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diff --git a/2541.txt b/2541.txt new file mode 100644 index 0000000..b7547cf --- /dev/null +++ b/2541.txt @@ -0,0 +1,12090 @@ +The Project Gutenberg EBook of Character, by Samuel Smiles + +This eBook is for the use of anyone anywhere at no cost and with +almost no restrictions whatsoever. You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Character + +Author: Samuel Smiles + +Posting Date: December 11, 2008 [EBook #2541] +Release Date: March, 2001 + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ASCII + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK CHARACTER *** + + + + +Produced by Sean Hackett + + + + + +CHARACTER + +By Samuel Smiles + + + + +CHAPTER I.--INFLUENCE OF CHARACTER. + + + + "Unless above himself he can Erect himself, how poor a thing + is man"--DANIEL. + + "Character is moral order seen through the medium, of an + individual nature.... Men of character are the conscience of + the society to which they belong."--EMERSON. + + "The prosperity of a country depends, not on the abundance + of its revenues, nor on the strength of its fortifications, + nor on the beauty of its public buildings; but it consists + in the number of its cultivated citizens, in its men of + education, enlightenment, and character; here are to be + found its true interest, its chief strength, its real + power."--MARTIN LUTHER. + + +Character is one of the greatest motive powers in the world. In its +noblest embodiments, it exemplifies human nature in its highest forms, +for it exhibits man at his best. + +Men of genuine excellence, in every station of life--men of industry, +of integrity, of high principle, of sterling honesty of purpose--command +the spontaneous homage of mankind. It is natural to believe in such men, +to have confidence in them, and to imitate them. All that is good in +the world is upheld by them, and without their presence in it the world +would not be worth living in. + +Although genius always commands admiration, character most secures +respect. The former is more the product of brain-power, the latter of +heart-power; and in the long run it is the heart that rules in life. Men +of genius stand to society in the relation of its intellect, as men +of character of its conscience; and while the former are admired, the +latter are followed. + +Great men are always exceptional men; and greatness itself is but +comparative. Indeed, the range of most men in life is so limited, that +very few have the opportunity of being great. But each man can act his +part honestly and honourably, and to the best of his ability. He can use +his gifts, and not abuse them. He can strive to make the best of life. +He can be true, just, honest, and faithful, even in small things. In a +word, he can do his Duty in that sphere in which Providence has placed +him. + +Commonplace though it may appear, this doing of one's Duty embodies the +highest ideal of life and character. There may be nothing heroic about +it; but the common lot of men is not heroic. And though the abiding +sense of Duty upholds man in his highest attitudes, it also equally +sustains him in the transaction of the ordinary affairs of everyday +existence. Man's life is "centred in the sphere of common duties." The +most influential of all the virtues are those which are the most +in request for daily use. They wear the best, and last the longest. +Superfine virtues, which are above the standard of common men, may only +be sources of temptation and danger. Burke has truly said that "the +human system which rests for its basis on the heroic virtues is sure to +have a superstructure of weakness or of profligacy." + +When Dr. Abbot, afterwards Archbishop of Canterbury, drew the character +of his deceased friend Thomas Sackville, [101] he did not dwell upon his +merits as a statesman, or his genius as a poet, but upon his virtues as +a man in relation to the ordinary duties of life. "How many rare things +were in him!" said he. "Who more loving unto his wife? Who more kind +unto his children?--Who more fast unto his friend?--Who more moderate +unto his enemy?--Who more true to his word?" Indeed, we can always +better understand and appreciate a man's real character by the manner in +which he conducts himself towards those who are the most nearly related +to him, and by his transaction of the seemingly commonplace details of +daily duty, than by his public exhibition of himself as an author, an +orator, or a statesman. + +At the same time, while Duty, for the most part, applies to the conduct +of affairs in common life by the average of common men, it is also a +sustaining power to men of the very highest standard of character. They +may not have either money, or property, or learning, or power; and +yet they may be strong in heart and rich in spirit--honest, truthful, +dutiful. And whoever strives to do his duty faithfully is fulfilling +the purpose for which he was created, and building up in himself the +principles of a manly character. There are many persons of whom it +may be said that they have no other possession in the world but their +character, and yet they stand as firmly upon it as any crowned king. + +Intellectual culture has no necessary relation to purity or excellence +of character. In the New Testament, appeals are constantly made to the +heart of man and to "the spirit we are of," whilst allusions to the +intellect are of very rare occurrence. "A handful of good life," says +George Herbert, "is worth a bushel of learning." Not that learning is +to be despised, but that it must be allied to goodness. Intellectual +capacity is sometimes found associated with the meanest moral character +with abject servility to those in high places, and arrogance to those of +low estate. A man may be accomplished in art, literature, and science, +and yet, in honesty, virtue, truthfulness, and the spirit of duty, be +entitled to take rank after many a poor and illiterate peasant. + +"You insist," wrote Perthes to a friend, "on respect for learned men. I +say, Amen! But, at the same time, don't forget that largeness of mind, +depth of thought, appreciation of the lofty, experience of the world, +delicacy of manner, tact and energy in action, love of truth, honesty, +and amiability--that all these may be wanting in a man who may yet be +very learned." [102] + +When some one, in Sir Walter Scott's hearing, made a remark as to the +value of literary talents and accomplishments, as if they were above all +things to be esteemed and honoured, he observed, "God help us! what a +poor world this would be if that were the true doctrine! I have read +books enough, and observed and conversed with enough of eminent and +splendidly-cultured minds, too, in my time; but I assure you, I have +heard higher sentiments from the lips of poor UNEDUCATED men and women, +when exerting the spirit of severe yet gentle heroism under difficulties +and afflictions, or speaking their simple thoughts as to circumstances +in the lot of friends and neighbours, than I ever yet met with out of +the Bible. We shall never learn to feel and respect our real calling +and destiny, unless we have taught ourselves to consider everything as +moonshine, compared with the education of the heart." [103] + +Still less has wealth any necessary connection with elevation of +character. On the contrary, it is much more frequently the cause of its +corruption and degradation. Wealth and corruption, luxury and vice, have +very close affinities to each other. Wealth, in the hands of men of weak +purpose, of deficient self-control, or of ill-regulated passions, +is only a temptation and a snare--the source, it may be, of infinite +mischief to themselves, and often to others. + +On the contrary, a condition of comparative poverty is compatible with +character in its highest form. A man may possess only his industry, +his frugality, his integrity, and yet stand high in the rank of true +manhood. The advice which Burns's father gave him was the best: + + "He bade me act a manly part, though I had ne'er a farthing, + For without an honest manly heart no man was worth regarding." + +One of the purest and noblest characters the writer ever knew was +a labouring man in a northern county, who brought up his family +respectably on an income never amounting to more than ten shillings +a week. Though possessed of only the rudiments of common education, +obtained at an ordinary parish school, he was a man full of wisdom +and thoughtfulness. His library consisted of the Bible, 'Flavel,' and +'Boston'--books which, excepting the first, probably few readers +have ever heard of. This good man might have sat for the portrait of +Wordsworth's well-known 'Wanderer.' When he had lived his modest life +of work and worship, and finally went to his rest, he left behind him +a reputation for practical wisdom, for genuine goodness, and for +helpfulness in every good work, which greater and richer men might have +envied. + +When Luther died, he left behind him, as set forth in his will, "no +ready money, no treasure of coin of any description." He was so poor +at one part of his life, that he was under the necessity of earning his +bread by turning, gardening, and clockmaking. Yet, at the very time when +he was thus working with his hands, he was moulding the character of +his country; and he was morally stronger, and vastly more honoured and +followed, than all the princes of Germany. + +Character is property. It is the noblest of possessions. It is an estate +in the general goodwill and respect of men; and they who invest in +it--though they may not become rich in this world's goods--will find +their reward in esteem and reputation fairly and honourably won. And it +is right that in life good qualities should tell--that industry, virtue, +and goodness should rank the highest--and that the really best men +should be foremost. + +Simple honesty of purpose in a man goes a long way in life, if founded +on a just estimate of himself and a steady obedience to the rule he +knows and feels to be right. It holds a man straight, gives him strength +and sustenance, and forms a mainspring of vigorous action. "No man," +once said Sir Benjamin Rudyard, "is bound to be rich or great,--no, nor +to be wise; but every man is bound to be honest." [104] + +But the purpose, besides being honest, must be inspired by sound +principles, and pursued with undeviating adherence to truth, integrity, +and uprightness. Without principles, a man is like a ship without rudder +or compass, left to drift hither and thither with every wind that blows. +He is as one without law, or rule, or order, or government. "Moral +principles," says Hume, "are social and universal. They form, in a +manner, the PARTY of humankind against vice and disorder, its common +enemy." + +Epictetus once received a visit from a certain magnificent orator going +to Rome on a lawsuit, who wished to learn from the stoic something of +his philosophy. Epictetus received his visitor coolly, not believing in +his sincerity. "You will only criticise my style," said he; "not really +wishing to learn principles."--"Well, but," said the orator, "if I +attend to that sort of thing; I shall be a mere pauper, like you, with +no plate, nor equipage, nor land."--"I don't WANT such things," replied +Epictetus; "and besides, you are poorer than I am, after all. Patron or +no patron, what care I? You DO care. I am richer than you. I don't care +what Caesar thinks of me. I flatter no one. This is what I have, instead +of your gold and silver plate. You have silver vessels, but earthenware +reasons, principles, appetites. My mind to me a kingdom is, and it +furnishes me with abundant and happy occupation in lieu of your restless +idleness. All your possessions seem small to you; mine seem great to me. +Your desire is insatiate--mine is satisfied." [105] + +Talent is by no means rare in the world; nor is even genius. But can the +talent be trusted?--can the genius? Not unless based on truthfulness--on +veracity. It is this quality more than any other that commands the +esteem and respect, and secures the confidence of others. Truthfulness +is at the foundation of all personal excellence. It exhibits itself in +conduct. It is rectitude--truth in action, and shines through every word +and deed. It means reliableness, and convinces other men that it can +be trusted. And a man is already of consequence in the world when it is +known that he can be relied on,--that when he says he knows a thing, he +does know it,--that when he says he will do a thing, he can do, and +does it. Thus reliableness becomes a passport to the general esteem and +confidence of mankind. + +In the affairs of life or of business, it is not intellect that tells so +much as character,--not brains so much as heart,--not genius so much +as self-control, patience, and discipline, regulated by judgment. Hence +there is no better provision for the uses of either private or public +life, than a fair share of ordinary good sense guided by rectitude. Good +sense, disciplined by experience and inspired by goodness, issues in +practical wisdom. Indeed, goodness in a measure implies wisdom--the +highest wisdom--the union of the worldly with the spiritual. "The +correspondences of wisdom and goodness," says Sir Henry Taylor, "are +manifold; and that they will accompany each other is to be inferred, not +only because men's wisdom makes them good, but because their goodness +makes them wise." [106] + +It is because of this controlling power of character in life that we +often see men exercise an amount of influence apparently out of all +proportion to their intellectual endowments. They appear to act by means +of some latent power, some reserved force, which acts secretly, by mere +presence. As Burke said of a powerful nobleman of the last century, "his +virtues were his means." The secret is, that the aims of such men are +felt to be pure and noble, and they act upon others with a constraining +power. + +Though the reputation of men of genuine character may be of slow +growth, their true qualities cannot be wholly concealed. They may be +misrepresented by some, and misunderstood by others; misfortune +and adversity may, for a time, overtake them but, with patience and +endurance, they will eventually inspire the respect and command the +confidence which they really deserve. + +It has been said of Sheridan that, had he possessed reliableness of +character, he might have ruled the world; whereas, for want of it, his +splendid gifts were comparatively useless. He dazzled and amused, but +was without weight or influence in life or politics. Even the poor +pantomimist of Drury Lane felt himself his superior. Thus, when Delpini +one day pressed the manager for arrears of salary, Sheridan sharply +reproved him, telling him he had forgotten his station. "No, indeed, +Monsieur Sheridan, I have not," retorted Delpini; "I know the difference +between us perfectly well. In birth, parentage, and education, you are +superior to me; but in life, character, and behaviour, I am superior to +you." + +Unlike Sheridan, Burke, his countryman, was a great man of character. He +was thirty-five before he gained a seat in Parliament, yet he found time +to carve his name deep in the political history of England. He was a +man of great gifts, and of transcendent force of character. Yet he had a +weakness, which proved a serious defect--it was his want of temper; his +genius was sacrificed to his irritability. And without this apparently +minor gift of temper, the most splendid endowments may be comparatively +valueless to their possessor. + +Character is formed by a variety of minute circumstances, more or less +under the regulation and control of the individual. Not a day passes +without its discipline, whether for good or for evil. There is no act, +however trivial, but has its train of consequences, as there is no +hair so small but casts its shadow. It was a wise saying of Mrs. +Schimmelpenninck's mother, never to give way to what is little; or +by that little, however you may despise it, you will be practically +governed. + +Every action, every thought, every feeling, contributes to the +education of the temper, the habits, and understanding; and exercises +an inevitable influence upon all the acts of our future life. Thus +character is undergoing constant change, for better or for worse--either +being elevated on the one hand, or degraded on the other. "There is no +fault nor folly of my life," says Mr. Ruskin, "that does not rise up +against me, and take away my joy, and shorten my power of possession, of +sight, of understanding. And every past effort of my life, every gleam +of rightness or good in it, is with me now, to help me in my grasp of +this art and its vision." [107] + +The mechanical law, that action and reaction are equal, holds true also +in morals. Good deeds act and react on the doers of them; and so do +evil. Not only so: they produce like effects, by the influence of +example, on those who are the subjects of them. But man is not the +creature, so much as he is the creator, of circumstances: [108] and, by +the exercise of his freewill, he can direct his actions so that they +shall be productive of good rather than evil. "Nothing can work me +damage but myself," said St. Bernard; "the harm that I sustain I carry +about with me; and I am never a real sufferer but by my own fault." + +The best sort of character, however, cannot be formed without effort. +There needs the exercise of constant self-watchfulness, self-discipline, +and self-control. There may be much faltering, stumbling, and temporary +defeat; difficulties and temptations manifold to be battled with and +overcome; but if the spirit be strong and the heart be upright, no one +need despair of ultimate success. The very effort to advance--to arrive +at a higher standard of character than we have reached--is inspiring and +invigorating; and even though we may fall short of it, we cannot fail to +be improved by every, honest effort made in an upward direction. + +And with the light of great examples to guide us--representatives of +humanity in its best forms--every one is not only justified, but bound +in duty, to aim at reaching the highest standard of character: not to +become the richest in means, but in spirit; not the greatest in worldly +position, but in true honour; not the most intellectual, but the most +virtuous; not the most powerful and influential, but the most truthful, +upright, and honest. + +It was very characteristic of the late Prince Consort--a man himself of +the purest mind, who powerfully impressed and influenced others by the +sheer force of his own benevolent nature--when drawing up the conditions +of the annual prize to be given by Her Majesty at Wellington College, +to determine that it should be awarded, not to the cleverest boy, nor +to the most bookish boy, nor to the most precise, diligent, and prudent +boy,--but to the noblest boy, to the boy who should show the most +promise of becoming a large-hearted, high-motived man. [109] + +Character exhibits itself in conduct, guided and inspired by principle, +integrity, and practical wisdom. In its highest form, it is the +individual will acting energetically under the influence of religion, +morality, and reason. It chooses its way considerately, and pursues +it steadfastly; esteeming duty above reputation, and the approval +of conscience more than the world's praise. While respecting the +personality of others, it preserves its own individuality and +independence; and has the courage to be morally honest, though it may be +unpopular, trusting tranquilly to time and experience for recognition. + +Although the force of example will always exercise great influence upon +the formation of character, the self-originating and sustaining force of +one's own spirit must be the mainstay. This alone can hold up the life, +and give individual independence and energy. "Unless man can erect +himself above himself," said Daniel, a poet of the Elizabethan era, "how +poor a thing is man!" Without a certain degree of practical efficient +force--compounded of will, which is the root, and wisdom, which is the +stem of character--life will be indefinite and purposeless--like a body +of stagnant water, instead of a running stream doing useful work and +keeping the machinery of a district in motion. + +When the elements of character are brought into action by determinate +will, and, influenced by high purpose, man enters upon and courageously +perseveres in the path of duty, at whatever cost of worldly interest, +he may be said to approach the summit of his being. He then exhibits +character in its most intrepid form, and embodies the highest idea of +manliness. The acts of such a man become repeated in the life and action +of others. His very words live and become actions. Thus every word of +Luther's rang through Germany like a trumpet. As Richter said of him, +"His words were half-battles." And thus Luther's life became transfused +into the life of his country, and still lives in the character of modern +Germany. + +On the other hand, energy, without integrity and a soul of goodness, +may only represent the embodied principle of evil. It is observed by +Novalis, in his 'Thoughts on Morals,' that the ideal of moral perfection +has no more dangerous rival to contend with than the ideal of the +highest strength and the most energetic life, the maximum of the +barbarian--which needs only a due admixture of pride, ambition, and +selfishness, to be a perfect ideal of the devil. Amongst men of +such stamp are found the greatest scourges and devastators of the +world--those elect scoundrels whom Providence, in its inscrutable +designs, permits to fulfil their mission of destruction upon earth. [1010] + +Very different is the man of energetic character inspired by a noble +spirit, whose actions are governed by rectitude, and the law of whose +life is duty. He is just and upright,--in his business dealings, in his +public action, and in his family life--justice being as essential in the +government of a home as of a nation. He will be honest in all things--in +his words and in his work. He will be generous and merciful to his +opponents, as well as to those who are weaker than himself. It was truly +said of Sheridan--who, with all his improvidence, was generous, and +never gave pain--that, + + "His wit in the combat, as gentle as bright, + Never carried a heart-stain away on its blade." + +Such also was the character of Fox, who commanded the affection and +service of others by his uniform heartiness and sympathy. He was a man +who could always be most easily touched on the side of his honour. +Thus, the story is told of a tradesman calling upon him one day for the +payment of a promissory note which he presented. Fox was engaged at the +time in counting out gold. The tradesman asked to be paid from the money +before him. "No," said Fox, "I owe this money to Sheridan; it is a debt +of honour; if any accident happened to me, he would have nothing +to show." "Then," said the tradesman, "I change MY debt into one of +honour;" and he tore up the note. Fox was conquered by the act: he +thanked the man for his confidence, and paid him, saying, "Then Sheridan +must wait; yours is the debt of older standing." + +The man of character is conscientious. He puts his conscience into his +work, into his words, into his every action. When Cromwell asked the +Parliament for soldiers in lieu of the decayed serving-men and tapsters +who filled the Commonwealth's army, he required that they should be men +"who made some conscience of what they did;" and such were the men of +which his celebrated regiment of "Ironsides" was composed. + +The man of character is also reverential. The possession of this quality +marks the noblest, and highest type of manhood and womanhood: reverence +for things consecrated by the homage of generations--for high objects, +pure thoughts, and noble aims--for the great men of former times, and +the highminded workers amongst our contemporaries. Reverence is alike +indispensable to the happiness of individuals, of families, and of +nations. Without it there can be no trust, no faith, no confidence, +either in man or God--neither social peace nor social progress. For +reverence is but another word for religion, which binds men to each +other, and all to God. + +"The man of noble spirit," says Sir Thomas Overbury, "converts all +occurrences into experience, between which experience and his reason +there is marriage, and the issue are his actions. He moves by affection, +not for affection; he loves glory, scorns shame, and governeth and +obeyeth with one countenance, for it comes from one consideration. +Knowing reason to be no idle gift of nature, he is the steersman of his +own destiny. Truth is his goddess, and he takes pains to get her, not +to look like her. Unto the society of men he is a sun, whose clearness +directs their steps in a regular motion. He is the wise man's friend, +the example of the indifferent, the medicine of the vicious. Thus time +goeth not from him, but with him, and he feels age more by the strength +of his soul than by the weakness of his body. Thus feels he no pain, but +esteems all such things as friends, that desire to file off his fetters, +and help him out of prison." [1011] + +Energy of will--self-originating force--is the soul of every great +character. Where it is, there is life; where it is not, there is +faintness, helplessness, and despondency. "The strong man and the +waterfall," says the proverb, "channel their own path." The energetic +leader of noble spirit not only wins a way for himself, but carries +others with him. His every act has a personal significance, indicating +vigour, independence, and self-reliance, and unconsciously commands +respect, admiration, and homage. Such intrepidity of character +characterised Luther, Cromwell, Washington, Pitt, Wellington, and all +great leaders of men. + +"I am convinced," said Mr. Gladstone, in describing the qualities of +the late Lord Palmerston in the House of Commons, shortly after his +death--"I am convinced that it was the force of will, a sense of duty, +and a determination not to give in, that enabled him to make himself +a model for all of us who yet remain and follow him, with feeble and +unequal steps, in the discharge of our duties; it was that force of will +that in point of fact did not so much struggle against the infirmities +of old age, but actually repelled them and kept them at a distance. And +one other quality there is, at least, that may be noticed without the +smallest risk of stirring in any breast a painful emotion. It is this, +that Lord Palmerston had a nature incapable of enduring anger or any +sentiment of wrath. This freedom from wrathful sentiment was not the +result of painful effort, but the spontaneous fruit of the mind. It was +a noble gift of his original nature--a gift which beyond all others it +was delightful to observe, delightful also to remember in connection +with him who has left us, and with whom we have no longer to do, except +in endeavouring to profit by his example wherever it can lead us in the +path of duty and of right, and of bestowing on him those tributes of +admiration and affection which he deserves at our hands." + +The great leader attracts to himself men of kindred character, drawing +them towards him as the loadstone draws iron. Thus, Sir John Moore early +distinguished the three brothers Napier from the crowd of officers by +whom he was surrounded, and they, on their part, repaid him by their +passionate admiration. They were captivated by his courtesy, his +bravery, and his lofty disinterestedness; and he became the model +whom they resolved to imitate, and, if possible, to emulate. "Moore's +influence," says the biographer of Sir William Napier, "had a signal +effect in forming and maturing their characters; and it is no small +glory to have been the hero of those three men, while his early +discovery of their mental and moral qualities is a proof of Moore's own +penetration and judgment of character." + +There is a contagiousness in every example of energetic conduct. The +brave man is an inspiration to the weak, and compels them, as it were, +to follow him. Thus Napier relates that at the combat of Vera, when +the Spanish centre was broken and in flight, a young officer, named +Havelock, sprang forward, and, waving his hat, called upon the Spaniards +within sight to follow him. Putting spurs to his horse, he leapt the +abbatis which protected the French front, and went headlong against +them. The Spaniards were electrified; in a moment they dashed after him, +cheering for "EL CHICO BLANCO!" [10the fair boy], and with one shock they +broke through the French and sent them flying downhill. [1012] + +And so it is in ordinary life. The good and the great draw others +after them; they lighten and lift up all who are within reach of their +influence. They are as so many living centres of beneficent activity. +Let a man of energetic and upright character be appointed to a position +of trust and authority, and all who serve under him become, as it were, +conscious of an increase of power. When Chatham was appointed minister, +his personal influence was at once felt through all the ramifications +of office. Every sailor who served under Nelson, and knew he was in +command, shared the inspiration of the hero. + +When Washington consented to act as commander-in-chief, it was felt as +if the strength of the American forces had been more than doubled. Many +years late; in 1798, when Washington, grown old, had withdrawn from +public life and was living in retirement at Mount Vernon, and when it +seemed probable that France would declare war against the United States, +President Adams wrote to him, saying, "We must have your name, if you +will permit us to use it; there will be more efficacy in it than in +many an army." Such was the esteem in which the great President's noble +character and eminent abilities were held by his countrymen! [1013] + +An incident is related by the historian of the Peninsular War, +illustrative of the personal influence exercised by a great commander +over his followers. The British army lay at Sauroren, before which Soult +was advancing, prepared to attack, in force. Wellington was absent, and +his arrival was anxiously looked for. Suddenly a single horseman was +seen riding up the mountain alone. It was the Duke, about to join his +troops. One of Campbell's Portuguese battalions first descried him, +and raised a joyful cry; then the shrill clamour, caught up by the next +regiment, soon swelled as it ran along the line into that appalling +shout which the British soldier is wont to give upon the edge of +battle, and which no enemy ever heard unmoved. Suddenly he stopped at a +conspicuous point, for he desired both armies should know he was there, +and a double spy who was present pointed out Soult, who was so near that +his features could be distinguished. Attentively Wellington fixed his +eyes on that formidable man, and, as if speaking to himself, he said: +"Yonder is a great commander; but he is cautious, and will delay his +attack to ascertain the cause of those cheers; that will give time for +the Sixth Division to arrive, and I shall beat him"--which he did. [1014] + +In some cases, personal character acts by a kind of talismanic +influence, as if certain men were the organs of a sort of supernatural +force. "If I but stamp on the ground in Italy," said Pompey, "an army +will appear." At the voice of Peter the Hermit, as described by the +historian, "Europe arose, and precipitated itself upon Asia." It was +said of the Caliph Omar that his walking-stick struck more terror into +those who saw it than another man's sword. The very names of some men +are like the sound of a trumpet. When the Douglas lay mortally wounded +on the field of Otterburn, he ordered his name to be shouted still +louder than before, saying there was a tradition in his family that a +dead Douglas should win a battle. His followers, inspired by the sound, +gathered fresh courage, rallied, and conquered; and thus, in the words +of the Scottish poet:-- + +"The Douglas dead, his name hath won the field." [1015] + +There have been some men whose greatest conquests have been achieved +after they themselves were dead. "Never," says Michelet, "was Caesar +more alive, more powerful, more terrible, than when his old and worn-out +body, his withered corpse, lay pierced with blows; he appeared +then purified, redeemed,--that which he had been, despite his many +stains--the man of humanity." [1016] Never did the great character of +William of Orange, surnamed the Silent, exercise greater power over his +countrymen than after his assassination at Delft by the emissary of the +Jesuits. On the very day of his murder the Estates of Holland resolved +"to maintain the good cause, with God's help, to the uttermost, without +sparing gold or blood;" and they kept their word. + +The same illustration applies to all history and morals. The career of +a great man remains an enduring monument of human energy. The man +dies and disappears; but his thoughts and acts survive, and leave +an indelible stamp upon his race. And thus the spirit of his life is +prolonged and perpetuated, moulding the thought and will, and thereby +contributing to form the character of the future. It is the men that +advance in the highest and best directions, who are the true beacons of +human progress. They are as lights set upon a hill, illumining the moral +atmosphere around them; and the light of their spirit continues to shine +upon all succeeding generations. + +It is natural to admire and revere really great men. They hallow the +nation to which they belong, and lift up not only all who live in their +time, but those who live after them. Their great example becomes the +common heritage of their race; and their great deeds and great thoughts +are the most glorious of legacies to mankind. They connect the present +with the past, and help on the increasing purpose of the future; holding +aloft the standard of principle, maintaining the dignity of human +character, and filling the mind with traditions and instincts of all +that is most worthy and noble in life. + +Character, embodied in thought and deed, is of the nature of +immortality. The solitary thought of a great thinker will dwell in the +minds of men for centuries until at length it works itself into their +daily life and practice. It lives on through the ages, speaking as a +voice from the dead, and influencing minds living thousands of years +apart. Thus, Moses and David and Solomon, Plato and Socrates and +Xenophon, Seneca and Cicero and Epictetus, still speak to us as from +their tombs. They still arrest the attention, and exercise an influence +upon character, though their thoughts be conveyed in languages unspoken +by them and in their time unknown. Theodore Parker has said that a +single man like Socrates was worth more to a country than many such +states as South Carolina; that if that state went out of the world +to-day, she would not have done so much for the world as Socrates. [1017] + +Great workers and great thinkers are the true makers of history, which +is but continuous humanity influenced by men of character--by great +leaders, kings, priests, philosophers, statesmen, and patriots--the +true aristocracy of man. Indeed, Mr. Carlyle has broadly stated that +Universal History is, at bottom, but the history of Great Men. They +certainly mark and designate the epochs of national life. Their +influence is active, as well as reactive. Though their mind is, in a +measure; the product of their age, the public mind is also, to a +great extent, their creation. Their individual action identifies the +cause--the institution. They think great thoughts, cast them abroad, +and the thoughts make events. Thus the early Reformers initiated the +Reformation, and with it the liberation of modern thought. Emerson has +said that every institution is to be regarded as but the lengthened +shadow of some great man: as Islamism of Mahomet, Puritanism of Calvin, +Jesuitism of Loyola, Quakerism of Fox, Methodism of Wesley, Abolitionism +of Clarkson. + +Great men stamp their mind upon their age and nation--as Luther did upon +modern Germany, and Knox upon Scotland. [1018] And if there be one man +more than another that stamped his mind on modern Italy, it was Dante. +During the long centuries of Italian degradation his burning words were +as a watchfire and a beacon to all true men. He was the herald of his +nation's liberty--braving persecution, exile, and death, for the love +of it. He was always the most national of the Italian poets, the most +loved, the most read. From the time of his death all educated Italians +had his best passages by heart; and the sentiments they enshrined +inspired their lives, and eventually influenced the history of their +nation. "The Italians," wrote Byron in 1821, "talk Dante, write Dante, +and think and dream Dante, at this moment, to an excess which would be +ridiculous, but that he deserves their admiration." [1019] + +A succession of variously gifted men in different ages--extending from +Alfred to Albert--has in like manner contributed, by their life and +example, to shape the multiform character of England. Of these, probably +the most influential were the men of the Elizabethan and Cromwellian, +and the intermediate periods--amongst which we find the great names of +Shakspeare, Raleigh, Burleigh, Sidney, Bacon, Milton, Herbert, Hampden, +Pym, Eliot, Vane, Cromwell, and many more--some of them men of great +force, and others of great dignity and purity of character. The lives of +such men have become part of the public life of England, and their deeds +and thoughts are regarded as among the most cherished bequeathments from +the past. + +So Washington left behind him, as one of the greatest treasures of his +country, the example of a stainless life--of a great, honest, pure, and +noble character--a model for his nation to form themselves by in all +time to come. And in the case of Washington, as in so many other great +leaders of men, his greatness did not so much consist in his intellect, +his skill, and his genius, as in his honour, his integrity, his +truthfulness, his high and controlling sense of duty--in a word, in his +genuine nobility of character. + +Men such as these are the true lifeblood of the country to which they +belong. They elevate and uphold it, fortify and ennoble it, and shed +a glory over it by the example of life and character which they have +bequeathed. "The names and memories of great men," says an able writer, +"are the dowry of a nation. Widowhood, overthrow, desertion, even +slavery, cannot take away from her this sacred inheritance.... Whenever +national life begins to quicken.... the dead heroes rise in the memories +of men, and appear to the living to stand by in solemn spectatorship and +approval. No country can be lost which feels herself overlooked by such +glorious witnesses. They are the salt of the earth, in death as well as +in life. What they did once, their descendants have still and always +a right to do after them; and their example lives in their country, a +continual stimulant and encouragement for him who has the soul to adopt +it." [1020] + +But it is not great men only that have to be taken into account in +estimating the qualities of a nation, but the character that pervades +the great body of the people. When Washington Irving visited Abbotsford, +Sir Walter Scott introduced him to many of his friends and favourites, +not only amongst the neighbouring farmers, but the labouring peasantry. +"I wish to show you," said Scott, "some of our really excellent plain +Scotch people. The character of a nation is not to be learnt from its +fine folks, its fine gentlemen and ladies; such you meet everywhere, +and they are everywhere the same." While statesmen, philosophers, and +divines represent the thinking power of society, the men who found +industries and carve out new careers, as well as the common body of +working-people, from whom the national strength and spirit are from +time to time recruited, must necessarily furnish the vital force and +constitute the real backbone of every nation. + +Nations have their character to maintain as well as individuals; +and under constitutional governments--where all classes more or less +participate in the exercise of political power--the national character +will necessarily depend more upon the moral qualities of the many than +of the few. And the same qualities which determine the character of +individuals, also determine the character of nations. Unless they are +highminded, truthful, honest, virtuous, and courageous, they will be +held in light esteem by other nations, and be without weight in +the world. To have character, they must needs also be reverential, +disciplined, self-controlling, and devoted to duty. The nation that has +no higher god than pleasure, or even dollars or calico, must needs be in +a poor way. It were better to revert to Homer's gods than be devoted to +these; for the heathen deities at least imaged human virtues, and were +something to look up to. + +As for institutions, however good in themselves, they will avail but +little in maintaining the standard of national character. It is the +individual men, and the spirit which actuates them, that determine the +moral standing and stability of nations. Government, in the long run, is +usually no better than the people governed. Where the mass is sound in +conscience, morals, and habit, the nation will be ruled honestly and +nobly. But where they are corrupt, self-seeking, and dishonest in heart, +bound neither by truth nor by law, the rule of rogues and wirepullers +becomes inevitable. + +The only true barrier against the despotism of public opinion, whether +it be of the many or of the few, is enlightened individual freedom and +purity of personal character. Without these there can be no vigorous +manhood, no true liberty in a nation. Political rights, however broadly +framed, will not elevate a people individually depraved. Indeed, the +more complete a system of popular suffrage, and the more perfect its +protection, the more completely will the real character of a people +be reflected, as by a mirror, in their laws and government. Political +morality can never have any solid existence on a basis of individual +immorality. Even freedom, exercised by a debased people, would come +to be regarded as a nuisance, and liberty of the press but a vent for +licentiousness and moral abomination. + +Nations, like individuals, derive support and strength from the feeling +that they belong to an illustrious race, that they are the heirs of +their greatness, and ought to be the perpetuators of their glory. It is +of momentous importance that a nation should have a great past [1021] +to look back upon. It steadies the life of the present, elevates and +upholds it, and lightens and lifts it up, by the memory of the great +deeds, the noble sufferings, and the valorous achievements of the men of +old. The life of nations, as of men, is a great treasury of experience, +which, wisely used, issues in social progress and improvement; or, +misused, issues in dreams, delusions, and failure. Like men, nations are +purified and strengthened by trials. Some of the most glorious chapters +in their history are those containing the record of the sufferings by +means of which their character has been developed. Love of liberty and +patriotic feeling may have done much, but trial and suffering nobly +borne more than all. + +A great deal of what passes by the name of patriotism in these days +consists of the merest bigotry and narrow-mindedness; exhibiting itself +in national prejudice, national conceit, amid national hatred. It does +not show itself in deeds, but in boastings--in howlings, gesticulations, +and shrieking helplessly for help--in flying flags and singing +songs--and in perpetual grinding at the hurdy-gurdy of long-dead +grievances and long-remedied wrongs. To be infested by SUCH a patriotism +as this is, perhaps, amongst the greatest curses that can befall any +country. + +But as there is an ignoble, so is there a noble patriotism--the +patriotism that invigorates and elevates a country by noble work--that +does its duty truthfully and manfully--that lives an honest, sober, and +upright life, and strives to make the best use of the opportunities for +improvement that present themselves on every side; and at the same time +a patriotism that cherishes the memory and example of the great men of +old, who, by their sufferings in the cause of religion or of freedom, +have won for themselves a deathless glory, and for their nation those +privileges of free life and free institutions of which they are the +inheritors and possessors. + +Nations are not to be judged by their size any more than individuals: + + "it is not growing like a tree + In bulk, doth make Man better be." + +For a nation to be great, it need not necessarily be big, though bigness +is often confounded with greatness. A nation may be very big in point of +territory and population and yet be devoid of true greatness. The people +of Israel were a small people, yet what a great life they developed, +and how powerful the influence they have exercised on the destinies of +mankind! Greece was not big: the entire population of Attica was less +than that of South Lancashire. Athens was less populous than New York; +and yet how great it was in art, in literature, in philosophy, and in +patriotism! [1022] + +But it was the fatal weakness of Athens that its citizens had no true +family or home life, while its freemen were greatly outnumbered by its +slaves. Its public men were loose, if not corrupt, in morals. Its +women, even the most accomplished, were unchaste. Hence its fall became +inevitable, and was even more sudden than its rise. + +In like manner the decline and fall of Rome was attributable to the +general corruption of its people, and to their engrossing love of +pleasure and idleness--work, in the later days of Rome, being regarded +only as fit for slaves. Its citizens ceased to pride themselves on the +virtues of character of their great forefathers; and the empire fell +because it did not deserve to live. And so the nations that are idle and +luxurious--that "will rather lose a pound of blood," as old Burton says, +"in a single combat, than a drop of sweat in any honest labour"--must +inevitably die out, and laborious energetic nations take their place. + +When Louis XIV. asked Colbert how it was that, ruling so great and +populous a country as France, he had been unable to conquer so small a +country as Holland, the minister replied: "Because, Sire, the greatness +of a country does not depend upon the extent of its territory, but +on the character of its people. It is because of the industry, the +frugality, and the energy of the Dutch that your Majesty has found them +so difficult to overcome." + +It is also related of Spinola and Richardet, the ambassadors sent by the +King of Spain to negotiate a treaty at the Hague in 1608, that one day +they saw some eight or ten persons land from a little boat, and, sitting +down upon the grass, proceed to make a meal of bread-and-cheese and +beer. "Who are those travellers?" asked the ambassadors of a peasant. +"These are worshipful masters, the deputies from the States," was his +reply. Spinola at once whispered to his companion, "We must make peace: +these are not men to be conquered." + +In fine, stability of institutions must depend upon stability of +character. Any number of depraved units cannot form a great nation. +The people may seem to be highly civilised, and yet be ready to fall +to pieces at first touch of adversity. Without integrity of individual +character, they can have no real strength, cohesion, soundness. They may +be rich, polite, and artistic; and yet hovering on the brink of ruin. +If living for themselves only, and with no end but pleasure--each little +self his own little god--such a nation is doomed, and its decay is +inevitable. + +Where national character ceases to be upheld, a nation may be regarded +as next to lost. Where it ceases to esteem and to practise the virtues +of truthfulness, honesty, integrity, and justice, it does not deserve +to live. And when the time arrives in any country when wealth has so +corrupted, or pleasure so depraved, or faction so infatuated the people, +that honour, order, obedience, virtue, and loyalty have seemingly become +things of the past; then, amidst the darkness, when honest men--if, +haply, there be such left--are groping about and feeling for each +other's hands, their only remaining hope will be in the restoration and +elevation of Individual Character; for by that alone can a nation be +saved; and if character be irrecoverably lost, then indeed there will be +nothing left worth saving. + + + + +CHAPTER II.--HOME POWER. + + + + "So build we up the being that we are, + Thus deeply drinking in the soul of things, + We shall be wise perforce." WORDSWORTH. + + "The millstreams that turn the clappers of the world + arise in solitary places."--HELPS. + + "In the course of a conversation with Madame Campan, + Napoleon Buonaparte remarked: 'The old systems of + instruction seem to be worth nothing; what is yet wanting in + order that the people should be properly educated?' + 'MOTHERS,' replied Madame Campan. The reply struck the + Emperor. 'Yes!' said he 'here is a system of education in + one word. Be it your care, then, to train up mothers who + shall know how to educate their children.'"--AIME MARTIN. + + "Lord! with what care hast Thou begirt us round! + Parents first season us. Then schoolmasters + Deliver us to laws. They send us bound + To rules of reason."--GEORGE HERBERT. + + +HOME is the first and most important school of character. It is there +that every human being receives his best moral training, or his worst; +for it is there that he imbibes those principles of conduct which endure +through manhood, and cease only with life. + +It is a common saying that "Manners make the man;" and there is a +second, that "Mind makes the man;" but truer than either is a third, +that "Home makes the man." For the home-training includes not only +manners and mind, but character. It is mainly in the home that the +heart is opened, the habits are formed, the intellect is awakened, and +character moulded for good or for evil. + +From that source, be it pure or impure, issue the principles and maxims +that govern society. Law itself is but the reflex of homes. The tiniest +bits of opinion sown in the minds of children in private life afterwards +issue forth to the world, and become its public opinion; for nations +are gathered out of nurseries, and they who hold the leading-strings +of children may even exercise a greater power than those who wield the +reins of government. [111] + +It is in the order of nature that domestic life should be preparatory +to social, and that the mind and character should first be formed in the +home. There the individuals who afterwards form society are dealt with +in detail, and fashioned one by one. From the family they enter life, +and advance from boyhood to citizenship. Thus the home may be regarded +as the most influential school of civilisation. For, after all, +civilisation mainly resolves itself into a question of individual +training; and according as the respective members of society are well +or ill-trained in youth, so will the community which they constitute be +more or less humanised and civilised. + +The training of any man, even the wisest, cannot fail to be powerfully +influenced by the moral surroundings of his early years. He comes into +the world helpless, and absolutely dependent upon those about him for +nurture and culture. From the very first breath that he draws, his +education begins. When a mother once asked a clergyman when she should +begin the education of her child, then four years old, he replied: +"Madam, if you have not begun already, you have lost those four +years. From the first smile that gleams upon an infant's cheek, your +opportunity begins." + +But even in this case the education had already begun; for the child +learns by simple imitation, without effort, almost through the pores of +the skin. "A figtree looking on a figtree becometh fruitful," says +the Arabian proverb. And so it is with children; their first great +instructor is example. + +However apparently trivial the influences which contribute to form the +character of the child, they endure through life. The child's character +is the nucleus of the man's; all after-education is but superposition; +the form of the crystal remains the same. Thus the saying of the poet +holds true in a large degree, "The child is father of the man;" or, as +Milton puts it, "The childhood shows the man, as morning shows the day." +Those impulses to conduct which last the longest and are rooted the +deepest, always have their origin near our birth. It is then that +the germs of virtues or vices, of feelings or sentiments, are first +implanted which determine the character for life. + +The child is, as it were, laid at the gate of a new world, and opens +his eyes upon things all of which are full of novelty and wonderment. At +first it is enough for him to gaze; but by-and-by he begins to see, to +observe, to compare, to learn, to store up impressions and ideas; and +under wise guidance the progress which he makes is really wonderful. +Lord Brougham has observed that between the ages of eighteen and thirty +months, a child learns more of the material world, of his own powers, +of the nature of other bodies, and even of his own mind and other minds, +than he acquires in all the rest of his life. The knowledge which a +child accumulates, and the ideas generated in his mind, during this +period, are so important, that if we could imagine them to be afterwards +obliterated, all the learning of a senior wrangler at Cambridge, or a +first-classman at Oxford, would be as nothing to it, and would literally +not enable its object to prolong his existence for a week. + +It is in childhood that the mind is most open to impressions, and ready +to be kindled by the first spark that falls into it. Ideas are then +caught quickly and live lastingly. Thus Scott is said to have received, +his first bent towards ballad literature from his mother's and +grandmother's recitations in his hearing long before he himself +had learned to read. Childhood is like a mirror, which reflects in +after-life the images first presented to it. The first thing continues +for ever with the child. The first joy, the first sorrow, the +first success, the first failure, the first achievement, the first +misadventure, paint the foreground of his life. + +All this while, too, the training of the character is in progress--of +the temper, the will, and the habits--on which so much of the happiness +of human beings in after-life depends. Although man is endowed with +a certain self-acting, self-helping power of contributing to his own +development, independent of surrounding circumstances, and of reacting +upon the life around him, the bias given to his moral character in early +life is of immense importance. Place even the highest-minded philosopher +in the midst of daily discomfort, immorality, and vileness, and he will +insensibly gravitate towards brutality. How much more susceptible is the +impressionable and helpless child amidst such surroundings! It is not +possible to rear a kindly nature, sensitive to evil, pure in mind and +heart, amidst coarseness, discomfort, and impurity. + +Thus homes, which are the nurseries of children who grow up into men +and women, will be good or bad according to the power that governs them. +Where the spirit of love and duty pervades the home--where head and +heart bear rule wisely there--where the daily life is honest and +virtuous--where the government is sensible, kind, and loving, then +may we expect from such a home an issue of healthy, useful, and happy +beings, capable, as they gain the requisite strength, of following the +footsteps of their parents, of walking uprightly, governing themselves +wisely, and contributing to the welfare of those about them. + +On the other hand, if surrounded by ignorance, coarseness, and +selfishness, they will unconsciously assume the same character, and +grow up to adult years rude, uncultivated, and all the more dangerous +to society if placed amidst the manifold temptations of what is called +civilised life. "Give your child to be educated by a slave," said an +ancient Greek, "and instead of one slave, you will then have two." + +The child cannot help imitating what he sees. Everything is to him a +model--of manner, of gesture, of speech, of habit, of character. "For +the child," says Richter, "the most important era of life is that of +childhood, when he begins to colour and mould himself by companionship +with others. Every new educator effects less than his predecessor; +until at last, if we regard all life as an educational institution, a +circumnavigator of the world is less influenced by all the nations +he has seen than by his nurse." [112] Models are therefore of every +importance in moulding the nature of the child; and if we would have +fine characters, we must necessarily present before them fine models. +Now, the model most constantly before every child's eye is the Mother. + +One good mother, said George Herbert, is worth a hundred schoolmasters. +In the home she is "loadstone to all hearts, and loadstar to all eyes." +Imitation of her is constant--imitation, which Bacon likens to "a globe +of precepts." But example is far more than precept. It is instruction +in action. It is teaching without words, often exemplifying more than +tongue can teach. In the face of bad example, the best of precepts are +of but little avail. The example is followed, not the precepts. Indeed, +precept at variance with practice is worse than useless, inasmuch as +it only serves to teach the most cowardly of vices--hypocrisy. Even +children are judges of consistency, and the lessons of the parent who +says one thing and does the opposite, are quickly seen through. The +teaching of the friar was not worth much, who preached the virtue of +honesty with a stolen goose in his sleeve. + +By imitation of acts, the character becomes slowly and imperceptibly, +but at length decidedly formed. The several acts may seem in themselves +trivial; but so are the continuous acts of daily life. Like snowflakes, +they fall unperceived; each flake added to the pile produces no +sensible change, and yet the accumulation of snowflakes makes the +avalanche. So do repeated acts, one following another, at length become +consolidated in habit, determine the action of the human being for good +or for evil, and, in a word, form the character. + +It is because the mother, far more than the father, influences the +action and conduct of the child, that her good example is of so much +greater importance in the home. It is easy to understand how this should +be so. The home is the woman's domain--her kingdom, where she exercises +entire control. Her power over the little subjects she rules there is +absolute. They look up to her for everything. She is the example and +model constantly before their eyes, whom they unconsciously observe and +imitate. + +Cowley, speaking of the influence of early example, and ideas early +implanted in the mind, compares them to letters cut in the bark of a +young tree, which grow and widen with age. The impressions then made, +howsoever slight they may seem, are never effaced. The ideas then +implanted in the mind are like seeds dropped into the ground, which +lie there and germinate for a time, afterwards springing up in acts and +thoughts and habits. Thus the mother lives again in her children. +They unconsciously mould themselves after her manner, her speech, her +conduct, and her method of life. Her habits become theirs; and her +character is visibly repeated in them. + +This maternal love is the visible providence of our race. Its influence +is constant and universal. It begins with the education of the human +being at the out-start of life, and is prolonged by virtue of the +powerful influence which every good mother exercises over her children +through life. When launched into the world, each to take part in its +labours, anxieties, and trials, they still turn to their mother +for consolation, if not for counsel, in their time of trouble and +difficulty. The pure and good thoughts she has implanted in their minds +when children, continue to grow up into good acts, long after she is +dead; and when there is nothing but a memory of her left, her children +rise up and call her blessed. + +It is not saying too much to aver that the happiness or misery, the +enlightenment or ignorance, the civilisation or barbarism of the world, +depends in a very high degree upon the exercise of woman's power within +her special kingdom of home. Indeed, Emerson says, broadly and truly, +that "a sufficient measure of civilisation is the influence of good +women." Posterity may be said to lie before us in the person of the +child in the mother's lap. What that child will eventually become, +mainly depends upon the training and example which he has received from +his first and most influential educator. + +Woman, above all other educators, educates humanly. Man is the brain, +but woman is the heart of humanity; he its judgment, she its feeling; +he its strength, she its grace, ornament, and solace. Even the +understanding of the best woman seems to work mainly through her +affections. And thus, though man may direct the intellect, woman +cultivates the feelings, which mainly determine the character. While he +fills the memory, she occupies the heart. She makes us love what he can +only make us believe, and it is chiefly through her that we are enabled +to arrive at virtue. + +The respective influences of the father and the mother on the training +and development of character, are remarkably illustrated in the life +of St. Augustine. While Augustine's father, a poor freeman of Thagaste, +proud of his son's abilities, endeavoured to furnish his mind with the +highest learning of the schools, and was extolled by his neighbours +for the sacrifices he made with that object "beyond the ability of his +means"--his mother Monica, on the other hand, sought to lead her +son's mind in the direction of the highest good, and with pious care +counselled him, entreated him, advised him to chastity, and, amidst much +anguish and tribulation, because of his wicked life, never ceased to +pray for him until her prayers were heard and answered. Thus her love +at last triumphed, and the patience and goodness of the mother were +rewarded, not only by the conversion of her gifted son, but also of her +husband. Later in life, and after her husband's death, Monica, drawn by +her affection, followed her son to Milan, to watch over him; and there +she died, when he was in his thirty-third year. But it was in the +earlier period of his life that her example and instruction made the +deepest impression upon his mind, and determined his future character. + +There are many similar instances of early impressions made upon a +child's mind, springing up into good acts late in life, after an +intervening period of selfishness and vice. Parents may do all that they +can to develope an upright and