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FOR PUBLIC DOMAIN ETEXTS*Ver.04.29.93*END* + + + + + +Prepared by David Reed haradda@aol.com or davidr@inconnect.com + + + + + +Treatises on Friendship and Old Age + +by Marcus Tullius Cicero + + + + +Translated by E S Shuckburgh + + + + +INTRODUCTORY NOTE + +MARCUS TULLIUS CICERO, the greatest of Roman orators and +the chief master of Latin prose style, was born at Arpinum, Jan. +3,106 B.C. His father, who was a man of property and belonged +to the class of the "Knights," moved to Rome when Cicero was a +child; and the future statesman received an elaborate education in +rhetoric, law, and philosophy, studying and practising under some +of the most noted teachers of the time. He began his career as an +advocate at the age of twenty-five, and almost immediately came +to be recognized not only as a man of brilliant talents but also as a +courageous upholder of justice in the face of grave political +danger. After two years of practice he left Rome to travel in +Greece and Asia, taking all the opportunities that offered to study +his art under distinguished masters. He returned to Rome greatly +improved in health and in professional skill, and in 76 B. C. was +elected to the office of quaestor. He was assigned to the province +of Lilybarum in Sicily, and the vigor and justice of his +administration earned him the gratitude of the inhabitants. It was +at their request that he undertook in 70 B. C. the Prosecution of +Verres, who as Praetor had subjected the Sicilians to incredible +extortion and oppression; and his successful conduct of this case, +which ended in the conviction and banishment of Verres, may be +said to have launched him on his political career. He became +aedile in the same year, in 67 B.C. praetor, and in 64 B. C. was +elected consul by a large majority. The most important event of the +year of his consulship was the conspiracy of Catiline. This +notorious criminal of patrician rank had conspired with a number +of others, many of them young men of high birth but dissipated +character, to seize the chief offices of the state, and to extricate +themselves from the pecuniary and other difficulties that had +resulted from their excesses, by the wholesale plunder of the city. +The plot was unmasked by the vigilance of Cicero, five of the +traitors were summarily executed, and in the overthrow of the +army that had been gathered in their support Catiline himself +perished. Cicero regarded himself as the savior of his country, and +his country for the moment seemed to give grateful assent. + +But reverses were at hand. During the existence of the political +combination of Pompey, Caesar, and Crassus, known as the first +triumvirate, P. Clodius, an enemy of Cicero's, proposed a law +banishing "any one who had put Roman citizens to death without +trial." This was aimed at Cicero on account of his share in the +Catiline affair, and in March, 58 B. C., he left Rome. The same +day a law was passed by which he was banished by name, and his +property was plundered and destroyed, a temple to Liberty being +erected on the site of his house in the city. During his exile +Cicero's manliness to some extent deserted him. He drifted from +place to place, seeking the protection of officials against +assassination, writing letters urging his supporters to agitate for his +recall, sometimes accusing them of lukewarmness and even +treachery, bemoaning the ingratitude of his' country or regretting +the course of action that had led to his outlawry, and suffering +from extreme depression over his separation from his wife and +children and the wreck of his political ambitions. Finally in +August, 57 B. C., the decree for his restoration was passed, and he +returned to Rome the next month, being received with immense +popular enthusiasm. During the next few years the renewal of the +understanding among the triumvirs shut Cicero out from any +leading part in politics, and he resumed his activity in the +law-courts, his most important case being, perhaps, the defence of +Milo for the murder. of Clodius, Cicero's most troublesome +enemy. This oration, in the revised form in which it has come +down to us, is ranked as among the finest specimens of the art of +the orator, though in its original form it failed to secure Milo's +acquittal. Meantime, Cicero was also devoting much time to +literary composition, and his letters show great dejection over the +political situation, and a somewhat wavering attitude towards the +various parties in the state. In 55 B. C. he went to Cilicia in Asia +Minor as proconsul, an office which he administered with +efficiency and integrity in civil affairs and with success in military. +He returned to Italy in the end of the following year, and he was +publicly thanked by the senate for his services, but disappointed in +his hopes for a triumph. The war for supremacy between Caesar +and Pompey which had for some time been gradually growing +more certain, broke out in 49 B.C., when Caesar led his army +across the Rubicon, and Cicero after much irresolution threw in his +lot with Pompey, who was overthrown the next year in the battle +of Pharsalus and later murdered in Egypt. Cicero returned to Italy, +where Caesar treated him magnanimously, and for some time he +devoted himself to philosophical and rhetorical writing. In 46 B.C. +he divorced his wife Terentia, to whom he had been married for +thirty years and married the young and wealthy Publilia in order to +relieve himself from financial difficulties; but her also he shortly +divorced. Caesar, who had now become supreme in Rome, was +assassinated in 44 B.C., and though Cicero was not a sharer in the +conspiracy, he seems to have approved the deed. In the confusion +which followed he supported the cause of the conspirators against +Antony; and when finally the triumvirate of Antony, Octavius, and +Lepidus was established, Cicero was included among the +proscribed, and on December 7, 43 B.C., he was killed by agents +of Antony. His head and hand were cut off and exhibited at Rome. + +The most important orations of the last months of his life were the +fourteen "Philippics" delivered against Antony, and the price of +this enmity he paid with his life. + +To his contemporaries Cicero was primarily the great forensic and +political orator of his time, and the fifty-eight speeches which have +come down to us bear testimony to the skill, wit, eloquence, and +Passion which gave him his pre-eminence. But these speeches of +necessity deal with the minute details of the occasions which +called them forth, and so require for their appreciation a full +knowledge of the history, political and personal, of the time. The +letters, on the other hand, are less elaborate both in style and in the +handling of current events, while they serve to reveal his +personality, and to throw light upon Roman life in the last days of +the Republic in an extremely vivid fashion. Cicero as a man, in +spite of his self-importance, the vacillation of his political conduct +in desperate crises, and the whining despondency of his times of +adversity, stands out as at bottom a patriotic Roman of substantial +honesty, who gave his life to check the inevitable fall of the +commonwealth to which he was devoted. The evils which were +undermining the Republic bear so many striking resemblances to +those which threaten the civic and national life of America to-day +that the interest of the period is by no means merely historical. + +As a philosopher, Cicero's most important function was to make +his countrymen familiar with the main schools of Greek thought. +Much of this writing is thus of secondary interest to us in +comparison with his originals, but in the fields of religious theory +and of the application of philosophy to life he made important +first-hand contributions. From these works have been selected the +two treatises, on Old Age and on Friendship, which have proved of +most permanent and widespread interest to posterity, and which +give a clear impression of the way in which a high-minded Roman +thought about some of the main problems' of human life. + +On Friendship +by Marcus Tullius Cicero translated by E. S. Shuckburgh + +THE augur Quintus Mucius Scaevola used to recount a number of +stories about his father-in-law Galus Laelius, accurately +remembered and charmingly told; and whenever he talked about +him always gave him the title of "the wise" without any hesitation. +I had been introduced by my father to Scaevola as soon as I had +assumed the _toga virilis_, and I took advantage of the +introduction never to quit the venerable man's side as long as I was +able to stay and he was spared to us. The consequence was that I +committed to memory many disquisitions of his, as well as many +short pointed apophthegms, and, in short, took as much advantage +of his wisdom as I could. When he died, I attached myself to +Scaevola the Pontifex, whom I may venture to call quite the most +distinguished of our countrymen for ability and uprightness. But +of this latter I shall take other occasions to speak. To return to +Scaevola the augur. Among many other occasions I particularly +remember one. He was sitting on a semicircular garden-bench, as +was his custom, when I and a very few intimate friends were there, +and he chanced to turn the conversation upon a subject which +about that time was in many people's mouths. You must +remember, Atticus, for you were very intimate with Publius +Sulpicius, what expressions of astonishment, or even indignation, +were called forth by his mortal quarrel, as tribune, with the consul +Quintus Pompeius, with whom he had formerly lived on terms of +the closest intimacy and affection. Well, on this occasion, +happening to mention this particular circumstance, Scaevola +detailed to us a discourse of Laelius on friendship delivered to +himself and Laelius's other son-in-law Galus Fannius, son of +Marcus Fannius, a few days after the death of Africanus. The +points of that discussion I committed to memory, and have +arranged them in this book at my own discretion. For I have +brought the speakers, as it were, personally on to my stage to +prevent the constant "said I" and "said he" of a narrative, and to +give the discourse the air of being orally delivered in our hearing. + +You have often urged me to write something on Friendship, and I +quite acknowledged that the subject seemed one worth everybody's +investigation, and specially suited to the close intimacy that has +existed between you and me. Accordingly I was quite ready to +benefit the public at your request. + +As to the _dramatis personae_. In the treatise on Old Age, which I +dedicated to you, I introduced Cato as chief speaker. No one, I +thought, could with greater propriety speak on old age than one +who had been an old man longer than any one else, and had been +exceptionally vigorous in his old age. Similarly, having learnt from +tradition that of all friendships that between Gaius Laelius and +Publius Scipio was the most remarkable, I thought Laelius was just +the person to support the chief part in a discussion on friendship +which Scaevola remembered him to have actually taken. +Moreover, a discussion of this sort gains somehow in weight from +the authority of men of ancient days, especially if they happen to +have been distinguished. So it comes about that in reading over +what I have myself written I have a feeling at times that it is +actually Cato that is speaking, not I. + +Finally, as I sent the former essay to you as a gift from one old +man to another, so I have dedicated this _On Friendship_ as a most +affectionate friend to his friend. In the former Cato spoke, who +was the oldest and wisest man of his day; in this Laelius speaks on +friendship-Laelius, who was at once a wise man (that was the title +given him) and eminent for his famous friendship. Please forget +me for a while; imagine Laelius to be speaking. + +Gaius Fannius and Quintus Mucius come to call on their +father-in-law after the death of Africanus. They start the subject; +Laelius answers them. And the whole essay on friendship is his. In +reading it you will recognise a picture of yourself. + +2. _Fannius_. You are quite right, Laelius! there never was a better +or more illustrious character than Africanus. But you should +consider that at the present moment all eyes are on you. Everybody +calls you "the wise" _par excellence_, and thinks you so. The same +mark of respect was lately paid Cato, and we know that in the last +generation Lucius Atilius was called "the wise." But in both cases +the word was applied with a certain difference. Atilius was so +called from his reputation as a jurist; Cato got the name as a kind +of honorary title and in extreme old age because of his varied +experience of affairs, and his reputation for foresight and firmness, +and the sagacity of the opinions which he delivered in senate and +forum. You, however, are regarded as wise in a somewhat +different sense not alone on account of natural ability and +character, but also from your industry and learning; and not in the +sense in which the vulgar, but that in which scholars, give that +title. In this sense we do not read of any one being called wise in +Greece except one man at Athens; and he, to be sure, had been +declared by the oracle of Apollo also to be "the supremely wise +man." For those who commonly go by the name of the Seven +Sages are not admitted into the category of the wise by fastidious +critics. Your wisdom people believe to consist in this, that you +look upon yourself as self-sufficing and regard the changes and +chances of mortal life as powerless to affect your virtue. +Accordingly they are always asking me, and doubtless also our +Scaevola here, how you bear the death of Africanus. This curiosity +has been the more excited from the fact that on the Nones of this +month, when we augurs met as usual in the suburban villa of +Decimus Brutus for consultation, you were not present, though it +had always been your habit to keep that appointment and perform +that duty with the utmost punctuality. + +_Scaevola_. Yes, indeed, Laelius, I am often asked the question +mentioned by Fannius. But I answer in accordance with what I +have observed: I say that you bear in a reasonable manner the grief +which you have sustained in the death of one who was at once a +man of the most illustrious character and a very dear friend. That +of course you could not but be affected-anything else would have +been wholly unnatural in a man of your gentle nature-but that the +cause of your non-attendance at our college meeting was illness, +not melancholy. + +_Laelius_. Thanks, Scaevola! You are quite right; you spoke the +exact truth. For in fact I had no right to allow myself to be +withdrawn from a duty which I had regularly performed, as long as +I was well, by any personal misfortune; nor do I think that anything +that can happen will cause a man of principle to intermit a duty. +As for your telling me, Fannius, of the honourable appellation +given me (an appellation to which I do not recognise my title, and +to which I make no claim), you doubtless act from feelings of +affection; but I must say that you seem to me to do less than justice +to Cato. If any one was ever "wise,"-of which I have my doubts,-he +was. Putting aside everything else, consider how he bore his son's +death! I had not forgotten Paulus; I had seen with my own eyes +Gallus. But they lost their sons when mere children; Cato his +when he was a full-grown man with an assured reputation. Do not +therefore be in a hurry to reckon as Cato's superior even that same +famous personage whom Apollo, as you say, declared to be "the +wisest." Remember the former's reputation rests on deeds, the +latter's on words. + +3. Now, as far as I am concerned (I speak to both of you now), +believe me the case stands thus. If I were to say that I am not +affected by regret for Scipio, I must leave the philosophers to +justify my conduct, but in point of fact I should be telling a lie. +Affected of course I am by the loss of a friend as I think there will +never be again, such as I can fearlessly say there never was before. +But I stand in no need of medicine. I can find my own consolation, +and it consists chiefly in my being free from the mistaken notion +which generally causes pain at the departure of friends. To Scipio I +am convinced no evil has befallen mine is the disaster, if disaster +there be; and to be severely distressed at one's own misfortunes +does not show that you love your friend, but that you love yourself. + +As for him, who can say that all is not more than well? For, unless +he had taken the fancy to wish for immortality, the last thing of +which he ever thought, what is there for which mortal man may +wish that he did not attain? In his early manhood he more than +justified by extraordinary personal courage the hopes which his +fellow-citizens had conceived of him as a child. He never was a +candidate for the consulship, yet was elected consul twice: the first +time before the legal age; the second at a time which, as far as he +was concerned, was soon enough, but was near being too late for +the interests of the State. By the overthrow of two cities which +were the most bitter enemies of our Empire, he put an end not only +to the wars then raging, but also to the possibility of others in the +future. What need to mention the exquisite grace of his manners, +his dutiful devotion to his mother, his generosity to his sisters, his +liberality to his relations, the integrity of his conduct to every one? +You know all this already. Finally, the estimation in which his +fellow-citizens held him has been shown by the signs of mourning +which accompanied his obsequies. What could such a man have +gained by the addition of a few years? Though age need not be a +burden,-as I remember Cato arguing in the presence of myself and +Scipio two years before he died,-yet it cannot but take away the +vigour and freshness which Scipio was still enjoying. We may +conclude therefore that his life, from the good fortune which had +attended him and the glory he had obtained, was so circumstanced +that it could not be bettered, while the suddenness of his death +saved him the sensation of dying. As to the manner of his death it +is difficult to speak; you see what people suspect. Thus much, +however, I may say: Scipio in his lifetime saw many days of +supreme triumph and exultation, but none more magnificent than +his last, on which, upon the rising of the Senate, he was escorted +by the senators and the people of Rome, by the allies, and by the +Latins, to his own door. From such an elevation of popular esteem +the next step seems naturally to be an ascent to the gods above, +rather than a descent to Hades. + +4. For I am not one of these modern philosophers who maintain +that our souls perish with our bodies, and that death ends all. With +me ancient opinion has more weight: whether it be that of our own +ancestors, who attributed such solemn observances to the dead, as +they plainly would not have done if they had believed them to be +wholly annihilated; or that of the philosophers who once visited +this country, and who by their maxims and doctrines educated +Magna Graecia, which at that time was in a flourishing condition, +though it has now been ruined; or that of the man who was +declared by Apollo's oracle to be "most wise," and who used to +teach without the variation which is to be found in most +philosophers that "the souls of men are divine, and that when they +have quitted the body a return to heaven is open to them, least +difficult to those who have been most virtuous and just." This +opinion was shared by Scipio. Only a few days before his death-as +though he had a presentiment of what was coming-he discoursed +for three days on the state of the republic. The company consisted +of Philus and Manlius and several others, and I had brought you, +Scaevola, along with me. The last part of his discourse referred +principally to the immortality of the soul; for he told us what he +had heard from the elder Africanus in a dream. Now if it be true +that in proportion to a man's goodness the escape from what may +be called the prison and bonds of the flesh is easiest, whom can we +imagine to have had an easier voyage to the gods than Scipio? I am +disposed to think, therefore, that in his case mourning would be a +sign of envy rather than of friendship. If, however, the truth rather +is that the body and soul perish together, and that no sensation +remains, then though there is nothing good in death, at least there +is nothing bad. Remove sensation, and a man is exactly as though +he had never been born; and yet that this man was born is a joy to +me, and will be a subject