + + + +SEX-EDUCATION + +A SERIES OF LECTURES CONCERNING +KNOWLEDGE OF SEX IN ITS RELATION +TO HUMAN LIFE + + +BY + +MAURICE A. BIGELOW + +PROFESSOR OF BIOLOGY AND DIRECTOR OF THE SCHOOL +OF PRACTICAL ARTS, TEACHERS COLLEGE +COLUMBIA UNIVERSITY + + +New York +THE MACMILLAN COMPANY +1916 + +_All rights reserved_ + + + + +COPYRIGHT, 1916, + +BY THE MACMILLAN COMPANY. + + +Set up and electrotyped. Published June, 1916. + + +Norwood Press +J.S. Cushing Co.--Berwick & Smith Co. +Norwood, Mass., U.S.A. + + + + +To + +THE MEMORY OF + +DR. PRINCE A. MORROW + +WHOSE GREAT FAITH IN THE ESSENTIAL GOODNESS OF HUMAN +NATURE LED HIM TO BELIEVE THAT THE PROBLEMS OF +SEX HAVE ARISEN FROM IGNORANCE AND +THAT EDUCATION IS THE KEY TO +THEIR SOLUTION + + + + +PREFATORY NOTE + + +Many of the lectures printed in this volume have formed the basis of a +series given at Teachers College, Columbia University, during the +summer sessions of 1914 and 1915, and during the academic year +1914-1915. Others were addressed to parents, to groups of men, to +women's clubs, and to conferences on sex-education. In order to avoid +extensive repetition, there has been some combination and rearrangement +of lectures that originally were addressed to groups of people with +widely different outlooks on the sexual problems. + +Several years ago the late Dr. Prince A. Morrow announced that a volume +dealing with many of the timely topics of sex-education was to be +prepared by the undersigned with the advice and criticism of a +committee of the American Federation for Sex-Hygiene; but even before +Dr. Morrow's death it became evident that this plan was impracticable. +Three members (Morrow, Balliet, Bigelow) of the original committee +collaborated in a report presented at the XV International Congress on +Hygiene and Demography. Since that time the writer, working +independently, has found it desirable to reorganize completely the +original outline announced by Dr. Morrow. + +In accordance with a declaration made voluntarily in a conversation +with Dr. Morrow, the author considers himself pledged to devote all +royalties from this book to the movement for sex-education. + +Among the many persons to whom is due acknowledgment of helpfulness in +the preparation of this book, the author is especially indebted for +suggestions to the late Dr. Prince A. Morrow, to Dr. William F. Snow, +Secretary of the American Social Hygiene Association, and to Dr. Edward +L. Keyes, Jr., President of the Society of Sanitary and Moral +Prophylaxis; for constructive criticism, to his colleagues, Professor +Jean Broadhurst and Miss Caroline E. Stackpole, of Teachers College, +who have read carefully both the original lectures and the completed +manuscript; and to Olive Crosby Whitin (Mrs. Frederick H. Whitin), +executive secretary of the Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, +who has suggested and criticized helpfully both as a reader of the +manuscript and as an auditor of many of the lectures delivered at +Teachers College. + + M.A.B. + + TEACHERS COLLEGE, + COLUMBIA UNIVERSITY, + December 28, 1915. + + + + +SUMMARY OF CONTENTS + + + PAGE + + I. THE MEANING, NEED, AND SCOPE OF SEX-EDUCATION 1 + + § 1. Sex-education and its relation to sex-hygiene and + social hygiene. § 2. The misunderstanding of sex. § 3. The + need of sex-instruction. § 4. The scope of sex-education. + + II. THE PROBLEMS FOR SEX-EDUCATION 28 + + § 5. Sex problems and the need of special knowledge. § 6. + First problem: Personal sex-hygiene. § 7. Second problem: + Social diseases. § 8. Third problem: Social evil. § 9. + Fourth problem: Illegitimacy. § 10. Fifth problem: Sexual + morality. § 11. Sixth problem: Sexual vulgarity. § 12. + Seventh problem: Marriage. § 13. Eighth Problem: Eugenics. + § 14. Summary. + + III. ORGANIZATION OF EDUCATIONAL ATTACK ON THE SEX PROBLEMS 90 + + § 15. The task of sex-education. § 16. The aims of + sex-education. § 17. The aims as the basis of organized + sex-instruction. + + IV. THE TEACHER OF SEX-KNOWLEDGE 108 + + § 18. Who should give sex-instruction? § 19. The child's + first teachers of sex-knowledge. § 20. Selecting teachers + for class instruction. § 21. Certain undesirable teachers + for special hygienic and ethical instruction. + + V. BOOKS AS TEACHERS CONCERNING SEX AND LIFE 121 + + § 22. Value and danger of special sex-books for young + people. § 23. General literature and sex problems. § 24. + Dangers in literature on sexual abnormality. + + VI. SEX-INSTRUCTION FOR PRE-ADOLESCENT YEARS 133 + + § 25. Elementary instruction and influence. § 26. Hygienic + and educational treatment of unhealthful habits. + + VII. SEX-INSTRUCTION FOR EARLY ADOLESCENT YEARS 146 + + § 27. The biological foundations. § 28. Scientific facts + for boys. § 29. Scientific facts for girls. + +VIII. SPECIAL SEX-INSTRUCTION FOR ADOLESCENT BOYS AND YOUNG MEN 156 + + § 30. Developing attitude towards womanhood. § 31. + Developing ideals of love and marriage. § 32. Reasons for + pre-marital continence. § 33. Essential knowledge + concerning prostitution. § 34. Need of refinement of men. + § 35. Dancing as a sex problem for men. § 36. Dress of women + as a sex problem for men. § 37. The problem of self-control + for young men. § 38. The mental side of a young man's + sexual life. + + IX. SPECIAL INSTRUCTION FOR MATURING YOUNG WOMEN 184 + + § 39. The young woman's attitude towards manhood. § 40. The + young woman's attitude towards love and marriage. § 41. + Reasons for pre-marital continence of young women. § 42. + Need of optimistic and æsthetic views of sex by women. + § 43. Other problems for young women. + + X. CRITICISMS OF SEX-EDUCATION 203 + + § 44. A plea for reticence--Agnes Repplier. § 45. A plea + for religious approach--Cosmo Hamilton. § 46. The conflict + between sex-hygiene and sex-ethics--Richard Cabot § 47. The + arrogance of the advocates of sex-education--William H. + Maxwell. § 48. Lubricity in education--W.H. Taft. § 49. + Conclusions from the criticisms of sex-education. + + XI. THE PAST AND THE FUTURE OF THE SEX-EDUCATION MOVEMENT 227 + + § 50. The American movement. § 51. Important steps. § 52. + The future of the larger sex-education. + + XII. SOME BOOKS FOR SEX-EDUCATION 238 + + INDEX 249 + + + + +I + +THE MEANING, NEED, AND SCOPE OF SEX-EDUCATION + + +§ 1. _Sex-education and Its Relation to Sex-hygiene and Social Hygiene_ + +[Sidenote: Definition of sex-education.] + +Sex-education in its largest sense includes all scientific, ethical, +social, and religious instruction and influence which directly and +indirectly may help young people prepare to solve for themselves the +problems of sex that inevitably come in some form into the life of +every normal human individual. Note the carefully guarded phrase "help +young people prepare to solve for themselves the problems of sex", for, +like education in general, special sex-education cannot possibly do +more than help the individual prepare to face the problems of life. + +[Sidenote: More than sex-hygiene.] + +Now, sex-education as thus defined is more extensive than sex-hygiene, +which term was originally applied to instruction concerning sex. +Sex-hygiene obviously refers to health as influenced by sexual +processes, and as such it is a convenient subdivision of the science of +health. It would be quite satisfactory as a name for popular +instruction concerning sex if that were strictly, or even primarily, +hygienic; but in a later lecture it will be shown that the most +desirable sex-instruction is only in a minor part a problem of hygiene. +I realize that this statement may be declared heretical by many of the +present-day advocates of sex-hygiene, because they have approached this +latest educational movement from the standpoint of physical health, and +especially because their attention has been drawn to the very common +occurrence of pathological conditions. Nevertheless, the sexual +problems of our times do not all affect physical health, which hygiene +aims to conserve; and the sex-educational movement will be quite +inadequate without great stress upon certain ethical, social, and other +aspects of sex. Young people need instruction that relates not only to +health but also to attitude and to morals as these three are influenced +by sexual instincts and relationships. This idea will be developed +later, but I anticipate here simply to suggest the point of view of the +statement that "sex-hygiene" is altogether too limited as a general +designation for the desirable instruction concerning sex. The continued +use of the term "sex-hygiene," now that the scope of the desirable +sex-instruction has been extended far beyond the accepted limits of the +science of health, is tending to cause confusion. The educational +problems will be more definite and the support of the intelligent +public more assured if we limit the use of "sex-hygiene" to the +specific problems of health as affected by sexual processes and cease +trying to make it include those phases of sex-instruction which have +nothing directly to do with health. + +Two general terms, "sex-instruction" and "sex-education," are available +as all-inclusive designations of the desirable instruction concerning +any aspects of sex. They are quite free from the above objections to +"sex-hygiene," and it is highly desirable that they should be used in +all educational discussions where there is no specific reference to the +problems of health. Sex-hygiene will be used in these lectures only +when there is some direct reference to health as influenced by the +sexual functions. + +[Sidenote: Social hygiene.] + +Social hygiene in its complete sense means the great general movement +for the improvement of the conditions of life in all lines in which +there is social ill health or need of social reform; but it is often +limited to the sexual aspect of the unfortunate and unfavorable +conditions of life, and it has been proposed to adopt the term "social +hygiene" as a substitute that avoids the word "sex" in sex-hygiene. For +this reason it has been incorporated into the names of several +societies that are interested in sex-hygiene (_e.g._, the American +Social Hygiene Association). Probably the relation of sex-hygiene to +the so-called "social evil" has suggested the use of social hygiene in +its most limited sense. It will be unfortunate if this usage becomes so +prominent that we think of the health problems of society as chiefly +sexual, for the larger outlook of Ellis's "Task of Social Hygiene" is +desirable. Likewise, the phrase "social evil" in the sense of sexual +evil misleadingly suggests that the only evil of society is the sexual +one, but this evasive designation is being supplanted by the more +definite and franker word "prostitution." + +It should be noted that "social hygiene" as a substitute for +"sex-hygiene" is narrower in that it does not include the personal +problems of health as affected by sexual processes. This is a serious +omission, for certainly all sex-hygiene taught before the later +adolescent years should be personal and not social. + +[Sidenote: Phases of sex-education.] + +The relation of sex-hygiene or social hygiene as a limited phase of +sex-education is shown by the following outline: + + { sex-hygiene (personal, | for sexual health + { social) | + { | + { biology (including | for attitude + { physiology) of | regarding sex, + { reproduction | and for important + { | scientific facts + { | +In the broadest { heredity and eugenics | for sexual conduct +outlook, sex-education { | leading to race +(or sex-instruction) { | improvement +includes: { | + { ethics and sociology | for sexual conduct + { of sex | + { | + { psychology of sex | for sexual health + { | and conduct + { | + { æsthetics of sex | for attitude + +[Sidenote: Sex and reproduction.] + +Since the original purpose of sex was perpetuation of plant and animal +species, and since in the study of biology the idea of sex is +illustrated and developed by examination of the reproductive processes +in various types, it has been customary for many writers on +sex-education to use the terms "sex" and "reproduction" as if they were +synonymous. This is no longer so in human life; for while reproduction +is a sexual process, sexual activities and influences are often quite +unrelated to reproduction. In fact, most of the big problems that have +made sex-education desirable, if not necessary, are problems of sex +apart from reproduction. It therefore seems clear that, while studies +of reproduction are prominent in sex-education, they should be regarded +as introductory to the problems of sex, especially for young people. + + +§ 2. _The Misunderstanding of Sex_ + +[Sidenote: Objection to word "sex."] + +Some educators have expressed the wish that some one might suggest a +satisfactory substitute for the terms "sex-hygiene" and +"sex-education," omitting the word "sex." This word and its companion +"sexual" are objectionable because they are associated in the minds of +most people with vulgar interpretation of the physical aspects of the +beginning of individual life, and much of the opposition to the +proposed sex-instruction in home and schools is evidently based on the +feeling that the very word "sex" involves something inherently vulgar. + +[Sidenote: Definite words necessary.] + +It is probable that many decades will pass before the majority of +intelligent people cease to feel that the words "sex" and "sexual" have +had such vulgar associations that they should be kept out of our +everyday vocabulary, but I can see no hope of developing an improved +attitude towards the sexual aspect of human life if we continue to +admit that we are afraid of the necessary words. It seems to me that in +one decade there has been a great advance in that the scientific +writers and speakers on problems of sex have been using words which +definitely and directly express the desired meanings, and have avoided +the suggestive circumlocutions which characterize many modern realistic +novels. One who does not already appreciate the serious impressiveness +of cold scientific language in discussion of sexual problems should +take one of the indecently suggestive paragraphs from stories in the +most notoriously vulgar of the fifteen-cent magazines, and translate +the meaning of the paragraph into direct and definite words. The result +will be complete loss of the stealthy suggestiveness which has made +concealed sexuality so dangerously attractive to the type of mind that +revels in the modern sex-problem novels. We want no such suggestive +concealment in a scheme of sex-education, for it aims at a purer and +higher understanding of sex in human life. We must have direct and +definite and dignified scientific language, and among the necessary +words none are as essential as "sex" and "sexual." We must use them +freely if attitude towards sex is to be improved; and their dignified +and scientific usage will gradually dispel the embarrassment which many +unfortunate people now experience when these words remind them that the +perpetuation of life in all its higher forms has been intrusted to the +coöperation of two kinds, or sexes, of individuals. + +Thus viewing the objections which have been raised against the use of +the word "sex" in the educational movement, I have shifted my first +stand with the opposition until now I favor the frank and dignified use +of this and similar words on appropriate occasions. I believe that +those interested in the search for solutions of the vital problems of +sex should quietly but systematically work to include the words "sex" +and "sexual" in the dignified and scientific vocabulary needed by all +people to express the newer and nobler interpretations of the +relationships between men and women. + +[Sidenote: No "sex" studies.] + +Of course, this does not mean that sex, either as a word or as a fact +of nature, should be over-emphasized with people who are too young to +appreciate the fundamental facts of life. As already suggested, it is +not desirable that any parts of the curricula for schools should be +known to the pupils as "sex" studies; but we need such terms as +"sex-hygiene" and "sex-instruction" to indicate to teachers and parents +that certain parts of the education of the children are being directed +towards a healthy, natural and wholesome relation to sex. + +[Sidenote: "Sex" and "love."] + +It is absurd to suppose that the free, dignified, and scientific use of +the word "sex" is going to make people more sensual, more uncontrolled, +and more immoral. There is much more reason for fearing the free use of +the word "love," which has both psychical and physical meanings so +confused that often only the context of sentences enables one to +determine which meaning is intended. In fact, many writers and speakers +seek to avoid all possible misunderstanding by using the word +"affection" for psychical love. Now, in spite of such confusion, and +the fact that to many people the word "love" in connection with sex +suggests only gross sensuality, we continue to use it freely and it is +one of the first words taught to children. Why then do we not hear +protests against using the word "love"? Simply because we have been +from childhood accustomed to the word, first in its psychical sense, +and it is only later that most of us have learned that it has a sensual +meaning to some people. In short, familiarity with the word "love" in +its psychical sense has bred in us a contempt for those who mistake the +physical basis of love for love in its combined physical and psychical +completeness. + +[Sidenote: Meaning of sex.] + +To many it is surprising to find that the word "sex" has never been +used in such degraded connections as has the word "love," and that it +has not been half so much misunderstood. There is no obvious vulgarity +in the lexicographer's definitions of the word "sex." It simply means, +as the science of biology points out so clearly, that the perpetuation +of human life, and of most other species of life, has been intrusted to +pairs of individuals which are of the two kinds commonly called the +sexes, male and female. Why nature determined that each new life in the +vast majority of species should develop from two other lives has long +been a biological puzzle, and most satisfactory of the answers given is +that bi-parental origin of new individuals allows for new combinations +of heritable qualities from two lines of descent. However, such a +biological explanation of the relation of the two sexes to double +parentage is of relatively little practical significance in present-day +human life when compared with the fact that out of the necessity for +life's perpetuation by two coöperating individuals there has grown +psychical or spiritual love with all its splendid possibilities that +are evident in ideal family life. Moreover, the influence of sex in +human life has extended far beyond the family (that is, that group of +individuals who stand related to one another as husband, wife, parents, +and children), for it is a careless observer indeed who does not note +in our daily life many social and psychical relationships of men and +women who have no mutual interests relating to the biological processes +of race perpetuation. Of course, the psychologist recognizes that far +back of the platonic contact of the sexes on social and intellectual +lines is the suppressed and primal instinct that provides physical +unions for race perpetuation. However, this is of no practical +interest, for, as a matter of fact, the primal instincts are quite +subconscious in the usual social relations between the sexes. + +[Sidenote: The larger view of sex.] + +There is grandeur in this view of sex as originally a provision for +perpetuation of life by two coöperating individuals, later becoming the +basis of conjugal affection of the two individuals for each other and +of their parental affection for their offspring, and finally leading to +social and intellectual comradeship of men and women meeting on terms +which are practically free from the original and biological meaning of +sex. + +Instead, then, of trying to keep sex, both word and fact, in the +background of the new educational movement, I believe it is best to +work definitely for a better understanding of the part which sex plays +in human life, as outlined in the preceding paragraph. Hence, in these +lectures I shall never go aside in order to avoid either the word or +the idea of sex; on the contrary, I shall attempt to direct the +discussion so as to emphasize the larger and very modern view of the +relationship of sex and human life. + +[Sidenote: The many-sided bearings of sex.] + +In this first lecture I want to make it clear that the rôle of sex in +human life is vastly greater than that directly involved in sexual +activity. I shall in several lectures touch the big problems from the +standpoint of the sexual instincts as these play an important part in +social, psychical, and æsthetic life even if they are rarely exercised, +physiologically, or if, as in millions of individuals, they never come +to mean more than possibilities of sexual activity for which +opportunities in marriage do not come. I am especially anxious to avoid +the narrow viewpoint of numerous writers on sex-hygiene who seem to +overlook the fact that sexual functioning is only a prominent incident +in the cycle of sexual influences in the lives of most people. Human +life, and especially marriage, should no longer be regarded from the +mere biological point of view as for the sole purpose of reproductive +activity. It is a far more uplifting view that the conscious or +unconscious existence of the sexual instincts, with or without +occasional activity, affords the fundamental physical basis for states +of mind that may profoundly affect the whole course of life in every +normal man and woman. + +Supplementary to this section on the "Misunderstanding of Sex," I +suggest the reading of Chapters I-VI of "Sex" by Geddes and Thomson, +the "Problems of Sex" by the same authors, and Chapter VI in "The +Wonder of Life" by Thomson. + + +§ 3. _The Need of Sex-Instruction_ + +[Sidenote: The old silence and the new enlightenment.] + +The time-honored policy has been one of silence and mystery concerning +all things sexual. Everything in that line has long been considered +impure and degraded and, therefore, the less said and the less known, +the better, especially for young people. Such has been the almost +universal attitude of parents until within the present century, when +many have awakened to the fact that the policy of silence has been a +gigantic failure, because it has not preserved purity and innocence and +because it has allowed grave evils, both hygienic and moral, to develop +under the cloak of secrecy. + +[Sidenote: Children will not remain ignorant.] + +"I don't believe in teaching my boys and girls any facts concerning +sex. I prefer to keep them innocent until they have grown up." In these +decisive words a prominent woman closed a statement of her firm +conviction that the world-wide movement for the sex-instruction of +young people is a stupendous mistake. Poor deluded mother! How does she +expect to keep her children ignorant of the world of life around them? +Is she planning to transplant them to a deserted island where they may +grow up innocently? Or is she going to keep the children in some +cloister within whose walls there will be immunity from the +contamination of the great busy world outside? Or is she going to have +them guarded like crown princes, and if so, where are absolutely safe +guards to be found? Such are the questions which rush into the minds of +those who have studied the problem of keeping children ignorant of the +most significant facts of life. It is usually an easy matter to protect +children against smallpox and typhoid and some other diseases, but no +parent or educator has yet found out how we may be sure to keep real +live children ignorant of sex knowledge. They seem to absorb such +forbidden facts as naturally and as freely as the air they breathe. +Ask any large group of representative men--ministers, or doctors, or +teachers, or men of business, or the world's toilers--whether any of +them knew the essential facts of sexual life before they were twelve +years of age, and ninety-seven in every hundred will answer quickly in +the affirmative. Ask any large group of women, excepting those whose +girlhood has been guarded with exceptional care, and the overwhelming +majority will acknowledge that they knew the essential facts before +they were fifteen years old. Once more, ask these same men and women +whether their early knowledge of sex came from pure and reliable +sources or from vulgar playmates and depraved servants; and with rare +exceptions it is found that vulgarity made the strongest impression in +the first lessons concerning the great facts of life. Such being the +truth, it is nonsense for parents to sit in complacency because they +feel sure that their children are safely protected against any vulgar +first lessons concerning sex; for no one can know that children are +safely guarded from others who may corrupt their innocent minds. As an +illustration, a few years ago the mothers of a group of little girls in +one of the best-managed private schools felt that with careful +supervision both in school and home there was no danger of forbidden +knowledge reaching the children. But one day a new pupil innocently +exhibited to her mother a miniature notebook with unprintable notes on +sexual topics. The resulting investigation revealed a secret club +organized by the pupils for the purpose of passing to each member +through notebooks all newly acquired information, which had a peculiar +value because it must be kept secret from teachers and parents. That +club had been in existence during two school years. This is only a +sample case of many which have proved that if children are allowed the +freedom that developing individuality demands, their mothers must not +feel too sure that their darlings are protected against knowledge of +life, and perhaps of life in its most degraded aspects. + +[Sidenote: The vital question for parents.] + +Here, then, is the fact that every parent should ponder seriously: +Normal children are almost certain to get sexual information not later +than the early adolescent years, and usually from unreliable and vulgar +sources. It is, therefore, not a question whether children of school +ages should be taught the important facts of sex, but whether parents +and trained teachers rather than playmates and other unreliable persons +should be the instructors. Which will parents choose for their own +children? Thousands of intelligent parents have already faced this +question, and have decided that their children shall have early +sex-instruction in home or school or both in order that there will be +little danger of vulgar impressions taking a deep hold on child minds. + +Granted, then, that children should be given some reliable instruction +concerning things sexual, who should be the teacher, what should be +taught, and when should the instruction be given? These are the +fundamental questions now being considered by the parents and educators +who have accepted sex-education as necessary. Upon the final answers to +such questions the decision of many parents will depend. I shall +attempt to answer them in later lectures. + +[Sidenote: Sex mystery has prevented progress.] + +The policy of maintaining mystery and secrecy concerning sex has failed +with adults even more sadly than with children. Health and morals have +suffered incalculable injury. The sexual evils of our time are not as +bad as were those of the ancient civilizations, but we have little +reason to be proud of the slight progress made. But why should we +expect the human to make progress when sexual problems have been kept +in darkness? The wonder is that, with the prevailing dark outlook on +sexual life throughout the past nineteen centuries, the world has not +developed more sexual vice. Innate animalistic appetites have tended to +lead downward, and surely the policy of silence has offered no +counteracting influence towards higher living. While religion and +ethics, by means of certain rules of conduct, have maintained certain +sexual standards, they have not kept vast numbers of humans from +falling far below those standards into utter degradation. The modern +teachers of religion and ethics have prevented general sexual +degradation, but they have failed to give human sexuality any decided +uplift. The reason for this failure is the policy of mystery and +silence. The teachers of religion and ethics have preferred to let +general and more or less abstruse rules govern conduct in sexual lines. +Until recent years there have been few sermons in which common sexual +problems have been presented so that the preacher's meaning has been +clear to all. On the contrary, there has been universal mystery and +evasion concerning the greatest facts of life. + +[Sidenote: Sexual instincts offer no guidance.] + +Many people have justified the mystery thrown around sexual processes +on the theory that the reproductive instincts of mature people are +sufficient guides for conduct. This involves a misunderstanding of +sexual instincts of the higher mammals which are often unscientifically +cited as models for human imitation. In these animals sexual union is +instinctively determined, because normally the sexual hunger or +excitement of both sexes is stimulated and controlled by the +physiological condition of the female at the times favorable for +fertilization (_i.e._, at the oestrual periods). For example, a pair of +dogs living in close companionship show signs of mutual sexual desires +only for a few days at the semi-annual oestrual or fertile periods of +the female. It occasionally happens that the males of various wild and +domesticated mammals exhibit signs of automatic sexual excitement +(_i.e._, not caused by the stimulus arising from the physiological +condition of the female); but in such cases of male excitement outside +of the mating or oestrual periods, the normal females invariably offer +instinctive opposition to attempted union by abnormally or +automatically excited males. Thus, directly and indirectly, there is +instinctive control and limitation of sexual union among the animals +that are most closely related to the human race. + +It is biologically possible that similar conditions may have existed in +the earliest human life, but that is pure speculation and has no +bearing on the practical problems of sex in human life to-day. The fact +is that the simple physiological stimuli which produce sexual +excitement in both sexes of animals have practically no influence in +determining human sexual union. On the contrary, memory associations +consciously connected with the opposite sex, especially those +associations that are centered in affection, may at any time in the +normal individual of either human sex afford the basis for a chain of +mental states leading to sexual excitement and union. There is not, as +in the animals, instinctive dependence on the physiological conditions +that are favorable for fertilization. In fact, spontaneous +physiological demands play in civilized human life a minor part in +initiating sexual excitement. The reason why some humans seem to have +unusual sexual intensity is not so much a matter of exceptionally +strong sexuality as of susceptibility to the numerous sexual stimuli +with which modern life abounds. For this reason, a man who has formed +lewd memory associations is more susceptible to sexual stimulations, +_e.g._, by obscene pictures, vulgar words, unusual dress or actions of +women, close physical association as in dancing, and certain forms of +music. It is not at all uncommon that individuals who are +hyper-sensitive to sexually suggestive stimuli are really functionally +weak. + +[Sidenote: Intelligent control only.] + +It follows from the facts outlined above that instinctive control of +sexual actions applies to animals but not to human life. On the +contrary, human control must be on the basis of intelligent choice. +This means the greatest task of human life, for it requires voluntary +control of instinctive demands which are intensified by numerous +stimuli or temptations that are exclusively human. No wonder that +natural sex hunger left uncontrolled leads human beings to excesses and +degradation that no species of animals with their guiding instincts +could possibly reach. + +[Sidenote: Individual responsibility.] + +The absence from human life of any instinctive control of sexual +actions leaves a great responsibility on each individual whose natural +desires lead impulsively and insistently towards sexual union and must +be restrained, controlled, and directed by voluntary choice. In short, +all individuals who are intelligent beings are personally responsible +for voluntary control of their sexual desires with reference to the +ethical, social, and eugenic interests and rights of all other +individuals now and in the future. + +[Sidenote: Sexual knowledge necessary.] + +With such an understanding of instincts in relation to human sexual +actions, we cannot wonder that the old policy of mystery has failed so +completely. Since human beings are left to control the most powerful +appetite by intelligence, it is evident that a policy based on silence, +ignorance, and mystery must fail. The only safe and sure road to the +needed control of sexual actions is to be found in knowledge, and the +widespread recognition of this fact has led to the new movement for +general enlightenment regarding sexual processes in their various +relations to human life. + +[Sidenote: Education as a solution of sex problems.] + +It is not surprising that we have turned to seek an educational +solution for the problems of sex. Education has become the modern +panacea for many of our ills--hygienic, industrial, political, and +social. We have found people losing health for various reasons and we +have proposed hygienic instruction as a prophylactic. We have analyzed +many problems of the industries, and now we are beginning to seek their +solution in industrial education. We have noted that numerous social +and political misunderstandings check progress of individuals and +nations, and we are coming to think the pathway upwards is to be found +in better knowledge of social and political science. And, in like +manner, in every phase of this modern life of ours we are looking to +knowledge as the key to all significant problems. It is truly the age +of education, not simply the education offered in schools and colleges, +but education in the larger sense, including the learning of useful +knowledge from all sources whatsoever. + +With such unbounded confidence in the all-sufficiency of education, it +is most natural that we should turn to it in these times when we have +come to realize the existence of amazing sexual problems caused either +by ignorant misuse, or by deliberate abuse, of the sexual functions +which biologically are intrusted with the perpetuation of human life +and which psychologically are the source of human affection in its +supreme forms. If education is to solve the civic, hygienic, and +industrial problems of to-day and to-morrow, why should it not also +help with the age-old sexual evils? So reasoning, we have naturally +turned to education as one, but not the only, method of attack on the +sexual problems which have degraded and devitalized human life of all +past times, but which somehow have kept out of the limelight of +publicity until our own times. + + +§ 4. _The Scope of Sex-education_ + +[Sidenote: Sex-education is not primarily for schools.] + +It is well to make clear in this first lecture that no one proposes to +limit sex-instruction to schools and colleges. We may safely leave +mathematics and writing and even reading to schools, but sex-education +will fail unless the schools can get the coöperation of the homes, the +churches, the Y.M.C.A., the Y.W.C.A., the W.C.T.U., the Boy Scouts, the +Camp Fire Girls, and other organizations which aim to reach young +people socially, religiously, and ethically. The part which these have +already taken in the sex-education movement is in the aggregate far +more important than what the schools have been able to accomplish. +Sex-education, then, should be understood as including all serious +instruction--no matter where or when or by whom given--which aims to +help young people face the problems that normal sexual processes bring +to every life. + +[Sidenote: Sex-instruction impossible in most homes.] + +In a later lecture I shall urge the importance of beginning +sex-instruction in the home. There are some parents who wish that it +were possible not only to begin but also to end it there, for they fear +that public instruction will lead to a weakening of a certain sense of +reserve and privacy that has long been considered sacred to the best +family life. Perhaps this has some truth, but we must remember that +only in rare homes are there such ideal relationships of parents to +each other and to their offspring that matters of sex are sacred to the +family circle. The fact which parents and educators must face is that +there are now relatively few homes in which there is one parent able to +begin the elementary instruction of young children; and, therefore, as +a practical matter for the best interests of the vast majority of young +people, we must consider ways and means for instruction outside of most +homes. This need not interfere in the least with the parents who are +able and willing to give sex-instruction to the children, for the home +instruction will naturally anticipate that which the schools must give +for the pupils who are not properly instructed at home. It seems to me +to be a situation like that of children learning to read at home and +later continuing reading at school. Sex-instruction begun at home will +form the child's attitude and give him some elementary information, and +later he may profitably learn more in the same lines in the class work +of school, especially in connection with science instruction for which +few homes have facilities. Moreover, it is quite possible that one +instructed at home in childhood may gain from later school instruction +something of great social value, for we must remember that the problems +of sex which most demand attention are not individual, but social. +Hence, it may be worth while for the home-instructed individual to +learn through class instruction that people outside the home look +seriously upon knowledge concerning sexual processes, and that every +individual's life must be adjusted to other lives, that is, to society. + +Summarizing, it appears that however desirable home instruction +regarding sex may be, the majority of parents are not able and willing +to undertake the work, and so the public educational system and +organizations for social and religious work should provide a scheme of +instruction which will make sure that all young people will have an +opportunity to get the most helpful information for the guidance of +their lives. + +[Sidenote: Caution in school instruction.] + +[Sidenote: Parents' co-operation.] + +In order to gain the serious attention of those who believe themselves +unalterably opposed to school instruction regarding things sexual, I +anticipate a later discussion and mention in this connection that +there must be great caution in all attempts at school teaching that +directly touches human sexual life. It would be a dangerous experiment +to introduce sex-instruction into all schools by sudden legislation. +There must be specially trained teachers of selected personality and +tact. No existing high school has enough such teachers, and in the +grammar schools where the pupils are at the age when proper instruction +would influence them most, the problem of general class instruction is +absolutely unsolved. Only here and there in schools below the high +school has a teacher or principal of rare quality made satisfactory +experimental teaching. So uncertain are we at present regarding how we +should approach the problem of teaching grammar-school children that +the only safe advice for general use is that teachers, or preferably +principals, should begin with parents' conferences led by one who is a +conservative expert on sex-instruction. Were I principal of a school +with pupils from, say, two hundred and fifty homes, I should begin at +once to organize conferences designed to awaken the parents to the need +of sex-instruction for their children, and to the importance of making +at least a beginning in the homes. I should expect, according to the +experience of others, that of the five hundred parents, two hundred +mothers and fifty fathers would take an interest in the conferences, +and that at least one hundred fathers too busy for meetings would +approve heartily after hearing reports from their wives. Thus, I +should try to reach the majority of homes represented in my school. I +should be in no hurry to introduce class instruction--I mean +instruction related directly to human life; but, of course, I should +encourage my teachers to emphasize the life-histories of animals and +plants in the nature-study, and so lay in the pupils' minds a firm +foundation for later connection between human life and all life. At the +same time, I should keep my teachers on the lookout for individual +pupils or groups that might need special attention and, if such be +found, I should seek the coöperation of their parents. And finally, +after a year or two of co-working with parents, I should hope to get +permission for special talks based on nature-study and hygiene. These +talks should first be given to limited groups of pupils, preferably in +the presence of some parents who are interested and who have given +their children some home instruction. Working along such conservative +lines, I believe a tactful principal of a grammar school might succeed +in developing much of the needed instruction for pre-adolescent pupils. + +[Sidenote: Instruction in high schools.] + +With regard to high-school pupils, we should remember that nine-tenths +of the desirable information is already included in the biology of our +best high schools. The remaining tenth is that which connects all life +with human life; and this requires tact and exceptional skill. However, +the high schools no longer offer an insoluble problem, for many +teachers have succeeded in giving the desirable instruction to the +satisfaction of critical principals and parents. + +[Sidenote: Sex-education from early childhood to maturity.] + +There is a widespread impression that sex-instruction should begin with +the approach of adolescence and soon be completed. This idea is often +expressed by parents and even by prominent educators who say that the +father or teacher ought "to take the boy of thirteen aside and tell him +some things he ought to know." Still others have the same point of view +when they advocate that a physician should be called for a lecture to +high-school boys. In fact, most people who have not seriously studied +the problems of sex-education seem to believe that one concentrated +dose of sex-instruction in adolescent years is sufficient guidance for +young people. + +Such limited personal instruction might suffice if sex-education were +limited to sex-hygiene. A few hygienic commands in pre-adolescent years +and one impressive talk in early puberty might teach the boy or girl +how not to interfere with health; but it is improbable that such brief +instruction will make a permanent impression which will insure hygienic +practice of the precepts laid down. If we hold that sex-hygiene is +important, then it must be drilled into the learner from several points +of view. An isolated lesson on any topic of general hygiene is of very +doubtful efficiency. + +[Sidenote: Brief instruction does not fix attitude.] + +The most important reason why sex-instruction should not be +concentrated in a short period of youth is that it is impossible to +exert the most desirable influence upon health, attitude, and morals +except by instruction beginning in early childhood and graded for each +period of life up to maturity. Most young people who in early +adolescence receive their first lessons from parents and teachers have +already had their attitude formed by their playmates. Even their morals +may become corrupted and their health irreparably injured several years +before puberty. The only sure pathway to health, attitude, and morals +is in beginning with young children and instructing them as gradually +as the problems of sex come forward. + +[Sidenote: Sex-instruction after youth.] + +The greatest possible good of sex-education will not be secured if it +stops with early adolescent years. There are many problems of sex in +relation to society, particularly in relation to monogamic marriage, +that young people should be led to consider in the late teens and early +twenties. Our sex-education system will not be completely organized +until we find ways and means for carrying the instruction by lectures, +conferences, and books beyond the years commonly occupied by +public-school education. Colleges and other higher educational +institutions may contribute somewhat to this advanced sex-instruction; +but obviously the great majority of maturing young people cannot be +reached personally except by instruction arranged in churches, the +Y.M.C.A., and the Y.W.C.A., evening schools, and other such +institutions. In many respects this proposed instruction for maturing +young people is of very great importance and deserves encouragement +such as has not yet been given by those who have written and lectured +in favor of a movement for sex-education of young people. + +[Sidenote: The larger sex-education.] + +In conclusion of this introductory lecture, let me say that I have +tried to suggest in a general survey that sex-education in its largest +outlook touches great problems of life in very many ways. I have also +tried to convince that it is far more than merely a school subject, +limited entirely to a curriculum extended over a few years. This is the +common misunderstanding arising from the familiar use of the word +"education." As opposed to this narrow conception, I understand +sex-education, the larger sex-education, to be a collective term +designating all organized effort, both in and out of schools, toward +instructing and influencing young people with regard to the problems of +sex. Here we have returned to the central thought of the definition +with which this lecture opened, and which I emphasize because it is the +foundation of all future lectures: The larger sex-education includes +all scientific, ethical, social, and religious instruction and +influence which in any way may help young people prepare to meet the +problems of life in relation to sex. + + + + +II + +THE PROBLEMS FOR SEX-EDUCATION + + +§ 5. _Sex Problems and the Need of Special Knowledge_ + +[Sidenote: Arguments for sex-education.] + +In these lectures I shall discuss the great sex problems towards the +solution of which knowledge conveyed by special education may help. +These problems offer reasons or arguments in favor of sex-education, +and I shall attempt to present them from this point of view. I shall at +the same time point out in preliminary outline how organized +instruction may apply more or less directly to the sex problems that +seem to show the need of educational attack, but in later lectures the +organization of instruction will be considered more specifically. + +[Sidenote: Propagandism needed.] + +In reviewing the literature that during the past decade has advocated +sex-education, it has seemed to me that there is left little +possibility of any decidedly new and important contribution to the +arguments favoring such instruction, for the whole case has been +splendidly presented by eminent writers in the fields of medicine, +biology, sociology, and ethics. It now appears that the great majority +of educators, scientists, and intelligent citizens in general have +accepted the arguments for sex-instruction, so far as they have been +informed concerning the meaning and need of the movement; and this +leads me to the belief that in the future we need not new arguments but +frequent restatements of the established facts which indicate the +importance of widespread knowledge regarding the function that is +inseparably connected with the perpetuation of life. In short, we now +need a propagandism for extending the sex-education movement among the +masses of people. + +For those who have already accepted sex-education, a survey of the +facts that created a demand for sex-instruction will give a clearer +outlook on the movement. The rapid increase of interest in +sex-education has been the result of widespread dissemination of +convincing facts concerning some common disharmonies that grow out of +the sexual problems of the human race. These facts which have led to +sex-education should be kept in mind by all who wish to understand or +to play a part in the instruction of young people. + +It is quite unnecessary, and still more undesirable, to recite at +length in these lectures the social, medical, and psycho-pathological +facts concerning abnormal or perverted sexual processes. Fortunately, +the educational ends may be gained by a general review that points out +the bearings of the main lines of the sexual problems, the +misunderstandings and mistakes that education may help prevent and +correct. + +[Sidenote: Parents should know reasons for sex-instruction.] + +It is important that the general public, especially the parents, should +understand the reasons which have induced numerous physicians, +ministers, and educators to become active advocates of systematic +sex-instruction for young people. Although the movement has made +extensive progress in the ten years of propagandic work, is probably +true that the majority of even intelligent parents are not yet +convinced that their children need sex-instruction. This is due largely +to the fact that the parents have not yet been shown the reasons why it +is now, and always has been, unsafe to allow children to gain more or +less sexual information from unreliable and vulgar sources. In fact, it +is surprising to find many parents, especially mothers, who seem unable +to grasp the idea that their "protected" children can possibly get +impure information. + +There are other parents who know that their children are almost sure to +get vulgar information regarding sexual matters, and that some young +people are likely to make sexual mistakes; but they calmly look upon +such things as part of the established order of the world. + +Still another type of parents who should know the reasons for +sex-instruction are those who accept the traditional idea that their +daughters must be kept "protected" and "innocent" while their sons are +free to sow a large field of "wild oats," concerning which society in +general, and such parents in particular, will care little as long as +social diseases, bastardy suits, or chronic alcoholism do not result +from the dissipations. These are the fathers and mothers who need the +most enlightenment concerning the importance of such sex-instruction as +will make clear the far-reaching consequences of "wild oat sowing." +Perhaps most such parents are ignorant, but some are simply +thoughtless. As an illustration of the latter, the editor of a +well-known magazine was recently talking with a prominent author and +made some reference to the immoral habits of young men. Their +conversation was essentially as follows: The author remarked, "I assume +that my boys will be boys and will have their fling before they settle +down and marry." The editor quickly replied, "Yes, and I presume that +you expect your boys to sow their wild oats with my daughters, and that +in return you will expect my sons to dissipate with your daughters. At +any rate, you have damnable designs on somebody's daughters." This put +on the wild-oat proposition a light which was apparently new to the +literary man, for he replied, "That is a phase of the young man's +problem which never occurred to me. It does sound startling when stated +in that personal way." + +All these classes of parents who have not yet learned the facts which +point to ignorance as the cause of the abundant sexual errors of young +people and those who do not understand that sexual promiscuity or +immorality is an error of gravest significance both to the individual +and to society, should have set before them time and again some of the +startling facts which in the first five years of the American +sex-education movement were promulgated among physicians, ministers, +and educators. All such ignorant or indifferent parents will not take +an interest in the proposed sex-instruction unless they are convinced +by frank and forcible statements regarding the great need of special +safeguarding of young people. + +[Sidenote: Special associations needed.] + +Since there are so many people who still need the most elementary +knowledge concerning the sexual problems that demand educational +attack, it is important that there should be local associations which +can manage lectures, publications, conferences, and other means of +informing the public as to the gravity of the sexual problems of our +times, and as to the part which sex-instruction may play in the attempt +at finding a solution. Such work is now being done splendidly by the +societies named in § 51. The magnitude of the problem of reaching the +public is such that there is abundant work for numerous branches of +such societies or for local groups willing to take a part in the needed +work. As suggested elsewhere, the success of the movement for +sex-instruction of children of school ages will depend largely upon the +attitude and coöperation of parents; and hence it is important that +parents should be led to understand the reasons or arguments for +sex-instruction. In other words, they should know the problems that +indicate the importance of enlightening the rising generation +concerning the great facts of sex and life. + +[Sidenote: Books for parents.] + +Among the numerous publications that seem to me adapted for convincing +parents that their children need instruction, I commonly mention the +following: Lowry's "False Modesty" and "Teaching Sex Hygiene," Howard's +"Start your Child Right," Wile's "Sex Education," Galloway's "Biology +of Sex," March's "Towards Racial Health," Lyttleton's "Training of the +Young in Laws of Sex," and pamphlets by Dr. Prince Morrow. See also +pages 241-243. + +[Sidenote: Knowledge needed concerning eight sex problems.] + +There are eight important sex problems of our times that offer reasons +or arguments for sex-instruction, because ignorance plays a large part +in each problem. I shall state them briefly here and discuss each in +succeeding lectures: (1) Many people, especially in youth, need +hygienic knowledge concerning sexual processes as they affect personal +health. (2) There is an alarming amount of the dangerous social +diseases which are distributed chiefly by the sexual promiscuity or +immorality of many men. (3) The uncontrolled sexual passions of men +have led to enormous development of organized and commercialized +prostitution. (4) There are living to-day tens of thousands of +unmarried mothers and illegitimate children, the result of the common +sexual irresponsibility of men and the ignorance of women. (5) There is +need of more general following of a definite moral standard regarding +sexual relationships. (6) There is a prevailing unwholesome attitude of +mind concerning all sexual processes. (7) There is very general +misunderstanding of sexual life as related to healthy and happy +marriage. (8) There is need of eugenic responsibility for sexual +actions that concern future generations. + +Here are the eight sexual problems of our times. Any one of them has +significance great enough to demand the attention of educators and +social reformers. One and all they point to the need of better +understanding regarding the sexual functions and their relation to +life. I shall now turn to outline the main facts concerning each of +these sexual problems so far as it seems likely that they will concern +educators and social workers. For convenience I shall use the following +brief headings: (1) Personal sex-hygiene, (2) social diseases, (3) +social evil, (4) illegitimacy, (5) sexual morality, (6) sexual +vulgarity, (7) sexual problems and marriage, (8) eugenics. + +[Sidenote: Historical order.] + +These sexual problems toward whose solution special instruction of +young people may help are stated here in the order in which they have +attracted attention as reasons for sex-education. Thus, for instance, +personal sex-hygiene was the chief reason recognized twenty years ago; +social diseases began to attract public attention ten years ago; +commercial prostitution has been especially prominent in the +discussions of the past five years; and only recently has there been +emphasis on sex-education with reference to eugenics. + +The historical order which I follow in this lecture is not now the +order of greatest importance. For example, sexual morality (5) and +vulgarity (6) are probably of far greater significance than any of the +other sexual problems that offer arguments for sex-education. + +[Sidenote: Not all sex problems concern youth.] + +To avoid possible misunderstanding, let me repeat from the first +lecture the proposition that sex-education should extend in home and +school from childhood to maturity. It follows that these lectures +concerning the problems of sex that seriously affect the human race are +not all applicable as arguments for instruction in schools or for +children of school age. Some of the problems of sex point to the need +of special instruction in pre-adolescent or in adolescent years, but +some of them concern directly only those who are approaching maturity. + + +§ 6. _First Problem for Sex-instruction: Personal Sex-hygiene_ + +[Sidenote: Personal and social hygiene.] + +It is convenient to group under personal sex-hygiene all hygienic +knowledge concerning sexual processes in their personal as +distinguished from their social aspects. The distinction between these +two aspects of sex-hygiene is essentially on the same basis as that +between personal and public hygiene. For example, indigestion and +overwork are matters of personal hygiene, while tuberculosis and +typhoid are problems of public hygiene because the individual case +leads through infection to disease of others. Similarly, such +individual disorders as masturbation and deranged menstruation concern +personal health directly, while venereal diseases are clearly included +in social sex-hygiene. + +[Sidenote: Personal sex-hygiene needed.] + +If there were no other reasons for sex-instruction, I believe that it +would be worth while to teach such hygienic knowledge of self and sex +as would guard young people against harmful habits and unhealthful care +of their sexual mechanisms; and which, moreover, would guide them +across the threshold of adolescence with some helpful understanding of +the significance of the metamorphosis. Many men and women suffer from +injured, if not ruined, health because they did not know, especially +between ten and fourteen years, the laws of personal sex-hygiene, which +concern health in ways not involving sexual relationship. Many boys and +some girls are injured both physically and mentally by the habit of +masturbation. Numerous girls are injured physically and many mentally +because they have not learned in advance the nature and hygiene of +menstruation. Many boys are injured both in mind and character because +they have no scientific guidance which helps them understand themselves +during the stormy transition from youth into manhood. Moreover, there +are certain simple hygienic commands that children under twelve should +receive from parents and teachers. In all these lines the bearings of +personal hygienic instruction are so obvious that we need not at this +time stop to consider in more detail this first reason or problem for +sex-instruction of young people. + + +§ 7. _Second Problem for Sex-instruction: Social Diseases_ + +[Sidenote: Recent publicity regarding vice and disease.] + +During the past decade the general public has received some astounding +revelations concerning the enormous extent of illicit sexual +promiscuity, which is immorality according to our commonly accepted +code of morals. Along with the evidence as to the existence of +widespread promiscuity, has come the still more alarming information +from the medical profession that sexual promiscuity commonly +distributes the germs of the two highly infectious and exceedingly +destructive diseases, syphilis and gonorrhea, known in medical science +as venereal or social. When these are acquired by individuals guilty of +sexual promiscuity, they seriously and often fatally affect the victim; +but of far greater social-hygienic importance is the medical evidence +that they are very often transmitted to persons innocent of any +transgression of the moral law, especially to wives and children. + +The medical revelations concerning the relation of sexual immorality to +the plague of social diseases, has come from certain eminent +physicians, notably the late Dr. Prince A. Morrow. His translation of +Fournier's "Syphilis and Marriage" (1881), his own "Social Diseases and +Marriage" (1904), and several of his pamphlets published by the +American Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, have been +authoritative statements of conditions as the medical world sees them. + +[Sidenote: Social diseases and immorality.] + +The extent of social diseases is a fairly accurate measure of the +minimum amount of immorality, for nothing is better established in +medical science than that promiscuity in sexual relations is directly +or indirectly responsible for spread of the microörganisms which cause +the diseases. If for several generations all men and women limited +their sexual relations to monogamic marriage, and the relatively rare +cases of non-sexual and prenatal infection were treated so as to render +them non-contagious, the social diseases would probably disappear from +the human family. Such a statement is significant only in showing the +relation of social diseases to sexual promiscuity, for of course, there +is no reasonable hope that the venereal germs will ever be annihilated +by universal monogamy. + +[Sidenote: Attack by education and sanitation.] + +Reduction of the amount of venereal disease must depend upon (1) +hygienic and moral education which will lead people to avoid the +sources of infection and (2) sanitary and medical science which works +either by applying antiseptic or other prophylactic methods for +preventing development of the causative microörganisms, or by using +germicides for destroying those germs which have already produced +disease. Thus the educational and the sanitary attack on the social +diseases lie parallel. Both are needed, for, even with all the possible +methods of attack, the progress against these diseases will be +exceedingly slow. + +Those who are interested in the facts relating to social diseases which +point to the need of sex-education as one method of prevention, are +referred to the pamphlets published by the American Society of Sanitary +and Moral Prophylaxis; Morrow's "Social Diseases and Marriage"; +Creighton's "The Social Disease and How to Fight It"; Dock's "Hygiene +and Morality"; Henderson's "Education with Reference to Sex"; and +certain chapters in Warbasse's "Medical Sociology." + +[Sidenote: Estimated amount of disease.] + +With regard to the accuracy of the commonly quoted statements +concerning the prevalence of social disease, and therefore of +immorality, it must be said in all fairness that there has been much +guesswork and some deliberate exaggeration. We learn from various books +and lectures that fifty, sixty-five, seventy-five and even ninety per +cent of the men in the United States over eighteen years of age are at +some time infected with at least one of the social diseases. The fact +is that there is no scientific way of getting accurate statistics, for +unlike other contagious diseases, the venereal ones are kept more or +less secret, and numerous cases cannot be discovered by health +officers. All the published figures regarding the prevalence of such +diseases are merely estimates based upon the experience of certain +physicians with special groups of men, especially in hospitals. There +is no reliable scientific evidence as to the prevalence of venereal +disease in the whole mass of our American population. + +[Sidenote: Education not concerned with percentages.] + +However, so far as education is concerned, there is nothing to be +gained by dispute as to the possible inaccuracy of the higher +percentages,[1] for it is generally admitted that probably over fifty +per cent of the men in America and Europe become infected with +gonorrhea or syphilis, or both, one or more times during their lives, +especially in early manhood. This conservative estimate is sufficient +to show that the sexual morals of probably the majority of men are at +some time in their lives loose. There is reason to believe that with +most such men the period of moral laxity is in early manhood before +marriage, which, though not excusable, is explainable on physiological +grounds. It is important to correct the wrong impression which is now +widespread, especially among women who have read the more or less +sensational statements in certain books and magazines, that the quoted +figures on social disease mean that from fifty to ninety per cent of +all men are immoral from time to time for many years. If that were +true, the situation represented by the highest estimates would be +hopeless, and we might as well start out to adjust society to a system +of recognized sexual promiscuity. Fortunately, it is far from true, for +a great many men included in even the conservative statistics of +social disease were infected because they strayed from the moral path +very few times and in many cases only once. This fact makes the outlook +for improved sexual morals and health more hopeful, for probably the +majority of young men need help in controlling themselves for a few +years only, especially between eighteen and twenty-five.[2] + +[Sidenote: Established facts.] + +The reports of medical men regarding the damage done by the social +diseases are inaccurate chiefly when they attempt to state percentages +of the whole population. They are reliable when they state observed +facts, such as the following: It is now established in medical science +that (1) gonorrheal infection results in tens of thousands of cases in +complications, such as heart disease, gonorrheal rheumatism, sterility +of both men and women, blindness of infants, inflammatory diseases of +female reproductive organs, and other well-marked sequelæ of the +disease; and (2) that syphilis is responsible for a large majority of +cases of locomotor ataxia, paresis and certain types of insanity, and +also for numerous aneurisms of arteries, many apoplexies, and much +disease of liver, kidneys, and other organs. Moreover, syphilis is +charged with being the greatest race destroyer. Fournier, the great +French specialist, noted that only two children survived from a series +of ninety pregnancies of syphilitic women of the well-to-do class. It +is probably true that much less than ten per cent of syphilitized +embryos ever grow into mature men and women, and even these few +survivors are likely to carry in their bodies the germs or the "virus" +of syphilis which may affect the next generation. + +[Sidenote: Social diseases admittedly dangerous.] + +Such direct statements as the above may be accepted as not exaggerated. +However, it little matters in sex-education, except for the purposes of +sensational writers, whether statistics regarding the damage done by +venereal diseases are more than estimates; for it is sufficient to +remember that every physician of large experience agrees that syphilis +and gonorrhea are so common and so destructive of health and life that +they must be classed among the most dangerous diseases that now +threaten the human race. This ought to be sufficient to attract the +serious attention of every thinking man and woman. + +[Sidenote: Double standard of morality.] + +Thus, in general survey, we see the great problems of social-sexual +hygiene caused by diseases that are widely distributed because sexual +instincts are uncontrolled. In short, the alarming problem of the +social diseases results from masculine promiscuity or the failure of +men to adhere to the monogamic standards of morality. In other and +familiar phrasing, there is widespread acceptance and practice of the +so-called "double standard of sexual morality," a monogamic one for +respectable women and promiscuity for many of their male relatives and +friends. (See writings of Morrow, especially "The Sex Problem"; also +Creighton's "The Social Disease.") + +[Sidenote: One problem for sex-education.] + +Our brief survey of the hygienic problems caused by sexual promiscuity +and its characteristic diseases is sufficient to indicate one great +problem for sex-education. Such social-hygiene problems have been most +responsible for the recent and rapid rise of the movement for +sex-education, and they must be recognized in any adequate scheme for +instruction of young people. + +[Sidenote: Is sex-hygiene adequate?] + +Can scientific education hope to solve the sexual problems of society +by inculcating such fear of venereal diseases that men will remain true +to the monogamic code of morality? Many cynical disbelievers in +sex-hygiene answer this question negatively by asking in biblical +phrase, "Can the leopard change his spots?" In other words, these +doubting ones believe that sexual instincts are so firmly fixed in the +nature of _many_ men and _some_ women that there is no hope of radical +change through education.[3] There is something in this point of view. +It is probably true that even the most radical advocates of +sex-education do not hope to secure universal monogamy and consequent +disappearance of social diseases. A conservative and rational answer to +the above question whether sex-education can solve the problem of +social diseases, is that a large percentage of even civilized people +are not yet ready to have their most powerful instincts controlled by +scientific knowledge. Hence, there is no hope that the hygienic task of +sex-education will be finished soon after instruction becomes an +established part of general education in homes and schools. At the very +best there will be incomplete returns for the social-hygienic aspect of +sex-instruction, but already we know for a certainty that enough young +men will be influenced to make the teaching justifiable. I feel sure of +this because I have met personally many such men and my friends know +many more. + +According to the investigations made by Dr. Exner, the medical +secretary of the Young Men's Christian Association, a great reduction +of venereal disease has followed sex-hygienic campaigns in college +towns. + +[Sidenote: Medical treatment.] + +In another way hygienic teaching may reduce the amount of venereal +diseases, and that is by leading infected individuals to seek thorough +medical treatment without delay. This, of course, will render the +diseased person non-infectious to others. Physicians report that there +is now a marked movement in this direction and, moreover, that many +infected young men voluntarily seek medical examinations before +marriage. + +[Sidenote: Woman's need of information.] + +Even if we refuse to believe that social-hygienic teaching will protect +many young men from sexual diseases, there is the woman's need of +information to be considered. As said before, women more than men +suffer the consequences of venereal infections. Therefore, every young +woman who considers marriage should know the possibility of danger to +herself and her children, and be able to decide accordingly. Of course, +even with much knowledge she may marry the wrong man, for correct +diagnosis of social disease is not always easy; but if her confidence +is betrayed and she becomes infected, she ought to know the importance +of immediate and radical medical treatment. Let me illustrate these +statements that women should know the danger of venereal disease. One +of my college friends neglected an important legal case to travel seven +hundred miles in order to tell face to face another college friend that +she was about to marry a dangerous man. Being utterly ignorant of the +existence of sexual diseases, the girl and her mother characterized my +friend's statement by a short and ugly word, and ordered him to leave +their home instantly. The marriage occurred and some months later the +young woman went to her grave, a victim of gonorrheal salpingitis and +peritonitis. + +Another case which illustrates the danger of a woman's ignorance: One +of my students of many years ago married a minister who infected her +with syphilis and kept her from medical attention until the disease +was in a highly developed stage, and even then conspired with an +inefficient doctor to keep her ignorant of the nature of the disease. + +[Sidenote: The right to knowledge.] + +These are not extreme cases, for any physician with large experience +knows that such things are common. Medical literature is full of such +painful recitals of venereal tragedies. It is not desirable that all +young women should know the details of such tragedies, but they should +know that dangers exist. Parents and educators will not have done their +duty until they coöperate to give all young women the protective +knowledge they have a right to demand.[4] + +[Sidenote: Best people must lead.] + +There is another way of looking at the possible effect of the social +side of sex-hygienic instruction. It is sure to make a decided +impression upon many young people of the type that we regard as the +best in every way. These will be the leaders of the future and they in +turn will help improve conditions. Perhaps it may all work out as the +drug problem is being solved. Widespread social and hygienic +information regarding the harmful effect of alcohol, cocaine, opium, +and other drugs has first of all impressed leading citizens; and these +are beginning to control by laws those who cannot be reached directly +by education. In some such ways those who are impressed by formal +sex-education may lend a hand in influencing many who could not be +touched directly by hygienic education. + +[Sidenote: Legislation needed.] + +There is no doubt that public enlightenment regarding the dangers of +social diseases will soon lead to legislation and public medical work +which will contribute greatly towards reduction of the diseases. For +example, legislation with reference to venereal disease should require +doctors to report cases to health officers, should forbid "quack" +advertising of fake "cures," should forbid sale by drug stores of +nostrums for personal treatment, should provide dispensaries and +hospitals for reliable treatment at reasonable cost, should require +medical examinations for marriage licenses and provide for such +examinations at moderate charges or at public expense, should require +certain sanitary precautions in care of eyes of new-born infants, and +should provide for discovery and treatment of congenital syphilis in +school children. These are lines in which good laws might help vastly +in the war against the social diseases. Moreover, it is obvious that +all laws which help control the social evil will work indirectly +against the social diseases. + +[Sidenote: Probable results of instruction.] + +In conclusion, it seems probable that popular knowledge of the social +side of sex-hygiene will reduce the amount of venereal disease (1) by +teaching some people the dangers of promiscuity, (2) by adoption of +certain sanitary precautions that lessen danger of infection, (3) by +leading people to seek competent medical aid which, while often +failing to restore the victim's health, will probably eliminate the +danger of contagion for others, and (4) by intelligent support of laws +that directly or indirectly affect the social diseases. + +[Sidenote: Social diseases not most important.] + +I have given great prominence to the social-sexual diseases in their +relation to sex-education because along this line there has been +developed the widespread interest in sex-instruction as _one_ method of +protecting young people against promiscuity. So far as the questions of +teaching are concerned, my personal view is that some of the other +reasons or problems for sex-instruction are more important, because I +believe that educational emphasis on them will give the greatest +results in improved sexual conditions of society. + + +§ 8. _Third Problem for Sex-instruction: the Social Evil_ + +So far as the problems of sex-education are concerned, there is nothing +to be gained by an extensive review of commercialized prostitution. It +is generally accepted that the social evil or prostitution is increased +by the common ignorance of young people of both sexes regarding the +physical and social relations of sex. + +Of course, it is not true that all prostitution is due to ignorance, +for it often involves enlightened men and women. However, there seems +to be good reason for believing that large numbers of people of both +sexes might be kept out of prostitution by very simple sex-instruction. +Let us look for a moment at some facts concerning the relation of the +ignorance of the women to their entrance into the underworld, and later +consider certain reasons why many men patronize the social evil. + +[Sidenote: Why women enter prostitution.] + +With regard to the women victims of prostitution, it seems to be +generally accepted that economic pressure, feeble-mindedness, bad +social environment, and unguided instincts, independently or combined, +are the chief causes of their downfall. However, there is a deeper +reason why numerous women enter prostitution, for all of these factors +commonly operate because of inadequate sexual knowledge. In short, +ignorance is the fundamental cause of much prostitution on the part of +women. Many a girl with starvation wages, bad social surroundings, +sub-normal mentality, or even intense instincts is able to keep her +womanhood because she knows the awful dangers of sexual promiscuity. +For our present educational purposes, it is sufficient to point out the +opinion of competent social workers that knowledge might often +counteract the forces that lead women from virtue and down into +prostitution. + +[Sidenote: Men also ignorant.] + +A large number of men patronize prostitution because they are ignorant +in one or more of the following respects. Some of them have drifted +into abnormal sexual habits when they were boys, and later into illicit +relations. Some of them did not know the effect of alcoholic drinks in +leading many young men to their first immoral sexual acts. Some of them +have deliberately patronized prostitution because they have accepted as +truth the monstrous lie that sexual activity is necessary to preserve +the health of men.[5] Most of the men do not realize that prostitution +offers great danger to their own health, still greater danger to the +health of innocent wives and children, and a greatly shortened life for +many women who are the victims of sexual slavery. Most men do not know +that dark tragedies are often concealed beneath the apparent gay life +of the women who are victims of sexual degradation. These are some of +the things of which many young men I have known were very ignorant, and +it has been no difficult task to trace a close connection between their +ignorance and their vice. + +[Sidenote: Ignorance the chief cause.] + +Looking at the social evil from any point of view, it seems to me that +ignorance, dense ignorance, is largely responsible for the existence of +that darkest blot on our boasted civilization--the social-sexual evil. +No matter how we look at the established facts regarding prostitution, +they all point to the need of sexual instruction for the protection of +the youth of both sexes. The Chicago Vice Commission concluded that +"the lack of information, education and training with reference to the +function and control of the sexual instinct, and the consequences of +its abuse and perversion, appears at every point of our inquiry for +the sources of the supply of the victims of vice, either as the cause +of the perversion of children and youth or as a complication of all +other causes."[6] Of course, we dare not dream that any sex-instruction +that now seems possible will completely eradicate prostitution; but we +do know of thousands of boys and girls who have been directed to safety +by knowledge of some fundamental sexual facts. + +[Sidenote: Sex plays and novels.] + +Concerning presentation of the social evil by fiction and the drama, +there is much honest disagreement. My personal opinion is that little +good is done by the theater or by such publications as Reginald +Kaufmann's "House of Bondage," and Elizabeth Robin's "My Little +Sister." They all leave the unsophisticated reader with an exaggerated +and even hysterical notion that white slavery is exceedingly common and +the main cause of prostitution. Certainly the great majority of the +army of prostitutes, both public and clandestine, in America, and a +still higher percentage on the continent of Europe, did not become +novitiates of vice in prisons of prostitution. + +[Sidenote: Limited reading desirable.] + +It seems to me that a very limited reading regarding the social evil is +sufficient for one who is not engaged in medical or social work that +requires scientific knowledge of this darkest side of human life. +Certainly, the indiscriminate reading of vice investigations is +dangerous for many young people,--for young men because some of them +are allured into personal investigations, and for young women because +they get an exaggerated and pessimistic view of all sexual problems. +For the intelligent reader who wants the general information that every +public-spirited citizen should have, the well-known book by Jane Addams +will serve both as an outline and an encyclopedia of the social evil. +Social workers and some educators will find use for the other books +mentioned below. + + Jane Addams.--"A New Conscience and an Ancient Evil." + (Macmillan). + + Seligman, E.R.A. (Editor).--"The Social Evil." (Putnam.) Contains + bibliography on the subject. + + Sumner, Dean W.T., and others.--"The Social Evil in Chicago." + Vice-Commission Report, 1911. Now published by the American + Social Hygiene Association. The "introduction and summary" (pp. + 25-47) deserves careful reading. + + Cocks, O.G.--"The Social Evil" (Association Press). + + "Vigilance," a journal devoted to attacking the social evil, has + been discontinued and replaced by bulletins of the American + Social Hygiene Association, 105 West 40th Street, New York City. + + +§ 9. _The Fourth Problem for Sex-education: Illegitimacy_ + +[Sidenote: Society condemns illegitimacy.] + +Most awful of all the results of the sexual mistakes of men and women +are the unmarried mothers and their illegitimate children. Of course, I +know that there are well-meaning people who argue that motherhood is +the supreme fact and that the formality of a marriage ceremony is +merely a medievalism in our laws and customs; but the inexorable truth +remains that our modern social system is centered around the home which +is strictly regulated by church and state and public opinion.[7] +Whatever may be the philosophical rights and wrongs of individual +freedom in sexual relationship, the facts of practical life are that an +overwhelming majority of the most intelligent people are united in +support of our established laws and customs demanding legitimacy of +motherhood and birthright. As a result of this age-old stand for +legitimacy, illegitimate mothers and children do not have a square deal +at the bar of public opinion. Everybody knows that the vast majority of +illegitimate children do not have a fair chance in the world's work. +Professor Cattell, in _Science_, March, 1914, points out that since +illegitimates occur one in every twenty-five births in the United +States, and since they are on the whole equal to other children in +mentality, there ought to be forty of them among the thousand leading +men of science designated in the directory of the "American Men of +Science;" but none are known. The conclusion must be that illegitimate +children do not have an equal chance at education which leads to +prominence in science. But it is not simply a matter of limited +education, for in every way the fate of most illegitimate children is +usually pitiful. Only now and then one born under a lucky star is +adopted and educated by large-minded foster parents who recognize that +the illegitimate is not responsible for having come into this world +under conditions opposed to the best interests of society. + +[Sidenote: Ignorance the cause.] + +It seems to be generally accepted that in the vast majority of cases, +unmarried mothers and illegitimate children are due to ignorance of the +women. Women who are professionally immoral do not bear many +children.[8] In fact, excepting the feeble-minded prostitutes, the +general rule is that those who are mothers have only one child and that +one the result of the first sexual errors. It is a safe general +conclusion that ignorance of sexual laws is responsible for the great +majority of cases of illegitimacy. + +Edith Livingston Smith, of Boston, in an article on "Unmarried Mothers" +in _Harper's Weekly_ for September 6, 1913, expressed views of the +causes of illegitimacy that many a social worker will indorse heartily: + + "I see shop girls and waitresses, factory girls and maids, chorus + girls, stenographers, and governesses, each with a different + story, each with the same terror of the consequences of their + folly. 'I never knew,' they tell me, 'I never knew there were such + temptations.'... + + "Let us go back to the question of sex-education of the public. + Silence has been the policy in the past. We have taught our + children biology and natural history, we have taught them + physiology, carefully ignoring the organs of reproduction; we + have warned the young to make use of their senses and their + brains, but we have refused to recognize the very force that + guides all these instincts, the vital power of sex. Yet, in the + face of this stupidity, acknowledging the call of the age, girls + are sent out into the industrial world, where they fight shoulder + to shoulder with men. Here they find potential worth of their + individualities; here they meet with the same--no + greater--temptation than their brothers, but with no knowledge to + guide them, no traditions to give them poise, no ameliorating + factor of social tenderness or tolerance when inexperience fails + to temper their emotions and their femininity.... + + "A girl's protection must come from without, a boy's from within. + Every boy who reaches the age of adolescence knows his nature. It + asserts itself. His sex instincts are dominant, aggressive. He is + man, the father of the race, and the laws of procreation are to + him an open book. A girl stays innocent until she is awakened. It + is the kiss, the touch, the senses stirred, that make her, in the + glory of her womanhood or in her shame, acknowledge her sex. + + "The very frailty of such a girl, her dependence upon her + intuitions and emotions, the triumph of feeling over intellect, + place her in greater danger than her brothers, even were their + responsibility to society the same. But, add to this the fact that + in yielding to sexual temptation she has the burden of + child-bearing--how much more necessary that she should have some + knowledge of what she is to meet in the world, or what she must + combat, lest her emotions forestall her intelligence as physical + development precedes mental appreciation." + +[Sidenote: Men also ignorant.] + +Illegitimacy is often due to ignorance of men as well as of women. +Prominent physicians have cited from their notebooks cases of +"protected" children in early adolescence who instinctively entered +into sexual relationship in utter ignorance of the natural result. Such +cases where the boy is entirely ignorant must be very rare; but there +are probably many boys who do not really understand that the sexual act +is very likely to lead to a ruined life for the girl companion and her +offspring. Arthur Donnithorne, in "Adam Bede," did not forecast that +his act would lead to the ruin of Hetty Sorrel and her condemnation for +infanticide. + +[Sidenote: More than biology needed.] + +It is obvious that something more than the ordinary biological facts of +reproduction must be included in sex-instruction that tries to prevent +such tragedies. In another lecture we shall consider moral teaching, +but here let us look at the cold facts of life that ought to be taught +at some appropriate time to young people. Not only should they know the +simple biological probability that sexual relationship will lead to +reproduction, but they should be led to consider the relentless +consequences of illegitimate propagation. On this latter point general +literature, _e.g._, "Adam Bede" and "The Scarlet Letter," teaches some +impressive lessons. + +Another point needs emphasis with the numerous young people, especially +men, who are not controlled by moral laws, who know the probabilities +of illegitimacy occurring, but who have acquired the popular +impression that the order of nature is easily changed. Many physicians +and social workers know girls who have gone down because they were +persuaded to trust the efficiency of popular ways and means of avoiding +the natural outcome of the sexual act. Hence, young people of both +sexes should somehow learn that under the conditions that usually +attend illicit union there is always a strong probability that the ways +of nature cannot be easily circumvented. It is unlawful to explain, +except to medical audiences, why this is so; but much illegitimacy will +be prevented if it can be made widely known among young men and women +that, according to reliable physicians, tragedies of illegitimacy are +often due to misplaced confidence in popular methods of contraception. + +[Sidenote: Criminal operations.] + +There is yet another line of information that if widely known might +have some bearing on the problem of illicit sexual relations: +Physicians and social workers report that many young men and some women +know the possibility of illegitimate pregnancy, but feel safe because +they know the addresses of doctors and midwives who will perform +criminal operations. The great danger of the operation, especially at +the hands of such third-class doctors as would attempt to terminate +pregnancy criminally, should be widely known by the general public, +which only now and then gets a hint in the newspaper reports of a +tragedy involving some unfortunate girl. + +[Sidenote: Relative passion of men and women.] + +There is the widespread misunderstanding among young men that sexual +hunger is as insistent in virtuous young women as in themselves and +that therefore illicit gratification is a mutual gain and +responsibility. Some young men may be guided by the information that +there is much reliable evidence indicating that, while an innate +tendency towards general emotions of affection is strong in the average +young woman, there is general absence of the localized passions that +naturally and automatically develop in young men. In other words, the +first definite sexual temptation is likely to come to a young woman +from outside herself, and young men should be impressed with their +responsibility for allowing even the beginning of situations that may +arouse dormant but dangerous instincts. + + +§ 10. _The Fifth Problem for Sex-education: Sexual Morality_ + +In this lecture I shall set forth the proposition that a definitely +organized scheme of education should aim directly at making young +people strict adherents of the established code of sexual morality. For +brevity, I shall occasionally speak of morality and immorality, +omitting the qualifying word "sexual." + +[Sidenote: Definition of sexual morality.] + +This lecture, in fact this entire series of lectures on sex-education, +is based on the fundamental proposition that sexual morality demands +that sexual union be restricted to monogamic marriage, and conversely, +that such sexual relation outside of marriage is immoral. Such a +definition of sexual morality is accepted by church and state and the +chief citizens in every civilized country. It is the only practical +definition which is satisfactory to the vast majority of educated +American men and women, even to those who believe in freedom of divorce +and in forgiveness for youthful transgressions of the accepted moral +code. Sexual morality has had changeable standards, and in other times +and countries custom has made polygamy and promiscuity acceptable as +moral; but the monogamic ideal of morality now prevails in the world's +best life. + +[Sidenote: Morality in America and Europe.] + +Monogamic morality as a protection for family life means much more in +America than in Europe. It is true that there is an astounding amount +of prostitution in America, but we should be grateful that our ideals +of the monogamic family have not been seriously influenced and seem to +be slowly but surely improving among our best people. As illustrations +of our adherence to monogamic law, let me give some facts for +comparison of America and continental Europe. In America, illegitimate +births are not accurately reported but are probably less than five per +cent of the total number for the whole country. Locally the proportion +is often very much higher. Thus in Washington, D.C., where (1914) over +ten thousand, chiefly negroes, live in alleys between the streets and +under extremely unhygienic and immoral conditions, fifty per cent of +the children are illegitimate, while but twenty per cent of the colored +children born of mothers living outside the alleys, and less than +eleven per cent of the total born of all races in the city are +illegitimate. In various small American regions with a white population +the proportion of illegitimacy is astoundingly high, but the average +for the entire country is hopefully low. In many German towns +statistics show above twenty-five per cent, and in the whole empire, +more than half the legitimate first-born children are conceived before +marriage. All writers, the German ones included, seem to agree that the +majority of Teutonic men and women enter into free unions before +marriage and public opinion does not severely condemn. + +In many rural districts of England, France, and Sweden, and even in +London and Paris, a large percentage of the marriages are simply +legalization of free unions. In short, in all these countries the +monogamic ideal is not followed by a large percentage of people. It +must be remembered that the great majority of people involved in the +above figures are of the peasant and laboring classes; conditions are +quite different among women of the educated classes. These must +ultimately set the moral standards for the masses. + +Our American conditions are quite different, especially outside of the +large cosmopolitan cities. It is impossible not to believe in the moral +integrity of the great majority of unmarried women in America. +Certainly even in our worst communities we have no such general +immorality of women as above European figures suggest. Perhaps +wholesale prostitution in which one public woman may be the mistress of +ten, twenty, or even fifty men, may tend to protect any equal number of +American women; whereas in Europe a peasant woman would probably be for +a time the paramour of one man, thus tending to make equal numbers of +immoral men and women. + +However, it matters nothing for our present purposes what may be the +explanation of conditions of sexual promiscuity here or abroad. The one +great fact is that our national code of morality is a monogamic one, +approved as ideal even by many of those who fail to live strictly in +harmony with its dictates. Hence, all Americans who are prominently +interested in sex-education believe that it should aim to make our +young people more ready to accept and understand morality according to +the monogamic ideal. + +Those who are interested in this problem of morality as related to +marriage should read Foerster's "Marriage and the Sex Problem." + +[Sidenote: Relation of sex-hygiene and ethics.] + +Among those who see the need of teaching sex-ethics as a part of the +larger outlook of sex-education, there are two points of view: (1) +those who favor the teaching of sex-ethics with the hope of preventing +the hygienic problems arising from immorality, and (2) those who +believe in sexual morality for its own sake or as an accepted code of +conduct. + +The founders of the American Society for Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis +placed sanitation first in the name and stated in the constitution that +"the object of this Society is to limit the spread of diseases which +have their origin in the Social Evil. It proposes to study every means, +sanitary, moral, and administrative, which promise to be most effective +for this purpose." Most of the papers that have been read at the +meetings of the Society have emphasized the sanitary aim as primary, +and the moral aim as a means to the hygienic end; but in the past three +years there has been a decided tendency towards placing emphasis upon +morality, and recently the executive committee of the Society voted to +propose the following revised statement: "The aim of this Society is to +promote the appreciation of the sacredness of human sexual relation, +and thereby to minimize the moral and physical evils resulting from +ignorance and vice." This change of emphasis is well expressed in +President Keyes's report to the Society (_Journal_, Vol. V, No. 1). + +As to the relation between sex-hygiene and sex-ethics as phases of the +larger sex-education, there has been much discussion. Several writers +have contended that there is some conflict between sanitary and moral +ends, but have failed to convince most readers that hygiene and ethics +should not be associated in teaching. In fact, the most impressive +sex-hygiene is that relating to social disease, and its value is +chiefly in the ethical appeal for protection of innocent wives and +children. + +[Sidenote: Dr. Cabot's view.] + +Most prominent of those who have declared that hygienic and moral +teaching should be dissociated is Dr. Richard C. Cabot, of Boston. I +shall discuss his point of view in connection with a later lecture on +"Criticisms of Sex-education" (§ 46). In the present discussion of +sexual morality as an important reason for sex-education, it is +sufficient to say that Dr. Cabot seems to disagree with other teachers +on the question of the influence of formal instruction on the morals of +people. + +[Sidenote: Moral and hygienic problems.] + +Sex-education is now commonly understood to be attempting to solve the +moral as well as the hygienic problems of sex. As suggested before, +these two lines of problems are clearly related but not coincident; for +sexual health and morals are not entirely coördinated. We must not +overlook the possibility that the marvellous progress of +bacteriological and medical science may some day largely reduce the +health problems of sex without improving morality. In fact, sexual +immorality that is hygienic does actually exist to a limited extent. +Such facts indicate that while sex-education was first planned to solve +health problems, the ultimate sex-education must attempt to guide +sexual conduct by moral principles. This coming need of more emphasis +on the moral problems of sex should be clearly foreseen by those who +are interested in sex-education. + +[Sidenote: Super-morality desirable.] + +Now, while sexual morality as commonly understood is a direct aim of +sex-education, it is not, in the opinion of many people, the ideal and +ultimate goal of sex-education in its broadest outlook. There is +something higher than conventional morality for the reason that, while +natural sexual union in monogamic marriage is never legally or +ecclesiastically immoral, it is very often far from ideal. It is not +ideal if it is unethical, unhygienic, or unæsthetic. It is unethical, +if it is not a bi-personal desideratum (_i.e._, based on mutual +love[9]); it is unhygienic when not promotive and conservative of +health; and it is unæsthetic if the concomitant psychical reactions are +not in harmony with the beautiful in nature and life. In all these +ways, morality as commonly and legally and ecclesiastically understood +may fall very far short of the ideal sexual relationships. Such an +ideal is now held by many men and women who wish that morality might +mean to all the world not simply the limitation of sexual union to +monogamic marriage, but also that it might be made to mean an +all-satisfying monogamic affection and comradeship based on certain +physiological, psychical, æsthetic, and ethical laws that underlie +human sexual potentialities. Such would be a morality so far beyond +the accepted standards that for convenience we may call it +super-morality, or the new morality. This, I sincerely believe, is the +ultimate goal of sex-education in its largest outlook. + +[Sidenote: Super-morality deserves emphasis.] + +Among those who have contributed to the sex-education movement there +are none who have properly emphasized this super-morality, which, I +believe, is the ultimate goal of the larger sex-education for the most +enlightened people. The definition that sex-education means all +instruction which aims to help young people prepare to solve for +themselves the sexual problems that inevitably come to every normal +individual, is broad enough to include all questions of hygiene, +morality, and super-morality that may come into one's life. The third +aim of sex-education (§ 16) which refers to the "social, ethical, and +psychical aspects of sex as affecting the individual life in relation +to other individuals," should be understood as meaning first a stand +for morality and then, this having been attained, super-morality is an +easy stage forward. The same idea was touched by the writer in a paper +on "Biology in Sex-Instruction" (_Journal of Society of Sanitary and +Moral Prophylaxis_, October, 1911) in these words: "If the great +questions of sex relationship are ever satisfactorily solved, it must +be through the direct application of the four sciences which are +centered around human life, namely, psychology, ethics, sociology, and +last, but far from least, æsthetics. As we have seen, biology teaches +much directly bearing on the purely physical aspects of the +perpetuation of human life, and its study is absolutely necessary for +mental attitude and basal facts; but the keystone of the arch of +sex-education must be contributed by these four sciences which touch +human life much deeper than the merely physical, to which the science +of biology is limited. Above all we must look to these sciences for the +solution of the problems of sex in relation to society, which more than +any physical ills have led to our present problems concerning sexual +disharmonies." + +[Sidenote: Super-morality not for the masses.] + +But while there is something attractive in this larger interpretation +of sex-education as looking forward to the highest adaptation of sex +and life, I realize that as a practical matter we must first of all +work with young people for sexual morality as defined by the accepted +code. We must remember that the vast majority of people are not yet +ready, and will not soon be ready, for a code of super-morality. +Confusion might result from an attempt at wholesale teaching of such +idealism of sex relationship. Certainly, so far as sex-education aims +to help immature young people, there is nothing to do but hold up +monogamic marriage as the basis of our accepted morality; but the +higher view of super-morality should be promulgated as rapidly as +possible among people who are advanced enough to understand that +morality as defined by church and state is not the best interpretation +of life's possibilities. To many it is a significant fact that we now +find numerous young men and women ready to stand for super-morality as +a foundation for monogamic marriage. Fortunately, such individuals need +not wait for the world to grasp the idea of super-morals; and already +there is many a home in which the higher view of life and sex prevails. + +[Sidenote: Cautious teaching concerning immorality.] + +Immorality in sexual lines should not be overstressed when teaching +young people. Rather should there be emphasis on the moral, the normal, +the healthful, the helpful, and the æsthetic processes in human life. +We should emphasize sexual health and morals, not disease and +immorality. Concerning immoral living in general, young people should +know only enough for necessary warning. Curiosity derived from +extensive knowledge of immorality has drawn many a young man into the +whirlpool of sexual depravity. It is beyond question that in sexual +lines there is the danger that Pope saw when he declared that vice is a +monster that seen too oft, we first endure, then pity, then embrace. +Sex-education should guard against such dangerous familiarity with +vice. + + +§ 11. _The Sixth Problem for Sex-education: Sexual Vulgarity_ + +[Sidenote: Present attitude.] + +Even a limited study of the prevailing attitude towards sex and +reproduction convinces one that back of the greatest sexual problems of +our times is the almost universal secrecy, disrespect, vulgarity, and +irreverence concerning every aspect of sex and reproduction. Even +expectant motherhood is commonly concealed as long as possible, and all +reference to the developing new life is usually accompanied with +blushes and tones suggestive of some great shame. Nothing sexual is +commonly regarded as sacred. Love and marriage, motherhood and birth, +are all freely selected as themes for sexual jests, many of them so +vulgar that no printed dictionary supplies the necessary words. And I +am not simply referring to the great masses of uneducated people, for +the saddest fact is that a very large proportion of intelligent people +have not an open-minded and respectful attitude concerning sex and +reproduction. + +[Sidenote: Vast change of attitude needed.] + +Now, unless we can devise some way to counteract the prevailing narrow, +vulgar, disrespectful, and irreverent attitude towards all aspects of +sex and reproduction; unless we can make people see sexual processes in +all their normal aspects as noble, beautiful, and splendid steps in the +great plan of nature; unless we can substitute a philosophical and +æsthetic view of sex relationship for the time-worn interpretation of +everything sexual as inherently vulgar, base, ignoble, and demanding +asceticism for those who would reach the highest spiritual development; +unless we can begin to make these changes in the prevailing attitude +towards sex and reproduction, we cannot make any decided advance in the +attempt to help solve sexual problems by special instruction. + +First of all, sex-education must work for a purified and dignified +attitude which sees vulgarity and impurity only when the functions of +sex have been voluntarily and knowingly misused and thereby debased. +Sex-education must work against the idea that sexual processes are +inherently vulgar, degraded, base, and impure. Such an interpretation +is correct only when sexual instincts are uncontrolled and thereby out +of harmony with the highest ideals of life. But control does not mean +asceticism which aims at complete subjugation of sexual instincts and +would annihilate them if that were biologically possible. The early +Christians, disgusted with the sexual degradation of the paganistic and +materialistic Romans, preached a doctrine of sexual asceticism as the +ideal for those who would rise to the heights of spiritual life. This +pessimistic interpretation of the relation of sex and life has +persisted even in some ecclesiastical teachings of the twentieth +century, and probably has had not a little responsibility for the +widely accepted and depressing view that sex is a necessary but +regrettable fact of human life. + +[Sidenote: Attitude changing.] + +Fortunately, the old ascetic point of view is passing rapidly. +Nineteenth-century science has given us a nobler view of the physical +world. Scientifically considered, matter is no longer base and +degraded. Especially has the biological science of the past fifty years +made _living_ matter and its activities profoundly impressive. And of +the life-activities none are so significant and so all-important as +those relating to the perpetuation of the human species. Biological +science has taught this emphatically, and the processes connected with +sex have been lifted to a place of dignity and purity. + +[Sidenote: Æsthetic attitude desirable.] + +The old asceticism, with its uniformly dark outlook on life, has no +lessons worth while in our modern problems relating to sex.[10] We need +severe control and not annihilation of our most powerful instincts. The +bright outlook of æsthetics rather than the dark one of asceticism +should prevail, for sex-instincts and processes are essentially pure +and beautiful phases of that wonderful something we call "life." +Sex-education should aim to give this attitude by presenting life as +fundamentally free from the degradation arising from misuse and +misunderstanding of sex. + +[Sidenote: Not a new ideal.] + +The æsthetic interpretation of sex is no new ideal. Canon Lyttleton, +formerly Head Master of Eton College and later Canon of Westminster, +believed that "viewed rightly, the subject of sex, the ever-recurring +miracle of generation and birth, is full of nobleness, purity, and +health." The late Dr. Prince A. Morrow wrote, "the sex function is +intimately connected with the physical, mental, and moral development. +Its right use is the surest basis of individual health, happiness and +usefulness in life, as well as of racial permanence and prosperity. Its +abuse and misuse is the cause of a vast deal of disease and misery." +And finally, we may quote President-Emeritus Eliot of Harvard +University: "Society must be relieved by sound instruction of the +horrible doctrine that the begetting and bearing of children are in the +slightest degree sinful or foul processes. That doctrine lies at the +root of the feeling of shame in connection with these processes and of +the desire for secrecy. The plain fact is that there is nothing so +sacred and propitious on earth as the bringing of another normal child +into the world in marriage. There is nothing staining or defiling about +it, and therefore there is no need for shame or secrecy, but only for +pride and joy. This doctrine should be part of the instruction given to +all young people." + +[Sidenote: Attitude all-important in sex-education.] + +If sex-education succeeds in giving young people this enlightened +attitude, there will be little difficulty in solving most of the +ethical and hygienic problems of sex. A young man who has caught a +glimpse of the highest interpretation of sex in its relation to human +life, in short a young man to whom all natural sexual processes are +essentially pure and noble and beautiful, is not one who will make +grave hygienic mistakes in his own life, and he will not be personally +connected with the social evil and its diseases, and he will avoid +almost intuitively the physiologic and psychologic mistakes that most +often cause matrimonial disaster. Everything, then, in successful +sex-education depends upon the attitude formed in the minds of +learners; and towards this our major efforts should be directed. + +[Sidenote: Comparison with animals not helpful.] + +The prevailing vulgar attitude towards sex will not be greatly improved +by repeated emphasis upon the animal nature of reproduction in attempts +at supporting the thesis that propagation is the sole function of +sexual processes in human life. Such an interpretation of human +sexuality as purely animalistic in function is implied, if not +expressed, by some workers for the "purity" movement. I sincerely +believe that such a view will inevitably tend to increase the feeling +that sexual processes are heritages from the beasts which unfortunately +must be tolerated because nature has provided no other way for +perpetuating human life. + +[Sidenote: Sexual pessimism.] + +An intelligent woman, a happy wife and mother, who had accepted this +ascetic and pessimistic view of sex, said the other day: "Oh, love and +marriage and motherhood would be so beautiful were it possible to +escape the unspeakably vulgar facts of physical life!" Poor woman! It +must have been some fiend incarnate who in the guise of a prophet of +purity preached to her the animalistic interpretation of sex, which +made her overlook the fact that the very beauty which she could not +quite grasp had its origin in her emotions arising from the despised +sexual nature. + +This is not an isolated case. Several young women who have graduated +from college within ten years vouch for the statement that many +thoughtful students are strong in the belief that ideal marriage is +platonic friendship and that it is a sad fact of life that husband and +wife must lay aside their high ideals in order to become parents. + +Such depressing interpretations of life are bound to come from the +radical type of "purity" preaching based on the sexual mistakes of the +past and on the lives of animals. A similar pessimistic view regarding +the function of eating might be based on mistakes of drunkards and +gluttons and on the habits of the porcine family. If these are to guide +our conduct, then food-taking is to be regarded as a necessary but +vulgar habit inherited from our animal ancestors; and if we are to be +logical and attempt to rise to ideal purity in eating, we must hasten +to dispense with the culinary science and all the æsthetics which have +made civilized eating a fine art. Of course, this is just what the +strict ascetic does; but such radical disbelievers in the pleasures +that we have associated with eating would be declared lunatics in any +civilized country. + +[Sidenote: Two kinds of hunger.] + +I have chosen eating for illustrating my point, for the demands for +food and for sexual activity are the two primal and necessary forms of +hunger. The hunger for food has led to the refinements of civilized +dining, but there has been great evolution. The animals feed (German, +fressen) in order to satisfy hunger only; civilized humans eat (essen) +not only to satisfy the hunger appetite inherited from the animals, but +also for the sake of the concomitant social æsthetic pleasures that add +much to the joy of living. Now, if we are logical, we must interpret on +parallel lines the sexual hunger that is necessary for the perpetuation +of human life. Like eating, it is a necessary function inherited from +the animals; but there has been an evolution of greater significance. +In the animal world, sexual activity has only one function, +reproduction; but human life at its highest has superadded psychical +and social meaning to sexual relationships, and the result has been +affection and the human family. If we reject this higher view of the +double significance of sexuality in human life, and insist that only +the necessary propagative function is worthy of recognition, it is +almost inevitable that most people will continue to accept the hopeless +view that human sexuality is on the same vulgar plane as that of the +animals; in short, that it is only an animal function. This, I insist, +is a depressing interpretation that will never help overcome the +prevailing vulgar attitude toward sex. + +[Sidenote: Human sexuality more than animal.] + +It is only by frankly recognizing and developing the psychical and +æsthetic meanings that are distinctly human and superadded to the +merely propagative function of the animals, that people can be led far +away from the vulgar outlook on sex and reproduction in human life. + +[Sidenote: Relation of attitude and morality.] + +There is no question that wholesome attitude towards sex and +reproduction is closely associated with the problems of sexual +morality, and especially so far as educational procedure is concerned. +It is true that large numbers of moral people hold the vulgar attitude +towards sex and reproduction; but for people who do not accept the +moral code without question there is probably no better way of teaching +sexual morality than by influencing the individual's attitude. There +are many people who stand for sexual morality for no other reason than +that they have a dignified and æsthetic attitude towards sex. + +[Sidenote: Sexual vulgarity a stage in evolution.] + +There is much evidence that the world is rapidly improving in this +respect. Sexual vulgarity seems to represent a stage in the evolution +of human life from the barbaric to the fully civilized. The sexual +vulgarity of primitive peoples, both ancient and modern, has been all +too frequently recalled by writers whose pseudo-scientific +superficiality leads them to believe that knowledge concerning barbaric +and ultra-bestial sensuality will help solve modern sex problems. In +the classical days when Venus and Bacchus and other deities of +sensuality were worshipped by their devotees, there was sexual +vulgarity in action and language such as now exists only among the most +ignorant or depraved people in civilized lands. The advent of Christian +civilization in Europe left no place for temples and worship of +sensuality, but still the age-old tendency towards a crude and +barbaric kind of sexual vulgarity and obscenity has continued in +folklore, in colloquial language, and in literature. However, there has +been a vast change in the attitude of the best people within the last +two centuries. Once many English writers, many of them now deservedly +obscure, published prose and poetry that would now be criminal. An +unexpurgated edition of Shakespeare's "Complete Works," or of +Boccaccio's "Decameron," could not be circulated through the United +States mails, and there are many good people who are asking how long we +shall continue to allow the unexpurgated "Old Testament" the privilege +of circulation. It is not simply prose and poetry that has been +purified. Scientific literature has shown the influence of the reaction +against obscenity. Linnæus and other naturalists of the past were fond +of giving scientific names that perpetuated vulgar comparisons with +sexual organs, but no naturalist of the present day would dare suggest +such designations for unnamed animals and plants. The older medical +literature contains abundant obscenities; but scientific dignity, as +well as the refinement of modern medical writers, has tended to compel +the elimination of vulgarity. However, there are still too many +physicians, especially those working with venereal and genito-urinary +diseases, who go out of their way to illuminate their conversations, +lectures, books, and magazine articles with veiled vulgarity. Even +high-class medical journals occasionally contain illustrations of this +tendency. However, the medical profession as a class stands for +dignified scientific presentation of facts, and obscenity will soon be +tabooed in medical and all other reputable literature. Save for +occasional emanations privately printed by and for degenerate persons, +public obscenity will soon be unknown. Its complete disappearance will +have a vast influence upon the problem of sexual attitude. + + +§ 12. _The Seventh Problem for Sex-instruction: Marriage_ + +[Sidenote: Physiology and psychology of marriage.] + +It is the consensus of opinion of numerous physicians, ministers, and +lawyers that a very large proportion of matrimonial disharmonies have +their foundation in the common misunderstanding of the physiology and +especially of the psychology of sex. In the opinion of many students of +sexual problems, this is the strongest reason for sex-instruction. It +is certainly a line in which limited spread of information has already +given some definite and satisfactory results. Many of my friends and +former students have helped me accumulate a long list of cases in which +scientific knowledge regarding sex has prevented and corrected +matrimonial disagreements; and having easily found so much definite +influence of sex-science upon marriage, I am forced to believe that +sex-instruction specially organized for people of marriageable age is +already giving results of tremendous importance to very many +individuals. Large numbers of young people are already awake to the +need of scientific guidance in marriage, and there is a great demand +for helpful information. + +Advanced sex-instruction with reference to the problems of marriage +need not wait for general establishment of elementary instruction for +children of school ages. Lectures and books are already reaching large +numbers of adults. Such enlightenment will help in two ways, by the +influence on marriage and by preparing adults to teach children. + +[Sidenote: Other knowledge needed.] + +There is another side to the problem of marriage that points to need of +the larger sex-education. Physiology and psychology of sex are +fundamental; but they alone are not sufficient to complete that mutual +adjustment and understanding which marriage at the full development of +its possibilities involves. Matrimonial harmony cannot be entirely a +problem of applied science, as some superficial devotees of science +seem to think; for science can never analyze those subtle and +ever-varying qualities that go to make up what we call personality, and +marriage in its largest outlook is the intimate blending of two +personalities. Psychological and physiological knowledge will +undoubtedly help the two married individuals in their progress towards +the harmonious adjustment of their individualities; but there are many +little, but often serious, problems that the physiology and psychology +of sex cannot solve. They are problems that involve mutual affection, +comradeship, sympathy, unselfishness, coöperation, kindliness, and +devotion of husband and wife. Obviously, these can never be developed +by any formal instruction. + +[Sidenote: Helpful literature.] + +Probably there is no better way to help young people realize the +possibilities of matrimonial harmony than by suggesting wholesome +literature. Some of this is a part of the world's general treasure of +books that in prose and poetry, in history and romance, hold up a high +ideal of love with marriage. There is much such literature that gives +young people inspiration, but too much of it, like college life, ends +with a commencement. "And then they were married and lived happily ever +after"--is the familiar closing as the novelist rings down the curtain +after reciting only the prologue in the life drama of his two lovers. +We need more literature that does not end with the wedding march, but +which gives young people the successful solution of the problems after +marriage. Some such is available in history and biography; some in +essays. As I write there come to my mind several books that have +impressed me: Professor Palmer's "Life of Alice Freeman Palmer"; +Leonard Huxley's "Life and Letters of T.H. Huxley," which gives many +intimate glimpses of the ideal home life which the great biologist +centered around Mrs. Huxley; William George Jordan's "Little Problems +of Married Life"; Orrin Cock's "Engagement and Marriage"; and that much +misunderstood[11] but helpful book "Love and Marriage" by Ellen Key. +Many of the stories by Virginia Terhune Van de Water, published in the +magazines and collected in a book entitled "Why I Left my Husband" +(Moffatt, Yard), deal with real problems of married life. + +[Sidenote: Similar education of the sexes.] + +The problems of co-education and coördinate education have not a little +bearing on the adjustment of the two sexes in marriage. In these days +when vocational education is fashionable in theory and is attracting +attention in practice, we are told that co-education and coördinate +education are mistakes because they provide the same training for both +sexes. We are told that girls must be educated for their vocation of +home-making, while boys must be educated for business, trades, or +professions. Everywhere in this current movement for vocational +education we find the emphasis placed on making education for the two +sexes just as dissimilar as possible. Fortunately for the educational +adjustments of the two sexes to each other, much of the present-day +discussion that demands extensive sex specialization of education +cannot be made practical and the training of the two sexes will +inevitably continue to be quite similar, with at most a limited amount +of time spent on application of certain knowledge to practical ends +that are chiefly of interest to one sex only. By far the greater part +of education from kindergarten through the university is in the nature +of the fundamentals of knowledge and will continue to be essentially +similar for both sexes. For illustration, the writer happens to be +connected with a college which offers a four-year course and graduate +work specially arranged with reference to household arts. Surely here +is an opportunity for education far different from that of the typical +college for men. As a matter of fact, there is great similarity. The +greater part of the four years is filled with general courses in +English, modern languages, chemistry, biology, physics, sociology, +economics, and fine arts, while a minor part of the curriculum consists +of courses in cookery, clothing, and household administration. The +general courses are in essentials not different from courses in +colleges for men. Here and there instructors select materials and in +other ways relate the general courses to household arts, but after all +a girl who completes these courses has acquired the same educational +fundamentals that her brother gets in Columbia College or in any other +standard college for men. It is only, then, in the cookery, clothing, +and administration that there is sex-differentiated education, and even +in these the practice necessary to acquire proficiency in technique is +the chief peculiarity. So far as fundamental knowledge is concerned; +cookery is chiefly an application of chemistry, physics, and physiology +that could easily be made clear to one who had completed courses in +these sciences in a college for men; dress design is an application of +fine arts and its construction is a mechanical problem. The mental +problems involved in dress design and making cannot be far different +from house design and construction which are supposed to be primarily +adapted to men. + +[Sidenote: Little differentiation.] + +On the whole, then, there is really little possibility of +sex-differentiated education. This, I insist, is a fortunate fact of +vast importance in the mutual adjustment of the two sexes in marriage. +There could be no adjustment on an intelligent basis if education could +be utterly dissimilar. There can be perfect adjustment only when the +two individuals are adjusted harmoniously, and that means similar +outlooks on life's problems. + +[Sidenote: Need of sex-education for feminism.] + +Many of the problems of the modern feministic movement are such as to +demand rational education of both women and men with reference to sex +and marriage. Let me quote C. Gasquoine Hartley, whose suggestive +Chapters VIII and IX in her "Truth About Woman" (Dodd, Mead) deserve to +live long after the readable but unscientifically applied earlier +chapters are consigned to oblivion: + + "To hear many women talk it would appear that the new ideal is a + one-sexed world. A great army of women have espoused the task of + raising their sex out of subjection. For such a duty the strength + and energy of passion is required. Can this task be performed if + the woman to any extent indulges in sex--otherwise subjection to + man? Sexuality debases, even reproduction and birth are regarded + as 'nauseating.' Woman is not free, only because she has been the + slave to the primitive cycle of emotions which belong to physical + love. The renunciation, the conquest of sex--it is this that must + be gained. As for man, he has been shown up, women have found him + out; his long-worn garments of authority and his mystery and + glamour have been torn into shreds--woman will have none of him. + + "Now obviously these are over-statements, yet they are the logical + outcome of much of the talk that one hears. It is the visible sign + of our incoherence and error, and in the measure of these follies + we are sent back to seek the truth. Women need a robuster courage + in the face of love, a greater faith in their womanhood, and in + the scheme of Life. Nothing can be gained from the child's folly + in breaking the toys that have momentarily ceased to please. The + misogamist type of woman cannot fail to prove as futile as the + misogamist man. Not 'Free _from_ man' is the watch-cry of women's + emancipation that surely is to be, but 'Free _with_ man.'" + +[Sidenote: Sex and intellectualism.] + +And further on the same author, considering the problem of the women of +the common type that are classified as a "third sex," that of +temperamental neuter, says: + + "Economic conditions are compelling women to enter with men into + the fierce competition of our disordered social state. Partly due + to this reason, though much more, as I think, to the strong + stirring in woman of her newly-discovered self, there has arisen + what I should like to call an over-emphasized Intellectualism. + Where sex is ignored there is bound to lurk danger. Every one + recognizes the significance of the advance in particular cases of + women towards a higher intellectual individuation, and the social + utility of those women who have been truly the pioneers of the new + freedom; but this does not lessen at all the disastrous influence + of an ideal which holds up the renunciation of the natural rights + of love and activities of women, and thus involves an irreparable + loss to the race by the barrenness of many of its finest types. + The significance of such Intellectuals must be limited, because + for them the possibility of transmission by inheritance of their + valuable qualities is cut off, and hence the way is closed to a + further progress. And, thus, we are brought back to that simple + truth from which we started; there are two sexes, the female and + the male, on their specific differences and resemblances blended + together in union every true advance in progress depends--on the + perfected woman and the perfected man." + +[Sidenote: Young women misled by sexual pessimists.] + +One who studies carefully the various aspects of the extreme feministic +movement must admit that there are many signs of the dangers which the +above quotations point out so clearly. Of course, we cannot believe in +the sincerity of all of the numerous women of thirty-five to fifty +years who pretend to ignore sex completely. Probably most of them have +discovered that they have misunderstood themselves; but it is also +probable that they have discovered too late for making a readjustment +in their own lives. However, it matters little whether such women have +really succeeded in ignoring sex. The real problem for educational +attack lies in the fact that such women often succeed in proselyting +young women under twenty-five, and these in turn may not come to see +the real truth about sex and life until ten or fifteen years later. +Clearly, organized education must protect young women against such +influences. + +[Sidenote: The greatest good in sex-education.] + +The greatest good which may come from the sex-education movement is not +prevention or elimination of social diseases, it is not improved +health, it is not general acceptance of the moral law of sex, it is not +one or all these that are devoutly to be hoped for; but far greater +than such possible results from sex-education, it will bring to many a +man and woman a deeper, nobler, and purer knowledge of what sex means +for the coming race and of what it means now to each individual who +realizes life's fullest possibilities in conjugal affection which +culminates in new life and new motives for more affection. Such an +understanding of sex in relation to home life will help this old world +more than anything else which sex-education may accomplish. + +[Sidenote: The greatest sex problem.] + +The problems of sex and marriage deserve far more attention than can be +given in this lecture. I am convinced that knowledge of sex in its +physical, psychical, social, and æsthetic aspects is the only sure +foundation for harmonious marriage under modern conditions. Therefore, +I believe this to be the greatest sex problem open to educational +attack. + + +§ 13. _The Eighth Problem for Sex-instruction: Eugenics_ + +[Sidenote: Meaning of eugenics.] + +Eugenics, or the science of human good breeding, is just now the most +popular of the problems concerning human sex and reproduction. In +recent years, the biological investigators of heredity have published +some startling facts which show that the human race must soon check its +reckless propagation of the unfit and encourage reproduction by the +best types of men and women. This is not the place for a review of the +eugenic propositions. Those interested will find them in non-technical +form in many books (see the bibliographical chapter of this book, page +248). + +[Sidenote: Eugenics in biology.] + +Some of the chief facts of eugenics should be a part of every +well-organized scheme of sex-instruction, and taught through biology (§ +17). Probably no other topic in biology is so likely to make an +ethical-social appeal, for the central point of eugenics is the +responsibility of the individual whose uncontrolled sexual actions may +transmit undesirable and heritable qualities and bring a train of +disaster to generations of descendants. + +[Sidenote: Relation of eugenics and sex-hygiene.] + +At this point we digress to correct the widespread error in confusing +sex-hygiene and eugenics. Many people who ought to know better use the +two terms synonymously, perhaps because they are afraid of that +comparatively novel but frank prefix in "sex-hygiene." The fact is that +eugenics and sex-hygiene have little in common. Eugenics is the +science of reproducing better humans by applying the established laws +of genetics or heredity. In brief, it means, on the positive side, +selecting desirable people as parents; and, negatively, preventing +propagation by the undesirables. This is the sum total of the task of +eugenics in the accurate sense of the term. + +[Sidenote: Facts of heredity.] + +So far as we know, each coming generation will inherit only qualities +that the parents inherited from their parents. It is a well-known +principle of biology that changes in the bodies of human beings during +their lifetime (dating from the fertilized egg that produces the +individual) are never in any noticeable degree inherited by +descendants. In short, acquired characteristics of the body tissues do +not influence the germ plasm, the living matter concerned with heredity +and reproduction, but the germ plasm that determines what the next +generation will inherit is fixed at birth. Thus tuberculosis, +alcoholism, gonorrhea, and syphilis may be acquired during the life of +an individual, but do not become fixed in the germ plasm. If the +infants show effects of any of these diseases, it is not because of +true heredity but because they were infected or influenced before +birth. Rarely does this happen to children of a tuberculous mother, but +often to those of a syphilitic mother. In a gonorrheal ophthalmia +neonatorum (specific inflammation of infants' eyes) it is a case of +infection _during_ birth. + +[Sidenote: Sex-hygiene and eugenics parallel.] + +Thus, it appears that sex-hygiene either personal or social (concerned +with venereal diseases) is not a part of eugenics. It is, however, a +phase of euthenics, which deals with the environmental factors that +affect the individual life. It is clear, then, that sex-hygiene (in the +strict medical sense) and eugenics are parallel and not conflicting. +Eugenics aims to select better parents who will transmit their own +qualities genetically. Sex-hygiene in its personal and social aspects +will make healthier parents able to give their offspring a healthier +start in life, especially because the offspring is free from the +prenatal effects of disease. + +The teaching of heredity and eugenics is intended to develop a sense of +individual responsibility for the transmission of one's good or bad +inherited qualities to offspring. The teaching of sex-hygiene, either +personal or social, looks towards improving personal health and +preventing infection and injurious influence on the unborn next +generation. Obviously, we need both sex-hygiene and eugenics as part of +the larger sex-instruction. + + +§ 14. _Summary of Lectures on Sex Problems_ + +[Sidenote: Problems of health, attitude, and morals.] + +We have made a general survey of the problems that offer reasons for +sex-instruction. We have noted that some of the problems are concerned +with health and, hence, lie within the scope of sex-hygiene in the +strict sense of that term; but some of them have only the remotest +relation to health and hygiene. On the contrary, they relate to the +ethical, social, and æsthetic attitude of individuals towards sex and +reproduction. Obviously, these touch problems not of sex health, but of +sex morality. In their educational importance I believe them as great, +perhaps even greater, than those of sex-hygiene. In fact, I have come +to believe that many individuals can best solve all their own sexual +problems on the basis of moral and æsthetic attitude. + +[Sidenote: Many-sided instruction needed.] + +Considering, as we have done, the sex problems in their many aspects, +we are forced to the conclusion that sex-education will prove adequate +only when it combines instruction from the several points of view. It +must be much more than the sex-hygiene with which the sex-instruction +movement started. We need sexual knowledge that will conserve health, +that will develop social and ethical and eugenic responsibility for +sexual actions, that will lead to increased happiness as well as to +improved health, and that will give a nobler and purer view of life's +possibilities. In all these lines in which sex influences human life +profoundly, sex-education holds out the hope of help towards a better +life for all who receive and apply its lessons. + +FOOTNOTES: + +[1] In the _American Journal of Public Health_ for July, 1913, Dr. +John S. Fulton, Director General of the XV International Congress on +Hygiene and Demography, criticized severely the extremely radical +statistics that were presented on charts at the sex-hygiene exhibit of +the Congress, and were later published in Wilson's "Education of the +Young in Sex-hygiene." + +[2] There is danger in quoting to young men the estimates as to +prevalence of social diseases and, therefore, of promiscuity. Fear of +consequences will not control one who is led to believe that he is +doing what most men do. (See Parkinson in _Educational Review_, Jan. +1911, pp. 44-46.) + +[3] Many writers have discounted the value of warnings involved in +sex-instruction concerning social disease (see especially Cabot's +papers referred to in § 46, and Parkinson in _Educational Review_, +January, 1911). + +[4] Louise Creighton, in her excellent little book on "The Social +Disease and How to Fight It" (Longmans), has well presented the +problems of social impurity from woman's point of view. + +Dr. W.S. Hall, in "Life's Problems," has given in a few pages the +necessary protective knowledge. + +[5] See "The Sexual Necessity," by Drs. Howell and Keyes. + +[6] See also, Henderson's "Education with Reference to Sex." + +[7] See chapter on "Motherhood and Marriage" in Foerster's "Marriage +and the Sex Problem." + +[8] As an illustration of this fact, out of 558 Pittsburgh +professional prostitutes, 406 had never had children. Of the 152 who +were mothers, only 24 had two or more children. + +[9] Many thinking men and women now agree with Ellen Key that +"marriage is immoral without mutual love," that "love is the sole +decisive point of view in questions concerning this relationship," +that "it will come to pass that no finely sensitive woman will become +a mother except through mutual love," that "everything which is +exchanged between husband and wife in their life together can only be +the free gift of love, can never be demanded by one or the other as a +right." (Key--"The Morality of Woman.") + +[10] Foerster, in his "Marriage and the Sex Problem," urges that +self-control over sexual passions is the working of the old idea of +asceticism, which he believes "should be regarded, not as a negation +of nature nor as an attempt to extirpate natural forces, but as +practice in the art of self-discipline. Its object should be to show +humanity what the human will is capable of performing, to serve as an +encouraging example of the conquest of the spirit over the animal +self." My personal view is that nothing is gained by confusing +self-control and the old asceticism. + +[11] Misunderstood, it seems to me, because her philosophy demanding +that marriage begin with, exist with, and end with love means freedom +in love, and this has been misinterpreted as "free love" in the sense +of promiscuity. I know of no writer who stands for marriage on a +higher plane than that advocated by Ellen Key. Her lecture on +"Morality of Woman" (Seymour Co., Chicago) is a good condensed +statement of her largest ideas and a helpful introduction to "Love and +Marriage." + + + + +III + +ORGANIZATION OF EDUCATIONAL ATTACK ON THE SEX PROBLEMS + + +§ 15. _The Task of Sex-education_ + +[Sidenote: Pragmatic solution of sex problems.] + +In the preceding series of lectures we have surveyed eight important +sex problems that can never be solved, even in part, unless by +widespread information that specifically guides the individual and +organized society in the adjustment of sexual instincts to the peculiar +conditions that obtain in our modern civilized life. To spread the +knowledge that will help civilized humanity on towards the best +possible adjustment of sex and life, and therefore to a pragmatic +solution of sexual problems, is the task or the chief aim of +sex-education.