virtuous character in their children, and +apparently in vain. It seems like bread cast upon the waters and lost. +And yet sometimes it happens that long after the parents have gone to +their Rest--it may be twenty years or more--the good precept, the good +example set before their sons and daughters in childhood, at length +springs up and bears fruit. + +One of the most remarkable of such instances was that of the Reverend +John Newton of Olney, the friend of Cowper the poet. It was long +subsequent to the death of both his parents, and after leading a vicious +life as a youth and as a seaman, that he became suddenly awakened to +a sense of his depravity; and then it was that the lessons which his +mother had given him when a child sprang up vividly in his memory. Her +voice came to him as it were from the dead, and led him gently back to +virtue and goodness. + +Another instance is that of John Randolph, the American statesman, who +once said: "I should have been an atheist if it had not been for one +recollection--and that was the memory of the time when my departed +mother used to take my little hand in hers, and cause me on my knees to +say, 'Our Father who art in heaven!'" + +But such instance must, on the whole, be regarded as exceptional. As the +character is biassed in early life, so it generally remains, gradually +assuming its permanent form as manhood is reached. "Live as long as you +may," said Southey, "the first twenty years are the longest half of your +life," and they are by far the most pregnant in consequences. When the +worn-out slanderer and voluptuary, Dr. Wolcot, lay on his deathbed, one +of his friends asked if he could do anything to gratify him. "Yes," said +the dying man, eagerly, "give me back my youth." Give him but that, and +he would repent--he would reform. But it was all too late! His life had +become bound and enthralled by the chains of habit.' [113] + +Gretry, the musical composer, thought so highly of the importance of +woman as an educator of character, that he described a good mother as +"Nature's CHEF-D'OEUVRE." And he was right: for good mothers, far more +than fathers, tend to the perpetual renovation of mankind, creating, +as they do, the moral atmosphere of the home, which is the nutriment of +man's moral being, as the physical atmosphere is of his corporeal frame. +By good temper, suavity, and kindness, directed by intelligence, woman +surrounds the indwellers with a pervading atmosphere of cheerfulness, +contentment, and peace, suitable for the growth of the purest as of the +manliest natures. + +The poorest dwelling, presided over by a virtuous, thrifty, cheerful, +and cleanly woman, may thus be the abode of comfort, virtue, and +happiness; it may be the scene of every ennobling relation in family +life; it may be endeared to a man by many delightful associations; +furnishing a sanctuary for the heart, a refuge from the storms of life, +a sweet resting-place after labour, a consolation in misfortune, a pride +in prosperity, and a joy at all times. + +The good home is thus the best of schools, not only in youth but in age. +There young and old best learn cheerfulness, patience, self-control, +and the spirit of service and of duty. Izaak Walton, speaking of George +Herbert's mother, says she governed her family with judicious care, not +rigidly nor sourly, "but with such a sweetness and compliance with the +recreations and pleasures of youth, as did incline them to spend much of +their time in her company, which was to her great content." + +The home is the true school of courtesy, of which woman is always the +best practical instructor. "Without woman," says the Provencal proverb, +"men were but ill-licked cubs." Philanthropy radiates from the home as +from a centre. "To love the little platoon we belong to in society," +said Burke, "is the germ of all public affections." The wisest and +the best have not been ashamed to own it to be their greatest joy and +happiness to sit "behind the heads of children" in the inviolable circle +of home. A life of purity and duty there is not the least effectual +preparative for a life of public work and duty; and the man who loves +his home will not the less fondly love and serve his country. But while +homes, which are the nurseries of character, may be the best of +schools, they may also be the worst. Between childhood and manhood how +incalculable is the mischief which ignorance in the home has the power +to cause! Between the drawing of the first breath and the last, how vast +is the moral suffering and disease occasioned by incompetent mothers and +nurses! Commit a child to the care of a worthless ignorant woman, and no +culture in after-life will remedy the evil you have done. Let the mother +be idle, vicious, and a slattern; let her home be pervaded by cavilling, +petulance, and discontent, and it will become a dwelling of misery--a +place to fly from, rather than to fly to; and the children whose +misfortune it is to be brought up there, will be morally dwarfed and +deformed--the cause of misery to themselves as well as to others. + +Napoleon Buonaparte was accustomed to say that "the future good or +bad conduct of a child depended entirely on the mother." He himself +attributed his rise in life in a great measure to the training of his +will, his energy, and his self-control, by his mother at home. "Nobody +had any command over him," says one of his biographers, "except his +mother, who found means, by a mixture of tenderness, severity, and +justice, to make him love, respect, and obey her: from her he learnt the +virtue of obedience." + +A curious illustration of the dependence of the character of children +on that of the mother incidentally occurs in one of Mr. Tufnell's school +reports. The truth, he observes, is so well established that it has even +been made subservient to mercantile calculation. "I was informed," he +says, "in a large factory, where many children were employed, that the +managers before they engaged a boy always inquired into the mother's +character, and if that was satisfactory they were tolerably certain that +her children would conduct themselves creditably. NO ATTENTION WAS PAID +TO THE CHARACTER OF THE FATHER." [114] + +It has also been observed that in cases where the father has turned out +badly--become a drunkard, and "gone to the dogs"--provided the mother is +prudent and sensible, the family will be kept together, and the children +probably make their way honourably in life; whereas in cases of +the opposite sort, where the mother turns out badly, no matter how +well-conducted the father may be, the instances of after-success in life +on the part of the children are comparatively rare. + +The greater part of the influence exercised by women on the formation of +character necessarily remains unknown. They accomplish their best work +in the quiet seclusion of the home and the family, by sustained effort +and patient perseverance in the path of duty. Their greatest triumphs, +because private and domestic, are rarely recorded; and it is not often, +even in the biographies of distinguished men, that we hear of the share +which their mothers have had in the formation of their character, and +in giving them a bias towards goodness. Yet are they not on that +account without their reward. The influence they have exercised, +though unrecorded, lives after them, and goes on propagating itself in +consequences for ever. + +We do not often hear of great women, as we do of great men. It is of +good women that we mostly hear; and it is probable that by determining +the character of men and women for good, they are doing even greater +work than if they were to paint great pictures, write great books, or +compose great operas. "It is quite true," said Joseph de Maistre, "that +women have produced no CHEFS-DOEUVRE. They have written no 'Iliad,' nor +'Jerusalem Delivered,' nor 'Hamlet,' nor 'Phaedre,' nor 'Paradise Lost,' +nor 'Tartuffe;' they have designed no Church of St. Peter's, composed +no 'Messiah,' carved no 'Apollo Belvidere,' painted no 'Last Judgment;' +they have invented neither algebra, nor telescopes, nor steam-engines; +but they have done something far greater and better than all this, for +it is at their knees that upright and virtuous men and women have been +trained--the most excellent productions in the world." + +De Maistre, in his letters and writings, speaks of his own mother with +immense love and reverence. Her noble character made all other women +venerable in his eyes. He described her as his "sublime mother"--"an +angel to whom God had lent a body for a brief season." To her he +attributed the bent of his character, and all his bias towards good; +and when he had grown to mature years, while acting as ambassador at the +Court of St. Petersburg, he referred to her noble example and precepts +as the ruling influence in his life. + +One of the most charming features in the character of Samuel Johnson, +notwithstanding his rough and shaggy exterior, was the tenderness +with which he invariably spoke of his mother [115]--a woman of strong +understanding, who firmly implanted in his mind, as he himself +acknowledges, his first impressions of religion. He was accustomed, even +in the time of his greatest difficulties, to contribute largely, out of +his slender means, to her comfort; and one of his last acts of filial +duty was to write 'Rasselas' for the purpose of paying her little debts +and defraying her funeral charges. + +George Washington was only eleven years of age--the eldest of five +children--when his father died, leaving his mother a widow. She was a +woman of rare excellence--full of resources, a good woman of business, +an excellent manager, and possessed of much strength of character. She +had her children to educate and bring up, a large household to govern, +and extensive estates to manage, all of which she accomplished with +complete success. Her good sense, assiduity, tenderness, industry, and +vigilance, enabled her to overcome every obstacle; and as the richest +reward of her solicitude and toil, she had the happiness to see all her +children come forward with a fair promise into life, filling the spheres +allotted to them in a manner equally honourable to themselves, and to +the parent who had been the only guide of their, principles, conduct, +and habits. [116] + +The biographer of Cromwell says little about the Protector's father, but +dwells upon the character of his mother, whom he describes as a woman of +rare vigour and decision of purpose: "A woman," he says, "possessed +of the glorious faculty of self-help when other assistance failed her; +ready for the demands of fortune in its extremest adverse turn; of +spirit and energy equal to her mildness and patience; who, with the +labour of her own hands, gave dowries to five daughters sufficient to +marry them into families as honourable but more wealthy than their +own; whose single pride was honesty, and whose passion was love; who +preserved in the gorgeous palace at Whitehall the simple tastes that +distinguished her in the old brewery at Huntingdon; and whose only care, +amidst all her splendour, was for the safety of her son in his dangerous +eminence." [117] + +We have spoken of the mother of Napoleon Buonaparte as a woman of +great force of character. Not less so was the mother of the Duke of +Wellington, whom her son strikingly resembled in features, person, and +character; while his father was principally distinguished as a musical +composer and performer. [118] But, strange to say, Wellington's mother +mistook him for a dunce; and, for some reason or other, he was not such +a favourite as her other children, until his great deeds in after-life +constrained her to be proud of him. + +The Napiers were blessed in both parents, but especially in their +mother, Lady Sarah Lennox, who early sought to inspire her sons' minds +with elevating thoughts, admiration of noble deeds, and a chivalrous +spirit, which became embodied in their lives, and continued to sustain +them, until death, in the path of duty and of honour. + +Among statesmen, lawyers, and divines, we find marked mention made of +the mothers of Lord Chancellors Bacon, Erskine, and Brougham--all women +of great ability, and, in the case of the first, of great learning; +as well as of the mothers of Canning, Curran, and President Adams--of +Herbert, Paley, and Wesley. Lord Brougham speaks in terms almost +approaching reverence of his grandmother, the sister of Professor +Robertson, as having been mainly instrumental in instilling into his +mind a strong desire for information, and the first principles of that +persevering energy in the pursuit of every kind of knowledge which +formed his prominent characteristic throughout life. + +Canning's mother was an Irishwoman of great natural ability, for whom +her gifted son entertained the greatest love and respect to the close of +his career. She was a woman of no ordinary intellectual power. "Indeed," +says Canning's biographer, "were we not otherwise assured of the fact +from direct sources, it would be impossible to contemplate his profound +and touching devotion to her, without being led to conclude that the +object of such unchanging attachment must have been possessed of rare +and commanding qualities. She was esteemed by the circle in which she +lived, as a woman of great mental energy. Her conversation was animated +and vigorous, and marked by a distinct originality of manner and a +choice of topics fresh and striking, and out of the commonplace routine. +To persons who were but slightly acquainted with her, the energy of her +manner had even something of the air of eccentricity." [119] + +Curran speaks with great affection of his mother, as a woman of strong +original understanding, to whose wise counsel, consistent piety, and +lessons of honourable ambition, which she diligently enforced on the +minds of her children, he himself principally attributed his success +in life. "The only inheritance," he used to say, "that I could boast of +from my poor father, was the very scanty one of an unattractive face +and person; like his own; and if the world has ever attributed to me +something more valuable than face or person, or than earthly wealth, it +was that another and a dearer parent gave her child a portion from the +treasure of her mind." [1110] + +When ex-President Adams was present at the examination of a girls' +school at Boston, he was presented by the pupils with an address which +deeply affected him; and in acknowledging it, he took the opportunity +of referring to the lasting influence which womanly training and +association had exercised upon his own life and character. "As a child," +he said, "I enjoyed perhaps the greatest of blessings that can be +bestowed on man--that of a mother, who was anxious and capable to form +the characters of her children rightly. From her I derived whatever +instruction [11religious especially, and moral] has pervaded a long +life--I will not say perfectly, or as it ought to be; but I will say, +because it is only justice to the memory of her I revere, that, in the +course of that life, whatever imperfection there has been, or deviation +from what she taught me, the fault is mine, and not hers." + +The Wesleys were peculiarly linked to their parents by natural piety, +though the mother, rather than the father, influenced their minds and +developed their characters. The father was a man of strong will, but +occasionally harsh and tyrannical in his dealings with his family; [1111] +while the mother, with much strength of understanding and ardent love +of truth, was gentle, persuasive, affectionate, and simple. She was the +teacher and cheerful companion of her children, who gradually became +moulded by her example. It was through the bias given by her to her +sons' minds in religious matters that they acquired the tendency which, +even in early years, drew to them the name of Methodists. In a letter to +her son, Samuel Wesley, when a scholar at Westminster in 1709, she said: +"I would advise you as much as possible to throw your business into a +certain METHOD, by which means you will learn to improve every precious +moment, and find an unspeakable facility in the performance of your +respective duties." This "method" she went on to describe, exhorting +her son "in all things to act upon principle;" and the society which the +brothers John and Charles afterwards founded at Oxford is supposed to +have been in a great measure the result of her exhortations. + +In the case of poets, literary men, and artists, the influence of the +mother's feeling and taste has doubtless had great effect in directing +the genius of their sons; and we find this especially illustrated in the +lives of Gray, Thomson, Scott, Southey, Bulwer, Schiller, and Goethe. +Gray inherited, almost complete, his kind and loving nature from his +mother, while his father was harsh and unamiable. Gray was, in fact, +a feminine man--shy, reserved, and wanting in energy,--but thoroughly +irreproachable in life and character. The poet's mother maintained the +family, after her unworthy husband had deserted her; and, at her death, +Gray placed on her grave, in Stoke Pogis, an epitaph describing her as +"the careful tender mother of many children, one of whom alone had the +misfortune to survive her." The poet himself was, at his own desire, +interred beside her worshipped grave. + +Goethe, like Schiller, owed the bias of his mind and character to his +mother, who was a woman of extraordinary gifts. She was full of +joyous flowing mother-wit, and possessed in a high degree the art of +stimulating young and active minds, instructing them in the science +of life out of the treasures of her abundant experience. [1112] After a +lengthened interview with her, an enthusiastic traveller said, "Now do +I understand how Goethe has become the man he is." Goethe himself +affectionately cherished her memory. "She was worthy of life!" he +once said of her; and when he visited Frankfort, he sought out every +individual who had been kind to his mother, and thanked them all. + +It was Ary Scheffer's mother--whose beautiful features the painter so +loved to reproduce in his pictures of Beatrice, St. Monica, and others +of his works--that encouraged his study of art, and by great self-denial +provided him with the means of pursuing it. While living at Dordrecht, +in Holland, she first sent him to Lille to study, and afterwards to +Paris; and her letters to him, while absent, were always full of sound +motherly advice, and affectionate womanly sympathy. "If you could but +see me," she wrote on one occasion, "kissing your picture, then, after +a while, taking it up again, and, with a tear in my eye, calling you 'my +beloved son,' you would comprehend what it costs me to use sometimes the +stern language of authority, and to occasion to you moments of pain. * +* * Work diligently--be, above all, modest and humble; and when you find +yourself excelling others, then compare what you have done with Nature +itself, or with the 'ideal' of your own mind, and you will be secured, +by the contrast which will be apparent, against the effects of pride and +presumption." + +Long years after, when Ary Scheffer was himself a grandfather, he +remembered with affection the advice of his mother, and repeated it to +his children. And thus the vital power of good example lives on from +generation to generation, keeping the world ever fresh and young. +Writing to his daughter, Madame Marjolin, in 1846, his departed mother's +advice recurred to him, and he said: "The word MUST--fix it well in +your memory, dear child; your grandmother seldom had it out of hers. The +truth is, that through our lives nothing brings any good fruit except +what is earned by either the work of the hands, or by the exertion of +one's self-denial. Sacrifices must, in short, be ever going on if we +would obtain any comfort or happiness. Now that I am no longer young, I +declare that few passages in my life afford me so much satisfaction +as those in which I made sacrifices, or denied myself enjoyments. 'Das +Entsagen' [11the forbidden] is the motto of the wise man. Self-denial is +the quality of which Jesus Christ set us the example." [1113] + +The French historian Michelet makes the following touching reference to +his mother in the Preface to one of his most popular books, the subject +of much embittered controversy at the time at which it appeared:-- + +"Whilst writing all this, I have had in my mind a woman, whose +strong and serious mind would not have failed to support me in +these contentions. I lost her thirty years ago [11I was a child +then]--nevertheless, ever living in my memory, she follows me from age +to age. + +"She suffered with me in my poverty, and was not allowed to share my +better fortune. When young, I made her sad, and now I cannot console +her. I know not even where her bones are: I was too poor then to buy +earth to bury her!" + +"And yet I owe her much. I feel deeply that I am the son of woman. +Every instant, in my ideas and words [11not to mention my features and +gestures], I find again my mother in myself. It is my mother's blood +which gives me the sympathy I feel for bygone ages, and the tender +remembrance of all those who are now no more." + +"What return then could I, who am myself advancing towards old age, make +her for the many things I owe her? One, for which she would have thanked +me--this protest in favour of women and mothers." [1114] + +But while a mother may greatly influence the poetic or artistic mind +of her son for good, she may also influence it for evil. Thus the +characteristics of Lord Byron--the waywardness of his impulses, his +defiance of restraint, the bitterness of his hate, and the precipitancy +of his resentments--were traceable in no small degree to the adverse +influences exercised upon his mind from his birth by his capricious, +violent, and headstrong mother. She even taunted her son with his +personal deformity; and it was no unfrequent occurrence, in the violent +quarrels which occurred between them, for her to take up the poker or +tongs, and hurl them after him as he fled from her presence. [1115] It was +this unnatural treatment that gave a morbid turn to Byron's after-life; +and, careworn, unhappy, great, and yet weak as he was, he carried about +with him the mother's poison which he had sucked in his infancy. Hence +he exclaims, in his 'Childe Harold':-- + + "Yet must I think less wildly:--I have thought + Too long and darkly, till my brain became, + In its own eddy boiling and o'erwrought, + A whirling gulf of phantasy and flame: + And thus, UNTAUGHT IN YOUTH MY HEART TO TAME, + MY SPRINGS OF LIFE WERE POISONED." + +In like manner, though in a different way, the character of Mrs. Foote, +the actor's mother, was curiously repeated in the life of her joyous, +jovial-hearted son. Though she had been heiress to a large fortune, +she soon spent it all, and was at length imprisoned for debt. In this +condition she wrote to Sam, who had been allowing her a hundred a year +out of the proceeds of his acting:-"Dear Sam, I am in prison for +debt; come and assist your loving mother, E. Foote." To which her son +characteristically replied--"Dear mother, so am I; which prevents +his duty being paid to his loving mother by her affectionate son, Sam +Foote." + +A foolish mother may also spoil a gifted son, by imbuing his mind with +unsound sentiments. Thus Lamartine's mother is said to have trained him +in altogether erroneous ideas of life, in the school of Rousseau and +Bernardin de St.-Pierre, by which his sentimentalism, sufficiently +strong by nature, was exaggerated instead of repressed: [1116] and he +became the victim of tears, affectation, and improvidence, all his life +long. It almost savours of the ridiculous to find Lamartine, in his +'Confidences,' representing himself as a "statue of Adolescence raised +as a model for young men." [1117] As he was his mother's spoilt child, so +he was the spoilt child of his country to the end, which was bitter +and sad. Sainte-Beuve says of him: "He was the continual object of the +richest gifts, which he had not the power of managing, scattering +and wasting them--all, excepting, the gift of words, which seemed +inexhaustible, and on which he continued to play to the end as on an +enchanted flute." [1118] + +We have spoken of the mother of Washington as an excellent woman of +business; and to possess such a quality as capacity for business is not +only compatible with true womanliness, but is in a measure essential to +the comfort and wellbeing of every properly-governed family. Habits of +business do not relate to trade merely, but apply to all the practical +affairs of life--to everything that has to be arranged, to be organised, +to be provided for, to be done. And in all these respects the management +of a family, and of a household, is as much a matter of business as +the management of a shop or of a counting-house. It requires method, +accuracy, organization, industry, economy, discipline, tact, knowledge, +and capacity for adapting means to ends. All this is of the essence of +business; and hence business habits are as necessary to be cultivated +by women who would succeed in the affairs of home--in other words, who +would make home happy--as by men in the affairs of trade, of commerce, +or of manufacture. + +The idea has, however, heretofore prevailed, that women have no concern +with such matters, and that business habits and qualifications relate to +men only. Take, for instance, the knowledge of figures. Mr. Bright has +said of boys, "Teach a boy arithmetic thoroughly, and he is a made man." +And why?--Because it teaches him method, accuracy, value, proportions, +relations. But how many girls are taught arithmetic well?--Very few +indeed. And what is the consequence?--When the girl becomes a wife, +if she knows nothing of figures, and is innocent of addition and +multiplication, she can keep no record of income and expenditure, and +there will probably be a succession of mistakes committed which may +be prolific in domestic contention. The woman, not being up to her +business--that is, the management of her domestic affairs in conformity +with the simple principles of arithmetic--will, through sheer ignorance, +be apt to commit extravagances, though unintentional, which may be most +injurious to her family peace and comfort. + +Method, which is the soul of business, is also of essential importance +in the home. Work can only be got through by method. Muddle flies +before it, and hugger-mugger becomes a thing unknown. Method demands +punctuality, another eminently business quality. The unpunctual woman, +like the unpunctual man, occasions dislike, because she consumes and +wastes time, and provokes the reflection that we are not of sufficient +importance to make her more prompt. To the business man, time is money; +but to the business woman, method is more--it is peace, comfort, and +domestic prosperity. + +Prudence is another important business quality in women, as in men. +Prudence is practical wisdom, and comes of the cultivated judgment. It +has reference in all things to fitness, to propriety; judging wisely of +the right thing to be done, and the right way of doing it. It calculates +the means, order, time, and method of doing. Prudence learns from +experience, quickened by knowledge. + +For these, amongst other reasons, habits of business are necessary to +be cultivated by all women, in order to their being efficient helpers in +the world's daily life and work. Furthermore, to direct the power of the +home aright, women, as the nurses, trainers, and educators of children, +need all the help and strength that mental culture can give them. + +Mere instinctive love is not sufficient. Instinct, which preserves the +lower creatures, needs no training; but human intelligence, which is in +constant request in a family, needs to be educated. The physical health +of the rising generation is entrusted to woman by Providence; and it is +in the physical nature that the moral and mental nature lies enshrined. +It is only by acting in accordance with the natural laws, which before +she can follow woman must needs understand, that the blessings of health +of body, and health of mind and morals, can be secured at home. +Without a knowledge of such laws, the mother's love too often finds its +recompence only in a child's coffin. [1119] + +It is a mere truism to say that the intellect with which woman as well +as man is endowed, has been given for use and exercise, and not "to fust +in her unused." Such endowments are never conferred without a purpose. +The Creator may be lavish in His gifts, but he is never wasteful. + +Woman was not meant to be either an unthinking drudge, or the merely +pretty ornament of man's leisure. She exists for herself, as well as +for others; and the serious and responsible duties she is called upon to +perform in life, require the cultivated head as well as the sympathising +heart. Her highest mission is not to be fulfilled by the mastery of +fleeting accomplishments, on which so much useful time is now wasted; +for, though accomplishments may enhance the charms of youth and beauty, +of themselves sufficiently charming, they will be found of very little +use in the affairs of real life. + +The highest praise which the ancient Romans could express of a noble +matron was that she sat at home and span--"DOMUM MANSIT, LANAM FECIT." +In our own time, it has been said that chemistry enough to keep the pot +boiling, and geography enough to know the different rooms in her house, +was science enough for any woman; whilst Byron, whose sympathies for +woman were of a very imperfect kind, professed that he would limit +her library to a Bible and a cookery-book. But this view of woman's +character and culture is as absurdly narrow and unintelligent, on the +one hand, as the opposite view, now so much in vogue, is extravagant and +unnatural on the other--that woman ought to be educated so as to be as +much as possible the equal of man; undistinguishable from him, except +in sex; equal to him in rights and votes; and his competitor in all that +makes life a fierce and selfish struggle for place and power and money. + +Speaking generally, the training and discipline that are most suitable +for the one sex in early life, are also the most suitable for the other; +and the education and culture that fill the mind of the man will prove +equally wholesome for the woman. Indeed, all the arguments which have +yet been advanced in favour of the higher education of men, plead +equally strongly in favour of the higher education of women. In all the +departments of home, intelligence will add to woman's usefulness and +efficiency. It will give her thought and forethought, enable her to +anticipate and provide for the contingencies of life, suggest +improved methods of management, and give her strength in every way. In +disciplined mental power she will find a stronger and safer protection +against deception and imposture than in mere innocent and unsuspecting +ignorance; in moral and religious culture she will secure sources of +influence more powerful and enduring than in physical attractions; and +in due self-reliance and self-dependence she will discover the truest +sources of domestic comfort and happiness. + +But while the mind and character of women ought to be cultivated with +a view to their own wellbeing, they ought not the less to be educated +liberally with a view to the happiness of others. Men themselves cannot +be sound in mind or morals if women be the reverse; and if, as we hold +to be the case, the moral condition of a people mainly depends upon the +education of the home, then the education of women is to be regarded as +a matter of national importance. Not only does the moral character but +the mental strength of man find their best safeguard and support in the +moral purity and mental cultivation of woman; but the more completely +the powers of both are developed, the more harmonious and well-ordered +will society be--the more safe and certain its elevation and +advancement. + +When about fifty years since, the first Napoleon said that the great +want of France was mothers, he meant, in other words, that the French +people needed the education of homes, provided over by good, virtuous, +intelligent women. Indeed, the first French Revolution presented one of +the most striking illustrations of the social mischiefs resulting from +a neglect of the purifying influence of women. When that great national +outbreak occurred, society was impenetrated with vice and profligacy. +Morals, religion, virtue, were swamped by sensualism. The character of +woman had become depraved. Conjugal fidelity was disregarded; maternity +was held in reproach; family and home were alike corrupted. Domestic +purity no longer bound society together. France was motherless; the +children broke loose; and the Revolution burst forth, "amidst the yells +and the fierce violence of women." [1120] + +But the terrible lesson was disregarded, and again and again France +has grievously suffered from the want of that discipline, obedience, +self-control, and self-respect which can only be truly learnt at home. +It is said that the Third Napoleon attributed the recent powerlessness +of France, which left her helpless and bleeding at the feet of her +conquerors, to the frivolity and lack of principle of the people, as +well as to their love of pleasure--which, however, it must be confessed, +he himself did not a little to foster. It would thus seem that the +discipline which France still needs to learn, if she would be good and +great, is that indicated by the First Napoleon--home education by good +mothers. + +The influence of woman is the same everywhere. Her condition influences +the morals, manners, and character of the people in all countries. +Where she is debased, society is debased; where she is morally pure and +enlightened, society will be proportionately elevated. + +Hence, to instruct woman is to instruct man; to elevate her character is +to raise his own; to enlarge her mental freedom is to extend and secure +that of the whole community. For Nations are but the outcomes of Homes, +and Peoples of Mothers. + +But while it is certain that the character of a nation will be elevated +by the enlightenment and refinement of woman, it is much more than +doubtful whether any advantage is to be derived from her entering into +competition with man in the rough work of business and polities. Women +can no more do men's special work in the world than men can do women's. +And wherever woman has been withdrawn from her home and family to enter +upon other work, the result has been socially disastrous. Indeed, the +efforts of some of the best philanthropists have of late years been +devoted to withdrawing women from toiling alongside of men in coalpits, +factories, nailshops, and brickyards. + +It is still not uncommon in the North for the husbands to be idle at +home, while the mothers and daughters are working in the factory; the +result being, in many cases, an entire subversion of family order, of +domestic discipline, and of home rule. [1121] And for many years past, in +Paris, that state of things has been reached which some women desire +to effect amongst ourselves. The women there mainly attend to +business--serving the BOUTIQUE, or presiding at the COMPTOIR--while +the men lounge about the Boulevards. But the result has only been +homelessness, degeneracy, and family and social decay. + +Nor is there any reason to believe that the elevation and improvement +of women are to be secured by investing them with political power. +There are, however, in these days, many believers in the potentiality +of "votes," [1122] who anticipate some indefinite good from the +"enfranchisement" of women. It is not necessary here to enter upon the +discussion of this question. But it may be sufficient to state that +the power which women do not possess politically is far more than +compensated by that which they exercise in private life--by their +training in the home those who, whether as men or as women, do all the +manly as well as womanly work of the world. The Radical Bentham has said +that man, even if he would, cannot keep power from woman; for that +she already governs the world "with the whole power of a despot," [1123] +though the power that she mainly governs by is love. And to form the +character of the whole human race, is certainly a power far greater than +that which women could ever hope to exercise as voters for members of +Parliament, or even as lawmakers. + +There is, however, one special department of woman's work demanding the +earnest attention of all true female reformers, though it is one +which has hitherto been unaccountably neglected. We mean the better +economizing and preparation of human food, the waste of which at +present, for want of the most ordinary culinary knowledge, is little +short of scandalous. If that man is to be regarded as a benefactor of +his species who makes two stalks of corn to grow where only one grew +before, not less is she to be regarded as a public benefactor who +economizes and turns to the best practical account the food-products +of human skill and labour. The improved use of even our existing supply +would be equivalent to an immediate extension of the cultivable acreage +of our country--not to speak of the increase in health, economy, and +domestic comfort. Were our female reformers only to turn their energies +in this direction with effect, they would earn the gratitude of +all households, and be esteemed as among the greatest of practical +philanthropists. + + + + +CHAPTER III.--COMPANIONSHIP AND EXAMPLES + + + + "Keep good company, and you shall be of the number." + -- GEORGE HERBERT. + + "For mine own part, + I Shall be glad to learn of noble men."--SHAKSPEARE + + "Examples preach to th' eye--Care then, mine says, + Not how you end but how you spend your days." + HENRY MARTEN--'LAST THOUGHTS.' + + "Dis moi qui t'admire, et je dirai qui tu es."--SAINTE-BEUVE + + "He that means to be a good limner will be sure to draw + after the most excellent copies and guide every stroke of + his pencil by the better pattern that lays before him; so he + that desires that the table of his life may be fair, will be + careful to propose the best examples, and will never be + content till he equals or excels them."--OWEN FELTHAM + + +The natural education of the Home is prolonged far into life--indeed, it +never entirely ceases. But the time arrives, in the progress of years, +when the Home ceases to exercise an exclusive influence on the formation +of character; and it is succeeded by the more artificial education of +the school and the companionship of friends and comrades, which continue +to mould the character by the powerful influence of example. + +Men, young and old--but the young more than the old--cannot help +imitating those with whom they associate. It was a saying of George +Herbert's mother, intended for the guidance of her sons, "that as our +bodies take a nourishment suitable to the meat on which we feed, so +do our souls as insensibly take in virtue or vice by the example or +conversation of good or bad company." + +Indeed, it is impossible that association with those about us should not +produce a powerful influence in the formation of character. For men are +by nature imitators, and all persons are more or less impressed by the +speech, the manners, the gait, the gestures, and the very habits of +thinking of their companions. "Is example nothing?" said Burke. "It is +everything. Example is the school of mankind, and they will learn at +no other." Burke's grand motto, which he wrote for the tablet of +the Marquis of Rockingham, is worth repeating: it was, +"Remember--resemble--persevere." + +Imitation is for the most part so unconscious that its effects are +almost unheeded, but its influence is not the less permanent on that +account. It is only when an impressive nature is placed in contact with +an impressionable one, that the alteration in the character becomes +recognisable. Yet even the weakest natures exercise some influence upon +those about them. The approximation of feeling, thought, and habit is +constant, and the action of example unceasing. + +Emerson has observed that even old couples, or persons who have been +housemates for a course of years, grow gradually like each other; so +that, if they were to live long enough, we should scarcely be able to +know them apart. But if this be true of the old, how much more true +is it of the young, whose plastic natures are so much more soft and +impressionable, and ready to take the stamp of the life and conversation +of those about them! + +"There has been," observed Sir Charles Bell in one of his letters, "a +good deal said about education, but they appear to me to put out of +sight EXAMPLE, which is all-in-all. My best education was the example +set me by my brothers. There was, in all the members of the family, a +reliance on self, a true independence, and by imitation I obtained it." +[121] + +It is in the nature of things that the circumstances which contribute to +form the character, should exercise their principal influence during the +period of growth. As years advance, example and imitation become custom, +and gradually consolidate into habit, which is of so much potency that, +almost before we know it, we have in a measure yielded up to it our +personal freedom. + +It is related of Plato, that on one occasion he reproved a boy for +playing at some foolish game. "Thou reprovest me," said the boy, "for +a very little thing." "But custom," replied Plato, "is not a little +thing." Bad custom, consolidated into habit, is such a tyrant that men +sometimes cling to vices even while they curse them. They have become +the slaves of habits whose power they are impotent to resist. Hence +Locke has said that to create and maintain that vigour of mind which is +able to contest the empire of habit, may be regarded as one of the chief +ends of moral discipline. + +Though much of the education of character by example is spontaneous and +unconscious, the young need not necessarily be the passive followers +or imitators of those about them. Their own conduct, far more than +the conduct of their companions, tends to fix the purpose and form the +principles of their life. Each possesses in himself a power of will and +of free activity, which, if courageously exercised, will enable him to +make his own individual selection of friends and associates. It is only +through weakness of purpose that young people, as well as old, become +the slaves of their inclinations, or give themselves up to a servile +imitation of others. + +It is a common saying that men are known by the company they keep. The +sober do not naturally associate with the drunken, the refined with +the coarse, the decent with the dissolute. To associate with depraved +persons argues a low taste and vicious tendencies, and to frequent their +society leads to inevitable degradation of character. "The conversation +of such persons," says Seneca, "is very injurious; for even if it does +no immediate harm, it leaves its seeds in the mind, and follows us when +we have gone from the speakers--a plague sure to spring up in future +resurrection." + +If young men are wisely influenced and directed, and conscientiously +exert their own free energies, they will seek the society of those +better than themselves, and strive to imitate their example. In +companionship with the good, growing natures will always find their best +nourishment; while companionship with the bad will only be fruitful in +mischief. There are persons whom to know is to love, honour, and admire; +and others whom to know is to shun and despise,--"DONT LE SAVOIR +N'EST QUE BETERIE," as says Rabelais when speaking of the education of +Gargantua. Live with persons of elevated characters, and you will feel +lifted and lighted up in them: "Live with wolves," says the Spanish +proverb, "and you will learn to howl." + +Intercourse with even commonplace, selfish persons, may prove most +injurious, by inducing a dry, dull reserved, and selfish condition of +mind, more or less inimical to true manliness and breadth of character. +The mind soon learns to run in small grooves, the heart grows narrow +and contracted, and the moral nature becomes weak, irresolute, +and accommodating, which is fatal to all generous ambition or real +excellence. + +On the other hand, association with persons wiser, better, and more +experienced than ourselves, is always more or less inspiring and +invigorating. They enhance our own knowledge of life. We correct our +estimates by theirs, and become partners in their wisdom. We enlarge our +field of observation through their eyes, profit by their experience, +and learn not only from what they have enjoyed, but--which is still more +instructive--from what they have suffered. If they are stronger +than ourselves, we become participators in their strength. Hence +companionship with the wise and energetic never fails to have a most +valuable influence on the formation of character--increasing our +resources, strengthening our resolves, elevating our aims, and enabling +us to exercise greater dexterity and ability in our own affairs, as well +as more effective helpfulness of others. + +"I have often deeply regretted in myself," says Mrs. Schimmelpenninck, +"the great loss I have experienced from the solitude of my early habits. +We need no worse companion than our unregenerate selves, and, by living +alone, a person not only becomes wholly ignorant of the means of helping +his fellow-creatures, but is without the perception of those wants which +most need help. Association with others, when not on so large a scale as +to make hours of retirement impossible, may be considered as furnishing +to an individual a rich multiplied experience; and sympathy so drawn +forth, though, unlike charity, it begins abroad, never fails to bring +back rich treasures home. Association with others is useful also in +strengthening the character, and in enabling us, while we never lose +sight of our main object, to thread our way wisely and well." [122] + +An entirely new direction may be given to the life of a young man by +a happy suggestion, a timely hint, or the kindly advice of an honest +friend. Thus the life of Henry Martyn the Indian missionary, seems to +have been singularly influenced by a friendship which he formed, when a +boy, at Truro Grammar School. Martyn himself was of feeble frame, and of +a delicate nervous temperament. Wanting in animal spirits, he took +but little pleasure in school sports; and being of a somewhat petulant +temper, the bigger boys took pleasure in provoking him, and some of +them in bullying him. One of the bigger boys, however, conceiving a +friendship for Martyn, took him under his protection, stood between him +and his persecutors, and not only fought his battles for him, but helped +him with his lessons. Though Martyn was rather a backward pupil, his +father was desirous that he should have the advantage of a college +education, and at the age of about fifteen he sent him to Oxford to try +for a Corpus scholarship, in which he failed. He remained for two years +more at the Truro Grammar School, and then went to Cambridge, where he +was entered at St. John's College. Who should he find already settled +there as a student but his old champion of the Truro Grammar School? +Their friendship was renewed; and the elder student from that time +forward acted as the Mentor, of the younger one. Martyn was fitful in +his studies, excitable and petulant, and occasionally subject to fits +of almost uncontrollable rage. His big friend, on the other hand, was a +steady, patient, hardworking fellow; and he never ceased to watch over, +to guide, and to advise for good his irritable fellow-student. He kept +Martyn out of the way of evil company, advised him to work hard, "not +for the praise of men, but for the glory of God;" and so successfully +assisted him in his studies, that at the following Christmas examination +he was the first of his year. Yet Martyn's kind friend and Mentor +never achieved any distinction himself; he passed away into obscurity, +leading, most probably, a useful though an unknown career; his greatest +wish in life having been to shape the character of his friend, to +inspire his soul with the love of truth, and to prepare him for the +noble work, on which he shortly after entered, of an Indian missionary. + +A somewhat similar incident is said to have occurred in the college +career of Dr. Paley. When a student at Christ's College Cambridge, he +was distinguished for his shrewdness as well as his clumsiness, and +he was at the same time the favourite and the butt of his companions. +Though his natural abilities were great, he was thoughtless, idle, and +a spendthrift; and at the commencement of his third year he had +made comparatively little progress. After one of his usual +night-dissipations, a friend stood by his bedside on the following +morning. "Paley," said he, "I have not been able to sleep for thinking +about you. I have been thinking what a fool you are! I have the means of +dissipation, and can afford to be idle: YOU are poor, and cannot afford +it. I could do nothing, probably, even were I to try: YOU are capable of +doing anything. I have lain awake all night thinking about your folly, +and I have now come solemnly to warn you. Indeed, if you persist in +your indolence, and go on in this way, I must renounce your society +altogether!" + +It is said that Paley was so powerfully affected by this admonition, +that from that moment he became an altered man. He formed an entirely +new plan of life, and diligently persevered in it. He became one of the +most industrious of students. One by one he distanced his competitors, +and at the end of the year he came out Senior Wrangler. What he +afterwards accomplished as an author and a divine is sufficiently well +known. + +No one recognised more fully the influence of personal example on the +young than did Dr. Arnold. It was the great lever with which he worked +in striving to elevate the character of his school. He made it his +principal object, first to put a right spirit into the leading boys, +by attracting their good and noble feelings; and then to make them +instrumental in propagating the same spirit among the rest, by the +influence of imitation, example, and admiration. He endeavoured to make +all feel that they were fellow-workers with himself, and sharers with +him in the moral responsibility for the good government of the place. +One of the first effects of this highminded system of management was, +that it inspired the boys with strength and self-respect. They felt that +they were trusted. There were, of course, MAUVAIS SUJETS at Rugby, as +there are at all schools; and these it was the master's duty to watch, +to prevent their bad example contaminating others. On one occasion +he said to an assistant-master: "Do you see those two boys walking +together? I never saw them together before. You should make an especial +point of observing the company they keep: nothing so tells the changes +in a boy's character." + +Dr. Arnold's own example was an inspiration, as is that of every great +teacher. In his presence, young men learned to respect themselves; and +out of the root of self-respect there grew up the manly virtues. "His +very presence," says his biographer, "seemed to create a new spring +of health and vigour within them, and to give to life an interest and +elevation which remained with them long after they had left him; and +dwelt so habitually in their thoughts as a living image, that, when +death had taken him away, the bond appeared to be still unbroken, and +the sense of separation almost lost in the still deeper sense of a life +and a Union indestructible." [123] And thus it was that Dr. Arnold trained +a host of manly and noble characters, who spread the influence of his +example in all parts of the world. + +So also was it said of Dugald Stewart, that he breathed the love of +virtue into whole generations of pupils. "To me," says the late Lord +Cockburn, "his lectures were like the opening of the heavens. I felt +that I had a soul. His noble views, unfolded in glorious sentences, +elevated me into a higher world... They changed my whole nature." [124] + +Character tells in all conditions of life. The man of good character in +a workshop will give the tone to his fellows, and elevate their entire +aspirations. Thus Franklin, while a workman in London, is said to have +reformed the manners of an entire workshop. So the man of bad character +and debased energy will unconsciously lower and degrade his fellows. +Captain John Brown--the "marching-on Brown"--once said to Emerson, +that "for a settler in a new country, one good believing man is worth a +hundred, nay, worth a thousand men without character." His example is so +contagious, that all other men are directly and beneficially influenced +by him, and he insensibly elevates and lifts them up to his own standard +of energetic activity. + +Communication with the good is invariably productive of good. The good +character is diffusive in his influence. "I was common clay till roses +were planted in me," says some aromatic earth in the Eastern fable. +Like begets like, and good makes good. "It is astonishing," says Canon +Moseley, "how much good goodness makes. Nothing that is good is alone, +nor anything bad; it makes others good or others bad--and that other, +and so on: like a stone thrown into a pond, which makes circles that +make other wider ones, and then others, till the last reaches the +shore.... Almost all the good that is in the world has, I suppose, +thus come down to us traditionally from remote times, and often unknown +centres of good." [125] So Mr. Ruskin says, "That which is born of evil +begets evil; and that which is born of valour and honour, teaches valour +and honour." + +Hence it is that the life of every man is a daily inculcation of good +or bad example to others. The life of a good man is at the same time the +most eloquent lesson of virtue and the most severe reproof of vice. Dr. +Hooker described the life of a pious clergyman of his acquaintance as +"visible rhetoric," convincing even the most godless of the beauty of +goodness. And so the good George Herbert said, on entering upon the +duties of his parish: "Above all, I will be sure to live well, because +the virtuous life of a clergyman is the most powerful eloquence, to +persuade all who see it to reverence and love, and--at least to desire +to live like him. And this I will do," he added, "because I know we live +in an age that hath more need of good examples than precepts." It was a +fine saying of the same good priest, when reproached with doing an +act of kindness to a poor man, considered beneath the dignity of his +office,--that the thought of such actions "would prove music to him at +midnight." [126] Izaak Walton speaks of a letter written by George Herbert +to Bishop Andrewes, about a holy life, which the latter "put into his +bosom," and after showing it to his scholars, "did always return it to +the place where he first lodged it, and continued it so, near his heart, +till the last day of his life." + +Great is the power of goodness to charm and to command. The man inspired +by it is the true king of men, drawing all hearts after him. When +General Nicholson lay wounded on his deathbed before Delhi, he dictated +this last message to his equally noble and gallant friend, Sir Herbert +Edwardes:--"Tell him," said he, "I should have been a better man if +I had continued to live with him, and our heavy public duties had not +prevented my seeing more of him privately. I was always the better for +a residence with him and his wife, however short. Give my love to them +both!" + +There are men in whose presence we feel as if we breathed a spiritual +ozone, refreshing and invigorating, like inhaling mountain air, or +enjoying a bath of sunshine. The power of Sir Thomas More's gentle +nature was so great that it subdued the bad at the same time that it +inspired the good. Lord Brooke said of his deceased friend, Sir Philip +Sidney, that "his wit and understanding beat upon his heart, to make +himself and others, not in word or opinion, but in life and action, good +and great." + +The very sight of a great and good man is often an inspiration to the +young, who cannot help admiring and loving the gentle, the brave, the +truthful, the magnanimous! Chateaubriand saw Washington only once, +but it inspired him for life. After describing the interview, he says: +"Washington sank into the tomb before any little celebrity had attached +to my name. I passed before him as the most unknown of beings. He was +in all his glory--I in the depth of my obscurity. My name probably dwelt +not a whole day in his memory. Happy, however, was I that his looks were +cast upon me. I have felt warmed for it all the rest of my life. There +is a virtue even in the looks of a great man." + +When Niebuhr died, his friend, Frederick Perthes, said of him: "What a +contemporary! The terror of all bad and base men, the stay of all the +sterling and honest, the friend and helper of youth." Perthes said +on another occasion: "It does a wrestling man good to be constantly +surrounded by tried wrestlers; evil thoughts are put to flight when the +eye falls on the portrait of one in whose living presence one would have +blushed to own them." A Catholic money-lender, when about to cheat, was +wont to draw a veil over the picture of his favourite saint. So Hazlitt +has said of the portrait of a beautiful female, that it seemed as if an +unhandsome action would be impossible in its presence. "It does one good +to look upon his manly honest face," said a poor German woman, pointing +to a portrait of the great Reformer hung upon the wall of her humble +dwelling. + +Even the portrait of a noble or a good man, hung up in a room, is +companionship after a sort. It gives us a closer personal interest in +him. Looking at the features, we feel as if we knew him better, and were +more nearly related to him. It is a link that connects us with a higher +and better nature than our own. And though we may be far from reaching +the standard of our hero, we are, to a certain extent, sustained and +fortified by his depicted presence constantly before us. + +Fox was proud to acknowledge how much he owed to the example and +conversation of Burke. On one occasion he said of him, that "if he was +to put all the political information he had gained from books, all that +he had learned from science, or that the knowledge of the world and its +affairs taught him, into one scale, and the improvement he had derived +from Mr. Burke's conversation and instruction into the other, the latter +would preponderate." + +Professor Tyndall speaks of Faraday's friendship as "energy and +inspiration." After spending an evening with him he wrote: "His work +excites admiration, but contact with him warms and elevates the heart. +Here, surely, is a strong man. I love strength, but let me not forget +the example of its union with modesty, tenderness, and sweetness, in the +character of Faraday." + +Even the gentlest natures are powerful to influence the character of +others for good. Thus Wordsworth seems to have been especially impressed +by the character of his sister Dorothy, who exercised upon his mind +and heart a lasting influence. He describes her as the blessing of +his boyhood as well as of his manhood. Though two years younger than +himself, her tenderness and sweetness contributed greatly to mould his +nature, and open his mind to the influences of poetry: + + "She gave me eyes, she gave me ears, + And humble cares, and delicate fears; + A heart, the fountain of sweet tears, + And love and thought and joy." + +Thus the gentlest natures are enabled, by the power of affection and +intelligence, to mould the characters of men destined to influence and +elevate their race through all time. + +Sir William Napier attributed the early direction of his character, +first to the impress made upon it by his mother, when a boy; and +afterwards to the noble example of his commander, Sir John Moore, when a +man. Moore early detected the qualities of the young officer; and he +was one of those to whom the General addressed the encouragement, "Well +done, my majors!" at Corunna. Writing home to his mother, and describing +the little court by which Moore was surrounded, he wrote, "Where shall +we find such a king?" It was to his personal affection for his chief +that the world is mainly indebted to Sir William Napier for his great +book, 'The History of the Peninsular War.' But he was stimulated to +write the book by the advice of another friend, the late Lord Langdale, +while one day walking with him across the fields on which Belgravia is +now built. "It was Lord Langdale," he says, "who first kindled the fire +within me." And of Sir William Napier himself, his biographer truly +says, that "no thinking person could ever come in contact with him +without being strongly impressed with the genius of the man." + +The career of the late Dr. Marshall Hall was a lifelong illustration of +the influence of character in forming character. Many eminent men still +living trace their success in life to his suggestions and assistance, +without which several valuable lines of study and investigation might +not have been entered on, at least at so early a period. He would say +to young men about him, "Take up a subject and pursue it well, and you +cannot fail to succeed." And often he would throw out a new idea to a +young friend, saying, "I make you a present of it; there is fortune in +it, if you pursue it with energy." + +Energy of character has always a power to evoke energy in others. It +acts through sympathy, one of the most influential of human agencies. +The zealous energetic man unconsciously carries others along with him. +His example is contagious, and compels imitation. He exercises a sort of +electric power, which sends a thrill through every fibre--flows into the +nature of those about him, and makes them give out sparks of fire. + +Dr. Arnold's biographer, speaking of the power of this kind exercised by +him over young men, says: "It was not so much an enthusiastic admiration +for true genius, or learning, or eloquence, which stirred within them; +it was a sympathetic thrill, caught from a spirit that was earnestly +at work in the world--whose work was healthy, sustained, and constantly +carried forward in the fear of God--a work that was founded on a deep +sense of its duty and its value." [127] + +Such a power, exercised by men of genius, evokes courage, enthusiasm, +and devotion. It is this intense admiration for individuals--such as +one cannot conceive entertained for a multitude--which has in all times +produced heroes and martyrs. It is thus that the mastery of character +makes itself felt. It acts by inspiration, quickening and vivifying the +natures subject to its influence. + +Great minds are rich in radiating force, not only exerting power, but +communicating and even creating it. Thus Dante raised and drew after him +a host of great spirits--Petrarch, Boccacio, Tasso, and many more. From +him Milton learnt to bear the stings of evil tongues and the contumely +of evil days; and long years after, Byron, thinking of Dante under the +pine-trees of Ravenna, was incited to attune his harp to loftier strains +than he had ever attempted before. Dante inspired the greatest painters +of Italy--Giotto, Orcagna, Michael Angelo, and Raphael. So Ariosto and +Titian mutually inspired one another, and lighted up each other's glory. + +Great and good men draw others after them, exciting the spontaneous +admiration of mankind. This admiration of noble character elevates +the mind, and tends to redeem it from the bondage of self, one of the +greatest stumbling blocks to moral improvement. The recollection of men +who have signalised themselves by great thoughts or great deeds, seems +as if to create for the time a purer atmosphere around us: and we feel +as if our aims and purposes were unconsciously elevated. + +"Tell me whom you admire," said Sainte-Beuve, "and I will tell you what +you are, at least as regards your talents, tastes, and character." +Do you admire mean men?