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diff --git a/.gitattributes b/.gitattributes new file mode 100644 index 0000000..6833f05 --- /dev/null +++ b/.gitattributes @@ -0,0 +1,3 @@ +* text=auto +*.txt text +*.md text diff --git a/27083-0.txt b/27083-0.txt new file mode 100644 index 0000000..371d2ad --- /dev/null +++ b/27083-0.txt @@ -0,0 +1,4374 @@ +The Project Gutenberg EBook of The Subjection of Women, by John Stuart Mill + +This eBook is for the use of anyone anywhere at no cost and with +almost no restrictions whatsoever. You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: The Subjection of Women + +Author: John Stuart Mill + +Release Date: October 28, 2008 [EBook #27083] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: UTF-8 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK THE SUBJECTION OF WOMEN *** + + + + +Produced by Michael Roe and the Online Distributed +Proofreading Team at https://www.pgdp.net (This file was +produced from images generously made available by The +Internet Archive/American Libraries.) + + + + + + + + + + THE + SUBJECTION + OF + WOMEN + + + BY + JOHN STUART MILL + + LONDON + LONGMANS, GREEN, READER, AND DYER + 1869 + + LONDON: + SAVILL, EDWARDS AND CO., PRINTERS, CHANDOS STREET, + COVENT GARDEN. + + + + +CHAPTER I. + + +The object of this Essay is to explain as clearly as I am able, the +grounds of an opinion which I have held from the very earliest period +when I had formed any opinions at all on social or political matters, +and which, instead of being weakened or modified, has been constantly +growing stronger by the progress of reflection and the experience of +life: That the principle which regulates the existing social +relations between the two sexes--the legal subordination of one sex +to the other--is wrong in itself, and now one of the chief hindrances +to human improvement; and that it ought to be replaced by a principle +of perfect equality, admitting no power or privilege on the one side, +nor disability on the other. + +The very words necessary to express the task I have undertaken, show +how arduous it is. But it would be a mistake to suppose that the +difficulty of the case must lie in the insufficiency or obscurity of +the grounds of reason on which my conviction rests. The difficulty is +that which exists in all cases in which there is a mass of feeling to +be contended against. So long as an opinion is strongly rooted in the +feelings, it gains rather than loses in stability by having a +preponderating weight of argument against it. For if it were accepted +as a result of argument, the refutation of the argument might shake +the solidity of the conviction; but when it rests solely on feeling, +the worse it fares in argumentative contest, the more persuaded its +adherents are that their feeling must have some deeper ground, which +the arguments do not reach; and while the feeling remains, it is +always throwing up fresh intrenchments of argument to repair any +breach made in the old. And there are so many causes tending to make +the feelings connected with this subject the most intense and most +deeply-rooted of all those which gather round and protect old +institutions and customs, that we need not wonder to find them as yet +less undermined and loosened than any of the rest by the progress of +the great modern spiritual and social transition; nor suppose that +the barbarisms to which men cling longest must be less barbarisms +than those which they earlier shake off. + +In every respect the burthen is hard on those who attack an almost +universal opinion. They must be very fortunate as well as unusually +capable if they obtain a hearing at all. They have more difficulty in +obtaining a trial, than any other litigants have in getting a +verdict. If they do extort a hearing, they are subjected to a set of +logical requirements totally different from those exacted from other +people. In all other cases, the burthen of proof is supposed to lie +with the affirmative. If a person is charged with a murder, it rests +with those who accuse him to give proof of his guilt, not with +himself to prove his innocence. If there is a difference of opinion +about the reality of any alleged historical event, in which the +feelings of men in general are not much interested, as the Siege of +Troy for example, those who maintain that the event took place are +expected to produce their proofs, before those who take the other +side can be required to say anything; and at no time are these +required to do more than show that the evidence produced by the +others is of no value. Again, in practical matters, the burthen of +proof is supposed to be with those who are against liberty; who +contend for any restriction or prohibition; either any limitation of +the general freedom of human action, or any disqualification or +disparity of privilege affecting one person or kind of persons, as +compared with others. The _à priori_ presumption is in favour of +freedom and impartiality. It is held that there should be no +restraint not required by the general good, and that the law should +be no respecter of persons, but should treat all alike, save where +dissimilarity of treatment is required by positive reasons, either of +justice or of policy. But of none of these rules of evidence will the +benefit be allowed to those who maintain the opinion I profess. It is +useless for me to say that those who maintain the doctrine that men +have a right to command and women are under an obligation to obey, or +that men are fit for government and women unfit, are on the +affirmative side of the question, and that they are bound to show +positive evidence for the assertions, or submit to their rejection. +It is equally unavailing for me to say that those who deny to women +any freedom or privilege rightly allowed to men, having the double +presumption against them that they are opposing freedom and +recommending partiality, must be held to the strictest proof of their +case, and unless their success be such as to exclude all doubt, the +judgment ought to go against them. These would be thought good pleas +in any common case; but they will not be thought so in this instance. +Before I could hope to make any impression, I should be expected not +only to answer all that has ever been said by those who take the +other side of the question, but to imagine all that could be said by +them--to find them in reasons, as well as answer all I find: and +besides refuting all arguments for the affirmative, I shall be called +upon for invincible positive arguments to prove a negative. And even +if I could do all this, and leave the opposite party with a host of +unanswered arguments against them, and not a single unrefuted one on +their side, I should be thought to have done little; for a cause +supported on the one hand by universal usage, and on the other by so +great a preponderance of popular sentiment, is supposed to have a +presumption in its favour, superior to any conviction which an appeal +to reason has power to produce in any intellects but those of a high +class. + +I do not mention these difficulties to complain of them; first, +because it would be useless; they are inseparable from having to +contend through people's understandings against the hostility of +their feelings and practical tendencies: and truly the understandings +of the majority of mankind would need to be much better cultivated +than has ever yet been the case, before they can be asked to place +such reliance in their own power of estimating arguments, as to give +up practical principles in which they have been born and bred and +which are the basis of much of the existing order of the world, at +the first argumentative attack which they are not capable of +logically resisting. I do not therefore quarrel with them for having +too little faith in argument, but for having too much faith in custom +and the general feeling. It is one of the characteristic prejudices +of the reaction of the nineteenth century against the eighteenth, to +accord to the unreasoning elements in human nature the infallibility +which the eighteenth century is supposed to have ascribed to the +reasoning elements. For the apotheosis of Reason we have substituted +that of Instinct; and we call everything instinct which we find in +ourselves and for which we cannot trace any rational foundation. This +idolatry, infinitely more degrading than the other, and the most +pernicious of the false worships of the present day, of all of which +it is now the main support, will probably hold its ground until it +gives way before a sound psychology, laying bare the real root of +much that is bowed down to as the intention of Nature and the +ordinance of God. As regards the present question, I am willing to +accept the unfavourable conditions which the prejudice assigns to me. +I consent that established custom, and the general feeling, should be +deemed conclusive against me, unless that custom and feeling from age +to age can be shown to have owed their existence to other causes than +their soundness, and to have derived their power from the worse +rather than the better parts of human nature. I am willing that +judgment should go against me, unless I can show that my judge has +been tampered with. The concession is not so great as it might +appear; for to prove this, is by far the easiest portion of my task. + +The generality of a practice is in some cases a strong presumption +that it is, or at all events once was, conducive to laudable ends. +This is the case, when the practice was first adopted, or afterwards +kept up, as a means to such ends, and was grounded on experience of +the mode in which they could be most effectually attained. If the +authority of men over women, when first established, had been the +result of a conscientious comparison between different modes of +constituting the government of society; if, after trying various +other modes of social organization--the government of women over men, +equality between the two, and such mixed and divided modes of +government as might be invented--it had been decided, on the +testimony of experience, that the mode in which women are wholly +under the rule of men, having no share at all in public concerns, and +each in private being under the legal obligation of obedience to the +man with whom she has associated her destiny, was the arrangement +most conducive to the happiness and well being of both; its general +adoption might then be fairly thought to be some evidence that, at +the time when it was adopted, if was the best: though even then the +considerations which recommended it may, like so many other primeval +social facts of the greatest importance, have subsequently, in the +course of ages, ceased to exist. But the state of the case is in +every respect the reverse of this. In the first place, the opinion in +favour of the present system, which entirely subordinates the weaker +sex to the stronger, rests upon theory only; for there never has been +trial made of any other: so that experience, in the sense in which it +is vulgarly opposed to theory, cannot be pretended to have pronounced +any verdict. And in the second place, the adoption of this system of +inequality never was the result of deliberation, or forethought, or +any social ideas, or any notion whatever of what conduced to the +benefit of humanity or the good order of society. It arose simply +from the fact that from the very earliest twilight of human society, +every woman (owing to the value attached to her by men, combined with +her inferiority in muscular strength) was found in a state of bondage +to some man. Laws and systems of polity always begin by recognising +the relations they find already existing between individuals. They +convert what was a mere physical fact into a legal right, give it the +sanction of society, and principally aim at the substitution of +public and organized means of asserting and protecting these rights, +instead of the irregular and lawless conflict of physical strength. +Those who had already been compelled to obedience became in this +manner legally bound to it. Slavery, from being a mere affair of +force between the master and the slave, became regularized and a +matter of compact among the masters, who, binding themselves to one +another for common protection, guaranteed by their collective +strength the private possessions of each, including his slaves. In +early times, the great majority of the male sex were slaves, as well +as the whole of the female. And many ages elapsed, some of them ages +of high cultivation, before any thinker was bold enough to question +the rightfulness, and the absolute social necessity, either of the +one slavery or of the other. By degrees such thinkers did arise: and +(the general progress of society assisting) the slavery of the male +sex has, in all the countries of Christian Europe at least (though, +in one of them, only within the last few years) been at length +abolished, and that of the female sex has been gradually changed into +a milder form of dependence. But this dependence, as it exists at +present, is not an original institution, taking a fresh start from +considerations of justice and social expediency--it is the primitive +state of slavery lasting on, through successive mitigations and +modifications occasioned by the same causes which have softened the +general manners, and brought all human relations more under the +control of justice and the influence of humanity. It has not lost the +taint of its brutal origin. No presumption in its favour, therefore, +can be drawn from the fact of its existence. The only such +presumption which it could be supposed to have, must be grounded on +its having lasted till now, when so many other things which came down +from the same odious source have been done away with. And this, +indeed, is what makes it strange to ordinary ears, to hear it +asserted that the inequality of rights between men and women has no +other source than the law of the strongest. + +That this statement should have the effect of a paradox, is in some +respects creditable to the progress of civilization, and the +improvement of the moral sentiments of mankind. We now live--that is +to say, one or two of the most advanced nations of the world now +live--in a state in which the law of the strongest seems to be +entirely abandoned as the regulating principle of the world's +affairs: nobody professes it, and, as regards most of the relations +between human beings, nobody is permitted to practise it. When any +one succeeds in doing so, it is under cover of some pretext which +gives him the semblance of having some general social interest on his +side. This being the ostensible state of things, people flatter +themselves that the rule of mere force is ended; that the law of the +strongest cannot be the reason of existence of anything which has +remained in full operation down to the present time. However any of +our present institutions may have begun, it can only, they think, +have been preserved to this period of advanced civilization by a +well-grounded feeling of its adaptation to human nature, and +conduciveness to the general good. They do not understand the great +vitality and durability of institutions which place right on the side +of might; how intensely they are clung to; how the good as well as +the bad propensities and sentiments of those who have power in their +hands, become identified with retaining it; how slowly these bad +institutions give way, one at a time, the weakest first, beginning +with those which are least interwoven with the daily habits of life; +and how very rarely those who have obtained legal power because they +first had physical, have ever lost their hold of it until the +physical power had passed over to the other side. Such shifting of +the physical force not having taken place in the case of women; this +fact, combined with all the peculiar and characteristic features of +the particular case, made it certain from the first that this branch +of the system of right founded on might, though softened in its most +atrocious features at an earlier period than several of the others, +would be the very last to disappear. It was inevitable that this one +case of a social relation grounded on force, would survive through +generations of institutions grounded on equal justice, an almost +solitary exception to the general character of their laws and +customs; but which, so long as it does not proclaim its own origin, +and as discussion has not brought out its true character, is not felt +to jar with modern civilization, any more than domestic slavery among +the Greeks jarred with their notion of themselves as a free people. + +The truth is, that people of the present and the last two or three +generations have lost all practical sense of the primitive condition +of humanity; and only the few who have studied history accurately, or +have much frequented the parts of the world occupied by the living +representatives of ages long past, are able to form any mental +picture of what society then was. People are not aware how entirely, +in former ages, the law of superior strength was the rule of life; +how publicly and openly it was avowed, I do not say cynically or +shamelessly--for these words imply a feeling that there was something +in it to be ashamed of, and no such notion could find a place in the +faculties of any person in those ages, except a philosopher or a +saint. History gives a cruel experience of human nature, in shewing +how exactly the regard due to the life, possessions, and entire +earthly happiness of any class of persons, was measured by what they +had the power of enforcing; how all who made any resistance to +authorities that had arms in their hands, however dreadful might be +the provocation, had not only the law of force but all other laws, +and all the notions of social obligation against them; and in the +eyes of those whom they resisted, were not only guilty of crime, but +of the worst of all crimes, deserving the most cruel chastisement +which human beings could inflict. The first small vestige of a +feeling of obligation in a superior to acknowledge any right in +inferiors, began when he had been induced, for convenience, to make +some promise to them. Though these promises, even when sanctioned by +the most solemn oaths, were for many ages revoked or violated on the +most trifling provocation or temptation, it is probable that this, +except by persons of still worse than the average morality, was +seldom done without some twinges of conscience. The ancient +republics, being mostly grounded from the first upon some kind of +mutual compact, or at any rate formed by an union of persons not very +unequal in strength, afforded, in consequence, the first instance of +a portion of human relations fenced round, and placed under the +dominion of another law than that of force. And though the original +law of force remained in full operation between them and their +slaves, and also (except so far as limited by express compact) +between a commonwealth and its subjects, or other independent +commonwealths; the banishment of that primitive law even from so +narrow a field, commenced the regeneration of human nature, by giving +birth to sentiments of which experience soon demonstrated the immense +value even for material interests, and which thenceforward only +required to be enlarged, not created. Though slaves were no part of +the commonwealth, it was in the free states that slaves were first +felt to have rights as human beings. The Stoics were, I believe, the +first (except so far as the Jewish law constitutes an exception) who +taught as a part of morality that men were bound by moral obligations +to their slaves. No one, after Christianity became ascendant, could +ever again have been a stranger to this belief, in theory; nor, after +the rise of the Catholic Church, was it ever without persons to stand +up for it. Yet to enforce it was the most arduous task which +Christianity ever had to perform. For more than a thousand years the +Church kept up the contest, with hardly any perceptible success. It +was not for want of power over men's minds. Its power was prodigious. +It could make kings and nobles resign their most valued possessions +to enrich the Church. It could make thousands, in the prime of life +and the height of worldly advantages, shut themselves up in convents +to work out their salvation by poverty, fasting, and prayer. It could +send hundreds of thousands across land and sea, Europe and Asia, to +give their lives for the deliverance of the Holy Sepulchre. It could +make kings relinquish wives who were the object of their passionate +attachment, because the Church declared that they were within the +seventh (by our calculation the fourteenth) degree of relationship. +All this it did; but it could not make men fight less with one +another, nor tyrannize less cruelly over the serfs, and when they +were able, over burgesses. It could not make them renounce either of +the applications of force; force militant, or force triumphant. This +they could never be induced to do until they were themselves in their +turn compelled by superior force. Only by the growing power of kings +was an end put to fighting except between kings, or competitors for +kingship; only by the growth of a wealthy and warlike bourgeoisie in +the fortified towns, and of a plebeian infantry which proved more +powerful in the field than the undisciplined chivalry, was the +insolent tyranny of the nobles over the bourgeoisie and peasantry +brought within some bounds. It was persisted in not only until, but +long after, the oppressed had obtained a power enabling them often to +take conspicuous vengeance; and on the Continent much of it continued +to the time of the French Revolution, though in England the earlier +and better organization of the democratic classes put an end to it +sooner, by establishing equal laws and free national institutions. + +If people are mostly so little aware how completely, during the +greater part of the duration of our species, the law of force was the +avowed rule of general conduct, any other being only a special and +exceptional consequence of peculiar ties--and from how very recent a +date it is that the affairs of society in general have been even +pretended to be regulated according to any moral law; as little do +people remember or consider, how institutions and customs which never +had any ground but the law of force, last on into ages and states of +general opinion which never would have permitted their first +establishment. Less than forty years ago, Englishmen might still by +law hold human beings in bondage as saleable property: within the +present century they might kidnap them and carry them off, and work +them literally to death. This absolutely extreme case of the law of +force, condemned by those who can tolerate almost every other form of +arbitrary power, and which, of all others, presents features the most +revolting to the feelings of all who look at it from an impartial +position, was the law of civilized and Christian England within the +memory of persons now living: and in one half of Anglo-Saxon America +three or four years ago, not only did slavery exist, but the slave +trade, and the breeding of slaves expressly for it, was a general +practice between slave states. Yet not only was there a greater +strength of sentiment against it, but, in England at least, a less +amount either of feeling or of interest in favour of it, than of any +other of the customary abuses of force: for its motive was the love +of gain, unmixed and undisguised; and those who profited by it were a +very small numerical fraction of the country, while the natural +feeling of all who were not personally interested in it, was +unmitigated abhorrence. So extreme an instance makes it almost +superfluous to refer to any other: but consider the long duration of +absolute monarchy. In England at present it is the almost universal +conviction that military despotism is a case of the law of force, +having no other origin or justification. Yet in all the great nations +of Europe except England it either still exists, or has only just +ceased to exist, and has even now a strong party favourable to it in +all ranks of the people, especially among persons of station and +consequence. Such is the power of an established system, even when +far from universal; when not only in almost every period of history +there have been great and well-known examples of the contrary system, +but these have almost invariably been afforded by the most +illustrious and most prosperous communities. In this case, too, the +possessor of the undue power, the person directly interested in it, +is only one person, while those who are subject to it and suffer from +it are literally all the rest. The yoke is naturally and necessarily +humiliating to all persons, except the one who is on the throne, +together with, at most, the one who expects to succeed to it. How +different are these cases from that of the power of men over women! I +am not now prejudging the question of its justifiableness. I am +showing how vastly more permanent it could not but be, even if not +justifiable, than these other dominations which have nevertheless +lasted down to our own time. Whatever gratification of pride there is +in the possession of power, and whatever personal interest in its +exercise, is in this case not confined to a limited class, but common +to the whole male sex. Instead of being, to most of its supporters, a +thing desirable chiefly in the abstract, or, like the political ends +usually contended for by factious, of little private importance to +any but the leaders; it comes home to the person and hearth of every +male head of a family, and of every one who looks forward to being +so. The clodhopper exercises, or is to exercise, his share of the +power equally with the highest nobleman. And the case is that in +which the desire of power is the strongest: for every one who desires +power, desires it most over those who are nearest to him, with whom +his life is passed, with whom he has most concerns in common, and in +whom any independence of his authority is oftenest likely to +interfere with his individual preferences. If, in the other cases +specified, powers manifestly grounded only on force, and having so +much less to support them, are so slowly and with so much difficulty +got rid of, much more must it be so with this, even if it rests on no +better foundation than those. We must consider, too, that the +possessors of the power have facilities in this case, greater than in +any other, to prevent any uprising against it. Every one of the +subjects lives under the very eye, and almost, it may be said, in the +hands, of one of the masters--in closer intimacy with him than with +any of her fellow-subjects; with no means of combining against him, +no power of even locally over-mastering him, and, on the other hand, +with the strongest motives for seeking his favour and avoiding to +give him offence. In struggles for political emancipation, everybody +knows how often its champions are bought off by bribes, or daunted by +terrors. In the case of women, each individual of the subject-class +is in a chronic state of bribery and intimidation combined. In +setting up the standard of resistance, a large number of the leaders, +and still more of the followers, must make an almost complete +sacrifice of the pleasures or the alleviations of their own +individual lot. If ever any system of privilege and enforced +subjection had its yoke tightly riveted on the necks of those who are +kept down by it, this has. I have not yet shown that it is a wrong +system: but every one who is capable of thinking on the subject must +see that even if it is, it was certain to outlast all other forms of +unjust authority. And when some of the grossest of the other forms +still exist in many civilized countries, and have only recently been +got rid of in others, it would be strange if that which is so much +the deepest-rooted had yet been perceptibly shaken anywhere. There is +more reason to wonder that the protests and testimonies against it +should have been so numerous and so weighty as they are. + +Some will object, that a comparison cannot fairly be made between the +government of the male sex and the forms of unjust power which I have +adduced in illustration of it, since these are arbitrary, and the +effect of mere usurpation, while it on the contrary is natural. But +was there ever any domination which did not appear natural to those +who possessed it? There was a time when the division of mankind into +two classes, a small one of masters and a numerous one of slaves, +appeared, even to the most cultivated minds, to be a natural, and the +only natural, condition of the human race. No less an intellect, and +one which contributed no less to the progress of human thought, than +Aristotle, held this opinion without doubt or misgiving; and rested +it on the same premises on which the same assertion in regard to the +dominion of men over women is usually based, namely that there are +different natures among mankind, free natures, and slave natures; +that the Greeks were of a free nature, the barbarian races of +Thracians and Asiatics of a slave nature. But why need I go back to +Aristotle? Did not the slaveowners of the Southern United States +maintain the same doctrine, with all the fanaticism with which men +cling to the theories that justify their passions and legitimate +their personal interests? Did they not call heaven and earth to +witness that the dominion of the white man over the black is natural, +that the black race is by nature incapable of freedom, and marked out +for slavery? some even going so far as to say that the freedom of +manual labourers is an unnatural order of things anywhere. Again, the +theorists of absolute monarchy have always affirmed it to be the only +natural form of government; issuing from the patriarchal, which was +the primitive and spontaneous form of society, framed on the model of +the paternal, which is anterior to society itself, and, as they +contend, the most natural authority of all. Nay, for that matter, the +law of force itself, to those who could not plead any other, has +always seemed the most natural of all grounds for the exercise of +authority. Conquering races hold it to be Nature's own dictate that +the conquered should obey the conquerors, or, as they euphoniously +paraphrase it, that the feebler and more unwarlike races should +submit to the braver and manlier. The smallest acquaintance with +human life in the middle ages, shows how supremely natural the +dominion of the feudal nobility over men of low condition appeared to +the nobility themselves, and how unnatural the conception seemed, of +a person of the inferior class claiming equality with them, or +exercising authority over them. It hardly seemed less so to the class +held in subjection. The emancipated serfs and burgesses, even in +their most vigorous struggles, never made any pretension to a share +of authority; they only demanded more or less of limitation to the +power of tyrannizing over them. So true is it that unnatural +generally means only uncustomary, and that everything which is usual +appears natural. The subjection of women to men being a universal +custom, any departure from it quite naturally appears unnatural. But +how entirely, even in this case, the feeling is dependent on custom, +appears by ample experience. Nothing so much astonishes the people of +distant parts of the world, when they first learn anything about +England, as to be told that it is under a queen: the thing seems to +them so unnatural as to be almost incredible. To Englishmen this does +not seem in the least degree unnatural, because they are used to it; +but they do feel it unnatural that women should be soldiers or +members of parliament. In the feudal ages, on the contrary, war and +politics were not thought unnatural to women, because not unusual; it +seemed natural that women of the privileged classes should be of +manly character, inferior in nothing but bodily strength to their +husbands and fathers. The independence of women seemed rather less +unnatural to the Greeks than to other ancients, on account of the +fabulous Amazons (whom they believed to be historical), and the +partial example afforded by the Spartan women; who, though no less +subordinate by law than in other Greek states, were more free in +fact, and being trained to bodily exercises in the same manner with +men, gave ample proof that they were not naturally disqualified for +them. There can be little doubt that Spartan experience suggested to +Plato, among many other of his doctrines, that of the social and +political equality of the two sexes. + +But, it will be said, the rule of men over women differs from all +these others in not being a rule of force: it is accepted +voluntarily; women make no complaint, and are consenting parties to +it. In the first place, a great number of women do not accept it. +Ever since there have been women able to make their sentiments known +by their writings (the only mode of publicity which society permits +to them), an increasing number of them have recorded protests against +their present social condition: and recently many thousands of them, +headed by the most eminent women known to the public, have petitioned +Parliament for their admission to the Parliamentary Suffrage. The +claim of women to be educated as solidly, and in the same branches of +knowledge, as men, is urged with growing intensity, and with a great +prospect of success; while the demand for their admission into +professions and occupations hitherto closed against them, becomes +every year more urgent. Though there are not in this country, as +there are in the United States, periodical Conventions and an +organized party to agitate for the Rights of Women, there is a +numerous and active Society organized and managed by women, for the +more limited object of obtaining the political franchise. Nor is it +only in our own country and in America that women are beginning to +protest, more or less collectively, against the disabilities under +which they labour. France, and Italy, and Switzerland, and Russia now +afford examples of the same thing. How many more women there are who +silently cherish similar aspirations, no one can possibly know; but +there are abundant tokens how many _would_ cherish them, were they +not so strenuously taught to repress them as contrary to the +proprieties of their sex. It must be remembered, also, that no +enslaved class ever asked for complete liberty at once. When Simon de +Montfort called the deputies of the commons to sit for the first time +in Parliament, did any of them dream of demanding that an assembly, +elected by their constituents, should make and destroy ministries, +and dictate to the king in affairs of state? No such thought entered +into the imagination of the most ambitious of them. The nobility had +already these pretensions; the commons pretended to nothing but to be +exempt from arbitrary taxation, and from the gross individual +oppression of the king's officers. It is a political law of nature +that those who are under any power of ancient origin, never begin by +complaining of the power itself, but only of its oppressive exercise. +There is never any want of women who complain of ill usage by their +husbands. There would be infinitely more, if complaint were not the +greatest of all provocatives to a repetition and increase of the ill +usage. It is this which frustrates all attempts to maintain the power +but protect the woman against its abuses. In no other case (except +that of a child) is the person who has been proved judicially to have +suffered an injury, replaced under the physical power of the culprit +who inflicted it. Accordingly wives, even in the most extreme and +protracted cases of bodily ill usage, hardly ever dare avail +themselves of the laws made for their protection: and if, in a moment +of irrepressible indignation, or by the interference of neighbours, +they are induced to do so, their whole effort afterwards is to +disclose as little as they can, and to beg off their tyrant from his +merited chastisement. + +All causes, social and natural, combine to make it unlikely that +women should be collectively rebellious to the power of men. They are +so far in a position different from all other subject classes, that +their masters require something more from them than actual service. +Men do not want solely the obedience of women, they want their +sentiments. All men, except the most brutish, desire to have, in the +woman most nearly connected with them, not a forced slave but a +willing one, not a slave merely, but a favourite. They have therefore +put everything in practice to enslave their minds. The masters of all +other slaves rely, for maintaining obedience, on fear; either fear of +themselves, or religious fears. The masters of women wanted more than +simple obedience, and they turned the whole force of education to +effect their purpose. All women are brought up from the very earliest +years in the belief that their ideal of character is the very +opposite to that of men; not self-will, and government by +self-control, but submission, and yielding to the control of others. +All the moralities tell them that it is the duty of women, and all +the current sentimentalities that it is their nature, to live for +others; to make complete abnegation of themselves, and to have no +life but in their affections. And by their affections are meant the +only ones they are allowed to have--those to the men with whom they +are connected, or to the children who constitute an additional and +indefeasible tie between them and a man. When we put together three +things--first, the natural attraction between opposite sexes; +secondly, the wife's entire dependence on the husband, every +privilege or pleasure she has being either his gift, or depending +entirely on his will; and lastly, that the principal object of human +pursuit, consideration, and all objects of social ambition, can in +general be sought or obtained by her only through him, it would be a +miracle if the object of being attractive to men had not become the +polar star of feminine education and formation of character. And, +this great means of influence over the minds of women having been +acquired, an instinct of selfishness made men avail themselves of it +to the utmost as a means of holding women in subjection, by +representing to them meekness, submissiveness, and resignation of all +individual will into the hands of a man, as an essential part of +sexual attractiveness. Can it be doubted that any of the other yokes +which mankind have succeeded in breaking, would have subsisted till +now if the same means had existed, and had been as sedulously used, +to bow down their minds to it? If it had been made the object of the +life of every young plebeian to find personal favour in the eyes of +some patrician, of every young serf with some seigneur; if +domestication with him, and a share of his personal affections, had +been held out as the prize which they all should look out for, the +most gifted and aspiring being able to reckon on the most desirable +prizes; and if, when this prize had been obtained, they had been shut +out by a wall of brass from all interests not centering in him, all +feelings and desires but those which he shared or inculcated; would +not serfs and seigneurs, plebeians and patricians, have been as +broadly distinguished at this day as men and women are? and would not +all but a thinker here and there, have believed the distinction to be +a fundamental and unalterable fact in human nature? + +The preceding considerations are amply sufficient to show that +custom, however universal it may be, affords in this case no +presumption, and ought not to create any prejudice, in favour of the +arrangements which place women in social and political subjection to +men. But I may go farther, and maintain that the course of history, +and the tendencies of progressive human society, afford not only no +presumption in favour of this system of inequality of rights, but a +strong one against it; and that, so far as the whole course of human +improvement up to this time, the whole stream of modern tendencies, +warrants any inference on the subject, it is, that this relic of the +past is discordant with the future, and must necessarily disappear. + +For, what is the peculiar character of the modern world--the +difference which chiefly distinguishes modern institutions, modern +social ideas, modern life itself, from those of times long past? It +is, that human beings are no longer born to their place in life, and +chained down by an inexorable bond to the place they are born to, but +are free to employ their faculties, and such favourable chances as +offer, to achieve the lot which may appear to them most desirable. +Human society of old was constituted on a very different principle. +All were born to a fixed social position, and were mostly kept in it +by law, or interdicted from any means by which they could emerge from +it. As some men are born white and others black, so some were born +slaves and others freemen and citizens; some were born patricians, +others plebeians; some were born feudal nobles, others commoners and +_roturiers_. A slave or serf could never make himself free, nor, +except by the will of his master, become so. In most European +countries it was not till towards the close of the middle ages, and +as a consequence of the growth of regal power, that commoners could +be ennobled. Even among nobles, the eldest son was born the exclusive +heir to the paternal possessions, and a long time elapsed before it +was fully established that the father could disinherit him. Among the +industrious classes, only those who were born members of a guild, or +were admitted into it by its members, could lawfully practise their +calling within its local limits; and nobody could practise any +calling deemed important, in any but the legal manner--by processes +authoritatively prescribed. Manufacturers have stood in the pillory +for presuming to carry on their business by new and improved methods. +In modern Europe, and most in those parts of it which have +participated most largely in all other modern improvements, +diametrically opposite doctrines now prevail. Law and government do +not undertake to prescribe by whom any social or industrial operation +shall or shall not be conducted, or what modes of conducting them +shall be lawful. These things are left to the unfettered choice of +individuals. Even the laws which required that workmen should serve +an apprenticeship, have in this country been repealed: there being +ample assurance that in all cases in which an apprenticeship is +necessary, its necessity will suffice to enforce it. The old theory +was, that the least possible should be left to the choice of the +individual agent; that all he had to do should, as far as +practicable, be laid down for him by superior wisdom. Left to himself +he was sure to go wrong. The modern conviction, the fruit of a +thousand years of experience, is, that things in which the individual +is the person directly interested, never go right but as they are +left to his own discretion; and that any regulation of them by +authority, except to protect the rights of others, is sure to be +mischievous. This conclusion, slowly arrived at, and not adopted +until almost every possible application of the contrary theory had +been made with disastrous result, now (in the industrial department) +prevails universally in the most advanced countries, almost +universally in all that have pretensions to any sort of advancement. +It is not that all processes are supposed to be equally good, or all +persons to be equally qualified for everything; but that freedom of +individual choice is now known to be the only thing which procures +the adoption of the best processes, and throws each operation into +the hands of those who are best qualified for it. Nobody thinks it +necessary to make a law that only a strong-armed man shall be a +blacksmith. Freedom and competition suffice to make blacksmiths +strong-armed men, because the weak-armed can earn more by engaging in +occupations for which they are more fit. In consonance with this +doctrine, it is felt to be an overstepping of the proper bounds of +authority to fix beforehand, on some general presumption, that +certain persons are not fit to do certain things. It is now +thoroughly known and admitted that if some such presumptions exist, +no such presumption is infallible. Even if it be well grounded in a +majority of cases, which it is very likely not to be, there will be a +minority of exceptional cases in which it does not hold: and in those +it is both an injustice to the individuals, and a detriment to +society, to place barriers in the way of their using their faculties +for their own benefit and for that of others. In the cases, on the +other hand, in which the unfitness is real, the ordinary motives of +human conduct will on the whole suffice to prevent the incompetent +person from making, or from persisting in, the attempt. + +If this general principle of social and economical science is not +true; if individuals, with such help as they can derive from the +opinion of those who know them, are not better judges than the law +and the government, of their own capacities and vocation; the world +cannot too soon abandon this principle, and return to the old system +of regulations and disabilities. But if the principle is true, we +ought to act as if we believed it, and not to ordain that to be born +a girl instead of a boy, any more than to be born black instead of +white, or a commoner instead of a nobleman, shall decide the person's +position through all life--shall interdict people from all the more +elevated social positions, and from all, except a few, respectable +occupations. Even were we to admit the utmost that is ever pretended +as to the superior fitness of men for all the functions now reserved +to them, the same argument applies which forbids a legal +qualification for members of Parliament. If only once in a dozen +years the conditions of eligibility exclude a fit person, there is a +real loss, while the exclusion of thousands of unfit persons is no +gain; for if the constitution of the electoral body disposes them to +choose unfit persons, there are always plenty of such persons to +choose from. In all things of any difficulty and importance, those +who can do them well are fewer than the need, even with the most +unrestricted latitude of choice: and any limitation of the field of +selection deprives society of some chances of being served by the +competent, without ever saving it from the incompetent. + +At present, in the more improved countries, the disabilities of women +are the only case, save one, in which laws and institutions take +persons at their birth, and ordain that they shall never in all their +lives be allowed to compete for certain things. The one exception is +that of royalty. Persons still are born to the throne; no one, not of +the reigning family, can ever occupy it, and no one even of that +family can, by any means but the course of hereditary succession, +attain it. All other dignities and social advantages are open to the +whole male sex: many indeed are only attainable by wealth, but wealth +may be striven for by any one, and is actually obtained by many men +of the very humblest origin. The difficulties, to the majority, are +indeed insuperable without the aid of fortunate accidents; but no +male human being is under any legal ban: neither law nor opinion +superadd artificial obstacles to the natural ones. Royalty, as I have +said, is excepted: but in this case every one feels it to be an +exception--an anomaly in the modern world, in marked opposition to +its customs and principles, and to be justified only by extraordinary +special expediencies, which, though individuals and nations differ in +estimating their weight, unquestionably do in fact exist. But in this +exceptional case, in which a high social function is, for important +reasons, bestowed on birth instead of being put up to competition, +all free nations contrive to adhere in substance to the principle +from which they nominally derogate; for they circumscribe this high +function by conditions avowedly intended to prevent the person to +whom it ostensibly belongs from really performing it; while the +person by whom it is performed, the responsible minister, does obtain +the post by a competition from which no full-grown citizen of the +male sex is legally excluded. The disabilities, therefore, to which +women are subject from the mere fact of their birth, are the solitary +examples of the kind in modern legislation. In no instance except +this, which comprehends half the human race, are the higher social +functions closed against any one by a fatality of birth which no +exertions, and no change of circumstances, can overcome; for even +religious disabilities (besides that in England and in Europe they +have practically almost ceased to exist) do not close any career to +the disqualified person in case of conversion. + +The social subordination of women thus stands out an isolated fact in +modern social institutions; a solitary breach of what has become +their fundamental law; a single relic of an old world of thought and +practice exploded in everything else, but retained in the one thing +of most universal interest; as if a gigantic dolmen, or a vast temple +of Jupiter Olympius, occupied the site of St. Paul's and received +daily worship, while the surrounding Christian churches were only +resorted to on fasts and festivals. This entire discrepancy between +one social fact and all those which accompany it, and the radical +opposition between its nature and the progressive movement which is +the boast of the modern world, and which has successively swept away +everything else of an analogous character, surely affords, to a +conscientious observer of human tendencies, serious matter for +reflection. It raises a primâ facie presumption on the unfavourable +side, far outweighing any which custom and usage could in such +circumstances create on the favourable; and should at least suffice +to make this, like the choice between republicanism and royalty, a +balanced question. + +The least that can be demanded is, that the question should not be +considered as prejudged by existing fact and existing opinion, but +open to discussion on its merits, as a question of justice and +expediency: the decision on this, as on any of the other social +arrangements of mankind, depending on what an enlightened estimate of +tendencies and consequences may show to be most advantageous to +humanity in general, without distinction of sex. And the discussion +must be a real discussion, descending to foundations, and not resting +satisfied with vague and general assertions. It will not do, for +instance, to assert in general terms, that the experience of mankind +has pronounced in favour of the existing system. Experience cannot +possibly have decided between two courses, so long as there has only +been experience of one. If it be said that the doctrine of the +equality of the sexes rests only on theory, it must be remembered +that the contrary doctrine also has only theory to rest upon. All +that is proved in its favour by direct experience, is that mankind +have been able to exist under it, and to attain the degree of +improvement and prosperity which we now see; but whether that +prosperity has been attained sooner, or is now greater, than it would +have been under the other system, experience does not say. On the +other hand, experience does say, that every step in improvement has +been so invariably accompanied by a step made in raising the social +position of women, that historians and philosophers have been led to +adopt their elevation or debasement as on the whole the surest test +and most correct measure of the civilization of a people or an age. +Through all the progressive period of human history, the condition of +women has been approaching nearer to equality with men. This does not +of itself prove that the assimilation must go on to complete +equality; but it assuredly affords some presumption that such is the +case. + +Neither does it avail anything to say that the _nature_ of the two +sexes adapts them to their present functions and position, and +renders these appropriate to them. Standing on the ground of common +sense and the constitution of the human mind, I deny that any one +knows, or can know, the nature of the two sexes, as long as they have +only been seen in their present relation to one another. If men had +ever been found in society without women, or women without men, or if +there had been a society of men and women in which the women were not +under the control of the men, something might have been positively +known about the mental and moral differences which may be inherent in +the nature of each. What is now called the nature of women is an +eminently artificial thing--the result of forced repression in some +directions, unnatural stimulation in others. It may be asserted +without scruple, that no other class of dependents have had their +character so entirely distorted from its natural proportions by their +relation with their masters; for, if conquered and slave races have +been, in some respects, more forcibly repressed, whatever in them has +not been crushed down by an iron heel has generally been let alone, +and if left with any liberty of development, it has developed itself +according to its own laws; but in the case of women, a hot-house and +stove cultivation has always been carried on of some of the +capabilities of their nature, for the benefit and pleasure of their +masters. Then, because certain products of the general vital force +sprout luxuriantly and reach a great development in this heated +atmosphere and under this active nurture and watering, while other +shoots from the same root, which are left outside in the wintry air, +with ice purposely heaped all round them, have a stunted growth, and +some are burnt off with fire and disappear; men, with that inability +to recognise their own work which distinguishes the unanalytic mind, +indolently believe that the tree grows of itself in the way they have +made it grow, and that it would die if one half of it were not kept +in a vapour bath and the other half in the snow. + +Of all difficulties which impede the progress of thought, and the +formation of well-grounded opinions on life and social arrangements, +the greatest is now the unspeakable ignorance and inattention of +mankind in respect to the influences which form human character. +Whatever any portion of the human species now are, or seem to be, +such, it is supposed, they have a natural tendency to be: even when +the most elementary knowledge of the circumstances in which they have +been placed, clearly points out the causes that made them what they +are. Because a cottier deeply in arrears to his landlord is not +industrious, there are people who think that the Irish are naturally +idle. Because constitutions can be overthrown when the authorities +appointed to execute them turn their arms against them, there are +people who think the French incapable of free government. Because the +Greeks cheated the Turks, and the Turks only plundered the Greeks, +there are persons who think that the Turks are naturally more +sincere: and because women, as is often said, care nothing about +politics except their personalities, it is supposed that the general +good is naturally less interesting to women than to men. History, +which is now so much better understood than formerly, teaches another +lesson: if only by showing the extraordinary susceptibility of human +nature to external influences, and the extreme variableness of those +of its manifestations which are supposed to be most universal and +uniform. But in history, as in travelling, men usually see only what +they already had in their own minds; and few learn much from history, +who do not bring much with them to its study. + +Hence, in regard to that most difficult question, what are the +natural differences between the two sexes--a subject on which it is +impossible in the present state of society to obtain complete and +correct knowledge--while almost everybody dogmatizes upon it, almost +all neglect and make light of the only means by which any partial +insight can be obtained into it. This is, an analytic study of the +most important department of psychology, the laws of the influence of +circumstances on character. For, however great and apparently +ineradicable the moral and intellectual differences between men and +women might be, the evidence of their being natural differences could +only be negative. Those only could be inferred to be natural which +could not possibly be artificial--the residuum, after deducting every +characteristic of either sex which can admit of being explained from +education or external circumstances. The profoundest knowledge of the +laws of the formation of character is indispensable to entitle any +one to affirm even that there is any difference, much more what the +difference is, between the two sexes considered as moral and rational +beings; and since no one, as yet, has that knowledge, (for there is +hardly any subject which, in proportion to its importance, has been +so little studied), no one is thus far entitled to any positive +opinion on the subject. Conjectures are all that can at present be +made; conjectures more or less probable, according as more or less +authorized by such knowledge as we yet have of the laws of +psychology, as applied to the formation of character. + +Even the preliminary knowledge, what the differences between the +sexes now are, apart from all question as to how they are made what +they are, is still in the crudest and most incomplete state. Medical +practitioners and physiologists have ascertained, to some extent, the +differences in bodily constitution; and this is an important element +to the psychologist: but hardly any medical practitioner is a +psychologist. Respecting the mental characteristics of women; their +observations are of no more worth than those of common men. It is a +subject on which nothing final can be known, so long as those who +alone can really know it, women themselves, have given but little +testimony, and that little, mostly suborned. It is easy to know +stupid women. Stupidity is much the same all the world over. A stupid +person's notions and feelings may confidently be inferred from those +which prevail in the circle by which the person is surrounded. Not so +with those whose opinions and feelings are an emanation from their +own nature and faculties. It is only a man here and there who has any +tolerable knowledge of the character even of the women of his own +family. I do not mean, of their capabilities; these nobody knows, not +even themselves, because most of them have never been called out. I +mean their actually existing thoughts and feelings. Many a man thinks +he perfectly understands women, because he has had amatory relations +with several, perhaps with many of them. If he is a good observer, +and his experience extends to quality as well as quantity, he may +have learnt something of one narrow department of their nature--an +important department, no doubt. But of all the rest of it, few +persons are generally more ignorant, because there are few from whom +it is so carefully hidden. The most favourable case which a man can +generally have for studying the character of a woman, is that of his +own wife: for the opportunities are greater, and the cases of +complete sympathy not so unspeakably rare. And in fact, this is the +source from which any knowledge worth having on the subject has, I +believe, generally come. But most men have not had the opportunity of +studying in this way more than a single case: accordingly one can, to +an almost laughable degree, infer what a man's wife is like, from his +opinions about women in general. To make even this one case yield any +result, the woman must be worth knowing, and the man not only a +competent judge, but of a character so sympathetic in itself, and so +well adapted to hers, that he can either read her mind by sympathetic +intuition, or has nothing in himself which makes her shy of +disclosing it. Hardly anything, I believe, can be more rare than this +conjunction. It often happens that there is the most complete unity +of feeling and community of interests as to all external things, yet +the one has as little admission into the internal life of the other +as if they were common acquaintance. Even with true affection, +authority on the one side and subordination on the other prevent +perfect confidence. Though nothing may be intentionally withheld, +much is not shown. In the analogous relation of parent and child, the +corresponding phenomenon must have been in the observation of every +one. As between father and son, how many are the cases in which the +father, in spite of real affection on both sides, obviously to all +the world does not know, nor suspect, parts of the son's character +familiar to his companions and equals. The truth is, that the +position of looking up to another is extremely unpropitious to +complete sincerity and openness with him. The fear of losing ground +in his opinion or in his feelings is so strong, that even in an +upright character, there is an unconscious tendency to show only the +best side, or the side which, though not the best, is that which he +most likes to see: and it may be confidently said that thorough +knowledge of one another hardly ever exists, but between persons who, +besides being intimates, are equals. How much more true, then, must +all this be, when the one is not only under the authority of the +other, but has it inculcated on her as a duty to reckon everything +else subordinate to his comfort and pleasure, and to let him neither +see nor feel anything coming from her, except what is agreeable to +him. All these difficulties stand in the way of a man's obtaining any +thorough knowledge even of the one woman whom alone, in general, he +has sufficient opportunity of studying. When we further consider that +to understand one woman is not necessarily to understand any other +woman; that even if he could study many women of one rank, or of one +country, he would not thereby understand women of other ranks or +countries; and even if he did, they are still only the women of a +single period of history; we may safely assert that the knowledge +which men can acquire of women, even as they have been and are, +without reference to what they might be, is wretchedly imperfect and +superficial, and always will be so, until women themselves have told +all that they have to tell. + +And this time has not come; nor will it come otherwise than +gradually. It is but of yesterday that women have either been +qualified by literary accomplishments, or permitted by society, to +tell anything to the general public. As yet very few of them dare +tell anything, which men, on whom their literary success depends, are +unwilling to hear. Let us remember in what manner, up to a very +recent time, the expression, even by a male author, of uncustomary +opinions, or what are deemed eccentric feelings, usually was, and in +some degree still is, received; and we may form some faint conception +under what impediments a woman, who is brought up to think custom and +opinion her sovereign rule, attempts to express in books anything +drawn from the depths of her own nature. The greatest woman who has +left writings behind her sufficient to give her an eminent rank in +the literature of her country, thought it necessary to prefix as a +motto to her boldest work, “Un homme peut braver l'opinion; une femme +doit s'y soumettre.”[1] The greater part of what women write about +women is mere sycophancy to men. In the case of unmarried women, much +of it seems only intended to increase their chance of a husband. +Many, both married and unmarried, overstep the mark, and inculcate a +servility beyond what is desired or relished by any man, except the +very vulgarest. But this is not so often the case as, even at a quite +late period, it still was. Literary women are becoming more +freespoken, and more willing to express their real sentiments. +Unfortunately, in this country especially, they are themselves such +artificial products, that their sentiments are compounded of a small +element of individual observation and consciousness, and a very large +one of acquired associations. This will be less and less the case, +but it will remain true to a great extent, as long as social +institutions do not admit the same free development of originality in +women which is possible to men. When that time comes, and not before, +we shall see, and not merely hear, as much as it is necessary to know +of the nature of women, and the adaptation of other things to it. + +I have dwelt so much on the difficulties which at present obstruct +any real knowledge by men of the true nature of women, because in +this as in so many other things “opinio copiæ inter maximas causas +inopiæ est;” and there is little chance of reasonable thinking on the +matter, while people flatter themselves that they perfectly +understand a subject of which most men know absolutely nothing, and +of which it is at present impossible that any man, or all men taken +together, should have knowledge which can qualify them to lay down +the law to women as to what is, or is not, their vocation. Happily, +no such knowledge is necessary for any practical purpose connected +with the position of women in relation to society and life. For, +according to all the principles involved in modern society, the +question rests with women themselves--to be decided by their own +experience, and by the use of their own faculties. There are no means +of finding what either one person or many can do, but by trying--and +no means by which any one else can discover for them what it is for +their happiness to do or leave undone. + +One thing we may be certain of--that what is contrary to women's +nature to do, they never will be made to do by simply giving their +nature free play. The anxiety of mankind to interfere in behalf of +nature, for fear lest nature should not succeed in effecting its +purpose, is an altogether unnecessary solicitude. What women by +nature cannot do, it is quite superfluous to forbid them from doing. +What they can do, but not so well as the men who are their +competitors, competition suffices to exclude them from; since nobody +asks for protective duties and bounties in favour of women; it is +only asked that the present bounties and protective duties in favour +of men should be recalled. If women have a greater natural +inclination for some things than for others, there is no need of laws +or social inculcation to make the majority of them do the former in +preference to the latter. Whatever women's services are most wanted +for, the free play of competition will hold out the strongest +inducements to them to undertake. And, as the words imply, they are +most wanted for the things for which they are most fit; by the +apportionment of which to them, the collective faculties of the two +sexes can be applied on the whole with the greatest sum of valuable +result. + +The general opinion of men is supposed to be, that the natural +vocation of a woman is that of a wife and mother. I say, is supposed +to be, because, judging from acts--from the whole of the present +constitution of society--one might infer that their opinion was the +direct contrary. They might be supposed to think that the alleged +natural vocation of women was of all things the most repugnant to +their nature; insomuch that if they are free to do anything else--if +any other means of living, or occupation of their time and faculties, +is open, which has any chance of appearing desirable to them--there +will not be enough of them who will be willing to accept the +condition said to be natural to them. If this is the real opinion of +men in general, it would be well that it should be spoken out. I +should like to hear somebody openly enunciating the doctrine (it is +already implied in much that is written on the subject)--“It is +necessary to society that women should marry and produce children. +They will not do so unless they are compelled. Therefore it is +necessary to compel them.” The merits of the case would then be +clearly defined. It would be exactly that of the slaveholders of +South Carolina and Louisiana. “It is necessary that cotton and sugar +should be grown. White men cannot produce them. Negroes will not, for +any wages which we choose to give. _Ergo_ they must be compelled.” An +illustration still closer to the point is that of impressment. +Sailors must absolutely be had to defend the country. It often +happens that they will not voluntarily enlist. Therefore there must +be the power of forcing them. How often has this logic been used! +and, but for one flaw in it, without doubt it would have been +successful up to this day. But it is open to the retort--First pay +the sailors the honest value of their labour. When you have made it +as well worth their while to serve you, as to work for other +employers, you will have no more difficulty than others have in +obtaining their services. To this there is no logical answer except +“I will not:” and as people are now not only ashamed, but are not +desirous, to rob the labourer of his hire, impressment is no longer +advocated. Those who attempt to force women into marriage by closing +all other doors against them, lay themselves open to a similar +retort. If they mean what they say, their opinion must evidently be, +that men do not render the married condition so desirable to women, +as to induce them to accept it for its own recommendations. It is not +a sign of one's thinking the boon one offers very attractive, when +one allows only Hobson's choice, “that or none.” And here, I believe, +is the clue to the feelings of those men, who have a real antipathy +to the equal freedom of women. I believe they are afraid, not lest +women should be unwilling to marry, for I do not think that any one +in reality has that apprehension; but lest they should insist that +marriage should be on equal conditions; lest all women of spirit and +capacity should prefer doing almost anything else, not in their own +eyes degrading, rather than marry, when marrying is giving themselves +a master, and a master too of all their earthly possessions. And +truly, if this consequence were necessarily incident to marriage, I +think that the apprehension would be very well founded. I agree in +thinking it probable that few women, capable of anything else, would, +unless under an irresistible _entrainement_, rendering them for the +time insensible to anything but itself, choose such a lot, when any +other means were open to them of filling a conventionally honourable +place in life: and if men are determined that the law of marriage +shall be a law of despotism, they are quite right, in point of mere +policy, in leaving to women only Hobson's choice. But, in that case, +all that has been done in the modern world to relax the chain on the +minds of women, has been a mistake. They never should have been +allowed to receive a literary education. Women who read, much more +women who write, are, in the existing constitution of things, a +contradiction and a disturbing element: and it was wrong to bring +women up with any acquirements but those of an odalisque, or of a +domestic servant. + +[Footnote 1: Title-page of Mme. de Stael's “Delphine.”] + + + + +CHAPTER II. + + +It will be well to commence the detailed discussion of the subject by +the particular branch of it to which the course of our observations +has led us: the conditions which the laws of this and all other +countries annex to the marriage contract. Marriage being the +destination appointed by society for women, the prospect they are +brought up to, and the object which it is intended should be sought +by all of them, except those who are too little attractive to be +chosen by any man as his companion; one might have supposed that +everything would have been done to make this condition as eligible to +them as possible, that they might have no cause to regret being +denied the option of any other. Society, however, both in this, and, +at first, in all other cases, has preferred to attain its object by +foul rather than fair means: but this is the only case in which it +has substantially persisted in them even to the present day. +Originally women were taken by force, or regularly sold by their +father to the husband. Until a late period in European history, the +father had the power to dispose of his daughter in marriage at his +own will and pleasure, without any regard to hers. The Church, +indeed, was so far faithful to a better morality as to require a +formal “yes” from the woman at the marriage ceremony; but there was +nothing to shew that the consent was other than compulsory; and it +was practically impossible for the girl to refuse compliance if the +father persevered, except perhaps when she might obtain the +protection of religion by a determined resolution to take monastic +vows. After marriage, the man had anciently (but this was anterior to +Christianity) the power of life and death over his wife. She could +invoke no law against him; he was her sole tribunal and law. For a +long time he could repudiate her, but she had no corresponding power +in regard to him. By the old laws of England, the husband was called +the _lord_ of the wife; he was literally regarded as her sovereign, +inasmuch that the murder of a man by his wife was called treason +(_petty_ as distinguished from _high_ treason), and was more cruelly +avenged than was usually the case with high treason, for the penalty +was burning to death. Because these various enormities have fallen +into disuse (for most of them were never formally abolished, or not +until they had long ceased to be practised) men suppose that all is +now as it should be in regard to the marriage contract; and we are +continually told that civilization and Christianity have restored to +the woman her just rights. Meanwhile the wife is the actual +bond-servant of her husband: no less so, as far as legal obligation +goes, than slaves commonly so called. She vows a lifelong obedience +to him at the altar, and is held to it all through her life by law. +Casuists may say that the obligation of obedience stops short of +participation in crime, but it certainly extends to everything else. +She can do no act whatever but by his permission, at least tacit. She +can acquire no property but for him; the instant it becomes hers, +even if by inheritance, it becomes _ipso facto_ his. In this respect +the wife's position under the common law of England is worse than +that of slaves in the laws of many countries: by the Roman law, for +example, a slave might have his peculium, which to a certain extent +the law guaranteed to him for his exclusive use. The higher classes +in this country have given an analogous advantage to their women, +through special contracts setting aside the law, by conditions of +pin-money, &c.: since parental feeling being stronger with fathers +than the class feeling of their own sex, a father generally prefers +his own daughter to a son-in-law who is a stranger to him. By means +of settlements, the rich usually contrive to withdraw the whole or +part of the inherited property of the wife from the absolute control +of the husband: but they do not succeed in keeping it under her own +control; the utmost they can do only prevents the husband from +squandering it, at the same time debarring the rightful owner from +its use. The property itself is out of the reach of both; and as to +the income derived from it, the form of settlement most favourable to +the wife (that called “to her separate use”) only precludes the +husband from receiving it instead of her: it must pass through her +hands, but if he takes it from her by personal violence as soon as +she receives it, he can neither be punished, nor compelled to +restitution. This is the amount of the protection which, under the +laws of this country, the most powerful nobleman can give to his own +daughter as respects her husband. In the immense majority of cases +there is no settlement: and the absorption of all rights, all +property, as well as all freedom of action, is complete. The two are +called “one person in law,” for the purpose of inferring that +whatever is hers is his, but the parallel inference is never drawn +that whatever is his is hers; the maxim is not applied against the +man, except to make him responsible to third parties for her acts, as +a master is for the acts of his slaves or of his cattle. I am far +from pretending that wives are in general no better treated than +slaves; but no slave is a slave to the same lengths, and in so full a +sense of the word, as a wife is. Hardly any slave, except one +immediately attached to the master's person, is a slave at all hours +and all minutes; in general he has, like a soldier, his fixed task, +and when it is done, or when he is off duty, he disposes, within +certain limits, of his own time, and has a family life into which the +master rarely intrudes. “Uncle Tom” under his first master had his +own life in his “cabin,” almost as much as any man whose work takes +him away from home, is able to have in his own family. But it cannot +be so with the wife. Above all, a female slave has (in Christian +countries) an admitted right, and is considered under a moral +obligation, to refuse to her master the last familiarity. Not so the +wife: however brutal a tyrant she may unfortunately be chained +to--though she may know that he hates her, though it may be his daily +pleasure to torture her, and though she may feel it impossible not to +loathe him--he can claim from her and enforce the lowest degradation +of a human being, that of being made the instrument of an animal +function contrary to her inclinations. While she is held in this +worst description of slavery as to her own person, what is her +position in regard to the children in whom she and her master have a +joint interest? They are by law _his_ children. He alone has any +legal rights over them. Not one act can she do towards or in relation +to them, except by delegation from him. Even after he is dead she is +not their legal guardian, unless he by will has made her so. He could +even send them away from her, and deprive her of the means of seeing +or corresponding with them, until this power was in some degree +restricted by Serjeant Talfourd's Act. This is her legal state. And +from this state she has no means of withdrawing herself. If she +leaves her husband, she can take nothing with her, neither her +children nor anything which is rightfully her own. If he chooses, he +can compel her to return, by law, or by physical force; or he may +content himself with seizing for his own use anything which she may +earn, or which may be given to her by her relations. It is only legal +separation by a decree of a court of justice, which entitles her to +live apart, without being forced back into the custody of an +exasperated jailer--or which empowers her to apply any earnings to +her own use, without fear that a man whom perhaps she has not seen +for twenty years will pounce upon her some day and carry all off. +This legal separation, until lately, the courts of justice would only +give at an expense which made it inaccessible to any one out of the +higher ranks. Even now it is only given in cases of desertion, or of +the extreme of cruelty; and yet complaints are made every day that it +is granted too easily. Surely, if a woman is denied any lot in life +but that of being the personal body-servant of a despot, and is +dependent for everything upon the chance of finding one who may be +disposed to make a favourite of her instead of merely a drudge, it is +a very cruel aggravation of her fate that she should be allowed to +try this chance only once. The natural sequel and corollary from this +state of things would be, that since her all in life depends upon +obtaining a good master, she should be allowed to change again and +again until she finds one. I am not saying that she ought to be +allowed this privilege. That is a totally different consideration. +The question of divorce, in the sense involving liberty of +remarriage, is one into which it is foreign to my purpose to enter. +All I now say is, that to those to whom nothing but servitude is +allowed, the free choice of servitude is the only, though a most +insufficient, alleviation. Its refusal completes the assimilation of +the wife to the slave--and the slave under not the mildest form of +slavery: for in some slave codes the slave could, under certain +circumstances of ill usage, legally compel the master to sell him. +But no amount of ill usage, without adultery superadded, will in +England free a wife from her tormentor. + +I have no desire to exaggerate, nor does the case stand in any need +of exaggeration. I have described the wife's legal position, not her +actual treatment. The laws of most countries are far worse than the +people who execute them, and many of them are only able to remain +laws by being seldom or never carried into effect. If married life +were all that it might be expected to be, looking to the laws alone, +society would be a hell upon earth. Happily there are both feelings +and interests which in many men exclude, and in most, greatly temper, +the impulses and propensities which lead to tyranny: and of those +feelings, the tie which connects a man with his wife affords, in a +normal state of things, incomparably the strongest example. The only +tie which at all approaches to it, that between him and his children, +tends, in all save exceptional cases, to strengthen, instead of +conflicting with, the first. Because this is true; because men in +general do not inflict, nor women suffer, all the misery which could +be inflicted and suffered if the full power of tyranny with which the +man is legally invested were acted on; the defenders of the existing +form of the institution think that all its iniquity is justified, and +that any complaint is merely quarrelling with the evil which is the +price paid for every great good. But the mitigations in practice, +which are compatible with maintaining in full legal force this or any +other kind of tyranny, instead of being any apology for despotism, +only serve to prove what power human nature possesses of reacting +against the vilest institutions, and with what vitality the seeds of +good as well as those of evil in human character diffuse and +propagate themselves. Not a word can be said for despotism in the +family which cannot be said for political despotism. Every absolute +king does not sit at his window to enjoy the groans of his tortured +subjects, nor strips them of their last rag and turns them out to +shiver in the road. The despotism of Louis XVI. was not the despotism +of Philippe le Bel, or of Nadir Shah, or of Caligula; but it was bad +enough to justify the French Revolution, and to palliate even its +horrors. If an appeal be made to the intense attachments which exist +between wives and their husbands, exactly as much may be said of +domestic slavery. It was quite an ordinary fact in Greece and Rome +for slaves to submit to death by torture rather than betray their +masters. In the proscriptions of the Roman civil wars it was remarked +that wives and slaves were heroically faithful, sons very commonly +treacherous. Yet we know how cruelly many Romans treated their +slaves. But in truth these intense individual feelings nowhere rise +to such a luxuriant height as under the most atrocious institutions. +It is part of the irony of life, that the strongest feelings of +devoted gratitude of which human nature seems to be susceptible, are +called forth in human beings towards those who, having the power +entirely to crush their earthly existence, voluntarily refrain from +using that power. How great a place in most men this sentiment fills, +even in religious devotion, it would be cruel to inquire. We daily +see how much their gratitude to Heaven appears to be stimulated by +the contemplation of fellow-creatures to whom God has not been so +merciful as he has to themselves. + +Whether the institution to be defended is slavery, political +absolutism, or the absolutism of the head of a family, we are always +expected to judge of it from its best instances; and we are presented +with pictures of loving exercise of authority on one side, loving +submission to it on the other--superior wisdom ordering all things +for the greatest good of the dependents, and surrounded by their +smiles and benedictions. All this would be very much to the purpose +if any one pretended that there are no such things as good men. Who +doubts that there may be great goodness, and great happiness, and +great affection, under the absolute government of a good man? +Meanwhile, laws and institutions require to be adapted, not to good +men, but to bad. Marriage is not an institution designed for a select +few. Men are not required, as a preliminary to the marriage ceremony, +to prove by testimonials that they are fit to be trusted with the +exercise of absolute power. The tie of affection and obligation to a +wife and children is very strong with those whose general social +feelings are strong, and with many who are little sensible to any +other social ties; but there are all degrees of sensibility and +insensibility to it, as there are all grades of goodness and +wickedness in men, down to those whom no ties will bind, and on whom +society has no action but through its _ultima ratio_, the penalties +of the law. In every grade of this descending scale are men to whom +are committed all the legal powers of a husband. The vilest +malefactor has some wretched woman tied to him, against whom he can +commit any atrocity except killing her, and, if tolerably cautious, +can do that without much danger of the legal penalty. And how many +thousands are there among the lowest classes in every country, who, +without being in a legal sense malefactors in any other respect, +because in every other quarter their aggressions meet with +resistance, indulge the utmost habitual excesses of bodily violence +towards the unhappy wife, who alone, at least of grown persons, can +neither repel nor escape from their brutality; and towards whom the +excess of dependence inspires their mean and savage natures, not with +a generous forbearance, and a point of honour to behave well to one +whose lot in life is trusted entirely to their kindness, but on the +contrary with a notion that the law has delivered her to them as +their thing, to be used at their pleasure, and that they are not +expected to practise the consideration towards her which is required +from them towards everybody else. The law, which till lately left +even these atrocious extremes of domestic oppression practically +unpunished, has within these few years made some feeble attempts to +repress them. But its attempts have done little, and cannot be +expected to do much, because it is contrary to reason and experience +to suppose that there can be any real check to brutality, consistent +with leaving the victim still in the power of the executioner. Until +a conviction for personal violence, or at all events a repetition of +it after a first conviction, entitles the woman _ipso facto_ to a +divorce, or at least to a judicial separation, the attempt to repress +these “aggravated assaults” by legal penalties will break down for +want of a prosecutor, or for want of a witness. + +When we consider how vast is the number of men, in any great country, +who are little higher than brutes, and that this never prevents them +from being able, through the law of marriage, to obtain a victim, the +breadth and depth of human misery caused in this shape alone by the +abuse of the institution swells to something appalling. Yet these are +only the extreme cases. They are the lowest abysses, but there is a +sad succession of depth after depth before reaching them. In domestic +as in political tyranny, the case of absolute monsters chiefly +illustrates the institution by showing that there is scarcely any +horror which may not occur under it if the despot pleases, and thus +setting in a strong light what must be the terrible frequency of +things only a little less atrocious. Absolute fiends are as rare as +angels, perhaps rarer: ferocious savages, with occasional touches of +humanity, are however very frequent: and in the wide interval which +separates these from any worthy representatives of the human species, +how many are the forms and gradations of animalism and selfishness, +often under an outward varnish of civilization and even cultivation, +living at peace with the law, maintaining a creditable appearance to +all who are not under their power, yet sufficient often to make the +lives of all who are so, a torment and a burthen to them! It would be +tiresome to repeat the commonplaces about the unfitness of men in +general for power, which, after the political discussions of +centuries, every one knows by heart, were it not that hardly any one +thinks of applying these maxims to the case in which above all others +they are applicable, that of power, not placed in the hands of a man +here and there, but offered to every adult male, down to the basest +and most ferocious. It is not because a man is not known to have +broken any of the Ten Commandments, or because he maintains a +respectable character in his dealings with those whom he cannot +compel to have intercourse with him, or because he does not fly out +into violent bursts of ill-temper against those who are not obliged +to bear with him, that it is possible to surmise of what sort his +conduct will be in the unrestraint of home. Even the commonest men +reserve the violent, the sulky, the undisguisedly selfish side of +their character for those who have no power to withstand it. The +relation of superiors to dependents is the nursery of these vices of +character, which, wherever else they exist, are an overflowing from +that source. A man who is morose or violent to his equals, is sure to +be one who has lived among inferiors, whom he could frighten or worry +into submission. If the family in its best forms is, as it is often +said to be, a school of sympathy, tenderness, and loving +forgetfulness of self, it is still oftener, as respects its chief, a +school of wilfulness, overbearingness, unbounded self-indulgence, and +a double-dyed and idealized selfishness, of which sacrifice itself is +only a particular form: the care for the wife and children being only +care for them as parts of the man's own interests and belongings, and +their individual happiness being immolated in every shape to his +smallest preferences. What better is to be looked for under the +existing form of the institution? We know that the bad propensities +of human nature are only kept within bounds when they are allowed no +scope for their indulgence. We know that from impulse and habit, when +not from deliberate purpose, almost every one to whom others yield, +goes on encroaching upon them, until a point is reached at which they +are compelled to resist. Such being the common tendency of human +nature; the almost unlimited power which present social institutions +give to the man over at least one human being--the one with whom he +resides, and whom he has always present--this power seeks out and +evokes the latent germs of selfishness in the remotest corners of his +nature--fans its faintest sparks and smouldering embers--offers to +him a license for the indulgence of those points of his original +character which in all other relations he would have found it +necessary to repress and conceal, and the repression of which would +in time have become a second nature. I know that there is another +side to the question. I grant that the wife, if she cannot +effectually resist, can at least retaliate; she, too, can make the +man's life extremely uncomfortable, and by that power is able to +carry many points which she ought, and many which she ought not, to +prevail in. But this instrument of self-protection--which may be +called the power of the scold, or the shrewish sanction--has the +fatal defect, that it avails most against the least tyrannical +superiors, and in favour of the least deserving dependents. It is the +weapon of irritable and self-willed women; of those who would make +the worst use of power if they themselves had it, and who generally +turn this power to a bad use. The amiable cannot use such an +instrument, the highminded disdain it. And on the other hand, the +husbands against whom it is used most effectively are the gentler and +more inoffensive; those who cannot be induced, even by provocation, +to resort to any very harsh exercise of authority. The wife's power +of being disagreeable generally only establishes a counter-tyranny, +and makes victims in their turn chiefly of those husbands who are +least inclined to be tyrants. + +What is it, then, which really tempers the corrupting effects of the +power, and makes it compatible with such amount of good as we +actually see? Mere feminine blandishments, though of great effect in +individual instances, have very little effect in modifying the +general tendencies of the situation; for their power only lasts while +the woman is young and attractive, often only while her charm is new, +and not dimmed by familiarity; and on many men they have not much +influence at any time. The real mitigating causes are, the personal +affection which is the growth of time, in so far as the man's nature +is susceptible of it, and the woman's character sufficiently +congenial with his to excite it; their common interests as regards +the children, and their general community of interest as concerns +third persons (to which however there are very great limitations); +the real importance of the wife to his daily comforts and enjoyments, +and the value he consequently attaches to her on his personal +account, which, in a man capable of feeling for others, lays the +foundation of caring for her on her own; and lastly, the influence +naturally acquired over almost all human beings by those near to +their persons (if not actually disagreeable to them): who, both by +their direct entreaties, and by the insensible contagion of their +feelings and dispositions, are often able, unless counteracted by +some equally strong personal influence, to obtain a degree of command +over the conduct of the superior, altogether excessive and +unreasonable. Through these various means, the wife frequently +exercises even too much power over the man; she is able to affect his +conduct in things in which she may not be qualified to influence it +for good--in which her influence may be not only unenlightened, but +employed on the morally wrong side; and in which he would act better +if left to his own prompting. But neither in the affairs of families +nor in those of states is power a compensation for the loss of +freedom. Her power often gives her what she has no right to, but does +not enable her to assert her own rights. A Sultan's favourite slave +has slaves under her, over whom she tyrannizes; but the desirable +thing would be that she should neither have slaves nor be a slave. By +entirely sinking her own existence in her husband; by having no will +(or persuading him that she has no will) but his, in anything which +regards their joint relation, and by making it the business of her +life to work upon his sentiments, a wife may gratify herself by +influencing, and very probably perverting, his conduct, in those of +his external relations which she has never qualified herself to judge +of, or in which she is herself wholly influenced by some personal or +other partiality or prejudice. Accordingly, as things now are, those +who act most kindly to their wives, are quite as often made worse, as +better, by the wife's influence, in respect to all interests +extending beyond the family. She is taught that she has no business +with things out of that sphere; and accordingly she seldom has any +honest and conscientious opinion on them; and therefore hardly ever +meddles with them for any legitimate purpose, but generally for an +interested one. She neither knows nor cares which is the right side +in politics, but she knows what will bring in money or invitations, +give her husband a title, her son a place, or her daughter a good +marriage. + +But how, it will be asked, can any society exist without government? +In a family, as in a state, some one person must be the ultimate +ruler. Who shall decide when married people differ in opinion? Both +cannot have their way, yet a decision one way or the other must be +come to. + +It is not true that in all voluntary association between two people, +one of them must be absolute master: still less that the law must +determine which of them it shall be. The most frequent case of +voluntary association, next to marriage, is partnership in business: +and it is not found or thought necessary to enact that in every +partnership, one partner shall have entire control over the concern, +and the others shall be bound to obey his orders. No one would enter +into partnership on terms which would subject him to the +responsibilities of a principal, with only the powers and privileges +of a clerk or agent. If the law dealt with other contracts as it does +with marriage, it would ordain that one partner should administer the +common business as if it was his private concern; that the others +should have only delegated powers; and that this one should be +designated by some general presumption of law, for example as being +the eldest. The law never does this: nor does experience show it to +be necessary that any theoretical inequality of power should exist +between the partners, or that the partnership should have any other +conditions than what they may themselves appoint by their articles of +agreement. Yet it might seem that the exclusive power might be +conceded with less danger to the rights and interests of the +inferior, in the case of partnership than in that of marriage, since +he is free to cancel the power by withdrawing from the connexion. The +wife has no such power, and even if she had, it is almost always +desirable that she should try all measures before resorting to it. + +It is quite true that things which have to be decided every day, and +cannot adjust themselves gradually, or wait for a compromise, ought +to depend on one will: one person must have their sole control. But +it does not follow that this should always be the same person. The +natural arrangement is a division of powers between the two; each +being absolute in the executive branch of their own department, and +any change of system and principle requiring the consent of both. The +division neither can nor should be pre-established by the law, since +it must depend on individual capacities and suitabilities. If the two +persons chose, they might pre-appoint it by the marriage contract, as +pecuniary arrangements are now often pre-appointed. There would +seldom be any difficulty in deciding such things by mutual consent, +unless the marriage was one of those unhappy ones in which all other +things, as well as this, become subjects of bickering and dispute. +The division of rights would naturally follow the division of duties +and functions; and that is already made by consent, or at all events +not by law, but by general custom, modified and modifiable at the +pleasure of the persons concerned. + +The real practical decision of affairs, to whichever may be given the +legal authority, will greatly depend, as it even now does, upon +comparative qualifications. The mere fact that he is usually the +eldest, will in most cases give the preponderance to the man; at +least until they both attain a time of life at which the difference +in their years is of no importance. There will naturally also be a +more potential voice on the side, whichever it is, that brings the +means of support. Inequality from this source does not depend on the +law of marriage, but on the general conditions of human society, as +now constituted. The influence of mental superiority, either general +or special, and of superior decision of character, will necessarily +tell for much. It always does so at present. And this fact shows how +little foundation there is for the apprehension that the powers and +responsibilities of partners in life (as of partners in business), +cannot be satisfactorily apportioned by agreement between themselves. +They always are so apportioned, except in cases in which the marriage +institution is a failure. Things never come to an issue of downright +power on one side, and obedience on the other, except where the +connexion altogether has been a mistake, and it would be a blessing +to both parties to be relieved from it. Some may say that the very +thing by which an amicable settlement of differences becomes +possible, is the power of legal compulsion known to be in reserve; as +people submit to an arbitration because there is a court of law in +the background, which they know that they can be forced to obey. But +to make the cases parallel, we must suppose that the rule of the +court of law was, not to try the cause, but to give judgment always +for the same side, suppose the defendant. If so, the amenability to +it would be a motive with the plaintiff to agree to almost any +arbitration, but it would be just the reverse with the defendant. The +despotic power which the law gives to the husband may be a reason to +make the wife assent to any compromise by which power is practically +shared between the two, but it cannot be the reason why the husband +does. That there is always among decently conducted people a +practical compromise, though one of them at least is under no +physical or moral necessity of making it, shows that the natural +motives which lead to a voluntary adjustment of the united life of +two persons in a manner acceptable to both, do on the whole, except +in unfavourable cases, prevail. The matter is certainly not improved +by laying down as an ordinance of law, that the superstructure of +free government shall be raised upon a legal basis of despotism on +one side and subjection on the other, and that every concession which +the despot makes may, at his mere pleasure, and without any warning, +be recalled. Besides that no freedom is worth much when held on so +precarious a tenure, its conditions are not likely to be the most +equitable when the law throws so prodigious a weight into one scale; +when the adjustment rests between two persons one of whom is declared +to be entitled to everything, the other not only entitled to nothing +except during the good pleasure of the first, but under the strongest +moral and religious obligation not to rebel under any excess of +oppression. + +A pertinacious adversary, pushed to extremities, may say, that +husbands indeed are willing to be reasonable, and to make fair +concessions to their partners without being compelled to it, but that +wives are not: that if allowed any rights of their own, they will +acknowledge no rights at all in any one else, and never will yield in +anything, unless they can be compelled, by the man's mere authority, +to yield in everything. This would have been said by many persons +some generations ago, when satires on women were in vogue, and men +thought it a clever thing to insult women for being what men made +them. But it will be said by no one now who is worth replying to. It +is not the doctrine of the present day that women are less +susceptible of good feeling, and consideration for those with whom +they are united by the strongest ties, than men are. On the contrary, +we are perpetually told that women are better than men, by those who +are totally opposed to treating them as if they were as good; so that +the saying has passed into a piece of tiresome cant, intended to put +a complimentary face upon an injury, and resembling those +celebrations of royal clemency which, according to Gulliver, the king +of Lilliput always prefixed to his most sanguinary decrees. If women +are better than men in anything, it surely is in individual +self-sacrifice for those of their own family. But I lay little stress +on this, so long as they are universally taught that they are born +and created for self-sacrifice. I believe that equality of rights +would abate the exaggerated self-abnegation which is the present +artificial ideal of feminine character, and that a good woman would +not be more self-sacrificing than the best man: but on the other +hand, men would be much more unselfish and self-sacrificing than at +present, because they would no longer be taught to worship their own +will as such a grand thing that it is actually the law for another +rational being. There is nothing which men so easily learn as this +self-worship: all privileged persons, and all privileged classes, +have had it. The more we descend in the scale of humanity, the +intenser it is; and most of all in those who are not, and can never +expect to be, raised above any one except an unfortunate wife and +children. The honourable exceptions are proportionally fewer than in +the case of almost any other human infirmity. Philosophy and +religion, instead of keeping it in check, are generally suborned to +defend it; and nothing controls it but that practical feeling of the +equality of human beings, which is the theory of Christianity, but +which Christianity will never practically teach, while it sanctions +institutions grounded on an arbitrary preference of one human being +over another. + +There are, no doubt, women, as there are men, whom equality of +consideration will not satisfy; with whom there is no peace while any +will or wish is regarded but their own. Such persons are a proper +subject for the law of divorce. They are only fit to live alone, and +no human beings ought to be compelled to associate their lives with +them. But the legal subordination tends to make such characters among +women more, rather than less, frequent. If the man exerts his whole +power, the woman is of course crushed: but if she is treated with +indulgence, and permitted to assume power, there is no rule to set +limits to her encroachments. The law, not determining her rights, but +theoretically allowing her none at all, practically declares that the +measure of what she has a right to, is what she can contrive to get. + +The equality of married persons before the law, is not only the sole +mode in which that particular relation can be made consistent with +justice to both sides, and conducive to the happiness of both, but it +is the only means of rendering the daily life of mankind, in any high +sense, a school of moral cultivation. Though the truth may not be +felt or generally acknowledged for generations to come, the only +school of genuine moral sentiment is society between equals. The +moral education of mankind has hitherto emanated chiefly from the law +of force, and is adapted almost solely to the relations which force +creates. In the less advanced states of society, people hardly +recognise any relation with their equals. To be an equal is to be an +enemy. Society, from its highest place to its lowest, is one long +chain, or rather ladder, where every individual is either above or +below his nearest neighbour, and wherever he does not command he must +obey. Existing moralities, accordingly, are mainly fitted to a +relation of command and obedience. Yet command and obedience are but +unfortunate necessities of human life: society in equality is its +normal state. Already in modern life, and more and more as it +progressively improves, command and obedience become exceptional +facts in life, equal association its general rule. The morality of +the first ages rested on the obligation to submit to power; that of +the ages next following, on the right of the weak to the forbearance +and protection of the strong. How much longer is one form of society +and life to content itself with the morality made for another? We +have had the morality of submission, and the morality of chivalry and +generosity; the time is now come for the morality of justice. +Whenever, in former ages, any approach has been made to society in +equality, Justice has asserted its claims as the foundation of +virtue. It was thus in the free republics of antiquity. But even in +the best of these, the equals were limited to the free male citizens; +slaves, women, and the unenfranchised residents were under the law of +force. The joint influence of Roman civilization and of Christianity +obliterated these distinctions, and in theory (if only partially in +practice) declared the claims of the human being, as such, to be +paramount to those of sex, class, or social position. The barriers +which had begun to be levelled were raised again by the northern +conquests; and the whole of modern history consists of the slow +process by which they have since been wearing away. We are entering +into an order of things in which justice will again be the primary +virtue; grounded as before on equal, but now also on sympathetic +association; having its root no longer in the instinct of equals for +self-protection, but in a cultivated sympathy between them; and no +one being now left out, but an equal measure being extended to all. +It is no novelty that mankind do not distinctly foresee their own +changes, and that their sentiments are adapted to past, not to coming +ages. To see the futurity of the species has always been the +privilege of the intellectual élite, or of those who have learnt from +them; to have the feelings of that futurity has been the distinction, +and usually the martyrdom, of a still rarer élite. Institutions, +books, education, society, all go on training human beings for the +old, long after the new has come; much more when it is only coming. +But the true virtue of human beings is fitness to live together as +equals; claiming nothing for themselves but what they as freely +concede to every one else; regarding command of any kind as an +exceptional necessity, and in all cases a temporary one; and +preferring, whenever possible, the society of those with whom leading +and following can be alternate and reciprocal. To these virtues, +nothing in life as at present constituted gives cultivation by +exercise. The family is a school of despotism, in which the virtues +of despotism, but also its vices, are largely nourished. Citizenship, +in free countries, is partly a school of society in equality; but +citizenship fills only a small place in modern life, and does not +come near the daily habits or inmost sentiments. The family, justly +constituted, would be the real school of the virtues of freedom. It +is sure to be a sufficient one of everything else. It will always be +a school of obedience for the children, of command for the parents. +What is needed is, that it should be a school of sympathy in +equality, of living together in love, without power on one side or +obedience on the other. This it ought to be between the parents. It +would then be an exercise of those virtues which each requires to fit +them for all other association, and a model to the children of the +feelings and conduct which their temporary training by means of +obedience is designed to render habitual, and therefore natural, to +them. The moral training of mankind will never be adapted to the +conditions of the life for which all other human progress is a +preparation, until they practise in the family the same moral rule +which is adapted to the normal constitution of human society. Any +sentiment of freedom which can exist in a man whose nearest and +dearest intimacies are with those of whom he is absolute master, is +not the genuine or Christian love of freedom, but, what the love of +freedom generally was in the ancients and in the middle ages--an +intense feeling of the dignity and importance of his own personality; +making him disdain a yoke for himself, of which he has no abhorrence +whatever in the abstract, but which he is abundantly ready to impose +on others for his own interest or glorification. + +I readily admit (and it is the very foundation of my hopes) that +numbers of married people even under the present law, (in the higher +classes of England probably a great majority,) live in the spirit of +a just law of equality. Laws never would be improved, if there were +not numerous persons whose moral sentiments are better than the +existing laws. Such persons ought to support the principles here +advocated; of which the only object is to make all other married +couples similar to what these are now. But persons even of +considerable moral worth, unless they are also thinkers, are very +ready to believe that laws or practices, the evils of which they have +not personally experienced, do not produce any evils, but (if seeming +to be generally approved of) probably do good, and that it is wrong +to object to them. It would, however, be a great mistake in such +married people to suppose, because the legal conditions of the tie +which unites them do not occur to their thoughts once in a +twelvemonth, and because they live and feel in all respects as if +they were legally equals, that the same is the case with all other +married couples, wherever the husband is not a notorious ruffian. To +suppose this, would be to show equal ignorance of human nature and of +fact. The less fit a man is for the possession of power--the less +likely to be allowed to exercise it over any person with that +person's voluntary consent--the more does he hug himself in the +consciousness of the power the law gives him, exact its legal rights +to the utmost point which custom (the custom of men like himself) +will tolerate, and take pleasure in using the power, merely to +enliven the agreeable sense of possessing it. What is more; in the +most naturally brutal and morally uneducated part of the lower +classes, the legal slavery of the woman, and something in the merely +physical subjection to their will as an instrument, causes them to +feel a sort of disrespect and contempt towards their own wife which +they do not feel towards any other woman, or any other human being, +with whom they come in contact; and which makes her seem to them an +appropriate subject for any kind of indignity. Let an acute observer +of the signs of feeling, who has the requisite opportunities, judge +for himself whether this is not the case: and if he finds that it is, +let him not wonder at any amount of disgust and indignation that can +be felt against institutions which lead naturally to this depraved +state of the human mind. + +We shall be told, perhaps, that religion imposes the duty of +obedience; as every established fact which is too bad to admit of any +other defence, is always presented to us as an injunction of +religion. The Church, it is very true, enjoins it in her formularies, +but it would be difficult to derive any such injunction from +Christianity. We are told that St. Paul said, “Wives, obey your +husbands:” but he also said, “Slaves, obey your masters.” It was not +St. Paul's business, nor was it consistent with his object, the +propagation of Christianity, to incite any one to rebellion against +existing laws. The apostle's acceptance of all social institutions as +he found them, is no more to be construed as a disapproval of +attempts to improve them at the proper time, than his declaration, +“The powers that be are ordained of God,” gives his sanction to +military despotism, and to that alone, as the Christian form of +political government, or commands passive obedience to it. To pretend +that Christianity was intended to stereotype existing forms of +government and society, and protect them against change, is to reduce +it to the level of Islamism or of Brahminism. It is precisely because +Christianity has not done this, that it has been the religion of the +progressive portion of mankind, and Islamism, Brahminism, &c., have +been those of the stationary portions; or rather (for there is no +such thing as a really stationary society) of the declining portions. +There have been abundance of people, in all ages of Christianity, who +tried to make it something of the same kind; to convert us into a +sort of Christian Mussulmans, with the Bible for a Koran, prohibiting +all improvement: and great has been their power, and many have had to +sacrifice their lives in resisting them. But they have been resisted, +and the resistance has made us what we are, and will yet make us what +we are to be. + +After what has been said respecting the obligation of obedience, it +is almost superfluous to say anything concerning the more special +point included in the general one--a woman's right to her own +property; for I need not hope that this treatise can make any +impression upon those who need anything to convince them that a +woman's inheritance or gains ought to be as much her own after +marriage as before. The rule is simple: whatever would be the +husband's or wife's if they were not married, should be under their +exclusive control during marriage; which need not interfere with the +power to tie up property by settlement, in order to preserve it for +children. Some people are sentimentally shocked at the idea of a +separate interest in money matters, as inconsistent with the ideal +fusion of two lives into one. For my own part, I am one of the +strongest supporters of community of goods, when resulting from an +entire unity of feeling in the owners, which makes all things common +between them. But I have no relish for a community of goods resting +on the doctrine, that what is mine is yours but what is yours is not +mine; and I should prefer to decline entering into such a compact +with any one, though I were myself the person to profit by it. + +This particular injustice and oppression to women, which is, to +common apprehensions, more obvious than all the rest, admits of +remedy without interfering with any other mischiefs: and there can be +little doubt that it will be one of the earliest remedied. Already, +in many of the new and several of the old States of the American +Confederation, provisions have been inserted even in the written +Constitutions, securing to women equality of rights in this respect: +and thereby improving materially the position, in the marriage +relation, of those women at least who have property, by leaving them +one instrument of power which they have not signed away; and +preventing also the scandalous abuse of the marriage institution, +which is perpetrated when a man entraps a girl into marrying him +without a settlement, for the sole purpose of getting possession of +her money. When the support of the family depends, not on property, +but on earnings, the common arrangement, by which the man earns the +income and the wife superintends the domestic expenditure, seems to +me in general the most suitable division of labour between the two +persons. If, in addition to the physical suffering of bearing +children, and the whole responsibility of their care and education in +early years, the wife undertakes the careful and economical +application of the husband's earnings to the general comfort of the +family; she takes not only her fair share, but usually the larger +share, of the bodily and mental exertion required by their joint +existence. If she undertakes any additional portion, it seldom +relieves her from this, but only prevents her from performing it +properly. The care which she is herself disabled from taking of the +children and the household, nobody else takes; those of the children +who do not die, grow up as they best can, and the management of the +household is likely to be so bad, as even in point of economy to be a +great drawback from the value of the wife's earnings. In an otherwise +just state of things, it is not, therefore, I think, a desirable +custom, that the wife should contribute by her labour to the income +of the family. In an unjust state of things, her doing so may be +useful to her, by making her of more value in the eyes of the man who +is legally her master; but, on the other hand, it enables him still +farther to abuse his power, by forcing her to work, and leaving the +support of the family to her exertions, while he spends most of his +time in drinking and idleness. The _power_ of earning is essential to +the dignity of a woman, if she has not independent property. But if +marriage were an equal contract, not implying the obligation of +obedience; if the connexion were no longer enforced to the oppression +of those to whom it is purely a mischief, but a separation, on just +terms (I do not now speak of a divorce), could be obtained by any +woman who was morally entitled to it; and if she would then find all +honourable employments as freely open to her as to men; it would not +be necessary for her protection, that during marriage she should make +this particular use of her faculties. Like a man when he chooses a +profession, so, when a woman marries, it may in general be understood +that she makes choice of the management of a household, and the +bringing up of a family, as the first call upon her exertions, during +as many years of her life as may be required for the purpose; and +that she renounces, not all other objects and occupations, but all +which are not consistent with the requirements of this. The actual +exercise, in a habitual or systematic manner, of outdoor occupations, +or such as cannot be carried on at home, would by this principle be +practically interdicted to the greater number of married women. But +the utmost latitude ought to exist for the adaptation of general +rules to individual suitabilities; and there ought to be nothing to +prevent faculties exceptionally adapted to any other pursuit, from +obeying their vocation notwithstanding marriage: due provision being +made for supplying otherwise any falling-short which might become +inevitable, in her full performance of the ordinary functions of +mistress of a family. These things, if once opinion were rightly +directed on the subject, might with perfect safety be left to be +regulated by opinion, without any interference of law. + + + + +CHAPTER III. + + +On the other point which is involved in the just equality of women, +their admissibility to all the functions and occupations hitherto +retained as the monopoly of the stronger sex, I should anticipate no +difficulty in convincing any one who has gone with me on the subject +of the equality of women in the family. I believe that their +disabilities elsewhere are only clung to in order to maintain their +subordination in domestic life; because the generality of the male +sex cannot yet tolerate the idea of living with an equal. Were it not +for that, I think that almost every one, in the existing state of +opinion in politics and political economy, would admit the injustice +of excluding half the human race from the greater number of lucrative +occupations, and from almost all high social functions; ordaining +from their birth either that they are not, and cannot by any +possibility become, fit for employments which are legally open to the +stupidest and basest of the other sex, or else that however fit they +may be, those employments shall be interdicted to them, in order to +be preserved for the exclusive benefit of males. In the last two +centuries, when (which was seldom the case) any reason beyond the +mere existence of the fact was thought to be required to justify the +disabilities of women, people seldom assigned as a reason their +inferior mental capacity; which, in times when there was a real trial +of personal faculties (from which all women were not excluded) in the +struggles of public life, no one really believed in. The reason given +in those days was not women's unfitness, but the interest of society, +by which was meant the interest of men: just as the _raison d'état_, +meaning the convenience of the government, and the support of +existing authority, was deemed a sufficient explanation and excuse +for the most flagitious crimes. In the present day, power holds a +smoother language, and whomsoever it oppresses, always pretends to do +so for their own good: accordingly, when anything is forbidden to +women, it is thought necessary to say, and desirable to believe, that +they are incapable of doing it, and that they depart from their real +path of success and happiness when they aspire to it. But to make +this reason plausible (I do not say valid), those by whom it is urged +must be prepared to carry it to a much greater length than any one +ventures to do in the face of present experience. It is not +sufficient to maintain that women on the average are less gifted than +men on the average, with certain of the higher mental faculties, or +that a smaller number of women than of men are fit for occupations +and functions of the highest intellectual character. It is necessary +to maintain that no women at all are fit for them, and that the most +eminent women are inferior in mental faculties to the most mediocre +of the men on whom those functions at present devolve. For if the +performance of the function is decided either by competition, or by +any mode of choice which secures regard to the public interest, there +needs be no apprehension that any important employments will fall +into the hands of women inferior to average men, or to the average of +their male competitors. The only result would be that there would be +fewer women than men in such employments; a result certain to happen +in any ease, if only from the preference always likely to be felt by +the majority of women for the one vocation in which there is nobody +to compete with them. Now, the most determined depreciator of women +will not venture to deny, that when we add the experience of recent +times to that of ages past, women, and not a few merely, but many +women, have proved themselves capable of everything, perhaps without +a single exception, which is done by men, and of doing it +successfully and creditably. The utmost that can be said is, that +there are many things which none of them have succeeded in doing as +well as they have been done by some men--many in which they have not +reached the very highest rank. But there are extremely few, dependent +only on mental faculties, in which they have not attained the rank +next to the highest. Is not this enough, and much more than enough, +to make it a tyranny to them, and a detriment to society, that they +should not be allowed to compete with men for the exercise of these +functions? Is it not a mere truism to say, that such functions are +often filled by men far less fit for them than numbers of women, and +who would be beaten by women in any fair field of competition? What +difference does it make that there may be men somewhere, fully +employed about other things, who may be still better qualified for +the things in question than these women? Does not this take place in +all competitions? Is there so great a superfluity of men fit for high +duties, that society can afford to reject the service of any +competent person? Are we so certain of always finding a man made to +our hands for any duty or function of social importance which falls +vacant, that we lose nothing by putting a ban upon one-half of +mankind, and refusing beforehand to make their faculties available, +however distinguished they may be? And even if we could do without +them, would it be consistent with justice to refuse to them their +fair share of honour and distinction, or to deny to them the equal +moral right of all human beings to choose their occupation (short of +injury to others) according to their own preferences, at their own +risk? Nor is the injustice confined to them: it is shared by those +who are in a position to benefit by their services. To ordain that +any kind of persons shall not be physicians, or shall not be +advocates, or shall not be members of parliament, is to injure not +them only, but all who employ physicians or advocates, or elect +members of parliament, and who are deprived of the stimulating effect +of greater competition on the exertions of the competitors, as well +as restricted to a narrower range of individual choice. + +It will perhaps be sufficient if I confine myself, in the details of +my argument, to functions of a public nature: since, if I am +successful as to those, it probably will be readily granted that +women should be admissible to all other occupations to which it is at +all material whether they are admitted or not. And here let me begin +by marking out one function, broadly distinguished from all others, +their right to which is entirely independent of any question which +can be raised concerning their faculties. I mean the suffrage, both +parliamentary and municipal. The right to share in the choice of +those who are to exercise a public trust, is altogether a distinct +thing from that of competing for the trust itself. If no one could +vote for a member of parliament who was not fit to be a candidate, +the government would be a narrow oligarchy indeed. To have a voice in +choosing those by whom one is to be governed, is a means of +self-protection due to every one, though he were to remain for ever +excluded from the function of governing: and that women are +considered fit to have such a choice, may be presumed from the fact, +that the law already gives it to women in the most important of all +cases to themselves: for the choice of the man who is to govern a +woman to the end of life, is always supposed to be voluntarily made +by herself. In the case of election to public trusts, it is the +business of constitutional law to surround the right of suffrage with +all needful securities and limitations; but whatever securities are +sufficient in the case of the male sex, no others need be required in +the case of women. Under whatever conditions, and within whatever +limits, men are admitted to the suffrage, there is not a shadow of +justification for not admitting women under the same. The majority of +the women of any class are not likely to differ in political opinion +from the majority of the men of the same class, unless the question +be one in which the interests of women, as such, are in some way +involved; and if they are so, women require the suffrage, as their +guarantee of just and equal consideration. This ought to be obvious +even to those who coincide in no other of the doctrines for which I +contend. Even if every woman were a wife, and if every wife ought to +be a slave, all the more would these slaves stand in need of legal +protection: and we know what legal protection the slaves have, where +the laws are made by their masters. + +With regard to the fitness of women, not only to participate in +elections, but themselves to hold offices or practise professions +involving important public responsibilities; I have already observed +that this consideration is not essential to the practical question in +dispute: since any woman, who succeeds in an open profession, proves +by that very fact that she is qualified for it. And in the case of +public offices, if the political system of the country is such as to +exclude unfit men, it will equally exclude unfit women: while if it +is not, there is no additional evil in the fact that the unfit +persons whom it admits may be either women or men. As long therefore +as it is acknowledged that even a few women may be fit for these +duties, the laws which shut the door on those exceptions cannot be +justified by any opinion which can be held respecting the capacities +of women in general. But, though this last consideration is not +essential, it is far from being irrelevant. An unprejudiced view of +it gives additional strength to the arguments against the +disabilities of women, and reinforces them by high considerations of +practical utility. + +Let us at first make entire abstraction of all psychological +considerations tending to show, that any of the mental differences +supposed to exist between women and men are but the natural effect of +the differences in their education and circumstances, and indicate no +radical difference, far less radical inferiority, of nature. Let us +consider women only as they already are, or as they are known to have +been; and the capacities which they have already practically shown. +What they have done, that at least, if nothing else, it is proved +that they can do. When we consider how sedulously they are all +trained away from, instead of being trained towards, any of the +occupations or objects reserved for men, it is evident that I am +taking a very humble ground for them, when I rest their case on what +they have actually achieved. For, in this case, negative evidence is +worth little, while any positive evidence is conclusive. It cannot be +inferred to be impossible that a woman should be a Homer, or an +Aristotle, or a Michael Angelo, or a Beethoven, because no woman has +yet actually produced works comparable to theirs in any of those +lines of excellence. This negative fact at most leaves the question +uncertain, and open to psychological discussion. But it is quite +certain that a woman can be a Queen Elizabeth, or a Deborah, or a +Joan of Arc, since this is not inference, but fact. Now it is a +curious consideration, that the only things which the existing law +excludes women from doing, are the things which they have proved that +they are able to do. There is no law to prevent a woman from having +written all the plays of Shakspeare, or composed all the operas of +Mozart. But Queen Elizabeth or Queen Victoria, had they not inherited +the throne, could not have been intrusted with the smallest of the +political duties, of which the former showed herself equal to the +greatest. + +If anything conclusive could be inferred from experience, without +psychological analysis, it would be that the things which women are +not allowed to do are the very ones for which they are peculiarly +qualified; since their vocation for government has made its way, and +become conspicuous, through the very few opportunities which have +been given; while in the lines of distinction which apparently were +freely open to them, they have by no means so eminently distinguished +themselves. We know how small a number of reigning queens history +presents, in comparison with that of kings. Of this smaller number a +far larger proportion have shown talents for rule; though many of +them have occupied the throne in difficult periods. It is remarkable, +too, that they have, in a great number of instances, been +distinguished by merits the most opposite to the imaginary and +conventional character of women: they have been as much remarked for +the firmness and vigour of their rule, as for its intelligence. When, +to queens and empresses, we add regents, and viceroys of provinces, +the list of women who have been eminent rulers of mankind swells to a +great length.