of rejoicing to this State to its last hour. + +Wherefore, as I said before, all is as well as possible with him. Not +so with me; for as I entered life before him, it would have been +fairer for me to leave it also before him. Yet such is the pleasure I +take in recalling our friendship, that I look upon my life as having +been a happy one because I have spent it with Scipio. With him I +was associated in public and private business; with him I lived in +Rome and served abroad; and between us there was the most +complete harmony in our tastes, our pursuits, and our sentiments, +which is the true secret of friendship. It is not therefore in that +reputation for wisdom mentioned just now by Fannius-especially +as it happens to be groundless-that I find my happiness so much, as +in the hope that the memory of our friendship will be lasting. What +makes me care the more about this is the fact that in all history +there are scarcely three or four pairs of friends on record; and it is +classed with them that I cherish a hope of the friendship of Scipio +and Laelius being known to posterity. + +_Fannius_. Of course that must be so, Laelius. But since you have +mentioned the word friendship, and we are at leisure, you would +be doing me a great kindness, and I expect Scaevola also, if you +would do as it is your habit to do when asked questions on other +subjects, and tell us your sentiments about friendship, its nature, +and the rules to be observed in regard to it. + +_Scaevola_. I shall of course be delighted. Fannius has anticipated +the very request I was about to make. So you will be doing us both +a great favour. + +5. _Laelius_. I should ccrtainly have no objection if I felt +confidence in myself. For the theme is a noble one, and we are (as +Fannius has said) at leisure. But who am I? and what ability have +I? What you propose is all very well for professional philosophers, +who are used, particularly if Greeks, to have the subject for +discussion proposed to them on the spur of the moment. It is a +task of considerable difficulty, and requires no little practice. +Therefore for a set discourse on friendship you must go, I think, to +professional lecturers. All I can do is to urge on you to regard +friendship as the greatest thing in the world; for there is nothing +which so fits in with our nature, or is so exactly what we want in +prosperity or adversity. + +But I must at the very beginning lay down this principle- +_friendship can only exist between good men_. I do not, however, +press this too closely, like the philosophers who push their +definitions to a superfluous accuracy. They have truth on their +side, perhaps, but it is of no practical advantage. Those, I mean, +who say that no one but the "wise" is "good." Granted, by all +means. But the "wisdom" they mean is one to which no mortal +ever yet attained. We must concern ourselves with the facts of +everyday life as we find it-not imaginary and ideal perfections. +Even Gaius Fannius, Manius Curius, and Tiberius Coruncanius, +whom our ancestors decided to be "wise," I could never declare to +be so according to their standard. Let them, then, keep this word +"wisdom" to themselves. Everybody is irritated by it; no one +understands what it means. Let them but grant that the men I +mentioned were "good." No, they won't do that either. No one but +the "wise" can be allowed that title, say they. Well, then, let us +dismiss them and manage as best we may with our own poor +mother wit, as the phrase is. + +We mean then by the "good" _those whose actions and lives leave +no question as to their honour, purity, equity, and liberality; who +are free from greed, lust, and violence; and who have the courage +of their convictions_. The men I have just named may serve as +examples. Such men as these being generally accounted "good," +let us agree to call them so, on the ground that to the best of +human ability they follow nature as the most perfect guide to a +good life. + +Now this truth seems clear to me, that nature has so formed us that +a certain tie unites us all, but that this tie becomes stronger from +proximity. So it is that fellow-citizens are preferred in our +affections to foreigners, relations to strangers; for in their case +Nature herself has caused a kind of friendship to exist, though it is +one which lacks some of the elements of permanence. Friendship +excels relationship in this, that whereas you may eliminate +affection from relationship, you cannot do so from friendship. +Without it relationship still exists in name, friendship does not. +You may best understand this friendship by considering that, +whereas the merely natural ties uniting the human race are +indefinite, this one is so concentrated, and confined to so narrow a +sphere, that affection is ever shared by two persons only or at most +by a few. + +6. Now friendship may be thus defined: a complete accord on all +subjects human and divine, joined with mutual goodwill and +affection. And with the exception of wisdom, I am inclined to +think nothing better than this has been given to man by the +immortal gods. There are people who give the palm to riches or to +good health, or to power and office, many even to sensual +pleasures. This last is the ideal of brute beasts; and of the others +we may say that they are frail and uncertain, and depend less on +our own prudence than on the caprice of fortune. Then there are +those who find the "chief good" in virtue. Well, that is a noble +doctrine. But the very virtue they talk of is the parent and +preserver of friendship, and without it friendship cannot possibly +exist. + +Let us, I repeat, use the word virtue in the ordinary acceptation and +meaning of the term, and do not let us define it in high-flown +language. Let us account as good the persons usually considered +so, such as Paulus, Cato, Gallus, Scipio, and Philus. Such men as +these are good enough for everyday life; and we need not trouble +ourselves about those ideal characters which are nowhere to be +met with. + +Well, between men like these the advantages of friendship are +almost more than I can say. To begin with, how can life he worth +living, to use the words of Ennius, which lacks that repose which +is to be found in the mutual good-will of a friend? What can be +more delightful than to have some one to whom you can say +everything with the same absolute confidence as to yourself? Is +not prosperity robbed of half its value if you have no one to share +your joy? On the other hand, misfortunes would be hard to bear if +there were not some one to feel them even more acutely than +yourself. In a word, other objects of ambition serve for particular +ends-riches for use, power for securing homage, office for +reputation, pleasure for enjoyment, health for' freedom from pain +and the full use of the functions of the body. But friendship +embraces innumerable advantages. Turn which way you please, +you will find it at hand. It is everywhere; and yet never out of +place, never unwelcome. Fire and water themselves, to use a +common expression, are not of more universal use than friendship. +I am not now speaking of the common or modified form of it, +though even that is a source of pleasure and profit, but of that true +and complete friendship which existed between the select few who +are known to fame. Such friendship enhances prosperity, and +relieves adversity of its burden by halving and sharing it. + +7. And great and numerous as are the blessings of friendship, this +certainly is the sovereign one, that it gives us bright hopes for the +future and forbids weakness and despair. In the face of a true +friend a man sees as it were a second self. So that where his friend +is he is; if his friend be rich, he is not poor; though he be weak, his +friend's strength is his; and in his friend's life he enjoys a second +life after his own is finished. This last is perhaps the most difficult +to conceive. But such is the effect of the respect, the loving +remembrance, and the regret of friends which follow us to the +grave. While they take the sting out of death, they add a glory to +the life of the survivors. Nay, if you eliminate from nature the tie +of affection, there will be an end of house and city, nor will so +much as the cultivation of the soil be left. If you don't see the +virtue of friendship and harmony, you may learn it by observing +the effects of quarrels and feuds. Was any family ever so well +established, any State so firmly settled, as to be beyond the reach +of utter destruction from animosities and factions? This may teach +you the immense advantage of friendship. + +They say that a certain philosopher of Agrigentum, in a Greek +poem, pronounced with the authority of an oracle the doctrine that +whatever in nature and the universe was unchangeable was so in +virtue of the binding force of friendship; whatever was changeable +was so by the solvent power of discord. And indeed this is a truth +which everybody understands and practically attests by experience. +For if any marked instance of loyal friendship in confronting or +sharing danger comes to light, every one applauds it to the echo. +What cheers there were, for instance, all over the theatre at a +passage in the new play of my friend and guest Pacuvius; where +the king, not knowing which of the two was Orestes, Pylades +declared himself to be Orestes, that he might die in his stead, while +the real Orestes kept on asserting that it was he. The audience rose +_en masse_ and clapped their hands. And this was at an incident in +fiction: what would they have done, must we suppose, if it had +been in real life? You can easily see what a natural feeling it is, +when men who would not have had the resolution to act thus +themselves, shewed how right they thought it in another. + +I don't think I have any more to say about friendship. If there is any +more, and I have no doubt there is much, you must, if you care to +do so, consult those who profess to discuss such matters. + +_Fannius_. We would rather apply to you. Yet I have often +consulted such persons, and have heard what they had to say with a +certain satisfaction. But in your discourse one somehow feels that +there is a different strain. + +_Scaevola_. You would have said that still more, Fannius, if you +had been present the other day in Scipio's pleasure-grounds when +we had the discussion about the State. How splendidly he stood up +for justice against Philus's elaborate speech. + +_Fannius_. Ah! it was naturally easy for the justest of men to +stand up for justice. + +_Scaevola_. Well, then, what about friendship? Who could +discourse on it more easily than the man whose chief glory is a +friendship maintained with the most absolute fidelity, constancy, +and integrity? + +8. _Laclius_. Now you are really using force. It makes no +difference what kind of force you use: force it is. For it is neither +easy nor right to refuse a wish of my sons-in-law, particularly +when +the wish is a creditable one in itself. + +Well, then, it has very often occurred to me when thinking about +friendship, that the chief point to be considered was this: is it +weakness and want of means that make friendship desired? I +mean, is its object an interchange of good offices, so that each may +give that in which he is strong, and receive that in which he is +weak? Or is it not rather true that, although this is an advantage +naturally belonging to friendship, yet its original cause is quite +other, prior in time, more noble in character, and springing more +directly from our nature itself? The Latin word for friendship- +_amicitia_-is derived from that for love-_amor_; and love is +certainly the prime mover in contracting mutual affection. +For as to material advantages, it often happens that those are +obtained even by men who are courted by a mere show of +friendship and treated with respect from interested motives. But +friendship by its nature admits of no feigning, no pretence: as far +as it goes it is both genuine and spontaneous. Therefore I gather +that friendship springs from a natural impulse rather than a wish +for help: from an inclination of the heart, combined with a certain +instinctive feeling of love, rather than from a deliberate calculation +of the material advantage it was likely to confer. The strength of +this feeling you may notice in certain animals. They show such +love to their offspring for a certain period, and are so beloved by +them, that they clearly have a share in this natural, instinctive +affection. But of course it is more evident in the case of man: first, +in the natural affection between children and their parents, an +affection which only shocking wickedness can sunder; and next, +when the passion of love has attained to a like strength-on our +finding, that is, some one person with whose character and nature +we are in full sympathy, because we think that we perceive in him +what I may call the beacon-light of virtue. For nothing inspires +love, nothing conciliates affection, like virtue. Why, in a certain +sense we may be said to feel affection even for men we have never +seen, owing to their honesty and virtue. Who, for instance, fails to +dwell on the memory of Gaius Fabricius and Manius Curius with +some affection and warmth of feeling, though he has never seen +them? Or who but loathes Tarquinius Superbus, Spurius Cassius, +Spurius Maelius? We have fought for empire in Italy with two +great generals, Pyrrhus and Hannibal. For the former, owing to his +probity, we entertain no great feelings of enmity: the latter, owing +to his cruelty, our country has detested and always will detest. + +9. Now, if the attraction of probity is so great that we can love it +not only in those whom we have never seen, but, what is more, +actually in an enemy, we need not be surprised if men's affections +are roused when they fancy that they have seen virtue and +goodness in those with whom a close intimacy is possible. I do not +deny that affection is strengthened by the actual receipt of benefits, +as well as by the perception of a wish to render service, combined +with a closer intercourse. When these are added to the original +impulse of the heart, to which I have alluded, a quite surprising +warmth of feeling springs up. And if any one thinks that this +comes from a sense of weakness, that each may have some one to +help him to his particular need, all I can say is that, when he +maintains it to be born of want and poverty, he allows to friendship +an origin very base, and a pedigree, if I may be allowed the +expression, far from noble. If this had been the case, a man's +inclination to friendship would be exactly in proportion to his low +opinion of his own resources. Whereas the truth is quite the other +way. For when a man's confidence in himself is greatest, when he +is so fortified by virtue and wisdom as to want nothing and to feel +absolutely self-dependent, it is then that he is most conspicuous for +seeking out and keeping up friendships. Did Africanus, for +example, want anything of me? Not the least in the world! +Neither did I of him. In my case it was an admiration of his virtue, +in his an opinion, may be, which he entertained of my character, +that caused our affection. Closer intimacy added to the warmth of +our feelings. But though many great material advantages did +ensue, they were not the source from which our affection +proceeded. For as we are not beneficent and liberal with any view +of extorting gratitude, and do not regard an act of kindness as an +investment, but follow a natural inclination to liberality; so we +look on friendship as worth trying for, not because we are attracted +to it by the expectation of ulterior gain, but in the conviction that +what it has to give us is from first to last included in the feeling +itself. + +Far different is the view of those who, like brute beasts, refer +everything to sensual pleasure. And no wonder. Men who have +degraded all their powers of thought to an object so mean and +contemptible can of course raise their eyes to nothing lofty, to +nothing grand and divine. Such persons indeed let us leave out of +the present question. And let us accept the doctrine that the +sensation of love and the warmth of inclination have their origin in +a spontaneous feeling which arises directly the presence of probity +is indicated. When once men have conceived the inclination, they +of course try to attach themselves to the object of it, and move +themselves nearer and nearer to him. Their aim is that they may be +on the same footing and the same level in regard to affection, and +be more inclined to do a good service than to ask a return, and that +there should be this noble rivalry between them. Thus both truths +will be established. We shall get the most important material +advantages from friendship; and its origin from a natural impulse +rather than from a sense of need will be at once more dignified and +more in accordance with fact. For if it were true that its material +advantages cemented friendship, it would be equally true that any +change in them would dissolve it. But nature being incapable of +change, it follows that genuine friendships are eternal. + +So much for the origin of friendship. But perhaps you would not +care to hear any more. + +_Fannius_. Nay, pray go on; let us have the rest, Laelius. I take on +myself to speak for my friend here as his senior. + +_Scaevola_. Quite right! Therefore, pray let us hear. + +10. _Loelius_. Well, then, my good friends, listen to some +conversations about friendship which very frequently passed +between Scipio and myself. I must begin by telling you, however, +that be used to say that the most difficult thing in the world was for +a friendship to remain unimpaired to the end of life. So many +things might intervene: conflicting interests; differences of opinion +in politics; frequent changes in character, owing sometimes to +misfortunes, sometimes to advancing years. He used to illustrate +these facts from the analogy of boyhood, since the warmest +affections between boys are often laid aside with the boyish toga; +and even if they did manage to keep them up to adolescence, they +were sometimes broken by a rivalry in courtship, or for some other +advantage to which their mutual claims were not compatible. +Even if the friendship was prolonged beyond that time, yet it +frequently received a rude shock should the two happen to be +competitors for office. For while the most fatal blow to friendship +in the majority of cases was the lust of gold, in the case of the best +men it was a rivalry for office and reputation, by which it had +often happened that the most violent enmity had arisen between +the closest friends. + +Again, wide breaches and, for the most part, justifiable ones were +caused by an immoral request being made of friends, to pander to +a man's unholy desires or to assist him in inflicting a wrong. A +refusal, though perfectly right, is attacked by those to whom they +refuse compliance as a violation of the laws of friendship. Now the +people who have no scruples as to the requests they make to their +friends, thereby allow that they are ready to have no scruples as to +what they will do for their friends; and it is the recriminations of +such people which commonly not only quench friendships, but +give rise to lasting enmities. " In fact," he used to say, "these +fatalities overhang friendship in such numbers that it requires not +only wisdom but good luck also to escape them all." + +11. With these premises, then, let us first, if you please, examine +the question-how far ought personal feeling to go in friendship? +For instance: suppose Coriolanus to have had friends, ought they to +have joined him in invading his country? Again, in the case of +Vecellinus or Spurius Maelius, ought their friends to have assisted +them in their attempt to establish a tyranny? Take two instances of +either line of conduct. When Tiberius Gracchus attempted his +revolutionary measures he was deserted, as we saw, by Quintus +Tubero and the friends of his own standing. On the other hand, a +friend of your own family, Scaevola, Gains Blossius of Cumae, +took a different course. I was acting as assessor to the consuls +Laenas and Rupilius to try the conspirators, and Blossius pleaded +for my pardon on the ground that his regard for Tiberius Gracchus +had been so high that he looked upon his wishes as law. "Even if +he had wished you to set fire to the Capitol?" said I. "That is a +thing," he replied, "that he never would have wished." "Ah, but if +he had wished it?" said I. "I would have obeyed." The wickedness +of such a speech needs no comment. And in point of fact he was +as good and better than his word for he did not wait for orders in +the audacious proceedings of Tiberius Gracchus, but