--your own nature is mean. Do you admire rich +men?--you are of the earth, earthy. Do you admire men of title?--you +are a toad-eater, or a tuft-hunter. [128] Do you admire honest, brave, and +manly men?--you are yourself of an honest, brave, and manly spirit. + +It is in the season of youth, while the character is forming, that the +impulse to admire is the greatest. As we advance in life, we crystallize +into habit; and "NIL ADMIRARI" too often becomes our motto. It is well +to encourage the admiration of great characters while the nature is +plastic and open to impressions; for if the good are not admired--as +young men will have their heroes of some sort--most probably the great +bad may be taken by them for models. Hence it always rejoiced Dr. Arnold +to hear his pupils expressing admiration of great deeds, or full of +enthusiasm for persons or even scenery. "I believe," said he, "that +'NIL ADMIRARI' is the devil's favourite text; and he could not choose +a better to introduce his pupils into the more esoteric parts of his +doctrine. And, therefore, I have always looked upon a man infected with +the disorder of anti-romance as one who has lost the finest part of his +nature, and his best protection against everything low and foolish." [129] + +It was a fine trait in the character of Prince Albert that he was always +so ready to express generous admiration of the good deeds of others. "He +had the greatest delight," says the ablest delineator of his character, +"in anybody else saying a fine saying, or doing a great deed. He would +rejoice over it, and talk about it for days; and whether it was a thing +nobly said or done by a little child, or by a veteran statesman, it gave +him equal pleasure. He delighted in humanity doing well on any occasion +and in any manner." [1210] + +"No quality," said Dr. Johnson, "will get a man more friends than a +sincere admiration of the qualities of others. It indicates generosity +of nature, frankness, cordiality, and cheerful recognition of merit." It +was to the sincere--it might almost be said the reverential--admiration +of Johnson by Boswell, that we owe one of the best biographies ever +written. One is disposed to think that there must have been some genuine +good qualities in Boswell to have been attracted by such a man as +Johnson, and to have kept faithful to his worship in spite of rebuffs +and snubbings innumerable. Macaulay speaks of Boswell as an altogether +contemptible person--as a coxcomb and a bore--weak, vain, pushing, +curious, garrulous; and without wit, humour, or eloquence. But Carlyle +is doubtless more just in his characterisation of the biographer, in +whom--vain and foolish though he was in many respects--he sees a man +penetrated by the old reverent feeling of discipleship, full of love +and admiration for true wisdom and excellence. Without such qualities, +Carlyle insists, the 'Life of Johnson' never could have been written. +"Boswell wrote a good book," he says, "because he had a heart and an eye +to discern wisdom, and an utterance to render it forth; because of +his free insight, his lively talent, and, above all, of his love and +childlike openmindedness." + +Most young men of generous mind have their heroes, especially if they +be book-readers. Thus Allan Cunningham, when a mason's apprentice in +Nithsdale, walked all the way to Edinburgh for the sole purpose of +seeing Sir Walter Scott as he passed along the street. We unconsciously +admire the enthusiasm of the lad, and respect the impulse which impelled +him to make the journey. It is related of Sir Joshua Reynolds, that when +a boy of ten, he thrust his hand through intervening rows of people to +touch Pope, as if there were a sort of virtue in the contact. At a much +later period, the painter Haydon was proud to see and to touch Reynolds +when on a visit to his native place. Rogers the poet used to tell of his +ardent desire, when a boy, to see Dr. Johnson; but when his hand was on +the knocker of the house in Bolt Court, his courage failed him, and he +turned away. So the late Isaac Disraeli, when a youth, called at Bolt +Court for the same purpose; and though he HAD the courage to knock, to +his dismay he was informed by the servant that the great lexicographer +had breathed his last only a few hours before. + +On the contrary, small and ungenerous minds cannot admire heartily. To +their own great misfortune, they cannot recognise, much less reverence, +great men and great things. The mean nature admires meanly. The toad's +highest idea of beauty is his toadess. The small snob's highest idea of +manhood is the great snob. The slave-dealer values a man according to +his muscles. When a Guinea trader was told by Sir Godfrey Kneller, in +the presence of Pope, that he saw before him two of the greatest men in +the world, he replied: "I don't know how great you may be, but I don't +like your looks. I have often bought a man much better than both of you +together, all bones and muscles, for ten guineas!" + +Although Rochefoucauld, in one of his maxims, says that there is +something that is not altogether disagreeable to us in the misfortunes +of even our best friends, it is only the small and essentially mean +nature that finds pleasure in the disappointment, and annoyance at the +success of others. There are, unhappily, for themselves, persons so +constituted that they have not the heart to be generous. The most +disagreeable of all people are those who "sit in the seat of the +scorner." Persons of this sort often come to regard the success of +others, even in a good work, as a kind of personal offence. They cannot +bear to hear another praised, especially if he belong to their own art, +or calling, or profession. They will pardon a man's failures, but cannot +forgive his doing a thing better than they can do. And where they +have themselves failed, they are found to be the most merciless of +detractors. The sour critic thinks of his rival: + + "When Heaven with such parts has blest him, + Have I not reason to detest him?" + +The mean mind occupies itself with sneering, carping, and fault-finding; +and is ready to scoff at everything but impudent effrontery or +successful vice. The greatest consolation of such persons are the +defects of men of character. "If the wise erred not," says George +Herbert, "it would go hard with fools." Yet, though wise men may learn +of fools by avoiding their errors, fools rarely profit by the example +which, wise men set them. A German writer has said that it is a +miserable temper that cares only to discover the blemishes in the +character of great men or great periods. Let us rather judge them with +the charity of Bolingbroke, who, when reminded of one of the alleged +weaknesses of Marlborough, observed,--"He was so great a man that I +forgot he had that defect." + +Admiration of great men, living or dead, naturally evokes imitation +of them in a greater or less degree. While a mere youth, the mind of +Themistocles was fired by the great deeds of his contemporaries, and he +longed to distinguish himself in the service of his country. When the +Battle of Marathon had been fought, he fell into a state of melancholy; +and when asked by his friends as to the cause, he replied "that the +trophies of Miltiades would not suffer him to sleep." A few years later, +we find him at the head of the Athenian army, defeating the Persian +fleet of Xerxes in the battles of Artemisium and Salamis,--his country +gratefully acknowledging that it had been saved through his wisdom and +valour. + +It is related of Thucydides that, when a boy, he burst into tears on +hearing Herodotus read his History, and the impression made upon +his mind was such as to determine the bent of his own genius. +And Demosthenes was so fired on one occasion by the eloquence of +Callistratus, that the ambition was roused within him of becoming an +orator himself. Yet Demosthenes was physically weak, had a feeble voice, +indistinct articulation, and shortness of breath--defects which he was +only enabled to overcome by diligent study and invincible determination. +But, with all his practice, he never became a ready speaker; all his +orations, especially the most famous of them, exhibiting indications of +careful elaboration,--the art and industry of the orator being visible +in almost every sentence. + +Similar illustrations of character imitating character, and moulding +itself by the style and manner and genius of great men, are to be found +pervading all history. Warriors, statesmen, orators, patriots, poets, +and artists--all have been, more or less unconsciously, nurtured by the +lives and actions of others living before them or presented for their +imitation. + +Great men have evoked the admiration of kings, popes, and emperors. +Francis de Medicis never spoke to Michael Angelo without uncovering, +and Julius III. made him sit by his side while a dozen cardinals were +standing. Charles V. made way for Titian; and one day, when the brush +dropped from the painter's hand, Charles stooped and picked it up, +saying, "You deserve to be served by an emperor." Leo X. threatened +with excommunication whoever should print and sell the poems of Ariosto +without the author's consent. The same pope attended the deathbed of +Raphael, as Francis I. did that of Leonardo da Vinci. + +Though Haydn once archly observed that he was loved and esteemed by +everybody except professors of music, yet all the greatest musicians +were unusually ready to recognise each other's greatness. Haydn himself +seems to have been entirely free from petty jealousy. His admiration of +the famous Porpora was such, that he resolved to gain admission to his +house, and serve him as a valet. Having made the acquaintance of the +family with whom Porpora lived, he was allowed to officiate in that +capacity. Early each morning he took care to brush the veteran's coat, +polish his shoes, and put his rusty wig in order. At first Porpora +growled at the intruder, but his asperity soon softened, and eventually +melted into affection. He quickly discovered his valet's genius, and, +by his instructions, directed it into the line in which Haydn eventually +acquired so much distinction. + +Haydn himself was enthusiastic in his admiration of Handel. "He is the +father of us all," he said on one occasion. Scarlatti followed Handel in +admiration all over Italy, and, when his name was mentioned, he crossed +himself in token of veneration. Mozart's recognition of the great +composer was not less hearty. "When he chooses," said he, "Handel +strikes like the thunderbolt." Beethoven hailed him as "The monarch of +the musical kingdom." When Beethoven was dying, one of his friends sent +him a present of Handel's works, in forty volumes. They were brought +into his chamber, and, gazing on them with reanimated eye, he exclaimed, +pointing at them with his finger, "There--there is the truth!" + +Haydn not only recognised the genius of the great men who had passed +away, but of his young contemporaries, Mozart and Beethoven. Small men +may be envious of their fellows, but really great men seek out and love +each other. Of Mozart, Haydn wrote "I only wish I could impress on +every friend of music, and on great men in particular, the same depth +of musical sympathy, and profound appreciation of Mozart's inimitable +music, that I myself feel and enjoy; then nations would vie with each +other to possess such a jewel within their frontiers. Prague ought not +only to strive to retain this precious man, but also to remunerate him; +for without this the history of a great genius is sad indeed.... It +enrages me to think that the unparalleled Mozart is not yet engaged by +some imperial or royal court. Forgive my excitement; but I love the man +so dearly!" + +Mozart was equally generous in his recognition of the merits of Haydn. +"Sir," said he to a critic, speaking of the latter, "if you and I were +both melted down together, we should not furnish materials for one +Haydn." And when Mozart first heard Beethoven, he observed: "Listen to +that young man; be assured that he will yet make a great name in the +world." + +Buffon set Newton above all other philosophers, and admired him so +highly that he had always his portrait before him while he sat at work. +So Schiller looked up to Shakspeare, whom he studied reverently and +zealously for years, until he became capable of comprehending nature at +first-hand, and then his admiration became even more ardent than before. + +Pitt was Canning's master and hero, whom he followed and admired with +attachment and devotion. "To one man, while he lived," said Canning, "I +was devoted with all my heart and all my soul. Since the death of Mr. +Pitt I acknowledge no leader; my political allegiance lies buried in his +grave." [1211] + +A French physiologist, M. Roux, was occupied one day in lecturing to his +pupils, when Sir Charles Bell, whose discoveries were even better known +and more highly appreciated abroad than at home, strolled into his +class-room. The professor, recognising his visitor, at once stopped his +exposition, saying: "MESSIEURS, C'EST ASSEZ POUR AUJOURD'HUI, VOUS AVEZ +VU SIR CHARLES BELL!" + +The first acquaintance with a great work of art has usually proved an +important event in every young artist's life. When Correggio first gazed +on Raphael's 'Saint Cecilia,' he felt within himself an awakened power, +and exclaimed, "And I too am a painter" So Constable used to look back +on his first sight of Claude's picture of 'Hagar,' as forming an epoch +in his career. Sir George Beaumont's admiration of the same picture was +such that he always took it with him in his carriage when he travelled +from home. + +The examples set by the great and good do not die; they continue to +live and speak to all the generations that succeed them. It was very +impressively observed by Mr. Disraeli, in the House of Commons, shortly +after the death of Mr. Cobden:--"There is this consolation remaining to +us, when we remember our unequalled and irreparable losses, that those +great men are not altogether lost to us--that their words will often be +quoted in this House--that their examples will often be referred to +and appealed to, and that even their expressions will form part of +our discussions and debates. There are now, I may say, some members of +Parliament who, though they may not be present, are still members of +this House--who are independent of dissolutions, of the caprices of +constituencies, and even of the course of time. I think that Mr. Cobden +was one of those men." + +It is the great lesson of biography to teach what man can be and can do +at his best. It may thus give each man renewed strength and confidence. +The humblest, in sight of even the greatest, may admire, and hope, and +take courage. These great brothers of ours in blood and lineage, who +live a universal life, still speak to us from their graves, and beckon +us on in the paths which they have trod. Their example is still with us, +to guide, to influence, and to direct us. For nobility of character is +a perpetual bequest; living from age to age, and constantly tending to +reproduce its like. + +"The sage," say the Chinese, "is the instructor of a hundred ages. When +the manners of Loo are heard of, the stupid become intelligent, and the +wavering determined." Thus the acted life of a good man continues to be +a gospel of freedom and emancipation to all who succeed him: + + "To live in hearts we leave behind, + is not to die." + +The golden words that good men have uttered, the examples they have set, +live through all time: they pass into the thoughts and hearts of their +successors, help them on the road of life, and often console them in the +hour of death. "And the most miserable or most painful of deaths," said +Henry Marten, the Commonwealth man, who died in prison, "is as nothing +compared with the memory of a well-spent life; and great alone is he +who has earned the glorious privilege of bequeathing such a lesson and +example to his successors!" + + + + +CHAPTER IV.--WORK. + + + "Arise therefore, and be doing, and the Lord be with thee." + --l CHRONICLES xxii. 16. + + "Work as if thou hadst to live for aye; + Worship as if thou wert to die to-day."--TUSCAN PROVERB. + + "C'est par le travail qu'on regne."--LOUIS XIV + + "Blest work! if ever thou wert curse of God, + What must His blessing be!"--J. B. SELKIRK. + + "Let every man be OCCUPIED, and occupied in the highest + employment of which his nature is capable, and die with the + consciousness that he has done his best"--Sydney Smith. + + +WORK is one of the best educators of practical character. It evokes +and disciplines obedience, self-control, attention, application, and +perseverance; giving a man deftness and skill in his special calling, +and aptitude and dexterity in dealing with the affairs of ordinary life. + +Work is the law of our being--the living principle that carries men and +nations onward. The greater number of men have to work with their hands, +as a matter of necessity, in order to live; but all must work in one way +or another, if they would enjoy life as it ought to be enjoyed. + +Labour may be a burden and a chastisement, but it is also an honour and +a glory. Without it, nothing can be accomplished. All that is great in +man comes through work; and civilisation is its product. Were labour +abolished, the race of Adam were at once stricken by moral death. + +It is idleness that is the curse of man--not labour. Idleness eats the +heart out of men as of nations, and consumes them as rust does iron. +When Alexander conquered the Persians, and had an opportunity of +observing their manners, he remarked that they did not seem conscious +that there could be anything more servile than a life of pleasure, or +more princely than a life of toil. + +When the Emperor Severus lay on his deathbed at York, whither he +had been borne on a litter from the foot of the Grampians, his final +watchword to his soldiers was, "LABOREMUS" [we must work]; and nothing +but constant toil maintained the power and extended the authority of the +Roman generals. + +In describing the earlier social condition of Italy, when the ordinary +occupations of rural life were considered compatible with the highest +civic dignity, Pliny speaks of the triumphant generals and their men, +returning contentedly to the plough. In those days the lands were tilled +by the hands even of generals, the soil exulting beneath a ploughshare +crowned with laurels, and guided by a husbandman graced with triumphs: +"IPSORUM TUNC MANIBUS IMPERATORUM COLEBANTUR AGRI: UT FAS EST CREDERE, +GAUDENTE TERRA VOMERE LAUREATO ET TRIUMPHALI ARATORE." [131] It was only +after slaves became extensively employed in all departments of industry +that labour came to be regarded as dishonourable and servile. And so +soon as indolence and luxury became the characteristics of the ruling +classes of Rome, the downfall of the empire, sooner or later, was +inevitable. + +There is, perhaps, no tendency of our nature that has to be more +carefully guarded against than indolence. When Mr. Gurney asked an +intelligent foreigner who had travelled over the greater part of the +world, whether he had observed any one quality which, more than another, +could be regarded as a universal characteristic of our species, his +answer was, in broken English, "Me tink dat all men LOVE LAZY." It is +characteristic of the savage as of the despot. It is natural to men to +endeavour to enjoy the products of labour without its toils. Indeed, +so universal is this desire, that James Mill has argued that it was +to prevent its indulgence at the expense of society at large, that the +expedient of Government was originally invented. [132] + +Indolence is equally degrading to individuals as to nations. Sloth never +made its mark in the world, and never will. Sloth never climbed a hill, +nor overcame a difficulty that it could avoid. Indolence always failed +in life, and always will. It is in the nature of things that it +should not succeed in anything. It is a burden, an incumbrance, and a +nuisance--always useless, complaining, melancholy, and miserable. + +Burton, in his quaint and curious, book--the only one, Johnson says, +that ever took him out of bed two hours sooner than he wished to +rise--describes the causes of Melancholy as hingeing mainly on Idleness. +"Idleness," he says, "is the bane of body and mind, the nurse of +naughtiness, the chief mother of all mischief, one of the seven deadly +sins, the devil's cushion, his pillow and chief reposal.... An idle dog +will be mangy; and how shall an idle person escape? Idleness of the +mind is much worse than that of the body: wit, without employment, is a +disease--the rust of the soul, a plague, a hell itself. As in a standing +pool, worms and filthy creepers increase, so do evil and corrupt +thoughts in an idle person; the soul is contaminated.... Thus much I +dare boldly say: he or she that is idle, be they of what condition they +will, never so rich, so well allied, fortunate, happy--let them have +all things in abundance and felicity that heart can wish and desire, all +contentment--so long as he, or she, or they, are idle, they shall never +be pleased, never well in body or mind, but weary still, sickly still, +vexed still, loathing still, weeping, sighing, grieving, suspecting, +offended with the world, with every object, wishing themselves gone or +dead, or else carried away with some foolish phantasie or other." [133] + +Burton says a great deal more to the same effect; the burden and lesson +of his book being embodied in the pregnant sentence with which it winds +up:--"Only take this for a corollary and conclusion, as thou tenderest +thine own welfare in this, and all other melancholy, thy good health of +body and mind, observe this short precept, Give not way to solitariness +and idleness. BE NOT SOLITARY--BE NOT IDLE." [134] + +The indolent, however, are not wholly indolent. Though the body may +shirk labour, the brain is not idle. If it do not grow corn, it will +grow thistles, which will be found springing up all along the idle +man's course in life. The ghosts of indolence rise up in the dark, ever +staring the recreant in the face, and tormenting him: + + "The gods are just, and of our pleasant vices, + Make instrument to scourge us." + +True happiness is never found in torpor of the faculties, [135] but in +their action and useful employment. It is indolence that exhausts, not +action, in which there is life, health, and pleasure. The spirits may +be exhausted and wearied by employment, but they are utterly wasted by +idleness. Hense a wise physician was accustomed to regard occupation as +one of his most valuable remedial measures. "Nothing is so injurious," +said Dr. Marshall Hall, "as unoccupied time." An archbishop of Mayence +used to say that "the human heart is like a millstone: if you put wheat +under it, it grinds the wheat into flour; if you put no wheat, it grinds +on, but then 'tis itself it wears away." + +Indolence is usually full of excuses; and the sluggard, though unwilling +to work, is often an active sophist. "There is a lion in the path;" or +"The hill is hard to climb;" or "There is no use trying--I have tried, +and failed, and cannot do it." To the sophistries of such an excuser, +Sir Samuel Romilly once wrote to a young man:--"My attack upon your +indolence, loss of time, &c., was most serious, and I really think that +it can be to nothing but your habitual want of exertion that can be +ascribed your using such curious arguments as you do in your defence. +Your theory is this: Every man does all the good that he can. If a +particular individual does no good, it is a proof that he is incapable +of doing it. That you don't write proves that you can't; and your want +of inclination demonstrates your want of talents. What an admirable +system!--and what beneficial effects would it be attended with, if it +were but universally received!" + +It has been truly said, that to desire to possess, without being +burdened with the trouble of acquiring, is as much a sign of weakness, +as to recognise that everything worth having is only to be got by paying +its price, is the prime secret of practical strength. Even leisure +cannot be enjoyed unless it is won by effort. If it have not been earned +by work, the price has not been paid for it. [136] + +There must be work before and work behind, with leisure to fall back +upon; but the leisure, without the work, can no more be enjoyed than a +surfeit. Life must needs be disgusting alike to the idle rich man as to +the idle poor man, who has no work to do, or, having work, will not do +it. The words found tattooed on the right arm of a sentimental beggar +of forty, undergoing his eighth imprisonment in the gaol of Bourges +in France, might be adopted as the motto of all idlers: "LE PASSE M'A +TROMPE; LE PRESENT ME TOURMENTE; L'AVENIR M'EPOUVANTE;"--[13The past has +deceived me; the present torments me; the future terrifies me] + +The duty of industry applies to all classes and conditions of society. +All have their work to do in the irrespective conditions of life--the +rich as well as the poor. [137] The gentleman by birth and education, +however richly he may be endowed with worldly possessions, cannot but +feel that he is in duty bound to contribute his quota of endeavour +towards the general wellbeing in which he shares. He cannot be satisfied +with being fed, clad, and maintained by the labour of others, without +making some suitable return to the society that upholds him. An honest +highminded man would revolt at the idea of sitting down to and enjoying +a feast, and then going away without paying his share of the reckoning. +To be idle and useless is neither an honour nor a privilege; and though +persons of small natures may be content merely to consume--FRUGES +CONSUMERE NATI--men of average endowment, of manly aspirations, and of +honest purpose, will feel such a condition to be incompatible with real +honour and true dignity. + +"I don't believe," said Lord Stanley [13now Earl of Derby] at Glasgow, +"that an unemployed man, however amiable and otherwise respectable, ever +was, or ever can be, really happy. As work is our life, show me what you +can do, and I will show you what you are. I have spoken of love of one's +work as the best preventive of merely low and vicious tastes. I will +go further, and say that it is the best preservative against petty +anxieties, and the annoyances that arise out of indulged self-love. Men +have thought before now that they could take refuge from trouble and +vexation by sheltering themselves as it were in a world of their own. +The experiment has, often been tried, and always with one result. You +cannot escape from anxiety and labour--it is the destiny of humanity.... +Those who shirk from facing trouble, find that trouble comes to them. +The indolent may contrive that he shall have less than his share of the +world's work to do, but Nature proportioning the instinct to the work, +contrives that the little shall be much and hard to him. The man who has +only himself to please finds, sooner or later, and probably sooner than +later, that he has got a very hard master; and the excessive weakness +which shrinks from responsibility has its own punishment too, for where +great interests are excluded little matters become great, and the +same wear and tear of mind that might have been at least usefully and +healthfully expended on the real business of life is often wasted +in petty and imaginary vexations, such as breed and multiply in the +unoccupied brain." [138] + +Even on the lowest ground--that of personal enjoyment--constant useful +occupation is necessary. He who labours not, cannot enjoy the reward of +labour. "We sleep sound," said Sir Walter Scott, "and our waking +hours are happy, when they are employed; and a little sense of toil is +necessary to the enjoyment of leisure, even when earned by study and +sanctioned by the discharge of duty." + +It is true, there are men who die of overwork; but many more die of +selfishness, indulgence, and idleness. Where men break down by overwork, +it is most commonly from want of duly ordering their lives, and neglect +of the ordinary conditions of physical health. Lord Stanley was probably +right when he said, in his address to the Glasgow students above +mentioned, that he doubted whether "hard work, steadily and regularly +carried on, ever yet hurt anybody." + +Then, again, length of YEARS is no proper test of length of LIFE. A +man's life is to be measured by what he does in it, and what he feels in +it. The more useful work the man does, and the more he thinks and feels, +the more he really lives. The idle useless man, no matter to what extent +his life may be prolonged, merely vegetates. + +The early teachers of Christianity ennobled the lot of toil by their +example. "He that will not work," said Saint Paul, "neither shall he +eat;" and he glorified himself in that he had laboured with his hands, +and had not been chargeable to any man. When St. Boniface landed in +Britain, he came with a gospel in one hand and a carpenter's rule in the +other; and from England he afterwards passed over into Germany, carrying +thither the art of building. Luther also, in the midst of a multitude of +other employments, worked diligently for a living, earning his bread by +gardening, building, turning, and even clockmaking. [139] + +It was characteristic of Napoleon, when visiting a work of mechanical +excellence, to pay great respect to the inventor, and on taking his +leave, to salute him with a low bow. Once at St. Helena, when walking +with Mrs. Balcombe, some servants came along carrying a load. The +lady, in an angry tone, ordered them out of the way, on which Napoleon +interposed, saying, "Respect the burden, madam." Even the drudgery +of the humblest labourer contributes towards the general wellbeing of +society; and it was a wise saying of a Chinese Emperor, that "if there +was a man who did not work, or a woman that was idle, somebody must +suffer cold or hunger in the empire." + +The habit of constant useful occupation is as essential for the +happiness and wellbeing of woman as of man. Without it, women are apt to +sink into a state of listless ENNUI and uselessness, accompanied by sick +headache and attacks of "nerves." Caroline Perthes carefully warned her +married daughter Louisa to beware of giving way to such listlessness. "I +myself," she said, "when the children are gone out for a half-holiday, +sometimes feel as stupid and dull as an owl by daylight; but one must +not yield to this, which happens more or less to all young wives. The +best relief is WORK, engaged in with interest and diligence. Work, then, +constantly and diligently, at something or other; for idleness is the +devil's snare for small and great, as your grandfather says, and he says +true." [1310] + +Constant useful occupation is thus wholesome, not only for the body, but +for the mind. While the slothful man drags himself indolently through +life, and the better part of his nature sleeps a deep sleep, if not +morally and spiritually dead, the energetic man is a source of activity +and enjoyment to all who come within reach of his influence. Even any +ordinary drudgery is better than idleness. Fuller says of Sir Francis +Drake, who was early sent to sea, and kept close to his work by his +master, that such "pains and patience in his youth knit the joints of +his soul, and made them more solid and compact." Schiller used to say +that he considered it a great advantage to be employed in the discharge +of some daily mechanical duty--some regular routine of work, that +rendered steady application necessary. + +Thousands can bear testimony to the truth of the saying of Greuze, the +French painter, that work--employment, useful occupation--is one of the +great secrets of happiness. Casaubon was once induced by the entreaties +of his friends to take a few days entire rest, but he returned to +his work with the remark, that it was easier to bear illness doing +something, than doing nothing. + +When Charles Lamb was released for life from his daily drudgery of +desk-work at the India Office, he felt himself the happiest of men. "I +would not go back to my prison," he said to a friend, "ten years longer, +for ten thousand pounds." He also wrote in the same ecstatic mood to +Bernard Barton: "I have scarce steadiness of head to compose a letter," +he said; "I am free! free as air! I will live another fifty years.... +Would I could sell you some of my leisure! Positively the best thing +a man can do is--Nothing; and next to that, perhaps, Good Works." Two +years--two long and tedious years passed; and Charles Lamb's feelings +had undergone an entire change. He now discovered that official, even +humdrum work--"the appointed round, the daily task"--had been good for +him, though he knew it not. Time had formerly been his friend; it had +now become his enemy. To Bernard Barton he again wrote: "I assure you, +NO work is worse than overwork; the mind preys on itself--the most +unwholesome of food. I have ceased to care for almost anything.... Never +did the waters of heaven pour down upon a forlorner head. What I can +do, and overdo, is to walk. I am a sanguinary murderer of time. But the +oracle is silent." + +No man could be more sensible of the practical importance of industry +than Sir Walter Scott, who was himself one of the most laborious and +indefatigable of men. Indeed, Lockhart says of him that, taking all ages +and countries together, the rare example of indefatigable energy, in +union with serene self-possession of mind and manner, such as Scott's, +must be sought for in the roll of great sovereigns or great captains, +rather than in that of literary genius. Scott himself was most anxious +to impress upon the minds of his own children the importance of industry +as a means of usefulness and happiness in the world. To his son Charles, +when at school, he wrote:--"I cannot too much impress upon your mind +that LABOUR is the condition which God has imposed on us in every +station of life; there is nothing worth having that can be had without +it, from the bread which the peasant wins with the sweat of his brow, +to the sports by which the rich man must get rid of his ENNUI.... As for +knowledge, it can no more be planted in the human mind without labour +than a field of wheat can be produced without the previous use of +the plough. There is, indeed, this great difference, that chance or +circumstances may so cause it that another shall reap what the farmer +sows; but no man can be deprived, whether by accident or misfortune, of +the fruits of his own studies; and the liberal and extended acquisitions +of knowledge which he makes are all for his own use. Labour, therefore, +my dear boy, and improve the time. In youth our steps are light, and our +minds are ductile, and knowledge is easily laid up; but if we neglect +our spring, our summers will be useless and contemptible, our harvest +will be chaff, and the winter of our old age unrespected and desolate." +[1311] + +Southey was as laborious a worker as Scott. Indeed, work might almost +be said to form part of his religion. He was only nineteen when he +wrote these words:--"Nineteen years! certainly a fourth part of my life; +perhaps how great a part! and yet I have been of no service to society. +The clown who scares crows for twopence a day is a more useful man; he +preserves the bread which I eat in idleness." And yet Southey had +not been idle as a boy--on the contrary, he had been a most diligent +student. He had not only read largely in English literature, but was +well acquainted, through translations, with Tasso, Ariosto, Homer, and +Ovid. He felt, however, as if his life had been purposeless, and he +determined to do something. He began, and from that time forward he +pursued an unremitting career of literary labour down to the close of +his life--"daily progressing in learning," to use his own words--"not so +learned as he is poor, not so poor as proud, not so proud as happy." + +The maxims of men often reveal their character. [1312] That of Sir Walter +Scott was, "Never to be doing nothing." Robertson the historian, as +early as his fifteenth year, adopted the maxim of "VITA SINE LITERIS +MORS EST" [13Life without learning is death]. Voltaire's motto was, +"TOUJOURS AU TRAVAIL" [13Always at work]. The favourite maxim of Lacepede, +the naturalist, was, "VIVRE C'EST VEILLER" [13To live is to observe]: +it was also the maxim of Pliny. When Bossuet was at college, he was so +distinguished by his ardour in study, that his fellow students, playing +upon his name, designated him as "BOS-SUETUS ARATRO" [13The ox used to the +plough]. The name of VITA-LIS [13Life a struggle], which the Swedish poet +Sjoberg assumed, as Frederik von Hardenberg assumed that of NOVA-LIS, +described the aspirations and the labours of both these men of genius. + +We have spoken of work as a discipline: it is also an educator of +character. Even work that produces no results, because it IS work, +is better than torpor,--inasmuch as it educates faculty, and is thus +preparatory to successful work. The habit of working teaches method. +It compels economy of time, and the disposition of it with judicious +forethought. And when the art of packing life with useful occupations is +once acquired by practice, every minute will be turned to account; and +leisure, when it comes, will be enjoyed with all the greater zest. + +Coleridge has truly observed, that "if the idle are described as killing +time, the methodical man may be justly said to call it into life and +moral being, while he makes it the distinct object not only of the +consciousness, but of the conscience. He organizes the hours and gives +them a soul; and by that, the very essence of which is to fleet and to +have been, he communicates an imperishable and spiritual nature. Of +the good and faithful servant, whose energies thus directed are thus +methodized, it is less truly affirmed that he lives in time than that +time lives in him. His days and months and years, as the stops and +punctual marks in the record of duties performed, will survive the wreck +of worlds, and remain extant when time itself shall be no more." [1313] + +It is because application to business teaches method most effectually, +that it is so useful as an educator of character. The highest working +qualities are best trained by active and sympathetic contact with others +in the affairs of daily life. It does not matter whether the business +relate to the management of a household or of a nation. Indeed, as we +have endeavoured to show in a preceding chapter, the able housewife must +necessarily be an efficient woman of business. She must regulate and +control the details of her home, keep her expenditure within her means, +arrange everything according to plan and system, and wisely manage and +govern those subject to her rule. Efficient domestic management implies +industry, application, method, moral discipline, forethought, +prudence, practical ability, insight into character, and power of +organization--all of which are required in the efficient management of +business of whatever sort. + +Business qualities have, indeed, a very large field of action. They mean +aptitude for affairs, competency to deal successfully with the practical +work of life--whether the spur of action lie in domestic management, +in the conduct of a profession, in trade or commerce, in social +organization, or in political government. And the training which gives +efficiency in dealing with these various affairs is of all others the +most useful in practical life. [1314] Moreover, it is the best discipline +of character; for it involves the exercise of diligence, attention, +self-denial, judgment, tact, knowledge of and sympathy with others. + +Such a discipline is far more productive of happiness as well as useful +efficiency in life, than any amount of literary culture or meditative +seclusion; for in the long run it will usually be found that practical +ability carries it over intellect, and temper and habits over talent. It +must, however, he added that this is a kind of culture that can only be +acquired by diligent observation and carefully improved experience. "To +be a good blacksmith," said General Trochu in a recent publication, "one +must have forged all his life: to be a good administrator one should +have passed his whole life in the study and practice of business." + +It was characteristic of Sir Walter Scott to entertain the highest +respect for able men of business; and he professed that he did not +consider any amount of literary distinction as entitled to be spoken of +in the same breath with a mastery in the higher departments of practical +life--least of all with a first-rate captain. + +The great commander leaves nothing to chance, but provides for every +contingency. He condescends to apparently trivial details. Thus, when +Wellington was at the head of his army in Spain, he directed the precise +manner in which the soldiers were to cook their provisions. When in +India, he specified the exact speed at which the bullocks were to be +driven; every detail in equipment was carefully arranged beforehand. And +thus not only was efficiency secured, but the devotion of his men, and +their boundless confidence in his command. [1315] + +Like other great captains, Wellington had an almost boundless capacity +for work. He drew up the heads of a Dublin Police Bill [13being still the +Secretary for Ireland], when tossing off the mouth of the Mondego, +with Junot and the French army waiting for him on the shore. So Caesar, +another of the greatest commanders, is said to have written an essay +on Latin Rhetoric while crossing the Alps at the head of his army. +And Wallenstein when at the head of 60,000 men, and in the midst of +a campaign with the enemy before him, dictated from headquarters the +medical treatment of his poultry-yard. + +Washington, also, was an indefatigable man of business. From his boyhood +he diligently trained himself in habits of application, of study, and of +methodical work. His manuscript school-books, which are still preserved, +show that, as early as the age of thirteen, he occupied himself +voluntarily in copying out such things as forms of receipts, notes of +hand, bills of exchange, bonds, indentures, leases, land-warrants, and +other dry documents, all written out with great care. And the habits +which he thus early acquired were, in a great measure, the foundation of +those admirable business qualities which he afterwards so successfully +brought to bear in the affairs of government. + +The man or woman who achieves success in the management of any great +affair of business is entitled to honour,--it may be, to as much as the +artist who paints a picture, or the author who writes a book, or the +soldier who wins a battle. Their success may have been gained in the +face of as great difficulties, and after as great struggles; and where +they have won their battle, it is at least a peaceful one, and there is +no blood on their hands. + +The idea has been entertained by some, that business habits are +incompatible with genius. In the Life of Richard Lovell Edgeworth, [1316] +it is observed of a Mr. Bicknell--a respectable but ordinary man, of +whom little is known but that he married Sabrina Sidney, the ELEVE of +Thomas Day, author of 'Sandford and Merton'--that "he had some of +the too usual faults of a man of genius: he detested the drudgery of +business." But there cannot be a greater mistake. The greatest geniuses +have, without exception, been the greatest workers, even to the extent +of drudgery. They have not only worked harder than ordinary men, but +brought to their work higher faculties and a more ardent spirit. Nothing +great and durable was ever improvised. It is only by noble patience and +noble labour that the masterpieces of genius have been achieved. + +Power belongs only to the workers; the idlers are always powerless. It +is the laborious and painstaking men who are the rulers of the world. +There has not been a statesman of eminence but was a man of industry. +"It is by toil," said even Louis XIV., "that kings govern." When +Clarendon described Hampden, he spoke of him as "of an industry and +vigilance not to be tired out or wearied by the most laborious, and +of parts not to be imposed on by the most subtle and sharp, and of a +personal courage equal to his best parts." While in the midst of his +laborious though self-imposed duties, Hampden, on one occasion, wrote +to his mother: "My lyfe is nothing but toyle, and hath been for many +yeares, nowe to the Commonwealth, nowe to the Kinge.... Not so much +tyme left as to doe my dutye to my deare parents, nor to sende to them." +Indeed, all the statesmen of the Commonwealth were great toilers; +and Clarendon himself, whether in office or out of it, was a man of +indefatigable application and industry. + +The same energetic vitality, as displayed in the power of working, has +distinguished all the eminent men in our own as well as in past +times. During the Anti-Corn Law movement, Cobden, writing to a friend, +described himself as "working like a horse, with not a moment to spare." +Lord Brougham was a remarkable instance of the indefatigably active and +laborious man; and it might be said of Lord Palmerston, that he worked +harder for success in his extreme old age than he had ever done in the +prime of his manhood--preserving his working faculty, his good-humour +and BONHOMMIE, unimpaired to the end. [1317] He himself was accustomed to +say, that being in office, and consequently full of work, was good for +his health. It rescued him from ENNUI. Helvetius even held, that it is +man's sense of ENNUI that is the chief cause of his superiority over the +brute,--that it is the necessity which he feels for escaping from its +intolerable suffering that forces him to employ himself actively, and is +hence the great stimulus to human progress. + +Indeed, this living principle of constant work, of abundant occupation, +of practical contact with men in the affairs of life, has in all times +been the best ripener of the energetic vitality of strong natures. +Business habits, cultivated and disciplined, are found alike useful in +every pursuit--whether in politics, literature, science, or art. Thus, a +great deal of the best literary work has been done by men systematically +trained in business pursuits. The same industry, application, economy +of time and labour, which have rendered them useful in the one sphere of +employment, have been found equally available in the other. + +Most of the early English writers were men of affairs, trained to +business; for no literary class as yet existed, excepting it might +be the priesthood. Chaucer, the father of English poetry, was first a +soldier, and afterwards a comptroller of petty customs. The office was +no sinecure either, for he had to write up all the records with his +own hand; and when he had done his "reckonings" at the custom-house, he +returned with delight to his favourite studies at home--poring over his +books until his eyes were "dazed" and dull. + +The great writers in the reign of Elizabeth, during which there was such +a development of robust life in England, were not literary men according +to the modern acceptation of the word, but men of action trained in +business. Spenser acted as secretary to the Lord Deputy of Ireland; +Raleigh was, by turns, a courtier, soldier, sailor, and discoverer; +Sydney was a politician, diplomatist, and soldier; Bacon was a laborious +lawyer before he became Lord Keeper and Lord Chancellor; Sir Thomas +Browne was a physician in country practice at Norwich; Hooker was the +hardworking pastor of a country parish; Shakspeare was the manager of a +theatre, in which he was himself but an indifferent actor, and he seems +to have been even more careful of his money investments than he was +of his intellectual offspring. Yet these, all men of active business +habits, are among the greatest writers of any age: the period of +Elizabeth and James I. standing out in the history of England as the era +of its greatest literary activity and splendour. + +In the reign of Charles I., Cowley held various offices of trust and +confidence. He acted as private secretary to several of the royalist +leaders, and was afterwards engaged as private secretary to the Queen, +in ciphering and deciphering the correspondence which passed between her +and Charles I.; the work occupying all his days, and often his nights, +during several years. And while Cowley was thus employed in the royal +cause, Milton was employed by the Commonwealth, of which he was the +Latin secretary, and afterwards secretary to the Lord Protector. Yet, in +the earlier part of his life, Milton was occupied in the humble vocation +of a teacher. Dr. Johnson says, "that in his school, as in everything +else which he undertook, he laboured with great diligence, there is no +reason for doubting" It was after the Restoration, when his official +employment ceased, that Milton entered upon the principal literary work +of his life; but before he undertook the writing of his great epic, +he deemed it indispensable that to "industrious and select reading" +he should add "steady observation" and "insight into all seemly and +generous arts and affairs." [1318] + +Locke held office in different reigns: first under Charles II. as +Secretary to the Board of Trade and afterwards under William III. as +Commissioner of Appeals and of Trade and Plantations. Many literary +men of eminence held office in Queen Anne's reign. Thus Addison +was Secretary of State; Steele, Commissioner of Stamps; Prior, +Under-Secretary of State, and afterwards Ambassador to France; Tickell, +Under-Secretary of State, and Secretary to the Lords Justices of +Ireland; Congreve, Secretary of Jamaica;, and Gay, Secretary of Legation +at Hanover. + +Indeed, habits of business, instead of unfitting a cultivated mind for +scientific or literary pursuits, are often the best training for them. +Voltaire insisted with truth that the real spirit of business and +literature are the same; the perfection of each being the union of +energy and thoughtfulness, of cultivated intelligence and practical +wisdom, of the active and contemplative essence--a union commended by +Lord Bacon as the concentrated excellence of man's nature. It has been +said that even the man of genius can write nothing worth reading in +relation to human affairs, unless he has been in some way or other +connected with the serious everyday business of life. + +Hence it has happened that many of the best books, extant have been +written by men of business, with whom literature was a pastime rather +than a profession. Gifford, the editor of the 'Quarterly,' who knew the +drudgery of writing for a living, once observed that "a single hour of +composition, won from the business of the day, is worth more than the +whole day's toil of him who works at the trade of literature: in the one +case, the spirit comes joyfully to refresh itself, like a hart to the +waterbrooks; in the other, it pursues its miserable way, panting and +jaded, with the dogs and hunger of necessity behind." [1319] + +The first great men of letters in Italy were not mere men of letters; +they were men of business--merchants, statesmen, diplomatists, judges, +and soldiers. Villani, the author of the best History of Florence, was +a merchant; Dante, Petrarch, and Boccacio, were all engaged in more or +less important embassies; and Dante, before becoming a diplomatist, was +for some time occupied as a chemist and druggist. Galileo, Galvani, +and Farini were physicians, and Goldoni a lawyer. Ariosto's talent +for affairs was as great as his genius for poetry. At the death of his +father, he was called upon to manage the family estate for the benefit +of his younger brothers and sisters, which he did with ability and +integrity. His genius for business having been recognised, he was +employed by the Duke of Ferrara on important missions to Rome and +elsewhere. Having afterwards been appointed governor of a turbulent +mountain district, he succeeded, by firm and just governments in +reducing it to a condition of comparative good order and security. Even +the bandits of the country respected him. Being arrested one day in the +mountains by a body of outlaws, he mentioned his name, when they at once +offered to escort him in safety wherever he chose. + +It has been the same in other countries. Vattel, the author of the +'Rights of Nations,' was a practical diplomatist, and a first-rate man +of business. Rabelais was a physician, and a successful practitioner; +Schiller was a surgeon; Cervantes, Lope de Vega, Calderon, Camoens, +Descartes, Maupertius, La Rochefoucauld, Lacepede, Lamark, were soldiers +in the early part of their respective lives. + +In our own country, many men now known by their writings, earned their +living by their trade. Lillo spent the greater part of his life as a +working jeweller in the Poultry; occupying the intervals of his leisure +in the production of dramatic works, some of them of acknowledged power +and merit. Izaak Walton was a linendraper in Fleet Street, reading much +in his leisure hours, and storing his mind with facts for future use in +his capacity of biographer. De Foe was by turns horse-factor, brick and +tile maker, shopkeeper, author, and political agent. + +Samuel Richardson successfully combined literature, with business; +writing his novels in his back-shop in Salisbury Court, Fleet Street, +and selling them over the counter in his front-shop. William Hutton, of +Birmingham, also successfully combined the occupations of bookselling +and authorship. He says, in his Autobiography, that a man may live half +a century and not be acquainted with his own character. He did not know +that he was an antiquary until the world informed him of it, from having +read his 'History of Birmingham,' and then, he said, he could see +it himself. Benjamin Franklin was alike eminent as a printer and +bookseller--an author, a philosopher and a statesman. + +Coming down to our own time, we find Ebenezer Elliott successfully +carrying on the business of a bar-iron merchant in Sheffield, during +which time he wrote and published the greater number of his poems; and +his success in business was such as to enable him to retire into the +country and build a house of his own, in which he spent the remainder +of his days. Isaac Taylor, the author of the 'Natural History of +Enthusiasm,' was an engraver of patterns for Manchester calico-printers; +and other members of this gifted family were followers of the same +branch of art. + +The principal early works of John Stuart Mill were written in the +intervals of official work, while he held the office of principal +examiner in the East India House,--in which Charles Lamb, Peacock the +author of 'Headlong Hall,' and Edwin Norris the philologist, were also +clerks. Macaulay wrote his 'Lays of Ancient Rome' in the War Office, +while holding the post of Secretary of War. It is well known that the +thoughtful writings of Mr. Helps are literally "Essays written in the +Intervals of Business." Many of our best living authors are men holding +important public offices--such as Sir Henry Taylor, Sir John Kaye, +Anthony Trollope, Tom Taylor, Matthew Arnold, and Samuel Warren. + +Mr. Proctor the poet, better known as "Barry Cornwall," was a barrister +and commissioner in lunacy. Most probably he assumed the pseudonym for +the same reason that Dr. Paris published his 'Philosophy in Sport made +Science in Earnest' anonymously--because he apprehended that, if known, +it might compromise his professional position. For it is by no means an +uncommon prejudice, still prevalent amongst City men, that a person who +has written a book, and still more one who has written a poem, is +good for nothing in the way of business. Yet Sharon Turner, though an +excellent historian, was no worse a solicitor on that account; while the +brothers Horace and James Smith, authors of 'The Rejected Addresses,' +were men of such eminence in their profession, that they were selected +to fill the important and lucrative post of solicitors to the Admiralty, +and they filled it admirably. + +It was while the late Mr. Broderip, the barrister, was acting as a +London police magistrate, that he was attracted to the study of natural +history, in which he occupied the greater part of his leisure. He wrote +the principal articles on the subject for the 'Penny Cyclopaedia,' +besides several separate works of great merit, more particularly +the 'Zoological Recreations,' and 'Leaves from the Notebook of a +Naturalist.' It is recorded of him that, though he devoted so much of +his time to the production of his works, as well as to the Zoological +Society and their admirable establishment in Regent's Park, of which +he was one of the founders, his studies never interfered with the real +business of his life, nor is it known that a single question was ever +raised upon his conduct or his decisions. And while Mr. Broderip devoted +himself to natural history, the late Lord Chief Baron Pollock devoted +his leisure to natural science, recreating himself in the practice +of photography and the study of mathematics, in both of which he was +thoroughly proficient. + +Among literary bankers we find the names of Rogers, the poet; Roscoe, of +Liverpool, the biographer of Lorenzo de Medici; Ricardo, the author of +'Political Economy and Taxation; [1320] Grote, the author of the 'History +of Greece;' Sir John Lubbock, the scientific antiquarian; [1321] and +Samuel Bailey, of Sheffield, the author of 'Essays on the Formation and +Publication of Opinions,' besides various important works on ethics, +political economy, and philosophy. + +Nor, on the other hand, have thoroughly-trained men of science and +learning proved themselves inefficient as first-rate men of business. +Culture of the best sort trains the habit of application and industry, +disciplines the mind, supplies it with resources, and gives it freedom +and vigour of action--all of which are equally requisite in the +successful conduct of business. Thus, in young men, education and +scholarship usually indicate steadiness of character, for they imply +continuous attention, diligence, and the ability and energy necessary to +master knowledge; and such persons will also usually be found possessed +of more than average promptitude, address, resource, and dexterity. + +Montaigne has said of true philosophers, that "if they were great in +science, they were yet much greater in action;... and whenever they have +been put upon the proof, they have been seen to fly to so high a pitch, +as made it very well appear their souls were strangely elevated and +enriched with the knowledge of things." [1322] + +At the same time, it must be acknowledged that too exclusive a devotion +to imaginative and philosophical literature, especially if prolonged in +life until the habits become formed, does to a great extent incapacitate +a man for the business of practical life. Speculative ability is one +thing, and practical ability another; and the man who, in his study, or +with his pen in hand, shows himself capable of forming large views of +life and policy, may, in the outer world, be found altogether unfitted +for carrying them into practical effect. + +Speculative ability depends on vigorous thinking--practical ability on +vigorous acting; and the two qualities are usually found combined in +very unequal proportions. The speculative man is prone to indecision: +he sees all the sides of a question, and his action becomes suspended in +nicely weighing the pros and cons, which are often found pretty nearly +to balance each other; whereas the practical man overleaps logical +preliminaries, arrives at certain definite convictions, and proceeds +forthwith to carry his policy into action. [1323] + +Yet there have been many great men of science who have proved efficient +men of business. We do not learn that Sir Isaac Newton made a worse +Master of the Mint because he was the greatest of philosophers. Nor were +there any complaints as to the efficiency of Sir John Herschel, who held +the same office. The brothers Humboldt were alike capable men in all +that they undertook--whether it was literature, philosophy, mining, +philology, diplomacy, or statesmanship. + +Niebuhr, the historian, was distinguished for his energy and success as +a man of business. He proved so efficient as secretary and accountant +to the African consulate, to which he had been appointed by the Danish +Government, that he was afterwards selected as one of the commissioners +to manage the national finances; and he quitted that office to undertake +the joint directorship of a bank at Berlin. It was in the midst of +his business occupations that he found time to study Roman history, to +master the Arabic, Russian, and other Sclavonic languages, and to +build up the great reputation as an author by which he is now chiefly +remembered. + +Having regard to the views professed by the First Napoleon as to men +of science, it was to have been expected that he would endeavour to +strengthen his administration by calling them to his aid. Some of his +appointments proved failures, while others were completely successful. +Thus Laplace was made Minister of the Interior; but he had no sooner +been appointed than it was seen that a mistake had been made. Napoleon +afterwards said of him, that "Laplace looked at no question in its true +point of view. He was always searching after subtleties; all his ideas +were problems, and he carried the spirit of the infinitesimal calculus +into the management of business." But Laplace's habits had been formed +in the study, and he was too old to adapt them to the purposes of +practical life. + +With Darn it was different. But Darn had the advantage of some practical +training in business, having served as an intendant of the army in +Switzerland under Massena, during which he also distinguished himself as +an author. When Napoleon proposed to appoint him a councillor of state +and intendant of the Imperial Household, Darn hesitated to accept the +office. "I have passed the greater part of my life," he said, "among +books, and have not had time to learn the functions of a courtier." "Of +courtiers," replied Napoleon, "I have plenty about me; they will never +fail. But I want a minister, at once enlightened, firm, and vigilant; +and it is for these qualities that I have selected you." Darn complied +with the