[1] This fact is so undeniable, that some one, long ago, +tried to retort the argument, and turned the admitted truth into an +additional insult, by saying that queens are better than kings, +because under kings women govern, but under queens, men. + +It may seem a waste of reasoning to argue against a bad joke; but +such things do affect people's minds; and I have heard men quote this +saying, with an air as if they thought that there was something in +it. At any rate, it will serve as well as anything else for a +starting point in discussion. I say, then, that it is not true that +under kings, women govern. Such cases are entirely exceptional: and +weak kings have quite as often governed ill through the influence of +male favourites, as of female. When a king is governed by a woman +merely through his amatory propensities, good government is not +probable, though even then there are exceptions. But French history +counts two kings who have voluntarily given the direction of affairs +during many years, the one to his mother, the other to his sister: +one of them, Charles VIII., was a mere boy, but in doing so he +followed the intentions of his father Louis XI., the ablest monarch +of his age. The other, Saint Louis, was the best, and one of the most +vigorous rulers, since the time of Charlemagne. Both these princesses +ruled in a manner hardly equalled by any prince among their +contemporaries. The emperor Charles the Fifth, the most politic +prince of his time, who had as great a number of able men in his +service as a ruler ever had, and was one of the least likely of all +sovereigns to sacrifice his interest to personal feelings, made two +princesses of his family successively Governors of the Netherlands, +and kept one or other of them in that post during his whole life, +(they were afterwards succeeded by a third). Both ruled very +successfully, and one of them, Margaret of Austria, was one of the +ablest politicians of the age. So much for one side of the question. +Now as to the other. When it is said that under queens men govern, is +the same meaning to be understood as when kings are said to be +governed by women? Is it meant that queens choose as their +instruments of government, the associates of their personal +pleasures? The case is rare even with those who are as unscrupulous +on the latter point as Catherine II.: and it is not in these cases +that the good government, alleged to arise from male influence, is to +be found. If it be true, then, that the administration is in the +hands of better men under a queen than under an average king, it must +be that queens have a superior capacity for choosing them; and women +must be better qualified than men both for the position of sovereign, +and for that of chief minister; for the principal business of a prime +minister is not to govern in person, but to find the fittest persons +to conduct every department of public affairs. The more rapid insight +into character, which is one of the admitted points of superiority in +women over men, must certainly make them, with anything like parity +of qualifications in other respects, more apt than men in that choice +of instruments, which is nearly the most important business of every +one who has to do with governing mankind. Even the unprincipled +Catherine de' Medici could feel the value of a Chancellor de +l'Hôpital. But it is also true that most great queens have been great +by their own talents for government, and have been well served +precisely for that reason. They retained the supreme direction of +affairs in their own hands: and if they listened to good advisers, +they gave by that fact the strongest proof that their judgment fitted +them for dealing with the great questions of government. + +Is it reasonable to think that those who are fit for the greater +functions of politics, are incapable of qualifying themselves for the +less? Is there any reason in the nature of things, that the wives and +sisters of princes should, whenever called on, be found as competent +as the princes themselves to _their_ business, but that the wives and +sisters of statesmen, and administrators, and directors of companies, +and managers of public institutions, should be unable to do what is +done by their brothers and husbands? The real reason is plain enough; +it is that princesses, being more raised above the generality of men +by their rank than placed below them by their sex, have never been +taught that it was improper for them to concern themselves with +politics; but have been allowed to feel the liberal interest natural +to any cultivated human being, in the great transactions which took +place around them, and in which they might be called on to take a +part. The ladies of reigning families are the only women who are +allowed the same range of interests and freedom of development as +men; and it is precisely in their case that there is not found to be +any inferiority. Exactly where and in proportion as women's +capacities for government have been tried, in that proportion have +they been found adequate. + +This fact is in accordance with the best general conclusions which +the world's imperfect experience seems as yet to suggest, concerning +the peculiar tendencies and aptitudes characteristic of women, as +women have hitherto been. I do not say, as they will continue to be; +for, as I have already said more than once, I consider it presumption +in any one to pretend to decide what women are or are not, can or +cannot be, by natural constitution. They have always hitherto been +kept, as far as regards spontaneous development, in so unnatural a +state, that their nature cannot but have been greatly distorted and +disguised; and no one can safely pronounce that if women's nature +were left to choose its direction as freely as men's, and if no +artificial bent were attempted to be given to it except that required +by the conditions of human society, and given to both sexes alike, +there would be any material difference, or perhaps any difference at +all, in the character and capacities which would unfold themselves. I +shall presently show, that even the least contestable of the +differences which now exist, are such as may very well have been +produced merely by circumstances, without any difference of natural +capacity. But, looking at women as they are known in experience, it +may be said of them, with more truth than belongs to most other +generalizations on the subject, that the general bent of their +talents is towards the practical. This statement is conformable to +all the public history of women, in the present and the past. It is +no less borne out by common and daily experience. Let us consider the +special nature of the mental capacities most characteristic of a +woman of talent. They are all of a kind which fits them for practice, +and makes them tend towards it. What is meant by a woman's capacity +of intuitive perception? It means, a rapid and correct insight into +present fact. It has nothing to do with general principles. Nobody +ever perceived a scientific law of nature by intuition, nor arrived +at a general rule of duty or prudence by it. These are results of +slow and careful collection and comparison of experience; and neither +the men nor the women of intuition usually shine in this department, +unless, indeed, the experience necessary is such as they can acquire +by themselves. For what is called their intuitive sagacity makes them +peculiarly apt in gathering such general truths as can be collected +from their individual means of observation. When, consequently, they +chance to be as well provided as men are with the results of other +people's experience, by reading and education, (I use the word chance +advisedly, for, in respect to the knowledge that tends to fit them +for the greater concerns of life, the only educated women are the +self-educated) they are better furnished than men in general with the +essential requisites of skilful and successful practice. Men who have +been much taught, are apt to be deficient in the sense of present +fact; they do not see, in the facts which they are called upon to +deal with, what is really there, but what they have been taught to +expect. This is seldom the case with women of any ability. Their +capacity of “intuition” preserves them from it. With equality of +experience and of general faculties, a woman usually sees much more +than a man of what is immediately before her. Now this sensibility to +the present, is the main quality on which the capacity for practice, +as distinguished from theory, depends. To discover general +principles, belongs to the speculative faculty: to discern and +discriminate the particular cases in which they are and are not +applicable, constitutes practical talent: and for this, women as they +now are have a peculiar aptitude. I admit that there can be no good +practice without principles, and that the predominant place which +quickness of observation holds among a woman's faculties, makes her +particularly apt to build over-hasty generalizations upon her own +observation; though at the same time no less ready in rectifying +those generalizations, as her observation takes a wider range. But +the corrective to this defect, is access to the experience of the +human race; general knowledge--exactly the thing which education can +best supply. A woman's mistakes are specifically those of a clever +self-educated man, who often sees what men trained in routine do not +see, but falls into errors for want of knowing things which have long +been known. Of course he has acquired much of the pre-existing +knowledge, or he could not have got on at all; but what he knows of +it he has picked up in fragments and at random, as women do. + +But this gravitation of women's minds to the present, to the real, to +actual fact, while in its exclusiveness it is a source of errors, is +also a most useful counteractive of the contrary error. The principal +and most characteristic aberration of speculative minds as such, +consists precisely in the deficiency of this lively perception and +ever-present sense of objective fact. For want of this, they often +not only overlook the contradiction which outward facts oppose to +their theories, but lose sight of the legitimate purpose of +speculation altogether, and let their speculative faculties go astray +into regions not peopled with real beings, animate or inanimate, even +idealized, but with personified shadows created by the illusions of +metaphysics or by the mere entanglement of words, and think these +shadows the proper objects of the highest, the most transcendant, +philosophy. Hardly anything can be of greater value to a man of +theory and speculation who employs himself not in collecting +materials of knowledge by observation, but in working them up by +processes of thought into comprehensive truths of science and laws of +conduct, than to carry on his speculations in the companionship, and +under the criticism, of a really superior woman. There is nothing +comparable to it for keeping his thoughts within the limits of real +things, and the actual facts of nature. A woman seldom runs wild +after an abstraction. The habitual direction of her mind to dealing +with things as individuals rather than in groups, and (what is +closely connected with it) her more lively interest in the present +feelings of persons, which makes her consider first of all, in +anything which claims to be applied to practice, in what manner +persons will be affected by it--these two things make her extremely +unlikely to put faith in any speculation which loses sight of +individuals, and deals with things as if they existed for the benefit +of some imaginary entity, some mere creation of the mind, not +resolvable into the feelings of living beings. Women's thoughts are +thus as useful in giving reality to those of thinking men, as men's +thoughts in giving width and largeness to those of women. In depth, +as distinguished from breadth, I greatly doubt if even now, women, +compared with men, are at any disadvantage. + +If the existing mental characteristics of women are thus valuable +even in aid of speculation, they are still more important, when +speculation has done its work, for carrying out the results of +speculation into practice. For the reasons already given, women are +comparatively unlikely to fall into the common error of men, that of +sticking to their rules in a case whose specialities either take it +out of the class to which the rules are applicable, or require a +special adaptation of them. Let us now consider another of the +admitted superiorities of clever women, greater quickness of +apprehension. Is not this pre-eminently a quality which fits a person +for practice? In action, everything continually depends upon deciding +promptly. In speculation, nothing does. A mere thinker can wait, can +take time to consider, can collect additional evidence; he is not +obliged to complete his philosophy at once, lest the opportunity +should go by. The power of drawing the best conclusion possible from +insufficient data is not indeed useless in philosophy; the +construction of a provisional hypothesis consistent with all known +facts is often the needful basis for further inquiry. But this +faculty is rather serviceable in philosophy, than the main +qualification for it: and, for the auxiliary as well as for the main +operation, the philosopher can allow himself any time he pleases. He +is in no need of the capacity of doing rapidly what he does; what he +rather needs is patience, to work on slowly until imperfect lights +have become perfect, and a conjecture has ripened into a theorem. For +those, on the contrary, whose business is with the fugitive and +perishable--with individual facts, not kinds of facts--rapidity of +thought is a qualification next only in importance to the power of +thought itself. He who has not his faculties under immediate command, +in the contingencies of action, might as well not have them at all. +He may be fit to criticize, but he is not fit to act. Now it is in +this that women, and the men who are most like women, confessedly +excel. The other sort of man, however pre-eminent may be his +faculties, arrives slowly at complete command of them: rapidity of +judgment and promptitude of judicious action, even in the things he +knows best, are the gradual and late result of strenuous effort grown +into habit. + +It will be said, perhaps, that the greater nervous susceptibility of +women is a disqualification for practice, in anything but domestic +life, by rendering them mobile, changeable, too vehemently under the +influence of the moment, incapable of dogged perseverance, unequal +and uncertain in the power of using their faculties. I think that +these phrases sum up the greater part of the objections commonly made +to the fitness of women for the higher class of serious business. +Much of all this is the mere overflow of nervous energy run to waste, +and would cease when the energy was directed to a definite end. Much +is also the result of conscious or unconscious cultivation; as we see +by the almost total disappearance of “hysterics” and fainting fits, +since they have gone out of fashion. Moreover, when people are +brought up, like many women of the higher classes (though less so in +our own country than in any other) a kind of hot-house plants, +shielded from the wholesome vicissitudes of air and temperature, and +untrained in any of the occupations and exercises which give stimulus +and development to the circulatory and muscular system, while their +nervous system, especially in its emotional department, is kept in +unnaturally active play; it is no wonder if those of them who do not +die of consumption, grow up with constitutions liable to derangement +from slight causes, both internal and external, and without stamina +to support any task, physical or mental, requiring continuity of +effort. But women brought up to work for their livelihood show none +of these morbid characteristics, unless indeed they are chained to an +excess of sedentary work in confined and unhealthy rooms. Women who +in their early years have shared in the healthful physical education +and bodily freedom of their brothers, and who obtain a sufficiency of +pure air and exercise in after-life, very rarely have any excessive +susceptibility of nerves which can disqualify them for active +pursuits. There is indeed a certain proportion of persons, in both +sexes, in whom an unusual degree of nervous sensibility is +constitutional, and of so marked a character as to be the feature of +their organization which exercises the greatest influence over the +whole character of the vital phenomena. This constitution, like other +physical conformations, is hereditary, and is transmitted to sons as +well as daughters; but it is possible, and probable, that the nervous +temperament (as it is called) is inherited by a greater number of +women than of men. We will assume this as a fact: and let me then +ask, are men of nervous temperament found to be unfit for the duties +and pursuits usually followed by men? If not, why should women of the +same temperament be unfit for them? The peculiarities of the +temperament are, no doubt, within certain limits, an obstacle to +success in some employments, though an aid to it in others. But when +the occupation is suitable to the temperament, and sometimes even +when it is unsuitable, the most brilliant examples of success are +continually given by the men of high nervous sensibility. They are +distinguished in their practical manifestations chiefly by this, that +being susceptible of a higher degree of excitement than those of +another physical constitution, their powers when excited differ more +than in the case of other people, from those shown in their ordinary +state: they are raised, as it were, above themselves, and do things +with ease which they are wholly incapable of at other times. But this +lofty excitement is not, except in weak bodily constitutions, a mere +flash, which passes away immediately, leaving no permanent traces, +and incompatible with persistent and steady pursuit of an object. It +is the character of the nervous temperament to be capable of +_sustained_ excitement, holding out through long continued efforts. +It is what is meant by _spirit_. It is what makes the high-bred +racehorse run without slackening speed till he drops down dead. It is +what has enabled so many delicate women to maintain the most sublime +constancy not only at the stake, but through a long preliminary +succession of mental and bodily tortures. It is evident that people +of this temperament are particularly apt for what may be called the +executive department of the leadership of mankind. They are the +material of great orators, great preachers, impressive diffusers of +moral influences. Their constitution might be deemed less favourable +to the qualities required from a statesman in the cabinet, or from a +judge. It would be so, if the consequence necessarily followed that +because people are excitable they must always be in a state of +excitement. But this is wholly a question of training. Strong feeling +is the instrument and element of strong self-control: but it requires +to be cultivated in that direction. When it is, it forms not the +heroes of impulse only, but those also of self-conquest. History and +experience prove that the most passionate characters are the most +fanatically rigid in their feelings of duty, when their passion has +been trained to act in that direction. The judge who gives a just +decision in a case where his feelings are intensely interested on the +other side, derives from that same strength of feeling the determined +sense of the obligation of justice, which enables him to achieve this +victory over himself. The capability of that lofty enthusiasm which +takes the human being out of his every-day character, reacts upon the +daily character itself. His aspirations and powers when he is in this +exceptional state, become the type with which he compares, and by +which he estimates, his sentiments and proceedings at other times: +and his habitual purposes assume a character moulded by and +assimilated to the moments of lofty excitement, although those, from +the physical nature of a human being, can only be transient. +Experience of races, as well as of individuals, does not show those +of excitable temperament to be less fit, on the average, either for +speculation or practice, than the more unexcitable. The French, and +the Italians, are undoubtedly by nature more nervously excitable than +the Teutonic races, and, compared at least with the English, they +have a much greater habitual and daily emotional life: but have they +been less great in science, in public business, in legal and judicial +eminence, or in war? There is abundant evidence that the Greeks were +of old, as their descendants and successors still are, one of the +most excitable of the races of mankind. It is superfluous to ask, +what among the achievements of men they did not excel in. The Romans, +probably, as an equally southern people, had the same original +temperament: but the stern character of their national discipline, +like that of the Spartans, made them an example of the opposite type +of national character; the greater strength of their natural feelings +being chiefly apparent in the intensity which the same original +temperament made it possible to give to the artificial. If these +cases exemplify what a naturally excitable people may be made, the +Irish Celts afford one of the aptest examples of what they are when +left to themselves; (if those can be said to be left to themselves +who have been for centuries under the indirect influence of bad +government, and the direct training of a Catholic hierarchy and of a +sincere belief in the Catholic religion.) The Irish character must be +considered, therefore, as an unfavourable case: yet, whenever the +circumstances of the individual have been at all favourable, what +people have shown greater capacity for the most varied and +multifarious individual eminence? Like the French compared with the +English, the Irish with the Swiss, the Greeks or Italians compared +with the German races, so women compared with men may be found, on +the average, to do the same things with some variety in the +particular kind of excellence. But, that they would do them fully as +well on the whole, if their education and cultivation were adapted to +correcting instead of aggravating the infirmities incident to their +temperament, I see not the smallest reason to doubt. + +Supposing it, however, to be true that women's minds are by nature +more mobile than those of men, less capable of persisting long in the +same continuous effort, more fitted for dividing their faculties +among many things than for travelling in any one path to the highest +point which can be reached by it: this may be true of women as they +now are (though not without great and numerous exceptions), and may +account for their having remained behind the highest order of men in +precisely the things in which this absorption of the whole mind in +one set of ideas and occupations may seem to be most requisite. +Still, this difference is one which can only affect the kind of +excellence, not the excellence itself, or its practical worth: and it +remains to be shown whether this exclusive working of a part of the +mind, this absorption of the whole thinking faculty in a single +subject, and concentration of it on a single work, is the normal and +healthful condition of the human faculties, even for speculative +uses. I believe that what is gained in special development by this +concentration, is lost in the capacity of the mind for the other +purposes of life; and even in abstract thought, it is my decided +opinion that the mind does more by frequently returning to a +difficult problem, than by sticking to it without interruption. For +the purposes, at all events, of practice, from its highest to its +humblest departments, the capacity of passing promptly from one +subject of consideration to another, without letting the active +spring of the intellect run down between the two, is a power far more +valuable; and this power women pre-eminently possess, by virtue of +the very mobility of which they are accused. They perhaps have it +from nature, but they certainly have it by training and education; +for nearly the whole of the occupations of women consist in the +management of small but multitudinous details, on each of which the +mind cannot dwell even for a minute, but must pass on to other +things, and if anything requires longer thought, must steal time at +odd moments for thinking of it. The capacity indeed which women show +for doing their thinking in circumstances and at times which almost +any man would make an excuse to himself for not attempting it, has +often been noticed: and a woman's mind, though it may be occupied +only with small things, can hardly ever permit itself to be vacant, +as a man's so often is when not engaged in what he chooses to +consider the business of his life. The business of a woman's ordinary +life is things in general, and can as little cease to go on as the +world to go round. + +But (it is said) there is anatomical evidence of the superior mental +capacity of men compared with women: they have a larger brain. I +reply, that in the first place the fact itself is doubtful. It is by +no means established that the brain of a woman is smaller than that +of a man. If it is inferred merely because a woman's bodily frame +generally is of less dimensions than a man's, this criterion would +lead to strange consequences. A tall and large-boned man must on this +showing be wonderfully superior in intelligence to a small man, and +an elephant or a whale must prodigiously excel mankind. The size of +the brain in human beings, anatomists say, varies much less than the +size of the body, or even of the head, and the one cannot be at all +inferred from the other. It is certain that some women have as large +a brain as any man. It is within my knowledge that a man who had +weighed many human brains, said that the heaviest he knew of, heavier +even than Cuvier's (the heaviest previously recorded,) was that of a +woman. Next, I must observe that the precise relation which exists +between the brain and the intellectual powers is not yet well +understood, but is a subject of great dispute. That there is a very +close relation we cannot doubt. The brain is certainly the material +organ of thought and feeling: and (making abstraction of the great +unsettled controversy respecting the appropriation of different parts +of the brain to different mental faculties) I admit that it would be +an anomaly, and an exception to all we know of the general laws of +life and organization, if the size of the organ were wholly +indifferent to the function; if no accession of power were derived +from the greater magnitude of the instrument. But the exception and +the anomaly would be fully as great if the organ exercised influence +by its magnitude _only_. In all the more delicate operations of +nature--of which those of the animated creation are the most +delicate, and those of the nervous system by far the most delicate of +these--differences in the effect depend as much on differences of +quality in the physical agents, as on their quantity: and if the +quality of an instrument is to be tested by the nicety and delicacy +of the work it can do, the indications point to a greater average +fineness of quality in the brain and nervous system of women than of +men. Dismissing abstract difference of quality, a thing difficult to +verify, the efficiency of an organ is known to depend not solely on +its size but on its activity: and of this we have an approximate +measure in the energy with which the blood circulates through it, +both the stimulus and the reparative force being mainly dependent on +the circulation. It would not be surprising--it is indeed an +hypothesis which accords well with the differences actually observed +between the mental operations of the two sexes--if men on the average +should have the advantage in the size of the brain, and women in +activity of cerebral circulation. The results which conjecture, +founded on analogy, would lead us to expect from this difference of +organization, would correspond to some of those which we most +commonly see. In the first place, the mental operations of men might +be expected to be slower. They would neither be so prompt as women in +thinking, nor so quick to feel. Large bodies take more time to get +into full action. On the other hand, when once got thoroughly into +play, men's brain would bear more work. It would be more persistent +in the line first taken; it would have more difficulty in changing +from one mode of action to another, but, in the one thing it was +doing, it could go on longer without loss of power or sense of +fatigue. And do we not find that the things in which men most excel +women are those which require most plodding and long hammering at a +single thought, while women do best what must be done rapidly? A +woman's brain is sooner fatigued, sooner exhausted; but given the +degree of exhaustion, we should expect to find that it would recover +itself sooner. I repeat that this speculation is entirely +hypothetical; it pretends to no more than to suggest a line of +enquiry. I have before repudiated the notion of its being yet +certainly known that there is any natural difference at all in the +average strength or direction of the mental capacities of the two +sexes, much less what that difference is. Nor is it possible that +this should be known, so long as the psychological laws of the +formation of character have been so little studied, even in a general +way, and in the particular case never scientifically applied at all; +so long as the most obvious external causes of difference of +character are habitually disregarded--left unnoticed by the observer, +and looked down upon with a kind of supercilious contempt by the +prevalent schools both of natural history and of mental philosophy: +who, whether they look for the source of what mainly distinguishes +human beings from one another, in the world of matter or in that of +spirit, agree in running down those who prefer to explain these +differences by the different relations of human beings to society and +life. + +To so ridiculous an extent are the notions formed of the nature of +women, mere empirical generalizations, framed, without philosophy or +analysis, upon the first instances which present themselves, that the +popular idea of it is different in different countries, according as +the opinions and social circumstances of the country have given to +the women living in it any speciality of development or +non-development. An Oriental thinks that women are by nature +peculiarly voluptuous; see the violent abuse of them on this ground +in Hindoo writings. An Englishman usually thinks that they are by +nature cold. The sayings about women's fickleness are mostly of +French origin; from the famous distich of Francis the First, upward +and downward. In England it is a common remark, how much more +constant women are than men. Inconstancy has been longer reckoned +discreditable to a woman, in England than in France; and Englishwomen +are besides, in their inmost nature, much more subdued to opinion. It +may be remarked by the way, that Englishmen are in peculiarly +unfavourable circumstances for attempting to judge what is or is not +natural, not merely to women, but to men, or to human beings +altogether, at least if they have only English experience to go upon: +because there is no place where human nature shows so little of its +original lineaments. Both in a good and a bad sense, the English are +farther from a state of nature than any other modern people. They +are, more than any other people, a product of civilization and +discipline. England is the country in which social discipline has +most succeeded, not so much in conquering, as in suppressing, +whatever is liable to conflict with it. The English, more than any +other people, not only act but feel according to rule. In other +countries, the taught opinion, or the requirement of society, may be +the stronger power, but the promptings of the individual nature are +always visible under it, and often resisting it: rule may be stronger +than nature, but nature is still there. In England, rule has to a +great degree substituted itself for nature. The greater part of life +is carried on, not by following inclination under the control of +rule, but by having no inclination but that of following a rule. Now +this has its good side doubtless, though it has also a wretchedly bad +one; but it must render an Englishman peculiarly ill-qualified to +pass a judgment on the original tendencies of human nature from his +own experience. The errors to which observers elsewhere are liable on +the subject, are of a different character. An Englishman is ignorant +respecting human nature, a Frenchman is prejudiced. An Englishman's +errors are negative, a Frenchman's positive. An Englishman fancies +that things do not exist, because he never sees them; a Frenchman +thinks they must always and necessarily exist, because he does see +them. An Englishman does not know nature, because he has had no +opportunity of observing it; a Frenchman generally knows a great deal +of it, but often mistakes it, because he has only seen it +sophisticated and distorted. For the artificial state superinduced by +society disguises the natural tendencies of the thing which is the +subject of observation, in two different ways: by extinguishing the +nature, or by transforming it. In the one case there is but a starved +residuum of nature remaining to be studied; in the other case there +is much, but it may have expanded in any direction rather than that +in which it would spontaneously grow. + +I have said that it cannot now be known how much of the existing +mental differences between men and women is natural, and how much +artificial; whether there are any natural differences at all; or, +supposing all artificial causes of difference to be withdrawn, what +natural character would be revealed. I am not about to attempt what I +have pronounced impossible: but doubt does not forbid conjecture, and +where certainty is unattainable, there may yet be the means of +arriving at some degree of probability. The first point, the origin +of the differences actually observed, is the one most accessible to +speculation; and I shall attempt to approach it, by the only path by +which it can be reached; by tracing the mental consequences of +external influences. We cannot isolate a human being from the +circumstances of his condition, so as to ascertain experimentally +what he would have been by nature; but we can consider what he is, +and what his circumstances have been, and whether the one would have +been capable of producing the other. + +Let us take, then, the only marked case which observation affords, of +apparent inferiority of women to men, if we except the merely +physical one of bodily strength. No production in philosophy, +science, or art, entitled to the first rank, has been the work of a +woman. Is there any mode of accounting for this, without supposing +that women are naturally incapable of producing them? + +In the first place, we may fairly question whether experience has +afforded sufficient grounds for an induction. It is scarcely three +generations since women, saving very rare exceptions, have begun to +try their capacity in philosophy, science, or art. It is only in the +present generation that their attempts have been at all numerous; and +they are even now extremely few, everywhere but in England and +France. It is a relevant question, whether a mind possessing the +requisites of first-rate eminence in speculation or creative art +could have been expected, on the mere calculation of chances, to turn +up during that lapse of time, among the women whose tastes and +personal position admitted of their devoting themselves to these +pursuits. In all things which there has yet been time for--in all but +the very highest grades in the scale of excellence, especially in the +department in which they have been longest engaged, literature (both +prose and poetry)--women have done quite as much, have obtained fully +as high prizes and as many of them, as could be expected from the +length of time and the number of competitors. If we go back to the +earlier period when very few women made the attempt, yet some of +those few made it with distinguished success. The Greeks always +accounted Sappho among their great poets; and we may well suppose +that Myrtis, said to have been the teacher of Pindar, and Corinna, +who five times bore away from him the prize of poetry, must at least +have had sufficient merit to admit of being compared with that great +name. Aspasia did not leave any philosophical writings; but it is an +admitted fact that Socrates resorted to her for instruction, and +avowed himself to have obtained it. + +If we consider the works of women in modern times, and contrast them +with those of men, either in the literary or the artistic department, +such inferiority as may be observed resolves itself essentially into +one thing: but that is a most material one; deficiency of +originality. Not total deficiency; for every production of mind which +is of any substantive value, has an originality of its own--is a +conception of the mind itself, not a copy of something else. Thoughts +original, in the sense of being unborrowed--of being derived from the +thinker's own observations or intellectual processes--are abundant in +the writings of women. But they have not yet produced any of those +great and luminous new ideas which form an era in thought, nor those +fundamentally new conceptions in art, which open a vista of possible +effects not before thought of, and found a new school. Their +compositions are mostly grounded on the existing fund of thought, and +their creations do not deviate widely from existing types. This is +the sort of inferiority which their works manifest: for in point of +execution, in the detailed application of thought, and the perfection +of style, there is no inferiority. Our best novelists in point of +composition, and of the management of detail, have mostly been women; +and there is not in all modern literature a more eloquent vehicle of +thought than the style of Madame de Stael, nor, as a specimen of +purely artistic excellence, anything superior to the prose of Madame +Sand, whose style acts upon the nervous system like a symphony of +Haydn or Mozart. High originality of conception is, as I have said, +what is chiefly wanting. And now to examine if there is any manner in +which this deficiency can be accounted for. + +Let us remember, then, so far as regards mere thought, that during +all that period in the world's existence, and in the progress of +cultivation, in which great and fruitful new truths could be arrived +at by mere force of genius, with little previous study and +accumulation of knowledge--during all that time women did not concern +themselves with speculation at all. From the days of Hypatia to those +of the Reformation, the illustrious Heloisa is almost the only woman +to whom any such achievement might have been possible; and we know +not how great a capacity of speculation in her may have been lost to +mankind by the misfortunes of her life. Never since any considerable +number of women have begun to cultivate serious thought, has +originality been possible on easy terms. Nearly all the thoughts +which can be reached by mere strength of original faculties, have +long since been arrived at; and originality, in any high sense of the +word, is now scarcely ever attained but by minds which have undergone +elaborate discipline, and are deeply versed in the results of +previous thinking. It is Mr. Maurice, I think, who has remarked on +the present age, that its most original thinkers are those who have +known most thoroughly what had been thought by their predecessors: +and this will always henceforth be the case. Every fresh stone in the +edifice has now to be placed on the top of so many others, that a +long process of climbing, and of carrying up materials, has to be +gone through by whoever aspires to take a share in the present stage +of the work. How many women are there who have gone through any such +process? Mrs. Somerville, alone perhaps of women, knows as much of +mathematics as is now needful for making any considerable +mathematical discovery: is it any proof of inferiority in women, that +she has not happened to be one of the two or three persons who in her +lifetime have associated their names with some striking advancement +of the science? Two women, since political economy has been made a +science, have known enough of it to write usefully on the subject: of +how many of the innumerable men who have written on it during the +same time, is it possible with truth to say more? If no woman has +hitherto been a great historian, what woman has had the necessary +erudition? If no woman is a great philologist, what woman has studied +Sanscrit and Slavonic, the Gothic of Ulphila and the Persic of the +Zendavesta? Even in practical matters we all know what is the value +of the originality of untaught geniuses. It means, inventing over +again in its rudimentary form something already invented and improved +upon by many successive inventors. When women have had the +preparation which all men now require to be eminently original, it +will be time enough to begin judging by experience of their capacity +for originality. + +It no doubt often happens that a person, who has not widely and +accurately studied the thoughts of others on a subject, has by +natural sagacity a happy intuition, which he can suggest, but cannot +prove, which yet when matured may be an important addition to +knowledge: but even then, no justice can be done to it until some +other person, who does possess the previous acquirements, takes it in +hand, tests it, gives it a scientific or practical form, and fits it +into its place among the existing truths of philosophy or science. Is +it supposed that such felicitous thoughts do not occur to women? They +occur by hundreds to every woman of intellect. But they are mostly +lost, for want of a husband or friend who has the other knowledge +which can enable him to estimate them properly and bring them before +the world: and even when they are brought before it, they generally +appear as his ideas, not their real author's. Who can tell how many +of the most original thoughts put forth by male writers, belong to a +woman by suggestion, to themselves only by verifying and working out? +If I may judge by my own case, a very large proportion indeed. + +If we turn from pure speculation to literature in the narrow sense of +the term, and the fine arts, there is a very obvious reason why +women's literature is, in its general conception and in its main +features, an imitation of men's. Why is the Roman literature, as +critics proclaim to satiety, not original, but an imitation of the +Greek? Simply because the Greeks came first. If women lived in a +different country from men, and had never read any of their writings, +they would have had a literature of their own. As it is, they have +not created one, because they found a highly advanced literature +already created. If there had been no suspension of the knowledge of +antiquity, or if the Renaissance had occurred before the Gothic +cathedrals were built, they never would have been built. We see that, +in France and Italy, imitation of the ancient literature stopped the +original development even after it had commenced. All women who write +are pupils of the great male writers. A painter's early pictures, +even if he be a Raffaelle, are undistinguishable in style from those +of his master. Even a Mozart does not display his powerful +originality in his earliest pieces. What years are to a gifted +individual, generations are to a mass. If women's literature is +destined to have a different collective character from that of men, +depending on any difference of natural tendencies, much longer time +is necessary than has yet elapsed, before it can emancipate itself +from the influence of accepted models, and guide itself by its own +impulses. But if, as I believe, there will not prove to be any +natural tendencies common to women, and distinguishing their genius +from that of men, yet every individual writer among them has her +individual tendencies, which at present are still subdued by the +influence of precedent and example: and it will require generations +more, before their individuality is sufficiently developed to make +head against that influence. + +It is in the fine arts, properly so called, that the _primâ facie_ +evidence of inferior original powers in women at first sight appears +the strongest: since opinion (it may be said) does not exclude them +from these, but rather encourages them, and their education, instead +of passing over this department, is in the affluent classes mainly +composed of it. Yet in this line of exertion they have fallen still +more short than in many others, of the highest eminence attained by +men. This shortcoming, however, needs no other explanation than the +familiar fact, more universally true in the fine arts than in +anything else; the vast superiority of professional persons over +amateurs. Women in the educated classes are almost universally taught +more or less of some branch or other of the fine arts, but not that +they may gain their living or their social consequence by it. Women +artists are all amateurs. The exceptions are only of the kind which +confirm the general truth. Women are taught music, but not for the +purpose of composing, only of executing it: and accordingly it is +only as composers, that men, in music, are superior to women. The +only one of the fine arts which women do follow, to any extent, as a +profession, and an occupation for life, is the histrionic; and in +that they are confessedly equal, if not superior, to men. To make the +comparison fair, it should be made between the productions of women +in any branch of art, and those of men not following it as a +profession. In musical composition, for example, women surely have +produced fully as good things as have ever been produced by male +amateurs. There are now a few women, a very few, who practise +painting as a profession, and these are already beginning to show +quite as much talent as could be expected. Even male painters (_pace_ +Mr. Ruskin) have not made any very remarkable figure these last +centuries, and it will be long before they do so. The reason why the +old painters were so greatly superior to the modern, is that a +greatly superior class of men applied themselves to the art. In the +fourteenth and fifteenth centuries the Italian painters were the most +accomplished men of their age. The greatest of them were men of +encyclopædical acquirements and powers, like the great men of Greece. +But in their times fine art was, to men's feelings and conceptions, +among the grandest things in which a human being could excel; and by +it men were made, what only political or military distinction now +makes them, the companions of sovereigns, and the equals of the +highest nobility. In the present age, men of anything like similar +calibre find something more important to do, for their own fame and +the uses of the modern world, than painting: and it is only now and +then that a Reynolds or a Turner (of whose relative rank among +eminent men I do not pretend to an opinion) applies himself to that +art. Music belongs to a different order of things; it does not +require the same general powers of mind, but seems more dependant on +a natural gift: and it may be thought surprising that no one of the +great musical composers has been a woman. But even this natural gift, +to be made available for great creations, requires study, and +professional devotion to the pursuit. The only countries which have +produced first-rate composers, even of the male sex, are Germany and +Italy--countries in which, both in point of special and of general +cultivation, women have remained far behind France and England, being +generally (it may be said without exaggeration) very little educated, +and having scarcely cultivated at all any of the higher faculties of +mind. And in those countries the men who are acquainted with the +principles of musical composition must be counted by hundreds, or +more probably by thousands, the women barely by scores: so that here +again, on the doctrine of averages, we cannot reasonably expect to +see more than one eminent woman to fifty eminent men; and the last +three centuries have not produced fifty eminent male composers either +in Germany or in Italy. + +There are other reasons, besides those which we have now given, that +help to explain why women remain behind men, even in the pursuits +which are open to both. For one thing, very few women have time for +them. This may seem a paradox; it is an undoubted social fact. The +time and thoughts of every woman have to satisfy great previous +demands on them for things practical. There is, first, the +superintendence of the family and the domestic expenditure, which +occupies at least one woman in every family, generally the one of +mature years and acquired experience; unless the family is so rich as +to admit of delegating that task to hired agency, and submitting to +all the waste and malversation inseparable from that mode of +conducting it. The superintendence of a household, even when not in +other respects laborious, is extremely onerous to the thoughts; it +requires incessant vigilance, an eye which no detail escapes, and +presents questions for consideration and solution, foreseen and +unforeseen, at every hour of the day, from which the person +responsible for them can hardly ever shake herself free. If a woman +is of a rank and circumstances which relieve her in a measure from +these cares, she has still devolving on her the management for the +whole family of its intercourse with others--of what is called +society, and the less the call made on her by the former duty, the +greater is always the development of the latter: the dinner parties, +concerts, evening parties, morning visits, letter writing, and all +that goes with them. All this is over and above the engrossing duty +which society imposes exclusively on women, of making themselves +charming. A clever woman of the higher ranks finds nearly a +sufficient employment of her talents in cultivating the graces of +manner and the arts of conversation. To look only at the outward side +of the subject: the great and continual exercise of thought which all +women who attach any value to dressing well (I do not mean +expensively, but with taste, and perception of natural and of +artificial _convenance_) must bestow upon their own dress, perhaps +also upon that of their daughters, would alone go a great way towards +achieving respectable results in art, or science, or literature, and +does actually exhaust much of the time and mental power they might +have to spare for either.[2] If it were possible that all this number +of little practical interests (which are made great to them) should +leave them either much leisure, or much energy and freedom of mind, +to be devoted to art or speculation, they must have a much greater +original supply of active faculty than the vast majority of men. But +this is not all. Independently of the regular offices of life which +devolve upon a woman, she is expected to have her time and faculties +always at the disposal of everybody. If a man has not a profession to +exempt him from such demands, still, if he has a pursuit, he offends +nobody by devoting his time to it; occupation is received as a valid +excuse for his not answering to every casual demand which may be made +on him. Are a woman's occupations, especially her chosen and +voluntary ones, ever regarded as excusing her from any of what are +termed the calls of society? Scarcely are her most necessary and +recognised duties allowed as an exemption. It requires an illness in +the family, or something else out of the common way, to entitle her +to give her own business the precedence over other people's +amusement. She must always be at the beck and call of somebody, +generally of everybody. If she has a study or a pursuit, she must +snatch any short interval which accidentally occurs to be employed in +it. A celebrated woman, in a work which I hope will some day be +published, remarks truly that everything a woman does is done at odd +times. Is it wonderful, then, if she does not attain the highest +eminence in things which require consecutive attention, and the +concentration on them of the chief interest of life? Such is +philosophy, and such, above all, is art, in which, besides the +devotion of the thoughts and feelings, the hand also must be kept in +constant exercise to attain high skill. + +There is another consideration to be added to all these. In the +various arts and intellectual occupations, there is a degree of +proficiency sufficient for living by it, and there is a higher degree +on which depend the great productions which immortalize a name. To +the attainment of the former, there are adequate motives in the case +of all who follow the pursuit professionally: the other is hardly +ever attained where there is not, or where there has not been at some +period of life, an ardent desire of celebrity. Nothing less is +commonly a sufficient stimulus to undergo the long and patient +drudgery, which, in the case even of the greatest natural gifts, is +absolutely required for great eminence in pursuits in which we +already possess so many splendid memorials of the highest genius. +Now, whether the cause be natural or artificial, women seldom have +this eagerness for fame. Their ambition is generally confined within +narrower bounds. The influence they seek is over those who +immediately surround them. Their desire is to be liked, loved, or +admired, by those whom they see with their eyes: and the proficiency +in knowledge, arts, and accomplishments, which is sufficient for +that, almost always contents them. This is a trait of character which +cannot be left out of the account in judging of women as they are. I +do not at all believe that it is inherent in women. It is only the +natural result of their circumstances. The love of fame in men is +encouraged by education and opinion: to “scorn delights and live +laborious days” for its sake, is accounted the part of “noble minds,” +even if spoken of as their “last infirmity,” and is stimulated by the +access which fame gives to all objects of ambition, including even +the favour of women; while to women themselves all these objects are +closed, and the desire of fame itself considered daring and +unfeminine. Besides, how could it be that a woman's interests should +not be all concentrated upon the impressions made on those who come +into her daily life, when society has ordained that all her duties +should be to them, and has contrived that all her comforts should +depend on them? The natural desire of consideration from our fellow +creatures is as strong in a woman as in a man; but society has so +ordered things that public consideration is, in all ordinary cases, +only attainable by her through the consideration of her husband or of +her male relations, while her private consideration is forfeited by +making herself individually prominent, or appearing in any other +character than that of an appendage to men. Whoever is in the least +capable of estimating the influence on the mind of the entire +domestic and social position and the whole habit of a life, must +easily recognise in that influence a complete explanation of nearly +all the apparent differences between women and men, including the +whole of those which imply any inferiority. + +As for moral differences, considered as distinguished from +intellectual, the distinction commonly drawn is to the advantage of +women. They are declared to be better than men; an empty compliment, +which must provoke a bitter smile from every woman of spirit, since +there is no other situation in life in which it is the established +order, and considered quite natural and suitable, that the better +should obey the worse. If this piece of idle talk is good for +anything, it is only as an admission by men, of the corrupting +influence of power; for that is certainly the only truth which the +fact, if it be a fact, either proves or illustrates. And it _is_ true +that servitude, except when it actually brutalizes, though corrupting +to both, is less so to the slaves than to the slave-masters. It is +wholesomer for the moral nature to be restrained, even by arbitrary +power, than to be allowed to exercise arbitrary power without +restraint. Women, it is said, seldomer fall under the penal +law--contribute a much smaller number of offenders to the criminal +calendar, than men. I doubt not that the same thing may be said, with +the same truth, of negro slaves. Those who are under the control of +others cannot often commit crimes, unless at the command and for the +purposes of their masters. I do not know a more signal instance of +the blindness with which the world, including the herd of studious +men, ignore and pass over all the influences of social circumstances, +than their silly depreciation of the intellectual, and silly +panegyrics on the moral, nature of women. + +The complimentary dictum about women's superior moral goodness may be +allowed to pair off with the disparaging one respecting their greater +liability to moral bias. Women, we are told, are not capable of +resisting their personal partialities: their judgment in grave +affairs is warped by their sympathies and antipathies. Assuming it to +be so, it is still to be proved that women are oftener misled by +their personal feelings than men by their personal interests. The +chief difference would seem in that case to be, that men are led from +the course of duty and the public interest by their regard for +themselves, women (not being allowed to have private interests of +their own) by their regard for somebody else. It is also to be +considered, that all the education which women receive from society +inculcates on them the feeling that the individuals connected with +them are the only ones to whom they owe any duty--the only ones whose +interest they are called upon to care for; while, as far as education +is concerned, they are left strangers even to the elementary ideas +which are presupposed in any intelligent regard for larger interests +or higher moral objects. The complaint against them resolves itself +merely into this, that they fulfil only too faithfully the sole duty +which they are taught, and almost the only one which they are +permitted to practise. + +The concessions of the privileged to the unprivileged are so seldom +brought about by any better motive than the power of the unprivileged +to extort them, that any arguments against the prerogative of sex are +likely to be little attended to by the generality, as long as they +are able to say to themselves that women do not complain of it. That +fact certainly enables men to retain the unjust privilege some time +longer; but does not render it less unjust. Exactly the same thing +may be said of the women in the harem of an Oriental: they do not +complain of not being allowed the freedom of European women. They +think our women insufferably bold and unfeminine. How rarely it is +that even men complain of the general order of society; and how much +rarer still would such complaint be, if they did not know of any +different order existing anywhere else. Women do not complain of the +general lot of women; or rather they do, for plaintive elegies on it +are very common in the writings of women, and were still more so as +long as the lamentations could not be suspected of having any +practical object. Their complaints are like the complaints which men +make of the general unsatisfactoriness of human life; they are not +meant to imply blame, or to plead for any change. But though women do +not complain of the power of husbands, each complains of her own +husband, or of the husbands of her friends. It is the same in all +other cases of servitude, at least in the commencement of the +emancipatory movement. The serfs did not at first complain of the +power of their lords, but only of their tyranny. The Commons began by +claiming a few municipal privileges; they next asked an exemption for +themselves from being taxed without their own consent; but they would +at that time have thought it a great presumption to claim any share +in the king's sovereign authority. The case of women is now the only +case in which to rebel against established rules is still looked upon +with the same eyes as was formerly a subject's claim to the right of +rebelling against his king. A woman who joins in any movement which +her husband disapproves, makes herself a martyr, without even being +able to be an apostle, for the husband can legally put a stop to her +apostleship. Women cannot be expected to devote themselves to the +emancipation of women, until men in considerable number are prepared +to join with them in the undertaking. + +[Footnote 1: Especially is this true if we take into consideration +Asia as well as Europe. If a Hindoo principality is strongly, +vigilantly, and economically governed; if order is preserved without +oppression; if cultivation is extending, and the people prosperous, +in three cases out of four that principality is under a woman's rule. +This fact, to me an entirely unexpected one, I have collected from a +long official knowledge of Hindoo governments. There are many such +instances: for though, by Hindoo institutions, a woman cannot reign, +she is the legal regent of a kingdom during the minority of the heir; +and minorities are frequent, the lives of the male rulers being so +often prematurely terminated through the effect of inactivity and +sensual excesses. When we consider that these princesses have never +been seen in public, have never conversed with any man not of their +own family except from behind a curtain, that they do not read, and +if they did, there is no book in their languages which can give them +the smallest instruction on political affairs; the example they +afford of the natural capacity of women for government is very +striking.] + +[Footnote 2: “It appears to be the same right turn of mind which +enables a man to acquire the _truth_, or the just idea of what is +right, in the ornaments, as in the more stable principles of art. It +has still the same centre of perfection, though it is the centre of a +smaller circle.--To illustrate this by the fashion of dress, in which +there is allowed to be a good or bad taste. The component parts of +dress are continually changing from great to little, from short to +long; but the general form still remains: it is still the same +general dress which is comparatively fixed, though on a very slender +foundation; but it is on this which fashion must rest. He who invents +with the most success, or dresses in the best taste, would probably, +from the same sagacity employed to greater purposes, have discovered +equal skill, or have formed the same correct taste, in the highest +labours of art.”--_Sir Joshua Reynolds' Discourses_, Disc. vii.] + + + + +CHAPTER IV. + + +There remains a question, not of less importance than those already +discussed, and which will be asked the most importunately by those +opponents whose conviction is somewhat shaken on the main point. What +good are we to expect from the changes proposed in our customs and +institutions? Would mankind be at all better off if women were free? +If not, why disturb their minds, and attempt to make a social +revolution in the name of an abstract right? + +It is hardly to be expected that this question will be asked in +respect to the change proposed in the condition of women in marriage. +The sufferings, immoralities, evils of all sorts, produced in +innumerable cases by the subjection of individual women to individual +men, are far too terrible to be overlooked. Unthinking or uncandid +persons, counting those cases alone which are extreme, or which +attain publicity, may say that the evils are exceptional; but no one +can be blind to their existence, nor, in many cases, to their +intensity. And it is perfectly obvious that the abuse of the power +cannot be very much checked while the power remains. It is a power +given, or offered, not to good men, or to decently respectable men, +but to all men; the most brutal, and the most criminal. There is no +check but that of opinion, and such men are in general within the +reach of no opinion but that of men like themselves. If such men did +not brutally tyrannize over the one human being whom the law compels +to bear everything from them, society must already have reached a +paradisiacal state. There could be no need any longer of laws to curb +men's vicious propensities. Astræa must not only have returned to +earth, but the heart of the worst man must have become her temple. +The law of servitude in marriage is a monstrous contradiction to all +the principles of the modern world, and to all the experience through +which those principles have been slowly and painfully worked out. It +is the sole case, now that negro slavery has been abolished, in which +a human being in the plenitude of every faculty is delivered up to +the tender mercies of another human being, in the hope forsooth that +this other will use the power solely for the good of the person +subjected to it. Marriage is the only actual bondage known to our +law. There remain no legal slaves, except the mistress of every +house. + +It is not, therefore, on this part of the subject, that the question +is likely to be asked, _Cui bono_? We may be told that the evil would +outweigh the good, but the reality of the good admits of no dispute. +In regard, however, to the larger question, the removal of women's +disabilities--their recognition as the equals of men in all that +belongs to citizenship--the opening to them of all honourable +employments, and of the training and education which qualifies for +those employments--there are many persons for whom it is not enough +that the inequality has no just or legitimate defence; they require +to be told what express advantage would be obtained by abolishing it. + +To which let me first answer, the advantage of having the most +universal and pervading of all human relations regulated by justice +instead of injustice. The vast amount of this gain to human nature, +it is hardly possible, by any explanation or illustration, to place +in a stronger light than it is placed by the bare statement, to any +one who attaches a moral meaning to words. All the selfish +propensities, the self-worship, the unjust self-preference, which +exist among mankind, have their source and root in, and derive their +principal nourishment from, the present constitution of the relation +between men and women. Think what it is to a boy, to grow up to +manhood in the belief that without any merit or any exertion of his +own, though he may be the most frivolous and empty or the most +ignorant and stolid of mankind, by the mere fact of being born a male +he is by right the superior of all and every one of an entire half of +the human race: including probably some whose real superiority to +himself he has daily or hourly occasion to feel; but even if in his +whole conduct he habitually follows a woman's guidance, still, if he +is a fool, she thinks that of course she is not, and cannot be, equal +in ability and judgment to himself; and if he is not a fool, he does +worse--he sees that she is superior to him, and believes that, +notwithstanding her superiority, he is entitled to command and she is +bound to obey. What must be the effect on his character, of this +lesson? And men of the cultivated classes are often not aware how +deeply it sinks into the immense majority of male minds. For, among +right-feeling and well-bred people, the inequality is kept as much as +possible out of sight; above all, out of sight of the children. As +much obedience is required from boys to their mother as to their +father: they are not permitted to domineer over their sisters, nor +are they accustomed to see these postponed to them, but the contrary; +the compensations of the chivalrous feeling being made prominent, +while the servitude which requires them is kept in the background. +Well brought-up youths in the higher classes thus often escape the +bad influences of the situation in their early years, and only +experience them when, arrived at manhood, they fall under the +dominion of facts as they really exist. Such people are little aware, +when a boy is differently brought up, how early the notion of his +inherent superiority to a girl arises in his mind; how it grows with +his growth and strengthens with his strength; how it is inoculated by +one schoolboy upon another; how early the youth thinks himself +superior to his mother, owing her perhaps forbearance, but no real +respect; and how sublime and sultan-like a sense of superiority he +feels, above all, over the woman whom he honours by admitting her to +a partnership of his life. Is it imagined that all this does not +pervert the whole manner of existence of the man, both as an +individual and as a social being? It is an exact parallel to the +feeling of a hereditary king that he is excellent above others by +being born a king, or a noble by being born a noble. The relation +between husband and wife is very like that between lord and vassal, +except that the wife is held to more unlimited obedience than the +vassal was. However the vassal's character may have been affected, +for better and for worse, by his subordination, who can help seeing +that the lord's was affected greatly for the worse? whether he was +led to believe that his vassals were really superior to himself, or +to feel that he was placed in command over people as good as himself, +for no merits or labours of his own, but merely for having, as Figaro +says, taken the trouble to be born. The self-worship of the monarch, +or of the feudal superior, is matched by the self-worship of the +male. Human beings do not grow up from childhood in the possession of +unearned distinctions, without pluming themselves upon them. Those +whom privileges not acquired by their merit, and which they feel to +be disproportioned to it, inspire with additional humility, are +always the few, and the best few. The rest are only inspired with +pride, and the worst sort of pride, that which values itself upon +accidental advantages, not of its own achieving. Above all, when the +feeling of being raised above the whole of the other sex is combined +with personal authority over one individual among them; the +situation, if a school of conscientious and affectionate forbearance +to those whose strongest points of character are conscience and +affection, is to men of another quality a regularly constituted +Academy or Gymnasium for training them in arrogance and +overbearingness; which vices, if curbed by the certainty of +resistance in their intercourse with other men, their equals, break +out towards all who are in a position to be obliged to tolerate them, +and often revenge themselves upon the unfortunate wife for the +involuntary restraint which they are obliged to submit to elsewhere. + +The example afforded, and the education given to the sentiments, by +laying the foundation of domestic existence upon a relation +contradictory to the first principles of social justice, must, from +the very nature of man, have a perverting influence of such +magnitude, that it is hardly possible with our present experience to +raise our imaginations to the conception of so great a change for the +better as would be made by its removal. All that education and +civilization are doing to efface the influences on character of the +law of force, and replace them by those of justice, remains merely on +the surface, as long as the citadel of the enemy is not attacked. The +principle of the modern movement in morals and politics, is that +conduct, and conduct alone, entitles to respect: that not what men +are, but what they do, constitutes their claim to deference; that, +above all, merit, and not birth, is the only rightful claim to power +and authority. If no authority, not in its nature temporary, were +allowed to one human being over another, society would not be +employed in building up propensities with one hand which it has to +curb with the other. The child would really, for the first time in +man's existence on earth, be trained in the way he should go, and +when he was old there would be a chance that he would not depart from +it. But so long as the right of the strong to power over the weak +rules in the very heart of society, the attempt to make the equal +right of the weak the principle of its outward actions will always be +an uphill struggle; for the law of justice, which is also that of +Christianity, will never get possession of men's inmost sentiments; +they will be working against it, even when bending to it. + +The second benefit to be expected from giving to women the free use +of their faculties, by leaving them the free choice of their +employments, and opening to them the same field of occupation and the +same prizes and encouragements as to other human beings, would be +that of doubling the mass of mental faculties available for the +higher service of humanity. Where there is now one person qualified +to benefit mankind and promote the general improvement, as a public +teacher, or an administrator of some branch of public or social +affairs, there would then be a chance of two. Mental superiority of +any kind is at present everywhere so much below the demand; there is +such a deficiency of persons competent to do excellently anything +which it requires any considerable amount of ability to do; that the +loss to the world, by refusing to make use of one-half of the whole +quantity of talent it possesses, is extremely serious. It is true +that this amount of mental power is not totally lost. Much of it is +employed, and would in any case be employed, in domestic management, +and in the few other occupations open to women; and from the +remainder indirect benefit is in many individual cases obtained, +through the personal influence of individual women over individual +men. But these benefits are partial; their range is extremely +circumscribed; and if they must be admitted, on the one hand, as a +deduction from the amount of fresh social power that would be +acquired by giving freedom to one-half of the whole sum of human +intellect, there must be added, on the other, the benefit of the +stimulus that would be given to the intellect of men by the +competition; or (to use a more true expression) by the necessity that +would be imposed on them of deserving precedency before they could +expect to obtain it. + +This great accession to the intellectual power of the species, and to +the amount of intellect available for the good management of its +affairs, would be obtained, partly, through the better and more +complete intellectual education of women, which would then improve +_pari passu_ with that of men. Women in general would be brought up +equally capable of understanding business, public affairs, and the +higher matters of speculation, with men in the same class of society; +and the select few of the one as well as of the other sex, who were +qualified not only to comprehend what is done or thought by others, +but to think or do something considerable themselves, would meet with +the same facilities for improving and training their capacities in +the one sex as in the other. In this way, the widening of the sphere +of action for women would operate for good, by raising their +education to the level of that of men, and making the one participate +in all improvements made in the other. But independently of this, the +mere breaking down of the barrier would of itself have an educational +virtue of the highest worth. The mere getting rid of the idea that +all the wider subjects of thought and action, all the things which +are of general and not solely of private interest, are men's +business, from which women are to be warned off--positively +interdicted from most of it, coldly tolerated in the little which is +allowed them--the mere consciousness a woman would then have of being +a human being like any other, entitled to choose her pursuits, urged +or invited by the same inducements as any one else to interest +herself in whatever is interesting to human beings, entitled to exert +the share of influence on all human concerns which belongs to an +individual opinion, whether she attempted actual participation in +them or not--this alone would effect an immense expansion of the +faculties of women, as well as enlargement of the range of their +moral sentiments. + +Besides the addition to the amount of individual talent available for +the conduct of human affairs, which certainly are not at present so +abundantly provided in that respect that they can afford to dispense +with one-half of what nature proffers; the opinion of women would +then possess a more beneficial, rather than a greater, influence upon +the general mass of human belief and sentiment. I say a more +beneficial, rather than a greater influence; for the influence of +women over the general tone of opinion has always, or at least from +the earliest known period, been very considerable. The influence of +mothers on the early character of their sons, and the desire of young +men to recommend themselves to young women, have in all recorded +times been important agencies in the formation of character, and have +determined some of the chief steps in the progress of civilization. +Even in the Homeric age, αιδως towards the Τρωαδας ἑλκεσιπεπλους is +an acknowledged and powerful motive of action in the great Hector. +The moral influence of women has had two modes of operation. First, +it has been a softening influence. Those who were most liable to be +the victims of violence, have naturally tended as much as they could +towards limiting its sphere and mitigating its excesses. Those who +were not taught to fight, have naturally inclined in favour of any +other mode of settling differences rather than that of fighting. In +general, those who have been the greatest sufferers by the indulgence +of selfish passion, have been the most earnest supporters of any +moral law which offered a means of bridling passion. Women were +powerfully instrumental in inducing the northern conquerors to adopt +the creed of Christianity, a creed so much more favourable to women +than any that preceded it. The conversion of the Anglo-Saxons and of +the Franks may be said to have been begun by the wives of Ethelbert +and Clovis. The other mode in which the effect of women's opinion has +been conspicuous, is by giving a powerful stimulus to those qualities +in men, which, not being themselves trained in, it was necessary for +them that they should find in their protectors. Courage, and the +military virtues generally, have at all times been greatly indebted +to the desire which men felt of being admired by women: and the +stimulus reaches far beyond this one class of eminent qualities, +since, by a very natural effect of their position, the best passport +to the admiration and favour of women has always been to be thought +highly of by men. From the combination of the two kinds of moral +influence thus exercised by women, arose the spirit of chivalry: the +peculiarity of which is, to aim at combining the highest standard of +the warlike qualities with the cultivation of a totally different +class of virtues--those of gentleness, generosity, and +self-abnegation, towards the non-military and defenceless classes +generally, and a special submission and worship directed towards +women; who were distinguished from the other defenceless classes by +the high rewards which they had it in their power voluntarily to +bestow on those who endeavoured to earn their favour, instead of +extorting their subjection. Though the practice of chivalry fell even +more sadly short of its theoretic standard than practice generally +falls below theory, it remains one of the most precious monuments of +the moral history of our race; as a remarkable instance of a +concerted and organized attempt by a most disorganized and distracted +society, to raise up and carry into practice a moral ideal greatly in +advance of its social condition and institutions; so much so as to +have been completely frustrated in the main object, yet never +entirely inefficacious, and which has left a most sensible, and for +the most part a highly valuable impress on the ideas and feelings of +all subsequent times. + +The chivalrous ideal is the acme of the influence of women's +sentiments on the moral cultivation of mankind: and if women are to +remain in their subordinate situation, it were greatly to be lamented +that the chivalrous standard should have passed away, for it is the +only one at all capable of mitigating the demoralizing influences of +that position. But the changes in the general state of the species +rendered inevitable the substitution of a totally different ideal of +morality for the chivalrous one. Chivalry was the attempt to infuse +moral elements into a state of society in which everything depended +for good or evil on individual prowess, under the softening +influences of individual delicacy and generosity. In modern +societies, all things, even in the military department of affairs, +are decided, not by individual effort, but by the combined operations +of numbers; while the main occupation of society has changed from +fighting to business, from military to industrial life. The +exigencies of the new life are no more exclusive of the virtues of +generosity than those of the old, but it no longer entirely depends +on them. The main foundations of the moral life of modern times must +be justice and prudence; the respect of each for the rights of every +other, and the ability of each to take care of himself. Chivalry left +without legal check all forms of wrong which reigned unpunished +throughout society; it only encouraged a few to do right in +preference to wrong, by the direction it gave to the instruments of +praise and admiration. But the real dependence of morality must +always be upon its penal sanctions--its power to deter from evil. The +security of society cannot rest on merely rendering honour to right, +a motive so comparatively weak in all but a few, and which on very +many does not operate at all. Modern society is able to repress wrong +through all departments of life, by a fit exertion of the superior +strength which civilization has given it, and thus to render the +existence of the weaker members of society (no longer defenceless but +protected by law) tolerable to them, without reliance on the +chivalrous feelings of those who are in a position to tyrannize. The +beauties and graces of the chivalrous character are still what they +were, but the rights of the weak, and the general comfort of human +life, now rest on a far surer and steadier support; or rather, they +do so in every relation of life except the conjugal. + +At present the moral influence of women is no less real, but it is no +longer of so marked and definite a character: it has more nearly +merged in the general influence of public opinion. Both through the +contagion of sympathy, and through the desire of men to shine in the +eyes of women, their feelings have great effect in keeping alive what +remains of the chivalrous ideal--in fostering the sentiments and +continuing the traditions of spirit and generosity. In these points +of character, their standard is higher than that of men; in the +quality of justice, somewhat lower. As regards the relations of +private life it may be said generally, that their influence is, on +the whole, encouraging to the softer virtues, discouraging to the +sterner: though the statement must be taken with all the +modifications dependent on individual character. In the chief of the +greater trials to which virtue is subject in the concerns of +life--the conflict between interest and principle--the tendency of +women's influence is of a very mixed character. When the principle +involved happens to be one of the very few which the course of their +religious or moral education has strongly impressed upon themselves, +they are potent auxiliaries to virtue: and their husbands and sons +are often prompted by them to acts of abnegation which they never +would have been capable of without that stimulus. But, with the +present education and position of women, the moral principles which +have been impressed on them cover but a comparatively small part of +the field of virtue, and are, moreover, principally negative; +forbidding particular acts, but having little to do with the general +direction of the thoughts and purposes. I am afraid it must be said, +that disinterestedness in the general conduct of life--the devotion +of the energies to purposes which hold out no promise of private +advantages to the family--is very seldom encouraged or supported by +women's influence. It is small blame to them that they discourage +objects of which they have not learnt to see the advantage, and which +withdraw their men from them, and from the interests of the family. +But the consequence is that women's influence is often anything but +favourable to public virtue. + +Women have, however, some share of influence in giving the tone to +public moralities since their sphere of action has been a little +widened, and since a considerable number of them have occupied +themselves practically in the promotion of objects reaching beyond +their own family and household. The influence of women counts for a +great deal in two of the most marked features of modern European +life--its aversion to war, and its addiction to philanthropy. +Excellent characteristics both; but unhappily, if the influence of +women is valuable in the encouragement it gives to these feelings in +general, in the particular applications the direction it gives to +them is at least as often mischievous as useful. In the philanthropic +department more particularly, the two provinces chiefly cultivated by +women are religious proselytism and charity. Religious proselytism at +home, is but another word for embittering of religious animosities: +abroad, it is usually a blind running at an object, without either +knowing or heeding the fatal mischiefs--fatal to the religious object +itself as well as to all other desirable objects--which may be +produced by the means employed. As for charity, it is a matter in +which the immediate effect on the persons directly concerned, and the +ultimate consequence to the general good, are apt to be at complete +war with one another: while the education given to women--an +education of the sentiments rather than of the understanding--and the +habit inculcated by their whole life, of looking to immediate effects +on persons, and not to remote effects on classes of persons--make +them both unable to see, and unwilling to admit, the ultimate evil +tendency of any form of charity or philanthropy which commends itself +to their sympathetic feelings. The great and continually increasing +mass of unenlightened and shortsighted benevolence, which, taking the +care of people's lives out of their own hands, and relieving them +from the disagreeable consequences of their own acts, saps the very +foundations of the self-respect, self-help, and self-control which +are the essential conditions both of individual prosperity and of +social virtue--this waste of resources and of benevolent feelings in +doing harm instead of good, is immensely swelled by women's +contributions, and stimulated by their influence. Not that this is a +mistake likely to be made by women, where they have actually the +practical management of schemes of beneficence. It sometimes happens +that women who administer public charities--with that insight into +present fact, and especially into the minds and feelings of those +with whom they are in immediate contact, in which women generally +excel men--recognise in the clearest manner the demoralizing +influence of the alms given or the help afforded, and could give +lessons on the subject to many a male political economist. But women +who only give their money, and are not brought face to face with the +effects it produces, how can they be expected to foresee them? A +woman born to the present lot of women, and content with it, how +should she appreciate the value of self-dependence? She is not +self-dependent; she is not taught self-dependence; her destiny is to +receive everything from others, and why should what is good enough +for her be bad for the poor? Her familiar notions of good are of +blessings descending from a superior. She forgets that she is not +free, and that the poor are; that if what they need is given to them +unearned, they cannot be compelled to earn it: that everybody cannot +be taken care of by everybody, but there must be some motive to +induce people to take care of themselves; and that to be helped to +help themselves, if they are physically capable of it, is the only +charity which proves to be charity in the end. + +These considerations show how usefully the part which women take in +the formation of general opinion, would be modified for the better by +that more enlarged instruction, and practical conversancy with the +things which their opinions influence, that would necessarily arise +from their social and political emancipation. But the improvement it +would work through the influence they exercise, each in her own +family, would be still more remarkable. + +It is often said that in the classes most exposed to temptation, a +man's wife and children tend to keep him honest and respectable, both +by the wife's direct influence, and by the concern he feels for their +future welfare. This may be so, and no doubt often is so, with those +who are more weak than wicked; and this beneficial influence would be +preserved and strengthened under equal laws; it does not depend on +the woman's servitude, but is, on the contrary, diminished by the +disrespect which the inferior class of men always at heart feel +towards those who are subject to their power. But when we ascend +higher in the scale, we come among a totally different set of moving +forces. The wife's influence tends, as far as it goes, to prevent the +husband from falling below the common standard of approbation of the +country. It tends quite as strongly to hinder him from rising above +it. The wife is the auxiliary of the common public opinion. A man who +is married to a woman his inferior in intelligence, finds her a +perpetual dead weight, or, worse than a dead weight, a drag, upon +every aspiration of his to be better than public opinion requires him +to be. It is hardly possible for one who is in these bonds, to attain +exalted virtue. If he differs in his opinion from the mass--if he +sees truths which have not yet dawned upon them, or if, feeling in +his heart truths which they nominally recognise, he would like to act +up to those truths more conscientiously than the generality of +mankind--to all such thoughts and desires, marriage is the heaviest +of drawbacks, unless he be so fortunate as to have a wife as much +above the common level as he himself is. + +For, in the first place, there is always some sacrifice of personal +interest required; either of social consequence, or of pecuniary +means; perhaps the risk of even the means of subsistence. These +sacrifices and risks he may be willing to encounter for himself; but +he will pause before he imposes them on his family. And his family in +this case means his wife and daughters; for he always hopes that his +sons will feel as he feels himself, and that what he can do without, +they will do without, willingly, in the same cause. But his +daughters--their marriage may depend upon it: and his wife, who is +unable to enter into or understand the objects for which these +sacrifices are made--who, if she thought them worth any sacrifice, +would think so on trust, and solely for his sake--who can participate +in none of the enthusiasm or the self-approbation he himself may +feel, while the things which he is disposed to sacrifice are all in +all to her; will not the best and most unselfish man hesitate the +longest before bringing on her this consequence? If it be not the +comforts of life, but only social consideration, that is at stake, +the burthen upon his conscience and feelings is still very severe. +Whoever has a wife and children has given hostages to Mrs. Grundy. +The approbation of that potentate may be a matter of indifference to +him, but it is of great importance to his wife. The man himself may +be above opinion, or may find sufficient compensation in the opinion +of those of his own way of thinking. But to the women connected with +him, he can offer no compensation. The almost invariable tendency of +the wife to place her influence in the same scale with social +consideration, is sometimes made a reproach to women, and represented +as a peculiar trait of feebleness and childishness of character in +them: surely with great injustice. Society makes the whole life of a +woman, in the easy classes, a continued self-sacrifice; it exacts +from her an unremitting restraint of the whole of her natural +inclinations, and the sole return it makes to her for what often +deserves the name of a martyrdom, is consideration. Her consideration +is inseparably connected with that of her husband, and after paying +the full price for it, she finds that she is to lose it, for no +reason of which she can feel the cogency. She has sacrificed her +whole life to it, and her husband will not sacrifice to it a whim, a +freak, an eccentricity; something not recognised or allowed for by +the world, and which the world will agree with her in thinking a +folly, if it thinks no worse! The dilemma is hardest upon that very +meritorious class of men, who, without possessing talents which +qualify them to make a figure among those with whom they agree in +opinion, hold their opinion from conviction, and feel bound in honour +and conscience to serve it, by making profession of their belief, and +giving their time, labour, and means, to anything undertaken in its +behalf. The worst case of all is when such men happen to be of a rank +and position which of itself neither gives them, nor excludes them +from, what is considered the best society; when their admission to it +depends mainly on what is thought of them personally--and however +unexceptionable their breeding and habits, their being identified +with opinions and public conduct unacceptable to those who give the +tone to society would operate as an effectual exclusion. Many a woman +flatters herself (nine times out of ten quite erroneously) that +nothing prevents her and her husband from moving in the highest +society of her neighbourhood--society in which others well known to +her, and in the same class of life, mix freely--except that her +husband is unfortunately a Dissenter, or has the reputation of +mingling in low radical politics. That it is, she thinks, which +hinders George from getting a commission or a place, Caroline from +making an advantageous match, and prevents her and her husband from +obtaining invitations, perhaps honours, which, for aught she sees, +they are as well entitled to as some folks. With such an influence in +every house, either exerted actively, or operating all the more +powerfully for not being asserted, is it any wonder that people in +general are kept down in that mediocrity of respectability which is +becoming a marked characteristic of modern times? + +There is another very injurious aspect in which the effect, not of +women's disabilities directly, but of the broad line of difference +which those disabilities create between the education and character +of a woman and that of a man, requires to be considered. Nothing can +be more unfavourable to that union of thoughts and inclinations which +is the ideal of married life. Intimate society between people +radically dissimilar to one another, is an idle dream. Unlikeness may +attract, but it is likeness which retains; and in proportion to the +likeness is the suitability of the individuals to give each other a +happy life. While women are so unlike men, it is not wonderful that +selfish men should feel the need of arbitrary power in their own +hands, to arrest _in limine_ the life-long conflict of inclinations, +by deciding every question on the side of their own preference. When +people are extremely unlike, there can be no real identity of +interest. Very often there is conscientious difference of opinion +between married people, on the highest points of duty. Is there any +reality in the marriage union where this takes place? Yet it is not +uncommon anywhere, when the woman has any earnestness of character; +and it is a very general case indeed in Catholic countries, when she +is supported in her dissent by the only other authority to which she +is taught to bow, the priest. With the usual barefacedness of power +not accustomed to find itself disputed, the influence of priests over +women is attacked by Protestant and Liberal writers, less for being +bad in itself, than because it is a rival authority to the husband, +and raises up a revolt against his infallibility. In England, similar +differences occasionally exist when an Evangelical wife has allied +herself with a husband of a different quality; but in general this +source at least of dissension is got rid of, by reducing the minds of +women to such a nullity, that they have no opinions but those of Mrs. +Grundy, or those which the husband tells them to have. When there is +no difference of opinion, differences merely of taste may be +sufficient to detract greatly from the happiness of married life. And +though it may stimulate the amatory propensities of men, it does not +conduce to married happiness, to exaggerate by differences of +education whatever may be the native differences of the sexes. If the +married pair are well-bred and well-behaved people, they tolerate +each other's tastes; but is mutual toleration what people look +forward to, when they enter into marriage? These differences of +inclination will naturally make their wishes different, if not +restrained by affection or duty, as to almost all domestic questions +which arise. What a difference there must be in the society which the +two persons will wish to frequent, or be frequented by! Each will +desire associates who share their own tastes: the persons agreeable +to one, will be indifferent or positively disagreeable to the other; +yet there can be none who are not common to both, for married people +do not now live in different parts of the house and have totally +different visiting lists, as in the reign of Louis XV. They cannot +help having different wishes as to the bringing up of the children: +each will wish to see reproduced in them their own tastes and +sentiments: and there is either a compromise, and only a +half-satisfaction to either, or the wife has to yield--often with +bitter suffering; and, with or without intention, her occult +influence continues to counterwork the husband's purposes. + +It would of course be extreme folly to suppose that these differences +of feeling and inclination only exist because women are brought up +differently from men, and that there would not be differences of +taste under any imaginable circumstances. But there is nothing beyond +the mark in saying that the distinction in bringing-up immensely +aggravates those differences, and renders them wholly inevitable. +While women are brought up as they are, a man and a woman will but +rarely find in one another real agreement of tastes and wishes as to +daily life. They will generally have to give it up as hopeless, and +renounce the attempt to have, in the intimate associate of their +daily life, that _idem velle, idem nolle_, which is the recognised +bond of any society that is really such: or if the man succeeds in +obtaining it, he does so by choosing a woman who is so complete a +nullity that she has no _velle_ or _nolle_ at all, and is as ready to +comply with one thing as another if anybody tells her to do so. Even +this calculation is apt to fail; dulness and want of spirit are not +always a guarantee of the submission which is so confidently expected +from them. But if they were, is this the ideal of marriage? What, in +this case, does the man obtain by it, except an upper servant, a +nurse, or a mistress? On the contrary, when each of two persons, +instead of being a nothing, is a something; when they are attached to +one another, and are not too much unlike to begin with; the constant +partaking in the same things, assisted by their sympathy, draws out +the latent capacities of each for being interested in the things +which were at first interesting only to the other; and works a +gradual assimilation of the tastes and characters to one another, +partly by the insensible modification of each, but more by a real +enriching of the two natures, each acquiring the tastes and +capacities of the other in addition to its own. This often happens +between two friends of the same sex, who are much associated in their +daily life: and it would be a common, if not the commonest, case in +marriage, did not the totally different bringing-up of the two sexes +make it next to an impossibility to form a really well-assorted +union. Were this remedied, whatever differences there might still be +in individual tastes, there would at least be, as a general rule, +complete unity and unanimity as to the great objects of life. When +the two persons both care for great objects, and are a help and +encouragement to each other in whatever regards these, the minor +matters on which their tastes may differ are not all-important to +them; and there is a foundation for solid friendship, of an enduring +character, more likely than anything else to make it, through the +whole of life, a greater pleasure to each to give pleasure to the +other, than to receive it. + +I have considered, thus far, the effects on the pleasures and +benefits of the marriage union which depend on the mere unlikeness +between the wife and the husband: but the evil tendency is +prodigiously aggravated when the unlikeness is inferiority. Mere +unlikeness, when it only means difference of good qualities, may be +more a benefit in the way of mutual improvement, than a drawback from +comfort. When each emulates, and desires and endeavours to acquire, +the other's peculiar qualities, the difference does not produce +diversity of interest, but increased identity of it, and makes each +still more valuable to the other. But when one is much the inferior +of the two in mental ability and cultivation, and is not actively +attempting by the other's aid to rise to the other's level, the whole +influence of the connexion upon the development of the superior of +the two is deteriorating: and still more so in a tolerably happy +marriage than in an unhappy one. It is not with impunity that the +superior in intellect shuts himself up with an inferior, and elects +that inferior for his chosen, and sole completely intimate, +associate. Any society which is not improving, is deteriorating: and +the more so, the closer and more familiar it is. Even a really +superior man almost always begins to deteriorate when he is +habitually (as the phrase is) king of his company: and in his most +habitual company the husband who has a wife inferior to him is always +so. While his self-satisfaction is incessantly ministered to on the +one hand, on the other he insensibly imbibes the modes of feeling, +and of looking at things, which belong to a more vulgar or a more +limited mind than his own. This evil differs from many of those which +have hitherto been dwelt on, by being an increasing one. The +association of men with women in daily life is much closer and more +complete than it ever was before. Men's life is more domestic. +Formerly, their pleasures and chosen occupations were among men, and +in men's company: their wives had but a fragment of their lives. At +the present time, the progress of civilization, and the turn of +opinion against the rough amusements and convivial excesses which +formerly occupied most men in their hours of relaxation--together +with (it must be said) the improved tone of modern feeling as to the +reciprocity of duty which binds the husband towards the wife--have +thrown the man very much more upon home and its inmates, for his +personal and social pleasures: while the kind and degree of +improvement which has been made in women's education, has made them +in some degree capable of being his companions in ideas and mental +tastes, while leaving them, in most cases, still hopelessly inferior +to him. His desire of mental communion is thus in general satisfied +by a communion from which he learns nothing. An unimproving and +unstimulating companionship is substituted for (what he might +otherwise have been obliged to seek) the society of his equals in +powers and his fellows in the higher pursuits. We see, accordingly, +that young men of the greatest promise generally cease to improve as +soon as they marry, and, not improving, inevitably degenerate. If the +wife does not push the husband forward, she always holds him back. He +ceases to care for what she does not care for; he no longer desires, +and ends by disliking and shunning, society congenial to his former +aspirations, and which would now shame his falling-off from them; his +higher faculties both of mind and heart cease to be called into +activity. And this change coinciding with the new and selfish +interests which are created by the family, after a few years he +differs in no material respect from those who have never had wishes +for anything but the common vanities and the common pecuniary +objects. + +What marriage may be in the case of two persons of cultivated +faculties, identical in opinions and purposes, between whom there +exists that best kind of equality, similarity of powers and +capacities with reciprocal superiority in them--so that each can +enjoy the luxury of looking up to the other, and can have alternately +the pleasure of leading and of being led in the path of +development--I will not attempt to describe. To those who can +conceive it, there is no need; to those who cannot, it would appear +the dream of an enthusiast. But I maintain, with the profoundest +conviction, that this, and this only, is the ideal of marriage; and +that all opinions, customs, and institutions which favour any other +notion of it, or turn the conceptions and aspirations connected with +it into any other direction, by whatever pretences they may be +coloured, are relics of primitive barbarism. The moral regeneration +of mankind will only really commence, when the most fundamental of +the social relations is placed under the rule of equal justice, and +when human beings learn to cultivate their strongest sympathy with an +equal in rights and in cultivation. + +Thus far, the benefits which it has appeared that the world would +gain by ceasing to make sex a disqualification for privileges and a +badge of subjection, are social rather than individual; consisting in +an increase of the general fund of thinking and acting power, and an +improvement in the general conditions of the association of men with +women. But it would be a grievous understatement of the case to omit +the most direct benefit of all, the unspeakable gain in private +happiness to the liberated half of the species; the difference to +them between a life of subjection to the will of others, and a life +of rational freedom. After the primary necessities of food and +raiment, freedom is the first and strongest want of human nature. +While mankind are lawless, their desire is for lawless freedom. When +they have learnt to understand the meaning of duty and the value of +reason, they incline more and more to be guided and restrained by +these in the exercise of their freedom; but they do not therefore +desire freedom less; they do not become disposed to accept the will +of other people as the representative and interpreter of those +guiding principles. On the contrary, the communities in which the +reason has been most cultivated, and in which the idea of social duty +has been most powerful, are those which have most strongly asserted +the freedom of action of the individual--the liberty of each to +govern his conduct by his own feelings of duty, and by such laws and +social restraints as his own conscience can subscribe to. + +He who would rightly appreciate the worth of personal independence as +an element of happiness, should consider the value he himself puts +upon it as an ingredient of his own. There is no subject on which +there is a greater habitual difference of judgment between a man +judging for himself, and the same man judging for other people. When +he hears others complaining that they are not allowed freedom of +action--that their own will has not sufficient influence in the +regulation of their affairs--his inclination is, to ask, what are +their grievances? what positive damage they sustain? and in what +respect they consider their affairs to be mismanaged? and if they +fail to make out, in answer to these questions, what appears to him a +sufficient case, he turns a deaf ear, and regards their complaint as +the fanciful querulousness of people whom nothing reasonable will +satisfy. But he has a quite different standard of judgment when he is +deciding for himself. Then, the most unexceptionable administration +of his interests by a tutor set over him, does not satisfy his +feelings: his personal exclusion from the deciding authority appears +itself the greatest grievance of all, rendering it superfluous even +to enter into the question of mismanagement. It is the same with +nations. What citizen of a free country would listen to any offers of +good and skilful administration, in return for the abdication of +freedom? Even if he could believe that good and skilful +administration can exist among a people ruled by a will not their +own, would not the consciousness of working out their own destiny +under their own moral responsibility be a compensation to his +feelings for great rudeness and imperfection in the details of public +affairs? Let him rest assured that whatever he feels on this point, +women feel in a fully equal degree. Whatever has been said or +written, from the time of Herodotus to the present, of the ennobling +influence of free government--the nerve and spring which it gives to +all the faculties, the larger and higher objects which it presents to +the intellect and feelings, the more unselfish public spirit, and +calmer and broader views of duty, that it engenders, and the +generally loftier platform on which it elevates the individual as a +moral, spiritual, and social being--is every particle as true of +women as of men. Are these things no important part of individual +happiness? Let any man call to mind what he himself felt on emerging +from boyhood--from the tutelage and control of even loved and +affectionate elders--and entering upon the responsibilities of +manhood. Was it not like the physical effect of taking off a heavy +weight, or releasing him from obstructive, even if not otherwise +painful, bonds? Did he not feel twice as much alive, twice as much a +human being, as before? And does he imagine that women have none of +these feelings? But it is a striking fact, that the satisfactions and +mortifications of personal pride, though all in all to most men when +the case is their own, have less allowance made for them in the case +of other people, and are less listened to as a ground or a +justification of conduct, than any other natural human feelings; +perhaps because men compliment them in their own case with the names +of so many other qualities, that they are seldom conscious how mighty +an influence these feelings exercise in their own lives. No less +large and powerful is their part, we may assure ourselves, in the +lives and feelings of women. Women are schooled into suppressing them +in their most natural and most healthy direction, but the internal +principle remains, in a different outward form. An active and +energetic mind, if denied liberty, will seek for power: refused the +command of itself, it will assert its personality by attempting to +control others. To allow to any human beings no existence of their +own but what depends on others, is giving far too high a premium on +bending others to their purposes. Where liberty cannot be hoped for, +and power can, power becomes the grand object of human desire; those +to whom others will not leave the undisturbed management of their own +affairs, will compensate themselves, if they can, by meddling for +their own purposes with the affairs of others. Hence also women's +passion for personal beauty, and dress and display; and all the evils +that flow from it, in the way of mischievous luxury and social +immorality. The love of power and the love of liberty are in eternal +antagonism. Where there is least liberty, the passion for power is +the most ardent and unscrupulous. The desire of power over others can +only cease to be a depraving agency among mankind, when each of them +individually is able to do without it: which can only be where +respect for liberty in the personal concerns of each is an +established principle. + +But it is not only through the sentiment of personal dignity, that +the free direction and disposal of their own faculties is a source of +individual happiness, and to be fettered and restricted in it, a +source of unhappiness, to human beings, and not least to women. There +is nothing, after disease, indigence, and guilt, so fatal to the +pleasurable enjoyment of life as the want of a worthy outlet for the +active faculties. Women who have the cares of a family, and while +they have the cares of a family, have this outlet, and it generally +suffices for them: but what of the greatly increasing number of +women, who have had no opportunity of exercising the vocation which +they are mocked by telling them is their proper one? What of the +women whose children have been lost to them by death or distance, or +have grown up, married, and formed homes of their own? There are +abundant examples of men who, after a life engrossed by business, +retire with a competency to the enjoyment, as they hope, of rest, but +to whom, as they are unable to acquire new interests and excitements +that can replace the old, the change to a life of inactivity brings +ennui, melancholy, and premature death. Yet no one thinks of the +parallel case of so many worthy and devoted women, who, having paid +what they are told is their debt to society--having brought up a +family blamelessly to manhood and womanhood--having kept a house as +long as they had a house needing to be kept--are deserted by the sole +occupation for which they have fitted themselves; and remain with +undiminished activity but with no employment for it, unless perhaps a +daughter or daughter-in-law is willing to abdicate in their favour +the discharge of the same functions in her younger household. Surely +a hard lot for the old age of those who have worthily discharged, as +long as it was given to them to discharge, what the world accounts +their only social duty. Of such women, and of those others to whom +this duty has not been committed at all--many of whom pine through +life with the consciousness of thwarted vocations, and activities +which are not suffered to expand--the only resources, speaking +generally, are religion and charity. But their religion, though it +may be one of feeling, and of ceremonial observance, cannot be a +religion of action, unless in the form of charity. For charity many +of them are by nature admirably fitted; but to practise it usefully, +or even without doing mischief, requires the education, the manifold +preparation, the knowledge and the thinking powers, of a skilful +administrator. There are few of the administrative functions of +government for which a person would not be fit, who is fit to bestow +charity usefully. In this as in other cases (pre-eminently in that of +the education of children), the duties permitted to women cannot be +performed properly, without their being trained for duties which, to +the great loss of society, are not permitted to them. And here let me +notice the singular way in which the question of women's disabilities +is frequently presented to view, by those who find it easier to draw +a ludicrous picture of what they do not like, than to answer the +arguments for it. When it is suggested that women's executive +capacities and prudent counsels might sometimes be found valuable in +affairs of state, these lovers of fun hold up to the ridicule of the +world, as sitting in parliament or in the cabinet, girls in their +teens, or young wives of two or three and twenty, transported bodily, +exactly as they are, from the drawing-room to the House of Commons. +They forget that males are not usually selected at this early age for +a seat in Parliament, or for responsible political functions. Common +sense would tell them that if such trusts were confided to women, it +would be to such as having no special vocation for married life, or +preferring another employment of their faculties (as many women even +now prefer to marriage some of the few honourable occupations within +their reach), have spent the best years of their youth in attempting +to qualify themselves for the pursuits in which they desire to +engage; or still more frequently perhaps, widows or wives of forty or +fifty, by whom the knowledge of life and faculty of government which +they have acquired in their families, could by the aid of appropriate +studies be made available on a less contracted scale. There is no +country of Europe in which the ablest men have not frequently +experienced, and keenly appreciated, the value of the advice and help +of clever and experienced women of the world, in the attainment both +of private and of public objects; and there are important matters of +public administration to which few men are equally competent with +such women; among others, the detailed control of expenditure. But +what we are now discussing is not the need which society has of the +services of women in public business, but the dull and hopeless life +to which it so often condemns them, by forbidding them to exercise +the practical abilities which many of them are conscious of, in any +wider field than one which to some of them never was, and to others +is no longer, open. If there is anything vitally important to the +happiness of human beings, it is that they should relish their +habitual pursuit. This requisite of an enjoyable life is very +imperfectly granted, or altogether denied, to a large part of +mankind; and by its absence many a life is a failure, which is +provided, in appearance, with every requisite of success. But if +circumstances which society is not yet skilful enough to overcome, +render such failures often for the present inevitable, society need +not itself inflict them. The injudiciousness of parents, a youth's +own inexperience, or the absence of external opportunities for the +congenial vocation, and their presence for an uncongenial, condemn +numbers of men to pass their lives in doing one thing reluctantly and +ill, when there are other things which they could have done well and +happily. But on women this sentence is imposed by actual law, and by +customs equivalent to law. What, in unenlightened societies, colour, +race, religion, or in the case of a conquered country, nationality, +are to some men, sex is to all women; a peremptory exclusion from +almost all honourable occupations, but either such as cannot be +fulfilled by others, or such as those others do not think worthy of +their acceptance. Sufferings arising from causes of this nature +usually meet with so little sympathy, that few persons are aware of +the great amount of unhappiness even now produced by the feeling of a +wasted life. The case will be even more frequent, as increased +cultivation creates a greater and greater disproportion between the +ideas and faculties of women, and the scope which society allows to +their activity. + +When we consider the positive evil caused to the disqualified half of +the human race by their disqualification--first in the loss of the +most inspiriting and elevating kind of personal enjoyment, and next +in the weariness, disappointment, and profound dissatisfaction with +life, which are so often the substitute for it; one feels that among +all the lessons which men require for carrying on the struggle +against the inevitable imperfections of their lot on earth, there is +no lesson which they more need, than not to add to the evils which +nature inflicts, by their jealous and prejudiced restrictions on one +another. Their vain fears only substitute other and worse evils for +those which they are idly apprehensive of: while every restraint on +the freedom of conduct of any of their human fellow creatures, +(otherwise than by making them responsible for any evil actually +caused by it), dries up _pro tanto_ the principal fountain of human +happiness, and leaves the species less rich, to an inappreciable +degree, in all that makes life valuable to the individual human +being. + + THE END. + + + + + + +End of Project Gutenberg's The Subjection of Women, by John Stuart Mill + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK THE SUBJECTION OF WOMEN *** + +***** This file should be named 27083-0.txt or 27083-0.