was the head +and front of them, and was a leader rather than an abettor of his +madness. The result of his infatuation was that he fled to Asia, +terrified by the special commission appointed to try him, joined +the enemies of his country, and paid a penalty to the republic as +heavy as it was deserved. I conclude, then, that the plea of having +acted in the interests of a friend is not a valid excuse for a wrong +action. For, seeing that a belief in a man's virtue is the original +cause of friendship, friendship can hardly remain if virtue he +abandoned. But if we decide it to be right to grant our friends +whatever they wish, and to ask them for whatever we wish, perfect +wisdom must be assumed on both sides if no mischief is to +happen. But we cannot assume this perfect wisdom; for we are +speaking only of such friends as are ordinarily to be met with, +whether we have actually seen them or have been told about +them-men, that is to say, of everyday life. I must quote some +examples of such persons, taking care to select such as approach +nearest to our standard of wisdom. We read, for instance, that +Papus Aemilius was a close friend of Gaius Luscinus. History tells +us that they were twice consuls together, and colleagues in the +censorship. Again, it is on record that Manius Curius and Tiberius +Coruncanius were on the most intimate terms with them and with +each other. Now, we cannot even suspect that any one of these +men ever asked of his friend anything that militated against his +honour or his oath or the interests of the republic. In the case of +such men as these there is no point in saying that one of them +would not have obtained such a request if he had made it; for they +were men of the most scrupulous piety, and the making of such a +request would involve a breach of religious obligation no less than +the granting it. However, it is quite true that Gaius Carbo and +Gaius Cato did follow Tiberius Gracchus; and though his brother +Caius Gracchus did not do so at the time, he is now the most eager +of them all. + +12. We may then lay down this rule of friendship-neither ask nor +consent to do what is wrong. For the plea "for friendship's sake" is +a discreditable one, and not to be admitted for a moment. This +rule holds good for all wrong-doing, but more especially in such as +involves disloyalty to the republic. For things have come to such a +point with us, my dear Fannius and Scaevola, that we are bound to +look somewhat far ahead to what is likely to happen to the +republic. The constitution, as known to our ancestors, has already +swerved somewhat from the regular course and the lines marked +out for it. Tiberius Gracchus made an attempt to obtain the power +of a king, or, I might rather say, enjoyed that power for a few +months. Had the Roman people ever heard or seen the like before? +What the friends and connexions that followed him, even after his +death, have succeeded in doing in the case of Publius Scipio I +cannot describe without tears. As for Carbo, thanks to the +punishment recently inflicted on Tiberius Gracchus, we have by +hook or by crook managed to hold out against his attacks. But +what to expect of the tribuneship of Caius Gracchus I do not like +to forecast. One thing leads to another; and once set going, the +downward course proceeds with ever-increasing velocity. There is +the case of the ballot: what a blow was inflicted first by the lex +Gabinia, and two years afterwards by the lex Cassia! I seem +already to see the people estranged from the Senate, and the most +important affairs at the mercy of the multitude. For you may be +sure that more people will learn how to set such things in motion +than how to stop them. What is the point of these remarks? This: +no one ever makes any attempt of this sort without friends to help +him. We must therefore impress upon good men that, should they +become inevitably involved in friendships with men of this kind, +they ought not to consider themselves under any obligation to +stand by friends who are disloyal to the republic. Bad men must +have the fear of punishment before their eyes: a punishment not +less severe for those who follow than for those who lead others to +crime. Who was more famous and powerful in Greece than +Themistocles? At the head of the army in the Persian war he had +freed Greece; he owed his exile to personal envy: but he did not +submit to the wrong done him by his ungrateful country as he +ought to have done. He acted as Coriolanus had acted among us +twenty years before. But no one was found to help them in their +attacks upon their fatherland. Both of them accordingly committed +suicide. + +We conclude, then, not only that no such confederation of evilly +disposed men must be allowed to shelter itself under the plea of +friendship, but that, on the contrary, it must be visited with the +severest punishment, lest the idea should prevail that fidelity to a +friend justifies even making war upon one's country. And this is a +case which I am inclined to think, considering how things are +beginning to go, will sooner or later arise. And I care quite as +much what the state of the constitution will be after my death as +what it is now. + +13. Let this, then, be laid down as the first law of friendship, that +_we should ask from friends, and do for friends', only what is +good_. But do not let us wait to be asked either: let there be ever +an eager readiness, and an absence of hesitation. Let us have the +courage to give advice with candour. In friendship, let the +influence of friends who give good advice be paramount; and let +this influence be used to enforce advice not only in plain-spoken +terms, but sometimes, if the case demands it, with sharpness; and +when so used, let it be obeyed. + +I give you these rules because I believe that some wonderful +opinions are entertained by certain persons who have, I am told, a +reputation for wisdom in Greece. There is nothing in the world, by +the way, beyond the reach of their sophistry. Well, some of them +teach that we should avoid very close friendships, for fear that one +man should have to endure the anxieties of several. Each man, say +they, has enough and to spare on his own hands; it is too bad to be +involved in the cares of other people. The wisest course is to hold +the reins of friendship as loose as possible; you can then tighten or +slacken them at your will. For the first condition of a happy life is +freedom from care, which no one's mind can enjoy if it has to +travail, so to speak, for others besides itself. Another sect, I am +told, gives vent to opinions still less generous. I briefly touched on +this subject just now. They affirm that friendships should be +sought solely for the sake of the assistance they give, and not at all +from motives of feeling and affection; and that therefore just in +proportion as a man's power and means of support are lowest, he is +most eager to gain. friendships: thence it comes that weak women +seek the support of friendship more than men, the poor more than +the rich, the unfortunate rather than those esteemed prosperous. +What noble philosophy! You might just as well take the sun out of +the sky as friendship from life; for the immortal gods have given +us nothing better or more delightful. + +But let us examine the two doctrines. What is the value of this " +freedom from care"? It is very tempting at first sight, but in +practice it has in many cases to be put on one side. For there is no +business and no course of action demanded from us by our honour +which you can consistently decline, or lay aside when begun, from +a mere wish to escape from anxiety. Nay, if we wish to avoid +anxiety we must avoid virtue itself, which necessarily involves +some anxious thoughts in showing its loathing and abhorrence for +the qualities which are opposite to itself-as kindness for ill-nature, +self-control for licentiousness, courage for cowardice. Thus you +may notice that it is the just who are most pained at injustice, the +brave at cowardly actions, the temperate at depravity. It is then +characteristic of a rightly ordered mind to be pleased at what is +good and grieved at the reverse. Seeing then that the wise are not +exempt from the heart-ache (which must be the case unless we +suppose all human nature rooted out of their hearts), why should +we banish friendship from our lives, for fear of being involved by +it in some amount of distress? If you take away emotion, what +difference remains I don't say between a man and a beast, but +between a man and a stone or a log of wood, or anything else of +that kind? + +Neither should we give any weight to the doctrine that virtue is +something rigid and unyielding as iron. In point of fact it is in +regard to friendship, as in so many other things, so supple and +sensitive that it expands, so to speak, at a friend's good fortune, +contracts at his misfortunes. We conclude then that mental pain +which we must often encounter on a friend's account is not of +sufficient consequence to banish friendship from our life, any +more than it is true that the cardinal virtues are to be dispensed +with because they involve certain anxieties and distresses. + +14. Let me repeat then, "the clear indication of virtue, to which a +mind of like character is naturally attracted, is the beginning of +friendship." When that is the case the rise of affection is a +necessity. For what can be more irrational than to take delight in +many objects incapable of response, such as office, fame, splendid +buildings, and personal decoration, and yet to take little or none in +a sentient being endowed with virtue, which has the faculty of +loving or, if I may use the expression, loving back? For nothing is +really more delightful than a return of affection, and the mutual +interchange of kind feeling and good offices. And if we add, as we +may fairly do, that nothing so powerfully attracts and draws one +thing to itself as likeness does to friendship, it wilt at once be +admitted to be true that the good love the good and attach them to +themselves as though they were united by blood and nature. For +nothing can be more eager, or rather greedy, for what is like itself +than nature. So, my dear Fannius and Scaevola, we may look upon +this as an established fact, that between good men there is, as it +were of necessity, a kindly feeling, which is the source of +friendship ordained by nature. But this same kindliness affects the +many also. For that is no unsympathetic or selfish or exclusive +virtue, which protects even whole nations and consults their best +interests. And that certainly it would not have done had it +disdained all affection for the common herd. + +Again, the believers in the "interest" theory appear to me to destroy +the most attractive link in the chain of friendship. For it is not so +much what one gets by a friend that gives one pleasure, as the +warmth of his feeling; and we only care for a friend's service if it +has been prompted by affection. And so far from its being true that +lack of means is a motive for seeking friendship, it is usually those +who being most richly endowed with wealth and means, and above +all with virtue (which, after all, is a man's best support), are least +in need of another, that are most openhanded and beneficent. +Indeed I am inclined to think that friends ought at times to be in +want of something. For instance, what scope would my affections +have had if Scipio had never wanted my advice or co-operation at +home or abroad? It is not friendship, then, that follows material +advantage, but material advantage friendship. + +15. We must not therefore listen to these superfine gentlemen +when they talk of friendship, which they know neither in theory +nor in practice. For who, in heaven's name, would choose a life of +the greatest wealth and abundance on condition of neither loving +or being beloved by any creature? That is the sort of life tyrants +endure. They, of course, can count on no fidelity, no affection, no +security for the goodwill of any one. For them all is suspicion and +anxiety; for them there is no possibility of friendship. Who can +love one whom he fears, or by whom he knows that he is feared? +Yet such men have a show of friendship offered them, but it is +only a fair-weather show. If it ever happen that they fall, as it +generally does, they will at once understand how friendless they +are. So they say Tarquin observed in his exile that he never knew +which of his friends were real and which sham, until he had ceased +to be able to repay either. Though what surprises me is that a man +of his proud and overbearing character should have a friend at all. +And as it was his character that prevented his having genuine +friends, so it often happens in the case of men of unusually great +means-their very wealth forbids faithful friendships. For not only is +Fortune blind herself; but she generally makes those blind also +who enjoy her favours. They are carried, so to speak, beyond +themselves with self-conceit and self-will; nor can anything be +more perfectly intolerable than a successful fool. You may often +see it. Men who before had pleasant manners enough undergo a +complete change on attaining power of office. They despise their +old friends: devote themselves to new. + +Now, can anything be more foolish than that men who have all the +opportunities which prosperity, wealth, and great means can +bestow, should secure all else which monev can buy-horses, +servants, splendid upholstering, and costly plate-but do not secure +friends, who are, if I may use the expression, the most valuable +and beautiful furniture of life? And yet, when they acquire the +former, they know not who will enjoy them, nor for whom they +may be taking all this trouble; for they will one and all eventually +belong to the strongest: while each man has a stable and +inalienable ownership in his friendships. And even if those +possessions, which are, in a manner, the gifts of fortune, do prove +permanent, life can never be anything but joyless which is without +the consolations and companionship of friends. + +16. To turn to another branch of our subject. We must now +endeavour to ascertain what limits are to be observed in +friendship-what is the boundary-line, so to speak, beyond which +our affection is not to go. On this point I notice three opinions, +with none of which I agree. One is _that we should love our friend +just as much as we love ourselves, and no more; another, that our +affection to them should exactly correspond and equal theirs to us; +a third, that a man should be valued at exactly the same rate as he +values himself_. To not one of these opinions do I assent. The +first, which holds that our regard for ourselves is to be the measure +of our regard for our friend, is not true; for how many things there +are which we would never have done for our own sakes, but do for +the sake of a friend! We submit to make requests from unworthy +people, to descend even to supplication; to be sharper in invective, +more violent in attack. Such actions are nut creditable in our own +interests, but highly so in those of our friends. There are many +advantages too which men of upright character voluntarily forego, +or of whichh they are content to be deprived, that their friends may +enjoy them rather than themselves. + +The second doctrine is that which limits friendship to an exact +equality in mutual good offices and good feelings. But such a view +reduces friendship to a question of figures in a spirit far too narrow +and illiberal, as though the object were to have an exact balance in +a debtor and creditor account. True friendship appears to me to be +something richer and more generous than that comes to; and not to +be so narrowly on its guard against giving more than it receives. In +such a matter we must not be always afraid of something being +wasted or running over in our measure, or of more than is justly +due being devoted to our friendship. + +But the last limit proposed is the worst, namely, that a friend's +estimate of himself is to be the measure of our estimate of +him. It often happens that a man has too humble an idea of +himself, or takes too despairing a view of his chance of bettering +his fortune. In such a case a friend ought not to take the view of +him which he takes of himself. Rather he should do all he can to +raise his drooping spirits, and lead him to more cbeerful hopes and +thoughts. + +We must then find some other limit. But I must first mention the +sentiment which used to call forth Scipio's severest criticism. He +often said that no one ever gave utterance to anything more +diametrically opposed to the spirit of friendship than the author of +the dictum, "You should love your friend with the consciousness +that you may one day hate him." He could not be induced to +believe that it was rightfully attributed to Bias, who was counted +as one of the Seven Sages. It was the sentiment of some person +with sinister motives or selfish ambition, or who regarded +everything as it affected his own supremacy. How can a man be +friends with another, if he thinks it possible that be may be his +enemy? Why, it will follow that he must wish and desire his friend +to commit as many mistakes as possible, that he may have all the +more handles against him; and, conversely, that he must be +annoyed, irritated, and jealous at the right actions or good fortune +of his friends. This maxim, then, let it be whose it will, is the utter +destruction of friendship. The true rule is to take such care in the +selection of our friends as never to enter upon a friendship with a +man whom we could under any circumstances come to hate. And +even if we are unlucky in our choice, we must put up with +it-according to Scipio-in preference to making calculations as to a +future breach. + +17. The real limit to be observed in friendship is this: the +characters of two friends must be stainless. There must be +complete harmony of interests, purpose, and aims, without +exception. Then if the case arises of a friend's wish (not strictly +right in itself) calling for support in a matter involvmg his life or +reputation, we must make some concession from the straight +path-on condition, that is to say, that extreme disgrace is not the +consequence. Something must be conceded to friendship. And yet +we must not be entirely careless of our reputation, nor regard the +good opinion of our fellow-citizens as a weapon which we can +afford to despise in conducting the business of our life, however +lowering it may be to tout for it by flattery and smooth words. We +must by no means abjure virtue, which secures us affection. + +But to return again to Scipio, the sole author of the discourse on +friendship. He used to complain that there was nothing on which +men bestowed so little pains: that every one could tell exactly how +many goats or sheep he had, but not how many friends; and while +they took pains in procuring the former, they were utterly careless +in selecting friends, and possessed no particular marks, so to +speak, or tokens by which they might judge of their suitability for +friendship. Now the qualities we ought to look out for in making +our selection are firmness, stability, constancy. There is a plentiful +lack of men so endowed, and it is difficult to form a judgment +without testing. Now this testing can only be made during the +actual existence of the friend-ship; for friendship so often precedes +the formation of a judgment, and makes a previous test impossible. +If we are prudent then, we shall rein in our impulse to affection as +we do chariot horses. We make a preliminary trial of horses. So +we should of friendship; and should test our friends' characters by +a kind of tentative friendship. It may often happen that the +untrustworthiness of certain men is completely displayed in a +small money matter; others who are proof against a small sum are +detected if it be large. But even if some are found who think it +mean to prefer money to friendship, where shall we look for those +who put friendship before office, civil or military promotions, and +political power, and who, when the choice lies between these +things on the one side and the claims of friendship on the other, do +not give a strong preference to the former? It is not in human +nature to be indifferent to political power; and if the price men +have to pay for it is the sacrifice of friendship, they think their +treason will be thrown into the shade by the magnitude of the +reward. This is why true friendship is very difficult to find among +those who engage in politics and the contest for office. Where can +you find the man to prefer his friend's advancement to his own? +And to say nothing of that, think how grievous and almost +intolerable it is to most men to share political disaster. You will +scarcely find anyone who can bring himself to do that. And though +what Ennius says is quite true,-" the hour of need shews the friend +indeed,"-yet it is in these two ways that most people betray their +untrustworthiness and inconstancy, by looking down on friends +when they are themselves prosperous, or deserting them in their +distress. A man, then, who has shewn a firm, unshaken, and +unvarying friendship in both these contingencies we must reckon +as one of a class the rarest in the world, and all but superhuman. + +18. Now, what is the quality to look out for as a warrant for the +stability and permanence of friendship? It is loyalty. Nothing that +lacks this can be stable. We should also in making our selection +look out for simplicity, a social disposition, and a sympathetic +nature, moved by what moves us. These all contribute to maintain +loyalty. You can never trust a character which is intricate and +tortuous. Nor, indeed, is it possible for one to be trustworthy and +firm who is unsympathetic by nature and unmoved by what affects +ourselves. We may add, that he must neither take pleasure in +bringing accusations against us himself, nor believe them when +they are brought. All these contribute to form that constancy +which I have been endeavouring to describe. And the result is, +what I started by saying, that friendship is only possible between +good men. + +Now there are two characteristic features in his treatment of his +friends that a good (which may be regarded as equivalent to a +wise) man will always display. First, he will be entirely without +any make-believe or pretence of feeling; for the open display even +of dislike is more becommg to an ingenuous character than a +studied concealment of sentiment. Secondly, he will not only +reject all accusations brought against his friend by another, but he +will not be suspicious himself either, nor be always thinking that +his friend has acted improperly. Besides this, there should be a +certain pleasantness in word and manner which adds no little +flavour to friendship. A gloomy temper and unvarying gravity +may be very impressive; but friendship should be a little less +unbending, more indulgent and gracious, and more inclined to all +kinds of good-fellowship and good-nature. + +19. But here arises a question of some little difficulty. Are there +any occasions on which, assuming their worthiness, we should +prefer new to old friends, just as we prefer young to aged horses? +The answer admits of no doubt whatever. For there should be no +satiety in friendship, as there is in other things. The older the +sweeter, as in wines that keep well. And the proverb is a true one, +"You must eat many a peck of salt with a man to be thorough +friends with him." Novelty, indeed, has its advantage, which we +must not despise. There is always hope of fruit, as there is in +healthy blades of corn. But age too must have its proper position; +and, in fact, the influence of time and habit is very great. To recur +to the illustration of the horse which I have just now used. Every +one likes _ceteris paribus_ to use the horse to which he has been +accustomed, rather than one that is untried and new. And it is not +only in the case of a living thing that this rule holds good, but in +inanimate things also; for we like places where we have lived the +longest, even though they are mountainous and covered with +forest. But here is another golden rule in friendship: _put yourself +on a level with your friend_. For it often happens that there are +certain superiorities, as for example Scipio's in what I may call our +set. Now he never assumed any airs of superiority over Philus, or +Rupilius, or Mummius, or over friends of a lower rank stilt. For +instance, he always shewed a deference to his brother Quintus +Maximus because he was his senior, who, though a man no doubt +of eminent character, was by no means his equal. He used also to +wish that all his friends should be the better for his support. This +is an example we should all follow. If any of us have any +advantage in personal character, intellect, or fortune, we should be +ready to make our friends sharers and partners in it with ourselves. +For instance, if their parents are in humble circumstances, if their +relations are powerful neither in intellect nor means, we should +supply their deficiencies and promote their rank and dignity. You +know the legends of children brought up as servants in ignorance +of their parentage and family. When they are recognized and +discovered to be the sons of gods or kings, they still retain their +affection for the shepherds whom they have for many years looked +upon as their parents. Much more ought this to be so in the case of +real and undoubted parents. For the advantages of genius and +virtue, and in short,of every kind of superiority, are never +realized to their fullest extent until they are bestowed upon our +nearest and dearest. + +20. But the converse must also be observed. For in friendship and +relationship, just as those who possess any superiority must put +themselves on an equal footing with those who are less fortunate, +so these latter must not be annoyed at being surpassed in genius, +fortune, or rank. But most people of that sort are forever either +grumbling at something, or harping on their claims; and especially +if they consider that they have services of their own to allege +involving zeal and friendship and some trouble to themselves. +People who are always bringing up their services are a nuisance. +The recipient ought to remember them; the performer should never +mention them. In the case of friends, then, as the superior are +bound to descend, so are they bound in a certain sense to raise +those below them. For there are people who make their friendship +disagreeable by imagining themselves undervalued. This generally +happens only to those who think that they deserve to be so; and +they ought to be shewn by deeds as well as by words the +groundlessness of their opinion. Now the measure of your benefits +should he in the first place your own power to bestow, and in the +second place the capacity to bear them on the part of him on whom +you are bestowing affection and help. For, however great your +personal prestige may be, you cannot raise all your friends to the +highest offices of the State. For instance, Scipio was able to make +Publius Rupilius consul, but not his brother Lucius. But granting +that you can give anyone anything you choose, you must have a +care that it does not prove to be beyond his powers. As a general +rule, we must wait to make up our mind about friendships till +men's characters and years have arrived at their full strength and +development. People must not, for instance, regard as fast friends +all whom in their youthful enthusiasm for hunting or football they +liked for having the same tastes. By that rule, if it were a mere +question of time, no one would have such claims on our affections +as nurses and slave-tutors. Not that they are to be neglected, but +they stand on a different ground. It is only these mature +friendships that can be permanent. For difference of character +leads to difference of aims, and the result of such diversity is to +estrange friends. The sole reason, for instance, which prevents +good men from making friends with bad, or bad with good, is that +the divergence of their characters and aims is the greatest possible. + +Another good rule in friendship is this: do not let an excessive +affection hinder the highest interests of your friends. This very +often happens. I will go again to the region of fable for an +instance. Neoptolemus could never have taken Troy if he had +been willing to listen to Lycomedes, who had brought him up, and +with many tears tried to prevent his going there. Again, it often +happens that important business makes it necessary to part from +friends: the man who tries to baulk it, because he thinks that he +cannot endure the separation, is of a weak and effeminate nature, +and on that very account makes but a poor friend. There are, of +course, limits to what you ought to expect from a friend and to +what you should allow him to demand of you. And these you must +take into calculation in every case. + +21. Again, there is such a disaster, so to speak, as having to break +off friendship. And sometimes it is one we cannot avoid. For at +this point the stream of our discourse is leaving the intimacies of +the wise and touching on the friendship of ordinary people. It will +happen at times that an outbreak of vicious conduct affects either a +man's friends themselves or strangers, yet the discredit falls on the +friends. In such cases friendships should be allowed to die out +gradually by an intermission of intercourse. They should, as I have +been told that Cato used to say, rather be unstitched than toni in +twain; unless, indeed, the injurious conduct be of so violent and +outrageous a nature as to make an instant breach and separation +the only possible course consistent with honour and rectitude. +Again, if a change in character and aim takes place, as often +happens, or if party politics produces an alienation of feeling (I am +now speaking, as I said a short time ago, of ordinary friendships, +not of those of the wise), we shall have to be on our guard against +appearing to embark upon active enmity while we only mean to +resign a friendship. For there can be nothing more discreditable +than to be at open war with a man with whom you have been +intimate. Scipio, as you are aware, had abandoned his friendship +for Quintus Pompeius on my account; and again, from differences +of opinion in politics, he became estranged from my colleague +Metellus. In both cases he acted with dignity and moderation, +shewing that he was offended indeed, but without Tancour. + +Our first object, then, should be to prevent a breach; our second, to +secure that, if it does occur, our friendship should seem to have +died a natural rather than a violent death. Next, we should take +care that friendship is not converted into active hostility, from +which flow personal quarrels, abusive language, and angry +recriminations. These last, however, provided that they do not pass +all reasonable limits of forbearance, we ought to put up with, and, +in compliment to an old friendship, allow the party that inflicts the +injury, not the one that submits to it, to be in the wrong. Generally +speaking, there is but one way of securing and providing oneself +against faults and inconveniences of this sort-not to be too hasty in +bestowing our affection, and not to bestow it at all on unworthy +objects. + +Now, by "worthy of friendship" I mean those who have in +themselves the qualities which attract affection. This sort of man is +rare; and indeed all excellent things are rare; and nothing in the +world is so hard to find as a thing entirely and completely perfect +of its kind. But most people not only recognize nothing as good in +our life unless it is profitable, but look upon friends as so much +stock, caring most for those by whom they hope to make most +profit. Accordingly they never possess that most beautiful and +most spontaneous friendship which must be sought solely for itself +without any ulterior object. They fail also to learn from their own +feelings the nature and the strength of friendship. For every one +loves himself, not for any reward which such love may bring, but +because he is dear to himself independently of anything else. But +unless this feeling is transferred to another, what a real friend is +will never be revealed; for he is, as it were, a second self. But if +we find these two instincts shewing themselves in animals,- +whether of the air or the sea or the land, whether wild or +tame,-first, a love of self, which in fact is born in everything that +lives alike; and, secondly, an eagerness to fiud and attach +themselves to other creatures of their own kind; and if this natural +action is accompanied by desire and by something resembling +human love, how much more must this be the case in man by the +law of his nature? For man not only loves himself, but seeks +another whose spirit he may so blend with his own as almost to +make one being of two. + +22. But most people unreasonably, not to speak of modesty, want +such a friend as they are unable to be themselves, and expect from +their friends what they do not themselves give. The fair course is +first to be good yourself, and then to look out for another of like +character. It is between such that the stability in friendship of +which we have been talking can be secured; when, that is to say, +men who are united by affection learn, first of all, to rule those +passions which enslave others, and in the next place to take delight +in fair and equitable conduct, to bear each other's burdens, never to +ask each other for anything inconsistent with virtue and rectitude, +and not only to serve and love but also to respect each other. I say +"respect"; for if respect is gone, friendship has lost its brightest +jewel. And this shows the mistake of those who imagine that +friendship gives a privilege to licentiousness and sin. Nature has +given us friendship as the handmaid of virtue, not as a partner in +guilt: to the end that virtue, being powerless when isolated to reach +the highest objects, might succeed in doing so in union and +partnership with another. Those who enjoy in the present, or have +enjoyed in the past, or are destined to enjoy in the future such a +partnership as this, must be considered to have secured the most +excellent and auspicious combination for +ON FRIENDSHIP + +reaching nature's highest good. This is the partnership, I say, +which combines moral rectitude, fame, peace of mind, serenity: all +that men think desirable because with them life is happy, but +without them cannot be so. This being our best and highest object, +we must, if we desire to attain it, devote ourselves to virtue; for +without virtue we can obtain neither friendship nor anything else +desirable. In fact, if virtue be neglected, those who imagine +themselves to possess friends will find out their error as soon as +some grave disaster forces them to make trial of them. Wherefore, +I must again and again repeat, you must satisfy your judgment +before engaging your affections: not love first and judge +afterwards. We suffer from carelessness in many of our +undertakings: in none more than in selecting and cultivating our +friends. We put the cart before the horse, and shut the stable door +when the steed is stolen, in defiance of the old proverb. For, +having mutually involved ourselves in a long-standing intimacy or +by actual obligations, all on a sudden some cause of offence arises +and we break off our friendships in full career. + +23. + +It is this that makes such carelessness in a matter of supreme +importance all the more worthy of blame. I say "supreme +importance," because friendship is the one thing about the utility +of which everybody with one accord is agreed. That is not the case +in regard even to virtue itself; for many people speak slightingly of +virtue as though it were mere puffing and self-glorification. Nor is +it the case with riches. Many look down on riches, being content +with a little and taking pleasure in poor fare and dress, And as to +the political offices for which some have a burning desire +-how many entertain such a contempt for them as to think nothing +in the world more empty and trivial! + +And so on with the rest; things desirable in the eyes of some are +regarded by very many as worthless. But of friendship all think +alike to a man, whether those have devoted themselves to politics, +or those who delight in science and philosophy, or those who +follow a private way of life and care for nothing but their own +business, or those lastly who have given themselves body and soul +to sensuality-they all think, I say, that without friendship life is no +life, if they want some part of it, at any rate, to be noble. For +friendship, in one way or another, penetrates into the lives of us +all, and suffers no career to be entirely free from its influence. +Though a man be of so churlish and unsociable a nature as to +loathe and shun the company of mankind, as we are told was the +case with a certain Timon at Athens, yet even he cannot refrain +from seeking some one in whose hearing he may disgorge the +venom of his bitter temper. We should see this most clearly, if it +were possible that some god should carry us away from these +haunts of men, and place us some-where in perfect solitude, and +then should supply us in abundance with everything necessary to +our nature, and yet take from us entirely the opportunity of looking +upon a human being. Who could steel himself to endure such a +life? Who would not lose in his loneliness the zest for all +pleasures? And indeed this is the point of the observation of, I +think, Archytas of Tarentum. I have it third hand; men who were +my seniors told me that their seniors had told them. It was this: "If +a man could ascend to heaven and get a clear view of the natural +order of the universe, and the beauty of the heavenly bodies, that +wonderful spectacle would give him small pleasure, though +nothing could be conceived more delightful if he had but had some +one to whom to tell what he had seen." So true it is that nature +abhors isolation, and ever leans upon some-thing as a stay and +support; and this is found in its most pleasing form in our closest +friend. + +24. + +But though Nature also declares by so many indications what her +wish and object and desire is, we yet in a manner turn a deaf ear +and will not hear her warnings. The intercourse between friends is +varied and complex, and it must often happen that causes of +suspicion and offence arise, which a wise man will sometimes +avoid, at other times remove, at others treat with indulgence. The +one possible cause of offence that must be faced is when the +interests of your friend and your own sincerity are at stake. For +instance, it often happens that friends need remonstrance and even +reproof. When these are administered in a kindly spirit they ought +to be taken in good part. But somehow or other there is truth in +what my friend Terence says in his _Andria_: + +Compliance gets us friends, plain speaking hate. + +Plain speaking is a cause of trouble, if the result of It is +resentment, which is poison of friendship; but compliance is really +the cause of much more trouble, because by indulging his faults it +lets a friend plunge into headlong ruin. But the man who is most to +blame is he who resents plain speaking and allows flattery to egg +him on to his ruin. On this point, then, from first to last there is +need of deliberation and care. If we remonstrate, it should be +without bitterness; if we reprove, there should be no word of +insult. In the matter of compliance (for I am glad to adopt +Terence's word), though there should be every courtesy, yet that +base kind which assists a man in vice should be far from us, for it +is unworthy of a free-born man, to say nothing of a friend. It is one +thing to live with a tyrant, another with a friend. But if a man's ears +are so closed to plain speaking that be cannot hear to hear the truth +from a friend, we may give him "p in despair. This remark of +Cato's, as so many of his did, shews great acuteness: "There are +people who owe more to bitter enemies than to apparently pleasant +friends: the former often speak the truth, the latter never." Besides, +it is a strange paradox that the recipients of advice should feel no +annoyance where they ought to feel it, and yet feel so much where +they ought not. They are not at all vexed at having committed a +fault, but very angry at being reproved for it. On the contrary, they +ought to be grieved at the crime and glad of the correction. + +25. Well, then, if it is true that to give and receive advice +-the former with freedom and yet without bitterness, the latter with +patience and without irritation-is peculiarly appropriate to genuine +friendship, it is no less true that there can be nothing more utterly +subversive of friendship than flattery, adulation, and base +compliance. I use as many terms as possible to brand this vice of +light-minded, untrustworthy men, whose sole object in speaking is +to please with-out any regard to truth. In everything false pretence +is bad. for it suspends and vitiates our power of discerning the +truth. But to nothing it is so hostile as to friendship; for it destroys +that frankness without which friendship is an empty name. For the +essence of friendship being that two minds become as one, how +can that ever take place if the mind of each of the separate parties +to it is not single and uniform, but variable, changeable, and +complex? Can anything be so pliable, so wavering, as the mind of +a man whose attitude depends not only on another's feeling and +wish, but on his very looks and nods? + +If one says "No," I answer "No" ; if "Yes," I answer "Yes." +In fine, I've laid this task upon myself +To echo all that's said- + +to quote my old friend Terence again. But he puts these words +into the mouth of a Gnatho. To admit such a man into one's +intimacy at all is a sign of folly. But there are many people like +Gnatho, and it is when they are superior either in position or +fortune or reputation that their flatteries become mischievous, the +weight of their position making up for the lightness of their +character. But if we only take reasonable care, it is as easy to +separate and distinguish a genuine from a specious friend as +anything else that is coloured and artificial from what is sincere +and genuine. A public assembly, though composed of men of the +smallest possible culture, nevertheless will see clearly the +difference between a mere demagogue (that is, a flatterer and +untrustworthy citizen) and a man of principle, standing, and +solidity. It was by this kind of flattering language that Gaius +Papirius the other day endeavoured to tickle the ears of the +assembled people, when proposing his law to make the tribunes +re-eligible. I spoke against it. But I will leave the personal +question. I prefer speaking of Scipio. Good heavens! how +impressive his speech was, what a majesty there was in it! You +would have pronounced him, without hesitation, to be no mere +henchman of the Roman people, but their leader. However, you +were there, and moreover have the speech in your hands. The +result was that a law meant to please the people was by the +people's votes rejected. Once more to refer to myself, you +remember how apparently popular was the law proposed by Gaius +Licinius Crassus "about the election to the College of Priests" in +the consulship of Quintus Maximus, Scipio's brother, and Lucius +Mancinus. For the power of filling up their own vacancies on the +part of the colleges was by this proposal to be transferred to the +people. It was this man, by the way, who began the practice of +twrning towards the forum when addressing the people. In spite of +this, however, upon my speaking on the conservative side, religion +gained an easy victory over his +plausible speech. This took place in my praetorship, five years +before I was elected consul, which shows that the cause was +successfully maintained more by the merits of the case than by the +prestige of the highest office. + +26. Now, if on a stage, such as a public assembly essentially is, +where there is the amplest room for fiction and half-truths, truth +nevertheless prevails if it be but fairly laid open and brought into +the light of day, what ought to happen in the case of friendship, +which rests entirely on truthfulness? Friendship, in which, unless +you both see and show an open breast, to use a common +expression, you can neither trust nor be certain of anything-no, not +even of mutual affection, since you cannot be sure of its sincerity. +However, this flattery, injurious as it is, can hurt no one but the +man who takes it in and likes it. And it follows that the man to +open his ears widest to flatterers is he who first flatters himself and +is fondest of himself. I grant you that Virtue naturally loves +herself; for she knows herself and perceives how worthy of love +she is. But I am not now speaking of absolute virtue, but of the +belief men have that they possess virtue. The fact is that fewer +people are endowed with virtue than wish to be thought to be so. It +is such people that take delight in flattery. When they are +addressed in language expressly adapted to flatter their vanity, they +look upon such empty persiflage as a testimony to the truth of their +own praises. It is not then properly friendship at all when the one +will not listen to the truth, and the other is prepared to lie. Nor +would the servility of parasites in comedy have seemed humorous +to us had there been no such things as braggart captains. "Is +Thais really much obliged to me?" It would have been quite +enough to answer "Much," but he must needs say "Immensely." +Your servile flatterer always exaggerates what his victim wishes to +be put strongly. Wherefore, though it is with those who catch at +and invite it that this flattering falsehood is especially powerful, +yet men even of solider and steadier character must be warned tn +be on the watch against being taken in by cunningly disguised +flattery. An open flatterer any one can detect, unless he is an +absolute fool the covert insinuation of the cunning and the sly is +what we have to be studiously on our guard against. His detection +is not by any means the easiest thing in the world, for he often +covers his servility under the guise of contradiction, and flatters by +pretending to dispute, and then at last giving in and allowing +himself to be beaten, that the person hoodwinked may think +himself to have been the clearer-sighted. Now what can be more +degrading than to be thus hoodwinked? You must be on your guard +against this happening to you, like the man in the _Heiress_: + +How have I been befooled! no drivelling dotards +On any stage were e'er so p1ayed upon. + +For even on the stage we have no grosser representation of folly +than that of short-sighted and credulous old men. But somehow or +other I have strayed away from the friendship of the perfect, that is +of the "wise" (meaning, of course, such "wisdom" as human nature +is capable of), to the subject of vulgar, unsubstantial friendships. +Let us then return to our original theme, and at length bring that, +too, to a conclusion. + +27. Well, then, Fannius and Mucius, I repeat what I said before. It +is virtue, virtue, which both creates and preserves friendship. On it +depends harmony of interest, permanence, fidelity. When Virtue +has reared her head and shewn the light of her countenance, and +seen and recognised the same light in another, she gravitates +towards it, and in her turn welcomes that which the other has to +shew; and from it springs up a flame which you may call love or +friendship as you please. Both words are from the same root in +Latin; and love is just the cleaving to him whom you love without +the prompting of need or any view to advantage-though this latter +blossoms spontaneously on friendship, little as you may have +looked for it. It is with such warmth of feeling that I cherished +Lucius Paulus, Marcus Cato, Galus Gallus, Publius Nasica, +Tiberius Gracchus, my dear Scipio's father-in-law. It shines with +even greater warmth when men are of the same age, as in the case +of Scipio and Lucius Furius, Publius Rupilius, Spurius Mummius, +and myself. _En revanche_, in my old age I find comfort in the +affection of young men, as in the case of yourselves and Quintus +Tubero: nay more, I delight in the intimacy of such a very young +man as Publius Rutilius and Aulus Verginius. And since the law of +our nature and of our life is that a new generation is for ever +springing up, the most desirable thing is that along with your +contemporaries, with whom you started in the race, you may also +teach what is to us the goal. But in view of the in-stability and +perishableness of mortal things, we should be continually on the +look-out for some to love and by whom to be loved; for if we lose +affection and kindliness from our life, we lose all that gives it +charm. For me, indeed, though torn away by a sudden stroke, +Scipio still lives and ever wilt live. For it was the virtue of the man +that I loved, and that has not suffered death. And it is not my eyes +only, because I had all my life a personal experience of it, that +never lose sight of it: it will shine to posterity also with undimmed +glory. No one will ever cherish a nobler ambition or a loftier hope +without thinking his memory and his image the best to put before +his eyes. I declare that of all the blessings which either fortune or +nature has bestowed upon me I know none to compare with +Scipio's friendship. In it I found sympathy in public, counsel in +private business; in it too a means of spending my leisure with +unalloyed delight. Never, to the best of my knowledge, did I +offend him even in the most trivial point; never did I hear a word +from him I could have wished unsaid. We had one house, one +table, one style of living; and not only were we together on foreign +service, but in our tours also and country sojourns. Why speak of +our eagerness to be ever gaining some knowledge, to be ever +learning something, on which we spent all our leisure hours far +from the gaze of the world? If the recollection and memory of +these things had perished with the man, I could not possibly have +endured the regret for one so closely united with me in life and +affection. But these things have not perished; they are rather fed +and strengthened by reflexion and memory. Even supposing me to +have been entirely bereft of them, still my time of life of itself +brings me no small consolation: for I cannot have much longer +now to bear this regret; and everything that is brief ought to be +endurable, however severe. + +This is all I had to say on friendship. One piece of advice on +parting. Make up your minds to this. Virtue (without which +friendship is impossible) is first; but next to it, and to it alone, the +greatest of all things is Friendship. + +On Old Age +by Marcus Tullius Cicero translated by E. S. Shuckburgh + +1. And should my service, Titus, ease the weight +Of care that wrings your heart, and draw the sting +Which rankles there, what guerdon shall there he? + +FOR I may address you, Atticus, in the lines in which Flamininus +was addressed by the man, + +who, poor in wealth, was rich in honour's gold, + +though I am well assured that you are not, as Flamininus was, + +kept on the rack of care by night and day. + +For I know how well ordered and equable your mind is, and am +fully aware that it was not a surname alone which you brought +home with you from Athens, hut its culture and good sense. And +yet I have an idea that you are at times stirred to the heart by the +same circumstances as myself. To console you for these is a more +serious matter, and must be put off to another time. For the present +I have resolved to dedicate to you an essay on Old Age. For from +the burden of impending or at least advancing age, common to us +both, I would do something to relieve us both though as to yourself +I am fully aware that you support and will support it, as you do +everything else, with calmness and philosophy. But directly I +resolved to write on old age, you at once occurred to me as +deserving a gift of which both of us might take advantage. To +myself, indeed, the composition of this book has been so +delightful, that it has not only wiped away all the disagreeables of +old age, but has even made it luxurious and delightful too. Never, +therefore, can philosophy be praised as highly as it deserves +considering that its faithful disciple is able to spend every period +of his life with unruffled feelings. However, on other subjects I +have spoken at large, and shall often speak again: +this hook which I herewith send you is on Old Age. I have put the +whole discourse not, as Alisto of Cos did, in the mouth of +Tithonus-for a mere fable would have lacked conviction-but in that +of Marcus Cato when he was an old man, to give my essay greater +weight. I represent Laelius and Scipio at his house expressing +surprise at his carrying his years so lightly, and Cato answering +them. If he shall seem to shew somewhat more learning in this +discourse than he generally did in his own books, put it down to +the Greek literature of which it is known that he became an eager +student in his old age. But what need of more? Cato's own words +will at once explain all I feel about old age. + + + +M. Cato. Publius Cornelius Scipio Africanus (the younger). Gaius +Laelius. + +2. _Scipio_. Many a time have I in conversation with my friend +Gaius Laelius here expressed my admiration, Marcus Cato, of the +eminent, nay perfect, wisdom displayed by you indeed at all +points, but above everything because I have noticed that old age +never seemed a burden to you, while to most old men it is so +hateful that they declare themselves under a weight heavier than +Aetna. + +_Cato_. Your admiration is easily excited, it seems, my dear +Scipio and Laelius. Men, of course, who have no resources in +themselves for securing a good and happy life find every age +burdensome. But those who look for all happiness from within +can never think anything had which nature makes inevitable. In +that category before anything else comes old age) to which all +wish to attain, and at which all grumble when attained. Such is +Folly's inconsistency and unreasonableness! They say that it is +stealing upon them faster than they expected. In the first place, +who compelled them to hug an illusion? For in what respect did +old age steal upon manhood faster than manhood upon childhood? +In the next place, in what way would old age have been less +disagreeable to them if they were in their eight-hundredth year +than in their eightieth? For their past, however long, when once it +was past, would have no consolation for a stupid old age. +Wherefore, if it is your wont to admire my wisdom-and I would +that it were worthy of your good opinion and of my own surname +of Sapiens-it really consists in the fact that I follow Nature, the +best of guides, as I would a god, and am loyal to her commands. It +is not likely, if she has written the rest of the play well, that she +has been careless about the last act like some idle poet. But after +all some "last" was inevitable, just as to the berries of a tree and +the fruits of the earth there comes in the fulness of time a period of +decay and fall. A wise man will not make a grievance of this. To +rebel against nature-is not that to fight like the giants with the +gods? + +_Laelius_. And yet, Cato, you will do us a very great favour (I +venture to speak for Scipio as for myself) if-since we all hope, or +at least wish, to become old men-you would allow us to learn from +you in good time before it arrives, by what methods we may most +easily acquire the strength to support the burden of advancing age. + +_Cato_. I will do so without doubt, Laelius, especially if, as you +say, it will be agreeable to you both. + + +_Laelius_ We do wish very much, Cato, if it is no trouble to you, +to be allowed to see the nature of the bourne which you have +reached after completing a long journey, as it were, upon which we +too are bound to embark. + +3. _Cato_. I will do the best I can, Laelius. It has often been my +fortune to bear the complaints of my contemporaries-like will to +like, you know, according to the old proverb-complaints to which +men like C. Salinator and Sp. Albinus, who were of consular rank +and about my time, used to give vent. They were, first, that they +had lost the pleasures of the senses, without which they did not +regard life as life at all; and, secondly, that they were neglected by +those from whom they had been used to receive attentions. Such +men appear to me to lay the blame on the wrong thing. For if it +had been the fault of old age, then these same misfortunes would +have befallen me and all other men of advanced years. But I have +known many of them who never said a word of complaint against +old age; for they were only too glad to be freed from the bondage +of passion, and were not at all looked down upon by their friends. +The fact is that the blame for all complaints of that kind is to be +charged to character, not to a particular time of life. For old men +who are reasonable and neither cross-grained nor churlish find old +age tolerable enough: whereas unreason and churlishness cause +uneasiness at every time of life. + +_Laelius_ It is as you say, Cato. But perhaps some one may +suggest that it is your large means, wealth, and high position that +make you think old age tolerable: whereas such good fortune only +falls to few. + +_Cato_. There is something in that, Laelius, but by no means all. +For instance, the story is told of the answer of Themistocles in a +wrangle with a certain Seriphian, who asserted that he owed his +brilliant position to the reputation of his country, not to his own. +"If I had been a Seriphian," said he, "even I should never have been +famous, nor would you if you had been an Athenian. Something +like this may be said of old age. For the philosopher himself could +not find old age easy to bear in the depths of poverty, nor the fool +feel it anything but a burden though he were a millionaire. You +may he sure, my dear Scipio and Laelius, that the arms best +adapted to old age are culture and the active exercise of the +virtues. For if they have been maintained at every period-if one +has lived much as well as long-the harvest they produce is +wonderful, not only because they never fail us even in our last days +(though that in itself is supremely important), but also because the +consciousness of a well-spent life and the recollection of many +virtuous actions are exceedingly delightful. + +4. Take the case of Q. Fabius Maximus, the man, I mean, who +recovered Tarentum. When I was a young man and he an old one, +I was as much attached to him as if he had been my contemporary. +For that great man 5 serious dignity was tempered by courteous +manners, nor had old age made any change in his character. True, +he was not exactly an old man when my devotion to him began, yet +he was nevertheless well on in life; for his first consulship fell in +the year after my birth. When quite a stripling I went with him in +his fourth consulship as a soldier in the ranks, on the expedition +against Capua, and in the fifth year after that against Tarentum. +Four years after that I was elected Quaestor, holding office in the +consulship of Tuditanus and Cethegus, in which year, indeed, he as +a very old man spoke in favour of the Cincian law "on gifts and +fees." + +Now this man conducted wars with all the spirit of youth when he +was far advanced in life, and by his persistence gradually wearied +out Hannibal, when rioting in all the confidence of youth. How +brilliant are those lines of my friend Ennius on him! + +For us, down beaten by the storms of fate, +One man by wise delays restored the State. +Praise or dispraise moved not his constant mood, +True to his purpose, to his country's good! +Down ever-lengthening avenues of fame +Thus shines and shall shine still his glorious name. + +Again what vigilance, what profound skill did he show in the +capture of Tarentum! It was indeed in my hearing that he made +the famous retort to Salinator, who had retreated into the citadel +after losing the town: "It was owing to me, Quintus Fabius, that +you retook Tarentum." Quite so," he replied with a laugh; "for had +you not lost it, I should never have recovered it." Nor was he less +eminent in civil life than in war. In his second consulship, though +his colleague would not move in the matter, he resisted as long as +he could the proposal of the tribune C. Flaminius to divide the +territory of the Picenians and Gauls in free allotments in defiance +of a resolution of the Senate. Again, though he was an augur, he +ventured to say that whatever was done in the interests of the State +was done with the best possible auspices, that any laws proposed +against its interest were proposed against the auspices. I was +cognisant of much that was admirable in that great man, but +nothing struck me with greater astonishment than the way in which +he bore the death of his son-a man of brilliant character and who +had been consul. His funeral speech over him is in wide +circulation, and when we read it, is there any philosopher of whom +we do not think meanly? Nor in truth was he only great in the light +of day and in the sight of his fellow-citizens; he was still more +eminent in private and at home. What a wealth of conversation! +What weighty maxims! What a wide acquaintance with ancient +history! What an accurate knowledge of the science of augury! For +a Roman, too, he had a great tincture of letters. He had a tenacious +memory for military history of every sort, whether of Roman or +foreign wars. And I used at that time to enjoy his conversation with +a passionate eagerness, as though I already divined, what actually +turned out to be the case, that when he died there would be no one +to teach me anything. + +5. What then is the purpose of such a long disquisition on +Maximus? It is because you now see that an old age like his cannot +conscientiously be called unhappy. Yet