Emperor's wishes, and eventually became his Prime Minister, +proving thoroughly efficient in that capacity, and remaining the same +modest, honourable, and disinterested man that he had ever been through +life. + +Men of trained working faculty so contract the habit of labour that +idleness becomes intolerable to them; and when driven by circumstances +from their own special line of occupation, they find refuge in other +pursuits. The diligent man is quick to find employment for his leisure; +and he is able to make leisure when the idle man finds none. "He hath no +leisure," says George Herbert, "who useth it not." "The most active or +busy man that hath been or can be," says Bacon, "hath, no question, many +vacant times of leisure, while he expecteth the tides and returns of +business, except he be either tedious and of no despatch, or lightly and +unworthily ambitious to meddle with things that may be better done by +others." Thus many great things have been done during such "vacant times +of leisure," by men to whom industry had become a second nature, and who +found it easier to work than to be idle. + +Even hobbies are useful as educators of the working faculty. Hobbies +evoke industry of a certain kind, and at least provide agreeable +occupation. Not such hobbies as that of Domitian, who occupied +himself in catching flies. The hobbies of the King of Macedon who made +lanthorns, and of the King of France who made locks, were of a more +respectable order. Even a routine mechanical employment is felt to be +a relief by minds acting under high-pressure: it is an intermission of +labour--a rest--a relaxation, the pleasure consisting in the work itself +rather than in the result. + +But the best of hobbies are intellectual ones. Thus men of active +mind retire from their daily business to find recreation in other +pursuits--some in science, some in art, and the greater number in +literature. Such recreations are among the best preservatives against +selfishness and vulgar worldliness. We believe it was Lord Brougham +who said, "Blessed is the man that hath a hobby!" and in the abundant +versatility of his nature, he himself had many, ranging from literature +to optics, from history and biography to social science. Lord Brougham +is even said to have written a novel; and the remarkable story of the +'Man in the Bell,' which appeared many years ago in 'Blackwood,' is +reputed to have been from his pen. Intellectual hobbies, however, must +not be ridden too hard--else, instead of recreating, refreshing, and +invigorating a man's nature, they may only have the effect of sending +him back to his business exhausted, enervated, and depressed. + +Many laborious statesmen besides Lord Brougham have occupied their +leisure, or consoled themselves in retirement from office, by the +composition of works which have become part of the standard literature +of the world. Thus 'Caesar's Commentaries' still survive as a classic; +the perspicuous and forcible style in which they are written placing +him in the same rank with Xenophon, who also successfully combined the +pursuit of letters with the business of active life. + +When the great Sully was disgraced as a minister, and driven into +retirement, he occupied his leisure in writing out his 'Memoirs,' +in anticipation of the judgment of posterity upon his career as a +statesman. Besides these, he also composed part of a romance after the +manner of the Scuderi school, the manuscript of which was found amongst +his papers at his death. + +Turgot found a solace for the loss of office, from which he had been +driven by the intrigues of his enemies, in the study of physical +science. He also reverted to his early taste for classical literature. +During his long journeys, and at nights when tortured by the gout, he +amused himself by making Latin verses; though the only line of his +that has been preserved was that intended to designate the portrait of +Benjamin Franklin: + + "Eripuit caelo fulmen, sceptrumque tyrannis." + +Among more recent French statesmen--with whom, however, literature +has been their profession as much as politics--may be mentioned +De Tocqueville, Thiers, Guizot, and Lamartine, while Napoleon III. +challenged a place in the Academy by his 'Life of Caesar.' + +Literature has also been the chief solace of our greatest English +statesmen. When Pitt retired from office, like his great contemporary +Fox, he reverted with delight to the study of the Greek and Roman +classics. Indeed, Grenville considered Pitt the best Greek scholar he +had ever known. Canning and Wellesley, when in retirement, occupied +themselves in translating the odes and satires of Horace. Canning's +passion for literature entered into all his pursuits, and gave a colour +to his whole life. His biographer says of him, that after a dinner at +Pitt's, while the rest of the company were dispersed in conversation, he +and Pitt would be observed poring over some old Grecian in a corner of +the drawing-room. Fox also was a diligent student of the Greek authors, +and, like Pitt, read Lycophron. He was also the author of a History +of James II., though the book is only a fragment, and, it must be +confessed, is rather a disappointing work. + +One of the most able and laborious of our recent statesmen--with whom +literature was a hobby as well as a pursuit--was the late Sir George +Cornewall Lewis. He was an excellent man of business--diligent, exact, +and painstaking. He filled by turns the offices of President of the +Poor Law Board--the machinery of which he created,--Chancellor of the +Exchequer, Home Secretary, and Secretary at War; and in each he +achieved the reputation of a thoroughly successful administrator. In the +intervals of his official labours, he occupied himself with inquiries +into a wide range of subjects--history, politics, philology, +anthropology, and antiquarianism. His works on 'The Astronomy of the +Ancients,' and 'Essays on the Formation of the Romanic Languages,' might +have been written by the profoundest of German SAVANS. He took especial +delight in pursuing the abstruser branches of learning, and found +in them his chief pleasure and recreation. Lord Palmerston sometimes +remonstrated with him, telling him he was "taking too much out of +himself" by laying aside official papers after office-hours in order to +study books; Palmerston himself declaring that he had no time to read +books--that the reading of manuscript was quite enough for him. + +Doubtless Sir George Lewis rode his hobby too hard, and but for his +devotion to study, his useful life would probably have been prolonged. +Whether in or out of office, he read, wrote, and studied. He +relinquished the editorship of the 'Edinburgh Review' to become +Chancellor of the Exchequer; and when no longer occupied in preparing +budgets, he proceeded to copy out a mass of Greek manuscripts at the +British Museum. He took particular delight in pursuing any difficult +inquiry in classical antiquity. One of the odd subjects with which he +occupied himself was an examination into the truth of reported cases of +longevity, which, according to his custom, he doubted or disbelieved. +This subject was uppermost in his mind while pursuing his canvass of +Herefordshire in 1852. On applying to a voter one day for his support, +he was met by a decided refusal. "I am sorry," was the candidate's +reply, "that you can't give me your vote; but perhaps you can tell me +whether anybody in your parish has died at an extraordinary age!" + +The contemporaries of Sir George Lewis also furnish many striking +instances of the consolations afforded by literature to statesmen +wearied with the toils of public life. Though the door of office may +be closed, that of literature stands always open, and men who are at +daggers-drawn in politics, join hands over the poetry of Homer and +Horace. The late Earl of Derby, on retiring from power, produced his +noble version of 'The Iliad,' which will probably continue to be read +when his speeches have been forgotten. Mr. Gladstone similarly occupied +his leisure in preparing for the press his 'Studies on Homer,' [1324] and +in editing a translation of 'Farini's Roman State;' while Mr. Disraeli +signalised his retirement from office by the production of his +'Lothair.' Among statesmen who have figured as novelists, besides Mr. +Disraeli, are Lord Russell, who has also contributed largely to history +and biography; the Marquis of Normandy, and the veteran novelist, +Lord Lytton, with whom, indeed, politics may be said to have been his +recreation, and literature the chief employment of his life. + +To conclude: a fair measure of work is good for mind as well as body. +Man is an intelligence sustained and preserved by bodily organs, and +their active exercise is necessary to the enjoyment of health. It is +not work, but overwork, that is hurtful; and it is not hard work that is +injurious so much as monotonous work, fagging work, hopeless work. All +hopeful work is healthful; and to be usefully and hopefully employed is +one of the great secrets of happiness. Brain-work, in moderation, is +no more wearing than any other kind of work. Duly regulated, it is as +promotive of health as bodily exercise; and, where due attention is paid +to the physical system, it seems difficult to put more upon a man than +he can bear. Merely to eat and drink and sleep one's way idly through +life is vastly more injurious. The wear-and-tear of rust is even faster +than the tear-and-wear of work. + +But overwork is always bad economy. It is, in fact, great waste, +especially if conjoined with worry. Indeed, worry kills far more than +work does. It frets, it excites, it consumes the body--as sand and grit, +which occasion excessive friction, wear out the wheels of a machine. +Overwork and worry have both to be guarded against. For over-brain-work +is strain-work; and it is exhausting and destructive according as it is +in excess of nature. And the brain-worker may exhaust and overbalance +his mind by excess, just as the athlete may overstrain his muscles and +break his back by attempting feats beyond the strength of his physical +system. + + + + +CHAPTER V.--COURAGE. + + + "It is not but the tempest that doth show + The seaman's cunning; but the field that tries + The captain's courage; and we come to know + Best what men are, in their worst jeopardies."--DANIEL. + + "If thou canst plan a noble deed, + And never flag till it succeed, + Though in the strife thy heart should bleed, + Whatever obstacles control, + Thine hour will come--go on, true soul! + Thou'lt win the prize, thou'lt reach the goal."--C. MACKAY. + + "The heroic example of other days is in great part the + source of the courage of each generation; and men walk up + composedly to the most perilous enterprises, beckoned + onwards by the shades of the brave that were."--HELPS. + + "That which we are, we are, + One equal temper of heroic hearts, + Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will + To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield."--TENNYSON. + + +THE world owes much to its men and women of courage. We do not mean +physical courage, in which man is at least equalled by the bulldog; nor +is the bulldog considered the wisest of his species. + +The courage that displays itself in silent effort and endeavour--that +dares to endure all and suffer all for truth and duty--is more truly +heroic than the achievements of physical valour, which are rewarded by +honours and titles, or by laurels sometimes steeped in blood. + +It is moral courage that characterises the highest order of manhood and +womanhood--the courage to seek and to speak the truth; the courage to +be just; the courage to be honest; the courage to resist temptation; the +courage to do one's duty. If men and women do not possess this virtue, +they have no security whatever for the preservation of any other. + +Every step of progress in the history of our race has been made in the +face of opposition and difficulty, and been achieved and secured by men +of intrepidity and valour--by leaders in the van of thought--by great +discoverers, great patriots, and great workers in all walks of life. +There is scarcely a great truth or doctrine but has had to fight its +way to public recognition in the face of detraction, calumny, and +persecution. "Everywhere," says Heine, "that a great soul gives +utterance to its thoughts, there also is a Golgotha." + + "Many loved Truth and lavished life's best oil, + Amid the dust of books to find her, + Content at last, for guerdon of their toil, + With the cast mantle she had left behind her. + Many in sad faith sought for her, + Many with crossed hands sighed for her, + But these, our brothers, fought for her, + At life's dear peril wrought for her, + So loved her that they died for her, + Tasting the raptured fleetness + Of her divine completeness." [141] + +Socrates was condemned to drink the hemlock at Athens in his +seventy-second year, because his lofty teaching ran counter to the +prejudices and party-spirit of his age. He was charged by his accusers +with corrupting the youth of Athens by inciting them to despise the +tutelary deities of the state. He had the moral courage to brave not +only the tyranny of the judges who condemned him, but of the mob who +could not understand him. He died discoursing of the doctrine of the +immortality of the soul; his last words to his judges being, "It is now +time that we depart--I to die, you to live; but which has the better +destiny is unknown to all, except to the God." + +How many great men and thinkers have been persecuted in the name of +religion! Bruno was burnt alive at Rome, because of his exposure of the +fashionable but false philosophy of his time. When the judges of the +Inquisition condemned him, to die, Bruno said proudly: "You are more +afraid to pronounce my sentence than I am to receive it." + +To him succeeded Galileo, whose character as a man of science is almost +eclipsed by that of the martyr. Denounced by the priests from the +pulpit, because of the views he taught as to the motion of the earth, +he was summoned to Rome, in his seventieth year, to answer for his +heterodoxy. And he was imprisoned in the Inquisition, if he was not +actually put to the torture there. He was pursued by persecution even +when dead, the Pope refusing a tomb for his body. + +Roger Bacon, the Franciscan monk, was persecuted on account of his +studies in natural philosophy, and he was charged with, dealing in +magic, because of his investigations in chemistry. His writings were +condemned, and he was thrown into prison, where he lay for ten years, +during the lives of four successive Popes. It is even averred that he +died in prison. + +Ockham, the early English speculative philosopher, was excommunicated +by the Pope, and died in exile at Munich, where he was protected by the +friendship of the then Emperor of Germany. + +The Inquisition branded Vesalius as a heretic for revealing man to man, +as it had before branded Bruno and Galileo for revealing the heavens to +man. Vesalius had the boldness to study the structure of the human body +by actual dissection, a practice until then almost entirely forbidden. +He laid the foundations of a science, but he paid for it with his +life. Condemned by the Inquisition, his penalty was commuted, by the +intercession of the Spanish king, into a pilgrimage to the Holy Land; +and when on his way back, while still in the prime of life, he died +miserably at Zante, of fever and want--a martyr to his love of science. + +When the 'Novum Organon' appeared, a hue-and-cry was raised against it, +because of its alleged tendency to produce "dangerous revolutions," to +"subvert governments," and to "overturn the authority of religion;" +[142] and one Dr. Henry Stubbe [14whose name would otherwise have been +forgotten] wrote a book against the new philosophy, denouncing the +whole tribe of experimentalists as "a Bacon-faced generation." Even +the establishment of the Royal Society was opposed, on the ground that +"experimental philosophy is subversive of the Christian faith." + +While the followers of Copernicus were persecuted as infidels, Kepler +was branded with the stigma of heresy, "because," said he, "I take that +side which seems to me to be consonant with the Word of God." Even the +pure and simpleminded Newton, of whom Bishop Burnet said that he had the +WHITEST SOUL he ever knew--who was a very infant in the purity of his +mind--even Newton was accused of "dethroning the Deity" by his sublime +discovery of the law of gravitation; and a similar charge was made +against Franklin for explaining the nature of the thunderbolt. + +Spinoza was excommunicated by the Jews, to whom he belonged, because of +his views of philosophy, which were supposed to be adverse to religion; +and his life was afterwards attempted by an assassin for the same +reason. Spinoza remained courageous and self-reliant to the last, dying +in obscurity and poverty. + +The philosophy of Descartes was denounced as leading to irreligion; the +doctrines of Locke were said to produce materialism; and in our own +day, Dr. Buckland, Mr. Sedgwick, and other leading geologists, have been +accused of overturning revelation with regard to the constitution and +history of the earth. Indeed, there has scarcely been a discovery in +astronomy, in natural history, or in physical science, that has not been +attacked by the bigoted and narrow-minded as leading to infidelity. + +Other great discoverers, though they may not have been charged with +irreligion, have had not less obloquy of a professional and public +nature to encounter. When Dr. Harvey published his theory of the +circulation of the blood, his practice fell off, [143] and the medical +profession stigmatised him as a fool. "The few good things I have been +able to do," said John Hunter, "have been accomplished with the greatest +difficulty, and encountered the greatest opposition." Sir Charles Bell, +while employed in his important investigations as to the nervous system, +which issued in one of the greatest of physiological discoveries, wrote +to a friend: "If I were not so poor, and had not so many vexations +to encounter, how happy would I be!" But he himself observed that his +practice sensibly fell off after the publication of each successive +stage of his discovery. + +Thus, nearly every enlargement of the domain of knowledge, which has +made us better acquainted with the heavens, with the earth, and with +ourselves, has been established by the energy, the devotion, the +self-sacrifice, and the courage of the great spirits of past times, who, +however much they have been opposed or reviled by their contemporaries, +now rank amongst those whom the enlightened of the human race most +delight to honour. + +Nor is the unjust intolerance displayed towards men of science in the +past, without its lesson for the present. It teaches us to be forbearant +towards those who differ from us, provided they observe patiently, think +honestly, and utter their convictions freely and truthfully. It was a +remark of Plato, that "the world is God's epistle to mankind;" and to +read and study that epistle, so as to elicit its true meaning, can +have no other effect on a well-ordered mind than to lead to a deeper +impression of His power, a clearer perception of His wisdom, and a more +grateful sense of His goodness. + +While such has been the courage of the martyrs of science, not less +glorious has been the courage of the martyrs of faith. The passive +endurance of the man or woman who, for conscience sake, is found +ready to suffer and to endure in solitude, without so much as the +encouragement of even a single sympathising voice, is an exhibition of +courage of a far higher kind than that displayed in the roar of battle, +where even the weakest feels encouraged and inspired by the enthusiasm +of sympathy and the power of numbers. Time would fail to tell of the +deathless names of those who through faith in principles, and in the +face of difficulty, danger, and suffering, "have wrought righteousness +and waxed valiant" in the moral warfare of the world, and been content +to lay down their lives rather than prove false to their conscientious +convictions of the truth. + +Men of this stamp, inspired by a high sense of duty, have in past times +exhibited character in its most heroic aspects, and continue to present +to us some of the noblest spectacles to be seen in history. Even women, +full of tenderness and gentleness, not less than men, have in this cause +been found capable of exhibiting the most unflinching courage. Such, for +instance, as that of Anne Askew, who, when racked until her bones were +dislocated, uttered no cry, moved no muscle, but looked her tormentors +calmly in the face, and refused either to confess or to recant; or such +as that of Latimer and Ridley, who, instead of bewailing their hard +fate and beating their breasts, went as cheerfully to their death as +a bridegroom to the altar--the one bidding the other to "be of good +comfort," for that "we shall this day light such a candle in England, by +God's grace, as shall never be put out;" or such, again, as that of Mary +Dyer, the Quakeress, hanged by the Puritans of New England for preaching +to the people, who ascended the scaffold with a willing step, and, after +calmly addressing those who stood about, resigned herself into the hands +of her persecutors, and died in peace and joy. + +Not less courageous was the behaviour of the good Sir Thomas More, who +marched willingly to the scaffold, and died cheerfully there, rather +than prove false to his conscience. When More had made his final +decision to stand upon his principles, he felt as if he had won a +victory, and said to his son-in-law Roper: "Son Roper, I thank Our Lord, +the field is won!" The Duke of Norfolk told him of his danger, saying: +"By the mass, Master More, it is perilous striving with princes; the +anger of a prince brings death!". "Is that all, my lord?" said More; +"then the difference between you and me is this--that I shall die +to-day, and you to-morrow." + +While it has been the lot of many great men, in times of difficulty and +danger, to be cheered and supported by their wives, More had no such +consolation. His helpmate did anything but console him during his +imprisonment in the Tower. [144] She could not conceive that there was any +sufficient reason for his continuing to lie there, when by merely doing +what the King required of him, he might at once enjoy his liberty, +together with his fine house at Chelsea, his library, his orchard, his +gallery, and the society of his wife and children. "I marvel," said she +to him one day, "that you, who have been alway hitherto taken for wise, +should now so play the fool as to lie here in this close filthy prison, +and be content to be shut up amongst mice and rats, when you might be +abroad at your liberty, if you would but do as the bishops have done?" +But More saw his duty from a different point of view: it was not a mere +matter of personal comfort with him; and the expostulations of his wife +were of no avail. He gently put her aside, saying cheerfully, "Is not +this house as nigh heaven as my own?"--to which she contemptuously +rejoined: "Tilly vally--tilly vally!" + +More's daughter, Margaret Roper, on the contrary, encouraged her father +to stand firm in his principles, and dutifully consoled and cheered +him during his long confinement. Deprived of pen-and-ink, he wrote his +letters to her with a piece of coal, saying in one of them: "If I were +to declare in writing how much pleasure your daughterly loving letters +gave me, a PECK OF COALS would not suffice to make the pens." More was +a martyr to veracity: he would not swear a false oath; and he perished +because he was sincere. When his head had been struck off, it was placed +on London Bridge, in accordance with the barbarous practice of the +times. Margaret Roper had the courage to ask for the head to be taken +down and given to her, and, carrying her affection for her father beyond +the grave, she desired that it might be buried with her when she died; +and long after, when Margaret Roper's tomb was opened, the precious +relic was observed lying on the dust of what had been her bosom. + +Martin Luther was not called upon to lay down his life for his faith; +but, from the day that he declared himself against the Pope, he daily +ran the risk of losing it. At the beginning of his great struggle, he +stood almost entirely alone. The odds against him were tremendous. "On +one side," said he himself, "are learning, genius, numbers, grandeur, +rank, power, sanctity, miracles; on the other Wycliffe, Lorenzo Valla, +Augustine, and Luther--a poor creature, a man of yesterday, standing +wellnigh alone with a few friends." Summoned by the Emperor to appear at +Worms; to answer the charge made against him of heresy, he determined to +answer in person. Those about him told him that he would lose his life +if he went, and they urged him to fly. "No," said he, "I will repair +thither, though I should find there thrice as many devils as there are +tiles upon the housetops!" Warned against the bitter enmity of a certain +Duke George, he said--"I will go there, though for nine whole days +running it rained Duke Georges." + +Luther was as good as his word; and he set forth upon his perilous +journey. When he came in sight of the old bell-towers of Worms, he +stood up in his chariot and sang, "EIN FESTE BURG IST UNSER GOTT."--the +'Marseillaise' of the Reformation--the words and music of which he is +said to have improvised only two days before. Shortly before the meeting +of the Diet, an old soldier, George Freundesberg, put his hand upon +Luther's shoulder, and said to him: "Good monk, good monk, take heed +what thou doest; thou art going into a harder fight than any of us have +ever yet been in." But Luther's only answer to the veteran was, that he +had "determined to stand upon the Bible and his conscience." + +Luther's courageous defence before the Diet is on record, and forms one +of the most glorious pages in history. When finally urged by the Emperor +to retract, he said firmly: "Sire, unless I am convinced of my error by +the testimony of Scripture, or by manifest evidence, I cannot and will +not retract, for we must never act contrary to our conscience. Such is +my profession of faith, and you must expect none other from me. HIER +STEHE ICH: ICH KANN NICHT ANDERS: GOTT HELFE MIR!" [14Here stand I: I +cannot do otherwise: God help me!]. He had to do his duty--to obey +the orders of a Power higher than that of kings; and he did it at all +hazards. + +Afterwards, when hard pressed by his enemies at Augsburg, Luther said +that "if he had five hundred heads, he would lose them all rather than +recant his article concerning faith." Like all courageous men, his +strength only seemed to grow in proportion to the difficulties he had to +encounter and overcome. "There is no man in Germany," said Hutten, "who +more utterly despises death than does Luther." And to his moral courage, +perhaps more than to that of any other single man, do we owe the +liberation of modern thought, and the vindication of the great rights of +the human understanding. + +The honourable and brave man does not fear death compared with ignominy. +It is said of the Royalist Earl of Strafford that, as he walked to the +scaffold on Tower Hill, his step and manner were those of a general +marching at the head of an army to secure victory, rather than of a +condemned man to undergo sentence of death. So the Commonwealth's +man, Sir John Eliot, went alike bravely to his death on the same spot, +saying: "Ten thousand deaths rather than defile my conscience, the +chastity and purity of which I value beyond all this world." Eliot's +greatest tribulation was on account of his wife, whom he had to leave +behind. When he saw her looking down upon him from the Tower window, he +stood up in the cart, waved his hat, and cried: "To heaven, my love!--to +heaven!--and leave you in the storm!" As he went on his way, one in the +crowd called out, "That is the most glorious seat you ever sat on;" to +which he replied: "It is so, indeed!" and rejoiced exceedingly. [145] + +Although success is the guerdon for which all men toil, they have +nevertheless often to labour on perseveringly, without any glimmer +of success in sight. They have to live, meanwhile, upon their +courage--sowing their seed, it may be, in the dark, in the hope that it +will yet take root and spring up in achieved result. The best of causes +have had to fight their way to triumph through a long succession of +failures, and many of the assailants have died in the breach before +the fortress has been won. The heroism they have displayed is to be +measured, not so much by their immediate success, as by the opposition +they have encountered, and the courage with which they have maintained +the struggle. + +The patriot who fights an always-losing battle--the martyr who goes to +death amidst the triumphant shouts of his enemies--the discoverer, like +Columbus, whose heart remains undaunted through the bitter years of his +"long wandering woe"--are examples of the moral sublime which excite a +profounder interest in the hearts of men than even the most complete and +conspicuous success. By the side of such instances as these, how small +by comparison seem the greatest deeds of valour, inciting men to rush +upon death and die amidst the frenzied excitement of physical warfare! + +But the greater part of the courage that is needed in the world is not +of a heroic kind. Courage may be displayed in everyday life as well +as in historic fields of action. There needs, for example, the common +courage to be honest--the courage to resist temptation--the courage +to speak the truth--the courage to be what we really are, and not to +pretend to be what we are not--the courage to live honestly within our +own means, and not dishonestly upon the means of others. + +A great deal of the unhappiness, and much of the vice, of the world is +owing to weakness and indecision of purpose--in other words, to lack +of courage. Men may know what is right, and yet fail to exercise the +courage to do it; they may understand the duty they have to do, but +will not summon up the requisite resolution to perform it. The weak and +undisciplined man is at the mercy of every temptation; he cannot say +"No," but falls before it. And if his companionship be bad, he will be +all the easier led away by bad example into wrongdoing. + +Nothing can be more certain than that the character can only be +sustained and strengthened by its own energetic action. The will, +which is the central force of character, must be trained to habits of +decision--otherwise it will neither be able to resist evil nor to +follow good. Decision gives the power of standing firmly, when to yield, +however slightly, might be only the first step in a downhill course to +ruin. + +Calling upon others for help in forming a decision is worse than +useless. A man must so train his habits as to rely upon his own powers +and depend upon his own courage in moments of emergency. Plutarch tells +of a King of Macedon who, in the midst of an action, withdrew into the +adjoining town under pretence of sacrificing to Hercules; whilst his +opponent Emilius, at the same time that he implored the Divine aid, +sought for victory sword in hand, and won the battle. And so it ever is +in the actions of daily life. + +Many are the valiant purposes formed, that end merely in words; deeds +intended, that are never done; designs projected, that are never begun; +and all for want of a little courageous decision. Better far the silent +tongue but the eloquent deed. For in life and in business, despatch is +better than discourse; and the shortest answer of all is, DOING. "In +matters of great concern, and which must be done," says Tillotson, +"there is no surer argument of a weak mind than irresolution--to be +undetermined when the case is so plain and the necessity so urgent. To +be always intending to live a new life, but never to find time to set +about it,--this is as if a man should put off eating and drinking and +sleeping from one day to another, until he is starved and destroyed." + +There needs also the exercise of no small degree of moral courage to +resist the corrupting influences of what is called "Society." Although +"Mrs. Grundy" may be a very vulgar and commonplace personage, her +influence is nevertheless prodigious. Most men, but especially women, +are the moral slaves of the class or caste to which they belong. There +is a sort of unconscious conspiracy existing amongst them against each +other's individuality. Each circle and section, each rank and class, has +its respective customs and observances, to which conformity is required +at the risk of being tabooed. Some are immured within a bastile of +fashion, others of custom, others of opinion; and few there are who have +the courage to think outside their sect, to act outside their party, +and to step out into the free air of individual thought and action. +We dress, and eat, and follow fashion, though it may be at the risk of +debt, ruin, and misery; living not so much according to our means, as +according to the superstitious observances of our class. Though we may +speak contemptuously of the Indians who flatten their heads, and of the +Chinese who cramp their toes, we have only to look at the deformities +of fashion amongst ourselves, to see that the reign of "Mrs. Grundy" is +universal. + +But moral cowardice is exhibited quite as much in public as in private +life. Snobbism is not confined to the toadying of the rich, but is quite +as often displayed in the toadying of the poor. Formerly, sycophancy +showed itself in not daring to speak the truth to those in high places; +but in these days it rather shows itself in not daring to speak the +truth to those in low places. Now that "the masses" [146] exercise +political power, there is a growing tendency to fawn upon them, to +flatter them, and to speak nothing but smooth words to them. They are +credited with virtues which they themselves know they do not possess. +The public enunciation of wholesome because disagreeable truths is +avoided; and, to win their favour, sympathy is often pretended for +views, the carrying out of which in practice is known to be hopeless. + +It is not the man of the noblest character--the highest-cultured and +best-conditioned man--whose favour is now sought, so much as that of the +lowest man, the least-cultured and worst-conditioned man, because his +vote is usually that of the majority. Even men of rank, wealth, and +education, are seen prostrating themselves before the ignorant, whose +votes are thus to be got. They are ready to be unprincipled and unjust +rather than unpopular. It is so much easier for some men to stoop, to +bow, and to flatter, than to be manly, resolute, and magnanimous; and to +yield to prejudices than run counter to them. It requires strength and +courage to swim against the stream, while any dead fish can float with +it. + +This servile pandering to popularity has been rapidly on the increase of +late years, and its tendency has been to lower and degrade the character +of public men. Consciences have become more elastic. There is now one +opinion for the chamber, and another for the platform. Prejudices +are pandered to in public, which in private are despised. Pretended +conversions--which invariably jump with party interests are more sudden; +and even hypocrisy now appears to be scarcely thought discreditable. + +The same moral cowardice extends downwards as well as upwards. The +action and reaction are equal. Hypocrisy and timeserving above are +accompanied by hypocrisy and timeserving below. Where men of high +standing have not the courage of their opinions, what is to be expected +from men of low standing? They will only follow such examples as are set +before them. They too will skulk, and dodge, and prevaricate--be ready +to speak one way and act another--just like their betters. Give them +but a sealed box, or some hole-and-corner to hide their act in, and they +will then enjoy their "liberty!" + +Popularity, as won in these days, is by no means a presumption in a +man's favour, but is quite as often a presumption against him. "No man," +says the Russian proverb, "can rise to honour who is cursed with a stiff +backbone." But the backbone of the popularity-hunter is of gristle; and +he has no difficulty in stooping and bending himself in any direction to +catch the breath of popular applause. + +Where popularity is won by fawning upon the people, by withholding the +truth from them, by writing and speaking down to the lowest tastes, and +still worse by appeals to class-hatred, [147] such a popularity must be +simply contemptible in the sight of all honest men. Jeremy Bentham, +speaking of a well-known public character, said: "His creed of politics +results less from love of the many than from hatred of the few; it is +too much under the influence of selfish and dissocial affection." To how +many men in our own day might not the same description apply? + +Men of sterling character have the courage to speak the truth, even when +it is unpopular. It was said of Colonel Hutchinson by his wife, that he +never sought after popular applause, or prided himself on it: "He +more delighted to do well than to be praised, and never set vulgar +commendations at such a rate as to act contrary to his own conscience or +reason for the obtaining them; nor would he forbear a good action which +he was bound to, though all the world disliked it; for he ever looked +on things as they were in themselves, not through the dim spectacles of +vulgar estimation." [148] + +"Popularity, in the lowest and most common sense," said Sir John +Pakington, on a recent occasion, [149] "is not worth the having. Do +your duty to the best of your power, win the approbation of your own +conscience, and popularity, in its best and highest sense, is sure to +follow." + +When Richard Lovell Edgeworth, towards the close of his life, became +very popular in his neighbourhood, he said one day to his daughter: +"Maria, I am growing dreadfully popular; I shall be good for nothing +soon; a man cannot be good for anything who is very popular." Probably +he had in his mind at the time the Gospel curse of the popular man, "Woe +unto you, when all men shall speak well of you! for so did their fathers +to the false prophets." + +Intellectual intrepidity is one of the vital conditions of independence +and self-reliance of character. A man must have the courage to be +himself, and not the shadow or the echo of another. He must exercise +his own powers, think his own thoughts, and speak his own sentiments. +He must elaborate his own opinions, and form his own convictions. It has +been said that he who dare not form an opinion, must be a coward; he who +will not, must be an idler; he who cannot, must be a fool. + +But it is precisely in this element of intrepidity that so many persons +of promise fall short, and disappoint the expectations of their friends. +They march up to the scene of action, but at every step their courage +oozes out. They want the requisite decision, courage, and perseverance. +They calculate the risks, and weigh the chances, until the opportunity +for effective effort has passed, it may be never to return. + +Men are bound to speak the truth in the love of it. "I had rather +suffer," said John Pym, the Commonwealth man, "for speaking the truth, +than that the truth should suffer for want of my speaking." When a man's +convictions are honestly formed, after fair and full consideration, he +is justified in striving by all fair means to bring them into action. +There are certain states of society and conditions of affairs in which +a man is bound to speak out, and be antagonistic--when conformity is not +only a weakness, but a sin. Great evils are in some cases only to be met +by resistance; they cannot be wept down, but must be battled down. + +The honest man is naturally antagonistic to fraud, the truthful man to +lying, the justice-loving man to oppression, the pureminded man to +vice and iniquity. They have to do battle with these conditions, and if +possible overcome them. Such men have in all ages represented the moral +force of the world. Inspired by benevolence and sustained by courage, +they have been the mainstays of all social renovation and progress. But +for their continuous antagonism to evil conditions, the world were for +the most part given over to the dominion of selfishness and vice. +All the great reformers and martyrs were antagonistic men--enemies to +falsehood and evildoing. The Apostles themselves were an organised +band of social antagonists, who contended with pride, selfishness, +superstition, and irreligion. And in our own time the lives of such +men as Clarkson and Granville Sharpe, Father Mathew and Richard Cobden, +inspired by singleness of purpose, have shown what highminded social +antagonism can effect. + +It is the strong and courageous men who lead and guide and rule the +world. The weak and timid leave no trace behind them; whilst the life of +a single upright and energetic man is like a track of light. His example +is remembered and appealed to; and his thoughts, his spirit, and his +courage continue to be the inspiration of succeeding generations. + +It is energy--the central element of which is will--that produces the +miracles of enthusiasm in all ages. Everywhere it is the mainspring of +what is called force of character, and the sustaining power of all great +action. In a righteous cause the determined man stands upon his courage +as upon a granite block; and, like David, he will go forth to meet +Goliath, strong in heart though an host be encamped against him. + +Men often conquer difficulties because they feel they can. Their +confidence in themselves inspires the confidence of others. When Caesar +was at sea, and a storm began to rage, the captain of the ship which +carried him became unmanned by fear. "What art thou afraid of?" cried +the great captain; "thy vessel carries Caesar!" The courage of the brave +man is contagious, and carries others along with it. His stronger nature +awes weaker natures into silence, or inspires them with his own will and +purpose. + +The persistent man will not be baffled or repulsed by opposition. +Diogenes, desirous of becoming the disciple of Antisthenes, went and +offered himself to the cynic. He was refused. Diogenes still persisting, +the cynic raised his knotty staff, and threatened to strike him if he +did not depart. "Strike!" said Diogenes; "you will not find a stick +hard enough to conquer my perseverance." Antisthenes, overcome, had not +another word to say, but forthwith accepted him as his pupil. + +Energy of temperament, with a moderate degree of wisdom, will carry a +man further than any amount of intellect without it. Energy makes the +man of practical ability. It gives him VIS, force, MOMENTUM. It is the +active motive power of character; and if combined with sagacity and +self-possession, will enable a man to employ his powers to the best +advantage in all the affairs of life. + +Hence it is that, inspired by energy of purpose, men of comparatively +mediocre powers have often been enabled to accomplish such extraordinary +results. For the men who have most powerfully influenced the world have +not been so much men of genius as men of strong convictions and enduring +capacity for work, impelled by irresistible energy and invincible +determination: such men, for example, as were Mahomet, Luther, Knox, +Calvin, Loyola, and Wesley. + +Courage, combined with energy and perseverance, will overcome +difficulties apparently insurmountable. It gives force and impulse to +effort, and does not permit it to retreat. Tyndall said of Faraday, that +"in his warm moments he formed a resolution, and in his cool ones +he made that resolution good." Perseverance, working in the right +direction, grows with time, and when steadily practised, even by the +most humble, will rarely fail of its reward. Trusting in the help of +others is of comparatively little use. When one of Michael Angelo's +principal patrons died, he said: "I begin to understand that the +promises of the world are for the most part vain phantoms, and that to +confide in one's self, and become something of worth and value, is the +best and safest course." + +Courage is by no means incompatible with tenderness. On the contrary, +gentleness and tenderness have been found to characterise the men, +not less than the women, who have done the most courageous deeds. Sir +Charles Napier gave up sporting, because he could not bear to hurt dumb +creatures. The same gentleness and tenderness characterised his brother, +Sir William, the historian of the Peninsular War. [1410] Such also was the +character of Sir James Outram, pronounced by Sir Charles Napier to be +"the Bayard of India, SANS PEUR ET SANS REPROCHE"--one of the bravest +and yet gentlest of men; respectful and reverent to women, tender to +children, helpful of the weak, stern to the corrupt, but kindly as +summer to the honest and deserving. Moreover, he was himself as honest +as day, and as pure as virtue. Of him it might be said with truth, what +Fulke Greville said of Sidney: "He was a true model of worth--a man +fit for conquest, reformation, plantation, or what action soever is the +greatest and hardest among men; his chief ends withal being above all +things the good of his fellows, and the service of his sovereign and +country." + +When Edward the Black Prince won the Battle of Poictiers, in which he +took prisoner the French king and his son, he entertained them in the +evening at a banquet, when he insisted on waiting upon and serving them +at table. The gallant prince's knightly courtesy and demeanour won +the hearts of his captives as completely as his valour had won their +persons; for, notwithstanding his youth, Edward was a true knight, the +first and bravest of his time--a noble pattern and example of chivalry; +his two mottoes, 'Hochmuth' and 'Ich dien' [14high spirit and reverent +service] not inaptly expressing his prominent and pervading qualities. + +It is the courageous man who can best afford to be generous; or rather, +it is his nature to be so. When Fairfax, at the Battle of Naseby, seized +the colours from an ensign whom he had struck down in the fight, he +handed them to a common soldier to take care of. The soldier, unable +to resist the temptation, boasted to his comrades that he had himself +seized the colours, and the boast was repeated to Fairfax. "Let him +retain the honour," said the commander; "I have enough beside." + +So when Douglas, at the Battle of Bannockburn, saw Randolph, his rival, +outnumbered and apparently overpowered by the enemy, he prepared to +hasten to his assistance; but, seeing that Randolph was already driving +them back, he cried out, "Hold and halt! We are come too late to aid +them; let us not lessen the victory they have won by affecting to claim +a share in it." + +Quite as chivalrous, though in a very different field of action, was the +conduct of Laplace to the young philosopher Biot, when the latter had +read to the French Academy his paper, "SUR LES EQUATIONS AUX DIFFERENCE +MELEES." The assembled SAVANS, at its close, felicitated the reader +of the paper on his originality. Monge was delighted at his success. +Laplace also praised him for the clearness of his demonstrations, and +invited Biot to accompany him home. Arrived there, Laplace took from a +closet in his study a paper, yellow with age, and handed it to the +young philosopher. To Biot's surprise, he found that it contained +the solutions, all worked out, for which he had just gained so much +applause. With rare magnanimity, Laplace withheld all knowledge of the +circumstance from Biot until the latter had initiated his reputation +before the Academy; moreover, he enjoined him to silence; and the +incident would have remained a secret had not Biot himself published it, +some fifty years afterwards. + +An incident is related of a French artisan, exhibiting the same +characteristic of self-sacrifice in another form. In front of a lofty +house in course of erection at Paris was the usual scaffold, loaded with +men and materials. The scaffold, being too weak, suddenly broke down, +and the men upon it were precipitated to the ground--all except two, a +young man and a middle-aged one, who hung on to a narrow ledge, which +trembled under their weight, and was evidently on the point of giving +way. "Pierre," cried the elder of the two, "let go; I am the father of a +family." "C'EST JUSTE!" said Pierre; and, instantly letting go his hold, +he fell and was killed on the spot. The father of the family was saved. + +The brave man is magnanimous as well as gentle. He does not take even an +enemy at a disadvantage, nor strike a man when he is down and unable +to defend himself. Even in the midst of deadly strife such instances +of generosity have not been uncommon. Thus, at the Battle of Dettingen, +during the heat of the action, a squadron of French cavalry charged an +English regiment; but when the young French officer who led them, and +was about to attack the English leader, observed that he had only +one arm, with which he held his bridle, the Frenchman saluted him +courteously with his sword, and passed on. [1411] + +It is related of Charles V., that after the siege and capture of +Wittenburg by the Imperialist army, the monarch went to see the tomb +of Luther. While reading the inscription on it, one of the servile +courtiers who accompanied him proposed to open the grave, and give the +ashes of the "heretic" to the winds. The monarch's cheek flushed with +honest indignation: "I war not with the dead," said he; "let this place +be respected." + +The portrait which the great heathen, Aristotle, drew of the Magnanimous +Man, in other words the True Gentleman, more than two thousand years +ago, is as faithful now as it was then. "The magnanimous man," he said, +"will behave with moderation under both good fortune and bad. He +will know how to be exalted and how to be abased. He will neither be +delighted with success nor grieved by failure. He will neither shun +danger nor seek it, for there are few things which he cares for. He is +reticent, and somewhat slow of speech, but speaks his mind openly and +boldly when occasion calls for it. He is apt to admire, for nothing +is great to him. He overlooks injuries. He is not given to talk about +himself or about others; for he does not care that he himself should +be praised, or that other people should be blamed. He does not cry out +about trifles, and craves help from none." + +On the other hand, mean men admire meanly. They have neither modesty, +generosity, nor magnanimity. They are ready to take advantage of the +weakness or defencelessness of others, especially where they have +themselves succeeded, by unscrupulous methods, in climbing to positions +of authority. Snobs in high places are always much less tolerable than +snobs of low degree, because they have more frequent opportunities of +making their want of manliness felt. They assume greater airs, and are +pretentious in all that they do; and the higher their elevation, the +more conspicuous is the incongruity of their position. "The higher the +monkey climbs," says the proverb, "the more he shows his tail." + +Much depends on the way in which a thing is done. An act which might +be taken as a kindness if done in a generous spirit, when done in a +grudging spirit, may be felt as stingy, if not harsh and even cruel. +When Ben Jonson lay sick and in poverty, the king sent him a paltry +message, accompanied by a gratuity. The sturdy plainspoken poet's reply +was: "I suppose he sends me this because I live in an alley; tell him +his soul lives in an alley." + +From what we have said, it will be obvious that to be of an enduring and +courageous spirit, is of great importance in the formation of character. +It is a source not only of usefulness in life, but of happiness. On the +other hand, to be of a timid and, still more, of a cowardly nature is +one of the greatest misfortunes. A. wise man was accustomed to say that +one of the principal objects he aimed at in the education of his sons +and daughters was to train them in the habit of fearing nothing so much +as fear. And the habit of avoiding fear is, doubtless, capable of +being trained like any other habit, such as the habit of attention, of +diligence, of study, or of cheerfulness. + +Much of the fear that exists is the offspring of imagination, which +creates the images of evils which MAY happen, but perhaps rarely do; +and thus many persons who are capable of summoning up courage to +grapple with and overcome real dangers, are paralysed or thrown +into consternation by those which are imaginary. Hence, unless the +imagination be held under strict discipline, we are prone to meet evils +more than halfway--to suffer them by forestalment, and to assume the +burdens which we ourselves create. + +Education in courage is not usually included amongst the branches of +female training, and yet it is really of greater importance than either +music, French, or the use of the globes. Contrary to the view of Sir +Richard Steele, that women should be characterised by a "tender fear," +and "an inferiority which makes her lovely," we would have women +educated in resolution and courage, as a means of rendering them more +helpful, more self-reliant, and vastly more useful and happy. + +There is, indeed, nothing attractive in timidity, nothing loveable in +fear. All weakness, whether of mind or body, is equivalent to deformity, +and the reverse of interesting. Courage is graceful and dignified, +whilst fear, in any form, is mean and repulsive. Yet the utmost +tenderness and gentleness are consistent with courage. Ary Scheffer, the +artist, once wrote to his daughter:-"Dear daughter, strive to be of good +courage, to be gentle-hearted; these are the true qualities for woman. +'Troubles' everybody must expect. There is but one way of looking at +fate--whatever that be, whether blessings or afflictions--to behave with +dignity under both. We must not lose heart, or it will be the worse both +for ourselves and for those whom we love. To struggle, and again and +again to renew the conflict--THIS is life's inheritance." [1412] + +In sickness and sorrow, none are braver and less complaining sufferers +than women. Their courage, where their hearts are concerned, is indeed +proverbial: + + "Oh! femmes c'est a tort qu'on vous nommes timides, + A la voix de vos coeurs vous etes intrepides." + +Experience has proved that women can be as enduring as men, under the +heaviest trials and calamities; but too little pains are taken to teach +them to endure petty terrors and frivolous vexations with fortitude. +Such little miseries, if petted and indulged, quickly run into sickly +sensibility, and become the bane of their life, keeping themselves and +those about them in a state of chronic discomfort. + +The best corrective of this condition of mind is wholesome moral and +mental discipline. Mental strength is as necessary for the development +of woman's character as of man's. It gives her capacity to deal with +the affairs of life, and presence of mind, which enable her to act with +vigour and effect in moments of emergency. Character, in a woman, as in +a man, will always be found the best safeguard of virtue, the best nurse +of religion, the best corrective of Time. Personal beauty soon passes; +but beauty of mind and character increases in attractiveness the older +it grows. + +Ben Jonson gives a striking portraiture of a noble woman in these +lines:-- + + "I meant she should be courteous, facile, sweet, + Free from that solemn vice of greatness, pride; + I meant each softed virtue there should meet, + Fit in that softer bosom to abide. + Only a learned and a manly soul, + I purposed her, that should with even powers, + The rock, the spindle, and the shears control + Of destiny, and spin her own free hours." + +The courage of woman is not the less true because it is for the most +part passive. It is not encouraged by the cheers of the world, for it is +mostly exhibited in the recesses of private life. Yet there are cases +of heroic patience and endurance on the part of women which occasionally +come to the light of day. One of the most celebrated instances in +history is that of Gertrude Von der Wart. Her husband, falsely accused +of being an accomplice in the murder of the Emperor Albert, was +condemned to the most frightful of all punishments--to be broken alive +on the wheel. With most profound conviction of her husband's innocence +the faithful woman stood by his side to the last, watching over +him during two days and nights, braving the empress's anger and the +inclemency of the weather, in the hope of contributing to soothe his +dying agonies. [1413] + +But women have not only distinguished themselves for their passive +courage: impelled by affection, or the sense of duty, they have +occasionally become heroic. When the band of conspirators, who sought +the life of James II. of Scotland, burst into his lodgings at Perth, the +king called to the ladies, who were in the chamber outside his room, to +keep the door as well as they could, and give him time to escape. The +conspirators had previously destroyed the locks of the doors, so +that the keys could not be turned; and when they reached the ladies' +apartment, it was found that the bar also had been removed. But, on +hearing them approach, the brave Catherine Douglas, with the hereditary +courage of her family, boldly thrust her arm across the door instead of +the bar; and held it there until, her arm being broken, the conspirators +burst into the room with drawn swords and daggers, overthrowing the +ladies, who, though unarmed, still endeavoured to resist them. + +The defence of Lathom House by Charlotte de la Tremouille, the worthy +descendant of William of Nassau and Admiral Coligny, was another +striking instance of heroic bravery on the part of a noble woman. When +summoned by the Parliamentary forces to surrender, she declared that +she had been entrusted by her husband with the defence of the house, +and that she could not give it up without her dear lord's orders, but +trusted in God for protection and deliverance. In her arrangements for +the defence, she is described as having "left nothing with her eye to +be excused afterwards by fortune or negligence, and added to her former +patience a most resolved fortitude." The brave lady held her house and +home good against the enemy for a whole year--during three months of +which the place was strictly besieged and bombarded--until at length the +siege was raised, after a most gallant defence, by the advance of the +Royalist army. + +Nor can we forget the courage of Lady Franklin, who persevered to the +last, when the hopes of all others had died out, in prosecuting the +search after the Franklin Expedition. On the occasion of the Royal +Geographical Society determining to award the Founder's Medal to Lady +Franklin, Sir Roderick Murchison observed, that in the course of a long +friendship with her, he had abundant opportunities of observing and +testing the sterling qualities of a woman who had proved herself worthy +of the admiration of mankind. "Nothing daunted by failure after failure, +through twelve long years of hope deferred, she had persevered, with +a singleness of purpose and a sincere devotion which were truly +unparalleled. And now that her one last expedition of the FOX, under the +gallant M'Clintock, had realised the two great facts--that her husband +had traversed wide seas unknown to former navigators, and died in +discovering a north-west passage--then, surely, the adjudication of the +medal would be hailed by the nation as one of the many recompences to +which the widow of the illustrious Franklin was so eminently entitled." + +But that devotion to duty which marks the heroic character has more +often been exhibited by women in deeds of charity and mercy. The greater +part of these are never known, for they are done in private, out of the +public sight, and for the mere love of doing good. Where fame has come +to them, because of the success which has attended their labours in a +more general sphere, it has come unsought and unexpected, and is often +felt as a burden. Who has not heard of Mrs. Fry and Miss Carpenter +as prison visitors and reformers; of Mrs. Chisholm and Miss Rye as +promoters of emigration; and of Miss Nightingale and Miss Garrett as +apostles of hospital nursing? + +That these women should have emerged from the sphere of private and +domestic life to become leaders in philanthropy, indicates no small, +degree of moral courage on their part; for to women, above all others, +quiet and ease and retirement are most natural and welcome. Very few +women step beyond the boundaries of home in search of a larger field of +usefulness. But when they have desired one, they have had no difficulty +in finding it. The ways in which men and women can help their neighbours +are innumerable. It needs but the willing heart and ready hand. Most +of the philanthropic workers we have named, however, have scarcely been +influenced by choice. The duty lay in their way--it seemed to be the +nearest to them--and they set about doing it without desire for fame, or +any other reward but the approval of their own conscience. + +Among prison-visitors, the name of Sarah Martin is much less known than +that of Mrs. Fry, although she preceded her in the work. How she was led +to undertake it, furnishes at the same time an illustration of womanly +trueheartedness and earnest womanly courage. + +Sarah Martin was the daughter of poor parents, and was left an orphan +at an early age. She was brought up by her grandmother, at Caistor, +near Yarmouth, and earned her living by going out to families as +assistant-dressmaker, at a shilling a day. In 1819, a woman was tried +and sentenced to imprisonment in Yarmouth Gaol, for cruelly beating and +illusing her child, and her crime became the talk of the town. The young +dressmaker was much impressed by the report of the trial, and the desire +entered her mind of visiting the woman in gaol, and trying to reclaim +her. She had often before, on passing the walls of the borough gaol, +felt impelled to seek admission, with the object of visiting the +inmates, reading the Scriptures to them, and endeavouring to lead them +back to the society whose laws they had violated. + +At length she could not resist her impulse to visit the mother. She +entered the gaol-porch, lifted the knocker, and asked the gaoler for +admission. For some reason or other she was refused; but she returned, +repeated her request, and this time she was admitted. The culprit mother +shortly stood before her. When Sarah Martin told the motive of her +visit, the criminal burst into tears, and thanked her. Those tears and +thanks shaped the whole course of Sarah Martin's after-life; and the +poor seamstress, while maintaining herself by her needle, continued to +spend her leisure hours in visiting the prisoners, and endeavouring to +alleviate their condition. She constituted herself their chaplain and +schoolmistress, for at that time they had neither; she read to them from +the Scriptures, and taught them to read and write. She gave up an entire +day in the week for this purpose, besides Sundays, as well as other +intervals of spare time, "feeling," she says, "that the blessing of God +was upon her." She taught the women to knit, to sew, and to cut out; +the sale of the articles enabling her to buy other materials, and to +continue the industrial education thus begun. She also taught the men +to make straw hats, men's and boys' caps, gray cotton shirts, and even +patchwork--anything to keep them out of idleness, and from preying on +their own thoughts. Out of the earnings of the prisoners in this way, +she formed a fund, which she applied to furnishing them with work on +their discharge; thus enabling them again to begin the world honestly, +and at the same time affording her, as she herself says, "the advantage +of observing their conduct." + +By attending too exclusively to this prison-work, however, Sarah +Martin's dressmaking business fell off; and the question arose with +her, whether in order to recover her business she was to suspend her +prison-work. But her decision had already been made. "I had counted the +cost," she said, "and my mind, was made up. If, whilst imparting +truth to others, I became exposed to temporal want, the privations so +momentary to an individual would not admit of comparison with following +the Lord, in thus administering to others." She now devoted six or seven +hours every day to the prisoners, converting what would otherwise have +been a scene of dissolute idleness into a hive of orderly industry. +Newly-admitted prisoners were sometimes refractory, but her persistent +gentleness eventually won their respect and co-operation. Men old in +years and crime, pert London pickpockets, depraved boys and dissolute +sailors, profligate women, smugglers, poachers, and the promiscuous +horde of criminals which usually fill the gaol of a seaport and county +town, all submitted to the benign influence of this good woman; and +under her eyes they might be seen, for the first time in their lives, +striving to hold a pen, or to master the characters in a penny primer. +She entered into their confidences--watched, wept, prayed, and felt +for all by turns. She strengthened their good resolutions, cheered the +hopeless and despairing, and endeavoured to put all, and hold all, in +the right road of amendment. + +For more than twenty years this good and truehearted woman pursued her +noble course, with little encouragement, and not much help; almost +her only means of subsistence consisting in an annual income of ten or +twelve pounds left by her grandmother, eked out by her little earnings +at dressmaking. During the last two years of her ministrations, the +borough magistrates of Yarmouth, knowing that her self-imposed labours +saved them the expense of a schoolmaster and chaplain [14which they had +become bound by law to appoint], made a proposal to her of an annual +salary of 12L. a year; but they did it in so indelicate a manner as +greatly to wound her sensitive feelings. She shrank from becoming the +salaried official of the corporation, and bartering for money those +serviced which had throughout been labours of love. But the Gaol +Committee coarsely informed her, "that if they permitted her to visit +the prison she must submit to their terms, or be excluded." For +two years, therefore, she received the salary of 12L. a year--the +acknowledgment of the Yarmouth corporation for her services as gaol +chaplain and schoolmistress! She was now, however, becoming old and +infirm, and the unhealthy atmosphere of the gaol did much towards +finally disabling her. While she lay on her deathbed, she resumed +the exercise of a talent she had occasionally practised before in her +moments of leisure--the composition of sacred poetry. As works of art, +they may not excite admiration; yet never were verses written truer in +spirit, or fuller of Christian love. But her own life was a nobler poem +than any she ever wrote--full of true courage, perseverance, charity, +and wisdom. It was indeed a commentary upon her own words: + + "The high desire that others may be blest + Savours of heaven." + + + + +CHAPTER VI.