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + https://www.gutenberg.org/2/7/0/8/27083/ + +Produced by Michael Roe and the Online Distributed +Proofreading Team at https://www.pgdp.net (This file was +produced from images generously made available by The +Internet Archive/American Libraries.) + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: The Subjection of Women + +Author: John Stuart Mill + +Release Date: October 28, 2008 [EBook #27083] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK THE SUBJECTION OF WOMEN *** + + + + +Produced by Michael Roe and the Online Distributed +Proofreading Team at https://www.pgdp.net (This file was +produced from images generously made available by The +Internet Archive/American Libraries.) + + + + + + + + + + THE + SUBJECTION + OF + WOMEN + + + BY + JOHN STUART MILL + + LONDON + LONGMANS, GREEN, READER, AND DYER + 1869 + + LONDON: + SAVILL, EDWARDS AND CO., PRINTERS, CHANDOS STREET, + COVENT GARDEN. + + + + +CHAPTER I. + + +The object of this Essay is to explain as clearly as I am able, the +grounds of an opinion which I have held from the very earliest period +when I had formed any opinions at all on social or political matters, +and which, instead of being weakened or modified, has been constantly +growing stronger by the progress of reflection and the experience of +life: That the principle which regulates the existing social +relations between the two sexes--the legal subordination of one sex +to the other--is wrong in itself, and now one of the chief hindrances +to human improvement; and that it ought to be replaced by a principle +of perfect equality, admitting no power or privilege on the one side, +nor disability on the other. + +The very words necessary to express the task I have undertaken, show +how arduous it is. But it would be a mistake to suppose that the +difficulty of the case must lie in the insufficiency or obscurity of +the grounds of reason on which my conviction rests. The difficulty is +that which exists in all cases in which there is a mass of feeling to +be contended against. So long as an opinion is strongly rooted in the +feelings, it gains rather than loses in stability by having a +preponderating weight of argument against it. For if it were accepted +as a result of argument, the refutation of the argument might shake +the solidity of the conviction; but when it rests solely on feeling, +the worse it fares in argumentative contest, the more persuaded its +adherents are that their feeling must have some deeper ground, which +the arguments do not reach; and while the feeling remains, it is +always throwing up fresh intrenchments of argument to repair any +breach made in the old. And there are so many causes tending to make +the feelings connected with this subject the most intense and most +deeply-rooted of all those which gather round and protect old +institutions and customs, that we need not wonder to find them as yet +less undermined and loosened than any of the rest by the progress of +the great modern spiritual and social transition; nor suppose that +the barbarisms to which men cling longest must be less barbarisms +than those which they earlier shake off. + +In every respect the burthen is hard on those who attack an almost +universal opinion. They must be very fortunate as well as unusually +capable if they obtain a hearing at all. They have more difficulty in +obtaining a trial, than any other litigants have in getting a +verdict. If they do extort a hearing, they are subjected to a set of +logical requirements totally different from those exacted from other +people. In all other cases, the burthen of proof is supposed to lie +with the affirmative. If a person is charged with a murder, it rests +with those who accuse him to give proof of his guilt, not with +himself to prove his innocence. If there is a difference of opinion +about the reality of any alleged historical event, in which the +feelings of men in general are not much interested, as the Siege of +Troy for example, those who maintain that the event took place are +expected to produce their proofs, before those who take the other +side can be required to say anything; and at no time are these +required to do more than show that the evidence produced by the +others is of no value. Again, in practical matters, the burthen of +proof is supposed to be with those who are against liberty; who +contend for any restriction or prohibition; either any limitation of +the general freedom of human action, or any disqualification or +disparity of privilege affecting one person or kind of persons, as +compared with others. The _ priori_ presumption is in favour of +freedom and impartiality. It is held that there should be no +restraint not required by the general good, and that the law should +be no respecter of persons, but should treat all alike, save where +dissimilarity of treatment is required by positive reasons, either of +justice or of policy. But of none of these rules of evidence will the +benefit be allowed to those who maintain the opinion I profess. It is +useless for me to say that those who maintain the doctrine that men +have a right to command and women are under an obligation to obey, or +that men are fit for government and women unfit, are on the +affirmative side of the question, and that they are bound to show +positive evidence for the assertions, or submit to their rejection. +It is equally unavailing for me to say that those who deny to women +any freedom or privilege rightly allowed to men, having the double +presumption against them that they are opposing freedom and +recommending partiality, must be held to the strictest proof of their +case, and unless their success be such as to exclude all doubt, the +judgment ought to go against them. These would be thought good pleas +in any common case; but they will not be thought so in this instance. +Before I could hope to make any impression, I should be expected not +only to answer all that has ever been said by those who take the +other side of the question, but to imagine all that could be said by +them--to find them in reasons, as well as answer all I find: and +besides refuting all arguments for the affirmative, I shall be called +upon for invincible positive arguments to prove a negative. And even +if I could do all this, and leave the opposite party with a host of +unanswered arguments against them, and not a single unrefuted one on +their side, I should be thought to have done little; for a cause +supported on the one hand by universal usage, and on the other by so +great a preponderance of popular sentiment, is supposed to have a +presumption in its favour, superior to any conviction which an appeal +to reason has power to produce in any intellects but those of a high +class. + +I do not mention these difficulties to complain of them; first, +because it would be useless; they are inseparable from having to +contend through people's understandings against the hostility of +their feelings and practical tendencies: and truly the understandings +of the majority of mankind would need to be much better cultivated +than has ever yet been the case, before they can be asked to place +such reliance in their own power of estimating arguments, as to give +up practical principles in which they have been born and bred and +which are the basis of much of the existing order of the world, at +the first argumentative attack which they are not capable of +logically resisting. I do not therefore quarrel with them for having +too little faith in argument, but for having too much faith in custom +and the general feeling. It is one of the characteristic prejudices +of the reaction of the nineteenth century against the eighteenth, to +accord to the unreasoning elements in human nature the infallibility +which the eighteenth century is supposed to have ascribed to the +reasoning elements. For the apotheosis of Reason we have substituted +that of Instinct; and we call everything instinct which we find in +ourselves and for which we cannot trace any rational foundation. This +idolatry, infinitely more degrading than the other, and the most +pernicious of the false worships of the present day, of all of which +it is now the main support, will probably hold its ground until it +gives way before a sound psychology, laying bare the real root of +much that is bowed down to as the intention of Nature and the +ordinance of God. As regards the present question, I am willing to +accept the unfavourable conditions which the prejudice assigns to me. +I consent that established custom, and the general feeling, should be +deemed conclusive against me, unless that custom and feeling from age +to age can be shown to have owed their existence to other causes than +their soundness, and to have derived their power from the worse +rather than the better parts of human nature. I am willing that +judgment should go against me, unless I can show that my judge has +been tampered with. The concession is not so great as it might +appear; for to prove this, is by far the easiest portion of my task. + +The generality of a practice is in some cases a strong presumption +that it is, or at all events once was, conducive to laudable ends. +This is the case, when the practice was first adopted, or afterwards +kept up, as a means to such ends, and was grounded on experience of +the mode in which they could be most effectually attained. If the +authority of men over women, when first established, had been the +result of a conscientious comparison between different modes of +constituting the government of society; if, after trying various +other modes of social organization--the government of women over men, +equality between the two, and such mixed and divided modes of +government as might be invented--it had been decided, on the +testimony of experience, that the mode in which women are wholly +under the rule of men, having no share at all in public concerns, and +each in private being under the legal obligation of obedience to the +man with whom she has associated her destiny, was the arrangement +most conducive to the happiness and well being of both; its general +adoption might then be fairly thought to be some evidence that, at +the time when it was adopted, if was the best: though even then the +considerations which recommended it may, like so many other primeval +social facts of the greatest importance, have subsequently, in the +course of ages, ceased to exist. But the state of the case is in +every respect the reverse of this. In the first place, the opinion in +favour of the present system, which entirely subordinates the weaker +sex to the stronger, rests upon theory only; for there never has been +trial made of any other: so that experience, in the sense in which it +is vulgarly opposed to theory, cannot be pretended to have pronounced +any verdict. And in the second place, the adoption of this system of +inequality never was the result of deliberation, or forethought, or +any social ideas, or any notion whatever of what conduced to the +benefit of humanity or the good order of society. It arose simply +from the fact that from the very earliest twilight of human society, +every woman (owing to the value attached to her by men, combined with +her inferiority in muscular strength) was found in a state of bondage +to some man. Laws and systems of polity always begin by recognising +the relations they find already existing between individuals. They +convert what was a mere physical fact into a legal right, give it the +sanction of society, and principally aim at the substitution of +public and organized means of asserting and protecting these rights, +instead of the irregular and lawless conflict of physical strength. +Those who had already been compelled to obedience became in this +manner legally bound to it. Slavery, from being a mere affair of +force between the master and the slave, became regularized and a +matter of compact among the masters, who, binding themselves to one +another for common protection, guaranteed by their collective +strength the private possessions of each, including his slaves. In +early times, the great majority of the male sex were slaves, as well +as the whole of the female. And many ages elapsed, some of them ages +of high cultivation, before any thinker was bold enough to question +the rightfulness, and the absolute social necessity, either of the +one slavery or of the other. By degrees such thinkers did arise: and +(the general progress of society assisting) the slavery of the male +sex has, in all the countries of Christian Europe at least (though, +in one of them, only within the last few years) been at length +abolished, and that of the female sex has been gradually changed into +a milder form of dependence. But this dependence, as it exists at +present, is not an original institution, taking a fresh start from +considerations of justice and social expediency--it is the primitive +state of slavery lasting on, through successive mitigations and +modifications occasioned by the same causes which have softened the +general manners, and brought all human relations more under the +control of justice and the influence of humanity. It has not lost the +taint of its brutal origin. No presumption in its favour, therefore, +can be drawn from the fact of its existence. The only such +presumption which it could be supposed to have, must be grounded on +its having lasted till now, when so many other things which came down +from the same odious source have been done away with. And this, +indeed, is what makes it strange to ordinary ears, to hear it +asserted that the inequality of rights between men and women has no +other source than the law of the strongest. + +That this statement should have the effect of a paradox, is in some +respects creditable to the progress of civilization, and the +improvement of the moral sentiments of mankind. We now live--that is +to say, one or two of the most advanced nations of the world now +live--in a state in which the law of the strongest seems to be +entirely abandoned as the regulating principle of the world's +affairs: nobody professes it, and, as regards most of the relations +between human beings, nobody is permitted to practise it. When any +one succeeds in doing so, it is under cover of some pretext which +gives him the semblance of having some general social interest on his +side. This being the ostensible state of things, people flatter +themselves that the rule of mere force is ended; that the law of the +strongest cannot be the reason of existence of anything which has +remained in full operation down to the present time. However any of +our present institutions may have begun, it can only, they think, +have been preserved to this period of advanced civilization by a +well-grounded feeling of its adaptation to human nature, and +conduciveness to the general good. They do not understand the great +vitality and durability of institutions which place right on the side +of might; how intensely they are clung to; how the good as well as +the bad propensities and sentiments of those who have power in their +hands, become identified with retaining it; how slowly these bad +institutions give way, one at a time, the weakest first, beginning +with those which are least interwoven with the daily habits of life; +and how very rarely those who have obtained legal power because they +first had physical, have ever lost their hold of it until the +physical power had passed over to the other side. Such shifting of +the physical force not having taken place in the case of women; this +fact, combined with all the peculiar and characteristic features of +the particular case, made it certain from the first that this branch +of the system of right founded on might, though softened in its most +atrocious features at an earlier period than several of the others, +would be the very last to disappear. It was inevitable that this one +case of a social relation grounded on force, would survive through +generations of institutions grounded on equal justice, an almost +solitary exception to the general character of their laws and +customs; but which, so long as it does not proclaim its own origin, +and as discussion has not brought out its true character, is not felt +to jar with modern civilization, any more than domestic slavery among +the Greeks jarred with their notion of themselves as a free people. + +The truth is, that people of the present and the last two or three +generations have lost all practical sense of the primitive condition +of humanity; and only the few who have studied history accurately, or +have much frequented the parts of the world occupied by the living +representatives of ages long past, are able to form any mental +picture of what society then was. People are not aware how entirely, +in former ages, the law of superior strength was the rule of life; +how publicly and openly it was avowed, I do not say cynically or +shamelessly--for these words imply a feeling that there was something +in it to be ashamed of, and no such notion could find a place in the +faculties of any person in those ages, except a philosopher or a +saint. History gives a cruel experience of human nature, in shewing +how exactly the regard due to the life, possessions, and entire +earthly happiness of any class of persons, was measured by what they +had the power of enforcing; how all who made any resistance to +authorities that had arms in their hands, however dreadful might be +the provocation, had not only the law of force but all other laws, +and all the notions of social obligation against them; and in the +eyes of those whom they resisted, were not only guilty of crime, but +of the worst of all crimes, deserving the most cruel chastisement +which human beings could inflict. The first small vestige of a +feeling of obligation in a superior to acknowledge any right in +inferiors, began when he had been induced, for convenience, to make +some promise to them. Though these promises, even when sanctioned by +the most solemn oaths, were for many ages revoked or violated on the +most trifling provocation or temptation, it is probable that this, +except by persons of still worse than the average morality, was +seldom done without some twinges of conscience. The ancient +republics, being mostly grounded from the first upon some kind of +mutual compact, or at any rate formed by an union of persons not very +unequal in strength, afforded, in consequence, the first instance of +a portion of human relations fenced round, and placed under the +dominion of another law than that of force. And though the original +law of force remained in full operation between them and their +slaves, and also (except so far as limited by express compact) +between a commonwealth and its subjects, or other independent +commonwealths; the banishment of that primitive law even from so +narrow a field, commenced the regeneration of human nature, by giving +birth to sentiments of which experience soon demonstrated the immense +value even for material interests, and which thenceforward only +required to be enlarged, not created. Though slaves were no part of +the commonwealth, it was in the free states that slaves were first +felt to have rights as human beings. The Stoics were, I believe, the +first (except so far as the Jewish law constitutes an exception) who +taught as a part of morality that men were bound by moral obligations +to their slaves. No one, after Christianity became ascendant, could +ever again have been a stranger to this belief, in theory; nor, after +the rise of the Catholic Church, was it ever without persons to stand +up for it. Yet to enforce it was the most arduous task which +Christianity ever had to perform. For more than a thousand years the +Church kept up the contest, with hardly any perceptible success. It +was not for want of power over men's minds. Its power was prodigious. +It could make kings and nobles resign their most valued possessions +to enrich the Church. It could make thousands, in the prime of life +and the height of worldly advantages, shut themselves up in convents +to work out their salvation by poverty, fasting, and prayer. It could +send hundreds of thousands across land and sea, Europe and Asia, to +give their lives for the deliverance of the Holy Sepulchre. It could +make kings relinquish wives who were the object of their passionate +attachment, because the Church declared that they were within the +seventh (by our calculation the fourteenth) degree of relationship. +All this it did; but it could not make men fight less with one +another, nor tyrannize less cruelly over the serfs, and when they +were able, over burgesses. It could not make them renounce either of +the applications of force; force militant, or force triumphant. This +they could never be induced to do until they were themselves in their +turn compelled by superior force. Only by the growing power of kings +was an end put to fighting except between kings, or competitors for +kingship; only by the growth of a wealthy and warlike bourgeoisie in +the fortified towns, and of a plebeian infantry which proved more +powerful in the field than the undisciplined chivalry, was the +insolent tyranny of the nobles over the bourgeoisie and peasantry +brought within some bounds. It was persisted in not only until, but +long after, the oppressed had obtained a power enabling them often to +take conspicuous vengeance; and on the Continent much of it continued +to the time of the French Revolution, though in England the earlier +and better organization of the democratic classes put an end to it +sooner, by establishing equal laws and free national institutions. + +If people are mostly so little aware how completely, during the +greater part of the duration of our species, the law of force was the +avowed rule of general conduct, any other being only a special and +exceptional consequence of peculiar ties--and from how very recent a +date it is that the affairs of society in general have been even +pretended to be regulated according to any moral law; as little do +people remember or consider, how institutions and customs which never +had any ground but the law of force, last on into ages and states of +general opinion which never would have permitted their first +establishment. Less than forty years ago, Englishmen might still by +law hold human beings in bondage as saleable property: within the +present century they might kidnap them and carry them off, and work +them literally to death. This absolutely extreme case of the law of +force, condemned by those who can tolerate almost every other form of +arbitrary power, and which, of all others, presents features the most +revolting to the feelings of all who look at it from an impartial +position, was the law of civilized and Christian England within the +memory of persons now living: and in one half of Anglo-Saxon America +three or four years ago, not only did slavery exist, but the slave +trade, and the breeding of slaves expressly for it, was a general +practice between slave states. Yet not only was there a greater +strength of sentiment against it, but, in England at least, a less +amount either of feeling or of interest in favour of it, than of any +other of the customary abuses of force: for its motive was the love +of gain, unmixed and undisguised; and those who profited by it were a +very small numerical fraction of the country, while the natural +feeling of all who were not personally interested in it, was +unmitigated abhorrence. So extreme an instance makes it almost +superfluous to refer to any other: but consider the long duration of +absolute monarchy. In England at present it is the almost universal +conviction that military despotism is a case of the law of force, +having no other origin or justification. Yet in all the great nations +of Europe except England it either still exists, or has only just +ceased to exist, and has even now a strong party favourable to it in +all ranks of the people, especially among persons of station and +consequence. Such is the power of an established system, even when +far from universal; when not only in almost every period of history +there have been great and well-known examples of the contrary system, +but these have almost invariably been afforded by the most +illustrious and most prosperous communities. In this case, too, the +possessor of the undue power, the person directly interested in it, +is only one person, while those who are subject to it and suffer from +it are literally all the rest. The yoke is naturally and necessarily +humiliating to all persons, except the one who is on the throne, +together with, at most, the one who expects to succeed to it. How +different are these cases from that of the power of men over women! I +am not now prejudging the question of its justifiableness. I am +showing how vastly more permanent it could not but be, even if not +justifiable, than these other dominations which have nevertheless +lasted down to our own time. Whatever gratification of pride there is +in the possession of power, and whatever personal interest in its +exercise, is in this case not confined to a limited class, but common +to the whole male sex. Instead of being, to most of its supporters, a +thing desirable chiefly in the abstract, or, like the political ends +usually contended for by factious, of little private importance to +any but the leaders; it comes home to the person and hearth of every +male head of a family, and of every one who looks forward to being +so. The clodhopper exercises, or is to exercise, his share of the +power equally with the highest nobleman. And the case is that in +which the desire of power is the strongest: for every one who desires +power, desires it most over those who are nearest to him, with whom +his life is passed, with whom he has most concerns in common, and in +whom any independence of his authority is oftenest likely to +interfere with his individual preferences. If, in the other cases +specified, powers manifestly grounded only on force, and having so +much less to support them, are so slowly and with so much difficulty +got rid of, much more must it be so with this, even if it rests on no +better foundation than those. We must consider, too, that the +possessors of the power have facilities in this case, greater than in +any other, to prevent any uprising against it. Every one of the +subjects lives under the very eye, and almost, it may be said, in the +hands, of one of the masters--in closer intimacy with him than with +any of her fellow-subjects; with no means of combining against him, +no power of even locally over-mastering him, and, on the other hand, +with the strongest motives for seeking his favour and avoiding to +give him offence. In struggles for political emancipation, everybody +knows how often its champions are bought off by bribes, or daunted by +terrors. In the case of women, each individual of the subject-class +is in a chronic state of bribery and intimidation combined. In +setting up the standard of resistance, a large number of the leaders, +and still more of the followers, must make an almost complete +sacrifice of the pleasures or the alleviations of their own +individual lot. If ever any system of privilege and enforced +subjection had its yoke tightly riveted on the necks of those who are +kept down by it, this has. I have not yet shown that it is a wrong +system: but every one who is capable of thinking on the subject must +see that even if it is, it was certain to outlast all other forms of +unjust authority. And when some of the grossest of the other forms +still exist in many civilized countries, and have only recently been +got rid of in others, it would be strange if that which is so much +the deepest-rooted had yet been perceptibly shaken anywhere. There is +more reason to wonder that the protests and testimonies against it +should have been so numerous and so weighty as they are. + +Some will object, that a comparison cannot fairly be made between the +government of the male sex and the forms of unjust power which I have +adduced in illustration of it, since these are arbitrary, and the +effect of mere usurpation, while it on the contrary is natural. But +was there ever any domination which did not appear natural to those +who possessed it? There was a time when the division of mankind into +two classes, a small one of masters and a numerous one of slaves, +appeared, even to the most cultivated minds, to be a natural, and the +only natural, condition of the human race. No less an intellect, and +one which contributed no less to the progress of human thought, than +Aristotle, held this opinion without doubt or misgiving; and rested +it on the same premises on which the same assertion in regard to the +dominion of men over women is usually based, namely that there are +different natures among mankind, free natures, and slave natures; +that the Greeks were of a free nature, the barbarian races of +Thracians and Asiatics of a slave nature. But why need I go back to +Aristotle? Did not the slaveowners of the Southern United States +maintain the same doctrine, with all the fanaticism with which men +cling to the theories that justify their passions and legitimate +their personal interests? Did they not call heaven and earth to +witness that the dominion of the white man over the black is natural, +that the black race is by nature incapable of freedom, and marked out +for slavery? some even going so far as to say that the freedom of +manual labourers is an unnatural order of things anywhere. Again, the +theorists of absolute monarchy have always affirmed it to be the only +natural form of government; issuing from the patriarchal, which was +the primitive and spontaneous form of society, framed on the model of +the paternal, which is anterior to society itself, and, as they +contend, the most natural authority of all. Nay, for that matter, the +law of force itself, to those who could not plead any other, has +always seemed the most natural of all grounds for the exercise of +authority. Conquering races hold it to be Nature's own dictate that +the conquered should obey the conquerors, or, as they euphoniously +paraphrase it, that the feebler and more unwarlike races should +submit to the braver and manlier. The smallest acquaintance with +human life in the middle ages, shows how supremely natural the +dominion of the feudal nobility over men of low condition appeared to +the nobility themselves, and how unnatural the conception seemed, of +a person of the inferior class claiming equality with them, or +exercising authority over them. It hardly seemed less so to the class +held in subjection. The emancipated serfs and burgesses, even in +their most vigorous struggles, never made any pretension to a share +of authority; they only demanded more or less of limitation to the +power of tyrannizing over them. So true is it that unnatural +generally means only uncustomary, and that everything which is usual +appears natural. The subjection of women to men being a universal +custom, any departure from it quite naturally appears unnatural. But +how entirely, even in this case, the feeling is dependent on custom, +appears by ample experience. Nothing so much astonishes the people of +distant parts of the world, when they first learn anything about +England, as to be told that it is under a queen: the thing seems to +them so unnatural as to be almost incredible. To Englishmen this does +not seem in the least degree unnatural, because they are used to it; +but they do feel it unnatural that women should be soldiers or +members of parliament. In the feudal ages, on the contrary, war and +politics were not thought unnatural to women, because not unusual; it +seemed natural that women of the privileged classes should be of +manly character, inferior in nothing but bodily strength to their +husbands and fathers. The independence of women seemed rather less +unnatural to the Greeks than to other ancients, on account of the +fabulous Amazons (whom they believed to be historical), and the +partial example afforded by the Spartan women; who, though no less +subordinate by law than in other Greek states, were more free in +fact, and being trained to bodily exercises in the same manner with +men, gave ample proof that they were not naturally disqualified for +them. There can be little doubt that Spartan experience suggested to +Plato, among many other of his doctrines, that of the social and +political equality of the two sexes. + +But, it will be said, the rule of men over women differs from all +these others in not being a rule of force: it is accepted +voluntarily; women make no complaint, and are consenting parties to +it. In the first place, a great number of women do not accept it. +Ever since there have been women able to make their sentiments known +by their writings (the only mode of publicity which society permits +to them), an increasing number of them have recorded protests against +their present social condition: and recently many thousands of them, +headed by the most eminent women known to the public, have petitioned +Parliament for their admission to the Parliamentary Suffrage. The +claim of women to be educated as solidly, and in the same branches of +knowledge, as men, is urged with growing intensity, and with a great +prospect of success; while the demand for their admission into +professions and occupations hitherto closed against them, becomes +every year more urgent. Though there are not in this country, as +there are in the United States, periodical Conventions and an +organized party to agitate for the Rights of Women, there is a +numerous and active Society organized and managed by women, for the +more limited object of obtaining the political franchise. Nor is it +only in our own country and in America that women are beginning to +protest, more or less collectively, against the disabilities under +which they labour. France, and Italy, and Switzerland, and Russia now +afford examples of the same thing. How many more women there are who +silently cherish similar aspirations, no one can possibly know; but +there are abundant tokens how many _would_ cherish them, were they +not so strenuously taught to repress them as contrary to the +proprieties of their sex. It must be remembered, also, that no +enslaved class ever asked for complete liberty at once. When Simon de +Montfort called the deputies of the commons to sit for the first time +in Parliament, did any of them dream of demanding that an assembly, +elected by their constituents, should make and destroy ministries, +and dictate to the king in affairs of state? No such thought entered +into the imagination of the most ambitious of them. The nobility had +already these pretensions; the commons pretended to nothing but to be +exempt from arbitrary taxation, and from the gross individual +oppression of the king's officers. It is a political law of nature +that those who are under any power of ancient origin, never begin by +complaining of the power itself, but only of its oppressive exercise. +There is never any want of women who complain of ill usage by their +husbands. There would be infinitely more, if complaint were not the +greatest of all provocatives to a repetition and increase of the ill +usage. It is this which frustrates all attempts to maintain the power +but protect the woman against its abuses. In no other case (except +that of a child) is the person who has been proved judicially to have +suffered an injury, replaced under the physical power of the culprit +who inflicted it. Accordingly wives, even in the most extreme and +protracted cases of bodily ill usage, hardly ever dare avail +themselves of the laws made for their protection: and if, in a moment +of irrepressible indignation, or by the interference of neighbours, +they are induced to do so, their whole effort afterwards is to +disclose as little as they can, and to beg off their tyrant from his +merited chastisement. + +All causes, social and natural, combine to make it unlikely that +women should be collectively rebellious to the power of men. They are +so far in a position different from all other subject classes, that +their masters require something more from them than actual service. +Men do not want solely the obedience of women, they want their +sentiments. All men, except the most brutish, desire to have, in the +woman most nearly connected with them, not a forced slave but a +willing one, not a slave merely, but a favourite. They have therefore +put everything in practice to enslave their minds. The masters of all +other slaves rely, for maintaining obedience, on fear; either fear of +themselves, or religious fears. The masters of women wanted more than +simple obedience, and they turned the whole force of education to +effect their purpose. All women are brought up from the very earliest +years in the belief that their ideal of character is the very +opposite to that of men; not self-will, and government by +self-control, but submission, and yielding to the control of others. +All the moralities tell them that it is the duty of women, and all +the current sentimentalities that it is their nature, to live for +others; to make complete abnegation of themselves, and to have no +life but in their affections. And by their affections are meant the +only ones they are allowed to have--those to the men with whom they +are connected, or to the children who constitute an additional and +indefeasible tie between them and a man. When we put together three +things--first, the natural attraction between opposite sexes; +secondly, the wife's entire dependence on the husband, every +privilege or pleasure she has being either his gift, or depending +entirely on his will; and lastly, that the principal object of human +pursuit, consideration, and all objects of social ambition, can in +general be sought or obtained by her only through him, it would be a +miracle if the object of being attractive to men had not become the +polar star of feminine education and formation of character. And, +this great means of influence over the minds of women having been +acquired, an instinct of selfishness made men avail themselves of it +to the utmost as a means of holding women in subjection, by +representing to them meekness, submissiveness, and resignation of all +individual will into the hands of a man, as an essential part of +sexual attractiveness. Can it be doubted that any of the other yokes +which mankind have succeeded in breaking, would have subsisted till +now if the same means had existed, and had been as sedulously used, +to bow down their minds to it? If it had been made the object of the +life of every young plebeian to find personal favour in the eyes of +some patrician, of every young serf with some seigneur; if +domestication with him, and a share of his personal affections, had +been held out as the prize which they all should look out for, the +most gifted and aspiring being able to reckon on the most desirable +prizes; and if, when this prize had been obtained, they had been shut +out by a wall of brass from all interests not centering in him, all +feelings and desires but those which he shared or inculcated; would +not serfs and seigneurs, plebeians and patricians, have been as +broadly distinguished at this day as men and women are? and would not +all but a thinker here and there, have believed the distinction to be +a fundamental and unalterable fact in human nature? + +The preceding considerations are amply sufficient to show that +custom, however universal it may be, affords in this case no +presumption, and ought not to create any prejudice, in favour of the +arrangements which place women in social and political subjection to +men. But I may go farther, and maintain that the course of history, +and the tendencies of progressive human society, afford not only no +presumption in favour of this system of inequality of rights, but a +strong one against it; and that, so far as the whole course of human +improvement up to this time, the whole stream of modern tendencies, +warrants any inference on the subject, it is, that this relic of the +past is discordant with the future, and must necessarily disappear. + +For, what is the peculiar character of the modern world--the +difference which chiefly distinguishes modern institutions, modern +social ideas, modern life itself, from those of times long past? It +is, that human beings are no longer born to their place in life, and +chained down by an inexorable bond to the place they are born to, but +are free to employ their faculties, and such favourable chances as +offer, to achieve the lot which may appear to them most desirable. +Human society of old was constituted on a very different principle. +All were born to a fixed social position, and were mostly kept in it +by law, or interdicted from any means by which they could emerge from +it. As some men are born white and others black, so some were born +slaves and others freemen and citizens; some were born patricians, +others plebeians; some were born feudal nobles, others commoners and +_roturiers_. A slave or serf could never make himself free, nor, +except by the will of his master, become so. In most European +countries it was not till towards the close of the middle ages, and +as a consequence of the growth of regal power, that commoners could +be ennobled. Even among nobles, the eldest son was born the exclusive +heir to the paternal possessions, and a long time elapsed before it +was fully established that the father could disinherit him. Among the +industrious classes, only those who were born members of a guild, or +were admitted into it by its members, could lawfully practise their +calling within its local limits; and nobody could practise any +calling deemed important, in any but the legal manner--by processes +authoritatively prescribed. Manufacturers have stood in the pillory +for presuming to carry on their business by new and improved methods. +In modern Europe, and most in those parts of it which have +participated most largely in all other modern improvements, +diametrically opposite doctrines now prevail. Law and government do +not undertake to prescribe by whom any social or industrial operation +shall or shall not be conducted, or what modes of conducting them +shall be lawful. These things are left to the unfettered choice of +individuals. Even the laws which required that workmen should serve +an apprenticeship, have in this country been repealed: there being +ample assurance that in all cases in which an apprenticeship is +necessary, its necessity will suffice to enforce it. The old theory +was, that the least possible should be left to the choice of the +individual agent; that all he had to do should, as far as +practicable, be laid down for him by superior wisdom. Left to himself +he was sure to go wrong. The modern conviction, the fruit of a +thousand years of experience, is, that things in which the individual +is the person directly interested, never go right but as they are +left to his own discretion; and that any regulation of them by +authority, except to protect the rights of others, is sure to be +mischievous. This conclusion, slowly arrived at, and not adopted +until almost every possible application of the contrary theory had +been made with disastrous result, now (in the industrial department) +prevails universally in the most advanced countries, almost +universally in all that have pretensions to any sort of advancement. +It is not that all processes are supposed to be equally good, or all +persons to be equally qualified for everything; but that freedom of +individual choice is now known to be the only thing which procures +the adoption of the best processes, and throws each operation into +the hands of those who are best qualified for it. Nobody thinks it +necessary to make a law that only a strong-armed man shall be a +blacksmith. Freedom and competition suffice to make blacksmiths +strong-armed men, because the weak-armed can earn more by engaging in +occupations for which they are more fit. In consonance with this +doctrine, it is felt to be an overstepping of the proper bounds of +authority to fix beforehand, on some general presumption, that +certain persons are not fit to do certain things. It is now +thoroughly known and admitted that if some such presumptions exist, +no such presumption is infallible. Even if it be well grounded in a +majority of cases, which it is very likely not to be, there will be a +minority of exceptional cases in which it does not hold: and in those +it is both an injustice to the individuals, and a detriment to +society, to place barriers in the way of their using their faculties +for their own benefit and for that of others. In the cases, on the +other hand, in which the unfitness is real, the ordinary motives of +human conduct will on the whole suffice to prevent the incompetent +person from making, or from persisting in, the attempt. + +If this general principle of social and economical science is not +true; if individuals, with such help as they can derive from the +opinion of those who know them, are not better judges than the law +and the government, of their own capacities and vocation; the world +cannot too soon abandon this principle, and return to the old system +of regulations and disabilities. But if the principle is true, we +ought to act as if we believed it, and not to ordain that to be born +a girl instead of a boy, any more than to be born black instead of +white, or a commoner instead of a nobleman, shall decide the person's +position through all life--shall interdict people from all the more +elevated social positions, and from all, except a few, respectable +occupations. Even were we to admit the utmost that is ever pretended +as to the superior fitness of men for all the functions now reserved +to them, the same argument applies which forbids a legal +qualification for members of Parliament. If only once in a dozen +years the conditions of eligibility exclude a fit person, there is a +real loss, while the exclusion of thousands of unfit persons is no +gain; for if the constitution of the electoral body disposes them to +choose unfit persons, there are always plenty of such persons to +choose from. In all things of any difficulty and importance, those +who can do them well are fewer than the need, even with the most +unrestricted latitude of choice: and any limitation of the field of +selection deprives society of some chances of being served by the +competent, without ever saving it from the incompetent. + +At present, in the more improved countries, the disabilities of women +are the only case, save one, in which laws and institutions take +persons at their birth, and ordain that they shall never in all their +lives be allowed to compete for certain things. The one exception is +that of royalty. Persons still are born to the throne; no one, not of +the reigning family, can ever occupy it, and no one even of that +family can, by any means but the course of hereditary succession, +attain it. All other dignities and social advantages are open to the +whole male sex: many indeed are only attainable by wealth, but wealth +may be striven for by any one, and is actually obtained by many men +of the very humblest origin. The difficulties, to the majority, are +indeed insuperable without the aid of fortunate accidents; but no +male human being is under any legal ban: neither law nor opinion +superadd artificial obstacles to the natural ones. Royalty, as I have +said, is excepted: but in this case every one feels it to be an +exception--an anomaly in the modern world, in marked opposition to +its customs and principles, and to be justified only by extraordinary +special expediencies, which, though individuals and nations differ in +estimating their weight, unquestionably do in fact exist. But in this +exceptional case, in which a high social function is, for important +reasons, bestowed on birth instead of being put up to competition, +all free nations contrive to adhere in substance to the principle +from which they nominally derogate; for they circumscribe this high +function by conditions avowedly intended to prevent the person to +whom it ostensibly belongs from really performing it; while the +person by whom it is performed, the responsible minister, does obtain +the post by a competition from which no full-grown citizen of the +male sex is legally excluded. The disabilities, therefore, to which +women are subject from the mere fact of their birth, are the solitary +examples of the kind in modern legislation. In no instance except +this, which comprehends half the human race, are the higher social +functions closed against any one by a fatality of birth which no +exertions, and no change of circumstances, can overcome; for even +religious disabilities (besides that in England and in Europe they +have practically almost ceased to exist) do not close any career to +the disqualified person in case of conversion. + +The social subordination of women thus stands out an isolated fact in +modern social institutions; a solitary breach of what has become +their fundamental law; a single relic of an old world of thought and +practice exploded in everything else, but retained in the one thing +of most universal interest; as if a gigantic dolmen, or a vast temple +of Jupiter Olympius, occupied the site of St. Paul's and received +daily worship, while the surrounding Christian churches were only +resorted to on fasts and festivals. This entire discrepancy between +one social fact and all those which accompany it, and the radical +opposition between its nature and the progressive movement which is +the boast of the modern world, and which has successively swept away +everything else of an analogous character, surely affords, to a +conscientious observer of human tendencies, serious matter for +reflection. It raises a prim facie presumption on the unfavourable +side, far outweighing any which custom and usage could in such +circumstances create on the favourable; and should at least suffice +to make this, like the choice between republicanism and royalty, a +balanced question. + +The least that can be demanded is, that the question should not be +considered as prejudged by existing fact and existing opinion, but +open to discussion on its merits, as a question of justice and +expediency: the decision on this, as on any of the other social +arrangements of mankind, depending on what an enlightened estimate of +tendencies and consequences may show to be most advantageous to +humanity in general, without distinction of sex. And the discussion +must be a real discussion, descending to foundations, and not resting +satisfied with vague and general assertions. It will not do, for +instance, to assert in general terms, that the experience of mankind +has pronounced in favour of the existing system. Experience cannot +possibly have decided between two courses, so long as there has only +been experience of one. If it be said that the doctrine of the +equality of the sexes rests only on theory, it must be remembered +that the contrary doctrine also has only theory to rest upon. All +that is proved in its favour by direct experience, is that mankind +have been able to exist under it, and to attain the degree of +improvement and prosperity which we now see; but whether that +prosperity has been attained sooner, or is now greater, than it would +have been under the other system, experience does not say. On the +other hand, experience does say, that every step in improvement has +been so invariably accompanied by a step made in raising the social +position of women, that historians and philosophers have been led to +adopt their elevation or debasement as on the whole the surest test +and most correct measure of the civilization of a people or an age. +Through all the progressive period of human history, the condition of +women has been approaching nearer to equality with men. This does not +of itself prove that the assimilation must go on to complete +equality; but it assuredly affords some presumption that such is the +case. + +Neither does it avail anything to say that the _nature_ of the two +sexes adapts them to their present functions and position, and +renders these appropriate to them. Standing on the ground of common +sense and the constitution of the human mind, I deny that any one +knows, or can know, the nature of the two sexes, as long as they have +only been seen in their present relation to one another. If men had +ever been found in society without women, or women without men, or if +there had been a society of men and women in which the women were not +under the control of the men, something might have been positively +known about the mental and moral differences which may be inherent in +the nature of each. What is now called the nature of women is an +eminently artificial thing--the result of forced repression in some +directions, unnatural stimulation in others. It may be asserted +without scruple, that no other class of dependents have had their +character so entirely distorted from its natural proportions by their +relation with their masters; for, if conquered and slave races have +been, in some respects, more forcibly repressed, whatever in them has +not been crushed down by an iron heel has generally been let alone, +and if left with any liberty of development, it has developed itself +according to its own laws; but in the case of women, a hot-house and +stove cultivation has always been carried on of some of the +capabilities of their nature, for the benefit and pleasure of their +masters. Then, because certain products of the general vital force +sprout luxuriantly and reach a great development in this heated +atmosphere and under this active nurture and watering, while other +shoots from the same root, which are left outside in the wintry air, +with ice purposely heaped all round them, have a stunted growth, and +some are burnt off with fire and disappear; men, with that inability +to recognise their own work which distinguishes the unanalytic mind, +indolently believe that the tree grows of itself in the way they have +made it grow, and that it would die if one half of it were not kept +in a vapour bath and the other half in the snow. + +Of all difficulties which impede the progress of thought, and the +formation of well-grounded opinions on life and social arrangements, +the greatest is now the unspeakable ignorance and inattention of +mankind in respect to the influences which form human character. +Whatever any portion of the human species now are, or seem to be, +such, it is supposed, they have a natural tendency to be: even when +the most elementary knowledge of the circumstances in which they have +been placed, clearly points out the causes that made them what they +are. Because a cottier deeply in arrears to his landlord is not +industrious, there are people who think that the Irish are naturally +idle. Because constitutions can be overthrown when the authorities +appointed to execute them turn their arms against them, there are +people who think the French incapable of free government. Because the +Greeks cheated the Turks, and the Turks only plundered the Greeks, +there are persons who think that the Turks are naturally more +sincere: and because women, as is often said, care nothing about +politics except their personalities, it is supposed that the general +good is naturally less interesting to women than to men. History, +which is now so much better understood than formerly, teaches another +lesson: if only by showing the extraordinary susceptibility of human +nature to external influences, and the extreme variableness of those +of its manifestations which are supposed to be most universal and +uniform. But in history, as in travelling, men usually see only what +they already had in their own minds; and few learn much from history, +who do not bring much with them to its study. + +Hence, in regard to that most difficult question, what are the +natural differences between the two sexes--a subject on which it is +impossible in the present state of society to obtain complete and +correct knowledge--while almost everybody dogmatizes upon it, almost +all neglect and make light of the only means by which any partial +insight can be obtained into it. This is, an analytic study of the +most important department of psychology, the laws of the influence of +circumstances on character. For, however great and apparently +ineradicable the moral and intellectual differences between men and +women might be, the evidence of their being natural differences could +only be negative. Those only could be inferred to be natural which +could not possibly be artificial--the residuum, after deducting every +characteristic of either sex which can admit of being explained from +education or external circumstances. The profoundest knowledge of the +laws of the formation of character is indispensable to entitle any +one to affirm even that there is any difference, much more what the +difference is, between the two sexes considered as moral and rational +beings; and since no one, as yet, has that knowledge, (for there is +hardly any subject which, in proportion to its importance, has been +so little studied), no one is thus far entitled to any positive +opinion on the subject. Conjectures are all that can at present be +made; conjectures more or less probable, according as more or less +authorized by such knowledge as we yet have of the laws of +psychology, as applied to the formation of character. + +Even the preliminary knowledge, what the differences between the +sexes now are, apart from all question as to how they are made what +they are, is still in the crudest and most incomplete state. Medical +practitioners and physiologists have ascertained, to some extent, the +differences in bodily constitution; and this is an important element +to the psychologist: but hardly any medical practitioner is a +psychologist. Respecting the mental characteristics of women; their +observations are of no more worth than those of common men. It is a +subject on which nothing final can be known, so long as those who +alone can really know it, women themselves, have given but little +testimony, and that little, mostly suborned. It is easy to know +stupid women. Stupidity is much the same all the world over. A stupid +person's notions and feelings may confidently be inferred from those +which prevail in the circle by which the person is surrounded. Not so +with those whose opinions and feelings are an emanation from their +own nature and faculties. It is only a man here and there who has any +tolerable knowledge of the character even of the women of his own +family. I do not mean, of their capabilities; these nobody knows, not +even themselves, because most of them have never been called out. I +mean their actually existing thoughts and feelings. Many a man thinks +he perfectly understands women, because he has had amatory relations +with several, perhaps with many of them. If he is a good observer, +and his experience extends to quality as well as quantity, he may +have learnt something of one narrow department of their nature--an +important department, no doubt. But of all the rest of it, few +persons are generally more ignorant, because there are few from whom +it is so carefully hidden. The most favourable case which a man can +generally have for studying the character of a woman, is that of his +own wife: for the opportunities are greater, and the cases of +complete sympathy not so unspeakably rare. And in fact, this is the +source from which any knowledge worth having on the subject has, I +believe, generally come. But most men have not had the opportunity of +studying in this way more than a single case: accordingly one can, to +an almost laughable degree, infer what a man's wife is like, from his +opinions about women in general. To make even this one case yield any +result, the woman must be worth knowing, and the man not only a +competent judge, but of a character so sympathetic in itself, and so +well adapted to hers, that he can either read her mind by sympathetic +intuition, or has nothing in himself which makes her shy of +disclosing it. Hardly anything, I believe, can be more rare than this +conjunction. It often happens that there is the most complete unity +of feeling and community of interests as to all external things, yet +the one has as little admission into the internal life of the other +as if they were common acquaintance. Even with true affection, +authority on the one side and subordination on the other prevent +perfect confidence. Though nothing may be intentionally withheld, +much is not shown. In the analogous relation of parent and child, the +corresponding phenomenon must have been in the observation of every +one. As between father and son, how many are the cases in which the +father, in spite of real affection on both sides, obviously to all +the world does not know, nor suspect, parts of the son's character +familiar to his companions and equals. The truth is, that the +position of looking up to another is extremely unpropitious to +complete sincerity and openness with him. The fear of losing ground +in his opinion or in his feelings is so strong, that even in an +upright character, there is an unconscious tendency to show only the +best side, or the side which, though not the best, is that which he +most likes to see: and it may be confidently said that thorough +knowledge of one another hardly ever exists, but between persons who, +besides being intimates, are equals. How much more true, then, must +all this be, when the one is not only under the authority of the +other, but has it inculcated on her as a duty to reckon everything +else subordinate to his comfort and pleasure, and to let him neither +see nor feel anything coming from her, except what is agreeable to +him. All these difficulties stand in the way of a man's obtaining any +thorough knowledge even of the one woman whom alone, in general, he +has sufficient opportunity of studying. When we further consider that +to understand one woman is not necessarily to understand any other +woman; that even if he could study many women of one rank, or of one +country, he would not thereby understand women of other ranks or +countries; and even if he did, they are still only the women of a +single period of history; we may safely assert that the knowledge +which men can acquire of women, even as they have been and are, +without reference to what they might be, is wretchedly imperfect and +superficial, and always will be so, until women themselves have told +all that they have to tell. + +And this time has not come; nor will it come otherwise than +gradually. It is but of yesterday that women have either been +qualified by literary accomplishments, or permitted by society, to +tell anything to the general public. As yet very few of them dare +tell anything, which men, on whom their literary success depends, are +unwilling to hear. Let us remember in what manner, up to a very +recent time, the expression, even by a male author, of uncustomary +opinions, or what are deemed eccentric feelings, usually was, and in +some degree still is, received; and we may form some faint conception +under what impediments a woman, who is brought up to think custom and +opinion her sovereign rule, attempts to express in books anything +drawn from the depths of her own nature. The greatest woman who has +left writings behind her sufficient to give her an eminent rank in +the literature of her country, thought it necessary to prefix as a +motto to her boldest work, "Un homme peut braver l'opinion; une femme +doit s'y soumettre."[1] The greater part of what women write about +women is mere sycophancy to men. In the case of unmarried women, much +of it seems only intended to increase their chance of a husband. +Many, both married and unmarried, overstep the mark, and inculcate a +servility beyond what is desired or relished by any man, except the +very vulgarest. But this is not so often the case as, even at a quite +late period, it still was. Literary women are becoming more +freespoken, and more willing to express their real sentiments. +Unfortunately, in this country especially, they are themselves such +artificial products, that their sentiments are compounded of a small +element of individual observation and consciousness, and a very large +one of acquired associations. This will be less and less the case, +but it will remain true to a great extent, as long as social +institutions do not admit the same free development of originality in +women which is possible to men. When that time comes, and not before, +we shall see, and not merely hear, as much as it is necessary to know +of the nature of women, and the adaptation of other things to it. + +I have dwelt so much on the difficulties which at present obstruct +any real knowledge by men of the true nature of women, because in +this as in so many other things "opinio copi inter maximas causas +inopi est;" and there is little chance of reasonable thinking on the +matter, while people flatter themselves that they perfectly +understand a subject of which most men know absolutely nothing, and +of which it is at present impossible that any man, or all men taken +together, should have knowledge which can qualify them to lay down +the law to women as to what is, or is not, their vocation. Happily, +no such knowledge is necessary for any practical purpose connected +with the position of women in relation to society and life. For, +according to all the principles involved in modern society, the +question rests with women themselves--to be decided by their own +experience, and by the use of their own faculties. There are no means +of finding what either one person or many can do, but by trying--and +no means by which any one else can discover for them what it is for +their happiness to do or leave undone. + +One thing we may be certain of--that what is contrary to women's +nature to do, they never will be made to do by simply giving their +nature free play. The anxiety of mankind to interfere in behalf of +nature, for fear lest nature should not succeed in effecting its +purpose, is an altogether unnecessary solicitude. What women by +nature cannot do, it is quite superfluous to forbid them from doing. +What they can do, but not so well as the men who are their +competitors, competition suffices to exclude them from; since nobody +asks for protective duties and bounties in favour of women; it is +only asked that the present bounties and protective duties in favour +of men should be recalled. If women have a greater natural +inclination for some things than for others, there is no need of laws +or social inculcation to make the majority of them do the former in +preference to the latter. Whatever women's services are most wanted +for, the free play of competition will hold out the strongest +inducements to them to undertake. And, as the words imply, they are +most wanted for the things for which they are most fit; by the +apportionment of which to them, the collective faculties of the two +sexes can be applied on the whole with the greatest sum of valuable +result. + +The general opinion of men is supposed to be, that the natural +vocation of a woman is that of a wife and mother. I say, is supposed +to be, because, judging from acts--from the whole of the present +constitution of society--one might infer that their opinion was the +direct contrary. They might be supposed to think that the alleged +natural vocation of women was of all things the most repugnant to +their nature; insomuch that if they are free to do anything else--if +any other means of living, or occupation of their time and faculties, +is open, which has any chance of appearing desirable to them--there +will not be enough of them who will be willing to accept the +condition said to be natural to them. If this is the real opinion of +men in general, it would be well that it should be spoken out. I +should like to hear somebody openly enunciating the doctrine (it is +already implied in much that is written on the subject)--"It is +necessary to society that women should marry and produce children. +They will not do so unless they are compelled. Therefore it is +necessary to compel them." The merits of the case would then be +clearly defined. It would be exactly that of the slaveholders of +South Carolina and Louisiana. "It is necessary that cotton and sugar +should be grown. White men cannot produce them. Negroes will not, for +any wages which we choose to give. _Ergo_ they must be compelled." An +illustration still closer to the point is that of impressment. +Sailors must absolutely be had to defend the country. It often +happens that they will not voluntarily enlist. Therefore there must +be the power of forcing them. How often has this logic been used! +and, but for one flaw in it, without doubt it would have been +successful up to this day. But it is open to the retort--First pay +the sailors the honest value of their labour. When you have made it +as well worth their while to serve you, as to work for other +employers, you will have no more difficulty than others have in +obtaining their services. To this there is no logical answer except +"I will not:" and as people are now not only ashamed, but are not +desirous, to rob the labourer of his hire, impressment is no longer +advocated. Those who attempt to force women into marriage by closing +all other doors against them, lay themselves open to a similar +retort. If they mean what they say, their opinion must evidently be, +that men do not render the married condition so desirable to women, +as to induce them to accept it for its own recommendations. It is not +a sign of one's thinking the boon one offers very attractive, when +one allows only Hobson's choice, "that or none." And here, I believe, +is the clue to the feelings of those men, who have a real antipathy +to the equal freedom of women. I believe they are afraid, not lest +women should be unwilling to marry, for I do not think that any one +in reality has that apprehension; but lest they should insist that +marriage should be on equal conditions; lest all women of spirit and +capacity should prefer doing almost anything else, not in their own +eyes degrading, rather than marry, when marrying is giving themselves +a master, and a master too of all their earthly possessions. And +truly, if this consequence were necessarily incident to marriage, I +think that the apprehension would be very well founded. I agree in +thinking it probable that few women, capable of anything else, would, +unless under an irresistible _entrainement_, rendering them for the +time insensible to anything but itself, choose such a lot, when any +other means were open to them of filling a conventionally honourable +place in life: and if men are determined that the law of marriage +shall be a law of despotism, they are quite right, in point of mere +policy, in leaving to women only Hobson's choice. But, in that case, +all that has been done in the modern world to relax the chain on the +minds of women, has been a mistake. They never should have been +allowed to receive a literary education. Women who read, much more +women who write, are, in the existing constitution of things, a +contradiction and a disturbing element: and it was wrong to bring +women up with any acquirements but those of an odalisque, or of a +domestic servant. + +[Footnote 1: Title-page of Mme. de Stael's "Delphine."] + + + + +CHAPTER II. + + +It will be well to commence the detailed discussion of the subject by +the particular branch of it to which the course of our observations +has led us: the conditions which the laws of this and all other +countries annex to the marriage contract. Marriage being the +destination appointed by society for women, the prospect they are +brought up to, and the object which it is intended should be sought +by all of them, except those who are too little attractive to be +chosen by any man as his companion; one might have supposed that +everything would have been done to make this condition as eligible to +them as possible, that they might have no cause to regret being +denied the option of any other. Society, however, both in this, and, +at first, in all other cases, has preferred to attain its object by +foul rather than fair means: but this is the only case in which it +has substantially persisted in them even to the present day. +Originally women were taken by force, or regularly sold by their +father to the husband. Until a late period in European history, the +father had the power to dispose of his daughter in marriage at his +own will and pleasure, without any regard to hers. The Church, +indeed, was so far faithful to a better morality as to require a +formal "yes" from the woman at the marriage ceremony; but there was +nothing to shew that the consent was other than compulsory; and it +was practically impossible for the girl to refuse compliance if the +father persevered, except perhaps when she might obtain the +protection of religion by a determined resolution to take monastic +vows. After marriage, the man had anciently (but this was anterior to +Christianity) the power of life and death over his wife. She could +invoke no law against him; he was her sole tribunal and law. For a +long time he could repudiate her, but she had no corresponding power +in regard to him. By the old laws of England, the husband was called +the _lord_ of the wife; he was literally regarded as her sovereign, +inasmuch that the murder of a man by his wife was called treason +(_petty_ as distinguished from _high_ treason), and was more cruelly +avenged than was usually the case with high treason, for the penalty +was burning to death. Because these various enormities have fallen +into disuse (for most of them were never formally abolished, or not +until they had long ceased to be practised) men suppose that all is +now as it should be in regard to the marriage contract; and we are +continually told that civilization and Christianity have restored to +the woman her just rights. Meanwhile the wife is the actual +bond-servant of her husband: no less so, as far as legal obligation +goes, than slaves commonly so called. She vows a lifelong obedience +to him at the altar, and is held to it all through her life by law. +Casuists may say that the obligation of obedience stops short of +participation in crime, but it certainly extends to everything else. +She can do no act whatever but by his permission, at least tacit. She +can acquire no property but for him; the instant it becomes hers, +even if by inheritance, it becomes _ipso facto_ his. In this respect +the wife's position under the common law of England is worse than +that of slaves in the laws of many countries: by the Roman law, for +example, a slave might have his peculium, which to a certain extent +the law guaranteed to him for his exclusive use. The higher classes +in this country have given an analogous advantage to their women, +through special contracts setting aside the law, by conditions of +pin-money, &c.: since parental feeling being stronger with fathers +than the class feeling of their own sex, a father generally prefers +his own daughter to a son-in-law who is a stranger to him. By means +of settlements, the rich usually contrive to withdraw the whole or +part of the inherited property of the wife from the absolute control +of the husband: but they do not succeed in keeping it under her own +control; the utmost they can do only prevents the husband from +squandering it, at the same time debarring the rightful owner from +its use. The property itself is out of the reach of both; and as to +the income derived from it, the form of settlement most favourable to +the wife (that called "to her separate use") only precludes the +husband from receiving it instead of her: it must pass through her +hands, but if he takes it from her by personal violence as soon as +she receives it, he can neither be punished, nor compelled to +restitution. This is the amount of the protection which, under the +laws of this country, the most powerful nobleman can give to his own +daughter as respects her husband. In the immense majority of cases +there is no settlement: and the absorption of all rights, all +property, as well as all freedom of action, is complete. The two are +called "one person in law," for the purpose of inferring that +whatever is hers is his, but the parallel inference is never drawn +that whatever is his is hers; the maxim is not applied against the +man, except to make him responsible to third parties for her acts, as +a master is for the acts of his slaves or of his cattle. I am far +from pretending that wives are in general no better treated than +slaves; but no slave is a slave to the same lengths, and in so full a +sense of the word, as a wife is. Hardly any slave, except one +immediately attached to the master's person, is a slave at all hours +and all minutes; in general he has, like a soldier, his fixed task, +and when it is done, or when he is off duty, he disposes, within +certain limits, of his own time, and has a family life into which the +master rarely intrudes. "Uncle Tom" under his first master had his +own life in his "cabin," almost as much as any man whose work takes +him away from home, is able to have in his own family. But it cannot +be so with the wife. Above all, a female slave has (in Christian +countries) an admitted right, and is considered under a moral +obligation, to refuse to her master the last familiarity. Not so the +wife: however brutal a tyrant she may unfortunately be chained +to--though she may know that he hates her, though it may be his daily +pleasure to torture her, and though she may feel it impossible not to +loathe him--he can claim from her and enforce the lowest degradation +of a human being, that of being made the instrument of an animal +function contrary to her inclinations. While she is held in this +worst description of slavery as to her own person, what is her +position in regard to the children in whom she and her master have a +joint interest? They are by law _his_ children. He alone has any +legal rights over them. Not one act can she do towards or in relation +to them, except by delegation from him. Even after he is dead she is +not their legal guardian, unless he by will has made her so. He could +even send them away from her, and deprive her of the means of seeing +or corresponding with them, until this power was in some degree +restricted by Serjeant Talfourd's Act. This is her legal state. And +from this state she has no means of withdrawing herself. If she +leaves her husband, she can take nothing with her, neither her +children nor anything which is rightfully her own. If he chooses, he +can compel her to return, by law, or by physical force; or he may +content himself with seizing for his own use anything which she may +earn, or which may be given to her by her relations. It is only legal +separation by a decree of a court of justice, which entitles her to +live apart, without being forced back into the custody of an +exasperated jailer--or which empowers her to apply any earnings to +her own use, without fear that a man whom perhaps she has not seen +for twenty years will pounce upon her some day and carry all off. +This legal separation, until lately, the courts of justice would only +give at an expense which made it inaccessible to any one out of the +higher ranks. Even now it is only given in cases of desertion, or of +the extreme of cruelty; and yet complaints are made every day that it +is granted too easily. Surely, if a woman is denied any lot in life +but that of being the personal body-servant of a despot, and is +dependent for everything upon the chance of finding one who may be +disposed to make a favourite of her instead of merely a drudge, it is +a very cruel aggravation of her fate that she should be allowed to +try this chance only once. The natural sequel and corollary from this +state of things would be, that since her all in life depends upon +obtaining a good master, she should be allowed to change again and +again until she finds one. I am not saying that she ought to be +allowed this privilege. That is a totally different consideration. +The question of divorce, in the sense involving liberty of +remarriage, is one into which it is foreign to my purpose to enter. +All I now say is, that to those to whom nothing but servitude is +allowed, the free choice of servitude is the only, though a most +insufficient, alleviation. Its refusal completes the assimilation of +the wife to the slave--and the slave under not the mildest form of +slavery: for in some slave codes the slave could, under certain +circumstances of ill usage, legally compel the master to sell him. +But no amount of ill usage, without adultery superadded, will in +England free a wife from her tormentor. + +I have no desire to exaggerate, nor does the case stand in any need +of exaggeration. I have described the wife's legal position, not her +actual treatment. The laws of most countries are far worse than the +people who execute them, and many of them are only able to remain +laws by being seldom or never carried into effect. If married life +were all that it might be expected to be, looking to the laws alone, +society would be a hell upon earth. Happily there are both feelings +and interests which in many men exclude, and in most, greatly temper, +the impulses and propensities which lead to tyranny: and of those +feelings, the tie which connects a man with his wife affords, in a +normal state of things, incomparably the strongest example. The only +tie which at all approaches to it, that between him and his children, +tends, in all save exceptional cases, to strengthen, instead of +conflicting with, the first. Because this is true; because men in +general do not inflict, nor women suffer, all the misery which could +be inflicted and suffered if the full power of tyranny with which the +man is legally invested were acted on; the defenders of the existing +form of the institution think that all its iniquity is justified, and +that any complaint is merely quarrelling with the evil which is the +price paid for every great good. But the mitigations in practice, +which are compatible with maintaining in full legal force this or any +other kind of tyranny, instead of being any apology for despotism, +only serve to prove what power human nature possesses of reacting +against the vilest institutions, and with what vitality the seeds of +good as well as those of evil in human character diffuse and +propagate themselves. Not a word can be said for despotism in the +family which cannot be said for political despotism. Every absolute +king does not sit at his window to enjoy the groans of his tortured +subjects, nor strips them of their last rag and turns them out to +shiver in the road. The despotism of Louis XVI. was not the despotism +of Philippe le Bel, or of Nadir Shah, or of Caligula; but it was bad +enough to justify the French Revolution, and to palliate even its +horrors. If an appeal be made to the intense attachments which exist +between wives and their husbands, exactly as much may be said of +domestic slavery. It was quite an ordinary fact in Greece and Rome +for slaves to submit to death by torture rather than betray their +masters. In the proscriptions of the Roman civil wars it was remarked +that wives and slaves were heroically faithful, sons very commonly +treacherous. Yet we know how cruelly many Romans treated their +slaves. But in truth these intense individual feelings nowhere rise +to such a luxuriant height as under the most atrocious institutions. +It is part of the irony of life, that the strongest feelings of +devoted gratitude of which human nature seems to be susceptible, are +called forth in human beings towards those who, having the power +entirely to crush their earthly existence, voluntarily refrain from +using that power. How great a place in most men this sentiment fills, +even in religious devotion, it would be cruel to inquire. We daily +see how much their gratitude to Heaven appears to be stimulated by +the contemplation of fellow-creatures to whom God has not been so +merciful as he has to themselves. + +Whether the institution to be defended is slavery, political +absolutism, or the absolutism of the head of a family, we are always +expected to judge of it from its best instances; and we are presented +with pictures of loving exercise of authority on one side, loving +submission to it on the other--superior wisdom ordering all things +for the greatest good of the dependents, and surrounded by their +smiles and benedictions. All this would be very much to the purpose +if any one pretended that there are no such things as good men. Who +doubts that there may be great goodness, and great happiness, and +great affection, under the absolute government of a good man? +Meanwhile, laws and institutions require to be adapted, not to good +men, but to bad. Marriage is not an institution designed for a select +few. Men are not required, as a preliminary to the marriage ceremony, +to prove by testimonials that they are fit to be trusted with the +exercise of absolute power. The tie of affection and obligation to a +wife and children is very strong with those whose general social +feelings are strong, and with many who are little sensible to any +other social ties; but there are all degrees of sensibility and +insensibility to it, as there are all grades of goodness and +wickedness in men, down to those whom no ties will bind, and on whom +society has no action but through its _ultima ratio_, the penalties +of the law. In every grade of this descending scale are men to whom +are committed all the legal powers of a husband. The vilest +malefactor has some wretched woman tied to him, against whom he can +commit any atrocity except killing her, and, if tolerably cautious, +can do that without much danger of the legal penalty. And how many +thousands are there among the lowest classes in every country, who, +without being in a legal sense malefactors in any other respect, +because in every other quarter their aggressions meet with +resistance, indulge the utmost habitual excesses of bodily violence +towards the unhappy wife, who alone, at least of grown persons, can +neither repel nor escape from their brutality; and towards whom the +excess of dependence inspires their mean and savage natures, not with +a generous forbearance, and a point of honour to behave well to one +whose lot in life is trusted entirely to their kindness, but on the +contrary with a notion that the law has delivered her to them as +their thing, to be used at their pleasure, and that they are not +expected to practise the consideration towards her which is required +from them towards everybody else. The law, which till lately left +even these atrocious extremes of domestic oppression practically +unpunished, has within these few years made some feeble attempts to +repress them. But its attempts have done little, and cannot be +expected to do much, because it is contrary to reason and experience +to suppose that there can be any real check to brutality, consistent +with leaving the victim still in the power of the executioner. Until +a conviction for personal violence, or at all events a repetition of +it after a first conviction, entitles the woman _ipso facto_ to a +divorce, or at least to a judicial separation, the attempt to repress +these "aggravated assaults" by legal penalties will break down for +want of a prosecutor, or for want of a witness. + +When we consider how vast is the number of men, in any great country, +who are little higher than brutes, and that this never prevents them +from being able, through the law of marriage, to obtain a victim, the +breadth and depth of human misery caused in this shape alone by the +abuse of the institution swells to something appalling. Yet these are +only the extreme cases. They are the lowest abysses, but there is a +sad succession of depth after depth before reaching them. In domestic +as in political tyranny, the case of absolute monsters chiefly +illustrates the institution by showing that there is scarcely any +horror which may not occur under it if the despot pleases, and thus +setting in a strong light what must be the terrible frequency of +things only a little less atrocious. Absolute fiends are as rare as +angels, perhaps rarer: ferocious savages, with occasional touches of +humanity, are however very frequent: and in the wide interval which +separates these from any worthy representatives of the human species, +how many are the forms and gradations of animalism and selfishness, +often under an outward varnish of civilization and even cultivation, +living at peace with the law, maintaining a creditable appearance to +all who are not under their power, yet sufficient often to make the +lives of all who are so, a torment and a burthen to them! It would be +tiresome to repeat the commonplaces about the unfitness of men in +general for power, which, after the political discussions of +centuries, every one knows by heart, were it not that hardly any one +thinks of applying these maxims to the case in which above all others +they are applicable, that of power, not placed in the hands of a man +here and there, but offered to every adult male, down to the basest +and most ferocious. It is not because a man is not known to have +broken any of the Ten Commandments, or because he maintains a +respectable character in his dealings with those whom he cannot +compel to have intercourse with him, or because he does not fly out +into violent bursts of ill-temper against those who are not obliged +to bear with him, that it is possible to surmise of what sort his +conduct will be in the unrestraint of home. Even the commonest men +reserve the violent, the sulky, the undisguisedly selfish side of +their character for those who have no power to withstand it. The +relation of superiors to dependents is the nursery of these vices of +character, which, wherever else they exist, are an overflowing from +that source. A man who is morose or violent to his equals, is sure to +be one who has lived among inferiors, whom he could frighten or worry +into submission. If the family in its best forms is, as it is often +said to be, a school of sympathy, tenderness, and loving +forgetfulness of self, it is still oftener, as respects its chief, a +school of wilfulness, overbearingness, unbounded self-indulgence, and +a double-dyed and idealized selfishness, of which sacrifice itself is +only a particular form: the care for the wife and children being only +care for them as parts of the man's own interests and belongings, and +their individual happiness being immolated in every shape to his +smallest preferences. What better is to be looked for under the +existing form of the institution? We know that the bad propensities +of human nature are only kept within bounds when they are allowed no +scope for their indulgence. We know that from impulse and habit, when +not from deliberate purpose, almost every one to whom others yield, +goes on encroaching upon them, until a point is reached at which they +are compelled to resist. Such being the common tendency of human +nature; the almost unlimited power which present social institutions +give to the man over at least one human being--the one with whom he +resides, and whom he has always present--this power seeks out and +evokes the latent germs of selfishness in the remotest corners of his +nature--fans its faintest sparks and smouldering embers--offers to +him a license for the indulgence of those points of his original +character which in all other relations he would have found it +necessary to repress and conceal, and the repression of which would +in time have become a second nature. I know that there is another +side to the question. I grant that the wife, if she cannot +effectually resist, can at least retaliate; she, too, can make the +man's life extremely uncomfortable, and by that power is able to +carry many points which she ought, and many which she ought not, to +prevail in. But this instrument of self-protection--which may be +called the power of the scold, or the shrewish sanction--has the +fatal defect, that it avails most against the least tyrannical +superiors, and in favour of the least deserving dependents. It is the +weapon of irritable and self-willed women; of those who would make +the worst use of power if they themselves had it, and who generally +turn this power to a bad use. The amiable cannot use such an +instrument, the highminded disdain it. And on the other hand, the +husbands against whom it is used most effectively are the gentler and +more inoffensive; those who cannot be induced, even by provocation, +to resort to any very harsh exercise of authority. The wife's power +of being disagreeable generally only establishes a counter-tyranny, +and makes victims in their turn chiefly of those husbands who are +least inclined to be tyrants. + +What is it, then, which really tempers the corrupting effects of the +power, and makes it compatible with such amount of good as we +actually see? Mere feminine blandishments, though of great effect in +individual instances, have very little effect in modifying the +general tendencies of the situation; for their power only lasts while +the woman is young and attractive, often only while her charm is new, +and not dimmed by familiarity; and on many men they have not much +influence at any time. The real mitigating causes are, the personal +affection which is the growth of time, in so far as the man's nature +is susceptible of it, and the woman's character sufficiently +congenial with his to excite it; their common interests as regards +the children, and their general community of interest as concerns +third persons (to which however there are very great limitations); +the real importance of the wife to his daily comforts and enjoyments, +and the value he consequently attaches to her on his personal +account, which, in a man capable of feeling for others, lays the +foundation of caring for her on her own; and lastly, the influence +naturally acquired over almost all human beings by those near to +their persons (if not actually disagreeable to them): who, both by +their direct entreaties, and by the insensible contagion of their +feelings and dispositions, are often able, unless counteracted by +some equally strong personal influence, to obtain a degree of command +over the conduct of the superior, altogether excessive and +unreasonable. Through these various means, the wife frequently +exercises even too much power over the man; she is able to affect his +conduct in things in which she may not be qualified to influence it +for good--in which her influence may be not only unenlightened, but +employed on the morally wrong side; and in which he would act better +if left to his own prompting. But neither in the affairs of families +nor in those of states is power a compensation for the loss of +freedom. Her power often gives her what she has no right to, but does +not enable her to assert her own rights. A Sultan's favourite slave +has slaves under her, over whom she tyrannizes; but the desirable +thing would be that she should neither have slaves nor be a slave. By +entirely sinking her own existence in her husband; by having no will +(or persuading him that she has no will) but his, in anything which +regards their joint relation, and by making it the business of her +life to work upon his sentiments, a wife may gratify herself by +influencing, and very probably perverting, his conduct, in those of +his external relations which she has never qualified herself to judge +of, or in which she is herself wholly influenced by some personal or +other partiality or prejudice. Accordingly, as things now are, those +who act most kindly to their wives, are quite as often made worse, as +better, by the wife's influence, in respect to all interests +extending beyond the family. She is taught that she has no business +with things out of that sphere; and accordingly she seldom has any +honest and conscientious opinion on them; and therefore hardly ever +meddles with them for any legitimate purpose, but generally for an +interested one. She neither knows nor cares which is the right side +in politics, but she knows what will bring in money or invitations, +give her husband a title, her son a place, or her daughter a good +marriage. + +But how, it will be asked, can any society exist without government? +In a family, as in a state, some one person must be the ultimate +ruler. Who shall decide when married people differ in opinion? Both +cannot have their way, yet a decision one way or the other must be +come to. + +It is not true that in all voluntary association between two people, +one of them must be absolute master: still less that the law must +determine which of them it shall be. The most frequent case of +voluntary association, next to marriage, is partnership in business: +and it is not found or thought necessary to enact that in every +partnership, one partner shall have entire control over the concern, +and the others shall be bound to obey his orders. No one would enter +into partnership on terms which would subject him to the +responsibilities of a principal, with only the powers and privileges +of a clerk or agent. If the law dealt with other contracts as it does +with marriage, it would ordain that one partner should administer the +common business as if it was his private concern; that the others +should have only delegated powers; and that this one should be +designated by some general presumption of law, for example as being +the eldest. The law never does this: nor does experience show it to +be necessary that any theoretical inequality of power should exist +between the partners, or that the partnership should have any other +conditions than what they may themselves appoint by their articles of +agreement. Yet it might seem that the exclusive power might be +conceded with less danger to the rights and interests of the +inferior, in the case of partnership than in that of marriage, since +he is free to cancel the power by withdrawing from the connexion. The +wife has no such power, and even if she had, it is almost always +desirable that she should try all measures before resorting to it. + +It is quite true that things which have to be decided every day, and +cannot adjust themselves gradually, or wait for a compromise, ought +to depend on one will: one person must have their sole control. But +it does not follow that this should always be the same person. The +natural arrangement is a division of powers between the two; each +being absolute in the executive branch of their own department, and +any change of system and principle requiring the consent of both. The +division neither can nor should be pre-established by the law, since +it must depend on individual capacities and suitabilities. If the two +persons chose, they might pre-appoint it by the marriage contract, as +pecuniary arrangements are now often pre-appointed. There would +seldom be any difficulty in deciding such things by mutual consent, +unless the marriage was one of those unhappy ones in which all other +things, as well as this, become subjects of bickering and dispute. +The division of rights would naturally follow the division of duties +and functions; and that is already made by consent, or at all events +not by law, but by general custom, modified and modifiable at the +pleasure of the persons concerned. + +The real practical decision of affairs, to whichever may be given the +legal authority, will greatly depend, as it even now does, upon +comparative qualifications. The mere fact that he is usually the +eldest, will in most cases give the preponderance to the man; at +least until they both attain a time of life at which the difference +in their years is of no importance. There will naturally also be a +more potential voice on the side, whichever it is, that brings the +means of support. Inequality from this source does not depend on the +law of marriage, but on the general conditions of human society, as +now constituted. The influence of mental superiority, either general +or special, and of superior decision of character, will necessarily +tell for much. It always does so at present. And this fact shows how +little foundation there is for the apprehension that the powers and +responsibilities of partners in life (as of partners in business), +cannot be satisfactorily apportioned by agreement between themselves. +They always are so apportioned, except in cases in which the marriage +institution is a failure. Things never come to an issue of downright +power on one side, and obedience on the other, except where the +connexion altogether has been a mistake, and it would be a blessing +to both parties to be relieved from it. Some may say that the very +thing by which an amicable settlement of differences becomes +possible, is the power of legal compulsion known to be in reserve; as +people submit to an arbitration because there is a court of law in +the background, which they know that they can be forced to obey. But +to make the cases parallel, we must suppose that the rule of the +court of law was, not to try the cause, but to give judgment always +for the same side, suppose the defendant. If so, the amenability to +it would be a motive with the plaintiff to agree to almost any +arbitration, but it would be just the reverse with the defendant. The +despotic power which the law gives to the husband may be a reason to +make the wife assent to any compromise by which power is practically +shared between the two, but it cannot be the reason why the husband +does. That there is always among decently conducted people a +practical compromise, though one of them at least is under no +physical or moral necessity of making it, shows that the natural +motives which lead to a voluntary adjustment of the united life of +two persons in a manner acceptable to both, do on the whole, except +in unfavourable cases, prevail. The matter is certainly not improved +by laying down as an ordinance of law, that the superstructure of +free government shall be raised upon a legal basis of despotism on +one side and subjection on the other, and that every concession which +the despot makes may, at his mere pleasure, and without any warning, +be recalled. Besides that no freedom is worth much when held on so +precarious a tenure, its conditions are not likely to be the most +equitable when the law throws so prodigious a weight into one scale; +when the adjustment rests between two persons one of whom is declared +to be entitled to everything, the other not only entitled to nothing +except during the good pleasure of the first, but under the strongest +moral and religious obligation not to rebel under any excess of +oppression. + +A pertinacious adversary, pushed to extremities, may say, that +husbands indeed are willing to be reasonable, and to make fair +concessions to their partners without being compelled to it, but that +wives are not: that if allowed any rights of their own, they will +acknowledge no rights at all in any one else, and never will yield in +anything, unless they can be compelled, by the man's mere authority, +to yield in everything. This would have been said by many persons +some generations ago, when satires on women were in vogue, and men +thought it a clever thing to insult women for being what men made +them. But it will be said by no one now who is worth replying to. It +is not the doctrine of the present day that women are less +susceptible of good feeling, and consideration for those with whom +they are united by the strongest ties, than men are. On the contrary, +we are perpetually told that women are better than men, by those who +are totally opposed to treating them as if they were as good; so that +the saying has passed into a piece of tiresome cant, intended to put +a complimentary face upon an injury, and resembling those +celebrations of royal clemency which, according to Gulliver, the king +of Lilliput always prefixed to his most sanguinary decrees. If women +are better than men in anything, it surely is in individual +self-sacrifice for those of their own family. But I lay little stress +on this, so long as they are universally taught that they are born +and created for self-sacrifice. I believe that equality of rights +would abate the exaggerated self-abnegation which is the present +artificial ideal of feminine character, and that a good woman would +not be more self-sacrificing than the best man: but on the other +hand, men would be much more unselfish and self-sacrificing than at +present, because they would no longer be taught to worship their own +will as such a grand thing that it is actually the law for another +rational being. There is nothing which men so easily learn as this +self-worship: all privileged persons, and all privileged classes, +have had it. The more we descend in the scale of humanity, the +intenser it is; and most of all in those who are not, and can never +expect to be, raised above any one except an unfortunate wife and +children. The honourable exceptions are proportionally fewer than in +the case of almost any other human infirmity. Philosophy and +religion, instead of keeping it in check, are generally suborned to +defend it; and nothing controls it but that practical feeling of the +equality of human beings, which is the theory of Christianity, but +which Christianity will never practically teach, while it sanctions +institutions grounded on an arbitrary preference of one human being +over another. + +There are, no doubt, women, as there are men, whom equality of +consideration will not satisfy; with whom there is no peace while any +will or wish is regarded but their own. Such persons are a proper +subject for the law of divorce. They are only fit to live alone, and +no human beings ought to be compelled to associate their lives with +them. But the legal subordination tends to make such characters among +women more, rather than less, frequent. If the man exerts his whole +power, the woman is of course crushed: but if she is treated with +indulgence, and permitted to assume power, there is no rule to set +limits to her encroachments. The law, not determining her rights, but +theoretically allowing her none at all, practically declares that the +measure of what she has a right to, is what she can contrive to get. + +The equality of married persons before the law, is not only the sole +mode in which that particular relation can be made consistent with +justice to both sides, and conducive to the happiness of both, but it +is the only means of rendering the daily life of mankind, in any high +sense, a school of moral cultivation. Though the truth may not be +felt or generally acknowledged for generations to come, the only +school of genuine moral sentiment is society between equals. The +moral education of mankind has hitherto emanated chiefly from the law +of force, and is adapted almost solely to the relations which force +creates. In the less advanced states of society, people hardly +recognise any relation with their equals. To be an equal is to be an +enemy. Society, from its highest place to its lowest, is one long +chain, or rather ladder, where every individual is either above or +below his nearest neighbour, and wherever he does not command he must +obey. Existing moralities, accordingly, are mainly fitted to a +relation of command and obedience. Yet command and obedience are but +unfortunate necessities of human life: society in equality is its +normal state. Already in modern life, and more and more as it +progressively improves, command and obedience become exceptional +facts in life, equal association its general rule. The morality of +the first ages rested on the obligation to submit to power; that of +the ages next following, on the right of the weak to the forbearance +and protection of the strong. How much longer is one form of society +and life to content itself with the morality made for another? We +have had the morality of submission, and the morality of chivalry and +generosity; the time is now come for the morality of justice. +Whenever, in former ages, any approach has been made to society in +equality, Justice has asserted its claims as the foundation of +virtue. It was thus in the free republics of antiquity. But even in +the best of these, the equals were limited to the free male citizens; +slaves, women, and the unenfranchised residents were under the law of +force. The joint influence of Roman civilization and of Christianity +obliterated these distinctions, and in theory (if only partially in +practice) declared the claims of the human being, as such, to be +paramount to those of sex, class, or social position. The barriers +which had begun to be levelled were raised again by the northern +conquests; and the whole of modern history consists of the slow +process by which they have since been wearing away. We are entering +into an order of things in which justice will again be the primary +virtue; grounded as before on equal, but now also on sympathetic +association; having its root no longer in the instinct of equals for +self-protection, but in a cultivated sympathy between them; and no +one being now left out, but an equal measure being extended to all. +It is no novelty that mankind do not distinctly foresee their own +changes, and that their sentiments are adapted to past, not to coming +ages. To see the futurity of the species has always been the +privilege of the intellectual lite, or of those who have learnt from +them; to have the feelings of that futurity has been the distinction, +and usually the martyrdom, of a still rarer lite. Institutions, +books, education, society, all go on training human beings for the +old, long after the new has come; much more when it is only coming. +But the true virtue of human beings is fitness to live together as +equals; claiming nothing for themselves but what they as freely +concede to every one else; regarding command of any kind as an +exceptional necessity, and in all cases a temporary one; and +preferring, whenever possible, the society of those with whom leading +and following can be alternate and reciprocal. To these virtues, +nothing in life as at present constituted gives cultivation by +exercise. The family is a school of despotism, in which the virtues +of despotism, but also its vices, are largely nourished. Citizenship, +in free countries, is partly a school of society in equality; but +citizenship fills only a small place in modern life, and does not +come near the daily habits or inmost sentiments. The family, justly +constituted, would be the real school of the virtues of freedom. It +is sure to be a sufficient one of everything else. It will always be +a school of obedience for the children, of command for the parents. +What is needed is, that it should be a school of sympathy in +equality, of living together in love, without power on one side or +obedience on the other. This it ought to be between the parents. It +would then be an exercise of those virtues which each requires to fit +them for all other association, and a model to the children of the +feelings and conduct which their temporary training by means of +obedience is designed to render habitual, and therefore natural, to +them. The moral training of mankind will never be adapted to the +conditions of the life for which all other human progress is a +preparation, until they practise in the family the same moral rule +which is adapted to the normal constitution of human society. Any +sentiment of freedom which can exist in a man whose nearest and +dearest intimacies are with those of whom he is absolute master, is +not the genuine or Christian love of freedom, but, what the love of +freedom generally was in the ancients and in the middle ages--an +intense feeling of the dignity and importance of his own personality; +making him disdain a yoke for himself, of which he has no abhorrence +whatever in the abstract, but which he is abundantly ready to impose +on others for his own interest or glorification. + +I readily admit (and it is the very foundation of my hopes) that +numbers of married people even under the present law, (in the higher +classes of England probably a great majority,) live in the spirit of +a just law of equality. Laws never would be improved, if there were +not numerous persons whose moral sentiments are better than the +existing laws. Such persons ought to support the principles here +advocated; of which the only object is to make all other married +couples similar to what these are now. But persons even of +considerable moral worth, unless they are also thinkers, are very +ready to believe that laws or practices, the evils of which they have +not personally experienced, do not produce any evils, but (if seeming +to be generally approved of) probably do good, and that it is wrong +to object to them. It would, however, be a great mistake in such +married people to suppose, because the legal conditions of the tie +which unites them do not occur to their thoughts once in a +twelvemonth, and because they live and feel in all respects as if +they were legally equals, that the same is the case with all other +married couples, wherever the husband is not a notorious ruffian. To +suppose this, would be to show equal ignorance of human nature and of +fact. The less fit a man is for the possession of power--the less +likely to be allowed to exercise it over any person with that +person's voluntary consent--the more does he hug himself in the +consciousness of the power the law gives him, exact its legal rights +to the utmost point which custom (the custom of men like himself) +will tolerate, and take pleasure in using the power, merely to +enliven the agreeable sense of possessing it. What is more; in the +most naturally brutal and morally uneducated part of the lower +classes, the legal slavery of the woman, and something in the merely +physical subjection to their will as an instrument, causes them to +feel a sort of disrespect and contempt towards their own wife which +they do not feel towards any other woman, or any other human being, +with whom they come in contact; and which makes her seem to them an +appropriate subject for any kind of indignity. Let an acute observer +of the signs of feeling, who has the requisite opportunities, judge +for himself whether this is not the case: and if he finds that it is, +let him not wonder at any amount of disgust and indignation that can +be felt against institutions which lead naturally to this depraved +state of the human mind. + +We shall be told, perhaps, that religion imposes the duty of +obedience; as every established fact which is too bad to admit of any +other defence, is always presented to us as an injunction of +religion. The Church, it is very true, enjoins it in her formularies, +but it would be difficult to derive any such injunction from +Christianity. We are told that St. Paul said, "Wives, obey your +husbands:" but he also said, "Slaves, obey your masters." It was not +St. Paul's business, nor was it consistent with his object, the +propagation of Christianity, to incite any one to rebellion against +existing laws. The apostle's acceptance of all social institutions as +he found them, is no more to be construed as a disapproval of +attempts to improve them at the proper time, than his declaration, +"The powers that be are ordained of God," gives his sanction to +military despotism, and to that alone, as the Christian form of +political government, or commands passive obedience to it. To pretend +that Christianity was intended to stereotype existing forms of +government and society, and protect them against change, is to reduce +it to the level of Islamism or of Brahminism. It is precisely because +Christianity has not done this, that it has been the religion of the +progressive portion of mankind, and Islamism, Brahminism, &c., have +been those of the stationary portions; or rather (for there is no +such thing as a really stationary society) of the declining portions. +There have been abundance of people, in all ages of Christianity, who +tried to make it something of the same kind; to convert us into a +sort of Christian Mussulmans, with the Bible for a Koran, prohibiting +all improvement: and great has been their power, and many have had to +sacrifice their lives in resisting them. But they have been resisted, +and the resistance has made us what we are, and will yet make us what +we are to be. + +After what has been said respecting the obligation of obedience, it +is almost superfluous to say anything concerning the more special +point included in the general one--a woman's right to her own +property; for I need not hope that this treatise can make any +impression upon those who need anything to convince them that a +woman's inheritance or gains ought to be as much her own after +marriage as before. The rule is simple: whatever would be the +husband's or wife's if they were not married, should be under their +exclusive control during marriage; which need not interfere with the +power to tie up property by settlement, in order to preserve it for +children. Some people are sentimentally shocked at the idea of a +separate interest in money matters, as inconsistent with the ideal +fusion of two lives into one. For my own part, I am one of the +strongest supporters of community of goods, when resulting from an +entire unity of feeling in the owners, which makes all things common +between them. But I have no relish for a community of goods resting +on the doctrine, that what is mine is yours but what is yours is not +mine; and I should prefer to decline entering into such a compact +with any one, though I were myself the person to profit by it. + +This particular injustice and oppression to women, which is, to +common apprehensions, more obvious than all the rest, admits of +remedy without interfering with any other mischiefs: and there can be +little doubt that it will be one of the earliest remedied. Already, +in many of the new and several of the old States of the American +Confederation, provisions have been inserted even in the written +Constitutions, securing to women equality of rights in this respect: +and thereby improving materially the position, in the marriage +relation, of those women at least who have property, by leaving them +one instrument of power which they have not signed away; and +preventing also the scandalous abuse of the marriage institution, +which is perpetrated when a man entraps a girl into marrying him +without a settlement, for the sole purpose of getting possession of +her money. When the support of the family depends, not on property, +but on earnings, the common arrangement, by which the man earns the +income and the wife superintends the domestic expenditure, seems to +me in general the most suitable division of labour between the two +persons. If, in addition to the physical suffering of bearing +children, and the whole responsibility of their care and education in +early years, the wife undertakes the careful and economical +application of the husband's earnings to the general comfort of the +family; she takes not only her fair share, but usually the larger +share, of the bodily and mental exertion required by their joint +existence. If she undertakes any additional portion, it seldom +relieves her from this, but only prevents her from performing it +properly. The care which she is herself disabled from taking of the +children and the household, nobody else takes; those of the children +who do not die, grow up as they best can, and the management of the +household is likely to be so bad, as even in point of economy to be a +great drawback from the value of the wife's earnings. In an otherwise +just state of things, it is not, therefore, I think, a desirable +custom, that the wife should contribute by her labour to the income +of the family. In an unjust state of things, her doing so may be +useful to her, by making her of more value in the eyes of the man who +is legally her master; but, on the other hand, it enables him still +farther to abuse his power, by forcing her to work, and leaving the +support of the family to her exertions, while he spends most of his +time in drinking and idleness. The _power_ of earning is essential to +the dignity of a woman, if she has not independent property. But if +marriage were an equal contract, not implying the obligation of +obedience; if the connexion were no longer enforced to the oppression +of those to whom it is purely a mischief, but a separation, on just +terms (I do not now speak of a divorce), could be obtained by any +woman who was morally entitled to it; and if she would then find all +honourable employments as freely open to her as to men; it would not +be necessary for her protection, that during marriage she should make +this particular use of her faculties. Like a man when he chooses a +profession, so, when a woman marries, it may in general be understood +that she makes choice of the management of a household, and the +bringing up of a family, as the first call upon her exertions, during +as many years of her life as may be required for the purpose; and +that she renounces, not all other objects and occupations, but all +which are not consistent with the requirements of this. The actual +exercise, in a habitual or systematic manner, of outdoor occupations, +or such as cannot be carried on at home, would by this principle be +practically interdicted to the greater number of married women. But +the utmost latitude ought to exist for the adaptation of general +rules to individual suitabilities; and there ought to be nothing to +prevent faculties exceptionally adapted to any other pursuit, from +obeying their vocation notwithstanding marriage: due provision being +made for supplying otherwise any falling-short which might become +inevitable, in her full performance of the ordinary functions of +mistress of a family. These things, if once opinion were rightly +directed on the subject, might with perfect safety be left to be +regulated by opinion, without any interference of law. + + + + +CHAPTER III. + + +On the other point which is involved in the just equality of women, +their admissibility to all the functions and occupations hitherto +retained as the monopoly of the stronger sex, I should anticipate no +difficulty in convincing any one who has gone with me on the subject +of the equality of women in the family. I believe that their +disabilities elsewhere are only clung to in order to maintain their +subordination in domestic life; because the generality of the male +sex cannot yet tolerate the idea of living with an equal. Were it not +for that, I think that almost every one, in the existing state of +opinion in politics and political economy, would admit the injustice +of excluding half the human race from the greater number of lucrative +occupations, and from almost all high social functions; ordaining +from their birth either that they are not, and cannot by any +possibility become, fit for employments which are legally open to the +stupidest and basest of the other sex, or else that however fit they +may be, those employments shall be interdicted to them, in order to +be preserved for the exclusive benefit of males. In the last two +centuries, when (which was seldom the case) any reason beyond the +mere existence of the fact was thought to be required to justify the +disabilities of women, people seldom assigned as a reason their +inferior mental capacity; which, in times when there was a real trial +of personal faculties (from which all women were not excluded) in the +struggles of public life, no one really believed in. The reason given +in those days was not women's unfitness, but the interest of society, +by which was meant the interest of men: just as the _raison d'tat_, +meaning the convenience of the government, and the support of +existing authority, was deemed a sufficient explanation and excuse +for the most flagitious crimes. In the present day, power holds a +smoother language, and whomsoever it oppresses, always pretends to do +so for their own good: accordingly, when anything is forbidden to +women, it is thought necessary to say, and desirable to believe, that +they are incapable of doing it, and that they depart from their real +path of success and happiness when they aspire to it. But to make +this reason plausible (I do not say valid), those by whom it is urged +must be prepared to carry it to a much greater length than any one +ventures to do in the face of present experience. It is not +sufficient to maintain that women on the average are less gifted than +men on the average, with certain of the higher mental faculties, or +that a smaller number of women than of men are fit for occupations +and functions of the highest intellectual character. It is necessary +to maintain that no women at all are fit for them, and that the most +eminent women are inferior in mental faculties to the most mediocre +of the men on whom those functions at present devolve. For if the +performance of the function is decided either by competition, or by +any mode of choice which secures regard to the public interest, there +needs be no apprehension that any important employments will fall +into the hands of women inferior to average men, or to the average of +their male competitors. The only result would be that there would be +fewer women than men in such employments; a result certain to happen +in any ease, if only from the preference always likely to be felt by +the majority of women for the one vocation in which there is nobody +to compete with them. Now, the most determined depreciator of women +will not venture to deny, that when we add the experience of recent +times to that of ages past, women, and not a few merely, but many +women, have proved themselves capable of everything, perhaps without +a single exception, which is done by men, and of doing it +successfully and creditably. The utmost that can be said is, that +there are many things which none of them have succeeded in doing as +well as they have been done by some men--many in which they have not +reached the very highest rank. But there are extremely few, dependent +only on mental faculties, in which they have not attained the rank +next to the highest. Is not this enough, and much more than enough, +to make it a tyranny to them, and a detriment to society, that they +should not be allowed to compete with men for the exercise of these +functions? Is it not a mere truism to say, that such functions are +often filled by men far less fit for them than numbers of women, and +who would be beaten by women in any fair field of competition? What +difference does it make that there may be men somewhere, fully +employed about other things, who may be still better qualified for +the things in question than these women? Does not this take place in +all competitions? Is there so great a superfluity of men fit for high +duties, that society can afford to reject the service of any +competent person? Are we so certain of always finding a man made to +our hands for any duty or function of social importance which falls +vacant, that we lose nothing by putting a ban upon one-half of +mankind, and refusing beforehand to make their faculties available, +however distinguished they may be? And even if we could do without +them, would it be consistent with justice to refuse to them their +fair share of honour and distinction, or to deny to them the equal +moral right of all human beings to choose their occupation (short of +injury to others) according to their own preferences, at their own +risk? Nor is the injustice confined to them: it is shared by those +who are in a position to benefit by their services. To ordain that +any kind of persons shall not be physicians, or shall not be +advocates, or shall not be members of parliament, is to injure not +them only, but all who employ physicians or advocates, or elect +members of parliament, and who are deprived of the stimulating effect +of greater competition on the exertions of the competitors, as well +as restricted to a narrower range of individual choice. + +It will perhaps be sufficient if I confine myself, in the details of +my argument, to functions of a public nature: since, if I am +successful as to those, it probably will be readily granted that +women should be admissible to all other occupations to which it is at +all material whether they are admitted or not. And here let me begin +by marking out one function, broadly distinguished from all others, +their right to which is entirely independent of any question which +can be raised concerning their faculties. I mean the suffrage, both +parliamentary and municipal. The right to share in the choice of +those who are to exercise a public trust, is altogether a distinct +thing from that of competing for the trust itself. If no one could +vote for a member of parliament who was not fit to be a candidate, +the government would be a narrow oligarchy indeed. To have a voice in +choosing those by whom one is to be governed, is a means of +self-protection due to every one, though he were to remain for ever +excluded from the function of governing: and that women are +considered fit to have such a choice, may be presumed from the fact, +that the law already gives it to women in the most important of all +cases to themselves: for the choice of the man who is to govern a +woman to the end of life, is always supposed to be voluntarily made +by herself. In the case of election to public trusts, it is the +business of constitutional law to surround the right of suffrage with +all needful securities and limitations; but whatever securities are +sufficient in the case of the male sex, no others need be required in +the case of women. Under whatever conditions, and within whatever +limits, men are admitted to the suffrage, there is not a shadow of +justification for not admitting women under the same. The majority of +the women of any class are not likely to differ in political opinion +from the majority of the men of the same class, unless the question +be one in which the interests of women, as such, are in some way +involved; and if they are so, women require the suffrage, as their +guarantee of just and equal consideration. This ought to be obvious +even to those who coincide in no other of the doctrines for which I +contend. Even if every woman were a wife, and if every wife ought to +be a slave, all the more would these slaves stand in need of legal +protection: and we know what legal protection the slaves have, where +the laws are made by their masters. + +With regard to the fitness of women, not only to participate in +elections, but themselves to hold offices or practise professions +involving important public responsibilities; I have already observed +that this consideration is not essential to the practical question in +dispute: since any woman, who succeeds in an open profession, proves +by that very fact that she is qualified for it. And in the case of +public offices, if the political system of the country is such as to +exclude unfit men, it will equally exclude unfit women: while if it +is not, there is no additional evil in the fact that the unfit +persons whom it admits may be either women or men. As long therefore +as it is acknowledged that even a few women may be fit for these +duties, the laws which shut the door on those exceptions cannot be +justified by any opinion which can be held respecting the capacities +of women in general. But, though this last consideration is not +essential, it is far from being irrelevant. An unprejudiced view of +it gives additional strength to the arguments against the +disabilities of women, and reinforces them by high considerations of +practical utility. + +Let us at first make entire abstraction of all psychological +considerations tending to show, that any of the mental differences +supposed to exist between women and men are but the natural effect of +the differences in their education and circumstances, and indicate no +radical difference, far less radical inferiority, of nature. Let us +consider women only as they already are, or as they are known to have +been; and the capacities which they have already practically shown. +What they have done, that at least, if nothing else, it is proved +that they can do. When we consider how sedulously they are all +trained away from, instead of being trained towards, any of the +occupations or objects reserved for men, it is evident that I am +taking a very humble ground for them, when I rest their case on what +they have actually achieved. For, in this case, negative evidence is +worth little, while any positive evidence is conclusive. It cannot be +inferred to be impossible that a woman should be a Homer, or an +Aristotle, or a Michael Angelo, or a Beethoven, because no woman has +yet actually produced works comparable to theirs in any of those +lines of excellence. This negative fact at most leaves the question +uncertain, and open to psychological discussion. But it is quite +certain that a woman can be a Queen Elizabeth, or a Deborah, or a +Joan of Arc, since this is not inference, but fact. Now it is a +curious consideration, that the only things which the existing law +excludes women from doing, are the things which they have proved that +they are able to do. There is no law to prevent a woman from having +written all the plays of Shakspeare, or composed all the operas of +Mozart. But Queen Elizabeth or Queen Victoria, had they not inherited +the throne, could not have been intrusted with the smallest of the +political duties, of which the former showed herself equal to the +greatest. + +If anything conclusive could be inferred from experience, without +psychological analysis, it would be that the things which women are +not allowed to do are the very ones for which they are peculiarly +qualified; since their vocation for government has made its way, and +become conspicuous, through the very few opportunities which have +been given; while in the lines of distinction which apparently were +freely open to them, they have by no means so eminently distinguished +themselves. We know how small a number of reigning queens history +presents, in comparison with that of kings. Of this smaller number a +far larger proportion have shown talents for rule; though many of +them have occupied the throne in difficult periods. It is remarkable, +too, that they have, in a great number of instances, been +distinguished by merits the most opposite to the imaginary and +conventional character of women: they have been as much remarked for +the firmness and vigour of their rule, as for its intelligence. When, +to queens and empresses, we add regents, and viceroys of provinces, +the list of women who have been eminent rulers of mankind swells to a +great length.