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diff --git a/.gitattributes b/.gitattributes new file mode 100644 index 0000000..6833f05 --- /dev/null +++ b/.gitattributes @@ -0,0 +1,3 @@ +* text=auto +*.txt text +*.md text diff --git a/29896-8.txt b/29896-8.txt new file mode 100644 index 0000000..3f1ba79 --- /dev/null +++ b/29896-8.txt @@ -0,0 +1,7100 @@ +The Project Gutenberg EBook of Sex=The Unknown Quantity, by Ali Nomad + +This eBook is for the use of anyone anywhere at no cost and with +almost no restrictions whatsoever. You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Sex=The Unknown Quantity + The Spiritual Function of Sex + +Author: Ali Nomad + +Release Date: September 3, 2009 [EBook #29896] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK SEX=THE UNKNOWN QUANTITY *** + + + + +Produced by Juliet Sutherland, Ritu Aggarwal, and the +Online Distributed Proofreading Team at https://www.pgdp.net. + + + + + + + + + + SEX = The Unknown Quantity + + THE SPIRITUAL FUNCTION OF SEX + + A New and Startling Interpretation of the Meaning, Scope and + Function of Sex as Seen and Interpreted From the Inner or + Cosmic Standpoint. A Work That Should Revolutionize + the Thought of Today in its Relation to the Vital + Mystery of Sex in All its Aspects. It + Presents a Practical Solution to the + Sex Problems of Everyday Life. + + _By_ + + ALI NOMAD + [DR. ALEXANDER J. McIVOR-TYNDALL] + + _Author of_ + + "COSMIC CONSCIOUSNESS, OR THE MAN-GOD WHOM WE AWAIT", "THE DEAD SPEAK" + "REVELATIONS OF THE HAND", "GHOSTS", "HOW THOUGHT CAN KILL" + "PERSONAL MAGNETISM", "PROOFS OF IMMORTALITY", ETC. + + + CHICAGO, U. S. A. + STERLING PUBLISHING COMPANY + 1916 + + + Copyright, 1916, by + STERLING PUBLISHING COMPANY. + Copyrighted and Registered in Stationers' Hall, London, England. + (All Rights Reserved) + + + COPYRIGHT IN ALL COUNTRIES SIGNATORIES TO THE BERNE CONVENTION. + + + THE STERLING PRESS. + + + DEDICATED + TO THE CHILD OF TOMORROW + THE MAN-GOD WHOM WE AWAIT + + + + + PUBLISHER'S FOREWORD + + +TO OUR READERS: + +We feel justified in claiming this work marks an epoch in the advanced +thought of human evolution. Nothing has ever been written dealing with +the problem of Sex which is at once so illuminating, convincing and +satisfying. To our knowledge this particular view of the sex-subject +has never before been presented, and, perhaps it could not have been, +owing to the fact that it is only _now_ in these days of higher +thought, that such a view could be understood. + +The author, Ali Nomad, is already well known to progressive readers as +the writer of "Cosmic Consciousness," or, "The Man-God Whom We Await;" +a work that has made its author famous by the reprint of its many +editions. + +There are signs of a new order in the relation of the Sexes already +indicated upon the horizon of the World's consciousness as the result +of the present world-conflict. _Today people are as ignorant of the +subject of Sex as they are of God._ Both of these must be understood +if the race is to progress beyond its present stage. Otherwise we +shall pass into the long sleep of oblivion like all civilizations in +the past leaving future generations to grapple with the same world +problems. + +True or _perfect_ marriage is the most important attainment in the +life of the individual. + +The author demonstrates that perfect marriage is a scientific +possibility and that legal marriage and divorce simply conform to +civil laws. He very clearly outlines the reason why civilization makes +little or no progress in dealing with the social evil and other sex +problems. + +The publishers place this book before an intelligent public, +believing, that more _real_ knowledge can be gained by its study, than +by any other known method, because + +_First._ The reader is brought face to face with himself, and nature. + +_Second._ The reader can demonstrate the truth of the propositions set + forth. + +_Third._ The methods, rules, and laws have been verified by + intelligent men and women who have lived the life. + +_Fourth._ "Sex," The Divine Principle which all human beings should + understand, has been presented in plain simple terms, and elucidated, + so that the reader _cannot_ fail to understand the true path of + moral progress. + +This volume is not a romance, a fairy tale nor a dream intended to +entertain or amuse, but a scientific instruction which will elevate +the individual and the race, develop self respect, self control, +morality and love. If the propositions presented by the author are +correct--let the standards be changed; _if_ the propositions are +_incorrect_, they will not disturb the standards of today. + + THE PUBLISHERS. + + + + + SEX--THE UNKNOWN QUANTITY + The Spiritual Function of Sex + + CONTENTS + + + INTRODUCTION + + CHAPTER I + + SEX UNIVERSAL AND ETERNAL 19 + + Sex the fundamental basis of the universe; sex in organic + life; the law of attraction and repulsion in animal and plant + life; sex attraction and repulsion in human life; how + differentiated and why; some secrets of modern chemistry; the + cosmic law of involution and evolution; the symbol of the + serpent in a new light; what is "the power of the gods" + referred to in ancient mythology; some erroneous ideas in + regard to the sex function; the philosophy of restraint; the + inner sex-function and its outward expression compared; the + senses as avenues of inspiration; the creation of form and + sense-objects; what constitutes a "perfect and complete + being?" the theory of "counterparts" and its spiritual + significance; is procreation the highest function of sex; + what constitutes the fundamental law of love? the various + expressions of the love-nature from inorganic to organic + life. + + CHAPTER II + + FROM SEX WORSHIP TO SEX DEGRADATION 29 + + Sex the origin of all religious ceremonies; from + nature-worship to sex-worship; the history of Ancient forms + and ceremonies of worship; how sex-worship has survived the + ages; how it thrives today in modern religion; early stages + of civilization in relation to Sex; the antiquity of the + symbol of the virgin and child; its occult significance in + symbolism; the reality of the "bi-une God;" some secrets of + the Ancient Egyptians in regard to the function of sex; the + esoteric cause of the Egyptian talismanic and symbolical + revival today; the secret or esoteric meaning of the + swastika-cross; why Aum is always typified by a circle; + ancient forms of oath-taking and why; the source of + sex-energy spiritual; how and where the idea of + "blood-atonement" and vicarious sacrifice originated; the + beginning of sex-degradation. + + CHAPTER III + + PRESENT-DAY CONDITIONS: THE COSMIC CAUSE 53 + + The consecutive order from ancient sex-worship to modern + civilization; the real causes of race-advancement in the + cosmic tidal-wave, and what it portends; why conditions are + as they are today in regard to sex-life; the psychic forces + in their relation to sex-life; some fallacies in regard to + Eugenics; why Greek and Roman civilization failed; why and + how modern civilization need not fail; why women seek to + avoid motherhood; women of two types; the awake and the + asleep; the cosmic office of the Female Principle; its + relation to Creation; how the superman and woman will differ + from the undeveloped type; what is meant by "half-gods;" are + women of today lacking in the love-nature; will the race die + out? If so, why, and if not why not? How did the "Holy + Family" differ from other families? + + CHAPTER IV + + THE HISTORY OF MARRIAGE AND MATING 75 + + The relation of ancient marriage customs to religion; why + human evolution must necessarily be slow; ancient marriage + customs and their spiritual interpretation; why marriage + ceremonies have always prevailed; customs of all races + compared; why the institution has a permanent place in Social + Evolution; the symbolism of the visible world; why Science + and Mysticism agree spiritually; the origin of "variation" + the fundamental cause of woman's subjugation; when men defend + "outraged honor," is it a primitive or a primordial instinct? + the history of monogamy; the monogamic idea and the ideal + monogamy; the history and cause of polygamy; the evolution of + the "old-maid" idea and the psychic cause of this evolution; + the path of the virtuous woman in ancient days; the elevating + power in the dowry system; the two great purposes which this + custom has served. + + CHAPTER V + + THE SYMBOLISM OF MARRIAGE AND OF SEX-UNION 93 + + Why the monogamic ideal of marriage is right; how, when and + where, will marriage be lasting; the basic principle of + sex-union; when the bonds of matrimony are truly "holy;" + attraction and cohesion two distinct phases of chemical laws; + ideas of a modern writer; how all morality has come from the + ideal of marriage; some erroneous ideas of spirituality in + relation to the sex-function; when and why Man becomes + immortal; the custom and the hidden meaning in the wedding + ring; the symbolism of ancient marriage customs; the esoteric + meaning of "orange-blossoms;" the veil; the ring; the crown; + why these have endured throughout the ages; the interior and + hidden meaning of Rosicrusian symbols in respect to the + sex-function; women admitted to the Order and why; the + mystery and marvel of the symbolic "dove;" why it plays so + important a part in marriage customs and lover's phrases; the + symbolism of the ark; the egg; the drinking-cup and other + persisting accompaniments to marriage customs. + + CHAPTER VI + + CONTINENCE; CHASTITY; ASCETICISM: THEIR SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE 103 + + The Ancient Greek and Roman idea of the sex-relation; why the + asceticism of the Dark Ages arose; why the Church instituted + celibacy; why the Church retained the pagan idea of "the + virgin;" the effect this has had upon the growth and power of + Christianity; lives of celebrated saints in the light of + Occult wisdom; why and in what way the essentials of + Christianity are like other religious ideals; who is "the One + True and Only God?" the interior meaning of the word + "chastity;" the difference between chastity and asceticism; + the unbroken line connecting ancient ideas of sex, with + modern; the attitude of religious systems toward women; why + women are supporters of the churches in modern days; the + "mystic bride" and the mystical meaning; William James + comments on the spiritual ecstacy of St. Teresa; Swedenborg + on "Conjugal love;" trances; ecstacies; and visions of + saints; the term "virgin," and its origin; the evolution of + sex-love to spiritual love. + + CHAPTER VII + + SOUL-UNION: WHERE WILL IT LEAD? 119 + + Why we hear of "affinities" and "soul-mates" today more than + formerly; the great distinction between these two words; the + psychic forces behind woman's invasion of business fields; + the basis of "the unwritten law;" why affinity marriages + fail; the hidden reason girls look for a "rich husband;" the + final outcome; when and how women are "ruined;" the mystery + of the hermaphrodite; what is the true significance of the + term "androgynous?" mistaken ideas of morality in dress and + manners; what sort of beings constitute "the kingdom of God?" + the "secret of secrets" of the Hermetics; the wisdom of the + "initiates;" the spiritual quality in folk-lore; the time + when "temptation" will be no more; when "naked and unashamed" + the race will re-enter the lost Paradise. + + CHAPTER VIII + + THE HIDDEN WISDOM REVEALED 137 + + Science and mysticism the same at root; Christian mysticism + versus scientific postulates; the interior meaning in fairy + stories; personalities and principles in mystic revelation; + the esoteric meaning in Mythology; are there gods and + mortals? the ark in religious symbology; its interior + meaning; what were the "tablets of stone?" the reality of the + "cherubim" and the "seraphim;" the inner meaning of the + symbolical "ark of the Covenant;" is spiritual love devoid of + sex?; what is the symbolical "flaming sword?"; why the Jews + claimed to be God's "chosen people;" what makes for "immortal + godhood?"; the symbolism of the "life-token" stories; the + symbolism of the sleeping princess; a theory that solves all + the problems of life; the symbolical rites and ceremonies of + secret orders; the secrets of the Ancient Alchemists; the + Rosicrucians; the Free Masons; the Hermetics; their + initiation rites and ceremonies explained; what is meant by + the "Holy of Holies?" by the "secret chamber;" and the degree + of "mastership;" the sexual significance of the symbolism of + the "templars;" the red rose on the cross; the star and the + crescent; what is the inner meaning of "the radiant center;" + why the Catholic Church opposed the order of Free-masons; did + the Alchemists discover the secret of metallic transmutation? + what is meant by "the philosopher's stone;" why it was of + such a rare purity; why the early Church opposed all + reference to sex; the distinction between "discovering" and + "finding;" their spiritual meaning; what was the stone that + was raised at Babylon: was it a phallic symbol? why the + average "Knight Templar" fails to attain the powers and + privileges of esoteric Free-masonry; what is the "gate of + life?" the Arcana of the Hermetics and its sexual + significance; the symbolism of the double-headed eagle; why + the eagle was an ancient religious symbol; the antithesis of + "the eagle and the dove" explained; the "lamb and the goat" + symbolism; the God-ideas of the Ancients and their effects on + modern life; why "riding the goat" is the usual initiatory + rite and ceremony in secret orders; some secret plates of + Hermetic orders explained; what is the "magic solvent" of the + alchemists? the relation of Christian symbolism to the + Alchemical secrets; the inner meaning of "the sun and the + moon" in ancient literature; transmutation: exterior or + interior? what constitutes "the abiding glory." + + CHAPTER IX + + WHAT CONSTITUTES SEXUAL IMMORALITY? 159 + + Can there be standards of morality in the sex-relation; if so + what are they? is monogamy the ideal sex relationship? is + polygamy a future possibility? why matriarchal polygamy is + less degrading than patriarchal; why polygamy is not the + ideal sex relationship; the fallacy of legal marriage as a + test of sexual morality; why we "cannot wrong the universe;" + the one commandment of "the Most High God;" what is it? our + modern standards the result of phallic worship; why the Roman + Church has survived the centuries; the interior meaning in + the "Holy Virgin" idea of the Church; the vital point in the + Roman marriage restrictions; men inherently more faithful to + marriage vows than women, and why this is so; the bi-sexual + individual the most developed; the counterpartal union and + its relation to marriage customs; why "affinities" are so + numerous; sexual infidelity an impossible premise; what is to + become of present-day ethical standards of sexual morality?; + historic ideas of sexual immorality and their influence upon + modern civilization; modern effects of ancient Hebraic + customs; why suppression of prostitution must fail; why + prostitution is moral degeneracy; the Oriental versus the + Occidental view of prostitution; why modern ideas of sexual + morality are fallacious and untenable; can there be a + universal standard of sexual morality? why present-day ideas + of marriage are degrading; compulsion in marriage and + prostitution compared; how, why, and when, the sex-relation + may be exalted, reverenced and deified; mistakes of some + "Civic Leaguers;" why, when, and how, unfaithfulness in + marriage is wrong; the single versus the double standard in + sex. + + CHAPTER X + + THE PATHWAY OF LOVE 189 + + Love the Great Reality; Love the Alpha and Omega of Life; + Sex-love the basis of all other loves; Sex-love the true + spiritual love; what is love of an abstract God? Love the + perfect mathematician; the moral code and Nature; why we + cannot break the laws of God; why Love is depicted with + bandaged eyes; Eros and Cupid explained; why the Egyptians + depicted Horus with finger on lips; some symbolic caricatures + in modern civilization; how it is true that "love makes gods + of men;" why Religion has remained materialistic; Love, the + only vitalizing power in the universe; the arch-enemy of + Love; why Love never leads to disaster; why Love is always + pure; erroneous ideas of success and failure; what is real + degradation? the pathway of love from chemical attraction to + spiritual union; why spiritual mates must be the answer to + Life's puzzle; what constitutes actual infidelity? what is to + be done with sex relations that are not spiritual unions? Are + they immoral? too much made of the marriage ceremony and too + little of fitness; is it better to be "respectably bonded" or + spiritually mated? what will happen when we rid Society of a + belief in "impure" love; why marriage vows are inadequate; + puerile; and futile; when we find the "pearl of great price;" + why spiritual mates cannot be parted; why bonds and vows must + give place to mutual agreement; does spiritual union come + with love of God? what is the "bliss of Nirvana?" why the + libertine is a pauper in the realm of love; when we imbibe + the "nectar of gods;" why the "holy of Holies" cannot be + defiled; when the divine office of sex is prostituted; why + all sex relations may not be eternal yet moral; the mistaken + teaching of the church regarding sex, and the result; inane + ideas of Paradise; an appalling prospect of heaven; perfect + sex-union the incentive to aspiration; Humanity progresses in + spite of fear; prophecy literally true; the true business of + business; the final test; the Love that is merging, melting; + satisfying and how to attain it. + + CHAPTER XI + + THE LAW OF TRANSMUTATION 209 + + The spiritual cause of all physical activity; two words that + are of vital import today; did Jesus lie? is the kingdom + within an actual truth? the interior qualities and their + relationship to present day affairs; the fundamental + difference between mysticism and Christianity; the key to the + kingdom; the interior symbolism of "wireless telegraphy;" the + breeder of discord; the interior meaning of certain important + words; the survival of the fittest in its interior meaning; + the finer and ever finer forces at work; when the gods arrive + the half gods go; sex-force at the Center of Being; when + abnormalities and perversions of sex will be impossible; the + radiant center of the bi-une sex-life; the primary function + of sex-force vitalization, not procreation; the art of + transmutation and the key to the gate of life; the esoteric + meaning of our "second childhood;" the present necessity for + physical old-age; the spiritual message in the doctrine of + sacrifice; the mystical formula for transmutation; the + mystery of the "Holy Grail" elucidated; the only method of + attaining godhood. + + CHAPTER XII + + "SELLING THE THRONES OF ANGELS" 231 + + The barriers between men and the "bliss of Heaven;" the + difference between mortals and gods; the character of a + bi-une Being; erroneous ideas of masculinity and femininity; + the change of the present day toward these ideas; God not a + hermaphroditic Personality, but a pair; some "laws of God;" + the ideal of union versus the idea of possession; the highest + manifestation of sex-love; the solar-man and the mental man + in sex; qualities of sex-force; is the divine man less sexual + than the physical? the divine fulcrum of Sex; how eternal + youth and life are possible; why you can not lose in the + "game of Love;" we cannot sin against the Eternal God; why + and when the "eternal equasion" is perfect; no mistakes or + flaws in the Cosmic scheme; how spiritual mates may find each + other; the true way of transmutation simple; why we have + "painted dolls of women;" the hearts of men; the highest + wisdom; some fallacies regarding the law of transmutation; + why the "inner vision" does not require a trip to the + Himalayas; why "brotherhoods" cannot insure you the way; all + beauty and joy the result of the divinity of Sex; life + mathematically just; when we shall "enter the kingdom." + + + + + INTRODUCTION + + +No phase of civilization can rise to the highest possibilities as long +as the average mental attitude toward the most vital, the most +important and the most sacred function of our being, is one of shame, +sinfulness, lust and uncleanness. + +Even among those who are conscientiously trying to establish better +social conditions, there is a deplorable lack of anything like the +proper attitude toward the problems of Sex, albeit there are evidences +that our social consciousness is alive to the seriousness of the sex +problem. + +Many of our advanced thinkers and scientists are giving their +attention to the subject, but it is a theme which has been so long +neglected, so hedged about by false standards of morality; so fettered +by the system of tabu, that a rational discussion of Sex apart from +materia medica, or religion, is difficult. + +Moreover, the physiological side of the sex question robs it of all +the delicacy, and the intimacy and the beauty and romance which should +by right, surround the function of sex-mating and which does surround +a union that is pure and perfect. In this innate desire to share with +the one and only possible mate, the intimate secrets of love, there +is nothing of shame or apology--sentiments which alas, actuate the +so-called "modest" man or woman of today. + +Sex matters should, indeed, be held too sacred, too intimate for +public discussion, whereas the present-day attitude holds that Sex is +too indecent to be spoken of. When the subject is forced upon public +attention as it so frequently is through tragic occurrences, the +opinions expressed are both petty and puerile. They evade the truth +and so avoid the issue. They deal with effects only, are satisfied +with offering suggestions as to ways and means of suppressing these +effects, instead of going to the root of the matter and realizing that +all the tragedies that spring out of Sex are due to wrong teaching and +thinking in regard to the sex-function. That which we reverence, and +hold sacred, we do not profane. Until Sex is established in its +rightful place, as the holy and divine creative power of this +universe, we will be shocked and horrified with sex-tragedies. + +It is a pity that the physiological and hygienic aspect of Sex has to +be discussed at all, but it is necessary that all sides of the subject +must be presented to meet the great variety of minds, but it is our +contention that if the spiritual quality of Sex were recognized and +understood, there would be no need for any other view, because if Sex +were recognized as the sacred, and holy and spiritual function _that +it is_, disease and sinfulness would disappear as the mist before the +sun. + +In the meantime the subject must be discussed from all points of view. + +It must be permitted to thrive in the light and thus it will flower +into the perfection of the spiritual seed that generated it. + +In the meantime, the debasement of all things connected with sex must +be aired, discussed, and weeded out, until a sane and normal and +reverential recognition of the universality and the eternality of Sex, +is engendered in the minds of men and women and growing youths and +transmitted to the children yet unborn. + +"Sex contains all," says Walt Whitman. "Bodies, souls, meanings, +proofs, purities, delicacies, results, promulgations, songs, commands, +health, pride, the maternal mystery, the seminal milk; all hopes, +benefactions, bestowals; all the passions, loves, beauties, delights +of earth; all the governments, judges, gods, followed persons of the +earth; these are contained in sex as parts of itself and justification +of itself. + +"Without shame the man I like knows and avows the deliciousness of his +sex; without shame the woman I like knows and avows hers." + +Many well-meaning persons see in the words of the "good grey poet," +only an immodest and brazen shamelessness. But these are mental +perverts and are to be pitied; they see "through a glass darkly" and +everything looks black with decay; they are trying to build an eternal +future upon a foundation of tissue paper; they are seeking to +encompass immortal life by denying the very beginning and source of +all life--Sex; they are attempting the impossible feat of foisting +upon the world an ideal of Heaven from which they have extracted the +very essence of Heaven itself, although nothing on earth or from +divine sources justifies such an idea. + +Possibly our civilization has proceeded on the plan of leaving until +the last the most important thing in an ideal community and it may be +that we shall do the necessary reform work in this department all the +more thoroughly for having so long neglected it. + +In the following chapters the physiological and hygienic side of the +subject has been avoided as there is much sound advice already issued +pertaining to this phase of the sex question, and it is our contention +that the world must be brought to recognize the spiritual, and sacred +function of Sex, as the basis of reformation or regeneration, before +the Kingdom of Love shall be established upon the earth as it is in +celestial spaces. + + THE AUTHOR. + + + + + CHAPTER I + + SEX UNIVERSAL AND ETERNAL + + +The fundamental basis of the universe is Sex. + +Sex is the fulcrum upon which our life-activities turn. It is the life +of Man and of planets, and ignorance of the laws of Sex is the cause +of death of both. It is the conjunction of the forces of attraction +and repulsion; the positive and negative; the centripetal and +centrifugal forces which hold stars and planets in their orbits--or +rather, it is the two expressions of the one power, which is both male +and female, the eternal bi-une sex principle which is _Life_. + +The law of attraction everywhere, from that of the sun and the earth, +to that of the iron and the magnet, the "affinity" of the various +gases and liquids, is founded upon Sex. Cohesion is but another name +for copulation, and repulsion is absence of the power of contact. The +law of attraction and cohesion everywhere is the law of sex-activity. +"The law of conjugality is the basis of every force in nature," says a +scientist. Sex constitutes the eternal energy from which issue all the +forms and differentiations which we see manifested in the visible +universe, and it is equally the foundation of the realms invisible. + +Sex is the algebracial X--the unknown quantity which defies analysis. + +Plato is said to have observed that "the son of man is written all +over the visible world in the form of an X;" and also that "the second +coming of Christ is rightly symbolized by a cross." The cross is but +another form of the X--the eternal bi-une sex-principle in action. + +The Female Principle attracts to a central union; draws toward and +within itself. The home is established and maintained by the female +element; the nest is the special property of the female bird. Thus the +Female Principle best expresses the highest love because the object of +love is _union_. Hate scatters, disintegrates, destroys. Wherever the +struggle between love and hate is seen, there we will find a lack of +union. There may be marriage, but there will not be mating. True union +must come from the Center of Life--from the spiritual Reality, which +the physical only imperfectly shadows forth. + +Involution is best described as feminine, and wherever we note the +upward trend of the feminine element in Society, we may know that the +earth is on its involutionary path; the end of a cycle is at hand, and +social unrest and marital upheaval are inevitable, because Love is in +the ascendant and love demands _union_--not merely matrimony. + +The Ancients sought to express the never-beginning and never-ending +law of Sex by the symbol of the serpent with its tail in its mouth, +forming a circle. The resemblance of the male sperm to the spiral +convolutions of the serpent in motion, doubtless gave rise to the +adoption of the serpent as a symbol of sex-worship. The retention and +transmutation of the sex-force is typified by the serpent forming a +circle. The circle represents the attainment of godhood--victory over +death through _regeneration_. + +It has been said that the most primal instinct is that of hunger, but +without Sex there would not be even the urge toward physical +sustenance. Sex is therefore both the urge and the answer to all +instincts. + +There is a very general idea that Sex is a physical function only. It +is almost universally taught that when the life of the body ceases, +sex-life ceases with it. Even among metaphysicians, who believe in the +continuity of life after death, the absurd doctrine is taught that Sex +has no place or part in spiritual life, that "there is no marriage nor +giving in marriage" after death. + +This idea has been a powerful deterrent in keeping the race from +seeking the higher areas of spiritual consciousness. Lack of mere +physical vitality has erroneously been estimated as evidence of +spirituality. Chastity has unfortunately been counterfeited by mere +physical restraint, resulting in a type of human being whom the +healthy, normal person instinctively refuses to emulate, deferring as +long as possible the attainment of that which has been presented to +the mind as "spirituality." + +Let it be understood at the outset of this presentation of the problem +of Sex that we state emphatically, that Sex is an eternal verity. Its +spiritual function is not _less_ but infinitely _more_ than that which +we glimpse on the physical plane of life-expression. + +Far from outgrowing what we know as human love, we add thereunto a +million fold, refining, purifying and _intensifying_ the sex instinct +until it bears a relationship to the average instance of +sex-expression, analogous to that which the single-celled organism +bears to intellectual man. If we will keep in mind the fact that Life +in all its degrees of manifestation is like the ascending notes of the +musical scale, we will be able to get a more comprehensive idea of the +spiritual function of the sex-urge. We will realize that we can not +mark a too distinctive separation between the various phases of +life-manifestation. + +We imagine that the physical life is widely at variance with the +mental, the psychical, or the spiritual, when as a matter of fact each +blends into the other, when we rightly understand their place and +purpose, as harmoniously as the notes of the musical scale blend into +the grand compositions of the Masters. + +"As above so below, and as below so above," is a truism which we may +safely take as our first maxim. Whatever we note as a fundamental +principle of this external life which we cognize with our five senses +(senses which merge so into the psychical that we know not always +where the line demarks) has a permanent place in the Cosmos. +Therefore we must conclude that a fact so universal as that of sex, +and sex-attraction, must be grounded in something more stable, more +permanent and enduring than the mere creation of physical forms. + +Protoplasm, the only living substance, is found everywhere in the +visible world and its universality is symbolical of the invisible +worlds as well. Transparent, colorless, it contains within itself the +mystery of reproduction. It forms the basis of the vegetable and the +animal kingdoms. It is seen in bone and muscle and fibrous tissue, and +protoplasm may be said to contain within its cells the principles of +both sexes. It is not sexless, but bi-sexual; not neuter but +masculine-feminine. Every form of life has sex, and in some rare +instances both sexes are present in one form. This does not mean that +there is another phase of sex unclassified, but rather it proves the +union in one _Whole Entity_ of the two distinct principles, and by +this fact of the "twain made one" we may know that Sex is the very +crux of the cosmic law; that not only does it survive the mere +physical expression of the law, but that the object of the +sex-function is the spiritual union of the two principles, a male and +a female entity, forming one complete and perfect Being--the true +representative of the bi-une Being whom we know as God. + +Absolute and perfect union is possible only at the center, the crux, +of Being. This truth is represented by the algebraical X, the symbol +of spiritual sex-union. Therefore sex relationships which do not have +for their crux spiritual as well as temperamental affinity, are not +final, or eternal, however beautiful they may be; and there are many +sex-relationships which are pure and sacred even though they do not +fulfil this highest of all relationships, that of spiritual +counterparts. + +Let us consider for a moment the universality of Sex as we see it +expressed in all the variety of forms and throughout all the species, +and in so doing we may trace the ever upward trend of the law of +sex-attraction, and discover, if we have the eyes to see, the evident +plan and purpose of the cosmic law as it tends toward completement and +perfection in the type of the man-god whom the world has long looked +for and who we believe is here. + +If we look at the expression of Sex from the viewpoint of the physical +only, instead of basing our observations from the interior, the +spiritual, outward to the physical, we might conclude that the +function of sex was designed for no other purpose than that of +procreation, since care of the young increases with the upward trend +of life-manifestation. + +Beginning at the lower forms of life, such for example as the fish, we +find as a general thing an indifference to the fate of the eggs +deposited by the female, which is in keeping with the prolific and +almost unconscious generation of these tiny evidences of the law of +Sex. A fish laying more than a million eggs in a season is naturally +rather careless about what becomes of them. Apparently no higher +sentiment actuates this form of life than an unconscious and merely +instinctive urge to perpetuate the species--the lowest expression of +Love--and yet the germ of Love, the Creator and Preserver is there, +and a well-defined law of attraction and repulsion is evident from the +fact that as an almost general thing the male will not fertilize eggs +other than those of his own species. But even in these low forms, we +see the evidence of that higher expression of Love which presages the +god-like quality of self-sacrifice. Some species of fish, notably the +stickle-back and the bass, make nests and mother their young. + +In those forms of life which are supposed to be insensate, we find the +universal law of sex-attraction and repulsion. The pollen from an oak +tree, for example, may be blown about by the wind and may light upon a +plant which is far removed in species from its own; but if such be the +case, no fertilization takes place. The fundamental law of Love is to +attract to itself _its own_; that which belongs to it by right of +Cosmic law and order and justice. + +All the inharmony of our social life comes from the attempt to +appropriate and _possess_ that which, in the final analysis, in the +Absolute, is not ours. When the majority of Mankind shall have +mastered this lesson, the human race will enter upon its true +spiritual life. The psychic mind with which man alone of all earth's +creatures is supposed to be endowed will have conquered the +instinctive mind, and the higher expression of love which would +protect and preserve, and _leave free_, will have gained supremacy +over selfishness and the desire for possession. + +In bird-life we find this higher type of love almost universal. +Parental love, that exquisite and refined flower from the seed of +sex-attraction, characterizes the bird and we may readily agree that +Paradise would be incomplete without birds and flowers as well as +babies. + +Considering the birds as an infinitely finer type of sex-expression +than that offered by any other of the forms of life below man, we note +with satisfaction the all-important point, namely, that the sex-urge +is more diffused and lasting, and of a finer quality than that of the +mammals. + +The bird woos its mate with the beauty of its plumage and the +harmonious notes of its love-call. Its desire finds so many esthetic +ways of expressing itself; in tender pleadings; in cooing promises; in +continuous evidences of care and protection. Nor does its intense +love, vital as it is, exhaust itself in concentrated expression, but +it softens and ripens into something that so closely resembles our +ideals of spiritual love, that we are not surprised to find the emblem +of the dove employed throughout the history of the world, as the +spiritual symbol of pure and holy love. Well, indeed, may human beings +learn from the birds the lesson of the higher type of sex-mating, +which finds fruition in their mutual love for and care of their +progeny. Nor does the love-life of birds cease with sex-expression. +It permeates all their intercourse. + +The trait which distinguishes the spiritual man from the animal man is +analogous to that of the birds; namely, that of finding a deep and +lasting joy in the presence of the loved one; in sympathizing with +each other's ideals; listening with devoted attention to each other's +words; contacting, as it were, each other's _inner nature_, rather +than obeying the merely animal urge of procreation. And above all, in +the common aim of altruistic thoughtfulness for the little lives which +their love has brought forth. + +Thus nature serves the cosmic law, which aims to raise the +sex-instinct from the incomplete and unsatisfying plane of physical +contact, to that of spiritual union--a wide gulf seemingly; but who +would not strive to bridge it, did he but realize what spiritual union +with the Beloved One means? + + + + + CHAPTER II + + SEX WORSHIP AND SEX DEGRADATION + + +Every form of religious worship, from pre-historic time down to and +inclusive of the present century, and among all races, savage and +civilized, has been founded upon Sex--the inevitable, the inviolable, +the unescapable, and the unfathomable mystery of Creation. + +Nor should this fact be distasteful to the most refined. An +intelligent review of the many evidences that prove this truth will +not shock the sensibilities of the most devout worshipper of an +unknown and unseen God. What can be more beautiful and more holy, more +worthy of our highest reverence and adoration, than the mystery of +birth, whether that birth be the growth of a flower from a tiny seed +planted in the womb of Mother Earth, or the birth of a tiny human life +from the seed Love sows in the womb of the human mother? The only +shocking thing about the matter is that there are persons who can be +"shocked" at contemplation of this wonderful and beautiful mystery. It +is shocking and deplorable that so many are still so far away from +spiritual consciousness, that the beauty and the purity of the miracle +of Sex is unrecognized by them. + +With all due respect to the highest types of religious creeds which +survive today, we are bound to concede that the very first form of +worship which prevailed upon this earth was the purest as it was the +simplest. Truth is simple. Deception introduces us into a maze of +complexities. Nature worship prevailed we know not how many centuries +previous to the dawn of historic records. All allegorical literature +makes constant allusion to "The Golden Age," evidently referring to a +time before that which has come down to us in sacred literature, as +"The Fall of Man." The first conception of a supreme power, something +higher and more perfect than Man himself, originated in the mystery of +Sex; not only in the sex-function as exercised by Man, but also in the +evidences of sex seen in plants and animals. + +It became evident to the earliest races that the human being was after +all only a progenitor. Somewhere there must be a First Cause. The +vital spark which gave to the seed its power to bring forth was seen +to be beyond and above the control of physical man, and the natural +and inevitable inference was drawn that there was some power greater +than that of human beings--a power manifesting itself in the act of +procreation. At this early stage in Man's efforts to know God, the +Female Principle was deified, because out of the womb of the woman +issued the little life. Thus the symbol of the "virgin with the child" +became the symbol of worship; the word "virgin" then having a somewhat +different meaning from that which we give it today, although we may +trace the analogy in our use of the term "virgin soil," signifying +fecundity. The virgin and child then, popularly supposed by those +whose prejudices prevail over their desire for Truth, to have +originated with the birth of Jesus of Nazareth, antedates history, as +an object of worship. + +Let us here again emphasize the fact that the very persistence of this +symbol as a pronounced part of our Twentieth Century traditions, and +reverence, offers proof of the fact that whatever is true is also +enduring. Truth is eternal and defies extinction. Love, although +defiled and scorned, will lift Mankind out of Hell. + +The symbol of the mother with the child the very earliest of all +symbolic worship is also the truest and most consistent with the +ideals of spiritualized Man when we realize its higher significance. +At first, for the obvious reason that woman was the recipient and the +nurse of the seed, woman was regarded as a higher type than man; she +alone was supposed to possess the creative energy. This was ultimately +reversed and Man was thought to be the sole custodian of the +reproductive power. + +Thus the age-long warfare between the sexes began--a warfare which, if +it had any foundation in Reality, must have resulted long since in +race-extinction. But despite this degrading warfare men and women have +continued to attract each other in varying degrees of love, until now +the future offers a golden promise of _union_. As long as primitive +man kept to nature worship, deifying earth as the mother who brought +forth the grains and fruits for her childrens' sustenance, religious +practices were devoid of sacrifice and strife. The advent of +springtime when the earth awakened from her long sleep and the period +of gestation began when the seeds were planted, or when from Nature's +own laws they were reproduced without the aid of man, was the occasion +of thanksgiving and rejoicing with general merry-making and general +good-will. Again, in harvest time there was feasting and rejoicing and +music and dancing; and we have no reason to believe that this very +natural method of showing their gratitude and their happiness was +accompanied by any suggestion of sacrifice or propitiation. + +There is the best of evidence to support the claim that all the early +Deities were female and in all Mythology the earth is adored as the +"Divine Mother." The earliest Venus, worshipped as the goddess of +Universal Womanhood, was represented with a beard signifying her +androgynous character. + +Venus worshipped as "the soul of the world" was said to be the "parent +of all things, the primary progeny of Time, the most exalted of all +the Deities." Neith, Minerva, Athena, Ceres, Cybele, all worshipped as +the first of all the Deities, were represented as female, and to this +day we refer to the qualities of wisdom, light, truth, and virtue as +feminine. + +Even the sun is said to have been at one time worshipped as feminine, +as were all deities; but later, when it was shown that the sun +apparently fertilized the fecund earth, the gender was changed, and in +succeeding ages, when the male principle had become dominant as a +deific symbol, the earth was said to be but the nurse which cradled +and cared for the generic power resident in the male. Thus woman from +her lofty height of the one and only deity gradually sank to the level +of the nurse maid, permitted to care for man's offspring. + +While the Female Principle of Sex was worshipped as the "giver of +life," the heads of families were female and descent was traced from +the mother only. The male parent was scarcely more than an intruder +and the necessity to please the entire family and, above all, the +mother-in-law, the generic head of the family has left its mark upon +the masculine mind, even unto this far-off day, when by virtue of this +ordeal of primitive man, an idea seems to exist, that a mother-in-law +is to be both feared and dreaded, if not propitiated. When we +contemplate the persistence of those traits of human nature that have +prevailed among all races and throughout all ages, we are easily +persuaded that time is a delusion, and that Eternity is Now. As it was +yesterday it is today and will be tomorrow in all that is really +fundamental. + +From the refined simplicity of nature worship there gradually evolved +a phase of worship, which in the beginning had for its basic principle +an exalted ideal of the purpose and the powers of the female +sex-function; but this ideal sunk to the level of debauchery and +sex-degradation, in which the symbol of the female sex-organ of +generation was worshipped, literally, although not reverently; and yet +from the fact that it is only upon the temples and in the groves +dedicated to worship that are found the carvings of the generative +organs of either and sometimes of both sexes, it is evident that the +most exalted motives first actuated the worshippers. + +The sex organs, representing the mystery of creative life, or the +Deity, would naturally be held in reverence by nature-children, and it +must be conceded that this attitude of mind toward the wonderful +miracle of creative energy is worthy of our emulation. As we look back +over the pages of history, we note the tendency of human nature to +fall far short of ideals; we mistake the letter for the spirit; we get +lost in the trap of the senses, and we miss the higher and more +exalted planes of our ideals. + +From yoni worship (worship of the female organ of generation), with +all the privileges and perquisites which such honor bestowed upon +woman, there came the inevitable revolt, which comes in course of +time, from all tyranny and special privilege, whether it be +individual, national, racial, sexual, or supernatural. Thus there was +established a "new religion," and this time it was the male organ +which was deified as the symbol of eternal life, of creative energy. +In many instances both symbols were represented, but for the most part +the same subtle struggle for supremacy, the remnants of which we note +today among the different religious creeds and sects, waged, and waxed +stronger, with time and opposition. Which was the more worthy of +deification--the yoni, or the phallus? Woman, or man? + +The Ionians, seeking religious freedom from the persecutions of the +phallic worshippers in India persisted in their adherence to yoni +worship, and from them dates the Eleusirian mysteries, which were +celebrated in Athens down to a comparatively late date. The Eleusirian +festivals represented the survival of the purest ideals of nature +worship, before the warfare between the yoni and the phallic +worshippers had brought both ideals into degradation. + +There is a point in this festival, which the Greeks called +Thesmophoria and which is derived from the more ancient festival of +Ceres (the goddess of Life and Law), which we are anxious to have +noted here, because it marks a golden thread which runs throughout the +entire fabric of the sex-problem. This point is the fact, that the +rites and ceremonies of this festival were performed by "virgins +distinguished for their purity of life." Very rarely were men admitted +to the inner secrets of the Eleusirians. + +Another important point is that this ceremony was performed in honor +of the androgynous character of the goddess, as it was declared that +the power to bring forth a child without the co-operation of the male +belonged exclusively to the exalted or perfected woman, which is to +say the goddess. Another translation and interpretation of this +ceremony claims that it was prophecied in these festivals, that a time +would come in the history of the world when a woman would so conceive +and bring forth a child and that when that time should come the +question as to which sex was supreme would be forever settled and that +purity and peace would reign upon earth. + +This part of the record may easily have been either an interpolation +to sustain the claim of the miraculous birth of Jesus, or it may have +been simply the defiant fling of the vanquished to the victor, because +phallic worship was in the ascendant. It is, however, recorded, that +not an instance can be cited in which the honor of initiation into the +Eleusirian mysteries was conferred upon a bad man; nor of any man +violating the secrets of the inner temples of the Eleusirians. This +gives rise to the hope that the ideal of this spiritually exalted +sect, in the midst of almost universal degeneracy, was not so much +that of female supremacy, as of purity; that their ideal included the +pure and perfect union of male and female--the only ideal that will, +or can, redeem the world to a life of peace and love. + +The festivals of Carthage were said to be similar to those of Eleusis. +For a period of several days during the time set apart for the +festivities, public feasts were prepared in honor of the deific nature +of Man, which, it was pointed out, was his prerogative only by virtue +of inward purity and strict adherence to high ideals of truth and +honor. + +Crowning all the religious observances of the Ancients, whether +expressed in the legends of the sun-myths or of star and serpent +worship, we find the universally recognized fact that only those +qualities of mind and soul can be expected to endure, or reach +immortal godhood, which are of an exalted character. Which is to say +what the present day orthodox creed says, that immortality belongs +only to those who are pure in heart. + +From the Eleusirian festivals is derived our custom of taking holy +communion, the symbol of the Lord's supper; albeit the substitution of +the male principle in the Christian ceremony attests the fact that the +phallic symbol ultimately supplanted the yoni, as a deific symbol. +Phallic worship reached its height during Hebrew and Assyrian +supremacy, and was perpetuated by Greek and Roman materialism. +Superstition is nothing more than Truth degenerated by men from a +spiritual to a material application. That which is held in awe and +reverence by any race; that which is embodied in the traditions of +every tribe on the globe; that which persists throughout all times +will be found to have a fundamental basis of truth, no matter how +obscured it may be by the ignorance with which it is so frequently +associated. + +The sacredness of Sex, as exemplifying the Supreme Creative Energy, +underlies all the traditional ideals of man, from the fetishes of the +Central African savage to the cathedral spires which rise above the +din of our modern commercial civilization. The prejudiced and the +superficial observer of so-called "heathen" rites and ceremonies +records only the superstitions, and sees only the evidences of +depravity and savagery. He overlooks the fact that the spirit of the +idea conveyed may have been the highest ideal of an early race which +has sunk, as have all races during certain periods of the world's +evolution into the depths of a materialism, from which all races are +today emerging. + +All mystic truths are expressed in symbolism. It has been said that +these truths are "veiled;" this is true only because the observer has +not yet learned to speak the language. The universal language is +symbolism. In the early Egyptian, the Indian, and the Hebrew +religions, the fundamental idea was the two generating principles (or +we might say the two aspects of the One principle) of generation. The +two in spiritual _union_ represented the Infinite--the Deity. The +Hebrew word "Elohim" is plural, and means male and female united, +forming the One Perfect and Complete Being. This union is the "Holy of +Holies" of the ancient mystics and alchemists. We see its reflection +and its persistence today in the Catholic service of the Mass, where +the priest raises the Eucharist as the "Holy of Holies" in which is +generated the Christ-man, and before whom all human devotees bow the +head that they may not look upon the perfection and beauty of its pure +radiance. Neither is the priest supposed to touch the chalice with +uncovered hands. He prepares himself by fasting and prayer before he +mounts the altar upon which this "Holy of Holies" is hidden from view. + +The pattern of the Eucharist with its golden circle and radiations is +easily recognizable by any one who is familiar with the symbols of +yoni worship. Nor should this fact be distasteful to any one, although +it is either concealed, or flatly denied by the Church, since it is +only through the elevation of the sex-function that the Christ-man can +be born into the physical realms. The reason that this truth is either +concealed or denied by the Church is due to the influence of Greek and +Roman civilization, which subjugated woman to the control of man. This +debasement of woman reached its culmination under Roman rule and is +unquestionably the psychic cause of the fall of the Greek and Roman +empires. + +If we will but take home to ourselves the important lesson that +neither sex is fundamentally, or even relatively, superior, but only +different; that no race is permanently in advance of another, but that +each little group and class of humans has its particular contribution +to the sum of knowledge, we will have done much toward freeing the +mind from the shackles of ignorance--that darkness which obscures our +inner vision. Let this truth penetrate the egotism of so-called +civilized races. Let it sink into the minds of the men and women of +this century: we are of service to the world in proportion as we are +different and not identical. In the direct ratio of our individuality +is our contribution to the work of the cosmic law, which is seeking +to lift the planet earth out of its undeveloped state into celestial +light. + +The symbol of the Eucharist, occupying as it does an important place +in a religious system which is otherwise essentially masculine, is one +of the many evidences of the persistence of Truth. For approximately +four thousand years, phallic worship has predominated over the earlier +ideal, which was embodied in the "virgin of the spheres," the emblem +of the Female Principle as eternal motherhood; and in the sacred +character of androgynous plants and flowers, which were characterized +as feminine, such, for example, as the lily, the lotus, and the fleur +de lis. These flowers are still regarded as more or less sacred, and +they are called feminine, although really androgynous. + +The lotus, long held sacred because of its androgynous character, has +been regarded as typical of the One Perfect One, because it is +supposed that the lotus reproduces itself without the male pollen. But +close examination of the flower will show that the little seed-vessel +in the center of the flower is shaped like a pine cone, in which are +tiny cells too small to let out the seeds as occurs in most plant and +seed life; these tiny seeds having no outlet, shoot when ripe into new +plants, the bulb of the plant being the matrix or womb of the new +life. Thus it is evident, that although the two sexes are not as +pronounced in the lotus as in the lily, yet the bulb and the cone are +both present in the lotus, making the plant bi-sexual, and not +feminine alone. + +Our modern Easter festival, in which the lily is recognized as the +representative par excellence of the renewal of abundant life and +energy, the "sacred" flower, is a tribute to the Feminine Principle in +the Deity, as the lily like the lotus is called feminine, although in +reality bi-sexual. + +The lily and the Eucharist have survived the centuries in which the +male principle has dominated, as the one true and only God--the giver +of life, the energizing power of Creation--and the lily and the +Eucharist are both representative of the Female principle. + +Historians mark the beginning of the worship of the _One True God_, +defined philosophically as the "Monistic" God-idea, from the building +of the tower of Babel, and we may here note in passing that in the +earliest references to this tower, there is no allusion to anything +suggestive of "confusion of tongues." The name unquestionably came +from "babil" meaning "the gate of God." Thus only is its meaning +obvious, and consistent with the worship of the lingam and phallus +which obtained at that time. It is also evident that the phallic +worshippers borrowed the simile of "the gate of God" from the +worshippers of the yoni, who based their claim to truth upon the +indisputable fact, that out of the womb comes the life of plant, and +animal, and man. + +The architecture of, and the inscriptions on, the tower of Babel show +conclusively that it was a monument to the victory of the phallic +worshippers over the yoni, proving that the "one true and only God" +was male. From that time also God has been alluded to as "He," +although in the Oriental countries, and particularly among the Hindus, +we find repeated allusions to the Deity as "The Divine Mother," and +all the higher qualities are spoken of as feminine. It is because of +this fact also, that we note the spread of Oriental religions and +philosophies in this day of Woman's uprising. The Orientals retained +the divinity of the female principle in theory, but not in fact. + +Sex-worship is contemptuously alluded to in modern literature as +"strange and erotic ideas," or words equally condemnatory. But this is +an absurd stand, since nothing could be more natural than that the +mystery of Creative Life should arouse our interest and our wonder; +and it certainly ought to enlist our highest reverence. It becomes +erotic only when men fail to worship in "spirit and in truth," and +when the letter of the ideal survives, and the spirit is ignored. It +becomes not only erotic but destructive when it involves a fight for +supremacy between the male and the female. When the spirit of union +shall prevail, which it must in a perfected world, no higher form of +religious aspiration can be imagined than that in which the miracle of +birth is reverenced and idealized. Then, and not until then, will the +family be what it should be, and Love, the one and only true God, be +worshipped. + +The trinity in unity has been a widespread and persistent part of all +religions, from which fact we may logically infer that this ideal has +a permanent place in the sum of human knowledge. Truth is often +obscured, but it can never be hidden from the eyes that are seeking +the light. The rightful interpretation of those ancient and obscured +truths, erroneously classified as "myths" and "superstitions," will +reveal a universal truth, and will also show their relation to modern +concepts. + +But while we note a vague recognition of the female element in all our +modern religious systems, the general acceptance of the God-idea as +monistic and the gender of this monistic God as masculine betrays the +domination of phallicism over yoni worship and also over that of the +two principles in conjunction--the bi-une Deity. The tree is +universally accepted as an emblem of life-energy. The upright shape of +the tree; the sap which rises at certain periods from invisible +sources; and the fact that the germinal power of the seeds of the +fruits and trees is not destroyed by eating; all combined to make the +tree symbolical of eternal life. The tree is either male or female, +except in certain instances where it is, like the lotus, androgynous, +such for example as the ash, which is the "sacred" tree of +Scandinavia. Wherever a plant or a tree is found to be bi-sexual, it +has been regarded as "sacred." The same idea is found throughout all +myths, and all religious symbolism, namely: _the attainment of +god-hood is reached when both sexes are united in one Being._ + +The fuller meaning of this symbolical idea will be considered in a +subsequent chapter; but for the present we are concerned with the +history of sex-degradation from the pure ideal of nature worship to +that of a monistic God whose gender is masculine. The pine tree, held +sacred in many countries as a symbol of generation, and from which our +own Christmas-tree is descended, is distinctively a male emblem, and +its perennial green typifies the hope of Man that he too may manifest, +in some form of life, the never-failing virility of the pine. The +Latin name for the pine is pinus. + +Thus from nature worship to phallic worship was but a step, but that +step led to others. The pine, from the fact of its erect form; its +spiral convolutions; its sap; its fruit; its renewal of activity; its +root and veins; became a universally accepted emblem of the +life-energy in man and in animals, and the gradual substitution of the +male principle alone, for the androgynous idea as a symbol of Deity +contributed to the idea of the inferiority of woman, until she finally +became the slave and the plaything of man. The "virgin of the +spheres," from her exalted mission as the Eternal Mother of the race, +became at best but a secondary personality, and finally was refused +any part in the symbol of the Holy Trinity. + +Instead of father, mother and child, the Holy Trinity became "Father, +Son and--Holy Ghost." + +The early Romans must have been devoid of a sense of humor. But what +of our modern Christian creeds, and their idea of the Holy Trinity +composed of three male beings? + +It is in Christian Science alone of all the modern creeds that the +female principle is given a place co-equal with the male. Christian +Science addresses the Deity as "Father-Mother-God," and their +reverence for the woman who established the creed, as well as the +Ionian type of architecture employed in their church edifices, are +evidences of the re-establishment of the female principle in the +God-idea. Christian Science is one of the most important instruments +of the cosmic law in the present-day dethronement of the male +principle as the only true God. + +So permeated with this male God-idea is every branch of our modern +thought; so enwrapped with the glamour of worship, that we hardly +notice the one-sidedness of the ideal. Tradition is a powerful +hypnotist. + +Many members of the Masonic fraternity fail utterly to understand the +symbolical language of their mosques and the phallic and yoni emblems +which constitute their decorations. Notable among these emblems are +the pomegranate; the lotus; the circle; the crescent; the swastika. +The cone-shaped towers, that rise above the mosques, with their +protruding heads, vein-tipped; the central symbol identical with the +mound of Venus; denote the preservation of the Egyptian ideal, which +venerated both sexes as co-equal. It is easy to realize why the Jews +were driven out of Egypt when we remember that they refused to worship +the Egyptian ideal of God as bi-sexual, but persisted in rearing the +phallic symbol alone, denying the female principle a place in the +God-head. + +It is also significant that side by side with the present-day Feminist +Movement we find the revival of Egyptian fashions; Egyptian +architecture; Egyptian philosophies and religions. Even Cubist art, +which in itself could make no possible appeal to recognition on its +artistic merits, has been received with much publicity, if not with +acclaim. Cubist art is a lineal descendant of Egyptian art, and so +closely resembles its far-off ancestry as to seem to have bridged the +centuries and connected us as if by telephone with the days of ancient +civilization. Our drama and our popular songs have responded to the +Egyptian thought-wave. Talismanic jewelry, so essentially Egyptian, is +in vogue, and on every sign board advertising breakfast foods, tobacco +and what not (so essentially an American custom) we find the +modernized use of Egyptian symbols, notably the swastika. + +The swastika, the earliest form of the cross, found in every country +and in every out-of-the-way corner of the globe, is fundamentally, +originally and pre-eminently a bi-une sex symbol, and although volumes +have in recent years been written on its history and meaning, the +whole story may be summed up by examining its form and by realizing +its antiquity and its universality. + +The two sex principles, joined in the center of the four arms or legs, +of the cross, accomplish that which is said (and truthfully if taken +on the physical plane only) to be impossible of accomplishment--they +square the circle. A circle is emblematical of completeness. Aum, the +Absolute, the Omniscient, is always typified by a circle. To "square +the circle" means esoterically to have reached godhood, and this can +be accomplished only by the male and female _united_ in spirit. The +swastika is essentially a bi-une sex symbol although it has been +sometimes called male and sometimes female, according to its shape, +which varies with the various meanings ascribed to it. Primitive man +was not prolific in language, and one symbol expressed many ideas +according to its varied form and position. + +The original form of oath was to swear by the sacred power of the +generative organs, and we may readily conclude that this power was +conceded to be vested in the male only, from the fact that we still +"testify" when under oath and although the Bible has been substituted +for the generative organs, as an outward expression of our recognition +of the Creative Principle, we note that the Bible is made up of +"testaments," which stand for its "sacredness." + +Evidently it was only after the advent of the male God that oaths and +vows and pledges were necessary. Previous to that time, a man's word +was reliable. It was inevitable that an ideal of the Supreme Creative +power of the universe so one-sided, and so lacking in the essential of +union, must degenerate into mere licentiousness and animalism; and it +is estimated that about six hundred years B.C. the level of debauchery +and vileness reigned. So-called religious rites and ceremonies were +nothing more than orgies of sex-degradation. + +The ideal of godhood as nothing higher than masculine virility and +power evidenced by the number of his progeny, naturally reduced woman +to the lowest depths of slavery, since she was nothing more than a +receptacle for man's seed. Of course one wife was insufficient and a +man's claim to divinity was best expressed by profligacy--an ideal +which is rife even today among those, whose consciousness is bounded +by nothing higher than the conception of the animal nature of man. + +Whence came this wonderful thing manifested as generative power? What +did it feed upon? These were natural queries. In seeking the answer +the idea originated that in the blood was to be found the secret of +the generative fluid. This idea arose from the evidence that as old +age conquered man's physical strength, his blood became weakened and +the supply insufficient. + +This was accompanied by a loss of generative activity, and thus, they +argued, the power that made man god-like (the creative energy) left +him. This was indeed a calamity greater than we in this generation +realize, although we know that old age with consequent cessation of +physical vigor is the dread enemy of the undeveloped man. Even our +supposedly advanced thinkers have the absurd idea that sexual-energy +dies with the physical body. The few who have risen to the place where +they realize the truths made plain by soul-consciousness, know that +old age is but physical; that it is the vacation time between the +functions of physical activity and that of the soul-life. Old age is +the wise provision of the Cosmic Law which compels those who will not +do so of their own volition and wisdom, to transmute the life-energy +into higher channels. If the race knew enough to consciously transmute +the creative sex-energy into an interior function, there would come to +pass the time prophecied by St. Paul when Man shall consciously "lay +down his body and take it up again." + +There are spiritually advanced men and women today who can consciously +leave the physical body as they do the house in which they live, while +they visit distant places, annihilating space. To these the body is no +more than a garment. Thus death is overcome and the knowledge attained +that we are souls using a physical body; that death does not in itself +confer upon any one either immortality or youth or love, but that +these may be acquired by acts of virtue and unselfish service--not as +payment or reward for unwilling work, but as the result of unfailing +law, which gives what we demand. + +What we demand we naturally work for. If we serve Love, we get the +coin in which Love pays as naturally as we get the checks signed by +Jones when we work for Jones, and by Smith when we work for Smith. + +Death merely discloses our interior nature. If we have failed to +transmute the life-energy into a love that is deeper than mere animal +instinct; if we have missed the beautiful and the pure and the lofty +idealism of Love, we will find ourselves as age-worn after death as +before the change. But again we may note a wise provision of the +Cosmic Law, for it is almost impossible for a human being to live +through many years of life without having loved some person or some +thing with at least a spark of unselfish love. Fortunately almost +every one is better interiorly than he appears to our limited vision. +The most depraved of mortals has his moments of the higher vision. + +From this deduction of inquiring primitive man, namely that the blood +was the source of procreative virility, it is easy to trace the +logical result in the terrible practise of blood-sacrifice which +reigned so long and which, carried from one nation to another, and +engrafted into the God-idea, has come down to us in the story of the +"sacrificial lamb," at length personified in Jesus, the Son of God, as +a final act of propitiation. + +The blood-atonement idea is naturally repulsive to civilized beings, +and were it not that nearly every one who adheres to the old form of +orthodox Christianity swallows theologic interpretation of the Bible +as he would swallow a dose of castor-oil, by closing his eyes and +holding his nose, the teaching as thus interpreted would be stopped by +police authority. And yet we may readily trace the gradual descent of +the God-idea of the ancients until it reached the culmination in the +idea of sacrifice of a son of God Himself. + +In their blind but eager groping for some means of escape from death, +even as we of this day and generation are groping, the early races +observed that birth was accompanied by blood; that as age came on and +the blood became thin, and in the case of the female ceased to flow at +certain reproductive periods, the power of generation ceased. What +more natural to primitive man than that he should conceive the idea of +sending back to this unknown and invisible power behind the veil of +the sky the blood, which he must need to supply his creative energies? +And when the sacrifice of animals was not sufficient for this God, +they concluded that it must be because he required the blood of man. + +And so at first the old and the sick and the deformed were sacrificed; +but as it was seen that this did not answer the need, they began to +sacrifice the young, and naturally the slaves were substituted for the +aged, as affording more blood; and when this failed the idea came, +that the sacrifice must be that of one who was innocent of the world, +and so they selected a girl or a young man, who had been secluded and +trained to the thought of sacrifice, and in whom the sex-function had +been rigorously suppressed. + +And still the old grew bloodless and death claimed his toll, and so +they conceived the idea of voluntary blood-sacrifice, and we read of +repeated occasions in which fanatical ones offered themselves freely +on the sacrificial altars as atonement for the sins of their people. +At length this contagion of sacrifice consummated in the idea that the +only Son of God Himself became a voluntary offering to pay the final +debt of transgression and set men free from death, that they might +have eternal life, which to them meant life in the physical body. + +It is not at all possible that Jesus had any such idea of his mission. +He was far too illumined for that, even judging from the meager +accounts which we have of his life and message. But when the story of +his mission on earth came to be told and retold the idea of +blood-sacrifice as _payment_ for the privilege of physical virility, +so implanted in the race-thought from centuries of such belief, could +not die immediately, and thus it reaches us today adown the centuries +and is re-told (though we trust not believed) in most of the Christian +churches in this civilized century. + +And yet there is an esoteric truth underlying this universal idea of +sacrifice, and when we come to this in a subsequent chapter, we will +better understand how and why it has persisted throughout the +centuries. + + + + + CHAPTER III + + PRESENT-DAY CONDITIONS: THE COSMIC CAUSE + + +From the study of ancient sex-worship to our twentieth century systems +of religion; our scientific discoveries; our intellectual standards of +philosophy and social ethics; and above all, perhaps, our marvelous +commercial order, connecting, as it does, the entire globe, seems a +far cry; but it is only another link in a chain and fits into the past +as accurately and as inevitably as the morning follows the night. + +There is an erroneous idea current that public institutions, such as +law-courts, religious creeds, educational systems, reform movements, +et cetera, are causes of race-advancement. As a matter of fact they +are not causes but results. They do not determine progress; they +reflect it. + +Causes start from the Center and radiate outward. We may realize this +more readily if we will remember that if we throw a pebble into a pool +of water, it starts innumerable little waves which traveling outward, +reach a point some distance from the central source, and if we were to +see the outermost wavelet only, we might imagine that the disturbance +begins and ends far from the place where the pebble was thrown. + +This illustration explains the difference between the materialistic +and the metaphysical points of view. The former notes the result, and +the latter the cause of existing conditions. The mystical viewpoint +takes into account the fact that there is a cosmic law which acts like +a tidal-wave. Materialists call the action of this law "Evolution," +assuming that its impetus comes from our physical activities. It is, +in fact, from the Center or spiritual source of life that all power, +all evolution, emanates. The spiritual is the intensity of power; the +physical is the attenuated. + +The term, "spiritual realms" suggests to the average mind a vaporous +space where nothing happens; yet it requires only a little intelligent +reflection to establish the fact that, as Paracelsus said long ago, +"The mind is the workshop in which all visible life is formed." Our +mental operations are silently, invisibly, carried on, and yet we see +the effect of these silent plans and ideas in our noisy methods of +locomotion; our architecture; our commerce--in all the avenues of our +active civilization. + +We wish to emphasize the point that every so-called advancement; every +discovery; every improvement in moral ideals as well as in mechanics, +and in those things that add to our physical comfort, comes from the +center of Life. + +The external but _reflects_ the action of the Cosmic Law which +uncovers the vast areas of consciousness and frees the human soul from +the hypnotisms, and the limitations of the animal-mind. + +Animal force is still strong in the world to-day, but it is not as +strong as it appears to be, because much of the seeming indifference +and cold-heartedness of the people, taken en masse, is due to the +hurried, feverish and insistent demands of our external life. + +Underneath the surface, in the realm of the sub-conscious activities, +there is developing the spirit of unity; of sympathy; and a +consciousness of our innate relationship. This realization comes to +the surface in times of great stress and peril. + +The whole trend of modern life symbolizes or reflects the _ideal_ of +unity, albeit the tooth and claw and growl of the animal in Man may be +seen and felt and heard in the vain effort to postpone the inevitable +dethronement of the animal force, which would dominate the weaker and +appropriate for the personal self, the creation of brain and hand, +much as the house-dog, satiated with over-feeding, buries the bone he +cannot eat lest some hungry brother-dog shall get it. Nevertheless, +despite the animal greed that still shows in our modern life, there is +plenty of evidence that we are on the upward spiral that leads to +unity--the effect of love. + +The superficial observer, dominated by that instinct of fear which +seems to be so ingrained in our animal nature that we are all slaves +to it in some form or degree, sees in the present-day conditions a +menace to what he believes to be the moral life of the race, and +particularly as these conditions apply to the modern woman. + +He sees women coming out of the seclusion of their "rightful sphere" +and meeting men on terms of equality. He sees what he terms "immodest +dress;" defiance of traditional ideas of etiquette and conduct; he +notes what appears to be a disregard for the faith of our fathers; +and, above all, a distaste for that special function of +woman--child-bearing. The superficial observer, both male and female, +feels great alarm. + +But let us not be dismayed. Present day conditions, particularly as +they relate to the female principle of Creation, but reflect the +inevitable reaction from a one-sided course. The pendulum swings back +again and ultimately we will strike a balance; from domination to +unity; from struggle to harmony. Even American commercial life admits +the value of a vacation time. + +Present day conditions, then, are not chaotic or lacking in a +well-defined purpose, even though they are unsettled. Anything that +disturbs the seeming placidity of the surface always strikes alarm to +the undeveloped mind. Particularly in those phases of our modern life +which directly affect women, or in which we may say, the Female +Principle is especially concerned, we note a determined and united +demand for freedom. + +Woman's demand for political equality is but a shadowgraph as it were +of the real demand which is the demand of the Divine Feminine +throughout all manifested life, for recognition of equality, in the +plan of creation. It is a symbol of the ideal of unity which finds +expression in the commercial world in trusts and labor unions; in the +"let us get together" plea of the various advocates of reform; of all +those enterprises which are seen to most directly affect the entire +human family. + +That there are women who are blind to this fundamental idea of their +demand for political equality is true; and it is also true that there +are perhaps as many men as there are women who recognize the need of +woman's political and social equality, but this only proves the fact +which we have already emphasized, namely that it is not women as +personalities, but the Female Principle throughout the universe that +is at the root of the modern Feminist Movement. The male principle is +not confined to the form of man, neither is the female principle +always expressed in the form of woman. Many men exemplify more of the +maternal instinct than do certain women; neither must it be assumed +that this type of man is effeminate; or that the woman of Amazonian +physique is more masculine in thought and habit than is the little +frou-frou specimen of womankind who looks appealingly into the eyes of +her male escort, beseeching protection from the rude stares which she +has premeditatedly invited. Qualities are sexless and universal. It is +only in their specific combinations that they adequately represent the +masculine or the feminine gender. + +Blessed are they who have learned the art of discrimination. + +Broadly speaking, women are behaving in a manner which upsets all +precedent and promises ultimate emancipation from restraint. + +But is it not possible that women no longer need restraint if they +ever needed it? Is it not possible that the world has grown up, and +that both men and women may safely be allowed the freedom of +self-government, with all possible mutual aid in the work of +establishing an upright, free, and trustworthy science of right +living? + +That which is always in the future is never ours and if we are ever +going to be free and happy and well-conditioned there is no reason why +we should not make it soon. + +Woman's demand for political equality is sometimes used as an excuse +to lessen her dignity and her place in society. People who do this are +of the same type as those before whom Sex cannot be discussed +intelligently because they do not realize the sacredness of Sex. They +are a remnant of the ages which have passed and which have left their +mark, in the idea of a half-sexed God, the "He," the spouseless Father +who brought forth the visible universe apparently without co-operation +with the Female Principle. This type of person prates much about the +dangers of race-suicide, meaning thereby the increasing tendency to +childlessness and not as should be taken into account the death rate +among children who are born of diseased and unfit parents and brought +into existence without the necessary conditions of sanitation, food +and care. + +Our national Eugenic societies are hampered by false ideas of what +constitutes morality, being bound to uphold the tradition that the +child that is born of married parents, no matter how diseased in body +and deficient in mind, is better-born than is the offspring of +unmarried parents, even though the latter may be a model of physical +health and mental efficiency. Eugenics will remain limited in scope +until such time as the entire world adopts "in spirit and in truth" +the recent action of the European governments, and recognizes the +legitimacy of all children however born. + +And although the action of the European governments was born of +nothing more humane than a war expediency in order that more soldiers +might be bred, yet the effect of such a course will benefit the human +race. It has at least set a precedent, and will in time be extended to +all children born out of wedlock and will wipe out forever the cruel +and unjust stigma that has attached to the child of unmarried parents. +Thus it will be seen that even war has its good results, and although +it seems a terrible price to pay for even so badly a needed reform as +this, Humanity has always paid dearly for its willful blindness. It +certainly should be evident to any sane mind that every child that is +born into this world has a moral and a legal right to be here. +Whatever may be said for or against parents, it is wicked stupidity to +brand an innocent child with the epithet "illegitimate." The lowest +animal has a right to be born. Many a beautiful and innocent child is +denied that right. + +If it has taken one of the most bloody wars in history to establish +the right of birth, even so the struggle will not have been in vain, +because this right, once established in the hearts of all Humanity, +will forever do away with warfare. No doubt this assertion will sound +far-fetched to many, but the future will see the vindication of this +belief. + +Birth is actually the most important function in life. If it is +immoral to be born, no matter what the conditions of such birth, what +possible chance have we to live morally? We cannot discriminate in +dealing with the great fundamentals of life. + +This truism, applies to all cosmic action. Nature's laws are +inviolable. Nature says that the child of the king and the child of +the beggar shall be born in the self-same way. The child of the +unmarried mother and the child of the married mother come into the +world in accordance with the self-same law of reproduction. Nature may +not be always polite, but she is always truthful. + +As long as there is any question of the "legitimacy" of any birth, +Humanity as a whole cannot be otherwise than inferior, because +Humanity cannot rise higher than the ideal of the average. Moreover we +are so interdependent that the whole must be affected by the +conditions of a part. + +Birth is right, or it is wrong. It cannot be right under some +circumstances and wrong under others. The primal laws do not take into +account our ideas of respectability. + +The question then arises: "Are we to consider it moral and legitimate +for women to have children before they have been married?" + +The obvious answer to this question is, that the mother must be +permitted to decide this for herself, since no one has a right to do +it for her. Our right of interference in so intimate a matter must +begin only at the point where her conduct injures us. If an unmarried +woman chooses to give birth to a child, neither you nor I, nor Society +is injured, not even if the child becomes a charge of the state, +because the cost of maintaining a child is far less than that of +maintaining insane asylums and penitentiaries--both of which result +from our mistaken attitude toward the sex-relation. + +If we are permitted to answer the question of morality and legitimacy +by generalities, we will say that any child that comes into the world +_desired by the mother_ is born in accordance with the highest +possible concept of the moral law. Whenever Society, Church and +Governments shall unite to wipe out the stain upon mother and child +because of failure to comply with our marriage laws, a better race of +men and women will people the earth, because the race-thought will be +one of welcome with all that word implies; whereas at the present +time, under our undeveloped ideas of morality, doubt, suspicion, and +condemnation prevail, with all that these words imply. + +When all mothers are honored all women will be willing to be mothers. + +As long as dishonor attaches to any instance of motherhood, it is +inevitable that motherhood will be avoided, even to the point of +child-murder. Not that this practice is confined to the women who +would be dishonored by becoming mothers. It obtains rather more +perhaps among those women whose wealth and ease would seem to make +motherhood desirable. Judging from surface conditions only, one might +not see the connection. But that is the trouble with our modern life. +We do not look deeply enough to deal intelligently with causes. We are +always seeking to check effects. + +The average human being is little more than a phonographic record of +the dominant race-thought, and race-thought ideas are contagious. + +Let us honor and provide for all mothers and all children and we will +find that the birthrate will increase among the "rich and +respectable," where now we note a determined desire to shirk the +responsibilities of parenthood. + +We need not fear that the number of unmarried mothers will be +alarming. The first aid to true morality is honesty. Monogamy is the +ideal relationship between men and women. But enforced relationships +are neither ideal nor true. Ideal conditions can be established only +between free human beings. Compulsion is death. Selection and choice +mean life and health. + +The man or the woman who is free, and particularly free from +self-condemnation, is instinctively monogamous. Life in all its phases +tends upward toward conscious and specific selection. Conscious +selection must include love, and we may safely trust love. Love is +inseparable from truth and fidelity. Without love, all the efforts of +all the Eugenic Societies on earth will accomplish little, however +well-meant their efforts. Eugenists confine their work to the physical +aspect of the subject and as a matter of expediency deal with the +effects of marriage and race-propagation in their relation to disease +and degeneracy, ignoring the esoteric phase of the subject. Thus no +real good can come of the Eugenic movement per se. Its contribution to +Progress consists in its value as an "announcer" of a higher _ideal_, +rather than a higher _order_. The higher order can come only by +getting back to primal laws. + +The fact should not be overlooked that the ancient Greeks were +competent Eugenists. They effected wonderful results, too, in two +important points of the well-balanced individual. They worked for +beauty and intellect, both desirable adjuncts to a perfect race, but +both also as cold as the marble statues which Greece gave to the +world. Greek and Roman civilization toppled and fell because it was a +civilization without foundation; it was built from the outside; it was +like an old ruined house encased in a thin wall of beautiful marble, +and set upon a high hill. It deceives the eye from a distance, but +freezes the blood and congeals the soul when intimately known. + +Greek and Roman civilization, based upon physical Eugenics, was +unbalanced and could not endure, because it was a civilization of +force; of dominance rather than of unity. There was no ideal of +sex-equality, and therefore Love was regarded as the least important +requisite in Eugenic marriage. It should be obvious that without the +element of love, as the basis of selection, human reproduction must +take on the same status as stock-breeding, which may for a time give +the finest physical specimens of animal life, but which, if persisted +in, finally results in decadence. + +We have an example of the tendency to decadence from in-breeding of +those types of humans which have the best advantages at least of +education and refinement, whether or not those advantages are +embraced. We refer to Royalty. We need only mention the illustrious +example of Cleopatra to prove this. Cleopatra was the offspring of a +marriage between a brother and sister--a custom which prevailed among +ancient rulers to insure none but royal blood. Cleopatra we may well +believe was both beautiful and intellectual, but it is also certain +that she was abnormally lacking in conscience, in tenderness, in love. +Her passions were those of the animal, and not of the soul. + +In modern life, Spain and Austria both furnish discouraging data to +exponents of "select" breeding. In fact it is thoroughly established +that degeneracy is not the result of imperfect physical conditions +only. The greatest villians are not infrequently both handsome and +intellectual. + +Bulwer Lytton well illustrates this fact in his character of +"Margrave" in "A Strange Story." Margrave was a perfect and beautiful +physical specimen. He possessed rare intelligence, but he had no soul +and was utterly incapable of the finer sensibilities, which we +instinctively classify as spiritual attributes. + +Returning to a consideration of what has been termed the "unusual +behavior" of the feminine half of mankind, we find that the chief end +and aim of many women centers upon the problem of how to avoid +maternity, quite upsetting traditional ideas regarding woman's +rightful sphere, which began and ended in rearing a large family. + +Women in all walks of life, rich and poor, wise and frivolous, selfish +and unselfish--are refusing to bear children. The superficial observer +rails against this, because he sees only the effect. He sees women +living in fashionable hotels, if they are rich enough to afford it; if +they are poor they establish a cheap imitation of this phase of +semi-communal life in what is paradoxically known as "light" +housekeeping, usually represented by one small dark room where the +nearest delicatessen serves as a convenience, the public laundry +minimizes domestic labor, and the department store supplies ready +made, the family clothing, from undergarments to top coats. Under +these conditions, whether of fashionable hotel suites or dark "light +housekeeping," it is plain that children are not welcome. + +Even those of the class found between these extremes are discouraged +from rearing children, since city life tends more and more to +apartments as a substitute for the home; and no well regulated +apartment house is open to children. The average observer, as we say, +notes these conditions, but fails to realize that there must be a +cosmic cause for a condition so wide-spread. There must be "something +back of it," as we say of many things which we note in our every day +life. Looked at from the surface only, these conditions seem +deplorable and ultimately race-suicidal. But the cosmic law is always +upward in tendency. We may safely trust it, if we will. + +This does not mean that the conscious motive which actuates the +average woman, who is able physically and financially to bear children +and yet will not, is a high and noble one. The law deals with the +planet, not directly with the individual; it acts upon the developed +and the undeveloped with equal impartiality, even as the rain falls +upon the just and the unjust alike. + +Spiritually conscious persons realize the necessity for a change in +human ethics. The world is in need of a more exalted ideal; an ideal +in which equality shall be more nearly represented and they give +themselves consciously to the task of assisting in this regenerating +work. + +The difference is not in the law itself, but in our comprehension of +it. The curriculum of the school of life is unchanged. We graduate +from it or we return for another term, according as we have mastered +the studies. Applying this truth to the conditions just stated, and we +see that this rebellion on the part of woman against child birth has +two aspects. One is from apparent selfishness and lack of the +temperamental quality, which has erroneously been attributed to women +as an exclusive possession, namely, the maternal instinct. + +The other aspect of woman's disinclination to maternity is due to a +restless, vague but nevertheless determined desire on the part of the +Feminine Principle, to wait until conditions are more equal. Sometimes +we find women, who are perfectly awake and consciously aware of the +cause of their "brazen sterility," as a virile writer has caustically +termed it; but more often the conscious mental attitude is lacking and +they merely obey blindly the dominant race-mind. + +Women know much more in the depths of their souls than they can put +into words. A part of this knowledge is the fact that child-bearing is +not a function limited to the physical, the mortal plane of life. +Every woman who is anywhere near balanced in the struggle for +completeness knows intuitively, that even though she may never beget +mortal children, there are innumerable opportunities for the exercise +of her maternal functions, awaiting her just behind the veil, which +seemingly separates us from invisible areas. Moreover motherhood is +qualitative. It is not synonymous with maternity. It is not made nor +unmade by the birthrate. + +Two important considerations present themselves to the world today: One +is that woman--considered as the fecund receptive sex-principle--is +refusing the sex relationship on the old basis, however "respectable" +and well-intentioned that basis was. Generally speaking, it is evident +that the old basis of intercourse between the sexes has been, is +being, and will continue to be, disrupted, denied, refused, as the +approved and fixed plan and purpose of Destiny. The other important +observation is this: there is a cosmic cause for this. + +It is only those who are blinded by prejudice or by sense-conscious +limitations who refuse to look below the surface for the cause of a +condition so general as that of unhappy marriages; of innumerable +divorces; of the refusal to bear children. What is the cause? Why are +women refusing to marry, or when they do marry refusing to live with +their husbands? Why do they shrink from child-birth? Are they less +courageous than their progenitors? Or are women less capable of +love--either love of children or love of the father who begets the +children? + +It will be agreed that we are establishing a higher standard of love +than ever before in history. We are beginning to realize for the first +time in the history of many generations, what we owe to the future. +Formerly men built entirely for self, and for the immediate present. +We can look back and trace the development of a race consciousness +from the clan to the nation. In this century we see the barriers +between races and nations and sects and societies, as also between the +sexes, slowly dissolving. + +Only a few years ago we could not imagine an Oriental, occupying a +political, or educational or religions platform with an Occidental. +Now it is a common thing. We know the hostility which has existed +between the Jew and the Gentile--now they exchange pulpits, and all +sects and all nations unite in matters of world interest. Women are +elected to political and educational offices. No matter that these +evidences of unity are as yet incomplete. They are _promises_ of the +birth of a larger concept of love than that which prevailed when a +man's highest idea of honor and of love was to protect his immediate +family only; to care for his own legal wife and children even at the +expense of and certainly with heartless indifference to the fate of +any other women and children. + +To be sure, this protection has often been vouchsafed because of the +self interest which is inseparable from the idea of possession and is +not, per se, a grander or nobler impulse than that which actuated our +hair-clothed antecedents, who found that their own lives were best +conserved by respecting those nearest to them. But thus it is that +Love has been implanted in human hearts through no higher or more +altruistic method than that of self-interest; but the nature of love +is to expand; to grow; to _give_ of itself until unselfishness must +come with the final aim of love, which is _unity_ and not possession. + +We of this era are unquestionably manifesting a larger and more +inclusive ideal of love, and since the Female Principle conserves the +higher aspects of love, we are bound to concede that a higher ideal of +love is possible to the woman of today than ever before. We must take +into consideration the average of the sex, at the same time not +forgetting that in the highest type of individual, the qualities of +both sexes are balanced, uniting the spiritual, self-sacrificing and +unselfish love-element of the female principle, with the wider scope, +the inclusive element of the male. Let us remember that we are dealing +with principles and not merely with individuals. + +Admitting that it is not because of lack of love, either maternal or +conjugal, that women are shirking marriage and maternity, we may then +ask: "What is the cause?" The answer may be found in the conclusion +that women are done with mere instinctive procreation. They demand +conditions consistent with the birth of a higher type of human-kind. +They desire to "make right the way" for the coming of the perfect +race--a race that will not snarl and bite and growl and tear and claw +and choke and starve and freeze and otherwise kill each other over the +possession of bones. + +Ever and ever we have been promised the coming of the perfect man--the +"man-god," as Emerson said. This means the God in Man consciously +active, and awake. This God-nature of Man's has been asleep, submerged +under the domination of the animal nature which subdues and +appropriates. + +A race of supermen can be born only of full and complete union. +Animals reproduce their kind, but man's perogative is to invite the +gods to come to earth. We may consciously beget souls, not merely +reproduce bodies. Women are demanding a union in which there shall be +something more than mere physical contact resulting in reproduction. +This demand is working itself out more or less blindly according to +the development of individual women, but the ideal of soul union is +coming to be more and more recognized not only as a desirable type of +union, but also as the initiative of the promised time when the +kingdom of God should come on earth as it is in the heavens. + +All races have uttered this prayer, apparently with a firm belief in +its efficacy. If they have not faith in its appeal, it were surely +vain and foolish to voice it But we are assured that "God always keeps +his promises," which is simply one way of saying that the law of the +cosmos is reliable. + +"One calls it Evolution and another calls it God," but both must agree +that whether God or Evolution be the name, Love is the result. There +can be no higher or more spiritual phase of life than that in which +Love is an ever-present reality. Neither can we with any degree of +logic assume that a function so universal, so all-pervading, and also +so inspiring, as that of Sex, has its beginning and its termination on +the physical plane--a manifestation of life which even physicists are +bound to concede is an infinitesimal part of cosmic activities. + +We need not worry therefore lest the race shall die, because of a +decreasing birthrate as we see it on the physical plane. There are +many other places and planes of consciousness. The stars and the +planets are peopled. The cosmos is very much alive, because Sex is the +axis (X-is) upon which it rotates in perfect harmony. + +The fact which we here wish to emphasize is that the Female Principle +is refusing maternity, and above all the _bondage_ of matrimony for +the important reason that the time has come for the rearing of the +Man-god; for the establishment of the spiritual function of sex, +superceding the mere instinctive animal urge of procreation and sense +gratification. + +Evolution is apparent in all other phases of our life-activities. Why +should it not manifest in this most important of all our systems of +intercourse? + +The mere act of bringing forth children is not in itself either sacred +or holy. Far more often it has been a perfunctory duty or a punishment +for indulgence in an act of which men and women have been more than +half ashamed, even while seeking it with the instinctive urge of a +cosmic law which cannot be escaped, although it may be co-operated +with to advantage. + +Nor does the act of giving birth to children confer true motherhood. +Maternity is not necessarily motherhood any more than matrimony is +always marriage. There are many mothers who have never borne children. +And there are many women with children who know not the first faint +dawn of that wonderful, beautiful and intense (because spiritual) love +which comes most often in the guise of motherhood, but which is +always present when two souls who are truly mated contact each other's +inner nature. + +If the women of today will insist upon the sacredness and the +rightfulness of birth the women of tomorrow will not seek to evade +motherhood. If the women of today will establish the sacredness of all +life; if they will not rest until every child that is born into this +world is recognized as legitimate and more, is welcomed; is given +every advantage of education, of healthful body, of right moral +training, rest assured that the women of the future will seek only to +rival each other in the quality and the perfection of their +motherhood. + +The efforts of many radicals to enact legislation regulating the +birthrate, the struggle to disseminate knowledge of how to prevent +conception, may be well meant as these things are consistent with +prevailing conditions. But they are not the final answer to the +problem. Love is the only answer. Where love is permitted to rule, +children are not only welcome but ecstatically desired and provided +for. + +Motherhood is a hope and a joy to the normal woman. Comparatively +every woman would be normal under proper social and economic +conditions. When women seek to evade maternity it is either because of +lack of sufficient means to care for children, or it is because of +lack of sufficient love. Or it is because of fear of that modern +mo-loch, Public Opinion. + +When a woman truly loves a man, she longs to be the mother of his +children. A balanced world will make it possible for every woman to be +free from the bondage of fear and poverty, and ill-health, leaving her +free to be guided in the most vital and important function of her +life, by the call of the highest love of which she is capable. Love +will establish motherhood as a divine privilege. Certainly no other +power on earth or in the realms above can do so. Neither preachments +nor platitudes, nor punishments, nor legislative blunderings. Love is +the only saviour of mankind. There is no other true God. + +Some day the symbol of Deity which now depicts Man crucified will be +superseded upon all altars by the image of a winged babe, and when +this comes to pass, Humanity will rise to that ideal. + + + + + CHAPTER IV + + THE HISTORY OF MARRIAGE AND MATING + + +Any attempt to discuss subjects pertaining to the sex-relation with +intelligence and an optimistic outlook is handicapped by the fact that +sex-problems are so intimately associated with religious prejudices, +reasons for which we have already mentioned in the chapter devoted to +sex-worship and sex-degradation. + +It is possible, therefore, that in seeking to define freedom and to +make a plea for the freeing of women and men from the "bonds" of +matrimony, we may be accused of seeking to demolish with one blow, so +to speak, the social institution of marriage. + +Such is not the intention of the present writer, for reasons which are +based upon something far more noteworthy than a concession to the +prejudices and "beliefs" of the average. + +Luther Burbank has said: "In pursuing any of the everlasting and +fundamental laws of nature, all previous bias and inherited prejudices +must be laid aside, if the student hopes to be taken into Nature's +confidence and be the sharer of her secrets." + +The average person, entrenched behind the bulwark of theological +bias, saturated with a belief in the finality of all previous +discovery and knowledge, teems with a fanatical desire to "defend his +God"--as if the Supreme Power, whatever name we give it--were not +capable of self-defense. + +It is due to this mistaken zeal on the part of the short-sighted ones, +that human evolution is slow, albeit it is likewise inevitable. + +They are like those who, viewing the wrecking of a ruined habitation, +condemned by the Board of Public Safety, try to stop the process of +the workers; they do not know that when the ground shall have been +cleared, a finer, more sightly, and above all, more habitable building +will be put up on the same ground; and anything from the old +architecture that was worthy of preservation will be used in the new +building. + +The dug-outs of our antedeluvian ancestors were designed to protect +them from the destructive forces of storm and wave and also from their +brothers, the enemy; and although our ideas of what constitutes a +desirable dwelling-place have evolved to our modern ideal of a home, +rather than a shelter, yet the fundamental concept remains. A study of +history should be encouraging if only to prove that no radical changes +in human ethics have ever been forced upon us. Verily, the "gods wait +upon men" and until there is something like a concerted demand for +improved conditions, they stand just outside the door waiting to be +bidden, "Enter, Friend." + +As with mental ideas, so it is with ethical ideals. Until there is a +more general demand for a higher concept of marriage, it is quite +certain that the world will worry along with the one which now does +duty for the majority, although it must be admitted that the poor +thing gives evidence of much decrepitude and suffers from as many +complaints as a hypochondriac. + +But, the fact that marriage in some form has prevailed as one of the +fundamental necessities of human ethics, ever since the beginning of +recorded history, and doubtless before that, is, we believe, very +satisfactory evidence that marriage has a permanent place in social +and individual evolution. What that place is, can be deduced from a +study of the history of marriage. + +There are two different viewpoints from which we may discuss all +phases of Life, namely, the mystical and the ethical. The mystic sees +all life from the inside, as it were; and the physicist studies the +exterior, the appearance. To the mystic, the visible, or external, +world is a succession of symbols, which he must interpret. To him, the +everlasting and fundamental truths of the Cosmos are told in a +succession of moving pictures. In fact, the mystic has long +anticipated the art which we now see manifested in our film-theatres +and has realized that the scenes, which appear to the eye as actual +events, are but the reflection of scenes enacted in a place far +distant and long before the moment of projection upon the screen which +meets his eye. + +Science examines, dissects, and classifies these symbols according to +their relation to other symbols which the mind has previously noted +and classified. The same conclusion awaits both Science and Mysticism. + +Humanity is ever seeking the Reality--the Noumenon, which we +intuitively postulate as behind the phenomena of Nature. + +The institution of marriage, coming down to us through all the ages, +side by side with the mystery of sex, and incorporated with the +sex-mystery into every form and system of religious rites and +ceremonials among all peoples, would seem to have a place in human +ethics, as substantial and as permanent as the germ of life itself. + +Indeed, the institution of marriage, in its first stages of evolution, +obtains in the animal kingdom, where selection in a great variety of +forms is common. + +And it must be confessed that here we find the same tendency to change +and variation, both in regard to the individual and the family +species, as we have in the human family. + +Polyandry, polygamy, and monogamy, have been general among some +animals while among others only one form of mating has been the rule. + +Strange to say, sex promiscuity is not at all general among the +animals, though polygamy is common. The adoption of polygamy is +obviously due to one of two things, or possibly, to be more specific, +to both. First, because the percentage of deaths among the males is +greater than among the females; this applies to animal life, both wild +and domestic. In wild life, because of frequent combats; in domestic +life, because the females are kept for breeding while the males are +slaughtered for food. + +The second reason is because the female is seldom as virile as the +male, and to this is also added the debilitating effect of bearing and +rearing the young, the necessity for which must have manifested itself +very early among the various families, from motives of self-protection, +if from nothing higher, since victory evidently favored the numerically +strong. + +In bird-life, especially, where love is so vital a part of their life, +and so beautifully expressed, monogamy is the rule, and in some +species, like that of the robin, a certain aristocracy seems to exist, +preventing intercourse with any other family. The robin will mate only +with a robin, and not infrequently mates for life; which is to say +that should one die, the other refuses to mate again. + +It is claimed that the bald-headed eagle never varies from monogamy. A +mate once chosen, the union lasts until the death of either partner. +It does not follow from this, however, that the bald-headed eagle is a +creature of a superior moral conscience. It may be that he is guided +in his selection of a conjugal mate by an intuitional power +undeveloped by other types of life, or, which is far more probable, it +may be that his sexual nature is easily satisfied and that he has no +temperamental affinities or repulsions, in which event force of habit +would be the strongest actuating power. This explanation is in keeping +with the eagle character. + +The point is that marriage, or what constitutes marriage, exists among +birds and animals, and that it antedates history as a social +institution among men. Another fact which we must concede, if we are +just, is that marriage apparently knows no systematic and upward +trend. There is, in fact, no determined evolution toward a definite +and conclusive practice of monogamy, although the monogamic custom is +recognized as the evolutionary type among the civilized races of +today. Nevertheless, it would be folly to imply that a strict monogamy +obtains in the letter of the word, or that social exigencies might not +reinstate polygamy as a legalized custom. + +Passing over those forms of mating, which may be classed as +sex-promiscuity, such, for example, as exist among the Esquimaux, and +also among the Dyaks, of Borneo, where a "contract" is made for a +night by the simple expediency of the man and the woman exchanging +head-gear, we come to one of the earliest and most general forms of +marriage among primitive peoples, where the parents arranged a +marriage between their children for reasons of personal profit. In +these instances, neither the youth nor the girl was consulted and +generally did not meet until they met to consummate the marriage. In +fact, they seemed not to have any preferences. These marriages were +easily broken, unless children resulted therefrom, when there seems +to have developed a sense of obligation to the offspring to continue +the family. + +Marriage by capture grew out of the matriarchal system and came as the +very natural revolt of the male from the female rule, in which he had +no rights and no home with his spouse. Since the gens of the family +was the first consideration and this was maintained by the female +heads of a clan, there was nothing left for the male to do, if he +would be a factor in the community, but to steal his wife from her +family, and establish a family life of his own. Thus the female became +the possession of the male, by his right of capture and defense. + +Inspired by the thirst for further invasions, the male gradually +acquired not only one, but many wives, which constituted his +"possessions," from the fact that he had earned them by right of +conquest, conquest being not only the savage but also the civilized +idea of "earning." + +Indeed, our modern marriages reveal a degree of savagery in this +respect, which is not suspected by the casual observer. The almost +general observance of what has come to be known in legal jurisprudence +as "the unwritten law," which permits a man to go unpunished when he +kills another man whom he believes to have been on terms of intimacy +with his wife, is a tacit admission of a man's vested rights in his +wife's person. + +In innumerable instances, which have been given world-wide publicity +within very recent times, the man who has been guilty of homicide +under these circumstances has been exalted to the plane of a +martyr-hero, and one woman writer, whose hysterical effusions are +given considerable space in the public print, defended a man who had +taken advantage of this "unwritten law" to shoot his rival, in the +following words: "You, Mister, would shoot a man whom you found +prowling through your house with the intention of stealing your +silver; your jewelry; your property of whatever kind or value. How +much more, then, should you guard the honor of your wife, from these +pestilential marauders?" + +Of course we question the right of human beings to kill each other in +defense of mere property; but that is not the point here. The +inference here is obvious that this woman, who represents at least the +average degree of intelligence, placed her sex in the category of +man's possessions, utterly ignoring the woman's right, or power of +free-will. + +Mention is here made of this incident to show how deeply rooted is the +possessive idea of marriage, which had its origin in nothing more +ideal than the animal instinct of the dog with the bone. + +Nor would we give the impression that this one-sided idea of what +constitutes a monogamous marriage is confined to the male. The same +idea of possession as of a piece of property, representing so much +investment of time and money, and service of one kind or another, +actuates the female also although the rights of the woman in the male +are not so generally defended and she seldom resorts to such violent +methods of defense or of revenge for loss of her property. Perhaps she +has a keener sense of values. Necessity has substituted "support" for +"outraged honor," and modern woman avenges the loss of her possessions +through the safer channels of the law-courts. + +The feeling of possession, so ingrained in human nature, and so much a +part of our modern marriage relation, is not grounded upon a moral +code, which has for its basic principle fidelity to one's partner. +This is proven by the fact that men have for some time abrogated to +themselves the right of promiscuity, the main clause of their defense +being that their conduct does not deprive their wife and family of +satisfactory maintenance. Many a woman today, irreproachably +respectable and church-going, will admit to herself if not to her +neighbors, that she closes her eyes to her husband's laxity in sexual +matters, "as long as he provides well for me." + +When we come, as we will later, to a consideration of what constitutes +morality, we will see that, like all our evolving ideals, it is +governed by immediate conditions, both individual and social. + +It is easy to see why polygamy has been practiced, as a necessary +expedient, and why women have been held so cheaply, when we realize +the centuries of devastating wars, both of conquest and of defense, +which besmirch the path of Evolution. + +Thus the tendency to æsthetic selection, always more pronounced in +the female than in the male, has been swallowed up in the false +valuation put upon the male, because of his relative scarcity. + +In America, in the early sixties, fear of the epithet "old maid" drove +many a woman to marriage with a man whom, personally, she did not +like, but as he represented a more or less "rara avis" and as her +claim to attractiveness rested upon her success in trapping this rare +bird, she permitted herself to become a victim of conditions; and we +may safely conclude that no higher motive actuated the average woman +of the last century than that of submission to conditions, for the +"virtues of fidelity and devotion to the home and fireside" which +critics of present-day morals are fond of reminding us characterized +our grandmothers. + +Briefly, then, we may review the history of marriage and of mating, +everywhere, and at all times, as variable, controlled by expediency; +and always based on the egoistic idea of possession, expressed by the +right of the parents to dispose of their children; the right by +capture; the right by purchase; and the right by consent. + +One or all of these customs have been tried in various parts of the +world and at various times, and seldom has the condition of woman +approached even so enviable a place as that of the female animal, +except in the comparatively short periods when women have been the +gens of the family. + +These periods have become more and more infrequent, until the legal +status of women has been, as it is now, no more than what the +evolving consciousness of the male permitted to her. + +It is a question whether, under our pretended monogamy, which is, per +se, a more ideal condition than polygamy, all women have been either +better conditioned or more moral. The answer depends largely upon our +idea of what constitutes morality. Certainly, the condition of women +in Christian countries has been, and is now, far from ideal; which +would, judging from surface appearances, indicate that monogamy, as it +has been practiced in the past, served only as an ideal, and at best +has been of first aid to the male, primarily because of a question of +personal health and cleanliness; secondly, as a means of developing in +him the latent qualities of altruism, manifested selfishly enough at +first in protecting his possessions; among which he egotistically +conceded _his children at least_ first place; although the wife was +hardly more than a convenience and an incubator. + +Of the conditions that have prevailed under the monogamous custom and +among the so-called superior races, Letourneau, in his _Evolution of +the Family_, says: "The Hebrews seem to have been alone, among the +Semites, in adopting monogamy, at least in general practice. Doubtless +the subjection of the Jewish woman was not extreme as it is in Kabyle; +it was, however, very great. Her consent to marriage, it is true, was +necessary when she had reached majority, but she was all the same sold +to her husband. We find hardly more than the portrait of a laborious +servant, busy and grasping. We shall see that the wife, though she +might gain much money, which seems to have been the ideal of the +Hebrew, according to the Proverbs, was repudiable at will, with no +other reason than the caprice of the master who had bought her. +Finally, and this is much more severe, she was always obliged to be +able to prove, _cloths in hand_, that she was a virgin at the moment +of her marriage, and this under pain of being stoned." + +The same state of affairs or worse existed in India and in Persia, +although in Persia there seems to have been an attempt to enjoin the +same fidelity upon the husband as upon the wife, according to the +Zend-Avesta; the only severe restriction to marriage being that +neither should marry an infidel. In India, where there has been for +centuries an alleged monogamy (except among the privileged classes, +where concubinage held sway), the ethical condition of the women has +been, and still is, deplorable. + +In ancient Greece and Rome the position of the woman was most +inferior. She was generally purchased, or given for service. Her +husband's word was law, and mothers were compelled to obey their male +children as uncomplainingly as though they were slaves. The wife and +mother was not permitted to attend festivities and neither was she +allowed the selection of her friends, her husband deciding this choice +for her. + +This, of course, applied to the respectable, or so-called virtuous +woman, which constituted the average. Then, as now, two classes of +women were to some extent exempt from this rigid custom. One class +was formed by those women whose wealth conferred upon them a degree of +power, because the possessors of great wealth have always been a law +unto themselves. The other class was formed by the women who practiced +prostitution, and who, by reason of their mode of life, met men on +terms of at least temporary social equality. + +Thus it is evident that the path of the virtuous woman without the +independence that accompanies the possession of her own money, was in +ancient days much more thorny than that of the concubine or the +prostitute; and it is because of this fact that parental love, the +most powerful of all levers employed by the Cosmic Law to lift love +out of degradation, instituted the custom of the "dowry," and although +this, too, has at various times become a source of degradation, +inspiring impoverished aristocrats to loveless marriages with +so-called inferiors, yet it has after all been a factor in the +evolution of women and the preservation of the races. It has served +two purposes. It has made women, in theory at least, more independent; +and it has resulted in an admixture of blood which has saved the +aristocratic class from extinction through decadence. + +As might well be expected in those instances where women did enjoy a +degree of liberty that was due to financial and social advantages, +they took a mean delight in ruling it over their male relatives, and, +as we may note in our own time, men who yielded to the seduction of +wealth, and married women to whom they were forced to accord the +freedom and the deference which wealth confers, complained bitterly of +their lot; as witness the following complaint of a Roman husband: "I +have married a witch with a dowry; I took her to have her fields and +houses, and that, O Apollo, is the worst of evils." + +One dominant idea controlled the status of marriage in early Greece +and Rome--an idea in full accord with the materialistic phase of their +civilization; this was the idea of procreation; an idea that logically +was inevitable, since continuous warfare resulted in a population in +which women predominated, and we are told that in the interest of +procreation both childlessness and celibacy were severely punished. +Thus the situation of women was that best described by the phrase +"between the devil and the deep sea." + +Regarding the "ideal of marital fidelity," Plutarch is authority for +the story that Cato loaned his wife to his friend Hortensius and took +her back on the death of the latter, plus a rich inheritance from the +transaction. However, should Martha have yielded herself voluntarily +to Hortensius, from motives of affection, the chances are that she +would have met death at the hands of her "justly outraged" spouse. + +In Europe, similar conditions prevailed, and although monogamy was the +rule, concubinage and prostitution in all its forms existed. The wife +was subject to the husband in every wish and whim, and after him to +the eldest son. This is true today in Germany and among the Saxons in +a degree whose modifications do not accord with other advances in our +social ethics. + +It is a mistake to claim that religious systems have had any direct +influence in the emancipation of women during the nineteen hundred +years of Christian civilization among the white races. + +Religious systems have only reflected the race-thought; they have not +molded it. This is true, despite the fact that true religion, when +esoterically understood, has always aimed at union, and union means +equality along all lines, sex-equality; social equality; race +equality. + +We must here digress from the main point of this chapter long enough +to explain that equality is not synonymous with identity, as seems to +be the impression among the many; a misconception which we regret to +say is shared by the judge on the bench with the workingman on the +construction gang, and the idiotic observation that "if women expect +to vote they must expect to stand up in the street-car," is not, alas! +confined to the lout, but is quite often voiced by the professional +man. + +The same silly idea prevails with regard to race-equality. It is +judged by a similarity to our own in matters of dress; or choice of +foods; by inconsequential differences, rather than by an estimate of +what a given race may contribute to the variety of human knowledge; +and yet it is evident that nature aims at variety; at a multiplicity +of ideas and customs and creations. + +Differentiation is the primal attempt. + +Woman's claim to equality should be based upon the fact that first of +all she is different from, rather than identical with, men. + +The woman who dons male attire and eschews all so-called "feminine +frivolity" in her efforts to prove herself man's equal, is confessing +that in her natural environment she does not consider herself his +equal, and is masquerading as man, in the vain hope that she may +deceive herself and others into thinking she is. + +An individual is important to Society in proportion to his +originality; in proportion as he contributes some new idea; some +hitherto unfamiliar view. + +Returning to the point of what constitutes true religion, namely, a +consciousness of our unity with all life, we find that although +religious ethics have included this ideal, it has not been emphasized +in the ratio of its importance. The result is that where unity should +have been established, segregation has been the rule, and it is +without any desire to reflect discredit upon the ideal of the Church +that we point to the fact that woman's emancipation, and her +co-operation in all departments of life, as a hope, if not a +consummated reality, has but now made its initial bow to the world. + +That this initial bow comes side by side with, if not actually in the +wake of, disruption of the old theologic dogmas; dissatisfaction with +religious systems; and a determined disregard for what has been +presented as religion; cannot be denied. The fact is that religious +creeds never save anyone; never really elevate nations. At best they +have been but a "consolation prize" or a narcotic. Love of freedom is +the great liberator. + +The influence of Rationalism, as inaugurated by Ingersoll in America +and Bradlaugh in England, was the opening wedge. Christian Science, +mothered by a woman, incorporated the phrase "Father-Mother-God" into +its literature, and unity has been the avowed ideal of all the variety +of new cults and philosophies presented under so great a variety of +names that we cannot here enumerate them. + +Nevertheless, we are still many leagues short of realizing this ideal, +despite the preachments in its favor. Politically, the ideal of unity +is presented, more or less imperfectly, of course, as Socialism, and +Suffrage. Commercially, still more imperfectly in the merchants' "let +us get together on this," and in efforts at legislation that shall +control corporation dividends and labor schedules, and regulate hours +of work. In fact, all along the line we see the shadow cast by the +rising sun of unity. + +We have thus briefly traced the history of marriage and of mating, in +order that we may discuss with sane impartiality the questions: What +does marriage symbolize? What is its function in the life of the +social body; in the existence of the sphere itself; of the entire +Cosmos? + +Has it any real place and purpose beyond that of procreation, or any +more spiritual function than the perpetuation of the human species? + + + + + CHAPTER V + + THE SYMBOLISM OF MARRIAGE AND OF SEX-UNION + + +Notwithstanding the patent fact that the institution of monogamous +marriage has not resulted in an ideal condition, it is also plain that +any other ideal of sex-union is impossible to a highly developed race. + +Monogamy, despite its present unsatisfactory condition, is a promise +of the highest ideal to which mortals can aspire; it is the imperfect +image of that ideal state which human nature has always striven for. +That we have striven for the most part blindly; that we have fallen +far short of the ideal aimed at, should not deter us from realizing +that the ideal is right. + +Monogamy, as a type of the perfect marriage, symbolizes the meeting +and the consequent union of a man and a woman who are perfect +complementaries. + +In order to be a perfect and lasting union, they must be spiritual +counterparts. Without this counterpartal affinity as the base of +union, no power on earth can force them to unite, although all the +laws of men be employed to keep them tied to each other in the body. +If two persons belong to each other by the inviolable law of spiritual +counterpart, no multitudinous set of man-made laws can keep their +souls apart, although these codes may temporarily separate