--SELF-CONTROL. + + + "Honour and profit do not always lie in the same sack."-- + GEORGE HERBERT. + + "The government of one's self is the only true freedom for + the Individual."--FREDERICK PERTHES. + + "It is in length of patience, and endurance, and + forbearance, that so much of what is good in mankind and + womankind is shown."--ARTHUR HELPS. + + "Temperance, proof + Against all trials; industry severe + And constant as the motion of the day; + Stern self-denial round him spread, with shade + That might be deemed forbidding, did not there + All generous feelings flourish and rejoice; + Forbearance, charity indeed and thought, + And resolution competent to take + Out of the bosom of simplicity + All that her holy customs recommend."--WORDSWORTH. + + +Self-control is only courage under another form. It may almost be +regarded as the primary essence of character. It is in virtue of this +quality that Shakspeare defines man as a being "looking before and +after." It forms the chief distinction between man and the mere animal; +and, indeed, there can be no true manhood without it. + +Self-control is at the root of all the virtues. Let a man give the reins +to his impulses and passions, and from that moment he yields up his +moral freedom. He is carried along the current of life, and becomes the +slave of his strongest desire for the time being. + +To be morally free--to be more than an animal--man must be able to +resist instinctive impulse, and this can only be done by the exercise +of self-control. Thus it is this power which constitutes the real +distinction between a physical and a moral life, and that forms the +primary basis of individual character. + +In the Bible praise is given, not to the strong man who "taketh a city," +but to the stronger man who "ruleth his own spirit." This stronger +man is he who, by discipline, exercises a constant control over his +thoughts, his speech, and his acts. Nine-tenths of the vicious desires +that degrade society, and which, when indulged, swell into the crimes +that disgrace it, would shrink into insignificance before the advance of +valiant self-discipline, self-respect, and self-control. By the watchful +exercise of these virtues, purity of heart and mind become habitual, and +the character is built up in chastity, virtue, and temperance. + +The best support of character will always be found in habit, which, +according as the will is directed rightly or wrongly, as the case may +be, will prove either a benignant ruler or a cruel despot. We may be its +willing subject on the one hand, or its servile slave on the other. It +may help us on the road to good, or it may hurry us on the road to ruin. + +Habit is formed by careful training. And it is astonishing how much +can be accomplished by systematic discipline and drill. See how, for +instance, out of the most unpromising materials--such as roughs +picked up in the streets, or raw unkempt country lads taken from the +plough--steady discipline and drill will bring out the unsuspected +qualities of courage, endurance, and self-sacrifice; and how, in the +field of battle, or even on the more trying occasions of perils +by sea--such as the burning of the SARAH SANDS or the wreck of +the BIRKENHEAD--such men, carefully disciplined, will exhibit the +unmistakable characteristics of true bravery and heroism! + +Nor is moral discipline and drill less influential in the formation of +character. Without it, there will be no proper system and order in the +regulation of the life. Upon it depends the cultivation of the sense of +self-respect, the education of the habit of obedience, the development +of the idea of duty. The most self-reliant, self-governing man is always +under discipline: and the more perfect the discipline, the higher will +be his moral condition. He has to drill his desires, and keep them in +subjection to the higher powers of his nature. They must obey the word +of command of the internal monitor, the conscience--otherwise they will +be but the mere slaves of their inclinations, the sport of feeling and +impulse. + +"In the supremacy of self-control," says Herbert Spencer, "consists +one of the perfections of the ideal man. Not to be impulsive--not to +be spurred hither and thither by each desire that in turn comes +uppermost--but to be self-restrained, self-balanced, governed by the +joint decision of the feelings in council assembled, before whom every +action shall have been fully debated and calmly determined--that it is +which education, moral education at least, strives to produce." [151] + +The first seminary of moral discipline, and the best, as we have already +shown, is the home; next comes the school, and after that the world, the +great school of practical life. Each is preparatory to the other, and +what the man or woman becomes, depends for the most part upon what has +gone before. If they have enjoyed the advantage of neither the home nor +the school, but have been allowed to grow up untrained, untaught, and +undisciplined, then woe to themselves--woe to the society of which they +form part! + +The best-regulated home is always that in which the discipline is the +most perfect, and yet where it is the least felt. Moral discipline acts +with the force of a law of nature. Those subject to it yield themselves +to it unconsciously; and though it shapes and forms the whole character, +until the life becomes crystallized in habit, the influence thus +exercised is for the most part unseen and almost unfelt. + +The importance of strict domestic discipline is curiously illustrated +by a fact mentioned in Mrs. Schimmelpenninck's Memoirs, to the following +effect: that a lady who, with her husband, had inspected most of the +lunatic asylums of England and the Continent, found the most numerous +class of patients was almost always composed of those who had been +only children, and whose wills had therefore rarely been thwarted +or disciplined in early life; whilst those who were members of large +families, and who had been trained in self-discipline, were far less +frequent victims to the malady. + +Although the moral character depends in a great degree on temperament +and on physical health, as well as on domestic and early training and +the example of companions, it is also in the power of each individual to +regulate, to restrain, and to discipline it by watchful and persevering +self-control. A competent teacher has said of the propensities and +habits, that they are as teachable as Latin and Greek, while they are +much more essential to happiness. + +Dr. Johnson, though himself constitutionally prone to melancholy, and +afflicted by it as few have been from his earliest years, said that "a +man's being in a good or bad humour very much depends upon his will." +We may train ourselves in a habit of patience and contentment on the +one hand, or of grumbling and discontent on the other. We may accustom +ourselves to exaggerate small evils, and to underestimate great +blessings. We may even become the victim of petty miseries by giving way +to them. Thus, we may educate ourselves in a happy disposition, as well +as in a morbid one. Indeed, the habit of viewing things cheerfully, and +of thinking about life hopefully, may be made to grow up in us like any +other habit. [152] It was not an exaggerated estimate of Dr. Johnson to +say, that the habit of looking at the best side of any event is worth +far more than a thousand pounds a year. + +The religious man's life is pervaded by rigid self-discipline and +self-restraint. He is to be sober and vigilant, to eschew evil and do +good, to walk in the spirit, to be obedient unto death, to withstand +in the evil day, and having done all, to stand; to wrestle against +spiritual wickedness, and against the rulers of the darkness of this +world; to be rooted and built up in faith, and not to be weary of +well-doing; for in due season he shall reap, if he faint not. + +The man of business also must needs be subject to strict rule and +system. Business, like life, is managed by moral leverage; success in +both depending in no small degree upon that regulation of temper and +careful self-discipline, which give a wise man not only a command over +himself, but over others. Forbearance and self-control smooth the road +of life, and open many ways which would otherwise remain closed. And so +does self-respect: for as men respect themselves, so will they usually +respect the personality of others. + +It is the same in politics as in business. Success in that sphere of +life is achieved less by talent than by temper, less by genius than by +character. If a man have not self-control, he will lack patience, be +wanting in tact, and have neither the power of governing himself nor of +managing others. When the quality most needed in a Prime Minister was +the subject of conversation in the presence of Mr. Pitt, one of the +speakers said it was "Eloquence;" another said it was "Knowledge;" and +a third said it was "Toil," "No," said Pitt, "it is Patience!" And +patience means self-control, a quality in which he himself was superb. +His friend George Rose has said of him that he never once saw Pitt out +of temper. [153] Yet, although patience is usually regarded as a "slow" +virtue, Pitt combined with it the most extraordinary readiness, vigour, +and rapidity of thought as well as action. + +It is by patience and self-control that the truly heroic character is +perfected. These were among the most prominent characteristics of the +great Hampden, whose noble qualities were generously acknowledged even +by his political enemies. Thus Clarendon described him as a man of rare +temper and modesty, naturally cheerful and vivacious, and above all, of +a flowing courtesy. He was kind and intrepid, yet gentle, of unblameable +conversation, and his heart glowed with love to all men. He was not a +man of many words, but, being of unimpeachable character, every word +he uttered carried weight. "No man had ever a greater power over +himself.... He was very temperate in diet, and a supreme governor over +all his passions and affections; and he had thereby great power over +other men's." Sir Philip Warwick, another of his political opponents, +incidentally describes his great influence in a certain debate: "We had +catched at each other's locks, and sheathed our swords in each other's +bowels, had not the sagacity and great calmness of Mr. Hampden, by a +short speech, prevented it, and led us to defer our angry debate until +the next morning." + +A strong temper is not necessarily a bad temper. But the stronger the +temper, the greater is the need of self-discipline and self-control. +Dr. Johnson says men grow better as they grow older, and improve with +experience; but this depends upon the width, and depth, and generousness +of their nature. It is not men's faults that ruin them so much as the +manner in which they conduct themselves after the faults have been +committed. The wise will profit by the suffering they cause, and eschew +them for the future; but there are those on whom experience exerts no +ripening influence, and who only grow narrower and bitterer and more +vicious with time. + +What is called strong temper in a young man, often indicates a large +amount of unripe energy, which will expend itself in useful work if the +road be fairly opened to it. It is said of Stephen Gerard, a Frenchman, +who pursued a remarkably successful career in the United States, that +when he heard of a clerk with a strong temper, he would readily take him +into his employment, and set him to work in a room by himself; Gerard +being of opinion that such persons were the best workers, and that their +energy would expend itself in work if removed from the temptation to +quarrel. + +Strong temper may only mean a strong and excitable will. Uncontrolled, +it displays itself in fitful outbreaks of passion; but controlled and +held in subjection--like steam pent-up within the organised mechanism +of a steam-engine, the use of which is regulated and controlled by +slide-valves and governors and levers--it may become a source of +energetic power and usefulness. Hence, some of the greatest characters +in history have been men of strong temper, but of equally strong +determination to hold their motive power under strict regulation and +control. + +The famous Earl of Strafford was of an extremely choleric and passionate +nature, and had great struggles with himself in his endeavours to +control his temper. Referring to the advice of one of his friends, old +Secretary Cooke, who was honest enough to tell him of his weakness, +and to caution him against indulging it, he wrote: "You gave me a good +lesson to be patient; and, indeed, my years and natural inclinations +give me heat more than enough, which, however, I trust more experience +shall cool, and a watch over myself in time altogether overcome; in the +meantime, in this at least it will set forth itself more pardonable, +because my earnestness shall ever be for the honour, justice, and profit +of my master; and it is not always anger, but the misapplying of it, +that is the vice so blameable, and of disadvantage to those that let +themselves loose there-unto." [154] + +Cromwell, also, is described as having been of a wayward and violent +temper in his youth--cross, untractable, and masterless--with a vast +quantity of youthful energy, which exploded in a variety of youthful +mischiefs. He even obtained the reputation of a roysterer in his native +town, and seemed to be rapidly going to the bad, when religion, in one +of its most rigid forms, laid hold upon his strong nature, and subjected +it to the iron discipline of Calvinism. An entirely new direction was +thus given to his energy of temperament, which forced an outlet for +itself into public life, and eventually became the dominating influence +in England for a period of nearly twenty years. + +The heroic princes of the House of Nassau were all distinguished for +the same qualities of self-control, self-denial, and determination of +purpose. William the Silent was so called, not because he was a taciturn +man--for he was an eloquent and powerful speaker where eloquence was +necessary--but because he was a man who could hold his tongue when it +was wisdom not to speak, and because he carefully kept his own counsel +when to have revealed it might have been dangerous to the liberties of +his country. He was so gentle and conciliatory in his manner that his +enemies even described him as timid and pusillanimous. Yet, when +the time for action came, his courage was heroic, his determination +unconquerable. "The rock in the ocean," says Mr. Motley, the historian +of the Netherlands, "tranquil amid raging billows, was the favourite +emblem by which his friends expressed their sense of his firmness." + +Mr. Motley compares William the Silent to Washington, whom he in many +respects resembled. The American, like the Dutch patriot, stands out +in history as the very impersonation of dignity, bravery, purity, and +personal excellence. His command over his feelings, even in moments of +great difficulty and danger, was such as to convey the impression, +to those who did not know him intimately, that he was a man of inborn +calmness and almost impassiveness of disposition. Yet Washington was by +nature ardent and impetuous; his mildness, gentleness, politeness, and +consideration for others, were the result of rigid self-control and +unwearied self-discipline, which he diligently practised even from his +boyhood. His biographer says of him, that "his temperament was ardent, +his passions strong, and amidst the multiplied scenes of temptation +and excitement through which he passed, it was his constant effort, and +ultimate triumph, to check the one and subdue the other." And again: +"His passions were strong, and sometimes they broke out with +vehemence, but he had the power of checking them in an instant. Perhaps +self-control was the most remarkable trait of his character. It was in +part the effect of discipline; yet he seems by nature to have possessed +this power in a degree which has been denied to other men." [15*5] + +The Duke of Wellington's natural temper, like that of Napoleon, was +irritable in the extreme; and it was only by watchful self-control that +he was enabled to restrain it. He studied calmness and coolness in the +midst of danger, like any Indian chief. At Waterloo, and elsewhere, +he gave his orders in the most critical moments, without the slightest +excitement, and in a tone of voice almost more than usually subdued. [156] + +Wordsworth the poet was, in his childhood, "of a stiff, moody, and +violent temper," and "perverse and obstinate in defying chastisement." +When experience of life had disciplined his temper, he learnt to +exercise greater self-control; but, at the same time, the qualities +which distinguished him as a child were afterwards useful in enabling +him to defy the criticism of his enemies. Nothing was more marked +than Wordsworth's self-respect and self-determination, as well as his +self-consciousness of power, at all periods of his history. + +Henry Martyn, the missionary, was another instance of a man in whom +strength of temper was only so much pent-up, unripe energy. As a boy he +was impatient, petulant, and perverse; but by constant wrestling against +his tendency to wrongheadedness, he gradually gained the requisite +strength, so as to entirely overcome it, and to acquire what he so +greatly coveted--the gift of patience. + +A man may be feeble in organization, but, blessed with a happy +temperament, his soul may be great, active, noble, and sovereign. +Professor Tyndall has given us a fine picture of the character +of Faraday, and of his self-denying labours in the cause of +science--exhibiting him as a man of strong, original, and even fiery +nature, and yet of extreme tenderness and sensibility. "Underneath his +sweetness and gentleness," he says, "was the heat of a volcano. He was a +man of excitable and fiery nature; but, through high self-discipline, +he had converted the fire into a central glow and motive power of life, +instead of permitting it to waste itself in useless passion." + +There was one fine feature in Faraday's character which is worthy of +notice--one closely akin to self-control: it was his self-denial. +By devoting himself to analytical chemistry, he might have speedily +realised a large fortune; but he nobly resisted the temptation, and +preferred to follow the path of pure science. "Taking the duration of +his life into account," says Mr. Tyndall, "this son of a blacksmith and +apprentice to a bookbinder had to decide between a fortune of L.150,000 +on the one side, and his undowered science on the other. He chose the +latter, and died a poor man. But his was the glory of holding aloft +among the nations the scientific name of England for a period of forty +years." [157] + +Take a like instance of the self-denial of a Frenchman. The historian +Anquetil was one of the small number of literary men in France who +refused to bow to the Napoleonic yoke. He sank into great poverty, +living on bread-and-milk, and limiting his expenditure to only three +sous a day. "I have still two sous a day left," said he, "for the +conqueror of Marengo and Austerlitz." "But if you fall sick," said +a friend to him, "you will need the help of a pension. Why not do as +others do? Pay court to the Emperor--you have need of him to live." "I +do not need him to die," was the historian's reply. But Anquetil did not +die of poverty; he lived to the age of ninety-four, saying to a friend, +on the eve of his death, "Come, see a man who dies still full of life!" + +Sir James Outram exhibited the same characteristic of noble self-denial, +though in an altogether different sphere of life. Like the great King +Arthur, he was emphatically a man who "forbore his own advantage." +He was characterised throughout his whole career by his noble +unselfishness. Though he might personally disapprove of the policy he +was occasionally ordered to carry out, he never once faltered in the +path of duty. Thus he did not approve of the policy of invading Scinde; +yet his services throughout the campaign were acknowledged by General +Sir C. Napier to have been of the most brilliant character. But when the +war was over, and the rich spoils of Scinde lay at the conqueror's feet, +Outram said: "I disapprove of the policy of this war--I will accept no +share of the prize-money!" + +Not less marked was his generous self-denial when despatched with a +strong force to aid Havelock in fighting his way to Lucknow. As superior +officer, he was entitled to take upon himself the chief command; but, +recognising what Havelock had already done, with rare disinterestedness, +he left to his junior officer the glory of completing the campaign, +offering to serve under him as a volunteer. "With such reputation," said +Lord Clyde, "as Major-General Outram has won for himself, he can afford +to share glory and honour with others. But that does not lessen the +value of the sacrifice he has made with such disinterested generosity." + +If a man would get through life honourably and peaceably, he must +necessarily learn to practise self-denial in small things as well as +great. Men have to bear as well as forbear. The temper has to be held +in subjection to the judgment; and the little demons of ill-humour, +petulance, and sarcasm, kept resolutely at a distance. If once they find +an entrance to the mind, they are very apt to return, and to establish +for themselves a permanent occupation there. + +It is necessary to one's personal happiness, to exercise control over +one's words as well as acts: for there are words that strike even harder +than blows; and men may "speak daggers," though they use none. "UN COUP +DE LANGUE," says the French proverb, "EST PIRE QU'UN COUP DE LANCE." The +stinging repartee that rises to the lips, and which, if uttered, might +cover an adversary with confusion, how difficult it sometimes is to +resist saying it! "Heaven keep us," says Miss Bremer in her 'Home,' +"from the destroying power of words! There are words which sever hearts +more than sharp swords do; there are words the point of which sting the +heart through the course of a whole life." + +Thus character exhibits itself in self-control of speech as much as in +anything else. The wise and forbearant man will restrain his desire to +say a smart or severe thing at the expense of another's feelings; while +the fool blurts out what he thinks, and will sacrifice his friend rather +than his joke. "The mouth of a wise man," said Solomon, "is in his +heart; the heart of a fool is in his mouth." + +There are, however, men who are no fools, that are headlong in their +language as in their acts, because of their want of forbearance and +self-restraining patience. The impulsive genius, gifted with quick +thought and incisive speech--perhaps carried away by the cheers of the +moment--lets fly a sarcastic sentence which may return upon him to his +own infinite damage. Even statesmen might be named, who have failed +through their inability to resist the temptation of saying clever and +spiteful things at their adversary's expense. "The turn of a sentence," +says Bentham, "has decided the fate of many a friendship, and, for aught +that we know, the fate of many a kingdom." So, when one is tempted to +write a clever but harsh thing, though it may be difficult to restrain +it, it is always better to leave it in the inkstand. "A goose's quill," +says the Spanish proverb, "often hurts more than a lion's claw." + +Carlyle says, when speaking of Oliver Cromwell, "He that cannot withal +keep his mind to himself, cannot practise any considerable thing +whatsoever." It was said of William the Silent, by one of his greatest +enemies, that an arrogant or indiscreet word was never known to fall +from his lips. Like him, Washington was discretion itself in the use of +speech, never taking advantage of an opponent, or seeking a shortlived +triumph in a debate. And it is said that in the long run, the world +comes round to and supports the wise man who knows when and how to be +silent. + +We have heard men of great experience say that they have often regretted +having spoken, but never once regretted holding their tongue. "Be +silent," says Pythagoras, "or say something better than silence." "Speak +fitly," says George Herbert, "or be silent wisely." St. Francis de +Sales, whom Leigh Hunt styled "the Gentleman Saint," has said: "It is +better to remain silent than to speak the truth ill-humouredly, and +so spoil an excellent dish by covering it with bad sauce." Another +Frenchman, Lacordaire, characteristically puts speech first, and silence +next. "After speech," he says, "silence is the greatest power in the +world." Yet a word spoken in season, how powerful it may be! As the old +Welsh proverb has it, "A golden tongue is in the mouth of the blessed." + +It is related, as a remarkable instance of self-control on the part of +De Leon, a distinguished Spanish poet of the sixteenth century, who lay +for years in the dungeons of the Inquisition without light or society, +because of his having translated a part of the Scriptures into +his native tongue, that on being liberated and restored to his +professorship, an immense crowd attended his first lecture, expecting +some account of his long imprisonment; but Do Leon was too wise and too +gentle to indulge in recrimination. He merely resumed the lecture which, +five years before, had been so sadly interrupted, with the accustomed +formula "HERI DICEBAMUS," and went directly into his subject. + +There are, of course, times and occasions when the expression of +indignation is not only justifiable but necessary. We are bound to be +indignant at falsehood, selfishness, and cruelty. A man of true feeling +fires up naturally at baseness or meanness of any sort, even in cases +where he may be under no obligation to speak out. "I would have nothing +to do," said Perthes, "with the man who cannot be moved to indignation. +There are more good people than bad in the world, and the bad get the +upper hand merely because they are bolder. We cannot help being pleased +with a man who uses his powers with decision; and we often take his side +for no other reason than because he does so use them. No doubt, I have +often repented speaking; but not less often have I repented keeping +silence." [158] + +One who loves right cannot be indifferent to wrong, or wrongdoing. If he +feels warmly, he will speak warmly, out of the fulness of his heart. As +a noble lady [159] has written: + + "A noble heart doth teach a virtuous scorn-- + To scorn to owe a duty overlong, + To scorn to be for benefits forborne, + To scorn to lie, to scorn to do a wrong, + To scorn to bear an injury in mind, + To scorn a freeborn heart slave-like to bind." + +We have, however, to be on our guard against impatient scorn. The best +people are apt to have their impatient side; and often, the very temper +which makes men earnest, makes them also intolerant. [1510] "Of all mental +gifts," says Miss Julia Wedgwood, "the rarest is intellectual patience; +and the last lesson of culture is to believe in difficulties which are +invisible to ourselves." + +The best corrective of intolerance in disposition, is increase of wisdom +and enlarged experience of life. Cultivated good sense will usually save +men from the entanglements in which moral impatience is apt to involve +them; good sense consisting chiefly in that temper of mind which enables +its possessor to deal with the practical affairs of life with justice, +judgment, discretion, and charity. Hence men of culture and experience +are invariably, found the most forbearant and tolerant, as ignorant and +narrowminded persons are found the most unforgiving and intolerant. Men +of large and generous natures, in proportion to their practical wisdom, +are disposed to make allowance for the defects and disadvantages of +others--allowance for the controlling power of circumstances in the +formation of character, and the limited power of resistance of weak and +fallible natures to temptation and error. "I see no fault committed," +said Goethe, "which I also might not have committed." So a wise and good +man exclaimed, when he saw a criminal drawn on his hurdle to Tyburn: +"There goes Jonathan Bradford--but for the grace of God!" + +Life will always be, to a great extent, what we ourselves make it. The +cheerful man makes a cheerful world, the gloomy man a gloomy one. We +usually find but our own temperament reflected in the dispositions of +those about us. If we are ourselves querulous, we will find them so; if +we are unforgiving and uncharitable to them, they will be the same to +us. A person returning from an evening party not long ago, complained to +a policeman on his beat that an ill-looking fellow was following him: it +turned out to be only his own shadow! And such usually is human life to +each of us; it is, for the most part, but the reflection of ourselves. + +If we would be at peace with others, and ensure their respect, we must +have regard for their personality. Every man has his peculiarities of +manner and character, as he has peculiarities of form and feature; and +we must have forbearance in dealing with them, as we expect them to +have forbearance in dealing with us. We may not be conscious of our own +peculiarities, yet they exist nevertheless. There is a village in South +America where gotos or goitres are so common that to be without one is +regarded as a deformity. One day a party of Englishmen passed through +the place, when quite a crowd collected to jeer them, shouting: "See, +see these people--they have got NO GOTOS!" + +Many persons give themselves a great deal of fidget concerning what +other people think of them and their peculiarities. Some are too much +disposed to take the illnatured side, and, judging by themselves, infer +the worst. But it is very often the case that the uncharitableness of +others, where it really exists, is but the reflection of our own want of +charity and want of temper. It still oftener happens, that the worry we +subject ourselves to, has its source in our own imagination. And even +though those about us may think of us uncharitably, we shall not mend +matters by exasperating ourselves against them. We may thereby only +expose ourselves unnecessarily to their illnature or caprice. "The ill +that comes out of our mouth," says Herbert, "ofttimes falls into our +bosom." + +The great and good philosopher Faraday communicated the following piece +of admirable advice, full of practical wisdom, the result of a rich +experience of life, in a letter to his friend Professor Tyndall:- +"Let me, as an old man, who ought by this time to have profited by +experience, say that when I was younger I found I often misrepresented +the intentions of people, and that they did not mean what at the time I +supposed they meant; and further, that, as a general rule, it was better +to be a little dull of apprehension where phrases seemed to imply pique, +and quick in perception when, on the contrary, they seemed to imply +kindly feeling. The real truth never fails ultimately to appear; +and opposing parties, if wrong, are sooner convinced when replied to +forbearingly, than when overwhelmed. All I mean to say is, that it is +better to be blind to the results of partisanship, and quick to see +goodwill. One has more happiness in one's self in endeavouring to follow +the things that make for peace. You can hardly imagine how often I have +been heated in private when opposed, as I have thought unjustly and +superciliously, and yet I have striven, and succeeded, I hope, in +keeping down replies of the like kind. And I know I have never lost by +it." [1511] + +While the painter Barry was at Rome, he involved himself, as was +his wont, in furious quarrels with the artists and dilettanti, about +picture-painting and picture-dealing, upon which his friend and +countryman, Edmund Burke--always the generous friend of struggling +merit--wrote to him kindly and sensibly: "Believe me, dear Barry, +that the arms with which the ill-dispositions of the world are to be +combated, and the qualities by which it is to be reconciled to us, and +we reconciled to it, are moderation, gentleness, a little indulgence +to others, and a great deal of distrust of ourselves; which are not +qualities of a mean spirit, as some may possibly think them, but virtues +of a great and noble kind, and such as dignify our nature as much +as they contribute to our repose and fortune; for nothing can be so +unworthy of a well-composed soul as to pass away life in bickerings and +litigations--in snarling and scuffling with every one about us. We must +be at peace with our species, if not for their sakes, at least very much +for our own." [1512] + +No one knew the value of self-control better than the poet Burns, and +no one could teach it more eloquently to others; but when it came to +practice, Burns was as weak as the weakest. He could not deny himself +the pleasure of uttering a harsh and clever sarcasm at another's +expense. One of his biographers observes of him, that it was no +extravagant arithmetic to say that for every ten jokes he made himself +a hundred enemies. But this was not all. Poor Burns exercised no control +over his appetites, but freely gave them rein: + + "Thus thoughtless follies laid him low + And stained his name." + +Nor had he the self-denial to resist giving publicity to compositions +originally intended for the delight of the tap-room, but which continue +secretly to sow pollution broadcast in the minds of youth. Indeed, +notwithstanding the many exquisite poems of this writer, it is not +saying too much to aver that his immoral writings have done far more +harm than his purer writings have done good; and that it would be better +that all his writings should be destroyed and forgotten provided his +indecent songs could be destroyed with them. + +The remark applies alike to Beranger, who has been styled "The Burns +of France." Beranger was of the same bright incisive genius; he had +the same love of pleasure, the same love of popularity; and while he +flattered French vanity to the top of its bent, he also painted the +vices most loved by his countrymen with the pen of a master. Beranger's +songs and Thiers' History probably did more than anything else to +reestablish the Napoleonic dynasty in France. But that was a small evil +compared with the moral mischief which many of Beranger's songs are +calculated to produce; for, circulating freely as they do in French +households, they exhibit pictures of nastiness and vice, which are +enough to pollute and destroy a nation. + +One of Burns's finest poems, written, in his twenty-eighth year, is +entitled 'A Bard's Epitaph.' It is a description, by anticipation, of +his own life. Wordsworth has said of it: "Here is a sincere and solemn +avowal; a public declaration from his own will; a confession at once +devout, poetical and human; a history in the shape of a prophecy." It +concludes with these lines:-- + + "Reader, attend--whether thy soul + Soars fancy's flights beyond the pole, + Or darkling grubs this earthly hole + In low pursuit; + Know--prudent, cautious self-control, + Is Wisdom's root." + +One of the vices before which Burns fell--and it may be said to be +a master-vice, because it is productive of so many other vices--was +drinking. Not that he was a drunkard, but because he yielded to the +temptations of drink, with its degrading associations, and thereby +lowered and depraved his whole nature. [1513] But poor Burns did not stand +alone; for, alas! of all vices, the unrestrained appetite for drink was +in his time, as it continues to be now, the most prevalent, popular, +degrading, and destructive. + +Were it possible to conceive the existence of a tyrant who should compel +his people to give up to him one-third or more of their earnings, +and require them at the same time to consume a commodity that should +brutalise and degrade them, destroy the peace and comfort of their +families, and sow in themselves the seeds of disease and premature +death--what indignation meetings, what monster processions there +would be! 'What eloquent speeches and apostrophes to the spirit +of liberty!--what appeals against a despotism so monstrous and so +unnatural! And yet such a tyrant really exists amongst us--the tyrant +of unrestrained appetite, whom no force of arms, or voices, or votes can +resist, while men are willing to be his slaves. + +The power of this tyrant can only be overcome by moral means--by +self-discipline, self-respect, and self-control. There is no other way +of withstanding the despotism of appetite in any of its forms. No +reform of institutions, no extended power of voting, no improved form +of government, no amount of scholastic instruction, can possibly elevate +the character of a people who voluntarily abandon themselves to sensual +indulgence. The pursuit of ignoble pleasure is the degradation of true +happiness; it saps the morals, destroys the energies, and degrades the +manliness and robustness of individuals as of nations. + +The courage of self-control exhibits itself in many ways, but in +none more clearly than in honest living. Men without the virtue of +self-denial are not only subject to their own selfish desires, but they +are usually in bondage to others who are likeminded with themselves. +What others do, they do. They must live according to the artificial +standard of their class, spending like their neighbours, regardless of +the consequences, at the same time that all are, perhaps, aspiring after +a style of living higher than their means. Each carries the others +along with him, and they have not the moral courage to stop. They cannot +resist the temptation of living high, though it may be at the expense +of others; and they gradually become reckless of debt, until it enthrals +them. In all this there is great moral cowardice, pusillanimity, and +want of manly independence of character. + +A rightminded man will shrink from seeming to be what he is not, or +pretending to be richer than he really is, or assuming a style of living +that his circumstances will not justify. He will have the courage to +live honestly within his own means, rather than dishonestly upon the +means of other people; for he who incurs debts in striving to maintain a +style of living beyond his income, is in spirit as dishonest as the man +who openly picks your pocket. + +To many, this may seem an extreme view, but it will bear the strictest +test. Living at the cost of others is not only dishonesty, but it is +untruthfulness in deed, as lying is in word. The proverb of George +Herbert, that "debtors are liars," is justified by experience. +Shaftesbury somewhere says that a restlessness to have something which +we have not, and to be something which we are not, is the root of all +immorality. [1514] No reliance is to be placed on the saying--a very +dangerous one--of Mirabeau, that "LA PETITE MORALE ETAIT L'ENNEMIE DE LA +GRANDE." On the contrary, strict adherence to even the smallest details +of morality is the foundation of all manly and noble character. + +The honourable man is frugal of his means, and pays his way honestly. He +does not seek to pass himself off as richer than he is, or, by running +into debt, open an account with ruin. As that man is not poor whose +means are small, but whose desires are uncontrolled, so that man is rich +whose means are more than sufficient for his wants. When Socrates saw a +great quantity of riches, jewels, and furniture of great value, carried +in pomp through Athens, he said, "Now do I see how many things I do NOT +desire." "I can forgive everything but selfishness," said Perthes. "Even +the narrowest circumstances admit of greatness with reference to 'mine +and thine'; and none but the very poorest need fill their daily life +with thoughts of money, if they have but prudence to arrange their +housekeeping within the limits of their income." + +A man may be indifferent to money because of higher considerations, as +Faraday was, who sacrificed wealth to pursue science; but if he would +have the enjoyments that money can purchase, he must honestly earn it, +and not live upon the earnings of others, as those do who habitually +incur debts which they have no means of paying. When Maginn, always +drowned in debt, was asked what he paid for his wine, he replied that he +did not know, but he believed they "put something down in a book." [1515] + +This "putting-down in a book" has proved the ruin of a great many +weakminded people, who cannot resist the temptation of taking things +upon credit which they have not the present means of paying for; and it +would probably prove of great social benefit if the law which enables +creditors to recover debts contracted under certain circumstances +were altogether abolished. But, in the competition for trade, every +encouragement is given to the incurring of debt, the creditor relying +upon the law to aid him in the last extremity. When Sydney Smith once +went into a new neighbourhood, it was given out in the local papers that +he was a man of high connections, and he was besought on all sides for +his "custom." But he speedily undeceived his new neighbours. "We are not +great people at all," he said: "we are only common honest people--people +that pay our debts." + +Hazlitt, who was a thoroughly honest though rather thriftless man, +speaks of two classes of persons, not unlike each other--those who +cannot keep their own money in their hands, and those who cannot keep +their hands from other people's. The former are always in want of money, +for they throw it away on any object that first presents itself, as if +to get rid of it; the latter make away with what they have of their own, +and are perpetual borrowers from all who will lend to them; and their +genius for borrowing, in the long run, usually proves their ruin. + +Sheridan was one of such eminent unfortunates. He was impulsive and +careless in his expenditure, borrowing money, and running into debt +with everybody who would trust him. When he stood for Westminster, his +unpopularity arose chiefly from his general indebtedness. "Numbers of +poor people," says Lord Palmerston in one of his letters, "crowded round +the hustings, demanding payment for the bills he owed them." In the +midst of all his difficulties, Sheridan was as lighthearted as ever, and +cracked many a good joke at his creditors' expense. Lord Palmerston was +actually present at the dinner given by him, at which the sheriff's in +possession were dressed up and officiated as waiters + +Yet however loose Sheridan's morality may have been as regarded +his private creditors, he was honest so far as the public money was +concerned. Once, at dinner, at which Lord Byron happened to be present, +an observation happened to be made as to the sturdiness of the Whigs +in resisting office, and keeping to their principles--on which Sheridan +turned sharply and said: "Sir, it is easy for my Lord this, or Earl +that, or the Marquis of t'other, with thousands upon thousands a +year, some of it either presently derived or inherited in sinecure or +acquisitions from the public money, to boast of their patriotism, and +keep aloof from temptation; but they do not know from what temptation +those have kept aloof who had equal pride, at least equal talents, and +not unequal passions, and nevertheless knew not, in the course of their +lives, what it was to have a shilling of their own." And Lord Byron +adds, that, in saying this, Sheridan wept. [1516] + +The tone of public morality in money-matters was very low in those days. +Political peculation was not thought discreditable; and heads of parties +did not hesitate to secure the adhesion of their followers by a free +use of the public money. They were generous, but at the expense of +others--like that great local magnate, who, + + "Out of his great bounty, + Built a bridge at the expense of the county." + +When Lord Cornwallis was appointed Lord-Lieutenant of Ireland, +he pressed upon Colonel Napier, the father of THE Napiers, the +comptrollership of army accounts. "I want," said his Lordship, "AN +HONEST MAN, and this is the only thing I have been able to wrest from +the harpies around me." + +It is said that Lord Chatham was the first to set the example of +disdaining to govern by petty larceny; and his great son was alike +honest in his administration. While millions of money were passing +through Pitt's hands, he himself was never otherwise than poor; and he +died poor. Of all his rancorous libellers, not one ever ventured to call +in question his honesty. + +In former times, the profits of office were sometimes enormous. When +Audley, the famous annuity-monger of the sixteenth century, was asked +the value of an office which he had purchased in the Court of Wards, +he replied:--"Some thousands to any one who wishes to get to heaven +immediately; twice as much to him who does not mind being in purgatory; +and nobody knows what to him who is not afraid of the devil." + +Sir Walter Scott was a man who was honest to the core of his nature and +his strenuous and determined efforts to pay his debts, or rather the +debts of the firm with which he had become involved, has always appeared +to us one of the grandest things in biography. When his publisher and +printer broke down, ruin seemed to stare him in the face. There was +no want of sympathy for him in his great misfortune, and friends came +forward who offered to raise money enough to enable him to arrange with +his creditors. "No! "said he, proudly; "this right hand shall work it +all off!" "If we lose everything else," he wrote to a friend, "we will +at least keep our honour unblemished." [1517] While his health was already +becoming undermined by overwork, he went on "writing like a tiger," as +he himself expressed it, until no longer able to wield a pen; and +though he paid the penalty of his supreme efforts with his life, he +nevertheless saved his honour and his self-respect. + +Everybody knows bow Scott threw off 'Woodstock,' the 'Life of +Napoleon' [15which he thought would be his death [1518]], articles for the +'Quarterly,' 'Chronicles of the Canongate,' 'Prose Miscellanies,' and +'Tales of a Grandfather'--all written in the midst of pain, sorrow, +and ruin. The proceeds of those various works went to his creditors. +"I could not have slept sound," he wrote, "as I now can, under the +comfortable impression of receiving the thanks of my creditors, and the +conscious feeling of discharging my duty as a man of honour and +honesty. I see before me a long, tedious, and dark path, but it leads +to stainless reputation. If I die in the harrows, as is very likely, I +shall die with honour. If I achieve my task, I shall have the thanks of +all concerned, and the approbation of my own conscience." [1519] + +And then followed more articles, memoirs, and even sermons--'The Fair +Maid of Perth,' a completely revised edition of his novels, 'Anne of +Geierstein,' and more 'Tales of a Grandfather'--until he was suddenly +struck down by paralysis. But he had no sooner recovered sufficient +strength to be able to hold a pen, than we find him again at his desk +writing the 'Letters on Demonology and Witchcraft,' a volume of Scottish +History for 'Lardner's Cyclopaedia,' and a fourth series of 'Tales of a +Grandfather' in his French History. In vain his doctors told him to give +up work; he would not be dissuaded. "As for bidding me not work," he +said to Dr. Abercrombie, "Molly might just as well put the kettle on the +fire and say, 'Now, kettle, don't boil;'" to which he added, "If I were +to be idle I should go mad!" + +By means of the profits realised by these tremendous efforts, Scott saw +his debts in course of rapid diminution, and he trusted that, after a +few more years' work, he would again be a free man. But it was not to +be. He went on turning out such works as his 'Count Robert of Paris' +with greatly impaired skill, until he was prostrated by another and +severer attack of palsy. He now felt that the plough was nearing the end +of the furrow; his physical strength was gone; he was "not quite himself +in all things," and yet his courage and perseverance never failed. "I +have suffered terribly," he wrote in his Diary, "though rather in +body than in mind, and I often wish I could lie down and sleep +without waking. But I WILL FIGHT IT OUT IF I CAN." He again recovered +sufficiently to be able to write 'Castle Dangerous,' though the cunning +of the workman's hand had departed. And then there was his last tour to +Italy in search of rest and health, during which, while at Naples, in +spite of all remonstrances, he gave several hours every morning to the +composition of a new novel, which, however, has not seen the light. + +Scott returned to Abbotsford to die. "I have seen much," he said on his +return, "but nothing like my own house--give me one turn more." One of +the last things he uttered, in one of his lucid intervals, was worthy of +him. "I have been," he said, "perhaps the most voluminous author of my +day, and it IS a comfort to me to think that I have tried to unsettle +no man's faith, to corrupt no man's principles, and that I have written +nothing which on my deathbed I should wish blotted out." His last +injunction to his son-in-law was: "Lockhart, I may have but a minute to +speak to you. My dear, be virtuous--be religious--be a good man. Nothing +else will give you any comfort when you come to lie here." + +The devoted conduct of Lockhart himself was worthy of his great +relative. The 'Life of Scott,' which he afterwards wrote, occupied him +several years, and was a remarkably successful work. Yet he himself +derived no pecuniary advantage from it; handing over the profits of the +whole undertaking to Sir Walter's creditors in payment of debts which +he was in no way responsible, but influenced entirely by a spirit of +honour, of regard for the memory of the illustrious dead. + + + + +CHAPTER VII.--DUTY--TRUTHFULNESS. + + + + "I slept, and dreamt that life was Beauty; I woke, and found + that life was Duty." + + "Duty! wondrous thought, that workest neither by fond + insinuation, flattery, nor by any threat, but merely by + holding up thy naked law in the soul, and so extorting for + thyself always reverence, if not always obedience; before + whom all appetites are dumb, however secretly they rebel"-- + KANT. + + "How happy is he born and taught, + That serveth not another's will! + Whose armour is his honest thought, + And simple truth his utmost skill! + + "Whose passions not his masters are, + Whose soul is still prepared for death; + Unti'd unto the world by care + Of public fame, or private breath. + + "This man is freed from servile bands, + Of hope to rise, or fear to fall: + Lord of himself, though not of land; + And having nothing, yet hath all."