[12] + +[Sidenote: No hope for complete solution.] + +[Sidenote: Constant advance towards ideals.] + +Of course, only the ultra-Utopian dreamer claims that sex-education can +solve all the sexual problems of civilized life, but even the most +pessimistic disbeliever in the new movement admits that knowledge of +sexual life will be helpful to the great majority of people. Hence, it +is worth while to organize the educational attack on the sex problems +which we have considered in the preceding lectures. It seems to me that +we may gain an advantage by frankly admitting that the educational +attack is not expected to solve all sex problems for all people, for by +such admission we put to flight those shallow cynics who have opposed +the sex-education movement because they think (and probably correctly) +that immorality and social diseases and all other sexual disharmonies +will continue to exist as long as the human species does. Likewise, +there will be dishonesty and murder and preventable diseases and all +other human troubles in spite of education; but the advancement of +learning has slowly and progressively reduced the sum total of all the +disharmonies of life until now civilized people are largely free from +many of the original or barbaric conditions. Along similar lines we may +confidently think of sex-education as making a constantly advancing and +victorious attack on the problems of life that have grown out of our +primitive sexual instincts. Sex-education, like all other education, +strives towards ideals that individuals and society may always approach +but may never reach. It is only another case of Emerson's advice, +"hitch your wagon to a star," which means the adoption of high ideals +that lead ever on and on towards better life. + +With this understanding that _the task of sex-education is the +ever-advancing improvement of sexual conditions in individual as well +as in social life_, let us turn now to consider the possible lines for +definite educational attack on the chief problems of sex. It will be +most helpful if we first analyze the general task of sex-education into +some specific aims that may definitely guide instruction, and then in +later lectures consider the methods and detailed subject matter of +sex-instruction. + + +§ 16. _The Aims of Sex-education_ + +[Sidenote: Emphasis on social disease.] + +Since the revelations concerning the disastrous physical effects of +sexual immorality, especially as it exists in the commercialized +conditions of the social evil, have had the chief influence in +awakening intelligent people from their age-long ignorance and +indifference concerning the great sex problems, it was natural that +those who first proposed special instruction should have emphasized the +social evil and its diseases so much as to create the widespread but +erroneous impression that the great aim of sex-education is to teach +the distressing facts concerning the pathological consequences of +immorality. + +[Sidenote: Other problems need emphasis.] + +Now, without in the least underestimating the vast importance of the +emphasis placed on sexual immorality and social diseases in the +splendid pioneer work of the late Dr. Morrow and others for the +sex-education movement, and without suggesting that these topics should +be neglected while reorganizing the educational attack on sex problems, +I believe that so far as formal instruction in homes, schools, and +colleges is concerned, we may gain a decided advantage if we now +recognize and declare boldly that the physical effects of the diseases +arising from the social evil constitute _only one of several_ groups of +sex problems that organized education should attempt to solve. + +Concerning the other problems that sex-education should touch with +great definiteness, it is my personal view that most of those outlined +in the preceding lectures will be affected by instruction along five +important lines, as follows: + +[Sidenote: Five lines of instruction.] + +(1) The scientific truths that lead to serious and respectful attitude +on all sex questions. (2) The personal sex-hygiene that independent of +social diseases conserves individual health directly or indirectly +through sexual normality. (3) The ethical responsibility of individuals +for the physical or social or psychical harm of their sexual actions +upon other individuals, _e.g._, in prostitution and illegitimacy. (4) +The hygienic, ethical, and psychical laws that promote physical and +mental health in monogamic marriage. (5) The established principles of +heredity and eugenics which foretell the possible coming of a better +race of humans. I believe that in these five lines there are +educational problems of present and future greater significance to +human health and happiness than are found in the social evil and its +diseases, commandingly important though these be. Therefore, in viewing +the field of sex-education with reference to the possible usefulness of +knowledge in helping individuals solve the vital problems that have +grown naturally out of the reproductive function, I believe that we are +logical only when we organize our educational aims so as to give +scientific instruction concerning the problems of sex in the several +lines in addition to the physical or hygienic aspects of the social +evil and its diseases. + +[Sidenote: Four aims.] + +As I now see in the large the sexual problems which scientifically +organized education should attack, the educational aims may be grouped +under four general headings as follows: + +First and most important, sex-education should aim to develop an +open-minded, serious, scientific, and respectful attitude towards all +problems of human life which relate to sex and reproduction. + +Second, sex-education should aim to give that knowledge of personal +hygiene of the sexual organs which is of direct value in making for the +most healthful and efficient life of the individual. + +Third, sex-education should aim to develop personal responsibility +regarding the social, ethical, psychical, and eugenic aspects of sex as +affecting the individual life in its relation to other individuals of +the present and future generations; in short, sex-education should +consider the problems of sexual instincts and actions in relation to +society. + +Fourth, sex-education should aim to teach _briefly_ to young people, +during later adolescence, the essential hygienic, social, and eugenic +facts regarding the two destructive diseases which are chargeable to +sexual promiscuity or immorality. + +[Sidenote: Order of importance of aims.] + +For emphasis, let me briefly summarize these aims of sex-education: (1) +Serious, scientific, and respectful attitude of mind on sex questions; +(2) personal sex-hygiene; (3) social and ethical and eugenic +responsibility for sex actions; (4) relation of immorality and social +diseases. I have deliberately, placed these educational aims in this +order because it is the order of greatest permanent importance in the +sex-education movement; it represents the greatest value to the largest +number of individuals who may learn the scientific truth; and it is the +order most natural, most logical, and most effective in pedagogical +practice with young people. + +[Sidenote: Relation of aims to problems of sex.] + +Sex-education organized with regard to these four aims will touch +definitely all the eight problems of sex that have been discussed in +preceding lectures. The first aim will directly affect the problem of +vulgarity and indirectly touch those stated under the third aim. The +second aim is obviously directed to the problem of personal health as +it may be influenced by the sexual processes of one individual +independent of others. Of course, there is also the personal aspect of +social diseases, but it is clearer to consider both personal and social +aspects of these diseases as a unit in the fourth aim. The third aim is +based on five of the eight great problems which involve individual +responsibility for the social evil, for illegitimacy, for sexual +immorality, for matrimonial harmony, and for eugenics. The social +aspects of the venereal diseases obviously involve personal +responsibility of the individual in relation to society as well as a +personal hygienic problem. Thus, six of the eight great sex problems +are essentially social and only those relating to personal hygiene and +individual attitude are so distinctly personal as to have only an +indirect relation to other individuals, as might be true in case of +unharmonious marriage of individuals who are vulgar minded or who have +been injured by unhygienic personal habits. Finally, the fourth aim +provides for teaching the _essential_ facts that may help individuals +protect themselves directly, and society indirectly, against the +diseases that awakened the world to the need of sex-education. + +Let us turn now to analyze the aims of sex-education and consider how +they may be connected with a definite scheme for sex-instruction. + + +§ 17. _The Aims as the Basis of Organized Sex-instruction_ + +I have placed first the aim to develop a serious and respectful +attitude toward sex and reproduction because at the root of the sexual +problems of our times is the prevailing vulgar interpretation of sex +and life discussed in a preceding lecture (§ 11). + +[Sidenote: Biology and attitude.] + +Recognizing the great importance of attitude, how may it be influenced +by instruction in home or school? The most widely accepted answer is +that the best beginning may be made through study of biology (including +botany, zoölogy, and physiology) and through nature-study and hygiene +taught on a biologic basis. No other method of introduction to +sex-instruction is so natural and so likely to lead to a serious, +scientific, and open-minded attitude concerning sex. In fact, a large +part of the study of reproduction of plants and animals in courses of +biology in schools and colleges has its value chiefly in the +overwhelming evidence that problems of sex and reproduction are natural +and dignified aspects of life. Such biological study determines +attitude in no small degree. This is the chief justification for study +of the reproductive processes in a series of animals and plants +representing stages between the complex development of the highest +animals which parallel human life and the lowest forms which the +microscope reveals. In all my classes of twenty years in high school +and college I have noted a marked development of serious, scientific, +and open-minded attitude in response to natural and frank presentation +of animal and plant life-histories. Moreover, I have many times +requested large groups of students to write freely and frankly +concerning the influence of biological courses upon their own attitude; +and their papers have strongly supported my observation that study of +animal and plant life-histories exerts a profound influence upon the +attitude of students towards the human problems of sex and +reproduction. If I were stating a defense for biology as one of three +or four essential science courses for general education, I should place +the greatest emphasis upon the study of animals and plants as a +foundation for sex-instruction. Certain critics would reply that all +the biological facts that are actually used in the direct human +application of sex-instruction could be taught in a few lectures +without a year's course in biology; but it is a demonstrated fact that +a few isolated lessons do not give the attitude that comes from a good +course of biology taught with the view to culminating in special +sex-instruction. + +[Sidenote: Literature and attitude.] + +Only recently has it been pointed out that one's attitude towards sex +may be profoundly influenced by reading certain general literature that +holds up high ideals of love and sex and life. It will be most +convenient to consider the influence of literature on sex-instruction +in another lecture (§ 23). + +[Sidenote: Teaching personal sex-hygiene.] + +Now let us consider the general bearings of the personal sex-hygiene +demanded by the second aim. For children under ten and twelve the +necessary hygiene should be presented personally (see § 25). For young +people of adolescent years there are four possible ways of instruction +in personal sex-hygiene: (1) It may be added naturally to a course or +series of lessons in general hygiene including the problems of health +for all systems of organs. (2) It may be included in a study of +vertebrate and human reproduction in a course of biology or zoölogy. +(3) It may be presented by a special lecture that is independent of all +regular courses of study. (4) Special booklets may be put into the +hands of young people. Let us now examine each of these ways: + +[Sidenote: Sex-hygiene in general hygiene.] + +(1) Sex-hygiene as a natural part of a series of lessons in general +hygiene is most satisfactory when preceded by biological nature-study +or high-school biology in which life-histories of organisms have been +studied for the sake of attitude. At present we lack satisfactory +textbooks for this kind of correlation. There is a strong reaction +against independent courses of hygiene in high schools, and the next +plan is becoming more common. + +[Sidenote: Hygiene in biology.] + +(2) The inclusion of the necessary hygiene of all organs in courses of +biology or zoölogy that have emphasized physiology and its bearings on +health is the best arrangement so far proposed and tested in practice. +It has been tried with success by Dr. W.H. Eddy in the High School of +Commerce, New York City, and by other high-school teachers working +along the same lines. The arguments for teaching general hygiene on a +biological basis have been presented in the last chapter of "The +Teaching of Biology in Secondary Schools" by Lloyd and Bigelow, and put +in textbook form in the "Applied Biology" and "Introduction to Biology" +by M.A. and Anna N. Bigelow. However, personal sex-hygiene is not +included in these textbooks, because educational and public opinion do +not yet stand for such radical lessons in books for schools. + +[Sidenote: Special lectures on hygiene.] + +(3) Special lectures on sex-hygiene independent of biology or general +hygiene are at best makeshifts, and not without dangers. I fear the +effect of the abrupt introduction to sex problems by special lectures, +especially for girls who may be shocked much more than the average boys +can be. I heartily sympathize with parents and school officials who +object to special lectures that suddenly focus attention on problems of +sexual health. It seems to me that special lectures should be given +only when no other method of teaching is possible. This applies +especially to young people who are not in schools. While I have +stressed biological nature-study as offering the ideal basis for the +broadest kind of sex-education, I realize that there are cases where +such study cannot be held prerequisite to some aspects of sex-hygiene +that young people should know. However, we should aim to make such +cases the exceptions and not the rule. Some good may be accomplished by +teaching certain facts of sex-hygiene frankly and directly to those who +have absolutely no knowledge of nature-study and biology; but after +watching the reactions of groups of boys who were receiving such +information, I have been convinced that even with a limit of one hour +for instruction a biological setting is decidedly important in that it +gives an indirect approach. + +(4) Special books and pamphlets are useful when, and only when, the +above methods are impossible, but certain cautions are desirable (see § +22). + +[Sidenote: Difficulty in ethical-social teaching.] + +The third aim involves some difficult educational problems. Since we +confess that we know so little concerning efficient methods for +ethical, moral, or social teaching, it is evident that we must be far +from a satisfactory plan for dealing with instruction which is intended +to oppose most powerful instinctive tendencies and long-established +habits of sensuality. Clearly the third aim sets no easy task for the +educator; but since the possible solution of sex problems must turn on +the sex actions of the individual in relation to society, the +ethical-social aspects of sex-education must not be evaded because the +way is not yet entirely clear. The fact is that a good beginning has +been made, especially in teaching concerning social diseases, heredity, +and eugenics. + +[Sidenote: Social hygiene and ethics.] + +The value of all the proposed teaching concerning the relation of +immorality and social diseases is more ethical than hygienic. Read any +of the standard literature on the social side of venereal diseases, +especially the masterly writings of the eminent physician and chief +organizer of the American movement for sex-education, the late Dr. +Prince A. Morrow, of New York City; and one notes that the medical +facts have bearings in two directions. First, they indicate the +desirability of morality as a protection of personal health; and +second, they teach that the pathological results of the individual's +immoral living may be passed on later to innocent wives and children. +The first is as clearly personal hygiene as teaching that impure water +may cause typhoid; but the second is social hygiene and ethics. The +second is more impressive to all but the most selfish people. + +There is good reason for believing that information concerning the +social diseases is more likely to impress the average young man through +the social-ethical appeal much more than as a matter of personal +health. Therefore, a biological lesson on social diseases, which may be +presented most logically in connection with other germ diseases, may +have its chief value in that its meaning is social and ethical. + +[Sidenote: Biology and ethics.] + +As another illustration of biology touching ethics, I have recently +come to believe that the teaching concerning heredity and eugenics, +which should be a standard part of the best sex-instruction, has its +greatest value in the ethical appeal, and not in the direct biological +application of the laws of heredity which underlie eugenics. I realize +that this statement is likely to be disputed by those biologists who +see in eugenics only the possibility of controlling heredity so as to +propagate better strains of humans, just as breeders of plants and +animals have produced better domesticated varieties. A biologist +naturally believes that the ultimate aim of eugenics is improvement +of physical and psychical qualities; but considering the +ethical-social-biological complications of human sex-problems, it seems +improbable that any decided and extensive improvement is likely to +come if we continue to limit our interpretation of the principles of +eugenics to the purely biological standpoint of the breeder of plants +and animals. Let me illustrate by some concrete facts from eugenics: + +There is a widespread opinion among science teachers that high-school +biology should present some of the best established facts of heredity; +and that these should be eugenically applied to human life by means of +such illustrations as those afforded by the histories of certain +degenerate families, such as the well-known Jukes and Kallikaks. A +brief sketch of the history of the latter family, as described in Dr. +Goddard's interesting book, "The Kallikak Family" (Macmillan), will +make clear my point as to the ethical appeal of eugenics. + +[Sidenote: Eugenics and ethical teaching.] + +A young man of good ancestry broke the moral law about one hundred and +forty years ago and became the father of an illegitimate son by a +feeble-minded mother. Of 480 descendants of this son, there have been +46 normal, many immoral, many alcoholic and 143 feeble-minded. The same +man who back in the revolutionary days made a moral mistake which led +to such awful consequences, later married a woman of good family and +became the progenitor of a second line of 496 descendants of whom 494 +have been normal mentally, while two were affected by alliance with +another family; and all have been first-class citizens, many of them +prominent in business, professions, etc. + +Even making due allowance for the depressing influence of the +environment in which most of the down-and-out descendants in the +degenerate line lived, the comparison between the normal and the +abnormal lines from the same ancestor gives the most convincing eugenic +evidence that has been discovered in the human race. Doubtless it will +long be used as a basis for attempted biological control of the +propagation of the unfit. Many similar cases of hereditary degeneracy +are recorded in books on eugenics. + +Such a eugenic record as that of this Kallikak family should be +reviewed in every high school and college in connection with the topic +"heredity" in a course of biology, for it will teach two important +lessons: (1) The biological principle that defects, both physical and +mental, are highly heritable, even for many generations; and (2) the +ethical responsibility for the sex actions of the individual who may +start a long train of human disaster that may visit the children unto +even later than the third and fourth generations. The first lesson is a +purely biological one which suggests the eugenic argument that +defective humans, like undesirable animals and plants, should not take +part in the perpetuation of the species. The second lesson is not +biological but ethical, suggesting individual responsibility for +conduct which may disastrously affect other individuals' lives. It +seems to me that so far as general education is concerned, the ethical +lesson is the more impressive and more likely to lead to voluntary +eugenic practice by individuals. It is my observation that even many +intelligent people are not seriously impressed by the biological +evidences for eugenics considered as a general problem, but their +reaction is one of interest when one begins to present the question of +ethical responsibility for the transmission of physical and mental +defects to future generations. Such considerations have led me to the +view, already suggested, that eugenic studies in courses of biology +have their greatest practical value in their ethical implications, +which, of course, by influencing individual responsibility for +reproduction may lead to the desirable biological improvement of the +human race. Teachers of biology should present, as an economic problem, +the facts which will make better breeds of plants and animals by direct +application of the biological laws of heredity; but they should present +and apply parallel facts to human life in order to influence first of +all individual responsibility for ethical control of reproductive +activity, and thus indirectly work eugenically for an improved human +race. + +[Sidenote: Aim of eugenics.] + +Thus the aim of eugenics is most likely to be attained through ethical +rather than biological application of the teaching which our schools +can give. The men and women who view life selfishly with no feelings of +ethical responsibility towards others of the present or future will +take no practical interest in the biological problems of human +eugenics, although the economic problems of plant and animal breeding +may interest some of these same people. + +[Sidenote: Education and other aspects of sex problems.] + +In addition to the ethical-social bearings of biological teaching, our +sex-education will be incomplete until we learn how to attack the sex +problems directly and effectively with reference to the ethical, +social, psychical, and æsthetic aspects. Perhaps we may be able to do +this only with mature people; probably it is too much to hope that even +a serious impression will be made on all intelligent people; but +somehow sex-education must be completed by adequate presentation of +these aspects, for the problems of sex are satisfactorily solved only +in the lives of those fortunate individuals whose vision of the +relation of sex and life combines the viewpoints of biology, hygiene, +psychology, ethics, religion, and last--but far from least--æsthetics. + +[Sidenote: Only essential knowledge of social diseases.] + +Finally, the educational application of the fourth aim demands some +explanation. Sometime in the adolescent period all young people should +learn the essential facts regarding the two social diseases and their +relation to immoral living. There is the widespread impression that +those advocating sex-education believe in giving great prominence to +the social diseases; but in opposition to this I cite the report of a +committee of the American Federation for Sex Hygiene, published in the +_Journal of the Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis_, January, +1913, and later reprinted as a pamphlet by the American Social Hygiene +Association. In that report there are _twenty-three_ recommendations +concerning sex-instruction; but _only_ one mentions social diseases +and in these words: "During the later period of adolescence ... there +should be given ... special instruction as to the character and dangers +of the venereal diseases." That seems sufficient. It is not desirable +that young people should review the horrible facts relating to +perverted sexuality. Ten or twenty brief and authoritative statements +quoted impressively from medical and social literature ought to give +fair warning of lurking dangers in immoral living. More extensive +information has often proved dangerous. I would gladly advocate that +this dark side of life be kept in sealed books if I did not know that +so many young people need forewarning and definite guidance. Our +educational system will not do its full duty if it fails to offer the +needed help so that it may be obtained by all adolescent young people +who are not so fortunate as to be guided by parents and other personal +teachers. + +FOOTNOTES: + +[12] To avoid misunderstanding, let me repeat from the first lecture +that I am constantly thinking of sex-education in the larger sense; +and instruction in schools can be, at best, only a part. + + + + +IV + +THE TEACHER OF SEX-KNOWLEDGE + + +§ 18. _Who Should Give Sex-instruction?_ + +A large number of people have been convinced that young people need +knowledge which will help them face the great problems of sex; but they +withhold their approval of the sex-education movement because they are +not satisfied that proper teachers exist. It is, therefore, evident +that we cannot make permanent progress by emphasizing the need of +sex-education unless we can give assurance that qualified teachers are +available. + +[Sidenote: The teacher most important.] + +The situation as regards teachers of sex-instruction is very different +from that of all other subjects concerning which young people should be +taught. We cannot safely plan the teaching regarding sex until we know +the teacher. This will be evident, I think, after some general +considerations concerning selection of teachers and some discussion of +problems such as the first teacher, teachers for classes, and some +undesirable teachers. The general rule should be, first, find the safe +and sure teacher and, second, select the facts and plan the lessons +that the chosen teacher may give effectively. + +[Sidenote: Teachers of same sex for children.] + +So far as young children are concerned, the needed instruction is so +general in character that the sex of the competent teacher is of little +importance, but the information that ought to prepare for and guide +through the mazes of adolescent youth should come to young people from +teachers of the same sex. If exceptions must be made rather than omit +instruction altogether, some very mature women may safely guide both +boys and girls through adolescence; but men, even physicians, should +not undertake instruction of adolescent young women, unless parents and +other mature people are present to help with attitude. That women may +well instruct boys I know, because the most impressive sex lecture I +ever heard was given by the late Dr. Mary Wood-Allen to the boys of the +freshman class when I was a college student. But note that I have said +"some very mature women." The fact is that I fear danger for some boys +if they are frankly instructed by attractive young women who are only +ten to fifteen years older than their pupils. Hence, I urge great +caution if there must be any exceptions to the general rule that +teachers and pupils should be of the same sex. + +[Sidenote: Coeducational classes.] + +I realize the difficulty of applying this rule in many high schools +where the foundations of sex-education are well laid on the biological +basis. There is no reason why the biological studies should not be +coeducational through nature-study and biology as far as the +development of frogs and birds and, in a general way, of mammals. In +fact, both of my textbooks, the "Applied Biology" and the "Introduction +to Biology," which emphasize reproduction of organisms more than other +high-school books, have been used throughout in coeducational classes. +However, these books stop where the problems of human life begin and +should be supplemented by lessons for sex-limited classes. There are +writers who suggest that segregation of the sexes for teaching +concerning human life may be at present a necessity because complete +frankness on sexual questions is certainly obstructed by tradition; but +we must not ignore the deep social reasons why, in general, there must +be maintained a certain amount of reserve between the sexes in the +consideration of some important problems of life. No educational theory +or practice can possibly alter the fundamental physical or psychical +relations of the sexes which nature seems to have fixed immutably. + +[Sidenote: Married women as teachers.] + +One other point that deserves attention in this connection is the +common statement that only married women, preferably mothers, can be +competent instructors of young women. This strikes me as more than +absurd. Personal experience is not always necessary for teaching in any +line. The greatest medical teachers have not had the diseases they +describe so clearly. The best elementary teachers and specialists on +the care of children are not always mothers; on the contrary, some of +these are men. The fact is that these teachers have learned, not from +personal experience, but from the great accumulations of scientific +knowledge of medicine, hygiene, and education. There is an abundance of +such knowledge relating to sex that may be clearly understood by bright +women who have no bi-personal knowledge of sex. Therefore, I believe +that it is nonsense to insist that only women with complete sexual +experiences can be efficient guides for other women. + + +§ 19. _The Child's First Teachers of Sex-knowledge_ + +[Sidenote: Mothers and other first teachers.] + +The first instruction which may begin to lay the foundation for the +individual's sex-education should be given in early childhood by +parents, or by other adults, who happen to be on the most intimate +personal terms with the child. Usually this means the mother; but there +are numerous cases of teachers, governesses, grandmothers, and even +fathers who have greater personal influence with certain children than +their mothers have. The essential point is that the child should be +instructed only by an adult who can exert the greatest personal +influence. + +[Sidenote: Mothers and adolescent boys.] + +Many parents who believe in sex-education for their children hold that +the mothers should give all necessary hygienic guidance and teach the +elementary facts of life to the children of both sexes in the +pre-adolescent years, but that with the dawn of adolescence the girls +should continue to be instructed by their mothers, while the boys +should be guided by their fathers. So far as girls are concerned, this +seems to be a fairly good plan; but nine times out of ten it is not +best for the boys for several reasons: First, the sudden change of +attitude on the part of the mother will surely impress upon the boy +that there is something about sex in boys that even his mother dares +not talk over with him. At about this same time when the mother begins +to avoid the sex question with her boy, he will surely begin to get +vulgar information and impressions from his boy companions. He will in +all probability begin to hear the impure and obscene stories and vulgar +language that are so common among many men and boys, and he will be +sure to learn that the vulgarity which he hears must not be repeated in +the presence of his mother and sisters. It is a most critical time in +the mental attitude of the boy. His mother has so far been directing +him towards purity and then suddenly sets him adrift. If there is ever +a time in a boy's life when he needs intimacy with his mother, it is in +the early adolescent years of twelve to fourteen. A strong mother's +heart to heart guidance at that time will influence the boy more than +all the sex-education which the schools and colleges combined can ever +hope to offer. Such is the problem of home teaching for adolescent +boys. I emphatically protest against the foolish and even dangerous +idea that because a boy is beginning to metamorphose into a man his +mother should cease to help him with the problems of sex. Lucky is that +adolescent boy whose mother realizes her duty and her opportunity and +holds him as intimately as if he were a girl of corresponding age. + + +§ 20. _Selecting Teachers for Class Instruction_ + +The references to "the teacher" in the following are primarily +applicable to those who may be called upon to give sex-instruction as +class work in schools, colleges, churches, the Y.M.C.A., the Y.W.C.A., +and other educational organizations. + +The chief question for discussion in this lecture is that of selecting +the teacher of those phases of sex-instruction that are directly +related to human life, that is, personal sex-hygiene and sex-ethics. So +far as biological facts of sex are concerned, there are no special +problems such as may not be handled by teachers of biology in general +according to the accepted methods (see Lloyd and Bigelow, "Teaching of +Biology in the Secondary School" and Bigelow, "Teacher's Manual of +Biology"). + +[Sidenote: Regular teachers if possible.] + +As already suggested, a large part of the sex-instruction is simply an +extension of biological science, hygiene, and ethics; and in secondary +schools and colleges should be given by selected teachers of the +regular staff and whenever possible as a part of regular courses. There +may be some necessary modifications to this plan; for example, in +Teachers College the course on sex-education and another series of +lectures on sex-physiology and hygiene for women are open to students +who do not take the biology courses in which the sex-instruction +logically belongs. + +[Sidenote: Sex-hygiene and ethics.] + +The culminating stages of any complete scheme for formal sex-education +of young people will be sex-hygiene considered in its strict sense as +that special phase of sex-education which deals with problems of +health, and sex-ethics which determines the responsibility of +individuals for control of sexual instincts. While nature-study and +biology and general hygiene may be organized so as to present the major +portion of the facts which should be included in a complete scheme of +sex-instruction in schools and colleges, the application of these facts +to personal life is the most difficult problem of sex-education. In +fact, it is the only real problem, for long before sex-education became +a definite movement the most efficient science teachers were presenting +the fundamental facts on which we now propose to build with certain +hygienic and ethic instruction which directly touches the personal life +of the student. As already said, the human application will require +only a few lessons, preferably in connection with nature-study, +biology, ethics, or hygiene. But although brief, such instruction is +the keystone in the arch of sex-education, and it is very important +that there be no serious mistakes in selecting the teachers. + +[Sidenote: Sex specialists not desirable.] + +I have mentioned special teachers as necessary for instruction with +direct reference to specialists human life. I hasten to add that I +still agree with the report of the special committee (Morrow, _et al._) +of the American Federation for Sex Hygiene that it is not desirable +that any teacher should make a specialty of this type of instruction +and of no other. We do not want "sex specialists" in the schools (see +pp. 10 and 20-23 of the Report of the Committee). It is important that +all teachers should have general information regarding the sex problems +of young people in order to be able to help individual pupils. + + +§ 21. _Certain Undesirable Teachers for Special Hygienic and Ethical +Instruction_ + +It will be most helpful if we consider the problem of selecting +teachers with a view to rejecting those who certainly should not +undertake the special hygienic and ethical teaching, for teachers who +are good in other subjects and who are fortunately free from certain +disqualifications discussed in the following, may by means of study +adapt themselves for the final and most important stages of +sex-education. + +There are five types of teachers who should be regarded as disqualified +for teaching personal sex-hygiene and sex-ethics. + +[Sidenote: Embarrassed teachers.] + +First, those men and women who are unable to speak of sex-hygiene as +calmly and seriously as they do of any other phase of hygiene had +better not undertake the instruction of young people. There are many +such men and women among teachers who, so far as scientific training is +concerned, ought to be good teachers of sex-hygiene. As an illustration +of this attitude that leaves the wrong impression with students, it is +reported that a good teacher of hygiene recently prefaced a brief talk +to college girls as follows: "I shall now consider a process that no +cultured woman ever mentions except with bated breath. I refer to +menstruation." + +[Sidenote: Abnormal teachers.] + +The second kind of people who should not teach sex-hygiene are the men +and women who are the unfortunate victims of sexual abnormality, either +physical or psychical, that more or less influences their outlook on +life. Certain neurotic and hysterical men or women who lack thorough +physiological training and whose own sexual disturbances have led them +to devour omnivorously and unscientifically the psychopathological +literature of sex by such authors as Havelock Ellis, Krafft-Ebing, and +Freud, are probably unsafe teachers of sex-hygiene. Especially is this +true of the women of this type whose introspective morbidity has led +them to diagnose their own functional disturbances as the direct result +of "over-sexuality" and restraint from normal sexual expression--a +diagnosis that is probably wrong nine times in ten cases. Such a woman +is a very dangerous teacher of sex-hygiene for adolescent girls; and a +positive menace to older unmarried women who, if free from absorbing +work, may spend their leisure in becoming more or less restless under +the unsocial, if not unphysiologic, conditions of unwelcome celibacy. +This is no imaginary danger. The reader of this will not be interested +in details, but the author has received from physicians and others +reliable information concerning several extremely abnormal women of the +above-described type who are taking an active interest in the +sex-instruction of young people and are actually suggesting to their +friends among young women the dangerous and untrue doctrine that +prolonged celibacy for women results in repressed sexuality that surely +leads to ill health. Such ideas, it is true, are traceable to certain +well-known radical writers on the psychopathology of sex; but we must +remember that the great majority of physicians and other scientific +investigators who have studied such problems refuse to believe that +repressed sex instincts in either men or women do the harm that a few +extremists have claimed. But even if it were known beyond the shadow of +a doubt that repressed sex instincts may injure people, it would be +unwise to intrust young people to instruction by teachers who have a +hypochondriacal interest in such a doctrine of repression. Such +suggestions can do only harm to the vast majority of persons who +receive them. To say the least, it is unfortunate that the +psychopathology of sex has become so widely circulated among those who +are not well trained in physiology and psychiatry. + +[Sidenote: Teachers who emphasize sexual abnormality.] + +The third kind of people who should not be intrusted with teaching +sex-hygiene are the men and women who, without a scientific +perspective, have plunged into the literature of sexual abnormality +until they have come to think that knowledge concerning perverted life +is an important part of sex-education for young people, especially for +those of post-adolescent years. I know of teachers and physicians who +advise young people not much over twenty years of age to read such +psychopathological works as those of Krafft-Ebing, Ellis, and Freud, +and various works dealing with commercialized vice. Here is a grave +danger. The less that people without professional use for knowledge of +sexual pathology know concerning it, the better it will be for their +peace of mind and possibly for their morals. Therefore, I urge that he +who enthusiastically studies the abnormalities of sex life without +reference to scientific research or professional demands, is not likely +to be the kind of teacher who will present abnormal life only so far as +is necessary to an understanding of the perfectly normal. + +[Sidenote: Pessimistic teachers.] + +The fourth kind of people who ought not to instruct the young in +personal problems of sex-hygiene are the men and women whose own +unhappy romances or married life, or whose knowledge of vice +conditions, have made them pessimistic concerning sex-problems. There +are in our schools and colleges to-day some such men and many such +women, and there will be danger for young people when the growing +freedom of expression allows these sexual pessimists to impress their +own hopeless philosophy of sex upon students. The educational world +does not need such teachers, but rather those who can follow the late +Dr. Morrow in seeing a bright side of life that almost dispels the +darkness of sexual errors. + +[Sidenote: Teachers not respected by pupils.] + +The fifth kind of persons who ought not to teach the personal side of +sex-hygiene are those who cannot command the most serious respect of +their pupils. This applies especially to many men teachers whose +flippant attitude and even questionable living are not likely to help +their pupils, especially boys, towards a satisfactory interpretation of +sex problems. Of course, such teachers ought not be in schools at all, +but the fact is that for various reasons they sometimes get there and +stay there; and so they must be weighed by the school official who +selects the teachers to be intrusted with special problems of +sex-education. + +[Sidenote: No instruction without satisfactory teachers.] + +Summarizing, I have in this lecture aimed to warn the school +administrator, and others who must select teachers of classes, against +the kinds of teachers who ought not be chosen for presenting the +special problems of sex-education, especially those of sex-hygiene and +sex-ethics. I have pointed out that there are five serious +disqualifications; and it is probable that if strictly applied when +choosing teachers for special sex-instruction, there will be +elimination of three or four in every ten of those whose training in +science might be expected to qualify them as teachers of this special +line. It is a fair question as to what a school or other institution +should do if it has no teachers who are free from the above +disqualifications. My own belief is that it is better to get an +outsider for the handling of the special problems. If this is +impracticable, then suggest to the students that they read certain +books such as are recommended in the last sections of this book. Even +entire omission of the study of the personal and social aspects of +sex-hygiene and sex-ethics is far wiser than intrusting a class to a +teacher with one or more of the negative qualifications that we have +been considering in this lecture. The effect of sex-education upon +individual lives will in no small degree depend upon the impression +made by the living teacher who deals with the difficult problems of sex +in relation to hygiene and ethics. Hence, the greatest care should be +taken when selecting the teacher for this all-important part of the +student's sex-education. + + + + +V + +BOOKS AS TEACHERS CONCERNING SEX AND LIFE + + +§ 22. _Value and Danger of Special Sex Books for Young People_ + +[Sidenote: Books for private reading.] + +There are many parents and teachers who believe that young people +should get their sexual information by private reading, and numerous +books for boys and girls have been prepared to meet such a demand. The +desire for such "private" reading undoubtedly exists, especially in +boys; but this is part of the general air of secrecy and vulgarity that +has enshrouded the truth about sexual matters. Many eminent physicians +agree that there are elements of physical and perhaps moral danger when +a boy reads a sex-science book secretly, but that there are few such +possibilities in frank and scientific teaching by a competent +instructor. This is recognized by leaders in the Y.M.C.A., and they +prefer to read books with the boys in study classes. Many scientific +women think there is no such danger for average girls, but agree that +girls as well as boys will gain in respect for the subject of sex if +the atmosphere of secrecy can be avoided. Hence, while books for +private reading are better than ignorance, they alone will not solve +many of the problems at which sex-education is directed. We must cease +to foster the secrecy created by an atmosphere of obscenity, and the +study of sex must be brought into the light of day. Let good books be +recommended through parents and with their approval be issued freely by +libraries and without restrictions which suggest something dark and +wrong. Let parents and teachers encourage such reading, but not as +something requiring secrecy. Rather let such books be read as freely as +any other good books, and let parents and competent teachers follow the +young readers closely so as to explain facts and help develop the +desirable attitude of mind. Especially let parents encourage the idea +that approved sex-science books may be read at the family fireside as +properly as any other books. Above all, let parents and teachers work +in every possible way against the time-worn idea that problems of sex +are essentially vulgar and demand secrecy even in scientific study. We +must have a nobler and healthier outlook on human life than that which +so commonly prevails, and we can never get it by secret study of +sex-science by young people. Such study may do some good by warning +against unhygienic habits and social diseases; but it is certainly +inadequate to give the open-minded attitude needed so much for +appreciating the ethical, social, and æsthetic bearings of human life +as it is influenced by normal sexual functions. + +[Sidenote: Pamphlets _vs._ books.] + +It has been urged by well-known teachers that, for sex-instruction, +pamphlets are better than books in that they do not hold the attention +too long on topics that may be exciting to some young people. On the +other hand, books usually make a stronger appeal, while pamphlets are +likely to be regarded lightly, as are magazines and newspapers. There +is no doubt that most sex books for young people are too extended, and +there is need of condensed forty-and fifty-cent booklets in place of +the books commonly sold at one dollar. Three or four small booklets by +different authors read at widely separated intervals will interest and +influence a young man more than one large and comprehensive book. There +is besides great value in the points of view of various authors. + +[Sidenote: Better books needed.] + +At present there are no thoroughly satisfactory books for adolescent +boys and girls. In my opinion, W.S. Hall's books for boys are the most +reliable, and his "Life Problems" is the best selection of facts for +girls; but some mature readers criticize the style of presentation. +Some other books for adolescent young people are mentioned with +critical notes in the bibliography at the end of this book. There is +still plenty of chance for authors to experiment in writing books of +this class. + + +§ 23. _General Literature and Sex Problems_ + +[Sidenote: Sex in literature.] + +In the world's best literature there is much that teaches important +lessons in the field of the larger sex-education. In the guise of love, +sex problems have always held the prominent place in all literature. +Many a great book teaches direct or positive lessons by holding up high +ideals for inspiration and imitation; but some of the most impressive +lessons are in negative form, especially in fiction that deals with the +tragedies of life. + +[Sidenote: Religious books.] + +As examples of literature of direct influence in helping many young +people solve the problems of sex, we think first of that which holds up +high ideals of personal purity, such as the Bible and other religious +books. There is no doubt that such literature has a tremendous +influence on many young people; but it has little influence on others, +probably in part because the somewhat mystical style of most religious +writings is meaningless to many people. + +[Sidenote: Appeal of poetry.] + +It is a fact that many young people who refuse to be interested in +religious literature may be influenced for sexual purity by the +emotional appeal of some general literature. This is especially true of +romantic poetry. I believe that the high "idealism" of love inspired by +Tennyson's "The Princess" and "Idylls of the King," by Longfellow's +"Evangeline" and "The Hanging of the Crane," by some of Shakespeare's +plays, and by other great poetry with similar themes has had and will +continue to have greater influence on the attitude and ethics of many +young people than all the formal sex-teaching that can be organized. +Hence, I believe that teachers of literature should be led to take +interest in the larger sex-education to the end that by selection and +interpretation of great masterpieces they may contribute in a valuable +way to the solution of some of the problems that have their center in +the deeper nature of sex. + +[Sidenote: Importance of interpretation.] + +Interpretation of literature by teachers is very important for the +purposes of sex-education of young people. As an example, take +Tennyson's "Idylls of the King," whose movement centers in the life +problems that turn around love. The average reader is likely to miss +the great lessons if the poem is not critically interpreted either by +living teachers or by such critical essays as those by Henry van Dyke +in his "Poetry of Tennyson" and Newell Dwight Hillis in his "Great +Books as Life-Teachers." Without interpretation "The Idylls" may teach +false as well as true lessons of life. Some of the Knights of the Round +Table (Galahad and Percivale) were worthy followers of the good and +pure King Arthur, and some of them (like Lancelot and Tristram and +Merlin) proved unable to live up to the vow of chastity to which Arthur +swore all his knights. And on the part of the ladies of Arthur's court, +there was purity and devotion and true womanhood in Elaine and Enid, +while Guinevere and Ettarre and Vivien were unchaste and faithless. In +fact, all phases of the relations of men and women in the struggles and +perplexities of life are pictured; and therefore it is important that a +well-trained teacher should be the guide and interpreter if the "Idylls +of the King" are to be read with the idea of understanding their true +bearings on life, which includes their contribution to the larger +sex-education. + +I have used "The Idylls of the King" as an illustration because they +are so many-sided in sex problems; but much other great literature may +be made to help young people to high ideals of relationships between +men and women. I have emphasized the place of such literature in the +larger sex-education because I have come to believe that interpretation +of life either real or in great literature may have profound influence +in the development of one's philosophy of life. As a matter of +educational procedure insuring that young people will learn to +interpret life, especially those aspects that the larger sex-education +touches so definitely, there appears to be no more natural and +unobtrusive way of approach than that offered by the study of +literature. I am convinced that many teachers of literature may be +efficient workers in the cause of the larger sex-education, +supplementing the scientific teaching in the ethical lines where +science is admittedly weak, if not helpless. It is to be hoped that +numerous teachers will soon grasp this opportunity. If they will study +the sex-education movement in order to get its general bearings and +will teach the sex aspect of literature on a basis of high ideals of +life and love, we need have no fear as to the culmination of the +instruction which properly begins with study of the biological facts of +life in its sexual aspects and leads on and on to its climax in the +ethical aspects of the individual's sex life in relation to other +individuals, that is, to society. + +[Sidenote: Not to be labeled "sex-education."] + +I take it for granted that no teacher of literature who contributes to +sex-instruction will let the students know that the emphasis placed on +great life problems is part of a conspiracy of parents and educators to +give in the name of sex-education instruction that will help prepare +the individual for facing the problems. Here, as elsewhere, the young +people had better be left unaware that their elders are so interested +in giving them instruction regarding sex problems that they have +organized, for study of ways and means, a movement known as +sex-education. + +[Sidenote: Sex tragedies of fiction.] + +The abundant literature that points to the moral to be drawn from +sexual tragedies has doubtless influenced thousands of young people. I +have talked with many educated people who confessed to having been +profoundly influenced by such books as Eliot's "Adam Bede," Hawthorne's +"Scarlet Letter," Goethe's "Faust," Hardy's "Tess of the +d'Urbervilles." One might go on and compile an extensive bibliography, +for fiction of all languages of all times is full of the errors into +which insistent sex instincts have drawn men and women who were not +masters of themselves. All standard fiction in which sexual errors and +their penalties are associated may do good as a part of the larger +sex-education, but the teacher should make sure that the young readers +arrive at the correct interpretation. + +[Sidenote: Fiction without a moral.] + +Against that type of fiction which presents sex problems that do not +clearly "point a moral," the average so-called "problem novel" of +recent time, there should be general opposition by workers for the +larger sex-education. Many of the modern novels and magazine stories +seem to introduce sexual situations for the same reason that Boccaccio +did in some of his tales, namely, the attractiveness of lasciviousness. +Unlike the commendable novels, it is characteristic of the equivocal +ones that no penalty is demanded or paid and no moral conclusion is +suggested. In fact, the way is very often left open to an immoral +interpretation. All such literature certainly tends to work against the +aims of sex-education. Perhaps parents and teachers may coöperate to +keep much of this kind of literature out of the hands of young people, +but the safest procedure is in cultivating taste for literature that +does teach helpful lessons of life. If young people do read books and +magazines that seem to stand for uncertain morals, it is best that +parents and teachers should point out the moral interpretations. + + +§ 24. _Dangers in Literature on Abnormal Sexuality_ + +[Sidenote: Danger in present interests in the abnormal.] + +The opinion is spreading among those who are studying the educational +problems relating to sex that there is great danger, even for many +adults, in much of the literature describing psychopathological and +abnormal social-sexual facts. There are enormous quantities of such +literature, particularly concerning the social evil. It is extremely +doubtful whether the reader who is not directly engaged in medicine, +psychiatry, or social reform will profit by filling his mind with facts +from the darkest side of life. No doubt it is important that all +intelligent men and women should know enough about sexual immorality +and the life of the underworld so that they will realize the necessity +of protecting young people from vice in all its forms; but this does +not mean that everybody should read extensively in the mass of printed +matter that sets forth the most awful details concerning human +depravity. There is a real danger in this line. The sex-education +movement has already brought the problems of sex out of the old-time +secrecy, and no other topics of the times are so freely read and +discussed. This might be well if the reading and discussion always took +constructive lines leading towards improvement of sexual relationships; +but unfortunately, much of the present popular interest in sexual +problems seems to be a morbid craving for the abnormal. We find this +tendency in the demand for a certain type of sex-problem novels, we +see it frequently on the stage and in motion pictures, and we hear it +in general conversation. The advertised suggestion of sexual immorality +in a forthcoming serial novel often raises surprisingly the circulation +of certain magazines. A few hints of sexual irregularity in certain +plays have brought crowded audiences. A scandalous divorce case, +reported as freely as the law allows, is a choice morsel for average +readers of newspapers. Everywhere it is the sexual abnormality, +perversity, and even bestial vulgarity, that seems to attract the most +attention. Books and magazines and theaters and preachers who extol the +normal and bright side of sex-life are not now extremely popular with +the masses of people. As a well-known magazine recently summarized the +present situation, "it has struck sex o'clock in America." There is no +denying the fact that in recent years the popular interest in sex +problems has taken a dangerous turn. It is time for those who are +active in the sex-education movement to note the signs of the times, +for an effective educational scheme for young people must take into +account the present tendency towards a dangerous interest in literature +relating to sexual abnormality, especially immorality. All this +tendency towards interest in the abnormal or irregular sexual problems +must cause not a little worry to those whose interest is primarily in +securing widespread recognition of the advantages of normal and moral +living. + +[Sidenote: Need of interest in normal sex life.] + +Perhaps those who are seriously interested in sex-education may help +stem the tide towards interest in sexual abnormality by using greater +care in the selection of literature, both for young people and for +their elders. I recently met a superintendent of schools who had +carefully read certain large volumes on the medical, psychical, and +social abnormalities of sex, and many books and pamphlets on the social +evil. Altogether he had read more than five thousand pages on the +immoral and abnormal aspects of sex. He wanted to know where he might +find a book on the normal side of sex in its physiological, +psychological, and ethical aspects. Unfortunately, there is no such +treatise by an author whose scientific standing equals that of several +of those who have written extensively on the abnormal side; and +probably this is in part the reason why so many young men and women are +now molding their ideas of sexual life according to the patterns +described by the authors of works on social and sexual pathology. Not a +month passes in which I am not astounded to find men and women who have +plunged deeply into studies of sexual vice and pathology and who know +less of the normal biology of sex than is contained in such books as +W.S. Hall's "Sexual Knowledge" or the last chapter of Martin's "Human +Body, Advanced Course." This is indeed a strange situation, and we +might compare it with reading extensive works on insanity before +learning the elements of normal psychology. It is certainly a useless, +if not a dangerous line of approach to the information concerning sex +which intelligent people need. The leaders in the sex-education +movement will do well to promote the circulation of some brief and +authoritative statement of the chief facts relating to the problems of +abnormal sexual life and then to discourage the popular circulation of +the extensive works which only certain physicians and social reformers +need. I know that there is some difference of opinion as to the effect +of such literature. I know many prominent educators and physicians who +would keep the extensive works on the psychopathology of sex out of the +hands of all general readers; but I also know a few who see no +possibility of danger in widespread circulation of such books. + +[Sidenote: Limited knowledge of the abnormal.] + +Looking at all sides of the present situation, it is my personal +conclusion that every one should learn first the scientific facts +regarding normal processes connected with the sexual system; and then +for the general reader there should be only a limited amount of warning +knowledge regarding the dangers of sexual abnormalities. + + + + +VI + +SEX-INSTRUCTION FOR PRE-ADOLESCENT YEARS + + +[Sidenote: Periods of early life.] + +In § 8 of the Report of the Committee of Three of the American +Federation for Sex-hygiene, by Morrow and others, the life of the child +was divided into four periods, namely,--under six years, from six to +twelve, twelve to sixteen, sixteen to maturity. This division now seems +to me to be too arbitrary, and I have come to believe that it is more +helpful to consider sex-instruction for three periods as follows: +pre-adolescence (ending at eleven to fourteen years); early adolescence +(twelve to sixteen years for girls, thirteen to seventeen for boys); +later adolescence (sixteen to twenty-one for girls, eighteen to +twenty-five for boys). + + +§ 25. _Elementary Instruction and Influence_ + +[Sidenote: Nature-study.] + +The life-histories of plants and animals as taught in the best +nature-study[13] are important in forming attitude towards reproduction +and giving a basis for simple and truthful answers to the child's +questions as to the origin of the individual human life. The +publications listed in the last section of this book under the headings +"For Girls" and "For Boys" will help parents and teachers. + +There is need of little private hygienic instruction, but of much +guidance away from harmful habits. This will be indicated in the next +section which considers masturbation as it concerns children of both +sexes and all ages. + +[Sidenote: Protection.] + +The protection of children from corrupting influences is an important +work of sex-education in pre-adolescent years. Probably the greatest +safety lies in parents giving simple facts regarding reproduction and +in cultivating confidence so that any accidental contact of their +children with vulgarity will be counteracted in advance. Many parents, +especially mothers, have found this possible. + +[Sidenote: Girls' preparation for puberty.] + +In the years between ten and twelve every child should learn from a +parent or other adult confidant some general facts regarding their +approaching puberty. This is especially important in the case of girls, +for many a girl has been physically and mentally injured because a +prudish mother has procrastinated too long the giving of information +regarding the first menstrual period. The facts in the first thirty +pages of W.S. Hall's "Life Problems" should be known by many girls of +eleven and by the great majority before thirteen. Some books for young +girls are defective in that they avoid reference to the coming +changes. I see no excuse for a sex-hygiene book for girls who are too +young to be trusted with the simplest knowledge regarding menstruation. +Such children should be interested in nature studies and perhaps the +elements of general hygiene, but certainly not in books with +curiosity-stimulating titles. + +[Sidenote: Special needs of boys.] + +Since boys entering puberty pass through no such sharply defined +beginning as girls do, the information they need in advance is not so +specific. At the same time, we must recognize that the average boy +under twelve years picks up more information regarding sexual life than +a girl does, and so the problem of teaching self-control comes earlier, +although the average girl enters puberty a year or two before the boy. +Parents and teachers must recognize the fact that sexual tendencies +come to many boys several years before puberty, and masturbation and +even premature sexual intercourse are possible problems with many boys +long before the twelfth year. The boy's early gathering of sexual +information is not without advantage, for it becomes possible for +parents and other adult confidants to explain many important truths as +to the proper use of his sex organs and as to his conduct towards +girls. All this can be done with the average boy of eleven or twelve +and with hundreds of even nine and ten without any fear of giving +information that is startlingly new and without any danger of giving a +nervous shock. + +[Sidenote: Cautious teaching of girls.] + +It is not so with average girls of equal ages, if we may accept the +opinion of many women who are trained in science and medicine. Specific +information as to the functional relationships of the two sexes is said +by many educated women to have been absolutely new and startling to +them at twenty and twenty-five years. Evidently there is a special +reason for gradual and cautious teaching of girls, and so it is +probably best, as many parents urge, that in pre-adolescent years the +girl's instruction in social-sexual lines be training in modest +deportment and a proper reserve towards boys. This ought to be +sufficient for the girl's protection until gradually in adolescent +years she learns the whole story of life, probably several years later +than her boy friends whose natural leadership in sexual activity makes +their early information desirable as a protection to both sexes. + +[Sidenote: Children's friendships.] + +In the pre-adolescent years parents and teachers should coöperate in +developing a spirit of group fellowship between boys and girls and at +the same time instill into the boys something of that chivalrous and +protective attitude of boys towards girls such as one finds in the +families of the highest culture. I emphatically mean "group +fellowship," for it is certainly undesirable to encourage in +pre-adolescents any tendency towards paired comradeship. It is +certainly best that boys and girls should have many good friends of +both sexes. The real truth back of the old adage "two is company and +three is a crowd" makes the "crowd" highly desirable for both +pre-adolescence and early adolescence, for in these years it is +friendship and not romantic love that will be most helpful in the later +life. As one step in this direction, all sensible adults should show +their disfavor to the abominable habit of teasing small children +concerning their best friends of the other sex. Parents and teachers +will do some of the best work in the larger sex-education if they begin +in pre-adolescent years to develop the social life of the children +along lines similar to those suggested above. + +[Sidenote: Summary.] + +Summarizing, it is evident that there is very little direct +sex-instruction suitable for pre-adolescent years. So far as the +child's own life is concerned, it now seems clear that parents or other +adult confidants must instruct individuals, or possibly small uniformly +selected groups. Class instruction seems out of the question except for +life-history studies of animals and plants. On the whole, then, there +is nothing radical or impossible in the proposition that there should +be a beginning of sex-education before the advent of adolescence. + + +§ 26. _Hygienic and Educational Treatment of Unhealthful Habits_ + +[Sidenote: Problems of children.] + +All adults should take a sane and scientific view of the sex problems +that are likely to come even to normal children. We must remember that +they are born with sexual mechanisms that may easily and automatically +lead into harmful habits unless parents and teachers guide +hygienically and mentally along the lines that are known to offer +safety. + +[Sidenote: Masturbation.] + +Concerning habitual manipulation of the sexual organs of either sex, +known in medical literature as masturbation or self-abuse (often +erroneously called "onanism"), there are certain facts that are +important for the guidance of all parents and teachers. I discuss it in +this connection since the problem often arises in the later years of +the pre-adolescent period. + +[Sidenote: Does not indicate degeneracy.] + +It is absurd to suppose that the tendency towards the habit means +degeneracy or innate viciousness of children. Young horses, dogs, +monkeys, and other animals sometimes form a similar habit, the stimulus +being some irritation of the sexual organs. Hence, it is not at all +unnatural when children attempt to relieve their irritated organs by +friction, and then it is inevitable that the sensitive nerve endings +will give sensations that are more or less pleasurable and satisfying, +depending upon the sex, age, and emotional peculiarity of the +individual child. This fact suggests to parents and teachers the +methods of prophylaxis; namely, avoid (1) irritation of sexual organs +and (2) opportunity for manipulation. + +[Sidenote: Irritation.] + +[Sidenote: Circumcision.] + +With regard to irritation, the first sign of such disturbance may +appear in babyhood. In the case of boys, whose structure renders them +vastly more liable than girls to external irritation, the family +physician should make sure during infancy whether circumcision or a +stretching of the prepuce (foreskin) may be desirable. According to Dr. +Emmet Holt, the eminent pediatrician, about one male baby in four or +five is born with an elongated or tight prepuce that needs surgical +attention. A corresponding abnormality of the clitoris is sometimes +found in baby girls. Some radical surgeons advocate universal +circumcision of boys because they believe that it reduces local +irritation, favors cleanliness, tends to prevent masturbation, and +reduces susceptibility to the venereal diseases. There is certainly +some truth in these claims; but some conservative surgeons point out +that for the great majority of boys all these advantages may be +obtained by reasonable attention to hygienic habits, that orthodox +Jewish and other circumcised boys are by no means free from harmful +habits, that some boys are more irritable after circumcision, that +preputial stretching is often a good substitute for circumcision, and +that the taunts of other boys often make circumcised boys too conscious +of their own mutilation. A scientific doctor who has no special +financial interest in the increase of surgical operations and who +carefully reviews both the radical and conservative literature relating +to circumcision, will not hasten to submit boys to this operation until +it is certain that their sexual organs happen to have congenital +deformity that only radical surgical treatment can correct. + +[Sidenote: Hygienic rules.] + +In addition to making sure that uncleanliness or structural abnormality +are not responsible for irritation of sex organs, there are some +special hygienic rules useful for parents and teachers who have charge +of children. Most important is avoidance of habit formation. Clothing +should be well adjusted to avoid pressure and friction of the sexual +organs, and so constructed (especially night clothing) that it is not +convenient for the hands to reach the organs. Normal boys require +pockets, but they should open at the waist-band and not at the side of +the hips. The reason for these suggestions is evident. When we recall +that little children naturally tend to explore themselves, such as by +putting fingers into the mouth, feeling their toes, inserting foreign +objects into nose and ears, and when we also recall how quickly a child +may learn the habit of sucking its thumb, we must realize the +importance of guarding the child from extending such activities to its +sexual organs, which, because they possess the most sensitive nerve +endings in the body, are most liable to lead to habitual manipulation. +In the light of such facts, it is nonsense to assume, as so many good +mothers have done, that only innately vicious children learn +masturbation. The truth is that in the case of most children under +twelve this habit has an origin no more vicious than such habits as +thumb-sucking; and in all cases of habits, parents and others +responsible for the children should be given the blame. + +[Sidenote: Other suggestions for parents.] + +The following suggestions in addition to those above are likely to help +parents do much towards avoiding or solving the early sex problems of +their children. These facts apply also to later years. + +Have children sleep on a hard mattress. The old-time feather bed was +dangerous. There should be light-weight covers, and the room cool. +Children should sleep on either side, _rarely_ in the unnatural back +position. Aim to have regular sleeping hours; but do not send children +to bed unsupervised when they are excited and not tired enough for +immediate sleep. Have them arise as soon as wide awake in the morning. +Never punish children by sending them to bed. + +[Sidenote: Dangers of privacy.] + +Do not leave children to their own devices; they may naturally fall +into dangerous play. Privacy is often demanded by the moods of adults, +but it is dangerous for children. A certain camp for boys has the +commendable rule that the boys have no privacy during the entire +summer. Many educators and physicians condemn private bedrooms or +cubicles in schools for boys. + +[Sidenote: Athletics.] + +A strenuous life of physical and mental activity is the best solution +of personal control of sexual instincts. Reasonable athletics and study +make an ideal combination for both boys and girls. And yet we must not +trust absolutely to athletics or other physical work, for there are +certainly many individuals whose sexual desires are not controlled by +muscular exercise. Much of the formal athletic training may have no +more influence on sexual control than dogmatic creeds. + +[Sidenote: Drugs.] + +Strong condiments and alcoholic drinks are known to be sexual excitants +for many people, and for this and other hygienic reasons should be +forbidden to children. There is a widespread, but still undemonstrated +opinion that tea, coffee, tobacco, and strong condiments have an +exciting effect. However, there is plenty of scientific authority, +based on other hygienic grounds, for avoiding these at least during the +years of growth. + +[Sidenote: Constipation.] + +Constipation is likely to cause sexual irritation, and hence this is an +additional reason for submitting children to competent doctors for +treatment of this disturbance which so seriously affects general +health, especially by auto-intoxication. + +[Sidenote: Bathing.] + +Cool bathing in the morning, especially of the sexual organs, is +hygienic, except for girls during the monthly periods (including two +days before the expected menstrual onset). For various reasons, bathing +in very warm water should be very limited, and then only for cleansing. + +[Sidenote: Form of instruction.] + +In hygienic instructions to children, avoid giving them any ideas +concerning the supposed prevalence of the habit of masturbation. There +is a dangerous tendency to follow the crowd. Also, the habit should +never be described to children except as "unnecessary handling of the +sex organs." It is dangerous to suggest to children, as certain books +do, that there is any pleasurable sensation resulting from manual +manipulation of the organs, for the force of suggestion or curiosity +has led some children to experiment with themselves until they formed +the habit. + +[Sidenote: Symptoms.] + +There are no absolutely certain signs or symptoms, and those suggested +by certain authors, especially by quack doctors, make young people and +even parents and teachers judge some individuals in an unfortunate way. +Especially should parents and teachers remember that there is +absolutely no scientific basis for supposing that great diffidence, +indigestion, pimples on the face, boys' lack of interest in girls, and +numerous other popular "signs," are indications of the masturbation +habit. Like the symptoms in patent-medicine advertising, the above +"signs" are so general that they are sure to fit some cases. + +[Sidenote: Insanity.] + +Do not tell children the ancient falsehood that insanity will surely +result from handling the sexual organs. It is true that masturbation is +a common habit of certain types of insane people and of some neurotics; +but it is probable that the habit is more often one of several factors +rather than the direct cause of the nervous breakdown. However, it is +scientific to say that the habit may weaken the nervous system and +indirectly affect general health, especially in pre-adolescent and +early adolescent years. Probably the greatest nervous damage comes +because there is often greater excess than is possible in natural +sexual relations; the strain of all sexual excess is more in loss of +nervous energy than of secretions. The safest advice one can give +children is that the doctors agree that unnecessary touching of sexual +organs has interfered with the health of many children and that those +who avoid this are most likely to grow up strong in body and mind. This +is the truth and practically the whole of the known truth that might +have influence with young people. + +[Sidenote: Mental habit.] + +Mental masturbation or "day dreaming" concerning sexual functions is +probably more harmful than mechanical manipulation. It is believed to +be more common in young women than in men. However, there is little +reliable evidence as to the prevalence of the habit. As an educational +problem, there is nothing to be done beyond informing all adolescent +young people that allowing their minds to dwell on sexual affairs may +interfere with nervous health, scholarship, and future efficiency in +life. Hard mental and physical work and strenuous play as a daily +routine will avoid or solve most such difficulties of young people. + +[Sidenote: Not hopeless.] + +In all dealing with this problem of young people, we must beware of +overemphasis or exaggeration. Parents and teachers should do all +possible to prevent and cure the habit; but there is still hope for +most young people who, in spite of warning, occasionally lapse into +their old habits. Both men and women of this type have led their +classes through college and won success afterwards. Probably they would +have done still better if entirely free from the habit. On the other +hand, men and women of neurotic inheritance combined with the habit +have suffered nervous collapse during college years; and it is +scientific to assume that the additional nervous strain produced by +masturbation was a contributing factor. Evidently, we dare make no +definite prophecy as to what will happen to one who in early life forms +the habit of masturbation. There is no excuse for excessive alarm in +any ordinary case; but, as we have seen, there are good reasons why +parents and teachers should calmly and yet firmly help young people +avoid unnatural sexual activity. + +To those who must consider the problem of masturbation in boarding +schools, I recommend Hime's "Schoolboys' Special Immorality." + +FOOTNOTES: + +[13] See books on nature-study, _e.g._, Holtz's "Nature-Study," +Hodge's "Nature-Study and Life," Comstock's "Handbook of +Nature-Study." Morley's "Renewal of Life," March's "Towards Racial +Health," and Hall's "The Doctor's Daughter" suggest the main lines of +the nature-study approach to sex-education. + + + + +VII + +SEX-INSTRUCTION FOR EARLY ADOLESCENT YEARS + + +§ 27. _The Biological Foundations_ + +In discussing instruction for the pre-adolescent years I have stressed +biological nature-study as important for the purpose of giving general +knowledge of how new living things come into the world. This will +develop a good attitude concerning the origin of the individual human +life. In this lecture I wish to direct attention to the scientific +facts which are foundations for the sexual knowledge that is important +for other phases of sex-instruction during early or late adolescence. + +[Sidenote: Biological foundations.] + +I believe that the best introduction to advanced sex-instruction is +through biological ideas which may be presented in popular lectures and +books; but, of course, will be best taught in courses of biological +science. My own view as to the selection of materials for such +biological studies is expressed in the sections on reproduction +connected with the account of each animal or plant type in the "Applied +Biology" and in the last chapter of the "Introduction to Biology."[14] +In these books the study of life-histories of plants and animals leads +up through vertebrates to mammals, and there are a few remarks +suggesting that human development is like the mammals.[15] At this +point these books should be supplemented by a brief survey of the +essential structure, physiology, and embryology of human reproduction. + +[Sidenote: Mixed classes.] + +Biological studies of human reproduction should not be coeducational in +high schools or the early years of college. Mature college students who +have passed through extensive biological studies, may, without apparent +embarrassment, study human embryology in mixed classes; but after +experience with many such groups I have begun to think that separate +classes are desirable if the course is made to include all the +important facts that college graduates should know concerning human +reproduction. At any rate, there should be special lessons or reading +dealing with detailed information that directly concerns one sex only. + +[Sidenote: Impersonal approach of biology.] + +I certainly do not believe in completely revamping biological science +for the purposes of sex-education. It is better not to "spoil" a course +by overemphasis on sex, for much of the value of biology as a basis for +sex-education is the fact that sex appears gradually and naturally and +far away from human relations. This impersonal approach will be lost if +the course in biology seems to revolve around sex-education, for that +will make sex too prominent. + +It is still debatable as to how much should be taught in high schools +or in public lectures concerning the biological facts of human +reproduction. I think that I can make my own views clearer if I discuss +this first for boys, then for girls. + + +§ 28. _Scientific Facts for Boys_ + +First, it is generally agreed that boys of high-school age may profit +by learning their own sexual structure by means of diagrams such as the +one in Hall's "Sexual Hygiene." There is no harm, and also no gain, in +minute description, especially histological. + +[Sidenote: Scientific names.] + +The chief technical names of the parts of the male organs--testicle +(spermary or testes), sperm duct (vas deferens), scrotum, prostate, +seminal vesicles, penis, glans, prepuce (foreskin), urethra--should be +taught; and the scientific dignity of these words as substitutes for +vulgar words should be emphasized. In dealing with boys and young men I +have noticed that these and other scientific words have a great +influence on their attitude. The scientific names of the sex organs +should be made part of popular vocabulary for the reason that there are +no established common names corresponding to lungs, liver, stomach, +arm, leg, brain, and so on for all prominent organs except the sexual. +These have been left without authoritative names except in scientific +language, and as a result dozens of ordinary words have been vulgarly +applied and unprintable ones invented by uneducated people. Such usage +of vulgar terminology is widespread, especially among men and boys. An +editor of schoolbooks recently called my attention to the necessity of +changing some ordinary words in certain books because in some +localities the boys applied the words to sexual organs. Even the little +words "nuts," "stones," "balls" accompanied by the adjective "two" mean +testicles in the widespread vulgar language; and a physician told me +that a college graduate used one of these words the other day when +seeking medical advice concerning her baby. Here is an intolerable +situation that must be improved by establishing in popular usage the +dignified scientific words for the chief sexual organs. We must begin +to do so by teaching the words frankly to boys of adolescent years, and +by persuading parents to teach their children correctly. + +[Sidenote: Sex-physiology.] + +Having learned the structure and names of their sexual organs, boys may +easily understand the function of each part if explained in simple +language. Ten or twenty minutes ought to be enough time for stating the +important facts. One printed page could state them clearly. Here is the +time for personal hygienic advice, especially such topics as: rules for +self-control; harmful habits (see discussion of masturbation in § 26); +sexual activity not necessary for health; occasional nocturnal +emissions not pathological.[16] + +[Sidenote: Female organs.] + +I believe it is well for boys of adolescent years to know a few leading +facts regarding female structure and function, but such knowledge is +best learned from oral description by a well-balanced teacher. Diagrams +and (in some schools) a demonstrated dissection of a cat or other +animal will be helpful. The meaning of the ovaries as sources of the +egg-cells and of the uterus as the place for development of the +fertilized egg-cell should be explained in a serious way that will help +boys get some fundamental ideas as to what motherhood means Boys, +moreover, should be informed concerning the existence of the periodic +disturbance in the other sex, for unless they know they are sure at +times to misunderstand their sisters and other girls. Professor W.S. +Hall has stated the essential information in "Chums" (for boys twelve +to sixteen), but his comparison of periodicity in the two sexes is not +strictly accurate, for there are not in men any sexual cycles that are +strictly comparable with the menstrual cycles of women. + +[Sidenote: No pictures.] + +It is probably best, as urged by several writers, that the life-like +illustrations, some of them photographic, in books of human anatomy be +kept away from boys of early adolescent age. Diagrams can be made to +explain all that is necessary, and without the danger of stimulation +that might come from the illustrated medical books. + +[Sidenote: Embryology.] + +The embryological facts of human biology are very impressive to boys +and young men who know little of science. I believe that no other line +of scientific facts is so likely to claim a serious and respectful +attitude. The ideal way for giving a popular glimpse at human +development is with a small series of lantern slides or photographs +from embryological works. Unfortunately, there is no available popular +treatment of the main facts of human development, but teachers trained +in biology can easily glean the facts for the preparation of a short +lecture. + +[Sidenote: Social diseases.] + +Since the venereal diseases are due to micro-organisms, I believe that +they should be introduced in connection with the study of bacteria and +other germs, either in school courses or in popular lectures. Such +instruction should be very brief. + + +§ 29. _Scientific Facts for Girls_ + +[Sidenote: Girls more innocent.] + +I discussed first the problem of selecting scientific facts for boys +because there is little dispute as to the advisability of giving them +as much scientific information as may possibly replace the vulgar +knowledge that the average boy is likely to possess. I know that there +are a few men and many women who will disagree with this because they +believe in the absolute ignorance of their boys; but I doubt whether +one healthy adolescent boy in a hundred belongs in the "innocent" +class. So we need not worry much concerning any supposed danger of +treating facts too frankly, provided that they are given a dignified, +scientific setting. In the case of numerous adolescent girls there is +certainly dense ignorance, and so there must be more difficulty in +getting approval of parents and teachers concerning facts proposed for +girls. Often when talking with groups of parents I have heard them say +that they would like to have their boys learn the scientific truth +regarding certain facts, but they feel that it would be too startling +and unnecessary for their daughters. Such is the widespread feeling +which must be seriously considered in all planning of advanced +sex-instruction for girls. No doubt there will be much honest +disagreement with the suggestions here offered. + +The biological introduction based on plants and animals should be the +same as for boys (§ 27). + +[Sidenote: Structure and names.] + +An adolescent girl of fourteen to sixteen should know the general plan +of her own sexual structure. She should know the scientific names of +her organs, not because there are many vulgar names as in the case of +boys, but because dignified names help attitude. Ovaries, uterus +(womb), vagina, Fallopian tubes, and vulva will be sufficient. Detailed +description of the external organs (vulva) might arouse curiosity that +leads to exploration and irritation, and hence many women physicians +think that a girl under sixteen or possibly eighteen needs only the +name vulva for the external parts surrounding the entrance to the +vagina. + +[Sidenote: An ancient belief.] + +Some books for girls perpetuate the ancient but absurd emphasis on the +virginal significance of the hymen; and a recent book from a prominent +publisher goes so far as to try to frighten girls into remaining chaste +by stating that a physician could discover if they have been unchaste. +This is far from being always true, for the structure may be +congenitally absent, may sometimes remain after sexual union, or may be +accidentally destroyed in childhood; and reliable physicians have +stated that proving unchastity by the hymen is by no means easy. Hence, +the less said about the ancient belief, the better for young women. The +truth is that the hymen is a worse-than-useless relic of embryological +development, and it is neither an indicator nor a dictator of morality. + +[Sidenote: Physiology of women.] + +With regard to the physiology of the female organs, the following +topics should be considered: The meaning of puberty as the beginning of +a long fertile period of about thirty years; the nature of menstruation +as a periodical process preparing the lining of the uterus for +reception and attachment of an embryo if a sperm-cell meets a liberated +egg-cell near an ovary, and not as a season of illness invented by the +powers of darkness; the possibility of fertilization following sexual +relations at any time during the fertile life of a woman; the essential +facts of sexual relation as a method of depositing sperm-cells so that +they can swim on the way to meet an egg-cell; and the nature of the +close blood relationship of mother and embryo. These are physiological +topics which many parents would like to have taught to their daughters +of fourteen to eighteen by some careful woman or by some good book. + +[Sidenote: Social ills.] + +With regard to the social diseases and the social evil, I have long +sympathized with the conservatives who hold that extremely limited +knowledge is sufficient for the average girl under eighteen or twenty. +No doubt that many working girls in cities need more protective +knowledge than do school girls of the same age. Hall's "Life Problems" +seems to me to give the important facts. + +[Sidenote: Habits.] + +As in the case of boys of adolescent years, there should be enough +teaching to warn against harmful habits. Such knowledge may possibly be +of personal application to a few girls and it will be of use to many +girls who will later as mothers or teachers have the care of small +children. + +[Sidenote: Knowledge concerning men.] + +I find that many thoughtful mothers and women physicians think that +girls in late adolescent years should learn from some reliable source +the most general facts regarding male structure and function. Here +again the strong argument is that the majority will have the care of +small children. Such instruction has often been given as part of +courses in biology and physiology and also in special lectures. It is +certain that some parents will favor such instruction, and others will +regard it as indecent to suggest that girls should have any such +knowledge. There will always be some parents who will let their +daughters face life-problems blindly. + +[Sidenote: Mothercraft.] + +Sometime in adolescent years girls should learn the scientific facts +regarding mothercraft or the care of small children. This phase of the +sex-education is rapidly attracting attention from those who are +interested in practical arts education, and before many years pass it +will probably be treated adequately in connection with household arts +in schools and colleges. I have already referred to household arts in +general as making a decided contribution to the larger sex-education +which works for harmonious adjustment of the sexes in the home. + +FOOTNOTES: + +[14] Both books by M.A. and Anna N. Bigelow. + +[15] Sets of drawings and lantern slides for the biological +introduction to sex may be obtained from the American Social Hygiene +Association, 105 W. 40th St., New York City. + +[16] The instructor of young men should not allow confusion to arise +from the recent contention of some medical men that emissions are +abnormal or unnatural because they are not known to occur in animals. +Certain it is that they are adaptations to changes caused by enforced +sexual restraint after the seminal secretions begin with puberty. Such +restraint is, of course, abnormal or unnatural if we compare with +animals; but many of our acts are unnatural and not necessarily +unhealthful. For instance, the sedentary life of the student or +professional worker is abnormal or unnatural, but it need not be +unhealthful, if hygienic adaptations are made. Likewise, seminal +emissions are unnatural for primitive men or animals without sexual +restraint, but this does not mean that they are unhealthful for +self-controlled men. Here, as in many other cases, comparison with +animals is misleading and does not teach us useful facts concerning +human sexual functioning. The truth is that physicians have no +evidence of harm from emissions that are not caused by voluntary +activity. + + + + +VIII + +SPECIAL SEX-INSTRUCTION FOR ADOLESCENT BOYS AND YOUNG MEN + + +[Sidenote: Methods and teachers.] + +In this lecture I shall discuss a number of problems in the relations +of men to women which ought somehow to be made clear to boys who are in +transition to manhood. I can do little more than point out the lines +along which it is desirable that young men should be informed and +influenced; for I confess that I do not know any guaranteed pedagogical +method for teaching along these lines. So far as I can now see, it +seems to me that a good beginning would consist in getting the best +ideas before young men by lectures, books, and personal conversations. +Here more than in any other phase of sex-education the influence of +personality is of great importance. Many an ordinary teacher or +lecturer may well present the cold facts of biological science that +help interpret sex, but one who does not by his personal qualities +command the entire confidence of his hearers is worse than useless in +presenting to young men such problems as those outlined in this lecture +under the following subheadings: Developing young men's attitude +towards womanhood; developing ideals of love and marriage; reasons for +pre-marital continence; essential knowledge concerning prostitution; +need of more refinement in men; dancing as a sex problem for men; dress +as a sexual appeal; the problem of self-control; the mental side of a +young man's sex life. + + +§ 30. _Developing Attitude towards Womanhood_ + +[Sidenote: Influence of ideals.] + +Many there are among the believers in the larger sex-education who feel +sure that a young man's greatest safety lies in having high ideals of +womanhood. I have known a number of men who passed unscathed through +the storm and stress of early manhood because each of them could say, +as Tennyson makes the lover confess to Princess Ida, "from earlier than +I know, immersed in rich foreshadowings of the world, I loved the +woman." Some of these men learned to love "the woman" in the abstract, +in the dream world, perhaps as the "brushwood girl" of Kipling. Others +first loved "the woman" through boyhood sweethearts. Still others came +to love her through mothers who inspired them with reverence for +womanhood and motherhood. + + ..."Happy he + With such a mother! faith in womankind + Beats with his blood, and trust in all things high comes easy + to him." + (Tennyson) + +But it matters little for the future purity of the boy on the threshold +of manhood whether he has learned to love "the woman" in the dreamland +of youth or in the very real world of life. It is simply a question of +the intensity of the devotion and of the loftiness of the ideals which +She has aroused within him. + +[Sidenote: Who may influence boys.] + +Now, we of the older generation, who as parents and teachers are +largely the makers of the boy's view of life, may play a very important +part in developing in him a love for "the woman," a reverence for +womanhood. The greatest opportunity falls to the lot of that mother +whose natural gifts and education adapt her for impressing her son +profoundly with appreciation of womanhood. The next greatest +opportunity comes to the woman who as an instructor in school, church, +or other institution comes into intimate relations that sometimes give +the teacher greater influence than the mother is able or willing to +exert. Finally, we must not discount the value of men's coöperation in +this problem, for many a boy's attitude towards women is largely the +reflection of what he has seen in his father and in other men, +particularly in his teachers both secular and religious. + +Now, while the direct influence of personality is most important in +this problem of developing a young man's attitude towards women, +organized educational effort should not be neglected. It is important +that both men and women help by encouraging young men to read good +literature that unobtrusively tends to introduce them to the best in +womanhood (see § 23); and by discussing with them, as opportunity +offers, the higher ideals of the relationships between men and women. + + +§ 31. _Developing Ideals of Love and Marriage_ + +Closely associated with high ideals of womanhood is necessarily a pure +understanding of love, even in its physical basis. While preparing this +lecture I discovered that James Oliphant (in the _International Journal +of Ethics_, Vol. 9, pp. 288-289, 1898) has well expressed some of the +views that in a more or less unformulated shape have been in my mind +for years. + +[Sidenote: Ideals of love in art.] + + "If the true preparation for love and marriage is, as I hold it to + be, to learn to associate physical passion with the higher + emotions developed by social sympathy--with a single-hearted + devotion that demands courage, and self-sacrifice and considerate + forethought and tenderness; if we wish to bind all these qualities + together in the imagination of the young and clothe the conception + with every attribute of beauty that fancy can devise, how can we + forego the precious opportunities that lie to our hand in the + persuasive witchery of art? The power that may be exercised in the + formation of character by the presentment of ideal types is as yet + very imperfectly utilized. Love is _par excellence_ the theme of + the artist, and young people will soon find this out for + themselves; but there is a wide difference in the degrees of + idealization, and, while we concern ourselves to exclude the + grosser forms, we neglect the only effective means of + accomplishing this, namely, the persistent presentation of the + sentiment in its noblest examples. It is the prevalent idea that + the longer we can keep all notions of love, even in its romantic + guise, out of children's heads, the better it will be for them. + Surely it would be a wiser policy to fill their minds as soon as + they are able to receive them, with the creations of art in which + love is represented in its sublimest aspects. The youth who is + familiar with the love-stories of Shakespeare, and George Eliot, + and Meredith, will suffer little harm from the gilded sensualism + of the Restoration drama. Let us hasten to implant the images of + beauty that will keep the soul sweet and wholesome, and free from + the taint of any later influences, however sordid these may be." + +In the lecture on marriage as offering one of the problems for the +larger sex-education (§ 12) and in the reference to general literature +in § 23, I have called attention to literature which will be suggestive +and useful to those who are considering the young man's attitude +towards love and marriage. + + +§ 32. _Reasons for Pre-marital Continence of Men_ + +Recognizing the fact that moral considerations fail to reach many +people, the following points should be emphasized in trying to show +young men practical reasons why they should avoid pre-marital sexual +relations. + +[Sidenote: Continence and health.] + +(1) Young men ought to know that many eminent physicians and +physiologists agree that it has not been proved that continence injures +the health of men who make an effort to avoid sexual temptations. +Physicians of the highest standing never advise extra-marital or +immoral relations, for they are far more likely to injure health than +to improve it, and they surely injure character and reputation. On +this question of continence young men should read such pamphlets as +"Sexual Necessity" by Howell and Keyes; "The Young Man's Problem" and +"Health and Hygiene of Sex" by Morrow; "The Physician's Answer" and +"The Rational Sex Life for Men" by Exner.[17] Also, see pp. 183-190 in +Geddes and Thomson's "Sex." + +Dr. Exner's "Physician's Answer" is based on the following declaration +which was signed by about three hundred of the foremost physicians of +America: + + "In view of the individual and social dangers which spring from + the widespread belief that continence may be detrimental to + health, and of the fact that municipal toleration of prostitution + is sometimes defended on the ground that sexual indulgence is + necessary, we, the undersigned, members of the medical profession, + testify to our belief that continence has not been shown to be + detrimental to health or virility; that there is no evidence of + its being inconsistent with the highest physical, mental, and + moral efficiency; and that it offers the only sure reliance for + sexual health outside of marriage." + +[Sidenote: Psychical results of incontinence.] + +(2) It ought to be significant to young men that many men who are now +in the thirties or forties look back upon their youthful errors with +profound regret. Many such men testify that unforgettable immoral +experiences keep them from reaching the heights of love with their +wives. One of my friends, a well-known physician, recently met in his +office within two or three months seven men of high standing who are +now happily married, but who feel that conjugal life is short of its +full æsthetic possibilities because of the ever-present remembrance of +early sexual mistakes. + +[Sidenote: Physical results.] + +(3) While the above refers to the psychical effect of youthful errors, +young men should learn that there is also a physical side to the same +problem. Eminent physicians assert that many men have completely and +permanently destroyed their sexual functions by extensive dissipations, +either by masturbation or by natural relations; and that very many more +have injured themselves so that perfection of the physical basis of +love and marriage is impossible. + +[Sidenote: Possible diseases.] + +(4) The probability of venereal infection by pre-marital relations and +the danger of transmission to innocent wives and children should be +presented to all young men as a strong ethical appeal for continence +(see § 7). + +[Sidenote: Purity for purity.] + +(5) The "fair play" or "square deal" appeal to young men should be +based on the fact that most for young men who are unchaste demand +purity of the girls they claim as sisters, friends, or sweethearts; and +yet they help drag down other women. An honorable man should be willing +to play fairly and give purity for purity. + +[Sidenote: Responsibility.] + +(6) The grave responsibility of young men whose unchastity is connected +with illegitimacy or with the organized social evil should be made a +strong point in appeals for pre-marital abstinence. + +[Sidenote: Sexuality and affection.] + +(7) Young men should be impressed with the idea that their sexual +functions should be held sacred to affection; in other words, that +sexual union is moral only as love interchange. In so far as young men +may be led to this interpretation of the relation of sexuality to the +best conceptions of life, there will be no danger of prostitution and +there will be a guarantee of marriages that give completeness to +affection. The men who are safeguarded against unchastity are those who +have learned to think of love and marriage and sexual functioning as +interdependent and coincident elements in the great drama of life and +who feel the impossibility of their personal interest in marriage +without love or in sexual union except as expression of deep affection. +Such men are by no means as rare as the sensational reports of the +social evil lead many people to believe. + +[Sidenote: Some men beyond appeal.] + +I realize that all these seven reasons for continence will fail with +that large group of young men who have persuaded themselves that they +will never marry and thus they shake off all responsibility such as +appeals to the man who looks forward to love that culminates in +marriage. No one has yet suggested any line of appeal to the men who +are physically or psychically or morally so abnormal that they have no +interest in the possibility of marriage; but fortunately such +individuals constitute an insignificant minority. + + +§ 33. _Essential Knowledge Concerning Prostitution_ + +[Sidenote: Safeguarding boys.] + +(1) The adolescent boy should be safeguarded by the knowledge that in +every city and in most towns there are women who for financial gain are +constantly seeking to entice young men into immoral sexual relations; +and that many unwary men are involuntarily entrapped, especially when +influenced by alcohol. + +[Sidenote: Prostitution a business.] + +(2) The young man should know that the selling of woman's virtue is an +organized business known as "prostitution" or "the social evil," words +which stand for indescribable degradation and degeneracy that no beast +could possibly imitate. Moreover, the young man should be informed that +all immorality is not prostitution, but that most of the immoral +relations of men are purchased directly or indirectly by money or its +equivalent. + +[Sidenote: Some causes of prostitution.] + +(3) The young man should know that the great majority of prostitutes do +not willingly undertake the shameful business of selling their virtue. +He should know that the majority have gone downward for such reasons as +follows: Many a woman has been betrayed by some detestable man who +pretended to love her. Poverty has forced many other women to the +first downward step. Many are easy victims because they belong to the +feeble-minded class. Others have been driven into immoral life by +parents and even husbands. Still others have been drugged, and raped +while insensible. A limited number have begun prostitution as "white +slaves" kept as prisoners until all hope of a better life has vanished. +A few have deliberately begun to accept the attentions of lewd men in +order to get money for luxurious dress and finery. And relatively very +few have started downward because of sexual passion such as commonly +influences men. In short, every young man should be informed that most +women living by prostitution have begun innocently or unwillingly; but +having made one false step, society has shunned them, even near +relatives have cast them off, and a career of prostitution has appeared +the only way of making a living, vulgar and unspeakably sordid though +it be. It is evident that the responsibility for prostitution rests +almost entirely upon men. Unfortunately, society does not recognize +this fact and has no way of dealing legally with both men and women +found associated in houses of prostitution. At present the women +arrested for prostitution are treated as criminals, while their male +associates in vice are allowed to depart as if they were respectable +citizens. + +[Sidenote: Appeal to men.] + +Tell young men these facts as to why women become prostitutes. Help +them to realize that most of these women are pitiful victims of man's +worse than brutal sexual passions. Then add the astounding fact that +very many of the women of the underworld have short lives, their health +being undermined rapidly by dissipation, by alcohol used to bury their +shame or to stimulate their flagging energies, and by the two loathsome +diseases, gonorrhea and syphilis, which relatively few prostitutes +escape--tell young men such facts which eminent physicians and +sociologists have often verified, and there are good chances of +striking sympathetic notes in their young manhood. + +[Sidenote: Danger of social disease.] + +(4) And there is one other line of facts concerning prostitution that +the developing young man should know well, namely, that every +prostitute is likely at any time to be infected with the social +diseases, and that no ordinary medical examination can prove that she +will not transmit these awful diseases to men who consort with her. In +fact, within an hour after most careful medical examination she may +become infected by some diseased man, and then she is capable of +inoculating other men. Such facts, for which the greatest of special +physicians vouch, will eradicate from the young man's mind the +widespread notions that prostitutes are safe if they carry a +physician's certificate, or one of the official cards given in some +European cities. Many a young man of sixteen to twenty has not heard +that prostitutes as a class are universally dangerous as distributors +of the most terrible diseases, and his education is incomplete until he +knows the exact truth from reliable sources. + +[Sidenote: Limited reading.] + +(5) It is not desirable that the young man should be set to read the +numerous books packed with more or less sensational reports on the +social evil, for these may sometimes tend toward morbidity. Any young +man who is not effectively appealed to by the above facts will not be +influenced by the most voluminous reports on prostitution ever +published. Such reports are not useful for young men. They serve a good +purpose by informing mature men and women and awakening them to the +necessity of legislation, education, and other weapons with which we +may fight the great black plague of social vice. For the average young +man the books recommended in § 8 will give sufficient information and +viewpoint. + +[Sidenote: Liaisons.] + +(6) Finally, the young man of adolescent years should be made to +understand his responsibility for immorality that is not prostitution, +that is, extra-marital relations with his girl friends and without +pecuniary considerations. He should know the probability that he will +ruin a girl's life, either because illegitimacy occurs or because her +reputation suffers. Even if such immoral liaisons are kept private, +both persons concerned are likely in after years to regret their +illicit intimacy, especially if either marries another person. + + +§ 34. _Need of More Refinement in Men_ + +While refinement is a part of general culture, it is beyond doubt an +important phase of the problems for the larger sex-education. +Elsewhere I have referred to the need of better understanding and +better adjustment between men and women, especially in marriage. +Towards such a desideratum refinement of men will contribute immensely. +Many cultured women avoid marriage and many are unhappy in marriage +because men, sometimes even educated men, lack refinement in manners, +language, and personal habits. In fact, "lack of refinement" is +altogether too mild an expression, for many men are positively crude in +manners, coarse and vulgar in language, and disgusting in personal +habits. + +[Sidenote: Manners and chivalry.] + +In referring to manners, I am including not only the thousand and one +little customs of everyday life among refined people, but also +chivalric attitude towards all women. The world has changed vastly +since knighthood was in flower, but many men of to-day might well take +lessons in the art of courtesy to women as practiced by the famous +knights of the age of chivalry. This problem of manners will be an +increasingly important one, for here in America there is growing up a +generation of boys who are far from chivalrous even to their mothers +and sisters; and at the same time, the industrial competition and daily +association of the two sexes is making young men realize that women are +simply human beings and not super beings. + +[Sidenote: Language.] + +With regard to language, I am thinking not so much of the general need +of speech that is grammatically, rhetorically, and vocally polished, +which no doubt determines many a woman's estimate of a man, as I have +in mind the repelling effect upon sensitive women of language that is +coarse, vulgar, and profane. Hence, quite apart from the effect of low +language on character, I believe it worth while to work for refinement +of language of young men. + +[Sidenote: Personal habits.] + +And now with reference to personal habits, including cleanliness and +refinement of actions, the average women of all classes set splendid +examples for men of the same groups. It seems scarcely necessary to +explain in detail concerning unclean personal habits and vulgar +actions. It requires no keen observer to find plenty of examples. Those +who have the training of boys should lose no opportunity to impress +them with the importance of refinement, and especially in all phases of +their home life. It is in the most intimate life of the home that +refinement of personal habits of husbands may mean much to sensitive +wives. + + +§ 35. _Dancing as a Sex Problem for Young Men_ + +[Sidenote: Dancing not to be eliminated.] + +It is more than useless to discuss the question whether dancing ought +to be eliminated from the social life of young people, for it has +physical, social, and æsthetic or dramatic values which will make +dancing in some form or other coextensive with human life. + +[Sidenote: Young people and dancing.] + +Those who deal with adolescent boys and girls ought to have some +understanding of the facts for and against dancing as it may influence +the sexual control of young people, men especially. It is no longer +sufficient to say, even to the young members of certain religious +denominations, that "good people must not dance because it is wicked," +for in this doubting age young people will ask first what we mean by +the word "wicked" and then for proof that dancing is wicked. The time +has come when young people must be shown the scientific reasons if we +want them to avoid dancing or to dance with certain approved movements. + +[Sidenote: Dancing a sexual stimulant.] + +It seems to be an accepted opinion among physiologists that dancing of +any of the types that involve more or less closeness of contact between +men and women in pairs is likely to lead to sexual stimulation that at +times may be consciously recognized by normal men, but probably is not +identified other than as general excitement by most women. + +[Sidenote: Danger no reason for condemning dancing.] + +The frank admission that dancing may sometimes stimulate sexual +emotions is no condemnation of dancing, as many writers seem to think. +We must know first whether such emotions lead to good or harm. Sexual +emotions are not in themselves wrong from any except a strictly æscetic +point of view. The fact that most intelligent men who in general are +frankly truthful confess that dancing may sometimes arouse sexual +emotion simply raises the question whether such emotions lead directly +to immoral relations with women or whether they lead, as does the best +social life of men and women together, to a higher æsthetic +appreciation of life as it involves the relations of the two sexes. +After discussing this with many--yes, with more than a hundred--men and +women, I am now convinced that dancing may have both results, depending +upon the individuals. Dancing, then, has its dangers, but so have many +other things that go to make up the most complete life. Eating may lead +to gluttony, mountain-climbing may lead to a broken neck, swimming to +drowning, music and art to sensuality, and even love is not without +danger of bestial degradation. Life is full of dangers and we are +constantly striving to reduce them to a minimum. So we must refuse to +condemn dancing because of its admitted sexual dangers for young +people, unless it can be shown that the danger is so great and so +unconquerable as to outweigh all the physical, social, and æsthetic +considerations in favor of the pastime. + +[Sidenote: Dancing and immorality.] + +That dancing is a strong incentive to immorality is contended by many +writers. A prominent physiologist has said that "the dance is the +devil's procession so far as the young man is concerned." Others have +pointed to the immorality that is connected with the dance halls, and +to the fact that waves of immorality of young men have often followed +the annual balls given in some high schools and colleges. Contrary to +the view which I formerly held, I am now inclined to think that it is +not fair to charge such immoral tendencies entirely to dancing, and +therefore condemn all dancing as immoral. It is no secret of sociology +that similar epidemics of immorality have been known to occur in +connection with Sunday-school picnics, camp meetings, expositions, +political and other conventions, and religious revivals. Shall we +condemn all these along with dancing on the ground that they lead to +immorality? We say "no" because immorality is only an incident, not a +result in these cases. Likewise, I believe that dancing is but one of +several factors that have led to immorality at the time of annual balls +in high school and college. These are times of general tendency towards +dissipation. Regular duties are cast aside, all the hygienic rules for +eating and sleeping are broken, there is unusual freedom of speech and +manners, available alcohol is freely used, emotions and not reason +rules--these are characteristic of the college festivals that center +around grand balls. In short, at such times there is a general let-down +of usual standards and a swing back towards the barbaric festival of +the ancients. It is not surprising, then, that pent-up sexual instincts +assert their force at such times, and dancing, if it occurs under such +conditions is, of course, likely to increase the danger of moral +collapse because it incites sexual emotions. + +[Sidenote: Regulation of dancing needed.] + +Our conclusion, then, is that it is unscientific to charge dancing with +being the direct cause of immorality, when it has been only one in a +series of events. The facts warrant not condemnation of dancing as +something utterly bad, but rather of allowing dancing to be associated +with conditions that are likely to lead to dissipation and immorality. +Unless some argument other than that arising from the coincidence of +dancing with dissipation and immorality is brought forward, we must +conclude that dancing should be regulated and associated so that the +admitted dangers will be reduced to a minimum. Recognition of the +dangers will lead mature people to see the importance of supervising +and regulating dancing as a phase of the social life of young people. +It will lead to dancing that is improved along social and æsthetic +lines. + +[Sidenote: Self-control necessary.] + +While improvement of dancing will reduce its dangers, it will not +eliminate the problem of self-control for normal young men. They must +learn to understand their own emotions. They should be forewarned that +others have found danger in dancing. They should know that some +strong-willed men have given up dancing when they found that it made +more intense the problem of sexual self-control, both mentally and +physically. They should know the increased danger if dancing is +associated with alcohol, vicious women, immodest dress, extreme freedom +of conduct, and other morally depressing influences. Such knowledge +along with general sex-education will do much to make dancing not only +safe for average young men, but also helpful along social and æsthetic +lines. + +[Sidenote: Extreme dances.] + +With regard to the extreme dances of the past five years, those who are +well informed concerning sexual problems know that many of these dances +which polite society has copied from the dens of the underworld are +vastly more dangerous than the standard dances. + + +§ 36. _Dress of Women as a Sex Problem for Men_ + +[Sidenote: Dress and immorality.] + +Some of the students of sex problems assert with great emphasis that +dress is the responsible factor in the sexual immorality of many men. +Accepting the probability that there is some truth in the assertion, +what is the solution of the problem? Should women in general adopt a +style of dress which in lines and color is as repellently ugly as the +official garb of women devotees of certain religious organizations? In +short, should women make their dress decidedly unobtrusive and +unattractive in order that the sexual temptations of _some_ men may be +reduced? The answer must be an emphatic negative. We need more beauty +in this life of ours, and we cannot afford to omit any beauty which +women express in dress. The pity is that economic conditions so often +set a limit to such expression. We must believe in making every +possible application of the beauty of nature and art to human life; and +beautiful dress on all women, and especially beautiful dress on +attractive women, is the most important of such relations of beauty and +life. + +[Sidenote: Dress and sexual appeal.] + +Accepting, then, beauty of dress as worthy of encouragement, what +shall be done about its sexual attractiveness? This is a difficult +question in these days with ever-changing fashions whose novelty makes +extreme modes more dangerously attractive than they would be if +universally adopted for a long term of years. But permanency of extreme +styles or general adaptation of modest ones are absolutely impossible +for the average woman of to-day. Hence, we must look forward to one +extreme style following another. Young men must face the problem and +fight their own battles. Like certain widespread diseases, there is +constant danger of infection, and the only hope for young men is in +special education as a kind of protective inoculation against +temptation. This means that young men should be taught to see beauty in +woman's form, face, and dress without allowing themselves to get into +habits of sensual or physical emotions. Of course, for the normal young +man there is sure to be more or less consciousness of emotions +stimulated by the beautiful associated with women, but the individual +man may train himself to turn such emotions into æsthetic or psychical +lines instead of into those which are sensual, animalistic, or +physical. In this connection, I have long been of the opinion that +training in art appreciation, especially of sculpture, may help many +men to an æsthetic attitude towards the human form. + +It is well known that beauty of woman's face or form or dress has +sometimes led men into immorality; but I often wonder whether such men +of weak control would not have fallen sooner or later at the command +of some other form of stimulation. At any rate, such men do not lead us +to general conclusions, for there are many more men who have been led +upward and not downward by the combined beauty of form, face, and dress +of women. + +[Sidenote: Duty of women.] + +While we refuse to excuse men who allow the sexual suggestiveness of +women's dress to overcome their self-control, we should at the same +time recognize that women have themselves to blame for much of the +existing situation. I believe it is true that the average woman does +not understand how dress that makes unusual exposure of the body may +make a sexual appeal to men; but there is no such innocence on the part +of the demi-mondes by whom many of the most dangerous styles are +introduced. Perhaps women of intelligence and good standing may some +day come to realize their responsibility for wearing clothing that +means unusual temptation for men. However, this seems Utopian in these +years when even women of the best groups are wearing equivocal dress; +and so men must learn to fight their own battles against natural +instincts stirred to greater intensity by dress invented to increase +the trade of the women of the underworld. + + +§ 37. _The Problem of Self-control for Young Men_ + +[Sidenote: Difference between sexes.] + +[Sidenote: Automatic arousing of boys' instincts.] + +The problem of control of the insistent passions of normal young men +has been unscientifically minimized by numerous writers and lecturers. +It should be noted that many of these are men who have long since +forgotten the storms and stresses of their early manhood, and others +are women who do not know the facts indicating that the sexual +instincts young men are characteristically active, aggressive, +spontaneous, and automatic, while those of women _as a rule_ are +passive and subject to awakening by external stimuli, especially in +connection with affection. Such forgetful men and uninformed women are +prone to regard the lack of control of many young men as simply due to +"original sin," "innate viciousness," "bad companions," or +"irresistible temptations"; and they overlook the great fact that +maintaining perfect sexual control in his pre-marital years is for the +average healthy young man a problem compared with which all others, +including the alcoholic temptation, are of little significance. Such +being the truth about young men, nothing is to be gained and much is to +be lost if older people fail to take an understanding and sympathetic +attitude. I question whether any young man has ever been helped through +his adolescent crises by such oft-repeated assertions as that "there is +no more reason that a young man should go astray than that his sister +should," or, in other words, that "continence is as easy for a young +man as for a girl of similar age." An observing young man will doubt +such statements, and if he has had access to scientific information, he +will feel sure that there has been an attempt to influence him by the +kind of exaggeration commonly adopted by specialists in moral +preachments. The plain truth is that there is a physiological "reason" +or explanation, although not a justification for failure of +self-control. Even if we accept the improbable statement of some +writers that boys and girls are in early adolescence potentially equal +in sexual instincts and assuming that they may be protected equally +against vicious habits, we must not forget that every normal boy passes +in early puberty through peculiar physiological changes that arouse his +deepest instincts. I refer especially to the frequent occurrence of +involuntary sexual tumescence and to the occasional nocturnal +emissions, which processes leave the boy in no doubt whatever as to the +nature, source, and desirability of sexual pleasure. Especially is this +true of the automatic emissions that usually follow continence of +healthy young men, for in connection with such relief of seminal +pressure every nerve center of the sexual mechanism seems to be +involved in the culminating nerve storm of which the awakening +individual is often quite pleasurably conscious. In short, as men +looking backward to their early manhood well understand, the physical +sensations that come into the normal sexual experience of the +adolescent boy are different only in degree of intensity from those +which later are concomitants of sexual union. Such, in brief, is the +physiological history of the normal adolescent boy, and one who has +fallen into even most limited masturbation will probably be still more +conscious of the fact that the ordinary sequence of events in the +activity of the sexual organs leads to intense excitement that has +almost irresistible attractiveness. + +[Sidenote: Average young women different.] + +Now, most scientifically-trained women seem to agree that there are no +corresponding phenomena in the early pubertal life of the normal young +woman who has good health. A limited number of mature women, some of +them physicians, report having experienced in the pubertal years +localized tumescence and other disturbances which made them definitely +conscious of sexual instincts. However, it should be noted that most of +these are known to have had a personal history including one or more +such abnormalities as dysmenorrhea, uterine displacement, pathological +ovaries, leucorrhea, tuberculosis, masturbation, neurasthenia, +nymphomania, or other disturbances which are sufficient to account for +local sexual stimulation. In short, such women are not normal. Such +facts have led many physicians to the generalization that the average +healthy adolescent girl does not undergo normal spontaneous changes +which make her definitely conscious of the nature, source, and +desirability of localized sexual pleasure. On the contrary, such +consciousness commonly comes to many only as the result of stimuli +arising in connection with affection.[18] Clearly it is nonsense to +claim that the sexual temptations arising within the individual are +equal for the two sexes. Potentially, girls may have passions as strong +as boys, but they do not become so definitely and spontaneously +conscious of their latent instincts. + +[Sidenote: Helping the young man.] + +Thus considering the available facts regarding the physiological +reasons for the sexual tendencies of men, it seems to me that we gain +nothing in trying to minimize the young man's sexual problems, for he +is quite conscious that they are insistent. Far better it is that +mature men who know life in its completeness should make the young man +feel that his problems are not new, not insignificant, and that many +another man has met and solved them in such a way as to make life more +full of real happiness. Such sympathetic helpfulness will mean +something to a young man, but he cannot be led far by one who in his +own early experience has not learned both the strength and the mastery +of the sexual instincts. + +[Sidenote: Women should know.] + +In another lecture I have discussed the proposition that it would be +better for all concerned if women could have scientific understanding +of the physiological facts concerning the sexual tendencies of men, not +to make women more lenient or forgiving towards the mistakes of men, +but rather to enable women to play an important part in the necessary +adjustments through helpful comradeship. This last phrase will mean +nothing to many people, but in many a modern home a well-informed wife +has been able to lead the way to the satisfactory solution of the +fundamental problems of life. + +[Sidenote: Self-control in marriage.] + +There is another and an all-important phase of the problem of teaching +self-control which is commonly overlooked by those who are trying to +help young men solve their greatest problems. I have in mind the need +of self-control in marriage. Most writers and lecturers who emphasize +the arguments for absolute self-control or continence before marriage, +omit all reference to marital life. The natural inference, and one +widely followed, is that the only moral duty of a young man is to +control his intense desires and avoid illicit relations until sexual +abandon is permitted under the license of the law and the benediction +of the church. Such, I submit, is a fair conclusion for young men to +draw from at least ninety per cent of the sex-education literature that +is current to-day. + +Now, I believe this is all wrong. In fact, I am so radical as to +believe that the intelligent women of the world would gain more from +temperance and unselfishness and delicacy of men in sexual functioning +in marriage than from sexual continence before marriage. Of course, I +do not propose that ideal sexual conditions in marriage may justify +pre-marital incontinence, but I make this sharp contrast simply to +emphasize the belief that sexual intemperance and selfishness of men in +marriage causes more mental and physical suffering of women than does +sexual incontinence of men before marriage, and I am not forgetting the +vast problem of social diseases and prostitution. + +I urge, then, that those who attempt to direct young men through the +mazes of sexual life should hold up ideals not only of pre-marital +continence, but also of post-nuptial temperance and harmonious +adjustment between husband and wife. This post-nuptial problem is far +more difficult to solve, for the intimacy of married life, especially +in the earlier years, is sure to offer stimuli that are likely to make +sexual instincts more insistent than those that come from celibate +repression. However, self-control and temperance in marriage is no new +and unattainable ideal, and harmonious adjustment of men and women in +marriage is far more common than the pessimists would have us believe. + + +§ 38. _The Mental Side of the Young Man's Sexual Life_ + +[Sidenote: Effect of mental imagery.] + +Most of the discussions of the education of young men for moral living +have centered around the problem of keeping him from physical sexual +activity. So far as society is concerned, this is the great +desideratum. So far as the individual life is concerned, it is +important that self-control should extend to mental imagery. Professors +Geddes and Thomson have well said, in "Sex," that "while anatomical +chastity is a moral achievement, it is not the deepest virtue. The +incisive declaration: 'Whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her +hath committed adultery with her already in his heart' expresses an +even more searching standard, and modern science brings home to us the +radical importance of our reflex thought and deep-down impulses, which +appear to bulk largely in molding our lives and the lives of those who +may spring from us." In language adapted to the understanding of +average young men, this idea should be emphasized. + +In the opinion of some physiologists the greatest harm done to the +individual who has long been a victim of masturbation is in the +centering of the attention on imaginary sexual situations. This is +especially true of mental masturbation. Hence, the relation of +masturbation to the possible establishment of a disordered mental state +should be known by adolescent boys and young men. + +[Sidenote: Control of thoughts.] + +It appears from the experience of many men that strenuous work and play +are the only efficient weapons for driving sexual images into the +background of the mind. This applies not only to sordid and lewd +thoughts of unchaste sexual situations, but also to the mental images +that are inevitably associated with the purest affection and which +should be trained to obey when calm reason so orders. + +The following literature will be especially helpful to young men: W.S. +Hall's "Sexual Hygiene for Men," or his "Sexual Knowledge"; Exner's +"The Rational Sex Life for Men"; Morrow's "The Young Man's Problem," +and "Health and Hygiene of Sex for College Students"; King's "Fight for +Character" (Y.M.C.A.); and the chapter on Ethics of Sex in "Sex" by +Geddes and Thomson. + +FOOTNOTES: + +[17] The first three pamphlets are published by the Society of +Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis (New York); the Exner pamphlets by the +Association Press (New York). + +[18] This is really not surprising if we remember the peculiarities of +human instincts mentioned in an earlier lecture (§ 3). + + + + +IX + +SPECIAL SEX-INSTRUCTION FOR MATURING YOUNG WOMEN + + +[Sidenote: Parents would limit knowledge of daughters.] + +It was my original plan to make this lecture parallel with the +preceding one for young men, but much discussion with parents and with +scientifically trained women whose suggestions and criticisms I value +has shown me that there is no consensus of opinion as to what should be +taught to young women between eighteen and twenty-two years of age. I +have found many fathers and mothers who think that their boys of +fourteen or fifteen should be informed as suggested in the preceding +lecture; but concerning some of the facts for boys these same parents +were doubtful whether their daughters ought to know before twenty, and +some of them have said twenty-five and even thirty. Some of them have +said that they see no reason why an unmarried young woman of the +protected group should know much more than a very limited amount of +personal hygiene; but most of these people were decidedly hazy as to +how the young woman about to marry may be sure of getting belated +knowledge. In short, all along the line I have found intelligent +parents and others who believe in very thorough sex-instruction for +boys, but that "nice" girls should be kept as ignorant and innocent as +possible. With such disagreement existing, it is evidently not possible +to make such specific recommendations as have been made for boys. + + +§ 39. _The Young Woman's Attitude towards Manhood_ + +[Sidenote: Women should have ideals.] + +Among those who agree heartily with the proposition that by education +the young man's attitude towards womanhood (§ 30) should be cultivated +I find, to my surprise, many who object to any parallel attempt to +influence young woman's ideals of manhood. I say that I am surprised +because it has long seemed to me that many of the faults of men are +largely traceable to the fact that women as a sex have not been able to +hold a high standard for manhood; and, therefore, I wonder when some +thinking women question the desirability of trying to influence young +women by organized instruction. Of course, we must not forget that +before the coming of the economic and social freedom of women there +were very few of them who were able to maintain a stand for their +ideals of manhood; but this is no longer true in a great and rapidly +increasing group of the individualized and educated classes. Therefore, +it seems clear that if the better groups of women want a higher type of +manhood capable of better adjustment in marriage, it is important that +they consider ways and means of molding the minds of young women with +reference to ideal manhood. + +[Sidenote: Ideals and disappointment.] + +Occasionally I have met a strange view of life in some men and women +who have grown pessimistic from revelations concerning the +sexual-social problems and who think that true manhood is so rare that +emphasizing it with young women will lead to ideals that can rarely be +realized in actual life; and therefore, for women so influenced there +will be increasing discontent and disappointment in marriage or +deliberate celibacy. No doubt this is in part true, as witness the many +highly educated women who have written or said that there seem to be +few attractive marriageable men of their own age. However, it is rare +indeed that such women say that life would have meant more without the +higher education and its resulting ideals that have stood in the way of +marriage such as might be happy for uneducated women. This is in line +with the fact that many cultivated men and women find that education +has given unattained ideals and unsatisfied ambitions and strenuous +life and disappointments, but it is rare that they long for the +care-free and animal-like happiness of the tropical savage. We must +remember that education gives us keener feeling for life's pains, but +it also compensates by giving soul-satisfying appreciation of its joys. +So it seems reasonable to believe that while educating young women to +believe in and demand a higher ideal of manhood in its natural +relations to womanhood will certainly make disappointments more +heart-pressing for some, it will just as surely make realization the +supreme happiness of others. And as adjustment of manhood and womanhood +through the larger sex-education becomes more and more abundant and +more and more perfected, the sum total of human happiness will +increase. + +Looking thus towards the ultimate good, I must refuse to accept the +hopeless and depressing view that all young women should be kept +ignorant of their relation to men and life in order that the absence of +ideals of manhood may protect some women against possible +disappointment by men. + + +§ 40. _The Young Woman's Attitude towards Love and Marriage_ + +[Sidenote: Reasons not same as for men.] + +In the preceding lecture to the parents and teachers of young men I +emphasized the importance of developing the young man's ideals of love +and marriage primarily because such ideals have so often helped men +morally in character-formation and character-protection. I feel sure +that this is not the chief reason why the ideals of young women should +be developed along parallel lines. On the contrary, it seems to me that +those representative women are right who think that the first reason +why ideals of young women should be influenced is that there is need of +a radical change in the attitude of a very common type of young women +who are flippant and disrespectful concerning love and marriage, and +whose influence on the morals of men is decidedly bad because they +often give unguided young men their first and strongest impressions +concerning women. A second reason, which is equally applicable to both +sexes, is that advance understanding of the relations of love and +marriage is likely to lead to happy and satisfactory adjustment in +marriage. + +[Sidenote: Men naturally lead in love.] + +Perhaps the flippant and disrespectful attitude concerning affairs of +the heart develops in many young women because they do not consciously +feel in advance of experience the demand for affection which comes so +naturally and spontaneously to many, possibly to all, normal young men +whose views of life have not been artificially twisted. I fully realize +the treacherous nature of the ground on which walks one who tries to +compare the two sexes concerning their relative attitudes towards love, +but certain it is that the novelist's descriptions of men as the +leaders and aggressors in love is not fiction but the common fact of +real life. Man's tendency towards leadership in love is not +scientifically explained by any superficial assumption that established +social conventions have repressed an original spontaneity of women. On +the contrary, there are the best of physiological and psychological +reasons for believing that the social conventions have arisen as an +expression of masculine aggressiveness and natural tendency towards +leadership in affairs of the heart. The accepted fact is that many +young women have no understanding of or demand for affection until +experience has taught them its place in life. In the records of real +life, as well as in fiction, many a young woman's possibilities of +happiness have been lost because she did not understand herself when +love came into her experience. + +[Sidenote: Affection in marriage.] + +Another side to the problem of the young woman's relation to love and +marriage is brought to our attention by the lamentable fact that many +wives lose interest in devoted husbands when the children come. This is +probably true in at least half the families; and many matrimonial +disharmonies are the result. This is really one of the greatest +problems of marriage which cultured women should consider seriously; +for even more than in most other sex problems, it is one for the +solution of which women are in a position to take the leading part. +This problem is especially important in these days when the household +inefficiency, personal extravagance, and desire for social position of +numerous young women of eighteen to thirty are having an enormous +influence in advancing the age of marriage because many of the best +types of young men pause and consider seriously the impossibility of +adjusting a small salary to the ideas of their women friends as to what +is the minimum of a family budget. Add to such facts a growing +pessimism of young men regarding inconstant affections of wives with +children, and the need of special educational attack is evident. + +[Sidenote: The duty of parents.] + +From whatever side we look at the question whether the larger +sex-education should somehow try to mold the ideals of young women +with regard to love and marriage, we see reasons why parents should +encourage their maturing daughters to get some advance understanding of +such relation. If parents are themselves unable to help their daughters +to this understanding, they can at least exert great influence by their +own attitude, and they can approve the reading of books, and perhaps +there may be opportunity for hearing lectures by women who understand +life. + +[Sidenote: Books.] + +With regard to good literature that will help in this line, there are +chapters in many of the books mentioned at the end of this lecture, and +in more or less indirect form in the general literature suggested in +the preceding lectures concerning young men, and in § 12 which deals +with the general educational problem of marriage. + + +§ 41. _Reasons for Pre-marital Continence of Women_ + +[Sidenote: Many women do not need reasons.] + +Many women who have lived protected lives have declared themselves +unable to understand why a young woman should need reasons for +pre-marital continence; and these women are probably right so far as +the great majority of the daughters of families in good social +conditions are concerned. As pointed out in earlier lectures, there is +abundant evidence that the average adolescent girl who is protected +against external sexual stimuli and influenced constantly by the +prevailing ideals which demand chastity of women, is not likely to need +any arguments why she should avoid pre-marital incontinence. Moreover, +there seems to be little danger that the average girl with good social +environment will ever question her ideals of chastity unless under the +stress of overwhelming affection; in other words, there is little +possibility that such women will be interested in the strictly +mechanical, non-affectionate, and unsentimental sexual relations which +must inevitably characterize the common prostitution of men. + +[Sidenote: Unprotected girls.] + +Note that I am referring to the average young woman in good social +environment, and for the moment omitting the vast class of so-called +"unprotected" girls. Moreover, I am speaking of the "average," and I am +not forgetting that medical journals and books record many exceptions. +Nevertheless, we must not be misled by medical literature, for +naturally the physician sees the women whose lack of health leads them +to seek professional advice, and it is well known that in sexual lines +women commonly become decidedly unhealthy before they consult +physicians. As testimony concerning the average normal women, I have +the greatest confidence in the statements of thoughtful women with +sound scientific attitude; and such are my authority for the view that +maintaining pre-marital continence is not one of the serious problems +for the average young woman with good domestic and social environment. + +Now, while I admit in advance that the problem of pre-marital +continence is not of great significance in the personal lives of the +great majority of the type of women who are likely to hear or read this +lecture, I do believe that this is the type of women who ought to think +over the problem as it concerns the atypical girl of good social groups +and the "unprotected" girl of more unfortunate groups. I cannot see, +therefore, why it is not best and safest that all girls should learn +from parents or reliable books or teachers the main reasons for +pre-marital chastity. + +[Sidenote: The girl who needs help.] + +The atypical girls of good social groups who need guidance regarding +pre-marital continence are of two types: either one with intensive +sexuality which is often modifiable by medical or surgical treatment; +or one of probably normal instincts but with radical sexual philosophy. +The first type needs not only emphatic instruction regarding +continence, but more often medical help, either for general health or +for correction of localized sexual disturbance. The second type must be +treated exactly as suggested for young men, because they are the women +whose anarchistic repudiation of laws and convention in general has led +to their acceptance of a _single_ standard of morality for men and +women, but one of freedom from monogamic ideals. This type of women, +long well known in the student groups of Paris and in Russian +universities, is becoming more and more evident in America, especially +among some well-educated young women who have dropped their ideals of +chastity because they have found attractiveness in more or less +superficial studies of radical socialism. Many of these radical women +frankly say that they would like to marry the "right man," but failing +to find that rare species, they claim their right to sexual freedom in +more or less capricious liaisons. Others of these women are so highly +individualized that marriage is beneath their contempt, either because +it will "interfere with a career" or because the legal aspects and +ecclesiastical ceremonies still suggest the old-time subjection of the +wife to the husband. Women who are in a position to know from personal +knowledge of radical people declare that there are still relatively few +educated women who deliberately cut loose from monogamic standards; and +that they are most commonly found among certain intimate and +unconventional groups of students and professional workers, especially +those who are united in "Bohemian life" by artistic or literary +interests. But while such sexually anarchistic women are not common in +America, there is reason for fearing that, unless some unexpected check +comes to this undercurrent towards sexual freedom, it may be found ten +or twenty years hence that a surprisingly large number, but _never a +majority_, of unmarried young women have fallen into the sexual +promiscuity that is so common among unmarried men of the same ages. + +[Sidenote: Radical sex literature.] + +Chief of the influences that lead a certain number of well-educated +young women towards sexual freedom is radical printed matter. We are +now getting in America a wide distribution of bold literature of the +"free love" type, some of it with a scientific superficiality that +will convince many beginners in the study of sexual problems. Much of +this literature is translation or adaptation of books and articles by +European authors; and I have previously remarked that abroad the ideals +of sexual morality--and judging from the Great War, of morality in +other lines--is frankly quite different from that upheld here. But some +of this radical literature is American in origin. In addition to +certain books and pamphlets, which might be advertised by giving names, +I think of two New York medical journals, with a popular circulation, +edited by a successful but much criticized physician, which rarely +publish an issue without frank approval and even arguments for +extra-marital relations other than prostitution, particularly for those +who for one reason or another, unwelcome or voluntary, are leading +celibate lives. The influence of such writings on young women who are +inclined towards radicalism in all things is probably enormous, and it +is unfortunate that vigorous opposition literature is not published and +widely circulated. + +[Sidenote: Same instruction as for men.] + +In conclusion, it is clear that the problem of pre-marital continence +is not limited to young men, for the "unprotected" girl from a +low-grade home and environment, and the uninformed girl from the best +of homes, and the radical girl from the most educated circles may, +innocently or deliberately, select the pathway to unchastity. For these +kinds of young women the educational problem is the same as for young +men. They should have essentially the same instruction. And, in the +case of both sexes, it is only by contrasting the good and evil that +education can point out the worth-whileness of chastity. + +[Sidenote: Indirect responsibility.] + +There is a special aspect of the problem of pre-marital chastity of men +that young women should understand, and that is their indirect +responsibility for the unchastity of many men. In discussing dancing +(§ 35) and extreme dress (§ 36), it has been indicated that women as a +sex have a tremendous responsibility for the temptations of men. The +same is true in the case of flirting or more extreme familiarities with +men. However sure a young woman may feel of her own power of +self-control, she should not consider lightly her possible part in a +chain of events which may lead men to unchastity with other women. Many +a man driven into the white heat of passion by thoughtless or +deliberate acts of a pure girl has gone direct to seek relief of +tension in the underworld. Of course, the girl in this case is not +directly responsible for the downfall of the man; but I wonder if there +is not moral, if not legal, responsibility for one who knowingly leads +or helps another to the brink of a precipice from which he voluntarily +falls. + +I am perfectly well aware that many good people will be horrified by +the very suggestion that young women should be taught their +responsibility for their men associates. Some will declare that the +advocates of sex-education propose to destroy the innocence and romance +in young women's lives. Others of the horrified ones will remain +complacent because they believe that unchastity is caused by "innate +depravity" of men. I am sorry to disagree with such people who are +sincere, but the established facts point clearly to the conclusion that +it is the duty of the mothers and teachers of girls to make them +understand their relations to men and their responsibility for helping +young men avoid sexual temptations. This is necessary when innocence +stands in the way of the maximum safety and happiness of young people. + + +§ 42. _Need of Optimistic and Æsthetic Views of Sex by Women_ + +[Sidenote: Many women pessimistic concerning sexuality.] + +The most significant point in the sex-education movement at present is +the fact that numerous women of the most intelligent groups are tending +rapidly towards accepting an optimistic and æsthetic view of sexual +relationships so far as these are normal and ethical and guided by +affection. However, this higher philosophy of sexual life is still very +far from being universal among educated women, and it is probably true +that to the great majority of them sexuality has no æsthetic meaning +but is simply a very troublesome physical function and an animal method +for perpetuating the human species. That such an attitude should be +common is not surprising, for in recent years numerous educated women +have gained abundant information concerning abnormal sexuality, while +very few have caught glimpses of the higher possibilities of the +sexual functions. The truth is that it has been and still is difficult +for most women to get well-balanced knowledge of sexual normality. +There are hundreds of books and pamphlets that deal with amazing +boldness with the sexual mistakes of human life, but there is not in +general circulation to-day any printed matter which deals with normal +sexual life with anything like the frankness and directness that is +common in widely circulated literature on social vice and its +concomitant diseases. Likewise, it is difficult for women to get the +true view of sexual life from personal sources, for the vulgar side of +sexuality is the one usually discussed by most people, some of whom +revel in obscenity, some have had personal experiences that have caused +ineradicable bitterness, and some more or less sincerely believe that +knowledge of vice is of value as a safeguard or an antidote. The bright +side of the sexual story is rarely told in conversation, either because +it is unfamiliar or because it is the sacred secret between pairs of +individuals who together have found life in all its completeness. + +[Sidenote: Æsthetic outlook.] + +Fortunately, this depressing emphasis on sexual abnormality is +beginning to disappear, and we see sure signs of coming attention to +sexual health rather than to disease and to purity rather than to vice. +Leading women are beginning to give, through the impersonal medium of +science and general literature, some definite and helpful testimony +concerning the pathway to the essential good that is bound up in +sexuality. It is especially important that young women of culture +should be helped to this point of view, and as far as possible before +they learn much concerning the dark problems that have originated from +failure to keep sexual functions sacred to affection and possible +parenthood. The educated women of to-day who have acquired and retained +faith in the essential goodness of human sexual possibilities, and who +at the same time have an understanding of the mistakes that weak humans +are wont to make, are sure to play a most important part as teachers +and mothers and leaders in the movement which is already guiding +numerous intelligent men and women to a purified and noble view of the +sexual relationships. As I see the big problems that demand +sex-education, the future will depend largely upon the attitude of +women. It is an essential part of the feministic movement. In the past +there have been many alarming signs of a destructive sex antagonism +that charged men with full responsibility for existing sex problems. +But the advance guards of feminism are beginning to recognize that +there are all-essential relationships between the sexes, and that only +in sex coöperation can there be any permanent solution of the great +questions. It is a great advance from the sex hostility of Christabel +Pankhurst's "Plain Facts on a Great Evil" to the co-working attitude of +Louise Creighton's "Social Disease and How to Fight It," of Olive +Schreiner's "Woman and Labor," of Ellen Key's "Love and Marriage," and +of Gascoigne Hartley's "Truth About Woman," all of which give us hope +that women with optimistic and æsthetic interpretation of sex are +coming to take the lead towards a better understanding of the relations +of sex and life. + + +§ 43. _Other Problems for Young Women_ + +Concerning several other problems that have been discussed with special +reference to young men, it seems best that all young women should be +informed sometime between sixteen and twenty-two, the age limit +depending upon maturity of the individual, home life, and social +environment. + +[Sidenote: Prostitution.] + +With regard to prostitution, it seems important that girls should know +the essential facts recommended in the lecture concerning boys. The +"unprotected" girl of low-grade environment will often need some of +this knowledge before she is fourteen (and in some cases, even twelve) +years old. On the other hand, the average "protected" girl need not +know until several years later. It seems possible that too early +familiarity with the existence of sexual vice might tend to make some +young women accept it as part of the established order of things; and, +hence, the girl whose environment is protective and whose moral +training has been complete will be perfectly safe without knowledge of +vice and will be more likely to take an opposition attitude if she +learns the facts concerning prostitution when she is approaching +maturity. Even then the essential information should be given in such +a way that the young woman will see the gravity of the social situation +and, at the same time, not develop a spirit of sex hostility. Here, +again, I must recommend Louise Creighton's "Social Disease and How to +Fight It" as not only pointing out the nature of the great evil, but +also recognizing that the existing situation can never be improved +except by the sympathetic coöperation of the best men and women. + +[Sidenote: Dancing.] + +With regard to dancing, young girls should be taught that certain forms +of this exercise are not approved by the most refined people. Before +maturity, they should not know the physiological reason for this +disapproval. In fact, I know many men and women who think it best that +most women, even mature, should not have their attention called to the +sexual dangers of dancing. For my part, I cannot see how women with +such ignorance can coöperate with the best men in reducing the admitted +dangers to a minimum. + +[Sidenote: Dress.] + +With regard to dress as a sexual problem, some mothers think they can +handle the problem with their young daughters by emphasizing modesty +and without further explanation; but the drawing power of fashions is +so great that most young women are quick to revise their ideas of +modesty to suit the latest style. Is it too much to hope that large +numbers of young women would accept such facts as were stated in the +lecture for young men (§ 36), and would be sincere enough to dress so +that their attractiveness may appeal more to the æsthetic and less to +the physical natures of men? + +[Sidenote: Merely a man's views.] + +In this lecture concerning the special teaching of young women, I have +attempted nothing more than an outline of the impressions that I have +gained from books and from representative women who are interested in +the larger sex-education. I have not tried to make the discussion as +extensive as that for young men, first, because I cannot believe that +young women in general need so much special instruction; and, second, +because only women can adequately advise concerning the sex-educational +problems of young women. However, since the women who might be expected +to know the truth about women have failed to agree on so many points, +it may be worth while for a man to contribute some suggestions based on +the most scientific information offered by some very reliable women. + +[Sidenote: Books.] + +Among the books which touch the special problems for young women, I am +most favorably impressed by the following: Hall's "Life Problems" in +the first thirty-two pages is adapted for girls of twelve to fourteen, +and the remainder for older girls. Some parents are not enthusiastic +about the story form, but the facts are well selected and presented. +The last chapter of Smith's "Three Gifts of Life" is worth reading, but +the first chapters are unscientific. For almost mature young women, +there are chapters of Rummel's "Womanhood and Its Development," of +Wood-Allen's "What a Young Woman Should Know," of Lowry's "Herself," +and of Galbraith's "Four Epochs of a Woman's Life." The last two are +decidedly medical in point of view. The part for girls in Scharlieb and +Sibley's "Youth and Sex," and some chapters of March's "Towards Racial +Health," are good. The last two chapters of Geddes and Thomson's "Sex" +will be appreciated by many intellectual young women. Hepburn's +sentimental little story "The Perfect Gift" (Crist Co., 3¢) has helped +many young people improve their æsthetic outlook. There are some +helpful ideas in Henderson's "What It Is To Be Educated" (Houghton +Mifflin Co.). While disagreeing (§ 46) with Dr. Richard Cabot's extreme +emphasis on a mystical religious solution for problems of sex, I +recognize that many young women have been helped by his "The Christian +Approach to Social Morality" (Y.W.C.A.), and by his "What Men Live +By." + + + + +X + +CRITICISMS OF SEX-EDUCATION + + +In the preceding lectures we have considered the arguments for +sex-instruction. It will now be helpful to review some of the writings +of those who oppose or at least point out the defects of the commonly +accepted plan of sex-instruction. None of those writers whom I shall +quote is known to be absolutely opposed to all sex-instruction, but +some of them would limit the instruction so much that there would be +little hope of the general movement having an important influence. + + +§ 44. _A Plea for Reticence Concerning Sex_ + +[Sidenote: Agnes Repplier.] + +Miss Agnes Repplier, the distinguished essayist, discusses in the +_Atlantic Monthly_ (March, 1914) the plain speech on sex topics that +are before the public to-day. While she holds no brief for "the +conspiracy of silence," which she admits was "a menace in its day," she +maintains that "the breaking of silence need not imply the opening of +the flood-gates of speech." She goes on to say: + +[Sidenote: Present frankness.] + + "It was never meant by those who first cautiously advised a + clearer understanding of sexual relations and hygienic rules that + everybody should chatter freely respecting these grave issues; + that teachers, lecturers, novelists, story-writers, militants, + dramatists, social workers, and magazine editors should copiously + impart all they know, or assume they know, to the world. The lack + of restraint, the lack of balance, the lack of soberness and + common sense were never more apparent than in the obsession of sex + which has set us all ababbling about matters once excluded from + the amenities of conversation. + + "Knowledge is the cry. Crude, undigested knowledge, without limit + and without reserve. Give it to boys, give it to girls, give it to + children. No other force is taken account of by the visionaries + who--in defiance, or in ignorance of history--believe that evil + understood is evil conquered. + + "We hear too much about the thirst for knowledge from people keen + to quench it. Dr. Edward L. Keyes, president of the Society of + Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, advocates the teaching of + sex-hygiene to children, because he thinks that it is the kind of + information that children are eagerly seeking. 