them in the +flesh. The bonds of true matrimony are "holy"--the word meaning whole; +entire; complete; but these bonds are of an interior nature; they may +be judged only from the interior nature of two persons; and any +attempt to decide this all-important question from the standpoint of +exterior judgment must fail. + +The perfect union of the one man and the one woman is the highest +ideal of marriage of which we can conceive; but shall we for that +reason insist that marriage as a social institution is always complete +and holy? When two immature persons come together under the stimulus +of no more complementary impulse than the blind force of chemical +attraction and cohesion--an instinct, which we share in common with +every form of life, from the lowest insect to man--shall they be +compelled to abide by that act "as long as they both shall live" in +the physical body? + +We would say, "Heaven forbid!" only that the appeal is unnecessary. +Heaven does forbid, and that is why we see so many attempts to disrupt +these immature relationships. + +"The striving of sexual elements through affinities, or passional +attractions, after congenial marriage unions, is the cause of all the +motions, growths, and activities in the physical and moral world," +says a writer, and he adds: "The failure to attain the desired end, +and the warfare between uncongenial and repulsive elements is the +cause of all the broken equilibriums, discords, and collisions in both +spheres. If the atomic marriage in nature were perfect, there would be +no storms or droughts, or poisons or monstrosities, or disease. If the +marriage between the individual will and understanding, between the +interior and exterior life, were perfect, we should have regenerated +men upon earth, worthy to be called sons of God. If the marriage +between the sexes were perfect, we should have a Social Paradise." + +Marriage, then, in the sense of the conjugal union of two persons of +opposite sex, is the most important function of our lives; every other +activity is subsidiary to it. Commerce is carried on, only because of +this union; all the laws of man are the outgrowth of marriage; all +morality comes from the ideal marriage--the union of Wisdom and Love. +To imagine that a function, so vitally important to our exterior life, +should have no place in the phases of life which we know as "higher," +is a manifest absurdity, and comes from those attenuated concepts of +what constitutes spirituality, which Theology has postulated; concepts +which, entrenched behind the walls of "thus saith the Lord," have +temporarily defied modern progress. + +There is no wide gulf between the spiritual and the material worlds, +although the material is but an imperfect reflection of the basic +principle of life. + +Marriage, then, is eternally going on, "Nature is a system of +nuptials," says a writer, and nature is only the language of spirit or +Divine Life. + +How it came about that Theology made the mistake of degrading +sex-union and of limiting it to the ephemeral life of the body only, +we shall come to later. For the present, a brief resume of the types +of marriage ceremony, which have been universal, will convince us that +Nature has always sought to convey to the human mind this great secret +of eternal and never-ceasing union of complementaries. + +Take, for example, the symbol of the wedding-ring. This custom, +varying only in unimportant details, consistent with the prevailing +social custom of the times, has come down to us from prehistoric days. +The golden circle, sometimes worn only by the bride, but frequently by +both bride and groom, is emblematical of the completion of the circle +of wisdom and the final attainment, in "the twain made one," of the +finding by each of "the other half." The circle is always used to +express the Absolute; Aum; the Supreme Power that is "without +beginning and without end." + +According to the old Jewish law, the wedding ring must be made of pure +gold and must be earned and paid for by the bridegroom; he might not +acquire it by credit or gift. There is in this custom something more +than mere thrift; or the assurance of the bridegroom's ability to +sustain the needs and comforts of his wife and prospective family. It +symbolizes the truth that no one may hope to acquire this priceless +blessing of perfect conjugal union, other than by his own efforts. +Immortality must be earned, and perfect union, counterpartal +union--which means actually "twain made one," comes only by dint of +strife and demand and proof of our fitness for the Perfect Life. + +Another custom, which has been in almost universal vogue, is that of +drinking wine, emblematical of the "wine of life," at the completion +of a marriage ceremony. Sometimes this has been the prerogative of the +bride and groom only; and sometimes of the officiating priest; but +more generally the entire company has shared in this custom. Wine +drinking thus symbolizes eternal youth and virility, which can be +enjoyed only by those who have attained to the complete life--the +divine or spiritual sex-union. + +This symbolism is obvious when we take into our consciousness the +truth that only complementaries have the power to act and react, +without change, or loss. Equilibrium is maintained by a perfect +balance of two forces; if one force be ever so small a fraction less +than the other, perfect balance is lacking. + +Another marriage custom in general use among the ancients was the +donning of a crown on the wedding day. This custom formerly included +the bridegroom as well as the bride, but later was confined to the +bride alone, as was also the custom of wearing a veil. At early Greek +marriages crowns made of gold or silver were placed upon the heads of +both bride and groom; tapers were lighted; and rings exchanged. + +We have a similar custom today in all fashionable church weddings. We +have the lighted tapers, signifying the quenchless fires of love; and +the circlet which symbolizes eternity. + +The crown symbolizes the truth that a truly spiritual union bestows +the crown of immortality; the power of Godhood in the Kingdom of Love; +which supersedes all earthly kingdoms in splendor. This is a literal +truth, although it cannot be understood in its full significance until +we are _fit for the kingdom_. + +The veil which the bride lifts at the completion of the ceremony +symbolizes the truth that when we shall have attained to the spiritual +marriage, the veil that separates the interior from the exterior life, +shall be lifted; it is so thin that the illusion, of which the wedding +veil is made, rightly symbolizes this apparent separation of the +physical life from the spiritual. When the veil is lifted, we shall +know our completement in the bliss of perfect union; and when we have +found that other half of our being, which is the underlying urge of +our every thought and act, we shall find the veil lifted. The entire +panorama of the universe becomes an open book. There is no "visible" +and "invisible;" it is all One, with our own bi-une sex nature for the +pivotal center. + +So simple and so obvious are all these symbols of the natural man that +we are astounded, when we have found the key, that we did not sooner +penetrate their meaning. "She will have a crown in Heaven," we say of +some self-sacrificing and loving soul, and the phrase suggests to +most of us the power of earthly kings and queens with all their +splendor of jewels and retainers; but there is an inner meaning which +the splendor and the crowns of earth's kings and queens symbolizes. + +Spiritual union with the perfect complement of our interior nature is +in itself the crown of regal power, of which earthly rulers are +symbolical. The spiritual body through this union becomes radiant; +luminous; and shines with such splendor that it dazzles the eyes of +the beholder. What constitutes the beauty and the value of +gems--diamonds; rubies; sapphires; emeralds; topaz; pearls? + +It is the radiations of light which they throw off; it is their +luminosity--their transparency. It is, indeed, true, that the power +which we see exemplified in the rulers of the earth has a +corresponding meaning in a spiritual sense; as, in fact, have all +things which we cognize with our physical eyes. The Hindus tell us +that all things are either the "nita" or the "ita" message. Either +they tell us "this is the way to the heights;" or "this is not the +way." + +The crown of orange blossoms which has supplanted the ancient crown of +gold and silver and tinsel, worn with such unconsciousness of its +esoteric message, symbolizes one of the most beautiful truths relating +to the spiritual marriage--counterpartal union. + +Even as this union confers a beautiful radiance upon the spiritual +body, the body also becomes sweet-scented like a flower. Weeds, we +remember, have no scent or they may be obnoxious in their odor. Weeds +are unregenerate flowers. + +Certain chemical combinations produce nauseous gases. The human body +is a laboratory in which chemical changes are constantly going on. The +changes produced by sex-functioning are greater than anything which +the experimental chemist has ever discovered in nature. + +It is a fact well known to the pathologist that an unwilling wife, +however faithful she may be, if forced into the sexual act, may +present her husband with a well-defined case of genital disease; nor +is this at all strange when we consider the now well-recognized fact +that anger, fear, revenge, avarice, and all the destructive +thought-forces produce poisons in the secretions of the body. + +In Rosicrucian literature, we have the story of "the Chymical Marriage +of Christian Rosy Cross," which is, when read with the key to its +esoteric meaning, a story of the chemistry of marriage between the +sexes. Indeed, the whole story of the secret doctrines of the +Rosicrucians, is the story of the sexes, and the "secret of secrets," +which was so zealously guarded by the Hermetics and the Rosicrucians +and other secret societies, is the secret of the spiritual union of +the male and the female principles throughout nature and culminating +in man and woman, conferring upon them immortal life through the +perfect balance of sex. + +It has been said that women were not admitted to the Brotherhood of +the Rosicrucians, but this is not true, as there is plenty of evidence +to prove. + +Owing to the enmity of the established Church toward any exaltation of +the sex-relation, and particularly toward the veneration of woman, it +became necessary for those who sought to keep alive the fires of +Esoteric Wisdom to surround themselves with the most rigid secrecy; in +consequence of this, the story of the sexes, constituting the very +heart and center of Hermetic philosophy, has been told in allegory, +unintelligible unless one has the inner sight or has been initiated +into the secret code. + +In the sixteenth and seventeenth centuries, the Church had so far +succeeded in undermining the work of the Hermetics, that women were +excluded from the Brotherhood, and the apparent sole purpose of the +secret order was the search for metallic transmutation. Side by side +with this convincing evidence that the esoteric meaning of the symbols +has been perverted, we find their allegorical phraseology intermixed +with frequent allusions to passages from the Scripture and to the +Virgin Mary, proving conclusively that the Church, then in the zenith +of its power, had confiscated the archives of the secret order, and, +either through fear of the influence of their work, or possibly +through lack of any adequate comprehension of their wisdom, had +employed their symbolism to the further glory of the temporal power of +the Church. + +This subject will again be dealt with in a chapter devoted to "The +Hidden Wisdom," and so we will leave it for the present. + +One other great spiritual truth relating to marriage is found in the +intimate and constantly recurring association of the turtle-dove with +the ceremony of marriage. + +The dove is, par excellence, an example of conjugal love. The +turtle-dove, more than any other of the dove family, is noted for the +fervor of its sexual desires; fidelity to its mate; and for the +devotion and diffusion of its love nature. It is well known that if +either of a pair of turtle-doves dies, the mate will grieve itself to +death. "Like a pair of turtle-doves" is said of a couple who are +happily married, and the domestic life of the dove has made the dove a +symbol of peace. + +Doves have been held sacred in many parts of the world, and figure +prominently in religious symbolic architecture and utensils, from +ancient times down to the present day. The symbol of the doves flying +over the ark of the covenant typifies the spiritual origin of birth, +the ark being the primordial egg, from which issued all the forms of +life. Let us also remember that they issued _in pairs_. + + + + + CHAPTER VI + + CONTINENCE; CHASTITY AND ASCETICISM; THEIR SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE + + +From the earliest forms of sex-worship, in which the creative function +was doubtless given its rightful place, down through successive stages +of sex-degeneracy, we come to the sex-perversions and the almost +general licentiousness of Ancient Greece and Rome, with whom the sex +function became nothing more exalted than a method of procreation, in +common with the animals; and a means of sense-gratification, on a par +with gluttony. + +Even among the intellectual Greeks, the highest type of a civilization +that, although epicurean and esthetic, was yet essentially +materialistic, sexual intercourse had no more spiritual place than it +occupies today in fine stock-breeding. + +Between ancient Roman licentiousness and our own modern attitude +toward the sex-relation, there intervenes that terrible time in the +history of Human Evolution, known as the Dark Ages, in which was +evolved the unnatural view of the function of sex, exemplified rather +erotically, in many instances, by asceticism and celibacy. Although it +sounds paradoxical, yet there is a celibacy that is distinctly erotic. + +In reading of some of the experiences in the lives of the saints, the +normal, healthy person feels an aversion similar to that which he +experiences in viewing the effects of physical disease; and yet we +must note in this abnormal attitude of the Church toward the +sex-relation, the effect of nature's attempt at equilibrium; a +revulsion from the effect of the centuries preceding. + +Some of the contributing causes of this revulsion were: celibacy, +except within the Church, forbidden by the Roman Senate; the fact that +women had no choice in marriage; the devastating wars which took the +best of physical manhood; and the cheapness of women, every man of +wealth having as many slave women as he could house and feed; the +orgies where women, both bound and free, were openly debauched; all +these evidences of the utter degradation to which the pure and +beautiful function of sex had sunk, called for a revulsion; and it +came in the idea of asceticism--an instance where the remedy was worse +than the disease. The mental attitude that resulted in asceticism was +not one in which the sex function was lifted from the mire of +licentiousness in which it lay; rather it was abandoned altogether as +something vile and unclean; and that too, unhappily, by those who +should have known better. + +The Roman Church, in full accord with the type of Roman mind which +fostered it, still harbored the perverted idea that women were +inferior. And it is from the Roman Church of today rather more than +from any other of the phases of Christian Orthodoxy, that we note a +militant opposition to woman suffrage, and all the other avenues of +woman's claim to free expression. + +While retaining all the old Roman's disrespect for woman, the Church +instituted and fostered celibacy, as a way out of the old profiligacy, +but as though by a sort of spiritual irony, the Church has retained, +from its "pagan" ancestors, the sex-worshippers, the idol of the Holy +Virgin. And despite the bombardments of criticism from without and the +inculcation of superstitious ignorance from within, the pure-hearted +children of the Church have always gone to the "Holy Mother" for their +comfort; and thus the eternal fires of Truth have smouldered beneath +the ashes of perverted mysticism throughout the Dark Ages that are +gone and the scarcely lighter Dawn that is here. Those who have eyes +to see, realize that the one worth-while thing which the old, +nearly-blind Church has been unwittingly doing all the time, has been +to hold to this central truth of all Life--religious, social, +national, and domestic--the truth that it is only by exalting the +maternal function of human life, that we can hope to reach the saviour +of mankind. + +And, lest there be still some misconception of what we consider to be +the true "saviour" of mankind, we will again state, even as the Church +itself states it, "the babe of Bethlehem"--the pure Love between one +man and one woman; the "twain made one," which is the only saviour +that ever was or ever will be--the pure Christ-child that is born of +conterpartal union. + +Let those who would cling to the idea of an individual man, born in a +city called "Bethlehem" as the saviour of the world, remember that +even so, the city derived its name from the word, "bethel," meaning a +pure white stone, rounded at the top, in exact imitation of the +omphalos of Apollo, in the temple of Delphi. And when the shock of his +discovery has somewhat subsided, and his prejudices have been +swallowed up in a desire for the whole Truth, let him remember also +that this central idea has been the foundation of all religious rites +since time began; and instead of feeling that the whole fabric of +Christianity has been rent by the light of scientific discovery, he +will see that it has merely been _revealed_, and the revelation will +prove to him that Truth is the most beautiful, the most spiritual and +the most satisfying thing in life, because the Truth is that Perfect +Love is the only passport to immortal bliss. No one can withhold +Heaven from us, if we have this perfect love. + +Thus the essentials of Christianity are the essentials of every other +religious system; and the essentials are: Love is the One true and +only God; and Sex is the form in which this Bi-une God appears; +according to our individual and collective reverence for this bi-une +God, will be our spiritual development. + +We do not reverence sex when we cheapen it by dissipation; or when we +abandon it as unclean and unworthy and unholy; both attitudes are +abnormal, and unbalanced. + +Spiritual consciousness aims at equilibrium. The perfectly balanced +person is equally developed on all planes; the perfectly balanced +individual, in sufficient numbers, will produce a balanced and +therefore a healthy social organization; and a balanced and +healthy-minded race of beings will result in a balanced sphere; this +fact is foreshadowed by the postulate which Science is now +considering, to wit: the earth's axis may be straightened, and, if so, +a uniform temperature will prevail on this globe. + +Returning to a consideration of the subjects which head this chapter, +we find it necessary to clear the ground a little, in regard to a +definition of words. + +The word continence should apply to the act of self-restraint in the +matter of the emotions, desires, and passions, whether of the +sex-passion or the passion of anger, avarice, or gluttony. The word +has come to mean, in many cases, the total abstinence from the +sex-relation, because of the general idea which has prevailed, that +any indulgence of sex-love was a confession of weakness. In fact, our +modern ideas regarding this subject are so chaotic and so manifestly +paradoxical that they are absurd. + +On the one hand we have a tradition that motherhood is a beautiful and +holy thing; on the other, we regard the sex-relation, per se, as an +indecent thing, or at best as a weakness of the flesh. + +We have the obvious demonstration that creation is possible only +because of the conjunction of the two sexes, and yet we are taught +that sex-love is something which is permitted to us in this lower +state of our being, and denied in heaven, and at the same time we are +told that God creates everything, and God dwells in Heaven, where +there is no such "polluting sin" as sex-love. + +We certainly do need balance. + +The word chastity conveys to the mind (and this is not confined to the +undeveloped person, but is general) the idea of a woman who is devoid +of the sex-impulse. Chastity, like the word virtue, suggests to our +minds no relationship to the character, or inner nature of a person; +it has come to be applied to the physical anatomy, and we are not +surprised when we realize that the word is seldom used in connection +with the male. It is strictly a female attribute--nay, we may almost +say, "organ." + +If a woman, for any reason whatsoever, whether through lack of +opportunity; through hereditary causes; or through repression, +or--which occurs more frequently--as a commercial expediency, +believing that her person will thus bring more in the matrimonial +market--if, as we say, for any reason, however sordid, a woman escapes +bodily sex-contact, she is called "chaste" and her "virtue" is +extolled. + +This is, of course, not a far cry from the ancient days when a +bridegroom had the right to turn the bride away from his door, should +the evidence of her virginity be lacking; whereupon the poor creature +was stoned to death, a sacrifice on the altar of Egoism, the +arch-enemy of both sexes. + +And although it seems a long, long time from that day to this, we may +look back over the Ages, and see the thread unbroken, connecting the +Past with the Present; uniting the women of those days with their +sisters of today; and we find the answer to this far-off outrage upon +the spiritual function of sex, in the horrors of our white slavery, +among which horrors, the greatest is not alone the barter and sale of +that which should be recognized as sacred, but the perversions, the +deceptions and the subterfuges which it entails. One instance, related +by a trained nurse who had been in attendance upon a girl sixteen +years of age, will suffice to illustrate this. The girl, encouraged by +her mother, related with amusement and satisfaction, how the child had +"sold her virtue" on seven different occasions, procuring for the +same, proven by the requisite evidences, sums which were considered +quite exorbitant in view of the fact that the market was always +over-crowded with similar sales. + +Thus, the law of supply and demand is ever preserved; and human beings +keep right on selling their royal birthright for a mess of pottage; +inviting disease, decay and death when they might have glorious, +blissful life. + +Mankind has failed to look for virtue in the interior nature; failed +to look for beauty of soul, being ever ready to pay the highest price +for the counterfeit, and the result is that a practice of mutual +deception has been the rule. + +Some years ago, Thomas Hardy wrote a story about a girl in the +wretched environment of middle-class England. He called it the story +of a "pure woman," and his appraisal of the heroine as a pure woman +brought out a storm of reproach and horrified criticism, particularly +from the clergy, because it chanced that this poor girl had given +birth to a child out of wedlock; and notwithstanding that the author +made it quite clear that she had been the victim of circumstances and +coercion, the act itself condemned her to unchastity in the eyes of +the clerical critics. + +When we contemplate the attitude which religious systems have ever +held toward women, we are amazed that the Church has been upheld +almost wholly by the female sex. The fact is accountable on one +hypothesis only: that of the spiritual insight, which recognized in +the story of the Holy Mother and the Child the _One primordial, and +indestructible key to salvation_--the birth of the god-man through the +recognition of the purity and joy of the perfect sex-union. + +But, notwithstanding the medieval trend of religious mysticism (there +is a religious mysticism and a scientific mysticism) which seemed to +regard all human love as a weakness, when not actually sinful as in +sex-love, it is evident that sexual love, in its emotional, or psychic +aspect, was at the root of the "ecstacies" which are so ardently +described in ecclesiastical history as "evidences of saintliness." + +If, instead of indignantly denying this fact, as though it were +profane criticism of the saints, defenders of the Theological view of +mysticism would calmly consider and accept the evidence, they would be +able to infuse into the creeds, the vitality which they so lack. + +The lives of the saints, in so far as they relate to trance and +ecstatic visions, must, sooner or later meet one of two fates. Either +they will be analyzed and presented, with the reverence that is due +the subject, as proofs of the spiritual function of sex-love; or they +must be relegated to the position to which the Church assigns all +sexual desire--that of eroticism and innate and ineradicable +depravity. + +Viewed in the light in which Theology has held the sex relation, the +paroxysms which are ascribed to St. Catherine of Sienna, and to the +Holy Mechthild and other saints, have in them something decidedly +obnoxious; while, if we take the premise that these saints, by virtue +of prayer, aspiration, and intended sacrifice of the mortal self to an +ideal, transmuted their sex-nature from the physical to the spiritual, +then indeed, we have an approach to a mighty truth, which is at once +both explanatory and satisfying. St. Catherine is referred to as "the +mystic bride;" and Jesus Christ, to whom she was "espoused" (using the +terminology which the Church prefers, as suggesting a less physical +union than the word "married") was the "bride-groom;" more than that; +she declared that she was married with a ring, set with precious +stones; just like any other betrothal or wedding ring. + +Always in these recitals we find the phraseology which lovers employ +when exalting the loved one above the world. The term "My Beloved" is +singularly universal, and seems to spring involuntarily to the lips of +the lover when his love is of the quality that reverences; adores; and +exalts its object. And it is equally foreign to the lips of the +dilettante lover. + +To their credit be it said, the love which the saints developed within +themselves, by dint of their attempts to exalt celibacy in an age of +sexual profligacy, is none the less human love; it is human love +spiritualized, exalted, and transmuted from the plane of the animal to +that of the soul. This transmutation is in fact responsible for the +intensity, the absorbing power of the love which thrilled them into +such an ecstacy that in most instances they became lost in the bliss +of the emotions excited by the inward flow of their sex nature, and +were totally unfitted to take part in the outer, or so-called +practical life. + +Such, for example, was Saint Teresa, of whom William James, in his +"Varieties of Religious Experience," says: "Her idea of religion seems +to have been that of an endless amatory flirtation--if one may say so +without irreverence--between the devotee and the Deity." Although this +estimate of St. Theresa's saintliness will doubtless be shocking to +the people who think they are pious, we take an optimistic view of it, +and suggest that the saint's idea of religion is far more satisfying +than that usually presented as saintliness. St. Theresa, like most of +the female saints, became "the bride of Christ"--the _man_ Jesus, the +Christ, let it be remembered. + +St. Gertrude, a Benedictine nun of the Thirteenth Century, gave +herself up so wholly to this inward contemplation; to fasting, prayer, +and withdrawal from the outer to the inner life, that she lived as the +"bride of God," in such daily contact with Him as would fitly describe +any love-mated honeymoon of today. According to her testimony "God" +indulged in such language and caresses, and intimacies, kisses and +compliments as would satisfy any woman married to her ideal lover. + +In the case of St. Louis of Gonzaga, it is significant that he +selected the Virgin Mary as the object of his adoration and +"consecrated to her, his own virginity;" and we read how "burning with +love, he made his vow of perpetual chastity." In consequence of this +vow, he was never tempted as was St. Anthony, by visions of beautiful +women. + +Here again we have the love of the male for the female. If it were not +so, St. Louis may well have chosen Jesus, or Joseph, or John, as the +object of his devotional contemplation; and St. Catherine, and +Theresa, and Mechthild might have paid their homage to the Virgin +Mary. + +"Jeanne of the Cross" held constant converse with her guardian angel, +who by the way was a beautiful youth, "more brilliant than the sun and +with a crown of glory on his head." + +St. Frances was inseparable from her angel, whom she loved with +extravagant and blissful devotion, and whom she also described as "a +young man of such radiant beauty and purity that he melted her soul." + +The truth is that, in seeking to escape from the "sin" of human love, +as seen in the world, in the union of the sexes, they touched the very +main-spring of their sex-nature, intensifying to a degree unknown to +the merely sense-conscious person, the ecstatic bliss of spiritual +sex-union. + +Naturally the question will arise as to whether these saints really +came into contact with their spiritual mates in these paroxysms of +holy fervor, and if so, why did the vision of the Christ so frequently +appear to them and not alone the vision of some other being? + +The answer is found in the fact that spiritual experiences must be +interpreted through the channel of the outer mind, which in these +instances was obsessed by the thought implanted by Medieval Theology, +that human love is sinful. It may be questioned whether, even though +the visions did relate to some person other than the members of the +Holy Family, the fact would have been admitted since it would have +been attributed to unworthiness on the part of the saint. + +They were practically compelled to include God and Christ in their +ecstacies to prove their respectability. + +One phrase, commonly employed to describe the kind of love which +"flooded the soul" in these saintly ecstacies, is particularly +applicable to the effects of spiritual sex-union, as described by +those who have experienced counterpartal union, and which Swedenborg +so constantly emphasizes in his recital of "conjugal delights." This +phrase is "melting love." It is a feeling of melting or merging into +the other's being, until there seems to be but one person, formed by +the two souls. In fact, it is _union_; whereas the lesser, or we may +say the lower, phase, of the sex-relation is at best but _contact_. + +If this view of the trances and ecstacies described in the lives of +the saints, be repulsive to our readers, we can only say that we are +sorry for our readers. They have imbibed the spirit of the Dark Ages, +which regarded human love as sinful, overlooking the fact that all we +may know of the "love of God," is by analogous comparison to what we +know of human love. + +If human love be sinful, by logical deduction we would inevitably +arrive at the conclusion that the universe is all sinful. In which +event, the very word itself would have lost its significance. + +The objectionable part of the orthodox view of the effects of +saintliness lies in the realization that neither the saints +themselves, nor the Church which perpetuates their recitals, had any +conception of the real situation, so evident to the enlightened and +unprejudiced reader. And if this view of saintly ecstacies, +postulating the transmutation of sex-force into spiritual channels, be +objectionable, what can be said of the only other view which is +possible in the light of the evidence submitted? + +Our ideas of what constitutes chastity need revising, else we must +needs decide that chastity is more a vice than a virtue. + +For example, consider the character of a mother of the +self-sacrificing, noble type, devoting her life to the welfare of the +human family; interesting herself in all the problems that affect the +generations to come; patient; sweet and wise. Compare her with an +unmarried girl whose body is immune from contact with one of the +opposite sex, but whose mind is bent upon self, and self-adornment; +upon the necessity of capturing a wealthy husband, as a means of this +self-gratification, without regard to any sentiment or even common +affection. Who is the more chaste? + +Coventry Patmore says: + + "Virgins are they before the Lord, + Whose souls are pure. The vestal fire + Is not, as some mis-read the Word, + By Marriage quenched, but burns the higher." + +If purity of soul were synonymous with celibacy, the entire +constantly-copulating cosmos would have long since been demolished; +but despite the mistaken attitude of religious systems toward the +divine function of sex, Humanity is reaching a higher and purer +conception of love. As we approach a higher type of civilization, the +broader, deeper, and more intense becomes our capacity to love. The +more spiritual we become, the more vital is our love-nature, and our +love-nature is grounded in sex. Let us not imagine that spiritual love +is less sexual than is physical love. Spiritual love is physical love, +_plus_ all the other phases of love. + +The real objection to sex love on the physical plane is not based upon +its strength, but upon its weakness. If it be nothing deeper than an +attraction of chemical affinities generated by physical activities, it +has no reservoir from which to draw its supply. It is like the +electrical wire that is "short circuited," it expends itself in one +spasmodic combustion. + +True spirituality is attained by a process of addition. The common and +erroneous idea of spiritual attainment involves a process of +subtraction. + +We need go no further than to review the processes in the external +world of today to understand this fact of the inclusiveness of the +spiritual life, in contradistinction to the generally accepted idea of +exclusiveness which is attached to a contemplation of the so-called +"spiritual." + +All our activities are now carried on upon a gigantic scale. Where +formerly a little stream supplied the water to the mill, we now +harness the invisible and apparently inexhaustible forces of +electricity; where formerly commerce was a system of bartering between +two single individuals, it is now a huge network involving millions of +persons. Everything teaches us the lesson of inclusiveness, as we +approach a more spiritualized ideal of life. We are uniting; merging; +drawing within. + +The Centripetal force of the planet itself, corresponding to the +female pole of the magnet, is today the active principle in external +life. The machinist knows this when he is compelled to avoid the +suction currents of electrical power. Cosmic reaction has set in, and +union between complementaries is the result. Applying this truth to +individual human life, and we have what? + +_Counterpartal Sex-union._ + + + + + CHAPTER VII + + SOUL-UNION: WHERE WILL IT LEAD? + + +We have heard much in recent years of "affinities," and "soul-mates," +and we are likely to hear much more in the future. So much that is +unsavory and sensational is associated with these two words, that we +almost hesitate to employ them; but that is always the way with Fear. +It builds a high wall between us and Truth, and dares us to scale it. + +We accept the challenge. + +To begin with, the words are not synonymous, although frequently used +as such. Affinities are based upon mutual interests; mutual tastes and +appetites; mutual stages of development; but these stages of +development may be sense-conscious only; or they may be of a highly +intellectual order. Whatever their basis of mutuality, they tend to +attract upon that plane. Whenever this affinity, established by virtue +of mutual tastes, is on the sense-plane only--that is, when it is +because two persons both like their roast-beef rare; or their whiskey +diluted; or their wine iced--we are apt to find the result in a +mistaken idea of sexual affinity, which wears itself out for the +reasons already stated, because there is no reservoir from which to +draw. The chemistry of the body changes with time and emotional +experiences. Affinity of bodily contact only, resulting from a +congeniality of sense-appetites, is therefore necessarily short lived. + +Affinity of intellect is much more lasting, because it approaches a +state higher in the ascent to the spiritual center of the cosmos. + +Thought is the parent of speech, or of any external appeal to the +senses. Back of all objectivity is the thought that molded it; but +back of thought is desire; and back of desire is design--cosmic design +we may say--expressing itself discretively; in individuals. + +Affinities that are based upon intellectual similarities are of a +finer nature and generally more lasting than those of sense-conscious +attraction only; and it is no uncommon thing to find two persons of +the opposite sex enjoying a protracted friendship or preference for +each others' society which deceives the average on-looker into +thinking that there is also sexual affinity, when as a matter of fact +there may never have been any thought of such relationship. + +A few brilliant women in former times, notably Madame de Stael, or +Margaret Fuller, have enjoyed the attentions and apparent devotion of +men for many years without having entered into any more intimate +relationship with them. But these examples have been few in the past, +and have been much commented upon. In the present, such desirable +companionship is becoming much more common and a woman may now be seen +twice with the same man without having the neighbors speculating as +to a suitable name for the baby. + +More and more, as women become freed from the necessity to "settle +themselves" in marriage, we find evidences of this intellectual +affinity between the sexes; and more and more, as we get away from the +old thought that a man has but one desire, that of sexual intercourse, +and a woman but one motive, that of enslaving man through his sexual +appetite, we will find that men and women will meet on the plane of +intellectual affinity and not be driven by gossip of outsiders, or by +the force of the race-thought in their own minds, into seeking to +spoil such companionship by a matrimonial alliance, when nature did +not intend it to be so. + +A number of years ago, when even the little freedom which human beings +now accord each other in this matter was denied the struggling sexes, +a certain man and woman, who were intellectual companions, married. He +was a writer; she was a physician; which is evidence in itself of a +degree of intellectual power not so common at that time as now; she +was moreover an unusual woman in many ways. They parted after a month +of married life and to the horror and scandal of the entire community, +remained friends. The scandal reached the climax of disapproval and +shocked morality when the man, married again, continued his friendship +with his former wife and later, when a baby came to the couple, the +ex-wife and mutual friend was the attending physician. + +The old idea of matrimony held that the husband and wife must be +"yoked" together, so that neither one could exercise any individual +predilection or choice of friends, or recreation, or taste or desire. +And this is still the average idea of a successful marriage. It is an +idea that is not confined to the ignorant, and the narrow-minded. It +is the attitude of society at large, though upon what argument such an +idea is based, must be left to the perverted imagination. + +Presumably it is because of that colossal egotism which insists upon +personal ownership. One would expect this tendency to own each other +to have died with the death of the institution of slavery, but it +still exists, and as we have already observed, among those who sit in +the seats of the mighty as well as among the ignorant. + +A couple who had married on the ground of intellectual affinity lived +together most congenially for a period of twelve years, although they +agreed that sexual affinity was lacking in their relationship. They +agreed that there was another phase of mating, and that should either +come to the point where freedom was desirable, it would be given +without resentment or anger. They both decided, that perfect candor +and honesty with each other on this score was a higher type of +civilization than that which prevails where mutual deceit is the rule. + +True to their compact, when the wife met the one whom she believed to +be the one man who answered the call of her soul, the husband gave her +up, retaining her friendship, and the memory of an intellectual +companionship unmarred by the horrors of dispute and deceit and +disruption. But he incurred the severest criticism from Society, which +is as yet composed of the animal-man, rather than the man-god, and the +animal-man (meaning woman as well) knows no higher code of morality +than that which he vaingloriously terms "defense of his honor." By +exactly what process of reasoning a man can imagine his honor defended +or appeased by shooting his rival, is, we admit, beyond our power to +fathom. But such is the basis of the unwritten law, in which civilized +man vents his remaining savagery. + +Affinity-marriages, then, are not synonymous with soul-mating. And +while we contend that affinity marriages, based upon at least some +degree of mutuality, are a step higher in social development than were +the alliances of the old regime, where a man's social or domestic +exigencies required a wife or a housekeeper, or both-in-one; where +woman must marry whomsoever asked her, or be pitied and scorned as an +"old maid," still affinity-marriages are not the final union, and must +go through an evolutionary phase. + +Affinity-marriages are eligible to disruption. Happily, we trust, +these disruptions will in the course of time be devoid of hatred and +mutual recriminations and abuse. Certainly they will be, as they +evolve from the plane of sense-consciousness to that of intellectual +affinities. Moreover, they stand a much better chance of permanency +than has maintained during the past, before the word affinity was +heard so frequently as it is now. + +The general impression is abroad in the land, that it is only since +women became economically independent that disruption of the marriage +bonds has become so general. It is true that divorces are much more +frequent since women have become, to a great extent, economically +independent; but that only means that the parties to the marriage have +been set free. The disruptions are not more, it is only the evidences. +And it is at the _evidence_ of marital unhappiness that all the +criticism is directed. + +If the criticism were directed against the condition that divorce +tells us of, instead of against the divorce itself, the first aid to +the injured would be to establish a social order wherein an equal +moral standard for both sexes should be the rule, and where a mother +is recognized, and respected and honored in the name of motherhood, +whether she is a wife or not. + +This suggestion will of course be met with a shocked gasp from many. +The cry that "Society will be disorganized" and our "moral code become +chaotic" will go up from the self-constituted keepers of public +morality. But is our morality so tender that it needs protection? Are +our social conditions so ideal that they cannot be improved? If they +are, then nothing can besmirch them. If they are not, they must first +be demolished, before they are rebuilt. + +The limited mortal mind is always terribly afraid of a change. Not one +single improvement has ever been suggested, from mechanics to morals, +that has not been met with that ever-ready fear-thought, that the +whole universe is going to the eternal bow-wows, if the slightest +change in established institutions is made. And despite it all, we go +on year after year, improving. "Self-improvement" is the watch-word of +the Century. If "self-improvement," then social improvement. Mankind +is still in the making, as far as external conditions are concerned. + +The complaint goes up from every side, that women refuse motherhood. +Girls who have been carefully reared, brought up in the most orthodox +movement, are heard to openly, unashamed, announce their intention of +finding a rich husband and not, emphatically, _not_ having any +children. + +May this not be Nature's revenge upon our inhuman treatment of girls +who become mothers without first becoming wives? + +We are wont to refer to unmarried mothers as "unfortunates" and +"ruined." But in what does the misfortune consist, and wherein are +they ruined? + +Is a woman ever unfortunate if she gives birth to a child because she +has loved, and because she loves the child? Is she ruined in any way +except that she becomes the target for our inhumanity; our well-nigh +unforgivable stupidity? + +The world, and especially women, owe a debt of gratitude to a certain +famous woman who, by her force of character; her defiant self-respect +in the face of social criticism, because she had a child and no +husband, has wrung from the unwilling public the highest place +accorded any actress in this or any previous age. This artist's +well-known reply to an openly expressed criticism of her is worthy of +perpetuation. "Ah, so!" she said, "true I have a son and no husband, +but you women have husbands and lovers, and no children!" + +We would not have it understood that we commend this woman's example, +and criticise that of the woman to whom she referred. We do not regard +child-bearing as the end and aim of woman's mission. It has been said +that the first duty of Man is to perpetuate the species, but +observation should convince us that in all too many instances the +first duty of the individual would be to refrain from such a crime +against posterity. + +We neither criticise nor advise the adoption of the position of a +husbandless mother; nor that of the women who are childless wives. We +endorse any woman's insistence upon her right to self-respect; and we +insist that a better civilization cannot come without permitting the +greatest degree of personal liberty in matters pertaining to the +sex-relation, and, above and beyond all, without conceding to the +unmarried mother the same respect that we accord to the married one, +when she is otherwise worthy of our respect. It certainly takes +courage for a defenseless woman to bear a fatherless child, in a +hypocritical world. + +The normal woman does not live who would not rather be safely and +happily married to the man whom her soul tells her exists somewhere in +the universe, than to be battling with the problem of existence, +alone. When she is so married, we need not fear that the marriage will +be disrupted. Until she is so married, no power on earth can, and no +power in Heaven will, prevent the disruptions, although man's laws may +temporarily obstruct the evidence of such disruption. + +What we have already said will make it clear, that our contention is +that affinities are not necessarily soul-mates; that, in fact, we may +have many and various kinds of affinities, but no one can possibly +have more than one soul-mate. + +Mates are two entities composing a pair. They are the two halves that +make a whole. Unlike what we know of affinities, they are not merely +similar; nor yet opposite, so that they attract each other because of +curiosity or dissimiliarity. + +They belong to each other because together they complete a perfect +balance. Each supplies in the exact proportion required for balance +the qualities lacking in the other. + +In the event of such union, instinctive procreation will cease, and +re-generation will begin. They will consciously beget souls, instead +of merely providing bodies for souls to manifest upon this external +plane of consciousness. + +Bodily contact is not essential to this phase of sex-union, because +the real conjunction is between the interior natures; and the interior +nature exists independently of the physical organism. + +Already the race-thought is beginning to realize interiorly. This is +manifest in the daily press; in music and drama; and in all the +avenues of the senses. That intangible, elusive but potential thing +called "character" forms the gist of editorial advice. Everywhere we +note a tendency to look below the appearance of things, and to fathom +the depths of psychological analysis. For the first time in centuries +the race-thought seeks the underlying cause for specific effects, +instead of, as heretofore, being satisfied to deal with effects only, +suppressing those that are unpleasant and extolling those that seem +agreeable. + +The scientist expresses it thus: "Nature is giving up her secrets to +man." The metaphysician puts it this way: "The soul of man is +unveiling, and soon we shall know each other in Truth." The +religionist has long looked for a time when, as prophesied by St. +Paul, who was above all things a spiritually-conscious person, "we +shall see each other face to face; not as now through a glass, +darkly." + +This tendency to "get behind the scenes" as it were, to penetrate the +crust of mere outward semblance, and to reveal the interior nature, +may be seen even in the fashions of our clothes. Despite thunders of +denunciation from the self-constituted keepers of our morals, who are +not yet free from the bondage of traditional ideas of virtue and +"respectability," women have insisted upon freedom of the body in +dress until at last the uncorseted, short-skirted, thinly-clad woman +excites little adverse comment. The fact has at last established +itself that the female form has legs. + +This fact was only half suspected before; men have always wanted to +see exactly what was beneath those long flowing skirts; and woman has +always known that she possessed at least one trump card, in the game +of enslaving man to become what modern slang has so aptly labeled her +"meal-ticket." She could always keep him guessing as to whether or not +she had legs; and the average man, be it known, possesses a fund of +curiosity far in excess of that which is proverbially ascribed to +woman. Men have been known to pay the highest price, even to donning +the matrimonial yoke, to satisfy their curiosity. Women have always +known this, and the worldly wise mother has besought her marriageable +daughter to "keep her skirts well over her ankles" if she hoped to +secure a man as a permanent banker! It does sound crude expressed +thus, but this is the basis upon which at least nine-tenths of the +respectable marriages of society are consummated. And this is the +standard which the short-sighted keepers of public morals would have +us retain. They would force women to act as though their bodies are +vile. They would keep the mind encumbered with the corpse of an idea +of modesty, from which the spirit has long since fled. The spirit has +fled from it because it was a false idea of modesty; because it was +founded upon the idea that woman was an instrument of the devil +himself, and that to look upon her naked form was in itself wicked, +and only permitted to poor man as a concession to his own innate +defilement. + +The good Church at one time, not so far distant, refused to admit +women to the communion table in the "holy sacrament." A fine chance +has any sacrament of being holy, with one half of it missing! + +The old idea of womanly modesty consisted of blushing with shame and +embarrassment if by chance her ankles became exposed to the interested +and curious gaze of a male. Notwithstanding this ideal of modesty, the +designing and beguiling female managed to arrange just such a +contretemps every time there was an eligible male within sight; if +discovered, she either assumed a look of infantile innocence, or she +took the opportunity to coax a becoming blush. + +To be sure, this does not accurately describe all women of "the good +old days." There was the other type. + +Nature manifests in extremes. There was the type, fitting ancestors to +those women of to-day who are outraged and shocked at the present-day +fashions, which actually disclose the fact that women are +anatomatically endowed with legs and hips, quite in defiance of man's +inherited predilection for making this discovery under conditions that +would pamper to his satiating sex-appetite. They, poor creatures, were +dreadfully ashamed of being women, and they did all that was possible +to conceal the fact. They, doubtless, would gladly have amputated +their legs, if the ministers had so decreed, and they apologized to +the world every time an unforseen circumstance uncovered a portion of +these offensive legs. In fact, they denied the existence of "said +members," and alluded to them tentatively and with modest hesitation, +as "limbs." + +"But," some will exclaim, "we cannot see any possible connection +between a regenerated race, and a fashion which permits the display of +the female figure upon the public streets, where men who are as yet +un-regenerated, and licentious, may leer and pass vile remarks, and +suggest lustful thoughts." + +Few can see any connection between our so-called practical, everyday +life, and the spiritual life. They look upon the spiritual life as +something remote; something in the dim and ever and ever distant +future. The spiritual life is supposed to be so negative that we +postpone living it, as long as we possibly can; and whereas the human +family has prayed and prayed, for Lo! these many ages: "Thy kingdom +come upon earth," they apparently have not had the slightest idea that +God would take them at their word. + +They are like the old darky who called upon "de Lawd to strike him +dead if he was not telling the truth," when as a matter of fact he was +lying roundly. At that moment a bricklayer on the building above where +Rastus was standing, dropped a brick, which struck the old darkey on +the head, and he exclaimed "What's de matter, good Lawd, caint +you'all take a joke?" + +The Kingdom of God, from all records, whether orthodox or heterodox, +has been described as the abode of angels; and angels have been +pictured as nearly nude as our silly "morality" would permit. No one +has as yet suggested that we compel the angels to wear hoopskirts, +although "September Morn" has been compelled, by police regulation, to +don a sweater. + +The spiritual life awaits our cognizance, just behind the transparent +veil of our limited mortal consciousness. This is the message of the +"unveiling" of the female form. This is the time of woman's revealment +of true modesty; true ideals. The Female Principle, representing the +spiritual element in nature, hitherto shut in; covered up; hidden--is +coming out. + +Men must learn to be able to look upon the female form without spasms +of either lustful desires; or contemptuous indifference. + +There was a time when the presence of a female office-force in the +business section of a city was the signal for unwarranted familiarity +on the part of some of the male members of a corporation. There was a +time, when women first invaded the ranks of the "down-town" business +centers, that a woman's appointment to a responsible position rested +upon her claims to feminine attractiveness. Now, the only question +asked is, "Is she efficient?" + +_That which she is, in her interior nature, is the final test of her +power._ When men have become inured to the knowledge, so long +concealed, that women have legs and that there is no more +seductiveness in them than in their faces, the love of man for woman +will undergo the same evolution that his estimate of her business +efficiency has undergone. He will judge her by what she is in her +interior nature; and his sexual desires, now manifested distractedly +in mere love of the female, will become concentrated in love of the +one woman to whom his soul turns in irresistible sex-attraction, as +unerringly as the needle turns to the pole to which it is magnetized. + +Is this fact so unmanifest? Does not everything point to it? + +A few years ago, a man and a woman could not pass a day together in +mutual conversation, and interest, without encroachment upon the one +emotion which they were supposed to hold in common--sexual attraction. + +That was indeed the whole sum and substance of communication between +the two sexes, if we may except the rare instances which history has +made much of, because of their rarity--women of the French salons, who +have become famous for their wit and beauty, in neither of which +attributes did they outstrip the average self-supporting woman of +today. + +But custom has slowly, but perceptibly, established the possibility of +a frank and non-sentimental companionship between the male and the +female, and the result is that both are much more clear as to the true +character of their sentiments toward each other. Neither is blinded +by the force of undifferentiated sex-attraction. + +There must be some specific basis of mutual love; hence we have the +vogue of the "affinity," and by the term is instantly recognized a +special force of attraction, independent of undifferentiated sex +alone. It is known that there is at least an assumption of an interior +attraction, and we insist that affinity marriages, however incomplete +as yet, are still superior in motive to that of mere marriage, where +it is a case of _a_ male and _a_ female, united by propinquity; family +considerations; commercial interests; class association; or what not. + +Affinities at least have the grace to presuppose a special +sex-attraction. They argue for the ultimate goal of special and +permanent selection, even if they fail to reach it. + +That there will be many failures during the journey from the +sense-conscious life, to the soul-conscious life, is a foregone +conclusion. The pathway of Love has always been a thorny one, but +those who are on the high ground may look across into the rose-strewn +garden, and know that the little god is aiming his arrows at the +interior nature of those whom he would unite. He is not blind. His +sight is illumined and he sees that the soul can unite only with its +mate. True it is that "the course of true love never did run smooth," +but let us hope that the time is coming when it will be less thorny. + +_There are no mismates in soul-union._ + +This truth is the "secret of secrets" of the Hermetics. It is the +hidden wisdom of the initiates; the alchemical mysteries of the +Ancients. It is told to us in the fairy story of the Sleeping +Princess--a story which is found in the folk-lore of every country of +the globe. It is the philosopher's stone, which when found, opens the +door to all wisdoms. + +_There can be no mismates in soul-union._ + +Neither can there be any sexual "temptation," or desire outside of +this union, when once found. + + "But never shall he faint or fall + Who lists to hear, o'er every fate, + The sweeter and the higher call + Of his true mate. + + I hear it wheresoe'er I rove; + She holds me safe from shame or sin; + The holy temple of her love + I worship in." + +A time when "the twain shall be" virtually, "one flesh" and the +"outside as the inside" is not a chimerical dream. + +When the physical body is as much reverenced as is the spiritual; when +in fact, the soul is revealed (unveiled) to our mortal consciousness; +when the mind has been freed from its load of prejudices and fears and +doubts and belief in sin; then we shall, indeed, truly see each other. + +We do not see each other now, unless perhaps we have developed that +spiritual insight which is not blinded by appearances, but which +contacts the interior nature. But the revealing, the uncovering +process has begun. We have come to the time so long anticipated; so +earnestly promised, when "naked and unashamed" we should "re-enter the +lost Paradise." + +Well, the women, God bless them, are as naked as the tender morality +of our police officials will permit and as unashamed as it is possible +to be with the handicap of a puritanical ancestry, which was so +evil-minded as to suspect God himself of sin when He formed the +"wicked" body. + +Prudists may howl; and legislators may legislate; but the course of +the Cosmic Law which would free us and bestow upon us Peace and Love +and Happiness without stint, has never been stopped, although it has +been obstructed. + +Let us examine some points of the Hidden Wisdom, in the light of this +postulate, and see if the conclusion is not warranted. + + + + + CHAPTER VIII + + THE HIDDEN WISDOM REVEALED + + +As we have previously observed, there is what may be termed a +religious mysticism and a scientific mysticism. When viewed from the +standpoint of the unprejudiced seeker, who finds the truth that is in +everything, these two phases of mysticism are but photographs of the +same subject taken from different points of view. So, too, mysticism +itself is, in the final analysis, nothing more than a long-distance +view of science. + +Like the proverbial pot and kettle, which we are told made much noise +over calling each other black, we find the scientist frequently +disdains the mystic, and the mystic may retaliate with equal +disapproval of the scientist's position. Both are right, each from his +point of view. Each is looking at life from an opposite end of the +same pole. The scientist looks at the effect and the mystic at the +cause. In their final calculations they arrive at the same conclusion, +although they call it by different names. + +The scientist says that everything proceeds from the one eternal +energy. The mystic perceives the spiritual co-existent with the +external. Religious mysticism calls it "God's word made manifest." In +reference to this definition of religious mysticism, perhaps the +phraseology used by William Ralph Inge, in his "Christian Mysticism," +is the best possible exposition of the position of the religious +mystic, if we may separate the two phases. Inge says: "Religious +mysticism may be defined as the attempt to realize the presence of the +living God in the soul and in nature, or more generally as the attempt +to realize in thought and in feeling the imminence of the temporal in +the eternal, and the eternal in the temporal." + +Which is to say exactly what the scientific mystic says, using other +terminology; and likewise what the physicist says or will ultimately +say, as his researches lead him into the finer and finer realms of +discovery. + +The scientific mystic, like Archimedes, believes that in order to +measure the purpose of external creation, he must "base his fulcrum +somewhere beyond." + +The scientific mystic, therefore, starts from the center of the +Circle; from the crux of creation; and he finds the X, which is the +hypothetical base of algebraical science--the unknown quantity of +which sex is the symbol. Reasoning from effect back to cause and from +cause forward to effect the mystic finds the equation complete, +perfect, and likewise simple; but it is simple only after we have +deciphered it. Like the prize puzzles which are designed to exercise +the inductive faculties, mysticism, when we have not the key, is a +most tantalizing enigma. Most "practical" persons dismiss it with the +same superficial idea that they entertain in regard to puzzles, saying +"it is only a puzzle"--utterly ignoring the value of exercising the +inductive reasoning faculties. + +Fairy stories are popularly supposed to be for the entertainment and +amusement of children. In reality they are the universal language of +symbolism. There is not a single fairy story which has not been handed +down from generation to generation, and, what is more suggestive, each +story is told with astonishing lack of variation, in every tongue and +throughout every nation on this earth. + +The stories involving the turning of men into animals and their final +restoration to human form, as a reward for some service, some +sacrifice, typifies the two-fold nature of Man. He may live in his +animal, or exterior nature; or he may develop his spiritual, or +interior nature; through service; through unselfish love. Our limited +mortal consciousness is responsible for the tendency to personify +everything, instead of to realize the principles underlying all +expression. God and the Devil have been the personification of the two +phases of the principles of Evolution, from animal man to spiritual +man. + +Romulus and Remus have been presented as an actual and specific +instance of twins; likewise Castor and Pollux. Almost every child +instinctively alludes to himself or herself, as either "the good +little me" or the "bad little me." "O, I didn't do that; it was the +bad little Dorothy," or "Harold," as the case may be, is the +child-like way of expressing the innate consciousness that there is +an interior and an exterior nature to all of us. + +The union of gods with mortals, which forms the gist of Mythological +tales, symbolizes the god-like and the mortal qualities inherent in +human nature. Mortals raised to the abode of the gods; and the gods +descended into mortal life; symbolize the interchangeability of what +we term matter and spirit--the power of transmutation of the lower +into the higher life. + +Volumes could be written upon the subject, and we will therefore try +to confine our reviews to the symbolical traditions which deal most +directly with the relations of the sexes. + +In religious symbology, the story of the ark stands as the supreme +type of creation, through the conjunction of the sexes. + +The cherubim are, when all is said and done, nothing more, nor yet +less, than spiritual children--the result of spiritual sex-union. + +And in this later synoptic mysticism of the ark of the Covenant, we +are informed that "every gift within the tabernacle is willingly +offered." If we will but contemplate the volumes of wisdom contained +within that sentence, we cannot fail to conclude that every +infinitesimal particle of coercion in whatsoever shape and form, +individual, economic, ethical, or religious, must be excluded from the +regenerated, perfect, ideal sex-relation; otherwise we do not attain +it. + +If the Ancients seemed to take some of these folk-lore stories too +literally, we of this "practical" age, do not take them literally +enough. + +We have imagined that sex, and the sex function, began and ended in +the physical. This view is excusable in the case of the materialist, +if there really be such a person but it is obviously a stupid view for +the theologian, who regards this life as the door to spiritual life. +Since sex is the cause and the result of what we know of creation; +since it is the foundation of all the qualities that we know as +spiritual laws; friendship; unselfishness; fidelity; paternal +solicitude--it is absolutely certain that the most beautiful things we +know here must have a correspondence in the life hereafter. Of these +beautiful things in life, babies come first; with birds and flowers +and music as fitting accessories. + +But to return to the ark of the covenant. The perpetual flame on the +altar (the center) is the undying Flame of spiritual love--and by that +we mean sex-love, let it be understood. If we seem to repeat this too +frequently it is because of the almost general habit of the race to +apologize for sex-love. The erroneous idea obtains, that spiritual +love is sexless. All too frequently we come across the phrase, "with a +love that has in it nothing of human love," the writer evidently +anxious to convey the impression of tremendous spirituality and the +consequent elimination of the sex function. + +And so we emphasize once more, and we may do so again, the assurance +that the symbol of the never-dying flame upon the altar is typical of +the never-dying spirit of sex-love. Spirit is ever symbolized by +flame, as in the "flaming sword" of the archangel. + +The Deity upon the seat of the altar symbolizes the bi-une +Sex-principle of creation. + +The reason that the Jewish people have claimed that they were "God's +chosen people" is because, in their symbolism of the ark of the +Covenant, all Israel was grouped under the tabernacle. The formation +of the tabernacle proves that it typifies the mother's womb. The +tabernacle was guarded by the priests who _were sworn to purity_; thus +they symbolized the esoteric truth that the pure spiritual sex-union +bestows immortal god-hood. + +Let us take another story, that of the life-token. This is best told +in the story of the Holy Grail, although it is found in all the +fairy-books of all nations, in the language and form befitting the +race to which it belongs. + +In the original, that is in the earliest recitals of this life-token +story, we find that the thing left behind, as a _center_ (which is +always guarded and protected in various ways), was a tree. Here, we +have the phallic symbol as the life-token. But in the story of the +Holy Grail, the cup is the life token to be guarded; it is the sacred +symbol of the quest and it is of a design resembling the red rose of +the Templars. This time it is the yoni--literally the _chalice_ of the +_holy communion_; the centre of the radiant circle, which is the +answer to all the problems within the radius. It is the search for, +and the finding of, the balance in counterpartal union. It is the X of +Being, and only the purest and the noblest of the Knights of the +"Round Table" essay the difficult quest. The "mound of Venus" is +another name for the "Round Table." + +Again is emphasized the necessity for purity, and this purity, +although including all the spiritual qualities: fidelity; bravery; +self-sacrifice; humanity; love of truth; culminates in sexual purity. + +"Blessed are the pure in heart (the pulse of the soul) for they shall +see God." We revise this latter part, and we say "for they shall be +_gods_." + +Let us consider the story of the "sleeping Princess." She is depicted +as a princess, first of all, because she is the daughter of a king; a +king is an earthly ruler, or exalted person. Esoterically, she is the +daughter of the exalted God, and she is the soul. Sometimes this story +is told in the male gender, but everywhere the essential points are +the same. + +Wagner, who is known as a Mystic, has illustrated the story in +Brunhilde and Siegfried. Brunhilde is an immortal--a goddess, who +renounces her immortality to become a woman. + +She sleeps on the top of a high mountain and she is surrounded by a +circle of flame; and here she sleeps, despite all efforts to arouse +her, until awakened by the touch of Siegfried--the one human being in +all the universe who could awaken the sleeping princess. + +The high mountain symbolizes the highest love of which we are capable. +To reach the soul of the exalted woman, typified in the fairy-story by +the word princess, and later, by Wagner, as the goddess, man must be +her mate. _No other can enter the womb of her soul_, though many may +effect an entrance to the outer court. + +This truth, as absolute as life itself, solves all the problems of the +mystery of love and its joys and sorrows. No soul can wholly, +unreservedly love the "wrong" one. Though we may love and die of the +pain of unrequited loving, yet love is its own self-justification, and +its own reward. The pathway of love leads up the mountain top, but no +one who reaches the summit shall fail to find that for which he seeks. + +The soul of man, and of woman, has been playing a game of blind-man's +bluff--a fitting name for the game it is, too. Unable to see anything +but the exterior nature, and longing for success in the search, we +have frantically grabbed here and there, and appropriated that which +we grabbed, with a self-complacency and an egotism of which little +Jack Horner would be ashamed. + +In the symbolical rites and ceremonies of secret orders, such as the +Ancient Alchemists; the Hermetics; the Rosicrusians; and in modern +times, the Free Masons, we have this story of the search for the +ultimate balance of soul union, told in language veiled unless we are +fit to know; but openly enough if we are fit. And in all these orders +(alleged guardians of the hidden wisdom) we have varying degrees of +initiation; and in each degree the initiate must undergo certain +trials to prove his fearlessness; his fidelity; his fitness, in other +words, for the final revealment of all, which is the initiation into +the "holy of holies;" the "secret chamber" and the degree of +"mastership." + +In the order of Masonry, the highest degree is that of the Templar. +The symbol of the Templars is the red rose on the cross, together with +the star and the crescent. The star preserves the esotericism of its +nomenclature, in whatever sphere it is used, namely, the power of +radiating light. It stands for the radiant center. The Knights Templar +sought the radiant center to complete their half circle, and when they +should have found, they were to become radiant with the light of +spiritual power. That they originally at least, understood the way of +this initiation, is evident by the symbol of the rose and the +cross--the combined phallus and yoni. + +This fact is the underlying cause of the open and hereditary enmity of +the Church of Rome for the modern order of Freemasons. The Church +sought to specialize in the persons of the Virgin Mary and her Son the +eternal principles of the "way of the cross." The temporal power of +the Church could be built up only by offering a complete system of +salvation within the church itself. At the same time, the utter +degradation of Sex, which had reached its depths under Roman +civilization, called for as complete a reversion of the ideas of the +Ancient sex-worshippers, as was consistent with the truth. + +Hence we find the extreme attitude of the Church opposing all +reference to sex as other than a part of the temptations of the Evil +One, although they did retain the central truth typified by the Holy +Virgin Mother, and the pure and perfect child. + +The Alchemists are supposed to have been imbued with the desire and, +to some extent, at least, were regarded as having the knowledge of how +to make gold. This gold-making was always accomplished by +transmutation of the baser (lower) metals; also, the knowledge of how +to accomplish this transmutation was possible only to one possessing +"the philosopher's stone." + +If we will but remember that this "philosopher's stone" was of such a +purity that it was almost impossible to find it; that, although +several initiates claimed to possess the stone, yet no visible proof +of its existence, or of gold resulting from lead or copper, was ever +offered; and again if we will realize the fine distinction between the +words "found" and "discovered," and take note that the word "found" is +used almost invariably in connection with those who claimed to possess +the stone, we will arrive at the obvious conclusion that the secret of +the Alchemists was of an interior nature. We "discover" outside of +ourselves; we "find" within. Above all, the "stone of great purity" is +the same that was raised at Babylon, supplanting the yoni, which is +to say, the phallic symbol. + +A philosopher is one who is wise in his interior nature; his wisdom is +of the esoteric quality; we do not apply the term "philosopher" to +either great educators, or great financiers; but to those whose +activities are turned within. + +The force which is manifested in the lower desires and passions, when +transmuted into spiritual channels, opens the door to the golden light +of illumination. + +To become in reality a Prince of the Rosy Cross bestows the exaltation +and the power, typified by that of an earthly prince--one who is +exalted above the common man. + +It is doubtful, indeed, if many of the ancient alchemists attained to +this exalted degree in its true significance; and we may readily +believe that in an age in which wealth was so eagerly sought; temporal +power so much desired; where deception was almost general; that few +lived the requisite purity of life to have accomplished the +transmutation; so today there is not one in a thousand of the many who +have taken the degree of "Knight Templar," who recognizes its esoteric +meaning. + +But words have a trick of trapping us, and we note that the word +"taken" is invariably used in referring to modern Masonic initiation. +Verily they have "taken" the degree in its outward semblance. They +have not attained to its powers and privileges. + +Nor can they do so, when they exclude the very "gate of life" from the +order. They may become masons (builders of the temple), but how can +they become Architects, when they have not entered the tabernacle? + +In a search for hidden meanings, and for a secret tradition which is +believed to be discoverable in Kabalistic and Hermetic literature, we +find, if we possess true insight, the one indubitable truth, +subordinating all the other symbols, namely that of the supremacy, the +finality, of the sublimated sex-union, resulting in immortal +mastership. + +Most modern interpreters of the archives of these ancient philosophers +ignore the sexual significance of the arcana, but a glimpse at the +symbols will readily convince the initiated of their identity with +sexual symbology. + +For example in "The History of Transcendental Magic," by Eliphas Levi +(Abbe Constant), translated by Arthur Edward Waite, there is a plate +used to illustrate the author's theory of Alchemy, which he concludes +"had two aspects, one a physical and the other a moral one." The +sexual, as well as the spiritual, significance is ignored, but this +may be due to a disinclination to reveal the secret meaning of the +alchemical symbols, or it may be due to a materialistic tendency on +the part of the compiler. + +The plates, however, speak for themselves, and in one, ascribed to +Basil-Valentine, an alchemist of the Fifteenth century, called "The +Great Hermetic Arcanum," the supreme and significant point of the +illustration, shows, within the circle of Experience, through which +the initiate travels in his search for the supreme god-head, two +doves, holding in their beaks a crown. The doves are perfectly +matched. The crown is balanced between them, and the figure tops the +circle, under the heading "regeneration." + +In another plate, which the author presents as "the Philosophic Cross, +or Plan of the Third Temple as prophesied by Ezekiel," we note again, +that the crown of the symbolical temple represents the red rose upon a +cross, within a radiant circle; beneath this is a mother-eagle with +outstretched wings, shielding her little brood, and on either side a +tree and a flowering rosebush. + +Here is the symbol par excellence of generation. The creative function +of the male and the female in procreative conjunctivity. + +The employment of the eagle as a religious symbol may be traced back +to the civilization of the Hittites. + +Only a few years ago, two English archæologists discovered a +double-headed eagle in Asia. This was identical with those seen +perpetuating religious rites and ceremonies of the sex-worshipers. An +eagle holding in its talons a serpent is an emblem well known today. +The origin of the adoption of the eagle as a religious, though not +necessarily a "sacred," symbol by prehistoric races, may easily be +imagined, if we consider that the eagle is a bird of tremendous power; +and that it soars to unreachable heights; and that it unquestionably +was at some time seen to swoop down and carry off the serpent, +possibly even during their ceremonies of serpent-worship. + +This idea becomes quite convincing when we also remember that the +ceremonies of the serpent worshipers were carried on, as far as +feasible, upon the mountain. We allude to this stage of religious +history as "serpent worship," but when we realize the points of +analogy between the serpent and the phallus it is apparent that the +serpent was only the nature-emblem of generation, as manifested by the +male principle. + +"The eagle and the dove" is a phrase employed today to illustrate the +law of antithesis, and it is more than probable that the eagle +represented the lower nature of the sex-relation, in juxtaposition to +the higher, as the dove is emblematical of the spiritualized aspect of +sex-love. We have an analogy to that of the eagle and the dove in the +Biblical allusion to "the last day; when God will separate the 'sheep +from the goats,'" Here again is a pertinent reference to the sex +nature. The goat is a symbol of sensuality and lust, principally +because he has perverted sexual proclivities, notably that of +coercion. For this reason, Classical Mythology employs the satyr, a +creature half man and half goat, to typify the lowest form of the sex +call in man. + +On the other hand, the lamb is the type of gentleness and affection, +and although in outward appearance the lamb and the goat are not +dissimilar, their natures are antithetical. + +In estimating the God-idea of the Ancients, many mistakes have arisen +by confounding religious symbols with the "sacred" symbols. The +race-mind was in its kindergarten stage, and all ideals were instilled +by means of pictures--a method which even the present hour finds most +effective. + +In modern theological symbolism we have God and the Devil; Heaven and +Hell; angels and demons, to illustrate by antithesis. + +They all belong to religious symbology, but only those which teach +spiritual ideals are denominated "sacred." + +"Riding the goat," alleged to be the almost invariable initiatory +prelude to fitness for membership in all secret orders, means, first +of all, that the would-be initiate must have control over his lower +sexual desires. If he cannot control the goat instincts within his +nature, he stands small chance of taking the higher degrees of +spiritual regeneration, through transmutation. + +In another symbolic chart presenting the secrets of alchemical +transmutation, we find depicted "The Gate of Eternal Wisdom," and we +are further informed that this "gate" also brings "knowledge of God." +The design of this cave-like aperture should betray its esoteric +meaning. It is situated under a mound, upon which trees are planted. +The inscriptions on the corrugated walls of the cave, are evidently +designed to resemble seven lotus petals, and are set forth as the +seven mysteries. Inscriptions warning against profanation of this +sacred gate, and also promising eternal life and glory to the true +initiate, inspire the intrepid and deter the doubtful. Of these +latter, several are outside the entrance. Two are on the steps leading +to the mouth of the cave but their attitude bespeaks doubt of their +worthiness. Only one has penetrated to the radiant center of the +aperture, and there is room for but the one to enter the radiance of +the solar gate, which truly bestows a knowledge that is "of God." + +Sex Symbology is a subject that calls for a large volume devoted to +this special side of it, and we cannot hope to do more here than to +touch a few of the almost universal proofs of the contention which is +the purpose of this book, namely, that the supreme goal of life, +typified in every religion, every philosophy, and in the intuitional +knowledge of the human mind, is spiritual sex-union; and that this can +be accomplished only by counterparts; the two halves of the bi-une god +seed uniting in one immortal and complete pair--a man and a woman. +Not, we must again emphasize, not in a hermaphroditic personality, but +in two perfect complementaries--mates; not _one_ but _a pair_. + +In another exposition of Hermetic secrets we discover the amazing +statement that "the alchemist is found working throughout, in +conjunction with a woman of the art; _they begin and they attain +together_." + +This should be plain enough. Small chance, indeed, either would have +of attaining alone. But if this suggestion is not sufficient (and +either from design or from failure to comprehend the significance of +it, the translator seems to have missed the point), we are introduced +to a symbolical figure-study, which shows a Chalice in which the sun +and the moon are personified (the solar-man and the solar-woman), with +the god Vulcan (fire) seated between them. Underneath this "twain-one" +symbol a mortal man and a mortal woman are kneeling on either side of +a cone-shaped and dome-tipped furnace, which is lighted by a feeble +candle. But their attitude of prayer bespeaks the hope that this +earthly flame will be transmuted by their prayers and aspirations; by +their reverential attitude toward the divine character of the function +of mating, into the immortal and unquenchable flame typified by the +god of fire himself. + +In another series of symbolical plates, purporting to be the story of +Metallic transmutation, but representing, above all, the story of +manifestation from the Divine to the human and again to the +spiritualized and perfected Adam and Eve--(the solar man and the solar +woman), we again see that from generation to regeneration the work is +accomplished by man and woman in conjunction. + +These plates bear the hall-marks of Christian appropriation of +Hermetic symbolism, as peculiarly applicable to the Church, but the +central doctrine of salvation through sex-regeneration, is retained. +Whether consciously or not, is a question. + +Modern commentators and translators of alchemical literature insist +that such documents are palpably related to the secret, or secrets, of +metallic transmutation. That they prove the search for, if not the +existence of, a "magic solvent" that resolves the baser metals into +gold; but, as far as known, such a compound has not yet been +discovered or, if it ever was, it has since been lost and evades all +attempts at rediscovery. But if we read these alchemical treatises as +they relate to transmutation of sex-love from the pro-creative +function to regeneration through spiritual or counterpartal union +(solar mates), we have the key to every statement. + +A writer tells of an instance which is recorded among alchemical +archives, where "an unknown master testified to his possession of the +mystery" (supposedly of metallic transmutation), but it is added that +"he had not proceeded to the work because he had failed to meet an +_elect woman_, who was necessary thereto." In other words, applying +this statement in its obviously logical sense, the unknown master knew +the esoteric meaning of the alchemical postulate, but not having met +his female complement, he could not testify to the results of this +transmutation. An "elect woman" would hardly be necessary in the work +of metallic transmutation. + +Small wonder that the "alchemist" abandoned the work of turning lead +and copper into gold. If he had found the key of keys, he cared little +whether lead were lead, or whether gold remained gold, or melted into +thin air. The golden light of illumination showed him all things in +their purpose, and gold as a metal meant no more to him than did the +so-called "baser" metals. + +Commenting upon this statement, the translator observes: "Those +Hermetic texts which bear a spiritual interpretation and are as if a +record of spiritual experience, present, like the literature of +physical alchemy, the following aspects of symbolism: the marriage of +sun and moon; of a mystical king and queen; a union between natures +which are _one_ at the _root_, but diverse in manifestation; a +transmutation which follows this union and an abiding glory therein." + +If we will remember that the solar-man was personified by the Ancients +as the sun; and the solar-woman by the moon, we have the first and +salient points of the original Hermetic secrets, however much they may +have degenerated from their spiritual to their physical application. +The probabilities are that owing to the disapproval of the Christian +Hierarchy, only the most veiled terminology was permissible. This view +is more logical than is the one that the esoteric meaning was lost +sight of. + +The marriage of an hypothetical or "mystical king and queen" bespeaks +exaltation of the two conjoining persons, male and female, but this +exaltation is in consciousness, and not in mere personality. The +terms "king" and "queen" are nothing more or less than symbols of an +exalted (spiritualized) state. + +And, in passing, we may here mention the fact that the language of +lovers testifies to this intuitional realization. "My queen!" exclaims +the enraptured lover, although in social station his beloved one may +be only a scullery maid; and certainly, neither the beauty nor the +goodness nor the wisdom of earthly kings and queens would be +sufficient to inspire the comparison. + +It is ever the soul calling for the mate who, when found, will exalt +the "twain-one" into the immortal powers and immortal wealth +imperfectly symbolized by earthly rulers, making "right royal queens +and kings of common clay." + +The third aspect of the symbolism tells of "an union between two +natures which are one at the root, but diverse in manifestation." And +the alchemist who sought the physical interpretation of this, promised +that, as earth, air, and fire and water were the elements "out of +which all manifestation is composed," it only remained for someone to +discover the exact proportion of each of these elementary substances +in a specific compound; this accomplished, copper for example, could +be dissolved into its constituent parts and re-solved again in the +proportions which formed gold, a thing which we are not prepared to +say could not be accomplished, but a thing which we do say, would not +even be attempted by one who had found the secret of the interior +transmutation, because having attained to the radiant center, he +would realize the "glory of the worlds," and gold, as metal, would be +to him of far less value than the emerald of the grass; the pearls of +dew upon the rose; the scent of the lotus; the song of birds; the +laughter of children. + +How vain and foolish to imagine that a philosopher would think it +worth while to search for gold, as a metal. He would not even consider +the ambition worthy the parchment used to preserve the record of his +labors. + +But to find the golden light from the radiant center of pure and +unquenchable love--that were indeed worthy of ages of research. For +are we not promised, the "glory of the world" if we will seek and +find? And he who truly seeks will absolutely find. What is the glory +of the world? Is it fame, or wealth, or lands, or gems or kingdoms? + +Love is the only glory worthy of the name. + + "For Life with all its yield of joy and woe + And hope and fear--believe the aged friend-- + Is just our chance at the prize o' learning love." + +When we realize the esoteric meaning of this aspect of the ancient +alchemical symbol, namely, that the two halves of the one whole, +manifesting diversely as male and female, are reunited, we come to the +fourth aspect of the symbol mentioned, and the "transmutation which +follows this union and the abiding glory therein," is the inevitable +and logical sequential answer. + +An _abiding_ glory must be founded upon spiritual substantiability. +Transmutation is not synonymous with, extinction, or elimination, or +abandonment. We _transmute_ the lower into the higher, the exterior +into the interior, the physical into the spiritual. This is the sum +and substance of the "Ancient Wisdom." + +There is no eccentric change or transition from one phase or plane of +life, into another. It is neither logical nor justifiable to assume +that Sex is limited to the physical, or the astral or the psychic, or +any other specific planes of consciousness. These planes are not +distinctively separable anyway. They are merely _names_ which we use +to distinguish degrees, or limitations of consciousness. + +The statement that the "two halves are reunited" is almost invariably +misinterpreted to imply an annihilation, or absorption of +individuality, into some sort of vaporous, formless, sexless Thing; +but why this should be so misconstrued is a puzzle, any more than that +bringing together the two halves of an orange which had been divided, +would result in the destruction of that edible; or any more than +bringing together a glove fitting the right hand and its mate fitting +the left hand, would destroy the shape and usefulness of this article. +The comparison may be a homely one, but it is understandable. + +It takes two to make a pair. Mistake it not, and further, there is no +_abiding glory_ in this world or in the next or in any other sphere, +that is not founded upon the deep, intense and eternal love of man and +woman. + + + + + CHAPTER IX + + WHAT CONSTITUTES SEX IMMORALITY? + + +The average mind, nurtured in apprehensive awe of that race fetish +called Public Opinion, is inordinately afraid of words. + +"Atheist," "infidel," "ungodly" are epithets which have been used as +mental clubs, with temporary effect, to beat back the wave of +religious and scientific Rationalism, which punctuated the last +century. + +These words have now lost much of their terror, even to the +undeveloped consciousness of the average, because it has been shown +that the God-idea which rational thought fain would substitute for the +old revengeful Deity, has not annihilated the world, but quite to the +contrary has resulted in a happier and higher ideal of godhood than +that which the early Church postulated. + +Epithets are the mental bulwarks of the powers of resistance against +Evolution. + +Ignorance is fearful of the unknown, and the knights of Enlightenment +have ever had to fight their way through the ranks of abuse and +criticism and misrepresentation. + +Free-love is a phrase with which even the most intrepid advocate of +rational thought hesitates to claim affiliation; and yet the goal of +our highest endeavors must be a state of Society where Love, the god, +is free from the mire of corruption, and the bonds of slavery. + +Let us not be afraid of so harmless a thing as a word, remembering the +case of the little girl who ran to her mother crying with indignation +because someone had alluded to her as an "aristocrat." She did not +know what the word meant, and so resented it as something undeserved. + +When we examine into what the phrase free-love really means, we will +not be so fearful of its sound. + +To whom is this epithet most frequently applied? + +Is it to the average man who is known to be a Lothario in matters of +sex? Not at all. He is referred to as a "gay bachelor" or as one who +is "sowing his wild oats" or some other phrase, which in no way +affects his social standing. + +Is it applied to women of the half-world, to recognized, and legalized +prostitution? Never! It is significant of the real meaning of +free-love that the term is never used in connection with what modern +reform has aptly designated the "white slave" traffic, for the obvious +reason that nowhere is Love so un-free; so enslaved and bound and +murdered as in this phase of woman's degradation. + +Nor is the term applied to unfaithful wives, because in this type of +defiance of traditional sex-ethics there is always the spirit of +self-accusation; a tacit, if not open, admission of wrong-doing. + +We never hear the awful accusation of "free-lover" hurled at the young +woman who has, what the world calls, "sinned," because, forsooth, she +pays the price of her deviation from social standards (when +discovered) by ostracism, and not infrequently by a broken heart, or +by sinking further into the depths of bondage; and so here again it is +evident that there is no freedom for whatever spirit of love actuates +her conduct. + +It must be admitted that the term "free-love" is applied only to those +who openly claim the right to bestow their affections and indulge in +the sex-relationship, independent of the marriage ceremony. It matters +not whether this claim includes but one mate, or several. It is the +demand that they shall not forfeit their right to respect and +morality, which is resented by the many who still conform to +traditional customs, and which general conformity results in investing +the term "free-love" with an unpleasant odor. + +Public opinion puts a premium upon deceit. + +Such intimate matters as marriage and divorce are really no concern of +any person other than the contracting or the "distracted" parties. + +The public is too concerned with trivialities and too little with +Truth. Nothing short of national insanity permits the existence of +divorce-courts, and the necessity for married persons desiring to +live apart, to slander and abuse each other like pickpockets before +they may act upon such a decision. + +Some time ago the public press was filled with the minutest details of +the love story of a woman, who had lived for fifteen years hidden from +the world because she loved a man well enough to pay that price. + +She might have insisted that the man obtain a divorce from his wife, +to whom he had been married seventeen or more years, and thus win the +approval of society. But this woman placed love above all material +things, and she preferred to take nothing from the wife. The love of +her husband the wife did not possess and, it would seem, did not care +for particularly. When through the accident of the man's death the +story came to light, the press was flooded with letters from prominent +club-women and from clergymen and others, stating upon what terms, if +any, this love-recluse should be forgiven. + +Most of them decided that she should not be forgiven; a few seemed to +think that if she "repented" and lived thereafter a "pure" life, she +might in time be worthy of their forgiveness. + +Such a spectacle! America will yet share the reputation with England +of being a nation without a sense of humor. + +Eagerly the representative members of society "rush in where angels +fear to tread" upon any and all occasions to air their opinions upon +other people's conduct and thus prove their own virtue. + +The fact that this woman was not in any position to be forgiven or +unforgiven; that she was sublimely unconscious of and wholly +indifferent to their opinions; that she was unaware of any necessity +for either shame or repentance; seems not to have entered the silly +brains of these keepers of the public morals. She had loved one man +with a fidelity, a whole-heartedness, and a loftiness of +self-sacrifice which are as rare as they are great in these days of +pretense and hypocritical virtue, and she had paid the full price for +her idealism. She did not repine or regret. She only suffered, not +alone because of her unenviable notoriety, but because Death had taken +her loved one from her. Surely this was indeed an evidence of real +love in an unreal civilization, which should have brought out the +fearless sympathy and approval of every good woman in the land. It +should have been food for sermons in every pulpit in Christendom, that +a modern woman preferred solitary confinement with the man she loved +to the usual method of procedure, which insists upon the respectable +position of wife, no matter at what cost to another. + +But this is Society's estimate of Love and Truth and Virtue, and it is +small wonder if real people become indifferent to Society's feelings. + +If the term free-love were really synonymous with sex-promiscuity, we +would hear it used in connection with those whose frequent divorces +are the subject of press comment, but we do not, because by their +outward concession to established ethics they subscribe to the demands +of Convention. + +The term, in its opprobrious sense, is almost always applied to women, +because for many centuries the men have claimed their right to +personal liberty in matters connected with the sex-relation, and until +women of the self-respecting and educated class began to openly +emulate the example of the male, there was no occasion to use the +phrase. Men come under its lash only when they, too, concede to women +the right to respectability notwithstanding defiance of tradition. + +All of which goes to prove that the public mind is in reality +sufficiently clear on the matter of distinction between sex +promiscuity and free-love. It is likewise obvious that the opprobrium +that attaches to the phrase is not aimed at promiscuity but at the +claim to personal liberty in matters of the sex-relation and defiance +of Public Opinion which demands either ostensible concurrence in its +standards, or punishment for openly transgressing them. + +The result of this unjust (and unfit, in the light of our other +advanced ideas) attitude toward the most important function of life, +has resulted in one of two lines of conduct as woman's only free +choice. + +Either she must resort to deception, hypocrisy and pretense, shielding +her secret excursions into forbidden paths, by feigning a scorn and +abhorrence for the doctrine of free-love, the while she secretly +indulges her sex-nature, more or less promiscuously, or else she is +forced to repress all her natural instincts, and not infrequently +these instincts are abnormally strong because of pre-natal and +inherited influences. + +Both of these courses, the only two which are open to the average +woman, are disastrous to the sex, and through them to the race, +because women are the mothers of men, and any course which binds and +fetters the free spirit of woman hampers race-improvement. + +Repression of the natural functions of her being results in physical +disease, and ultimately in mental weakness. Unnatural expression of +the sex-function, under the ban of compulsion, whether through the +compulsion of marriage or through the more flagrant type of commercial +prostitution, is death to the best development of the race. + +Women, through the urge of economic necessity, or through the +religious ideal of wifely submission and fidelity to their "Lord and +Master" have been compelled to develop a craftiness and an artificial +"modesty" which, in most cases, passes for femininity, and deceives, +as it is intended to do, the average man. + +For centuries, a woman's only profession was matrimony. Her education +for this profession consisted first of all of complete ignorance of +all that relates to the most intimate and most vital part of her +nature--the function of sex. In the occasional instances where she had +inherited a degree of mentality which could not be dwarfed, she must +at least feign ignorance; and so, while secretly aware of every +emotion of the male, and covertly playing upon his sex-nature in her +task of "catching a husband," it is small wonder that women have +developed the traits of the cat animal, and are frequently both +treacherous and cruel. + +Indeed, it is only because the Female Principle is the attracting and +conserving power of the bi-une sex-love, that she has broken through +these mental fetters, and in a few rare instances has hurled defiance +at the devils of convention and tradition and claims justification of +her own sex-nature, and her right to her own person, despite the +epithet of "free-love." + +Woman's partial emancipation in some instances has, no doubt, "gone to +her head," as it were, and we see many women confounding license with +liberty; mistaking passion for Love; and exchanging restraint for +debauchery. + +The average woman is either almost entirely lacking in sex desire or +she is abnormally active in that function. In truth, the same state of +affairs prevails here, as in so many other phases of our modern life, +namely, there is no balance. We are a civilization of extremes; we are +one-sided, abnormal; distorted. We are seeking the pivotal point of +our destiny, which is the soul, but few have reached that point. Those +who have not, are groping through the jungles of the mental plane of +consciousness, upheld on the one hand by the upward trend of their +being, which seeks the level of the soul-conscious state; and held +back on the other hand by the trammels of the sense-conscious type +from which the race has developed to its present condition. + +Those instances where women indulge in excesses are comparatively rare +in proportion to numbers, and they loom large in perspective because +of their very incongruity with our ideals of womanly conduct. The vast +majority of women may be safely trusted to use their sex-freedom, when +it shall have truly arrived, for the purpose of finding that one and +only mate which their souls instinctively know to be our rightful +heritage--the proverbial "pearl of great price" which insures +immortality in the bliss of union with our Beloved. + +Love, when freed from the illusions of sense; from the shackles of +commercialism; from the bonds of error regarding the meaning and +purpose of marriage; freed from selfishness and licentiousness; will +solve the question of sex-promiscuity. This for the obvious reason +that Love seeks its own. If left free to seek, it will find. + +But, if sex promiscuity is far from being free-love, if the doctrine +of sex freedom is fraught with many dangers under our present social +system, it must be conceded that no one method of social evolution, +thus far devised, can be recommended as ideally perfect. The best that +we can hope to do is to emphasize the importance and the sacredness +and the innate purity of the sex-relation, while conceding to both +sexes all the personal liberty possible. + +And above all, we should avoid condemnation of those who claim the +right to freedom, lest we cover up a condition which can but be the +better for being open to the light. Particularly should we shield +women from the charge of immorality, and licentiousness, when we see +them straying down the by-paths of the senses, in their quest for +freedom, remembering that the centuries of repression and submission +and consequent deception have left their mark upon woman's +temperament. + +Man has for ages boasted of his sex virility; of his conquests in what +he has termed "love." Not infrequently a man's choice of a wife is the +result of much seeking in the garden of Life; and much sipping of the +honey from the various flowers that grow therein. Often, indeed, a man +frankly tells the woman he would marry that he knows he loves her +above all other women for the convincing reason that he has tried so +many and none have held him. Should a woman make the same confession +and draw the same conclusion, he would be horrified. + +It must be admitted, then, that the term "free-lovers" is applied only +to those who defy Public Opinion and claim their right to respect and +morality despite their defiance of Society's false standards of +morality. These standards are false because they are based upon +criticism and censure of results instead of upon motives. + +Society ignores, if it does not actually encourage, frivolous +flirtations, and frowns most harshly upon instances of real love. It +sets the seal of disapproval and ostracism upon those who, because of +circumstances or possibly because of indifference to man-made laws, +take their affairs into their own hands and refuse to exhibit either +penitence or shame when the world discovers that they neglected the +marriage ceremony. If two persons truly love each other and there is +nothing to interfere with their undergoing the publicity of a marriage +ceremony, well and good, unless, indeed, it is a matter of principle +with them that our social customs are a fetich. But there are +innumerable instances where there are obstacles to unions which to +overcome would involve hardships and suffering to others, or where +absurd laws prevent marriage, and where two persons loving each other, +prefer to pay the price of social ostracism to separation. Such as +these lose nothing by Society's disapproval, but Society does lose +something by persecuting those who are independent enough and honest +enough to act from motive, rather than from custom, and who insist +upon maintaining their self-respect, in the face of criticism. +Self-respect is not related to braggadocio. + +It must be admitted that as yet there are few persons who have the +courage to endure martyrdom for their convictions, which is, perhaps, +just as well, because the majority are unable to distinguish between +brazen shamelessness and unashamedness. The average woman will stick +to the safe habit of dissembling. + +Women have learned the lesson of the cat too thoroughly to jump +immediately from the back-yard of Deception to the front porch of +Truth. + +In this one respect at least, however much she may indulge her desire +for frankness in other directions, a woman will lie valiantly, +self-protectingly, and continually, even though she follow in secret +the example of the cat, which (seeing its master come home from the +hunt with a string of birds, and displaying, with much pride and +satisfaction, the results of his prowess), conceived the idea that it +would also be a fine thing for her to go forth and kill the canary. +But to tabby's surprise, her ability was rewarded with chastisement; +whereupon she pondered the question over and over: "How can it be, +that what is virtue in man is vice in a cat?" + +We are not told in the story what conclusion she arrived at, but we +can imagine that her conclusion was that which women have arrived at, +in a similar situation, to wit: man is unjust and unreasonable, but he +is also stronger than I am, and therefore, while I shall follow his +example, I shall take good care to hide the feathers. + +In the meantime, we are crossing the bridge that leads from the +jungles of our animal nature, where prowl the beasts of deceit; greed; +selfishness; sensuality; vanity; avarice; and domination; to the +Heights, illumined by Love set free. + +Let us not jostle and crowd each other too harshly, while we are en +route. + +But, of course, we are confronted with the pertinent query as to what, +if any, absolute standard of morality there can be in matters of the +sex relation. Freedom is so easily misconstrued into implying +sex-promiscuity; and monogamy, the final survival of the various +systems of marriage, has in its modern as well as in its ancient +aspect so much of coercion; and coercion is cited as the insuperable +obstacle to attainment of the supreme state of spiritual sex-union, +that the would-be initiate becomes confused, and is lost in a maze of +paradoxes. + +Moral distinctions are too fine for the undeveloped man-animal, and +that is the reason why man-made laws have been necessary. The +objection to them is not in their original intention, but in their +failure to die after they have become senile. + +Moral standards are as unstable as the shifting sands of the sea. + +"Our moral sentiments," say Letourneau, "are simply habits incarnate +in our brain, or instincts artificially created; and thus an act +reputed culpable at Paris, or at London, may be, and frequently is, +held innocent at Calcutta or at Pekin." + +And Emerson, the intellectual Seer, says: "There is a soul at the +centre of nature and over the will of every man, so that none of us +can wrong the universe." + +It is a colossal piece of impudent presumption, when we come to think +about it, for Man to ask the Supreme, Absolute, Infinite Power to +forgive him. But, if we cannot wrong the universe, we can and we do +wrong ourselves and each other as mortals. + +That is the whole gist of the story. We are constantly wronging +ourselves and each other and calling upon God to support us in our +strife when God cannot know aught save the call of Love. + +The growing, evolving race, has found it necessary to establish +certain loosely defined codes of morals and of social ethics, in the +same way that man has bridled the horse that he may control him; +incidentally, we may observe that where this bridle formerly included +"blinders," it now permits the horse to see whither he is going. + +Perhaps a brief survey of the standards of sexual morality which have +upheld (or down-held, just as we look at it) the human race until now, +may be illuminating. + +It has been disputed, if, under the matriarchal system of polygamy, +the moral condition of the people was higher than under the +patriarchal system, and probably no satisfactory conclusion can be +reached upon this point, save and except that any condition, however +primitive, which permitted to the female freedom of choice, must be +better than that in which she is the object of coercion. This is +evident, because the degree of coercion can never, under any +circumstances, be as great with the male as with the female. + +Therefore, matriarchal polygamy is comparatively more nearly moral +than is patriarchal polygamy, and when all is said and done, historic +morality is comparative. + +But from the standpoint of modern idealism matriarchal polygamy seems +to be a very low estimate of moral conduct; and from the standpoint of +sexual idealism it is a low standard; a standard only a degree higher +than that of patriarchal polygamy--a standard which is the lineal +descendant of the ethics of the marriage-by-capture period of human +evolution, and from which we are today by no means free, owing to +economic, religious, and ethical conditions. + +There is a tacit acknowledgement on the part of the unorganized +brotherhood of the Enlightened, that laws are made for the guidance of +the masses. Unbridled ignorance is a dangerous force; as dangerous as +an unbridled horse, unless it be that the horse exhibits intelligence +enough to know where it is headed for and how to avoid obstacles en +route. + +And even as the laws of a community are made for the intellectually +undeveloped, so the commandments were compiled for the spiritual +guidance of the uninitiated. + +We trust that it will not shock the sensibilities of the "pious" when +we affirm and maintain and insist that the ten commandments are not +"from God" in the letter of the statements, as postulated by Theology. +They bear all the earmarks of the ancient Hebrew race-mind, which +placed a man's "neighbor's wife" in the same category with "his ox and +his ass and his house" and his other property and possessions. + +There is but one commandment of the Most High God, alias Eros, and +that is so interwoven into the fabric of creation that we cannot break +it if we would, although we may and do break ourselves in trying to +live in defiance of its immutability. + +"We cannot wrong the universe!" + +Our moral standards, in so far as they relate to the sexes, are at +present the logical descent of Hebrew adherence to phallic worship, +engrafted into the Roman outgrowth of the God-idea. Both the Hebrew +and the Roman customs maintained the inferiority and the consequent +subjugation of woman, despite the fact that the Roman Church exalted +the Virgin as a personality; but the postulate of the Church that Mary +was so exalted by a miracle, which never could be repeated, killed any +forlorn hope which might have lurked within the female breast +regarding a possible emulation of her example. No other woman might do +more than cringe and crawl and beg and whine; or cajole and wheedle +and buy the Holy Mother's intercession, which intercession, even if +successful, could at best but secure her an eternal job in the +Heavenly hierarchy, where, sexless, companionless, mateless, anæmic, +she could look all day at a male God whom she could never presume to +reach. + +Rather a lonesome outlook for eternity, and it is small wonder that +woman got discouraged at the prospect. The miracle is rather that she +endured it so long. + +But the Roman system had at least one virtue. It instilled into the +mortal mind of its people a sub-conscious realization of the ideal of +monogamy; not an ideal monogamy by a long way, but a monogamic ideal. +They are quite different; but inasmuch as it is an outward semblance +of a more spiritual conception of marriage than that of polygamy, it +is the highest ideal yet realized for the many, and does duty in our +present day and age, as consistent with our superior civilization. + +Monogamy at least pretends to be a marriage by mutual consent; and +even in the pretense there is the germ of a hope; but it would be +folly to deny that underneath this appearance of marriage by mutual +consent we see the remnants of the traditional idea of the right by +purchase, and therefore we have the jealousy that arises by virtue of +our property rights. + +The right by purchase assuredly underlies our present-day marriage +system, although it is disguised as economic necessity; as a religious +sacrament; and as a suitable or a brilliant "catch"--a type of +marriage by capture which forms the ideal of our own upper-class women +and which the housemaid copies in her limited way. + +Viewed from the surface evidence, the average woman of today is, as +Kipling says, far "more deadly than the male." She is more +unscrupulous in her methods; more unreasonable in her demands; more +devoid of sentiment or sympathy; more fickle in her desires and more +nagging in her complaints. But, when all is said and done, we must +admit that woman is only expressing her inheritance. When she becomes +balanced, the sexes will meet on common ground. + +Woman's demand for better physical environment; for more comfort, and +more justice; presages, after all, a higher and a more satisfactory +idea of the marriage relationship. Underneath this materialistic +demand, there is the silent voice of the soul calling for a more +ideal marriage relation. It is the materialistic expression of a +spiritual urge and will in time rise to higher ground. It is a demand +for a better state than that which our grandmothers enjoyed, or +endured. + +We have seen in the history of marriage, that the estimate of sexual +immorality has been based, all too frequently, upon woman's disregard +for the rights of her husband in her person. + +For centuries the burden of sustaining a sexual moral standard has +rested almost wholly upon the shoulders of the women; and it is +therefore natural that the present-day defiant attitude of many women +toward the traditional standard should be viewed with alarm; and there +is more in this thought of alarm than the mere anxiety on the part of +man to hold woman to her appointed task of guardian of marital +morality. + +Although men may wander from the home and fireside, it is a peculiar +fact that they generally hold to a mental string by which they may +find their way back again, very frequently the more contented to be +there for their wanderings. But with a woman it is different. Once a +woman has broken loose from the ties that have bound her to her +inherited post of morality-preserver, she seldom goes back again, but +keeps on her way until she finds that for which she seeks, or gives up +the search of her own volition. + +Is this, then, evidence that it is a woman's first duty to "stay put" +when matrimonial exigencies have placed her in a specific "pocket" of +the matrimonial billiard-table? + +We believe not; and this belief is founded upon the fact that the +female principle, which is, we admit, the centralizing, centripetal +force in the cosmos, is not always manifested in the form of woman. +The balanced individual is bi-sexual, even as the balanced "twain-one" +is bi-sexual. If man was all male principle, and woman all female +principle they would not be complementary, but antithetical. Each must +be balanced within himself and herself before they can merge into each +other. + +Affinities are numerous, but mates are found but once; otherwise, the +problems that are being discussed here would never have arisen. + +If, then, as has been shown in the fact that only counterpartal unions +are real, eternal and spiritually indissoluble; and that only true +mates can thus unite, and when thus united have no desire to wander, +what becomes of our ideas of sexual infidelity? + +Since the very law of the Cosmos has seen to it that we cannot be +untrue to the only one who seemingly has a right to our fidelity in +the sex relation and since this union can become general only by +freeing love from bondage, what becomes of the laboriously built up +ethics of our social intercourse? + +Are they to be abandoned as of no value? + +We can almost hear the storm of protest which the righteous reader may +feel in duty bound to let loose at such a suggestion, if for no other +reason than that protest is the accepted way of proving one's own +virtuous tendencies. + +In the early seventies, a woman named Virginia Woodhull brought down +upon her defenseless head the un-Christian-like abuse of the Christian +public by announcing a doctrine which seems to have been nothing more +dreadful than that of an equal standard of morality for men and women. +The poor woman died broken-hearted, it is said; and yet nothing that +we can unearth regarding her personal life and habits would seem to +have warranted the cruel gibes that were hurled at her. The dear old +lady lived a most continent, even ascetic life. + +But the world has made rapid strides since that time, and we trust +that the urgent need of something reasonable and feasible upon the sex +question will inspire the reader to an unprejudiced review of this +chapter. We would that it were possible to supply a modicum of +understanding with each copy of this volume; but since it is not, we +must take our chance with the average. Let us reason together: + +Expediency is the mother of morality in social organizations, which +have, of necessity, unstable, ever-changing standards. These standards +represent, for some, ideals yet to be attained; while for others they +become mere mileposts on the path of Evolution. The individual +reaches, and then passes, an accepted ideal; gradually when a +sufficient number, constituting a majority, have reached this ideal, +it ceases to be a standard for the social organization, and another +ideal is substituted. + +The laws of the cave-man called for self-restraint exercised toward +his own immediate clan, and this necessity for self-restraint was +based upon nothing higher than the law of self-preservation; but +gradually the sphere widened; from clan to nation. So do our ethical +and moral standards enlarge. Traditional concepts are not necessarily +wrong, but they are almost sure to be inadequate to evolving Mankind. + +Formerly, sexual morality consisted of the reservation of the person +of a sister to the use of her brothers. Any infringement upon this +moral code was punished by death to the woman and to her out-clannish +lover. + +And we have today an analogous example, although we are glad to say, +it is not the highest standard; still, if one's husband or wife +violates the marriage vows, it is more condonable, if the +co-respondent be of the wealthy class; and in monarchies it is +accounted an honor to have been selected as the king's favorite. + +The institution of prostitution which exists everywhere today has its +standards in the different countries; and the white races seem to +think that their morality is superior to that of the Orientals because +the social standing of prostitutes in the Orient is not irretrievably +lost; they are permitted, in the event of marriage, to resume social +equality with other women. Among white people, prostitutes have no +other recourse than to sink lower and lower, until utter degradation +is reached. + +We believe that the Oriental view of the situation is a far higher +standard of morality than is our Occidental attitude. + +If there can lawfully be such an organization as is now being proposed +as desirable in large cities, namely, a "morals police," it certainly +should be instigated by a more sane purpose than that which is at the +root of our present police guardianship. + +Attempts at suppression of prostitution have hitherto been conducted +on the principle that the women of that class are objectionable to the +sight of our mothers and sisters and wives, and the sinfulness of the +hopelessly "fallen" ones has been the theme of press and pulpit. And +all the time the women of the half-world have resented this attitude +as being unjust, and unfair, and hypocritical, and untenable. They +have known that if the act of selling their bodies to men is a crime +against the community, then more than half the feminine world is +criminal. And they have contended that since the "respectable" women +were neither contacted nor exploited by them, they cannot see wherein +they offend society, provided the laws of sanitation and segregation +are complied with. + +In other words, they have said that it is none of Society's business +whether they sell themselves to one man or to a number, since they +must pay the penalty. And their attitude is relatively right. It is +none of Society's business whether a woman is a prostitute or not, +considered as an offense against Society. That is the wrong attitude +toward this condition of our social disorder. + +No prostitute offends you or me. She, poor creature, offends herself, +and we offend her and ourselves by permitting social conditions that +make for such degradation. We are conniving with her to barter her +birthright of freedom and real love for food and shelter, and taint +and tinsel, whenever we encourage marriage on any other ground than +that of true love, and when we regard virtue as a matter of physical +contact. + +If we judge from the many plays which we see on the boards; if we are +influenced by the press and the pulpit; we must acknowledge that the +general idea of sexual morality is an absurd one. The inference is +that one special organ of a woman's physical body is the sole +custodian of all virtue and all morality. The accepted idea seems to +be that if a woman is married her body is then the property of her +husband. Her emotions, her mind, her heart, her happiness, her +preferences do not count for anything. The one act is made +all-important. On the husband's side, if he provides for his wife and +family, he is justified in exacting the sole right to the wife's body, +and although his own heart and caresses may be given to another, he +justifies himself, and the wife not infrequently feels satisfied, as +long as he provides well for her. What is this but prostitution? The +principle is the same as in the case of the recognized prostitute, +although the conditions are easier for the woman, and less cheapening +of her womanhood, but the difference is only in degree. + +Now, a singular idea of fidelity, a direct antithesis to the one just +mentioned, prevails among prostitutes, when married either by law or +by selection. + +They may surrender their physical body to another, for money, and +according to their idea they may yet remain true to the husband or +lover, because the matter is a business transaction. The other man has +only what he has purchased, namely, the physical body. But should the +woman permit another man to arouse in her a sexual response; should +another invade her mind, absorb her thoughts, or engage her heart, the +husband is outraged and the woman realizes her unfaithfulness. + +All of which goes to show that up to the present time sexual morality +has in itself no absolute uniform standard by which it can be measured +and satisfactorily and convincingly presented to all persons, as have +other phases of morality, such as honesty, justice, mercy, generosity, +friendship, fidelity to country, and self-sacrifice to the good of +humanity. + +And although all these moral qualities have their bearing upon sexual +morality, they do not establish a uniform ideal of sexual morality. +Honesty is honesty whether in Paris, London, Calcutta, or Pekin, but +as has been previously observed, sexual morality is determined by +local conditions. + +Can there, then, be established a universal standard of sexual +morality? There can, but its universal acceptance is a remote +probability, albeit it will arrive some day. + +First of all, the sex relation must be absolutely free from sale; +coercion; or barter; whether within the respectable "sale" of +matrimony or of recognized prostitution. It must be free from any +erroneous idea of marital duty; it must be exalted, reverenced, +deified, in all its aspects, from the impregnation of a plant, to the +sexual embrace of human lovers. + +An Utopian dream it appears, if we note but one side of the picture. +If we consider the lightness with which so many men look upon the +physical form of women; and if we realize the attitude of so many +women toward men, in their conflict with life, using the age-old dowry +from mother Eve, of sex, as a weapon of defense and of offense; if we +listen to the ribald songs that offend our ears and nauseate our +souls, not only in music-halls and on the streets, but in supposedly +cultured homes; and above all if we contemplate the uncleanness of +mind displayed by those who are really in earnest in their endeavor to +uplift the moral tone of the world. + +These latter are, by far, the worst enemies to the Regeneration of +Sex. A wise man once said, "Save me from my friends; I can protect +myself against my enemies"--and so it is in this instance. + +Most "Civic-Leaguers" and members of "Vice-Commissions" (why that +name, anyway?) are infected with the bacteria of sex-degradation. +They really require a lengthy process of mental disinfection, before +attempting to handle so delicate a problem as this one of sexual +uplift. + +A woman member of a Young People's Civic League of the second largest +city in the United States recently declared in public print, of the +beautiful and chaste painting "September Morn," that it was "lewd, +filthy, and suggestive of unclean things." This type of woman is +intrusted with the task of teaching youthful minds; polluting them +with the blasphemous affirmation that the Creation of the +Father-Mother God of the universe is "lewd and filthy!" + +Let us get this truth implanted in our mentality, as it is inrooted in +our souls, namely: + +Sex is always the purest, the holiest, and the most sacred thing in +the universe--because God is Him-Her-Self, bi-sexual. The +righteousness of it cannot be determined by so fickle a thing as man's +customs; cannot be dependent upon mortal laws. This statement, +indisputable as it is, will nevertheless start a chain of thought +which may lead to confusion; and it is because of this tendency to +confusion that the real issue is so frequently avoided. But let us see +if we may not dispel the confusion by a system of logical deduction. + +One thing is certain. The present condition of the Sex-problem is +sadly chaotic. If we cannot hope to clarify it to the comprehension of +the average, we may at least do so for some. + +One of the first objections to the acceptance of the statement that +the sex relation is, per se, always right, will be found in the +conclusion to which the average mind immediately jumps: "Ah, then it +is right for men and women who are depraved and licentious to live as +they do; it is right for husbands and wives to deceive each other, and +while pretending to be faithful to their marriage vows, to secretly +carry on flirtations and intrigues with other men and other women!" + +Ask one hundred men or one hundred women this question: "Is the +sex-relation right or wrong?" + +The men will declare that it is "right sometimes and wrong sometimes." +The women, almost as a unit, will do the same. Occasionally a woman +will be found sufficiently illumined to give a sane answer. + +Following up the