[1] This fact is so undeniable, that some one, long ago, +tried to retort the argument, and turned the admitted truth into an +additional insult, by saying that queens are better than kings, +because under kings women govern, but under queens, men. + +It may seem a waste of reasoning to argue against a bad joke; but +such things do affect people's minds; and I have heard men quote this +saying, with an air as if they thought that there was something in +it. At any rate, it will serve as well as anything else for a +starting point in discussion. I say, then, that it is not true that +under kings, women govern. Such cases are entirely exceptional: and +weak kings have quite as often governed ill through the influence of +male favourites, as of female. When a king is governed by a woman +merely through his amatory propensities, good government is not +probable, though even then there are exceptions. But French history +counts two kings who have voluntarily given the direction of affairs +during many years, the one to his mother, the other to his sister: +one of them, Charles VIII., was a mere boy, but in doing so he +followed the intentions of his father Louis XI., the ablest monarch +of his age. The other, Saint Louis, was the best, and one of the most +vigorous rulers, since the time of Charlemagne. Both these princesses +ruled in a manner hardly equalled by any prince among their +contemporaries. The emperor Charles the Fifth, the most politic +prince of his time, who had as great a number of able men in his +service as a ruler ever had, and was one of the least likely of all +sovereigns to sacrifice his interest to personal feelings, made two +princesses of his family successively Governors of the Netherlands, +and kept one or other of them in that post during his whole life, +(they were afterwards succeeded by a third). Both ruled very +successfully, and one of them, Margaret of Austria, was one of the +ablest politicians of the age. So much for one side of the question. +Now as to the other. When it is said that under queens men govern, is +the same meaning to be understood as when kings are said to be +governed by women? Is it meant that queens choose as their +instruments of government, the associates of their personal +pleasures? The case is rare even with those who are as unscrupulous +on the latter point as Catherine II.: and it is not in these cases +that the good government, alleged to arise from male influence, is to +be found. If it be true, then, that the administration is in the +hands of better men under a queen than under an average king, it must +be that queens have a superior capacity for choosing them; and women +must be better qualified than men both for the position of sovereign, +and for that of chief minister; for the principal business of a prime +minister is not to govern in person, but to find the fittest persons +to conduct every department of public affairs. The more rapid insight +into character, which is one of the admitted points of superiority in +women over men, must certainly make them, with anything like parity +of qualifications in other respects, more apt than men in that choice +of instruments, which is nearly the most important business of every +one who has to do with governing mankind. Even the unprincipled +Catherine de' Medici could feel the value of a Chancellor de +l'Hpital. But it is also true that most great queens have been great +by their own talents for government, and have been well served +precisely for that reason. They retained the supreme direction of +affairs in their own hands: and if they listened to good advisers, +they gave by that fact the strongest proof that their judgment fitted +them for dealing with the great questions of government. + +Is it reasonable to think that those who are fit for the greater +functions of politics, are incapable of qualifying themselves for the +less? Is there any reason in the nature of things, that the wives and +sisters of princes should, whenever called on, be found as competent +as the princes themselves to _their_ business, but that the wives and +sisters of statesmen, and administrators, and directors of companies, +and managers of public institutions, should be unable to do what is +done by their brothers and husbands? The real reason is plain enough; +it is that princesses, being more raised above the generality of men +by their rank than placed below them by their sex, have never been +taught that it was improper for them to concern themselves with +politics; but have been allowed to feel the liberal interest natural +to any cultivated human being, in the great transactions which took +place around them, and in which they might be called on to take a +part. The ladies of reigning families are the only women who are +allowed the same range of interests and freedom of development as +men; and it is precisely in their case that there is not found to be +any inferiority. Exactly where and in proportion as women's +capacities for government have been tried, in that proportion have +they been found adequate. + +This fact is in accordance with the best general conclusions which +the world's imperfect experience seems as yet to suggest, concerning +the peculiar tendencies and aptitudes characteristic of women, as +women have hitherto been. I do not say, as they will continue to be; +for, as I have already said more than once, I consider it presumption +in any one to pretend to decide what women are or are not, can or +cannot be, by natural constitution. They have always hitherto been +kept, as far as regards spontaneous development, in so unnatural a +state, that their nature cannot but have been greatly distorted and +disguised; and no one can safely pronounce that if women's nature +were left to choose its direction as freely as men's, and if no +artificial bent were attempted to be given to it except that required +by the conditions of human society, and given to both sexes alike, +there would be any material difference, or perhaps any difference at +all, in the character and capacities which would unfold themselves. I +shall presently show, that even the least contestable of the +differences which now exist, are such as may very well have been +produced merely by circumstances, without any difference of natural +capacity. But, looking at women as they are known in experience, it +may be said of them, with more truth than belongs to most other +generalizations on the subject, that the general bent of their +talents is towards the practical. This statement is conformable to +all the public history of women, in the present and the past. It is +no less borne out by common and daily experience. Let us consider the +special nature of the mental capacities most characteristic of a +woman of talent. They are all of a kind which fits them for practice, +and makes them tend towards it. What is meant by a woman's capacity +of intuitive perception? It means, a rapid and correct insight into +present fact. It has nothing to do with general principles. Nobody +ever perceived a scientific law of nature by intuition, nor arrived +at a general rule of duty or prudence by it. These are results of +slow and careful collection and comparison of experience; and neither +the men nor the women of intuition usually shine in this department, +unless, indeed, the experience necessary is such as they can acquire +by themselves. For what is called their intuitive sagacity makes them +peculiarly apt in gathering such general truths as can be collected +from their individual means of observation. When, consequently, they +chance to be as well provided as men are with the results of other +people's experience, by reading and education, (I use the word chance +advisedly, for, in respect to the knowledge that tends to fit them +for the greater concerns of life, the only educated women are the +self-educated) they are better furnished than men in general with the +essential requisites of skilful and successful practice. Men who have +been much taught, are apt to be deficient in the sense of present +fact; they do not see, in the facts which they are called upon to +deal with, what is really there, but what they have been taught to +expect. This is seldom the case with women of any ability. Their +capacity of "intuition" preserves them from it. With equality of +experience and of general faculties, a woman usually sees much more +than a man of what is immediately before her. Now this sensibility to +the present, is the main quality on which the capacity for practice, +as distinguished from theory, depends. To discover general +principles, belongs to the speculative faculty: to discern and +discriminate the particular cases in which they are and are not +applicable, constitutes practical talent: and for this, women as they +now are have a peculiar aptitude. I admit that there can be no good +practice without principles, and that the predominant place which +quickness of observation holds among a woman's faculties, makes her +particularly apt to build over-hasty generalizations upon her own +observation; though at the same time no less ready in rectifying +those generalizations, as her observation takes a wider range. But +the corrective to this defect, is access to the experience of the +human race; general knowledge--exactly the thing which education can +best supply. A woman's mistakes are specifically those of a clever +self-educated man, who often sees what men trained in routine do not +see, but falls into errors for want of knowing things which have long +been known. Of course he has acquired much of the pre-existing +knowledge, or he could not have got on at all; but what he knows of +it he has picked up in fragments and at random, as women do. + +But this gravitation of women's minds to the present, to the real, to +actual fact, while in its exclusiveness it is a source of errors, is +also a most useful counteractive of the contrary error. The principal +and most characteristic aberration of speculative minds as such, +consists precisely in the deficiency of this lively perception and +ever-present sense of objective fact. For want of this, they often +not only overlook the contradiction which outward facts oppose to +their theories, but lose sight of the legitimate purpose of +speculation altogether, and let their speculative faculties go astray +into regions not peopled with real beings, animate or inanimate, even +idealized, but with personified shadows created by the illusions of +metaphysics or by the mere entanglement of words, and think these +shadows the proper objects of the highest, the most transcendant, +philosophy. Hardly anything can be of greater value to a man of +theory and speculation who employs himself not in collecting +materials of knowledge by observation, but in working them up by +processes of thought into comprehensive truths of science and laws of +conduct, than to carry on his speculations in the companionship, and +under the criticism, of a really superior woman. There is nothing +comparable to it for keeping his thoughts within the limits of real +things, and the actual facts of nature. A woman seldom runs wild +after an abstraction. The habitual direction of her mind to dealing +with things as individuals rather than in groups, and (what is +closely connected with it) her more lively interest in the present +feelings of persons, which makes her consider first of all, in +anything which claims to be applied to practice, in what manner +persons will be affected by it--these two things make her extremely +unlikely to put faith in any speculation which loses sight of +individuals, and deals with things as if they existed for the benefit +of some imaginary entity, some mere creation of the mind, not +resolvable into the feelings of living beings. Women's thoughts are +thus as useful in giving reality to those of thinking men, as men's +thoughts in giving width and largeness to those of women. In depth, +as distinguished from breadth, I greatly doubt if even now, women, +compared with men, are at any disadvantage. + +If the existing mental characteristics of women are thus valuable +even in aid of speculation, they are still more important, when +speculation has done its work, for carrying out the results of +speculation into practice. For the reasons already given, women are +comparatively unlikely to fall into the common error of men, that of +sticking to their rules in a case whose specialities either take it +out of the class to which the rules are applicable, or require a +special adaptation of them. Let us now consider another of the +admitted superiorities of clever women, greater quickness of +apprehension. Is not this pre-eminently a quality which fits a person +for practice? In action, everything continually depends upon deciding +promptly. In speculation, nothing does. A mere thinker can wait, can +take time to consider, can collect additional evidence; he is not +obliged to complete his philosophy at once, lest the opportunity +should go by. The power of drawing the best conclusion possible from +insufficient data is not indeed useless in philosophy; the +construction of a provisional hypothesis consistent with all known +facts is often the needful basis for further inquiry. But this +faculty is rather serviceable in philosophy, than the main +qualification for it: and, for the auxiliary as well as for the main +operation, the philosopher can allow himself any time he pleases. He +is in no need of the capacity of doing rapidly what he does; what he +rather needs is patience, to work on slowly until imperfect lights +have become perfect, and a conjecture has ripened into a theorem. For +those, on the contrary, whose business is with the fugitive and +perishable--with individual facts, not kinds of facts--rapidity of +thought is a qualification next only in importance to the power of +thought itself. He who has not his faculties under immediate command, +in the contingencies of action, might as well not have them at all. +He may be fit to criticize, but he is not fit to act. Now it is in +this that women, and the men who are most like women, confessedly +excel. The other sort of man, however pre-eminent may be his +faculties, arrives slowly at complete command of them: rapidity of +judgment and promptitude of judicious action, even in the things he +knows best, are the gradual and late result of strenuous effort grown +into habit. + +It will be said, perhaps, that the greater nervous susceptibility of +women is a disqualification for practice, in anything but domestic +life, by rendering them mobile, changeable, too vehemently under the +influence of the moment, incapable of dogged perseverance, unequal +and uncertain in the power of using their faculties. I think that +these phrases sum up the greater part of the objections commonly made +to the fitness of women for the higher class of serious business. +Much of all this is the mere overflow of nervous energy run to waste, +and would cease when the energy was directed to a definite end. Much +is also the result of conscious or unconscious cultivation; as we see +by the almost total disappearance of "hysterics" and fainting fits, +since they have gone out of fashion. Moreover, when people are +brought up, like many women of the higher classes (though less so in +our own country than in any other) a kind of hot-house plants, +shielded from the wholesome vicissitudes of air and temperature, and +untrained in any of the occupations and exercises which give stimulus +and development to the circulatory and muscular system, while their +nervous system, especially in its emotional department, is kept in +unnaturally active play; it is no wonder if those of them who do not +die of consumption, grow up with constitutions liable to derangement +from slight causes, both internal and external, and without stamina +to support any task, physical or mental, requiring continuity of +effort. But women brought up to work for their livelihood show none +of these morbid characteristics, unless indeed they are chained to an +excess of sedentary work in confined and unhealthy rooms. Women who +in their early years have shared in the healthful physical education +and bodily freedom of their brothers, and who obtain a sufficiency of +pure air and exercise in after-life, very rarely have any excessive +susceptibility of nerves which can disqualify them for active +pursuits. There is indeed a certain proportion of persons, in both +sexes, in whom an unusual degree of nervous sensibility is +constitutional, and of so marked a character as to be the feature of +their organization which exercises the greatest influence over the +whole character of the vital phenomena. This constitution, like other +physical conformations, is hereditary, and is transmitted to sons as +well as daughters; but it is possible, and probable, that the nervous +temperament (as it is called) is inherited by a greater number of +women than of men. We will assume this as a fact: and let me then +ask, are men of nervous temperament found to be unfit for the duties +and pursuits usually followed by men? If not, why should women of the +same temperament be unfit for them? The peculiarities of the +temperament are, no doubt, within certain limits, an obstacle to +success in some employments, though an aid to it in others. But when +the occupation is suitable to the temperament, and sometimes even +when it is unsuitable, the most brilliant examples of success are +continually given by the men of high nervous sensibility. They are +distinguished in their practical manifestations chiefly by this, that +being susceptible of a higher degree of excitement than those of +another physical constitution, their powers when excited differ more +than in the case of other people, from those shown in their ordinary +state: they are raised, as it were, above themselves, and do things +with ease which they are wholly incapable of at other times. But this +lofty excitement is not, except in weak bodily constitutions, a mere +flash, which passes away immediately, leaving no permanent traces, +and incompatible with persistent and steady pursuit of an object. It +is the character of the nervous temperament to be capable of +_sustained_ excitement, holding out through long continued efforts. +It is what is meant by _spirit_. It is what makes the high-bred +racehorse run without slackening speed till he drops down dead. It is +what has enabled so many delicate women to maintain the most sublime +constancy not only at the stake, but through a long preliminary +succession of mental and bodily tortures. It is evident that people +of this temperament are particularly apt for what may be called the +executive department of the leadership of mankind. They are the +material of great orators, great preachers, impressive diffusers of +moral influences. Their constitution might be deemed less favourable +to the qualities required from a statesman in the cabinet, or from a +judge. It would be so, if the consequence necessarily followed that +because people are excitable they must always be in a state of +excitement. But this is wholly a question of training. Strong feeling +is the instrument and element of strong self-control: but it requires +to be cultivated in that direction. When it is, it forms not the +heroes of impulse only, but those also of self-conquest. History and +experience prove that the most passionate characters are the most +fanatically rigid in their feelings of duty, when their passion has +been trained to act in that direction. The judge who gives a just +decision in a case where his feelings are intensely interested on the +other side, derives from that same strength of feeling the determined +sense of the obligation of justice, which enables him to achieve this +victory over himself. The capability of that lofty enthusiasm which +takes the human being out of his every-day character, reacts upon the +daily character itself. His aspirations and powers when he is in this +exceptional state, become the type with which he compares, and by +which he estimates, his sentiments and proceedings at other times: +and his habitual purposes assume a character moulded by and +assimilated to the moments of lofty excitement, although those, from +the physical nature of a human being, can only be transient. +Experience of races, as well as of individuals, does not show those +of excitable temperament to be less fit, on the average, either for +speculation or practice, than the more unexcitable. The French, and +the Italians, are undoubtedly by nature more nervously excitable than +the Teutonic races, and, compared at least with the English, they +have a much greater habitual and daily emotional life: but have they +been less great in science, in public business, in legal and judicial +eminence, or in war? There is abundant evidence that the Greeks were +of old, as their descendants and successors still are, one of the +most excitable of the races of mankind. It is superfluous to ask, +what among the achievements of men they did not excel in. The Romans, +probably, as an equally southern people, had the same original +temperament: but the stern character of their national discipline, +like that of the Spartans, made them an example of the opposite type +of national character; the greater strength of their natural feelings +being chiefly apparent in the intensity which the same original +temperament made it possible to give to the artificial. If these +cases exemplify what a naturally excitable people may be made, the +Irish Celts afford one of the aptest examples of what they are when +left to themselves; (if those can be said to be left to themselves +who have been for centuries under the indirect influence of bad +government, and the direct training of a Catholic hierarchy and of a +sincere belief in the Catholic religion.) The Irish character must be +considered, therefore, as an unfavourable case: yet, whenever the +circumstances of the individual have been at all favourable, what +people have shown greater capacity for the most varied and +multifarious individual eminence? Like the French compared with the +English, the Irish with the Swiss, the Greeks or Italians compared +with the German races, so women compared with men may be found, on +the average, to do the same things with some variety in the +particular kind of excellence. But, that they would do them fully as +well on the whole, if their education and cultivation were adapted to +correcting instead of aggravating the infirmities incident to their +temperament, I see not the smallest reason to doubt. + +Supposing it, however, to be true that women's minds are by nature +more mobile than those of men, less capable of persisting long in the +same continuous effort, more fitted for dividing their faculties +among many things than for travelling in any one path to the highest +point which can be reached by it: this may be true of women as they +now are (though not without great and numerous exceptions), and may +account for their having remained behind the highest order of men in +precisely the things in which this absorption of the whole mind in +one set of ideas and occupations may seem to be most requisite. +Still, this difference is one which can only affect the kind of +excellence, not the excellence itself, or its practical worth: and it +remains to be shown whether this exclusive working of a part of the +mind, this absorption of the whole thinking faculty in a single +subject, and concentration of it on a single work, is the normal and +healthful condition of the human faculties, even for speculative +uses. I believe that what is gained in special development by this +concentration, is lost in the capacity of the mind for the other +purposes of life; and even in abstract thought, it is my decided +opinion that the mind does more by frequently returning to a +difficult problem, than by sticking to it without interruption. For +the purposes, at all events, of practice, from its highest to its +humblest departments, the capacity of passing promptly from one +subject of consideration to another, without letting the active +spring of the intellect run down between the two, is a power far more +valuable; and this power women pre-eminently possess, by virtue of +the very mobility of which they are accused. They perhaps have it +from nature, but they certainly have it by training and education; +for nearly the whole of the occupations of women consist in the +management of small but multitudinous details, on each of which the +mind cannot dwell even for a minute, but must pass on to other +things, and if anything requires longer thought, must steal time at +odd moments for thinking of it. The capacity indeed which women show +for doing their thinking in circumstances and at times which almost +any man would make an excuse to himself for not attempting it, has +often been noticed: and a woman's mind, though it may be occupied +only with small things, can hardly ever permit itself to be vacant, +as a man's so often is when not engaged in what he chooses to +consider the business of his life. The business of a woman's ordinary +life is things in general, and can as little cease to go on as the +world to go round. + +But (it is said) there is anatomical evidence of the superior mental +capacity of men compared with women: they have a larger brain. I +reply, that in the first place the fact itself is doubtful. It is by +no means established that the brain of a woman is smaller than that +of a man. If it is inferred merely because a woman's bodily frame +generally is of less dimensions than a man's, this criterion would +lead to strange consequences. A tall and large-boned man must on this +showing be wonderfully superior in intelligence to a small man, and +an elephant or a whale must prodigiously excel mankind. The size of +the brain in human beings, anatomists say, varies much less than the +size of the body, or even of the head, and the one cannot be at all +inferred from the other. It is certain that some women have as large +a brain as any man. It is within my knowledge that a man who had +weighed many human brains, said that the heaviest he knew of, heavier +even than Cuvier's (the heaviest previously recorded,) was that of a +woman. Next, I must observe that the precise relation which exists +between the brain and the intellectual powers is not yet well +understood, but is a subject of great dispute. That there is a very +close relation we cannot doubt. The brain is certainly the material +organ of thought and feeling: and (making abstraction of the great +unsettled controversy respecting the appropriation of different parts +of the brain to different mental faculties) I admit that it would be +an anomaly, and an exception to all we know of the general laws of +life and organization, if the size of the organ were wholly +indifferent to the function; if no accession of power were derived +from the greater magnitude of the instrument. But the exception and +the anomaly would be fully as great if the organ exercised influence +by its magnitude _only_. In all the more delicate operations of +nature--of which those of the animated creation are the most +delicate, and those of the nervous system by far the most delicate of +these--differences in the effect depend as much on differences of +quality in the physical agents, as on their quantity: and if the +quality of an instrument is to be tested by the nicety and delicacy +of the work it can do, the indications point to a greater average +fineness of quality in the brain and nervous system of women than of +men. Dismissing abstract difference of quality, a thing difficult to +verify, the efficiency of an organ is known to depend not solely on +its size but on its activity: and of this we have an approximate +measure in the energy with which the blood circulates through it, +both the stimulus and the reparative force being mainly dependent on +the circulation. It would not be surprising--it is indeed an +hypothesis which accords well with the differences actually observed +between the mental operations of the two sexes--if men on the average +should have the advantage in the size of the brain, and women in +activity of cerebral circulation. The results which conjecture, +founded on analogy, would lead us to expect from this difference of +organization, would correspond to some of those which we most +commonly see. In the first place, the mental operations of men might +be expected to be slower. They would neither be so prompt as women in +thinking, nor so quick to feel. Large bodies take more time to get +into full action. On the other hand, when once got thoroughly into +play, men's brain would bear more work. It would be more persistent +in the line first taken; it would have more difficulty in changing +from one mode of action to another, but, in the one thing it was +doing, it could go on longer without loss of power or sense of +fatigue. And do we not find that the things in which men most excel +women are those which require most plodding and long hammering at a +single thought, while women do best what must be done rapidly? A +woman's brain is sooner fatigued, sooner exhausted; but given the +degree of exhaustion, we should expect to find that it would recover +itself sooner. I repeat that this speculation is entirely +hypothetical; it pretends to no more than to suggest a line of +enquiry. I have before repudiated the notion of its being yet +certainly known that there is any natural difference at all in the +average strength or direction of the mental capacities of the two +sexes, much less what that difference is. Nor is it possible that +this should be known, so long as the psychological laws of the +formation of character have been so little studied, even in a general +way, and in the particular case never scientifically applied at all; +so long as the most obvious external causes of difference of +character are habitually disregarded--left unnoticed by the observer, +and looked down upon with a kind of supercilious contempt by the +prevalent schools both of natural history and of mental philosophy: +who, whether they look for the source of what mainly distinguishes +human beings from one another, in the world of matter or in that of +spirit, agree in running down those who prefer to explain these +differences by the different relations of human beings to society and +life. + +To so ridiculous an extent are the notions formed of the nature of +women, mere empirical generalizations, framed, without philosophy or +analysis, upon the first instances which present themselves, that the +popular idea of it is different in different countries, according as +the opinions and social circumstances of the country have given to +the women living in it any speciality of development or +non-development. An Oriental thinks that women are by nature +peculiarly voluptuous; see the violent abuse of them on this ground +in Hindoo writings. An Englishman usually thinks that they are by +nature cold. The sayings about women's fickleness are mostly of +French origin; from the famous distich of Francis the First, upward +and downward. In England it is a common remark, how much more +constant women are than men. Inconstancy has been longer reckoned +discreditable to a woman, in England than in France; and Englishwomen +are besides, in their inmost nature, much more subdued to opinion. It +may be remarked by the way, that Englishmen are in peculiarly +unfavourable circumstances for attempting to judge what is or is not +natural, not merely to women, but to men, or to human beings +altogether, at least if they have only English experience to go upon: +because there is no place where human nature shows so little of its +original lineaments. Both in a good and a bad sense, the English are +farther from a state of nature than any other modern people. They +are, more than any other people, a product of civilization and +discipline. England is the country in which social discipline has +most succeeded, not so much in conquering, as in suppressing, +whatever is liable to conflict with it. The English, more than any +other people, not only act but feel according to rule. In other +countries, the taught opinion, or the requirement of society, may be +the stronger power, but the promptings of the individual nature are +always visible under it, and often resisting it: rule may be stronger +than nature, but nature is still there. In England, rule has to a +great degree substituted itself for nature. The greater part of life +is carried on, not by following inclination under the control of +rule, but by having no inclination but that of following a rule. Now +this has its good side doubtless, though it has also a wretchedly bad +one; but it must render an Englishman peculiarly ill-qualified to +pass a judgment on the original tendencies of human nature from his +own experience. The errors to which observers elsewhere are liable on +the subject, are of a different character. An Englishman is ignorant +respecting human nature, a Frenchman is prejudiced. An Englishman's +errors are negative, a Frenchman's positive. An Englishman fancies +that things do not exist, because he never sees them; a Frenchman +thinks they must always and necessarily exist, because he does see +them. An Englishman does not know nature, because he has had no +opportunity of observing it; a Frenchman generally knows a great deal +of it, but often mistakes it, because he has only seen it +sophisticated and distorted. For the artificial state superinduced by +society disguises the natural tendencies of the thing which is the +subject of observation, in two different ways: by extinguishing the +nature, or by transforming it. In the one case there is but a starved +residuum of nature remaining to be studied; in the other case there +is much, but it may have expanded in any direction rather than that +in which it would spontaneously grow. + +I have said that it cannot now be known how much of the existing +mental differences between men and women is natural, and how much +artificial; whether there are any natural differences at all; or, +supposing all artificial causes of difference to be withdrawn, what +natural character would be revealed. I am not about to attempt what I +have pronounced impossible: but doubt does not forbid conjecture, and +where certainty is unattainable, there may yet be the means of +arriving at some degree of probability. The first point, the origin +of the differences actually observed, is the one most accessible to +speculation; and I shall attempt to approach it, by the only path by +which it can be reached; by tracing the mental consequences of +external influences. We cannot isolate a human being from the +circumstances of his condition, so as to ascertain experimentally +what he would have been by nature; but we can consider what he is, +and what his circumstances have been, and whether the one would have +been capable of producing the other. + +Let us take, then, the only marked case which observation affords, of +apparent inferiority of women to men, if we except the merely +physical one of bodily strength. No production in philosophy, +science, or art, entitled to the first rank, has been the work of a +woman. Is there any mode of accounting for this, without supposing +that women are naturally incapable of producing them? + +In the first place, we may fairly question whether experience has +afforded sufficient grounds for an induction. It is scarcely three +generations since women, saving very rare exceptions, have begun to +try their capacity in philosophy, science, or art. It is only in the +present generation that their attempts have been at all numerous; and +they are even now extremely few, everywhere but in England and +France. It is a relevant question, whether a mind possessing the +requisites of first-rate eminence in speculation or creative art +could have been expected, on the mere calculation of chances, to turn +up during that lapse of time, among the women whose tastes and +personal position admitted of their devoting themselves to these +pursuits. In all things which there has yet been time for--in all but +the very highest grades in the scale of excellence, especially in the +department in which they have been longest engaged, literature (both +prose and poetry)--women have done quite as much, have obtained fully +as high prizes and as many of them, as could be expected from the +length of time and the number of competitors. If we go back to the +earlier period when very few women made the attempt, yet some of +those few made it with distinguished success. The Greeks always +accounted Sappho among their great poets; and we may well suppose +that Myrtis, said to have been the teacher of Pindar, and Corinna, +who five times bore away from him the prize of poetry, must at least +have had sufficient merit to admit of being compared with that great +name. Aspasia did not leave any philosophical writings; but it is an +admitted fact that Socrates resorted to her for instruction, and +avowed himself to have obtained it. + +If we consider the works of women in modern times, and contrast them +with those of men, either in the literary or the artistic department, +such inferiority as may be observed resolves itself essentially into +one thing: but that is a most material one; deficiency of +originality. Not total deficiency; for every production of mind which +is of any substantive value, has an originality of its own--is a +conception of the mind itself, not a copy of something else. Thoughts +original, in the sense of being unborrowed--of being derived from the +thinker's own observations or intellectual processes--are abundant in +the writings of women. But they have not yet produced any of those +great and luminous new ideas which form an era in thought, nor those +fundamentally new conceptions in art, which open a vista of possible +effects not before thought of, and found a new school. Their +compositions are mostly grounded on the existing fund of thought, and +their creations do not deviate widely from existing types. This is +the sort of inferiority which their works manifest: for in point of +execution, in the detailed application of thought, and the perfection +of style, there is no inferiority. Our best novelists in point of +composition, and of the management of detail, have mostly been women; +and there is not in all modern literature a more eloquent vehicle of +thought than the style of Madame de Stael, nor, as a specimen of +purely artistic excellence, anything superior to the prose of Madame +Sand, whose style acts upon the nervous system like a symphony of +Haydn or Mozart. High originality of conception is, as I have said, +what is chiefly wanting. And now to examine if there is any manner in +which this deficiency can be accounted for. + +Let us remember, then, so far as regards mere thought, that during +all that period in the world's existence, and in the progress of +cultivation, in which great and fruitful new truths could be arrived +at by mere force of genius, with little previous study and +accumulation of knowledge--during all that time women did not concern +themselves with speculation at all. From the days of Hypatia to those +of the Reformation, the illustrious Heloisa is almost the only woman +to whom any such achievement might have been possible; and we know +not how great a capacity of speculation in her may have been lost to +mankind by the misfortunes of her life. Never since any considerable +number of women have begun to cultivate serious thought, has +originality been possible on easy terms. Nearly all the thoughts +which can be reached by mere strength of original faculties, have +long since been arrived at; and originality, in any high sense of the +word, is now scarcely ever attained but by minds which have undergone +elaborate discipline, and are deeply versed in the results of +previous thinking. It is Mr. Maurice, I think, who has remarked on +the present age, that its most original thinkers are those who have +known most thoroughly what had been thought by their predecessors: +and this will always henceforth be the case. Every fresh stone in the +edifice has now to be placed on the top of so many others, that a +long process of climbing, and of carrying up materials, has to be +gone through by whoever aspires to take a share in the present stage +of the work. How many women are there who have gone through any such +process? Mrs. Somerville, alone perhaps of women, knows as much of +mathematics as is now needful for making any considerable +mathematical discovery: is it any proof of inferiority in women, that +she has not happened to be one of the two or three persons who in her +lifetime have associated their names with some striking advancement +of the science? Two women, since political economy has been made a +science, have known enough of it to write usefully on the subject: of +how many of the innumerable men who have written on it during the +same time, is it possible with truth to say more? If no woman has +hitherto been a great historian, what woman has had the necessary +erudition? If no woman is a great philologist, what woman has studied +Sanscrit and Slavonic, the Gothic of Ulphila and the Persic of the +Zendavesta? Even in practical matters we all know what is the value +of the originality of untaught geniuses. It means, inventing over +again in its rudimentary form something already invented and improved +upon by many successive inventors. When women have had the +preparation which all men now require to be eminently original, it +will be time enough to begin judging by experience of their capacity +for originality. + +It no doubt often happens that a person, who has not widely and +accurately studied the thoughts of others on a subject, has by +natural sagacity a happy intuition, which he can suggest, but cannot +prove, which yet when matured may be an important addition to +knowledge: but even then, no justice can be done to it until some +other person, who does possess the previous acquirements, takes it in +hand, tests it, gives it a scientific or practical form, and fits it +into its place among the existing truths of philosophy or science. Is +it supposed that such felicitous thoughts do not occur to women? They +occur by hundreds to every woman of intellect. But they are mostly +lost, for want of a husband or friend who has the other knowledge +which can enable him to estimate them properly and bring them before +the world: and even when they are brought before it, they generally +appear as his ideas, not their real author's. Who can tell how many +of the most original thoughts put forth by male writers, belong to a +woman by suggestion, to themselves only by verifying and working out? +If I may judge by my own case, a very large proportion indeed. + +If we turn from pure speculation to literature in the narrow sense of +the term, and the fine arts, there is a very obvious reason why +women's literature is, in its general conception and in its main +features, an imitation of men's. Why is the Roman literature, as +critics proclaim to satiety, not original, but an imitation of the +Greek? Simply because the Greeks came first. If women lived in a +different country from men, and had never read any of their writings, +they would have had a literature of their own. As it is, they have +not created one, because they found a highly advanced literature +already created. If there had been no suspension of the knowledge of +antiquity, or if the Renaissance had occurred before the Gothic +cathedrals were built, they never would have been built. We see that, +in France and Italy, imitation of the ancient literature stopped the +original development even after it had commenced. All women who write +are pupils of the great male writers. A painter's early pictures, +even if he be a Raffaelle, are undistinguishable in style from those +of his master. Even a Mozart does not display his powerful +originality in his earliest pieces. What years are to a gifted +individual, generations are to a mass. If women's literature is +destined to have a different collective character from that of men, +depending on any difference of natural tendencies, much longer time +is necessary than has yet elapsed, before it can emancipate itself +from the influence of accepted models, and guide itself by its own +impulses. But if, as I believe, there will not prove to be any +natural tendencies common to women, and distinguishing their genius +from that of men, yet every individual writer among them has her +individual tendencies, which at present are still subdued by the +influence of precedent and example: and it will require generations +more, before their individuality is sufficiently developed to make +head against that influence. + +It is in the fine arts, properly so called, that the _prim facie_ +evidence of inferior original powers in women at first sight appears +the strongest: since opinion (it may be said) does not exclude them +from these, but rather encourages them, and their education, instead +of passing over this department, is in the affluent classes mainly +composed of it. Yet in this line of exertion they have fallen still +more short than in many others, of the highest eminence attained by +men. This shortcoming, however, needs no other explanation than the +familiar fact, more universally true in the fine arts than in +anything else; the vast superiority of professional persons over +amateurs. Women in the educated classes are almost universally taught +more or less of some branch or other of the fine arts, but not that +they may gain their living or their social consequence by it. Women +artists are all amateurs. The exceptions are only of the kind which +confirm the general truth. Women are taught music, but not for the +purpose of composing, only of executing it: and accordingly it is +only as composers, that men, in music, are superior to women. The +only one of the fine arts which women do follow, to any extent, as a +profession, and an occupation for life, is the histrionic; and in +that they are confessedly equal, if not superior, to men. To make the +comparison fair, it should be made between the productions of women +in any branch of art, and those of men not following it as a +profession. In musical composition, for example, women surely have +produced fully as good things as have ever been produced by male +amateurs. There are now a few women, a very few, who practise +painting as a profession, and these are already beginning to show +quite as much talent as could be expected. Even male painters (_pace_ +Mr. Ruskin) have not made any very remarkable figure these last +centuries, and it will be long before they do so. The reason why the +old painters were so greatly superior to the modern, is that a +greatly superior class of men applied themselves to the art. In the +fourteenth and fifteenth centuries the Italian painters were the most +accomplished men of their age. The greatest of them were men of +encyclopdical acquirements and powers, like the great men of Greece. +But in their times fine art was, to men's feelings and conceptions, +among the grandest things in which a human being could excel; and by +it men were made, what only political or military distinction now +makes them, the companions of sovereigns, and the equals of the +highest nobility. In the present age, men of anything like similar +calibre find something more important to do, for their own fame and +the uses of the modern world, than painting: and it is only now and +then that a Reynolds or a Turner (of whose relative rank among +eminent men I do not pretend to an opinion) applies himself to that +art. Music belongs to a different order of things; it does not +require the same general powers of mind, but seems more dependant on +a natural gift: and it may be thought surprising that no one of the +great musical composers has been a woman. But even this natural gift, +to be made available for great creations, requires study, and +professional devotion to the pursuit. The only countries which have +produced first-rate composers, even of the male sex, are Germany and +Italy--countries in which, both in point of special and of general +cultivation, women have remained far behind France and England, being +generally (it may be said without exaggeration) very little educated, +and having scarcely cultivated at all any of the higher faculties of +mind. And in those countries the men who are acquainted with the +principles of musical composition must be counted by hundreds, or +more probably by thousands, the women barely by scores: so that here +again, on the doctrine of averages, we cannot reasonably expect to +see more than one eminent woman to fifty eminent men; and the last +three centuries have not produced fifty eminent male composers either +in Germany or in Italy. + +There are other reasons, besides those which we have now given, that +help to explain why women remain behind men, even in the pursuits +which are open to both. For one thing, very few women have time for +them. This may seem a paradox; it is an undoubted social fact. The +time and thoughts of every woman have to satisfy great previous +demands on them for things practical. There is, first, the +superintendence of the family and the domestic expenditure, which +occupies at least one woman in every family, generally the one of +mature years and acquired experience; unless the family is so rich as +to admit of delegating that task to hired agency, and submitting to +all the waste and malversation inseparable from that mode of +conducting it. The superintendence of a household, even when not in +other respects laborious, is extremely onerous to the thoughts; it +requires incessant vigilance, an eye which no detail escapes, and +presents questions for consideration and solution, foreseen and +unforeseen, at every hour of the day, from which the person +responsible for them can hardly ever shake herself free. If a woman +is of a rank and circumstances which relieve her in a measure from +these cares, she has still devolving on her the management for the +whole family of its intercourse with others--of what is called +society, and the less the call made on her by the former duty, the +greater is always the development of the latter: the dinner parties, +concerts, evening parties, morning visits, letter writing, and all +that goes with them. All this is over and above the engrossing duty +which society imposes exclusively on women, of making themselves +charming. A clever woman of the higher ranks finds nearly a +sufficient employment of her talents in cultivating the graces of +manner and the arts of conversation. To look only at the outward side +of the subject: the great and continual exercise of thought which all +women who attach any value to dressing well (I do not mean +expensively, but with taste, and perception of natural and of +artificial _convenance_) must bestow upon their own dress, perhaps +also upon that of their daughters, would alone go a great way towards +achieving respectable results in art, or science, or literature, and +does actually exhaust much of the time and mental power they might +have to spare for either.[2] If it were possible that all this number +of little practical interests (which are made great to them) should +leave them either much leisure, or much energy and freedom of mind, +to be devoted to art or speculation, they must have a much greater +original supply of active faculty than the vast majority of men. But +this is not all. Independently of the regular offices of life which +devolve upon a woman, she is expected to have her time and faculties +always at the disposal of everybody. If a man has not a profession to +exempt him from such demands, still, if he has a pursuit, he offends +nobody by devoting his time to it; occupation is received as a valid +excuse for his not answering to every casual demand which may be made +on him. Are a woman's occupations, especially her chosen and +voluntary ones, ever regarded as excusing her from any of what are +termed the calls of society? Scarcely are her most necessary and +recognised duties allowed as an exemption. It requires an illness in +the family, or something else out of the common way, to entitle her +to give her own business the precedence over other people's +amusement. She must always be at the beck and call of somebody, +generally of everybody. If she has a study or a pursuit, she must +snatch any short interval which accidentally occurs to be employed in +it. A celebrated woman, in a work which I hope will some day be +published, remarks truly that everything a woman does is done at odd +times. Is it wonderful, then, if she does not attain the highest +eminence in things which require consecutive attention, and the +concentration on them of the chief interest of life? Such is +philosophy, and such, above all, is art, in which, besides the +devotion of the thoughts and feelings, the hand also must be kept in +constant exercise to attain high skill. + +There is another consideration to be added to all these. In the +various arts and intellectual occupations, there is a degree of +proficiency sufficient for living by it, and there is a higher degree +on which depend the great productions which immortalize a name. To +the attainment of the former, there are adequate motives in the case +of all who follow the pursuit professionally: the other is hardly +ever attained where there is not, or where there has not been at some +period of life, an ardent desire of celebrity. Nothing less is +commonly a sufficient stimulus to undergo the long and patient +drudgery, which, in the case even of the greatest natural gifts, is +absolutely required for great eminence in pursuits in which we +already possess so many splendid memorials of the highest genius. +Now, whether the cause be natural or artificial, women seldom have +this eagerness for fame. Their ambition is generally confined within +narrower bounds. The influence they seek is over those who +immediately surround them. Their desire is to be liked, loved, or +admired, by those whom they see with their eyes: and the proficiency +in knowledge, arts, and accomplishments, which is sufficient for +that, almost always contents them. This is a trait of character which +cannot be left out of the account in judging of women as they are. I +do not at all believe that it is inherent in women. It is only the +natural result of their circumstances. The love of fame in men is +encouraged by education and opinion: to "scorn delights and live +laborious days" for its sake, is accounted the part of "noble minds," +even if spoken of as their "last infirmity," and is stimulated by the +access which fame gives to all objects of ambition, including even +the favour of women; while to women themselves all these objects are +closed, and the desire of fame itself considered daring and +unfeminine. Besides, how could it be that a woman's interests should +not be all concentrated upon the impressions made on those who come +into her daily life, when society has ordained that all her duties +should be to them, and has contrived that all her comforts should +depend on them? The natural desire of consideration from our fellow +creatures is as strong in a woman as in a man; but society has so +ordered things that public consideration is, in all ordinary cases, +only attainable by her through the consideration of her husband or of +her male relations, while her private consideration is forfeited by +making herself individually prominent, or appearing in any other +character than that of an appendage to men. Whoever is in the least +capable of estimating the influence on the mind of the entire +domestic and social position and the whole habit of a life, must +easily recognise in that influence a complete explanation of nearly +all the apparent differences between women and men, including the +whole of those which imply any inferiority. + +As for moral differences, considered as distinguished from +intellectual, the distinction commonly drawn is to the advantage of +women. They are declared to be better than men; an empty compliment, +which must provoke a bitter smile from every woman of spirit, since +there is no other situation in life in which it is the established +order, and considered quite natural and suitable, that the better +should obey the worse. If this piece of idle talk is good for +anything, it is only as an admission by men, of the corrupting +influence of power; for that is certainly the only truth which the +fact, if it be a fact, either proves or illustrates. And it _is_ true +that servitude, except when it actually brutalizes, though corrupting +to both, is less so to the slaves than to the slave-masters. It is +wholesomer for the moral nature to be restrained, even by arbitrary +power, than to be allowed to exercise arbitrary power without +restraint. Women, it is said, seldomer fall under the penal +law--contribute a much smaller number of offenders to the criminal +calendar, than men. I doubt not that the same thing may be said, with +the same truth, of negro slaves. Those who are under the control of +others cannot often commit crimes, unless at the command and for the +purposes of their masters. I do not know a more signal instance of +the blindness with which the world, including the herd of studious +men, ignore and pass over all the influences of social circumstances, +than their silly depreciation of the intellectual, and silly +panegyrics on the moral, nature of women. + +The complimentary dictum about women's superior moral goodness may be +allowed to pair off with the disparaging one respecting their greater +liability to moral bias. Women, we are told, are not capable of +resisting their personal partialities: their judgment in grave +affairs is warped by their sympathies and antipathies. Assuming it to +be so, it is still to be proved that women are oftener misled by +their personal feelings than men by their personal interests. The +chief difference would seem in that case to be, that men are led from +the course of duty and the public interest by their regard for +themselves, women (not being allowed to have private interests of +their own) by their regard for somebody else. It is also to be +considered, that all the education which women receive from society +inculcates on them the feeling that the individuals connected with +them are the only ones to whom they owe any duty--the only ones whose +interest they are called upon to care for; while, as far as education +is concerned, they are left strangers even to the elementary ideas +which are presupposed in any intelligent regard for larger interests +or higher moral objects. The complaint against them resolves itself +merely into this, that they fulfil only too faithfully the sole duty +which they are taught, and almost the only one which they are +permitted to practise. + +The concessions of the privileged to the unprivileged are so seldom +brought about by any better motive than the power of the unprivileged +to extort them, that any arguments against the prerogative of sex are +likely to be little attended to by the generality, as long as they +are able to say to themselves that women do not complain of it. That +fact certainly enables men to retain the unjust privilege some time +longer; but does not render it less unjust. Exactly the same thing +may be said of the women in the harem of an Oriental: they do not +complain of not being allowed the freedom of European women. They +think our women insufferably bold and unfeminine. How rarely it is +that even men complain of the general order of society; and how much +rarer still would such complaint be, if they did not know of any +different order existing anywhere else. Women do not complain of the +general lot of women; or rather they do, for plaintive elegies on it +are very common in the writings of women, and were still more so as +long as the lamentations could not be suspected of having any +practical object. Their complaints are like the complaints which men +make of the general unsatisfactoriness of human life; they are not +meant to imply blame, or to plead for any change. But though women do +not complain of the power of husbands, each complains of her own +husband, or of the husbands of her friends. It is the same in all +other cases of servitude, at least in the commencement of the +emancipatory movement. The serfs did not at first complain of the +power of their lords, but only of their tyranny. The Commons began by +claiming a few municipal privileges; they next asked an exemption for +themselves from being taxed without their own consent; but they would +at that time have thought it a great presumption to claim any share +in the king's sovereign authority. The case of women is now the only +case in which to rebel against established rules is still looked upon +with the same eyes as was formerly a subject's claim to the right of +rebelling against his king. A woman who joins in any movement which +her husband disapproves, makes herself a martyr, without even being +able to be an apostle, for the husband can legally put a stop to her +apostleship. Women cannot be expected to devote themselves to the +emancipation of women, until men in considerable number are prepared +to join with them in the undertaking. + +[Footnote 1: Especially is this true if we take into consideration +Asia as well as Europe. If a Hindoo principality is strongly, +vigilantly, and economically governed; if order is preserved without +oppression; if cultivation is extending, and the people prosperous, +in three cases out of four that principality is under a woman's rule. +This fact, to me an entirely unexpected one, I have collected from a +long official knowledge of Hindoo governments. There are many such +instances: for though, by Hindoo institutions, a woman cannot reign, +she is the legal regent of a kingdom during the minority of the heir; +and minorities are frequent, the lives of the male rulers being so +often prematurely terminated through the effect of inactivity and +sensual excesses. When we consider that these princesses have never +been seen in public, have never conversed with any man not of their +own family except from behind a curtain, that they do not read, and +if they did, there is no book in their languages which can give them +the smallest instruction on political affairs; the example they +afford of the natural capacity of women for government is very +striking.] + +[Footnote 2: "It appears to be the same right turn of mind which +enables a man to acquire the _truth_, or the just idea of what is +right, in the ornaments, as in the more stable principles of art. It +has still the same centre of perfection, though it is the centre of a +smaller circle.--To illustrate this by the fashion of dress, in which +there is allowed to be a good or bad taste. The component parts of +dress are continually changing from great to little, from short to +long; but the general form still remains: it is still the same +general dress which is comparatively fixed, though on a very slender +foundation; but it is on this which fashion must rest. He who invents +with the most success, or dresses in the best taste, would probably, +from the same sagacity employed to greater purposes, have discovered +equal skill, or have formed the same correct taste, in the highest +labours of art."--_Sir Joshua Reynolds' Discourses_, Disc. vii.] + + + + +CHAPTER IV. + + +There remains a question, not of less importance than those already +discussed, and which will be asked the most importunately by those +opponents whose conviction is somewhat shaken on the main point. What +good are we to expect from the changes proposed in our customs and +institutions? Would mankind be at all better off if women were free? +If not, why disturb their minds, and attempt to make a social +revolution in the name of an abstract right? + +It is hardly to be expected that this question will be asked in +respect to the change proposed in the condition of women in marriage. +The sufferings, immoralities, evils of all sorts, produced in +innumerable cases by the subjection of individual women to individual +men, are far too terrible to be overlooked. Unthinking or uncandid +persons, counting those cases alone which are extreme, or which +attain publicity, may say that the evils are exceptional; but no one +can be blind to their existence, nor, in many cases, to their +intensity. And it is perfectly obvious that the abuse of the power +cannot be very much checked while the power remains. It is a power +given, or offered, not to good men, or to decently respectable men, +but to all men; the most brutal, and the most criminal. There is no +check but that of opinion, and such men are in general within the +reach of no opinion but that of men like themselves. If such men did +not brutally tyrannize over the one human being whom the law compels +to bear everything from them, society must already have reached a +paradisiacal state. There could be no need any longer of laws to curb +men's vicious propensities. Astra must not only have returned to +earth, but the heart of the worst man must have become her temple. +The law of servitude in marriage is a monstrous contradiction to all +the principles of the modern world, and to all the experience through +which those principles have been slowly and painfully worked out. It +is the sole case, now that negro slavery has been abolished, in which +a human being in the plenitude of every faculty is delivered up to +the tender mercies of another human being, in the hope forsooth that +this other will use the power solely for the good of the person +subjected to it. Marriage is the only actual bondage known to our +law. There remain no legal slaves, except the mistress of every +house. + +It is not, therefore, on this part of the subject, that the question +is likely to be asked, _Cui bono_? We may be told that the evil would +outweigh the good, but the reality of the good admits of no dispute. +In regard, however, to the larger question, the removal of women's +disabilities--their recognition as the equals of men in all that +belongs to citizenship--the opening to them of all honourable +employments, and of the training and education which qualifies for +those employments--there are many persons for whom it is not enough +that the inequality has no just or legitimate defence; they require +to be told what express advantage would be obtained by abolishing it. + +To which let me first answer, the advantage of having the most +universal and pervading of all human relations regulated by justice +instead of injustice. The vast amount of this gain to human nature, +it is hardly possible, by any explanation or illustration, to place +in a stronger light than it is placed by the bare statement, to any +one who attaches a moral meaning to words. All the selfish +propensities, the self-worship, the unjust self-preference, which +exist among mankind, have their source and root in, and derive their +principal nourishment from, the present constitution of the relation +between men and women. Think what it is to a boy, to grow up to +manhood in the belief that without any merit or any exertion of his +own, though he may be the most frivolous and empty or the most +ignorant and stolid of mankind, by the mere fact of being born a male +he is by right the superior of all and every one of an entire half of +the human race: including probably some whose real superiority to +himself he has daily or hourly occasion to feel; but even if in his +whole conduct he habitually follows a woman's guidance, still, if he +is a fool, she thinks that of course she is not, and cannot be, equal +in ability and judgment to himself; and if he is not a fool, he does +worse--he sees that she is superior to him, and believes that, +notwithstanding her superiority, he is entitled to command and she is +bound to obey. What must be the effect on his character, of this +lesson? And men of the cultivated classes are often not aware how +deeply it sinks into the immense majority of male minds. For, among +right-feeling and well-bred people, the inequality is kept as much as +possible out of sight; above all, out of sight of the children. As +much obedience is required from boys to their mother as to their +father: they are not permitted to domineer over their sisters, nor +are they accustomed to see these postponed to them, but the contrary; +the compensations of the chivalrous feeling being made prominent, +while the servitude which requires them is kept in the background. +Well brought-up youths in the higher classes thus often escape the +bad influences of the situation in their early years, and only +experience them when, arrived at manhood, they fall under the +dominion of facts as they really exist. Such people are little aware, +when a boy is differently brought up, how early the notion of his +inherent superiority to a girl arises in his mind; how it grows with +his growth and strengthens with his strength; how it is inoculated by +one schoolboy upon another; how early the youth thinks himself +superior to his mother, owing her perhaps forbearance, but no real +respect; and how sublime and sultan-like a sense of superiority he +feels, above all, over the woman whom he honours by admitting her to +a partnership of his life. Is it imagined that all this does not +pervert the whole manner of existence of the man, both as an +individual and as a social being? It is an exact parallel to the +feeling of a hereditary king that he is excellent above others by +being born a king, or a noble by being born a noble. The relation +between husband and wife is very like that between lord and vassal, +except that the wife is held to more unlimited obedience than the +vassal was. However the vassal's character may have been affected, +for better and for worse, by his subordination, who can help seeing +that the lord's was affected greatly for the worse? whether he was +led to believe that his vassals were really superior to himself, or +to feel that he was placed in command over people as good as himself, +for no merits or labours of his own, but merely for having, as Figaro +says, taken the trouble to be born. The self-worship of the monarch, +or of the feudal superior, is matched by the self-worship of the +male. Human beings do not grow up from childhood in the possession of +unearned distinctions, without pluming themselves upon them. Those +whom privileges not acquired by their merit, and which they feel to +be disproportioned to it, inspire with additional humility, are +always the few, and the best few. The rest are only inspired with +pride, and the worst sort of pride, that which values itself upon +accidental advantages, not of its own achieving. Above all, when the +feeling of being raised above the whole of the other sex is combined +with personal authority over one individual among them; the +situation, if a school of conscientious and affectionate forbearance +to those whose strongest points of character are conscience and +affection, is to men of another quality a regularly constituted +Academy or Gymnasium for training them in arrogance and +overbearingness; which vices, if curbed by the certainty of +resistance in their intercourse with other men, their equals, break +out towards all who are in a position to be obliged to tolerate them, +and often revenge themselves upon the unfortunate wife for the +involuntary restraint which they are obliged to submit to elsewhere. + +The example afforded, and the education given to the sentiments, by +laying the foundation of domestic existence upon a relation +contradictory to the first principles of social justice, must, from +the very nature of man, have a perverting influence of such +magnitude, that it is hardly possible with our present experience to +raise our imaginations to the conception of so great a change for the +better as would be made by its removal. All that education and +civilization are doing to efface the influences on character of the +law of force, and replace them by those of justice, remains merely on +the surface, as long as the citadel of the enemy is not attacked. The +principle of the modern movement in morals and politics, is that +conduct, and conduct alone, entitles to respect: that not what men +are, but what they do, constitutes their claim to deference; that, +above all, merit, and not birth, is the only rightful claim to power +and authority. If no authority, not in its nature temporary, were +allowed to one human being over another, society would not be +employed in building up propensities with one hand which it has to +curb with the other. The child would really, for the first time in +man's existence on earth, be trained in the way he should go, and +when he was old there would be a chance that he would not depart from +it. But so long as the right of the strong to power over the weak +rules in the very heart of society, the attempt to make the equal +right of the weak the principle of its outward actions will always be +an uphill struggle; for the law of justice, which is also that of +Christianity, will never get possession of men's inmost sentiments; +they will be working against it, even when bending to it. + +The second benefit to be expected from giving to women the free use +of their faculties, by leaving them the free choice of their +employments, and opening to them the same field of occupation and the +same prizes and encouragements as to other human beings, would be +that of doubling the mass of mental faculties available for the +higher service of humanity. Where there is now one person qualified +to benefit mankind and promote the general improvement, as a public +teacher, or an administrator of some branch of public or social +affairs, there would then be a chance of two. Mental superiority of +any kind is at present everywhere so much below the demand; there is +such a deficiency of persons competent to do excellently anything +which it requires any considerable amount of ability to do; that the +loss to the world, by refusing to make use of one-half of the whole +quantity of talent it possesses, is extremely serious. It is true +that this amount of mental power is not totally lost. Much of it is +employed, and would in any case be employed, in domestic management, +and in the few other occupations open to women; and from the +remainder indirect benefit is in many individual cases obtained, +through the personal influence of individual women over individual +men. But these benefits are partial; their range is extremely +circumscribed; and if they must be admitted, on the one hand, as a +deduction from the amount of fresh social power that would be +acquired by giving freedom to one-half of the whole sum of human +intellect, there must be added, on the other, the benefit of the +stimulus that would be given to the intellect of men by the +competition; or (to use a more true expression) by the necessity that +would be imposed on them of deserving precedency before they could +expect to obtain it. + +This great accession to the intellectual power of the species, and to +the amount of intellect available for the good management of its +affairs, would be obtained, partly, through the better and more +complete intellectual education of women, which would then improve +_pari passu_ with that of men. Women in general would be brought up +equally capable of understanding business, public affairs, and the +higher matters of speculation, with men in the same class of society; +and the select few of the one as well as of the other sex, who were +qualified not only to comprehend what is done or thought by others, +but to think or do something considerable themselves, would meet with +the same facilities for improving and training their capacities in +the one sex as in the other. In this way, the widening of the sphere +of action for women would operate for good, by raising their +education to the level of that of men, and making the one participate +in all improvements made in the other. But independently of this, the +mere breaking down of the barrier would of itself have an educational +virtue of the highest worth. The mere getting rid of the idea that +all the wider subjects of thought and action, all the things which +are of general and not solely of private interest, are men's +business, from which women are to be warned off--positively +interdicted from most of it, coldly tolerated in the little which is +allowed them--the mere consciousness a woman would then have of being +a human being like any other, entitled to choose her pursuits, urged +or invited by the same inducements as any one else to interest +herself in whatever is interesting to human beings, entitled to exert +the share of influence on all human concerns which belongs to an +individual opinion, whether she attempted actual participation in +them or not--this alone would effect an immense expansion of the +faculties of women, as well as enlargement of the range of their +moral sentiments. + +Besides the addition to the amount of individual talent available for +the conduct of human affairs, which certainly are not at present so +abundantly provided in that respect that they can afford to dispense +with one-half of what nature proffers; the opinion of women would +then possess a more beneficial, rather than a greater, influence upon +the general mass of human belief and sentiment. I say a more +beneficial, rather than a greater influence; for the influence of +women over the general tone of opinion has always, or at least from +the earliest known period, been very considerable. The influence of +mothers on the early character of their sons, and the desire of young +men to recommend themselves to young women, have in all recorded +times been important agencies in the formation of character, and have +determined some of the chief steps in the progress of civilization. +Even in the Homeric age, [Greek: aids] towards the [Greek: Tradas] +[Greek: helkesipeplous] is an acknowledged and powerful motive of +action in the great Hector. The moral influence of women has had two +modes of operation. First, it has been a softening influence. Those +who were most liable to be the victims of violence, have naturally +tended as much as they could towards limiting its sphere and +mitigating its excesses. Those who were not taught to fight, have +naturally inclined in favour of any other mode of settling +differences rather than that of fighting. In general, those who have +been the greatest sufferers by the indulgence of selfish passion, +have been the most earnest supporters of any moral law which offered +a means of bridling passion. Women were powerfully instrumental in +inducing the northern conquerors to adopt the creed of Christianity, +a creed so much more favourable to women than any that preceded it. +The conversion of the Anglo-Saxons and of the Franks may be said to +have been begun by the wives of Ethelbert and Clovis. The other mode +in which the effect of women's opinion has been conspicuous, is by +giving a powerful stimulus to those qualities in men, which, not +being themselves trained in, it was necessary for them that they +should find in their protectors. Courage, and the military virtues +generally, have at all times been greatly indebted to the desire +which men felt of being admired by women: and the stimulus reaches +far beyond this one class of eminent qualities, since, by a very +natural effect of their position, the best passport to the admiration +and favour of women has always been to be thought highly of by men. +From the combination of the two kinds of moral influence thus +exercised by women, arose the spirit of chivalry: the peculiarity of +which is, to aim at combining the highest standard of the warlike +qualities with the cultivation of a totally different class of +virtues--those of gentleness, generosity, and self-abnegation, +towards the non-military and defenceless classes generally, and a +special submission and worship directed towards women; who were +distinguished from the other defenceless classes by the high rewards +which they had it in their power voluntarily to bestow on those who +endeavoured to earn their favour, instead of extorting their +subjection. Though the practice of chivalry fell even more sadly +short of its theoretic standard than practice generally falls below +theory, it remains one of the most precious monuments of the moral +history of our race; as a remarkable instance of a concerted and +organized attempt by a most disorganized and distracted society, to +raise up and carry into practice a moral ideal greatly in advance of +its social condition and institutions; so much so as to have been +completely frustrated in the main object, yet never entirely +inefficacious, and which has left a most sensible, and for the most +part a highly valuable impress on the ideas and feelings of all +subsequent times. + +The chivalrous ideal is the acme of the influence of women's +sentiments on the moral cultivation of mankind: and if women are to +remain in their subordinate situation, it were greatly to be lamented +that the chivalrous standard should have passed away, for it is the +only one at all capable of mitigating the demoralizing influences of +that position. But the changes in the general state of the species +rendered inevitable the substitution of a totally different ideal of +morality for the chivalrous one. Chivalry was the attempt to infuse +moral elements into a state of society in which everything depended +for good or evil on individual prowess, under the softening +influences of individual delicacy and generosity. In modern +societies, all things, even in the military department of affairs, +are decided, not by individual effort, but by the combined operations +of numbers; while the main occupation of society has changed from +fighting to business, from military to industrial life. The +exigencies of the new life are no more exclusive of the virtues of +generosity than those of the old, but it no longer entirely depends +on them. The main foundations of the moral life of modern times must +be justice and prudence; the respect of each for the rights of every +other, and the ability of each to take care of himself. Chivalry left +without legal check all forms of wrong which reigned unpunished +throughout society; it only encouraged a few to do right in +preference to wrong, by the direction it gave to the instruments of +praise and admiration. But the real dependence of morality must +always be upon its penal sanctions--its power to deter from evil. The +security of society cannot rest on merely rendering honour to right, +a motive so comparatively weak in all but a few, and which on very +many does not operate at all. Modern society is able to repress wrong +through all departments of life, by a fit exertion of the superior +strength which civilization has given it, and thus to render the +existence of the weaker members of society (no longer defenceless but +protected by law) tolerable to them, without reliance on the +chivalrous feelings of those who are in a position to tyrannize. The +beauties and graces of the chivalrous character are still what they +were, but the rights of the weak, and the general comfort of human +life, now rest on a far surer and steadier support; or rather, they +do so in every relation of life except the conjugal. + +At present the moral influence of women is no less real, but it is no +longer of so marked and definite a character: it has more nearly +merged in the general influence of public opinion. Both through the +contagion of sympathy, and through the desire of men to shine in the +eyes of women, their feelings have great effect in keeping alive what +remains of the chivalrous ideal--in fostering the sentiments and +continuing the traditions of spirit and generosity. In these points +of character, their standard is higher than that of men; in the +quality of justice, somewhat lower. As regards the relations of +private life it may be said generally, that their influence is, on +the whole, encouraging to the softer virtues, discouraging to the +sterner: though the statement must be taken with all the +modifications dependent on individual character. In the chief of the +greater trials to which virtue is subject in the concerns of +life--the conflict between interest and principle--the tendency of +women's influence is of a very mixed character. When the principle +involved happens to be one of the very few which the course of their +religious or moral education has strongly impressed upon themselves, +they are potent auxiliaries to virtue: and their husbands and sons +are often prompted by them to acts of abnegation which they never +would have been capable of without that stimulus. But, with the +present education and position of women, the moral principles which +have been impressed on them cover but a comparatively small part of +the field of virtue, and are, moreover, principally negative; +forbidding particular acts, but having little to do with the general +direction of the thoughts and purposes. I am afraid it must be said, +that disinterestedness in the general conduct of life--the devotion +of the energies to purposes which hold out no promise of private +advantages to the family--is very seldom encouraged or supported by +women's influence. It is small blame to them that they discourage +objects of which they have not learnt to see the advantage, and which +withdraw their men from them, and from the interests of the family. +But the consequence is that women's influence is often anything but +favourable to public virtue. + +Women have, however, some share of influence in giving the tone to +public moralities since their sphere of action has been a little +widened, and since a considerable number of them have occupied +themselves practically in the promotion of objects reaching beyond +their own family and household. The influence of women counts for a +great deal in two of the most marked features of modern European +life--its aversion to war, and its addiction to philanthropy. +Excellent characteristics both; but unhappily, if the influence of +women is valuable in the encouragement it gives to these feelings in +general, in the particular applications the direction it gives to +them is at least as often mischievous as useful. In the philanthropic +department more particularly, the two provinces chiefly cultivated by +women are religious proselytism and charity. Religious proselytism at +home, is but another word for embittering of religious animosities: +abroad, it is usually a blind running at an object, without either +knowing or heeding the fatal mischiefs--fatal to the religious object +itself as well as to all other desirable objects--which may be +produced by the means employed. As for charity, it is a matter in +which the immediate effect on the persons directly concerned, and the +ultimate consequence to the general good, are apt to be at complete +war with one another: while the education given to women--an +education of the sentiments rather than of the understanding--and the +habit inculcated by their whole life, of looking to immediate effects +on persons, and not to remote effects on classes of persons--make +them both unable to see, and unwilling to admit, the ultimate evil +tendency of any form of charity or philanthropy which commends itself +to their sympathetic feelings. The great and continually increasing +mass of unenlightened and shortsighted benevolence, which, taking the +care of people's lives out of their own hands, and relieving them +from the disagreeable consequences of their own acts, saps the very +foundations of the self-respect, self-help, and self-control which +are the essential conditions both of individual prosperity and of +social virtue--this waste of resources and of benevolent feelings in +doing harm instead of good, is immensely swelled by women's +contributions, and stimulated by their influence. Not that this is a +mistake likely to be made by women, where they have actually the +practical management of schemes of beneficence. It sometimes happens +that women who administer public charities--with that insight into +present fact, and especially into the minds and feelings of those +with whom they are in immediate contact, in which women generally +excel men--recognise in the clearest manner the demoralizing +influence of the alms given or the help afforded, and could give +lessons on the subject to many a male political economist. But women +who only give their money, and are not brought face to face with the +effects it produces, how can they be expected to foresee them? A +woman born to the present lot of women, and content with it, how +should she appreciate the value of self-dependence? She is not +self-dependent; she is not taught self-dependence; her destiny is to +receive everything from others, and why should what is good enough +for her be bad for the poor? Her familiar notions of good are of +blessings descending from a superior. She forgets that she is not +free, and that the poor are; that if what they need is given to them +unearned, they cannot be compelled to earn it: that everybody cannot +be taken care of by everybody, but there must be some motive to +induce people to take care of themselves; and that to be helped to +help themselves, if they are physically capable of it, is the only +charity which proves to be charity in the end. + +These considerations show how usefully the part which women take in +the formation of general opinion, would be modified for the better by +that more enlarged instruction, and practical conversancy with the +things which their opinions influence, that would necessarily arise +from their social and political emancipation. But the improvement it +would work through the influence they exercise, each in her own +family, would be still more remarkable. + +It is often said that in the classes most exposed to temptation, a +man's wife and children tend to keep him honest and respectable, both +by the wife's direct influence, and by the concern he feels for their +future welfare. This may be so, and no doubt often is so, with those +who are more weak than wicked; and this beneficial influence would be +preserved and strengthened under equal laws; it does not depend on +the woman's servitude, but is, on the contrary, diminished by the +disrespect which the inferior class of men always at heart feel +towards those who are subject to their power. But when we ascend +higher in the scale, we come among a totally different set of moving +forces. The wife's influence tends, as far as it goes, to prevent the +husband from falling below the common standard of approbation of the +country. It tends quite as strongly to hinder him from rising above +it. The wife is the auxiliary of the common public opinion. A man who +is married to a woman his inferior in intelligence, finds her a +perpetual dead weight, or, worse than a dead weight, a drag, upon +every aspiration of his to be better than public opinion requires him +to be. It is hardly possible for one who is in these bonds, to attain +exalted virtue. If he differs in his opinion from the mass--if he +sees truths which have not yet dawned upon them, or if, feeling in +his heart truths which they nominally recognise, he would like to act +up to those truths more conscientiously than the generality of +mankind--to all such thoughts and desires, marriage is the heaviest +of drawbacks, unless he be so fortunate as to have a wife as much +above the common level as he himself is. + +For, in the first place, there is always some sacrifice of personal +interest required; either of social consequence, or of pecuniary +means; perhaps the risk of even the means of subsistence. These +sacrifices and risks he may be willing to encounter for himself; but +he will pause before he imposes them on his family. And his family in +this case means his wife and daughters; for he always hopes that his +sons will feel as he feels himself, and that what he can do without, +they will do without, willingly, in the same cause. But his +daughters--their marriage may depend upon it: and his wife, who is +unable to enter into or understand the objects for which these +sacrifices are made--who, if she thought them worth any sacrifice, +would think so on trust, and solely for his sake--who can participate +in none of the enthusiasm or the self-approbation he himself may +feel, while the things which he is disposed to sacrifice are all in +all to her; will not the best and most unselfish man hesitate the +longest before bringing on her this consequence? If it be not the +comforts of life, but only social consideration, that is at stake, +the burthen upon his conscience and feelings is still very severe. +Whoever has a wife and children has given hostages to Mrs. Grundy. +The approbation of that potentate may be a matter of indifference to +him, but it is of great importance to his wife. The man himself may +be above opinion, or may find sufficient compensation in the opinion +of those of his own way of thinking. But to the women connected with +him, he can offer no compensation. The almost invariable tendency of +the wife to place her influence in the same scale with social +consideration, is sometimes made a reproach to women, and represented +as a peculiar trait of feebleness and childishness of character in +them: surely with great injustice. Society makes the whole life of a +woman, in the easy classes, a continued self-sacrifice; it exacts +from her an unremitting restraint of the whole of her natural +inclinations, and the sole return it makes to her for what often +deserves the name of a martyrdom, is consideration. Her consideration +is inseparably connected with that of her husband, and after paying +the full price for it, she finds that she is to lose it, for no +reason of which she can feel the cogency. She has sacrificed her +whole life to it, and her husband will not sacrifice to it a whim, a +freak, an eccentricity; something not recognised or allowed for by +the world, and which the world will agree with her in thinking a +folly, if it thinks no worse! The dilemma is hardest upon that very +meritorious class of men, who, without possessing talents which +qualify them to make a figure among those with whom they agree in +opinion, hold their opinion from conviction, and feel bound in honour +and conscience to serve it, by making profession of their belief, and +giving their time, labour, and means, to anything undertaken in its +behalf. The worst case of all is when such men happen to be of a rank +and position which of itself neither gives them, nor excludes them +from, what is considered the best society; when their admission to it +depends mainly on what is thought of them personally--and however +unexceptionable their breeding and habits, their being identified +with opinions and public conduct unacceptable to those who give the +tone to society would operate as an effectual exclusion. Many a woman +flatters herself (nine times out of ten quite erroneously) that +nothing prevents her and her husband from moving in the highest +society of her neighbourhood--society in which others well known to +her, and in the same class of life, mix freely--except that her +husband is unfortunately a Dissenter, or has the reputation of +mingling in low radical politics. That it is, she thinks, which +hinders George from getting a commission or a place, Caroline from +making an advantageous match, and prevents her and her husband from +obtaining invitations, perhaps honours, which, for aught she sees, +they are as well entitled to as some folks. With such an influence in +every house, either exerted actively, or operating all the more +powerfully for not being asserted, is it any wonder that people in +general are kept down in that mediocrity of respectability which is +becoming a marked characteristic of modern times? + +There is another very injurious aspect in which the effect, not of +women's disabilities directly, but of the broad line of difference +which those disabilities create between the education and character +of a woman and that of a man, requires to be considered. Nothing can +be more unfavourable to that union of thoughts and inclinations which +is the ideal of married life. Intimate society between people +radically dissimilar to one another, is an idle dream. Unlikeness may +attract, but it is likeness which retains; and in proportion to the +likeness is the suitability of the individuals to give each other a +happy life. While women are so unlike men, it is not wonderful that +selfish men should feel the need of arbitrary power in their own +hands, to arrest _in limine_ the life-long conflict of inclinations, +by deciding every question on the side of their own preference. When +people are extremely unlike, there can be no real identity of +interest. Very often there is conscientious difference of opinion +between married people, on the highest points of duty. Is there any +reality in the marriage union where this takes place? Yet it is not +uncommon anywhere, when the woman has any earnestness of character; +and it is a very general case indeed in Catholic countries, when she +is supported in her dissent by the only other authority to which she +is taught to bow, the priest. With the usual barefacedness of power +not accustomed to find itself disputed, the influence of priests over +women is attacked by Protestant and Liberal writers, less for being +bad in itself, than because it is a rival authority to the husband, +and raises up a revolt against his infallibility. In England, similar +differences occasionally exist when an Evangelical wife has allied +herself with a husband of a different quality; but in general this +source at least of dissension is got rid of, by reducing the minds of +women to such a nullity, that they have no opinions but those of Mrs. +Grundy, or those which the husband tells them to have. When there is +no difference of opinion, differences merely of taste may be +sufficient to detract greatly from the happiness of married life. And +though it may stimulate the amatory propensities of men, it does not +conduce to married happiness, to exaggerate by differences of +education whatever may be the native differences of the sexes. If the +married pair are well-bred and well-behaved people, they tolerate +each other's tastes; but is mutual toleration what people look +forward to, when they enter into marriage? These differences of +inclination will naturally make their wishes different, if not +restrained by affection or duty, as to almost all domestic questions +which arise. What a difference there must be in the society which the +two persons will wish to frequent, or be frequented by! Each will +desire associates who share their own tastes: the persons agreeable +to one, will be indifferent or positively disagreeable to the other; +yet there can be none who are not common to both, for married people +do not now live in different parts of the house and have totally +different visiting lists, as in the reign of Louis XV. They cannot +help having different wishes as to the bringing up of the children: +each will wish to see reproduced in them their own tastes and +sentiments: and there is either a compromise, and only a +half-satisfaction to either, or the wife has to yield--often with +bitter suffering; and, with or without intention, her occult +influence continues to counterwork the husband's purposes. + +It would of course be extreme folly to suppose that these differences +of feeling and inclination only exist because women are brought up +differently from men, and that there would not be differences of +taste under any imaginable circumstances. But there is nothing beyond +the mark in saying that the distinction in bringing-up immensely +aggravates those differences, and renders them wholly inevitable. +While women are brought up as they are, a man and a woman will but +rarely find in one another real agreement of tastes and wishes as to +daily life. They will generally have to give it up as hopeless, and +renounce the attempt to have, in the intimate associate of their +daily life, that _idem velle, idem nolle_, which is the recognised +bond of any society that is really such: or if the man succeeds in +obtaining it, he does so by choosing a woman who is so complete a +nullity that she has no _velle_ or _nolle_ at all, and is as ready to +comply with one thing as another if anybody tells her to do so. Even +this calculation is apt to fail; dulness and want of spirit are not +always a guarantee of the submission which is so confidently expected +from them. But if they were, is this the ideal of marriage? What, in +this case, does the man obtain by it, except an upper servant, a +nurse, or a mistress? On the contrary, when each of two persons, +instead of being a nothing, is a something; when they are attached to +one another, and are not too much unlike to begin with; the constant +partaking in the same things, assisted by their sympathy, draws out +the latent capacities of each for being interested in the things +which were at first interesting only to the other; and works a +gradual assimilation of the tastes and characters to one another, +partly by the insensible modification of each, but more by a real +enriching of the two natures, each acquiring the tastes and +capacities of the other in addition to its own. This often happens +between two friends of the same sex, who are much associated in their +daily life: and it would be a common, if not the commonest, case in +marriage, did not the totally different bringing-up of the two sexes +make it next to an impossibility to form a really well-assorted +union. Were this remedied, whatever differences there might still be +in individual tastes, there would at least be, as a general rule, +complete unity and unanimity as to the great objects of life. When +the two persons both care for great objects, and are a help and +encouragement to each other in whatever regards these, the minor +matters on which their tastes may differ are not all-important to +them; and there is a foundation for solid friendship, of an enduring +character, more likely than anything else to make it, through the +whole of life, a greater pleasure to each to give pleasure to the +other, than to receive it. + +I have considered, thus far, the effects on the pleasures and +benefits of the marriage union which depend on the mere unlikeness +between the wife and the husband: but the evil tendency is +prodigiously aggravated when the unlikeness is inferiority. Mere +unlikeness, when it only means difference of good qualities, may be +more a benefit in the way of mutual improvement, than a drawback from +comfort. When each emulates, and desires and endeavours to acquire, +the other's peculiar qualities, the difference does not produce +diversity of interest, but increased identity of it, and makes each +still more valuable to the other. But when one is much the inferior +of the two in mental ability and cultivation, and is not actively +attempting by the other's aid to rise to the other's level, the whole +influence of the connexion upon the development of the superior of +the two is deteriorating: and still more so in a tolerably happy +marriage than in an unhappy one. It is not with impunity that the +superior in intellect shuts himself up with an inferior, and elects +that inferior for his chosen, and sole completely intimate, +associate. Any society which is not improving, is deteriorating: and +the more so, the closer and more familiar it is. Even a really +superior man almost always begins to deteriorate when he is +habitually (as the phrase is) king of his company: and in his most +habitual company the husband who has a wife inferior to him is always +so. While his self-satisfaction is incessantly ministered to on the +one hand, on the other he insensibly imbibes the modes of feeling, +and of looking at things, which belong to a more vulgar or a more +limited mind than his own. This evil differs from many of those which +have hitherto been dwelt on, by being an increasing one. The +association of men with women in daily life is much closer and more +complete than it ever was before. Men's life is more domestic. +Formerly, their pleasures and chosen occupations were among men, and +in men's company: their wives had but a fragment of their lives. At +the present time, the progress of civilization, and the turn of +opinion against the rough amusements and convivial excesses which +formerly occupied most men in their hours of relaxation--together +with (it must be said) the improved tone of modern feeling as to the +reciprocity of duty which binds the husband towards the wife--have +thrown the man very much more upon home and its inmates, for his +personal and social pleasures: while the kind and degree of +improvement which has been made in women's education, has made them +in some degree capable of being his companions in ideas and mental +tastes, while leaving them, in most cases, still hopelessly inferior +to him. His desire of mental communion is thus in general satisfied +by a communion from which he learns nothing. An unimproving and +unstimulating companionship is substituted for (what he might +otherwise have been obliged to seek) the society of his equals in +powers and his fellows in the higher pursuits. We see, accordingly, +that young men of the greatest promise generally cease to improve as +soon as they marry, and, not improving, inevitably degenerate. If the +wife does not push the husband forward, she always holds him back. He +ceases to care for what she does not care for; he no longer desires, +and ends by disliking and shunning, society congenial to his former +aspirations, and which would now shame his falling-off from them; his +higher faculties both of mind and heart cease to be called into +activity. And this change coinciding with the new and selfish +interests which are created by the family, after a few years he +differs in no material respect from those who have never had wishes +for anything but the common vanities and the common pecuniary +objects. + +What marriage may be in the case of two persons of cultivated +faculties, identical in opinions and purposes, between whom there +exists that best kind of equality, similarity of powers and +capacities with reciprocal superiority in them--so that each can +enjoy the luxury of looking up to the other, and can have alternately +the pleasure of leading and of being led in the path of +development--I will not attempt to describe. To those who can +conceive it, there is no need; to those who cannot, it would appear +the dream of an enthusiast. But I maintain, with the profoundest +conviction, that this, and this only, is the ideal of marriage; and +that all opinions, customs, and institutions which favour any other +notion of it, or turn the conceptions and aspirations connected with +it into any other direction, by whatever pretences they may be +coloured, are relics of primitive barbarism. The moral regeneration +of mankind will only really commence, when the most fundamental of +the social relations is placed under the rule of equal justice, and +when human beings learn to cultivate their strongest sympathy with an +equal in rights and in cultivation. + +Thus far, the benefits which it has appeared that the world would +gain by ceasing to make sex a disqualification for privileges and a +badge of subjection, are social rather than individual; consisting in +an increase of the general fund of thinking and acting power, and an +improvement in the general conditions of the association of men with +women. But it would be a grievous understatement of the case to omit +the most direct benefit of all, the unspeakable gain in private +happiness to the liberated half of the species; the difference to +them between a life of subjection to the will of others, and a life +of rational freedom. After the primary necessities of food and +raiment, freedom is the first and strongest want of human nature. +While mankind are lawless, their desire is for lawless freedom. When +they have learnt to understand the meaning of duty and the value of +reason, they incline more and more to be guided and restrained by +these in the exercise of their freedom; but they do not therefore +desire freedom less; they do not become disposed to accept the will +of other people as the representative and interpreter of those +guiding principles. On the contrary, the communities in which the +reason has been most cultivated, and in which the idea of social duty +has been most powerful, are those which have most strongly asserted +the freedom of action of the individual--the liberty of each to +govern his conduct by his own feelings of duty, and by such laws and +social restraints as his own conscience can subscribe to. + +He who would rightly appreciate the worth of personal independence as +an element of happiness, should consider the value he himself puts +upon it as an ingredient of his own. There is no subject on which +there is a greater habitual difference of judgment between a man +judging for himself, and the same man judging for other people. When +he hears others complaining that they are not allowed freedom of +action--that their own will has not sufficient influence in the +regulation of their affairs--his inclination is, to ask, what are +their grievances? what positive damage they sustain? and in what +respect they consider their affairs to be mismanaged? and if they +fail to make out, in answer to these questions, what appears to him a +sufficient case, he turns a deaf ear, and regards their complaint as +the fanciful querulousness of people whom nothing reasonable will +satisfy. But he has a quite different standard of judgment when he is +deciding for himself. Then, the most unexceptionable administration +of his interests by a tutor set over him, does not satisfy his +feelings: his personal exclusion from the deciding authority appears +itself the greatest grievance of all, rendering it superfluous even +to enter into the question of mismanagement. It is the same with +nations. What citizen of a free country would listen to any offers of +good and skilful administration, in return for the abdication of +freedom? Even if he could believe that good and skilful +administration can exist among a people ruled by a will not their +own, would not the consciousness of working out their own destiny +under their own moral responsibility be a compensation to his +feelings for great rudeness and imperfection in the details of public +affairs? Let him rest assured that whatever he feels on this point, +women feel in a fully equal degree. Whatever has been said or +written, from the time of Herodotus to the present, of the ennobling +influence of free government--the nerve and spring which it gives to +all the faculties, the larger and higher objects which it presents to +the intellect and feelings, the more unselfish public spirit, and +calmer and broader views of duty, that it engenders, and the +generally loftier platform on which it elevates the individual as a +moral, spiritual, and social being--is every particle as true of +women as of men. Are these things no important part of individual +happiness? Let any man call to mind what he himself felt on emerging +from boyhood--from the tutelage and control of even loved and +affectionate elders--and entering upon the responsibilities of +manhood. Was it not like the physical effect of taking off a heavy +weight, or releasing him from obstructive, even if not otherwise +painful, bonds? Did he not feel twice as much alive, twice as much a +human being, as before? And does he imagine that women have none of +these feelings? But it is a striking fact, that the satisfactions and +mortifications of personal pride, though all in all to most men when +the case is their own, have less allowance made for them in the case +of other people, and are less listened to as a ground or a +justification of conduct, than any other natural human feelings; +perhaps because men compliment them in their own case with the names +of so many other qualities, that they are seldom conscious how mighty +an influence these feelings exercise in their own lives. No less +large and powerful is their part, we may assure ourselves, in the +lives and feelings of women. Women are schooled into suppressing them +in their most natural and most healthy direction, but the internal +principle remains, in a different outward form. An active and +energetic mind, if denied liberty, will seek for power: refused the +command of itself, it will assert its personality by attempting to +control others. To allow to any human beings no existence of their +own but what depends on others, is giving far too high a premium on +bending others to their purposes. Where liberty cannot be hoped for, +and power can, power becomes the grand object of human desire; those +to whom others will not leave the undisturbed management of their own +affairs, will compensate themselves, if they can, by meddling for +their own purposes with the affairs of others. Hence also women's +passion for personal beauty, and dress and display; and all the evils +that flow from it, in the way of mischievous luxury and social +immorality. The love of power and the love of liberty are in eternal +antagonism. Where there is least liberty, the passion for power is +the most ardent and unscrupulous. The desire of power over others can +only cease to be a depraving agency among mankind, when each of them +individually is able to do without it: which can only be where +respect for liberty in the personal concerns of each is an +established principle. + +But it is not only through the sentiment of personal dignity, that +the free direction and disposal of their own faculties is a source of +individual happiness, and to be fettered and restricted in it, a +source of unhappiness, to human beings, and not least to women. There +is nothing, after disease, indigence, and guilt, so fatal to the +pleasurable enjoyment of life as the want of a worthy outlet for the +active faculties. Women who have the cares of a family, and while +they have the cares of a family, have this outlet, and it generally +suffices for them: but what of the greatly increasing number of +women, who have had no opportunity of exercising the vocation which +they are mocked by telling them is their proper one? What of the +women whose children have been lost to them by death or distance, or +have grown up, married, and formed homes of their own? There are +abundant examples of men who, after a life engrossed by business, +retire with a competency to the enjoyment, as they hope, of rest, but +to whom, as they are unable to acquire new interests and excitements +that can replace the old, the change to a life of inactivity brings +ennui, melancholy, and premature death. Yet no one thinks of the +parallel case of so many worthy and devoted women, who, having paid +what they are told is their debt to society--having brought up a +family blamelessly to manhood and womanhood--having kept a house as +long as they had a house needing to be kept--are deserted by the sole +occupation for which they have fitted themselves; and remain with +undiminished activity but with no employment for it, unless perhaps a +daughter or daughter-in-law is willing to abdicate in their favour +the discharge of the same functions in her younger household. Surely +a hard lot for the old age of those who have worthily discharged, as +long as it was given to them to discharge, what the world accounts +their only social duty. Of such women, and of those others to whom +this duty has not been committed at all--many of whom pine through +life with the consciousness of thwarted vocations, and activities +which are not suffered to expand--the only resources, speaking +generally, are religion and charity. But their religion, though it +may be one of feeling, and of ceremonial observance, cannot be a +religion of action, unless in the form of charity. For charity many +of them are by nature admirably fitted; but to practise it usefully, +or even without doing mischief, requires the education, the manifold +preparation, the knowledge and the thinking powers, of a skilful +administrator. There are few of the administrative functions of +government for which a person would not be fit, who is fit to bestow +charity usefully. In this as in other cases (pre-eminently in that of +the education of children), the duties permitted to women cannot be +performed properly, without their being trained for duties which, to +the great loss of society, are not permitted to them. And here let me +notice the singular way in which the question of women's disabilities +is frequently presented to view, by those who find it easier to draw +a ludicrous picture of what they do not like, than to answer the +arguments for it. When it is suggested that women's executive +capacities and prudent counsels might sometimes be found valuable in +affairs of state, these lovers of fun hold up to the ridicule of the +world, as sitting in parliament or in the cabinet, girls in their +teens, or young wives of two or three and twenty, transported bodily, +exactly as they are, from the drawing-room to the House of Commons. +They forget that males are not usually selected at this early age for +a seat in Parliament, or for responsible political functions. Common +sense would tell them that if such trusts were confided to women, it +would be to such as having no special vocation for married life, or +preferring another employment of their faculties (as many women even +now prefer to marriage some of the few honourable occupations within +their reach), have spent the best years of their youth in attempting +to qualify themselves for the pursuits in which they desire to +engage; or still more frequently perhaps, widows or wives of forty or +fifty, by whom the knowledge of life and faculty of government which +they have acquired in their families, could by the aid of appropriate +studies be made available on a less contracted scale. There is no +country of Europe in which the ablest men have not frequently +experienced, and keenly appreciated, the value of the advice and help +of clever and experienced women of the world, in the attainment both +of private and of public objects; and there are important matters of +public administration to which few men are equally competent with +such women; among others, the detailed control of expenditure. But +what we are now discussing is not the need which society has of the +services of women in public business, but the dull and hopeless life +to which it so often condemns them, by forbidding them to exercise +the practical abilities which many of them are conscious of, in any +wider field than one which to some of them never was, and to others +is no longer, open. If there is anything vitally important to the +happiness of human beings, it is that they should relish their +habitual pursuit. This requisite of an enjoyable life is very +imperfectly granted, or altogether denied, to a large part of +mankind; and by its absence many a life is a failure, which is +provided, in appearance, with every requisite of success. But if +circumstances which society is not yet skilful enough to overcome, +render such failures often for the present inevitable, society need +not itself inflict them. The injudiciousness of parents, a youth's +own inexperience, or the absence of external opportunities for the +congenial vocation, and their presence for an uncongenial, condemn +numbers of men to pass their lives in doing one thing reluctantly and +ill, when there are other things which they could have done well and +happily. But on women this sentence is imposed by actual law, and by +customs equivalent to law. What, in unenlightened societies, colour, +race, religion, or in the case of a conquered country, nationality, +are to some men, sex is to all women; a peremptory exclusion from +almost all honourable occupations, but either such as cannot be +fulfilled by others, or such as those others do not think worthy of +their acceptance. Sufferings arising from causes of this nature +usually meet with so little sympathy, that few persons are aware of +the great amount of unhappiness even now produced by the feeling of a +wasted life. The case will be even more frequent, as increased +cultivation creates a greater and greater disproportion between the +ideas and faculties of women, and the scope which society allows to +their activity. + +When we consider the positive evil caused to the disqualified half of +the human race by their disqualification--first in the loss of the +most inspiriting and elevating kind of personal enjoyment, and next +in the weariness, disappointment, and profound dissatisfaction with +life, which are so often the substitute for it; one feels that among +all the lessons which men require for carrying on the struggle +against the inevitable imperfections of their lot on earth, there is +no lesson which they more need, than not to add to the evils which +nature inflicts, by their jealous and prejudiced restrictions on one +another. Their vain fears only substitute other and worse evils for +those which they are idly apprehensive of: while every restraint on +the freedom of conduct of any of their human fellow creatures, +(otherwise than by making them responsible for any evil actually +caused by it), dries up _pro tanto_ the principal fountain of human +happiness, and leaves the species less rich, to an inappreciable +degree, in all that makes life valuable to the individual human +being. + + THE END. + + + + + + +End of Project Gutenberg's The Subjection of Women, by John Stuart Mill + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK THE SUBJECTION OF WOMEN *** + +***** This file should be named 27083-8.txt or 27083-8.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + https://www.gutenberg.org/2/7/0/8/27083/ + +Produced by Michael Roe and the Online Distributed +Proofreading Team at https://www.pgdp.net (This file was +produced from images generously made available by The +Internet Archive/American Libraries.) + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: The Subjection of Women + +Author: John Stuart Mill + +Release Date: October 28, 2008 [EBook #27083] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: UTF-8 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK THE SUBJECTION OF WOMEN *** + + + + +Produced by Michael Roe and the Online Distributed +Proofreading Team at https://www.pgdp.net (This file was +produced from images generously made available by The +Internet Archive/American Libraries.) + + + + + + +</pre> + +<h1> +THE SUBJECTION<br /> +OF<br /> +WOMEN +</h1> +<p class="theauthor"> +BY<br /> +JOHN STUART MILL<br /> +</p> +<p class="titlecenter"> +LONDON<br /> +LONGMANS, GREEN, READER, AND DYER<br /> +1869<br /> +</p> +<p class="titlecenter"> +LONDON:<br /> +SAVILL, EDWARDS AND CO., PRINTERS, CHANDOS STREET,<br /> +COVENT GARDEN.