'What is this + topic,' he asks, 'that all these little ones are questioning over, + mulling over, fidgeting over, worrying over? Ask your own + memories.' + + [Sidenote: One child's life.] + + "I do ask my memory in vain for the answer Dr. Keyes anticipates. + A child's life is so full, and everything that enters it seems of + supreme importance. I fidgeted over my hair which would not curl. + I worried over my examples which never came out right. I mulled + (though unacquainted with the word) over every piece of sewing put + into my incapable fingers, which could not be trained to hold a + needle. I imagined I was stolen by brigands, and became--by virtue + and intelligence--spouse of a patriotic outlaw in a frontierless + land. I asked artless questions which brought me into discredit + with my teachers, as, for example, who 'massacred' St. + Bartholomew. But vital facts, the great laws of propagation, were + matters of but casual concern crowded out of my life and out of my + companions' lives (in a convent boarding-school) by the more + stirring happenings of every day. How could we fidget over + obstetrics when we were learning to skate, and our very dreams + were a medley of ice and bumps? How could we worry over 'natural + laws' in the face of a tyrannical interdict which lessened our + chances of breaking our necks by forbidding us to coast down a + hill covered with trees? The children to be pitied, the children + whose minds become infected with unwholesome curiosity are those + who lack cheerful recreation, religious teaching, and the fine + corrective of work. A playground or a swimming pool will do more + to keep them mentally and morally sound than scores of lectures on + sex-hygiene. + + [Sidenote: Personal teaching approved.] + + "The world is wide, and a great deal is happening in it. I do not + plead for ignorance, but for the gradual and harmonious broadening + of the field of knowledge, and for a more careful consideration of + ways and means. There are subjects which may be taught in class, + and subjects which commend themselves to individual teaching. + There are topics which admit of _plein-air_ handling, and topics + which civilized man, as apart from his artless brother of the + jungles, has veiled with reticence. There are truths which may be, + and should be, privately imparted by a father, a mother, family + doctor, or an experienced teacher; but which young people cannot + advantageously acquire from the platform, the stage, the moving + picture gallery, the novel or the ubiquitous monthly magazine." + +There is much in Miss Repplier's paragraphs which will win hearty +approval from those who have come to believe, as advocated throughout +this series of lectures, in conservative teaching of sex-hygiene and a +larger outlook for sex-education. + +[Sidenote: Current frankness not due to sex-education.] + +No doubt there has been too great a loss of a certain kind of reticence +and a substitution of crude frankness, but it has not been caused by +the sex-education movement. On the contrary, there are two evident +sources of the plain speech of which Miss Repplier and others have +complained: First, the commercializing of sex by novelists, dramatists, +theater managers, and publishers--many of whom are reaping a golden +harvest and few of whom have any sincere interest in promulgating +sexual information to any end except their own pocketbooks. Second, the +development of the feminist movement which has its deepest foundation +in the age-old sexual misunderstandings of women by men, and which has +led on and on into social and political complications of gravest +significance. The very nature of the feminist revolt from masculine +domination made plain speaking on sex matters inevitable. + +[Sidenote: Reaction against sensational frankness.] + +Neither of these sources of plain speech need give us cause for alarm, +for a great reaction is already coming. The sensationalism of sexual +revelations has had its day, and the intelligent public is recovering +its balance. A lurid novel or play resembling "Damaged Goods" or "The +House of Bondage" or certain vice-commission reports would not now be +accepted by some prominent publishers who recently would not have +hesitated to seize a first-class commercial opportunity in this line. +The fact is that sexual sensationalism has ceased to pay because the +intelligent public knows the main facts and has become disgusted with +crude frankness that amounts to lasciviousness. On the side of feminism +there is hope in the widespread disgust with Cristabel Pankhurst's +"Plain Facts on a Great Evil" as compared with the very general +approval of Louise Creighton's polished masterpiece, "The Social Evil +and How to Fight It." This represents exactly the present attitude of +numerous men and women who calmly discuss together the great problems +of life fearlessly and without any elements of lasciviousness such as +some people seem to think is necessarily associated with either +unsexual or bisexual discussion of sex problems. + +[Sidenote: Not a typical case.] + +Miss Repplier's description of her own lack of youthful interest in +things sexual is of value simply as applied to a limited number of +extra-protected girls. Her experience teaches us nothing regarding boys +or even girls under average conditions. We know beyond any doubt that +average children in or near adolescence do seek the kind of information +that Miss Repplier denies having thought about. It is not "pressed +relentlessly upon their attention" by teachers, but by instinct and by +environment. Playground and swimming pools and religious influence and +work are all helpful in our dealings with young people, but all +together they are inadequate without some information concerning sex. + +[Sidenote: Conclusion.] + +Finally, Miss Repplier, like so many other critics of sex-instruction, +has in mind only the physical consequences of wrong-doing. Here again +is the influence of the pioneer sex-hygiene. However, she pleads for +the "gradual and harmonious broadening of the field of knowledge and +for a more careful consideration of ways and means" for +sex-instruction. This makes us believe that she will favor the larger +sex-education which gives a place to "the cheerful recreation, the +religious teaching, the childish virtues, the youthful virtues, the +wholesome preoccupation," as well as essential knowledge of physical +facts; and all as factors in preparing young people consciously and +unconsciously to face the inevitable problems of sex. On the whole, we +must regard Miss Repplier's discussion as a helpful contribution to the +saner aspects of sex-education. + + +§ 45. _A Plea for Religious Approach to Sex-instruction_ + +[Sidenote: Cosmo Hamilton.] + +Another prominent author who does not agree with the current tendencies +of sex-instruction is Cosmo Hamilton in his little book entitled "A +Plea for the Younger Generation" (Doran Co.). He agrees with the +sex-education writers that children should be instructed early, and as +far as possible by their parents; but he wholly disagrees with the +method of biological introduction. He would have parents go straight to +the heart of the matter and tell the child, as simply and truly as can +be, just how he came into the world. And he would fill the teaching +with reverence by using as an illustration the birth of the babe of +Bethlehem. Referring to those who in recent years have been working for +a scientific introduction to sex-education, Mr. Hamilton says: + +[Sidenote: Religious appeal.] + + "I think that these professors and scientists are wasting their + time, and I have written this small volume not only in order to + make a plea for the younger generation as to the way in which they + shall be taught sex truths, but also in order, if possible, to + prove to the advanced thinkers of the day that it is not + old-fashioned to beg that God may be put back into the lives of + His children, but a thing of urgent and vital importance. Without + faith the new generation is like a city built on sand. Without the + discipline and the inspiration of God the young boys and girls who + will all too soon be standing in our shoes will go through life + with hungry souls, with nothing to live up to, and very little to + live for." + +[Sidenote: Many not reached by religious appeal.] + +All this is very good so far as it appeals to the religious type of +mind, but Mr. Hamilton seems to forget that vast numbers of people +cannot be approached from this point of view. How can the illustration +of the Christ-child help those who do not accept certain orthodox +religious beliefs? + + +§ 46. _The Conflict between Sex-hygiene and Sex-ethics_ + +[Sidenote: Richard Cabot.] + +It has been said in an earlier lecture that several writers have +declared that sex-ethics and sex-hygiene are essentially conflicting +and should not be associated in teaching; that is to say, that hygienic +facts should not be taught with the hope of improving morals. Most +prominent of those who have declared that hygienic and moral teaching +should be dissociated is Dr. Richard C. Cabot, of Boston. I shall give +in this lecture attention to his writings because they have tended to +introduce confusion by critical attention to certain weak details and +unessentials in the original suggestions for sex-education, and by +wrongly assuming that the original "sex-hygiene" was aimed at improved +morals, whereas it was aimed directly at health. In a paper entitled +"Consecration of the Affections (often misnamed 'Sex-hygiene')," read +at the fifth (1911) Congress of the American School Hygiene +Association, Dr. Cabot attacked the kind of sex-instruction that is +limited to sex-hygiene. He has later returned to the attack on many +occasions. I shall quote a number of his paragraphs and follow each +with a discussion of its contents. + +[Sidenote: Hygiene and conduct.] + + (1) "The straight, right action in matters of human affection has + nothing to do with hygiene. For hygiene has no words to proclaim + as to why you and I should behave ourselves. Hygiene has the right + and the duty to make clear the perverted and the diseased + consequences of certain errors. But these consequences are far + from constant.... Let us disabuse our minds, then, of the idea + that there are always bad physical consequences of mistake, error, + or sin in this [sex] field, and that those consequences are + reasons for behaving ourselves. But even if there were such + consequences, I think it even more mischievous for us to preach a + morality based upon them." + +That hygienic knowledge makes many people control their sexual selves +is beyond dispute. Because the consequences of sexual error are far +from constant is a weak argument against pointing out possible results. +The consequences from pistols are far from constant, and yet I have no +doubt that Dr. Cabot would teach small boys the danger of shooting +themselves and other people. + +[Sidenote: Hygiene and ethics for health.] + +The last quoted sentence suggests Dr. Cabot's whole basis of contention +against sex-hygiene. He seems to have inferred from the earlier papers, +especially those by Dr. Morrow, that the hygiene of sex is to be taught +as an approach to morality. On the contrary, the truth is that the aim +of most of the first leaders in sex-instruction was to teach hygiene +and ethics primarily in order to improve health. Dr. Morrow and others +believed that hygienic teaching would secondarily react on sexual +morality; but the original aim of the Society of Sanitary and Moral +Prophylaxis was to limit the spread of venereal disease by sanitary, +moral, and legal means. In other words, moral appeals were to aid in +checking disease, and knowledge of disease was not claimed to improve +morality, although such knowledge might react against immorality. It is +this misunderstanding or overlooking of the real reasons for teaching +concerning sex health that seems to have led Dr. Cabot into apparent +opposition to the general movement for sex-instruction. One infers from +all his lectures that he believes it good to teach hygiene for health, +ethics for morality, and biology for science; but that these should not +be correlated because to him they are unrelated. It seems to me that he +has simply been misled by the overenthusiasm of some of the first +writers on sex-hygiene and by the widespread use of that limited term +instead of sex-education. + +[Sidenote: Is sex-hygiene immoral?] + + (2) "Now I say that the preaching about sex-hygiene that is going + on in recent books and in the periodical press is immoral in its + tendency. It is like saying, 'Don't lie, for if you do, you won't + sleep at night, and insomnia is bad for the health.'" + +If insomnia often follows lying, then it should be taught as _one_ +reason why falsehoods should be avoided. This is not opposed to ethical +teaching, for at the same time we can teach the other reasons for not +telling lies. Likewise, sex-hygiene offers certain reasons for conduct +and may be supplemented by sex-ethics. + +[Sidenote: Information and morality.] + + (3) "The attempts to consecrate affection and to safeguard + morality by teaching in public or private schools what is called + 'sex-hygiene' will, I believe, prove a failure. I have very + little confidence in the restraining or inspiring value of + information, as such. I have seen too much of its powerlessness in + medical men and students. No one knows so much of the harm of + morphine as the physicians do, yet there are more cases of + morphine habit among physicians than among any less informed + profession. It is, of course, easy to make young children familiar + with the facts of maternity and birth. Compared to the ordinary + methods of concealment and lying by parents to children about + these matters this is doubtless an improvement, but it does almost + nothing to meet the moral problems of sex which come up later in + the child's life. One may know all about maternity, without + knowing anything of the difficulties and dangers of sex. Many have + thought that by thorough teaching of the physiology of + reproduction in plants and animals we can anticipate and to a + considerable extent prevent the dangers and temptations referred + to above." + +It is not proposed "to consecrate affection" or "to safeguard morality" +by hygienic knowledge; but simply to protect health. Of course, +information will not restrain everybody; but if physicians did not know +the dangers of morphine many more would be victims of the drug. Dr. +Cabot overlooks the fact that physicians know how to use and obtain +morphine, while other professional men do not. Teaching concerning +maternity and birth will not directly meet the moral problems of sex, +but it will help develop an attitude, "a consecration of the +affections," that will guard against the dangers of sex. Such teaching +to children is only one of many steps in the scheme of sex-education. +No responsible advocate of sex-instruction claims that teaching +children concerning the reproduction of animals and plants does +anticipate and prevent sexual temptations; but it is a foundation for +practical knowledge of human sex problems. I have elsewhere referred to +the effect of such studies on attitude. + +[Sidenote: Contagion of personality.] + + (4) "The positive moral qualities which make us immune to the + dangers of sex are obtainable not through warnings as to dangers, + but through the more positive activities just alluded to. All that + is most practical and successful in this field of endeavor may be + summarized as the _contagion of personality, human or divine_. + What is it that keeps any of us straight unless it is the + contagion of the highest personalities whom we have known, in man + and God?" + +We must admit that, perhaps, "positive moral qualities" are not +obtainable through warnings, but in this pragmatic age we must have +good social results gained by any honorable means. Many people are kept +from crime by warnings of the law. Of course, this is not a "positive +moral" result for the unethical individual who must be restrained by +fear of legal consequences, but we do not worry about the individual +when society gains. Likewise, a man kept from sexual promiscuity by +fear of disease is not more positively moral, but he is a better member +of society. No one will deny the importance of personality in its +influence on positive moral qualities; but there are many people who +are not influenced by personality, either human or divine. Other kinds +of control, such as hygienic and legal, are necessary for such people. + +[Sidenote: Good and evil.] + + (5) "A positive evil can be driven out only by a much more + positive good. The lower passion can be conquered only by a higher + passion." + +Here, again, Dr. Cabot seems to misunderstand the aim of hygienic +teaching regarding sex. It is not expected "to conquer the lower +passion" by hygiene, but to help keep it under control to the end that +personal and social health will be improved. The opium evil (certainly +a _positive_ one) is being driven out of China by military methods that +are good only in their results in suppressing the drug. Likewise, +hygiene of sex will be a practical good in so far as it may reduce the +venereal curse. "Positive good" in Dr. Cabot's moral sense is only of +limited application so far as the majority of people are concerned. In +fact, the whole idea of solving the sexual problems by "consecration of +the affections" makes its strong appeal only to those who have already +grasped the higher view of sex and do not need sex-instruction. Other +people cannot understand the phrase. We must find some more direct and +practical attack on the sex problems for the masses; and I believe that +this means scientific teaching which improves attitude, and hygienic +teaching which protects personal and social health. It is worth while +to get these results even if we do not succeed in improving morals. +That, I believe, is another and quite independent problem. + +[Sidenote: Dissociation of hygienic and moral teaching.] + +In an address published in the _Journal of the Society of Sanitary and +Moral Prophylaxis_, Vol. V, No. 1, January 1914, Dr. Cabot contended +that the hygienic and moral aspects of sex-education should not be +associated. It is possible that the following review and criticisms may +be based upon a misinterpretation; but if so, I shall not feel lonely, +for at the close of the discussion, Dr. Cabot said to his audience, "it +is evident that I have not succeeded in touching even the surfaces of +your minds, and have not made an atom of impression in making the +distinction which I desired to make." + +Dr. Cabot's main points are quoted below, and my comments follow each +quotation. + + (1) "Sanitation can often be conveyed effectively by information, + but morality cannot be conveyed by telling things." + +[Sidenote: Teaching morals.] + +It is certainly true that sanitation can be taught by words. That words +concerning moral things have no value is a proposition which Dr. Cabot +did not clearly and convincingly support. + + (2) "People often make sanitary mistakes from ignorance. So far as + you are ignorant you cannot be immoral. Morality is conditioned + upon knowledge of the right and wrong in question." + +[Sidenote: Immoral or unmoral.] + +Of course, one who is ignorant is unmoral and not immoral, but this +does not divorce sanitary and moral problems of social disease. An +ignorant and unmoral man may have unsanitary sexual habits, but +enlighten him regarding venereal disease and his habits make him +immoral. + + (3) "I cannot see that biology has moral value." + +[Sidenote: Moral value of biology.] + +But it may have moral influence just as literature and history and +biography may have. Of course, pure biology alone will not make people +more sexually moral, but no responsible biologist has ever claimed that +it will. + + (4) "In morals, we are dealing with the will, and if we believe + that the will is guided by intelligence, we must believe that all + people who _know_ what is right will _do_ what is right." + +[Sidenote: Knowledge and will.] + +It does not follow that to know what is right is to do what is right. +All depends upon the relative weight of opposing factors. A medical +student may _know_ the facts regarding venereal disease; but he also +knows the fact that his sexual instincts are insistent. The fact of his +passion may be more weighty than his scientific knowledge; and his will +may be guided by intelligent choice based on comparison of the two +opposing facts. Hence, it is illogical to contend that knowledge may +not influence moral conduct and that the will is not guided by +intelligence. + +[Sidenote: Cultivation of morality.] + + (5) "Any good achieved in any branch of morality helps all + morality. A person who learns any kind of self control is helped + toward all kinds. Anything that helps self control in one field + will help in all fields, the field of sex as well as others. + Whatever makes a person more obedient to conscience in matters of + truth or courage will help him in matters of chastity. We get + morality not by consciously cultivating particular virtues, but by + making ourselves useful men and women, by practice and by the love + and imitation of our betters. Thus, morality is cultivated in + hundreds of ways all at once." + +This is sound, but it is in no logical way opposed to any other aspect +of sex-instruction discussed in this series of lectures. + + (6) "Wherever the conditions of intimacy and interest + exist,--intimacy with the right person and interest in the right + thing,--moral training is going on." + +[Sidenote: Influence of individuals.] + +This is Dr. Cabot's strongest point. He believes in the moral influence +of individuals. So do all leading advocates of sex-instruction or of +any other form of moral education. This is in no sense opposed to any +accepted proposition of sex-education. + + (7) "Sanitation may increase immorality.... I do care more for + morality than for sanitation. Where the two conflict I want + morality to lead and to govern." + +[Sidenote: Morals rather than health.] + +Right here is the basis for Dr. Cabot's repeated attacks on the +sex-education movement. He believes that morality and sanitation are +decidedly conflicting. His address fails to support this idea with +regard to a single point concerned with the proposed sex-education. He +mentioned only two points wherein there is apparent conflict, namely, +prophylaxis that allows immorality while avoiding venereal disease, and +prevention of conception. Neither of these is directly involved in the +sex-education movement, and their immoral bearings are highly +debatable. + +[Sidenote: Ethics of venereal antisepsis.] + +Venereal prophylactics may increase promiscuity of some unmoral and +immoral men, but if universally and scientifically used by such men, +there would be little or no infection of innocent women and children. +Therefore, I assert that the good that would come from the use of +prophylactics by those who do not recognize moral control would be far +more significant than the fact that venereal prophylactics might +encourage immorality. Those who would use prophylactics would be no +worse morally than they were before, but society would gain +hygienically. + +[Sidenote: Ethics of contraception.] + +Regarding the morality of prevention of fertilization, the best of +people hold opposing views. A great specialist in tuberculosis who +entered the discussion of Dr. Cabot's paper convinced most of his +hearers that hygienic prevention of fertilization of tubercular women +is a very moral act for a physician to advise. The real question of +morality involved in the problem of contraconception is not whether it +is immoral that sperm-cells should be prevented from swimming on +towards an egg-cell, but whether there is morality in a sexual union +that has its meaning only in affection and is not definitely intended +for propagation. It is obviously a complicated problem of hygiene, +psychology, ethics, æsthetics, religious beliefs, social traditions, +and personal prejudice; and it is absurd to allow it to become +entangled in the general propositions of sex-education. As I have often +said in this series of lectures, the larger sex-education aims at +making the best possible adjustments of sex and life. If the æsthetic +demands of affection are in real conflict with the animal function of +propagation, then a pragmatically ethical solution is found in +intelligent control of the original function. Ideally, the animal +function of propagation should be associated with the possibilities of +affection that have developed in the highest human life; but there are +numerous cases in which there must be dissociation of the functions of +affection and propagation, or the alternative is sexual asceticism. +Which is moral? This is a question concerning which the individual must +weigh his personal views and decide. Only the bigoted victims of +arrogance will see immorality in the one who disagrees with him on this +question. I insist, then, that even if advanced sex-education for +adults should some day come to involve the problem of contraconception, +there will be no conflict between hygienic knowledge and ethics, if the +teaching leads to more perfect adjustment of sex and life. + +[Sidenote: Dr. Neumann's view.] + +Probably the great majority of workers in the sex-education movement do +not in the least agree with Dr. Cabot's attempts to dissociate hygienic +and moral problems. A far more helpful view is that expressed by Dr. +Henry Neumann, leader of the Brooklyn Ethical Culture Society: + + "Problems of hygiene, whether of sex, or nutrition, or temperance + and the like, are no less moral problems. They are problems of + habit; and habits are impossible without strong incentives to + start them and keep them going.... Ethical instruction is often + misunderstood to be barren preaching. It is nothing of the sort. + It consists in clarifying views of life. It begins with the fact + that there are certain tendencies in our nature which may work ill + or good. Then it tries to show to what these lead. It uses what is + best in us to make over what is worst. That is why problems of + sex-hygiene should be regarded as at bottom problems of + sex-morality." + + +§ 47. _The Arrogance of the Advocates of Sex-education_ + +In an article in the _Educational Review_, February, 1914, +Superintendent Maxwell, of New York City, writes concerning what he +calls "the teaching of child hygiene" as follows: + +[Sidenote: Dr. Maxwell's criticisms.] + + "There are those to-day who claim that sexual information and + problems should be thrust upon the attention of boys and girls by + the teachers in the public schools, that this teaching is + necessary for the protection of virtue and the prevention of + disease, and that, if anyone hesitates to encourage the spread of + such literature and the teaching of such knowledge, he is an + arrant and presumptuous blockhead. The arrogance of the extreme + advocates of child hygiene blinds them to certain all-important + truths. The first is that our teachers are not prepared, and, in + too many cases, are not the most suitable persons to teach the + subject. The second is that to bring the adolescent mind face to + face with sexual matters engenders the habit of dwelling upon the + sexual passion, and in that may lie spiritual havoc and physical + ruin. A premature interest in the sexual passion debases the mind + and unsettles the will. The third is that parents have no right to + ask the teacher to do the work that is peculiarly theirs. + + "And yet some good may emerge from this discussion. Parents may be + incited to do their duty in placing sex information before their + children whenever conditions demand such knowledge. And principals + and teachers, particularly principals, whenever they have the + acuteness to detect the tendency to wrong-doing, will no longer + hesitate to utter the word of warning in season. As for the + extravagant claims made for the teaching of sex-hygiene, I have + too much faith in the good sense of the American people to believe + that it will ever be generally and regularly taught in American + schools. Surely, we have learned something since the law compelled + us to teach the untruths regarding the effects of stimulants and + narcotics that were published in the early school manuals of + physiology and hygiene." + +[Sidenote: Reply to Dr. Maxwell.] + +I comment as follows: (1) Dr. Maxwell refers only to the "extreme +advocates." They did exist in abundance a few years ago, but are +already rare in the group of well-known educators. (2) Most teachers +are not prepared and never can be prepared to teach the human aspect of +sex problems, especially the hygienic in the strict sense. (3) +Conservative sex-instruction such as was advocated by the advisers of +the American Federation for Sex-hygiene (see "Report" by Morrow and +others, 1913) aims to guard against "premature interest in the sexual +passion." (4) While I sympathize with Dr. Maxwell's view that teaching +the elementary hygiene of sex is the parent's duty, I am forced to +recognize the futility of advocating that all or even a respectable +minority of parents should undertake their duty (see § 4). The truth is +that most of them will not, and cannot if they will, try to do so. (5) +Dr. Maxwell's idea that sex-hygiene should be taught only when an +astute principal or parent "detects wrong-doing" is, to say the least, +an educational theory that will astonish one who knows even the +elementary facts regarding the secrecy of the sexual life of young +people in general. Will he next be logically consistent and advocate +that all moral education should be given only after children show signs +of wrong-doing? (6) Sex-hygiene, as Dr. Maxwell understands it to be +concerned directly and solely with human sexual problems, will never be +taught in American schools controlled by people of good sense; but +sex-instruction from the larger viewpoint is taught in some of the best +of Dr. Maxwell's high schools. (7) All advocates of sex-instruction who +have a national reputation for educational sanity agree that +legislation is most undesirable. (8) It is obvious that like so many +others who have become confused regarding the sex-education movement, +Dr. Maxwell has been impressed chiefly by the pioneer work that +emphasized only hygienic teaching regarding sex. + + +§ 48. _Lubricity in Education_ + +Ex-President Taft has expressed his views against the sex-education +movement. The newspapers quote as follows from an address delivered in +Philadelphia in 1914: + + "There is another danger in our educational influences and + environment. I refer to the spread of lubricity in literature, on + the stage and indirectly in education, under the plea that vice + may be avoided by teaching the awful consequences. By dwelling on + its details and explaining its penalties, sexual subjects are + obtruded into discussion between the sexes, lectures are delivered + on them, textbooks are written, and former restraints of modesty + are abandoned. + + [Sidenote: Mr. Taft's alarm.] + + "The pursuit of education in sex-hygiene is full of danger if + carried on in general public schools. The sharp, pointed and + summary advice of mothers to daughters, of fathers to sons, of a + medical professor to students in a college upon such a subject is, + of course, wise, but any benefit that may be derived from + frightening students by dwelling upon the details of the dreadful + punishment of vice is too often offset by awakening a curiosity + and interest that might not be developed so early and is likely to + set the thoughts of those whose benefit is at stake in a direction + that will neither elevate their conversations with their fellows + nor make more clean their mental habit. + + "I deny that the so-called prudishness and the avoidance of nasty + subjects in the last generation has ever blinded any substantial + number of girls or boys to the wickedness of vice or made them + easier victims of temptations." + +[Sidenote: Evident misunderstanding.] + +The above requires little comment, for its misunderstandings are +obvious to one who has followed the sex-education movement. Clearly Mr. +Taft has been impressed by the social-hygiene side of the problems and +does not realize the existence of a larger outlook for sex-education. +Like so many other writers who seem to know little concerning the +sexual life of children, especially of boys, Mr. Taft fears "the +awakening of curiosity and interest"! This, of course, depends upon the +facts taught and the age of the learner, but it hardly applies to +children in or near adolescence who are taught along the lines +suggested by the committee of the American Federation for Sex-Hygiene +(1913). The last paragraph quoted from Mr. Taft will be denied +completely by all who are familiar with the problems of adolescent +education. To say the least, it is unfortunate that a man prominent in +law and statesmanship should have lent the weight of his name to such +superficial conclusions that are so obviously based on exceedingly +limited information regarding both the established facts of sex and the +most approved methods of sex-instruction. + + +§ 49. _Conclusions from the Criticisms of Sex-education_ + +I have selected for discussion the criticisms of several of the most +prominent people who have expressed opposition to the sex-education +movement. I think that all the important lines of arguments against the +movement are represented in the extracts that I have quoted. We have +seen that all of the criticisms have decidedly vulnerable points. Most +of them refer to the discarded sex-hygiene of ten years ago; but some +of them prove that the authors are quite ignorant of the sex problems +that must be faced by numerous young people. + +[Sidenote: Criticisms important.] + +With the hope of locating the weaknesses of sex-education, I have for +years examined carefully every criticism published, and it seems to me +thoroughly scientific to conclude that all the important criticisms +have not harmed the essentials of the sex-education movement; but, on +the contrary, have been helpful in forcing reconstruction. In fact, the +present-day conception of the larger sex-education must be credited to +the severe critics more than to the friends of the original narrow +movement for reducing venereal disease by hygienic instruction. + + + + +XI + +THE PAST AND THE FUTURE OF THE SEX-EDUCATION MOVEMENT + + +§ 50. _The American Movement_ + +[Sidenote: Dr. Morrow leader in America.] + +In America the movement for sex-education began with the organization +of the American Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis on February +9, 1905, under the leadership of Dr. Prince A. Morrow. It is true that +before this time there were various local and sporadic attempts at +instruction concerning sexual processes, but such teaching was chiefly +personal and there was no concerted movement looking towards making +sex-instruction an integral part of general education. In 1892, +thirteen years before the organization of the Society of Sanitary and +Moral Prophylaxis, a group of members of the National Education +Association considered briefly the importance of instructing young +people. However, this meeting was of ephemeral significance and had no +genetic relation to the present-day movement. Other early interest in +sex-instruction is indicated in Professor Earl Barnes's bibliography +which was published in his "Studies in Education," Vol. I, p. 301, +1897. + +The educational activities, especially the publications of the American +Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, soon attracted the serious +attention of numerous physicians, ministers, and educators in various +parts of the United States; and about twenty other societies for study +and improvement of the sex problems were organized within a few years +after the original society. + +[Sidenote: Original aim for sanitary ends.] + +The sex-education movement both in Europe and America had its origin as +an attempt to check the spread of the venereal or social diseases. The +idea that education should work for sexual morality for its own sake +and not simply for protection against venereal diseases has only +recently begun to appear in the literature of sex-education, and so far +it seems to have made only a limited impression on many of those who +have been active in the prophylactic campaign against social disease. +In fact, the tardy recognition of the moral aim of sex-education makes +it seem probable that very little interest would have been aroused in +the movement if it had been organized on purely ethical grounds and +without any reference to the sanitary problems of social diseases. To +one who looks at sexual morality as a question of right conduct which +brings its own rewards, it is a shock to find so many thinking people +who accept calmly the traditional views of the relation of the sexes +and seem to take no interest in the immorality of men except as it is +likely to lead to venereal disease or to illegitimacy which demands +forced marriage or monetary payments. The truth is that the civilized +world at large is very far from a working code of sexual morals which +will be practiced because of promised rewards rather than because of +probable punishments. It is natural, then, that the sex-education +movement should have started with a proclamation of physical +punishments for immorality rather than an offer of ethical and +psychical rewards for morality. + +[Sidenote: Both sanitary and moral.] + +However, the fact that sex-education, under the name of "sex-hygiene," +was at first a sanitary propagandism need not interfere with the larger +development of sex-education. It now seems probable that before many +years pass we shall learn how to make a satisfactory combination of +both the sanitary and moral sides of sex-education, and so it is best +that the educational movement started on the foundation of the +undisputed facts of sanitary science which have made a powerful +impression on the people who do and who do not recognize a code of +sexual morals. + +[Sidenote: Medical interest.] + +The deep interest of the medical profession is directly responsible for +the close association between the beginning of the sex-education +movement and the diseases of immorality. At the organization meeting of +the American Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, Dr. Prince +Morrow in the opening paragraph of his address said: "We have met for +the purpose of discussing the wisdom and the expediency of forming a +society of sanitary and moral prophylaxis. The object is to organize a +social defense against a class of diseases which are most injurious to +the highest interests of human society." Thus, the American Society of +Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis started as an avowed enemy of the social +diseases and so it has continued to the present. The very name of its +official journal, _Social Diseases_,[19] indicated the central idea of +the Society. Likewise, most of the local American societies for +sex-hygiene have names including such phrases as "social hygiene," +"prevention of social diseases," "sanitary prophylaxis"; and only one, +the Massachusetts Society for Sex Education, has a name which does not +directly suggest the medical problems of sex. + +[Sidenote: In Europe.] + +In Europe, the sex-instruction movement has been concerned chiefly with +spreading information concerning the social diseases. In 1902 an +international congress for consideration of the venereal diseases was +held in Brussels, and this congress recommended that in all countries +there should be organized sanitary, social, moral, and legal societies +for the prophylaxis of these diseases. As a result of this +recommendation, prophylactic societies were formed in France, Germany, +Italy, Holland, the United States, and other countries. Of these, the +German society for the prevention of venereal disease became the +strongest, with over five thousand members and twenty branch +societies. + +[Sidenote: National societies.] + +The fact that the American Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis +was organized by a group of people in New York City tended from the +beginning to make it a local society. While for several years it took +the lead in sex-hygiene and enrolled members residing in many parts of +the United States, it was never a national organization. In recent +years the word "American" has been omitted from its name, and its work +has been limited to New York City and vicinity.[20] Many independent +state and city societies were organized within a few years after the +original sex-hygiene society in New York. This multiplication of +societies called attention to the need of a national organization, and +in 1910 the various societies were affiliated in the American +Federation for Sex-Hygiene. Dr. Morrow was the leading spirit in the +Federation until his death. In 1913, the Federation and the American +Vigilance Association (a society especially concerned with the social +evil) were united in the American Social Hygiene Association. Its +offices are at 105 West 40th Street, New York City. + + +§ 51. _Important Steps in the Sex-education Movement in America_ + + May 23, 1904. Dr. Prince Morrow's plea for the organization of a + society of sanitary and moral prophylaxis, read before the Medical + Society of the County of New York. + + February 9, 1905. Organization meeting of the American Society of + Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, in New York. + + March, 1906. Pennsylvania Society for the Prevention of Social + Diseases organized. + + October, 1906. Chicago Society of Social Hygiene organized. + + December, 1907. Portland (Ore.) Social Hygiene Society organized. + + October, 1908. Spokane Society of Social and Moral Prophylaxis + organized. + + June, 1910. American Federation for Sex-Hygiene organized. + + 1911. Oregon Social Hygiene Society organized. + + July 20, 1912. Resolution of the National Education Association + favoring training of teachers with the view, ultimately, of + sex-instruction in schools. + + September 23-28, 1912. Meeting of subsection on sex-hygiene, + Fifteenth International Congress on Hygiene and Demography. + Washington, D.C. + + February, 1912. Organization of American Vigilance Association. + + October, 1913. Merging of the American Federation for Sex-Hygiene + and the American Vigilance Association into the new American + Social Hygiene Association. + + 1913. Organization of Pacific Coast Federation for Sex-Hygiene, + changed to Pacific Coast Social Hygiene Association in June, 1914. + + July, 1914. The National Education Association, at Minneapolis, + adopted the following resolutions in line with the latest + principles of the Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis and + the American Social Hygiene Association: + + "The Association, re-affirming its belief in the constructive + value of education in sex-hygiene, directs attention to the + grave dangers, ethical and social, arising out of a sex + consciousness stimulated by undue emphasis upon sex problems + and relations. The situation is so serious as to render + neglect hazardous. The Association urges upon all parents the + obvious duty of parental care and instruction in such matters + and directs attention to the mistake of leaving such problems + exclusively to the school. The Association believes that + sex-hygiene should be approached in the public schools + conservatively under the direction of persons qualified by + scientific training and teaching experience in order to + assure a safe moral point of view. The Association, + therefore, recommends that institutions preparing teachers + give attention to such subjects as would qualify for + instruction in the general field of morals as well as in the + particular field of sex-hygiene." + + +§ 52. _The Future of the Larger Sex-education_ + +[Sidenote: Public has lost interest in sensationalism.] + +I hear many questions as to the probable future of sex-education. I am +asked: "Is it moribund?" "Is it a disappearing fad?" "Has not the high +tide of interest passed?" No doubt such questions are inspired by the +oft-repeated statement that public interest in sexual questions has +waned decidedly in the last few years. This is true, and it is a most +fortunate indication of approaching sanity. The public interest in the +last decade has been most deplorable, because it has centered in the +abnormal and sensational aspects of sex. Authors have vied with each +other in presenting the most lurid cases of social diseases, white +slavery, sexual perversions, and every other available aspect of sexual +degeneracy. Of course, the reading public was bound to grow tired of +this, just as it wearies of a horrible murder trial or of a +sensational divorce case. It is certainly true that there is a marked +decline of general interest in sexual abnormality and sensationalism; +but that does not mean that the sex-education movement is moribund. + +[Sidenote: Sex-education permanent.] + +The wave of sensational revelation has passed; but the intelligent +public is no longer ignorant of the nature and causes of the great +problems of sex, and is well aware that young people need definite +guidance for facing the facts of life. It is unthinkable that +intelligent parents who are now well informed concerning sex will ever +again stand for the old policy of mystery and silence. It is, +therefore, impossible to believe that there is any danger of +sex-education disappearing. Of course, we have not reached a permanent +system of sex-education. There certainly will be vast changes in our +approved subject matter and methods of teaching; but the main idea of +the sex-education movement is gaining support every day. + +[Sidenote: Sex-education fundamental.] + +There is another reason why sex-education will be permanent. In +addition to the great need of educational help with information and +influence which will mold the individual life with regard to the +problems of sex, it must be evident to all that even the legislative, +sanitary, social administrative, religious, ethical, and other attacks +upon the problems depend upon knowledge and attitude, at least of the +leaders. Look at the problems of sex outlined in the earlier lectures +from whatever angle we will, and it appears that, in the final +analysis, education offers the only key to a possible solution. +Therefore, I assert that sex-education--the larger sex-education--is an +absolutely fundamental factor in every phase of the social-hygiene and +sex-ethical movement. + +[Sidenote: Ultimate effect of sex-education.] + +In closing the last lecture of this series, let me state my confession +of faith in sex-education: It is certainly only _one of several_ +possible lines of attack on the alarming sex problems of our time; but +it offers the most hopeful outlook towards improved sexual morals and +health, both physical and psychical. However, we shall gain nothing of +permanent value by extravagant claims or hopes as to the ultimate +effect of sex-education. We must expect incomplete results. It will not +entirely solve the sex problems for all individuals who receive +instruction; but it will solve all of the problems of many individuals +and help many others. It will not eradicate the social evil and its +characteristic diseases, but it will protect many young people and so +reduce the sum total of awful consequences. It will not prevent all +divorces and matrimonial disharmonies, but already the biological +teaching is helping and some day the social-ethical problems will be +understood and then most intelligent men and women will understand the +fundamental principles for permanent and harmonious monogamic marriage. +Finally, sex-education will not enforce universal sexual morality in +conformity with our accepted code, but it will help many individuals +through decisive battles with sex-instincts. + +[Sidenote: Sex-Education and general education.] + +Such are some of the lines along which extreme claims and hopes for +sex-education have been and are still being made. There is some truth +in each; in fact, there is more than enough to justify the present +movement for sex-education. To all those who see nothing in the +movement because it will not solve all the sex problems which have +created a demand for special instruction, we may reply by simply +pointing to the fact that general education makes some better and more +efficient citizens, but many times it fails to give desirable results. +We believe in general education because it aims to offer all +individuals help in preparation for more efficient life, although it +succeeds only in part. Likewise, we should stand for the instruction of +all young people in matters concerning sex because it is certain that +such knowledge will function completely in many lives and will work +appreciable good in many others. + +[Sidenote: A permanent and essential part of education.] + +I cannot believe that sex-education is one of the long line of modern +educational fads which quickly pass their day, for no other phase of +education so closely touches life. History and geography and even a +large part of the "three Rs" may be of little use in the lives of +numerous people, but sex-education deals with problems which the normal +human life cannot possibly avoid and which each individual must be +prepared to solve for himself. Therefore, we may confidently assert +that instruction concerning the most important aspects of sex processes +and relationships will soon be recognized as an absolutely necessary +part of a rational and efficient scheme for the education of young +people. + +[Sidenote: The never-ending problem of good and evil.] + +The larger sex-education is sure to have a permanent place in the +never-ending work of preparing coming generations for the highest +development of life's possibilities. Each succeeding generation of +young people must be prepared by educational processes to face +intelligently and bravely the problems of sex that are sure to come +into every normal life. Of course, sex-education at its best +development can do no more than give the individual a basis for +intelligent choice between good and evil; but here, as in all other +upward movements of human life, the decision must depend upon a clear +and positive recognition of the advantages of the good as contrasted +with the evil. Hence, the one essential task of sex-education in its +broadest outlook is to guide natural human beings to recognition and +choice of the best in the sexual sphere of life. And in so far as each +coming generation of individuals may be thus guided by the larger +sex-education, the problems of sex will be pragmatically solved, for +the social aggregate of human life will become better, happier, nobler, +truer, more in harmony with the highest ideals of life, more like our +vision of perfected humanity. + +FOOTNOTES: + +[19] The name was changed in 1913 to _Journal of the Society of +Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis_. + +[20] While this book was in press, the name was changed to New York +Social Hygiene Society. + + + + +XII + +SOME BOOKS FOR SEX-EDUCATION + + +I have decided to publish only the names of selected books which seem +to me to be the best for teachers, parents, and young people. In making +the selection, I have considered several hundred books which bear on +the sex problems in an educational way, and have decided to reject the +majority of them. While there might be some value in a long list with +critical notes on books that I cannot recommend, it would be a worse +than thankless task to compile such an annotated bibliography; for the +compiler would surely add to his collection of enemies many authors +whose books deserve severe criticism. The sudden and sensational +publicity concerning matters of sex and the possibility of commercial +exploitation has produced an avalanche of sex books, some good, many +bad, and the majority ordinary. Evidently, most of the authors, +including numerous physicians, have written to order and without +special preparation. + +The books of the following lists are not all deserving of unqualified +recommendation. In fact, some of them are included because they are the +least objectionable of their much-needed kind, and others because they +have some good grains that the reader will find worth picking from a +mass of non-nutritious but, fortunately, non-poisonous chaff. + +I have not included many books which I recognize as important for +readers thoroughly trained in science, but which are dangerous for the +average reader of literature on sex. + +It is possible that I may have overlooked some very good books that I +have not intended to ignore; and I shall be glad to have my attention +called to books which deserve recognition. + +Special bibliographies have been published in Wile's "Sex-Education," +March's "Towards Racial Health," Geddes and Thomson's "Sex," and +Foster's "Social Emergency." + +Publishers.--In most cases the first part of the names of well-known +publishers has been given. Unless otherwise mentioned, they have +offices in New York City. In addition, the following abbreviations have +been used: + +A.M.A. = American Medical Association, Chicago. + +A.S.H.A. = American Social Hygiene Association, 105 West 40th St., New +York City. + +S.S.M.P. = Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, 105 West 40th +Street, New York City. + +Association Press = press of the National Board of the Y.M.C.A., New +York City. + + +FOR EDUCATORS AND PARENTS + + ADDAMS, JANE. "A New Conscience and an Ancient Evil." + Macmillan. $1.00. (Contains all the average reader needs to + know concerning prostitution.) + + BOK, EDWARD, Editor. "Books of Self-Knowledge for Young + People and Parents." Revell. $.25 each. + + BIGELOW, M.A. "Relation of Biology to Sex-Instruction in + Schools and Colleges." Journal of Social Diseases, II, 4, + October, 1911. + + CABOT, RICHARD C. "The Christian Approach to Social + Morality." National Y.W.C.A., New York. $.50. + + CABOT, RICHARD C. "What Men Live By." Houghton Mifflin. + $1.50. (A book that has helped many people.) + + CABOT, R.C. "Consecration of the Affections." Proceedings + of Fifth Cong. Amer. School Hygiene Assoc., III, 1911, p. 114. + Also in Amer. Phy. Ed. Rev., XVI, 1911, pp. 247-253. (See + "Criticisms of Sex-Education" in § 46 of this book.) + + COCKS, ORRIN G. "The Social Evil and Methods of + Treatment." Association Press. $.25. + + CREIGHTON, LOUISE. "The Social Disease and How to Fight + It." Longmans. $.35. (A splendid essay on social impurity from a + modern woman's viewpoint. Constructive and optimistic.) + + ELIOT, C.W. "Public Opinion and Sex-Hygiene." A.S.H.A. + $.05. + + ELIOT, C.W. "School Instruction in Sex Hygiene." + Proceedings of Fifth Cong. Amer. School Hygiene Assoc., 1911. + + ELLIS, HAVELOCK. "The Task of Social Hygiene." Houghton. + $2.50. (Certain chapters concern sex-education.) + + GALLOWAY, T.W. "Biology of Sex." Heath. $.75. + + GEDDES, PATRICK, and THOMSON, J. ARTHUR. "Sex." + Holt. $.50. (Excellent.) + + GEDDES and THOMSON. "The Problems of Sex." + Moffat. $.50. + + FOSTER, W.T. "The Social Emergency." Houghton. $1.35. + (Twelve excellent essays by President Foster, Reed College, and + nine others, on social hygiene and education.) + + HALL, G. STANLEY. "Adolescence." Appleton. 2 vols. + $7.50. + + HALL, G.S. "Youth: Its Education, Regimen and Hygiene." + Appleton. $1.50. + + HALL, G.S. "Needs and Methods of Educating Young People + in Hygiene of Sex." Pedagogical Seminary, XV, March, 1908. + + HALL, G.S. "Teaching of Sex in Schools and Colleges." + Journal of Social Diseases, II, 4, October, 1911. + + HALL, WINFIELD S. "Sex Training in the Home." Richardson, + Chicago. $1.10. + + HENDERSON, CHAS. R. "Education with Reference to Sex." + University of Chicago Press. Part I, 78 cts.; II, 80 cts. (Part + I demonstrates need of sex-education; II, the educational + problems.) + + HERTER, C.A. "Biological Aspects of Human Problems." + Macmillan. $1.50. (Sexual instincts, pp. 182-252; sex-education, + 306-316.) + + HIME, MAURICE C. "Schoolboys' Special Immorality." + Churchill, London. $.40. (For masters of boarding schools.) + + HODGE, C.F. "Social Hygiene in Public Schools." School + Science and Mathematics, April, 1911. + + HOWARD, W.L. "Start Your Child Right." Revell. $.75. + (Readable, sensible, helpful to parents.) + + LOWRY, EDITH B. "False Modesty: That Protects Vice by + Ignorance." Forbes. $.50. (Arguments for sex-instruction in home + and school.) + + LOWRY, E.B. "Teaching Sex-Hygiene in the Public Schools." + Forbes. $.50. (Useful for parents and teachers.) + + LYTTLETON, E. "Training the Young in the Laws of Sex." + Longmans, Green. $1.00. (Heartily approved by many educators.) + + MARCH, NORAH H. "Towards Racial Health." Routledge, + London. $1.00. (Very helpful book for parents and teachers.) + + MORLEY, MARGARET W. "Renewal of Life." McClurg. $1.10. + (Nature-study basis for teaching children.) + + MORROW, BALLIET, and BIGELOW. "Report + of Special Committee on Matters and Methods of Sex-Education." + A.S.H.A. $.05. + + MORROW, PRINCE A. "Teaching of Sex-Hygiene." A.S.H.A. + $.03. (A splendid address.) + + MORROW, P.A. "The Boy Problem." S.S.M.P. $.05. (Helpful + to parents.) + + MORROW, P.A. "The Sex Problem." S.S.M.P. $.03. (A fair + statement of the double morality problem.) + + PARKINSON, WILLIAM D. "Sex and Education." Educational + Review, January, 1911. (Stands for ethical and æsthetic teaching + primarily.) + + SCHARLIEB and SIBLY. "Youth and Sex." Dodge. + $.25. + + SELIGMAN, E.R.A. "The Social Evil." Putnam. $1.50. (A + good survey of the evil, based on the work of the Committee of + Fourteen in New York.) + + WILE, IRA S. "Sex Education." Duffield. $1.00. (A very + useful book for parents.) + + WOOD-ALLEN, MARY. "Teaching Truth." Crist Co. $.50. + (Suggestions for mothers' talks to young children.) + + "Social Hygiene." A quarterly journal of the A.S.H.A. $2.00 per + year, free to members. + + +FOR GIRLS + + ADDAMS, JANE. "Spirit of Youth and the City Streets." + Macmillan. $1.25. + + CHAPMAN, ROSE WOODALLEN. "How Shall I Tell My Child?" + Revell. $.25. + + DODGE, GRACE H. "A Bundle of Letters to Busy Girls." + Funk. $.50. + + HALL, JEANNETTE W. "Life's Story." Steadwell, La Crosse, + Wis. $.25. (Biological facts for girls of 10 to 16.) + + HALL, W.S. "Life Problems: A Story for Girls." A.M.A. + $.10. (A good pamphlet for girls of 12 to 18 years.) + + HALL, W.S. "The Doctor's Daughter: Studies about Life." + A.M.A. $.10. (On nature-study basis, for girls under 12 years.) + + HOOD, MARY G. "For Girls and the Mothers of Girls." + Bobbs-Merrill. $1.00. + + HOWARD, W.L. "Confidential Chats with Girls." Clode. + $1.00. + + SMITH, NELLIE M. "The Three Gifts of Life." Dodd, Mead. + $.50. (A girl's responsibility. For girls 15 to 18, who have no + more than grammar-school education. In general, sentimental and + unscientific; but Chapter IV, "Gift of Choice," is excellent.) + + TORELLE, ELLEN. "Plant and Animal Children: How they + Grow." Heath. $1.00. (Useful as a nature-study reader concerning + reproduction of animals and plants.) + + WOOD-ALLEN, MARY. "Almost a Woman." Crist Co. $.50. (A + story for girls of 12 years.) + + WOOD-ALLEN, MARY. "What a Young Girl Should Know." Vir + Co., Philadelphia. $1.00. (For girls under 12 or 14.) + + +FOR BOYS + + HALL, W.S. "John's Vacation." A.M.A. $.10. (On + nature-study basis, for pre-adolescent boys.) + + HALL, W.S. "Chums." A.M.A. $.10. (For adolescent boys.) + + HALL, W.S. "Developing into Manhood." Association Press. + $.25. (Biological basis, for boys of 15 to 18 years.) + + HALL, W.S. "Life's Beginnings." Association Press. $.25. + + HALL, W.S. "Youth." Association Press. $.25. (For boys 10 + to 12.) + + HOWARD, W.L. "Confidential Chats with Boys." Clode. + $1.00. + + JENKS, J.W. "Life Questions of School Boys." Association + Press. $.25. + + JEWETT. "The Next Generation." Ginn. $.75. (Elementary + eugenics.) + + TORELLE, ELLEN. "Plant and Animal Children." (See under + books for girls.) + + TREWBY, ARTHUR. "Healthy Boyhood." Longmans. $.40. + + WOOD-ALLEN, MARY. "Almost a Man." Crist Co. $.50. + (Similar to "Almost a Woman." For pre-adolescent boys.) + + +FOR WOMEN + + DRAKE, E.F.A. "What a Young Wife Ought to Know." Vir + Co., Philadelphia. $1.00. + + GALBRAITH, ANNA. "Four Epochs of a Woman's Life." + Saunders, Philadelphia. $1.50. (Medical in style. Certain + sections relating to heredity are not satisfactory.) + + HALL, W.S. "Sexual Knowledge." Intern. Bible House, + Philadelphia. $1.00. + + KEY, ELLEN. "Morality of Woman and other Essays." + Seymour, Chicago. $1.00. (Ideal morality as a basis for + marriage. Good introduction to author's "Love and Marriage.") + + LOWRY, E.B. "Herself." Forbes. $1.10. (In general, + accurate. Medical style.) + + MARTIN, H.N. "Human Body--Advanced Course." Holt. $2.50. + (Last chapter, on reproduction, excellent.) + + RUMMEL, LUELLA Z. "Womanhood and Its Development." Burton + Co., Kansas City. $1.50. (One of the best books for mature + women. Poorly printed.) + + SCHREINER, OLIVE. "Woman and Labor." Stokes. $1.25. + (Important for the feminist movement.) + + WEST, MRS. MAX. "Prenatal Care." Bulletin of Children's + Bureau, U.S. Dept. of Labor. (A very practical pamphlet.) + + WOOD-ALLEN, MARY. "What a Young Woman Should Know." Vir + Co., Philadelphia. $1.00. (The best-known book, preferred by the + majority of mothers.) + + +FOR MEN + + EXNER, M.J. "Problems and Principles of Sex-Education." + Association Press. $.10. (Study of college men, and an essay on + principles.) + + EXNER, M.J. "The Physician's Answer." Association Press. + $.15. (Summary of opinions of numerous physicians concerning the + problems of young men.) + + EXNER, M.J. "The Rational Sex Life for Men." Association + Press. $.15. (Good, and helpful to many young men.) + + HALL, W.S. "From Youth into Manhood." Association Press. + $.50. (Highly approved and widely used.) + + HALL, W.S. "Instead of Wild Oats." Revell. $.25. (Bok + Series, Biological and Sociological basis.) + + HALL, W.S. "Reproduction and Sexual Hygiene." Wynnewood, + Chicago. $.90. (Very useful book, but criticized by many who + disagree with the hygienic part.) + + HALL, W.S. "Sexual Knowledge." Intern. Bible House. + Philadelphia. $1.00. (Useful for both men and women. Includes + the best of the above book.) + + HOWARD, WILLIAM LEE. "Plain Facts on Sex Hygiene." Clode. + $1.00. (Sensational and exaggerated statements concerning social + diseases; language unnecessarily offensive in places; but + discussion of "continence" is good.) + + HOWELL and KEYES. "The Sexual Necessity." + S.S.M.P. $.03. + + LOWRY, E.B., and LAMBERT, R.J. "Himself: Talks + with Men concerning Themselves." Forbes. $1.00. (Accurate in + facts; not well arranged; not "the best book," as the publishers + claim.) + + LYDSTON, G. FRANK. "Sex Hygiene for the Male." Riverton, + Chicago. $2.25. (Readable, fairly reliable, but not worth the + price.) + + MARTIN, H.N. "Human Body--Advanced Course." Holt. $2.50. + (Last chapter, especially in 1910 edition.) + + MOORE, H.H. "Keeping in Condition." Macmillan. $1.00. (A + physical training book.) + + MORROW, PRINCE A. "Health and Hygiene of Sex." S.S.M.P. + $.05. (The best-known pamphlet for college men.) + + SPEER, ROBERT E. "A Young Man's Questions." Revell. $.80. + + SPERRY, LYMAN B. "Confidential Talks with Young Men." + Revell. $.75. + + STALL, SYLVANUS. "What a Young Husband Ought to Know." + Vir Co., Philadelphia. $1.00. (This and the next are useful to + men who prefer a religious approach to sexual information.) + + STALL, SYLVANUS. "What a Young Man Ought to Know." Vir + Co., Philadelphia. $1.00. + + WILSON, ROBERT N. "American Boy and the Social Evil." + Winston. $1.00. + + +FOR THE MARRIED + + COCKS, ORRIN G. "Engagement and Marriage." Association + Press. $.25. (Talks to young men, but young women should be + interested.) + + COWAN, JOHN. "Science of a New Life." 1869. $3.00. + (Obsolete, unreliable, unscientific; but widely sold by magazine + advertising.) + + DAVIDSON, HUGH S. "Marriage and Motherhood." Dodge. $.25. + + DAVIS, E.P. "Mother and Child." Lippincott. $1.50. + + FOERSTER, F.W. "Marriage and the Sex Problem." Stokes. + $1.35. (An important book.) + + HOLT, L.E. "Care and Feeding of Children." Appleton. + $.75. (The well-known nursery guide by the famous pediatrician.) + + HOWARD, W.L. "Facts for the Married." Clode. $1.00. + (Good, from a physician's standpoint.) + + JORDAN, W.J. "Little Problems of Married Life." Revell. + $1.00. (Essays which touch many problems of home life.) + + KEY, ELLEN. "Love and Marriage." Putnam. $1.50. (The + greatest work of this famous Swedish author.) + + SALEEBY, C.W. "Parenthood and Race Culture." Moffat, + Yard. $2.50. (Popular eugenics.) + + SPERRY, LYMAN B. "Confidential Talks with Husband and + Wife." Revell. $1.00. + + WOOD-ALLEN, MARY. "Ideal Married Life." Revell. $1.25. + (Best book by this well-known physician and author.) + + +HEREDITY AND EUGENICS + + CASTLE, W.E. "Heredity in Relation to Evolution and + Animal Breeding." Appleton. $1.50. + + CONKLIN, F.G. "Heredity and Environment in the + Development of Men." Princeton University Press. $2.00. + + DAVENPORT, C.B. "Heredity in Relation to Eugenics." Holt. + $2.00. + + DAWSON, G.E. "Right of the Child to be Well Born." Funk. + $.75. + + DONCASTER, L. "Heredity in the Light of Recent Research." + Putnam. $.40. + + GEDDES, P., and THOMSON, J.A. "Evolution." Holt. + $.50. + + GUYER, M.F. "Being Well Born." Bobbs-Merrill. $1.00. + + KELLICOTT, W.E. "The Social Direction of Human + Evolution." Appleton. $1.50. + + PUNNETT, R.C. "Mendelism." Macmillan. $.50. + + SALEEBY, C.W. "Parenthood and Race Culture." Moffat, + Yard. $2.50. + + THOMSON, J.A. "Heredity." Putnam. $3.50. + + WALTER, H.E. "Genetics." Macmillan. $1.50. + + + + +INDEX + + +Abnormality, in literature, 129 ff. + +Adolescence, and sex-instruction, 146 ff. + +Adults, and special sex-instruction, 26. + +Æsthetics of sex, 4, 74, 197. + +Affection, 163; + "consecration of," 210; + in marriage, 189. + +Aims, of sex-education, 92, 94; + of sex-education societies, 228. + +Animals, and human sexuality, 72. + +Arguments, for sex-instruction, 28 ff. + +Asceticism, 69. + +Athletics, and sex, 141. + +Attitude, towards sex, 26, 67 ff.; + and morals, 75. + + +Bibliography, 238 ff. + +Biology, 56, 65; + and ethics, 102 ff.; + and sex-instruction, 147; + moral value, 217. + +Books, as teachers, 121 ff., 241 ff.; + _see also_ literature. + +Boys, influence on, 158; + special instruction, 148-250. + + +Cabot, R.C., 63, 210 ff. + +Childhood, 25. + +Children, ignorant of sex, 204. + +Circumcision, 139. + +Coeducation, in sex-instruction, 109; + and sex adjustment, 80. + +Continence, 160 ff., 176 ff.; + of women, 190 ff. + +Contraception, and ethics, 219. + +Control, of sex instincts, 18. + +Criticisms, of sex-education, 203 ff.; + conclusions regarding, 226. + +Curiosity, denied by Repplier and Taft, _q.v._ + + +Dancing, 169 ff., 200. + +Diseases, social or venereal, 37 ff. + +Dress, of women, 174 ff., 200. + + +Education, as a solution, 19, 88; + coeducation, 80; + sex-differentiated, 82. + +Eliot, C.W., 71. + +Emissions, 149. + +Ethics, and biology, 102; + and sex-hygiene, 61 ff; + of sex, 4. + +Eugenics, 86 ff.; + aim of, 105; + and ethics, 103. + +Europe, and sex problems, 59 ff.; + morality in, 59; + sex-hygiene in, 230. + +Evolution, and vulgarity, 75. + + +Fiction, and sex tragedies, 127. + +Foerster, 70. + +Frankness, 206. + +Friendships, of children, 136. + +Fulton, J.S., 40. + +Future, of sex-education, 234-237. + + +Genetics, 87. + +Girls, special instruction, 151; + unprotected, 191. + +Gonorrhea, _see_ Diseases. + +Good, and evil, 215. + + +Hamilton, Cosmo, 208. + +Hartley, C. Gasquoine, 82 ff. + +Heredity, 87; + and sex-education, 104. + +History, of sex-education, 227 ff. + +Homes, and sex-instruction, 21. + +Hunger, two kinds, 73. + +Hygiene, and ethics, 210 ff.; + of sex, 1-4, 25. + + +Ideals, of manhood, 185; + of womanhood, 157; + of love and marriage, 159, 187. + +Ignorance, 45, 50, 54; + of children, 12-14. + +Illegitimacy, 52 ff., 59. + +Immorality, 38; + danger in teaching, 67. + +Instincts, sexual, 16-18. + +Intellectualism, and sex, 83. + + +Kallikak family, 103. + +Key, Ellen, 64, 79. + +Knowledge, and will, 217. + + +Lectures, on sex-hygiene, 100. + +Legislation, and social diseases, 47. + +Literature, general list, 241 ff.; + for parents, 33; + on marriage, 79; + on diseases, 39; + on sex, 11; + on social evil, 52; + general and sex, 124 ff.; + general references, 238 ff.; + for young men, 161, 183; + for young women, 201; + radical sex, 193. + + +Marriage, 159, 187; + a sex problem, 71 ff. + +Masturbation, 137 ff. + +Maxwell, W.H., 221. + +Men, as leaders in love, 188; + instruction for, 156 ff. + +Misunderstanding, of sex, 5. + +Monogamy, 59. + +Morality, 58 ff.; + double standard, 42. + +Morrow, P.A., 37, 70; + leader, 227. + +Mothercraft, 155. + +Mothers, and boys, 111; + first teachers, 111. + +Mystery, and sex, 15. + + +Names, of sex organs, 148 ff. + +National Education Association, resolution on sex-instruction, 232. + +Nature-study, 133. + +Need, of sex-instruction, 11, 19. + +Neumann, H., 221. + + +Oliphant, James, 159. + +Optimism, sex, 196. + +Organization, of sex-education, 96 ff. + + +Parents, and daughters, 184, 190; + coöperation of, 23; + responsibility, 14; + attitude, 30. + +Parkinson, W.D., 41. + +Passion, 58. + +Pessimism, sex, 72, 84, 196. + +Poetry, 124 ff. + +Pre-adolescence, 25, 133 ff. + +Problems of sex, 28 ff., 92, 95. + +Promiscuity, 38. + +Propagandism, needed, 28 ff. + +Prophylactics, venereal, 219. + +Prostitution, 48 ff., 164; + protective knowledge for women, 199. + + +Reading, concerning perversion and vice, 51. + +Refinement, of men, 167. + +Religion, approach to sex-instruction, 209. + +Repplier, Agnes, 203. + +Reproduction, and sex, 5. + +Responsibility, indirect of women, 195; + individual, 18; + of parents, 30. + + +Sanitation, and morals, 229; + _see also_ hygiene and ethics. + +Self-abuse, 137 ff. + +Self-control, 70, 173, 176-182; + of women, 190 ff. + +Sensationalism, 233. + +Sex-education, definition, 1; + larger view of, 27; + need of, 11; + problems of, 28 ff.; + relations, 4. + +Sex-hygiene, 1-5; + adequacy, 43; + personal, 35 ff.; + social, 3; + and eugenics, 86; + and ethics, 114, 212 ff.; + personal, 98 ff. + +Sex-instruction, in schools, 20, 23; + in homes, 21; + in high schools, 24; + many-sided, 89. + +Sex, meaning of the word, 6-10. + +Social diseases, 166; + essential knowledge to be taught, 107. + +Social evil, 4, 48 ff. + +Social hygiene, 3; + and ethics, 101. + +Societies, for sex problems, 231, 232. + +Society for Prophylaxis, 62. + +Super-morality, 64 ff. + +Syphilis, _see_ Diseases. + + +Taft, W.H., 224. + +Task, of sex-education, 90. + +Teachers, of sex facts, 108; + for classes, 113; + married women, 110; + same sex as pupils, 109; + undesirable, 115. + +Teaching, morals, 216 ff.; + personal, 205, 214. + +Tennyson, and sex lessons, 125. + + +Vulgarity, 67 ff. + + +Women, and diseases, 45; + instruction for, 184 ff. + + +Printed in the United States of America. + + + + +The following pages contain advertisements of a few of the Macmillan +publications on Education + + +MODERN PEDAGOGY + + + Aspinwall Outlines of the History of Education $ .80 + + Bagley Classroom Management. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Sex-education + A series of lectures concerning knowledge of sex in its + relation to human life + +Author: Maurice Alpheus Bigelow + +Release Date: February 22, 2010 [EBook #31352] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK SEX-EDUCATION *** + + + + +Produced by Jeannie Howse, Bryan Ness and the Online +Distributed Proofreading Team at https://www.pgdp.net (This +file was produced from images generously made available +by The Internet Archive/American Libraries.) + + + + + + +</pre> + + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> + +<div class="tr"> +<p class="cen" style="font-weight: bold;">Transcriber's Note:</p> +<br /> +<p class="noin">Inconsistent hyphenation in the original document has been preserved.</p> +<p class="noin" style="text-align: left;">Obvious typographical errors have been corrected. +For a complete list, please see the <span style="white-space: nowrap;"><a href="#TN">end of this document</a>.</span></p> +<p class="noin">Click on the image to see a larger version.</p> +</div> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<hr /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> + +<h2>SEX-EDUCATION</h2> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<hr /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> + +<p class="cen">THE MACMILLAN COMPANY<br /> +<br /> +NEW YORK · BOSTON · CHICAGO · DALLAS<br /> +ATLANTA · SAN FRANCISCO<br /> +<br /> +MACMILLAN & CO., <span class="sc">Limited</span><br /> +LONDON · BOMBAY · CALCUTTA<br /> +MELBOURNE<br /> +<br /> +THE MACMILLAN CO. OF CANADA, <span class="sc">Ltd.</span><br /> +TORONTO</p> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<hr /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> + +<div class="img"> +<a href="images/frontis.jpg"> +<img border="0" src="images/frontis.jpg" width="35%" alt="Prince A. Morrow" /></a><br /> +<p class="right" style="margin-top: .2em; margin-bottom: .2em; margin-right: 20%"><i>Courtesy of Dr. A.S. Morrow.</i></p> +<p class="cen" style="margin-top: .2em; margin-bottom: .2em;">PRINCE A. MORROW</p> +<p style="margin-left: 20%; margin-right: 20%; margin-top: .2em;">Chief organizer of the American movement for sex-education. Physician, +educator, author, social reformer. Born in Kentucky, December 19, 1864. +Died in New York City, March 17, 1913.</p> +</div> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<hr /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> + +<h1>SEX-EDUCATION</h1> + +<h3>A SERIES OF LECTURES CONCERNING<br /> +KNOWLEDGE OF SEX IN ITS RELATION<br /> +TO HUMAN LIFE</h3> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> + +<h3>BY</h3> + +<h2>MAURICE A. BIGELOW</h2> + +<h5>PROFESSOR OF BIOLOGY AND DIRECTOR OF THE SCHOOL<br /> +OF PRACTICAL ARTS, TEACHERS COLLEGE<br /> +COLUMBIA UNIVERSITY</h5> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> + +<h5>New York<br /> +THE MACMILLAN COMPANY<br /> +1916</h5> + +<h5><i>All rights reserved</i></h5> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<hr /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> + +<h4 class="sc">Copyright, 1916,<br /> +<br /> +By THE MACMILLAN COMPANY.</h4> + +<br /> + +<h4>Set up and electrotyped. Published June, 1916.</h4> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> + +<h4>Norwood Press<br /> +J.S. Cushing Co.—Berwick & Smith Co.<br /> +Norwood, Mass., U.S.A.</h4> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<hr /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> + +<h4>To<br /> +THE MEMORY OF</h4> + +<h3>DR. PRINCE A. MORROW</h3> + +<h4>WHOSE GREAT FAITH IN THE ESSENTIAL GOODNESS OF HUMAN<br /> +NATURE LED HIM TO BELIEVE THAT THE PROBLEMS OF<br /> +SEX HAVE ARISEN FROM IGNORANCE AND<br /> +THAT EDUCATION IS THE KEY TO<br /> +THEIR SOLUTION</h4> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<hr /> +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_vii" id="Page_vii">[vii]</a></span><br /> + +<h3>PREFATORY NOTE</h3> +<br /> + +<p>Many of the lectures printed in this volume have formed the basis of a +series given at Teachers College, Columbia University, during the +summer sessions of 1914 and 1915, and during the academic year +1914-1915. Others were addressed to parents, to groups of men, to +women's clubs, and to conferences on sex-education. In order to avoid +extensive repetition, there has been some combination and rearrangement +of lectures that originally were addressed to groups of people with +widely different outlooks on the sexual problems.</p> + +<p>Several years ago the late Dr. Prince A. Morrow announced that a volume +dealing with many of the timely topics of sex-education was to be +prepared by the undersigned with the advice and criticism of a +committee of the American Federation for Sex-Hygiene; but even before +Dr. Morrow's death it became evident that this plan was impracticable. +Three members (Morrow, Balliet, Bigelow) of the original committee +collaborated in a report presented at the XV International Congress on +Hygiene and Demography. Since that time the writer, working +independently, has found it desirable to reorganize completely the +original outline announced by Dr. Morrow.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_viii" id="Page_viii">[viii]</a></span>In accordance with a declaration made voluntarily in a conversation +with Dr. Morrow, the author considers himself pledged to devote all +royalties from this book to the movement for sex-education.</p> + +<p>Among the many persons to whom is due acknowledgment of helpfulness in +the preparation of this book, the author is especially indebted for +suggestions to the late Dr. Prince A. Morrow, to Dr. William F. Snow, +Secretary of the American Social Hygiene Association, and to Dr. Edward +L. Keyes, Jr., President of the Society of Sanitary and Moral +Prophylaxis; for constructive criticism, to his colleagues, Professor +Jean Broadhurst and Miss Caroline E. Stackpole, of Teachers College, +who have read carefully both the original lectures and the completed +manuscript; and to Olive Crosby Whitin (Mrs. Frederick H. Whitin), +executive secretary of the Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, +who has suggested and criticized helpfully both as a reader of the +manuscript and as an auditor of many of the lectures delivered at +Teachers College.</p> + +<p class="right">M.A.B.</p> + +<p class="noin" style="margin-left: 5%;"><span class="sc">Teachers College</span>,<br /> +<span class="sc">Columbia University</span>,<br /> +December 28, 1915.</p> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<a name="toc" id="toc"></a><hr /> +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_ix" id="Page_ix">[ix]</a></span><br /> + +<h3>SUMMARY OF CONTENTS</h3> +<br /> + +<div class="centered"> +<table border="0" cellpadding="2" cellspacing="0" width="60%" summary="Table of Contents"> + <tr> + <td class="tdr" width="10%" style="font-size: 80%;"> </td> + <td class="tdl" width="75%"> </td> + <td class="tdr" width="15%" style="font-size: 80%;">PAGE</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl" colspan="2">I. <a href="#I">The Meaning, Need, and Scope of Sex-education</a></td> + <td class="tdr">1</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + <td class="tdl hang">§ 1. Sex-education and its relation to sex-hygiene and + social hygiene. § 2. The misunderstanding of sex. § 3. The + need of sex-instruction. § 4. The scope of sex-education.</td> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl" colspan="2">II. <a href="#II">The Problems for Sex-education</a></td> + <td class="tdr">28</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + <td class="tdl hang">§ 5. Sex problems and the need of special knowledge. § 6. + First problem: Personal sex-hygiene. § 7. Second problem: + Social diseases. § 8. Third problem: Social evil. § 9. + Fourth problem: Illegitimacy. § 10. Fifth problem: Sexual + morality. § 11. Sixth problem: Sexual vulgarity. § 12. + Seventh problem: Marriage. § 13. Eighth Problem: Eugenics. + § 14. Summary.</td> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl" colspan="2">III. <a href="#III">Organization of Educational Attack On the Sex problems</a></td> + <td class="tdr">90</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + <td class="tdl hang">§ 15. The task of sex-education. § 16. The aims of + sex-education. § 17. The aims as the basis of organized + sex-instruction.</td> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl" colspan="2">IV. <a href="#IV">The Teacher of Sex-knowledge</a></td> + <td class="tdr">108</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + <td class="tdl hang">§ 18. Who should give sex-instruction? § 19. The child's + first teachers of sex-knowledge. § 20. Selecting teachers +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_x" id="Page_x">[x]</a></span> for class instruction. § 21. Certain undesirable teachers + for special hygienic and ethical instruction.</td> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl" colspan="2">V. <a href="#V">Books as Teachers Concerning Sex and Life</a></td> + <td class="tdr"> 121</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + <td class="tdl hang">§ 22. Value and danger of special sex-books for young + people. § 23. General literature and sex problems. § 24. + Dangers in literature on sexual abnormality.</td> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl" colspan="2">VI. <a href="#VI">Sex-instruction for Pre-adolescent Years</a></td> + <td class="tdr">133</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + <td class="tdl hang">§ 25. Elementary instruction and influence. § 26. Hygienic + and educational treatment of unhealthful habits.</td> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl" colspan="2">VII. <a href="#VII">Sex-instruction for Early Adolescent Years</a></td> + <td class="tdr">146</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + <td class="tdl hang">§ 27. The biological foundations. § 28. Scientific facts + for boys. § 29. Scientific facts for girls.</td> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl" colspan="2">VIII. <a href="#VIII">Special Sex-instruction for Adolescent Boys and Young Men</a></td> + <td class="tdr">156</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + <td class="tdl hang">§ 30. Developing attitude towards womanhood. § 31. + Developing ideals of love and marriage. § 32. Reasons for + pre-marital continence. § 33. Essential knowledge + concerning prostitution. § 34. Need of refinement of men. + § 35. Dancing as a sex problem for men. § 36. Dress of women + as a sex problem for men. § 37. The problem of self-control + for young men. § 38. The mental side of a young man's + sexual life.</td> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl" colspan="2">IX. <a href="#IX">Special Instruction for Maturing Young Women</a></td> + <td class="tdr">184<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_xi" id="Page_xi">[xi]</a></span></td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + <td class="tdl hang">§ 39. The young woman's attitude towards manhood. § 40. The + young woman's attitude towards love and marriage. § 41. + Reasons for pre-marital continence of young women. § 42. + Need of optimistic and æsthetic views of sex by women. + § 43. Other problems for young women.</td> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl" colspan="2">X. <a href="#X">Criticisms of Sex-education</a></td> + <td class="tdr">203</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + <td class="tdl hang">§ 44. A plea for reticence—Agnes Repplier. § 45. A plea + for religious approach—Cosmo Hamilton. § 46. The conflict + between sex-hygiene and sex-ethics—Richard Cabot § 47. The + arrogance of the advocates of sex-education—William H. + Maxwell. § 48. Lubricity in education—W.H. Taft. § 49. + Conclusions from the criticisms of sex-education.</td> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl" colspan="2">XI. <a href="#XI">The Past and the Future of the Sex-education Movement</a></td> + <td class="tdr">227</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + <td class="tdl hang">§ 50. The American movement. § 51. Important steps. § 52. + The future of the larger sex-education.</td> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl" colspan="2">XII. <a href="#XII">Some Books for Sex-education</a></td> + <td class="tdr">238</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdr"> </td> + <td class="tdl"><a href="#INDEX">Index</a></td> + <td class="tdr">249</td> + </tr> +</table> +</div> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<a name="I" id="I"></a><hr /> +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_1" id="Page_1">[1]</a></span><br /> + +<h2>I</h2> + +<h3 class="sc">The Meaning, Need, and Scope of Sex-education<span class="totoc"><a href="#toc">ToC</a></span></h3> +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 1. <i>Sex-education and Its Relation to Sex-hygiene and Social Hygiene</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Definition of sex-education.</div> + +<p>Sex-education in its largest sense includes all scientific, ethical, +social, and religious instruction and influence which directly and +indirectly may help young people prepare to solve for themselves the +problems of sex that inevitably come in some form into the life of +every normal human individual. Note the carefully guarded phrase "help +young people prepare to solve for themselves the problems of sex", for, +like education in general, special sex-education cannot possibly do +more than help the individual prepare to face the problems of life.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">More than sex-hygiene.</div> + +<p>Now, sex-education as thus defined is more extensive than sex-hygiene, +which term was originally applied to instruction concerning sex. +Sex-hygiene obviously refers to health as influenced by sexual +processes, and as such it is a convenient subdivision of the science of +health. It would be quite satisfactory as a name for popular +instruction concerning sex if that were strictly, or <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_2" id="Page_2">[2]</a></span>even primarily, +hygienic; but in a later lecture it will be shown that the most +desirable sex-instruction is only in a minor part a problem of hygiene. +I realize that this statement may be declared heretical by many of the +present-day advocates of sex-hygiene, because they have approached this +latest educational movement from the standpoint of physical health, and +especially because their attention has been drawn to the very common +occurrence of pathological conditions. Nevertheless, the sexual +problems of our times do not all affect physical health, which hygiene +aims to conserve; and the sex-educational movement will be quite +inadequate without great stress upon certain ethical, social, and other +aspects of sex. Young people need instruction that relates not only to +health but also to attitude and to morals as these three are influenced +by sexual instincts and relationships. This idea will be developed +later, but I anticipate here simply to suggest the point of view of the +statement that "sex-hygiene" is altogether too limited as a general +designation for the desirable instruction concerning sex. The continued +use of the term "sex-hygiene," now that the scope of the desirable +sex-instruction has been extended far beyond the accepted limits of the +science of health, is tending to cause confusion. The educational +problems will be more definite and the support of the intelligent +public more assured if we limit the use of "sex-hygiene" to the +specific problems of health as affected by sexual processes and cease +trying to make it include those <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_3" id="Page_3">[3]</a></span>phases of sex-instruction which have +nothing directly to do with health.</p> + +<p>Two general terms, "sex-instruction" and "sex-education," are available +as all-inclusive designations of the desirable instruction concerning +any aspects of sex. They are quite free from the above objections to +"sex-hygiene," and it is highly desirable that they should be used in +all educational discussions where there is no specific reference to the +problems of health. Sex-hygiene will be used in these lectures only +when there is some direct reference to health as influenced by the +sexual functions.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Social hygiene.</div> + +<p>Social hygiene in its complete sense means the great general movement +for the improvement of the conditions of life in all lines in which +there is social ill health or need of social reform; but it is often +limited to the sexual aspect of the unfortunate and unfavorable +conditions of life, and it has been proposed to adopt the term "social +hygiene" as a substitute that avoids the word "sex" in sex-hygiene. For +this reason it has been incorporated into the names of several +societies that are interested in sex-hygiene (<i>e.g.</i>, the American +Social Hygiene Association). Probably the relation of sex-hygiene to +the so-called "social evil" has suggested the use of social hygiene in +its most limited sense. It will be unfortunate if this usage becomes so +prominent that we think of the health problems of society as chiefly +sexual, for the larger outlook of Ellis's "Task of Social Hygiene" <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_4" id="Page_4">[4]</a></span>is +desirable. Likewise, the phrase "social evil" in the sense of sexual +evil misleadingly suggests that the only evil of society is the sexual +one, but this evasive designation is being supplanted by the more +definite and franker word "prostitution."</p> + +<p>It should be noted that "social hygiene" as a substitute for +"sex-hygiene" is narrower in that it does not include the personal +problems of health as affected by sexual processes. This is a serious +omission, for certainly all sex-hygiene taught before the later +adolescent years should be personal and not social.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Phases of sex-education.</div> + +<p>The relation of sex-hygiene or social hygiene as a limited phase of +sex-education is shown by the following outline:</p> + +<br /> + +<div class="centered"> +<table border="0" cellpadding="2" cellspacing="0" width="60%" summary="Table of Contents"> + <tr> + <td class="tdl" width="33%" rowspan="6" style="vertical-align: middle; padding-left: 1em; padding-right: 1em;">In the broadest outlook, sex-education (or sex-instruction) includes:</td> + <td class="tdl bl" width="1%" style="border-top: solid 1pt black;"> </td> + <td class="tdl brpl" width="33%">sex-hygiene (personal, social)</td> + <td class="tdl blpl" width="33%">for sexual health</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl bl"> </td> + <td class="tdl brpl">biology (including physiology) of reproduction</td> + <td class="tdl blpl">for attitude regarding sex, and for important scientific facts</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl bl"> </td> + <td class="tdl brpl">heredity and eugenics</td> + <td class="tdl blpl">for sexual conduct leading to race improvement</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl bl"> </td> + <td class="tdl brpl">ethics and sociology of sex</td> + <td class="tdl blpl">for sexual conduct</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl bl"> </td> + <td class="tdl brpl">psychology of sex</td> + <td class="tdl blpl">for sexual health and conduct</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl bl" style="border-bottom: solid 1pt black;"> </td> + <td class="tdl brpl">æsthetics of sex</td> + <td class="tdl blpl">for attitude</td> + </tr> +</table> +</div> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex and reproduction.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_5" id="Page_5">[5]</a></span>Since the original purpose of sex was perpetuation of plant and animal +species, and since in the study of biology the idea of sex is +illustrated and developed by examination of the reproductive processes +in various types, it has been customary for many writers on +sex-education to use the terms "sex" and "reproduction" as if they were +synonymous. This is no longer so in human life; for while reproduction +is a sexual process, sexual activities and influences are often quite +unrelated to reproduction. In fact, most of the big problems that have +made sex-education desirable, if not necessary, are problems of sex +apart from reproduction. It therefore seems clear that, while studies +of reproduction are prominent in sex-education, they should be regarded +as introductory to the problems of sex, especially for young people.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 2. <i>The Misunderstanding of Sex</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Objection to word "sex."</div> + +<p>Some educators have expressed the wish that some one might suggest a +satisfactory substitute for the terms "sex-hygiene" and +"sex-education," omitting the word "sex." This word and its companion +"sexual" are objectionable because they are associated in the minds of +most people with vulgar interpretation of the physical aspects of the +beginning of individual life, and much of the opposition to the +proposed sex-instruction in home and schools is evidently based on the +feeling that the very word "sex" involves something inherently vulgar.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Definite words necessary.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_6" id="Page_6">[6]</a></span>It is probable that many decades will pass before the majority of +intelligent people cease to feel that the words "sex" and "sexual" have +had such vulgar associations that they should be kept out of our +everyday vocabulary, but I can see no hope of developing an improved +attitude towards the sexual aspect of human life if we continue to +admit that we are afraid of the necessary words. It seems to me that in +one decade there has been a great advance in that the scientific +writers and speakers on problems of sex have been using words which +definitely and directly express the desired meanings, and have avoided +the suggestive circumlocutions which characterize many modern realistic +novels. One who does not already appreciate the serious impressiveness +of cold scientific language in discussion of sexual problems should +take one of the indecently suggestive paragraphs from stories in the +most notoriously vulgar of the fifteen-cent magazines, and translate +the meaning of the paragraph into direct and definite words. The result +will be complete loss of the stealthy suggestiveness which has made +concealed sexuality so dangerously attractive to the type of mind that +revels in the modern sex-problem novels. We want no such suggestive +concealment in a scheme of sex-education, for it aims at a purer and +higher understanding of sex in human life. We must have direct and +definite and dignified scientific language, and among the necessary +words none are as essential as "sex" and "sexual." We must <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_7" id="Page_7">[7]</a></span>use them +freely if attitude towards sex is to be improved; and their dignified +and scientific usage will gradually dispel the embarrassment which many +unfortunate people now experience when these words remind them that the +perpetuation of life in all its higher forms has been intrusted to the +coöperation of two kinds, or sexes, of individuals.</p> + +<p>Thus viewing the objections which have been raised against the use of +the word "sex" in the educational movement, I have shifted my first +stand with the opposition until now I favor the frank and dignified use +of this and similar words on appropriate occasions. I believe that +those interested in the search for solutions of the vital problems of +sex should quietly but systematically work to include the words "sex" +and "sexual" in the dignified and scientific vocabulary needed by all +people to express the newer and nobler interpretations of the +relationships between men and women.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">No "sex" studies.</div> + +<p>Of course, this does not mean that sex, either as a word or as a fact +of nature, should be over-emphasized with people who are too young to +appreciate the fundamental facts of life. As already suggested, it is +not desirable that any parts of the curricula for schools should be +known to the pupils as "sex" studies; but we need such terms as +"sex-hygiene" and "sex-instruction" to indicate to teachers and parents +that certain parts of the education of the children are being directed +towards a healthy, natural and wholesome relation to sex.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">"Sex" and "love."</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_8" id="Page_8">[8]</a></span>It is absurd to suppose that the free, dignified, and scientific use of +the word "sex" is going to make people more sensual, more uncontrolled, +and more immoral. There is much more reason for fearing the free use of +the word "love," which has both psychical and physical meanings so +confused that often only the context of sentences enables one to +determine which meaning is intended. In fact, many writers and speakers +seek to avoid all possible misunderstanding by using the word +"affection" for psychical love. Now, in spite of such confusion, and +the fact that to many people the word "love" in connection with sex +suggests only gross sensuality, we continue to use it freely and it is +one of the first words taught to children. Why then do we not hear +protests against using the word "love"? Simply because we have been +from childhood accustomed to the word, first in its psychical sense, +and it is only later that most of us have learned that it has a sensual +meaning to some people. In short, familiarity with the word "love" in +its psychical sense has bred in us a contempt for those who mistake the +physical basis of love for love in its combined physical and psychical +completeness.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Meaning of sex.</div> + +<p>To many it is surprising to find that the word "sex" has never been +used in such degraded connections as has the word "love," and that it +has not been half so much misunderstood. There is no obvious vulgarity +in the lexicographer's definitions of the word "sex." It <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_9" id="Page_9">[9]</a></span>simply means, +as the science of biology points out so clearly, that the perpetuation +of human life, and of most other species of life, has been intrusted to +pairs of individuals which are of the two kinds commonly called the +sexes, male and female. Why nature determined that each new life in the +vast majority of species should develop from two other lives has long +been a biological puzzle, and most satisfactory of the answers given is +that bi-parental origin of new individuals allows for new combinations +of heritable qualities from two lines of descent. However, such a +biological explanation of the relation of the two sexes to double +parentage is of relatively little practical significance in present-day +human life when compared with the fact that out of the necessity for +life's perpetuation by two coöperating individuals there has grown +psychical or spiritual love with all its splendid possibilities that +are evident in ideal family life. Moreover, the influence of sex in +human life has extended far beyond the family (that is, that group of +individuals who stand related to one another as husband, wife, parents, +and children), for it is a careless observer indeed who does not note +in our daily life many social and psychical relationships of men and +women who have no mutual interests relating to the biological processes +of race perpetuation. Of course, the psychologist recognizes that far +back of the platonic contact of the sexes on social and intellectual +lines is the suppressed and primal instinct that provides physical +unions for race perpetuation. However, <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_10" id="Page_10">[10]</a></span>this is of no practical +interest, for, as a matter of fact, the primal instincts are quite +subconscious in the usual social relations between the sexes.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">The larger view of sex.</div> + +<p>There is grandeur in this view of sex as originally a provision for +perpetuation of life by two coöperating individuals, later becoming the +basis of conjugal affection of the two individuals for each other and +of their parental affection for their offspring, and finally leading to +social and intellectual comradeship of men and women meeting on terms +which are practically free from the original and biological meaning of +sex.</p> + +<p>Instead, then, of trying to keep sex, both word and fact, in the +background of the new educational movement, I believe it is best to +work definitely for a better understanding of the part which sex plays +in human life, as outlined in the preceding paragraph. Hence, in these +lectures I shall never go aside in order to avoid either the word or +the idea of sex; on the contrary, I shall attempt to direct the +discussion so as to emphasize the larger and very modern view of the +relationship of sex and human life.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">The many-sided bearings of sex.</div> + +<p>In this first lecture I want to make it clear that the rôle of sex in +human life is vastly greater than that directly involved in sexual +activity. I shall in several lectures touch the big problems from the +standpoint of the sexual instincts as these play an important part in +social, psychical, and æsthetic life even if they are rarely exercised, +physiologically, or if, as in millions of individuals, they never come +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_11" id="Page_11">[11]</a></span>to mean more than possibilities of sexual activity for which +opportunities in marriage do not come. I am especially anxious to avoid +the narrow viewpoint of numerous writers on sex-hygiene who seem to +overlook the fact that sexual functioning is only a prominent incident +in the cycle of sexual influences in the lives of most people. Human +life, and especially marriage, should no longer be regarded from the +mere biological point of view as for the sole purpose of reproductive +activity. It is a far more uplifting view that the conscious or +unconscious existence of the sexual instincts, with or without +occasional activity, affords the fundamental physical basis for states +of mind that may profoundly affect the whole course of life in every +normal man and woman.</p> + +<p>Supplementary to this section on the "Misunderstanding of Sex," I +suggest the reading of Chapters I-VI of "Sex" by Geddes and Thomson, +the "Problems of Sex" by the same authors, and Chapter VI in "The +Wonder of Life" by Thomson.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 3. <i>The Need of Sex-Instruction</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">The old silence and the new enlightenment.</div> + +<p>The time-honored policy has been one of silence and mystery concerning +all things sexual. Everything in that line has long been considered +impure and degraded and, therefore, the less said and the less known, +the better, especially for young people. Such has been the almost +universal attitude of parents until within the present century, when +many <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_12" id="Page_12">[12]</a></span>have awakened to the fact that the policy of silence has been a +gigantic failure, because it has not preserved purity and innocence and +because it has allowed grave evils, both hygienic and moral, to develop +under the cloak of secrecy.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Children will not remain ignorant.</div> + +<p>"I don't believe in teaching my boys and girls any facts concerning +sex. I prefer to keep them innocent until they have grown up." In these +decisive words a prominent woman closed a statement of her firm +conviction that the world-wide movement for the sex-instruction of +young people is a stupendous mistake. Poor deluded mother! How does she +expect to keep her children ignorant of the world of life around them? +Is she planning to transplant them to a deserted island where they may +grow up innocently? Or is she going to keep the children in some +cloister within whose walls there will be immunity from the +contamination of the great busy world outside? Or is she going to have +them guarded like crown princes, and if so, where are absolutely safe +guards to be found? Such are the questions which rush into the minds of +those who have studied the problem of keeping children ignorant of the +most significant facts of life. It is usually an easy matter to protect +children against smallpox and typhoid and some other diseases, but no +parent or educator has yet found out how we may be sure to keep real +live children ignorant of sex knowledge. They seem to absorb such +forbidden facts as naturally and as freely as the air <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_13" id="Page_13">[13]</a></span>they breathe. +Ask any large group of representative men—ministers, or doctors, or +teachers, or men of business, or the world's toilers—whether any of +them knew the essential facts of sexual life before they were twelve +years of age, and ninety-seven in every hundred will answer quickly in +the affirmative. Ask any large group of women, excepting those whose +girlhood has been guarded with exceptional care, and the overwhelming +majority will acknowledge that they knew the essential facts before +they were fifteen years old. Once more, ask these same men and women +whether their early knowledge of sex came from pure and reliable +sources or from vulgar playmates and depraved servants; and with rare +exceptions it is found that vulgarity made the strongest impression in +the first lessons concerning the great facts of life. Such being the +truth, it is nonsense for parents to sit in complacency because they +feel sure that their children are safely protected against any vulgar +first lessons concerning sex; for no one can know that children are +safely guarded from others who may corrupt their innocent minds. As an +illustration, a few years ago the mothers of a group of little girls in +one of the best-managed private schools felt that with careful +supervision both in school and home there was no danger of forbidden +knowledge reaching the children. But one day a new pupil innocently +exhibited to her mother a miniature notebook with unprintable notes on +sexual topics. The resulting investigation revealed a secret club +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_14" id="Page_14">[14]</a></span>organized by the pupils for the purpose of passing to each member +through notebooks all newly acquired information, which had a peculiar +value because it must be kept secret from teachers and parents. That +club had been in existence during two school years. This is only a +sample case of many which have proved that if children are allowed the +freedom that developing individuality demands, their mothers must not +feel too sure that their darlings are protected against knowledge of +life, and perhaps of life in its most degraded aspects.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">The vital question for parents.</div> + +<p>Here, then, is the fact that every parent should ponder seriously: +Normal children are almost certain to get sexual information not later +than the early adolescent years, and usually from unreliable and vulgar +sources. It is, therefore, not a question whether children of school +ages should be taught the important facts of sex, but whether parents +and trained teachers rather than playmates and other unreliable persons +should be the instructors. Which will parents choose for their own +children? Thousands of intelligent parents have already faced this +question, and have decided that their children shall have early +sex-instruction in home or school or both in order that there will be +little danger of vulgar impressions taking a deep hold on child minds.</p> + +<p>Granted, then, that children should be given some reliable instruction +concerning things sexual, who should be the teacher, what should be +taught, and when should the instruction be given? These <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_15" id="Page_15">[15]</a></span>are the +fundamental questions now being considered by the parents and educators +who have accepted sex-education as necessary. Upon the final answers to +such questions the decision of many parents will depend. I shall +attempt to answer them in later lectures.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex mystery has prevented progress.</div> + +<p>The policy of maintaining mystery and secrecy concerning sex has failed +with adults even more sadly than with children. Health and morals have +suffered incalculable injury. The sexual evils of our time are not as +bad as were those of the ancient civilizations, but we have little +reason to be proud of the slight progress made. But why should we +expect the human to make progress when sexual problems have been kept +in darkness? The wonder is that, with the prevailing dark outlook on +sexual life throughout the past nineteen centuries, the world has not +developed more sexual vice. Innate animalistic appetites have tended to +lead downward, and surely the policy of silence has offered no +counteracting influence towards higher living. While religion and +ethics, by means of certain rules of conduct, have maintained certain +sexual standards, they have not kept vast numbers of humans from +falling far below those standards into utter degradation. The modern +teachers of religion and ethics have prevented general sexual +degradation, but they have failed to give human sexuality any decided +uplift. The reason for this failure is the policy of mystery and +silence. The teachers of religion and ethics have preferred to <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_16" id="Page_16">[16]</a></span>let +general and more or less abstruse rules govern conduct in sexual lines. +Until recent years there have been few sermons in which common sexual +problems have been presented so that the preacher's meaning has been +clear to all. On the contrary, there has been universal mystery and +evasion concerning the greatest facts of life.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sexual instincts offer no guidance.</div> + +<p>Many people have justified the mystery thrown around sexual processes +on the theory that the reproductive instincts of mature people are +sufficient guides for conduct. This involves a misunderstanding of +sexual instincts of the higher mammals which are often unscientifically +cited as models for human imitation. In these animals sexual union is +instinctively determined, because normally the sexual hunger or +excitement of both sexes is stimulated and controlled by the +physiological condition of the female at the times favorable for +fertilization (<i>i.e.</i>, at the œstrual periods). For example, a pair +of dogs living in close companionship show signs of mutual sexual +desires only for a few days at the semi-annual œstrual or fertile +periods of the female. It occasionally happens that the males of +various wild and domesticated mammals exhibit signs of automatic sexual +excitement (<i>i.e.</i>, not caused by the stimulus arising from the +physiological condition of the female); but in such cases of male +excitement outside of the mating or œstrual periods, the normal +females invariably offer instinctive opposition to attempted union by +abnormally or automatically <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_17" id="Page_17">[17]</a></span>excited males. Thus, directly and +indirectly, there is instinctive control and limitation of sexual union +among the animals that are most closely related to the human race.</p> + +<p>It is biologically possible that similar conditions may have existed in +the earliest human life, but that is pure speculation and has no +bearing on the practical problems of sex in human life to-day. The fact +is that the simple physiological stimuli which produce sexual +excitement in both sexes of animals have practically no influence in +determining human sexual union. On the contrary, memory associations +consciously connected with the opposite sex, especially those +associations that are centered in affection, may at any time in the +normal individual of either human sex afford the basis for a chain of +mental states leading to sexual excitement and union. There is not, as +in the animals, instinctive dependence on the physiological conditions +that are favorable for fertilization. In fact, spontaneous +physiological demands play in civilized human life a minor part in +initiating sexual excitement. The reason why some humans seem to have +unusual sexual intensity is not so much a matter of exceptionally +strong sexuality as of susceptibility to the numerous sexual stimuli +with which modern life abounds. For this reason, a man who has formed +lewd memory associations is more susceptible to sexual stimulations, +<i>e.g.</i>, by obscene pictures, vulgar words, unusual dress or actions of +women, close physical association as <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_18" id="Page_18">[18]</a></span>in dancing, and certain forms of +music. It is not at all uncommon that individuals who are +hyper-sensitive to sexually suggestive stimuli are really functionally +weak.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Intelligent control only.</div> + +<p>It follows from the facts outlined above that instinctive control of +sexual actions applies to animals but not to human life. On the +contrary, human control must be on the basis of intelligent choice. +This means the greatest task of human life, for it requires voluntary +control of instinctive demands which are intensified by numerous +stimuli or temptations that are exclusively human. No wonder that +natural sex hunger left uncontrolled leads human beings to excesses and +degradation that no species of animals with their guiding instincts +could possibly reach.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Individual responsibility.</div> + +<p>The absence from human life of any instinctive control of sexual +actions leaves a great responsibility on each individual whose natural +desires lead impulsively and insistently towards sexual union and must +be restrained, controlled, and directed by voluntary choice. In short, +all individuals who are intelligent beings are personally responsible +for voluntary control of their sexual desires with reference to the +ethical, social, and eugenic interests and rights of all other +individuals now and in the future.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sexual knowledge necessary.</div> + +<p>With such an understanding of instincts in relation to human sexual +actions, we cannot wonder that the old policy of mystery has failed so +completely. Since human beings are left to control <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_19" id="Page_19">[19]</a></span>the most powerful +appetite by intelligence, it is evident that a policy based on silence, +ignorance, and mystery must fail. The only safe and sure road to the +needed control of sexual actions is to be found in knowledge, and the +widespread recognition of this fact has led to the new movement for +general enlightenment regarding sexual processes in their various +relations to human life.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Education as a solution of sex problems.</div> + +<p>It is not surprising that we have turned to seek an educational +solution for the problems of sex. Education has become the modern +panacea for many of our ills—hygienic, industrial, political, and +social. We have found people losing health for various reasons and we +have proposed hygienic instruction as a prophylactic. We have analyzed +many problems of the industries, and now we are beginning to seek their +solution in industrial education. We have noted that numerous social +and political misunderstandings check progress of individuals and +nations, and we are coming to think the pathway upwards is to be found +in better knowledge of social and political science. And, in like +manner, in every phase of this modern life of ours we are looking to +knowledge as the key to all significant problems. It is truly the age +of education, not simply the education offered in schools and colleges, +but education in the larger sense, including the learning of useful +knowledge from all sources whatsoever.</p> + +<p>With such unbounded confidence in the <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_20" id="Page_20">[20]</a></span>all-sufficiency of education, it +is most natural that we should turn to it in these times when we have +come to realize the existence of amazing sexual problems caused either +by ignorant misuse, or by deliberate abuse, of the sexual functions +which biologically are intrusted with the perpetuation of human life +and which psychologically are the source of human affection in its +supreme forms. If education is to solve the civic, hygienic, and +industrial problems of to-day and to-morrow, why should it not also +help with the age-old sexual evils? So reasoning, we have naturally +turned to education as one, but not the only, method of attack on the +sexual problems which have degraded and devitalized human life of all +past times, but which somehow have kept out of the limelight of +publicity until our own times.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 4. <i>The Scope of Sex-education</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex-education is not primarily for schools.</div> + +<p>It is well to make clear in this first lecture that no one proposes to +limit sex-instruction to schools and colleges. We may safely leave +mathematics and writing and even reading to schools, but sex-education +will fail unless the schools can get the coöperation of the homes, the +churches, the Y.M.C.A., the Y.W.C.A., the W.C.T.U., the Boy Scouts, the +Camp Fire Girls, and other organizations which aim to reach young +people socially, religiously, and ethically. The part which these have +already taken in the sex-education movement is in the aggregate far +more important than what the schools <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_21" id="Page_21">[21]</a></span>have been able to accomplish. +Sex-education, then, should be understood as including all serious +instruction—no matter where or when or by whom given—which aims to +help young people face the problems that normal sexual processes bring +to every life.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex-instruction impossible in most homes.</div> + +<p>In a later lecture I shall urge the importance of beginning +sex-instruction in the home. There are some parents who wish that it +were possible not only to begin but also to end it there, for they fear +that public instruction will lead to a weakening of a certain sense of +reserve and privacy that has long been considered sacred to the best +family life. Perhaps this has some truth, but we must remember that +only in rare homes are there such ideal relationships of parents to +each other and to their offspring that matters of sex are sacred to the +family circle. The fact which parents and educators must face is that +there are now relatively few homes in which there is one parent able to +begin the elementary instruction of young children; and, therefore, as +a practical matter for the best interests of the vast majority of young +people, we must consider ways and means for instruction outside of most +homes. This need not interfere in the least with the parents who are +able and willing to give sex-instruction to the children, for the home +instruction will naturally anticipate that which the schools must give +for the pupils who are not properly instructed at home. It seems to me +to be a <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_22" id="Page_22">[22]</a></span>situation like that of children learning to read at home and +later continuing reading at school. Sex-instruction begun at home will +form the child's attitude and give him some elementary information, and +later he may profitably learn more in the same lines in the class work +of school, especially in connection with science instruction for which +few homes have facilities. Moreover, it is quite possible that one +instructed at home in childhood may gain from later school instruction +something of great social value, for we must remember that the problems +of sex which most demand attention are not individual, but social. +Hence, it may be worth while for the home-instructed individual to +learn through class instruction that people outside the home look +seriously upon knowledge concerning sexual processes, and that every +individual's life must be adjusted to other lives, that is, to society.</p> + +<p>Summarizing, it appears that however desirable home instruction +regarding sex may be, the majority of parents are not able and willing +to undertake the work, and so the public educational system and +organizations for social and religious work should provide a scheme of +instruction which will make sure that all young people will have an +opportunity to get the most helpful information for the guidance of +their lives.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Caution in school instruction.</div> + +<p>In order to gain the serious attention of those who believe themselves +unalterably opposed to school instruction regarding things sexual, I +anticipate a later discussion and mention in this <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_23" id="Page_23">[23]</a></span>connection that +there must be great caution in all attempts at school teaching that +directly touches human sexual life. It would be a dangerous experiment +to introduce sex-instruction into all schools by sudden legislation. +There must be specially trained teachers of selected personality and +tact. No existing high school has enough such teachers, and in the +grammar schools where the pupils are at the age when proper instruction +would influence them most, the problem of general class instruction is +absolutely unsolved. Only here and there in schools below the high +school has a teacher or principal of rare quality made satisfactory +experimental teaching. So uncertain are we at present regarding how we +should approach the problem of teaching grammar-school children that +the only safe advice for general use is that teachers, or preferably +principals, should begin with parents' conferences led by one who is a +conservative expert on sex-instruction. Were I principal of a school +with pupils from, say, two hundred and fifty homes, I should begin at +once to organize conferences designed to awaken the parents to the need +of sex-instruction for their children, and to the importance of making +at least a beginning in the homes. <span class="midnote">Parents' <span style="white-space: nowrap;">co-operation.</span></span>I should expect, according to the +experience of others, that of the five hundred parents, two hundred +mothers and fifty fathers would take an interest in the conferences, +and that at least one hundred fathers too busy for meetings would +approve heartily <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_24" id="Page_24">[24]</a></span>after hearing reports from their wives. Thus, I +should try to reach the majority of homes represented in my school. I +should be in no hurry to introduce class instruction—I mean +instruction related directly to human life; but, of course, I should +encourage my teachers to emphasize the life-histories of animals and +plants in the nature-study, and so lay in the pupils' minds a firm +foundation for later connection between human life and all life. At the +same time, I should keep my teachers on the lookout for individual +pupils or groups that might need special attention and, if such be +found, I should seek the coöperation of their parents. And finally, +after a year or two of co-working with parents, I should hope to get +permission for special talks based on nature-study and hygiene. These +talks should first be given to limited groups of pupils, preferably in +the presence of some parents who are interested and who have given +their children some home instruction. Working along such conservative +lines, I believe a tactful principal of a grammar school might succeed +in developing much of the needed instruction for pre-adolescent pupils.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Instruction in high schools.</div> + +<p>With regard to high-school pupils, we should remember that nine-tenths +of the desirable information is already included in the biology of our +best high schools. The remaining tenth is that which connects all life +with human life; and this requires tact and exceptional skill. However, +the high schools no longer <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_25" id="Page_25">[25]</a></span>offer an insoluble problem, for many +teachers have succeeded in giving the desirable instruction to the +satisfaction of critical principals and parents.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex-education from early childhood to maturity.</div> + +<p>There is a widespread impression that sex-instruction should begin with +the approach of adolescence and soon be completed. This idea is often +expressed by parents and even by prominent educators who say that the +father or teacher ought "to take the boy of thirteen aside and tell him +some things he ought to know." Still others have the same point of view +when they advocate that a physician should be called for a lecture to +high-school boys. In fact, most people who have not seriously studied +the problems of sex-education seem to believe that one concentrated +dose of sex-instruction in adolescent years is sufficient guidance for +young people.</p> + +<p>Such limited personal instruction might suffice if sex-education were +limited to sex-hygiene. A few hygienic commands in pre-adolescent years +and one impressive talk in early puberty might teach the boy or girl +how not to interfere with health; but it is improbable that such brief +instruction will make a permanent impression which will insure hygienic +practice of the precepts laid down. If we hold that sex-hygiene is +important, then it must be drilled into the learner from several points +of view. An isolated lesson on any topic of general hygiene is of very +doubtful efficiency.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Brief instruction does not fix attitude.</div> + +<p>The most important reason why sex-instruction should not be +concentrated in a short period of <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_26" id="Page_26">[26]</a></span>youth is that it is impossible to +exert the most desirable influence upon health, attitude, and morals +except by instruction beginning in early childhood and graded for each +period of life up to maturity. Most young people who in early +adolescence receive their first lessons from parents and teachers have +already had their attitude formed by their playmates. Even their morals +may become corrupted and their health irreparably injured several years +before puberty. The only sure pathway to health, attitude, and morals +is in beginning with young children and instructing them as gradually +as the problems of sex come forward.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex-instruction after youth.</div> + +<p>The greatest possible good of sex-education will not be secured if it +stops with early adolescent years. There are many problems of sex in +relation to society, particularly in relation to monogamic marriage, +that young people should be led to consider in the late teens and early +twenties. Our sex-education system will not be completely organized +until we find ways and means for carrying the instruction by lectures, +conferences, and books beyond the years commonly occupied by +public-school education. Colleges and other higher educational +institutions may contribute somewhat to this advanced sex-instruction; +but obviously the great majority of maturing young people cannot be +reached personally except by instruction arranged in churches, the +Y.M.C.A., and the Y.W.C.A., evening schools, and other <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_27" id="Page_27">[27]</a></span>such +institutions. In many respects this proposed instruction for maturing +young people is of very great importance and deserves encouragement +such as has not yet been given by those who have written and lectured +in favor of a movement for sex-education of young people.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">The larger sex-education.</div> + +<p>In conclusion of this introductory lecture, let me say that I have +tried to suggest in a general survey that sex-education in its largest +outlook touches great problems of life in very many ways. I have also +tried to convince that it is far more than merely a school subject, +limited entirely to a curriculum extended over a few years. This is the +common misunderstanding arising from the familiar use of the word +"education." As opposed to this narrow conception, I understand +sex-education, the larger sex-education, to be a collective term +designating all organized effort, both in and out of schools, toward +instructing and influencing young people with regard to the problems of +sex. Here we have returned to the central thought of the definition +with which this lecture opened, and which I emphasize because it is the +foundation of all future lectures: The larger sex-education includes +all scientific, ethical, social, and religious instruction and +influence which in any way may help young people prepare to meet the +problems of life in relation to sex.</p> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<a name="II" id="II"></a><hr /> +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_28" id="Page_28">[28]</a></span><br /> + +<h2>II</h2> + +<h3 class="sc">The Problems for Sex-education<span class="totoc"><a href="#toc">ToC</a></span></h3> +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 5. <i>Sex Problems and the Need of Special Knowledge</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Arguments for sex-education.</div> + +<p>In these lectures I shall discuss the great sex problems towards the +solution of which knowledge conveyed by special education may help. +These problems offer reasons or arguments in favor of sex-education, +and I shall attempt to present them from this point of view. I shall at +the same time point out in preliminary outline how organized +instruction may apply more or less directly to the sex problems that +seem to show the need of educational attack, but in later lectures the +organization of instruction will be considered more specifically.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Propagandism needed.</div> + +<p>In reviewing the literature that during the past decade has advocated +sex-education, it has seemed to me that there is left little +possibility of any decidedly new and important contribution to the +arguments favoring such instruction, for the whole case has been +splendidly presented by eminent writers in the fields of medicine, +biology, sociology, and ethics. It now appears that the great majority +of educators, scientists, and intelligent citizens in general have +accepted the <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_29" id="Page_29">[29]</a></span>arguments for sex-instruction, so far as they have been +informed concerning the meaning and need of the movement; and this +leads me to the belief that in the future we need not new arguments but +frequent restatements of the established facts which indicate the +importance of widespread knowledge regarding the function that is +inseparably connected with the perpetuation of life. In short, we now +need a propagandism for extending the sex-education movement among the +masses of people.</p> + +<p>For those who have already accepted sex-education, a survey of the +facts that created a demand for sex-instruction will give a clearer +outlook on the movement. The rapid increase of interest in +sex-education has been the result of widespread dissemination of +convincing facts concerning some common disharmonies that grow out of +the sexual problems of the human race. These facts which have led to +sex-education should be kept in mind by all who wish to understand or +to play a part in the instruction of young people.</p> + +<p>It is quite unnecessary, and still more undesirable, to recite at +length in these lectures the social, medical, and psycho-pathological +facts concerning abnormal or perverted sexual processes. Fortunately, +the educational ends may be gained by a general review that points out +the bearings of the main lines of the sexual problems, the +misunderstandings and mistakes that education may help prevent and +correct.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Parents should know reasons for sex-instruction.</div> + +<p>It is important that the general public, especially the parents, should +understand the reasons which <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_30" id="Page_30">[30]</a></span>have induced numerous physicians, +ministers, and educators to become active advocates of systematic +sex-instruction for young people. Although the movement has made +extensive progress in the ten years of propagandic work, is probably +true that the majority of even intelligent parents are not yet +convinced that their children need sex-instruction. This is due largely +to the fact that the parents have not yet been shown the reasons why it +is now, and always has been, unsafe to allow children to gain more or +less sexual information from unreliable and vulgar sources. In fact, it +is surprising to find many parents, especially mothers, who seem unable +to grasp the idea that their "protected" children can possibly get +impure information.</p> + +<p>There are other parents who know that their children are almost sure to +get vulgar information regarding sexual matters, and that some young +people are likely to make sexual mistakes; but they calmly look upon +such things as part of the established order of the world.</p> + +<p>Still another type of parents who should know the reasons for +sex-instruction are those who accept the traditional idea that their +daughters must be kept "protected" and "innocent" while their sons are +free to sow a large field of "wild oats," concerning which society in +general, and such parents in particular, will care little as long as +social diseases, bastardy suits, or chronic alcoholism do not result +from the dissipations. These are the fathers and <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_31" id="Page_31">[31]</a></span>mothers who need the +most enlightenment concerning the importance of such sex-instruction as +will make clear the far-reaching consequences of "wild oat sowing." +Perhaps most such parents are ignorant, but some are simply +thoughtless. As an illustration of the latter, the editor of a +well-known magazine was recently talking with a prominent author and +made some reference to the immoral habits of young men. Their +conversation was essentially as follows: The author remarked, "I assume +that my boys will be boys and will have their fling before they settle +down and marry." The editor quickly replied, "Yes, and I presume that +you expect your boys to sow their wild oats with my daughters, and that +in return you will expect my sons to dissipate with your daughters. At +any rate, you have damnable designs on somebody's daughters." This put +on the wild-oat proposition a light which was apparently new to the +literary man, for he replied, "That is a phase of the young man's +problem which never occurred to me. It does sound startling when stated +in that personal way."</p> + +<p>All these classes of parents who have not yet learned the facts which +point to ignorance as the cause of the abundant sexual errors of young +people and those who do not understand that sexual promiscuity or +immorality is an error of gravest significance both to the individual +and to society, should have set before them time and again some of the +startling facts which in the first five years of the American +sex-education movement were <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_32" id="Page_32">[32]</a></span>promulgated among physicians, ministers, +and educators. All such ignorant or indifferent parents will not take +an interest in the proposed sex-instruction unless they are convinced +by frank and forcible statements regarding the great need of special +safeguarding of young people.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Special associations needed.</div> + +<p>Since there are so many people who still need the most elementary +knowledge concerning the sexual problems that demand educational +attack, it is important that there should be local associations which +can manage lectures, publications, conferences, and other means of +informing the public as to the gravity of the sexual problems of our +times, and as to the part which sex-instruction may play in the attempt +at finding a solution. Such work is now being done splendidly by the +societies named in § 51. The magnitude of the problem of reaching the +public is such that there is abundant work for numerous branches of +such societies or for local groups willing to take a part in the needed +work. As suggested elsewhere, the success of the movement for +sex-instruction of children of school ages will depend largely upon the +attitude and coöperation of parents; and hence it is important that +parents should be led to understand the reasons or arguments for +sex-instruction. In other words, they should know the problems that +indicate the importance of enlightening the rising generation +concerning the great facts of sex and life.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Books for parents.</div> + +<p>Among the numerous publications that seem to me adapted for convincing +parents that their <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_33" id="Page_33">[33]</a></span>children need instruction, I commonly mention the +following: Lowry's "False Modesty" and "Teaching Sex Hygiene," Howard's +"Start your Child Right," Wile's "Sex Education," Galloway's "Biology +of Sex," March's "Towards Racial Health," Lyttleton's "Training of the +Young in Laws of Sex," and pamphlets by Dr. Prince Morrow. See also +pages 241-243.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Knowledge needed concerning eight sex problems.</div> + +<p>There are eight important sex problems of our times that offer reasons +or arguments for sex-instruction, because ignorance plays a large part +in each problem. I shall state them briefly here and discuss each in +succeeding lectures: (1) Many people, especially in youth, need +hygienic knowledge concerning sexual processes as they affect personal +health. (2) There is an alarming amount of the dangerous social +diseases which are distributed chiefly by the sexual promiscuity or +immorality of many men. (3) The uncontrolled sexual passions of men +have led to enormous development of organized and commercialized +prostitution. (4) There are living to-day tens of thousands of +unmarried mothers and illegitimate children, the result of the common +sexual irresponsibility of men and the ignorance of women. (5) There is +need of more general following of a definite moral standard regarding +sexual relationships. (6) There is a prevailing unwholesome attitude of +mind concerning all sexual processes. (7) There is very general +misunderstanding of sexual life as related to healthy <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_34" id="Page_34">[34]</a></span>and happy +marriage. (8) There is need of eugenic responsibility for sexual +actions that concern future generations.</p> + +<p>Here are the eight sexual problems of our times. Any one of them has +significance great enough to demand the attention of educators and +social reformers. One and all they point to the need of better +understanding regarding the sexual functions and their relation to +life. I shall now turn to outline the main facts concerning each of +these sexual problems so far as it seems likely that they will concern +educators and social workers. For convenience I shall use the following +brief headings: (1) Personal sex-hygiene, (2) social diseases, (3) +social evil, (4) illegitimacy, (5) sexual morality, (6) sexual +vulgarity, (7) sexual problems and marriage, (8) eugenics.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Historical order.</div> + +<p>These sexual problems toward whose solution special instruction of +young people may help are stated here in the order in which they have +attracted attention as reasons for sex-education. Thus, for instance, +personal sex-hygiene was the chief reason recognized twenty years ago; +social diseases began to attract public attention ten years ago; +commercial prostitution has been especially prominent in the +discussions of the past five years; and only recently has there been +emphasis on sex-education with reference to eugenics.</p> + +<p>The historical order which I follow in this lecture is not now the +order of greatest importance. For <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_35" id="Page_35">[35]</a></span>example, sexual morality (5) and +vulgarity (6) are probably of far greater significance than any of the +other sexual problems that offer arguments for sex-education.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Not all sex problems concern youth.</div> + +<p>To avoid possible misunderstanding, let me repeat from the first +lecture the proposition that sex-education should extend in home and +school from childhood to maturity. It follows that these lectures +concerning the problems of sex that seriously affect the human race are +not all applicable as arguments for instruction in schools or for +children of school age. Some of the problems of sex point to the need +of special instruction in pre-adolescent or in adolescent years, but +some of them concern directly only those who are approaching maturity.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 6. <i>First Problem for Sex-instruction: Personal Sex-hygiene</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Personal and social hygiene.</div> + +<p>It is convenient to group under personal sex-hygiene all hygienic +knowledge concerning sexual processes in their personal as +distinguished from their social aspects. The distinction between these +two aspects of sex-hygiene is essentially on the same basis as that +between personal and public hygiene. For example, indigestion and +overwork are matters of personal hygiene, while tuberculosis and +typhoid are problems of public hygiene because the individual case +leads through infection to disease of others. Similarly, such +individual disorders as masturbation and <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_36" id="Page_36">[36]</a></span>deranged menstruation concern +personal health directly, while venereal diseases are clearly included +in social sex-hygiene.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Personal sex-hygiene needed.</div> + +<p>If there were no other reasons for sex-instruction, I believe that it +would be worth while to teach such hygienic knowledge of self and sex +as would guard young people against harmful habits and unhealthful care +of their sexual mechanisms; and which, moreover, would guide them +across the threshold of adolescence with some helpful understanding of +the significance of the metamorphosis. Many men and women suffer from +injured, if not ruined, health because they did not know, especially +between ten and fourteen years, the laws of personal sex-hygiene, which +concern health in ways not involving sexual relationship. Many boys and +some girls are injured both physically and mentally by the habit of +masturbation. Numerous girls are injured physically and many mentally +because they have not learned in advance the nature and hygiene of +menstruation. Many boys are injured both in mind and character because +they have no scientific guidance which helps them understand themselves +during the stormy transition from youth into manhood. Moreover, there +are certain simple hygienic commands that children under twelve should +receive from parents and teachers. In all these lines the bearings of +personal hygienic instruction are so obvious that we need not at this +time stop to consider in more detail this first reason or problem for +sex-instruction of young people.