thoughtless answer with the request to illustrate, +and the reply will be something like this: "Well, if people are +married it is right, but if they are not married it is wrong;" and +even as this silly answer is given, the person answering knows that it +is puerile; but since the Public Mind prefers hypocrisy to Truth, few +have the temerity, and fewer yet have the capability, to utter Truth. + +It would be as sensible to say that it is right for the sun to shine +sometimes and wrong for it to shine some other times. It is right for +the sun to shine. This is all the answer that there is, and all that +is needed. + +Whether the sunshine bestows life and health, or decay and death, is +entirely "up to us." The sun does its part. It is fulfilling the +inexorable law of Nature, and is therefore right. + +But of even greater importance in the universe is this law of sex. The +law is forever and always right. Our concept of it may be right or it +may be diseased. As a matter of fact it is, in all too many cases, +diseased. If it were not, there would be no disease in the world. + +How is it possible to have a perfect flower--a healthy, normal and +wholesome sprout from a diseased root? + +The root of all life is sex. We have thought disease into it, and the +only remedy is to change our thought toward the function. This may be +done by realizing that the sex-relation is always pure, holy, +sacred--the bi-une God of the universe. This statement is quite +different from saying that people are always right or sacred in their +sex-relations. + +To say that the sex-relation is always right under the institution of +marriage and always wrong outside of it, is a lie. A lie cannot bring +back health to either a person or a principle. Truth is the only thing +that can make us whole--and the first office of Truth, as everyone +knows, is to make us free. We cannot be whole until we are free, and +the essential thought to be free from, is an attempt to keep alive the +lie that the righteousness of Sex, per se, depends upon marriage. + +Does the libertine believe in the sacredness of sex? Never. Does the +prostitute claim for herself spotless purity? If she did, she would +not sell herself for money. + +Do men and women who are living in secret unfaithfulness hold exalted +ideals of sex? + +If they did, they would not maintain a life of deceit. + +These people live as they do, because they have divorced sex from +love. They agree absolutely with the blind "moralists" who regard Sex +as a human plaything--something which may be called bad one day and +good the next, according to whether it is viewed from afar or near. + +Does anyone imagine that when Society shall have established the "one +standard of morality" replacing the double standard which now +persecutes the woman only, for infringement upon Society's one demand, +that of concealment, that the answer to sex-degradation will have been +found? + +A single standard is an improvement upon the old habit of stoning the +woman only and letting the man go free. But why stone anybody? + +History fails to record a single instance where Society has succeeded +in improving either itself or its victims by the procedure. The best +that can be said of the stoning habit is that it distracts attention +from ourselves. + +Persons who hold exalted ideas of the function of sex, realizing that +a force so eternal and universal must be disassociated from man-made +regulations, are not in danger. + +Such as these will not foster deceit nor profligacy, any more than +they will cringe and crawl under the lash of Society's disapproval, +should they encounter it. They know that if they would find the +highest good, they must serve Truth first of all, no matter how high +the price of such devotion. + + + + + CHAPTER X + + THE PATHWAY OF LOVE + + +Love is the Great Reality. + +Everything else in this world of Experience is either tributary to +love or it is an unsatisfying substitute for love; or a counterfeit of +love. Love is the one cohesive, unifying, constructive force, and it +is at the same time the only liberating force. + +Hatred, as exemplified in warfare, may sometimes appear to free a +people from the rule of a tyrant, but unless love be at the root of +the "casus belli," other and more direful disasters will follow in the +wake of seeming victory. + +There is an erroneous idea, quite general among Christian people, that +Death frees the spirit from the bonds that hold it to the mortal and +the incomplete. Death only drops off the garment of the flesh; there +are innumeral sheathings yet to be shed, before the soul grows the +wings with which to soar to the celestial realms, where Love reigns +supreme. + +Love is the only power on earth or in the spheres, that can liberate +us either from our own prejudices and hatreds and fears; or from the +limitations and attractions of the animal-man. + +Love is, indeed, the Alpha and Omega of Life. "There is no other God +but Thee," has been the cry of every race on this globe, +apostrophizing the unrecognized little baby-God, personified and +presented to the race-mind as Horus; or as Krishna, or as Christ; but +always it is Love, the Invisible, the Beautiful One, who is adored. + +Ingersoll with his wonderful gift of word-painting, and inspired by +that great love of humanity which characterized him, has said: + +"Love is the only bow on life's dark cloud. It is the morning and +evening star. It shines on the babe and sheds its radiance on the +tomb. It is the mother of art; inspirer of poet, patriot and +philosopher. It is the air and light of every heart; builder of every +home; kindler of every fire on the hearth; it was the first dress of +immortality. It fills the world with melody, for music is the voice of +love. Love is the magician, the enchanter that changes worthless +things to joy and makes right royal queens and kings of common clay. +It is the perfume of that wonderful flower, the heart, and without +that sacred passion that divine swoon, we are less than beasts, but +with it--earth is Heaven and we are gods." + +It would be superfluous to state here, that Love has ever been +recognized as the supreme prize, lacking which all other gifts of life +are worthless. + +It is admitted that Love is almost the only thing in this age of +commercial supremacy which can not be bought. Though it may be +bartered for. + +Although it be unreservedly admitted that Love is the all-powerful and +magic solvent which transmutes all baser emotions into the higher, +the general inference will be drawn that this type of love is not +sexual. It will be termed parental; humanitarian, self-sacrificing, or +altruistic love, and the point may be taken that if humanity had +developed nothing higher than the love which is manifested in the sex +instinct, the world would be a sorry one indeed, since sexual love, as +we have witnessed its ascent from protoplasm to man, has been, in most +instances, a blind urge toward personal gratification, not more lofty +than the need of supplying the craving for food. This is quite true of +animals, and of the lower types of animal-man; not necessarily the +earliest types of men, but the lowest types, which we still have with +us but happily in decreasing numbers. + +But even among animals we find evidences of something vague, +indefinite, but insistent which leads the animal to exhibit what we +term a tendency toward _selection_; and in the animal also, through +the exigencies of sexual love, we find parental love, and here again +we note a peculiarity which ascends also into the family life of +humans, namely, that in some instances what we have called the +maternal love, the gentle, care-taking, guarding and protecting love, +is demonstrated by the male. This is less common with the animals than +with Man, but it is sometimes found and proves the existence of the +evolutionary trend toward balance in the individual, as well as in the +family. + +If maternal love were confined strictly to the female parent, and the +procreative instinct were the legitimate inheritance of the male only, +we could never hope for a perfect sexual union, for the very cogent +reason that the love of the male would never equal that of the female, +since our capacity grows by becoming diffused. + +As the world stands today, parental love takes a higher place in the +life of the family, and of the nation and of the race (the family on a +larger scale), than does love of husband or wife; and over and above +even parental love we have been accustomed to place the love of God. + +Now we know that there are many who claim that their love of this +abstract God supercedes that of love for their family, but we may +tacitly agree to take this statement as either an admission of fear of +the Unknown or the realization that there are heights and depths of +the love-principle which they have not yet penetrated, something to +which the spirit soars. They intuitively recognize that there is some +perfected state to which we aspire, else human love would never flower +into its full possibilities. + +And so when we declare that we love God above all other loves; more +than wife or husband; children or parents; we are but admitting that +we realize in our interior nature that we have not yet loved any +_human being_ with as great a love as we are capable of. + +If any one holds the mistaken idea--and it is one that is very +generally held--that the perfect sex union can be attained by no finer +phase of emotion than that expressed in procreation; and that in +order to develop the highest quality of sex-love, he must eschew all +other phases of manifestation, and concentrate the forces of his being +in the direction of sexual expression, he will meet with dire defeat. +The laws of the cosmos cannot be broken. We are constantly confronted +with the admonition, the child of Fear, to "be careful not to break +the laws of God." We need not worry at all about the laws of God, +whether we call these Cosmic Law, or Nature, or Divine Providence or +something else. Our concern is with ourselves. Neither need we worry +whether our neighbor obeys the moral code as we see it. So long as he +does not refuse to us our right to follow our own ideals, we may +permit him the same liberty. + +God, as manifested in the cosmic law of transmutation, will take care +of Him-Her-Self. Morality can not be extinguished. Love cannot be +killed by men. We can only hurt ourselves in trying. + +Love is neither fickle, capricious nor sly, notwithstanding tomes of +seeming evidence to the contrary. Love is the most perfect +mathematician in the universe. With whatsoever measure a man or a +woman metes out love, with that same measure it is returned. Neither +is Love blind. Love is depicted thus, because he is not concerned with +appearances, but with realities. He is not gazing without, but within. +He is doing his best, the poor little neglected Love-god, with the +material at hand since he must fulfill the law of his being. He seeks +to unite lovers in their interior nature, but as each of the would-be +happy pair is bent on gazing without, instead of within, he is +handicapped. And when unhappiness follows, they blame the blindness of +Love, instead of realizing that He is depicted with a bandage over His +eyes, to indicate that Love is an interior quality. So too, the +Egyptian God Horus, the God of Love, was depicted with his finger on +his lips, to typify the truth that true love is not noisy, blustering, +jealous, burning, ranting, protesting. He is silent; soft; melting; +blissful; magnetic; _uniting_. + +Our noisy civilization, seeking happiness in Things, mistakes +protestations and appearances for realities, and so modern marriages +are consummated on this basis, and the caricaturists have depicted +Cupid as having exchanged his love-darts for dollars, but this is a +slander on the little god who wouldn't know a dollar if he could see +one. "It is not true that one knows what one sees; one sees what one +knows," declared a clever Frenchman, and as the average modern bride +and bridegroom are forced, or think they are, by modern standards of +living, to know dollars better than they know Love, their perverted +vision sees Cupid's arrows tipped with the dollar mark. But even the +dollar mark spells US, united, and if they are indeed truly united in +love, wealth untold is theirs, and if they are not thus united then +indeed are they poor in happiness, which is the only real poverty. + +But even in the very failure to attain happiness in things, married +couples have learned or they are learning, that there is an interior +nature which must be considered if marital happiness is expected. + +In all too many instances it may take many experiences and the road to +the heights may for a time be lost but let us remember that "Love +never faileth." + +It has been said that "love makes gods of men," and we have taken this +phrase as a charming bit of hyperbole, whereas it is a literal truth, +because when two individual souls have rounded and balanced their +natures by means of love, they come together in an eternal union, and +are immortal; "in their flesh they have seen God," and the pilgrimage +is ended. + +There is a phrase current at the present day, belonging to slang, that +universal language of the masses, "the Volapuk of the melting-pot." It +comes to us simultaneously with the affinity-wave and the soul-mate +quest; and it is both pertinent and timely, although by no means +always wisely applied. It is the expression "I have found my +seek-no-farther; he (or she) is the Real Thing." + +Life is a succession of experiences in the quest of immortality. +Immortality would be a curse instead of a blessing if attained alone. + +Even the attainment of so unworthy an ambition as riches is a mockery +if unshared by others. Fame is like a ruined and deserted castle to +the one who has achieved it, unless there be the one other to share +it. Even the philosopher, the philanthropist, the humanitarian, he +whose love nature is supposed to find satisfaction in making others +happy--can not realize the completeness and fullness of joy, unless +there is the one mate with whom he may share his altruistic work; or +lacking this, he looks to the Life Beyond for the completeness which +he does not find here. + +Renan says: "One reason why religion remains on such a material plane +for many is because they have never known a great and vitalizing love; +a love where intellect, spirit and sex finds its perfect mate." + +Verily, love is the only vitalizing power in the universe; and when +denied the interior union which should exist between a conjoining +pair, Love does the best He can, and infuses into the relationship as +much of the divine nectar as they will accept. + +_There is no impure love._ I repeat: There is no impure love. The +impurity is in the mortal mind of man, obstructing his vision until he +fails to see the purity of that which fain would lift him from the +Slough of Despond to the Heights of Bliss. + +If love be always pure, if it be always the uplifting, unifying, +constructive power of the universe, what becomes of the apparent fact +that men have sinned for love of woman; that for love of man, women +have lost their self-respect, their hope of Heaven; and have sunk to +depths below that of the brute creation? + +What becomes of the all too many instances where human nature appears +to love vice; to be under the spell, as it were of a passionate love +for all that is ignoble and defiling? How, then, can we say that love +is always pure when it leads to such disaster? + +Love never leads to disaster, though love may follow wheresoever the +erring mind of man leads, and thus Love is all too frequently dragged +from his true place of exaltation, and brought into the arena of human +conflict. Love is no fighter; He never opposes; He only concurs; He +unites if there is anything with which he can establish an affinity of +union. + +Egoism is the arch-enemy of love, selfishness is the manifestation of +egoism. Selfishness seeks to possess; it is selfishness that causes a +man to commit crime, in order that he may bedeck the woman he loves +with jewels and fine raiment. He is buying her bodily presence with +the baubles which he vainly believes will bind her to him; and he must +be taught the lesson of the Yoga sutras "not this way; not this way;" +and the more worthy he is of redemption, the more certainly will he be +caught in the trap of his own making, lest he really perish; whereas +by seeming defeat, outward defeat, he may learn the true path of +inwardness. Certainly Love is the only guide to whom he may safely +trust his redemption. + +If a woman really sinks into the depths of degradation through what +appears to be love, it is because selfishness and vanity have +temporarily supplanted Love. But there is another side to the +question. Society has very erroneous ideas of success and failure; and +in looking at these opposite ends of the same pole, Society may be +standing on it's head. + +A story illustrative of this inverted view of success is worth +repeating. + +A young Englishman of aristocratic family, tired of the inanities of +social life, and denied the privilege of entering the commercial +world, emigrated to the South Seas. It was reported at home that he +had married a native Samoan woman and was living the simple life of +the Islanders. English society, when his name was mentioned at all, +spoke of him with hushed voices and with a "what a pity y' know" +manner as of one who had sunk below the depths of ordinary failure. +Subsequently a friend visited Samoa and found the young man enjoying +life and evidently supremely content. In the course of conversation +the visitor chanced to speak of a mutual friend who had been rather +wild in the days when they both knew him, and thinking to impart +agreeable news to the exile, the visitor eagerly assured him that "Sir +Arthur is respectably married and settled down now" whereupon the +self-constituted exile commiseratingly responded with: "what a pity; +and he was such a decent sort, too." So we may see that there is much +in the point of view. + +Happiness is the final test of success or failure; and we may trust +this test, because no one can be happy in any other than the +progressive, upward-trending life. Dissipation has never been a +satisfactory substitute for happiness. Wealth is valueless to the +possessor if it shuts out love; and if love be present, wealth holds +but an inconsequential place. + +However it be, the pathway of Love is long; and between the force of +attraction which unites two atoms in chemical affinity, and the union +of two perfected human beings, in whom Love and Wisdom are balanced, +there are many degrees of the manifestation of Love, and the question +inevitably arises "what shall we do with those marriages that are not +yet perfect?" + +If, as here premised, there is in the entire universe but one mate for +each man and each woman; and if the union of perfect mates is the only +truly spiritual union; if this union precludes the possibility of +"temptation" in any other direction, what is to be done with all the +marriages which we know to be imperfect; wherein it is evident that +soul-union is not present? Are they immoral, and are they to be +abandoned? And is marital infidelity in such instances immoral? + +It is. Infidelity is always immoral, because all deceit and deception +and dishonesty are immoral. + +Let us see what constitutes infidelity, irrespective of marriage. +Infidelity is to be unfaithful to a trust imposed; to betray a +confidence; to break a promise. This is the abstract definition and it +is the only definition that will withstand analysis, whether applied +to the marriage vows or to other promises and pledges. + +Obviously the answer to this question, then, is to either not impose +upon oneself or upon another "vows"; or, if we do so impose, not to +break them; but if vows are not to be broken, they may, thank Heaven, +be dissolved. + +And surely the marriage ceremony of the future will not impose vows or +promises, because intelligent men and women must rise superior to the +necessity for bonds and promises. A marriage ceremony is, even at its +very highest, when the contracting persons are spiritually mated, +nothing more than announcement to the society of which they are +members, of the fact of their mutual agreement to live outwardly, as +well as inwardly, in sexual union. + +We make too much of the marriage ceremony and too little of the +fitness for marriage. The business of the clergyman is altogether too +much confined to seeing whether a couple is "respectably" bonded, and +altogether too little as to whether they are spiritually united. + +Possession! that is the word that spells unhappiness, in married life; +each wants to possess the other; neither one tries for the spirit of +union. Possession cannot be divorced from deceit. + +Vows and promises challenge us to keep them, and because our pathway +leads upward to freedom, we constantly find these vows and promises +staring us in the face and daring us to advance. We must substitute +mutual confidence for vows. Vows are childish and puerile. If we +cannot keep faith without vows then are we sadly lacking in faith and +should cultivate it by offering to others the freedom of action we +would have ourselves. When the time comes, as it will, that a husband +and wife can "talk it over" in a friendly, mutually helpful frame of +mind, when either one is attracted by another, there will be no +further opportunity for infidelity; and the sooner we rid the world of +a belief in sin and immorality, the sooner will Love reign. + +It is said of the sages of India that they can live in the jungles and +the ferocious tigers will not harm them; how do they accomplish this? + +They have disassociated themselves from ferocity. They do not desire +to crush or kill the tiger. Their minds are so filled with love and +compassion that there is no point of connection between them and the +destructive instinct in the beast. + +When we get away from the fear of "impure" love; when we get away from +the tremendous load of belief in evil which keeps the back bent and +the eyes lowered to the dust, we will be ready to meet the pure and +perfect love when it comes; and when we are fit for it we will meet it +and when we have found this pearl of great price, all doubt and fear, +all jealousy; all dissatisfaction will vanish. There will be no fear +of "losing" each other. The union is an interior one, and even though +"seas divide and mountains vast, rear their proud crests 'tween thee +and me," the call of soul to soul will be felt and answered. Byron says: + + "There are two souls of equal flow, + Whose gentle streams so calmly run, + That when they part--they part? Oh no, + They cannot part, those souls are one." + +With a sentiment such as this between two beings, what need for vows +and promises, and bonds? + +It is customary for writers on the sex question to emphatically, even +feverishly, emphasize the fact that they have no intention of implying +that they would do away with the bonds of matrimony; and although this +conclusion is inevitable where one's intellect is active and the +faculty of deduction brought into play, yet the false modesty that +prevails and the prejudices that blind the eyes of the multitude, and +above all, the tendency of the undeveloped race-mind to impute +personal motives to such as would, if permitted, lead them to a freer, +and consequently a purer life, impel the writer to deny that which is, +finally, the very point at issue. + +In the interest of Truth, we are compelled to state that we would do +away with "bonds." We would substitute therefor mutual agreements, +subject to renewal or repudiation within certain defined and mutually +helpful conditions. Vows and bonds and oaths are the crutches of the +crippled human race. We need not always walk lame. + +It may be argued that man is still largely animal; yes, but the surest +way to keep him so is to treat him like an animal. If we remind him +that he is also a man and that he may be a god; and if we point out to +him the way in which he may accomplish this transmutation, no man has +so little intelligence that he will not attempt to follow, when +assured that God-hood means a bliss so great that he can hardly +imagine it; that it means cessation of the "endless round of births +and deaths" from which Gautama, the Buddha, sought to free himself. +Mankind has always been promised immortality through spiritual +union--with what? An abstract principle called God, or Aum or any +other impersonal formless all-inclusive Being? + +No, but with his mate. + +On this point we trust that there will not remain any obscurity. There +is no higher God than Love. There is no higher love than sexual-love +in its highest manifestation. The more we truly love, the more love +flows into and through our consciousness, until from a tiny little +pearly drop of the "wine of life" we ascend to the Olympian Heights +and imbibe floods of the "nectar of the Gods." + +Even the libertine, that pauper in the realm of Love, wants the +perfect life. His soul is forever hungry for that which he gropingly +tries to catch and chain and possess; and which by virtue of these +same desires will evade him until he ceases thus to seek, and instead +of demanding possession of the object of his desires, he asks for +union. Union is interior; possession is always and ever limited to +exterior contact. They who would enter the sanctuary and defile the +"Holy of Holies" are saved from such a load of self-inflicted sin; +they cannot if they would. There is but one key which will open the +golden gate to heaven. The way chosen by the libertine is in exactly +the opposite direction. + +Are all marriages that are not soul-mate unions immoral? Most +certainly not. Are all unions that are not married immoral. Most +certainly not. + +We have made an attempt to define sexual immorality and we have +concluded that as yet there is no absolute standard in civilized or +uncivilized ethics, since, as Letourneau points out, what is immoral +in Pekin or Calcutta may be moral in Paris or London. Truth is +adherence to facts in whatever section of the world. Tolerance; +sympathy; charity; may be clearly defined wherever we roam. Sexual +immorality has no stable standards. We here suggest one and submit +that it is the only one possible of universal concurrence. It is based +upon personal freedom. Wherever the sexual relation is made a +convenience; or where either one marries in the face of his or her own +realization that there is no love bestowed, that relationship is +immoral. Thus, it will be seen that sexual immorality is independent +of marriage, and cannot be estimated by law. Marriage for money; for +position; for convenience; for anything other than a desire for mutual +helpfulness, is immoral. Indulgence in the sexual act for selfish +gratification without regard to the welfare of each other; for money; +or pastime; or for any motive other than a reverential expression of +an unselfish love, is immoral and is a prostitution of the divine +office of sex. + +But, though not all sex relationships can be perfect and eternal, yet +all may, if we desire, be moral. And all moral and sexual +relationships must, and will, lead to perfect sex-union, whenever the +time comes that either one is ready for the completement. This truth +need not, and will not, disrupt any happy marriages. + +If the Church had not made the mistake of teaching the fallacy that +sex-love is a strictly earthly or mortal function, divorcing Sex from +pure love; and if the Theology had not tried to substitute the love +of, and union with, an abstract Creator for love of mates in +soul-union, perhaps there would be exhibited less impatience of the +restraints of marriage. + +But with a cat-and-dog married life on the one hand and the prospect +of an inane, blank, and sexless union with an abstract God-idea on the +other, it is small wonder that mortal consciousness has rebelled, and +has decided to take its chances with Hell, rather than to forego the +happiness which is intuitively sensed as being the direct prerogative +of perfect mating. + +If this God-idea had not been presented as an eternal, unescapable +finality, there might have been hope; but to fly about a throne +endlessly, night and day, singing, "I want to be nothing; nothing; +only to lie at His feet"--the prospect appalls! + +Small wonder that the conclusion has been deduced that "life is too +short" for anything like domestic misery, when domestic happiness is +the only happiness we know, and that is to cease at death! + +But, if we take the truthful view of marriage and of heaven; if we +realize that mortal life is Experience; that as we learn by +experience, we acquire knowledge; as we accumulate knowledge, we begin +to glimpse wisdom; and that when we have sufficient Wisdom and +sufficient Love, we graduate into the classification of God-hood, +immortality; and that immortality means union with our mate; +sex-union, in all that constitutes its highest and most satisfying +aspect as we know it, with infinitely more of beauty and love and +bliss, there is an incentive to aspire. + +Love is the only way that immortality can be attained. It cannot be +"taken," like degrees of secret societies. It cannot be purloined, or +feigned. Fear has never made people good. The doctrine of punishment +has never deterred the sinner. Even in his apparent acceptance of the +doctrine of sin and of consequent punishment, the poor sinner has +known better. Humanity has progressed in spite of the fear that has +dwarfed our stature. + +In the new day, with hope ahead and fear transmuted into a wise +patience, this earth may yet be a "fit dwelling-place for the gods." + +Leigh Hunt says: "Love is a personal proof that something good and +earnest and eternal is meant us; such a bribe and foretaste of bliss +being given us to keep us in the lists of time and progression; and +when the world has realized what love urges it to obtain, perhaps +death will cease and all the souls which love has created crowd back +at its summons to inhabit their perfected world." + +We are prone to consider such statements as only so many beautiful +words--elusive, ethereal, and descriptive of something that is always +in the future; but if it be always in the future it will never be +ours; we cannot catch up with it; and thus it becomes a mockery. These +prophetic utterances are literal truths. + +Let us confide to you a little secret: We are as much spirit now as we +will be when death has unloosed the bindings of our disguise--the +body. The real of each of us is what we are now, in our interior +nature. + +While we are building the business which sustains our physical body; +while we are studying law or medicine or philosophy or religion or +whatsoever, we are at the same time developing the interior nature +which we are now, and which we will be when the life of the body +ceases. Not all business men are alike, and yet, if business were +their only reality, they must needs be all the same for employing the +same methods. Not all doctors are alike although they graduate from +the same school of medicine. The inner entity that we are, stands or +falls in the final test, by the motives; the desires; the sentiments; +the sympathies; the generosities; the forgiveness; the kind impulses; +the pities; the charities; the tolerances; we feel while we are +apparently engrossed in the outer life. Together, these little +impulses, perhaps forgotten in the rush of the day's seemingly +important business affairs, come finally to be the ladder by which we +climb to the spiritual heights where the bliss of true and perfect, +melting, merging, liquid-love, of the one and only mate awaits us. + +One thing more. This also is a secret. Perhaps you will not even +believe it, but it is true: Poets are the practical members of our +crazy civilization. Business men are practical only when they are +also, and above all, idealists. + + + + + CHAPTER XI + + THE LAW OF TRANSMUTATION + + +External life is a succession of picture blocks with which we have +builded our thoughts into shapes and forms manifest to the mortal +senses. But back of every act there is the invisible ideal which +prompted it, so that to the one who has the interior vision; one who +looks at life from the citadel of his own interior nature instead of +merely sensing it by external contact, every material thing tells its +interior story; everything has an esoteric or occult meaning. It is +said that mystic truths have been veiled in symbolical language; but +to those who know the language of symbolism, there is no veil; what +seems so is due to the refractory character of the mind which is +limited to sense consciousness. + +There are two words much used in this day of the Dawn which give the +key to the trend of the cosmic cycle upon which the earth has entered. +The word "union," or its equivalent, enters into almost every phase of +our busy life as well as into ethical and philosophical thought. This +word, with much that it stands for, has superseded the word +"agreement," or "combination" or "partnership," formerly used. Union +means something more interior, than do these other words, even when +applied to commercial issues. + +The business man says to his partners "let us unite on this question." +They are already partners, but unless there is a unity of thought and +ideals, their partnership is an unsatisfactory and unfruitful one. We +have labor unions which are intended to suggest a solidarity of +effort; a merging of interests; a welding together into one +thought-force, of those who enter the organization. The fullness of +meaning of this word "union" is not adequately expressed in the words +lodge, or club, or any of the terms used to designate an organization +of men in social or commercial combination. + +In union there is strength; but in partnership, or in clubs, there may +be no quality of union, although there is the outward bond of +fellowship. "I shall look into this" we say when we want to know more +of a subject than appears on the surface. We want to know the within. +We want to fathom the interior meaning; to get below the surface, or +the appearance of it. This is the other word of vital import--the word +_within_. We see it everywhere like a signpost directing our footsteps +toward home. + +The Master Jesus said that the immortal kingdom was within, but the +Christian world evidently has not believed Him. He also told those who +would listen to Him, that there was but one commandment that was truly +spiritual, but as he did not come to destroy anything that existed, +but only to transmute it, He paid no attention to the commandments +already in vogue, but contented Himself with a repetition of the one +and only commandment of the Father-Mother God Principle which begat +him: "That ye love one another." + +Now we are being told from the housetops and from the streets and +through all the channels of the physical senses to look within. That +which you are--not what you appear to be to the eyes of the +sense-conscious--but that which you are in your interior nature, is +what counts to you. The writer who writes because he is paid to write +salable stuff, harps upon the necessity for "efficiency" in the +commercial game; but when the word is impartially considered +efficiency consists in the long run in reliability, and reliability is +measured by one's honesty; integrity; square-dealing; wise +judgment--interior qualities all. It matters not whether the skin be +white or black or brown or yellow or green; whether you are of +imposing stature or but four feet tall; it is what you are within that +constitutes true efficiency. + +So the kingdom whatever it may be whether of heaven or hell; of love; +or of power; or of ambition; the kingdom is within. The source of your +power is in the interior of your nature. + +If we go to slang, which offers the line of least resistance to the +Cosmic Law, we find that the cue has been given over and over again to +those who are interiorly awake to receive it. "You are not in on +this," has been said to one who was left out of some supposedly +desirable thing; or "you are not _in_ it," meaning that you are not up +to the required standard. Even as the walls of a building only +imperfectly indicate the nature of that which is within, that which +the building stands for; that which it symbolizes, so physical +appearances are symbolical hieroglyphs of the inner nature. + +"Learn to look into the hearts of men" admonishes the spiritual +teacher. "As a man thinketh in his heart so is he." The character of +the heart is the test, and though a man's lips utter words that are at +variance with his inner nature, yet if we have learned to look within, +we are not deceived. This then is the key to the kingdom--interior +vision. + +Words are like buildings; like personalities; they have their exterior +and their interior message. Knowledge may be accumulated; piled up +like a mountain of possessions. But knowledge may not bestow one grain +of true wisdom. It is only as we extract the interior message from +knowledge that we attain wisdom. We possess knowledge and we _find_ +wisdom, when we have transmuted that knowledge into its interior +meaning. + +The fundamental difference between mysticism and theology is a +difference founded upon this axiom. The true mystic penetrates to the +interior nature of manifestation and gets the message of Experience. +Mysticism excludes nothing. It includes the manifest with the +interior; it penetrates the outer and seeks the interior; but never +does the true mystic confound the spirit with the letter; never does +he mistake the external for the Reality; the symbol for the message. + +Suppose that what is generally called the practical side of life were +the only reality. What would be the inevitable conclusion of the +thinker if he were to consider only the outer, the manifest, the +visible results of a given achievement? He would conclude that +civilization is insane. + +If we did not know with an intuitional grasp of truth that all this +which we call "marvels of achievement" is symbolical of what Man is in +his interior nature, it would be the veriest folly. What, for example, +is there in a modern sky-scraper indicative of man's advanced +civilization? + +With millions of acres of unused land, it would be inconceivable folly +to project into the inoffensive atmosphere twenty-eight stories of +wood and iron merely to buy and sell the products of man's brain and +hands. But while our Twentieth Century feverish activities are +ostensibly engaged in the external world, they are symbolizing, +embodying, teaching if we will but learn, the fact of the evolution of +man's interior nature. Sky-scrapers are indicative of the heights to +which we are aspiring; to which we are climbing; air-ships only tell +us that man in his interior nature--in his reality--is not a creeping, +crawling Thing, chained to the earth. He may, if he will, soar into +ethereal realms. He has wings, and if he so desires, he may use them. + +Wireless telegraphy would be a much less consequential discovery, did +it not foreshadow the coming time when mind will speak to mind +regardless of desert wastes and imponderable mountains that seemingly +intervene. Wireless messages are the result of vibrations set in +motion by means of a dynamo and received by an instrument attuned to a +corresponding rate of motion. But no dynamo ever invented has the +power that is centered in the dynamic will of a human being. Brute +strength is paralyzed into inactivity by the comparatively puny +strength of a man. The fierceness of the lion, the tremendous force of +the elephant, give way before the potent power of Man's desire--an +interior quality. + +Do skyscrapers, or air ships, or wireless telegraph systems make us +happier? If they do, is it not because of their ethical rather than +their so-called practical value? Is it not because they prove to man +his power to use the plastic material of the planet and control it to +do his bidding? Rapid transit adds to convenience; but above and +beyond all the so-called practical valuation which can be put upon +modern inventions and accomplishment is the message which these +mechanical marvels present to the mind. The message that man is not a +machine; that he is not a creature but a creator; that he is not a +miserable worm of the dust, but a winged god. + +Greater than all the other benefits bestowed by modern mechanical +marvels is the knowledge of each other which has resulted from +intercommunication between nation and nation. The great breeder of +discord and the waste of hatred is the idea of segregation. The man of +the cave and the club feared his next door neighbor, because he did +not know him, and the animal-man fears that which he does not know; +his imagination pictures the unknown one as something monstrous and +dangerous. Intimacy will teach us that people of a distant country are +like ourselves, even though they may dress differently; even though +they may wear their hair an inch longer or shorter; may eat a diet of +nuts instead of meat; may pray standing up rather than kneeling down. +Upon such trifling and absurd differences as these are based our ideas +of "alien" races and "foreign" nations. + +Annihilation of space and time accomplished by modern mechanical +inventions has made us familiar with the interior life of other human +beings and has compelled us to the knowledge that they have feelings, +emotions, desires, hopes, aspirations, and faults, exactly like our +own, and thus will be established a bond of unity, which will reach +the heart of our neighbor. If this bond of unity has not as yet been +established, it is because the majority of Mankind are still only +sense-conscious. They have not yet assimilated the knowledge which the +past few years has precipitated in such an avalanche that the +slow-moving mind cannot keep pace with it. But out of all this +knowledge must come in due time the quality of wisdom. Wisdom seeks +love as the only eternal reality. Not because God has commanded that +we shall do so; not because of a sentimental ideal, but because any +other course is futile, foolish, silly and does not "get us anywhere" +as the slangologists rightly express it. + +Thus everything in the busy commercial world, seemingly bent upon +perpetuating external forms and systems, is in reality a symbolic +language of which "unity" and "within" are the pivotal centers. These +two words are really complementary, because it is only with the +interior nature that unity can be established. + +We may conjoin; combine; contact; cohere. We may form partnerships, +corporations, combinations from the outside. These are external +expressions of the interior desire for unity, but union is of the +interior nature only. + +With the more intimate knowledge of each other which +intercommunication between nations makes general, each little +segregated mass of human beings must sooner or later arrive at the +conclusion that we are very much alike and that to "get together" on +any proposition involving the welfare of all humanity is a much less +costly and a far more satisfactory way of settling matters than by +going to war over it. Not that this idea is yet fixed in the brains of +the majority, but there is creeping into man's cranium a faint thought +that perhaps the survival of the fittest will be best maintained by +peaceful methods; an idea that honor can neither be maintained nor +appeased by shedding blood. This knowledge will bring us to the wise +observation that fundamentally, cosmically there is no place for +enmity between nations and races and classes and the sexes; that the +whole conglomerated mass of hatreds and inherited enmities and +segregated interests; the absurd idea that one part of the world can +permanently prosper by the enslavement of any part; the undeveloped +and savage ideas that underlie our civilization; all these +thought-concepts have no more reality in the cosmic scheme of things, +than have the picture-blocks of the child in the adult life. + +The world has been living through a nightmare. The warfare which +belongs to the animal plane of Man's evolving consciousness has been +carried into the mental world as well. Not only do men fight like +tigers in the jungles, but they fight with tongue and pen as well, +using food products, textile fabrics, inventions, mechanical devices +and the creations of brains of men, for their weapons. But this type +of warfare will not much longer survive. Mankind must choose between +transmutation or annihilation. Hatred is self-destructive. Blind +indeed must be those who can expect to escape this law. "They who use +the sword shall perish by the sword." How else can it be? There is but +one force. If we use it to construct, we are constructed. If we use it +to destroy we are destroyed, since it is by the very nature of law +that we become involved in that which we employ. It is a simple sum in +arithmetic. We may either add or subtract. If we add, there is no +limit. If we subtract we ultimately wipe off the slate. + +The fact is dawning upon an increasing number of thinkers, that even +as brain is superseding brawn in the marts of the world, so there is +still a finer and higher and better force, so potential in its power +that nothing can withstand its melting, merging, unifying motive. That +power is love, without which though we have all else we are but as +"sounding brass and a tinkling cymbal." + +Even as the ferocious man-eating animals have disappeared from the +earth; even as the giant gladiators, the mailed knights, the erotic +pomp and regalia of Imperialism, with their captives chained to their +chariot-wheels; the cruel despots, the tyrannical masters and scourged +slaves; the bloody sacrifices, the horrible games of the +amphitheatres, even as these one-time evidences of alleged +"civilization" have passed away, so too will time see the dissolution +of our own "false gods." Transmuted into pure and perfect love and +peace and equality, the power now misapplied in the work of hate and +destruction, will increase a thousand fold and be directed toward the +maintenance of a balanced world--a world in which Love and Wisdom are +united. + +We are always fearful of changes. The bat-like eyes of the multitude +are blinded by the light of the sun. Why cannot we trust the Cosmic +Law which has always given us a better ideal in the place of the +decadent one? If we prefer to use the word God, then let us say why +cannot we trust God? + +In the external world, then, the idea that a part of this sphere is +inherently antagonistic to another; that men are born enemies; that +the female and the male must forever struggle for supremacy--all these +ideas are disappearing. "Unity" is the password to the coming +civilization. If then we will accept this conclusion and apply it to +our individual selves, we will conclude that no function of the human +organism should merit disapproval; or be regarded as an enemy. Before +we can arrive at a balanced and sane world without, we must come to a +balanced and sane state within our own organism. + +We must know that the sex function, the most vital of all the various +expressions of life in the individual body as well as in the social +body and the racial body, is not an enemy with whom we must maintain +unceasing warfare, but a wise and trustworthy friend with whom we may +safely co-operate, neither repressing this vital force until we have +conquered it and dragged it like a bleeding captive behind our +chariot-wheels, nor should we like the drug-slave become lost in the +clutches of an abnormal appetite. + +Indeed, as the forces of life become transmuted from the physical +appetites to the finer, and interior desires of the soul, +abnormalities and perversions of sex-force will be impossible. + +Sex-force is, at the Center of Being, unpolluted. It is pure, perfect +and harmonious. It is divine. Why? Because it is bi-une; it is +balanced. + +In our present-day lopsided civilization, we find that nearly every +one is lop-sided, and unbalanced. Alienists declare that almost every +man and woman has some hobby or mania. Doubtless this is true. An age +of specialization would incline the race toward "lopsidedness." But +the source of Life is balanced; if we come to the place where we +consciously unite with that interior source we will no longer be +unbalanced, because the central source of life is Sex, and Sex is, at +the center of the radius, bi-une, which is to say balanced. There is +no chance for sex supremacy, for domination, or dispute, or jealousy. +There is equilibrium. + +It is probable that to those who cannot compass the consciousness that +equality does not mean identicalness this sort of balanced life will +appear tame and tasteless. Few women perhaps and certainly fewer men +can imagine a sex-union in which love is so great, so over-powering +and at the same time so perfect, that there is no room for jealousy. +The average person believes that jealousy is inseparable from +sex-love. But even as our antediluvian ancestors could not imagine the +mechanical miracles of the telephone and the telegraph, so we fail to +comprehend the infinite depth and intensity of our interior being +until we come to the place where we awake from the sleep of the mortal +and glimpse the heights of the immortal life. + +No one can give to another this interior wisdom--this philosopher's +stone, by means of which all baser instincts are transmuted into the +pure golden-tinted light of illumination. He can but point the way and +promise that the results are mathematically proportionate to effort, +and effort will be backed by individual desire. + +We do not hold, as do many writers dealing with the physiological side +of the subject of Sex, that the sex function is primarily designed for +purposes of procreation and that any other expression of sex is +contrary to nature. The essential function of sex is to vitalize. +Procreation is one of the uses of sex-love, but it is not its primary +function. + +Until men and women have absolute control over their sex impulses they +are still on the plane of sense-consciousness; and as long as they +remain only sense-conscious they miss the very thing that they seek. +All that is pleasureable in sex-contact that reaches any man or woman +who is only sense-conscious is no more than a faint echo of the +ecstacy of divine and perfect love which is known to the spiritual +alchemist, who has discovered the art of transmutation and thus found +the key to the gate of eternal life. + +As long as we remain limited to the plane of sense-consciousness, old +age is a blessing. It compels transmutation of the love-nature into +interior channels. By the failure of the physical organism to express +the sex-desires, this force is given an opportunity to become +transmuted into higher, finer and more intense and beautiful thoughts. +It takes on whatever quality of soul we have acquired and it fosters +that quality--be it much or little--so that we may not go into the +interior realms a spiritual pauper. + +Even as our physical childhood is a prelude to mental adultship, so +old age, our "second childhood," is a prelude to our soul adultship, +and the character of our old age period is prophetic of our state in +the soul life. + +There are some extremely aged persons whom we cannot, if we have any +degree of interior vision, classify as old; the youth and beauty and +love-radiance of their interior nature is so potent that it shines +through the worn and wrinkled garment that covers it; and we know that +when that garment shall have been removed by the hands of Death, that +the soul will be clothed in radiant youth and beauty, and light. + +This is indeed the esoteric cause of the widespread repudiation of a +mental recognition of age. + +"I am seventy years young" says the man who hopes for eternal youth +and life; and if he says it from the standpoint of wisdom--the wisdom +that knows himself an immortal soul fired by pure and holy spiritual +love, then indeed his words are truly symbolical. + +But if he utters them merely in desperate defiance of organic decay, +they are empty and he will enter the after-life, even as he leaves +this one, without having attained that which he craves. + +This truth is an integral part of the cosmos, from which there is no +appeal; no reprieve; no immunity, no "respecter of persons." The law +is absolute and it is also just. Pure and perfect love is the price of +immortal life. There is no other "coin of the realm." + +"But," questions the initiate, "why cannot those who know, if there be +such in the world today, give us this mystical formula? Why do they +not tell us how we may reach this desirable state of spiritual +sex-love, which affords such divine happiness to those who find it?" +The query is pertinent and the desire is natural; the doubt of its +reality is consistent, yet we are constrained to say that in the very +nature of such inquiry the disciple of the Hidden Wisdom voices his +unreadiness for _Illumination_. The desire for self-gratification, +though right and natural to the sense-conscious plane, is yet inimical +to attainment of spiritual consciousness. + +There is a spiritual message in the persistently inculcated doctrine +of sacrifice. It is not that a Supreme Being desires sacrifice, or +gifts, or adulation, or homage, or worship, or that any power glories +in our unhappiness. It is not that we may purchase any spiritual thing +by giving up something which we prize, but it is because our spirit +becomes attuned to the central source of Life by means of our +willingness to perform what to the sense-conscious plane of existence +seems a sacrifice. + +"He sought for others the good he desired for himself; let him pass +on" is the Egyptian phrasing of the Golden Rule, and this states it as +clearly as it can be stated. + +Yet should any one take this truism as an unfailing formula and expect +to enter the golden gate of eternal life because of obedience to the +letter of the pass-word, he would fail. Altruism _is_; it is not mere +recognition of a word. + +We may presuppose another natural and instinctive query: "If then only +by union with one's true mate one can enter the bliss of eternal life +and love, should not we drop every other responsibility, sever all +ties of relationship, give up wife or husband or family or work, and +search for the one perfect complementary, finding which, is found the +answer to all life's problems?" + +Again we can only say that the seeker would be disappointed. We should +remember the story of Sir Launfall. Returning from the unfruitful +quest of long years for the Holy Grail (the golden chalice), he +learned the lesson of Truth from the beggar at his own door to whom he +gave the cup of cold water _without any consciousness of doing a good +deed_; without hope of thereby finding the grail. + +He who seeks with the selfish thought of securing for self any good +will not find it though he should give away every farthing to the +poor; though he should never permit one unkind word to pass his lips; +though he should fast and scourge and deny the flesh; kneel all day +and all night in prayer. As long as he holds to the thought of self +and of _obtaining_ something so long will he miss the _attainment_. + +Spiritual insight establishes two facts beyond cavil or dispute or +reversion. One is that God's laws cannot be broken. We are not trying +to say that they should not be broken; or that they cannot be broken +with impunity; or that if broken we shall be punished. They simply +cannot be broken--they are unbreakable. + +We cannot buy or sell or beg or steal or borrow or take as a gift, or +in any wise acquire immortal godhood, except by attaining it any more +than we can come to physical manhood or womanhood except by growing to +it; and by the same law no one can keep it from us; neither priest nor +scribe; neither prophet nor inventor. We are a law unto ourselves. No +one can break the law of your being any more than you can break that +of another. No power on earth or in the celestial spheres or in the +intervening spaces can keep that which is our own from us. Wherefore +then, should we tear ourselves and each other with strife and jealousy +and wounded honor and outraged marriage vows, when either partner to a +marriage contract sees fit to sever that relationship? + +If you lose out in what you believed to be love, be sure that the +object of your desires was not yours to lose; in all the spheres there +is only one who is yours by divine right and no one can by any +possibility usurp your place in the final issue; and that place once +found no one can oust you from it. But remember what we have said in +previous chapters of the word "found;" it is from within. + +How vain and how foolish it is to think that a power so stupendous, so +magnificent and so beneficent as to project this immense panorama of +life; to establish such marvelous diversity within such simple unity; +to bestow the bliss of love, could make a mistake. How puerile has +been the teaching that we can sin against the Eternal God. We need not +worry about the Supreme and Eternal Power. "The dice of God are +loaded." Our concern is with ourselves, lest we imagine that we may +cheat in the game of life. + +We are self-centered, free-willed; immune from any possibility of +offending the universe. The whole problem of life and death, in so far +as it relates to our individual selves, is "up to us." We can delay +arrival at the goal of our desires; we can dally by the wayside if we +will. Only our own loss, our own suffering, our own unsatisfied +longing shall punish us. But who is so stupid that he would remain +wandering in the bleak and barren desert, when he might by a turn of +his hand enter fields Elysian and merge his soul into the boundless +areas of infinite bliss and wisdom? + +We should not imagine that death will do this for us. Death is nothing +more phenomenal than withdrawing from one room to another. The soul +may strive on for ages through many incarnations. Only one thing can +free it; and that is love; love for others than the personal self. The +broader and deeper the love nature, the wider it reaches out to enfold +in its tender protection all living things, the more nearly divine we +become, and the sooner will we touch the area of the spiritual and +attract our own. + +It is evident that self-seeking even for so worthy a possession as +one's own counterpart defeats the very effort. We are not to seek; we +are only to prepare ourselves to be ready and worthy; when we shall +have done this, nothing can withhold our own from us; not though the +two halves of the One Being are separated by all the barriers which +the sense-conscious race of men have erected between themselves and +the bliss of Heaven. Says Emerson: "What is thine, will gravitate to +thee." We need not therefore go about apprehensively fearful lest we +lose that which belongs to us; in so doing we are apt to keep our eyes +glued to the earth, thus forgetting that it is from the higher realms +of vibration "whence cometh our light." + +Says Emerson: "O, believe as thou livest, that every sound that is +spoken over the round world which thou oughtest to hear will vibrate +on thine ear. Every proverb, every book, every by-word that belongs to +thee for aid or comfort, shall surely come home through open or +winding passages. Every friend whom not thy fantastic will, but the +great and tender heart in thee craveth, shall lock thee in his +embrace. And this because the great and tender heart in thee is the +heart of all; not a valve, not a wall, not an intersection is there +anywhere in nature, but one blood rolls uninterruptedly, an endless +circulation through all men as the water of the globe is all one sea, +and truly seen its tide is one." + +Here then are specific and trustworthy statements for the further +enlightenment of the student of the problems of Sex. Like algebraical +propositions they prove themselves when correctly solved. Immortal +godhood is attained by counterpartal union, because the Central Source +of Life is bi-une. Immortality is our spiritual birthright, but we +must claim it if we would consciously realize this truth. + +God is the bi-une creative principle, and we are literally and in +truth the "image and likeness" of this bi-une Being. Not one +hermaphroditic personality but a pair. A pair is one whole, even +though each of the pair is distinct in form and diverse in temperament +and qualities. We are especially emphatic upon this point because +there has been so much vague and speculative theorizing upon this +definition of a bi-une Being. Your perfect mate is distinctively +masculine or distinctively feminine in sex as the case may be; and he +or she is your mate because of this perfection of distinctiveness. + +Our former ideas of femininity and of masculinity were faulty. Woman +is not less but much more womanly, if she has exchanged fear for +courage; deceit for truthfulness; ill-health for vitality; +helplessness for helpfulness. Even as a man is more manly when he +spares the nesting birds where formerly he ruthlessly destroyed; when +he unites protection with bravery; when he knows sympathy from +weakness; when he combines sentiment with principle; and gentleness +with vigor. + +No mortal can by any possibility break the laws of God. Therefore you +are not to try to enforce your ideas of morality upon others. Who has +constituted you book-keeper for the universe? You are to concern +yourself with establishing happiness upon this earth. + +You are to see to it that your love is big and broad enough; +all-inclusive enough to wish to see every one happy from your +immediate family to your far-off neighbor in Central Africa. You need +not worry about whether they break the moral code as you see it. You +are to render love and service to this world with all your heart and +all your power; if you do this, you will reach the goal of your +desires. + +No mortal can by any other method than love and the service that is +rendered through love seek and find the "Holy Grail," which is to say +the bliss of spiritual union with his Beloved. Therefore to fly from +the responsibilities and the environment in which you are, without +regard to the welfare of others, is to defeat your own quest; neither +do we claim that you should under all circumstances remain chained to +a post like an unwilling captive, poisoning your mind with resentment +and hatred. + +There is no one formula which fits all cases--other than that given in +love and service. The Golden Rule which tells us to do unto others as +we would have them do unto us, has another side to its shield, and it +may read "Do not permit others to do unto you what you would not do to +them." If you seek freedom from a specific environment from no other +motive than personal selfishness, you may be doing yourself an +injury; but if you are also doing an injury to others by remaining, +then you are doubly mistaken in your course. + +The way of attainment is not easy, although the formula is simple; it +may be briefly but concisely summed up in the vital and important word +"unselfishness." "Not mine but thine also," is the watchword of the +wise in love. Not possession of the Beloved One, but union with him or +her. There is just one big world of difference between these two +points of view. More than that, there is the difference of Heaven and +Hell. + + + + + CHAPTER XII + + "SELLING THE THRONES OF ANGELS" + + +Great as may seem to the sense-conscious person the pleasure and +satisfaction of owning some one, or some thing; of possessing and +feeling a proprietorship in the one desired; greater by a million-fold +is the pleasure of union which is possible only to those who are +themselves free, and who in consequence desire freedom for all others. +This is a truth which the unwise cannot comprehend or concur in, and +which they will not believe or trust. + +Emerson says: "Every personal consideration that we allow costs us +heavenly state. We sell the thrones of angels for a short and +turbulent pleasure." + +And finally, as regards the sex-function, we would like to impress +upon every one, though only those who are fit for the kingdom will +understand the truth, namely that the highest manifestation of +sex-love is not localized in the organs of procreation. The love that +is of the soul fills the breast first of all, and is only felt in the +region popularly, but erroneously, supposed to circumscribe the +sex-function, as a secondary and by no means compulsory consideration. + +When the sex force has become diffused throughout the entire being, +radiating from the solar man, and permeating the mind and thus +entering into the mortal body which is only a covering of the mind +physical copulation becomes a well-trained servant of the will, and is +found to be a natural, but yet secondary complement. Sex is not +confined to the specialized sex-organs. It permeates the entire being. +The person who has no conception of his reality other than as a +physical entity has not so much as touched the area of spiritual +ecstacy which has been alluded to as "the nectar of the gods;" and so +infinitely fine and perfect is the plan of Creation that he can not do +so until he is fit; and never can he be fit as long as he remains upon +the sense-conscious plane and seeks by sexual perversity and +debauchery and sexual insanities to touch that exquisite perfection of +joy which he intuitively knows evades him. + +Thus the sensual man is caught is a beneficent trap; a wise and just +and merciful Power has so placed the "Holy of Holies," that it cannot +be defiled; it cannot be reached; it cannot be desecrated. It is +forever removed from the touch of the unworthy. No man can hope to +express the creative power, the sexual realization of a god, through +the functions which are not higher in consciousness than those of the +animal. + +Would you attain to the status of the divine man? If so, do not +imagine for a moment that the divine man is less vital than your puny +physical powers would suggest. Neither should you imagine that the +sex-function, even in its lowest state (lowest because most lacking in +love-consciousness), is anything but pure and clean and right and +normal in itself; the attitude of the average man and woman invests it +with all its uncleanness. + +But with all the vile thought which the undeveloped mind has indulged +in respecting the sex-relation; with all the man-made laws arrayed +against it as though it were criminal, and the teachings of the Church +denying its spiritual origin and perpetuation; with women selling it +in the public markets for their physical maintenance, nothing less +than the fact of the eternality and universality of Sex, as the divine +fulcrum of manifestation, can account for the fact that the poor +little bi-une Love-god is after all coming to be recognized as the +hope and savior of Mankind. + +If you would have eternal youth and eternal life and love and wisdom, +accept this truth, because nothing else can, or will, save you from +the "slings and arrows of outrageous fortune." + +Another vague query presents itself to the would-be initiate, and we +would like to leave this chapter with no misunderstandings; no +misconceptions; no misleading statements, because that which we are +here stating is not theory. It is the one eternal, undying, simple and +unescapable truth which has withstood the onslaughts of time and +ignorance. + +The query comes and although it has been answered in previous chapters +we will again state it, so that there may be no mistake: If the +balance is found in counterpartal sex-union--the one man and the one +woman uniting on the solar plane--would not this balance be maintained +if only one of the two reached the higher planes of consciousness; in +other words, would not the balance be struck by extreme purity on the +one hand and extreme impurity on the other? + +Again we are reminded that the law of the cosmos is wise; that there +are no mistakes nor flaws in the cosmic scheme. The answer is that the +union is one of complementaries, and not of antitheses. Each one must +be balanced, the nature rounded, the soul awake before union is +possible. Thus we are saved from ourselves. We cannot, if we would, +really gain at the expense of another, although in temporary things we +may appear to do so, because the rich grow richer at the expense of +the poor; the tyrant ruler maintains his power at the expense of +serfs; but doubt not that _eternal equation_ is perfect. + +There is still another query: If true sex-union is of the soul, what +is to prevent soul-mates from finding each other at the moment of +death, regardless of their fitness for godhood, and thus +circumventing, as it were, the plan of Creation, which would compel +each one to earn the prize of eternal life? + +The same law governs the interior planes as the exterior. The +realization of consciousness is not a capricious matter any more than +is the law of physical growth. A man might be in the presence of +untold wealth, but if he had not the consciousness to know and realize +values, he would remain poor, even though by a wave of his hand he +might command millions. One might give a blind man a check for a +million dollars, and if he had no others means of knowing what it was, +he might easily imagine it to be worthless. Death does not bestow +wisdom. Wisdom is acquired. Love is a self-generator. + +If you would follow the law of transmutation and acquire the throne of +angelhood, get busy within the laboratory of your own mind. Take the +crucible of Thought and begin to work interiorly upon the common, +everyday things that present themselves in your environment. This is +the only way of transmutation. Love grows by feeding upon itself, and +the sacrifices and the kindnesses that are bestowed in love without +thought of personal benefit grow into the flood of golden light and +love of the spiritual realms. + +The chief virtue in any one's pursuit of philosophy, or of esoteric +wisdom, and in methods of attainment, is found in the fact that such +effort is proof of earnest desire to attain. Emerson says that the +principal benefit of a college education is to teach the student that +he does not need a college education. This estimate of the value of +years of study seems at first glance a sarcastic one, but it is not. +If this wisdom can be acquired in no other way, then even so it were +well worth the price. If the student can learn that much love is the +price of transmutation only after exhausting every other method, what +does it matter, so that he finally learns it? + +_Learn to look into the hearts of men._ + +At first sight, everything on the busy city street is a part of a +moving panorama; but an intimate view, when you get in touch with +segregated parts of the panorama, discloses the interior nature; the +hopes and the fears; the aspirations and the longings and the +heartaches and the joys of the entities composing the whole moving +picture. + +You notice a little female figure; her cheeks are pinked to a hue +rivalling the American beauty rose; her lips are carmined like a +clowns and her eyebrows penciled too obviously. Her cheap little dress +is amateurishly cut in imitation of "the latest." Your first impulse, +perhaps, is to scorn her as a "brazen" creature of the streets; but if +you will suspend judgment and look a little closer, you may see that +her eyes are, in their depths, those of a child, for all her seeming +experience. Her brazenness is perhaps only the armor which she has +donned to hide a turbulent heart--the dowry of centuries of +grandmothers who longed for one glimpse of freedom; of the right to +comb their hair as they liked; to powder their faces if they wanted +to; to run and jump and laugh and dance and be innocently free and +happy without the fear of shocking that bugbear Respectability, and +the tyrant Decorum, which insisted that a woman's legs must be +carefully concealed on penalty of being adjudged "immodest." + +Those poor reviled, execrated and vigilantly-concealed legs of our +fore-mothers! They are crying aloud for vindication, and they will be +heard wherever the line of least resistance affords a channel for +their freedom. And so, instead of blaming the poor little painted doll +of a woman, look into her heart. You will discover that she is bent on +having two things long denied womankind--freedom and happiness. If she +is foredoomed to failure on the route she has chosen, that is all the +more reason why you should withhold censure and give freely of your +help and sympathy. + +"_Learn to look into the hearts of men._" + +Learn to see beneath the appearance. The old Italian organ-grinder +doing his best to please you with his wheezy hurdy-gurdy is not just +an old organ-grinder. He is also a man with emotions and feelings and +longings and hopes identical in substance with your own; no matter if +the organ is out of tune. Learn to hear the _spirit_ of the aria or +the intermezzo. + +And behold! There is a bunch of noisy, dirty, slangy and bold +street-arabs--at least that is what they look like from the outside. +But learn to look within. There you will find the cause of their +appearance, and when you have found the cause you will sympathize with +them. If you can get back to the underlying cause of the +manifestations of life, you will never fail to sympathize with the +condition you may find, even though you find the cause rooted in +crime. + +You do not have to agree with the criminal in order to sympathize with +his misery. If you have the inner vision, which you must have if you +would transmute the baser metals into pure gold and find the key to +immortal life and love, you will never fail to understand and to +sympathize with every point of view. "Whoever walks a furlong without +sympathy walks to his own funeral." + +Don't imagine for one moment that you have to go to the Himalayas to +find the inner vision; or that you will obtain the key to the Hidden +Mysteries by shutting yourself in a monastery. Wherever you are, you +must lose sight of yourself. Not the higher Self of Reality, but the +lesser self of the carnal, or sense-conscious plane--the personality +that conceals _you_. And above all, you are not to regard this +personality as an enemy to be scourged and beaten and reviled. It is, +or it should be, a willing, and helpful servant of your soul even as +we say "the hand is the servant of the brain." If your hand becomes +unruly and does not obey your brain, train it to do so, don't cut it +off, even though the Bible does appear to tell you to--why should the +men who wrote in that far-off time know more of Truth than we of a +later century? + +You may imagine that you need to belong to some "Brotherhood," in +order to learn the secrets of alchemical transmutation. There is +nothing of the Great Wisdom which can be taught you, which you cannot +learn of yourself if you will look within and unite with the heart of +the world. + +There is no wisdom higher than love; and there is no power greater +than love; and there is no heaven happier than love and there is no +God holier than love. If you will take this for your creed you will +readily see that it is for you to think love into those things that +appear to lack it; think purity into those things that appear impure; +think unity into those things that appear separated; and taking the +lesson home to your own intimate conduct of life, invest the +expression of your sex with the pure and lofty and holy power God gave +to it, or refrain from the thought of sex until you can learn to do +so. + +Says a modern writer: "If you are still so out of tune with the +Infinite as to harbor any thought of evil or shame in connection with +the specialized organs and functions of sex, let this illumination +from on high cast that devil out of your cosmos forever. And if you +turn away with soul offended from even 'the slimy gendering of the +toad,' you dishonor God who once knew no higher creative formula and +still blesses it with His fruitful presence." + +And finally do not make the too common mistake of confounding +brazenness with freedom from shame and self-condemnation. + +Whatever of beauty and purity and joy has come to you in this life has +come because of the divinity of Sex. If you have been wise enough to +know this, and have reverenced it and purified your mind in respect to +that function of your being, you will not cheapen it by parading the +subject before those who have no idealism, any more than you would +"cast pearls before swine;" you will not countenance jokes and ribald +songs; you will not indulge in promiscuousness; but instead you will +fold it within the sacred intimacy of your heart's divine altar, as +something too beautiful, too holy for the garish light of the +un-tender day. + +If you have taken into your consciousness the divinity of Sex, you +will desire unity and disdain possession, knowing that whatever of +Heaven is vouchsafed Mankind here is but a shadow of the reality of +spiritual realization of the function of Sex. You will respect the +physical body as the handiwork of the Creative Principle of the +universe, respecting the sacredness of human life and liberty. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Sex=The Unknown Quantity + The Spiritual Function of Sex + +Author: Ali Nomad + +Release Date: September 3, 2009 [EBook #29896] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK SEX=THE UNKNOWN QUANTITY *** + + + + +Produced by Juliet Sutherland, Ritu Aggarwal, and the +Online Distributed Proofreading Team at https://www.pgdp.net. + + + + + + +</pre> + + + +<div class="figcenter" style="width: 440px;"> +<img src="images/cover.jpg" width="440" height="540" alt="Cover Page" title="" /> +</div> + +<hr style="width: 80%;" /> + +<h1>SEX = The Unknown Quantity</h1> + +<h3>THE SPIRITUAL FUNCTION OF SEX<br /></h3> + +<h4>A New and Startling Interpretation of the Meaning, Scope and Function of Sex +as Seen and Interpreted From the Inner or Cosmic Standpoint. A Work That +Should Revolutionize the Thought of Today in its Relation to the Vital +Mystery of Sex in All its Aspects. It Presents a Practical Solution +to the Sex Problems of Everyday Life.<br /><br /><br /><br /></h4> + + + +<h3><i>By</i></h3> + +<h2>ALI NOMAD</h2> + +<h4>[DR. ALEXANDER J. McIVOR-TYNDALL]</h4> + +<h3><i>Author of</i></h3> + +<h5>"COSMIC CONSCIOUSNESS, OR THE MAN-GOD WHOM WE AWAIT", "THE DEAD SPEAK", +"REVELATIONS OF THE HAND", "GHOSTS", "HOW THOUGHT CAN KILL", "PERSONAL MAGNETISM", +"PROOFS OF IMMORTALITY", ETC.<br /></h5> + + +<div class="figcenter" style="width: 100px;"> +<img src="images/publisher.png" width="100" height="100" alt="Publisher Icon" title="" /> +</div> + +<h3>CHICAGO, U. S. A.</h3> + +<h3>STERLING PUBLISHING COMPANY</h3> + +<h3>1916<br /></h3> + +<hr style="width: 80%;" /> + +<h4>Copyright, 1916, by</h4> +<h2>STERLING PUBLISHING COMPANY.</h2> +<h4>Copyrighted and Registered in Stationers' Hall, London, England.</h4> +<h4>(All Rights Reserved)<br /><br /></h4> + +<h4>COPYRIGHT IN ALL COUNTRIES<br /> +SIGNATORIES TO THE BERNE CONVENTION.</h4> + +<h3><small>THE</small> STERLING <small>PRESS</small>.</h3> + + +<hr style="width: 80%;" /> + +<h3>DEDICATED</h3> +<h3>TO THE CHILD OF TOMORROW</h3> +<h3>THE MAN-GOD WHOM WE AWAIT<br /></h3> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_3" id="Page_3">[Pg 3]</a></span></p> +<hr style="width: 80%;" /> +<h2>PUBLISHER'S FOREWORD</h2> + + +<p><span class="smcap">To Our Readers:</span></p> + +<p>We feel justified in claiming this work marks +an epoch in the advanced thought of human evolution. +Nothing has ever been written dealing +with the problem of Sex which is at once so +illuminating, convincing and satisfying. To our +knowledge this particular view of the sex-subject +has never before been presented, and, perhaps it +could not have been, owing to the fact that it is +only <i>now</i> in these days of higher thought, that +such a view could be understood.</p> + +<p>The author, Ali Nomad, is already well known +to progressive readers as the writer of "Cosmic +Consciousness," or, "The Man-God Whom We +Await;" a work that has made its author famous +by the reprint of its many editions.</p> + +<p>There are signs of a new order in the relation +of the Sexes already indicated upon the horizon +of the World's consciousness as the result of the +present world-conflict. <i>Today people are as ignorant +of the subject of Sex as they are of God.</i> +Both of these must be understood if the race is +to progress beyond its present stage. Otherwise +we shall pass into the long sleep of oblivion like +all civilizations in the past leaving future generations +to grapple with the same world problems.</p> + +<p>True or <i>perfect</i> marriage is the most important +attainment in the life of the individual.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_4" id="Page_4">[Pg 4]</a></span>The author demonstrates that perfect marriage +is a scientific possibility and that legal marriage +and divorce simply conform to civil laws. He +very clearly outlines the reason why civilization +makes little or no progress in dealing with the +social evil and other sex problems.</p> + +<p>The publishers place this book before an intelligent +public, believing, that more <i>real</i> knowledge +can be gained by its study, than by any other +known method, because</p> + +<div class="blockquot"><p><i>First.</i> The reader is brought face to face with +himself, and nature.</p> + +<p><i>Second.</i> The reader can demonstrate the truth of +the propositions set forth.</p> + +<p><i>Third.</i> The methods, rules, and laws have been +verified by intelligent men and women who +have lived the life.</p> + +<p><i>Fourth.</i> "Sex," The Divine Principle which all +human beings should understand, has been +presented in plain simple terms, and elucidated, +so that the reader <i>cannot</i> fail to understand +the true path of moral progress.</p></div> + +<p>This volume is not a romance, a fairy tale nor +a dream intended to entertain or amuse, but a +scientific instruction which will elevate the individual +and the race, develop self respect, self +control, morality and love. If the propositions +presented by the author are correct—let the standards +be changed; <i>if</i> the propositions are <i>in</i>correct, +they will not disturb the standards of today.</p> + +<p style='text-align:right;'>THE PUBLISHERS.</p> + + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_5" id="Page_5">[Pg 5]</a></span></p> +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<h2>SEX—THE UNKNOWN QUANTITY</h2> + +<h3>The Spiritual Function of Sex</h3> + + +<h2>CONTENTS</h2> + +<h4><a href="#INTRODUCTION"><span class="smcap">Introduction</span></a></h4> + +<h4><a href="#CHAPTER_I">CHAPTER I</a></h4> +<p><span class="smcap">Sex Universal and Eternal</span> <a href="#Page_19">19</a></p> + +<div class="blockquot"><p><small>Sex the fundamental basis of the universe; sex in +organic life; the law of attraction and repulsion +in animal and plant life; sex attraction and repulsion +in human life; how differentiated and +why; some secrets of modern chemistry; the +cosmic law of involution and evolution; the symbol +of the serpent in a new light; what is "the +power of the gods" referred to in ancient mythology; +some erroneous ideas in regard to the +sex function; the philosophy of restraint; the +inner sex-function and its outward expression +compared; the senses as avenues of inspiration; +the creation of form and sense-objects; what +constitutes a "perfect and complete being?" the +theory of "counterparts" and its spiritual significance; +is procreation the highest function of +sex; what constitutes the fundamental law of +love? the various expressions of the love-nature +from inorganic to organic life.</small></p></div> + +<h4><a href="#CHAPTER_II">CHAPTER II</a></h4> + +<p><span class="smcap">From Sex Worship To Sex Degradation</span> <a href="#Page_29">29</a></p> + +<div class="blockquot"><p><small>Sex the origin of all religious ceremonies; from nature-worship +to sex-worship; the history of Ancient +forms and ceremonies of worship; how +sex-worship has survived the ages; how it +thrives today in modern religion; early stages of +civilization in relation to Sex; the antiquity of +the symbol of the virgin and child; its occult +significance in symbolism; the reality of the<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_6" id="Page_6">[Pg 6]</a></span> +"bi-une God;" some secrets of the Ancient Egyptians +in regard to the function of sex; the esoteric +cause of the Egyptian talismanic and symbolical +revival today; the secret or esoteric +meaning of the swastika-cross; why Aum is always +typified by a circle; ancient forms of oath-taking +and why; the source of sex-energy spiritual; +how and where the idea of "blood-atonement" +and vicarious sacrifice originated; the +beginning of sex-degradation.</small></p></div> + +<h4><a href="#CHAPTER_III">CHAPTER III</a></h4> + +<p><span class="smcap">Present-day Conditions: the Cosmic Cause</span> <a href="#Page_53">53</a></p> + +<div class="blockquot"><p><small>The consecutive order from ancient sex-worship to +modern civilization; the real causes of race-advancement +in the cosmic tidal-wave, and what +it portends; why conditions are as they are today +in regard to sex-life; the psychic forces in +their relation to sex-life; some fallacies in regard +to Eugenics; why Greek and Roman civilization +failed; why and how modern civilization +need not fail; why women seek to avoid motherhood; +women of two types; the awake and the +asleep; the cosmic office of the Female Principle; +its relation to Creation; how the superman and +woman will differ from the undeveloped type; +what is meant by "half-gods;" are women of today +lacking in the love-nature; will the race die +out? If so, why, and if not why not? How did +the "Holy Family" differ from other families?</small></p></div> + +<h4><a href="#CHAPTER_IV">CHAPTER IV</a></h4> + +<p><span class="smcap">The History of Marriage and Mating</span> <a href="#Page_75">75</a></p> + +<div class="blockquot"><p><small>The relation of ancient marriage customs to religion; +why human evolution must necessarily +be slow; ancient marriage customs and their +spiritual interpretation; why marriage ceremonies +have always prevailed; customs of all races +compared; why the institution has a permanent +place in Social Evolution; the symbolism of the +visible world; why Science and Mysticism agree +spiritually; the origin of "variation" the fundamental<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_7" id="Page_7">[Pg 7]</a></span> +cause of woman's subjugation; when +men defend "outraged honor," is it a primitive +or a primordial instinct? the history of monogamy; +the monogamic idea and the ideal monogamy; +the history and cause of polygamy; the +evolution of the "old-maid" idea and the psychic +cause of this evolution; the path of the +virtuous woman in ancient days; the elevating +power in the dowry system; the two great purposes +which this custom has served.</small></p></div> + +<h4><a href="#CHAPTER_V">CHAPTER V</a></h4> + +<p><span class="smcap">The Symbolism of Marriage and of Sex-union</span> <a href="#Page_93">93</a></p> + +<div class="blockquot"><p><small>Why the monogamic ideal of marriage is right; how, +when and where, will marriage be lasting; the +basic principle of sex-union; when the bonds of +matrimony are truly "holy;" attraction and cohesion +two distinct phases of chemical laws; +ideas of a modern writer; how all morality has +come from the ideal of marriage; some erroneous +ideas of spirituality in relation to the sex-function; +when and why Man becomes immortal; +the custom and the hidden meaning in the wedding +ring; the symbolism of ancient marriage +customs; the esoteric meaning of "orange-blossoms;" +the veil; the ring; the crown; why these +have endured throughout the ages; the interior +and hidden meaning of Rosicrusian symbols in +respect to the sex-function; women admitted to +the Order and why; the mystery and marvel of +the symbolic "dove;" why it plays so important +a part in marriage customs and lover's +phrases; the symbolism of the ark; the egg; the +drinking-cup and other persisting accompaniments +to marriage customs.</small></p></div> + +<h4><a href="#CHAPTER_VI">CHAPTER VI</a></h4> + +<p><span class="smcap">Continence; Chastity; Asceticism: Their Spiritual +Significance</span> <a href="#Page_103">103</a></p> + +<div class="blockquot"><p><small>The Ancient Greek and Roman idea of the sex-relation; +why the asceticism of the Dark Ages +arose; why the Church instituted celibacy; why +the Church retained the pagan idea of "the virgin;" +the effect this has had upon the growth<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_8" id="Page_8">[Pg 8]</a></span> +and power of Christianity; lives of celebrated +saints in the light of Occult wisdom; why and +in what way the essentials of Christianity are +like other religious ideals; who is "the One True +and Only God?" the interior meaning of the +word "chastity;" the difference between chastity +and asceticism; the unbroken line connecting +ancient ideas of sex, with modern; the attitude +of religious systems toward women; why women +are supporters of the churches in modern days; +the "mystic bride" and the mystical meaning; +William James comments on the spiritual +ecstacy of St. Teresa; Swedenborg on "Conjugal +love;" trances; ecstacies; and visions of +saints; the term "virgin," and its origin; the +evolution of sex-love to spiritual love.</small></p></div> + +<h4><a href="#CHAPTER_VII">CHAPTER VII</a></h4> + +<p><span class="smcap">Soul-union: Where Will It Lead</span>? <a href="#Page_119">119</a></p> + +<div class="blockquot"><p><small>Why we hear of "affinities" and "soul-mates" today +more than formerly; the great distinction between these two words; the psychic forces +behind woman's invasion of business fields; the basis of "the unwritten law;" why affinity +marriages fail; the hidden reason girls look for a "rich husband;" the final outcome; when +and how women are "ruined;" the mystery of the hermaphrodite; what is the true significance of +the term "androgynous?" mistaken ideas of morality in dress and manners; what sort of beings +constitute "the kingdom of God?" the "secret of secrets" of the Hermetics; the wisdom of the +"initiates;" the spiritual quality in folk-lore; the time when "temptation" will be no more; +when "naked and unashamed" the race will re-enter the lost Paradise.</small></p></div> + +<h4><a href="#CHAPTER_VIII">CHAPTER VIII</a></h4> + +<p><span class="smcap">The Hidden Wisdom Revealed</span> <a href="#Page_137">137</a></p> + +<div class="blockquot"><p><small>Science and mysticism the same at root; Christian +mysticism versus scientific postulates; the interior meaning in fairy stories; personalities +and principles in mystic revelation; the esoteric meaning in Mythology; are there gods and mortals? +the ark in religious symbology; its interior<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_9" id="Page_9">[Pg 9]</a></span> +meaning; what were the "tablets of stone?" the reality of the "cherubim" and the +"seraphim;" the inner meaning of the symbolical "ark of the Covenant;" is spiritual love +devoid of sex?; what is the symbolical "flaming sword?"; why the Jews claimed to be God's +"chosen people;" what makes for "immortal godhood?"; the symbolism of the "life-token" +stories; the symbolism of the sleeping princess; a theory that solves all the problems of life; the +symbolical rites and ceremonies of secret orders; the secrets of the Ancient Alchemists; the +Rosicrucians; the Free Masons; the Hermetics; their initiation rites and ceremonies explained; +what is meant by the "Holy of Holies?" by the "secret chamber;" and the degree of "mastership;" +the sexual significance of the symbolism of the "templars;" the red rose on the cross; +the star and the crescent; what is the inner meaning of "the radiant center;" why the Catholic +Church opposed the order of Free-masons; did the Alchemists discover the secret of metallic +transmutation? what is meant by "the philosopher's stone;" why it was of such a rare +purity; why the early Church opposed all reference to sex; the distinction between "discovering" +and "finding;" their spiritual meaning; what was the stone that was raised at Babylon: +was it a phallic symbol? why the average "Knight Templar" fails to attain the powers +and privileges of esoteric Free-masonry; what is the "gate of life?" the Arcana of the Hermetics +and its sexual significance; the symbolism of the double-headed eagle; why the eagle was an +ancient religious symbol; the antithesis of "the eagle and the dove" explained; the "lamb and +the goat" symbolism; the God-ideas of the Ancients and their effects on modern life; why +"riding the goat" is the usual initiatory rite and ceremony in secret orders; some secret +plates of Hermetic orders explained; what is the "magic solvent" of the alchemists? the relation +of Christian symbolism to the Alchemical secrets; the inner meaning of "the sun and the +moon" in ancient literature; transmutation: exterior or interior? what constitutes "the abiding +glory."</small></p></div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_10" id="Page_10">[Pg 10]</a></span></p> +<h4><a href="#CHAPTER_IX">CHAPTER IX</a></h4> + +<p><span class="smcap">What Constitutes Sexual Immorality</span>? <a href="#Page_159">159</a></p> + +<div class="blockquot"><p><small>Can there be standards of morality in the sex-relation; +if so what are they? is monogamy the +ideal sex relationship? is polygamy a future +possibility? why matriarchal polygamy is less +degrading than patriarchal; why polygamy is +not the ideal sex relationship; the fallacy of +legal marriage as a test of sexual morality; why +we "cannot wrong the universe;" the one commandment +of "the Most High God;" what is it? +our modern standards the result of phallic worship; +why the Roman Church has survived the +centuries; the interior meaning in the "Holy +Virgin" idea of the Church; the vital point in +the Roman marriage restrictions; men inherently +more faithful to marriage vows than women, +and why this is so; the bi-sexual individual +the most developed; the counterpartal union and +its relation to marriage customs; why "affinities" +are so numerous; sexual infidelity an +impossible premise; what is to become of present-day +ethical standards of sexual morality?; +historic ideas of sexual immorality and their +influence upon modern civilization; modern effects +of ancient Hebraic customs; why suppression +of prostitution must fail; why prostitution +is moral degeneracy; the Oriental versus the Occidental +view of prostitution; why modern ideas +of sexual morality are fallacious and untenable; +can there be a universal standard of sexual +morality? why present-day ideas of marriage +are degrading; compulsion in marriage and +prostitution compared; how, why, and when, the +sex-relation may be exalted, reverenced and deified; +mistakes of some "Civic Leaguers;" why, +when, and how, unfaithfulness in marriage is +wrong; the single versus the double standard in +sex.</small></p></div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_11" id="Page_11">[Pg 11]</a></span></p> +<h4><a href="#CHAPTER_X">CHAPTER X</a></h4> + +<p><span class="smcap">The Pathway of Love</span> <a href="#Page_189">189</a></p> + +<div class="blockquot"><p><small>Love the Great Reality; Love the Alpha and Omega +of Life; Sex-love the basis of all other loves; +Sex-love the true spiritual love; what is love +of an abstract God? Love the perfect mathematician; +the moral code and Nature; why we +cannot break the laws of God; why Love is depicted +with bandaged eyes; Eros and Cupid explained; +why the Egyptians depicted Horus with +finger on lips; some symbolic caricatures in +modern civilization; how it is true that "love +makes gods of men;" why Religion has remained +materialistic; Love, the only vitalizing +power in the universe; the arch-enemy of +Love; why Love never leads to disaster; why +Love is always pure; erroneous ideas of success +and failure; what is real degradation? the pathway +of love from chemical attraction to spiritual +union; why spiritual mates must be the answer +to Life's puzzle; what constitutes actual infidelity? +what is to be done with sex relations that +are not spiritual unions? Are they immoral? +too much made of the marriage ceremony and +too little of fitness; is it better to be "respectably +bonded" or spiritually mated? what will +happen when we rid Society of a belief in "impure" +love; why marriage vows are inadequate; +puerile; and futile; when we find the "pearl of +great price;" why spiritual mates cannot be +parted; why bonds and vows must give place to +mutual agreement; does spiritual union come +with love of God? what is the "bliss of Nirvana?" +why the libertine is a pauper in the +realm of love; when we imbibe the "nectar of +gods;" why the "holy of Holies" cannot be defiled; +when the divine office of sex is prostituted; +why all sex relations may not be eternal yet +moral; the mistaken teaching of the church regarding +sex, and the result; inane ideas of +Paradise; an appalling prospect of heaven; perfect +sex-union the incentive to aspiration; Humanity +progresses in spite of fear; prophecy +literally true; the true business of business; the +final test; the Love that is merging, melting; +satisfying and how to attain it.</small></p></div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_12" id="Page_12">[Pg 12]</a></span></p> +<h4><a href="#CHAPTER_XI">CHAPTER XI</a></h4> + +<p><span class="smcap">The Law of Transmutation</span> <a href="#Page_209">209</a></p> + +<div class="blockquot"><p><small>The spiritual cause of all physical activity; two +words that are of vital import today; did Jesus +lie? is the kingdom within an actual truth? the +interior qualities and their relationship to +present day affairs; the fundamental difference +between mysticism and Christianity; the key to +the kingdom; the interior symbolism of "wireless +telegraphy;" the breeder of discord; the +interior meaning of certain important words; +the survival of the fittest in its interior meaning; +the finer and ever finer forces at work; +when the gods arrive the half gods go; sex-force +at the Center of Being; when abnormalities +and perversions of sex will be impossible; +the radiant center of the bi-une sex-life; the primary +function of sex-force vitalization, not procreation; +the art of transmutation and the key +to the gate of life; the esoteric meaning of our +"second childhood;" the present necessity for +physical old-age; the spiritual message in the +doctrine of sacrifice; the mystical formula for +transmutation; the mystery of the "Holy Grail" +elucidated; the only method of <ins class="correction" title="original reads 'attaing'">attaining</ins> godhood.</small></p></div> + +<h4><a href="#CHAPTER_XII">CHAPTER XII</a></h4> + +<p>"<span class="smcap">Selling the Thrones of Angels</span>" <a href="#Page_231">231</a></p> + +<div class="blockquot"><p><small>The barriers between men and the "bliss of Heaven;" +the difference between mortals and gods; the +character of a bi-une Being; erroneous ideas of +masculinity and femininity; the change of the +present day toward these ideas; God not a hermaphroditic +Personality, but a pair; some "laws +of God;" the ideal of union versus the idea of +possession; the highest manifestation of sex-love; +the solar-man and the mental man in sex; +qualities of sex-force; is the divine man less sexual +than the physical? the divine fulcrum of +Sex; how eternal youth and life are possible; +why you can not lose in the "game of Love;" we +cannot sin against the Eternal God; why and +when the "eternal equasion" is perfect; no mistakes +or flaws in the Cosmic scheme; how spiritual +mates may find each other; the true way of<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_13" id="Page_13">[Pg 13]</a></span> +transmutation simple; why we have "painted +dolls of women;" the hearts of men; the highest +wisdom; some fallacies regarding the law +of transmutation; why the "inner vision" does +not require a trip to the Himalayas; why +"brotherhoods" cannot insure you the way; all +beauty and joy the result of the divinity of Sex; +life mathematically just; when we shall "enter +the kingdom."</small></p></div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_14" id="Page_14">[Pg 14]</a></span></p> + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_15" id="Page_15">[Pg 15]</a></span></p> + +<h2><a name="INTRODUCTION" id="INTRODUCTION"></a>INTRODUCTION</h2> + + +<p>No phase of civilization can rise to the highest possibilities as long +as the average mental attitude toward the most vital, the most +important and the most sacred function of our being, is one of shame, +sinfulness, lust and uncleanness.</p> + +<p>Even among those who are conscientiously trying to establish better +social conditions, there is a deplorable lack of anything like the +proper attitude toward the problems of Sex, albeit there are evidences +that our social consciousness is alive to the seriousness of the sex +problem.</p> + +<p>Many of our advanced thinkers and scientists are giving their +attention to the subject, but it is a theme which has been so long +neglected, so hedged about by false standards of morality; so fettered +by the system of tabu, that a rational discussion of Sex apart from +materia medica, or religion, is difficult.</p> + +<p>Moreover, the physiological side of the sex question robs it of all +the delicacy, and the intimacy and the beauty and romance which should +by right, surround the function of sex-mating and which does surround +a union that is pure and perfect. In this innate desire to share with +the one and only<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_16" id="Page_16">[Pg 16]</a></span> possible mate, the intimate secrets of love, there +is nothing of shame or apology—sentiments which alas, actuate the +so-called "modest" man or woman of today.</p> + +<p>Sex matters should, indeed, be held too sacred, too intimate for +public discussion, whereas the present-day attitude holds that Sex is +too indecent to be spoken of. When the subject is forced upon public +attention as it so frequently is through tragic occurrences, the +opinions expressed are both petty and puerile. They evade the truth +and so avoid the issue. They deal with effects only, are satisfied +with offering suggestions as to ways and means of suppressing these +effects, instead of going to the root of the matter and realizing that +all the tragedies that spring out of Sex are due to wrong teaching and +thinking in regard to the sex-function. That which we reverence, and +hold sacred, we do not profane. Until Sex is established in its +rightful place, as the holy and divine creative power of this +universe, we will be shocked and horrified with sex-tragedies.</p> + +<p>It is a pity that the physiological and hygienic aspect of Sex has to +be discussed at all, but it is necessary that all sides of the subject +must be presented to meet the great variety of minds, but it is our +contention that if the spiritual quality of Sex were recognized and +understood, there would be no need for any other view, because if Sex +were recognized as the sacred, and holy and spiritual function <i>that +it is</i>, disease and sinfulness would disappear as the mist before the +sun.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_17" id="Page_17">[Pg 17]</a></span></p> + +<p>In the meantime the subject must be discussed from all points of view.</p> + +<p>It must be permitted to thrive in the light and thus it will flower +into the perfection of the spiritual seed that generated it.</p> + +<p>In the meantime, the debasement of all things connected with sex must +be aired, discussed, and weeded out, until a sane and normal and +reverential recognition of the universality and the eternality of Sex, +is engendered in the minds of men and women and growing youths and +transmitted to the children yet unborn.</p> + +<p>"Sex contains all," says Walt Whitman. "Bodies, souls, meanings, +proofs, purities, delicacies, results, promulgations, songs, commands, +health, pride, the maternal mystery, the seminal milk; all hopes, +benefactions, bestowals; all the passions, loves, beauties, delights +of earth; all the governments, judges, gods, followed persons of the +earth; these are contained in sex as parts of itself and justification +of itself.</p> + +<p>"Without shame the man I like knows and avows the deliciousness of his +sex; without shame the woman I like knows and avows hers."</p> + +<p>Many well-meaning persons see in the words of the "good grey poet," +only an immodest and brazen shamelessness. But these are mental +perverts and are to be pitied; they see "through a glass darkly" and +everything looks black with decay; they are trying to build an eternal +future upon a foundation of tissue paper; they are seeking to +encompass immortal life by denying the<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_18" id="Page_18">[Pg 18]</a></span> very beginning and source of +all life—Sex; they are attempting the impossible feat of foisting +upon the world an ideal of Heaven from which they have extracted the +very essence of Heaven itself, although nothing on earth or from +divine sources justifies such an idea.</p> + +<p>Possibly our civilization has proceeded on the plan of leaving until +the last the most important thing in an ideal community and it may be +that we shall do the necessary reform work in this department all the +more thoroughly for having so long neglected it.</p> + +<p>In the following chapters the physiological and hygienic side of the +subject has been avoided as there is much sound advice already issued +pertaining to this phase of the sex question, and it is our contention +that the world must be brought to recognize the spiritual, and sacred +function of Sex, as the basis of reformation or regeneration, before +the Kingdom of Love shall be established upon the earth as it is in +celestial spaces.</p> + +<p style='text-align:right;'><span class="smcap">The Author</span>.</p> + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_19" id="Page_19">[Pg 19]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_I" id="CHAPTER_I"></a>CHAPTER I</h2> + +<h2>SEX UNIVERSAL AND ETERNAL</h2> + +<p>The fundamental basis of the universe is Sex.</p> + +<p>Sex is the fulcrum upon which our life-activities turn. It is the life +of Man and of planets, and ignorance of the laws of Sex is the cause +of death of both. It is the conjunction of the forces of attraction +and repulsion; the positive and negative; the centripetal and +centrifugal forces which hold stars and planets in their orbits—or +rather, it is the two expressions of the one power, which is both male +and female, the eternal bi-une sex principle which is <i>Life</i>.</p> + +<p>The law of attraction everywhere, from that of the sun and the earth, +to that of the iron and the magnet, the "affinity" of the various +gases and liquids, is founded upon Sex. Cohesion is but another name +for copulation, and repulsion is absence of the power of contact. The +law of attraction and cohesion everywhere is the law of sex-activity. +"The law of conjugality is the basis of every force in nature," says a +scientist. Sex constitutes the eternal energy from which issue all the +forms and differentiations which we see manifested in the visible +universe, and it is equally the foundation of the realms invisible.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_20" id="Page_20">[Pg 20]</a></span></p> + +<p>Sex is the algebracial X—the unknown quantity which defies analysis.</p> + +<p>Plato is said to have observed that "the son of man is written all +over the visible world in the form of an X;" and also that "the second +coming of Christ is rightly symbolized by a cross." The cross is but +another form of the X—the eternal bi-une sex-principle in action.</p> + +<p>The Female Principle attracts to a central union; draws toward and +within itself. The home is established and maintained by the female +element; the nest is the special property of the female bird. Thus the +Female Principle best expresses the highest love because the object of +love is <i>union</i>. Hate scatters, disintegrates, destroys. Wherever the +struggle between love and hate is seen, there we will find a lack of +union. There may be marriage, but there will not be mating. True union +must come from the Center of Life—from the spiritual Reality, which +the physical only imperfectly shadows forth.</p> + +<p>Involution is best described as feminine, and wherever we note the +upward trend of the feminine element in Society, we may know that the +earth is on its involutionary path; the end of a cycle is at hand, and +social unrest and marital upheaval are inevitable, because Love is in +the ascendant and love demands <i>union</i>—not merely matrimony.</p> + +<p>The Ancients sought to express the never-beginning and never-ending +law of Sex by the symbol of the serpent with its tail in its mouth, +forming a<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_21" id="Page_21">[Pg 21]</a></span> circle. The resemblance of the male sperm to the spiral +convolutions of the serpent in motion, doubtless gave rise to the +adoption of the serpent as a symbol of sex-worship. The retention and +transmutation of the sex-force is typified by the serpent forming a +circle. The circle represents the attainment of godhood—victory over +death through <i>regeneration</i>.</p> + +<p>It has been said that the most primal instinct is that of hunger, but +without Sex there would not be even the urge toward physical +sustenance. Sex is therefore both the urge and the answer to all +instincts.</p> + +<p>There is a very general idea that Sex is a physical function only. It +is almost universally taught that when the life of the body ceases, +sex-life ceases with it. Even among metaphysicians, who believe in the +continuity of life after death, the absurd doctrine is taught that Sex +has no place or part in spiritual life, that "there is no marriage nor +giving in marriage" after death.</p> + +<p>This idea has been a powerful deterrent in keeping the race from +seeking the higher areas of spiritual consciousness. Lack of mere +physical vitality has erroneously been estimated as evidence of +spirituality. Chastity has unfortunately been counterfeited by mere +physical restraint, resulting in a type of human being whom the +healthy, normal person instinctively refuses to emulate, deferring as +long as possible the attainment of that which has been presented to +the mind as "spirituality."</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_22" id="Page_22">[Pg 22]</a></span>Let it be understood at the outset of this presentation of the problem +of Sex that we state emphatically, that Sex is an eternal verity. Its +spiritual function is not <i>less</i> but infinitely <i>more</i> than that which +we glimpse on the physical plane of life-expression.</p> + +<p>Far from outgrowing what we know as human love, we add thereunto a +million fold, refining, purifying and <i>intensifying</i> the sex instinct +until it bears a relationship to the average instance of +sex-expression, analogous to that which the single-celled organism +bears to intellectual man. If we will keep in mind the fact that Life +in all its degrees of manifestation is like the ascending notes of the +musical scale, we will be able to get a more comprehensive idea of the +spiritual function of the sex-urge. We will realize that we can not +mark a too distinctive separation between the various phases of +life-manifestation.</p> + +<p>We imagine that the physical life is widely at variance with the +mental, the psychical, or the spiritual, when as a matter of fact each +blends into the other, when we rightly understand their place and +purpose, as harmoniously as the notes of the musical scale blend into +the grand compositions of the Masters.</p> + +<p>"As above so below, and as below so above," is a truism which we may +safely take as our first maxim. Whatever we note as a fundamental +principle of this external life which we cognize with our five senses +(senses which merge so into the psychical that we know not always +where the line<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_23" id="Page_23">[Pg 23]</a></span> demarks) has a permanent place in the Cosmos. +Therefore we must conclude that a fact so universal as that of sex, +and sex-attraction, must be grounded in something more stable, more +permanent and enduring than the mere creation of physical forms.</p> + +<p>Protoplasm, the only living substance, is found everywhere in the +visible world and its universality is symbolical of the invisible +worlds as well. Transparent, colorless, it contains within itself the +mystery of reproduction. It forms the basis of the vegetable and the +animal kingdoms. It is seen in bone and muscle and fibrous tissue, and +protoplasm may be said to contain within its cells the principles of +both sexes. It is not sexless, but bi-sexual; not neuter but +masculine-feminine. Every form of life has sex, and in some rare +instances both sexes are present in one form. This does not mean that +there is another phase of sex unclassified, but rather it proves the +union in one <i>Whole Entity</i> of the two distinct principles, and by +this fact of the "twain made one" we may know that Sex is the very +crux of the cosmic law; that not only does it survive the mere +physical expression of the law, but that the object of the +sex-function is the spiritual union of the two principles, a male and +a female entity, forming one complete and perfect Being—the true +representative of the bi-une Being whom we know as God.</p> + +<p>Absolute and perfect union is possible only at the center, the crux, +of Being. This truth is represented by the algebraical X, the symbol +of spiritual<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_24" id="Page_24">[Pg 24]</a></span> sex-union. Therefore sex relationships which do not have +for their crux spiritual as well as temperamental affinity, are not +final, or eternal, however beautiful they may be; and there are many +sex-relationships which are pure and sacred even though they do not +fulfil this highest of all relationships, that of spiritual +counterparts.</p> + +<p>Let us consider for a moment the universality of Sex as we see it +expressed in all the variety of forms and throughout all the species, +and in so doing we may trace the ever upward trend of the law of +sex-attraction, and discover, if we have the eyes to see, the evident +plan and purpose of the cosmic law as it tends toward completement and +perfection in the type of the man-god whom the world has long looked +for and who we believe is here.</p> + +<p>If we look at the expression of Sex from the viewpoint of the physical +only, instead of basing our observations from the interior, the +spiritual, outward to the physical, we might conclude that the +function of sex was designed for no other purpose than that of +procreation, since care of the young increases with the upward trend +of life-manifestation.</p> + +<p>Beginning at the lower forms of life, such for example as the fish, we +find as a general thing an indifference to the fate of the eggs +deposited by the female, which is in keeping with the prolific and +almost unconscious generation of these tiny evidences of the law of +Sex. A fish laying more than a million eggs in a season is naturally +rather careless<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_25" id="Page_25">[Pg 25]</a></span> about what becomes of them. Apparently no higher +sentiment actuates this form of life than an unconscious and merely +instinctive urge to perpetuate the species—the lowest expression of +Love—and yet the germ of Love, the Creator and Preserver is there, +and a well-defined law of attraction and repulsion is evident from the +fact that as an almost general thing the male will not fertilize eggs +other than those of his own species. But even in these low forms, we +see the evidence of that higher expression of Love which presages the +god-like quality of self-sacrifice. Some species of fish, notably the +stickle-back and the bass, make nests and mother their young.</p> + +<p>In those forms of life which are supposed to be insensate, we find the +universal law of sex-attraction and repulsion. The pollen from an oak +tree, for example, may be blown about by the wind and may light upon a +plant which is far removed in species from its own; but if such be the +case, no fertilization takes place. The fundamental law of Love is to +attract to itself <i>its own</i>; that which belongs to it by right of +Cosmic law and order and justice.</p> + +<p>All the inharmony of our social life comes from the attempt to +appropriate and <i>possess</i> that which, in the final analysis, in the +Absolute, is not ours. When the majority of Mankind shall have +mastered this lesson, the human race will enter upon its true +spiritual life. The psychic mind with which man alone of all earth's +creatures is supposed to be endowed will have conquered the +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_26" id="Page_26">[Pg 26]</a></span> +instinctive mind, and the higher expression of love which would +protect and preserve, and <i>leave free</i>, will have gained supremacy +over selfishness and the desire for possession.</p> + +<p>In bird-life we find this higher type of love almost universal. +Parental love, that exquisite and refined flower from the seed of +sex-attraction, characterizes the bird and we may readily agree that +Paradise would be incomplete without birds and flowers as well as +babies.</p> + +<p>Considering the birds as an infinitely finer type of sex-expression +than that offered by any other of the forms of life below man, we note +with satisfaction the all-important point, namely, that the sex-urge +is more diffused and lasting, and of a finer quality than that of the +mammals.</p> + +<p>The bird woos its mate with the beauty of its plumage and the +harmonious notes of its love-call. Its desire finds so many esthetic +ways of expressing itself; in tender pleadings; in cooing promises; in +continuous evidences of care and protection. Nor does its intense +love, vital as it is, exhaust itself in concentrated expression, but +it softens and ripens into something that so closely resembles our +ideals of spiritual love, that we are not surprised to find the emblem +of the dove employed throughout the history of the world, as the +spiritual symbol of pure and holy love. Well, indeed, may human beings +learn from the birds the lesson of the higher type of sex-mating, +which finds fruition in their mutual love for and care of their +progeny. Nor does the love-life of birds cease<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_27" id="Page_27">[Pg 27]</a></span> with sex-expression. +It permeates all their intercourse.</p> + +<p>The trait which distinguishes the spiritual man from the animal man is +analogous to that of the birds; namely, that of finding a deep and +lasting joy in the presence of the loved one; in sympathizing with +each other's ideals; listening with devoted attention to each other's +words; contacting, as it were, each other's <i>inner nature</i>, rather +than obeying the merely animal urge of procreation. And above all, in +the common aim of altruistic thoughtfulness for the little lives which +their love has brought forth.</p> + +<p>Thus nature serves the cosmic law, which aims to raise the +sex-instinct from the incomplete and unsatisfying plane of physical +contact, to that of spiritual union—a wide gulf seemingly; but who +would not strive to bridge it, did he but realize what spiritual union +with the Beloved One means?</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_28" id="Page_28">[Pg 28]</a></span></p> + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_29" id="Page_29">[Pg 29]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_II" id="CHAPTER_II"></a>CHAPTER II</h2> + + +<h2>SEX WORSHIP AND SEX DEGRADATION</h2> + + +<p>Every form of religious worship, from pre-historic time down to and +inclusive of the present century, and among all races, savage and +civilized, has been founded upon Sex—the inevitable, the inviolable, +the unescapable, and the unfathomable mystery of Creation.</p> + +<p>Nor should this fact be distasteful to the most refined. An +intelligent review of the many evidences that prove this truth will +not shock the sensibilities of the most devout worshipper of an +unknown and unseen God. What can be more beautiful and more holy, more +worthy of our highest reverence and adoration, than the mystery of +birth, whether that birth be the growth of a flower from a tiny seed +planted in the womb of Mother Earth, or the birth of a tiny human life +from the seed Love sows in the womb of the human mother? The only +shocking thing about the matter is that there are persons who can be +"shocked" at contemplation of this wonderful and beautiful mystery. It +is shocking and deplorable that so many are still so far away from +spiritual consciousness, that the beauty and the purity of the miracle +of Sex is unrecognized by them.</p> + +<p>With all due respect to the highest types of<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_30" id="Page_30">[Pg 30]</a></span> religious creeds which +survive today, we are bound to concede that the very first form of +worship which prevailed upon this earth was the purest as it was the +simplest. Truth is simple. Deception introduces us into a maze of +complexities. Nature worship prevailed we know not how many centuries +previous to the dawn of historic records. All allegorical literature +makes constant allusion to "The Golden Age," evidently referring to a +time before that which has come down to us in sacred literature, as +"The Fall of Man." The first conception of a supreme power, something +higher and more perfect than Man himself, originated in the mystery of +Sex; not only in the sex-function as exercised by Man, but also in the +evidences of sex seen in plants and animals.</p> + +<p>It became evident to the earliest races that the human being was after +all only a progenitor. Somewhere there must be a First Cause. The +vital spark which gave to the seed its power to bring forth was seen +to be beyond and above the control of physical man, and the natural +and inevitable inference was drawn that there was some power greater +than that of human beings—a power manifesting itself in the act of +procreation. At this early stage in Man's efforts to know God, the +Female Principle was deified, because out of the womb of the woman +issued the little life. Thus the symbol of the "virgin with the child" +became the symbol of worship; the word "virgin" then having a somewhat +different meaning from that which we give it today, although we may trace the +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_31" id="Page_31">[Pg 31]</a></span> +analogy in our use of the term "virgin soil," signifying +fecundity. The virgin and child then, popularly supposed by those +whose prejudices prevail over their desire for Truth, to have +originated with the birth of Jesus of Nazareth, antedates history, as +an object of worship.</p> + +<p>Let us here again emphasize the fact that the very persistence of this +symbol as a pronounced part of our Twentieth Century traditions, and +reverence, offers proof of the fact that whatever is true is also +enduring. Truth is eternal and defies extinction. Love, although +defiled and scorned, will lift Mankind out of Hell.</p> + +<p>The symbol of the mother with the child the very earliest of all +symbolic worship is also the truest and most consistent with the +ideals of spiritualized Man when we realize its higher significance. +At first, for the obvious reason that woman was the recipient and the +nurse of the seed, woman was regarded as a higher type than man; she +alone was supposed to possess the creative energy. This was ultimately +reversed and Man was thought to be the sole custodian of the +reproductive power.</p> + +<p>Thus the age-long warfare between the sexes began—a warfare which, if +it had any foundation in Reality, must have resulted long since in +race-extinction. But despite this degrading warfare men and women have +continued to attract each other in varying degrees of love, until now +the future offers a golden promise of <i>union</i>. As long as primitive +man kept to nature worship, deifying<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_32" id="Page_32">[Pg 32]</a></span> earth as the mother who brought +forth the grains and fruits for her childrens' sustenance, religious +practices were devoid of sacrifice and strife. The advent of +springtime when the earth awakened from her long sleep and the period +of gestation began when the seeds were planted, or when from Nature's +own laws they were reproduced without the aid of man, was the occasion +of thanksgiving and rejoicing with general merry-making and general +good-will. Again, in harvest time there was feasting and rejoicing and +music and dancing; and we have no reason to believe that this very +natural method of showing their gratitude and their happiness was +accompanied by any suggestion of sacrifice or propitiation.</p> + +<p>There is the best of evidence to support the claim that all the early +Deities were female and in all Mythology the earth is adored as the +"Divine Mother." The earliest Venus, worshipped as the goddess of +Universal Womanhood, was represented with a beard signifying her +androgynous character.</p> + +<p>Venus worshipped as "the soul of the world" was said to be the "parent +of all things, the primary progeny of Time, the most exalted of all +the Deities." Neith, Minerva, Athena, Ceres, Cybele, all worshipped as +the first of all the Deities, were represented as female, and to this +day we refer to the qualities of wisdom, light, truth, and virtue as +feminine.</p> + +<p>Even the sun is said to have been at one time worshipped as feminine, +as were all deities; but<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_33" id="Page_33">[Pg 33]</a></span> later, when it was shown that the sun +apparently fertilized the fecund earth, the gender was changed, and in +succeeding ages, when the male principle had become dominant as a +deific symbol, the earth was said to be but the nurse which cradled +and cared for the generic power resident in the male. Thus woman from +her lofty height of the one and only deity gradually sank to the level +of the nurse maid, permitted to care for man's offspring.</p> + +<p>While the Female Principle of Sex was worshipped as the "giver of +life," the heads of families were female and descent was traced from +the mother only. The male parent was scarcely more than an intruder +and the necessity to please the entire family and, above all, the +mother-in-law, the generic head of the family has left its mark upon +the masculine mind, even unto this far-off day, when by virtue of this +ordeal of primitive man, an idea seems to exist, that a mother-in-law +is to be both feared and dreaded, if not propitiated. When we +contemplate the persistence of those traits of human nature that have +prevailed among all races and throughout all ages, we are easily +persuaded that time is a delusion, and that Eternity is Now. As it was +yesterday it is today and will be tomorrow in all that is really +fundamental.</p> + +<p>From the refined simplicity of nature worship there gradually evolved +a phase of worship, which in the beginning had for its basic principle +an exalted ideal of the purpose and the powers of the +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_34" id="Page_34">[Pg 34]</a></span> +female sex-function; but this ideal sunk to the level of debauchery and +sex-degradation, in which the symbol of the female sex-organ of +generation was worshipped, literally, although not reverently; and yet +from the fact that it is only upon the temples and in the groves +dedicated to worship that are found the carvings of the generative +organs of either and sometimes of both sexes, it is evident that the +most exalted motives first actuated the worshippers.</p> + +<p>The sex organs, representing the mystery of creative life, or the +Deity, would naturally be held in reverence by nature-children, and it +must be conceded that this attitude of mind toward the wonderful +miracle of creative energy is worthy of our emulation. As we look back +over the pages of history, we note the tendency of human nature to +fall far short of ideals; we mistake the letter for the spirit; we get +lost in the trap of the senses, and we miss the higher and more +exalted planes of our ideals.</p> + +<p>From yoni worship (worship of the female organ of generation), with +all the privileges and perquisites which such honor bestowed upon +woman, there came the inevitable revolt, which comes in course of +time, from all tyranny and special privilege, whether it be +individual, national, racial, sexual, or supernatural. Thus there was +established a "new religion," and this time it was the male organ +which was deified as the symbol of eternal life, of creative energy. +In many instances both symbols were represented, but for the most part +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_35" id="Page_35">[Pg 35]</a></span> +the same subtle struggle for supremacy, the remnants of which we note +today among the different religious creeds and sects, waged, and waxed +stronger, with time and opposition. Which was the more worthy of +deification—the yoni, or the phallus? Woman, or man?</p> + +<p>The Ionians, seeking religious freedom from the persecutions of the +phallic worshippers in India persisted in their adherence to yoni +worship, and from them dates the Eleusirian mysteries, which were +celebrated in Athens down to a comparatively late date. The Eleusirian +festivals represented the survival of the purest ideals of nature +worship, before the warfare between the yoni and the phallic +worshippers had brought both ideals into degradation.</p> + +<p>There is a point in this festival, which the Greeks called +Thesmophoria and which is derived from the more ancient festival of +Ceres (the goddess of Life and Law), which we are anxious to have +noted here, because it marks a golden thread which runs throughout the +entire fabric of the sex-problem. This point is the fact, that the +rites and ceremonies of this festival were performed by "virgins +distinguished for their purity of life." Very rarely were men admitted +to the inner secrets of the Eleusirians.</p> + +<p>Another important point is that this ceremony was performed in honor +of the androgynous character of the goddess, as it was declared that +the power to bring forth a child without the co-operation of the male +belonged exclusively to the exalted<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_36" id="Page_36">[Pg 36]</a></span> or perfected woman, which is to +say the goddess. Another translation and interpretation of this +ceremony claims that it was prophecied in these festivals, that a time +would come in the history of the world when a woman would so conceive +and bring forth a child and that when that time should come the +question as to which sex was supreme would be forever settled and that +purity and peace would reign upon earth.