<br /> +<a name="page1" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 1]</span> +</p> +<h2> +<a name="chapter1" /> +CHAPTER I. +</h2> +<p> +The object of this Essay is to explain as +clearly as I am able, the grounds of an +opinion which I have held from the very earliest +period when I had formed any opinions at all on +social or political matters, and which, instead of +being weakened or modified, has been constantly +growing stronger by the progress of reflection +and the experience of life: That the principle +which regulates the existing social relations +between the two sexes—the legal subordination of +one sex to the other—is wrong in itself, and now +one of the chief hindrances to human improvement; +and that it ought to be replaced by a +principle of perfect equality, admitting no power +or privilege on the one side, nor disability on the +other. +</p> +<p> +The very words necessary to express the task +I have undertaken, show how arduous it is. +But it would be a mistake to suppose that the +difficulty of the case must lie in the insufficiency +or obscurity of the grounds of reason on which +<a name="page2" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 2]</span> +my conviction rests. The difficulty is that which +exists in all cases in which there is a mass of +feeling to be contended against. So long as +an opinion is strongly rooted in the feelings, +it gains rather than loses in stability by having +a preponderating weight of argument against +it. For if it were accepted as a result of +argument, the refutation of the argument might +shake the solidity of the conviction; but when it +rests solely on feeling, the worse it fares in argumentative +contest, the more persuaded its adherents +are that their feeling must have some deeper +ground, which the arguments do not reach; +and while the feeling remains, it is always throwing +up fresh intrenchments of argument to repair +any breach made in the old. And there are so +many causes tending to make the feelings connected +with this subject the most intense and +most deeply-rooted of all those which gather +round and protect old institutions and customs, +that we need not wonder to find them as yet less +undermined and loosened than any of the rest +by the progress of the great modern spiritual and +social transition; nor suppose that the barbarisms +to which men cling longest must be less barbarisms +than those which they earlier shake off. +</p> +<p> +In every respect the burthen is hard on those +who attack an almost universal opinion. They +must be very fortunate as well as unusually +<a name="page3" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 3]</span> +capable if they obtain a hearing at all. They +have more difficulty in obtaining a trial, than +any other litigants have in getting a verdict. If +they do extort a hearing, they are subjected to a +set of logical requirements totally different from +those exacted from other people. In all other +cases, the burthen of proof is supposed to lie with +the affirmative. If a person is charged with a +murder, it rests with those who accuse him to +give proof of his guilt, not with himself to prove +his innocence. If there is a difference of opinion +about the reality of any alleged historical event, +in which the feelings of men in general are not +much interested, as the Siege of Troy for +example, those who maintain that the event took +place are expected to produce their proofs, before +those who take the other side can be required to +say anything; and at no time are these required +to do more than show that the evidence +produced by the others is of no value. Again, in +practical matters, the burthen of proof is supposed +to be with those who are against liberty; +who contend for any restriction or prohibition; +either any limitation of the general freedom +of human action, or any disqualification or disparity +of privilege affecting one person or kind +of persons, as compared with others. The +<i>à priori</i> presumption is in favour of freedom +and impartiality. It is held that there should +<a name="page4" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 4]</span> +be no restraint not required by the general good, +and that the law should be no respecter of persons, +but should treat all alike, save where dissimilarity +of treatment is required by positive reasons, either +of justice or of policy. But of none of these rules +of evidence will the benefit be allowed to those +who maintain the opinion I profess. It is useless +for me to say that those who maintain the +doctrine that men have a right to command and +women are under an obligation to obey, or that +men are fit for government and women unfit, are +on the affirmative side of the question, and that +they are bound to show positive evidence for the +assertions, or submit to their rejection. It is +equally unavailing for me to say that those who +deny to women any freedom or privilege rightly +allowed to men, having the double presumption +against them that they are opposing freedom +and recommending partiality, must be held to +the strictest proof of their case, and unless their +success be such as to exclude all doubt, the judgment +ought to go against them. These would be +thought good pleas in any common case; but +they will not be thought so in this instance. +Before I could hope to make any impression, +I should be expected not only to answer +all that has ever been said by those who take +the other side of the question, but to imagine +all that could be said by them—to find them +<a name="page5" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 5]</span> +in reasons, as well as answer all I find: and +besides refuting all arguments for the affirmative, +I shall be called upon for invincible positive +arguments to prove a negative. And even if I +could do all this, and leave the opposite party +with a host of unanswered arguments against +them, and not a single unrefuted one on their side, +I should be thought to have done little; for +a cause supported on the one hand by universal +usage, and on the other by so great a preponderance +of popular sentiment, is supposed to have a +presumption in its favour, superior to any conviction +which an appeal to reason has power to +produce in any intellects but those of a high class. +</p> +<p> +I do not mention these difficulties to complain +of them; first, because it would be useless; they +are inseparable from having to contend through +people's understandings against the hostility +of their feelings and practical tendencies: and +truly the understandings of the majority of mankind +would need to be much better cultivated than +has ever yet been the case, before they can be +asked to place such reliance in their own power +of estimating arguments, as to give up practical +principles in which they have been born and bred +and which are the basis of much of the existing +order of the world, at the first argumentative +attack which they are not capable of logically +resisting. I do not therefore quarrel with them +<a name="page6" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 6]</span> +for having too little faith in argument, but for +having too much faith in custom and the general +feeling. It is one of the characteristic prejudices +of the reaction of the nineteenth century +against the eighteenth, to accord to the unreasoning +elements in human nature the infallibility +which the eighteenth century is supposed to have +ascribed to the reasoning elements. For the +apotheosis of Reason we have substituted that of +Instinct; and we call everything instinct which +we find in ourselves and for which we cannot +trace any rational foundation. This idolatry, +infinitely more degrading than the other, and +the most pernicious of the false worships of +the present day, of all of which it is now the +main support, will probably hold its ground until +it gives way before a sound psychology, laying +bare the real root of much that is bowed down +to as the intention of Nature and the ordinance +of God. As regards the present question, I am +willing to accept the unfavourable conditions +which the prejudice assigns to me. I consent +that established custom, and the general feeling, +should be deemed conclusive against me, unless +that custom and feeling from age to age can be +shown to have owed their existence to other +causes than their soundness, and to have derived +their power from the worse rather than the better +parts of human nature. I am willing that judgment +<a name="page7" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 7]</span> +should go against me, unless I can show +that my judge has been tampered with. The concession +is not so great as it might appear; for to +prove this, is by far the easiest portion of my task. +</p> +<p> +The generality of a practice is in some cases a +strong presumption that it is, or at all events +once was, conducive to laudable ends. This is +the case, when the practice was first adopted, or +afterwards kept up, as a means to such ends, and +was grounded on experience of the mode in which +they could be most effectually attained. If the +authority of men over women, when first established, +had been the result of a conscientious +comparison between different modes of constituting +the government of society; if, after trying +various other modes of social organization—the +government of women over men, equality between +the two, and such mixed and divided modes of +government as might be invented—it had been +decided, on the testimony of experience, that the +mode in which women are wholly under the rule +of men, having no share at all in public concerns, +and each in private being under the legal obligation +of obedience to the man with whom she +has associated her destiny, was the arrangement +most conducive to the happiness and well being of +both; its general adoption might then be fairly +thought to be some evidence that, at the time +when it was adopted, if was the best: though even +<a name="page8" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 8]</span> +then the considerations which recommended it +may, like so many other primeval social facts of +the greatest importance, have subsequently, in the +course of ages, ceased to exist. But the state of +the case is in every respect the reverse of this. +In the first place, the opinion in favour of the +present system, which entirely subordinates the +weaker sex to the stronger, rests upon theory +only; for there never has been trial made of +any other: so that experience, in the sense in +which it is vulgarly opposed to theory, cannot be +pretended to have pronounced any verdict. And +in the second place, the adoption of this system +of inequality never was the result of deliberation, +or forethought, or any social ideas, or any notion +whatever of what conduced to the benefit of +humanity or the good order of society. It arose +simply from the fact that from the very earliest +twilight of human society, every woman (owing +to the value attached to her by men, combined +with her inferiority in muscular strength) was +found in a state of bondage to some man. +Laws and systems of polity always begin by +recognising the relations they find already existing +between individuals. They convert what +was a mere physical fact into a legal right, give +it the sanction of society, and principally aim at +the substitution of public and organized means +of asserting and protecting these rights, instead +<a name="page9" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 9]</span> +of the irregular and lawless conflict of physical +strength. Those who had already been compelled +to obedience became in this manner legally bound +to it. Slavery, from being a mere affair of force +between the master and the slave, became regularized +and a matter of compact among the +masters, who, binding themselves to one another +for common protection, guaranteed by their +collective strength the private possessions of +each, including his slaves. In early times, +the great majority of the male sex were slaves, +as well as the whole of the female. And many +ages elapsed, some of them ages of high cultivation, +before any thinker was bold enough to +question the rightfulness, and the absolute social +necessity, either of the one slavery or of the +other. By degrees such thinkers did arise: and +(the general progress of society assisting) the +slavery of the male sex has, in all the countries +of Christian Europe at least (though, in one of +them, only within the last few years) been at +length abolished, and that of the female sex has +been gradually changed into a milder form of +dependence. But this dependence, as it exists +at present, is not an original institution, taking +a fresh start from considerations of justice and +social expediency—it is the primitive state of +slavery lasting on, through successive mitigations +and modifications occasioned by the same causes +<a name="page10" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 10]</span> +which have softened the general manners, and +brought all human relations more under the +control of justice and the influence of humanity. +It has not lost the taint of its brutal origin. +No presumption in its favour, therefore, can be +drawn from the fact of its existence. The +only such presumption which it could be supposed +to have, must be grounded on its having +lasted till now, when so many other things which +came down from the same odious source have +been done away with. And this, indeed, is what +makes it strange to ordinary ears, to hear it +asserted that the inequality of rights between +men and women has no other source than the +law of the strongest. +</p> +<p> +That this statement should have the effect of +a paradox, is in some respects creditable to the +progress of civilization, and the improvement of +the moral sentiments of mankind. We now live—that +is to say, one or two of the most advanced +nations of the world now live—in a state +in which the law of the strongest seems to be +entirely abandoned as the regulating principle +of the world's affairs: nobody professes it, and, +as regards most of the relations between human +beings, nobody is permitted to practise it. When +any one succeeds in doing so, it is under cover of +some pretext which gives him the semblance of +having some general social interest on his side. +<a name="page11" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 11]</span> +This being the ostensible state of things, people +flatter themselves that the rule of mere force is +ended; that the law of the strongest cannot be the +reason of existence of anything which has remained +in full operation down to the present time. However +any of our present institutions may have begun, +it can only, they think, have been preserved +to this period of advanced civilization by a well-grounded +feeling of its adaptation to human nature, +and conduciveness to the general good. They +do not understand the great vitality and durability +of institutions which place right on the side +of might; how intensely they are clung to; how +the good as well as the bad propensities and sentiments +of those who have power in their hands, +become identified with retaining it; how slowly +these bad institutions give way, one at a time, +the weakest first, beginning with those which are +least interwoven with the daily habits of life; and +how very rarely those who have obtained legal +power because they first had physical, have ever +lost their hold of it until the physical power had +passed over to the other side. Such shifting of +the physical force not having taken place in the +case of women; this fact, combined with all the +peculiar and characteristic features of the particular +case, made it certain from the first that this +branch of the system of right founded on might, +though softened in its most atrocious features at an +<a name="page12" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 12]</span> +earlier period than several of the others, would be +the very last to disappear. It was inevitable that +this one case of a social relation grounded on force, +would survive through generations of institutions +grounded on equal justice, an almost solitary +exception to the general character of their laws +and customs; but which, so long as it does not +proclaim its own origin, and as discussion has +not brought out its true character, is not felt to +jar with modern civilization, any more than +domestic slavery among the Greeks jarred with +their notion of themselves as a free people. +</p> +<p> +The truth is, that people of the present and +the last two or three generations have lost all +practical sense of the primitive condition of +humanity; and only the few who have studied +history accurately, or have much frequented the +parts of the world occupied by the living representatives +of ages long past, are able to form any +mental picture of what society then was. People +are not aware how entirely, in former ages, the +law of superior strength was the rule of life; how +publicly and openly it was avowed, I do not say +cynically or shamelessly—for these words imply +a feeling that there was something in it to be +ashamed of, and no such notion could find a +place in the faculties of any person in those ages, +except a philosopher or a saint. History gives a +cruel experience of human nature, in shewing +<a name="page13" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 13]</span> +how exactly the regard due to the life, possessions, +and entire earthly happiness of any class of persons, +was measured by what they had the power +of enforcing; how all who made any resistance +to authorities that had arms in their hands, however +dreadful might be the provocation, had not +only the law of force but all other laws, and all +the notions of social obligation against them; and +in the eyes of those whom they resisted, were +not only guilty of crime, but of the worst of all +crimes, deserving the most cruel chastisement +which human beings could inflict. The first +small vestige of a feeling of obligation in a +superior to acknowledge any right in inferiors, +began when he had been induced, for convenience, +to make some promise to them. Though these +promises, even when sanctioned by the most +solemn oaths, were for many ages revoked or +violated on the most trifling provocation or +temptation, it is probable that this, except by +persons of still worse than the average morality, +was seldom done without some twinges of conscience. +The ancient republics, being mostly +grounded from the first upon some kind of +mutual compact, or at any rate formed by an +union of persons not very unequal in strength, +afforded, in consequence, the first instance of a +portion of human relations fenced round, and +placed under the dominion of another law than +<a name="page14" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 14]</span> +that of force. And though the original law of +force remained in full operation between them +and their slaves, and also (except so far as limited +by express compact) between a commonwealth +and its subjects, or other independent commonwealths; +the banishment of that primitive law +even from so narrow a field, commenced the regeneration +of human nature, by giving birth to +sentiments of which experience soon demonstrated +the immense value even for material interests, +and which thenceforward only required +to be enlarged, not created. Though slaves were +no part of the commonwealth, it was in the free +states that slaves were first felt to have rights as +human beings. The Stoics were, I believe, the +first (except so far as the Jewish law constitutes +an exception) who taught as a part of morality +that men were bound by moral obligations to +their slaves. No one, after Christianity became +ascendant, could ever again have been a stranger +to this belief, in theory; nor, after the rise of the +Catholic Church, was it ever without persons to +stand up for it. Yet to enforce it was the most +arduous task which Christianity ever had to perform. +For more than a thousand years the +Church kept up the contest, with hardly any perceptible +success. It was not for want of power +over men's minds. Its power was prodigious. +It could make kings and nobles resign their most +<a name="page15" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 15]</span> +valued possessions to enrich the Church. It +could make thousands, in the prime of life and +the height of worldly advantages, shut themselves +up in convents to work out their salvation by +poverty, fasting, and prayer. It could send +hundreds of thousands across land and sea, +Europe and Asia, to give their lives for the deliverance +of the Holy Sepulchre. It could make +kings relinquish wives who were the object of +their passionate attachment, because the Church +declared that they were within the seventh (by our +calculation the fourteenth) degree of relationship. +All this it did; but it could not make men fight +less with one another, nor tyrannize less cruelly +over the serfs, and when they were able, over +burgesses. It could not make them renounce +either of the applications of force; force militant, +or force triumphant. This they could never +be induced to do until they were themselves in +their turn compelled by superior force. Only +by the growing power of kings was an end put to +fighting except between kings, or competitors for +kingship; only by the growth of a wealthy and +warlike bourgeoisie in the fortified towns, and of a +plebeian infantry which proved more powerful +in the field than the undisciplined chivalry, was the +insolent tyranny of the nobles over the bourgeoisie +and peasantry brought within some bounds. +It was persisted in not only until, but long after, +<a name="page16" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 16]</span> +the oppressed had obtained a power enabling +them often to take conspicuous vengeance; and +on the Continent much of it continued to the +time of the French Revolution, though in England +the earlier and better organization of the democratic +classes put an end to it sooner, by establishing +equal laws and free national institutions. +</p> +<p> +If people are mostly so little aware how completely, +during the greater part of the duration +of our species, the law of force was the avowed +rule of general conduct, any other being only +a special and exceptional consequence of peculiar +ties—and from how very recent a date it is that +the affairs of society in general have been even +pretended to be regulated according to any +moral law; as little do people remember or +consider, how institutions and customs which +never had any ground but the law of force, last +on into ages and states of general opinion which +never would have permitted their first establishment. +Less than forty years ago, Englishmen +might still by law hold human beings in bondage +as saleable property: within the present century +they might kidnap them and carry them off, and +work them literally to death. This absolutely +extreme case of the law of force, condemned by +those who can tolerate almost every other form +of arbitrary power, and which, of all others, presents +features the most revolting to the feelings +<a name="page17" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 17]</span> +of all who look at it from an impartial position, +was the law of civilized and Christian England +within the memory of persons now living: and +in one half of Anglo-Saxon America three or +four years ago, not only did slavery exist, but +the slave trade, and the breeding of slaves expressly +for it, was a general practice between +slave states. Yet not only was there a greater +strength of sentiment against it, but, in England +at least, a less amount either of feeling or of interest +in favour of it, than of any other of the +customary abuses of force: for its motive was +the love of gain, unmixed and undisguised; and +those who profited by it were a very small numerical +fraction of the country, while the natural +feeling of all who were not personally interested +in it, was unmitigated abhorrence. So extreme +an instance makes it almost superfluous to refer +to any other: but consider the long duration of +absolute monarchy. In England at present it +is the almost universal conviction that military +despotism is a case of the law of force, having +no other origin or justification. Yet in all the +great nations of Europe except England it either +still exists, or has only just ceased to exist, and +has even now a strong party favourable to it in +all ranks of the people, especially among persons +of station and consequence. Such is the power +of an established system, even when far from +<a name="page18" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 18]</span> +universal; when not only in almost every period +of history there have been great and well-known +examples of the contrary system, but these have +almost invariably been afforded by the most +illustrious and most prosperous communities. In +this case, too, the possessor of the undue power, +the person directly interested in it, is only one +person, while those who are subject to it and +suffer from it are literally all the rest. The +yoke is naturally and necessarily humiliating to all +persons, except the one who is on the throne, +together with, at most, the one who expects to +succeed to it. How different are these cases +from that of the power of men over women! I +am not now prejudging the question of its justifiableness. +I am showing how vastly more permanent +it could not but be, even if not justifiable, +than these other dominations which have nevertheless +lasted down to our own time. Whatever +gratification of pride there is in the possession +of power, and whatever personal interest in +its exercise, is in this case not confined to a +limited class, but common to the whole male +sex. Instead of being, to most of its supporters, +a thing desirable chiefly in the abstract, or, like +the political ends usually contended for by factious, +of little private importance to any but the +leaders; it comes home to the person and hearth +of every male head of a family, and of every one +<a name="page19" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 19]</span> +who looks forward to being so. The clodhopper +exercises, or is to exercise, his share of the power +equally with the highest nobleman. And the +case is that in which the desire of power is the +strongest: for every one who desires power, desires +it most over those who are nearest to him, with +whom his life is passed, with whom he has most +concerns in common, and in whom any independence +of his authority is oftenest likely to +interfere with his individual preferences. If, in +the other cases specified, powers manifestly +grounded only on force, and having so much less +to support them, are so slowly and with so much +difficulty got rid of, much more must it be so +with this, even if it rests on no better foundation +than those. We must consider, too, that the +possessors of the power have facilities in this +case, greater than in any other, to prevent any +uprising against it. Every one of the subjects +lives under the very eye, and almost, it may be +said, in the hands, of one of the masters—in +closer intimacy with him than with any of her +fellow-subjects; with no means of combining +against him, no power of even locally over-mastering +him, and, on the other hand, with the +strongest motives for seeking his favour and +avoiding to give him offence. In struggles for +political emancipation, everybody knows how often +its champions are bought off by bribes, or daunted +<a name="page20" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 20]</span> +by terrors. In the case of women, each individual +of the subject-class is in a chronic state of +bribery and intimidation combined. In setting +up the standard of resistance, a large number of +the leaders, and still more of the followers, must +make an almost complete sacrifice of the pleasures +or the alleviations of their own individual +lot. If ever any system of privilege and enforced +subjection had its yoke tightly riveted +on the necks of those who are kept down by it, +this has. I have not yet shown that it is a +wrong system: but every one who is capable of +thinking on the subject must see that even if it +is, it was certain to outlast all other forms of +unjust authority. And when some of the grossest +of the other forms still exist in many civilized +countries, and have only recently been got rid +of in others, it would be strange if that which +is so much the deepest-rooted had yet been +perceptibly shaken anywhere. There is more +reason to wonder that the protests and testimonies +against it should have been so numerous +and so weighty as they are. +</p> +<p> +Some will object, that a comparison cannot +fairly be made between the government of the +male sex and the forms of unjust power which I +have adduced in illustration of it, since these are +arbitrary, and the effect of mere usurpation, +while it on the contrary is natural. But was +<a name="page21" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 21]</span> +there ever any domination which did not appear +natural to those who possessed it? There was +a time when the division of mankind into two +classes, a small one of masters and a numerous +one of slaves, appeared, even to the most cultivated +minds, to be a natural, and the only natural, +condition of the human race. No less an intellect, +and one which contributed no less to the +progress of human thought, than Aristotle, held +this opinion without doubt or misgiving; and +rested it on the same premises on which the +same assertion in regard to the dominion of men +over women is usually based, namely that there +are different natures among mankind, free natures, +and slave natures; that the Greeks were +of a free nature, the barbarian races of Thracians +and Asiatics of a slave nature. But why need I +go back to Aristotle? Did not the slaveowners +of the Southern United States maintain the same +doctrine, with all the fanaticism with which men +cling to the theories that justify their passions +and legitimate their personal interests? Did +they not call heaven and earth to witness that +the dominion of the white man over the black is +natural, that the black race is by nature incapable +of freedom, and marked out for slavery? +some even going so far as to say that the freedom +of manual labourers is an unnatural order of +things anywhere. Again, the theorists of absolute +<a name="page22" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 22]</span> +monarchy have always affirmed it to be the +only natural form of government; issuing from +the patriarchal, which was the primitive and +spontaneous form of society, framed on the +model of the paternal, which is anterior to society +itself, and, as they contend, the most natural +authority of all. Nay, for that matter, the law +of force itself, to those who could not plead any +other, has always seemed the most natural of all +grounds for the exercise of authority. Conquering +races hold it to be Nature's own dictate that +the conquered should obey the conquerors, or, as +they euphoniously paraphrase it, that the feebler +and more unwarlike races should submit to the +braver and manlier. The smallest acquaintance +with human life in the middle ages, shows how +supremely natural the dominion of the feudal +nobility over men of low condition appeared to +the nobility themselves, and how unnatural the +conception seemed, of a person of the inferior +class claiming equality with them, or exercising +authority over them. It hardly seemed less so +to the class held in subjection. The emancipated +serfs and burgesses, even in their most +vigorous struggles, never made any pretension to +a share of authority; they only demanded more +or less of limitation to the power of tyrannizing +over them. So true is it that unnatural generally +means only uncustomary, and that everything +<a name="page23" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 23]</span> +which is usual appears natural. The subjection +of women to men being a universal +custom, any departure from it quite naturally +appears unnatural. But how entirely, even in +this case, the feeling is dependent on custom, +appears by ample experience. Nothing so much +astonishes the people of distant parts of the +world, when they first learn anything about +England, as to be told that it is under a queen: +the thing seems to them so unnatural as to be +almost incredible. To Englishmen this does not +seem in the least degree unnatural, because they +are used to it; but they do feel it unnatural that +women should be soldiers or members of parliament. +In the feudal ages, on the contrary, war +and politics were not thought unnatural to +women, because not unusual; it seemed natural +that women of the privileged classes should be +of manly character, inferior in nothing but bodily +strength to their husbands and fathers. The +independence of women seemed rather less unnatural +to the Greeks than to other ancients, on +account of the fabulous Amazons (whom they +believed to be historical), and the partial example +afforded by the Spartan women; who, though no +less subordinate by law than in other Greek +states, were more free in fact, and being trained +to bodily exercises in the same manner with +men, gave ample proof that they were not naturally +<a name="page24" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 24]</span> +disqualified for them. There can be little +doubt that Spartan experience suggested to Plato, +among many other of his doctrines, that of the +social and political equality of the two sexes. +</p> +<p> +But, it will be said, the rule of men over women +differs from all these others in not being a rule +of force: it is accepted voluntarily; women make +no complaint, and are consenting parties to it. +In the first place, a great number of women do +not accept it. Ever since there have been women +able to make their sentiments known by their +writings (the only mode of publicity which society +permits to them), an increasing number of them +have recorded protests against their present social +condition: and recently many thousands of them, +headed by the most eminent women known to +the public, have petitioned Parliament for their +admission to the Parliamentary Suffrage. The +claim of women to be educated as solidly, and in +the same branches of knowledge, as men, is urged +with growing intensity, and with a great prospect +of success; while the demand for their admission +into professions and occupations hitherto closed +against them, becomes every year more urgent. +Though there are not in this country, as there +are in the United States, periodical Conventions +and an organized party to agitate for the Rights +of Women, there is a numerous and active Society +organized and managed by women, for the more +<a name="page25" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 25]</span> +limited object of obtaining the political franchise. +Nor is it only in our own country and in America +that women are beginning to protest, more or +less collectively, against the disabilities under +which they labour. France, and Italy, and +Switzerland, and Russia now afford examples of +the same thing. How many more women there +are who silently cherish similar aspirations, no +one can possibly know; but there are abundant +tokens how many <i>would</i> cherish them, were they +not so strenuously taught to repress them as contrary +to the proprieties of their sex. It must be +remembered, also, that no enslaved class ever +asked for complete liberty at once. When Simon +de Montfort called the deputies of the commons +to sit for the first time in Parliament, did any +of them dream of demanding that an assembly, +elected by their constituents, should make and +destroy ministries, and dictate to the king in +affairs of state? No such thought entered into +the imagination of the most ambitious of them. +The nobility had already these pretensions; the +commons pretended to nothing but to be exempt +from arbitrary taxation, and from the gross individual +oppression of the king's officers. It is a +political law of nature that those who are under +any power of ancient origin, never begin by +complaining of the power itself, but only of its +oppressive exercise. There is never any want of +<a name="page26" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 26]</span> +women who complain of ill usage by their husbands. +There would be infinitely more, if complaint +were not the greatest of all provocatives +to a repetition and increase of the ill usage. It +is this which frustrates all attempts to maintain +the power but protect the woman against its +abuses. In no other case (except that of a child) +is the person who has been proved judicially to +have suffered an injury, replaced under the physical +power of the culprit who inflicted it. +Accordingly wives, even in the most extreme and +protracted cases of bodily ill usage, hardly ever +dare avail themselves of the laws made for their +protection: and if, in a moment of irrepressible +indignation, or by the interference of neighbours, +they are induced to do so, their whole effort afterwards +is to disclose as little as they can, and to +beg off their tyrant from his merited chastisement. +</p> +<p> +All causes, social and natural, combine to +make it unlikely that women should be collectively +rebellious to the power of men. They +are so far in a position different from all other +subject classes, that their masters require something +more from them than actual service. Men +do not want solely the obedience of women, they +want their sentiments. All men, except the most +brutish, desire to have, in the woman most nearly +connected with them, not a forced slave but a +willing one, not a slave merely, but a favourite. +<a name="page27" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 27]</span> +They have therefore put everything in practice +to enslave their minds. The masters of all +other slaves rely, for maintaining obedience, on +fear; either fear of themselves, or religious fears. +The masters of women wanted more than simple +obedience, and they turned the whole force of +education to effect their purpose. All women +are brought up from the very earliest years in +the belief that their ideal of character is the very +opposite to that of men; not self-will, and government +by self-control, but submission, and yielding +to the control of others. All the moralities tell +them that it is the duty of women, and all the +current sentimentalities that it is their nature, to +live for others; to make complete abnegation of +themselves, and to have no life but in their +affections. And by their affections are meant +the only ones they are allowed to have—those to +the men with whom they are connected, or to +the children who constitute an additional and +indefeasible tie between them and a man. When +we put together three things—first, the natural +attraction between opposite sexes; secondly, the +wife's entire dependence on the husband, every +privilege or pleasure she has being either his +gift, or depending entirely on his will; and lastly, +that the principal object of human pursuit, consideration, +and all objects of social ambition, can in +general be sought or obtained by her only through +<a name="page28" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 28]</span> +him, it would be a miracle if the object of being +attractive to men had not become the polar star +of feminine education and formation of character. +And, this great means of influence over the minds +of women having been acquired, an instinct of +selfishness made men avail themselves of it to +the utmost as a means of holding women in +subjection, by representing to them meekness, +submissiveness, and resignation of all individual +will into the hands of a man, as an essential +part of sexual attractiveness. Can it be doubted +that any of the other yokes which mankind have +succeeded in breaking, would have subsisted till +now if the same means had existed, and had been +as sedulously used, to bow down their minds to it? +If it had been made the object of the life of every +young plebeian to find personal favour in the +eyes of some patrician, of every young serf with +some seigneur; if domestication with him, and +a share of his personal affections, had been held +out as the prize which they all should look out +for, the most gifted and aspiring being able to +reckon on the most desirable prizes; and if, when +this prize had been obtained, they had been shut +out by a wall of brass from all interests not +centering in him, all feelings and desires but +those which he shared or inculcated; would not +serfs and seigneurs, plebeians and patricians, have +been as broadly distinguished at this day as men +<a name="page29" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 29]</span> +and women are? and would not all but a +thinker here and there, have believed the distinction +to be a fundamental and unalterable fact +in human nature? +</p> +<p> +The preceding considerations are amply sufficient +to show that custom, however universal it +may be, affords in this case no presumption, and +ought not to create any prejudice, in favour of +the arrangements which place women in social +and political subjection to men. But I may go +farther, and maintain that the course of history, +and the tendencies of progressive human society, +afford not only no presumption in favour of this +system of inequality of rights, but a strong one +against it; and that, so far as the whole course of +human improvement up to this time, the whole +stream of modern tendencies, warrants any inference +on the subject, it is, that this relic of the +past is discordant with the future, and must +necessarily disappear. +</p> +<p> +For, what is the peculiar character of the +modern world—the difference which chiefly distinguishes +modern institutions, modern social +ideas, modern life itself, from those of times long +past? It is, that human beings are no longer +born to their place in life, and chained down by +an inexorable bond to the place they are born to, +but are free to employ their faculties, and such +favourable chances as offer, to achieve the lot which +<a name="page30" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 30]</span> +may appear to them most desirable. Human +society of old was constituted on a very different +principle. All were born to a fixed social position, +and were mostly kept in it by law, or interdicted +from any means by which they could +emerge from it. As some men are born white +and others black, so some were born slaves and +others freemen and citizens; some were born +patricians, others plebeians; some were born feudal +nobles, others commoners and <i>roturiers</i>. A slave +or serf could never make himself free, nor, +except by the will of his master, become so. +In most European countries it was not till +towards the close of the middle ages, and as a +consequence of the growth of regal power, that +commoners could be ennobled. Even among nobles, +the eldest son was born the exclusive heir to the +paternal possessions, and a long time elapsed before +it was fully established that the father could disinherit +him. Among the industrious classes, only +those who were born members of a guild, or were +admitted into it by its members, could lawfully +practise their calling within its local limits; and +nobody could practise any calling deemed important, +in any but the legal manner—by processes +authoritatively prescribed. Manufacturers +have stood in the pillory for presuming to carry +on their business by new and improved methods. +In modern Europe, and most in those parts of +<a name="page31" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 31]</span> +it which have participated most largely in all +other modern improvements, diametrically opposite +doctrines now prevail. Law and government +do not undertake to prescribe by whom +any social or industrial operation shall or shall +not be conducted, or what modes of conducting +them shall be lawful. These things are left to +the unfettered choice of individuals. Even the +laws which required that workmen should serve +an apprenticeship, have in this country been +repealed: there being ample assurance that in +all cases in which an apprenticeship is necessary, +its necessity will suffice to enforce it. The old +theory was, that the least possible should be left +to the choice of the individual agent; that all +he had to do should, as far as practicable, be laid +down for him by superior wisdom. Left to +himself he was sure to go wrong. The modern +conviction, the fruit of a thousand years of +experience, is, that things in which the individual +is the person directly interested, never go right +but as they are left to his own discretion; and +that any regulation of them by authority, except +to protect the rights of others, is sure to be mischievous. +This conclusion, slowly arrived at, and +not adopted until almost every possible application +of the contrary theory had been made with +disastrous result, now (in the industrial department) +prevails universally in the most advanced +<a name="page32" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 32]</span> +countries, almost universally in all that have +pretensions to any sort of advancement. It is +not that all processes are supposed to be equally +good, or all persons to be equally qualified for +everything; but that freedom of individual +choice is now known to be the only thing +which procures the adoption of the best processes, +and throws each operation into the hands +of those who are best qualified for it. Nobody +thinks it necessary to make a law that only a +strong-armed man shall be a blacksmith. Freedom +and competition suffice to make blacksmiths +strong-armed men, because the weak-armed can +earn more by engaging in occupations for which +they are more fit. In consonance with this +doctrine, it is felt to be an overstepping of the +proper bounds of authority to fix beforehand, +on some general presumption, that certain persons +are not fit to do certain things. It is now +thoroughly known and admitted that if some +such presumptions exist, no such presumption is +infallible. Even if it be well grounded in a +majority of cases, which it is very likely not +to be, there will be a minority of exceptional +cases in which it does not hold: and in those +it is both an injustice to the individuals, and +a detriment to society, to place barriers in the +way of their using their faculties for their own +benefit and for that of others. In the cases, +<a name="page33" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 33]</span> +on the other hand, in which the unfitness is +real, the ordinary motives of human conduct +will on the whole suffice to prevent the incompetent +person from making, or from persisting +in, the attempt. +</p> +<p> +If this general principle of social and economical +science is not true; if individuals, with +such help as they can derive from the opinion +of those who know them, are not better judges +than the law and the government, of their +own capacities and vocation; the world cannot +too soon abandon this principle, and return to +the old system of regulations and disabilities. +But if the principle is true, we ought to act +as if we believed it, and not to ordain that to +be born a girl instead of a boy, any more +than to be born black instead of white, or a +commoner instead of a nobleman, shall decide +the person's position through all life—shall +interdict people from all the more elevated +social positions, and from all, except a few, +respectable occupations. Even were we to admit +the utmost that is ever pretended as to the +superior fitness of men for all the functions now +reserved to them, the same argument applies +which forbids a legal qualification for members of +Parliament. If only once in a dozen years the +conditions of eligibility exclude a fit person, +there is a real loss, while the exclusion of thousands +<a name="page34" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 34]</span> +of unfit persons is no gain; for if the constitution +of the electoral body disposes them to +choose unfit persons, there are always plenty of +such persons to choose from. In all things of +any difficulty and importance, those who can do +them well are fewer than the need, even with +the most unrestricted latitude of choice: and any +limitation of the field of selection deprives society +of some chances of being served by the competent, +without ever saving it from the incompetent. +</p> +<p> +At present, in the more improved countries, +the disabilities of women are the only case, save +one, in which laws and institutions take persons +at their birth, and ordain that they shall never in +all their lives be allowed to compete for certain +things. The one exception is that of royalty. +Persons still are born to the throne; no one, not +of the reigning family, can ever occupy it, and +no one even of that family can, by any means +but the course of hereditary succession, attain it. +All other dignities and social advantages are open +to the whole male sex: many indeed are only +attainable by wealth, but wealth may be striven +for by any one, and is actually obtained by many +men of the very humblest origin. The difficulties, +to the majority, are indeed insuperable without +the aid of fortunate accidents; but no male +human being is under any legal ban: neither +law nor opinion superadd artificial obstacles to +<a name="page35" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 35]</span> +the natural ones. Royalty, as I have said, is +excepted: but in this case every one feels it to be +an exception—an anomaly in the modern world, +in marked opposition to its customs and principles, +and to be justified only by extraordinary +special expediencies, which, though individuals +and nations differ in estimating their weight, +unquestionably do in fact exist. But in this +exceptional case, in which a high social function +is, for important reasons, bestowed on birth instead +of being put up to competition, all free nations +contrive to adhere in substance to the principle +from which they nominally derogate; for they +circumscribe this high function by conditions +avowedly intended to prevent the person to whom +it ostensibly belongs from really performing it; +while the person by whom it is performed, the +responsible minister, does obtain the post by a +competition from which no full-grown citizen of +the male sex is legally excluded. The disabilities, +therefore, to which women are subject from the +mere fact of their birth, are the solitary examples +of the kind in modern legislation. In no +instance except this, which comprehends half the +human race, are the higher social functions +closed against any one by a fatality of birth which +no exertions, and no change of circumstances, +can overcome; for even religious disabilities +(besides that in England and in Europe they +<a name="page36" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 36]</span> +have practically almost ceased to exist) do not +close any career to the disqualified person in case +of conversion. +</p> +<p> +The social subordination of women thus stands +out an isolated fact in modern social institutions; +a solitary breach of what has become their fundamental +law; a single relic of an old world of +thought and practice exploded in everything else, +but retained in the one thing of most universal +interest; as if a gigantic dolmen, or a vast temple +of Jupiter Olympius, occupied the site of St. +Paul's and received daily worship, while the surrounding +Christian churches were only resorted to +on fasts and festivals. This entire discrepancy +between one social fact and all those which +accompany it, and the radical opposition between +its nature and the progressive movement which is +the boast of the modern world, and which has +successively swept away everything else of an +analogous character, surely affords, to a conscientious +observer of human tendencies, serious +matter for reflection. It raises a primâ facie presumption +on the unfavourable side, far outweighing +any which custom and usage could in such +circumstances create on the favourable; and +should at least suffice to make this, like the +choice between republicanism and royalty, a +balanced question. +</p> +<p> +The least that can be demanded is, that the +<a name="page37" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 37]</span> +question should not be considered as prejudged +by existing fact and existing opinion, but open to +discussion on its merits, as a question of justice +and expediency: the decision on this, as on +any of the other social arrangements of mankind, +depending on what an enlightened estimate of +tendencies and consequences may show to be +most advantageous to humanity in general, without +distinction of sex. And the discussion must +be a real discussion, descending to foundations, +and not resting satisfied with vague and general +assertions. It will not do, for instance, to assert +in general terms, that the experience of mankind +has pronounced in favour of the existing system. +Experience cannot possibly have decided between +two courses, so long as there has only been experience +of one. If it be said that the doctrine of +the equality of the sexes rests only on theory, it +must be remembered that the contrary doctrine +also has only theory to rest upon. All that is +proved in its favour by direct experience, is that +mankind have been able to exist under it, and to +attain the degree of improvement and prosperity +which we now see; but whether that prosperity +has been attained sooner, or is now greater, than +it would have been under the other system, experience +does not say. On the other hand, experience +does say, that every step in improvement +has been so invariably accompanied by a step +<a name="page38" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 38]</span> +made in raising the social position of women, +that historians and philosophers have been led to +adopt their elevation or debasement as on the +whole the surest test and most correct measure of +the civilization of a people or an age. Through +all the progressive period of human history, the +condition of women has been approaching nearer +to equality with men. This does not of itself +prove that the assimilation must go on to complete +equality; but it assuredly affords some presumption +that such is the case. +</p> +<p> +Neither does it avail anything to say that the +<i>nature</i> of the two sexes adapts them to their +present functions and position, and renders these +appropriate to them. Standing on the ground of +common sense and the constitution of the human +mind, I deny that any one knows, or can know, +the nature of the two sexes, as long as they have +only been seen in their present relation to one +another. If men had ever been found in society +without women, or women without men, or if +there had been a society of men and women in +which the women were not under the control of +the men, something might have been positively +known about the mental and moral differences +which may be inherent in the nature of each. +What is now called the nature of women is an +eminently artificial thing—the result of forced +repression in some directions, unnatural stimulation +<a name="page39" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 39]</span> +in others. It may be asserted without +scruple, that no other class of dependents have +had their character so entirely distorted from its +natural proportions by their relation with their +masters; for, if conquered and slave races have +been, in some respects, more forcibly repressed, +whatever in them has not been crushed down by an +iron heel has generally been let alone, and if left +with any liberty of development, it has developed +itself according to its own laws; but in the case +of women, a hot-house and stove cultivation has +always been carried on of some of the capabilities +of their nature, for the benefit and pleasure of +their masters. Then, because certain products of +the general vital force sprout luxuriantly and +reach a great development in this heated atmosphere +and under this active nurture and watering, +while other shoots from the same root, which +are left outside in the wintry air, with ice purposely +heaped all round them, have a stunted +growth, and some are burnt off with fire and +disappear; men, with that inability to recognise +their own work which distinguishes the unanalytic +mind, indolently believe that the tree +grows of itself in the way they have made it +grow, and that it would die if one half of it +were not kept in a vapour bath and the other +half in the snow. +</p> +<p> +Of all difficulties which impede the progress +<a name="page40" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 40]</span> +of thought, and the formation of well-grounded +opinions on life and social arrangements, the +greatest is now the unspeakable ignorance and +inattention of mankind in respect to the influences +which form human character. Whatever +any portion of the human species now are, or +seem to be, such, it is supposed, they have a +natural tendency to be: even when the most +elementary knowledge of the circumstances in +which they have been placed, clearly points out +the causes that made them what they are. +Because a cottier deeply in arrears to his landlord +is not industrious, there are people who +think that the Irish are naturally idle. Because +constitutions can be overthrown when the authorities +appointed to execute them turn their arms +against them, there are people who think the +French incapable of free government. Because +the Greeks cheated the Turks, and the Turks only +plundered the Greeks, there are persons who +think that the Turks are naturally more sincere: +and because women, as is often said, care nothing +about politics except their personalities, it is +supposed that the general good is naturally less +interesting to women than to men. History, +which is now so much better understood than +formerly, teaches another lesson: if only by showing +the extraordinary susceptibility of human +nature to external influences, and the extreme +<a name="page41" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 41]</span> +variableness of those of its manifestations which +are supposed to be most universal and uniform. +But in history, as in travelling, men usually see +only what they already had in their own minds; +and few learn much from history, who do not +bring much with them to its study. +</p> +<p> +Hence, in regard to that most difficult question, +what are the natural differences between +the two sexes—a subject on which it is impossible +in the present state of society to obtain complete +and correct knowledge—while almost everybody +dogmatizes upon it, almost all neglect and +make light of the only means by which any +partial insight can be obtained into it. This is, +an analytic study of the most important department +of psychology, the laws of the influence +of circumstances on character. For, however +great and apparently ineradicable the moral and +intellectual differences between men and women +might be, the evidence of their being natural +differences could only be negative. Those only +could be inferred to be natural which could not +possibly be artificial—the residuum, after deducting +every characteristic of either sex which +can admit of being explained from education or +external circumstances. The profoundest knowledge +of the laws of the formation of character +is indispensable to entitle any one to affirm even +that there is any difference, much more what +<a name="page42" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 42]</span> +the difference is, between the two sexes considered +as moral and rational beings; and since +no one, as yet, has that knowledge, (for there is +hardly any subject which, in proportion to its +importance, has been so little studied), no one is +thus far entitled to any positive opinion on the +subject. Conjectures are all that can at present +be made; conjectures more or less probable, +according as more or less authorized by such +knowledge as we yet have of the laws of psychology, +as applied to the formation of character. +</p> +<p> +Even the preliminary knowledge, what the +differences between the sexes now are, apart +from all question as to how they are made what +they are, is still in the crudest and most incomplete +state. Medical practitioners and physiologists +have ascertained, to some extent, the +differences in bodily constitution; and this is an +important element to the psychologist: but +hardly any medical practitioner is a psychologist. +Respecting the mental characteristics of women; +their observations are of no more worth than +those of common men. It is a subject on which +nothing final can be known, so long as those +who alone can really know it, women themselves, +have given but little testimony, and that little, +mostly suborned. It is easy to know stupid +women. Stupidity is much the same all the +world over. A stupid person's notions and feelings +<a name="page43" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 43]</span> +may confidently be inferred from those which +prevail in the circle by which the person is surrounded. +Not so with those whose opinions and +feelings are an emanation from their own nature +and faculties. It is only a man here and there +who has any tolerable knowledge of the character +even of the women of his own family. I do +not mean, of their capabilities; these nobody +knows, not even themselves, because most of +them have never been called out. I mean their +actually existing thoughts and feelings. Many +a man thinks he perfectly understands women, +because he has had amatory relations with +several, perhaps with many of them. If he is +a good observer, and his experience extends to +quality as well as quantity, he may have learnt +something of one narrow department of their +nature—an important department, no doubt. +But of all the rest of it, few persons are generally +more ignorant, because there are few from +whom it is so carefully hidden. The most +favourable case which a man can generally have +for studying the character of a woman, is that +of his own wife: for the opportunities are greater, +and the cases of complete sympathy not so unspeakably +rare. And in fact, this is the source +from which any knowledge worth having on the +subject has, I believe, generally come. But most +men have not had the opportunity of studying in +<a name="page44" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 44]</span> +this way more than a single case: accordingly +one can, to an almost laughable degree, infer +what a man's wife is like, from his opinions +about women in general. To make even this +one case yield any result, the woman must be +worth knowing, and the man not only a competent +judge, but of a character so sympathetic in +itself, and so well adapted to hers, that he can +either read her mind by sympathetic intuition, +or has nothing in himself which makes her shy +of disclosing it. Hardly anything, I believe, +can be more rare than this conjunction. It +often happens that there is the most complete +unity of feeling and community of interests as +to all external things, yet the one has as little +admission into the internal life of the other as +if they were common acquaintance. Even with +true affection, authority on the one side and subordination +on the other prevent perfect confidence. +Though nothing may be intentionally +withheld, much is not shown. In the analogous +relation of parent and child, the corresponding +phenomenon must have been in the observation +of every one. As between father and son, how +many are the cases in which the father, in spite +of real affection on both sides, obviously to all +the world does not know, nor suspect, parts of +the son's character familiar to his companions +and equals. The truth is, that the position of +<a name="page45" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 45]</span> +looking up to another is extremely unpropitious +to complete sincerity and openness with him. +The fear of losing ground in his opinion or in his +feelings is so strong, that even in an upright character, +there is an unconscious tendency to show +only the best side, or the side which, though not +the best, is that which he most likes to see: and it +may be confidently said that thorough knowledge +of one another hardly ever exists, but between +persons who, besides being intimates, are equals. +How much more true, then, must all this be, +when the one is not only under the authority of +the other, but has it inculcated on her as a duty +to reckon everything else subordinate to his +comfort and pleasure, and to let him neither see +nor feel anything coming from her, except what +is agreeable to him. All these difficulties stand +in the way of a man's obtaining any thorough +knowledge even of the one woman whom alone, +in general, he has sufficient opportunity of studying. +When we further consider that to understand +one woman is not necessarily to understand +any other woman; that even if he could study +many women of one rank, or of one country, he +would not thereby understand women of other +ranks or countries; and even if he did, they are +still only the women of a single period of history; +we may safely assert that the knowledge which +men can acquire of women, even as they have +<a name="page46" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 46]</span> +been and are, without reference to what they +might be, is wretchedly imperfect and superficial, +and always will be so, until women themselves +have told all that they have to tell. +</p> +<p> +And this time has not come; nor will it come +otherwise than gradually. It is but of yesterday +that women have either been qualified by literary +accomplishments, or permitted by society, to tell +anything to the general public. As yet very +few of them dare tell anything, which men, on +whom their literary success depends, are unwilling +to hear. Let us remember in what manner, +up to a very recent time, the expression, even +by a male author, of uncustomary opinions, or +what are deemed eccentric feelings, usually was, +and in some degree still is, received; and we may +form some faint conception under what impediments +a woman, who is brought up to think +custom and opinion her sovereign rule, attempts +to express in books anything drawn from the +depths of her own nature. The greatest woman +who has left writings behind her sufficient to +give her an eminent rank in the literature of her +country, thought it necessary to prefix as a motto +to her boldest work, “Un homme peut braver +l'opinion; une femme doit s'y soumettre.”<a name="ref_1_1" /><a href="#footnote_1_1" class="fnref">[1]</a> The +greater part of what women write about women +is mere sycophancy to men. In the case of unmarried +<a name="page47" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 47]</span> +women, much of it seems only intended +to increase their chance of a husband. Many, +both married and unmarried, overstep the mark, +and inculcate a servility beyond what is desired +or relished by any man, except the very vulgarest. +But this is not so often the case as, even at a +quite late period, it still was. Literary women +are becoming more freespoken, and more willing +to express their real sentiments. Unfortunately, +in this country especially, they are themselves +such artificial products, that their sentiments are +compounded of a small element of individual +observation and consciousness, and a very large +one of acquired associations. This will be less +and less the case, but it will remain true to a +great extent, as long as social institutions do not +admit the same free development of originality +in women which is possible to men. When that +time comes, and not before, we shall see, and +not merely hear, as much as it is necessary to +know of the nature of women, and the adaptation +of other things to it. +</p> +<p> +I have dwelt so much on the difficulties which +at present obstruct any real knowledge by men +of the true nature of women, because in this as +in so many other things “opinio copiæ inter +maximas causas inopiæ est;” and there is little +chance of reasonable thinking on the matter, +while people flatter themselves that they perfectly +<a name="page48" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 48]</span> +understand a subject of which most men know +absolutely nothing, and of which it is at present +impossible that any man, or all men taken together, +should have knowledge which can qualify +them to lay down the law to women as to what +is, or is not, their vocation. Happily, no such +knowledge is necessary for any practical purpose +connected with the position of women in relation +to society and life. For, according to all the +principles involved in modern society, the question +rests with women themselves—to be decided by +their own experience, and by the use of their +own faculties. There are no means of finding +what either one person or many can do, but by +trying—and no means by which any one else can +discover for them what it is for their happiness +to do or leave undone. +</p> +<p> +One thing we may be certain of—that what is +contrary to women's nature to do, they never +will be made to do by simply giving their nature +free play. The anxiety of mankind to interfere +in behalf of nature, for fear lest nature should +not succeed in effecting its purpose, is an altogether +unnecessary solicitude. What women by +nature cannot do, it is quite superfluous to forbid +them from doing. What they can do, but not +so well as the men who are their competitors, +competition suffices to exclude them from; since +nobody asks for protective duties and bounties +<a name="page49" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 49]</span> +in favour of women; it is only asked that the +present bounties and protective duties in favour +of men should be recalled. If women have a +greater natural inclination for some things than +for others, there is no need of laws or social +inculcation to make the majority of them do +the former in preference to the latter. Whatever +women's services are most wanted for, the +free play of competition will hold out the +strongest inducements to them to undertake. +And, as the words imply, they are most wanted +for the things for which they are most fit; by +the apportionment of which to them, the collective +faculties of the two sexes can be applied +on the whole with the greatest sum of valuable +result. +</p> +<p> +The general opinion of men is supposed to be, +that the natural vocation of a woman is that of +a wife and mother. I say, is supposed to be, +because, judging from acts—from the whole of +the present constitution of society—one might +infer that their opinion was the direct contrary. +They might be supposed to think that the +alleged natural vocation of women was of all +things the most repugnant to their nature; +insomuch that if they are free to do anything +else—if any other means of living, or occupation +of their time and faculties, is open, which has +any chance of appearing desirable to them—there +<a name="page50" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 50]</span> +will not be enough of them who will be willing +to accept the condition said to be natural to +them. If this is the real opinion of men in +general, it would be well that it should be +spoken out. I should like to hear somebody +openly enunciating the doctrine (it is already +implied in much that is written on the subject)—“It +is necessary to society that women +should marry and produce children. They will +not do so unless they are compelled. Therefore +it is necessary to compel them.” The merits of +the case would then be clearly defined. It +would be exactly that of the slaveholders of +South Carolina and Louisiana. “It is necessary +that cotton and sugar should be grown. White +men cannot produce them. Negroes will not, +for any wages which we choose to give. <i>Ergo</i> +they must be compelled.” An illustration still +closer to the point is that of impressment. +Sailors must absolutely be had to defend the +country. It often happens that they will not +voluntarily enlist. Therefore there must be +the power of forcing them. How often has +this logic been used! and, but for one flaw +in it, without doubt it would have been successful +up to this day. But it is open to the +retort—First pay the sailors the honest value +of their labour. When you have made it as +well worth their while to serve you, as to work for +<a name="page51" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 51]</span> +other employers, you will have no more difficulty +than others have in obtaining their services. +To this there is no logical answer except “I will +not:” and as people are now not only ashamed, +but are not desirous, to rob the labourer of his +hire, impressment is no longer advocated. Those +who attempt to force women into marriage by +closing all other doors against them, lay themselves +open to a similar retort. If they mean +what they say, their opinion must evidently be, +that men do not render the married condition +so desirable to women, as to induce them to +accept it for its own recommendations. It is +not a sign of one's thinking the boon one offers +very attractive, when one allows only Hobson's +choice, “that or none.” And here, I believe, +is the clue to the feelings of those men, who +have a real antipathy to the equal freedom of +women. I believe they are afraid, not lest +women should be unwilling to marry, for I +do not think that any one in reality has that +apprehension; but lest they should insist that +marriage should be on equal conditions; lest +all women of spirit and capacity should prefer +doing almost anything else, not in their own +eyes degrading, rather than marry, when marrying +is giving themselves a master, and a master +too of all their earthly possessions. And truly, +if this consequence were necessarily incident to +<a name="page52" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 52]</span> +marriage, I think that the apprehension would +be very well founded. I agree in thinking it +probable that few women, capable of anything +else, would, unless under an irresistible <i>entrainement</i>, +rendering them for the time insensible +to anything but itself, choose such a lot, when +any other means were open to them of filling +a conventionally honourable place in life: and +if men are determined that the law of marriage +shall be a law of despotism, they are quite right, +in point of mere policy, in leaving to women +only Hobson's choice. But, in that case, all +that has been done in the modern world to +relax the chain on the minds of women, has +been a mistake. They never should have been +allowed to receive a literary education. Women +who read, much more women who write, are, +in the existing constitution of things, a contradiction +and a disturbing element: and it was +wrong to bring women up with any acquirements +but those of an odalisque, or of a domestic +servant. +</p> +<div class="footnote"> +<p> +<a name="footnote_1_1" /><a href="#ref_1_1">1</a>: Title-page of Mme. de Stael's “Delphine.” +<a name="page53" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 53]</span> +</p> +</div> +<h2> +<a name="chapter2" /> +CHAPTER II. +</h2> +<p> +It will be well to commence the detailed discussion +of the subject by the particular +branch of it to which the course of our observations +has led us: the conditions which the laws +of this and all other countries annex to the +marriage contract. Marriage being the destination +appointed by society for women, the prospect +they are brought up to, and the object which it +is intended should be sought by all of them, except +those who are too little attractive to be +chosen by any man as his companion; one might +have supposed that everything would have been +done to make this condition as eligible to them +as possible, that they might have no cause to +regret being denied the option of any other. +Society, however, both in this, and, at first, in all +other cases, has preferred to attain its object by +foul rather than fair means: but this is the only +case in which it has substantially persisted in +them even to the present day. Originally women +were taken by force, or regularly sold by their +father to the husband. Until a late period in +<a name="page54" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 54]</span> +European history, the father had the power to +dispose of his daughter in marriage at his own +will and pleasure, without any regard to hers. +The Church, indeed, was so far faithful to a better +morality as to require a formal “yes” from the +woman at the marriage ceremony; but there was +nothing to shew that the consent was other than +compulsory; and it was practically impossible for +the girl to refuse compliance if the father persevered, +except perhaps when she might obtain the +protection of religion by a determined resolution +to take monastic vows. After marriage, the man +had anciently (but this was anterior to Christianity) +the power of life and death over his wife. +She could invoke no law against him; he was +her sole tribunal and law. For a long time +he could repudiate her, but she had no corresponding +power in regard to him. By the old +laws of England, the husband was called the <i>lord</i> +of the wife; he was literally regarded as her +sovereign, inasmuch that the murder of a man +by his wife was called treason (<i>petty</i> as distinguished +from <i>high</i> treason), and was more cruelly +avenged than was usually the case with high +treason, for the penalty was burning to death. +Because these various enormities have fallen into +disuse (for most of them were never formally +abolished, or not until they had long ceased to +be practised) men suppose that all is now as it +<a name="page55" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 55]</span> +should be in regard to the marriage contract; +and we are continually told that civilization and +Christianity have restored to the woman her just +rights. Meanwhile the wife is the actual bond-servant +of her husband: no less so, as far as legal +obligation goes, than slaves commonly so called. +She vows a lifelong obedience to him at the +altar, and is held to it all through her life by +law. Casuists may say that the obligation of +obedience stops short of participation in crime, +but it certainly extends to everything else. She +can do no act whatever but by his permission, at +least tacit. She can acquire no property but for +him; the instant it becomes hers, even if by +inheritance, it becomes <i>ipso facto</i> his. In this +respect the wife's position under the common +law of England is worse than that of slaves in +the laws of many countries: by the Roman law, +for example, a slave might have his peculium, +which to a certain extent the law guaranteed to +him for his exclusive use. The higher classes +in this country have given an analogous advantage +to their women, through special contracts +setting aside the law, by conditions of pin-money, +&c.: since parental feeling being stronger with +fathers than the class feeling of their own sex, a +father generally prefers his own daughter to a +son-in-law who is a stranger to him. By means +of settlements, the rich usually contrive to withdraw +<a name="page56" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 56]</span> +the whole or part of the inherited property +of the wife from the absolute control of the +husband: but they do not succeed in keeping it +under her own control; the utmost they can +do only prevents the husband from squandering +it, at the same time debarring the rightful owner +from its use. The property itself is out of the +reach of both; and as to the income derived from +it, the form of settlement most favourable to the +wife (that called “to her separate use”) only +precludes the husband from receiving it instead +of her: it must pass through her hands, but if +he takes it from her by personal violence as soon +as she receives it, he can neither be punished, +nor compelled to restitution. This is the amount +of the protection which, under the laws of this +country, the most powerful nobleman can +give to his own daughter as respects her husband. +In the immense majority of cases there +is no settlement: and the absorption of all rights, +all property, as well as all freedom of action, +is complete. The two are called “one person in +law,” for the purpose of inferring that whatever +is hers is his, but the parallel inference is never +drawn that whatever is his is hers; the maxim is +not applied against the man, except to make him +responsible to third parties for her acts, as a +master is for the acts of his slaves or of his cattle. +I am far from pretending that wives are in +<a name="page57" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 57]</span> +general no better treated than slaves; but no +slave is a slave to the same lengths, and in so +full a sense of the word, as a wife is. Hardly +any slave, except one immediately attached to the +master's person, is a slave at all hours and all +minutes; in general he has, like a soldier, his +fixed task, and when it is done, or when he is off +duty, he disposes, within certain limits, of his +own time, and has a family life into which the +master rarely intrudes. “Uncle Tom” under his +first master had his own life in his “cabin,” +almost as much as any man whose work takes +him away from home, is able to have in his own +family. But it cannot be so with the wife. Above +all, a female slave has (in Christian countries) an +admitted right, and is considered under a moral +obligation, to refuse to her master the last familiarity. +Not so the wife: however brutal a tyrant +she may unfortunately be chained to—though she +may know that he hates her, though it may be +his daily pleasure to torture her, and though she +may feel it impossible not to loathe him—he can +claim from her and enforce the lowest degradation +of a human being, that of being made the +instrument of an animal function contrary to her +inclinations. While she is held in this worst description +of slavery as to her own person, what +is her position in regard to the children in +whom she and her master have a joint interest? +<a name="page58" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 58]</span> +They are by law <i>his</i> children. He alone has any +legal rights over them. Not one act can she do +towards or in relation to them, except by delegation +from him. Even after he is dead she is +not their legal guardian, unless he by will has +made her so. He could even send them away +from her, and deprive her of the means of seeing +or corresponding with them, until this power was +in some degree restricted by Serjeant Talfourd's +Act. This is her legal state. And from this state +she has no means of withdrawing herself. If she +leaves her husband, she can take nothing with +her, neither her children nor anything which is +rightfully her own. If he chooses, he can compel +her to return, by law, or by physical force; or he +may content himself with seizing for his own use +anything which she may earn, or which may be +given to her by her relations. It is only legal +separation by a decree of a court of justice, which +entitles her to live apart, without being forced +back into the custody of an exasperated jailer—or +which empowers her to apply any earnings to her +own use, without fear that a man whom perhaps +she has not seen for twenty years will pounce +upon her some day and carry all off. This legal +separation, until lately, the courts of justice would +only give at an expense which made it inaccessible +to any one out of the higher ranks. Even +now it is only given in cases of desertion, or of +<a name="page59" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 59]</span> +the extreme of cruelty; and yet complaints are +made every day that it is granted too easily. +Surely, if a woman is denied any lot in life but +that of being the personal body-servant of a +despot, and is dependent for everything upon the +chance of finding one who may be disposed to +make a favourite of her instead of merely a +drudge, it is a very cruel aggravation of her fate +that she should be allowed to try this chance only +once. The natural sequel and corollary from +this state of things would be, that since her all in +life depends upon obtaining a good master, she +should be allowed to change again and again +until she finds one. I am not saying that she +ought to be allowed this privilege. That is a +totally different consideration. The question of +divorce, in the sense involving liberty of remarriage, +is one into which it is foreign to my purpose to +enter. All I now say is, that to those to whom +nothing but servitude is allowed, the free choice +of servitude is the only, though a most insufficient, +alleviation. Its refusal completes the assimilation +of the wife to the slave—and the slave +under not the mildest form of slavery: for in +some slave codes the slave could, under certain +circumstances of ill usage, legally compel the +master to sell him. But no amount of ill usage, +without adultery superadded, will in England +free a wife from her tormentor. +<a name="page60" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 60]</span> +</p> +<p> +I have no desire to exaggerate, nor does the +case stand in any need of exaggeration. I have +described the wife's legal position, not her actual +treatment. The laws of most countries are far +worse than the people who execute them, and +many of them are only able to remain laws by +being seldom or never carried into effect. If +married life were all that it might be expected +to be, looking to the laws alone, society would +be a hell upon earth. Happily there are both +feelings and interests which in many men +exclude, and in most, greatly temper, the impulses +and propensities which lead to tyranny: +and of those feelings, the tie which connects +a man with his wife affords, in a normal +state of things, incomparably the strongest +example. The only tie which at all approaches +to it, that between him and his children, tends, +in all save exceptional cases, to strengthen, +instead of conflicting with, the first. Because +this is true; because men in general do not +inflict, nor women suffer, all the misery which +could be inflicted and suffered if the full power +of tyranny with which the man is legally invested +were acted on; the defenders of the +existing form of the institution think that all +its iniquity is justified, and that any complaint +is merely quarrelling with the evil which is the +price paid for every great good. But the mitigations +<a name="page61" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 61]</span> +in practice, which are compatible with +maintaining in full legal force this or any other +kind of tyranny, instead of being any apology +for despotism, only serve to prove what power +human nature possesses of reacting against the +vilest institutions, and with what vitality the +seeds of good as well as those of evil in human +character diffuse and propagate themselves. Not +a word can be said for despotism in the family +which cannot be said for political despotism. +Every absolute king does not sit at his window +to enjoy the groans of his tortured subjects, nor +strips them of their last rag and turns them +out to shiver in the road. The despotism of +Louis XVI. was not the despotism of Philippe +le Bel, or of Nadir Shah, or of Caligula; but +it was bad enough to justify the French Revolution, +and to palliate even its horrors. If an +appeal be made to the intense attachments +which exist between wives and their husbands, +exactly as much may be said of domestic slavery. +It was quite an ordinary fact in Greece and +Rome for slaves to submit to death by torture +rather than betray their masters. In the proscriptions +of the Roman civil wars it was +remarked that wives and slaves were heroically +faithful, sons very commonly treacherous. Yet +we know how cruelly many Romans treated +their slaves. But in truth these intense individual +<a name="page62" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 62]</span> +feelings nowhere rise to such a luxuriant +height as under the most atrocious institutions. +It is part of the irony of life, that the strongest +feelings of devoted gratitude of which human +nature seems to be susceptible, are called forth +in human beings towards those who, having the +power entirely to crush their earthly existence, +voluntarily refrain from using that power. How +great a place in most men this sentiment fills, even +in religious devotion, it would be cruel to inquire. +We daily see how much their gratitude to +Heaven appears to be stimulated by the contemplation +of fellow-creatures to whom God +has not been so merciful as he has to themselves. +</p> +<p> +Whether the institution to be defended is +slavery, political absolutism, or the absolutism of +the head of a family, we are always expected to +judge of it from its best instances; and we are +presented with pictures of loving exercise of +authority on one side, loving submission to it on +the other—superior wisdom ordering all things +for the greatest good of the dependents, and surrounded +by their smiles and benedictions. All +this would be very much to the purpose if any +one pretended that there are no such things as +good men. Who doubts that there may be great +goodness, and great happiness, and great affection, +under the absolute government of a good man? +Meanwhile, laws and institutions require to be +<a name="page63" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 63]</span> +adapted, not to good men, but to bad. Marriage +is not an institution designed for a select few. +Men are not required, as a preliminary to the +marriage ceremony, to prove by testimonials that +they are fit to be trusted with the exercise of +absolute power. The tie of affection and obligation +to a wife and children is very strong with +those whose general social feelings are strong, +and with many who are little sensible to any +other social ties; but there are all degrees of +sensibility and insensibility to it, as there are all +grades of goodness and wickedness in men, down +to those whom no ties will bind, and on whom +society has no action but through its <i>ultima ratio</i>, +the penalties of the law. In every grade of this +descending scale are men to whom are committed +all the legal powers of a husband. The vilest +malefactor has some wretched woman tied to +him, against whom he can commit any atrocity +except killing her, and, if tolerably cautious, can +do that without much danger of the legal penalty. +And how many thousands are there among the +lowest classes in every country, who, without +being in a legal sense malefactors in any other +respect, because in every other quarter their +aggressions meet with resistance, indulge the +utmost habitual excesses of bodily violence towards +the unhappy wife, who alone, at least of +grown persons, can neither repel nor escape from +<a name="page64" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 64]</span> +their brutality; and towards whom the excess +of dependence inspires their mean and savage +natures, not with a generous forbearance, and a +point of honour to behave well to one whose lot +in life is trusted entirely to their kindness, but +on the contrary with a notion that the law has +delivered her to them as their thing, to be used +at their pleasure, and that they are not expected +to practise the consideration towards her which +is required from them towards everybody else. +The law, which till lately left even these atrocious +extremes of domestic oppression practically unpunished, +has within these few years made some +feeble attempts to repress them. But its attempts +have done little, and cannot be expected to do +much, because it is contrary to reason and experience +to suppose that there can be any real check +to brutality, consistent with leaving the victim +still in the power of the executioner. Until a +conviction for personal violence, or at all events +a repetition of it after a first conviction, entitles +the woman <i>ipso facto</i> to a divorce, or at least to +a judicial separation, the attempt to repress these +“aggravated assaults” by legal penalties will +break down for want of a prosecutor, or for want +of a witness. +</p> +<p> +When we consider how vast is the number of +men, in any great country, who are little higher +than brutes, and that this never prevents them +<a name="page65" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 65]</span> +from being able, through the law of marriage, +to obtain a victim, the breadth and depth of +human misery caused in this shape alone by the +abuse of the institution swells to something appalling. +Yet these are only the extreme cases. +They are the lowest abysses, but there is a sad +succession of depth after depth before reaching +them. In domestic as in political tyranny, the +case of absolute monsters chiefly illustrates the +institution by showing that there is scarcely any +horror which may not occur under it if the +despot pleases, and thus setting in a strong light +what must be the terrible frequency of things +only a little less atrocious. Absolute fiends are +as rare as angels, perhaps rarer: ferocious +savages, with occasional touches of humanity, are +however very frequent: and in the wide interval +which separates these from any worthy representatives +of the human species, how many are the +forms and gradations of animalism and selfishness, +often under an outward varnish of civilization +and even cultivation, living at peace with +the law, maintaining a creditable appearance to +all who are not under their power, yet sufficient +often to make the lives of all who are so, a +torment and a burthen to them! It would be +tiresome to repeat the commonplaces about the +unfitness of men in general for power, which, +after the political discussions of centuries, every +<a name="page66" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 66]</span> +one knows by heart, were it not that hardly any +one thinks of applying these maxims to the case +in which above all others they are applicable, +that of power, not placed in the hands of a man +here and there, but offered to every adult male, +down to the basest and most ferocious. It is +not because a man is not known to have broken +any of the Ten Commandments, or because he +maintains a respectable character in his dealings +with those whom he cannot compel to have +intercourse with him, or because he does not fly +out into violent bursts of ill-temper against those +who are not obliged to bear with him, that it is +possible to surmise of what sort his conduct will +be in the unrestraint of home. Even the commonest +men reserve the violent, the sulky, the +undisguisedly selfish side of their character for +those who have no power to withstand it. The +relation of superiors to dependents is the nursery +of these vices of character, which, wherever else +they exist, are an overflowing from that source. +A man who is morose or violent to his equals, +is sure to be one who has lived among inferiors, +whom he could frighten or worry into submission. +If the family in its best forms is, as it is +often said to be, a school of sympathy, tenderness, +and loving forgetfulness of self, it is still oftener, +as respects its chief, a school of wilfulness, overbearingness, +unbounded self-indulgence, and a +<a name="page67" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 67]</span> +double-dyed and idealized selfishness, of which +sacrifice itself is only a particular form: the care +for the wife and children being only care for +them as parts of the man's own interests and +belongings, and their individual happiness being +immolated in every shape to his smallest preferences. +What better is to be looked for under +the existing form of the institution? We know +that the bad propensities of human nature are +only kept within bounds when they are allowed +no scope for their indulgence. We know that +from impulse and habit, when not from deliberate +purpose, almost every one to whom others +yield, goes on encroaching upon them, until a +point is reached at which they are compelled to +resist. Such being the common tendency of +human nature; the almost unlimited power which +present social institutions give to the man over +at least one human being—the one with whom +he resides, and whom he has always present—this +power seeks out and evokes the latent germs +of selfishness in the remotest corners of his +nature—fans its faintest sparks and smouldering +embers—offers to him a license for the indulgence +of those points of his original character which +in all other relations he would have found it necessary +to repress and conceal, and the repression +of which would in time have become a second +nature. I know that there is another side to +<a name="page68" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 68]</span> +the question. I grant that the wife, if she +cannot effectually resist, can at least retaliate; +she, too, can make the man's life extremely uncomfortable, +and by that power is able to carry +many points which she ought, and many which +she ought not, to prevail in. But this instrument +of self-protection—which may be called +the power of the scold, or the shrewish sanction—has +the fatal defect, that it avails most against +the least tyrannical superiors, and in favour of +the least deserving dependents. It is the weapon +of irritable and self-willed women; of those who +would make the worst use of power if they themselves +had it, and who generally turn this power +to a bad use. The amiable cannot use such an +instrument, the highminded disdain it. And on +the other hand, the husbands against whom it is +used most effectively are the gentler and more +inoffensive; those who cannot be induced, even +by provocation, to resort to any very harsh exercise +of authority. The wife's power of being +disagreeable generally only establishes a counter-tyranny, +and makes victims in their turn chiefly +of those husbands who are least inclined to be +tyrants. +</p> +<p> +What is it, then, which really tempers the +corrupting effects of the power, and makes it +compatible with such amount of good as we +actually see? Mere feminine blandishments, +<a name="page69" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 69]</span> +though of great effect in individual instances, +have very little effect in modifying the general +tendencies of the situation; for their power only +lasts while the woman is young and attractive, +often only while her charm is new, and not +dimmed by familiarity; and on many men they +have not much influence at any time. The real +mitigating causes are, the personal affection +which is the growth of time, in so far as the man's +nature is susceptible of it, and the woman's +character sufficiently congenial with his to excite +it; their common interests as regards the children, +and their general community of interest +as concerns third persons (to which however there +are very great limitations); the real importance +of the wife to his daily comforts and enjoyments, +and the value he consequently attaches to her +on his personal account, which, in a man capable +of feeling for others, lays the foundation of caring +for her on her own; and lastly, the influence naturally +acquired over almost all human beings by +those near to their persons (if not actually disagreeable +to them): who, both by their direct entreaties, +and by the insensible contagion of their feelings +and dispositions, are often able, unless counteracted +by some equally strong personal influence, +to obtain a degree of command over the conduct +of the superior, altogether excessive and unreasonable. +Through these various means, the +<a name="page70" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 70]</span> +wife frequently exercises even too much power +over the man; she is able to affect his conduct +in things in which she may not be qualified to +influence it for good—in which her influence may +be not only unenlightened, but employed on the +morally wrong side; and in which he would act +better if left to his own prompting. But neither +in the affairs of families nor in those of states +is power a compensation for the loss of freedom. +Her power often gives her what she has no right +to, but does not enable her to assert her own +rights. A Sultan's favourite slave has slaves +under her, over whom she tyrannizes; but the +desirable thing would be that she should neither +have slaves nor be a slave. By entirely sinking +her own existence in her husband; by having no +will (or persuading him that she has no will) but +his, in anything which regards their joint relation, +and by making it the business of her life +to work upon his sentiments, a wife may gratify +herself by influencing, and very probably perverting, +his conduct, in those of his external relations +which she has never qualified herself to +judge of, or in which she is herself wholly influenced +by some personal or other partiality or +prejudice. Accordingly, as things now are, +those who act most kindly to their wives, are +quite as often made worse, as better, by the wife's +influence, in respect to all interests extending +<a name="page71" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 71]</span> +beyond the family. She is taught that she has +no business with things out of that sphere; and +accordingly she seldom has any honest and conscientious +opinion on them; and therefore hardly +ever meddles with them for any legitimate purpose, +but generally for an interested one. She +neither knows nor cares which is the right side in +politics, but she knows what will bring in money +or invitations, give her husband a title, her son +a place, or her daughter a good marriage. +</p> +<p> +But how, it will be asked, can any society +exist without government? In a family, as in a +state, some one person must be the ultimate +ruler. Who shall decide when married people +differ in opinion? Both cannot have their way, +yet a decision one way or the other must be +come to. +</p> +<p> +It is not true that in all voluntary association +between two people, one of them must be absolute +master: still less that the law must determine +which of them it shall be. The most frequent +case of voluntary association, next to marriage, +is partnership in business: and it is not found or +thought necessary to enact that in every partnership, +one partner shall have entire control over +the concern, and the others shall be bound to +obey his orders. No one would enter into partnership +on terms which would subject him to the +responsibilities of a principal, with only the +<a name="page72" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 72]</span> +powers and privileges of a clerk or agent. If +the law dealt with other contracts as it does with +marriage, it would ordain that one partner should +administer the common business as if it was his +private concern; that the others should have only +delegated powers; and that this one should be +designated by some general presumption of law, +for example as being the eldest. The law never +does this: nor does experience show it to be +necessary that any theoretical inequality of power +should exist between the partners, or that the +partnership should have any other conditions than +what they may themselves appoint by their articles +of agreement. Yet it might seem that the exclusive +power might be conceded with less danger +to the rights and interests of the inferior, in the +case of partnership than in that of marriage, +since he is free to cancel the power by withdrawing +from the connexion. The wife has no +such power, and even if she had, it is almost +always desirable that she should try all measures +before resorting to it. +</p> +<p> +It is quite true that things which have to +be decided every day, and cannot adjust themselves +gradually, or wait for a compromise, ought +to depend on one will: one person must have +their sole control. But it does not follow that +this should always be the same person. The +natural arrangement is a division of powers +<a name="page73" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 73]</span> +between the two; each being absolute in the +executive branch of their own department, and +any change of system and principle requiring the +consent of both. The division neither can nor +should be pre-established by the law, since it +must depend on individual capacities and suitabilities. +If the two persons chose, they might +pre-appoint it by the marriage contract, as pecuniary +arrangements are now often pre-appointed. +There would seldom be any difficulty +in deciding such things by mutual consent, unless +the marriage was one of those unhappy ones in +which all other things, as well as this, become +subjects of bickering and dispute. The division +of rights would naturally follow the division of +duties and functions; and that is already made +by consent, or at all events not by law, but by +general custom, modified and modifiable at the +pleasure of the persons concerned. +</p> +<p> +The real practical decision of affairs, to whichever +may be given the legal authority, will greatly +depend, as it even now does, upon comparative +qualifications. The mere fact that he is usually +the eldest, will in most cases give the preponderance +to the man; at least until they both +attain a time of life at which the difference +in their years is of no importance. There will +naturally also be a more potential voice on the +side, whichever it is, that brings the means of +<a name="page74" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 74]</span> +support. Inequality from this source does not +depend on the law of marriage, but on the +general conditions of human society, as now +constituted. The influence of mental superiority, +either general or special, and of superior +decision of character, will necessarily tell for +much. It always does so at present. And this +fact shows how little foundation there is for the +apprehension that the powers and responsibilities +of partners in life (as of partners in business), +cannot be satisfactorily apportioned by agreement +between themselves. They always are so +apportioned, except in cases in which the marriage +institution is a failure. Things never +come to an issue of downright power on one +side, and obedience on the other, except where +the connexion altogether has been a mistake, +and it would be a blessing to both parties to +be relieved from it. Some may say that the +very thing by which an amicable settlement of +differences becomes possible, is the power of +legal compulsion known to be in reserve; as +people submit to an arbitration because there +is a court of law in the background, which they +know that they can be forced to obey. But +to make the cases parallel, we must suppose +that the rule of the court of law was, not to +try the cause, but to give judgment always for +the same side, suppose the defendant. If so, +<a name="page75" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 75]</span> +the amenability to it would be a motive with +the plaintiff to agree to almost any arbitration, +but it would be just the reverse with the +defendant. The despotic power which the law +gives to the husband may be a reason to make +the wife assent to any compromise by which +power is practically shared between the two, +but it cannot be the reason why the husband +does. That there is always among decently +conducted people a practical compromise, though +one of them at least is under no physical or +moral necessity of making it, shows that the +natural motives which lead to a voluntary +adjustment of the united life of two persons +in a manner acceptable to both, do on the +whole, except in unfavourable cases, prevail. The +matter is certainly not improved by laying down +as an ordinance of law, that the superstructure of +free government shall be raised upon a legal +basis of despotism on one side and subjection +on the other, and that every concession which +the despot makes may, at his mere pleasure, +and without any warning, be recalled. Besides +that no freedom is worth much when held on +so precarious a tenure, its conditions are not +likely to be the most equitable when the law +throws so prodigious a weight into one scale; +when the adjustment rests between two persons +one of whom is declared to be entitled to +<a name="page76" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 76]</span> +everything, the other not only entitled to +nothing except during the good pleasure of +the first, but under the strongest moral and +religious obligation not to rebel under any excess +of oppression. +</p> +<p> +A pertinacious adversary, pushed to extremities, +may say, that husbands indeed are willing +to be reasonable, and to make fair concessions +to their partners without being compelled to it, +but that wives are not: that if allowed any rights +of their own, they will acknowledge no rights at +all in any one else, and never will yield in anything, +unless they can be compelled, by the +man's mere authority, to yield in everything. +This would have been said by many persons some +generations ago, when satires on women were in +vogue, and men thought it a clever thing to insult +women for being what men made them. +But it will be said by no one now who is worth +replying to. It is not the doctrine of the present +day that women are less susceptible of good +feeling, and consideration for those with whom +they are united by the strongest ties, than men +are. On the contrary, we are perpetually told +that women are better than men, by those who +are totally opposed to treating them as if they +were as good; so that the saying has passed into +a piece of tiresome cant, intended to put a complimentary +face upon an injury, and resembling +<a name="page77" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 77]</span> +those celebrations of royal clemency which, according +to Gulliver, the king of Lilliput always +prefixed to his most sanguinary decrees. If +women are better than men in anything, it surely +is in individual self-sacrifice for those of their +own family. But I lay little stress on this, so +long as they are universally taught that they +are born and created for self-sacrifice. I believe +that equality of rights would abate the exaggerated +self-abnegation which is the present artificial +ideal of feminine character, and that a good +woman would not be more self-sacrificing than +the best man: but on the other hand, men +would be much more unselfish and self-sacrificing +than at present, because they would no longer +be taught to worship their own will as such a +grand thing that it is actually the law for another +rational being. There is nothing which men so +easily learn as this self-worship: all privileged +persons, and all privileged classes, have had it. +The more we descend in the scale of humanity, +the intenser it is; and most of all in those who +are not, and can never expect to be, raised above +any one except an unfortunate wife and children. +The honourable exceptions are proportionally +fewer than in the case of almost any other human +infirmity. Philosophy and religion, instead +of keeping it in check, are generally suborned to +defend it; and nothing controls it but that +<a name="page78" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 78]</span> +practical feeling of the equality of human beings, +which is the theory of Christianity, but which +Christianity will never practically teach, while +it sanctions institutions grounded on an arbitrary +preference of one human being over another. +</p> +<p> +There are, no doubt, women, as there are +men, whom equality of consideration will not +satisfy; with whom there is no peace while any +will or wish is regarded but their own. Such +persons are a proper subject for the law of +divorce. They are only fit to live alone, and +no human beings ought to be compelled to associate +their lives with them. But the legal subordination +tends to make such characters +among women more, rather than less, frequent. +If the man exerts his whole power, the woman +is of course crushed: but if she is treated with +indulgence, and permitted to assume power, +there is no rule to set limits to her encroachments. +The law, not determining her rights, but +theoretically allowing her none at all, practically +declares that the measure of what she has a +right to, is what she can contrive to get. +</p> +<p> +The equality of married persons before the +law, is not only the sole mode in which that +particular relation can be made consistent with +justice to both sides, and conducive to the +happiness of both, but it is the only means +of rendering the daily life of mankind, in any +<a name="page79" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 79]</span> +high sense, a school of moral cultivation. Though +the truth may not be felt or generally acknowledged +for generations to come, the only school +of genuine moral sentiment is society between +equals. The moral education of mankind has +hitherto emanated chiefly from the law of force, +and is adapted almost solely to the relations +which force creates. In the less advanced +states of society, people hardly recognise any +relation with their equals. To be an equal is +to be an enemy. Society, from its highest place +to its lowest, is one long chain, or rather ladder, +where every individual is either above or below +his nearest neighbour, and wherever he does +not command he must obey. Existing moralities, +accordingly, are mainly fitted to a relation of +command and obedience. Yet command and +obedience are but unfortunate necessities of +human life: society in equality is its normal +state. Already in modern life, and more and +more as it progressively improves, command +and obedience become exceptional facts in life, +equal association its general rule. The morality +of the first ages rested on the obligation to +submit to power; that of the ages next following, +on the right of the weak to the forbearance and +protection of the strong. How much longer is +one form of society and life to content itself with +the morality made for another? We have had +<a name="page80" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 80]</span> +the morality of submission, and the morality +of chivalry and generosity; the time is now +come for the morality of justice. Whenever, +in former ages, any approach has been made +to society in equality, Justice has asserted its +claims as the foundation of virtue. It was +thus in the free republics of antiquity. But +even in the best of these, the equals were limited +to the free male citizens; slaves, women, and +the unenfranchised residents were under the +law of force. The joint influence of Roman +civilization and of Christianity obliterated these +distinctions, and in theory (if only partially in +practice) declared the claims of the human +being, as such, to be paramount to those of +sex, class, or social position. The barriers which +had begun to be levelled were raised again by +the northern conquests; and the whole of modern +history consists of the slow process by which +they have since been wearing away. We are +entering into an order of things in which justice +will again be the primary virtue; grounded as +before on equal, but now also on sympathetic +association; having its root no longer in the +instinct of equals for self-protection, but in a +cultivated sympathy between them; and no one +being now left out, but an equal measure being +extended to all. It is no novelty that mankind +do not distinctly foresee their own changes, +<a name="page81" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 81]</span> +and that their sentiments are adapted to past, +not to coming ages. To see the futurity of the +species has always been the privilege of the intellectual +élite, or of those who have learnt from +them; to have the feelings of that futurity has +been the distinction, and usually the martyrdom, +of a still rarer élite. Institutions, books, education, +society, all go on training human beings +for the old, long after the new has come; much +more when it is only coming. But the true +virtue of human beings is fitness to live together +as equals; claiming nothing for themselves but +what they as freely concede to every one else; +regarding command of any kind as an exceptional +necessity, and in all cases a temporary +one; and preferring, whenever possible, the +society of those with whom leading and following +can be alternate and reciprocal. To +these virtues, nothing in life as at present constituted +gives cultivation by exercise. The +family is a school of despotism, in which the +virtues of despotism, but also its vices, are largely +nourished. Citizenship, in free countries, is partly +a school of society in equality; but citizenship fills +only a small place in modern life, and does not +come near the daily habits or inmost sentiments. +The family, justly constituted, would be the real +school of the virtues of freedom. It is sure to +be a sufficient one of everything else. It will +<a name="page82" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 82]</span> +always be a school of obedience for the children, +of command for the parents. What is needed +is, that it should be a school of sympathy in +equality, of living together in love, without +power on one side or obedience on the other. +This it ought to be between the parents. It +would then be an exercise of those virtues which +each requires to fit them for all other association, +and a model to the children of the feelings +and conduct which their temporary training by +means of obedience is designed to render habitual, +and therefore natural, to them. The moral training +of mankind will never be adapted to the +conditions of the life for which all other human +progress is a preparation, until they practise in +the family the same moral rule which is adapted +to the normal constitution of human society. +Any sentiment of freedom which can exist in +a man whose nearest and dearest intimacies are +with those of whom he is absolute master, is +not the genuine or Christian love of freedom, +but, what the love of freedom generally was +in the ancients and in the middle ages—an +intense feeling of the dignity and importance +of his own personality; making him disdain a +yoke for himself, of which he has no abhorrence +whatever in the abstract, but which he is abundantly +ready to impose on others for his own +interest or glorification. +<a name="page83" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 83]</span> +</p> +<p> +I readily admit (and it is the very foundation +of my hopes) that numbers of married people +even under the present law, (in the higher classes +of England probably a great majority,) live in +the spirit of a just law of equality. Laws never +would be improved, if there were not numerous +persons whose moral sentiments are better +than the existing laws. Such persons ought +to support the principles here advocated; of +which the only object is to make all other +married couples similar to what these are now. +But persons even of considerable moral worth, +unless they are also thinkers, are very ready +to believe that laws or practices, the evils of +which they have not personally experienced, +do not produce any evils, but (if seeming to +be generally approved of) probably do good, +and that it is wrong to object to them. It +would, however, be a great mistake in such +married people to suppose, because the legal conditions +of the tie which unites them do not occur +to their thoughts once in a twelvemonth, and because +they live and feel in all respects as if they +were legally equals, that the same is the case with +all other married couples, wherever the husband is +not a notorious ruffian. To suppose this, would +be to show equal ignorance of human nature and +of fact. The less fit a man is for the possession +of power—the less likely to be allowed to exercise +<a name="page84" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 84]</span> +it over any person with that person's voluntary +consent—the more does he hug himself in the +consciousness of the power the law gives him, +exact its legal rights to the utmost point which +custom (the custom of men like himself) will +tolerate, and take pleasure in using the power, +merely to enliven the agreeable sense of possessing +it. What is more; in the most naturally +brutal and morally uneducated part of the lower +classes, the legal slavery of the woman, and something +in the merely physical subjection to their +will as an instrument, causes them to feel a +sort of disrespect and contempt towards their +own wife which they do not feel towards any +other woman, or any other human being, with +whom they come in contact; and which makes +her seem to them an appropriate subject for any +kind of indignity. Let an acute observer of the +signs of feeling, who has the requisite opportunities, +judge for himself whether this is not the case: +and if he finds that it is, let him not wonder at +any amount of disgust and indignation that can +be felt against institutions which lead naturally +to this depraved state of the human mind. +</p> +<p> +We shall be told, perhaps, that religion imposes +the duty of obedience; as every established fact +which is too bad to admit of any other defence, +is always presented to us as an injunction of +religion. The Church, it is very true, enjoins it +<a name="page85" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 85]</span> +in her formularies, but it would be difficult to +derive any such injunction from Christianity. +We are told that St. Paul said, “Wives, obey +your husbands:” but he also said, “Slaves, obey +your masters.” It was not St. Paul's business, +nor was it consistent with his object, the propagation +of Christianity, to incite any one to rebellion +against existing laws. The apostle's acceptance +of all social institutions as he found them, +is no more to be construed as a disapproval of +attempts to improve them at the proper time, +than his declaration, “The powers that be are +ordained of God,” gives his sanction to military +despotism, and to that alone, as the +Christian form of political government, or commands +passive obedience to it. To pretend +that Christianity was intended to stereotype +existing forms of government and society, and +protect them against change, is to reduce it to +the level of Islamism or of Brahminism. It is +precisely because Christianity has not done this, +that it has been the religion of the progressive +portion of mankind, and Islamism, Brahminism, +&c., have been those of the stationary portions; +or rather (for there is no such thing as a really +stationary society) of the declining portions. +There have been abundance of people, in all ages of +Christianity, who tried to make it something of the +same kind; to convert us into a sort of Christian +<a name="page86" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 86]</span> +Mussulmans, with the Bible for a Koran, prohibiting +all improvement: and great has been their +power, and many have had to sacrifice their lives +in resisting them. But they have been resisted, +and the resistance has made us what we are, and +will yet make us what we are to be. +</p> +<p> +After what has been said respecting the obligation +of obedience, it is almost superfluous to +say anything concerning the more special point +included in the general one—a woman's right +to her own property; for I need not hope that +this treatise can make any impression upon those +who need anything to convince them that a +woman's inheritance or gains ought to be as +much her own after marriage as before. The +rule is simple: whatever would be the husband's +or wife's if they were not married, should be +under their exclusive control during marriage; +which need not interfere with the power to tie +up property by settlement, in order to preserve +it for children. Some people are sentimentally +shocked at the idea of a separate interest in +money matters, as inconsistent with the ideal +fusion of two lives into one. For my own part, +I am one of the strongest supporters of community +of goods, when resulting from an entire unity of +feeling in the owners, which makes all things +common between them. But I have no relish +for a community of goods resting on the doctrine, +<a name="page87" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 87]</span> +that what is mine is yours but what is +yours is not mine; and I should prefer to decline +entering into such a compact with any +one, though I were myself the person to profit +by it. +</p> +<p> +This particular injustice and oppression to +women, which is, to common apprehensions, more +obvious than all the rest, admits of remedy +without interfering with any other mischiefs: and +there can be little doubt that it will be one of +the earliest remedied. Already, in many of the +new and several of the old States of the American +Confederation, provisions have been inserted +even in the written Constitutions, securing +to women equality of rights in this respect: and +thereby improving materially the position, in +the marriage relation, of those women at least +who have property, by leaving them one instrument +of power which they have not signed +away; and preventing also the scandalous abuse +of the marriage institution, which is perpetrated +when a man entraps a girl into marrying him +without a settlement, for the sole purpose of +getting possession of her money. When the +support of the family depends, not on property, +but on earnings, the common arrangement, by +which the man earns the income and the wife +superintends the domestic expenditure, seems to +me in general the most suitable division of +<a name="page88" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 88]</span> +labour between the two persons. If, in addition +to the physical suffering of bearing children, +and the whole responsibility of their care and +education in early years, the wife undertakes +the careful and economical application of the +husband's earnings to the general comfort of the +family; she takes not only her fair share, but +usually the larger share, of the bodily and mental +exertion required by their joint existence. If +she undertakes any additional portion, it seldom +relieves her from this, but only prevents her +from performing it properly. The care which +she is herself disabled from taking of the children +and the household, nobody else takes; +those of the children who do not die, grow up +as they best can, and the management of the +household is likely to be so bad, as even in point +of economy to be a great drawback from the +value of the wife's earnings. In an otherwise +just state of things, it is not, therefore, I think, +a desirable custom, that the wife should contribute +by her labour to the income of the family. +In an unjust state of things, her doing so may +be useful to her, by making her of more value +in the eyes of the man who is legally her master; +but, on the other hand, it enables him still farther +to abuse his power, by forcing her to work, and +leaving the support of the family to her exertions, +while he spends most of his time in drinking +<a name="page89" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 89]</span> +and idleness. The <i>power</i> of earning is essential +to the dignity of a woman, if she has not +independent property. But if marriage were an +equal contract, not implying the obligation of +obedience; if the connexion were no longer enforced +to the oppression of those to whom it is +purely a mischief, but a separation, on just +terms (I do not now speak of a divorce), could +be obtained by any woman who was morally +entitled to it; and if she would then find all +honourable employments as freely open to her as +to men; it would not be necessary for her protection, +that during marriage she should make +this particular use of her faculties. Like a man +when he chooses a profession, so, when a woman +marries, it may in general be understood that +she makes choice of the management of a household, +and the bringing up of a family, as the +first call upon her exertions, during as many +years of her life as may be required for the purpose; +and that she renounces, not all other objects +and occupations, but all which are not +consistent with the requirements of this. The +actual exercise, in a habitual or systematic +manner, of outdoor occupations, or such as +cannot be carried on at home, would by this +principle be practically interdicted to the greater +number of married women. But the utmost +latitude ought to exist for the adaptation of +<a name="page90" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 90]</span> +general rules to individual suitabilities; and there +ought to be nothing to prevent faculties exceptionally +adapted to any other pursuit, from +obeying their vocation notwithstanding marriage: +due provision being made for supplying +otherwise any falling-short which might become +inevitable, in her full performance of the ordinary +functions of mistress of a family. These things, +if once opinion were rightly directed on the +subject, might with perfect safety be left to be +regulated by opinion, without any interference +of law. +<a name="page91" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 91]</span> +</p> +<h2> +<a name="chapter3" /> +CHAPTER III. +</h2> +<p> +On the other point which is involved in the +just equality of women, their admissibility +to all the functions and occupations hitherto +retained as the monopoly of the stronger sex, +I should anticipate no difficulty in convincing +any one who has gone with me on the subject of +the equality of women in the family. I believe +that their disabilities elsewhere are only clung to +in order to maintain their subordination in domestic +life; because the generality of the male +sex cannot yet tolerate the idea of living with +an equal. Were it not for that, I think that +almost every one, in the existing state of opinion +in politics and political economy, would admit +the injustice of excluding half the human race +from the greater number of lucrative occupations, +and from almost all high social functions; ordaining +from their birth either that they are not, +and cannot by any possibility become, fit for +employments which are legally open to the +stupidest and basest of the other sex, or else that +however fit they may be, those employments shall +<a name="page92" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 92]</span> +be interdicted to them, in order to be preserved +for the exclusive benefit of males. In the last +two centuries, when (which was seldom the case) +any reason beyond the mere existence of the fact +was thought to be required to justify the disabilities +of women, people seldom assigned as a reason +their inferior mental capacity; which, in times +when there was a real trial of personal faculties +(from which all women were not excluded) in the +struggles of public life, no one really believed in. +The reason given in those days was not women's +unfitness, but the interest of society, by which was +meant the interest of men: just as the <i>raison d'état</i>, +meaning the convenience of the government, and +the support of existing authority, was deemed a +sufficient explanation and excuse for the most flagitious +crimes. In the present day, power holds +a smoother language, and whomsoever it oppresses, +always pretends to do so for their own good: +accordingly, when anything is forbidden to women, +it is thought necessary to say, and desirable to +believe, that they are incapable of doing it, and +that they depart from their real path of success +and happiness when they aspire to it. But to +make this reason plausible (I do not say valid), +those by whom it is urged must be prepared to +carry it to a much greater length than any one +ventures to do in the face of present experience. +It is not sufficient to maintain that women on +<a name="page93" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 93]</span> +the average are less gifted than men on the +average, with certain of the higher mental +faculties, or that a smaller number of women +than of men are fit for occupations and functions +of the highest intellectual character. It is +necessary to maintain that no women at all are +fit for them, and that the most eminent women +are inferior in mental faculties to the most +mediocre of the men on whom those functions +at present devolve. For if the performance of the +function is decided either by competition, or by any +mode of choice which secures regard to the public +interest, there needs be no apprehension that any +important employments will fall into the hands of +women inferior to average men, or to the average +of their male competitors. The only result would +be that there would be fewer women than men +in such employments; a result certain to happen +in any ease, if only from the preference always +likely to be felt by the majority of women for the +one vocation in which there is nobody to compete +with them. Now, the most determined depreciator +of women will not venture to deny, that +when we add the experience of recent times to +that of ages past, women, and not a few merely, +but many women, have proved themselves capable +of everything, perhaps without a single exception, +which is done by men, and of doing it successfully +and creditably. The utmost that can be +<a name="page94" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 94]</span> +said is, that there are many things which none of +them have succeeded in doing as well as they +have been done by some men—many in which +they have not reached the very highest rank. +But there are extremely few, dependent only on +mental faculties, in which they have not attained +the rank next to the highest. Is not this enough, +and much more than enough, to make it a +tyranny to them, and a detriment to society, that +they should not be allowed to compete with men +for the exercise of these functions? Is it not a +mere truism to say, that such functions are often +filled by men far less fit for them than numbers +of women, and who would be beaten by women +in any fair field of competition? What difference +does it make that there may be men somewhere, +fully employed about other things, who may be +still better qualified for the things in question +than these women? Does not this take place +in all competitions? Is there so great a superfluity +of men fit for high duties, that society can +afford to reject the service of any competent +person? Are we so certain of always finding a +man made to our hands for any duty or function +of social importance which falls vacant, that we +lose nothing by putting a ban upon one-half of +mankind, and refusing beforehand to make their +faculties available, however distinguished they +may be? And even if we could do without +<a name="page95" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 95]</span> +them, would it be consistent with justice to refuse +to them their fair share of honour and distinction, +or to deny to them the equal moral right of all +human beings to choose their occupation (short +of injury to others) according to their own +preferences, at their own risk? Nor is the injustice +confined to them: it is shared by those +who are in a position to benefit by their services. +To ordain that any kind of persons shall not be +physicians, or shall not be advocates, or shall not +be members of parliament, is to injure not them +only, but all who employ physicians or advocates, +or elect members of parliament, and who are +deprived of the stimulating effect of greater competition +on the exertions of the competitors, as +well as restricted to a narrower range of individual +choice. +</p> +<p> +It will perhaps be sufficient if I confine +myself, in the details of my argument, to functions +of a public nature: since, if I am successful +as to those, it probably will be readily granted +that women should be admissible to all other +occupations to which it is at all material whether +they are admitted or not. And here let me +begin by marking out one function, broadly distinguished +from all others, their right to which is +entirely independent of any question which can +be raised concerning their faculties. I mean the +suffrage, both parliamentary and municipal. The +<a name="page96" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 96]</span> +right to share in the choice of those who are to +exercise a public trust, is altogether a distinct +thing from that of competing for the trust itself. +If no one could vote for a member of parliament +who was not fit to be a candidate, the government +would be a narrow oligarchy indeed. To +have a voice in choosing those by whom one is +to be governed, is a means of self-protection due +to every one, though he were to remain for ever +excluded from the function of governing: and +that women are considered fit to have such +a choice, may be presumed from the fact, that +the law already gives it to women in the +most important of all cases to themselves: for +the choice of the man who is to govern a +woman to the end of life, is always supposed +to be voluntarily made by herself. In the case +of election to public trusts, it is the business +of constitutional law to surround the right of +suffrage with all needful securities and limitations; +but whatever securities are sufficient in +the case of the male sex, no others need be +required in the case of women. Under whatever +conditions, and within whatever limits, men are +admitted to the suffrage, there is not a shadow of +justification for not admitting women under the +same. The majority of the women of any class +are not likely to differ in political opinion from +the majority of the men of the same class, unless +<a name="page97" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 97]</span> +the question be one in which the interests of +women, as such, are in some way involved; and if +they are so, women require the suffrage, as their +guarantee of just and equal consideration. This +ought to be obvious even to those who coincide +in no other of the doctrines for which I contend. +Even if every woman were a wife, and if every +wife ought to be a slave, all the more would +these slaves stand in need of legal protection: and +we know what legal protection the slaves have, +where the laws are made by their masters. +</p> +<p> +With regard to the fitness of women, not only +to participate in elections, but themselves to +hold offices or practise professions involving +important public responsibilities; I have already +observed that this consideration is not essential +to the practical question in dispute: since any +woman, who succeeds in an open profession, +proves by that very fact that she is qualified for +it. And in the case of public offices, if the political +system of the country is such as to exclude +unfit men, it will equally exclude unfit women: +while if it is not, there is no additional evil in the +fact that the unfit persons whom it admits may +be either women or men. As long therefore as +it is acknowledged that even a few women may +be fit for these duties, the laws which shut the +door on those exceptions cannot be justified by +any opinion which can be held respecting the +<a name="page98" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 98]</span> +capacities of women in general. But, though this +last consideration is not essential, it is far from +being irrelevant. An unprejudiced view of it +gives additional strength to the arguments against +the disabilities of women, and reinforces them by +high considerations of practical utility. +</p> +<p> +Let us at first make entire abstraction of all +psychological considerations tending to show, that +any of the mental differences supposed to exist +between women and men are but the natural +effect of the differences in their education and +circumstances, and indicate no radical difference, +far less radical inferiority, of nature. Let us +consider women only as they already are, or as +they are known to have been; and the capacities +which they have already practically shown. +What they have done, that at least, if nothing +else, it is proved that they can do. When we +consider how sedulously they are all trained away +from, instead of being trained towards, any of +the occupations or objects reserved for men, it is +evident that I am taking a very humble ground +for them, when I rest their case on what they +have actually achieved. For, in this case, negative +evidence is worth little, while any positive evidence +is conclusive. It cannot be inferred to be +impossible that a woman should be a Homer, or +an Aristotle, or a Michael Angelo, or a Beethoven, +because no woman has yet actually produced +<a name="page99" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 99]</span> +works comparable to theirs in any of those +lines of excellence. This negative fact at most +leaves the question uncertain, and open to +psychological discussion. But it is quite certain +that a woman can be a Queen Elizabeth, or a +Deborah, or a Joan of Arc, since this is not +inference, but fact. Now it is a curious consideration, +that the only things which the existing +law excludes women from doing, are the things +which they have proved that they are able to do. +There is no law to prevent a woman from having +written all the plays of Shakspeare, or composed +all the operas of Mozart. But Queen Elizabeth +or Queen Victoria, had they not inherited the +throne, could not have been intrusted with the +smallest of the political duties, of which the +former showed herself equal to the greatest. +</p> +<p> +If anything conclusive could be inferred from +experience, without psychological analysis, it +would be that the things which women are not +allowed to do are the very ones for which they +are peculiarly qualified; since their vocation for +government has made its way, and become conspicuous, +through the very few opportunities +which have been given; while in the lines of +distinction which apparently were freely open to +them, they have by no means so eminently distinguished +themselves. We know how small a +number of reigning queens history presents, in +<a name="page100" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 100]</span> +comparison with that of kings. Of this smaller +number a far larger proportion have shown +talents for rule; though many of them have +occupied the throne in difficult periods. It is +remarkable, too, that they have, in a great +number of instances, been distinguished by merits +the most opposite to the imaginary and conventional +character of women: they have been as +much remarked for the firmness and vigour of +their rule, as for its intelligence. When, to +queens and empresses, we add regents, and viceroys +of provinces, the list of women who have +been eminent rulers of mankind swells to a great +length.