it is after all true that +everybody cannot be a Scipio or a Maximus, with stormings of +cities, with battles by land and sea, with wars in which they +themselves commanded, and with triumphs to recall. Besides this +there is a quiet, pure, and cultivated life which produces a calm +and gentle old age, such as we have been told Plato's was, who +died at his writing-desk in his eighty-first year; or like that of +Isocrates, who says that he wrote the book called The Panegyric in +his ninety-fourth year, and who lived for five years afterwards; +while his master Gorgias of Leontini completed a hundred and +seven years without ever relaxing his diligence or giving up work. +When some one asked him why he consented to remain so long +alive-" I have no fault," said he, "to find with old age." That was a +noble answer, and worthy of a scholar. For fools impute their own +frailties and guilt to old age, contrary to the practice of Enniu9, +whom I mentioned just now. In the lines- + +Like some brave steed that oft before +The Olympic wreath of victory bore, +Now by the weight of years oppressed, +Forgets the race, and takes his rest- + +he compares his own old age to that of a high-spirited and +successfal race-horse. And him indeed you may very well +remember. For the present consuls Titus Flamininus and Manius +Acilius were elected in the nineteenth year after his death; and his +death occurred in the consulship of Caepio and Philippus, the +latter consul for the second time: in which year I, then sixty-six +years old, spoke in favour of the Voconian law in a voice that was +still strong and with lungs still sound; while be, though seventy +years old, supported two burdens considered the heaviest of +all-poverty and old age-in such a way as to be all but fond of them. + +The fact is that when I come to think it over, I find that there are +four reasons for old age being thought unhappy: +First, that it withdraws us from active employments; second, that it +enfeebles the body; third, that it deprives us of nearly all physical +pleasures; fourth, that it is the next step to death. Of each of these +reasons, if you will allow me, let us examine the force and justice +separately. + +6. OLD AGE WITHDRAWS US FROM ACTIVE +EMPLOYMENTS. From which of them? Do you mean from thosc +carried on by youth and bodily strength? Are there then no old +men's employments to be after all conducted by the intellect, even +when bodies are weak? So then Q. Maximus did nothing; nor L. +Aemilius-our father, Scipio, and my excellent son's father-in-law! +So with other old men-the Fabricii, the Guru and Coruncanii-when +they were supporting the State by their advice and influence, they +were doing nothing! To old age Appius Claudius had the +additional disadvantage of being blind; yet it was he who, when +the Senate was inclining towards a peace with Pyrrhus and was for +making a treaty, did not hesitate to say what Ennius has embalmed +in the verses: + +Whither have swerved the souls so firm of yore? +Is sense grown senseless? Can feet stand no more? + +And so on in a tone of the most passionate vehemence. You know +the poem, and the speech of Appius himself is extant. Now, he +delivered it seventeen years after his second consulship, there +having been an interval of ten years between the two consulships, +and he having been censor before his previous consulship. This +will show you that at the time of the war with Pyrrhus he was a +very old man. Yet this is the story handed down to us. + +There is therefore nothing in the arguments of those who say that +old age takes no part in public business. They are like men who +would say that a steersman docs nothing in sailing a ship, because, +while some of the crew are climbing the masts, others hurrying up +and down the gangways, others pumping out the bilge water, he +sits quietly in the stern holding the tiller. He does not do what +young men do; nevertheless he does what is much more important +and better. The great affairs of life are not performed by physical +strength, or activity, or nimbleness of body, but by deliberation, +character, expression of opinion. Of these old age is not only not +deprived, but, as a rule, has them in a greater degree. Unless by +any chance I, who as a soldier in the ranks, as military tribune, as +legate, and as consul have been employed in various kinds of war, +now appear to you to be idle because not actively engaged in war. +But I enjoin upon the Senate what is to be done, and how. +Carthage has long been harbouring evil designs, and I accordingly +proclaim war against her in good time. I shall never cease to +entertain fears about her till I bear of her having been levelled with +the ground. The glory of doing that I pray that the immortal gods +may reserve for you, Scipio, so that you may complete the task +begun by your grand-father, now dead more than thirty-two years +ago; though all years to come will keep that great man's memory +green. He died in the year before my censorship, nine years after +my consulship, having been returned consul for the second time in +my own consulship. If then he had lived to his hundredth year, +would he have regretted having lived to be old? For he would of +course not have been practising rapid marches, nor dashing on a +foe, nor hurling spears from a distance, nor using swords at close +quarters-but only counsel, reason, and senatorial eloquence. And if +those qualities had not resided in us _seniors_, our ancestors +would never have called their supreme council a Senate. At +Sparta, indeed, those who hold the highest magistracies are in +accordance with the fact actually called "elders." But if you will +take the trouble to read or listen to foreign history, you will find +that the mightiest States have been brought into peril by young +men, have been supported and restored by old. The question +occurs in the poet Naevius's _Sport_: + +Pray, who are those who brought your State +With such despatch to meet its fate? + +There is a long answer, but this is the chief point: + +A crop of brand-new orators we grew, +And foolish, paltry lads who thought they knew. + +For of course rashness is the note of youth, prudence of old age. + +7. But, it is said, memory dwindles. No doubt, unless you keep it in +practice, or if you happen to be somewhat dull by nature. +Themistocles had the names of all his fellow-citizens by heart. Do +you imagine that in his old age he used to address Aristides as +Lysimachus? For my part, I know not only the present generation, +but their fathers also, and their grandfathers. Nor have I any fear of +losing my memory by reading tombstones, according to the vulgar +superstition. On the contrary, by reading them I renew my +memory of those who are dead and gone. Nor, in point of fact, +have I ever heard of any old man forgetting where he had hidden +his money. They remember everything that interests them: when +to answer to their bail, business appointments, who owes them +money, and to whom they owe +it. What about lawyers, pontiffs, augurs, philosophers, when old? +What a multitude of things they remember! Old men retain their +intellects well enough, if only they keep their minds active and +fully employed. Nor is that the case only with men of high +position and great office: +it applies equally to private life and peaceful pursuits. Sophocles +composed tragedies to extreme old age; and being believed to +neglect the care of his property owing to his devotion to his art, his +sons brought him into court to get a judicial decision depriving +him of the management of his property on the ground of weak +intellect-just as in our law it is customary to deprive a +paterfamilias of the management of his property if he is +squandering it. There-upon the old poet is said to have read to the +judges the play he had on hand and had just composed-the +_Oedipus Coloneus_-and to have asked them whether they thought +that the work of a man of weak intellect. After the reading he was +acquitted by the jury. Did old age then compel this man to become +silent in his particular art, or Homer, Hesiod, Simonides, or +Isocrates and Gorgias whom I mentioned before, or the founders of +schools of philosophy, Pythagoras, Democritus, Plato, Xenocrates, +or later Zeno and Cleanthus, or Diogenes the Stoic, whom you too +saw at Rome? Is it not rather the case with all these that the active +pursuit of study only ended with life? + +But, to pass over these sublime studies, I can name some rustic +Romans from the Sabine district, neighbours and friends of my +own, without whose presence farm work of importance is scarcely +ever performed-whether sowing, or harvesting or storing crops. +And yet in other things this s' less surprising; for no one is so old +as to think that he may not live a year. But they bestow their labour +on what they know does not affect them in any case: + +He plants his trees to serve a race to come, + +as our poet Statius says in his Comrades. Nor indeed would a +farmer, however old, hesitate to answer any one who asked him for +whom he was planting: "For the immortal gods, whose will it was +that I should not merely receive these things from my ancestors, +but should also hand them on to the next generation." + +8. That remark about the old man is better than the following: + +If age brought nothing worse than this, +It were enough to mar our bliss, +That he who bides for many years +Sees much to shun and much for tears. + +Yes, and perhaps much that gives him pleasure too. Besides, as to +subjects for tears, he often comes upon them in youth as well. + +A still more questionable sentiment in the same Caecilius is: + +No greater misery can of age be told +Than this: be sure, the young dislike the old. + +Delight in them is nearer the mark than dislike. For Just as old +men, if they are wise, take pleasure in the society of young men of +good parts, and as old age is rendered less dreary for those who are +courted and liked by the youth, so also do young men find pleasure +in the maxims of the old, by which they are drawn to the pursuit of +excellence. Nor do I perceive that you find my society less +pleasant than I do yours. But this is enough to show you how, so +far from being listless and sluggish, old age is even a busy time, +always doing and attempting something, of course of the same +nature as each man's taste had been in the previous part of his life. +Nay, do not some even add to their stock of learning? We see +Solon, for instance, boasting in his poems that he grows old "daily +learning something new." Or again in my own case, it was only +when an old man that I became acquainted with Greek literature, +which in fact I absorbed with such avidity-in my yearning to +quench, as it were, a long-continued thirst-that I became +acquainted with the very facts which you see me now using as +precedents. When I heard what Socrates had done about the lyre I +should have liked for my part to have done that too, for the +ancients used to learn the lyre but, at any rate, I worked hard at +literature. + +9. Nor, again, do I now MISS THE BODILY STRENGTH OF A +YOUNG MAN (for that was the second point as to the +disadvantages of old age) any more than as a young man I missed +the strength of a bull or an elephant. You should use what you +have, and whatever you may chance to be doing, do it with all your +might. What could be weaker than Milo of Croton's exclamation? +When in his old age he was watching some athletes practising in +the course, he is said to have looked at his arms and to have +exclaimed with tears in his eyes: "Ah well! these are now as good +as dead." Not a bit more so than yourself, you trifler! For at no +time were you made famous by your real self, but by chest and +biceps. Sext. Aelius never gave vent to such a remark, nor, many +years before him, Titus Coruncanius, nor, more recently, P. +Crassus-all of them learned juris-consults in active practice, whose +knowledge of their profession was maintained to their last breath. I +am afraid an orator does lose vigour by old age, for his art is not a +matter of the intellect alone, but of lungs and bodily strength. +Though as a rule that musical ring in the voice even gains in +brilliance in a certain way as one grows old-certainly I have not yet +lost it, and you see my years. Yet after all the style of speech +suitable to an old man is the quiet and unemotional, and it often +happens that the chastened and calm delivery of an old man +eloquent secures a hearing. If you cannot attain to that yourself, +you might still instruct a Scipio and a Laelius. For what is more +charming than old age surrounded by the enthusiasm of youth? +Shall we not allow old age even the strength to teach the young, to +train and equip them for all the duties of life? And what can be a +nobler employment? For my part, I used to think Publius and +Gnaeus Scipio and your two grandfathers, L. Aemilius and P. +Africanus, fortunate men when I saw them with a company of +young nobles about them. Nor should we think any teachers of the +fine arts otherwise than happy, however much their bodily forces +may have decayed and failed. And yet that same failure of the +bodily forces is more often brought about by the vices of youth +than of old age; for a dissolute and intemperate youth hands down +the body to old age in a worn-out state. Xenophon's Cyrus, for +instance, in his discourse delivered on his death-bed and at a very +advanced age, says that he never perceived his old age to have +become weaker than his youth had been. I remember as a boy +Lucius Metellus, who having been created Pontifex Maximus four +years after his second consul-ship, held that office twenty-two +years, enjoying such excellent strength of body in the very last +hours of his life as not to miss his youth. I need not speak of +myself; though that indeed is an old man's way and is generally +allowed to my time of life. Don't you see in Homer how frequently +Nestor talks of his own good qualities? For he was living through a +third generation; nor had he any reason to fear that upon saying +what was true about himself he should appear either over vain or +talkative. For, as Homer says, "from his lips flowed discourse +sweeter than honey," for which sweet breath he wanted no bodily +strength. And yet, after all, the famous leader of the Greeks +nowhere wishes to have ten men like Ajax, but like Nestor: if he +could get them, he feels no doubt of Troy shortly falling. + +10. But to return to my own case: I am in my eighty-fourth year. I +could wish that I had been able to make the same boast as Cyrus; +but, after all, I can say this: I am not indeed as vigorous as I was as +a private soldier in the Punic war, or as quaestor in the same war, +or as consul in Spain, and four years later when as a military +tribune I took part in the engagement at Thermopylae under the +consul Manius Acilius Glabrio; but yet, as you see, old age has not +entirely destroyed my muscles, has not quite brought me to the +ground. The Senate-house does not find all my vigour gone, nor +the rostra, nor my friends, nor my clients, nor my foreign guests. +For I have never given in to that ancient and much-praised proverb: + +Old when young +Is old for long. + +For myself, I had rather be an old man a somewhat shorter time +than an old man _before_ my time. Accordingly, no one up to the +present has wished to see me, to whom I have been denied as +engaged. But, it may be said, I have less strength than either of +you. Neither have you the strength of the centurion T. Pontius: is +he the more eminent man on that account? Let there be only a +proper husbanding of strength, and let each man proportion his +efforts to his powers. Such an one will assuredly not be possessed +with any great regret for his loss of strength. At Olympia Milo is +said to have stepped into the course carrying a live ox on his +shoulders. Which then of the two would you prefer to have given +to you-bodily strength like that, or intellectual strength like that of +Pythagoras? In fine, enjoy that blessing when you have it; when it +is gone, don't wish it back-unless we are to think that young men +should wish their childhood back, and those somewhat older their +youth! The course of life is fixed, and nature admits of its being +run but in one way, and only once; and to each part of our life +there is something specially seasonable; so that the feebleness of +children, as well as the high spirit of youth, the soberness of +maturer years, and the ripe wisdom of old age-all have a certain +natural advantage which should be secured in its proper season. I +think you are informed, Scipio, what your grandfather's foreign +friend Masinissa does to this day, though ninety years old. When +he has once begun a journey on foot he does not mount his horse at +all; when on horseback he never gets off his horse. By no rain or +cold can he be induced to cover his head. His body is absolutely +free from unhealthy humours, and so he still performs all the +duties and functions of a king. Active exercise, therefore, and +temperance can preserve some part of one's former strength even +in old age. + +11. Bodily strength is wanting to old age; but neither is bodily +strength demanded from old men. Therefore, both by law and +custom, men of my time of life are exempt from those duties +which cannot be supported without bodily strength. Accordingly +not only are we not forced to do what we cannot do; we are not +even obliged to do as much as we can. But, it will be said, many +old men are so feeble that they cannot perform any duty in life of +any sort or kind. That is not a weakness to be set down as peculiar +to 61d age: +it is one shared by ill health. How feeble was the son of P. +Africanus, who adopted you! What weak health he had, or rather +no health at all! If that had not been the case, we should have had +in him a second brilliant light in the political horizon; for he had +added a wider cultivation to his father's greatness of spirit. What +wonder, then, that old men are eventually feeble, when even young +men cannot escape it? My dear Laelius and Scipio, we must stand +up against old age and make up for its drawbacks by taking pains. +We must fight it as we should an illness. We must look after our +health, use moderate exercise, take just enough food and drink to +recruit, but not to overload, our strength. Nor is it the body alone +that must be supported, but the intellect and soul much more. For +they are like lamps: unless you feed them with oil, they too go out +from old age. Again, the body is apt to get gross from exercise; but +the intellect becomes nimbler by exercising itself. For what +Caecilius means by "old dotards of the comic stage " are the +credulous, the forgetful, and the slipshod. These are faults that do +not attach to old age as such, but to a sluggish, spiritless, and +sleepy old age. Young men are more frequently wanton and +dissolute than old men; but yet, as it is not all young men that are +so, but the bad set among them, even so senile folly-usually called +imbecility-applies to old men of unsound character, not to all. +Appius governed four sturdy sons, five daughters, that great +establishment, and all those clients, though he was both old and +blind. For he kept his mind at full stretch like a how, and never +gave in to old age by growing slack. He maintained not merely an +influence, but an absolute command over his family: his slaves +feared him, his sons were in awe of him, all loved him. In that +family, indeed, ancestral custom and discipline were in full vigour. +The fact is that old age is respectable just as long as it asserts +itself, maintains its proper rights, and is not enslaved to any one. +For as I admire a young man who has something of the old man in +him, so do I an old one who has something of a young man. The +man who aims at this may possibly become old in body-in mind he +never will. I am now engaged in composing the seventh book of +my _Origins_. I collect all the records of antiquity. The speeches +delivered in all the celebrated cases which I have defended I am at +this particular time getting into shape for publication. I am writing +treatises on augural, pontifical, and civil law. I am, besides, +studying hard at Greek, and after the manner of the +Pythagoreans-to keep my memory in working order-I repeat in the +evening whatever I have said, heard, or done in the course of each +day. These are the exercises of the intellect, these the training +grounds of the mind: while I sweat and labour on these I don't +much feel the loss of bodily strength. I appear in court for my +friends; I frequently attend the Senate and bring motions before it +on my own responsibility, prepared after deep and long reflection. +And these I support by my intellectual, not