</p> + +<p>This part of the record may easily have been either an interpolation +to sustain the claim of the miraculous birth of Jesus, or it may have +been simply the defiant fling of the vanquished to the victor, because +phallic worship was in the ascendant. It is, however, recorded, that +not an instance can be cited in which the honor of initiation into the +Eleusirian mysteries was conferred upon a bad man; nor of any man +violating the secrets of the inner temples of the Eleusirians. This +gives rise to the hope that the ideal of this spiritually exalted +sect, in the midst of almost universal degeneracy, was not so much +that of female supremacy, as of purity; that their ideal included the +pure and perfect union of male and female—the only ideal that will, +or can, redeem the world to a life of peace and love.</p> + +<p>The festivals of Carthage were said to be similar to those of Eleusis. +For a period of several days during the time set apart for the +festivities, public feasts were prepared in honor of the deific nature +of Man, which, it was pointed out, was his prerogative only by virtue +of inward purity and<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_37" id="Page_37">[Pg 37]</a></span> strict adherence to high ideals of truth and +honor.</p> + +<p>Crowning all the religious observances of the Ancients, whether +expressed in the legends of the sun-myths or of star and serpent +worship, we find the universally recognized fact that only those +qualities of mind and soul can be expected to endure, or reach +immortal godhood, which are of an exalted character. Which is to say +what the present day orthodox creed says, that immortality belongs +only to those who are pure in heart.</p> + +<p>From the Eleusirian festivals is derived our custom of taking holy +communion, the symbol of the Lord's supper; albeit the substitution of +the male principle in the Christian ceremony attests the fact that the +phallic symbol ultimately supplanted the yoni, as a deific symbol. +Phallic worship reached its height during Hebrew and Assyrian +supremacy, and was perpetuated by Greek and Roman materialism. +Superstition is nothing more than Truth degenerated by men from a +spiritual to a material application. That which is held in awe and +reverence by any race; that which is embodied in the traditions of +every tribe on the globe; that which persists throughout all times +will be found to have a fundamental basis of truth, no matter how +obscured it may be by the ignorance with which it is so frequently +associated.</p> + +<p>The sacredness of Sex, as exemplifying the Supreme Creative Energy, +underlies all the traditional ideals of man, from the fetishes of the +Central African savage to the cathedral spires which rise above the +din of our modern commercial<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_38" id="Page_38">[Pg 38]</a></span> civilization. The prejudiced and the +superficial observer of so-called "heathen" rites and ceremonies +records only the superstitions, and sees only the evidences of +depravity and savagery. He overlooks the fact that the spirit of the +idea conveyed may have been the highest ideal of an early race which +has sunk, as have all races during certain periods of the world's +evolution into the depths of a materialism, from which all races are +today emerging.</p> + +<p>All mystic truths are expressed in symbolism. It has been said that +these truths are "veiled;" this is true only because the observer has +not yet learned to speak the language. The universal language is +symbolism. In the early Egyptian, the Indian, and the Hebrew +religions, the fundamental idea was the two generating principles (or +we might say the two aspects of the One principle) of generation. The +two in spiritual <i>union</i> represented the Infinite—the Deity. The +Hebrew word "Elohim" is plural, and means male and female united, +forming the One Perfect and Complete Being. This union is the "Holy of +Holies" of the ancient mystics and alchemists. We see its reflection +and its persistence today in the Catholic service of the Mass, where +the priest raises the Eucharist as the "Holy of Holies" in which is +generated the Christ-man, and before whom all human devotees bow the +head that they may not look upon the perfection and beauty of its pure +radiance. Neither is the priest supposed to touch the chalice with +uncovered hands. He prepares<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_39" id="Page_39">[Pg 39]</a></span> himself by fasting and prayer before he +mounts the altar upon which this "Holy of Holies" is hidden from view.</p> + +<p>The pattern of the Eucharist with its golden circle and radiations is +easily recognizable by any one who is familiar with the symbols of +yoni worship. Nor should this fact be distasteful to any one, although +it is either concealed, or flatly denied by the Church, since it is +only through the elevation of the sex-function that the Christ-man can +be born into the physical realms. The reason that this truth is either +concealed or denied by the Church is due to the influence of Greek and +Roman civilization, which subjugated woman to the control of man. This +debasement of woman reached its culmination under Roman rule and is +unquestionably the psychic cause of the fall of the Greek and Roman +empires.</p> + +<p>If we will but take home to ourselves the important lesson that +neither sex is fundamentally, or even relatively, superior, but only +different; that no race is permanently in advance of another, but that +each little group and class of humans has its particular contribution +to the sum of knowledge, we will have done much toward freeing the +mind from the shackles of ignorance—that darkness which obscures our +inner vision. Let this truth penetrate the egotism of so-called +civilized races. Let it sink into the minds of the men and women of +this century: we are of service to the world in proportion as we are +different and not identical. In the direct ratio of our individuality +is our contribution<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_40" id="Page_40">[Pg 40]</a></span> to the work of the cosmic law, which is seeking +to lift the planet earth out of its undeveloped state into celestial +light.</p> + +<p>The symbol of the Eucharist, occupying as it does an important place +in a religious system which is otherwise essentially masculine, is one +of the many evidences of the persistence of Truth. For approximately +four thousand years, phallic worship has predominated over the earlier +ideal, which was embodied in the "virgin of the spheres," the emblem +of the Female Principle as eternal motherhood; and in the sacred +character of androgynous plants and flowers, which were characterized +as feminine, such, for example, as the lily, the lotus, and the fleur +de lis. These flowers are still regarded as more or less sacred, and +they are called feminine, although really androgynous.</p> + +<p>The lotus, long held sacred because of its androgynous character, has +been regarded as typical of the One Perfect One, because it is +supposed that the lotus reproduces itself without the male pollen. But +close examination of the flower will show that the little seed-vessel +in the center of the flower is shaped like a pine cone, in which are +tiny cells too small to let out the seeds as occurs in most plant and +seed life; these tiny seeds having no outlet, shoot when ripe into new +plants, the bulb of the plant being the matrix or womb of the new +life. Thus it is evident, that although the two sexes are not as +pronounced in the lotus as in the lily, yet the bulb and the cone are +both present in<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_41" id="Page_41">[Pg 41]</a></span> the lotus, making the plant bi-sexual, and not +feminine alone.</p> + +<p>Our modern Easter festival, in which the lily is recognized as the +representative par excellence of the renewal of abundant life and +energy, the "sacred" flower, is a tribute to the Feminine Principle in +the Deity, as the lily like the lotus is called feminine, although in +reality bi-sexual.</p> + +<p>The lily and the Eucharist have survived the centuries in which the +male principle has dominated, as the one true and only God—the giver +of life, the energizing power of Creation—and the lily and the +Eucharist are both representative of the Female principle.</p> + +<p>Historians mark the beginning of the worship of the <i>One True God</i>, +defined philosophically as the "Monistic" God-idea, from the building +of the tower of Babel, and we may here note in passing that in the +earliest references to this tower, there is no allusion to anything +suggestive of "confusion of tongues." The name unquestionably came +from "babil" meaning "the gate of God." Thus only is its meaning +obvious, and consistent with the worship of the lingam and phallus +which obtained at that time. It is also evident that the phallic +worshippers borrowed the simile of "the gate of God" from the +worshippers of the yoni, who based their claim to truth upon the +indisputable fact, that out of the womb comes the life of plant, and +animal, and man.</p> + +<p>The architecture of, and the inscriptions on, the tower of Babel show +conclusively that it was a<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_42" id="Page_42">[Pg 42]</a></span> monument to the victory of the phallic +worshippers over the yoni, proving that the "one true and only God" +was male. From that time also God has been alluded to as "He," +although in the Oriental countries, and particularly among the Hindus, +we find repeated allusions to the Deity as "The Divine Mother," and +all the higher qualities are spoken of as feminine. It is because of +this fact also, that we note the spread of Oriental religions and +philosophies in this day of Woman's uprising. The Orientals retained +the divinity of the female principle in theory, but not in fact.</p> + +<p>Sex-worship is contemptuously alluded to in modern literature as +"strange and erotic ideas," or words equally condemnatory. But this is +an absurd stand, since nothing could be more natural than that the +mystery of Creative Life should arouse our interest and our wonder; +and it certainly ought to enlist our highest reverence. It becomes +erotic only when men fail to worship in "spirit and in truth," and +when the letter of the ideal survives, and the spirit is ignored. It +becomes not only erotic but destructive when it involves a fight for +supremacy between the male and the female. When the spirit of union +shall prevail, which it must in a perfected world, no higher form of +religious aspiration can be imagined than that in which the miracle of +birth is reverenced and idealized. Then, and not until then, will the +family be what it should be, and Love, the one and only true God, be +worshipped.</p> + +<p>The trinity in unity has been a widespread and<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_43" id="Page_43">[Pg 43]</a></span> persistent part of all +religions, from which fact we may logically infer that this ideal has +a permanent place in the sum of human knowledge. Truth is often +obscured, but it can never be hidden from the eyes that are seeking +the light. The rightful interpretation of those ancient and obscured +truths, erroneously classified as "myths" and "superstitions," will +reveal a universal truth, and will also show their relation to modern +concepts.</p> + +<p>But while we note a vague recognition of the female element in all our +modern religious systems, the general acceptance of the God-idea as +monistic and the gender of this monistic God as masculine betrays the +domination of phallicism over yoni worship and also over that of the +two principles in conjunction—the bi-une Deity. The tree is +universally accepted as an emblem of life-energy. The upright shape of +the tree; the sap which rises at certain periods from invisible +sources; and the fact that the germinal power of the seeds of the +fruits and trees is not destroyed by eating; all combined to make the +tree symbolical of eternal life. The tree is either male or female, +except in certain instances where it is, like the lotus, androgynous, +such for example as the ash, which is the "sacred" tree of +Scandinavia. Wherever a plant or a tree is found to be bi-sexual, it +has been regarded as "sacred." The same idea is found throughout all +myths, and all religious symbolism, namely: <i>the attainment of god-hood</i> +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_44" id="Page_44">[Pg 44]</a></span> +<i>is reached when both sexes are united in one Being.</i></p> + +<p>The fuller meaning of this symbolical idea will be considered in a +subsequent chapter; but for the present we are concerned with the +history of sex-degradation from the pure ideal of nature worship to +that of a monistic God whose gender is masculine. The pine tree, held +sacred in many countries as a symbol of generation, and from which our +own Christmas-tree is descended, is distinctively a male emblem, and +its perennial green typifies the hope of Man that he too may manifest, +in some form of life, the never-failing virility of the pine. The +Latin name for the pine is pinus.</p> + +<p>Thus from nature worship to phallic worship was but a step, but that +step led to others. The pine, from the fact of its erect form; its +spiral convolutions; its sap; its fruit; its renewal of activity; its +root and veins; became a universally accepted emblem of the +life-energy in man and in animals, and the gradual substitution of the +male principle alone, for the androgynous idea as a symbol of Deity +contributed to the idea of the inferiority of woman, until she finally +became the slave and the plaything of man. The "virgin of the +spheres," from her exalted mission as the Eternal Mother of the race, +became at best but a secondary personality, and finally was refused +any part in the symbol of the Holy Trinity.</p> + +<p>Instead of father, mother and child, the Holy Trinity became "Father, +Son and—Holy Ghost."</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_45" id="Page_45">[Pg 45]</a></span>The early Romans must have been devoid of a sense of humor. But what +of our modern Christian creeds, and their idea of the Holy Trinity +composed of three male beings?</p> + +<p>It is in Christian Science alone of all the modern creeds that the +female principle is given a place co-equal with the male. Christian +Science addresses the Deity as "Father-Mother-God," and their +reverence for the woman who established the creed, as well as the +Ionian type of architecture employed in their church edifices, are +evidences of the re-establishment of the female principle in the +God-idea. Christian Science is one of the most important instruments +of the cosmic law in the present-day dethronement of the male +principle as the only true God.</p> + +<p>So permeated with this male God-idea is every branch of our modern +thought; so enwrapped with the glamour of worship, that we hardly +notice the one-sidedness of the ideal. Tradition is a powerful +hypnotist.</p> + +<p>Many members of the Masonic fraternity fail utterly to understand the +symbolical language of their mosques and the phallic and yoni emblems +which constitute their decorations. Notable among these emblems are +the pomegranate; the lotus; the circle; the crescent; the swastika. +The cone-shaped towers, that rise above the mosques, with their +protruding heads, vein-tipped; the central symbol identical with the +mound of Venus; denote the preservation of the Egyptian ideal, which +venerated both sexes as co-equal. It is<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_46" id="Page_46">[Pg 46]</a></span> easy to realize why the Jews +were driven out of Egypt when we remember that they refused to worship +the Egyptian ideal of God as bi-sexual, but persisted in rearing the +phallic symbol alone, denying the female principle a place in the +God-head.</p> + +<p>It is also significant that side by side with the present-day Feminist +Movement we find the revival of Egyptian fashions; Egyptian +architecture; Egyptian philosophies and religions. Even Cubist art, +which in itself could make no possible appeal to recognition on its +artistic merits, has been received with much publicity, if not with +acclaim. Cubist art is a lineal descendant of Egyptian art, and so +closely resembles its far-off ancestry as to seem to have bridged the +centuries and connected us as if by telephone with the days of ancient +civilization. Our drama and our popular songs have responded to the +Egyptian thought-wave. Talismanic jewelry, so essentially Egyptian, is +in vogue, and on every sign board advertising breakfast foods, tobacco +and what not (so essentially an American custom) we find the +modernized use of Egyptian symbols, notably the swastika.</p> + +<p>The swastika, the earliest form of the cross, found in every country +and in every out-of-the-way corner of the globe, is fundamentally, +originally and pre-eminently a bi-une sex symbol, and although volumes +have in recent years been written on its history and meaning, the +whole story may be summed up by examining its form and by +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_47" id="Page_47">[Pg 47]</a></span> +realizing its antiquity and its universality.</p> + +<p>The two sex principles, joined in the center of the four arms or legs, +of the cross, accomplish that which is said (and truthfully if taken +on the physical plane only) to be impossible of accomplishment—they +square the circle. A circle is emblematical of completeness. Aum, the +Absolute, the Omniscient, is always typified by a circle. To "square +the circle" means esoterically to have reached godhood, and this can +be accomplished only by the male and female <i>united</i> in spirit. The +swastika is essentially a bi-une sex symbol although it has been +sometimes called male and sometimes female, according to its shape, +which varies with the various meanings ascribed to it. Primitive man +was not prolific in language, and one symbol expressed many ideas +according to its varied form and position.</p> + +<p>The original form of oath was to swear by the sacred power of the +generative organs, and we may readily conclude that this power was +conceded to be vested in the male only, from the fact that we still +"testify" when under oath and although the Bible has been substituted +for the generative organs, as an outward expression of our recognition +of the Creative Principle, we note that the Bible is made up of +"testaments," which stand for its "sacredness."</p> + +<p>Evidently it was only after the advent of the male God that oaths and +vows and pledges were necessary. Previous to that time, a man's word +was reliable. It was inevitable that an ideal of<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_48" id="Page_48">[Pg 48]</a></span> the Supreme Creative +power of the universe so one-sided, and so lacking in the essential of +union, must degenerate into mere licentiousness and animalism; and it +is estimated that about six hundred years B.C. the level of debauchery +and vileness reigned. So-called religious rites and ceremonies were +nothing more than orgies of sex-degradation.</p> + +<p>The ideal of godhood as nothing higher than masculine virility and +power evidenced by the number of his progeny, naturally reduced woman +to the lowest depths of slavery, since she was nothing more than a +receptacle for man's seed. Of course one wife was insufficient and a +man's claim to divinity was best expressed by profligacy—an ideal +which is rife even today among those, whose consciousness is bounded +by nothing higher than the conception of the animal nature of man.</p> + +<p>Whence came this wonderful thing manifested as generative power? What +did it feed upon? These were natural queries. In seeking the answer +the idea originated that in the blood was to be found the secret of +the generative fluid. This idea arose from the evidence that as old +age conquered man's physical strength, his blood became weakened and +the supply insufficient.</p> + +<p>This was accompanied by a loss of generative activity, and thus, they +argued, the power that made man god-like (the creative energy) left +him. This was indeed a calamity greater than we in this generation +realize, although we know that old<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_49" id="Page_49">[Pg 49]</a></span> age with consequent cessation of +physical vigor is the dread enemy of the undeveloped man. Even our +supposedly advanced thinkers have the absurd idea that sexual-energy +dies with the physical body. The few who have risen to the place where +they realize the truths made plain by soul-consciousness, know that +old age is but physical; that it is the vacation time between the +functions of physical activity and that of the soul-life. Old age is +the wise provision of the Cosmic Law which compels those who will not +do so of their own volition and wisdom, to transmute the life-energy +into higher channels. If the race knew enough to consciously transmute +the creative sex-energy into an interior function, there would come to +pass the time prophecied by St. Paul when Man shall consciously "lay +down his body and take it up again."</p> + +<p>There are spiritually advanced men and women today who can consciously +leave the physical body as they do the house in which they live, while +they visit distant places, annihilating space. To these the body is no +more than a garment. Thus death is overcome and the knowledge attained +that we are souls using a physical body; that death does not in itself +confer upon any one either immortality or youth or love, but that +these may be acquired by acts of virtue and unselfish service—not as +payment or reward for unwilling work, but as the result of unfailing +law, which gives what we demand.</p> + +<p>What we demand we naturally work for. If we<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_50" id="Page_50">[Pg 50]</a></span> serve Love, we get the +coin in which Love pays as naturally as we get the checks signed by +Jones when we work for Jones, and by Smith when we work for Smith.</p> + +<p>Death merely discloses our interior nature. If we have failed to +transmute the life-energy into a love that is deeper than mere animal +instinct; if we have missed the beautiful and the pure and the lofty +idealism of Love, we will find ourselves as age-worn after death as +before the change. But again we may note a wise provision of the +Cosmic Law, for it is almost impossible for a human being to live +through many years of life without having loved some person or some +thing with at least a spark of unselfish love. Fortunately almost +every one is better interiorly than he appears to our limited vision. +The most depraved of mortals has his moments of the higher vision.</p> + +<p>From this deduction of inquiring primitive man, namely that the blood +was the source of procreative virility, it is easy to trace the +logical result in the terrible practise of blood-sacrifice which +reigned so long and which, carried from one nation to another, and +engrafted into the God-idea, has come down to us in the story of the +"sacrificial lamb," at length personified in Jesus, the Son of God, as +a final act of propitiation.</p> + +<p>The blood-atonement idea is naturally repulsive to civilized beings, +and were it not that nearly every one who adheres to the old form of +orthodox Christianity swallows theologic interpretation of the Bible +as he would swallow a dose of<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_51" id="Page_51">[Pg 51]</a></span> castor-oil, by closing his eyes and +holding his nose, the teaching as thus interpreted would be stopped by +police authority. And yet we may readily trace the gradual descent of +the God-idea of the ancients until it reached the culmination in the +idea of sacrifice of a son of God Himself.</p> + +<p>In their blind but eager groping for some means of escape from death, +even as we of this day and generation are groping, the early races +observed that birth was accompanied by blood; that as age came on and +the blood became thin, and in the case of the female ceased to flow at +certain reproductive periods, the power of generation ceased. What +more natural to primitive man than that he should conceive the idea of +sending back to this unknown and invisible power behind the veil of +the sky the blood, which he must need to supply his creative energies? +And when the sacrifice of animals was not sufficient for this God, +they concluded that it must be because he required the blood of man.</p> + +<p>And so at first the old and the sick and the deformed were sacrificed; +but as it was seen that this did not answer the need, they began to +sacrifice the young, and naturally the slaves were substituted for the +aged, as affording more blood; and when this failed the idea came, +that the sacrifice must be that of one who was innocent of the world, +and so they selected a girl or a young man, who had been secluded and +trained to the thought of sacrifice, and in whom the sex-function had +been rigorously suppressed.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_52" id="Page_52">[Pg 52]</a></span>And still the old grew bloodless and death claimed his toll, and so +they conceived the idea of voluntary blood-sacrifice, and we read of +repeated occasions in which fanatical ones offered themselves freely +on the sacrificial altars as atonement for the sins of their people. +At length this contagion of sacrifice consummated in the idea that the +only Son of God Himself became a voluntary offering to pay the final +debt of transgression and set men free from death, that they might +have eternal life, which to them meant life in the physical body.</p> + +<p>It is not at all possible that Jesus had any such idea of his mission. +He was far too illumined for that, even judging from the meager +accounts which we have of his life and message. But when the story of +his mission on earth came to be told and retold the idea of +blood-sacrifice as <i>payment</i> for the privilege of physical virility, +so implanted in the race-thought from centuries of such belief, could +not die immediately, and thus it reaches us today adown the centuries +and is re-told (though we trust not believed) in most of the Christian +churches in this civilized century.</p> + +<p>And yet there is an esoteric truth underlying this universal idea of +sacrifice, and when we come to this in a subsequent chapter, we will +better understand how and why it has persisted throughout the +centuries.</p> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_53" id="Page_53">[Pg 53]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_III" id="CHAPTER_III"></a>CHAPTER III</h2> + +<h2>PRESENT-DAY CONDITIONS: THE COSMIC CAUSE</h2> + + +<p>From the study of ancient sex-worship to our twentieth century systems +of religion; our scientific discoveries; our intellectual standards of +philosophy and social ethics; and above all, perhaps, our marvelous +commercial order, connecting, as it does, the entire globe, seems a +far cry; but it is only another link in a chain and fits into the past +as accurately and as inevitably as the morning follows the night.</p> + +<p>There is an erroneous idea current that public institutions, such as +law-courts, religious creeds, educational systems, reform movements, +et cetera, are causes of race-advancement. As a matter of fact they +are not causes but results. They do not determine progress; they +reflect it.</p> + +<p>Causes start from the Center and radiate outward. We may realize this +more readily if we will remember that if we throw a pebble into a pool +of water, it starts innumerable little waves which traveling outward, +reach a point some distance from the central source, and if we were to +see the outermost wavelet only, we might imagine that the disturbance +begins and ends far from the place where the pebble was thrown.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_54" id="Page_54">[Pg 54]</a></span>This illustration explains the difference between the materialistic +and the metaphysical points of view. The former notes the result, and +the latter the cause of existing conditions. The mystical viewpoint +takes into account the fact that there is a cosmic law which acts like +a tidal-wave. Materialists call the action of this law "Evolution," +assuming that its impetus comes from our physical activities. It is, +in fact, from the Center or spiritual source of life that all power, +all evolution, emanates. The spiritual is the intensity of power; the +physical is the attenuated.</p> + +<p>The term, "spiritual realms" suggests to the average mind a vaporous +space where nothing happens; yet it requires only a little intelligent +reflection to establish the fact that, as Paracelsus said long ago, +"The mind is the workshop in which all visible life is formed." Our +mental operations are silently, invisibly, carried on, and yet we see +the effect of these silent plans and ideas in our noisy methods of +locomotion; our architecture; our commerce—in all the avenues of our +active civilization.</p> + +<p>We wish to emphasize the point that every so-called advancement; every +discovery; every improvement in moral ideals as well as in mechanics, +and in those things that add to our physical comfort, comes from the +center of Life.</p> + +<p>The external but <i>reflects</i> the action of the Cosmic Law which +uncovers the vast areas of consciousness and frees the human soul from the +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_55" id="Page_55">[Pg 55]</a></span> +hypnotisms, and the limitations of the animal-mind.</p> + +<p>Animal force is still strong in the world to-day, but it is not as +strong as it appears to be, because much of the seeming indifference +and cold-heartedness of the people, taken en masse, is due to the +hurried, feverish and insistent demands of our external life.</p> + +<p>Underneath the surface, in the realm of the sub-conscious activities, +there is developing the spirit of unity; of sympathy; and a +consciousness of our innate relationship. This realization comes to +the surface in times of great stress and peril.</p> + +<p>The whole trend of modern life symbolizes or reflects the <i>ideal</i> of +unity, albeit the tooth and claw and growl of the animal in Man may be +seen and felt and heard in the vain effort to postpone the inevitable +dethronement of the animal force, which would dominate the weaker and +appropriate for the personal self, the creation of brain and hand, +much as the house-dog, satiated with over-feeding, buries the bone he +cannot eat lest some hungry brother-dog shall get it. Nevertheless, +despite the animal greed that still shows in our modern life, there is +plenty of evidence that we are on the upward spiral that leads to +unity—the effect of love.</p> + +<p>The superficial observer, dominated by that instinct of fear which +seems to be so ingrained in our animal nature that we are all slaves +to it in some form or degree, sees in the present-day conditions a +menace to what he believes to be the<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_56" id="Page_56">[Pg 56]</a></span> moral life of the race, and +particularly as these conditions apply to the modern woman.</p> + +<p>He sees women coming out of the seclusion of their "rightful sphere" +and meeting men on terms of equality. He sees what he terms "immodest +dress;" defiance of traditional ideas of etiquette and conduct; he +notes what appears to be a disregard for the faith of our fathers; +and, above all, a distaste for that special function of +woman—child-bearing. The superficial observer, both male and female, +feels great alarm.</p> + +<p>But let us not be dismayed. Present day conditions, particularly as +they relate to the female principle of Creation, but reflect the +inevitable reaction from a one-sided course. The pendulum swings back +again and ultimately we will strike a balance; from domination to +unity; from struggle to harmony. Even American commercial life admits +the value of a vacation time.</p> + +<p>Present day conditions, then, are not chaotic or lacking in a +well-defined purpose, even though they are unsettled. Anything that +disturbs the seeming placidity of the surface always strikes alarm to +the undeveloped mind. Particularly in those phases of our modern life +which directly affect women, or in which we may say, the Female +Principle is especially concerned, we note a determined and united +demand for freedom.</p> + +<p>Woman's demand for political equality is but a shadowgraph as it were +of the real demand which is the demand of the Divine Feminine +throughout all manifested life, for recognition of equality, in +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_57" id="Page_57">[Pg 57]</a></span> +the plan of creation. It is a symbol of the ideal of unity which finds +expression in the commercial world in trusts and labor unions; in the +"let us get together" plea of the various advocates of reform; of all +those enterprises which are seen to most directly affect the entire +human family.</p> + +<p>That there are women who are blind to this fundamental idea of their +demand for political equality is true; and it is also true that there +are perhaps as many men as there are women who recognize the need of +woman's political and social equality, but this only proves the fact +which we have already emphasized, namely that it is not women as +personalities, but the Female Principle throughout the universe that +is at the root of the modern Feminist Movement. The male principle is +not confined to the form of man, neither is the female principle +always expressed in the form of woman. Many men exemplify more of the +maternal instinct than do certain women; neither must it be assumed +that this type of man is effeminate; or that the woman of Amazonian +physique is more masculine in thought and habit than is the little +frou-frou specimen of womankind who looks appealingly into the eyes of +her male escort, beseeching protection from the rude stares which she +has premeditatedly invited. Qualities are sexless and universal. It is +only in their specific combinations that they adequately represent the +masculine or the feminine gender.</p> + + +<p>Blessed are they who have learned the art of discrimination.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_58" id="Page_58">[Pg 58]</a></span>Broadly speaking, women are behaving in a manner which upsets all +precedent and promises ultimate emancipation from restraint.</p> + +<p>But is it not possible that women no longer need restraint if they +ever needed it? Is it not possible that the world has grown up, and +that both men and women may safely be allowed the freedom of +self-government, with all possible mutual aid in the work of +establishing an upright, free, and trustworthy science of right +living?</p> + +<p>That which is always in the future is never ours and if we are ever +going to be free and happy and well-conditioned there is no reason why +we should not make it soon.</p> + +<p>Woman's demand for political equality is sometimes used as an excuse +to lessen her dignity and her place in society. People who do this are +of the same type as those before whom Sex cannot be discussed +intelligently because they do not realize the sacredness of Sex. They +are a remnant of the ages which have passed and which have left their +mark, in the idea of a half-sexed God, the "He," the spouseless Father +who brought forth the visible universe apparently without co-operation +with the Female Principle. This type of person prates much about the +dangers of race-suicide, meaning thereby the increasing tendency to +childlessness and not as should be taken into account the death rate +among children who are born of diseased and unfit parents and brought +into existence without the necessary conditions of sanitation, food +and care.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_59" id="Page_59">[Pg 59]</a></span>Our national Eugenic societies are hampered by false ideas of what +constitutes morality, being bound to uphold the tradition that the +child that is born of married parents, no matter how diseased in body +and deficient in mind, is better-born than is the offspring of +unmarried parents, even though the latter may be a model of physical +health and mental efficiency. Eugenics will remain limited in scope +until such time as the entire world adopts "in spirit and in truth" +the recent action of the European governments, and recognizes the +legitimacy of all children however born.</p> + +<p>And although the action of the European governments was born of +nothing more humane than a war expediency in order that more soldiers +might be bred, yet the effect of such a course will benefit the human +race. It has at least set a precedent, and will in time be extended to +all children born out of wedlock and will wipe out forever the cruel +and unjust stigma that has attached to the child of unmarried parents. +Thus it will be seen that even war has its good results, and although +it seems a terrible price to pay for even so badly a needed reform as +this, Humanity has always paid dearly for its willful blindness. It +certainly should be evident to any sane mind that every child that is +born into this world has a moral and a legal right to be here. +Whatever may be said for or against parents, it is wicked stupidity to +brand an innocent child with the epithet "illegitimate." The lowest +animal has a right to be born.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_60" id="Page_60">[Pg 60]</a></span> +Many a beautiful and innocent child is denied that right.</p> + +<p>If it has taken one of the most bloody wars in history to establish +the right of birth, even so the struggle will not have been in vain, +because this right, once established in the hearts of all Humanity, +will forever do away with warfare. No doubt this assertion will sound +far-fetched to many, but the future will see the vindication of this +belief.</p> + +<p>Birth is actually the most important function in life. If it is +immoral to be born, no matter what the conditions of such birth, what +possible chance have we to live morally? We cannot discriminate in +dealing with the great fundamentals of life.</p> + +<p>This truism, applies to all cosmic action. Nature's laws are +inviolable. Nature says that the child of the king and the child of +the beggar shall be born in the self-same way. The child of the +unmarried mother and the child of the married mother come into the +world in accordance with the self-same law of reproduction. Nature may +not be always polite, but she is always truthful.</p> + +<p>As long as there is any question of the "legitimacy" of any birth, +Humanity as a whole cannot be otherwise than inferior, because +Humanity cannot rise higher than the ideal of the average. Moreover we +are so interdependent that the whole must be affected by the +conditions of a part.</p> + +<p>Birth is right, or it is wrong. It cannot be right under some +circumstances and wrong under others. The primal laws do not take into +account our ideas of respectability.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_61" id="Page_61">[Pg 61]</a></span>The question then arises: "Are we to consider it moral and legitimate +for women to have children before they have been married?"</p> + +<p>The obvious answer to this question is, that the mother must be +permitted to decide this for herself, since no one has a right to do +it for her. Our right of interference in so intimate a matter must +begin only at the point where her conduct injures us. If an unmarried +woman chooses to give birth to a child, neither you nor I, nor Society +is injured, not even if the child becomes a charge of the state, +because the cost of maintaining a child is far less than that of +maintaining insane asylums and penitentiaries—both of which result +from our mistaken attitude toward the sex-relation.</p> + +<p>If we are permitted to answer the question of morality and legitimacy +by generalities, we will say that any child that comes into the world +<i>desired by the mother</i> is born in accordance with the highest +possible concept of the moral law. Whenever Society, Church and +Governments shall unite to wipe out the stain upon mother and child +because of failure to comply with our marriage laws, a better race of +men and women will people the earth, because the race-thought will be +one of welcome with all that word implies; whereas at the present +time, under our undeveloped ideas of morality, doubt, suspicion, and +condemnation prevail, with all that these words imply.</p> + +<p>When all mothers are honored all women will be willing to be mothers.</p> + +<p>As long as dishonor attaches to any instance of<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_62" id="Page_62">[Pg 62]</a></span> motherhood, it is +inevitable that motherhood will be avoided, even to the point of +child-murder. Not that this practice is confined to the women who +would be dishonored by becoming mothers. It obtains rather more +perhaps among those women whose wealth and ease would seem to make +motherhood desirable. Judging from surface conditions only, one might +not see the connection. But that is the trouble with our modern life. +We do not look deeply enough to deal intelligently with causes. We are +always seeking to check effects.</p> + +<p>The average human being is little more than a phonographic record of +the dominant race-thought, and race-thought ideas are contagious.</p> + +<p>Let us honor and provide for all mothers and all children and we will +find that the birthrate will increase among the "rich and +respectable," where now we note a determined desire to shirk the +responsibilities of parenthood.</p> + +<p>We need not fear that the number of unmarried mothers will be +alarming. The first aid to true morality is honesty. Monogamy is the +ideal relationship between men and women. But enforced relationships +are neither ideal nor true. Ideal conditions can be established only +between free human beings. Compulsion is death. Selection and choice +mean life and health.</p> + +<p>The man or the woman who is free, and particularly free from +self-condemnation, is instinctively monogamous. Life in all its phases +tends upward toward conscious and specific selection. Conscious +selection must include love, and we may safely<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_63" id="Page_63">[Pg 63]</a></span> trust love. Love is +inseparable from truth and fidelity. Without love, all the efforts of +all the Eugenic Societies on earth will accomplish little, however +well-meant their efforts. Eugenists confine their work to the physical +aspect of the subject and as a matter of expediency deal with the +effects of marriage and race-propagation in their relation to disease +and degeneracy, ignoring the esoteric phase of the subject. Thus no +real good can come of the Eugenic movement per se. Its contribution to +Progress consists in its value as an "announcer" of a higher <i>ideal</i>, +rather than a higher <i>order</i>. The higher order can come only by +getting back to primal laws.</p> + +<p>The fact should not be overlooked that the ancient Greeks were +competent Eugenists. They effected wonderful results, too, in two +important points of the well-balanced individual. They worked for +beauty and intellect, both desirable adjuncts to a perfect race, but +both also as cold as the marble statues which Greece gave to the +world. Greek and Roman civilization toppled and fell because it was a +civilization without foundation; it was built from the outside; it was +like an old ruined house encased in a thin wall of beautiful marble, +and set upon a high hill. It deceives the eye from a distance, but +freezes the blood and congeals the soul when intimately known.</p> + +<p>Greek and Roman civilization, based upon physical Eugenics, was +unbalanced and could not endure, because it was a civilization of +force; of dominance rather than of unity. There was no<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_64" id="Page_64">[Pg 64]</a></span> ideal of +sex-equality, and therefore Love was regarded as the least important +requisite in Eugenic marriage. It should be obvious that without the +element of love, as the basis of selection, human reproduction must +take on the same status as stock-breeding, which may for a time give +the finest physical specimens of animal life, but which, if persisted +in, finally results in decadence.</p> + +<p>We have an example of the tendency to decadence from in-breeding of +those types of humans which have the best advantages at least of +education and refinement, whether or not those advantages are +embraced. We refer to Royalty. We need only mention the illustrious +example of Cleopatra to prove this. Cleopatra was the offspring of a +marriage between a brother and sister—a custom which prevailed among +ancient rulers to insure none but royal blood. Cleopatra we may well +believe was both beautiful and intellectual, but it is also certain +that she was abnormally lacking in conscience, in tenderness, in love. +Her passions were those of the animal, and not of the soul.</p> + +<p>In modern life, Spain and Austria both furnish discouraging data to +exponents of "select" breeding. In fact it is thoroughly established +that degeneracy is not the result of imperfect physical conditions +only. The greatest villians are not infrequently both handsome and +intellectual.</p> + +<p>Bulwer Lytton well illustrates this fact in his character of +"Margrave" in "A Strange Story." Margrave was a perfect and beautiful physical +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_65" id="Page_65">[Pg 65]</a></span> +specimen. He possessed rare intelligence, but he had no soul +and was utterly incapable of the finer sensibilities, which we +instinctively classify as spiritual attributes.</p> + +<p>Returning to a consideration of what has been termed the "unusual +behavior" of the feminine half of mankind, we find that the chief end +and aim of many women centers upon the problem of how to avoid +maternity, quite upsetting traditional ideas regarding woman's +rightful sphere, which began and ended in rearing a large family.</p> + +<p>Women in all walks of life, rich and poor, wise and frivolous, selfish +and unselfish—are refusing to bear children. The superficial observer +rails against this, because he sees only the effect. He sees women +living in fashionable hotels, if they are rich enough to afford it; if +they are poor they establish a cheap imitation of this phase of +semi-communal life in what is paradoxically known as "light" +housekeeping, usually represented by one small dark room where the +nearest delicatessen serves as a convenience, the public laundry +minimizes domestic labor, and the department store supplies ready +made, the family clothing, from undergarments to top coats. Under +these conditions, whether of fashionable hotel suites or dark "light +housekeeping," it is plain that children are not welcome.</p> + +<p>Even those of the class found between these extremes are discouraged +from rearing children, since city life tends more and more to +apartments as a substitute for the home; and no well regulated +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_66" id="Page_66">[Pg 66]</a></span> +apartment house is open to children. The average observer, as we say, +notes these conditions, but fails to realize that there must be a +cosmic cause for a condition so wide-spread. There must be "something +back of it," as we say of many things which we note in our every day +life. Looked at from the surface only, these conditions seem +deplorable and ultimately race-suicidal. But the cosmic law is always +upward in tendency. We may safely trust it, if we will.</p> + +<p>This does not mean that the conscious motive which actuates the +average woman, who is able physically and financially to bear children +and yet will not, is a high and noble one. The law deals with the +planet, not directly with the individual; it acts upon the developed +and the undeveloped with equal impartiality, even as the rain falls +upon the just and the unjust alike.</p> + +<p>Spiritually conscious persons realize the necessity for a change in +human ethics. The world is in need of a more exalted ideal; an ideal +in which equality shall be more nearly represented and they give +themselves consciously to the task of assisting in this regenerating +work.</p> + +<p>The difference is not in the law itself, but in our comprehension of +it. The curriculum of the school of life is unchanged. We graduate +from it or we return for another term, according as we have mastered +the studies. Applying this truth to the conditions just stated, and we +see that this rebellion on the part of woman against child birth has +two aspects. One is from apparent selfishness<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_67" id="Page_67">[Pg 67]</a></span> and lack of the +temperamental quality, which has erroneously been attributed to women +as an exclusive possession, namely, the maternal instinct.</p> + +<p>The other aspect of woman's disinclination to maternity is due to a +restless, vague but nevertheless determined desire on the part of the +Feminine Principle, to wait until conditions are more equal. Sometimes +we find women, who are perfectly awake and consciously aware of the +cause of their "brazen sterility," as a virile writer has caustically +termed it; but more often the conscious mental attitude is lacking and +they merely obey blindly the dominant race-mind.</p> + +<p>Women know much more in the depths of their souls than they can put +into words. A part of this knowledge is the fact that child-bearing is +not a function limited to the physical, the mortal plane of life. +Every woman who is anywhere near balanced in the struggle for +completeness knows intuitively, that even though she may never beget +mortal children, there are innumerable opportunities for the exercise +of her maternal functions, awaiting her just behind the veil, which +seemingly separates us from invisible areas. <ins class="correction" title="original reads 'Morever'">Moreover</ins> motherhood is +qualitative. It is not synonymous with maternity. It is not made nor +unmade by the birthrate.</p> + +<p>Two important considerations present themselves to the world today: +One is that woman—considered as the fecund receptive +sex-principle—is refusing the sex relationship on the old basis, +however "respectable" and well-intentioned that<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_68" id="Page_68">[Pg 68]</a></span> basis was. Generally +speaking, it is evident that the old basis of intercourse between the +sexes has been, is being, and will continue to be, disrupted, denied, +refused, as the approved and fixed plan and purpose of Destiny. The +other important observation is this: there is a cosmic cause for this.</p> + +<p>It is only those who are blinded by prejudice or by sense-conscious +limitations who refuse to look below the surface for the cause of a +condition so general as that of unhappy marriages; of innumerable +divorces; of the refusal to bear children. What is the cause? Why are +women refusing to marry, or when they do marry refusing to live with +their husbands? Why do they shrink from child-birth? Are they less +courageous than their progenitors? Or are women less capable of +love—either love of children or love of the father who begets the +children?</p> + +<p>It will be agreed that we are establishing a higher standard of love +than ever before in history. We are beginning to realize for the first +time in the history of many generations, what we owe to the future. +Formerly men built entirely for self, and for the immediate present. +We can look back and trace the development of a race consciousness +from the clan to the nation. In this century we see the barriers +between races and nations and sects and societies, as also between the +sexes, slowly dissolving.</p> + +<p>Only a few years ago we could not imagine an Oriental, occupying a +political, or educational or<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_69" id="Page_69">[Pg 69]</a></span> religions platform with an Occidental. +Now it is a common thing. We know the hostility which has existed +between the Jew and the Gentile—now they exchange pulpits, and all +sects and all nations unite in matters of world interest. Women are +elected to political and educational offices. No matter that these +evidences of unity are as yet incomplete. They are <i>promises</i> of the +birth of a larger concept of love than that which prevailed when a +man's highest idea of honor and of love was to protect his immediate +family only; to care for his own legal wife and children even at the +expense of and certainly with heartless indifference to the fate of +any other women and children.</p> + +<p>To be sure, this protection has often been vouchsafed because of the +self interest which is inseparable from the idea of possession and is +not, per se, a grander or nobler impulse than that which actuated our +hair-clothed antecedents, who found that their own lives were best +conserved by respecting those nearest to them. But thus it is that +Love has been implanted in human hearts through no higher or more +altruistic method than that of self-interest; but the nature of love +is to expand; to grow; to <i>give</i> of itself until unselfishness must +come with the final aim of love, which is <i>unity</i> and not possession.</p> + +<p>We of this era are unquestionably manifesting a larger and more +inclusive ideal of love, and since the Female Principle conserves the +higher aspects of love, we are bound to concede that a higher ideal of +love is possible to the woman of<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_70" id="Page_70">[Pg 70]</a></span> today than ever before. We must take +into consideration the average of the sex, at the same time not +forgetting that in the highest type of individual, the qualities of +both sexes are balanced, uniting the spiritual, self-sacrificing and +unselfish love-element of the female principle, with the wider scope, +the inclusive element of the male. Let us remember that we are dealing +with principles and not merely with individuals.</p> + +<p>Admitting that it is not because of lack of love, either maternal or +conjugal, that women are shirking marriage and maternity, we may then +ask: "What is the cause?" The answer may be found in the conclusion +that women are done with mere instinctive procreation. They demand +conditions consistent with the birth of a higher type of human-kind. +They desire to "make right the way" for the coming of the perfect +race—a race that will not snarl and bite and growl and tear and claw +and choke and starve and freeze and otherwise kill each other over the +possession of bones.</p> + +<p>Ever and ever we have been promised the coming of the perfect man—the +"man-god," as Emerson said. This means the God in Man consciously +active, and awake. This God-nature of Man's has been asleep, submerged +under the domination of the animal nature which subdues and +appropriates.</p> + +<p>A race of supermen can be born only of full and complete union. +Animals reproduce their kind, but man's perogative is to invite the gods +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_71" id="Page_71">[Pg 71]</a></span> +to come to earth. We may consciously beget souls, not merely +reproduce bodies. Women are demanding a union in which there shall be +something more than mere physical contact resulting in reproduction. +This demand is working itself out more or less blindly according to +the development of individual women, but the ideal of soul union is +coming to be more and more recognized not only as a desirable type of +union, but also as the initiative of the promised time when the +kingdom of God should come on earth as it is in the heavens.</p> + +<p>All races have uttered this prayer, apparently with a firm belief in +its efficacy. If they have not faith in its appeal, it were surely +vain and foolish to voice it But we are assured that "God always keeps +his promises," which is simply one way of saying that the law of the +cosmos is reliable.</p> + +<p>"One calls it Evolution and another calls it God," but both must agree +that whether God or Evolution be the name, Love is the result. There +can be no higher or more spiritual phase of life than that in which +Love is an ever-present reality. Neither can we with any degree of +logic assume that a function so universal, so all-pervading, and also +so inspiring, as that of Sex, has its beginning and its termination on +the physical plane—a manifestation of life which even physicists are +bound to concede is an infinitesimal part of cosmic activities.</p> + +<p>We need not worry therefore lest the race shall die, because of a +decreasing birthrate as we see it<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_72" id="Page_72">[Pg 72]</a></span> on the physical plane. There are +many other places and planes of consciousness. The stars and the +planets are peopled. The cosmos is very much alive, because Sex is the +axis (X-is) upon which it rotates in perfect harmony.</p> + +<p>The fact which we here wish to emphasize is that the Female Principle +is refusing maternity, and above all the <i>bondage</i> of matrimony for +the important reason that the time has come for the rearing of the +Man-god; for the establishment of the spiritual function of sex, +superceding the mere instinctive animal urge of procreation and sense +gratification.</p> + +<p>Evolution is apparent in all other phases of our life-activities. Why +should it not manifest in this most important of all our systems of +intercourse?</p> + +<p>The mere act of bringing forth children is not in itself either sacred +or holy. Far more often it has been a perfunctory duty or a punishment +for indulgence in an act of which men and women have been more than +half ashamed, even while seeking it with the instinctive urge of a +cosmic law which cannot be escaped, although it may be co-operated +with to advantage.</p> + +<p>Nor does the act of giving birth to children confer true motherhood. +Maternity is not necessarily motherhood any more than matrimony is +always marriage. There are many mothers who have never borne children. +And there are many women with children who know not the first faint +dawn of that wonderful, beautiful and intense (because spiritual) love +which comes most often in<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_73" id="Page_73">[Pg 73]</a></span> the guise of motherhood, but which is +always present when two souls who are truly mated contact each other's +inner nature.</p> + +<p>If the women of today will insist upon the sacredness and the +rightfulness of birth the women of tomorrow will not seek to evade +motherhood. If the women of today will establish the sacredness of all +life; if they will not rest until every child that is born into this +world is recognized as legitimate and more, is welcomed; is given +every advantage of education, of healthful body, of right moral +training, rest assured that the women of the future will seek only to +rival each other in the quality and the perfection of their +motherhood.</p> + +<p>The efforts of many radicals to enact legislation regulating the +birthrate, the struggle to disseminate knowledge of how to prevent +conception, may be well meant as these things are consistent with +prevailing conditions. But they are not the final answer to the +problem. Love is the only answer. Where love is permitted to rule, +children are not only welcome but ecstatically desired and provided +for.</p> + +<p>Motherhood is a hope and a joy to the normal woman. Comparatively +every woman would be normal under proper social and economic +conditions. When women seek to evade maternity it is either because of +lack of sufficient means to care for children, or it is because of +lack of sufficient love. Or it is because of fear of that modern +mo-loch, Public Opinion.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_74" id="Page_74">[Pg 74]</a></span>When a woman truly loves a man, she longs to be the mother of his +children. A balanced world will make it possible for every woman to be +free from the bondage of fear and poverty, and ill-health, leaving her +free to be guided in the most vital and important function of her +life, by the call of the highest love of which she is capable. Love +will establish motherhood as a divine privilege. Certainly no other +power on earth or in the realms above can do so. Neither preachments +nor platitudes, nor punishments, nor legislative blunderings. Love is +the only saviour of mankind. There is no other true God.</p> + +<p>Some day the symbol of Deity which now depicts Man crucified will be +superseded upon all altars by the image of a winged babe, and when +this comes to pass, Humanity will rise to that ideal.</p> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_75" id="Page_75">[Pg 75]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_IV" id="CHAPTER_IV"></a>CHAPTER IV</h2> + + +<h2>THE HISTORY OF MARRIAGE AND MATING</h2> + + +<p>Any attempt to discuss subjects pertaining to the sex-relation with +intelligence and an optimistic outlook is handicapped by the fact that +sex-problems are so intimately associated with religious prejudices, +reasons for which we have already mentioned in the chapter devoted to +sex-worship and sex-degradation.</p> + +<p>It is possible, therefore, that in seeking to define freedom and to +make a plea for the freeing of women and men from the "bonds" of +matrimony, we may be accused of seeking to demolish with one blow, so +to speak, the social institution of marriage.</p> + +<p>Such is not the intention of the present writer, for reasons which are +based upon something far more noteworthy than a concession to the +prejudices and "beliefs" of the average.</p> + +<p>Luther Burbank has said: "In pursuing any of the everlasting and +fundamental laws of nature, all previous bias and inherited prejudices +must be laid aside, if the student hopes to be taken into Nature's +confidence and be the sharer of her secrets."</p> + +<p>The average person, entrenched behind the bulwark<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_76" id="Page_76">[Pg 76]</a></span> +of theological bias, saturated with a belief in the finality of all previous +discovery and knowledge, teems with a fanatical desire to "defend his +God"—as if the Supreme Power, whatever name we give it—were not +capable of self-defense.</p> + +<p>It is due to this mistaken zeal on the part of the short-sighted ones, +that human evolution is slow, albeit it is likewise inevitable.</p> + +<p>They are like those who, viewing the wrecking of a ruined habitation, +condemned by the Board of Public Safety, try to stop the process of +the workers; they do not know that when the ground shall have been +cleared, a finer, more sightly, and above all, more habitable building +will be put up on the same ground; and anything from the old +architecture that was worthy of preservation will be used in the new +building.</p> + +<p>The dug-outs of our antedeluvian ancestors were designed to protect +them from the destructive forces of storm and wave and also from their +brothers, the enemy; and although our ideas of what constitutes a +desirable dwelling-place have evolved to our modern ideal of a home, +rather than a shelter, yet the fundamental concept remains. A study of +history should be encouraging if only to prove that no radical changes +in human ethics have ever been forced upon us. Verily, the "gods wait +upon men" and until there is something like a concerted demand for +improved conditions, they stand just outside the door waiting to be +bidden, "Enter, Friend."</p> + +<p>As with mental ideas, so it is with ethical ideals.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_77" id="Page_77">[Pg 77]</a></span> +Until there is a more general demand for a higher concept of marriage, it is quite +certain that the world will worry along with the one which now does +duty for the majority, although it must be admitted that the poor +thing gives evidence of much decrepitude and suffers from as many +complaints as a hypochondriac.</p> + +<p>But, the fact that marriage in some form has prevailed as one of the +fundamental necessities of human ethics, ever since the beginning of +recorded history, and doubtless before that, is, we believe, very +satisfactory evidence that marriage has a permanent place in social +and individual evolution. What that place is, can be deduced from a +study of the history of marriage.</p> + +<p>There are two different viewpoints from which we may discuss all +phases of Life, namely, the mystical and the ethical. The mystic sees +all life from the inside, as it were; and the physicist studies the +exterior, the appearance. To the mystic, the visible, or external, +world is a succession of symbols, which he must interpret. To him, the +everlasting and fundamental truths of the Cosmos are told in a +succession of moving pictures. In fact, the mystic has long +anticipated the art which we now see manifested in our film-theatres +and has realized that the scenes, which appear to the eye as actual +events, are but the reflection of scenes enacted in a place far +distant and long before the moment of projection upon the screen which +meets his eye.</p> + +<p>Science examines, dissects, and classifies these<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_78" id="Page_78">[Pg 78]</a></span> +symbols according to their relation to other symbols which the mind has previously noted +and classified. The same conclusion awaits both Science and Mysticism.</p> + +<p>Humanity is ever seeking the Reality—the Noumenon, which we +intuitively postulate as behind the phenomena of Nature.</p> + +<p>The institution of marriage, coming down to us through all the ages, +side by side with the mystery of sex, and incorporated with the +sex-mystery into every form and system of religious rites and +ceremonials among all peoples, would seem to have a place in human +ethics, as substantial and as permanent as the germ of life itself.</p> + +<p>Indeed, the institution of marriage, in its first stages of evolution, +obtains in the animal kingdom, where selection in a great variety of +forms is common.</p> + +<p>And it must be confessed that here we find the same tendency to change +and variation, both in regard to the individual and the family +species, as we have in the human family.</p> + +<p>Polyandry, polygamy, and monogamy, have been general among some +animals while among others only one form of mating has been the rule.</p> + +<p>Strange to say, sex promiscuity is not at all general among the +animals, though polygamy is common. The adoption of polygamy is +obviously due to one of two things, or possibly, to be more specific, +to both. First, because the percentage of deaths among the males is +greater than among the females; this applies to animal life, both wild and +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_79" id="Page_79">[Pg 79]</a></span> +domestic. In wild life, because of frequent combats; in domestic +life, because the females are kept for breeding while the males are +slaughtered for food.</p> + +<p>The second reason is because the female is seldom as virile as the +male, and to this is also added the debilitating effect of bearing and +rearing the young, the necessity for which must have manifested itself +very early among the various families, from motives of +self-protection, if from nothing higher, since victory evidently +favored the numerically strong.</p> + +<p>In bird-life, especially, where love is so vital a part of their life, +and so beautifully expressed, monogamy is the rule, and in some +species, like that of the robin, a certain aristocracy seems to exist, +preventing intercourse with any other family. The robin will mate only +with a robin, and not infrequently mates for life; which is to say +that should one die, the other refuses to mate again.</p> + +<p>It is claimed that the bald-headed eagle never varies from monogamy. A +mate once chosen, the union lasts until the death of either partner. +It does not follow from this, however, that the bald-headed eagle is a +creature of a superior moral conscience. It may be that he is guided +in his selection of a conjugal mate by an intuitional power +undeveloped by other types of life, or, which is far more probable, it +may be that his sexual nature is easily satisfied and that he has no +temperamental affinities or repulsions, in which<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_80" id="Page_80">[Pg 80]</a></span> +event force of habit would be the strongest actuating power. This explanation is in keeping +with the eagle character.</p> + +<p>The point is that marriage, or what constitutes marriage, exists among +birds and animals, and that it antedates history as a social +institution among men. Another fact which we must concede, if we are +just, is that marriage apparently knows no systematic and upward +trend. There is, in fact, no determined evolution toward a definite +and conclusive practice of monogamy, although the monogamic custom is +recognized as the evolutionary type among the civilized races of +today. Nevertheless, it would be folly to imply that a strict monogamy +obtains in the letter of the word, or that social exigencies might not +reinstate polygamy as a legalized custom.</p> + +<p>Passing over those forms of mating, which may be classed as +sex-promiscuity, such, for example, as exist among the Esquimaux, and +also among the Dyaks, of Borneo, where a "contract" is made for a +night by the simple expediency of the man and the woman exchanging +head-gear, we come to one of the earliest and most general forms of +marriage among primitive peoples, where the parents arranged a +marriage between their children for reasons of personal profit. In +these instances, neither the youth nor the girl was consulted and +generally did not meet until they met to consummate the marriage. In +fact, they seemed not to have any preferences. These marriages were +easily broken, unless children resulted therefrom, +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_81" id="Page_81">[Pg 81]</a></span> +when there seems to have developed a sense of obligation to the +offspring to continue the family.</p> + +<p>Marriage by capture grew out of the matriarchal system and came as the +very natural revolt of the male from the female rule, in which he had +no rights and no home with his spouse. Since the gens of the family +was the first consideration and this was maintained by the female +heads of a clan, there was nothing left for the male to do, if he +would be a factor in the community, but to steal his wife from her +family, and establish a family life of his own. Thus the female became +the possession of the male, by his right of capture and defense.</p> + +<p>Inspired by the thirst for further invasions, the male gradually +acquired not only one, but many wives, which constituted his +"possessions," from the fact that he had earned them by right of +conquest, conquest being not only the savage but also the civilized +idea of "earning."</p> + +<p>Indeed, our modern marriages reveal a degree of savagery in this +respect, which is not suspected by the casual observer. The almost +general observance of what has come to be known in legal jurisprudence +as "the unwritten law," which permits a man to go unpunished when he +kills another man whom he believes to have been on terms of intimacy +with his wife, is a tacit admission of a man's vested rights in his +wife's person.</p> + +<p>In innumerable instances, which have been given world-wide publicity +within very recent times, the man who has been guilty of homicide under these +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_82" id="Page_82">[Pg 82]</a></span> +circumstances has been exalted to the plane of a +martyr-hero, and one woman writer, whose hysterical effusions are +given considerable space in the public print, defended a man who had +taken advantage of this "unwritten law" to shoot his rival, in the +following words: "You, Mister, would shoot a man whom you found +prowling through your house with the intention of stealing your +silver; your jewelry; your property of whatever kind or value. How +much more, then, should you guard the honor of your wife, from these +pestilential marauders?"</p> + +<p>Of course we question the right of human beings to kill each other in +defense of mere property; but that is not the point here. The +inference here is obvious that this woman, who represents at least the +average degree of intelligence, placed her sex in the category of +man's possessions, utterly ignoring the woman's right, or power of +free-will.</p> + +<p>Mention is here made of this incident to show how deeply rooted is the +possessive idea of marriage, which had its origin in nothing more +ideal than the animal instinct of the dog with the bone.</p> + +<p>Nor would we give the impression that this one-sided idea of what +constitutes a monogamous marriage is confined to the male. The same +idea of possession as of a piece of property, representing so much +investment of time and money, and service of one kind or another, +actuates the female also although the rights of the woman in the male +are not so generally defended and she seldom resorts +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_83" id="Page_83">[Pg 83]</a></span> +to such violent methods of defense or of revenge for loss of her property. Perhaps she +has a keener sense of values. Necessity has substituted "support" for +"outraged honor," and modern woman avenges the loss of her possessions +through the safer channels of the law-courts.</p> + +<p>The feeling of possession, so ingrained in human nature, and so much a +part of our modern marriage relation, is not grounded upon a moral +code, which has for its basic principle fidelity to one's partner. +This is proven by the fact that men have for some time abrogated to +themselves the right of promiscuity, the main clause of their defense +being that their conduct does not deprive their wife and family of +satisfactory maintenance. Many a woman today, irreproachably +respectable and church-going, will admit to herself if not to her +neighbors, that she closes her eyes to her husband's laxity in sexual +matters, "as long as he provides well for me."</p> + +<p>When we come, as we will later, to a consideration of what constitutes +morality, we will see that, like all our evolving ideals, it is +governed by immediate conditions, both individual and social.</p> + +<p>It is easy to see why polygamy has been practiced, as a necessary +expedient, and why women have been held so cheaply, when we realize +the centuries of devastating wars, both of conquest and of defense, +which besmirch the path of Evolution.</p> + +<p>Thus the tendency to æsthetic selection, always more pronounced in the female than in the male, +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_84" id="Page_84">[Pg 84]</a></span> +has been swallowed up in the false valuation put upon the male, because of his relative scarcity.</p> + +<p>In America, in the early sixties, fear of the epithet "old maid" drove +many a woman to marriage with a man whom, personally, she did not +like, but as he represented a more or less "rara avis" and as her +claim to attractiveness rested upon her success in trapping this rare +bird, she permitted herself to become a victim of conditions; and we +may safely conclude that no higher motive actuated the average woman +of the last century than that of submission to conditions, for the +"virtues of fidelity and devotion to the home and fireside" which +critics of present-day morals are fond of reminding us characterized +our grandmothers.</p> + +<p>Briefly, then, we may review the history of marriage and of mating, +everywhere, and at all times, as variable, controlled by expediency; +and always based on the egoistic idea of possession, expressed by the +right of the parents to dispose of their children; the right by +capture; the right by purchase; and the right by consent.</p> + +<p>One or all of these customs have been tried in various parts of the +world and at various times, and seldom has the condition of woman +approached even so enviable a place as that of the female animal, +except in the comparatively short periods when women have been the +gens of the family.</p> + +<p>These periods have become more and more infrequent, until the legal +status of women has been,<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_85" id="Page_85">[Pg 85]</a></span> as it is now, no more than what the +evolving consciousness of the male permitted to her.</p> + +<p>It is a question whether, under our pretended monogamy, which is, per +se, a more ideal condition than polygamy, all women have been either +better conditioned or more moral. The answer depends largely upon our +idea of what constitutes morality. Certainly, the condition of women +in Christian countries has been, and is now, far from ideal; which +would, judging from surface appearances, indicate that monogamy, as it +has been practiced in the past, served only as an ideal, and at best +has been of first aid to the male, primarily because of a question of +personal health and cleanliness; secondly, as a means of developing in +him the latent qualities of altruism, manifested selfishly enough at +first in protecting his possessions; among which he egotistically +conceded <i>his children at least</i> first place; although the wife was +hardly more than a convenience and an incubator.</p> + +<p>Of the conditions that have prevailed under the monogamous custom and +among the so-called superior races, Letourneau, in his <i>Evolution of +the Family</i>, says: "The Hebrews seem to have been alone, among the +Semites, in adopting monogamy, at least in general practice. <ins class="correction" title="original reads 'Doubless'">Doubtless</ins> the subjection of the Jewish woman was not extreme as it is in Kabyle; +it was, however, very great. Her consent to marriage, it is true, was +necessary when she had reached majority, but she was all the same sold +to her husband. We find hardly more than the portrait of a laborious +servant, busy and<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_86" id="Page_86">[Pg 86]</a></span> grasping. We shall see that the wife, though she +might gain much money, which seems to have been the ideal of the +Hebrew, according to the Proverbs, was repudiable at will, with no +other reason than the caprice of the master who had bought her. +Finally, and this is much more severe, she was always obliged to be +able to prove, <i>cloths in hand</i>, that she was a virgin at the moment +of her marriage, and this under pain of being stoned."</p> + +<p>The same state of affairs or worse existed in India and in Persia, +although in Persia there seems to have been an attempt to enjoin the +same fidelity upon the husband as upon the wife, according to the +Zend-Avesta; the only severe restriction to marriage being that +neither should marry an infidel. In India, where there has been for +centuries an alleged monogamy (except among the privileged classes, +where concubinage held sway), the ethical condition of the women has +been, and still is, deplorable.</p> + +<p>In ancient Greece and Rome the position of the woman was most +inferior. She was generally purchased, or given for service. Her +husband's word was law, and mothers were compelled to obey their male +children as uncomplainingly as though they were slaves. The wife and +mother was not permitted to attend festivities and neither was she +allowed the selection of her friends, her husband deciding this choice +for her.</p> + +<p>This, of course, applied to the respectable, or so-called virtuous +woman, which constituted the average. Then, as now, two classes of +women were to<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_87" id="Page_87">[Pg 87]</a></span> some extent exempt from this rigid custom. One class +was formed by those women whose wealth conferred upon them a degree of +power, because the possessors of great wealth have always been a law +unto themselves. The other class was formed by the women who practiced +prostitution, and who, by reason of their mode of life, met men on +terms of at least temporary social equality.</p> + +<p>Thus it is evident that the path of the virtuous woman without the +independence that accompanies the possession of her own money, was in +ancient days much more thorny than that of the concubine or the +prostitute; and it is because of this fact that parental love, the +most powerful of all levers employed by the Cosmic Law to lift love +out of degradation, instituted the custom of the "dowry," and although +this, too, has at various times become a source of degradation, +inspiring impoverished aristocrats to loveless marriages with +so-called inferiors, yet it has after all been a factor in the +evolution of women and the preservation of the races. It has served +two purposes. It has made women, in theory at least, more independent; +and it has resulted in an admixture of blood which has saved the +aristocratic class from extinction through decadence.</p> + +<p>As might well be expected in those instances where women did enjoy a +degree of liberty that was due to financial and social advantages, +they took a mean delight in ruling it over their male relatives, and, +as we may note in our own time, men who yielded to the seduction of wealth, and +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_88" id="Page_88">[Pg 88]</a></span> +married women to whom they were forced to accord the +freedom and the deference which wealth confers, complained bitterly of +their lot; as witness the following complaint of a Roman husband: "I +have married a witch with a dowry; I took her to have her fields and +houses, and that, O Apollo, is the worst of evils."</p> + +<p>One dominant idea controlled the status of marriage in early Greece +and Rome—an idea in full accord with the materialistic phase of their +civilization; this was the idea of procreation; an idea that logically +was inevitable, since continuous warfare resulted in a population in +which women predominated, and we are told that in the interest of +procreation both childlessness and celibacy were severely punished. +Thus the situation of women was that best described by the phrase +"between the devil and the deep sea."</p> + +<p>Regarding the "ideal of marital fidelity," Plutarch is authority for +the story that Cato loaned his wife to his friend Hortensius and took +her back on the death of the latter, plus a rich inheritance from the +transaction. However, should Martha have yielded herself voluntarily +to Hortensius, from motives of affection, the chances are that she +would have met death at the hands of her "justly outraged" spouse.</p> + +<p>In Europe, similar conditions prevailed, and although monogamy was the +rule, concubinage and prostitution in all its forms existed. The wife +was subject to the husband in every wish and whim, and after him to +the eldest son. This<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_89" id="Page_89">[Pg 89]</a></span> is true today in Germany and among the Saxons in +a degree whose modifications do not accord with other advances in our +social ethics.</p> + +<p>It is a mistake to claim that religious systems have had any direct +influence in the emancipation of women during the nineteen hundred +years of Christian civilization among the white races.</p> + +<p>Religious systems have only reflected the race-thought; they have not +molded it. This is true, despite the fact that true religion, when +esoterically understood, has always aimed at union, and union means +equality along all lines, sex-equality; social equality; race +equality.</p> + +<p>We must here digress from the main point of this chapter long enough +to explain that equality is not synonymous with identity, as seems to +be the impression among the many; a misconception which we regret to +say is shared by the judge on the bench with the workingman on the +construction gang, and the idiotic observation that "if women expect +to vote they must expect to stand up in the street-car," is not, alas! +confined to the lout, but is quite often voiced by the professional +man.</p> + +<p>The same silly idea prevails with regard to race-equality. It is +judged by a similarity to our own in matters of dress; or choice of +foods; by inconsequential differences, rather than by an estimate of +what a given race may contribute to the variety of human knowledge; +and yet it is evident that nature aims at variety; at a multiplicity +of ideas and customs and creations.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_90" id="Page_90">[Pg 90]</a></span>Differentiation is the primal attempt.</p> + +<p>Woman's claim to equality should be based upon the fact that first of +all she is different from, rather than identical with, men.</p> + +<p>The woman who dons male attire and eschews all so-called "feminine +frivolity" in her efforts to prove herself man's equal, is confessing +that in her natural environment she does not consider herself his +equal, and is masquerading as man, in the vain hope that she may +deceive herself and others into thinking she is.</p> + +<p>An individual is important to Society in proportion to his +originality; in proportion as he contributes some new idea; some +hitherto unfamiliar view.</p> + +<p>Returning to the point of what constitutes true religion, namely, a +consciousness of our unity with all life, we find that although +religious ethics have included this ideal, it has not been emphasized +in the ratio of its importance. The result is that where unity should +have been established, segregation has been the rule, and it is +without any desire to reflect discredit upon the ideal of the Church +that we point to the fact that woman's emancipation, and her +co-operation in all departments of life, as a hope, if not a +consummated reality, has but now made its initial bow to the world.</p> + +<p>That this initial bow comes side by side with, if not actually in the +wake of, disruption of the old theologic dogmas; dissatisfaction with +religious systems; and a determined disregard for what has +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_91" id="Page_91">[Pg 91]</a></span> +been presented as religion; cannot be denied. The fact is that religious +creeds never save anyone; never really elevate nations. At best they +have been but a "consolation prize" or a narcotic. Love of freedom is +the great liberator.</p> + +<p>The influence of Rationalism, as inaugurated by Ingersoll in America +and Bradlaugh in England, was the opening wedge. Christian Science, +mothered by a woman, incorporated the phrase "Father-Mother-God" into +its literature, and unity has been the avowed ideal of all the variety +of new cults and philosophies presented under so great a variety of +names that we cannot here enumerate them.</p> + +<p>Nevertheless, we are still many leagues short of realizing this ideal, +despite the preachments in its favor. Politically, the ideal of unity +is presented, more or less imperfectly, of course, as Socialism, and +Suffrage. Commercially, still more imperfectly in the merchants' "let +us get together on this," and in efforts at legislation that shall +control corporation dividends and labor schedules, and regulate hours +of work. In fact, all along the line we see the shadow cast by the +rising sun of unity.</p> + +<p>We have thus briefly traced the history of marriage and of mating, in +order that we may discuss with sane impartiality the questions: What +does marriage symbolize? What is its function in the life of the +social body; in the existence of the sphere itself; of the entire +Cosmos?</p> + +<p>Has it any real place and purpose beyond that<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_92" id="Page_92">[Pg 92]</a></span> of procreation, or any +more spiritual function than the perpetuation of the human species?</p> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_93" id="Page_93">[Pg 93]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_V" id="CHAPTER_V"></a>CHAPTER V</h2> + +<h2>THE SYMBOLISM OF MARRIAGE AND OF SEX-UNION</h2> + + +<p>Notwithstanding the patent fact that the institution of monogamous +marriage has not resulted in an ideal condition, it is also plain that +any other ideal of sex-union is impossible to a highly developed race.</p> + +<p>Monogamy, despite its present unsatisfactory condition, is a promise +of the highest ideal to which mortals can aspire; it is the imperfect +image of that ideal state which human nature has always striven for. +That we have striven for the most part blindly; that we have fallen +far short of the ideal aimed at, should not deter us from realizing +that the ideal is right.</p> + +<p>Monogamy, as a type of the perfect marriage, symbolizes the meeting +and the consequent union of a man and a woman who are perfect +complementaries.</p> + +<p>In order to be a perfect and lasting union, they must be spiritual +counterparts. Without this counterpartal affinity as the base of +union, no power on earth can force them to unite, although all the +laws of men be employed to keep them tied to each other in the body. +If two persons belong to each other by the inviolable law of spiritual +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_94" id="Page_94">[Pg 94]</a></span> +counterpart, no multitudinous set of man-made laws can keep their +souls apart, although these codes may temporarily separate them in the +flesh. The bonds of true matrimony are "holy"—the word meaning whole; +entire; complete; but these bonds are of an interior nature; they may +be judged only from the interior nature of two persons; and any +attempt to decide this all-important question from the standpoint of +exterior judgment must fail.</p> + +<p>The perfect union of the one man and the one woman is the highest +ideal of marriage of which we can conceive; but shall we for that +reason insist that marriage as a social institution is always complete +and holy? When two immature persons come together under the stimulus +of no more complementary impulse than the blind force of chemical +attraction and cohesion—an instinct, which we share in common with +every form of life, from the lowest insect to man—shall they be +compelled to abide by that act "as long as they both shall live" in +the physical body?</p> + +<p>We would say, "Heaven forbid!" only that the appeal is unnecessary. +Heaven does forbid, and that is why we see so many attempts to disrupt +these immature relationships.</p> + +<p>"The striving of sexual elements through affinities, or passional +attractions, after congenial marriage unions, is the cause of all the +motions, growths, and activities in the physical and moral world," +says a writer, and he adds: "The failure to attain the desired end, +and the warfare between<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_95" id="Page_95">[Pg 95]</a></span> uncongenial and repulsive elements is the +cause of all the broken equilibriums, discords, and collisions in both +spheres. If the atomic marriage in nature were perfect, there would be +no storms or droughts, or poisons or monstrosities, or disease. If the +marriage between the individual will and understanding, between the +interior and exterior life, were perfect, we should have regenerated +men upon earth, worthy to be called sons of God. If the marriage +between the sexes were perfect, we should have a Social Paradise."</p> + +<p>Marriage, then, in the sense of the conjugal union of two persons of +opposite sex, is the most important function of our lives; every other +activity is subsidiary to it. Commerce is carried on, only because of +this union; all the laws of man are the outgrowth of marriage; all +morality comes from the ideal marriage—the union of Wisdom and Love. +To imagine that a function, so vitally important to our exterior life, +should have no place in the phases of life which we know as "higher," +is a manifest absurdity, and comes from those attenuated concepts of +what constitutes spirituality, which Theology has postulated; concepts +which, entrenched behind the walls of "thus saith the Lord," have +temporarily defied modern progress.</p> + +<p>There is no wide gulf between the spiritual and the material worlds, +although the material is but an imperfect reflection of the basic +principle of life.</p> + +<p>Marriage, then, is eternally going on, "Nature<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_96" id="Page_96">[Pg 96]</a></span> is a system of +nuptials," says a writer, and nature is only the language of spirit or +Divine Life.</p> + +<p>How it came about that Theology made the mistake of degrading +sex-union and of limiting it to the ephemeral life of the body only, +we shall come to later. For the present, a brief resume of the types +of marriage ceremony, which have been universal, will convince us that +Nature has always sought to convey to the human mind this great secret +of eternal and never-ceasing union of complementaries.</p> + +<p>Take, for example, the symbol of the wedding-ring. This custom, +varying only in unimportant details, consistent with the prevailing +social custom of the times, has come down to us from prehistoric days. +The golden circle, sometimes worn only by the bride, but frequently by +both bride and groom, is emblematical of the completion of the circle +of wisdom and the final attainment, in "the twain made one," of the +finding by each of "the other half." The circle is always used to +express the Absolute; Aum; the Supreme Power that is "without +beginning and without end."</p> + +<p>According to the old Jewish law, the wedding ring must be made of pure +gold and must be earned and paid for by the bridegroom; he might not +acquire it by credit or gift. There is in this custom something more +than mere thrift; or the assurance of the bridegroom's ability to +sustain the needs and comforts of his wife and prospective family. It +symbolizes the truth that no one may hope to acquire this priceless blessing of perfect +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_97" id="Page_97">[Pg 97]</a></span> +conjugal union, other than by his own efforts. +Immortality must be earned, and perfect union, counterpartal +union—which means actually "twain made one," comes only by dint of +strife and demand and proof of our fitness for the Perfect Life.</p> + +<p>Another custom, which has been in almost universal vogue, is that of +drinking wine, emblematical of the "wine of life," at the completion +of a marriage ceremony. Sometimes this has been the prerogative of the +bride and groom only; and sometimes of the officiating priest; but +more generally the entire company has shared in this custom. Wine +drinking thus symbolizes eternal youth and virility, which can be +enjoyed only by those who have attained to the complete life—the +divine or spiritual sex-union.</p> + +<p>This symbolism is obvious when we take into our consciousness the +truth that only complementaries have the power to act and react, +without change, or loss. Equilibrium is maintained by a perfect +balance of two forces; if one force be ever so small a fraction less +than the other, perfect balance is lacking.</p> + +<p>Another marriage custom in general use among the ancients was the +donning of a crown on the wedding day. This custom formerly included +the bridegroom as well as the bride, but later was confined to the +bride alone, as was also the custom of wearing a veil. At early Greek +marriages crowns made of gold or silver were placed upon the heads of +both bride and groom; tapers were lighted; and rings exchanged.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_98" id="Page_98">[Pg 98]</a></span>We have a similar custom today in all fashionable church weddings. We +have the lighted tapers, signifying the quenchless fires of love; and +the circlet which symbolizes eternity.</p> + +<p>The crown symbolizes the truth that a truly spiritual union bestows +the crown of immortality; the power of Godhood in the Kingdom of Love; +which supersedes all earthly kingdoms in splendor. This is a literal +truth, although it cannot be understood in its full significance until +we are <i>fit for the kingdom</i>.</p> + +<p>The veil which the bride lifts at the completion of the ceremony +symbolizes the truth that when we shall have attained to the spiritual +marriage, the veil that separates the interior from the exterior life, +shall be lifted; it is so thin that the illusion, of which the wedding +veil is made, rightly symbolizes this apparent separation of the +physical life from the spiritual. When the veil is lifted, we shall +know our completement in the bliss of perfect union; and when we have +found that other half of our being, which is the underlying urge of +our every thought and act, we shall find the veil lifted. The entire +panorama of the universe becomes an open book. There is no "visible" +and "invisible;" it is all One, with our own bi-une sex nature for the +pivotal center.</p> + +<p>So simple and so obvious are all these symbols of the natural man that +we are astounded, when we have found the key, that we did not sooner +penetrate their meaning. "She will have a crown in Heaven," we say of +some self-sacrificing and<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_99" id="Page_99">[Pg 99]</a></span> loving soul, and the phrase suggests to +most of us the power of earthly kings and queens with all their +splendor of jewels and retainers; but there is an inner meaning which +the splendor and the crowns of earth's kings and queens symbolizes.</p> + +<p>Spiritual union with the perfect complement of our interior nature is +in itself the crown of regal power, of which earthly rulers are +symbolical. The spiritual body through this union becomes radiant; +luminous; and shines with such splendor that it dazzles the eyes of +the beholder. What constitutes the beauty and the value of +gems—diamonds; rubies; sapphires; emeralds; topaz; pearls?</p> + +<p>It is the radiations of light which they throw off; it is their +luminosity—their transparency. It is, indeed, true, that the power +which we see exemplified in the rulers of the earth has a +corresponding meaning in a spiritual sense; as, in fact, have all +things which we cognize with our physical eyes. The Hindus tell us +that all things are either the "nita" or the "ita" message. Either +they tell us "this is the way to the heights;" or "this is not the +way."</p> + +<p>The crown of orange blossoms which has supplanted the ancient crown of +gold and silver and tinsel, worn with such unconsciousness of its +esoteric message, symbolizes one of the most beautiful truths relating +to the spiritual marriage—counterpartal union.</p> + +<p>Even as this union confers a beautiful radiance upon the spiritual +body, the body also becomes<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_100" id="Page_100">[Pg 100]</a></span> sweet-scented like a flower. Weeds, we +remember, have no scent or they may be obnoxious in their odor. Weeds +are unregenerate flowers.</p> + +<p>Certain chemical combinations produce nauseous gases. The human body +is a laboratory in which chemical changes are constantly going on. The +changes produced by sex-functioning are greater than anything which +the experimental chemist has ever discovered in nature.</p> + +<p>It is a fact well known to the pathologist that an unwilling wife, +however faithful she may be, if forced into the sexual act, may +present her husband with a well-defined case of genital disease; nor +is this at all strange when we consider the now well-recognized fact +that anger, fear, revenge, avarice, and all the destructive +thought-forces produce poisons in the secretions of the body.</p> + +<p>In Rosicrucian literature, we have the story of "the Chymical Marriage +of Christian Rosy Cross," which is, when read with the key to its +esoteric meaning, a story of the chemistry of marriage between the +sexes. Indeed, the whole story of the secret doctrines of the +Rosicrucians, is the story of the sexes, and the "secret of secrets," +which was so zealously guarded by the Hermetics and the Rosicrucians +and other secret societies, is the secret of the spiritual union of +the male and the female principles throughout nature and culminating +in man and woman, conferring upon them immortal life through the +perfect balance of sex.</p> + +<p>It has been said that women were not admitted +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_101" id="Page_101">[Pg 101]</a></span> +to the Brotherhood of the Rosicrucians, but this is not true, as there +is plenty of evidence to prove.</p> + +<p>Owing to the enmity of the established Church toward any exaltation of +the sex-relation, and particularly toward the veneration of woman, it +became necessary for those who sought to keep alive the fires of +Esoteric Wisdom to surround themselves with the most rigid secrecy; in +consequence of this, the story of the sexes, constituting the very +heart and center of Hermetic philosophy, has been told in allegory, +unintelligible unless one has the inner sight or has been initiated +into the secret code.</p> + +<p>In the sixteenth and seventeenth centuries, the Church had so far +succeeded in undermining the work of the Hermetics, that women were +excluded from the Brotherhood, and the apparent sole purpose of the +secret order was the search for metallic transmutation. Side by side +with this convincing evidence that the esoteric meaning of the symbols +has been perverted, we find their allegorical phraseology intermixed +with frequent allusions to passages from the Scripture and to the +Virgin Mary, proving conclusively that the Church, then in the zenith +of its power, had confiscated the archives of the secret order, and, +either through fear of the influence of their work, or possibly +through lack of any adequate comprehension of their wisdom, had +employed their symbolism to the further glory of the temporal power of +the Church.</p> + +<p>This subject will again be dealt with in a chapter<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_102" id="Page_102">[Pg 102]</a></span> +devoted to "The Hidden Wisdom," and so we will leave it for the present.</p> + +<p>One other great spiritual truth relating to marriage is found in the +intimate and constantly recurring association of the turtle-dove with +the ceremony of marriage.</p> + +<p>The dove is, par excellence, an example of conjugal love. The +turtle-dove, more than any other of the dove family, is noted for the +fervor of its sexual desires; fidelity to its mate; and for the +devotion and diffusion of its love nature. It is well known that if +either of a pair of turtle-doves dies, the mate will grieve itself to +death. "Like a pair of turtle-doves" is said of a couple who are +happily married, and the domestic life of the dove has made the dove a +symbol of peace.</p> + +<p>Doves have been held sacred in many parts of the world, and figure +prominently in religious symbolic architecture and utensils, from +ancient times down to the present day. The symbol of the doves flying +over the ark of the covenant typifies the spiritual origin of birth, +the ark being the primordial egg, from which issued all the forms of +life. Let us also remember that they issued <i>in pairs</i>.</p> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_103" id="Page_103">[Pg 103]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_VI" id="CHAPTER_VI"></a>CHAPTER VI</h2> + +<h2>CONTINENCE; CHASTITY AND ASCETICISM; THEIR SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE</h2> + + +<p>From the earliest forms of sex-worship, in which the creative function +was doubtless given its rightful place, down through successive stages +of sex-degeneracy, we come to the sex-perversions and the almost +general licentiousness of Ancient Greece and Rome, with whom the sex +function became nothing more exalted than a method of procreation, in +common with the animals; and a means of sense-gratification, on a par +with gluttony.</p> + +<p>Even among the intellectual Greeks, the highest type of a civilization +that, although epicurean and esthetic, was yet essentially +materialistic, sexual intercourse had no more spiritual place than it +occupies today in fine stock-breeding.</p> + +<p>Between ancient Roman licentiousness and our own modern attitude +toward the sex-relation, there intervenes that terrible time in the +history of Human Evolution, known as the Dark Ages, in which was +evolved the unnatural view of the function of sex, exemplified rather +erotically, in many instances, by asceticism and celibacy. Although it +sounds paradoxical, yet there is a celibacy that is distinctly erotic.</p> + + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_104" id="Page_104">[Pg 104]</a></span>In reading of some of the experiences in the lives of the saints, the +normal, healthy person feels an aversion similar to that which he +experiences in viewing the effects of physical disease; and yet we +must note in this abnormal attitude of the Church toward the +sex-relation, the effect of nature's attempt at equilibrium; a +revulsion from the effect of the centuries preceding.</p> + +<p>Some of the contributing causes of this revulsion were: celibacy, +except within the Church, forbidden by the Roman Senate; the fact that +women had no choice in marriage; the devastating wars which took the +best of physical manhood; and the cheapness of women, every man of +wealth having as many slave women as he could house and feed; the +orgies where women, both bound and free, were openly debauched; all +these evidences of the utter degradation to which the pure and +beautiful function of sex had sunk, called for a revulsion; and it +came in the idea of asceticism—an instance where the remedy was worse +than the disease. The mental attitude that resulted in asceticism was +not one in which the sex function was lifted from the mire of +licentiousness in which it lay; rather it was abandoned altogether as +something vile and unclean; and that too, unhappily, by those who +should have known better.</p> + +<p>The Roman Church, in full accord with the type of Roman mind which +fostered it, still harbored the perverted idea that women were +inferior. And it is from the Roman Church of today rather more than +from any other of the phases of Christian<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_105" id="Page_105">[Pg 105]</a></span> Orthodoxy, that we note a +militant opposition to woman suffrage, and all the other avenues of +woman's claim to free expression.</p> + +<p>While retaining all the old Roman's disrespect for woman, the Church +instituted and fostered celibacy, as a way out of the old profiligacy, +but as though by a sort of spiritual irony, the Church has retained, +from its "pagan" ancestors, the sex-worshippers, the idol of the Holy +Virgin. And despite the bombardments of criticism from without and the +inculcation of superstitious ignorance from within, the pure-hearted +children of the Church have always gone to the "Holy Mother" for their +comfort; and thus the eternal fires of Truth have smouldered beneath +the ashes of perverted mysticism throughout the Dark Ages that are +gone and the scarcely lighter Dawn that is here. Those who have eyes +to see, realize that the one worth-while thing which the old, +nearly-blind Church has been unwittingly doing all the time, has been +to hold to this central truth of all Life—religious, social, +national, and domestic—the truth that it is only by exalting the +maternal function of human life, that we can hope to reach the saviour +of mankind.</p> + +<p>And, lest there be still some misconception of what we consider to be +the true "saviour" of mankind, we will again state, even as the Church +itself states it, "the babe of Bethlehem"—the pure Love between one +man and one woman; the "twain made one," which is the only saviour that ever +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_106" id="Page_106">[Pg 106]</a></span> +was or ever will be—the pure Christ-child that is born of +conterpartal union.</p> + +<p>Let those who would cling to the idea of an individual man, born in a +city called "Bethlehem" as the saviour of the world, remember that +even so, the city derived its name from the word, "bethel," meaning a +pure white stone, rounded at the top, in exact imitation of the +omphalos of Apollo, in the temple of Delphi. And when the shock of his +discovery has somewhat subsided, and his prejudices have been +swallowed up in a desire for the whole Truth, let him remember also +that this central idea has been the foundation of all religious rites +since time began; and instead of feeling that the whole fabric of +Christianity has been rent by the light of scientific discovery, he +will see that it has merely been <i>revealed</i>, and the revelation will +prove to him that Truth is the most beautiful, the most spiritual and +the most satisfying thing in life, because the Truth is that Perfect +Love is the only passport to immortal bliss. No one can withhold +Heaven from us, if we have this perfect love.</p> + +<p>Thus the essentials of Christianity are the essentials of every other +religious system; and the essentials are: Love is the One true and +only God; and Sex is the form in which this Bi-une God appears; +according to our individual and collective reverence for this bi-une +God, will be our spiritual development.</p> + +<p>We do not reverence sex when we cheapen it by dissipation; or when we +abandon it as unclean and<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_107" id="Page_107">[Pg 107]</a></span> unworthy and unholy; both attitudes are +abnormal, and unbalanced.</p> + +<p>Spiritual consciousness aims at equilibrium. The perfectly balanced +person is equally developed on all planes; the perfectly balanced +individual, in sufficient numbers, will produce a balanced and +therefore a healthy social organization; and a balanced and +healthy-minded race of beings will result in a balanced sphere; this +fact is foreshadowed by the postulate which Science is now +considering, to wit: the earth's axis may be straightened, and, if so, +a uniform temperature will prevail on this globe.</p> + +<p>Returning to a consideration of the subjects which head this chapter, +we find it necessary to clear the ground a little, in regard to a +definition of words.</p> + +<p>The word continence should apply to the act of self-restraint in the +matter of the emotions, desires, and passions, whether of the +sex-passion or the passion of anger, avarice, or gluttony. The word +has come to mean, in many cases, the total abstinence from the +sex-relation, because of the general idea which has prevailed, that +any indulgence of sex-love was a confession of weakness. In fact, our +modern ideas regarding this subject are so chaotic and so manifestly +paradoxical that they are absurd.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_108" id="Page_108">[Pg 108]</a></span>On the one hand we have a tradition that motherhood is a beautiful and +holy thing; on the other, we regard the sex-relation, per se, as an +indecent thing, or at best as a weakness of the flesh.</p> + +<p>We have the obvious demonstration that creation is possible only +because of the conjunction of the two sexes, and yet we are taught +that sex-love is something which is permitted to us in this lower +state of our being, and denied in heaven, and at the same time we are +told that God creates everything, and God dwells in Heaven, where +there is no such "polluting sin" as sex-love.</p> + +<p>We certainly do need balance.</p> + +<p>The word chastity conveys to the mind (and this is not confined to the +undeveloped person, but is general) the idea of a woman who is devoid +of the sex-impulse. Chastity, like the word virtue, suggests to our +minds no relationship to the character, or inner nature of a person; +it has come to be applied to the physical anatomy, and we are not +surprised when we realize that the word is seldom used in connection +with the male. It is strictly a female attribute—nay, we may almost +say, "organ."</p> + +<p>If a woman, for any reason whatsoever, whether through lack of +opportunity; through hereditary causes; or through repression, +or—which occurs more frequently—as a commercial expediency, +believing that her person will thus bring more in the matrimonial +market—if, as we say, for any reason, however sordid, a woman escapes +bodily sex-contact, she is called "chaste" and her "virtue" is +extolled.</p> + +<p>This is, of course, not a far cry from the ancient days when a bridegroom +had the right to turn the bride away from his door, should the evidence of +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_109" id="Page_109">[Pg 109]</a></span> +her virginity be lacking; whereupon the poor creature +was stoned to death, a sacrifice on the altar of Egoism, the +arch-enemy of both sexes.</p> + +<p>And although it seems a long, long time from that day to this, we may +look back over the Ages, and see the thread unbroken, connecting the +Past with the Present; uniting the women of those days with their +sisters of today; and we find the answer to this far-off outrage upon +the spiritual function of sex, in the horrors of our white slavery, +among which horrors, the greatest is not alone the barter and sale of +that which should be recognized as sacred, but the perversions, the +deceptions and the subterfuges which it entails. One instance, related +by a trained nurse who had been in attendance upon a girl sixteen +years of age, will suffice to illustrate this. The girl, encouraged by +her mother, related with amusement and satisfaction, how the child had +"sold her virtue" on seven different occasions, procuring for the +same, proven by the requisite evidences, sums which were considered +quite exorbitant in view of the fact that the market was always +over-crowded with similar sales.</p> + +<p>Thus, the law of supply and demand is ever preserved; and human beings +keep right on selling their royal birthright for a mess of pottage; +inviting disease, decay and death when they might have glorious, +blissful life.</p> + +<p>Mankind has failed to look for virtue in the interior nature; failed +to look for beauty of soul, being ever ready to pay the highest price for the +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_110" id="Page_110">[Pg 110]</a></span> +counterfeit, and the result is that a practice of mutual +deception has been the rule.</p> + +<p>Some years ago, Thomas Hardy wrote a story about a girl in the +wretched environment of middle-class England. He called it the story +of a "pure woman," and his appraisal of the heroine as a pure woman +brought out a storm of reproach and horrified criticism, particularly +from the clergy, because it chanced that this poor girl had given +birth to a child out of wedlock; and notwithstanding that the author +made it quite clear that she had been the victim of circumstances and +coercion, the act itself condemned her to unchastity in the eyes of +the clerical critics.</p> + +<p>When we contemplate the attitude which religious systems have ever +held toward women, we are amazed that the Church has been upheld +almost wholly by the female sex. The fact is accountable on one +hypothesis only: that of the spiritual insight, which recognized in +the story of the Holy Mother and the Child the <i>One primordial, and +indestructible key to salvation</i>—the birth of the god-man through the +recognition of the purity and joy of the perfect sex-union.</p> + +<p>But, notwithstanding the medieval trend of religious mysticism (there +is a religious mysticism and a scientific mysticism) which seemed to +regard all human love as a weakness, when not actually sinful as in +sex-love, it is evident that sexual love, in its emotional, or psychic +aspect, was at the root of the "ecstacies" which are so ardently described +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_111" id="Page_111">[Pg 111]</a></span> +in ecclesiastical history as "evidences of saintliness."</p> + +<p>If, instead of indignantly denying this fact, as though it were +profane criticism of the saints, defenders of the Theological view of +mysticism would calmly consider and accept the evidence, they would be +able to infuse into the creeds, the vitality which they so lack.</p> + +<p>The lives of the saints, in so far as they relate to trance and +ecstatic visions, must, sooner or later meet one of two fates. Either +they will be analyzed and presented, with the reverence that is due +the subject, as proofs of the spiritual function of sex-love; or they +must be relegated to the position to which the Church assigns all +sexual desire—that of eroticism and innate and ineradicable +depravity.</p> + +<p>Viewed in the light in which Theology has held the sex relation, the +paroxysms which are ascribed to St. Catherine of Sienna, and to the +Holy Mechthild and other saints, have in them something decidedly +obnoxious; while, if we take the premise that these saints, by virtue +of prayer, aspiration, and intended sacrifice of the mortal self to an +ideal, transmuted their sex-nature from the physical to the spiritual, +then indeed, we have an approach to a mighty truth, which is at once +both explanatory and satisfying. St. Catherine is referred to as "the +mystic bride;" and Jesus Christ, to whom she was "espoused" (using the +terminology which the Church prefers, as suggesting a less physical +union than the word "married") <span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_112" id="Page_112">[Pg 112]</a></span>was the "bride-groom;" more than that; +she declared that she was married with a ring, set with precious +stones; just like any other betrothal or wedding ring.</p> + +<p>Always in these recitals we find the phraseology which lovers employ +when exalting the loved one above the world. The term "My Beloved" is +singularly universal, and seems to spring involuntarily to the lips of +the lover when his love is of the quality that reverences; adores; and +exalts its object. And it is equally foreign to the lips of the +dilettante lover.</p> + +<p>To their credit be it said, the love which the saints developed within +themselves, by dint of their attempts to exalt celibacy in an age of +sexual profligacy, is none the less human love; it is human love +spiritualized, exalted, and transmuted from the plane of the animal to +that of the soul. This transmutation is in fact responsible for the +intensity, the absorbing power of the love which thrilled them into +such an ecstacy that in most instances they became lost in the bliss +of the emotions excited by the inward flow of their sex nature, and +were totally unfitted to take part in the outer, or so-called +practical life.</p> + +<p>Such, for example, was Saint Teresa, of whom William James, in his +"Varieties of Religious Experience," says: "Her idea of religion seems +to have been that of an endless amatory flirtation—if one may say so +without irreverence—between the devotee and the Deity." Although this +estimate of St. Theresa's saintliness will doubtless<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_113" id="Page_113">[Pg 113]</a></span> +be shocking to the people who think they are pious, we take an optimistic view of it, +and suggest that the saint's idea of religion is far more satisfying +than that usually presented as saintliness. St. Theresa, like most of +the female saints, became "the bride of Christ"—the <i>man</i> Jesus, the +Christ, let it be remembered.</p> + +<p>St. Gertrude, a Benedictine nun of the Thirteenth Century, gave +herself up so wholly to this inward contemplation; to fasting, prayer, +and withdrawal from the outer to the inner life, that she lived as the +"bride of God," in such daily contact with Him as would fitly describe +any love-mated honeymoon of today. According to her testimony "God" +indulged in such language and caresses, and intimacies, kisses and +compliments as would satisfy any woman married to her ideal lover.</p> + +<p>In the case of St. Louis of Gonzaga, it is significant that he +selected the Virgin Mary as the object of his adoration and +"consecrated to her, his own virginity;" and we read how "burning with +love, he made his vow of perpetual chastity." In consequence of this +vow, he was never tempted as was St. Anthony, by visions of beautiful +women.</p> + +<p>Here again we have the love of the male for the female. If it were not +so, St. Louis may well have chosen Jesus, or Joseph, or John, as the +object of his devotional contemplation; and St. Catherine, and +Theresa, and Mechthild might have paid their homage to the Virgin +Mary.</p> + +<p>"Jeanne of the Cross" held constant converse<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_114" id="Page_114">[Pg 114]</a></span> with her guardian angel, +who by the way was a beautiful youth, "more brilliant than the sun and +with a crown of glory on his head."</p> + +<p>St. Frances was inseparable from her angel, whom she loved with +extravagant and blissful devotion, and whom she also described as "a +young man of such radiant beauty and purity that he melted her soul."</p> + +<p>The truth is that, in seeking to escape from the "sin" of human love, +as seen in the world, in the union of the sexes, they touched the very +main-spring of their sex-nature, intensifying to a degree unknown to +the merely sense-conscious person, the ecstatic bliss of spiritual +sex-union.</p> + +<p>Naturally the question will arise as to whether these saints really +came into contact with their spiritual mates in these paroxysms of +holy fervor, and if so, why did the vision of the Christ so frequently +appear to them and not alone the vision of some other being?</p> + +<p>The answer is found in the fact that spiritual experiences must be +interpreted through the channel of the outer mind, which in these +instances was obsessed by the thought implanted by Medieval Theology, +that human love is sinful. It may be questioned whether, even though +the visions did relate to some person other than the members of the +Holy Family, the fact would have been admitted since it would have +been attributed to unworthiness on the part of the saint.</p> + +<p>They were practically compelled to include God<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_115" id="Page_115">[Pg 115]</a></span> and Christ in their +ecstacies to prove their respectability.</p> + +<p>One phrase, commonly employed to describe the kind of love which +"flooded the soul" in these saintly ecstacies, is particularly +applicable to the effects of spiritual sex-union, as described by +those who have experienced counterpartal union, and which Swedenborg +so constantly emphasizes in his recital of "conjugal delights." This +phrase is "melting love." It is a feeling of melting or merging into +the other's being, until there seems to be but one person, formed by +the two souls. In fact, it is <i>union</i>; whereas the lesser, or we may +say the lower, phase, of the sex-relation is at best but <i>contact</i>.</p> + +<p>If this view of the trances and ecstacies described in the lives of +the saints, be repulsive to our readers, we can only say that we are +sorry for our readers. They have imbibed the spirit of the Dark Ages, +which regarded human love as sinful, overlooking the fact that all we +may know of the "love of God," is by analogous comparison to what we +know of human love.</p> + +<p>If human love be sinful, by logical deduction we would inevitably +arrive at the conclusion that the universe is all sinful. In which +event, the very word itself would have lost its significance.</p> + +<p>The objectionable part of the orthodox view of the effects of +saintliness lies in the realization that neither the saints +themselves, nor the Church which perpetuates their recitals, had any +conception of the real situation, so evident to the enlightened +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_116" id="Page_116">[Pg 116]</a></span> +and unprejudiced reader. And if this view of saintly <ins class="correction" title="original reads 'esctacies'">ecstacies</ins>, +postulating the transmutation of sex-force into spiritual channels, be +objectionable, what can be said of the only other view which is +possible in the light of the evidence submitted?</p> + +<p>Our ideas of what constitutes chastity need revising, else we must +needs decide that chastity is more a vice than a virtue.</p> + +<p>For example, consider the character of a mother of the +self-sacrificing, noble type, devoting her life to the welfare of the +human family; interesting herself in all the problems that affect the +generations to come; patient; sweet and wise. Compare her with an +unmarried girl whose body is immune from contact with one of the +opposite sex, but whose mind is bent upon self, and self-adornment; +upon the necessity of capturing a wealthy husband, as a means of this +self-gratification, without regard to any sentiment or even common +affection. Who is the more chaste?</p> + +<p>Coventry Patmore says:</p> + +<div class="poem"> + <p>"Virgins are they before the Lord,</p> + <p class="i2">Whose souls are pure. The vestal fire</p> + <p>Is not, as some mis-read the Word,</p> + <p class="i2">By Marriage quenched, but burns the higher."</p> +</div> + +<p>If purity of soul were synonymous with celibacy, the entire +constantly-copulating cosmos would have long since been demolished; +but despite the mistaken attitude of religious systems toward the +divine function of sex, Humanity is reaching a higher and purer +conception of love. As we <ins class="correction" title="original reads 'aproach'">approach</ins> a higher type of civilization, the broader, +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_117" id="Page_117">[Pg 117]</a></span> +deeper, and more intense becomes our capacity to love. The +more spiritual we become, the more vital is our love-nature, and our +love-nature is grounded in sex. Let us not imagine that spiritual love +is less sexual than is physical love. Spiritual love is physical love, +<i>plus</i> all the other phases of love.</p> + +<p>The real objection to sex love on the physical plane is not based upon +its strength, but upon its weakness. If it be nothing deeper than an +attraction of chemical affinities generated by physical activities, it +has no reservoir from which to draw its supply. It is like the +electrical wire that is "short circuited," it expends itself in one +spasmodic combustion.</p> + +<p>True spirituality is attained by a process of addition. The common and +erroneous idea of spiritual attainment involves a process of +subtraction.</p> + +<p>We need go no further than to review the processes in the external +world of today to understand this fact of the inclusiveness of the +spiritual life, in contradistinction to the generally accepted idea of +exclusiveness which is attached to a contemplation of the so-called +"spiritual."</p> + +<p>All our activities are now carried on upon a gigantic scale. Where +formerly a little stream supplied the water to the mill, we now +harness the invisible and apparently inexhaustible forces of +electricity; where formerly commerce was a system of bartering between +two single individuals, it is now a huge network involving millions of +persons. Everything teaches us the lesson of inclusiveness, +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_118" id="Page_118">[Pg 118]</a></span> +as we approach a more spiritualized ideal of life. We are uniting; merging; +drawing within.</p> + +<p>The Centripetal force of the planet itself, corresponding to the +female pole of the magnet, is today the active principle in external +life. The machinist knows this when he is compelled to avoid the +suction currents of electrical power. Cosmic reaction has set in, and +union between complementaries is the result. Applying this truth to +individual human life, and we have what?</p> + +<p><i>Counterpartal Sex-union.</i></p> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_119" id="Page_119">[Pg 119]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_VII" id="CHAPTER_VII"></a>CHAPTER VII</h2> + +<h2>SOUL-UNION: WHERE WILL IT LEAD?</h2> + + +<p>We have heard much in recent years of "affinities," and "soul-mates," +and we are likely to hear much more in the future. So much that is +unsavory and sensational is associated with these two words, that we +almost hesitate to employ them; but that is always the way with Fear. +It builds a high wall between us and Truth, and dares us to scale it.</p> + +<p>We accept the challenge.</p> + +<p>To begin with, the words are not synonymous, although frequently used +as such. Affinities are based upon mutual interests; mutual tastes and +appetites; mutual stages of development; but these stages of +development may be sense-conscious only; or they may be of a highly +intellectual order. Whatever their basis of mutuality, they tend to +attract upon that plane. Whenever this affinity, established by virtue +of mutual tastes, is on the sense-plane only—that is, when it is +because two persons both like their roast-beef rare; or their whiskey +diluted; or their wine iced—we are apt to find the result in a +mistaken idea of sexual affinity, which wears itself out for the +reasons already stated, because there is no reservoir from which to +draw. The chemistry of the<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_120" id="Page_120">[Pg 120]</a></span> body changes with time and emotional +experiences. Affinity of bodily contact only, resulting from a +congeniality of sense-appetites, is therefore necessarily short lived.</p> + +<p>Affinity of intellect is much more lasting, because it approaches a +state higher in the ascent to the spiritual center of the cosmos.</p> + +<p>Thought is the parent of speech, or of any external appeal to the +senses. Back of all objectivity is the thought that molded it; but +back of thought is desire; and back of desire is design—cosmic design +we may say—expressing itself discretively; in individuals.</p> + +<p>Affinities that are based upon intellectual similarities are of a +finer nature and generally more lasting than those of sense-conscious +attraction only; and it is no uncommon thing to find two persons of +the opposite sex enjoying a protracted friendship or preference for +each others' society which deceives the average on-looker into +thinking that there is also sexual affinity, when as a matter of fact +there may never have been any thought of such relationship.</p> + +<p>A few brilliant women in former times, notably Madame de Stael, or +Margaret Fuller, have enjoyed the attentions and apparent devotion of +men for many years without having entered into any more intimate +relationship with them. But these examples have been few in the past, +and have been much commented upon. In the present, such desirable +companionship is becoming much more common and a woman may now be seen twice with +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_121" id="Page_121">[Pg 121]</a></span> +the same man without having the neighbors speculating as +to a suitable name for the baby.