<a name="ref_2_1" /><a href="#footnote_2_1" class="fnref">[1]</a> This fact is so undeniable, that some +one, long ago, tried to retort the argument, and +turned the admitted truth into an additional +insult, by saying that queens are better than +<a name="page101" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 101]</span> +kings, because under kings women govern, but +under queens, men. +</p> +<p> +It may seem a waste of reasoning to argue +against a bad joke; but such things do affect +people's minds; and I have heard men quote this +saying, with an air as if they thought that there +was something in it. At any rate, it will serve +as well as anything else for a starting point in +discussion. I say, then, that it is not true that +under kings, women govern. Such cases are +entirely exceptional: and weak kings have quite +as often governed ill through the influence of +male favourites, as of female. When a king +is governed by a woman merely through his +amatory propensities, good government is not +probable, though even then there are exceptions. +But French history counts two kings who have +voluntarily given the direction of affairs during +many years, the one to his mother, the other to +his sister: one of them, Charles VIII., was a +mere boy, but in doing so he followed the intentions +of his father Louis XI., the ablest monarch +of his age. The other, Saint Louis, was the +best, and one of the most vigorous rulers, since +the time of Charlemagne. Both these princesses +ruled in a manner hardly equalled by any +prince among their contemporaries. The emperor +Charles the Fifth, the most politic prince of his +time, who had as great a number of able men in +<a name="page102" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 102]</span> +his service as a ruler ever had, and was one of the +least likely of all sovereigns to sacrifice his interest +to personal feelings, made two princesses of his +family successively Governors of the Netherlands, +and kept one or other of them in that post during +his whole life, (they were afterwards succeeded +by a third). Both ruled very successfully, and +one of them, Margaret of Austria, was one of +the ablest politicians of the age. So much for +one side of the question. Now as to the other. +When it is said that under queens men govern, +is the same meaning to be understood as when +kings are said to be governed by women? Is it +meant that queens choose as their instruments +of government, the associates of their personal +pleasures? The case is rare even with those +who are as unscrupulous on the latter point as +Catherine II.: and it is not in these cases that +the good government, alleged to arise from male +influence, is to be found. If it be true, then, that +the administration is in the hands of better men +under a queen than under an average king, it +must be that queens have a superior capacity +for choosing them; and women must be better +qualified than men both for the position of sovereign, +and for that of chief minister; for the +principal business of a prime minister is not to +govern in person, but to find the fittest persons +to conduct every department of public affairs. +<a name="page103" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 103]</span> +The more rapid insight into character, which +is one of the admitted points of superiority +in women over men, must certainly make them, +with anything like parity of qualifications in +other respects, more apt than men in that choice +of instruments, which is nearly the most important +business of every one who has to do with +governing mankind. Even the unprincipled +Catherine de' Medici could feel the value of a +Chancellor de l'Hôpital. But it is also true +that most great queens have been great by their +own talents for government, and have been +well served precisely for that reason. They +retained the supreme direction of affairs in their +own hands: and if they listened to good advisers, +they gave by that fact the strongest proof that +their judgment fitted them for dealing with the +great questions of government. +</p> +<p> +Is it reasonable to think that those who are +fit for the greater functions of politics, are incapable +of qualifying themselves for the less? +Is there any reason in the nature of things, that +the wives and sisters of princes should, whenever +called on, be found as competent as the princes +themselves to <i>their</i> business, but that the wives +and sisters of statesmen, and administrators, and +directors of companies, and managers of public +institutions, should be unable to do what is done +by their brothers and husbands? The real +<a name="page104" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 104]</span> +reason is plain enough; it is that princesses, +being more raised above the generality of men +by their rank than placed below them by their +sex, have never been taught that it was improper +for them to concern themselves with politics; +but have been allowed to feel the liberal interest +natural to any cultivated human being, in the +great transactions which took place around them, +and in which they might be called on to take a +part. The ladies of reigning families are the +only women who are allowed the same range of +interests and freedom of development as men; +and it is precisely in their case that there is not +found to be any inferiority. Exactly where and +in proportion as women's capacities for government +have been tried, in that proportion have +they been found adequate. +</p> +<p> +This fact is in accordance with the best +general conclusions which the world's imperfect +experience seems as yet to suggest, concerning +the peculiar tendencies and aptitudes characteristic +of women, as women have hitherto been. +I do not say, as they will continue to be; for, as +I have already said more than once, I consider +it presumption in any one to pretend to decide +what women are or are not, can or cannot be, by +natural constitution. They have always hitherto +been kept, as far as regards spontaneous development, +in so unnatural a state, that their nature +<a name="page105" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 105]</span> +cannot but have been greatly distorted and disguised; +and no one can safely pronounce that if +women's nature were left to choose its direction as +freely as men's, and if no artificial bent were attempted +to be given to it except that required by +the conditions of human society, and given to both +sexes alike, there would be any material difference, +or perhaps any difference at all, in the +character and capacities which would unfold +themselves. I shall presently show, that even +the least contestable of the differences which +now exist, are such as may very well have been +produced merely by circumstances, without any +difference of natural capacity. But, looking at +women as they are known in experience, it may +be said of them, with more truth than belongs +to most other generalizations on the subject, that +the general bent of their talents is towards the +practical. This statement is conformable to all +the public history of women, in the present and +the past. It is no less borne out by common +and daily experience. Let us consider the +special nature of the mental capacities most +characteristic of a woman of talent. They are +all of a kind which fits them for practice, and +makes them tend towards it. What is meant +by a woman's capacity of intuitive perception? +It means, a rapid and correct insight into present +fact. It has nothing to do with general principles. +<a name="page106" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 106]</span> +Nobody ever perceived a scientific law +of nature by intuition, nor arrived at a general +rule of duty or prudence by it. These are +results of slow and careful collection and comparison +of experience; and neither the men nor +the women of intuition usually shine in this department, +unless, indeed, the experience necessary +is such as they can acquire by themselves. For +what is called their intuitive sagacity makes +them peculiarly apt in gathering such general +truths as can be collected from their individual +means of observation. When, consequently, they +chance to be as well provided as men are with +the results of other people's experience, by +reading and education, (I use the word chance +advisedly, for, in respect to the knowledge that +tends to fit them for the greater concerns of +life, the only educated women are the self-educated) +they are better furnished than men +in general with the essential requisites of skilful +and successful practice. Men who have been +much taught, are apt to be deficient in the +sense of present fact; they do not see, in the +facts which they are called upon to deal with, +what is really there, but what they have been +taught to expect. This is seldom the case with +women of any ability. Their capacity of “intuition” +preserves them from it. With equality +of experience and of general faculties, a woman +<a name="page107" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 107]</span> +usually sees much more than a man of what +is immediately before her. Now this sensibility +to the present, is the main quality on which the +capacity for practice, as distinguished from theory, +depends. To discover general principles, belongs +to the speculative faculty: to discern and discriminate +the particular cases in which they are +and are not applicable, constitutes practical talent: +and for this, women as they now are have a +peculiar aptitude. I admit that there can be +no good practice without principles, and that +the predominant place which quickness of observation +holds among a woman's faculties, makes +her particularly apt to build over-hasty generalizations +upon her own observation; though at +the same time no less ready in rectifying those +generalizations, as her observation takes a wider +range. But the corrective to this defect, is access +to the experience of the human race; general +knowledge—exactly the thing which education +can best supply. A woman's mistakes are specifically +those of a clever self-educated man, who +often sees what men trained in routine do not +see, but falls into errors for want of knowing +things which have long been known. Of course +he has acquired much of the pre-existing knowledge, +or he could not have got on at all; but +what he knows of it he has picked up in fragments +and at random, as women do. +<a name="page108" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 108]</span> +</p> +<p> +But this gravitation of women's minds to +the present, to the real, to actual fact, while +in its exclusiveness it is a source of errors, is +also a most useful counteractive of the contrary +error. The principal and most characteristic +aberration of speculative minds as such, consists +precisely in the deficiency of this lively perception +and ever-present sense of objective fact. +For want of this, they often not only overlook +the contradiction which outward facts oppose +to their theories, but lose sight of the legitimate +purpose of speculation altogether, and let +their speculative faculties go astray into regions +not peopled with real beings, animate or inanimate, +even idealized, but with personified shadows +created by the illusions of metaphysics or by the +mere entanglement of words, and think these +shadows the proper objects of the highest, the most +transcendant, philosophy. Hardly anything can +be of greater value to a man of theory and +speculation who employs himself not in collecting +materials of knowledge by observation, +but in working them up by processes of thought +into comprehensive truths of science and laws of +conduct, than to carry on his speculations in the +companionship, and under the criticism, of a really +superior woman. There is nothing comparable +to it for keeping his thoughts within the limits +of real things, and the actual facts of nature. +<a name="page109" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 109]</span> +A woman seldom runs wild after an abstraction. +The habitual direction of her mind to dealing +with things as individuals rather than in groups, +and (what is closely connected with it) her more +lively interest in the present feelings of persons, +which makes her consider first of all, in anything +which claims to be applied to practice, in what +manner persons will be affected by it—these two +things make her extremely unlikely to put faith +in any speculation which loses sight of individuals, +and deals with things as if they existed for the +benefit of some imaginary entity, some mere +creation of the mind, not resolvable into the +feelings of living beings. Women's thoughts +are thus as useful in giving reality to those of +thinking men, as men's thoughts in giving width +and largeness to those of women. In depth, as +distinguished from breadth, I greatly doubt if +even now, women, compared with men, are at +any disadvantage. +</p> +<p> +If the existing mental characteristics of women +are thus valuable even in aid of speculation, they +are still more important, when speculation has +done its work, for carrying out the results of +speculation into practice. For the reasons already +given, women are comparatively unlikely to fall +into the common error of men, that of sticking +to their rules in a case whose specialities either +take it out of the class to which the rules are +<a name="page110" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 110]</span> +applicable, or require a special adaptation of +them. Let us now consider another of the +admitted superiorities of clever women, greater +quickness of apprehension. Is not this pre-eminently +a quality which fits a person for +practice? In action, everything continually +depends upon deciding promptly. In speculation, +nothing does. A mere thinker can wait, +can take time to consider, can collect additional +evidence; he is not obliged to complete his +philosophy at once, lest the opportunity should +go by. The power of drawing the best conclusion +possible from insufficient data is not +indeed useless in philosophy; the construction +of a provisional hypothesis consistent with all +known facts is often the needful basis for further +inquiry. But this faculty is rather serviceable +in philosophy, than the main qualification for it: +and, for the auxiliary as well as for the main +operation, the philosopher can allow himself any +time he pleases. He is in no need of the capacity +of doing rapidly what he does; what he rather +needs is patience, to work on slowly until imperfect +lights have become perfect, and a conjecture +has ripened into a theorem. For those, on the +contrary, whose business is with the fugitive and +perishable—with individual facts, not kinds of +facts—rapidity of thought is a qualification next +only in importance to the power of thought itself. +<a name="page111" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 111]</span> +He who has not his faculties under immediate +command, in the contingencies of action, might +as well not have them at all. He may be fit to +criticize, but he is not fit to act. Now it is in +this that women, and the men who are most like +women, confessedly excel. The other sort of man, +however pre-eminent may be his faculties, arrives +slowly at complete command of them: rapidity of +judgment and promptitude of judicious action, +even in the things he knows best, are the gradual +and late result of strenuous effort grown into +habit. +</p> +<p> +It will be said, perhaps, that the greater +nervous susceptibility of women is a disqualification +for practice, in anything but domestic life, +by rendering them mobile, changeable, too +vehemently under the influence of the moment, +incapable of dogged perseverance, unequal and +uncertain in the power of using their faculties. +I think that these phrases sum up the greater +part of the objections commonly made to the +fitness of women for the higher class of serious +business. Much of all this is the mere overflow +of nervous energy run to waste, and would cease +when the energy was directed to a definite end. +Much is also the result of conscious or unconscious +cultivation; as we see by the almost +total disappearance of “hysterics” and fainting +fits, since they have gone out of fashion. Moreover, +<a name="page112" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 112]</span> +when people are brought up, like many +women of the higher classes (though less so in +our own country than in any other) a kind of hot-house +plants, shielded from the wholesome vicissitudes +of air and temperature, and untrained in +any of the occupations and exercises which give +stimulus and development to the circulatory and +muscular system, while their nervous system, +especially in its emotional department, is kept in +unnaturally active play; it is no wonder if those +of them who do not die of consumption, grow +up with constitutions liable to derangement from +slight causes, both internal and external, and +without stamina to support any task, physical or +mental, requiring continuity of effort. But +women brought up to work for their livelihood +show none of these morbid characteristics, +unless indeed they are chained to an excess of +sedentary work in confined and unhealthy rooms. +Women who in their early years have shared in +the healthful physical education and bodily freedom +of their brothers, and who obtain a sufficiency +of pure air and exercise in after-life, very +rarely have any excessive susceptibility of nerves +which can disqualify them for active pursuits. +There is indeed a certain proportion of persons, +in both sexes, in whom an unusual degree of +nervous sensibility is constitutional, and of so +marked a character as to be the feature of their +<a name="page113" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 113]</span> +organization which exercises the greatest influence +over the whole character of the vital phenomena. +This constitution, like other physical conformations, +is hereditary, and is transmitted to sons as well +as daughters; but it is possible, and probable, that +the nervous temperament (as it is called) is inherited +by a greater number of women than of +men. We will assume this as a fact: and let me +then ask, are men of nervous temperament found +to be unfit for the duties and pursuits usually +followed by men? If not, why should women of +the same temperament be unfit for them? The +peculiarities of the temperament are, no doubt, +within certain limits, an obstacle to success in +some employments, though an aid to it in +others. But when the occupation is suitable to +the temperament, and sometimes even when it is +unsuitable, the most brilliant examples of success +are continually given by the men of high nervous +sensibility. They are distinguished in their practical +manifestations chiefly by this, that being +susceptible of a higher degree of excitement than +those of another physical constitution, their powers +when excited differ more than in the case of other +people, from those shown in their ordinary state: +they are raised, as it were, above themselves, +and do things with ease which they are wholly +incapable of at other times. But this lofty excitement +is not, except in weak bodily constitutions, +<a name="page114" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 114]</span> +a mere flash, which passes away immediately, +leaving no permanent traces, and incompatible +with persistent and steady pursuit of an object. +It is the character of the nervous temperament +to be capable of <i>sustained</i> excitement, holding +out through long continued efforts. It is what +is meant by <i>spirit</i>. It is what makes the high-bred +racehorse run without slackening speed till +he drops down dead. It is what has enabled so +many delicate women to maintain the most sublime +constancy not only at the stake, but through +a long preliminary succession of mental and +bodily tortures. It is evident that people of this +temperament are particularly apt for what may +be called the executive department of the leadership +of mankind. They are the material of +great orators, great preachers, impressive diffusers +of moral influences. Their constitution might +be deemed less favourable to the qualities required +from a statesman in the cabinet, or from +a judge. It would be so, if the consequence +necessarily followed that because people are excitable +they must always be in a state of excitement. +But this is wholly a question of training. +Strong feeling is the instrument and element of +strong self-control: but it requires to be cultivated +in that direction. When it is, it forms not the +heroes of impulse only, but those also of self-conquest. +History and experience prove that +<a name="page115" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 115]</span> +the most passionate characters are the most fanatically +rigid in their feelings of duty, when their +passion has been trained to act in that direction. +The judge who gives a just decision in a case +where his feelings are intensely interested on the +other side, derives from that same strength of +feeling the determined sense of the obligation of +justice, which enables him to achieve this victory +over himself. The capability of that lofty enthusiasm +which takes the human being out of +his every-day character, reacts upon the daily +character itself. His aspirations and powers when +he is in this exceptional state, become the type +with which he compares, and by which he estimates, +his sentiments and proceedings at other +times: and his habitual purposes assume a character +moulded by and assimilated to the moments +of lofty excitement, although those, from +the physical nature of a human being, can only +be transient. Experience of races, as well as of +individuals, does not show those of excitable temperament +to be less fit, on the average, either +for speculation or practice, than the more unexcitable. +The French, and the Italians, are undoubtedly +by nature more nervously excitable +than the Teutonic races, and, compared at least +with the English, they have a much greater +habitual and daily emotional life: but have they +been less great in science, in public business, in +<a name="page116" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 116]</span> +legal and judicial eminence, or in war? There +is abundant evidence that the Greeks were of +old, as their descendants and successors still are, +one of the most excitable of the races of mankind. +It is superfluous to ask, what among the +achievements of men they did not excel in. The +Romans, probably, as an equally southern people, +had the same original temperament: but the +stern character of their national discipline, like +that of the Spartans, made them an example of +the opposite type of national character; the +greater strength of their natural feelings being +chiefly apparent in the intensity which the same +original temperament made it possible to give to +the artificial. If these cases exemplify what a +naturally excitable people may be made, the Irish +Celts afford one of the aptest examples of what +they are when left to themselves; (if those can +be said to be left to themselves who have been +for centuries under the indirect influence of bad +government, and the direct training of a Catholic +hierarchy and of a sincere belief in the Catholic +religion.) The Irish character must be considered, +therefore, as an unfavourable case: yet, whenever +the circumstances of the individual have been at +all favourable, what people have shown greater +capacity for the most varied and multifarious individual +eminence? Like the French compared +with the English, the Irish with the Swiss, the +<a name="page117" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 117]</span> +Greeks or Italians compared with the German +races, so women compared with men may be +found, on the average, to do the same things +with some variety in the particular kind of excellence. +But, that they would do them fully +as well on the whole, if their education and +cultivation were adapted to correcting instead of +aggravating the infirmities incident to their temperament, +I see not the smallest reason to doubt. +</p> +<p> +Supposing it, however, to be true that women's +minds are by nature more mobile than those +of men, less capable of persisting long in the +same continuous effort, more fitted for dividing +their faculties among many things than for +travelling in any one path to the highest point +which can be reached by it: this may be +true of women as they now are (though not +without great and numerous exceptions), and +may account for their having remained behind +the highest order of men in precisely the things +in which this absorption of the whole mind in +one set of ideas and occupations may seem to +be most requisite. Still, this difference is one +which can only affect the kind of excellence, not +the excellence itself, or its practical worth: and +it remains to be shown whether this exclusive +working of a part of the mind, this absorption of +the whole thinking faculty in a single subject, +and concentration of it on a single work, is the +<a name="page118" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 118]</span> +normal and healthful condition of the human +faculties, even for speculative uses. I believe +that what is gained in special development by +this concentration, is lost in the capacity of the +mind for the other purposes of life; and even in +abstract thought, it is my decided opinion that +the mind does more by frequently returning to +a difficult problem, than by sticking to it without +interruption. For the purposes, at all events, +of practice, from its highest to its humblest departments, +the capacity of passing promptly from +one subject of consideration to another, without +letting the active spring of the intellect run +down between the two, is a power far more +valuable; and this power women pre-eminently +possess, by virtue of the very mobility of which +they are accused. They perhaps have it from +nature, but they certainly have it by training +and education; for nearly the whole of the occupations +of women consist in the management of +small but multitudinous details, on each of which +the mind cannot dwell even for a minute, but +must pass on to other things, and if anything +requires longer thought, must steal time at odd +moments for thinking of it. The capacity indeed +which women show for doing their thinking in +circumstances and at times which almost any +man would make an excuse to himself for not +attempting it, has often been noticed: and a +<a name="page119" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 119]</span> +woman's mind, though it may be occupied only +with small things, can hardly ever permit itself +to be vacant, as a man's so often is when not +engaged in what he chooses to consider the +business of his life. The business of a woman's +ordinary life is things in general, and can +as little cease to go on as the world to go +round. +</p> +<p> +But (it is said) there is anatomical evidence +of the superior mental capacity of men compared +with women: they have a larger brain. I reply, +that in the first place the fact itself is doubtful. +It is by no means established that the brain of a +woman is smaller than that of a man. If it is +inferred merely because a woman's bodily frame +generally is of less dimensions than a man's, this +criterion would lead to strange consequences. +A tall and large-boned man must on this showing +be wonderfully superior in intelligence to a small +man, and an elephant or a whale must prodigiously +excel mankind. The size of the brain in +human beings, anatomists say, varies much less +than the size of the body, or even of the head, +and the one cannot be at all inferred from the +other. It is certain that some women have as +large a brain as any man. It is within my +knowledge that a man who had weighed many +human brains, said that the heaviest he knew of, +heavier even than Cuvier's (the heaviest previously +<a name="page120" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 120]</span> +recorded,) was that of a woman. Next, +I must observe that the precise relation which +exists between the brain and the intellectual +powers is not yet well understood, but is a +subject of great dispute. That there is a very +close relation we cannot doubt. The brain is +certainly the material organ of thought and +feeling: and (making abstraction of the great +unsettled controversy respecting the appropriation +of different parts of the brain to different mental +faculties) I admit that it would be an anomaly, +and an exception to all we know of the general +laws of life and organization, if the size of the +organ were wholly indifferent to the function; if +no accession of power were derived from the +greater magnitude of the instrument. But the +exception and the anomaly would be fully as +great if the organ exercised influence by its +magnitude <i>only</i>. In all the more delicate operations +of nature—of which those of the animated +creation are the most delicate, and those of the +nervous system by far the most delicate of these—differences +in the effect depend as much on +differences of quality in the physical agents, as +on their quantity: and if the quality of an instrument +is to be tested by the nicety and delicacy +of the work it can do, the indications point +to a greater average fineness of quality in the +brain and nervous system of women than of men. +<a name="page121" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 121]</span> +Dismissing abstract difference of quality, a thing +difficult to verify, the efficiency of an organ is +known to depend not solely on its size but on its +activity: and of this we have an approximate +measure in the energy with which the blood +circulates through it, both the stimulus and the +reparative force being mainly dependent on the +circulation. It would not be surprising—it is +indeed an hypothesis which accords well with the +differences actually observed between the mental +operations of the two sexes—if men on the +average should have the advantage in the size of +the brain, and women in activity of cerebral circulation. +The results which conjecture, founded +on analogy, would lead us to expect from this +difference of organization, would correspond to +some of those which we most commonly see. In +the first place, the mental operations of men +might be expected to be slower. They would +neither be so prompt as women in thinking, nor +so quick to feel. Large bodies take more time +to get into full action. On the other hand, +when once got thoroughly into play, men's brain +would bear more work. It would be more persistent +in the line first taken; it would have +more difficulty in changing from one mode of +action to another, but, in the one thing it was +doing, it could go on longer without loss of +power or sense of fatigue. And do we not find that +<a name="page122" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 122]</span> +the things in which men most excel women are +those which require most plodding and long +hammering at a single thought, while women do +best what must be done rapidly? A woman's +brain is sooner fatigued, sooner exhausted; but +given the degree of exhaustion, we should expect +to find that it would recover itself sooner. I +repeat that this speculation is entirely hypothetical; +it pretends to no more than to suggest +a line of enquiry. I have before repudiated the +notion of its being yet certainly known that +there is any natural difference at all in the +average strength or direction of the mental capacities +of the two sexes, much less what that +difference is. Nor is it possible that this should +be known, so long as the psychological laws of the +formation of character have been so little studied, +even in a general way, and in the particular +case never scientifically applied at all; so long +as the most obvious external causes of difference +of character are habitually disregarded—left unnoticed +by the observer, and looked down upon +with a kind of supercilious contempt by the +prevalent schools both of natural history and of +mental philosophy: who, whether they look for +the source of what mainly distinguishes human +beings from one another, in the world of matter +or in that of spirit, agree in running down those +who prefer to explain these differences by the +<a name="page123" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 123]</span> +different relations of human beings to society +and life. +</p> +<p> +To so ridiculous an extent are the notions +formed of the nature of women, mere empirical +generalizations, framed, without philosophy or +analysis, upon the first instances which present +themselves, that the popular idea of it is different +in different countries, according as the opinions +and social circumstances of the country have given +to the women living in it any speciality of development +or non-development. An Oriental thinks +that women are by nature peculiarly voluptuous; +see the violent abuse of them on this ground in +Hindoo writings. An Englishman usually thinks +that they are by nature cold. The sayings about +women's fickleness are mostly of French origin; +from the famous distich of Francis the First, upward +and downward. In England it is a common +remark, how much more constant women are than +men. Inconstancy has been longer reckoned discreditable +to a woman, in England than in France; +and Englishwomen are besides, in their inmost +nature, much more subdued to opinion. It may +be remarked by the way, that Englishmen are in +peculiarly unfavourable circumstances for attempting +to judge what is or is not natural, not merely +to women, but to men, or to human beings altogether, +at least if they have only English experience +to go upon: because there is no place where +<a name="page124" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 124]</span> +human nature shows so little of its original lineaments. +Both in a good and a bad sense, the English +are farther from a state of nature than any +other modern people. They are, more than any +other people, a product of civilization and discipline. +England is the country in which social discipline +has most succeeded, not so much in conquering, as +in suppressing, whatever is liable to conflict with +it. The English, more than any other people, not +only act but feel according to rule. In other +countries, the taught opinion, or the requirement +of society, may be the stronger power, but the +promptings of the individual nature are always +visible under it, and often resisting it: rule may +be stronger than nature, but nature is still there. +In England, rule has to a great degree substituted +itself for nature. The greater part of life is +carried on, not by following inclination under the +control of rule, but by having no inclination but +that of following a rule. Now this has its good +side doubtless, though it has also a wretchedly +bad one; but it must render an Englishman +peculiarly ill-qualified to pass a judgment on the +original tendencies of human nature from his own +experience. The errors to which observers elsewhere +are liable on the subject, are of a different +character. An Englishman is ignorant respecting +human nature, a Frenchman is prejudiced. An +Englishman's errors are negative, a Frenchman's +<a name="page125" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 125]</span> +positive. An Englishman fancies that things do +not exist, because he never sees them; a Frenchman +thinks they must always and necessarily exist, +because he does see them. An Englishman does +not know nature, because he has had no opportunity +of observing it; a Frenchman generally +knows a great deal of it, but often mistakes it, +because he has only seen it sophisticated and distorted. +For the artificial state superinduced by +society disguises the natural tendencies of the +thing which is the subject of observation, in two +different ways: by extinguishing the nature, or by +transforming it. In the one case there is but +a starved residuum of nature remaining to be +studied; in the other case there is much, but it +may have expanded in any direction rather than +that in which it would spontaneously grow. +</p> +<p> +I have said that it cannot now be known how +much of the existing mental differences between +men and women is natural, and how much artificial; +whether there are any natural differences at +all; or, supposing all artificial causes of difference +to be withdrawn, what natural character would +be revealed. I am not about to attempt what I +have pronounced impossible: but doubt does not +forbid conjecture, and where certainty is unattainable, +there may yet be the means of arriving +at some degree of probability. The first +point, the origin of the differences actually +<a name="page126" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 126]</span> +observed, is the one most accessible to speculation; +and I shall attempt to approach it, by the +only path by which it can be reached; by tracing +the mental consequences of external influences. +We cannot isolate a human being from the circumstances +of his condition, so as to ascertain experimentally +what he would have been by nature; +but we can consider what he is, and what his circumstances +have been, and whether the one would +have been capable of producing the other. +</p> +<p> +Let us take, then, the only marked case which +observation affords, of apparent inferiority of +women to men, if we except the merely physical +one of bodily strength. No production in philosophy, +science, or art, entitled to the first rank, +has been the work of a woman. Is there any +mode of accounting for this, without supposing +that women are naturally incapable of producing +them? +</p> +<p> +In the first place, we may fairly question +whether experience has afforded sufficient grounds +for an induction. It is scarcely three generations +since women, saving very rare exceptions, have +begun to try their capacity in philosophy, science, +or art. It is only in the present generation that +their attempts have been at all numerous; and +they are even now extremely few, everywhere but +in England and France. It is a relevant question, +whether a mind possessing the requisites of +<a name="page127" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 127]</span> +first-rate eminence in speculation or creative art +could have been expected, on the mere calculation +of chances, to turn up during that lapse of time, +among the women whose tastes and personal +position admitted of their devoting themselves to +these pursuits. In all things which there has yet +been time for—in all but the very highest grades +in the scale of excellence, especially in the department +in which they have been longest engaged, +literature (both prose and poetry)—women have +done quite as much, have obtained fully as high +prizes and as many of them, as could be expected +from the length of time and the number of competitors. +If we go back to the earlier period +when very few women made the attempt, yet some +of those few made it with distinguished success. +The Greeks always accounted Sappho among +their great poets; and we may well suppose that +Myrtis, said to have been the teacher of Pindar, +and Corinna, who five times bore away from him +the prize of poetry, must at least have had sufficient +merit to admit of being compared with that great +name. Aspasia did not leave any philosophical +writings; but it is an admitted fact that Socrates +resorted to her for instruction, and avowed himself +to have obtained it. +</p> +<p> +If we consider the works of women in modern +times, and contrast them with those of men, +either in the literary or the artistic department, +<a name="page128" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 128]</span> +such inferiority as may be observed resolves +itself essentially into one thing: but that is a +most material one; deficiency of originality. Not +total deficiency; for every production of mind +which is of any substantive value, has an originality +of its own—is a conception of the mind +itself, not a copy of something else. Thoughts +original, in the sense of being unborrowed—of +being derived from the thinker's own observations +or intellectual processes—are abundant in the +writings of women. But they have not yet +produced any of those great and luminous new +ideas which form an era in thought, nor those +fundamentally new conceptions in art, which +open a vista of possible effects not before thought +of, and found a new school. Their compositions +are mostly grounded on the existing fund of +thought, and their creations do not deviate widely +from existing types. This is the sort of inferiority +which their works manifest: for in point of execution, +in the detailed application of thought, +and the perfection of style, there is no inferiority. +Our best novelists in point of composition, and +of the management of detail, have mostly been +women; and there is not in all modern literature +a more eloquent vehicle of thought than the style +of Madame de Stael, nor, as a specimen of purely +artistic excellence, anything superior to the prose +of Madame Sand, whose style acts upon the +<a name="page129" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 129]</span> +nervous system like a symphony of Haydn or +Mozart. High originality of conception is, as I +have said, what is chiefly wanting. And now to +examine if there is any manner in which this +deficiency can be accounted for. +</p> +<p> +Let us remember, then, so far as regards +mere thought, that during all that period in the +world's existence, and in the progress of cultivation, +in which great and fruitful new truths +could be arrived at by mere force of genius, +with little previous study and accumulation of +knowledge—during all that time women did not +concern themselves with speculation at all. From +the days of Hypatia to those of the Reformation, +the illustrious Heloisa is almost the only woman +to whom any such achievement might have been +possible; and we know not how great a capacity +of speculation in her may have been lost to +mankind by the misfortunes of her life. Never +since any considerable number of women have +begun to cultivate serious thought, has originality +been possible on easy terms. Nearly all +the thoughts which can be reached by mere +strength of original faculties, have long since +been arrived at; and originality, in any high +sense of the word, is now scarcely ever attained +but by minds which have undergone elaborate +discipline, and are deeply versed in the results +of previous thinking. It is Mr. Maurice, I think, +<a name="page130" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 130]</span> +who has remarked on the present age, that its +most original thinkers are those who have known +most thoroughly what had been thought by their +predecessors: and this will always henceforth be +the case. Every fresh stone in the edifice has +now to be placed on the top of so many others, +that a long process of climbing, and of carrying +up materials, has to be gone through by whoever +aspires to take a share in the present stage of +the work. How many women are there who +have gone through any such process? Mrs. +Somerville, alone perhaps of women, knows as +much of mathematics as is now needful for +making any considerable mathematical discovery: +is it any proof of inferiority in women, that she +has not happened to be one of the two or three +persons who in her lifetime have associated their +names with some striking advancement of the +science? Two women, since political economy +has been made a science, have known enough of +it to write usefully on the subject: of how many +of the innumerable men who have written on it +during the same time, is it possible with truth to +say more? If no woman has hitherto been a +great historian, what woman has had the necessary +erudition? If no woman is a great philologist, +what woman has studied Sanscrit and +Slavonic, the Gothic of Ulphila and the Persic +of the Zendavesta? Even in practical matters +<a name="page131" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 131]</span> +we all know what is the value of the originality +of untaught geniuses. It means, inventing +over again in its rudimentary form something +already invented and improved upon by many +successive inventors. When women have had +the preparation which all men now require to be +eminently original, it will be time enough to +begin judging by experience of their capacity for +originality. +</p> +<p> +It no doubt often happens that a person, who +has not widely and accurately studied the thoughts +of others on a subject, has by natural sagacity a +happy intuition, which he can suggest, but cannot +prove, which yet when matured may be an important +addition to knowledge: but even then, +no justice can be done to it until some other +person, who does possess the previous acquirements, +takes it in hand, tests it, gives it a scientific +or practical form, and fits it into its place among +the existing truths of philosophy or science. Is +it supposed that such felicitous thoughts do not +occur to women? They occur by hundreds to +every woman of intellect. But they are mostly +lost, for want of a husband or friend who has the +other knowledge which can enable him to estimate +them properly and bring them before the world: +and even when they are brought before it, they +generally appear as his ideas, not their real +author's. Who can tell how many of the most +<a name="page132" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 132]</span> +original thoughts put forth by male writers, +belong to a woman by suggestion, to themselves +only by verifying and working out? If I may +judge by my own case, a very large proportion +indeed. +</p> +<p> +If we turn from pure speculation to literature +in the narrow sense of the term, and the fine arts, +there is a very obvious reason why women's +literature is, in its general conception and in its +main features, an imitation of men's. Why is the +Roman literature, as critics proclaim to satiety, +not original, but an imitation of the Greek? +Simply because the Greeks came first. If women +lived in a different country from men, and had +never read any of their writings, they would have +had a literature of their own. As it is, they have +not created one, because they found a highly advanced +literature already created. If there had +been no suspension of the knowledge of antiquity, +or if the Renaissance had occurred before the +Gothic cathedrals were built, they never would +have been built. We see that, in France and +Italy, imitation of the ancient literature stopped +the original development even after it had commenced. +All women who write are pupils of the +great male writers. A painter's early pictures, +even if he be a Raffaelle, are undistinguishable in +style from those of his master. Even a Mozart +does not display his powerful originality in his +<a name="page133" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 133]</span> +earliest pieces. What years are to a gifted individual, +generations are to a mass. If women's +literature is destined to have a different collective +character from that of men, depending on any +difference of natural tendencies, much longer +time is necessary than has yet elapsed, before it +can emancipate itself from the influence of accepted +models, and guide itself by its own impulses. +But if, as I believe, there will not prove +to be any natural tendencies common to women, +and distinguishing their genius from that of men, +yet every individual writer among them has her +individual tendencies, which at present are still +subdued by the influence of precedent and example: +and it will require generations more, before +their individuality is sufficiently developed to make +head against that influence. +</p> +<p> +It is in the fine arts, properly so called, that +the <i>primâ facie</i> evidence of inferior original +powers in women at first sight appears the +strongest: since opinion (it may be said) does not +exclude them from these, but rather encourages +them, and their education, instead of passing over +this department, is in the affluent classes mainly +composed of it. Yet in this line of exertion they +have fallen still more short than in many others, +of the highest eminence attained by men. This +shortcoming, however, needs no other explanation +than the familiar fact, more universally true +<a name="page134" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 134]</span> +in the fine arts than in anything else; the vast +superiority of professional persons over amateurs. +Women in the educated classes are almost universally +taught more or less of some branch or +other of the fine arts, but not that they may gain +their living or their social consequence by it. +Women artists are all amateurs. The exceptions +are only of the kind which confirm the general +truth. Women are taught music, but not for +the purpose of composing, only of executing it: +and accordingly it is only as composers, that +men, in music, are superior to women. The only +one of the fine arts which women do follow, to +any extent, as a profession, and an occupation +for life, is the histrionic; and in that they are +confessedly equal, if not superior, to men. To +make the comparison fair, it should be made +between the productions of women in any branch +of art, and those of men not following it as a +profession. In musical composition, for example, +women surely have produced fully as good things +as have ever been produced by male amateurs. +There are now a few women, a very few, who +practise painting as a profession, and these are +already beginning to show quite as much talent +as could be expected. Even male painters (<i>pace</i> +Mr. Ruskin) have not made any very remarkable +figure these last centuries, and it will be long +before they do so. The reason why the old painters +<a name="page135" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 135]</span> +were so greatly superior to the modern, is that +a greatly superior class of men applied themselves +to the art. In the fourteenth and fifteenth centuries +the Italian painters were the most accomplished +men of their age. The greatest of them were +men of encyclopædical acquirements and powers, +like the great men of Greece. But in their +times fine art was, to men's feelings and conceptions, +among the grandest things in which a human +being could excel; and by it men were made, what +only political or military distinction now makes +them, the companions of sovereigns, and the equals +of the highest nobility. In the present age, men +of anything like similar calibre find something +more important to do, for their own fame and +the uses of the modern world, than painting: +and it is only now and then that a Reynolds or +a Turner (of whose relative rank among eminent +men I do not pretend to an opinion) applies himself +to that art. Music belongs to a different order +of things; it does not require the same general +powers of mind, but seems more dependant on a +natural gift: and it may be thought surprising +that no one of the great musical composers has +been a woman. But even this natural gift, to be +made available for great creations, requires study, +and professional devotion to the pursuit. The only +countries which have produced first-rate composers, +even of the male sex, are Germany and Italy—countries +<a name="page136" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 136]</span> +in which, both in point of special and +of general cultivation, women have remained far +behind France and England, being generally (it +may be said without exaggeration) very little educated, +and having scarcely cultivated at all any +of the higher faculties of mind. And in those +countries the men who are acquainted with the +principles of musical composition must be counted +by hundreds, or more probably by thousands, the +women barely by scores: so that here again, on +the doctrine of averages, we cannot reasonably +expect to see more than one eminent woman to +fifty eminent men; and the last three centuries +have not produced fifty eminent male composers +either in Germany or in Italy. +</p> +<p> +There are other reasons, besides those which we +have now given, that help to explain why women +remain behind men, even in the pursuits which are +open to both. For one thing, very few women +have time for them. This may seem a paradox; +it is an undoubted social fact. The time and +thoughts of every woman have to satisfy great +previous demands on them for things practical. +There is, first, the superintendence of the family +and the domestic expenditure, which occupies at +least one woman in every family, generally the one +of mature years and acquired experience; unless +the family is so rich as to admit of delegating that +task to hired agency, and submitting to all the +<a name="page137" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 137]</span> +waste and malversation inseparable from that mode +of conducting it. The superintendence of a household, +even when not in other respects laborious, is +extremely onerous to the thoughts; it requires +incessant vigilance, an eye which no detail escapes, +and presents questions for consideration and solution, +foreseen and unforeseen, at every hour of the +day, from which the person responsible for them +can hardly ever shake herself free. If a woman +is of a rank and circumstances which relieve her in +a measure from these cares, she has still devolving +on her the management for the whole family of its +intercourse with others—of what is called society, +and the less the call made on her by the former +duty, the greater is always the development of the +latter: the dinner parties, concerts, evening parties, +morning visits, letter writing, and all that goes with +them. All this is over and above the engrossing +duty which society imposes exclusively on women, +of making themselves charming. A clever woman +of the higher ranks finds nearly a sufficient employment +of her talents in cultivating the graces +of manner and the arts of conversation. To look +only at the outward side of the subject: the great +and continual exercise of thought which all women +who attach any value to dressing well (I do not +mean expensively, but with taste, and perception +of natural and of artificial <i>convenance</i>) must +bestow upon their own dress, perhaps also upon +<a name="page138" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 138]</span> +that of their daughters, would alone go a great +way towards achieving respectable results in art, +or science, or literature, and does actually exhaust +much of the time and mental power they might +have to spare for either.<a name="ref_2_2" /><a href="#footnote_2_2" class="fnref">[2]</a> If it were possible +that all this number of little practical interests +(which are made great to them) should leave +them either much leisure, or much energy and +freedom of mind, to be devoted to art or speculation, +they must have a much greater original +supply of active faculty than the vast majority of +men. But this is not all. Independently of the +regular offices of life which devolve upon a woman, +she is expected to have her time and faculties +always at the disposal of everybody. If a man +has not a profession to exempt him from such +demands, still, if he has a pursuit, he offends +nobody by devoting his time to it; occupation is +<a name="page139" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 139]</span> +received as a valid excuse for his not answering +to every casual demand which may be made on +him. Are a woman's occupations, especially her +chosen and voluntary ones, ever regarded as excusing +her from any of what are termed the calls of +society? Scarcely are her most necessary and +recognised duties allowed as an exemption. It +requires an illness in the family, or something +else out of the common way, to entitle her to +give her own business the precedence over other +people's amusement. She must always be at the +beck and call of somebody, generally of everybody. +If she has a study or a pursuit, she must snatch +any short interval which accidentally occurs to be +employed in it. A celebrated woman, in a work +which I hope will some day be published, remarks +truly that everything a woman does is done at odd +times. Is it wonderful, then, if she does not attain +the highest eminence in things which require consecutive +attention, and the concentration on them +of the chief interest of life? Such is philosophy, +and such, above all, is art, in which, besides the +devotion of the thoughts and feelings, the hand +also must be kept in constant exercise to attain +high skill. +</p> +<p> +There is another consideration to be added to +all these. In the various arts and intellectual +occupations, there is a degree of proficiency sufficient +for living by it, and there is a higher +<a name="page140" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 140]</span> +degree on which depend the great productions +which immortalize a name. To the attainment +of the former, there are adequate motives in the +case of all who follow the pursuit professionally: +the other is hardly ever attained where there is +not, or where there has not been at some period +of life, an ardent desire of celebrity. Nothing +less is commonly a sufficient stimulus to undergo +the long and patient drudgery, which, in the case +even of the greatest natural gifts, is absolutely +required for great eminence in pursuits in which +we already possess so many splendid memorials +of the highest genius. Now, whether the cause +be natural or artificial, women seldom have this +eagerness for fame. Their ambition is generally +confined within narrower bounds. The influence +they seek is over those who immediately surround +them. Their desire is to be liked, loved, or admired, +by those whom they see with their eyes: +and the proficiency in knowledge, arts, and accomplishments, +which is sufficient for that, almost +always contents them. This is a trait of character +which cannot be left out of the account +in judging of women as they are. I do not at +all believe that it is inherent in women. It is +only the natural result of their circumstances. +The love of fame in men is encouraged by education +and opinion: to “scorn delights and live +laborious days” for its sake, is accounted the part +<a name="page141" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 141]</span> +of “noble minds,” even if spoken of as their +“last infirmity,” and is stimulated by the access +which fame gives to all objects of ambition, including +even the favour of women; while to +women themselves all these objects are closed, +and the desire of fame itself considered daring +and unfeminine. Besides, how could it be that +a woman's interests should not be all concentrated +upon the impressions made on those who +come into her daily life, when society has ordained +that all her duties should be to them, and +has contrived that all her comforts should depend +on them? The natural desire of consideration +from our fellow creatures is as strong in a woman +as in a man; but society has so ordered things +that public consideration is, in all ordinary cases, +only attainable by her through the consideration +of her husband or of her male relations, while +her private consideration is forfeited by making +herself individually prominent, or appearing in +any other character than that of an appendage +to men. Whoever is in the least capable of +estimating the influence on the mind of the +entire domestic and social position and the whole +habit of a life, must easily recognise in that influence +a complete explanation of nearly all the +apparent differences between women and men, +including the whole of those which imply any +inferiority. +<a name="page142" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 142]</span> +</p> +<p> +As for moral differences, considered as distinguished +from intellectual, the distinction commonly +drawn is to the advantage of women. +They are declared to be better than men; an +empty compliment, which must provoke a bitter +smile from every woman of spirit, since there is +no other situation in life in which it is the established +order, and considered quite natural and +suitable, that the better should obey the worse. +If this piece of idle talk is good for anything, it +is only as an admission by men, of the corrupting +influence of power; for that is certainly the +only truth which the fact, if it be a fact, either +proves or illustrates. And it <i>is</i> true that servitude, +except when it actually brutalizes, though +corrupting to both, is less so to the slaves than +to the slave-masters. It is wholesomer for the +moral nature to be restrained, even by arbitrary +power, than to be allowed to exercise arbitrary +power without restraint. Women, it is said, +seldomer fall under the penal law—contribute a +much smaller number of offenders to the criminal +calendar, than men. I doubt not that the same +thing may be said, with the same truth, of negro +slaves. Those who are under the control of +others cannot often commit crimes, unless at the +command and for the purposes of their masters. +I do not know a more signal instance of the +blindness with which the world, including the +<a name="page143" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 143]</span> +herd of studious men, ignore and pass over all +the influences of social circumstances, than their +silly depreciation of the intellectual, and silly +panegyrics on the moral, nature of women. +</p> +<p> +The complimentary dictum about women's +superior moral goodness may be allowed to pair +off with the disparaging one respecting their +greater liability to moral bias. Women, we are +told, are not capable of resisting their personal +partialities: their judgment in grave affairs is +warped by their sympathies and antipathies. +Assuming it to be so, it is still to be proved that +women are oftener misled by their personal +feelings than men by their personal interests. +The chief difference would seem in that case to +be, that men are led from the course of duty +and the public interest by their regard for themselves, +women (not being allowed to have private +interests of their own) by their regard for somebody +else. It is also to be considered, that all +the education which women receive from society +inculcates on them the feeling that the individuals +connected with them are the only ones to whom +they owe any duty—the only ones whose interest +they are called upon to care for; while, as far as +education is concerned, they are left strangers +even to the elementary ideas which are presupposed +in any intelligent regard for larger interests +or higher moral objects. The complaint +<a name="page144" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 144]</span> +against them resolves itself merely into this, +that they fulfil only too faithfully the sole duty +which they are taught, and almost the only one +which they are permitted to practise. +</p> +<p> +The concessions of the privileged to the unprivileged +are so seldom brought about by any +better motive than the power of the unprivileged +to extort them, that any arguments against the +prerogative of sex are likely to be little attended +to by the generality, as long as they are able to +say to themselves that women do not complain +of it. That fact certainly enables men to retain +the unjust privilege some time longer; but does +not render it less unjust. Exactly the same +thing may be said of the women in the harem of +an Oriental: they do not complain of not being +allowed the freedom of European women. They +think our women insufferably bold and unfeminine. +How rarely it is that even men complain +of the general order of society; and how much +rarer still would such complaint be, if they did +not know of any different order existing anywhere +else. Women do not complain of the +general lot of women; or rather they do, for +plaintive elegies on it are very common in the +writings of women, and were still more so as +long as the lamentations could not be suspected +of having any practical object. Their complaints +are like the complaints which men make of the +<a name="page145" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 145]</span> +general unsatisfactoriness of human life; they +are not meant to imply blame, or to plead for +any change. But though women do not complain +of the power of husbands, each complains +of her own husband, or of the husbands of her +friends. It is the same in all other cases of +servitude, at least in the commencement of the +emancipatory movement. The serfs did not at +first complain of the power of their lords, but +only of their tyranny. The Commons began by +claiming a few municipal privileges; they next +asked an exemption for themselves from being +taxed without their own consent; but they would +at that time have thought it a great presumption +to claim any share in the king's sovereign authority. +The case of women is now the only case +in which to rebel against established rules is still +looked upon with the same eyes as was formerly +a subject's claim to the right of rebelling against +his king. A woman who joins in any movement +which her husband disapproves, makes herself a +martyr, without even being able to be an apostle, +for the husband can legally put a stop to her +apostleship. Women cannot be expected to +devote themselves to the emancipation of women, +until men in considerable number are prepared +to join with them in the undertaking. +</p> +<div class="footnote"> +<p> +<a name="footnote_2_1" /><a href="#ref_2_1">1</a>: Especially is this true if we take into consideration Asia +as well as Europe. If a Hindoo principality is strongly, vigilantly, +and economically governed; if order is preserved without +oppression; if cultivation is extending, and the people prosperous, +in three cases out of four that principality is under a woman's +rule. This fact, to me an entirely unexpected one, I have collected +from a long official knowledge of Hindoo governments. +There are many such instances: for though, by Hindoo institutions, +a woman cannot reign, she is the legal regent of a kingdom during +the minority of the heir; and minorities are frequent, the lives of +the male rulers being so often prematurely terminated through +the effect of inactivity and sensual excesses. When we consider +that these princesses have never been seen in public, have never +conversed with any man not of their own family except from behind +a curtain, that they do not read, and if they did, there is no +book in their languages which can give them the smallest instruction +on political affairs; the example they afford of the natural +capacity of women for government is very striking. +</p> +</div> +<div class="footnote"> +<p> +<a name="footnote_2_2" /><a href="#ref_2_2">2</a>: “It appears to be the same right turn of mind which enables +a man to acquire the <i>truth</i>, or the just idea of what is right, in +the ornaments, as in the more stable principles of art. It has +still the same centre of perfection, though it is the centre of a +smaller circle.—To illustrate this by the fashion of dress, in +which there is allowed to be a good or bad taste. The component +parts of dress are continually changing from great to little, from +short to long; but the general form still remains: it is still the +same general dress which is comparatively fixed, though on a very +slender foundation; but it is on this which fashion must rest. He who +invents with the most success, or dresses in the best taste, would +probably, from the same sagacity employed to greater purposes, +have discovered equal skill, or have formed the same correct taste, +in the highest labours of art.”—<i>Sir Joshua Reynolds' Discourses</i>, +Disc. vii. +<a name="page146" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 146]</span> +</p> +</div> +<h2> +<a name="chapter4" /> +CHAPTER IV. +</h2> +<p> +There remains a question, not of less importance +than those already discussed, and +which will be asked the most importunately by +those opponents whose conviction is somewhat +shaken on the main point. What good are we +to expect from the changes proposed in our +customs and institutions? Would mankind be +at all better off if women were free? If not, +why disturb their minds, and attempt to make +a social revolution in the name of an abstract +right? +</p> +<p> +It is hardly to be expected that this question +will be asked in respect to the change proposed +in the condition of women in marriage. The +sufferings, immoralities, evils of all sorts, produced +in innumerable cases by the subjection of individual +women to individual men, are far too +terrible to be overlooked. Unthinking or uncandid +persons, counting those cases alone which +are extreme, or which attain publicity, may say +that the evils are exceptional; but no one can +be blind to their existence, nor, in many cases, +<a name="page147" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 147]</span> +to their intensity. And it is perfectly obvious +that the abuse of the power cannot be very much +checked while the power remains. It is a power +given, or offered, not to good men, or to decently +respectable men, but to all men; the most brutal, +and the most criminal. There is no check but +that of opinion, and such men are in general +within the reach of no opinion but that of men +like themselves. If such men did not brutally +tyrannize over the one human being whom the +law compels to bear everything from them, society +must already have reached a paradisiacal state. +There could be no need any longer of laws to +curb men's vicious propensities. Astræa must +not only have returned to earth, but the heart of +the worst man must have become her temple. The +law of servitude in marriage is a monstrous contradiction +to all the principles of the modern world, +and to all the experience through which those +principles have been slowly and painfully worked +out. It is the sole case, now that negro slavery has +been abolished, in which a human being in the plenitude +of every faculty is delivered up to the tender +mercies of another human being, in the hope +forsooth that this other will use the power solely +for the good of the person subjected to it. +Marriage is the only actual bondage known to +our law. There remain no legal slaves, except +the mistress of every house. +<a name="page148" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 148]</span> +</p> +<p> +It is not, therefore, on this part of the subject, +that the question is likely to be asked, <i>Cui bono</i>? +We may be told that the evil would outweigh +the good, but the reality of the good admits of +no dispute. In regard, however, to the larger +question, the removal of women's disabilities—their +recognition as the equals of men in all that +belongs to citizenship—the opening to them of +all honourable employments, and of the training +and education which qualifies for those employments—there +are many persons for whom it is +not enough that the inequality has no just or +legitimate defence; they require to be told +what express advantage would be obtained by +abolishing it. +</p> +<p> +To which let me first answer, the advantage of +having the most universal and pervading of all +human relations regulated by justice instead of +injustice. The vast amount of this gain to +human nature, it is hardly possible, by any explanation +or illustration, to place in a stronger light +than it is placed by the bare statement, to any one +who attaches a moral meaning to words. All the +selfish propensities, the self-worship, the unjust self-preference, +which exist among mankind, have their +source and root in, and derive their principal +nourishment from, the present constitution of the +relation between men and women. Think what +it is to a boy, to grow up to manhood in the +<a name="page149" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 149]</span> +belief that without any merit or any exertion of +his own, though he may be the most frivolous +and empty or the most ignorant and stolid of +mankind, by the mere fact of being born a male +he is by right the superior of all and every one +of an entire half of the human race: including +probably some whose real superiority to himself +he has daily or hourly occasion to feel; but even +if in his whole conduct he habitually follows +a woman's guidance, still, if he is a fool, she +thinks that of course she is not, and cannot be, +equal in ability and judgment to himself; and if +he is not a fool, he does worse—he sees that she +is superior to him, and believes that, notwithstanding +her superiority, he is entitled to command and +she is bound to obey. What must be the effect +on his character, of this lesson? And men of the +cultivated classes are often not aware how deeply +it sinks into the immense majority of male minds. +For, among right-feeling and well-bred people, the +inequality is kept as much as possible out of sight; +above all, out of sight of the children. As much +obedience is required from boys to their mother +as to their father: they are not permitted to +domineer over their sisters, nor are they accustomed +to see these postponed to them, but the +contrary; the compensations of the chivalrous +feeling being made prominent, while the servitude +which requires them is kept in the background. +<a name="page150" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 150]</span> +Well brought-up youths in the higher classes +thus often escape the bad influences of the situation +in their early years, and only experience them +when, arrived at manhood, they fall under the +dominion of facts as they really exist. Such +people are little aware, when a boy is differently +brought up, how early the notion of his inherent +superiority to a girl arises in his mind; how it +grows with his growth and strengthens with his +strength; how it is inoculated by one schoolboy +upon another; how early the youth thinks himself +superior to his mother, owing her perhaps +forbearance, but no real respect; and how sublime +and sultan-like a sense of superiority he feels, +above all, over the woman whom he honours by +admitting her to a partnership of his life. Is it +imagined that all this does not pervert the whole +manner of existence of the man, both as an individual +and as a social being? It is an exact +parallel to the feeling of a hereditary king that +he is excellent above others by being born a king, +or a noble by being born a noble. The relation +between husband and wife is very like that +between lord and vassal, except that the wife is +held to more unlimited obedience than the vassal +was. However the vassal's character may have +been affected, for better and for worse, by his +subordination, who can help seeing that the lord's +was affected greatly for the worse? whether he was +<a name="page151" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 151]</span> +led to believe that his vassals were really superior +to himself, or to feel that he was placed in command +over people as good as himself, for no merits +or labours of his own, but merely for having, as +Figaro says, taken the trouble to be born. The +self-worship of the monarch, or of the feudal superior, +is matched by the self-worship of the male. +Human beings do not grow up from childhood in +the possession of unearned distinctions, without +pluming themselves upon them. Those whom +privileges not acquired by their merit, and which +they feel to be disproportioned to it, inspire with +additional humility, are always the few, and the +best few. The rest are only inspired with pride, +and the worst sort of pride, that which values +itself upon accidental advantages, not of its own +achieving. Above all, when the feeling of being +raised above the whole of the other sex is combined +with personal authority over one individual +among them; the situation, if a school of conscientious +and affectionate forbearance to those +whose strongest points of character are conscience +and affection, is to men of another quality a regularly +constituted Academy or Gymnasium for +training them in arrogance and overbearingness; +which vices, if curbed by the certainty of resistance +in their intercourse with other men, their equals, +break out towards all who are in a position to be +obliged to tolerate them, and often revenge themselves +<a name="page152" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 152]</span> +upon the unfortunate wife for the involuntary +restraint which they are obliged to submit to +elsewhere. +</p> +<p> +The example afforded, and the education given +to the sentiments, by laying the foundation of +domestic existence upon a relation contradictory +to the first principles of social justice, must, from +the very nature of man, have a perverting influence +of such magnitude, that it is hardly possible +with our present experience to raise our imaginations +to the conception of so great a change +for the better as would be made by its removal. +All that education and civilization are doing to +efface the influences on character of the law of +force, and replace them by those of justice, remains +merely on the surface, as long as the citadel of +the enemy is not attacked. The principle of the +modern movement in morals and politics, is that +conduct, and conduct alone, entitles to respect: +that not what men are, but what they do, constitutes +their claim to deference; that, above all, +merit, and not birth, is the only rightful claim to +power and authority. If no authority, not in its +nature temporary, were allowed to one human +being over another, society would not be employed +in building up propensities with one hand +which it has to curb with the other. The child +would really, for the first time in man's existence +on earth, be trained in the way he should go, and +<a name="page153" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 153]</span> +when he was old there would be a chance that +he would not depart from it. But so long as the +right of the strong to power over the weak rules +in the very heart of society, the attempt to make +the equal right of the weak the principle of its +outward actions will always be an uphill struggle; +for the law of justice, which is also that of +Christianity, will never get possession of men's +inmost sentiments; they will be working against +it, even when bending to it. +</p> +<p> +The second benefit to be expected from giving +to women the free use of their faculties, by leaving +them the free choice of their employments, +and opening to them the same field of occupation +and the same prizes and encouragements as to +other human beings, would be that of doubling +the mass of mental faculties available for the +higher service of humanity. Where there is now +one person qualified to benefit mankind and +promote the general improvement, as a public +teacher, or an administrator of some branch of public +or social affairs, there would then be a chance of +two. Mental superiority of any kind is at present +everywhere so much below the demand; there is +such a deficiency of persons competent to do +excellently anything which it requires any considerable +amount of ability to do; that the loss +to the world, by refusing to make use of one-half +of the whole quantity of talent it possesses, is +<a name="page154" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 154]</span> +extremely serious. It is true that this amount +of mental power is not totally lost. Much of +it is employed, and would in any case be employed, +in domestic management, and in the few +other occupations open to women; and from the +remainder indirect benefit is in many individual +cases obtained, through the personal influence +of individual women over individual men. But +these benefits are partial; their range is extremely +circumscribed; and if they must be admitted, on +the one hand, as a deduction from the amount +of fresh social power that would be acquired by +giving freedom to one-half of the whole sum of +human intellect, there must be added, on the +other, the benefit of the stimulus that would be +given to the intellect of men by the competition; +or (to use a more true expression) by the necessity +that would be imposed on them of deserving +precedency before they could expect to obtain it. +</p> +<p> +This great accession to the intellectual power +of the species, and to the amount of intellect +available for the good management of its affairs, +would be obtained, partly, through the better and +more complete intellectual education of women, +which would then improve <i>pari passu</i> with that +of men. Women in general would be brought up +equally capable of understanding business, public +affairs, and the higher matters of speculation, with +men in the same class of society; and the select +<a name="page155" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 155]</span> +few of the one as well as of the other sex, who +were qualified not only to comprehend what is +done or thought by others, but to think or do +something considerable themselves, would meet +with the same facilities for improving and training +their capacities in the one sex as in the other. +In this way, the widening of the sphere of action +for women would operate for good, by raising +their education to the level of that of men, and +making the one participate in all improvements +made in the other. But independently of this, +the mere breaking down of the barrier would of +itself have an educational virtue of the highest +worth. The mere getting rid of the idea that all +the wider subjects of thought and action, all the +things which are of general and not solely of +private interest, are men's business, from which +women are to be warned off—positively interdicted +from most of it, coldly tolerated in the little +which is allowed them—the mere consciousness a +woman would then have of being a human being +like any other, entitled to choose her pursuits, +urged or invited by the same inducements as any +one else to interest herself in whatever is interesting +to human beings, entitled to exert the +share of influence on all human concerns which +belongs to an individual opinion, whether she +attempted actual participation in them or not—this +alone would effect an immense expansion of +<a name="page156" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 156]</span> +the faculties of women, as well as enlargement of +the range of their moral sentiments. +</p> +<p> +Besides the addition to the amount of individual +talent available for the conduct of human +affairs, which certainly are not at present so +abundantly provided in that respect that they +can afford to dispense with one-half of what +nature proffers; the opinion of women would then +possess a more beneficial, rather than a greater, +influence upon the general mass of human belief +and sentiment. I say a more beneficial, rather +than a greater influence; for the influence of +women over the general tone of opinion has +always, or at least from the earliest known period, +been very considerable. The influence of mothers +on the early character of their sons, and the +desire of young men to recommend themselves to +young women, have in all recorded times been +important agencies in the formation of character, +and have determined some of the chief +steps in the progress of civilization. Even in +the Homeric age, αιδως towards the Τρωαδας +ἑλκεσιπεπλους is an acknowledged and powerful +motive of action in the great Hector. The moral +influence of women has had two modes of operation. +First, it has been a softening influence. +Those who were most liable to be the victims +of violence, have naturally tended as much as they +could towards limiting its sphere and mitigating +<a name="page157" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 157]</span> +its excesses. Those who were not taught to fight, +have naturally inclined in favour of any other +mode of settling differences rather than that of +fighting. In general, those who have been the +greatest sufferers by the indulgence of selfish +passion, have been the most earnest supporters of +any moral law which offered a means of bridling +passion. Women were powerfully instrumental +in inducing the northern conquerors to adopt +the creed of Christianity, a creed so much more +favourable to women than any that preceded it. +The conversion of the Anglo-Saxons and of the +Franks may be said to have been begun by the +wives of Ethelbert and Clovis. The other mode +in which the effect of women's opinion has been +conspicuous, is by giving a powerful stimulus to +those qualities in men, which, not being themselves +trained in, it was necessary for them that +they should find in their protectors. Courage, +and the military virtues generally, have at all +times been greatly indebted to the desire which +men felt of being admired by women: and the +stimulus reaches far beyond this one class of +eminent qualities, since, by a very natural effect +of their position, the best passport to the admiration +and favour of women has always been +to be thought highly of by men. From the +combination of the two kinds of moral influence +thus exercised by women, arose the spirit +<a name="page158" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 158]</span> +of chivalry: the peculiarity of which is, to aim at +combining the highest standard of the warlike +qualities with the cultivation of a totally different +class of virtues—those of gentleness, generosity, +and self-abnegation, towards the non-military and +defenceless classes generally, and a special submission +and worship directed towards women; who +were distinguished from the other defenceless +classes by the high rewards which they had it +in their power voluntarily to bestow on those +who endeavoured to earn their favour, instead of +extorting their subjection. Though the practice of +chivalry fell even more sadly short of its theoretic +standard than practice generally falls below theory, +it remains one of the most precious monuments of +the moral history of our race; as a remarkable instance +of a concerted and organized attempt by a +most disorganized and distracted society, to raise +up and carry into practice a moral ideal greatly +in advance of its social condition and institutions; +so much so as to have been completely frustrated +in the main object, yet never entirely inefficacious, +and which has left a most sensible, and for the +most part a highly valuable impress on the ideas +and feelings of all subsequent times. +</p> +<p> +The chivalrous ideal is the acme of the +influence of women's sentiments on the moral +cultivation of mankind: and if women are to +remain in their subordinate situation, it were +<a name="page159" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 159]</span> +greatly to be lamented that the chivalrous standard +should have passed away, for it is the only +one at all capable of mitigating the demoralizing +influences of that position. But the changes in +the general state of the species rendered inevitable +the substitution of a totally different ideal of +morality for the chivalrous one. Chivalry was +the attempt to infuse moral elements into a state +of society in which everything depended for good +or evil on individual prowess, under the softening +influences of individual delicacy and generosity. +In modern societies, all things, even in the military +department of affairs, are decided, not by individual +effort, but by the combined operations of +numbers; while the main occupation of society +has changed from fighting to business, from military +to industrial life. The exigencies of the +new life are no more exclusive of the virtues of +generosity than those of the old, but it no +longer entirely depends on them. The main foundations +of the moral life of modern times must +be justice and prudence; the respect of each +for the rights of every other, and the ability +of each to take care of himself. Chivalry left +without legal check all forms of wrong which +reigned unpunished throughout society; it only +encouraged a few to do right in preference to +wrong, by the direction it gave to the instruments +of praise and admiration. But the real dependence +<a name="page160" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 160]</span> +of morality must always be upon its penal +sanctions—its power to deter from evil. The +security of society cannot rest on merely rendering +honour to right, a motive so comparatively weak in +all but a few, and which on very many does not +operate at all. Modern society is able to repress +wrong through all departments of life, by a fit +exertion of the superior strength which civilization +has given it, and thus to render the existence +of the weaker members of society (no +longer defenceless but protected by law) tolerable +to them, without reliance on the chivalrous +feelings of those who are in a position to tyrannize. +The beauties and graces of the chivalrous +character are still what they were, but the rights +of the weak, and the general comfort of human +life, now rest on a far surer and steadier support; +or rather, they do so in every relation of life +except the conjugal. +</p> +<p> +At present the moral influence of women is +no less real, but it is no longer of so marked +and definite a character: it has more nearly +merged in the general influence of public opinion. +Both through the contagion of sympathy, and +through the desire of men to shine in the eyes +of women, their feelings have great effect in +keeping alive what remains of the chivalrous +ideal—in fostering the sentiments and continuing +the traditions of spirit and generosity. In these +<a name="page161" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 161]</span> +points of character, their standard is higher than +that of men; in the quality of justice, somewhat +lower. As regards the relations of private life +it may be said generally, that their influence is, +on the whole, encouraging to the softer virtues, +discouraging to the sterner: though the statement +must be taken with all the modifications +dependent on individual character. In the +chief of the greater trials to which virtue is +subject in the concerns of life—the conflict between +interest and principle—the tendency of +women's influence is of a very mixed character. +When the principle involved happens to be one +of the very few which the course of their religious +or moral education has strongly impressed +upon themselves, they are potent auxiliaries to +virtue: and their husbands and sons are often +prompted by them to acts of abnegation which +they never would have been capable of without +that stimulus. But, with the present education +and position of women, the moral principles +which have been impressed on them cover but a +comparatively small part of the field of virtue, +and are, moreover, principally negative; forbidding +particular acts, but having little to do with +the general direction of the thoughts and purposes. +I am afraid it must be said, that disinterestedness +in the general conduct of life—the +devotion of the energies to purposes which hold +<a name="page162" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 162]</span> +out no promise of private advantages to the +family—is very seldom encouraged or supported +by women's influence. It is small blame to them +that they discourage objects of which they have +not learnt to see the advantage, and which withdraw +their men from them, and from the interests +of the family. But the consequence is that +women's influence is often anything but favourable +to public virtue. +</p> +<p> +Women have, however, some share of influence +in giving the tone to public moralities since their +sphere of action has been a little widened, and +since a considerable number of them have occupied +themselves practically in the promotion of objects +reaching beyond their own family and household. +The influence of women counts for a great deal +in two of the most marked features of modern +European life—its aversion to war, and its addiction +to philanthropy. Excellent characteristics +both; but unhappily, if the influence of women +is valuable in the encouragement it gives to these +feelings in general, in the particular applications +the direction it gives to them is at least as often +mischievous as useful. In the philanthropic department +more particularly, the two provinces +chiefly cultivated by women are religious proselytism +and charity. Religious proselytism at +home, is but another word for embittering of +religious animosities: abroad, it is usually a +<a name="page163" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 163]</span> +blind running at an object, without either knowing +or heeding the fatal mischiefs—fatal to the +religious object itself as well as to all other +desirable objects—which may be produced by the +means employed. As for charity, it is a matter +in which the immediate effect on the persons +directly concerned, and the ultimate consequence +to the general good, are apt to be at complete +war with one another: while the education given +to women—an education of the sentiments rather +than of the understanding—and the habit inculcated +by their whole life, of looking to immediate +effects on persons, and not to remote effects +on classes of persons—make them both unable +to see, and unwilling to admit, the ultimate evil +tendency of any form of charity or philanthropy +which commends itself to their sympathetic feelings. +The great and continually increasing mass +of unenlightened and shortsighted benevolence, +which, taking the care of people's lives out of +their own hands, and relieving them from the +disagreeable consequences of their own acts, saps +the very foundations of the self-respect, self-help, +and self-control which are the essential conditions +both of individual prosperity and of social +virtue—this waste of resources and of benevolent +feelings in doing harm instead of good, is immensely +swelled by women's contributions, and +stimulated by their influence. Not that this is +<a name="page164" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 164]</span> +a mistake likely to be made by women, where +they have actually the practical management of +schemes of beneficence. It sometimes happens +that women who administer public charities—with +that insight into present fact, and especially into +the minds and feelings of those with whom they +are in immediate contact, in which women generally +excel men—recognise in the clearest manner +the demoralizing influence of the alms given or +the help afforded, and could give lessons on the +subject to many a male political economist. But +women who only give their money, and are not +brought face to face with the effects it produces, +how can they be expected to foresee them? A +woman born to the present lot of women, and +content with it, how should she appreciate the +value of self-dependence? She is not self-dependent; +she is not taught self-dependence; her +destiny is to receive everything from others, and +why should what is good enough for her be bad +for the poor? Her familiar notions of good are +of blessings descending from a superior. She +forgets that she is not free, and that the poor +are; that if what they need is given to them unearned, +they cannot be compelled to earn it: that +everybody cannot be taken care of by everybody, +but there must be some motive to induce people +to take care of themselves; and that to be helped +to help themselves, if they are physically capable +<a name="page165" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 165]</span> +of it, is the only charity which proves to be +charity in the end. +</p> +<p> +These considerations show how usefully the +part which women take in the formation of +general opinion, would be modified for the better +by that more enlarged instruction, and practical +conversancy with the things which their opinions +influence, that would necessarily arise from their +social and political emancipation. But the improvement +it would work through the influence +they exercise, each in her own family, would be +still more remarkable. +</p> +<p> +It is often said that in the classes most exposed +to temptation, a man's wife and children +tend to keep him honest and respectable, both by +the wife's direct influence, and by the concern he +feels for their future welfare. This may be so, +and no doubt often is so, with those who are +more weak than wicked; and this beneficial influence +would be preserved and strengthened +under equal laws; it does not depend on the +woman's servitude, but is, on the contrary, diminished +by the disrespect which the inferior class +of men always at heart feel towards those who +are subject to their power. But when we ascend +higher in the scale, we come among a totally +different set of moving forces. The wife's influence +tends, as far as it goes, to prevent the +husband from falling below the common standard +<a name="page166" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 166]</span> +of approbation of the country. It tends quite as +strongly to hinder him from rising above it. +The wife is the auxiliary of the common public +opinion. A man who is married to a woman +his inferior in intelligence, finds her a perpetual +dead weight, or, worse than a dead weight, a +drag, upon every aspiration of his to be better +than public opinion requires him to be. It is +hardly possible for one who is in these bonds, to +attain exalted virtue. If he differs in his opinion +from the mass—if he sees truths which have not +yet dawned upon them, or if, feeling in his heart +truths which they nominally recognise, he would +like to act up to those truths more conscientiously +than the generality of mankind—to all +such thoughts and desires, marriage is the heaviest +of drawbacks, unless he be so fortunate as to +have a wife as much above the common level as +he himself is. +</p> +<p> +For, in the first place, there is always some +sacrifice of personal interest required; either of +social consequence, or of pecuniary means; perhaps +the risk of even the means of subsistence. +These sacrifices and risks he may be willing to +encounter for himself; but he will pause before +he imposes them on his family. And his family +in this case means his wife and daughters; for +he always hopes that his sons will feel as he feels +himself, and that what he can do without, they +<a name="page167" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 167]</span> +will do without, willingly, in the same cause. +But his daughters—their marriage may depend +upon it: and his wife, who is unable to enter +into or understand the objects for which these +sacrifices are made—who, if she thought them +worth any sacrifice, would think so on trust, and +solely for his sake—who can participate in none +of the enthusiasm or the self-approbation he +himself may feel, while the things which he is +disposed to sacrifice are all in all to her; will +not the best and most unselfish man hesitate +the longest before bringing on her this consequence? +If it be not the comforts of life, but +only social consideration, that is at stake, the +burthen upon his conscience and feelings is still +very severe. Whoever has a wife and children +has given hostages to Mrs. Grundy. The approbation +of that potentate may be a matter of indifference +to him, but it is of great importance +to his wife. The man himself may be above +opinion, or may find sufficient compensation in +the opinion of those of his own way of thinking. +But to the women connected with him, he can +offer no compensation. The almost invariable +tendency of the wife to place her influence in the +same scale with social consideration, is sometimes +made a reproach to women, and represented as +a peculiar trait of feebleness and childishness of +character in them: surely with great injustice. +<a name="page168" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 168]</span> +Society makes the whole life of a woman, in the +easy classes, a continued self-sacrifice; it exacts +from her an unremitting restraint of the whole +of her natural inclinations, and the sole return it +makes to her for what often deserves the name +of a martyrdom, is consideration. Her consideration +is inseparably connected with that of her +husband, and after paying the full price for it, she +finds that she is to lose it, for no reason of which +she can feel the cogency. She has sacrificed her +whole life to it, and her husband will not sacrifice +to it a whim, a freak, an eccentricity; something +not recognised or allowed for by the world, +and which the world will agree with her in +thinking a folly, if it thinks no worse! The +dilemma is hardest upon that very meritorious +class of men, who, without possessing talents +which qualify them to make a figure among those +with whom they agree in opinion, hold their +opinion from conviction, and feel bound in +honour and conscience to serve it, by making +profession of their belief, and giving their time, +labour, and means, to anything undertaken in its +behalf. The worst case of all is when such men +happen to be of a rank and position which of +itself neither gives them, nor excludes them +from, what is considered the best society; when +their admission to it depends mainly on what is +thought of them personally—and however unexceptionable +<a name="page169" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 169]</span> +their breeding and habits, their being +identified with opinions and public conduct unacceptable +to those who give the tone to society +would operate as an effectual exclusion. Many +a woman flatters herself (nine times out of ten +quite erroneously) that nothing prevents her and +her husband from moving in the highest society +of her neighbourhood—society in which others +well known to her, and in the same class of life, +mix freely—except that her husband is unfortunately +a Dissenter, or has the reputation of +mingling in low radical politics. That it is, she +thinks, which hinders George from getting a +commission or a place, Caroline from making an +advantageous match, and prevents her and her husband +from obtaining invitations, perhaps honours, +which, for aught she sees, they are as well entitled +to as some folks. With such an influence in +every house, either exerted actively, or operating +all the more powerfully for not being asserted, is +it any wonder that people in general are kept +down in that mediocrity of respectability which +is becoming a marked characteristic of modern +times? +</p> +<p> +There is another very injurious aspect in which +the effect, not of women's disabilities directly, but +of the broad line of difference which those disabilities +create between the education and character +of a woman and that of a man, requires to +<a name="page170" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 170]</span> +be considered. Nothing can be more unfavourable +to that union of thoughts and inclinations +which is the ideal of married life. Intimate +society between people radically dissimilar to one +another, is an idle dream. Unlikeness may attract, +but it is likeness which retains; and in proportion +to the likeness is the suitability of the individuals +to give each other a happy life. While women +are so unlike men, it is not wonderful that selfish +men should feel the need of arbitrary power in +their own hands, to arrest <i>in limine</i> the life-long +conflict of inclinations, by deciding every question +on the side of their own preference. When people +are extremely unlike, there can be no real identity +of interest. Very often there is conscientious +difference of opinion between married people, on +the highest points of duty. Is there any reality +in the marriage union where this takes place? +Yet it is not uncommon anywhere, when the +woman has any earnestness of character; and it +is a very general case indeed in Catholic countries, +when she is supported in her dissent by the only +other authority to which she is taught to bow, the +priest. With the usual barefacedness of power +not accustomed to find itself disputed, the influence +of priests over women is attacked by Protestant +and Liberal writers, less for being bad in +itself, than because it is a rival authority to the +husband, and raises up a revolt against his infallibility. +<a name="page171" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 171]</span> +In England, similar differences occasionally +exist when an Evangelical wife has allied +herself with a husband of a different quality; but +in general this source at least of dissension is got +rid of, by reducing the minds of women to such a +nullity, that they have no opinions but those of +Mrs. Grundy, or those which the husband tells +them to have. When there is no difference of +opinion, differences merely of taste may be sufficient +to detract greatly from the happiness of +married life. And though it may stimulate the +amatory propensities of men, it does not conduce +to married happiness, to exaggerate by differences +of education whatever may be the native differences +of the sexes. If the married pair are +well-bred and well-behaved people, they tolerate +each other's tastes; but is mutual toleration what +people look forward to, when they enter into +marriage? These differences of inclination will +naturally make their wishes different, if not +restrained by affection or duty, as to almost all +domestic questions which arise. What a difference +there must be in the society which the two +persons will wish to frequent, or be frequented +by! Each will desire associates who share their +own tastes: the persons agreeable to one, will be +indifferent or positively disagreeable to the other; +yet there can be none who are not common to +both, for married people do not now live in different +<a name="page172" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 172]</span> +parts of the house and have totally different +visiting lists, as in the reign of Louis XV. +They cannot help having different wishes as to +the bringing up of the children: each will wish to +see reproduced in them their own tastes and sentiments: +and there is either a compromise, and only +a half-satisfaction to either, or the wife has to +yield—often with bitter suffering; and, with or +without intention, her occult influence continues +to counterwork the husband's purposes. +</p> +<p> +It would of course be extreme folly to suppose +that these differences of feeling and inclination +only exist because women are brought up differently +from men, and that there would not be +differences of taste under any imaginable circumstances. +But there is nothing beyond the mark +in saying that the distinction in bringing-up +immensely aggravates those differences, and +renders them wholly inevitable. While women +are brought up as they are, a man and a woman +will but rarely find in one another real agreement +of tastes and wishes as to daily life. They +will generally have to give it up as hopeless, and +renounce the attempt to have, in the intimate +associate of their daily life, that <i>idem velle, idem +nolle</i>, which is the recognised bond of any society +that is really such: or if the man succeeds in +obtaining it, he does so by choosing a woman +who is so complete a nullity that she has no +<a name="page173" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 173]</span> +<i>velle</i> or <i>nolle</i> at all, and is as ready to comply +with one thing as another if anybody tells her to +do so. Even this calculation is apt to fail; dulness +and want of spirit are not always a guarantee +of the submission which is so confidently expected +from them. But if they were, is this the ideal +of marriage? What, in this case, does the man +obtain by it, except an upper servant, a nurse, +or a mistress? On the contrary, when each +of two persons, instead of being a nothing, is +a something; when they are attached to one +another, and are not too much unlike to begin +with; the constant partaking in the same things, +assisted by their sympathy, draws out the latent +capacities of each for being interested in the +things which were at first interesting only to the +other; and works a gradual assimilation of the +tastes and characters to one another, partly by +the insensible modification of each, but more by +a real enriching of the two natures, each acquiring +the tastes and capacities of the other in +addition to its own. This often happens between +two friends of the same sex, who are much associated +in their daily life: and it would be a +common, if not the commonest, case in marriage, +did not the totally different bringing-up of the +two sexes make it next to an impossibility to +form a really well-assorted union. Were this +remedied, whatever differences there might still +<a name="page174" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 174]</span> +be in individual tastes, there would at least be, +as a general rule, complete unity and unanimity as +to the great objects of life. When the two persons +both care for great objects, and are a help +and encouragement to each other in whatever +regards these, the minor matters on which their +tastes may differ are not all-important to them; +and there is a foundation for solid friendship, of +an enduring character, more likely than anything +else to make it, through the whole of life, a greater +pleasure to each to give pleasure to the other, +than to receive it. +</p> +<p> +I have considered, thus far, the effects on the +pleasures and benefits of the marriage union which +depend on the mere unlikeness between the wife +and the husband: but the evil tendency is prodigiously +aggravated when the unlikeness is inferiority. +Mere unlikeness, when it only means +difference of good qualities, may be more a +benefit in the way of mutual improvement, than +a drawback from comfort. When each emulates, +and desires and endeavours to acquire, the other's +peculiar qualities, the difference does not produce +diversity of interest, but increased identity of it, +and makes each still more valuable to the other. +But when one is much the inferior of the two in +mental ability and cultivation, and is not actively +attempting by the other's aid to rise to the other's +level, the whole influence of the connexion upon +<a name="page175" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 175]</span> +the development of the superior of the two is +deteriorating: and still more so in a tolerably +happy marriage than in an unhappy one. It is +not with impunity that the superior in intellect +shuts himself up with an inferior, and elects +that inferior for his chosen, and sole completely +intimate, associate. Any society which is not improving, +is deteriorating: and the more so, the +closer and more familiar it is. Even a really +superior man almost always begins to deteriorate +when he is habitually (as the phrase is) king of his +company: and in his most habitual company the +husband who has a wife inferior to him is always so. +While his self-satisfaction is incessantly ministered +to on the one hand, on the other he insensibly +imbibes the modes of feeling, and of looking at +things, which belong to a more vulgar or a more +limited mind than his own. This evil differs +from many of those which have hitherto been +dwelt on, by being an increasing one. The +association of men with women in daily life is +much closer and more complete than it ever was +before. Men's life is more domestic. Formerly, +their pleasures and chosen occupations were +among men, and in men's company: their wives +had but a fragment of their lives. At the present +time, the progress of civilization, and the turn of +opinion against the rough amusements and convivial +excesses which formerly occupied most men +<a name="page176" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 176]</span> +in their hours of relaxation—together with (it +must be said) the improved tone of modern feeling +as to the reciprocity of duty which binds +the husband towards the wife—have thrown the +man very much more upon home and its inmates, +for his personal and social pleasures: while the +kind and degree of improvement which has been +made in women's education, has made them in +some degree capable of being his companions in +ideas and mental tastes, while leaving them, in +most cases, still hopelessly inferior to him. His +desire of mental communion is thus in general +satisfied by a communion from which he learns +nothing. An unimproving and unstimulating +companionship is substituted for (what he might +otherwise have been obliged to seek) the society +of his equals in powers and his fellows in the +higher pursuits. We see, accordingly, that young +men of the greatest promise generally cease to +improve as soon as they marry, and, not improving, +inevitably degenerate. If the wife does +not push the husband forward, she always holds +him back. He ceases to care for what she does +not care for; he no longer desires, and ends by +disliking and shunning, society congenial to his +former aspirations, and which would now shame +his falling-off from them; his higher faculties +both of mind and heart cease to be called into activity. +And this change coinciding with the new and +<a name="page177" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 177]</span> +selfish interests which are created by the family, +after a few years he differs in no material respect +from those who have never had wishes for anything +but the common vanities and the common +pecuniary objects. +</p> +<p> +What marriage may be in the case of two +persons of cultivated faculties, identical in opinions +and purposes, between whom there exists +that best kind of equality, similarity of powers +and capacities with reciprocal superiority in them—so +that each can enjoy the luxury of looking up +to the other, and can have alternately the pleasure +of leading and of being led in the path of development—I +will not attempt to describe. To those +who can conceive it, there is no need; to those +who cannot, it would appear the dream of an +enthusiast. But I maintain, with the profoundest +conviction, that this, and this only, is the ideal of +marriage; and that all opinions, customs, and institutions +which favour any other notion of it, or +turn the conceptions and aspirations connected +with it into any other direction, by whatever pretences +they may be coloured, are relics of primitive +barbarism. The moral regeneration of mankind +will only really commence, when the most fundamental +of the social relations is placed under the +rule of equal justice, and when human beings +learn to cultivate their strongest sympathy with +an equal in rights and in cultivation. +<a name="page178" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 178]</span> +</p> +<p> +Thus far, the benefits which it has appeared +that the world would gain by ceasing to make +sex a disqualification for privileges and a badge +of subjection, are social rather than individual; +consisting in an increase of the general fund of +thinking and acting power, and an improvement +in the general conditions of the association of +men with women. But it would be a grievous +understatement of the case to omit the most +direct benefit of all, the unspeakable gain in +private happiness to the liberated half of the +species; the difference to them between a life of +subjection to the will of others, and a life of +rational freedom. After the primary necessities +of food and raiment, freedom is the first and +strongest want of human nature. While mankind +are lawless, their desire is for lawless freedom. +When they have learnt to understand the +meaning of duty and the value of reason, they +incline more and more to be guided and restrained +by these in the exercise of their freedom; but +they do not therefore desire freedom less; they +do not become disposed to accept the will of +other people as the representative and interpreter +of those guiding principles. On the contrary, +the communities in which the reason has +been most cultivated, and in which the idea of +social duty has been most powerful, are those +which have most strongly asserted the freedom +<a name="page179" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 179]</span> +of action of the individual—the liberty of each to +govern his conduct by his own feelings of duty, +and by such laws and social restraints as his own +conscience can subscribe to. +</p> +<p> +He who would rightly appreciate the worth of +personal independence as an element of happiness, +should consider the value he himself puts +upon it as an ingredient of his own. There is no +subject on which there is a greater habitual difference +of judgment between a man judging for +himself, and the same man judging for other +people. When he hears others complaining that +they are not allowed freedom of action—that their +own will has not sufficient influence in the regulation +of their affairs—his inclination is, to ask, +what are their grievances? what positive damage +they sustain? and in what respect they consider +their affairs to be mismanaged? and if they fail +to make out, in answer to these questions, what +appears to him a sufficient case, he turns a deaf +ear, and regards their complaint as the fanciful +querulousness of people whom nothing reasonable +will satisfy. But he has a quite different standard +of judgment when he is deciding for himself. +Then, the most unexceptionable administration of +his interests by a tutor set over him, does not +satisfy his feelings: his personal exclusion from +the deciding authority appears itself the greatest +grievance of all, rendering it superfluous even to +<a name="page180" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 180]</span> +enter into the question of mismanagement. It is +the same with nations. What citizen of a free +country would listen to any offers of good and +skilful administration, in return for the abdication +of freedom? Even if he could believe that +good and skilful administration can exist among +a people ruled by a will not their own, would +not the consciousness of working out their +own destiny under their own moral responsibility +be a compensation to his feelings for +great rudeness and imperfection in the details of +public affairs? Let him rest assured that whatever +he feels on this point, women feel in a fully +equal degree. Whatever has been said or written, +from the time of Herodotus to the present, of the +ennobling influence of free government—the nerve +and spring which it gives to all the faculties, the +larger and higher objects which it presents to the +intellect and feelings, the more unselfish public +spirit, and calmer and broader views of duty, +that it engenders, and the generally loftier platform +on which it elevates the individual as a moral, +spiritual, and social being—is every particle +as true of women as of men. Are these things +no important part of individual happiness? Let +any man call to mind what he himself felt on +emerging from boyhood—from the tutelage and +control of even loved and affectionate elders—and +entering upon the responsibilities of manhood. +<a name="page181" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 181]</span> +Was it not like the physical effect of taking off a +heavy weight, or releasing him from obstructive, +even if not otherwise painful, bonds? Did he +not feel twice as much alive, twice as much a +human being, as before? And does he imagine +that women have none of these feelings? But it +is a striking fact, that the satisfactions and +mortifications of personal pride, though all in all +to most men when the case is their own, have +less allowance made for them in the case of other +people, and are less listened to as a ground or a +justification of conduct, than any other natural +human feelings; perhaps because men compliment +them in their own case with the names of so +many other qualities, that they are seldom +conscious how mighty an influence these feelings +exercise in their own lives. No less large and +powerful is their part, we may assure ourselves, in +the lives and feelings of women. Women are +schooled into suppressing them in their most +natural and most healthy direction, but the internal +principle remains, in a different outward +form. An active and energetic mind, if denied +liberty, will seek for power: refused the command +of itself, it will assert its personality by +attempting to control others. To allow to any +human beings no existence of their own but +what depends on others, is giving far too +high a premium on bending others to their purposes. +<a name="page182" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 182]</span> +Where liberty cannot be hoped for, and +power can, power becomes the grand object of +human desire; those to whom others will not +leave the undisturbed management of their own +affairs, will compensate themselves, if they can, by +meddling for their own purposes with the affairs +of others. Hence also women's passion for personal +beauty, and dress and display; and all the +evils that flow from it, in the way of mischievous +luxury and social immorality. The love of power +and the love of liberty are in eternal antagonism. +Where there is least liberty, the passion for power +is the most ardent and unscrupulous. The desire +of power over others can only cease to be a depraving +agency among mankind, when each of +them individually is able to do without it: which +can only be where respect for liberty in the personal +concerns of each is an established principle. +</p> +<p> +But it is not only through the sentiment of +personal dignity, that the free direction and disposal +of their own faculties is a source of individual +happiness, and to be fettered and restricted in +it, a source of unhappiness, to human beings, and +not least to women. There is nothing, after disease, +indigence, and guilt, so fatal to the pleasurable +enjoyment of life as the want of a worthy outlet +for the active faculties. Women who have the +cares of a family, and while they have the cares +of a family, have this outlet, and it generally +<a name="page183" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 183]</span> +suffices for them: but what of the greatly increasing +number of women, who have had no +opportunity of exercising the vocation which +they are mocked by telling them is their proper +one? What of the women whose children have +been lost to them by death or distance, or have +grown up, married, and formed homes of their +own? There are abundant examples of men +who, after a life engrossed by business, retire with +a competency to the enjoyment, as they hope, of +rest, but to whom, as they are unable to acquire +new interests and excitements that can replace +the old, the change to a life of inactivity brings +ennui, melancholy, and premature death. Yet +no one thinks of the parallel case of so many +worthy and devoted women, who, having paid what +they are told is their debt to society—having +brought up a family blamelessly to manhood and +womanhood—having kept a house as long as they +had a house needing to be kept—are deserted by +the sole occupation for which they have fitted +themselves; and remain with undiminished activity +but with no employment for it, unless perhaps a +daughter or daughter-in-law is willing to abdicate +in their favour the discharge of the same functions +in her younger household. Surely a hard +lot for the old age of those who have worthily +discharged, as long as it was given to them to +discharge, what the world accounts their only +<a name="page184" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 184]</span> +social duty. Of such women, and of those others +to whom this duty has not been committed at +all—many of whom pine through life with the +consciousness of thwarted vocations, and activities +which are not suffered to expand—the +only resources, speaking generally, are religion +and charity. But their religion, though it may +be one of feeling, and of ceremonial observance, +cannot be a religion of action, unless in the +form of charity. For charity many of them are +by nature admirably fitted; but to practise it +usefully, or even without doing mischief, requires +the education, the manifold preparation, the knowledge +and the thinking powers, of a skilful administrator. +There are few of the administrative +functions of government for which a person would +not be fit, who is fit to bestow charity usefully. +In this as in other cases (pre-eminently in that +of the education of children), the duties permitted +to women cannot be performed properly, +without their being trained for duties which, to +the great loss of society, are not permitted to +them. And here let me notice the singular way +in which the question of women's disabilities is +frequently presented to view, by those who find +it easier to draw a ludicrous picture of what they +do not like, than to answer the arguments for it. +When it is suggested that women's executive +capacities and prudent counsels might sometimes +<a name="page185" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 185]</span> +be found valuable in affairs of state, these lovers +of fun hold up to the ridicule of the world, as +sitting in parliament or in the cabinet, girls in +their teens, or young wives of two or three and +twenty, transported bodily, exactly as they are, +from the drawing-room to the House of Commons. +They forget that males are not usually +selected at this early age for a seat in Parliament, +or for responsible political functions. +Common sense would tell them that if such +trusts were confided to women, it would be +to such as having no special vocation for married +life, or preferring another employment of +their faculties (as many women even now prefer +to marriage some of the few honourable occupations +within their reach), have spent the best +years of their youth in attempting to qualify +themselves for the pursuits in which they desire +to engage; or still more frequently perhaps, +widows or wives of forty or fifty, by whom the +knowledge of life and faculty of government +which they have acquired in their families, could +by the aid of appropriate studies be made available +on a less contracted scale. There is no +country of Europe in which the ablest men have +not frequently experienced, and keenly appreciated, +the value of the advice and help of clever and +experienced women of the world, in the attainment +both of private and of public objects; and +<a name="page186" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 186]</span> +there are important matters of public administration +to which few men are equally competent +with such women; among others, the detailed +control of expenditure. But what we are now +discussing is not the need which society has of +the services of women in public business, but the +dull and hopeless life to which it so often condemns +them, by forbidding them to exercise the +practical abilities which many of them are conscious +of, in any wider field than one which to +some of them never was, and to others is no +longer, open. If there is anything vitally important +to the happiness of human beings, it is +that they should relish their habitual pursuit. +This requisite of an enjoyable life is very imperfectly +granted, or altogether denied, to a large +part of mankind; and by its absence many a life +is a failure, which is provided, in appearance, with +every requisite of success. But if circumstances +which society is not yet skilful enough to overcome, +render such failures often for the present +inevitable, society need not itself inflict them. +The injudiciousness of parents, a youth's own +inexperience, or the absence of external opportunities +for the congenial vocation, and their +presence for an uncongenial, condemn numbers +of men to pass their lives in doing one thing reluctantly +and ill, when there are other things which +they could have done well and happily. But on +<a name="page187" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 187]</span> +women this sentence is imposed by actual law, +and by customs equivalent to law. What, in +unenlightened societies, colour, race, religion, or +in the case of a conquered country, nationality, +are to some men, sex is to all women; a +peremptory exclusion from almost all honourable +occupations, but either such as cannot be fulfilled +by others, or such as those others do not think +worthy of their acceptance. Sufferings arising +from causes of this nature usually meet with so +little sympathy, that few persons are aware of the +great amount of unhappiness even now produced +by the feeling of a wasted life. The case +will be even more frequent, as increased cultivation +creates a greater and greater disproportion +between the ideas and faculties of women, and +the scope which society allows to their activity. +</p> +<p> +When we consider the positive evil caused to +the disqualified half of the human race by their +disqualification—first in the loss of the most inspiriting +and elevating kind of personal enjoyment, +and next in the weariness, disappointment, +and profound dissatisfaction with life, which are +so often the substitute for it; one feels that +among all the lessons which men require for +carrying on the struggle against the inevitable +imperfections of their lot on earth, there is no +lesson which they more need, than not to add to +the evils which nature inflicts, by their jealous +<a name="page188" /> <span class="pagenum">[Pg 188]</span> +and prejudiced restrictions on one another. +Their vain fears only substitute other and worse +evils for those which they are idly apprehensive +of: while every restraint on the freedom of +conduct of any of their human fellow creatures, +(otherwise than by making them responsible for +any evil actually caused by it), dries up <i>pro tanto</i> +the principal fountain of human happiness, and +leaves the species less rich, to an inappreciable +degree, in all that makes life valuable to the +individual human being. +</p> +<p class="theend"> +THE END.