my bodily forces. And +if I were not strong enough to do these things, yet I should enjoy +my sofa-imagining the very operations which I was now unable to +perform. But what makes me capable of doing this is my past life. +For a man who is always living in the midst of these studies and +labours does not perceive when old age creeps upon him. Thus, by +slow and imperceptible degrees life draws to its end. There is no +sudden breakage; it just slowly goes out. + +12. The third charge against old age is that it LACKS SENSUAL +PLEASURES. What a splendid service does old age render, if it +takes from us the greatest blot of youth! Listen, my dear young +friends, to a speech of Archytas of Tarentum, among the greatest +and most illustrious of men, which was put into my hands when as +a young man I was at Tarentum with Q. Maximus. "No more +deadly curse than sensual pleasure has been inflicted on mankind +by nature, to gratify which our wanton appetites are roused beyond +all prudence or restraint. It is a fruitful source of treasons, +revolutions, secret communications with the enemy. In fact, there +is no crime, no evil deed, to which the appetite for sensual +pleasures does not impel us. Fornications and adulteries, and +every abomination of that kind, are brought about by the +enticements of pleasure and by them alone. Intellect is the best gift +of nature or God: to this divine gift and endowment there is +nothing so inimical as pleasure. For when appetite is our master, +there is no place for self-control; nor where pleasure reigns +supreme can virtue hold its ground. To see this more vividly, +imagine a man excited to the highest conceivable pitch of sensual +pleasure. It can be doubtful to no one that such a person, so long as +he is under the influence of such excitation of the senses, will be +unable to use to any purpose either intellect, reason, or thought. +Therefore nothing can be so execrable and so fatal as pleasure; +since, when more than ordinarily violent and lasting, it darkens all +the light of the soul." + +These were the words addressed by Archytas to the Samnite Caius +Pontius, father of the man by whom the consuls Spurius Postumius +and Titus Veturius were beaten in the battle of Caudium. My +friend Nearchus of Tarentum, who had remained loyal to Rome, +told me that he had heard them repeated by some old men; and +that Plato the Athenian was present, who visited Tarentum, I find, +in the consulship of L. Camillus and Appius Claudius. + +What is the point of all this? It is to show you that, if we were +unable to scorn pleasure by the aid of reason and philosophy, we +ought to have been very grateful to old age for depriving us of all +inclination for that which it was wrong to do. For pleasure hinders +thought, is a foe to reason, and, so to speak, blinds the eyes of the +mind. It is, moreover, entirely alien to virtue. I was sorry to have +to expel Lucius, brother of the gallant Titus Flamininus, from the +Senate seven years after his consulship; but I thought it imperative +to affix a stigma on an act of gross sensuality. For when he was in +Gaul as consul, he had yielded to the entreaties of his paramour at +a dinner-party to behead a man who happened to be in prison +condemned on a capital charge. When his brother Titus was +Censor, who preceded me, he escaped; but I and Flaccus could not +countenance an act of such criminal and abandoned lust, especially +as, besides the personal dishonour, it brought disgrace on the +Government. + +13. I have often been told by men older than myself, who said that +they had heard it as boys from old men, that Gaius Fabricius was in +the habit of expressing astonishment at having heard, when envoy +at the headquarters of king Pyrrhus, from the Thessalian Cineas, +that there was a man of Athens who professed to be a +"philosopher," and affirmed that everything we did was to be +referred to pleasure. When he told this to Manius Curius and +Publius Decius, they used to remark that they wished that the +Samnites and Pyrrhus himself would hold the same opinion. It +would be much easier to conquer them, if they had once given +themselves over to sensual indulgences. Manius Curius had been +intimate with P. Decius, who four years before the former's +consulship had devoted himself to death for the Republic. Both +Fabricius and Coruncanius knew him also, and from the +experience of their own lives, as well as from the action of P. +Decius, they were of opinion that there did exist something +intrinsically noble and great, which was sought for its own sake, +and at which all the best men aimed, to the contempt and neglect +of pleasure. Why then do I spend so many words on the subject of +pleasure? Why, because, far from being a charge against old age, +that it does not much feel the want of any pleasures, it is its highest +praise. + +But, you will say, it is deprived of the pleasures of the table, the +heaped up board, the rapid passing of the wine-cup. Well, then, it +is also free from headache, disordered digestion, broken sleep. But +if we must grant pleasure something, since we do not find it easy +to resist its charms,-for Plato, with happy inspiration, calls +pleasure "vice's bait," because of course men are caught by it as +fish by a hook,-yet, although old age has to abstain from +extravagant banquets, it is still capable of enjoying modest +festivities. As a boy I often used to see Gaius Duilius the son of +Marcus, then an old mali, returning from a dinner-party. He +thoroughly enjoyed the frequent use of torch and flute-player, +distinctions which he had assumed though unprecedented in the +case of a private person. It was the privilege of his glory. But why +mention others? I will come back to my own case. To begin with, I +have always remained a member of a "club "-clubs, you know, +were established in my quaestorship on the reception of the Magna +Mater from Ida. So I used to dine at their feast with the members +of my club-on the whole with moderation, though there was a +certain warmth of temperament natural to my time of life; but as +that advances there is a daily decrease of all excitement. Nor was +I, in fact, ever wont to measure my enjoyment even of these +banquets by the physical pleasures they gave more than by the +gathering and conversation of friends. For it was a good idea of our +ancestors to style the presence of guests at a dinner-table-seeing +that it implied a community of enjoyment-a _convivium_, "a living +together." It is a better term than the Greek words which mean "a +drinking together," or, "an eating together." For they would seem +to give the preference to what is really the least important part of +it. + +14. For myself, owing to the pleasure I take in conversation, I +enjoy even banquets that begin early in the afternoon, and not only +in company with my contemporaries-of whom very few +survive-but also with men of your age and with yourselves. I am +thankful to old age, which has increased my avidity for +conversation, while it has removed that for eating and drinking. +But if anyone does enjoy these-not to seem to have proclaimed war +against all pleasure without exception, which is perhaps a feeling +inspired by nature-I fail to perceive even in these very pleasures +that old age is entirely without the power of appreciation. For +myself, I take delight even in the old-fashioned appointment of +master of the feast; and in the arrangement of the conversation, +which according to ancestral custom is begun from the last place +on the left-hand couch when the wine is brought in; as also in the +cups which, as in Xenophon's banquet, are small and filled by +driblets; and in the contrivance for cooling in summer, and for +warming hy the winter sun or winter fire. These things I keep up +even among my Sabine countrymen, and every day have a full +dinner-party of neighbours, which we prolong as far into the night +as we can with varied conversation. + +But you may urge-there is not the same tingling sensation of +pleasure in old men. No doubt; but neither do they miss it so +much. For nothing gives you uneasiness which you do not miss. +That was a fine answer of Sophocles to a man who asked him, +when in extreme old age, whether he was still a lover. "Heaven +forbid!" he replied; "I was only too glad to escape from that, as +though from a boorish and insane master." To men indeed who +are keen after such things it may possibly appear disagreeable and +uncomfortable to be without them; but to jaded appetites it is +pleasanter to lack than to enjoy. However, he cannot be said to +lack who does not want: my contention is that not to want is the +pleasanter thing. + +But even granting that youth enjoys these pleasures with more +zest; in the first place, they are insignificant things to enjoy, as I +have said; and it] the second place, such as age is not entirely +without, if it does not possess them in profusion. Just as a man +gets greater pleasure from Ambivius Turpio if seated in the front +row at the theatre than if he was in the last, yet, after all, the man +in the last row does get pleasure; so youth, because it looks at +pleasures at closer quarters, perhaps enjoys itself more, yet even +old age, looking at them from a distance, does enjoy itself well +enough. Why, what blessings are these-that the soul, having +served its time, so to speak, in the campaigns of desire and +ambition, rivalry and hatred, and all the passions, should live in its +own thoughts, and, as the expression goes, should dwell apart! +Indeed, if it has in store any of what I may call the food of study +and philosophy, nothing can be pleasanter than an old age of +leisure. We were witnesses to C. Gallus-a friend of your father's, +Scipio-intent to the day of his death on mapping out the sky and +land. How often did the light surprise him while still working out +a problem begun during the night! How often did night find him +busy on what he had begun at dawn! How he delighted in +predicting for us solar and lunar eclipses long before they +occurred! Or again in studies of a lighter nature, though still +requiring keenness of intellect, what pleasure Naevius took in his +_Punic War_! Plautus in his _Truculentus_ and _Pseudolus_! I +even saw Livius Andronicus, who, having produced a play six +years before I was born-in the consulship of Cento and +Tuditanus-lived till I had become a young man. Why speak of +Publius Licinius Crassus's devotion to pontifical and civil law, or +of the Publius Scipio of the present time, who within these last few +days has been created Pontifex Maximus? And yet I have seen all +whom I have mentioned ardent in these pursuits when old men. +Then there is Marcus Cethegus, whom Ennius justly called +"Persuasion's Marrow "-with what enthusiasm did we see him +exert himself in oratory even when quite old! What pleasures are +there 'n feasts, games, or mistresses comparable to pleasures such +as these? And they are all tastes, too, connected with learning, +which in men of sense and good education grow with their growth. +It is indeed an honourable sentiment which Solon expresses in a +verse which I have quoted before-that he grew old learning many a +fresh lesson every day. Than that intellectual pleasure none +certainly can be greater. + +15. I come now to the pleasures of the farmer, in which [ take +amazing delight. These are not hindered by any extent of old age, +and seem to me to approach nearest to' the ideal wise man's life. +For he has to deal with the earth, which never refuses its +obedience, nor ever returns what it has received without usury; +sometimes, indeed, with less, but generally with greater interest. +For my part, however. it is not merely the thing produced, but the +earth's own force and natural productiveness that delight me. For +received in its bosom the seed scattered broadcast upon it, +softened and broken up, she first keeps it concealed therein (hence +the harrowing which accomplishes this gets its name from a word +meaning "to hide"); next, when it has been warmed by her heat +and close pressure, she splits it open and draws from it the +greenery of the blade. This, supported by the fibres of the root, +little by little grows up, and held upright by its jointed stalk is +enclosed in sheaths, as being still immature. When it has emerged +from them it produces an ear of corn arranged in order, and is +defended against the pecking of the smaller birds by a regular +palisade of spikes. + +Need I mention the starting, planting, and growth of vines? I can +never have too much of this pleasure-to let you into the secret of +what gives my old age repose and amusement. For I say nothing +here of the natural force which all things propagated from the +earth possess-the earth which from that tiny grain in a fig, or the +grape-stone in a grape, or the most minute seeds of the other +cereals and plants, produces such huge trunks and boughs. +Mallet-shoots, slips, cuttings, quicksets, layers-are they not enough +to fill anyone with delight and astonishment? The vine by nature is +apt to fall, and unless supported drops down to the earth; yet in +order to keep itself upright it embraces whatever it reaches with its +tendrils as though they were hands. Then as it creeps on, +spreading itself in intricate and wild profusion, the dresser's art +prunes it with the knife and prevents it growing a forest of shoots +and expanding to excess in every direction. Accordingly at the +beginning of spring in the shoots which have been left there +protrudes at each of the joints what is termed an +From this the grape emerges and shows itself; which, swollen by +the juice of the earth and the heat of the sun, is at first very bitter +to the taste, but afterwards grows sweet as it matures; and being +covered with tendrils is never without a moderate warmth, and yet +is able to ward off the fiery heat of the sun. Can anything be richer +in product or more beautiful to contemplate? It is not its utility +only, as I said before, that charms me, but the method of its +cultivation and the natural process of its growth: the rows of +uprights, the cross-pieces for the tops of the plants, the tying up of +the vines and their propagation by layers, the pruning, to which I +have already referred, of some shoots, the setting of others. I need +hardly mention irrigation, or trenching and digging the soil, which +much increase its fertility. As to the advantages of manuring I have +spoken in my book on agriculture. The learned Hesiod did not say +a single word on this subject, though he was writing on the +cultivation of the soil; yet Homer, who in my opinion was many +generations earlier, represents Laertes as softening his regret for +his son by cultivating and manuring his farm. Nor is it only in +cornfields and meadows and vineyards and plantations that a +farmer's life is made cheerful. There are the garden and the +orchard, the feeding of sheep, the swarms of bees, endless varieties +of flowers. Nor is it only planting out that charms: there is also +grafting-surely the most ingenious invention ever made by +husbandmen. + +i6. I might continue my list of the delights of country life; but +even what I have said I think is somewhat over long. However, you +must pardon me; for farming is a very favourite hobby of mine, +and old age is naturally rather garrulous-for I would not be thought +to acquit it of all faults. + +Well, it was in a life of this sort that Manius Curius, after +celebrating triumphs over the Samnites, the Sabines, and Pyrrhus, +spent his last days. When I look at his villa-for it is not far from +my own-I never can enough admire the man's own frugality or the +spirit of the age. As Curius was sitting at his hearth the Samnites, +who brought him a large sum of gold, were repulsed by him; for it +was not, lie said, a fine thing in his eyes to possess gold, but to rule +those who possessed it. Could such a high spirit fail to make old +age pleasant? + +But to return to farmers-not to wander from my own metier. Tn +those days there were senators, _i. e_. old men, on their farms. For +L. Quinctius Cincinnatus was actually at the plough when word +was brought him that he had been named Dictator. It was by his +order as Dictator, by the way, that C. Servilius Ahala, the Master +of the Horse, seized and put to death Spurius Maelius when +attempting to obtain royal power. Curius as well as other old men +used to receive their summonses to attend the Senate in their +farm-houses, from which circumstance the summoners were called +_viatores_ or "travellers." Was these men's old age an object of +pity who found their pleasure in the cultivation of the land? In my +opinion, scarcely any life can be more blessed, not alone from its +utility (for agriculture is beneficial to the whole human race), but +also as much from the mere pleasure of the thing, to which I have +already alluded, and from the rich abundance and supply of all +things necessary for the food of man and for the worship of the +gods above. So, as these are objects of desire to certain people, let +us make our peace with pleasure. For the good and hard-working +farmer's wine-cellar and oil-store, as well as his larder, are always +well filled, and his whole farm-house is richly furnished. It +abounds in pigs, goats, lambs, fowls, milk, cheese, and. honey. +Then there is the garden, which the farmers themselves call their " +second flitch." A zest and flavour is added to all these by hunting +and fowling in spare hours. Need I mention the greenery of +meadows, the rows of trees, the beauty of vineyard and +olive-grove? I 'will put it briefly: nothing can either furnish +necessaries more richly, or present a fairer spectacle, than +well-cultivated land. And to the enjoyment of that, old age does +not merely present no hindrance-it actually invites and allures to it. +For where else can it better warm itself, either by basking in the +sun or by sitting by the fire, or at the proper time cool itself more +wholesomely by the help of shade or water? Let the young keep +their arms then to themselves, their horses, spears, their foils and +ball, their swimming baths and running path. To us old men let +them, out of the many forms of sport, leave dice and counters; but +even that as they choose, since old age can be quite happy without +them. + +17. Xenophon's books are very useful for many purposes. Pray go +on reading them with attention, as you have ever done. In what +ample terms is agriculture lauded by him in the book about +husbanding one's property, which is called _Oceonomicus_! But to +show you that he thought nothing so worthy of a prince as the taste +for cultivating the soil, I will translate what Socrates says to +Critobulus in that book: + +"When that most gallant Lacedaemonian Lysander came to visit +the Persian prince Cyrus at Sardis, so eminent for his character and +the glory of his rule, bringing him presents from his allies, he +treated Lysander in all ways with courteous familiarity and +kindness, and, among other things, took him to see a certain park +carefully planted. Lysander expressed admiration of the height of +the trees and the exact arrangement of their rows in the quincunx, +the careful cultivation of the soil, its freedom from weeds, and the +sweetness of the odours exhaled from the flowers, and went on to +say that what he admired was not the industry only, but also the +skill of the man by whom this had been planned and laid out. +Cyrus replied: 'Well, it was I who planned the whole thing these +rows are my doing, the laying out is all mine; many of the trees +were even planted by own hand.' Then Lysander, looking at his +purple robe, the brilliance of his person, and his adornment Persian +fashion with gold and many jewels, said: 'People are quite right, +Cyrus, to call you happy, since the advantages of high fortune have +been joined to an excellence like yours.'" + +This kind of good fortune, then, it is in the power of old men to +enjoy; nor is age any bar to our maintaining pursuits of every other +kind, and especially of agriculture, to the very extreme verge of +old age. For instance, we have it on record that M. Valerius +Corvus kept it up to his hundredth year, living on his land and +cultivating it after his active career was over, though between his +first and sixth consulships there was an interval of six and forty +years. So that he had an official career lasting the number of years +which our ancestors defined as coming between birth and the +beginning of old age. Moreover, that last period of his old age was +more blessed than that of his middle life, inasmuch as he had +greater influence and less labour. For the crowning grace of old +age is influence. + +How great was that of L. Caecilius Metellus! How great that of +Atilius Calatinus, over whom the famous