</p> + +<p>More and more, as women become freed from the necessity to "settle +themselves" in marriage, we find evidences of this intellectual +affinity between the sexes; and more and more, as we get away from the +old thought that a man has but one desire, that of sexual intercourse, +and a woman but one motive, that of enslaving man through his sexual +appetite, we will find that men and women will meet on the plane of +intellectual affinity and not be driven by gossip of outsiders, or by +the force of the race-thought in their own minds, into seeking to +spoil such companionship by a matrimonial alliance, when nature did +not intend it to be so.</p> + +<p>A number of years ago, when even the little freedom which human beings +now accord each other in this matter was denied the struggling sexes, +a certain man and woman, who were intellectual companions, married. He +was a writer; she was a physician; which is evidence in itself of a +degree of intellectual power not so common at that time as now; she +was moreover an unusual woman in many ways. They parted after a month +of married life and to the horror and scandal of the entire community, +remained friends. The scandal reached the climax of disapproval and +shocked morality when the man, married again, continued his friendship +with his former wife and later, when a baby came to the couple, the +ex-wife and mutual friend was the attending physician.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_122" id="Page_122">[Pg 122]</a></span>The old idea of matrimony held that the husband and wife must be +"yoked" together, so that neither one could exercise any individual +predilection or choice of friends, or recreation, or taste or desire. +And this is still the average idea of a successful marriage. It is an +idea that is not confined to the ignorant, and the narrow-minded. It +is the attitude of society at large, though upon what argument such an +idea is based, must be left to the perverted imagination.</p> + +<p>Presumably it is because of that colossal egotism which insists upon +personal ownership. One would expect this tendency to own each other +to have died with the death of the institution of slavery, but it +still exists, and as we have already observed, among those who sit in +the seats of the mighty as well as among the ignorant.</p> + +<p>A couple who had married on the ground of intellectual affinity lived +together most congenially for a period of twelve years, although they +agreed that sexual affinity was lacking in their relationship. They +agreed that there was another phase of mating, and that should either +come to the point where freedom was desirable, it would be given +without resentment or anger. They both decided, that perfect candor +and honesty with each other on this score was a higher type of +civilization than that which prevails where mutual deceit is the rule.</p> + +<p>True to their compact, when the wife met the one whom she believed to +be the one man who answered the call of her soul, the husband gave her +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_123" id="Page_123">[Pg 123]</a></span> +up, retaining her friendship, and the memory of an intellectual +companionship unmarred by the horrors of dispute and deceit and +disruption. But he incurred the severest criticism from Society, which +is as yet composed of the animal-man, rather than the man-god, and the +animal-man (meaning woman as well) knows no higher code of morality +than that which he vaingloriously terms "defense of his honor." By +exactly what process of reasoning a man can imagine his honor defended +or appeased by shooting his rival, is, we admit, beyond our power to +fathom. But such is the basis of the unwritten law, in which civilized +man vents his remaining savagery.</p> + +<p>Affinity-marriages, then, are not synonymous with soul-mating. And +while we contend that affinity marriages, based upon at least some +degree of <ins class="correction" title="original reads 'mutality'">mutuality</ins>, are a step higher in social development than were +the alliances of the old regime, where a man's social or domestic +exigencies required a wife or a housekeeper, or both-in-one; where +woman must marry whomsoever asked her, or be pitied and scorned as an +"old maid," still affinity-marriages are not the final union, and must +go through an evolutionary phase.</p> + +<p>Affinity-marriages are eligible to disruption. Happily, we trust, +these disruptions will in the course of time be devoid of hatred and +mutual recriminations and abuse. Certainly they will be, as they +evolve from the plane of sense-consciousness to that of intellectual +affinities. Moreover, they stand a much better chance of permanency +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_124" id="Page_124">[Pg 124]</a></span> +than has maintained during the past, before the word affinity was +heard so frequently as it is now.</p> + +<p>The general impression is abroad in the land, that it is only since +women became economically independent that disruption of the marriage +bonds has become so general. It is true that divorces are much more +frequent since women have become, to a great extent, economically +independent; but that only means that the parties to the marriage have +been set free. The disruptions are not more, it is only the evidences. +And it is at the <i>evidence</i> of marital unhappiness that all the +criticism is directed.</p> + +<p>If the criticism were directed against the condition that divorce +tells us of, instead of against the divorce itself, the first aid to +the injured would be to establish a social order wherein an equal +moral standard for both sexes should be the rule, and where a mother +is recognized, and respected and honored in the name of motherhood, +whether she is a wife or not.</p> + +<p>This suggestion will of course be met with a shocked gasp from many. +The cry that "Society will be disorganized" and our "moral code become +chaotic" will go up from the self-constituted keepers of public +morality. But is our morality so tender that it needs protection? Are +our social conditions so ideal that they cannot be improved? If they +are, then nothing can besmirch them. If they are not, they must first +be demolished, before they are rebuilt.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_125" id="Page_125">[Pg 125]</a></span>The limited mortal mind is always terribly afraid of a change. Not one +single improvement has ever been suggested, from mechanics to morals, +that has not been met with that ever-ready fear-thought, that the +whole universe is going to the eternal bow-wows, if the slightest +change in established institutions is made. And despite it all, we go +on year after year, improving. "Self-improvement" is the watch-word of +the Century. If "self-improvement," then social improvement. Mankind +is still in the making, as far as external conditions are concerned.</p> + +<p>The complaint goes up from every side, that women refuse motherhood. +Girls who have been carefully reared, brought up in the most orthodox +movement, are heard to openly, unashamed, announce their intention of +finding a rich husband and not, emphatically, <i>not</i> having any +children.</p> + +<p>May this not be Nature's revenge upon our inhuman treatment of girls +who become mothers without first becoming wives?</p> + +<p>We are wont to refer to unmarried mothers as "unfortunates" and +"ruined." But in what does the misfortune consist, and wherein are +they ruined?</p> + +<p>Is a woman ever unfortunate if she gives birth to a child because she +has loved, and because she loves the child? Is she ruined in any way +except that she becomes the target for our inhumanity; our well-nigh +unforgivable stupidity?</p> + +<p>The world, and especially women, owe a debt of gratitude to a certain +famous woman who, by her<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_126" id="Page_126">[Pg 126]</a></span> force of character; her defiant self-respect +in the face of social criticism, because she had a child and no +husband, has wrung from the unwilling public the highest place +accorded any actress in this or any previous age. This artist's +well-known reply to an openly expressed criticism of her is worthy of +perpetuation. "Ah, so!" she said, "true I have a son and no husband, +but you women have husbands and lovers, and no children!"</p> + +<p>We would not have it understood that we commend this woman's example, +and criticise that of the woman to whom she referred. We do not regard +child-bearing as the end and aim of woman's mission. It has been said +that the first duty of Man is to perpetuate the species, but +observation should convince us that in all too many instances the +first duty of the individual would be to refrain from such a crime +against posterity.</p> + +<p>We neither criticise nor advise the adoption of the position of a +husbandless mother; nor that of the women who are childless wives. We +endorse any woman's insistence upon her right to self-respect; and we +insist that a better civilization cannot come without permitting the +greatest degree of personal liberty in matters pertaining to the +sex-relation, and, above and beyond all, without conceding to the +unmarried mother the same respect that we accord to the married one, +when she is otherwise worthy of our respect. It certainly takes +courage for a defenseless woman to bear a fatherless child, in a +hypocritical world.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_127" id="Page_127">[Pg 127]</a></span>The normal woman does not live who would not rather be safely and +happily married to the man whom her soul tells her exists somewhere in +the universe, than to be battling with the problem of existence, +alone. When she is so married, we need not fear that the marriage will +be disrupted. Until she is so married, no power on earth can, and no +power in Heaven will, prevent the disruptions, although man's laws may +temporarily obstruct the evidence of such disruption.</p> + +<p>What we have already said will make it clear, that our contention is +that affinities are not necessarily soul-mates; that, in fact, we may +have many and various kinds of affinities, but no one can possibly +have more than one soul-mate.</p> + +<p>Mates are two entities composing a pair. They are the two halves that +make a whole. Unlike what we know of affinities, they are not merely +similar; nor yet opposite, so that they attract each other because of +curiosity or dissimiliarity.</p> + +<p>They belong to each other because together they complete a perfect +balance. Each supplies in the exact proportion required for balance +the qualities lacking in the other.</p> + +<p>In the event of such union, instinctive procreation will cease, and +re-generation will begin. They will consciously beget souls, instead +of merely providing bodies for souls to manifest upon this external +plane of consciousness.</p> + +<p>Bodily contact is not essential to this phase of sex-union, because +the real conjunction is between the interior natures; and the interior nature +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_128" id="Page_128">[Pg 128]</a></span> +exists independently of the physical organism.</p> + +<p>Already the race-thought is beginning to realize interiorly. This is +manifest in the daily press; in music and drama; and in all the +avenues of the senses. That intangible, elusive but potential thing +called "character" forms the gist of editorial advice. Everywhere we +note a tendency to look below the appearance of things, and to fathom +the depths of psychological analysis. For the first time in centuries +the race-thought seeks the underlying cause for specific effects, +instead of, as heretofore, being satisfied to deal with effects only, +suppressing those that are unpleasant and extolling those that seem +agreeable.</p> + +<p>The scientist expresses it thus: "Nature is giving up her secrets to +man." The metaphysician puts it this way: "The soul of man is +unveiling, and soon we shall know each other in Truth." The +religionist has long looked for a time when, as prophesied by St. +Paul, who was above all things a spiritually-conscious person, "we +shall see each other face to face; not as now through a glass, +darkly."</p> + +<p>This tendency to "get behind the scenes" as it were, to penetrate the +crust of mere outward semblance, and to reveal the interior nature, +may be seen even in the fashions of our clothes. Despite thunders of +denunciation from the self-constituted keepers of our morals, who are +not yet free from the bondage of traditional ideas of virtue and +"respectability," women have insisted upon freedom of the body in +dress until at last<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_129" id="Page_129">[Pg 129]</a></span> the uncorseted, short-skirted, thinly-clad woman +excites little adverse comment. The fact has at last established +itself that the female form has legs.</p> + +<p>This fact was only half suspected before; men have always wanted to +see exactly what was beneath those long flowing skirts; and woman has +always known that she possessed at least one trump card, in the game +of enslaving man to become what modern slang has so aptly labeled her +"meal-ticket." She could always keep him guessing as to whether or not +she had legs; and the average man, be it known, possesses a fund of +curiosity far in excess of that which is proverbially ascribed to +woman. Men have been known to pay the highest price, even to donning +the matrimonial yoke, to satisfy their curiosity. Women have always +known this, and the worldly wise mother has besought her marriageable +daughter to "keep her skirts well over her ankles" if she hoped to +secure a man as a permanent banker! It does sound crude expressed +thus, but this is the basis upon which at least nine-tenths of the +respectable marriages of society are consummated. And this is the +standard which the short-sighted keepers of public morals would have +us retain. They would force women to act as though their bodies are +vile. They would keep the mind encumbered with the corpse of an idea +of modesty, from which the spirit has long since fled. The spirit has +fled from it because it was a false idea of modesty; because it was +founded upon the idea that woman was an<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_130" id="Page_130">[Pg 130]</a></span> instrument of the devil +himself, and that to look upon her naked form was in itself wicked, +and only permitted to poor man as a concession to his own innate +defilement.</p> + +<p>The good Church at one time, not so far distant, refused to admit +women to the communion table in the "holy sacrament." A fine chance +has any sacrament of being holy, with one half of it missing!</p> + +<p>The old idea of womanly modesty consisted of blushing with shame and +embarrassment if by chance her ankles became exposed to the interested +and curious gaze of a male. Notwithstanding this ideal of modesty, the +designing and beguiling female managed to arrange just such a +contretemps every time there was an eligible male within sight; if +discovered, she either assumed a look of infantile innocence, or she +took the opportunity to coax a becoming blush.</p> + +<p>To be sure, this does not accurately describe all women of "the good +old days." There was the other type.</p> + +<p>Nature manifests in extremes. There was the type, fitting ancestors to +those women of to-day who are outraged and shocked at the present-day +fashions, which actually disclose the fact that women are +anatomatically endowed with legs and hips, quite in defiance of man's +inherited predilection for making this discovery under conditions that +would pamper to his satiating sex-appetite. They, poor creatures, were +dreadfully ashamed of being women, and they did all that was possible +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_131" id="Page_131">[Pg 131]</a></span> +to conceal the fact. They, doubtless, would gladly have amputated +their legs, if the ministers had so decreed, and they apologized to +the world every time an unforseen circumstance uncovered a portion of +these offensive legs. In fact, they denied the existence of "said +members," and alluded to them tentatively and with modest hesitation, +as "limbs."</p> + +<p>"But," some will exclaim, "we cannot see any possible connection +between a regenerated race, and a fashion which permits the display of +the female figure upon the public streets, where men who are as yet +un-regenerated, and licentious, may leer and pass vile remarks, and +suggest lustful thoughts."</p> + +<p>Few can see any connection between our so-called practical, everyday +life, and the spiritual life. They look upon the spiritual life as +something remote; something in the dim and ever and ever distant +future. The spiritual life is supposed to be so negative that we +postpone living it, as long as we possibly can; and whereas the human +family has prayed and prayed, for Lo! these many ages: "Thy kingdom +come upon earth," they apparently have not had the slightest idea that +God would take them at their word.</p> + +<p>They are like the old darky who called upon "de Lawd to strike him +dead if he was not telling the truth," when as a matter of fact he was +lying roundly. At that moment a bricklayer on the building above where +Rastus was standing, dropped a brick, which struck the old darkey on +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_132" id="Page_132">[Pg 132]</a></span> +the head, and he exclaimed "What's de matter, good Lawd, caint +you'all take a joke?"</p> + +<p>The Kingdom of God, from all records, whether orthodox or heterodox, +has been described as the abode of angels; and angels have been +pictured as nearly nude as our silly "morality" would permit. No one +has as yet suggested that we compel the angels to wear hoopskirts, +although "September Morn" has been compelled, by police regulation, to +don a sweater.</p> + +<p>The spiritual life awaits our cognizance, just behind the transparent +veil of our limited mortal consciousness. This is the message of the +"unveiling" of the female form. This is the time of woman's revealment +of true modesty; true ideals. The Female Principle, representing the +spiritual element in nature, hitherto shut in; covered up; hidden—is +coming out.</p> + +<p>Men must learn to be able to look upon the female form without spasms +of either lustful desires; or contemptuous indifference.</p> + +<p>There was a time when the presence of a female office-force in the +business section of a city was the signal for unwarranted familiarity +on the part of some of the male members of a corporation. There was a +time, when women first invaded the ranks of the "down-town" business +centers, that a woman's appointment to a responsible position rested +upon her claims to feminine attractiveness. Now, the only question +asked is, "Is she efficient?"</p> + +<p><i>That which she is, in her interior nature, is the final test of her power.</i> +When men have become<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_133" id="Page_133">[Pg 133]</a></span> inured to the knowledge, so long +concealed, that women have legs and that there is no more +seductiveness in them than in their faces, the love of man for woman +will undergo the same evolution that his estimate of her business +efficiency has undergone. He will judge her by what she is in her +interior nature; and his sexual desires, now manifested distractedly +in mere love of the female, will become concentrated in love of the +one woman to whom his soul turns in irresistible sex-attraction, as +unerringly as the needle turns to the pole to which it is magnetized.</p> + +<p>Is this fact so unmanifest? Does not everything point to it?</p> + +<p>A few years ago, a man and a woman could not pass a day together in +mutual conversation, and interest, without encroachment upon the one +emotion which they were supposed to hold in common—sexual attraction.</p> + +<p>That was indeed the whole sum and substance of communication between +the two sexes, if we may except the rare instances which history has +made much of, because of their rarity—women of the French salons, who +have become famous for their wit and beauty, in neither of which +attributes did they outstrip the average self-supporting woman of +today.</p> + +<p>But custom has slowly, but perceptibly, established the possibility of +a frank and non-sentimental companionship between the male and the +female, and the result is that both are much more clear as to the true +character of their sentiments<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_134" id="Page_134">[Pg 134]</a></span> toward each other. Neither is blinded +by the force of undifferentiated sex-attraction.</p> + +<p>There must be some specific basis of mutual love; hence we have the +vogue of the "affinity," and by the term is instantly recognized a +special force of attraction, independent of undifferentiated sex +alone. It is known that there is at least an assumption of an interior +attraction, and we insist that affinity marriages, however incomplete +as yet, are still superior in motive to that of mere marriage, where +it is a case of <i>a</i> male and <i>a</i> female, united by propinquity; family +considerations; commercial interests; class association; or what not.</p> + +<p>Affinities at least have the grace to presuppose a special +sex-attraction. They argue for the ultimate goal of special and +permanent selection, even if they fail to reach it.</p> + +<p>That there will be many failures during the journey from the +sense-conscious life, to the soul-conscious life, is a foregone +conclusion. The pathway of Love has always been a thorny one, but +those who are on the high ground may look across into the rose-strewn +garden, and know that the little god is aiming his arrows at the +interior nature of those whom he would unite. He is not blind. His +sight is illumined and he sees that the soul can unite only with its +mate. True it is that "the course of true love never did run smooth," +but let us hope that the time is coming when it will be less thorny.</p> + +<p><i>There are no mismates in soul-union.</i></p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_135" id="Page_135">[Pg 135]</a></span>This truth is the "secret of secrets" of the Hermetics. It is the +hidden wisdom of the initiates; the alchemical mysteries of the +Ancients. It is told to us in the fairy story of the Sleeping +Princess—a story which is found in the folk-lore of every country of +the globe. It is the philosopher's stone, which when found, opens the +door to all wisdoms.</p> + +<p><i>There can be no mismates in soul-union.</i></p> + +<p>Neither can there be any sexual "temptation," or desire outside of +this union, when once found.</p> + +<div class="poem"> + <div class="stanza"> + <p>"But never shall he faint or fall</p> + <p>Who lists to hear, o'er every fate,</p> + <p>The sweeter and the higher call</p> + <p class="i6">Of his true mate.</p> + </div> + <div class="stanza"> + <p>I hear it wheresoe'er I rove;</p> + <p>She holds me safe from shame or sin;</p> + <p>The holy temple of her love</p> + <p class="i6">I worship in."</p> + </div> +</div> + +<p>A time when "the twain shall be" virtually, "one flesh" and the +"outside as the inside" is not a chimerical dream.</p> + +<p>When the physical body is as much reverenced as is the spiritual; when +in fact, the soul is revealed (unveiled) to our mortal consciousness; +when the mind has been freed from its load of prejudices and fears and +doubts and belief in sin; then we shall, indeed, truly see each other.</p> + +<p>We do not see each other now, unless perhaps<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_136" id="Page_136">[Pg 136]</a></span> +we have developed that spiritual insight which is not blinded by appearances, but which +contacts the interior nature. But the revealing, the uncovering +process has begun. We have come to the time so long anticipated; so +earnestly promised, when "naked and unashamed" we should "re-enter the +lost Paradise."</p> + +<p>Well, the women, God bless them, are as naked as the tender morality +of our police officials will permit and as unashamed as it is possible +to be with the handicap of a puritanical ancestry, which was so +evil-minded as to suspect God himself of sin when He formed the +"wicked" body.</p> + +<p>Prudists may howl; and legislators may legislate; but the course of +the Cosmic Law which would free us and bestow upon us Peace and Love +and Happiness without stint, has never been stopped, although it has +been obstructed.</p> + +<p>Let us examine some points of the Hidden Wisdom, in the light of this +postulate, and see if the conclusion is not warranted.</p> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_137" id="Page_137">[Pg 137]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_VIII" id="CHAPTER_VIII"></a>CHAPTER VIII</h2> + +<h2>THE HIDDEN WISDOM REVEALED</h2> + + +<p>As we have previously observed, there is what may be termed a +religious mysticism and a scientific mysticism. When viewed from the +standpoint of the unprejudiced seeker, who finds the truth that is in +everything, these two phases of mysticism are but photographs of the +same subject taken from different points of view. So, too, mysticism +itself is, in the final analysis, nothing more than a long-distance +view of science.</p> + +<p>Like the proverbial pot and kettle, which we are told made much noise +over calling each other black, we find the scientist frequently +disdains the mystic, and the mystic may retaliate with equal +disapproval of the scientist's position. Both are right, each from his +point of view. Each is looking at life from an opposite end of the +same pole. The scientist looks at the effect and the mystic at the +cause. In their final calculations they arrive at the same conclusion, +although they call it by different names.</p> + +<p>The scientist says that everything proceeds from the one eternal +energy. The mystic perceives the spiritual co-existent with the +external. Religious mysticism calls it "God's word made manifest." In +reference to this definition of religious<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_138" id="Page_138">[Pg 138]</a></span> mysticism, perhaps the +phraseology used by William Ralph Inge, in his "Christian Mysticism," +is the best possible exposition of the position of the religious +mystic, if we may separate the two phases. Inge says: "Religious +mysticism may be defined as the attempt to realize the presence of the +living God in the soul and in nature, or more generally as the attempt +to realize in thought and in feeling the imminence of the temporal in +the eternal, and the eternal in the temporal."</p> + +<p>Which is to say exactly what the scientific mystic says, using other +terminology; and likewise what the physicist says or will ultimately +say, as his researches lead him into the finer and finer realms of +discovery.</p> + +<p>The scientific mystic, like Archimedes, believes that in order to +measure the purpose of external creation, he must "base his fulcrum +somewhere beyond."</p> + +<p>The scientific mystic, therefore, starts from the center of the Circle; +from the crux of creation; and he finds the X, which is the hypothetical +base of algebraical science—the unknown quantity of which sex is the +symbol. Reasoning from effect back to cause and from cause forward to effect +the mystic finds the equation complete, perfect, and likewise simple; but it +is simple only after we have deciphered it. Like the prize puzzles which are +designed to exercise the inductive faculties, mysticism, when we have not the +key, is a most tantalizing enigma. Most "practical" +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_139" id="Page_139">[Pg 139]</a></span> +persons dismiss it with the same superficial idea that they entertain in +regard to puzzles, saying "it is only a puzzle"—utterly ignoring the +value of exercising the inductive reasoning faculties.</p> + +<p>Fairy stories are popularly supposed to be for the entertainment and +amusement of children. In reality they are the universal language of +symbolism. There is not a single fairy story which has not been handed +down from generation to generation, and, what is more suggestive, each +story is told with astonishing lack of variation, in every tongue and +throughout every nation on this earth.</p> + +<p>The stories involving the turning of men into animals and their final +restoration to human form, as a reward for some service, some +sacrifice, typifies the two-fold nature of Man. He may live in his +animal, or exterior nature; or he may develop his spiritual, or +interior nature; through service; through unselfish love. Our limited +mortal consciousness is responsible for the tendency to personify +everything, instead of to realize the principles underlying all +expression. God and the Devil have been the personification of the two +phases of the principles of Evolution, from animal man to spiritual +man.</p> + +<p>Romulus and Remus have been presented as an actual and specific +instance of twins; likewise Castor and Pollux. Almost every child +instinctively alludes to himself or herself, as either "the good +little me" or the "bad little me." "O, I didn't do that; it was the +bad little Dorothy," or "Harold," as the case may be, is the child-like +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_140" id="Page_140">[Pg 140]</a></span> +way of expressing the innate consciousness that there is +an interior and an exterior nature to all of us.</p> + +<p>The union of gods with mortals, which forms the gist of Mythological +tales, symbolizes the god-like and the mortal qualities inherent in +human nature. Mortals raised to the abode of the gods; and the gods +descended into mortal life; symbolize the interchangeability of what +we term matter and spirit—the power of transmutation of the lower +into the higher life.</p> + +<p>Volumes could be written upon the subject, and we will therefore try +to confine our reviews to the symbolical traditions which deal most +directly with the relations of the sexes.</p> + +<p>In religious symbology, the story of the ark stands as the supreme +type of creation, through the conjunction of the sexes. <ins class="correction" title="incomplete sentence 'We have already' removed">_</ins></p> + +<p>The cherubim are, when all is said and done, nothing more, nor yet +less, than spiritual children—the result of spiritual sex-union.</p> + +<p>And in this later synoptic mysticism of the ark of the Covenant, we +are informed that "every gift within the tabernacle is willingly +offered." If we will but contemplate the volumes of wisdom contained +within that sentence, we cannot fail to conclude that every +infinitesimal particle of coercion in whatsoever shape and form, +individual, economic, ethical, or religious, must be excluded from the +regenerated, perfect, ideal sex-relation; otherwise we do not attain +it.</p> + +<p>If the Ancients seemed to take some of these +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_141" id="Page_141">[Pg 141]</a></span> +folk-lore stories too literally, we of this "practical" age, do not take +them literally enough.</p> + +<p>We have imagined that sex, and the sex function, began and ended in +the physical. This view is excusable in the case of the materialist, +if there really be such a person but it is obviously a stupid view for +the theologian, who regards this life as the door to spiritual life. +Since sex is the cause and the result of what we know of creation; +since it is the foundation of all the qualities that we know as +spiritual laws; friendship; unselfishness; fidelity; paternal +solicitude—it is absolutely certain that the most beautiful things we +know here must have a correspondence in the life hereafter. Of these +beautiful things in life, babies come first; with birds and flowers +and music as fitting accessories.</p> + +<p>But to return to the ark of the covenant. The perpetual flame on the +altar (the center) is the undying Flame of spiritual love—and by that +we mean sex-love, let it be understood. If we seem to repeat this too +frequently it is because of the almost general habit of the race to +apologize for sex-love. The erroneous idea obtains, that spiritual +love is sexless. All too frequently we come across the phrase, "with a +love that has in it nothing of human love," the writer evidently +anxious to convey the impression of tremendous spirituality and the +consequent elimination of the sex function.</p> + +<p>And so we emphasize once more, and we may do so again, the assurance +that the symbol of the<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_142" id="Page_142">[Pg 142]</a></span> never-dying flame upon the altar is typical of +the never-dying spirit of sex-love. Spirit is ever symbolized by +flame, as in the "flaming sword" of the archangel.</p> + +<p>The Deity upon the seat of the altar symbolizes the bi-une +Sex-principle of creation.</p> + +<p>The reason that the Jewish people have claimed that they were "God's +chosen people" is because, in their symbolism of the ark of the +Covenant, all Israel was grouped under the tabernacle. The formation +of the tabernacle proves that it typifies the mother's womb. The +tabernacle was guarded by the priests who <i>were sworn to purity</i>; thus +they symbolized the esoteric truth that the pure spiritual sex-union +bestows immortal god-hood.</p> + +<p>Let us take another story, that of the life-token. This is best told +in the story of the Holy Grail, although it is found in all the +fairy-books of all nations, in the language and form befitting the +race to which it belongs.</p> + +<p>In the original, that is in the earliest recitals of this life-token +story, we find that the thing left behind, as a <i>center</i> (which is +always guarded and protected in various ways), was a tree. Here, we +have the phallic symbol as the life-token. But in the story of the +Holy Grail, the cup is the life token to be guarded; it is the sacred +symbol of the quest and it is of a design resembling the red rose of +the Templars. This time it is the yoni—literally the <i>chalice</i> of the +<i>holy communion</i>; the centre of the radiant circle, which is the +answer to all the problems within the radius. It is the<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_143" id="Page_143">[Pg 143]</a></span> search for, +and the finding of, the balance in counterpartal union. It is the X of +Being, and only the purest and the noblest of the Knights of the +"Round Table" essay the difficult quest. The "mound of Venus" is +another name for the "Round Table."</p> + +<p>Again is emphasized the necessity for purity, and this purity, +although including all the spiritual qualities: fidelity; bravery; +self-sacrifice; humanity; love of truth; culminates in sexual purity.</p> + +<p>"Blessed are the pure in heart (the pulse of the soul) for they shall +see God." We revise this latter part, and we say "for they shall be +<i>gods</i>."</p> + +<p>Let us consider the story of the "sleeping Princess." She is depicted +as a princess, first of all, because she is the daughter of a king; a +king is an earthly ruler, or exalted person. Esoterically, she is the +daughter of the exalted God, and she is the soul. Sometimes this story +is told in the male gender, but everywhere the essential points are +the same.</p> + +<p>Wagner, who is known as a Mystic, has illustrated the story in +Brunhilde and Siegfried. Brunhilde is an immortal—a goddess, who +renounces her immortality to become a woman.</p> + +<p>She sleeps on the top of a high mountain and she is surrounded by a +circle of flame; and here she sleeps, despite all efforts to arouse +her, until awakened by the touch of Siegfried—the one human being in +all the universe who could awaken the sleeping princess.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_144" id="Page_144">[Pg 144]</a></span>The high mountain symbolizes the highest love of which we are capable. +To reach the soul of the exalted woman, typified in the fairy-story by +the word princess, and later, by Wagner, as the goddess, man must be +her mate. <i>No other can enter the womb of her soul</i>, though many may +effect an entrance to the outer court.</p> + +<p>This truth, as absolute as life itself, solves all the problems of the +mystery of love and its joys and sorrows. No soul can wholly, +unreservedly love the "wrong" one. Though we may love and die of the +pain of unrequited loving, yet love is its own self-justification, and +its own reward. The pathway of love leads up the mountain top, but no +one who reaches the summit shall fail to find that for which he seeks.</p> + +<p>The soul of man, and of woman, has been playing a game of blind-man's +bluff—a fitting name for the game it is, too. Unable to see anything +but the exterior nature, and longing for success in the search, we +have frantically grabbed here and there, and appropriated that which +we grabbed, with a self-complacency and an egotism of which little +Jack Horner would be ashamed.</p> + +<p>In the symbolical rites and ceremonies of secret orders, such as the Ancient +Alchemists; the Hermetics; the Rosicrusians; and in modern times, the Free Masons, +we have this story of the search for the ultimate balance of soul union, told in +language veiled unless we are fit to know; but openly enough if we are fit. And in +all these orders (alleged guardians of the hidden wisdom) +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_145" id="Page_145">[Pg 145]</a></span> +we have varying degrees of initiation; and in each degree the initiate must undergo +certain trials to prove his fearlessness; his fidelity; his fitness, in other +words, for the final revealment of all, which is the initiation into +the "holy of holies;" the "secret chamber" and the degree of +"mastership."</p> + +<p>In the order of Masonry, the highest degree is that of the Templar. +The symbol of the Templars is the red rose on the cross, together with +the star and the crescent. The star preserves the esotericism of its +nomenclature, in whatever sphere it is used, namely, the power of +radiating light. It stands for the radiant center. The Knights Templar +sought the radiant center to complete their half circle, and when they +should have found, they were to become radiant with the light of +spiritual power. That they originally at least, understood the way of +this initiation, is evident by the symbol of the rose and the +cross—the combined phallus and yoni.</p> + +<p>This fact is the underlying cause of the open and hereditary enmity of +the Church of Rome for the modern order of Freemasons. The Church +sought to specialize in the persons of the Virgin Mary and her Son the +eternal principles of the "way of the cross." The temporal power of +the Church could be built up only by offering a complete system of +salvation within the church itself. At the same time, the utter +degradation of Sex, which had reached its depths under Roman +civilization, called for as complete a reversion of the +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_146" id="Page_146">[Pg 146]</a></span> +ideas of the Ancient sex-worshippers, as was consistent with the truth.</p> + +<p>Hence we find the extreme attitude of the Church opposing all +reference to sex as other than a part of the temptations of the Evil +One, although they did retain the central truth typified by the Holy +Virgin Mother, and the pure and perfect child.</p> + +<p>The Alchemists are supposed to have been imbued with the desire and, +to some extent, at least, were regarded as having the knowledge of how +to make gold. This gold-making was always accomplished by +transmutation of the baser (lower) metals; also, the knowledge of how +to accomplish this transmutation was possible only to one possessing +"the philosopher's stone."</p> + +<p>If we will but remember that this "philosopher's stone" was of such a +purity that it was almost impossible to find it; that, although +several initiates claimed to possess the stone, yet no visible proof +of its existence, or of gold resulting from lead or copper, was ever +offered; and again if we will realize the fine distinction between the +words "found" and "discovered," and take note that the word "found" is +used almost invariably in connection with those who claimed to possess +the stone, we will arrive at the obvious conclusion that the secret of +the Alchemists was of an interior nature. We "discover" outside of +ourselves; we "find" within. Above all, the "stone of great purity" is +the same that was raised at Babylon, +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_147" id="Page_147">[Pg 147]</a></span> +supplanting the yoni, which is to say, the phallic symbol.</p> + +<p>A philosopher is one who is wise in his interior nature; his wisdom is +of the esoteric quality; we do not apply the term "philosopher" to +either great educators, or great financiers; but to those whose +activities are turned within.</p> + +<p>The force which is manifested in the lower desires and passions, when +transmuted into spiritual channels, opens the door to the golden light +of illumination.</p> + +<p>To become in reality a Prince of the Rosy Cross bestows the exaltation +and the power, typified by that of an earthly prince—one who is +exalted above the common man.</p> + +<p>It is doubtful, indeed, if many of the ancient alchemists attained to +this exalted degree in its true significance; and we may readily +believe that in an age in which wealth was so eagerly sought; temporal +power so much desired; where deception was almost general; that few +lived the requisite purity of life to have accomplished the +transmutation; so today there is not one in a thousand of the many who +have taken the degree of "Knight Templar," who recognizes its esoteric +meaning.</p> + +<p>But words have a trick of trapping us, and we note that the word +"taken" is invariably used in referring to modern Masonic initiation. +Verily they have "taken" the degree in its outward semblance. They +have not attained to its powers and privileges.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_148" id="Page_148">[Pg 148]</a></span>Nor can they do so, when they exclude the very "gate of life" from the +order. They may become masons (builders of the temple), but how can +they become Architects, when they have not entered the tabernacle?</p> + +<p>In a search for hidden meanings, and for a secret tradition which is +believed to be discoverable in Kabalistic and Hermetic literature, we +find, if we possess true insight, the one indubitable truth, +subordinating all the other symbols, namely that of the supremacy, the +finality, of the sublimated sex-union, resulting in immortal +mastership.</p> + +<p>Most modern interpreters of the archives of these ancient philosophers +ignore the sexual significance of the arcana, but a glimpse at the +symbols will readily convince the initiated of their identity with +sexual symbology.</p> + +<p>For example in "The History of Transcendental Magic," by Eliphas Levi +(Abbe Constant), translated by Arthur Edward Waite, there is a plate +used to illustrate the author's theory of Alchemy, which he concludes +"had two aspects, one a physical and the other a moral one." The +sexual, as well as the spiritual, significance is ignored, but this +may be due to a disinclination to reveal the secret meaning of the +alchemical symbols, or it may be due to a materialistic tendency on +the part of the compiler.</p> + +<p>The plates, however, speak for themselves, and in one, ascribed to +Basil-Valentine, an alchemist of the Fifteenth century, called "The Great Hermetic +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_149" id="Page_149">[Pg 149]</a></span> +Arcanum," the supreme and significant point of the +illustration, shows, within the circle of Experience, through which +the initiate travels in his search for the supreme god-head, two +doves, holding in their beaks a crown. The doves are perfectly +matched. The crown is balanced between them, and the figure tops the +circle, under the heading "regeneration."</p> + +<p>In another plate, which the author presents as "the Philosophic Cross, +or Plan of the Third Temple as prophesied by Ezekiel," we note again, +that the crown of the symbolical temple represents the red rose upon a +cross, within a radiant circle; beneath this is a mother-eagle with +outstretched wings, shielding her little brood, and on either side a +tree and a flowering rosebush.</p> + +<p>Here is the symbol par excellence of generation. The creative function +of the male and the female in procreative conjunctivity.</p> + +<p>The employment of the eagle as a religious symbol may be traced back +to the civilization of the Hittites.</p> + +<p>Only a few years ago, two English archæologists discovered a +double-headed eagle in Asia. This was identical with those seen +perpetuating religious rites and ceremonies of the sex-worshipers. An +eagle holding in its talons a serpent is an emblem well known today. +The origin of the adoption of the eagle as a religious, though not +necessarily a "sacred," symbol by prehistoric races, may easily be +imagined, if we consider that the eagle is a bird of tremendous power; and that +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_150" id="Page_150">[Pg 150]</a></span> +it soars to unreachable heights; and that it unquestionably +was at some time seen to swoop down and carry off the serpent, +possibly even during their ceremonies of serpent-worship.</p> + +<p>This idea becomes quite convincing when we also remember that the +ceremonies of the serpent worshipers were carried on, as far as +feasible, upon the mountain. We allude to this stage of religious +history as "serpent worship," but when we realize the points of +analogy between the serpent and the phallus it is apparent that the +serpent was only the nature-emblem of generation, as manifested by the +male principle.</p> + +<p>"The eagle and the dove" is a phrase employed today to illustrate the +law of antithesis, and it is more than probable that the eagle +represented the lower nature of the sex-relation, in juxtaposition to +the higher, as the dove is emblematical of the spiritualized aspect of +sex-love. We have an analogy to that of the eagle and the dove in the +Biblical allusion to "the last day; when God will separate the 'sheep +from the goats,'" Here again is a pertinent reference to the sex +nature. The goat is a symbol of sensuality and lust, principally +because he has perverted sexual proclivities, notably that of +coercion. For this reason, Classical Mythology employs the satyr, a +creature half man and half goat, to typify the lowest form of the sex +call in man.</p> + +<p>On the other hand, the lamb is the type of gentleness and affection, and although in outward +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_151" id="Page_151">[Pg 151]</a></span> +appearance the lamb and the goat are not dissimilar, their natures are antithetical.</p> + +<p>In estimating the God-idea of the Ancients, many mistakes have arisen +by confounding religious symbols with the "sacred" symbols. The +race-mind was in its kindergarten stage, and all ideals were instilled +by means of pictures—a method which even the present hour finds most +effective.</p> + +<p>In modern theological symbolism we have God and the Devil; Heaven and +Hell; angels and demons, to illustrate by antithesis.</p> + +<p>They all belong to religious symbology, but only those which teach +spiritual ideals are denominated "sacred."</p> + +<p>"Riding the goat," alleged to be the almost invariable initiatory +prelude to fitness for membership in all secret orders, means, first +of all, that the would-be initiate must have control over his lower +sexual desires. If he cannot control the goat instincts within his +nature, he stands small chance of taking the higher degrees of +spiritual regeneration, through transmutation.</p> + +<p>In another symbolic chart presenting the secrets of alchemical +transmutation, we find depicted "The Gate of Eternal Wisdom," and we +are further informed that this "gate" also brings "knowledge of God." +The design of this cave-like aperture should betray its esoteric meaning. +It is situated under a mound, upon which trees are planted. The inscriptions +on the corrugated walls of the cave, are evidently designed to resemble +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_152" id="Page_152">[Pg 152]</a></span> +seven lotus petals, and are set forth as the +seven mysteries. Inscriptions warning against profanation of this +sacred gate, and also promising eternal life and glory to the true +initiate, inspire the intrepid and deter the doubtful. Of these +latter, several are outside the entrance. Two are on the steps leading +to the mouth of the cave but their attitude bespeaks doubt of their +worthiness. Only one has penetrated to the radiant center of the +aperture, and there is room for but the one to enter the radiance of +the solar gate, which truly bestows a knowledge that is "of God."</p> + +<p>Sex Symbology is a subject that calls for a large volume devoted to +this special side of it, and we cannot hope to do more here than to +touch a few of the almost universal proofs of the contention which is +the purpose of this book, namely, that the supreme goal of life, +typified in every religion, every philosophy, and in the intuitional +knowledge of the human mind, is spiritual sex-union; and that this can +be accomplished only by counterparts; the two halves of the bi-une god +seed uniting in one immortal and complete pair—a man and a woman. +Not, we must again emphasize, not in a hermaphroditic personality, but +in two perfect complementaries—mates; not <i>one</i> but <i>a pair</i>.</p> + +<p>In another exposition of Hermetic secrets we discover the amazing +statement that "the alchemist is found working throughout, in +conjunction with a woman of the art; <i>they begin and they attain +together</i>."</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_153" id="Page_153">[Pg 153]</a></span>This should be plain enough. Small chance, indeed, either would have +of attaining alone. But if this suggestion is not sufficient (and +either from design or from failure to comprehend the significance of +it, the translator seems to have missed the point), we are introduced +to a symbolical figure-study, which shows a Chalice in which the sun +and the moon are personified (the solar-man and the solar-woman), with +the god Vulcan (fire) seated between them. Underneath this "twain-one" +symbol a mortal man and a mortal woman are kneeling on either side of +a cone-shaped and dome-tipped furnace, which is lighted by a feeble +candle. But their attitude of prayer bespeaks the hope that this +earthly flame will be transmuted by their prayers and aspirations; by +their reverential attitude toward the divine character of the function +of mating, into the immortal and unquenchable flame typified by the +god of fire himself.</p> + +<p>In another series of symbolical plates, purporting to be the story of +Metallic transmutation, but representing, above all, the story of +manifestation from the Divine to the human and again to the +spiritualized and perfected Adam and Eve—(the solar man and the solar +woman), we again see that from generation to regeneration the work is +accomplished by man and woman in conjunction.</p> + +<p>These plates bear the hall-marks of Christian appropriation of +Hermetic symbolism, as peculiarly applicable to the Church, but the central +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_154" id="Page_154">[Pg 154]</a></span> +doctrine of salvation through sex-regeneration, is retained. +Whether consciously or not, is a question.</p> + +<p>Modern commentators and translators of alchemical literature insist +that such documents are palpably related to the secret, or secrets, of +metallic transmutation. That they prove the search for, if not the +existence of, a "magic solvent" that resolves the baser metals into +gold; but, as far as known, such a compound has not yet been +discovered or, if it ever was, it has since been lost and evades all +attempts at rediscovery. But if we read these alchemical treatises as +they relate to transmutation of sex-love from the pro-creative +function to regeneration through spiritual or counterpartal union +(solar mates), we have the key to every statement.</p> + +<p>A writer tells of an instance which is recorded among alchemical +archives, where "an unknown master testified to his possession of the +mystery" (supposedly of metallic transmutation), but it is added that +"he had not proceeded to the work because he had failed to meet an +<i>elect woman</i>, who was necessary thereto." In other words, applying +this statement in its obviously logical sense, the unknown master knew +the esoteric meaning of the alchemical postulate, but not having met +his female complement, he could not testify to the results of this +transmutation. An "elect woman" would hardly be necessary in the work +of metallic transmutation.</p> + +<p>Small wonder that the "alchemist" abandoned<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_155" id="Page_155">[Pg 155]</a></span> the work of turning lead +and copper into gold. If he had found the key of keys, he cared little +whether lead were lead, or whether gold remained gold, or melted into +thin air. The golden light of illumination showed him all things in +their purpose, and gold as a metal meant no more to him than did the +so-called "baser" metals.</p> + +<p>Commenting upon this statement, the translator observes: "Those +Hermetic texts which bear a spiritual interpretation and are as if a +record of spiritual experience, present, like the literature of +physical alchemy, the following aspects of symbolism: the marriage of +sun and moon; of a mystical king and queen; a union between natures +which are <i>one</i> at the <i>root</i>, but diverse in manifestation; a +transmutation which follows this union and an abiding glory therein."</p> + +<p>If we will remember that the solar-man was personified by the Ancients +as the sun; and the solar-woman by the moon, we have the first and +salient points of the original Hermetic secrets, however much they may +have degenerated from their spiritual to their physical application. +The probabilities are that owing to the disapproval of the Christian +Hierarchy, only the most veiled terminology was permissible. This view +is more logical than is the one that the esoteric meaning was lost +sight of.</p> + +<p>The marriage of an hypothetical or "mystical king and queen" bespeaks +exaltation of the two conjoining persons, male and female, but this +exaltation is in consciousness, and not in mere +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_156" id="Page_156">[Pg 156]</a></span> +personality. The terms "king" and "queen" are nothing more or less than +symbols of an exalted (spiritualized) state.</p> + +<p>And, in passing, we may here mention the fact that the language of +lovers testifies to this intuitional realization. "My queen!" exclaims +the enraptured lover, although in social station his beloved one may +be only a scullery maid; and certainly, neither the beauty nor the +goodness nor the wisdom of earthly kings and queens would be +sufficient to inspire the comparison.</p> + +<p>It is ever the soul calling for the mate who, when found, will exalt +the "twain-one" into the immortal powers and immortal wealth +imperfectly symbolized by earthly rulers, making "right royal queens +and kings of common clay."</p> + +<p>The third aspect of the symbolism tells of "an union between two +natures which are one at the root, but diverse in manifestation." And +the alchemist who sought the physical interpretation of this, promised +that, as earth, air, and fire and water were the elements "out of +which all manifestation is composed," it only remained for someone to +discover the exact proportion of each of these elementary substances +in a specific compound; this accomplished, copper for example, could +be dissolved into its constituent parts and re-solved again in the +proportions which formed gold, a thing which we are not prepared to +say could not be accomplished, but a thing which we do say, would not +even be attempted by one who had found the secret of the interior transmutation, +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_157" id="Page_157">[Pg 157]</a></span> +because having attained to the radiant center, he +would realize the "glory of the worlds," and gold, as metal, would be +to him of far less value than the emerald of the grass; the pearls of +dew upon the rose; the scent of the lotus; the song of birds; the +laughter of children.</p> + +<p>How vain and foolish to imagine that a philosopher would think it +worth while to search for gold, as a metal. He would not even consider +the ambition worthy the parchment used to preserve the record of his +labors.</p> + +<p>But to find the golden light from the radiant center of pure and +unquenchable love—that were indeed worthy of ages of research. For +are we not promised, the "glory of the world" if we will seek and +find? And he who truly seeks will absolutely find. What is the glory +of the world? Is it fame, or wealth, or lands, or gems or kingdoms?</p> + +<p>Love is the only glory worthy of the name.</p> + +<div class="poem"> + <p>"For Life with all its yield of joy and woe</p> + <p>And hope and fear—believe the aged friend—</p> + <p>Is just our chance at the prize o' learning love."</p> +</div> + +<p>When we realize the esoteric meaning of this aspect of the ancient +alchemical symbol, namely, that the two halves of the one whole, +manifesting diversely as male and female, are reunited, we come to the +fourth aspect of the symbol mentioned, and the "transmutation which +follows this union and the abiding glory therein," is the inevitable +and logical sequential answer.</p> + +<p>An <i>abiding</i> glory must be founded upon spiritual substantiability. Transmutation is not synonymous +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_158" id="Page_158">[Pg 158]</a></span> +with, extinction, or elimination, or abandonment. We <i>transmute</i> the lower into the higher, the exterior +into the interior, the physical into the spiritual. This is the sum and substance of the "Ancient Wisdom."</p> + +<p>There is no eccentric change or transition from one phase or plane of +life, into another. It is neither logical nor justifiable to assume +that Sex is limited to the physical, or the astral or the psychic, or +any other specific planes of consciousness. These planes are not +distinctively separable anyway. They are merely <i>names</i> which we use +to distinguish degrees, or limitations of consciousness.</p> + +<p>The statement that the "two halves are reunited" is almost invariably +misinterpreted to imply an annihilation, or absorption of +individuality, into some sort of vaporous, formless, sexless Thing; +but why this should be so misconstrued is a puzzle, any more than that +bringing together the two halves of an orange which had been divided, +would result in the destruction of that edible; or any more than +bringing together a glove fitting the right hand and its mate fitting +the left hand, would destroy the shape and usefulness of this article. +The comparison may be a homely one, but it is understandable.</p> + +<p>It takes two to make a pair. Mistake it not, and further, there is no +<i>abiding glory</i> in this world or in the next or in any other sphere, +that is not founded upon the deep, intense and eternal love of man and +woman.</p> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_159" id="Page_159">[Pg 159]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_IX" id="CHAPTER_IX"></a>CHAPTER IX</h2> + +<h2>WHAT CONSTITUTES SEX IMMORALITY?</h2> + + +<p>The average mind, nurtured in apprehensive awe of that race fetish +called Public Opinion, is inordinately afraid of words.</p> + +<p>"Atheist," "infidel," "ungodly" are epithets which have been used as +mental clubs, with temporary effect, to beat back the wave of +religious and scientific Rationalism, which punctuated the last +century.</p> + +<p>These words have now lost much of their terror, even to the +undeveloped consciousness of the average, because it has been shown +that the God-idea which rational thought fain would substitute for the +old revengeful Deity, has not annihilated the world, but quite to the +contrary has resulted in a happier and higher ideal of godhood than +that which the early Church postulated.</p> + +<p>Epithets are the mental bulwarks of the powers of resistance against +Evolution.</p> + +<p>Ignorance is fearful of the unknown, and the knights of Enlightenment +have ever had to fight their way through the ranks of abuse and +criticism and misrepresentation.</p> + +<p>Free-love is a phrase with which even the most intrepid advocate of rational thought hesitates to +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_160" id="Page_160">[Pg 160]</a></span> +claim affiliation; and yet the goal of our highest endeavors must be a state of Society where Love, the god, +is free from the mire of corruption, and the bonds of slavery.</p> + +<p>Let us not be afraid of so harmless a thing as a word, remembering the +case of the little girl who ran to her mother crying with indignation +because someone had alluded to her as an "aristocrat." She did not +know what the word meant, and so resented it as something undeserved.</p> + +<p>When we examine into what the phrase free-love really means, we will +not be so fearful of its sound.</p> + +<p>To whom is this epithet most frequently applied?</p> + +<p>Is it to the average man who is known to be a Lothario in matters of +sex? Not at all. He is referred to as a "gay bachelor" or as one who +is "sowing his wild oats" or some other phrase, which in no way +affects his social standing.</p> + +<p>Is it applied to women of the half-world, to recognized, and legalized +prostitution? Never! It is significant of the real meaning of +free-love that the term is never used in connection with what modern +reform has aptly designated the "white slave" traffic, for the obvious +reason that nowhere is Love so un-free; so enslaved and bound and +murdered as in this phase of woman's degradation.</p> + +<p>Nor is the term applied to unfaithful wives, because in this type of defiance of traditional sex-ethics +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_161" id="Page_161">[Pg 161]</a></span> +there is always the spirit of self-accusation; a tacit, if not open, admission of wrong-doing.</p> + +<p>We never hear the awful accusation of "free-lover" hurled at the young +woman who has, what the world calls, "sinned," because, forsooth, she +pays the price of her deviation from social standards (when +discovered) by ostracism, and not infrequently by a broken heart, or +by sinking further into the depths of bondage; and so here again it is +evident that there is no freedom for whatever spirit of love actuates +her conduct.</p> + +<p>It must be admitted that the term "free-love" is applied only to those +who openly claim the right to bestow their affections and indulge in +the sex-relationship, independent of the marriage ceremony. It matters +not whether this claim includes but one mate, or several. It is the +demand that they shall not forfeit their right to respect and +morality, which is resented by the many who still conform to +traditional customs, and which general conformity results in investing +the term "free-love" with an unpleasant odor.</p> + +<p>Public opinion puts a premium upon deceit.</p> + +<p>Such intimate matters as marriage and divorce are really no concern of +any person other than the contracting or the "distracted" parties.</p> + +<p>The public is too concerned with trivialities and too little with +Truth. Nothing short of national insanity permits the existence of +divorce-courts, and the necessity for married persons desiring to +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_162" id="Page_162">[Pg 162]</a></span> +live apart, to slander and abuse each other like pickpockets before +they may act upon such a decision.</p> + +<p>Some time ago the public press was filled with the minutest details of +the love story of a woman, who had lived for fifteen years hidden from +the world because she loved a man well enough to pay that price.</p> + +<p>She might have insisted that the man obtain a divorce from his wife, +to whom he had been married seventeen or more years, and thus win the +approval of society. But this woman placed love above all material +things, and she preferred to take nothing from the wife. The love of +her husband the wife did not possess and, it would seem, did not care +for particularly. When through the accident of the man's death the +story came to light, the press was flooded with letters from prominent +club-women and from clergymen and others, stating upon what terms, if +any, this love-recluse should be forgiven.</p> + +<p>Most of them decided that she should not be forgiven; a few seemed to +think that if she "repented" and lived thereafter a "pure" life, she +might in time be worthy of their forgiveness.</p> + +<p>Such a spectacle! America will yet share the reputation with England +of being a nation without a sense of humor.</p> + +<p>Eagerly the representative members of society "rush in where angels +fear to tread" upon any and all occasions to air their opinions upon +other people's conduct and thus prove their own virtue.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_163" id="Page_163">[Pg 163]</a></span>The fact that this woman was not in any position to be forgiven or +unforgiven; that she was sublimely unconscious of and wholly +indifferent to their opinions; that she was unaware of any necessity +for either shame or repentance; seems not to have entered the silly +brains of these keepers of the public morals. She had loved one man +with a fidelity, a whole-heartedness, and a loftiness of +self-sacrifice which are as rare as they are great in these days of +pretense and hypocritical virtue, and she had paid the full price for +her idealism. She did not repine or regret. She only suffered, not +alone because of her unenviable notoriety, but because Death had taken +her loved one from her. Surely this was indeed an evidence of real +love in an unreal civilization, which should have brought out the +fearless sympathy and approval of every good woman in the land. It +should have been food for sermons in every pulpit in Christendom, that +a modern woman preferred solitary confinement with the man she loved +to the usual method of procedure, which insists upon the respectable +position of wife, no matter at what cost to another.</p> + +<p>But this is Society's estimate of Love and Truth and Virtue, and it is +small wonder if real people become indifferent to Society's feelings.</p> + +<p>If the term free-love were really synonymous with sex-promiscuity, we +would hear it used in connection with those whose frequent divorces +are the subject of press comment, but we do not, because by their +outward concession to established ethics they subscribe to the demands +of Convention.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_164" id="Page_164">[Pg 164]</a></span>The term, in its opprobrious sense, is almost always applied to women, +because for many centuries the men have claimed their right to +personal liberty in matters connected with the sex-relation, and until +women of the self-respecting and educated class began to openly +emulate the example of the male, there was no occasion to use the +phrase. Men come under its lash only when they, too, concede to women +the right to respectability notwithstanding defiance of tradition.</p> + +<p>All of which goes to prove that the public mind is in reality +sufficiently clear on the matter of distinction between sex +promiscuity and free-love. It is likewise obvious that the opprobrium +that attaches to the phrase is not aimed at promiscuity but at the +claim to personal liberty in matters of the sex-relation and defiance +of Public Opinion which demands either ostensible concurrence in its +standards, or punishment for openly transgressing them.</p> + +<p>The result of this unjust (and unfit, in the light of our other +advanced ideas) attitude toward the most important function of life, +has resulted in one of two lines of conduct as woman's only free +choice.</p> + +<p>Either she must resort to deception, hypocrisy and pretense, shielding +her secret excursions into forbidden paths, by feigning a scorn and +abhorrence for the doctrine of free-love, the while she secretly +indulges her sex-nature, more or less promiscuously, or else she is +forced to repress all her natural instincts, and not infrequently these instincts +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_165" id="Page_165">[Pg 165]</a></span> +are abnormally strong because of pre-natal and inherited influences.</p> + +<p>Both of these courses, the only two which are open to the average +woman, are disastrous to the sex, and through them to the race, +because women are the mothers of men, and any course which binds and +fetters the free spirit of woman hampers race-improvement.</p> + +<p>Repression of the natural functions of her being results in physical +disease, and ultimately in mental weakness. Unnatural expression of +the sex-function, under the ban of compulsion, whether through the +compulsion of marriage or through the more flagrant type of commercial +prostitution, is death to the best development of the race.</p> + +<p>Women, through the urge of economic necessity, or through the +religious ideal of wifely submission and fidelity to their "Lord and +Master" have been compelled to develop a craftiness and an artificial +"modesty" which, in most cases, passes for femininity, and deceives, +as it is intended to do, the average man.</p> + +<p>For centuries, a woman's only profession was matrimony. Her education +for this profession consisted first of all of complete ignorance of +all that relates to the most intimate and most vital part of her +nature—the function of sex. In the occasional instances where she had +inherited a degree of mentality which could not be dwarfed, she must +at least feign ignorance; and so, while secretly aware of every +emotion of the male, and covertly playing upon his sex-nature in her task +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_166" id="Page_166">[Pg 166]</a></span> +of "catching a husband," it is small wonder that women have +developed the traits of the cat animal, and are frequently both +treacherous and cruel.</p> + +<p>Indeed, it is only because the Female Principle is the attracting and +conserving power of the bi-une sex-love, that she has broken through +these mental fetters, and in a few rare instances has hurled defiance +at the devils of convention and tradition and claims justification of +her own sex-nature, and her right to her own person, despite the +epithet of "free-love."</p> + +<p>Woman's partial emancipation in some instances has, no doubt, "gone to +her head," as it were, and we see many women confounding license with +liberty; mistaking passion for Love; and exchanging restraint for +debauchery.</p> + +<p>The average woman is either almost entirely lacking in sex desire or +she is abnormally active in that function. In truth, the same state of +affairs prevails here, as in so many other phases of our modern life, +namely, there is no balance. We are a civilization of extremes; we are +one-sided, abnormal; distorted. We are seeking the pivotal point of +our destiny, which is the soul, but few have reached that point. Those +who have not, are groping through the jungles of the mental plane of +consciousness, upheld on the one hand by the upward trend of their +being, which seeks the level of the soul-conscious state; and held +back on the other hand by the trammels of the sense-conscious type +from which the race has developed to its present condition.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_167" id="Page_167">[Pg 167]</a></span>Those instances where women indulge in excesses are comparatively rare +in proportion to numbers, and they loom large in perspective because +of their very incongruity with our ideals of womanly conduct. The vast +majority of women may be safely trusted to use their sex-freedom, when +it shall have truly arrived, for the purpose of finding that one and +only mate which their souls instinctively know to be our rightful +heritage—the proverbial "pearl of great price" which insures +immortality in the bliss of union with our Beloved.</p> + +<p>Love, when freed from the illusions of sense; from the shackles of +commercialism; from the bonds of error regarding the meaning and +purpose of marriage; freed from selfishness and licentiousness; will +solve the question of sex-promiscuity. This for the obvious reason +that Love seeks its own. If left free to seek, it will find.</p> + +<p>But, if sex promiscuity is far from being free-love, if the doctrine +of sex freedom is fraught with many dangers under our present social +system, it must be conceded that no one method of social evolution, +thus far devised, can be recommended as ideally perfect. The best that +we can hope to do is to emphasize the importance and the sacredness +and the innate purity of the sex-relation, while conceding to both +sexes all the personal liberty possible.</p> + +<p>And above all, we should avoid condemnation of those who claim the +right to freedom, lest we cover up a condition which can but be the +better for being open to the light. Particularly should we +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_168" id="Page_168">[Pg 168]</a></span> +shield women from the charge of immorality, and licentiousness, when we see +them straying down the by-paths of the senses, in their quest for +freedom, remembering that the centuries of repression and submission +and consequent deception have left their mark upon woman's +temperament.</p> + +<p>Man has for ages boasted of his sex virility; of his conquests in what +he has termed "love." Not infrequently a man's choice of a wife is the +result of much seeking in the garden of Life; and much sipping of the +honey from the various flowers that grow therein. Often, indeed, a man +frankly tells the woman he would marry that he knows he loves her +above all other women for the convincing reason that he has tried so +many and none have held him. Should a woman make the same confession +and draw the same conclusion, he would be horrified.</p> + +<p>It must be admitted, then, that the term "free-lovers" is applied only +to those who defy Public Opinion and claim their right to respect and +morality despite their defiance of Society's false standards of +morality. These standards are false because they are based upon +criticism and censure of results instead of upon motives.</p> + +<p>Society ignores, if it does not actually encourage, frivolous +flirtations, and frowns most harshly upon instances of real love. It +sets the seal of disapproval and ostracism upon those who, because of +circumstances or possibly because of indifference to man-made laws, +take their affairs into their own hands and refuse to exhibit either +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_169" id="Page_169">[Pg 169]</a></span> +penitence or shame when the world discovers that they neglected the +marriage ceremony. If two persons truly love each other and there is +nothing to interfere with their undergoing the publicity of a marriage +ceremony, well and good, unless, indeed, it is a matter of principle +with them that our social customs are a fetich. But there are +innumerable instances where there are obstacles to unions which to +overcome would involve hardships and suffering to others, or where +absurd laws prevent marriage, and where two persons loving each other, +prefer to pay the price of social ostracism to separation. Such as +these lose nothing by Society's disapproval, but Society does lose +something by persecuting those who are independent enough and honest +enough to act from motive, rather than from custom, and who insist +upon maintaining their self-respect, in the face of criticism. +Self-respect is not related to braggadocio.</p> + +<p>It must be admitted that as yet there are few persons who have the +courage to endure martyrdom for their convictions, which is, perhaps, +just as well, because the majority are unable to distinguish between +brazen shamelessness and unashamedness. The average woman will stick +to the safe habit of dissembling.</p> + +<p>Women have learned the lesson of the cat too thoroughly to jump +immediately from the back-yard of Deception to the front porch of +Truth.</p> + +<p>In this one respect at least, however much she may indulge her desire +for frankness in other directions, a woman will lie valiantly, self-protectingly, +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_170" id="Page_170">[Pg 170]</a></span> +and continually, even though she follow in secret +the example of the cat, which (seeing its master come home from the +hunt with a string of birds, and displaying, with much pride and +satisfaction, the results of his prowess), conceived the idea that it +would also be a fine thing for her to go forth and kill the canary. +But to tabby's surprise, her ability was rewarded with chastisement; +whereupon she pondered the question over and over: "How can it be, +that what is virtue in man is vice in a cat?"</p> + +<p>We are not told in the story what conclusion she arrived at, but we +can imagine that her conclusion was that which women have arrived at, +in a similar situation, to wit: man is unjust and unreasonable, but he +is also stronger than I am, and therefore, while I shall follow his +example, I shall take good care to hide the feathers.</p> + +<p>In the meantime, we are crossing the bridge that leads from the +jungles of our animal nature, where prowl the beasts of deceit; greed; +selfishness; sensuality; vanity; avarice; and domination; to the +Heights, illumined by Love set free.</p> + +<p>Let us not jostle and crowd each other too harshly, while we are en +route.</p> + +<p>But, of course, we are confronted with the pertinent query as to what, +if any, absolute standard of morality there can be in matters of the +sex relation. Freedom is so easily misconstrued into implying +sex-promiscuity; and monogamy, the final survival of the various +systems of marriage, has in its modern as well as in its ancient aspect +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_171" id="Page_171">[Pg 171]</a></span> +so much of coercion; and coercion is cited as the insuperable +obstacle to attainment of the supreme state of spiritual sex-union, +that the would-be initiate becomes confused, and is lost in a maze of +paradoxes.</p> + +<p>Moral distinctions are too fine for the undeveloped man-animal, and +that is the reason why man-made laws have been necessary. The +objection to them is not in their original intention, but in their +failure to die after they have become senile.</p> + +<p>Moral standards are as unstable as the shifting sands of the sea.</p> + +<p>"Our moral sentiments," say Letourneau, "are simply habits incarnate +in our brain, or instincts artificially created; and thus an act +reputed culpable at Paris, or at London, may be, and frequently is, +held innocent at Calcutta or at Pekin."</p> + +<p>And Emerson, the intellectual Seer, says: "There is a soul at the +centre of nature and over the will of every man, so that none of us +can wrong the universe."</p> + +<p>It is a colossal piece of impudent presumption, when we come to think +about it, for Man to ask the Supreme, Absolute, Infinite Power to +forgive him. But, if we cannot wrong the universe, we can and we do +wrong ourselves and each other as mortals.</p> + +<p>That is the whole gist of the story. We are constantly wronging +ourselves and each other and calling upon God to support us in our +strife when God cannot know aught save the call of Love.</p> + +<p>The growing, evolving race, has found it necessary +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_172" id="Page_172">[Pg 172]</a></span> +to establish certain loosely defined codes of morals and of social ethics, +in the same way that man has bridled the horse that he may control him; +incidentally, we may observe that where this bridle formerly included +"blinders," it now permits the horse to see whither he is going.</p> + +<p>Perhaps a brief survey of the standards of sexual morality which have +upheld (or down-held, just as we look at it) the human race until now, +may be illuminating.</p> + +<p>It has been disputed, if, under the matriarchal system of polygamy, +the moral condition of the people was higher than under the +patriarchal system, and probably no satisfactory conclusion can be +reached upon this point, save and except that any condition, however +primitive, which permitted to the female freedom of choice, must be +better than that in which she is the object of coercion. This is +evident, because the degree of coercion can never, under any +circumstances, be as great with the male as with the female.</p> + +<p>Therefore, matriarchal polygamy is comparatively more nearly moral +than is patriarchal polygamy, and when all is said and done, historic +morality is comparative.</p> + +<p>But from the standpoint of modern idealism matriarchal polygamy seems +to be a very low estimate of moral conduct; and from the standpoint of +sexual idealism it is a low standard; a standard only a degree higher +than that of patriarchal polygamy—a standard which is the lineal +descendant of the ethics of the marriage-by-capture period +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_173" id="Page_173">[Pg 173]</a></span> +of human evolution, and from which we are today by no means free, owing to +economic, religious, and ethical conditions.</p> + +<p>There is a tacit acknowledgement on the part of the unorganized +brotherhood of the Enlightened, that laws are made for the guidance of +the masses. Unbridled ignorance is a dangerous force; as dangerous as +an unbridled horse, unless it be that the horse exhibits intelligence +enough to know where it is headed for and how to avoid obstacles en +route.</p> + +<p>And even as the laws of a community are made for the intellectually +undeveloped, so the commandments were compiled for the spiritual +guidance of the uninitiated.</p> + +<p>We trust that it will not shock the sensibilities of the "pious" when +we affirm and maintain and insist that the ten commandments are not +"from God" in the letter of the statements, as postulated by Theology. +They bear all the earmarks of the ancient Hebrew race-mind, which +placed a man's "neighbor's wife" in the same category with "his ox and +his ass and his house" and his other property and possessions.</p> + +<p>There is but one commandment of the Most High God, alias Eros, and +that is so interwoven into the fabric of creation that we cannot break +it if we would, although we may and do break ourselves in trying to +live in defiance of its immutability.</p> + +<p>"We cannot wrong the universe!"</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_174" id="Page_174">[Pg 174]</a></span>Our moral standards, in so far as they relate to the sexes, are at +present the logical descent of Hebrew adherence to phallic worship, +engrafted into the Roman outgrowth of the God-idea. Both the Hebrew +and the Roman customs maintained the inferiority and the consequent +subjugation of woman, despite the fact that the Roman Church exalted +the Virgin as a personality; but the postulate of the Church that Mary +was so exalted by a miracle, which never could be repeated, killed any +forlorn hope which might have lurked within the female breast +regarding a possible emulation of her example. No other woman might do +more than cringe and crawl and beg and whine; or cajole and wheedle +and buy the Holy Mother's intercession, which intercession, even if +successful, could at best but secure her an eternal job in the +Heavenly hierarchy, where, sexless, companionless, mateless, anæmic, +she could look all day at a male God whom she could never presume to +reach.</p> + +<p>Rather a lonesome outlook for eternity, and it is small wonder that +woman got discouraged at the prospect. The miracle is rather that she +endured it so long.</p> + +<p>But the Roman system had at least one virtue. It instilled into the +mortal mind of its people a sub-conscious realization of the ideal of +monogamy; not an ideal monogamy by a long way, but a monogamic ideal. +They are quite different; but inasmuch as it is an outward semblance +of a more spiritual conception of marriage than that of polygamy, it +is the highest ideal yet realized for<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_175" id="Page_175">[Pg 175]</a></span> the many, and does duty in our +present day and age, as consistent with our superior civilization.</p> + +<p>Monogamy at least pretends to be a marriage by mutual consent; and +even in the pretense there is the germ of a hope; but it would be +folly to deny that underneath this appearance of marriage by mutual +consent we see the remnants of the traditional idea of the right by +purchase, and therefore we have the jealousy that arises by virtue of +our property rights.</p> + +<p>The right by purchase assuredly underlies our present-day marriage +system, although it is disguised as economic necessity; as a religious +sacrament; and as a suitable or a brilliant "catch"—a type of +marriage by capture which forms the ideal of our own upper-class women +and which the housemaid copies in her limited way.</p> + +<p>Viewed from the surface evidence, the average woman of today is, as +Kipling says, far "more deadly than the male." She is more +unscrupulous in her methods; more unreasonable in her demands; more +devoid of sentiment or sympathy; more fickle in her desires and more +nagging in her complaints. But, when all is said and done, we must +admit that woman is only expressing her inheritance. When she becomes +balanced, the sexes will meet on common ground.</p> + +<p>Woman's demand for better physical environment; for more comfort, and +more justice; presages, after all, a higher and a more satisfactory +idea of the marriage relationship. Underneath this materialistic +demand, there is the silent voice<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_176" id="Page_176">[Pg 176]</a></span> of the soul calling for a more +ideal marriage relation. It is the materialistic expression of a +spiritual urge and will in time rise to higher ground. It is a demand +for a better state than that which our grandmothers enjoyed, or +endured.</p> + +<p>We have seen in the history of marriage, that the estimate of sexual +immorality has been based, all too frequently, upon woman's disregard +for the rights of her husband in her person.</p> + +<p>For centuries the burden of sustaining a sexual moral standard has +rested almost wholly upon the shoulders of the women; and it is +therefore natural that the present-day defiant attitude of many women +toward the traditional standard should be viewed with alarm; and there +is more in this thought of alarm than the mere anxiety on the part of +man to hold woman to her appointed task of guardian of marital +morality.</p> + +<p>Although men may wander from the home and fireside, it is a peculiar +fact that they generally hold to a mental string by which they may +find their way back again, very frequently the more contented to be +there for their wanderings. But with a woman it is different. Once a +woman has broken loose from the ties that have bound her to her +inherited post of morality-preserver, she seldom goes back again, but +keeps on her way until she finds that for which she seeks, or gives up +the search of her own volition.</p> + +<p>Is this, then, evidence that it is a woman's first duty to "stay put" when matrimonial exigencies +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_177" id="Page_177">[Pg 177]</a></span> +have placed her in a specific "pocket" of the matrimonial billiard-table?</p> + +<p>We believe not; and this belief is founded upon the fact that the +female principle, which is, we admit, the centralizing, centripetal +force in the cosmos, is not always manifested in the form of woman. +The balanced individual is bi-sexual, even as the balanced "twain-one" +is bi-sexual. If man was all male principle, and woman all female +principle they would not be complementary, but antithetical. Each must +be balanced within himself and herself before they can merge into each +other.</p> + +<p>Affinities are numerous, but mates are found but once; otherwise, the +problems that are being discussed here would never have arisen.</p> + +<p>If, then, as has been shown in the fact that only counterpartal unions +are real, eternal and spiritually indissoluble; and that only true +mates can thus unite, and when thus united have no desire to wander, +what becomes of our ideas of sexual infidelity?</p> + +<p>Since the very law of the Cosmos has seen to it that we cannot be +untrue to the only one who seemingly has a right to our fidelity in +the sex relation and since this union can become general only by +freeing love from bondage, what becomes of the laboriously built up +ethics of our social intercourse?</p> + +<p>Are they to be abandoned as of no value?</p> + +<p>We can almost hear the storm of protest which the righteous reader may +feel in duty bound to let loose at such a suggestion, if for no other reason +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_178" id="Page_178">[Pg 178]</a></span> +than that protest is the accepted way of proving one's own +virtuous tendencies.</p> + +<p>In the early seventies, a woman named Virginia Woodhull brought down +upon her defenseless head the un-Christian-like abuse of the Christian +public by announcing a doctrine which seems to have been nothing more +dreadful than that of an equal standard of morality for men and women. +The poor woman died broken-hearted, it is said; and yet nothing that +we can unearth regarding her personal life and habits would seem to +have warranted the cruel gibes that were hurled at her. The dear old +lady lived a most continent, even ascetic life.</p> + +<p>But the world has made rapid strides since that time, and we trust +that the urgent need of something reasonable and feasible upon the sex +question will inspire the reader to an unprejudiced review of this +chapter. We would that it were possible to supply a modicum of +understanding with each copy of this volume; but since it is not, we +must take our chance with the average. Let us reason together:</p> + +<p>Expediency is the mother of morality in social organizations, which +have, of necessity, unstable, ever-changing standards. These standards +represent, for some, ideals yet to be attained; while for others they +become mere mileposts on the path of Evolution. The individual +reaches, and then passes, an accepted ideal; gradually when a +sufficient number, constituting a majority, have reached this ideal, +it ceases to be a standard for<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_179" id="Page_179">[Pg 179]</a></span> the social organization, and another +ideal is substituted.</p> + +<p>The laws of the cave-man called for self-restraint exercised toward +his own immediate clan, and this necessity for self-restraint was +based upon nothing higher than the law of self-preservation; but +gradually the sphere widened; from clan to nation. So do our ethical +and moral standards enlarge. Traditional concepts are not necessarily +wrong, but they are almost sure to be <ins class="correction" title="original reads 'iadequate'">inadequate</ins> to evolving Mankind.</p> + +<p>Formerly, sexual morality consisted of the reservation of the person +of a sister to the use of her brothers. Any infringement upon this +moral code was punished by death to the woman and to her out-clannish +lover.</p> + +<p>And we have today an analogous example, although we are glad to say, +it is not the highest standard; still, if one's husband or wife +violates the marriage vows, it is more condonable, if the +co-respondent be of the wealthy class; and in monarchies it is +accounted an honor to have been selected as the king's favorite.</p> + +<p>The institution of prostitution which exists everywhere today has its +standards in the different countries; and the white races seem to +think that their morality is superior to that of the Orientals because +the social standing of prostitutes in the Orient is not irretrievably +lost; they are permitted, in the event of marriage, to resume social +equality with other women. Among white<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_180" id="Page_180">[Pg 180]</a></span> people, prostitutes have no +other recourse than to sink lower and lower, until utter degradation +is reached.</p> + +<p>We believe that the Oriental view of the situation is a far higher +standard of morality than is our Occidental attitude.</p> + +<p>If there can lawfully be such an organization as is now being proposed +as desirable in large cities, namely, a "morals police," it certainly +should be instigated by a more sane purpose than that which is at the +root of our present police guardianship.</p> + +<p>Attempts at suppression of prostitution have hitherto been conducted +on the principle that the women of that class are objectionable to the +sight of our mothers and sisters and wives, and the sinfulness of the +hopelessly "fallen" ones has been the theme of press and pulpit. And +all the time the women of the half-world have resented this attitude +as being unjust, and unfair, and hypocritical, and untenable. They +have known that if the act of selling their bodies to men is a crime +against the community, then more than half the feminine world is +criminal. And they have contended that since the "respectable" women +were neither contacted nor exploited by them, they cannot see wherein +they offend society, provided the laws of sanitation and segregation +are complied with.</p> + +<p>In other words, they have said that it is none of Society's business +whether they sell themselves to one man or to a number, since they +must pay the penalty. And their attitude is relatively right. +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_181" id="Page_181">[Pg 181]</a></span> +It is none of Society's business whether a woman is a prostitute or not, +considered as an offense against Society. That is the wrong attitude +toward this condition of our social disorder.</p> + +<p>No prostitute offends you or me. She, poor creature, offends herself, +and we offend her and ourselves by permitting social conditions that +make for such degradation. We are conniving with her to barter her +birthright of freedom and real love for food and shelter, and taint +and tinsel, whenever we encourage marriage on any other ground than +that of true love, and when we regard virtue as a matter of physical +contact.</p> + +<p>If we judge from the many plays which we see on the boards; if we are +influenced by the press and the pulpit; we must acknowledge that the +general idea of sexual morality is an absurd one. The inference is +that one special organ of a woman's physical body is the sole +custodian of all virtue and all morality. The accepted idea seems to +be that if a woman is married her body is then the property of her +husband. Her emotions, her mind, her heart, her happiness, her +preferences do not count for anything. The one act is made +all-important. On the husband's side, if he provides for his wife and +family, he is justified in exacting the sole right to the wife's body, +and although his own heart and caresses may be given to another, he +justifies himself, and the wife not infrequently feels satisfied, as +long as he provides well for her. What is this but prostitution? The +principle is the same as in the case of the recognized prostitute, +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_182" id="Page_182">[Pg 182]</a></span> +although the conditions are easier for the woman, and less cheapening +of her womanhood, but the difference is only in degree.</p> + +<p>Now, a singular idea of fidelity, a direct antithesis to the one just +mentioned, prevails among prostitutes, when married either by law or +by selection.</p> + +<p>They may surrender their physical body to another, for money, and +according to their idea they may yet remain true to the husband or +lover, because the matter is a business transaction. The other man has +only what he has purchased, namely, the physical body. But should the +woman permit another man to arouse in her a sexual response; should +another invade her mind, absorb her thoughts, or engage her heart, the +husband is outraged and the woman realizes her unfaithfulness.</p> + +<p>All of which goes to show that up to the present time sexual morality +has in itself no absolute uniform standard by which it can be measured +and satisfactorily and convincingly presented to all persons, as have +other phases of morality, such as honesty, justice, mercy, generosity, +friendship, fidelity to country, and self-sacrifice to the good of +humanity.</p> + +<p>And although all these moral qualities have their bearing upon sexual +morality, they do not establish a uniform ideal of sexual morality. +Honesty is honesty whether in Paris, London, Calcutta, or Pekin, but +as has been previously observed, sexual morality is determined by +local conditions.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_183" id="Page_183">[Pg 183]</a></span>Can there, then, be established a universal standard of sexual +morality? There can, but its universal acceptance is a remote +probability, albeit it will arrive some day.</p> + +<p>First of all, the sex relation must be absolutely free from sale; +coercion; or barter; whether within the respectable "sale" of +matrimony or of recognized prostitution. It must be free from any +erroneous idea of marital duty; it must be exalted, reverenced, +deified, in all its aspects, from the impregnation of a plant, to the +sexual embrace of human lovers.</p> + +<p>An Utopian dream it appears, if we note but one side of the picture. +If we consider the lightness with which so many men look upon the +physical form of women; and if we realize the attitude of so many +women toward men, in their conflict with life, using the age-old dowry +from mother Eve, of sex, as a weapon of defense and of offense; if we +listen to the ribald songs that offend our ears and nauseate our +souls, not only in music-halls and on the streets, but in supposedly +cultured homes; and above all if we contemplate the uncleanness of +mind displayed by those who are really in earnest in their endeavor to +uplift the moral tone of the world.</p> + +<p>These latter are, by far, the worst enemies to the Regeneration of +Sex. A wise man once said, "Save me from my friends; I can protect +myself against my enemies"—and so it is in this instance.</p> + +<p>Most "Civic-Leaguers" and members of "Vice-Commissions" (why that name, anyway?) are infected +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_184" id="Page_184">[Pg 184]</a></span> +with the bacteria of sex-degradation. They really require a lengthy process of mental +disinfection, before attempting to handle so delicate a problem as this one of sexual +uplift.</p> + +<p>A woman member of a Young People's Civic League of the second largest +city in the United States recently declared in public print, of the +beautiful and chaste painting "September Morn," that it was "lewd, +filthy, and suggestive of unclean things." This type of woman is +intrusted with the task of teaching youthful minds; polluting them +with the blasphemous affirmation that the Creation of the +Father-Mother God of the universe is "lewd and filthy!"</p> + +<p>Let us get this truth implanted in our mentality, as it is inrooted in +our souls, namely:</p> + +<p>Sex is always the purest, the holiest, and the most sacred thing in +the universe—because God is Him-Her-Self, bi-sexual. The +righteousness of it cannot be determined by so fickle a thing as man's +customs; cannot be dependent upon mortal laws. This statement, +indisputable as it is, will nevertheless start a chain of thought +which may lead to confusion; and it is because of this tendency to +confusion that the real issue is so frequently avoided. But let us see +if we may not dispel the confusion by a system of logical deduction.</p> + +<p>One thing is certain. The present condition of the Sex-problem is +sadly chaotic. If we cannot hope to clarify it to the comprehension of +the average, we may at least do so for some.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_185" id="Page_185">[Pg 185]</a></span>One of the first objections to the acceptance of the statement that +the sex relation is, per se, always right, will be found in the +conclusion to which the average mind immediately jumps: "Ah, then it +is right for men and women who are depraved and licentious to live as +they do; it is right for husbands and wives to deceive each other, and +while pretending to be faithful to their marriage vows, to secretly +carry on flirtations and intrigues with other men and other women!"</p> + +<p>Ask one hundred men or one hundred women this question: "Is the +sex-relation right or wrong?"</p> + +<p>The men will declare that it is "right sometimes and wrong sometimes." +The women, almost as a unit, will do the same. Occasionally a woman +will be found sufficiently illumined to give a sane answer.</p> + +<p>Following up the thoughtless answer with the request to illustrate, +and the reply will be something like this: "Well, if people are +married it is right, but if they are not married it is wrong;" and +even as this silly answer is given, the person answering knows that it +is puerile; but since the Public Mind prefers hypocrisy to Truth, few +have the temerity, and fewer yet have the capability, to utter Truth.</p> + +<p>It would be as sensible to say that it is right for the sun to shine +sometimes and wrong for it to shine some other times. It is right for +the sun to shine. This is all the answer that there is, and all that +is needed.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_186" id="Page_186">[Pg 186]</a></span>Whether the sunshine bestows life and health, or decay and death, is +entirely "up to us." The sun does its part. It is fulfilling the +inexorable law of Nature, and is therefore right.</p> + +<p>But of even greater importance in the universe is this law of sex. The +law is forever and always right. Our concept of it may be right or it +may be diseased. As a matter of fact it is, in all too many cases, +diseased. If it were not, there would be no disease in the world.</p> + +<p>How is it possible to have a perfect flower—a healthy, normal and +wholesome sprout from a diseased root?</p> + +<p>The root of all life is sex. We have thought disease into it, and the +only remedy is to change our thought toward the function. This may be +done by realizing that the sex-relation is always pure, holy, +sacred—the bi-une God of the universe. This statement is quite +different from saying that people are always right or sacred in their +sex-relations.</p> + +<p>To say that the sex-relation is always right under the institution of +marriage and always wrong outside of it, is a lie. A lie cannot bring +back health to either a person or a principle. Truth is the only thing +that can make us whole—and the first office of Truth, as everyone +knows, is to make us free. We cannot be whole until we are free, and +the essential thought to be free from, is an attempt to keep alive the +lie that the righteousness of Sex, per se, depends upon marriage.</p> + +<p>Does the libertine believe in the sacredness<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_187" id="Page_187">[Pg 187]</a></span> of sex? Never. Does the +prostitute claim for herself spotless purity? If she did, she would +not sell herself for money.</p> + +<p>Do men and women who are living in secret unfaithfulness hold exalted +ideals of sex?</p> + +<p>If they did, they would not maintain a life of deceit.</p> + +<p>These people live as they do, because they have divorced sex from +love. They agree absolutely with the blind "moralists" who regard Sex +as a human plaything—something which may be called bad one day and +good the next, according to whether it is viewed from afar or near.</p> + +<p>Does anyone imagine that when Society shall have established the "one +standard of morality" replacing the double standard which now +persecutes the woman only, for infringement upon Society's one demand, +that of concealment, that the answer to sex-degradation will have been +found?</p> + +<p>A single standard is an improvement upon the old habit of stoning the +woman only and letting the man go free. But why stone anybody?</p> + +<p>History fails to record a single instance where Society has succeeded +in improving either itself or its victims by the procedure. The best +that can be said of the stoning habit is that it distracts attention +from ourselves.</p> + +<p>Persons who hold exalted ideas of the function of sex, realizing that +a force so eternal and universal must be disassociated from man-made +regulations, are not in danger.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_188" id="Page_188">[Pg 188]</a></span>Such as these will not foster deceit nor profligacy, any more than +they will cringe and crawl under the lash of Society's disapproval, +should they encounter it. They know that if they would find the +highest good, they must serve Truth first of all, no matter how high +the price of such devotion.</p> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_189" id="Page_189">[Pg 189]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_X" id="CHAPTER_X"></a>CHAPTER X</h2> + +<h2>THE PATHWAY OF LOVE</h2> + + +<p>Love is the Great Reality.</p> + +<p>Everything else in this world of Experience is either tributary to +love or it is an unsatisfying substitute for love; or a counterfeit of +love. Love is the one cohesive, unifying, constructive force, and it +is at the same time the only liberating force.</p> + +<p>Hatred, as exemplified in warfare, may sometimes appear to free a +people from the rule of a tyrant, but unless love be at the root of +the "casus belli," other and more direful disasters will follow in the +wake of seeming victory.</p> + +<p>There is an erroneous idea, quite general among Christian people, that +Death frees the spirit from the bonds that hold it to the mortal and +the incomplete. Death only drops off the garment of the flesh; there +are innumeral sheathings yet to be shed, before the soul grows the +wings with which to soar to the celestial realms, where Love reigns +supreme.</p> + +<p>Love is the only power on earth or in the spheres, that can liberate +us either from our own prejudices and hatreds and fears; or from the +limitations and attractions of the animal-man.</p> + +<p>Love is, indeed, the Alpha and Omega of Life. +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_190" id="Page_190">[Pg 190]</a></span> +"There is no other God but Thee," has been the cry of every race on this globe, +apostrophizing the unrecognized little baby-God, personified and +presented to the race-mind as Horus; or as Krishna, or as Christ; but +always it is Love, the Invisible, the Beautiful One, who is adored.</p> + +<p>Ingersoll with his wonderful gift of word-painting, and inspired by +that great love of humanity which characterized him, has said:</p> + +<p>"Love is the only bow on life's dark cloud. It is the morning and +evening star. It shines on the babe and sheds its radiance on the +tomb. It is the mother of art; inspirer of poet, patriot and +philosopher. It is the air and light of every heart; builder of every +home; kindler of every fire on the hearth; it was the first dress of +immortality. It fills the world with melody, for music is the voice of +love. Love is the magician, the enchanter that changes worthless +things to joy and makes right royal queens and kings of common clay. +It is the perfume of that wonderful flower, the heart, and without +that sacred passion that divine swoon, we are less than beasts, but +with it—earth is Heaven and we are gods."</p> + +<p>It would be superfluous to state here, that Love has ever been +recognized as the supreme prize, lacking which all other gifts of life +are worthless.</p> + +<p>It is admitted that Love is almost the only thing in this age of +commercial supremacy which can not be bought. Though it may be +bartered for.</p> + +<p>Although it be unreservedly admitted that Love is the all-powerful and +magic solvent which transmutes<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_191" id="Page_191">[Pg 191]</a></span> all baser emotions into the higher, +the general inference will be drawn that this type of love is not +sexual. It will be termed parental; humanitarian, self-sacrificing, or +altruistic love, and the point may be taken that if humanity had +developed nothing higher than the love which is manifested in the sex +instinct, the world would be a sorry one indeed, since sexual love, as +we have witnessed its ascent from protoplasm to man, has been, in most +instances, a blind urge toward personal gratification, not more lofty +than the need of supplying the craving for food. This is quite true of +animals, and of the lower types of animal-man; not necessarily the +earliest types of men, but the lowest types, which we still have with +us but happily in decreasing numbers.</p> + +<p>But even among animals we find evidences of something vague, +indefinite, but insistent which leads the animal to exhibit what we +term a tendency toward <i>selection</i>; and in the animal also, through +the exigencies of sexual love, we find parental love, and here again +we note a peculiarity which ascends also into the family life of +humans, namely, that in some instances what we have called the +maternal love, the gentle, care-taking, guarding and protecting love, +is demonstrated by the male. This is less common with the animals than +with Man, but it is sometimes found and proves the existence of the +evolutionary trend toward balance in the individual, as well as in the +family.</p> + +<p>If maternal love were confined strictly to the<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_192" id="Page_192">[Pg 192]</a></span> female parent, and the +procreative instinct were the legitimate inheritance of the male only, +we could never hope for a perfect sexual union, for the very cogent +reason that the love of the male would never equal that of the female, +since our capacity grows by becoming diffused.</p> + +<p>As the world stands today, parental love takes a higher place in the +life of the family, and of the nation and of the race (the family on a +larger scale), than does love of husband or wife; and over and above +even parental love we have been accustomed to place the love of God.</p> + +<p>Now we know that there are many who claim that their love of this +abstract God supercedes that of love for their family, but we may +tacitly agree to take this statement as either an admission of fear of +the Unknown or the realization that there are heights and depths of +the love-principle which they have not yet penetrated, something to +which the spirit soars. They intuitively recognize that there is some +perfected state to which we aspire, else human love would never flower +into its full possibilities.</p> + +<p>And so when we declare that we love God above all other loves; more +than wife or husband; children or parents; we are but admitting that +we realize in our interior nature that we have not yet loved any +<i>human being</i> with as great a love as we are capable of.</p> + +<p>If any one holds the mistaken idea—and it is one that is very generally +held—that the perfect sex union can be attained by no finer phase of +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_193" id="Page_193">[Pg 193]</a></span> +emotion than that expressed in procreation; and that in +order to develop the highest quality of sex-love, he must eschew all +other phases of manifestation, and concentrate the forces of his being +in the direction of sexual expression, he will meet with dire defeat. +The laws of the cosmos cannot be broken. We are constantly confronted +with the admonition, the child of Fear, to "be careful not to break +the laws of God." We need not worry at all about the laws of God, +whether we call these Cosmic Law, or Nature, or Divine Providence or +something else. Our concern is with ourselves. Neither need we worry +whether our neighbor obeys the moral code as we see it. So long as he +does not refuse to us our right to follow our own ideals, we may +permit him the same liberty.</p> + +<p>God, as manifested in the cosmic law of transmutation, will take care +of Him-Her-Self. Morality can not be extinguished. Love cannot be +killed by men. We can only hurt ourselves in trying.</p> + +<p>Love is neither fickle, capricious nor sly, notwithstanding tomes of +seeming evidence to the contrary. Love is the most perfect +mathematician in the universe. With whatsoever measure a man or a +woman metes out love, with that same measure it is returned. Neither +is Love blind. Love is depicted thus, because he is not concerned with +appearances, but with realities. He is not gazing without, but within. +He is doing his best, the poor little neglected Love-god, with the +material at hand since he must fulfill the law of his being. He seeks +to unite lovers in their interior nature, but +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_194" id="Page_194">[Pg 194]</a></span> +as each of the would-be happy pair is bent on gazing without, instead of within, he is +handicapped. And when unhappiness follows, they blame the blindness of +Love, instead of realizing that He is depicted with a bandage over His +eyes, to indicate that Love is an interior quality. So too, the +Egyptian God Horus, the God of Love, was depicted with his finger on +his lips, to typify the truth that true love is not noisy, blustering, +jealous, burning, ranting, protesting. He is silent; soft; melting; +blissful; <ins class="correction" title="original reads 'magnectic'">magnetic</ins>; <i>uniting</i>.</p> + +<p>Our noisy civilization, seeking happiness in Things, mistakes +protestations and appearances for realities, and so modern marriages +are consummated on this basis, and the caricaturists have depicted +Cupid as having exchanged his love-darts for dollars, but this is a +slander on the little god who wouldn't know a dollar if he could see +one. "It is not true that one knows what one sees; one sees what one +knows," declared a clever Frenchman, and as the average modern bride +and bridegroom are forced, or think they are, by modern standards of +living, to know dollars better than they know Love, their perverted +vision sees Cupid's arrows tipped with the dollar mark. But even the +dollar mark spells US, united, and if they are indeed truly united in +love, wealth untold is theirs, and if they are not thus united then +indeed are they poor in happiness, which is the only real poverty.</p> + +<p>But even in the very failure to attain happiness in things, married +couples have learned or they are<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_195" id="Page_195">[Pg 195]</a></span> learning, that there is an interior +nature which must be considered if marital happiness is expected.</p> + +<p>In all too many instances it may take many experiences and the road to +the heights may for a time be lost but let us remember that "Love +never faileth."</p> + +<p>It has been said that "love makes gods of men," and we have taken this +phrase as a charming bit of hyperbole, whereas it is a literal truth, +because when two individual souls have rounded and balanced their +natures by means of love, they come together in an eternal union, and +are immortal; "in their flesh they have seen God," and the pilgrimage +is ended.</p> + +<p>There is a phrase current at the present day, belonging to slang, that +universal language of the masses, "the Volapuk of the melting-pot." It +comes to us simultaneously with the affinity-wave and the soul-mate +quest; and it is both pertinent and timely, although by no means +always wisely applied. It is the expression "I have found my +seek-no-farther; he (or she) is the Real Thing."</p> + +<p>Life is a succession of experiences in the quest of immortality. +Immortality would be a curse instead of a blessing if attained alone.</p> + +<p>Even the attainment of so unworthy an ambition as riches is a mockery +if unshared by others. Fame is like a ruined and deserted castle to +the one who has achieved it, unless there be the one other to share +it. Even the philosopher, the philanthropist, the humanitarian, he whose love nature +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_196" id="Page_196">[Pg 196]</a></span> +is supposed to find satisfaction in making others +happy—can not realize the completeness and fullness of joy, unless +there is the one mate with whom he may share his altruistic work; or +lacking this, he looks to the Life Beyond for the completeness which +he does not find here.</p> + +<p>Renan says: "One reason why religion remains on such a material plane +for many is because they have never known a great and vitalizing love; +a love where intellect, spirit and sex finds its perfect mate."</p> + +<p>Verily, love is the only vitalizing power in the universe; and when +denied the interior union which should exist between a conjoining +pair, Love does the best He can, and infuses into the relationship as +much of the divine nectar as they will accept.</p> + +<p><i>There is no impure love.</i> I repeat: There is no impure love. The +impurity is in the mortal mind of man, obstructing his vision until he +fails to see the purity of that which fain would lift him from the +Slough of Despond to the Heights of Bliss.</p> + +<p>If love be always pure, if it be always the uplifting, unifying, +constructive power of the universe, what becomes of the apparent fact +that men have sinned for love of woman; that for love of man, women +have lost their self-respect, their hope of Heaven; and have sunk to +depths below that of the brute creation?</p> + +<p>What becomes of the all too many instances where human nature appears +to love vice; to be under the spell, as it were of a passionate love for +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_197" id="Page_197">[Pg 197]</a></span> +all that is ignoble and defiling? How, then, can we say that love +is always pure when it leads to such disaster?</p> + +<p>Love never leads to disaster, though love may follow wheresoever the +erring mind of man leads, and thus Love is all too frequently dragged +from his true place of exaltation, and brought into the arena of human +conflict. Love is no fighter; He never opposes; He only concurs; He +unites if there is anything with which he can establish an affinity of +union.</p> + +<p>Egoism is the arch-enemy of love, selfishness is the manifestation of +egoism. Selfishness seeks to possess; it is selfishness that causes a +man to commit crime, in order that he may bedeck the woman he loves +with jewels and fine raiment. He is buying her bodily presence with +the baubles which he vainly believes will bind her to him; and he must +be taught the lesson of the Yoga sutras "not this way; not this way;" +and the more worthy he is of redemption, the more certainly will he be +caught in the trap of his own making, lest he really perish; whereas +by seeming defeat, outward defeat, he may learn the true path of +inwardness. Certainly Love is the only guide to whom he may safely +trust his redemption.</p> + +<p>If a woman really sinks into the depths of degradation through what +appears to be love, it is because selfishness and vanity have temporarily +supplanted Love. But there is another side to the question. Society has +very erroneous ideas of success and failure; and in looking at these +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_198" id="Page_198">[Pg 198]</a></span> +opposite ends of the same pole, Society may be standing on it's head.</p> + +<p>A story illustrative of this inverted view of success is worth +repeating.</p> + +<p>A young Englishman of aristocratic family, tired of the inanities of +social life, and denied the privilege of entering the commercial +world, emigrated to the South Seas. It was reported at home that he +had married a native Samoan woman and was living the simple life of +the Islanders. English society, when his name was mentioned at all, +spoke of him with hushed voices and with a "what a pity y' know" +manner as of one who had sunk below the depths of ordinary failure. +Subsequently a friend visited Samoa and found the young man enjoying +life and evidently supremely content. In the course of conversation +the visitor chanced to speak of a mutual friend who had been rather +wild in the days when they both knew him, and thinking to impart +agreeable news to the exile, the visitor eagerly assured him that "Sir +Arthur is respectably married and settled down now" whereupon the +self-constituted exile commiseratingly responded with: "what a pity; +and he was such a decent sort, too." So we may see that there is much +in the point of view.</p> + +<p>Happiness is the final test of success or failure; and we may trust +this test, because no one can be happy in any other than the +progressive, upward-trending life. Dissipation has never been a +satisfactory substitute for happiness. Wealth is valueless to the +possessor if it shuts out love; and if<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_199" id="Page_199">[Pg 199]</a></span> love be present, wealth holds +but an inconsequential place.</p> + +<p>However it be, the pathway of Love is long; and between the force of +attraction which unites two atoms in chemical affinity, and the union +of two perfected human beings, in whom Love and Wisdom are balanced, +there are many degrees of the manifestation of Love, and the question +inevitably arises "what shall we do with those marriages that are not +yet perfect?"</p> + +<p>If, as here premised, there is in the entire universe but one mate for +each man and each woman; and if the union of perfect mates is the only +truly spiritual union; if this union precludes the possibility of +"temptation" in any other direction, what is to be done with all the +marriages which we know to be imperfect; wherein it is evident that +soul-union is not present? Are they immoral, and are they to be +abandoned? And is marital infidelity in such instances immoral?</p> + +<p>It is. Infidelity is always immoral, because all deceit and deception +and dishonesty are immoral.</p> + +<p>Let us see what constitutes infidelity, irrespective of marriage. +Infidelity is to be unfaithful to a trust imposed; to betray a +confidence; to break a promise. This is the abstract definition and it +is the only definition that will withstand analysis, whether applied +to the marriage vows or to other promises and pledges.</p> + +<p>Obviously the answer to this question, then, is to either not impose +upon oneself or upon another "vows"; or, if we do so impose, not to +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_200" id="Page_200">[Pg 200]</a></span> +break them; but if vows are not to be broken, they may, thank Heaven, +be dissolved.</p> + +<p>And surely the marriage ceremony of the future will not impose vows or +promises, because intelligent men and women must rise superior to the +necessity for bonds and promises. A marriage ceremony is, even at its +very highest, when the contracting persons are spiritually mated, +nothing more than announcement to the society of which they are +members, of the fact of their mutual agreement to live outwardly, as +well as inwardly, in sexual union.</p> + +<p>We make too much of the marriage ceremony and too little of the +fitness for marriage. The business of the clergyman is altogether too +much confined to seeing whether a couple is "respectably" bonded, and +altogether too little as to whether they are spiritually united.</p> + +<p>Possession! that is the word that spells unhappiness, in married life; +each wants to possess the other; neither one tries for the spirit of +union. Possession cannot be divorced from deceit.</p> + +<p>Vows and promises challenge us to keep them, and because our pathway +leads upward to freedom, we constantly find these vows and promises +staring us in the face and daring us to advance. We must substitute +mutual confidence for vows. Vows are childish and puerile. If we +cannot keep faith without vows then are we sadly lacking in faith and +should cultivate it by offering to others the freedom of action we +would have ourselves. When the time comes, as it will, that a husband +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_201" id="Page_201">[Pg 201]</a></span> +and wife can "talk it over" in a friendly, mutually helpful frame of +mind, when either one is attracted by another, there will be no +further opportunity for infidelity; and the sooner we rid the world of +a belief in sin and immorality, the sooner will Love reign.</p> + +<p>It is said of the sages of India that they can live in the jungles and +the ferocious tigers will not harm them; how do they accomplish this?</p> + +<p>They have disassociated themselves from ferocity. They do not desire +to crush or kill the tiger. Their minds are so filled with love and +compassion that there is no point of connection between them and the +destructive instinct in the beast.</p> + +<p>When we get away from the fear of "impure" love; when we get away from +the tremendous load of belief in evil which keeps the back bent and +the eyes lowered to the dust, we will be ready to meet the pure and +perfect love when it comes; and when we are fit for it we will meet it +and when we have found this pearl of great price, all doubt and fear, +all jealousy; all dissatisfaction will vanish. There will be no fear +of "losing" each other. The union is an interior one, and even though +"seas divide and mountains vast, rear their proud crests 'tween thee +and me," the call of soul to soul will be felt and answered. Byron says:</p> + +<div class="poem"> + <p>"There are two souls of equal flow,</p> + <p>Whose gentle streams so calmly run,</p> + <p>That when they part—they part? Oh no,</p> + <p>They cannot part, those souls are one."</p> +</div> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_202" id="Page_202">[Pg 202]</a></span>With a sentiment such as this between two beings, what need for vows +and promises, and bonds?</p> + +<p>It is customary for writers on the sex question to emphatically, even +feverishly, emphasize the fact that they have no intention of implying +that they would do away with the bonds of matrimony; and although this +conclusion is inevitable where one's intellect is active and the +faculty of deduction brought into play, yet the false modesty that +prevails and the prejudices that blind the eyes of the multitude, and +above all, the tendency of the undeveloped race-mind to impute +personal motives to such as would, if permitted, lead them to a freer, +and consequently a purer life, impel the writer to deny that which is, +finally, the very point at issue.</p> + +<p>In the interest of Truth, we are compelled to state that we would do +away with "bonds." We would substitute therefor mutual agreements, +subject to renewal or repudiation within certain defined and mutually +helpful conditions. Vows and bonds and oaths are the crutches of the +crippled human race. We need not always walk lame.</p> + +<p>It may be argued that man is still largely animal; yes, but the surest +way to keep him so is to treat him like an animal. If we remind him +that he is also a man and that he may be a god; and if we point out to +him the way in which he may accomplish this transmutation, no man has +so little intelligence that he will not attempt to follow, when +assured that God-hood means a bliss<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_203" id="Page_203">[Pg 203]</a></span> so great that he can hardly +imagine it; that it means cessation of the "endless round of births +and deaths" from which Gautama, the Buddha, sought to free himself. +Mankind has always been promised immortality through spiritual +union—with what? An abstract principle called God, or Aum or any +other impersonal formless all-inclusive Being?</p> + +<p>No, but with his mate.</p> + +<p>On this point we trust that there will not remain any obscurity. There +is no higher God than Love. There is no higher love than sexual-love +in its highest manifestation. The more we truly love, the more love +flows into and through our consciousness, until from a tiny little +pearly drop of the "wine of life" we ascend to the Olympian Heights +and imbibe floods of the "nectar of the Gods."</p> + +<p>Even the libertine, that pauper in the realm of Love, wants the +perfect life. His soul is forever hungry for that which he gropingly +tries to catch and chain and possess; and which by virtue of these +same desires will evade him until he ceases thus to seek, and instead +of demanding possession of the object of his desires, he asks for +union. Union is interior; possession is always and ever limited to +exterior contact. They who would enter the sanctuary and defile the +"Holy of Holies" are saved from such a load of self-inflicted sin; +they cannot if they would. There is but one key which will open the +golden gate to heaven. The way chosen by the libertine is in exactly +the opposite direction.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_204" id="Page_204">[Pg 204]</a></span>Are all marriages that are not soul-mate unions immoral? Most +certainly not. Are all unions that are not married immoral. Most +certainly not.</p> + +<p>We have made an attempt to define sexual immorality and we have +concluded that as yet there is no absolute standard in civilized or +uncivilized ethics, since, as Letourneau points out, what is immoral +in Pekin or Calcutta may be moral in Paris or London. Truth is +adherence to facts in whatever section of the world. Tolerance; +sympathy; charity; may be clearly defined wherever we roam. Sexual +immorality has no stable standards. We here suggest one and submit +that it is the only one possible of universal concurrence. It is based +upon personal freedom. Wherever the sexual relation is made a +convenience; or where either one marries in the face of his or her own +realization that there is no love bestowed, that relationship is +immoral. Thus, it will be seen that sexual immorality is independent +of marriage, and cannot be estimated by law. Marriage for money; for +position; for convenience; for anything other than a desire for mutual +helpfulness, is immoral. Indulgence in the sexual act for selfish +gratification without regard to the welfare of each other; for money; +or pastime; or for any motive other than a reverential expression of +an unselfish love, is immoral and is a prostitution of the divine +office of sex.</p> + +<p>But, though not all sex relationships can be perfect and eternal, yet +all may, if we desire, be<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_205" id="Page_205">[Pg 205]</a></span> moral. And all moral and sexual +relationships must, and will, lead to perfect sex-union, whenever the +time comes that either one is ready for the completement. This truth +need not, and will not, disrupt any happy marriages.</p> + +<p>If the Church had not made the mistake of teaching the fallacy that +sex-love is a strictly earthly or mortal function, divorcing Sex from +pure love; and if the Theology had not tried to substitute the love +of, and union with, an abstract Creator for love of mates in +soul-union, perhaps there would be exhibited less impatience of the +restraints of marriage.