<br /> +</p> + + + + + + + +<pre> + + + + + +End of Project Gutenberg's The Subjection of Women, by John Stuart Mill + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK THE SUBJECTION OF WOMEN *** + +***** This file should be named 27083-h.htm or 27083-h.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + https://www.gutenberg.org/2/7/0/8/27083/ + +Produced by Michael Roe and the Online Distributed +Proofreading Team at https://www.pgdp.net (This file was +produced from images generously made available by The +Internet Archive/American Libraries.) + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. 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Gutenberg EBook of The Subjection of Women, by John Stuart Mill + +This eBook is for the use of anyone anywhere at no cost and with +almost no restrictions whatsoever. You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: The Subjection of Women + +Author: John Stuart Mill + +Release Date: October 28, 2008 [EBook #27083] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ASCII + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK THE SUBJECTION OF WOMEN *** + + + + +Produced by Michael Roe and the Online Distributed +Proofreading Team at https://www.pgdp.net (This file was +produced from images generously made available by The +Internet Archive/American Libraries.) + + + + + + + + + + THE + SUBJECTION + OF + WOMEN + + + BY + JOHN STUART MILL + + LONDON + LONGMANS, GREEN, READER, AND DYER + 1869 + + LONDON: + SAVILL, EDWARDS AND CO., PRINTERS, CHANDOS STREET, + COVENT GARDEN. + + + + +CHAPTER I. + + +The object of this Essay is to explain as clearly as I am able, the +grounds of an opinion which I have held from the very earliest period +when I had formed any opinions at all on social or political matters, +and which, instead of being weakened or modified, has been constantly +growing stronger by the progress of reflection and the experience of +life: That the principle which regulates the existing social +relations between the two sexes--the legal subordination of one sex +to the other--is wrong in itself, and now one of the chief hindrances +to human improvement; and that it ought to be replaced by a principle +of perfect equality, admitting no power or privilege on the one side, +nor disability on the other. + +The very words necessary to express the task I have undertaken, show +how arduous it is. But it would be a mistake to suppose that the +difficulty of the case must lie in the insufficiency or obscurity of +the grounds of reason on which my conviction rests. The difficulty is +that which exists in all cases in which there is a mass of feeling to +be contended against. So long as an opinion is strongly rooted in the +feelings, it gains rather than loses in stability by having a +preponderating weight of argument against it. For if it were accepted +as a result of argument, the refutation of the argument might shake +the solidity of the conviction; but when it rests solely on feeling, +the worse it fares in argumentative contest, the more persuaded its +adherents are that their feeling must have some deeper ground, which +the arguments do not reach; and while the feeling remains, it is +always throwing up fresh intrenchments of argument to repair any +breach made in the old. And there are so many causes tending to make +the feelings connected with this subject the most intense and most +deeply-rooted of all those which gather round and protect old +institutions and customs, that we need not wonder to find them as yet +less undermined and loosened than any of the rest by the progress of +the great modern spiritual and social transition; nor suppose that +the barbarisms to which men cling longest must be less barbarisms +than those which they earlier shake off. + +In every respect the burthen is hard on those who attack an almost +universal opinion. They must be very fortunate as well as unusually +capable if they obtain a hearing at all. They have more difficulty in +obtaining a trial, than any other litigants have in getting a +verdict. If they do extort a hearing, they are subjected to a set of +logical requirements totally different from those exacted from other +people. In all other cases, the burthen of proof is supposed to lie +with the affirmative. If a person is charged with a murder, it rests +with those who accuse him to give proof of his guilt, not with +himself to prove his innocence. If there is a difference of opinion +about the reality of any alleged historical event, in which the +feelings of men in general are not much interested, as the Siege of +Troy for example, those who maintain that the event took place are +expected to produce their proofs, before those who take the other +side can be required to say anything; and at no time are these +required to do more than show that the evidence produced by the +others is of no value. Again, in practical matters, the burthen of +proof is supposed to be with those who are against liberty; who +contend for any restriction or prohibition; either any limitation of +the general freedom of human action, or any disqualification or +disparity of privilege affecting one person or kind of persons, as +compared with others. The _a priori_ presumption is in favour of +freedom and impartiality. It is held that there should be no +restraint not required by the general good, and that the law should +be no respecter of persons, but should treat all alike, save where +dissimilarity of treatment is required by positive reasons, either of +justice or of policy. But of none of these rules of evidence will the +benefit be allowed to those who maintain the opinion I profess. It is +useless for me to say that those who maintain the doctrine that men +have a right to command and women are under an obligation to obey, or +that men are fit for government and women unfit, are on the +affirmative side of the question, and that they are bound to show +positive evidence for the assertions, or submit to their rejection. +It is equally unavailing for me to say that those who deny to women +any freedom or privilege rightly allowed to men, having the double +presumption against them that they are opposing freedom and +recommending partiality, must be held to the strictest proof of their +case, and unless their success be such as to exclude all doubt, the +judgment ought to go against them. These would be thought good pleas +in any common case; but they will not be thought so in this instance. +Before I could hope to make any impression, I should be expected not +only to answer all that has ever been said by those who take the +other side of the question, but to imagine all that could be said by +them--to find them in reasons, as well as answer all I find: and +besides refuting all arguments for the affirmative, I shall be called +upon for invincible positive arguments to prove a negative. And even +if I could do all this, and leave the opposite party with a host of +unanswered arguments against them, and not a single unrefuted one on +their side, I should be thought to have done little; for a cause +supported on the one hand by universal usage, and on the other by so +great a preponderance of popular sentiment, is supposed to have a +presumption in its favour, superior to any conviction which an appeal +to reason has power to produce in any intellects but those of a high +class. + +I do not mention these difficulties to complain of them; first, +because it would be useless; they are inseparable from having to +contend through people's understandings against the hostility of +their feelings and practical tendencies: and truly the understandings +of the majority of mankind would need to be much better cultivated +than has ever yet been the case, before they can be asked to place +such reliance in their own power of estimating arguments, as to give +up practical principles in which they have been born and bred and +which are the basis of much of the existing order of the world, at +the first argumentative attack which they are not capable of +logically resisting. I do not therefore quarrel with them for having +too little faith in argument, but for having too much faith in custom +and the general feeling. It is one of the characteristic prejudices +of the reaction of the nineteenth century against the eighteenth, to +accord to the unreasoning elements in human nature the infallibility +which the eighteenth century is supposed to have ascribed to the +reasoning elements. For the apotheosis of Reason we have substituted +that of Instinct; and we call everything instinct which we find in +ourselves and for which we cannot trace any rational foundation. This +idolatry, infinitely more degrading than the other, and the most +pernicious of the false worships of the present day, of all of which +it is now the main support, will probably hold its ground until it +gives way before a sound psychology, laying bare the real root of +much that is bowed down to as the intention of Nature and the +ordinance of God. As regards the present question, I am willing to +accept the unfavourable conditions which the prejudice assigns to me. +I consent that established custom, and the general feeling, should be +deemed conclusive against me, unless that custom and feeling from age +to age can be shown to have owed their existence to other causes than +their soundness, and to have derived their power from the worse +rather than the better parts of human nature. I am willing that +judgment should go against me, unless I can show that my judge has +been tampered with. The concession is not so great as it might +appear; for to prove this, is by far the easiest portion of my task. + +The generality of a practice is in some cases a strong presumption +that it is, or at all events once was, conducive to laudable ends. +This is the case, when the practice was first adopted, or afterwards +kept up, as a means to such ends, and was grounded on experience of +the mode in which they could be most effectually attained. If the +authority of men over women, when first established, had been the +result of a conscientious comparison between different modes of +constituting the government of society; if, after trying various +other modes of social organization--the government of women over men, +equality between the two, and such mixed and divided modes of +government as might be invented--it had been decided, on the +testimony of experience, that the mode in which women are wholly +under the rule of men, having no share at all in public concerns, and +each in private being under the legal obligation of obedience to the +man with whom she has associated her destiny, was the arrangement +most conducive to the happiness and well being of both; its general +adoption might then be fairly thought to be some evidence that, at +the time when it was adopted, if was the best: though even then the +considerations which recommended it may, like so many other primeval +social facts of the greatest importance, have subsequently, in the +course of ages, ceased to exist. But the state of the case is in +every respect the reverse of this. In the first place, the opinion in +favour of the present system, which entirely subordinates the weaker +sex to the stronger, rests upon theory only; for there never has been +trial made of any other: so that experience, in the sense in which it +is vulgarly opposed to theory, cannot be pretended to have pronounced +any verdict. And in the second place, the adoption of this system of +inequality never was the result of deliberation, or forethought, or +any social ideas, or any notion whatever of what conduced to the +benefit of humanity or the good order of society. It arose simply +from the fact that from the very earliest twilight of human society, +every woman (owing to the value attached to her by men, combined with +her inferiority in muscular strength) was found in a state of bondage +to some man. Laws and systems of polity always begin by recognising +the relations they find already existing between individuals. They +convert what was a mere physical fact into a legal right, give it the +sanction of society, and principally aim at the substitution of +public and organized means of asserting and protecting these rights, +instead of the irregular and lawless conflict of physical strength. +Those who had already been compelled to obedience became in this +manner legally bound to it. Slavery, from being a mere affair of +force between the master and the slave, became regularized and a +matter of compact among the masters, who, binding themselves to one +another for common protection, guaranteed by their collective +strength the private possessions of each, including his slaves. In +early times, the great majority of the male sex were slaves, as well +as the whole of the female. And many ages elapsed, some of them ages +of high cultivation, before any thinker was bold enough to question +the rightfulness, and the absolute social necessity, either of the +one slavery or of the other. By degrees such thinkers did arise: and +(the general progress of society assisting) the slavery of the male +sex has, in all the countries of Christian Europe at least (though, +in one of them, only within the last few years) been at length +abolished, and that of the female sex has been gradually changed into +a milder form of dependence. But this dependence, as it exists at +present, is not an original institution, taking a fresh start from +considerations of justice and social expediency--it is the primitive +state of slavery lasting on, through successive mitigations and +modifications occasioned by the same causes which have softened the +general manners, and brought all human relations more under the +control of justice and the influence of humanity. It has not lost the +taint of its brutal origin. No presumption in its favour, therefore, +can be drawn from the fact of its existence. The only such +presumption which it could be supposed to have, must be grounded on +its having lasted till now, when so many other things which came down +from the same odious source have been done away with. And this, +indeed, is what makes it strange to ordinary ears, to hear it +asserted that the inequality of rights between men and women has no +other source than the law of the strongest. + +That this statement should have the effect of a paradox, is in some +respects creditable to the progress of civilization, and the +improvement of the moral sentiments of mankind. We now live--that is +to say, one or two of the most advanced nations of the world now +live--in a state in which the law of the strongest seems to be +entirely abandoned as the regulating principle of the world's +affairs: nobody professes it, and, as regards most of the relations +between human beings, nobody is permitted to practise it. When any +one succeeds in doing so, it is under cover of some pretext which +gives him the semblance of having some general social interest on his +side. This being the ostensible state of things, people flatter +themselves that the rule of mere force is ended; that the law of the +strongest cannot be the reason of existence of anything which has +remained in full operation down to the present time. However any of +our present institutions may have begun, it can only, they think, +have been preserved to this period of advanced civilization by a +well-grounded feeling of its adaptation to human nature, and +conduciveness to the general good. They do not understand the great +vitality and durability of institutions which place right on the side +of might; how intensely they are clung to; how the good as well as +the bad propensities and sentiments of those who have power in their +hands, become identified with retaining it; how slowly these bad +institutions give way, one at a time, the weakest first, beginning +with those which are least interwoven with the daily habits of life; +and how very rarely those who have obtained legal power because they +first had physical, have ever lost their hold of it until the +physical power had passed over to the other side. Such shifting of +the physical force not having taken place in the case of women; this +fact, combined with all the peculiar and characteristic features of +the particular case, made it certain from the first that this branch +of the system of right founded on might, though softened in its most +atrocious features at an earlier period than several of the others, +would be the very last to disappear. It was inevitable that this one +case of a social relation grounded on force, would survive through +generations of institutions grounded on equal justice, an almost +solitary exception to the general character of their laws and +customs; but which, so long as it does not proclaim its own origin, +and as discussion has not brought out its true character, is not felt +to jar with modern civilization, any more than domestic slavery among +the Greeks jarred with their notion of themselves as a free people. + +The truth is, that people of the present and the last two or three +generations have lost all practical sense of the primitive condition +of humanity; and only the few who have studied history accurately, or +have much frequented the parts of the world occupied by the living +representatives of ages long past, are able to form any mental +picture of what society then was. People are not aware how entirely, +in former ages, the law of superior strength was the rule of life; +how publicly and openly it was avowed, I do not say cynically or +shamelessly--for these words imply a feeling that there was something +in it to be ashamed of, and no such notion could find a place in the +faculties of any person in those ages, except a philosopher or a +saint. History gives a cruel experience of human nature, in shewing +how exactly the regard due to the life, possessions, and entire +earthly happiness of any class of persons, was measured by what they +had the power of enforcing; how all who made any resistance to +authorities that had arms in their hands, however dreadful might be +the provocation, had not only the law of force but all other laws, +and all the notions of social obligation against them; and in the +eyes of those whom they resisted, were not only guilty of crime, but +of the worst of all crimes, deserving the most cruel chastisement +which human beings could inflict. The first small vestige of a +feeling of obligation in a superior to acknowledge any right in +inferiors, began when he had been induced, for convenience, to make +some promise to them. Though these promises, even when sanctioned by +the most solemn oaths, were for many ages revoked or violated on the +most trifling provocation or temptation, it is probable that this, +except by persons of still worse than the average morality, was +seldom done without some twinges of conscience. The ancient +republics, being mostly grounded from the first upon some kind of +mutual compact, or at any rate formed by an union of persons not very +unequal in strength, afforded, in consequence, the first instance of +a portion of human relations fenced round, and placed under the +dominion of another law than that of force. And though the original +law of force remained in full operation between them and their +slaves, and also (except so far as limited by express compact) +between a commonwealth and its subjects, or other independent +commonwealths; the banishment of that primitive law even from so +narrow a field, commenced the regeneration of human nature, by giving +birth to sentiments of which experience soon demonstrated the immense +value even for material interests, and which thenceforward only +required to be enlarged, not created. Though slaves were no part of +the commonwealth, it was in the free states that slaves were first +felt to have rights as human beings. The Stoics were, I believe, the +first (except so far as the Jewish law constitutes an exception) who +taught as a part of morality that men were bound by moral obligations +to their slaves. No one, after Christianity became ascendant, could +ever again have been a stranger to this belief, in theory; nor, after +the rise of the Catholic Church, was it ever without persons to stand +up for it. Yet to enforce it was the most arduous task which +Christianity ever had to perform. For more than a thousand years the +Church kept up the contest, with hardly any perceptible success. It +was not for want of power over men's minds. Its power was prodigious. +It could make kings and nobles resign their most valued possessions +to enrich the Church. It could make thousands, in the prime of life +and the height of worldly advantages, shut themselves up in convents +to work out their salvation by poverty, fasting, and prayer. It could +send hundreds of thousands across land and sea, Europe and Asia, to +give their lives for the deliverance of the Holy Sepulchre. It could +make kings relinquish wives who were the object of their passionate +attachment, because the Church declared that they were within the +seventh (by our calculation the fourteenth) degree of relationship. +All this it did; but it could not make men fight less with one +another, nor tyrannize less cruelly over the serfs, and when they +were able, over burgesses. It could not make them renounce either of +the applications of force; force militant, or force triumphant. This +they could never be induced to do until they were themselves in their +turn compelled by superior force. Only by the growing power of kings +was an end put to fighting except between kings, or competitors for +kingship; only by the growth of a wealthy and warlike bourgeoisie in +the fortified towns, and of a plebeian infantry which proved more +powerful in the field than the undisciplined chivalry, was the +insolent tyranny of the nobles over the bourgeoisie and peasantry +brought within some bounds. It was persisted in not only until, but +long after, the oppressed had obtained a power enabling them often to +take conspicuous vengeance; and on the Continent much of it continued +to the time of the French Revolution, though in England the earlier +and better organization of the democratic classes put an end to it +sooner, by establishing equal laws and free national institutions. + +If people are mostly so little aware how completely, during the +greater part of the duration of our species, the law of force was the +avowed rule of general conduct, any other being only a special and +exceptional consequence of peculiar ties--and from how very recent a +date it is that the affairs of society in general have been even +pretended to be regulated according to any moral law; as little do +people remember or consider, how institutions and customs which never +had any ground but the law of force, last on into ages and states of +general opinion which never would have permitted their first +establishment. Less than forty years ago, Englishmen might still by +law hold human beings in bondage as saleable property: within the +present century they might kidnap them and carry them off, and work +them literally to death. This absolutely extreme case of the law of +force, condemned by those who can tolerate almost every other form of +arbitrary power, and which, of all others, presents features the most +revolting to the feelings of all who look at it from an impartial +position, was the law of civilized and Christian England within the +memory of persons now living: and in one half of Anglo-Saxon America +three or four years ago, not only did slavery exist, but the slave +trade, and the breeding of slaves expressly for it, was a general +practice between slave states. Yet not only was there a greater +strength of sentiment against it, but, in England at least, a less +amount either of feeling or of interest in favour of it, than of any +other of the customary abuses of force: for its motive was the love +of gain, unmixed and undisguised; and those who profited by it were a +very small numerical fraction of the country, while the natural +feeling of all who were not personally interested in it, was +unmitigated abhorrence. So extreme an instance makes it almost +superfluous to refer to any other: but consider the long duration of +absolute monarchy. In England at present it is the almost universal +conviction that military despotism is a case of the law of force, +having no other origin or justification. Yet in all the great nations +of Europe except England it either still exists, or has only just +ceased to exist, and has even now a strong party favourable to it in +all ranks of the people, especially among persons of station and +consequence. Such is the power of an established system, even when +far from universal; when not only in almost every period of history +there have been great and well-known examples of the contrary system, +but these have almost invariably been afforded by the most +illustrious and most prosperous communities. In this case, too, the +possessor of the undue power, the person directly interested in it, +is only one person, while those who are subject to it and suffer from +it are literally all the rest. The yoke is naturally and necessarily +humiliating to all persons, except the one who is on the throne, +together with, at most, the one who expects to succeed to it. How +different are these cases from that of the power of men over women! I +am not now prejudging the question of its justifiableness. I am +showing how vastly more permanent it could not but be, even if not +justifiable, than these other dominations which have nevertheless +lasted down to our own time. Whatever gratification of pride there is +in the possession of power, and whatever personal interest in its +exercise, is in this case not confined to a limited class, but common +to the whole male sex. Instead of being, to most of its supporters, a +thing desirable chiefly in the abstract, or, like the political ends +usually contended for by factious, of little private importance to +any but the leaders; it comes home to the person and hearth of every +male head of a family, and of every one who looks forward to being +so. The clodhopper exercises, or is to exercise, his share of the +power equally with the highest nobleman. And the case is that in +which the desire of power is the strongest: for every one who desires +power, desires it most over those who are nearest to him, with whom +his life is passed, with whom he has most concerns in common, and in +whom any independence of his authority is oftenest likely to +interfere with his individual preferences. If, in the other cases +specified, powers manifestly grounded only on force, and having so +much less to support them, are so slowly and with so much difficulty +got rid of, much more must it be so with this, even if it rests on no +better foundation than those. We must consider, too, that the +possessors of the power have facilities in this case, greater than in +any other, to prevent any uprising against it. Every one of the +subjects lives under the very eye, and almost, it may be said, in the +hands, of one of the masters--in closer intimacy with him than with +any of her fellow-subjects; with no means of combining against him, +no power of even locally over-mastering him, and, on the other hand, +with the strongest motives for seeking his favour and avoiding to +give him offence. In struggles for political emancipation, everybody +knows how often its champions are bought off by bribes, or daunted by +terrors. In the case of women, each individual of the subject-class +is in a chronic state of bribery and intimidation combined. In +setting up the standard of resistance, a large number of the leaders, +and still more of the followers, must make an almost complete +sacrifice of the pleasures or the alleviations of their own +individual lot. If ever any system of privilege and enforced +subjection had its yoke tightly riveted on the necks of those who are +kept down by it, this has. I have not yet shown that it is a wrong +system: but every one who is capable of thinking on the subject must +see that even if it is, it was certain to outlast all other forms of +unjust authority. And when some of the grossest of the other forms +still exist in many civilized countries, and have only recently been +got rid of in others, it would be strange if that which is so much +the deepest-rooted had yet been perceptibly shaken anywhere. There is +more reason to wonder that the protests and testimonies against it +should have been so numerous and so weighty as they are. + +Some will object, that a comparison cannot fairly be made between the +government of the male sex and the forms of unjust power which I have +adduced in illustration of it, since these are arbitrary, and the +effect of mere usurpation, while it on the contrary is natural. But +was there ever any domination which did not appear natural to those +who possessed it? There was a time when the division of mankind into +two classes, a small one of masters and a numerous one of slaves, +appeared, even to the most cultivated minds, to be a natural, and the +only natural, condition of the human race. No less an intellect, and +one which contributed no less to the progress of human thought, than +Aristotle, held this opinion without doubt or misgiving; and rested +it on the same premises on which the same assertion in regard to the +dominion of men over women is usually based, namely that there are +different natures among mankind, free natures, and slave natures; +that the Greeks were of a free nature, the barbarian races of +Thracians and Asiatics of a slave nature. But why need I go back to +Aristotle? Did not the slaveowners of the Southern United States +maintain the same doctrine, with all the fanaticism with which men +cling to the theories that justify their passions and legitimate +their personal interests? Did they not call heaven and earth to +witness that the dominion of the white man over the black is natural, +that the black race is by nature incapable of freedom, and marked out +for slavery? some even going so far as to say that the freedom of +manual labourers is an unnatural order of things anywhere. Again, the +theorists of absolute monarchy have always affirmed it to be the only +natural form of government; issuing from the patriarchal, which was +the primitive and spontaneous form of society, framed on the model of +the paternal, which is anterior to society itself, and, as they +contend, the most natural authority of all. Nay, for that matter, the +law of force itself, to those who could not plead any other, has +always seemed the most natural of all grounds for the exercise of +authority. Conquering races hold it to be Nature's own dictate that +the conquered should obey the conquerors, or, as they euphoniously +paraphrase it, that the feebler and more unwarlike races should +submit to the braver and manlier. The smallest acquaintance with +human life in the middle ages, shows how supremely natural the +dominion of the feudal nobility over men of low condition appeared to +the nobility themselves, and how unnatural the conception seemed, of +a person of the inferior class claiming equality with them, or +exercising authority over them. It hardly seemed less so to the class +held in subjection. The emancipated serfs and burgesses, even in +their most vigorous struggles, never made any pretension to a share +of authority; they only demanded more or less of limitation to the +power of tyrannizing over them. So true is it that unnatural +generally means only uncustomary, and that everything which is usual +appears natural. The subjection of women to men being a universal +custom, any departure from it quite naturally appears unnatural. But +how entirely, even in this case, the feeling is dependent on custom, +appears by ample experience. Nothing so much astonishes the people of +distant parts of the world, when they first learn anything about +England, as to be told that it is under a queen: the thing seems to +them so unnatural as to be almost incredible. To Englishmen this does +not seem in the least degree unnatural, because they are used to it; +but they do feel it unnatural that women should be soldiers or +members of parliament. In the feudal ages, on the contrary, war and +politics were not thought unnatural to women, because not unusual; it +seemed natural that women of the privileged classes should be of +manly character, inferior in nothing but bodily strength to their +husbands and fathers. The independence of women seemed rather less +unnatural to the Greeks than to other ancients, on account of the +fabulous Amazons (whom they believed to be historical), and the +partial example afforded by the Spartan women; who, though no less +subordinate by law than in other Greek states, were more free in +fact, and being trained to bodily exercises in the same manner with +men, gave ample proof that they were not naturally disqualified for +them. There can be little doubt that Spartan experience suggested to +Plato, among many other of his doctrines, that of the social and +political equality of the two sexes. + +But, it will be said, the rule of men over women differs from all +these others in not being a rule of force: it is accepted +voluntarily; women make no complaint, and are consenting parties to +it. In the first place, a great number of women do not accept it. +Ever since there have been women able to make their sentiments known +by their writings (the only mode of publicity which society permits +to them), an increasing number of them have recorded protests against +their present social condition: and recently many thousands of them, +headed by the most eminent women known to the public, have petitioned +Parliament for their admission to the Parliamentary Suffrage. The +claim of women to be educated as solidly, and in the same branches of +knowledge, as men, is urged with growing intensity, and with a great +prospect of success; while the demand for their admission into +professions and occupations hitherto closed against them, becomes +every year more urgent. Though there are not in this country, as +there are in the United States, periodical Conventions and an +organized party to agitate for the Rights of Women, there is a +numerous and active Society organized and managed by women, for the +more limited object of obtaining the political franchise. Nor is it +only in our own country and in America that women are beginning to +protest, more or less collectively, against the disabilities under +which they labour. France, and Italy, and Switzerland, and Russia now +afford examples of the same thing. How many more women there are who +silently cherish similar aspirations, no one can possibly know; but +there are abundant tokens how many _would_ cherish them, were they +not so strenuously taught to repress them as contrary to the +proprieties of their sex. It must be remembered, also, that no +enslaved class ever asked for complete liberty at once. When Simon de +Montfort called the deputies of the commons to sit for the first time +in Parliament, did any of them dream of demanding that an assembly, +elected by their constituents, should make and destroy ministries, +and dictate to the king in affairs of state? No such thought entered +into the imagination of the most ambitious of them. The nobility had +already these pretensions; the commons pretended to nothing but to be +exempt from arbitrary taxation, and from the gross individual +oppression of the king's officers. It is a political law of nature +that those who are under any power of ancient origin, never begin by +complaining of the power itself, but only of its oppressive exercise. +There is never any want of women who complain of ill usage by their +husbands. There would be infinitely more, if complaint were not the +greatest of all provocatives to a repetition and increase of the ill +usage. It is this which frustrates all attempts to maintain the power +but protect the woman against its abuses. In no other case (except +that of a child) is the person who has been proved judicially to have +suffered an injury, replaced under the physical power of the culprit +who inflicted it. Accordingly wives, even in the most extreme and +protracted cases of bodily ill usage, hardly ever dare avail +themselves of the laws made for their protection: and if, in a moment +of irrepressible indignation, or by the interference of neighbours, +they are induced to do so, their whole effort afterwards is to +disclose as little as they can, and to beg off their tyrant from his +merited chastisement. + +All causes, social and natural, combine to make it unlikely that +women should be collectively rebellious to the power of men. They are +so far in a position different from all other subject classes, that +their masters require something more from them than actual service. +Men do not want solely the obedience of women, they want their +sentiments. All men, except the most brutish, desire to have, in the +woman most nearly connected with them, not a forced slave but a +willing one, not a slave merely, but a favourite. They have therefore +put everything in practice to enslave their minds. The masters of all +other slaves rely, for maintaining obedience, on fear; either fear of +themselves, or religious fears. The masters of women wanted more than +simple obedience, and they turned the whole force of education to +effect their purpose. All women are brought up from the very earliest +years in the belief that their ideal of character is the very +opposite to that of men; not self-will, and government by +self-control, but submission, and yielding to the control of others. +All the moralities tell them that it is the duty of women, and all +the current sentimentalities that it is their nature, to live for +others; to make complete abnegation of themselves, and to have no +life but in their affections. And by their affections are meant the +only ones they are allowed to have--those to the men with whom they +are connected, or to the children who constitute an additional and +indefeasible tie between them and a man. When we put together three +things--first, the natural attraction between opposite sexes; +secondly, the wife's entire dependence on the husband, every +privilege or pleasure she has being either his gift, or depending +entirely on his will; and lastly, that the principal object of human +pursuit, consideration, and all objects of social ambition, can in +general be sought or obtained by her only through him, it would be a +miracle if the object of being attractive to men had not become the +polar star of feminine education and formation of character. And, +this great means of influence over the minds of women having been +acquired, an instinct of selfishness made men avail themselves of it +to the utmost as a means of holding women in subjection, by +representing to them meekness, submissiveness, and resignation of all +individual will into the hands of a man, as an essential part of +sexual attractiveness. Can it be doubted that any of the other yokes +which mankind have succeeded in breaking, would have subsisted till +now if the same means had existed, and had been as sedulously used, +to bow down their minds to it? If it had been made the object of the +life of every young plebeian to find personal favour in the eyes of +some patrician, of every young serf with some seigneur; if +domestication with him, and a share of his personal affections, had +been held out as the prize which they all should look out for, the +most gifted and aspiring being able to reckon on the most desirable +prizes; and if, when this prize had been obtained, they had been shut +out by a wall of brass from all interests not centering in him, all +feelings and desires but those which he shared or inculcated; would +not serfs and seigneurs, plebeians and patricians, have been as +broadly distinguished at this day as men and women are? and would not +all but a thinker here and there, have believed the distinction to be +a fundamental and unalterable fact in human nature? + +The preceding considerations are amply sufficient to show that +custom, however universal it may be, affords in this case no +presumption, and ought not to create any prejudice, in favour of the +arrangements which place women in social and political subjection to +men. But I may go farther, and maintain that the course of history, +and the tendencies of progressive human society, afford not only no +presumption in favour of this system of inequality of rights, but a +strong one against it; and that, so far as the whole course of human +improvement up to this time, the whole stream of modern tendencies, +warrants any inference on the subject, it is, that this relic of the +past is discordant with the future, and must necessarily disappear. + +For, what is the peculiar character of the modern world--the +difference which chiefly distinguishes modern institutions, modern +social ideas, modern life itself, from those of times long past? It +is, that human beings are no longer born to their place in life, and +chained down by an inexorable bond to the place they are born to, but +are free to employ their faculties, and such favourable chances as +offer, to achieve the lot which may appear to them most desirable. +Human society of old was constituted on a very different principle. +All were born to a fixed social position, and were mostly kept in it +by law, or interdicted from any means by which they could emerge from +it. As some men are born white and others black, so some were born +slaves and others freemen and citizens; some were born patricians, +others plebeians; some were born feudal nobles, others commoners and +_roturiers_. A slave or serf could never make himself free, nor, +except by the will of his master, become so. In most European +countries it was not till towards the close of the middle ages, and +as a consequence of the growth of regal power, that commoners could +be ennobled. Even among nobles, the eldest son was born the exclusive +heir to the paternal possessions, and a long time elapsed before it +was fully established that the father could disinherit him. Among the +industrious classes, only those who were born members of a guild, or +were admitted into it by its members, could lawfully practise their +calling within its local limits; and nobody could practise any +calling deemed important, in any but the legal manner--by processes +authoritatively prescribed. Manufacturers have stood in the pillory +for presuming to carry on their business by new and improved methods. +In modern Europe, and most in those parts of it which have +participated most largely in all other modern improvements, +diametrically opposite doctrines now prevail. Law and government do +not undertake to prescribe by whom any social or industrial operation +shall or shall not be conducted, or what modes of conducting them +shall be lawful. These things are left to the unfettered choice of +individuals. Even the laws which required that workmen should serve +an apprenticeship, have in this country been repealed: there being +ample assurance that in all cases in which an apprenticeship is +necessary, its necessity will suffice to enforce it. The old theory +was, that the least possible should be left to the choice of the +individual agent; that all he had to do should, as far as +practicable, be laid down for him by superior wisdom. Left to himself +he was sure to go wrong. The modern conviction, the fruit of a +thousand years of experience, is, that things in which the individual +is the person directly interested, never go right but as they are +left to his own discretion; and that any regulation of them by +authority, except to protect the rights of others, is sure to be +mischievous. This conclusion, slowly arrived at, and not adopted +until almost every possible application of the contrary theory had +been made with disastrous result, now (in the industrial department) +prevails universally in the most advanced countries, almost +universally in all that have pretensions to any sort of advancement. +It is not that all processes are supposed to be equally good, or all +persons to be equally qualified for everything; but that freedom of +individual choice is now known to be the only thing which procures +the adoption of the best processes, and throws each operation into +the hands of those who are best qualified for it. Nobody thinks it +necessary to make a law that only a strong-armed man shall be a +blacksmith. Freedom and competition suffice to make blacksmiths +strong-armed men, because the weak-armed can earn more by engaging in +occupations for which they are more fit. In consonance with this +doctrine, it is felt to be an overstepping of the proper bounds of +authority to fix beforehand, on some general presumption, that +certain persons are not fit to do certain things. It is now +thoroughly known and admitted that if some such presumptions exist, +no such presumption is infallible. Even if it be well grounded in a +majority of cases, which it is very likely not to be, there will be a +minority of exceptional cases in which it does not hold: and in those +it is both an injustice to the individuals, and a detriment to +society, to place barriers in the way of their using their faculties +for their own benefit and for that of others. In the cases, on the +other hand, in which the unfitness is real, the ordinary motives of +human conduct will on the whole suffice to prevent the incompetent +person from making, or from persisting in, the attempt. + +If this general principle of social and economical science is not +true; if individuals, with such help as they can derive from the +opinion of those who know them, are not better judges than the law +and the government, of their own capacities and vocation; the world +cannot too soon abandon this principle, and return to the old system +of regulations and disabilities. But if the principle is true, we +ought to act as if we believed it, and not to ordain that to be born +a girl instead of a boy, any more than to be born black instead of +white, or a commoner instead of a nobleman, shall decide the person's +position through all life--shall interdict people from all the more +elevated social positions, and from all, except a few, respectable +occupations. Even were we to admit the utmost that is ever pretended +as to the superior fitness of men for all the functions now reserved +to them, the same argument applies which forbids a legal +qualification for members of Parliament. If only once in a dozen +years the conditions of eligibility exclude a fit person, there is a +real loss, while the exclusion of thousands of unfit persons is no +gain; for if the constitution of the electoral body disposes them to +choose unfit persons, there are always plenty of such persons to +choose from. In all things of any difficulty and importance, those +who can do them well are fewer than the need, even with the most +unrestricted latitude of choice: and any limitation of the field of +selection deprives society of some chances of being served by the +competent, without ever saving it from the incompetent. + +At present, in the more improved countries, the disabilities of women +are the only case, save one, in which laws and institutions take +persons at their birth, and ordain that they shall never in all their +lives be allowed to compete for certain things. The one exception is +that of royalty. Persons still are born to the throne; no one, not of +the reigning family, can ever occupy it, and no one even of that +family can, by any means but the course of hereditary succession, +attain it. All other dignities and social advantages are open to the +whole male sex: many indeed are only attainable by wealth, but wealth +may be striven for by any one, and is actually obtained by many men +of the very humblest origin. The difficulties, to the majority, are +indeed insuperable without the aid of fortunate accidents; but no +male human being is under any legal ban: neither law nor opinion +superadd artificial obstacles to the natural ones. Royalty, as I have +said, is excepted: but in this case every one feels it to be an +exception--an anomaly in the modern world, in marked opposition to +its customs and principles, and to be justified only by extraordinary +special expediencies, which, though individuals and nations differ in +estimating their weight, unquestionably do in fact exist. But in this +exceptional case, in which a high social function is, for important +reasons, bestowed on birth instead of being put up to competition, +all free nations contrive to adhere in substance to the principle +from which they nominally derogate; for they circumscribe this high +function by conditions avowedly intended to prevent the person to +whom it ostensibly belongs from really performing it; while the +person by whom it is performed, the responsible minister, does obtain +the post by a competition from which no full-grown citizen of the +male sex is legally excluded. The disabilities, therefore, to which +women are subject from the mere fact of their birth, are the solitary +examples of the kind in modern legislation. In no instance except +this, which comprehends half the human race, are the higher social +functions closed against any one by a fatality of birth which no +exertions, and no change of circumstances, can overcome; for even +religious disabilities (besides that in England and in Europe they +have practically almost ceased to exist) do not close any career to +the disqualified person in case of conversion. + +The social subordination of women thus stands out an isolated fact in +modern social institutions; a solitary breach of what has become +their fundamental law; a single relic of an old world of thought and +practice exploded in everything else, but retained in the one thing +of most universal interest; as if a gigantic dolmen, or a vast temple +of Jupiter Olympius, occupied the site of St. Paul's and received +daily worship, while the surrounding Christian churches were only +resorted to on fasts and festivals. This entire discrepancy between +one social fact and all those which accompany it, and the radical +opposition between its nature and the progressive movement which is +the boast of the modern world, and which has successively swept away +everything else of an analogous character, surely affords, to a +conscientious observer of human tendencies, serious matter for +reflection. It raises a prima facie presumption on the unfavourable +side, far outweighing any which custom and usage could in such +circumstances create on the favourable; and should at least suffice +to make this, like the choice between republicanism and royalty, a +balanced question. + +The least that can be demanded is, that the question should not be +considered as prejudged by existing fact and existing opinion, but +open to discussion on its merits, as a question of justice and +expediency: the decision on this, as on any of the other social +arrangements of mankind, depending on what an enlightened estimate of +tendencies and consequences may show to be most advantageous to +humanity in general, without distinction of sex. And the discussion +must be a real discussion, descending to foundations, and not resting +satisfied with vague and general assertions. It will not do, for +instance, to assert in general terms, that the experience of mankind +has pronounced in favour of the existing system. Experience cannot +possibly have decided between two courses, so long as there has only +been experience of one. If it be said that the doctrine of the +equality of the sexes rests only on theory, it must be remembered +that the contrary doctrine also has only theory to rest upon. All +that is proved in its favour by direct experience, is that mankind +have been able to exist under it, and to attain the degree of +improvement and prosperity which we now see; but whether that +prosperity has been attained sooner, or is now greater, than it would +have been under the other system, experience does not say. On the +other hand, experience does say, that every step in improvement has +been so invariably accompanied by a step made in raising the social +position of women, that historians and philosophers have been led to +adopt their elevation or debasement as on the whole the surest test +and most correct measure of the civilization of a people or an age. +Through all the progressive period of human history, the condition of +women has been approaching nearer to equality with men. This does not +of itself prove that the assimilation must go on to complete +equality; but it assuredly affords some presumption that such is the +case. + +Neither does it avail anything to say that the _nature_ of the two +sexes adapts them to their present functions and position, and +renders these appropriate to them. Standing on the ground of common +sense and the constitution of the human mind, I deny that any one +knows, or can know, the nature of the two sexes, as long as they have +only been seen in their present relation to one another. If men had +ever been found in society without women, or women without men, or if +there had been a society of men and women in which the women were not +under the control of the men, something might have been positively +known about the mental and moral differences which may be inherent in +the nature of each. What is now called the nature of women is an +eminently artificial thing--the result of forced repression in some +directions, unnatural stimulation in others. It may be asserted +without scruple, that no other class of dependents have had their +character so entirely distorted from its natural proportions by their +relation with their masters; for, if conquered and slave races have +been, in some respects, more forcibly repressed, whatever in them has +not been crushed down by an iron heel has generally been let alone, +and if left with any liberty of development, it has developed itself +according to its own laws; but in the case of women, a hot-house and +stove cultivation has always been carried on of some of the +capabilities of their nature, for the benefit and pleasure of their +masters. Then, because certain products of the general vital force +sprout luxuriantly and reach a great development in this heated +atmosphere and under this active nurture and watering, while other +shoots from the same root, which are left outside in the wintry air, +with ice purposely heaped all round them, have a stunted growth, and +some are burnt off with fire and disappear; men, with that inability +to recognise their own work which distinguishes the unanalytic mind, +indolently believe that the tree grows of itself in the way they have +made it grow, and that it would die if one half of it were not kept +in a vapour bath and the other half in the snow. + +Of all difficulties which impede the progress of thought, and the +formation of well-grounded opinions on life and social arrangements, +the greatest is now the unspeakable ignorance and inattention of +mankind in respect to the influences which form human character. +Whatever any portion of the human species now are, or seem to be, +such, it is supposed, they have a natural tendency to be: even when +the most elementary knowledge of the circumstances in which they have +been placed, clearly points out the causes that made them what they +are. Because a cottier deeply in arrears to his landlord is not +industrious, there are people who think that the Irish are naturally +idle. Because constitutions can be overthrown when the authorities +appointed to execute them turn their arms against them, there are +people who think the French incapable of free government. Because the +Greeks cheated the Turks, and the Turks only plundered the Greeks, +there are persons who think that the Turks are naturally more +sincere: and because women, as is often said, care nothing about +politics except their personalities, it is supposed that the general +good is naturally less interesting to women than to men. History, +which is now so much better understood than formerly, teaches another +lesson: if only by showing the extraordinary susceptibility of human +nature to external influences, and the extreme variableness of those +of its manifestations which are supposed to be most universal and +uniform. But in history, as in travelling, men usually see only what +they already had in their own minds; and few learn much from history, +who do not bring much with them to its study. + +Hence, in regard to that most difficult question, what are the +natural differences between the two sexes--a subject on which it is +impossible in the present state of society to obtain complete and +correct knowledge--while almost everybody dogmatizes upon it, almost +all neglect and make light of the only means by which any partial +insight can be obtained into it. This is, an analytic study of the +most important department of psychology, the laws of the influence of +circumstances on character. For, however great and apparently +ineradicable the moral and intellectual differences between men and +women might be, the evidence of their being natural differences could +only be negative. Those only could be inferred to be natural which +could not possibly be artificial--the residuum, after deducting every +characteristic of either sex which can admit of being explained from +education or external circumstances. The profoundest knowledge of the +laws of the formation of character is indispensable to entitle any +one to affirm even that there is any difference, much more what the +difference is, between the two sexes considered as moral and rational +beings; and since no one, as yet, has that knowledge, (for there is +hardly any subject which, in proportion to its importance, has been +so little studied), no one is thus far entitled to any positive +opinion on the subject. Conjectures are all that can at present be +made; conjectures more or less probable, according as more or less +authorized by such knowledge as we yet have of the laws of +psychology, as applied to the formation of character. + +Even the preliminary knowledge, what the differences between the +sexes now are, apart from all question as to how they are made what +they are, is still in the crudest and most incomplete state. Medical +practitioners and physiologists have ascertained, to some extent, the +differences in bodily constitution; and this is an important element +to the psychologist: but hardly any medical practitioner is a +psychologist. Respecting the mental characteristics of women; their +observations are of no more worth than those of common men. It is a +subject on which nothing final can be known, so long as those who +alone can really know it, women themselves, have given but little +testimony, and that little, mostly suborned. It is easy to know +stupid women. Stupidity is much the same all the world over. A stupid +person's notions and feelings may confidently be inferred from those +which prevail in the circle by which the person is surrounded. Not so +with those whose opinions and feelings are an emanation from their +own nature and faculties. It is only a man here and there who has any +tolerable knowledge of the character even of the women of his own +family. I do not mean, of their capabilities; these nobody knows, not +even themselves, because most of them have never been called out. I +mean their actually existing thoughts and feelings. Many a man thinks +he perfectly understands women, because he has had amatory relations +with several, perhaps with many of them. If he is a good observer, +and his experience extends to quality as well as quantity, he may +have learnt something of one narrow department of their nature--an +important department, no doubt. But of all the rest of it, few +persons are generally more ignorant, because there are few from whom +it is so carefully hidden. The most favourable case which a man can +generally have for studying the character of a woman, is that of his +own wife: for the opportunities are greater, and the cases of +complete sympathy not so unspeakably rare. And in fact, this is the +source from which any knowledge worth having on the subject has, I +believe, generally come. But most men have not had the opportunity of +studying in this way more than a single case: accordingly one can, to +an almost laughable degree, infer what a man's wife is like, from his +opinions about women in general. To make even this one case yield any +result, the woman must be worth knowing, and the man not only a +competent judge, but of a character so sympathetic in itself, and so +well adapted to hers, that he can either read her mind by sympathetic +intuition, or has nothing in himself which makes her shy of +disclosing it. Hardly anything, I believe, can be more rare than this +conjunction. It often happens that there is the most complete unity +of feeling and community of interests as to all external things, yet +the one has as little admission into the internal life of the other +as if they were common acquaintance. Even with true affection, +authority on the one side and subordination on the other prevent +perfect confidence. Though nothing may be intentionally withheld, +much is not shown. In the analogous relation of parent and child, the +corresponding phenomenon must have been in the observation of every +one. As between father and son, how many are the cases in which the +father, in spite of real affection on both sides, obviously to all +the world does not know, nor suspect, parts of the son's character +familiar to his companions and equals. The truth is, that the +position of looking up to another is extremely unpropitious to +complete sincerity and openness with him. The fear of losing ground +in his opinion or in his feelings is so strong, that even in an +upright character, there is an unconscious tendency to show only the +best side, or the side which, though not the best, is that which he +most likes to see: and it may be confidently said that thorough +knowledge of one another hardly ever exists, but between persons who, +besides being intimates, are equals. How much more true, then, must +all this be, when the one is not only under the authority of the +other, but has it inculcated on her as a duty to reckon everything +else subordinate to his comfort and pleasure, and to let him neither +see nor feel anything coming from her, except what is agreeable to +him. All these difficulties stand in the way of a man's obtaining any +thorough knowledge even of the one woman whom alone, in general, he +has sufficient opportunity of studying. When we further consider that +to understand one woman is not necessarily to understand any other +woman; that even if he could study many women of one rank, or of one +country, he would not thereby understand women of other ranks or +countries; and even if he did, they are still only the women of a +single period of history; we may safely assert that the knowledge +which men can acquire of women, even as they have been and are, +without reference to what they might be, is wretchedly imperfect and +superficial, and always will be so, until women themselves have told +all that they have to tell. + +And this time has not come; nor will it come otherwise than +gradually. It is but of yesterday that women have either been +qualified by literary accomplishments, or permitted by society, to +tell anything to the general public. As yet very few of them dare +tell anything, which men, on whom their literary success depends, are +unwilling to hear. Let us remember in what manner, up to a very +recent time, the expression, even by a male author, of uncustomary +opinions, or what are deemed eccentric feelings, usually was, and in +some degree still is, received; and we may form some faint conception +under what impediments a woman, who is brought up to think custom and +opinion her sovereign rule, attempts to express in books anything +drawn from the depths of her own nature. The greatest woman who has +left writings behind her sufficient to give her an eminent rank in +the literature of her country, thought it necessary to prefix as a +motto to her boldest work, "Un homme peut braver l'opinion; une femme +doit s'y soumettre."[1] The greater part of what women write about +women is mere sycophancy to men. In the case of unmarried women, much +of it seems only intended to increase their chance of a husband. +Many, both married and unmarried, overstep the mark, and inculcate a +servility beyond what is desired or relished by any man, except the +very vulgarest. But this is not so often the case as, even at a quite +late period, it still was. Literary women are becoming more +freespoken, and more willing to express their real sentiments. +Unfortunately, in this country especially, they are themselves such +artificial products, that their sentiments are compounded of a small +element of individual observation and consciousness, and a very large +one of acquired associations. This will be less and less the case, +but it will remain true to a great extent, as long as social +institutions do not admit the same free development of originality in +women which is possible to men. When that time comes, and not before, +we shall see, and not merely hear, as much as it is necessary to know +of the nature of women, and the adaptation of other things to it. + +I have dwelt so much on the difficulties which at present obstruct +any real knowledge by men of the true nature of women, because in +this as in so many other things "opinio copiae inter maximas causas +inopiae est;" and there is little chance of reasonable thinking on the +matter, while people flatter themselves that they perfectly +understand a subject of which most men know absolutely nothing, and +of which it is at present impossible that any man, or all men taken +together, should have knowledge which can qualify them to lay down +the law to women as to what is, or is not, their vocation. Happily, +no such knowledge is necessary for any practical purpose connected +with the position of women in relation to society and life. For, +according to all the principles involved in modern society, the +question rests with women themselves--to be decided by their own +experience, and by the use of their own faculties. There are no means +of finding what either one person or many can do, but by trying--and +no means by which any one else can discover for them what it is for +their happiness to do or leave undone. + +One thing we may be certain of--that what is contrary to women's +nature to do, they never will be made to do by simply giving their +nature free play. The anxiety of mankind to interfere in behalf of +nature, for fear lest nature should not succeed in effecting its +purpose, is an altogether unnecessary solicitude. What women by +nature cannot do, it is quite superfluous to forbid them from doing. +What they can do, but not so well as the men who are their +competitors, competition suffices to exclude them from; since nobody +asks for protective duties and bounties in favour of women; it is +only asked that the present bounties and protective duties in favour +of men should be recalled. If women have a greater natural +inclination for some things than for others, there is no need of laws +or social inculcation to make the majority of them do the former in +preference to the latter. Whatever women's services are most wanted +for, the free play of competition will hold out the strongest +inducements to them to undertake. And, as the words imply, they are +most wanted for the things for which they are most fit; by the +apportionment of which to them, the collective faculties of the two +sexes can be applied on the whole with the greatest sum of valuable +result. + +The general opinion of men is supposed to be, that the natural +vocation of a woman is that of a wife and mother. I say, is supposed +to be, because, judging from acts--from the whole of the present +constitution of society--one might infer that their opinion was the +direct contrary. They might be supposed to think that the alleged +natural vocation of women was of all things the most repugnant to +their nature; insomuch that if they are free to do anything else--if +any other means of living, or occupation of their time and faculties, +is open, which has any chance of appearing desirable to them--there +will not be enough of them who will be willing to accept the +condition said to be natural to them. If this is the real opinion of +men in general, it would be well that it should be spoken out. I +should like to hear somebody openly enunciating the doctrine (it is +already implied in much that is written on the subject)--"It is +necessary to society that women should marry and produce children. +They will not do so unless they are compelled. Therefore it is +necessary to compel them." The merits of the case would then be +clearly defined. It would be exactly that of the slaveholders of +South Carolina and Louisiana. "It is necessary that cotton and sugar +should be grown. White men cannot produce them. Negroes will not, for +any wages which we choose to give. _Ergo_ they must be compelled." An +illustration still closer to the point is that of impressment. +Sailors must absolutely be had to defend the country. It often +happens that they will not voluntarily enlist. Therefore there must +be the power of forcing them. How often has this logic been used! +and, but for one flaw in it, without doubt it would have been +successful up to this day. But it is open to the retort--First pay +the sailors the honest value of their labour. When you have made it +as well worth their while to serve you, as to work for other +employers, you will have no more difficulty than others have in +obtaining their services. To this there is no logical answer except +"I will not:" and as people are now not only ashamed, but are not +desirous, to rob the labourer of his hire, impressment is no longer +advocated. Those who attempt to force women into marriage by closing +all other doors against them, lay themselves open to a similar +retort. If they mean what they say, their opinion must evidently be, +that men do not render the married condition so desirable to women, +as to induce them to accept it for its own recommendations. It is not +a sign of one's thinking the boon one offers very attractive, when +one allows only Hobson's choice, "that or none." And here, I believe, +is the clue to the feelings of those men, who have a real antipathy +to the equal freedom of women. I believe they are afraid, not lest +women should be unwilling to marry, for I do not think that any one +in reality has that apprehension; but lest they should insist that +marriage should be on equal conditions; lest all women of spirit and +capacity should prefer doing almost anything else, not in their own +eyes degrading, rather than marry, when marrying is giving themselves +a master, and a master too of all their earthly possessions. And +truly, if this consequence were necessarily incident to marriage, I +think that the apprehension would be very well founded. I agree in +thinking it probable that few women, capable of anything else, would, +unless under an irresistible _entrainement_, rendering them for the +time insensible to anything but itself, choose such a lot, when any +other means were open to them of filling a conventionally honourable +place in life: and if men are determined that the law of marriage +shall be a law of despotism, they are quite right, in point of mere +policy, in leaving to women only Hobson's choice. But, in that case, +all that has been done in the modern world to relax the chain on the +minds of women, has been a mistake. They never should have been +allowed to receive a literary education. Women who read, much more +women who write, are, in the existing constitution of things, a +contradiction and a disturbing element: and it was wrong to bring +women up with any acquirements but those of an odalisque, or of a +domestic servant. + +[Footnote 1: Title-page of Mme. de Stael's "Delphine."] + + + + +CHAPTER II. + + +It will be well to commence the detailed discussion of the subject by +the particular branch of it to which the course of our observations +has led us: the conditions which the laws of this and all other +countries annex to the marriage contract. Marriage being the +destination appointed by society for women, the prospect they are +brought up to, and the object which it is intended should be sought +by all of them, except those who are too little attractive to be +chosen by any man as his companion; one might have supposed that +everything would have been done to make this condition as eligible to +them as possible, that they might have no cause to regret being +denied the option of any other. Society, however, both in this, and, +at first, in all other cases, has preferred to attain its object by +foul rather than fair means: but this is the only case in which it +has substantially persisted in them even to the present day. +Originally women were taken by force, or regularly sold by their +father to the husband. Until a late period in European history, the +father had the power to dispose of his daughter in marriage at his +own will and pleasure, without any regard to hers. The Church, +indeed, was so far faithful to a better morality as to require a +formal "yes" from the woman at the marriage ceremony; but there was +nothing to shew that the consent was other than compulsory; and it +was practically impossible for the girl to refuse compliance if the +father persevered, except perhaps when she might obtain the +protection of religion by a determined resolution to take monastic +vows. After marriage, the man had anciently (but this was anterior to +Christianity) the power of life and death over his wife. She could +invoke no law against him; he was her sole tribunal and law. For a +long time he could repudiate her, but she had no corresponding power +in regard to him. By the old laws of England, the husband was called +the _lord_ of the wife; he was literally regarded as her sovereign, +inasmuch that the murder of a man by his wife was called treason +(_petty_ as distinguished from _high_ treason), and was more cruelly +avenged than was usually the case with high treason, for the penalty +was burning to death. Because these various enormities have fallen +into disuse (for most of them were never formally abolished, or not +until they had long ceased to be practised) men suppose that all is +now as it should be in regard to the marriage contract; and we are +continually told that civilization and Christianity have restored to +the woman her just rights. Meanwhile the wife is the actual +bond-servant of her husband: no less so, as far as legal obligation +goes, than slaves commonly so called. She vows a lifelong obedience +to him at the altar, and is held to it all through her life by law. +Casuists may say that the obligation of obedience stops short of +participation in crime, but it certainly extends to everything else. +She can do no act whatever but by his permission, at least tacit. She +can acquire no property but for him; the instant it becomes hers, +even if by inheritance, it becomes _ipso facto_ his. In this respect +the wife's position under the common law of England is worse than +that of slaves in the laws of many countries: by the Roman law, for +example, a slave might have his peculium, which to a certain extent +the law guaranteed to him for his exclusive use. The higher classes +in this country have given an analogous advantage to their women, +through special contracts setting aside the law, by conditions of +pin-money, &c.: since parental feeling being stronger with fathers +than the class feeling of their own sex, a father generally prefers +his own daughter to a son-in-law who is a stranger to him. By means +of settlements, the rich usually contrive to withdraw the whole or +part of the inherited property of the wife from the absolute control +of the husband: but they do not succeed in keeping it under her own +control; the utmost they can do only prevents the husband from +squandering it, at the same time debarring the rightful owner from +its use. The property itself is out of the reach of both; and as to +the income derived from it, the form of settlement most favourable to +the wife (that called "to her separate use") only precludes the +husband from receiving it instead of her: it must pass through her +hands, but if he takes it from her by personal violence as soon as +she receives it, he can neither be punished, nor compelled to +restitution. This is the amount of the protection which, under the +laws of this country, the most powerful nobleman can give to his own +daughter as respects her husband. In the immense majority of cases +there is no settlement: and the absorption of all rights, all +property, as well as all freedom of action, is complete. The two are +called "one person in law," for the purpose of inferring that +whatever is hers is his, but the parallel inference is never drawn +that whatever is his is hers; the maxim is not applied against the +man, except to make him responsible to third parties for her acts, as +a master is for the acts of his slaves or of his cattle. I am far +from pretending that wives are in general no better treated than +slaves; but no slave is a slave to the same lengths, and in so full a +sense of the word, as a wife is. Hardly any slave, except one +immediately attached to the master's person, is a slave at all hours +and all minutes; in general he has, like a soldier, his fixed task, +and when it is done, or when he is off duty, he disposes, within +certain limits, of his own time, and has a family life into which the +master rarely intrudes. "Uncle Tom" under his first master had his +own life in his "cabin," almost as much as any man whose work takes +him away from home, is able to have in his own family. But it cannot +be so with the wife. Above all, a female slave has (in Christian +countries) an admitted right, and is considered under a moral +obligation, to refuse to her master the last familiarity. Not so the +wife: however brutal a tyrant she may unfortunately be chained +to--though she may know that he hates her, though it may be his daily +pleasure to torture her, and though she may feel it impossible not to +loathe him--he can claim from her and enforce the lowest degradation +of a human being, that of being made the instrument of an animal +function contrary to her inclinations. While she is held in this +worst description of slavery as to her own person, what is her +position in regard to the children in whom she and her master have a +joint interest? They are by law _his_ children. He alone has any +legal rights over them. Not one act can she do towards or in relation +to them, except by delegation from him. Even after he is dead she is +not their legal guardian, unless he by will has made her so. He could +even send them away from her, and deprive her of the means of seeing +or corresponding with them, until this power was in some degree +restricted by Serjeant Talfourd's Act. This is her legal state. And +from this state she has no means of withdrawing herself. If she +leaves her husband, she can take nothing with her, neither her +children nor anything which is rightfully her own. If he chooses, he +can compel her to return, by law, or by physical force; or he may +content himself with seizing for his own use anything which she may +earn, or which may be given to her by her relations. It is only legal +separation by a decree of a court of justice, which entitles her to +live apart, without being forced back into the custody of an +exasperated jailer--or which empowers her to apply any earnings to +her own use, without fear that a man whom perhaps she has not seen +for twenty years will pounce upon her some day and carry all off. +This legal separation, until lately, the courts of justice would only +give at an expense which made it inaccessible to any one out of the +higher ranks. Even now it is only given in cases of desertion, or of +the extreme of cruelty; and yet complaints are made every day that it +is granted too easily. Surely, if a woman is denied any lot in life +but that of being the personal body-servant of a despot, and is +dependent for everything upon the chance of finding one who may be +disposed to make a favourite of her instead of merely a drudge, it is +a very cruel aggravation of her fate that she should be allowed to +try this chance only once. The natural sequel and corollary from this +state of things would be, that since her all in life depends upon +obtaining a good master, she should be allowed to change again and +again until she finds one. I am not saying that she ought to be +allowed this privilege. That is a totally different consideration. +The question of divorce, in the sense involving liberty of +remarriage, is one into which it is foreign to my purpose to enter. +All I now say is, that to those to whom nothing but servitude is +allowed, the free choice of servitude is the only, though a most +insufficient, alleviation. Its refusal completes the assimilation of +the wife to the slave--and the slave under not the mildest form of +slavery: for in some slave codes the slave could, under certain +circumstances of ill usage, legally compel the master to sell him. +But no amount of ill usage, without adultery superadded, will in +England free a wife from her tormentor. + +I have no desire to exaggerate, nor does the case stand in any need +of exaggeration. I have described the wife's legal position, not her +actual treatment. The laws of most countries are far worse than the +people who execute them, and many of them are only able to remain +laws by being seldom or never carried into effect. If married life +were all that it might be expected to be, looking to the laws alone, +society would be a hell upon earth. Happily there are both feelings +and interests which in many men exclude, and in most, greatly temper, +the impulses and propensities which lead to tyranny: and of those +feelings, the tie which connects a man with his wife affords, in a +normal state of things, incomparably the strongest example. The only +tie which at all approaches to it, that between him and his children, +tends, in all save exceptional cases, to strengthen, instead of +conflicting with, the first. Because this is true; because men in +general do not inflict, nor women suffer, all the misery which could +be inflicted and suffered if the full power of tyranny with which the +man is legally invested were acted on; the defenders of the existing +form of the institution think that all its iniquity is justified, and +that any complaint is merely quarrelling with the evil which is the +price paid for every great good. But the mitigations in practice, +which are compatible with maintaining in full legal force this or any +other kind of tyranny, instead of being any apology for despotism, +only serve to prove what power human nature possesses of reacting +against the vilest institutions, and with what vitality the seeds of +good as well as those of evil in human character diffuse and +propagate themselves. Not a word can be said for despotism in the +family which cannot be said for political despotism. Every absolute +king does not sit at his window to enjoy the groans of his tortured +subjects, nor strips them of their last rag and turns them out to +shiver in the road. The despotism of Louis XVI. was not the despotism +of Philippe le Bel, or of Nadir Shah, or of Caligula; but it was bad +enough to justify the French Revolution, and to palliate even its +horrors. If an appeal be made to the intense attachments which exist +between wives and their husbands, exactly as much may be said of +domestic slavery. It was quite an ordinary fact in Greece and Rome +for slaves to submit to death by torture rather than betray their +masters. In the proscriptions of the Roman civil wars it was remarked +that wives and slaves were heroically faithful, sons very commonly +treacherous. Yet we know how cruelly many Romans treated their +slaves. But in truth these intense individual feelings nowhere rise +to such a luxuriant height as under the most atrocious institutions. +It is part of the irony of life, that the strongest feelings of +devoted gratitude of which human nature seems to be susceptible, are +called forth in human beings towards those who, having the power +entirely to crush their earthly existence, voluntarily refrain from +using that power. How great a place in most men this sentiment fills, +even in religious devotion, it would be cruel to inquire. We daily +see how much their gratitude to Heaven appears to be stimulated by +the contemplation of fellow-creatures to whom God has not been so +merciful as he has to themselves. + +Whether the institution to be defended is slavery, political +absolutism, or the absolutism of the head of a family, we are always +expected to judge of it from its best instances; and we are presented +with pictures of loving exercise of authority on one side, loving +submission to it on the other--superior wisdom ordering all things +for the greatest good of the dependents, and surrounded by their +smiles and benedictions. All this would be very much to the purpose +if any one pretended that there are no such things as good men. Who +doubts that there may be great goodness, and great happiness, and +great affection, under the absolute government of a good man? +Meanwhile, laws and institutions require to be adapted, not to good +men, but to bad. Marriage is not an institution designed for a select +few. Men are not required, as a preliminary to the marriage ceremony, +to prove by testimonials that they are fit to be trusted with the +exercise of absolute power. The tie of affection and obligation to a +wife and children is very strong with those whose general social +feelings are strong, and with many who are little sensible to any +other social ties; but there are all degrees of sensibility and +insensibility to it, as there are all grades of goodness and +wickedness in men, down to those whom no ties will bind, and on whom +society has no action but through its _ultima ratio_, the penalties +of the law. In every grade of this descending scale are men to whom +are committed all the legal powers of a husband. The vilest +malefactor has some wretched woman tied to him, against whom he can +commit any atrocity except killing her, and, if tolerably cautious, +can do that without much danger of the legal penalty. And how many +thousands are there among the lowest classes in every country, who, +without being in a legal sense malefactors in any other respect, +because in every other quarter their aggressions meet with +resistance, indulge the utmost habitual excesses of bodily violence +towards the unhappy wife, who alone, at least of grown persons, can +neither repel nor escape from their brutality; and towards whom the +excess of dependence inspires their mean and savage natures, not with +a generous forbearance, and a point of honour to behave well to one +whose lot in life is trusted entirely to their kindness, but on the +contrary with a notion that the law has delivered her to them as +their thing, to be used at their pleasure, and that they are not +expected to practise the consideration towards her which is required +from them towards everybody else. The law, which till lately left +even these atrocious extremes of domestic oppression practically +unpunished, has within these few years made some feeble attempts to +repress them. But its attempts have done little, and cannot be +expected to do much, because it is contrary to reason and experience +to suppose that there can be any real check to brutality, consistent +with leaving the victim still in the power of the executioner. Until +a conviction for personal violence, or at all events a repetition of +it after a first conviction, entitles the woman _ipso facto_ to a +divorce, or at least to a judicial separation, the attempt to repress +these "aggravated assaults" by legal penalties will break down for +want of a prosecutor, or for want of a witness. + +When we consider how vast is the number of men, in any great country, +who are little higher than brutes, and that this never prevents them +from being able, through the law of marriage, to obtain a victim, the +breadth and depth of human misery caused in this shape alone by the +abuse of the institution swells to something appalling. Yet these are +only the extreme cases. They are the lowest abysses, but there is a +sad succession of depth after depth before reaching them. In domestic +as in political tyranny, the case of absolute monsters chiefly +illustrates the institution by showing that there is scarcely any +horror which may not occur under it if the despot pleases, and thus +setting in a strong light what must be the terrible frequency of +things only a little less atrocious. Absolute fiends are as rare as +angels, perhaps rarer: ferocious savages, with occasional touches of +humanity, are however very frequent: and in the wide interval which +separates these from any worthy representatives of the human species, +how many are the forms and gradations of animalism and selfishness, +often under an outward varnish of civilization and even cultivation, +living at peace with the law, maintaining a creditable appearance to +all who are not under their power, yet sufficient often to make the +lives of all who are so, a torment and a burthen to them! It would be +tiresome to repeat the commonplaces about the unfitness of men in +general for power, which, after the political discussions of +centuries, every one knows by heart, were it not that hardly any one +thinks of applying these maxims to the case in which above all others +they are applicable, that of power, not placed in the hands of a man +here and there, but offered to every adult male, down to the basest +and most ferocious. It is not because a man is not known to have +broken any of the Ten Commandments, or because he maintains a +respectable character in his dealings with those whom he cannot +compel to have intercourse with him, or because he does not fly out +into violent bursts of ill-temper against those who are not obliged +to bear with him, that it is possible to surmise of what sort his +conduct will be in the unrestraint of home. Even the commonest men +reserve the violent, the sulky, the undisguisedly selfish side of +their character for those who have no power to withstand it. The +relation of superiors to dependents is the nursery of these vices of +character, which, wherever else they exist, are an overflowing from +that source. A man who is morose or violent to his equals, is sure to +be one who has lived among inferiors, whom he could frighten or worry +into submission. If the family in its best forms is, as it is often +said to be, a school of sympathy, tenderness, and loving +forgetfulness of self, it is still oftener, as respects its chief, a +school of wilfulness, overbearingness, unbounded self-indulgence, and +a double-dyed and idealized selfishness, of which sacrifice itself is +only a particular form: the care for the wife and children being only +care for them as parts of the man's own interests and belongings, and +their individual happiness being immolated in every shape to his +smallest preferences. What better is to be looked for under the +existing form of the institution? We know that the bad propensities +of human nature are only kept within bounds when they are allowed no +scope for their indulgence. We know that from impulse and habit, when +not from deliberate purpose, almost every one to whom others yield, +goes on encroaching upon them, until a point is reached at which they +are compelled to resist. Such being the common tendency of human +nature; the almost unlimited power which present social institutions +give to the man over at least one human being--the one with whom he +resides, and whom he has always present--this power seeks out and +evokes the latent germs of selfishness in the remotest corners of his +nature--fans its faintest sparks and smouldering embers--offers to +him a license for the indulgence of those points of his original +character which in all other relations he would have found it +necessary to repress and conceal, and the repression of which would +in time have become a second nature. I know that there is another +side to the question. I grant that the wife, if she cannot +effectually resist, can at least retaliate; she, too, can make the +man's life extremely uncomfortable, and by that power is able to +carry many points which she ought, and many which she ought not, to +prevail in. But this instrument of self-protection--which may be +called the power of the scold, or the shrewish sanction--has the +fatal defect, that it avails most against the least tyrannical +superiors, and in favour of the least deserving dependents. It is the +weapon of irritable and self-willed women; of those who would make +the worst use of power if they themselves had it, and who generally +turn this power to a bad use. The amiable cannot use such an +instrument, the highminded disdain it. And on the other hand, the +husbands against whom it is used most effectively are the gentler and +more inoffensive; those who cannot be induced, even by provocation, +to resort to any very harsh exercise of authority. The wife's power +of being disagreeable generally only establishes a counter-tyranny, +and makes victims in their turn chiefly of those husbands who are +least inclined to be tyrants. + +What is it, then, which really tempers the corrupting effects of the +power, and makes it compatible with such amount of good as we +actually see? Mere feminine blandishments, though of great effect in +individual instances, have very little effect in modifying the +general tendencies of the situation; for their power only lasts while +the woman is young and attractive, often only while her charm is new, +and not dimmed by familiarity; and on many men they have not much +influence at any time. The real mitigating causes are, the personal +affection which is the growth of time, in so far as the man's nature +is susceptible of it, and the woman's character sufficiently +congenial with his to excite it; their common interests as regards +the children, and their general community of interest as concerns +third persons (to which however there are very great limitations); +the real importance of the wife to his daily comforts and enjoyments, +and the value he consequently attaches to her on his personal +account, which, in a man capable of feeling for others, lays the +foundation of caring for her on her own; and lastly, the influence +naturally acquired over almost all human beings by those near to +their persons (if not actually disagreeable to them): who, both by +their direct entreaties, and by the insensible contagion of their +feelings and dispositions, are often able, unless counteracted by +some equally strong personal influence, to obtain a degree of command +over the conduct of the superior, altogether excessive and +unreasonable. Through these various means, the wife frequently +exercises even too much power over the man; she is able to affect his +conduct in things in which she may not be qualified to influence it +for good--in which her influence may be not only unenlightened, but +employed on the morally wrong side; and in which he would act better +if left to his own prompting. But neither in the affairs of families +nor in those of states is power a compensation for the loss of +freedom. Her power often gives her what she has no right to, but does +not enable her to assert her own rights. A Sultan's favourite slave +has slaves under her, over whom she tyrannizes; but the desirable +thing would be that she should neither have slaves nor be a slave. By +entirely sinking her own existence in her husband; by having no will +(or persuading him that she has no will) but his, in anything which +regards their joint relation, and by making it the business of her +life to work upon his sentiments, a wife may gratify herself by +influencing, and very probably perverting, his conduct, in those of +his external relations which she has never qualified herself to judge +of, or in which she is herself wholly influenced by some personal or +other partiality or prejudice. Accordingly, as things now are, those +who act most kindly to their wives, are quite as often made worse, as +better, by the wife's influence, in respect to all interests +extending beyond the family. She is taught that she has no business +with things out of that sphere; and accordingly she seldom has any +honest and conscientious opinion on them; and therefore hardly ever +meddles with them for any legitimate purpose, but generally for an +interested one. She neither knows nor cares which is the right side +in politics, but she knows what will bring in money or invitations, +give her husband a title, her son a place, or her daughter a good +marriage. + +But how, it will be asked, can any society exist without government? +In a family, as in a state, some one person must be the ultimate +ruler. Who shall decide when married people differ in opinion? Both +cannot have their way, yet a decision one way or the other must be +come to. + +It is not true that in all voluntary association between two people, +one of them must be absolute master: still less that the law must +determine which of them it shall be. The most frequent case of +voluntary association, next to marriage, is partnership in business: +and it is not found or thought necessary to enact that in every +partnership, one partner shall have entire control over the concern, +and the others shall be bound to obey his orders. No one would enter +into partnership on terms which would subject him to the +responsibilities of a principal, with only the powers and privileges +of a clerk or agent. If the law dealt with other contracts as it does +with marriage, it would ordain that one partner should administer the +common business as if it was his private concern; that the others +should have only delegated powers; and that this one should be +designated by some general presumption of law, for example as being +the eldest. The law never does this: nor does experience show it to +be necessary that any theoretical inequality of power should exist +between the partners, or that the partnership should have any other +conditions than what they may themselves appoint by their articles of +agreement. Yet it might seem that the exclusive power might be +conceded with less danger to the rights and interests of the +inferior, in the case of partnership than in that of marriage, since +he is free to cancel the power by withdrawing from the connexion. The +wife has no such power, and even if she had, it is almost always +desirable that she should try all measures before resorting to it. + +It is quite true that things which have to be decided every day, and +cannot adjust themselves gradually, or wait for a compromise, ought +to depend on one will: one person must have their sole control. But +it does not follow that this should always be the same person. The +natural arrangement is a division of powers between the two; each +being absolute in the executive branch of their own department, and +any change of system and principle requiring the consent of both. The +division neither can nor should be pre-established by the law, since +it must depend on individual capacities and suitabilities. If the two +persons chose, they might pre-appoint it by the marriage contract, as +pecuniary arrangements are now often pre-appointed. There would +seldom be any difficulty in deciding such things by mutual consent, +unless the marriage was one of those unhappy ones in which all other +things, as well as this, become subjects of bickering and dispute. +The division of rights would naturally follow the division of duties +and functions; and that is already made by consent, or at all events +not by law, but by general custom, modified and modifiable at the +pleasure of the persons concerned. + +The real practical decision of affairs, to whichever may be given the +legal authority, will greatly depend, as it even now does, upon +comparative qualifications. The mere fact that he is usually the +eldest, will in most cases give the preponderance to the man; at +least until they both attain a time of life at which the difference +in their years is of no importance. There will naturally also be a +more potential voice on the side, whichever it is, that brings the +means of support. Inequality from this source does not depend on the +law of marriage, but on the general conditions of human society, as +now constituted. The influence of mental superiority, either general +or special, and of superior decision of character, will necessarily +tell for much. It always does so at present. And this fact shows how +little foundation there is for the apprehension that the powers and +responsibilities of partners in life (as of partners in business), +cannot be satisfactorily apportioned by agreement between themselves. +They always are so apportioned, except in cases in which the marriage +institution is a failure. Things never come to an issue of downright +power on one side, and obedience on the other, except where the +connexion altogether has been a mistake, and it would be a blessing +to both parties to be relieved from it. Some may say that the very +thing by which an amicable settlement of differences becomes +possible, is the power of legal compulsion known to be in reserve; as +people submit to an arbitration because there is a court of law in +the background, which they know that they can be forced to obey. But +to make the cases parallel, we must suppose that the rule of the +court of law was, not to try the cause, but to give judgment always +for the same side, suppose the defendant. If so, the amenability to +it would be a motive with the plaintiff to agree to almost any +arbitration, but it would be just the reverse with the defendant. The +despotic power which the law gives to the husband may be a reason to +make the wife assent to any compromise by which power is practically +shared between the two, but it cannot be the reason why the husband +does. That there is always among decently conducted people a +practical compromise, though one of them at least is under no +physical or moral necessity of making it, shows that the natural +motives which lead to a voluntary adjustment of the united life of +two persons in a manner acceptable to both, do on the whole, except +in unfavourable cases, prevail. The matter is certainly not improved +by laying down as an ordinance of law, that the superstructure of +free government shall be raised upon a legal basis of despotism on +one side and subjection on the other, and that every concession which +the despot makes may, at his mere pleasure, and without any warning, +be recalled. Besides that no freedom is worth much when held on so +precarious a tenure, its conditions are not likely to be the most +equitable when the law throws so prodigious a weight into one scale; +when the adjustment rests between two persons one of whom is declared +to be entitled to everything, the other not only entitled to nothing +except during the good pleasure of the first, but under the strongest +moral and religious obligation not to rebel under any excess of +oppression. + +A pertinacious adversary, pushed to extremities, may say, that +husbands indeed are willing to be reasonable, and to make fair +concessions to their partners without being compelled to it, but that +wives are not: that if allowed any rights of their own, they will +acknowledge no rights at all in any one else, and never will yield in +anything, unless they can be compelled, by the man's mere authority, +to yield in everything. This would have been said by many persons +some generations ago, when satires on women were in vogue, and men +thought it a clever thing to insult women for being what men made +them. But it will be said by no one now who is worth replying to. It +is not the doctrine of the present day that women are less +susceptible of good feeling, and consideration for those with whom +they are united by the strongest ties, than men are. On the contrary, +we are perpetually told that women are better than men, by those who +are totally opposed to treating them as if they were as good; so that +the saying has passed into a piece of tiresome cant, intended to put +a complimentary face upon an injury, and resembling those +celebrations of royal clemency which, according to Gulliver, the king +of Lilliput always prefixed to his most sanguinary decrees. If women +are better than men in anything, it surely is in individual +self-sacrifice for those of their own family. But I lay little stress +on this, so long as they are universally taught that they are born +and created for self-sacrifice. I believe that equality of rights +would abate the exaggerated self-abnegation which is the present +artificial ideal of feminine character, and that a good woman would +not be more self-sacrificing than the best man: but on the other +hand, men would be much more unselfish and self-sacrificing than at +present, because they would no longer be taught to worship their own +will as such a grand thing that it is actually the law for another +rational being. There is nothing which men so easily learn as this +self-worship: all privileged persons, and all privileged classes, +have had it. The more we descend in the scale of humanity, the +intenser it is; and most of all in those who are not, and can never +expect to be, raised above any one except an unfortunate wife and +children. The honourable exceptions are proportionally fewer than in +the case of almost any other human infirmity. Philosophy and +religion, instead of keeping it in check, are generally suborned to +defend it; and nothing controls it but that practical feeling of the +equality of human beings, which is the theory of Christianity, but +which Christianity will never practically teach, while it sanctions +institutions grounded on an arbitrary preference of one human being +over another. + +There are, no doubt, women, as there are men, whom equality of +consideration will not satisfy; with whom there is no peace while any +will or wish is regarded but their own. Such persons are a proper +subject for the law of divorce. They are only fit to live alone, and +no human beings ought to be compelled to associate their lives with +them. But the legal subordination tends to make such characters among +women more, rather than less, frequent. If the man exerts his whole +power, the woman is of course crushed: but if she is treated with +indulgence, and permitted to assume power, there is no rule to set +limits to her encroachments. The law, not determining her rights, but +theoretically allowing her none at all, practically declares that the +measure of what she has a right to, is what she can contrive to get. + +The equality of married persons before the law, is not only the sole +mode in which that particular relation can be made consistent with +justice to both sides, and conducive to the happiness of both, but it +is the only means of rendering the daily life of mankind, in any high +sense, a school of moral cultivation. Though the truth may not be +felt or generally acknowledged for generations to come, the only +school of genuine moral sentiment is society between equals. The +moral education of mankind has hitherto emanated chiefly from the law +of force, and is adapted almost solely to the relations which force +creates. In the less advanced states of society, people hardly +recognise any relation with their equals. To be an equal is to be an +enemy. Society, from its highest place to its lowest, is one long +chain, or rather ladder, where every individual is either above or +below his nearest neighbour, and wherever he does not command he must +obey. Existing moralities, accordingly, are mainly fitted to a +relation of command and obedience. Yet command and obedience are but +unfortunate necessities of human life: society in equality is its +normal state. Already in modern life, and more and more as it +progressively improves, command and obedience become exceptional +facts in life, equal association its general rule. The morality of +the first ages rested on the obligation to submit to power; that of +the ages next following, on the right of the weak to the forbearance +and protection of the strong. How much longer is one form of society +and life to content itself with the morality made for another? We +have had the morality of submission, and the morality of chivalry and +generosity; the time is now come for the morality of justice. +Whenever, in former ages, any approach has been made to society in +equality, Justice has asserted its claims as the foundation of +virtue. It was thus in the free republics of antiquity. But even in +the best of these, the equals were limited to the free male citizens; +slaves, women, and the unenfranchised residents were under the law of +force. The joint influence of Roman civilization and of Christianity +obliterated these distinctions, and in theory (if only partially in +practice) declared the claims of the human being, as such, to be +paramount to those of sex, class, or social position. The barriers +which had begun to be levelled were raised again by the northern +conquests; and the whole of modern history consists of the slow +process by which they have since been wearing away. We are entering +into an order of things in which justice will again be the primary +virtue; grounded as before on equal, but now also on sympathetic +association; having its root no longer in the instinct of equals for +self-protection, but in a cultivated sympathy between them; and no +one being now left out, but an equal measure being extended to all. +It is no novelty that mankind do not distinctly foresee their own +changes, and that their sentiments are adapted to past, not to coming +ages. To see the futurity of the species has always been the +privilege of the intellectual elite, or of those who have learnt from +them; to have the feelings of that futurity has been the distinction, +and usually the martyrdom, of a still rarer elite. Institutions, +books, education, society, all go on training human beings for the +old, long after the new has come; much more when it is only coming. +But the true virtue of human beings is fitness to live together as +equals; claiming nothing for themselves but what they as freely +concede to every one else; regarding command of any kind as an +exceptional necessity, and in all cases a temporary one; and +preferring, whenever possible, the society of those with whom leading +and following can be alternate and reciprocal. To these virtues, +nothing in life as at present constituted gives cultivation by +exercise. The family is a school of despotism, in which the virtues +of despotism, but also its vices, are largely nourished. Citizenship, +in free countries, is partly a school of society in equality; but +citizenship fills only a small place in modern life, and does not +come near the daily habits or inmost sentiments. The family, justly +constituted, would be the real school of the virtues of freedom. It +is sure to be a sufficient one of everything else. It will always be +a school of obedience for the children, of command for the parents. +What is needed is, that it should be a school of sympathy in +equality, of living together in love, without power on one side or +obedience on the other. This it ought to be between the parents. It +would then be an exercise of those virtues which each requires to fit +them for all other association, and a model to the children of the +feelings and conduct which their temporary training by means of +obedience is designed to render habitual, and therefore natural, to +them. The moral training of mankind will never be adapted to the +conditions of the life for which all other human progress is a +preparation, until they practise in the family the same moral rule +which is adapted to the normal constitution of human society. Any +sentiment of freedom which can exist in a man whose nearest and +dearest intimacies are with those of whom he is absolute master, is +not the genuine or Christian love of freedom, but, what the love of +freedom generally was in the ancients and in the middle ages--an +intense feeling of the dignity and importance of his own personality; +making him disdain a yoke for himself, of which he has no abhorrence +whatever in the abstract, but which he is abundantly ready to impose +on others for his own interest or glorification. + +I readily admit (and it is the very foundation of my hopes) that +numbers of married people even under the present law, (in the higher +classes of England probably a great majority,) live in the spirit of +a just law of equality. Laws never would be improved, if there were +not numerous persons whose moral sentiments are better than the +existing laws. Such persons ought to support the principles here +advocated; of which the only object is to make all other married +couples similar to what these are now. But persons even of +considerable moral worth, unless they are also thinkers, are very +ready to believe that laws or practices, the evils of which they have +not personally experienced, do not produce any evils, but (if seeming +to be generally approved of) probably do good, and that it is wrong +to object to them. It would, however, be a great mistake in such +married people to suppose, because the legal conditions of the tie +which unites them do not occur to their thoughts once in a +twelvemonth, and because they live and feel in all respects as if +they were legally equals, that the same is the case with all other +married couples, wherever the husband is not a notorious ruffian. To +suppose this, would be to show equal ignorance of human nature and of +fact. The less fit a man is for the possession of power--the less +likely to be allowed to exercise it over any person with that +person's voluntary consent--the more does he hug himself in the +consciousness of the power the law gives him, exact its legal rights +to the utmost point which custom (the custom of men like himself) +will tolerate, and take pleasure in using the power, merely to +enliven the agreeable sense of possessing it. What is more; in the +most naturally brutal and morally uneducated part of the lower +classes, the legal slavery of the woman, and something in the merely +physical subjection to their will as an instrument, causes them to +feel a sort of disrespect and contempt towards their own wife which +they do not feel towards any other woman, or any other human being, +with whom they come in contact; and which makes her seem to them an +appropriate subject for any kind of indignity. Let an acute observer +of the signs of feeling, who has the requisite opportunities, judge +for himself whether this is not the case: and if he finds that it is, +let him not wonder at any amount of disgust and indignation that can +be felt against institutions which lead naturally to this depraved +state of the human mind. + +We shall be told, perhaps, that religion imposes the duty of +obedience; as every established fact which is too bad to admit of any +other defence, is always presented to us as an injunction of +religion. The Church, it is very true, enjoins it in her formularies, +but it would be difficult to derive any such injunction from +Christianity. We are told that St. Paul said, "Wives, obey your +husbands:" but he also said, "Slaves, obey your masters." It was not +St. Paul's business, nor was it consistent with his object, the +propagation of Christianity, to incite any one to rebellion against +existing laws. The apostle's acceptance of all social institutions as +he found them, is no more to be construed as a disapproval of +attempts to improve them at the proper time, than his declaration, +"The powers that be are ordained of God," gives his sanction to +military despotism, and to that alone, as the Christian form of +political government, or commands passive obedience to it. To pretend +that Christianity was intended to stereotype existing forms of +government and society, and protect them against change, is to reduce +it to the level of Islamism or of Brahminism. It is precisely because +Christianity has not done this, that it has been the religion of the +progressive portion of mankind, and Islamism, Brahminism, &c., have +been those of the stationary portions; or rather (for there is no +such thing as a really stationary society) of the declining portions. +There have been abundance of people, in all ages of Christianity, who +tried to make it something of the same kind; to convert us into a +sort of Christian Mussulmans, with the Bible for a Koran, prohibiting +all improvement: and great has been their power, and many have had to +sacrifice their lives in resisting them. But they have been resisted, +and the resistance has made us what we are, and will yet make us what +we are to be. + +After what has been said respecting the obligation of obedience, it +is almost superfluous to say anything concerning the more special +point included in the general one--a woman's right to her own +property; for I need not hope that this treatise can make any +impression upon those who need anything to convince them that a +woman's inheritance or gains ought to be as much her own after +marriage as before. The rule is simple: whatever would be the +husband's or wife's if they were not married, should be under their +exclusive control during marriage; which need not interfere with the +power to tie up property by settlement, in order to preserve it for +children. Some people are sentimentally shocked at the idea of a +separate interest in money matters, as inconsistent with the ideal +fusion of two lives into one. For my own part, I am one of the +strongest supporters of community of goods, when resulting from an +entire unity of feeling in the owners, which makes all things common +between them. But I have no relish for a community of goods resting +on the doctrine, that what is mine is yours but what is yours is not +mine; and I should prefer to decline entering into such a compact +with any one, though I were myself the person to profit by it. + +This particular injustice and oppression to women, which is, to +common apprehensions, more obvious than all the rest, admits of +remedy without interfering with any other mischiefs: and there can be +little doubt that it will be one of the earliest remedied. Already, +in many of the new and several of the old States of the American +Confederation, provisions have been inserted even in the written +Constitutions, securing to women equality of rights in this respect: +and thereby improving materially the position, in the marriage +relation, of those women at least who have property, by leaving them +one instrument of power which they have not signed away; and +preventing also the scandalous abuse of the marriage institution, +which is perpetrated when a man entraps a girl into marrying him +without a settlement, for the sole purpose of getting possession of +her money. When the support of the family depends, not on property, +but on earnings, the common arrangement, by which the man earns the +income and the wife superintends the domestic expenditure, seems to +me in general the most suitable division of labour between the two +persons. If, in addition to the physical suffering of bearing +children, and the whole responsibility of their care and education in +early years, the wife undertakes the careful and economical +application of the husband's earnings to the general comfort of the +family; she takes not only her fair share, but usually the larger +share, of the bodily and mental exertion required by their joint +existence. If she undertakes any additional portion, it seldom +relieves her from this, but only prevents her from performing it +properly. The care which she is herself disabled from taking of the +children and the household, nobody else takes; those of the children +who do not die, grow up as they best can, and the management of the +household is likely to be so bad, as even in point of economy to be a +great drawback from the value of the wife's earnings. In an otherwise +just state of things, it is not, therefore, I think, a desirable +custom, that the wife should contribute by her labour to the income +of the family. In an unjust state of things, her doing so may be +useful to her, by making her of more value in the eyes of the man who +is legally her master; but, on the other hand, it enables him still +farther to abuse his power, by forcing her to work, and leaving the +support of the family to her exertions, while he spends most of his +time in drinking and idleness. The _power_ of earning is essential to +the dignity of a woman, if she has not independent property. But if +marriage were an equal contract, not implying the obligation of +obedience; if the connexion were no longer enforced to the oppression +of those to whom it is purely a mischief, but a separation, on just +terms (I do not now speak of a divorce), could be obtained by any +woman who was morally entitled to it; and if she would then find all +honourable employments as freely open to her as to men; it would not +be necessary for her protection, that during marriage she should make +this particular use of her faculties. Like a man when he chooses a +profession, so, when a woman marries, it may in general be understood +that she makes choice of the management of a household, and the +bringing up of a family, as the first call upon her exertions, during +as many years of her life as may be required for the purpose; and +that she renounces, not all other objects and occupations, but all +which are not consistent with the requirements of this. The actual +exercise, in a habitual or systematic manner, of outdoor occupations, +or such as cannot be carried on at home, would by this principle be +practically interdicted to the greater number of married women. But +the utmost latitude ought to exist for the adaptation of general +rules to individual suitabilities; and there ought to be nothing to +prevent faculties exceptionally adapted to any other pursuit, from +obeying their vocation notwithstanding marriage: due provision being +made for supplying otherwise any falling-short which might become +inevitable, in her full performance of the ordinary functions of +mistress of a family. These things, if once opinion were rightly +directed on the subject, might with perfect safety be left to be +regulated by opinion, without any interference of law. + + + + +CHAPTER III. + + +On the other point which is involved in the just equality of women, +their admissibility to all the functions and occupations hitherto +retained as the monopoly of the stronger sex, I should anticipate no +difficulty in convincing any one who has gone with me on the subject +of the equality of women in the family. I believe that their +disabilities elsewhere are only clung to in order to maintain their +subordination in domestic life; because the generality of the male +sex cannot yet tolerate the idea of living with an equal. Were it not +for that, I think that almost every one, in the existing state of +opinion in politics and political economy, would admit the injustice +of excluding half the human race from the greater number of lucrative +occupations, and from almost all high social functions; ordaining +from their birth either that they are not, and cannot by any +possibility become, fit for employments which are legally open to the +stupidest and basest of the other sex, or else that however fit they +may be, those employments shall be interdicted to them, in order to +be preserved for the exclusive benefit of males. In the last two +centuries, when (which was seldom the case) any reason beyond the +mere existence of the fact was thought to be required to justify the +disabilities of women, people seldom assigned as a reason their +inferior mental capacity; which, in times when there was a real trial +of personal faculties (from which all women were not excluded) in the +struggles of public life, no one really believed in. The reason given +in those days was not women's unfitness, but the interest of society, +by which was meant the interest of men: just as the _raison d'etat_, +meaning the convenience of the government, and the support of +existing authority, was deemed a sufficient explanation and excuse +for the most flagitious crimes. In the present day, power holds a +smoother language, and whomsoever it oppresses, always pretends to do +so for their own good: accordingly, when anything is forbidden to +women, it is thought necessary to say, and desirable to believe, that +they are incapable of doing it, and that they depart from their real +path of success and happiness when they aspire to it. But to make +this reason plausible (I do not say valid), those by whom it is urged +must be prepared to carry it to a much greater length than any one +ventures to do in the face of present experience. It is not +sufficient to maintain that women on the average are less gifted than +men on the average, with certain of the higher mental faculties, or +that a smaller number of women than of men are fit for occupations +and functions of the highest intellectual character. It is necessary +to maintain that no women at all are fit for them, and that the most +eminent women are inferior in mental faculties to the most mediocre +of the men on whom those functions at present devolve. For if the +performance of the function is decided either by competition, or by +any mode of choice which secures regard to the public interest, there +needs be no apprehension that any important employments will fall +into the hands of women inferior to average men, or to the average of +their male competitors. The only result would be that there would be +fewer women than men in such employments; a result certain to happen +in any ease, if only from the preference always likely to be felt by +the majority of women for the one vocation in which there is nobody +to compete with them. Now, the most determined depreciator of women +will not venture to deny, that when we add the experience of recent +times to that of ages past, women, and not a few merely, but many +women, have proved themselves capable of everything, perhaps without +a single exception, which is done by men, and of doing it +successfully and creditably. The utmost that can be said is, that +there are many things which none of them have succeeded in doing as +well as they have been done by some men--many in which they have not +reached the very highest rank. But there are extremely few, dependent +only on mental faculties, in which they have not attained the rank +next to the highest. Is not this enough, and much more than enough, +to make it a tyranny to them, and a detriment to society, that they +should not be allowed to compete with men for the exercise of these +functions? Is it not a mere truism to say, that such functions are +often filled by men far less fit for them than numbers of women, and +who would be beaten by women in any fair field of competition? What +difference does it make that there may be men somewhere, fully +employed about other things, who may be still better qualified for +the things in question than these women? Does not this take place in +all competitions? Is there so great a superfluity of men fit for high +duties, that society can afford to reject the service of any +competent person? Are we so certain of always finding a man made to +our hands for any duty or function of social importance which falls +vacant, that we lose nothing by putting a ban upon one-half of +mankind, and refusing beforehand to make their faculties available, +however distinguished they may be? And even if we could do without +them, would it be consistent with justice to refuse to them their +fair share of honour and distinction, or to deny to them the equal +moral right of all human beings to choose their occupation (short of +injury to others) according to their own preferences, at their own +risk? Nor is the injustice confined to them: it is shared by those +who are in a position to benefit by their services. To ordain that +any kind of persons shall not be physicians, or shall not be +advocates, or shall not be members of parliament, is to injure not +them only, but all who employ physicians or advocates, or elect +members of parliament, and who are deprived of the stimulating effect +of greater competition on the exertions of the competitors, as well +as restricted to a narrower range of individual choice. + +It will perhaps be sufficient if I confine myself, in the details of +my argument, to functions of a public nature: since, if I am +successful as to those, it probably will be readily granted that +women should be admissible to all other occupations to which it is at +all material whether they are admitted or not. And here let me begin +by marking out one function, broadly distinguished from all others, +their right to which is entirely independent of any question which +can be raised concerning their faculties. I mean the suffrage, both +parliamentary and municipal. The right to share in the choice of +those who are to exercise a public trust, is altogether a distinct +thing from that of competing for the trust itself. If no one could +vote for a member of parliament who was not fit to be a candidate, +the government would be a narrow oligarchy indeed. To have a voice in +choosing those by whom one is to be governed, is a means of +self-protection due to every one, though he were to remain for ever +excluded from the function of governing: and that women are +considered fit to have such a choice, may be presumed from the fact, +that the law already gives it to women in the most important of all +cases to themselves: for the choice of the man who is to govern a +woman to the end of life, is always supposed to be voluntarily made +by herself. In the case of election to public trusts, it is the +business of constitutional law to surround the right of suffrage with +all needful securities and limitations; but whatever securities are +sufficient in the case of the male sex, no others need be required in +the case of women. Under whatever conditions, and within whatever +limits, men are admitted to the suffrage, there is not a shadow of +justification for not admitting women under the same. The majority of +the women of any class are not likely to differ in political opinion +from the majority of the men of the same class, unless the question +be one in which the interests of women, as such, are in some way +involved; and if they are so, women require the suffrage, as their +guarantee of just and equal consideration. This ought to be obvious +even to those who coincide in no other of the doctrines for which I +contend. Even if every woman were a wife, and if every wife ought to +be a slave, all the more would these slaves stand in need of legal +protection: and we know what legal protection the slaves have, where +the laws are made by their masters. + +With regard to the fitness of women, not only to participate in +elections, but themselves to hold offices or practise professions +involving important public responsibilities; I have already observed +that this consideration is not essential to the practical question in +dispute: since any woman, who succeeds in an open profession, proves +by that very fact that she is qualified for it. And in the case of +public offices, if the political system of the country is such as to +exclude unfit men, it will equally exclude unfit women: while if it +is not, there is no additional evil in the fact that the unfit +persons whom it admits may be either women or men. As long therefore +as it is acknowledged that even a few women may be fit for these +duties, the laws which shut the door on those exceptions cannot be +justified by any opinion which can be held respecting the capacities +of women in general. But, though this last consideration is not +essential, it is far from being irrelevant. An unprejudiced view of +it gives additional strength to the arguments against the +disabilities of women, and reinforces them by high considerations of +practical utility. + +Let us at first make entire abstraction of all psychological +considerations tending to show, that any of the mental differences +supposed to exist between women and men are but the natural effect of +the differences in their education and circumstances, and indicate no +radical difference, far less radical inferiority, of nature. Let us +consider women only as they already are, or as they are known to have +been; and the capacities which they have already practically shown. +What they have done, that at least, if nothing else, it is proved +that they can do. When we consider how sedulously they are all +trained away from, instead of being trained towards, any of the +occupations or objects reserved for men, it is evident that I am +taking a very humble ground for them, when I rest their case on what +they have actually achieved. For, in this case, negative evidence is +worth little, while any positive evidence is conclusive. It cannot be +inferred to be impossible that a woman should be a Homer, or an +Aristotle, or a Michael Angelo, or a Beethoven, because no woman has +yet actually produced works comparable to theirs in any of those +lines of excellence. This negative fact at most leaves the question +uncertain, and open to psychological discussion. But it is quite +certain that a woman can be a Queen Elizabeth, or a Deborah, or a +Joan of Arc, since this is not inference, but fact. Now it is a +curious consideration, that the only things which the existing law +excludes women from doing, are the things which they have proved that +they are able to do. There is no law to prevent a woman from having +written all the plays of Shakspeare, or composed all the operas of +Mozart. But Queen Elizabeth or Queen Victoria, had they not inherited +the throne, could not have been intrusted with the smallest of the +political duties, of which the former showed herself equal to the +greatest. + +If anything conclusive could be inferred from experience, without +psychological analysis, it would be that the things which women are +not allowed to do are the very ones for which they are peculiarly +qualified; since their vocation for government has made its way, and +become conspicuous, through the very few opportunities which have +been given; while in the lines of distinction which apparently were +freely open to them, they have by no means so eminently distinguished +themselves. We know how small a number of reigning queens history +presents, in comparison with that of kings. Of this smaller number a +far larger proportion have shown talents for rule; though many of +them have occupied the throne in difficult periods. It is remarkable, +too, that they have, in a great number of instances, been +distinguished by merits the most opposite to the imaginary and +conventional character of women: they have been as much remarked for +the firmness and vigour of their rule, as for its intelligence. When, +to queens and empresses, we add regents, and viceroys of provinces, +the list of women who have been eminent rulers of mankind swells to a +great length.