</p> + +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_37" id="Page_37">[37]</a></span><br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 7. <i>Second Problem for Sex-instruction: Social Diseases</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Recent publicity regarding vice and disease.</div> + +<p>During the past decade the general public has received some astounding +revelations concerning the enormous extent of illicit sexual +promiscuity, which is immorality according to our commonly accepted +code of morals. Along with the evidence as to the existence of +widespread promiscuity, has come the still more alarming information +from the medical profession that sexual promiscuity commonly +distributes the germs of the two highly infectious and exceedingly +destructive diseases, syphilis and gonorrhea, known in medical science +as venereal or social. When these are acquired by individuals guilty of +sexual promiscuity, they seriously and often fatally affect the victim; +but of far greater social-hygienic importance is the medical evidence +that they are very often transmitted to persons innocent of any +transgression of the moral law, especially to wives and children.</p> + +<p>The medical revelations concerning the relation of sexual immorality to +the plague of social diseases, has come from certain eminent +physicians, notably the late Dr. Prince A. Morrow. His translation of +Fournier's "Syphilis and Marriage" (1881), his own "Social Diseases and +Marriage" (1904), and several of his pamphlets published by the +American Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, have been +authoritative statements of conditions as the medical world sees them.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Social diseases and immorality.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_38" id="Page_38">[38]</a></span>The extent of social diseases is a fairly accurate measure of the +minimum amount of immorality, for nothing is better established in +medical science than that promiscuity in sexual relations is directly +or indirectly responsible for spread of the microörganisms which cause +the diseases. If for several generations all men and women limited +their sexual relations to monogamic marriage, and the relatively rare +cases of non-sexual and prenatal infection were treated so as to render +them non-contagious, the social diseases would probably disappear from +the human family. Such a statement is significant only in showing the +relation of social diseases to sexual promiscuity, for of course, there +is no reasonable hope that the venereal germs will ever be annihilated +by universal monogamy.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Attack by education and sanitation.</div> + +<p>Reduction of the amount of venereal disease must depend upon (1) +hygienic and moral education which will lead people to avoid the +sources of infection and (2) sanitary and medical science which works +either by applying antiseptic or other prophylactic methods for +preventing development of the causative microörganisms, or by using +germicides for destroying those germs which have already produced +disease. Thus the educational and the sanitary attack on the social +diseases lie parallel. Both are needed, for, even with all the possible +methods of attack, the progress against these diseases will be +exceedingly slow.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_39" id="Page_39">[39]</a></span>Those who are interested in the facts relating to social diseases which +point to the need of sex-education as one method of prevention, are +referred to the pamphlets published by the American Society of Sanitary +and Moral Prophylaxis; Morrow's "Social Diseases and Marriage"; +Creighton's "The Social Disease and How to Fight It"; Dock's "Hygiene +and Morality"; Henderson's "Education with Reference to Sex"; and +certain chapters in Warbasse's "Medical Sociology."</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Estimated amount of disease.</div> + +<p>With regard to the accuracy of the commonly quoted statements +concerning the prevalence of social disease, and therefore of +immorality, it must be said in all fairness that there has been much +guesswork and some deliberate exaggeration. We learn from various books +and lectures that fifty, sixty-five, seventy-five and even ninety per +cent of the men in the United States over eighteen years of age are at +some time infected with at least one of the social diseases. The fact +is that there is no scientific way of getting accurate statistics, for +unlike other contagious diseases, the venereal ones are kept more or +less secret, and numerous cases cannot be discovered by health +officers. All the published figures regarding the prevalence of such +diseases are merely estimates based upon the experience of certain +physicians with special groups of men, especially in hospitals. There +is no reliable scientific evidence as to the prevalence of venereal +disease in the whole mass of our American population.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Education not concerned with percentages.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_40" id="Page_40">[40]</a></span>However, so far as education is concerned, there is nothing to be +gained by dispute as to the possible inaccuracy of the higher +percentages,<a name="FNanchor_1_1" id="FNanchor_1_1"></a><a href="#Footnote_1_1" class="fnanchor">[1]</a> for it is generally admitted that probably over fifty +per cent of the men in America and Europe become infected with +gonorrhea or syphilis, or both, one or more times during their lives, +especially in early manhood. This conservative estimate is sufficient +to show that the sexual morals of probably the majority of men are at +some time in their lives loose. There is reason to believe that with +most such men the period of moral laxity is in early manhood before +marriage, which, though not excusable, is explainable on physiological +grounds. It is important to correct the wrong impression which is now +widespread, especially among women who have read the more or less +sensational statements in certain books and magazines, that the quoted +figures on social disease mean that from fifty to ninety per cent of +all men are immoral from time to time for many years. If that were +true, the situation represented by the highest estimates would be +hopeless, and we might as well start out to adjust society to a system +of recognized sexual promiscuity. Fortunately, it is far from true, for +a great many men included in <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_41" id="Page_41">[41]</a></span>even the conservative statistics of +social disease were infected because they strayed from the moral path +very few times and in many cases only once. This fact makes the outlook +for improved sexual morals and health more hopeful, for probably the +majority of young men need help in controlling themselves for a few +years only, especially between eighteen and twenty-five.<a name="FNanchor_2_2" id="FNanchor_2_2"></a><a href="#Footnote_2_2" class="fnanchor">[2]</a></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Established facts.</div> + +<p>The reports of medical men regarding the damage done by the social +diseases are inaccurate chiefly when they attempt to state percentages +of the whole population. They are reliable when they state observed +facts, such as the following: It is now established in medical science +that (1) gonorrheal infection results in tens of thousands of cases in +complications, such as heart disease, gonorrheal rheumatism, sterility +of both men and women, blindness of infants, inflammatory diseases of +female reproductive organs, and other well-marked sequelæ of the +disease; and (2) that syphilis is responsible for a large majority of +cases of locomotor ataxia, paresis and certain types of insanity, and +also for numerous aneurisms of arteries, many apoplexies, and much +disease of liver, kidneys, and other organs. Moreover, syphilis is +charged with being the greatest race destroyer. Fournier, the great +French specialist, <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_42" id="Page_42">[42]</a></span>noted that only two children survived from a series +of ninety pregnancies of syphilitic women of the well-to-do class. It +is probably true that much less than ten per cent of syphilitized +embryos ever grow into mature men and women, and even these few +survivors are likely to carry in their bodies the germs or the "virus" +of syphilis which may affect the next generation.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Social diseases admittedly dangerous.</div> + +<p>Such direct statements as the above may be accepted as not exaggerated. +However, it little matters in sex-education, except for the purposes of +sensational writers, whether statistics regarding the damage done by +venereal diseases are more than estimates; for it is sufficient to +remember that every physician of large experience agrees that syphilis +and gonorrhea are so common and so destructive of health and life that +they must be classed among the most dangerous diseases that now +threaten the human race. This ought to be sufficient to attract the +serious attention of every thinking man and woman.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Double standard of morality.</div> + +<p>Thus, in general survey, we see the great problems of social-sexual +hygiene caused by diseases that are widely distributed because sexual +instincts are uncontrolled. In short, the alarming problem of the +social diseases results from masculine promiscuity or the failure of +men to adhere to the monogamic standards of morality. In other and +familiar phrasing, there is widespread acceptance and practice of the +so-called <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_43" id="Page_43">[43]</a></span>"double standard of sexual morality," a monogamic one for +respectable women and promiscuity for many of their male relatives and +friends. (See writings of Morrow, especially "The Sex Problem"; also +Creighton's "The Social Disease.")</p> + +<div class="sidenote">One problem for sex-education.</div> + +<p>Our brief survey of the hygienic problems caused by sexual promiscuity +and its characteristic diseases is sufficient to indicate one great +problem for sex-education. Such social-hygiene problems have been most +responsible for the recent and rapid rise of the movement for +sex-education, and they must be recognized in any adequate scheme for +instruction of young people.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Is sex-hygiene adequate?</div> + +<p>Can scientific education hope to solve the sexual problems of society +by inculcating such fear of venereal diseases that men will remain true +to the monogamic code of morality? Many cynical disbelievers in +sex-hygiene answer this question negatively by asking in biblical +phrase, "Can the leopard change his spots?" In other words, these +doubting ones believe that sexual instincts are so firmly fixed in the +nature of <i>many</i> men and <i>some</i> women that there is no hope of radical +change through education.<a name="FNanchor_3_3" id="FNanchor_3_3"></a><a href="#Footnote_3_3" class="fnanchor">[3]</a> There is something in this point of view. +It is probably true that even the most radical advocates of +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_44" id="Page_44">[44]</a></span>sex-education do not hope to secure universal monogamy and consequent +disappearance of social diseases. A conservative and rational answer to +the above question whether sex-education can solve the problem of +social diseases, is that a large percentage of even civilized people +are not yet ready to have their most powerful instincts controlled by +scientific knowledge. Hence, there is no hope that the hygienic task of +sex-education will be finished soon after instruction becomes an +established part of general education in homes and schools. At the very +best there will be incomplete returns for the social-hygienic aspect of +sex-instruction, but already we know for a certainty that enough young +men will be influenced to make the teaching justifiable. I feel sure of +this because I have met personally many such men and my friends know +many more.</p> + +<p>According to the investigations made by Dr. Exner, the medical +secretary of the Young Men's Christian Association, a great reduction +of venereal disease has followed sex-hygienic campaigns in college +towns.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Medical treatment.</div> + +<p>In another way hygienic teaching may reduce the amount of venereal +diseases, and that is by leading infected individuals to seek thorough +medical treatment without delay. This, of course, will render the +diseased person non-infectious to others. Physicians report that there +is now a marked movement in this direction and, moreover, that many +infected young men voluntarily seek medical examinations before +marriage.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Woman's need of information.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_45" id="Page_45">[45]</a></span>Even if we refuse to believe that social-hygienic teaching will protect +many young men from sexual diseases, there is the woman's need of +information to be considered. As said before, women more than men +suffer the consequences of venereal infections. Therefore, every young +woman who considers marriage should know the possibility of danger to +herself and her children, and be able to decide accordingly. Of course, +even with much knowledge she may marry the wrong man, for correct +diagnosis of social disease is not always easy; but if her confidence +is betrayed and she becomes infected, she ought to know the importance +of immediate and radical medical treatment. Let me illustrate these +statements that women should know the danger of venereal disease. One +of my college friends neglected an important legal case to travel seven +hundred miles in order to tell face to face another college friend that +she was about to marry a dangerous man. Being utterly ignorant of the +existence of sexual diseases, the girl and her mother characterized my +friend's statement by a short and ugly word, and ordered him to leave +their home instantly. The marriage occurred and some months later the +young woman went to her grave, a victim of gonorrheal salpingitis and +peritonitis.</p> + +<p>Another case which illustrates the danger of a woman's ignorance: One +of my students of many years ago married a minister who infected her +with syphilis and kept her from medical attention until <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_46" id="Page_46">[46]</a></span>the disease +was in a highly developed stage, and even then conspired with an +inefficient doctor to keep her ignorant of the nature of the disease.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">The right to knowledge.</div> + +<p>These are not extreme cases, for any physician with large experience +knows that such things are common. Medical literature is full of such +painful recitals of venereal tragedies. It is not desirable that all +young women should know the details of such tragedies, but they should +know that dangers exist. Parents and educators will not have done their +duty until they coöperate to give all young women the protective +knowledge they have a right to demand.<a name="FNanchor_4_4" id="FNanchor_4_4"></a><a href="#Footnote_4_4" class="fnanchor">[4]</a></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Best people must lead.</div> + +<p>There is another way of looking at the possible effect of the social +side of sex-hygienic instruction. It is sure to make a decided +impression upon many young people of the type that we regard as the +best in every way. These will be the leaders of the future and they in +turn will help improve conditions. Perhaps it may all work out as the +drug problem is being solved. Widespread social and hygienic +information regarding the harmful effect of alcohol, cocaine, opium, +and other drugs has first of all impressed leading citizens; and these +are beginning to control by laws those who cannot be reached directly +by education. In some such ways those who are impressed by <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_47" id="Page_47">[47]</a></span>formal +sex-education may lend a hand in influencing many who could not be +touched directly by hygienic education.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Legislation needed.</div> + +<p>There is no doubt that public enlightenment regarding the dangers of +social diseases will soon lead to legislation and public medical work +which will contribute greatly towards reduction of the diseases. For +example, legislation with reference to venereal disease should require +doctors to report cases to health officers, should forbid "quack" +advertising of fake "cures," should forbid sale by drug stores of +nostrums for personal treatment, should provide dispensaries and +hospitals for reliable treatment at reasonable cost, should require +medical examinations for marriage licenses and provide for such +examinations at moderate charges or at public expense, should require +certain sanitary precautions in care of eyes of new-born infants, and +should provide for discovery and treatment of congenital syphilis in +school children. These are lines in which good laws might help vastly +in the war against the social diseases. Moreover, it is obvious that +all laws which help control the social evil will work indirectly +against the social diseases.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Probable results of instruction.</div> + +<p>In conclusion, it seems probable that popular knowledge of the social +side of sex-hygiene will reduce the amount of venereal disease (1) by +teaching some people the dangers of promiscuity, (2) by adoption of +certain sanitary precautions that lessen danger of infection, (3) by +leading people to seek competent medical aid <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_48" id="Page_48">[48]</a></span>which, while often +failing to restore the victim's health, will probably eliminate the +danger of contagion for others, and (4) by intelligent support of laws +that directly or indirectly affect the social diseases.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Social diseases not most important.</div> + +<p>I have given great prominence to the social-sexual diseases in their +relation to sex-education because along this line there has been +developed the widespread interest in sex-instruction as <i>one</i> method of +protecting young people against promiscuity. So far as the questions of +teaching are concerned, my personal view is that some of the other +reasons or problems for sex-instruction are more important, because I +believe that educational emphasis on them will give the greatest +results in improved sexual conditions of society.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 8. <i>Third Problem for Sex-instruction: the Social Evil</i></p> + +<p>So far as the problems of sex-education are concerned, there is nothing +to be gained by an extensive review of commercialized prostitution. It +is generally accepted that the social evil or prostitution is increased +by the common ignorance of young people of both sexes regarding the +physical and social relations of sex.</p> + +<p>Of course, it is not true that all prostitution is due to ignorance, +for it often involves enlightened men and women. However, there seems +to be good reason for believing that large numbers of people <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_49" id="Page_49">[49]</a></span>of both +sexes might be kept out of prostitution by very simple sex-instruction. +Let us look for a moment at some facts concerning the relation of the +ignorance of the women to their entrance into the underworld, and later +consider certain reasons why many men patronize the social evil.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Why women enter prostitution.</div> + +<p>With regard to the women victims of prostitution, it seems to be +generally accepted that economic pressure, feeble-mindedness, bad +social environment, and unguided instincts, independently or combined, +are the chief causes of their downfall. However, there is a deeper +reason why numerous women enter prostitution, for all of these factors +commonly operate because of inadequate sexual knowledge. In short, +ignorance is the fundamental cause of much prostitution on the part of +women. Many a girl with starvation wages, bad social surroundings, +sub-normal mentality, or even intense instincts is able to keep her +womanhood because she knows the awful dangers of sexual promiscuity. +For our present educational purposes, it is sufficient to point out the +opinion of competent social workers that knowledge might often +counteract the forces that lead women from virtue and down into +prostitution.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Men also ignorant.</div> + +<p>A large number of men patronize prostitution because they are ignorant +in one or more of the following respects. Some of them have drifted +into abnormal sexual habits when they were boys, and later into illicit +relations. Some of them did not know the effect of alcoholic <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_50" id="Page_50">[50]</a></span>drinks in +leading many young men to their first immoral sexual acts. Some of them +have deliberately patronized prostitution because they have accepted as +truth the monstrous lie that sexual activity is necessary to preserve +the health of men.<a name="FNanchor_5_5" id="FNanchor_5_5"></a><a href="#Footnote_5_5" class="fnanchor">[5]</a> Most of the men do not realize that prostitution +offers great danger to their own health, still greater danger to the +health of innocent wives and children, and a greatly shortened life for +many women who are the victims of sexual slavery. Most men do not know +that dark tragedies are often concealed beneath the apparent gay life +of the women who are victims of sexual degradation. These are some of +the things of which many young men I have known were very ignorant, and +it has been no difficult task to trace a close connection between their +ignorance and their vice.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Ignorance the chief cause.</div> + +<p>Looking at the social evil from any point of view, it seems to me that +ignorance, dense ignorance, is largely responsible for the existence of +that darkest blot on our boasted civilization—the social-sexual evil. +No matter how we look at the established facts regarding prostitution, +they all point to the need of sexual instruction for the protection of +the youth of both sexes. The Chicago Vice Commission concluded that +"the lack of information, education and training with reference to the +function and control of the sexual instinct, and the consequences of +its abuse and perversion, appears at every point of <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_51" id="Page_51">[51]</a></span>our inquiry for +the sources of the supply of the victims of vice, either as the cause +of the perversion of children and youth or as a complication of all +other causes."<a name="FNanchor_6_6" id="FNanchor_6_6"></a><a href="#Footnote_6_6" class="fnanchor">[6]</a> Of course, we dare not dream that any sex-instruction +that now seems possible will completely eradicate prostitution; but we +do know of thousands of boys and girls who have been directed to safety +by knowledge of some fundamental sexual facts.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex plays and novels.</div> + +<p>Concerning presentation of the social evil by fiction and the drama, +there is much honest disagreement. My personal opinion is that little +good is done by the theater or by such publications as Reginald +Kaufmann's "House of Bondage," and Elizabeth Robin's "My Little +Sister." They all leave the unsophisticated reader with an exaggerated +and even hysterical notion that white slavery is exceedingly common and +the main cause of prostitution. Certainly the great majority of the +army of prostitutes, both public and clandestine, in America, and a +still higher percentage on the continent of Europe, did not become +novitiates of vice in prisons of prostitution.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Limited reading desirable.</div> + +<p>It seems to me that a very limited reading regarding the social evil is +sufficient for one who is not engaged in medical or social work that +requires scientific knowledge of this darkest side of human life. +Certainly, the indiscriminate reading of vice investigations is +dangerous for many young people,—for young <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_52" id="Page_52">[52]</a></span>men because some of them +are allured into personal investigations, and for young women because +they get an exaggerated and pessimistic view of all sexual problems. +For the intelligent reader who wants the general information that every +public-spirited citizen should have, the well-known book by Jane Addams +will serve both as an outline and an encyclopedia of the social evil. +Social workers and some educators will find use for the other books +mentioned below.</p> + +<div class="block"><p class="hang">Jane Addams.—"A New Conscience and an Ancient Evil." +(Macmillan).</p> + +<p class="hang">Seligman, E.R.A. (Editor).—"The Social Evil." (Putnam.) Contains +bibliography on the subject.</p> + +<p class="hang">Sumner, Dean W.T., and others.—"The Social Evil in Chicago." +Vice-Commission Report, 1911. Now published by the American +Social Hygiene Association. The "introduction and summary" (pp. +25-47) deserves careful reading.</p> + +<p class="hang">Cocks, O.G.—"The Social Evil" (Association Press).</p> + +<p class="hang">"Vigilance," a journal devoted to attacking the social evil, has +been discontinued and replaced by bulletins of the American +Social Hygiene Association, 105 West 40th Street, New York City.</p></div> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 9. <i>The Fourth Problem for Sex-education: Illegitimacy</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Society condemns illegitimacy.</div> + +<p>Most awful of all the results of the sexual mistakes of men and women +are the unmarried mothers and their illegitimate children. Of course, I +know that there are well-meaning people who argue that motherhood is +the supreme fact and that the formality of a marriage ceremony is +merely a medievalism in our laws and customs; <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_53" id="Page_53">[53]</a></span>but the inexorable truth +remains that our modern social system is centered around the home which +is strictly regulated by church and state and public opinion.<a name="FNanchor_7_7" id="FNanchor_7_7"></a><a href="#Footnote_7_7" class="fnanchor">[7]</a> +Whatever may be the philosophical rights and wrongs of individual +freedom in sexual relationship, the facts of practical life are that an +overwhelming majority of the most intelligent people are united in +support of our established laws and customs demanding legitimacy of +motherhood and birthright. As a result of this age-old stand for +legitimacy, illegitimate mothers and children do not have a square deal +at the bar of public opinion. Everybody knows that the vast majority of +illegitimate children do not have a fair chance in the world's work. +Professor Cattell, in <i>Science</i>, March, 1914, points out that since +illegitimates occur one in every twenty-five births in the United +States, and since they are on the whole equal to other children in +mentality, there ought to be forty of them among the thousand leading +men of science designated in the directory of the "American Men of +Science;" but none are known. The conclusion must be that illegitimate +children do not have an equal chance at education which leads to +prominence in science. But it is not simply a matter of limited +education, for in every way the fate of most illegitimate children is +usually pitiful. Only now and then one born under a lucky star is +adopted and educated by large-minded foster parents who recognize that +the <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_54" id="Page_54">[54]</a></span>illegitimate is not responsible for having come into this world +under conditions opposed to the best interests of society.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Ignorance the cause.</div> + +<p>It seems to be generally accepted that in the vast majority of cases, +unmarried mothers and illegitimate children are due to ignorance of the +women. Women who are professionally immoral do not bear many +children.<a name="FNanchor_8_8" id="FNanchor_8_8"></a><a href="#Footnote_8_8" class="fnanchor">[8]</a> In fact, excepting the feeble-minded prostitutes, the +general rule is that those who are mothers have only one child and that +one the result of the first sexual errors. It is a safe general +conclusion that ignorance of sexual laws is responsible for the great +majority of cases of illegitimacy.</p> + +<p>Edith Livingston Smith, of Boston, in an article on "Unmarried Mothers" +in <i>Harper's Weekly</i> for September 6, 1913, expressed views of the +causes of illegitimacy that many a social worker will indorse heartily:</p> + +<div class="block"><p>"I see shop girls and waitresses, factory girls and maids, chorus +girls, stenographers, and governesses, each with a different +story, each with the same terror of the consequences of their +folly. 'I never knew,' they tell me, 'I never knew there were such +temptations.'...</p> + +<p>"Let us go back to the question of sex-education of the public. +Silence has been the policy in the past. We have taught our +children biology and natural history, we have taught them +physiology, carefully <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_55" id="Page_55">[55]</a></span>ignoring the organs of reproduction; we +have warned the young to make use of their senses and their +brains, but we have refused to recognize the very force that +guides all these instincts, the vital power of sex. Yet, in the +face of this stupidity, acknowledging the call of the age, girls +are sent out into the industrial world, where they fight shoulder +to shoulder with men. Here they find potential worth of their +individualities; here they meet with the same—no +greater—temptation than their brothers, but with no knowledge to +guide them, no traditions to give them poise, no ameliorating +factor of social tenderness or tolerance when inexperience fails +to temper their emotions and their femininity....</p> + +<p>"A girl's protection must come from without, a boy's from within. +Every boy who reaches the age of adolescence knows his nature. It +asserts itself. His sex instincts are dominant, aggressive. He is +man, the father of the race, and the laws of procreation are to +him an open book. A girl stays innocent until she is awakened. It +is the kiss, the touch, the senses stirred, that make her, in the +glory of her womanhood or in her shame, acknowledge her sex.</p> + +<p>"The very frailty of such a girl, her dependence upon her +intuitions and emotions, the triumph of feeling over intellect, +place her in greater danger than her brothers, even were their +responsibility to society the same. But, add to this the fact that +in yielding to sexual temptation she has the burden of +child-bearing—how much more necessary that she should have some +knowledge of what she is to meet in the world, or what she must +combat, lest her emotions forestall her intelligence as physical +development precedes mental appreciation."</p></div> + +<div class="sidenote">Men also ignorant.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_56" id="Page_56">[56]</a></span>Illegitimacy is often due to ignorance of men as well as of women. +Prominent physicians have cited from their notebooks cases of +"protected" children in early adolescence who instinctively entered +into sexual relationship in utter ignorance of the natural result. Such +cases where the boy is entirely ignorant must be very rare; but there +are probably many boys who do not really understand that the sexual act +is very likely to lead to a ruined life for the girl companion and her +offspring. Arthur Donnithorne, in "Adam Bede," did not forecast that +his act would lead to the ruin of Hetty Sorrel and her condemnation for +infanticide.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">More than biology needed.</div> + +<p>It is obvious that something more than the ordinary biological facts of +reproduction must be included in sex-instruction that tries to prevent +such tragedies. In another lecture we shall consider moral teaching, +but here let us look at the cold facts of life that ought to be taught +at some appropriate time to young people. Not only should they know the +simple biological probability that sexual relationship will lead to +reproduction, but they should be led to consider the relentless +consequences of illegitimate propagation. On this latter point general +literature, <i>e.g.</i>, "Adam Bede" and "The Scarlet Letter," teaches some +impressive lessons.</p> + +<p>Another point needs emphasis with the numerous young people, especially +men, who are not controlled by moral laws, who know the probabilities +of <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_57" id="Page_57">[57]</a></span>illegitimacy occurring, but who have acquired the popular +impression that the order of nature is easily changed. Many physicians +and social workers know girls who have gone down because they were +persuaded to trust the efficiency of popular ways and means of avoiding +the natural outcome of the sexual act. Hence, young people of both +sexes should somehow learn that under the conditions that usually +attend illicit union there is always a strong probability that the ways +of nature cannot be easily circumvented. It is unlawful to explain, +except to medical audiences, why this is so; but much illegitimacy will +be prevented if it can be made widely known among young men and women +that, according to reliable physicians, tragedies of illegitimacy are +often due to misplaced confidence in popular methods of contraception.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Criminal operations.</div> + +<p>There is yet another line of information that if widely known might +have some bearing on the problem of illicit sexual relations: +Physicians and social workers report that many young men and some women +know the possibility of illegitimate pregnancy, but feel safe because +they know the addresses of doctors and midwives who will perform +criminal operations. The great danger of the operation, especially at +the hands of such third-class doctors as would attempt to terminate +pregnancy criminally, should be widely known by the general public, +which only now and then gets a hint in the newspaper reports of a +tragedy involving some unfortunate girl.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Relative passion of men and women.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_58" id="Page_58">[58]</a></span>There is the widespread misunderstanding among young men that sexual +hunger is as insistent in virtuous young women as in themselves and +that therefore illicit gratification is a mutual gain and +responsibility. Some young men may be guided by the information that +there is much reliable evidence indicating that, while an innate +tendency towards general emotions of affection is strong in the average +young woman, there is general absence of the localized passions that +naturally and automatically develop in young men. In other words, the +first definite sexual temptation is likely to come to a young woman +from outside herself, and young men should be impressed with their +responsibility for allowing even the beginning of situations that may +arouse dormant but dangerous instincts.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 10. <i>The Fifth Problem for Sex-education: Sexual Morality</i></p> + +<p>In this lecture I shall set forth the proposition that a definitely +organized scheme of education should aim directly at making young +people strict adherents of the established code of sexual morality. For +brevity, I shall occasionally speak of morality and immorality, +omitting the qualifying word "sexual."</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Definition of sexual morality.</div> + +<p>This lecture, in fact this entire series of lectures on sex-education, +is based on the fundamental proposition that sexual morality demands +that <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_59" id="Page_59">[59]</a></span>sexual union be restricted to monogamic marriage, and conversely, +that such sexual relation outside of marriage is immoral. Such a +definition of sexual morality is accepted by church and state and the +chief citizens in every civilized country. It is the only practical +definition which is satisfactory to the vast majority of educated +American men and women, even to those who believe in freedom of divorce +and in forgiveness for youthful transgressions of the accepted moral +code. Sexual morality has had changeable standards, and in other times +and countries custom has made polygamy and promiscuity acceptable as +moral; but the monogamic ideal of morality now prevails in the world's +best life.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Morality in America and Europe.</div> + +<p>Monogamic morality as a protection for family life means much more in +America than in Europe. It is true that there is an astounding amount +of prostitution in America, but we should be grateful that our ideals +of the monogamic family have not been seriously influenced and seem to +be slowly but surely improving among our best people. As illustrations +of our adherence to monogamic law, let me give some facts for +comparison of America and continental Europe. In America, illegitimate +births are not accurately reported but are probably less than five per +cent of the total number for the whole country. Locally the proportion +is often very much higher. Thus in Washington, D.C., where (1914) over +ten thousand, chiefly negroes, live in alleys between <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_60" id="Page_60">[60]</a></span>the streets and +under extremely unhygienic and immoral conditions, fifty per cent of +the children are illegitimate, while but twenty per cent of the colored +children born of mothers living outside the alleys, and less than +eleven per cent of the total born of all races in the city are +illegitimate. In various small American regions with a white population +the proportion of illegitimacy is astoundingly high, but the average +for the entire country is hopefully low. In many German towns +statistics show above twenty-five per cent, and in the whole empire, +more than half the legitimate first-born children are conceived before +marriage. All writers, the German ones included, seem to agree that the +majority of Teutonic men and women enter into free unions before +marriage and public opinion does not severely condemn.</p> + +<p>In many rural districts of England, France, and Sweden, and even in +London and Paris, a large percentage of the marriages are simply +legalization of free unions. In short, in all these countries the +monogamic ideal is not followed by a large percentage of people. It +must be remembered that the great majority of people involved in the +above figures are of the peasant and laboring classes; conditions are +quite different among women of the educated classes. These must +ultimately set the moral standards for the masses.</p> + +<p>Our American conditions are quite different, especially outside of the +large cosmopolitan cities. It is impossible not to believe in the moral +integrity of the great majority of unmarried women in <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_61" id="Page_61">[61]</a></span>America. +Certainly even in our worst communities we have no such general +immorality of women as above European figures suggest. Perhaps +wholesale prostitution in which one public woman may be the mistress of +ten, twenty, or even fifty men, may tend to protect any equal number of +American women; whereas in Europe a peasant woman would probably be for +a time the paramour of one man, thus tending to make equal numbers of +immoral men and women.</p> + +<p>However, it matters nothing for our present purposes what may be the +explanation of conditions of sexual promiscuity here or abroad. The one +great fact is that our national code of morality is a monogamic one, +approved as ideal even by many of those who fail to live strictly in +harmony with its dictates. Hence, all Americans who are prominently +interested in sex-education believe that it should aim to make our +young people more ready to accept and understand morality according to +the monogamic ideal.</p> + +<p>Those who are interested in this problem of morality as related to +marriage should read Foerster's "Marriage and the Sex Problem."</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Relation of sex-hygiene and ethics.</div> + +<p>Among those who see the need of teaching sex-ethics as a part of the +larger outlook of sex-education, there are two points of view: (1) +those who favor the teaching of sex-ethics with the hope of preventing +the hygienic problems arising from immorality, and (2) those who +believe in sexual morality for its own sake or as an accepted code of +conduct.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_62" id="Page_62">[62]</a></span>The founders of the American Society for Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis +placed sanitation first in the name and stated in the constitution that +"the object of this Society is to limit the spread of diseases which +have their origin in the Social Evil. It proposes to study every means, +sanitary, moral, and administrative, which promise to be most effective +for this purpose." Most of the papers that have been read at the +meetings of the Society have emphasized the sanitary aim as primary, +and the moral aim as a means to the hygienic end; but in the past three +years there has been a decided tendency towards placing emphasis upon +morality, and recently the executive committee of the Society voted to +propose the following revised statement: "The aim of this Society is to +promote the appreciation of the sacredness of human sexual relation, +and thereby to minimize the moral and physical evils resulting from +ignorance and vice." This change of emphasis is well expressed in +President Keyes's report to the Society (<i>Journal</i>, Vol. V, No. 1).</p> + +<p>As to the relation between sex-hygiene and sex-ethics as phases of the +larger sex-education, there has been much discussion. Several writers +have contended that there is some conflict between sanitary and moral +ends, but have failed to convince most readers that hygiene and ethics +should not be associated in teaching. In fact, the most impressive +sex-hygiene is that relating to social disease, and its value is +chiefly in the ethical appeal for protection of innocent wives and +children.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Dr. Cabot's view.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_63" id="Page_63">[63]</a></span>Most prominent of those who have declared that hygienic and moral +teaching should be dissociated is Dr. Richard C. Cabot, of Boston. I +shall discuss his point of view in connection with a later lecture on +"Criticisms of Sex-education" (§ 46). In the present discussion of +sexual morality as an important reason for sex-education, it is +sufficient to say that Dr. Cabot seems to disagree with other teachers +on the question of the influence of formal instruction on the morals of +people.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Moral and hygienic problems.</div> + +<p>Sex-education is now commonly understood to be attempting to solve the +moral as well as the hygienic problems of sex. As suggested before, +these two lines of problems are clearly related but not coincident; for +sexual health and morals are not entirely coördinated. We must not +overlook the possibility that the marvellous progress of +bacteriological and medical science may some day largely reduce the +health problems of sex without improving morality. In fact, sexual +immorality that is hygienic does actually exist to a limited extent. +Such facts indicate that while sex-education was first planned to solve +health problems, the ultimate sex-education must attempt to guide +sexual conduct by moral principles. This coming need of more emphasis +on the moral problems of sex should be clearly foreseen by those who +are interested in sex-education.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Super-morality desirable.</div> + +<p>Now, while sexual morality as commonly understood is a direct aim of +sex-education, it is not, <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_64" id="Page_64">[64]</a></span>in the opinion of many people, the ideal and +ultimate goal of sex-education in its broadest outlook. There is +something higher than conventional morality for the reason that, while +natural sexual union in monogamic marriage is never legally or +ecclesiastically immoral, it is very often far from ideal. It is not +ideal if it is unethical, unhygienic, or unæsthetic. It is unethical, +if it is not a bi-personal desideratum (<i>i.e.</i>, based on mutual +love<a name="FNanchor_9_9" id="FNanchor_9_9"></a><a href="#Footnote_9_9" class="fnanchor">[9]</a>); it is unhygienic when not promotive and conservative of +health; and it is unæsthetic if the concomitant psychical reactions are +not in harmony with the beautiful in nature and life. In all these +ways, morality as commonly and legally and ecclesiastically understood +may fall very far short of the ideal sexual relationships. Such an +ideal is now held by many men and women who wish that morality might +mean to all the world not simply the limitation of sexual union to +monogamic marriage, but also that it might be made to mean an +all-satisfying monogamic affection and comradeship based on certain +physiological, psychical, æsthetic, and ethical laws that underlie +human sexual potentialities. Such would be a morality so <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_65" id="Page_65">[65]</a></span>far beyond +the accepted standards that for convenience we may call it +super-morality, or the new morality. This, I sincerely believe, is the +ultimate goal of sex-education in its largest outlook.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Super-morality deserves emphasis.</div> + +<p>Among those who have contributed to the sex-education movement there +are none who have properly emphasized this super-morality, which, I +believe, is the ultimate goal of the larger sex-education for the most +enlightened people. The definition that sex-education means all +instruction which aims to help young people prepare to solve for +themselves the sexual problems that inevitably come to every normal +individual, is broad enough to include all questions of hygiene, +morality, and super-morality that may come into one's life. The third +aim of sex-education (§ 16) which refers to the "social, ethical, and +psychical aspects of sex as affecting the individual life in relation +to other individuals," should be understood as meaning first a stand +for morality and then, this having been attained, super-morality is an +easy stage forward. The same idea was touched by the writer in a paper +on "Biology in Sex-Instruction" (<i>Journal of Society of Sanitary and +Moral Prophylaxis</i>, October, 1911) in these words: "If the great +questions of sex relationship are ever satisfactorily solved, it must +be through the direct application of the four sciences which are +centered around human life, namely, psychology, ethics, sociology, and +last, but far from least, æsthetics. As we have seen, biology teaches +much <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_66" id="Page_66">[66]</a></span>directly bearing on the purely physical aspects of the +perpetuation of human life, and its study is absolutely necessary for +mental attitude and basal facts; but the keystone of the arch of +sex-education must be contributed by these four sciences which touch +human life much deeper than the merely physical, to which the science +of biology is limited. Above all we must look to these sciences for the +solution of the problems of sex in relation to society, which more than +any physical ills have led to our present problems concerning sexual +disharmonies."</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Super-morality not for the masses.</div> + +<p>But while there is something attractive in this larger interpretation +of sex-education as looking forward to the highest adaptation of sex +and life, I realize that as a practical matter we must first of all +work with young people for sexual morality as defined by the accepted +code. We must remember that the vast majority of people are not yet +ready, and will not soon be ready, for a code of super-morality. +Confusion might result from an attempt at wholesale teaching of such +idealism of sex relationship. Certainly, so far as sex-education aims +to help immature young people, there is nothing to do but hold up +monogamic marriage as the basis of our accepted morality; but the +higher view of super-morality should be promulgated as rapidly as +possible among people who are advanced enough to understand that +morality as defined by church and state is not the best interpretation +of life's possibilities. To many it is a significant fact <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_67" id="Page_67">[67]</a></span>that we now +find numerous young men and women ready to stand for super-morality as +a foundation for monogamic marriage. Fortunately, such individuals need +not wait for the world to grasp the idea of super-morals; and already +there is many a home in which the higher view of life and sex prevails.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Cautious teaching concerning immorality.</div> + +<p>Immorality in sexual lines should not be overstressed when teaching +young people. Rather should there be emphasis on the moral, the normal, +the healthful, the helpful, and the æsthetic processes in human life. +We should emphasize sexual health and morals, not disease and +immorality. Concerning immoral living in general, young people should +know only enough for necessary warning. Curiosity derived from +extensive knowledge of immorality has drawn many a young man into the +whirlpool of sexual depravity. It is beyond question that in sexual +lines there is the danger that Pope saw when he declared that vice is a +monster that seen too oft, we first endure, then pity, then embrace. +Sex-education should guard against such dangerous familiarity with +vice.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 11. <i>The Sixth Problem for Sex-education: Sexual Vulgarity</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Present attitude.</div> + +<p>Even a limited study of the prevailing attitude towards sex and +reproduction convinces one that back of the greatest sexual problems of +our times is the almost universal secrecy, disrespect, vulgarity, and +irreverence concerning every aspect of sex and reproduction. <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_68" id="Page_68">[68]</a></span>Even +expectant motherhood is commonly concealed as long as possible, and all +reference to the developing new life is usually accompanied with +blushes and tones suggestive of some great shame. Nothing sexual is +commonly regarded as sacred. Love and marriage, motherhood and birth, +are all freely selected as themes for sexual jests, many of them so +vulgar that no printed dictionary supplies the necessary words. And I +am not simply referring to the great masses of uneducated people, for +the saddest fact is that a very large proportion of intelligent people +have not an open-minded and respectful attitude concerning sex and +reproduction.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Vast change of attitude needed.</div> + +<p>Now, unless we can devise some way to counteract the prevailing narrow, +vulgar, disrespectful, and irreverent attitude towards all aspects of +sex and reproduction; unless we can make people see sexual processes in +all their normal aspects as noble, beautiful, and splendid steps in the +great plan of nature; unless we can substitute a philosophical and +æsthetic view of sex relationship for the time-worn interpretation of +everything sexual as inherently vulgar, base, ignoble, and demanding +asceticism for those who would reach the highest spiritual development; +unless we can begin to make these changes in the prevailing attitude +towards sex and reproduction, we cannot make any decided advance in the +attempt to help solve sexual problems by special instruction.</p> + +<p>First of all, sex-education must work for a purified and dignified +attitude which sees vulgarity and <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_69" id="Page_69">[69]</a></span>impurity only when the functions of +sex have been voluntarily and knowingly misused and thereby debased. +Sex-education must work against the idea that sexual processes are +inherently vulgar, degraded, base, and impure. Such an interpretation +is correct only when sexual instincts are uncontrolled and thereby out +of harmony with the highest ideals of life. But control does not mean +asceticism which aims at complete subjugation of sexual instincts and +would annihilate them if that were biologically possible. The early +Christians, disgusted with the sexual degradation of the paganistic and +materialistic Romans, preached a doctrine of sexual asceticism as the +ideal for those who would rise to the heights of spiritual life. This +pessimistic interpretation of the relation of sex and life has +persisted even in some ecclesiastical teachings of the twentieth +century, and probably has had not a little responsibility for the +widely accepted and depressing view that sex is a necessary but +regrettable fact of human life.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Attitude changing.</div> + +<p>Fortunately, the old ascetic point of view is passing rapidly. +Nineteenth-century science has given us a nobler view of the physical +world. Scientifically considered, matter is no longer base and +degraded. Especially has the biological science of the past fifty years +made <i>living</i> matter and its activities profoundly impressive. And of +the life-activities none are so significant and so all-important as +those relating to the perpetuation of the human species. Biological +science has <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_70" id="Page_70">[70]</a></span>taught this emphatically, and the processes connected with +sex have been lifted to a place of dignity and purity.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Æsthetic attitude desirable.</div> + +<p>The old asceticism, with its uniformly dark outlook on life, has no +lessons worth while in our modern problems relating to sex.<a name="FNanchor_10_10" id="FNanchor_10_10"></a><a href="#Footnote_10_10" class="fnanchor">[10]</a> We need +severe control and not annihilation of our most powerful instincts. The +bright outlook of æsthetics rather than the dark one of asceticism +should prevail, for sex-instincts and processes are essentially pure +and beautiful phases of that wonderful something we call "life." +Sex-education should aim to give this attitude by presenting life as +fundamentally free from the degradation arising from misuse and +misunderstanding of sex.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Not a new ideal.</div> + +<p>The æsthetic interpretation of sex is no new ideal. Canon Lyttleton, +formerly Head Master of Eton College and later Canon of Westminster, +believed that "viewed rightly, the subject of sex, the ever-recurring +miracle of generation and birth, is full of nobleness, purity, and +health." The late Dr. Prince A. Morrow wrote, "the sex function is +intimately connected with the physical, mental, and moral development. +Its right <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_71" id="Page_71">[71]</a></span>use is the surest basis of individual health, happiness and +usefulness in life, as well as of racial permanence and prosperity. Its +abuse and misuse is the cause of a vast deal of disease and misery." +And finally, we may quote President-Emeritus Eliot of Harvard +University: "Society must be relieved by sound instruction of the +horrible doctrine that the begetting and bearing of children are in the +slightest degree sinful or foul processes. That doctrine lies at the +root of the feeling of shame in connection with these processes and of +the desire for secrecy. The plain fact is that there is nothing so +sacred and propitious on earth as the bringing of another normal child +into the world in marriage. There is nothing staining or defiling about +it, and therefore there is no need for shame or secrecy, but only for +pride and joy. This doctrine should be part of the instruction given to +all young people."</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Attitude all-important in sex-education.</div> + +<p>If sex-education succeeds in giving young people this enlightened +attitude, there will be little difficulty in solving most of the +ethical and hygienic problems of sex. A young man who has caught a +glimpse of the highest interpretation of sex in its relation to human +life, in short a young man to whom all natural sexual processes are +essentially pure and noble and beautiful, is not one who will make +grave hygienic mistakes in his own life, and he will not be personally +connected with the social evil and its diseases, and he will avoid +almost intuitively the physiologic and psychologic mistakes that most +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_72" id="Page_72">[72]</a></span>often cause matrimonial disaster. Everything, then, in successful +sex-education depends upon the attitude formed in the minds of +learners; and towards this our major efforts should be directed.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Comparison with animals not helpful.</div> + +<p>The prevailing vulgar attitude towards sex will not be greatly improved +by repeated emphasis upon the animal nature of reproduction in attempts +at supporting the thesis that propagation is the sole function of +sexual processes in human life. Such an interpretation of human +sexuality as purely animalistic in function is implied, if not +expressed, by some workers for the "purity" movement. I sincerely +believe that such a view will inevitably tend to increase the feeling +that sexual processes are heritages from the beasts which unfortunately +must be tolerated because nature has provided no other way for +perpetuating human life.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sexual pessimism.</div> + +<p>An intelligent woman, a happy wife and mother, who had accepted this +ascetic and pessimistic view of sex, said the other day: "Oh, love and +marriage and motherhood would be so beautiful were it possible to +escape the unspeakably vulgar facts of physical life!" Poor woman! It +must have been some fiend incarnate who in the guise of a prophet of +purity preached to her the animalistic interpretation of sex, which +made her overlook the fact that the very beauty which she could not +quite grasp had its origin in her emotions arising from the despised +sexual nature.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_73" id="Page_73">[73]</a></span>This is not an isolated case. Several young women who have graduated +from college within ten years vouch for the statement that many +thoughtful students are strong in the belief that ideal marriage is +platonic friendship and that it is a sad fact of life that husband and +wife must lay aside their high ideals in order to become parents.</p> + +<p>Such depressing interpretations of life are bound to come from the +radical type of "purity" preaching based on the sexual mistakes of the +past and on the lives of animals. A similar pessimistic view regarding +the function of eating might be based on mistakes of drunkards and +gluttons and on the habits of the porcine family. If these are to guide +our conduct, then food-taking is to be regarded as a necessary but +vulgar habit inherited from our animal ancestors; and if we are to be +logical and attempt to rise to ideal purity in eating, we must hasten +to dispense with the culinary science and all the æsthetics which have +made civilized eating a fine art. Of course, this is just what the +strict ascetic does; but such radical disbelievers in the pleasures +that we have associated with eating would be declared lunatics in any +civilized country.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Two kinds of hunger.</div> + +<p>I have chosen eating for illustrating my point, for the demands for +food and for sexual activity are the two primal and necessary forms of +hunger. The hunger for food has led to the refinements of civilized +dining, but there has been great evolution. The animals feed (German, +fressen) in order to satisfy hunger only; civilized <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_74" id="Page_74">[74]</a></span>humans eat (essen) +not only to satisfy the hunger appetite inherited from the animals, but +also for the sake of the concomitant social æsthetic pleasures that add +much to the joy of living. Now, if we are logical, we must interpret on +parallel lines the sexual hunger that is necessary for the perpetuation +of human life. Like eating, it is a necessary function inherited from +the animals; but there has been an evolution of greater significance. +In the animal world, sexual activity has only one function, +reproduction; but human life at its highest has superadded psychical +and social meaning to sexual relationships, and the result has been +affection and the human family. If we reject this higher view of the +double significance of sexuality in human life, and insist that only +the necessary propagative function is worthy of recognition, it is +almost inevitable that most people will continue to accept the hopeless +view that human sexuality is on the same vulgar plane as that of the +animals; in short, that it is only an animal function. This, I insist, +is a depressing interpretation that will never help overcome the +prevailing vulgar attitude toward sex.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Human sexuality more than animal.</div> + +<p>It is only by frankly recognizing and developing the psychical and +æsthetic meanings that are distinctly human and superadded to the +merely propagative function of the animals, that people can be led far +away from the vulgar outlook on sex and reproduction in human life.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Relation of attitude and morality.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_75" id="Page_75">[75]</a></span>There is no question that wholesome attitude towards sex and +reproduction is closely associated with the problems of sexual +morality, and especially so far as educational procedure is concerned. +It is true that large numbers of moral people hold the vulgar attitude +towards sex and reproduction; but for people who do not accept the +moral code without question there is probably no better way of teaching +sexual morality than by influencing the individual's attitude. There +are many people who stand for sexual morality for no other reason than +that they have a dignified and æsthetic attitude towards sex.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sexual vulgarity a stage in evolution.</div> + +<p>There is much evidence that the world is rapidly improving in this +respect. Sexual vulgarity seems to represent a stage in the evolution +of human life from the barbaric to the fully civilized. The sexual +vulgarity of primitive peoples, both ancient and modern, has been all +too frequently recalled by writers whose pseudo-scientific +superficiality leads them to believe that knowledge concerning barbaric +and ultra-bestial sensuality will help solve modern sex problems. In +the classical days when Venus and Bacchus and other deities of +sensuality were worshipped by their devotees, there was sexual +vulgarity in action and language such as now exists only among the most +ignorant or depraved people in civilized lands. The advent of Christian +civilization in Europe left no place for temples and worship of +sensuality, but still the age-old tendency towards <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_76" id="Page_76">[76]</a></span>a crude and +barbaric kind of sexual vulgarity and obscenity has continued in +folklore, in colloquial language, and in literature. However, there has +been a vast change in the attitude of the best people within the last +two centuries. Once many English writers, many of them now deservedly +obscure, published prose and poetry that would now be criminal. An +unexpurgated edition of Shakespeare's "Complete Works," or of +Boccaccio's "Decameron," could not be circulated through the United +States mails, and there are many good people who are asking how long we +shall continue to allow the unexpurgated "Old Testament" the privilege +of circulation. It is not simply prose and poetry that has been +purified. Scientific literature has shown the influence of the reaction +against obscenity. Linnæus and other naturalists of the past were fond +of giving scientific names that perpetuated vulgar comparisons with +sexual organs, but no naturalist of the present day would dare suggest +such designations for unnamed animals and plants. The older medical +literature contains abundant obscenities; but scientific dignity, as +well as the refinement of modern medical writers, has tended to compel +the elimination of vulgarity. However, there are still too many +physicians, especially those working with venereal and genito-urinary +diseases, who go out of their way to illuminate their conversations, +lectures, books, and magazine articles with veiled vulgarity. Even +high-class medical journals occasionally contain illustrations of this +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_77" id="Page_77">[77]</a></span>tendency. However, the medical profession as a class stands for +dignified scientific presentation of facts, and obscenity will soon be +tabooed in medical and all other reputable literature. Save for +occasional emanations privately printed by and for degenerate persons, +public obscenity will soon be unknown. Its complete disappearance will +have a vast influence upon the problem of sexual attitude.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 12. <i>The Seventh Problem for Sex-instruction: Marriage</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Physiology and psychology of marriage.</div> + +<p>It is the consensus of opinion of numerous physicians, ministers, and +lawyers that a very large proportion of matrimonial disharmonies have +their foundation in the common misunderstanding of the physiology and +especially of the psychology of sex. In the opinion of many students of +sexual problems, this is the strongest reason for sex-instruction. It +is certainly a line in which limited spread of information has already +given some definite and satisfactory results. Many of my friends and +former students have helped me accumulate a long list of cases in which +scientific knowledge regarding sex has prevented and corrected +matrimonial disagreements; and having easily found so much definite +influence of sex-science upon marriage, I am forced to believe that +sex-instruction specially organized for people of marriageable age is +already giving results of tremendous importance to very many +individuals. Large numbers of young people are <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_78" id="Page_78">[78]</a></span>already awake to the +need of scientific guidance in marriage, and there is a great demand +for helpful information.</p> + +<p>Advanced sex-instruction with reference to the problems of marriage +need not wait for general establishment of elementary instruction for +children of school ages. Lectures and books are already reaching large +numbers of adults. Such enlightenment will help in two ways, by the +influence on marriage and by preparing adults to teach children.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Other knowledge needed.</div> + +<p>There is another side to the problem of marriage that points to need of +the larger sex-education. Physiology and psychology of sex are +fundamental; but they alone are not sufficient to complete that mutual +adjustment and understanding which marriage at the full development of +its possibilities involves. Matrimonial harmony cannot be entirely a +problem of applied science, as some superficial devotees of science +seem to think; for science can never analyze those subtle and +ever-varying qualities that go to make up what we call personality, and +marriage in its largest outlook is the intimate blending of two +personalities. Psychological and physiological knowledge will +undoubtedly help the two married individuals in their progress towards +the harmonious adjustment of their individualities; but there are many +little, but often serious, problems that the physiology and psychology +of sex cannot solve. They are problems that involve mutual affection, +comradeship, sympathy, unselfishness, coöperation, <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_79" id="Page_79">[79]</a></span>kindliness, and +devotion of husband and wife. Obviously, these can never be developed +by any formal instruction.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Helpful literature.</div> + +<p>Probably there is no better way to help young people realize the +possibilities of matrimonial harmony than by suggesting wholesome +literature. Some of this is a part of the world's general treasure of +books that in prose and poetry, in history and romance, hold up a high +ideal of love with marriage. There is much such literature that gives +young people inspiration, but too much of it, like college life, ends +with a commencement. "And then they were married and lived happily ever +after"—is the familiar closing as the novelist rings down the curtain +after reciting only the prologue in the life drama of his two lovers. +We need more literature that does not end with the wedding march, but +which gives young people the successful solution of the problems after +marriage. Some such is available in history and biography; some in +essays. As I write there come to my mind several books that have +impressed me: Professor Palmer's "Life of Alice Freeman Palmer"; +Leonard Huxley's "Life and Letters of T.H. Huxley," which gives many +intimate glimpses of the ideal home life which the great biologist +centered around Mrs. Huxley; William George Jordan's "Little Problems +of Married Life"; Orrin Cock's "Engagement and Marriage"; and that much +misunderstood<a name="FNanchor_11_11" id="FNanchor_11_11"></a><a href="#Footnote_11_11" class="fnanchor">[11]</a> but helpful book <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_80" id="Page_80">[80]</a></span>"Love and Marriage" by Ellen Key. +Many of the stories by Virginia Terhune Van de Water, published in the +magazines and collected in a book entitled "Why I Left my Husband" +(Moffatt, Yard), deal with real problems of married life.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Similar education of the sexes.</div> + +<p>The problems of co-education and coördinate education have not a little +bearing on the adjustment of the two sexes in marriage. In these days +when vocational education is fashionable in theory and is attracting +attention in practice, we are told that co-education and coördinate +education are mistakes because they provide the same training for both +sexes. We are told that girls must be educated for their vocation of +home-making, while boys must be educated for business, trades, or +professions. Everywhere in this current movement for vocational +education we find the emphasis placed on making education for the two +sexes just as dissimilar as possible. Fortunately for the educational +adjustments of the two sexes to each other, much of the present-day +discussion that demands extensive sex specialization of education +cannot be made practical and the training of the two sexes will +inevitably continue to be quite similar, with at most a limited amount +of time spent on application of certain knowledge to practical <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_81" id="Page_81">[81]</a></span>ends +that are chiefly of interest to one sex only. By far the greater part +of education from kindergarten through the university is in the nature +of the fundamentals of knowledge and will continue to be essentially +similar for both sexes. For illustration, the writer happens to be +connected with a college which offers a four-year course and graduate +work specially arranged with reference to household arts. Surely here +is an opportunity for education far different from that of the typical +college for men. As a matter of fact, there is great similarity. The +greater part of the four years is filled with general courses in +English, modern languages, chemistry, biology, physics, sociology, +economics, and fine arts, while a minor part of the curriculum consists +of courses in cookery, clothing, and household administration. The +general courses are in essentials not different from courses in +colleges for men. Here and there instructors select materials and in +other ways relate the general courses to household arts, but after all +a girl who completes these courses has acquired the same educational +fundamentals that her brother gets in Columbia College or in any other +standard college for men. It is only, then, in the cookery, clothing, +and administration that there is sex-differentiated education, and even +in these the practice necessary to acquire proficiency in technique is +the chief peculiarity. So far as fundamental knowledge is concerned; +cookery is chiefly an application of chemistry, physics, and physiology +that could easily be made clear to one who had completed <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_82" id="Page_82">[82]</a></span>courses in +these sciences in a college for men; dress design is an application of +fine arts and its construction is a mechanical problem. The mental +problems involved in dress design and making cannot be far different +from house design and construction which are supposed to be primarily +adapted to men.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Little differentiation.</div> + +<p>On the whole, then, there is really little possibility of +sex-differentiated education. This, I insist, is a fortunate fact of +vast importance in the mutual adjustment of the two sexes in marriage. +There could be no adjustment on an intelligent basis if education could +be utterly dissimilar. There can be perfect adjustment only when the +two individuals are adjusted harmoniously, and that means similar +outlooks on life's problems.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Need of sex-education for feminism.</div> + +<p>Many of the problems of the modern feministic movement are such as to +demand rational education of both women and men with reference to sex +and marriage. Let me quote C. Gasquoine Hartley, whose suggestive +Chapters VIII and IX in her "Truth About Woman" (Dodd, Mead) deserve to +live long after the readable but unscientifically applied earlier +chapters are consigned to oblivion:</p> + +<div class="block"><p>"To hear many women talk it would appear that the new ideal is a +one-sexed world. A great army of women have espoused the task of +raising their sex out of subjection. For such a duty the strength +and energy of passion is required. Can this task be performed if +the woman to any extent indulges in <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_83" id="Page_83">[83]</a></span>sex—otherwise subjection to +man? Sexuality debases, even reproduction and birth are regarded +as 'nauseating.' Woman is not free, only because she has been the +slave to the primitive cycle of emotions which belong to physical +love. The renunciation, the conquest of sex—it is this that must +be gained. As for man, he has been shown up, women have found him +out; his long-worn garments of authority and his mystery and +glamour have been torn into shreds—woman will have none of him.</p> + +<p>"Now obviously these are over-statements, yet they are the logical +outcome of much of the talk that one hears. It is the visible sign +of our incoherence and error, and in the measure of these follies +we are sent back to seek the truth. Women need a robuster courage +in the face of love, a greater faith in their womanhood, and in +the scheme of Life. Nothing can be gained from the child's folly +in breaking the toys that have momentarily ceased to please. The +misogamist type of woman cannot fail to prove as futile as the +misogamist man. Not 'Free <i>from</i> man' is the watch-cry of women's +emancipation that surely is to be, but 'Free <i>with</i> man.'"</p></div> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex and intellectualism.</div> + +<p>And further on the same author, considering the problem of the women of +the common type that are classified as a "third sex," that of +temperamental neuter, says:</p> + +<div class="block"><p>"Economic conditions are compelling women to enter with men into +the fierce competition of our disordered social state. Partly due +to this reason, though much more, as I think, to the strong +stirring in woman of her newly-discovered self, there has arisen +what I should like to call an over-emphasized <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_84" id="Page_84">[84]</a></span>Intellectualism. +Where sex is ignored there is bound to lurk danger. Every one +recognizes the significance of the advance in particular cases of +women towards a higher intellectual individuation, and the social +utility of those women who have been truly the pioneers of the new +freedom; but this does not lessen at all the disastrous influence +of an ideal which holds up the renunciation of the natural rights +of love and activities of women, and thus involves an irreparable +loss to the race by the barrenness of many of its finest types. +The significance of such Intellectuals must be limited, because +for them the possibility of transmission by inheritance of their +valuable qualities is cut off, and hence the way is closed to a +further progress. And, thus, we are brought back to that simple +truth from which we started; there are two sexes, the female and +the male, on their specific differences and resemblances blended +together in union every true advance in progress depends—on the +perfected woman and the perfected man."</p></div> + +<div class="sidenote">Young women misled by sexual pessimists.</div> + +<p>One who studies carefully the various aspects of the extreme feministic +movement must admit that there are many signs of the dangers which the +above quotations point out so clearly. Of course, we cannot believe in +the sincerity of all of the numerous women of thirty-five to fifty +years who pretend to ignore sex completely. Probably most of them have +discovered that they have misunderstood themselves; but it is also +probable that they have discovered too late for making a readjustment +in their own lives. However, it matters little whether such women have +really succeeded in ignoring sex. The <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_85" id="Page_85">[85]</a></span>real problem for educational +attack lies in the fact that such women often succeed in proselyting +young women under twenty-five, and these in turn may not come to see +the real truth about sex and life until ten or fifteen years later. +Clearly, organized education must protect young women against such +influences.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">The greatest good in sex-education.</div> + +<p>The greatest good which may come from the sex-education movement is not +prevention or elimination of social diseases, it is not improved +health, it is not general acceptance of the moral law of sex, it is not +one or all these that are devoutly to be hoped for; but far greater +than such possible results from sex-education, it will bring to many a +man and woman a deeper, nobler, and purer knowledge of what sex means +for the coming race and of what it means now to each individual who +realizes life's fullest possibilities in conjugal affection which +culminates in new life and new motives for more affection. Such an +understanding of sex in relation to home life will help this old world +more than anything else which sex-education may accomplish.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">The greatest sex problem.</div> + +<p>The problems of sex and marriage deserve far more attention than can be +given in this lecture. I am convinced that knowledge of sex in its +physical, psychical, social, and æsthetic aspects is the only sure +foundation for harmonious marriage under modern conditions. Therefore, +I believe this to be the greatest sex problem open to educational +attack.</p> + +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_86" id="Page_86">[86]</a></span><br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 13. <i>The Eighth Problem for Sex-instruction: Eugenics</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Meaning of eugenics.</div> + +<p>Eugenics, or the science of human good breeding, is just now the most +popular of the problems concerning human sex and reproduction. In +recent years, the biological investigators of heredity have published +some startling facts which show that the human race must soon check its +reckless propagation of the unfit and encourage reproduction by the +best types of men and women. This is not the place for a review of the +eugenic propositions. Those interested will find them in non-technical +form in many books (see the bibliographical chapter of this book, page +248).</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Eugenics in biology.</div> + +<p>Some of the chief facts of eugenics should be a part of every +well-organized scheme of sex-instruction, and taught through biology (§ +17). Probably no other topic in biology is so likely to make an +ethical-social appeal, for the central point of eugenics is the +responsibility of the individual whose uncontrolled sexual actions may +transmit undesirable and heritable qualities and bring a train of +disaster to generations of descendants.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Relation of eugenics and sex-hygiene.</div> + +<p>At this point we digress to correct the widespread error in confusing +sex-hygiene and eugenics. Many people who ought to know better use the +two terms synonymously, perhaps because they are afraid of that +comparatively novel but frank prefix in "sex-hygiene." The fact is that +eugenics and sex-hygiene have little in common. Eugenics is the +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_87" id="Page_87">[87]</a></span>science of reproducing better humans by applying the established laws +of genetics or heredity. In brief, it means, on the positive side, +selecting desirable people as parents; and, negatively, preventing +propagation by the undesirables. This is the sum total of the task of +eugenics in the accurate sense of the term.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Facts of heredity.</div> + +<p>So far as we know, each coming generation will inherit only qualities +that the parents inherited from their parents. It is a well-known +principle of biology that changes in the bodies of human beings during +their lifetime (dating from the fertilized egg that produces the +individual) are never in any noticeable degree inherited by +descendants. In short, acquired characteristics of the body tissues do +not influence the germ plasm, the living matter concerned with heredity +and reproduction, but the germ plasm that determines what the next +generation will inherit is fixed at birth. Thus tuberculosis, +alcoholism, gonorrhea, and syphilis may be acquired during the life of +an individual, but do not become fixed in the germ plasm. If the +infants show effects of any of these diseases, it is not because of +true heredity but because they were infected or influenced before +birth. Rarely does this happen to children of a tuberculous mother, but +often to those of a syphilitic mother. In a gonorrheal ophthalmia +neonatorum (specific inflammation of infants' eyes) it is a case of +infection <i>during</i> birth.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex-hygiene and eugenics parallel.</div> + +<p>Thus, it appears that sex-hygiene either personal or social (concerned +with venereal diseases) is not <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_88" id="Page_88">[88]</a></span>a part of eugenics. It is, however, a +phase of euthenics, which deals with the environmental factors that +affect the individual life. It is clear, then, that sex-hygiene (in the +strict medical sense) and eugenics are parallel and not conflicting. +Eugenics aims to select better parents who will transmit their own +qualities genetically. Sex-hygiene in its personal and social aspects +will make healthier parents able to give their offspring a healthier +start in life, especially because the offspring is free from the +prenatal effects of disease.</p> + +<p>The teaching of heredity and eugenics is intended to develop a sense of +individual responsibility for the transmission of one's good or bad +inherited qualities to offspring. The teaching of sex-hygiene, either +personal or social, looks towards improving personal health and +preventing infection and injurious influence on the unborn next +generation. Obviously, we need both sex-hygiene and eugenics as part of +the larger sex-instruction.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 14. <i>Summary of Lectures on Sex Problems</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Problems of health, attitude, and morals.</div> + +<p>We have made a general survey of the problems that offer reasons for +sex-instruction. We have noted that some of the problems are concerned +with health and, hence, lie within the scope of sex-hygiene in the +strict sense of that term; but some of them have only the remotest +relation to health and hygiene. On the contrary, they relate to the +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_89" id="Page_89">[89]</a></span>ethical, social, and æsthetic attitude of individuals towards sex and +reproduction. Obviously, these touch problems not of sex health, but of +sex morality. In their educational importance I believe them as great, +perhaps even greater, than those of sex-hygiene. In fact, I have come +to believe that many individuals can best solve all their own sexual +problems on the basis of moral and æsthetic attitude.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Many-sided instruction needed.</div> + +<p>Considering, as we have done, the sex problems in their many aspects, +we are forced to the conclusion that sex-education will prove adequate +only when it combines instruction from the several points of view. It +must be much more than the sex-hygiene with which the sex-instruction +movement started. We need sexual knowledge that will conserve health, +that will develop social and ethical and eugenic responsibility for +sexual actions, that will lead to increased happiness as well as to +improved health, and that will give a nobler and purer view of life's +possibilities. In all these lines in which sex influences human life +profoundly, sex-education holds out the hope of help towards a better +life for all who receive and apply its lessons.</p> + +<br /> +<hr style="width: 15%;" /> +<br /> + +<h4>FOOTNOTES:</h4> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_1_1" id="Footnote_1_1"></a><a href="#FNanchor_1_1"><span class="label">[1]</span></a> In the <i>American Journal of Public Health</i> for July, 1913, +Dr. John S. Fulton, Director General of the XV International Congress +on Hygiene and Demography, criticized severely the extremely radical +statistics that were presented on charts at the sex-hygiene exhibit of +the Congress, and were later published in Wilson's "Education of the +Young in Sex-hygiene."</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_2_2" id="Footnote_2_2"></a><a href="#FNanchor_2_2"><span class="label">[2]</span></a> There is danger in quoting to young men the estimates as +to prevalence of social diseases and, therefore, of promiscuity. Fear +of consequences will not control one who is led to believe that he is +doing what most men do. (See Parkinson in <i>Educational Review</i>, Jan. +1911, pp. 44-46.)</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_3_3" id="Footnote_3_3"></a><a href="#FNanchor_3_3"><span class="label">[3]</span></a> Many writers have discounted the value of warnings +involved in sex-instruction concerning social disease (see especially +Cabot's papers referred to in § 46, and Parkinson in <i>Educational +Review</i>, January, 1911).</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_4_4" id="Footnote_4_4"></a><a href="#FNanchor_4_4"><span class="label">[4]</span></a> Louise Creighton, in her excellent little book on "The +Social Disease and How to Fight It" (Longmans), has well presented the +problems of social impurity from woman's point of view.</p> + +<p class="noin">Dr. W.S. Hall, in "Life's Problems," has given in a few pages the +necessary protective knowledge.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_5_5" id="Footnote_5_5"></a><a href="#FNanchor_5_5"><span class="label">[5]</span></a> See "The Sexual Necessity," by Drs. Howell and Keyes.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_6_6" id="Footnote_6_6"></a><a href="#FNanchor_6_6"><span class="label">[6]</span></a> See also, Henderson's "Education with Reference to Sex."</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_7_7" id="Footnote_7_7"></a><a href="#FNanchor_7_7"><span class="label">[7]</span></a> See chapter on "Motherhood and Marriage" in Foerster's +"Marriage and the Sex Problem."</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_8_8" id="Footnote_8_8"></a><a href="#FNanchor_8_8"><span class="label">[8]</span></a> As an illustration of this fact, out of 558 Pittsburgh +professional prostitutes, 406 had never had children. Of the 152 who +were mothers, only 24 had two or more children.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_9_9" id="Footnote_9_9"></a><a href="#FNanchor_9_9"><span class="label">[9]</span></a> Many thinking men and women now agree with Ellen Key that +"marriage is immoral without mutual love," that "love is the sole +decisive point of view in questions concerning this relationship," that +"it will come to pass that no finely sensitive woman will become a +mother except through mutual love," that "everything which is exchanged +between husband and wife in their life together can only be the free +gift of love, can never be demanded by one or the other as a right." +(Key—"The Morality of Woman.")</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_10_10" id="Footnote_10_10"></a><a href="#FNanchor_10_10"><span class="label">[10]</span></a> Foerster, in his "Marriage and the Sex Problem," urges +that self-control over sexual passions is the working of the old idea +of asceticism, which he believes "should be regarded, not as a negation +of nature nor as an attempt to extirpate natural forces, but as +practice in the art of self-discipline. Its object should be to show +humanity what the human will is capable of performing, to serve as an +encouraging example of the conquest of the spirit over the animal +self." My personal view is that nothing is gained by confusing +self-control and the old asceticism.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_11_11" id="Footnote_11_11"></a><a href="#FNanchor_11_11"><span class="label">[11]</span></a> Misunderstood, it seems to me, because her philosophy +demanding that marriage begin with, exist with, and end with love means +freedom in love, and this has been misinterpreted as "free love" in the +sense of promiscuity. I know of no writer who stands for marriage on a +higher plane than that advocated by Ellen Key. Her lecture on "Morality +of Woman" (Seymour Co., Chicago) is a good condensed statement of her +largest ideas and a helpful introduction to "Love and Marriage."</p></div> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<a name="III" id="III"></a><hr /> +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_90" id="Page_90">[90]</a></span><br /> + +<h2>III</h2> + +<h3 class="sc">Organization of Educational Attack on the Sex Problems<span class="totoc"><a href="#toc">ToC</a></span></h3> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 15. <i>The Task of Sex-education</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Pragmatic solution of sex problems.</div> + +<p>In the preceding series of lectures we have surveyed eight important +sex problems that can never be solved, even in part, unless by +widespread information that specifically guides the individual and +organized society in the adjustment of sexual instincts to the peculiar +conditions that obtain in our modern civilized life. To spread the +knowledge that will help civilized humanity on towards the best +possible adjustment of sex and life, and therefore to a pragmatic +solution of sexual problems, is the task or the chief aim of +sex-education.<a name="FNanchor_12_12" id="FNanchor_12_12"></a><a href="#Footnote_12_12" class="fnanchor">[12]</a></p> + +<div class="sidenote">No hope for complete solution.</div> + +<div class="sidenote">Constant advance towards ideals.</div> + +<p>Of course, only the ultra-Utopian dreamer claims that sex-education can +solve all the sexual problems of civilized life, but even the most +pessimistic disbeliever in the new movement admits that knowledge of +sexual life will be helpful to the great majority of people. Hence, it +is worth while to organize the educational attack <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_91" id="Page_91">[91]</a></span>on the sex problems +which we have considered in the preceding lectures. It seems to me that +we may gain an advantage by frankly admitting that the educational +attack is not expected to solve all sex problems for all people, for by +such admission we put to flight those shallow cynics who have opposed +the sex-education movement because they think (and probably correctly) +that immorality and social diseases and all other sexual disharmonies +will continue to exist as long as the human species does. Likewise, +there will be dishonesty and murder and preventable diseases and all +other human troubles in spite of education; but the advancement of +learning has slowly and progressively reduced the sum total of all the +disharmonies of life until now civilized people are largely free from +many of the original or barbaric conditions. Along similar lines we may +confidently think of sex-education as making a constantly advancing and +victorious attack on the problems of life that have grown out of our +primitive sexual instincts. Sex-education, like all other education, +strives towards ideals that individuals and society may always approach +but may never reach. It is only another case of Emerson's advice, +"hitch your wagon to a star," which means the adoption of high ideals +that lead ever on and on towards better life.</p> + +<p>With this understanding that <i>the task of sex-education is the +ever-advancing improvement of sexual conditions in individual as well +as in social life</i>, let <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_92" id="Page_92">[92]</a></span>us turn now to consider the possible lines for +definite educational attack on the chief problems of sex. It will be +most helpful if we first analyze the general task of sex-education into +some specific aims that may definitely guide instruction, and then in +later lectures consider the methods and detailed subject matter of +sex-instruction.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 16. <i>The Aims of Sex-education</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Emphasis on social disease.</div> + +<p>Since the revelations concerning the disastrous physical effects of +sexual immorality, especially as it exists in the commercialized +conditions of the social evil, have had the chief influence in +awakening intelligent people from their age-long ignorance and +indifference concerning the great sex problems, it was natural that +those who first proposed special instruction should have emphasized the +social evil and its diseases so much as to create the widespread but +erroneous impression that the great aim of sex-education is to teach +the distressing facts concerning the pathological consequences of +immorality.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Other problems need emphasis.</div> + +<p>Now, without in the least underestimating the vast importance of the +emphasis placed on sexual immorality and social diseases in the +splendid pioneer work of the late Dr. Morrow and others for the +sex-education movement, and without suggesting that these topics should +be neglected while reorganizing the educational attack on sex problems, +I believe that so far as formal instruction in homes, schools, and +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_93" id="Page_93">[93]</a></span>colleges is concerned, we may gain a decided advantage if we now +recognize and declare boldly that the physical effects of the diseases +arising from the social evil constitute <i>only one of several</i> groups of +sex problems that organized education should attempt to solve.</p> + +<p>Concerning the other problems that sex-education should touch with +great definiteness, it is my personal view that most of those outlined +in the preceding lectures will be affected by instruction along five +important lines, as follows:</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Five lines of instruction.</div> + +<p>(1) The scientific truths that lead to serious and respectful attitude +on all sex questions. (2) The personal sex-hygiene that independent of +social diseases conserves individual health directly or indirectly +through sexual normality. (3) The ethical responsibility of individuals +for the physical or social or psychical harm of their sexual actions +upon other individuals, <i>e.g.</i>, in prostitution and illegitimacy. (4) +The hygienic, ethical, and psychical laws that promote physical and +mental health in monogamic marriage. (5) The established principles of +heredity and eugenics which foretell the possible coming of a better +race of humans. I believe that in these five lines there are +educational problems of present and future greater significance to +human health and happiness than are found in the social evil and its +diseases, commandingly important though these be. Therefore, in viewing +the field of sex-education with reference to the possible usefulness of +knowledge in helping <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_94" id="Page_94">[94]</a></span>individuals solve the vital problems that have +grown naturally out of the reproductive function, I believe that we are +logical only when we organize our educational aims so as to give +scientific instruction concerning the problems of sex in the several +lines in addition to the physical or hygienic aspects of the social +evil and its diseases.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Four aims.</div> + +<p>As I now see in the large the sexual problems which scientifically +organized education should attack, the educational aims may be grouped +under four general headings as follows:</p> + +<p>First and most important, sex-education should aim to develop an +open-minded, serious, scientific, and respectful attitude towards all +problems of human life which relate to sex and reproduction.</p> + +<p>Second, sex-education should aim to give that knowledge of personal +hygiene of the sexual organs which is of direct value in making for the +most healthful and efficient life of the individual.</p> + +<p>Third, sex-education should aim to develop personal responsibility +regarding the social, ethical, psychical, and eugenic aspects of sex as +affecting the individual life in its relation to other individuals of +the present and future generations; in short, sex-education should +consider the problems of sexual instincts and actions in relation to +society.</p> + +<p>Fourth, sex-education should aim to teach <i>briefly</i> to young people, +during later adolescence, the essential hygienic, social, and eugenic +facts regarding the two destructive diseases which are chargeable to +sexual promiscuity or immorality.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Order of importance of aims.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_95" id="Page_95">[95]</a></span>For emphasis, let me briefly summarize these aims of sex-education: (1) +Serious, scientific, and respectful attitude of mind on sex questions; +(2) personal sex-hygiene; (3) social and ethical and eugenic +responsibility for sex actions; (4) relation of immorality and social +diseases. I have deliberately, placed these educational aims in this +order because it is the order of greatest permanent importance in the +sex-education movement; it represents the greatest value to the largest +number of individuals who may learn the scientific truth; and it is the +order most natural, most logical, and most effective in pedagogical +practice with young people.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Relation of aims to problems of sex.</div> + +<p>Sex-education organized with regard to these four aims will touch +definitely all the eight problems of sex that have been discussed in +preceding lectures. The first aim will directly affect the problem of +vulgarity and indirectly touch those stated under the third aim. The +second aim is obviously directed to the problem of personal health as +it may be influenced by the sexual processes of one individual +independent of others. Of course, there is also the personal aspect of +social diseases, but it is clearer to consider both personal and social +aspects of these diseases as a unit in the fourth aim. The third aim is +based on five of the eight great problems which involve individual +responsibility for the social evil, for illegitimacy, for sexual +immorality, for matrimonial harmony, and for eugenics. The social +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_96" id="Page_96">[96]</a></span>aspects of the venereal diseases obviously involve personal +responsibility of the individual in relation to society as well as a +personal hygienic problem. Thus, six of the eight great sex problems +are essentially social and only those relating to personal hygiene and +individual attitude are so distinctly personal as to have only an +indirect relation to other individuals, as might be true in case of +unharmonious marriage of individuals who are vulgar minded or who have +been injured by unhygienic personal habits. Finally, the fourth aim +provides for teaching the <i>essential</i> facts that may help individuals +protect themselves directly, and society indirectly, against the +diseases that awakened the world to the need of sex-education.</p> + +<p>Let us turn now to analyze the aims of sex-education and consider how +they may be connected with a definite scheme for sex-instruction.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 17. <i>The Aims as the Basis of Organized Sex-instruction</i></p> + +<p>I have placed first the aim to develop a serious and respectful +attitude toward sex and reproduction because at the root of the sexual +problems of our times is the prevailing vulgar interpretation of sex +and life discussed in a preceding lecture (§ 11).</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Biology and attitude.</div> + +<p>Recognizing the great importance of attitude, how may it be influenced +by instruction in home or school? The most widely accepted answer is +that the best beginning may be made through study of biology (including +botany, zoölogy, and <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_97" id="Page_97">[97]</a></span>physiology) and through nature-study and hygiene +taught on a biologic basis. No other method of introduction to +sex-instruction is so natural and so likely to lead to a serious, +scientific, and open-minded attitude concerning sex. In fact, a large +part of the study of reproduction of plants and animals in courses of +biology in schools and colleges has its value chiefly in the +overwhelming evidence that problems of sex and reproduction are natural +and dignified aspects of life. Such biological study determines +attitude in no small degree. This is the chief justification for study +of the reproductive processes in a series of animals and plants +representing stages between the complex development of the highest +animals which parallel human life and the lowest forms which the +microscope reveals. In all my classes of twenty years in high school +and college I have noted a marked development of serious, scientific, +and open-minded attitude in response to natural and frank presentation +of animal and plant life-histories. Moreover, I have many times +requested large groups of students to write freely and frankly +concerning the influence of biological courses upon their own attitude; +and their papers have strongly supported my observation that study of +animal and plant life-histories exerts a profound influence upon the +attitude of students towards the human problems of sex and +reproduction. If I were stating a defense for biology as one of three +or four essential science courses for general education, I should place +the greatest <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_98" id="Page_98">[98]</a></span>emphasis upon the study of animals and plants as a +foundation for sex-instruction. Certain critics would reply that all +the biological facts that are actually used in the direct human +application of sex-instruction could be taught in a few lectures +without a year's course in biology; but it is a demonstrated fact that +a few isolated lessons do not give the attitude that comes from a good +course of biology taught with the view to culminating in special +sex-instruction.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Literature and attitude.</div> + +<p>Only recently has it been pointed out that one's attitude towards sex +may be profoundly influenced by reading certain general literature that +holds up high ideals of love and sex and life. It will be most +convenient to consider the influence of literature on sex-instruction +in another lecture (§ 23).</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Teaching personal sex-hygiene.</div> + +<p>Now let us consider the general bearings of the personal sex-hygiene +demanded by the second aim. For children under ten and twelve the +necessary hygiene should be presented personally (see § 25). For young +people of adolescent years there are four possible ways of instruction +in personal sex-hygiene: (1) It may be added naturally to a course or +series of lessons in general hygiene including the problems of health +for all systems of organs. (2) It may be included in a study of +vertebrate and human reproduction in a course of biology or zoölogy. +(3) It may be presented by a special lecture that is independent of all +regular courses of study. (4) <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_99" id="Page_99">[99]</a></span>Special booklets may be put into the +hands of young people. Let us now examine each of these ways:</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex-hygiene in general hygiene.</div> + +<p>(1) Sex-hygiene as a natural part of a series of lessons in general +hygiene is most satisfactory when preceded by biological nature-study +or high-school biology in which life-histories of organisms have been +studied for the sake of attitude. At present we lack satisfactory +textbooks for this kind of correlation. There is a strong reaction +against independent courses of hygiene in high schools, and the next +plan is becoming more common.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Hygiene in biology.</div> + +<p>(2) The inclusion of the necessary hygiene of all organs in courses of +biology or zoölogy that have emphasized physiology and its bearings on +health is the best arrangement so far proposed and tested in practice. +It has been tried with success by Dr. W.H. Eddy in the High School of +Commerce, New York City, and by other high-school teachers working +along the same lines. The arguments for teaching general hygiene on a +biological basis have been presented in the last chapter of "The +Teaching of Biology in Secondary Schools" by Lloyd and Bigelow, and put +in textbook form in the "Applied Biology" and "Introduction to Biology" +by M.A. and Anna N. Bigelow. However, personal sex-hygiene is not +included in these textbooks, because educational and public opinion do +not yet stand for such radical lessons in books for schools.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Special lectures on hygiene.</div> + +<p>(3) Special lectures on sex-hygiene independent of <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_100" id="Page_100">[100]</a></span>biology or general +hygiene are at best makeshifts, and not without dangers. I fear the +effect of the abrupt introduction to sex problems by special lectures, +especially for girls who may be shocked much more than the average boys +can be. I heartily sympathize with parents and school officials who +object to special lectures that suddenly focus attention on problems of +sexual health. It seems to me that special lectures should be given +only when no other method of teaching is possible. This applies +especially to young people who are not in schools. While I have +stressed biological nature-study as offering the ideal basis for the +broadest kind of sex-education, I realize that there are cases where +such study cannot be held prerequisite to some aspects of sex-hygiene +that young people should know. However, we should aim to make such +cases the exceptions and not the rule. Some good may be accomplished by +teaching certain facts of sex-hygiene frankly and directly to those who +have absolutely no knowledge of nature-study and biology; but after +watching the reactions of groups of boys who were receiving such +information, I have been convinced that even with a limit of one hour +for instruction a biological setting is decidedly important in that it +gives an indirect approach.</p> + +<p>(4) Special books and pamphlets are useful when, and only when, the +above methods are impossible, but certain cautions are desirable (see § +22).</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Difficulty in ethical-social teaching.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_101" id="Page_101">[101]</a></span>The third aim involves some difficult educational problems. Since we +confess that we know so little concerning efficient methods for +ethical, moral, or social teaching, it is evident that we must be far +from a satisfactory plan for dealing with instruction which is intended +to oppose most powerful instinctive tendencies and long-established +habits of sensuality. Clearly the third aim sets no easy task for the +educator; but since the possible solution of sex problems must turn on +the sex actions of the individual in relation to society, the +ethical-social aspects of sex-education must not be evaded because the +way is not yet entirely clear. The fact is that a good beginning has +been made, especially in teaching concerning social diseases, heredity, +and eugenics.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Social hygiene and ethics.</div> + +<p>The value of all the proposed teaching concerning the relation of +immorality and social diseases is more ethical than hygienic. Read any +of the standard literature on the social side of venereal diseases, +especially the masterly writings of the eminent physician and chief +organizer of the American movement for sex-education, the late Dr. +Prince A. Morrow, of New York City; and one notes that the medical +facts have bearings in two directions. First, they indicate the +desirability of morality as a protection of personal health; and +second, they teach that the pathological results of the individual's +immoral living may be passed on later to innocent wives <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_102" id="Page_102">[102]</a></span>and children. +The first is as clearly personal hygiene as teaching that impure water +may cause typhoid; but the second is social hygiene and ethics. The +second is more impressive to all but the most selfish people.</p> + +<p>There is good reason for believing that information concerning the +social diseases is more likely to impress the average young man through +the social-ethical appeal much more than as a matter of personal +health. Therefore, a biological lesson on social diseases, which may be +presented most logically in connection with other germ diseases, may +have its chief value in that its meaning is social and ethical.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Biology and ethics.</div> + +<p>As another illustration of biology touching ethics, I have recently +come to believe that the teaching concerning heredity and eugenics, +which should be a standard part of the best sex-instruction, has its +greatest value in the ethical appeal, and not in the direct biological +application of the laws of heredity which underlie eugenics. I realize +that this statement is likely to be disputed by those biologists who +see in eugenics only the possibility of controlling heredity so as to +propagate better strains of humans, just as breeders of plants and +animals have produced better domesticated varieties. A biologist +naturally believes that the ultimate aim of eugenics is improvement of +physical and psychical qualities; but considering the +ethical-social-biological complications of human sex-problems, it seems +improbable that any decided and <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_103" id="Page_103">[103]</a></span>extensive improvement is likely to +come if we continue to limit our interpretation of the principles of +eugenics to the purely biological standpoint of the breeder of plants +and animals. Let me illustrate by some concrete facts from eugenics:</p> + +<p>There is a widespread opinion among science teachers that high-school +biology should present some of the best established facts of heredity; +and that these should be eugenically applied to human life by means of +such illustrations as those afforded by the histories of certain +degenerate families, such as the well-known Jukes and Kallikaks. A +brief sketch of the history of the latter family, as described in Dr. +Goddard's interesting book, "The Kallikak Family" (Macmillan), will +make clear my point as to the ethical appeal of eugenics.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Eugenics and ethical teaching.</div> + +<p>A young man of good ancestry broke the moral law about one hundred and +forty years ago and became the father of an illegitimate son by a +feeble-minded mother. Of 480 descendants of this son, there have been +46 normal, many immoral, many alcoholic and 143 feeble-minded. The same +man who back in the revolutionary days made a moral mistake which led +to such awful consequences, later married a woman of good family and +became the progenitor of a second line of 496 descendants of whom 494 +have been normal mentally, while two were affected by alliance with +another family; and all have been first-class citizens, many of them +prominent in business, professions, etc.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_104" id="Page_104">[104]</a></span>Even making due allowance for the depressing influence of the +environment in which most of the down-and-out descendants in the +degenerate line lived, the comparison between the normal and the +abnormal lines from the same ancestor gives the most convincing eugenic +evidence that has been discovered in the human race. Doubtless it will +long be used as a basis for attempted biological control of the +propagation of the unfit. Many similar cases of hereditary degeneracy +are recorded in books on eugenics.</p> + +<p>Such a eugenic record as that of this Kallikak family should be +reviewed in every high school and college in connection with the topic +"heredity" in a course of biology, for it will teach two important +lessons: (1) The biological principle that defects, both physical and +mental, are highly heritable, even for many generations; and (2) the +ethical responsibility for the sex actions of the individual who may +start a long train of human disaster that may visit the children unto +even later than the third and fourth generations. The first lesson is a +purely biological one which suggests the eugenic argument that +defective humans, like undesirable animals and plants, should not take +part in the perpetuation of the species. The second lesson is not +biological but ethical, suggesting individual responsibility for +conduct which may disastrously affect other individuals' lives. It +seems to me that so far as general education is concerned, the ethical +lesson is the more impressive and more likely to <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_105" id="Page_105">[105]</a></span>lead to voluntary +eugenic practice by individuals. It is my observation that even many +intelligent people are not seriously impressed by the biological +evidences for eugenics considered as a general problem, but their +reaction is one of interest when one begins to present the question of +ethical responsibility for the transmission of physical and mental +defects to future generations. Such considerations have led me to the +view, already suggested, that eugenic studies in courses of biology +have their greatest practical value in their ethical implications, +which, of course, by influencing individual responsibility for +reproduction may lead to the desirable biological improvement of the +human race. Teachers of biology should present, as an economic problem, +the facts which will make better breeds of plants and animals by direct +application of the biological laws of heredity; but they should present +and apply parallel facts to human life in order to influence first of +all individual responsibility for ethical control of reproductive +activity, and thus indirectly work eugenically for an improved human +race.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Aim of eugenics.</div> + +<p>Thus the aim of eugenics is most likely to be attained through ethical +rather than biological application of the teaching which our schools +can give. The men and women who view life selfishly with no feelings of +ethical responsibility towards others of the present or future will +take no practical interest in the biological problems of human +eugenics, although the economic problems of plant and animal breeding +may interest some of these same people.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Education and other aspects of sex problems.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_106" id="Page_106">[106]</a></span>In addition to the ethical-social bearings of biological teaching, our +sex-education will be incomplete until we learn how to attack the sex +problems directly and effectively with reference to the ethical, +social, psychical, and æsthetic aspects. Perhaps we may be able to do +this only with mature people; probably it is too much to hope that even +a serious impression will be made on all intelligent people; but +somehow sex-education must be completed by adequate presentation of +these aspects, for the problems of sex are satisfactorily solved only +in the lives of those fortunate individuals whose vision of the +relation of sex and life combines the viewpoints of biology, hygiene, +psychology, ethics, religion, and last—but far from least—æsthetics.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Only essential knowledge of social diseases.</div> + +<p>Finally, the educational application of the fourth aim demands some +explanation. Sometime in the adolescent period all young people should +learn the essential facts regarding the two social diseases and their +relation to immoral living. There is the widespread impression that +those advocating sex-education believe in giving great prominence to +the social diseases; but in opposition to this I cite the report of a +committee of the American Federation for Sex Hygiene, published in the +<i>Journal of the Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis</i>, January, +1913, and later reprinted as a pamphlet by the American Social Hygiene +Association. In that report there are <i>twenty-three</i> recommendations +concerning <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_107" id="Page_107">[107]</a></span>sex-instruction; but <i>only</i> one mentions social diseases +and in these words: "During the later period of adolescence ... there +should be given ... special instruction as to the character and dangers +of the venereal diseases." That seems sufficient. It is not desirable +that young people should review the horrible facts relating to +perverted sexuality. Ten or twenty brief and authoritative statements +quoted impressively from medical and social literature ought to give +fair warning of lurking dangers in immoral living. More extensive +information has often proved dangerous. I would gladly advocate that +this dark side of life be kept in sealed books if I did not know that +so many young people need forewarning and definite guidance. Our +educational system will not do its full duty if it fails to offer the +needed help so that it may be obtained by all adolescent young people +who are not so fortunate as to be guided by parents and other personal +teachers.</p> + +<br /> +<hr style="width: 15%;" /> +<br /> + +<h4>FOOTNOTES:</h4> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_12_12" id="Footnote_12_12"></a><a href="#FNanchor_12_12"><span class="label">[12]</span></a> To avoid misunderstanding, let me repeat from the first +lecture that I am constantly thinking of sex-education in the larger +sense; and instruction in schools can be, at best, only a part.</p></div> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<a name="IV" id="IV"></a><hr /> +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_108" id="Page_108">[108]</a></span><br /> + +<h2>IV</h2> + +<h3 class="sc">The Teacher of Sex-knowledge<span class="totoc"><a href="#toc">ToC</a></span></h3> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 18. <i>Who Should Give Sex-instruction?</i></p> + +<p>A large number of people have been convinced that young people need +knowledge which will help them face the great problems of sex; but they +withhold their approval of the sex-education movement because they are +not satisfied that proper teachers exist. It is, therefore, evident +that we cannot make permanent progress by emphasizing the need of +sex-education unless we can give assurance that qualified teachers are +available.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">The teacher most important.</div> + +<p>The situation as regards teachers of sex-instruction is very different +from that of all other subjects concerning which young people should be +taught. We cannot safely plan the teaching regarding sex until we know +the teacher. This will be evident, I think, after some general +considerations concerning selection of teachers and some discussion of +problems such as the first teacher, teachers for classes, and some +undesirable teachers. The general rule should be, first, find the safe +and sure teacher and, second, select the facts and plan the lessons +that the chosen teacher may give effectively.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Teachers of same sex for children.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_109" id="Page_109">[109]</a></span>So far as young children are concerned, the needed instruction is so +general in character that the sex of the competent teacher is of little +importance, but the information that ought to prepare for and guide +through the mazes of adolescent youth should come to young people from +teachers of the same sex. If exceptions must be made rather than omit +instruction altogether, some very mature women may safely guide both +boys and girls through adolescence; but men, even physicians, should +not undertake instruction of adolescent young women, unless parents and +other mature people are present to help with attitude. That women may +well instruct boys I know, because the most impressive sex lecture I +ever heard was given by the late Dr. Mary Wood-Allen to the boys of the +freshman class when I was a college student. But note that I have said +"some very mature women." The fact is that I fear danger for some boys +if they are frankly instructed by attractive young women who are only +ten to fifteen years older than their pupils. Hence, I urge great +caution if there must be any exceptions to the general rule that +teachers and pupils should be of the same sex.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Coeducational classes.</div> + +<p>I realize the difficulty of applying this rule in many high schools +where the foundations of sex-education are well laid on the biological +basis. There is no reason why the biological studies should not be +coeducational through nature-study and biology as far as the +development of frogs and birds and, in a general <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_110" id="Page_110">[110]</a></span>way, of mammals. In +fact, both of my textbooks, the "Applied Biology" and the "Introduction +to Biology," which emphasize reproduction of organisms more than other +high-school books, have been used throughout in coeducational classes. +However, these books stop where the problems of human life begin and +should be supplemented by lessons for sex-limited classes. There are +writers who suggest that segregation of the sexes for teaching +concerning human life may be at present a necessity because complete +frankness on sexual questions is certainly obstructed by tradition; but +we must not ignore the deep social reasons why, in general, there must +be maintained a certain amount of reserve between the sexes in the +consideration of some important problems of life. No educational theory +or practice can possibly alter the fundamental physical or psychical +relations of the sexes which nature seems to have fixed immutably.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Married women as teachers.</div> + +<p>One other point that deserves attention in this connection is the +common statement that only married women, preferably mothers, can be +competent instructors of young women. This strikes me as more than +absurd. Personal experience is not always necessary for teaching in any +line. The greatest medical teachers have not had the diseases they +describe so clearly. The best elementary teachers and specialists on +the care of children are not always mothers; on the contrary, some of +these are men. <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_111" id="Page_111">[111]</a></span>The fact is that these teachers have learned, not from +personal experience, but from the great accumulations of scientific +knowledge of medicine, hygiene, and education. There is an abundance of +such knowledge relating to sex that may be clearly understood by bright +women who have no bi-personal knowledge of sex. Therefore, I believe +that it is nonsense to insist that only women with complete sexual +experiences can be efficient guides for other women.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 19. <i>The Child's First Teachers of Sex-knowledge</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Mothers and other first teachers.</div> + +<p>The first instruction which may begin to lay the foundation for the +individual's sex-education should be given in early childhood by +parents, or by other adults, who happen to be on the most intimate +personal terms with the child. Usually this means the mother; but there +are numerous cases of teachers, governesses, grandmothers, and even +fathers who have greater personal influence with certain children than +their mothers have. The essential point is that the child should be +instructed only by an adult who can exert the greatest personal +influence.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Mothers and adolescent boys.</div> + +<p>Many parents who believe in sex-education for their children hold that +the mothers should give all necessary hygienic guidance and teach the +elementary facts of life to the children of both sexes in the +pre-adolescent years, but that with the dawn of adolescence the girls +should continue to be instructed by their mothers, while the boys +should be guided by their <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_112" id="Page_112">[112]</a></span>fathers. So far as girls are concerned, this +seems to be a fairly good plan; but nine times out of ten it is not +best for the boys for several reasons: First, the sudden change of +attitude on the part of the mother will surely impress upon the boy +that there is something about sex in boys that even his mother dares +not talk over with him. At about this same time when the mother begins +to avoid the sex question with her boy, he will surely begin to get +vulgar information and impressions from his boy companions. He will in +all probability begin to hear the impure and obscene stories and vulgar +language that are so common among many men and boys, and he will be +sure to learn that the vulgarity which he hears must not be repeated in +the presence of his mother and sisters. It is a most critical time in +the mental attitude of the boy. His mother has so far been directing +him towards purity and then suddenly sets him adrift. If there is ever +a time in a boy's life when he needs intimacy with his mother, it is in +the early adolescent years of twelve to fourteen. A strong mother's +heart to heart guidance at that time will influence the boy more than +all the sex-education which the schools and colleges combined can ever +hope to offer. Such is the problem of home teaching for adolescent +boys. I emphatically protest against the foolish and even dangerous +idea that because a boy is beginning to metamorphose into a man his +mother should cease to help him with the problems of sex. Lucky is that +adolescent boy whose mother realizes her duty <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_113" id="Page_113">[113]</a></span>and her opportunity and +holds him as intimately as if he were a girl of corresponding age.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 20. <i>Selecting Teachers for Class Instruction</i></p> + +<p>The references to "the teacher" in the following are primarily +applicable to those who may be called upon to give sex-instruction as +class work in schools, colleges, churches, the Y.M.C.A., the Y.W.C.A., +and other educational organizations.</p> + +<p>The chief question for discussion in this lecture is that of selecting +the teacher of those phases of sex-instruction that are directly +related to human life, that is, personal sex-hygiene and sex-ethics. So +far as biological facts of sex are concerned, there are no special +problems such as may not be handled by teachers of biology in general +according to the accepted methods (see Lloyd and Bigelow, "Teaching of +Biology in the Secondary School" and Bigelow, "Teacher's Manual of +Biology").</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Regular teachers if possible.</div> + +<p>As already suggested, a large part of the sex-instruction is simply an +extension of biological science, hygiene, and ethics; and in secondary +schools and colleges should be given by selected teachers of the +regular staff and whenever possible as a part of regular courses. There +may be some necessary modifications to this plan; for example, in +Teachers College the course on sex-education and another series of +lectures on sex-physiology and hygiene for women are open to students +who do not take the biology courses in which the sex-instruction +logically belongs.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex-hygiene and ethics.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_114" id="Page_114">[114]</a></span>The culminating stages of any complete scheme for formal sex-education +of young people will be sex-hygiene considered in its strict sense as +that special phase of sex-education which deals with problems of +health, and sex-ethics which determines the responsibility of +individuals for control of sexual instincts. While nature-study and +biology and general hygiene may be organized so as to present the major +portion of the facts which should be included in a complete scheme of +sex-instruction in schools and colleges, the application of these facts +to personal life is the most difficult problem of sex-education. In +fact, it is the only real problem, for long before sex-education became +a definite movement the most efficient science teachers were presenting +the fundamental facts on which we now propose to build with certain +hygienic and ethic instruction which directly touches the personal life +of the student. As already said, the human application will require +only a few lessons, preferably in connection with nature-study, +biology, ethics, or hygiene. But although brief, such instruction is +the keystone in the arch of sex-education, and it is very important +that there be no serious mistakes in selecting the teachers.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex specialists not desirable.</div> + +<p>I have mentioned special teachers as necessary for instruction with +direct reference to specialists human life. I hasten to add that I +still agree with the report of the special committee (Morrow, <i>et al.</i>) +of the American Federation for Sex Hygiene that it is not desirable +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_115" id="Page_115">[115]</a></span>that any teacher should make a specialty of this type of instruction +and of no other. We do not want "sex specialists" in the schools (see +pp. 10 and 20-23 of the Report of the Committee). It is important that +all teachers should have general information regarding the sex problems +of young people in order to be able to help individual pupils.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 21. <i>Certain Undesirable Teachers for Special Hygienic and Ethical +Instruction</i></p> + +<p>It will be most helpful if we consider the problem of selecting +teachers with a view to rejecting those who certainly should not +undertake the special hygienic and ethical teaching, for teachers who +are good in other subjects and who are fortunately free from certain +disqualifications discussed in the following, may by means of study +adapt themselves for the final and most important stages of +sex-education.</p> + +<p>There are five types of teachers who should be regarded as disqualified +for teaching personal sex-hygiene and sex-ethics.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Embarrassed teachers.</div> + +<p>First, those men and women who are unable to speak of sex-hygiene as +calmly and seriously as they do of any other phase of hygiene had +better not undertake the instruction of young people. There are many +such men and women among teachers who, so far as scientific training is +concerned, ought to be good teachers of sex-hygiene. As an illustration +of this attitude that leaves the wrong impression <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_116" id="Page_116">[116]</a></span>with students, it is +reported that a good teacher of hygiene recently prefaced a brief talk +to college girls as follows: "I shall now consider a process that no +cultured woman ever mentions except with bated breath. I refer to +menstruation."</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Abnormal teachers.</div> + +<p>The second kind of people who should not teach sex-hygiene are the men +and women who are the unfortunate victims of sexual abnormality, either +physical or psychical, that more or less influences their outlook on +life. Certain neurotic and hysterical men or women who lack thorough +physiological training and whose own sexual disturbances have led them +to devour omnivorously and unscientifically the psychopathological +literature of sex by such authors as Havelock Ellis, Krafft-Ebing, and +Freud, are probably unsafe teachers of sex-hygiene. Especially is this +true of the women of this type whose introspective morbidity has led +them to diagnose their own functional disturbances as the direct result +of "over-sexuality" and restraint from normal sexual expression—a +diagnosis that is probably wrong nine times in ten cases. Such a woman +is a very dangerous teacher of sex-hygiene for adolescent girls; and a +positive menace to older unmarried women who, if free from absorbing +work, may spend their leisure in becoming more or less restless under +the unsocial, if not unphysiologic, conditions of unwelcome celibacy. +This is no imaginary danger. The reader of this will not be interested +in details, but the author has received from physicians and others +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_117" id="Page_117">[117]</a></span>reliable information concerning several extremely abnormal women of the +above-described type who are taking an active interest in the +sex-instruction of young people and are actually suggesting to their +friends among young women the dangerous and untrue doctrine that +prolonged celibacy for women results in repressed sexuality that surely +leads to ill health. Such ideas, it is true, are traceable to certain +well-known radical writers on the psychopathology of sex; but we must +remember that the great majority of physicians and other scientific +investigators who have studied such problems refuse to believe that +repressed sex instincts in either men or women do the harm that a few +extremists have claimed. But even if it were known beyond the shadow of +a doubt that repressed sex instincts may injure people, it would be +unwise to intrust young people to instruction by teachers who have a +hypochondriacal interest in such a doctrine of repression. Such +suggestions can do only harm to the vast majority of persons who +receive them. To say the least, it is unfortunate that the +psychopathology of sex has become so widely circulated among those who +are not well trained in physiology and psychiatry.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Teachers who emphasize sexual abnormality.</div> + +<p>The third kind of people who should not be intrusted with teaching +sex-hygiene are the men and women who, without a scientific +perspective, have plunged into the literature of sexual abnormality +until they have come to think that knowledge concerning perverted life +is an important part of <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_118" id="Page_118">[118]</a></span>sex-education for young people, especially for +those of post-adolescent years. I know of teachers and physicians who +advise young people not much over twenty years of age to read such +psychopathological works as those of Krafft-Ebing, Ellis, and Freud, +and various works dealing with commercialized vice. Here is a grave +danger. The less that people without professional use for knowledge of +sexual pathology know concerning it, the better it will be for their +peace of mind and possibly for their morals. Therefore, I urge that he +who enthusiastically studies the abnormalities of sex life without +reference to scientific research or professional demands, is not likely +to be the kind of teacher who will present abnormal life only so far as +is necessary to an understanding of the perfectly normal.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Pessimistic teachers.</div> + +<p>The fourth kind of people who ought not to instruct the young in +personal problems of sex-hygiene are the men and women whose own +unhappy romances or married life, or whose knowledge of vice +conditions, have made them pessimistic concerning sex-problems. There +are in our schools and colleges to-day some such men and many such +women, and there will be danger for young people when the growing +freedom of expression allows these sexual pessimists to impress their +own hopeless philosophy of sex upon students. The educational world +does not need such teachers, but rather those who can follow the late +Dr. Morrow <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_119" id="Page_119">[119]</a></span>in seeing a bright side of life that almost dispels the +darkness of sexual errors.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Teachers not respected by pupils.</div> + +<p>The fifth kind of persons who ought not to teach the personal side of +sex-hygiene are those who cannot command the most serious respect of +their pupils. This applies especially to many men teachers whose +flippant attitude and even questionable living are not likely to help +their pupils, especially boys, towards a satisfactory interpretation of +sex problems. Of course, such teachers ought not be in schools at all, +but the fact is that for various reasons they sometimes get there and +stay there; and so they must be weighed by the school official who +selects the teachers to be intrusted with special problems of +sex-education.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">No instruction without satisfactory teachers.</div> + +<p>Summarizing, I have in this lecture aimed to warn the school +administrator, and others who must select teachers of classes, against +the kinds of teachers who ought not be chosen for presenting the +special problems of sex-education, especially those of sex-hygiene and +sex-ethics. I have pointed out that there are five serious +disqualifications; and it is probable that if strictly applied when +choosing teachers for special sex-instruction, there will be +elimination of three or four in every ten of those whose training in +science might be expected to qualify them as teachers of this special +line. It is a fair question as to what a school or other institution +should do if it has no teachers who are free from the above +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_120" id="Page_120">[120]</a></span>disqualifications. My own belief is that it is better to get an +outsider for the handling of the special problems. If this is +impracticable, then suggest to the students that they read certain +books such as are recommended in the last sections of this book. Even +entire omission of the study of the personal and social aspects of +sex-hygiene and sex-ethics is far wiser than intrusting a class to a +teacher with one or more of the negative qualifications that we have +been considering in this lecture. The effect of sex-education upon +individual lives will in no small degree depend upon the impression +made by the living teacher who deals with the difficult problems of sex +in relation to hygiene and ethics. Hence, the greatest care should be +taken when selecting the teacher for this all-important part of the +student's sex-education.</p> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<a name="V" id="V"></a><hr /> +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_121" id="Page_121">[121]</a></span><br /> + +<h2>V</h2> + +<h3 class="sc">Books as Teachers Concerning Sex and Life<span class="totoc"><a href="#toc">ToC</a></span></h3> +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 22. <i>Value and Danger of Special Sex Books for Young People</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Books for private reading.</div> + +<p>There are many parents and teachers who believe that young people +should get their sexual information by private reading, and numerous +books for boys and girls have been prepared to meet such a demand. The +desire for such "private" reading undoubtedly exists, especially in +boys; but this is part of the general air of secrecy and vulgarity that +has enshrouded the truth about sexual matters. Many eminent physicians +agree that there are elements of physical and perhaps moral danger when +a boy reads a sex-science book secretly, but that there are few such +possibilities in frank and scientific teaching by a competent +instructor. This is recognized by leaders in the Y.M.C.A., and they +prefer to read books with the boys in study classes. Many scientific +women think there is no such danger for average girls, but agree that +girls as well as boys will gain in respect for the subject of sex if +the atmosphere of secrecy can be avoided. Hence, <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_122" id="Page_122">[122]</a></span>while books for +private reading are better than ignorance, they alone will not solve +many of the problems at which sex-education is directed. We must cease +to foster the secrecy created by an atmosphere of obscenity, and the +study of sex must be brought into the light of day. Let good books be +recommended through parents and with their approval be issued freely by +libraries and without restrictions which suggest something dark and +wrong. Let parents and teachers encourage such reading, but not as +something requiring secrecy. Rather let such books be read as freely as +any other good books, and let parents and competent teachers follow the +young readers closely so as to explain facts and help develop the +desirable attitude of mind. Especially let parents encourage the idea +that approved sex-science books may be read at the family fireside as +properly as any other books. Above all, let parents and teachers work +in every possible way against the time-worn idea that problems of sex +are essentially vulgar and demand secrecy even in scientific study. We +must have a nobler and healthier outlook on human life than that which +so commonly prevails, and we can never get it by secret study of +sex-science by young people. Such study may do some good by warning +against unhygienic habits and social diseases; but it is certainly +inadequate to give the open-minded attitude needed so much for +appreciating the ethical, social, and æsthetic bearings of human life +as it is influenced by normal sexual functions.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Pamphlets <i>vs.</i> books.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_123" id="Page_123">[123]</a></span>It has been urged by well-known teachers that, for sex-instruction, +pamphlets are better than books in that they do not hold the attention +too long on topics that may be exciting to some young people. On the +other hand, books usually make a stronger appeal, while pamphlets are +likely to be regarded lightly, as are magazines and newspapers. There +is no doubt that most sex books for young people are too extended, and +there is need of condensed forty-and fifty-cent booklets in place of +the books commonly sold at one dollar. Three or four small booklets by +different authors read at widely separated intervals will interest and +influence a young man more than one large and comprehensive book. There +is besides great value in the points of view of various authors.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Better books needed.</div> + +<p>At present there are no thoroughly satisfactory books for adolescent +boys and girls. In my opinion, W.S. Hall's books for boys are the most +reliable, and his "Life Problems" is the best selection of facts for +girls; but some mature readers criticize the style of presentation. +Some other books for adolescent young people are mentioned with +critical notes in the bibliography at the end of this book. There is +still plenty of chance for authors to experiment in writing books of +this class.</p> + +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_124" id="Page_124">[124]</a></span><br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 23. <i>General Literature and Sex Problems</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex in literature.</div> + +<p>In the world's best literature there is much that teaches important +lessons in the field of the larger sex-education. In the guise of love, +sex problems have always held the prominent place in all literature. +Many a great book teaches direct or positive lessons by holding up high +ideals for inspiration and imitation; but some of the most impressive +lessons are in negative form, especially in fiction that deals with the +tragedies of life.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Religious books.</div> + +<p>As examples of literature of direct influence in helping many young +people solve the problems of sex, we think first of that which holds up +high ideals of personal purity, such as the Bible and other religious +books. There is no doubt that such literature has a tremendous +influence on many young people; but it has little influence on others, +probably in part because the somewhat mystical style of most religious +writings is meaningless to many people.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Appeal of poetry.</div> + +<p>It is a fact that many young people who refuse to be interested in +religious literature may be influenced for sexual purity by the +emotional appeal of some general literature. This is especially true of +romantic poetry. I believe that the high "idealism" of love inspired by +Tennyson's "The Princess" and "Idylls of the King," by Longfellow's +"Evangeline" and "The Hanging of the Crane," by some of Shakespeare's +plays, and by other great poetry with similar themes has had <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_125" id="Page_125">[125]</a></span>and will +continue to have greater influence on the attitude and ethics of many +young people than all the formal sex-teaching that can be organized. +Hence, I believe that teachers of literature should be led to take +interest in the larger sex-education to the end that by selection and +interpretation of great masterpieces they may contribute in a valuable +way to the solution of some of the problems that have their center in +the deeper nature of sex.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Importance of interpretation.</div> + +<p>Interpretation of literature by teachers is very important for the +purposes of sex-education of young people. As an example, take +Tennyson's "Idylls of the King," whose movement centers in the life +problems that turn around love. The average reader is likely to miss +the great lessons if the poem is not critically interpreted either by +living teachers or by such critical essays as those by Henry van Dyke +in his "Poetry of Tennyson" and Newell Dwight Hillis in his "Great +Books as Life-Teachers." Without interpretation "The Idylls" may teach +false as well as true lessons of life. Some of the Knights of the Round +Table (Galahad and Percivale) were worthy followers of the good and +pure King Arthur, and some of them (like Lancelot and Tristram and +Merlin) proved unable to live up to the vow of chastity to which Arthur +swore all his knights. And on the part of the ladies of Arthur's court, +there was purity and devotion and true womanhood in Elaine and Enid, +while Guinevere and Ettarre and Vivien were unchaste and faithless. <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_126" id="Page_126">[126]</a></span>In +fact, all phases of the relations of men and women in the struggles and +perplexities of life are pictured; and therefore it is important that a +well-trained teacher should be the guide and interpreter if the "Idylls +of the King" are to be read with the idea of understanding their true +bearings on life, which includes their contribution to the larger +sex-education.