</p> + +<p>But with a cat-and-dog married life on the one hand and the prospect +of an inane, blank, and sexless union with an abstract God-idea on the +other, it is small wonder that mortal consciousness has rebelled, and +has decided to take its chances with Hell, rather than to forego the +happiness which is intuitively sensed as being the direct prerogative +of perfect mating.</p> + +<p>If this God-idea had not been presented as an eternal, unescapable +finality, there might have been hope; but to fly about a throne +endlessly, night and day, singing, "I want to be nothing; nothing; +only to lie at His feet"—the prospect appalls!</p> + +<p>Small wonder that the conclusion has been deduced that "life is too +short" for anything like domestic misery, when domestic happiness is +the only happiness we know, and that is to cease at death!</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_206" id="Page_206">[Pg 206]</a></span>But, if we take the truthful view of marriage and of heaven; if we +realize that mortal life is Experience; that as we learn by +experience, we acquire knowledge; as we accumulate knowledge, we begin +to glimpse wisdom; and that when we have sufficient Wisdom and +sufficient Love, we graduate into the classification of God-hood, +immortality; and that immortality means union with our mate; +sex-union, in all that constitutes its highest and most satisfying +aspect as we know it, with infinitely more of beauty and love and +bliss, there is an incentive to aspire.</p> + +<p>Love is the only way that immortality can be attained. It cannot be +"taken," like degrees of secret societies. It cannot be purloined, or +feigned. Fear has never made people good. The doctrine of punishment +has never deterred the sinner. Even in his apparent acceptance of the +doctrine of sin and of consequent punishment, the poor sinner has +known better. Humanity has progressed in spite of the fear that has +dwarfed our stature.</p> + +<p>In the new day, with hope ahead and fear transmuted into a wise +patience, this earth may yet be a "fit dwelling-place for the gods."</p> + +<p>Leigh Hunt says: "Love is a personal proof that something good and +earnest and eternal is meant us; such a bribe and foretaste of bliss +being given us to keep us in the lists of time and progression; and +when the world has realized what love urges it to obtain, perhaps +death will cease and all the souls which love has created crowd +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_207" id="Page_207">[Pg 207]</a></span> +back at its summons to inhabit their perfected world."</p> + +<p>We are prone to consider such statements as only so many beautiful +words—elusive, ethereal, and descriptive of something that is always +in the future; but if it be always in the future it will never be +ours; we cannot catch up with it; and thus it becomes a mockery. These +prophetic utterances are literal truths.</p> + +<p>Let us confide to you a little secret: We are as much spirit now as we +will be when death has unloosed the bindings of our disguise—the +body. The real of each of us is what we are now, in our interior +nature.</p> + +<p>While we are building the business which sustains our physical body; +while we are studying law or medicine or philosophy or religion or +whatsoever, we are at the same time developing the interior nature +which we are now, and which we will be when the life of the body +ceases. Not all business men are alike, and yet, if business were +their only reality, they must needs be all the same for employing the +same methods. Not all doctors are alike although they graduate from +the same school of medicine. The inner entity that we are, stands or +falls in the final test, by the motives; the desires; the sentiments; +the sympathies; the generosities; the forgiveness; the kind impulses; +the pities; the charities; the tolerances; we feel while we are +apparently engrossed in the outer life. Together, these little +impulses, perhaps forgotten in the rush of the day's seemingly +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_208" id="Page_208">[Pg 208]</a></span> +important business affairs, come finally to be the ladder by which we +climb to the spiritual heights where the bliss of true and perfect, +melting, merging, liquid-love, of the one and only mate awaits us.</p> + +<p>One thing more. This also is a secret. Perhaps you will not even +believe it, but it is true: Poets are the practical members of our +crazy civilization. Business men are practical only when they are +also, and above all, idealists.</p> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_209" id="Page_209">[Pg 209]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_XI" id="CHAPTER_XI"></a>CHAPTER XI</h2> + +<h2>THE LAW OF TRANSMUTATION</h2> + + +<p>External life is a succession of picture blocks with which we have +builded our thoughts into shapes and forms manifest to the mortal +senses. But back of every act there is the invisible ideal which +prompted it, so that to the one who has the interior vision; one who +looks at life from the citadel of his own interior nature instead of +merely sensing it by external contact, every material thing tells its +interior story; everything has an esoteric or occult meaning. It is +said that mystic truths have been veiled in symbolical language; but +to those who know the language of symbolism, there is no veil; what +seems so is due to the refractory character of the mind which is +limited to sense consciousness.</p> + +<p>There are two words much used in this day of the Dawn which give the +key to the trend of the cosmic cycle upon which the earth has entered. +The word "union," or its equivalent, enters into almost every phase of +our busy life as well as into ethical and philosophical thought. This +word, with much that it stands for, has superseded the word "agreement," +or "combination" or "partnership," formerly used. Union means something +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_210" id="Page_210">[Pg 210]</a></span> +more interior, than do these other words, even when applied to commercial +issues.</p> + +<p>The business man says to his partners "let us unite on this question." +They are already partners, but unless there is a unity of thought and +ideals, their partnership is an unsatisfactory and unfruitful one. We +have labor unions which are intended to suggest a solidarity of +effort; a merging of interests; a welding together into one +thought-force, of those who enter the organization. The fullness of +meaning of this word "union" is not adequately expressed in the words +lodge, or club, or any of the terms used to designate an organization +of men in social or commercial combination.</p> + +<p>In union there is strength; but in partnership, or in clubs, there may +be no quality of union, although there is the outward bond of +fellowship. "I shall look into this" we say when we want to know more +of a subject than appears on the surface. We want to know the within. +We want to fathom the interior meaning; to get below the surface, or +the appearance of it. This is the other word of vital import—the word +<i>within</i>. We see it everywhere like a signpost directing our footsteps +toward home.</p> + +<p>The Master Jesus said that the immortal kingdom was within, but the +Christian world evidently has not believed Him. He also told those who +would listen to Him, that there was but one commandment that was truly +spiritual, but as he did not come to destroy anything that existed, but +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_211" id="Page_211">[Pg 211]</a></span> +only to transmute it, He paid no attention to the commandments +already in vogue, but contented Himself with a repetition of the one +and only commandment of the Father-Mother God Principle which begat +him: "That ye love one another."</p> + +<p>Now we are being told from the housetops and from the streets and +through all the channels of the physical senses to look within. That +which you are—not what you appear to be to the eyes of the +sense-conscious—but that which you are in your interior nature, is +what counts to you. The writer who writes because he is paid to write +salable stuff, harps upon the necessity for "efficiency" in the +commercial game; but when the word is impartially considered +efficiency consists in the long run in reliability, and reliability is +measured by one's honesty; integrity; square-dealing; wise +judgment—interior qualities all. It matters not whether the skin be +white or black or brown or yellow or green; whether you are of +imposing stature or but four feet tall; it is what you are within that +constitutes true efficiency.</p> + +<p>So the kingdom whatever it may be whether of heaven or hell; of love; +or of power; or of ambition; the kingdom is within. The source of your +power is in the interior of your nature.</p> + +<p>If we go to slang, which offers the line of least resistance to the +Cosmic Law, we find that the cue has been given over and over again to +those who are interiorly awake to receive it. "You are not in on +this," has been said to one who was left<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_212" id="Page_212">[Pg 212]</a></span> out of some supposedly +desirable thing; or "you are not <i>in</i> it," meaning that you are not up +to the required standard. Even as the walls of a building only +imperfectly indicate the nature of that which is within, that which +the building stands for; that which it symbolizes, so physical +appearances are symbolical hieroglyphs of the inner nature.</p> + +<p>"Learn to look into the hearts of men" admonishes the spiritual +teacher. "As a man thinketh in his heart so is he." The character of +the heart is the test, and though a man's lips utter words that are at +variance with his inner nature, yet if we have learned to look within, +we are not deceived. This then is the key to the kingdom—interior +vision.</p> + +<p>Words are like buildings; like personalities; they have their exterior +and their interior message. Knowledge may be accumulated; piled up +like a mountain of possessions. But knowledge may not bestow one grain +of true wisdom. It is only as we extract the interior message from +knowledge that we attain wisdom. We possess knowledge and we <i>find</i> +wisdom, when we have transmuted that knowledge into its interior +meaning.</p> + +<p>The fundamental difference between mysticism and theology is a +difference founded upon this axiom. The true mystic penetrates to the +interior nature of manifestation and gets the message of Experience. +Mysticism excludes nothing. It includes the manifest with the +interior; it penetrates<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_213" id="Page_213">[Pg 213]</a></span> the outer and seeks the interior; but never +does the true mystic confound the spirit with the letter; never does +he mistake the external for the Reality; the symbol for the message.</p> + +<p>Suppose that what is generally called the practical side of life were +the only reality. What would be the inevitable conclusion of the +thinker if he were to consider only the outer, the manifest, the +visible results of a given achievement? He would conclude that +civilization is insane.</p> + +<p>If we did not know with an intuitional grasp of truth that all this +which we call "marvels of achievement" is symbolical of what Man is in +his interior nature, it would be the veriest folly. What, for example, +is there in a modern sky-scraper indicative of man's advanced +civilization?</p> + +<p>With millions of acres of unused land, it would be inconceivable folly +to project into the inoffensive atmosphere twenty-eight stories of +wood and iron merely to buy and sell the products of man's brain and +hands. But while our Twentieth Century feverish activities are +ostensibly engaged in the external world, they are symbolizing, +embodying, teaching if we will but learn, the fact of the evolution of +man's interior nature. Sky-scrapers are indicative of the heights to +which we are aspiring; to which we are climbing; air-ships only tell +us that man in his interior nature—in his reality—is not a creeping, +crawling Thing, chained to the earth. He may, if he will, soar into +ethereal realms. He has wings, and if he so desires, he may use them.</p> + + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_214" id="Page_214">[Pg 214]</a></span>Wireless telegraphy would be a much less consequential discovery, did +it not foreshadow the coming time when mind will speak to mind +regardless of desert wastes and imponderable mountains that seemingly +intervene. Wireless messages are the result of vibrations set in +motion by means of a dynamo and received by an instrument attuned to a +corresponding rate of motion. But no dynamo ever invented has the +power that is centered in the dynamic will of a human being. Brute +strength is paralyzed into inactivity by the comparatively puny +strength of a man. The fierceness of the lion, the tremendous force of +the elephant, give way before the potent power of Man's desire—an +interior quality.</p> + +<p>Do skyscrapers, or air ships, or wireless telegraph systems make us +happier? If they do, is it not because of their ethical rather than +their so-called practical value? Is it not because they prove to man +his power to use the plastic material of the planet and control it to +do his bidding? Rapid transit adds to convenience; but above and +beyond all the so-called practical valuation which can be put upon +modern inventions and accomplishment is the message which these +mechanical marvels present to the mind. The message that man is not a +machine; that he is not a creature but a creator; that he is not a +miserable worm of the dust, but a winged god.</p> + +<p>Greater than all the other benefits bestowed by modern mechanical marvels +is the knowledge of each other which has resulted from intercommunication +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_215" id="Page_215">[Pg 215]</a></span> +between nation and nation. The great breeder of +discord and the waste of hatred is the idea of segregation. The man of +the cave and the club feared his next door neighbor, because he did +not know him, and the animal-man fears that which he does not know; +his imagination pictures the unknown one as something monstrous and +dangerous. Intimacy will teach us that people of a distant country are +like ourselves, even though they may dress differently; even though +they may wear their hair an inch longer or shorter; may eat a diet of +nuts instead of meat; may pray standing up rather than kneeling down. +Upon such trifling and absurd differences as these are based our ideas +of "alien" races and "foreign" nations.</p> + +<p>Annihilation of space and time accomplished by modern mechanical +inventions has made us familiar with the interior life of other human +beings and has compelled us to the knowledge that they have feelings, +emotions, desires, hopes, aspirations, and faults, exactly like our +own, and thus will be established a bond of unity, which will reach +the heart of our neighbor. If this bond of unity has not as yet been +established, it is because the majority of Mankind are still only +sense-conscious. They have not yet assimilated the knowledge which the +past few years has precipitated in such an avalanche that the slow-moving +mind cannot keep pace with it. But out of all this knowledge must come +in due time the quality of wisdom. Wisdom seeks love as the only eternal +reality. Not because God has commanded that we shall do so; +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_216" id="Page_216">[Pg 216]</a></span> +not because of a sentimental ideal, but because any other course is futile, +foolish, silly and does not "get us anywhere" as the slangologists rightly +express it.</p> + +<p>Thus everything in the busy commercial world, seemingly bent upon +perpetuating external forms and systems, is in reality a symbolic +language of which "unity" and "within" are the pivotal centers. These +two words are really complementary, because it is only with the +interior nature that unity can be established.</p> + +<p>We may conjoin; combine; contact; cohere. We may form partnerships, +corporations, combinations from the outside. These are external +expressions of the interior desire for unity, but union is of the +interior nature only.</p> + +<p>With the more intimate knowledge of each other which +intercommunication between nations makes general, each little +segregated mass of human beings must sooner or later arrive at the +conclusion that we are very much alike and that to "get together" on +any proposition involving the welfare of all humanity is a much less +costly and a far more satisfactory way of settling matters than by +going to war over it. Not that this idea is yet fixed in the brains of +the majority, but there is creeping into man's cranium a faint thought +that perhaps the survival of the fittest will be best maintained by +peaceful methods; an idea that honor can neither be maintained nor +appeased by shedding blood. This knowledge will bring us to the wise +observation that fundamentally, cosmically<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_217" id="Page_217">[Pg 217]</a></span> there is no place for +enmity between nations and races and classes and the sexes; that the +whole conglomerated mass of hatreds and inherited enmities and +segregated interests; the absurd idea that one part of the world can +permanently prosper by the enslavement of any part; the undeveloped +and savage ideas that underlie our civilization; all these +thought-concepts have no more reality in the cosmic scheme of things, +than have the picture-blocks of the child in the adult life.</p> + +<p>The world has been living through a nightmare. The warfare which +belongs to the animal plane of Man's evolving consciousness has been +carried into the mental world as well. Not only do men fight like +tigers in the jungles, but they fight with tongue and pen as well, +using food products, textile fabrics, inventions, mechanical devices +and the creations of brains of men, for their weapons. But this type +of warfare will not much longer survive. Mankind must choose between +transmutation or annihilation. Hatred is self-destructive. Blind +indeed must be those who can expect to escape this law. "They who use +the sword shall perish by the sword." How else can it be? There is but +one force. If we use it to construct, we are constructed. If we use it +to destroy we are destroyed, since it is by the very nature of law +that we become involved in that which we employ. It is a simple sum in +arithmetic. We may either add or subtract. If we add, there is no +limit. If we subtract we ultimately wipe off the slate.</p> + +<p>The fact is dawning upon an increasing number<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_218" id="Page_218">[Pg 218]</a></span> of thinkers, that even +as brain is superseding brawn in the marts of the world, so there is +still a finer and higher and better force, so potential in its power +that nothing can withstand its melting, merging, unifying motive. That +power is love, without which though we have all else we are but as +"sounding brass and a tinkling cymbal."</p> + +<p>Even as the ferocious man-eating animals have disappeared from the +earth; even as the giant gladiators, the mailed knights, the erotic +pomp and regalia of Imperialism, with their captives chained to their +chariot-wheels; the cruel despots, the tyrannical masters and scourged +slaves; the bloody sacrifices, the horrible games of the +amphitheatres, even as these one-time evidences of alleged +"civilization" have passed away, so too will time see the dissolution +of our own "false gods." Transmuted into pure and perfect love and +peace and equality, the power now misapplied in the work of hate and +destruction, will increase a thousand fold and be directed toward the +maintenance of a balanced world—a world in which Love and Wisdom are +united.</p> + +<p>We are always fearful of changes. The bat-like eyes of the multitude +are blinded by the light of the sun. Why cannot we trust the Cosmic +Law which has always given us a better ideal in the place of the +decadent one? If we prefer to use the word God, then let us say why +cannot we trust God?</p> + +<p>In the external world, then, the idea that a part +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_219" id="Page_219">[Pg 219]</a></span> +of this sphere is inherently antagonistic to another; that men are born enemies; +that the female and the male must forever struggle for supremacy—all these +ideas are disappearing. "Unity" is the password to the coming +civilization. If then we will accept this conclusion and apply it to +our individual selves, we will conclude that no function of the human +organism should merit disapproval; or be regarded as an enemy. Before +we can arrive at a balanced and sane world without, we must come to a +balanced and sane state within our own organism.</p> + +<p>We must know that the sex function, the most vital of all the various +expressions of life in the individual body as well as in the social +body and the racial body, is not an enemy with whom we must maintain +unceasing warfare, but a wise and trustworthy friend with whom we may +safely co-operate, neither repressing this vital force until we have +conquered it and dragged it like a bleeding captive behind our +chariot-wheels, nor should we like the drug-slave become lost in the +clutches of an abnormal appetite.</p> + +<p>Indeed, as the forces of life become transmuted from the physical +appetites to the finer, and interior desires of the soul, +abnormalities and perversions of sex-force will be impossible.</p> + +<p>Sex-force is, at the Center of Being, unpolluted. It is pure, perfect +and harmonious. It is divine. Why? Because it is bi-une; it is +balanced.</p> + +<p>In our present-day lopsided civilization, we find that nearly every +one is lop-sided, and unbalanced.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_220" id="Page_220">[Pg 220]</a></span> Alienists declare that almost every +man and woman has some hobby or mania. Doubtless this is true. An age +of specialization would incline the race toward "lopsidedness." But +the source of Life is balanced; if we come to the place where we +consciously unite with that interior source we will no longer be +unbalanced, because the central source of life is Sex, and Sex is, at +the center of the radius, bi-une, which is to say balanced. There is +no chance for sex supremacy, for domination, or dispute, or jealousy. +There is equilibrium.</p> + +<p>It is probable that to those who cannot compass the consciousness that +equality does not mean identicalness this sort of balanced life will +appear tame and tasteless. Few women perhaps and certainly fewer men +can imagine a sex-union in which love is so great, so over-powering +and at the same time so perfect, that there is no room for jealousy. +The average person believes that jealousy is inseparable from +sex-love. But even as our antediluvian ancestors could not imagine the +mechanical miracles of the telephone and the telegraph, so we fail to +comprehend the infinite depth and intensity of our interior being +until we come to the place where we awake from the sleep of the mortal +and glimpse the heights of the immortal life.</p> + +<p>No one can give to another this interior wisdom—this philosopher's +stone, by means of which all baser instincts are transmuted into the +pure golden-tinted light of illumination. He can but point the way and +promise that the results are<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_221" id="Page_221">[Pg 221]</a></span> mathematically proportionate to effort, +and effort will be backed by individual desire.</p> + +<p>We do not hold, as do many writers dealing with the physiological side +of the subject of Sex, that the sex function is primarily designed for +purposes of procreation and that any other expression of sex is +contrary to nature. The essential function of sex is to vitalize. +Procreation is one of the uses of sex-love, but it is not its primary +function.</p> + +<p>Until men and women have absolute control over their sex impulses they +are still on the plane of sense-consciousness; and as long as they +remain only sense-conscious they miss the very thing that they seek. +All that is pleasureable in sex-contact that reaches any man or woman +who is only sense-conscious is no more than a faint echo of the +ecstacy of divine and perfect love which is known to the spiritual +alchemist, who has discovered the art of transmutation and thus found +the key to the gate of eternal life.</p> + +<p>As long as we remain limited to the plane of sense-consciousness, old +age is a blessing. It compels transmutation of the love-nature into +interior channels. By the failure of the physical organism to express +the sex-desires, this force is given an opportunity to become +transmuted into higher, finer and more intense and beautiful thoughts. +It takes on whatever quality of soul we have acquired and it fosters +that quality—be it much or little—so that we may not go into the +interior realms a spiritual pauper.</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_222" id="Page_222">[Pg 222]</a></span>Even as our physical childhood is a prelude to mental adultship, so +old age, our "second childhood," is a prelude to our soul adultship, +and the character of our old age period is prophetic of our state in +the soul life.</p> + +<p>There are some extremely aged persons whom we cannot, if we have any +degree of interior vision, classify as old; the youth and beauty and +love-radiance of their interior nature is so potent that it shines +through the worn and wrinkled garment that covers it; and we know that +when that garment shall have been removed by the hands of Death, that +the soul will be clothed in radiant youth and beauty, and light.</p> + +<p>This is indeed the esoteric cause of the widespread repudiation of a +mental recognition of age.</p> + +<p>"I am seventy years young" says the man who hopes for eternal youth +and life; and if he says it from the standpoint of wisdom—the wisdom +that knows himself an immortal soul fired by pure and holy spiritual +love, then indeed his words are truly symbolical.</p> + +<p>But if he utters them merely in desperate defiance of organic decay, +they are empty and he will enter the after-life, even as he leaves +this one, without having attained that which he craves.</p> + +<p>This truth is an integral part of the cosmos, from which there is no +appeal; no reprieve; no immunity, no "respecter of persons." The law +is absolute and it is also just. Pure and perfect love is the price of +immortal life. There is no other "coin of the realm."</p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_223" id="Page_223">[Pg 223]</a></span>"But," questions the initiate, "why cannot those who know, if there be +such in the world today, give us this mystical formula? Why do they +not tell us how we may reach this desirable state of spiritual +sex-love, which affords such divine happiness to those who find it?" +The query is pertinent and the desire is natural; the doubt of its +reality is consistent, yet we are constrained to say that in the very +nature of such inquiry the disciple of the Hidden Wisdom voices his +unreadiness for <i>Illumination</i>. The desire for self-gratification, +though right and natural to the sense-conscious plane, is yet inimical +to attainment of spiritual consciousness.</p> + +<p>There is a spiritual message in the persistently inculcated doctrine +of sacrifice. It is not that a Supreme Being desires sacrifice, or +gifts, or adulation, or homage, or worship, or that any power glories +in our unhappiness. It is not that we may purchase any spiritual thing +by giving up something which we prize, but it is because our spirit +becomes attuned to the central source of Life by means of our +willingness to perform what to the sense-conscious plane of existence +seems a sacrifice.</p> + +<p>"He sought for others the good he desired for himself; let him pass +on" is the Egyptian phrasing of the Golden Rule, and this states it as +clearly as it can be stated.</p> + +<p>Yet should any one take this truism as an unfailing formula and expect +to enter the golden gate of eternal life because of obedience to the +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_224" id="Page_224">[Pg 224]</a></span> +letter of the pass-word, he would fail. Altruism <i>is</i>; it is not mere +recognition of a word.</p> + +<p>We may presuppose another natural and <ins class="correction" title="original reads 'instintctive'">instinctive</ins> query: "If then only +by union with one's true mate one can enter the bliss of eternal life +and love, should not we drop every other responsibility, sever all +ties of relationship, give up wife or husband or family or work, and +search for the one perfect complementary, finding which, is found the +answer to all life's problems?"</p> + +<p>Again we can only say that the seeker would be disappointed. We should +remember the story of Sir Launfall. Returning from the unfruitful +quest of long years for the Holy Grail (the golden chalice), he +learned the lesson of Truth from the beggar at his own door to whom he +gave the cup of cold water <i>without any consciousness of doing a good +deed</i>; without hope of thereby finding the grail.</p> + +<p>He who seeks with the selfish thought of securing for self any good +will not find it though he should give away every farthing to the +poor; though he should never permit one unkind word to pass his lips; +though he should fast and scourge and deny the flesh; kneel all day +and all night in prayer. As long as he holds to the thought of self +and of <i>obtaining</i> something so long will he miss the <i>attainment</i>.</p> + +<p>Spiritual insight establishes two facts beyond cavil or dispute or +reversion. One is that God's laws cannot be broken. We are not trying +to say that they should not be broken; or that they cannot +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_225" id="Page_225">[Pg 225]</a></span> +be broken with impunity; or that if broken we shall be punished. +They simply cannot be broken—they are unbreakable.</p> + +<p>We cannot buy or sell or beg or steal or borrow or take as a gift, or +in any wise acquire immortal godhood, except by attaining it any more +than we can come to physical manhood or womanhood except by growing to +it; and by the same law no one can keep it from us; neither priest nor +scribe; neither prophet nor inventor. We are a law unto ourselves. No +one can break the law of your being any more than you can break that +of another. No power on earth or in the celestial spheres or in the +intervening spaces can keep that which is our own from us. Wherefore +then, should we tear ourselves and each other with strife and jealousy +and wounded honor and outraged marriage vows, when either partner to a +marriage contract sees fit to sever that relationship?</p> + +<p>If you lose out in what you believed to be love, be sure that the +object of your desires was not yours to lose; in all the spheres there +is only one who is yours by divine right and no one can by any +possibility usurp your place in the final issue; and that place once +found no one can oust you from it. But remember what we have said in +previous chapters of the word "found;" it is from within.</p> + +<p>How vain and how foolish it is to think that a power so stupendous, so +magnificent and so beneficent as to project this immense panorama of +life; to establish such marvelous diversity within such +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_226" id="Page_226">[Pg 226]</a></span> +simple unity; to bestow the bliss of love, could make a mistake. How puerile has +been the teaching that we can sin against the Eternal God. We need not +worry about the Supreme and Eternal Power. "The dice of God are +loaded." Our concern is with ourselves, lest we imagine that we may +cheat in the game of life.</p> + +<p>We are self-centered, free-willed; immune from any possibility of +offending the universe. The whole problem of life and death, in so far +as it relates to our individual selves, is "up to us." We can delay +arrival at the goal of our desires; we can dally by the wayside if we +will. Only our own loss, our own suffering, our own unsatisfied +longing shall punish us. But who is so stupid that he would remain +wandering in the bleak and barren desert, when he might by a turn of +his hand enter fields Elysian and merge his soul into the boundless +areas of infinite bliss and wisdom?</p> + +<p>We should not imagine that death will do this for us. Death is nothing +more <ins class="correction" title="original reads 'phenonenal'">phenomenal</ins> than withdrawing from one room to another. The soul +may strive on for ages through many incarnations. Only one thing can +free it; and that is love; love for others than the personal self. The +broader and deeper the love nature, the wider it reaches out to enfold +in its tender protection all living things, the more nearly divine we +become, and the sooner will we touch the area of the spiritual and +attract our own.</p> + +<p>It is evident that self-seeking even for so worthy a possession as +one's own counterpart defeats<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_227" id="Page_227">[Pg 227]</a></span> the very effort. We are not to seek; we +are only to prepare ourselves to be ready and worthy; when we shall +have done this, nothing can withhold our own from us; not though the +two halves of the One Being are separated by all the barriers which +the sense-conscious race of men have erected between themselves and +the bliss of Heaven. Says Emerson: "What is thine, will gravitate to +thee." We need not therefore go about apprehensively fearful lest we +lose that which belongs to us; in so doing we are apt to keep our eyes +glued to the earth, thus forgetting that it is from the higher realms +of vibration "whence cometh our light."</p> + +<p>Says Emerson: "O, believe as thou livest, that every sound that is +spoken over the round world which thou oughtest to hear will vibrate +on thine ear. Every proverb, every book, every by-word that belongs to +thee for aid or comfort, shall surely come home through open or +winding passages. Every friend whom not thy fantastic will, but the +great and tender heart in thee craveth, shall lock thee in his +embrace. And this because the great and tender heart in thee is the +heart of all; not a valve, not a wall, not an intersection is there +anywhere in nature, but one blood rolls uninterruptedly, an endless +circulation through all men as the water of the globe is all one sea, +and truly seen its tide is one."</p> + +<p>Here then are specific and trustworthy statements for the further +enlightenment of the student of the problems of Sex. Like algebraical +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_228" id="Page_228">[Pg 228]</a></span> +propositions they prove themselves when correctly solved. Immortal +godhood is attained by counterpartal union, because the Central Source +of Life is bi-une. Immortality is our spiritual birthright, but we +must claim it if we would consciously realize this truth.</p> + +<p>God is the bi-une creative principle, and we are literally and in +truth the "image and likeness" of this bi-une Being. Not one +hermaphroditic personality but a pair. A pair is one whole, even +though each of the pair is distinct in form and diverse in temperament +and qualities. We are especially emphatic upon this point because +there has been so much vague and speculative theorizing upon this +definition of a bi-une Being. Your perfect mate is distinctively +masculine or distinctively feminine in sex as the case may be; and he +or she is your mate because of this perfection of distinctiveness.</p> + +<p>Our former ideas of femininity and of masculinity were faulty. Woman +is not less but much more womanly, if she has exchanged fear for +courage; deceit for truthfulness; ill-health for vitality; +helplessness for helpfulness. Even as a man is more manly when he +spares the nesting birds where formerly he ruthlessly destroyed; when +he unites protection with bravery; when he knows sympathy from +weakness; when he combines sentiment with principle; and gentleness +with vigor.</p> + +<p>No mortal can by any possibility break the laws of God. Therefore you +are not to try to enforce<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_229" id="Page_229">[Pg 229]</a></span> your ideas of morality upon others. Who has +constituted you book-keeper for the universe? You are to concern +yourself with establishing happiness upon this earth.</p> + +<p>You are to see to it that your love is big and broad enough; +all-inclusive enough to wish to see every one happy from your +immediate family to your far-off neighbor in Central Africa. You need +not worry about whether they break the moral code as you see it. You +are to render love and service to this world with all your heart and +all your power; if you do this, you will reach the goal of your +desires.</p> + +<p>No mortal can by any other method than love and the service that is +rendered through love seek and find the "Holy Grail," which is to say +the bliss of spiritual union with his Beloved. Therefore to fly from +the responsibilities and the environment in which you are, without +regard to the welfare of others, is to defeat your own quest; neither +do we claim that you should under all circumstances remain chained to +a post like an unwilling captive, poisoning your mind with resentment +and hatred.</p> + +<p>There is no one formula which fits all cases—other than that given in +love and service. The Golden Rule which tells us to do unto others as +we would have them do unto us, has another side to its shield, and it +may read "Do not permit others to do unto you what you would not do to +them." If you seek freedom from a specific environment from no other motive than personal selfishness, +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_230" id="Page_230">[Pg 230]</a></span> +you may be doing yourself an injury; but if you are also doing an injury to others by remaining, +then you are doubly mistaken in your course.</p> + +<p>The way of attainment is not easy, although the formula is simple; it +may be briefly but concisely summed up in the vital and important word +"unselfishness." "Not mine but thine also," is the watchword of the +wise in love. Not possession of the Beloved One, but union with him or +her. There is just one big world of difference between these two +points of view. More than that, there is the difference of Heaven and +Hell.</p> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_231" id="Page_231">[Pg 231]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="CHAPTER_XII" id="CHAPTER_XII"></a>CHAPTER XII</h2> + +<h2>"SELLING THE THRONES OF ANGELS"</h2> + +<p>Great as may seem to the sense-conscious person the pleasure and +satisfaction of owning some one, or some thing; of possessing and +feeling a proprietorship in the one desired; greater by a million-fold +is the pleasure of union which is possible only to those who are +themselves free, and who in consequence desire freedom for all others. +This is a truth which the unwise cannot comprehend or concur in, and +which they will not believe or trust.</p> + +<p>Emerson says: "Every personal consideration that we allow costs us +heavenly state. We sell the thrones of angels for a short and +turbulent pleasure."</p> + +<p>And finally, as regards the sex-function, we would like to impress +upon every one, though only those who are fit for the kingdom will +understand the truth, namely that the highest manifestation of +sex-love is not localized in the organs of procreation. The love that +is of the soul fills the breast first of all, and is only felt in the +region popularly, but erroneously, supposed to circumscribe the +sex-function, as a secondary and by no means compulsory consideration.</p> + +<p>When the sex force has become diffused<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_232" id="Page_232">[Pg 232]</a></span> throughout the entire being, +radiating from the solar man, and permeating the mind and thus +entering into the mortal body which is only a covering of the mind +physical copulation becomes a well-trained servant of the will, and is +found to be a natural, but yet secondary complement. Sex is not +confined to the specialized sex-organs. It permeates the entire being. +The person who has no conception of his reality other than as a +physical entity has not so much as touched the area of spiritual +ecstacy which has been alluded to as "the nectar of the gods;" and so +infinitely fine and perfect is the plan of Creation that he can not do +so until he is fit; and never can he be fit as long as he remains upon +the sense-conscious plane and seeks by sexual perversity and +debauchery and sexual insanities to touch that exquisite perfection of +joy which he intuitively knows evades him.</p> + +<p>Thus the sensual man is caught is a beneficent trap; a wise and just +and merciful Power has so placed the "Holy of Holies," that it cannot +be defiled; it cannot be reached; it cannot be desecrated. It is +forever removed from the touch of the unworthy. No man can hope to +express the creative power, the sexual realization of a god, through +the functions which are not higher in consciousness than those of the +animal.</p> + +<p>Would you attain to the status of the divine man? If so, do not +imagine for a moment that the divine man is less vital than your puny +physical powers would suggest. Neither should you<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_233" id="Page_233">[Pg 233]</a></span> imagine that the +sex-function, even in its lowest state (lowest because most lacking in +love-consciousness), is anything but pure and clean and right and +normal in itself; the attitude of the average man and woman invests it +with all its uncleanness.</p> + +<p>But with all the vile thought which the undeveloped mind has indulged +in respecting the sex-relation; with all the man-made laws arrayed +against it as though it were criminal, and the teachings of the Church +denying its spiritual origin and perpetuation; with women selling it +in the public markets for their physical maintenance, nothing less +than the fact of the eternality and universality of Sex, as the divine +fulcrum of manifestation, can account for the fact that the poor +little bi-une Love-god is after all coming to be recognized as the +hope and savior of Mankind.</p> + +<p>If you would have eternal youth and eternal life and love and wisdom, +accept this truth, because nothing else can, or will, save you from +the "slings and arrows of outrageous fortune."</p> + +<p>Another vague query presents itself to the would-be initiate, and we +would like to leave this chapter with no misunderstandings; no +misconceptions; no misleading statements, because that which we are +here stating is not theory. It is the one eternal, undying, simple and +unescapable truth which has withstood the onslaughts of time and +ignorance.</p> + +<p>The query comes and although it has been answered in previous chapters +we will again state<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_234" id="Page_234">[Pg 234]</a></span> it, so that there may be no mistake: If the +balance is found in counterpartal sex-union—the one man and the one +woman uniting on the solar plane—would not this balance be maintained +if only one of the two reached the higher planes of consciousness; in +other words, would not the balance be struck by extreme purity on the +one hand and extreme impurity on the other?</p> + +<p>Again we are reminded that the law of the cosmos is wise; that there +are no mistakes nor flaws in the cosmic scheme. The answer is that the +union is one of complementaries, and not of antitheses. Each one must +be balanced, the nature rounded, the soul awake before union is +possible. Thus we are saved from ourselves. We cannot, if we would, +really gain at the expense of another, although in temporary things we +may appear to do so, because the rich grow richer at the expense of +the poor; the tyrant ruler maintains his power at the expense of +serfs; but doubt not that <i>eternal equation</i> is perfect.</p> + +<p>There is still <ins class="correction" title="original reads 'anoher'">another</ins> query: If true sex-union is of the soul, what +is to prevent soul-mates from finding each other at the moment of +death, regardless of their fitness for godhood, and thus +circumventing, as it were, the plan of Creation, which would compel +each one to earn the prize of eternal life?</p> + +<p>The same law governs the interior planes as the exterior. The +realization of consciousness is not a capricious matter any more than +is the law of physical growth. A man might be in the presence of +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_235" id="Page_235">[Pg 235]</a></span> +untold wealth, but if he had not the consciousness to know and realize +values, he would remain poor, even though by a wave of his hand he +might command millions. One might give a blind man a check for a +million dollars, and if he had no others means of knowing what it was, +he might easily imagine it to be worthless. Death does not bestow +wisdom. Wisdom is acquired. Love is a self-generator.</p> + +<p>If you would follow the law of transmutation and acquire the throne of +angelhood, get busy within the laboratory of your own mind. Take the +crucible of Thought and begin to work interiorly upon the common, +everyday things that present themselves in your environment. This is +the only way of transmutation. Love grows by feeding upon itself, and +the sacrifices and the kindnesses that are bestowed in love without +thought of personal benefit grow into the flood of golden light and +love of the spiritual realms.</p> + +<p>The chief virtue in any one's pursuit of philosophy, or of <ins class="correction" title="original reads 'estoeric'">esoteric</ins> +wisdom, and in methods of attainment, is found in the fact that such +effort is proof of earnest desire to attain. Emerson says that the +principal benefit of a college education is to teach the student that +he does not need a college education. This estimate of the value of +years of study seems at first glance a sarcastic one, but it is not. +If this wisdom can be acquired in no other way, then even so it were +well worth the price. If the student can learn that much love is the +price of transmutation only after exhausting<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_236" id="Page_236">[Pg 236]</a></span> every other method, what +does it matter, so that he finally learns it?</p> + +<p><i>Learn to look into the hearts of men.</i></p> + +<p>At first sight, everything on the busy city street is a part of a +moving panorama; but an intimate view, when you get in touch with +segregated parts of the panorama, discloses the interior nature; the +hopes and the fears; the aspirations and the longings and the +heartaches and the joys of the entities composing the whole moving +picture.</p> + +<p>You notice a little female figure; her cheeks are pinked to a hue +rivalling the American beauty rose; her lips are carmined like a +clowns and her eyebrows penciled too obviously. Her cheap little dress +is amateurishly cut in imitation of "the latest." Your first impulse, +perhaps, is to scorn her as a "brazen" creature of the streets; but if +you will suspend judgment and look a little closer, you may see that +her eyes are, in their depths, those of a child, for all her seeming +experience. Her brazenness is perhaps only the armor which she has +donned to hide a turbulent heart—the dowry of centuries of +grandmothers who longed for one glimpse of freedom; of the right to +comb their hair as they liked; to powder their faces if they wanted +to; to run and jump and laugh and dance and be innocently free and +happy without the fear of shocking that bugbear Respectability, and +the tyrant Decorum, which insisted that a woman's legs must be +carefully concealed on penalty of being adjudged "immodest."</p> + +<p>Those poor reviled, execrated and vigilantly-concealed<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_237" id="Page_237">[Pg 237]</a></span> +legs of our fore-mothers! They are crying aloud for vindication, and they will be +heard wherever the line of least resistance affords a channel for +their freedom. And so, instead of blaming the poor little painted doll +of a woman, look into her heart. You will discover that she is bent on +having two things long denied womankind—freedom and happiness. If she +is foredoomed to failure on the route she has chosen, that is all the +more reason why you should withhold censure and give freely of your +help and sympathy.</p> + +<p>"<i>Learn to look into the hearts of men.</i>"</p> + +<p>Learn to see beneath the appearance. The old Italian organ-grinder +doing his best to please you with his wheezy hurdy-gurdy is not just +an old organ-grinder. He is also a man with emotions and feelings and +longings and hopes identical in substance with your own; no matter if +the organ is out of tune. Learn to hear the <i>spirit</i> of the aria or +the intermezzo.</p> + +<p>And behold! There is a bunch of noisy, dirty, slangy and bold +street-arabs—at least that is what they look like from the outside. +But learn to look within. There you will find the cause of their +appearance, and when you have found the cause you will sympathize with +them. If you can get back to the underlying cause of the +manifestations of life, you will never fail to sympathize with the +condition you may find, even though you find the cause rooted in +crime.</p> + +<p>You do not have to agree with the criminal in order to sympathize with +his misery. If you have<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_238" id="Page_238">[Pg 238]</a></span> the inner vision, which you must have if you +would transmute the baser metals into pure gold and find the key to +immortal life and love, you will never fail to understand and to +sympathize with every point of view. "Whoever walks a furlong without +sympathy walks to his own funeral."</p> + +<p>Don't imagine for one moment that you have to go to the Himalayas to +find the inner vision; or that you will obtain the key to the Hidden +Mysteries by shutting yourself in a monastery. Wherever you are, you +must lose sight of yourself. Not the higher Self of Reality, but the +lesser self of the carnal, or sense-conscious plane—the personality +that conceals <i>you</i>. And above all, you are not to regard this +personality as an enemy to be scourged and beaten and reviled. It is, +or it should be, a willing, and helpful servant of your soul even as +we say "the hand is the servant of the brain." If your hand becomes +unruly and does not obey your brain, train it to do so, don't cut it +off, even though the Bible does appear to tell you to—why should the +men who wrote in that far-off time know more of Truth than we of a +later century?</p> + +<p>You may imagine that you need to belong to some "Brotherhood," in +order to learn the secrets of alchemical transmutation. There is +nothing of the Great Wisdom which can be taught you, which you cannot +learn of yourself if you will look within and unite with the heart of +the world.</p> + +<p>There is no wisdom higher than love; and there is no power greater +than love; and there is no<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_239" id="Page_239">[Pg 239]</a></span> heaven happier than love and there is no +God holier than love. If you will take this for your creed you will +readily see that it is for you to think love into those things that +appear to lack it; think purity into those things that appear impure; +think unity into those things that appear separated; and taking the +lesson home to your own intimate conduct of life, invest the +expression of your sex with the pure and lofty and holy power God gave +to it, or refrain from the thought of sex until you can learn to do +so.</p> + +<p>Says a modern writer: "If you are still so out of tune with the +Infinite as to harbor any thought of evil or shame in connection with +the specialized organs and functions of sex, let this illumination +from on high cast that devil out of your cosmos forever. And if you +turn away with soul offended from even 'the slimy gendering of the +toad,' you dishonor God who once knew no higher creative formula and +still blesses it with His fruitful presence."</p> + +<p>And finally do not make the too common mistake of confounding +brazenness with freedom from shame and self-condemnation.</p> + +<p>Whatever of beauty and purity and joy has come to you in this life has +come because of the divinity of Sex. If you have been wise enough to +know this, and have reverenced it and purified your mind in respect to +that function of your being, you will not cheapen it by parading the +subject before those who have no idealism, any more than you would +"cast pearls before swine;" you<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_240" id="Page_240">[Pg 240]</a></span> will not countenance jokes and ribald +songs; you will not indulge in promiscuousness; but instead you will +fold it within the sacred intimacy of your heart's divine altar, as +something too beautiful, too holy for the garish light of the +un-tender day.</p> + +<p>If you have taken into your consciousness the divinity of Sex, you +will desire unity <ins class="correction" title="original has repeated words 'and and'">and</ins> disdain possession, knowing that whatever of +Heaven is vouchsafed Mankind here is but a shadow of the reality of +spiritual realization of the function of Sex. You will respect the +physical body as the handiwork of the Creative Principle of the +universe, respecting the sacredness of human life and liberty. You +will teach the truth that the law of Life is mathematically just; that +nothing will unlock the gates of Eternal Life and Love, except inward +honesty; fidelity; unselfishness; spiritual desire.</p> + +<p>If we possess these qualities, we are fit for the kingdom of Love and +we shall surely enter therein.</p> + +<p>Verily Love transforms mere men into immortal gods.<br /><br /></p> + + +<p style='text-align:center;'>FINIS</p> + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> + +<div class="books"> + <h4>THE SWASTIKA SERIES</h4> + <h3>HAVE YOU READ</h3> + <h1><i>HOW THOUGHT CAN KILL</i></h1> + <h3>The Scientific Use of Mental Electricity.</h3> + <h4>By<br />Dr. Alexander J. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Sex=The Unknown Quantity + The Spiritual Function of Sex + +Author: Ali Nomad + +Release Date: September 3, 2009 [EBook #29896] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ASCII + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK SEX=THE UNKNOWN QUANTITY *** + + + + +Produced by Juliet Sutherland, Ritu Aggarwal, and the +Online Distributed Proofreading Team at https://www.pgdp.net. + + + + + + + + + + SEX = The Unknown Quantity + + THE SPIRITUAL FUNCTION OF SEX + + A New and Startling Interpretation of the Meaning, Scope and + Function of Sex as Seen and Interpreted From the Inner or + Cosmic Standpoint. A Work That Should Revolutionize + the Thought of Today in its Relation to the Vital + Mystery of Sex in All its Aspects. It + Presents a Practical Solution to the + Sex Problems of Everyday Life. + + _By_ + + ALI NOMAD + [DR. ALEXANDER J. McIVOR-TYNDALL] + + _Author of_ + + "COSMIC CONSCIOUSNESS, OR THE MAN-GOD WHOM WE AWAIT", "THE DEAD SPEAK" + "REVELATIONS OF THE HAND", "GHOSTS", "HOW THOUGHT CAN KILL" + "PERSONAL MAGNETISM", "PROOFS OF IMMORTALITY", ETC. + + + CHICAGO, U. S. A. + STERLING PUBLISHING COMPANY + 1916 + + + Copyright, 1916, by + STERLING PUBLISHING COMPANY. + Copyrighted and Registered in Stationers' Hall, London, England. + (All Rights Reserved) + + + COPYRIGHT IN ALL COUNTRIES SIGNATORIES TO THE BERNE CONVENTION. + + + THE STERLING PRESS. + + + DEDICATED + TO THE CHILD OF TOMORROW + THE MAN-GOD WHOM WE AWAIT + + + + + PUBLISHER'S FOREWORD + + +TO OUR READERS: + +We feel justified in claiming this work marks an epoch in the advanced +thought of human evolution. Nothing has ever been written dealing with +the problem of Sex which is at once so illuminating, convincing and +satisfying. To our knowledge this particular view of the sex-subject +has never before been presented, and, perhaps it could not have been, +owing to the fact that it is only _now_ in these days of higher +thought, that such a view could be understood. + +The author, Ali Nomad, is already well known to progressive readers as +the writer of "Cosmic Consciousness," or, "The Man-God Whom We Await;" +a work that has made its author famous by the reprint of its many +editions. + +There are signs of a new order in the relation of the Sexes already +indicated upon the horizon of the World's consciousness as the result +of the present world-conflict. _Today people are as ignorant of the +subject of Sex as they are of God._ Both of these must be understood +if the race is to progress beyond its present stage. Otherwise we +shall pass into the long sleep of oblivion like all civilizations in +the past leaving future generations to grapple with the same world +problems. + +True or _perfect_ marriage is the most important attainment in the +life of the individual. + +The author demonstrates that perfect marriage is a scientific +possibility and that legal marriage and divorce simply conform to +civil laws. He very clearly outlines the reason why civilization makes +little or no progress in dealing with the social evil and other sex +problems. + +The publishers place this book before an intelligent public, +believing, that more _real_ knowledge can be gained by its study, than +by any other known method, because + +_First._ The reader is brought face to face with himself, and nature. + +_Second._ The reader can demonstrate the truth of the propositions set + forth. + +_Third._ The methods, rules, and laws have been verified by + intelligent men and women who have lived the life. + +_Fourth._ "Sex," The Divine Principle which all human beings should + understand, has been presented in plain simple terms, and elucidated, + so that the reader _cannot_ fail to understand the true path of + moral progress. + +This volume is not a romance, a fairy tale nor a dream intended to +entertain or amuse, but a scientific instruction which will elevate +the individual and the race, develop self respect, self control, +morality and love. If the propositions presented by the author are +correct--let the standards be changed; _if_ the propositions are +_incorrect_, they will not disturb the standards of today. + + THE PUBLISHERS. + + + + + SEX--THE UNKNOWN QUANTITY + The Spiritual Function of Sex + + CONTENTS + + + INTRODUCTION + + CHAPTER I + + SEX UNIVERSAL AND ETERNAL 19 + + Sex the fundamental basis of the universe; sex in organic + life; the law of attraction and repulsion in animal and plant + life; sex attraction and repulsion in human life; how + differentiated and why; some secrets of modern chemistry; the + cosmic law of involution and evolution; the symbol of the + serpent in a new light; what is "the power of the gods" + referred to in ancient mythology; some erroneous ideas in + regard to the sex function; the philosophy of restraint; the + inner sex-function and its outward expression compared; the + senses as avenues of inspiration; the creation of form and + sense-objects; what constitutes a "perfect and complete + being?" the theory of "counterparts" and its spiritual + significance; is procreation the highest function of sex; + what constitutes the fundamental law of love? the various + expressions of the love-nature from inorganic to organic + life. + + CHAPTER II + + FROM SEX WORSHIP TO SEX DEGRADATION 29 + + Sex the origin of all religious ceremonies; from + nature-worship to sex-worship; the history of Ancient forms + and ceremonies of worship; how sex-worship has survived the + ages; how it thrives today in modern religion; early stages + of civilization in relation to Sex; the antiquity of the + symbol of the virgin and child; its occult significance in + symbolism; the reality of the "bi-une God;" some secrets of + the Ancient Egyptians in regard to the function of sex; the + esoteric cause of the Egyptian talismanic and symbolical + revival today; the secret or esoteric meaning of the + swastika-cross; why Aum is always typified by a circle; + ancient forms of oath-taking and why; the source of + sex-energy spiritual; how and where the idea of + "blood-atonement" and vicarious sacrifice originated; the + beginning of sex-degradation. + + CHAPTER III + + PRESENT-DAY CONDITIONS: THE COSMIC CAUSE 53 + + The consecutive order from ancient sex-worship to modern + civilization; the real causes of race-advancement in the + cosmic tidal-wave, and what it portends; why conditions are + as they are today in regard to sex-life; the psychic forces + in their relation to sex-life; some fallacies in regard to + Eugenics; why Greek and Roman civilization failed; why and + how modern civilization need not fail; why women seek to + avoid motherhood; women of two types; the awake and the + asleep; the cosmic office of the Female Principle; its + relation to Creation; how the superman and woman will differ + from the undeveloped type; what is meant by "half-gods;" are + women of today lacking in the love-nature; will the race die + out? If so, why, and if not why not? How did the "Holy + Family" differ from other families? + + CHAPTER IV + + THE HISTORY OF MARRIAGE AND MATING 75 + + The relation of ancient marriage customs to religion; why + human evolution must necessarily be slow; ancient marriage + customs and their spiritual interpretation; why marriage + ceremonies have always prevailed; customs of all races + compared; why the institution has a permanent place in Social + Evolution; the symbolism of the visible world; why Science + and Mysticism agree spiritually; the origin of "variation" + the fundamental cause of woman's subjugation; when men defend + "outraged honor," is it a primitive or a primordial instinct? + the history of monogamy; the monogamic idea and the ideal + monogamy; the history and cause of polygamy; the evolution of + the "old-maid" idea and the psychic cause of this evolution; + the path of the virtuous woman in ancient days; the elevating + power in the dowry system; the two great purposes which this + custom has served. + + CHAPTER V + + THE SYMBOLISM OF MARRIAGE AND OF SEX-UNION 93 + + Why the monogamic ideal of marriage is right; how, when and + where, will marriage be lasting; the basic principle of + sex-union; when the bonds of matrimony are truly "holy;" + attraction and cohesion two distinct phases of chemical laws; + ideas of a modern writer; how all morality has come from the + ideal of marriage; some erroneous ideas of spirituality in + relation to the sex-function; when and why Man becomes + immortal; the custom and the hidden meaning in the wedding + ring; the symbolism of ancient marriage customs; the esoteric + meaning of "orange-blossoms;" the veil; the ring; the crown; + why these have endured throughout the ages; the interior and + hidden meaning of Rosicrusian symbols in respect to the + sex-function; women admitted to the Order and why; the + mystery and marvel of the symbolic "dove;" why it plays so + important a part in marriage customs and lover's phrases; the + symbolism of the ark; the egg; the drinking-cup and other + persisting accompaniments to marriage customs. + + CHAPTER VI + + CONTINENCE; CHASTITY; ASCETICISM: THEIR SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE 103 + + The Ancient Greek and Roman idea of the sex-relation; why the + asceticism of the Dark Ages arose; why the Church instituted + celibacy; why the Church retained the pagan idea of "the + virgin;" the effect this has had upon the growth and power of + Christianity; lives of celebrated saints in the light of + Occult wisdom; why and in what way the essentials of + Christianity are like other religious ideals; who is "the One + True and Only God?" the interior meaning of the word + "chastity;" the difference between chastity and asceticism; + the unbroken line connecting ancient ideas of sex, with + modern; the attitude of religious systems toward women; why + women are supporters of the churches in modern days; the + "mystic bride" and the mystical meaning; William James + comments on the spiritual ecstacy of St. Teresa; Swedenborg + on "Conjugal love;" trances; ecstacies; and visions of + saints; the term "virgin," and its origin; the evolution of + sex-love to spiritual love. + + CHAPTER VII + + SOUL-UNION: WHERE WILL IT LEAD? 119 + + Why we hear of "affinities" and "soul-mates" today more than + formerly; the great distinction between these two words; the + psychic forces behind woman's invasion of business fields; + the basis of "the unwritten law;" why affinity marriages + fail; the hidden reason girls look for a "rich husband;" the + final outcome; when and how women are "ruined;" the mystery + of the hermaphrodite; what is the true significance of the + term "androgynous?" mistaken ideas of morality in dress and + manners; what sort of beings constitute "the kingdom of God?" + the "secret of secrets" of the Hermetics; the wisdom of the + "initiates;" the spiritual quality in folk-lore; the time + when "temptation" will be no more; when "naked and unashamed" + the race will re-enter the lost Paradise. + + CHAPTER VIII + + THE HIDDEN WISDOM REVEALED 137 + + Science and mysticism the same at root; Christian mysticism + versus scientific postulates; the interior meaning in fairy + stories; personalities and principles in mystic revelation; + the esoteric meaning in Mythology; are there gods and + mortals? the ark in religious symbology; its interior + meaning; what were the "tablets of stone?" the reality of the + "cherubim" and the "seraphim;" the inner meaning of the + symbolical "ark of the Covenant;" is spiritual love devoid of + sex?; what is the symbolical "flaming sword?"; why the Jews + claimed to be God's "chosen people;" what makes for "immortal + godhood?"; the symbolism of the "life-token" stories; the + symbolism of the sleeping princess; a theory that solves all + the problems of life; the symbolical rites and ceremonies of + secret orders; the secrets of the Ancient Alchemists; the + Rosicrucians; the Free Masons; the Hermetics; their + initiation rites and ceremonies explained; what is meant by + the "Holy of Holies?" by the "secret chamber;" and the degree + of "mastership;" the sexual significance of the symbolism of + the "templars;" the red rose on the cross; the star and the + crescent; what is the inner meaning of "the radiant center;" + why the Catholic Church opposed the order of Free-masons; did + the Alchemists discover the secret of metallic transmutation? + what is meant by "the philosopher's stone;" why it was of + such a rare purity; why the early Church opposed all + reference to sex; the distinction between "discovering" and + "finding;" their spiritual meaning; what was the stone that + was raised at Babylon: was it a phallic symbol? why the + average "Knight Templar" fails to attain the powers and + privileges of esoteric Free-masonry; what is the "gate of + life?" the Arcana of the Hermetics and its sexual + significance; the symbolism of the double-headed eagle; why + the eagle was an ancient religious symbol; the antithesis of + "the eagle and the dove" explained; the "lamb and the goat" + symbolism; the God-ideas of the Ancients and their effects on + modern life; why "riding the goat" is the usual initiatory + rite and ceremony in secret orders; some secret plates of + Hermetic orders explained; what is the "magic solvent" of the + alchemists? the relation of Christian symbolism to the + Alchemical secrets; the inner meaning of "the sun and the + moon" in ancient literature; transmutation: exterior or + interior? what constitutes "the abiding glory." + + CHAPTER IX + + WHAT CONSTITUTES SEXUAL IMMORALITY? 159 + + Can there be standards of morality in the sex-relation; if so + what are they? is monogamy the ideal sex relationship? is + polygamy a future possibility? why matriarchal polygamy is + less degrading than patriarchal; why polygamy is not the + ideal sex relationship; the fallacy of legal marriage as a + test of sexual morality; why we "cannot wrong the universe;" + the one commandment of "the Most High God;" what is it? our + modern standards the result of phallic worship; why the Roman + Church has survived the centuries; the interior meaning in + the "Holy Virgin" idea of the Church; the vital point in the + Roman marriage restrictions; men inherently more faithful to + marriage vows than women, and why this is so; the bi-sexual + individual the most developed; the counterpartal union and + its relation to marriage customs; why "affinities" are so + numerous; sexual infidelity an impossible premise; what is to + become of present-day ethical standards of sexual morality?; + historic ideas of sexual immorality and their influence upon + modern civilization; modern effects of ancient Hebraic + customs; why suppression of prostitution must fail; why + prostitution is moral degeneracy; the Oriental versus the + Occidental view of prostitution; why modern ideas of sexual + morality are fallacious and untenable; can there be a + universal standard of sexual morality? why present-day ideas + of marriage are degrading; compulsion in marriage and + prostitution compared; how, why, and when, the sex-relation + may be exalted, reverenced and deified; mistakes of some + "Civic Leaguers;" why, when, and how, unfaithfulness in + marriage is wrong; the single versus the double standard in + sex. + + CHAPTER X + + THE PATHWAY OF LOVE 189 + + Love the Great Reality; Love the Alpha and Omega of Life; + Sex-love the basis of all other loves; Sex-love the true + spiritual love; what is love of an abstract God? Love the + perfect mathematician; the moral code and Nature; why we + cannot break the laws of God; why Love is depicted with + bandaged eyes; Eros and Cupid explained; why the Egyptians + depicted Horus with finger on lips; some symbolic caricatures + in modern civilization; how it is true that "love makes gods + of men;" why Religion has remained materialistic; Love, the + only vitalizing power in the universe; the arch-enemy of + Love; why Love never leads to disaster; why Love is always + pure; erroneous ideas of success and failure; what is real + degradation? the pathway of love from chemical attraction to + spiritual union; why spiritual mates must be the answer to + Life's puzzle; what constitutes actual infidelity? what is to + be done with sex relations that are not spiritual unions? Are + they immoral? too much made of the marriage ceremony and too + little of fitness; is it better to be "respectably bonded" or + spiritually mated? what will happen when we rid Society of a + belief in "impure" love; why marriage vows are inadequate; + puerile; and futile; when we find the "pearl of great price;" + why spiritual mates cannot be parted; why bonds and vows must + give place to mutual agreement; does spiritual union come + with love of God? what is the "bliss of Nirvana?" why the + libertine is a pauper in the realm of love; when we imbibe + the "nectar of gods;" why the "holy of Holies" cannot be + defiled; when the divine office of sex is prostituted; why + all sex relations may not be eternal yet moral; the mistaken + teaching of the church regarding sex, and the result; inane + ideas of Paradise; an appalling prospect of heaven; perfect + sex-union the incentive to aspiration; Humanity progresses in + spite of fear; prophecy literally true; the true business of + business; the final test; the Love that is merging, melting; + satisfying and how to attain it. + + CHAPTER XI + + THE LAW OF TRANSMUTATION 209 + + The spiritual cause of all physical activity; two words that + are of vital import today; did Jesus lie? is the kingdom + within an actual truth? the interior qualities and their + relationship to present day affairs; the fundamental + difference between mysticism and Christianity; the key to the + kingdom; the interior symbolism of "wireless telegraphy;" the + breeder of discord; the interior meaning of certain important + words; the survival of the fittest in its interior meaning; + the finer and ever finer forces at work; when the gods arrive + the half gods go; sex-force at the Center of Being; when + abnormalities and perversions of sex will be impossible; the + radiant center of the bi-une sex-life; the primary function + of sex-force vitalization, not procreation; the art of + transmutation and the key to the gate of life; the esoteric + meaning of our "second childhood;" the present necessity for + physical old-age; the spiritual message in the doctrine of + sacrifice; the mystical formula for transmutation; the + mystery of the "Holy Grail" elucidated; the only method of + attaining godhood. + + CHAPTER XII + + "SELLING THE THRONES OF ANGELS" 231 + + The barriers between men and the "bliss of Heaven;" the + difference between mortals and gods; the character of a + bi-une Being; erroneous ideas of masculinity and femininity; + the change of the present day toward these ideas; God not a + hermaphroditic Personality, but a pair; some "laws of God;" + the ideal of union versus the idea of possession; the highest + manifestation of sex-love; the solar-man and the mental man + in sex; qualities of sex-force; is the divine man less sexual + than the physical? the divine fulcrum of Sex; how eternal + youth and life are possible; why you can not lose in the + "game of Love;" we cannot sin against the Eternal God; why + and when the "eternal equasion" is perfect; no mistakes or + flaws in the Cosmic scheme; how spiritual mates may find each + other; the true way of transmutation simple; why we have + "painted dolls of women;" the hearts of men; the highest + wisdom; some fallacies regarding the law of transmutation; + why the "inner vision" does not require a trip to the + Himalayas; why "brotherhoods" cannot insure you the way; all + beauty and joy the result of the divinity of Sex; life + mathematically just; when we shall "enter the kingdom." + + + + + INTRODUCTION + + +No phase of civilization can rise to the highest possibilities as long +as the average mental attitude toward the most vital, the most +important and the most sacred function of our being, is one of shame, +sinfulness, lust and uncleanness. + +Even among those who are conscientiously trying to establish better +social conditions, there is a deplorable lack of anything like the +proper attitude toward the problems of Sex, albeit there are evidences +that our social consciousness is alive to the seriousness of the sex +problem. + +Many of our advanced thinkers and scientists are giving their +attention to the subject, but it is a theme which has been so long +neglected, so hedged about by false standards of morality; so fettered +by the system of tabu, that a rational discussion of Sex apart from +materia medica, or religion, is difficult. + +Moreover, the physiological side of the sex question robs it of all +the delicacy, and the intimacy and the beauty and romance which should +by right, surround the function of sex-mating and which does surround +a union that is pure and perfect. In this innate desire to share with +the one and only possible mate, the intimate secrets of love, there +is nothing of shame or apology--sentiments which alas, actuate the +so-called "modest" man or woman of today. + +Sex matters should, indeed, be held too sacred, too intimate for +public discussion, whereas the present-day attitude holds that Sex is +too indecent to be spoken of. When the subject is forced upon public +attention as it so frequently is through tragic occurrences, the +opinions expressed are both petty and puerile. They evade the truth +and so avoid the issue. They deal with effects only, are satisfied +with offering suggestions as to ways and means of suppressing these +effects, instead of going to the root of the matter and realizing that +all the tragedies that spring out of Sex are due to wrong teaching and +thinking in regard to the sex-function. That which we reverence, and +hold sacred, we do not profane. Until Sex is established in its +rightful place, as the holy and divine creative power of this +universe, we will be shocked and horrified with sex-tragedies. + +It is a pity that the physiological and hygienic aspect of Sex has to +be discussed at all, but it is necessary that all sides of the subject +must be presented to meet the great variety of minds, but it is our +contention that if the spiritual quality of Sex were recognized and +understood, there would be no need for any other view, because if Sex +were recognized as the sacred, and holy and spiritual function _that +it is_, disease and sinfulness would disappear as the mist before the +sun. + +In the meantime the subject must be discussed from all points of view. + +It must be permitted to thrive in the light and thus it will flower +into the perfection of the spiritual seed that generated it. + +In the meantime, the debasement of all things connected with sex must +be aired, discussed, and weeded out, until a sane and normal and +reverential recognition of the universality and the eternality of Sex, +is engendered in the minds of men and women and growing youths and +transmitted to the children yet unborn. + +"Sex contains all," says Walt Whitman. "Bodies, souls, meanings, +proofs, purities, delicacies, results, promulgations, songs, commands, +health, pride, the maternal mystery, the seminal milk; all hopes, +benefactions, bestowals; all the passions, loves, beauties, delights +of earth; all the governments, judges, gods, followed persons of the +earth; these are contained in sex as parts of itself and justification +of itself. + +"Without shame the man I like knows and avows the deliciousness of his +sex; without shame the woman I like knows and avows hers." + +Many well-meaning persons see in the words of the "good grey poet," +only an immodest and brazen shamelessness. But these are mental +perverts and are to be pitied; they see "through a glass darkly" and +everything looks black with decay; they are trying to build an eternal +future upon a foundation of tissue paper; they are seeking to +encompass immortal life by denying the very beginning and source of +all life--Sex; they are attempting the impossible feat of foisting +upon the world an ideal of Heaven from which they have extracted the +very essence of Heaven itself, although nothing on earth or from +divine sources justifies such an idea. + +Possibly our civilization has proceeded on the plan of leaving until +the last the most important thing in an ideal community and it may be +that we shall do the necessary reform work in this department all the +more thoroughly for having so long neglected it. + +In the following chapters the physiological and hygienic side of the +subject has been avoided as there is much sound advice already issued +pertaining to this phase of the sex question, and it is our contention +that the world must be brought to recognize the spiritual, and sacred +function of Sex, as the basis of reformation or regeneration, before +the Kingdom of Love shall be established upon the earth as it is in +celestial spaces. + + THE AUTHOR. + + + + + CHAPTER I + + SEX UNIVERSAL AND ETERNAL + + +The fundamental basis of the universe is Sex. + +Sex is the fulcrum upon which our life-activities turn. It is the life +of Man and of planets, and ignorance of the laws of Sex is the cause +of death of both. It is the conjunction of the forces of attraction +and repulsion; the positive and negative; the centripetal and +centrifugal forces which hold stars and planets in their orbits--or +rather, it is the two expressions of the one power, which is both male +and female, the eternal bi-une sex principle which is _Life_. + +The law of attraction everywhere, from that of the sun and the earth, +to that of the iron and the magnet, the "affinity" of the various +gases and liquids, is founded upon Sex. Cohesion is but another name +for copulation, and repulsion is absence of the power of contact. The +law of attraction and cohesion everywhere is the law of sex-activity. +"The law of conjugality is the basis of every force in nature," says a +scientist. Sex constitutes the eternal energy from which issue all the +forms and differentiations which we see manifested in the visible +universe, and it is equally the foundation of the realms invisible. + +Sex is the algebracial X--the unknown quantity which defies analysis. + +Plato is said to have observed that "the son of man is written all +over the visible world in the form of an X;" and also that "the second +coming of Christ is rightly symbolized by a cross." The cross is but +another form of the X--the eternal bi-une sex-principle in action. + +The Female Principle attracts to a central union; draws toward and +within itself. The home is established and maintained by the female +element; the nest is the special property of the female bird. Thus the +Female Principle best expresses the highest love because the object of +love is _union_. Hate scatters, disintegrates, destroys. Wherever the +struggle between love and hate is seen, there we will find a lack of +union. There may be marriage, but there will not be mating. True union +must come from the Center of Life--from the spiritual Reality, which +the physical only imperfectly shadows forth. + +Involution is best described as feminine, and wherever we note the +upward trend of the feminine element in Society, we may know that the +earth is on its involutionary path; the end of a cycle is at hand, and +social unrest and marital upheaval are inevitable, because Love is in +the ascendant and love demands _union_--not merely matrimony. + +The Ancients sought to express the never-beginning and never-ending +law of Sex by the symbol of the serpent with its tail in its mouth, +forming a circle. The resemblance of the male sperm to the spiral +convolutions of the serpent in motion, doubtless gave rise to the +adoption of the serpent as a symbol of sex-worship. The retention and +transmutation of the sex-force is typified by the serpent forming a +circle. The circle represents the attainment of godhood--victory over +death through _regeneration_. + +It has been said that the most primal instinct is that of hunger, but +without Sex there would not be even the urge toward physical +sustenance. Sex is therefore both the urge and the answer to all +instincts. + +There is a very general idea that Sex is a physical function only. It +is almost universally taught that when the life of the body ceases, +sex-life ceases with it. Even among metaphysicians, who believe in the +continuity of life after death, the absurd doctrine is taught that Sex +has no place or part in spiritual life, that "there is no marriage nor +giving in marriage" after death. + +This idea has been a powerful deterrent in keeping the race from +seeking the higher areas of spiritual consciousness. Lack of mere +physical vitality has erroneously been estimated as evidence of +spirituality. Chastity has unfortunately been counterfeited by mere +physical restraint, resulting in a type of human being whom the +healthy, normal person instinctively refuses to emulate, deferring as +long as possible the attainment of that which has been presented to +the mind as "spirituality." + +Let it be understood at the outset of this presentation of the problem +of Sex that we state emphatically, that Sex is an eternal verity. Its +spiritual function is not _less_ but infinitely _more_ than that which +we glimpse on the physical plane of life-expression. + +Far from outgrowing what we know as human love, we add thereunto a +million fold, refining, purifying and _intensifying_ the sex instinct +until it bears a relationship to the average instance of +sex-expression, analogous to that which the single-celled organism +bears to intellectual man. If we will keep in mind the fact that Life +in all its degrees of manifestation is like the ascending notes of the +musical scale, we will be able to get a more comprehensive idea of the +spiritual function of the sex-urge. We will realize that we can not +mark a too distinctive separation between the various phases of +life-manifestation. + +We imagine that the physical life is widely at variance with the +mental, the psychical, or the spiritual, when as a matter of fact each +blends into the other, when we rightly understand their place and +purpose, as harmoniously as the notes of the musical scale blend into +the grand compositions of the Masters. + +"As above so below, and as below so above," is a truism which we may +safely take as our first maxim. Whatever we note as a fundamental +principle of this external life which we cognize with our five senses +(senses which merge so into the psychical that we know not always +where the line demarks) has a permanent place in the Cosmos. +Therefore we must conclude that a fact so universal as that of sex, +and sex-attraction, must be grounded in something more stable, more +permanent and enduring than the mere creation of physical forms. + +Protoplasm, the only living substance, is found everywhere in the +visible world and its universality is symbolical of the invisible +worlds as well. Transparent, colorless, it contains within itself the +mystery of reproduction. It forms the basis of the vegetable and the +animal kingdoms. It is seen in bone and muscle and fibrous tissue, and +protoplasm may be said to contain within its cells the principles of +both sexes. It is not sexless, but bi-sexual; not neuter but +masculine-feminine. Every form of life has sex, and in some rare +instances both sexes are present in one form. This does not mean that +there is another phase of sex unclassified, but rather it proves the +union in one _Whole Entity_ of the two distinct principles, and by +this fact of the "twain made one" we may know that Sex is the very +crux of the cosmic law; that not only does it survive the mere +physical expression of the law, but that the object of the +sex-function is the spiritual union of the two principles, a male and +a female entity, forming one complete and perfect Being--the true +representative of the bi-une Being whom we know as God. + +Absolute and perfect union is possible only at the center, the crux, +of Being. This truth is represented by the algebraical X, the symbol +of spiritual sex-union. Therefore sex relationships which do not have +for their crux spiritual as well as temperamental affinity, are not +final, or eternal, however beautiful they may be; and there are many +sex-relationships which are pure and sacred even though they do not +fulfil this highest of all relationships, that of spiritual +counterparts. + +Let us consider for a moment the universality of Sex as we see it +expressed in all the variety of forms and throughout all the species, +and in so doing we may trace the ever upward trend of the law of +sex-attraction, and discover, if we have the eyes to see, the evident +plan and purpose of the cosmic law as it tends toward completement and +perfection in the type of the man-god whom the world has long looked +for and who we believe is here. + +If we look at the expression of Sex from the viewpoint of the physical +only, instead of basing our observations from the interior, the +spiritual, outward to the physical, we might conclude that the +function of sex was designed for no other purpose than that of +procreation, since care of the young increases with the upward trend +of life-manifestation. + +Beginning at the lower forms of life, such for example as the fish, we +find as a general thing an indifference to the fate of the eggs +deposited by the female, which is in keeping with the prolific and +almost unconscious generation of these tiny evidences of the law of +Sex. A fish laying more than a million eggs in a season is naturally +rather careless about what becomes of them. Apparently no higher +sentiment actuates this form of life than an unconscious and merely +instinctive urge to perpetuate the species--the lowest expression of +Love--and yet the germ of Love, the Creator and Preserver is there, +and a well-defined law of attraction and repulsion is evident from the +fact that as an almost general thing the male will not fertilize eggs +other than those of his own species. But even in these low forms, we +see the evidence of that higher expression of Love which presages the +god-like quality of self-sacrifice. Some species of fish, notably the +stickle-back and the bass, make nests and mother their young. + +In those forms of life which are supposed to be insensate, we find the +universal law of sex-attraction and repulsion. The pollen from an oak +tree, for example, may be blown about by the wind and may light upon a +plant which is far removed in species from its own; but if such be the +case, no fertilization takes place. The fundamental law of Love is to +attract to itself _its own_; that which belongs to it by right of +Cosmic law and order and justice. + +All the inharmony of our social life comes from the attempt to +appropriate and _possess_ that which, in the final analysis, in the +Absolute, is not ours. When the majority of Mankind shall have +mastered this lesson, the human race will enter upon its true +spiritual life. The psychic mind with which man alone of all earth's +creatures is supposed to be endowed will have conquered the +instinctive mind, and the higher expression of love which would +protect and preserve, and _leave free_, will have gained supremacy +over selfishness and the desire for possession. + +In bird-life we find this higher type of love almost universal. +Parental love, that exquisite and refined flower from the seed of +sex-attraction, characterizes the bird and we may readily agree that +Paradise would be incomplete without birds and flowers as well as +babies. + +Considering the birds as an infinitely finer type of sex-expression +than that offered by any other of the forms of life below man, we note +with satisfaction the all-important point, namely, that the sex-urge +is more diffused and lasting, and of a finer quality than that of the +mammals. + +The bird woos its mate with the beauty of its plumage and the +harmonious notes of its love-call. Its desire finds so many esthetic +ways of expressing itself; in tender pleadings; in cooing promises; in +continuous evidences of care and protection. Nor does its intense +love, vital as it is, exhaust itself in concentrated expression, but +it softens and ripens into something that so closely resembles our +ideals of spiritual love, that we are not surprised to find the emblem +of the dove employed throughout the history of the world, as the +spiritual symbol of pure and holy love. Well, indeed, may human beings +learn from the birds the lesson of the higher type of sex-mating, +which finds fruition in their mutual love for and care of their +progeny. Nor does the love-life of birds cease with sex-expression. +It permeates all their intercourse. + +The trait which distinguishes the spiritual man from the animal man is +analogous to that of the birds; namely, that of finding a deep and +lasting joy in the presence of the loved one; in sympathizing with +each other's ideals; listening with devoted attention to each other's +words; contacting, as it were, each other's _inner nature_, rather +than obeying the merely animal urge of procreation. And above all, in +the common aim of altruistic thoughtfulness for the little lives which +their love has brought forth. + +Thus nature serves the cosmic law, which aims to raise the +sex-instinct from the incomplete and unsatisfying plane of physical +contact, to that of spiritual union--a wide gulf seemingly; but who +would not strive to bridge it, did he but realize what spiritual union +with the Beloved One means? + + + + + CHAPTER II + + SEX WORSHIP AND SEX DEGRADATION + + +Every form of religious worship, from pre-historic time down to and +inclusive of the present century, and among all races, savage and +civilized, has been founded upon Sex--the inevitable, the inviolable, +the unescapable, and the unfathomable mystery of Creation. + +Nor should this fact be distasteful to the most refined. An +intelligent review of the many evidences that prove this truth will +not shock the sensibilities of the most devout worshipper of an +unknown and unseen God. What can be more beautiful and more holy, more +worthy of our highest reverence and adoration, than the mystery of +birth, whether that birth be the growth of a flower from a tiny seed +planted in the womb of Mother Earth, or the birth of a tiny human life +from the seed Love sows in the womb of the human mother? The only +shocking thing about the matter is that there are persons who can be +"shocked" at contemplation of this wonderful and beautiful mystery. It +is shocking and deplorable that so many are still so far away from +spiritual consciousness, that the beauty and the purity of the miracle +of Sex is unrecognized by them. + +With all due respect to the highest types of religious creeds which +survive today, we are bound to concede that the very first form of +worship which prevailed upon this earth was the purest as it was the +simplest. Truth is simple. Deception introduces us into a maze of +complexities. Nature worship prevailed we know not how many centuries +previous to the dawn of historic records. All allegorical literature +makes constant allusion to "The Golden Age," evidently referring to a +time before that which has come down to us in sacred literature, as +"The Fall of Man." The first conception of a supreme power, something +higher and more perfect than Man himself, originated in the mystery of +Sex; not only in the sex-function as exercised by Man, but also in the +evidences of sex seen in plants and animals. + +It became evident to the earliest races that the human being was after +all only a progenitor. Somewhere there must be a First Cause. The +vital spark which gave to the seed its power to bring forth was seen +to be beyond and above the control of physical man, and the natural +and inevitable inference was drawn that there was some power greater +than that of human beings--a power manifesting itself in the act of +procreation. At this early stage in Man's efforts to know God, the +Female Principle was deified, because out of the womb of the woman +issued the little life. Thus the symbol of the "virgin with the child" +became the symbol of worship; the word "virgin" then having a somewhat +different meaning from that which we give it today, although we may +trace the analogy in our use of the term "virgin soil," signifying +fecundity. The virgin and child then, popularly supposed by those +whose prejudices prevail over their desire for Truth, to have +originated with the birth of Jesus of Nazareth, antedates history, as +an object of worship. + +Let us here again emphasize the fact that the very persistence of this +symbol as a pronounced part of our Twentieth Century traditions, and +reverence, offers proof of the fact that whatever is true is also +enduring. Truth is eternal and defies extinction. Love, although +defiled and scorned, will lift Mankind out of Hell. + +The symbol of the mother with the child the very earliest of all +symbolic worship is also the truest and most consistent with the +ideals of spiritualized Man when we realize its higher significance. +At first, for the obvious reason that woman was the recipient and the +nurse of the seed, woman was regarded as a higher type than man; she +alone was supposed to possess the creative energy. This was ultimately +reversed and Man was thought to be the sole custodian of the +reproductive power. + +Thus the age-long warfare between the sexes began--a warfare which, if +it had any foundation in Reality, must have resulted long since in +race-extinction. But despite this degrading warfare men and women have +continued to attract each other in varying degrees of love, until now +the future offers a golden promise of _union_. As long as primitive +man kept to nature worship, deifying earth as the mother who brought +forth the grains and fruits for her childrens' sustenance, religious +practices were devoid of sacrifice and strife. The advent of +springtime when the earth awakened from her long sleep and the period +of gestation began when the seeds were planted, or when from Nature's +own laws they were reproduced without the aid of man, was the occasion +of thanksgiving and rejoicing with general merry-making and general +good-will. Again, in harvest time there was feasting and rejoicing and +music and dancing; and we have no reason to believe that this very +natural method of showing their gratitude and their happiness was +accompanied by any suggestion of sacrifice or propitiation. + +There is the best of evidence to support the claim that all the early +Deities were female and in all Mythology the earth is adored as the +"Divine Mother." The earliest Venus, worshipped as the goddess of +Universal Womanhood, was represented with a beard signifying her +androgynous character. + +Venus worshipped as "the soul of the world" was said to be the "parent +of all things, the primary progeny of Time, the most exalted of all +the Deities." Neith, Minerva, Athena, Ceres, Cybele, all worshipped as +the first of all the Deities, were represented as female, and to this +day we refer to the qualities of wisdom, light, truth, and virtue as +feminine. + +Even the sun is said to have been at one time worshipped as feminine, +as were all deities; but later, when it was shown that the sun +apparently fertilized the fecund earth, the gender was changed, and in +succeeding ages, when the male principle had become dominant as a +deific symbol, the earth was said to be but the nurse which cradled +and cared for the generic power resident in the male. Thus woman from +her lofty height of the one and only deity gradually sank to the level +of the nurse maid, permitted to care for man's offspring. + +While the Female Principle of Sex was worshipped as the "giver of +life," the heads of families were female and descent was traced from +the mother only. The male parent was scarcely more than an intruder +and the necessity to please the entire family and, above all, the +mother-in-law, the generic head of the family has left its mark upon +the masculine mind, even unto this far-off day, when by virtue of this +ordeal of primitive man, an idea seems to exist, that a mother-in-law +is to be both feared and dreaded, if not propitiated. When we +contemplate the persistence of those traits of human nature that have +prevailed among all races and throughout all ages, we are easily +persuaded that time is a delusion, and that Eternity is Now. As it was +yesterday it is today and will be tomorrow in all that is really +fundamental. + +From the refined simplicity of nature worship there gradually evolved +a phase of worship, which in the beginning had for its basic principle +an exalted ideal of the purpose and the powers of the female +sex-function; but this ideal sunk to the level of debauchery and +sex-degradation, in which the symbol of the female sex-organ of +generation was worshipped, literally, although not reverently; and yet +from the fact that it is only upon the temples and in the groves +dedicated to worship that are found the carvings of the generative +organs of either and sometimes of both sexes, it is evident that the +most exalted motives first actuated the worshippers. + +The sex organs, representing the mystery of creative life, or the +Deity, would naturally be held in reverence by nature-children, and it +must be conceded that this attitude of mind toward the wonderful +miracle of creative energy is worthy of our emulation. As we look back +over the pages of history, we note the tendency of human nature to +fall far short of ideals; we mistake the letter for the spirit; we get +lost in the trap of the senses, and we miss the higher and more +exalted planes of our ideals. + +From yoni worship (worship of the female organ of generation), with +all the privileges and perquisites which such honor bestowed upon +woman, there came the inevitable revolt, which comes in course of +time, from all tyranny and special privilege, whether it be +individual, national, racial, sexual, or supernatural. Thus there was +established a "new religion," and this time it was the male organ +which was deified as the symbol of eternal life, of creative energy. +In many instances both symbols were represented, but for the most part +the same subtle struggle for supremacy, the remnants of which we note +today among the different religious creeds and sects, waged, and waxed +stronger, with time and opposition. Which was the more worthy of +deification--the yoni, or the phallus? Woman, or man? + +The Ionians, seeking religious freedom from the persecutions of the +phallic worshippers in India persisted in their adherence to yoni +worship, and from them dates the Eleusirian mysteries, which were +celebrated in Athens down to a comparatively late date. The Eleusirian +festivals represented the survival of the purest ideals of nature +worship, before the warfare between the yoni and the phallic +worshippers had brought both ideals into degradation. + +There is a point in this festival, which the Greeks called +Thesmophoria and which is derived from the more ancient festival of +Ceres (the goddess of Life and Law), which we are anxious to have +noted here, because it marks a golden thread which runs throughout the +entire fabric of the sex-problem. This point is the fact, that the +rites and ceremonies of this festival were performed by "virgins +distinguished for their purity of life." Very rarely were men admitted +to the inner secrets of the Eleusirians. + +Another important point is that this ceremony was performed in honor +of the androgynous character of the goddess, as it was declared that +the power to bring forth a child without the co-operation of the male +belonged exclusively to the exalted or perfected woman, which is to +say the goddess. Another translation and interpretation of this +ceremony claims that it was prophecied in these festivals, that a time +would come in the history of the world when a woman would so conceive +and bring forth a child and that when that time should come the +question as to which sex was supreme would be forever settled and that +purity and peace would reign upon earth. + +This part of the record may easily have been either an interpolation +to sustain the claim of the miraculous birth of Jesus, or it may have +been simply the defiant fling of the vanquished to the victor, because +phallic worship was in the ascendant. It is, however, recorded, that +not an instance can be cited in which the honor of initiation into the +Eleusirian mysteries was conferred upon a bad man; nor of any man +violating the secrets of the inner temples of the Eleusirians. This +gives rise to the hope that the ideal of this spiritually exalted +sect, in the midst of almost universal degeneracy, was not so much +that of female supremacy, as of purity; that their ideal included the +pure and perfect union of male and female--the only ideal that will, +or can, redeem the world to a life of peace and love. + +The festivals of Carthage were said to be similar to those of Eleusis. +For a period of several days during the time set apart for the +festivities, public feasts were prepared in honor of the deific nature +of Man, which, it was pointed out, was his prerogative only by virtue +of inward purity and strict adherence to high ideals of truth and +honor. + +Crowning all the religious observances of the Ancients, whether +expressed in the legends of the sun-myths or of star and serpent +worship, we find the universally recognized fact that only those +qualities of mind and soul can be expected to endure, or reach +immortal godhood, which are of an exalted character. Which is to say +what the present day orthodox creed says, that immortality belongs +only to those who are pure in heart. + +From the Eleusirian festivals is derived our custom of taking holy +communion, the symbol of the Lord's supper; albeit the substitution of +the male principle in the Christian ceremony attests the fact that the +phallic symbol ultimately supplanted the yoni, as a deific symbol. +Phallic worship reached its height during Hebrew and Assyrian +supremacy, and was perpetuated by Greek and Roman materialism. +Superstition is nothing more than Truth degenerated by men from a +spiritual to a material application. That which is held in awe and +reverence by any race; that which is embodied in the traditions of +every tribe on the globe; that which persists throughout all times +will be found to have a fundamental basis of truth, no matter how +obscured it may be by the ignorance with which it is so frequently +associated. + +The sacredness of Sex, as exemplifying the Supreme Creative Energy, +underlies all the traditional ideals of man, from the fetishes of the +Central African savage to the cathedral spires which rise above the +din of our modern commercial civilization. The prejudiced and the +superficial observer of so-called "heathen" rites and ceremonies +records only the superstitions, and sees only the evidences of +depravity and savagery. He overlooks the fact that the spirit of the +idea conveyed may have been the highest ideal of an early race which +has sunk, as have all races during certain periods of the world's +evolution into the depths of a materialism, from which all races are +today emerging. + +All mystic truths are expressed in symbolism. It has been said that +these truths are "veiled;" this is true only because the observer has +not yet learned to speak the language. The universal language is +symbolism. In the early Egyptian, the Indian, and the Hebrew +religions, the fundamental idea was the two generating principles (or +we might say the two aspects of the One principle) of generation. The +two in spiritual _union_ represented the Infinite--the Deity. The +Hebrew word "Elohim" is plural, and means male and female united, +forming the One Perfect and Complete Being. This union is the "Holy of +Holies" of the ancient mystics and alchemists. We see its reflection +and its persistence today in the Catholic service of the Mass, where +the priest raises the Eucharist as the "Holy of Holies" in which is +generated the Christ-man, and before whom all human devotees bow the +head that they may not look upon the perfection and beauty of its pure +radiance. Neither is the priest supposed to touch the chalice with +uncovered hands. He prepares himself by fasting and prayer before he +mounts the altar upon which this "Holy of Holies" is hidden from view. + +The pattern of the Eucharist with its golden circle and radiations is +easily recognizable by any one who is familiar with the symbols of +yoni worship. Nor should this fact be distasteful to any one, although +it is either concealed, or flatly denied by the Church, since it is +only through the elevation of the sex-function that the Christ-man can +be born into the physical realms. The reason that this truth is either +concealed or denied by the Church is due to the influence of Greek and +Roman civilization, which subjugated woman to the control of man. This +debasement of woman reached its culmination under Roman rule and is +unquestionably the psychic cause of the fall of the Greek and Roman +empires. + +If we will but take home to ourselves the important lesson that +neither sex is fundamentally, or even relatively, superior, but only +different; that no race is permanently in advance of another, but that +each little group and class of humans has its particular contribution +to the sum of knowledge, we will have done much toward freeing the +mind from the shackles of ignorance--that darkness which obscures our +inner vision. Let this truth penetrate the egotism of so-called +civilized races. Let it sink into the minds of the men and women of +this century: we are of service to the world in proportion as we are +different and not identical. In the direct ratio of our individuality +is our contribution to the work of the cosmic law, which is seeking +to lift the planet earth out of its undeveloped state into celestial +light. + +The symbol of the Eucharist, occupying as it does an important place +in a religious system which is otherwise essentially masculine, is one +of the many evidences of the persistence of Truth. For approximately +four thousand years, phallic worship has predominated over the earlier +ideal, which was embodied in the "virgin of the spheres," the emblem +of the Female Principle as eternal motherhood; and in the sacred +character of androgynous plants and flowers, which were characterized +as feminine, such, for example, as the lily, the lotus, and the fleur +de lis. These flowers are still regarded as more or less sacred, and +they are called feminine, although really androgynous. + +The lotus, long held sacred because of its androgynous character, has +been regarded as typical of the One Perfect One, because it is +supposed that the lotus reproduces itself without the male pollen. But +close examination of the flower will show that the little seed-vessel +in the center of the flower is shaped like a pine cone, in which are +tiny cells too small to let out the seeds as occurs in most plant and +seed life; these tiny seeds having no outlet, shoot when ripe into new +plants, the bulb of the plant being the matrix or womb of the new +life. Thus it is evident, that although the two sexes are not as +pronounced in the lotus as in the lily, yet the bulb and the cone are +both present in the lotus, making the plant bi-sexual, and not +feminine alone. + +Our modern Easter festival, in which the lily is recognized as the +representative par excellence of the renewal of abundant life and +energy, the "sacred" flower, is a tribute to the Feminine Principle in +the Deity, as the lily like the lotus is called feminine, although in +reality bi-sexual. + +The lily and the Eucharist have survived the centuries in which the +male principle has dominated, as the one true and only God--the giver +of life, the energizing power of Creation--and the lily and the +Eucharist are both representative of the Female principle. + +Historians mark the beginning of the worship of the _One True God_, +defined philosophically as the "Monistic" God-idea, from the building +of the tower of Babel, and we may here note in passing that in the +earliest references to this tower, there is no allusion to anything +suggestive of "confusion of tongues." The name unquestionably came +from "babil" meaning "the gate of God." Thus only is its meaning +obvious, and consistent with the worship of the lingam and phallus +which obtained at that time. It is also evident that the phallic +worshippers borrowed the simile of "the gate of God" from the +worshippers of the yoni, who based their claim to truth upon the +indisputable fact, that out of the womb comes the life of plant, and +animal, and man. + +The architecture of, and the inscriptions on, the tower of Babel show +conclusively that it was a monument to the victory of the phallic +worshippers over the yoni, proving that the "one true and only God" +was male. From that time also God has been alluded to as "He," +although in the Oriental countries, and particularly among the Hindus, +we find repeated allusions to the Deity as "The Divine Mother," and +all the higher qualities are spoken of as feminine. It is because of +this fact also, that we note the spread of Oriental religions and +philosophies in this day of Woman's uprising. The Orientals retained +the divinity of the female principle in theory, but not in fact. + +Sex-worship is contemptuously alluded to in modern literature as +"strange and erotic ideas," or words equally condemnatory. But this is +an absurd stand, since nothing could be more natural than that the +mystery of Creative Life should arouse our interest and our wonder; +and it certainly ought to enlist our highest reverence. It becomes +erotic only when men fail to worship in "spirit and in truth," and +when the letter of the ideal survives, and the spirit is ignored. It +becomes not only erotic but destructive when it involves a fight for +supremacy between the male and the female. When the spirit of union +shall prevail, which it must in a perfected world, no higher form of +religious aspiration can be imagined than that in which the miracle of +birth is reverenced and idealized. Then, and not until then, will the +family be what it should be, and Love, the one and only true God, be +worshipped. + +The trinity in unity has been a widespread and persistent part of all +religions, from which fact we may logically infer that this ideal has +a permanent place in the sum of human knowledge. Truth is often +obscured, but it can never be hidden from the eyes that are seeking +the light. The rightful interpretation of those ancient and obscured +truths, erroneously classified as "myths" and "superstitions," will +reveal a universal truth, and will also show their relation to modern +concepts. + +But while we note a vague recognition of the female element in all our +modern religious systems, the general acceptance of the God-idea as +monistic and the gender of this monistic God as masculine betrays the +domination of phallicism over yoni worship and also over that of the +two principles in conjunction--the bi-une Deity. The tree is +universally accepted as an emblem of life-energy. The upright shape of +the tree; the sap which rises at certain periods from invisible +sources; and the fact that the germinal power of the seeds of the +fruits and trees is not destroyed by eating; all combined to make the +tree symbolical of eternal life. The tree is either male or female, +except in certain instances where it is, like the lotus, androgynous, +such for example as the ash, which is the "sacred" tree of +Scandinavia. Wherever a plant or a tree is found to be bi-sexual, it +has been regarded as "sacred." The same idea is found throughout all +myths, and all religious symbolism, namely: _the attainment of +god-hood is reached when both sexes are united in one Being._ + +The fuller meaning of this symbolical idea will be considered in a +subsequent chapter; but for the present we are concerned with the +history of sex-degradation from the pure ideal of nature worship to +that of a monistic God whose gender is masculine. The pine tree, held +sacred in many countries as a symbol of generation, and from which our +own Christmas-tree is descended, is distinctively a male emblem, and +its perennial green typifies the hope of Man that he too may manifest, +in some form of life, the never-failing virility of the pine. The +Latin name for the pine is pinus. + +Thus from nature worship to phallic worship was but a step, but that +step led to others. The pine, from the fact of its erect form; its +spiral convolutions; its sap; its fruit; its renewal of activity; its +root and veins; became a universally accepted emblem of the +life-energy in man and in animals, and the gradual substitution of the +male principle alone, for the androgynous idea as a symbol of Deity +contributed to the idea of the inferiority of woman, until she finally +became the slave and the plaything of man. The "virgin of the +spheres," from her exalted mission as the Eternal Mother of the race, +became at best but a secondary personality, and finally was refused +any part in the symbol of the Holy Trinity. + +Instead of father, mother and child, the Holy Trinity became "Father, +Son and--Holy Ghost." + +The early Romans must have been devoid of a sense of humor. But what +of our modern Christian creeds, and their idea of the Holy Trinity +composed of three male beings? + +It is in Christian Science alone of all the modern creeds that the +female principle is given a place co-equal with the male. Christian +Science addresses the Deity as "Father-Mother-God," and their +reverence for the woman who established the creed, as well as the +Ionian type of architecture employed in their church edifices, are +evidences of the re-establishment of the female principle in the +God-idea. Christian Science is one of the most important instruments +of the cosmic law in the present-day dethronement of the male +principle as the only true God. + +So permeated with this male God-idea is every branch of our modern +thought; so enwrapped with the glamour of worship, that we hardly +notice the one-sidedness of the ideal. Tradition is a powerful +hypnotist. + +Many members of the Masonic fraternity fail utterly to understand the +symbolical language of their mosques and the phallic and yoni emblems +which constitute their decorations. Notable among these emblems are +the pomegranate; the lotus; the circle; the crescent; the swastika. +The cone-shaped towers, that rise above the mosques, with their +protruding heads, vein-tipped; the central symbol identical with the +mound of Venus; denote the preservation of the Egyptian ideal, which +venerated both sexes as co-equal. It is easy to realize why the Jews +were driven out of Egypt when we remember that they refused to worship +the Egyptian ideal of God as bi-sexual, but persisted in rearing the +phallic symbol alone, denying the female principle a place in the +God-head. + +It is also significant that side by side with the present-day Feminist +Movement we find the revival of Egyptian fashions; Egyptian +architecture; Egyptian philosophies and religions. Even Cubist art, +which in itself could make no possible appeal to recognition on its +artistic merits, has been received with much publicity, if not with +acclaim. Cubist art is a lineal descendant of Egyptian art, and so +closely resembles its far-off ancestry as to seem to have bridged the +centuries and connected us as if by telephone with the days of ancient +civilization. Our drama and our popular songs have responded to the +Egyptian thought-wave. Talismanic jewelry, so essentially Egyptian, is +in vogue, and on every sign board advertising breakfast foods, tobacco +and what not (so essentially an American custom) we find the +modernized use of Egyptian symbols, notably the swastika. + +The swastika, the earliest form of the cross, found in every country +and in every out-of-the-way corner of the globe, is fundamentally, +originally and pre-eminently a bi-une sex symbol, and although volumes +have in recent years been written on its history and meaning, the +whole story may be summed up by examining its form and by realizing +its antiquity and its universality. + +The two sex principles, joined in the center of the four arms or legs, +of the cross, accomplish that which is said (and truthfully if taken +on the physical plane only) to be impossible of accomplishment--they +square the circle. A circle is emblematical of completeness. Aum, the +Absolute, the Omniscient, is always typified by a circle. To "square +the circle" means esoterically to have reached godhood, and this can +be accomplished only by the male and female _united_ in spirit. The +swastika is essentially a bi-une sex symbol although it has been +sometimes called male and sometimes female, according to its shape, +which varies with the various meanings ascribed to it. Primitive man +was not prolific in language, and one symbol expressed many ideas +according to its varied form and position. + +The original form of oath was to swear by the sacred power of the +generative organs, and we may readily conclude that this power was +conceded to be vested in the male only, from the fact that we still +"testify" when under oath and although the Bible has been substituted +for the generative organs, as an outward expression of our recognition +of the Creative Principle, we note that the Bible is made up of +"testaments," which stand for its "sacredness." + +Evidently it was only after the advent of the male God that oaths and +vows and pledges were necessary. Previous to that time, a man's word +was reliable. It was inevitable that an ideal of the Supreme Creative +power of the universe so one-sided, and so lacking in the essential of +union, must degenerate into mere licentiousness and animalism; and it +is estimated that about six hundred years B.C. the level of debauchery +and vileness reigned. So-called religious rites and ceremonies were +nothing more than orgies of sex-degradation. + +The ideal of godhood as nothing higher than masculine virility and +power evidenced by the number of his progeny, naturally reduced woman +to the lowest depths of slavery, since she was nothing more than a +receptacle for man's seed. Of course one wife was insufficient and a +man's claim to divinity was best expressed by profligacy--an ideal +which is rife even today among those, whose consciousness is bounded +by nothing higher than the conception of the animal nature of man. + +Whence came this wonderful thing manifested as generative power? What +did it feed upon? These were natural queries. In seeking the answer +the idea originated that in the blood was to be found the secret of +the generative fluid. This idea arose from the evidence that as old +age conquered man's physical strength, his blood became weakened and +the supply insufficient. + +This was accompanied by a loss of generative activity, and thus, they +argued, the power that made man god-like (the creative energy) left +him. This was indeed a calamity greater than we in this generation +realize, although we know that old age with consequent cessation of +physical vigor is the dread enemy of the undeveloped man. Even our +supposedly advanced thinkers have the absurd idea that sexual-energy +dies with the physical body. The few who have risen to the place where +they realize the truths made plain by soul-consciousness, know that +old age is but physical; that it is the vacation time between the +functions of physical activity and that of the soul-life. Old age is +the wise provision of the Cosmic Law which compels those who will not +do so of their own volition and wisdom, to transmute the life-energy +into higher channels. If the race knew enough to consciously transmute +the creative sex-energy into an interior function, there would come to +pass the time prophecied by St. Paul when Man shall consciously "lay +down his body and take it up again." + +There are spiritually advanced men and women today who can consciously +leave the physical body as they do the house in which they live, while +they visit distant places, annihilating space. To these the body is no +more than a garment. Thus death is overcome and the knowledge attained +that we are souls using a physical body; that death does not in itself +confer upon any one either immortality or youth or love, but that +these may be acquired by acts of virtue and unselfish service--not as +payment or reward for unwilling work, but as the result of unfailing +law, which gives what we demand. + +What we demand we naturally work for. If we serve Love, we get the +coin in which Love pays as naturally as we get the checks signed by +Jones when we work for Jones, and by Smith when we work for Smith. + +Death merely discloses our interior nature. If we have failed to +transmute the life-energy into a love that is deeper than mere animal +instinct; if we have missed the beautiful and the pure and the lofty +idealism of Love, we will find ourselves as age-worn after death as +before the change. But again we may note a wise provision of the +Cosmic Law, for it is almost impossible for a human being to live +through many years of life without having loved some person or some +thing with at least a spark of unselfish love. Fortunately almost +every one is better interiorly than he appears to our limited vision. +The most depraved of mortals has his moments of the higher vision. + +From this deduction of inquiring primitive man, namely that the blood +was the source of procreative virility, it is easy to trace the +logical result in the terrible practise of blood-sacrifice which +reigned so long and which, carried from one nation to another, and +engrafted into the God-idea, has come down to us in the story of the +"sacrificial lamb," at length personified in Jesus, the Son of God, as +a final act of propitiation. + +The blood-atonement idea is naturally repulsive to civilized beings, +and were it not that nearly every one who adheres to the old form of +orthodox Christianity swallows theologic interpretation of the Bible +as he would swallow a dose of castor-oil, by closing his eyes and +holding his nose, the teaching as thus interpreted would be stopped by +police authority. And yet we may readily trace the gradual descent of +the God-idea of the ancients until it reached the culmination in the +idea of sacrifice of a son of God Himself. + +In their blind but eager groping for some means of escape from death, +even as we of this day and generation are groping, the early races +observed that birth was accompanied by blood; that as age came on and +the blood became thin, and in the case of the female ceased to flow at +certain reproductive periods, the power of generation ceased. What +more natural to primitive man than that he should conceive the idea of +sending back to this unknown and invisible power behind the veil of +the sky the blood, which he must need to supply his creative energies? +And when the sacrifice of animals was not sufficient for this God, +they concluded that it must be because he required the blood of man. + +And so at first the old and the sick and the deformed were sacrificed; +but as it was seen that this did not answer the need, they began to +sacrifice the young, and naturally the slaves were substituted for the +aged, as affording more blood; and when this failed the idea came, +that the sacrifice must be that of one who was innocent of the world, +and so they selected a girl or a young man, who had been secluded and +trained to the thought of sacrifice, and in whom the sex-function had +been rigorously suppressed. + +And still the old grew bloodless and death claimed his toll, and so +they conceived the idea of voluntary blood-sacrifice, and we read of +repeated occasions in which fanatical ones offered themselves freely +on the sacrificial altars as atonement for the sins of their people. +At length this contagion of sacrifice consummated in the idea that the +only Son of God Himself became a voluntary offering to pay the final +debt of transgression and set men free from death, that they might +have eternal life, which to them meant life in the physical body. + +It is not at all possible that Jesus had any such idea of his mission. +He was far too illumined for that, even judging from the meager +accounts which we have of his life and message. But when the story of +his mission on earth came to be told and retold the idea of +blood-sacrifice as _payment_ for the privilege of physical virility, +so implanted in the race-thought from centuries of such belief, could +not die immediately, and thus it reaches us today adown the centuries +and is re-told (though we trust not believed) in most of the Christian +churches in this civilized century. + +And yet there is an esoteric truth underlying this universal idea of +sacrifice, and when we come to this in a subsequent chapter, we will +better understand how and why it has persisted throughout the +centuries. + + + + + CHAPTER III + + PRESENT-DAY CONDITIONS: THE COSMIC CAUSE + + +From the study of ancient sex-worship to our twentieth century systems +of religion; our scientific discoveries; our intellectual standards of +philosophy and social ethics; and above all, perhaps, our marvelous +commercial order, connecting, as it does, the entire globe, seems a +far cry; but it is only another link in a chain and fits into the past +as accurately and as inevitably as the morning follows the night. + +There is an erroneous idea current that public institutions, such as +law-courts, religious creeds, educational systems, reform movements, +et cetera, are causes of race-advancement. As a matter of fact they +are not causes but results. They do not determine progress; they +reflect it. + +Causes start from the Center and radiate outward. We may realize this +more readily if we will remember that if we throw a pebble into a pool +of water, it starts innumerable little waves which traveling outward, +reach a point some distance from the central source, and if we were to +see the outermost wavelet only, we might imagine that the disturbance +begins and ends far from the place where the pebble was thrown. + +This illustration explains the difference between the materialistic +and the metaphysical points of view. The former notes the result, and +the latter the cause of existing conditions. The mystical viewpoint +takes into account the fact that there is a cosmic law which acts like +a tidal-wave. Materialists call the action of this law "Evolution," +assuming that its impetus comes from our physical activities. It is, +in fact, from the Center or spiritual source of life that all power, +all evolution, emanates. The spiritual is the intensity of power; the +physical is the attenuated. + +The term, "spiritual realms" suggests to the average mind a vaporous +space where nothing happens; yet it requires only a little intelligent +reflection to establish the fact that, as Paracelsus said long ago, +"The mind is the workshop in which all visible life is formed." Our +mental operations are silently, invisibly, carried on, and yet we see +the effect of these silent plans and ideas in our noisy methods of +locomotion; our architecture; our commerce--in all the avenues of our +active civilization. + +We wish to emphasize the point that every so-called advancement; every +discovery; every improvement in moral ideals as well as in mechanics, +and in those things that add to our physical comfort, comes from the +center of Life. + +The external but _reflects_ the action of the Cosmic Law which +uncovers the vast areas of consciousness and frees the human soul from +the hypnotisms, and the limitations of the animal-mind. + +Animal force is still strong in the world to-day, but it is not as +strong as it appears to be, because much of the seeming indifference +and cold-heartedness of the people, taken en masse, is due to the +hurried, feverish and insistent demands of our external life. + +Underneath the surface, in the realm of the sub-conscious activities, +there is developing the spirit of unity; of sympathy; and a +consciousness of our innate relationship. This realization comes to +the surface in times of great stress and peril. + +The whole trend of modern life symbolizes or reflects the _ideal_ of +unity, albeit the tooth and claw and growl of the animal in Man may be +seen and felt and heard in the vain effort to postpone the inevitable +dethronement of the animal force, which would dominate the weaker and +appropriate for the personal self, the creation of brain and hand, +much as the house-dog, satiated with over-feeding, buries the bone he +cannot eat lest some hungry brother-dog shall get it. Nevertheless, +despite the animal greed that still shows in our modern life, there is +plenty of evidence that we are on the upward spiral that leads to +unity--the effect of love. + +The superficial observer, dominated by that