epitaph was placed, +"Very many classes agree in deeming this to have been the very +first man of the nation"! The line cut on his tomb is well known. It +is natural, then, that a man should have had influence, in whose +praise the verdict of history is unanimous. Again, in recent times, +what a great man was Publius Crassus, Pontifex Maximus, and his +successor in the same office, M. Lepidus! I need scarcely mention +Paulus or Africanus, or, as I did before, Maximus. It was not only +their senatorial utterances that had weight: their least gesture had it +also. In fact, old age, especially when it has enjoyed honours, has +an influence worth all the pleasures of youth put together. + +18. But throughout my discourse remember that my panegyric +applies to an old age that has been established on foundations laid +by youth. From which may be deduced what I once said with +universal applause, that it was a wretched old age that had to +defend itself by speech. Neither white hairs nor wrinkles can at +once claim influence in themselves: it is the honourable conduct of +earlier days that is rewarded by possessing influence at the last. +Even things generally regarded as trifling and matters of +course-being saluted, being courted, having way made for one, +people rising when one approaches, being escorted to and from the +forum, being referred to for advice-all these are marks of respect, +observed among us and in other States-always most sedulously +where the moral tone is highest. They say that Lysander the +Spartan, whom I have mentioned before, used to remark that +Sparta was the most dignified home for old age; for that nowhere +was more respect paid to years, no-where was old age held in +higher honour. Nay, the story is told of how when a man of +advanced years came into the theatre at Athens when the games +were going on, no place was given him anywhere in that large +assembly by his own countrymen; but when he came near the +Lacedaemonians, who as ambassadors had a fixed place assigned +to them, they rose as one man out of respect for him, and gave the +veteran a seat. When they were greeted with rounds of applause +from the whole audience, one of them remarked: + +"The Athenians know what is right, but will not do it." There are +many excellent rules in our augural college, but among the best is +one which affects our subject-that precedence in speech goes by +seniority; and augurs who are older are preferred only to those who +have held higher office, but even to those who are actually in +possession of imperium. What then are the physical pleasures to be +compared with the reward of influence? Those who have +employed it with distinction appear to me to have played the +drama of life to its end, and not to have broken down in the last act +like unpractised players. + +But, it will be said, old men are fretful, fidgety, ill-tempered, and +disagreeable. If you come to that, they are also avaricious. But +these are faults of character, not of the time of life. And, after all, +fretfulness and the other faults I mentioned admit of some +excuse-not, indeed, a complete one, but one that may possibly pass +muster: they think them-selves neglected, looked down upon, +mocked, Besides with bodily weakness every rub is a source of +pain. Yet all these faults are softened both by good character and +good education. Illustrations of this may be found in real life, as +also on the stage in the case of the brothers in the _Adeiphi_. What +harshness in the one, what gracious manners in the other The fact +is that, just as it is not every wine, so it is not every life, that turns +sour from keeping, Serious gravity I approve of in old age, but, as +in other things, it must be within due limits: bitterness I can in no +case approve. What the object of senile avarice may be I cannot +conceive. For can there be anything more absurd than to seek more +journey money, the less there remains of the journey? + +19. There remains the fourth reason, which more than anything +else appears to torment men of my age and keep them in a +flutter-THE NEARNESS OF DEATH, which, it must be allowed, +cannot be far from an old man. But what a poor dotard must he be +who has not learnt in the course of so long a life that death is not a +thing to be feared? Death, that is either to be totally disregarded, if +it entirely extinguishes the soul, or is even to be desired, if it brings +him where he is to exist forever. A third alternative, at any rate, +cannot possibly be discovered. Why then should I be afraid if I am +destined either not to be miserable after death or even to be happy? +After all, who is such a fool as to feel certain-however young he +may be-that he will be alive in the evening? Nay, that time of life +has many more chances of death than ours, Young men more +easily contract diseases; their illnesses are more serious; their +treatment has to be more severe. Accordingly, only a few arrive at +old age. If that were not so, life would be conducted better and +more wisely; for it is in old men that thought, reason, and prudence +are to be found; and if there had been no old men, States would +never have existed at all. But I return to the subject of the +imminence of death. What sort of charge is this against old age, +when you see that it is shared by youth? I had reason in the case of +my excellent son-as you had, Scipio, in that of your brothers, who +were expected to attain the highest honours-to realise that death is +common to every time of life. Yes, you will say; but a young man +expects to live long; an old man cannot expect to do so. Well, he +is a fool to expect it. For what can be more foolish than to regard +the uncertain as certain, the false as true? "An old man has nothing +even to hope." Ah, but it is just there that he is in a better position +than a young man, since what the latter only hopes he has +obtained. The one wishes to live long; the other has lived long. + +And yet, good heaven! what is "long" in a man's life? For grant the +utmost limit: let us expect an age like that of the King of the +Tartessi. For there was, as I find recorded, a certain Agathonius at +Gades who reigned eighty years and lived a hundred and twenty. +But to my mind nothing seems even long in which there is any +"last," for when that arrives, then all the past has slipped away-only +that remains to which you have attained by virtue and righteous +actions. Hours indeed, and days and months and years depart, nor +does past time ever return, nor can the future be known. Whatever +time each is granted for life, with that he is bound to be content. +An actor, in order to earn approval, is not bound to perform the +play from beginning to end; let him only satisfy the audience in +whatever act he appears. Nor need a wise man go on to the +concluding "plaudite." For a short term of life is long enough for +living well and honourably. But if you go farther, you have no +more right to grumble than farmers do because the charm of the +spring season is past and the summer and autumn have come. For +the word "spring" in a way suggests youth, and points to the +harvest to be: the other seasons are suited for the reaping and +storing of the crops. Now the harvest of old age is, as I have often +said, the memory and rich store of blessings laid up in easier life. +Again, all things that accord with nature are to be counted as good. +But what can be more in accordance with nature than for old men +to die? A thing, indeed, which also beliefs young men, though +nature revolts and fights against it. Accordingly, the death of +young men seems to me like putting out a great fire with a deluge +of water; but old men die like a fire going out because it has burnt +down of its own nature without artificial means. Again, just as +apples when unripe are torn from trees, but when ripe and mellow +drop down, so it is violence that takes life from young men, +ripeness from old. This ripeness is so delightful to me, that, as I +approach nearer to death, I seem as it were to be sighting land, and +to be coming to port at last after a long voyage. + +20. Again, there is no fixed borderline for old age, and you are +making a good and proper use of it as long as you can satisfy the +call of duty and disregard death. The result of this is, that old age +is even more confident and courageous than youth. That is the +meaning of Solon's answer to the tyrant Pisistratus. When the latter +asked him what he relied upon in opposing him with such +boldness, he is said to have replied, "On my old age." But that end +of life is the best, when, without the intellect or senses being +impaired, Nature herself takes to pieces her own handiwork which +she also put together. Just as the builder of a ship or a house can +break them up more easily than any one else, so the nature that +knit together the human frame can also best unfasten it. Moreover, +a thing freshly glued together is always difficult to pull asunder; if +old, this is easily done. + +The result is that the short time of life left to them is not to be +grasped at by old men with greedy eagerness, or abandoned +without cause. Pythagoras forbids us, without an order from our +commander, that is God, to desert life's fortress and outpost. +Solon's epitaph, indeed, is that of a wise man, in which he says that +he does not wish his death to be unaccompanied by the sorrow and +lamentations of his friends. He wants, I suppose, to be beloved by +them. But I rather think Ennius says better: + +None grace me with their tears, nor weeping loud +Make sad my funeral rites! + +He holds that a death is not a subject for mourning when it is +followed by immortality. + +Again, there may possibly be some sensation of dying +and that only for a short time, especially in the case of an old man: +after death, indeed, sensation is either what one would desire, or it +disappears altogether. But to disregard death is a lesson which +must be studied from our youth up; for unless that is learnt, no one +can have a quiet mind. For die we certainly must, and that too +without being certain whether it may not be this very day. As +death, therefore, is hanging over our head every hour, how can a +man ever be unshaken in soul if he fears it? + +But on this theme I don't think I need much enlarge: when I +remember what Lucius Brutus did, who was killed while defending +his country; or the two Decii, who spurred their horses to a gallop +and met a voluntary death; or M. Atilius Regulus, who left his +home to confront a death of torture, rather than break the word +which lie had pledged to the enemy; or the two Scipios, who +determined to block the Carthaginian advance even with their own +bodies; or your grandfather Lucius Paulus, who paid with his life +for the rashness of his colleague in the disgrace at Cannae; or M. +Marcellus, whose death not even the most bloodthirsty of enemies +would allow to go without the honour of burial. It is enough to +recall that our legions (as I have recorded in my _Origins_) have +often marched with cheerful and lofty spirit to ground from which +they believed that they would never return. That, therefore, which +young men-not only uninstructed, but absolutely ignorant-treat as +of no account, shall men who are neither young nor ignorant shrink +from in terror? As a general truth, as it seems to me, it is weariness +of all pursuits that creates weariness of life. There are certain +pursuits adapted to childhood: do young men miss them? There are +others suited to early manhood: does that settled time of life called +"middle age" ask for them? There are others, again, suited to that +age, but not looked for in old age. There are, finally, some which +belong to Old age. Therefore, as the pursuits of the earlier ages +have their time for disappearing, so also have those of old age. +And when that takes place, a satiety of life brings on the ripe time +for death. + +21. For I do not see why I should not venture to tell you my +personal opinion as to death, of which I seem to myself to have a +clearer vision in proportion as I am nearer to it. I believe, Scipio +and Laelius, that your fathers-those illustrious men and my dearest +friends-are still alive, and that too with a life which alone deserves +the name. For as long as we are imprisoned in this framework of +the body, we perform a certain function and laborious work +assigned us by fate. The soul, in fact, is of heavenly origin, forced +down from its home in the highest, and, so to speak, buried in +earth, a place quite opposed to its divine nature and its +immortality. But I suppose the immortal gods to have sown souls +broadcast in human bodies, that there might be some to survey the +world, and while contemplating the order of the heavenly bodies to +imitate it in the unvarying regularity of their life. Nor is it only +reason and arguments that have brought me to this belief, but the +great fame and authority of the most distinguished philosophers. I +used to be told that Pythagoras and the Pythagoreans-almost +natives of our country, who in old times had been called the Italian +school of philosophers-never doubted that we had souls drafted +from the universal Divine intelligence. I used be-sides to have +pointed out to me the discourse delivered by Socrates on the last +day of his life upon the immortality of the soul-Socrates who was +pronounced by the oracle at Delphi to be the wisest of men. I need +say no more. I have convinced myself, and T hold-in view of the +rapid movement of the soul, its vivid memory of the past and its +prophetic knowledge of the future, its many accomplishments, its +vast range of knowledge, its numerous discoveries +-that a nature embracing such varied gifts cannot itself be mortal. +And since the soul is always in motion and yet has no external +source of motion, for it is self-moved, I conclude that it will also +have no end to its motion, because it is not likely ever to abandon +itself. Again, since the nature of the soul is not composite, nor has +in it any admixture that is not homogeneous an(l similar, I +conclude that it is indivisible, and, if indivisible, that it cannot +perish. It is again a strong proof of men knowing most things +before birth, that when mere children they grasp innumerable facts +with such speed as to show that they are not then taking them in +for the first time, but remembering and recalling them. This is +roughly Plato's argument. + +22. Once more in Xenophon we have the elder Cyrus on his +deathbed speaking as follows:- + +"Do not suppose, my dearest sons, that when I have left you I shall +be nowhere and no one. Even when I was with you, you did not see +my soul, but knew that it was in this body of mine from what I did. +Believe then that it is still the same, even though you see it not. +The honours paid to illustrious men had not continued to exist +after their death, had the souls of these very men not done +something to make us retain our recollection of them beyond the +ordinary time. For myself, I never could be persuaded that souls +while in mortal bodies were alive, and died directly they left them; +nor, in fact, that the soul only lost all intelligence when it left the +unintelligent body. I believe rather that when, by being liberated +from all corporeal admixture, it has begun to be pure and +undefiled, it is then that it becomes wise. And again, when man's +natural frame is resolved into its elements by death, it is clearly +seen whither each of the other elements departs: for they all go to +the place from which they came: but the soul alone is invisible +alike when present and when departing. Once more, you see that +nothing is so like death as sleep. And yet it is in sleepers that souls +most clearly reveal their divine nature; for they foresee many +events when they are allowed to escape and are left free. This +shows what they are likely to be when they have completely freed +themselves from the fetters of the body. Wherefore, if these things +are so, obey me as a god. But if my soul is to perish with my body, +nevertheless do you from awe of the gods, who guard and govern +this fair universe, preserve my memory by the loyalty and piety of +your lives." + +23. +Such are the words of the dying Cyrus. I will now, with your good +leave, look at home. No one, my dear Scipio, shall ever persuade +me that your father Paulus and your two grandfathers Paulus and +Africanus, or the father of Africanus, or his uncle, or many other +illustrious men not necessary to mention, would have attempted +such lofty deeds as to be remaindered by posterity, had they not +seen in their minds that future ages concerned them. Do you +suppose-to take an old man's privilege of a little self-praise-that I +should have been likely to undertake such heavy labours by day +and night, at home and abroad, if I had been destined to have the +same limit to my glory as to my life? Had it not been much better +to pass an age of ease and repose without any labour or exertion? +But my soul, I know not how, refusing to be kept down, ever fixed +its eyes upon future ages, as though from a conviction that it would +begin to live only when it had left the body. But had it not been the +case that souls were immortal, it would not have been the souls of +all the best men that made the greatest efforts after an immortality +of fame. + +Again, is there not the fact that the wisest man ever dies with the +greatest cheerfulness, the most unwise with the least? Don't you +think that the soul which has the clearer and longer sight sees that +it is starting for better things, while the soul whose vision is +dimmer does not see it? For my part, I am transported with the +desire to see your fathers, who were the object of my reverence +and affection. Nor is it only those whom I knew that I long to see; +it is those also of whom I have been told and have read, whom I +have myself recorded in my history. When I am setting out for that, +there is certainly no one who will find it easy to draw me back, or +boil me up again like second Pelios. Nay, if some god should +grant me to renew my childhood from my present age and once +more to be crying in my cradle, I would firmly refuse; nor should I +in truth be willing, after having, as it were, run the full course, to +be recalled from the winning-crease to the barriers. For what +blessing has life to offer? Should we not rather say what labour? +But granting that it has, at any rate it has after all a limit either to +enjoyment or to existence. I don't wish to depreciate life, as many +men and good philosophers have often done; nor do I regret having +lived, for I have done so in a way that lets me think that I was not +born in vain. But I quit life as I would + +ON OLD AGE +77 + +an inn, not as I would a home. For nature has given us a place of +entertainment, not of residence. + +Oh glorious day when I shall set out to join that heavenly conclave +and company of souls, and depart from the turmoil and impurities +of this world! For I shall not go to join only those whom I have +before mentioned, but also my son Cato, than whom no better man +was ever born, nor one more conspicuous for piety. His body was +burnt by me, though mine ought, on the contrary, to have been +burnt by him; but his spirit, not abandoning, but ever looking back +upon me, has certainly gone whither he saw that I too must come. I +was thought to bear that loss heroically, not that I really bore it +without distress, but I found my own consolation in the thought +that the parting and separation between us was not to be for long. + +It is by these means, my dear Scipio,-for you said that you and +Laelius were wont to express surprise on this point, -that my old +age sits lightly on me, and is not only not oppressive but even +delightful. But if I am wrong in thinking the human soul immortal, +I am glad to be wrong; nor will I allow the mistake which gives me +so much pleasure to be wrested from me as long as I live. But if +when dead, as some insignificant philosophers think, I am to be +without sensation, I am not afraid of dead philosophers deriding +my errors. Again, if we are not to be immortal, it is nevertheless +what a man must wish-to have his life end at its proper time. For +nature puts a limit to living as to everything else. Now, old age is +as it were the playing out of the drama, the full fatigue of which +we should shun, especially when we also feel that we have had +more than enough of it. + +This is all I had to say on old age. I pray that you may arrive at it, +that you may put my words to a practical test. + + + + + +End of Project Gutenberg's Treatises on Friendship and Old Age by Cicero + diff --git a/old/tfroa10.zip b/old/tfroa10.zip Binary files differnew file mode 100644 index 0000000..a326da5 --- /dev/null +++ b/old/tfroa10.zip |