</p> + +<p>I have used "The Idylls of the King" as an illustration because they +are so many-sided in sex problems; but much other great literature may +be made to help young people to high ideals of relationships between +men and women. I have emphasized the place of such literature in the +larger sex-education because I have come to believe that interpretation +of life either real or in great literature may have profound influence +in the development of one's philosophy of life. As a matter of +educational procedure insuring that young people will learn to +interpret life, especially those aspects that the larger sex-education +touches so definitely, there appears to be no more natural and +unobtrusive way of approach than that offered by the study of +literature. I am convinced that many teachers of literature may be +efficient workers in the cause of the larger sex-education, +supplementing the scientific teaching in the ethical lines where +science is admittedly weak, if not helpless. It is to be hoped that +numerous teachers will soon grasp this opportunity. If they will study +the sex-education movement in order to get its general bearings <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_127" id="Page_127">[127]</a></span>and +will teach the sex aspect of literature on a basis of high ideals of +life and love, we need have no fear as to the culmination of the +instruction which properly begins with study of the biological facts of +life in its sexual aspects and leads on and on to its climax in the +ethical aspects of the individual's sex life in relation to other +individuals, that is, to society.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Not to be labeled "sex-education."</div> + +<p>I take it for granted that no teacher of literature who contributes to +sex-instruction will let the students know that the emphasis placed on +great life problems is part of a conspiracy of parents and educators to +give in the name of sex-education instruction that will help prepare +the individual for facing the problems. Here, as elsewhere, the young +people had better be left unaware that their elders are so interested +in giving them instruction regarding sex problems that they have +organized, for study of ways and means, a movement known as +sex-education.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex tragedies of fiction.</div> + +<p>The abundant literature that points to the moral to be drawn from +sexual tragedies has doubtless influenced thousands of young people. I +have talked with many educated people who confessed to having been +profoundly influenced by such books as Eliot's "Adam Bede," Hawthorne's +"Scarlet Letter," Goethe's "Faust," Hardy's "Tess of the +d'Urbervilles." One might go on and compile an extensive bibliography, +for fiction of all languages <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_128" id="Page_128">[128]</a></span>of all times is full of the errors into +which insistent sex instincts have drawn men and women who were not +masters of themselves. All standard fiction in which sexual errors and +their penalties are associated may do good as a part of the larger +sex-education, but the teacher should make sure that the young readers +arrive at the correct interpretation.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Fiction without a moral.</div> + +<p>Against that type of fiction which presents sex problems that do not +clearly "point a moral," the average so-called "problem novel" of +recent time, there should be general opposition by workers for the +larger sex-education. Many of the modern novels and magazine stories +seem to introduce sexual situations for the same reason that Boccaccio +did in some of his tales, namely, the attractiveness of lasciviousness. +Unlike the commendable novels, it is characteristic of the equivocal +ones that no penalty is demanded or paid and no moral conclusion is +suggested. In fact, the way is very often left open to an immoral +interpretation. All such literature certainly tends to work against the +aims of sex-education. Perhaps parents and teachers may coöperate to +keep much of this kind of literature out of the hands of young people, +but the safest procedure is in cultivating taste for literature that +does teach helpful lessons of life. If young people do read books and +magazines that seem to stand for uncertain morals, it is best that +parents and teachers should point out the moral interpretations.</p> + +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_129" id="Page_129">[129]</a></span><br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 24. <i>Dangers in Literature on Abnormal Sexuality</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Danger in present interests in the abnormal.</div> + +<p>The opinion is spreading among those who are studying the educational +problems relating to sex that there is great danger, even for many +adults, in much of the literature describing psychopathological and +abnormal social-sexual facts. There are enormous quantities of such +literature, particularly concerning the social evil. It is extremely +doubtful whether the reader who is not directly engaged in medicine, +psychiatry, or social reform will profit by filling his mind with facts +from the darkest side of life. No doubt it is important that all +intelligent men and women should know enough about sexual immorality +and the life of the underworld so that they will realize the necessity +of protecting young people from vice in all its forms; but this does +not mean that everybody should read extensively in the mass of printed +matter that sets forth the most awful details concerning human +depravity. There is a real danger in this line. The sex-education +movement has already brought the problems of sex out of the old-time +secrecy, and no other topics of the times are so freely read and +discussed. This might be well if the reading and discussion always took +constructive lines leading towards improvement of sexual relationships; +but unfortunately, much of the present popular interest in sexual +problems seems to be a morbid craving for the abnormal. We find this +tendency in the demand for <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_130" id="Page_130">[130]</a></span>a certain type of sex-problem novels, we +see it frequently on the stage and in motion pictures, and we hear it +in general conversation. The advertised suggestion of sexual immorality +in a forthcoming serial novel often raises surprisingly the circulation +of certain magazines. A few hints of sexual irregularity in certain +plays have brought crowded audiences. A scandalous divorce case, +reported as freely as the law allows, is a choice morsel for average +readers of newspapers. Everywhere it is the sexual abnormality, +perversity, and even bestial vulgarity, that seems to attract the most +attention. Books and magazines and theaters and preachers who extol the +normal and bright side of sex-life are not now extremely popular with +the masses of people. As a well-known magazine recently summarized the +present situation, "it has struck sex o'clock in America." There is no +denying the fact that in recent years the popular interest in sex +problems has taken a dangerous turn. It is time for those who are +active in the sex-education movement to note the signs of the times, +for an effective educational scheme for young people must take into +account the present tendency towards a dangerous interest in literature +relating to sexual abnormality, especially immorality. All this +tendency towards interest in the abnormal or irregular sexual problems +must cause not a little worry to those whose interest is primarily in +securing widespread recognition of the advantages of normal and moral +living.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Need of interest in normal sex life.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_131" id="Page_131">[131]</a></span>Perhaps those who are seriously interested in sex-education may help +stem the tide towards interest in sexual abnormality by using greater +care in the selection of literature, both for young people and for +their elders. I recently met a superintendent of schools who had +carefully read certain large volumes on the medical, psychical, and +social abnormalities of sex, and many books and pamphlets on the social +evil. Altogether he had read more than five thousand pages on the +immoral and abnormal aspects of sex. He wanted to know where he might +find a book on the normal side of sex in its physiological, +psychological, and ethical aspects. Unfortunately, there is no such +treatise by an author whose scientific standing equals that of several +of those who have written extensively on the abnormal side; and +probably this is in part the reason why so many young men and women are +now molding their ideas of sexual life according to the patterns +described by the authors of works on social and sexual pathology. Not a +month passes in which I am not astounded to find men and women who have +plunged deeply into studies of sexual vice and pathology and who know +less of the normal biology of sex than is contained in such books as +W.S. Hall's "Sexual Knowledge" or the last chapter of Martin's "Human +Body, Advanced Course." This is indeed a strange situation, and we +might compare it with reading extensive works on insanity before +learning the elements of normal <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_132" id="Page_132">[132]</a></span>psychology. It is certainly a useless, +if not a dangerous line of approach to the information concerning sex +which intelligent people need. The leaders in the sex-education +movement will do well to promote the circulation of some brief and +authoritative statement of the chief facts relating to the problems of +abnormal sexual life and then to discourage the popular circulation of +the extensive works which only certain physicians and social reformers +need. I know that there is some difference of opinion as to the effect +of such literature. I know many prominent educators and physicians who +would keep the extensive works on the psychopathology of sex out of the +hands of all general readers; but I also know a few who see no +possibility of danger in widespread circulation of such books.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Limited knowledge of the abnormal.</div> + +<p>Looking at all sides of the present situation, it is my personal +conclusion that every one should learn first the scientific facts +regarding normal processes connected with the sexual system; and then +for the general reader there should be only a limited amount of warning +knowledge regarding the dangers of sexual abnormalities.</p> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<a name="VI" id="VI"></a><hr /> +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_133" id="Page_133">[133]</a></span><br /> + +<h2>VI</h2> + +<h3 class="sc">Sex-instruction for Pre-adolescent Years<span class="totoc"><a href="#toc">ToC</a></span></h3> + +<br /> + +<div class="sidenote">Periods of early life.</div> + +<p>In § 8 of the Report of the Committee of Three of the American +Federation for Sex-hygiene, by Morrow and others, the life of the child +was divided into four periods, namely,—under six years, from six to +twelve, twelve to sixteen, sixteen to maturity. This division now seems +to me to be too arbitrary, and I have come to believe that it is more +helpful to consider sex-instruction for three periods as follows: +pre-adolescence (ending at eleven to fourteen years); early adolescence +(twelve to sixteen years for girls, thirteen to seventeen for boys); +later adolescence (sixteen to twenty-one for girls, eighteen to +twenty-five for boys).</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 25. <i>Elementary Instruction and Influence</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Nature-study.</div> + +<p>The life-histories of plants and animals as taught in the best +nature-study<a name="FNanchor_13_13" id="FNanchor_13_13"></a><a href="#Footnote_13_13" class="fnanchor">[13]</a> are important in forming attitude towards reproduction +and giving a basis for simple and truthful answers to the child's +questions as to the origin of the <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_134" id="Page_134">[134]</a></span>individual human life. The +publications listed in the last section of this book under the headings +"For Girls" and "For Boys" will help parents and teachers.</p> + +<p>There is need of little private hygienic instruction, but of much +guidance away from harmful habits. This will be indicated in the next +section which considers masturbation as it concerns children of both +sexes and all ages.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Protection.</div> + +<p>The protection of children from corrupting influences is an important +work of sex-education in pre-adolescent years. Probably the greatest +safety lies in parents giving simple facts regarding reproduction and +in cultivating confidence so that any accidental contact of their +children with vulgarity will be counteracted in advance. Many parents, +especially mothers, have found this possible.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Girls' preparation for puberty.</div> + +<p>In the years between ten and twelve every child should learn from a +parent or other adult confidant some general facts regarding their +approaching puberty. This is especially important in the case of girls, +for many a girl has been physically and mentally injured because a +prudish mother has procrastinated too long the giving of information +regarding the first menstrual period. The facts in the first thirty +pages of W.S. Hall's "Life Problems" should be known by many girls of +eleven and by the great majority before thirteen. Some books for young +girls are defective in that they avoid reference to <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_135" id="Page_135">[135]</a></span>the coming +changes. I see no excuse for a sex-hygiene book for girls who are too +young to be trusted with the simplest knowledge regarding menstruation. +Such children should be interested in nature studies and perhaps the +elements of general hygiene, but certainly not in books with +curiosity-stimulating titles.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Special needs of boys.</div> + +<p>Since boys entering puberty pass through no such sharply defined +beginning as girls do, the information they need in advance is not so +specific. At the same time, we must recognize that the average boy +under twelve years picks up more information regarding sexual life than +a girl does, and so the problem of teaching self-control comes earlier, +although the average girl enters puberty a year or two before the boy. +Parents and teachers must recognize the fact that sexual tendencies +come to many boys several years before puberty, and masturbation and +even premature sexual intercourse are possible problems with many boys +long before the twelfth year. The boy's early gathering of sexual +information is not without advantage, for it becomes possible for +parents and other adult confidants to explain many important truths as +to the proper use of his sex organs and as to his conduct towards +girls. All this can be done with the average boy of eleven or twelve +and with hundreds of even nine and ten without any fear of giving +information that is startlingly new and without any danger of giving a +nervous shock.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Cautious teaching of girls.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_136" id="Page_136">[136]</a></span>It is not so with average girls of equal ages, if we may accept the +opinion of many women who are trained in science and medicine. Specific +information as to the functional relationships of the two sexes is said +by many educated women to have been absolutely new and startling to +them at twenty and twenty-five years. Evidently there is a special +reason for gradual and cautious teaching of girls, and so it is +probably best, as many parents urge, that in pre-adolescent years the +girl's instruction in social-sexual lines be training in modest +deportment and a proper reserve towards boys. This ought to be +sufficient for the girl's protection until gradually in adolescent +years she learns the whole story of life, probably several years later +than her boy friends whose natural leadership in sexual activity makes +their early information desirable as a protection to both sexes.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Children's friendships.</div> + +<p>In the pre-adolescent years parents and teachers should coöperate in +developing a spirit of group fellowship between boys and girls and at +the same time instill into the boys something of that chivalrous and +protective attitude of boys towards girls such as one finds in the +families of the highest culture. I emphatically mean "group +fellowship," for it is certainly undesirable to encourage in +pre-adolescents any tendency towards paired comradeship. It is +certainly best that boys and girls should have many good friends of +both sexes. The real truth back of the old adage "two is company and +three is a crowd" <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_137" id="Page_137">[137]</a></span>makes the "crowd" highly desirable for both +pre-adolescence and early adolescence, for in these years it is +friendship and not romantic love that will be most helpful in the later +life. As one step in this direction, all sensible adults should show +their disfavor to the abominable habit of teasing small children +concerning their best friends of the other sex. Parents and teachers +will do some of the best work in the larger sex-education if they begin +in pre-adolescent years to develop the social life of the children +along lines similar to those suggested above.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Summary.</div> + +<p>Summarizing, it is evident that there is very little direct +sex-instruction suitable for pre-adolescent years. So far as the +child's own life is concerned, it now seems clear that parents or other +adult confidants must instruct individuals, or possibly small uniformly +selected groups. Class instruction seems out of the question except for +life-history studies of animals and plants. On the whole, then, there +is nothing radical or impossible in the proposition that there should +be a beginning of sex-education before the advent of adolescence.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 26. <i>Hygienic and Educational Treatment of Unhealthful Habits</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Problems of children.</div> + +<p>All adults should take a sane and scientific view of the sex problems +that are likely to come even to normal children. We must remember that +they are born with sexual mechanisms that may easily and automatically +lead into harmful habits unless parents and teachers guide +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_138" id="Page_138">[138]</a></span>hygienically and mentally along the lines that are known to offer +safety.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Masturbation.</div> + +<p>Concerning habitual manipulation of the sexual organs of either sex, +known in medical literature as masturbation or self-abuse (often +erroneously called "onanism"), there are certain facts that are +important for the guidance of all parents and teachers. I discuss it in +this connection since the problem often arises in the later years of +the pre-adolescent period.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Does not indicate degeneracy.</div> + +<p>It is absurd to suppose that the tendency towards the habit means +degeneracy or innate viciousness of children. Young horses, dogs, +monkeys, and other animals sometimes form a similar habit, the stimulus +being some irritation of the sexual organs. Hence, it is not at all +unnatural when children attempt to relieve their irritated organs by +friction, and then it is inevitable that the sensitive nerve endings +will give sensations that are more or less pleasurable and satisfying, +depending upon the sex, age, and emotional peculiarity of the +individual child. This fact suggests to parents and teachers the +methods of prophylaxis; namely, avoid (1) irritation of sexual organs +and (2) opportunity for manipulation.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Irritation.</div> + +<div class="sidenote">Circumcision.</div> + +<p>With regard to irritation, the first sign of such disturbance may +appear in babyhood. In the case of boys, whose structure renders them +vastly more liable than girls to external irritation, the family +physician should make sure during infancy whether circumcision <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_139" id="Page_139">[139]</a></span>or a +stretching of the prepuce (foreskin) may be desirable. According to Dr. +Emmet Holt, the eminent pediatrician, about one male baby in four or +five is born with an elongated or tight prepuce that needs surgical +attention. A corresponding abnormality of the clitoris is sometimes +found in baby girls. Some radical surgeons advocate universal +circumcision of boys because they believe that it reduces local +irritation, favors cleanliness, tends to prevent masturbation, and +reduces susceptibility to the venereal diseases. There is certainly +some truth in these claims; but some conservative surgeons point out +that for the great majority of boys all these advantages may be +obtained by reasonable attention to hygienic habits, that orthodox +Jewish and other circumcised boys are by no means free from harmful +habits, that some boys are more irritable after circumcision, that +preputial stretching is often a good substitute for circumcision, and +that the taunts of other boys often make circumcised boys too conscious +of their own mutilation. A scientific doctor who has no special +financial interest in the increase of surgical operations and who +carefully reviews both the radical and conservative literature relating +to circumcision, will not hasten to submit boys to this operation until +it is certain that their sexual organs happen to have congenital +deformity that only radical surgical treatment can correct.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Hygienic rules.</div> + +<p>In addition to making sure that uncleanliness or structural abnormality +are not responsible for <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_140" id="Page_140">[140]</a></span>irritation of sex organs, there are some +special hygienic rules useful for parents and teachers who have charge +of children. Most important is avoidance of habit formation. Clothing +should be well adjusted to avoid pressure and friction of the sexual +organs, and so constructed (especially night clothing) that it is not +convenient for the hands to reach the organs. Normal boys require +pockets, but they should open at the waist-band and not at the side of +the hips. The reason for these suggestions is evident. When we recall +that little children naturally tend to explore themselves, such as by +putting fingers into the mouth, feeling their toes, inserting foreign +objects into nose and ears, and when we also recall how quickly a child +may learn the habit of sucking its thumb, we must realize the +importance of guarding the child from extending such activities to its +sexual organs, which, because they possess the most sensitive nerve +endings in the body, are most liable to lead to habitual manipulation. +In the light of such facts, it is nonsense to assume, as so many good +mothers have done, that only innately vicious children learn +masturbation. The truth is that in the case of most children under +twelve this habit has an origin no more vicious than such habits as +thumb-sucking; and in all cases of habits, parents and others +responsible for the children should be given the blame.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Other suggestions for parents.</div> + +<p>The following suggestions in addition to those above are likely to help +parents do much <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_141" id="Page_141">[141]</a></span>towards avoiding or solving the early sex problems of +their children. These facts apply also to later years.</p> + +<p>Have children sleep on a hard mattress. The old-time feather bed was +dangerous. There should be light-weight covers, and the room cool. +Children should sleep on either side, <i>rarely</i> in the unnatural back +position. Aim to have regular sleeping hours; but do not send children +to bed unsupervised when they are excited and not tired enough for +immediate sleep. Have them arise as soon as wide awake in the morning. +Never punish children by sending them to bed.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Dangers of privacy.</div> + +<p>Do not leave children to their own devices; they may naturally fall +into dangerous play. Privacy is often demanded by the moods of adults, +but it is dangerous for children. A certain camp for boys has the +commendable rule that the boys have no privacy during the entire +summer. Many educators and physicians condemn private bedrooms or +cubicles in schools for boys.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Athletics.</div> + +<p>A strenuous life of physical and mental activity is the best solution +of personal control of sexual instincts. Reasonable athletics and study +make an ideal combination for both boys and girls. And yet we must not +trust absolutely to athletics or other physical work, for there are +certainly many individuals whose sexual desires are not controlled by +muscular exercise. Much of the formal athletic training may have <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_142" id="Page_142">[142]</a></span>no +more influence on sexual control than dogmatic creeds.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Drugs.</div> + +<p>Strong condiments and alcoholic drinks are known to be sexual excitants +for many people, and for this and other hygienic reasons should be +forbidden to children. There is a widespread, but still undemonstrated +opinion that tea, coffee, tobacco, and strong condiments have an +exciting effect. However, there is plenty of scientific authority, +based on other hygienic grounds, for avoiding these at least during the +years of growth.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Constipation.</div> + +<p>Constipation is likely to cause sexual irritation, and hence this is an +additional reason for submitting children to competent doctors for +treatment of this disturbance which so seriously affects general +health, especially by auto-intoxication.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Bathing.</div> + +<p>Cool bathing in the morning, especially of the sexual organs, is +hygienic, except for girls during the monthly periods (including two +days before the expected menstrual onset). For various reasons, bathing +in very warm water should be very limited, and then only for cleansing.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Form of instruction.</div> + +<p>In hygienic instructions to children, avoid giving them any ideas +concerning the supposed prevalence of the habit of masturbation. There +is a dangerous tendency to follow the crowd. Also, the habit should +never be described to children except as "unnecessary handling of the +sex organs." It is dangerous to suggest to children, as certain books +do, that there is any <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_143" id="Page_143">[143]</a></span>pleasurable sensation resulting from manual +manipulation of the organs, for the force of suggestion or curiosity +has led some children to experiment with themselves until they formed +the habit.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Symptoms.</div> + +<p>There are no absolutely certain signs or symptoms, and those suggested +by certain authors, especially by quack doctors, make young people and +even parents and teachers judge some individuals in an unfortunate way. +Especially should parents and teachers remember that there is +absolutely no scientific basis for supposing that great diffidence, +indigestion, pimples on the face, boys' lack of interest in girls, and +numerous other popular "signs," are indications of the masturbation +habit. Like the symptoms in patent-medicine advertising, the above +"signs" are so general that they are sure to fit some cases.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Insanity.</div> + +<p>Do not tell children the ancient falsehood that insanity will surely +result from handling the sexual organs. It is true that masturbation is +a common habit of certain types of insane people and of some neurotics; +but it is probable that the habit is more often one of several factors +rather than the direct cause of the nervous breakdown. However, it is +scientific to say that the habit may weaken the nervous system and +indirectly affect general health, especially in pre-adolescent and +early adolescent years. Probably the greatest nervous damage comes +because there is often greater excess than is possible in natural +sexual relations; the strain of all sexual excess is <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_144" id="Page_144">[144]</a></span>more in loss of +nervous energy than of secretions. The safest advice one can give +children is that the doctors agree that unnecessary touching of sexual +organs has interfered with the health of many children and that those +who avoid this are most likely to grow up strong in body and mind. This +is the truth and practically the whole of the known truth that might +have influence with young people.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Mental habit.</div> + +<p>Mental masturbation or "day dreaming" concerning sexual functions is +probably more harmful than mechanical manipulation. It is believed to +be more common in young women than in men. However, there is little +reliable evidence as to the prevalence of the habit. As an educational +problem, there is nothing to be done beyond informing all adolescent +young people that allowing their minds to dwell on sexual affairs may +interfere with nervous health, scholarship, and future efficiency in +life. Hard mental and physical work and strenuous play as a daily +routine will avoid or solve most such difficulties of young people.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Not hopeless.</div> + +<p>In all dealing with this problem of young people, we must beware of +overemphasis or exaggeration. Parents and teachers should do all +possible to prevent and cure the habit; but there is still hope for +most young people who, in spite of warning, occasionally lapse into +their old habits. Both men and women of this type have led their +classes through college and won success afterwards. Probably they would +have done still <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_145" id="Page_145">[145]</a></span>better if entirely free from the habit. On the other +hand, men and women of neurotic inheritance combined with the habit +have suffered nervous collapse during college years; and it is +scientific to assume that the additional nervous strain produced by +masturbation was a contributing factor. Evidently, we dare make no +definite prophecy as to what will happen to one who in early life forms +the habit of masturbation. There is no excuse for excessive alarm in +any ordinary case; but, as we have seen, there are good reasons why +parents and teachers should calmly and yet firmly help young people +avoid unnatural sexual activity.</p> + +<p>To those who must consider the problem of masturbation in boarding +schools, I recommend Hime's "Schoolboys' Special Immorality."</p> + +<br /> +<hr style="width: 15%;" /> +<br /> + +<h4>FOOTNOTES:</h4> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_13_13" id="Footnote_13_13"></a><a href="#FNanchor_13_13"><span class="label">[13]</span></a> See books on nature-study, <i>e.g.</i>, Holtz's +"Nature-Study," Hodge's "Nature-Study and Life," Comstock's "Handbook +of Nature-Study." Morley's "Renewal of Life," March's "Towards Racial +Health," and Hall's "The Doctor's Daughter" suggest the main lines of +the nature-study approach to sex-education.</p></div> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<a name="VII" id="VII"></a><hr /> +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_146" id="Page_146">[146]</a></span><br /> + +<h2>VII</h2> + +<h3 class="sc">Sex-instruction for Early Adolescent Years<span class="totoc"><a href="#toc">ToC</a></span></h3> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 27. <i>The Biological Foundations</i></p> + +<p>In discussing instruction for the pre-adolescent years I have stressed +biological nature-study as important for the purpose of giving general +knowledge of how new living things come into the world. This will +develop a good attitude concerning the origin of the individual human +life. In this lecture I wish to direct attention to the scientific +facts which are foundations for the sexual knowledge that is important +for other phases of sex-instruction during early or late adolescence.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Biological foundations.</div> + +<p>I believe that the best introduction to advanced sex-instruction is +through biological ideas which may be presented in popular lectures and +books; but, of course, will be best taught in courses of biological +science. My own view as to the selection of materials for such +biological studies is expressed in the sections on reproduction +connected with the account of each animal or plant type in the "Applied +Biology" and in the last chapter of the "Introduction to Biology."<a name="FNanchor_14_14" id="FNanchor_14_14"></a><a href="#Footnote_14_14" class="fnanchor">[14]</a> +In these books the study of life-histories of plants and animals leads +up through vertebrates to mammals, <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_147" id="Page_147">[147]</a></span>and there are a few remarks +suggesting that human development is like the mammals.<a name="FNanchor_15_15" id="FNanchor_15_15"></a><a href="#Footnote_15_15" class="fnanchor">[15]</a> At this +point these books should be supplemented by a brief survey of the +essential structure, physiology, and embryology of human reproduction.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Mixed classes.</div> + +<p>Biological studies of human reproduction should not be coeducational in +high schools or the early years of college. Mature college students who +have passed through extensive biological studies, may, without apparent +embarrassment, study human embryology in mixed classes; but after +experience with many such groups I have begun to think that separate +classes are desirable if the course is made to include all the +important facts that college graduates should know concerning human +reproduction. At any rate, there should be special lessons or reading +dealing with detailed information that directly concerns one sex only.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Impersonal approach of biology.</div> + +<p>I certainly do not believe in completely revamping biological science +for the purposes of sex-education. It is better not to "spoil" a course +by overemphasis on sex, for much of the value of biology as a basis for +sex-education is the fact that sex appears gradually and naturally and +far away from human relations. This impersonal approach will be lost if +the course in biology seems to revolve around sex-education, for that +will make sex too prominent.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_148" id="Page_148">[148]</a></span>It is still debatable as to how much should be taught in high schools +or in public lectures concerning the biological facts of human +reproduction. I think that I can make my own views clearer if I discuss +this first for boys, then for girls.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 28. <i>Scientific Facts for Boys</i></p> + +<p>First, it is generally agreed that boys of high-school age may profit +by learning their own sexual structure by means of diagrams such as the +one in Hall's "Sexual Hygiene." There is no harm, and also no gain, in +minute description, especially histological.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Scientific names.</div> + +<p>The chief technical names of the parts of the male organs—testicle +(spermary or testes), sperm duct (vas deferens), scrotum, prostate, +seminal vesicles, penis, glans, prepuce (foreskin), urethra—should be +taught; and the scientific dignity of these words as substitutes for +vulgar words should be emphasized. In dealing with boys and young men I +have noticed that these and other scientific words have a great +influence on their attitude. The scientific names of the sex organs +should be made part of popular vocabulary for the reason that there are +no established common names corresponding to lungs, liver, stomach, +arm, leg, brain, and so on for all prominent organs except the sexual. +These have been left without authoritative names except in scientific +language, and as a result dozens of ordinary words have been vulgarly +applied and unprintable ones invented by <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_149" id="Page_149">[149]</a></span>uneducated people. Such usage +of vulgar terminology is widespread, especially among men and boys. An +editor of schoolbooks recently called my attention to the necessity of +changing some ordinary words in certain books because in some +localities the boys applied the words to sexual organs. Even the little +words "nuts," "stones," "balls" accompanied by the adjective "two" mean +testicles in the widespread vulgar language; and a physician told me +that a college graduate used one of these words the other day when +seeking medical advice concerning her baby. Here is an intolerable +situation that must be improved by establishing in popular usage the +dignified scientific words for the chief sexual organs. We must begin +to do so by teaching the words frankly to boys of adolescent years, and +by persuading parents to teach their children correctly.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex-physiology.</div> + +<p>Having learned the structure and names of their sexual organs, boys may +easily understand the function of each part if explained in simple +language. Ten or twenty minutes ought to be enough time for stating the +important facts. One printed page could state them clearly. Here is the +time for personal hygienic advice, especially such topics as: rules for +self-control; harmful habits (see discussion of masturbation in § 26); +sexual activity not necessary for health; occasional nocturnal +emissions not pathological.<a name="FNanchor_16_16" id="FNanchor_16_16"></a><a href="#Footnote_16_16" class="fnanchor">[16]</a></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Female organs.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_150" id="Page_150">[150]</a></span>I believe it is well for boys of adolescent years to know a few leading +facts regarding female structure and function, but such knowledge is +best learned from oral description by a well-balanced teacher. Diagrams +and (in some schools) a demonstrated dissection of a cat or other +animal will be helpful. The meaning of the ovaries as sources of the +egg-cells and of the uterus as the place for development of the +fertilized egg-cell should be explained in a serious way that will help +boys get some fundamental ideas as to what motherhood means Boys, +moreover, should be informed concerning the existence of the periodic +disturbance in the other sex, for unless they know they are sure at +times to misunderstand their sisters and other girls. Professor W.S. +Hall has stated the essential information in "Chums" (for boys twelve +to sixteen), but his comparison of periodicity in the two sexes is not +strictly accurate, for there are not in men any sexual cycles that are +strictly comparable with the menstrual cycles of women.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">No pictures.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_151" id="Page_151">[151]</a></span>It is probably best, as urged by several writers, that the life-like +illustrations, some of them photographic, in books of human anatomy be +kept away from boys of early adolescent age. Diagrams can be made to +explain all that is necessary, and without the danger of stimulation +that might come from the illustrated medical books.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Embryology.</div> + +<p>The embryological facts of human biology are very impressive to boys +and young men who know little of science. I believe that no other line +of scientific facts is so likely to claim a serious and respectful +attitude. The ideal way for giving a popular glimpse at human +development is with a small series of lantern slides or photographs +from embryological works. Unfortunately, there is no available popular +treatment of the main facts of human development, but teachers trained +in biology can easily glean the facts for the preparation of a short +lecture.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Social diseases.</div> + +<p>Since the venereal diseases are due to micro-organisms, I believe that +they should be introduced in connection with the study of bacteria and +other germs, either in school courses or in popular lectures. Such +instruction should be very brief.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 29. <i>Scientific Facts for Girls</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Girls more innocent.</div> + +<p>I discussed first the problem of selecting scientific facts for boys +because there is little dispute as to the advisability of giving them +as much scientific information as may possibly replace the vulgar +knowledge that the average boy is likely to possess. I know that there +are a <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_152" id="Page_152">[152]</a></span>few men and many women who will disagree with this because they +believe in the absolute ignorance of their boys; but I doubt whether +one healthy adolescent boy in a hundred belongs in the "innocent" +class. So we need not worry much concerning any supposed danger of +treating facts too frankly, provided that they are given a dignified, +scientific setting. In the case of numerous adolescent girls there is +certainly dense ignorance, and so there must be more difficulty in +getting approval of parents and teachers concerning facts proposed for +girls. Often when talking with groups of parents I have heard them say +that they would like to have their boys learn the scientific truth +regarding certain facts, but they feel that it would be too startling +and unnecessary for their daughters. Such is the widespread feeling +which must be seriously considered in all planning of advanced +sex-instruction for girls. No doubt there will be much honest +disagreement with the suggestions here offered.</p> + +<p>The biological introduction based on plants and animals should be the +same as for boys (§ 27).</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Structure and names.</div> + +<p>An adolescent girl of fourteen to sixteen should know the general plan +of her own sexual structure. She should know the scientific names of +her organs, not because there are many vulgar names as in the case of +boys, but because dignified names help attitude. Ovaries, uterus +(womb), vagina, Fallopian tubes, and vulva will be sufficient. Detailed +description of the external <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_153" id="Page_153">[153]</a></span>organs (vulva) might arouse curiosity that +leads to exploration and irritation, and hence many women physicians +think that a girl under sixteen or possibly eighteen needs only the +name vulva for the external parts surrounding the entrance to the +vagina.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">An ancient belief.</div> + +<p>Some books for girls perpetuate the ancient but absurd emphasis on the +virginal significance of the hymen; and a recent book from a prominent +publisher goes so far as to try to frighten girls into remaining chaste +by stating that a physician could discover if they have been unchaste. +This is far from being always true, for the structure may be +congenitally absent, may sometimes remain after sexual union, or may be +accidentally destroyed in childhood; and reliable physicians have +stated that proving unchastity by the hymen is by no means easy. Hence, +the less said about the ancient belief, the better for young women. The +truth is that the hymen is a worse-than-useless relic of embryological +development, and it is neither an indicator nor a dictator of morality.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Physiology of women.</div> + +<p>With regard to the physiology of the female organs, the following +topics should be considered: The meaning of puberty as the beginning of +a long fertile period of about thirty years; the nature of menstruation +as a periodical process preparing the lining of the uterus for +reception and attachment of an embryo if a sperm-cell meets a liberated +egg-cell near an ovary, and not as a season of illness invented by the +powers of <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_154" id="Page_154">[154]</a></span>darkness; the possibility of fertilization following sexual +relations at any time during the fertile life of a woman; the essential +facts of sexual relation as a method of depositing sperm-cells so that +they can swim on the way to meet an egg-cell; and the nature of the +close blood relationship of mother and embryo. These are physiological +topics which many parents would like to have taught to their daughters +of fourteen to eighteen by some careful woman or by some good book.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Social ills.</div> + +<p>With regard to the social diseases and the social evil, I have long +sympathized with the conservatives who hold that extremely limited +knowledge is sufficient for the average girl under eighteen or twenty. +No doubt that many working girls in cities need more protective +knowledge than do school girls of the same age. Hall's "Life Problems" +seems to me to give the important facts.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Habits.</div> + +<p>As in the case of boys of adolescent years, there should be enough +teaching to warn against harmful habits. Such knowledge may possibly be +of personal application to a few girls and it will be of use to many +girls who will later as mothers or teachers have the care of small +children.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Knowledge concerning men.</div> + +<p>I find that many thoughtful mothers and women physicians think that +girls in late adolescent years should learn from some reliable source +the most general facts regarding male structure and function. Here +again the strong argument is that the majority will have the care of +small children. Such instruction has often <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_155" id="Page_155">[155]</a></span>been given as part of +courses in biology and physiology and also in special lectures. It is +certain that some parents will favor such instruction, and others will +regard it as indecent to suggest that girls should have any such +knowledge. There will always be some parents who will let their +daughters face life-problems blindly.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Mothercraft.</div> + +<p>Sometime in adolescent years girls should learn the scientific facts +regarding mothercraft or the care of small children. This phase of the +sex-education is rapidly attracting attention from those who are +interested in practical arts education, and before many years pass it +will probably be treated adequately in connection with household arts +in schools and colleges. I have already referred to household arts in +general as making a decided contribution to the larger sex-education +which works for harmonious adjustment of the sexes in the home.</p> + +<br /> +<hr style="width: 15%;" /> +<br /> + +<h4>FOOTNOTES:</h4> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_14_14" id="Footnote_14_14"></a><a href="#FNanchor_14_14"><span class="label">[14]</span></a> Both books by M.A. and Anna N. Bigelow.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_15_15" id="Footnote_15_15"></a><a href="#FNanchor_15_15"><span class="label">[15]</span></a> Sets of drawings and lantern slides for the biological +introduction to sex may be obtained from the American Social Hygiene +Association, 105 W. 40th St., New York City.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_16_16" id="Footnote_16_16"></a><a href="#FNanchor_16_16"><span class="label">[16]</span></a> The instructor of young men should not allow confusion to +arise from the recent contention of some medical men that emissions are +abnormal or unnatural because they are not known to occur in animals. +Certain it is that they are adaptations to changes caused by enforced +sexual restraint after the seminal secretions begin with puberty. Such +restraint is, of course, abnormal or unnatural if we compare with +animals; but many of our acts are unnatural and not necessarily +unhealthful. For instance, the sedentary life of the student or +professional worker is abnormal or unnatural, but it need not be +unhealthful, if hygienic adaptations are made. Likewise, seminal +emissions are unnatural for primitive men or animals without sexual +restraint, but this does not mean that they are unhealthful for +self-controlled men. Here, as in many other cases, comparison with +animals is misleading and does not teach us useful facts concerning +human sexual functioning. The truth is that physicians have no evidence +of harm from emissions that are not caused by voluntary activity.</p></div> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<a name="VIII" id="VIII"></a><hr /> +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_156" id="Page_156">[156]</a></span><br /> + +<h2>VIII</h2> + +<h3 class="sc">Special Sex-instruction for Adolescent Boys and Young Men<span class="totoc"><a href="#toc">ToC</a></span></h3> +<br /> + +<div class="sidenote">Methods and teachers.</div> + +<p>In this lecture I shall discuss a number of problems in the relations +of men to women which ought somehow to be made clear to boys who are in +transition to manhood. I can do little more than point out the lines +along which it is desirable that young men should be informed and +influenced; for I confess that I do not know any guaranteed pedagogical +method for teaching along these lines. So far as I can now see, it +seems to me that a good beginning would consist in getting the best +ideas before young men by lectures, books, and personal conversations. +Here more than in any other phase of sex-education the influence of +personality is of great importance. Many an ordinary teacher or +lecturer may well present the cold facts of biological science that +help interpret sex, but one who does not by his personal qualities +command the entire confidence of his hearers is worse than useless in +presenting to young men such problems as those outlined in this lecture +under the following subheadings: Developing young men's attitude +towards womanhood; <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_157" id="Page_157">[157]</a></span>developing ideals of love and marriage; reasons for +pre-marital continence; essential knowledge concerning prostitution; +need of more refinement in men; dancing as a sex problem for men; dress +as a sexual appeal; the problem of self-control; the mental side of a +young man's sex life.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 30. <i>Developing Attitude towards Womanhood</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Influence of ideals.</div> + +<p>Many there are among the believers in the larger sex-education who feel +sure that a young man's greatest safety lies in having high ideals of +womanhood. I have known a number of men who passed unscathed through +the storm and stress of early manhood because each of them could say, +as Tennyson makes the lover confess to Princess Ida, "from earlier than +I know, immersed in rich foreshadowings of the world, I loved the +woman." Some of these men learned to love "the woman" in the abstract, +in the dream world, perhaps as the "brushwood girl" of Kipling. Others +first loved "the woman" through boyhood sweethearts. Still others came +to love her through mothers who inspired them with reverence for +womanhood and motherhood.</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">..."Happy he<br /></span> +<span class="i0">With such a mother! faith in womankind<br /></span> +<span class="i1">Beats with his blood, and trust in all things high comes easy to him."<br /></span> +<span class="poet">(Tennyson)<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p class="noin">But it matters little for the future purity of the boy on the threshold +of manhood whether he has <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_158" id="Page_158">[158]</a></span>learned to love "the woman" in the dreamland +of youth or in the very real world of life. It is simply a question of +the intensity of the devotion and of the loftiness of the ideals which +She has aroused within him.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Who may influence boys.</div> + +<p>Now, we of the older generation, who as parents and teachers are +largely the makers of the boy's view of life, may play a very important +part in developing in him a love for "the woman," a reverence for +womanhood. The greatest opportunity falls to the lot of that mother +whose natural gifts and education adapt her for impressing her son +profoundly with appreciation of womanhood. The next greatest +opportunity comes to the woman who as an instructor in school, church, +or other institution comes into intimate relations that sometimes give +the teacher greater influence than the mother is able or willing to +exert. Finally, we must not discount the value of men's coöperation in +this problem, for many a boy's attitude towards women is largely the +reflection of what he has seen in his father and in other men, +particularly in his teachers both secular and religious.</p> + +<p>Now, while the direct influence of personality is most important in +this problem of developing a young man's attitude towards women, +organized educational effort should not be neglected. It is important +that both men and women help by encouraging young men to read good +literature that unobtrusively tends to introduce them to the best in +womanhood (see § 23); and by discussing with <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_159" id="Page_159">[159]</a></span>them, as opportunity +offers, the higher ideals of the relationships between men and women.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 31. <i>Developing Ideals of Love and Marriage</i></p> + +<p>Closely associated with high ideals of womanhood is necessarily a pure +understanding of love, even in its physical basis. While preparing this +lecture I discovered that James Oliphant (in the <i>International Journal +of Ethics</i>, Vol. 9, pp. 288-289, 1898) has well expressed some of the +views that in a more or less unformulated shape have been in my mind +for years.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Ideals of love in art.</div> + +<div class="block"><p>"If the true preparation for love and marriage is, as I hold it to +be, to learn to associate physical passion with the higher +emotions developed by social sympathy—with a single-hearted +devotion that demands courage, and self-sacrifice and considerate +forethought and tenderness; if we wish to bind all these qualities +together in the imagination of the young and clothe the conception +with every attribute of beauty that fancy can devise, how can we +forego the precious opportunities that lie to our hand in the +persuasive witchery of art? The power that may be exercised in the +formation of character by the presentment of ideal types is as yet +very imperfectly utilized. Love is <i>par excellence</i> the theme of +the artist, and young people will soon find this out for +themselves; but there is a wide difference in the degrees of +idealization, and, while we concern ourselves to exclude the +grosser forms, we neglect the only effective means of +accomplishing this, namely, the persistent presentation of the +sentiment in its noblest examples. It is the prevalent idea that +the longer we can keep <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_160" id="Page_160">[160]</a></span>all notions of love, even in its romantic +guise, out of children's heads, the better it will be for them. +Surely it would be a wiser policy to fill their minds as soon as +they are able to receive them, with the creations of art in which +love is represented in its sublimest aspects. The youth who is +familiar with the love-stories of Shakespeare, and George Eliot, +and Meredith, will suffer little harm from the gilded sensualism +of the Restoration drama. Let us hasten to implant the images of +beauty that will keep the soul sweet and wholesome, and free from +the taint of any later influences, however sordid these may be."</p></div> + +<p>In the lecture on marriage as offering one of the problems for the +larger sex-education (§ 12) and in the reference to general literature +in § 23, I have called attention to literature which will be suggestive +and useful to those who are considering the young man's attitude +towards love and marriage.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 32. <i>Reasons for Pre-marital Continence of Men</i></p> + +<p>Recognizing the fact that moral considerations fail to reach many +people, the following points should be emphasized in trying to show +young men practical reasons why they should avoid pre-marital sexual +relations.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Continence and health.</div> + +<p>(1) Young men ought to know that many eminent physicians and +physiologists agree that it has not been proved that continence injures +the health of men who make an effort to avoid sexual temptations. +Physicians of the highest standing never advise extra-marital or +immoral relations, for they are far more likely to injure health than +to <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_161" id="Page_161">[161]</a></span>improve it, and they surely injure character and reputation. On +this question of continence young men should read such pamphlets as +"Sexual Necessity" by Howell and Keyes; "The Young Man's Problem" and +"Health and Hygiene of Sex" by Morrow; "The Physician's Answer" and +"The Rational Sex Life for Men" by Exner.<a name="FNanchor_17_17" id="FNanchor_17_17"></a><a href="#Footnote_17_17" class="fnanchor">[17]</a> Also, see pp. 183-190 in +Geddes and Thomson's "Sex."</p> + +<p>Dr. Exner's "Physician's Answer" is based on the following declaration +which was signed by about three hundred of the foremost physicians of +America:</p> + +<div class="block"><p>"In view of the individual and social dangers which spring from +the widespread belief that continence may be detrimental to +health, and of the fact that municipal toleration of prostitution +is sometimes defended on the ground that sexual indulgence is +necessary, we, the undersigned, members of the medical profession, +testify to our belief that continence has not been shown to be +detrimental to health or virility; that there is no evidence of +its being inconsistent with the highest physical, mental, and +moral efficiency; and that it offers the only sure reliance for +sexual health outside of marriage."</p></div> + +<div class="sidenote">Psychical results of incontinence.</div> + +<p>(2) It ought to be significant to young men that many men who are now +in the thirties or forties look back upon their youthful errors with +profound regret. Many such men testify that <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_162" id="Page_162">[162]</a></span>unforgettable immoral +experiences keep them from reaching the heights of love with their +wives. One of my friends, a well-known physician, recently met in his +office within two or three months seven men of high standing who are +now happily married, but who feel that conjugal life is short of its +full æsthetic possibilities because of the ever-present remembrance of +early sexual mistakes.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Physical results.</div> + +<p>(3) While the above refers to the psychical effect of youthful errors, +young men should learn that there is also a physical side to the same +problem. Eminent physicians assert that many men have completely and +permanently destroyed their sexual functions by extensive dissipations, +either by masturbation or by natural relations; and that very many more +have injured themselves so that perfection of the physical basis of +love and marriage is impossible.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Possible diseases.</div> + +<p>(4) The probability of venereal infection by pre-marital relations and +the danger of transmission to innocent wives and children should be +presented to all young men as a strong ethical appeal for continence +(see § 7).</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Purity for purity.</div> + +<p>(5) The "fair play" or "square deal" appeal to young men should be +based on the fact that most for young men who are unchaste demand +purity of the girls they claim as sisters, friends, or sweethearts; and +yet they help drag down other women. An honorable man should be willing +to play fairly and give purity for purity.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Responsibility.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_163" id="Page_163">[163]</a></span>(6) The grave responsibility of young men whose unchastity is connected +with illegitimacy or with the organized social evil should be made a +strong point in appeals for pre-marital abstinence.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sexuality and affection.</div> + +<p>(7) Young men should be impressed with the idea that their sexual +functions should be held sacred to affection; in other words, that +sexual union is moral only as love interchange. In so far as young men +may be led to this interpretation of the relation of sexuality to the +best conceptions of life, there will be no danger of prostitution and +there will be a guarantee of marriages that give completeness to +affection. The men who are safeguarded against unchastity are those who +have learned to think of love and marriage and sexual functioning as +interdependent and coincident elements in the great drama of life and +who feel the impossibility of their personal interest in marriage +without love or in sexual union except as expression of deep affection. +Such men are by no means as rare as the sensational reports of the +social evil lead many people to believe.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Some men beyond appeal.</div> + +<p>I realize that all these seven reasons for continence will fail with +that large group of young men who have persuaded themselves that they +will never marry and thus they shake off all responsibility such as +appeals to the man who looks forward to love that culminates in +marriage. No one has yet suggested any line of appeal to the men who +are physically or <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_164" id="Page_164">[164]</a></span>psychically or morally so abnormal that they have no +interest in the possibility of marriage; but fortunately such +individuals constitute an insignificant minority.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 33. <i>Essential Knowledge Concerning Prostitution</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Safeguarding boys.</div> + +<p>(1) The adolescent boy should be safeguarded by the knowledge that in +every city and in most towns there are women who for financial gain are +constantly seeking to entice young men into immoral sexual relations; +and that many unwary men are involuntarily entrapped, especially when +influenced by alcohol.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Prostitution a business.</div> + +<p>(2) The young man should know that the selling of woman's virtue is an +organized business known as "prostitution" or "the social evil," words +which stand for indescribable degradation and degeneracy that no beast +could possibly imitate. Moreover, the young man should be informed that +all immorality is not prostitution, but that most of the immoral +relations of men are purchased directly or indirectly by money or its +equivalent.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Some causes of prostitution.</div> + +<p>(3) The young man should know that the great majority of prostitutes do +not willingly undertake the shameful business of selling their virtue. +He should know that the majority have gone downward for such reasons as +follows: Many a woman has been betrayed by some detestable man who +pretended to love her. Poverty has forced many other women to the +first <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_165" id="Page_165">[165]</a></span>downward step. Many are easy victims because they belong to the +feeble-minded class. Others have been driven into immoral life by +parents and even husbands. Still others have been drugged, and raped +while insensible. A limited number have begun prostitution as "white +slaves" kept as prisoners until all hope of a better life has vanished. +A few have deliberately begun to accept the attentions of lewd men in +order to get money for luxurious dress and finery. And relatively very +few have started downward because of sexual passion such as commonly +influences men. In short, every young man should be informed that most +women living by prostitution have begun innocently or unwillingly; but +having made one false step, society has shunned them, even near +relatives have cast them off, and a career of prostitution has appeared +the only way of making a living, vulgar and unspeakably sordid though +it be. It is evident that the responsibility for prostitution rests +almost entirely upon men. Unfortunately, society does not recognize +this fact and has no way of dealing legally with both men and women +found associated in houses of prostitution. At present the women +arrested for prostitution are treated as criminals, while their male +associates in vice are allowed to depart as if they were respectable +citizens.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Appeal to men.</div> + +<p>Tell young men these facts as to why women become prostitutes. Help +them to realize that most of these women are pitiful victims of man's +worse than brutal sexual passions. Then add the <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_166" id="Page_166">[166]</a></span>astounding fact that +very many of the women of the underworld have short lives, their health +being undermined rapidly by dissipation, by alcohol used to bury their +shame or to stimulate their flagging energies, and by the two loathsome +diseases, gonorrhea and syphilis, which relatively few prostitutes +escape—tell young men such facts which eminent physicians and +sociologists have often verified, and there are good chances of +striking sympathetic notes in their young manhood.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Danger of social disease.</div> + +<p>(4) And there is one other line of facts concerning prostitution that +the developing young man should know well, namely, that every +prostitute is likely at any time to be infected with the social +diseases, and that no ordinary medical examination can prove that she +will not transmit these awful diseases to men who consort with her. In +fact, within an hour after most careful medical examination she may +become infected by some diseased man, and then she is capable of +inoculating other men. Such facts, for which the greatest of special +physicians vouch, will eradicate from the young man's mind the +widespread notions that prostitutes are safe if they carry a +physician's certificate, or one of the official cards given in some +European cities. Many a young man of sixteen to twenty has not heard +that prostitutes as a class are universally dangerous as distributors +of the most terrible diseases, and his education is incomplete until he +knows the exact truth from reliable sources.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Limited reading.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_167" id="Page_167">[167]</a></span>(5) It is not desirable that the young man should be set to read the +numerous books packed with more or less sensational reports on the +social evil, for these may sometimes tend toward morbidity. Any young +man who is not effectively appealed to by the above facts will not be +influenced by the most voluminous reports on prostitution ever +published. Such reports are not useful for young men. They serve a good +purpose by informing mature men and women and awakening them to the +necessity of legislation, education, and other weapons with which we +may fight the great black plague of social vice. For the average young +man the books recommended in § 8 will give sufficient information and +viewpoint.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Liaisons.</div> + +<p>(6) Finally, the young man of adolescent years should be made to +understand his responsibility for immorality that is not prostitution, +that is, extra-marital relations with his girl friends and without +pecuniary considerations. He should know the probability that he will +ruin a girl's life, either because illegitimacy occurs or because her +reputation suffers. Even if such immoral liaisons are kept private, +both persons concerned are likely in after years to regret their +illicit intimacy, especially if either marries another person.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 34. <i>Need of More Refinement in Men</i></p> + +<p>While refinement is a part of general culture, it is beyond doubt an +important phase of the problems <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_168" id="Page_168">[168]</a></span>for the larger sex-education. +Elsewhere I have referred to the need of better understanding and +better adjustment between men and women, especially in marriage. +Towards such a desideratum refinement of men will contribute immensely. +Many cultured women avoid marriage and many are unhappy in marriage +because men, sometimes even educated men, lack refinement in manners, +language, and personal habits. In fact, "lack of refinement" is +altogether too mild an expression, for many men are positively crude in +manners, coarse and vulgar in language, and disgusting in personal +habits.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Manners and chivalry.</div> + +<p>In referring to manners, I am including not only the thousand and one +little customs of everyday life among refined people, but also +chivalric attitude towards all women. The world has changed vastly +since knighthood was in flower, but many men of to-day might well take +lessons in the art of courtesy to women as practiced by the famous +knights of the age of chivalry. This problem of manners will be an +increasingly important one, for here in America there is growing up a +generation of boys who are far from chivalrous even to their mothers +and sisters; and at the same time, the industrial competition and daily +association of the two sexes is making young men realize that women are +simply human beings and not super beings.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Language.</div> + +<p>With regard to language, I am thinking not so much of the general need +of speech that is <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_169" id="Page_169">[169]</a></span>grammatically, rhetorically, and vocally polished, +which no doubt determines many a woman's estimate of a man, as I have +in mind the repelling effect upon sensitive women of language that is +coarse, vulgar, and profane. Hence, quite apart from the effect of low +language on character, I believe it worth while to work for refinement +of language of young men.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Personal habits.</div> + +<p>And now with reference to personal habits, including cleanliness and +refinement of actions, the average women of all classes set splendid +examples for men of the same groups. It seems scarcely necessary to +explain in detail concerning unclean personal habits and vulgar +actions. It requires no keen observer to find plenty of examples. Those +who have the training of boys should lose no opportunity to impress +them with the importance of refinement, and especially in all phases of +their home life. It is in the most intimate life of the home that +refinement of personal habits of husbands may mean much to sensitive +wives.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 35. <i>Dancing as a Sex Problem for Young Men</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Dancing not to be eliminated.</div> + +<p>It is more than useless to discuss the question whether dancing ought +to be eliminated from the social life of young people, for it has +physical, social, and æsthetic or dramatic values which will make +dancing in some form or other coextensive with human life.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Young people and dancing.</div> + +<p>Those who deal with adolescent boys and girls ought to have some +understanding of the facts for <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_170" id="Page_170">[170]</a></span>and against dancing as it may influence +the sexual control of young people, men especially. It is no longer +sufficient to say, even to the young members of certain religious +denominations, that "good people must not dance because it is wicked," +for in this doubting age young people will ask first what we mean by +the word "wicked" and then for proof that dancing is wicked. The time +has come when young people must be shown the scientific reasons if we +want them to avoid dancing or to dance with certain approved movements.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Dancing a sexual stimulant.</div> + +<p>It seems to be an accepted opinion among physiologists that dancing of +any of the types that involve more or less closeness of contact between +men and women in pairs is likely to lead to sexual stimulation that at +times may be consciously recognized by normal men, but probably is not +identified other than as general excitement by most women.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Danger no reason for condemning dancing.</div> + +<p>The frank admission that dancing may sometimes stimulate sexual +emotions is no condemnation of dancing, as many writers seem to think. +We must know first whether such emotions lead to good or harm. Sexual +emotions are not in themselves wrong from any except a strictly æscetic +point of view. The fact that most intelligent men who in general are +frankly truthful confess that dancing may sometimes arouse sexual +emotion simply raises the question whether such emotions lead <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_171" id="Page_171">[171]</a></span>directly +to immoral relations with women or whether they lead, as does the best +social life of men and women together, to a higher æsthetic +appreciation of life as it involves the relations of the two sexes. +After discussing this with many—yes, with more than a hundred—men and +women, I am now convinced that dancing may have both results, depending +upon the individuals. Dancing, then, has its dangers, but so have many +other things that go to make up the most complete life. Eating may lead +to gluttony, mountain-climbing may lead to a broken neck, swimming to +drowning, music and art to sensuality, and even love is not without +danger of bestial degradation. Life is full of dangers and we are +constantly striving to reduce them to a minimum. So we must refuse to +condemn dancing because of its admitted sexual dangers for young +people, unless it can be shown that the danger is so great and so +unconquerable as to outweigh all the physical, social, and æsthetic +considerations in favor of the pastime.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Dancing and immorality.</div> + +<p>That dancing is a strong incentive to immorality is contended by many +writers. A prominent physiologist has said that "the dance is the +devil's procession so far as the young man is concerned." Others have +pointed to the immorality that is connected with the dance halls, and +to the fact that waves of immorality of young men have often followed +the annual balls given in some high schools and colleges. Contrary to +the view which I formerly held, I am now <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_172" id="Page_172">[172]</a></span>inclined to think that it is +not fair to charge such immoral tendencies entirely to dancing, and +therefore condemn all dancing as immoral. It is no secret of sociology +that similar epidemics of immorality have been known to occur in +connection with Sunday-school picnics, camp meetings, expositions, +political and other conventions, and religious revivals. Shall we +condemn all these along with dancing on the ground that they lead to +immorality? We say "no" because immorality is only an incident, not a +result in these cases. Likewise, I believe that dancing is but one of +several factors that have led to immorality at the time of annual balls +in high school and college. These are times of general tendency towards +dissipation. Regular duties are cast aside, all the hygienic rules for +eating and sleeping are broken, there is unusual freedom of speech and +manners, available alcohol is freely used, emotions and not reason +rules—these are characteristic of the college festivals that center +around grand balls. In short, at such times there is a general let-down +of usual standards and a swing back towards the barbaric festival of +the ancients. It is not surprising, then, that pent-up sexual instincts +assert their force at such times, and dancing, if it occurs under such +conditions is, of course, likely to increase the danger of moral +collapse because it incites sexual emotions.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Regulation of dancing needed.</div> + +<p>Our conclusion, then, is that it is unscientific to charge dancing with +being the direct cause of immorality, when it has been only one in a +series of <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_173" id="Page_173">[173]</a></span>events. The facts warrant not condemnation of dancing as +something utterly bad, but rather of allowing dancing to be associated +with conditions that are likely to lead to dissipation and immorality. +Unless some argument other than that arising from the coincidence of +dancing with dissipation and immorality is brought forward, we must +conclude that dancing should be regulated and associated so that the +admitted dangers will be reduced to a minimum. Recognition of the +dangers will lead mature people to see the importance of supervising +and regulating dancing as a phase of the social life of young people. +It will lead to dancing that is improved along social and æsthetic +lines.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Self-control necessary.</div> + +<p>While improvement of dancing will reduce its dangers, it will not +eliminate the problem of self-control for normal young men. They must +learn to understand their own emotions. They should be forewarned that +others have found danger in dancing. They should know that some +strong-willed men have given up dancing when they found that it made +more intense the problem of sexual self-control, both mentally and +physically. They should know the increased danger if dancing is +associated with alcohol, vicious women, immodest dress, extreme freedom +of conduct, and other morally depressing influences. Such knowledge +along with general sex-education will do much to make dancing not only +safe for average young men, but also helpful along social and æsthetic +lines.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Extreme dances.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_174" id="Page_174">[174]</a></span>With regard to the extreme dances of the past five years, those who are +well informed concerning sexual problems know that many of these dances +which polite society has copied from the dens of the underworld are +vastly more dangerous than the standard dances.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 36. <i>Dress of Women as a Sex Problem for Men</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Dress and immorality.</div> + +<p>Some of the students of sex problems assert with great emphasis that +dress is the responsible factor in the sexual immorality of many men. +Accepting the probability that there is some truth in the assertion, +what is the solution of the problem? Should women in general adopt a +style of dress which in lines and color is as repellently ugly as the +official garb of women devotees of certain religious organizations? In +short, should women make their dress decidedly unobtrusive and +unattractive in order that the sexual temptations of <i>some</i> men may be +reduced? The answer must be an emphatic negative. We need more beauty +in this life of ours, and we cannot afford to omit any beauty which +women express in dress. The pity is that economic conditions so often +set a limit to such expression. We must believe in making every +possible application of the beauty of nature and art to human life; and +beautiful dress on all women, and especially beautiful dress on +attractive women, is the most important of such relations of beauty and +life.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Dress and sexual appeal.</div> + +<p>Accepting, then, beauty of dress as worthy of <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_175" id="Page_175">[175]</a></span>encouragement, what +shall be done about its sexual attractiveness? This is a difficult +question in these days with ever-changing fashions whose novelty makes +extreme modes more dangerously attractive than they would be if +universally adopted for a long term of years. But permanency of extreme +styles or general adaptation of modest ones are absolutely impossible +for the average woman of to-day. Hence, we must look forward to one +extreme style following another. Young men must face the problem and +fight their own battles. Like certain widespread diseases, there is +constant danger of infection, and the only hope for young men is in +special education as a kind of protective inoculation against +temptation. This means that young men should be taught to see beauty in +woman's form, face, and dress without allowing themselves to get into +habits of sensual or physical emotions. Of course, for the normal young +man there is sure to be more or less consciousness of emotions +stimulated by the beautiful associated with women, but the individual +man may train himself to turn such emotions into æsthetic or psychical +lines instead of into those which are sensual, animalistic, or +physical. In this connection, I have long been of the opinion that +training in art appreciation, especially of sculpture, may help many +men to an æsthetic attitude towards the human form.</p> + +<p>It is well known that beauty of woman's face or form or dress has +sometimes led men into immorality; but I often wonder whether such men +of <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_176" id="Page_176">[176]</a></span>weak control would not have fallen sooner or later at the command +of some other form of stimulation. At any rate, such men do not lead us +to general conclusions, for there are many more men who have been led +upward and not downward by the combined beauty of form, face, and dress +of women.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Duty of women.</div> + +<p>While we refuse to excuse men who allow the sexual suggestiveness of +women's dress to overcome their self-control, we should at the same +time recognize that women have themselves to blame for much of the +existing situation. I believe it is true that the average woman does +not understand how dress that makes unusual exposure of the body may +make a sexual appeal to men; but there is no such innocence on the part +of the demi-mondes by whom many of the most dangerous styles are +introduced. Perhaps women of intelligence and good standing may some +day come to realize their responsibility for wearing clothing that +means unusual temptation for men. However, this seems Utopian in these +years when even women of the best groups are wearing equivocal dress; +and so men must learn to fight their own battles against natural +instincts stirred to greater intensity by dress invented to increase +the trade of the women of the underworld.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 37. <i>The Problem of Self-control for Young Men</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Difference between sexes.</div> + +<div class="sidenote">Automatic arousing of boys' instincts.</div> + +<p>The problem of control of the insistent passions of normal young men +has been unscientifically minimized by numerous writers and lecturers. +It <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_177" id="Page_177">[177]</a></span>should be noted that many of these are men who have long since +forgotten the storms and stresses of their early manhood, and others +are women who do not know the facts indicating that the sexual +instincts young men are characteristically active, aggressive, +spontaneous, and automatic, while those of women <i>as a rule</i> are +passive and subject to awakening by external stimuli, especially in +connection with affection. Such forgetful men and uninformed women are +prone to regard the lack of control of many young men as simply due to +"original sin," "innate viciousness," "bad companions," or +"irresistible temptations"; and they overlook the great fact that +maintaining perfect sexual control in his pre-marital years is for the +average healthy young man a problem compared with which all others, +including the alcoholic temptation, are of little significance. Such +being the truth about young men, nothing is to be gained and much is to +be lost if older people fail to take an understanding and sympathetic +attitude. I question whether any young man has ever been helped through +his adolescent crises by such oft-repeated assertions as that "there is +no more reason that a young man should go astray than that his sister +should," or, in other words, that "continence is as easy for a young +man as for a girl of similar age." An observing young man will doubt +such statements, and if he has had access to scientific information, he +will feel sure that there has been an attempt to influence <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_178" id="Page_178">[178]</a></span>him by the +kind of exaggeration commonly adopted by specialists in moral +preachments. The plain truth is that there is a physiological "reason" +or explanation, although not a justification for failure of +self-control. Even if we accept the improbable statement of some +writers that boys and girls are in early adolescence potentially equal +in sexual instincts and assuming that they may be protected equally +against vicious habits, we must not forget that every normal boy passes +in early puberty through peculiar physiological changes that arouse his +deepest instincts. I refer especially to the frequent occurrence of +involuntary sexual tumescence and to the occasional nocturnal +emissions, which processes leave the boy in no doubt whatever as to the +nature, source, and desirability of sexual pleasure. Especially is this +true of the automatic emissions that usually follow continence of +healthy young men, for in connection with such relief of seminal +pressure every nerve center of the sexual mechanism seems to be +involved in the culminating nerve storm of which the awakening +individual is often quite pleasurably conscious. In short, as men +looking backward to their early manhood well understand, the physical +sensations that come into the normal sexual experience of the +adolescent boy are different only in degree of intensity from those +which later are concomitants of sexual union. Such, in brief, is the +physiological history of the normal adolescent boy, and one who has +fallen into even most limited masturbation will <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_179" id="Page_179">[179]</a></span>probably be still more +conscious of the fact that the ordinary sequence of events in the +activity of the sexual organs leads to intense excitement that has +almost irresistible attractiveness.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Average young women different.</div> + +<p>Now, most scientifically-trained women seem to agree that there are no +corresponding phenomena in the early pubertal life of the normal young +woman who has good health. A limited number of mature women, some of +them physicians, report having experienced in the pubertal years +localized tumescence and other disturbances which made them definitely +conscious of sexual instincts. However, it should be noted that most of +these are known to have had a personal history including one or more +such abnormalities as dysmenorrhea, uterine displacement, pathological +ovaries, leucorrhea, tuberculosis, masturbation, neurasthenia, +nymphomania, or other disturbances which are sufficient to account for +local sexual stimulation. In short, such women are not normal. Such +facts have led many physicians to the generalization that the average +healthy adolescent girl does not undergo normal spontaneous changes +which make her definitely conscious of the nature, source, and +desirability of localized sexual pleasure. On the contrary, such +consciousness commonly comes to many only as the result of stimuli +arising in connection with affection.<a name="FNanchor_18_18" id="FNanchor_18_18"></a><a href="#Footnote_18_18" class="fnanchor">[18]</a> Clearly it is nonsense to +claim that the sexual temptations <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_180" id="Page_180">[180]</a></span>arising within the individual are +equal for the two sexes. Potentially, girls may have passions as strong +as boys, but they do not become so definitely and spontaneously +conscious of their latent instincts.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Helping the young man.</div> + +<p>Thus considering the available facts regarding the physiological +reasons for the sexual tendencies of men, it seems to me that we gain +nothing in trying to minimize the young man's sexual problems, for he +is quite conscious that they are insistent. Far better it is that +mature men who know life in its completeness should make the young man +feel that his problems are not new, not insignificant, and that many +another man has met and solved them in such a way as to make life more +full of real happiness. Such sympathetic helpfulness will mean +something to a young man, but he cannot be led far by one who in his +own early experience has not learned both the strength and the mastery +of the sexual instincts.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Women should know.</div> + +<p>In another lecture I have discussed the proposition that it would be +better for all concerned if women could have scientific understanding +of the physiological facts concerning the sexual tendencies of men, not +to make women more lenient or forgiving towards the mistakes of men, +but rather to enable women to play an important part in the necessary +adjustments through helpful comradeship. This last phrase will mean +nothing to many people, but in many a modern home a well-informed wife +has been able to lead the way to the satisfactory solution of the +fundamental problems of life.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Self-control in marriage.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_181" id="Page_181">[181]</a></span>There is another and an all-important phase of the problem of teaching +self-control which is commonly overlooked by those who are trying to +help young men solve their greatest problems. I have in mind the need +of self-control in marriage. Most writers and lecturers who emphasize +the arguments for absolute self-control or continence before marriage, +omit all reference to marital life. The natural inference, and one +widely followed, is that the only moral duty of a young man is to +control his intense desires and avoid illicit relations until sexual +abandon is permitted under the license of the law and the benediction +of the church. Such, I submit, is a fair conclusion for young men to +draw from at least ninety per cent of the sex-education literature that +is current to-day.</p> + +<p>Now, I believe this is all wrong. In fact, I am so radical as to +believe that the intelligent women of the world would gain more from +temperance and unselfishness and delicacy of men in sexual functioning +in marriage than from sexual continence before marriage. Of course, I +do not propose that ideal sexual conditions in marriage may justify +pre-marital incontinence, but I make this sharp contrast simply to +emphasize the belief that sexual intemperance and selfishness of men in +marriage causes more mental and physical suffering of women than does +sexual incontinence of men before marriage, and I am not forgetting the +vast problem of social diseases and prostitution.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_182" id="Page_182">[182]</a></span>I urge, then, that those who attempt to direct young men through the +mazes of sexual life should hold up ideals not only of pre-marital +continence, but also of post-nuptial temperance and harmonious +adjustment between husband and wife. This post-nuptial problem is far +more difficult to solve, for the intimacy of married life, especially +in the earlier years, is sure to offer stimuli that are likely to make +sexual instincts more insistent than those that come from celibate +repression. However, self-control and temperance in marriage is no new +and unattainable ideal, and harmonious adjustment of men and women in +marriage is far more common than the pessimists would have us believe.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 38. <i>The Mental Side of the Young Man's Sexual Life</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Effect of mental imagery.</div> + +<p>Most of the discussions of the education of young men for moral living +have centered around the problem of keeping him from physical sexual +activity. So far as society is concerned, this is the great +desideratum. So far as the individual life is concerned, it is +important that self-control should extend to mental imagery. Professors +Geddes and Thomson have well said, in "Sex," that "while anatomical +chastity is a moral achievement, it is not the deepest virtue. The +incisive declaration: 'Whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her +hath committed adultery with her already in his heart' expresses an +even more searching standard, and modern science brings home <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_183" id="Page_183">[183]</a></span>to us the +radical importance of our reflex thought and deep-down impulses, which +appear to bulk largely in molding our lives and the lives of those who +may spring from us." In language adapted to the understanding of +average young men, this idea should be emphasized.</p> + +<p>In the opinion of some physiologists the greatest harm done to the +individual who has long been a victim of masturbation is in the +centering of the attention on imaginary sexual situations. This is +especially true of mental masturbation. Hence, the relation of +masturbation to the possible establishment of a disordered mental state +should be known by adolescent boys and young men.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Control of thoughts.</div> + +<p>It appears from the experience of many men that strenuous work and play +are the only efficient weapons for driving sexual images into the +background of the mind. This applies not only to sordid and lewd +thoughts of unchaste sexual situations, but also to the mental images +that are inevitably associated with the purest affection and which +should be trained to obey when calm reason so orders.</p> + +<p>The following literature will be especially helpful to young men: W.S. +Hall's "Sexual Hygiene for Men," or his "Sexual Knowledge"; Exner's +"The Rational Sex Life for Men"; Morrow's "The Young Man's Problem," +and "Health and Hygiene of Sex for College Students"; King's "Fight for +Character" (Y.M.C.A.); and the chapter on Ethics of Sex in "Sex" by +Geddes and Thomson.</p> + +<br /> +<hr style="width: 15%;" /> +<br /> + +<h4>FOOTNOTES:</h4> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_17_17" id="Footnote_17_17"></a><a href="#FNanchor_17_17"><span class="label">[17]</span></a> The first three pamphlets are published by the Society of +Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis (New York); the Exner pamphlets by the +Association Press (New York).</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_18_18" id="Footnote_18_18"></a><a href="#FNanchor_18_18"><span class="label">[18]</span></a> This is really not surprising if we remember the +peculiarities of human instincts mentioned in an earlier lecture (§ +3).</p></div> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<a name="IX" id="IX"></a><hr /> +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_184" id="Page_184">[184]</a></span><br /> + +<h2>IX</h2> + +<h3 class="sc">Special Sex-instruction for Maturing Young Women<span class="totoc"><a href="#toc">ToC</a></span></h3> +<br /> + + +<div class="sidenote">Parents would limit knowledge of daughters.</div> + +<p>It was my original plan to make this lecture parallel with the +preceding one for young men, but much discussion with parents and with +scientifically trained women whose suggestions and criticisms I value +has shown me that there is no consensus of opinion as to what should be +taught to young women between eighteen and twenty-two years of age. I +have found many fathers and mothers who think that their boys of +fourteen or fifteen should be informed as suggested in the preceding +lecture; but concerning some of the facts for boys these same parents +were doubtful whether their daughters ought to know before twenty, and +some of them have said twenty-five and even thirty. Some of them have +said that they see no reason why an unmarried young woman of the +protected group should know much more than a very limited amount of +personal hygiene; but most of these people were decidedly hazy as to +how the young woman about to marry may be sure of getting belated +knowledge. In short, all along the line I have found intelligent +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_185" id="Page_185">[185]</a></span>parents and others who believe in very thorough sex-instruction for +boys, but that "nice" girls should be kept as ignorant and innocent as +possible. With such disagreement existing, it is evidently not possible +to make such specific recommendations as have been made for boys.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 39. <i>The Young Woman's Attitude towards Manhood</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Women should have ideals.</div> + +<p>Among those who agree heartily with the proposition that by education +the young man's attitude towards womanhood (§ 30) should be cultivated +I find, to my surprise, many who object to any parallel attempt to +influence young woman's ideals of manhood. I say that I am surprised +because it has long seemed to me that many of the faults of men are +largely traceable to the fact that women as a sex have not been able to +hold a high standard for manhood; and, therefore, I wonder when some +thinking women question the desirability of trying to influence young +women by organized instruction. Of course, we must not forget that +before the coming of the economic and social freedom of women there +were very few of them who were able to maintain a stand for their +ideals of manhood; but this is no longer true in a great and rapidly +increasing group of the individualized and educated classes. Therefore, +it seems clear that if the better groups of women want a higher type of +manhood capable of better adjustment in marriage, it is important that +they consider <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_186" id="Page_186">[186]</a></span>ways and means of molding the minds of young women with +reference to ideal manhood.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Ideals and disappointment.</div> + +<p>Occasionally I have met a strange view of life in some men and women +who have grown pessimistic from revelations concerning the +sexual-social problems and who think that true manhood is so rare that +emphasizing it with young women will lead to ideals that can rarely be +realized in actual life; and therefore, for women so influenced there +will be increasing discontent and disappointment in marriage or +deliberate celibacy. No doubt this is in part true, as witness the many +highly educated women who have written or said that there seem to be +few attractive marriageable men of their own age. However, it is rare +indeed that such women say that life would have meant more without the +higher education and its resulting ideals that have stood in the way of +marriage such as might be happy for uneducated women. This is in line +with the fact that many cultivated men and women find that education +has given unattained ideals and unsatisfied ambitions and strenuous +life and disappointments, but it is rare that they long for the +care-free and animal-like happiness of the tropical savage. We must +remember that education gives us keener feeling for life's pains, but +it also compensates by giving soul-satisfying appreciation of its joys. +So it seems reasonable to believe that while educating young women to +believe in and demand a higher ideal of manhood in its natural +relations to womanhood will certainly make <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_187" id="Page_187">[187]</a></span>disappointments more +heart-pressing for some, it will just as surely make realization the +supreme happiness of others. And as adjustment of manhood and womanhood +through the larger sex-education becomes more and more abundant and +more and more perfected, the sum total of human happiness will +increase.</p> + +<p>Looking thus towards the ultimate good, I must refuse to accept the +hopeless and depressing view that all young women should be kept +ignorant of their relation to men and life in order that the absence of +ideals of manhood may protect some women against possible +disappointment by men.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 40. <i>The Young Woman's Attitude towards Love and Marriage</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Reasons not same as for men.</div> + +<p>In the preceding lecture to the parents and teachers of young men I +emphasized the importance of developing the young man's ideals of love +and marriage primarily because such ideals have so often helped men +morally in character-formation and character-protection. I feel sure +that this is not the chief reason why the ideals of young women should +be developed along parallel lines. On the contrary, it seems to me that +those representative women are right who think that the first reason +why ideals of young women should be influenced is that there is need of +a radical change in the attitude of a very common type of young women +who are flippant and disrespectful concerning love and marriage, and +whose influence on the <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_188" id="Page_188">[188]</a></span>morals of men is decidedly bad because they +often give unguided young men their first and strongest impressions +concerning women. A second reason, which is equally applicable to both +sexes, is that advance understanding of the relations of love and +marriage is likely to lead to happy and satisfactory adjustment in +marriage.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Men naturally lead in love.</div> + +<p>Perhaps the flippant and disrespectful attitude concerning affairs of +the heart develops in many young women because they do not consciously +feel in advance of experience the demand for affection which comes so +naturally and spontaneously to many, possibly to all, normal young men +whose views of life have not been artificially twisted. I fully realize +the treacherous nature of the ground on which walks one who tries to +compare the two sexes concerning their relative attitudes towards love, +but certain it is that the novelist's descriptions of men as the +leaders and aggressors in love is not fiction but the common fact of +real life. Man's tendency towards leadership in love is not +scientifically explained by any superficial assumption that established +social conventions have repressed an original spontaneity of women. On +the contrary, there are the best of physiological and psychological +reasons for believing that the social conventions have arisen as an +expression of masculine aggressiveness and natural tendency towards +leadership in affairs of the heart. The accepted fact is that many +young women have no understanding of or demand for affection until +experience <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_189" id="Page_189">[189]</a></span>has taught them its place in life. In the records of real +life, as well as in fiction, many a young woman's possibilities of +happiness have been lost because she did not understand herself when +love came into her experience.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Affection in marriage.</div> + +<p>Another side to the problem of the young woman's relation to love and +marriage is brought to our attention by the lamentable fact that many +wives lose interest in devoted husbands when the children come. This is +probably true in at least half the families; and many matrimonial +disharmonies are the result. This is really one of the greatest +problems of marriage which cultured women should consider seriously; +for even more than in most other sex problems, it is one for the +solution of which women are in a position to take the leading part. +This problem is especially important in these days when the household +inefficiency, personal extravagance, and desire for social position of +numerous young women of eighteen to thirty are having an enormous +influence in advancing the age of marriage because many of the best +types of young men pause and consider seriously the impossibility of +adjusting a small salary to the ideas of their women friends as to what +is the minimum of a family budget. Add to such facts a growing +pessimism of young men regarding inconstant affections of wives with +children, and the need of special educational attack is evident.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">The duty of parents.</div> + +<p>From whatever side we look at the question whether the larger +sex-education should somehow <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_190" id="Page_190">[190]</a></span>try to mold the ideals of young women +with regard to love and marriage, we see reasons why parents should +encourage their maturing daughters to get some advance understanding of +such relation. If parents are themselves unable to help their daughters +to this understanding, they can at least exert great influence by their +own attitude, and they can approve the reading of books, and perhaps +there may be opportunity for hearing lectures by women who understand +life.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Books.</div> + +<p>With regard to good literature that will help in this line, there are +chapters in many of the books mentioned at the end of this lecture, and +in more or less indirect form in the general literature suggested in +the preceding lectures concerning young men, and in § 12 which deals +with the general educational problem of marriage.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 41. <i>Reasons for Pre-marital Continence of Women</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Many women do not need reasons.</div> + +<p>Many women who have lived protected lives have declared themselves +unable to understand why a young woman should need reasons for +pre-marital continence; and these women are probably right so far as +the great majority of the daughters of families in good social +conditions are concerned. As pointed out in earlier lectures, there is +abundant evidence that the average adolescent girl who is protected +against external sexual stimuli and influenced constantly by the +prevailing ideals which demand chastity of women, is not likely to need +any <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_191" id="Page_191">[191]</a></span>arguments why she should avoid pre-marital incontinence. Moreover, +there seems to be little danger that the average girl with good social +environment will ever question her ideals of chastity unless under the +stress of overwhelming affection; in other words, there is little +possibility that such women will be interested in the strictly +mechanical, non-affectionate, and unsentimental sexual relations which +must inevitably characterize the common prostitution of men.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Unprotected girls.</div> + +<p>Note that I am referring to the average young woman in good social +environment, and for the moment omitting the vast class of so-called +"unprotected" girls. Moreover, I am speaking of the "average," and I am +not forgetting that medical journals and books record many exceptions. +Nevertheless, we must not be misled by medical literature, for +naturally the physician sees the women whose lack of health leads them +to seek professional advice, and it is well known that in sexual lines +women commonly become decidedly unhealthy before they consult +physicians. As testimony concerning the average normal women, I have +the greatest confidence in the statements of thoughtful women with +sound scientific attitude; and such are my authority for the view that +maintaining pre-marital continence is not one of the serious problems +for the average young woman with good domestic and social environment.</p> + +<p>Now, while I admit in advance that the problem of pre-marital +continence is not of great significance <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_192" id="Page_192">[192]</a></span>in the personal lives of the +great majority of the type of women who are likely to hear or read this +lecture, I do believe that this is the type of women who ought to think +over the problem as it concerns the atypical girl of good social groups +and the "unprotected" girl of more unfortunate groups. I cannot see, +therefore, why it is not best and safest that all girls should learn +from parents or reliable books or teachers the main reasons for +pre-marital chastity.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">The girl who needs help.</div> + +<p>The atypical girls of good social groups who need guidance regarding +pre-marital continence are of two types: either one with intensive +sexuality which is often modifiable by medical or surgical treatment; +or one of probably normal instincts but with radical sexual philosophy. +The first type needs not only emphatic instruction regarding +continence, but more often medical help, either for general health or +for correction of localized sexual disturbance. The second type must be +treated exactly as suggested for young men, because they are the women +whose anarchistic repudiation of laws and convention in general has led +to their acceptance of a <i>single</i> standard of morality for men and +women, but one of freedom from monogamic ideals. This type of women, +long well known in the student groups of Paris and in Russian +universities, is becoming more and more evident in America, especially +among some well-educated young women who have dropped their ideals of +chastity because they have found attractiveness in more or less +superficial studies of radical socialism. Many of these <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_193" id="Page_193">[193]</a></span>radical women +frankly say that they would like to marry the "right man," but failing +to find that rare species, they claim their right to sexual freedom in +more or less capricious liaisons. Others of these women are so highly +individualized that marriage is beneath their contempt, either because +it will "interfere with a career" or because the legal aspects and +ecclesiastical ceremonies still suggest the old-time subjection of the +wife to the husband. Women who are in a position to know from personal +knowledge of radical people declare that there are still relatively few +educated women who deliberately cut loose from monogamic standards; and +that they are most commonly found among certain intimate and +unconventional groups of students and professional workers, especially +those who are united in "Bohemian life" by artistic or literary +interests. But while such sexually anarchistic women are not common in +America, there is reason for fearing that, unless some unexpected check +comes to this undercurrent towards sexual freedom, it may be found ten +or twenty years hence that a surprisingly large number, but <i>never a +majority</i>, of unmarried young women have fallen into the sexual +promiscuity that is so common among unmarried men of the same ages.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Radical sex literature.</div> + +<p>Chief of the influences that lead a certain number of well-educated +young women towards sexual freedom is radical printed matter. We are +now getting in America a wide distribution of bold literature of the +"free love" type, some of it with a scientific superficiality that +will <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_194" id="Page_194">[194]</a></span>convince many beginners in the study of sexual problems. Much of +this literature is translation or adaptation of books and articles by +European authors; and I have previously remarked that abroad the ideals +of sexual morality—and judging from the Great War, of morality in +other lines—is frankly quite different from that upheld here. But some +of this radical literature is American in origin. In addition to +certain books and pamphlets, which might be advertised by giving names, +I think of two New York medical journals, with a popular circulation, +edited by a successful but much criticized physician, which rarely +publish an issue without frank approval and even arguments for +extra-marital relations other than prostitution, particularly for those +who for one reason or another, unwelcome or voluntary, are leading +celibate lives. The influence of such writings on young women who are +inclined towards radicalism in all things is probably enormous, and it +is unfortunate that vigorous opposition literature is not published and +widely circulated.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Same instruction as for men.</div> + +<p>In conclusion, it is clear that the problem of pre-marital continence +is not limited to young men, for the "unprotected" girl from a +low-grade home and environment, and the uninformed girl from the best +of homes, and the radical girl from the most educated circles may, +innocently or deliberately, select the pathway to unchastity. For these +kinds of young women the educational problem is the same as for young +men. They should have essentially the same <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_195" id="Page_195">[195]</a></span>instruction. And, in the +case of both sexes, it is only by contrasting the good and evil that +education can point out the worth-whileness of chastity.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Indirect responsibility.</div> + +<p>There is a special aspect of the problem of pre-marital chastity of men +that young women should understand, and that is their indirect +responsibility for the unchastity of many men. In discussing dancing +(§ 35) and extreme dress (§ 36), it has been indicated that women as a +sex have a tremendous responsibility for the temptations of men. The +same is true in the case of flirting or more extreme familiarities with +men. However sure a young woman may feel of her own power of +self-control, she should not consider lightly her possible part in a +chain of events which may lead men to unchastity with other women. Many +a man driven into the white heat of passion by thoughtless or +deliberate acts of a pure girl has gone direct to seek relief of +tension in the underworld. Of course, the girl in this case is not +directly responsible for the downfall of the man; but I wonder if there +is not moral, if not legal, responsibility for one who knowingly leads +or helps another to the brink of a precipice from which he voluntarily +falls.</p> + +<p>I am perfectly well aware that many good people will be horrified by +the very suggestion that young women should be taught their +responsibility for their men associates. Some will declare that the +advocates of sex-education propose to destroy the innocence and romance +in young women's lives. Others of the horrified ones will remain +complacent <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_196" id="Page_196">[196]</a></span>because they believe that unchastity is caused by "innate +depravity" of men. I am sorry to disagree with such people who are +sincere, but the established facts point clearly to the conclusion that +it is the duty of the mothers and teachers of girls to make them +understand their relations to men and their responsibility for helping +young men avoid sexual temptations. This is necessary when innocence +stands in the way of the maximum safety and happiness of young people.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 42. <i>Need of Optimistic and Æsthetic Views of Sex by Women</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Many women pessimistic concerning sexuality.</div> + +<p>The most significant point in the sex-education movement at present is +the fact that numerous women of the most intelligent groups are tending +rapidly towards accepting an optimistic and æsthetic view of sexual +relationships so far as these are normal and ethical and guided by +affection. However, this higher philosophy of sexual life is still very +far from being universal among educated women, and it is probably true +that to the great majority of them sexuality has no æsthetic meaning +but is simply a very troublesome physical function and an animal method +for perpetuating the human species. That such an attitude should be +common is not surprising, for in recent years numerous educated women +have gained abundant information concerning abnormal sexuality, while +very few have caught glimpses of the higher possibilities of the +sexual <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_197" id="Page_197">[197]</a></span>functions. The truth is that it has been and still is difficult +for most women to get well-balanced knowledge of sexual normality. +There are hundreds of books and pamphlets that deal with amazing +boldness with the sexual mistakes of human life, but there is not in +general circulation to-day any printed matter which deals with normal +sexual life with anything like the frankness and directness that is +common in widely circulated literature on social vice and its +concomitant diseases. Likewise, it is difficult for women to get the +true view of sexual life from personal sources, for the vulgar side of +sexuality is the one usually discussed by most people, some of whom +revel in obscenity, some have had personal experiences that have caused +ineradicable bitterness, and some more or less sincerely believe that +knowledge of vice is of value as a safeguard or an antidote. The bright +side of the sexual story is rarely told in conversation, either because +it is unfamiliar or because it is the sacred secret between pairs of +individuals who together have found life in all its completeness.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Æsthetic outlook.</div> + +<p>Fortunately, this depressing emphasis on sexual abnormality is +beginning to disappear, and we see sure signs of coming attention to +sexual health rather than to disease and to purity rather than to vice. +Leading women are beginning to give, through the impersonal medium of +science and general literature, some definite and helpful testimony +concerning the pathway to the essential good that is bound up in +sexuality. <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_198" id="Page_198">[198]</a></span>It is especially important that young women of culture +should be helped to this point of view, and as far as possible before +they learn much concerning the dark problems that have originated from +failure to keep sexual functions sacred to affection and possible +parenthood. The educated women of to-day who have acquired and retained +faith in the essential goodness of human sexual possibilities, and who +at the same time have an understanding of the mistakes that weak humans +are wont to make, are sure to play a most important part as teachers +and mothers and leaders in the movement which is already guiding +numerous intelligent men and women to a purified and noble view of the +sexual relationships. As I see the big problems that demand +sex-education, the future will depend largely upon the attitude of +women. It is an essential part of the feministic movement. In the past +there have been many alarming signs of a destructive sex antagonism +that charged men with full responsibility for existing sex problems. +But the advance guards of feminism are beginning to recognize that +there are all-essential relationships between the sexes, and that only +in sex coöperation can there be any permanent solution of the great +questions. It is a great advance from the sex hostility of Christabel +Pankhurst's "Plain Facts on a Great Evil" to the co-working attitude of +Louise Creighton's "Social Disease and How to Fight It," of Olive +Schreiner's "Woman and Labor," of Ellen Key's "Love and Marriage," and +of Gascoigne <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_199" id="Page_199">[199]</a></span>Hartley's "Truth About Woman," all of which give us hope +that women with optimistic and æsthetic interpretation of sex are +coming to take the lead towards a better understanding of the relations +of sex and life.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 43. <i>Other Problems for Young Women</i></p> + +<p>Concerning several other problems that have been discussed with special +reference to young men, it seems best that all young women should be +informed sometime between sixteen and twenty-two, the age limit +depending upon maturity of the individual, home life, and social +environment.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Prostitution.</div> + +<p>With regard to prostitution, it seems important that girls should know +the essential facts recommended in the lecture concerning boys. The +"unprotected" girl of low-grade environment will often need some of +this knowledge before she is fourteen (and in some cases, even twelve) +years old. On the other hand, the average "protected" girl need not +know until several years later. It seems possible that too early +familiarity with the existence of sexual vice might tend to make some +young women accept it as part of the established order of things; and, +hence, the girl whose environment is protective and whose moral +training has been complete will be perfectly safe without knowledge of +vice and will be more likely to take an opposition attitude if she +learns the facts concerning prostitution when she is approaching +maturity. Even then the essential information should be given <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_200" id="Page_200">[200]</a></span>in such +a way that the young woman will see the gravity of the social situation +and, at the same time, not develop a spirit of sex hostility. Here, +again, I must recommend Louise Creighton's "Social Disease and How to +Fight It" as not only pointing out the nature of the great evil, but +also recognizing that the existing situation can never be improved +except by the sympathetic coöperation of the best men and women.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Dancing.</div> + +<p>With regard to dancing, young girls should be taught that certain forms +of this exercise are not approved by the most refined people. Before +maturity, they should not know the physiological reason for this +disapproval. In fact, I know many men and women who think it best that +most women, even mature, should not have their attention called to the +sexual dangers of dancing. For my part, I cannot see how women with +such ignorance can coöperate with the best men in reducing the admitted +dangers to a minimum.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Dress.</div> + +<p>With regard to dress as a sexual problem, some mothers think they can +handle the problem with their young daughters by emphasizing modesty +and without further explanation; but the drawing power of fashions is +so great that most young women are quick to revise their ideas of +modesty to suit the latest style. Is it too much to hope that large +numbers of young women would accept such facts as were stated in the +lecture for young men (§ 36), and would be sincere enough to dress so +that their attractiveness may appeal more <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_201" id="Page_201">[201]</a></span>to the æsthetic and less to +the physical natures of men?</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Merely a man's views.</div> + +<p>In this lecture concerning the special teaching of young women, I have +attempted nothing more than an outline of the impressions that I have +gained from books and from representative women who are interested in +the larger sex-education. I have not tried to make the discussion as +extensive as that for young men, first, because I cannot believe that +young women in general need so much special instruction; and, second, +because only women can adequately advise concerning the sex-educational +problems of young women. However, since the women who might be expected +to know the truth about women have failed to agree on so many points, +it may be worth while for a man to contribute some suggestions based on +the most scientific information offered by some very reliable women.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Books.</div> + +<p>Among the books which touch the special problems for young women, I am +most favorably impressed by the following: Hall's "Life Problems" in +the first thirty-two pages is adapted for girls of twelve to fourteen, +and the remainder for older girls. Some parents are not enthusiastic +about the story form, but the facts are well selected and presented. +The last chapter of Smith's "Three Gifts of Life" is worth reading, but +the first chapters are unscientific. For almost mature young women, +there are chapters of Rummel's "Womanhood and Its Development," of +Wood-Allen's "What a Young <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_202" id="Page_202">[202]</a></span>Woman Should Know," of Lowry's "Herself," +and of Galbraith's "Four Epochs of a Woman's Life." The last two are +decidedly medical in point of view. The part for girls in Scharlieb and +Sibley's "Youth and Sex," and some chapters of March's "Towards Racial +Health," are good. The last two chapters of Geddes and Thomson's "Sex" +will be appreciated by many intellectual young women. Hepburn's +sentimental little story "The Perfect Gift" (Crist Co., 3¢) has helped +many young people improve their æsthetic outlook. There are some +helpful ideas in Henderson's "What It Is To Be Educated" (Houghton +Mifflin Co.). While disagreeing (§ 46) with Dr. Richard Cabot's extreme +emphasis on a mystical religious solution for problems of sex, I +recognize that many young women have been helped by his "The Christian +Approach to Social Morality" (Y.W.C.A.), and by his "What Men Live +By."</p> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<a name="X" id="X"></a><hr /> +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_203" id="Page_203">[203]</a></span><br /> + +<h2>X</h2> + +<h3 class="sc">Criticisms of Sex-education<span class="totoc"><a href="#toc">ToC</a></span></h3> + +<br /> + +<p>In the preceding lectures we have considered the arguments for +sex-instruction. It will now be helpful to review some of the writings +of those who oppose or at least point out the defects of the commonly +accepted plan of sex-instruction. None of those writers whom I shall +quote is known to be absolutely opposed to all sex-instruction, but +some of them would limit the instruction so much that there would be +little hope of the general movement having an important influence.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 44. <i>A Plea for Reticence Concerning Sex</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Agnes Repplier.</div> + +<p>Miss Agnes Repplier, the distinguished essayist, discusses in the +<i>Atlantic Monthly</i> (March, 1914) the plain speech on sex topics that +are before the public to-day. While she holds no brief for "the +conspiracy of silence," which she admits was "a menace in its day," she +maintains that "the breaking of silence need not imply the opening of +the flood-gates of speech." She goes on to say:</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Present frankness.</div> + +<div class="block"><p>"It was never meant by those who first cautiously advised a +clearer understanding of sexual relations <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_204" id="Page_204">[204]</a></span>and hygienic rules that +everybody should chatter freely respecting these grave issues; +that teachers, lecturers, novelists, story-writers, militants, +dramatists, social workers, and magazine editors should copiously +impart all they know, or assume they know, to the world. The lack +of restraint, the lack of balance, the lack of soberness and +common sense were never more apparent than in the obsession of sex +which has set us all ababbling about matters once excluded from +the amenities of conversation.</p> + +<p>"Knowledge is the cry. Crude, undigested knowledge, without limit +and without reserve. Give it to boys, give it to girls, give it to +children. No other force is taken account of by the visionaries +who—in defiance, or in ignorance of history—believe that evil +understood is evil conquered.</p> + +<p>"We hear too much about the thirst for knowledge from people keen +to quench it. Dr. Edward L. Keyes, president of the Society of +Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, advocates the teaching of +sex-hygiene to children, because he thinks that it is the kind of +information that children are eagerly seeking. 'What is this +topic,' he asks, 'that all these little ones are questioning over, +mulling over, fidgeting over, worrying over? Ask your own +memories.'</p> + +<div class="sidenote">One child's life.</div> + +<p>"I do ask my memory in vain for the answer Dr. Keyes anticipates. +A child's life is so full, and everything that enters it seems of +supreme importance. I fidgeted over my hair which would not curl. +I worried over my examples which never came out right. I mulled +(though unacquainted with the word) over every piece of sewing put +into my incapable fingers, which could not be trained to hold a +needle. I imagined I was stolen by brigands, and became—by virtue +and intelligence—spouse of a patriotic outlaw in <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_205" id="Page_205">[205]</a></span>a frontierless +land. I asked artless questions which brought me into discredit +with my teachers, as, for example, who 'massacred' St. +Bartholomew. But vital facts, the great laws of propagation, were +matters of but casual concern crowded out of my life and out of my +companions' lives (in a convent boarding-school) by the more +stirring happenings of every day. How could we fidget over +obstetrics when we were learning to skate, and our very dreams +were a medley of ice and bumps? How could we worry over 'natural +laws' in the face of a tyrannical interdict which lessened our +chances of breaking our necks by forbidding us to coast down a +hill covered with trees? The children to be pitied, the children +whose minds become infected with unwholesome curiosity are those +who lack cheerful recreation, religious teaching, and the fine +corrective of work. A playground or a swimming pool will do more +to keep them mentally and morally sound than scores of lectures on +sex-hygiene.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Personal teaching approved.</div> + +<p>"The world is wide, and a great deal is happening in it. I do not +plead for ignorance, but for the gradual and harmonious broadening +of the field of knowledge, and for a more careful consideration of +ways and means. There are subjects which may be taught in class, +and subjects which commend themselves to individual teaching. +There are topics which admit of <i>plein-air</i> handling, and topics +which civilized man, as apart from his artless brother of the +jungles, has veiled with reticence. There are truths which may be, +and should be, privately imparted by a father, a mother, family +doctor, or an experienced teacher; but which young people cannot +advantageously acquire from the platform, the stage, the moving +picture gallery, the novel or the ubiquitous monthly magazine."</p></div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_206" id="Page_206">[206]</a></span>There is much in Miss Repplier's paragraphs which will win hearty +approval from those who have come to believe, as advocated throughout +this series of lectures, in conservative teaching of sex-hygiene and a +larger outlook for sex-education.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Current frankness not due to sex-education.</div> + +<p>No doubt there has been too great a loss of a certain kind of reticence +and a substitution of crude frankness, but it has not been caused by +the sex-education movement. On the contrary, there are two evident +sources of the plain speech of which Miss Repplier and others have +complained: First, the commercializing of sex by novelists, dramatists, +theater managers, and publishers—many of whom are reaping a golden +harvest and few of whom have any sincere interest in promulgating +sexual information to any end except their own pocketbooks. Second, the +development of the feminist movement which has its deepest foundation +in the age-old sexual misunderstandings of women by men, and which has +led on and on into social and political complications of gravest +significance. The very nature of the feminist revolt from masculine +domination made plain speaking on sex matters inevitable.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Reaction against sensational frankness.</div> + +<p>Neither of these sources of plain speech need give us cause for alarm, +for a great reaction is already coming. The sensationalism of sexual +revelations has had its day, and the intelligent public is recovering +its balance. A lurid novel or play resembling "Damaged Goods" or "The +House of Bondage" <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_207" id="Page_207">[207]</a></span>or certain vice-commission reports would not now be +accepted by some prominent publishers who recently would not have +hesitated to seize a first-class commercial opportunity in this line. +The fact is that sexual sensationalism has ceased to pay because the +intelligent public knows the main facts and has become disgusted with +crude frankness that amounts to lasciviousness. On the side of feminism +there is hope in the widespread disgust with Cristabel Pankhurst's +"Plain Facts on a Great Evil" as compared with the very general +approval of Louise Creighton's polished masterpiece, "The Social Evil +and How to Fight It." This represents exactly the present attitude of +numerous men and women who calmly discuss together the great problems +of life fearlessly and without any elements of lasciviousness such as +some people seem to think is necessarily associated with either +unsexual or bisexual discussion of sex problems.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Not a typical case.</div> + +<p>Miss Repplier's description of her own lack of youthful interest in +things sexual is of value simply as applied to a limited number of +extra-protected girls. Her experience teaches us nothing regarding boys +or even girls under average conditions. We know beyond any doubt that +average children in or near adolescence do seek the kind of information +that Miss Repplier denies having thought about. It is not "pressed +relentlessly upon their attention" by teachers, but by instinct and by +environment. Playground and swimming pools and religious influence and +work <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_208" id="Page_208">[208]</a></span>are all helpful in our dealings with young people, but all +together they are inadequate without some information concerning sex.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Conclusion.</div> + +<p>Finally, Miss Repplier, like so many other critics of sex-instruction, +has in mind only the physical consequences of wrong-doing. Here again +is the influence of the pioneer sex-hygiene. However, she pleads for +the "gradual and harmonious broadening of the field of knowledge and +for a more careful consideration of ways and means" for +sex-instruction. This makes us believe that she will favor the larger +sex-education which gives a place to "the cheerful recreation, the +religious teaching, the childish virtues, the youthful virtues, the +wholesome preoccupation," as well as essential knowledge of physical +facts; and all as factors in preparing young people consciously and +unconsciously to face the inevitable problems of sex. On the whole, we +must regard Miss Repplier's discussion as a helpful contribution to the +saner aspects of sex-education.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 45. <i>A Plea for Religious Approach to Sex-instruction</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Cosmo Hamilton.</div> + +<p>Another prominent author who does not agree with the current tendencies +of sex-instruction is Cosmo Hamilton in his little book entitled "A +Plea for the Younger Generation" (Doran Co.). He agrees with the +sex-education writers that children should be instructed <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_209" id="Page_209">[209]</a></span>early, and as +far as possible by their parents; but he wholly disagrees with the +method of biological introduction. He would have parents go straight to +the heart of the matter and tell the child, as simply and truly as can +be, just how he came into the world. And he would fill the teaching +with reverence by using as an illustration the birth of the babe of +Bethlehem. Referring to those who in recent years have been working for +a scientific introduction to sex-education, Mr. Hamilton says:</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Religious appeal.</div> + +<div class="block"><p>"I think that these professors and scientists are wasting their +time, and I have written this small volume not only in order to +make a plea for the younger generation as to the way in which they +shall be taught sex truths, but also in order, if possible, to +prove to the advanced thinkers of the day that it is not +old-fashioned to beg that God may be put back into the lives of +His children, but a thing of urgent and vital importance. Without +faith the new generation is like a city built on sand. Without the +discipline and the inspiration of God the young boys and girls who +will all too soon be standing in our shoes will go through life +with hungry souls, with nothing to live up to, and very little to +live for."</p></div> + +<div class="sidenote">Many not reached by religious appeal.</div> + +<p>All this is very good so far as it appeals to the religious type of +mind, but Mr. Hamilton seems to forget that vast numbers of people +cannot be approached from this point of view. How can the illustration +of the Christ-child help those who do not accept certain orthodox +religious beliefs?</p> + +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_210" id="Page_210">[210]</a></span><br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 46. <i>The Conflict between Sex-hygiene and Sex-ethics</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Richard Cabot.</div> + +<p>It has been said in an earlier lecture that several writers have +declared that sex-ethics and sex-hygiene are essentially conflicting +and should not be associated in teaching; that is to say, that hygienic +facts should not be taught with the hope of improving morals. Most +prominent of those who have declared that hygienic and moral teaching +should be dissociated is Dr. Richard C. Cabot, of Boston. I shall give +in this lecture attention to his writings because they have tended to +introduce confusion by critical attention to certain weak details and +unessentials in the original suggestions for sex-education, and by +wrongly assuming that the original "sex-hygiene" was aimed at improved +morals, whereas it was aimed directly at health. In a paper entitled +"Consecration of the Affections (often misnamed 'Sex-hygiene')," read +at the fifth (1911) Congress of the American School Hygiene +Association, Dr. Cabot attacked the kind of sex-instruction that is +limited to sex-hygiene. He has later returned to the attack on many +occasions. I shall quote a number of his paragraphs and follow each +with a discussion of its contents.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Hygiene and conduct.</div> + +<div class="block"><p>(1) "The straight, right action in matters of human affection has +nothing to do with hygiene. For hygiene has no words to proclaim +as to why you and I should behave ourselves. Hygiene has the right +and the duty to make clear the perverted and the diseased +consequences of certain errors. But these consequences <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_211" id="Page_211">[211]</a></span>are far +from constant.... Let us disabuse our minds, then, of the idea +that there are always bad physical consequences of mistake, error, +or sin in this [sex] field, and that those consequences are +reasons for behaving ourselves. But even if there were such +consequences, I think it even more mischievous for us to preach a +morality based upon them."</p></div> + +<p>That hygienic knowledge makes many people control their sexual selves +is beyond dispute. Because the consequences of sexual error are far +from constant is a weak argument against pointing out possible results. +The consequences from pistols are far from constant, and yet I have no +doubt that Dr. Cabot would teach small boys the danger of shooting +themselves and other people.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Hygiene and ethics for health.</div> + +<p>The last quoted sentence suggests Dr. Cabot's whole basis of contention +against sex-hygiene. He seems to have inferred from the earlier papers, +especially those by Dr. Morrow, that the hygiene of sex is to be taught +as an approach to morality. On the contrary, the truth is that the aim +of most of the first leaders in sex-instruction was to teach hygiene +and ethics primarily in order to improve health. Dr. Morrow and others +believed that hygienic teaching would secondarily react on sexual +morality; but the original aim of the Society of Sanitary and Moral +Prophylaxis was to limit the spread of venereal disease by sanitary, +moral, and legal means. In other words, moral appeals were to aid in +checking disease, and knowledge of disease <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_212" id="Page_212">[212]</a></span>was not claimed to improve +morality, although such knowledge might react against immorality. It is +this misunderstanding or overlooking of the real reasons for teaching +concerning sex health that seems to have led Dr. Cabot into apparent +opposition to the general movement for sex-instruction. One infers from +all his lectures that he believes it good to teach hygiene for health, +ethics for morality, and biology for science; but that these should not +be correlated because to him they are unrelated. It seems to me that he +has simply been misled by the overenthusiasm of some of the first +writers on sex-hygiene and by the widespread use of that limited term +instead of sex-education.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Is sex-hygiene immoral?</div> + +<div class="block"><p>(2) "Now I say that the preaching about sex-hygiene that is going +on in recent books and in the periodical press is immoral in its +tendency. It is like saying, 'Don't lie, for if you do, you won't +sleep at night, and insomnia is bad for the health.'"</p></div> + +<p>If insomnia often follows lying, then it should be taught as <i>one</i> +reason why falsehoods should be avoided. This is not opposed to ethical +teaching, for at the same time we can teach the other reasons for not +telling lies. Likewise, sex-hygiene offers certain reasons for conduct +and may be supplemented by sex-ethics.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Information and morality.</div> + +<div class="block"><p>(3) "The attempts to consecrate affection and to safeguard +morality by teaching in public or private schools what is called +'sex-hygiene' will, I believe, <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_213" id="Page_213">[213]</a></span>prove a failure. I have very +little confidence in the restraining or inspiring value of +information, as such. I have seen too much of its powerlessness in +medical men and students. No one knows so much of the harm of +morphine as the physicians do, yet there are more cases of +morphine habit among physicians than among any less informed +profession. It is, of course, easy to make young children familiar +with the facts of maternity and birth. Compared to the ordinary +methods of concealment and lying by parents to children about +these matters this is doubtless an improvement, but it does almost +nothing to meet the moral problems of sex which come up later in +the child's life. One may know all about maternity, without +knowing anything of the difficulties and dangers of sex. Many have +thought that by thorough teaching of the physiology of +reproduction in plants and animals we can anticipate and to a +considerable extent prevent the dangers and temptations referred +to above."</p></div> + +<p>It is not proposed "to consecrate affection" or "to safeguard morality" +by hygienic knowledge; but simply to protect health. Of course, +information will not restrain everybody; but if physicians did not know +the dangers of morphine many more would be victims of the drug. Dr. +Cabot overlooks the fact that physicians know how to use and obtain +morphine, while other professional men do not. Teaching concerning +maternity and birth will not directly meet the moral problems of sex, +but it will help develop an attitude, "a consecration of the +affections," that will guard against the dangers of sex. Such teaching +to children is only one of <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_214" id="Page_214">[214]</a></span>many steps in the scheme of sex-education. +No responsible advocate of sex-instruction claims that teaching +children concerning the reproduction of animals and plants does +anticipate and prevent sexual temptations; but it is a foundation for +practical knowledge of human sex problems. I have elsewhere referred to +the effect of such studies on attitude.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Contagion of personality.</div> + +<div class="block"><p>(4) "The positive moral qualities which make us immune to the +dangers of sex are obtainable not through warnings as to dangers, +but through the more positive activities just alluded to. All that +is most practical and successful in this field of endeavor may be +summarized as the <i>contagion of personality, human or divine</i>. +What is it that keeps any of us straight unless it is the +contagion of the highest personalities whom we have known, in man +and God?"</p></div> + +<p>We must admit that, perhaps, "positive moral qualities" are not +obtainable through warnings, but in this pragmatic age we must have +good social results gained by any honorable means. Many people are kept +from crime by warnings of the law. Of course, this is not a "positive +moral" result for the unethical individual who must be restrained by +fear of legal consequences, but we do not worry about the individual +when society gains. Likewise, a man kept from sexual promiscuity by +fear of disease is not more positively moral, but he is a better member +of society. No one will deny the importance of personality in its +influence on positive <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_215" id="Page_215">[215]</a></span>moral qualities; but there are many people who +are not influenced by personality, either human or divine. Other kinds +of control, such as hygienic and legal, are necessary for such people.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Good and evil.</div> + +<div class="block"><p>(5) "A positive evil can be driven out only by a much more +positive good. The lower passion can be conquered only by a higher +passion."</p></div> + +<p>Here, again, Dr. Cabot seems to misunderstand the aim of hygienic +teaching regarding sex. It is not expected "to conquer the lower +passion" by hygiene, but to help keep it under control to the end that +personal and social health will be improved. The opium evil (certainly +a <i>positive</i> one) is being driven out of China by military methods that +are good only in their results in suppressing the drug. Likewise, +hygiene of sex will be a practical good in so far as it may reduce the +venereal curse. "Positive good" in Dr. Cabot's moral sense is only of +limited application so far as the majority of people are concerned. In +fact, the whole idea of solving the sexual problems by "consecration of +the affections" makes its strong appeal only to those who have already +grasped the higher view of sex and do not need sex-instruction. Other +people cannot understand the phrase. We must find some more direct and +practical attack on the sex problems for the masses; and I believe that +this means scientific teaching which improves attitude, and hygienic +teaching which protects personal and social health. <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_216" id="Page_216">[216]</a></span>It is worth while +to get these results even if we do not succeed in improving morals. +That, I believe, is another and quite independent problem.