--WOTTON. + + "His nay was nay without recall; + His yea was yea, and powerful all; + He gave his yea with careful heed, + His thoughts and words were well agreed; + His word, his bond and seal." + INSCRIPTION ON BARON STEIN'S TOMB. + + +DUTY is a thing that is due, and must be paid by every man who would +avoid present discredit and eventual moral insolvency. It is an +obligation--a debt--which can only be discharged by voluntary effort and +resolute action in the affairs of life. + +Duty embraces man's whole existence. It begins in the home, where there +is the duty which children owe to their parents on the one hand, and +the duty which parents owe to their children on the other. There are, in +like manner, the respective duties of husbands and wives, of masters +and servants; while outside the home there are the duties which men +and women owe to each other as friends and neighbours, as employers and +employed, as governors and governed. + +"Render, therefore," says St. Paul, "to all their dues: tribute to whom +tribute is due; custom to whom custom; fear to whom fear; honour to whom +honour. Owe no man anything, but to love one another; for he that loveth +another hath fulfilled the law," + +Thus duty rounds the whole of life, from our entrance into it until +our exit from it--duty to superiors, duty to inferiors, and duty to +equals--duty to man, and duty to God. Wherever there is power to use +or to direct, there is duty. For we are but as stewards, appointed to +employ the means entrusted to us for our own and for others' good. + +The abiding sense of duty is the very crown of character. It is +the upholding law of man in his highest attitudes. Without it, the +individual totters and falls before the first puff of adversity or +temptation; whereas, inspired by it, the weakest becomes strong and full +of courage. "Duty," says Mrs. Jameson, "is the cement which binds +the whole moral edifice together; without which, all power, goodness, +intellect, truth, happiness, love itself, can have no permanence; but +all the fabric of existence crumbles away from under us, and leaves +us at last sitting in the midst of a ruin, astonished at our own +desolation." + +Duty is based upon a sense of justice--justice inspired by love, which +is the most perfect form of goodness. Duty is not a sentiment, but a +principle pervading the life: and it exhibits itself in conduct and in +acts, which are mainly determined by man's conscience and freewill. + +The voice of conscience speaks in duty done; and without its regulating +and controlling influence, the brightest and greatest intellect may +be merely as a light that leads astray. Conscience sets a man upon his +feet, while his will holds him upright. Conscience is the moral governor +of the heart--the governor of right action, of right thought, of right +faith, of right life--and only through its dominating influence can the +noble and upright character be fully developed. + +The conscience, however, may speak never so loudly, but without +energetic will it may speak in vain. The will is free to choose between +the right course and the wrong one, but the choice is nothing unless +followed by immediate and decisive action. If the sense of duty be +strong, and the course of action clear, the courageous will, upheld by +the conscience, enables a man to proceed on his course bravely, and to +accomplish his purposes in the face of all opposition and difficulty. +And should failure be the issue, there will remain at least this +satisfaction, that it has been in the cause of duty. + +"Be and continue poor, young man," said Heinzelmann, "while others +around you grow rich by fraud and disloyalty; be without place or power +while others beg their way upwards; bear the pain of disappointed hopes, +while others gain the accomplishment of theirs by flattery; forego the +gracious pressure of the hand, for which others cringe and crawl. Wrap +yourself in your own virtue, and seek a friend and your daily bread. If +you have in your own cause grown gray with unbleached honour, bless God +and die!" + +Men inspired by high principles are often required to sacrifice all that +they esteem and love rather than fail in their duty. The old English +idea of this sublime devotion to duty was expressed by the loyalist poet +to his sweetheart, on taking up arms for his sovereign:-- + + "I could love thee, dear, so much, + Loved I not honour more." [161] + +And Sertorius has said: "The man who has any dignity of character, +should conquer with honour, and not use any base means even to save his +life." So St. Paul, inspired by duty and faith, declared himself as not +only "ready to be bound, but to die at Jerusalem." + +When the Marquis of Pescara was entreated by the princes of Italy to +desert the Spanish cause, to which he was in honour bound, his noble +wife, Vittoria Colonna, reminded him of his duty. She wrote to him: +"Remember your honour, which raises you above fortune and above +kings; by that alone, and not by the splendour of titles, is glory +acquired--that glory which it will be your happiness and pride to +transmit unspotted to your posterity." Such was the dignified view which +she took of her husband's honour; and when he fell at Pavia, though +young and beautiful, and besought by many admirers, she betook herself +to solitude, that she might lament over her husband's loss and celebrate +his exploits. [162] + +To live really, is to act energetically. Life is a battle to be fought +valiantly. Inspired by high and honourable resolve, a man must stand +to his post, and die there, if need be. Like the old Danish hero, his +determination should be, "to dare nobly, to will strongly, and never to +falter in the path of duty." The power of will, be it great or small, +which God has given us, is a Divine gift; and we ought neither to let it +perish for want of using on the one hand, nor profane it by employing +it for ignoble purposes on the other. Robertson, of Brighton, has +truly said, that man's real greatness consists not in seeking his own +pleasure, or fame, or advancement--"not that every one shall save his +own life, not that every man shall seek his own glory--but that every +man shall do his own duty." + +What most stands in the way of the performance of duty, is irresolution, +weakness of purpose, and indecision. On the one side are conscience and +the knowledge of good and evil; on the other are indolence, selfishness, +love of pleasure, or passion. The weak and ill-disciplined will may +remain suspended for a time between these influences; but at length the +balance inclines one way or the other, according as the will is called +into action or otherwise. If it be allowed to remain passive, the lower +influence of selfishness or passion will prevail; and thus manhood +suffers abdication, individuality is renounced, character is degraded, +and the man permits himself to become the mere passive slave of his +senses. + +Thus, the power of exercising the will promptly, in obedience to the +dictates of conscience, and thereby resisting the impulses of the lower +nature, is of essential importance in moral discipline, and absolutely +necessary for the development of character in its best forms. To acquire +the habit of well-doing, to resist evil propensities, to fight against +sensual desires, to overcome inborn selfishness, may require a long and +persevering discipline; but when once the practice of duty is learnt, it +becomes consolidated in habit, and thence-forward is comparatively easy. + +The valiant good man is he who, by the resolute exercise of his +freewill, has so disciplined himself as to have acquired the habit of +virtue; as the bad man is he who, by allowing his freewill to remain +inactive, and giving the bridle to his desires and passions, has +acquired the habit of vice, by which he becomes, at last, bound as by +chains of iron. + +A man can only achieve strength of purpose by the action of his own +freewill. If he is to stand erect, it must be by his own efforts; for he +cannot be kept propped up by the help of others. He is master of himself +and of his actions. He can avoid falsehood, and be truthful; he can +shun sensualism, and be continent; he can turn aside from doing a cruel +thing, and be benevolent and forgiving. All these lie within the sphere +of individual efforts, and come within the range of self-discipline. And +it depends upon men themselves whether in these respects they will be +free, pure, and good on the one hand; or enslaved, impure, and miserable +on the other. + +Among the wise sayings of Epictetus we find the following: "We do not +choose our own parts in life, and have nothing to do with those parts: +our simple duty is confined to playing them well. The slave may be as +free as the consul; and freedom is the chief of blessings; it dwarfs all +others; beside it all others are insignificant; with it all others are +needless; without it no others are possible.... You must teach men that +happiness is not where, in their blindness and misery, they seek it. It +is not in strength, for Myro and Ofellius were not happy; not in wealth, +for Croesus was not happy; not in power, for the Consuls were not happy; +not in all these together, for Nero and Sardanapulus and Agamemnon +sighed and wept and tore their hair, and were the slaves of +circumstances and the dupes of semblances. It lies in yourselves; in +true freedom, in the absence or conquest of every ignoble fear; in +perfect self-government; and in a power of contentment and peace, and +the even flow of life amid poverty, exile, disease, and the very valley +of the shadow of death." [163] + +The sense of duty is a sustaining power even to a courageous man. +It holds him upright, and makes him strong. It was a noble saying of +Pompey, when his friends tried to dissuade him from embarking for Rome +in a storm, telling him that he did so at the great peril of his life: +"It is necessary for me to go," he said; "it is not necessary for me to +live." What it was right that he should do, he would do, in the face of +danger and in defiance of storms. + +As might be expected of the great Washington, the chief motive power in +his life was the spirit of duty. It was the regal and commanding element +in his character which gave it unity, compactness, and vigour. When +he clearly saw his duty before him, he did it at all hazards, and with +inflexible integrity. He did not do it for effect; nor did he think of +glory, or of fame and its rewards; but of the right thing to be done, +and the best way of doing it. + +Yet Washington had a most modest opinion of himself; and when offered +the chief command of the American patriot army, he hesitated to accept +it until it was pressed upon him. When acknowledging in Congress the +honour which had been done him in selecting him to so important a trust, +on the execution of which the future of his country in a great measure +depended, Washington said: "I beg it may be remembered, lest some +unlucky event should happen unfavourable to my reputation, that I this +day declare, with the utmost sincerity, I do not think myself equal to +the command I am honoured with." + +And in his letter to his wife, communicating to her his appointment as +Commander-in-Chief, he said: "I have used every endeavour in my power +to avoid it, not only from my unwillingness to part with you and the +family, but from a consciousness of its being a trust too great for my +capacity; and that I should enjoy more real happiness in one month with +you at home, than I have the most distant prospect of finding abroad, if +my stay were to be seven times seven years. But, as it has been a kind +of destiny that has thrown me upon this service, I shall hope that my +undertaking it is designed for some good purpose. It was utterly out +of my power to refuse the appointment, without exposing my character to +such censures as would have reflected dishonour upon myself, and given +pain to my friends. This, I am sure, could not, and ought not, to +be pleasing to you, and must have lessened me considerably in my own +esteem." [164] + +Washington pursued his upright course through life, first as +Commander-in-Chief, and afterwards as President, never faltering in the +path of duty. He had no regard for popularity, but held to his purpose, +through good and through evil report, often at the risk of his power +and influence. Thus, on one occasion, when the ratification of a treaty, +arranged by Mr. Jay with Great Britain, was in question, Washington was +urged to reject it. But his honour, and the honour of his country, was +committed, and he refused to do so. A great outcry was raised against +the treaty, and for a time Washington was so unpopular that he is said +to have been actually stoned by the mob. But he, nevertheless, held it +to be his duty to ratify the treaty; and it was carried out, in despite +of petitions and remonstrances from all quarters. "While I feel," he +said, in answer to the remonstrants, "the most lively gratitude for +the many instances of approbation from my country, I can no otherwise +deserve it than by obeying the dictates of my conscience." Wellington's +watchword, like Washington's, was duty; and no man could be more loyal +to it than he was. [165] "There is little or nothing," he once said, "in +this life worth living for; but we can all of us go straight forward and +do our duty." None recognised more cheerfully than he did the duty of +obedience and willing service; for unless men can serve faithfully, they +will not rule others wisely. There is no motto that becomes the wise man +better than ICH DIEN, "I serve;" and "They also serve who only stand and +wait." + +When the mortification of an officer, because of his being appointed +to a command inferior to what he considered to be his merits, was +communicated to the Duke, he said: "In the course of my military career, +I have gone from the command of a brigade to that of my regiment, and +from the command of an army to that of a brigade or a division, as I was +ordered, and without any feeling of mortification." + +Whilst commanding the allied army in Portugal, the conduct of the native +population did not seem to Wellington to be either becoming or dutiful. +"We have enthusiasm in plenty," he said, "and plenty of cries of 'VIVA!' +We have illuminations, patriotic songs, and FETES everywhere. But what +we want is, that each in his own station should do his duty faithfully, +and pay implicit obedience to legal authority." + +This abiding ideal of duty seemed to be the governing principle of +Wellington's character. It was always uppermost in his mind, and +directed all the public actions of his life. Nor did it fail to +communicate itself to those under him, who served him in the like +spirit. When he rode into one of his infantry squares at Waterloo, as +its diminished numbers closed up to receive a charge of French cavalry, +he said to the men, "Stand steady, lads; think of what they will say of +us in England;" to which the men replied, "Never fear, sir--we know our +duty." + +Duty was also the dominant idea in Nelson's mind. The spirit in which +he served his country was expressed in the famous watchword, "England +expects every man to do his duty," signalled by him to the fleet before +going into action at Trafalgar, as well as in the last words that passed +his lips,--"I have done my duty; I praise God for it!" + +And Nelson's companion and friend--the brave, sensible, homely-minded +Collingwood--he who, as his ship bore down into the great sea-fight, +said to his flag-captain, "Just about this time our wives are going to +church in England,"--Collingwood too was, like his commander, an ardent +devotee of duty. "Do your duty to the best of your ability," was the +maxim which he urged upon many young men starting on the voyage of life. +To a midshipman he once gave the following manly and sensible advice:- +"You may depend upon it, that it is more in your own power than in +anybody else's to promote both your comfort and advancement. A strict +and unwearied attention to your duty, and a complacent and respectful +behaviour, not only to your superiors but to everybody, will ensure you +their regard, and the reward will surely come; but if it should not, +I am convinced you have too much good sense to let disappointment sour +you. Guard carefully against letting discontent appear in you. It will +be sorrow to your friends, a triumph to your competitors, and cannot be +productive of any good. Conduct yourself so as to deserve the best that +can come to you, and the consciousness of your own proper behaviour will +keep you in spirits if it should not come. Let it be your ambition to +be foremost in all duty. Do not be a nice observer of turns, but ever +present yourself ready for everything, and, unless your officers are +very inattentive men, they will not allow others to impose more duty on +you than they should." + +This devotion to duty is said to be peculiar to the English nation; and +it has certainly more or less characterised our greatest public men. +Probably no commander of any other nation ever went into action with +such a signal flying as Nelson at Trafalgar--not "Glory," or "Victory," +or "Honour," or "Country"--but simply "Duty!" How few are the nations +willing to rally to such a battle-cry! + +Shortly after the wreck of the BIRKENHEAD off the coast of Africa, in +which the officers and men went down firing a FEU-DE-JOIE after seeing +the women and children safely embarked in the boats,--Robertson of +Brighton, referring to the circumstance in one of his letters, said: +"Yes! Goodness, Duty, Sacrifice,--these are the qualities that England +honours. She gapes and wonders every now and then, like an awkward +peasant, at some other things--railway kings, electro-biology, and other +trumperies; but nothing stirs her grand old heart down to its central +deeps universally and long, except the Right. She puts on her shawl very +badly, and she is awkward enough in a concert-room, scarce knowing a +Swedish nightingale from a jackdaw; but--blessings large and long upon +her!--she knows how to teach her sons to sink like men amidst sharks +and billows, without parade, without display, as if Duty were the most +natural thing in the world; and she never mistakes long an actor for a +hero, or a hero for an actor." [166] + +It is a grand thing, after all, this pervading spirit of Duty in a +nation; and so long as it survives, no one need despair of its future. +But when it has departed, or become deadened, and been supplanted by +thirst for pleasure, or selfish aggrandisement, or "glory"--then woe to +that nation, for its dissolution is near at hand! + +If there be one point on which intelligent observers are agreed more +than another as to the cause of the late deplorable collapse of France +as a nation, it was the utter absence of this feeling of duty, as well +as of truthfulness, from the mind, not only of the men, but of the +leaders of the French people. The unprejudiced testimony of Baron +Stoffel, French military attache at Berlin, before the war, is +conclusive on this point. In his private report to the Emperor, found +at the Tuileries, which was written in August, 1869, about a year +before the outbreak of the war, Baron Stoffel pointed out that the +highly-educated and disciplined German people were pervaded by an ardent +sense of duty, and did not think it beneath them to reverence sincerely +what was noble and lofty; whereas, in all respects, France presented a +melancholy contrast. There the people, having sneered at everything, +had lost the faculty of respecting anything, and virtue, family life, +patriotism, honour, and religion, were represented to a frivolous +generation as only fitting subjects for ridicule. [167] Alas! how terribly +has France been punished for her sins against truth and duty! + +Yet the time was, when France possessed many great men inspired by +duty; but they were all men of a comparatively remote past. The race +of Bayard, Duguesclin, Coligny, Duquesne, Turenne, Colbert, and Sully, +seems to have died out and left no lineage. There has been an occasional +great Frenchman of modern times who has raised the cry of Duty; but his +voice has been as that of one crying in the wilderness. De Tocqueville +was one of such; but, like all men of his stamp, he was proscribed, +imprisoned, and driven from public life. Writing on one occasion to his +friend Kergorlay, he said: "Like you, I become more and more alive to +the happiness which consists in the fulfilment of Duty. I believe there +is no other so deep and so real. There is only one great object in the +world which deserves our efforts, and that is the good of mankind." [168] + +Although France has been the unquiet spirit among the nations of Europe +since the reign of Louis XIV., there have from time to time been honest +and faithful men who have lifted up their voices against the turbulent +warlike tendencies of the people, and not only preached, but endeavoured +to carry into practice, a gospel of peace. Of these, the Abbe de +St.-Pierre was one of the most courageous. He had even the boldness to +denounce the wars of Louis XIV., and to deny that monarch's right to +the epithet of 'Great,' for which he was punished by expulsion from +the Academy. The Abbe was as enthusiastic an agitator for a system of +international peace as any member of the modern Society of Friends. As +Joseph Sturge went to St. Petersburg to convert the Emperor of Russia to +his views, so the Abbe went to Utrecht to convert the Conference sitting +there, to his project for a Diet; to secure perpetual peace. Of course +he was regarded as an enthusiast, Cardinal Dubois characterising his +scheme as "the dream of an honest man." Yet the Abbe had found his dream +in the Gospel; and in what better way could he exemplify the spirit +of the Master he served than by endeavouring to abate the horrors +and abominations of war? The Conference was an assemblage of men +representing Christian States: and the Abbe merely called upon them to +put in practice the doctrines they professed to believe. It was of no +use: the potentates and their representatives turned to him a deaf ear. + +The Abbe de St.-Pierre lived several hundred years too soon. But he +determined that his idea should not be lost, and in 1713 he published +his 'Project of Perpetual Peace.' He there proposed the formation of +a European Diet, or Senate, to be composed of representatives of all +nations, before which princes should be bound, before resorting to arms, +to state their grievances and require redress. Writing about eighty +years after the publication of this project, Volney asked: "What is +a people?--an individual of the society at large. What a war?--a duel +between two individual people. In what manner ought a society to act +when two of its members fight?--Interfere, and reconcile or repress +them. In the days of the Abbe de St.-Pierre, this was treated as a +dream; but, happily for the human race, it begins to be realised." Alas +for the prediction of Volney! The twenty-five years that followed the +date at which this passage was written, were distinguished by more +devastating and furious wars on the part of France than had ever been +known in the world before. + +The Abbe was not, however, a mere dreamer. He was an active practical +philanthropist and anticipated many social improvements which have since +become generally adopted. He was the original founder of industrial +schools for poor children, where they not only received a good +education, but learned some useful trade, by which they might earn an +honest living when they grew up to manhood. He advocated the revision +and simplification of the whole code of laws--an idea afterwards carried +out by the First Napoleon. He wrote against duelling, against luxury, +against gambling, against monasticism, quoting the remark of Segrais, +that "the mania for a monastic life is the smallpox of the mind." He +spent his whole income in acts of charity--not in almsgiving, but in +helping poor children, and poor men and women, to help themselves. His +object always was to benefit permanently those whom he assisted. He +continued his love of truth and his freedom of speech to the last. At +the age of eighty he said: "If life is a lottery for happiness, my lot +has been one of the best." When on his deathbed, Voltaire asked him +how he felt, to which he answered, "As about to make a journey into the +country." And in this peaceful frame of mind he died. But so outspoken +had St.-Pierre been against corruption in high places, that Maupertius, +his Successor at the Academy, was not permitted to pronounce his ELOGE; +nor was it until thirty-two years after his death that this honour was +done to his memory by D'Alembert. The true and emphatic epitaph of the +good, truth-loving, truth-speaking Abbe was this--"HE LOVED MUCH!" + +Duty is closely allied to truthfulness of character; and the dutiful man +is, above all things, truthful in his words as in his actions. He says +and he does the right thing, in the right way, and at the right time. + +There is probably no saying of Lord Chesterfield that commends itself +more strongly to the approval of manly-minded men, than that it is truth +that makes the success of the gentleman. Clarendon, speaking of one of +the noblest and purest gentlemen of his age, says of Falkland, that he +"was so severe an adorer of truth that he could as easily have given +himself leave to steal as to dissemble." + +It was one of the finest things that Mrs. Hutchinson could say of her +husband, that he was a thoroughly truthful and reliable man: "He never +professed the thing he intended not, nor promised what he believed out +of his power, nor failed in the performance of anything that was in his +power to fulfil." + +Wellington was a severe admirer of truth. An illustration may be given. +When afflicted by deafness he consulted a celebrated aurist, who, after +trying all remedies in vain, determined, as a last resource, to inject +into the ear a strong solution of caustic. It caused the most intense +pain, but the patient bore it with his usual equanimity. The family +physician accidentally calling one day, found the Duke with flushed +cheeks and bloodshot eyes, and when he rose he staggered about like a +drunken man. The doctor asked to be permitted to look at his ear, and +then he found that a furious inflammation was going on, which, if not +immediately checked, must shortly reach the brain and kill him. Vigorous +remedies were at once applied, and the inflammation was checked. But the +hearing of that ear was completely destroyed. When the aurist heard of +the danger his patient had run, through the violence of the remedy +he had employed, he hastened to Apsley House to express his grief and +mortification; but the Duke merely said: "Do not say a word more about +it--you did all for the best." The aurist said it would be his ruin +when it became known that he had been the cause of so much suffering and +danger to his Grace. "But nobody need know anything about it: keep your +own counsel, and, depend upon it, I won't say a word to any one." "Then +your Grace will allow me to attend you as usual, which will show the +public that you have not withdrawn your confidence from me?" "No," +replied the Duke, kindly but firmly; "I can't do that, for that would be +a lie." He would not act a falsehood any more than he would speak one. +[169] + +Another illustration of duty and truthfulness, as exhibited in the +fulfilment of a promise, may be added from the life of Blucher. When he +was hastening with his army over bad roads to the help of Wellington, on +the 18th of June, 1815, he encouraged his troops by words and gestures. +"Forwards, children--forwards!" "It is impossible; it can't be done," +was the answer. Again and again he urged them. "Children, we must get +on; you may say it can't be done, but it MUST be done! I have promised +my brother Wellington--PROMISED, do you hear? You wouldn't have me BREAK +MY WORD!" And it was done. + +Truth is the very bond of society, without which it must cease to exist, +and dissolve into anarchy and chaos. A household cannot be governed by +lying; nor can a nation. Sir Thomas Browne once asked, "Do the devils +lie?" "No," was his answer; "for then even hell could not subsist." No +considerations can justify the sacrifice of truth, which ought to be +sovereign in all the relations of life. + +Of all mean vices, perhaps lying is the meanest. It is in some cases +the offspring of perversity and vice, and in many others of sheer moral +cowardice. Yet many persons think so lightly of it that they will order +their servants to lie for them; nor can they feel surprised if, after +such ignoble instruction, they find their servants lying for themselves. + +Sir Harry Wotton's description of an ambassador as "an honest man sent +to lie abroad for the benefit of his country," though meant as a satire, +brought him into disfavour with James I. when it became published; for +an adversary quoted it as a principle of the king's religion. That it +was not Wotton's real view of the duty of an honest man, is obvious from +the lines quoted at the head of this chapter, on 'The Character of a +Happy Life,' in which he eulogises the man + + "Whose armour is his honest thought, + And simple truth his utmost skill." + +But lying assumes many forms--such as diplomacy, expediency, and moral +reservation; and, under one guise or another, it is found more or less +pervading all classes of society. Sometimes it assumes the form of +equivocation or moral dodging--twisting and so stating the things said +as to convey a false impression--a kind of lying which a Frenchman once +described as "walking round about the truth." + +There are even men of narrow minds and dishonest natures, who pride +themselves upon their jesuitical cleverness in equivocation, in their +serpent-wise shirking of the truth and getting out of moral back-doors, +in order to hide their real opinions and evade the consequences of +holding and openly professing them. Institutions or systems based upon +any such expedients must necessarily prove false and hollow. "Though +a lie be ever so well dressed," says George Herbert, "it is ever +overcome." Downright lying, though bolder and more vicious, is even less +contemptible than such kind of shuffling and equivocation. + +Untruthfulness exhibits itself in many other forms: in reticency on the +one hand, or exaggeration on the other; in disguise or concealment; in +pretended concurrence in others opinions; in assuming an attitude of +conformity which is deceptive; in making promises, or allowing them +to be implied, which are never intended to be performed; or even in +refraining from speaking the truth when to do so is a duty. There are +also those who are all things to all men, who say one thing and do +another, like Bunyan's Mr. Facing-both-ways; only deceiving themselves +when they think they are deceiving others--and who, being essentially +insincere, fail to evoke confidence, and invariably in the end turn out +failures, if not impostors. + +Others are untruthful in their pretentiousness, and in assuming merits +which they do not really possess. The truthful man is, on the contrary, +modest, and makes no parade of himself and his deeds. When Pitt was +in his last illness, the news reached England of the great deeds of +Wellington in India. "The more I hear of his exploits," said Pitt, "the +more I admire the modesty with which he receives the praises he merits +for them. He is the only man I ever knew that was not vain of what he +had done, and yet had so much reason to be so." + +So it is said of Faraday by Professor Tyndall, that "pretence of all +kinds, whether in life or in philosophy, was hateful to him." Dr. +Marshall Hall was a man of like spirit--courageously truthful, dutiful, +and manly. One of his most intimate friends has said of him that, +wherever he met with untruthfulness or sinister motive, he would expose +it, saying--"I neither will, nor can, give my consent to a lie." The +question, "right or wrong," once decided in his own mind, the right +was followed, no matter what the sacrifice or the difficulty--neither +expediency nor inclination weighing one jot in the balance. + +There was no virtue that Dr. Arnold laboured more sedulously to instil +into young men than the virtue of truthfulness, as being the manliest of +virtues, as indeed the very basis of all true manliness. He designated +truthfulness as "moral transparency," and he valued it more highly than +any other quality. When lying was detected, he treated it as a great +moral offence; but when a pupil made an assertion, he accepted it with +confidence. "If you say so, that is quite enough; OF COURSE I believe +your word." By thus trusting and believing them, he educated the young +in truthfulness; the boys at length coming to say to one another: "It's +a shame to tell Arnold a lie--he always believes one." [1610] + +One of the most striking instances that could be given of the character +of the dutiful, truthful, laborious man, is presented in the life of +the late George Wilson, Professor of Technology in the University of +Edinburgh. [1611] Though we bring this illustration under the head of +Duty, it might equally have stood under that of Courage, Cheerfulness, +or Industry, for it is alike illustrative of these several qualities. + +Wilson's life was, indeed, a marvel of cheerful laboriousness; +exhibiting the power of the soul to triumph over the body, and almost to +set it at defiance. It might be taken as an illustration of the saying +of the whaling-captain to Dr. Kane, as to the power of moral force over +physical: "Bless you, sir, the soul will any day lift the body out of +its boots!" + +A fragile but bright and lively boy, he had scarcely entered manhood ere +his constitution began to exhibit signs of disease. As early, indeed, +as his seventeenth year, he began to complain of melancholy and +sleeplessness, supposed to be the effects of bile. "I don't think I +shall live long," he then said to a friend; "my mind will--must work +itself out, and the body will soon follow it." A strange confession for +a boy to make! But he gave his physical health no fair chance. His life +was all brain-work, study, and competition. When he took exercise it was +in sudden bursts, which did him more harm than good. Long walks in the +Highlands jaded and exhausted him; and he returned to his brain-work +unrested and unrefreshed. + +It was during one of his forced walks of some twenty-four miles in +the neighbourhood of Stirling, that he injured one of his feet, and he +returned home seriously ill. The result was an abscess, disease of the +ankle-joint, and long agony, which ended in the amputation of the +right foot. But he never relaxed in his labours. He was now writing, +lecturing, and teaching chemistry. Rheumatism and acute inflammation of +the eye next attacked him; and were treated by cupping, blisetring, and +colchicum. Unable himself to write, he went on preparing his lectures, +which he dictated to his sister. Pain haunted him day and night, +and sleep was only forced by morphia. While in this state of general +prostration, symptoms of pulmonary disease began to show themselves. Yet +he continued to give the weekly lectures to which he stood committed +to the Edinburgh School of Arts. Not one was shirked, though their +delivery, before a large audience, was a most exhausting duty. "Well, +there's another nail put into my coffin," was the remark made on +throwing off his top-coat on returning home; and a sleepless night +almost invariably followed. + +At twenty-seven, Wilson was lecturing ten, eleven, or more hours +weekly, usually with setons or open blister-wounds upon him--his "bosom +friends," he used to call them. He felt the shadow of death upon him; +and he worked as if his days were numbered. "Don't be surprised," he +wrote to a friend, "if any morning at breakfast you hear that I am +gone." But while he said so, he did not in the least degree indulge in +the feeling of sickly sentimentality. He worked on as cheerfully and +hopefully as if in the very fulness of his strength. "To none," said he, +"is life so sweet as to those who have lost all fear to die." + +Sometimes he was compelled to desist from his labours by sheer debility, +occasioned by loss of blood from the lungs; but after a few weeks' rest +and change of air, he would return to his work, saying, "The water is +rising in the well again!" Though disease had fastened on his lungs, and +was spreading there, and though suffering from a distressing cough, +he went on lecturing as usual. To add to his troubles, when one day +endeavouring to recover himself from a stumble occasioned by his +lameness, he overstrained his arm, and broke the bone near the shoulder. +But he recovered from his successive accidents and illnesses in the most +extraordinary way. The reed bent, but did not break: the storm passed, +and it stood erect as before. + +There was no worry, nor fever, nor fret about him; but instead, +cheerfulness, patience, and unfailing perseverance. His mind, amidst all +his sufferings, remained perfectly calm and serene. He went about his +daily work with an apparently charmed life, as if he had the strength +of many men in him. Yet all the while he knew he was dying, his chief +anxiety being to conceal his state from those about him at home, to +whom the knowledge of his actual condition would have been inexpressibly +distressing. "I am cheerful among strangers," he said, "and try to live +day by day as a dying man." [1612] + +He went on teaching as before--lecturing to the Architectural Institute +and to the School of Arts. One day, after a lecture before the latter +institute, he lay down to rest, and was shortly awakened by the rupture +of a bloodvessel, which occasioned him the loss of a considerable +quantity of blood. He did not experience the despair and agony that +Keats did on a like occasion; [1613] though he equally knew that the +messenger of death had come, and was waiting for him. He appeared at +the family meals as usual, and next day he lectured twice, punctually +fulfilling his engagements; but the exertion of speaking was followed by +a second attack of haemorrhage. He now became seriously ill, and it +was doubted whether he would survive the night. But he did survive; +and during his convalescence he was appointed to an important public +office--that of Director of the Scottish Industrial Museum, which +involved a great amount of labour, as well as lecturing, in his capacity +of Professor of Technology, which he held in connection with the office. + +From this time forward, his "dear museum," as he called it, absorbed +all his surplus energies. While busily occupied in collecting models +and specimens for the museum, he filled up his odds-and-ends of time +in lecturing to Ragged Schools, Ragged Kirks, and Medical Missionary +Societies. He gave himself no rest, either of mind or body; and "to die +working" was the fate he envied. His mind would not give in, but +his poor body was forced to yield, and a severe attack of +haemorrhage--bleeding from both lungs and stomach [1614]--compelled him +to relax in his labours. "For a month, or some forty days," he wrote--"a +dreadful Lent--the mind has blown geographically from 'Araby the blest,' +but thermometrically from Iceland the accursed. I have been made a +prisoner of war, hit by an icicle in the lungs, and have shivered and +burned alternately for a large portion of the last month, and spat blood +till I grew pale with coughing. Now I am better, and to-morrow I give +my concluding lecture [16on Technology], thankful that I have contrived, +notwithstanding all my troubles, to carry on without missing a lecture +to the last day of the Faculty of Arts, to which I belong." [1615] + +How long was it to last? He himself began to wonder, for he had long +felt his life as if ebbing away. At length he became languid, weary, and +unfit for work; even the writing of a letter cost him a painful effort, +and. he felt "as if to lie down and sleep were the only things worth +doing." Yet shortly after, to help a Sunday-school, he wrote his 'Five +Gateways of Knowledge,' as a lecture, and afterwards expanded it into +a book. He also recovered strength sufficient to enable him to proceed +with his lectures to the institutions to which he belonged, besides on +various occasions undertaking to do other people's work. "I am looked +upon as good as mad," he wrote to his brother, "because, on a hasty +notice, I took a defaulting lecturer's place at the Philosophical +Institution, and discoursed on the Polarization of Light.... But I like +work: it is a family weakness." + +Then followed chronic malaise--sleepless nights, days of pain, and +more spitting of blood. "My only painless moments," he says, "were when +lecturing." In this state of prostration and disease, the indefatigable +man undertook to write the 'Life of Edward Forbes'; and he did it, like +everything he undertook, with admirable ability. He proceeded with +his lectures as usual. To an association of teachers he delivered a +discourse on the educational value of industrial science. After he +had spoken to his audience for an hour, he left them to say whether +he should go on or not, and they cheered him on to another half-hour's +address. "It is curious," he wrote, "the feeling of having an audience, +like clay in your hands, to mould for a season as you please. It is a +terribly responsible power.... I do not mean for a moment to imply that +I am indifferent to the good opinion of others--far otherwise; but to +gain this is much less a concern with me than to deserve it. It was +not so once. I had no wish for unmerited praise, but I was too ready to +settle that I did merit it. Now, the word DUTY seems to me the biggest +word in the world, and is uppermost in all my serious doings." + +This was written only about four months before his death. A little later +he wrote, "I spin my thread of life from week to week, rather than from +year to year." Constant attacks of bleeding from the lungs sapped his +little remaining strength, but did not altogether disable him from +lecturing. He was amused by one of his friends proposing to put him +under trustees for the purpose of looking after his health. But he +would not be restrained from working, so long as a vestige of strength +remained. + +One day, in the autumn of 1859, he returned from his customary lecture +in the University of Edinburgh with a severe pain in his side. He was +scarcely able to crawl upstairs. Medical aid was sent for, and he was +pronounced to be suffering from pleurisy and inflammation of the lungs. +His enfeebled frame was ill able to resist so severe a disease, and he +sank peacefully to the rest he so longed for, after a few days' illness: + + "Wrong not the dead with tears! + A glorious bright to-morrow + Endeth a weary life of pain and sorrow." + +The life of George Wilson--so admirably and affectionately related by +his sister--is probably one of the most marvellous records of pain and +longsuffering, and yet of persistent, noble, and useful work, that is +to be found in the whole history of literature. His entire career +was indeed but a prolonged illustration of the lines which he himself +addressed to his deceased friend, Dr. John Reid, a likeminded man, whose +memoir he wrote:-- + + "Thou wert a daily lesson + Of courage, hope, and faith; + We wondered at thee living, + We envy thee thy death. + + Thou wert so meek and reverent, + So resolute of will, + So bold to bear the uttermost, + And yet so calm and still." + + + + +CHAPTER VIII.--TEMPER. + + + "Temper is nine-tenths of Christianity."--BISHOP WILSON. + + "Heaven is a temper, not a place."--DR. CHALMERS. + + "And should my youth, as youth is apt I know, + Some harshness show; + All vain asperities I day by day + Would wear away, + Till the smooth temper of my age should be + Like the high leaves upon the Holly Tree"--SOUTHEY. + + "Even Power itself hath not one-half the might of Gentleness" + --LEIGH HUNT. + + +It has been said that men succeed in life quite as much by their temper +as by their talents. However this may be, it is certain that their +happiness in life depends mainly upon their equanimity of disposition, +their patience and forbearance, and their kindness and thoughtfulness +for those about them. It is really true what Plato says, that in seeking +the good of others we find our own. + +There are some natures so happily constituted that they can find good in +everything. There is no calamity so great but they can educe comfort or +consolation from it--no sky so black but they can discover a gleam of +sunshine issuing through it from some quarter or another; and if the sun +be not visible to their eyes, they at least comfort themselves with the +thought that it IS there, though veiled from them for some good and wise +purpose. + +Such happy natures are to be envied. They have a beam in the eye--a beam +of pleasure, gladness, religious cheerfulness, philosophy, call it what +you will. Sunshine is about their hearts, and their mind gilds with its +own hues all that it looks upon. When they have burdens to bear, they +bear them cheerfully--not repining, nor fretting, nor wasting their +energies in useless lamentation, but struggling onward manfully, +gathering up such flowers as lie along their path. + +Let it not for a moment be supposed that men such as those we speak of +are weak and unreflective. The largest and most comprehensive natures +are generally also the most cheerful, the most loving, the most hopeful, +the most trustful. It is the wise man, of large vision, who is the +quickest to discern the moral sunshine gleaming through the darkest +cloud. In present evil he sees prospective good; in pain, he recognises +the effort of nature to restore health; in trials, he finds correction +and discipline; and in sorrow and suffering, he gathers courage, +knowledge, and the best practical wisdom. + +When Jeremy Taylor had lost all--when his house had been plundered, +and his family driven out-of-doors, and all his worldly estate had been +sequestrated--he could still write thus: "I am fallen into the hands of +publicans and sequestrators, and they have taken all from me; what now? +Let me look about me. They have left me the sun and moon, a loving wife, +and many friends to pity me, and some to relieve me; and I can still +discourse, and, unless I list, they have not taken away my merry +countenance and my cheerful spirit, and a good conscience; they have +still left me the providence of God, and all the promises of the Gospel, +and my religion, and my hopes of heaven, and my charity to them, too; +and still I sleep and digest, I eat and drink, I read and meditate.... +And he that hath so many causes of joy, and so great, is very much in +love with sorrow and peevishness, who loves all these pleasures, and +chooses to sit down upon his little handful of thorns." [171] + +Although cheerfulness of disposition is very much a matter of inborn +temperament, it is also capable of being trained and cultivated like any +other habit. We may make the best of life, or we may make the worst of +it; and it depends very much upon ourselves whether we extract joy or +misery from it. There are always two sides of life on which we can look, +according as we choose--the bright side or the gloomy. We can bring the +power of the will to bear in making the choice, and thus cultivate the +habit of being happy or the reverse. We can encourage the disposition +of looking at the brightest side of things, instead of the darkest. And +while we see the cloud, let us not shut our eyes to the silver lining. + +The beam in the eye sheds brightness, beauty, and joy upon life in all +its phases. It shines upon coldness, and warms it; upon suffering, and +comforts it; upon ignorance, and enlightens it; upon sorrow, and cheers +it. The beam in the eye gives lustre to intellect, and brightens beauty +itself. Without it the sunshine of life is not felt, flowers bloom in +vain, the marvels of heaven and earth are not seen or acknowledged, and +creation is but a dreary, lifeless, soulless blank. + +While cheerfulness of disposition is a great source of enjoyment in +life, it is also a great safeguard of character. A devotional writer +of the present day, in answer to the question, How are we to overcome +temptations? says: "Cheerfulness is the first thing, cheerfulness is the +second, and cheerfulness is the third." It furnishes the best soil for +the growth of goodness and virtue. It gives brightness of heart and +elasticity of spirit. It is the companion of charity, the nurse of +patience the mother of wisdom. It is also the best of moral and mental +tonics. "The best cordial of all," said Dr. Marshall Hall to one of his +patients, "is cheerfulness." And Solomon has said that "a merry heart +doeth good like a medicine." When Luther was once applied to for a +remedy against melancholy, his advice was: "Gaiety and courage--innocent +gaiety, and rational honourable courage--are the best medicine for young +men, and for old men, too; for all men against sad thoughts." [172] Next +to music, if not before it, Luther loved children and flowers. The great +gnarled man had a heart as tender as a woman's. + +Cheerfulness is also an excellent wearing quality. It has been called +the bright weather of the heart. It gives harmony of soul, and is a +perpetual song without words. It is tantamount to repose. It enables +nature to recruit its strength; whereas worry and discontent debilitate +it, involving constant wear-and-tear. How is it that we see such men +as Lord Palmerston growing old in harness, working on vigorously to the +end? Mainly through equanimity of temper and habitual cheerfulness. They +have educated themselves in the habit of endurance, of not being easily +provoked, of bearing and forbearing, of hearing harsh and even unjust +things said of them without indulging in undue resentment, and avoiding +worreting, petty, and self-tormenting cares. An intimate friend of Lord +Palmerston, who observed him closely for twenty years, has said that he +never saw him angry, with perhaps one exception; and that was when the +ministry responsible for the calamity in Affghanistan, of which he was +one, were unjustly accused by their opponents of falsehood, perjury, and +wilful mutilation of public documents. + +So far as can be learnt from biography, men of the greatest genius +have been for the most part cheerful, contented men--not eager for +reputation, money, or power--but relishing life, and keenly susceptible +of enjoyment, as we find reflected in their works. Such seem to have +been Homer, Horace, Virgil, Montaigne, Shakspeare, Cervantes. Healthy +serene cheerfulness is apparent in their great creations. Among the same +class of cheerful-minded men may also be mentioned Luther, More, Bacon, +Leonardo da Vinci, Raphael, and Michael Angelo. Perhaps they were happy +because constantly occupied, and in the pleasantest of all work--that of +creating out of the fulness and richness of their great minds. + +Milton, too, though a man of many trials and sufferings, must have been +a man of great cheerfulness and elasticity of nature. Though overtaken +by blindness, deserted by friends, and fallen upon evil days--"darkness +before and danger's voice behind"--yet did he not bate heart or hope, +but "still bore up and steered right onward." + +Henry Fielding was a man borne down through life by debt, and +difficulty, and bodily suffering; and yet Lady Mary Wortley Montague +has said of him that, by virtue of his cheerful disposition, she was +persuaded he "had known more happy moments than any person on earth." + +Dr. Johnson, through all his trials and sufferings and hard fights with +fortune, was a courageous and cheerful-natured man. He manfully made +the best of life, and tried to be glad in it. Once, when a clergyman was +complaining of the dulness of society in the country, saying "they only +talk of runts" [17young cows], Johnson felt flattered by the observation +of Mrs. Thrale's mother, who said, "Sir, Dr. Johnson would learn to +talk of runts"--meaning that he was a man who would make the most of his +situation, whatever it was. + +Johnson was of opinion that a man grew better as he grew older, and that +his nature mellowed with age. This is certainly a much more cheerful +view of human nature than that of Lord Chesterfield, who saw life +through the eyes of a cynic, and held that "the heart never grows better +by age: it only grows harder." But both sayings may be true according +to the point from which life is viewed, and the temper by which a man is +governed; for while the good, profiting by experience, and disciplining +themselves by self-control, will grow better, the ill-conditioned, +uninfluenced by experience, will only grow worse. + +Sir Walter Scott was a man full of the milk of human kindness. Everybody +loved him. He was never five minutes in a room ere the little pets of +the family, whether dumb or lisping, had found out his kindness for all +their generation. Scott related to Captain Basil Hall an incident of his +boyhood which showed the tenderness of his nature. One day, a dog coming +towards him, he took up a big stone, threw it, and hit the dog. The poor +creature had strength enough left to crawl up to him and lick his feet, +although he saw its leg was broken. The incident, he said, had given +him the bitterest remorse in his after-life; but he added, "An early +circumstance of that kind, properly reflected on, is calculated to have +the best effect on one's character throughout life." + +"Give me an honest laugher," Scott would say; and he himself laughed the +heart's laugh. He had a kind word for everybody, and his kindness acted +all round him like a contagion, dispelling the reserve and awe which his +great name was calculated to inspire. "He'll come here," said the keeper +of the ruins of Melrose Abbey to Washington Irving--"he'll come here +some-times, wi' great folks in his company, and the first I'll know of +it is hearing his voice calling out, 'Johnny! Johnny Bower!' And when I +go out I'm sure to be greeted wi' a joke or a pleasant word. He'll stand +and crack and laugh wi' me, just like an auld wife; and to think that of +a man that has SUCH AN AWFU' KNOWLEDGE O' HISTORY!" + +Dr. Arnold was a man of the same hearty cordiality of manner--full of +human sympathy. There was not a particle of affectation or pretence of +condescension about him. "I never knew such a humble man as the doctor," +said the parish clerk at Laleham; "he comes and shakes us by the hand as +if he was one of us." "He used to come into my house," said an old woman +near Fox How, "and talk to me as if I were a lady." + +Sydney Smith was another illustration of the power of cheerfulness. He +was ever ready to look on the bright side of things; the darkest cloud +had to him its silver lining. Whether working as country curate, or as +parish rector, he was always kind, laborious, patient, and exemplary; +exhibiting in every sphere of life the spirit of a Christian, the +kindness of a pastor, and the honour of a gentleman. In his leisure he +employed his pen on the side of justice, freedom, education, toleration, +emancipation; and his writings, though full of common-sense and bright +humour, are never vulgar; nor did he ever pander to popularity or +prejudice. His good spirits, thanks to his natural vivacity and stamina +of constitution, never forsook him; and in his old age, when borne down +by disease, he wrote to a friend: "I have gout, asthma, and seven other +maladies, but am otherwise very well." In one of the last letters he +wrote to Lady Carlisle, he said: "If you hear of sixteen or eighteen +pounds of flesh wanting an owner, they belong to me. I look as if a +curate had been taken out of me." + +Great men of science have for the most part been patient, laborious, +cheerful-minded men. Such were Galileo, Descartes, Newton, and Laplace. +Euler the mathematician, one of the greatest of natural philosophers, +was a distinguished instance. Towards the close of his life he became +completely blind; but he went on writing as cheerfully as before, +supplying the want of sight by various ingenious mechanical devices, +and by the increased cultivation of his memory, which became exceedingly +tenacious. His chief pleasure was in the society of his grandchildren, +to whom he taught their little lessons in the intervals of his severer +studies. + +In like manner, Professor Robison of Edinburgh, the first editor of the +'Encyclopaedia Britannica,' when disabled from work by a lingering +and painful disorder, found his chief pleasure in the society of his +grandchild. "I am infinitely delighted," he wrote to James Watt, "with +observing the growth of its little soul, and particularly with its +numberless instincts, which formerly passed unheeded. I thank the French +theorists for more forcibly directing my attention to the finger of God, +which I discern in every awkward movement and every wayward whim. They +are all guardians of his life and growth and power. I regret indeed that +I have not time to make infancy and the development of its powers my +sole study." + +One of the sorest trials of a man's temper and patience was that which +befell Abauzit, the natural philosopher, while residing at Geneva; +resembling in many respects a similar calamity which occurred to Newton, +and which he bore with equal resignation. Amongst other things, Abauzit +devoted much study to the barometer and its variations, with the object +of deducing the general laws which regulated atmospheric pressure. +During twenty-seven years he made numerous observations daily, recording +them on sheets prepared for the purpose. One day, when a new servant was +installed in the house, she immediately proceeded to display her zeal +by "putting things to-rights." Abauzit's study, amongst other rooms, was +made tidy and set in order. When he entered it, he asked of the servant, +"What have you done with the paper that was round the barometer?" "Oh, +sir," was the reply, "it was so dirty that I burnt it, and put in its +place this paper, which you will see is quite new." Abauzit crossed his +arms, and after some moments of internal struggle, he said, in a tone +of calmness and resignation: "You have destroyed the results of +twenty-seven years labour; in future touch nothing whatever in this +room." + +The study of natural history more than that of any other branch of +science, seems to be accompanied by unusual cheerfulness and equanimity +of temper on the part of its votaries; the result of which is, that +the life of naturalists is on the whole more prolonged than that of +any other class of men of science. A member of the Linnaean Society has +informed us that of fourteen members who died in 1870, two were over +ninety, five were over eighty, and two were over seventy. The average +age of all the members who died in that year was seventy-five. + +Adanson, the French botanist, was about seventy years old when the +Revolution broke out, and amidst the shock he lost everything--his +fortune, his places, and his gardens. But his patience, courage, +and resignation never forsook him. He became reduced to the greatest +straits, and even wanted food and clothing; yet his ardour of +investigation remained the same. Once, when the Institute invited him, +as being one of its oldest members, to assist at a SEANCE, his answer +was that he regretted he could not attend for want of shoes. "It was a +touching sight," says Cuvier, "to see the poor old man, bent over the +embers of a decaying fire, trying to trace characters with a feeble hand +on the little bit of paper which he held, forgetting all the pains of +life in some new idea in natural history, which came to him like +some beneficent fairy to cheer him in his loneliness." The Directory +eventually gave him a small pension, which Napoleon doubled; and at +length, easeful death came to his relief in his seventy-ninth year. A +clause in his will, as to the manner of his funeral, illustrates the +character of the man. He directed that a garland of flowers, provided by +fifty-eight families whom he had established in life, should be the +only decoration of his coffin--a slight but touching image of the more +durable monument which he had erected for himself in his works. + +Such are only a few instances, of the cheerful-working-ness of great +men, which might, indeed, be multiplied to any extent. All large +healthy natures are cheerful as well as hopeful. Their example is also +contagious and diffusive, brightening and cheering all who come within +reach of their influence. It was said of Sir John Malcolm, when he +appeared in a saddened camp in India, that "it was like a gleam of +sunlight,.... no man left him without a smile on his face. He was 'boy +Malcolm' still. It was impossible to resist the fascination of his +genial presence." [173] + +There was the same joyousness of nature about Edmund Burke. Once at a +dinner at Sir Joshua Reynolds's, when the conversation turned upon +the suitability of liquors for particular temperaments, Johnson said, +"Claret is for boys, port for men, and brandy for heroes." "Then," said +Burke, "let me have claret: I love to be a boy, and to have the careless +gaiety of boyish days." And so it is, that there are old young men, and +young old men--some who are as joyous and cheerful as boys in their +old age, and others who are as morose and cheerless as saddened old men +while still in their boyhood. + +In the presence of some priggish youths, we have heard a cheerful old +man declare that, apparently, there would soon be nothing but "old boys" +left. Cheerfulness, being generous and genial, joyous and hearty, is +never the characteristic of prigs. Goethe used to exclaim of goody-goody +persons, "Oh! if they had but the heart to commit an absurdity!" This +was when he thought they wanted heartiness and nature. "Pretty dolls!" +was his expression when speaking of them, and turning away. + +The true basis of cheerfulness is love, hope, and patience. Love evokes +love, and begets loving kindness. Love cherishes hopeful and generous +thoughts of others. It is charitable, gentle, and truthful. It is a +discerner of good. It turns to the brightest side of things, and its +face is ever directed towards happiness. It sees "the glory in the +grass, the sunshine on the flower." It encourages happy thoughts, and +lives in an atmosphere of cheerfulness. It costs nothing, and yet is +invaluable; for it blesses its possessor, and grows up in abundant +happiness in the bosoms of others. Even its sorrows are linked with +pleasures, and its very tears are sweet. + +Bentham lays it down as a principle, that a man becomes rich in his own +stock of pleasures in proportion to the amount he distributes to others. +His kindness will evoke kindness, and his happiness be increased by his +own benevolence. "Kind words," he says, "cost no more than unkind ones. +Kind words produce kind actions, not only on the part of him to whom +they are addressed, but on the part of him by whom they are employed; +and this not incidentally only, but habitually, in virtue of the +principle of association.".... "It may indeed happen, that the effort +of beneficence may not benefit those for whom it was intended; but when +wisely directed, it MUST benefit the person from whom it emanates. Good +and friendly conduct may meet with an unworthy and ungrateful return; +but the absence of gratitude on the part of the receiver cannot destroy +the self-approbation which recompenses the giver, and we may scatter the +seeds of courtesy and kindliness around us at so little expense. Some of +them will inevitably fall on good ground, and grow up into benevolence +in the minds of others; and all of them will bear fruit of happiness +in the bosom whence they spring. Once blest are all the virtues always; +twice blest sometimes." [174] + +The poet Rogers used to tell a story of a little girl, a great favourite +with every one who knew her. Some one said to her, "Why does everybody +love you so much?" She answered, "I think it is because I love everybody +so much." This little story is capable of a very wide application; for +our happiness as human beings, generally speaking, will be found to be +very much in proportion to the number of things we love, and the number +of things that love us. And the greatest worldly success, however +honestly achieved, will contribute comparatively little to happiness, +unless it be accompanied by a lively benevolence towards every human +being. + +Kindness is indeed a great power in the world. Leigh Hunt has truly said +that "Power itself hath not one half the might of gentleness." Men are +always best governed through their affections. There is a French proverb +which says that, "LES HOMMES SE PRENNENT PAR LA DOUCEUR," and a coarser +English one, to the effect that "More wasps are caught by honey than by +vinegar." "Every act of kindness," says Bentham, "is in fact an exercise +of power, and a stock of friendship laid up; and why should not power +exercise itself in the production of pleasure as of pain?" + +Kindness does not consist in gifts, but in gentleness and generosity +of spirit. Men may give their money which comes from the purse, and +withhold their kindness which comes from the heart. The kindness that +displays itself in giving money, does not amount to much, and often +does quite as much harm as good; but the kindness of true sympathy, of +thoughtful help, is never without beneficent results. + +The good temper that displays itself in kindness must not be confounded +with softness or silliness. In its best form, it is not a merely passive +but an active condition of being. It is not by any means indifferent, +but largely sympathetic. It does not characterise the lowest and most +gelatinous forms of human life, but those that are the most highly +organized. True kindness cherishes and actively promotes all reasonable +instrumentalities for doing practical good in its own time; and, +looking into futurity, sees the same spirit working on for the eventual +elevation and happiness of the race. + +It is the kindly-dispositioned men who are the active men of the +world, while the selfish and the sceptical, who have no love but for +themselves, are its idlers. Buffon used to say, that he would give +nothing for a young man who did not begin life with an enthusiasm of +some sort. It showed that at least he had faith in something good, +lofty, and generous, even if unattainable. + +Egotism, scepticism, and selfishness are always miserable companions +in life, and they are especially unnatural in youth. The egotist is +next-door to a fanatic. Constantly occupied with self, he has no thought +to spare for others. He refers to himself in all things, thinks of +himself, and studies himself, until his own little self becomes his own +little god. + +Worst of all are the grumblers and growlers at fortune--who find that +"whatever is is wrong," and will do nothing to set matters right--who +declare all to be barren "from Dan even to Beersheba." These grumblers +are invariably found the least efficient helpers in the school of life. +As the worst workmen are usually the readiest to "strike," so the least +industrious members of society are the readiest to complain. The worst +wheel of all is the one that creaks. + +There is such a thing as the cherishing of discontent until the feeling +becomes morbid. The jaundiced see everything about them yellow. The +ill-conditioned think all things awry, and the whole world out-of-joint. +All is vanity and vexation of spirit. The little girl in PUNCH, who +found her doll stuffed with bran, and forthwith declared everything to +be hollow and wanted to "go into a nunnery," had her counterpart in real +life. Many full-grown people are quite as morbidly unreasonable. There +are those who may be said to "enjoy bad health;" they regard it as a +sort of property. They can speak of "MY headache"--"MY backache," and +so forth, until in course of time it becomes their most cherished +possession. But perhaps it is the source to them of much coveted +sympathy, without which they might find themselves of comparatively +little importance in the world. + +We have to be on our guard against small troubles, which, by +encouraging, we are apt to magnify into great ones. Indeed, the chief +source of worry in the world is not real but imaginary evil--small +vexations and trivial afflictions. In the presence of a great sorrow, +all petty troubles disappear; but we are too ready to take some +cherished misery to our bosom, and to pet it there. Very often it is the +child of our fancy; and, forgetful of the many means of happiness which +lie within our reach, we indulge this spoilt child of ours until +it masters us. We shut the door against cheerfulness, and surround +ourselves with gloom. The habit gives a colouring to our life. We grow +querulous, moody, and unsympathetic. Our conversation becomes full of +regrets. We are harsh in our judgment of others. We are unsociable, and +think everybody else is so. We make our breast a storehouse of pain, +which we inflict upon ourselves as well as upon others. + +This disposition is encouraged by selfishness: indeed, it is for the +most part selfishness unmingled, without any admixture of sympathy +or consideration for the feelings of those about us. It is simply +wilfulness in the wrong direction. It is wilful, because it might be +avoided. Let the necessitarians argue as they may, freedom of will and +action is the possession of every man and woman. It is sometimes our +glory, and very often it is our shame: all depends upon the manner in +which it is used. We can choose to look at the bright side of things, +or at the dark. We can follow good and eschew evil thoughts. We can be +wrongheaded and wronghearted, or the reverse, as we ourselves determine. +The world will be to each one of us very much what we make it. The +cheerful are its real possessors, for the world belongs to those who +enjoy it. + +It must, however, be admitted that there are cases beyond the reach of +the moralist. Once, when a miserable-looking dyspeptic called upon a +leading physician and laid his case before him, "Oh!" said the doctor, +"you only want a good hearty laugh: go and see Grimaldi." "Alas!" said +the miserable patient, "I am Grimaldi!" So, when Smollett, oppressed +by disease, travelled over Europe in the hope of finding health, he +saw everything through his own jaundiced eyes. "I'll tell it," said +Smellfungus, "to the world." "You had better tell it," said Sterne, "to +your physician." The restless, anxious, dissatisfied temper, that is +ever ready to run and meet care half-way, is fatal to all happiness and +peace of mind. How often do we see men and women set themselves about as +if with stiff bristles, so that one dare scarcely approach them without +fear of being pricked! For want of a little occasional command over +one's temper, an amount of misery is occasioned in society which is +positively frightful. Thus enjoyment is turned into bitterness, and +life becomes like a journey barefooted amongst thorns and briers and +prickles. "Though sometimes small evils," says Richard Sharp, "like +invisible insects, inflict great pain, and a single hair may stop a vast +machine, yet the chief secret of comfort lies in not suffering trifles +to vex us; and in prudently cultivating an undergrowth of small +pleasures, since very few great ones, alas! are let on long leases." [175] + +St. Francis de Sales treats the same topic from the Christian's point +of view. "How carefully," he says, "we should cherish the little virtues +which spring up at the foot of the Cross!" When the saint was asked, +"What virtues do you mean?" he replied: "Humility, patience, meekness, +benignity, bearing one another's burden, condescension, softness +of heart, cheerfulness, cordiality, compassion, forgiving injuries, +simplicity, candour--all, in short of that sort of little virtues. They, +like unobtrusive violets, love the shade; like them are sustained by +dew; and though, like them, they make little show, they shed a sweet +odour on all around." [176] + +And again he said: "If you would fall into any extreme, let it be on +the side of gentleness. The human mind is so constructed that it resists +rigour, and yields to softness. A mild word quenches anger, as water +quenches the rage of fire; and by benignity any soil may be rendered +fruitful. Truth, uttered with courtesy, is heaping coals of fire on the +head--or rather, throwing roses in the face. How can we resist a foe +whose weapons are pearls and diamonds?" [177] + +Meeting evils by anticipation is not the way to overcome them. If we +perpetually carry our burdens about with us, they will soon bear us +down under their load. When evil comes, we must deal with it bravely and +hopefully. What Perthes wrote to a young man, who seemed to him inclined +to take trifles as well as sorrows too much to heart, was doubtless good +advice: "Go forward with hope and confidence. This is the advice given +thee by an old man, who has had a full share of the burden and heat of +life's day. We must ever stand upright, happen what may, and for this +end we must cheerfully resign ourselves to the varied influences of this +many-coloured life. You may call this levity, and you are partly right; +for flowers and colours are but trifles light as air, but such levity is +a constituent portion of our human nature, without which it would sink +under the weight of time. While on earth we must still play with earth, +and with that which blooms and fades upon its breast. The consciousness +of this mortal life being but the way to a higher goal, by no means +precludes our playing with it cheerfully; and, indeed, we must do so, +otherwise our energy in action will entirely fail." [178] + +Cheerfulness also accompanies patience, which is one of the main +conditions of happiness and success in life. "He that will be served," +says George Herbert, "must be patient." It was said of the cheerful and +patient King Alfred, that "good fortune accompanied him like a gift of +God." Marlborough's expectant calmness was great, and a principal secret +of his success as a general. "Patience will overcome all things," he +wrote to Godolphin, in 1702. In the midst of a great emergency, while +baffled and opposed by his allies, he said, "Having done all that is +possible, we should submit with patience." + +Last and chiefest of blessings is Hope, the most common of possessions; +for, as Thales the philosopher said, "Even those who have nothing else +have hope." Hope is the great helper of the poor. It has even been +styled "the poor man's bread." It is also the sustainer and inspirer +of great deeds. It is recorded of Alexander the Great, that when he +succeeded to the throne of Macedon, he gave away amongst his friends +the greater part of the estates which his father had left him; and when +Perdiccas asked him what he reserved for himself, Alexander answered, +"The greatest possession of all,--Hope!" + +The pleasures of memory, however great, are stale compared with those +of hope; for hope is the parent of all effort and endeavour; and "every +gift of noble origin is breathed upon by Hope's perpetual breath." It +may be said to be the moral engine that moves the world, and keeps it in +action; and at the end of all there stands before us what Robertson of +Ellon styled "The Great Hope." "If it were not for Hope," said Byron, +"where would the Future be?