instinct of fear which +seems to be so ingrained in our animal nature that we are all slaves +to it in some form or degree, sees in the present-day conditions a +menace to what he believes to be the moral life of the race, and +particularly as these conditions apply to the modern woman. + +He sees women coming out of the seclusion of their "rightful sphere" +and meeting men on terms of equality. He sees what he terms "immodest +dress;" defiance of traditional ideas of etiquette and conduct; he +notes what appears to be a disregard for the faith of our fathers; +and, above all, a distaste for that special function of +woman--child-bearing. The superficial observer, both male and female, +feels great alarm. + +But let us not be dismayed. Present day conditions, particularly as +they relate to the female principle of Creation, but reflect the +inevitable reaction from a one-sided course. The pendulum swings back +again and ultimately we will strike a balance; from domination to +unity; from struggle to harmony. Even American commercial life admits +the value of a vacation time. + +Present day conditions, then, are not chaotic or lacking in a +well-defined purpose, even though they are unsettled. Anything that +disturbs the seeming placidity of the surface always strikes alarm to +the undeveloped mind. Particularly in those phases of our modern life +which directly affect women, or in which we may say, the Female +Principle is especially concerned, we note a determined and united +demand for freedom. + +Woman's demand for political equality is but a shadowgraph as it were +of the real demand which is the demand of the Divine Feminine +throughout all manifested life, for recognition of equality, in the +plan of creation. It is a symbol of the ideal of unity which finds +expression in the commercial world in trusts and labor unions; in the +"let us get together" plea of the various advocates of reform; of all +those enterprises which are seen to most directly affect the entire +human family. + +That there are women who are blind to this fundamental idea of their +demand for political equality is true; and it is also true that there +are perhaps as many men as there are women who recognize the need of +woman's political and social equality, but this only proves the fact +which we have already emphasized, namely that it is not women as +personalities, but the Female Principle throughout the universe that +is at the root of the modern Feminist Movement. The male principle is +not confined to the form of man, neither is the female principle +always expressed in the form of woman. Many men exemplify more of the +maternal instinct than do certain women; neither must it be assumed +that this type of man is effeminate; or that the woman of Amazonian +physique is more masculine in thought and habit than is the little +frou-frou specimen of womankind who looks appealingly into the eyes of +her male escort, beseeching protection from the rude stares which she +has premeditatedly invited. Qualities are sexless and universal. It is +only in their specific combinations that they adequately represent the +masculine or the feminine gender. + +Blessed are they who have learned the art of discrimination. + +Broadly speaking, women are behaving in a manner which upsets all +precedent and promises ultimate emancipation from restraint. + +But is it not possible that women no longer need restraint if they +ever needed it? Is it not possible that the world has grown up, and +that both men and women may safely be allowed the freedom of +self-government, with all possible mutual aid in the work of +establishing an upright, free, and trustworthy science of right +living? + +That which is always in the future is never ours and if we are ever +going to be free and happy and well-conditioned there is no reason why +we should not make it soon. + +Woman's demand for political equality is sometimes used as an excuse +to lessen her dignity and her place in society. People who do this are +of the same type as those before whom Sex cannot be discussed +intelligently because they do not realize the sacredness of Sex. They +are a remnant of the ages which have passed and which have left their +mark, in the idea of a half-sexed God, the "He," the spouseless Father +who brought forth the visible universe apparently without co-operation +with the Female Principle. This type of person prates much about the +dangers of race-suicide, meaning thereby the increasing tendency to +childlessness and not as should be taken into account the death rate +among children who are born of diseased and unfit parents and brought +into existence without the necessary conditions of sanitation, food +and care. + +Our national Eugenic societies are hampered by false ideas of what +constitutes morality, being bound to uphold the tradition that the +child that is born of married parents, no matter how diseased in body +and deficient in mind, is better-born than is the offspring of +unmarried parents, even though the latter may be a model of physical +health and mental efficiency. Eugenics will remain limited in scope +until such time as the entire world adopts "in spirit and in truth" +the recent action of the European governments, and recognizes the +legitimacy of all children however born. + +And although the action of the European governments was born of +nothing more humane than a war expediency in order that more soldiers +might be bred, yet the effect of such a course will benefit the human +race. It has at least set a precedent, and will in time be extended to +all children born out of wedlock and will wipe out forever the cruel +and unjust stigma that has attached to the child of unmarried parents. +Thus it will be seen that even war has its good results, and although +it seems a terrible price to pay for even so badly a needed reform as +this, Humanity has always paid dearly for its willful blindness. It +certainly should be evident to any sane mind that every child that is +born into this world has a moral and a legal right to be here. +Whatever may be said for or against parents, it is wicked stupidity to +brand an innocent child with the epithet "illegitimate." The lowest +animal has a right to be born. Many a beautiful and innocent child is +denied that right. + +If it has taken one of the most bloody wars in history to establish +the right of birth, even so the struggle will not have been in vain, +because this right, once established in the hearts of all Humanity, +will forever do away with warfare. No doubt this assertion will sound +far-fetched to many, but the future will see the vindication of this +belief. + +Birth is actually the most important function in life. If it is +immoral to be born, no matter what the conditions of such birth, what +possible chance have we to live morally? We cannot discriminate in +dealing with the great fundamentals of life. + +This truism, applies to all cosmic action. Nature's laws are +inviolable. Nature says that the child of the king and the child of +the beggar shall be born in the self-same way. The child of the +unmarried mother and the child of the married mother come into the +world in accordance with the self-same law of reproduction. Nature may +not be always polite, but she is always truthful. + +As long as there is any question of the "legitimacy" of any birth, +Humanity as a whole cannot be otherwise than inferior, because +Humanity cannot rise higher than the ideal of the average. Moreover we +are so interdependent that the whole must be affected by the +conditions of a part. + +Birth is right, or it is wrong. It cannot be right under some +circumstances and wrong under others. The primal laws do not take into +account our ideas of respectability. + +The question then arises: "Are we to consider it moral and legitimate +for women to have children before they have been married?" + +The obvious answer to this question is, that the mother must be +permitted to decide this for herself, since no one has a right to do +it for her. Our right of interference in so intimate a matter must +begin only at the point where her conduct injures us. If an unmarried +woman chooses to give birth to a child, neither you nor I, nor Society +is injured, not even if the child becomes a charge of the state, +because the cost of maintaining a child is far less than that of +maintaining insane asylums and penitentiaries--both of which result +from our mistaken attitude toward the sex-relation. + +If we are permitted to answer the question of morality and legitimacy +by generalities, we will say that any child that comes into the world +_desired by the mother_ is born in accordance with the highest +possible concept of the moral law. Whenever Society, Church and +Governments shall unite to wipe out the stain upon mother and child +because of failure to comply with our marriage laws, a better race of +men and women will people the earth, because the race-thought will be +one of welcome with all that word implies; whereas at the present +time, under our undeveloped ideas of morality, doubt, suspicion, and +condemnation prevail, with all that these words imply. + +When all mothers are honored all women will be willing to be mothers. + +As long as dishonor attaches to any instance of motherhood, it is +inevitable that motherhood will be avoided, even to the point of +child-murder. Not that this practice is confined to the women who +would be dishonored by becoming mothers. It obtains rather more +perhaps among those women whose wealth and ease would seem to make +motherhood desirable. Judging from surface conditions only, one might +not see the connection. But that is the trouble with our modern life. +We do not look deeply enough to deal intelligently with causes. We are +always seeking to check effects. + +The average human being is little more than a phonographic record of +the dominant race-thought, and race-thought ideas are contagious. + +Let us honor and provide for all mothers and all children and we will +find that the birthrate will increase among the "rich and +respectable," where now we note a determined desire to shirk the +responsibilities of parenthood. + +We need not fear that the number of unmarried mothers will be +alarming. The first aid to true morality is honesty. Monogamy is the +ideal relationship between men and women. But enforced relationships +are neither ideal nor true. Ideal conditions can be established only +between free human beings. Compulsion is death. Selection and choice +mean life and health. + +The man or the woman who is free, and particularly free from +self-condemnation, is instinctively monogamous. Life in all its phases +tends upward toward conscious and specific selection. Conscious +selection must include love, and we may safely trust love. Love is +inseparable from truth and fidelity. Without love, all the efforts of +all the Eugenic Societies on earth will accomplish little, however +well-meant their efforts. Eugenists confine their work to the physical +aspect of the subject and as a matter of expediency deal with the +effects of marriage and race-propagation in their relation to disease +and degeneracy, ignoring the esoteric phase of the subject. Thus no +real good can come of the Eugenic movement per se. Its contribution to +Progress consists in its value as an "announcer" of a higher _ideal_, +rather than a higher _order_. The higher order can come only by +getting back to primal laws. + +The fact should not be overlooked that the ancient Greeks were +competent Eugenists. They effected wonderful results, too, in two +important points of the well-balanced individual. They worked for +beauty and intellect, both desirable adjuncts to a perfect race, but +both also as cold as the marble statues which Greece gave to the +world. Greek and Roman civilization toppled and fell because it was a +civilization without foundation; it was built from the outside; it was +like an old ruined house encased in a thin wall of beautiful marble, +and set upon a high hill. It deceives the eye from a distance, but +freezes the blood and congeals the soul when intimately known. + +Greek and Roman civilization, based upon physical Eugenics, was +unbalanced and could not endure, because it was a civilization of +force; of dominance rather than of unity. There was no ideal of +sex-equality, and therefore Love was regarded as the least important +requisite in Eugenic marriage. It should be obvious that without the +element of love, as the basis of selection, human reproduction must +take on the same status as stock-breeding, which may for a time give +the finest physical specimens of animal life, but which, if persisted +in, finally results in decadence. + +We have an example of the tendency to decadence from in-breeding of +those types of humans which have the best advantages at least of +education and refinement, whether or not those advantages are +embraced. We refer to Royalty. We need only mention the illustrious +example of Cleopatra to prove this. Cleopatra was the offspring of a +marriage between a brother and sister--a custom which prevailed among +ancient rulers to insure none but royal blood. Cleopatra we may well +believe was both beautiful and intellectual, but it is also certain +that she was abnormally lacking in conscience, in tenderness, in love. +Her passions were those of the animal, and not of the soul. + +In modern life, Spain and Austria both furnish discouraging data to +exponents of "select" breeding. In fact it is thoroughly established +that degeneracy is not the result of imperfect physical conditions +only. The greatest villians are not infrequently both handsome and +intellectual. + +Bulwer Lytton well illustrates this fact in his character of +"Margrave" in "A Strange Story." Margrave was a perfect and beautiful +physical specimen. He possessed rare intelligence, but he had no soul +and was utterly incapable of the finer sensibilities, which we +instinctively classify as spiritual attributes. + +Returning to a consideration of what has been termed the "unusual +behavior" of the feminine half of mankind, we find that the chief end +and aim of many women centers upon the problem of how to avoid +maternity, quite upsetting traditional ideas regarding woman's +rightful sphere, which began and ended in rearing a large family. + +Women in all walks of life, rich and poor, wise and frivolous, selfish +and unselfish--are refusing to bear children. The superficial observer +rails against this, because he sees only the effect. He sees women +living in fashionable hotels, if they are rich enough to afford it; if +they are poor they establish a cheap imitation of this phase of +semi-communal life in what is paradoxically known as "light" +housekeeping, usually represented by one small dark room where the +nearest delicatessen serves as a convenience, the public laundry +minimizes domestic labor, and the department store supplies ready +made, the family clothing, from undergarments to top coats. Under +these conditions, whether of fashionable hotel suites or dark "light +housekeeping," it is plain that children are not welcome. + +Even those of the class found between these extremes are discouraged +from rearing children, since city life tends more and more to +apartments as a substitute for the home; and no well regulated +apartment house is open to children. The average observer, as we say, +notes these conditions, but fails to realize that there must be a +cosmic cause for a condition so wide-spread. There must be "something +back of it," as we say of many things which we note in our every day +life. Looked at from the surface only, these conditions seem +deplorable and ultimately race-suicidal. But the cosmic law is always +upward in tendency. We may safely trust it, if we will. + +This does not mean that the conscious motive which actuates the +average woman, who is able physically and financially to bear children +and yet will not, is a high and noble one. The law deals with the +planet, not directly with the individual; it acts upon the developed +and the undeveloped with equal impartiality, even as the rain falls +upon the just and the unjust alike. + +Spiritually conscious persons realize the necessity for a change in +human ethics. The world is in need of a more exalted ideal; an ideal +in which equality shall be more nearly represented and they give +themselves consciously to the task of assisting in this regenerating +work. + +The difference is not in the law itself, but in our comprehension of +it. The curriculum of the school of life is unchanged. We graduate +from it or we return for another term, according as we have mastered +the studies. Applying this truth to the conditions just stated, and we +see that this rebellion on the part of woman against child birth has +two aspects. One is from apparent selfishness and lack of the +temperamental quality, which has erroneously been attributed to women +as an exclusive possession, namely, the maternal instinct. + +The other aspect of woman's disinclination to maternity is due to a +restless, vague but nevertheless determined desire on the part of the +Feminine Principle, to wait until conditions are more equal. Sometimes +we find women, who are perfectly awake and consciously aware of the +cause of their "brazen sterility," as a virile writer has caustically +termed it; but more often the conscious mental attitude is lacking and +they merely obey blindly the dominant race-mind. + +Women know much more in the depths of their souls than they can put +into words. A part of this knowledge is the fact that child-bearing is +not a function limited to the physical, the mortal plane of life. +Every woman who is anywhere near balanced in the struggle for +completeness knows intuitively, that even though she may never beget +mortal children, there are innumerable opportunities for the exercise +of her maternal functions, awaiting her just behind the veil, which +seemingly separates us from invisible areas. Moreover motherhood is +qualitative. It is not synonymous with maternity. It is not made nor +unmade by the birthrate. + +Two important considerations present themselves to the world today: One +is that woman--considered as the fecund receptive sex-principle--is +refusing the sex relationship on the old basis, however "respectable" +and well-intentioned that basis was. Generally speaking, it is evident +that the old basis of intercourse between the sexes has been, is +being, and will continue to be, disrupted, denied, refused, as the +approved and fixed plan and purpose of Destiny. The other important +observation is this: there is a cosmic cause for this. + +It is only those who are blinded by prejudice or by sense-conscious +limitations who refuse to look below the surface for the cause of a +condition so general as that of unhappy marriages; of innumerable +divorces; of the refusal to bear children. What is the cause? Why are +women refusing to marry, or when they do marry refusing to live with +their husbands? Why do they shrink from child-birth? Are they less +courageous than their progenitors? Or are women less capable of +love--either love of children or love of the father who begets the +children? + +It will be agreed that we are establishing a higher standard of love +than ever before in history. We are beginning to realize for the first +time in the history of many generations, what we owe to the future. +Formerly men built entirely for self, and for the immediate present. +We can look back and trace the development of a race consciousness +from the clan to the nation. In this century we see the barriers +between races and nations and sects and societies, as also between the +sexes, slowly dissolving. + +Only a few years ago we could not imagine an Oriental, occupying a +political, or educational or religions platform with an Occidental. +Now it is a common thing. We know the hostility which has existed +between the Jew and the Gentile--now they exchange pulpits, and all +sects and all nations unite in matters of world interest. Women are +elected to political and educational offices. No matter that these +evidences of unity are as yet incomplete. They are _promises_ of the +birth of a larger concept of love than that which prevailed when a +man's highest idea of honor and of love was to protect his immediate +family only; to care for his own legal wife and children even at the +expense of and certainly with heartless indifference to the fate of +any other women and children. + +To be sure, this protection has often been vouchsafed because of the +self interest which is inseparable from the idea of possession and is +not, per se, a grander or nobler impulse than that which actuated our +hair-clothed antecedents, who found that their own lives were best +conserved by respecting those nearest to them. But thus it is that +Love has been implanted in human hearts through no higher or more +altruistic method than that of self-interest; but the nature of love +is to expand; to grow; to _give_ of itself until unselfishness must +come with the final aim of love, which is _unity_ and not possession. + +We of this era are unquestionably manifesting a larger and more +inclusive ideal of love, and since the Female Principle conserves the +higher aspects of love, we are bound to concede that a higher ideal of +love is possible to the woman of today than ever before. We must take +into consideration the average of the sex, at the same time not +forgetting that in the highest type of individual, the qualities of +both sexes are balanced, uniting the spiritual, self-sacrificing and +unselfish love-element of the female principle, with the wider scope, +the inclusive element of the male. Let us remember that we are dealing +with principles and not merely with individuals. + +Admitting that it is not because of lack of love, either maternal or +conjugal, that women are shirking marriage and maternity, we may then +ask: "What is the cause?" The answer may be found in the conclusion +that women are done with mere instinctive procreation. They demand +conditions consistent with the birth of a higher type of human-kind. +They desire to "make right the way" for the coming of the perfect +race--a race that will not snarl and bite and growl and tear and claw +and choke and starve and freeze and otherwise kill each other over the +possession of bones. + +Ever and ever we have been promised the coming of the perfect man--the +"man-god," as Emerson said. This means the God in Man consciously +active, and awake. This God-nature of Man's has been asleep, submerged +under the domination of the animal nature which subdues and +appropriates. + +A race of supermen can be born only of full and complete union. +Animals reproduce their kind, but man's perogative is to invite the +gods to come to earth. We may consciously beget souls, not merely +reproduce bodies. Women are demanding a union in which there shall be +something more than mere physical contact resulting in reproduction. +This demand is working itself out more or less blindly according to +the development of individual women, but the ideal of soul union is +coming to be more and more recognized not only as a desirable type of +union, but also as the initiative of the promised time when the +kingdom of God should come on earth as it is in the heavens. + +All races have uttered this prayer, apparently with a firm belief in +its efficacy. If they have not faith in its appeal, it were surely +vain and foolish to voice it But we are assured that "God always keeps +his promises," which is simply one way of saying that the law of the +cosmos is reliable. + +"One calls it Evolution and another calls it God," but both must agree +that whether God or Evolution be the name, Love is the result. There +can be no higher or more spiritual phase of life than that in which +Love is an ever-present reality. Neither can we with any degree of +logic assume that a function so universal, so all-pervading, and also +so inspiring, as that of Sex, has its beginning and its termination on +the physical plane--a manifestation of life which even physicists are +bound to concede is an infinitesimal part of cosmic activities. + +We need not worry therefore lest the race shall die, because of a +decreasing birthrate as we see it on the physical plane. There are +many other places and planes of consciousness. The stars and the +planets are peopled. The cosmos is very much alive, because Sex is the +axis (X-is) upon which it rotates in perfect harmony. + +The fact which we here wish to emphasize is that the Female Principle +is refusing maternity, and above all the _bondage_ of matrimony for +the important reason that the time has come for the rearing of the +Man-god; for the establishment of the spiritual function of sex, +superceding the mere instinctive animal urge of procreation and sense +gratification. + +Evolution is apparent in all other phases of our life-activities. Why +should it not manifest in this most important of all our systems of +intercourse? + +The mere act of bringing forth children is not in itself either sacred +or holy. Far more often it has been a perfunctory duty or a punishment +for indulgence in an act of which men and women have been more than +half ashamed, even while seeking it with the instinctive urge of a +cosmic law which cannot be escaped, although it may be co-operated +with to advantage. + +Nor does the act of giving birth to children confer true motherhood. +Maternity is not necessarily motherhood any more than matrimony is +always marriage. There are many mothers who have never borne children. +And there are many women with children who know not the first faint +dawn of that wonderful, beautiful and intense (because spiritual) love +which comes most often in the guise of motherhood, but which is +always present when two souls who are truly mated contact each other's +inner nature. + +If the women of today will insist upon the sacredness and the +rightfulness of birth the women of tomorrow will not seek to evade +motherhood. If the women of today will establish the sacredness of all +life; if they will not rest until every child that is born into this +world is recognized as legitimate and more, is welcomed; is given +every advantage of education, of healthful body, of right moral +training, rest assured that the women of the future will seek only to +rival each other in the quality and the perfection of their +motherhood. + +The efforts of many radicals to enact legislation regulating the +birthrate, the struggle to disseminate knowledge of how to prevent +conception, may be well meant as these things are consistent with +prevailing conditions. But they are not the final answer to the +problem. Love is the only answer. Where love is permitted to rule, +children are not only welcome but ecstatically desired and provided +for. + +Motherhood is a hope and a joy to the normal woman. Comparatively +every woman would be normal under proper social and economic +conditions. When women seek to evade maternity it is either because of +lack of sufficient means to care for children, or it is because of +lack of sufficient love. Or it is because of fear of that modern +mo-loch, Public Opinion. + +When a woman truly loves a man, she longs to be the mother of his +children. A balanced world will make it possible for every woman to be +free from the bondage of fear and poverty, and ill-health, leaving her +free to be guided in the most vital and important function of her +life, by the call of the highest love of which she is capable. Love +will establish motherhood as a divine privilege. Certainly no other +power on earth or in the realms above can do so. Neither preachments +nor platitudes, nor punishments, nor legislative blunderings. Love is +the only saviour of mankind. There is no other true God. + +Some day the symbol of Deity which now depicts Man crucified will be +superseded upon all altars by the image of a winged babe, and when +this comes to pass, Humanity will rise to that ideal. + + + + + CHAPTER IV + + THE HISTORY OF MARRIAGE AND MATING + + +Any attempt to discuss subjects pertaining to the sex-relation with +intelligence and an optimistic outlook is handicapped by the fact that +sex-problems are so intimately associated with religious prejudices, +reasons for which we have already mentioned in the chapter devoted to +sex-worship and sex-degradation. + +It is possible, therefore, that in seeking to define freedom and to +make a plea for the freeing of women and men from the "bonds" of +matrimony, we may be accused of seeking to demolish with one blow, so +to speak, the social institution of marriage. + +Such is not the intention of the present writer, for reasons which are +based upon something far more noteworthy than a concession to the +prejudices and "beliefs" of the average. + +Luther Burbank has said: "In pursuing any of the everlasting and +fundamental laws of nature, all previous bias and inherited prejudices +must be laid aside, if the student hopes to be taken into Nature's +confidence and be the sharer of her secrets." + +The average person, entrenched behind the bulwark of theological +bias, saturated with a belief in the finality of all previous +discovery and knowledge, teems with a fanatical desire to "defend his +God"--as if the Supreme Power, whatever name we give it--were not +capable of self-defense. + +It is due to this mistaken zeal on the part of the short-sighted ones, +that human evolution is slow, albeit it is likewise inevitable. + +They are like those who, viewing the wrecking of a ruined habitation, +condemned by the Board of Public Safety, try to stop the process of +the workers; they do not know that when the ground shall have been +cleared, a finer, more sightly, and above all, more habitable building +will be put up on the same ground; and anything from the old +architecture that was worthy of preservation will be used in the new +building. + +The dug-outs of our antedeluvian ancestors were designed to protect +them from the destructive forces of storm and wave and also from their +brothers, the enemy; and although our ideas of what constitutes a +desirable dwelling-place have evolved to our modern ideal of a home, +rather than a shelter, yet the fundamental concept remains. A study of +history should be encouraging if only to prove that no radical changes +in human ethics have ever been forced upon us. Verily, the "gods wait +upon men" and until there is something like a concerted demand for +improved conditions, they stand just outside the door waiting to be +bidden, "Enter, Friend." + +As with mental ideas, so it is with ethical ideals. Until there is a +more general demand for a higher concept of marriage, it is quite +certain that the world will worry along with the one which now does +duty for the majority, although it must be admitted that the poor +thing gives evidence of much decrepitude and suffers from as many +complaints as a hypochondriac. + +But, the fact that marriage in some form has prevailed as one of the +fundamental necessities of human ethics, ever since the beginning of +recorded history, and doubtless before that, is, we believe, very +satisfactory evidence that marriage has a permanent place in social +and individual evolution. What that place is, can be deduced from a +study of the history of marriage. + +There are two different viewpoints from which we may discuss all +phases of Life, namely, the mystical and the ethical. The mystic sees +all life from the inside, as it were; and the physicist studies the +exterior, the appearance. To the mystic, the visible, or external, +world is a succession of symbols, which he must interpret. To him, the +everlasting and fundamental truths of the Cosmos are told in a +succession of moving pictures. In fact, the mystic has long +anticipated the art which we now see manifested in our film-theatres +and has realized that the scenes, which appear to the eye as actual +events, are but the reflection of scenes enacted in a place far +distant and long before the moment of projection upon the screen which +meets his eye. + +Science examines, dissects, and classifies these symbols according to +their relation to other symbols which the mind has previously noted +and classified. The same conclusion awaits both Science and Mysticism. + +Humanity is ever seeking the Reality--the Noumenon, which we +intuitively postulate as behind the phenomena of Nature. + +The institution of marriage, coming down to us through all the ages, +side by side with the mystery of sex, and incorporated with the +sex-mystery into every form and system of religious rites and +ceremonials among all peoples, would seem to have a place in human +ethics, as substantial and as permanent as the germ of life itself. + +Indeed, the institution of marriage, in its first stages of evolution, +obtains in the animal kingdom, where selection in a great variety of +forms is common. + +And it must be confessed that here we find the same tendency to change +and variation, both in regard to the individual and the family +species, as we have in the human family. + +Polyandry, polygamy, and monogamy, have been general among some +animals while among others only one form of mating has been the rule. + +Strange to say, sex promiscuity is not at all general among the +animals, though polygamy is common. The adoption of polygamy is +obviously due to one of two things, or possibly, to be more specific, +to both. First, because the percentage of deaths among the males is +greater than among the females; this applies to animal life, both wild +and domestic. In wild life, because of frequent combats; in domestic +life, because the females are kept for breeding while the males are +slaughtered for food. + +The second reason is because the female is seldom as virile as the +male, and to this is also added the debilitating effect of bearing and +rearing the young, the necessity for which must have manifested itself +very early among the various families, from motives of self-protection, +if from nothing higher, since victory evidently favored the numerically +strong. + +In bird-life, especially, where love is so vital a part of their life, +and so beautifully expressed, monogamy is the rule, and in some +species, like that of the robin, a certain aristocracy seems to exist, +preventing intercourse with any other family. The robin will mate only +with a robin, and not infrequently mates for life; which is to say +that should one die, the other refuses to mate again. + +It is claimed that the bald-headed eagle never varies from monogamy. A +mate once chosen, the union lasts until the death of either partner. +It does not follow from this, however, that the bald-headed eagle is a +creature of a superior moral conscience. It may be that he is guided +in his selection of a conjugal mate by an intuitional power +undeveloped by other types of life, or, which is far more probable, it +may be that his sexual nature is easily satisfied and that he has no +temperamental affinities or repulsions, in which event force of habit +would be the strongest actuating power. This explanation is in keeping +with the eagle character. + +The point is that marriage, or what constitutes marriage, exists among +birds and animals, and that it antedates history as a social +institution among men. Another fact which we must concede, if we are +just, is that marriage apparently knows no systematic and upward +trend. There is, in fact, no determined evolution toward a definite +and conclusive practice of monogamy, although the monogamic custom is +recognized as the evolutionary type among the civilized races of +today. Nevertheless, it would be folly to imply that a strict monogamy +obtains in the letter of the word, or that social exigencies might not +reinstate polygamy as a legalized custom. + +Passing over those forms of mating, which may be classed as +sex-promiscuity, such, for example, as exist among the Esquimaux, and +also among the Dyaks, of Borneo, where a "contract" is made for a +night by the simple expediency of the man and the woman exchanging +head-gear, we come to one of the earliest and most general forms of +marriage among primitive peoples, where the parents arranged a +marriage between their children for reasons of personal profit. In +these instances, neither the youth nor the girl was consulted and +generally did not meet until they met to consummate the marriage. In +fact, they seemed not to have any preferences. These marriages were +easily broken, unless children resulted therefrom, when there seems +to have developed a sense of obligation to the offspring to continue +the family. + +Marriage by capture grew out of the matriarchal system and came as the +very natural revolt of the male from the female rule, in which he had +no rights and no home with his spouse. Since the gens of the family +was the first consideration and this was maintained by the female +heads of a clan, there was nothing left for the male to do, if he +would be a factor in the community, but to steal his wife from her +family, and establish a family life of his own. Thus the female became +the possession of the male, by his right of capture and defense. + +Inspired by the thirst for further invasions, the male gradually +acquired not only one, but many wives, which constituted his +"possessions," from the fact that he had earned them by right of +conquest, conquest being not only the savage but also the civilized +idea of "earning." + +Indeed, our modern marriages reveal a degree of savagery in this +respect, which is not suspected by the casual observer. The almost +general observance of what has come to be known in legal jurisprudence +as "the unwritten law," which permits a man to go unpunished when he +kills another man whom he believes to have been on terms of intimacy +with his wife, is a tacit admission of a man's vested rights in his +wife's person. + +In innumerable instances, which have been given world-wide publicity +within very recent times, the man who has been guilty of homicide +under these circumstances has been exalted to the plane of a +martyr-hero, and one woman writer, whose hysterical effusions are +given considerable space in the public print, defended a man who had +taken advantage of this "unwritten law" to shoot his rival, in the +following words: "You, Mister, would shoot a man whom you found +prowling through your house with the intention of stealing your +silver; your jewelry; your property of whatever kind or value. How +much more, then, should you guard the honor of your wife, from these +pestilential marauders?" + +Of course we question the right of human beings to kill each other in +defense of mere property; but that is not the point here. The +inference here is obvious that this woman, who represents at least the +average degree of intelligence, placed her sex in the category of +man's possessions, utterly ignoring the woman's right, or power of +free-will. + +Mention is here made of this incident to show how deeply rooted is the +possessive idea of marriage, which had its origin in nothing more +ideal than the animal instinct of the dog with the bone. + +Nor would we give the impression that this one-sided idea of what +constitutes a monogamous marriage is confined to the male. The same +idea of possession as of a piece of property, representing so much +investment of time and money, and service of one kind or another, +actuates the female also although the rights of the woman in the male +are not so generally defended and she seldom resorts to such violent +methods of defense or of revenge for loss of her property. Perhaps she +has a keener sense of values. Necessity has substituted "support" for +"outraged honor," and modern woman avenges the loss of her possessions +through the safer channels of the law-courts. + +The feeling of possession, so ingrained in human nature, and so much a +part of our modern marriage relation, is not grounded upon a moral +code, which has for its basic principle fidelity to one's partner. +This is proven by the fact that men have for some time abrogated to +themselves the right of promiscuity, the main clause of their defense +being that their conduct does not deprive their wife and family of +satisfactory maintenance. Many a woman today, irreproachably +respectable and church-going, will admit to herself if not to her +neighbors, that she closes her eyes to her husband's laxity in sexual +matters, "as long as he provides well for me." + +When we come, as we will later, to a consideration of what constitutes +morality, we will see that, like all our evolving ideals, it is +governed by immediate conditions, both individual and social. + +It is easy to see why polygamy has been practiced, as a necessary +expedient, and why women have been held so cheaply, when we realize +the centuries of devastating wars, both of conquest and of defense, +which besmirch the path of Evolution. + +Thus the tendency to aesthetic selection, always more pronounced in +the female than in the male, has been swallowed up in the false +valuation put upon the male, because of his relative scarcity. + +In America, in the early sixties, fear of the epithet "old maid" drove +many a woman to marriage with a man whom, personally, she did not +like, but as he represented a more or less "rara avis" and as her +claim to attractiveness rested upon her success in trapping this rare +bird, she permitted herself to become a victim of conditions; and we +may safely conclude that no higher motive actuated the average woman +of the last century than that of submission to conditions, for the +"virtues of fidelity and devotion to the home and fireside" which +critics of present-day morals are fond of reminding us characterized +our grandmothers. + +Briefly, then, we may review the history of marriage and of mating, +everywhere, and at all times, as variable, controlled by expediency; +and always based on the egoistic idea of possession, expressed by the +right of the parents to dispose of their children; the right by +capture; the right by purchase; and the right by consent. + +One or all of these customs have been tried in various parts of the +world and at various times, and seldom has the condition of woman +approached even so enviable a place as that of the female animal, +except in the comparatively short periods when women have been the +gens of the family. + +These periods have become more and more infrequent, until the legal +status of women has been, as it is now, no more than what the +evolving consciousness of the male permitted to her. + +It is a question whether, under our pretended monogamy, which is, per +se, a more ideal condition than polygamy, all women have been either +better conditioned or more moral. The answer depends largely upon our +idea of what constitutes morality. Certainly, the condition of women +in Christian countries has been, and is now, far from ideal; which +would, judging from surface appearances, indicate that monogamy, as it +has been practiced in the past, served only as an ideal, and at best +has been of first aid to the male, primarily because of a question of +personal health and cleanliness; secondly, as a means of developing in +him the latent qualities of altruism, manifested selfishly enough at +first in protecting his possessions; among which he egotistically +conceded _his children at least_ first place; although the wife was +hardly more than a convenience and an incubator. + +Of the conditions that have prevailed under the monogamous custom and +among the so-called superior races, Letourneau, in his _Evolution of +the Family_, says: "The Hebrews seem to have been alone, among the +Semites, in adopting monogamy, at least in general practice. Doubtless +the subjection of the Jewish woman was not extreme as it is in Kabyle; +it was, however, very great. Her consent to marriage, it is true, was +necessary when she had reached majority, but she was all the same sold +to her husband. We find hardly more than the portrait of a laborious +servant, busy and grasping. We shall see that the wife, though she +might gain much money, which seems to have been the ideal of the +Hebrew, according to the Proverbs, was repudiable at will, with no +other reason than the caprice of the master who had bought her. +Finally, and this is much more severe, she was always obliged to be +able to prove, _cloths in hand_, that she was a virgin at the moment +of her marriage, and this under pain of being stoned." + +The same state of affairs or worse existed in India and in Persia, +although in Persia there seems to have been an attempt to enjoin the +same fidelity upon the husband as upon the wife, according to the +Zend-Avesta; the only severe restriction to marriage being that +neither should marry an infidel. In India, where there has been for +centuries an alleged monogamy (except among the privileged classes, +where concubinage held sway), the ethical condition of the women has +been, and still is, deplorable. + +In ancient Greece and Rome the position of the woman was most +inferior. She was generally purchased, or given for service. Her +husband's word was law, and mothers were compelled to obey their male +children as uncomplainingly as though they were slaves. The wife and +mother was not permitted to attend festivities and neither was she +allowed the selection of her friends, her husband deciding this choice +for her. + +This, of course, applied to the respectable, or so-called virtuous +woman, which constituted the average. Then, as now, two classes of +women were to some extent exempt from this rigid custom. One class +was formed by those women whose wealth conferred upon them a degree of +power, because the possessors of great wealth have always been a law +unto themselves. The other class was formed by the women who practiced +prostitution, and who, by reason of their mode of life, met men on +terms of at least temporary social equality. + +Thus it is evident that the path of the virtuous woman without the +independence that accompanies the possession of her own money, was in +ancient days much more thorny than that of the concubine or the +prostitute; and it is because of this fact that parental love, the +most powerful of all levers employed by the Cosmic Law to lift love +out of degradation, instituted the custom of the "dowry," and although +this, too, has at various times become a source of degradation, +inspiring impoverished aristocrats to loveless marriages with +so-called inferiors, yet it has after all been a factor in the +evolution of women and the preservation of the races. It has served +two purposes. It has made women, in theory at least, more independent; +and it has resulted in an admixture of blood which has saved the +aristocratic class from extinction through decadence. + +As might well be expected in those instances where women did enjoy a +degree of liberty that was due to financial and social advantages, +they took a mean delight in ruling it over their male relatives, and, +as we may note in our own time, men who yielded to the seduction of +wealth, and married women to whom they were forced to accord the +freedom and the deference which wealth confers, complained bitterly of +their lot; as witness the following complaint of a Roman husband: "I +have married a witch with a dowry; I took her to have her fields and +houses, and that, O Apollo, is the worst of evils." + +One dominant idea controlled the status of marriage in early Greece +and Rome--an idea in full accord with the materialistic phase of their +civilization; this was the idea of procreation; an idea that logically +was inevitable, since continuous warfare resulted in a population in +which women predominated, and we are told that in the interest of +procreation both childlessness and celibacy were severely punished. +Thus the situation of women was that best described by the phrase +"between the devil and the deep sea." + +Regarding the "ideal of marital fidelity," Plutarch is authority for +the story that Cato loaned his wife to his friend Hortensius and took +her back on the death of the latter, plus a rich inheritance from the +transaction. However, should Martha have yielded herself voluntarily +to Hortensius, from motives of affection, the chances are that she +would have met death at the hands of her "justly outraged" spouse. + +In Europe, similar conditions prevailed, and although monogamy was the +rule, concubinage and prostitution in all its forms existed. The wife +was subject to the husband in every wish and whim, and after him to +the eldest son. This is true today in Germany and among the Saxons in +a degree whose modifications do not accord with other advances in our +social ethics. + +It is a mistake to claim that religious systems have had any direct +influence in the emancipation of women during the nineteen hundred +years of Christian civilization among the white races. + +Religious systems have only reflected the race-thought; they have not +molded it. This is true, despite the fact that true religion, when +esoterically understood, has always aimed at union, and union means +equality along all lines, sex-equality; social equality; race +equality. + +We must here digress from the main point of this chapter long enough +to explain that equality is not synonymous with identity, as seems to +be the impression among the many; a misconception which we regret to +say is shared by the judge on the bench with the workingman on the +construction gang, and the idiotic observation that "if women expect +to vote they must expect to stand up in the street-car," is not, alas! +confined to the lout, but is quite often voiced by the professional +man. + +The same silly idea prevails with regard to race-equality. It is +judged by a similarity to our own in matters of dress; or choice of +foods; by inconsequential differences, rather than by an estimate of +what a given race may contribute to the variety of human knowledge; +and yet it is evident that nature aims at variety; at a multiplicity +of ideas and customs and creations. + +Differentiation is the primal attempt. + +Woman's claim to equality should be based upon the fact that first of +all she is different from, rather than identical with, men. + +The woman who dons male attire and eschews all so-called "feminine +frivolity" in her efforts to prove herself man's equal, is confessing +that in her natural environment she does not consider herself his +equal, and is masquerading as man, in the vain hope that she may +deceive herself and others into thinking she is. + +An individual is important to Society in proportion to his +originality; in proportion as he contributes some new idea; some +hitherto unfamiliar view. + +Returning to the point of what constitutes true religion, namely, a +consciousness of our unity with all life, we find that although +religious ethics have included this ideal, it has not been emphasized +in the ratio of its importance. The result is that where unity should +have been established, segregation has been the rule, and it is +without any desire to reflect discredit upon the ideal of the Church +that we point to the fact that woman's emancipation, and her +co-operation in all departments of life, as a hope, if not a +consummated reality, has but now made its initial bow to the world. + +That this initial bow comes side by side with, if not actually in the +wake of, disruption of the old theologic dogmas; dissatisfaction with +religious systems; and a determined disregard for what has been +presented as religion; cannot be denied. The fact is that religious +creeds never save anyone; never really elevate nations. At best they +have been but a "consolation prize" or a narcotic. Love of freedom is +the great liberator. + +The influence of Rationalism, as inaugurated by Ingersoll in America +and Bradlaugh in England, was the opening wedge. Christian Science, +mothered by a woman, incorporated the phrase "Father-Mother-God" into +its literature, and unity has been the avowed ideal of all the variety +of new cults and philosophies presented under so great a variety of +names that we cannot here enumerate them. + +Nevertheless, we are still many leagues short of realizing this ideal, +despite the preachments in its favor. Politically, the ideal of unity +is presented, more or less imperfectly, of course, as Socialism, and +Suffrage. Commercially, still more imperfectly in the merchants' "let +us get together on this," and in efforts at legislation that shall +control corporation dividends and labor schedules, and regulate hours +of work. In fact, all along the line we see the shadow cast by the +rising sun of unity. + +We have thus briefly traced the history of marriage and of mating, in +order that we may discuss with sane impartiality the questions: What +does marriage symbolize? What is its function in the life of the +social body; in the existence of the sphere itself; of the entire +Cosmos? + +Has it any real place and purpose beyond that of procreation, or any +more spiritual function than the perpetuation of the human species? + + + + + CHAPTER V + + THE SYMBOLISM OF MARRIAGE AND OF SEX-UNION + + +Notwithstanding the patent fact that the institution of monogamous +marriage has not resulted in an ideal condition, it is also plain that +any other ideal of sex-union is impossible to a highly developed race. + +Monogamy, despite its present unsatisfactory condition, is a promise +of the highest ideal to which mortals can aspire; it is the imperfect +image of that ideal state which human nature has always striven for. +That we have striven for the most part blindly; that we have fallen +far short of the ideal aimed at, should not deter us from realizing +that the ideal is right. + +Monogamy, as a type of the perfect marriage, symbolizes the meeting +and the consequent union of a man and a woman who are perfect +complementaries. + +In order to be a perfect and lasting union, they must be spiritual +counterparts. Without this counterpartal affinity as the base of +union, no power on earth can force them to unite, although all the +laws of men be employed to keep them tied to each other in the body. +If two persons belong to each other by the inviolable law of spiritual +counterpart, no multitudinous set of man-made laws can keep their +souls apart, although these codes may temporarily separate them in the +flesh. The bonds of true matrimony are "holy"--the word meaning whole; +entire; complete; but these bonds are of an interior nature; they may +be judged only from the interior nature of two persons; and any +attempt to decide this all-important question from the standpoint of +exterior judgment must fail. + +The perfect union of the one man and the one woman is the highest +ideal of marriage of which we can conceive; but shall we for that +reason insist that marriage as a social institution is always complete +and holy? When two immature persons come together under the stimulus +of no more complementary impulse than the blind force of chemical +attraction and cohesion--an instinct, which we share in common with +every form of life, from the lowest insect to man--shall they be +compelled to abide by that act "as long as they both shall live" in +the physical body? + +We would say, "Heaven forbid!" only that the appeal is unnecessary. +Heaven does forbid, and that is why we see so many attempts to disrupt +these immature relationships. + +"The striving of sexual elements through affinities, or passional +attractions, after congenial marriage unions, is the cause of all the +motions, growths, and activities in the physical and moral world," +says a writer, and he adds: "The failure to attain the desired end, +and the warfare between uncongenial and repulsive elements is the +cause of all the broken equilibriums, discords, and collisions in both +spheres. If the atomic marriage in nature were perfect, there would be +no storms or droughts, or poisons or monstrosities, or disease. If the +marriage between the individual will and understanding, between the +interior and exterior life, were perfect, we should have regenerated +men upon earth, worthy to be called sons of God. If the marriage +between the sexes were perfect, we should have a Social Paradise." + +Marriage, then, in the sense of the conjugal union of two persons of +opposite sex, is the most important function of our lives; every other +activity is subsidiary to it. Commerce is carried on, only because of +this union; all the laws of man are the outgrowth of marriage; all +morality comes from the ideal marriage--the union of Wisdom and Love. +To imagine that a function, so vitally important to our exterior life, +should have no place in the phases of life which we know as "higher," +is a manifest absurdity, and comes from those attenuated concepts of +what constitutes spirituality, which Theology has postulated; concepts +which, entrenched behind the walls of "thus saith the Lord," have +temporarily defied modern progress. + +There is no wide gulf between the spiritual and the material worlds, +although the material is but an imperfect reflection of the basic +principle of life. + +Marriage, then, is eternally going on, "Nature is a system of +nuptials," says a writer, and nature is only the language of spirit or +Divine Life. + +How it came about that Theology made the mistake of degrading +sex-union and of limiting it to the ephemeral life of the body only, +we shall come to later. For the present, a brief resume of the types +of marriage ceremony, which have been universal, will convince us that +Nature has always sought to convey to the human mind this great secret +of eternal and never-ceasing union of complementaries. + +Take, for example, the symbol of the wedding-ring. This custom, +varying only in unimportant details, consistent with the prevailing +social custom of the times, has come down to us from prehistoric days. +The golden circle, sometimes worn only by the bride, but frequently by +both bride and groom, is emblematical of the completion of the circle +of wisdom and the final attainment, in "the twain made one," of the +finding by each of "the other half." The circle is always used to +express the Absolute; Aum; the Supreme Power that is "without +beginning and without end." + +According to the old Jewish law, the wedding ring must be made of pure +gold and must be earned and paid for by the bridegroom; he might not +acquire it by credit or gift. There is in this custom something more +than mere thrift; or the assurance of the bridegroom's ability to +sustain the needs and comforts of his wife and prospective family. It +symbolizes the truth that no one may hope to acquire this priceless +blessing of perfect conjugal union, other than by his own efforts. +Immortality must be earned, and perfect union, counterpartal +union--which means actually "twain made one," comes only by dint of +strife and demand and proof of our fitness for the Perfect Life. + +Another custom, which has been in almost universal vogue, is that of +drinking wine, emblematical of the "wine of life," at the completion +of a marriage ceremony. Sometimes this has been the prerogative of the +bride and groom only; and sometimes of the officiating priest; but +more generally the entire company has shared in this custom. Wine +drinking thus symbolizes eternal youth and virility, which can be +enjoyed only by those who have attained to the complete life--the +divine or spiritual sex-union. + +This symbolism is obvious when we take into our consciousness the +truth that only complementaries have the power to act and react, +without change, or loss. Equilibrium is maintained by a perfect +balance of two forces; if one force be ever so small a fraction less +than the other, perfect balance is lacking. + +Another marriage custom in general use among the ancients was the +donning of a crown on the wedding day. This custom formerly included +the bridegroom as well as the bride, but later was confined to the +bride alone, as was also the custom of wearing a veil. At early Greek +marriages crowns made of gold or silver were placed upon the heads of +both bride and groom; tapers were lighted; and rings exchanged. + +We have a similar custom today in all fashionable church weddings. We +have the lighted tapers, signifying the quenchless fires of love; and +the circlet which symbolizes eternity. + +The crown symbolizes the truth that a truly spiritual union bestows +the crown of immortality; the power of Godhood in the Kingdom of Love; +which supersedes all earthly kingdoms in splendor. This is a literal +truth, although it cannot be understood in its full significance until +we are _fit for the kingdom_. + +The veil which the bride lifts at the completion of the ceremony +symbolizes the truth that when we shall have attained to the spiritual +marriage, the veil that separates the interior from the exterior life, +shall be lifted; it is so thin that the illusion, of which the wedding +veil is made, rightly symbolizes this apparent separation of the +physical life from the spiritual. When the veil is lifted, we shall +know our completement in the bliss of perfect union; and when we have +found that other half of our being, which is the underlying urge of +our every thought and act, we shall find the veil lifted. The entire +panorama of the universe becomes an open book. There is no "visible" +and "invisible;" it is all One, with our own bi-une sex nature for the +pivotal center. + +So simple and so obvious are all these symbols of the natural man that +we are astounded, when we have found the key, that we did not sooner +penetrate their meaning. "She will have a crown in Heaven," we say of +some self-sacrificing and loving soul, and the phrase suggests to +most of us the power of earthly kings and queens with all their +splendor of jewels and retainers; but there is an inner meaning which +the splendor and the crowns of earth's kings and queens symbolizes. + +Spiritual union with the perfect complement of our interior nature is +in itself the crown of regal power, of which earthly rulers are +symbolical. The spiritual body through this union becomes radiant; +luminous; and shines with such splendor that it dazzles the eyes of +the beholder. What constitutes the beauty and the value of +gems--diamonds; rubies; sapphires; emeralds; topaz; pearls? + +It is the radiations of light which they throw off; it is their +luminosity--their transparency. It is, indeed, true, that the power +which we see exemplified in the rulers of the earth has a +corresponding meaning in a spiritual sense; as, in fact, have all +things which we cognize with our physical eyes. The Hindus tell us +that all things are either the "nita" or the "ita" message. Either +they tell us "this is the way to the heights;" or "this is not the +way." + +The crown of orange blossoms which has supplanted the ancient crown of +gold and silver and tinsel, worn with such unconsciousness of its +esoteric message, symbolizes one of the most beautiful truths relating +to the spiritual marriage--counterpartal union. + +Even as this union confers a beautiful radiance upon the spiritual +body, the body also becomes sweet-scented like a flower. Weeds, we +remember, have no scent or they may be obnoxious in their odor. Weeds +are unregenerate flowers. + +Certain chemical combinations produce nauseous gases. The human body +is a laboratory in which chemical changes are constantly going on. The +changes produced by sex-functioning are greater than anything which +the experimental chemist has ever discovered in nature. + +It is a fact well known to the pathologist that an unwilling wife, +however faithful she may be, if forced into the sexual act, may +present her husband with a well-defined case of genital disease; nor +is this at all strange when we consider the now well-recognized fact +that anger, fear, revenge, avarice, and all the destructive +thought-forces produce poisons in the secretions of the body. + +In Rosicrucian literature, we have the story of "the Chymical Marriage +of Christian Rosy Cross," which is, when read with the key to its +esoteric meaning, a story of the chemistry of marriage between the +sexes. Indeed, the whole story of the secret doctrines of the +Rosicrucians, is the story of the sexes, and the "secret of secrets," +which was so zealously guarded by the Hermetics and the Rosicrucians +and other secret societies, is the secret of the spiritual union of +the male and the female principles throughout nature and culminating +in man and woman, conferring upon them immortal life through the +perfect balance of sex. + +It has been said that women were not admitted to the Brotherhood of +the Rosicrucians, but this is not true, as there is plenty of evidence +to prove. + +Owing to the enmity of the established Church toward any exaltation of +the sex-relation, and particularly toward the veneration of woman, it +became necessary for those who sought to keep alive the fires of +Esoteric Wisdom to surround themselves with the most rigid secrecy; in +consequence of this, the story of the sexes, constituting the very +heart and center of Hermetic philosophy, has been told in allegory, +unintelligible unless one has the inner sight or has been initiated +into the secret code. + +In the sixteenth and seventeenth centuries, the Church had so far +succeeded in undermining the work of the Hermetics, that women were +excluded from the Brotherhood, and the apparent sole purpose of the +secret order was the search for metallic transmutation. Side by side +with this convincing evidence that the esoteric meaning of the symbols +has been perverted, we find their allegorical phraseology intermixed +with frequent allusions to passages from the Scripture and to the +Virgin Mary, proving conclusively that the Church, then in the zenith +of its power, had confiscated the archives of the secret order, and, +either through fear of the influence of their work, or possibly +through lack of any adequate comprehension of their wisdom, had +employed their symbolism to the further glory of the temporal power of +the Church. + +This subject will again be dealt with in a chapter devoted to "The +Hidden Wisdom," and so we will leave it for the present. + +One other great spiritual truth relating to marriage is found in the +intimate and constantly recurring association of the turtle-dove with +the ceremony of marriage. + +The dove is, par excellence, an example of conjugal love. The +turtle-dove, more than any other of the dove family, is noted for the +fervor of its sexual desires; fidelity to its mate; and for the +devotion and diffusion of its love nature. It is well known that if +either of a pair of turtle-doves dies, the mate will grieve itself to +death. "Like a pair of turtle-doves" is said of a couple who are +happily married, and the domestic life of the dove has made the dove a +symbol of peace. + +Doves have been held sacred in many parts of the world, and figure +prominently in religious symbolic architecture and utensils, from +ancient times down to the present day. The symbol of the doves flying +over the ark of the covenant typifies the spiritual origin of birth, +the ark being the primordial egg, from which issued all the forms of +life. Let us also remember that they issued _in pairs_. + + + + + CHAPTER VI + + CONTINENCE; CHASTITY AND ASCETICISM; THEIR SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE + + +From the earliest forms of sex-worship, in which the creative function +was doubtless given its rightful place, down through successive stages +of sex-degeneracy, we come to the sex-perversions and the almost +general licentiousness of Ancient Greece and Rome, with whom the sex +function became nothing more exalted than a method of procreation, in +common with the animals; and a means of sense-gratification, on a par +with gluttony. + +Even among the intellectual Greeks, the highest type of a civilization +that, although epicurean and esthetic, was yet essentially +materialistic, sexual intercourse had no more spiritual place than it +occupies today in fine stock-breeding. + +Between ancient Roman licentiousness and our own modern attitude +toward the sex-relation, there intervenes that terrible time in the +history of Human Evolution, known as the Dark Ages, in which was +evolved the unnatural view of the function of sex, exemplified rather +erotically, in many instances, by asceticism and celibacy. Although it +sounds paradoxical, yet there is a celibacy that is distinctly erotic. + +In reading of some of the experiences in the lives of the saints, the +normal, healthy person feels an aversion similar to that which he +experiences in viewing the effects of physical disease; and yet we +must note in this abnormal attitude of the Church toward the +sex-relation, the effect of nature's attempt at equilibrium; a +revulsion from the effect of the centuries preceding. + +Some of the contributing causes of this revulsion were: celibacy, +except within the Church, forbidden by the Roman Senate; the fact that +women had no choice in marriage; the devastating wars which took the +best of physical manhood; and the cheapness of women, every man of +wealth having as many slave women as he could house and feed; the +orgies where women, both bound and free, were openly debauched; all +these evidences of the utter degradation to which the pure and +beautiful function of sex had sunk, called for a revulsion; and it +came in the idea of asceticism--an instance where the remedy was worse +than the disease. The mental attitude that resulted in asceticism was +not one in which the sex function was lifted from the mire of +licentiousness in which it lay; rather it was abandoned altogether as +something vile and unclean; and that too, unhappily, by those who +should have known better. + +The Roman Church, in full accord with the type of Roman mind which +fostered it, still harbored the perverted idea that women were +inferior. And it is from the Roman Church of today rather more than +from any other of the phases of Christian Orthodoxy, that we note a +militant opposition to woman suffrage, and all the other avenues of +woman's claim to free expression. + +While retaining all the old Roman's disrespect for woman, the Church +instituted and fostered celibacy, as a way out of the old profiligacy, +but as though by a sort of spiritual irony, the Church has retained, +from its "pagan" ancestors, the sex-worshippers, the idol of the Holy +Virgin. And despite the bombardments of criticism from without and the +inculcation of superstitious ignorance from within, the pure-hearted +children of the Church have always gone to the "Holy Mother" for their +comfort; and thus the eternal fires of Truth have smouldered beneath +the ashes of perverted mysticism throughout the Dark Ages that are +gone and the scarcely lighter Dawn that is here. Those who have eyes +to see, realize that the one worth-while thing which the old, +nearly-blind Church has been unwittingly doing all the time, has been +to hold to this central truth of all Life--religious, social, +national, and domestic--the truth that it is only by exalting the +maternal function of human life, that we can hope to reach the saviour +of mankind. + +And, lest there be still some misconception of what we consider to be +the true "saviour" of mankind, we will again state, even as the Church +itself states it, "the babe of Bethlehem"--the pure Love between one +man and one woman; the "twain made one," which is the only saviour +that ever was or ever will be--the pure Christ-child that is born of +conterpartal union. + +Let those who would cling to the idea of an individual man, born in a +city called "Bethlehem" as the saviour of the world, remember that +even so, the city derived its name from the word, "bethel," meaning a +pure white stone, rounded at the top, in exact imitation of the +omphalos of Apollo, in the temple of Delphi. And when the shock of his +discovery has somewhat subsided, and his prejudices have been +swallowed up in a desire for the whole Truth, let him remember also +that this central idea has been the foundation of all religious rites +since time began; and instead of feeling that the whole fabric of +Christianity has been rent by the light of scientific discovery, he +will see that it has merely been _revealed_, and the revelation will +prove to him that Truth is the most beautiful, the most spiritual and +the most satisfying thing in life, because the Truth is that Perfect +Love is the only passport to immortal bliss. No one can withhold +Heaven from us, if we have this perfect love. + +Thus the essentials of Christianity are the essentials of every other +religious system; and the essentials are: Love is the One true and +only God; and Sex is the form in which this Bi-une God appears; +according to our individual and collective reverence for this bi-une +God, will be our spiritual development. + +We do not reverence sex when we cheapen it by dissipation; or when we +abandon it as unclean and unworthy and unholy; both attitudes are +abnormal, and unbalanced. + +Spiritual consciousness aims at equilibrium. The perfectly balanced +person is equally developed on all planes; the perfectly balanced +individual, in sufficient numbers, will produce a balanced and +therefore a healthy social organization; and a balanced and +healthy-minded race of beings will result in a balanced sphere; this +fact is foreshadowed by the postulate which Science is now +considering, to wit: the earth's axis may be straightened, and, if so, +a uniform temperature will prevail on this globe. + +Returning to a consideration of the subjects which head this chapter, +we find it necessary to clear the ground a little, in regard to a +definition of words. + +The word continence should apply to the act of self-restraint in the +matter of the emotions, desires, and passions, whether of the +sex-passion or the passion of anger, avarice, or gluttony. The word +has come to mean, in many cases, the total abstinence from the +sex-relation, because of the general idea which has prevailed, that +any indulgence of sex-love was a confession of weakness. In fact, our +modern ideas regarding this subject are so chaotic and so manifestly +paradoxical that they are absurd. + +On the one hand we have a tradition that motherhood is a beautiful and +holy thing; on the other, we regard the sex-relation, per se, as an +indecent thing, or at best as a weakness of the flesh. + +We have the obvious demonstration that creation is possible only +because of the conjunction of the two sexes, and yet we are taught +that sex-love is something which is permitted to us in this lower +state of our being, and denied in heaven, and at the same time we are +told that God creates everything, and God dwells in Heaven, where +there is no such "polluting sin" as sex-love. + +We certainly do need balance. + +The word chastity conveys to the mind (and this is not confined to the +undeveloped person, but is general) the idea of a woman who is devoid +of the sex-impulse. Chastity, like the word virtue, suggests to our +minds no relationship to the character, or inner nature of a person; +it has come to be applied to the physical anatomy, and we are not +surprised when we realize that the word is seldom used in connection +with the male. It is strictly a female attribute--nay, we may almost +say, "organ." + +If a woman, for any reason whatsoever, whether through lack of +opportunity; through hereditary causes; or through repression, +or--which occurs more frequently--as a commercial expediency, +believing that her person will thus bring more in the matrimonial +market--if, as we say, for any reason, however sordid, a woman escapes +bodily sex-contact, she is called "chaste" and her "virtue" is +extolled. + +This is, of course, not a far cry from the ancient days when a +bridegroom had the right to turn the bride away from his door, should +the evidence of her virginity be lacking; whereupon the poor creature +was stoned to death, a sacrifice on the altar of Egoism, the +arch-enemy of both sexes. + +And although it seems a long, long time from that day to this, we may +look back over the Ages, and see the thread unbroken, connecting the +Past with the Present; uniting the women of those days with their +sisters of today; and we find the answer to this far-off outrage upon +the spiritual function of sex, in the horrors of our white slavery, +among which horrors, the greatest is not alone the barter and sale of +that which should be recognized as sacred, but the perversions, the +deceptions and the subterfuges which it entails. One instance, related +by a trained nurse who had been in attendance upon a girl sixteen +years of age, will suffice to illustrate this. The girl, encouraged by +her mother, related with amusement and satisfaction, how the child had +"sold her virtue" on seven different occasions, procuring for the +same, proven by the requisite evidences, sums which were considered +quite exorbitant in view of the fact that the market was always +over-crowded with similar sales. + +Thus, the law of supply and demand is ever preserved; and human beings +keep right on selling their royal birthright for a mess of pottage; +inviting disease, decay and death when they might have glorious, +blissful life. + +Mankind has failed to look for virtue in the interior nature; failed +to look for beauty of soul, being ever ready to pay the highest price +for the counterfeit, and the result is that a practice of mutual +deception has been the rule. + +Some years ago, Thomas Hardy wrote a story about a girl in the +wretched environment of middle-class England. He called it the story +of a "pure woman," and his appraisal of the heroine as a pure woman +brought out a storm of reproach and horrified criticism, particularly +from the clergy, because it chanced that this poor girl had given +birth to a child out of wedlock; and notwithstanding that the author +made it quite clear that she had been the victim of circumstances and +coercion, the act itself condemned her to unchastity in the eyes of +the clerical critics. + +When we contemplate the attitude which religious systems have ever +held toward women, we are amazed that the Church has been upheld +almost wholly by the female sex. The fact is accountable on one +hypothesis only: that of the spiritual insight, which recognized in +the story of the Holy Mother and the Child the _One primordial, and +indestructible key to salvation_--the birth of the god-man through the +recognition of the purity and joy of the perfect sex-union. + +But, notwithstanding the medieval trend of religious mysticism (there +is a religious mysticism and a scientific mysticism) which seemed to +regard all human love as a weakness, when not actually sinful as in +sex-love, it is evident that sexual love, in its emotional, or psychic +aspect, was at the root of the "ecstacies" which are so ardently +described in ecclesiastical history as "evidences of saintliness." + +If, instead of indignantly denying this fact, as though it were +profane criticism of the saints, defenders of the Theological view of +mysticism would calmly consider and accept the evidence, they would be +able to infuse into the creeds, the vitality which they so lack. + +The lives of the saints, in so far as they relate to trance and +ecstatic visions, must, sooner or later meet one of two fates. Either +they will be analyzed and presented, with the reverence that is due +the subject, as proofs of the spiritual function of sex-love; or they +must be relegated to the position to which the Church assigns all +sexual desire--that of eroticism and innate and ineradicable +depravity. + +Viewed in the light in which Theology has held the sex relation, the +paroxysms which are ascribed to St. Catherine of Sienna, and to the +Holy Mechthild and other saints, have in them something decidedly +obnoxious; while, if we take the premise that these saints, by virtue +of prayer, aspiration, and intended sacrifice of the mortal self to an +ideal, transmuted their sex-nature from the physical to the spiritual, +then indeed, we have an approach to a mighty truth, which is at once +both explanatory and satisfying. St. Catherine is referred to as "the +mystic bride;" and Jesus Christ, to whom she was "espoused" (using the +terminology which the Church prefers, as suggesting a less physical +union than the word "married") was the "bride-groom;" more than that; +she declared that she was married with a ring, set with precious +stones; just like any other betrothal or wedding ring. + +Always in these recitals we find the phraseology which lovers employ +when exalting the loved one above the world. The term "My Beloved" is +singularly universal, and seems to spring involuntarily to the lips of +the lover when his love is of the quality that reverences; adores; and +exalts its object. And it is equally foreign to the lips of the +dilettante lover. + +To their credit be it said, the love which the saints developed within +themselves, by dint of their attempts to exalt celibacy in an age of +sexual profligacy, is none the less human love; it is human love +spiritualized, exalted, and transmuted from the plane of the animal to +that of the soul. This transmutation is in fact responsible for the +intensity, the absorbing power of the love which thrilled them into +such an ecstacy that in most instances they became lost in the bliss +of the emotions excited by the inward flow of their sex nature, and +were totally unfitted to take part in the outer, or so-called +practical life. + +Such, for example, was Saint Teresa, of whom William James, in his +"Varieties of Religious Experience," says: "Her idea of religion seems +to have been that of an endless amatory flirtation--if one may say so +without irreverence--between the devotee and the Deity." Although this +estimate of St. Theresa's saintliness will doubtless be shocking to +the people who think they are pious, we take an optimistic view of it, +and suggest that the saint's idea of religion is far more satisfying +than that usually presented as saintliness. St. Theresa, like most of +the female saints, became "the bride of Christ"--the _man_ Jesus, the +Christ, let it be remembered. + +St. Gertrude, a Benedictine nun of the Thirteenth Century, gave +herself up so wholly to this inward contemplation; to fasting, prayer, +and withdrawal from the outer to the inner life, that she lived as the +"bride of God," in such daily contact with Him as would fitly describe +any love-mated honeymoon of today. According to her testimony "God" +indulged in such language and caresses, and intimacies, kisses and +compliments as would satisfy any woman married to her ideal lover. + +In the case of St. Louis of Gonzaga, it is significant that he +selected the Virgin Mary as the object of his adoration and +"consecrated to her, his own virginity;" and we read how "burning with +love, he made his vow of perpetual chastity." In consequence of this +vow, he was never tempted as was St. Anthony, by visions of beautiful +women. + +Here again we have the love of the male for the female. If it were not +so, St. Louis may well have chosen Jesus, or Joseph, or John, as the +object of his devotional contemplation; and St. Catherine, and +Theresa, and Mechthild might have paid their homage to the Virgin +Mary. + +"Jeanne of the Cross" held constant converse with her guardian angel, +who by the way was a beautiful youth, "more brilliant than the sun and +with a crown of glory on his head." + +St. Frances was inseparable from her angel, whom she loved with +extravagant and blissful devotion, and whom she also described as "a +young man of such radiant beauty and purity that he melted her soul." + +The truth is that, in seeking to escape from the "sin" of human love, +as seen in the world, in the union of the sexes, they touched the very +main-spring of their sex-nature, intensifying to a degree unknown to +the merely sense-conscious person, the ecstatic bliss of spiritual +sex-union. + +Naturally the question will arise as to whether these saints really +came into contact with their spiritual mates in these paroxysms of +holy fervor, and if so, why did the vision of the Christ so frequently +appear to them and not alone the vision of some other being? + +The answer is found in the fact that spiritual experiences must be +interpreted through the channel of the outer mind, which in these +instances was obsessed by the thought implanted by Medieval Theology, +that human love is sinful. It may be questioned whether, even though +the visions did relate to some person other than the members of the +Holy Family, the fact would have been admitted since it would have +been attributed to unworthiness on the part of the saint. + +They were practically compelled to include God and Christ in their +ecstacies to prove their respectability. + +One phrase, commonly employed to describe the kind of love which +"flooded the soul" in these saintly ecstacies, is particularly +applicable to the effects of spiritual sex-union, as described by +those who have experienced counterpartal union, and which Swedenborg +so constantly emphasizes in his recital of "conjugal delights." This +phrase is "melting love." It is a feeling of melting or merging into +the other's being, until there seems to be but one person, formed by +the two souls. In fact, it is _union_; whereas the lesser, or we may +say the lower, phase, of the sex-relation is at best but _contact_. + +If this view of the trances and ecstacies described in the lives of +the saints, be repulsive to our readers, we can only say that we are +sorry for our readers. They have imbibed the spirit of the Dark Ages, +which regarded human love as sinful, overlooking the fact that all we +may know of the "love of God," is by analogous comparison to what we +know of human love. + +If human love be sinful, by logical deduction we would inevitably +arrive at the conclusion that the universe is all sinful. In which +event, the very word itself would have lost its significance. + +The objectionable part of the orthodox view of the effects of +saintliness lies in the realization that neither the saints +themselves, nor the Church which perpetuates their recitals, had any +conception of the real situation, so evident to the enlightened and +unprejudiced reader. And if this view of saintly ecstacies, +postulating the transmutation of sex-force into spiritual channels, be +objectionable, what can be said of the only other view which is +possible in the light of the evidence submitted? + +Our ideas of what constitutes chastity need revising, else we must +needs decide that chastity is more a vice than a virtue. + +For example, consider the character of a mother of the +self-sacrificing, noble type, devoting her life to the welfare of the +human family; interesting herself in all the problems that affect the +generations to come; patient; sweet and wise. Compare her with an +unmarried girl whose body is immune from contact with one of the +opposite sex, but whose mind is bent upon self, and self-adornment; +upon the necessity of capturing a wealthy husband, as a means of this +self-gratification, without regard to any sentiment or even common +affection. Who is the more chaste? + +Coventry Patmore says: + + "Virgins are they before the Lord, + Whose souls are pure. The vestal fire + Is not, as some mis-read the Word, + By Marriage quenched, but burns the higher." + +If purity of soul were synonymous with celibacy, the entire +constantly-copulating cosmos would have long since been demolished; +but despite the mistaken attitude of religious systems toward the +divine function of sex, Humanity is reaching a higher and purer +conception of love. As we approach a higher type of civilization, the +broader, deeper, and more intense becomes our capacity to love. The +more spiritual we become, the more vital is our love-nature, and our +love-nature is grounded in sex. Let us not imagine that spiritual love +is less sexual than is physical love. Spiritual love is physical love, +_plus_ all the other phases of love. + +The real objection to sex love on the physical plane is not based upon +its strength, but upon its weakness. If it be nothing deeper than an +attraction of chemical affinities generated by physical activities, it +has no reservoir from which to draw its supply. It is like the +electrical wire that is "short circuited," it expends itself in one +spasmodic combustion. + +True spirituality is attained by a process of addition. The common and +erroneous idea of spiritual attainment involves a process of +subtraction. + +We need go no further than to review the processes in the external +world of today to understand this fact of the inclusiveness of the +spiritual life, in contradistinction to the generally accepted idea of +exclusiveness which is attached to a contemplation of the so-called +"spiritual." + +All our activities are now carried on upon a gigantic scale. Where +formerly a little stream supplied the water to the mill, we now +harness the invisible and apparently inexhaustible forces of +electricity; where formerly commerce was a system of bartering between +two single individuals, it is now a huge network involving millions of +persons. Everything teaches us the lesson of inclusiveness, as we +approach a more spiritualized ideal of life. We are uniting; merging; +drawing within. + +The Centripetal force of the planet itself, corresponding to the +female pole of the magnet, is today the active principle in external +life. The machinist knows this when he is compelled to avoid the +suction currents of electrical power. Cosmic reaction has set in, and +union between complementaries is the result. Applying this truth to +individual human life, and we have what? + +_Counterpartal Sex-union._ + + + + + CHAPTER VII + + SOUL-UNION: WHERE WILL IT LEAD? + + +We have heard much in recent years of "affinities," and "soul-mates," +and we are likely to hear much more in the future. So much that is +unsavory and sensational is associated with these two words, that we +almost hesitate to employ them; but that is always the way with Fear. +It builds a high wall between us and Truth, and dares us to scale it. + +We accept the challenge. + +To begin with, the words are not synonymous, although frequently used +as such. Affinities are based upon mutual interests; mutual tastes and +appetites; mutual stages of development; but these stages of +development may be sense-conscious only; or they may be of a highly +intellectual order. Whatever their basis of mutuality, they tend to +attract upon that plane. Whenever this affinity, established by virtue +of mutual tastes, is on the sense-plane only--that is, when it is +because two persons both like their roast-beef rare; or their whiskey +diluted; or their wine iced--we are apt to find the result in a +mistaken idea of sexual affinity, which wears itself out for the +reasons already stated, because there is no reservoir from which to +draw. The chemistry of the body changes with time and emotional +experiences. Affinity of bodily contact only, resulting from a +congeniality of sense-appetites, is therefore necessarily short lived. + +Affinity of intellect is much more lasting, because it approaches a +state higher in the ascent to the spiritual center of the cosmos. + +Thought is the parent of speech, or of any external appeal to the +senses. Back of all objectivity is the thought that molded it; but +back of thought is desire; and back of desire is design--cosmic design +we may say--expressing itself discretively; in individuals. + +Affinities that are based upon intellectual similarities are of a +finer nature and generally more lasting than those of sense-conscious +attraction only; and it is no uncommon thing to find two persons of +the opposite sex enjoying a protracted friendship or preference for +each others' society which deceives the average on-looker into +thinking that there is also sexual affinity, when as a matter of fact +there may never have been any thought of such relationship. + +A few brilliant women in former times, notably Madame de Stael, or +Margaret Fuller, have enjoyed the attentions and apparent devotion of +men for many years without having entered into any more intimate +relationship with them. But these examples have been few in the past, +and have been much commented upon. In the present, such desirable +companionship is becoming much more common and a woman may now be seen +twice with the same man without having the neighbors speculating as +to a suitable name for the baby. + +More and more, as women become freed from the necessity to "settle +themselves" in marriage, we find evidences of this intellectual +affinity between the sexes; and more and more, as we get away from the +old thought that a man has but one desire, that of sexual intercourse, +and a woman but one motive, that of enslaving man through his sexual +appetite, we will find that men and women will meet on the plane of +intellectual affinity and not be driven by gossip of outsiders, or by +the force of the race-thought in their own minds, into seeking to +spoil such companionship by a matrimonial alliance, when nature did +not intend it to be so. + +A number of years ago, when even the little freedom which human beings +now accord each other in this matter was denied the struggling sexes, +a certain man and woman, who were intellectual companions, married. He +was a writer; she was a physician; which is evidence in itself of a +degree of intellectual power not so common at that time as now; she +was moreover an unusual woman in many ways. They parted after a month +of married life and to the horror and scandal of the entire community, +remained friends. The scandal reached the climax of disapproval and +shocked morality when the man, married again, continued his friendship +with his former wife and later, when a baby came to the couple, the +ex-wife and mutual friend was the attending physician. + +The old idea of matrimony held that the husband and wife must be +"yoked" together, so that neither one could exercise any individual +predilection or choice of friends, or recreation, or taste or desire. +And this is still the average idea of a successful marriage. It is an +idea that is not confined to the ignorant, and the narrow-minded. It +is the attitude of society at large, though upon what argument such an +idea is based, must be left to the perverted imagination. + +Presumably it is because of that colossal egotism which insists upon +personal ownership. One would expect this tendency to own each other +to have died with the death of the institution of slavery, but it +still exists, and as we have already observed, among those who sit in +the seats of the mighty as well as among the ignorant. + +A couple who had married on the ground of intellectual affinity lived +together most congenially for a period of twelve years, although they +agreed that sexual affinity was lacking in their relationship. They +agreed that there was another phase of mating, and that should either +come to the point where freedom was desirable, it would be given +without resentment or anger. They both decided, that perfect candor +and honesty with each other on this score was a higher type of +civilization than that which prevails where mutual deceit is the rule. + +True to their compact, when the wife met the one whom she believed to +be the one man who answered the call of her soul, the husband gave her +up, retaining her friendship, and the memory of an intellectual +companionship unmarred by the horrors of dispute and deceit and +disruption. But he incurred the severest criticism from Society, which +is as yet composed of the animal-man, rather than the man-god, and the +animal-man (meaning woman as well) knows no higher code of morality +than that which he vaingloriously terms "defense of his honor." By +exactly what process of reasoning a man can imagine his honor defended +or appeased by shooting his rival, is, we admit, beyond our power to +fathom. But such is the basis of the unwritten law, in which civilized +man vents his remaining savagery. + +Affinity-marriages, then, are not synonymous with soul-mating. And +while we contend that affinity marriages, based upon at least some +degree of mutuality, are a step higher in social development than were +the alliances of the old regime, where a man's social or domestic +exigencies required a wife or a housekeeper, or both-in-one; where +woman must marry whomsoever asked her, or be pitied and scorned as an +"old maid," still affinity-marriages are not the final union, and must +go through an evolutionary phase. + +Affinity-marriages are eligible to disruption. Happily, we trust, +these disruptions will in the course of time be devoid of hatred and +mutual recriminations and abuse. Certainly they will be, as they +evolve from the plane of sense-consciousness to that of intellectual +affinities. Moreover, they stand a much better chance of permanency +than has maintained during the past, before the word affinity was +heard so frequently as it is now. + +The general impression is abroad in the land, that it is only since +women became economically independent that disruption of the marriage +bonds has become so general. It is true that divorces are much more +frequent since women have become, to a great extent, economically +independent; but that only means that the parties to the marriage have +been set free. The disruptions are not more, it is only the evidences. +And it is at the _evidence_ of marital unhappiness that all the +criticism is directed. + +If the criticism were directed against the condition that divorce +tells us of, instead of against the divorce itself, the first aid to +the injured would be to establish a social order wherein an equal +moral standard for both sexes should be the rule, and where a mother +is recognized, and respected and honored in the name of motherhood, +whether she is a wife or not. + +This suggestion will of course be met with a shocked gasp from many. +The cry that "Society will be disorganized" and our "moral code become +chaotic" will go up from the self-constituted keepers of public +morality. But is our morality so tender that it needs protection? Are +our social conditions so ideal that they cannot be improved? If they +are, then nothing can besmirch them. If they are not, they must first +be demolished, before they are rebuilt. + +The limited mortal mind is always terribly afraid of a change. Not one +single improvement has ever been suggested, from mechanics to morals, +that has not been met with that ever-ready fear-thought, that the +whole universe is going to the eternal bow-wows, if the slightest +change in established institutions is made. And despite it all, we go +on year after year, improving. "Self-improvement" is the watch-word of +the Century. If "self-improvement," then social improvement. Mankind +is still in the making, as far as external conditions are concerned. + +The complaint goes up from every side, that women refuse motherhood. +Girls who have been carefully reared, brought up in the most orthodox +movement, are heard to openly, unashamed, announce their intention of +finding a rich husband and not, emphatically, _not_ having any +children. + +May this not be Nature's revenge upon our inhuman treatment of girls +who become mothers without first becoming wives? + +We are wont to refer to unmarried mothers as "unfortunates" and +"ruined." But in what does the misfortune consist, and wherein are +they ruined? + +Is a woman ever unfortunate if she gives birth to a child because she +has loved, and because she loves the child? Is she ruined in any way +except that she becomes the target for our inhumanity; our well-nigh +unforgivable stupidity? + +The world, and especially women, owe a debt of gratitude to a certain +famous woman who, by her force of character; her defiant self-respect +in the face of social criticism, because she had a child and no +husband, has wrung from the unwilling public the highest place +accorded any actress in this or any previous age. This artist's +well-known reply to an openly expressed criticism of her is worthy of +perpetuation. "Ah, so!" she said, "true I have a son and no husband, +but you women have husbands and lovers, and no children!" + +We would not have it understood that we commend this woman's example, +and criticise that of the woman to whom she referred. We do not regard +child-bearing as the end and aim of woman's mission. It has been said +that the first duty of Man is to perpetuate the species, but +observation should convince us that in all too many instances the +first duty of the individual would be to refrain from such a crime +against posterity. + +We neither criticise nor advise the adoption of the position of a +husbandless mother; nor that of the women who are childless wives. We +endorse any woman's insistence upon her right to self-respect; and we +insist that a better civilization cannot come without permitting the +greatest degree of personal liberty in matters pertaining to the +sex-relation, and, above and beyond all, without conceding to the +unmarried mother the same respect that we accord to the married one, +when she is otherwise worthy of our respect. It certainly takes +courage for a defenseless woman to bear a fatherless child, in a +hypocritical world. + +The normal woman does not live who would not rather be safely and +happily married to the man whom her soul tells her exists somewhere in +the universe, than to be battling with the problem of existence, +alone. When she is so married, we need not fear that the marriage will +be disrupted. Until she is so married, no power on earth can, and no +power in Heaven will, prevent the disruptions, although man's laws may +temporarily obstruct the evidence of such disruption. + +What we have already said will make it clear, that our contention is +that affinities are not necessarily soul-mates; that, in fact, we may +have many and various kinds of affinities, but no one can possibly +have more than one soul-mate. + +Mates are two entities composing a pair. They are the two halves that +make a whole. Unlike what we know of affinities, they are not merely +similar; nor yet opposite, so that they attract each other because of +curiosity or dissimiliarity. + +They belong to each other because together they complete a perfect +balance. Each supplies in the exact proportion required for balance +the qualities lacking in the other. + +In the event of such union, instinctive procreation will cease, and +re-generation will begin. They will consciously beget souls, instead +of merely providing bodies for souls to manifest upon this external +plane of consciousness. + +Bodily contact is not essential to this phase of sex-union, because +the real conjunction is between the interior natures; and the interior +nature exists independently of the physical organism. + +Already the race-thought is beginning to realize interiorly. This is +manifest in the daily press; in music and drama; and in all the +avenues of the senses. That intangible, elusive but potential thing +called "character" forms the gist of editorial advice. Everywhere we +note a tendency to look below the appearance of things, and to fathom +the depths of psychological analysis. For the first time in centuries +the race-thought seeks the underlying cause for specific effects, +instead of, as heretofore, being satisfied to deal with effects only, +suppressing those that are unpleasant and extolling those that seem +agreeable. + +The scientist expresses it thus: "Nature is giving up her secrets to +man." The metaphysician puts it this way: "The soul of man is +unveiling, and soon we shall know each other in Truth." The +religionist has long looked for a time when, as prophesied by St. +Paul, who was above all things a spiritually-conscious person, "we +shall see each other face to face; not as now through a glass, +darkly." + +This tendency to "get behind the scenes" as it were, to penetrate the +crust of mere outward semblance, and to reveal the interior nature, +may be seen even in the fashions of our clothes. Despite thunders of +denunciation from the self-constituted keepers of our morals, who are +not yet free from the bondage of traditional ideas of virtue and +"respectability," women have insisted upon freedom of the body in +dress until at last the uncorseted, short-skirted, thinly-clad woman +excites little adverse comment. The fact has at last established +itself that the female form has legs. + +This fact was only half suspected before; men have always wanted to +see exactly what was beneath those long flowing skirts; and woman has +always known that she possessed at least one trump card, in the game +of enslaving man to become what modern slang has so aptly labeled her +"meal-ticket." She could always keep him guessing as to whether or not +she had legs; and the average man, be it known, possesses a fund of +curiosity far in excess of that which is proverbially ascribed to +woman. Men have been known to pay the highest price, even to donning +the matrimonial yoke, to satisfy their curiosity. Women have always +known this, and the worldly wise mother has besought her marriageable +daughter to "keep her skirts well over her ankles" if she hoped to +secure a man as a permanent banker! It does sound crude expressed +thus, but this is the basis upon which at least nine-tenths of the +respectable marriages of society are consummated. And this is the +standard which the short-sighted keepers of public morals would have +us retain. They would force women to act as though their bodies are +vile. They would keep the mind encumbered with the corpse of an idea +of modesty, from which the spirit has long since fled. The spirit has +fled from it because it was a false idea of modesty; because it was +founded upon the idea that woman was an instrument of the devil +himself, and that to look upon her naked form was in itself wicked, +and only permitted to poor man as a concession to his own innate +defilement. + +The good Church at one time, not so far distant, refused to admit +women to the communion table in the "holy sacrament." A fine chance +has any sacrament of being holy, with one half of it missing! + +The old idea of womanly modesty consisted of blushing with shame and +embarrassment if by chance her ankles became exposed to the interested +and curious gaze of a male. Notwithstanding this ideal of modesty, the +designing and beguiling female managed to arrange just such a +contretemps every time there was an eligible male within sight; if +discovered, she either assumed a look of infantile innocence, or she +took the opportunity to coax a becoming blush. + +To be sure, this does not accurately describe all women of "the good +old days." There was the other type. + +Nature manifests in extremes. There was the type, fitting ancestors to +those women of to-day who are outraged and shocked at the present-day +fashions, which actually disclose the fact that women are +anatomatically endowed with legs and hips, quite in defiance of man's +inherited predilection for making this discovery under conditions that +would pamper to his satiating sex-appetite. They, poor creatures, were +dreadfully ashamed of being women, and they did all that was possible +to conceal the fact. They, doubtless, would gladly have amputated +their legs, if the ministers had so decreed, and they apologized to +the world every time an unforseen circumstance uncovered a portion of +these offensive legs. In fact, they denied the existence of "said +members," and alluded to them tentatively and with modest hesitation, +as "limbs." + +"But," some will exclaim, "we cannot see any possible connection +between a regenerated race, and a fashion which permits the display of +the female figure upon the public streets, where men who are as yet +un-regenerated, and licentious, may leer and pass vile remarks, and +suggest lustful thoughts." + +Few can see any connection between our so-called practical, everyday +life, and the spiritual life. They look upon the spiritual life as +something remote; something in the dim and ever and ever distant +future. The spiritual life is supposed to be so negative that we +postpone living it, as long as we possibly can; and whereas the human +family has prayed and prayed, for Lo! these many ages: "Thy kingdom +come upon earth," they apparently have not had the slightest idea that +God would take them at their word. + +They are like the old darky who called upon "de Lawd to strike him +dead if he was not telling the truth," when as a matter of fact he was +lying roundly. At that moment a bricklayer on the building above where +Rastus was standing, dropped a brick, which struck the old darkey on +the head, and he exclaimed "What's de matter, good Lawd, caint +you'all take a joke?" + +The Kingdom of God, from all records, whether orthodox or heterodox, +has been described as the abode of angels; and angels have been +pictured as nearly nude as our silly "morality" would permit. No one +has as yet suggested that we compel the angels to wear hoopskirts, +although "September Morn" has been compelled, by police regulation, to +don a sweater. + +The spiritual life awaits our cognizance, just behind the transparent +veil of our limited mortal consciousness. This is the message of the +"unveiling" of the female form. This is the time of woman's revealment +of true modesty; true ideals. The Female Principle, representing the +spiritual element in nature, hitherto shut in; covered up; hidden--is +coming out. + +Men must learn to be able to look upon the female form without spasms +of either lustful desires; or contemptuous indifference. + +There was a time when the presence of a female office-force in the +business section of a city was the signal for unwarranted familiarity +on the part of some of the male members of a corporation. There was a +time, when women first invaded the ranks of the "down-town" business +centers, that a woman's appointment to a responsible position rested +upon her claims to feminine attractiveness. Now, the only question +asked is, "Is she efficient?" + +_That which she is, in her interior nature, is the final test of her +power._ When men have become inured to the knowledge, so long +concealed, that women have legs and that there is no more +seductiveness in them than in their faces, the love of man for woman +will undergo the same evolution that his estimate of her business +efficiency has undergone. He will judge her by what she is in her +interior nature; and his sexual desires, now manifested distractedly +in mere love of the female, will become concentrated in love of the +one woman to whom his soul turns in irresistible sex-attraction, as +unerringly as the needle turns to the pole to which it is magnetized. + +Is this fact so unmanifest? Does not everything point to it? + +A few years ago, a man and a woman could not pass a day together in +mutual conversation, and interest, without encroachment upon the one +emotion which they were supposed to hold in common--sexual attraction. + +That was indeed the whole sum and substance of communication between +the two sexes, if we may except the rare instances which history has +made much of, because of their rarity--women of the French salons, who +have become famous for their wit and beauty, in neither of which +attributes did they outstrip the average self-supporting woman of +today. + +But custom has slowly, but perceptibly, established the possibility of +a frank and non-sentimental companionship between the male and the +female, and the result is that both are much more clear as to the true +character of their sentiments toward each other. Neither is blinded +by the force of undifferentiated sex-attraction. + +There must be some specific basis of mutual love; hence we have the +vogue of the "affinity," and by the term is instantly recognized a +special force of attraction, independent of undifferentiated sex +alone. It is known that there is at least an assumption of an interior +attraction, and we insist that affinity marriages, however incomplete +as yet, are still superior in motive to that of mere marriage, where +it is a case of _a_ male and _a_ female, united by propinquity; family +considerations; commercial interests; class association; or what not. + +Affinities at least have the grace to presuppose a special +sex-attraction. They argue for the ultimate goal of special and +permanent selection, even if they fail to reach it. + +That there will be many failures during the journey from the +sense-conscious life, to the soul-conscious life, is a foregone +conclusion. The pathway of Love has always been a thorny one, but +those who are on the high ground may look across into the rose-strewn +garden, and know that the little god is aiming his arrows at the +interior nature of those whom he would unite. He is not blind. His +sight is illumined and he sees that the soul can unite only with its +mate. True it is that "the course of true love never did run smooth," +but let us hope that the time is coming when it will be less thorny. + +_There are no mismates in soul-union._ + +This truth is the "secret of secrets" of the Hermetics. It is the +hidden wisdom of the initiates; the alchemical mysteries of the +Ancients. It is told to us in the fairy story of the Sleeping +Princess--a story which is found in the folk-lore of every country of +the globe. It is the philosopher's stone, which when found, opens the +door to all wisdoms. + +_There can be no mismates in soul-union._ + +Neither can there be any sexual "temptation," or desire outside of +this union, when once found. + + "But never shall he faint or fall + Who lists to hear, o'er every fate, + The sweeter and the higher call + Of his true mate. + + I hear it wheresoe'er I rove; + She holds me safe from shame or sin; + The holy temple of her love + I worship in." + +A time when "the twain shall be" virtually, "one flesh" and the +"outside as the inside" is not a chimerical dream. + +When the physical body is as much reverenced as is the spiritual; when +in fact, the soul is revealed (unveiled) to our mortal consciousness; +when the mind has been freed from its load of prejudices and fears and +doubts and belief in sin; then we shall, indeed, truly see each other. + +We do not see each other now, unless perhaps we have developed that +spiritual insight which is not blinded by appearances, but which +contacts the interior nature. But the revealing, the uncovering +process has begun. We have come to the time so long anticipated; so +earnestly promised, when "naked and unashamed" we should "re-enter the +lost Paradise." + +Well, the women, God bless them, are as naked as the tender morality +of our police officials will permit and as unashamed as it is possible +to be with the handicap of a puritanical ancestry, which was so +evil-minded as to suspect God himself of sin when He formed the +"wicked" body. + +Prudists may howl; and legislators may legislate; but the course of +the Cosmic Law which would free us and bestow upon us Peace and Love +and Happiness without stint, has never been stopped, although it has +been obstructed. + +Let us examine some points of the Hidden Wisdom, in the light of this +postulate, and see if the conclusion is not warranted. + + + + + CHAPTER VIII + + THE HIDDEN WISDOM REVEALED + + +As we have previously observed, there is what may be termed a +religious mysticism and a scientific mysticism. When viewed from the +standpoint of the unprejudiced seeker, who finds the truth that is in +everything, these two phases of mysticism are but photographs of the +same subject taken from different points of view. So, too, mysticism +itself is, in the final analysis, nothing more than a long-distance +view of science. + +Like the proverbial pot and kettle, which we are told made much noise +over calling each other black, we find the scientist frequently +disdains the mystic, and the mystic may retaliate with equal +disapproval of the scientist's position. Both are right, each from his +point of view. Each is looking at life from an opposite end of the +same pole. The scientist looks at the effect and the mystic at the +cause. In their final calculations they arrive at the same conclusion, +although they call it by different names. + +The scientist says that everything proceeds from the one eternal +energy. The mystic perceives the spiritual co-existent with the +external. Religious mysticism calls it "God's word made manifest." In +reference to this definition of religious mysticism, perhaps the +phraseology used by William Ralph Inge, in his "Christian Mysticism," +is the best possible exposition of the position of the religious +mystic, if we may separate the two phases. Inge says: "Religious +mysticism may be defined as the attempt to realize the presence of the +living God in the soul and in nature, or more generally as the attempt +to realize in thought and in feeling the imminence of the temporal in +the eternal, and the eternal in the temporal." + +Which is to say exactly what the scientific mystic says, using other +terminology; and likewise what the physicist says or will ultimately +say, as his researches lead him into the finer and finer realms of +discovery. + +The scientific mystic, like Archimedes, believes that in order to +measure the purpose of external creation, he must "base his fulcrum +somewhere beyond." + +The scientific mystic, therefore, starts from the center of the +Circle; from the crux of creation; and he finds the X, which is the +hypothetical base of algebraical science--the unknown quantity of +which sex is the symbol. Reasoning from effect back to cause and from +cause forward to effect the mystic finds the equation complete, +perfect, and likewise simple; but it is simple only after we have +deciphered it. Like the prize puzzles which are designed to exercise +the inductive faculties, mysticism, when we have not the key, is a +most tantalizing enigma. Most "practical" persons dismiss it with the +same superficial idea that they entertain in regard to puzzles, saying +"it is only a puzzle"--utterly ignoring the value of exercising the +inductive reasoning faculties. + +Fairy stories are popularly supposed to be for the entertainment and +amusement of children. In reality they are the universal language of +symbolism. There is not a single fairy story which has not been handed +down from generation to generation, and, what is more suggestive, each +story is told with astonishing lack of variation, in every tongue and +throughout every nation on this earth. + +The stories involving the turning of men into animals and their final +restoration to human form, as a reward for some service, some +sacrifice, typifies the two-fold nature of Man. He may live in his +animal, or exterior nature; or he may develop his spiritual, or +interior nature; through service; through unselfish love. Our limited +mortal consciousness is responsible for the tendency to personify +everything, instead of to realize the principles underlying all +expression. God and the Devil have been the personification of the two +phases of the principles of Evolution, from animal man to spiritual +man. + +Romulus and Remus have been presented as an actual and specific +instance of twins; likewise Castor and Pollux. Almost every child +instinctively alludes to himself or herself, as either "the good +little me" or the "bad little me." "O, I didn't do that; it was the +bad little Dorothy," or "Harold," as the case may be, is the +child-like way of expressing the innate consciousness that there is +an interior and an exterior nature to all of us. + +The union of gods with mortals, which forms the gist of Mythological +tales, symbolizes the god-like and the mortal qualities inherent in +human nature. Mortals raised to the abode of the gods; and the gods +descended into mortal life; symbolize the interchangeability of what +we term matter and spirit--the power of transmutation of the lower +into the higher life. + +Volumes could be written upon the subject, and we will therefore try +to confine our reviews to the symbolical traditions which deal most +directly with the relations of the sexes. + +In religious symbology, the story of the ark stands as the supreme +type of creation, through the conjunction of the sexes. + +The cherubim are, when all is said and done, nothing more, nor yet +less, than spiritual children--the result of spiritual sex-union. + +And in this later synoptic mysticism of the ark of the Covenant, we +are informed that "every gift within the tabernacle is willingly +offered." If we will but contemplate the volumes of wisdom contained +within that sentence, we cannot fail to conclude that every +infinitesimal particle of coercion in whatsoever shape and form, +individual, economic, ethical, or religious, must be excluded from the +regenerated, perfect, ideal sex-relation; otherwise we do not attain +it. + +If the Ancients seemed to take some of these folk-lore stories too +literally, we of this "practical" age, do not take them literally +enough. + +We have imagined that sex, and the sex function, began and ended in +the physical. This view is excusable in the case of the materialist, +if there really be such a person but it is obviously a stupid view for +the theologian, who regards this life as the door to spiritual life. +Since sex is the cause and the result of what we know of creation; +since it is the foundation of all the qualities that we know as +spiritual laws; friendship; unselfishness; fidelity; paternal +solicitude--it is absolutely certain that the most beautiful things we +know here must have a correspondence in the life hereafter. Of these +beautiful things in life, babies come first; with birds and flowers +and music as fitting accessories. + +But to return to the ark of the covenant. The perpetual flame on the +altar (the center) is the undying Flame of spiritual love--and by that +we mean sex-love, let it be understood. If we seem to repeat this too +frequently it is because of the almost general habit of the race to +apologize for sex-love. The erroneous idea obtains, that spiritual +love is sexless. All too frequently we come across the phrase, "with a +love that has in it nothing of human love," the writer evidently +anxious to convey the impression of tremendous spirituality and the +consequent elimination of the sex function. + +And so we emphasize once more, and we may do so again, the assurance +that the symbol of the never-dying flame upon the altar is typical of +the never-dying spirit of sex-love. Spirit is ever symbolized by +flame, as in the "flaming sword" of the archangel. + +The Deity upon the seat of the altar symbolizes the bi-une +Sex-principle of creation. + +The reason that the Jewish people have claimed that they were "God's +chosen people" is because, in their symbolism of the ark of the +Covenant, all Israel was grouped under the tabernacle. The formation +of the tabernacle proves that it typifies the mother's womb. The +tabernacle was guarded by the priests who _were sworn to purity_; thus +they symbolized the esoteric truth that the pure spiritual sex-union +bestows immortal god-hood. + +Let us take another story, that of the life-token. This is best told +in the story of the Holy Grail, although it is found in all the +fairy-books of all nations, in the language and form befitting the +race to which it belongs. + +In the original, that is in the earliest recitals of this life-token +story, we find that the thing left behind, as a _center_ (which is +always guarded and protected in various ways), was a tree. Here, we +have the phallic symbol as the life-token. But in the story of the +Holy Grail, the cup is the life token to be guarded; it is the sacred +symbol of the quest and it is of a design resembling the red rose of +the Templars. This time it is the yoni--literally the _chalice_ of the +_holy communion_; the centre of the radiant circle, which is the +answer to all the problems within the radius. It is the search for, +and the finding of, the balance in counterpartal union. It is the X of +Being, and only the purest and the noblest of the Knights of the +"Round Table" essay the difficult quest. The "mound of Venus" is +another name for the "Round Table." + +Again is emphasized the necessity for purity, and this purity, +although including all the spiritual qualities: fidelity; bravery; +self-sacrifice; humanity; love of truth; culminates in sexual purity. + +"Blessed are the pure in heart (the pulse of the soul) for they shall +see God." We revise this latter part, and we say "for they shall be +_gods_." + +Let us consider the story of the "sleeping Princess." She is depicted +as a princess, first of all, because she is the daughter of a king; a +king is an earthly ruler, or exalted person. Esoterically, she is the +daughter of the exalted God, and she is the soul. Sometimes this story +is told in the male gender, but everywhere the essential points are +the same. + +Wagner, who is known as a Mystic, has illustrated the story in +Brunhilde and Siegfried. Brunhilde is an immortal--a goddess, who +renounces her immortality to become a woman. + +She sleeps on the top of a high mountain and she is surrounded by a +circle of flame; and here she sleeps, despite all efforts to arouse +her, until awakened by the touch of Siegfried--the one human being in +all the universe who could awaken the sleeping princess. + +The high mountain symbolizes the highest love of which we are capable. +To reach the soul of the exalted woman, typified in the fairy-story by +the word princess, and later, by Wagner, as the goddess, man must be +her mate. _No other can enter the womb of her soul_, though many may +effect an entrance to the outer court. + +This truth, as absolute as life itself, solves all the problems of the +mystery of love and its joys and sorrows. No soul can wholly, +unreservedly love the "wrong" one. Though we may love and die of the +pain of unrequited loving, yet love is its own self-justification, and +its own reward. The pathway of love leads up the mountain top, but no +one who reaches the summit shall fail to find that for which he seeks. + +The soul of man, and of woman, has been playing a game of blind-man's +bluff--a fitting name for the game it is, too. Unable to see anything +but the exterior nature, and longing for success in the search, we +have frantically grabbed here and there, and appropriated that which +we grabbed, with a self-complacency and an egotism of which little +Jack Horner would be ashamed. + +In the symbolical rites and ceremonies of secret orders, such as the +Ancient Alchemists; the Hermetics; the Rosicrusians; and in modern +times, the Free Masons, we have this story of the search for the +ultimate balance of soul union, told in language veiled unless we are +fit to know; but openly enough if we are fit. And in all these orders +(alleged guardians of the hidden wisdom) we have varying degrees of +initiation; and in each degree the initiate must undergo certain +trials to prove his fearlessness; his fidelity; his fitness, in other +words, for the final revealment of all, which is the initiation into +the "holy of holies;" the "secret chamber" and the degree of +"mastership." + +In the order of Masonry, the highest degree is that of the Templar. +The symbol of the Templars is the red rose on the cross, together with +the star and the crescent. The star preserves the esotericism of its +nomenclature, in whatever sphere it is used, namely, the power of +radiating light. It stands for the radiant center. The Knights Templar +sought the radiant center to complete their half circle, and when they +should have found, they were to become radiant with the light of +spiritual power. That they originally at least, understood the way of +this initiation, is evident by the symbol of the rose and the +cross--the combined phallus and yoni. + +This fact is the underlying cause of the open and hereditary enmity of +the Church of Rome for the modern order of Freemasons. The Church +sought to specialize in the persons of the Virgin Mary and her Son the +eternal principles of the "way of the cross." The temporal power of +the Church could be built up only by offering a complete system of +salvation within the church itself. At the same time, the utter +degradation of Sex, which had reached its depths under Roman +civilization, called for as complete a reversion of the ideas of the +Ancient sex-worshippers, as was consistent with the truth. + +Hence we find the extreme attitude of the Church opposing all +reference to sex as other than a part of the temptations of the Evil +One, although they did retain the central truth typified by the Holy +Virgin Mother, and the pure and perfect child. + +The Alchemists are supposed to have been imbued with the desire and, +to some extent, at least, were regarded as having the knowledge of how +to make gold. This gold-making was always accomplished by +transmutation of the baser (lower) metals; also, the knowledge of how +to accomplish this transmutation was possible only to one possessing +"the philosopher's stone." + +If we will but remember that this "philosopher's stone" was of such a +purity that it was almost impossible to find it; that, although +several initiates claimed to possess the stone, yet no visible proof +of its existence, or of gold resulting from lead or copper, was ever +offered; and again if we will realize the fine distinction between the +words "found" and "discovered," and take note that the word "found" is +used almost invariably in connection with those who claimed to possess +the stone, we will arrive at the obvious conclusion that the secret of +the Alchemists was of an interior nature. We "discover" outside of +ourselves; we "find" within. Above all, the "stone of great purity" is +the same that was raised at Babylon, supplanting the yoni, which is +to say, the phallic symbol. + +A philosopher is one who is wise in his interior nature; his wisdom is +of the esoteric quality; we do not apply the term "philosopher" to +either great educators, or great financiers; but to those whose +activities are turned within. + +The force which is manifested in the lower desires and passions, when +transmuted into spiritual channels, opens the door to the golden light +of illumination. + +To become in reality a Prince of the Rosy Cross bestows the exaltation +and the power, typified by that of an earthly prince--one who is +exalted above the common man. + +It is doubtful, indeed, if many of the ancient alchemists attained to +this exalted degree in its true significance; and we may readily +believe that in an age in which wealth was so eagerly sought; temporal +power so much desired; where deception was almost general; that few +lived the requisite purity of life to have accomplished the +transmutation; so today there is not one in a thousand of the many who +have taken the degree of "Knight Templar," who recognizes its esoteric +meaning. + +But words have a trick of trapping us, and we note that the word +"taken" is invariably used in referring to modern Masonic initiation. +Verily they have "taken" the degree in its outward semblance. They +have not attained to its powers and privileges. + +Nor can they do so, when they exclude the very "gate of life" from the +order. They may become masons (builders of the temple), but how can +they become Architects, when they have not entered the tabernacle? + +In a search for hidden meanings, and for a secret tradition which is +believed to be discoverable in Kabalistic and Hermetic literature, we +find, if we possess true insight, the one indubitable truth, +subordinating all the other symbols, namely that of the supremacy, the +finality, of the sublimated sex-union, resulting in immortal +mastership. + +Most