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Dissociation of hygienic and moral teaching.</div> + +<p>In an address published in the <i>Journal of the Society of Sanitary and +Moral Prophylaxis</i>, Vol. V, No. 1, January 1914, Dr. Cabot contended +that the hygienic and moral aspects of sex-education should not be +associated. It is possible that the following review and criticisms may +be based upon a misinterpretation; but if so, I shall not feel lonely, +for at the close of the discussion, Dr. Cabot said to his audience, "it +is evident that I have not succeeded in touching even the surfaces of +your minds, and have not made an atom of impression in making the +distinction which I desired to make."</p> + +<p>Dr. Cabot's main points are quoted below, and my comments follow each +quotation.</p> + +<div class="block"><p>(1) "Sanitation can often be conveyed effectively by information, +but morality cannot be conveyed by telling things."</p></div> + +<div class="sidenote">Teaching morals.</div> + +<p>It is certainly true that sanitation can be taught by words. That words +concerning moral things have no value is a proposition which Dr. Cabot +did not clearly and convincingly support.</p> + +<div class="block"><p>(2) "People often make sanitary mistakes from ignorance. So far as +you are ignorant you cannot be immoral. Morality is conditioned +upon knowledge of the right and wrong in question."</p></div> + +<div class="sidenote">Immoral or unmoral.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_217" id="Page_217">[217]</a></span>Of course, one who is ignorant is unmoral and not immoral, but this +does not divorce sanitary and moral problems of social disease. An +ignorant and unmoral man may have unsanitary sexual habits, but +enlighten him regarding venereal disease and his habits make him +immoral.</p> + +<div class="block"><p>(3) "I cannot see that biology has moral value."</p></div> + +<div class="sidenote">Moral value of biology.</div> + +<p>But it may have moral influence just as literature and history and +biography may have. Of course, pure biology alone will not make people +more sexually moral, but no responsible biologist has ever claimed that +it will.</p> + +<div class="block"><p>(4) "In morals, we are dealing with the will, and if we believe +that the will is guided by intelligence, we must believe that all +people who <i>know</i> what is right will <i>do</i> what is right."</p></div> + +<div class="sidenote">Knowledge and will.</div> + +<p>It does not follow that to know what is right is to do what is right. +All depends upon the relative weight of opposing factors. A medical +student may <i>know</i> the facts regarding venereal disease; but he also +knows the fact that his sexual instincts are insistent. The fact of his +passion may be more weighty than his scientific knowledge; and his will +may be guided by intelligent choice based on comparison of the two +opposing facts. Hence, it is illogical to contend that knowledge may +not influence moral conduct and that the will is not guided by +intelligence.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Cultivation of morality.</div> + +<div class="block"><p>(5) "Any good achieved in any branch of morality helps all +morality. A person who learns any kind of <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_218" id="Page_218">[218]</a></span>self control is helped +toward all kinds. Anything that helps self control in one field +will help in all fields, the field of sex as well as others. +Whatever makes a person more obedient to conscience in matters of +truth or courage will help him in matters of chastity. We get +morality not by consciously cultivating particular virtues, but by +making ourselves useful men and women, by practice and by the love +and imitation of our betters. Thus, morality is cultivated in +hundreds of ways all at once."</p></div> + +<p>This is sound, but it is in no logical way opposed to any other aspect +of sex-instruction discussed in this series of lectures.</p> + +<div class="block"><p>(6) "Wherever the conditions of intimacy and interest +exist,—intimacy with the right person and interest in the right +thing,—moral training is going on."</p></div> + +<div class="sidenote">Influence of individuals.</div> + +<p>This is Dr. Cabot's strongest point. He believes in the moral influence +of individuals. So do all leading advocates of sex-instruction or of +any other form of moral education. This is in no sense opposed to any +accepted proposition of sex-education.</p> + +<div class="block"><p>(7) "Sanitation may increase immorality.... I do care more for +morality than for sanitation. Where the two conflict I want +morality to lead and to govern."</p></div> + +<div class="sidenote">Morals rather than health.</div> + +<p>Right here is the basis for Dr. Cabot's repeated attacks on the +sex-education movement. He believes that morality and sanitation are +decidedly <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_219" id="Page_219">[219]</a></span>conflicting. His address fails to support this idea with +regard to a single point concerned with the proposed sex-education. He +mentioned only two points wherein there is apparent conflict, namely, +prophylaxis that allows immorality while avoiding venereal disease, and +prevention of conception. Neither of these is directly involved in the +sex-education movement, and their immoral bearings are highly +debatable.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Ethics of venereal antisepsis.</div> + +<p>Venereal prophylactics may increase promiscuity of some unmoral and +immoral men, but if universally and scientifically used by such men, +there would be little or no infection of innocent women and children. +Therefore, I assert that the good that would come from the use of +prophylactics by those who do not recognize moral control would be far +more significant than the fact that venereal prophylactics might +encourage immorality. Those who would use prophylactics would be no +worse morally than they were before, but society would gain +hygienically.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Ethics of contraception.</div> + +<p>Regarding the morality of prevention of fertilization, the best of +people hold opposing views. A great specialist in tuberculosis who +entered the discussion of Dr. Cabot's paper convinced most of his +hearers that hygienic prevention of fertilization of tubercular women +is a very moral act for a physician to advise. The real question of +morality involved in the problem of contraconception is not whether it +is immoral that sperm-cells should be prevented from <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_220" id="Page_220">[220]</a></span>swimming on +towards an egg-cell, but whether there is morality in a sexual union +that has its meaning only in affection and is not definitely intended +for propagation. It is obviously a complicated problem of hygiene, +psychology, ethics, æsthetics, religious beliefs, social traditions, +and personal prejudice; and it is absurd to allow it to become +entangled in the general propositions of sex-education. As I have often +said in this series of lectures, the larger sex-education aims at +making the best possible adjustments of sex and life. If the æsthetic +demands of affection are in real conflict with the animal function of +propagation, then a pragmatically ethical solution is found in +intelligent control of the original function. Ideally, the animal +function of propagation should be associated with the possibilities of +affection that have developed in the highest human life; but there are +numerous cases in which there must be dissociation of the functions of +affection and propagation, or the alternative is sexual asceticism. +Which is moral? This is a question concerning which the individual must +weigh his personal views and decide. Only the bigoted victims of +arrogance will see immorality in the one who disagrees with him on this +question. I insist, then, that even if advanced sex-education for +adults should some day come to involve the problem of contraconception, +there will be no conflict between hygienic knowledge and ethics, if the +teaching leads to more perfect adjustment of sex and life.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Dr. Neumann's view.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_221" id="Page_221">[221]</a></span>Probably the great majority of workers in the sex-education movement do +not in the least agree with Dr. Cabot's attempts to dissociate hygienic +and moral problems. A far more helpful view is that expressed by Dr. +Henry Neumann, leader of the Brooklyn Ethical Culture Society:</p> + +<div class="block"><p>"Problems of hygiene, whether of sex, or nutrition, or temperance +and the like, are no less moral problems. They are problems of +habit; and habits are impossible without strong incentives to +start them and keep them going.... Ethical instruction is often +misunderstood to be barren preaching. It is nothing of the sort. +It consists in clarifying views of life. It begins with the fact +that there are certain tendencies in our nature which may work ill +or good. Then it tries to show to what these lead. It uses what is +best in us to make over what is worst. That is why problems of +sex-hygiene should be regarded as at bottom problems of +sex-morality."</p></div> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 47. <i>The Arrogance of the Advocates of Sex-education</i></p> + +<p>In an article in the <i>Educational Review</i>, February, 1914, +Superintendent Maxwell, of New York City, writes concerning what he +calls "the teaching of child hygiene" as follows:</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Dr. Maxwell's criticisms.</div> + +<div class="block"><p>"There are those to-day who claim that sexual information and +problems should be thrust upon the attention of boys and girls by +the teachers in the public schools, that this teaching is +necessary for the protection of virtue and the prevention of +disease, and that, if anyone hesitates to encourage the spread of +such <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_222" id="Page_222">[222]</a></span>literature and the teaching of such knowledge, he is an +arrant and presumptuous blockhead. The arrogance of the extreme +advocates of child hygiene blinds them to certain all-important +truths. The first is that our teachers are not prepared, and, in +too many cases, are not the most suitable persons to teach the +subject. The second is that to bring the adolescent mind face to +face with sexual matters engenders the habit of dwelling upon the +sexual passion, and in that may lie spiritual havoc and physical +ruin. A premature interest in the sexual passion debases the mind +and unsettles the will. The third is that parents have no right to +ask the teacher to do the work that is peculiarly theirs.</p> + +<p>"And yet some good may emerge from this discussion. Parents may be +incited to do their duty in placing sex information before their +children whenever conditions demand such knowledge. And principals +and teachers, particularly principals, whenever they have the +acuteness to detect the tendency to wrong-doing, will no longer +hesitate to utter the word of warning in season. As for the +extravagant claims made for the teaching of sex-hygiene, I have +too much faith in the good sense of the American people to believe +that it will ever be generally and regularly taught in American +schools. Surely, we have learned something since the law compelled +us to teach the untruths regarding the effects of stimulants and +narcotics that were published in the early school manuals of +physiology and hygiene."</p></div> + +<div class="sidenote">Reply to Dr. Maxwell.</div> + +<p>I comment as follows: (1) Dr. Maxwell refers only to the "extreme +advocates." They did exist in abundance a few years ago, but are +already rare in the group of well-known educators. (2) Most <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_223" id="Page_223">[223]</a></span>teachers +are not prepared and never can be prepared to teach the human aspect of +sex problems, especially the hygienic in the strict sense. (3) +Conservative sex-instruction such as was advocated by the advisers of +the American Federation for Sex-hygiene (see "Report" by Morrow and +others, 1913) aims to guard against "premature interest in the sexual +passion." (4) While I sympathize with Dr. Maxwell's view that teaching +the elementary hygiene of sex is the parent's duty, I am forced to +recognize the futility of advocating that all or even a respectable +minority of parents should undertake their duty (see § 4). The truth is +that most of them will not, and cannot if they will, try to do so. (5) +Dr. Maxwell's idea that sex-hygiene should be taught only when an +astute principal or parent "detects wrong-doing" is, to say the least, +an educational theory that will astonish one who knows even the +elementary facts regarding the secrecy of the sexual life of young +people in general. Will he next be logically consistent and advocate +that all moral education should be given only after children show signs +of wrong-doing? (6) Sex-hygiene, as Dr. Maxwell understands it to be +concerned directly and solely with human sexual problems, will never be +taught in American schools controlled by people of good sense; but +sex-instruction from the larger viewpoint is taught in some of the best +of Dr. Maxwell's high schools. (7) All advocates of sex-instruction who +have a national reputation for educational sanity <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_224" id="Page_224">[224]</a></span>agree that +legislation is most undesirable. (8) It is obvious that like so many +others who have become confused regarding the sex-education movement, +Dr. Maxwell has been impressed chiefly by the pioneer work that +emphasized only hygienic teaching regarding sex.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 48. <i>Lubricity in Education</i></p> + +<p>Ex-President Taft has expressed his views against the sex-education +movement. The newspapers quote as follows from an address delivered in +Philadelphia in 1914:</p> + +<div class="block"><p>"There is another danger in our educational influences and +environment. I refer to the spread of lubricity in literature, on +the stage and indirectly in education, under the plea that vice +may be avoided by teaching the awful consequences. By dwelling on +its details and explaining its penalties, sexual subjects are +obtruded into discussion between the sexes, lectures are delivered +on them, textbooks are written, and former restraints of modesty +are abandoned.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Mr. Taft's alarm.</div> + +<p>"The pursuit of education in sex-hygiene is full of danger if +carried on in general public schools. The sharp, pointed and +summary advice of mothers to daughters, of fathers to sons, of a +medical professor to students in a college upon such a subject is, +of course, wise, but any benefit that may be derived from +frightening students by dwelling upon the details of the dreadful +punishment of vice is too often offset by awakening a curiosity +and interest that might not be developed so early and is likely to +set the thoughts of those whose benefit is at stake in a direction +that will <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_225" id="Page_225">[225]</a></span>neither elevate their conversations with their fellows +nor make more clean their mental habit.</p> + +<p>"I deny that the so-called prudishness and the avoidance of nasty +subjects in the last generation has ever blinded any substantial +number of girls or boys to the wickedness of vice or made them +easier victims of temptations."</p></div> + +<div class="sidenote">Evident misunderstanding.</div> + +<p>The above requires little comment, for its misunderstandings are +obvious to one who has followed the sex-education movement. Clearly Mr. +Taft has been impressed by the social-hygiene side of the problems and +does not realize the existence of a larger outlook for sex-education. +Like so many other writers who seem to know little concerning the +sexual life of children, especially of boys, Mr. Taft fears "the +awakening of curiosity and interest"! This, of course, depends upon the +facts taught and the age of the learner, but it hardly applies to +children in or near adolescence who are taught along the lines +suggested by the committee of the American Federation for Sex-Hygiene +(1913). The last paragraph quoted from Mr. Taft will be denied +completely by all who are familiar with the problems of adolescent +education. To say the least, it is unfortunate that a man prominent in +law and statesmanship should have lent the weight of his name to such +superficial conclusions that are so obviously based on exceedingly +limited information regarding both the established facts of sex and the +most approved methods of sex-instruction.</p> + +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_226" id="Page_226">[226]</a></span><br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 49. <i>Conclusions from the Criticisms of Sex-education</i></p> + +<p>I have selected for discussion the criticisms of several of the most +prominent people who have expressed opposition to the sex-education +movement. I think that all the important lines of arguments against the +movement are represented in the extracts that I have quoted. We have +seen that all of the criticisms have decidedly vulnerable points. Most +of them refer to the discarded sex-hygiene of ten years ago; but some +of them prove that the authors are quite ignorant of the sex problems +that must be faced by numerous young people.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Criticisms important.</div> + +<p>With the hope of locating the weaknesses of sex-education, I have for +years examined carefully every criticism published, and it seems to me +thoroughly scientific to conclude that all the important criticisms +have not harmed the essentials of the sex-education movement; but, on +the contrary, have been helpful in forcing reconstruction. In fact, the +present-day conception of the larger sex-education must be credited to +the severe critics more than to the friends of the original narrow +movement for reducing venereal disease by hygienic instruction.</p> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<a name="XI" id="XI"></a><hr /> +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_227" id="Page_227">[227]</a></span><br /> + +<h2>XI</h2> + +<h3 class="sc">The Past and the Future of the Sex-education Movement<span class="totoc"><a href="#toc">ToC</a></span></h3> +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 50. <i>The American Movement</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Dr. Morrow leader in America.</div> + +<p>In America the movement for sex-education began with the organization +of the American Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis on February +9, 1905, under the leadership of Dr. Prince A. Morrow. It is true that +before this time there were various local and sporadic attempts at +instruction concerning sexual processes, but such teaching was chiefly +personal and there was no concerted movement looking towards making +sex-instruction an integral part of general education. In 1892, +thirteen years before the organization of the Society of Sanitary and +Moral Prophylaxis, a group of members of the National Education +Association considered briefly the importance of instructing young +people. However, this meeting was of ephemeral significance and had no +genetic relation to the present-day movement. Other early interest in +sex-instruction is indicated in Professor Earl Barnes's bibliography +which was published in his "Studies in Education," Vol. I, p. 301, +1897.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_228" id="Page_228">[228]</a></span>The educational activities, especially the publications of the American +Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, soon attracted the serious +attention of numerous physicians, ministers, and educators in various +parts of the United States; and about twenty other societies for study +and improvement of the sex problems were organized within a few years +after the original society.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Original aim for sanitary ends.</div> + +<p>The sex-education movement both in Europe and America had its origin as +an attempt to check the spread of the venereal or social diseases. The +idea that education should work for sexual morality for its own sake +and not simply for protection against venereal diseases has only +recently begun to appear in the literature of sex-education, and so far +it seems to have made only a limited impression on many of those who +have been active in the prophylactic campaign against social disease. +In fact, the tardy recognition of the moral aim of sex-education makes +it seem probable that very little interest would have been aroused in +the movement if it had been organized on purely ethical grounds and +without any reference to the sanitary problems of social diseases. To +one who looks at sexual morality as a question of right conduct which +brings its own rewards, it is a shock to find so many thinking people +who accept calmly the traditional views of the relation of the sexes +and seem to take no interest in the immorality of men except as it is +likely to lead to venereal disease or to illegitimacy which <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_229" id="Page_229">[229]</a></span>demands +forced marriage or monetary payments. The truth is that the civilized +world at large is very far from a working code of sexual morals which +will be practiced because of promised rewards rather than because of +probable punishments. It is natural, then, that the sex-education +movement should have started with a proclamation of physical +punishments for immorality rather than an offer of ethical and +psychical rewards for morality.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Both sanitary and moral.</div> + +<p>However, the fact that sex-education, under the name of "sex-hygiene," +was at first a sanitary propagandism need not interfere with the larger +development of sex-education. It now seems probable that before many +years pass we shall learn how to make a satisfactory combination of +both the sanitary and moral sides of sex-education, and so it is best +that the educational movement started on the foundation of the +undisputed facts of sanitary science which have made a powerful +impression on the people who do and who do not recognize a code of +sexual morals.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Medical interest.</div> + +<p>The deep interest of the medical profession is directly responsible for +the close association between the beginning of the sex-education +movement and the diseases of immorality. At the organization meeting of +the American Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, Dr. Prince +Morrow in the opening paragraph of his address said: "We have met for +the purpose of discussing the wisdom and the expediency of forming a +society of sanitary and moral prophylaxis. The object <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_230" id="Page_230">[230]</a></span>is to organize a +social defense against a class of diseases which are most injurious to +the highest interests of human society." Thus, the American Society of +Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis started as an avowed enemy of the social +diseases and so it has continued to the present. The very name of its +official journal, <i>Social Diseases</i>,<a name="FNanchor_19_19" id="FNanchor_19_19"></a><a href="#Footnote_19_19" class="fnanchor">[19]</a> indicated the central idea of +the Society. Likewise, most of the local American societies for +sex-hygiene have names including such phrases as "social hygiene," +"prevention of social diseases," "sanitary prophylaxis"; and only one, +the Massachusetts Society for Sex Education, has a name which does not +directly suggest the medical problems of sex.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">In Europe.</div> + +<p>In Europe, the sex-instruction movement has been concerned chiefly with +spreading information concerning the social diseases. In 1902 an +international congress for consideration of the venereal diseases was +held in Brussels, and this congress recommended that in all countries +there should be organized sanitary, social, moral, and legal societies +for the prophylaxis of these diseases. As a result of this +recommendation, prophylactic societies were formed in France, Germany, +Italy, Holland, the United States, and other countries. Of these, the +German society for the prevention of venereal disease became the +strongest, with over five thousand members and twenty branch +societies.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">National societies.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_231" id="Page_231">[231]</a></span>The fact that the American Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis +was organized by a group of people in New York City tended from the +beginning to make it a local society. While for several years it took +the lead in sex-hygiene and enrolled members residing in many parts of +the United States, it was never a national organization. In recent +years the word "American" has been omitted from its name, and its work +has been limited to New York City and vicinity.<a name="FNanchor_20_20" id="FNanchor_20_20"></a><a href="#Footnote_20_20" class="fnanchor">[20]</a> Many independent +state and city societies were organized within a few years after the +original sex-hygiene society in New York. This multiplication of +societies called attention to the need of a national organization, and +in 1910 the various societies were affiliated in the American +Federation for Sex-Hygiene. Dr. Morrow was the leading spirit in the +Federation until his death. In 1913, the Federation and the American +Vigilance Association (a society especially concerned with the social +evil) were united in the American Social Hygiene Association. Its +offices are at 105 West 40th Street, New York City.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 51. <i>Important Steps in the Sex-education Movement in America</i></p> + +<div class="block5"><p>May 23, 1904. Dr. Prince Morrow's plea for the organization of a +society of sanitary and moral prophylaxis, read before the Medical +Society of the County of New York.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_232" id="Page_232">[232]</a></span>February 9, 1905. Organization meeting of the American Society of +Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, in New York.</p> + +<p>March, 1906. Pennsylvania Society for the Prevention of Social +Diseases organized.</p> + +<p>October, 1906. Chicago Society of Social Hygiene organized.</p> + +<p>December, 1907. Portland (Ore.) Social Hygiene Society organized.</p> + +<p>October, 1908. Spokane Society of Social and Moral Prophylaxis +organized.</p> + +<p>June, 1910. American Federation for Sex-Hygiene organized.</p> + +<p>1911. Oregon Social Hygiene Society organized.</p> + +<p>July 20, 1912. Resolution of the National Education Association +favoring training of teachers with the view, ultimately, of +sex-instruction in schools.</p> + +<p>September 23-28, 1912. Meeting of subsection on sex-hygiene, +Fifteenth International Congress on Hygiene and Demography. +Washington, D.C.</p> + +<p>February, 1912. Organization of American Vigilance Association.</p> + +<p>October, 1913. Merging of the American Federation for Sex-Hygiene +and the American Vigilance Association into the new American +Social Hygiene Association.</p> + +<p>1913. Organization of Pacific Coast Federation for Sex-Hygiene, +changed to Pacific Coast Social Hygiene Association in June, 1914.</p> + +<p>July, 1914. The National Education Association, at Minneapolis, +adopted the following resolutions in line with the latest +principles of the Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis and +the American Social Hygiene Association:</p> + +<div class="block5"><p>"The Association, re-affirming its belief in the constructive +value of education in sex-hygiene, directs attention to the +grave dangers, ethical and social, arising out of a sex +consciousness stimulated by undue emphasis upon sex problems +and <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_233" id="Page_233">[233]</a></span>relations. The situation is so serious as to render +neglect hazardous. The Association urges upon all parents the +obvious duty of parental care and instruction in such matters +and directs attention to the mistake of leaving such problems +exclusively to the school. The Association believes that +sex-hygiene should be approached in the public schools +conservatively under the direction of persons qualified by +scientific training and teaching experience in order to +assure a safe moral point of view. The Association, +therefore, recommends that institutions preparing teachers +give attention to such subjects as would qualify for +instruction in the general field of morals as well as in the +particular field of sex-hygiene."</p></div></div> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend">§ 52. <i>The Future of the Larger Sex-education</i></p> + +<div class="sidenote">Public has lost interest in sensationalism.</div> + +<p>I hear many questions as to the probable future of sex-education. I am +asked: "Is it moribund?" "Is it a disappearing fad?" "Has not the high +tide of interest passed?" No doubt such questions are inspired by the +oft-repeated statement that public interest in sexual questions has +waned decidedly in the last few years. This is true, and it is a most +fortunate indication of approaching sanity. The public interest in the +last decade has been most deplorable, because it has centered in the +abnormal and sensational aspects of sex. Authors have vied with each +other in presenting the most lurid cases of social diseases, white +slavery, sexual perversions, and every other available aspect of sexual +degeneracy. Of course, the reading public was bound to grow tired of +this, just as it wearies <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_234" id="Page_234">[234]</a></span>of a horrible murder trial or of a +sensational divorce case. It is certainly true that there is a marked +decline of general interest in sexual abnormality and sensationalism; +but that does not mean that the sex-education movement is moribund.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex-education permanent.</div> + +<p>The wave of sensational revelation has passed; but the intelligent +public is no longer ignorant of the nature and causes of the great +problems of sex, and is well aware that young people need definite +guidance for facing the facts of life. It is unthinkable that +intelligent parents who are now well informed concerning sex will ever +again stand for the old policy of mystery and silence. It is, +therefore, impossible to believe that there is any danger of +sex-education disappearing. Of course, we have not reached a permanent +system of sex-education. There certainly will be vast changes in our +approved subject matter and methods of teaching; but the main idea of +the sex-education movement is gaining support every day.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex-education fundamental.</div> + +<p>There is another reason why sex-education will be permanent. In +addition to the great need of educational help with information and +influence which will mold the individual life with regard to the +problems of sex, it must be evident to all that even the legislative, +sanitary, social administrative, religious, ethical, and other attacks +upon the problems depend upon knowledge and attitude, at least of the +leaders. Look at the problems of sex outlined in the earlier lectures +from whatever angle we will, and it appears <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_235" id="Page_235">[235]</a></span>that, in the final +analysis, education offers the only key to a possible solution. +Therefore, I assert that sex-education—the larger sex-education—is an +absolutely fundamental factor in every phase of the social-hygiene and +sex-ethical movement.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Ultimate effect of sex-education.</div> + +<p>In closing the last lecture of this series, let me state my confession +of faith in sex-education: It is certainly only <i>one of several</i> +possible lines of attack on the alarming sex problems of our time; but +it offers the most hopeful outlook towards improved sexual morals and +health, both physical and psychical. However, we shall gain nothing of +permanent value by extravagant claims or hopes as to the ultimate +effect of sex-education. We must expect incomplete results. It will not +entirely solve the sex problems for all individuals who receive +instruction; but it will solve all of the problems of many individuals +and help many others. It will not eradicate the social evil and its +characteristic diseases, but it will protect many young people and so +reduce the sum total of awful consequences. It will not prevent all +divorces and matrimonial disharmonies, but already the biological +teaching is helping and some day the social-ethical problems will be +understood and then most intelligent men and women will understand the +fundamental principles for permanent and harmonious monogamic marriage. +Finally, sex-education will not enforce universal sexual morality in +conformity with our accepted code, but it will help many individuals +through decisive battles with sex-instincts.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">Sex-Education and general education.</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_236" id="Page_236">[236]</a></span>Such are some of the lines along which extreme claims and hopes for +sex-education have been and are still being made. There is some truth +in each; in fact, there is more than enough to justify the present +movement for sex-education. To all those who see nothing in the +movement because it will not solve all the sex problems which have +created a demand for special instruction, we may reply by simply +pointing to the fact that general education makes some better and more +efficient citizens, but many times it fails to give desirable results. +We believe in general education because it aims to offer all +individuals help in preparation for more efficient life, although it +succeeds only in part. Likewise, we should stand for the instruction of +all young people in matters concerning sex because it is certain that +such knowledge will function completely in many lives and will work +appreciable good in many others.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">A permanent and essential part of education.</div> + +<p>I cannot believe that sex-education is one of the long line of modern +educational fads which quickly pass their day, for no other phase of +education so closely touches life. History and geography and even a +large part of the "three Rs" may be of little use in the lives of +numerous people, but sex-education deals with problems which the normal +human life cannot possibly avoid and which each individual must be +prepared to solve for himself. Therefore, we may confidently assert +that instruction concerning the most important aspects of sex processes +and relationships will <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_237" id="Page_237">[237]</a></span>soon be recognized as an absolutely necessary +part of a rational and efficient scheme for the education of young +people.</p> + +<div class="sidenote">The never-ending problem of good and evil.</div> + +<p>The larger sex-education is sure to have a permanent place in the +never-ending work of preparing coming generations for the highest +development of life's possibilities. Each succeeding generation of +young people must be prepared by educational processes to face +intelligently and bravely the problems of sex that are sure to come +into every normal life. Of course, sex-education at its best +development can do no more than give the individual a basis for +intelligent choice between good and evil; but here, as in all other +upward movements of human life, the decision must depend upon a clear +and positive recognition of the advantages of the good as contrasted +with the evil. Hence, the one essential task of sex-education in its +broadest outlook is to guide natural human beings to recognition and +choice of the best in the sexual sphere of life. And in so far as each +coming generation of individuals may be thus guided by the larger +sex-education, the problems of sex will be pragmatically solved, for +the social aggregate of human life will become better, happier, nobler, +truer, more in harmony with the highest ideals of life, more like our +vision of perfected humanity.</p> + +<br /> +<hr style="width: 15%;" /> +<br /> + +<h4>FOOTNOTES:</h4> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_19_19" id="Footnote_19_19"></a><a href="#FNanchor_19_19"><span class="label">[19]</span></a> The name was changed in 1913 to <i>Journal of the Society +of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis</i>.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p class="noin"><a name="Footnote_20_20" id="Footnote_20_20"></a><a href="#FNanchor_20_20"><span class="label">[20]</span></a> While this book was in press, the name was changed to New +York Social Hygiene Society.</p></div> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<a name="XII" id="XII"></a><hr /> +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_238" id="Page_238">[238]</a></span><br /> + +<h2>XII</h2> + +<h3 class="sc">Some Books for Sex-education<span class="totoc"><a href="#toc">ToC</a></span></h3> +<br /> + +<p>I have decided to publish only the names of selected books which seem +to me to be the best for teachers, parents, and young people. In making +the selection, I have considered several hundred books which bear on +the sex problems in an educational way, and have decided to reject the +majority of them. While there might be some value in a long list with +critical notes on books that I cannot recommend, it would be a worse +than thankless task to compile such an annotated bibliography; for the +compiler would surely add to his collection of enemies many authors +whose books deserve severe criticism. The sudden and sensational +publicity concerning matters of sex and the possibility of commercial +exploitation has produced an avalanche of sex books, some good, many +bad, and the majority ordinary. Evidently, most of the authors, +including numerous physicians, have written to order and without +special preparation.</p> + +<p>The books of the following lists are not all deserving of unqualified +recommendation. In fact, some of them are included because they are the +least objectionable of their much-needed kind, and others because they +have some good grains that the reader <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_239" id="Page_239">[239]</a></span>will find worth picking from a +mass of non-nutritious but, fortunately, non-poisonous chaff.</p> + +<p>I have not included many books which I recognize as important for +readers thoroughly trained in science, but which are dangerous for the +average reader of literature on sex.</p> + +<p>It is possible that I may have overlooked some very good books that I +have not intended to ignore; and I shall be glad to have my attention +called to books which deserve recognition.</p> + +<p>Special bibliographies have been published in Wile's "Sex-Education," +March's "Towards Racial Health," Geddes and Thomson's "Sex," and +Foster's "Social Emergency."</p> + +<p>Publishers.—In most cases the first part of the names of well-known +publishers has been given. Unless otherwise mentioned, they have +offices in New York City. In addition, the following abbreviations have +been used:</p> + +<p>A.M.A. = American Medical Association, Chicago.</p> + +<p>A.S.H.A. = American Social Hygiene Association, 105 West 40th St., New +York City.</p> + +<p>S.S.M.P. = Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, 105 West 40th +Street, New York City.</p> + +<p>Association Press = press of the National Board of the Y.M.C.A., New +York City.</p> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend sc">For Educators and Parents</p> + +<div class="block"><p class="hang"><span class="sc">Addams, Jane.</span> "A New Conscience and an Ancient Evil." +Macmillan. $1.00. (Contains all the average reader needs to +know concerning prostitution.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Bok, Edward</span>, Editor. "Books of Self-Knowledge for Young +People and Parents." Revell. $.25 each.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_240" id="Page_240">[240]</a></span></p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Bigelow, M.A. </span> "Relation of Biology to Sex-Instruction in +Schools and Colleges." Journal of Social Diseases, II, 4, +October, 1911.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Cabot, Richard C.</span> "The Christian Approach to Social +Morality." National Y.W.C.A., New York. $.50.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Cabot, Richard C.</span> "What Men Live By." Houghton Mifflin. +$1.50. (A book that has helped many people.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Cabot, R.C.</span> "Consecration of the Affections." Proceedings +of Fifth Cong. Amer. School Hygiene Assoc., III, 1911, p. 114. +Also in Amer. Phy. Ed. Rev., XVI, 1911, pp. 247-253. (See +"Criticisms of Sex-Education" in § 46 of this book.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Cocks, Orrin G.</span> "The Social Evil and Methods of +Treatment." Association Press. $.25.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Creighton, Louise.</span> "The Social Disease and How to Fight +It." Longmans. $.35. (A splendid essay on social impurity from a +modern woman's viewpoint. Constructive and optimistic.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Eliot, C.W.</span> "Public Opinion and Sex-Hygiene." A.S.H.A. +$.05.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Eliot, C.W.</span> "School Instruction in Sex Hygiene." +Proceedings of Fifth Cong. Amer. School Hygiene Assoc., 1911.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Ellis, Havelock.</span> "The Task of Social Hygiene." Houghton. +$2.50. (Certain chapters concern sex-education.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Galloway, T.W.</span> "Biology of Sex." Heath. $.75.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Geddes, Patrick</span>, and <span class="sc">Thomson, J. Arthur.</span> "Sex." +Holt. $.50. (Excellent.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Geddes</span> and <span class="sc">Thomson.</span> "The Problems of Sex." +Moffat. $.50.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Foster, W.T.</span> "The Social Emergency." Houghton. $1.35. +(Twelve excellent essays by President Foster, Reed College, and +nine others, on social hygiene and education.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, G. Stanley.</span> "Adolescence." Appleton. 2 vols. +$7.50.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, G.S.</span> "Youth: Its Education, Regimen and Hygiene." +Appleton. $1.50.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_241" id="Page_241">[241]</a></span></p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, G.S.</span> "Needs and Methods of Educating Young People +in Hygiene of Sex." Pedagogical Seminary, XV, March, 1908.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, G.S.</span> "Teaching of Sex in Schools and Colleges." +Journal of Social Diseases, II, 4, October, 1911.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, Winfield S.</span> "Sex Training in the Home." Richardson, +Chicago. $1.10.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Henderson, Chas. R.</span> "Education with Reference to Sex." +University of Chicago Press. Part I, 78 cts.; II, 80 cts. (Part +I demonstrates need of sex-education; II, the educational +problems.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Herter, C.A.</span> "Biological Aspects of Human Problems." +Macmillan. $1.50. (Sexual instincts, pp. 182-252; sex-education, +306-316.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hime, Maurice C.</span> "Schoolboys' Special Immorality." +Churchill, London. $.40. (For masters of boarding schools.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hodge, C.F.</span> "Social Hygiene in Public Schools." School +Science and Mathematics, April, 1911.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Howard, W.L.</span> "Start Your Child Right." Revell. $.75. +(Readable, sensible, helpful to parents.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Lowry, Edith B.</span> "False Modesty: That Protects Vice by +Ignorance." Forbes. $.50. (Arguments for sex-instruction in home +and school.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Lowry, E.B.</span> "Teaching Sex-Hygiene in the Public Schools." +Forbes. $.50. (Useful for parents and teachers.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Lyttleton, E.</span> "Training the Young in the Laws of Sex." +Longmans, Green. $1.00. (Heartily approved by many educators.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">March, Norah H.</span> "Towards Racial Health." Routledge, +London. $1.00. (Very helpful book for parents and teachers.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Morley, Margaret W.</span> "Renewal of Life." McClurg. $1.10. +(Nature-study basis for teaching children.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Morrow</span>, <span class="sc">Balliet</span>, and <span class="sc">Bigelow.</span> "Report +of Special Committee on Matters and Methods of Sex-Education." +A.S.H.A. $.05.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_242" id="Page_242">[242]</a></span></p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Morrow, Prince A.</span> "Teaching of Sex-Hygiene." A.S.H.A. +$.03. (A splendid address.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Morrow, P.A.</span> "The Boy Problem." S.S.M.P. $.05. (Helpful +to parents.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Morrow, P.A.</span> "The Sex Problem." S.S.M.P. $.03. (A fair +statement of the double morality problem.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Parkinson, William D.</span> "Sex and Education." Educational +Review, January, 1911. (Stands for ethical and æsthetic teaching +primarily.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Scharlieb</span> and <span class="sc">Sibly.</span> "Youth and Sex." Dodge. +$.25.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Seligman, E.R.A.</span> "The Social Evil." Putnam. $1.50. (A +good survey of the evil, based on the work of the Committee of +Fourteen in New York.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Wile, Ira S.</span> "Sex Education." Duffield. $1.00. (A very +useful book for parents.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Wood-Allen, Mary.</span> "Teaching Truth." Crist Co. $.50. +(Suggestions for mothers' talks to young children.)</p> + +<p class="hang">"Social Hygiene." A quarterly journal of the A.S.H.A. $2.00 per +year, free to members.</p></div> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend sc">For Girls</p> + +<div class="block"><p class="hang"><span class="sc">Addams, Jane.</span> "Spirit of Youth and the City Streets." +Macmillan. $1.25.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Chapman, Rose Woodallen.</span> "How Shall I Tell My Child?" +Revell. $.25.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Dodge, Grace H.</span> "A Bundle of Letters to Busy Girls." +Funk. $.50.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, Jeannette W.</span> "Life's Story." Steadwell, La Crosse, +Wis. $.25. (Biological facts for girls of 10 to 16.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, W.S.</span> "Life Problems: A Story for Girls." A.M.A. +$.10. (A good pamphlet for girls of 12 to 18 years.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, W.S.</span> "The Doctor's Daughter: Studies about Life." +A.M.A. $.10. (On nature-study basis, for girls under 12 years.)<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_243" id="Page_243">[243]</a></span></p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hood, Mary G.</span> "For Girls and the Mothers of Girls." +Bobbs-Merrill. $1.00.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Howard, W.L.</span> "Confidential Chats with Girls." Clode. +$1.00.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Smith, Nellie M.</span> "The Three Gifts of Life." Dodd, Mead. +$.50. (A girl's responsibility. For girls 15 to 18, who have no +more than grammar-school education. In general, sentimental and +unscientific; but Chapter IV, "Gift of Choice," is excellent.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Torelle, Ellen.</span> "Plant and Animal Children: How they +Grow." Heath. $1.00. (Useful as a nature-study reader concerning +reproduction of animals and plants.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Wood-Allen, Mary.</span> "Almost a Woman." Crist Co. $.50. (A +story for girls of 12 years.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Wood-Allen, Mary.</span> "What a Young Girl Should Know." Vir +Co., Philadelphia. $1.00. (For girls under 12 or 14.)</p></div> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend sc">For Boys</p> + +<div class="block"><p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, W.S.</span> "John's Vacation." A.M.A. $.10. (On +nature-study basis, for pre-adolescent boys.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, W.S.</span> "Chums." A.M.A. $.10. (For adolescent boys.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, W.S.</span> "Developing into Manhood." Association Press. +$.25. (Biological basis, for boys of 15 to 18 years.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, W.S.</span> "Life's Beginnings." Association Press. $.25.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, W.S.</span> "Youth." Association Press. $.25. (For boys 10 +to 12.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Howard, W.L.</span> "Confidential Chats with Boys." Clode. +$1.00.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Jenks, J.W.</span> "Life Questions of School Boys." Association +Press. $.25.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Jewett.</span> "The Next Generation." Ginn. $.75. (Elementary +eugenics.)<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_244" id="Page_244">[244]</a></span></p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Torelle, Ellen.</span> "Plant and Animal Children." (See under +books for girls.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Trewby, Arthur.</span> "Healthy Boyhood." Longmans. $.40.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Wood-Allen, Mary.</span> "Almost a Man." Crist Co. $.50. +(Similar to "Almost a Woman." For pre-adolescent boys.)</p></div> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend sc">For Women</p> + +<div class="block"><p class="hang"><span class="sc">Drake, E.F.A.</span> "What a Young Wife Ought to Know." Vir +Co., Philadelphia. $1.00.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Galbraith, Anna.</span> "Four Epochs of a Woman's Life." +Saunders, Philadelphia. $1.50. (Medical in style. Certain +sections relating to heredity are not satisfactory.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, W.S.</span> "Sexual Knowledge." Intern. Bible House, +Philadelphia. $1.00.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Key, Ellen.</span> "Morality of Woman and other Essays." +Seymour, Chicago. $1.00. (Ideal morality as a basis for +marriage. Good introduction to author's "Love and Marriage.")</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Lowry, E.B.</span> "Herself." Forbes. $1.10. (In general, +accurate. Medical style.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Martin, H.N.</span> "Human Body—Advanced Course." Holt. $2.50. +(Last chapter, on reproduction, excellent.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Rummel, Luella Z.</span> "Womanhood and Its Development." Burton +Co., Kansas City. $1.50. (One of the best books for mature +women. Poorly printed.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Schreiner, Olive.</span> "Woman and Labor." Stokes. $1.25. +(Important for the feminist movement.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">West, Mrs. Max.</span> "Prenatal Care." Bulletin of Children's +Bureau, U.S. Dept. of Labor. (A very practical pamphlet.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Wood-Allen, Mary.</span> "What a Young Woman Should Know." Vir +Co., Philadelphia. $1.00. (The best-known book, preferred by the +majority of mothers.)</p></div> + +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_245" id="Page_245">[245]</a></span><br /> + +<p class="cend sc">For Men</p> + +<div class="block"><p class="hang"><span class="sc">Exner, M.J.</span> "Problems and Principles of Sex-Education." +Association Press. $.10. (Study of college men, and an essay on +principles.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Exner, M.J.</span> "The Physician's Answer." Association Press. +$.15. (Summary of opinions of numerous physicians concerning the +problems of young men.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Exner, M.J.</span> "The Rational Sex Life for Men." Association +Press. $.15. (Good, and helpful to many young men.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, W.S.</span> "From Youth into Manhood." Association Press. +$.50. (Highly approved and widely used.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, W.S.</span> "Instead of Wild Oats." Revell. $.25. (Bok +Series, Biological and Sociological basis.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, W.S.</span> "Reproduction and Sexual Hygiene." Wynnewood, +Chicago. $.90. (Very useful book, but criticized by many who +disagree with the hygienic part.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Hall, W.S.</span> "Sexual Knowledge." Intern. Bible House. +Philadelphia. $1.00. (Useful for both men and women. Includes +the best of the above book.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Howard, William Lee.</span> "Plain Facts on Sex Hygiene." Clode. +$1.00. (Sensational and exaggerated statements concerning social +diseases; language unnecessarily offensive in places; but +discussion of "continence" is good.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Howell</span> and <span class="sc">Keyes.</span> "The Sexual Necessity." +S.S.M.P. $.03.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Lowry, E.B.</span>, and <span class="sc">Lambert, R.J.</span> "Himself: Talks +with Men concerning Themselves." Forbes. $1.00. (Accurate in +facts; not well arranged; not "the best book," as the publishers +claim.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Lydston, G. Frank.</span> "Sex Hygiene for the Male." Riverton, +Chicago. $2.25. (Readable, fairly reliable, but not worth the +price.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Martin, H.N.</span> "Human Body—Advanced Course." Holt. $2.50. +(Last chapter, especially in 1910 edition.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Moore, H.H.</span> "Keeping in Condition." Macmillan. $1.00. (A +physical training book.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Morrow, Prince A.</span> "Health and Hygiene of Sex." S.S.M.P. +$.05. (The best-known pamphlet for college men.)<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_246" id="Page_246">[246]</a></span></p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Speer, Robert E.</span> "A Young Man's Questions." Revell. $.80.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Sperry, Lyman B.</span> "Confidential Talks with Young Men." +Revell. $.75.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Stall, Sylvanus.</span> "What a Young Husband Ought to Know." +Vir Co., Philadelphia. $1.00. (This and the next are useful to +men who prefer a religious approach to sexual information.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Stall, Sylvanus.</span> "What a Young Man Ought to Know." Vir +Co., Philadelphia. $1.00.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Wilson, Robert N.</span> "American Boy and the Social Evil." +Winston. $1.00.</p></div> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend sc">For the Married</p> + +<div class="block"><p class="hang"><span class="sc">Cocks, Orrin G.</span> "Engagement and Marriage." Association +Press. $.25. (Talks to young men, but young women should be +interested.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Cowan, John.</span> "Science of a New Life." 1869. $3.00. +(Obsolete, unreliable, unscientific; but widely sold by magazine +advertising.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Davidson, Hugh S.</span> "Marriage and Motherhood." Dodge. $.25.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Davis, E.P.</span> "Mother and Child." Lippincott. $1.50.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Foerster, F.W.</span> "Marriage and the Sex Problem." Stokes. +$1.35. (An important book.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Holt, L.E.</span> "Care and Feeding of Children." Appleton. +$.75. (The well-known nursery guide by the famous pediatrician.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Howard, W.L.</span> "Facts for the Married." Clode. $1.00. +(Good, from a physician's standpoint.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Jordan, W.J.</span> "Little Problems of Married Life." Revell. +$1.00. (Essays which touch many problems of home life.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Key, Ellen.</span> "Love and Marriage." Putnam. $1.50. (The +greatest work of this famous Swedish author.)</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Saleeby, C.W.</span> "Parenthood and Race Culture." Moffat, +Yard. $2.50. (Popular eugenics.)<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_247" id="Page_247">[247]</a></span></p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Sperry, Lyman B.</span> "Confidential Talks with Husband and +Wife." Revell. $1.00.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Wood-Allen, Mary.</span> "Ideal Married Life." Revell. $1.25. +(Best book by this well-known physician and author.)</p></div> + +<br /> + +<p class="cend sc">Heredity and Eugenics</p> + +<div class="block"><p class="hang"><span class="sc">Castle, W.E.</span> "Heredity in Relation to Evolution and +Animal Breeding." Appleton. $1.50.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Conklin, F.G.</span> "Heredity and Environment in the +Development of Men." Princeton University Press. $2.00.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Davenport, C.B.</span> "Heredity in Relation to Eugenics." Holt. +$2.00.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Dawson, G.E.</span> "Right of the Child to be Well Born." Funk. +$.75.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Doncaster, L.</span> "Heredity in the Light of Recent Research." +Putnam. $.40.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Geddes, P.</span>, and <span class="sc">Thomson, J.A.</span> "Evolution." Holt. +$.50.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Guyer, M.F.</span> "Being Well Born." Bobbs-Merrill. $1.00.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Kellicott, W.E.</span> "The Social Direction of Human +Evolution." Appleton. $1.50.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Punnett, R.C.</span> "Mendelism." Macmillan. $.50.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Saleeby, C.W.</span> "Parenthood and Race Culture." Moffat, +Yard. $2.50.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Thomson, J.A.</span> "Heredity." Putnam. $3.50.</p> + +<p class="hang"><span class="sc">Walter, H.E.</span> "Genetics." Macmillan. $1.50.</p></div> + +<br /> +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_248" id="Page_248">[248]</a></span><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<a name="INDEX" id="INDEX"></a><hr /> +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_249" id="Page_249">[249]</a></span><br /> + +<h3>INDEX<span class="totoc"><a href="#toc">ToC</a></span></h3> +<br /> + +<div style="margin-left: 25%;"> +<ul><li>Abnormality, in literature, <a href="#Page_129">129 ff.</a></li> + +<li>Adolescence, and sex-instruction, <a href="#Page_146">146 ff.</a></li> + +<li>Adults, and special sex-instruction, <a href="#Page_26">26</a>.</li> + +<li>Æsthetics of sex, <a href="#Page_4">4</a>, <a href="#Page_74">74</a>, <a href="#Page_197">197</a>.</li> + +<li>Affection, <a href="#Page_163">163</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>"consecration of," <a href="#Page_210">210</a>;</li> + <li>in marriage, <a href="#Page_189">189</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Aims, of sex-education, <a href="#Page_92">92</a>, <a href="#Page_94">94</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>of sex-education societies, <a href="#Page_228">228</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Animals, and human sexuality, <a href="#Page_72">72</a>.</li> + +<li>Arguments, for sex-instruction, <a href="#Page_28">28 ff.</a></li> + +<li>Asceticism, <a href="#Page_69">69</a>.</li> + +<li>Athletics, and sex, <a href="#Page_141">141</a>.</li> + +<li>Attitude, towards sex, <a href="#Page_26">26</a>, <a href="#Page_67">67 ff.</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>and morals, <a href="#Page_75">75</a>.</li> + </ul><br /></li> + + +<li>Bibliography, <a href="#Page_238">238 ff.</a></li> + +<li>Biology, <a href="#Page_56">56</a>, <a href="#Page_65">65</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>and ethics, <a href="#Page_102">102 ff.</a>;</li> + <li>and sex-instruction, <a href="#Page_147">147</a>;</li> + <li>moral value, <a href="#Page_217">217</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Books, as teachers, <a href="#Page_121">121 ff.</a>, <a href="#Page_241">241 ff.</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li><i>see also</i> literature.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Boys, influence on, <a href="#Page_158">158</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>special instruction, <a href="#Page_148">148-250</a>.</li> + </ul><br /></li> + + +<li>Cabot, R.C., <a href="#Page_63">63</a>, <a href="#Page_210">210 ff.</a></li> + +<li>Childhood, <a href="#Page_25">25</a>.</li> + +<li>Children, ignorant of sex, <a href="#Page_204">204</a>.</li> + +<li>Circumcision, <a href="#Page_139">139</a>.</li> + +<li>Coeducation, in sex-instruction, <a href="#Page_109">109</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>and sex adjustment, <a href="#Page_80">80</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Continence, <a href="#Page_160">160 ff.</a>, <a href="#Page_176">176 ff.</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>of women, <a href="#Page_190">190 ff.</a></li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Contraception, and ethics, <a href="#Page_219">219</a>.</li> + +<li>Control, of sex instincts, <a href="#Page_18">18</a>.</li> + +<li>Criticisms, of sex-education, <a href="#Page_203">203 ff.</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>conclusions regarding, <a href="#Page_226">226</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Curiosity, denied by Repplier and Taft, <i>q.v.</i><br /><br /></li> + + +<li>Dancing, <a href="#Page_169">169 ff.</a>, <a href="#Page_200">200</a>.</li> + +<li>Diseases, social or venereal, <a href="#Page_37">37 ff.</a></li> + +<li>Dress, of women, <a href="#Page_174">174 ff.</a>, <a href="#Page_200">200</a>.<br /><br /></li> + + +<li>Education, as a solution, <a href="#Page_19">19</a>, <a href="#Page_88">88</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>coeducation, <a href="#Page_80">80</a>;</li> + <li>sex-differentiated, <a href="#Page_82">82</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Eliot, C.W., <a href="#Page_71">71</a>.</li> + +<li>Emissions, <a href="#Page_149">149</a>.</li> + +<li>Ethics, and biology, <a href="#Page_102">102</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>and sex-hygiene, <a href="#Page_61">61 ff.</a></li> + <li>of sex, <a href="#Page_4">4</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Eugenics, <a href="#Page_86">86 ff.</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>aim of, <a href="#Page_105">105</a>;</li> + <li>and ethics, <a href="#Page_103">103</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Europe, and sex problems, <a href="#Page_59">59 ff.</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>morality in, <a href="#Page_59">59</a>;</li> + <li>sex-hygiene in, <a href="#Page_230">230</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Evolution, and vulgarity, <a href="#Page_75">75</a>.<br /><br /></li> + + +<li>Fiction, and sex tragedies, <a href="#Page_127">127</a>.</li> + +<li>Foerster, <a href="#Page_70">70</a>.</li> + +<li>Frankness, <a href="#Page_206">206</a>.</li> + +<li>Friendships, of children, <a href="#Page_136">136</a>.</li> + +<li>Fulton, J.S., <a href="#Page_40">40</a>.</li> + +<li>Future, of sex-education, <a href="#Page_234">234-237</a>.<br /><br /></li> + + +<li>Genetics, <a href="#Page_87">87</a>.</li> + +<li>Girls, special instruction, <a href="#Page_151">151</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>unprotected, <a href="#Page_191">191</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Gonorrhea, <i>see</i> Diseases.</li> + +<li>Good, and evil, <a href="#Page_215">215</a>.<br /><br /></li> + + +<li>Hamilton, Cosmo, <a href="#Page_208">208</a>.</li> + +<li>Hartley, C. Gasquoine, <a href="#Page_82">82 ff.</a></li> + +<li>Heredity, <a href="#Page_87">87</a>;<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_250" id="Page_250">[250]</a></span> + <ul class="nest"> + <li>and sex-education, <a href="#Page_104">104</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>History, of sex-education, <a href="#Page_227">227 ff.</a></li> + +<li>Homes, and sex-instruction, <a href="#Page_21">21</a>.</li> + +<li>Hunger, two kinds, <a href="#Page_73">73</a>.</li> + +<li>Hygiene, and ethics, <a href="#Page_210">210 ff.</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>of sex, <a href="#Page_1">1-4</a>, <a href="#Page_25">25</a>.</li> + </ul><br /></li> + + +<li>Ideals, of manhood, <a href="#Page_185">185</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>of womanhood, <a href="#Page_157">157</a>;</li> + <li>of love and marriage, <a href="#Page_159">159</a>, <a href="#Page_187">187</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Ignorance, <a href="#Page_45">45</a>, <a href="#Page_50">50</a>, <a href="#Page_54">54</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>of children, <a href="#Page_12">12-14</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Illegitimacy, <a href="#Page_52">52 ff.</a>, <a href="#Page_59">59</a>.</li> + +<li>Immorality, <a href="#Page_38">38</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>danger in teaching, <a href="#Page_67">67</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Instincts, sexual, <a href="#Page_16">16-18</a>.</li> + +<li>Intellectualism, and sex, <a href="#Page_83">83</a>.<br /><br /></li> + + +<li>Kallikak family, <a href="#Page_103">103</a>.</li> + +<li>Key, Ellen, <a href="#Page_64">64</a>, <a href="#Page_79">79</a>.</li> + +<li>Knowledge, and will, <a href="#Page_217">217</a>.<br /><br /></li> + + +<li>Lectures, on sex-hygiene, <a href="#Page_100">100</a>.</li> + +<li>Legislation, and social diseases, <a href="#Page_47">47</a>.</li> + +<li>Literature, general list, <a href="#Page_241">241 ff.</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>for parents, <a href="#Page_33">33</a>;</li> + <li>on marriage, <a href="#Page_79">79</a>;</li> + <li>on diseases, <a href="#Page_39">39</a>;</li> + <li>on sex, <a href="#Page_11">11</a>;</li> + <li>on social evil, <a href="#Page_52">52</a>;</li> + <li>general and sex, <a href="#Page_124">124 ff.</a>;</li> + <li>general references, <a href="#Page_238">238 ff.</a>;</li> + <li>for young men, <a href="#Page_161">161</a>, <a href="#Page_183">183</a>;</li> + <li>for young women, <a href="#Page_201">201</a>;</li> + <li>radical sex, <a href="#Page_193">193</a>.</li> + </ul><br /></li> + + +<li>Marriage, <a href="#Page_159">159</a>, <a href="#Page_187">187</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>a sex problem, <a href="#Page_71">71 ff.</a></li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Masturbation, <a href="#Page_137">137 ff.</a></li> + +<li>Maxwell, W.H., <a href="#Page_221">221</a>.</li> + +<li>Men, as leaders in love, <a href="#Page_188">188</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>instruction for, <a href="#Page_156">156 ff.</a></li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Misunderstanding, of sex, <a href="#Page_5">5</a>.</li> + +<li>Monogamy, <a href="#Page_59">59</a>.</li> + +<li>Morality, <a href="#Page_58">58 ff.</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>double standard, <a href="#Page_42">42</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Morrow, P.A., <a href="#Page_37">37</a>, <a href="#Page_70">70</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>leader, <a href="#Page_227">227</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Mothercraft, <a href="#Page_155">155</a>.</li> + +<li>Mothers, and boys, <a href="#Page_111">111</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>first teachers, <a href="#Page_111">111</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Mystery, and sex, <a href="#Page_15">15</a>.<br /><br /></li> + + +<li>Names, of sex organs, <a href="#Page_148">148 ff.</a></li> + +<li>National Education Association, resolution on sex-instruction, <a href="#Page_232">232</a>.</li> + +<li>Nature-study, <a href="#Page_133">133</a>.</li> + +<li>Need, of sex-instruction, <a href="#Page_11">11</a>, <a href="#Page_19">19</a>.</li> + +<li>Neumann, H., <a href="#Page_221">221</a>.<br /><br /></li> + + +<li>Oliphant, James, <a href="#Page_159">159</a>.</li> + +<li>Optimism, sex, <a href="#Page_196">196</a>.</li> + +<li>Organization, of sex-education, <a href="#Page_96">96 ff.</a><br /><br /></li> + + +<li>Parents, and daughters, <a href="#Page_184">184</a>, <a href="#Page_190">190</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>coöperation of, <a href="#Page_23">23</a>;</li> + <li>responsibility, <a href="#Page_14">14</a>;</li> + <li>attitude, <a href="#Page_30">30</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Parkinson, W.D., <a href="#Page_41">41</a>.</li> + +<li>Passion, <a href="#Page_58">58</a>.</li> + +<li>Pessimism, sex, <a href="#Page_72">72</a>, <a href="#Page_84">84</a>, <a href="#Page_196">196</a>.</li> + +<li>Poetry, <a href="#Page_124">124 ff.</a></li> + +<li>Pre-adolescence, <a href="#Page_25">25</a>, <a href="#Page_133">133 ff.</a></li> + +<li>Problems of sex, <a href="#Page_28">28 ff.</a>, <a href="#Page_92">92</a>, <a href="#Page_95">95</a>.</li> + +<li>Promiscuity, <a href="#Page_38">38</a>.</li> + +<li>Propagandism, needed, <a href="#Page_28">28 ff.</a></li> + +<li>Prophylactics, venereal, <a href="#Page_219">219</a>.</li> + +<li>Prostitution, <a href="#Page_48">48 ff.</a>, <a href="#Page_164">164</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>protective knowledge for women, <a href="#Page_199">199</a>.</li> + </ul><br /></li> + + +<li>Reading, concerning perversion and vice, <a href="#Page_51">51</a>.</li> + +<li>Refinement, of men, <a href="#Page_167">167</a>.</li> + +<li>Religion, approach to sex-instruction, <a href="#Page_209">209</a>.</li> + +<li>Repplier, Agnes, <a href="#Page_203">203</a>.</li> + +<li>Reproduction, and sex, <a href="#Page_5">5</a>.</li> + +<li>Responsibility, indirect of women, <a href="#Page_195">195</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>individual, <a href="#Page_18">18</a>;</li> + <li>of parents, <a href="#Page_30">30</a>.</li> + </ul><br /></li> + + +<li>Sanitation, and morals, <a href="#Page_229">229</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li><i>see also</i> hygiene and ethics.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Self-abuse, <a href="#Page_137">137 ff.</a></li> + +<li>Self-control, <a href="#Page_70">70</a>, <a href="#Page_173">173</a>, <a href="#Page_176">176-182</a>;<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_251" id="Page_251">[251]</a></span> + <ul class="nest"> + <li>of women, <a href="#Page_190">190 ff.</a></li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Sensationalism, <a href="#Page_233">233</a>.</li> + +<li>Sex-education, definition, <a href="#Page_1">1</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>larger view of, <a href="#Page_27">27</a>;</li> + <li>need of, <a href="#Page_11">11</a>;</li> + <li>problems of, <a href="#Page_28">28 ff.</a>;</li> + <li>relations, <a href="#Page_4">4</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Sex-hygiene, <a href="#Page_1">1-5</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>adequacy, <a href="#Page_43">43</a>;</li> + <li>personal, <a href="#Page_35">35 ff.</a>;</li> + <li>social, <a href="#Page_3">3</a>;</li> + <li>and eugenics, <a href="#Page_86">86</a>;</li> + <li>and ethics, <a href="#Page_114">114</a>, <a href="#Page_212">212 ff.</a>;</li> + <li>personal, <a href="#Page_98">98 ff.</a></li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Sex-instruction, in schools, <a href="#Page_20">20</a>, <a href="#Page_23">23</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>in homes, <a href="#Page_21">21</a>;</li> + <li>in high schools, <a href="#Page_24">24</a>;</li> + <li>many-sided, <a href="#Page_89">89</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Sex, meaning of the word, <a href="#Page_6">6-10</a>.</li> + +<li>Social diseases, <a href="#Page_166">166</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>essential knowledge to be taught, <a href="#Page_107">107</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Social evil, <a href="#Page_4">4</a>, <a href="#Page_48">48 ff.</a></li> + +<li>Social hygiene, <a href="#Page_3">3</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>and ethics, <a href="#Page_101">101</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Societies, for sex problems, <a href="#Page_231">231</a>, <a href="#Page_232">232</a>.</li> + +<li>Society for Prophylaxis, <a href="#Page_62">62</a>.</li> + +<li>Super-morality, <a href="#Page_64">64 ff.</a></li> + +<li>Syphilis, <i>see</i> Diseases.<br /><br /></li> + + +<li>Taft, W.H., <a href="#Page_224">224</a>.</li> + +<li>Task, of sex-education, <a href="#Page_90">90</a>.</li> + +<li>Teachers, of sex facts, <a href="#Page_108">108</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>for classes, <a href="#Page_113">113</a>;</li> + <li>married women, <a href="#Page_110">110</a>;</li> + <li>same sex as pupils, <a href="#Page_109">109</a>;</li> + <li>undesirable, <a href="#Page_115">115</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Teaching, morals, <a href="#Page_216">216 ff.</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>personal, <a href="#Page_205">205</a>, <a href="#Page_214">214</a>.</li> + </ul></li> + +<li>Tennyson, and sex lessons, <a href="#Page_125">125</a>.<br /><br /></li> + + +<li>Vulgarity, <a href="#Page_67">67 ff.</a><br /><br /></li> + + +<li>Women, and diseases, <a href="#Page_45">45</a>; + <ul class="nest"> + <li>instruction for, <a href="#Page_184">184 ff.</a></li> + </ul></li> +</ul> +</div> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> + +<h4>Printed in the United States of America.</h4> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<hr /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> + +<p class="cen">The following pages contain advertisements of a few of the Macmillan +publications on Education</p> + +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<hr /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<br /> + +<h3>MODERN PEDAGOGY</h3> +<br /> + +<div class="centered"> +<table border="0" cellpadding="2" cellspacing="0" width="65%" summary="MODERN PEDAGOGY"> + <tr> + <td class="tdl" width="35%">Aspinwall</td> + <td class="tdl" width="55%">Outlines of the History of Education</td> + <td class="tdr" width="10%">$ .80</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdlt">Bagley</td> + <td class="tdl">Classroom Management. Its Principles and Technique<br />Craftsmanship in Teaching<br />Educational Values + <br />Educative Process, The<br />School Discipline</td> + <td class="tdr">1.25<br />1.10<br />1.10<br />1.25<br />1.25</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl">Bricker</td> + <td class="tdl">Teaching of Agriculture in the High School</td> + <td class="tdr">1.00</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdlt">Brown</td> + <td class="tdl">American High School<br />The Training of Teachers for Secondary Schools in Germany and the United States</td> + <td class="tdrt">1.40<br />1.25</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl">Carlton</td> + <td class="tdl">Education and Industrial Evolution</td> + <td class="tdr">1.25</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl">Chubb</td> + <td class="tdl">The Teaching of English in Elementary and Secondary Schools</td> + <td class="tdr">1.00</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl">Cubberley</td> + <td class="tdl">State and County Educational Reorganization</td> + <td class="tdr">1.25</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl">Cubberley and Elliott</td> + <td class="tdl">State and County School Administration</td> + <td class="tdr">2.50</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdlt">Curtis</td> + <td class="tdl">Education Through Play (Educational Edition)<br />Practical Conduct of Play (Educational Edition)</td> + <td class="tdr">1.25<br />1.50</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdlt">De Garmo</td> + <td class="tdl">Interest and Education<br />Principles of Secondary Education 3 Vols.<br />I,<br />II,<br />III,</td> + <td class="tdr">1.00<br /><br />$1.25<br />$1.00<br />1.00</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl">Dewey</td> + <td class="tdl">Democracy and Education, A Philosophy of Education</td> + <td class="tdr">1.40</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl">Dexter</td> + <td class="tdl">History of Education in the United States</td> + <td class="tdr">2.00</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl">Dresslar</td> + <td class="tdl">School Hygiene</td> + <td class="tdr">$1.25</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl">Dutton</td> + <td class="tdl">Social Phases of Education in the School and the Home</td> + <td class="tdr">1.25</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl">Eaton and Stevens</td> + <td class="tdl">Commercial Work and Training for Girls</td> + <td class="tdr">1.50</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl">Farrington</td> + <td class="tdl">Commercial Education in Germany</td> + <td class="tdr">1.10</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdlt">Foght</td> + <td class="tdl">The American Rural School<br />Rural Denmark and its Schools</td> + <td class="tdr">1.25<br />1.40</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdl">Ganong</td> + <td class="tdl">The Teaching Botanist</td> + <td class="tdr">1.25</td> + </tr> + <tr> + <td class="tdlt">Graves</td> + <td class="tdl">A History of Education.<br />Vol. I. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Sex-education + A series of lectures concerning knowledge of sex in its + relation to human life + +Author: Maurice Alpheus Bigelow + +Release Date: February 22, 2010 [EBook #31352] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ASCII + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK SEX-EDUCATION *** + + + + +Produced by Jeannie Howse, Bryan Ness and the Online +Distributed Proofreading Team at https://www.pgdp.net (This +file was produced from images generously made available +by The Internet Archive/American Libraries.) + + + + + + + * * * * * + + +-----------------------------------------------------------+ + | Transcriber's Note: | + | | + | Inconsistent hyphenation in the original document has | + | been preserved. | + | | + | Obvious typographical errors have been corrected. For | + | a complete list, please see the end of this document. | + | | + +-----------------------------------------------------------+ + + * * * * * + + + + +SEX-EDUCATION + + + + +[Illustration] + +THE MACMILLAN COMPANY + +NEW YORK . BOSTON . CHICAGO . DALLAS +ATLANTA . SAN FRANCISCO + +MACMILLAN & CO., LIMITED +LONDON . BOMBAY . CALCUTTA +MELBOURNE + +THE MACMILLAN CO. OF CANADA, LTD. +TORONTO + + [Illustration: PRINCE A. MORROW + Chief organizer of the American movement for sex-education. + Physician, educator, author, social reformer. Born in Kentucky, + December 19, 1864. Died in New York City, March 17, 1913. + _Courtesy of Dr. A.S. Morrow._] + + + + +SEX-EDUCATION + +A SERIES OF LECTURES CONCERNING +KNOWLEDGE OF SEX IN ITS RELATION +TO HUMAN LIFE + + +BY + +MAURICE A. BIGELOW + +PROFESSOR OF BIOLOGY AND DIRECTOR OF THE SCHOOL +OF PRACTICAL ARTS, TEACHERS COLLEGE +COLUMBIA UNIVERSITY + + +New York +THE MACMILLAN COMPANY +1916 + +_All rights reserved_ + + + + +COPYRIGHT, 1916, + +BY THE MACMILLAN COMPANY. + + +Set up and electrotyped. Published June, 1916. + + +Norwood Press +J.S. Cushing Co.--Berwick & Smith Co. +Norwood, Mass., U.S.A. + + + + +To + +THE MEMORY OF + +DR. PRINCE A. MORROW + +WHOSE GREAT FAITH IN THE ESSENTIAL GOODNESS OF HUMAN +NATURE LED HIM TO BELIEVE THAT THE PROBLEMS OF +SEX HAVE ARISEN FROM IGNORANCE AND +THAT EDUCATION IS THE KEY TO +THEIR SOLUTION + + + + +PREFATORY NOTE + + +Many of the lectures printed in this volume have formed the basis of a +series given at Teachers College, Columbia University, during the +summer sessions of 1914 and 1915, and during the academic year +1914-1915. Others were addressed to parents, to groups of men, to +women's clubs, and to conferences on sex-education. In order to avoid +extensive repetition, there has been some combination and rearrangement +of lectures that originally were addressed to groups of people with +widely different outlooks on the sexual problems. + +Several years ago the late Dr. Prince A. Morrow announced that a volume +dealing with many of the timely topics of sex-education was to be +prepared by the undersigned with the advice and criticism of a +committee of the American Federation for Sex-Hygiene; but even before +Dr. Morrow's death it became evident that this plan was impracticable. +Three members (Morrow, Balliet, Bigelow) of the original committee +collaborated in a report presented at the XV International Congress on +Hygiene and Demography. Since that time the writer, working +independently, has found it desirable to reorganize completely the +original outline announced by Dr. Morrow. + +In accordance with a declaration made voluntarily in a conversation +with Dr. Morrow, the author considers himself pledged to devote all +royalties from this book to the movement for sex-education. + +Among the many persons to whom is due acknowledgment of helpfulness in +the preparation of this book, the author is especially indebted for +suggestions to the late Dr. Prince A. Morrow, to Dr. William F. Snow, +Secretary of the American Social Hygiene Association, and to Dr. Edward +L. Keyes, Jr., President of the Society of Sanitary and Moral +Prophylaxis; for constructive criticism, to his colleagues, Professor +Jean Broadhurst and Miss Caroline E. Stackpole, of Teachers College, +who have read carefully both the original lectures and the completed +manuscript; and to Olive Crosby Whitin (Mrs. Frederick H. Whitin), +executive secretary of the Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, +who has suggested and criticized helpfully both as a reader of the +manuscript and as an auditor of many of the lectures delivered at +Teachers College. + + M.A.B. + + TEACHERS COLLEGE, + COLUMBIA UNIVERSITY, + December 28, 1915. + + + + +SUMMARY OF CONTENTS + + + PAGE + + I. THE MEANING, NEED, AND SCOPE OF SEX-EDUCATION 1 + + Sec. 1. Sex-education and its relation to sex-hygiene and + social hygiene. Sec. 2. The misunderstanding of sex. Sec. 3. The + need of sex-instruction. Sec. 4. The scope of sex-education. + + II. THE PROBLEMS FOR SEX-EDUCATION 28 + + Sec. 5. Sex problems and the need of special knowledge. Sec. 6. + First problem: Personal sex-hygiene. Sec. 7. Second problem: + Social diseases. Sec. 8. Third problem: Social evil. Sec. 9. + Fourth problem: Illegitimacy. Sec. 10. Fifth problem: Sexual + morality. Sec. 11. Sixth problem: Sexual vulgarity. Sec. 12. + Seventh problem: Marriage. Sec. 13. Eighth Problem: Eugenics. + Sec. 14. Summary. + + III. ORGANIZATION OF EDUCATIONAL ATTACK ON THE SEX PROBLEMS 90 + + Sec. 15. The task of sex-education. Sec. 16. The aims of + sex-education. Sec. 17. The aims as the basis of organized + sex-instruction. + + IV. THE TEACHER OF SEX-KNOWLEDGE 108 + + Sec. 18. Who should give sex-instruction? Sec. 19. The child's + first teachers of sex-knowledge. Sec. 20. Selecting teachers + for class instruction. Sec. 21. Certain undesirable teachers + for special hygienic and ethical instruction. + + V. BOOKS AS TEACHERS CONCERNING SEX AND LIFE 121 + + Sec. 22. Value and danger of special sex-books for young + people. Sec. 23. General literature and sex problems. Sec. 24. + Dangers in literature on sexual abnormality. + + VI. SEX-INSTRUCTION FOR PRE-ADOLESCENT YEARS 133 + + Sec. 25. Elementary instruction and influence. Sec. 26. Hygienic + and educational treatment of unhealthful habits. + + VII. SEX-INSTRUCTION FOR EARLY ADOLESCENT YEARS 146 + + Sec. 27. The biological foundations. Sec. 28. Scientific facts + for boys. Sec. 29. Scientific facts for girls. + +VIII. SPECIAL SEX-INSTRUCTION FOR ADOLESCENT BOYS AND YOUNG MEN 156 + + Sec. 30. Developing attitude towards womanhood. Sec. 31. + Developing ideals of love and marriage. Sec. 32. Reasons for + pre-marital continence. Sec. 33. Essential knowledge + concerning prostitution. Sec. 34. Need of refinement of men. + Sec. 35. Dancing as a sex problem for men. Sec. 36. Dress of women + as a sex problem for men. Sec. 37. The problem of self-control + for young men. Sec. 38. The mental side of a young man's + sexual life. + + IX. SPECIAL INSTRUCTION FOR MATURING YOUNG WOMEN 184 + + Sec. 39. The young woman's attitude towards manhood. Sec. 40. The + young woman's attitude towards love and marriage. Sec. 41. + Reasons for pre-marital continence of young women. Sec. 42. + Need of optimistic and aesthetic views of sex by women. + Sec. 43. Other problems for young women. + + X. CRITICISMS OF SEX-EDUCATION 203 + + Sec. 44. A plea for reticence--Agnes Repplier. Sec. 45. A plea + for religious approach--Cosmo Hamilton. Sec. 46. The conflict + between sex-hygiene and sex-ethics--Richard Cabot Sec. 47. The + arrogance of the advocates of sex-education--William H. + Maxwell. Sec. 48. Lubricity in education--W.H. Taft. Sec. 49. + Conclusions from the criticisms of sex-education. + + XI. THE PAST AND THE FUTURE OF THE SEX-EDUCATION MOVEMENT 227 + + Sec. 50. The American movement. Sec. 51. Important steps. Sec. 52. + The future of the larger sex-education. + + XII. SOME BOOKS FOR SEX-EDUCATION 238 + + INDEX 249 + + + + +I + +THE MEANING, NEED, AND SCOPE OF SEX-EDUCATION + + +Sec. 1. _Sex-education and Its Relation to Sex-hygiene and Social Hygiene_ + +[Sidenote: Definition of sex-education.] + +Sex-education in its largest sense includes all scientific, ethical, +social, and religious instruction and influence which directly and +indirectly may help young people prepare to solve for themselves the +problems of sex that inevitably come in some form into the life of +every normal human individual. Note the carefully guarded phrase "help +young people prepare to solve for themselves the problems of sex", for, +like education in general, special sex-education cannot possibly do +more than help the individual prepare to face the problems of life. + +[Sidenote: More than sex-hygiene.] + +Now, sex-education as thus defined is more extensive than sex-hygiene, +which term was originally applied to instruction concerning sex. +Sex-hygiene obviously refers to health as influenced by sexual +processes, and as such it is a convenient subdivision of the science of +health. It would be quite satisfactory as a name for popular +instruction concerning sex if that were strictly, or even primarily, +hygienic; but in a later lecture it will be shown that the most +desirable sex-instruction is only in a minor part a problem of hygiene. +I realize that this statement may be declared heretical by many of the +present-day advocates of sex-hygiene, because they have approached this +latest educational movement from the standpoint of physical health, and +especially because their attention has been drawn to the very common +occurrence of pathological conditions. Nevertheless, the sexual +problems of our times do not all affect physical health, which hygiene +aims to conserve; and the sex-educational movement will be quite +inadequate without great stress upon certain ethical, social, and other +aspects of sex. Young people need instruction that relates not only to +health but also to attitude and to morals as these three are influenced +by sexual instincts and relationships. This idea will be developed +later, but I anticipate here simply to suggest the point of view of the +statement that "sex-hygiene" is altogether too limited as a general +designation for the desirable instruction concerning sex. The continued +use of the term "sex-hygiene," now that the scope of the desirable +sex-instruction has been extended far beyond the accepted limits of the +science of health, is tending to cause confusion. The educational +problems will be more definite and the support of the intelligent +public more assured if we limit the use of "sex-hygiene" to the +specific problems of health as affected by sexual processes and cease +trying to make it include those phases of sex-instruction which have +nothing directly to do with health. + +Two general terms, "sex-instruction" and "sex-education," are available +as all-inclusive designations of the desirable instruction concerning +any aspects of sex. They are quite free from the above objections to +"sex-hygiene," and it is highly desirable that they should be used in +all educational discussions where there is no specific reference to the +problems of health. Sex-hygiene will be used in these lectures only +when there is some direct reference to health as influenced by the +sexual functions. + +[Sidenote: Social hygiene.] + +Social hygiene in its complete sense means the great general movement +for the improvement of the conditions of life in all lines in which +there is social ill health or need of social reform; but it is often +limited to the sexual aspect of the unfortunate and unfavorable +conditions of life, and it has been proposed to adopt the term "social +hygiene" as a substitute that avoids the word "sex" in sex-hygiene. For +this reason it has been incorporated into the names of several +societies that are interested in sex-hygiene (_e.g._, the American +Social Hygiene Association). Probably the relation of sex-hygiene to +the so-called "social evil" has suggested the use of social hygiene in +its most limited sense. It will be unfortunate if this usage becomes so +prominent that we think of the health problems of society as chiefly +sexual, for the larger outlook of Ellis's "Task of Social Hygiene" is +desirable. Likewise, the phrase "social evil" in the sense of sexual +evil misleadingly suggests that the only evil of society is the sexual +one, but this evasive designation is being supplanted by the more +definite and franker word "prostitution." + +It should be noted that "social hygiene" as a substitute for +"sex-hygiene" is narrower in that it does not include the personal +problems of health as affected by sexual processes. This is a serious +omission, for certainly all sex-hygiene taught before the later +adolescent years should be personal and not social. + +[Sidenote: Phases of sex-education.] + +The relation of sex-hygiene or social hygiene as a limited phase of +sex-education is shown by the following outline: + + { sex-hygiene (personal, | for sexual health + { social) | + { | + { biology (including | for attitude + { physiology) of | regarding sex, + { reproduction | and for important + { | scientific facts + { | +In the broadest { heredity and eugenics | for sexual conduct +outlook, sex-education { | leading to race +(or sex-instruction) { | improvement +includes: { | + { ethics and sociology | for sexual conduct + { of sex | + { | + { psychology of sex | for sexual health + { | and conduct + { | + { aesthetics of sex | for attitude + +[Sidenote: Sex and reproduction.] + +Since the original purpose of sex was perpetuation of plant and animal +species, and since in the study of biology the idea of sex is +illustrated and developed by examination of the reproductive processes +in various types, it has been customary for many writers on +sex-education to use the terms "sex" and "reproduction" as if they were +synonymous. This is no longer so in human life; for while reproduction +is a sexual process, sexual activities and influences are often quite +unrelated to reproduction. In fact, most of the big problems that have +made sex-education desirable, if not necessary, are problems of sex +apart from reproduction. It therefore seems clear that, while studies +of reproduction are prominent in sex-education, they should be regarded +as introductory to the problems of sex, especially for young people. + + +Sec. 2. _The Misunderstanding of Sex_ + +[Sidenote: Objection to word "sex."] + +Some educators have expressed the wish that some one might suggest a +satisfactory substitute for the terms "sex-hygiene" and +"sex-education," omitting the word "sex." This word and its companion +"sexual" are objectionable because they are associated in the minds of +most people with vulgar interpretation of the physical aspects of the +beginning of individual life, and much of the opposition to the +proposed sex-instruction in home and schools is evidently based on the +feeling that the very word "sex" involves something inherently vulgar. + +[Sidenote: Definite words necessary.] + +It is probable that many decades will pass before the majority of +intelligent people cease to feel that the words "sex" and "sexual" have +had such vulgar associations that they should be kept out of our +everyday vocabulary, but I can see no hope of developing an improved +attitude towards the sexual aspect of human life if we continue to +admit that we are afraid of the necessary words. It seems to me that in +one decade there has been a great advance in that the scientific +writers and speakers on problems of sex have been using words which +definitely and directly express the desired meanings, and have avoided +the suggestive circumlocutions which characterize many modern realistic +novels. One who does not already appreciate the serious impressiveness +of cold scientific language in discussion of sexual problems should +take one of the indecently suggestive paragraphs from stories in the +most notoriously vulgar of the fifteen-cent magazines, and translate +the meaning of the paragraph into direct and definite words. The result +will be complete loss of the stealthy suggestiveness which has made +concealed sexuality so dangerously attractive to the type of mind that +revels in the modern sex-problem novels. We want no such suggestive +concealment in a scheme of sex-education, for it aims at a purer and +higher understanding of sex in human life. We must have direct and +definite and dignified scientific language, and among the necessary +words none are as essential as "sex" and "sexual." We must use them +freely if attitude towards sex is to be improved; and their dignified +and scientific usage will gradually dispel the embarrassment which many +unfortunate people now experience when these words remind them that the +perpetuation of life in all its higher forms has been intrusted to the +cooperation of two kinds, or sexes, of individuals. + +Thus viewing the objections which have been raised against the use of +the word "sex" in the educational movement, I have shifted my first +stand with the opposition until now I favor the frank and dignified use +of this and similar words on appropriate occasions. I believe that +those interested in the search for solutions of the vital problems of +sex should quietly but systematically work to include the words "sex" +and "sexual" in the dignified and scientific vocabulary needed by all +people to express the newer and nobler interpretations of the +relationships between men and women. + +[Sidenote: No "sex" studies.] + +Of course, this does not mean that sex, either as a word or as a fact +of nature, should be over-emphasized with people who are too young to +appreciate the fundamental facts of life. As already suggested, it is +not desirable that any parts of the curricula for schools should be +known to the pupils as "sex" studies; but we need such terms as +"sex-hygiene" and "sex-instruction" to indicate to teachers and parents +that certain parts of the education of the children are being directed +towards a healthy, natural and wholesome relation to sex. + +[Sidenote: "Sex" and "love."] + +It is absurd to suppose that the free, dignified, and scientific use of +the word "sex" is going to make people more sensual, more uncontrolled, +and more immoral. There is much more reason for fearing the free use of +the word "love," which has both psychical and physical meanings so +confused that often only the context of sentences enables one to +determine which meaning is intended. In fact, many writers and speakers +seek to avoid all possible misunderstanding by using the word +"affection" for psychical love. Now, in spite of such confusion, and +the fact that to many people the word "love" in connection with sex +suggests only gross sensuality, we continue to use it freely and it is +one of the first words taught to children. Why then do we not hear +protests against using the word "love"? Simply because we have been +from childhood accustomed to the word, first in its psychical sense, +and it is only later that most of us have learned that it has a sensual +meaning to some people. In short, familiarity with the word "love" in +its psychical sense has bred in us a contempt for those who mistake the +physical basis of love for love in its combined physical and psychical +completeness. + +[Sidenote: Meaning of sex.] + +To many it is surprising to find that the word "sex" has never been +used in such degraded connections as has the word "love," and that it +has not been half so much misunderstood. There is no obvious vulgarity +in the lexicographer's definitions of the word "sex." It simply means, +as the science of biology points out so clearly, that the perpetuation +of human life, and of most other species of life, has been intrusted to +pairs of individuals which are of the two kinds commonly called the +sexes, male and female. Why nature determined that each new life in the +vast majority of species should develop from two other lives has long +been a biological puzzle, and most satisfactory of the answers given is +that bi-parental origin of new individuals allows for new combinations +of heritable qualities from two lines of descent. However, such a +biological explanation of the relation of the two sexes to double +parentage is of relatively little practical significance in present-day +human life when compared with the fact that out of the necessity for +life's perpetuation by two cooperating individuals there has grown +psychical or spiritual love with all its splendid possibilities that +are evident in ideal family life. Moreover, the influence of sex in +human life has extended far beyond the family (that is, that group of +individuals who stand related to one another as husband, wife, parents, +and children), for it is a careless observer indeed who does not note +in our daily life many social and psychical relationships of men and +women who have no mutual interests relating to the biological processes +of race perpetuation. Of course, the psychologist recognizes that far +back of the platonic contact of the sexes on social and intellectual +lines is the suppressed and primal instinct that provides physical +unions for race perpetuation. However, this is of no practical +interest, for, as a matter of fact, the primal instincts are quite +subconscious in the usual social relations between the sexes. + +[Sidenote: The larger view of sex.] + +There is grandeur in this view of sex as originally a provision for +perpetuation of life by two cooperating individuals, later becoming the +basis of conjugal affection of the two individuals for each other and +of their parental affection for their offspring, and finally leading to +social and intellectual comradeship of men and women meeting on terms +which are practically free from the original and biological meaning of +sex. + +Instead, then, of trying to keep sex, both word and fact, in the +background of the new educational movement, I believe it is best to +work definitely for a better understanding of the part which sex plays +in human life, as outlined in the preceding paragraph. Hence, in these +lectures I shall never go aside in order to avoid either the word or +the idea of sex; on the contrary, I shall attempt to direct the +discussion so as to emphasize the larger and very modern view of the +relationship of sex and human life. + +[Sidenote: The many-sided bearings of sex.] + +In this first lecture I want to make it clear that the role of sex in +human life is vastly greater than that directly involved in sexual +activity. I shall in several lectures touch the big problems from the +standpoint of the sexual instincts as these play an important part in +social, psychical, and aesthetic life even if they are rarely exercised, +physiologically, or if, as in millions of individuals, they never come +to mean more than possibilities of sexual activity for which +opportunities in marriage do not come. I am especially anxious to avoid +the narrow viewpoint of numerous writers on sex-hygiene who seem to +overlook the fact that sexual functioning is only a prominent incident +in the cycle of sexual influences in the lives of most people. Human +life, and especially marriage, should no longer be regarded from the +mere biological point of view as for the sole purpose of reproductive +activity. It is a far more uplifting view that the conscious or +unconscious existence of the sexual instincts, with or without +occasional activity, affords the fundamental physical basis for states +of mind that may profoundly affect the whole course of life in every +normal man and woman. + +Supplementary to this section on the "Misunderstanding of Sex," I +suggest the reading of Chapters I-VI of "Sex" by Geddes and Thomson, +the "Problems of Sex" by the same authors, and Chapter VI in "The +Wonder of Life" by Thomson. + + +Sec. 3. _The Need of Sex-Instruction_ + +[Sidenote: The old silence and the new enlightenment.] + +The time-honored policy has been one of silence and mystery concerning +all things sexual. Everything in that line has long been considered +impure and degraded and, therefore, the less said and the less known, +the better, especially for young people. Such has been the almost +universal attitude of parents until within the present century, when +many have awakened to the fact that the policy of silence has been a +gigantic failure, because it has not preserved purity and innocence and +because it has allowed grave evils, both hygienic and moral, to develop +under the cloak of secrecy. + +[Sidenote: Children will not remain ignorant.] + +"I don't believe in teaching my boys and girls any facts concerning +sex. I prefer to keep them innocent until they have grown up." In these +decisive words a prominent woman closed a statement of her firm +conviction that the world-wide movement for the sex-instruction of +young people is a stupendous mistake. Poor deluded mother! How does she +expect to keep her children ignorant of the world of life around them? +Is she planning to transplant them to a deserted island where they may +grow up innocently? Or is she going to keep the children in some +cloister within whose walls there will be immunity from the +contamination of the great busy world outside? Or is she going to have +them guarded like crown princes, and if so, where are absolutely safe +guards to be found? Such are the questions which rush into the minds of +those who have studied the problem of keeping children ignorant of the +most significant facts of life. It is usually an easy matter to protect +children against smallpox and typhoid and some other diseases, but no +parent or educator has yet found out how we may be sure to keep real +live children ignorant of sex knowledge. They seem to absorb such +forbidden facts as naturally and as freely as the air they breathe. +Ask any large group of representative men--ministers, or doctors, or +teachers, or men of business, or the world's toilers--whether any of +them knew the essential facts of sexual life before they were twelve +years of age, and ninety-seven in every hundred will answer quickly in +the affirmative. Ask any large group of women, excepting those whose +girlhood has been guarded with exceptional care, and the overwhelming +majority will acknowledge that they knew the essential facts before +they were fifteen years old. Once more, ask these same men and women +whether their early knowledge of sex came from pure and reliable +sources or from vulgar playmates and depraved servants; and with rare +exceptions it is found that vulgarity made the strongest impression in +the first lessons concerning the great facts of life. Such being the +truth, it is nonsense for parents to sit in complacency because they +feel sure that their children are safely protected against any vulgar +first lessons concerning sex; for no one can know that children are +safely guarded from others who may corrupt their innocent minds. As an +illustration, a few years ago the mothers of a group of little girls in +one of the best-managed private schools felt that with careful +supervision both in school and home there was no danger of forbidden +knowledge reaching the children. But one day a new pupil innocently +exhibited to her mother a miniature notebook with unprintable notes on +sexual topics. The resulting investigation revealed a secret club +organized by the pupils for the purpose of passing to each member +through notebooks all newly acquired information, which had a peculiar +value because it must be kept secret from teachers and parents. That +club had been in existence during two school years. This is only a +sample case of many which have proved that if children are allowed the +freedom that developing individuality demands, their mothers must not +feel too sure that their darlings are protected against knowledge of +life, and perhaps of life in its most degraded aspects. + +[Sidenote: The vital question for parents.] + +Here, then, is the fact that every parent should ponder seriously: +Normal children are almost certain to get sexual information not later +than the early adolescent years, and usually from unreliable and vulgar +sources. It is, therefore, not a question whether children of school +ages should be taught the important facts of sex, but whether parents +and trained teachers rather than playmates and other unreliable persons +should be the instructors. Which will parents choose for their own +children? Thousands of intelligent parents have already faced this +question, and have decided that their children shall have early +sex-instruction in home or school or both in order that there will be +little danger of vulgar impressions taking a deep hold on child minds. + +Granted, then, that children should be given some reliable instruction +concerning things sexual, who should be the teacher, what should be +taught, and when should the instruction be given? These are the +fundamental questions now being considered by the parents and educators +who have accepted sex-education as necessary. Upon the final answers to +such questions the decision of many parents will depend. I shall +attempt to answer them in later lectures. + +[Sidenote: Sex mystery has prevented progress.] + +The policy of maintaining mystery and secrecy concerning sex has failed +with adults even more sadly than with children. Health and morals have +suffered incalculable injury. The sexual evils of our time are not as +bad as were those of the ancient civilizations, but we have little +reason to be proud of the slight progress made. But why should we +expect the human to make progress when sexual problems have been kept +in darkness? The wonder is that, with the prevailing dark outlook on +sexual life throughout the past nineteen centuries, the world has not +developed more sexual vice. Innate animalistic appetites have tended to +lead downward, and surely the policy of silence has offered no +counteracting influence towards higher living. While religion and +ethics, by means of certain rules of conduct, have maintained certain +sexual standards, they have not kept vast numbers of humans from +falling far below those standards into utter degradation. The modern +teachers of religion and ethics have prevented general sexual +degradation, but they have failed to give human sexuality any decided +uplift. The reason for this failure is the policy of mystery and +silence. The teachers of religion and ethics have preferred to let +general and more or less abstruse rules govern conduct in sexual lines. +Until recent years there have been few sermons in which common sexual +problems have been presented so that the preacher's meaning has been +clear to all. On the contrary, there has been universal mystery and +evasion concerning the greatest facts of life. + +[Sidenote: Sexual instincts offer no guidance.] + +Many people have justified the mystery thrown around sexual processes +on the theory that the reproductive instincts of mature people are +sufficient guides for conduct. This involves a misunderstanding of +sexual instincts of the higher mammals which are often unscientifically +cited as models for human imitation. In these animals sexual union is +instinctively determined, because normally the sexual hunger or +excitement of both sexes is stimulated and controlled by the +physiological condition of the female at the times favorable for +fertilization (_i.e._, at the oestrual periods). For example, a pair of +dogs living in close companionship show signs of mutual sexual desires +only for a few days at the semi-annual oestrual or fertile periods of +the female. It occasionally happens that the males of various wild and +domesticated mammals exhibit signs of automatic sexual excitement +(_i.e._, not caused by the stimulus arising from the physiological +condition of the female); but in such cases of male excitement outside +of the mating or oestrual periods, the normal females invariably offer +instinctive opposition to attempted union by abnormally or +automatically excited males. Thus, directly and indirectly, there is +instinctive control and limitation of sexual union among the animals +that are most closely related to the human race. + +It is biologically possible that similar conditions may have existed in +the earliest human life, but that is pure speculation and has no +bearing on the practical problems of sex in human life to-day. The fact +is that the simple physiological stimuli which produce sexual +excitement in both sexes of animals have practically no influence in +determining human sexual union. On the contrary, memory associations +consciously connected with the opposite sex, especially those +associations that are centered in affection, may at any time in the +normal individual of either human sex afford the basis for a chain of +mental states leading to sexual excitement and union. There is not, as +in the animals, instinctive dependence on the physiological conditions +that are favorable for fertilization. In fact, spontaneous +physiological demands play in civilized human life a minor part in +initiating sexual excitement. The reason why some humans seem to have +unusual sexual intensity is not so much a matter of exceptionally +strong sexuality as of susceptibility to the numerous sexual stimuli +with which modern life abounds. For this reason, a man who has formed +lewd memory associations is more susceptible to sexual stimulations, +_e.g._, by obscene pictures, vulgar words, unusual dress or actions of +women, close physical association as in dancing, and certain forms of +music. It is not at all uncommon that individuals who are +hyper-sensitive to sexually suggestive stimuli are really functionally +weak. + +[Sidenote: Intelligent control only.] + +It follows from the facts outlined above that instinctive control of +sexual actions applies to animals but not to human life. On the +contrary, human control must be on the basis of intelligent choice. +This means the greatest task of human life, for it requires voluntary +control of instinctive demands which are intensified by numerous +stimuli or temptations that are exclusively human. No wonder that +natural sex hunger left uncontrolled leads human beings to excesses and +degradation that no species of animals with their guiding instincts +could possibly reach. + +[Sidenote: Individual responsibility.] + +The absence from human life of any instinctive control of sexual +actions leaves a great responsibility on each individual whose natural +desires lead impulsively and insistently towards sexual union and must +be restrained, controlled, and directed by voluntary choice. In short, +all individuals who are intelligent beings are personally responsible +for voluntary control of their sexual desires with reference to the +ethical, social, and eugenic interests and rights of all other +individuals now and in the future. + +[Sidenote: Sexual knowledge necessary.] + +With such an understanding of instincts in relation to human sexual +actions, we cannot wonder that the old policy of mystery has failed so +completely. Since human beings are left to control the most powerful +appetite by intelligence, it is evident that a policy based on silence, +ignorance, and mystery must fail. The only safe and sure road to the +needed control of sexual actions is to be found in knowledge, and the +widespread recognition of this fact has led to the new movement for +general enlightenment regarding sexual processes in their various +relations to human life. + +[Sidenote: Education as a solution of sex problems.] + +It is not surprising that we have turned to seek an educational +solution for the problems of sex. Education has become the modern +panacea for many of our ills--hygienic, industrial, political, and +social. We have found people losing health for various reasons and we +have proposed hygienic instruction as a prophylactic. We have analyzed +many problems of the industries, and now we are beginning to seek their +solution in industrial education. We have noted that numerous social +and political misunderstandings check progress of individuals and +nations, and we are coming to think the pathway upwards is to be found +in better knowledge of social and political science. And, in like +manner, in every phase of this modern life of ours we are looking to +knowledge as the key to all significant problems. It is truly the age +of education, not simply the education offered in schools and colleges, +but education in the larger sense, including the learning of useful +knowledge from all sources whatsoever. + +With such unbounded confidence in the all-sufficiency of education, it +is most natural that we should turn to it in these times when we have +come to realize the existence of amazing sexual problems caused either +by ignorant misuse, or by deliberate abuse, of the sexual functions +which biologically are intrusted with the perpetuation of human life +and which psychologically are the source of human affection in its +supreme forms. If education is to solve the civic, hygienic, and +industrial problems of to-day and to-morrow, why should it not also +help with the age-old sexual evils? So reasoning, we have naturally +turned to education as one, but not the only, method of attack on the +sexual problems which have degraded and devitalized human life of all +past times, but which somehow have kept out of the limelight of +publicity until our own times. + + +Sec. 4. _The Scope of Sex-education_ + +[Sidenote: Sex-education is not primarily for schools.] + +It is well to make clear in this first lecture that no one proposes to +limit sex-instruction to schools and colleges. We may safely leave +mathematics and writing and even reading to schools, but sex-education +will fail unless the schools can get the cooperation of the homes, the +churches, the Y.M.C.A., the Y.W.C.A., the W.C.T.U., the Boy Scouts, the +Camp Fire Girls, and other organizations which aim to reach young +people socially, religiously, and ethically. The part which these have +already taken in the sex-education movement is in the aggregate far +more important than what the schools have been able to accomplish. +Sex-education, then, should be understood as including all serious +instruction--no matter where or when or by whom given--which aims to +help young people face the problems that normal sexual processes bring +to every life. + +[Sidenote: Sex-instruction impossible in most homes.] + +In a later lecture I shall urge the importance of beginning +sex-instruction in the home. There are some parents who wish that it +were possible not only to begin but also to end it there, for they fear +that public instruction will lead to a weakening of a certain sense of +reserve and privacy that has long been considered sacred to the best +family life. Perhaps this has some truth, but we must remember that +only in rare homes are there such ideal relationships of parents to +each other and to their offspring that matters of sex are sacred to the +family circle. The fact which parents and educators must face is that +there are now relatively few homes in which there is one parent able to +begin the elementary instruction of young children; and, therefore, as +a practical matter for the best interests of the vast majority of young +people, we must consider ways and means for instruction outside of most +homes. This need not interfere in the least with the parents who are +able and willing to give sex-instruction to the children, for the home +instruction will naturally anticipate that which the schools must give +for the pupils who are not properly instructed at home. It seems to me +to be a situation like that of children learning to read at home and +later continuing reading at school. Sex-instruction begun at home will +form the child's attitude and give him some elementary information, and +later he may profitably learn more in the same lines in the class work +of school, especially in connection with science instruction for which +few homes have facilities. Moreover, it is quite possible that one +instructed at home in childhood may gain from later school instruction +something of great social value, for we must remember that the problems +of sex which most demand attention are not individual, but social. +Hence, it may be worth while for the home-instructed individual to +learn through class instruction that people outside the home look +seriously upon knowledge concerning sexual processes, and that every +individual's life must be adjusted to other lives, that is, to society. + +Summarizing, it appears that however desirable home instruction +regarding sex may be, the majority of parents are not able and willing +to undertake the work, and so the public educational system and +organizations for social and religious work should provide a scheme of +instruction which will make sure that all young people will have an +opportunity to get the most helpful information for the guidance of +their lives. + +[Sidenote: Caution in school instruction.] + +[Sidenote: Parents' co-operation.] + +In order to gain the serious attention of those who believe themselves +unalterably opposed to school instruction regarding things sexual, I +anticipate a later discussion and mention in this connection that +there must be great caution in all attempts at school teaching that +directly touches human sexual life. It would be a dangerous experiment +to introduce sex-instruction into all schools by sudden legislation. +There must be specially trained teachers of selected personality and +tact. No existing high school has enough such teachers, and in the +grammar schools where the pupils are at the age when proper instruction +would influence them most, the problem of general class instruction is +absolutely unsolved. Only here and there in schools below the high +school has a teacher or principal of rare quality made satisfactory +experimental teaching. So uncertain are we at present regarding how we +should approach the problem of teaching grammar-school children that +the only safe advice for general use is that teachers, or preferably +principals, should begin with parents' conferences led by one who is a +conservative expert on sex-instruction. Were I principal of a school +with pupils from, say, two hundred and fifty homes, I should begin at +once to organize conferences designed to awaken the parents to the need +of sex-instruction for their children, and to the importance of making +at least a beginning in the homes. I should expect, according to the +experience of others, that of the five hundred parents, two hundred +mothers and fifty fathers would take an interest in the conferences, +and that at least one hundred fathers too busy for meetings would +approve heartily after hearing reports from their wives. Thus, I +should try to reach the majority of homes represented in my school. I +should be in no hurry to introduce class instruction--I mean +instruction related directly to human life; but, of course, I should +encourage my teachers to emphasize the life-histories of animals and +plants in the nature-study, and so lay in the pupils' minds a firm +foundation for later connection between human life and all life. At the +same time, I should keep my teachers on the lookout for individual +pupils or groups that might need special attention and, if such be +found, I should seek the cooperation of their parents. And finally, +after a year or two of co-working with parents, I should hope to get +permission for special talks based on nature-study and hygiene. These +talks should first be given to limited groups of pupils, preferably in +the presence of some parents who are interested and who have given +their children some home instruction. Working along such conservative +lines, I believe a tactful principal of a grammar school might succeed +in developing much of the needed instruction for pre-adolescent pupils. + +[Sidenote: Instruction in high schools.] + +With regard to high-school pupils, we should remember that nine-tenths +of the desirable information is already included in the biology of our +best high schools. The remaining tenth is that which connects all life +with human life; and this requires tact and exceptional skill. However, +the high schools no longer offer an insoluble problem, for many +teachers have succeeded in giving the desirable instruction to the +satisfaction of critical principals and parents. + +[Sidenote: Sex-education from early childhood to maturity.] + +There is a widespread impression that sex-instruction should begin with +the approach of adolescence and soon be completed. This idea is often +expressed by parents and even by prominent educators who say that the +father or teacher ought "to take the boy of thirteen aside and tell him +some things he ought to know." Still others have the same point of view +when they advocate that a physician should be called for a lecture to +high-school boys. In fact, most people who have not seriously studied +the problems of sex-education seem to believe that one concentrated +dose of sex-instruction in adolescent years is sufficient guidance for +young people. + +Such limited personal instruction might suffice if sex-education were +limited to sex-hygiene. A few hygienic commands in pre-adolescent years +and one impressive talk in early puberty might teach the boy or girl +how not to interfere with health; but it is improbable that such brief +instruction will make a permanent impression which will insure hygienic +practice of the precepts laid down. If we hold that sex-hygiene is +important, then it must be drilled into the learner from several points +of view. An isolated lesson on any topic of general hygiene is of very +doubtful efficiency. + +[Sidenote: Brief instruction does not fix attitude.] + +The most important reason why sex-instruction should not be +concentrated in a short period of youth is that it is impossible to +exert the most desirable influence upon health, attitude, and morals +except by instruction beginning in early childhood and graded for each +period of life up to maturity. Most young people who in early +adolescence receive their first lessons from parents and teachers have +already had their attitude formed by their playmates. Even their morals +may become corrupted and their health irreparably injured several years +before puberty. The only sure pathway to health, attitude, and morals +is in beginning with young children and instructing them as gradually +as the problems of sex come forward. + +[Sidenote: Sex-instruction after youth.] + +The greatest possible good of sex-education will not be secured if it +stops with early adolescent years. There are many problems of sex in +relation to society, particularly in relation to monogamic marriage, +that young people should be led to consider in the late teens and early +twenties. Our sex-education system will not be completely organized +until we find ways and means for carrying the instruction by lectures, +conferences, and books beyond the years commonly occupied by +public-school education. Colleges and other higher educational +institutions may contribute somewhat to this advanced sex-instruction; +but obviously the great majority of maturing young people cannot be +reached personally except by instruction arranged in churches, the +Y.M.C.A., and the Y.W.C.A., evening schools, and other such +institutions. In many respects this proposed instruction for maturing +young people is of very great importance and deserves encouragement +such as has not yet been given by those who have written and lectured +in favor of a movement for sex-education of young people. + +[Sidenote: The larger sex-education.] + +In conclusion of this introductory lecture, let me say that I have +tried to suggest in a general survey that sex-education in its largest +outlook touches great problems of life in very many ways. I have also +tried to convince that it is far more than merely a school subject, +limited entirely to a curriculum extended over a few years. This is the +common misunderstanding arising from the familiar use of the word +"education." As opposed to this narrow conception, I understand +sex-education, the larger sex-education, to be a collective term +designating all organized effort, both in and out of schools, toward +instructing and influencing young people with regard to the problems of +sex. Here we have returned to the central thought of the definition +with which this lecture opened, and which I emphasize because it is the +foundation of all future lectures: The larger sex-education includes +all scientific, ethical, social, and religious instruction and +influence which in any way may help young people prepare to meet the +problems of life in relation to sex. + + + + +II + +THE PROBLEMS FOR SEX-EDUCATION + + +Sec. 5. _Sex Problems and the Need of Special Knowledge_ + +[Sidenote: Arguments for sex-education.] + +In these lectures I shall discuss the great sex problems towards the +solution of which knowledge conveyed by special education may help. +These problems offer reasons or arguments in favor of sex-education, +and I shall attempt to present them from this point of view. I shall at +the same time point out in preliminary outline how organized +instruction may apply more or less directly to the sex problems that +seem to show the need of educational attack, but in later lectures the +organization of instruction will be considered more specifically. + +[Sidenote: Propagandism needed.] + +In reviewing the literature that during the past decade has advocated +sex-education, it has seemed to me that there is left little +possibility of any decidedly new and important contribution to the +arguments favoring such instruction, for the whole case has been +splendidly presented by eminent writers in the fields of medicine, +biology, sociology, and ethics. It now appears that the great majority +of educators, scientists, and intelligent citizens in general have +accepted the arguments for sex-instruction, so far as they have been +informed concerning the meaning and need of the movement; and this +leads me to the belief that in the future we need not new arguments but +frequent restatements of the established facts which indicate the +importance of widespread knowledge regarding the function that is +inseparably connected with the perpetuation of life. In short, we now +need a propagandism for extending the sex-education movement among the +masses of people. + +For those who have already accepted sex-education, a survey of the +facts that created a demand for sex-instruction will give a clearer +outlook on the movement. The rapid increase of interest in +sex-education has been the result of widespread dissemination of +convincing facts concerning some common disharmonies that grow out of +the sexual problems of the human race. These facts which have led to +sex-education should be kept in mind by all who wish to understand or +to play a part in the instruction of young people. + +It is quite unnecessary, and still more undesirable, to recite at +length in these lectures the social, medical, and psycho-pathological +facts concerning abnormal or perverted sexual processes. Fortunately, +the educational ends may be gained by a general review that points out +the bearings of the main lines of the sexual problems, the +misunderstandings and mistakes that education may help prevent and +correct. + +[Sidenote: Parents should know reasons for sex-instruction.] + +It is important that the general public, especially the parents, should +understand the reasons which have induced numerous physicians, +ministers, and educators to become active advocates of systematic +sex-instruction for young people. Although the movement has made +extensive progress in the ten years of propagandic work, is probably +true that the majority of even intelligent parents are not yet +convinced that their children need sex-instruction. This is due largely +to the fact that the parents have not yet been shown the reasons why it +is now, and always has been, unsafe to allow children to gain more or +less sexual information from unreliable and vulgar sources. In fact, it +is surprising to find many parents, especially mothers, who seem unable +to grasp the idea that their "protected" children can possibly get +impure information. + +There are other parents who know that their children are almost sure to +get vulgar information regarding sexual matters, and that some young +people are likely to make sexual mistakes; but they calmly look upon +such things as part of the established order of the world. + +Still another type of parents who should know the reasons for +sex-instruction are those who accept the traditional idea that their +daughters must be kept "protected" and "innocent" while their sons are +free to sow a large field of "wild oats," concerning which society in +general, and such parents in particular, will care little as long as +social diseases, bastardy suits, or chronic alcoholism do not result +from the dissipations. These are the fathers and mothers who need the +most enlightenment concerning the importance of such sex-instruction as +will make clear the far-reaching consequences of "wild oat sowing." +Perhaps most such parents are ignorant, but some are simply +thoughtless. As an illustration of the latter, the editor of a +well-known magazine was recently talking with a prominent author and +made some reference to the immoral habits of young men. Their +conversation was essentially as follows: The author remarked, "I assume +that my boys will be boys and will have their fling before they settle +down and marry." The editor quickly replied, "Yes, and I presume that +you expect your boys to sow their wild oats with my daughters, and that +in return you will expect my sons to dissipate with your daughters. At +any rate, you have damnable designs on somebody's daughters." This put +on the wild-oat proposition a light which was apparently new to the +literary man, for he replied, "That is a phase of the young man's +problem which never occurred to me. It does sound startling when stated +in that personal way." + +All these classes of parents who have not yet learned the facts which +point to ignorance as the cause of the abundant sexual errors of young +people and those who do not understand that sexual promiscuity or +immorality is an error of gravest significance both to the individual +and to society, should have set before them time and again some of the +startling facts which in the first five years of the American +sex-education movement were promulgated among physicians, ministers, +and educators. All such ignorant or indifferent parents will not take +an interest in the proposed sex-instruction unless they are convinced +by frank and forcible statements regarding the great need of special +safeguarding of young people. + +[Sidenote: Special associations needed.] + +Since there are so many people who still need the most elementary +knowledge concerning the sexual problems that demand educational +attack, it is important that there should be local associations which +can manage lectures, publications, conferences, and other means of +informing the public as to the gravity of the sexual problems of our +times, and as to the part which sex-instruction may play in the attempt +at finding a solution. Such work is now being done splendidly by the +societies named in Sec. 51. The magnitude of the problem of reaching the +public is such that there is abundant work for numerous branches of +such societies or for local groups willing to take a part in the needed +work. As suggested elsewhere, the success of the movement for +sex-instruction of children of school ages will depend largely upon the +attitude and cooperation of parents; and hence it is important that +parents should be led to understand the reasons or arguments for +sex-instruction. In other words, they should know the problems that +indicate the importance of enlightening the rising generation +concerning the great facts of sex and life. + +[Sidenote: Books for parents.] + +Among the numerous publications that seem to me adapted for convincing +parents that their children need instruction, I commonly mention the +following: Lowry's "False Modesty" and "Teaching Sex Hygiene," Howard's +"Start your Child Right," Wile's "Sex Education," Galloway's "Biology +of Sex," March's "Towards Racial Health," Lyttleton's "Training of the +Young in Laws of Sex," and pamphlets by Dr. Prince Morrow. See also +pages 241-243. + +[Sidenote: Knowledge needed concerning eight sex problems.] + +There are eight important sex problems of our times that offer reasons +or arguments for sex-instruction, because ignorance plays a large part +in each problem. I shall state them briefly here and discuss each in +succeeding lectures: (1) Many people, especially in youth, need +hygienic knowledge concerning sexual processes as they affect personal +health. (2) There is an alarming amount of the dangerous social +diseases which are distributed chiefly by the sexual promiscuity or +immorality of many men. (3) The uncontrolled sexual passions of men +have led to enormous development of organized and commercialized +prostitution. (4) There are living to-day tens of thousands of +unmarried mothers and illegitimate children, the result of the common +sexual irresponsibility of men and the ignorance of women. (5) There is +need of more general following of a definite moral standard regarding +sexual relationships. (6) There is a prevailing unwholesome attitude of +mind concerning all sexual processes. (7) There is very general +misunderstanding of sexual life as related to healthy and happy +marriage. (8) There is need of eugenic responsibility for sexual +actions that concern future generations. + +Here are the eight sexual problems of our times. Any one of them has +significance great enough to demand the attention of educators and +social reformers. One and all they point to the need of better +understanding regarding the sexual functions and their relation to +life. I shall now turn to outline the main facts concerning each of +these sexual problems so far as it seems likely that they will concern +educators and social workers. For convenience I shall use the following +brief headings: (1) Personal sex-hygiene, (2) social diseases, (3) +social evil, (4) illegitimacy, (5) sexual morality, (6) sexual +vulgarity, (7) sexual problems and marriage, (8) eugenics. + +[Sidenote: Historical order.] + +These sexual problems toward whose solution special instruction of +young people may help are stated here in the order in which they have +attracted attention as reasons for sex-education. Thus, for instance, +personal sex-hygiene was the chief reason recognized twenty years ago; +social diseases began to attract public attention ten years ago; +commercial prostitution has been especially prominent in the +discussions of the past five years; and only recently has there been +emphasis on sex-education with reference to eugenics. + +The historical order which I follow in this lecture is not now the +order of greatest importance. For example, sexual morality (5) and +vulgarity (6) are probably of far greater significance than any of the +other sexual problems that offer arguments for sex-education. + +[Sidenote: Not all sex problems concern youth.] + +To avoid possible misunderstanding, let me repeat from the first +lecture the proposition that sex-education should extend in home and +school from childhood to maturity. It follows that these lectures +concerning the problems of sex that seriously affect the human race are +not all applicable as arguments for instruction in schools or for +children of school age. Some of the problems of sex point to the need +of special instruction in pre-adolescent or in adolescent years, but +some of them concern directly only those who are approaching maturity. + + +Sec. 6. _First Problem for Sex-instruction: Personal Sex-hygiene_ + +[Sidenote: Personal and social hygiene.] + +It is convenient to group under personal sex-hygiene all hygienic +knowledge concerning sexual processes in their personal as +distinguished from their social aspects. The distinction between these +two aspects of sex-hygiene is essentially on the same basis as that +between personal and public hygiene. For example, indigestion and +overwork are matters of personal hygiene, while tuberculosis and +typhoid are problems of public hygiene because the individual case +leads through infection to disease of others. Similarly, such +individual disorders as masturbation and deranged menstruation concern +personal health directly, while venereal diseases are clearly included +in social sex-hygiene. + +[Sidenote: Personal sex-hygiene needed.] + +If there were no other reasons for sex-instruction, I believe that it +would be worth while to teach such hygienic knowledge of self and sex +as would guard young people against harmful habits and unhealthful care +of their sexual mechanisms; and which, moreover, would guide them +across the threshold of adolescence with some helpful understanding of +the significance of the metamorphosis. Many men and women suffer from +injured, if not ruined, health because they did not know, especially +between ten and fourteen years, the laws of personal sex-hygiene, which +concern health in ways not involving sexual relationship. Many boys and +some girls are injured both physically and mentally by the habit of +masturbation. Numerous girls are injured physically and many mentally +because they have not learned in advance the nature and hygiene of +menstruation. Many boys are injured both in mind and character because +they have no scientific guidance which helps them understand themselves +during the stormy transition from youth into manhood. Moreover, there +are certain simple hygienic commands that children under twelve should +receive from parents and teachers. In all these lines the bearings of +personal hygienic instruction are so obvious that we need not at this +time stop to consider in more detail this first reason or problem for +sex-instruction of young people. + + +Sec. 7. _Second Problem for Sex-instruction: Social Diseases_ + +[Sidenote: Recent publicity regarding vice and disease.] + +During the past decade the general public has received some astounding +revelations concerning the enormous extent of illicit sexual +promiscuity, which is immorality according to our commonly accepted +code of morals. Along with the evidence as to the existence of +widespread promiscuity, has come the still more alarming information +from the medical profession that sexual promiscuity commonly +distributes the germs of the two highly infectious and exceedingly +destructive diseases, syphilis and gonorrhea, known in medical science +as venereal or social. When these are acquired by individuals guilty of +sexual promiscuity, they seriously and often fatally affect the victim; +but of far greater social-hygienic importance is the medical evidence +that they are very often transmitted to persons innocent of any +transgression of the moral law, especially to wives and children. + +The medical revelations concerning the relation of sexual immorality to +the plague of social diseases, has come from certain eminent +physicians, notably the late Dr. Prince A. Morrow. His translation of +Fournier's "Syphilis and Marriage" (1881), his own "Social Diseases and +Marriage" (1904), and several of his pamphlets published by the +American Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, have been +authoritative statements of conditions as the medical world sees them. + +[Sidenote: Social diseases and immorality.] + +The extent of social diseases is a fairly accurate measure of the +minimum amount of immorality, for nothing is better established in +medical science than that promiscuity in sexual relations is directly +or indirectly responsible for spread of the microorganisms which cause +the diseases. If for several generations all men and women limited +their sexual relations to monogamic marriage, and the relatively rare +cases of non-sexual and prenatal infection were treated so as to render +them non-contagious, the social diseases would probably disappear from +the human family. Such a statement is significant only in showing the +relation of social diseases to sexual promiscuity, for of course, there +is no reasonable hope that the venereal germs will ever be annihilated +by universal monogamy. + +[Sidenote: Attack by education and sanitation.] + +Reduction of the amount of venereal disease must depend upon (1) +hygienic and moral education which will lead people to avoid the +sources of infection and (2) sanitary and medical science which works +either by applying antiseptic or other prophylactic methods for +preventing development of the causative microorganisms, or by using +germicides for destroying those germs which have already produced +disease. Thus the educational and the sanitary attack on the social +diseases lie parallel. Both are needed, for, even with all the possible +methods of attack, the progress against these diseases will be +exceedingly slow. + +Those who are interested in the facts relating to social diseases which +point to the need of sex-education as one method of prevention, are +referred to the pamphlets published by the American Society of Sanitary +and Moral Prophylaxis; Morrow's "Social Diseases and Marriage"; +Creighton's "The Social Disease and How to Fight It"; Dock's "Hygiene +and Morality"; Henderson's "Education with Reference to Sex"; and +certain chapters in Warbasse's "Medical Sociology." + +[Sidenote: Estimated amount of disease.] + +With regard to the accuracy of the commonly quoted statements +concerning the prevalence of social disease, and therefore of +immorality, it must be said in all fairness that there has been much +guesswork and some deliberate exaggeration. We learn from various books +and lectures that fifty, sixty-five, seventy-five and even ninety per +cent of the men in the United States over eighteen years of age are at +some time infected with at least one of the social diseases. The fact +is that there is no scientific way of getting accurate statistics, for +unlike other contagious diseases, the venereal ones are kept more or +less secret, and numerous cases cannot be discovered by health +officers. All the published figures regarding the prevalence of such +diseases are merely estimates based upon the experience of certain +physicians with special groups of men, especially in hospitals. There +is no reliable scientific evidence as to the prevalence of venereal +disease in the whole mass of our American population. + +[Sidenote: Education not concerned with percentages.] + +However, so far as education is concerned, there is nothing to be +gained by dispute as to the possible inaccuracy of the higher +percentages,[1] for it is generally admitted that probably over fifty +per cent of the men in America and Europe become infected with +gonorrhea or syphilis, or both, one or more times during their lives, +especially in early manhood. This conservative estimate is sufficient +to show that the sexual morals of probably the majority of men are at +some time in their lives loose. There is reason to believe that with +most such men the period of moral laxity is in early manhood before +marriage, which, though not excusable, is explainable on physiological +grounds. It is important to correct the wrong impression which is now +widespread, especially among women who have read the more or less +sensational statements in certain books and magazines, that the quoted +figures on social disease mean that from fifty to ninety per cent of +all men are immoral from time to time for many years. If that were +true, the situation represented by the highest estimates would be +hopeless, and we might as well start out to adjust society to a system +of recognized sexual promiscuity. Fortunately, it is far from true, for +a great many men included in even the conservative statistics of +social disease were infected because they strayed from the moral path +very few times and in many cases only once. This fact makes the outlook +for improved sexual morals and health more hopeful, for probably the +majority of young men need help in controlling themselves for a few +years only, especially between eighteen and twenty-five.[2] + +[Sidenote: Established facts.] + +The reports of medical men regarding the damage done by the social +diseases are inaccurate chiefly when they attempt to state percentages +of the whole population. They are reliable when they state observed +facts, such as the following: It is now established in medical science +that (1) gonorrheal infection results in tens of thousands of cases in +complications, such as heart disease, gonorrheal rheumatism, sterility +of both men and women, blindness of infants, inflammatory diseases of +female reproductive organs, and other well-marked sequelae of the +disease; and (2) that syphilis is responsible for a large majority of +cases of locomotor ataxia, paresis and certain types of insanity, and +also for numerous aneurisms of arteries, many apoplexies, and much +disease of liver, kidneys, and other organs. Moreover, syphilis is +charged with being the greatest race destroyer. Fournier, the great +French specialist, noted that only two children survived from a series +of ninety pregnancies of syphilitic women of the well-to-do class. It +is probably true that much less than ten per cent of syphilitized +embryos ever grow into mature men and women, and even these few +survivors are likely to carry in their bodies the germs or the "virus" +of syphilis which may affect the next generation. + +[Sidenote: Social diseases admittedly dangerous.] + +Such direct statements as the above may be accepted as not exaggerated. +However, it little matters in sex-education, except for the purposes of +sensational writers, whether statistics regarding the damage done by +venereal diseases are more than estimates; for it is sufficient to +remember that every physician of large experience agrees that syphilis +and gonorrhea are so common and so destructive of health and life that +they must be classed among the most dangerous diseases that now +threaten the human race. This ought to be sufficient to attract the +serious attention of every thinking man and woman. + +[Sidenote: Double standard of morality.] + +Thus, in general survey, we see the great problems of social-sexual +hygiene caused by diseases that are widely distributed because sexual +instincts are uncontrolled. In short, the alarming problem of the +social diseases results from masculine promiscuity or the failure of +men to adhere to the monogamic standards of morality. In other and +familiar phrasing, there is widespread acceptance and practice of the +so-called "double standard of sexual morality," a monogamic one for +respectable women and promiscuity for many of their male relatives and +friends. (See writings of Morrow, especially "The Sex Problem"; also +Creighton's "The Social Disease.") + +[Sidenote: One problem for sex-education.] + +Our brief survey of the hygienic problems caused by sexual promiscuity +and its characteristic diseases is sufficient to indicate one great +problem for sex-education. Such social-hygiene problems have been most +responsible for the recent and rapid rise of the movement for +sex-education, and they must be recognized in any adequate scheme for +instruction of young people. + +[Sidenote: Is sex-hygiene adequate?] + +Can scientific education hope to solve the sexual problems of society +by inculcating such fear of venereal diseases that men will remain true +to the monogamic code of morality? Many cynical disbelievers in +sex-hygiene answer this question negatively by asking in biblical +phrase, "Can the leopard change his spots?" In other words, these +doubting ones believe that sexual instincts are so firmly fixed in the +nature of _many_ men and _some_ women that there is no hope of radical +change through education.