--in hell! It is useless to say where the +Present is, for most of us know; and as for the Past, WHAT predominates +in memory?--Hope baffled. ERGO, in all human affairs it is Hope, Hope, +Hope!" [179] + + + + +CHAPTER IX.--MANNER--ART. + + + + "We must be gentle, now we are gentlemen."--SHAKSPEARE. + + "Manners are not idle, but the fruit + Of noble nature and of loyal mind."--TENNYSON. + + "A beautiful behaviour is better than a beautiful form; it + gives a higher pleasure than statues and pictures; it is the + finest of the fine arts."--EMERSON. + + "Manners are often too much neglected; they are most + important to men, no less than to women.... Life is too + short to get over a bad manner; besides, manners are the + shadows of virtues."--THE REV. SIDNEY SMITH. + + +Manner is one of the principal external graces of character. It is the +ornament of action, and often makes the commonest offices beautiful by +the way in which it performs them. It is a happy way of doing things, +adorning even the smallest details of life, and contributing to render +it, as a whole, agreeable and pleasant. + +Manner is not so frivolous or unimportant as some may think it to be; +for it tends greatly to facilitate the business of life, as well as +to sweeten and soften social intercourse. "Virtue itself," says Bishop +Middleton, "offends, when coupled with a forbidding manner." + +Manner has a good deal to do with the estimation in which men are held +by the world; and it has often more influence in the government of +others than qualities of much greater depth and substance. A manner at +once gracious and cordial is among the greatest aids to success, and +many there are who fail for want of it. [181] For a great deal depends +upon first impressions; and these are usually favourable or otherwise +according to a man's courteousness and civility. + +While rudeness and gruffness bar doors and shut hearts, kindness and +propriety of behaviour, in which good manners consist, act as an "open +sesame" everywhere. Doors unbar before them, and they are a passport to +the hearts of everybody, young and old. + +There is a common saying that "Manners make the man;" but this is not so +true as that "Man makes the manners." A man may be gruff, and even +rude, and yet be good at heart and of sterling character; yet he would +doubtless be a much more agreeable, and probably a much more useful man, +were he to exhibit that suavity of disposition and courtesy of manner +which always gives a finish to the true gentleman. + +Mrs. Hutchinson, in the noble portraiture of her husband, to which +we have already had occasion to refer, thus describes his manly +courteousness and affability of disposition:--"I cannot say whether +he were more truly magnanimous or less proud; he never disdained the +meanest person, nor flattered the greatest; he had a loving and sweet +courtesy to the poorest, and would often employ many spare hours with +the commonest soldiers and poorest labourers; but still so ordering his +familiarity, that it never raised them to a contempt, but entertained +still at the same time a reverence and love of him." [182] + +A man's manner, to a certain extent, indicates his character. It is +the external exponent of his inner nature. It indicates his taste, his +feelings, and his temper, as well as the society to which he has been +accustomed. There is a conventional manner, which is of comparatively +little importance; but the natural manner, the outcome of natural gifts, +improved by careful self-culture, signifies a great deal. + +Grace of manner is inspired by sentiment, which is a source of no slight +enjoyment to a cultivated mind. Viewed in this light, sentiment is of +almost as much importance as talents and acquirements, while it is +even more influential in giving the direction to a man s tastes and +character. Sympathy is the golden key that unlocks the hearts of others. +It not only teaches politeness and courtesy, but gives insight and +unfolds wisdom, and may almost be regarded as the crowning grace of +humanity. + +Artificial rules of politeness are of very little use. What passes by +the name of "Etiquette" is often of the essence of unpoliteness and +untruthfulness. It consists in a great measure of posture-making, and +is easily seen through. Even at best, etiquette is but a substitute for +good manners, though it is often but their mere counterfeit. + +Good manners consist, for the most part, in courteousness and kindness. +Politeness has been described as the art of showing, by external signs, +the internal regard we have for others. But one may be perfectly polite +to another without necessarily having a special regard for him. Good +manners are neither more nor less than beautiful behaviour. It has been +well said, that "a beautiful form is better than a beautiful face, and +a beautiful behaviour is better than a beautiful form; it gives a higher +pleasure than statues or pictures--it is the finest of the fine arts." + +The truest politeness comes of sincerity. It must be the outcome of the +heart, or it will make no lasting impression; for no amount of polish +can dispense with truthfulness. The natural character must be allowed to +appear, freed of its angularities and asperities. Though politeness, +in its best form, should [18as St. Francis de Sales says] resemble +water--"best when clearest, most simple, and without taste,"--yet genius +in a man will always cover many defects of manner, and much will +be excused to the strong and the original. Without genuineness and +individuality, human life would lose much of its interest and variety, +as well as its manliness and robustness of character. + +True courtesy is kind. It exhibits itself in the disposition to +contribute to the happiness of others, and in refraining from all that +may annoy them. It is grateful as well as kind, and readily acknowledges +kind actions. Curiously enough, Captain Speke found this quality of +character recognised even by the natives of Uganda on the shores of +Lake Nyanza, in the heart of Africa, where, he says. "Ingratitude, or +neglecting to thank a person for a benefit conferred, is punishable." + +True politeness especially exhibits itself in regard for the personality +of others. A man will respect the individuality of another if he wishes +to be respected himself. He will have due regard for his views and +opinions, even though they differ from his own. The well-mannered man +pays a compliment to another, and sometimes even secures his respect, +by patiently listening to him. He is simply tolerant and forbearant, and +refrains from judging harshly; and harsh judgments of others will almost +invariably provoke harsh judgments of ourselves. + +The unpolite impulsive man will, however, sometimes rather lose his +friend than his joke. He may surely be pronounced a very foolish person +who secures another's hatred at the price of a moment's gratification. +It was a saying of Brunel the engineer--himself one of the +kindest-natured of men--that "spite and ill-nature are among the most +expensive luxuries in life." Dr. Johnson once said: "Sir, a man has no +more right to SAY an uncivil thing than to ACT one--no more right to say +a rude thing to another than to knock him down." + +A sensible polite person does not assume to be better or wiser or richer +than his neighbour. He does not boast of his rank, or his birth, or his +country; or look down upon others because they have not been born to +like privileges with himself. He does not brag of his achievements or +of his calling, or "talk shop" whenever he opens his mouth. On the +contrary, in all that he says or does, he will be modest, unpretentious, +unassuming; exhibiting his true character in performing rather than in +boasting, in doing rather than in talking. + +Want of respect for the feelings of others usually originates in +selfishness, and issues in hardness and repulsiveness of manner. It may +not proceed from malignity so much as from want of sympathy and want of +delicacy--a want of that perception of, and attention to, those little +and apparently trifling things by which pleasure is given or +pain occasioned to others. Indeed, it may be said that in +self-sacrificingness, so to speak, in the ordinary intercourse of life, +mainly consists the difference between being well and ill bred. + +Without some degree of self-restraint in society, a man may be found +almost insufferable. No one has pleasure in holding intercourse with +such a person, and he is a constant source of annoyance to those about +him. For want of self-restraint, many men are engaged all their lives +in fighting with difficulties of their own making, and rendering success +impossible by their own crossgrained ungentleness; whilst others, it +may be much less gifted, make their way and achieve success by simple +patience, equanimity, and self-control. + +It has been said that men succeed in life quite as much by their temper +as by their talents. However this may be, it is certain that their +happiness depends mainly on their temperament, especially upon their +disposition to be cheerful; upon their complaisance, kindliness of +manner, and willingness to oblige others--details of conduct which are +like the small-change in the intercourse of life, and are always in +request. + +Men may show their disregard of others in various unpolite ways--as, +for instance, by neglect of propriety in dress, by the absence of +cleanliness, or by indulging in repulsive habits. The slovenly dirty +person, by rendering himself physically disagreeable, sets the tastes +and feelings of others at defiance, and is rude and uncivil only under +another form. + +David Ancillon, a Huguenot preacher of singular attractiveness, who +studied and composed his sermons with the greatest care, was accustomed +to say "that it was showing too little esteem for the public to take +no pains in preparation, and that a man who should appear on a +ceremonial-day in his nightcap and dressing-gown, could not commit a +greater breach of civility." + +The perfection of manner is ease--that it attracts no man's notice +as such, but is natural and unaffected. Artifice is incompatible with +courteous frankness of manner. Rochefoucauld has said that "nothing so +much prevents our being natural as the desire of appearing so." Thus we +come round again to sincerity and truthfulness, which find their outward +expression in graciousness, urbanity, kindliness, and consideration for +the feelings of others. The frank and cordial man sets those about him +at their ease. He warms and elevates them by his presence, and wins +all hearts. Thus manner, in its highest form, like character, becomes a +genuine motive power. + +"The love and admiration," says Canon Kingsley, "which that truly brave +and loving man, Sir Sydney Smith, won from every one, rich and poor, +with whom he came in contact seems to have arisen from the one fact, +that without, perhaps, having any such conscious intention, he treated +rich and poor, his own servants and the noblemen his guests, alike, and +alike courteously, considerately, cheerfully, affectionately--so leaving +a blessing, and reaping a blessing, wherever he went." + +Good manners are usually supposed to be the peculiar characteristic of +persons gently born and bred, and of persons moving in the higher rather +than in the lower spheres of society. And this is no doubt to a great +extent true, because of the more favourable surroundings of the former +in early life. But there is no reason why the poorest classes should not +practise good manners towards each other as well as the richest. + +Men who toil with their hands, equally with those who do not, may +respect themselves and respect one another; and it is by their demeanour +to each other--in other words, by their manners--that self-respect as +well as mutual respect are indicated. There is scarcely a moment in +their lives, the enjoyment of which might not be enhanced by kindliness +of this sort--in the workshop, in the street, or at home. The civil +workman will exercise increased power amongst his class, and gradually +induce them to imitate him by his persistent steadiness, civility, and +kindness. Thus Benjamin Franklin, when a working-man, is said to have +reformed the habits of an entire workshop. + +One may be polite and gentle with very little money in his purse. +Politeness goes far, yet costs nothing. It is the cheapest of all +commodities. It is the humblest of the fine arts, yet it is so useful +and so pleasure-giving, that it might almost be ranked amongst the +humanities. + +Every nation may learn something of others; and if there be one thing +more than another that the English working-class might afford to +copy with advantage from their Continental neighbours, it is their +politeness. The French and Germans, of even the humblest classes, are +gracious in manner, complaisant, cordial, and well-bred. The foreign +workman lifts his cap and respectfully salutes his fellow-workman in +passing. There is no sacrifice of manliness in this, but grace and +dignity. Even the lowest poverty of the foreign workpeople is not +misery, simply because it is cheerful. Though not receiving one-half the +income which our working-classes do, they do not sink into wretchedness +and drown their troubles in drink; but contrive to make the best of +life, and to enjoy it even amidst poverty. + +Good taste is a true economist. It may be practised on small means, +and sweeten the lot of labour as well as of ease. It is all the more +enjoyed, indeed, when associated with industry and the performance of +duty. Even the lot of poverty is elevated by taste. It exhibits itself +in the economies of the household. It gives brightness and grace to the +humblest dwelling. It produces refinement, it engenders goodwill, and +creates an atmosphere of cheerfulness. Thus good taste, associated with +kindliness, sympathy, and intelligence, may elevate and adorn even the +lowliest lot. + +The first and best school of manners, as of character, is always the +Home, where woman is the teacher. The manners of society at large are +but the reflex of the manners of our collective homes, neither better +nor worse. Yet, with all the disadvantages of ungenial homes, men may +practise self-culture of manner as of intellect, and learn by good +examples to cultivate a graceful and agreeable behaviour towards others. +Most men are like so many gems in the rough, which need polishing by +contact with other and better natures, to bring out their full beauty +and lustre. Some have but one side polished, sufficient only to show the +delicate graining of the interior; but to bring out the full qualities +of the gem needs the discipline of experience, and contact with the best +examples of character in the intercourse of daily life. + +A good deal of the success of manner consists in tact, and it is because +women, on the whole, have greater tact than men, that they prove its +most influential teachers. They have more self-restraint than men, +and are naturally more gracious and polite. They possess an intuitive +quickness and readiness of action, have a keener insight into character, +and exhibit greater discrimination and address. In matters of social +detail, aptness and dexterity come to them like nature; and hence +well-mannered men usually receive their best culture by mixing in the +society of gentle and adroit women. + +Tact is an intuitive art of manner, which carries one through a +difficulty better than either talent or knowledge. "Talent," says a +public writer, "is power: tact is skill. Talent is weight: tact is +momentum. Talent knows what to do: tact knows how to do it. Talent makes +a man respectable: tact makes him respected. Talent is wealth: tact is +ready-money." + +The difference between a man of quick tact and of no tact whatever +was exemplified in an interview which once took place between Lord +Palmerston and Mr. Behnes, the sculptor. At the last sitting which Lord +Palmerston gave him, Behnes opened the conversation with--"Any news, +my Lord, from France? How do we stand with Louis Napoleon?" The Foreign +Secretary raised his eyebrows for an instant, and quietly replied, +"Really, Mr. Behnes, I don't know: I have not seen the newspapers!" Poor +Behnes, with many excellent qualities and much real talent, was one of +the many men who entirely missed their way in life through want of tact. + +Such is the power of manner, combined with tact, that Wilkes, one of the +ugliest of men, used to say, that in winning the graces of a lady, there +was not more than three days' difference between him and the handsomest +man in England. + +But this reference to Wilkes reminds us that too much importance must +not be attached to manner, for it does not afford any genuine test of +character. The well-mannered man may, like Wilkes, be merely acting a +part, and that for an immoral purpose. Manner, like other fine arts, +gives pleasure, and is exceedingly agreeable to look upon; but it may be +assumed as a disguise, as men "assume a virtue though they have it not." +It is but the exterior sign of good conduct, but may be no more than +skin-deep. The most highly-polished person may be thoroughly depraved +in heart; and his superfine manners may, after all, only consist in +pleasing gestures and in fine phrases. + +On the other hand, it must be acknowledged that some of the richest and +most generous natures have been wanting in the graces of courtesy and +politeness. As a rough rind sometimes covers the sweetest fruit, so a +rough exterior often conceals a kindly and hearty nature. The blunt man +may seem even rude in manner, and yet, at heart, be honest, kind, and +gentle. + +John Knox and Martin Luther were by no means distinguished for their +urbanity. They had work to do which needed strong and determined +rather than well-mannered men. Indeed, they were both thought to be +unnecessarily harsh and violent in their manner. "And who art thou," +said Mary Queen of Scots to Knox, "that presumest to school the nobles +and sovereign of this realm?"--"Madam," replied Knox, "a subject born +within the same." It is said that his boldness, or roughness, more than +once made Queen Mary weep. When Regent Morton heard of this, he said, +"Well, 'tis better that women should weep than bearded men." + +As Knox was retiring from the Queen's presence on one occasion, he +overheard one of the royal attendants say to another, "He is not +afraid!" Turning round upon them, he said: "And why should the pleasing +face of a gentleman frighten me? I have looked on the faces of angry +men, and yet have not been afraid beyond measure." When the Reformer, +worn-out by excess of labour and anxiety, was at length laid to his +rest, the Regent, looking down into the open grave, exclaimed, in words +which made a strong impression from their aptness and truth--"There lies +he who never feared the face of man!" + +Luther also was thought by some to be a mere compound of violence and +ruggedness. But, as in the case of Knox, the times in which he lived +were rude and violent; and the work he had to do could scarcely have +been accomplished with gentleness and suavity. To rouse Europe from its +lethargy, he had to speak and to write with force, and even vehemence. +Yet Luther's vehemence was only in words. His apparently rude exterior +covered a warm heart. In private life he was gentle, loving, and +affectionate. He was simple and homely, even to commonness. Fond of all +common pleasures and enjoyments, he was anything but an austere man, +or a bigot; for he was hearty, genial, and even "jolly." Luther was the +common people's hero in his lifetime, and he remains so in Germany to +this day. + +Samuel Johnson was rude and often gruff in manner. But he had been +brought up in a rough school. Poverty in early life had made him +acquainted with strange companions. He had wandered in the streets with +Savage for nights together, unable between them to raise money enough +to pay for a bed. When his indomitable courage and industry at length +secured for him a footing in society, he still bore upon him the scars +of his early sorrows and struggles. He was by nature strong and robust, +and his experience made him unaccommodating and self-asserting. When +he was once asked why he was not invited to dine out as Garrick was, +he answered, "Because great lords and ladies did not like to have their +mouths stopped;" and Johnson was a notorious mouth-stopper, though what +he said was always worth listening to. + +Johnson's companions spoke of him as "Ursa Major;" but, as Goldsmith +generously said of him, "No man alive has a more tender heart; he has +nothing of the bear about him but his skin." The kindliness of Johnson's +nature was shown on one occasion by the manner in which he assisted a +supposed lady in crossing Fleet Street. He gave her his arm, and led her +across, not observing that she was in liquor at the time. But the spirit +of the act was not the less kind on that account. On the other hand, +the conduct of the bookseller on whom Johnson once called to solicit +employment, and who, regarding his athletic but uncouth person, told him +he had better "go buy a porter's knot and carry trunks," in howsoever +bland tones the advice might have been communicated, was simply brutal. + +While captiousness of manner, and the habit of disputing and +contradicting everything said, is chilling and repulsive, the opposite +habit of assenting to, and sympathising with, every statement made, or +emotion expressed, is almost equally disagreeable. It is unmanly, and is +felt to be dishonest. "It may seem difficult," says Richard Sharp, "to +steer always between bluntness and plain-dealing, between giving +merited praise and lavishing indiscriminate flattery; but it is very +easy--good-humour, kindheartedness, and perfect simplicity, being all +that are requisite to do what is right in the right way." [183] + +At the same time, many are unpolite--not because they mean to be so, but +because they are awkward, and perhaps know no better. Thus, when Gibbon +had published the second and third volumes of his 'Decline and Fall,' +the Duke of Cumberland met him one day, and accosted him with, "How do +you do, Mr. Gibbon? I see you are always AT IT in the old way--SCRIBBLE, +SCRIBBLE, SCRIBBLE!" The Duke probably intended to pay the author a +compliment, but did not know how better to do it, than in this blunt and +apparently rude way. + +Again, many persons are thought to be stiff, reserved, and proud, when +they are only shy. Shyness is characteristic of most people of Teutonic +race. It has been styled "the English mania," but it pervades, to +a greater or less degree, all the Northern nations. The ordinary +Englishman, when he travels abroad, carries his shyness with him. He +is stiff, awkward, ungraceful, undemonstrative, and apparently +unsympathetic; and though he may assume a brusqueness of manner, the +shyness is there, and cannot be wholly concealed. The naturally graceful +and intensely social French cannot understand such a character; and the +Englishman is their standing joke--the subject of their most ludicrous +caricatures. George Sand attributes the rigidity of the natives of +Albion to a stock of FLUIDE BRITANNIQUE which they carry about with +them, that renders them impassive under all circumstances, and "as +impervious to the atmosphere of the regions they traverse as a mouse in +the centre of an exhausted receiver." [184] + +The average Frenchman or Irishman excels the average Englishman, German, +or American in courtesy and ease of manner, simply because it is +his nature. They are more social and less self-dependent than men of +Teutonic origin, more demonstrative and less reticent; they are more +communicative, conversational, and freer in their intercourse with +each other in all respects; whilst men of German race are comparatively +stiff, reserved, shy, and awkward. At the same time, a people may +exhibit ease, gaiety, and sprightliness of character, and yet possess +no deeper qualities calculated to inspire respect. They may have every +grace of manner, and yet be heartless, frivolous, selfish. The character +may be on the surface only, and without any solid qualities for a +foundation. + +There can be no doubt as to which of the two sorts of people--the easy +and graceful, or the stiff and awkward--it is most agreeable to meet, +either in business, in society, or in the casual intercourse of life. +Which make the fastest friends, the truest men of their word, the most +conscientious performers of their duty, is an entirely different matter. + +The dry GAUCHE Englishman--to use the French phrase, L'ANGLAIS +EMPETRE--is certainly a somewhat disagreeable person to meet at first. +He looks as if he had swallowed a poker. He is shy himself, and the +cause of shyness in others. He is stiff, not because he is proud, but +because he is shy; and he cannot shake it off, even if he would. Indeed, +we should not be surprised to find that even the clever writer who +describes the English Philistine in all his enormity of awkward manner +and absence of grace, were himself as shy as a bat. + +When two shy men meet, they seem like a couple of icicles. They sidle +away and turn their backs on each other in a room, or when travelling +creep into the opposite corners of a railway-carriage. When shy +Englishmen are about to start on a journey by railway, they walk +along the train, to discover an empty compartment in which to bestow +themselves; and when once ensconced, they inwardly hate the next man who +comes in. So; on entering the dining-room of their club, each shy man +looks out for an unoccupied table, until sometimes--all the tables in +the room are occupied by single diners. All this apparent unsociableness +is merely shyness--the national characteristic of the Englishman. + +"The disciples of Confucius," observes Mr. Arthur Helps, "say that +when in the presence of the prince, his manner displayed RESPECTFUL +UNEASINESS. There could hardly be given any two words which more fitly +describe the manner of most Englishmen when in society." Perhaps it +is due to this feeling that Sir Henry Taylor, in his 'Statesman,' +recommends that, in the management of interviews, the minister should +be as "near to the door" as possible; and, instead of bowing his visitor +out, that he should take refuge, at the end of an interview, in the +adjoining room. "Timid and embarrassed men," he says, "will sit as if +they were rooted to the spot, when they are conscious that they have +to traverse the length of a room in their retreat. In every case, an +interview will find a more easy and pleasing termination WHEN THE DOOR +IS AT HAND as the last words are spoken." [185] + +The late Prince Albert, one of the gentlest and most amiable, was also +one of the most retiring of men. He struggled much against his sense +of shyness, but was never able either to conquer or conceal it. His +biographer, in explaining its causes, says: "It was the shyness of a +very delicate nature, that is not sure it will please, and is without +the confidence and the vanity which often go to form characters that are +outwardly more genial." [186] + +But the Prince shared this defect with some of the greatest of +Englishmen. Sir Isaac Newton was probably the shyest man of his age. He +kept secret for a time some of his greatest discoveries, for fear of the +notoriety they might bring him. His discovery of the Binomial Theorem +and its most important applications, as well as his still greater +discovery of the Law of Gravitation, were not published for years after +they were made; and when he communicated to Collins his solution of the +theory of the moon's rotation round the earth, he forbade him to insert +his name in connection with it in the 'Philosophical Transactions,' +saying: "It would, perhaps, increase my acquaintance--the thing which I +chiefly study to decline." + +From all that can be learnt of Shakspeare, it is to be inferred that he +was an exceedingly shy man. The manner in which his plays were sent +into the world--for it is not known that he edited or authorized +the publication of a single one of them--and the dates at which they +respectively appeared, are mere matters of conjecture. His appearance in +his own plays in second and even third-rate parts--his indifference to +reputation, and even his apparent aversion to be held in repute by his +contemporaries--his disappearance from London [18the seat and centre +of English histrionic art] so soon as he had realised a moderate +competency--and his retirement about the age of forty, for the remainder +of his days, to a life of obscurity in a small town in the midland +counties--all seem to unite in proving the shrinking nature of the man, +and his unconquerable shyness. + +It is also probable that, besides being shy--and his shyness may, like +that of Byron, have been increased by his limp--Shakspeare did not +possess in any high degree the gift of hope. It is a remarkable +circumstance, that whilst the great dramatist has, in the course of +his writings, copiously illustrated all other gifts, affections, and +virtues, the passages are very rare in which Hope is mentioned, and then +it is usually in a desponding and despairing tone, as when he says: + + "The miserable hath no other medicine, But only Hope." + +Many of his sonnets breathe the spirit of despair and hopelessness. [187] +He laments his lameness; [188] apologizes for his profession as an actor; +[189] expresses his "fear of trust" in himself, and his hopeless, perhaps +misplaced, affection; [1810] anticipates a "coffin'd doom;" and utters his +profoundly pathetic cry "for restful death." + +It might naturally be supposed that Shakspeare's profession of an actor, +and his repeated appearances in public, would speedily overcome his +shyness, did such exist. But inborn shyness, when strong, is not so +easily conquered. [1811] Who could have believed that the late Charles +Mathews, who entertained crowded houses night after night, was naturally +one of the shyest of men? He would even make long circuits [18lame though +he was] along the byelanes of London to avoid recognition. His wife says +of him, that he looked "sheepish" and confused if recognised; and that +his eyes would fall, and his colour would mount, if he heard his name +even whispered in passing along the streets. [1812] + +Nor would it at first sight have been supposed that Lord Byron was +affected with shyness, and yet he was a victim to it; his biographer +relating that, while on a visit to Mrs. Pigot, at Southwell, when he saw +strangers approaching, he would instantly jump out of the window, and +escape on to the lawn to avoid them. + +But a still more recent and striking instance is that of the late +Archbishop Whately, who, in the early part of his life, was painfully +oppressed by the sense of shyness. When at Oxford, his white rough coat +and white hat obtained for him the soubriquet of "The White Bear;" and +his manners, according to his own account of himself, corresponded with +the appellation. He was directed, by way of remedy, to copy the example +of the best-mannered men he met in society; but the attempt to do this +only increased his shyness, and he failed. He found that he was all the +while thinking of himself, rather than of others; whereas thinking of +others, rather than of one's self, is of the true essence of politeness. + +Finding that he was making no progress, Whately was driven to utter +despair; and then he said to himself: "Why should I endure this torture +all my life to no purpose? I would bear it still if there was any +success to be hoped for; but since there is not, I will die quietly, +without taking any more doses. I have tried my very utmost, and find +that I must be as awkward as a bear all my life, in spite of it. I will +endeavour to think as little about it as a bear, and make up my mind to +endure what can't be cured." From this time forth he struggled to shake +off all consciousness as to manner, and to disregard censure as much +as possible. In adopting this course, he says: "I succeeded beyond +my expectations; for I not only got rid of the personal suffering of +shyness, but also of most of those faults of manner which consciousness +produces; and acquired at once an easy and natural manner--careless, +indeed, in the extreme, from its originating in a stern defiance of +opinion, which I had convinced myself must be ever against me; rough +and awkward, for smoothness and grace are quite out of my way, and, +of course, tutorially pedantic; but unconscious, and therefore giving +expression to that goodwill towards men which I really feel; and these, +I believe, are the main points." [1813] + +Washington, who was an Englishman in his lineage, was also one in his +shyness. He is described incidentally by Mr. Josiah Quincy, as "a +little stiff in his person, not a little formal in his manner, and not +particularly at ease in the presence of strangers. He had the air of +a country gentleman not accustomed to mix much in society, perfectly +polite, but not easy in his address and conversation, and not graceful +in his movements." + +Although we are not accustomed to think of modern Americans as shy, the +most distinguished American author of our time was probably the shyest +of men. Nathaniel Hawthorne was shy to the extent of morbidity. We have +observed him, when a stranger entered the room where he was, turn his +back for the purpose of avoiding recognition. And yet, when the crust +of his shyness was broken, no man could be more cordial and genial than +Hawthorne. + +We observe a remark in one of Hawthorne's lately-published 'Notebooks,' +[1814] that on one occasion he met Mr. Helps in society, and found him +"cold." And doubtless Mr. Helps thought the same of him. It was only the +case of two shy men meeting, each thinking the other stiff and reserved, +and parting before their mutual film of shyness had been removed by a +little friendly intercourse. Before pronouncing a hasty judgment in such +cases, it would be well to bear in mind the motto of Helvetius, which +Bentham says proved such a real treasure to him: "POUR AIMER LES HOMMES, +IL FAUT ATTENDRE PEU." + +We have thus far spoken of shyness as a defect. But there is another way +of looking at it; for even shyness has its bright side, and contains +an element of good. Shy men and shy races are ungraceful and +undemonstrative, because, as regards society at large, they are +comparatively unsociable. They do not possess those elegances of manner, +acquired by free intercourse, which distinguish the social races, +because their tendency is to shun society rather than to seek it. +They are shy in the presence of strangers, and shy even in their own +families. They hide their affections under a robe of reserve, and when +they do give way to their feelings, it is only in some very hidden +inner-chamber. And yet the feelings ARE there, and not the less healthy +and genuine that they are not made the subject of exhibition to others. + +It was not a little characteristic of the ancient Germans, that the more +social and demonstrative peoples by whom they were surrounded should +have characterised them as the NIEMEC, or Dumb men. And the same +designation might equally apply to the modern English, as compared, for +example, with their nimbler, more communicative and vocal, and in all +respects more social neighbours, the modern French and Irish. + +But there is one characteristic which marks the English people, as it +did the races from which they have mainly sprung, and that is +their intense love of Home. Give the Englishman a home, and he is +comparatively indifferent to society. For the sake of a holding which he +can call his own, he will cross the seas, plant himself on the prairie +or amidst the primeval forest, and make for himself a home. The solitude +of the wilderness has no fears for him; the society of his wife and +family is sufficient, and he cares for no other. Hence it is that the +people of Germanic origin, from whom the English and Americans have +alike sprung, make the best of colonizers, and are now rapidly extending +themselves as emigrants and settlers in all parts of the habitable +globe. + +The French have never made any progress as colonizers, mainly because +of their intense social instincts--the secret of their graces of +manner,--and because they can never forget that they are Frenchmen. [1815] +It seemed at one time within the limits of probability that the French +would occupy the greater part of the North American continent. From +Lower Canada their line of forts extended up the St. Lawrence, and from +Fond du Lac on Lake Superior, along the River St. Croix, all down the +Mississippi, to its mouth at New Orleans. But the great, self-reliant, +industrious "Niemec," from a fringe of settlements along the seacoast, +silently extended westward, settling and planting themselves everywhere +solidly upon the soil; and nearly all that now remains of the original +French occupation of America, is the French colony of Acadia, in Lower +Canada. + +And even there we find one of the most striking illustrations of +that intense sociability of the French which keeps them together, and +prevents their spreading over and planting themselves firmly in a new +country, as it is the instinct of the men of Teutonic race to do. While, +in Upper Canada, the colonists of English and Scotch descent penetrate +the forest and the wilderness, each settler living, it may be, miles +apart from his nearest neighbour, the Lower Canadians of French descent +continue clustered together in villages, usually consisting of a line of +houses on either side of the road, behind which extend their long +strips of farm-land, divided and subdivided to an extreme tenuity. They +willingly submit to all the inconveniences of this method of farming for +the sake of each other's society, rather than betake themselves to the +solitary backwoods, as English, Germans, and Americans so readily do. +Indeed, not only does the American backwoodsman become accustomed to +solitude, but he prefers it. And in the Western States, when settlers +come too near him, and the country seems to become "overcrowded," he +retreats before the advance of society, and, packing up his "things" in +a waggon, he sets out cheerfully, with his wife and family, to found for +himself a new home in the Far West. + +Thus the Teuton, because of his very shyness, is the true colonizer. +English, Scotch, Germans, and Americans are alike ready to accept +solitude, provided they can but establish a home and maintain a family. +Thus their comparative indifference to society has tended to spread this +race over the earth, to till and to subdue it; while the intense social +instincts of the French, though issuing in much greater gracefulness of +manner, has stood in their way as colonizers; so that, in the countries +in which they have planted themselves--as in Algiers and elsewhere--they +have remained little more than garrisons. [1816] + +There are other qualities besides these, which grow out of the +comparative unsociableness of the Englishman. His shyness throws him +back upon himself, and renders him self-reliant and self-dependent. +Society not being essential to his happiness, he takes refuge in +reading, in study, in invention; or he finds pleasure in industrial +work, and becomes the best of mechanics. He does not fear to entrust +himself to the solitude of the ocean, and he becomes a fisherman, a +sailor, a discoverer. Since the early Northmen scoured the northern +seas, discovered America, and sent their fleets along the shores of +Europe and up the Mediterranean, the seamanship of the men of Teutonic +race has always been in the ascendant. + +The English are inartistic for the same reason that they are unsociable. +They may make good colonists, sailors, and mechanics; but they do not +make good singers, dancers, actors, artistes, or modistes. They neither +dress well, act well, speak well, nor write well. They want style--they +want elegance. What they have to do they do in a straightforward manner, +but without grace. This was strikingly exhibited at an International +Cattle Exhibition held at Paris a few years ago. At the close of the +Exhibition, the competitors came up with the prize animals to receive +the prizes. First came a gay and gallant Spaniard, a magnificent man, +beautifully dressed, who received a prize of the lowest class with an +air and attitude that would have become a grandee of the highest +order. Then came Frenchmen and Italians, full of grace, politeness, and +CHIC--themselves elegantly dressed, and their animals decorated to the +horns with flowers and coloured ribbons harmoniously blended. And +last of all came the exhibitor who was to receive the first prize--a +slouching man, plainly dressed, with a pair of farmer's gaiters on, +and without even a flower in his buttonhole. "Who is he?" asked +the spectators. "Why, he is the Englishman," was the reply. "The +Englishman!--that the representative of a great country!" was the +general exclamation. But it was the Englishman all over. He was sent +there, not to exhibit himself, but to show "the best beast," and he did +it, carrying away the first prize. Yet he would have been nothing the +worse for the flower in his buttonhole. + +To remedy this admitted defect of grace and want of artistic taste +in the English people, a school has sprung up amongst us for the more +general diffusion of fine art. The Beautiful has now its teachers and +preachers, and by some it is almost regarded in the light of a religion. +"The Beautiful is the Good"--"The Beautiful is the True"--"The Beautiful +is the priest of the Benevolent," are among their texts. It is believed +that by the study of art the tastes of the people may be improved; that +by contemplating objects of beauty their nature will become purified; +and that by being thereby withdrawn from sensual enjoyments, their +character will be refined and elevated. + +But though such culture is calculated to be elevating and purifying in +a certain degree, we must not expect too much from it. Grace is a +sweetener and embellisher of life, and as such is worthy of cultivation. +Music, painting, dancing, and the fine arts, are all sources of +pleasure; and though they may not be sensual, yet they are sensuous, +and often nothing more. The cultivation of a taste for beauty of form +or colour, of sound or attitude, has no necessary effect upon the +cultivation of the mind or the development of the character. The +contemplation of fine works of art will doubtless improve the taste, and +excite admiration; but a single noble action done in the sight of men +will more influence the mind, and stimulate the character to imitation, +than the sight of miles of statuary or acres of pictures. For it is +mind, soul, and heart--not taste or art--that make men great. + +It is indeed doubtful whether the cultivation of art--which usually +ministers to luxury--has done so much for human progress as is generally +supposed. It is even possible that its too exclusive culture may +effeminate rather than strengthen the character, by laying it more open +to the temptations of the senses. "It is the nature of the imaginative +temperament cultivated by the arts," says Sir Henry Taylor, "to +undermine the courage, and, by abating strength of character, to render +men more easily subservient--SEQUACES, CEREOS, ET AD MANDATA DUCTILES." +[1817] The gift of the artist greatly differs from that of the thinker; +his highest idea is to mould his subject--whether it be of painting, or +music, or literature--into that perfect grace of form in which thought +[18it may not be of the deepest] finds its apotheosis and immortality. + +Art has usually flourished most during the decadence of nations, when +it has been hired by wealth as the minister of luxury. Exquisite art +and degrading corruption were contemporary in Greece as well as in Rome. +Phidias and Iktinos had scarcely completed the Parthenon, when the glory +of Athens had departed; Phidias died in prison; and the Spartans set up +in the city the memorials of their own triumph and of Athenian defeat. +It was the same in ancient Rome, where art was at its greatest height +when the people were in their most degraded condition. Nero was an +artist, as well as Domitian, two of the greatest monsters of the Empire. +If the "Beautiful" had been the "Good," Commodus must have been one of +the best of men. But according to history he was one of the worst. + +Again, the greatest period of modern Roman art was that in which Pope +Leo X. flourished, of whose reign it has been said, that "profligacy and +licentiousness prevailed amongst the people and clergy, as they had done +almost uncontrolled ever since the pontificate of Alexander VI." In like +manner, the period at which art reached its highest point in the Low +Countries was that which immediately succeeded the destruction of civil +and religious liberty, and the prostration of the national life +under the despotism of Spain. If art could elevate a nation, and +the contemplation of The Beautiful were calculated to make men The +Good--then Paris ought to contain a population of the wisest and best +of human beings. Rome also is a great city of art; and yet there, +the VIRTUS or valour of the ancient Romans has characteristically +degenerated into VERTU, or a taste for knicknacks; whilst, according to +recent accounts, the city itself is inexpressibly foul. [1818] + +Art would sometimes even appear to have a close connection with dirt; +and it is said of Mr. Ruskin, that when searching for works of art in +Venice, his attendant in his explorations would sniff an ill-odour, and +when it was strong would say, "Now we are coming to something very +old and fine!"--meaning in art. [1819] A little common education in +cleanliness, where it is wanting, would probably be much more improving, +as well as wholesome, than any amount of education in fine art. Ruffles +are all very well, but it is folly to cultivate them to the neglect of +the shirt. + +Whilst, therefore, grace of manner, politeness of behaviour, elegance +of demeanour, and all the arts that contribute to make life pleasant and +beautiful, are worthy of cultivation, it must not be at the expense +of the more solid and enduring qualities of honesty, sincerity, and +truthfulness. The fountain of beauty must be in the heart; more than +in the eye, and if art do not tend to produce beautiful life and noble +practice, it will be of comparatively little avail. Politeness of manner +is not worth much, unless accompanied by polite action. Grace may be but +skin-deep--very pleasant and attractive, and yet very heartless. Art is +a source of innocent enjoyment, and an important aid to higher culture; +but unless it leads to higher culture, it will probably be merely +sensuous. And when art is merely sensuous, it is enfeebling and +demoralizing rather than strengthening or elevating. Honest courage +is of greater worth than any amount of grace; purity is better than +elegance; and cleanliness of body, mind, and heart, than any amount of +fine art. + +In fine, while the cultivation of the graces is not to be neglected, +it should ever be held in mind that there is something far higher and +nobler to be aimed at--greater than pleasure, greater than art, greater +than wealth, greater than power, greater than intellect, greater than +genius--and that is, purity and excellence of character. Without a solid +sterling basis of individual goodness, all the grace, elegance, and art +in the world would fail to save or to elevate a people. + + + + +CHAPTER X--COMPANIONSHIP OF BOOKS. + + + + "Books, we know, + Are a substantial world, both pure and good, + Round which, with tendrils strong as flesh and blood, + Our pastime and our happiness can grow."--WORDSWORTH. + + "Not only in the common speech of men, but in all art too-- + which is or should be the concentrated and conserved essence + of what men can speak and show--Biography is almost the one + thing needful" --CARLYLE. + + + "I read all biographies with intense interest. Even a man + without a heart, like Cavendish, I think about, and read + about, and dream about, and picture to myself in all + possible ways, till he grows into a living being beside me, + and I put my feet into his shoes, and become for the time + Cavendish, and think as he thought, and do as he did." + --GEORGE WILSON. + + "My thoughts are with the dead; with them + I live in long-past years; + Their virtues love, their faults condemn; + Partake their hopes and fears; + And from their lessons seek and find + Instruction with a humble mind."--SOUTHEY. + +A man may usually be known by the books he reads, as well as by the +company he keeps; for there is a companionship of books as well as of +men; and one should always live in the best company, whether it be of +books or of men. + +A good book may be among the best of friends. It is the same to-day +that it always was, and it will never change. It is the most patient and +cheerful of companions. It does not turn its back upon us in times of +adversity or distress. It always receives us with the same kindness; +amusing and instructing us in youth, and comforting and consoling us in +age. + +Men often discover their affinity to each other by the mutual love they +have for a book--just as two persons sometimes discover a friend by the +admiration which both entertain for a third. There is an old proverb, +"Love me, love my dog." But there is more wisdom in this: "Love me, love +my book." The book is a truer and higher bond of union. Men can think, +feel, and sympathise with each other through their favourite author. +They live in him together, and he in them. + +"Books," said Hazlitt, "wind into the heart; the poet's verse slides +into the current of our blood. We read them when young, we remember them +when old. We read there of what has happened to others; we feel that it +has happened to ourselves. They are to be had everywhere cheap and good. +We breathe but the air of books. We owe everything to their authors, on +this side barbarism." + +A good book is often the best urn of a life, enshrining the best +thoughts of which that life was capable; for the world of a man's life +is, for the most part, but the world of his thoughts. Thus the +best books are treasuries of good words and golden thoughts, which, +remembered and cherished, become our abiding companions and comforters. +"They are never alone," said Sir Philip Sidney, "that are accompanied by +noble thoughts." The good and true thought may in time of temptation be +as an angel of mercy purifying and guarding the soul. It also enshrines +the germs of action, for good words almost invariably inspire to good +works. + +Thus Sir Henry Lawrence prized above all other compositions Wordsworth's +'Character of the Happy Warrior,' which he endeavoured to embody in +his own life. It was ever before him as an exemplar. He thought of it +continually, and often quoted it to others. His biographer says: "He +tried to conform his own life and to assimilate his own character to it; +and he succeeded, as all men succeed who are truly in earnest." [191] + +Books possess an essence of immortality. They are by far the most +lasting products of human effort. Temples crumble into ruin; pictures +and statues decay; but books survive. Time is of no account with great +thoughts, which are as fresh to-day as when they first passed through +their authors' minds ages ago. What was then said and thought still +speaks to us as vividly as ever from the printed page. The only effect +of time has been to sift and winnow out the bad products; for nothing in +literature can long survive but what is really good. [192] + +Books introduce us into the best society; they bring us into the +presence of the greatest minds that have ever lived. We hear what +they said and did; we see them as if they were really alive; we are +participators in their thoughts; we sympathise with them, enjoy with +them, grieve with them; their experience becomes ours, and we feel as if +we were in a measure actors with them in the scenes which they describe. + +The great and good do not die, even in this world. Embalmed in books +their spirits walk abroad. The book is a living voice. It is an +intellect to which one still listens. Hence we ever remain under the +influence of the great men of old: + + "The dead but sceptred sovrans, who still rule + Our spirits from their urns." + +The imperial intellects of the world are as much alive now as they were +ages ago. Homer still lives; and though his personal history is hidden +in the mists of antiquity, his poems are as fresh to-day as if they had +been newly written. Plato still teaches his transcendent philosophy; +Horace, Virgil, and Dante still sing as when they lived; Shakspeare is +not dead: his body was buried in 1616, but his mind is as much alive +in England now, and his thought as far-reaching, as in the time of the +Tudors. + +The humblest and poorest may enter the society of these great spirits +without being thought intrusive. All who can read have got the ENTREE. +Would you laugh?--Cervantes or Rabelais will laugh with you. Do you +grieve?