modern interpreters of the archives of these ancient philosophers +ignore the sexual significance of the arcana, but a glimpse at the +symbols will readily convince the initiated of their identity with +sexual symbology. + +For example in "The History of Transcendental Magic," by Eliphas Levi +(Abbe Constant), translated by Arthur Edward Waite, there is a plate +used to illustrate the author's theory of Alchemy, which he concludes +"had two aspects, one a physical and the other a moral one." The +sexual, as well as the spiritual, significance is ignored, but this +may be due to a disinclination to reveal the secret meaning of the +alchemical symbols, or it may be due to a materialistic tendency on +the part of the compiler. + +The plates, however, speak for themselves, and in one, ascribed to +Basil-Valentine, an alchemist of the Fifteenth century, called "The +Great Hermetic Arcanum," the supreme and significant point of the +illustration, shows, within the circle of Experience, through which +the initiate travels in his search for the supreme god-head, two +doves, holding in their beaks a crown. The doves are perfectly +matched. The crown is balanced between them, and the figure tops the +circle, under the heading "regeneration." + +In another plate, which the author presents as "the Philosophic Cross, +or Plan of the Third Temple as prophesied by Ezekiel," we note again, +that the crown of the symbolical temple represents the red rose upon a +cross, within a radiant circle; beneath this is a mother-eagle with +outstretched wings, shielding her little brood, and on either side a +tree and a flowering rosebush. + +Here is the symbol par excellence of generation. The creative function +of the male and the female in procreative conjunctivity. + +The employment of the eagle as a religious symbol may be traced back +to the civilization of the Hittites. + +Only a few years ago, two English archaeologists discovered a +double-headed eagle in Asia. This was identical with those seen +perpetuating religious rites and ceremonies of the sex-worshipers. An +eagle holding in its talons a serpent is an emblem well known today. +The origin of the adoption of the eagle as a religious, though not +necessarily a "sacred," symbol by prehistoric races, may easily be +imagined, if we consider that the eagle is a bird of tremendous power; +and that it soars to unreachable heights; and that it unquestionably +was at some time seen to swoop down and carry off the serpent, +possibly even during their ceremonies of serpent-worship. + +This idea becomes quite convincing when we also remember that the +ceremonies of the serpent worshipers were carried on, as far as +feasible, upon the mountain. We allude to this stage of religious +history as "serpent worship," but when we realize the points of +analogy between the serpent and the phallus it is apparent that the +serpent was only the nature-emblem of generation, as manifested by the +male principle. + +"The eagle and the dove" is a phrase employed today to illustrate the +law of antithesis, and it is more than probable that the eagle +represented the lower nature of the sex-relation, in juxtaposition to +the higher, as the dove is emblematical of the spiritualized aspect of +sex-love. We have an analogy to that of the eagle and the dove in the +Biblical allusion to "the last day; when God will separate the 'sheep +from the goats,'" Here again is a pertinent reference to the sex +nature. The goat is a symbol of sensuality and lust, principally +because he has perverted sexual proclivities, notably that of +coercion. For this reason, Classical Mythology employs the satyr, a +creature half man and half goat, to typify the lowest form of the sex +call in man. + +On the other hand, the lamb is the type of gentleness and affection, +and although in outward appearance the lamb and the goat are not +dissimilar, their natures are antithetical. + +In estimating the God-idea of the Ancients, many mistakes have arisen +by confounding religious symbols with the "sacred" symbols. The +race-mind was in its kindergarten stage, and all ideals were instilled +by means of pictures--a method which even the present hour finds most +effective. + +In modern theological symbolism we have God and the Devil; Heaven and +Hell; angels and demons, to illustrate by antithesis. + +They all belong to religious symbology, but only those which teach +spiritual ideals are denominated "sacred." + +"Riding the goat," alleged to be the almost invariable initiatory +prelude to fitness for membership in all secret orders, means, first +of all, that the would-be initiate must have control over his lower +sexual desires. If he cannot control the goat instincts within his +nature, he stands small chance of taking the higher degrees of +spiritual regeneration, through transmutation. + +In another symbolic chart presenting the secrets of alchemical +transmutation, we find depicted "The Gate of Eternal Wisdom," and we +are further informed that this "gate" also brings "knowledge of God." +The design of this cave-like aperture should betray its esoteric +meaning. It is situated under a mound, upon which trees are planted. +The inscriptions on the corrugated walls of the cave, are evidently +designed to resemble seven lotus petals, and are set forth as the +seven mysteries. Inscriptions warning against profanation of this +sacred gate, and also promising eternal life and glory to the true +initiate, inspire the intrepid and deter the doubtful. Of these +latter, several are outside the entrance. Two are on the steps leading +to the mouth of the cave but their attitude bespeaks doubt of their +worthiness. Only one has penetrated to the radiant center of the +aperture, and there is room for but the one to enter the radiance of +the solar gate, which truly bestows a knowledge that is "of God." + +Sex Symbology is a subject that calls for a large volume devoted to +this special side of it, and we cannot hope to do more here than to +touch a few of the almost universal proofs of the contention which is +the purpose of this book, namely, that the supreme goal of life, +typified in every religion, every philosophy, and in the intuitional +knowledge of the human mind, is spiritual sex-union; and that this can +be accomplished only by counterparts; the two halves of the bi-une god +seed uniting in one immortal and complete pair--a man and a woman. +Not, we must again emphasize, not in a hermaphroditic personality, but +in two perfect complementaries--mates; not _one_ but _a pair_. + +In another exposition of Hermetic secrets we discover the amazing +statement that "the alchemist is found working throughout, in +conjunction with a woman of the art; _they begin and they attain +together_." + +This should be plain enough. Small chance, indeed, either would have +of attaining alone. But if this suggestion is not sufficient (and +either from design or from failure to comprehend the significance of +it, the translator seems to have missed the point), we are introduced +to a symbolical figure-study, which shows a Chalice in which the sun +and the moon are personified (the solar-man and the solar-woman), with +the god Vulcan (fire) seated between them. Underneath this "twain-one" +symbol a mortal man and a mortal woman are kneeling on either side of +a cone-shaped and dome-tipped furnace, which is lighted by a feeble +candle. But their attitude of prayer bespeaks the hope that this +earthly flame will be transmuted by their prayers and aspirations; by +their reverential attitude toward the divine character of the function +of mating, into the immortal and unquenchable flame typified by the +god of fire himself. + +In another series of symbolical plates, purporting to be the story of +Metallic transmutation, but representing, above all, the story of +manifestation from the Divine to the human and again to the +spiritualized and perfected Adam and Eve--(the solar man and the solar +woman), we again see that from generation to regeneration the work is +accomplished by man and woman in conjunction. + +These plates bear the hall-marks of Christian appropriation of +Hermetic symbolism, as peculiarly applicable to the Church, but the +central doctrine of salvation through sex-regeneration, is retained. +Whether consciously or not, is a question. + +Modern commentators and translators of alchemical literature insist +that such documents are palpably related to the secret, or secrets, of +metallic transmutation. That they prove the search for, if not the +existence of, a "magic solvent" that resolves the baser metals into +gold; but, as far as known, such a compound has not yet been +discovered or, if it ever was, it has since been lost and evades all +attempts at rediscovery. But if we read these alchemical treatises as +they relate to transmutation of sex-love from the pro-creative +function to regeneration through spiritual or counterpartal union +(solar mates), we have the key to every statement. + +A writer tells of an instance which is recorded among alchemical +archives, where "an unknown master testified to his possession of the +mystery" (supposedly of metallic transmutation), but it is added that +"he had not proceeded to the work because he had failed to meet an +_elect woman_, who was necessary thereto." In other words, applying +this statement in its obviously logical sense, the unknown master knew +the esoteric meaning of the alchemical postulate, but not having met +his female complement, he could not testify to the results of this +transmutation. An "elect woman" would hardly be necessary in the work +of metallic transmutation. + +Small wonder that the "alchemist" abandoned the work of turning lead +and copper into gold. If he had found the key of keys, he cared little +whether lead were lead, or whether gold remained gold, or melted into +thin air. The golden light of illumination showed him all things in +their purpose, and gold as a metal meant no more to him than did the +so-called "baser" metals. + +Commenting upon this statement, the translator observes: "Those +Hermetic texts which bear a spiritual interpretation and are as if a +record of spiritual experience, present, like the literature of +physical alchemy, the following aspects of symbolism: the marriage of +sun and moon; of a mystical king and queen; a union between natures +which are _one_ at the _root_, but diverse in manifestation; a +transmutation which follows this union and an abiding glory therein." + +If we will remember that the solar-man was personified by the Ancients +as the sun; and the solar-woman by the moon, we have the first and +salient points of the original Hermetic secrets, however much they may +have degenerated from their spiritual to their physical application. +The probabilities are that owing to the disapproval of the Christian +Hierarchy, only the most veiled terminology was permissible. This view +is more logical than is the one that the esoteric meaning was lost +sight of. + +The marriage of an hypothetical or "mystical king and queen" bespeaks +exaltation of the two conjoining persons, male and female, but this +exaltation is in consciousness, and not in mere personality. The +terms "king" and "queen" are nothing more or less than symbols of an +exalted (spiritualized) state. + +And, in passing, we may here mention the fact that the language of +lovers testifies to this intuitional realization. "My queen!" exclaims +the enraptured lover, although in social station his beloved one may +be only a scullery maid; and certainly, neither the beauty nor the +goodness nor the wisdom of earthly kings and queens would be +sufficient to inspire the comparison. + +It is ever the soul calling for the mate who, when found, will exalt +the "twain-one" into the immortal powers and immortal wealth +imperfectly symbolized by earthly rulers, making "right royal queens +and kings of common clay." + +The third aspect of the symbolism tells of "an union between two +natures which are one at the root, but diverse in manifestation." And +the alchemist who sought the physical interpretation of this, promised +that, as earth, air, and fire and water were the elements "out of +which all manifestation is composed," it only remained for someone to +discover the exact proportion of each of these elementary substances +in a specific compound; this accomplished, copper for example, could +be dissolved into its constituent parts and re-solved again in the +proportions which formed gold, a thing which we are not prepared to +say could not be accomplished, but a thing which we do say, would not +even be attempted by one who had found the secret of the interior +transmutation, because having attained to the radiant center, he +would realize the "glory of the worlds," and gold, as metal, would be +to him of far less value than the emerald of the grass; the pearls of +dew upon the rose; the scent of the lotus; the song of birds; the +laughter of children. + +How vain and foolish to imagine that a philosopher would think it +worth while to search for gold, as a metal. He would not even consider +the ambition worthy the parchment used to preserve the record of his +labors. + +But to find the golden light from the radiant center of pure and +unquenchable love--that were indeed worthy of ages of research. For +are we not promised, the "glory of the world" if we will seek and +find? And he who truly seeks will absolutely find. What is the glory +of the world? Is it fame, or wealth, or lands, or gems or kingdoms? + +Love is the only glory worthy of the name. + + "For Life with all its yield of joy and woe + And hope and fear--believe the aged friend-- + Is just our chance at the prize o' learning love." + +When we realize the esoteric meaning of this aspect of the ancient +alchemical symbol, namely, that the two halves of the one whole, +manifesting diversely as male and female, are reunited, we come to the +fourth aspect of the symbol mentioned, and the "transmutation which +follows this union and the abiding glory therein," is the inevitable +and logical sequential answer. + +An _abiding_ glory must be founded upon spiritual substantiability. +Transmutation is not synonymous with, extinction, or elimination, or +abandonment. We _transmute_ the lower into the higher, the exterior +into the interior, the physical into the spiritual. This is the sum +and substance of the "Ancient Wisdom." + +There is no eccentric change or transition from one phase or plane of +life, into another. It is neither logical nor justifiable to assume +that Sex is limited to the physical, or the astral or the psychic, or +any other specific planes of consciousness. These planes are not +distinctively separable anyway. They are merely _names_ which we use +to distinguish degrees, or limitations of consciousness. + +The statement that the "two halves are reunited" is almost invariably +misinterpreted to imply an annihilation, or absorption of +individuality, into some sort of vaporous, formless, sexless Thing; +but why this should be so misconstrued is a puzzle, any more than that +bringing together the two halves of an orange which had been divided, +would result in the destruction of that edible; or any more than +bringing together a glove fitting the right hand and its mate fitting +the left hand, would destroy the shape and usefulness of this article. +The comparison may be a homely one, but it is understandable. + +It takes two to make a pair. Mistake it not, and further, there is no +_abiding glory_ in this world or in the next or in any other sphere, +that is not founded upon the deep, intense and eternal love of man and +woman. + + + + + CHAPTER IX + + WHAT CONSTITUTES SEX IMMORALITY? + + +The average mind, nurtured in apprehensive awe of that race fetish +called Public Opinion, is inordinately afraid of words. + +"Atheist," "infidel," "ungodly" are epithets which have been used as +mental clubs, with temporary effect, to beat back the wave of +religious and scientific Rationalism, which punctuated the last +century. + +These words have now lost much of their terror, even to the +undeveloped consciousness of the average, because it has been shown +that the God-idea which rational thought fain would substitute for the +old revengeful Deity, has not annihilated the world, but quite to the +contrary has resulted in a happier and higher ideal of godhood than +that which the early Church postulated. + +Epithets are the mental bulwarks of the powers of resistance against +Evolution. + +Ignorance is fearful of the unknown, and the knights of Enlightenment +have ever had to fight their way through the ranks of abuse and +criticism and misrepresentation. + +Free-love is a phrase with which even the most intrepid advocate of +rational thought hesitates to claim affiliation; and yet the goal of +our highest endeavors must be a state of Society where Love, the god, +is free from the mire of corruption, and the bonds of slavery. + +Let us not be afraid of so harmless a thing as a word, remembering the +case of the little girl who ran to her mother crying with indignation +because someone had alluded to her as an "aristocrat." She did not +know what the word meant, and so resented it as something undeserved. + +When we examine into what the phrase free-love really means, we will +not be so fearful of its sound. + +To whom is this epithet most frequently applied? + +Is it to the average man who is known to be a Lothario in matters of +sex? Not at all. He is referred to as a "gay bachelor" or as one who +is "sowing his wild oats" or some other phrase, which in no way +affects his social standing. + +Is it applied to women of the half-world, to recognized, and legalized +prostitution? Never! It is significant of the real meaning of +free-love that the term is never used in connection with what modern +reform has aptly designated the "white slave" traffic, for the obvious +reason that nowhere is Love so un-free; so enslaved and bound and +murdered as in this phase of woman's degradation. + +Nor is the term applied to unfaithful wives, because in this type of +defiance of traditional sex-ethics there is always the spirit of +self-accusation; a tacit, if not open, admission of wrong-doing. + +We never hear the awful accusation of "free-lover" hurled at the young +woman who has, what the world calls, "sinned," because, forsooth, she +pays the price of her deviation from social standards (when +discovered) by ostracism, and not infrequently by a broken heart, or +by sinking further into the depths of bondage; and so here again it is +evident that there is no freedom for whatever spirit of love actuates +her conduct. + +It must be admitted that the term "free-love" is applied only to those +who openly claim the right to bestow their affections and indulge in +the sex-relationship, independent of the marriage ceremony. It matters +not whether this claim includes but one mate, or several. It is the +demand that they shall not forfeit their right to respect and +morality, which is resented by the many who still conform to +traditional customs, and which general conformity results in investing +the term "free-love" with an unpleasant odor. + +Public opinion puts a premium upon deceit. + +Such intimate matters as marriage and divorce are really no concern of +any person other than the contracting or the "distracted" parties. + +The public is too concerned with trivialities and too little with +Truth. Nothing short of national insanity permits the existence of +divorce-courts, and the necessity for married persons desiring to +live apart, to slander and abuse each other like pickpockets before +they may act upon such a decision. + +Some time ago the public press was filled with the minutest details of +the love story of a woman, who had lived for fifteen years hidden from +the world because she loved a man well enough to pay that price. + +She might have insisted that the man obtain a divorce from his wife, +to whom he had been married seventeen or more years, and thus win the +approval of society. But this woman placed love above all material +things, and she preferred to take nothing from the wife. The love of +her husband the wife did not possess and, it would seem, did not care +for particularly. When through the accident of the man's death the +story came to light, the press was flooded with letters from prominent +club-women and from clergymen and others, stating upon what terms, if +any, this love-recluse should be forgiven. + +Most of them decided that she should not be forgiven; a few seemed to +think that if she "repented" and lived thereafter a "pure" life, she +might in time be worthy of their forgiveness. + +Such a spectacle! America will yet share the reputation with England +of being a nation without a sense of humor. + +Eagerly the representative members of society "rush in where angels +fear to tread" upon any and all occasions to air their opinions upon +other people's conduct and thus prove their own virtue. + +The fact that this woman was not in any position to be forgiven or +unforgiven; that she was sublimely unconscious of and wholly +indifferent to their opinions; that she was unaware of any necessity +for either shame or repentance; seems not to have entered the silly +brains of these keepers of the public morals. She had loved one man +with a fidelity, a whole-heartedness, and a loftiness of +self-sacrifice which are as rare as they are great in these days of +pretense and hypocritical virtue, and she had paid the full price for +her idealism. She did not repine or regret. She only suffered, not +alone because of her unenviable notoriety, but because Death had taken +her loved one from her. Surely this was indeed an evidence of real +love in an unreal civilization, which should have brought out the +fearless sympathy and approval of every good woman in the land. It +should have been food for sermons in every pulpit in Christendom, that +a modern woman preferred solitary confinement with the man she loved +to the usual method of procedure, which insists upon the respectable +position of wife, no matter at what cost to another. + +But this is Society's estimate of Love and Truth and Virtue, and it is +small wonder if real people become indifferent to Society's feelings. + +If the term free-love were really synonymous with sex-promiscuity, we +would hear it used in connection with those whose frequent divorces +are the subject of press comment, but we do not, because by their +outward concession to established ethics they subscribe to the demands +of Convention. + +The term, in its opprobrious sense, is almost always applied to women, +because for many centuries the men have claimed their right to +personal liberty in matters connected with the sex-relation, and until +women of the self-respecting and educated class began to openly +emulate the example of the male, there was no occasion to use the +phrase. Men come under its lash only when they, too, concede to women +the right to respectability notwithstanding defiance of tradition. + +All of which goes to prove that the public mind is in reality +sufficiently clear on the matter of distinction between sex +promiscuity and free-love. It is likewise obvious that the opprobrium +that attaches to the phrase is not aimed at promiscuity but at the +claim to personal liberty in matters of the sex-relation and defiance +of Public Opinion which demands either ostensible concurrence in its +standards, or punishment for openly transgressing them. + +The result of this unjust (and unfit, in the light of our other +advanced ideas) attitude toward the most important function of life, +has resulted in one of two lines of conduct as woman's only free +choice. + +Either she must resort to deception, hypocrisy and pretense, shielding +her secret excursions into forbidden paths, by feigning a scorn and +abhorrence for the doctrine of free-love, the while she secretly +indulges her sex-nature, more or less promiscuously, or else she is +forced to repress all her natural instincts, and not infrequently +these instincts are abnormally strong because of pre-natal and +inherited influences. + +Both of these courses, the only two which are open to the average +woman, are disastrous to the sex, and through them to the race, +because women are the mothers of men, and any course which binds and +fetters the free spirit of woman hampers race-improvement. + +Repression of the natural functions of her being results in physical +disease, and ultimately in mental weakness. Unnatural expression of +the sex-function, under the ban of compulsion, whether through the +compulsion of marriage or through the more flagrant type of commercial +prostitution, is death to the best development of the race. + +Women, through the urge of economic necessity, or through the +religious ideal of wifely submission and fidelity to their "Lord and +Master" have been compelled to develop a craftiness and an artificial +"modesty" which, in most cases, passes for femininity, and deceives, +as it is intended to do, the average man. + +For centuries, a woman's only profession was matrimony. Her education +for this profession consisted first of all of complete ignorance of +all that relates to the most intimate and most vital part of her +nature--the function of sex. In the occasional instances where she had +inherited a degree of mentality which could not be dwarfed, she must +at least feign ignorance; and so, while secretly aware of every +emotion of the male, and covertly playing upon his sex-nature in her +task of "catching a husband," it is small wonder that women have +developed the traits of the cat animal, and are frequently both +treacherous and cruel. + +Indeed, it is only because the Female Principle is the attracting and +conserving power of the bi-une sex-love, that she has broken through +these mental fetters, and in a few rare instances has hurled defiance +at the devils of convention and tradition and claims justification of +her own sex-nature, and her right to her own person, despite the +epithet of "free-love." + +Woman's partial emancipation in some instances has, no doubt, "gone to +her head," as it were, and we see many women confounding license with +liberty; mistaking passion for Love; and exchanging restraint for +debauchery. + +The average woman is either almost entirely lacking in sex desire or +she is abnormally active in that function. In truth, the same state of +affairs prevails here, as in so many other phases of our modern life, +namely, there is no balance. We are a civilization of extremes; we are +one-sided, abnormal; distorted. We are seeking the pivotal point of +our destiny, which is the soul, but few have reached that point. Those +who have not, are groping through the jungles of the mental plane of +consciousness, upheld on the one hand by the upward trend of their +being, which seeks the level of the soul-conscious state; and held +back on the other hand by the trammels of the sense-conscious type +from which the race has developed to its present condition. + +Those instances where women indulge in excesses are comparatively rare +in proportion to numbers, and they loom large in perspective because +of their very incongruity with our ideals of womanly conduct. The vast +majority of women may be safely trusted to use their sex-freedom, when +it shall have truly arrived, for the purpose of finding that one and +only mate which their souls instinctively know to be our rightful +heritage--the proverbial "pearl of great price" which insures +immortality in the bliss of union with our Beloved. + +Love, when freed from the illusions of sense; from the shackles of +commercialism; from the bonds of error regarding the meaning and +purpose of marriage; freed from selfishness and licentiousness; will +solve the question of sex-promiscuity. This for the obvious reason +that Love seeks its own. If left free to seek, it will find. + +But, if sex promiscuity is far from being free-love, if the doctrine +of sex freedom is fraught with many dangers under our present social +system, it must be conceded that no one method of social evolution, +thus far devised, can be recommended as ideally perfect. The best that +we can hope to do is to emphasize the importance and the sacredness +and the innate purity of the sex-relation, while conceding to both +sexes all the personal liberty possible. + +And above all, we should avoid condemnation of those who claim the +right to freedom, lest we cover up a condition which can but be the +better for being open to the light. Particularly should we shield +women from the charge of immorality, and licentiousness, when we see +them straying down the by-paths of the senses, in their quest for +freedom, remembering that the centuries of repression and submission +and consequent deception have left their mark upon woman's +temperament. + +Man has for ages boasted of his sex virility; of his conquests in what +he has termed "love." Not infrequently a man's choice of a wife is the +result of much seeking in the garden of Life; and much sipping of the +honey from the various flowers that grow therein. Often, indeed, a man +frankly tells the woman he would marry that he knows he loves her +above all other women for the convincing reason that he has tried so +many and none have held him. Should a woman make the same confession +and draw the same conclusion, he would be horrified. + +It must be admitted, then, that the term "free-lovers" is applied only +to those who defy Public Opinion and claim their right to respect and +morality despite their defiance of Society's false standards of +morality. These standards are false because they are based upon +criticism and censure of results instead of upon motives. + +Society ignores, if it does not actually encourage, frivolous +flirtations, and frowns most harshly upon instances of real love. It +sets the seal of disapproval and ostracism upon those who, because of +circumstances or possibly because of indifference to man-made laws, +take their affairs into their own hands and refuse to exhibit either +penitence or shame when the world discovers that they neglected the +marriage ceremony. If two persons truly love each other and there is +nothing to interfere with their undergoing the publicity of a marriage +ceremony, well and good, unless, indeed, it is a matter of principle +with them that our social customs are a fetich. But there are +innumerable instances where there are obstacles to unions which to +overcome would involve hardships and suffering to others, or where +absurd laws prevent marriage, and where two persons loving each other, +prefer to pay the price of social ostracism to separation. Such as +these lose nothing by Society's disapproval, but Society does lose +something by persecuting those who are independent enough and honest +enough to act from motive, rather than from custom, and who insist +upon maintaining their self-respect, in the face of criticism. +Self-respect is not related to braggadocio. + +It must be admitted that as yet there are few persons who have the +courage to endure martyrdom for their convictions, which is, perhaps, +just as well, because the majority are unable to distinguish between +brazen shamelessness and unashamedness. The average woman will stick +to the safe habit of dissembling. + +Women have learned the lesson of the cat too thoroughly to jump +immediately from the back-yard of Deception to the front porch of +Truth. + +In this one respect at least, however much she may indulge her desire +for frankness in other directions, a woman will lie valiantly, +self-protectingly, and continually, even though she follow in secret +the example of the cat, which (seeing its master come home from the +hunt with a string of birds, and displaying, with much pride and +satisfaction, the results of his prowess), conceived the idea that it +would also be a fine thing for her to go forth and kill the canary. +But to tabby's surprise, her ability was rewarded with chastisement; +whereupon she pondered the question over and over: "How can it be, +that what is virtue in man is vice in a cat?" + +We are not told in the story what conclusion she arrived at, but we +can imagine that her conclusion was that which women have arrived at, +in a similar situation, to wit: man is unjust and unreasonable, but he +is also stronger than I am, and therefore, while I shall follow his +example, I shall take good care to hide the feathers. + +In the meantime, we are crossing the bridge that leads from the +jungles of our animal nature, where prowl the beasts of deceit; greed; +selfishness; sensuality; vanity; avarice; and domination; to the +Heights, illumined by Love set free. + +Let us not jostle and crowd each other too harshly, while we are en +route. + +But, of course, we are confronted with the pertinent query as to what, +if any, absolute standard of morality there can be in matters of the +sex relation. Freedom is so easily misconstrued into implying +sex-promiscuity; and monogamy, the final survival of the various +systems of marriage, has in its modern as well as in its ancient +aspect so much of coercion; and coercion is cited as the insuperable +obstacle to attainment of the supreme state of spiritual sex-union, +that the would-be initiate becomes confused, and is lost in a maze of +paradoxes. + +Moral distinctions are too fine for the undeveloped man-animal, and +that is the reason why man-made laws have been necessary. The +objection to them is not in their original intention, but in their +failure to die after they have become senile. + +Moral standards are as unstable as the shifting sands of the sea. + +"Our moral sentiments," say Letourneau, "are simply habits incarnate +in our brain, or instincts artificially created; and thus an act +reputed culpable at Paris, or at London, may be, and frequently is, +held innocent at Calcutta or at Pekin." + +And Emerson, the intellectual Seer, says: "There is a soul at the +centre of nature and over the will of every man, so that none of us +can wrong the universe." + +It is a colossal piece of impudent presumption, when we come to think +about it, for Man to ask the Supreme, Absolute, Infinite Power to +forgive him. But, if we cannot wrong the universe, we can and we do +wrong ourselves and each other as mortals. + +That is the whole gist of the story. We are constantly wronging +ourselves and each other and calling upon God to support us in our +strife when God cannot know aught save the call of Love. + +The growing, evolving race, has found it necessary to establish +certain loosely defined codes of morals and of social ethics, in the +same way that man has bridled the horse that he may control him; +incidentally, we may observe that where this bridle formerly included +"blinders," it now permits the horse to see whither he is going. + +Perhaps a brief survey of the standards of sexual morality which have +upheld (or down-held, just as we look at it) the human race until now, +may be illuminating. + +It has been disputed, if, under the matriarchal system of polygamy, +the moral condition of the people was higher than under the +patriarchal system, and probably no satisfactory conclusion can be +reached upon this point, save and except that any condition, however +primitive, which permitted to the female freedom of choice, must be +better than that in which she is the object of coercion. This is +evident, because the degree of coercion can never, under any +circumstances, be as great with the male as with the female. + +Therefore, matriarchal polygamy is comparatively more nearly moral +than is patriarchal polygamy, and when all is said and done, historic +morality is comparative. + +But from the standpoint of modern idealism matriarchal polygamy seems +to be a very low estimate of moral conduct; and from the standpoint of +sexual idealism it is a low standard; a standard only a degree higher +than that of patriarchal polygamy--a standard which is the lineal +descendant of the ethics of the marriage-by-capture period of human +evolution, and from which we are today by no means free, owing to +economic, religious, and ethical conditions. + +There is a tacit acknowledgement on the part of the unorganized +brotherhood of the Enlightened, that laws are made for the guidance of +the masses. Unbridled ignorance is a dangerous force; as dangerous as +an unbridled horse, unless it be that the horse exhibits intelligence +enough to know where it is headed for and how to avoid obstacles en +route. + +And even as the laws of a community are made for the intellectually +undeveloped, so the commandments were compiled for the spiritual +guidance of the uninitiated. + +We trust that it will not shock the sensibilities of the "pious" when +we affirm and maintain and insist that the ten commandments are not +"from God" in the letter of the statements, as postulated by Theology. +They bear all the earmarks of the ancient Hebrew race-mind, which +placed a man's "neighbor's wife" in the same category with "his ox and +his ass and his house" and his other property and possessions. + +There is but one commandment of the Most High God, alias Eros, and +that is so interwoven into the fabric of creation that we cannot break +it if we would, although we may and do break ourselves in trying to +live in defiance of its immutability. + +"We cannot wrong the universe!" + +Our moral standards, in so far as they relate to the sexes, are at +present the logical descent of Hebrew adherence to phallic worship, +engrafted into the Roman outgrowth of the God-idea. Both the Hebrew +and the Roman customs maintained the inferiority and the consequent +subjugation of woman, despite the fact that the Roman Church exalted +the Virgin as a personality; but the postulate of the Church that Mary +was so exalted by a miracle, which never could be repeated, killed any +forlorn hope which might have lurked within the female breast +regarding a possible emulation of her example. No other woman might do +more than cringe and crawl and beg and whine; or cajole and wheedle +and buy the Holy Mother's intercession, which intercession, even if +successful, could at best but secure her an eternal job in the +Heavenly hierarchy, where, sexless, companionless, mateless, anaemic, +she could look all day at a male God whom she could never presume to +reach. + +Rather a lonesome outlook for eternity, and it is small wonder that +woman got discouraged at the prospect. The miracle is rather that she +endured it so long. + +But the Roman system had at least one virtue. It instilled into the +mortal mind of its people a sub-conscious realization of the ideal of +monogamy; not an ideal monogamy by a long way, but a monogamic ideal. +They are quite different; but inasmuch as it is an outward semblance +of a more spiritual conception of marriage than that of polygamy, it +is the highest ideal yet realized for the many, and does duty in our +present day and age, as consistent with our superior civilization. + +Monogamy at least pretends to be a marriage by mutual consent; and +even in the pretense there is the germ of a hope; but it would be +folly to deny that underneath this appearance of marriage by mutual +consent we see the remnants of the traditional idea of the right by +purchase, and therefore we have the jealousy that arises by virtue of +our property rights. + +The right by purchase assuredly underlies our present-day marriage +system, although it is disguised as economic necessity; as a religious +sacrament; and as a suitable or a brilliant "catch"--a type of +marriage by capture which forms the ideal of our own upper-class women +and which the housemaid copies in her limited way. + +Viewed from the surface evidence, the average woman of today is, as +Kipling says, far "more deadly than the male." She is more +unscrupulous in her methods; more unreasonable in her demands; more +devoid of sentiment or sympathy; more fickle in her desires and more +nagging in her complaints. But, when all is said and done, we must +admit that woman is only expressing her inheritance. When she becomes +balanced, the sexes will meet on common ground. + +Woman's demand for better physical environment; for more comfort, and +more justice; presages, after all, a higher and a more satisfactory +idea of the marriage relationship. Underneath this materialistic +demand, there is the silent voice of the soul calling for a more +ideal marriage relation. It is the materialistic expression of a +spiritual urge and will in time rise to higher ground. It is a demand +for a better state than that which our grandmothers enjoyed, or +endured. + +We have seen in the history of marriage, that the estimate of sexual +immorality has been based, all too frequently, upon woman's disregard +for the rights of her husband in her person. + +For centuries the burden of sustaining a sexual moral standard has +rested almost wholly upon the shoulders of the women; and it is +therefore natural that the present-day defiant attitude of many women +toward the traditional standard should be viewed with alarm; and there +is more in this thought of alarm than the mere anxiety on the part of +man to hold woman to her appointed task of guardian of marital +morality. + +Although men may wander from the home and fireside, it is a peculiar +fact that they generally hold to a mental string by which they may +find their way back again, very frequently the more contented to be +there for their wanderings. But with a woman it is different. Once a +woman has broken loose from the ties that have bound her to her +inherited post of morality-preserver, she seldom goes back again, but +keeps on her way until she finds that for which she seeks, or gives up +the search of her own volition. + +Is this, then, evidence that it is a woman's first duty to "stay put" +when matrimonial exigencies have placed her in a specific "pocket" of +the matrimonial billiard-table? + +We believe not; and this belief is founded upon the fact that the +female principle, which is, we admit, the centralizing, centripetal +force in the cosmos, is not always manifested in the form of woman. +The balanced individual is bi-sexual, even as the balanced "twain-one" +is bi-sexual. If man was all male principle, and woman all female +principle they would not be complementary, but antithetical. Each must +be balanced within himself and herself before they can merge into each +other. + +Affinities are numerous, but mates are found but once; otherwise, the +problems that are being discussed here would never have arisen. + +If, then, as has been shown in the fact that only counterpartal unions +are real, eternal and spiritually indissoluble; and that only true +mates can thus unite, and when thus united have no desire to wander, +what becomes of our ideas of sexual infidelity? + +Since the very law of the Cosmos has seen to it that we cannot be +untrue to the only one who seemingly has a right to our fidelity in +the sex relation and since this union can become general only by +freeing love from bondage, what becomes of the laboriously built up +ethics of our social intercourse? + +Are they to be abandoned as of no value? + +We can almost hear the storm of protest which the righteous reader may +feel in duty bound to let loose at such a suggestion, if for no other +reason than that protest is the accepted way of proving one's own +virtuous tendencies. + +In the early seventies, a woman named Virginia Woodhull brought down +upon her defenseless head the un-Christian-like abuse of the Christian +public by announcing a doctrine which seems to have been nothing more +dreadful than that of an equal standard of morality for men and women. +The poor woman died broken-hearted, it is said; and yet nothing that +we can unearth regarding her personal life and habits would seem to +have warranted the cruel gibes that were hurled at her. The dear old +lady lived a most continent, even ascetic life. + +But the world has made rapid strides since that time, and we trust +that the urgent need of something reasonable and feasible upon the sex +question will inspire the reader to an unprejudiced review of this +chapter. We would that it were possible to supply a modicum of +understanding with each copy of this volume; but since it is not, we +must take our chance with the average. Let us reason together: + +Expediency is the mother of morality in social organizations, which +have, of necessity, unstable, ever-changing standards. These standards +represent, for some, ideals yet to be attained; while for others they +become mere mileposts on the path of Evolution. The individual +reaches, and then passes, an accepted ideal; gradually when a +sufficient number, constituting a majority, have reached this ideal, +it ceases to be a standard for the social organization, and another +ideal is substituted. + +The laws of the cave-man called for self-restraint exercised toward +his own immediate clan, and this necessity for self-restraint was +based upon nothing higher than the law of self-preservation; but +gradually the sphere widened; from clan to nation. So do our ethical +and moral standards enlarge. Traditional concepts are not necessarily +wrong, but they are almost sure to be inadequate to evolving Mankind. + +Formerly, sexual morality consisted of the reservation of the person +of a sister to the use of her brothers. Any infringement upon this +moral code was punished by death to the woman and to her out-clannish +lover. + +And we have today an analogous example, although we are glad to say, +it is not the highest standard; still, if one's husband or wife +violates the marriage vows, it is more condonable, if the +co-respondent be of the wealthy class; and in monarchies it is +accounted an honor to have been selected as the king's favorite. + +The institution of prostitution which exists everywhere today has its +standards in the different countries; and the white races seem to +think that their morality is superior to that of the Orientals because +the social standing of prostitutes in the Orient is not irretrievably +lost; they are permitted, in the event of marriage, to resume social +equality with other women. Among white people, prostitutes have no +other recourse than to sink lower and lower, until utter degradation +is reached. + +We believe that the Oriental view of the situation is a far higher +standard of morality than is our Occidental attitude. + +If there can lawfully be such an organization as is now being proposed +as desirable in large cities, namely, a "morals police," it certainly +should be instigated by a more sane purpose than that which is at the +root of our present police guardianship. + +Attempts at suppression of prostitution have hitherto been conducted +on the principle that the women of that class are objectionable to the +sight of our mothers and sisters and wives, and the sinfulness of the +hopelessly "fallen" ones has been the theme of press and pulpit. And +all the time the women of the half-world have resented this attitude +as being unjust, and unfair, and hypocritical, and untenable. They +have known that if the act of selling their bodies to men is a crime +against the community, then more than half the feminine world is +criminal. And they have contended that since the "respectable" women +were neither contacted nor exploited by them, they cannot see wherein +they offend society, provided the laws of sanitation and segregation +are complied with. + +In other words, they have said that it is none of Society's business +whether they sell themselves to one man or to a number, since they +must pay the penalty. And their attitude is relatively right. It is +none of Society's business whether a woman is a prostitute or not, +considered as an offense against Society. That is the wrong attitude +toward this condition of our social disorder. + +No prostitute offends you or me. She, poor creature, offends herself, +and we offend her and ourselves by permitting social conditions that +make for such degradation. We are conniving with her to barter her +birthright of freedom and real love for food and shelter, and taint +and tinsel, whenever we encourage marriage on any other ground than +that of true love, and when we regard virtue as a matter of physical +contact. + +If we judge from the many plays which we see on the boards; if we are +influenced by the press and the pulpit; we must acknowledge that the +general idea of sexual morality is an absurd one. The inference is +that one special organ of a woman's physical body is the sole +custodian of all virtue and all morality. The accepted idea seems to +be that if a woman is married her body is then the property of her +husband. Her emotions, her mind, her heart, her happiness, her +preferences do not count for anything. The one act is made +all-important. On the husband's side, if he provides for his wife and +family, he is justified in exacting the sole right to the wife's body, +and although his own heart and caresses may be given to another, he +justifies himself, and the wife not infrequently feels satisfied, as +long as he provides well for her. What is this but prostitution? The +principle is the same as in the case of the recognized prostitute, +although the conditions are easier for the woman, and less cheapening +of her womanhood, but the difference is only in degree. + +Now, a singular idea of fidelity, a direct antithesis to the one just +mentioned, prevails among prostitutes, when married either by law or +by selection. + +They may surrender their physical body to another, for money, and +according to their idea they may yet remain true to the husband or +lover, because the matter is a business transaction. The other man has +only what he has purchased, namely, the physical body. But should the +woman permit another man to arouse in her a sexual response; should +another invade her mind, absorb her thoughts, or engage her heart, the +husband is outraged and the woman realizes her unfaithfulness. + +All of which goes to show that up to the present time sexual morality +has in itself no absolute uniform standard by which it can be measured +and satisfactorily and convincingly presented to all persons, as have +other phases of morality, such as honesty, justice, mercy, generosity, +friendship, fidelity to country, and self-sacrifice to the good of +humanity. + +And although all these moral qualities have their bearing upon sexual +morality, they do not establish a uniform ideal of sexual morality. +Honesty is honesty whether in Paris, London, Calcutta, or Pekin, but +as has been previously observed, sexual morality is determined by +local conditions. + +Can there, then, be established a universal standard of sexual +morality? There can, but its universal acceptance is a remote +probability, albeit it will arrive some day. + +First of all, the sex relation must be absolutely free from sale; +coercion; or barter; whether within the respectable "sale" of +matrimony or of recognized prostitution. It must be free from any +erroneous idea of marital duty; it must be exalted, reverenced, +deified, in all its aspects, from the impregnation of a plant, to the +sexual embrace of human lovers. + +An Utopian dream it appears, if we note but one side of the picture. +If we consider the lightness with which so many men look upon the +physical form of women; and if we realize the attitude of so many +women toward men, in their conflict with life, using the age-old dowry +from mother Eve, of sex, as a weapon of defense and of offense; if we +listen to the ribald songs that offend our ears and nauseate our +souls, not only in music-halls and on the streets, but in supposedly +cultured homes; and above all if we contemplate the uncleanness of +mind displayed by those who are really in earnest in their endeavor to +uplift the moral tone of the world. + +These latter are, by far, the worst enemies to the Regeneration of +Sex. A wise man once said, "Save me from my friends; I can protect +myself against my enemies"--and so it is in this instance. + +Most "Civic-Leaguers" and members of "Vice-Commissions" (why that +name, anyway?) are infected with the bacteria of sex-degradation. +They really require a lengthy process of mental disinfection, before +attempting to handle so delicate a problem as this one of sexual +uplift. + +A woman member of a Young People's Civic League of the second largest +city in the United States recently declared in public print, of the +beautiful and chaste painting "September Morn," that it was "lewd, +filthy, and suggestive of unclean things." This type of woman is +intrusted with the task of teaching youthful minds; polluting them +with the blasphemous affirmation that the Creation of the +Father-Mother God of the universe is "lewd and filthy!" + +Let us get this truth implanted in our mentality, as it is inrooted in +our souls, namely: + +Sex is always the purest, the holiest, and the most sacred thing in +the universe--because God is Him-Her-Self, bi-sexual. The +righteousness of it cannot be determined by so fickle a thing as man's +customs; cannot be dependent upon mortal laws. This statement, +indisputable as it is, will nevertheless start a chain of thought +which may lead to confusion; and it is because of this tendency to +confusion that the real issue is so frequently avoided. But let us see +if we may not dispel the confusion by a system of logical deduction. + +One thing is certain. The present condition of the Sex-problem is +sadly chaotic. If we cannot hope to clarify it to the comprehension of +the average, we may at least do so for some. + +One of the first objections to the acceptance of the statement that +the sex relation is, per se, always right, will be found in the +conclusion to which the average mind immediately jumps: "Ah, then it +is right for men and women who are depraved and licentious to live as +they do; it is right for husbands and wives to deceive each other, and +while pretending to be faithful to their marriage vows, to secretly +carry on flirtations and intrigues with other men and other women!" + +Ask one hundred men or one hundred women this question: "Is the +sex-relation right or wrong?" + +The men will declare that it is "right sometimes and wrong sometimes." +The women, almost as a unit, will do the same. Occasionally a woman +will be found sufficiently illumined to give a sane answer. + +Following up the thoughtless answer with the request to illustrate, +and the reply will be something like this: "Well, if people are +married it is right, but if they are not married it is wrong;" and +even as this silly answer is given, the person answering knows that it +is puerile; but since the Public Mind prefers hypocrisy to Truth, few +have the temerity, and fewer yet have the capability, to utter Truth. + +It would be as sensible to say that it is right for the sun to shine +sometimes and wrong for it to shine some other times. It is right for +the sun to shine. This is all the answer that there is, and all that +is needed. + +Whether the sunshine bestows life and health, or decay and death, is +entirely "up to us." The sun does its part. It is fulfilling the +inexorable law of Nature, and is therefore right. + +But of even greater importance in the universe is this law of sex. The +law is forever and always right. Our concept of it may be right or it +may be diseased. As a matter of fact it is, in all too many cases, +diseased. If it were not, there would be no disease in the world. + +How is it possible to have a perfect flower--a healthy, normal and +wholesome sprout from a diseased root? + +The root of all life is sex. We have thought disease into it, and the +only remedy is to change our thought toward the function. This may be +done by realizing that the sex-relation is always pure, holy, +sacred--the bi-une God of the universe. This statement is quite +different from saying that people are always right or sacred in their +sex-relations. + +To say that the sex-relation is always right under the institution of +marriage and always wrong outside of it, is a lie. A lie cannot bring +back health to either a person or a principle. Truth is the only thing +that can make us whole--and the first office of Truth, as everyone +knows, is to make us free. We cannot be whole until we are free, and +the essential thought to be free from, is an attempt to keep alive the +lie that the righteousness of Sex, per se, depends upon marriage. + +Does the libertine believe in the sacredness of sex? Never. Does the +prostitute claim for herself spotless purity? If she did, she would +not sell herself for money. + +Do men and women who are living in secret unfaithfulness hold exalted +ideals of sex? + +If they did, they would not maintain a life of deceit. + +These people live as they do, because they have divorced sex from +love. They agree absolutely with the blind "moralists" who regard Sex +as a human plaything--something which may be called bad one day and +good the next, according to whether it is viewed from afar or near. + +Does anyone imagine that when Society shall have established the "one +standard of morality" replacing the double standard which now +persecutes the woman only, for infringement upon Society's one demand, +that of concealment, that the answer to sex-degradation will have been +found? + +A single standard is an improvement upon the old habit of stoning the +woman only and letting the man go free. But why stone anybody? + +History fails to record a single instance where Society has succeeded +in improving either itself or its victims by the procedure. The best +that can be said of the stoning habit is that it distracts attention +from ourselves. + +Persons who hold exalted ideas of the function of sex, realizing that +a force so eternal and universal must be disassociated from man-made +regulations, are not in danger. + +Such as these will not foster deceit nor profligacy, any more than +they will cringe and crawl under the lash of Society's disapproval, +should they encounter it. They know that if they would find the +highest good, they must serve Truth first of all, no matter how high +the price of such devotion. + + + + + CHAPTER X + + THE PATHWAY OF LOVE + + +Love is the Great Reality. + +Everything else in this world of Experience is either tributary to +love or it is an unsatisfying substitute for love; or a counterfeit of +love. Love is the one cohesive, unifying, constructive force, and it +is at the same time the only liberating force. + +Hatred, as exemplified in warfare, may sometimes appear to free a +people from the rule of a tyrant, but unless love be at the root of +the "casus belli," other and more direful disasters will follow in the +wake of seeming victory. + +There is an erroneous idea, quite general among Christian people, that +Death frees the spirit from the bonds that hold it to the mortal and +the incomplete. Death only drops off the garment of the flesh; there +are innumeral sheathings yet to be shed, before the soul grows the +wings with which to soar to the celestial realms, where Love reigns +supreme. + +Love is the only power on earth or in the spheres, that can liberate +us either from our own prejudices and hatreds and fears; or from the +limitations and attractions of the animal-man. + +Love is, indeed, the Alpha and Omega of Life. "There is no other God +but Thee," has been the cry of every race on this globe, +apostrophizing the unrecognized little baby-God, personified and +presented to the race-mind as Horus; or as Krishna, or as Christ; but +always it is Love, the Invisible, the Beautiful One, who is adored. + +Ingersoll with his wonderful gift of word-painting, and inspired by +that great love of humanity which characterized him, has said: + +"Love is the only bow on life's dark cloud. It is the morning and +evening star. It shines on the babe and sheds its radiance on the +tomb. It is the mother of art; inspirer of poet, patriot and +philosopher. It is the air and light of every heart; builder of every +home; kindler of every fire on the hearth; it was the first dress of +immortality. It fills the world with melody, for music is the voice of +love. Love is the magician, the enchanter that changes worthless +things to joy and makes right royal queens and kings of common clay. +It is the perfume of that wonderful flower, the heart, and without +that sacred passion that divine swoon, we are less than beasts, but +with it--earth is Heaven and we are gods." + +It would be superfluous to state here, that Love has ever been +recognized as the supreme prize, lacking which all other gifts of life +are worthless. + +It is admitted that Love is almost the only thing in this age of +commercial supremacy which can not be bought. Though it may be +bartered for. + +Although it be unreservedly admitted that Love is the all-powerful and +magic solvent which transmutes all baser emotions into the higher, +the general inference will be drawn that this type of love is not +sexual. It will be termed parental; humanitarian, self-sacrificing, or +altruistic love, and the point may be taken that if humanity had +developed nothing higher than the love which is manifested in the sex +instinct, the world would be a sorry one indeed, since sexual love, as +we have witnessed its ascent from protoplasm to man, has been, in most +instances, a blind urge toward personal gratification, not more lofty +than the need of supplying the craving for food. This is quite true of +animals, and of the lower types of animal-man; not necessarily the +earliest types of men, but the lowest types, which we still have with +us but happily in decreasing numbers. + +But even among animals we find evidences of something vague, +indefinite, but insistent which leads the animal to exhibit what we +term a tendency toward _selection_; and in the animal also, through +the exigencies of sexual love, we find parental love, and here again +we note a peculiarity which ascends also into the family life of +humans, namely, that in some instances what we have called the +maternal love, the gentle, care-taking, guarding and protecting love, +is demonstrated by the male. This is less common with the animals than +with Man, but it is sometimes found and proves the existence of the +evolutionary trend toward balance in the individual, as well as in the +family. + +If maternal love were confined strictly to the female parent, and the +procreative instinct were the legitimate inheritance of the male only, +we could never hope for a perfect sexual union, for the very cogent +reason that the love of the male would never equal that of the female, +since our capacity grows by becoming diffused. + +As the world stands today, parental love takes a higher place in the +life of the family, and of the nation and of the race (the family on a +larger scale), than does love of husband or wife; and over and above +even parental love we have been accustomed to place the love of God. + +Now we know that there are many who claim that their love of this +abstract God supercedes that of love for their family, but we may +tacitly agree to take this statement as either an admission of fear of +the Unknown or the realization that there are heights and depths of +the love-principle which they have not yet penetrated, something to +which the spirit soars. They intuitively recognize that there is some +perfected state to which we aspire, else human love would never flower +into its full possibilities. + +And so when we declare that we love God above all other loves; more +than wife or husband; children or parents; we are but admitting that +we realize in our interior nature that we have not yet loved any +_human being_ with as great a love as we are capable of. + +If any one holds the mistaken idea--and it is one that is very +generally held--that the perfect sex union can be attained by no finer +phase of emotion than that expressed in procreation; and that in +order to develop the highest quality of sex-love, he must eschew all +other phases of manifestation, and concentrate the forces of his being +in the direction of sexual expression, he will meet with dire defeat. +The laws of the cosmos cannot be broken. We are constantly confronted +with the admonition, the child of Fear, to "be careful not to break +the laws of God." We need not worry at all about the laws of God, +whether we call these Cosmic Law, or Nature, or Divine Providence or +something else. Our concern is with ourselves. Neither need we worry +whether our neighbor obeys the moral code as we see it. So long as he +does not refuse to us our right to follow our own ideals, we may +permit him the same liberty. + +God, as manifested in the cosmic law of transmutation, will take care +of Him-Her-Self. Morality can not be extinguished. Love cannot be +killed by men. We can only hurt ourselves in trying. + +Love is neither fickle, capricious nor sly, notwithstanding tomes of +seeming evidence to the contrary. Love is the most perfect +mathematician in the universe. With whatsoever measure a man or a +woman metes out love, with that same measure it is returned. Neither +is Love blind. Love is depicted thus, because he is not concerned with +appearances, but with realities. He is not gazing without, but within. +He is doing his best, the poor little neglected Love-god, with the +material at hand since he must fulfill the law of his being. He seeks +to unite lovers in their interior nature, but as each of the would-be +happy pair is bent on gazing without, instead of within, he is +handicapped. And when unhappiness follows, they blame the blindness of +Love, instead of realizing that He is depicted with a bandage over His +eyes, to indicate that Love is an interior quality. So too, the +Egyptian God Horus, the God of Love, was depicted with his finger on +his lips, to typify the truth that true love is not noisy, blustering, +jealous, burning, ranting, protesting. He is silent; soft; melting; +blissful; magnetic; _uniting_. + +Our noisy civilization, seeking happiness in Things, mistakes +protestations and appearances for realities, and so modern marriages +are consummated on this basis, and the caricaturists have depicted +Cupid as having exchanged his love-darts for dollars, but this is a +slander on the little god who wouldn't know a dollar if he could see +one. "It is not true that one knows what one sees; one sees what one +knows," declared a clever Frenchman, and as the average modern bride +and bridegroom are forced, or think they are, by modern standards of +living, to know dollars better than they know Love, their perverted +vision sees Cupid's arrows tipped with the dollar mark. But even the +dollar mark spells US, united, and if they are indeed truly united in +love, wealth untold is theirs, and if they are not thus united then +indeed are they poor in happiness, which is the only real poverty. + +But even in the very failure to attain happiness in things, married +couples have learned or they are learning, that there is an interior +nature which must be considered if marital happiness is expected. + +In all too many instances it may take many experiences and the road to +the heights may for a time be lost but let us remember that "Love +never faileth." + +It has been said that "love makes gods of men," and we have taken this +phrase as a charming bit of hyperbole, whereas it is a literal truth, +because when two individual souls have rounded and balanced their +natures by means of love, they come together in an eternal union, and +are immortal; "in their flesh they have seen God," and the pilgrimage +is ended. + +There is a phrase current at the present day, belonging to slang, that +universal language of the masses, "the Volapuk of the melting-pot." It +comes to us simultaneously with the affinity-wave and the soul-mate +quest; and it is both pertinent and timely, although by no means +always wisely applied. It is the expression "I have found my +seek-no-farther; he (or she) is the Real Thing." + +Life is a succession of experiences in the quest of immortality. +Immortality would be a curse instead of a blessing if attained alone. + +Even the attainment of so unworthy an ambition as riches is a mockery +if unshared by others. Fame is like a ruined and deserted castle to +the one who has achieved it, unless there be the one other to share +it. Even the philosopher, the philanthropist, the humanitarian, he +whose love nature is supposed to find satisfaction in making others +happy--can not realize the completeness and fullness of joy, unless +there is the one mate with whom he may share his altruistic work; or +lacking this, he looks to the Life Beyond for the completeness which +he does not find here. + +Renan says: "One reason why religion remains on such a material plane +for many is because they have never known a great and vitalizing love; +a love where intellect, spirit and sex finds its perfect mate." + +Verily, love is the only vitalizing power in the universe; and when +denied the interior union which should exist between a conjoining +pair, Love does the best He can, and infuses into the relationship as +much of the divine nectar as they will accept. + +_There is no impure love._ I repeat: There is no impure love. The +impurity is in the mortal mind of man, obstructing his vision until he +fails to see the purity of that which fain would lift him from the +Slough of Despond to the Heights of Bliss. + +If love be always pure, if it be always the uplifting, unifying, +constructive power of the universe, what becomes of the apparent fact +that men have sinned for love of woman; that for love of man, women +have lost their self-respect, their hope of Heaven; and have sunk to +depths below that of the brute creation? + +What becomes of the all too many instances where human nature appears +to love vice; to be under the spell, as it were of a passionate love +for all that is ignoble and defiling? How, then, can we say that love +is always pure when it leads to such disaster? + +Love never leads to disaster, though love may follow wheresoever the +erring mind of man leads, and thus Love is all too frequently dragged +from his true place of exaltation, and brought into the arena of human +conflict. Love is no fighter; He never opposes; He only concurs; He +unites if there is anything with which he can establish an affinity of +union. + +Egoism is the arch-enemy of love, selfishness is the manifestation of +egoism. Selfishness seeks to possess; it is selfishness that causes a +man to commit crime, in order that he may bedeck the woman he loves +with jewels and fine raiment. He is buying her bodily presence with +the baubles which he vainly believes will bind her to him; and he must +be taught the lesson of the Yoga sutras "not this way; not this way;" +and the more worthy he is of redemption, the more certainly will he be +caught in the trap of his own making, lest he really perish; whereas +by seeming defeat, outward defeat, he may learn the true path of +inwardness. Certainly Love is the only guide to whom he may safely +trust his redemption. + +If a woman really sinks into the depths of degradation through what +appears to be love, it is because selfishness and vanity have +temporarily supplanted Love. But there is another side to the +question. Society has very erroneous ideas of success and failure; and +in looking at these opposite ends of the same pole, Society may be +standing on it's head. + +A story illustrative of this inverted view of success is worth +repeating. + +A young Englishman of aristocratic family, tired of the inanities of +social life, and denied the privilege of entering the commercial +world, emigrated to the South Seas. It was reported at home that he +had married a native Samoan woman and was living the simple life of +the Islanders. English society, when his name was mentioned at all, +spoke of him with hushed voices and with a "what a pity y' know" +manner as of one who had sunk below the depths of ordinary failure. +Subsequently a friend visited Samoa and found the young man enjoying +life and evidently supremely content. In the course of conversation +the visitor chanced to speak of a mutual friend who had been rather +wild in the days when they both knew him, and thinking to impart +agreeable news to the exile, the visitor eagerly assured him that "Sir +Arthur is respectably married and settled down now" whereupon the +self-constituted exile commiseratingly responded with: "what a pity; +and he was such a decent sort, too." So we may see that there is much +in the point of view. + +Happiness is the final test of success or failure; and we may trust +this test, because no one can be happy in any other than the +progressive, upward-trending life. Dissipation has never been a +satisfactory substitute for happiness. Wealth is valueless to the +possessor if it shuts out love; and if love be present, wealth holds +but an inconsequential place. + +However it be, the pathway of Love is long; and between the force of +attraction which unites two atoms in chemical affinity, and the union +of two perfected human beings, in whom Love and Wisdom are balanced, +there are many degrees of the manifestation of Love, and the question +inevitably arises "what shall we do with those marriages that are not +yet perfect?" + +If, as here premised, there is in the entire universe but one mate for +each man and each woman; and if the union of perfect mates is the only +truly spiritual union; if this union precludes the possibility of +"temptation" in any other direction, what is to be done with all the +marriages which we know to be imperfect; wherein it is evident that +soul-union is not present? Are they immoral, and are they to be +abandoned? And is marital infidelity in such instances immoral? + +It is. Infidelity is always immoral, because all deceit and deception +and dishonesty are immoral. + +Let us see what constitutes infidelity, irrespective of marriage. +Infidelity is to be unfaithful to a trust imposed; to betray a +confidence; to break a promise. This is the abstract definition and it +is the only definition that will withstand analysis, whether applied +to the marriage vows or to other promises and pledges. + +Obviously the answer to this question, then, is to either not impose +upon oneself or upon another "vows"; or, if we do so impose, not to +break them; but if vows are not to be broken, they may, thank Heaven, +be dissolved. + +And surely the marriage ceremony of the future will not impose vows or +promises, because intelligent men and women must rise superior to the +necessity for bonds and promises. A marriage ceremony is, even at its +very highest, when the contracting persons are spiritually mated, +nothing more than announcement to the society of which they are +members, of the fact of their mutual agreement to live outwardly, as +well as inwardly, in sexual union. + +We make too much of the marriage ceremony and too little of the +fitness for marriage. The business of the clergyman is altogether too +much confined to seeing whether a couple is "respectably" bonded, and +altogether too little as to whether they are spiritually united. + +Possession! that is the word that spells unhappiness, in married life; +each wants to possess the other; neither one tries for the spirit of +union. Possession cannot be divorced from deceit. + +Vows and promises challenge us to keep them, and because our pathway +leads upward to freedom, we constantly find these vows and promises +staring us in the face and daring us to advance. We must substitute +mutual confidence for vows. Vows are childish and puerile. If we +cannot keep faith without vows then are we sadly lacking in faith and +should cultivate it by offering to others the freedom of action we +would have ourselves. When the time comes, as it will, that a husband +and wife can "talk it over" in a friendly, mutually helpful frame of +mind, when either one is attracted by another, there will be no +further opportunity for infidelity; and the sooner we rid the world of +a belief in sin and immorality, the sooner will Love reign. + +It is said of the sages of India that they can live in the jungles and +the ferocious tigers will not harm them; how do they accomplish this? + +They have disassociated themselves from ferocity. They do not desire +to crush or kill the tiger. Their minds are so filled with love and +compassion that there is no point of connection between them and the +destructive instinct in the beast. + +When we get away from the fear of "impure" love; when we get away from +the tremendous load of belief in evil which keeps the back bent and +the eyes lowered to the dust, we will be ready to meet the pure and +perfect love when it comes; and when we are fit for it we will meet it +and when we have found this pearl of great price, all doubt and fear, +all jealousy; all dissatisfaction will vanish. There will be no fear +of "losing" each other. The union is an interior one, and even though +"seas divide and mountains vast, rear their proud crests 'tween thee +and me," the call of soul to soul will be felt and answered. Byron says: + + "There are two souls of equal flow, + Whose gentle streams so calmly run, + That when they part--they part? Oh no, + They cannot part, those souls are one." + +With a sentiment such as this between two beings, what need for vows +and promises, and bonds? + +It is customary for writers on the sex question to emphatically, even +feverishly, emphasize the fact that they have no intention of implying +that they would do away with the bonds of matrimony; and although this +conclusion is inevitable where one's intellect is active and the +faculty of deduction brought into play, yet the false modesty that +prevails and the prejudices that blind the eyes of the multitude, and +above all, the tendency of the undeveloped race-mind to impute +personal motives to such as would, if permitted, lead them to a freer, +and consequently a purer life, impel the writer to deny that which is, +finally, the very point at issue. + +In the interest of Truth, we are compelled to state that we would do +away with "bonds." We would substitute therefor mutual agreements, +subject to renewal or repudiation within certain defined and mutually +helpful conditions. Vows and bonds and oaths are the crutches of the +crippled human race. We need not always walk lame. + +It may be argued that man is still largely animal; yes, but the surest +way to keep him so is to treat him like an animal. If we remind him +that he is also a man and that he may be a god; and if we point out to +him the way in which he may accomplish this transmutation, no man has +so little intelligence that he will not attempt to follow, when +assured that God-hood means a bliss so great that he can hardly +imagine it; that it means cessation of the "endless round of births +and deaths" from which Gautama, the Buddha, sought to free himself. +Mankind has always been promised immortality through spiritual +union--with what? An abstract principle called God, or Aum or any +other impersonal formless all-inclusive Being? + +No, but with his mate. + +On this point we trust that there will not remain any obscurity. There +is no higher God than Love. There is no higher love than sexual-love +in its highest manifestation. The more we truly love, the more love +flows into and through our consciousness, until from a tiny little +pearly drop of the "wine of life" we ascend to the Olympian Heights +and imbibe floods of the "nectar of the Gods." + +Even the libertine, that pauper in the realm of Love, wants the +perfect life. His soul is forever hungry for that which he gropingly +tries to catch and chain and possess; and which by virtue of these +same desires will evade him until he ceases thus to seek, and instead +of demanding possession of the object of his desires, he asks for +union. Union is interior; possession is always and ever limited to +exterior contact. They who would enter the sanctuary and defile the +"Holy of Holies" are saved from such a load of self-inflicted sin; +they cannot if they would. There is but one key which will open the +golden gate to heaven. The way chosen by the libertine is in exactly +the opposite direction. + +Are all marriages that are not soul-mate unions immoral? Most +certainly not. Are all unions that are not married immoral. Most +certainly not. + +We have made an attempt to define sexual immorality and we have +concluded that as yet there is no absolute standard in civilized or +uncivilized ethics, since, as Letourneau points out, what is immoral +in Pekin or Calcutta may be moral in Paris or London. Truth is +adherence to facts in whatever section of the world. Tolerance; +sympathy; charity; may be clearly defined wherever we roam. Sexual +immorality has no stable standards. We here suggest one and submit +that it is the only one possible of universal concurrence. It is based +upon personal freedom. Wherever the sexual relation is made a +convenience; or where either one marries in the face of his or her own +realization that there is no love bestowed, that relationship is +immoral. Thus, it will be seen that sexual immorality is independent +of marriage, and cannot be estimated by law. Marriage for money; for +position; for convenience; for anything other than a desire for mutual +helpfulness, is immoral. Indulgence in the sexual act for selfish +gratification without regard to the welfare of each other; for money; +or pastime; or for any motive other than a reverential expression of +an unselfish love, is immoral and is a prostitution of the divine +office of sex. + +But, though not all sex relationships can be perfect and eternal, yet +all may, if we desire, be moral. And all moral and sexual +relationships must, and will, lead to perfect sex-union, whenever the +time comes that either one is ready for the completement. This truth +need not, and will not, disrupt any happy marriages. + +If the Church had not made the mistake of teaching the fallacy that +sex-love is a strictly earthly or mortal function, divorcing Sex from +pure love; and if the Theology had not tried to substitute the love +of, and union with, an abstract Creator for love of mates in +soul-union, perhaps there would be exhibited less impatience of the +restraints of marriage. + +But with a cat-and-dog married life on the one hand and the prospect +of an inane, blank, and sexless union with an abstract God-idea on the +other, it is small wonder that mortal consciousness has rebelled, and +has decided to take its chances with Hell, rather than to forego the +happiness which is intuitively sensed as being the direct prerogative +of perfect mating. + +If this God-idea had not been presented as an eternal, unescapable +finality, there might have been hope; but to fly about a throne +endlessly, night and day, singing, "I want to be nothing; nothing; +only to lie at His feet"--the prospect appalls! + +Small wonder that the conclusion has been deduced that "life is too +short" for anything like domestic misery, when domestic happiness is +the only happiness we know, and that is to cease at death! + +But, if we take the truthful view of marriage and of heaven; if we +realize that mortal life is Experience; that as we learn by +experience, we acquire knowledge; as we accumulate knowledge, we begin +to glimpse wisdom; and that when we have sufficient Wisdom and +sufficient Love, we graduate into the classification of God-hood, +immortality; and that immortality means union with our mate; +sex-union, in all that constitutes its highest and most satisfying +aspect as we know it, with infinitely more of beauty and love and +bliss, there is an incentive to aspire. + +Love is the only way that immortality can be attained. It cannot be +"taken," like degrees of secret societies. It cannot be purloined, or +feigned. Fear has never made people good. The doctrine of punishment +has never deterred the sinner. Even in his apparent acceptance of the +doctrine of sin and of consequent punishment, the poor sinner has +known better. Humanity has progressed in spite of the fear that has +dwarfed our stature. + +In the new day, with hope ahead and fear transmuted into a wise +patience, this earth may yet be a "fit dwelling-place for the gods." + +Leigh Hunt says: "Love is a personal proof that something good and +earnest and eternal is meant us; such a bribe and foretaste of bliss +being given us to keep us in the lists of time and progression; and +when the world has realized what love urges it to obtain, perhaps +death will cease and all the souls which love has created crowd back +at its summons to inhabit their perfected world." + +We are prone to consider such statements as only so many beautiful +words--elusive, ethereal, and descriptive of something that is always +in the future; but if it be always in the future it will never be +ours; we cannot catch up with it; and thus it becomes a mockery. These +prophetic utterances are literal truths. + +Let us confide to you a little secret: We are as much spirit now as we +will be when death has unloosed the bindings of our disguise--the +body. The real of each of us is what we are now, in our interior +nature. + +While we are building the business which sustains our physical body; +while we are studying law or medicine or philosophy or religion or +whatsoever, we are at the same time developing the interior nature +which we are now, and which we will be when the life of the body +ceases. Not all business men are alike, and yet, if business were +their only reality, they must needs be all the same for employing the +same methods. Not all doctors are alike although they graduate from +the same school of medicine. The inner entity that we are, stands or +falls in the final test, by the motives; the desires; the sentiments; +the sympathies; the generosities; the forgiveness; the kind impulses; +the pities; the charities; the tolerances; we feel while we are +apparently engrossed in the outer life. Together, these little +impulses, perhaps forgotten in the rush of the day's seemingly +important business affairs, come finally to be the ladder by which we +climb to the spiritual heights where the bliss of true and perfect, +melting, merging, liquid-love, of the one and only mate awaits us. + +One thing more. This also is a secret. Perhaps you will not even +believe it, but it is true: Poets are the practical members of our +crazy civilization. Business men are practical only when they are +also, and above all, idealists. + + + + + CHAPTER XI + + THE LAW OF TRANSMUTATION + + +External life is a succession of picture blocks with which we have +builded our thoughts into shapes and forms manifest to the mortal +senses. But back of every act there is the invisible ideal which +prompted it, so that to the one who has the interior vision; one who +looks at life from the citadel of his own interior nature instead of +merely sensing it by external contact, every material thing tells its +interior story; everything has an esoteric or occult meaning. It is +said that mystic truths have been veiled in symbolical language; but +to those who know the language of symbolism, there is no veil; what +seems so is due to the refractory character of the mind which is +limited to sense consciousness. + +There are two words much used in this day of the Dawn which give the +key to the trend of the cosmic cycle upon which the earth has entered. +The word "union," or its equivalent, enters into almost every phase of +our busy life as well as into ethical and philosophical thought. This +word, with much that it stands for, has superseded the word +"agreement," or "combination" or "partnership," formerly used. Union +means something more interior, than do these other words, even when +applied to commercial issues. + +The business man says to his partners "let us unite on this question." +They are already partners, but unless there is a unity of thought and +ideals, their partnership is an unsatisfactory and unfruitful one. We +have labor unions which are intended to suggest a solidarity of +effort; a merging of interests; a welding together into one +thought-force, of those who enter the organization. The fullness of +meaning of this word "union" is not adequately expressed in the words +lodge, or club, or any of the terms used to designate an organization +of men in social or commercial combination. + +In union there is strength; but in partnership, or in clubs, there may +be no quality of union, although there is the outward bond of +fellowship. "I shall look into this" we say when we want to know more +of a subject than appears on the surface. We want to know the within. +We want to fathom the interior meaning; to get below the surface, or +the appearance of it. This is the other word of vital import--the word +_within_. We see it everywhere like a signpost directing our footsteps +toward home. + +The Master Jesus said that the immortal kingdom was within, but the +Christian world evidently has not believed Him. He also told those who +would listen to Him, that there was but one commandment that was truly +spiritual, but as he did not come to destroy anything that existed, +but only to transmute it, He paid no attention to the commandments +already in vogue, but contented Himself with a repetition of the one +and only commandment of the Father-Mother God Principle which begat +him: "That ye love one another." + +Now we are being told from the housetops and from the streets and +through all the channels of the physical senses to look within. That +which you are--not what you appear to be to the eyes of the +sense-conscious--but that which you are in your interior nature, is +what counts to you. The writer who writes because he is paid to write +salable stuff, harps upon the necessity for "efficiency" in the +commercial game; but when the word is impartially considered +efficiency consists in the long run in reliability, and reliability is +measured by one's honesty; integrity; square-dealing; wise +judgment--interior qualities all. It matters not whether the skin be +white or black or brown or yellow or green; whether you are of +imposing stature or but four feet tall; it is what you are within that +constitutes true efficiency. + +So the kingdom whatever it may be whether of heaven or hell; of love; +or of power; or of ambition; the kingdom is within. The source of your +power is in the interior of your nature. + +If we go to slang, which offers the line of least resistance to the +Cosmic Law, we find that the cue has been given over and over again to +those who are interiorly awake to receive it. "You are not in on +this," has been said to one who was left out of some supposedly +desirable thing; or "you are not _in_ it," meaning that you are not up +to the required standard. Even as the walls of a building only +imperfectly indicate the nature of that which is within, that which +the building stands for; that which it symbolizes, so physical +appearances are symbolical hieroglyphs of the inner nature. + +"Learn to look into the hearts of men" admonishes the spiritual +teacher. "As a man thinketh in his heart so is he." The character of +the heart is the test, and though a man's lips utter words that are at +variance with his inner nature, yet if we have learned to look within, +we are not deceived. This then is the key to the kingdom--interior +vision. + +Words are like buildings; like personalities; they have their exterior +and their interior message. Knowledge may be accumulated; piled up +like a mountain of possessions. But knowledge may not bestow one grain +of true wisdom. It is only as we extract the interior message from +knowledge that we attain wisdom. We possess knowledge and we _find_ +wisdom, when we have transmuted that knowledge into its interior +meaning. + +The fundamental difference between mysticism and theology is a +difference founded upon this axiom. The true mystic penetrates to the +interior nature of manifestation and gets the message of Experience. +Mysticism excludes nothing. It includes the manifest with the +interior; it penetrates the outer and seeks the interior; but never +does the true mystic confound the spirit with the letter; never does +he mistake the external for the Reality; the symbol for the message. + +Suppose that what is generally called the practical side of life were +the only reality. What would be the inevitable conclusion of the +thinker if he were to consider only the outer, the manifest, the +visible results of a given achievement? He would conclude that +civilization is insane. + +If we did not know with an intuitional grasp of truth that all this +which we call "marvels of achievement" is symbolical of what Man is in +his interior nature, it would be the veriest folly. What, for example, +is there in a modern sky-scraper indicative of man's advanced +civilization? + +With millions of acres of unused land, it would be inconceivable folly +to project into the inoffensive atmosphere twenty-eight stories of +wood and iron merely to buy and sell the products of man's brain and +hands. But while our Twentieth Century feverish activities are +ostensibly engaged in the external world, they are symbolizing, +embodying, teaching if we will but learn, the fact of the evolution of +man's interior nature. Sky-scrapers are indicative of the heights to +which we are aspiring; to which we are climbing; air-ships only tell +us that man in his interior nature--in his reality--is not a creeping, +crawling Thing, chained to the earth. He may, if he will, soar into +ethereal realms. He has wings, and if he so desires, he may use them. + +Wireless telegraphy would be a much less consequential discovery, did +it not foreshadow the coming time when mind will speak to mind +regardless of desert wastes and imponderable mountains that seemingly +intervene. Wireless messages are the result of vibrations set in +motion by means of a dynamo and received by an instrument attuned to a +corresponding rate of motion. But no dynamo ever invented has the +power that is centered in the dynamic will of a human being. Brute +strength is paralyzed into inactivity by the comparatively puny +strength of a man. The fierceness of the lion, the tremendous force of +the elephant, give way before the potent power of Man's desire--an +interior quality. + +Do skyscrapers, or air ships, or wireless telegraph systems make us +happier? If they do, is it not because of their ethical rather than +their so-called practical value? Is it not because they prove to man +his power to use the plastic material of the planet and control it to +do his bidding? Rapid transit adds to convenience; but above and +beyond all the so-called practical valuation which can be put upon +modern inventions and accomplishment is the message which these +mechanical marvels present to the mind. The message that man is not a +machine; that he is not a creature but a creator; that he is not a +miserable worm of the dust, but a winged god. + +Greater than all the other benefits bestowed by modern mechanical +marvels is the knowledge of each other which has resulted from +intercommunication between nation and nation. The great breeder of +discord and the waste of hatred is the idea of segregation. The man of +the cave and the club feared his next door neighbor, because he did +not know him, and the animal-man fears that which he does not know; +his imagination pictures the unknown one as something monstrous and +dangerous. Intimacy will teach us that people of a distant country are +like ourselves, even though they may dress differently; even though +they may wear their hair an inch longer or shorter; may eat a diet of +nuts instead of meat; may pray standing up rather than kneeling down. +Upon such trifling and absurd differences as these are based our ideas +of "alien" races and "foreign" nations. + +Annihilation of space and time accomplished by modern mechanical +inventions has made us familiar with the interior life of other human +beings and has compelled us to the knowledge that they have feelings, +emotions, desires, hopes, aspirations, and faults, exactly like our +own, and thus will be established a bond of unity, which will reach +the heart of our neighbor. If this bond of unity has not as yet been +established, it is because the majority of Mankind are still only +sense-conscious. They have not yet assimilated the knowledge which the +past few years has precipitated in such an avalanche that the +slow-moving mind cannot keep pace with it. But out of all this +knowledge must come in due time the quality of wisdom. Wisdom seeks +love as the only eternal reality. Not because God has commanded that +we shall do so; not because of a sentimental ideal, but because any +other course is futile, foolish, silly and does not "get us anywhere" +as the slangologists rightly express it. + +Thus everything in the busy commercial world, seemingly bent upon +perpetuating external forms and systems, is in reality a symbolic +language of which "unity" and "within" are the pivotal centers. These +two words are really complementary, because it is only with the +interior nature that unity can be established. + +We may conjoin; combine; contact; cohere. We may form partnerships, +corporations, combinations from the outside. These are external +expressions of the interior desire for unity, but union is of the +interior nature only. + +With the more intimate knowledge of each other which +intercommunication between nations makes general, each little +segregated mass of human beings must sooner or later arrive at the +conclusion that we are very much alike and that to "get together" on +any proposition involving the welfare of all humanity is a much less +costly and a far more satisfactory way of settling matters than by +going to war over it. Not that this idea is yet fixed in the brains of +the majority, but there is creeping into man's cranium a faint thought +that perhaps the survival of the fittest will be best maintained by +peaceful methods; an idea that honor can neither be maintained nor +appeased by shedding blood. This knowledge will bring us to the wise +observation that fundamentally, cosmically there is no place for +enmity between nations and races and classes and the sexes; that the +whole conglomerated mass of hatreds and inherited enmities and +segregated interests; the absurd idea that one part of the world can +permanently prosper by the enslavement of any part; the undeveloped +and savage ideas that underlie our civilization; all these +thought-concepts have no more reality in the cosmic scheme of things, +than have the picture-blocks of the child in the adult life. + +The world has been living through a nightmare. The warfare which +belongs to the animal plane of Man's evolving consciousness has been +carried into the mental world as well. Not only do men fight like +tigers in the jungles, but they fight with tongue and pen as well, +using food products, textile fabrics, inventions, mechanical devices +and the creations of brains of men, for their weapons. But this type +of warfare will not much longer survive. Mankind must choose between +transmutation or annihilation. Hatred is self-destructive. Blind +indeed must be those who can expect to escape this law. "They who use +the sword shall perish by the sword." How else can it be? There is but +one force. If we use it to construct, we are constructed. If we use it +to destroy we are destroyed, since it is by the very nature of law +that we become involved in that which we employ. It is a simple sum in +arithmetic. We may either add or subtract. If we add, there is no +limit. If we subtract we ultimately wipe off the slate. + +The fact is dawning upon an increasing number of thinkers, that even +as brain is superseding brawn in the marts of the world, so there is +still a finer and higher and better force, so potential in its power +that nothing can withstand its melting, merging, unifying motive. That +power is love, without which though we have all else we are but as +"sounding brass and a tinkling cymbal." + +Even as the ferocious man-eating animals have disappeared from the +earth; even as the giant gladiators, the mailed knights, the erotic +pomp and regalia of Imperialism, with their captives chained to their +chariot-wheels; the cruel despots, the tyrannical masters and scourged +slaves; the bloody sacrifices, the horrible games of the +amphitheatres, even as these one-time evidences of alleged +"civilization" have passed away, so too will time see the dissolution +of our own "false gods." Transmuted into pure and perfect love and +peace and equality, the power now misapplied in the work of hate and +destruction, will increase a thousand fold and be directed toward the +maintenance of a balanced world--a world in which Love and Wisdom are +united. + +We are always fearful of changes. The bat-like eyes of the multitude +are blinded by the light of the sun. Why cannot we trust the Cosmic +Law which has always given us a better ideal in the place of the +decadent one? If we prefer to use the word God, then let us say why +cannot we trust God? + +In the external world, then, the idea that a part of this sphere is +inherently antagonistic to another; that men are born enemies; that +the female and the male must forever struggle for supremacy--all these +ideas are disappearing. "Unity" is the password to the coming +civilization. If then we will accept this conclusion and apply it to +our individual selves, we will conclude that no function of the human +organism should merit disapproval; or be regarded as an enemy. Before +we can arrive at a balanced and sane world without, we must come to a +balanced and sane state within our own organism. + +We must know that the sex function, the most vital of all the various +expressions of life in the individual body as well as in the social +body and the racial body, is not an enemy with whom we must maintain +unceasing warfare, but a wise and trustworthy friend with whom we may +safely co-operate, neither repressing this vital force until we have +conquered it and dragged it like a bleeding captive behind our +chariot-wheels, nor should we like the drug-slave become lost in the +clutches of an abnormal appetite. + +Indeed, as the forces of life become transmuted from the physical +appetites to the finer, and interior desires of the soul, +abnormalities and perversions of sex-force will be impossible. + +Sex-force is, at the Center of Being, unpolluted. It is pure, perfect +and harmonious. It is divine. Why? Because it is bi-une; it is +balanced. + +In our present-day lopsided civilization, we find that nearly every +one is lop-sided, and unbalanced. Alienists declare that almost every +man and woman has some hobby or mania. Doubtless this is true. An age +of specialization would incline the race toward "lopsidedness." But +the source of Life is balanced; if we come to the place where we +consciously unite with that interior source we will no longer be +unbalanced, because the central source of life is Sex, and Sex is, at +the center of the radius, bi-une, which is to say balanced. There is +no chance for sex supremacy, for domination, or dispute, or jealousy. +There is equilibrium. + +It is probable that to those who cannot compass the consciousness that +equality does not mean identicalness this sort of balanced life will +appear tame and tasteless. Few women perhaps and certainly fewer men +can imagine a sex-union in which love is so great, so over-powering +and at the same time so perfect, that there is no room for jealousy. +The average person believes that jealousy is inseparable from +sex-love. But even as our antediluvian ancestors could not imagine the +mechanical miracles of the telephone and the telegraph, so we fail to +comprehend the infinite depth and intensity of our interior being +until we come to the place where we awake from the sleep of the mortal +and glimpse the heights of the immortal life. + +No one can give to another this interior wisdom--this philosopher's +stone, by means of which all baser instincts are transmuted into the +pure golden-tinted light of illumination. He can but point the way and +promise that the results are mathematically proportionate to effort, +and effort will be backed by individual desire. + +We do not hold, as do many writers dealing with the physiological side +of the subject of Sex, that the sex function is primarily designed for +purposes of procreation and that any other expression of sex is +contrary to nature. The essential function of sex is to vitalize. +Procreation is one of the uses of sex-love, but it is not its primary +function. + +Until men and women have absolute control over their sex impulses they +are still on the plane of sense-consciousness; and as long as they +remain only sense-conscious they miss the very thing that they seek. +All that is pleasureable in sex-contact that reaches any man or woman +who is only sense-conscious is no more than a faint echo of the +ecstacy of divine and perfect love which is known to the spiritual +alchemist, who has discovered the art of transmutation and thus found +the key to the gate of eternal life. + +As long as we remain limited to the plane of sense-consciousness, old +age is a blessing. It compels transmutation of the love-nature into +interior channels. By the failure of the physical organism to express +the sex-desires, this force is given an opportunity to become +transmuted into higher, finer and more intense and beautiful thoughts. +It takes on whatever quality of soul we have acquired and it fosters +that quality--be it much or little--so that we may not go into the +interior realms a spiritual pauper. + +Even as our physical childhood is a prelude to mental adultship, so +old age, our "second childhood," is a prelude to our soul adultship, +and the character of our old age period is prophetic of our state in +the soul life. + +There are some extremely aged persons whom we cannot, if we have any +degree of interior vision, classify as old; the youth and beauty and +love-radiance of their interior nature is so potent that it shines +through the worn and wrinkled garment that covers it; and we know that +when that garment shall have been removed by the hands of Death, that +the soul will be clothed in radiant youth and beauty, and light. + +This is indeed the esoteric cause of the widespread repudiation of a +mental recognition of age. + +"I am seventy years young" says the man who hopes for eternal youth +and life; and if he says it from the standpoint of wisdom--the wisdom +that knows himself an immortal soul fired by pure and holy spiritual +love, then indeed his words are truly symbolical. + +But if he utters them merely in desperate defiance of organic decay, +they are empty and he will enter the after-life, even as he leaves +this one, without having attained that which he craves. + +This truth is an integral part of the cosmos, from which there is no +appeal; no reprieve; no immunity, no "respecter of persons." The law +is absolute and it is also just. Pure and perfect love is the price of +immortal life. There is no other "coin of the realm." + +"But," questions the initiate, "why cannot those who know, if there be +such in the world today, give us this mystical formula? Why do they +not tell us how we may reach this desirable state of spiritual +sex-love, which affords such divine happiness to those who find it?" +The query is pertinent and the desire is natural; the doubt of its +reality is consistent, yet we are constrained to say that in the very +nature of such inquiry the disciple of the Hidden Wisdom voices his +unreadiness for _Illumination_. The desire for self-gratification, +though right and natural to the sense-conscious plane, is yet inimical +to attainment of spiritual consciousness. + +There is a spiritual message in the persistently inculcated doctrine +of sacrifice. It is not that a Supreme Being desires sacrifice, or +gifts, or adulation, or homage, or worship, or that any power glories +in our unhappiness. It is not that we may purchase any spiritual thing +by giving up something which we prize, but it is because our spirit +becomes attuned to the central source of Life by means of our +willingness to perform what to the sense-conscious plane of existence +seems a sacrifice. + +"He sought for others the good he desired for himself; let him pass +on" is the Egyptian phrasing of the Golden Rule, and this states it as +clearly as it can be stated. + +Yet should any one take this truism as an unfailing formula and expect +to enter the golden gate of eternal life because of obedience to the +letter of the pass-word, he would fail. Altruism _is_; it is not mere +recognition of a word. + +We may presuppose another natural and instinctive query: "If then only +by union with one's true mate one can enter the bliss of eternal life +and love, should not we drop every other responsibility, sever all +ties of relationship, give up wife or husband or family or work, and +search for the one perfect complementary, finding which, is found the +answer to all life's problems?" + +Again we can only say that the seeker would be disappointed. We should +remember the story of Sir Launfall. Returning from the unfruitful +quest of long years for the Holy Grail (the golden chalice), he +learned the lesson of Truth from the beggar at his own door to whom he +gave the cup of cold water _without any consciousness of doing a good +deed_; without hope of thereby finding the grail. + +He who seeks with the selfish thought of securing for self any good +will not find it though he should give away every farthing to the +poor; though he should never permit one unkind word to pass his lips; +though he should fast and scourge and deny the flesh; kneel all day +and all night in prayer. As long as he holds to the thought of self +and of _obtaining_ something so long will he miss the _attainment_. + +Spiritual insight establishes two facts beyond cavil or dispute or +reversion. One is that God's laws cannot be broken. We are not trying +to say that they should not be broken; or that they cannot be broken +with impunity; or that if broken we shall be punished. They simply +cannot be broken--they are unbreakable. + +We cannot buy or sell or beg or steal or borrow or take as a gift, or +in any wise acquire immortal godhood, except by attaining it any more +than we can come to physical manhood or womanhood except by growing to +it; and by the same law no one can keep it from us; neither priest nor +scribe; neither prophet nor inventor. We are a law unto ourselves. No +one can break the law of your being any more than you can break that +of another. No power on earth or in the celestial spheres or in the +intervening spaces can keep that which is our own from us. Wherefore +then, should we tear ourselves and each other with strife and jealousy +and wounded honor and outraged marriage vows, when either partner to a +marriage contract sees fit to sever that relationship? + +If you lose out in what you believed to be love, be sure that the +object of your desires was not yours to lose; in all the spheres there +is only one who is yours by divine right and no one can by any +possibility usurp your place in the final issue; and that place once +found no one can oust you from it. But remember what we have said in +previous chapters of the word "found;" it is from within. + +How vain and how foolish it is to think that a power so stupendous, so +magnificent and so beneficent as to project this immense panorama of +life; to establish such marvelous diversity within such simple unity; +to bestow the bliss of love, could make a mistake. How puerile has +been the teaching that we can sin against the Eternal God. We need not +worry about the Supreme and Eternal Power. "The dice of God are +loaded." Our concern is with ourselves, lest we imagine that we may +cheat in the game of life. + +We are self-centered, free-willed; immune from any possibility of +offending the universe. The whole problem of life and death, in so far +as it relates to our individual selves, is "up to us." We can delay +arrival at the goal of our desires; we can dally by the wayside if we +will. Only our own loss, our own suffering, our own unsatisfied +longing shall punish us. But who is so stupid that he would remain +wandering in the bleak and barren desert, when he might by a turn of +his hand enter fields Elysian and merge his soul into the boundless +areas of infinite bliss and wisdom? + +We should not imagine that death will do this for us. Death is nothing +more phenomenal than withdrawing from one room to another. The soul +may strive on for ages through many incarnations. Only one thing can +free it; and that is love; love for others than the personal self. The +broader and deeper the love nature, the wider it reaches out to enfold +in its tender protection all living things, the more nearly divine we +become, and the sooner will we touch the area of the spiritual and +attract our own. + +It is evident that self-seeking even for so worthy a possession as +one's own counterpart defeats the very effort. We are not to seek; we +are only to prepare ourselves to be ready and worthy; when we shall +have done this, nothing can withhold our own from us; not though the +two halves of the One Being are separated by all the barriers which +the sense-conscious race of men have erected between themselves and +the bliss of Heaven. Says Emerson: "What is thine, will gravitate to +thee." We need not therefore go about apprehensively fearful lest we +lose that which belongs to us; in so doing we are apt to keep our eyes +glued to the earth, thus forgetting that it is from the higher realms +of vibration "whence cometh our light." + +Says Emerson: "O, believe as thou livest, that every sound that is +spoken over the round world which thou oughtest to hear will vibrate +on thine ear. Every proverb, every book, every by-word that belongs to +thee for aid or comfort, shall surely come home through open or +winding passages. Every friend whom not thy fantastic will, but the +great and tender heart in thee craveth, shall lock thee in his +embrace. And this because the great and tender heart in thee is the +heart of all; not a valve, not a wall, not an intersection is there +anywhere in nature, but one blood rolls uninterruptedly, an endless +circulation through all men as the water of the globe is all one sea, +and truly seen its tide is one." + +Here then are specific and trustworthy statements for the further +enlightenment of the student of the problems of Sex. Like algebraical +propositions they prove themselves when correctly solved. Immortal +godhood is attained by counterpartal union, because the Central Source +of Life is bi-une. Immortality is our spiritual birthright, but we +must claim it if we would consciously realize this truth. + +God is the bi-une creative principle, and we are literally and in +truth the "image and likeness" of this bi-une Being. Not one +hermaphroditic personality but a pair. A pair is one whole, even +though each of the pair is distinct in form and diverse in temperament +and qualities. We are especially emphatic upon this point because +there has been so much vague and speculative theorizing upon this +definition of a bi-une Being. Your perfect mate is distinctively +masculine or distinctively feminine in sex as the case may be; and he +or she is your mate because of this perfection of distinctiveness. + +Our former ideas of femininity and of masculinity were faulty. Woman +is not less but much more womanly, if she has exchanged fear for +courage; deceit for truthfulness; ill-health for vitality; +helplessness for helpfulness. Even as a man is more manly when he +spares the nesting birds where formerly he ruthlessly destroyed; when +he unites protection with bravery; when he knows sympathy from +weakness; when he combines sentiment with principle; and gentleness +with vigor. + +No mortal can by any possibility break the laws of God. Therefore you +are not to try to enforce your ideas of morality upon others. Who has +constituted you book-keeper for the universe? You are to concern +yourself with establishing happiness upon this earth. + +You are to see to it that your love is big and broad enough; +all-inclusive enough to wish to see every one happy from your +immediate family to your far-off neighbor in Central Africa. You need +not worry about whether they break the moral code as you see it. You +are to render love and service to this world with all your heart and +all your power; if you do this, you will reach the goal of your +desires. + +No mortal can by any other method than love and the service that is +rendered through love seek and find the "Holy Grail," which is to say +the bliss of spiritual union with his Beloved. Therefore to fly from +the responsibilities and the environment in which you are, without +regard to the welfare of others, is to defeat your own quest; neither +do we claim that you should under all circumstances remain chained to +a post like an unwilling captive, poisoning your mind with resentment +and hatred. + +There is no one formula which fits all cases--other than that given in +love and service. The Golden Rule which tells us to do unto others as +we would have them do unto us, has another side to its shield, and it +may read "Do not permit others to do unto you what you would not do to +them." If you seek freedom from a specific environment from no other +motive than personal selfishness, you may be doing yourself an +injury; but if you are also doing an injury to others by remaining, +then you are doubly mistaken in your course. + +The way of attainment is not easy, although the formula is simple; it +may be briefly but concisely summed up in the vital and important word +"unselfishness." "Not mine but thine also," is the watchword of the +wise in love. Not possession of the Beloved One, but union with him or +her. There is just one big world of difference between these two +points of view. More than that, there is the difference of Heaven and +Hell. + + + + + CHAPTER XII + + "SELLING THE THRONES OF ANGELS" + + +Great as may seem to the sense-conscious person the pleasure and +satisfaction of owning some one, or some thing; of possessing and +feeling a proprietorship in the one desired; greater by a million-fold +is the pleasure of union which is possible only to those who are +themselves free, and who in consequence desire freedom for all others. +This is a truth which the unwise cannot comprehend or concur in, and +which they will not believe or trust. + +Emerson says: "Every personal consideration that we allow costs us +heavenly state. We sell the thrones of angels for a short and +turbulent pleasure." + +And finally, as regards the sex-function, we would like to impress +upon every one, though only those who are fit for the kingdom will +understand the truth, namely that the highest manifestation of +sex-love is not localized in the organs of procreation. The love that +is of the soul fills the breast first of all, and is only felt in the +region popularly, but erroneously, supposed to circumscribe the +sex-function, as a secondary and by no means compulsory consideration. + +When the sex force has become diffused throughout the entire being, +radiating from the solar man, and permeating the mind and thus +entering into the mortal body which is only a covering of the mind +physical copulation becomes a well-trained servant of the will, and is +found to be a natural, but yet secondary complement. Sex is not +confined to the specialized sex-organs. It permeates the entire being. +The person who has no conception of his reality other than as a +physical entity has not so much as touched the area of spiritual +ecstacy which has been alluded to as "the nectar of the gods;" and so +infinitely fine and perfect is the plan of Creation that he can not do +so until he is fit; and never can he be fit as long as he remains upon +the sense-conscious plane and seeks by sexual perversity and +debauchery and sexual insanities to touch that exquisite perfection of +joy which he intuitively knows evades him. + +Thus the sensual man is caught is a beneficent trap; a wise and just +and merciful Power has so placed the "Holy of Holies," that it cannot +be defiled; it cannot be reached; it cannot be desecrated. It is +forever removed from the touch of the unworthy. No man can hope to +express the creative power, the sexual realization of a god, through +the functions which are not higher in consciousness than those of the +animal. + +Would you attain to the status of the divine man? If so, do not +imagine for a moment that the divine man is less vital than your puny +physical powers would suggest. Neither should you imagine that the +sex-function, even in its lowest state (lowest because most lacking in +love-consciousness), is anything but pure and clean and right and +normal in itself; the attitude of the average man and woman invests it +with all its uncleanness. + +But with all the vile thought which the undeveloped mind has indulged +in respecting the sex-relation; with all the man-made laws arrayed +against it as though it were criminal, and the teachings of the Church +denying its spiritual origin and perpetuation; with women selling it +in the public markets for their physical maintenance, nothing less +than the fact of the eternality and universality of Sex, as the divine +fulcrum of manifestation, can account for the fact that the poor +little bi-une Love-god is after all coming to be recognized as the +hope and savior of Mankind. + +If you would have eternal youth and eternal life and love and wisdom, +accept this truth, because nothing else can, or will, save you from +the "slings and arrows of outrageous fortune." + +Another vague query presents itself to the would-be initiate, and we +would like to leave this chapter with no misunderstandings; no +misconceptions; no misleading statements, because that which we are +here stating is not theory. It is the one eternal, undying, simple and +unescapable truth which has withstood the onslaughts of time and +ignorance. + +The query comes and although it has been answered in previous chapters +we will again state it, so that there may be no mistake: If the +balance is found in counterpartal sex-union--the one man and the one +woman uniting on the solar plane--would not this balance be maintained +if only one of the two reached the higher planes of consciousness; in +other words, would not the balance be struck by extreme purity on the +one hand and extreme impurity on the other? + +Again we are reminded that the law of the cosmos is wise; that there +are no mistakes nor flaws in the cosmic scheme. The answer is that the +union is one of complementaries, and not of antitheses. Each one must +be balanced, the nature rounded, the soul awake before union is +possible. Thus we are saved from ourselves. We cannot, if we would, +really gain at the expense of another, although in temporary things we +may appear to do so, because the rich grow richer at the expense of +the poor; the tyrant ruler maintains his power at the expense of +serfs; but doubt not that _eternal equation_ is perfect. + +There is still another query: If true sex-union is of the soul, what +is to prevent soul-mates from finding each other at the moment of +death, regardless of their fitness for godhood, and thus +circumventing, as it were, the plan of Creation, which would compel +each one to earn the prize of eternal life? + +The same law governs the interior planes as the exterior. The +realization of consciousness is not a capricious matter any more than +is the law of physical growth. A man might be in the presence of +untold wealth, but if he had not the consciousness to know and realize +values, he would remain poor, even though by a wave of his hand he +might command millions. One might give a blind man a check for a +million dollars, and if he had no others means of knowing what it was, +he might easily imagine it to be worthless. Death does not bestow +wisdom. Wisdom is acquired. Love is a self-generator. + +If you would follow the law of transmutation and acquire the throne of +angelhood, get busy within the laboratory of your own mind. Take the +crucible of Thought and begin to work interiorly upon the common, +everyday things that present themselves in your environment. This is +the only way of transmutation. Love grows by feeding upon itself, and +the sacrifices and the kindnesses that are bestowed in love without +thought of personal benefit grow into the flood of golden light and +love of the spiritual realms. + +The chief virtue in any one's pursuit of philosophy, or of esoteric +wisdom, and in methods of attainment, is found in the fact that such +effort is proof of earnest desire to attain. Emerson says that the +principal benefit of a college education is to teach the student that +he does not need a college education. This estimate of the value of +years of study seems at first glance a sarcastic one, but it is not. +If this wisdom can be acquired in no other way, then even so it were +well worth the price. If the student can learn that much love is the +price of transmutation only after exhausting every other method, what +does it matter, so that he finally learns it? + +_Learn to look into the hearts of men._ + +At first sight, everything on the busy city street is a part of a +moving panorama; but an intimate view, when you get in touch with +segregated parts of the panorama, discloses the interior nature; the +hopes and the fears; the aspirations and the longings and the +heartaches and the joys of the entities composing the whole moving +picture. + +You notice a little female figure; her cheeks are pinked to a hue +rivalling the American beauty rose; her lips are carmined like a +clowns and her eyebrows penciled too obviously. Her cheap little dress +is amateurishly cut in imitation of "the latest." Your first impulse, +perhaps, is to scorn her as a "brazen" creature of the streets; but if +you will suspend judgment and look a little closer, you may see that +her eyes are, in their depths, those of a child, for all her seeming +experience. Her brazenness is perhaps only the armor which she has +donned to hide a turbulent heart--the dowry of centuries of +grandmothers who longed for one glimpse of freedom; of the right to +comb their hair as they liked; to powder their faces if they wanted +to; to run and jump and laugh and dance and be innocently free and +happy without the fear of shocking that bugbear Respectability, and +the tyrant Decorum, which insisted that a woman's legs must be +carefully concealed on penalty of being adjudged "immodest." + +Those poor reviled, execrated and vigilantly-concealed legs of our +fore-mothers! They are crying aloud for vindication, and they will be +heard wherever the line of least resistance affords a channel for +their freedom. And so, instead of blaming the poor little painted doll +of a woman, look into her heart. You will discover that she is bent on +having two things long denied womankind--freedom and happiness. If she +is foredoomed to failure on the route she has chosen, that is all the +more reason why you should withhold censure and give freely of your +help and sympathy. + +"_Learn to look into the hearts of men._" + +Learn to see beneath the appearance. The old Italian organ-grinder +doing his best to please you with his wheezy hurdy-gurdy is not just +an old organ-grinder. He is also a man with emotions and feelings and +longings and hopes identical in substance with your own; no matter if +the organ is out of tune. Learn to hear the _spirit_ of the aria or +the intermezzo. + +And behold! There is a bunch of noisy, dirty, slangy and bold +street-arabs--at least that is what they look like from the outside. +But learn to look within. There you will find the cause of their +appearance, and when you have found the cause you will sympathize with +them. If you can get back to the underlying cause of the +manifestations of life, you will never fail to sympathize with the +condition you may find, even though you find the cause rooted in +crime. + +You do not have to agree with the criminal in order to sympathize with +his misery. If you have the inner vision, which you must have if you +would transmute the baser metals into pure gold and find the key to +immortal life and love, you will never fail to understand and to +sympathize with every point of view. "Whoever walks a furlong without +sympathy walks to his own funeral." + +Don't imagine for one moment that you have to go to the Himalayas to +find the inner vision; or that you will obtain the key to the Hidden +Mysteries by shutting yourself in a monastery. Wherever you are, you +must lose sight of yourself. Not the higher Self of Reality, but the +lesser self of the carnal, or sense-conscious plane--the personality +that conceals _you_. And above all, you are not to regard this +personality as an enemy to be scourged and beaten and reviled. It is, +or it should be, a willing, and helpful servant of your soul even as +we say "the hand is the servant of the brain." If your hand becomes +unruly and does not obey your brain, train it to do so, don't cut it +off, even though the Bible does appear to tell you to--why should the +men who wrote in that far-off time know more of Truth than we of a +later century? + +You may imagine that you need to belong to some "Brotherhood," in +order to learn the secrets of alchemical transmutation. There is +nothing of the Great Wisdom which can be taught you, which you cannot +learn of yourself if you will look within and unite with the heart of +the world. + +There is no wisdom higher than love; and there is no power greater +than love; and there is no heaven happier than love and there is no +God holier than love. If you will take this for your creed you will +readily see that it is for you to think love into those things that +appear to lack it; think purity into those things that appear impure; +think unity into those things that appear separated; and taking the +lesson home to your own intimate conduct of life, invest the +expression of your sex with the pure and lofty and holy power God gave +to it, or refrain from the thought of sex until you can learn to do +so. + +Says a modern writer: "If you are still so out of tune with the +Infinite as to harbor any thought of evil or shame in connection with +the specialized organs and functions of sex, let this illumination +from on high cast that devil out of your cosmos forever. And if you +turn away with soul offended from even 'the slimy gendering of the +toad,' you dishonor God who once knew no higher creative formula and +still blesses it with His fruitful presence." + +And finally do not make the too common mistake of confounding +brazenness with freedom from shame and self-condemnation. + +Whatever of beauty and purity and joy has come to you in this life has +come because of the divinity of Sex. If you have been wise enough to +know this, and have reverenced it and purified your mind in respect to +that function of your being, you will not cheapen it by parading the +subject before those who have no idealism, any more than you would +"cast pearls before swine;" you will not countenance jokes and ribald +songs; you will not indulge in promiscuousness; but instead you will +fold it within the sacred intimacy of your heart's divine altar, as +something too beautiful, too holy for the garish light of the +un-tender day. + +If you have taken into your consciousness the divinity of Sex, you +will desire unity and disdain possession, knowing that whatever of +Heaven is vouchsafed Mankind here is but a shadow of the reality of +spiritual realization of the function of Sex. You will respect the +physical body as the handiwork of the Creative Principle of the +universe, respecting the sacredness of human life and liberty. 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