[3] There is something in this point of view. +It is probably true that even the most radical advocates of +sex-education do not hope to secure universal monogamy and consequent +disappearance of social diseases. A conservative and rational answer to +the above question whether sex-education can solve the problem of +social diseases, is that a large percentage of even civilized people +are not yet ready to have their most powerful instincts controlled by +scientific knowledge. Hence, there is no hope that the hygienic task of +sex-education will be finished soon after instruction becomes an +established part of general education in homes and schools. At the very +best there will be incomplete returns for the social-hygienic aspect of +sex-instruction, but already we know for a certainty that enough young +men will be influenced to make the teaching justifiable. I feel sure of +this because I have met personally many such men and my friends know +many more. + +According to the investigations made by Dr. Exner, the medical +secretary of the Young Men's Christian Association, a great reduction +of venereal disease has followed sex-hygienic campaigns in college +towns. + +[Sidenote: Medical treatment.] + +In another way hygienic teaching may reduce the amount of venereal +diseases, and that is by leading infected individuals to seek thorough +medical treatment without delay. This, of course, will render the +diseased person non-infectious to others. Physicians report that there +is now a marked movement in this direction and, moreover, that many +infected young men voluntarily seek medical examinations before +marriage. + +[Sidenote: Woman's need of information.] + +Even if we refuse to believe that social-hygienic teaching will protect +many young men from sexual diseases, there is the woman's need of +information to be considered. As said before, women more than men +suffer the consequences of venereal infections. Therefore, every young +woman who considers marriage should know the possibility of danger to +herself and her children, and be able to decide accordingly. Of course, +even with much knowledge she may marry the wrong man, for correct +diagnosis of social disease is not always easy; but if her confidence +is betrayed and she becomes infected, she ought to know the importance +of immediate and radical medical treatment. Let me illustrate these +statements that women should know the danger of venereal disease. One +of my college friends neglected an important legal case to travel seven +hundred miles in order to tell face to face another college friend that +she was about to marry a dangerous man. Being utterly ignorant of the +existence of sexual diseases, the girl and her mother characterized my +friend's statement by a short and ugly word, and ordered him to leave +their home instantly. The marriage occurred and some months later the +young woman went to her grave, a victim of gonorrheal salpingitis and +peritonitis. + +Another case which illustrates the danger of a woman's ignorance: One +of my students of many years ago married a minister who infected her +with syphilis and kept her from medical attention until the disease +was in a highly developed stage, and even then conspired with an +inefficient doctor to keep her ignorant of the nature of the disease. + +[Sidenote: The right to knowledge.] + +These are not extreme cases, for any physician with large experience +knows that such things are common. Medical literature is full of such +painful recitals of venereal tragedies. It is not desirable that all +young women should know the details of such tragedies, but they should +know that dangers exist. Parents and educators will not have done their +duty until they cooperate to give all young women the protective +knowledge they have a right to demand.[4] + +[Sidenote: Best people must lead.] + +There is another way of looking at the possible effect of the social +side of sex-hygienic instruction. It is sure to make a decided +impression upon many young people of the type that we regard as the +best in every way. These will be the leaders of the future and they in +turn will help improve conditions. Perhaps it may all work out as the +drug problem is being solved. Widespread social and hygienic +information regarding the harmful effect of alcohol, cocaine, opium, +and other drugs has first of all impressed leading citizens; and these +are beginning to control by laws those who cannot be reached directly +by education. In some such ways those who are impressed by formal +sex-education may lend a hand in influencing many who could not be +touched directly by hygienic education. + +[Sidenote: Legislation needed.] + +There is no doubt that public enlightenment regarding the dangers of +social diseases will soon lead to legislation and public medical work +which will contribute greatly towards reduction of the diseases. For +example, legislation with reference to venereal disease should require +doctors to report cases to health officers, should forbid "quack" +advertising of fake "cures," should forbid sale by drug stores of +nostrums for personal treatment, should provide dispensaries and +hospitals for reliable treatment at reasonable cost, should require +medical examinations for marriage licenses and provide for such +examinations at moderate charges or at public expense, should require +certain sanitary precautions in care of eyes of new-born infants, and +should provide for discovery and treatment of congenital syphilis in +school children. These are lines in which good laws might help vastly +in the war against the social diseases. Moreover, it is obvious that +all laws which help control the social evil will work indirectly +against the social diseases. + +[Sidenote: Probable results of instruction.] + +In conclusion, it seems probable that popular knowledge of the social +side of sex-hygiene will reduce the amount of venereal disease (1) by +teaching some people the dangers of promiscuity, (2) by adoption of +certain sanitary precautions that lessen danger of infection, (3) by +leading people to seek competent medical aid which, while often +failing to restore the victim's health, will probably eliminate the +danger of contagion for others, and (4) by intelligent support of laws +that directly or indirectly affect the social diseases. + +[Sidenote: Social diseases not most important.] + +I have given great prominence to the social-sexual diseases in their +relation to sex-education because along this line there has been +developed the widespread interest in sex-instruction as _one_ method of +protecting young people against promiscuity. So far as the questions of +teaching are concerned, my personal view is that some of the other +reasons or problems for sex-instruction are more important, because I +believe that educational emphasis on them will give the greatest +results in improved sexual conditions of society. + + +Sec. 8. _Third Problem for Sex-instruction: the Social Evil_ + +So far as the problems of sex-education are concerned, there is nothing +to be gained by an extensive review of commercialized prostitution. It +is generally accepted that the social evil or prostitution is increased +by the common ignorance of young people of both sexes regarding the +physical and social relations of sex. + +Of course, it is not true that all prostitution is due to ignorance, +for it often involves enlightened men and women. However, there seems +to be good reason for believing that large numbers of people of both +sexes might be kept out of prostitution by very simple sex-instruction. +Let us look for a moment at some facts concerning the relation of the +ignorance of the women to their entrance into the underworld, and later +consider certain reasons why many men patronize the social evil. + +[Sidenote: Why women enter prostitution.] + +With regard to the women victims of prostitution, it seems to be +generally accepted that economic pressure, feeble-mindedness, bad +social environment, and unguided instincts, independently or combined, +are the chief causes of their downfall. However, there is a deeper +reason why numerous women enter prostitution, for all of these factors +commonly operate because of inadequate sexual knowledge. In short, +ignorance is the fundamental cause of much prostitution on the part of +women. Many a girl with starvation wages, bad social surroundings, +sub-normal mentality, or even intense instincts is able to keep her +womanhood because she knows the awful dangers of sexual promiscuity. +For our present educational purposes, it is sufficient to point out the +opinion of competent social workers that knowledge might often +counteract the forces that lead women from virtue and down into +prostitution. + +[Sidenote: Men also ignorant.] + +A large number of men patronize prostitution because they are ignorant +in one or more of the following respects. Some of them have drifted +into abnormal sexual habits when they were boys, and later into illicit +relations. Some of them did not know the effect of alcoholic drinks in +leading many young men to their first immoral sexual acts. Some of them +have deliberately patronized prostitution because they have accepted as +truth the monstrous lie that sexual activity is necessary to preserve +the health of men.[5] Most of the men do not realize that prostitution +offers great danger to their own health, still greater danger to the +health of innocent wives and children, and a greatly shortened life for +many women who are the victims of sexual slavery. Most men do not know +that dark tragedies are often concealed beneath the apparent gay life +of the women who are victims of sexual degradation. These are some of +the things of which many young men I have known were very ignorant, and +it has been no difficult task to trace a close connection between their +ignorance and their vice. + +[Sidenote: Ignorance the chief cause.] + +Looking at the social evil from any point of view, it seems to me that +ignorance, dense ignorance, is largely responsible for the existence of +that darkest blot on our boasted civilization--the social-sexual evil. +No matter how we look at the established facts regarding prostitution, +they all point to the need of sexual instruction for the protection of +the youth of both sexes. The Chicago Vice Commission concluded that +"the lack of information, education and training with reference to the +function and control of the sexual instinct, and the consequences of +its abuse and perversion, appears at every point of our inquiry for +the sources of the supply of the victims of vice, either as the cause +of the perversion of children and youth or as a complication of all +other causes."[6] Of course, we dare not dream that any sex-instruction +that now seems possible will completely eradicate prostitution; but we +do know of thousands of boys and girls who have been directed to safety +by knowledge of some fundamental sexual facts. + +[Sidenote: Sex plays and novels.] + +Concerning presentation of the social evil by fiction and the drama, +there is much honest disagreement. My personal opinion is that little +good is done by the theater or by such publications as Reginald +Kaufmann's "House of Bondage," and Elizabeth Robin's "My Little +Sister." They all leave the unsophisticated reader with an exaggerated +and even hysterical notion that white slavery is exceedingly common and +the main cause of prostitution. Certainly the great majority of the +army of prostitutes, both public and clandestine, in America, and a +still higher percentage on the continent of Europe, did not become +novitiates of vice in prisons of prostitution. + +[Sidenote: Limited reading desirable.] + +It seems to me that a very limited reading regarding the social evil is +sufficient for one who is not engaged in medical or social work that +requires scientific knowledge of this darkest side of human life. +Certainly, the indiscriminate reading of vice investigations is +dangerous for many young people,--for young men because some of them +are allured into personal investigations, and for young women because +they get an exaggerated and pessimistic view of all sexual problems. +For the intelligent reader who wants the general information that every +public-spirited citizen should have, the well-known book by Jane Addams +will serve both as an outline and an encyclopedia of the social evil. +Social workers and some educators will find use for the other books +mentioned below. + + Jane Addams.--"A New Conscience and an Ancient Evil." + (Macmillan). + + Seligman, E.R.A. (Editor).--"The Social Evil." (Putnam.) Contains + bibliography on the subject. + + Sumner, Dean W.T., and others.--"The Social Evil in Chicago." + Vice-Commission Report, 1911. Now published by the American + Social Hygiene Association. The "introduction and summary" (pp. + 25-47) deserves careful reading. + + Cocks, O.G.--"The Social Evil" (Association Press). + + "Vigilance," a journal devoted to attacking the social evil, has + been discontinued and replaced by bulletins of the American + Social Hygiene Association, 105 West 40th Street, New York City. + + +Sec. 9. _The Fourth Problem for Sex-education: Illegitimacy_ + +[Sidenote: Society condemns illegitimacy.] + +Most awful of all the results of the sexual mistakes of men and women +are the unmarried mothers and their illegitimate children. Of course, I +know that there are well-meaning people who argue that motherhood is +the supreme fact and that the formality of a marriage ceremony is +merely a medievalism in our laws and customs; but the inexorable truth +remains that our modern social system is centered around the home which +is strictly regulated by church and state and public opinion.[7] +Whatever may be the philosophical rights and wrongs of individual +freedom in sexual relationship, the facts of practical life are that an +overwhelming majority of the most intelligent people are united in +support of our established laws and customs demanding legitimacy of +motherhood and birthright. As a result of this age-old stand for +legitimacy, illegitimate mothers and children do not have a square deal +at the bar of public opinion. Everybody knows that the vast majority of +illegitimate children do not have a fair chance in the world's work. +Professor Cattell, in _Science_, March, 1914, points out that since +illegitimates occur one in every twenty-five births in the United +States, and since they are on the whole equal to other children in +mentality, there ought to be forty of them among the thousand leading +men of science designated in the directory of the "American Men of +Science;" but none are known. The conclusion must be that illegitimate +children do not have an equal chance at education which leads to +prominence in science. But it is not simply a matter of limited +education, for in every way the fate of most illegitimate children is +usually pitiful. Only now and then one born under a lucky star is +adopted and educated by large-minded foster parents who recognize that +the illegitimate is not responsible for having come into this world +under conditions opposed to the best interests of society. + +[Sidenote: Ignorance the cause.] + +It seems to be generally accepted that in the vast majority of cases, +unmarried mothers and illegitimate children are due to ignorance of the +women. Women who are professionally immoral do not bear many +children.[8] In fact, excepting the feeble-minded prostitutes, the +general rule is that those who are mothers have only one child and that +one the result of the first sexual errors. It is a safe general +conclusion that ignorance of sexual laws is responsible for the great +majority of cases of illegitimacy. + +Edith Livingston Smith, of Boston, in an article on "Unmarried Mothers" +in _Harper's Weekly_ for September 6, 1913, expressed views of the +causes of illegitimacy that many a social worker will indorse heartily: + + "I see shop girls and waitresses, factory girls and maids, chorus + girls, stenographers, and governesses, each with a different + story, each with the same terror of the consequences of their + folly. 'I never knew,' they tell me, 'I never knew there were such + temptations.'... + + "Let us go back to the question of sex-education of the public. + Silence has been the policy in the past. We have taught our + children biology and natural history, we have taught them + physiology, carefully ignoring the organs of reproduction; we + have warned the young to make use of their senses and their + brains, but we have refused to recognize the very force that + guides all these instincts, the vital power of sex. Yet, in the + face of this stupidity, acknowledging the call of the age, girls + are sent out into the industrial world, where they fight shoulder + to shoulder with men. Here they find potential worth of their + individualities; here they meet with the same--no + greater--temptation than their brothers, but with no knowledge to + guide them, no traditions to give them poise, no ameliorating + factor of social tenderness or tolerance when inexperience fails + to temper their emotions and their femininity.... + + "A girl's protection must come from without, a boy's from within. + Every boy who reaches the age of adolescence knows his nature. It + asserts itself. His sex instincts are dominant, aggressive. He is + man, the father of the race, and the laws of procreation are to + him an open book. A girl stays innocent until she is awakened. It + is the kiss, the touch, the senses stirred, that make her, in the + glory of her womanhood or in her shame, acknowledge her sex. + + "The very frailty of such a girl, her dependence upon her + intuitions and emotions, the triumph of feeling over intellect, + place her in greater danger than her brothers, even were their + responsibility to society the same. But, add to this the fact that + in yielding to sexual temptation she has the burden of + child-bearing--how much more necessary that she should have some + knowledge of what she is to meet in the world, or what she must + combat, lest her emotions forestall her intelligence as physical + development precedes mental appreciation." + +[Sidenote: Men also ignorant.] + +Illegitimacy is often due to ignorance of men as well as of women. +Prominent physicians have cited from their notebooks cases of +"protected" children in early adolescence who instinctively entered +into sexual relationship in utter ignorance of the natural result. Such +cases where the boy is entirely ignorant must be very rare; but there +are probably many boys who do not really understand that the sexual act +is very likely to lead to a ruined life for the girl companion and her +offspring. Arthur Donnithorne, in "Adam Bede," did not forecast that +his act would lead to the ruin of Hetty Sorrel and her condemnation for +infanticide. + +[Sidenote: More than biology needed.] + +It is obvious that something more than the ordinary biological facts of +reproduction must be included in sex-instruction that tries to prevent +such tragedies. In another lecture we shall consider moral teaching, +but here let us look at the cold facts of life that ought to be taught +at some appropriate time to young people. Not only should they know the +simple biological probability that sexual relationship will lead to +reproduction, but they should be led to consider the relentless +consequences of illegitimate propagation. On this latter point general +literature, _e.g._, "Adam Bede" and "The Scarlet Letter," teaches some +impressive lessons. + +Another point needs emphasis with the numerous young people, especially +men, who are not controlled by moral laws, who know the probabilities +of illegitimacy occurring, but who have acquired the popular +impression that the order of nature is easily changed. Many physicians +and social workers know girls who have gone down because they were +persuaded to trust the efficiency of popular ways and means of avoiding +the natural outcome of the sexual act. Hence, young people of both +sexes should somehow learn that under the conditions that usually +attend illicit union there is always a strong probability that the ways +of nature cannot be easily circumvented. It is unlawful to explain, +except to medical audiences, why this is so; but much illegitimacy will +be prevented if it can be made widely known among young men and women +that, according to reliable physicians, tragedies of illegitimacy are +often due to misplaced confidence in popular methods of contraception. + +[Sidenote: Criminal operations.] + +There is yet another line of information that if widely known might +have some bearing on the problem of illicit sexual relations: +Physicians and social workers report that many young men and some women +know the possibility of illegitimate pregnancy, but feel safe because +they know the addresses of doctors and midwives who will perform +criminal operations. The great danger of the operation, especially at +the hands of such third-class doctors as would attempt to terminate +pregnancy criminally, should be widely known by the general public, +which only now and then gets a hint in the newspaper reports of a +tragedy involving some unfortunate girl. + +[Sidenote: Relative passion of men and women.] + +There is the widespread misunderstanding among young men that sexual +hunger is as insistent in virtuous young women as in themselves and +that therefore illicit gratification is a mutual gain and +responsibility. Some young men may be guided by the information that +there is much reliable evidence indicating that, while an innate +tendency towards general emotions of affection is strong in the average +young woman, there is general absence of the localized passions that +naturally and automatically develop in young men. In other words, the +first definite sexual temptation is likely to come to a young woman +from outside herself, and young men should be impressed with their +responsibility for allowing even the beginning of situations that may +arouse dormant but dangerous instincts. + + +Sec. 10. _The Fifth Problem for Sex-education: Sexual Morality_ + +In this lecture I shall set forth the proposition that a definitely +organized scheme of education should aim directly at making young +people strict adherents of the established code of sexual morality. For +brevity, I shall occasionally speak of morality and immorality, +omitting the qualifying word "sexual." + +[Sidenote: Definition of sexual morality.] + +This lecture, in fact this entire series of lectures on sex-education, +is based on the fundamental proposition that sexual morality demands +that sexual union be restricted to monogamic marriage, and conversely, +that such sexual relation outside of marriage is immoral. Such a +definition of sexual morality is accepted by church and state and the +chief citizens in every civilized country. It is the only practical +definition which is satisfactory to the vast majority of educated +American men and women, even to those who believe in freedom of divorce +and in forgiveness for youthful transgressions of the accepted moral +code. Sexual morality has had changeable standards, and in other times +and countries custom has made polygamy and promiscuity acceptable as +moral; but the monogamic ideal of morality now prevails in the world's +best life. + +[Sidenote: Morality in America and Europe.] + +Monogamic morality as a protection for family life means much more in +America than in Europe. It is true that there is an astounding amount +of prostitution in America, but we should be grateful that our ideals +of the monogamic family have not been seriously influenced and seem to +be slowly but surely improving among our best people. As illustrations +of our adherence to monogamic law, let me give some facts for +comparison of America and continental Europe. In America, illegitimate +births are not accurately reported but are probably less than five per +cent of the total number for the whole country. Locally the proportion +is often very much higher. Thus in Washington, D.C., where (1914) over +ten thousand, chiefly negroes, live in alleys between the streets and +under extremely unhygienic and immoral conditions, fifty per cent of +the children are illegitimate, while but twenty per cent of the colored +children born of mothers living outside the alleys, and less than +eleven per cent of the total born of all races in the city are +illegitimate. In various small American regions with a white population +the proportion of illegitimacy is astoundingly high, but the average +for the entire country is hopefully low. In many German towns +statistics show above twenty-five per cent, and in the whole empire, +more than half the legitimate first-born children are conceived before +marriage. All writers, the German ones included, seem to agree that the +majority of Teutonic men and women enter into free unions before +marriage and public opinion does not severely condemn. + +In many rural districts of England, France, and Sweden, and even in +London and Paris, a large percentage of the marriages are simply +legalization of free unions. In short, in all these countries the +monogamic ideal is not followed by a large percentage of people. It +must be remembered that the great majority of people involved in the +above figures are of the peasant and laboring classes; conditions are +quite different among women of the educated classes. These must +ultimately set the moral standards for the masses. + +Our American conditions are quite different, especially outside of the +large cosmopolitan cities. It is impossible not to believe in the moral +integrity of the great majority of unmarried women in America. +Certainly even in our worst communities we have no such general +immorality of women as above European figures suggest. Perhaps +wholesale prostitution in which one public woman may be the mistress of +ten, twenty, or even fifty men, may tend to protect any equal number of +American women; whereas in Europe a peasant woman would probably be for +a time the paramour of one man, thus tending to make equal numbers of +immoral men and women. + +However, it matters nothing for our present purposes what may be the +explanation of conditions of sexual promiscuity here or abroad. The one +great fact is that our national code of morality is a monogamic one, +approved as ideal even by many of those who fail to live strictly in +harmony with its dictates. Hence, all Americans who are prominently +interested in sex-education believe that it should aim to make our +young people more ready to accept and understand morality according to +the monogamic ideal. + +Those who are interested in this problem of morality as related to +marriage should read Foerster's "Marriage and the Sex Problem." + +[Sidenote: Relation of sex-hygiene and ethics.] + +Among those who see the need of teaching sex-ethics as a part of the +larger outlook of sex-education, there are two points of view: (1) +those who favor the teaching of sex-ethics with the hope of preventing +the hygienic problems arising from immorality, and (2) those who +believe in sexual morality for its own sake or as an accepted code of +conduct. + +The founders of the American Society for Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis +placed sanitation first in the name and stated in the constitution that +"the object of this Society is to limit the spread of diseases which +have their origin in the Social Evil. It proposes to study every means, +sanitary, moral, and administrative, which promise to be most effective +for this purpose." Most of the papers that have been read at the +meetings of the Society have emphasized the sanitary aim as primary, +and the moral aim as a means to the hygienic end; but in the past three +years there has been a decided tendency towards placing emphasis upon +morality, and recently the executive committee of the Society voted to +propose the following revised statement: "The aim of this Society is to +promote the appreciation of the sacredness of human sexual relation, +and thereby to minimize the moral and physical evils resulting from +ignorance and vice." This change of emphasis is well expressed in +President Keyes's report to the Society (_Journal_, Vol. V, No. 1). + +As to the relation between sex-hygiene and sex-ethics as phases of the +larger sex-education, there has been much discussion. Several writers +have contended that there is some conflict between sanitary and moral +ends, but have failed to convince most readers that hygiene and ethics +should not be associated in teaching. In fact, the most impressive +sex-hygiene is that relating to social disease, and its value is +chiefly in the ethical appeal for protection of innocent wives and +children. + +[Sidenote: Dr. Cabot's view.] + +Most prominent of those who have declared that hygienic and moral +teaching should be dissociated is Dr. Richard C. Cabot, of Boston. I +shall discuss his point of view in connection with a later lecture on +"Criticisms of Sex-education" (Sec. 46). In the present discussion of +sexual morality as an important reason for sex-education, it is +sufficient to say that Dr. Cabot seems to disagree with other teachers +on the question of the influence of formal instruction on the morals of +people. + +[Sidenote: Moral and hygienic problems.] + +Sex-education is now commonly understood to be attempting to solve the +moral as well as the hygienic problems of sex. As suggested before, +these two lines of problems are clearly related but not coincident; for +sexual health and morals are not entirely coordinated. We must not +overlook the possibility that the marvellous progress of +bacteriological and medical science may some day largely reduce the +health problems of sex without improving morality. In fact, sexual +immorality that is hygienic does actually exist to a limited extent. +Such facts indicate that while sex-education was first planned to solve +health problems, the ultimate sex-education must attempt to guide +sexual conduct by moral principles. This coming need of more emphasis +on the moral problems of sex should be clearly foreseen by those who +are interested in sex-education. + +[Sidenote: Super-morality desirable.] + +Now, while sexual morality as commonly understood is a direct aim of +sex-education, it is not, in the opinion of many people, the ideal and +ultimate goal of sex-education in its broadest outlook. There is +something higher than conventional morality for the reason that, while +natural sexual union in monogamic marriage is never legally or +ecclesiastically immoral, it is very often far from ideal. It is not +ideal if it is unethical, unhygienic, or unaesthetic. It is unethical, +if it is not a bi-personal desideratum (_i.e._, based on mutual +love[9]); it is unhygienic when not promotive and conservative of +health; and it is unaesthetic if the concomitant psychical reactions are +not in harmony with the beautiful in nature and life. In all these +ways, morality as commonly and legally and ecclesiastically understood +may fall very far short of the ideal sexual relationships. Such an +ideal is now held by many men and women who wish that morality might +mean to all the world not simply the limitation of sexual union to +monogamic marriage, but also that it might be made to mean an +all-satisfying monogamic affection and comradeship based on certain +physiological, psychical, aesthetic, and ethical laws that underlie +human sexual potentialities. Such would be a morality so far beyond +the accepted standards that for convenience we may call it +super-morality, or the new morality. This, I sincerely believe, is the +ultimate goal of sex-education in its largest outlook. + +[Sidenote: Super-morality deserves emphasis.] + +Among those who have contributed to the sex-education movement there +are none who have properly emphasized this super-morality, which, I +believe, is the ultimate goal of the larger sex-education for the most +enlightened people. The definition that sex-education means all +instruction which aims to help young people prepare to solve for +themselves the sexual problems that inevitably come to every normal +individual, is broad enough to include all questions of hygiene, +morality, and super-morality that may come into one's life. The third +aim of sex-education (Sec. 16) which refers to the "social, ethical, and +psychical aspects of sex as affecting the individual life in relation +to other individuals," should be understood as meaning first a stand +for morality and then, this having been attained, super-morality is an +easy stage forward. The same idea was touched by the writer in a paper +on "Biology in Sex-Instruction" (_Journal of Society of Sanitary and +Moral Prophylaxis_, October, 1911) in these words: "If the great +questions of sex relationship are ever satisfactorily solved, it must +be through the direct application of the four sciences which are +centered around human life, namely, psychology, ethics, sociology, and +last, but far from least, aesthetics. As we have seen, biology teaches +much directly bearing on the purely physical aspects of the +perpetuation of human life, and its study is absolutely necessary for +mental attitude and basal facts; but the keystone of the arch of +sex-education must be contributed by these four sciences which touch +human life much deeper than the merely physical, to which the science +of biology is limited. Above all we must look to these sciences for the +solution of the problems of sex in relation to society, which more than +any physical ills have led to our present problems concerning sexual +disharmonies." + +[Sidenote: Super-morality not for the masses.] + +But while there is something attractive in this larger interpretation +of sex-education as looking forward to the highest adaptation of sex +and life, I realize that as a practical matter we must first of all +work with young people for sexual morality as defined by the accepted +code. We must remember that the vast majority of people are not yet +ready, and will not soon be ready, for a code of super-morality. +Confusion might result from an attempt at wholesale teaching of such +idealism of sex relationship. Certainly, so far as sex-education aims +to help immature young people, there is nothing to do but hold up +monogamic marriage as the basis of our accepted morality; but the +higher view of super-morality should be promulgated as rapidly as +possible among people who are advanced enough to understand that +morality as defined by church and state is not the best interpretation +of life's possibilities. To many it is a significant fact that we now +find numerous young men and women ready to stand for super-morality as +a foundation for monogamic marriage. Fortunately, such individuals need +not wait for the world to grasp the idea of super-morals; and already +there is many a home in which the higher view of life and sex prevails. + +[Sidenote: Cautious teaching concerning immorality.] + +Immorality in sexual lines should not be overstressed when teaching +young people. Rather should there be emphasis on the moral, the normal, +the healthful, the helpful, and the aesthetic processes in human life. +We should emphasize sexual health and morals, not disease and +immorality. Concerning immoral living in general, young people should +know only enough for necessary warning. Curiosity derived from +extensive knowledge of immorality has drawn many a young man into the +whirlpool of sexual depravity. It is beyond question that in sexual +lines there is the danger that Pope saw when he declared that vice is a +monster that seen too oft, we first endure, then pity, then embrace. +Sex-education should guard against such dangerous familiarity with +vice. + + +Sec. 11. _The Sixth Problem for Sex-education: Sexual Vulgarity_ + +[Sidenote: Present attitude.] + +Even a limited study of the prevailing attitude towards sex and +reproduction convinces one that back of the greatest sexual problems of +our times is the almost universal secrecy, disrespect, vulgarity, and +irreverence concerning every aspect of sex and reproduction. Even +expectant motherhood is commonly concealed as long as possible, and all +reference to the developing new life is usually accompanied with +blushes and tones suggestive of some great shame. Nothing sexual is +commonly regarded as sacred. Love and marriage, motherhood and birth, +are all freely selected as themes for sexual jests, many of them so +vulgar that no printed dictionary supplies the necessary words. And I +am not simply referring to the great masses of uneducated people, for +the saddest fact is that a very large proportion of intelligent people +have not an open-minded and respectful attitude concerning sex and +reproduction. + +[Sidenote: Vast change of attitude needed.] + +Now, unless we can devise some way to counteract the prevailing narrow, +vulgar, disrespectful, and irreverent attitude towards all aspects of +sex and reproduction; unless we can make people see sexual processes in +all their normal aspects as noble, beautiful, and splendid steps in the +great plan of nature; unless we can substitute a philosophical and +aesthetic view of sex relationship for the time-worn interpretation of +everything sexual as inherently vulgar, base, ignoble, and demanding +asceticism for those who would reach the highest spiritual development; +unless we can begin to make these changes in the prevailing attitude +towards sex and reproduction, we cannot make any decided advance in the +attempt to help solve sexual problems by special instruction. + +First of all, sex-education must work for a purified and dignified +attitude which sees vulgarity and impurity only when the functions of +sex have been voluntarily and knowingly misused and thereby debased. +Sex-education must work against the idea that sexual processes are +inherently vulgar, degraded, base, and impure. Such an interpretation +is correct only when sexual instincts are uncontrolled and thereby out +of harmony with the highest ideals of life. But control does not mean +asceticism which aims at complete subjugation of sexual instincts and +would annihilate them if that were biologically possible. The early +Christians, disgusted with the sexual degradation of the paganistic and +materialistic Romans, preached a doctrine of sexual asceticism as the +ideal for those who would rise to the heights of spiritual life. This +pessimistic interpretation of the relation of sex and life has +persisted even in some ecclesiastical teachings of the twentieth +century, and probably has had not a little responsibility for the +widely accepted and depressing view that sex is a necessary but +regrettable fact of human life. + +[Sidenote: Attitude changing.] + +Fortunately, the old ascetic point of view is passing rapidly. +Nineteenth-century science has given us a nobler view of the physical +world. Scientifically considered, matter is no longer base and +degraded. Especially has the biological science of the past fifty years +made _living_ matter and its activities profoundly impressive. And of +the life-activities none are so significant and so all-important as +those relating to the perpetuation of the human species. Biological +science has taught this emphatically, and the processes connected with +sex have been lifted to a place of dignity and purity. + +[Sidenote: AEsthetic attitude desirable.] + +The old asceticism, with its uniformly dark outlook on life, has no +lessons worth while in our modern problems relating to sex.[10] We need +severe control and not annihilation of our most powerful instincts. The +bright outlook of aesthetics rather than the dark one of asceticism +should prevail, for sex-instincts and processes are essentially pure +and beautiful phases of that wonderful something we call "life." +Sex-education should aim to give this attitude by presenting life as +fundamentally free from the degradation arising from misuse and +misunderstanding of sex. + +[Sidenote: Not a new ideal.] + +The aesthetic interpretation of sex is no new ideal. Canon Lyttleton, +formerly Head Master of Eton College and later Canon of Westminster, +believed that "viewed rightly, the subject of sex, the ever-recurring +miracle of generation and birth, is full of nobleness, purity, and +health." The late Dr. Prince A. Morrow wrote, "the sex function is +intimately connected with the physical, mental, and moral development. +Its right use is the surest basis of individual health, happiness and +usefulness in life, as well as of racial permanence and prosperity. Its +abuse and misuse is the cause of a vast deal of disease and misery." +And finally, we may quote President-Emeritus Eliot of Harvard +University: "Society must be relieved by sound instruction of the +horrible doctrine that the begetting and bearing of children are in the +slightest degree sinful or foul processes. That doctrine lies at the +root of the feeling of shame in connection with these processes and of +the desire for secrecy. The plain fact is that there is nothing so +sacred and propitious on earth as the bringing of another normal child +into the world in marriage. There is nothing staining or defiling about +it, and therefore there is no need for shame or secrecy, but only for +pride and joy. This doctrine should be part of the instruction given to +all young people." + +[Sidenote: Attitude all-important in sex-education.] + +If sex-education succeeds in giving young people this enlightened +attitude, there will be little difficulty in solving most of the +ethical and hygienic problems of sex. A young man who has caught a +glimpse of the highest interpretation of sex in its relation to human +life, in short a young man to whom all natural sexual processes are +essentially pure and noble and beautiful, is not one who will make +grave hygienic mistakes in his own life, and he will not be personally +connected with the social evil and its diseases, and he will avoid +almost intuitively the physiologic and psychologic mistakes that most +often cause matrimonial disaster. Everything, then, in successful +sex-education depends upon the attitude formed in the minds of +learners; and towards this our major efforts should be directed. + +[Sidenote: Comparison with animals not helpful.] + +The prevailing vulgar attitude towards sex will not be greatly improved +by repeated emphasis upon the animal nature of reproduction in attempts +at supporting the thesis that propagation is the sole function of +sexual processes in human life. Such an interpretation of human +sexuality as purely animalistic in function is implied, if not +expressed, by some workers for the "purity" movement. I sincerely +believe that such a view will inevitably tend to increase the feeling +that sexual processes are heritages from the beasts which unfortunately +must be tolerated because nature has provided no other way for +perpetuating human life. + +[Sidenote: Sexual pessimism.] + +An intelligent woman, a happy wife and mother, who had accepted this +ascetic and pessimistic view of sex, said the other day: "Oh, love and +marriage and motherhood would be so beautiful were it possible to +escape the unspeakably vulgar facts of physical life!" Poor woman! It +must have been some fiend incarnate who in the guise of a prophet of +purity preached to her the animalistic interpretation of sex, which +made her overlook the fact that the very beauty which she could not +quite grasp had its origin in her emotions arising from the despised +sexual nature. + +This is not an isolated case. Several young women who have graduated +from college within ten years vouch for the statement that many +thoughtful students are strong in the belief that ideal marriage is +platonic friendship and that it is a sad fact of life that husband and +wife must lay aside their high ideals in order to become parents. + +Such depressing interpretations of life are bound to come from the +radical type of "purity" preaching based on the sexual mistakes of the +past and on the lives of animals. A similar pessimistic view regarding +the function of eating might be based on mistakes of drunkards and +gluttons and on the habits of the porcine family. If these are to guide +our conduct, then food-taking is to be regarded as a necessary but +vulgar habit inherited from our animal ancestors; and if we are to be +logical and attempt to rise to ideal purity in eating, we must hasten +to dispense with the culinary science and all the aesthetics which have +made civilized eating a fine art. Of course, this is just what the +strict ascetic does; but such radical disbelievers in the pleasures +that we have associated with eating would be declared lunatics in any +civilized country. + +[Sidenote: Two kinds of hunger.] + +I have chosen eating for illustrating my point, for the demands for +food and for sexual activity are the two primal and necessary forms of +hunger. The hunger for food has led to the refinements of civilized +dining, but there has been great evolution. The animals feed (German, +fressen) in order to satisfy hunger only; civilized humans eat (essen) +not only to satisfy the hunger appetite inherited from the animals, but +also for the sake of the concomitant social aesthetic pleasures that add +much to the joy of living. Now, if we are logical, we must interpret on +parallel lines the sexual hunger that is necessary for the perpetuation +of human life. Like eating, it is a necessary function inherited from +the animals; but there has been an evolution of greater significance. +In the animal world, sexual activity has only one function, +reproduction; but human life at its highest has superadded psychical +and social meaning to sexual relationships, and the result has been +affection and the human family. If we reject this higher view of the +double significance of sexuality in human life, and insist that only +the necessary propagative function is worthy of recognition, it is +almost inevitable that most people will continue to accept the hopeless +view that human sexuality is on the same vulgar plane as that of the +animals; in short, that it is only an animal function. This, I insist, +is a depressing interpretation that will never help overcome the +prevailing vulgar attitude toward sex. + +[Sidenote: Human sexuality more than animal.] + +It is only by frankly recognizing and developing the psychical and +aesthetic meanings that are distinctly human and superadded to the +merely propagative function of the animals, that people can be led far +away from the vulgar outlook on sex and reproduction in human life. + +[Sidenote: Relation of attitude and morality.] + +There is no question that wholesome attitude towards sex and +reproduction is closely associated with the problems of sexual +morality, and especially so far as educational procedure is concerned. +It is true that large numbers of moral people hold the vulgar attitude +towards sex and reproduction; but for people who do not accept the +moral code without question there is probably no better way of teaching +sexual morality than by influencing the individual's attitude. There +are many people who stand for sexual morality for no other reason than +that they have a dignified and aesthetic attitude towards sex. + +[Sidenote: Sexual vulgarity a stage in evolution.] + +There is much evidence that the world is rapidly improving in this +respect. Sexual vulgarity seems to represent a stage in the evolution +of human life from the barbaric to the fully civilized. The sexual +vulgarity of primitive peoples, both ancient and modern, has been all +too frequently recalled by writers whose pseudo-scientific +superficiality leads them to believe that knowledge concerning barbaric +and ultra-bestial sensuality will help solve modern sex problems. In +the classical days when Venus and Bacchus and other deities of +sensuality were worshipped by their devotees, there was sexual +vulgarity in action and language such as now exists only among the most +ignorant or depraved people in civilized lands. The advent of Christian +civilization in Europe left no place for temples and worship of +sensuality, but still the age-old tendency towards a crude and +barbaric kind of sexual vulgarity and obscenity has continued in +folklore, in colloquial language, and in literature. However, there has +been a vast change in the attitude of the best people within the last +two centuries. Once many English writers, many of them now deservedly +obscure, published prose and poetry that would now be criminal. An +unexpurgated edition of Shakespeare's "Complete Works," or of +Boccaccio's "Decameron," could not be circulated through the United +States mails, and there are many good people who are asking how long we +shall continue to allow the unexpurgated "Old Testament" the privilege +of circulation. It is not simply prose and poetry that has been +purified. Scientific literature has shown the influence of the reaction +against obscenity. Linnaeus and other naturalists of the past were fond +of giving scientific names that perpetuated vulgar comparisons with +sexual organs, but no naturalist of the present day would dare suggest +such designations for unnamed animals and plants. The older medical +literature contains abundant obscenities; but scientific dignity, as +well as the refinement of modern medical writers, has tended to compel +the elimination of vulgarity. However, there are still too many +physicians, especially those working with venereal and genito-urinary +diseases, who go out of their way to illuminate their conversations, +lectures, books, and magazine articles with veiled vulgarity. Even +high-class medical journals occasionally contain illustrations of this +tendency. However, the medical profession as a class stands for +dignified scientific presentation of facts, and obscenity will soon be +tabooed in medical and all other reputable literature. Save for +occasional emanations privately printed by and for degenerate persons, +public obscenity will soon be unknown. Its complete disappearance will +have a vast influence upon the problem of sexual attitude. + + +Sec. 12. _The Seventh Problem for Sex-instruction: Marriage_ + +[Sidenote: Physiology and psychology of marriage.] + +It is the consensus of opinion of numerous physicians, ministers, and +lawyers that a very large proportion of matrimonial disharmonies have +their foundation in the common misunderstanding of the physiology and +especially of the psychology of sex. In the opinion of many students of +sexual problems, this is the strongest reason for sex-instruction. It +is certainly a line in which limited spread of information has already +given some definite and satisfactory results. Many of my friends and +former students have helped me accumulate a long list of cases in which +scientific knowledge regarding sex has prevented and corrected +matrimonial disagreements; and having easily found so much definite +influence of sex-science upon marriage, I am forced to believe that +sex-instruction specially organized for people of marriageable age is +already giving results of tremendous importance to very many +individuals. Large numbers of young people are already awake to the +need of scientific guidance in marriage, and there is a great demand +for helpful information. + +Advanced sex-instruction with reference to the problems of marriage +need not wait for general establishment of elementary instruction for +children of school ages. Lectures and books are already reaching large +numbers of adults. Such enlightenment will help in two ways, by the +influence on marriage and by preparing adults to teach children. + +[Sidenote: Other knowledge needed.] + +There is another side to the problem of marriage that points to need of +the larger sex-education. Physiology and psychology of sex are +fundamental; but they alone are not sufficient to complete that mutual +adjustment and understanding which marriage at the full development of +its possibilities involves. Matrimonial harmony cannot be entirely a +problem of applied science, as some superficial devotees of science +seem to think; for science can never analyze those subtle and +ever-varying qualities that go to make up what we call personality, and +marriage in its largest outlook is the intimate blending of two +personalities. Psychological and physiological knowledge will +undoubtedly help the two married individuals in their progress towards +the harmonious adjustment of their individualities; but there are many +little, but often serious, problems that the physiology and psychology +of sex cannot solve. They are problems that involve mutual affection, +comradeship, sympathy, unselfishness, cooperation, kindliness, and +devotion of husband and wife. Obviously, these can never be developed +by any formal instruction. + +[Sidenote: Helpful literature.] + +Probably there is no better way to help young people realize the +possibilities of matrimonial harmony than by suggesting wholesome +literature. Some of this is a part of the world's general treasure of +books that in prose and poetry, in history and romance, hold up a high +ideal of love with marriage. There is much such literature that gives +young people inspiration, but too much of it, like college life, ends +with a commencement. "And then they were married and lived happily ever +after"--is the familiar closing as the novelist rings down the curtain +after reciting only the prologue in the life drama of his two lovers. +We need more literature that does not end with the wedding march, but +which gives young people the successful solution of the problems after +marriage. Some such is available in history and biography; some in +essays. As I write there come to my mind several books that have +impressed me: Professor Palmer's "Life of Alice Freeman Palmer"; +Leonard Huxley's "Life and Letters of T.H. Huxley," which gives many +intimate glimpses of the ideal home life which the great biologist +centered around Mrs. Huxley; William George Jordan's "Little Problems +of Married Life"; Orrin Cock's "Engagement and Marriage"; and that much +misunderstood[11] but helpful book "Love and Marriage" by Ellen Key. +Many of the stories by Virginia Terhune Van de Water, published in the +magazines and collected in a book entitled "Why I Left my Husband" +(Moffatt, Yard), deal with real problems of married life. + +[Sidenote: Similar education of the sexes.] + +The problems of co-education and coordinate education have not a little +bearing on the adjustment of the two sexes in marriage. In these days +when vocational education is fashionable in theory and is attracting +attention in practice, we are told that co-education and coordinate +education are mistakes because they provide the same training for both +sexes. We are told that girls must be educated for their vocation of +home-making, while boys must be educated for business, trades, or +professions. Everywhere in this current movement for vocational +education we find the emphasis placed on making education for the two +sexes just as dissimilar as possible. Fortunately for the educational +adjustments of the two sexes to each other, much of the present-day +discussion that demands extensive sex specialization of education +cannot be made practical and the training of the two sexes will +inevitably continue to be quite similar, with at most a limited amount +of time spent on application of certain knowledge to practical ends +that are chiefly of interest to one sex only. By far the greater part +of education from kindergarten through the university is in the nature +of the fundamentals of knowledge and will continue to be essentially +similar for both sexes. For illustration, the writer happens to be +connected with a college which offers a four-year course and graduate +work specially arranged with reference to household arts. Surely here +is an opportunity for education far different from that of the typical +college for men. As a matter of fact, there is great similarity. The +greater part of the four years is filled with general courses in +English, modern languages, chemistry, biology, physics, sociology, +economics, and fine arts, while a minor part of the curriculum consists +of courses in cookery, clothing, and household administration. The +general courses are in essentials not different from courses in +colleges for men. Here and there instructors select materials and in +other ways relate the general courses to household arts, but after all +a girl who completes these courses has acquired the same educational +fundamentals that her brother gets in Columbia College or in any other +standard college for men. It is only, then, in the cookery, clothing, +and administration that there is sex-differentiated education, and even +in these the practice necessary to acquire proficiency in technique is +the chief peculiarity. So far as fundamental knowledge is concerned; +cookery is chiefly an application of chemistry, physics, and physiology +that could easily be made clear to one who had completed courses in +these sciences in a college for men; dress design is an application of +fine arts and its construction is a mechanical problem. The mental +problems involved in dress design and making cannot be far different +from house design and construction which are supposed to be primarily +adapted to men. + +[Sidenote: Little differentiation.] + +On the whole, then, there is really little possibility of +sex-differentiated education. This, I insist, is a fortunate fact of +vast importance in the mutual adjustment of the two sexes in marriage. +There could be no adjustment on an intelligent basis if education could +be utterly dissimilar. There can be perfect adjustment only when the +two individuals are adjusted harmoniously, and that means similar +outlooks on life's problems. + +[Sidenote: Need of sex-education for feminism.] + +Many of the problems of the modern feministic movement are such as to +demand rational education of both women and men with reference to sex +and marriage. Let me quote C. Gasquoine Hartley, whose suggestive +Chapters VIII and IX in her "Truth About Woman" (Dodd, Mead) deserve to +live long after the readable but unscientifically applied earlier +chapters are consigned to oblivion: + + "To hear many women talk it would appear that the new ideal is a + one-sexed world. A great army of women have espoused the task of + raising their sex out of subjection. For such a duty the strength + and energy of passion is required. Can this task be performed if + the woman to any extent indulges in sex--otherwise subjection to + man? Sexuality debases, even reproduction and birth are regarded + as 'nauseating.' Woman is not free, only because she has been the + slave to the primitive cycle of emotions which belong to physical + love. The renunciation, the conquest of sex--it is this that must + be gained. As for man, he has been shown up, women have found him + out; his long-worn garments of authority and his mystery and + glamour have been torn into shreds--woman will have none of him. + + "Now obviously these are over-statements, yet they are the logical + outcome of much of the talk that one hears. It is the visible sign + of our incoherence and error, and in the measure of these follies + we are sent back to seek the truth. Women need a robuster courage + in the face of love, a greater faith in their womanhood, and in + the scheme of Life. Nothing can be gained from the child's folly + in breaking the toys that have momentarily ceased to please. The + misogamist type of woman cannot fail to prove as futile as the + misogamist man. Not 'Free _from_ man' is the watch-cry of women's + emancipation that surely is to be, but 'Free _with_ man.'" + +[Sidenote: Sex and intellectualism.] + +And further on the same author, considering the problem of the women of +the common type that are classified as a "third sex," that of +temperamental neuter, says: + + "Economic conditions are compelling women to enter with men into + the fierce competition of our disordered social state. Partly due + to this reason, though much more, as I think, to the strong + stirring in woman of her newly-discovered self, there has arisen + what I should like to call an over-emphasized Intellectualism. + Where sex is ignored there is bound to lurk danger. Every one + recognizes the significance of the advance in particular cases of + women towards a higher intellectual individuation, and the social + utility of those women who have been truly the pioneers of the new + freedom; but this does not lessen at all the disastrous influence + of an ideal which holds up the renunciation of the natural rights + of love and activities of women, and thus involves an irreparable + loss to the race by the barrenness of many of its finest types. + The significance of such Intellectuals must be limited, because + for them the possibility of transmission by inheritance of their + valuable qualities is cut off, and hence the way is closed to a + further progress. And, thus, we are brought back to that simple + truth from which we started; there are two sexes, the female and + the male, on their specific differences and resemblances blended + together in union every true advance in progress depends--on the + perfected woman and the perfected man." + +[Sidenote: Young women misled by sexual pessimists.] + +One who studies carefully the various aspects of the extreme feministic +movement must admit that there are many signs of the dangers which the +above quotations point out so clearly. Of course, we cannot believe in +the sincerity of all of the numerous women of thirty-five to fifty +years who pretend to ignore sex completely. Probably most of them have +discovered that they have misunderstood themselves; but it is also +probable that they have discovered too late for making a readjustment +in their own lives. However, it matters little whether such women have +really succeeded in ignoring sex. The real problem for educational +attack lies in the fact that such women often succeed in proselyting +young women under twenty-five, and these in turn may not come to see +the real truth about sex and life until ten or fifteen years later. +Clearly, organized education must protect young women against such +influences. + +[Sidenote: The greatest good in sex-education.] + +The greatest good which may come from the sex-education movement is not +prevention or elimination of social diseases, it is not improved +health, it is not general acceptance of the moral law of sex, it is not +one or all these that are devoutly to be hoped for; but far greater +than such possible results from sex-education, it will bring to many a +man and woman a deeper, nobler, and purer knowledge of what sex means +for the coming race and of what it means now to each individual who +realizes life's fullest possibilities in conjugal affection which +culminates in new life and new motives for more affection. Such an +understanding of sex in relation to home life will help this old world +more than anything else which sex-education may accomplish. + +[Sidenote: The greatest sex problem.] + +The problems of sex and marriage deserve far more attention than can be +given in this lecture. I am convinced that knowledge of sex in its +physical, psychical, social, and aesthetic aspects is the only sure +foundation for harmonious marriage under modern conditions. Therefore, +I believe this to be the greatest sex problem open to educational +attack. + + +Sec. 13. _The Eighth Problem for Sex-instruction: Eugenics_ + +[Sidenote: Meaning of eugenics.] + +Eugenics, or the science of human good breeding, is just now the most +popular of the problems concerning human sex and reproduction. In +recent years, the biological investigators of heredity have published +some startling facts which show that the human race must soon check its +reckless propagation of the unfit and encourage reproduction by the +best types of men and women. This is not the place for a review of the +eugenic propositions. Those interested will find them in non-technical +form in many books (see the bibliographical chapter of this book, page +248). + +[Sidenote: Eugenics in biology.] + +Some of the chief facts of eugenics should be a part of every +well-organized scheme of sex-instruction, and taught through biology +(Sec. 17). Probably no other topic in biology is so likely to make an +ethical-social appeal, for the central point of eugenics is the +responsibility of the individual whose uncontrolled sexual actions may +transmit undesirable and heritable qualities and bring a train of +disaster to generations of descendants. + +[Sidenote: Relation of eugenics and sex-hygiene.] + +At this point we digress to correct the widespread error in confusing +sex-hygiene and eugenics. Many people who ought to know better use the +two terms synonymously, perhaps because they are afraid of that +comparatively novel but frank prefix in "sex-hygiene." The fact is that +eugenics and sex-hygiene have little in common. Eugenics is the +science of reproducing better humans by applying the established laws +of genetics or heredity. In brief, it means, on the positive side, +selecting desirable people as parents; and, negatively, preventing +propagation by the undesirables. This is the sum total of the task of +eugenics in the accurate sense of the term. + +[Sidenote: Facts of heredity.] + +So far as we know, each coming generation will inherit only qualities +that the parents inherited from their parents. It is a well-known +principle of biology that changes in the bodies of human beings during +their lifetime (dating from the fertilized egg that produces the +individual) are never in any noticeable degree inherited by +descendants. In short, acquired characteristics of the body tissues do +not influence the germ plasm, the living matter concerned with heredity +and reproduction, but the germ plasm that determines what the next +generation will inherit is fixed at birth. Thus tuberculosis, +alcoholism, gonorrhea, and syphilis may be acquired during the life of +an individual, but do not become fixed in the germ plasm. If the +infants show effects of any of these diseases, it is not because of +true heredity but because they were infected or influenced before +birth. Rarely does this happen to children of a tuberculous mother, but +often to those of a syphilitic mother. In a gonorrheal ophthalmia +neonatorum (specific inflammation of infants' eyes) it is a case of +infection _during_ birth. + +[Sidenote: Sex-hygiene and eugenics parallel.] + +Thus, it appears that sex-hygiene either personal or social (concerned +with venereal diseases) is not a part of eugenics. It is, however, a +phase of euthenics, which deals with the environmental factors that +affect the individual life. It is clear, then, that sex-hygiene (in the +strict medical sense) and eugenics are parallel and not conflicting. +Eugenics aims to select better parents who will transmit their own +qualities genetically. Sex-hygiene in its personal and social aspects +will make healthier parents able to give their offspring a healthier +start in life, especially because the offspring is free from the +prenatal effects of disease. + +The teaching of heredity and eugenics is intended to develop a sense of +individual responsibility for the transmission of one's good or bad +inherited qualities to offspring. The teaching of sex-hygiene, either +personal or social, looks towards improving personal health and +preventing infection and injurious influence on the unborn next +generation. Obviously, we need both sex-hygiene and eugenics as part of +the larger sex-instruction. + + +Sec. 14. _Summary of Lectures on Sex Problems_ + +[Sidenote: Problems of health, attitude, and morals.] + +We have made a general survey of the problems that offer reasons for +sex-instruction. We have noted that some of the problems are concerned +with health and, hence, lie within the scope of sex-hygiene in the +strict sense of that term; but some of them have only the remotest +relation to health and hygiene. On the contrary, they relate to the +ethical, social, and aesthetic attitude of individuals towards sex and +reproduction. Obviously, these touch problems not of sex health, but of +sex morality. In their educational importance I believe them as great, +perhaps even greater, than those of sex-hygiene. In fact, I have come +to believe that many individuals can best solve all their own sexual +problems on the basis of moral and aesthetic attitude. + +[Sidenote: Many-sided instruction needed.] + +Considering, as we have done, the sex problems in their many aspects, +we are forced to the conclusion that sex-education will prove adequate +only when it combines instruction from the several points of view. It +must be much more than the sex-hygiene with which the sex-instruction +movement started. We need sexual knowledge that will conserve health, +that will develop social and ethical and eugenic responsibility for +sexual actions, that will lead to increased happiness as well as to +improved health, and that will give a nobler and purer view of life's +possibilities. In all these lines in which sex influences human life +profoundly, sex-education holds out the hope of help towards a better +life for all who receive and apply its lessons. + +FOOTNOTES: + +[1] In the _American Journal of Public Health_ for July, 1913, Dr. +John S. Fulton, Director General of the XV International Congress on +Hygiene and Demography, criticized severely the extremely radical +statistics that were presented on charts at the sex-hygiene exhibit of +the Congress, and were later published in Wilson's "Education of the +Young in Sex-hygiene." + +[2] There is danger in quoting to young men the estimates as to +prevalence of social diseases and, therefore, of promiscuity. Fear of +consequences will not control one who is led to believe that he is +doing what most men do. (See Parkinson in _Educational Review_, Jan. +1911, pp. 44-46.) + +[3] Many writers have discounted the value of warnings involved in +sex-instruction concerning social disease (see especially Cabot's +papers referred to in Sec. 46, and Parkinson in _Educational Review_, +January, 1911). + +[4] Louise Creighton, in her excellent little book on "The Social +Disease and How to Fight It" (Longmans), has well presented the +problems of social impurity from woman's point of view. + +Dr. W.S. Hall, in "Life's Problems," has given in a few pages the +necessary protective knowledge. + +[5] See "The Sexual Necessity," by Drs. Howell and Keyes. + +[6] See also, Henderson's "Education with Reference to Sex." + +[7] See chapter on "Motherhood and Marriage" in Foerster's "Marriage +and the Sex Problem." + +[8] As an illustration of this fact, out of 558 Pittsburgh +professional prostitutes, 406 had never had children. Of the 152 who +were mothers, only 24 had two or more children. + +[9] Many thinking men and women now agree with Ellen Key that +"marriage is immoral without mutual love," that "love is the sole +decisive point of view in questions concerning this relationship," +that "it will come to pass that no finely sensitive woman will become +a mother except through mutual love," that "everything which is +exchanged between husband and wife in their life together can only be +the free gift of love, can never be demanded by one or the other as a +right." (Key--"The Morality of Woman.") + +[10] Foerster, in his "Marriage and the Sex Problem," urges that +self-control over sexual passions is the working of the old idea of +asceticism, which he believes "should be regarded, not as a negation +of nature nor as an attempt to extirpate natural forces, but as +practice in the art of self-discipline. Its object should be to show +humanity what the human will is capable of performing, to serve as an +encouraging example of the conquest of the spirit over the animal +self." My personal view is that nothing is gained by confusing +self-control and the old asceticism. + +[11] Misunderstood, it seems to me, because her philosophy demanding +that marriage begin with, exist with, and end with love means freedom +in love, and this has been misinterpreted as "free love" in the sense +of promiscuity. I know of no writer who stands for marriage on a +higher plane than that advocated by Ellen Key. Her lecture on +"Morality of Woman" (Seymour Co., Chicago) is a good condensed +statement of her largest ideas and a helpful introduction to "Love and +Marriage." + + + + +III + +ORGANIZATION OF EDUCATIONAL ATTACK ON THE SEX PROBLEMS + + +Sec. 15. _The Task of Sex-education_ + +[Sidenote: Pragmatic solution of sex problems.] + +In the preceding series of lectures we have surveyed eight important +sex problems that can never be solved, even in part, unless by +widespread information that specifically guides the individual and +organized society in the adjustment of sexual instincts to the peculiar +conditions that obtain in our modern civilized life. To spread the +knowledge that will help civilized humanity on towards the best +possible adjustment of sex and life, and therefore to a pragmatic +solution of sexual problems, is the task or the chief aim of +sex-education.[12] + +[Sidenote: No hope for complete solution.] + +[Sidenote: Constant advance towards ideals.] + +Of course, only the ultra-Utopian dreamer claims that sex-education can +solve all the sexual problems of civilized life, but even the most +pessimistic disbeliever in the new movement admits that knowledge of +sexual life will be helpful to the great majority of people. Hence, it +is worth while to organize the educational attack on the sex problems +which we have considered in the preceding lectures. It seems to me that +we may gain an advantage by frankly admitting that the educational +attack is not expected to solve all sex problems for all people, for by +such admission we put to flight those shallow cynics who have opposed +the sex-education movement because they think (and probably correctly) +that immorality and social diseases and all other sexual disharmonies +will continue to exist as long as the human species does. Likewise, +there will be dishonesty and murder and preventable diseases and all +other human troubles in spite of education; but the advancement of +learning has slowly and progressively reduced the sum total of all the +disharmonies of life until now civilized people are largely free from +many of the original or barbaric conditions. Along similar lines we may +confidently think of sex-education as making a constantly advancing and +victorious attack on the problems of life that have grown out of our +primitive sexual instincts. Sex-education, like all other education, +strives towards ideals that individuals and society may always approach +but may never reach. It is only another case of Emerson's advice, +"hitch your wagon to a star," which means the adoption of high ideals +that lead ever on and on towards better life. + +With this understanding that _the task of sex-education is the +ever-advancing improvement of sexual conditions in individual as well +as in social life_, let us turn now to consider the possible lines for +definite educational attack on the chief problems of sex. It will be +most helpful if we first analyze the general task of sex-education into +some specific aims that may definitely guide instruction, and then in +later lectures consider the methods and detailed subject matter of +sex-instruction. + + +Sec. 16. _The Aims of Sex-education_ + +[Sidenote: Emphasis on social disease.] + +Since the revelations concerning the disastrous physical effects of +sexual immorality, especially as it exists in the commercialized +conditions of the social evil, have had the chief influence in +awakening intelligent people from their age-long ignorance and +indifference concerning the great sex problems, it was natural that +those who first proposed special instruction should have emphasized the +social evil and its diseases so much as to create the widespread but +erroneous impression that the great aim of sex-education is to teach +the distressing facts concerning the pathological consequences of +immorality. + +[Sidenote: Other problems need emphasis.] + +Now, without in the least underestimating the vast importance of the +emphasis placed on sexual immorality and social diseases in the +splendid pioneer work of the late Dr. Morrow and others for the +sex-education movement, and without suggesting that these topics should +be neglected while reorganizing the educational attack on sex problems, +I believe that so far as formal instruction in homes, schools, and +colleges is concerned, we may gain a decided advantage if we now +recognize and declare boldly that the physical effects of the diseases +arising from the social evil constitute _only one of several_ groups of +sex problems that organized education should attempt to solve. + +Concerning the other problems that sex-education should touch with +great definiteness, it is my personal view that most of those outlined +in the preceding lectures will be affected by instruction along five +important lines, as follows: + +[Sidenote: Five lines of instruction.] + +(1) The scientific truths that lead to serious and respectful attitude +on all sex questions. (2) The personal sex-hygiene that independent of +social diseases conserves individual health directly or indirectly +through sexual normality. (3) The ethical responsibility of individuals +for the physical or social or psychical harm of their sexual actions +upon other individuals, _e.g._, in prostitution and illegitimacy. (4) +The hygienic, ethical, and psychical laws that promote physical and +mental health in monogamic marriage. (5) The established principles of +heredity and eugenics which foretell the possible coming of a better +race of humans. I believe that in these five lines there are +educational problems of present and future greater significance to +human health and happiness than are found in the social evil and its +diseases, commandingly important though these be. Therefore, in viewing +the field of sex-education with reference to the possible usefulness of +knowledge in helping individuals solve the vital problems that have +grown naturally out of the reproductive function, I believe that we are +logical only when we organize our educational aims so as to give +scientific instruction concerning the problems of sex in the several +lines in addition to the physical or hygienic aspects of the social +evil and its diseases. + +[Sidenote: Four aims.] + +As I now see in the large the sexual problems which scientifically +organized education should attack, the educational aims may be grouped +under four general headings as follows: + +First and most important, sex-education should aim to develop an +open-minded, serious, scientific, and respectful attitude towards all +problems of human life which relate to sex and reproduction. + +Second, sex-education should aim to give that knowledge of personal +hygiene of the sexual organs which is of direct value in making for the +most healthful and efficient life of the individual. + +Third, sex-education should aim to develop personal responsibility +regarding the social, ethical, psychical, and eugenic aspects of sex as +affecting the individual life in its relation to other individuals of +the present and future generations; in short, sex-education should +consider the problems of sexual instincts and actions in relation to +society. + +Fourth, sex-education should aim to teach _briefly_ to young people, +during later adolescence, the essential hygienic, social, and eugenic +facts regarding the two destructive diseases which are chargeable to +sexual promiscuity or immorality. + +[Sidenote: Order of importance of aims.] + +For emphasis, let me briefly summarize these aims of sex-education: (1) +Serious, scientific, and respectful attitude of mind on sex questions; +(2) personal sex-hygiene; (3) social and ethical and eugenic +responsibility for sex actions; (4) relation of immorality and social +diseases. I have deliberately, placed these educational aims in this +order because it is the order of greatest permanent importance in the +sex-education movement; it represents the greatest value to the largest +number of individuals who may learn the scientific truth; and it is the +order most natural, most logical, and most effective in pedagogical +practice with young people. + +[Sidenote: Relation of aims to problems of sex.] + +Sex-education organized with regard to these four aims will touch +definitely all the eight problems of sex that have been discussed in +preceding lectures. The first aim will directly affect the problem of +vulgarity and indirectly touch those stated under the third aim. The +second aim is obviously directed to the problem of personal health as +it may be influenced by the sexual processes of one individual +independent of others. Of course, there is also the personal aspect of +social diseases, but it is clearer to consider both personal and social +aspects of these diseases as a unit in the fourth aim. The third aim is +based on five of the eight great problems which involve individual +responsibility for the social evil, for illegitimacy, for sexual +immorality, for matrimonial harmony, and for eugenics. The social +aspects of the venereal diseases obviously involve personal +responsibility of the individual in relation to society as well as a +personal hygienic problem. Thus, six of the eight great sex problems +are essentially social and only those relating to personal hygiene and +individual attitude are so distinctly personal as to have only an +indirect relation to other individuals, as might be true in case of +unharmonious marriage of individuals who are vulgar minded or who have +been injured by unhygienic personal habits. Finally, the fourth aim +provides for teaching the _essential_ facts that may help individuals +protect themselves directly, and society indirectly, against the +diseases that awakened the world to the need of sex-education. + +Let us turn now to analyze the aims of sex-education and consider how +they may be connected with a definite scheme for sex-instruction. + + +Sec. 17. _The Aims as the Basis of Organized Sex-instruction_ + +I have placed first the aim to develop a serious and respectful +attitude toward sex and reproduction because at the root of the sexual +problems of our times is the prevailing vulgar interpretation of sex +and life discussed in a preceding lecture (Sec. 11). + +[Sidenote: Biology and attitude.] + +Recognizing the great importance of attitude, how may it be influenced +by instruction in home or school? The most widely accepted answer is +that the best beginning may be made through study of biology (including +botany, zoology, and physiology) and through nature-study and hygiene +taught on a biologic basis. No other method of introduction to +sex-instruction is so natural and so likely to lead to a serious, +scientific, and open-minded attitude concerning sex. In fact, a large +part of the study of reproduction of plants and animals in courses of +biology in schools and colleges has its value chiefly in the +overwhelming evidence that problems of sex and reproduction are natural +and dignified aspects of life. Such biological study determines +attitude in no small degree. This is the chief justification for study +of the reproductive processes in a series of animals and plants +representing stages between the complex development of the highest +animals which parallel human life and the lowest forms which the +microscope reveals. In all my classes of twenty years in high school +and college I have noted a marked development of serious, scientific, +and open-minded attitude in response to natural and frank presentation +of animal and plant life-histories. Moreover, I have many times +requested large groups of students to write freely and frankly +concerning the influence of biological courses upon their own attitude; +and their papers have strongly supported my observation that study of +animal and plant life-histories exerts a profound influence upon the +attitude of students towards the human problems of sex and +reproduction. If I were stating a defense for biology as one of three +or four essential science courses for general education, I should place +the greatest emphasis upon the study of animals and plants as a +foundation for sex-instruction. Certain critics would reply that all +the biological facts that are actually used in the direct human +application of sex-instruction could be taught in a few lectures +without a year's course in biology; but it is a demonstrated fact that +a few isolated lessons do not give the attitude that comes from a good +course of biology taught with the view to culminating in special +sex-instruction. + +[Sidenote: Literature and attitude.] + +Only recently has it been pointed out that one's attitude towards sex +may be profoundly influenced by reading certain general literature that +holds up high ideals of love and sex and life. It will be most +convenient to consider the influence of literature on sex-instruction +in another lecture (Sec. 23). + +[Sidenote: Teaching personal sex-hygiene.] + +Now let us consider the general bearings of the personal sex-hygiene +demanded by the second aim. For children under ten and twelve the +necessary hygiene should be presented personally (see Sec. 25). For young +people of adolescent years there are four possible ways of instruction +in personal sex-hygiene: (1) It may be added naturally to a course or +series of lessons in general hygiene including the problems of health +for all systems of organs. (2) It may be included in a study of +vertebrate and human reproduction in a course of biology or zoology. +(3) It may be presented by a special lecture that is independent of all +regular courses of study. (4) Special booklets may be put into the +hands of young people. Let us now examine each of these ways: + +[Sidenote: Sex-hygiene in general hygiene.] + +(1) Sex-hygiene as a natural part of a series of lessons in general +hygiene is most satisfactory when preceded by biological nature-study +or high-school biology in which life-histories of organisms have been +studied for the sake of attitude. At present we lack satisfactory +textbooks for this kind of correlation. There is a strong reaction +against independent courses of hygiene in high schools, and the next +plan is becoming more common. + +[Sidenote: Hygiene in biology.] + +(2) The inclusion of the necessary hygiene of all organs in courses of +biology or zoology that have emphasized physiology and its bearings on +health is the best arrangement so far proposed and tested in practice. +It has been tried with success by Dr. W.H. Eddy in the High School of +Commerce, New York City, and by other high-school teachers working +along the same lines. The arguments for teaching general hygiene on a +biological basis have been presented in the last chapter of "The +Teaching of Biology in Secondary Schools" by Lloyd and Bigelow, and put +in textbook form in the "Applied Biology" and "Introduction to Biology" +by M.A. and Anna N. Bigelow. However, personal sex-hygiene is not +included in these textbooks, because educational and public opinion do +not yet stand for such radical lessons in books for schools. + +[Sidenote: Special lectures on hygiene.] + +(3) Special lectures on sex-hygiene independent of biology or general +hygiene are at best makeshifts, and not without dangers. I fear the +effect of the abrupt introduction to sex problems by special lectures, +especially for girls who may be shocked much more than the average boys +can be. I heartily sympathize with parents and school officials who +object to special lectures that suddenly focus attention on problems of +sexual health. It seems to me that special lectures should be given +only when no other method of teaching is possible. This applies +especially to young people who are not in schools. While I have +stressed biological nature-study as offering the ideal basis for the +broadest kind of sex-education, I realize that there are cases where +such study cannot be held prerequisite to some aspects of sex-hygiene +that young people should know. However, we should aim to make such +cases the exceptions and not the rule. Some good may be accomplished by +teaching certain facts of sex-hygiene frankly and directly to those who +have absolutely no knowledge of nature-study and biology; but after +watching the reactions of groups of boys who were receiving such +information, I have been convinced that even with a limit of one hour +for instruction a biological setting is decidedly important in that it +gives an indirect approach. + +(4) Special books and pamphlets are useful when, and only when, the +above methods are impossible, but certain cautions are desirable (see +Sec. 22). + +[Sidenote: Difficulty in ethical-social teaching.] + +The third aim involves some difficult educational problems. Since we +confess that we know so little concerning efficient methods for +ethical, moral, or social teaching, it is evident that we must be far +from a satisfactory plan for dealing with instruction which is intended +to oppose most powerful instinctive tendencies and long-established +habits of sensuality. Clearly the third aim sets no easy task for the +educator; but since the possible solution of sex problems must turn on +the sex actions of the individual in relation to society, the +ethical-social aspects of sex-education must not be evaded because the +way is not yet entirely clear. The fact is that a good beginning has +been made, especially in teaching concerning social diseases, heredity, +and eugenics. + +[Sidenote: Social hygiene and ethics.] + +The value of all the proposed teaching concerning the relation of +immorality and social diseases is more ethical than hygienic. Read any +of the standard literature on the social side of venereal diseases, +especially the masterly writings of the eminent physician and chief +organizer of the American movement for sex-education, the late Dr. +Prince A. Morrow, of New York City; and one notes that the medical +facts have bearings in two directions. First, they indicate the +desirability of morality as a protection of personal health; and +second, they teach that the pathological results of the individual's +immoral living may be passed on later to innocent wives and children. +The first is as clearly personal hygiene as teaching that impure water +may cause typhoid; but the second is social hygiene and ethics. The +second is more impressive to all but the most selfish people. + +There is good reason for believing that information concerning the +social diseases is more likely to impress the average young man through +the social-ethical appeal much more than as a matter of personal +health. Therefore, a biological lesson on social diseases, which may be +presented most logically in connection with other germ diseases, may +have its chief value in that its meaning is social and ethical. + +[Sidenote: Biology and ethics.] + +As another illustration of biology touching ethics, I have recently +come to believe that the teaching concerning heredity and eugenics, +which should be a standard part of the best sex-instruction, has its +greatest value in the ethical appeal, and not in the direct biological +application of the laws of heredity which underlie eugenics. I realize +that this statement is likely to be disputed by those biologists who +see in eugenics only the possibility of controlling heredity so as to +propagate better strains of humans, just as breeders of plants and +animals have produced better domesticated varieties. A biologist +naturally believes that the ultimate aim of eugenics is improvement +of physical and psychical qualities; but considering the +ethical-social-biological complications of human sex-problems, it seems +improbable that any decided and extensive improvement is likely to +come if we continue to limit our interpretation of the principles of +eugenics to the purely biological standpoint of the breeder of plants +and animals. Let me illustrate by some concrete facts from eugenics: + +There is a widespread opinion among science teachers that high-school +biology should present some of the best established facts of heredity; +and that these should be eugenically applied to human life by means of +such illustrations as those afforded by the histories of certain +degenerate families, such as the well-known Jukes and Kallikaks. A +brief sketch of the history of the latter family, as described in Dr. +Goddard's interesting book, "The Kallikak Family" (Macmillan), will +make clear my point as to the ethical appeal of eugenics. + +[Sidenote: Eugenics and ethical teaching.] + +A young man of good ancestry broke the moral law about one hundred and +forty years ago and became the father of an illegitimate son by a +feeble-minded mother. Of 480 descendants of this son, there have been +46 normal, many immoral, many alcoholic and 143 feeble-minded. The same +man who back in the revolutionary days made a moral mistake which led +to such awful consequences, later married a woman of good family and +became the progenitor of a second line of 496 descendants of whom 494 +have been normal mentally, while two were affected by alliance with +another family; and all have been first-class citizens, many of them +prominent in business, professions, etc. + +Even making due allowance for the depressing influence of the +environment in which most of the down-and-out descendants in the +degenerate line lived, the comparison between the normal and the +abnormal lines from the same ancestor gives the most convincing eugenic +evidence that has been discovered in the human race. Doubtless it will +long be used as a basis for attempted biological control of the +propagation of the unfit. Many similar cases of hereditary degeneracy +are recorded in books on eugenics. + +Such a eugenic record as that of this Kallikak family should be +reviewed in every high school and college in connection with the topic +"heredity" in a course of biology, for it will teach two important +lessons: (1) The biological principle that defects, both physical and +mental, are highly heritable, even for many generations; and (2) the +ethical responsibility for the sex actions of the individual who may +start a long train of human disaster that may visit the children unto +even later than the third and fourth generations. The first lesson is a +purely biological one which suggests the eugenic argument that +defective humans, like undesirable animals and plants, should not take +part in the perpetuation of the species. The second lesson is not +biological but ethical, suggesting individual responsibility for +conduct which may disastrously affect other individuals' lives. It +seems to me that so far as general education is concerned, the ethical +lesson is the more impressive and more likely to lead to voluntary +eugenic practice by individuals. It is my observation that even many +intelligent people are not seriously impressed by the biological +evidences for eugenics considered as a general problem, but their +reaction is one of interest when one begins to present the question of +ethical responsibility for the transmission of physical and mental +defects to future generations. Such considerations have led me to the +view, already suggested, that eugenic studies in courses of biology +have their greatest practical value in their ethical implications, +which, of course, by influencing individual responsibility for +reproduction may lead to the desirable biological improvement of the +human race. Teachers of biology should present, as an economic problem, +the facts which will make better breeds of plants and animals by direct +application of the biological laws of heredity; but they should present +and apply parallel facts to human life in order to influence first of +all individual responsibility for ethical control of reproductive +activity, and thus indirectly work eugenically for an improved human +race. + +[Sidenote: Aim of eugenics.] + +Thus the aim of eugenics is most likely to be attained through ethical +rather than biological application of the teaching which our schools +can give. The men and women who view life selfishly with no feelings of +ethical responsibility towards others of the present or future will +take no practical interest in the biological problems of human +eugenics, although the economic problems of plant and animal breeding +may interest some of these same people. + +[Sidenote: Education and other aspects of sex problems.] + +In addition to the ethical-social bearings of biological teaching, our +sex-education will be incomplete until we learn how to attack the sex +problems directly and effectively with reference to the ethical, +social, psychical, and aesthetic aspects. Perhaps we may be able to do +this only with mature people; probably it is too much to hope that even +a serious impression will be made on all intelligent people; but +somehow sex-education must be completed by adequate presentation of +these aspects, for the problems of sex are satisfactorily solved only +in the lives of those fortunate individuals whose vision of the +relation of sex and life combines the viewpoints of biology, hygiene, +psychology, ethics, religion, and last--but far from least--aesthetics. + +[Sidenote: Only essential knowledge of social diseases.] + +Finally, the educational application of the fourth aim demands some +explanation. Sometime in the adolescent period all young people should +learn the essential facts regarding the two social diseases and their +relation to immoral living. There is the widespread impression that +those advocating sex-education believe in giving great prominence to +the social diseases; but in opposition to this I cite the report of a +committee of the American Federation for Sex Hygiene, published in the +_Journal of the Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis_, January, +1913, and later reprinted as a pamphlet by the American Social Hygiene +Association. In that report there are _twenty-three_ recommendations +concerning sex-instruction; but _only_ one mentions social diseases +and in these words: "During the later period of adolescence ... there +should be given ... special instruction as to the character and dangers +of the venereal diseases." That seems sufficient. It is not desirable +that young people should review the horrible facts relating to +perverted sexuality. Ten or twenty brief and authoritative statements +quoted impressively from medical and social literature ought to give +fair warning of lurking dangers in immoral living. More extensive +information has often proved dangerous. I would gladly advocate that +this dark side of life be kept in sealed books if I did not know that +so many young people need forewarning and definite guidance. Our +educational system will not do its full duty if it fails to offer the +needed help so that it may be obtained by all adolescent young people +who are not so fortunate as to be guided by parents and other personal +teachers. + +FOOTNOTES: + +[12] To avoid misunderstanding, let me repeat from the first lecture +that I am constantly thinking of sex-education in the larger sense; +and instruction in schools can be, at best, only a part. + + + + +IV + +THE TEACHER OF SEX-KNOWLEDGE + + +Sec. 18. _Who Should Give Sex-instruction?_ + +A large number of people have been convinced that young people need +knowledge which will help them face the great problems of sex; but they +withhold their approval of the sex-education movement because they are +not satisfied that proper teachers exist. It is, therefore, evident +that we cannot make permanent progress by emphasizing the need of +sex-education unless we can give assurance that qualified teachers are +available. + +[Sidenote: The teacher most important.] + +The situation as regards teachers of sex-instruction is very different +from that of all other subjects concerning which young people should be +taught. We cannot safely plan the teaching regarding sex until we know +the teacher. This will be evident, I think, after some general +considerations concerning selection of teachers and some discussion of +problems such as the first teacher, teachers for classes, and some +undesirable teachers. The general rule should be, first, find the safe +and sure teacher and, second, select the facts and plan the lessons +that the chosen teacher may give effectively. + +[Sidenote: Teachers of same sex for children.] + +So far as young children are concerned, the needed instruction is so +general in character that the sex of the competent teacher is of little +importance, but the information that ought to prepare for and guide +through the mazes of adolescent youth should come to young people from +teachers of the same sex. If exceptions must be made rather than omit +instruction altogether, some very mature women may safely guide both +boys and girls through adolescence; but men, even physicians, should +not undertake instruction of adolescent young women, unless parents and +other mature people are present to help with attitude. That women may +well instruct boys I know, because the most impressive sex lecture I +ever heard was given by the late Dr. Mary Wood-Allen to the boys of the +freshman class when I was a college student. But note that I have said +"some very mature women." The fact is that I fear danger for some boys +if they are frankly instructed by attractive young women who are only +ten to fifteen years older than their pupils. Hence, I urge great +caution if there must be any exceptions to the general rule that +teachers and pupils should be of the same sex. + +[Sidenote: Coeducational classes.] + +I realize the difficulty of applying this rule in many high schools +where the foundations of sex-education are well laid on the biological +basis. There is no reason why the biological studies should not be +coeducational through nature-study and biology as far as the +development of frogs and birds and, in a general way, of mammals. In +fact, both of my textbooks, the "Applied Biology" and the "Introduction +to Biology," which emphasize reproduction of organisms more than other +high-school books, have been used throughout in coeducational classes. +However, these books stop where the problems of human life begin and +should be supplemented by lessons for sex-limited classes. There are +writers who suggest that segregation of the sexes for teaching +concerning human life may be at present a necessity because complete +frankness on sexual questions is certainly obstructed by tradition; but +we must not ignore the deep social reasons why, in general, there must +be maintained a certain amount of reserve between the sexes in the +consideration of some important problems of life. No educational theory +or practice can possibly alter the fundamental physical or psychical +relations of the sexes which nature seems to have fixed immutably. + +[Sidenote: Married women as teachers.] + +One other point that deserves attention in this connection is the +common statement that only married women, preferably mothers, can be +competent instructors of young women. This strikes me as more than +absurd. Personal experience is not always necessary for teaching in any +line. The greatest medical teachers have not had the diseases they +describe so clearly. The best elementary teachers and specialists on +the care of children are not always mothers; on the contrary, some of +these are men. The fact is that these teachers have learned, not from +personal experience, but from the great accumulations of scientific +knowledge of medicine, hygiene, and education. There is an abundance of +such knowledge relating to sex that may be clearly understood by bright +women who have no bi-personal knowledge of sex. Therefore, I believe +that it is nonsense to insist that only women with complete sexual +experiences can be efficient guides for other women. + + +Sec. 19. _The Child's First Teachers of Sex-knowledge_ + +[Sidenote: Mothers and other first teachers.] + +The first instruction which may begin to lay the foundation for the +individual's sex-education should be given in early childhood by +parents, or by other adults, who happen to be on the most intimate +personal terms with the child. Usually this means the mother; but there +are numerous cases of teachers, governesses, grandmothers, and even +fathers who have greater personal influence with certain children than +their mothers have. The essential point is that the child should be +instructed only by an adult who can exert the greatest personal +influence. + +[Sidenote: Mothers and adolescent boys.] + +Many parents who believe in sex-education for their children hold that +the mothers should give all necessary hygienic guidance and teach the +elementary facts of life to the children of both sexes in the +pre-adolescent years, but that with the dawn of adolescence the girls +should continue to be instructed by their mothers, while the boys +should be guided by their fathers. So far as girls are concerned, this +seems to be a fairly good plan; but nine times out of ten it is not +best for the boys for several reasons: First, the sudden change of +attitude on the part of the mother will surely impress upon the boy +that there is something about sex in boys that even his mother dares +not talk over with him. At about this same time when the mother begins +to avoid the sex question with her boy, he will surely begin to get +vulgar information and impressions from his boy companions. He will in +all probability begin to hear the impure and obscene stories and vulgar +language that are so common among many men and boys, and he will be +sure to learn that the vulgarity which he hears must not be repeated in +the presence of his mother and sisters. It is a most critical time in +the mental attitude of the boy. His mother has so far been directing +him towards purity and then suddenly sets him adrift. If there is ever +a time in a boy's life when he needs intimacy with his mother, it is in +the early adolescent years of twelve to fourteen. A strong mother's +heart to heart guidance at that time will influence the boy more than +all the sex-education which the schools and colleges combined can ever +hope to offer. Such is the problem of home teaching for adolescent +boys. I emphatically protest against the foolish and even dangerous +idea that because a boy is beginning to metamorphose into a man his +mother should cease to help him with the problems of sex. Lucky is that +adolescent boy whose mother realizes her duty and her opportunity and +holds him as intimately as if he were a girl of corresponding age. + + +Sec. 20. _Selecting Teachers for Class Instruction_ + +The references to "the teacher" in the following are primarily +applicable to those who may be called upon to give sex-instruction as +class work in schools, colleges, churches, the Y.M.C.A., the Y.W.C.A., +and other educational organizations. + +The chief question for discussion in this lecture is that of selecting +the teacher of those phases of sex-instruction that are directly +related to human life, that is, personal sex-hygiene and sex-ethics. So +far as biological facts of sex are concerned, there are no special +problems such as may not be handled by teachers of biology in general +according to the accepted methods (see Lloyd and Bigelow, "Teaching of +Biology in the Secondary School" and Bigelow, "Teacher's Manual of +Biology"). + +[Sidenote: Regular teachers if possible.] + +As already suggested, a large part of the sex-instruction is simply an +extension of biological science, hygiene, and ethics; and in secondary +schools and colleges should be given by selected teachers of the +regular staff and whenever possible as a part of regular courses. There +may be some necessary modifications to this plan; for example, in +Teachers College the course on sex-education and another series of +lectures on sex-physiology and hygiene for women are open to students +who do not take the biology courses in which the sex-instruction +logically belongs. + +[Sidenote: Sex-hygiene and ethics.] + +The culminating stages of any complete scheme for formal sex-education +of young people will be sex-hygiene considered in its strict sense as +that special phase of sex-education which deals with problems of +health, and sex-ethics which determines the responsibility of +individuals for control of sexual instincts. While nature-study and +biology and general hygiene may be organized so as to present the major +portion of the facts which should be included in a complete scheme of +sex-instruction in schools and colleges, the application of these facts +to personal life is the most difficult problem of sex-education. In +fact, it is the only real problem, for long before sex-education became +a definite movement the most efficient science teachers were presenting +the fundamental facts on which we now propose to build with certain +hygienic and ethic instruction which directly touches the personal life +of the student. As already said, the human application will require +only a few lessons, preferably in connection with nature-study, +biology, ethics, or hygiene. But although brief, such instruction is +the keystone in the arch of sex-education, and it is very important +that there be no serious mistakes in selecting the teachers. + +[Sidenote: Sex specialists not desirable.] + +I have mentioned special teachers as necessary for instruction with +direct reference to specialists human life. I hasten to add that I +still agree with the report of the special committee (Morrow, _et al._) +of the American Federation for Sex Hygiene that it is not desirable +that any teacher should make a specialty of this type of instruction +and of no other. We do not want "sex specialists" in the schools (see +pp. 10 and 20-23 of the Report of the Committee). It is important that +all teachers should have general information regarding the sex problems +of young people in order to be able to help individual pupils. + + +Sec. 21. _Certain Undesirable Teachers for Special Hygienic and Ethical +Instruction_ + +It will be most helpful if we consider the problem of selecting +teachers with a view to rejecting those who certainly should not +undertake the special hygienic and ethical teaching, for teachers who +are good in other subjects and who are fortunately free from certain +disqualifications discussed in the following, may by means of study +adapt themselves for the final and most important stages of +sex-education. + +There are five types of teachers who should be regarded as disqualified +for teaching personal sex-hygiene and sex-ethics. + +[Sidenote: Embarrassed teachers.] + +First, those men and women who are unable to speak of sex-hygiene as +calmly and seriously as they do of any other phase of hygiene had +better not undertake the instruction of young people. There are many +such men and women among teachers who, so far as scientific training is +concerned, ought to be good teachers of sex-hygiene. As an illustration +of this attitude that leaves the wrong impression with students, it is +reported that a good teacher of hygiene recently prefaced a brief talk +to college girls as follows: "I shall now consider a process that no +cultured woman ever mentions except with bated breath. I refer to +menstruation." + +[Sidenote: Abnormal teachers.] + +The second kind of people who should not teach sex-hygiene are the men +and women who are the unfortunate victims of sexual abnormality, either +physical or psychical, that more or less influences their outlook on +life. Certain neurotic and hysterical men or women who lack thorough +physiological training and whose own sexual disturbances have led them +to devour omnivorously and unscientifically the psychopathological +literature of sex by such authors as Havelock Ellis, Krafft-Ebing, and +Freud, are probably unsafe teachers of sex-hygiene. Especially is this +true of the women of this type whose introspective morbidity has led +them to diagnose their own functional disturbances as the direct result +of "over-sexuality" and restraint from normal sexual expression--a +diagnosis that is probably wrong nine times in ten cases. Such a woman +is a very dangerous teacher of sex-hygiene for adolescent girls; and a +positive menace to older unmarried women who, if free from absorbing +work, may spend their leisure in becoming more or less restless under +the unsocial, if not unphysiologic, conditions of unwelcome celibacy. +This is no imaginary danger. The reader of this will not be interested +in details, but the author has received from physicians and others +reliable information concerning several extremely abnormal women of the +above-described type who are taking an active interest in the +sex-instruction of young people and are actually suggesting to their +friends among young women the dangerous and untrue doctrine that +prolonged celibacy for women results in repressed sexuality that surely +leads to ill health. Such ideas, it is true, are traceable to certain +well-known radical writers on the psychopathology of sex; but we must +remember that the great majority of physicians and other scientific +investigators who have studied such problems refuse to believe that +repressed sex instincts in either men or women do the harm that a few +extremists have claimed. But even if it were known beyond the shadow of +a doubt that repressed sex instincts may injure people, it would be +unwise to intrust young people to instruction by teachers who have a +hypochondriacal interest in such a doctrine of repression. Such +suggestions can do only harm to the vast majority of persons who +receive them. To say the least, it is unfortunate that the +psychopathology of sex has become so widely circulated among those who +are not well trained in physiology and psychiatry. + +[Sidenote: Teachers who emphasize sexual abnormality.] + +The third kind of people who should not be intrusted with teaching +sex-hygiene are the men and women who, without a scientific +perspective, have plunged into the literature of sexual abnormality +until they have come to think that knowledge concerning perverted life +is an important part of sex-education for young people, especially for +those of post-adolescent years. I know of teachers and physicians who +advise young people not much over twenty years of age to read such +psychopathological works as those of Krafft-Ebing, Ellis, and Freud, +and various works dealing with commercialized vice. Here is a grave +danger. The less that people without professional use for knowledge of +sexual pathology know concerning it, the better it will be for their +peace of mind and possibly for their morals. Therefore, I urge that he +who enthusiastically studies the abnormalities of sex life without +reference to scientific research or professional demands, is not likely +to be the kind of teacher who will present abnormal life only so far as +is necessary to an understanding of the perfectly normal. + +[Sidenote: Pessimistic teachers.] + +The fourth kind of people who ought not to instruct the young in +personal problems of sex-hygiene are the men and women whose own +unhappy romances or married life, or whose knowledge of vice +conditions, have made them pessimistic concerning sex-problems. There +are in our schools and colleges to-day some such men and many such +women, and there will be danger for young people when the growing +freedom of expression allows these sexual pessimists to impress their +own hopeless philosophy of sex upon students. The educational world +does not need such teachers, but rather those who can follow the late +Dr. Morrow in seeing a bright side of life that almost dispels the +darkness of sexual errors. + +[Sidenote: Teachers not respected by pupils.] + +The fifth kind of persons who ought not to teach the personal side of +sex-hygiene are those who cannot command the most serious respect of +their pupils. This applies especially to many men teachers whose +flippant attitude and even questionable living are not likely to help +their pupils, especially boys, towards a satisfactory interpretation of +sex problems. Of course, such teachers ought not be in schools at all, +but the fact is that for various reasons they sometimes get there and +stay there; and so they must be weighed by the school official who +selects the teachers to be intrusted with special problems of +sex-education. + +[Sidenote: No instruction without satisfactory teachers.] + +Summarizing, I have in this lecture aimed to warn the school +administrator, and others who must select teachers of classes, against +the kinds of teachers who ought not be chosen for presenting the +special problems of sex-education, especially those of sex-hygiene and +sex-ethics. I have pointed out that there are five serious +disqualifications; and it is probable that if strictly applied when +choosing teachers for special sex-instruction, there will be +elimination of three or four in every ten of those whose training in +science might be expected to qualify them as teachers of this special +line. It is a fair question as to what a school or other institution +should do if it has no teachers who are free from the above +disqualifications. My own belief is that it is better to get an +outsider for the handling of the special problems. If this is +impracticable, then suggest to the students that they read certain +books such as are recommended in the last sections of this book. Even +entire omission of the study of the personal and social aspects of +sex-hygiene and sex-ethics is far wiser than intrusting a class to a +teacher with one or more of the negative qualifications that we have +been considering in this lecture. The effect of sex-education upon +individual lives will in no small degree depend upon the impression +made by the living teacher who deals with the difficult problems of sex +in relation to hygiene and ethics. Hence, the greatest care should be +taken when selecting the teacher for this all-important part of the +student's sex-education. + + + + +V + +BOOKS AS TEACHERS CONCERNING SEX AND LIFE + + +Sec. 22. _Value and Danger of Special Sex Books for Young People_ + +[Sidenote: Books for private reading.] + +There are many parents and teachers who believe that young people +should get their sexual information by private reading, and numerous +books for boys and girls have been prepared to meet such a demand. The +desire for such "private" reading undoubtedly exists, especially in +boys; but this is part of the general air of secrecy and vulgarity that +has enshrouded the truth about sexual matters. Many eminent physicians +agree that there are elements of physical and perhaps moral danger when +a boy reads a sex-science book secretly, but that there are few such +possibilities in frank and scientific teaching by a competent +instructor. This is recognized by leaders in the Y.M.C.A., and they +prefer to read books with the boys in study classes. Many scientific +women think there is no such danger for average girls, but agree that +girls as well as boys will gain in respect for the subject of sex if +the atmosphere of secrecy can be avoided. Hence, while books for +private reading are better than ignorance, they alone will not solve +many of the problems at which sex-education is directed. We must cease +to foster the secrecy created by an atmosphere of obscenity, and the +study of sex must be brought into the light of day. Let good books be +recommended through parents and with their approval be issued freely by +libraries and without restrictions which suggest something dark and +wrong. Let parents and teachers encourage such reading, but not as +something requiring secrecy. Rather let such books be read as freely as +any other good books, and let parents and competent teachers follow the +young readers closely so as to explain facts and help develop the +desirable attitude of mind. Especially let parents encourage the idea +that approved sex-science books may be read at the family fireside as +properly as any other books. Above all, let parents and teachers work +in every possible way against the time-worn idea that problems of sex +are essentially vulgar and demand secrecy even in scientific study. We +must have a nobler and healthier outlook on human life than that which +so commonly prevails, and we can never get it by secret study of +sex-science by young people. Such study may do some good by warning +against unhygienic habits and social diseases; but it is certainly +inadequate to give the open-minded attitude needed so much for +appreciating the ethical, social, and aesthetic bearings of human life +as it is influenced by normal sexual functions. + +[Sidenote: Pamphlets _vs._ books.] + +It has been urged by well-known teachers that, for sex-instruction, +pamphlets are better than books in that they do not hold the attention +too long on topics that may be exciting to some young people. On the +other hand, books usually make a stronger appeal, while pamphlets are +likely to be regarded lightly, as are magazines and newspapers. There +is no doubt that most sex books for young people are too extended, and +there is need of condensed forty-and fifty-cent booklets in place of +the books commonly sold at one dollar. Three or four small booklets by +different authors read at widely separated intervals will interest and +influence a young man more than one large and comprehensive book. There +is besides great value in the points of view of various authors. + +[Sidenote: Better books needed.] + +At present there are no thoroughly satisfactory books for adolescent +boys and girls. In my opinion, W.S. Hall's books for boys are the most +reliable, and his "Life Problems" is the best selection of facts for +girls; but some mature readers criticize the style of presentation. +Some other books for adolescent young people are mentioned with +critical notes in the bibliography at the end of this book. There is +still plenty of chance for authors to experiment in writing books of +this class. + + +Sec. 23. _General Literature and Sex Problems_ + +[Sidenote: Sex in literature.] + +In the world's best literature there is much that teaches important +lessons in the field of the larger sex-education. In the guise of love, +sex problems have always held the prominent place in all literature. +Many a great book teaches direct or positive lessons by holding up high +ideals for inspiration and imitation; but some of the most impressive +lessons are in negative form, especially in fiction that deals with the +tragedies of life. + +[Sidenote: Religious books.] + +As examples of literature of direct influence in helping many young +people solve the problems of sex, we think first of that which holds up +high ideals of personal purity, such as the Bible and other religious +books. There is no doubt that such literature has a tremendous +influence on many young people; but it has little influence on others, +probably in part because the somewhat mystical style of most religious +writings is meaningless to many people. + +[Sidenote: Appeal of poetry.] + +It is a fact that many young people who refuse to be interested in +religious literature may be influenced for sexual purity by the +emotional appeal of some general literature. This is especially true of +romantic poetry. I believe that the high "idealism" of love inspired by +Tennyson's "The Princess" and "Idylls of the King," by Longfellow's +"Evangeline" and "The Hanging of the Crane," by some of Shakespeare's +plays, and by other great poetry with similar themes has had and will +continue to have greater influence on the attitude and ethics of many +young people than all the formal sex-teaching that can be organized. +Hence, I believe that teachers of literature should be led to take +interest in the larger sex-education to the end that by selection and +interpretation of great masterpieces they may contribute in a valuable +way to the solution of some of the problems that have their center in +the deeper nature of sex. + +[Sidenote: Importance of interpretation.] + +Interpretation of literature by teachers is very important for the +purposes of sex-education of young people. As an example, take +Tennyson's "Idylls of the King," whose movement centers in the life +problems that turn around love. The average reader is likely to miss +the great lessons if the poem is not critically interpreted either by +living teachers or by such critical essays as those by Henry van Dyke +in his "Poetry of Tennyson" and Newell Dwight Hillis in his "Great +Books as Life-Teachers." Without interpretation "The Idylls" may teach +false as well as true lessons of life. Some of the Knights of the Round +Table (Galahad and Percivale) were worthy followers of the good and +pure King Arthur, and some of them (like Lancelot and Tristram and +Merlin) proved unable to live up to the vow of chastity to which Arthur +swore all his knights. And on the part of the ladies of Arthur's court, +there was purity and devotion and true womanhood in Elaine and Enid, +while Guinevere and Ettarre and Vivien were unchaste and faithless. In +fact, all phases of the relations of men and women in the struggles and +perplexities of life are pictured; and therefore it is important that a +well-trained teacher should be the guide and interpreter if the "Idylls +of the King" are to be read with the idea of understanding their true +bearings on life, which includes their contribution to the larger +sex-education. + +I have used "The Idylls of the King" as an illustration because they +are so many-sided in sex problems; but much other great literature may +be made to help young people to high ideals of relationships between +men and women. I have emphasized the place of such literature in the +larger sex-education because I have come to believe that interpretation +of life either real or in great literature may have profound influence +in the development of one's philosophy of life. As a matter of +educational procedure insuring that young people will learn to +interpret life, especially those aspects that the larger sex-education +touches so definitely, there appears to be no more natural and +unobtrusive way of approach than that offered by the study of +literature. I am convinced that many teachers of literature may be +efficient workers in the cause of the larger sex-education, +supplementing the scientific teaching in the ethical lines where +science is admittedly weak, if not helpless. It is to be hoped that +numerous teachers will soon grasp this opportunity. If they will study +the sex-education movement in order to get its general bearings and +will teach the sex aspect of literature on a basis of high ideals of +life and love, we need have no fear as to the culmination of the +instruction which properly begins with study of the biological facts of +life in its sexual aspects and leads on and on to its climax in the +ethical aspects of the individual's sex life in relation to other +individuals, that is, to society. + +[Sidenote: Not to be labeled "sex-education."] + +I take it for granted that no teacher of literature who contributes to +sex-instruction will let the students know that the emphasis placed on +great life problems is part of a conspiracy of parents and educators to +give in the name of sex-education instruction that will help prepare +the individual for facing the problems. Here, as elsewhere, the young +people had better be left unaware that their elders are so interested +in giving them instruction regarding sex problems that they have +organized, for study of ways and means, a movement known as +sex-education. + +[Sidenote: Sex tragedies of fiction.] + +The abundant literature that points to the moral to be drawn from +sexual tragedies has doubtless influenced thousands of young people. I +have talked with many educated people who confessed to having been +profoundly influenced by such books as Eliot's "Adam Bede," Hawthorne's +"Scarlet Letter," Goethe's "Faust," Hardy's "Tess of the +d'Urbervilles." One might go on and compile an extensive bibliography, +for fiction of all languages of all times is full of the errors into +which insistent sex instincts have drawn men and women who were not +masters of themselves. All standard fiction in which sexual errors and +their penalties are associated may do good as a part of the larger +sex-education, but the teacher should make sure that the young readers +arrive at the correct interpretation. + +[Sidenote: Fiction without a moral.] + +Against that type of fiction which presents sex problems that do not +clearly "point a moral," the average so-called "problem novel" of +recent time, there should be general opposition by workers for the +larger sex-education. Many of the modern novels and magazine stories +seem to introduce sexual situations for the same reason that Boccaccio +did in some of his tales, namely, the attractiveness of lasciviousness. +Unlike the commendable novels, it is characteristic of the equivocal +ones that no penalty is demanded or paid and no moral conclusion is +suggested. In fact, the way is very often left open to an immoral +interpretation. All such literature certainly tends to work against the +aims of sex-education. Perhaps parents and teachers may cooperate to +keep much of this kind of literature out of the hands of young people, +but the safest procedure is in cultivating taste for literature that +does teach helpful lessons of life. If young people do read books and +magazines that seem to stand for uncertain morals, it is best that +parents and teachers should point out the moral interpretations. + + +Sec. 24. _Dangers in Literature on Abnormal Sexuality_ + +[Sidenote: Danger in present interests in the abnormal.] + +The opinion is spreading among those who are studying the educational +problems relating to sex that there is great danger, even for many +adults, in much of the literature describing psychopathological and +abnormal social-sexual facts. There are enormous quantities of such +literature, particularly concerning the social evil. It is extremely +doubtful whether the reader who is not directly engaged in medicine, +psychiatry, or social reform will profit by filling his mind with facts +from the darkest side of life. No doubt it is important that all +intelligent men and women should know enough about sexual immorality +and the life of the underworld so that they will realize the necessity +of protecting young people from vice in all its forms; but this does +not mean that everybody should read extensively in the mass of printed +matter that sets forth the most awful details concerning human +depravity. There is a real danger in this line. The sex-education +movement has already brought the problems of sex out of the old-time +secrecy, and no other topics of the times are so freely read and +discussed. This might be well if the reading and discussion always took +constructive lines leading towards improvement of sexual relationships; +but unfortunately, much of the present popular interest in sexual +problems seems to be a morbid craving for the abnormal. We find this +tendency in the demand for a certain type of sex-problem novels, we +see it frequently on the stage and in motion pictures, and we hear it +in general conversation. The advertised suggestion of sexual immorality +in a forthcoming serial novel often raises surprisingly the circulation +of certain magazines. A few hints of sexual irregularity in certain +plays have brought crowded audiences. A scandalous divorce case, +reported as freely as the law allows, is a choice morsel for average +readers of newspapers. Everywhere it is the sexual abnormality, +perversity, and even bestial vulgarity, that seems to attract the most +attention. Books and magazines and theaters and preachers who extol the +normal and bright side of sex-life are not now extremely popular with +the masses of people. As a well-known magazine recently summarized the +present situation, "it has struck sex o'clock in America." There is no +denying the fact that in recent years the popular interest in sex +problems has taken a dangerous turn. It is time for those who are +active in the sex-education movement to note the signs of the times, +for an effective educational scheme for young people must take into +account the present tendency towards a dangerous interest in literature +relating to sexual abnormality, especially immorality. All this +tendency towards interest in the abnormal or irregular sexual problems +must cause not a little worry to those whose interest is primarily in +securing widespread recognition of the advantages of normal and moral +living. + +[Sidenote: Need of interest in normal sex life.] + +Perhaps those who are seriously interested in sex-education may help +stem the tide towards interest in sexual abnormality by using greater +care in the selection of literature, both for young people and for +their elders. I recently met a superintendent of schools who had +carefully read certain large volumes on the medical, psychical, and +social abnormalities of sex, and many books and pamphlets on the social +evil. Altogether he had read more than five thousand pages on the +immoral and abnormal aspects of sex. He wanted to know where he might +find a book on the normal side of sex in its physiological, +psychological, and ethical aspects. Unfortunately, there is no such +treatise by an author whose scientific standing equals that of several +of those who have written extensively on the abnormal side; and +probably this is in part the reason why so many young men and women are +now molding their ideas of sexual life according to the patterns +described by the authors of works on social and sexual pathology. Not a +month passes in which I am not astounded to find men and women who have +plunged deeply into studies of sexual vice and pathology and who know +less of the normal biology of sex than is contained in such books as +W.S. Hall's "Sexual Knowledge" or the last chapter of Martin's "Human +Body, Advanced Course." This is indeed a strange situation, and we +might compare it with reading extensive works on insanity before +learning the elements of normal psychology. It is certainly a useless, +if not a dangerous line of approach to the information concerning sex +which intelligent people need. The leaders in the sex-education +movement will do well to promote the circulation of some brief and +authoritative statement of the chief facts relating to the problems of +abnormal sexual life and then to discourage the popular circulation of +the extensive works which only certain physicians and social reformers +need. I know that there is some difference of opinion as to the effect +of such literature. I know many prominent educators and physicians who +would keep the extensive works on the psychopathology of sex out of the +hands of all general readers; but I also know a few who see no +possibility of danger in widespread circulation of such books. + +[Sidenote: Limited knowledge of the abnormal.] + +Looking at all sides of the present situation, it is my personal +conclusion that every one should learn first the scientific facts +regarding normal processes connected with the sexual system; and then +for the general reader there should be only a limited amount of warning +knowledge regarding the dangers of sexual abnormalities. + + + + +VI + +SEX-INSTRUCTION FOR PRE-ADOLESCENT YEARS + + +[Sidenote: Periods of early life.] + +In Sec. 8 of the Report of the Committee of Three of the American +Federation for Sex-hygiene, by Morrow and others, the life of the child +was divided into four periods, namely,--under six years, from six to +twelve, twelve to sixteen, sixteen to maturity. This division now seems +to me to be too arbitrary, and I have come to believe that it is more +helpful to consider sex-instruction for three periods as follows: +pre-adolescence (ending at eleven to fourteen years); early adolescence +(twelve to sixteen years for girls, thirteen to seventeen for boys); +later adolescence (sixteen to twenty-one for girls, eighteen to +twenty-five for boys). + + +Sec. 25. _Elementary Instruction and Influence_ + +[Sidenote: Nature-study.] + +The life-histories of plants and animals as taught in the best +nature-study[13] are important in forming attitude towards reproduction +and giving a basis for simple and truthful answers to the child's +questions as to the origin of the individual human life. The +publications listed in the last section of this book under the headings +"For Girls" and "For Boys" will help parents and teachers. + +There is need of little private hygienic instruction, but of much +guidance away from harmful habits. This will be indicated in the next +section which considers masturbation as it concerns children of both +sexes and all ages. + +[Sidenote: Protection.] + +The protection of children from corrupting influences is an important +work of sex-education in pre-adolescent years. Probably the greatest +safety lies in parents giving simple facts regarding reproduction and +in cultivating confidence so that any accidental contact of their +children with vulgarity will be counteracted in advance. Many parents, +especially mothers, have found this possible. + +[Sidenote: Girls' preparation for puberty.] + +In the years between ten and twelve every child should learn from a +parent or other adult confidant some general facts regarding their +approaching puberty. This is especially important in the case of girls, +for many a girl has been physically and mentally injured because a +prudish mother has procrastinated too long the giving of information +regarding the first menstrual period. The facts in the first thirty +pages of W.S. Hall's "Life Problems" should be known by many girls of +eleven and by the great majority before thirteen. Some books for young +girls are defective in that they avoid reference to the coming +changes. I see no excuse for a sex-hygiene book for girls who are too +young to be trusted with the simplest knowledge regarding menstruation. +Such children should be interested in nature studies and perhaps the +elements of general hygiene, but certainly not in books with +curiosity-stimulating titles. + +[Sidenote: Special needs of boys.] + +Since boys entering puberty pass through no such sharply defined +beginning as girls do, the information they need in advance is not so +specific. At the same time, we must recognize that the average boy +under twelve years picks up more information regarding sexual life than +a girl does, and so the problem of teaching self-control comes earlier, +although the average girl enters puberty a year or two before the boy. +Parents and teachers must recognize the fact that sexual tendencies +come to many boys several years before puberty, and masturbation and +even premature sexual intercourse are possible problems with many boys +long before the twelfth year. The boy's early gathering of sexual +information is not without advantage, for it becomes possible for +parents and other adult confidants to explain many important truths as +to the proper use of his sex organs and as to his conduct towards +girls. All this can be done with the average boy of eleven or twelve +and with hundreds of even nine and ten without any fear of giving +information that is startlingly new and without any danger of giving a +nervous shock. + +[Sidenote: Cautious teaching of girls.] + +It is not so with average girls of equal ages, if we may accept the +opinion of many women who are trained in science and medicine. Specific +information as to the functional relationships of the two sexes is said +by many educated women to have been absolutely new and startling to +them at twenty and twenty-five years. Evidently there is a special +reason for gradual and cautious teaching of girls, and so it is +probably best, as many parents urge, that in pre-adolescent years the +girl's instruction in social-sexual lines be training in modest +deportment and a proper reserve towards boys. This ought to be +sufficient for the girl's protection until gradually in adolescent +years she learns the whole story of life, probably several years later +than her boy friends whose natural leadership in sexual activity makes +their early information desirable as a protection to both sexes. + +[Sidenote: Children's friendships.] + +In the pre-adolescent years parents and teachers should cooperate in +developing a spirit of group fellowship between boys and girls and at +the same time instill into the boys something of that chivalrous and +protective attitude of boys towards girls such as one finds in the +families of the highest culture. I emphatically mean "group +fellowship," for it is certainly undesirable to encourage in +pre-adolescents any tendency towards paired comradeship. It is +certainly best that boys and girls should have many good friends of +both sexes. The real truth back of the old adage "two is company and +three is a crowd" makes the "crowd" highly desirable for both +pre-adolescence and early adolescence, for in these years it is +friendship and not romantic love that will be most helpful in the later +life. As one step in this direction, all sensible adults should show +their disfavor to the abominable habit of teasing small children +concerning their best friends of the other sex. Parents and teachers +will do some of the best work in the larger sex-education if they begin +in pre-adolescent years to develop the social life of the children +along lines similar to those suggested above. + +[Sidenote: Summary.] + +Summarizing, it is evident that there is very little direct +sex-instruction suitable for pre-adolescent years. So far as the +child's own life is concerned, it now seems clear that parents or other +adult confidants must instruct individuals, or possibly small uniformly +selected groups. Class instruction seems out of the question except for +life-history studies of animals and plants. On the whole, then, there +is nothing radical or impossible in the proposition that there should +be a beginning of sex-education before the advent of adolescence. + + +Sec. 26. _Hygienic and Educational Treatment of Unhealthful Habits_ + +[Sidenote: Problems of children.] + +All adults should take a sane and scientific view of the sex problems +that are likely to come even to normal children. We must remember that +they are born with sexual mechanisms that may easily and automatically +lead into harmful habits unless parents and teachers guide +hygienically and mentally along the lines that are known to offer +safety. + +[Sidenote: Masturbation.] + +Concerning habitual manipulation of the sexual organs of either sex, +known in medical literature as masturbation or self-abuse (often +erroneously called "onanism"), there are certain facts that are +important for the guidance of all parents and teachers. I discuss it in +this connection since the problem often arises in the later years of +the pre-adolescent period. + +[Sidenote: Does not indicate degeneracy.] + +It is absurd to suppose that the tendency towards the habit means +degeneracy or innate viciousness of children. Young horses, dogs, +monkeys, and other animals sometimes form a similar habit, the stimulus +being some irritation of the sexual organs. Hence, it is not at all +unnatural when children attempt to relieve their irritated organs by +friction, and then it is inevitable that the sensitive nerve endings +will give sensations that are more or less pleasurable and satisfying, +depending upon the sex, age, and emotional peculiarity of the +individual child. This fact suggests to parents and teachers the +methods of prophylaxis; namely, avoid (1) irritation of sexual organs +and (2) opportunity for manipulation. + +[Sidenote: Irritation.] + +[Sidenote: Circumcision.] + +With regard to irritation, the first sign of such disturbance may +appear in babyhood. In the case of boys, whose structure renders them +vastly more liable than girls to external irritation, the family +physician should make sure during infancy whether circumcision or a +stretching of the prepuce (foreskin) may be desirable. According to Dr. +Emmet Holt, the eminent pediatrician, about one male baby in four or +five is born with an elongated or tight prepuce that needs surgical +attention. A corresponding abnormality of the clitoris is sometimes +found in baby girls. Some radical surgeons advocate universal +circumcision of boys because they believe that it reduces local +irritation, favors cleanliness, tends to prevent masturbation, and +reduces susceptibility to the venereal diseases. There is certainly +some truth in these claims; but some conservative surgeons point out +that for the great majority of boys all these advantages may be +obtained by reasonable attention to hygienic habits, that orthodox +Jewish and other circumcised boys are by no means free from harmful +habits, that some boys are more irritable after circumcision, that +preputial stretching is often a good substitute for circumcision, and +that the taunts of other boys often make circumcised boys too conscious +of their own mutilation. A scientific doctor who has no special +financial interest in the increase of surgical operations and who +carefully reviews both the radical and conservative literature relating +to circumcision, will not hasten to submit boys to this operation until +it is certain that their sexual organs happen to have congenital +deformity that only radical surgical treatment can correct. + +[Sidenote: Hygienic rules.] + +In addition to making sure that uncleanliness or structural abnormality +are not responsible for irritation of sex organs, there are some +special hygienic rules useful for parents and teachers who have charge +of children. Most important is avoidance of habit formation. Clothing +should be well adjusted to avoid pressure and friction of the sexual +organs, and so constructed (especially night clothing) that it is not +convenient for the hands to reach the organs. Normal boys require +pockets, but they should open at the waist-band and not at the side of +the hips. The reason for these suggestions is evident. When we recall +that little children naturally tend to explore themselves, such as by +putting fingers into the mouth, feeling their toes, inserting foreign +objects into nose and ears, and when we also recall how quickly a child +may learn the habit of sucking its thumb, we must realize the +importance of guarding the child from extending such activities to its +sexual organs, which, because they possess the most sensitive nerve +endings in the body, are most liable to lead to habitual manipulation. +In the light of such facts, it is nonsense to assume, as so many good +mothers have done, that only innately vicious children learn +masturbation. The truth is that in the case of most children under +twelve this habit has an origin no more vicious than such habits as +thumb-sucking; and in all cases of habits, parents and others +responsible for the children should be given the blame. + +[Sidenote: Other suggestions for parents.] + +The following suggestions in addition to those above are likely to help +parents do much towards avoiding or solving the early sex problems of +their children. These facts apply also to later years. + +Have children sleep on a hard mattress. The old-time feather bed was +dangerous. There should be light-weight covers, and the room cool. +Children should sleep on either side, _rarely_ in the unnatural back +position. Aim to have regular sleeping hours; but do not send children +to bed unsupervised when they are excited and not tired enough for +immediate sleep. Have them arise as soon as wide awake in the morning. +Never punish children by sending them to bed. + +[Sidenote: Dangers of privacy.] + +Do not leave children to their own devices; they may naturally fall +into dangerous play. Privacy is often demanded by the moods of adults, +but it is dangerous for children. A certain camp for boys has the +commendable rule that the boys have no privacy during the entire +summer. Many educators and physicians condemn private bedrooms or +cubicles in schools for boys. + +[Sidenote: Athletics.] + +A strenuous life of physical and mental activity is the best solution +of personal control of sexual instincts. Reasonable athletics and study +make an ideal combination for both boys and girls. And yet we must not +trust absolutely to athletics or other physical work, for there are +certainly many individuals whose sexual desires are not controlled by +muscular exercise. Much of the formal athletic training may have no +more influence on sexual control than dogmatic creeds. + +[Sidenote: Drugs.] + +Strong condiments and alcoholic drinks are known to be sexual excitants +for many people, and for this and other hygienic reasons should be +forbidden to children. There is a widespread, but still undemonstrated +opinion that tea, coffee, tobacco, and strong condiments have an +exciting effect. However, there is plenty of scientific authority, +based on other hygienic grounds, for avoiding these at least during the +years of growth. + +[Sidenote: Constipation.] + +Constipation is likely to cause sexual irritation, and hence this is an +additional reason for submitting children to competent doctors for +treatment of this disturbance which so seriously affects general +health, especially by auto-intoxication. + +[Sidenote: Bathing.] + +Cool bathing in the morning, especially of the sexual organs, is +hygienic, except for girls during the monthly periods (including two +days before the expected menstrual onset). For various reasons, bathing +in very warm water should be very limited, and then only for cleansing. + +[Sidenote: Form of instruction.] + +In hygienic instructions to children, avoid giving them any ideas +concerning the supposed prevalence of the habit of masturbation. There +is a dangerous tendency to follow the crowd. Also, the habit should +never be described to children except as "unnecessary handling of the +sex organs." It is dangerous to suggest to children, as certain books +do, that there is any pleasurable sensation resulting from manual +manipulation of the organs, for the force of suggestion or curiosity +has led some children to experiment with themselves until they formed +the habit. + +[Sidenote: Symptoms.] + +There are no absolutely certain signs or symptoms, and those suggested +by certain authors, especially by quack doctors, make young people and +even parents and teachers judge some individuals in an unfortunate way. +Especially should parents and teachers remember that there is +absolutely no scientific basis for supposing that great diffidence, +indigestion, pimples on the face, boys' lack of interest in girls, and +numerous other popular "signs," are indications of the masturbation +habit. Like the symptoms in patent-medicine advertising, the above +"signs" are so general that they are sure to fit some cases. + +[Sidenote: Insanity.] + +Do not tell children the ancient falsehood that insanity will surely +result from handling the sexual organs. It is true that masturbation is +a common habit of certain types of insane people and of some neurotics; +but it is probable that the habit is more often one of several factors +rather than the direct cause of the nervous breakdown. However, it is +scientific to say that the habit may weaken the nervous system and +indirectly affect general health, especially in pre-adolescent and +early adolescent years. Probably the greatest nervous damage comes +because there is often greater excess than is possible in natural +sexual relations; the strain of all sexual excess is more in loss of +nervous energy than of secretions. The safest advice one can give +children is that the doctors agree that unnecessary touching of sexual +organs has interfered with the health of many children and that those +who avoid this are most likely to grow up strong in body and mind. This +is the truth and practically the whole of the known truth that might +have influence with young people. + +[Sidenote: Mental habit.] + +Mental masturbation or "day dreaming" concerning sexual functions is +probably more harmful than mechanical manipulation. It is believed to +be more common in young women than in men. However, there is little +reliable evidence as to the prevalence of the habit. As an educational +problem, there is nothing to be done beyond informing all adolescent +young people that allowing their minds to dwell on sexual affairs may +interfere with nervous health, scholarship, and future efficiency in +life. Hard mental and physical work and strenuous play as a daily +routine will avoid or solve most such difficulties of young people. + +[Sidenote: Not hopeless.] + +In all dealing with this problem of young people, we must beware of +overemphasis or exaggeration. Parents and teachers should do all +possible to prevent and cure the habit; but there is still hope for +most young people who, in spite of warning, occasionally lapse into +their old habits. Both men and women of this type have led their +classes through college and won success afterwards. Probably they would +have done still better if entirely free from the habit. On the other +hand, men and women of neurotic inheritance combined with the habit +have suffered nervous collapse during college years; and it is +scientific to assume that the additional nervous strain produced by +masturbation was a contributing factor. Evidently, we dare make no +definite prophecy as to what will happen to one who in early life forms +the habit of masturbation. There is no excuse for excessive alarm in +any ordinary case; but, as we have seen, there are good reasons why +parents and teachers should calmly and yet firmly help young people +avoid unnatural sexual activity. + +To those who must consider the problem of masturbation in boarding +schools, I recommend Hime's "Schoolboys' Special Immorality." + +FOOTNOTES: + +[13] See books on nature-study, _e.g._, Holtz's "Nature-Study," +Hodge's "Nature-Study and Life," Comstock's "Handbook of +Nature-Study." Morley's "Renewal of Life," March's "Towards Racial +Health," and Hall's "The Doctor's Daughter" suggest the main lines of +the nature-study approach to sex-education. + + + + +VII + +SEX-INSTRUCTION FOR EARLY ADOLESCENT YEARS + + +Sec. 27. _The Biological Foundations_ + +In discussing instruction for the pre-adolescent years I have stressed +biological nature-study as important for the purpose of giving general +knowledge of how new living things come into the world. This will +develop a good attitude concerning the origin of the individual human +life. In this lecture I wish to direct attention to the scientific +facts which are foundations for the sexual knowledge that is important +for other phases of sex-instruction during early or late adolescence. + +[Sidenote: Biological foundations.] + +I believe that the best introduction to advanced sex-instruction is +through biological ideas which may be presented in popular lectures and +books; but, of course, will be best taught in courses of biological +science. My own view as to the selection of materials for such +biological studies is expressed in the sections on reproduction +connected with the account of each animal or plant type in the "Applied +Biology" and in the last chapter of the "Introduction to Biology."