[1] This fact is so undeniable, that some one, long ago, +tried to retort the argument, and turned the admitted truth into an +additional insult, by saying that queens are better than kings, +because under kings women govern, but under queens, men. + +It may seem a waste of reasoning to argue against a bad joke; but +such things do affect people's minds; and I have heard men quote this +saying, with an air as if they thought that there was something in +it. At any rate, it will serve as well as anything else for a +starting point in discussion. I say, then, that it is not true that +under kings, women govern. Such cases are entirely exceptional: and +weak kings have quite as often governed ill through the influence of +male favourites, as of female. When a king is governed by a woman +merely through his amatory propensities, good government is not +probable, though even then there are exceptions. But French history +counts two kings who have voluntarily given the direction of affairs +during many years, the one to his mother, the other to his sister: +one of them, Charles VIII., was a mere boy, but in doing so he +followed the intentions of his father Louis XI., the ablest monarch +of his age. The other, Saint Louis, was the best, and one of the most +vigorous rulers, since the time of Charlemagne. Both these princesses +ruled in a manner hardly equalled by any prince among their +contemporaries. The emperor Charles the Fifth, the most politic +prince of his time, who had as great a number of able men in his +service as a ruler ever had, and was one of the least likely of all +sovereigns to sacrifice his interest to personal feelings, made two +princesses of his family successively Governors of the Netherlands, +and kept one or other of them in that post during his whole life, +(they were afterwards succeeded by a third). Both ruled very +successfully, and one of them, Margaret of Austria, was one of the +ablest politicians of the age. So much for one side of the question. +Now as to the other. When it is said that under queens men govern, is +the same meaning to be understood as when kings are said to be +governed by women? Is it meant that queens choose as their +instruments of government, the associates of their personal +pleasures? The case is rare even with those who are as unscrupulous +on the latter point as Catherine II.: and it is not in these cases +that the good government, alleged to arise from male influence, is to +be found. If it be true, then, that the administration is in the +hands of better men under a queen than under an average king, it must +be that queens have a superior capacity for choosing them; and women +must be better qualified than men both for the position of sovereign, +and for that of chief minister; for the principal business of a prime +minister is not to govern in person, but to find the fittest persons +to conduct every department of public affairs. The more rapid insight +into character, which is one of the admitted points of superiority in +women over men, must certainly make them, with anything like parity +of qualifications in other respects, more apt than men in that choice +of instruments, which is nearly the most important business of every +one who has to do with governing mankind. Even the unprincipled +Catherine de' Medici could feel the value of a Chancellor de +l'Hopital. But it is also true that most great queens have been great +by their own talents for government, and have been well served +precisely for that reason. They retained the supreme direction of +affairs in their own hands: and if they listened to good advisers, +they gave by that fact the strongest proof that their judgment fitted +them for dealing with the great questions of government. + +Is it reasonable to think that those who are fit for the greater +functions of politics, are incapable of qualifying themselves for the +less? Is there any reason in the nature of things, that the wives and +sisters of princes should, whenever called on, be found as competent +as the princes themselves to _their_ business, but that the wives and +sisters of statesmen, and administrators, and directors of companies, +and managers of public institutions, should be unable to do what is +done by their brothers and husbands? The real reason is plain enough; +it is that princesses, being more raised above the generality of men +by their rank than placed below them by their sex, have never been +taught that it was improper for them to concern themselves with +politics; but have been allowed to feel the liberal interest natural +to any cultivated human being, in the great transactions which took +place around them, and in which they might be called on to take a +part. The ladies of reigning families are the only women who are +allowed the same range of interests and freedom of development as +men; and it is precisely in their case that there is not found to be +any inferiority. Exactly where and in proportion as women's +capacities for government have been tried, in that proportion have +they been found adequate. + +This fact is in accordance with the best general conclusions which +the world's imperfect experience seems as yet to suggest, concerning +the peculiar tendencies and aptitudes characteristic of women, as +women have hitherto been. I do not say, as they will continue to be; +for, as I have already said more than once, I consider it presumption +in any one to pretend to decide what women are or are not, can or +cannot be, by natural constitution. They have always hitherto been +kept, as far as regards spontaneous development, in so unnatural a +state, that their nature cannot but have been greatly distorted and +disguised; and no one can safely pronounce that if women's nature +were left to choose its direction as freely as men's, and if no +artificial bent were attempted to be given to it except that required +by the conditions of human society, and given to both sexes alike, +there would be any material difference, or perhaps any difference at +all, in the character and capacities which would unfold themselves. I +shall presently show, that even the least contestable of the +differences which now exist, are such as may very well have been +produced merely by circumstances, without any difference of natural +capacity. But, looking at women as they are known in experience, it +may be said of them, with more truth than belongs to most other +generalizations on the subject, that the general bent of their +talents is towards the practical. This statement is conformable to +all the public history of women, in the present and the past. It is +no less borne out by common and daily experience. Let us consider the +special nature of the mental capacities most characteristic of a +woman of talent. They are all of a kind which fits them for practice, +and makes them tend towards it. What is meant by a woman's capacity +of intuitive perception? It means, a rapid and correct insight into +present fact. It has nothing to do with general principles. Nobody +ever perceived a scientific law of nature by intuition, nor arrived +at a general rule of duty or prudence by it. These are results of +slow and careful collection and comparison of experience; and neither +the men nor the women of intuition usually shine in this department, +unless, indeed, the experience necessary is such as they can acquire +by themselves. For what is called their intuitive sagacity makes them +peculiarly apt in gathering such general truths as can be collected +from their individual means of observation. When, consequently, they +chance to be as well provided as men are with the results of other +people's experience, by reading and education, (I use the word chance +advisedly, for, in respect to the knowledge that tends to fit them +for the greater concerns of life, the only educated women are the +self-educated) they are better furnished than men in general with the +essential requisites of skilful and successful practice. Men who have +been much taught, are apt to be deficient in the sense of present +fact; they do not see, in the facts which they are called upon to +deal with, what is really there, but what they have been taught to +expect. This is seldom the case with women of any ability. Their +capacity of "intuition" preserves them from it. With equality of +experience and of general faculties, a woman usually sees much more +than a man of what is immediately before her. Now this sensibility to +the present, is the main quality on which the capacity for practice, +as distinguished from theory, depends. To discover general +principles, belongs to the speculative faculty: to discern and +discriminate the particular cases in which they are and are not +applicable, constitutes practical talent: and for this, women as they +now are have a peculiar aptitude. I admit that there can be no good +practice without principles, and that the predominant place which +quickness of observation holds among a woman's faculties, makes her +particularly apt to build over-hasty generalizations upon her own +observation; though at the same time no less ready in rectifying +those generalizations, as her observation takes a wider range. But +the corrective to this defect, is access to the experience of the +human race; general knowledge--exactly the thing which education can +best supply. A woman's mistakes are specifically those of a clever +self-educated man, who often sees what men trained in routine do not +see, but falls into errors for want of knowing things which have long +been known. Of course he has acquired much of the pre-existing +knowledge, or he could not have got on at all; but what he knows of +it he has picked up in fragments and at random, as women do. + +But this gravitation of women's minds to the present, to the real, to +actual fact, while in its exclusiveness it is a source of errors, is +also a most useful counteractive of the contrary error. The principal +and most characteristic aberration of speculative minds as such, +consists precisely in the deficiency of this lively perception and +ever-present sense of objective fact. For want of this, they often +not only overlook the contradiction which outward facts oppose to +their theories, but lose sight of the legitimate purpose of +speculation altogether, and let their speculative faculties go astray +into regions not peopled with real beings, animate or inanimate, even +idealized, but with personified shadows created by the illusions of +metaphysics or by the mere entanglement of words, and think these +shadows the proper objects of the highest, the most transcendant, +philosophy. Hardly anything can be of greater value to a man of +theory and speculation who employs himself not in collecting +materials of knowledge by observation, but in working them up by +processes of thought into comprehensive truths of science and laws of +conduct, than to carry on his speculations in the companionship, and +under the criticism, of a really superior woman. There is nothing +comparable to it for keeping his thoughts within the limits of real +things, and the actual facts of nature. A woman seldom runs wild +after an abstraction. The habitual direction of her mind to dealing +with things as individuals rather than in groups, and (what is +closely connected with it) her more lively interest in the present +feelings of persons, which makes her consider first of all, in +anything which claims to be applied to practice, in what manner +persons will be affected by it--these two things make her extremely +unlikely to put faith in any speculation which loses sight of +individuals, and deals with things as if they existed for the benefit +of some imaginary entity, some mere creation of the mind, not +resolvable into the feelings of living beings. Women's thoughts are +thus as useful in giving reality to those of thinking men, as men's +thoughts in giving width and largeness to those of women. In depth, +as distinguished from breadth, I greatly doubt if even now, women, +compared with men, are at any disadvantage. + +If the existing mental characteristics of women are thus valuable +even in aid of speculation, they are still more important, when +speculation has done its work, for carrying out the results of +speculation into practice. For the reasons already given, women are +comparatively unlikely to fall into the common error of men, that of +sticking to their rules in a case whose specialities either take it +out of the class to which the rules are applicable, or require a +special adaptation of them. Let us now consider another of the +admitted superiorities of clever women, greater quickness of +apprehension. Is not this pre-eminently a quality which fits a person +for practice? In action, everything continually depends upon deciding +promptly. In speculation, nothing does. A mere thinker can wait, can +take time to consider, can collect additional evidence; he is not +obliged to complete his philosophy at once, lest the opportunity +should go by. The power of drawing the best conclusion possible from +insufficient data is not indeed useless in philosophy; the +construction of a provisional hypothesis consistent with all known +facts is often the needful basis for further inquiry. But this +faculty is rather serviceable in philosophy, than the main +qualification for it: and, for the auxiliary as well as for the main +operation, the philosopher can allow himself any time he pleases. He +is in no need of the capacity of doing rapidly what he does; what he +rather needs is patience, to work on slowly until imperfect lights +have become perfect, and a conjecture has ripened into a theorem. For +those, on the contrary, whose business is with the fugitive and +perishable--with individual facts, not kinds of facts--rapidity of +thought is a qualification next only in importance to the power of +thought itself. He who has not his faculties under immediate command, +in the contingencies of action, might as well not have them at all. +He may be fit to criticize, but he is not fit to act. Now it is in +this that women, and the men who are most like women, confessedly +excel. The other sort of man, however pre-eminent may be his +faculties, arrives slowly at complete command of them: rapidity of +judgment and promptitude of judicious action, even in the things he +knows best, are the gradual and late result of strenuous effort grown +into habit. + +It will be said, perhaps, that the greater nervous susceptibility of +women is a disqualification for practice, in anything but domestic +life, by rendering them mobile, changeable, too vehemently under the +influence of the moment, incapable of dogged perseverance, unequal +and uncertain in the power of using their faculties. I think that +these phrases sum up the greater part of the objections commonly made +to the fitness of women for the higher class of serious business. +Much of all this is the mere overflow of nervous energy run to waste, +and would cease when the energy was directed to a definite end. Much +is also the result of conscious or unconscious cultivation; as we see +by the almost total disappearance of "hysterics" and fainting fits, +since they have gone out of fashion. Moreover, when people are +brought up, like many women of the higher classes (though less so in +our own country than in any other) a kind of hot-house plants, +shielded from the wholesome vicissitudes of air and temperature, and +untrained in any of the occupations and exercises which give stimulus +and development to the circulatory and muscular system, while their +nervous system, especially in its emotional department, is kept in +unnaturally active play; it is no wonder if those of them who do not +die of consumption, grow up with constitutions liable to derangement +from slight causes, both internal and external, and without stamina +to support any task, physical or mental, requiring continuity of +effort. But women brought up to work for their livelihood show none +of these morbid characteristics, unless indeed they are chained to an +excess of sedentary work in confined and unhealthy rooms. Women who +in their early years have shared in the healthful physical education +and bodily freedom of their brothers, and who obtain a sufficiency of +pure air and exercise in after-life, very rarely have any excessive +susceptibility of nerves which can disqualify them for active +pursuits. There is indeed a certain proportion of persons, in both +sexes, in whom an unusual degree of nervous sensibility is +constitutional, and of so marked a character as to be the feature of +their organization which exercises the greatest influence over the +whole character of the vital phenomena. This constitution, like other +physical conformations, is hereditary, and is transmitted to sons as +well as daughters; but it is possible, and probable, that the nervous +temperament (as it is called) is inherited by a greater number of +women than of men. We will assume this as a fact: and let me then +ask, are men of nervous temperament found to be unfit for the duties +and pursuits usually followed by men? If not, why should women of the +same temperament be unfit for them? The peculiarities of the +temperament are, no doubt, within certain limits, an obstacle to +success in some employments, though an aid to it in others. But when +the occupation is suitable to the temperament, and sometimes even +when it is unsuitable, the most brilliant examples of success are +continually given by the men of high nervous sensibility. They are +distinguished in their practical manifestations chiefly by this, that +being susceptible of a higher degree of excitement than those of +another physical constitution, their powers when excited differ more +than in the case of other people, from those shown in their ordinary +state: they are raised, as it were, above themselves, and do things +with ease which they are wholly incapable of at other times. But this +lofty excitement is not, except in weak bodily constitutions, a mere +flash, which passes away immediately, leaving no permanent traces, +and incompatible with persistent and steady pursuit of an object. It +is the character of the nervous temperament to be capable of +_sustained_ excitement, holding out through long continued efforts. +It is what is meant by _spirit_. It is what makes the high-bred +racehorse run without slackening speed till he drops down dead. It is +what has enabled so many delicate women to maintain the most sublime +constancy not only at the stake, but through a long preliminary +succession of mental and bodily tortures. It is evident that people +of this temperament are particularly apt for what may be called the +executive department of the leadership of mankind. They are the +material of great orators, great preachers, impressive diffusers of +moral influences. Their constitution might be deemed less favourable +to the qualities required from a statesman in the cabinet, or from a +judge. It would be so, if the consequence necessarily followed that +because people are excitable they must always be in a state of +excitement. But this is wholly a question of training. Strong feeling +is the instrument and element of strong self-control: but it requires +to be cultivated in that direction. When it is, it forms not the +heroes of impulse only, but those also of self-conquest. History and +experience prove that the most passionate characters are the most +fanatically rigid in their feelings of duty, when their passion has +been trained to act in that direction. The judge who gives a just +decision in a case where his feelings are intensely interested on the +other side, derives from that same strength of feeling the determined +sense of the obligation of justice, which enables him to achieve this +victory over himself. The capability of that lofty enthusiasm which +takes the human being out of his every-day character, reacts upon the +daily character itself. His aspirations and powers when he is in this +exceptional state, become the type with which he compares, and by +which he estimates, his sentiments and proceedings at other times: +and his habitual purposes assume a character moulded by and +assimilated to the moments of lofty excitement, although those, from +the physical nature of a human being, can only be transient. +Experience of races, as well as of individuals, does not show those +of excitable temperament to be less fit, on the average, either for +speculation or practice, than the more unexcitable. The French, and +the Italians, are undoubtedly by nature more nervously excitable than +the Teutonic races, and, compared at least with the English, they +have a much greater habitual and daily emotional life: but have they +been less great in science, in public business, in legal and judicial +eminence, or in war? There is abundant evidence that the Greeks were +of old, as their descendants and successors still are, one of the +most excitable of the races of mankind. It is superfluous to ask, +what among the achievements of men they did not excel in. The Romans, +probably, as an equally southern people, had the same original +temperament: but the stern character of their national discipline, +like that of the Spartans, made them an example of the opposite type +of national character; the greater strength of their natural feelings +being chiefly apparent in the intensity which the same original +temperament made it possible to give to the artificial. If these +cases exemplify what a naturally excitable people may be made, the +Irish Celts afford one of the aptest examples of what they are when +left to themselves; (if those can be said to be left to themselves +who have been for centuries under the indirect influence of bad +government, and the direct training of a Catholic hierarchy and of a +sincere belief in the Catholic religion.) The Irish character must be +considered, therefore, as an unfavourable case: yet, whenever the +circumstances of the individual have been at all favourable, what +people have shown greater capacity for the most varied and +multifarious individual eminence? Like the French compared with the +English, the Irish with the Swiss, the Greeks or Italians compared +with the German races, so women compared with men may be found, on +the average, to do the same things with some variety in the +particular kind of excellence. But, that they would do them fully as +well on the whole, if their education and cultivation were adapted to +correcting instead of aggravating the infirmities incident to their +temperament, I see not the smallest reason to doubt. + +Supposing it, however, to be true that women's minds are by nature +more mobile than those of men, less capable of persisting long in the +same continuous effort, more fitted for dividing their faculties +among many things than for travelling in any one path to the highest +point which can be reached by it: this may be true of women as they +now are (though not without great and numerous exceptions), and may +account for their having remained behind the highest order of men in +precisely the things in which this absorption of the whole mind in +one set of ideas and occupations may seem to be most requisite. +Still, this difference is one which can only affect the kind of +excellence, not the excellence itself, or its practical worth: and it +remains to be shown whether this exclusive working of a part of the +mind, this absorption of the whole thinking faculty in a single +subject, and concentration of it on a single work, is the normal and +healthful condition of the human faculties, even for speculative +uses. I believe that what is gained in special development by this +concentration, is lost in the capacity of the mind for the other +purposes of life; and even in abstract thought, it is my decided +opinion that the mind does more by frequently returning to a +difficult problem, than by sticking to it without interruption. For +the purposes, at all events, of practice, from its highest to its +humblest departments, the capacity of passing promptly from one +subject of consideration to another, without letting the active +spring of the intellect run down between the two, is a power far more +valuable; and this power women pre-eminently possess, by virtue of +the very mobility of which they are accused. They perhaps have it +from nature, but they certainly have it by training and education; +for nearly the whole of the occupations of women consist in the +management of small but multitudinous details, on each of which the +mind cannot dwell even for a minute, but must pass on to other +things, and if anything requires longer thought, must steal time at +odd moments for thinking of it. The capacity indeed which women show +for doing their thinking in circumstances and at times which almost +any man would make an excuse to himself for not attempting it, has +often been noticed: and a woman's mind, though it may be occupied +only with small things, can hardly ever permit itself to be vacant, +as a man's so often is when not engaged in what he chooses to +consider the business of his life. The business of a woman's ordinary +life is things in general, and can as little cease to go on as the +world to go round. + +But (it is said) there is anatomical evidence of the superior mental +capacity of men compared with women: they have a larger brain. I +reply, that in the first place the fact itself is doubtful. It is by +no means established that the brain of a woman is smaller than that +of a man. If it is inferred merely because a woman's bodily frame +generally is of less dimensions than a man's, this criterion would +lead to strange consequences. A tall and large-boned man must on this +showing be wonderfully superior in intelligence to a small man, and +an elephant or a whale must prodigiously excel mankind. The size of +the brain in human beings, anatomists say, varies much less than the +size of the body, or even of the head, and the one cannot be at all +inferred from the other. It is certain that some women have as large +a brain as any man. It is within my knowledge that a man who had +weighed many human brains, said that the heaviest he knew of, heavier +even than Cuvier's (the heaviest previously recorded,) was that of a +woman. Next, I must observe that the precise relation which exists +between the brain and the intellectual powers is not yet well +understood, but is a subject of great dispute. That there is a very +close relation we cannot doubt. The brain is certainly the material +organ of thought and feeling: and (making abstraction of the great +unsettled controversy respecting the appropriation of different parts +of the brain to different mental faculties) I admit that it would be +an anomaly, and an exception to all we know of the general laws of +life and organization, if the size of the organ were wholly +indifferent to the function; if no accession of power were derived +from the greater magnitude of the instrument. But the exception and +the anomaly would be fully as great if the organ exercised influence +by its magnitude _only_. In all the more delicate operations of +nature--of which those of the animated creation are the most +delicate, and those of the nervous system by far the most delicate of +these--differences in the effect depend as much on differences of +quality in the physical agents, as on their quantity: and if the +quality of an instrument is to be tested by the nicety and delicacy +of the work it can do, the indications point to a greater average +fineness of quality in the brain and nervous system of women than of +men. Dismissing abstract difference of quality, a thing difficult to +verify, the efficiency of an organ is known to depend not solely on +its size but on its activity: and of this we have an approximate +measure in the energy with which the blood circulates through it, +both the stimulus and the reparative force being mainly dependent on +the circulation. It would not be surprising--it is indeed an +hypothesis which accords well with the differences actually observed +between the mental operations of the two sexes--if men on the average +should have the advantage in the size of the brain, and women in +activity of cerebral circulation. The results which conjecture, +founded on analogy, would lead us to expect from this difference of +organization, would correspond to some of those which we most +commonly see. In the first place, the mental operations of men might +be expected to be slower. They would neither be so prompt as women in +thinking, nor so quick to feel. Large bodies take more time to get +into full action. On the other hand, when once got thoroughly into +play, men's brain would bear more work. It would be more persistent +in the line first taken; it would have more difficulty in changing +from one mode of action to another, but, in the one thing it was +doing, it could go on longer without loss of power or sense of +fatigue. And do we not find that the things in which men most excel +women are those which require most plodding and long hammering at a +single thought, while women do best what must be done rapidly? A +woman's brain is sooner fatigued, sooner exhausted; but given the +degree of exhaustion, we should expect to find that it would recover +itself sooner. I repeat that this speculation is entirely +hypothetical; it pretends to no more than to suggest a line of +enquiry. I have before repudiated the notion of its being yet +certainly known that there is any natural difference at all in the +average strength or direction of the mental capacities of the two +sexes, much less what that difference is. Nor is it possible that +this should be known, so long as the psychological laws of the +formation of character have been so little studied, even in a general +way, and in the particular case never scientifically applied at all; +so long as the most obvious external causes of difference of +character are habitually disregarded--left unnoticed by the observer, +and looked down upon with a kind of supercilious contempt by the +prevalent schools both of natural history and of mental philosophy: +who, whether they look for the source of what mainly distinguishes +human beings from one another, in the world of matter or in that of +spirit, agree in running down those who prefer to explain these +differences by the different relations of human beings to society and +life. + +To so ridiculous an extent are the notions formed of the nature of +women, mere empirical generalizations, framed, without philosophy or +analysis, upon the first instances which present themselves, that the +popular idea of it is different in different countries, according as +the opinions and social circumstances of the country have given to +the women living in it any speciality of development or +non-development. An Oriental thinks that women are by nature +peculiarly voluptuous; see the violent abuse of them on this ground +in Hindoo writings. An Englishman usually thinks that they are by +nature cold. The sayings about women's fickleness are mostly of +French origin; from the famous distich of Francis the First, upward +and downward. In England it is a common remark, how much more +constant women are than men. Inconstancy has been longer reckoned +discreditable to a woman, in England than in France; and Englishwomen +are besides, in their inmost nature, much more subdued to opinion. It +may be remarked by the way, that Englishmen are in peculiarly +unfavourable circumstances for attempting to judge what is or is not +natural, not merely to women, but to men, or to human beings +altogether, at least if they have only English experience to go upon: +because there is no place where human nature shows so little of its +original lineaments. Both in a good and a bad sense, the English are +farther from a state of nature than any other modern people. They +are, more than any other people, a product of civilization and +discipline. England is the country in which social discipline has +most succeeded, not so much in conquering, as in suppressing, +whatever is liable to conflict with it. The English, more than any +other people, not only act but feel according to rule. In other +countries, the taught opinion, or the requirement of society, may be +the stronger power, but the promptings of the individual nature are +always visible under it, and often resisting it: rule may be stronger +than nature, but nature is still there. In England, rule has to a +great degree substituted itself for nature. The greater part of life +is carried on, not by following inclination under the control of +rule, but by having no inclination but that of following a rule. Now +this has its good side doubtless, though it has also a wretchedly bad +one; but it must render an Englishman peculiarly ill-qualified to +pass a judgment on the original tendencies of human nature from his +own experience. The errors to which observers elsewhere are liable on +the subject, are of a different character. An Englishman is ignorant +respecting human nature, a Frenchman is prejudiced. An Englishman's +errors are negative, a Frenchman's positive. An Englishman fancies +that things do not exist, because he never sees them; a Frenchman +thinks they must always and necessarily exist, because he does see +them. An Englishman does not know nature, because he has had no +opportunity of observing it; a Frenchman generally knows a great deal +of it, but often mistakes it, because he has only seen it +sophisticated and distorted. For the artificial state superinduced by +society disguises the natural tendencies of the thing which is the +subject of observation, in two different ways: by extinguishing the +nature, or by transforming it. In the one case there is but a starved +residuum of nature remaining to be studied; in the other case there +is much, but it may have expanded in any direction rather than that +in which it would spontaneously grow. + +I have said that it cannot now be known how much of the existing +mental differences between men and women is natural, and how much +artificial; whether there are any natural differences at all; or, +supposing all artificial causes of difference to be withdrawn, what +natural character would be revealed. I am not about to attempt what I +have pronounced impossible: but doubt does not forbid conjecture, and +where certainty is unattainable, there may yet be the means of +arriving at some degree of probability. The first point, the origin +of the differences actually observed, is the one most accessible to +speculation; and I shall attempt to approach it, by the only path by +which it can be reached; by tracing the mental consequences of +external influences. We cannot isolate a human being from the +circumstances of his condition, so as to ascertain experimentally +what he would have been by nature; but we can consider what he is, +and what his circumstances have been, and whether the one would have +been capable of producing the other. + +Let us take, then, the only marked case which observation affords, of +apparent inferiority of women to men, if we except the merely +physical one of bodily strength. No production in philosophy, +science, or art, entitled to the first rank, has been the work of a +woman. Is there any mode of accounting for this, without supposing +that women are naturally incapable of producing them? + +In the first place, we may fairly question whether experience has +afforded sufficient grounds for an induction. It is scarcely three +generations since women, saving very rare exceptions, have begun to +try their capacity in philosophy, science, or art. It is only in the +present generation that their attempts have been at all numerous; and +they are even now extremely few, everywhere but in England and +France. It is a relevant question, whether a mind possessing the +requisites of first-rate eminence in speculation or creative art +could have been expected, on the mere calculation of chances, to turn +up during that lapse of time, among the women whose tastes and +personal position admitted of their devoting themselves to these +pursuits. In all things which there has yet been time for--in all but +the very highest grades in the scale of excellence, especially in the +department in which they have been longest engaged, literature (both +prose and poetry)--women have done quite as much, have obtained fully +as high prizes and as many of them, as could be expected from the +length of time and the number of competitors. If we go back to the +earlier period when very few women made the attempt, yet some of +those few made it with distinguished success. The Greeks always +accounted Sappho among their great poets; and we may well suppose +that Myrtis, said to have been the teacher of Pindar, and Corinna, +who five times bore away from him the prize of poetry, must at least +have had sufficient merit to admit of being compared with that great +name. Aspasia did not leave any philosophical writings; but it is an +admitted fact that Socrates resorted to her for instruction, and +avowed himself to have obtained it. + +If we consider the works of women in modern times, and contrast them +with those of men, either in the literary or the artistic department, +such inferiority as may be observed resolves itself essentially into +one thing: but that is a most material one; deficiency of +originality. Not total deficiency; for every production of mind which +is of any substantive value, has an originality of its own--is a +conception of the mind itself, not a copy of something else. Thoughts +original, in the sense of being unborrowed--of being derived from the +thinker's own observations or intellectual processes--are abundant in +the writings of women. But they have not yet produced any of those +great and luminous new ideas which form an era in thought, nor those +fundamentally new conceptions in art, which open a vista of possible +effects not before thought of, and found a new school. Their +compositions are mostly grounded on the existing fund of thought, and +their creations do not deviate widely from existing types. This is +the sort of inferiority which their works manifest: for in point of +execution, in the detailed application of thought, and the perfection +of style, there is no inferiority. Our best novelists in point of +composition, and of the management of detail, have mostly been women; +and there is not in all modern literature a more eloquent vehicle of +thought than the style of Madame de Stael, nor, as a specimen of +purely artistic excellence, anything superior to the prose of Madame +Sand, whose style acts upon the nervous system like a symphony of +Haydn or Mozart. High originality of conception is, as I have said, +what is chiefly wanting. And now to examine if there is any manner in +which this deficiency can be accounted for. + +Let us remember, then, so far as regards mere thought, that during +all that period in the world's existence, and in the progress of +cultivation, in which great and fruitful new truths could be arrived +at by mere force of genius, with little previous study and +accumulation of knowledge--during all that time women did not concern +themselves with speculation at all. From the days of Hypatia to those +of the Reformation, the illustrious Heloisa is almost the only woman +to whom any such achievement might have been possible; and we know +not how great a capacity of speculation in her may have been lost to +mankind by the misfortunes of her life. Never since any considerable +number of women have begun to cultivate serious thought, has +originality been possible on easy terms. Nearly all the thoughts +which can be reached by mere strength of original faculties, have +long since been arrived at; and originality, in any high sense of the +word, is now scarcely ever attained but by minds which have undergone +elaborate discipline, and are deeply versed in the results of +previous thinking. It is Mr. Maurice, I think, who has remarked on +the present age, that its most original thinkers are those who have +known most thoroughly what had been thought by their predecessors: +and this will always henceforth be the case. Every fresh stone in the +edifice has now to be placed on the top of so many others, that a +long process of climbing, and of carrying up materials, has to be +gone through by whoever aspires to take a share in the present stage +of the work. How many women are there who have gone through any such +process? Mrs. Somerville, alone perhaps of women, knows as much of +mathematics as is now needful for making any considerable +mathematical discovery: is it any proof of inferiority in women, that +she has not happened to be one of the two or three persons who in her +lifetime have associated their names with some striking advancement +of the science? Two women, since political economy has been made a +science, have known enough of it to write usefully on the subject: of +how many of the innumerable men who have written on it during the +same time, is it possible with truth to say more? If no woman has +hitherto been a great historian, what woman has had the necessary +erudition? If no woman is a great philologist, what woman has studied +Sanscrit and Slavonic, the Gothic of Ulphila and the Persic of the +Zendavesta? Even in practical matters we all know what is the value +of the originality of untaught geniuses. It means, inventing over +again in its rudimentary form something already invented and improved +upon by many successive inventors. When women have had the +preparation which all men now require to be eminently original, it +will be time enough to begin judging by experience of their capacity +for originality. + +It no doubt often happens that a person, who has not widely and +accurately studied the thoughts of others on a subject, has by +natural sagacity a happy intuition, which he can suggest, but cannot +prove, which yet when matured may be an important addition to +knowledge: but even then, no justice can be done to it until some +other person, who does possess the previous acquirements, takes it in +hand, tests it, gives it a scientific or practical form, and fits it +into its place among the existing truths of philosophy or science. Is +it supposed that such felicitous thoughts do not occur to women? They +occur by hundreds to every woman of intellect. But they are mostly +lost, for want of a husband or friend who has the other knowledge +which can enable him to estimate them properly and bring them before +the world: and even when they are brought before it, they generally +appear as his ideas, not their real author's. Who can tell how many +of the most original thoughts put forth by male writers, belong to a +woman by suggestion, to themselves only by verifying and working out? +If I may judge by my own case, a very large proportion indeed. + +If we turn from pure speculation to literature in the narrow sense of +the term, and the fine arts, there is a very obvious reason why +women's literature is, in its general conception and in its main +features, an imitation of men's. Why is the Roman literature, as +critics proclaim to satiety, not original, but an imitation of the +Greek? Simply because the Greeks came first. If women lived in a +different country from men, and had never read any of their writings, +they would have had a literature of their own. As it is, they have +not created one, because they found a highly advanced literature +already created. If there had been no suspension of the knowledge of +antiquity, or if the Renaissance had occurred before the Gothic +cathedrals were built, they never would have been built. We see that, +in France and Italy, imitation of the ancient literature stopped the +original development even after it had commenced. All women who write +are pupils of the great male writers. A painter's early pictures, +even if he be a Raffaelle, are undistinguishable in style from those +of his master. Even a Mozart does not display his powerful +originality in his earliest pieces. What years are to a gifted +individual, generations are to a mass. If women's literature is +destined to have a different collective character from that of men, +depending on any difference of natural tendencies, much longer time +is necessary than has yet elapsed, before it can emancipate itself +from the influence of accepted models, and guide itself by its own +impulses. But if, as I believe, there will not prove to be any +natural tendencies common to women, and distinguishing their genius +from that of men, yet every individual writer among them has her +individual tendencies, which at present are still subdued by the +influence of precedent and example: and it will require generations +more, before their individuality is sufficiently developed to make +head against that influence. + +It is in the fine arts, properly so called, that the _prima facie_ +evidence of inferior original powers in women at first sight appears +the strongest: since opinion (it may be said) does not exclude them +from these, but rather encourages them, and their education, instead +of passing over this department, is in the affluent classes mainly +composed of it. Yet in this line of exertion they have fallen still +more short than in many others, of the highest eminence attained by +men. This shortcoming, however, needs no other explanation than the +familiar fact, more universally true in the fine arts than in +anything else; the vast superiority of professional persons over +amateurs. Women in the educated classes are almost universally taught +more or less of some branch or other of the fine arts, but not that +they may gain their living or their social consequence by it. Women +artists are all amateurs. The exceptions are only of the kind which +confirm the general truth. Women are taught music, but not for the +purpose of composing, only of executing it: and accordingly it is +only as composers, that men, in music, are superior to women. The +only one of the fine arts which women do follow, to any extent, as a +profession, and an occupation for life, is the histrionic; and in +that they are confessedly equal, if not superior, to men. To make the +comparison fair, it should be made between the productions of women +in any branch of art, and those of men not following it as a +profession. In musical composition, for example, women surely have +produced fully as good things as have ever been produced by male +amateurs. There are now a few women, a very few, who practise +painting as a profession, and these are already beginning to show +quite as much talent as could be expected. Even male painters (_pace_ +Mr. Ruskin) have not made any very remarkable figure these last +centuries, and it will be long before they do so. The reason why the +old painters were so greatly superior to the modern, is that a +greatly superior class of men applied themselves to the art. In the +fourteenth and fifteenth centuries the Italian painters were the most +accomplished men of their age. The greatest of them were men of +encyclopaedical acquirements and powers, like the great men of Greece. +But in their times fine art was, to men's feelings and conceptions, +among the grandest things in which a human being could excel; and by +it men were made, what only political or military distinction now +makes them, the companions of sovereigns, and the equals of the +highest nobility. In the present age, men of anything like similar +calibre find something more important to do, for their own fame and +the uses of the modern world, than painting: and it is only now and +then that a Reynolds or a Turner (of whose relative rank among +eminent men I do not pretend to an opinion) applies himself to that +art. Music belongs to a different order of things; it does not +require the same general powers of mind, but seems more dependant on +a natural gift: and it may be thought surprising that no one of the +great musical composers has been a woman. But even this natural gift, +to be made available for great creations, requires study, and +professional devotion to the pursuit. The only countries which have +produced first-rate composers, even of the male sex, are Germany and +Italy--countries in which, both in point of special and of general +cultivation, women have remained far behind France and England, being +generally (it may be said without exaggeration) very little educated, +and having scarcely cultivated at all any of the higher faculties of +mind. And in those countries the men who are acquainted with the +principles of musical composition must be counted by hundreds, or +more probably by thousands, the women barely by scores: so that here +again, on the doctrine of averages, we cannot reasonably expect to +see more than one eminent woman to fifty eminent men; and the last +three centuries have not produced fifty eminent male composers either +in Germany or in Italy. + +There are other reasons, besides those which we have now given, that +help to explain why women remain behind men, even in the pursuits +which are open to both. For one thing, very few women have time for +them. This may seem a paradox; it is an undoubted social fact. The +time and thoughts of every woman have to satisfy great previous +demands on them for things practical. There is, first, the +superintendence of the family and the domestic expenditure, which +occupies at least one woman in every family, generally the one of +mature years and acquired experience; unless the family is so rich as +to admit of delegating that task to hired agency, and submitting to +all the waste and malversation inseparable from that mode of +conducting it. The superintendence of a household, even when not in +other respects laborious, is extremely onerous to the thoughts; it +requires incessant vigilance, an eye which no detail escapes, and +presents questions for consideration and solution, foreseen and +unforeseen, at every hour of the day, from which the person +responsible for them can hardly ever shake herself free. If a woman +is of a rank and circumstances which relieve her in a measure from +these cares, she has still devolving on her the management for the +whole family of its intercourse with others--of what is called +society, and the less the call made on her by the former duty, the +greater is always the development of the latter: the dinner parties, +concerts, evening parties, morning visits, letter writing, and all +that goes with them. All this is over and above the engrossing duty +which society imposes exclusively on women, of making themselves +charming. A clever woman of the higher ranks finds nearly a +sufficient employment of her talents in cultivating the graces of +manner and the arts of conversation. To look only at the outward side +of the subject: the great and continual exercise of thought which all +women who attach any value to dressing well (I do not mean +expensively, but with taste, and perception of natural and of +artificial _convenance_) must bestow upon their own dress, perhaps +also upon that of their daughters, would alone go a great way towards +achieving respectable results in art, or science, or literature, and +does actually exhaust much of the time and mental power they might +have to spare for either.[2] If it were possible that all this number +of little practical interests (which are made great to them) should +leave them either much leisure, or much energy and freedom of mind, +to be devoted to art or speculation, they must have a much greater +original supply of active faculty than the vast majority of men. But +this is not all. Independently of the regular offices of life which +devolve upon a woman, she is expected to have her time and faculties +always at the disposal of everybody. If a man has not a profession to +exempt him from such demands, still, if he has a pursuit, he offends +nobody by devoting his time to it; occupation is received as a valid +excuse for his not answering to every casual demand which may be made +on him. Are a woman's occupations, especially her chosen and +voluntary ones, ever regarded as excusing her from any of what are +termed the calls of society? Scarcely are her most necessary and +recognised duties allowed as an exemption. It requires an illness in +the family, or something else out of the common way, to entitle her +to give her own business the precedence over other people's +amusement. She must always be at the beck and call of somebody, +generally of everybody. If she has a study or a pursuit, she must +snatch any short interval which accidentally occurs to be employed in +it. A celebrated woman, in a work which I hope will some day be +published, remarks truly that everything a woman does is done at odd +times. Is it wonderful, then, if she does not attain the highest +eminence in things which require consecutive attention, and the +concentration on them of the chief interest of life? Such is +philosophy, and such, above all, is art, in which, besides the +devotion of the thoughts and feelings, the hand also must be kept in +constant exercise to attain high skill. + +There is another consideration to be added to all these. In the +various arts and intellectual occupations, there is a degree of +proficiency sufficient for living by it, and there is a higher degree +on which depend the great productions which immortalize a name. To +the attainment of the former, there are adequate motives in the case +of all who follow the pursuit professionally: the other is hardly +ever attained where there is not, or where there has not been at some +period of life, an ardent desire of celebrity. Nothing less is +commonly a sufficient stimulus to undergo the long and patient +drudgery, which, in the case even of the greatest natural gifts, is +absolutely required for great eminence in pursuits in which we +already possess so many splendid memorials of the highest genius. +Now, whether the cause be natural or artificial, women seldom have +this eagerness for fame. Their ambition is generally confined within +narrower bounds. The influence they seek is over those who +immediately surround them. Their desire is to be liked, loved, or +admired, by those whom they see with their eyes: and the proficiency +in knowledge, arts, and accomplishments, which is sufficient for +that, almost always contents them. This is a trait of character which +cannot be left out of the account in judging of women as they are. I +do not at all believe that it is inherent in women. It is only the +natural result of their circumstances. The love of fame in men is +encouraged by education and opinion: to "scorn delights and live +laborious days" for its sake, is accounted the part of "noble minds," +even if spoken of as their "last infirmity," and is stimulated by the +access which fame gives to all objects of ambition, including even +the favour of women; while to women themselves all these objects are +closed, and the desire of fame itself considered daring and +unfeminine. Besides, how could it be that a woman's interests should +not be all concentrated upon the impressions made on those who come +into her daily life, when society has ordained that all her duties +should be to them, and has contrived that all her comforts should +depend on them? The natural desire of consideration from our fellow +creatures is as strong in a woman as in a man; but society has so +ordered things that public consideration is, in all ordinary cases, +only attainable by her through the consideration of her husband or of +her male relations, while her private consideration is forfeited by +making herself individually prominent, or appearing in any other +character than that of an appendage to men. Whoever is in the least +capable of estimating the influence on the mind of the entire +domestic and social position and the whole habit of a life, must +easily recognise in that influence a complete explanation of nearly +all the apparent differences between women and men, including the +whole of those which imply any inferiority. + +As for moral differences, considered as distinguished from +intellectual, the distinction commonly drawn is to the advantage of +women. They are declared to be better than men; an empty compliment, +which must provoke a bitter smile from every woman of spirit, since +there is no other situation in life in which it is the established +order, and considered quite natural and suitable, that the better +should obey the worse. If this piece of idle talk is good for +anything, it is only as an admission by men, of the corrupting +influence of power; for that is certainly the only truth which the +fact, if it be a fact, either proves or illustrates. And it _is_ true +that servitude, except when it actually brutalizes, though corrupting +to both, is less so to the slaves than to the slave-masters. It is +wholesomer for the moral nature to be restrained, even by arbitrary +power, than to be allowed to exercise arbitrary power without +restraint. Women, it is said, seldomer fall under the penal +law--contribute a much smaller number of offenders to the criminal +calendar, than men. I doubt not that the same thing may be said, with +the same truth, of negro slaves. Those who are under the control of +others cannot often commit crimes, unless at the command and for the +purposes of their masters. I do not know a more signal instance of +the blindness with which the world, including the herd of studious +men, ignore and pass over all the influences of social circumstances, +than their silly depreciation of the intellectual, and silly +panegyrics on the moral, nature of women. + +The complimentary dictum about women's superior moral goodness may be +allowed to pair off with the disparaging one respecting their greater +liability to moral bias. Women, we are told, are not capable of +resisting their personal partialities: their judgment in grave +affairs is warped by their sympathies and antipathies. Assuming it to +be so, it is still to be proved that women are oftener misled by +their personal feelings than men by their personal interests. The +chief difference would seem in that case to be, that men are led from +the course of duty and the public interest by their regard for +themselves, women (not being allowed to have private interests of +their own) by their regard for somebody else. It is also to be +considered, that all the education which women receive from society +inculcates on them the feeling that the individuals connected with +them are the only ones to whom they owe any duty--the only ones whose +interest they are called upon to care for; while, as far as education +is concerned, they are left strangers even to the elementary ideas +which are presupposed in any intelligent regard for larger interests +or higher moral objects. The complaint against them resolves itself +merely into this, that they fulfil only too faithfully the sole duty +which they are taught, and almost the only one which they are +permitted to practise. + +The concessions of the privileged to the unprivileged are so seldom +brought about by any better motive than the power of the unprivileged +to extort them, that any arguments against the prerogative of sex are +likely to be little attended to by the generality, as long as they +are able to say to themselves that women do not complain of it. That +fact certainly enables men to retain the unjust privilege some time +longer; but does not render it less unjust. Exactly the same thing +may be said of the women in the harem of an Oriental: they do not +complain of not being allowed the freedom of European women. They +think our women insufferably bold and unfeminine. How rarely it is +that even men complain of the general order of society; and how much +rarer still would such complaint be, if they did not know of any +different order existing anywhere else. Women do not complain of the +general lot of women; or rather they do, for plaintive elegies on it +are very common in the writings of women, and were still more so as +long as the lamentations could not be suspected of having any +practical object. Their complaints are like the complaints which men +make of the general unsatisfactoriness of human life; they are not +meant to imply blame, or to plead for any change. But though women do +not complain of the power of husbands, each complains of her own +husband, or of the husbands of her friends. It is the same in all +other cases of servitude, at least in the commencement of the +emancipatory movement. The serfs did not at first complain of the +power of their lords, but only of their tyranny. The Commons began by +claiming a few municipal privileges; they next asked an exemption for +themselves from being taxed without their own consent; but they would +at that time have thought it a great presumption to claim any share +in the king's sovereign authority. The case of women is now the only +case in which to rebel against established rules is still looked upon +with the same eyes as was formerly a subject's claim to the right of +rebelling against his king. A woman who joins in any movement which +her husband disapproves, makes herself a martyr, without even being +able to be an apostle, for the husband can legally put a stop to her +apostleship. Women cannot be expected to devote themselves to the +emancipation of women, until men in considerable number are prepared +to join with them in the undertaking. + +[Footnote 1: Especially is this true if we take into consideration +Asia as well as Europe. If a Hindoo principality is strongly, +vigilantly, and economically governed; if order is preserved without +oppression; if cultivation is extending, and the people prosperous, +in three cases out of four that principality is under a woman's rule. +This fact, to me an entirely unexpected one, I have collected from a +long official knowledge of Hindoo governments. There are many such +instances: for though, by Hindoo institutions, a woman cannot reign, +she is the legal regent of a kingdom during the minority of the heir; +and minorities are frequent, the lives of the male rulers being so +often prematurely terminated through the effect of inactivity and +sensual excesses. When we consider that these princesses have never +been seen in public, have never conversed with any man not of their +own family except from behind a curtain, that they do not read, and +if they did, there is no book in their languages which can give them +the smallest instruction on political affairs; the example they +afford of the natural capacity of women for government is very +striking.] + +[Footnote 2: "It appears to be the same right turn of mind which +enables a man to acquire the _truth_, or the just idea of what is +right, in the ornaments, as in the more stable principles of art. It +has still the same centre of perfection, though it is the centre of a +smaller circle.--To illustrate this by the fashion of dress, in which +there is allowed to be a good or bad taste. The component parts of +dress are continually changing from great to little, from short to +long; but the general form still remains: it is still the same +general dress which is comparatively fixed, though on a very slender +foundation; but it is on this which fashion must rest. He who invents +with the most success, or dresses in the best taste, would probably, +from the same sagacity employed to greater purposes, have discovered +equal skill, or have formed the same correct taste, in the highest +labours of art."--_Sir Joshua Reynolds' Discourses_, Disc. vii.] + + + + +CHAPTER IV. + + +There remains a question, not of less importance than those already +discussed, and which will be asked the most importunately by those +opponents whose conviction is somewhat shaken on the main point. What +good are we to expect from the changes proposed in our customs and +institutions? Would mankind be at all better off if women were free? +If not, why disturb their minds, and attempt to make a social +revolution in the name of an abstract right? + +It is hardly to be expected that this question will be asked in +respect to the change proposed in the condition of women in marriage. +The sufferings, immoralities, evils of all sorts, produced in +innumerable cases by the subjection of individual women to individual +men, are far too terrible to be overlooked. Unthinking or uncandid +persons, counting those cases alone which are extreme, or which +attain publicity, may say that the evils are exceptional; but no one +can be blind to their existence, nor, in many cases, to their +intensity. And it is perfectly obvious that the abuse of the power +cannot be very much checked while the power remains. It is a power +given, or offered, not to good men, or to decently respectable men, +but to all men; the most brutal, and the most criminal. There is no +check but that of opinion, and such men are in general within the +reach of no opinion but that of men like themselves. If such men did +not brutally tyrannize over the one human being whom the law compels +to bear everything from them, society must already have reached a +paradisiacal state. There could be no need any longer of laws to curb +men's vicious propensities. Astraea must not only have returned to +earth, but the heart of the worst man must have become her temple. +The law of servitude in marriage is a monstrous contradiction to all +the principles of the modern world, and to all the experience through +which those principles have been slowly and painfully worked out. It +is the sole case, now that negro slavery has been abolished, in which +a human being in the plenitude of every faculty is delivered up to +the tender mercies of another human being, in the hope forsooth that +this other will use the power solely for the good of the person +subjected to it. Marriage is the only actual bondage known to our +law. There remain no legal slaves, except the mistress of every +house. + +It is not, therefore, on this part of the subject, that the question +is likely to be asked, _Cui bono_? We may be told that the evil would +outweigh the good, but the reality of the good admits of no dispute. +In regard, however, to the larger question, the removal of women's +disabilities--their recognition as the equals of men in all that +belongs to citizenship--the opening to them of all honourable +employments, and of the training and education which qualifies for +those employments--there are many persons for whom it is not enough +that the inequality has no just or legitimate defence; they require +to be told what express advantage would be obtained by abolishing it. + +To which let me first answer, the advantage of having the most +universal and pervading of all human relations regulated by justice +instead of injustice. The vast amount of this gain to human nature, +it is hardly possible, by any explanation or illustration, to place +in a stronger light than it is placed by the bare statement, to any +one who attaches a moral meaning to words. All the selfish +propensities, the self-worship, the unjust self-preference, which +exist among mankind, have their source and root in, and derive their +principal nourishment from, the present constitution of the relation +between men and women. Think what it is to a boy, to grow up to +manhood in the belief that without any merit or any exertion of his +own, though he may be the most frivolous and empty or the most +ignorant and stolid of mankind, by the mere fact of being born a male +he is by right the superior of all and every one of an entire half of +the human race: including probably some whose real superiority to +himself he has daily or hourly occasion to feel; but even if in his +whole conduct he habitually follows a woman's guidance, still, if he +is a fool, she thinks that of course she is not, and cannot be, equal +in ability and judgment to himself; and if he is not a fool, he does +worse--he sees that she is superior to him, and believes that, +notwithstanding her superiority, he is entitled to command and she is +bound to obey. What must be the effect on his character, of this +lesson? And men of the cultivated classes are often not aware how +deeply it sinks into the immense majority of male minds. For, among +right-feeling and well-bred people, the inequality is kept as much as +possible out of sight; above all, out of sight of the children. As +much obedience is required from boys to their mother as to their +father: they are not permitted to domineer over their sisters, nor +are they accustomed to see these postponed to them, but the contrary; +the compensations of the chivalrous feeling being made prominent, +while the servitude which requires them is kept in the background. +Well brought-up youths in the higher classes thus often escape the +bad influences of the situation in their early years, and only +experience them when, arrived at manhood, they fall under the +dominion of facts as they really exist. Such people are little aware, +when a boy is differently brought up, how early the notion of his +inherent superiority to a girl arises in his mind; how it grows with +his growth and strengthens with his strength; how it is inoculated by +one schoolboy upon another; how early the youth thinks himself +superior to his mother, owing her perhaps forbearance, but no real +respect; and how sublime and sultan-like a sense of superiority he +feels, above all, over the woman whom he honours by admitting her to +a partnership of his life. Is it imagined that all this does not +pervert the whole manner of existence of the man, both as an +individual and as a social being? It is an exact parallel to the +feeling of a hereditary king that he is excellent above others by +being born a king, or a noble by being born a noble. The relation +between husband and wife is very like that between lord and vassal, +except that the wife is held to more unlimited obedience than the +vassal was. However the vassal's character may have been affected, +for better and for worse, by his subordination, who can help seeing +that the lord's was affected greatly for the worse? whether he was +led to believe that his vassals were really superior to himself, or +to feel that he was placed in command over people as good as himself, +for no merits or labours of his own, but merely for having, as Figaro +says, taken the trouble to be born. The self-worship of the monarch, +or of the feudal superior, is matched by the self-worship of the +male. Human beings do not grow up from childhood in the possession of +unearned distinctions, without pluming themselves upon them. Those +whom privileges not acquired by their merit, and which they feel to +be disproportioned to it, inspire with additional humility, are +always the few, and the best few. The rest are only inspired with +pride, and the worst sort of pride, that which values itself upon +accidental advantages, not of its own achieving. Above all, when the +feeling of being raised above the whole of the other sex is combined +with personal authority over one individual among them; the +situation, if a school of conscientious and affectionate forbearance +to those whose strongest points of character are conscience and +affection, is to men of another quality a regularly constituted +Academy or Gymnasium for training them in arrogance and +overbearingness; which vices, if curbed by the certainty of +resistance in their intercourse with other men, their equals, break +out towards all who are in a position to be obliged to tolerate them, +and often revenge themselves upon the unfortunate wife for the +involuntary restraint which they are obliged to submit to elsewhere. + +The example afforded, and the education given to the sentiments, by +laying the foundation of domestic existence upon a relation +contradictory to the first principles of social justice, must, from +the very nature of man, have a perverting influence of such +magnitude, that it is hardly possible with our present experience to +raise our imaginations to the conception of so great a change for the +better as would be made by its removal. All that education and +civilization are doing to efface the influences on character of the +law of force, and replace them by those of justice, remains merely on +the surface, as long as the citadel of the enemy is not attacked. The +principle of the modern movement in morals and politics, is that +conduct, and conduct alone, entitles to respect: that not what men +are, but what they do, constitutes their claim to deference; that, +above all, merit, and not birth, is the only rightful claim to power +and authority. If no authority, not in its nature temporary, were +allowed to one human being over another, society would not be +employed in building up propensities with one hand which it has to +curb with the other. The child would really, for the first time in +man's existence on earth, be trained in the way he should go, and +when he was old there would be a chance that he would not depart from +it. But so long as the right of the strong to power over the weak +rules in the very heart of society, the attempt to make the equal +right of the weak the principle of its outward actions will always be +an uphill struggle; for the law of justice, which is also that of +Christianity, will never get possession of men's inmost sentiments; +they will be working against it, even when bending to it. + +The second benefit to be expected from giving to women the free use +of their faculties, by leaving them the free choice of their +employments, and opening to them the same field of occupation and the +same prizes and encouragements as to other human beings, would be +that of doubling the mass of mental faculties available for the +higher service of humanity. Where there is now one person qualified +to benefit mankind and promote the general improvement, as a public +teacher, or an administrator of some branch of public or social +affairs, there would then be a chance of two. Mental superiority of +any kind is at present everywhere so much below the demand; there is +such a deficiency of persons competent to do excellently anything +which it requires any considerable amount of ability to do; that the +loss to the world, by refusing to make use of one-half of the whole +quantity of talent it possesses, is extremely serious. It is true +that this amount of mental power is not totally lost. Much of it is +employed, and would in any case be employed, in domestic management, +and in the few other occupations open to women; and from the +remainder indirect benefit is in many individual cases obtained, +through the personal influence of individual women over individual +men. But these benefits are partial; their range is extremely +circumscribed; and if they must be admitted, on the one hand, as a +deduction from the amount of fresh social power that would be +acquired by giving freedom to one-half of the whole sum of human +intellect, there must be added, on the other, the benefit of the +stimulus that would be given to the intellect of men by the +competition; or (to use a more true expression) by the necessity that +would be imposed on them of deserving precedency before they could +expect to obtain it. + +This great accession to the intellectual power of the species, and to +the amount of intellect available for the good management of its +affairs, would be obtained, partly, through the better and more +complete intellectual education of women, which would then improve +_pari passu_ with that of men. Women in general would be brought up +equally capable of understanding business, public affairs, and the +higher matters of speculation, with men in the same class of society; +and the select few of the one as well as of the other sex, who were +qualified not only to comprehend what is done or thought by others, +but to think or do something considerable themselves, would meet with +the same facilities for improving and training their capacities in +the one sex as in the other. In this way, the widening of the sphere +of action for women would operate for good, by raising their +education to the level of that of men, and making the one participate +in all improvements made in the other. But independently of this, the +mere breaking down of the barrier would of itself have an educational +virtue of the highest worth. The mere getting rid of the idea that +all the wider subjects of thought and action, all the things which +are of general and not solely of private interest, are men's +business, from which women are to be warned off--positively +interdicted from most of it, coldly tolerated in the little which is +allowed them--the mere consciousness a woman would then have of being +a human being like any other, entitled to choose her pursuits, urged +or invited by the same inducements as any one else to interest +herself in whatever is interesting to human beings, entitled to exert +the share of influence on all human concerns which belongs to an +individual opinion, whether she attempted actual participation in +them or not--this alone would effect an immense expansion of the +faculties of women, as well as enlargement of the range of their +moral sentiments. + +Besides the addition to the amount of individual talent available for +the conduct of human affairs, which certainly are not at present so +abundantly provided in that respect that they can afford to dispense +with one-half of what nature proffers; the opinion of women would +then possess a more beneficial, rather than a greater, influence upon +the general mass of human belief and sentiment. I say a more +beneficial, rather than a greater influence; for the influence of +women over the general tone of opinion has always, or at least from +the earliest known period, been very considerable. The influence of +mothers on the early character of their sons, and the desire of young +men to recommend themselves to young women, have in all recorded +times been important agencies in the formation of character, and have +determined some of the chief steps in the progress of civilization. +Even in the Homeric age, [Greek: aidos] towards the [Greek: Troadas] +[Greek: helkesipeplous] is an acknowledged and powerful motive of +action in the great Hector. The moral influence of women has had two +modes of operation. First, it has been a softening influence. Those +who were most liable to be the victims of violence, have naturally +tended as much as they could towards limiting its sphere and +mitigating its excesses. Those who were not taught to fight, have +naturally inclined in favour of any other mode of settling +differences rather than that of fighting. In general, those who have +been the greatest sufferers by the indulgence of selfish passion, +have been the most earnest supporters of any moral law which offered +a means of bridling passion. Women were powerfully instrumental in +inducing the northern conquerors to adopt the creed of Christianity, +a creed so much more favourable to women than any that preceded it. +The conversion of the Anglo-Saxons and of the Franks may be said to +have been begun by the wives of Ethelbert and Clovis. The other mode +in which the effect of women's opinion has been conspicuous, is by +giving a powerful stimulus to those qualities in men, which, not +being themselves trained in, it was necessary for them that they +should find in their protectors. Courage, and the military virtues +generally, have at all times been greatly indebted to the desire +which men felt of being admired by women: and the stimulus reaches +far beyond this one class of eminent qualities, since, by a very +natural effect of their position, the best passport to the admiration +and favour of women has always been to be thought highly of by men. +From the combination of the two kinds of moral influence thus +exercised by women, arose the spirit of chivalry: the peculiarity of +which is, to aim at combining the highest standard of the warlike +qualities with the cultivation of a totally different class of +virtues--those of gentleness, generosity, and self-abnegation, +towards the non-military and defenceless classes generally, and a +special submission and worship directed towards women; who were +distinguished from the other defenceless classes by the high rewards +which they had it in their power voluntarily to bestow on those who +endeavoured to earn their favour, instead of extorting their +subjection. Though the practice of chivalry fell even more sadly +short of its theoretic standard than practice generally falls below +theory, it remains one of the most precious monuments of the moral +history of our race; as a remarkable instance of a concerted and +organized attempt by a most disorganized and distracted society, to +raise up and carry into practice a moral ideal greatly in advance of +its social condition and institutions; so much so as to have been +completely frustrated in the main object, yet never entirely +inefficacious, and which has left a most sensible, and for the most +part a highly valuable impress on the ideas and feelings of all +subsequent times. + +The chivalrous ideal is the acme of the influence of women's +sentiments on the moral cultivation of mankind: and if women are to +remain in their subordinate situation, it were greatly to be lamented +that the chivalrous standard should have passed away, for it is the +only one at all capable of mitigating the demoralizing influences of +that position. But the changes in the general state of the species +rendered inevitable the substitution of a totally different ideal of +morality for the chivalrous one. Chivalry was the attempt to infuse +moral elements into a state of society in which everything depended +for good or evil on individual prowess, under the softening +influences of individual delicacy and generosity. In modern +societies, all things, even in the military department of affairs, +are decided, not by individual effort, but by the combined operations +of numbers; while the main occupation of society has changed from +fighting to business, from military to industrial life. The +exigencies of the new life are no more exclusive of the virtues of +generosity than those of the old, but it no longer entirely depends +on them. The main foundations of the moral life of modern times must +be justice and prudence; the respect of each for the rights of every +other, and the ability of each to take care of himself. Chivalry left +without legal check all forms of wrong which reigned unpunished +throughout society; it only encouraged a few to do right in +preference to wrong, by the direction it gave to the instruments of +praise and admiration. But the real dependence of morality must +always be upon its penal sanctions--its power to deter from evil. The +security of society cannot rest on merely rendering honour to right, +a motive so comparatively weak in all but a few, and which on very +many does not operate at all. Modern society is able to repress wrong +through all departments of life, by a fit exertion of the superior +strength which civilization has given it, and thus to render the +existence of the weaker members of society (no longer defenceless but +protected by law) tolerable to them, without reliance on the +chivalrous feelings of those who are in a position to tyrannize. The +beauties and graces of the chivalrous character are still what they +were, but the rights of the weak, and the general comfort of human +life, now rest on a far surer and steadier support; or rather, they +do so in every relation of life except the conjugal. + +At present the moral influence of women is no less real, but it is no +longer of so marked and definite a character: it has more nearly +merged in the general influence of public opinion. Both through the +contagion of sympathy, and through the desire of men to shine in the +eyes of women, their feelings have great effect in keeping alive what +remains of the chivalrous ideal--in fostering the sentiments and +continuing the traditions of spirit and generosity. In these points +of character, their standard is higher than that of men; in the +quality of justice, somewhat lower. As regards the relations of +private life it may be said generally, that their influence is, on +the whole, encouraging to the softer virtues, discouraging to the +sterner: though the statement must be taken with all the +modifications dependent on individual character. In the chief of the +greater trials to which virtue is subject in the concerns of +life--the conflict between interest and principle--the tendency of +women's influence is of a very mixed character. When the principle +involved happens to be one of the very few which the course of their +religious or moral education has strongly impressed upon themselves, +they are potent auxiliaries to virtue: and their husbands and sons +are often prompted by them to acts of abnegation which they never +would have been capable of without that stimulus. But, with the +present education and position of women, the moral principles which +have been impressed on them cover but a comparatively small part of +the field of virtue, and are, moreover, principally negative; +forbidding particular acts, but having little to do with the general +direction of the thoughts and purposes. I am afraid it must be said, +that disinterestedness in the general conduct of life--the devotion +of the energies to purposes which hold out no promise of private +advantages to the family--is very seldom encouraged or supported by +women's influence. It is small blame to them that they discourage +objects of which they have not learnt to see the advantage, and which +withdraw their men from them, and from the interests of the family. +But the consequence is that women's influence is often anything but +favourable to public virtue. + +Women have, however, some share of influence in giving the tone to +public moralities since their sphere of action has been a little +widened, and since a considerable number of them have occupied +themselves practically in the promotion of objects reaching beyond +their own family and household. The influence of women counts for a +great deal in two of the most marked features of modern European +life--its aversion to war, and its addiction to philanthropy. +Excellent characteristics both; but unhappily, if the influence of +women is valuable in the encouragement it gives to these feelings in +general, in the particular applications the direction it gives to +them is at least as often mischievous as useful. In the philanthropic +department more particularly, the two provinces chiefly cultivated by +women are religious proselytism and charity. Religious proselytism at +home, is but another word for embittering of religious animosities: +abroad, it is usually a blind running at an object, without either +knowing or heeding the fatal mischiefs--fatal to the religious object +itself as well as to all other desirable objects--which may be +produced by the means employed. As for charity, it is a matter in +which the immediate effect on the persons directly concerned, and the +ultimate consequence to the general good, are apt to be at complete +war with one another: while the education given to women--an +education of the sentiments rather than of the understanding--and the +habit inculcated by their whole life, of looking to immediate effects +on persons, and not to remote effects on classes of persons--make +them both unable to see, and unwilling to admit, the ultimate evil +tendency of any form of charity or philanthropy which commends itself +to their sympathetic feelings. The great and continually increasing +mass of unenlightened and shortsighted benevolence, which, taking the +care of people's lives out of their own hands, and relieving them +from the disagreeable consequences of their own acts, saps the very +foundations of the self-respect, self-help, and self-control which +are the essential conditions both of individual prosperity and of +social virtue--this waste of resources and of benevolent feelings in +doing harm instead of good, is immensely swelled by women's +contributions, and stimulated by their influence. Not that this is a +mistake likely to be made by women, where they have actually the +practical management of schemes of beneficence. It sometimes happens +that women who administer public charities--with that insight into +present fact, and especially into the minds and feelings of those +with whom they are in immediate contact, in which women generally +excel men--recognise in the clearest manner the demoralizing +influence of the alms given or the help afforded, and could give +lessons on the subject to many a male political economist. But women +who only give their money, and are not brought face to face with the +effects it produces, how can they be expected to foresee them? A +woman born to the present lot of women, and content with it, how +should she appreciate the value of self-dependence? She is not +self-dependent; she is not taught self-dependence; her destiny is to +receive everything from others, and why should what is good enough +for her be bad for the poor? Her familiar notions of good are of +blessings descending from a superior. She forgets that she is not +free, and that the poor are; that if what they need is given to them +unearned, they cannot be compelled to earn it: that everybody cannot +be taken care of by everybody, but there must be some motive to +induce people to take care of themselves; and that to be helped to +help themselves, if they are physically capable of it, is the only +charity which proves to be charity in the end. + +These considerations show how usefully the part which women take in +the formation of general opinion, would be modified for the better by +that more enlarged instruction, and practical conversancy with the +things which their opinions influence, that would necessarily arise +from their social and political emancipation. But the improvement it +would work through the influence they exercise, each in her own +family, would be still more remarkable. + +It is often said that in the classes most exposed to temptation, a +man's wife and children tend to keep him honest and respectable, both +by the wife's direct influence, and by the concern he feels for their +future welfare. This may be so, and no doubt often is so, with those +who are more weak than wicked; and this beneficial influence would be +preserved and strengthened under equal laws; it does not depend on +the woman's servitude, but is, on the contrary, diminished by the +disrespect which the inferior class of men always at heart feel +towards those who are subject to their power. But when we ascend +higher in the scale, we come among a totally different set of moving +forces. The wife's influence tends, as far as it goes, to prevent the +husband from falling below the common standard of approbation of the +country. It tends quite as strongly to hinder him from rising above +it. The wife is the auxiliary of the common public opinion. A man who +is married to a woman his inferior in intelligence, finds her a +perpetual dead weight, or, worse than a dead weight, a drag, upon +every aspiration of his to be better than public opinion requires him +to be. It is hardly possible for one who is in these bonds, to attain +exalted virtue. If he differs in his opinion from the mass--if he +sees truths which have not yet dawned upon them, or if, feeling in +his heart truths which they nominally recognise, he would like to act +up to those truths more conscientiously than the generality of +mankind--to all such thoughts and desires, marriage is the heaviest +of drawbacks, unless he be so fortunate as to have a wife as much +above the common level as he himself is. + +For, in the first place, there is always some sacrifice of personal +interest required; either of social consequence, or of pecuniary +means; perhaps the risk of even the means of subsistence. These +sacrifices and risks he may be willing to encounter for himself; but +he will pause before he imposes them on his family. And his family in +this case means his wife and daughters; for he always hopes that his +sons will feel as he feels himself, and that what he can do without, +they will do without, willingly, in the same cause. But his +daughters--their marriage may depend upon it: and his wife, who is +unable to enter into or understand the objects for which these +sacrifices are made--who, if she thought them worth any sacrifice, +would think so on trust, and solely for his sake--who can participate +in none of the enthusiasm or the self-approbation he himself may +feel, while the things which he is disposed to sacrifice are all in +all to her; will not the best and most unselfish man hesitate the +longest before bringing on her this consequence? If it be not the +comforts of life, but only social consideration, that is at stake, +the burthen upon his conscience and feelings is still very severe. +Whoever has a wife and children has given hostages to Mrs. Grundy. +The approbation of that potentate may be a matter of indifference to +him, but it is of great importance to his wife. The man himself may +be above opinion, or may find sufficient compensation in the opinion +of those of his own way of thinking. But to the women connected with +him, he can offer no compensation. The almost invariable tendency of +the wife to place her influence in the same scale with social +consideration, is sometimes made a reproach to women, and represented +as a peculiar trait of feebleness and childishness of character in +them: surely with great injustice. Society makes the whole life of a +woman, in the easy classes, a continued self-sacrifice; it exacts +from her an unremitting restraint of the whole of her natural +inclinations, and the sole return it makes to her for what often +deserves the name of a martyrdom, is consideration. Her consideration +is inseparably connected with that of her husband, and after paying +the full price for it, she finds that she is to lose it, for no +reason of which she can feel the cogency. She has sacrificed her +whole life to it, and her husband will not sacrifice to it a whim, a +freak, an eccentricity; something not recognised or allowed for by +the world, and which the world will agree with her in thinking a +folly, if it thinks no worse! The dilemma is hardest upon that very +meritorious class of men, who, without possessing talents which +qualify them to make a figure among those with whom they agree in +opinion, hold their opinion from conviction, and feel bound in honour +and conscience to serve it, by making profession of their belief, and +giving their time, labour, and means, to anything undertaken in its +behalf. The worst case of all is when such men happen to be of a rank +and position which of itself neither gives them, nor excludes them +from, what is considered the best society; when their admission to it +depends mainly on what is thought of them personally--and however +unexceptionable their breeding and habits, their being identified +with opinions and public conduct unacceptable to those who give the +tone to society would operate as an effectual exclusion. Many a woman +flatters herself (nine times out of ten quite erroneously) that +nothing prevents her and her husband from moving in the highest +society of her neighbourhood--society in which others well known to +her, and in the same class of life, mix freely--except that her +husband is unfortunately a Dissenter, or has the reputation of +mingling in low radical politics. That it is, she thinks, which +hinders George from getting a commission or a place, Caroline from +making an advantageous match, and prevents her and her husband from +obtaining invitations, perhaps honours, which, for aught she sees, +they are as well entitled to as some folks. With such an influence in +every house, either exerted actively, or operating all the more +powerfully for not being asserted, is it any wonder that people in +general are kept down in that mediocrity of respectability which is +becoming a marked characteristic of modern times? + +There is another very injurious aspect in which the effect, not of +women's disabilities directly, but of the broad line of difference +which those disabilities create between the education and character +of a woman and that of a man, requires to be considered. Nothing can +be more unfavourable to that union of thoughts and inclinations which +is the ideal of married life. Intimate society between people +radically dissimilar to one another, is an idle dream. Unlikeness may +attract, but it is likeness which retains; and in proportion to the +likeness is the suitability of the individuals to give each other a +happy life. While women are so unlike men, it is not wonderful that +selfish men should feel the need of arbitrary power in their own +hands, to arrest _in limine_ the life-long conflict of inclinations, +by deciding every question on the side of their own preference. When +people are extremely unlike, there can be no real identity of +interest. Very often there is conscientious difference of opinion +between married people, on the highest points of duty. Is there any +reality in the marriage union where this takes place? Yet it is not +uncommon anywhere, when the woman has any earnestness of character; +and it is a very general case indeed in Catholic countries, when she +is supported in her dissent by the only other authority to which she +is taught to bow, the priest. With the usual barefacedness of power +not accustomed to find itself disputed, the influence of priests over +women is attacked by Protestant and Liberal writers, less for being +bad in itself, than because it is a rival authority to the husband, +and raises up a revolt against his infallibility. In England, similar +differences occasionally exist when an Evangelical wife has allied +herself with a husband of a different quality; but in general this +source at least of dissension is got rid of, by reducing the minds of +women to such a nullity, that they have no opinions but those of Mrs. +Grundy, or those which the husband tells them to have. When there is +no difference of opinion, differences merely of taste may be +sufficient to detract greatly from the happiness of married life. And +though it may stimulate the amatory propensities of men, it does not +conduce to married happiness, to exaggerate by differences of +education whatever may be the native differences of the sexes. If the +married pair are well-bred and well-behaved people, they tolerate +each other's tastes; but is mutual toleration what people look +forward to, when they enter into marriage? These differences of +inclination will naturally make their wishes different, if not +restrained by affection or duty, as to almost all domestic questions +which arise. What a difference there must be in the society which the +two persons will wish to frequent, or be frequented by! Each will +desire associates who share their own tastes: the persons agreeable +to one, will be indifferent or positively disagreeable to the other; +yet there can be none who are not common to both, for married people +do not now live in different parts of the house and have totally +different visiting lists, as in the reign of Louis XV. They cannot +help having different wishes as to the bringing up of the children: +each will wish to see reproduced in them their own tastes and +sentiments: and there is either a compromise, and only a +half-satisfaction to either, or the wife has to yield--often with +bitter suffering; and, with or without intention, her occult +influence continues to counterwork the husband's purposes. + +It would of course be extreme folly to suppose that these differences +of feeling and inclination only exist because women are brought up +differently from men, and that there would not be differences of +taste under any imaginable circumstances. But there is nothing beyond +the mark in saying that the distinction in bringing-up immensely +aggravates those differences, and renders them wholly inevitable. +While women are brought up as they are, a man and a woman will but +rarely find in one another real agreement of tastes and wishes as to +daily life. They will generally have to give it up as hopeless, and +renounce the attempt to have, in the intimate associate of their +daily life, that _idem velle, idem nolle_, which is the recognised +bond of any society that is really such: or if the man succeeds in +obtaining it, he does so by choosing a woman who is so complete a +nullity that she has no _velle_ or _nolle_ at all, and is as ready to +comply with one thing as another if anybody tells her to do so. Even +this calculation is apt to fail; dulness and want of spirit are not +always a guarantee of the submission which is so confidently expected +from them. But if they were, is this the ideal of marriage? What, in +this case, does the man obtain by it, except an upper servant, a +nurse, or a mistress? On the contrary, when each of two persons, +instead of being a nothing, is a something; when they are attached to +one another, and are not too much unlike to begin with; the constant +partaking in the same things, assisted by their sympathy, draws out +the latent capacities of each for being interested in the things +which were at first interesting only to the other; and works a +gradual assimilation of the tastes and characters to one another, +partly by the insensible modification of each, but more by a real +enriching of the two natures, each acquiring the tastes and +capacities of the other in addition to its own. This often happens +between two friends of the same sex, who are much associated in their +daily life: and it would be a common, if not the commonest, case in +marriage, did not the totally different bringing-up of the two sexes +make it next to an impossibility to form a really well-assorted +union. Were this remedied, whatever differences there might still be +in individual tastes, there would at least be, as a general rule, +complete unity and unanimity as to the great objects of life. When +the two persons both care for great objects, and are a help and +encouragement to each other in whatever regards these, the minor +matters on which their tastes may differ are not all-important to +them; and there is a foundation for solid friendship, of an enduring +character, more likely than anything else to make it, through the +whole of life, a greater pleasure to each to give pleasure to the +other, than to receive it. + +I have considered, thus far, the effects on the pleasures and +benefits of the marriage union which depend on the mere unlikeness +between the wife and the husband: but the evil tendency is +prodigiously aggravated when the unlikeness is inferiority. Mere +unlikeness, when it only means difference of good qualities, may be +more a benefit in the way of mutual improvement, than a drawback from +comfort. When each emulates, and desires and endeavours to acquire, +the other's peculiar qualities, the difference does not produce +diversity of interest, but increased identity of it, and makes each +still more valuable to the other. But when one is much the inferior +of the two in mental ability and cultivation, and is not actively +attempting by the other's aid to rise to the other's level, the whole +influence of the connexion upon the development of the superior of +the two is deteriorating: and still more so in a tolerably happy +marriage than in an unhappy one. It is not with impunity that the +superior in intellect shuts himself up with an inferior, and elects +that inferior for his chosen, and sole completely intimate, +associate. Any society which is not improving, is deteriorating: and +the more so, the closer and more familiar it is. Even a really +superior man almost always begins to deteriorate when he is +habitually (as the phrase is) king of his company: and in his most +habitual company the husband who has a wife inferior to him is always +so. While his self-satisfaction is incessantly ministered to on the +one hand, on the other he insensibly imbibes the modes of feeling, +and of looking at things, which belong to a more vulgar or a more +limited mind than his own. This evil differs from many of those which +have hitherto been dwelt on, by being an increasing one. The +association of men with women in daily life is much closer and more +complete than it ever was before. Men's life is more domestic. +Formerly, their pleasures and chosen occupations were among men, and +in men's company: their wives had but a fragment of their lives. At +the present time, the progress of civilization, and the turn of +opinion against the rough amusements and convivial excesses which +formerly occupied most men in their hours of relaxation--together +with (it must be said) the improved tone of modern feeling as to the +reciprocity of duty which binds the husband towards the wife--have +thrown the man very much more upon home and its inmates, for his +personal and social pleasures: while the kind and degree of +improvement which has been made in women's education, has made them +in some degree capable of being his companions in ideas and mental +tastes, while leaving them, in most cases, still hopelessly inferior +to him. His desire of mental communion is thus in general satisfied +by a communion from which he learns nothing. An unimproving and +unstimulating companionship is substituted for (what he might +otherwise have been obliged to seek) the society of his equals in +powers and his fellows in the higher pursuits. We see, accordingly, +that young men of the greatest promise generally cease to improve as +soon as they marry, and, not improving, inevitably degenerate. If the +wife does not push the husband forward, she always holds him back. He +ceases to care for what she does not care for; he no longer desires, +and ends by disliking and shunning, society congenial to his former +aspirations, and which would now shame his falling-off from them; his +higher faculties both of mind and heart cease to be called into +activity. And this change coinciding with the new and selfish +interests which are created by the family, after a few years he +differs in no material respect from those who have never had wishes +for anything but the common vanities and the common pecuniary +objects. + +What marriage may be in the case of two persons of cultivated +faculties, identical in opinions and purposes, between whom there +exists that best kind of equality, similarity of powers and +capacities with reciprocal superiority in them--so that each can +enjoy the luxury of looking up to the other, and can have alternately +the pleasure of leading and of being led in the path of +development--I will not attempt to describe. To those who can +conceive it, there is no need; to those who cannot, it would appear +the dream of an enthusiast. But I maintain, with the profoundest +conviction, that this, and this only, is the ideal of marriage; and +that all opinions, customs, and institutions which favour any other +notion of it, or turn the conceptions and aspirations connected with +it into any other direction, by whatever pretences they may be +coloured, are relics of primitive barbarism. The moral regeneration +of mankind will only really commence, when the most fundamental of +the social relations is placed under the rule of equal justice, and +when human beings learn to cultivate their strongest sympathy with an +equal in rights and in cultivation. + +Thus far, the benefits which it has appeared that the world would +gain by ceasing to make sex a disqualification for privileges and a +badge of subjection, are social rather than individual; consisting in +an increase of the general fund of thinking and acting power, and an +improvement in the general conditions of the association of men with +women. But it would be a grievous understatement of the case to omit +the most direct benefit of all, the unspeakable gain in private +happiness to the liberated half of the species; the difference to +them between a life of subjection to the will of others, and a life +of rational freedom. After the primary necessities of food and +raiment, freedom is the first and strongest want of human nature. +While mankind are lawless, their desire is for lawless freedom. When +they have learnt to understand the meaning of duty and the value of +reason, they incline more and more to be guided and restrained by +these in the exercise of their freedom; but they do not therefore +desire freedom less; they do not become disposed to accept the will +of other people as the representative and interpreter of those +guiding principles. On the contrary, the communities in which the +reason has been most cultivated, and in which the idea of social duty +has been most powerful, are those which have most strongly asserted +the freedom of action of the individual--the liberty of each to +govern his conduct by his own feelings of duty, and by such laws and +social restraints as his own conscience can subscribe to. + +He who would rightly appreciate the worth of personal independence as +an element of happiness, should consider the value he himself puts +upon it as an ingredient of his own. There is no subject on which +there is a greater habitual difference of judgment between a man +judging for himself, and the same man judging for other people. When +he hears others complaining that they are not allowed freedom of +action--that their own will has not sufficient influence in the +regulation of their affairs--his inclination is, to ask, what are +their grievances? what positive damage they sustain? and in what +respect they consider their affairs to be mismanaged? and if they +fail to make out, in answer to these questions, what appears to him a +sufficient case, he turns a deaf ear, and regards their complaint as +the fanciful querulousness of people whom nothing reasonable will +satisfy. But he has a quite different standard of judgment when he is +deciding for himself. Then, the most unexceptionable administration +of his interests by a tutor set over him, does not satisfy his +feelings: his personal exclusion from the deciding authority appears +itself the greatest grievance of all, rendering it superfluous even +to enter into the question of mismanagement. It is the same with +nations. What citizen of a free country would listen to any offers of +good and skilful administration, in return for the abdication of +freedom? Even if he could believe that good and skilful +administration can exist among a people ruled by a will not their +own, would not the consciousness of working out their own destiny +under their own moral responsibility be a compensation to his +feelings for great rudeness and imperfection in the details of public +affairs? Let him rest assured that whatever he feels on this point, +women feel in a fully equal degree. Whatever has been said or +written, from the time of Herodotus to the present, of the ennobling +influence of free government--the nerve and spring which it gives to +all the faculties, the larger and higher objects which it presents to +the intellect and feelings, the more unselfish public spirit, and +calmer and broader views of duty, that it engenders, and the +generally loftier platform on which it elevates the individual as a +moral, spiritual, and social being--is every particle as true of +women as of men. Are these things no important part of individual +happiness? Let any man call to mind what he himself felt on emerging +from boyhood--from the tutelage and control of even loved and +affectionate elders--and entering upon the responsibilities of +manhood. Was it not like the physical effect of taking off a heavy +weight, or releasing him from obstructive, even if not otherwise +painful, bonds? Did he not feel twice as much alive, twice as much a +human being, as before? And does he imagine that women have none of +these feelings? But it is a striking fact, that the satisfactions and +mortifications of personal pride, though all in all to most men when +the case is their own, have less allowance made for them in the case +of other people, and are less listened to as a ground or a +justification of conduct, than any other natural human feelings; +perhaps because men compliment them in their own case with the names +of so many other qualities, that they are seldom conscious how mighty +an influence these feelings exercise in their own lives. No less +large and powerful is their part, we may assure ourselves, in the +lives and feelings of women. Women are schooled into suppressing them +in their most natural and most healthy direction, but the internal +principle remains, in a different outward form. An active and +energetic mind, if denied liberty, will seek for power: refused the +command of itself, it will assert its personality by attempting to +control others. To allow to any human beings no existence of their +own but what depends on others, is giving far too high a premium on +bending others to their purposes. Where liberty cannot be hoped for, +and power can, power becomes the grand object of human desire; those +to whom others will not leave the undisturbed management of their own +affairs, will compensate themselves, if they can, by meddling for +their own purposes with the affairs of others. Hence also women's +passion for personal beauty, and dress and display; and all the evils +that flow from it, in the way of mischievous luxury and social +immorality. The love of power and the love of liberty are in eternal +antagonism. Where there is least liberty, the passion for power is +the most ardent and unscrupulous. The desire of power over others can +only cease to be a depraving agency among mankind, when each of them +individually is able to do without it: which can only be where +respect for liberty in the personal concerns of each is an +established principle. + +But it is not only through the sentiment of personal dignity, that +the free direction and disposal of their own faculties is a source of +individual happiness, and to be fettered and restricted in it, a +source of unhappiness, to human beings, and not least to women. There +is nothing, after disease, indigence, and guilt, so fatal to the +pleasurable enjoyment of life as the want of a worthy outlet for the +active faculties. Women who have the cares of a family, and while +they have the cares of a family, have this outlet, and it generally +suffices for them: but what of the greatly increasing number of +women, who have had no opportunity of exercising the vocation which +they are mocked by telling them is their proper one? What of the +women whose children have been lost to them by death or distance, or +have grown up, married, and formed homes of their own? There are +abundant examples of men who, after a life engrossed by business, +retire with a competency to the enjoyment, as they hope, of rest, but +to whom, as they are unable to acquire new interests and excitements +that can replace the old, the change to a life of inactivity brings +ennui, melancholy, and premature death. Yet no one thinks of the +parallel case of so many worthy and devoted women, who, having paid +what they are told is their debt to society--having brought up a +family blamelessly to manhood and womanhood--having kept a house as +long as they had a house needing to be kept--are deserted by the sole +occupation for which they have fitted themselves; and remain with +undiminished activity but with no employment for it, unless perhaps a +daughter or daughter-in-law is willing to abdicate in their favour +the discharge of the same functions in her younger household. Surely +a hard lot for the old age of those who have worthily discharged, as +long as it was given to them to discharge, what the world accounts +their only social duty. Of such women, and of those others to whom +this duty has not been committed at all--many of whom pine through +life with the consciousness of thwarted vocations, and activities +which are not suffered to expand--the only resources, speaking +generally, are religion and charity. But their religion, though it +may be one of feeling, and of ceremonial observance, cannot be a +religion of action, unless in the form of charity. For charity many +of them are by nature admirably fitted; but to practise it usefully, +or even without doing mischief, requires the education, the manifold +preparation, the knowledge and the thinking powers, of a skilful +administrator. There are few of the administrative functions of +government for which a person would not be fit, who is fit to bestow +charity usefully. In this as in other cases (pre-eminently in that of +the education of children), the duties permitted to women cannot be +performed properly, without their being trained for duties which, to +the great loss of society, are not permitted to them. And here let me +notice the singular way in which the question of women's disabilities +is frequently presented to view, by those who find it easier to draw +a ludicrous picture of what they do not like, than to answer the +arguments for it. When it is suggested that women's executive +capacities and prudent counsels might sometimes be found valuable in +affairs of state, these lovers of fun hold up to the ridicule of the +world, as sitting in parliament or in the cabinet, girls in their +teens, or young wives of two or three and twenty, transported bodily, +exactly as they are, from the drawing-room to the House of Commons. +They forget that males are not usually selected at this early age for +a seat in Parliament, or for responsible political functions. Common +sense would tell them that if such trusts were confided to women, it +would be to such as having no special vocation for married life, or +preferring another employment of their faculties (as many women even +now prefer to marriage some of the few honourable occupations within +their reach), have spent the best years of their youth in attempting +to qualify themselves for the pursuits in which they desire to +engage; or still more frequently perhaps, widows or wives of forty or +fifty, by whom the knowledge of life and faculty of government which +they have acquired in their families, could by the aid of appropriate +studies be made available on a less contracted scale. There is no +country of Europe in which the ablest men have not frequently +experienced, and keenly appreciated, the value of the advice and help +of clever and experienced women of the world, in the attainment both +of private and of public objects; and there are important matters of +public administration to which few men are equally competent with +such women; among others, the detailed control of expenditure. But +what we are now discussing is not the need which society has of the +services of women in public business, but the dull and hopeless life +to which it so often condemns them, by forbidding them to exercise +the practical abilities which many of them are conscious of, in any +wider field than one which to some of them never was, and to others +is no longer, open. If there is anything vitally important to the +happiness of human beings, it is that they should relish their +habitual pursuit. This requisite of an enjoyable life is very +imperfectly granted, or altogether denied, to a large part of +mankind; and by its absence many a life is a failure, which is +provided, in appearance, with every requisite of success. But if +circumstances which society is not yet skilful enough to overcome, +render such failures often for the present inevitable, society need +not itself inflict them. The injudiciousness of parents, a youth's +own inexperience, or the absence of external opportunities for the +congenial vocation, and their presence for an uncongenial, condemn +numbers of men to pass their lives in doing one thing reluctantly and +ill, when there are other things which they could have done well and +happily. But on women this sentence is imposed by actual law, and by +customs equivalent to law. What, in unenlightened societies, colour, +race, religion, or in the case of a conquered country, nationality, +are to some men, sex is to all women; a peremptory exclusion from +almost all honourable occupations, but either such as cannot be +fulfilled by others, or such as those others do not think worthy of +their acceptance. Sufferings arising from causes of this nature +usually meet with so little sympathy, that few persons are aware of +the great amount of unhappiness even now produced by the feeling of a +wasted life. The case will be even more frequent, as increased +cultivation creates a greater and greater disproportion between the +ideas and faculties of women, and the scope which society allows to +their activity. + +When we consider the positive evil caused to the disqualified half of +the human race by their disqualification--first in the loss of the +most inspiriting and elevating kind of personal enjoyment, and next +in the weariness, disappointment, and profound dissatisfaction with +life, which are so often the substitute for it; one feels that among +all the lessons which men require for carrying on the struggle +against the inevitable imperfections of their lot on earth, there is +no lesson which they more need, than not to add to the evils which +nature inflicts, by their jealous and prejudiced restrictions on one +another. Their vain fears only substitute other and worse evils for +those which they are idly apprehensive of: while every restraint on +the freedom of conduct of any of their human fellow creatures, +(otherwise than by making them responsible for any evil actually +caused by it), dries up _pro tanto_ the principal fountain of human +happiness, and leaves the species less rich, to an inappreciable +degree, in all that makes life valuable to the individual human +being. + + THE END. + + + + + + +End of Project Gutenberg's The Subjection of Women, by John Stuart Mill + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK THE SUBJECTION OF WOMEN *** + +***** This file should be named 27083.txt or 27083.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + https://www.gutenberg.org/2/7/0/8/27083/ + +Produced by Michael Roe and the Online Distributed +Proofreading Team at https://www.pgdp.net (This file was +produced from images generously made available by The +Internet Archive/American Libraries.) + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. 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