[14] +In these books the study of life-histories of plants and animals leads +up through vertebrates to mammals, and there are a few remarks +suggesting that human development is like the mammals.[15] At this +point these books should be supplemented by a brief survey of the +essential structure, physiology, and embryology of human reproduction. + +[Sidenote: Mixed classes.] + +Biological studies of human reproduction should not be coeducational in +high schools or the early years of college. Mature college students who +have passed through extensive biological studies, may, without apparent +embarrassment, study human embryology in mixed classes; but after +experience with many such groups I have begun to think that separate +classes are desirable if the course is made to include all the +important facts that college graduates should know concerning human +reproduction. At any rate, there should be special lessons or reading +dealing with detailed information that directly concerns one sex only. + +[Sidenote: Impersonal approach of biology.] + +I certainly do not believe in completely revamping biological science +for the purposes of sex-education. It is better not to "spoil" a course +by overemphasis on sex, for much of the value of biology as a basis for +sex-education is the fact that sex appears gradually and naturally and +far away from human relations. This impersonal approach will be lost if +the course in biology seems to revolve around sex-education, for that +will make sex too prominent. + +It is still debatable as to how much should be taught in high schools +or in public lectures concerning the biological facts of human +reproduction. I think that I can make my own views clearer if I discuss +this first for boys, then for girls. + + +Sec. 28. _Scientific Facts for Boys_ + +First, it is generally agreed that boys of high-school age may profit +by learning their own sexual structure by means of diagrams such as the +one in Hall's "Sexual Hygiene." There is no harm, and also no gain, in +minute description, especially histological. + +[Sidenote: Scientific names.] + +The chief technical names of the parts of the male organs--testicle +(spermary or testes), sperm duct (vas deferens), scrotum, prostate, +seminal vesicles, penis, glans, prepuce (foreskin), urethra--should be +taught; and the scientific dignity of these words as substitutes for +vulgar words should be emphasized. In dealing with boys and young men I +have noticed that these and other scientific words have a great +influence on their attitude. The scientific names of the sex organs +should be made part of popular vocabulary for the reason that there are +no established common names corresponding to lungs, liver, stomach, +arm, leg, brain, and so on for all prominent organs except the sexual. +These have been left without authoritative names except in scientific +language, and as a result dozens of ordinary words have been vulgarly +applied and unprintable ones invented by uneducated people. Such usage +of vulgar terminology is widespread, especially among men and boys. An +editor of schoolbooks recently called my attention to the necessity of +changing some ordinary words in certain books because in some +localities the boys applied the words to sexual organs. Even the little +words "nuts," "stones," "balls" accompanied by the adjective "two" mean +testicles in the widespread vulgar language; and a physician told me +that a college graduate used one of these words the other day when +seeking medical advice concerning her baby. Here is an intolerable +situation that must be improved by establishing in popular usage the +dignified scientific words for the chief sexual organs. We must begin +to do so by teaching the words frankly to boys of adolescent years, and +by persuading parents to teach their children correctly. + +[Sidenote: Sex-physiology.] + +Having learned the structure and names of their sexual organs, boys may +easily understand the function of each part if explained in simple +language. Ten or twenty minutes ought to be enough time for stating the +important facts. One printed page could state them clearly. Here is the +time for personal hygienic advice, especially such topics as: rules for +self-control; harmful habits (see discussion of masturbation in Sec. 26); +sexual activity not necessary for health; occasional nocturnal +emissions not pathological.[16] + +[Sidenote: Female organs.] + +I believe it is well for boys of adolescent years to know a few leading +facts regarding female structure and function, but such knowledge is +best learned from oral description by a well-balanced teacher. Diagrams +and (in some schools) a demonstrated dissection of a cat or other +animal will be helpful. The meaning of the ovaries as sources of the +egg-cells and of the uterus as the place for development of the +fertilized egg-cell should be explained in a serious way that will help +boys get some fundamental ideas as to what motherhood means Boys, +moreover, should be informed concerning the existence of the periodic +disturbance in the other sex, for unless they know they are sure at +times to misunderstand their sisters and other girls. Professor W.S. +Hall has stated the essential information in "Chums" (for boys twelve +to sixteen), but his comparison of periodicity in the two sexes is not +strictly accurate, for there are not in men any sexual cycles that are +strictly comparable with the menstrual cycles of women. + +[Sidenote: No pictures.] + +It is probably best, as urged by several writers, that the life-like +illustrations, some of them photographic, in books of human anatomy be +kept away from boys of early adolescent age. Diagrams can be made to +explain all that is necessary, and without the danger of stimulation +that might come from the illustrated medical books. + +[Sidenote: Embryology.] + +The embryological facts of human biology are very impressive to boys +and young men who know little of science. I believe that no other line +of scientific facts is so likely to claim a serious and respectful +attitude. The ideal way for giving a popular glimpse at human +development is with a small series of lantern slides or photographs +from embryological works. Unfortunately, there is no available popular +treatment of the main facts of human development, but teachers trained +in biology can easily glean the facts for the preparation of a short +lecture. + +[Sidenote: Social diseases.] + +Since the venereal diseases are due to micro-organisms, I believe that +they should be introduced in connection with the study of bacteria and +other germs, either in school courses or in popular lectures. Such +instruction should be very brief. + + +Sec. 29. _Scientific Facts for Girls_ + +[Sidenote: Girls more innocent.] + +I discussed first the problem of selecting scientific facts for boys +because there is little dispute as to the advisability of giving them +as much scientific information as may possibly replace the vulgar +knowledge that the average boy is likely to possess. I know that there +are a few men and many women who will disagree with this because they +believe in the absolute ignorance of their boys; but I doubt whether +one healthy adolescent boy in a hundred belongs in the "innocent" +class. So we need not worry much concerning any supposed danger of +treating facts too frankly, provided that they are given a dignified, +scientific setting. In the case of numerous adolescent girls there is +certainly dense ignorance, and so there must be more difficulty in +getting approval of parents and teachers concerning facts proposed for +girls. Often when talking with groups of parents I have heard them say +that they would like to have their boys learn the scientific truth +regarding certain facts, but they feel that it would be too startling +and unnecessary for their daughters. Such is the widespread feeling +which must be seriously considered in all planning of advanced +sex-instruction for girls. No doubt there will be much honest +disagreement with the suggestions here offered. + +The biological introduction based on plants and animals should be the +same as for boys (Sec. 27). + +[Sidenote: Structure and names.] + +An adolescent girl of fourteen to sixteen should know the general plan +of her own sexual structure. She should know the scientific names of +her organs, not because there are many vulgar names as in the case of +boys, but because dignified names help attitude. Ovaries, uterus +(womb), vagina, Fallopian tubes, and vulva will be sufficient. Detailed +description of the external organs (vulva) might arouse curiosity that +leads to exploration and irritation, and hence many women physicians +think that a girl under sixteen or possibly eighteen needs only the +name vulva for the external parts surrounding the entrance to the +vagina. + +[Sidenote: An ancient belief.] + +Some books for girls perpetuate the ancient but absurd emphasis on the +virginal significance of the hymen; and a recent book from a prominent +publisher goes so far as to try to frighten girls into remaining chaste +by stating that a physician could discover if they have been unchaste. +This is far from being always true, for the structure may be +congenitally absent, may sometimes remain after sexual union, or may be +accidentally destroyed in childhood; and reliable physicians have +stated that proving unchastity by the hymen is by no means easy. Hence, +the less said about the ancient belief, the better for young women. The +truth is that the hymen is a worse-than-useless relic of embryological +development, and it is neither an indicator nor a dictator of morality. + +[Sidenote: Physiology of women.] + +With regard to the physiology of the female organs, the following +topics should be considered: The meaning of puberty as the beginning of +a long fertile period of about thirty years; the nature of menstruation +as a periodical process preparing the lining of the uterus for +reception and attachment of an embryo if a sperm-cell meets a liberated +egg-cell near an ovary, and not as a season of illness invented by the +powers of darkness; the possibility of fertilization following sexual +relations at any time during the fertile life of a woman; the essential +facts of sexual relation as a method of depositing sperm-cells so that +they can swim on the way to meet an egg-cell; and the nature of the +close blood relationship of mother and embryo. These are physiological +topics which many parents would like to have taught to their daughters +of fourteen to eighteen by some careful woman or by some good book. + +[Sidenote: Social ills.] + +With regard to the social diseases and the social evil, I have long +sympathized with the conservatives who hold that extremely limited +knowledge is sufficient for the average girl under eighteen or twenty. +No doubt that many working girls in cities need more protective +knowledge than do school girls of the same age. Hall's "Life Problems" +seems to me to give the important facts. + +[Sidenote: Habits.] + +As in the case of boys of adolescent years, there should be enough +teaching to warn against harmful habits. Such knowledge may possibly be +of personal application to a few girls and it will be of use to many +girls who will later as mothers or teachers have the care of small +children. + +[Sidenote: Knowledge concerning men.] + +I find that many thoughtful mothers and women physicians think that +girls in late adolescent years should learn from some reliable source +the most general facts regarding male structure and function. Here +again the strong argument is that the majority will have the care of +small children. Such instruction has often been given as part of +courses in biology and physiology and also in special lectures. It is +certain that some parents will favor such instruction, and others will +regard it as indecent to suggest that girls should have any such +knowledge. There will always be some parents who will let their +daughters face life-problems blindly. + +[Sidenote: Mothercraft.] + +Sometime in adolescent years girls should learn the scientific facts +regarding mothercraft or the care of small children. This phase of the +sex-education is rapidly attracting attention from those who are +interested in practical arts education, and before many years pass it +will probably be treated adequately in connection with household arts +in schools and colleges. I have already referred to household arts in +general as making a decided contribution to the larger sex-education +which works for harmonious adjustment of the sexes in the home. + +FOOTNOTES: + +[14] Both books by M.A. and Anna N. Bigelow. + +[15] Sets of drawings and lantern slides for the biological +introduction to sex may be obtained from the American Social Hygiene +Association, 105 W. 40th St., New York City. + +[16] The instructor of young men should not allow confusion to arise +from the recent contention of some medical men that emissions are +abnormal or unnatural because they are not known to occur in animals. +Certain it is that they are adaptations to changes caused by enforced +sexual restraint after the seminal secretions begin with puberty. Such +restraint is, of course, abnormal or unnatural if we compare with +animals; but many of our acts are unnatural and not necessarily +unhealthful. For instance, the sedentary life of the student or +professional worker is abnormal or unnatural, but it need not be +unhealthful, if hygienic adaptations are made. Likewise, seminal +emissions are unnatural for primitive men or animals without sexual +restraint, but this does not mean that they are unhealthful for +self-controlled men. Here, as in many other cases, comparison with +animals is misleading and does not teach us useful facts concerning +human sexual functioning. The truth is that physicians have no +evidence of harm from emissions that are not caused by voluntary +activity. + + + + +VIII + +SPECIAL SEX-INSTRUCTION FOR ADOLESCENT BOYS AND YOUNG MEN + + +[Sidenote: Methods and teachers.] + +In this lecture I shall discuss a number of problems in the relations +of men to women which ought somehow to be made clear to boys who are in +transition to manhood. I can do little more than point out the lines +along which it is desirable that young men should be informed and +influenced; for I confess that I do not know any guaranteed pedagogical +method for teaching along these lines. So far as I can now see, it +seems to me that a good beginning would consist in getting the best +ideas before young men by lectures, books, and personal conversations. +Here more than in any other phase of sex-education the influence of +personality is of great importance. Many an ordinary teacher or +lecturer may well present the cold facts of biological science that +help interpret sex, but one who does not by his personal qualities +command the entire confidence of his hearers is worse than useless in +presenting to young men such problems as those outlined in this lecture +under the following subheadings: Developing young men's attitude +towards womanhood; developing ideals of love and marriage; reasons for +pre-marital continence; essential knowledge concerning prostitution; +need of more refinement in men; dancing as a sex problem for men; dress +as a sexual appeal; the problem of self-control; the mental side of a +young man's sex life. + + +Sec. 30. _Developing Attitude towards Womanhood_ + +[Sidenote: Influence of ideals.] + +Many there are among the believers in the larger sex-education who feel +sure that a young man's greatest safety lies in having high ideals of +womanhood. I have known a number of men who passed unscathed through +the storm and stress of early manhood because each of them could say, +as Tennyson makes the lover confess to Princess Ida, "from earlier than +I know, immersed in rich foreshadowings of the world, I loved the +woman." Some of these men learned to love "the woman" in the abstract, +in the dream world, perhaps as the "brushwood girl" of Kipling. Others +first loved "the woman" through boyhood sweethearts. Still others came +to love her through mothers who inspired them with reverence for +womanhood and motherhood. + + ..."Happy he + With such a mother! faith in womankind + Beats with his blood, and trust in all things high comes easy + to him." + (Tennyson) + +But it matters little for the future purity of the boy on the threshold +of manhood whether he has learned to love "the woman" in the dreamland +of youth or in the very real world of life. It is simply a question of +the intensity of the devotion and of the loftiness of the ideals which +She has aroused within him. + +[Sidenote: Who may influence boys.] + +Now, we of the older generation, who as parents and teachers are +largely the makers of the boy's view of life, may play a very important +part in developing in him a love for "the woman," a reverence for +womanhood. The greatest opportunity falls to the lot of that mother +whose natural gifts and education adapt her for impressing her son +profoundly with appreciation of womanhood. The next greatest +opportunity comes to the woman who as an instructor in school, church, +or other institution comes into intimate relations that sometimes give +the teacher greater influence than the mother is able or willing to +exert. Finally, we must not discount the value of men's cooperation in +this problem, for many a boy's attitude towards women is largely the +reflection of what he has seen in his father and in other men, +particularly in his teachers both secular and religious. + +Now, while the direct influence of personality is most important in +this problem of developing a young man's attitude towards women, +organized educational effort should not be neglected. It is important +that both men and women help by encouraging young men to read good +literature that unobtrusively tends to introduce them to the best in +womanhood (see Sec. 23); and by discussing with them, as opportunity +offers, the higher ideals of the relationships between men and women. + + +Sec. 31. _Developing Ideals of Love and Marriage_ + +Closely associated with high ideals of womanhood is necessarily a pure +understanding of love, even in its physical basis. While preparing this +lecture I discovered that James Oliphant (in the _International Journal +of Ethics_, Vol. 9, pp. 288-289, 1898) has well expressed some of the +views that in a more or less unformulated shape have been in my mind +for years. + +[Sidenote: Ideals of love in art.] + + "If the true preparation for love and marriage is, as I hold it to + be, to learn to associate physical passion with the higher + emotions developed by social sympathy--with a single-hearted + devotion that demands courage, and self-sacrifice and considerate + forethought and tenderness; if we wish to bind all these qualities + together in the imagination of the young and clothe the conception + with every attribute of beauty that fancy can devise, how can we + forego the precious opportunities that lie to our hand in the + persuasive witchery of art? The power that may be exercised in the + formation of character by the presentment of ideal types is as yet + very imperfectly utilized. Love is _par excellence_ the theme of + the artist, and young people will soon find this out for + themselves; but there is a wide difference in the degrees of + idealization, and, while we concern ourselves to exclude the + grosser forms, we neglect the only effective means of + accomplishing this, namely, the persistent presentation of the + sentiment in its noblest examples. It is the prevalent idea that + the longer we can keep all notions of love, even in its romantic + guise, out of children's heads, the better it will be for them. + Surely it would be a wiser policy to fill their minds as soon as + they are able to receive them, with the creations of art in which + love is represented in its sublimest aspects. The youth who is + familiar with the love-stories of Shakespeare, and George Eliot, + and Meredith, will suffer little harm from the gilded sensualism + of the Restoration drama. Let us hasten to implant the images of + beauty that will keep the soul sweet and wholesome, and free from + the taint of any later influences, however sordid these may be." + +In the lecture on marriage as offering one of the problems for the +larger sex-education (Sec. 12) and in the reference to general literature +in Sec. 23, I have called attention to literature which will be suggestive +and useful to those who are considering the young man's attitude +towards love and marriage. + + +Sec. 32. _Reasons for Pre-marital Continence of Men_ + +Recognizing the fact that moral considerations fail to reach many +people, the following points should be emphasized in trying to show +young men practical reasons why they should avoid pre-marital sexual +relations. + +[Sidenote: Continence and health.] + +(1) Young men ought to know that many eminent physicians and +physiologists agree that it has not been proved that continence injures +the health of men who make an effort to avoid sexual temptations. +Physicians of the highest standing never advise extra-marital or +immoral relations, for they are far more likely to injure health than +to improve it, and they surely injure character and reputation. On +this question of continence young men should read such pamphlets as +"Sexual Necessity" by Howell and Keyes; "The Young Man's Problem" and +"Health and Hygiene of Sex" by Morrow; "The Physician's Answer" and +"The Rational Sex Life for Men" by Exner.[17] Also, see pp. 183-190 in +Geddes and Thomson's "Sex." + +Dr. Exner's "Physician's Answer" is based on the following declaration +which was signed by about three hundred of the foremost physicians of +America: + + "In view of the individual and social dangers which spring from + the widespread belief that continence may be detrimental to + health, and of the fact that municipal toleration of prostitution + is sometimes defended on the ground that sexual indulgence is + necessary, we, the undersigned, members of the medical profession, + testify to our belief that continence has not been shown to be + detrimental to health or virility; that there is no evidence of + its being inconsistent with the highest physical, mental, and + moral efficiency; and that it offers the only sure reliance for + sexual health outside of marriage." + +[Sidenote: Psychical results of incontinence.] + +(2) It ought to be significant to young men that many men who are now +in the thirties or forties look back upon their youthful errors with +profound regret. Many such men testify that unforgettable immoral +experiences keep them from reaching the heights of love with their +wives. One of my friends, a well-known physician, recently met in his +office within two or three months seven men of high standing who are +now happily married, but who feel that conjugal life is short of its +full aesthetic possibilities because of the ever-present remembrance of +early sexual mistakes. + +[Sidenote: Physical results.] + +(3) While the above refers to the psychical effect of youthful errors, +young men should learn that there is also a physical side to the same +problem. Eminent physicians assert that many men have completely and +permanently destroyed their sexual functions by extensive dissipations, +either by masturbation or by natural relations; and that very many more +have injured themselves so that perfection of the physical basis of +love and marriage is impossible. + +[Sidenote: Possible diseases.] + +(4) The probability of venereal infection by pre-marital relations and +the danger of transmission to innocent wives and children should be +presented to all young men as a strong ethical appeal for continence +(see Sec. 7). + +[Sidenote: Purity for purity.] + +(5) The "fair play" or "square deal" appeal to young men should be +based on the fact that most for young men who are unchaste demand +purity of the girls they claim as sisters, friends, or sweethearts; and +yet they help drag down other women. An honorable man should be willing +to play fairly and give purity for purity. + +[Sidenote: Responsibility.] + +(6) The grave responsibility of young men whose unchastity is connected +with illegitimacy or with the organized social evil should be made a +strong point in appeals for pre-marital abstinence. + +[Sidenote: Sexuality and affection.] + +(7) Young men should be impressed with the idea that their sexual +functions should be held sacred to affection; in other words, that +sexual union is moral only as love interchange. In so far as young men +may be led to this interpretation of the relation of sexuality to the +best conceptions of life, there will be no danger of prostitution and +there will be a guarantee of marriages that give completeness to +affection. The men who are safeguarded against unchastity are those who +have learned to think of love and marriage and sexual functioning as +interdependent and coincident elements in the great drama of life and +who feel the impossibility of their personal interest in marriage +without love or in sexual union except as expression of deep affection. +Such men are by no means as rare as the sensational reports of the +social evil lead many people to believe. + +[Sidenote: Some men beyond appeal.] + +I realize that all these seven reasons for continence will fail with +that large group of young men who have persuaded themselves that they +will never marry and thus they shake off all responsibility such as +appeals to the man who looks forward to love that culminates in +marriage. No one has yet suggested any line of appeal to the men who +are physically or psychically or morally so abnormal that they have no +interest in the possibility of marriage; but fortunately such +individuals constitute an insignificant minority. + + +Sec. 33. _Essential Knowledge Concerning Prostitution_ + +[Sidenote: Safeguarding boys.] + +(1) The adolescent boy should be safeguarded by the knowledge that in +every city and in most towns there are women who for financial gain are +constantly seeking to entice young men into immoral sexual relations; +and that many unwary men are involuntarily entrapped, especially when +influenced by alcohol. + +[Sidenote: Prostitution a business.] + +(2) The young man should know that the selling of woman's virtue is an +organized business known as "prostitution" or "the social evil," words +which stand for indescribable degradation and degeneracy that no beast +could possibly imitate. Moreover, the young man should be informed that +all immorality is not prostitution, but that most of the immoral +relations of men are purchased directly or indirectly by money or its +equivalent. + +[Sidenote: Some causes of prostitution.] + +(3) The young man should know that the great majority of prostitutes do +not willingly undertake the shameful business of selling their virtue. +He should know that the majority have gone downward for such reasons as +follows: Many a woman has been betrayed by some detestable man who +pretended to love her. Poverty has forced many other women to the +first downward step. Many are easy victims because they belong to the +feeble-minded class. Others have been driven into immoral life by +parents and even husbands. Still others have been drugged, and raped +while insensible. A limited number have begun prostitution as "white +slaves" kept as prisoners until all hope of a better life has vanished. +A few have deliberately begun to accept the attentions of lewd men in +order to get money for luxurious dress and finery. And relatively very +few have started downward because of sexual passion such as commonly +influences men. In short, every young man should be informed that most +women living by prostitution have begun innocently or unwillingly; but +having made one false step, society has shunned them, even near +relatives have cast them off, and a career of prostitution has appeared +the only way of making a living, vulgar and unspeakably sordid though +it be. It is evident that the responsibility for prostitution rests +almost entirely upon men. Unfortunately, society does not recognize +this fact and has no way of dealing legally with both men and women +found associated in houses of prostitution. At present the women +arrested for prostitution are treated as criminals, while their male +associates in vice are allowed to depart as if they were respectable +citizens. + +[Sidenote: Appeal to men.] + +Tell young men these facts as to why women become prostitutes. Help +them to realize that most of these women are pitiful victims of man's +worse than brutal sexual passions. Then add the astounding fact that +very many of the women of the underworld have short lives, their health +being undermined rapidly by dissipation, by alcohol used to bury their +shame or to stimulate their flagging energies, and by the two loathsome +diseases, gonorrhea and syphilis, which relatively few prostitutes +escape--tell young men such facts which eminent physicians and +sociologists have often verified, and there are good chances of +striking sympathetic notes in their young manhood. + +[Sidenote: Danger of social disease.] + +(4) And there is one other line of facts concerning prostitution that +the developing young man should know well, namely, that every +prostitute is likely at any time to be infected with the social +diseases, and that no ordinary medical examination can prove that she +will not transmit these awful diseases to men who consort with her. In +fact, within an hour after most careful medical examination she may +become infected by some diseased man, and then she is capable of +inoculating other men. Such facts, for which the greatest of special +physicians vouch, will eradicate from the young man's mind the +widespread notions that prostitutes are safe if they carry a +physician's certificate, or one of the official cards given in some +European cities. Many a young man of sixteen to twenty has not heard +that prostitutes as a class are universally dangerous as distributors +of the most terrible diseases, and his education is incomplete until he +knows the exact truth from reliable sources. + +[Sidenote: Limited reading.] + +(5) It is not desirable that the young man should be set to read the +numerous books packed with more or less sensational reports on the +social evil, for these may sometimes tend toward morbidity. Any young +man who is not effectively appealed to by the above facts will not be +influenced by the most voluminous reports on prostitution ever +published. Such reports are not useful for young men. They serve a good +purpose by informing mature men and women and awakening them to the +necessity of legislation, education, and other weapons with which we +may fight the great black plague of social vice. For the average young +man the books recommended in Sec. 8 will give sufficient information and +viewpoint. + +[Sidenote: Liaisons.] + +(6) Finally, the young man of adolescent years should be made to +understand his responsibility for immorality that is not prostitution, +that is, extra-marital relations with his girl friends and without +pecuniary considerations. He should know the probability that he will +ruin a girl's life, either because illegitimacy occurs or because her +reputation suffers. Even if such immoral liaisons are kept private, +both persons concerned are likely in after years to regret their +illicit intimacy, especially if either marries another person. + + +Sec. 34. _Need of More Refinement in Men_ + +While refinement is a part of general culture, it is beyond doubt an +important phase of the problems for the larger sex-education. +Elsewhere I have referred to the need of better understanding and +better adjustment between men and women, especially in marriage. +Towards such a desideratum refinement of men will contribute immensely. +Many cultured women avoid marriage and many are unhappy in marriage +because men, sometimes even educated men, lack refinement in manners, +language, and personal habits. In fact, "lack of refinement" is +altogether too mild an expression, for many men are positively crude in +manners, coarse and vulgar in language, and disgusting in personal +habits. + +[Sidenote: Manners and chivalry.] + +In referring to manners, I am including not only the thousand and one +little customs of everyday life among refined people, but also +chivalric attitude towards all women. The world has changed vastly +since knighthood was in flower, but many men of to-day might well take +lessons in the art of courtesy to women as practiced by the famous +knights of the age of chivalry. This problem of manners will be an +increasingly important one, for here in America there is growing up a +generation of boys who are far from chivalrous even to their mothers +and sisters; and at the same time, the industrial competition and daily +association of the two sexes is making young men realize that women are +simply human beings and not super beings. + +[Sidenote: Language.] + +With regard to language, I am thinking not so much of the general need +of speech that is grammatically, rhetorically, and vocally polished, +which no doubt determines many a woman's estimate of a man, as I have +in mind the repelling effect upon sensitive women of language that is +coarse, vulgar, and profane. Hence, quite apart from the effect of low +language on character, I believe it worth while to work for refinement +of language of young men. + +[Sidenote: Personal habits.] + +And now with reference to personal habits, including cleanliness and +refinement of actions, the average women of all classes set splendid +examples for men of the same groups. It seems scarcely necessary to +explain in detail concerning unclean personal habits and vulgar +actions. It requires no keen observer to find plenty of examples. Those +who have the training of boys should lose no opportunity to impress +them with the importance of refinement, and especially in all phases of +their home life. It is in the most intimate life of the home that +refinement of personal habits of husbands may mean much to sensitive +wives. + + +Sec. 35. _Dancing as a Sex Problem for Young Men_ + +[Sidenote: Dancing not to be eliminated.] + +It is more than useless to discuss the question whether dancing ought +to be eliminated from the social life of young people, for it has +physical, social, and aesthetic or dramatic values which will make +dancing in some form or other coextensive with human life. + +[Sidenote: Young people and dancing.] + +Those who deal with adolescent boys and girls ought to have some +understanding of the facts for and against dancing as it may influence +the sexual control of young people, men especially. It is no longer +sufficient to say, even to the young members of certain religious +denominations, that "good people must not dance because it is wicked," +for in this doubting age young people will ask first what we mean by +the word "wicked" and then for proof that dancing is wicked. The time +has come when young people must be shown the scientific reasons if we +want them to avoid dancing or to dance with certain approved movements. + +[Sidenote: Dancing a sexual stimulant.] + +It seems to be an accepted opinion among physiologists that dancing of +any of the types that involve more or less closeness of contact between +men and women in pairs is likely to lead to sexual stimulation that at +times may be consciously recognized by normal men, but probably is not +identified other than as general excitement by most women. + +[Sidenote: Danger no reason for condemning dancing.] + +The frank admission that dancing may sometimes stimulate sexual +emotions is no condemnation of dancing, as many writers seem to think. +We must know first whether such emotions lead to good or harm. Sexual +emotions are not in themselves wrong from any except a strictly aescetic +point of view. The fact that most intelligent men who in general are +frankly truthful confess that dancing may sometimes arouse sexual +emotion simply raises the question whether such emotions lead directly +to immoral relations with women or whether they lead, as does the best +social life of men and women together, to a higher aesthetic +appreciation of life as it involves the relations of the two sexes. +After discussing this with many--yes, with more than a hundred--men and +women, I am now convinced that dancing may have both results, depending +upon the individuals. Dancing, then, has its dangers, but so have many +other things that go to make up the most complete life. Eating may lead +to gluttony, mountain-climbing may lead to a broken neck, swimming to +drowning, music and art to sensuality, and even love is not without +danger of bestial degradation. Life is full of dangers and we are +constantly striving to reduce them to a minimum. So we must refuse to +condemn dancing because of its admitted sexual dangers for young +people, unless it can be shown that the danger is so great and so +unconquerable as to outweigh all the physical, social, and aesthetic +considerations in favor of the pastime. + +[Sidenote: Dancing and immorality.] + +That dancing is a strong incentive to immorality is contended by many +writers. A prominent physiologist has said that "the dance is the +devil's procession so far as the young man is concerned." Others have +pointed to the immorality that is connected with the dance halls, and +to the fact that waves of immorality of young men have often followed +the annual balls given in some high schools and colleges. Contrary to +the view which I formerly held, I am now inclined to think that it is +not fair to charge such immoral tendencies entirely to dancing, and +therefore condemn all dancing as immoral. It is no secret of sociology +that similar epidemics of immorality have been known to occur in +connection with Sunday-school picnics, camp meetings, expositions, +political and other conventions, and religious revivals. Shall we +condemn all these along with dancing on the ground that they lead to +immorality? We say "no" because immorality is only an incident, not a +result in these cases. Likewise, I believe that dancing is but one of +several factors that have led to immorality at the time of annual balls +in high school and college. These are times of general tendency towards +dissipation. Regular duties are cast aside, all the hygienic rules for +eating and sleeping are broken, there is unusual freedom of speech and +manners, available alcohol is freely used, emotions and not reason +rules--these are characteristic of the college festivals that center +around grand balls. In short, at such times there is a general let-down +of usual standards and a swing back towards the barbaric festival of +the ancients. It is not surprising, then, that pent-up sexual instincts +assert their force at such times, and dancing, if it occurs under such +conditions is, of course, likely to increase the danger of moral +collapse because it incites sexual emotions. + +[Sidenote: Regulation of dancing needed.] + +Our conclusion, then, is that it is unscientific to charge dancing with +being the direct cause of immorality, when it has been only one in a +series of events. The facts warrant not condemnation of dancing as +something utterly bad, but rather of allowing dancing to be associated +with conditions that are likely to lead to dissipation and immorality. +Unless some argument other than that arising from the coincidence of +dancing with dissipation and immorality is brought forward, we must +conclude that dancing should be regulated and associated so that the +admitted dangers will be reduced to a minimum. Recognition of the +dangers will lead mature people to see the importance of supervising +and regulating dancing as a phase of the social life of young people. +It will lead to dancing that is improved along social and aesthetic +lines. + +[Sidenote: Self-control necessary.] + +While improvement of dancing will reduce its dangers, it will not +eliminate the problem of self-control for normal young men. They must +learn to understand their own emotions. They should be forewarned that +others have found danger in dancing. They should know that some +strong-willed men have given up dancing when they found that it made +more intense the problem of sexual self-control, both mentally and +physically. They should know the increased danger if dancing is +associated with alcohol, vicious women, immodest dress, extreme freedom +of conduct, and other morally depressing influences. Such knowledge +along with general sex-education will do much to make dancing not only +safe for average young men, but also helpful along social and aesthetic +lines. + +[Sidenote: Extreme dances.] + +With regard to the extreme dances of the past five years, those who are +well informed concerning sexual problems know that many of these dances +which polite society has copied from the dens of the underworld are +vastly more dangerous than the standard dances. + + +Sec. 36. _Dress of Women as a Sex Problem for Men_ + +[Sidenote: Dress and immorality.] + +Some of the students of sex problems assert with great emphasis that +dress is the responsible factor in the sexual immorality of many men. +Accepting the probability that there is some truth in the assertion, +what is the solution of the problem? Should women in general adopt a +style of dress which in lines and color is as repellently ugly as the +official garb of women devotees of certain religious organizations? In +short, should women make their dress decidedly unobtrusive and +unattractive in order that the sexual temptations of _some_ men may be +reduced? The answer must be an emphatic negative. We need more beauty +in this life of ours, and we cannot afford to omit any beauty which +women express in dress. The pity is that economic conditions so often +set a limit to such expression. We must believe in making every +possible application of the beauty of nature and art to human life; and +beautiful dress on all women, and especially beautiful dress on +attractive women, is the most important of such relations of beauty and +life. + +[Sidenote: Dress and sexual appeal.] + +Accepting, then, beauty of dress as worthy of encouragement, what +shall be done about its sexual attractiveness? This is a difficult +question in these days with ever-changing fashions whose novelty makes +extreme modes more dangerously attractive than they would be if +universally adopted for a long term of years. But permanency of extreme +styles or general adaptation of modest ones are absolutely impossible +for the average woman of to-day. Hence, we must look forward to one +extreme style following another. Young men must face the problem and +fight their own battles. Like certain widespread diseases, there is +constant danger of infection, and the only hope for young men is in +special education as a kind of protective inoculation against +temptation. This means that young men should be taught to see beauty in +woman's form, face, and dress without allowing themselves to get into +habits of sensual or physical emotions. Of course, for the normal young +man there is sure to be more or less consciousness of emotions +stimulated by the beautiful associated with women, but the individual +man may train himself to turn such emotions into aesthetic or psychical +lines instead of into those which are sensual, animalistic, or +physical. In this connection, I have long been of the opinion that +training in art appreciation, especially of sculpture, may help many +men to an aesthetic attitude towards the human form. + +It is well known that beauty of woman's face or form or dress has +sometimes led men into immorality; but I often wonder whether such men +of weak control would not have fallen sooner or later at the command +of some other form of stimulation. At any rate, such men do not lead us +to general conclusions, for there are many more men who have been led +upward and not downward by the combined beauty of form, face, and dress +of women. + +[Sidenote: Duty of women.] + +While we refuse to excuse men who allow the sexual suggestiveness of +women's dress to overcome their self-control, we should at the same +time recognize that women have themselves to blame for much of the +existing situation. I believe it is true that the average woman does +not understand how dress that makes unusual exposure of the body may +make a sexual appeal to men; but there is no such innocence on the part +of the demi-mondes by whom many of the most dangerous styles are +introduced. Perhaps women of intelligence and good standing may some +day come to realize their responsibility for wearing clothing that +means unusual temptation for men. However, this seems Utopian in these +years when even women of the best groups are wearing equivocal dress; +and so men must learn to fight their own battles against natural +instincts stirred to greater intensity by dress invented to increase +the trade of the women of the underworld. + + +Sec. 37. _The Problem of Self-control for Young Men_ + +[Sidenote: Difference between sexes.] + +[Sidenote: Automatic arousing of boys' instincts.] + +The problem of control of the insistent passions of normal young men +has been unscientifically minimized by numerous writers and lecturers. +It should be noted that many of these are men who have long since +forgotten the storms and stresses of their early manhood, and others +are women who do not know the facts indicating that the sexual +instincts young men are characteristically active, aggressive, +spontaneous, and automatic, while those of women _as a rule_ are +passive and subject to awakening by external stimuli, especially in +connection with affection. Such forgetful men and uninformed women are +prone to regard the lack of control of many young men as simply due to +"original sin," "innate viciousness," "bad companions," or +"irresistible temptations"; and they overlook the great fact that +maintaining perfect sexual control in his pre-marital years is for the +average healthy young man a problem compared with which all others, +including the alcoholic temptation, are of little significance. Such +being the truth about young men, nothing is to be gained and much is to +be lost if older people fail to take an understanding and sympathetic +attitude. I question whether any young man has ever been helped through +his adolescent crises by such oft-repeated assertions as that "there is +no more reason that a young man should go astray than that his sister +should," or, in other words, that "continence is as easy for a young +man as for a girl of similar age." An observing young man will doubt +such statements, and if he has had access to scientific information, he +will feel sure that there has been an attempt to influence him by the +kind of exaggeration commonly adopted by specialists in moral +preachments. The plain truth is that there is a physiological "reason" +or explanation, although not a justification for failure of +self-control. Even if we accept the improbable statement of some +writers that boys and girls are in early adolescence potentially equal +in sexual instincts and assuming that they may be protected equally +against vicious habits, we must not forget that every normal boy passes +in early puberty through peculiar physiological changes that arouse his +deepest instincts. I refer especially to the frequent occurrence of +involuntary sexual tumescence and to the occasional nocturnal +emissions, which processes leave the boy in no doubt whatever as to the +nature, source, and desirability of sexual pleasure. Especially is this +true of the automatic emissions that usually follow continence of +healthy young men, for in connection with such relief of seminal +pressure every nerve center of the sexual mechanism seems to be +involved in the culminating nerve storm of which the awakening +individual is often quite pleasurably conscious. In short, as men +looking backward to their early manhood well understand, the physical +sensations that come into the normal sexual experience of the +adolescent boy are different only in degree of intensity from those +which later are concomitants of sexual union. Such, in brief, is the +physiological history of the normal adolescent boy, and one who has +fallen into even most limited masturbation will probably be still more +conscious of the fact that the ordinary sequence of events in the +activity of the sexual organs leads to intense excitement that has +almost irresistible attractiveness. + +[Sidenote: Average young women different.] + +Now, most scientifically-trained women seem to agree that there are no +corresponding phenomena in the early pubertal life of the normal young +woman who has good health. A limited number of mature women, some of +them physicians, report having experienced in the pubertal years +localized tumescence and other disturbances which made them definitely +conscious of sexual instincts. However, it should be noted that most of +these are known to have had a personal history including one or more +such abnormalities as dysmenorrhea, uterine displacement, pathological +ovaries, leucorrhea, tuberculosis, masturbation, neurasthenia, +nymphomania, or other disturbances which are sufficient to account for +local sexual stimulation. In short, such women are not normal. Such +facts have led many physicians to the generalization that the average +healthy adolescent girl does not undergo normal spontaneous changes +which make her definitely conscious of the nature, source, and +desirability of localized sexual pleasure. On the contrary, such +consciousness commonly comes to many only as the result of stimuli +arising in connection with affection.[18] Clearly it is nonsense to +claim that the sexual temptations arising within the individual are +equal for the two sexes. Potentially, girls may have passions as strong +as boys, but they do not become so definitely and spontaneously +conscious of their latent instincts. + +[Sidenote: Helping the young man.] + +Thus considering the available facts regarding the physiological +reasons for the sexual tendencies of men, it seems to me that we gain +nothing in trying to minimize the young man's sexual problems, for he +is quite conscious that they are insistent. Far better it is that +mature men who know life in its completeness should make the young man +feel that his problems are not new, not insignificant, and that many +another man has met and solved them in such a way as to make life more +full of real happiness. Such sympathetic helpfulness will mean +something to a young man, but he cannot be led far by one who in his +own early experience has not learned both the strength and the mastery +of the sexual instincts. + +[Sidenote: Women should know.] + +In another lecture I have discussed the proposition that it would be +better for all concerned if women could have scientific understanding +of the physiological facts concerning the sexual tendencies of men, not +to make women more lenient or forgiving towards the mistakes of men, +but rather to enable women to play an important part in the necessary +adjustments through helpful comradeship. This last phrase will mean +nothing to many people, but in many a modern home a well-informed wife +has been able to lead the way to the satisfactory solution of the +fundamental problems of life. + +[Sidenote: Self-control in marriage.] + +There is another and an all-important phase of the problem of teaching +self-control which is commonly overlooked by those who are trying to +help young men solve their greatest problems. I have in mind the need +of self-control in marriage. Most writers and lecturers who emphasize +the arguments for absolute self-control or continence before marriage, +omit all reference to marital life. The natural inference, and one +widely followed, is that the only moral duty of a young man is to +control his intense desires and avoid illicit relations until sexual +abandon is permitted under the license of the law and the benediction +of the church. Such, I submit, is a fair conclusion for young men to +draw from at least ninety per cent of the sex-education literature that +is current to-day. + +Now, I believe this is all wrong. In fact, I am so radical as to +believe that the intelligent women of the world would gain more from +temperance and unselfishness and delicacy of men in sexual functioning +in marriage than from sexual continence before marriage. Of course, I +do not propose that ideal sexual conditions in marriage may justify +pre-marital incontinence, but I make this sharp contrast simply to +emphasize the belief that sexual intemperance and selfishness of men in +marriage causes more mental and physical suffering of women than does +sexual incontinence of men before marriage, and I am not forgetting the +vast problem of social diseases and prostitution. + +I urge, then, that those who attempt to direct young men through the +mazes of sexual life should hold up ideals not only of pre-marital +continence, but also of post-nuptial temperance and harmonious +adjustment between husband and wife. This post-nuptial problem is far +more difficult to solve, for the intimacy of married life, especially +in the earlier years, is sure to offer stimuli that are likely to make +sexual instincts more insistent than those that come from celibate +repression. However, self-control and temperance in marriage is no new +and unattainable ideal, and harmonious adjustment of men and women in +marriage is far more common than the pessimists would have us believe. + + +Sec. 38. _The Mental Side of the Young Man's Sexual Life_ + +[Sidenote: Effect of mental imagery.] + +Most of the discussions of the education of young men for moral living +have centered around the problem of keeping him from physical sexual +activity. So far as society is concerned, this is the great +desideratum. So far as the individual life is concerned, it is +important that self-control should extend to mental imagery. Professors +Geddes and Thomson have well said, in "Sex," that "while anatomical +chastity is a moral achievement, it is not the deepest virtue. The +incisive declaration: 'Whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her +hath committed adultery with her already in his heart' expresses an +even more searching standard, and modern science brings home to us the +radical importance of our reflex thought and deep-down impulses, which +appear to bulk largely in molding our lives and the lives of those who +may spring from us." In language adapted to the understanding of +average young men, this idea should be emphasized. + +In the opinion of some physiologists the greatest harm done to the +individual who has long been a victim of masturbation is in the +centering of the attention on imaginary sexual situations. This is +especially true of mental masturbation. Hence, the relation of +masturbation to the possible establishment of a disordered mental state +should be known by adolescent boys and young men. + +[Sidenote: Control of thoughts.] + +It appears from the experience of many men that strenuous work and play +are the only efficient weapons for driving sexual images into the +background of the mind. This applies not only to sordid and lewd +thoughts of unchaste sexual situations, but also to the mental images +that are inevitably associated with the purest affection and which +should be trained to obey when calm reason so orders. + +The following literature will be especially helpful to young men: W.S. +Hall's "Sexual Hygiene for Men," or his "Sexual Knowledge"; Exner's +"The Rational Sex Life for Men"; Morrow's "The Young Man's Problem," +and "Health and Hygiene of Sex for College Students"; King's "Fight for +Character" (Y.M.C.A.); and the chapter on Ethics of Sex in "Sex" by +Geddes and Thomson. + +FOOTNOTES: + +[17] The first three pamphlets are published by the Society of +Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis (New York); the Exner pamphlets by the +Association Press (New York). + +[18] This is really not surprising if we remember the peculiarities of +human instincts mentioned in an earlier lecture (Sec. 3). + + + + +IX + +SPECIAL SEX-INSTRUCTION FOR MATURING YOUNG WOMEN + + +[Sidenote: Parents would limit knowledge of daughters.] + +It was my original plan to make this lecture parallel with the +preceding one for young men, but much discussion with parents and with +scientifically trained women whose suggestions and criticisms I value +has shown me that there is no consensus of opinion as to what should be +taught to young women between eighteen and twenty-two years of age. I +have found many fathers and mothers who think that their boys of +fourteen or fifteen should be informed as suggested in the preceding +lecture; but concerning some of the facts for boys these same parents +were doubtful whether their daughters ought to know before twenty, and +some of them have said twenty-five and even thirty. Some of them have +said that they see no reason why an unmarried young woman of the +protected group should know much more than a very limited amount of +personal hygiene; but most of these people were decidedly hazy as to +how the young woman about to marry may be sure of getting belated +knowledge. In short, all along the line I have found intelligent +parents and others who believe in very thorough sex-instruction for +boys, but that "nice" girls should be kept as ignorant and innocent as +possible. With such disagreement existing, it is evidently not possible +to make such specific recommendations as have been made for boys. + + +Sec. 39. _The Young Woman's Attitude towards Manhood_ + +[Sidenote: Women should have ideals.] + +Among those who agree heartily with the proposition that by education +the young man's attitude towards womanhood (Sec. 30) should be cultivated +I find, to my surprise, many who object to any parallel attempt to +influence young woman's ideals of manhood. I say that I am surprised +because it has long seemed to me that many of the faults of men are +largely traceable to the fact that women as a sex have not been able to +hold a high standard for manhood; and, therefore, I wonder when some +thinking women question the desirability of trying to influence young +women by organized instruction. Of course, we must not forget that +before the coming of the economic and social freedom of women there +were very few of them who were able to maintain a stand for their +ideals of manhood; but this is no longer true in a great and rapidly +increasing group of the individualized and educated classes. Therefore, +it seems clear that if the better groups of women want a higher type of +manhood capable of better adjustment in marriage, it is important that +they consider ways and means of molding the minds of young women with +reference to ideal manhood. + +[Sidenote: Ideals and disappointment.] + +Occasionally I have met a strange view of life in some men and women +who have grown pessimistic from revelations concerning the +sexual-social problems and who think that true manhood is so rare that +emphasizing it with young women will lead to ideals that can rarely be +realized in actual life; and therefore, for women so influenced there +will be increasing discontent and disappointment in marriage or +deliberate celibacy. No doubt this is in part true, as witness the many +highly educated women who have written or said that there seem to be +few attractive marriageable men of their own age. However, it is rare +indeed that such women say that life would have meant more without the +higher education and its resulting ideals that have stood in the way of +marriage such as might be happy for uneducated women. This is in line +with the fact that many cultivated men and women find that education +has given unattained ideals and unsatisfied ambitions and strenuous +life and disappointments, but it is rare that they long for the +care-free and animal-like happiness of the tropical savage. We must +remember that education gives us keener feeling for life's pains, but +it also compensates by giving soul-satisfying appreciation of its joys. +So it seems reasonable to believe that while educating young women to +believe in and demand a higher ideal of manhood in its natural +relations to womanhood will certainly make disappointments more +heart-pressing for some, it will just as surely make realization the +supreme happiness of others. And as adjustment of manhood and womanhood +through the larger sex-education becomes more and more abundant and +more and more perfected, the sum total of human happiness will +increase. + +Looking thus towards the ultimate good, I must refuse to accept the +hopeless and depressing view that all young women should be kept +ignorant of their relation to men and life in order that the absence of +ideals of manhood may protect some women against possible +disappointment by men. + + +Sec. 40. _The Young Woman's Attitude towards Love and Marriage_ + +[Sidenote: Reasons not same as for men.] + +In the preceding lecture to the parents and teachers of young men I +emphasized the importance of developing the young man's ideals of love +and marriage primarily because such ideals have so often helped men +morally in character-formation and character-protection. I feel sure +that this is not the chief reason why the ideals of young women should +be developed along parallel lines. On the contrary, it seems to me that +those representative women are right who think that the first reason +why ideals of young women should be influenced is that there is need of +a radical change in the attitude of a very common type of young women +who are flippant and disrespectful concerning love and marriage, and +whose influence on the morals of men is decidedly bad because they +often give unguided young men their first and strongest impressions +concerning women. A second reason, which is equally applicable to both +sexes, is that advance understanding of the relations of love and +marriage is likely to lead to happy and satisfactory adjustment in +marriage. + +[Sidenote: Men naturally lead in love.] + +Perhaps the flippant and disrespectful attitude concerning affairs of +the heart develops in many young women because they do not consciously +feel in advance of experience the demand for affection which comes so +naturally and spontaneously to many, possibly to all, normal young men +whose views of life have not been artificially twisted. I fully realize +the treacherous nature of the ground on which walks one who tries to +compare the two sexes concerning their relative attitudes towards love, +but certain it is that the novelist's descriptions of men as the +leaders and aggressors in love is not fiction but the common fact of +real life. Man's tendency towards leadership in love is not +scientifically explained by any superficial assumption that established +social conventions have repressed an original spontaneity of women. On +the contrary, there are the best of physiological and psychological +reasons for believing that the social conventions have arisen as an +expression of masculine aggressiveness and natural tendency towards +leadership in affairs of the heart. The accepted fact is that many +young women have no understanding of or demand for affection until +experience has taught them its place in life. In the records of real +life, as well as in fiction, many a young woman's possibilities of +happiness have been lost because she did not understand herself when +love came into her experience. + +[Sidenote: Affection in marriage.] + +Another side to the problem of the young woman's relation to love and +marriage is brought to our attention by the lamentable fact that many +wives lose interest in devoted husbands when the children come. This is +probably true in at least half the families; and many matrimonial +disharmonies are the result. This is really one of the greatest +problems of marriage which cultured women should consider seriously; +for even more than in most other sex problems, it is one for the +solution of which women are in a position to take the leading part. +This problem is especially important in these days when the household +inefficiency, personal extravagance, and desire for social position of +numerous young women of eighteen to thirty are having an enormous +influence in advancing the age of marriage because many of the best +types of young men pause and consider seriously the impossibility of +adjusting a small salary to the ideas of their women friends as to what +is the minimum of a family budget. Add to such facts a growing +pessimism of young men regarding inconstant affections of wives with +children, and the need of special educational attack is evident. + +[Sidenote: The duty of parents.] + +From whatever side we look at the question whether the larger +sex-education should somehow try to mold the ideals of young women +with regard to love and marriage, we see reasons why parents should +encourage their maturing daughters to get some advance understanding of +such relation. If parents are themselves unable to help their daughters +to this understanding, they can at least exert great influence by their +own attitude, and they can approve the reading of books, and perhaps +there may be opportunity for hearing lectures by women who understand +life. + +[Sidenote: Books.] + +With regard to good literature that will help in this line, there are +chapters in many of the books mentioned at the end of this lecture, and +in more or less indirect form in the general literature suggested in +the preceding lectures concerning young men, and in Sec. 12 which deals +with the general educational problem of marriage. + + +Sec. 41. _Reasons for Pre-marital Continence of Women_ + +[Sidenote: Many women do not need reasons.] + +Many women who have lived protected lives have declared themselves +unable to understand why a young woman should need reasons for +pre-marital continence; and these women are probably right so far as +the great majority of the daughters of families in good social +conditions are concerned. As pointed out in earlier lectures, there is +abundant evidence that the average adolescent girl who is protected +against external sexual stimuli and influenced constantly by the +prevailing ideals which demand chastity of women, is not likely to need +any arguments why she should avoid pre-marital incontinence. Moreover, +there seems to be little danger that the average girl with good social +environment will ever question her ideals of chastity unless under the +stress of overwhelming affection; in other words, there is little +possibility that such women will be interested in the strictly +mechanical, non-affectionate, and unsentimental sexual relations which +must inevitably characterize the common prostitution of men. + +[Sidenote: Unprotected girls.] + +Note that I am referring to the average young woman in good social +environment, and for the moment omitting the vast class of so-called +"unprotected" girls. Moreover, I am speaking of the "average," and I am +not forgetting that medical journals and books record many exceptions. +Nevertheless, we must not be misled by medical literature, for +naturally the physician sees the women whose lack of health leads them +to seek professional advice, and it is well known that in sexual lines +women commonly become decidedly unhealthy before they consult +physicians. As testimony concerning the average normal women, I have +the greatest confidence in the statements of thoughtful women with +sound scientific attitude; and such are my authority for the view that +maintaining pre-marital continence is not one of the serious problems +for the average young woman with good domestic and social environment. + +Now, while I admit in advance that the problem of pre-marital +continence is not of great significance in the personal lives of the +great majority of the type of women who are likely to hear or read this +lecture, I do believe that this is the type of women who ought to think +over the problem as it concerns the atypical girl of good social groups +and the "unprotected" girl of more unfortunate groups. I cannot see, +therefore, why it is not best and safest that all girls should learn +from parents or reliable books or teachers the main reasons for +pre-marital chastity. + +[Sidenote: The girl who needs help.] + +The atypical girls of good social groups who need guidance regarding +pre-marital continence are of two types: either one with intensive +sexuality which is often modifiable by medical or surgical treatment; +or one of probably normal instincts but with radical sexual philosophy. +The first type needs not only emphatic instruction regarding +continence, but more often medical help, either for general health or +for correction of localized sexual disturbance. The second type must be +treated exactly as suggested for young men, because they are the women +whose anarchistic repudiation of laws and convention in general has led +to their acceptance of a _single_ standard of morality for men and +women, but one of freedom from monogamic ideals. This type of women, +long well known in the student groups of Paris and in Russian +universities, is becoming more and more evident in America, especially +among some well-educated young women who have dropped their ideals of +chastity because they have found attractiveness in more or less +superficial studies of radical socialism. Many of these radical women +frankly say that they would like to marry the "right man," but failing +to find that rare species, they claim their right to sexual freedom in +more or less capricious liaisons. Others of these women are so highly +individualized that marriage is beneath their contempt, either because +it will "interfere with a career" or because the legal aspects and +ecclesiastical ceremonies still suggest the old-time subjection of the +wife to the husband. Women who are in a position to know from personal +knowledge of radical people declare that there are still relatively few +educated women who deliberately cut loose from monogamic standards; and +that they are most commonly found among certain intimate and +unconventional groups of students and professional workers, especially +those who are united in "Bohemian life" by artistic or literary +interests. But while such sexually anarchistic women are not common in +America, there is reason for fearing that, unless some unexpected check +comes to this undercurrent towards sexual freedom, it may be found ten +or twenty years hence that a surprisingly large number, but _never a +majority_, of unmarried young women have fallen into the sexual +promiscuity that is so common among unmarried men of the same ages. + +[Sidenote: Radical sex literature.] + +Chief of the influences that lead a certain number of well-educated +young women towards sexual freedom is radical printed matter. We are +now getting in America a wide distribution of bold literature of the +"free love" type, some of it with a scientific superficiality that +will convince many beginners in the study of sexual problems. Much of +this literature is translation or adaptation of books and articles by +European authors; and I have previously remarked that abroad the ideals +of sexual morality--and judging from the Great War, of morality in +other lines--is frankly quite different from that upheld here. But some +of this radical literature is American in origin. In addition to +certain books and pamphlets, which might be advertised by giving names, +I think of two New York medical journals, with a popular circulation, +edited by a successful but much criticized physician, which rarely +publish an issue without frank approval and even arguments for +extra-marital relations other than prostitution, particularly for those +who for one reason or another, unwelcome or voluntary, are leading +celibate lives. The influence of such writings on young women who are +inclined towards radicalism in all things is probably enormous, and it +is unfortunate that vigorous opposition literature is not published and +widely circulated. + +[Sidenote: Same instruction as for men.] + +In conclusion, it is clear that the problem of pre-marital continence +is not limited to young men, for the "unprotected" girl from a +low-grade home and environment, and the uninformed girl from the best +of homes, and the radical girl from the most educated circles may, +innocently or deliberately, select the pathway to unchastity. For these +kinds of young women the educational problem is the same as for young +men. They should have essentially the same instruction. And, in the +case of both sexes, it is only by contrasting the good and evil that +education can point out the worth-whileness of chastity. + +[Sidenote: Indirect responsibility.] + +There is a special aspect of the problem of pre-marital chastity of men +that young women should understand, and that is their indirect +responsibility for the unchastity of many men. In discussing dancing +(Sec. 35) and extreme dress (Sec. 36), it has been indicated that women +as a sex have a tremendous responsibility for the temptations of men. The +same is true in the case of flirting or more extreme familiarities with +men. However sure a young woman may feel of her own power of +self-control, she should not consider lightly her possible part in a +chain of events which may lead men to unchastity with other women. Many +a man driven into the white heat of passion by thoughtless or +deliberate acts of a pure girl has gone direct to seek relief of +tension in the underworld. Of course, the girl in this case is not +directly responsible for the downfall of the man; but I wonder if there +is not moral, if not legal, responsibility for one who knowingly leads +or helps another to the brink of a precipice from which he voluntarily +falls. + +I am perfectly well aware that many good people will be horrified by +the very suggestion that young women should be taught their +responsibility for their men associates. Some will declare that the +advocates of sex-education propose to destroy the innocence and romance +in young women's lives. Others of the horrified ones will remain +complacent because they believe that unchastity is caused by "innate +depravity" of men. I am sorry to disagree with such people who are +sincere, but the established facts point clearly to the conclusion that +it is the duty of the mothers and teachers of girls to make them +understand their relations to men and their responsibility for helping +young men avoid sexual temptations. This is necessary when innocence +stands in the way of the maximum safety and happiness of young people. + + +Sec. 42. _Need of Optimistic and AEsthetic Views of Sex by Women_ + +[Sidenote: Many women pessimistic concerning sexuality.] + +The most significant point in the sex-education movement at present is +the fact that numerous women of the most intelligent groups are tending +rapidly towards accepting an optimistic and aesthetic view of sexual +relationships so far as these are normal and ethical and guided by +affection. However, this higher philosophy of sexual life is still very +far from being universal among educated women, and it is probably true +that to the great majority of them sexuality has no aesthetic meaning +but is simply a very troublesome physical function and an animal method +for perpetuating the human species. That such an attitude should be +common is not surprising, for in recent years numerous educated women +have gained abundant information concerning abnormal sexuality, while +very few have caught glimpses of the higher possibilities of the +sexual functions. The truth is that it has been and still is difficult +for most women to get well-balanced knowledge of sexual normality. +There are hundreds of books and pamphlets that deal with amazing +boldness with the sexual mistakes of human life, but there is not in +general circulation to-day any printed matter which deals with normal +sexual life with anything like the frankness and directness that is +common in widely circulated literature on social vice and its +concomitant diseases. Likewise, it is difficult for women to get the +true view of sexual life from personal sources, for the vulgar side of +sexuality is the one usually discussed by most people, some of whom +revel in obscenity, some have had personal experiences that have caused +ineradicable bitterness, and some more or less sincerely believe that +knowledge of vice is of value as a safeguard or an antidote. The bright +side of the sexual story is rarely told in conversation, either because +it is unfamiliar or because it is the sacred secret between pairs of +individuals who together have found life in all its completeness. + +[Sidenote: AEsthetic outlook.] + +Fortunately, this depressing emphasis on sexual abnormality is +beginning to disappear, and we see sure signs of coming attention to +sexual health rather than to disease and to purity rather than to vice. +Leading women are beginning to give, through the impersonal medium of +science and general literature, some definite and helpful testimony +concerning the pathway to the essential good that is bound up in +sexuality. It is especially important that young women of culture +should be helped to this point of view, and as far as possible before +they learn much concerning the dark problems that have originated from +failure to keep sexual functions sacred to affection and possible +parenthood. The educated women of to-day who have acquired and retained +faith in the essential goodness of human sexual possibilities, and who +at the same time have an understanding of the mistakes that weak humans +are wont to make, are sure to play a most important part as teachers +and mothers and leaders in the movement which is already guiding +numerous intelligent men and women to a purified and noble view of the +sexual relationships. As I see the big problems that demand +sex-education, the future will depend largely upon the attitude of +women. It is an essential part of the feministic movement. In the past +there have been many alarming signs of a destructive sex antagonism +that charged men with full responsibility for existing sex problems. +But the advance guards of feminism are beginning to recognize that +there are all-essential relationships between the sexes, and that only +in sex cooperation can there be any permanent solution of the great +questions. It is a great advance from the sex hostility of Christabel +Pankhurst's "Plain Facts on a Great Evil" to the co-working attitude of +Louise Creighton's "Social Disease and How to Fight It," of Olive +Schreiner's "Woman and Labor," of Ellen Key's "Love and Marriage," and +of Gascoigne Hartley's "Truth About Woman," all of which give us hope +that women with optimistic and aesthetic interpretation of sex are +coming to take the lead towards a better understanding of the relations +of sex and life. + + +Sec. 43. _Other Problems for Young Women_ + +Concerning several other problems that have been discussed with special +reference to young men, it seems best that all young women should be +informed sometime between sixteen and twenty-two, the age limit +depending upon maturity of the individual, home life, and social +environment. + +[Sidenote: Prostitution.] + +With regard to prostitution, it seems important that girls should know +the essential facts recommended in the lecture concerning boys. The +"unprotected" girl of low-grade environment will often need some of +this knowledge before she is fourteen (and in some cases, even twelve) +years old. On the other hand, the average "protected" girl need not +know until several years later. It seems possible that too early +familiarity with the existence of sexual vice might tend to make some +young women accept it as part of the established order of things; and, +hence, the girl whose environment is protective and whose moral +training has been complete will be perfectly safe without knowledge of +vice and will be more likely to take an opposition attitude if she +learns the facts concerning prostitution when she is approaching +maturity. Even then the essential information should be given in such +a way that the young woman will see the gravity of the social situation +and, at the same time, not develop a spirit of sex hostility. Here, +again, I must recommend Louise Creighton's "Social Disease and How to +Fight It" as not only pointing out the nature of the great evil, but +also recognizing that the existing situation can never be improved +except by the sympathetic cooperation of the best men and women. + +[Sidenote: Dancing.] + +With regard to dancing, young girls should be taught that certain forms +of this exercise are not approved by the most refined people. Before +maturity, they should not know the physiological reason for this +disapproval. In fact, I know many men and women who think it best that +most women, even mature, should not have their attention called to the +sexual dangers of dancing. For my part, I cannot see how women with +such ignorance can cooperate with the best men in reducing the admitted +dangers to a minimum. + +[Sidenote: Dress.] + +With regard to dress as a sexual problem, some mothers think they can +handle the problem with their young daughters by emphasizing modesty +and without further explanation; but the drawing power of fashions is +so great that most young women are quick to revise their ideas of +modesty to suit the latest style. Is it too much to hope that large +numbers of young women would accept such facts as were stated in the +lecture for young men (Sec. 36), and would be sincere enough to dress so +that their attractiveness may appeal more to the aesthetic and less to +the physical natures of men? + +[Sidenote: Merely a man's views.] + +In this lecture concerning the special teaching of young women, I have +attempted nothing more than an outline of the impressions that I have +gained from books and from representative women who are interested in +the larger sex-education. I have not tried to make the discussion as +extensive as that for young men, first, because I cannot believe that +young women in general need so much special instruction; and, second, +because only women can adequately advise concerning the sex-educational +problems of young women. However, since the women who might be expected +to know the truth about women have failed to agree on so many points, +it may be worth while for a man to contribute some suggestions based on +the most scientific information offered by some very reliable women. + +[Sidenote: Books.] + +Among the books which touch the special problems for young women, I am +most favorably impressed by the following: Hall's "Life Problems" in +the first thirty-two pages is adapted for girls of twelve to fourteen, +and the remainder for older girls. Some parents are not enthusiastic +about the story form, but the facts are well selected and presented. +The last chapter of Smith's "Three Gifts of Life" is worth reading, but +the first chapters are unscientific. For almost mature young women, +there are chapters of Rummel's "Womanhood and Its Development," of +Wood-Allen's "What a Young Woman Should Know," of Lowry's "Herself," +and of Galbraith's "Four Epochs of a Woman's Life." The last two are +decidedly medical in point of view. The part for girls in Scharlieb and +Sibley's "Youth and Sex," and some chapters of March's "Towards Racial +Health," are good. The last two chapters of Geddes and Thomson's "Sex" +will be appreciated by many intellectual young women. Hepburn's +sentimental little story "The Perfect Gift" (Crist Co., 3c) has helped +many young people improve their aesthetic outlook. There are some +helpful ideas in Henderson's "What It Is To Be Educated" (Houghton +Mifflin Co.). While disagreeing (Sec. 46) with Dr. Richard Cabot's +extreme emphasis on a mystical religious solution for problems of sex, I +recognize that many young women have been helped by his "The Christian +Approach to Social Morality" (Y.W.C.A.), and by his "What Men Live +By." + + + + +X + +CRITICISMS OF SEX-EDUCATION + + +In the preceding lectures we have considered the arguments for +sex-instruction. It will now be helpful to review some of the writings +of those who oppose or at least point out the defects of the commonly +accepted plan of sex-instruction. None of those writers whom I shall +quote is known to be absolutely opposed to all sex-instruction, but +some of them would limit the instruction so much that there would be +little hope of the general movement having an important influence. + + +Sec. 44. _A Plea for Reticence Concerning Sex_ + +[Sidenote: Agnes Repplier.] + +Miss Agnes Repplier, the distinguished essayist, discusses in the +_Atlantic Monthly_ (March, 1914) the plain speech on sex topics that +are before the public to-day. While she holds no brief for "the +conspiracy of silence," which she admits was "a menace in its day," she +maintains that "the breaking of silence need not imply the opening of +the flood-gates of speech." She goes on to say: + +[Sidenote: Present frankness.] + + "It was never meant by those who first cautiously advised a + clearer understanding of sexual relations and hygienic rules that + everybody should chatter freely respecting these grave issues; + that teachers, lecturers, novelists, story-writers, militants, + dramatists, social workers, and magazine editors should copiously + impart all they know, or assume they know, to the world. The lack + of restraint, the lack of balance, the lack of soberness and + common sense were never more apparent than in the obsession of sex + which has set us all ababbling about matters once excluded from + the amenities of conversation. + + "Knowledge is the cry. Crude, undigested knowledge, without limit + and without reserve. Give it to boys, give it to girls, give it to + children. No other force is taken account of by the visionaries + who--in defiance, or in ignorance of history--believe that evil + understood is evil conquered. + + "We hear too much about the thirst for knowledge from people keen + to quench it. Dr. Edward L. Keyes, president of the Society of + Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, advocates the teaching of + sex-hygiene to children, because he thinks that it is the kind of + information that children are eagerly seeking. 'What is this + topic,' he asks, 'that all these little ones are questioning over, + mulling over, fidgeting over, worrying over? Ask your own + memories.' + + [Sidenote: One child's life.] + + "I do ask my memory in vain for the answer Dr. Keyes anticipates. + A child's life is so full, and everything that enters it seems of + supreme importance. I fidgeted over my hair which would not curl. + I worried over my examples which never came out right. I mulled + (though unacquainted with the word) over every piece of sewing put + into my incapable fingers, which could not be trained to hold a + needle. I imagined I was stolen by brigands, and became--by virtue + and intelligence--spouse of a patriotic outlaw in a frontierless + land. I asked artless questions which brought me into discredit + with my teachers, as, for example, who 'massacred' St. + Bartholomew. But vital facts, the great laws of propagation, were + matters of but casual concern crowded out of my life and out of my + companions' lives (in a convent boarding-school) by the more + stirring happenings of every day. How could we fidget over + obstetrics when we were learning to skate, and our very dreams + were a medley of ice and bumps? How could we worry over 'natural + laws' in the face of a tyrannical interdict which lessened our + chances of breaking our necks by forbidding us to coast down a + hill covered with trees? The children to be pitied, the children + whose minds become infected with unwholesome curiosity are those + who lack cheerful recreation, religious teaching, and the fine + corrective of work. A playground or a swimming pool will do more + to keep them mentally and morally sound than scores of lectures on + sex-hygiene. + + [Sidenote: Personal teaching approved.] + + "The world is wide, and a great deal is happening in it. I do not + plead for ignorance, but for the gradual and harmonious broadening + of the field of knowledge, and for a more careful consideration of + ways and means. There are subjects which may be taught in class, + and subjects which commend themselves to individual teaching. + There are topics which admit of _plein-air_ handling, and topics + which civilized man, as apart from his artless brother of the + jungles, has veiled with reticence. There are truths which may be, + and should be, privately imparted by a father, a mother, family + doctor, or an experienced teacher; but which young people cannot + advantageously acquire from the platform, the stage, the moving + picture gallery, the novel or the ubiquitous monthly magazine." + +There is much in Miss Repplier's paragraphs which will win hearty +approval from those who have come to believe, as advocated throughout +this series of lectures, in conservative teaching of sex-hygiene and a +larger outlook for sex-education. + +[Sidenote: Current frankness not due to sex-education.] + +No doubt there has been too great a loss of a certain kind of reticence +and a substitution of crude frankness, but it has not been caused by +the sex-education movement. On the contrary, there are two evident +sources of the plain speech of which Miss Repplier and others have +complained: First, the commercializing of sex by novelists, dramatists, +theater managers, and publishers--many of whom are reaping a golden +harvest and few of whom have any sincere interest in promulgating +sexual information to any end except their own pocketbooks. Second, the +development of the feminist movement which has its deepest foundation +in the age-old sexual misunderstandings of women by men, and which has +led on and on into social and political complications of gravest +significance. The very nature of the feminist revolt from masculine +domination made plain speaking on sex matters inevitable. + +[Sidenote: Reaction against sensational frankness.] + +Neither of these sources of plain speech need give us cause for alarm, +for a great reaction is already coming. The sensationalism of sexual +revelations has had its day, and the intelligent public is recovering +its balance. A lurid novel or play resembling "Damaged Goods" or "The +House of Bondage" or certain vice-commission reports would not now be +accepted by some prominent publishers who recently would not have +hesitated to seize a first-class commercial opportunity in this line. +The fact is that sexual sensationalism has ceased to pay because the +intelligent public knows the main facts and has become disgusted with +crude frankness that amounts to lasciviousness. On the side of feminism +there is hope in the widespread disgust with Cristabel Pankhurst's +"Plain Facts on a Great Evil" as compared with the very general +approval of Louise Creighton's polished masterpiece, "The Social Evil +and How to Fight It." This represents exactly the present attitude of +numerous men and women who calmly discuss together the great problems +of life fearlessly and without any elements of lasciviousness such as +some people seem to think is necessarily associated with either +unsexual or bisexual discussion of sex problems. + +[Sidenote: Not a typical case.] + +Miss Repplier's description of her own lack of youthful interest in +things sexual is of value simply as applied to a limited number of +extra-protected girls. Her experience teaches us nothing regarding boys +or even girls under average conditions. We know beyond any doubt that +average children in or near adolescence do seek the kind of information +that Miss Repplier denies having thought about. It is not "pressed +relentlessly upon their attention" by teachers, but by instinct and by +environment. Playground and swimming pools and religious influence and +work are all helpful in our dealings with young people, but all +together they are inadequate without some information concerning sex. + +[Sidenote: Conclusion.] + +Finally, Miss Repplier, like so many other critics of sex-instruction, +has in mind only the physical consequences of wrong-doing. Here again +is the influence of the pioneer sex-hygiene. However, she pleads for +the "gradual and harmonious broadening of the field of knowledge and +for a more careful consideration of ways and means" for +sex-instruction. This makes us believe that she will favor the larger +sex-education which gives a place to "the cheerful recreation, the +religious teaching, the childish virtues, the youthful virtues, the +wholesome preoccupation," as well as essential knowledge of physical +facts; and all as factors in preparing young people consciously and +unconsciously to face the inevitable problems of sex. On the whole, we +must regard Miss Repplier's discussion as a helpful contribution to the +saner aspects of sex-education. + + +Sec. 45. _A Plea for Religious Approach to Sex-instruction_ + +[Sidenote: Cosmo Hamilton.] + +Another prominent author who does not agree with the current tendencies +of sex-instruction is Cosmo Hamilton in his little book entitled "A +Plea for the Younger Generation" (Doran Co.). He agrees with the +sex-education writers that children should be instructed early, and as +far as possible by their parents; but he wholly disagrees with the +method of biological introduction. He would have parents go straight to +the heart of the matter and tell the child, as simply and truly as can +be, just how he came into the world. And he would fill the teaching +with reverence by using as an illustration the birth of the babe of +Bethlehem. Referring to those who in recent years have been working for +a scientific introduction to sex-education, Mr. Hamilton says: + +[Sidenote: Religious appeal.] + + "I think that these professors and scientists are wasting their + time, and I have written this small volume not only in order to + make a plea for the younger generation as to the way in which they + shall be taught sex truths, but also in order, if possible, to + prove to the advanced thinkers of the day that it is not + old-fashioned to beg that God may be put back into the lives of + His children, but a thing of urgent and vital importance. Without + faith the new generation is like a city built on sand. Without the + discipline and the inspiration of God the young boys and girls who + will all too soon be standing in our shoes will go through life + with hungry souls, with nothing to live up to, and very little to + live for." + +[Sidenote: Many not reached by religious appeal.] + +All this is very good so far as it appeals to the religious type of +mind, but Mr. Hamilton seems to forget that vast numbers of people +cannot be approached from this point of view. How can the illustration +of the Christ-child help those who do not accept certain orthodox +religious beliefs? + + +Sec. 46. _The Conflict between Sex-hygiene and Sex-ethics_ + +[Sidenote: Richard Cabot.] + +It has been said in an earlier lecture that several writers have +declared that sex-ethics and sex-hygiene are essentially conflicting +and should not be associated in teaching; that is to say, that hygienic +facts should not be taught with the hope of improving morals. Most +prominent of those who have declared that hygienic and moral teaching +should be dissociated is Dr. Richard C. Cabot, of Boston. I shall give +in this lecture attention to his writings because they have tended to +introduce confusion by critical attention to certain weak details and +unessentials in the original suggestions for sex-education, and by +wrongly assuming that the original "sex-hygiene" was aimed at improved +morals, whereas it was aimed directly at health. In a paper entitled +"Consecration of the Affections (often misnamed 'Sex-hygiene')," read +at the fifth (1911) Congress of the American School Hygiene +Association, Dr. Cabot attacked the kind of sex-instruction that is +limited to sex-hygiene. He has later returned to the attack on many +occasions. I shall quote a number of his paragraphs and follow each +with a discussion of its contents. + +[Sidenote: Hygiene and conduct.] + + (1) "The straight, right action in matters of human affection has + nothing to do with hygiene. For hygiene has no words to proclaim + as to why you and I should behave ourselves. Hygiene has the right + and the duty to make clear the perverted and the diseased + consequences of certain errors. But these consequences are far + from constant.... Let us disabuse our minds, then, of the idea + that there are always bad physical consequences of mistake, error, + or sin in this [sex] field, and that those consequences are + reasons for behaving ourselves. But even if there were such + consequences, I think it even more mischievous for us to preach a + morality based upon them." + +That hygienic knowledge makes many people control their sexual selves +is beyond dispute. Because the consequences of sexual error are far +from constant is a weak argument against pointing out possible results. +The consequences from pistols are far from constant, and yet I have no +doubt that Dr. Cabot would teach small boys the danger of shooting +themselves and other people. + +[Sidenote: Hygiene and ethics for health.] + +The last quoted sentence suggests Dr. Cabot's whole basis of contention +against sex-hygiene. He seems to have inferred from the earlier papers, +especially those by Dr. Morrow, that the hygiene of sex is to be taught +as an approach to morality. On the contrary, the truth is that the aim +of most of the first leaders in sex-instruction was to teach hygiene +and ethics primarily in order to improve health. Dr. Morrow and others +believed that hygienic teaching would secondarily react on sexual +morality; but the original aim of the Society of Sanitary and Moral +Prophylaxis was to limit the spread of venereal disease by sanitary, +moral, and legal means. In other words, moral appeals were to aid in +checking disease, and knowledge of disease was not claimed to improve +morality, although such knowledge might react against immorality. It is +this misunderstanding or overlooking of the real reasons for teaching +concerning sex health that seems to have led Dr. Cabot into apparent +opposition to the general movement for sex-instruction. One infers from +all his lectures that he believes it good to teach hygiene for health, +ethics for morality, and biology for science; but that these should not +be correlated because to him they are unrelated. It seems to me that he +has simply been misled by the overenthusiasm of some of the first +writers on sex-hygiene and by the widespread use of that limited term +instead of sex-education. + +[Sidenote: Is sex-hygiene immoral?] + + (2) "Now I say that the preaching about sex-hygiene that is going + on in recent books and in the periodical press is immoral in its + tendency. It is like saying, 'Don't lie, for if you do, you won't + sleep at night, and insomnia is bad for the health.'" + +If insomnia often follows lying, then it should be taught as _one_ +reason why falsehoods should be avoided. This is not opposed to ethical +teaching, for at the same time we can teach the other reasons for not +telling lies. Likewise, sex-hygiene offers certain reasons for conduct +and may be supplemented by sex-ethics. + +[Sidenote: Information and morality.] + + (3) "The attempts to consecrate affection and to safeguard + morality by teaching in public or private schools what is called + 'sex-hygiene' will, I believe, prove a failure. I have very + little confidence in the restraining or inspiring value of + information, as such. I have seen too much of its powerlessness in + medical men and students. No one knows so much of the harm of + morphine as the physicians do, yet there are more cases of + morphine habit among physicians than among any less informed + profession. It is, of course, easy to make young children familiar + with the facts of maternity and birth. Compared to the ordinary + methods of concealment and lying by parents to children about + these matters this is doubtless an improvement, but it does almost + nothing to meet the moral problems of sex which come up later in + the child's life. One may know all about maternity, without + knowing anything of the difficulties and dangers of sex. Many have + thought that by thorough teaching of the physiology of + reproduction in plants and animals we can anticipate and to a + considerable extent prevent the dangers and temptations referred + to above." + +It is not proposed "to consecrate affection" or "to safeguard morality" +by hygienic knowledge; but simply to protect health. Of course, +information will not restrain everybody; but if physicians did not know +the dangers of morphine many more would be victims of the drug. Dr. +Cabot overlooks the fact that physicians know how to use and obtain +morphine, while other professional men do not. Teaching concerning +maternity and birth will not directly meet the moral problems of sex, +but it will help develop an attitude, "a consecration of the +affections," that will guard against the dangers of sex. Such teaching +to children is only one of many steps in the scheme of sex-education. +No responsible advocate of sex-instruction claims that teaching +children concerning the reproduction of animals and plants does +anticipate and prevent sexual temptations; but it is a foundation for +practical knowledge of human sex problems. I have elsewhere referred to +the effect of such studies on attitude. + +[Sidenote: Contagion of personality.] + + (4) "The positive moral qualities which make us immune to the + dangers of sex are obtainable not through warnings as to dangers, + but through the more positive activities just alluded to. All that + is most practical and successful in this field of endeavor may be + summarized as the _contagion of personality, human or divine_. + What is it that keeps any of us straight unless it is the + contagion of the highest personalities whom we have known, in man + and God?" + +We must admit that, perhaps, "positive moral qualities" are not +obtainable through warnings, but in this pragmatic age we must have +good social results gained by any honorable means. Many people are kept +from crime by warnings of the law. Of course, this is not a "positive +moral" result for the unethical individual who must be restrained by +fear of legal consequences, but we do not worry about the individual +when society gains. Likewise, a man kept from sexual promiscuity by +fear of disease is not more positively moral, but he is a better member +of society. No one will deny the importance of personality in its +influence on positive moral qualities; but there are many people who +are not influenced by personality, either human or divine. Other kinds +of control, such as hygienic and legal, are necessary for such people. + +[Sidenote: Good and evil.] + + (5) "A positive evil can be driven out only by a much more + positive good. The lower passion can be conquered only by a higher + passion." + +Here, again, Dr. Cabot seems to misunderstand the aim of hygienic +teaching regarding sex. It is not expected "to conquer the lower +passion" by hygiene, but to help keep it under control to the end that +personal and social health will be improved. The opium evil (certainly +a _positive_ one) is being driven out of China by military methods that +are good only in their results in suppressing the drug. Likewise, +hygiene of sex will be a practical good in so far as it may reduce the +venereal curse. "Positive good" in Dr. Cabot's moral sense is only of +limited application so far as the majority of people are concerned. In +fact, the whole idea of solving the sexual problems by "consecration of +the affections" makes its strong appeal only to those who have already +grasped the higher view of sex and do not need sex-instruction. Other +people cannot understand the phrase. We must find some more direct and +practical attack on the sex problems for the masses; and I believe that +this means scientific teaching which improves attitude, and hygienic +teaching which protects personal and social health. It is worth while +to get these results even if we do not succeed in improving morals. +That, I believe, is another and quite independent problem. + +[Sidenote: Dissociation of hygienic and moral teaching.] + +In an address published in the _Journal of the Society of Sanitary and +Moral Prophylaxis_, Vol. V, No. 1, January 1914, Dr. Cabot contended +that the hygienic and moral aspects of sex-education should not be +associated. It is possible that the following review and criticisms may +be based upon a misinterpretation; but if so, I shall not feel lonely, +for at the close of the discussion, Dr. Cabot said to his audience, "it +is evident that I have not succeeded in touching even the surfaces of +your minds, and have not made an atom of impression in making the +distinction which I desired to make." + +Dr. Cabot's main points are quoted below, and my comments follow each +quotation. + + (1) "Sanitation can often be conveyed effectively by information, + but morality cannot be conveyed by telling things." + +[Sidenote: Teaching morals.] + +It is certainly true that sanitation can be taught by words. That words +concerning moral things have no value is a proposition which Dr. Cabot +did not clearly and convincingly support. + + (2) "People often make sanitary mistakes from ignorance. So far as + you are ignorant you cannot be immoral. Morality is conditioned + upon knowledge of the right and wrong in question." + +[Sidenote: Immoral or unmoral.] + +Of course, one who is ignorant is unmoral and not immoral, but this +does not divorce sanitary and moral problems of social disease. An +ignorant and unmoral man may have unsanitary sexual habits, but +enlighten him regarding venereal disease and his habits make him +immoral. + + (3) "I cannot see that biology has moral value." + +[Sidenote: Moral value of biology.] + +But it may have moral influence just as literature and history and +biography may have. Of course, pure biology alone will not make people +more sexually moral, but no responsible biologist has ever claimed that +it will. + + (4) "In morals, we are dealing with the will, and if we believe + that the will is guided by intelligence, we must believe that all + people who _know_ what is right will _do_ what is right." + +[Sidenote: Knowledge and will.] + +It does not follow that to know what is right is to do what is right. +All depends upon the relative weight of opposing factors. A medical +student may _know_ the facts regarding venereal disease; but he also +knows the fact that his sexual instincts are insistent. The fact of his +passion may be more weighty than his scientific knowledge; and his will +may be guided by intelligent choice based on comparison of the two +opposing facts. Hence, it is illogical to contend that knowledge may +not influence moral conduct and that the will is not guided by +intelligence. + +[Sidenote: Cultivation of morality.] + + (5) "Any good achieved in any branch of morality helps all + morality. A person who learns any kind of self control is helped + toward all kinds. Anything that helps self control in one field + will help in all fields, the field of sex as well as others. + Whatever makes a person more obedient to conscience in matters of + truth or courage will help him in matters of chastity. We get + morality not by consciously cultivating particular virtues, but by + making ourselves useful men and women, by practice and by the love + and imitation of our betters. Thus, morality is cultivated in + hundreds of ways all at once." + +This is sound, but it is in no logical way opposed to any other aspect +of sex-instruction discussed in this series of lectures. + + (6) "Wherever the conditions of intimacy and interest + exist,--intimacy with the right person and interest in the right + thing,--moral training is going on." + +[Sidenote: Influence of individuals.] + +This is Dr. Cabot's strongest point. He believes in the moral influence +of individuals. So do all leading advocates of sex-instruction or of +any other form of moral education. This is in no sense opposed to any +accepted proposition of sex-education. + + (7) "Sanitation may increase immorality.... I do care more for + morality than for sanitation. Where the two conflict I want + morality to lead and to govern." + +[Sidenote: Morals rather than health.] + +Right here is the basis for Dr. Cabot's repeated attacks on the +sex-education movement. He believes that morality and sanitation are +decidedly conflicting. His address fails to support this idea with +regard to a single point concerned with the proposed sex-education. He +mentioned only two points wherein there is apparent conflict, namely, +prophylaxis that allows immorality while avoiding venereal disease, and +prevention of conception. Neither of these is directly involved in the +sex-education movement, and their immoral bearings are highly +debatable. + +[Sidenote: Ethics of venereal antisepsis.] + +Venereal prophylactics may increase promiscuity of some unmoral and +immoral men, but if universally and scientifically used by such men, +there would be little or no infection of innocent women and children. +Therefore, I assert that the good that would come from the use of +prophylactics by those who do not recognize moral control would be far +more significant than the fact that venereal prophylactics might +encourage immorality. Those who would use prophylactics would be no +worse morally than they were before, but society would gain +hygienically. + +[Sidenote: Ethics of contraception.] + +Regarding the morality of prevention of fertilization, the best of +people hold opposing views. A great specialist in tuberculosis who +entered the discussion of Dr. Cabot's paper convinced most of his +hearers that hygienic prevention of fertilization of tubercular women +is a very moral act for a physician to advise. The real question of +morality involved in the problem of contraconception is not whether it +is immoral that sperm-cells should be prevented from swimming on +towards an egg-cell, but whether there is morality in a sexual union +that has its meaning only in affection and is not definitely intended +for propagation. It is obviously a complicated problem of hygiene, +psychology, ethics, aesthetics, religious beliefs, social traditions, +and personal prejudice; and it is absurd to allow it to become +entangled in the general propositions of sex-education. As I have often +said in this series of lectures, the larger sex-education aims at +making the best possible adjustments of sex and life. If the aesthetic +demands of affection are in real conflict with the animal function of +propagation, then a pragmatically ethical solution is found in +intelligent control of the original function. Ideally, the animal +function of propagation should be associated with the possibilities of +affection that have developed in the highest human life; but there are +numerous cases in which there must be dissociation of the functions of +affection and propagation, or the alternative is sexual asceticism. +Which is moral? This is a question concerning which the individual must +weigh his personal views and decide. Only the bigoted victims of +arrogance will see immorality in the one who disagrees with him on this +question. I insist, then, that even if advanced sex-education for +adults should some day come to involve the problem of contraconception, +there will be no conflict between hygienic knowledge and ethics, if the +teaching leads to more perfect adjustment of sex and life. + +[Sidenote: Dr. Neumann's view.] + +Probably the great majority of workers in the sex-education movement do +not in the least agree with Dr. Cabot's attempts to dissociate hygienic +and moral problems. A far more helpful view is that expressed by Dr. +Henry Neumann, leader of the Brooklyn Ethical Culture Society: + + "Problems of hygiene, whether of sex, or nutrition, or temperance + and the like, are no less moral problems. They are problems of + habit; and habits are impossible without strong incentives to + start them and keep them going.... Ethical instruction is often + misunderstood to be barren preaching. It is nothing of the sort. + It consists in clarifying views of life. It begins with the fact + that there are certain tendencies in our nature which may work ill + or good. Then it tries to show to what these lead. It uses what is + best in us to make over what is worst. That is why problems of + sex-hygiene should be regarded as at bottom problems of + sex-morality." + + +Sec. 47. _The Arrogance of the Advocates of Sex-education_ + +In an article in the _Educational Review_, February, 1914, +Superintendent Maxwell, of New York City, writes concerning what he +calls "the teaching of child hygiene" as follows: + +[Sidenote: Dr. Maxwell's criticisms.] + + "There are those to-day who claim that sexual information and + problems should be thrust upon the attention of boys and girls by + the teachers in the public schools, that this teaching is + necessary for the protection of virtue and the prevention of + disease, and that, if anyone hesitates to encourage the spread of + such literature and the teaching of such knowledge, he is an + arrant and presumptuous blockhead. The arrogance of the extreme + advocates of child hygiene blinds them to certain all-important + truths. The first is that our teachers are not prepared, and, in + too many cases, are not the most suitable persons to teach the + subject. The second is that to bring the adolescent mind face to + face with sexual matters engenders the habit of dwelling upon the + sexual passion, and in that may lie spiritual havoc and physical + ruin. A premature interest in the sexual passion debases the mind + and unsettles the will. The third is that parents have no right to + ask the teacher to do the work that is peculiarly theirs. + + "And yet some good may emerge from this discussion. Parents may be + incited to do their duty in placing sex information before their + children whenever conditions demand such knowledge. And principals + and teachers, particularly principals, whenever they have the + acuteness to detect the tendency to wrong-doing, will no longer + hesitate to utter the word of warning in season. As for the + extravagant claims made for the teaching of sex-hygiene, I have + too much faith in the good sense of the American people to believe + that it will ever be generally and regularly taught in American + schools. Surely, we have learned something since the law compelled + us to teach the untruths regarding the effects of stimulants and + narcotics that were published in the early school manuals of + physiology and hygiene." + +[Sidenote: Reply to Dr. Maxwell.] + +I comment as follows: (1) Dr. Maxwell refers only to the "extreme +advocates." They did exist in abundance a few years ago, but are +already rare in the group of well-known educators. (2) Most teachers +are not prepared and never can be prepared to teach the human aspect of +sex problems, especially the hygienic in the strict sense. (3) +Conservative sex-instruction such as was advocated by the advisers of +the American Federation for Sex-hygiene (see "Report" by Morrow and +others, 1913) aims to guard against "premature interest in the sexual +passion." (4) While I sympathize with Dr. Maxwell's view that teaching +the elementary hygiene of sex is the parent's duty, I am forced to +recognize the futility of advocating that all or even a respectable +minority of parents should undertake their duty (see Sec. 4). The truth +is that most of them will not, and cannot if they will, try to do so. (5) +Dr. Maxwell's idea that sex-hygiene should be taught only when an +astute principal or parent "detects wrong-doing" is, to say the least, +an educational theory that will astonish one who knows even the +elementary facts regarding the secrecy of the sexual life of young +people in general. Will he next be logically consistent and advocate +that all moral education should be given only after children show signs +of wrong-doing? (6) Sex-hygiene, as Dr. Maxwell understands it to be +concerned directly and solely with human sexual problems, will never be +taught in American schools controlled by people of good sense; but +sex-instruction from the larger viewpoint is taught in some of the best +of Dr. Maxwell's high schools. (7) All advocates of sex-instruction who +have a national reputation for educational sanity agree that +legislation is most undesirable. (8) It is obvious that like so many +others who have become confused regarding the sex-education movement, +Dr. Maxwell has been impressed chiefly by the pioneer work that +emphasized only hygienic teaching regarding sex. + + +Sec. 48. _Lubricity in Education_ + +Ex-President Taft has expressed his views against the sex-education +movement. The newspapers quote as follows from an address delivered in +Philadelphia in 1914: + + "There is another danger in our educational influences and + environment. I refer to the spread of lubricity in literature, on + the stage and indirectly in education, under the plea that vice + may be avoided by teaching the awful consequences. By dwelling on + its details and explaining its penalties, sexual subjects are + obtruded into discussion between the sexes, lectures are delivered + on them, textbooks are written, and former restraints of modesty + are abandoned. + + [Sidenote: Mr. Taft's alarm.] + + "The pursuit of education in sex-hygiene is full of danger if + carried on in general public schools. The sharp, pointed and + summary advice of mothers to daughters, of fathers to sons, of a + medical professor to students in a college upon such a subject is, + of course, wise, but any benefit that may be derived from + frightening students by dwelling upon the details of the dreadful + punishment of vice is too often offset by awakening a curiosity + and interest that might not be developed so early and is likely to + set the thoughts of those whose benefit is at stake in a direction + that will neither elevate their conversations with their fellows + nor make more clean their mental habit. + + "I deny that the so-called prudishness and the avoidance of nasty + subjects in the last generation has ever blinded any substantial + number of girls or boys to the wickedness of vice or made them + easier victims of temptations." + +[Sidenote: Evident misunderstanding.] + +The above requires little comment, for its misunderstandings are +obvious to one who has followed the sex-education movement. Clearly Mr. +Taft has been impressed by the social-hygiene side of the problems and +does not realize the existence of a larger outlook for sex-education. +Like so many other writers who seem to know little concerning the +sexual life of children, especially of boys, Mr. Taft fears "the +awakening of curiosity and interest"! This, of course, depends upon the +facts taught and the age of the learner, but it hardly applies to +children in or near adolescence who are taught along the lines +suggested by the committee of the American Federation for Sex-Hygiene +(1913). The last paragraph quoted from Mr. Taft will be denied +completely by all who are familiar with the problems of adolescent +education. To say the least, it is unfortunate that a man prominent in +law and statesmanship should have lent the weight of his name to such +superficial conclusions that are so obviously based on exceedingly +limited information regarding both the established facts of sex and the +most approved methods of sex-instruction. + + +Sec. 49. _Conclusions from the Criticisms of Sex-education_ + +I have selected for discussion the criticisms of several of the most +prominent people who have expressed opposition to the sex-education +movement. I think that all the important lines of arguments against the +movement are represented in the extracts that I have quoted. We have +seen that all of the criticisms have decidedly vulnerable points. Most +of them refer to the discarded sex-hygiene of ten years ago; but some +of them prove that the authors are quite ignorant of the sex problems +that must be faced by numerous young people. + +[Sidenote: Criticisms important.] + +With the hope of locating the weaknesses of sex-education, I have for +years examined carefully every criticism published, and it seems to me +thoroughly scientific to conclude that all the important criticisms +have not harmed the essentials of the sex-education movement; but, on +the contrary, have been helpful in forcing reconstruction. In fact, the +present-day conception of the larger sex-education must be credited to +the severe critics more than to the friends of the original narrow +movement for reducing venereal disease by hygienic instruction. + + + + +XI + +THE PAST AND THE FUTURE OF THE SEX-EDUCATION MOVEMENT + + +Sec. 50. _The American Movement_ + +[Sidenote: Dr. Morrow leader in America.] + +In America the movement for sex-education began with the organization +of the American Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis on February +9, 1905, under the leadership of Dr. Prince A. Morrow. It is true that +before this time there were various local and sporadic attempts at +instruction concerning sexual processes, but such teaching was chiefly +personal and there was no concerted movement looking towards making +sex-instruction an integral part of general education. In 1892, +thirteen years before the organization of the Society of Sanitary and +Moral Prophylaxis, a group of members of the National Education +Association considered briefly the importance of instructing young +people. However, this meeting was of ephemeral significance and had no +genetic relation to the present-day movement. Other early interest in +sex-instruction is indicated in Professor Earl Barnes's bibliography +which was published in his "Studies in Education," Vol. I, p. 301, +1897. + +The educational activities, especially the publications of the American +Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, soon attracted the serious +attention of numerous physicians, ministers, and educators in various +parts of the United States; and about twenty other societies for study +and improvement of the sex problems were organized within a few years +after the original society. + +[Sidenote: Original aim for sanitary ends.] + +The sex-education movement both in Europe and America had its origin as +an attempt to check the spread of the venereal or social diseases. The +idea that education should work for sexual morality for its own sake +and not simply for protection against venereal diseases has only +recently begun to appear in the literature of sex-education, and so far +it seems to have made only a limited impression on many of those who +have been active in the prophylactic campaign against social disease. +In fact, the tardy recognition of the moral aim of sex-education makes +it seem probable that very little interest would have been aroused in +the movement if it had been organized on purely ethical grounds and +without any reference to the sanitary problems of social diseases. To +one who looks at sexual morality as a question of right conduct which +brings its own rewards, it is a shock to find so many thinking people +who accept calmly the traditional views of the relation of the sexes +and seem to take no interest in the immorality of men except as it is +likely to lead to venereal disease or to illegitimacy which demands +forced marriage or monetary payments. The truth is that the civilized +world at large is very far from a working code of sexual morals which +will be practiced because of promised rewards rather than because of +probable punishments. It is natural, then, that the sex-education +movement should have started with a proclamation of physical +punishments for immorality rather than an offer of ethical and +psychical rewards for morality. + +[Sidenote: Both sanitary and moral.] + +However, the fact that sex-education, under the name of "sex-hygiene," +was at first a sanitary propagandism need not interfere with the larger +development of sex-education. It now seems probable that before many +years pass we shall learn how to make a satisfactory combination of +both the sanitary and moral sides of sex-education, and so it is best +that the educational movement started on the foundation of the +undisputed facts of sanitary science which have made a powerful +impression on the people who do and who do not recognize a code of +sexual morals. + +[Sidenote: Medical interest.] + +The deep interest of the medical profession is directly responsible for +the close association between the beginning of the sex-education +movement and the diseases of immorality. At the organization meeting of +the American Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, Dr. Prince +Morrow in the opening paragraph of his address said: "We have met for +the purpose of discussing the wisdom and the expediency of forming a +society of sanitary and moral prophylaxis. The object is to organize a +social defense against a class of diseases which are most injurious to +the highest interests of human society." Thus, the American Society of +Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis started as an avowed enemy of the social +diseases and so it has continued to the present. The very name of its +official journal, _Social Diseases_,[19] indicated the central idea of +the Society. Likewise, most of the local American societies for +sex-hygiene have names including such phrases as "social hygiene," +"prevention of social diseases," "sanitary prophylaxis"; and only one, +the Massachusetts Society for Sex Education, has a name which does not +directly suggest the medical problems of sex. + +[Sidenote: In Europe.] + +In Europe, the sex-instruction movement has been concerned chiefly with +spreading information concerning the social diseases. In 1902 an +international congress for consideration of the venereal diseases was +held in Brussels, and this congress recommended that in all countries +there should be organized sanitary, social, moral, and legal societies +for the prophylaxis of these diseases. As a result of this +recommendation, prophylactic societies were formed in France, Germany, +Italy, Holland, the United States, and other countries. Of these, the +German society for the prevention of venereal disease became the +strongest, with over five thousand members and twenty branch +societies. + +[Sidenote: National societies.] + +The fact that the American Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis +was organized by a group of people in New York City tended from the +beginning to make it a local society. While for several years it took +the lead in sex-hygiene and enrolled members residing in many parts of +the United States, it was never a national organization. In recent +years the word "American" has been omitted from its name, and its work +has been limited to New York City and vicinity.[20] Many independent +state and city societies were organized within a few years after the +original sex-hygiene society in New York. This multiplication of +societies called attention to the need of a national organization, and +in 1910 the various societies were affiliated in the American +Federation for Sex-Hygiene. Dr. Morrow was the leading spirit in the +Federation until his death. In 1913, the Federation and the American +Vigilance Association (a society especially concerned with the social +evil) were united in the American Social Hygiene Association. Its +offices are at 105 West 40th Street, New York City. + + +Sec. 51. _Important Steps in the Sex-education Movement in America_ + + May 23, 1904. Dr. Prince Morrow's plea for the organization of a + society of sanitary and moral prophylaxis, read before the Medical + Society of the County of New York. + + February 9, 1905. Organization meeting of the American Society of + Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, in New York. + + March, 1906. Pennsylvania Society for the Prevention of Social + Diseases organized. + + October, 1906. Chicago Society of Social Hygiene organized. + + December, 1907. Portland (Ore.) Social Hygiene Society organized. + + October, 1908. Spokane Society of Social and Moral Prophylaxis + organized. + + June, 1910. American Federation for Sex-Hygiene organized. + + 1911. Oregon Social Hygiene Society organized. + + July 20, 1912. Resolution of the National Education Association + favoring training of teachers with the view, ultimately, of + sex-instruction in schools. + + September 23-28, 1912. Meeting of subsection on sex-hygiene, + Fifteenth International Congress on Hygiene and Demography. + Washington, D.C. + + February, 1912. Organization of American Vigilance Association. + + October, 1913. Merging of the American Federation for Sex-Hygiene + and the American Vigilance Association into the new American + Social Hygiene Association. + + 1913. Organization of Pacific Coast Federation for Sex-Hygiene, + changed to Pacific Coast Social Hygiene Association in June, 1914. + + July, 1914. The National Education Association, at Minneapolis, + adopted the following resolutions in line with the latest + principles of the Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis and + the American Social Hygiene Association: + + "The Association, re-affirming its belief in the constructive + value of education in sex-hygiene, directs attention to the + grave dangers, ethical and social, arising out of a sex + consciousness stimulated by undue emphasis upon sex problems + and relations. The situation is so serious as to render + neglect hazardous. The Association urges upon all parents the + obvious duty of parental care and instruction in such matters + and directs attention to the mistake of leaving such problems + exclusively to the school. The Association believes that + sex-hygiene should be approached in the public schools + conservatively under the direction of persons qualified by + scientific training and teaching experience in order to + assure a safe moral point of view. The Association, + therefore, recommends that institutions preparing teachers + give attention to such subjects as would qualify for + instruction in the general field of morals as well as in the + particular field of sex-hygiene." + + +Sec. 52. _The Future of the Larger Sex-education_ + +[Sidenote: Public has lost interest in sensationalism.] + +I hear many questions as to the probable future of sex-education. I am +asked: "Is it moribund?" "Is it a disappearing fad?" "Has not the high +tide of interest passed?" No doubt such questions are inspired by the +oft-repeated statement that public interest in sexual questions has +waned decidedly in the last few years. This is true, and it is a most +fortunate indication of approaching sanity. The public interest in the +last decade has been most deplorable, because it has centered in the +abnormal and sensational aspects of sex. Authors have vied with each +other in presenting the most lurid cases of social diseases, white +slavery, sexual perversions, and every other available aspect of sexual +degeneracy. Of course, the reading public was bound to grow tired of +this, just as it wearies of a horrible murder trial or of a +sensational divorce case. It is certainly true that there is a marked +decline of general interest in sexual abnormality and sensationalism; +but that does not mean that the sex-education movement is moribund. + +[Sidenote: Sex-education permanent.] + +The wave of sensational revelation has passed; but the intelligent +public is no longer ignorant of the nature and causes of the great +problems of sex, and is well aware that young people need definite +guidance for facing the facts of life. It is unthinkable that +intelligent parents who are now well informed concerning sex will ever +again stand for the old policy of mystery and silence. It is, +therefore, impossible to believe that there is any danger of +sex-education disappearing. Of course, we have not reached a permanent +system of sex-education. There certainly will be vast changes in our +approved subject matter and methods of teaching; but the main idea of +the sex-education movement is gaining support every day. + +[Sidenote: Sex-education fundamental.] + +There is another reason why sex-education will be permanent. In +addition to the great need of educational help with information and +influence which will mold the individual life with regard to the +problems of sex, it must be evident to all that even the legislative, +sanitary, social administrative, religious, ethical, and other attacks +upon the problems depend upon knowledge and attitude, at least of the +leaders. Look at the problems of sex outlined in the earlier lectures +from whatever angle we will, and it appears that, in the final +analysis, education offers the only key to a possible solution. +Therefore, I assert that sex-education--the larger sex-education--is an +absolutely fundamental factor in every phase of the social-hygiene and +sex-ethical movement. + +[Sidenote: Ultimate effect of sex-education.] + +In closing the last lecture of this series, let me state my confession +of faith in sex-education: It is certainly only _one of several_ +possible lines of attack on the alarming sex problems of our time; but +it offers the most hopeful outlook towards improved sexual morals and +health, both physical and psychical. However, we shall gain nothing of +permanent value by extravagant claims or hopes as to the ultimate +effect of sex-education. We must expect incomplete results. It will not +entirely solve the sex problems for all individuals who receive +instruction; but it will solve all of the problems of many individuals +and help many others. It will not eradicate the social evil and its +characteristic diseases, but it will protect many young people and so +reduce the sum total of awful consequences. It will not prevent all +divorces and matrimonial disharmonies, but already the biological +teaching is helping and some day the social-ethical problems will be +understood and then most intelligent men and women will understand the +fundamental principles for permanent and harmonious monogamic marriage. +Finally, sex-education will not enforce universal sexual morality in +conformity with our accepted code, but it will help many individuals +through decisive battles with sex-instincts. + +[Sidenote: Sex-Education and general education.] + +Such are some of the lines along which extreme claims and hopes for +sex-education have been and are still being made. There is some truth +in each; in fact, there is more than enough to justify the present +movement for sex-education. To all those who see nothing in the +movement because it will not solve all the sex problems which have +created a demand for special instruction, we may reply by simply +pointing to the fact that general education makes some better and more +efficient citizens, but many times it fails to give desirable results. +We believe in general education because it aims to offer all +individuals help in preparation for more efficient life, although it +succeeds only in part. Likewise, we should stand for the instruction of +all young people in matters concerning sex because it is certain that +such knowledge will function completely in many lives and will work +appreciable good in many others. + +[Sidenote: A permanent and essential part of education.] + +I cannot believe that sex-education is one of the long line of modern +educational fads which quickly pass their day, for no other phase of +education so closely touches life. History and geography and even a +large part of the "three Rs" may be of little use in the lives of +numerous people, but sex-education deals with problems which the normal +human life cannot possibly avoid and which each individual must be +prepared to solve for himself. Therefore, we may confidently assert +that instruction concerning the most important aspects of sex processes +and relationships will soon be recognized as an absolutely necessary +part of a rational and efficient scheme for the education of young +people. + +[Sidenote: The never-ending problem of good and evil.] + +The larger sex-education is sure to have a permanent place in the +never-ending work of preparing coming generations for the highest +development of life's possibilities. Each succeeding generation of +young people must be prepared by educational processes to face +intelligently and bravely the problems of sex that are sure to come +into every normal life. Of course, sex-education at its best +development can do no more than give the individual a basis for +intelligent choice between good and evil; but here, as in all other +upward movements of human life, the decision must depend upon a clear +and positive recognition of the advantages of the good as contrasted +with the evil. Hence, the one essential task of sex-education in its +broadest outlook is to guide natural human beings to recognition and +choice of the best in the sexual sphere of life. And in so far as each +coming generation of individuals may be thus guided by the larger +sex-education, the problems of sex will be pragmatically solved, for +the social aggregate of human life will become better, happier, nobler, +truer, more in harmony with the highest ideals of life, more like our +vision of perfected humanity. + +FOOTNOTES: + +[19] The name was changed in 1913 to _Journal of the Society of +Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis_. + +[20] While this book was in press, the name was changed to New York +Social Hygiene Society. + + + + +XII + +SOME BOOKS FOR SEX-EDUCATION + + +I have decided to publish only the names of selected books which seem +to me to be the best for teachers, parents, and young people. In making +the selection, I have considered several hundred books which bear on +the sex problems in an educational way, and have decided to reject the +majority of them. While there might be some value in a long list with +critical notes on books that I cannot recommend, it would be a worse +than thankless task to compile such an annotated bibliography; for the +compiler would surely add to his collection of enemies many authors +whose books deserve severe criticism. The sudden and sensational +publicity concerning matters of sex and the possibility of commercial +exploitation has produced an avalanche of sex books, some good, many +bad, and the majority ordinary. Evidently, most of the authors, +including numerous physicians, have written to order and without +special preparation. + +The books of the following lists are not all deserving of unqualified +recommendation. In fact, some of them are included because they are the +least objectionable of their much-needed kind, and others because they +have some good grains that the reader will find worth picking from a +mass of non-nutritious but, fortunately, non-poisonous chaff. + +I have not included many books which I recognize as important for +readers thoroughly trained in science, but which are dangerous for the +average reader of literature on sex. + +It is possible that I may have overlooked some very good books that I +have not intended to ignore; and I shall be glad to have my attention +called to books which deserve recognition. + +Special bibliographies have been published in Wile's "Sex-Education," +March's "Towards Racial Health," Geddes and Thomson's "Sex," and +Foster's "Social Emergency." + +Publishers.--In most cases the first part of the names of well-known +publishers has been given. Unless otherwise mentioned, they have +offices in New York City. In addition, the following abbreviations have +been used: + +A.M.A. = American Medical Association, Chicago. + +A.S.H.A. = American Social Hygiene Association, 105 West 40th St., New +York City. + +S.S.M.P. = Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis, 105 West 40th +Street, New York City. + +Association Press = press of the National Board of the Y.M.C.A., New +York City. + + +FOR EDUCATORS AND PARENTS + + ADDAMS, JANE. "A New Conscience and an Ancient Evil." + Macmillan. $1.00. (Contains all the average reader needs to + know concerning prostitution.) + + BOK, EDWARD, Editor. "Books of Self-Knowledge for Young + People and Parents." Revell. $.25 each. + + BIGELOW, M.A. "Relation of Biology to Sex-Instruction in + Schools and Colleges." Journal of Social Diseases, II, 4, + October, 1911. + + CABOT, RICHARD C. "The Christian Approach to Social + Morality." National Y.W.C.A., New York. $.50. + + CABOT, RICHARD C. "What Men Live By." Houghton Mifflin. + $1.50. (A book that has helped many people.) + + CABOT, R.C. "Consecration of the Affections." Proceedings + of Fifth Cong. Amer. School Hygiene Assoc., III, 1911, p. 114. + Also in Amer. Phy. Ed. Rev., XVI, 1911, pp. 247-253. (See + "Criticisms of Sex-Education" in Sec. 46 of this book.) + + COCKS, ORRIN G. "The Social Evil and Methods of + Treatment." Association Press. $.25. + + CREIGHTON, LOUISE. "The Social Disease and How to Fight + It." Longmans. $.35. (A splendid essay on social impurity from a + modern woman's viewpoint. Constructive and optimistic.) + + ELIOT, C.W. "Public Opinion and Sex-Hygiene." A.S.H.A. + $.05. + + ELIOT, C.W. "School Instruction in Sex Hygiene." + Proceedings of Fifth Cong. Amer. School Hygiene Assoc., 1911. + + ELLIS, HAVELOCK. "The Task of Social Hygiene." Houghton. + $2.50. (Certain chapters concern sex-education.) + + GALLOWAY, T.W. "Biology of Sex." Heath. $.75. + + GEDDES, PATRICK, and THOMSON, J. ARTHUR. "Sex." + Holt. $.50. (Excellent.) + + GEDDES and THOMSON. "The Problems of Sex." + Moffat. $.50. + + FOSTER, W.T. "The Social Emergency." Houghton. $1.35. + (Twelve excellent essays by President Foster, Reed College, and + nine others, on social hygiene and education.) + + HALL, G. STANLEY. "Adolescence." Appleton. 2 vols. + $7.50. + + HALL, G.S. "Youth: Its Education, Regimen and Hygiene." + Appleton. $1.50. + + HALL, G.S. "Needs and Methods of Educating Young People + in Hygiene of Sex." Pedagogical Seminary, XV, March, 1908. + + HALL, G.S. "Teaching of Sex in Schools and Colleges." + Journal of Social Diseases, II, 4, October, 1911. + + HALL, WINFIELD S. "Sex Training in the Home." Richardson, + Chicago. $1.10. + + HENDERSON, CHAS. R. "Education with Reference to Sex." + University of Chicago Press. Part I, 78 cts.; II, 80 cts. (Part + I demonstrates need of sex-education; II, the educational + problems.) + + HERTER, C.A. "Biological Aspects of Human Problems." + Macmillan. $1.50. (Sexual instincts, pp. 182-252; sex-education, + 306-316.) + + HIME, MAURICE C. "Schoolboys' Special Immorality." + Churchill, London. $.40. (For masters of boarding schools.) + + HODGE, C.F. "Social Hygiene in Public Schools." School + Science and Mathematics, April, 1911. + + HOWARD, W.L. "Start Your Child Right." Revell. $.75. + (Readable, sensible, helpful to parents.) + + LOWRY, EDITH B. "False Modesty: That Protects Vice by + Ignorance." Forbes. $.50. (Arguments for sex-instruction in home + and school.) + + LOWRY, E.B. "Teaching Sex-Hygiene in the Public Schools." + Forbes. $.50. (Useful for parents and teachers.) + + LYTTLETON, E. "Training the Young in the Laws of Sex." + Longmans, Green. $1.00. (Heartily approved by many educators.) + + MARCH, NORAH H. "Towards Racial Health." Routledge, + London. $1.00. (Very helpful book for parents and teachers.) + + MORLEY, MARGARET W. "Renewal of Life." 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Macmillan. $1.50. + + + + +INDEX + + +Abnormality, in literature, 129 ff. + +Adolescence, and sex-instruction, 146 ff. + +Adults, and special sex-instruction, 26. + +AEsthetics of sex, 4, 74, 197. + +Affection, 163; + "consecration of," 210; + in marriage, 189. + +Aims, of sex-education, 92, 94; + of sex-education societies, 228. + +Animals, and human sexuality, 72. + +Arguments, for sex-instruction, 28 ff. + +Asceticism, 69. + +Athletics, and sex, 141. + +Attitude, towards sex, 26, 67 ff.; + and morals, 75. + + +Bibliography, 238 ff. + +Biology, 56, 65; + and ethics, 102 ff.; + and sex-instruction, 147; + moral value, 217. + +Books, as teachers, 121 ff., 241 ff.; + _see also_ literature. + +Boys, influence on, 158; + special instruction, 148-250. + + +Cabot, R.C., 63, 210 ff. + +Childhood, 25. + +Children, ignorant of sex, 204. + +Circumcision, 139. + +Coeducation, in sex-instruction, 109; + and sex adjustment, 80. + +Continence, 160 ff., 176 ff.; + of women, 190 ff. + +Contraception, and ethics, 219. + +Control, of sex instincts, 18. + +Criticisms, of sex-education, 203 ff.; + conclusions regarding, 226. + +Curiosity, denied by Repplier and Taft, _q.v._ + + +Dancing, 169 ff., 200. + +Diseases, social or venereal, 37 ff. + +Dress, of women, 174 ff., 200. + + +Education, as a solution, 19, 88; + coeducation, 80; + sex-differentiated, 82. + +Eliot, C.W., 71. + +Emissions, 149. + +Ethics, and biology, 102; + and sex-hygiene, 61 ff; + of sex, 4. + +Eugenics, 86 ff.; + aim of, 105; + and ethics, 103. + +Europe, and sex problems, 59 ff.; + morality in, 59; + sex-hygiene in, 230. + +Evolution, and vulgarity, 75. + + +Fiction, and sex tragedies, 127. + +Foerster, 70. + +Frankness, 206. + +Friendships, of children, 136. + +Fulton, J.S., 40. + +Future, of sex-education, 234-237. + + +Genetics, 87. + +Girls, special instruction, 151; + unprotected, 191. + +Gonorrhea, _see_ Diseases. + +Good, and evil, 215. + + +Hamilton, Cosmo, 208. + +Hartley, C. Gasquoine, 82 ff. + +Heredity, 87; + and sex-education, 104. + +History, of sex-education, 227 ff. + +Homes, and sex-instruction, 21. + +Hunger, two kinds, 73. + +Hygiene, and ethics, 210 ff.; + of sex, 1-4, 25. + + +Ideals, of manhood, 185; + of womanhood, 157; + of love and marriage, 159, 187. + +Ignorance, 45, 50, 54; + of children, 12-14. + +Illegitimacy, 52 ff., 59. + +Immorality, 38; + danger in teaching, 67. + +Instincts, sexual, 16-18. + +Intellectualism, and sex, 83. + + +Kallikak family, 103. + +Key, Ellen, 64, 79. + +Knowledge, and will, 217. + + +Lectures, on sex-hygiene, 100. + +Legislation, and social diseases, 47. + +Literature, general list, 241 ff.; + for parents, 33; + on marriage, 79; + on diseases, 39; + on sex, 11; + on social evil, 52; + general and sex, 124 ff.; + general references, 238 ff.; + for young men, 161, 183; + for young women, 201; + radical sex, 193. + + +Marriage, 159, 187; + a sex problem, 71 ff. + +Masturbation, 137 ff. + +Maxwell, W.H., 221. + +Men, as leaders in love, 188; + instruction for, 156 ff. + +Misunderstanding, of sex, 5. + +Monogamy, 59. + +Morality, 58 ff.; + double standard, 42. + +Morrow, P.A., 37, 70; + leader, 227. + +Mothercraft, 155. + +Mothers, and boys, 111; + first teachers, 111. + +Mystery, and sex, 15. + + +Names, of sex organs, 148 ff. + +National Education Association, resolution on sex-instruction, 232. + +Nature-study, 133. + +Need, of sex-instruction, 11, 19. + +Neumann, H., 221. + + +Oliphant, James, 159. + +Optimism, sex, 196. + +Organization, of sex-education, 96 ff. + + +Parents, and daughters, 184, 190; + cooperation of, 23; + responsibility, 14; + attitude, 30. + +Parkinson, W.D., 41. + +Passion, 58. + +Pessimism, sex, 72, 84, 196. + +Poetry, 124 ff. + +Pre-adolescence, 25, 133 ff. + +Problems of sex, 28 ff., 92, 95. + +Promiscuity, 38. + +Propagandism, needed, 28 ff. + +Prophylactics, venereal, 219. + +Prostitution, 48 ff., 164; + protective knowledge for women, 199. + + +Reading, concerning perversion and vice, 51. + +Refinement, of men, 167. + +Religion, approach to sex-instruction, 209. + +Repplier, Agnes, 203. + +Reproduction, and sex, 5. + +Responsibility, indirect of women, 195; + individual, 18; + of parents, 30. + + +Sanitation, and morals, 229; + _see also_ hygiene and ethics. + +Self-abuse, 137 ff. + +Self-control, 70, 173, 176-182; + of women, 190 ff. + +Sensationalism, 233. + +Sex-education, definition, 1; + larger view of, 27; + need of, 11; + problems of, 28 ff.; + relations, 4. + +Sex-hygiene, 1-5; + adequacy, 43; + personal, 35 ff.; + social, 3; + and eugenics, 86; + and ethics, 114, 212 ff.; + personal, 98 ff. + +Sex-instruction, in schools, 20, 23; + in homes, 21; + in high schools, 24; + many-sided, 89. + +Sex, meaning of the word, 6-10. + +Social diseases, 166; + essential knowledge to be taught, 107. + +Social evil, 4, 48 ff. + +Social hygiene, 3; + and ethics, 101. + +Societies, for sex problems, 231, 232. + +Society for Prophylaxis, 62. + +Super-morality, 64 ff. + +Syphilis, _see_ Diseases. + + +Taft, W.H., 224. + +Task, of sex-education, 90. + +Teachers, of sex facts, 108; + for classes, 113; + married women, 110; + same sex as pupils, 109; + undesirable, 115. + +Teaching, morals, 216 ff.; + personal, 205, 214. + +Tennyson, and sex lessons, 125. + + +Vulgarity, 67 ff. + + +Women, and diseases, 45; + instruction for, 184 ff. + + +Printed in the United States of America. + + + + +The following pages contain advertisements of a few of the Macmillan +publications on Education + + +MODERN PEDAGOGY + + + Aspinwall Outlines of the History of Education $ .80 + + Bagley Classroom Management. 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