--there is Thomas a Kempis or Jeremy Taylor to grieve with +and console you. Always it is to books, and the spirits of great men +embalmed in them, that we turn, for entertainment, for instruction and +solace--in joy and in sorrow, as in prosperity and in adversity. + +Man himself is, of all things in the world, the most interesting to +man. Whatever relates to human life--its experiences, its joys, its +sufferings, and its achievements--has usually attractions for him beyond +all else. Each man is more or less interested in all other men as his +fellow-creatures--as members of the great family of humankind; and the +larger a man's culture, the wider is the range of his sympathies in all +that affects the welfare of his race. + +Men's interest in each other as individuals manifests itself in a +thousand ways--in the portraits which they paint, in the busts which +they carve, in the narratives which they relate of each other. "Man," +says Emerson, "can paint, or make, or think, nothing but Man." Most of +all is this interest shown in the fascination which personal history +possesses for him. "Man s sociality of nature," says Carlyle, "evinces +itself, in spite of all that can be said, with abundance of evidence, by +this one fact, were there no other: the unspeakable delight he takes in +Biography." + +Great, indeed, is the human interest felt in biography! What are all +the novels that find such multitudes of readers, but so many fictitious +biographies? What are the dramas that people crowd to see, but so much +acted biography? Strange that the highest genius should be employed on +the fictitious biography, and so much commonplace ability on the real! + +Yet the authentic picture of any human being's life and experience ought +to possess an interest greatly beyond that which is fictitious, inasmuch +as it has the charm of reality. Every person may learn something from +the recorded life of another; and even comparatively trivial deeds and +sayings may be invested with interest, as being the outcome of the lives +of such beings as we ourselves are. + +The records of the lives of good men are especially useful. They +influence our hearts, inspire us with hope, and set before us great +examples. And when men have done their duty through life in a great +spirit, their influence will never wholly pass away. "The good life," +says George Herbert, "is never out of season." + +Goethe has said that there is no man so commonplace that a wise man may +not learn something from him. Sir Walter Scott could not travel in a +coach without gleaning some information or discovering some new trait +of character in his companions. [193] Dr. Johnson once observed that +there was not a person in the streets but he should like to know his +biography--his experiences of life, his trials, his difficulties, his +successes, and his failures. How much more truly might this be said +of the men who have made their mark in the world's history, and have +created for us that great inheritance of civilization of which we are +the possessors! Whatever relates to such men--to their habits, +their manners, their modes of living, their personal history, their +conversation, their maxims, their virtues, or their greatness--is always +full of interest, of instruction, of encouragement, and of example. + +The great lesson of Biography is to show what man can be and do at his +best. A noble life put fairly on record acts like an inspiration to +others. It exhibits what life is capable of being made. It refreshes +our spirit, encourages our hopes, gives us new strength and courage +and faith--faith in others as well as in ourselves. It stimulates our +aspirations, rouses us to action, and incites us to become co-partners +with them in their work. To live with such men in their biographies, and +to be inspired by their example, is to live with the best of men, and to +mix in the best of company. + +At the head of all biographies stands the Great Biography, the Book +of Books. And what is the Bible, the most sacred and impressive of all +books--the educator of youth, the guide of manhood, and the consoler +of age--but a series of biographies of great heroes and patriarchs, +prophets, kings, and judges, culminating in the greatest biography of +all, the Life embodied in the New Testament? How much have the great +examples there set forth done for mankind! How many have drawn from +them their truest strength, their highest wisdom, their best nurture and +admonition! Truly does a great Roman Catholic writer describe the Bible +as a book whose words "live in the ear like a music that can never be +forgotten--like the sound of church bells which the convert hardly knows +how he can forego. Its felicities often seem to be almost things rather +than mere words. It is part of the national mind, and the anchor of +national seriousness. The memory of the dead passes into it, The potent +traditions of childhood are stereotyped in its verses. The power of +all the griefs and trials of man is hidden beneath its words. It is the +representative of his best moments, and all that has been about him of +soft, and gentle, and pure, and penitent, and good, speaks to him for +ever out of his English Bible. It is his sacred thing, which doubt has +never dimmed and controversy never soiled. In the length and breadth of +the land there is not a Protestant with one spark of religiousness about +him whose spiritual biography is not in his Saxon Bible." [194] + +It would, indeed, be difficult to overestimate the influence which the +lives of the great and good have exercised upon the elevation of human +character. "The best biography," says Isaac Disraeli, "is a reunion with +human existence in its most excellent state." Indeed, it is impossible +for one to read the lives of good men, much less inspired men, +without being unconsciously lighted and lifted up in them, and growing +insensibly nearer to what they thought and did. And even the lives of +humbler persons, of men of faithful and honest spirit, who have done +their duty in life well, are not without an elevating influence upon the +character of those who come after them. + +History itself is best studied in biography. Indeed, history is +biography--collective humanity as influenced and governed by individual +men. "What is all history," says Emerson, "but the work of ideas, a +record of the incomparable energy which his infinite aspirations +infuse into man?" In its pages it is always persons we see more than +principles. Historical events are interesting to us mainly in connection +with the feelings, the sufferings, and interests of those by whom they +are accomplished. In history we are surrounded by men long dead, but +whose speech and whose deeds survive. We almost catch the sound of their +voices; and what they did constitutes the interest of history. We never +feel personally interested in masses of men; but we feel and sympathise +with the individual actors, whose biographies afford the finest and most +real touches in all great historical dramas. + +Among the great writers of the past, probably the two that have been +most influential in forming the characters of great men of action and +great men of thought, have been Plutarch and Montaigne--the one by +presenting heroic models for imitation, the other by probing questions +of constant recurrence in which the human mind in all ages has taken the +deepest interest. And the works of both are for the most part cast in +a biographic form, their most striking illustrations consisting in the +exhibitions of character and experience which they contain. + +Plutarch's 'Lives,' though written nearly eighteen hundred years ago, +like Homer's 'Iliad,' still holds its ground as the greatest work of +its kind. It was the favourite book of Montaigne; and to Englishmen it +possesses the special interest of having been Shakspeare's principal +authority in his great classical dramas. Montaigne pronounced Plutarch +to be "the greatest master in that kind of writing"--the biographic; +and he declared that he "could no sooner cast an eye upon him but he +purloined either a leg or a wing." + +Alfieri was first drawn with passion to literature by reading Plutarch. +"I read," said he, "the lives of Timoleon, Caesar, Brutus, Pelopidas, +more than six times, with cries, with tears, and with such transports, +that I was almost furious.... Every time that I met with one of the +grand traits of these great men, I was seized with such vehement +agitation as to be unable to sit still." Plutarch was also a favourite +with persons of such various minds as Schiller and Benjamin Franklin, +Napoleon and Madame Roland. The latter was so fascinated by the book +that she carried it to church with her in the guise of a missal, and +read it surreptitiously during the service. + +It has also been the nurture of heroic souls such as Henry IV. of +France, Turenne, and the Napiers. It was one of Sir William Napier's +favourite books when a boy. His mind was early imbued by it with +a passionate admiration for the great heroes of antiquity; and +its influence had, doubtless, much to do with the formation of his +character, as well as the direction of his career in life. It is related +of him, that in his last illness, when feeble and exhausted, his mind +wandered back to Plutarch's heroes; and he descanted for hours to his +son-in-law on the mighty deeds of Alexander, Hannibal, and Caesar. +Indeed, if it were possible to poll the great body of readers in all +ages whose minds have been influenced and directed by books, it is +probable that--excepting always the Bible--the immense majority of votes +would be cast in favour of Plutarch. + +And how is it that Plutarch has succeeded in exciting an interest which +continues to attract and rivet the attention of readers of all ages and +classes to this day? In the first place, because the subject of his work +is great men, who occupied a prominent place in the world's history, and +because he had an eye to see and a pen to describe the more prominent +events and circumstances in their lives. And not only so, but he +possessed the power of portraying the individual character of his +heroes; for it is the principle of individuality which gives the charm +and interest to all biography. The most engaging side of great men is +not so much what they do as what they are, and does not depend upon +their power of intellect but on their personal attractiveness. Thus, +there are men whose lives are far more eloquent than their speeches, and +whose personal character is far greater than their deeds. + +It is also to be observed, that while the best and most carefully-drawn +of Plutarch's portraits are of life-size, many of them are little more +than busts. They are well-proportioned but compact, and within such +reasonable compass that the best of them--such as the lives of Caesar +and Alexander--may be read in half an hour. Reduced to this measure, +they are, however, greatly more imposing than a lifeless Colossus, or +an exaggerated giant. They are not overlaid by disquisition and +description, but the characters naturally unfold themselves. Montaigne, +indeed, complained of Plutarch's brevity. "No doubt," he added, "but +his reputation is the better for it, though in the meantime we are the +worse. Plutarch would rather we should applaud his judgment than commend +his knowledge, and had rather leave us with an appetite to read more +than glutted with what we have already read. He knew very well that a +man may say too much even on the best subjects.... Such as have lean +and spare bodies stuff themselves out with clothes; so they who are +defective in matter, endeavour to make amends with words." [195] + +Plutarch possessed the art of delineating the more delicate features +of mind and minute peculiarities of conduct, as well as the foibles +and defects of his heroes, all of which is necessary to faithful and +accurate portraiture. "To see him," says Montaigne, "pick out a light +action in a man's life, or a word, that does not seem to be of any +importance, is itself a whole discourse." He even condescends to +inform us of such homely particulars as that Alexander carried his head +affectedly on one side; that Alcibiades was a dandy, and had a lisp, +which became him, giving a grace and persuasive turn to his discourse; +that Cato had red hair and gray eyes, and was a usurer and a screw, +selling off his old slaves when they became unfit for hard work; that +Caesar was bald and fond of gay dress; and that Cicero [19like Lord +Brougham] had involuntary twitchings of his nose. + +Such minute particulars may by some be thought beneath the dignity of +biography, but Plutarch thought them requisite for the due finish of +the complete portrait which he set himself to draw; and it is by +small details of character--personal traits, features, habits, and +characteristics--that we are enabled to see before us the men as they +really lived. Plutarch's great merit consists in his attention to these +little things, without giving them undue preponderance, or neglecting +those which are of greater moment. Sometimes he hits off an individual +trait by an anecdote, which throws more light upon the character +described than pages of rhetorical description would do. In some cases, +he gives us the favourite maxim of his hero; and the maxims of men often +reveal their hearts. + +Then, as to foibles, the greatest of men are not visually symmetrical. +Each has his defect, his twist, his craze; and it is by his faults that +the great man reveals his common humanity. We may, at a distance, admire +him as a demigod; but as we come nearer to him, we find that he is but a +fallible man, and our brother. [196] + +Nor are the illustrations of the defects of great men without their +uses; for, as Dr. Johnson observed, "If nothing but the bright side of +characters were shown, we should sit down in despondency, and think it +utterly impossible to imitate them in anything." + +Plutarch, himself justifies his method of portraiture by averring that +his design was not to write histories, but lives. "The most glorious +exploits," he says, "do not always furnish us with the clearest +discoveries of virtue or of vice in men. Sometimes a matter of much less +moment, an expression or a jest, better informs us of their characters +and inclinations than battles with the slaughter of tens of thousands, +and the greatest arrays of armies or sieges of cities. Therefore, as +portrait-painters are more exact in their lines and features of the face +and the expression of the eyes, in which the character is seen, without +troubling themselves about the other parts of the body, so I must +be allowed to give my more particular attention to the signs and +indications of the souls of men; and while I endeavour by these means +to portray their lives, I leave important events and great battles to be +described by others." + +Things apparently trifling may stand for much in biography as well as +history, and slight circumstances may influence great results. Pascal +has remarked, that if Cleopatra's nose had been shorter, the whole face +of the world would probably have been changed. But for the amours of +Pepin the Fat, the Saracens might have overrun Europe; as it was his +illegitimate son, Charles Martel, who overthrew them at Tours, and +eventually drove them out of France. + +That Sir Walter Scott should have sprained his foot in running round +the room when a child, may seem unworthy of notice in his biography; yet +'Ivanhoe,' 'Old Mortality,' and all the Waverley novels depended upon +it. When his son intimated a desire to enter the army, Scott wrote to +Southey, "I have no title to combat a choice which would have been my +own, had not my lameness prevented." So that, had not Scott been lame, +he might have fought all through the Peninsular War, and had his breast +covered with medals; but we should probably have had none of those works +of his which have made his name immortal, and shed so much glory upon +his country. Talleyrand also was kept out of the army, for which he had +been destined, by his lameness; but directing his attention to the study +of books, and eventually of men, he at length took rank amongst the +greatest diplomatists of his time. + +Byron's clubfoot had probably not a little to do with determining his +destiny as a poet. Had not his mind been embittered and made morbid by +his deformity, he might never have written a line--he might have been +the noblest fop of his day. But his misshapen foot stimulated his mind, +roused his ardour, threw him upon his own resources--and we know with +what result. + +So, too, of Scarron, to whose hunchback we probably owe his cynical +verse; and of Pope, whose satire was in a measure the outcome of his +deformity--for he was, as Johnson described him, "protuberant behind +and before." What Lord Bacon said of deformity is doubtless, to a great +extent, true. "Whoever," said he, "hath anything fixed in his person +that doth induce contempt, hath also a perpetual spur in himself to +rescue and deliver himself from scorn; therefore, all deformed persons +are extremely bold." + +As in portraiture, so in biography, there must be light and shade. +The portrait-painter does not pose his sitter so as to bring out his +deformities; nor does the biographer give undue prominence to the +defects of the character he portrays. Not many men are so outspoken as +Cromwell was when he sat to Cooper for his miniature: "Paint me as I +am," said he, "warts and all." Yet, if we would have a faithful likeness +of faces and characters, they must be painted as they are. "Biography," +said Sir Walter Scott, "the most interesting of every species of +composition, loses all its interest with me when the shades and lights +of the principal characters are not accurately and faithfully detailed. +I can no more sympathise with a mere eulogist, than I can with a ranting +hero on the stage." [197] + +Addison liked to know as much as possible about the person and character +of his authors, inasmuch as it increased the pleasure and satisfaction +which he derived from the perusal of their books. What was their +history, their experience, their temper and disposition? Did their lives +resemble their books? They thought nobly--did they act nobly? "Should we +not delight," says Sir Egerton Brydges, "to have the frank story of the +lives and feelings of Wordsworth, Southey, Coleridge, Campbell, Rogers, +Moore, and Wilson, related by themselves?--with whom they lived early; +how their bent took a decided course; their likes and dislikes; their +difficulties and obstacles; their tastes, their passions; the rocks they +were conscious of having split upon; their regrets, their complacencies, +and their self-justifications?" [198] + +When Mason was reproached for publishing the private letters of Gray, +he answered, "Would you always have my friends appear in full-dress?" +Johnson was of opinion that to write a man's life truly, it is necessary +that the biographer should have personally known him. But this condition +has been wanting in some of the best writers of biographies extant. [199] +In the case of Lord Campbell, his personal intimacy with Lords Lyndhurst +and Brougham seems to have been a positive disadvantage, leading him +to dwarf the excellences and to magnify the blots in their characters. +Again, Johnson says: "If a man profess to write a life, he must write it +really as it was. A man's peculiarities, and even his vices, should be +mentioned, because they mark his character." But there is always +this difficulty,--that while minute details of conduct, favourable or +otherwise, can best be given from personal knowledge, they cannot always +be published, out of regard for the living; and when the time arrives +when they may at length be told, they are then no longer remembered. +Johnson himself expressed this reluctance to tell all he knew of +those poets who had been his contemporaries, saying that he felt as if +"walking upon ashes under which the fire was not extinguished." + +For this reason, amongst others, we rarely obtain an unvarnished +picture of character from the near relatives of distinguished men; and, +interesting though all autobiography is, still less can we expect it +from the men themselves. In writing his own memoirs, a man will not tell +all that he knows about himself. Augustine was a rare exception, but +few there are who will, as he did in his 'Confessions,' lay bare their +innate viciousness, deceitfulness, and selfishness. There is a Highland +proverb which says, that if the best man's faults were written on his +forehead he would pull his bonnet over his brow. "There is no man," said +Voltaire, "who has not something hateful in him--no man who has not some +of the wild beast in him. But there are few who will honestly tell us +how they manage their wild beast." Rousseau pretended to unbosom himself +in his 'Confessions;' but it is manifest that he held back far more +than he revealed. Even Chamfort, one of the last men to fear what his +contemporaries might think or say of him, once observed:--"It seems to +me impossible, in the actual state of society, for any man to exhibit +his secret heart, the details of his character as known to himself, and, +above all, his weaknesses and his vices, to even his best friend." + +An autobiography may be true so far as it goes; but in communicating +only part of the truth, it may convey an impression that is really +false. It may be a disguise--sometimes it is an apology--exhibiting +not so much what a man really was, as what he would have liked to be. A +portrait in profile may be correct, but who knows whether some scar on +the off-cheek, or some squint in the eye that is not seen, might not +have entirely altered the expression of the face if brought into sight? +Scott, Moore, Southey, all began autobiographies, but the task of +continuing them was doubtless felt to be too difficult as well as +delicate, and they were abandoned. + +French literature is especially rich in a class of biographic memoirs, +of which we have few counterparts in English. We refer to their MEMOIRES +POUR SERVIR, such as those of Sully, De Comines, Lauzun, De Retz, De +Thou, Rochefoucalt, &c., in which we have recorded an immense mass of +minute and circumstantial information relative to many great personages +of history. They are full of anecdotes illustrative of life and +character, and of details which might be called frivolous, but that they +throw a flood of light on the social habits and general civilisation +of the periods to which they relate. The MEMOIRES of Saint-Simon are +something more: they are marvellous dissections of character, and +constitute the most extraordinary collection of anatomical biography +that has ever been brought together. + +Saint-Simon might almost be regarded in the light of a posthumous +court-spy of Louis the Fourteenth. He was possessed by a passion for +reading character, and endeavouring to decipher motives and intentions +in the faces, expressions, conversation, and byplay of those about him. +"I examine all my personages closely," said he--"watch their mouth, +eyes, and ears constantly." And what he heard and saw he noted down with +extraordinary vividness and dash. Acute, keen, and observant, he pierced +the masks of the courtiers, and detected their secrets. The ardour with +which he prosecuted his favourite study of character seemed insatiable, +and even cruel. "The eager anatomist," says Sainte-Beuve, "was not more +ready to plunge the scalpel into the still-palpitating bosom in search +of the disease that had baffled him." + +La Bruyere possessed the same gift of accurate and penetrating +observation of character. He watched and studied everybody about him. +He sought to read their secrets; and, retiring to his chamber, he +deliberately painted their portraits, returning to them from time to +time to correct some prominent feature--hanging over them as fondly as +an artist over some favourite study--adding trait to trait, and touch +to touch, until at length the picture was complete and the likeness +perfect. + +It may be said that much of the interest of biography, especially of the +more familiar sort, is of the nature of gossip; as that of the MEMOIRES +POUR SERVIR is of the nature of scandal, which is no doubt true. But +both gossip and scandal illustrate the strength of the interest which +men and women take in each other's personality; and which, exhibited in +the form of biography, is capable of communicating the highest pleasure, +and yielding the best instruction. Indeed biography, because it is +instinct of humanity, is the branch of literature which--whether in the +form of fiction, of anecdotal recollection, or of personal narrative--is +the one that invariably commends itself to by far the largest class of +readers. + +There is no room for doubt that the surpassing interest which fiction, +whether in poetry or prose, possesses for most minds, arises mainly +from the biographic element which it contains. Homer's 'Iliad' owes its +marvellous popularity to the genius which its author displayed in the +portrayal of heroic character. Yet he does not so much describe his +personages in detail as make them develope themselves by their actions. +"There are in Homer," said Dr. Johnson, "such characters of heroes and +combination of qualities of heroes, that the united powers of mankind +ever since have not produced any but what are to be found there." + +The genius of Shakspeare also was displayed in the powerful delineation +of character, and the dramatic evolution of human passions. His +personages seem to be real--living and breathing before us. So too with +Cervantes, whose Sancho Panza, though homely and vulgar, is intensely +human. The characters in Le Sage's 'Gil Blas,' in Goldsmith's 'Vicar of +Wakefield,' and in Scott's marvellous muster-roll, seem to us almost as +real as persons whom we have actually known; and De Foe's greatest works +are but so many biographies, painted in minute detail, with reality so +apparently stamped upon every page, that it is difficult to believe his +Robinson Crusoe and Colonel Jack to have been fictitious instead of real +persons. + +Though the richest romance lies enclosed in actual human life, and +though biography, because it describes beings who have actually felt the +joys and sorrows, and experienced the difficulties and triumphs, of real +life, is capable of being made more attractive, than the most perfect +fictions ever woven, it is remarkable that so few men of genius have +been attracted to the composition of works of this kind. Great works of +fiction abound, but great biographies may be counted on the fingers. It +may be for the same reason that a great painter of portraits, the +late John Philip, R.A., explained his preference for subject-painting, +because, said he, "Portrait-painting does not pay." Biographic +portraiture involves laborious investigation and careful collection of +facts, judicious rejection and skilful condensation, as well as the +art of presenting the character portrayed in the most attractive and +lifelike form; whereas, in the work of fiction, the writer's imagination +is free to create and to portray character, without being trammelled by +references, or held down by the actual details of real life. + +There is, indeed, no want among us of ponderous but lifeless memoirs, +many of them little better than inventories, put together with the +help of the scissors as much as of the pen. What Constable said of the +portraits of an inferior artist--"He takes all the bones and brains out +of his heads"--applies to a large class of portraiture, written as well +as painted. They have no more life in them than a piece of waxwork, or a +clothes-dummy at a tailor's door. What we want is a picture of a man as +he lived, and lo! we have an exhibition of the biographer himself. We +expect an embalmed heart, and we find only clothes. + +There is doubtless as high art displayed in painting a portrait in +words, as there is in painting one in colours. To do either well +requires the seeing eye and the skilful pen or brush. A common artist +sees only the features of a face, and copies them; but the great artist +sees the living soul shining through the features, and places it on +the canvas. Johnson was once asked to assist the chaplain of a deceased +bishop in writing a memoir of his lordship; but when he proceeded to +inquire for information, the chaplain could scarcely tell him anything. +Hence Johnson was led to observe that "few people who have lived with a +man know what to remark about him." + +In the case of Johnson's own life, it was the seeing eye of Boswell that +enabled him to note and treasure up those minute details of habit and +conversation in which so much of the interest of biography consists. +Boswell, because of his simple love and admiration of his hero, +succeeded where probably greater men would have failed. He descended to +apparently insignificant, but yet most characteristic, particulars. Thus +he apologizes for informing the reader that Johnson, when journeying, +"carried in his hand a large English oak-stick:" adding, "I remember Dr. +Adam Smith, in his rhetorical lectures at Glasgow, told us he was glad +to know that Milton wore latchets in his shoes instead of buckles." +Boswell lets us know how Johnson looked, what dress he wore, what was +his talk, what were his prejudices. He painted him with all his scars, +and a wonderful portrait it is--perhaps the most complete picture of a +great man ever limned in words. + +But for the accident of the Scotch advocate's intimacy with Johnson, and +his devoted admiration of him, the latter would not probably have stood +nearly so high in literature as he now does. It is in the pages of +Boswell that Johnson really lives; and but for Boswell, he might have +remained little more than a name. Others there are who have bequeathed +great works to posterity, but of whose lives next to nothing is known. +What would we not give to have a Boswell's account of Shakspeare? We +positively know more of the personal history of Socrates, of Horace, of +Cicero, of Augustine, than we do of that of Shakspeare. We do not +know what was his religion, what were his politics, what were his +experiences, what were his relations to his contemporaries. The men +of his own time do not seem to have recognised his greatness; and Ben +Jonson, the court poet, whose blank-verse Shakspeare was content +to commit to memory and recite as an actor, stood higher in popular +estimation. We only know that he was a successful theatrical manager, +and that in the prime of life he retired to his native place, where he +died, and had the honours of a village funeral. The greater part of the +biography which has been constructed respecting him has been the result, +not of contemporary observation or of record, but of inference. The best +inner biography of the man is to be found in his sonnets. + +Men do not always take an accurate measure of their contemporaries. The +statesman, the general, the monarch of to-day fills all eyes and ears, +though to the next generation he may be as if he had never been. "And +who is king to-day?" the painter Greuze would ask of his daughter, +during the throes of the first French Revolution, when men, great for +the time, were suddenly thrown to the surface, and as suddenly dropt out +of sight again, never to reappear. "And who is king to-day? After all," +Greuze would add, "Citizen Homer and Citizen Raphael will outlive those +great citizens of ours, whose names I have never before heard of." +Yet of the personal history of Homer nothing is known, and of Raphael +comparatively little. Even Plutarch, who wrote the lives of others: so +well, has no biography, none of the eminent Roman writers who were +his contemporaries having so much as mentioned his name. And so of +Correggio, who delineated the features of others so well, there is not +known to exist an authentic portrait. + +There have been men who greatly influenced the life of their time, whose +reputation has been much greater with posterity than it was with their +contemporaries. Of Wickliffe, the patriarch of the Reformation, our +knowledge is extremely small. He was but as a voice crying in the +wilderness. We do not really know who was the author of 'The Imitation +of Christ'--a book that has had an immense circulation, and exercised +a vast religious influence in all Christian countries. It is usually +attributed to Thomas a Kempis but there is reason to believe that he was +merely its translator, and the book that is really known to be his, [1910] +is in all respects so inferior, that it is difficult to believe that +'The Imitation' proceeded from the same pen. It is considered more +probable that the real author was John Gerson, Chancellor of the +University of Paris, a most learned and devout man, who died in 1429. + +Some of the greatest men of genius have had the shortest biographies. Of +Plato, one of the great fathers of moral philosophy, we have no personal +account. If he had wife and children, we hear nothing of them. About the +life of Aristotle there is the greatest diversity of opinion. One says +he was a Jew; another, that he only got his information from a Jew: one +says he kept an apothecary's shop; another, that he was only the son of +a physician: one alleges that he was an atheist; another, that he was a +Trinitarian, and so forth. But we know almost as little with respect to +many men of comparatively modern times. Thus, how little do we know of +the lives of Spenser, author of 'The Faerie Queen,' and of Butler, the +author of 'Hudibras,' beyond the fact that they lived in comparative +obscurity, and died in extreme poverty! How little, comparatively, do +we know of the life of Jeremy Taylor, the golden preacher, of whom we +should like to have known so much! + +The author of 'Philip Van Artevelde' has said that "the world knows +nothing of its greatest men." And doubtless oblivion has enwrapt in +its folds many great men who have done great deeds, and been forgotten. +Augustine speaks of Romanianus as the greatest genius that ever lived, +and yet we know nothing of him but his name; he is as much forgotten +as the builders of the Pyramids. Gordiani's epitaph was written in five +languages, yet it sufficed not to rescue him from oblivion. + +Many, indeed, are the lives worthy of record that have remained +unwritten. Men who have written books have been the most fortunate in +this respect, because they possess an attraction for literary men which +those whose lives have been embodied in deeds do not possess. Thus there +have been lives written of Poets Laureate who were mere men of their +time, and of their time only. Dr. Johnson includes some of them in his +'Lives of the Poets,' such as Edmund Smith and others, whose poems +are now no longer known. The lives of some men of letters--such as +Goldsmith, Swift, Sterne, and Steele--have been written again and again, +whilst great men of action, men of science, and men of industry, are +left without a record. [1911] + +We have said that a man may be known by the company he keeps in his +books. Let us mention a few of the favourites of the best-known men. +Plutarch's admirers have already been referred to. Montaigne also has +been the companion of most meditative men. Although Shakspeare must have +studied Plutarch carefully, inasmuch as he copied from him freely, even +to his very words, it is remarkable that Montaigne is the only book +which we certainly know to have been in the poet's library; one of +Shakspeare's existing autographs having been found in a copy of Florio's +translation of 'The Essays,' which also contains, on the flyleaf, the +autograph of Ben Jonson. + +Milton's favourite books were Homer, Ovid, and Euripides. The latter +book was also the favourite of Charles James Fox, who regarded the study +of it as especially useful to a public speaker. On the other hand, Pitt +took especial delight in Milton--whom Fox did not appreciate--taking +pleasure in reciting, from 'Paradise Lost,' the grand speech of Belial +before the assembled powers of Pandemonium. Another of Pitt's favourite +books was Newton's 'Principia.' Again, the Earl of Chatham's favourite +book was 'Barrow's Sermons,' which he read so often as to be able to +repeat them from memory; while Burke's companions were Demosthenes, +Milton, Bolingbroke, and Young's 'Night Thoughts.' + +Curran's favourite was Homer, which he read through once a year. Virgil +was another of his favourites; his biographer, Phillips, saying that +he once saw him reading the 'Aeneid' in the cabin of a Holyhead packet, +while every one about him was prostrate by seasickness. + +Of the poets, Dante's favourite was Virgil; Corneille's was Lucan; +Schiller's was Shakspeare; Gray's was Spenser; whilst Coleridge admired +Collins and Bowles. Dante himself was a favourite with most great poets, +from Chaucer to Byron and Tennyson. Lord Brougham, Macaulay, and Carlyle +have alike admired and eulogized the great Italian. The former advised +the students at Glasgow that, next to Demosthenes, the study of Dante +was the best preparative for the eloquence of the pulpit or the bar. +Robert Hall sought relief in Dante from the racking pains of spinal +disease; and Sydney Smith took to the same poet for comfort and solace +in his old age. It was characteristic of Goethe that his favourite book +should have been Spinoza's 'Ethics,' in which he said he had found a +peace and consolation such as he had been able to find in no other work. +[1912] + +Barrow's favourite was St. Chrysostom; Bossuet's was Homer. Bunyan's +was the old legend of Sir Bevis of Southampton, which in all probability +gave him the first idea of his 'Pilgrim's Progress.' One of the +best prelates that ever sat on the English bench, Dr. John Sharp, +said--"Shakspeare and the Bible have made me Archbishop of York." The +two books which most impressed John Wesley when a young man, were 'The +Imitation of Christ' and Jeremy Taylor's 'Holy Living and Dying.' Yet +Wesley was accustomed to caution his young friends against overmuch +reading. "Beware you be not swallowed up in books," he would say to +them; "an ounce of love is worth a pound of knowledge." + +Wesley's own Life has been a great favourite with many thoughtful +readers. Coleridge says, in his preface to Southey's 'Life of Wesley,' +that it was more often in his hands than any other in his ragged +book-regiment. "To this work, and to the Life of Richard Baxter," he +says, "I was used to resort whenever sickness and languor made me feel +the want of an old friend of whose company I could never be tired. How +many and many an hour of self-oblivion do I owe to this Life of Wesley; +and how often have I argued with it, questioned, remonstrated, been +peevish, and asked pardon; then again listened, and cried, 'Right! +Excellent!' and in yet heavier hours entreated it, as it were, to +continue talking to me; for that I heard and listened, and was soothed, +though I could make no reply!" [1913] + +Soumet had only a very few hooks in his library, but they were of the +best--Homer, Virgil, Dante, Camoens, Tasso, and Milton. De Quincey's +favourite few were Donne, Chillingworth, Jeremy Taylor, Milton, South, +Barrow, and Sir Thomas Browne. He described these writers as "a pleiad +or constellation of seven golden stars, such as in their class no +literature can match," and from whose works he would undertake "to build +up an entire body of philosophy." + +Frederick the Great of Prussia manifested his strong French leanings +in his choice of books; his principal favourites being Bayle, Rousseau, +Voltaire, Rollin, Fleury, Malebranche, and one English author--Locke. +His especial favourite was Bayle's Dictionary, which was the first book +that laid hold of his mind; and he thought so highly of it, that he +himself made an abridgment and translation of it into German, which was +published. It was a saying of Frederick's, that "books make up no small +part of true happiness." In his old age he said, "My latest passion will +be for literature." + +It seems odd that Marshal Blucher's favourite book should have been +Klopstock's 'Messiah,' and Napoleon Buonaparte's favourites, Ossian's +'Poems' and the 'Sorrows of Werther.' But Napoleon's range of reading +was very extensive. It included Homer, Virgil, Tasso; novels of all +countries; histories of all times; mathematics, legislation, and +theology. He detested what he called "the bombast and tinsel" of +Voltaire. The praises of Homer and Ossian he was never wearied +of sounding. "Read again," he said to an officer on board the +BELLEROPHO--"read again the poet of Achilles; devour Ossian. Those are +the poets who lift up the soul, and give to man a colossal greatness." +[1914] + +The Duke of Wellington was an extensive reader; his principal favourites +were Clarendon, Bishop Butler, Smith's 'Wealth of Nations,' Hume, +the Archduke Charles, Leslie, and the Bible. He was also particularly +interested by French and English memoirs--more especially the French +MEMOIRES POUR SERVIR of all kinds. When at Walmer, Mr. Gleig says, the +Bible, the Prayer Book, Taylor's 'Holy Living and Dying,' and Caesar's +'Commentaries,' lay within the Duke's reach; and, judging by the marks +of use on them, they must have been much read and often consulted. + +While books are among the best companions of old age, they are often the +best inspirers of youth. The first book that makes a deep impression on +a young man's mind, often constitutes an epoch in his life. It may fire +the heart, stimulate the enthusiasm, and by directing his efforts into +unexpected channels, permanently influence his character. The new book, +in which we form an intimacy with a new friend, whose mind is wiser and +riper than our own, may thus form an important starting-point in the +history of a life. It may sometimes almost be regarded in the light of a +new birth. + +From the day when James Edward Smith was presented with his first +botanical lesson-book, and Sir Joseph Banks fell in with Gerard's +'Herbal'--from the time when Alfieri first read Plutarch, and Schiller +made his first acquaintance with Shakspeare, and Gibbon devoured the +first volume of 'The Universal History'--each dated an inspiration so +exalted, that they felt as if their real lives had only then begun. + +In the earlier part of his youth, La Fontaine was distinguished for +his idleness, but hearing an ode by Malherbe read, he is said to have +exclaimed, "I too am a poet," and his genius was awakened. Charles +Bossuet's mind was first fired to study by reading, at an early +age, Fontenelle's 'Eloges' of men of science. Another work of +Fontenelle's--'On the Plurality of Worlds'--influenced the mind of +Lalande in making choice of a profession. "It is with pleasure," says +Lalande himself in a preface to the book, which he afterwards edited, +"that I acknowledge my obligation to it for that devouring activity +which its perusal first excited in me at the age of sixteen, and which I +have since retained." + +In like manner, Lacepede was directed to the study of natural history +by the perusal of Buffon's 'Histoire Naturelle,' which he found in his +father's library, and read over and over again until he almost knew it +by heart. Goethe was greatly influenced by the reading of Goldsmith's +'Vicar of Wakefield,' just at the critical moment of his mental +development; and he attributed to it much of his best education. The +reading of a prose 'Life of Gotz vou Berlichingen' afterwards stimulated +him to delineate his character in a poetic form. "The figure of a rude, +well-meaning self-helper," he said, "in a wild anarchic time, excited my +deepest sympathy." + +Keats was an insatiable reader when a boy; but it was the perusal of the +'Faerie Queen,' at the age of seventeen, that first lit the fire of his +genius. The same poem is also said to have been the inspirer of Cowley, +who found a copy of it accidentally lying on the window of his mother's +apartment; and reading and admiring it, he became, as he relates, +irrecoverably a poet. + +Coleridge speaks of the great influence which the poems of Bowles had in +forming his own mind. The works of a past age, says he, seem to a young +man to be things of another race; but the writings of a contemporary +"possess a reality for him, and inspire an actual friendship as of a +man for a man. His very admiration is the wind which fans and feeds his +hope. The poems themselves assume the properties of flesh and blood." +[1915] + +But men have not merely been stimulated to undertake special literary +pursuits by the perusal of particular books; they have been also +stimulated by them to enter upon particular lines of action in the +serious business of life. Thus Henry Martyn was powerfully influenced +to enter upon his heroic career as a missionary by perusing the Lives of +Henry Brainerd and Dr. Carey, who had opened up the furrows in which he +went forth to sow the seed. + +Bentham has described the extraordinary influence which the perusal of +'Telemachus' exercised upon his mind in boyhood. "Another book," said +he, "and of far higher character [19than a collection of Fairy Tales, to +which he refers], was placed in my hands. It was 'Telemachus.' In my +own imagination, and at the age of six or seven, I identified my own +personality with that of the hero, who seemed to me a model of perfect +virtue; and in my walk of life, whatever it may come to be, why [19said +I to myself every now and then]--why should not I be a Telemachus?.... +That romance may be regarded as THE FOUNDATION-STONE OF MY WHOLE +CHARACTER--the starting-post from whence my career of life commenced. +The first dawning in my mind of the 'Principles of Utility' may, I +think, be traced to it." [1916] + +Cobbett's first favourite, because his only book, which he bought for +threepence, was Swift's 'Tale of a Tub,' the repeated perusal of +which had, doubtless, much to do with the formation of his pithy, +straightforward, and hard-hitting style of writing. The delight with +which Pope, when a schoolboy, read Ogilvy's 'Homer' was, most probably, +the origin of the English 'Iliad;' as the 'Percy Reliques' fired the +juvenile mind of Scott, and stimulated him to enter upon the collection +and composition of his 'Border Ballads.' Keightley's first reading of +'Paradise Lost,' when a boy, led to his afterwards undertaking his Life +of the poet. "The reading," he says, "of 'Paradise Lost' for the first +time forms, or should form, an era in the life of every one possessed of +taste and poetic feeling. To my mind, that time is ever present.... Ever +since, the poetry of Milton has formed my constant study--a source of +delight in prosperity, of strength and consolation in adversity." + +Good books are thus among the best of companions; and, by elevating +the thoughts and aspirations, they act as preservatives against low +associations. "A natural turn for reading and intellectual pursuits," +says Thomas Hood, "probably preserved me from the moral shipwreck so +apt to befal those who are deprived in early life of their parental +pilotage. My books kept me from the ring, the dogpit, the tavern, the +saloon. The closet associate of Pope and Addison, the mind accustomed to +the noble though silent discourse of Shakspeare and Milton, will hardly +seek or put up with low company and slaves." + +It has been truly said, that the best books are those which most +resemble good actions. They are purifying, elevating, and sustaining; +they enlarge and liberalize the mind; they preserve it against vulgar +worldliness; they tend to produce highminded cheerfulness and equanimity +of character; they fashion, and shape, and humanize the mind. In the +Northern universities, the schools in which the ancient classics are +studied, are appropriately styled "The Humanity Classes." [1917] + +Erasmus, the great scholar, was even of opinion that books were the +necessaries of life, and clothes the luxuries; and he frequently +postponed buying the latter until he had supplied himself with the +former. His greatest favourites were the works of Cicero, which he says +he always felt himself the better for reading. "I can never," he +says, "read the works of Cicero on 'Old Age,' or 'Friendship,' or his +'Tusculan Disputations,' without fervently pressing them to my lips, +without being penetrated with veneration for a mind little short of +inspired by God himself." It was the accidental perusal of Cicero's +'Hortensius' which first detached St. Augustine--until then a profligate +and abandoned sensualist--from his immoral life, and started him upon +the course of inquiry and study which led to his becoming the greatest +among the Fathers of the Early Church. Sir William Jones made it a +practice to read through, once a year, the writings of Cicero, "whose +life indeed," says his biographer, "was the great exemplar of his own." + +When the good old Puritan Baxter came to enumerate the valuable and +delightful things of which death would deprive him, his mind reverted +to the pleasures he had derived from books and study. "When I die," he +said, "I must depart, not only from sensual delights, but from the more +manly pleasures of my studies, knowledge, and converse with many wise +and godly men, and from all my pleasure in reading, hearing, public and +private exercises of religion, and such like. I must leave my library, +and turn over those pleasant books no more. I must no more come among +the living, nor see the faces of my faithful friends, nor be seen of +man; houses, and cities, and fields, and countries, gardens, and walks, +will be as nothing to me. I shall no more hear of the affairs of the +world, of man, or wars, or other news; nor see what becomes of that +beloved interest of wisdom, piety, and peace, which I desire may +prosper." + +It is unnecessary to speak of the enormous moral influence which books +have exercised upon the general civilization of mankind, from the Bible +downwards. They contain the treasured knowledge of the human race. They +are the record of all labours, achievements, speculations, successes, +and failures, in science, philosophy, religion, and morals. They have +been the greatest motive powers in all times. "From the Gospel to +the Contrat Social," says De Bonald, "it is books that have made +revolutions." Indeed, a great book is often a greater thing than a great +battle. Even works of fiction have occasionally exercised immense power +on society. Thus Rabelais in France, and Cervantes in Spain, overturned +at the same time the dominion of monkery and chivalry, employing no +other weapons but ridicule, the natural contrast of human terror. +The people laughed, and felt reassured. So 'Telemachus' appeared, and +recalled men back to the harmonies of nature. + +"Poets," says Hazlitt, "are a longer-lived race than heroes: they +breathe more of the air of immortality. They survive more entire in +their thoughts and acts. We have all that Virgil or Homer did, as much +as if we had lived at the same time with them. We can hold their works +in our hands, or lay them on our pillows, or put them to our lips. +Scarcely a trace of what the others did is left upon the earth, so as +to be visible to common eyes. The one, the dead authors, are living men, +still breathing and moving in their writings; the others, the conquerors +of the world, are but the ashes in an urn. The sympathy [19so to speak] +between thought and thought is more intimate and vital than that between +thought and action. Thought is linked to thought as flame kindles into +flame; the tribute of admiration to the MANES of departed heroism is +like burning incense in a marble monument. Words, ideas, feelings, with +the progress of time harden into substances: things, bodies, actions, +moulder away, or melt into a sound--into thin air.... Not only a man's +actions are effaced and vanish with him; his virtues and generous +qualities die with him also. His intellect only is immortal, and +bequeathed unimpaired to posterity. Words are the only things that last +for ever." [1918] + + + + +CHAPTER XI.--COMPANIONSHIP IN MARRIAGE. + + + + "Kindness in women, not their beauteous looks, + Shall win my love."--SHAKSPEARE. + + "In the husband Wisdom, In the wife Gentleness."--GEORGE + HERBERT. + + "If God had designed woman as man's master, He would have + taken her from his head; If as his slave, He would have + taken her from his feet; but as He designed her for his + companion and equal, He took her from his side."--SAINT + AUGUSTINE.--'DE CIVITATE DEI.' + + "Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above + rubies.... Her husband is known in the gates, and he sitteth + among the elders of the land.... Strength and honour are her + clothing, and she shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth + her mouth with wisdom, and in her tongue is the law of + kindness. She looketh well to the ways of her husband, and + eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up and + call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her."-- + PROVERBS OF SOLOMON. + + +THE character of men, as of women, is powerfully influenced by their +companionship in all the stages of life. We have already spoken of the +influence of the mother in forming the character of her children. She +makes the moral atmosphere in which they live, and by which their minds +and souls are nourished, as their bodies are by the physical atmosphere +they breathe. And while woman is the natural cherisher of infancy and +the instructor of childhood, she is also the guide and counsellor +of youth, and the confidant and companion of manhood, in her various +relations of mother, sister, lover, and wife. In short, the influence of +woman more or less affects, for good or for evil, the entire destinies +of man. + +The respective social functions and duties of men and women are clearly +defined by nature. God created man AND woman, each to do their proper +work, each to fill their proper sphere. Neither can occupy the position, +nor perform the functions, of the other. Their several vocations are +perfectly distinct. Woman exists on her own account, as man does on +his, at the same time that each has intimate relations with the +other. Humanity needs both for the purposes of the race, and in every +consideration of social progress both must necessarily be included. + +Though companions and equals, yet, as regards the measure of their +powers, they are unequal. Man is stronger, more muscular, and of rougher +fibre; woman is more delicate, sensitive, and nervous. The one excels in +power of brain, the other in qualities of heart; and though the head may +rule, it is the heart that influences. Both are alike adapted for the +respective functions they have to perform in life; and to attempt to +impose woman's work upon man would be quite as absurd as to attempt to +impose man's work upon woman. Men are sometimes womanlike, and women are +sometimes manlike; but these are only exceptions which prove the rule. + +Although man's qualities belong more to the head, and woman's more +to the heart--yet it is not less necessary that man's heart should be +cultivated as well as his head, and woman's head cultivated as well +as her heart. A heartless man is as much out-of-keeping in civilized +society as a stupid and unintelligent woman. The cultivation of all +parts of the moral and intellectual nature is requisite to form the man +or woman of healthy and well-balanced character. Without sympathy or +consideration for others, man were a poor, stunted, sordid, selfish +being; and without cultivated intelligence, the most beautiful woman +were little better than a well-dressed doll. + +It used to be a favourite notion about woman, that her weakness and +dependency upon others constituted her principal claim to admiration. +"If we were to form an image of dignity in a man," said Sir Richard +Steele, "we should give him wisdom and valour, as being essential to the +character of manhood. In like manner, if you describe a right woman in +a laudable sense, she should have gentle softness, tender fear, and all +those parts of life which distinguish her from the other sex, with some +subordination to it, but an inferiority which makes her lovely." Thus, +her weakness was to be cultivated, rather than her strength; her +folly, rather than her wisdom. She was to be a weak, fearful, tearful, +characterless, inferior creature, with just sense enough to understand +the soft nothings addressed to her by the "superior" sex. She was to +be educated as an ornamental appanage of man, rather as an independent +intelligence--or as a wife, mother, companion, or friend. + +Pope, in one of his 'Moral Essays,' asserts that "most women have no +characters at all;" and again he says:-- + + "Ladies, like variegated tulips, show: + 'Tis to their changes half their charms we owe, + Fine by defect and delicately weak." + +This satire characteristically occurs in the poet's 'Epistle to Martha +Blount,' the housekeeper who so tyrannically ruled him; and in the same +verses he spitefully girds at Lady Mary Wortley Montague, at whose feet +he had thrown himself as a lover, and been contemptuously rejected. +But Pope was no judge of women, nor was he even a very wise or tolerant +judge of men. + +It is still too much the practice to cultivate the weakness of woman +rather than her strength, and to render her attractive rather than +self-reliant. Her sensibilities are developed at the expense of her +health of body as well as of mind. She lives, moves, and has her being +in the sympathy of others. She dresses that she may attract, and is +burdened with accomplishments that she may be chosen. Weak, trembling, +and dependent, she incurs the risk of becoming a living embodiment of +the Italian proverb--"so good that she is good for nothing." + +On the other hand, the education of young men too often errs on the +side of selfishness. While the boy is incited to trust mainly to his own +efforts in pushing his way in the world, the girl is encouraged to rely +almost entirely upon others. He is educated with too exclusive reference +to himself and she is educated with too exclusive reference to him. He +is taught to be self-reliant and self-dependent, while she is taught +to be distrustful of herself, dependent, and self-sacrificing in all +things. Thus, the intellect of the one is cultivated at the expense of +the affections, and the affections of the other at the expense of the +intellect. + +It is unquestionable that the highest qualities of woman are displayed +in her relationship to others, through the medium of her affections. She +is the nurse whom nature has given to all humankind. She takes charge +of the helpless, and nourishes and cherishes those we love. She is the +presiding genius of the fireside, where she creates an atmosphere +of serenity and contentment suitable for the nurture and growth +of character in its best forms. She is by her very constitution +compassionate, gentle, patient, and self-denying. Loving, hopeful, +trustful, her eye sheds brightness everywhere. It shines upon coldness +and warms it, upon suffering and relieves it, upon sorrow and cheers +it:-- + + "Her silver flow + Of subtle-paced counsel in distress, + Right to the heart and brain, though undescried, + Winning its way with extreme gentleness + Through all the outworks of suspicion's pride." + +Woman has been styled "the angel of the unfortunate." She is ready to +help the weak, to raise the fallen, to comfort the suffering. It was +characteristic of woman, that she should have been the first to build +and endow an hospital. It has been said that wherever a human being +is in suffering, his sighs call a woman to his side. When Mungo Park, +lonely, friendless, and famished, after being driven forth from an +African village by the men, was preparing to spend the night under a +tree, exposed to the rain and the wild beasts which there abounded, +a poor negro woman, returning from the labours of the field, took +compassion upon him, conducted him into her hut, and there gave him +food, succour, and shelter. [201] + +But while the most characteristic qualities of woman are displayed +through her sympathies and affections, it is also necessary for her own +happiness, as a self-dependent being, to develope and strengthen her +character, by due self-culture, self-reliance, and self-control. It is +not desirable, even were it possible, to close the beautiful avenues +of the heart. Self-reliance of the best kind does not involve any +limitation in the range of human sympathy. But the happiness of woman, +as of man, depends in a great measure upon her individual completeness +of character. And that self-dependence which springs from the due +cultivation of the intellectual powers, conjoined with a proper +discipline of the heart and conscience, will enable her to be more +useful in life as well as happy; to dispense blessings intelligently as +well as to enjoy them; and most of all those which spring from mutual +dependence and social sympathy. + +To maintain a high standard of purity in society, the culture of both +sexes must be in harmony, and keep equal pace. A pure womanhood must be +accompanied by a pure manhood. The same moral law applies alike to both. +It would be loosening the foundations of virtue, to countenance the +notion that because of a difference in sex, man were at liberty to set +morality at defiance, and to do that with impunity, which, if done by +a woman, would stain her character for life. To maintain a pure and +virtuous condition of society, therefore, man as well as woman must be +pure and virtuous; both alike shunning all acts impinging on the heart, +character, and conscience--shunning them as poison, which, once imbibed, +can never be entirely thrown out again, but mentally embitters, to a +greater or less extent, the happiness of after-life. + +And here we would venture to touch upon a delicate topic. Though it is +one of universal and engrossing human interest, the moralist avoids it, +the educator shuns it, and parents taboo it. It is almost considered +indelicate to refer to Love as between the sexes; and young persons are +left to gather their only notions of it from the impossible love-stories +that fill the shelves of circulating libraries. This strong and +absorbing feeling, this BESOIN D'AIMER--which nature has for wise +purposes made so strong in woman that it colours her whole life and +history, though it may form but an episode in the life of man--is +usually left to follow its own inclinations, and to grow up for the most +part unchecked, without any guidance or direction whatever. + +Although nature spurns all formal rules and directions in affairs of +love, it might at all events be possible to implant in young minds such +views of Character as should enable them to discriminate between +the true and the false, and to accustom them to hold in esteem those +qualities of moral purity and integrity, without which life is but a +scene of folly and misery. It may not be possible to teach young people +to love wisely, but they may at least be guarded by parental advice +against the frivolous and despicable passions which so often usurp its +name. "Love," it has been said, "in the common acceptation of the term, +is folly; but love, in its purity, its loftiness, its unselfishness, +is not only a consequence, but a proof, of our moral excellence. The +sensibility to moral beauty, the forgetfulness of self in the admiration +engendered by it, all prove its claim to a high moral influence. It is +the triumph of the unselfish over the selfish part of our nature." + +It is by means of this divine passion that the world is kept ever +fresh and young. It is the perpetual melody of humanity. It sheds an +effulgence upon youth, and throws a halo round age. It glorifies the +present by the light it casts backward, and it lightens the future by +the beams it casts forward. The love which is the outcome of esteem and +admiration, has an elevating and purifying effect on the character. +It tends to emancipate one from the slavery of self. It is altogether +unsordid; itself is its only price. It inspires gentleness, sympathy, +mutual faith, and confidence. True love also in a measure elevates the +intellect. "All love renders wise in a degree," says the poet Browning, +and the most gifted minds have been the sincerest lovers. Great +souls make all affections great; they elevate and consecrate all true +delights. The sentiment even brings to light qualities before lying +dormant and unsuspected. It elevates the aspirations, expands the soul, +and stimulates the mental powers. One of the finest compliments ever +paid to a woman was that of Steele, when he said of Lady Elizabeth +Hastings, "that to have loved her was a liberal education." Viewed in +this light, woman is an educator in the highest sense, because, above +all other educators, she educates humanly and lovingly. + +It has been said that no man and no woman can be regarded as complete in +their experience of life, until they have been subdued into union with +the world through their affections. As woman is not woman until she +has known love, neither is man man. Both are requisite to each other's +completeness. Plato entertained the idea that lovers each sought a +likeness in the other, and that love was only the divorced half of +the original human being entering into union with its counterpart. But +philosophy would here seem to be at fault, for affection quite as often +springs from unlikeness as from likeness in its object. + +The true union must needs be one of mind as well as of heart, and based +on mutual esteem as well as mutual affection. "No true and enduring +love," says Fichte, "can exist without esteem; every other draws regret +after it, and is unworthy of any noble human soul." One cannot really +love the bad, but always something that we esteem and respect as well as +admire. In short, true union must rest on qualities of character, which +rule in domestic as in public life. + +But there is something far more than mere respect and esteem in the +union between man and wife. The feeling on which it rests is far deeper +and tenderer--such, indeed, as never exists between men or between +women. "In matters of affection," says Nathaniel Hawthorne, "there is +always an impassable gulf between man and man. They can never quite +grasp each other's hands, and therefore man never derives any intimate +help, any heart-sustenance, from his brother man, but from woman--his +mother, his sister, or his wife." [202] + +Man enters a new world of joy, and sympathy, and human interest, through +the porch of love. He enters a new world in his home--the home of his +own making--altogether different from the home of his boyhood, where +each day brings with it a succession of new joys and experiences. He +enters also, it may be, a new world of trials and sorrows, in which +he often gathers his best culture and discipline. "Family life," says +Sainte-Beuve, "may be full of thorns and cares; but they are fruitful: +all others are dry thorns." And again: "If a man's home, at a certain +period of life, does not contain children, it will probably be found +filled with follies or with vices." [203] + +A life exclusively occupied in affairs of business insensibly tends +to narrow and harden the character. It is mainly occupied with +self-watching for advantages, and guarding against sharp practice on +the part of others. Thus the character unconsciously tends to grow +suspicious and ungenerous. The best corrective of such influences is +always the domestic; by withdrawing the mind from thoughts that are +wholly gainful, by taking it out of its daily rut, and bringing it back +to the sanctuary of home for refreshment and rest: + + "That truest, rarest light of social joy, + Which gleams upon the man of many cares." + +"Business," says Sir Henry Taylor, "does but lay waste the approaches to +the heart, whilst marriage garrisons the fortress." And however the head +may be occupied, by labours of ambition or of business--if the heart +be not occupied by affection for others and sympathy with them--life, +though it may appear to the outer world to be a success, will probably +be no success at all, but a failure. [204] + +A man's real character will always be more visible in his household than +anywhere else; and his practical wisdom will be better exhibited by the +manner in which he bears rule there, than even in the larger affairs of +business or public life. His whole mind may be in his business; but, if +he would be happy, his whole heart must be in his home. It is there +that his genuine qualities most surely display themselves--there that +he shows his truthfulness, his love, his sympathy, his consideration +for others, his uprightness, his manliness--in a word, his character. If +affection be not the governing principle in a household, domestic life +may be the most intolerable of despotisms. Without justice, also, there +can be neither love, confidence, nor respect, on which all true domestic +rule is founded. + +Erasmus speaks of Sir Thomas More's home as "a school and exercise of +the Christian religion." "No wrangling, no angry word was heard in it; +no one was idle; every one did his duty with alacrity, and not without +a temperate cheerfulness." Sir Thomas won all hearts to obedience by his +gentleness. He was a man clothed in household goodness; and he ruled so +gently and wisely, that his home was pervaded by an atmosphere of love +and duty. He himself spoke of the hourly interchange of the smaller acts +of kindness with the several members of his family, as having a claim +upon his time as strong as those other public occupations of his life +which seemed to others so much more serious and important. + +But the man whose affections are quickened by home-life, does not +confine his sympathies within that comparatively narrow sphere. His +love enlarges in the family, and through the family it expands into the +world. "Love," says Emerson, "is a fire that, kindling its first embers +in the narrow nook of a private bosom, caught from a wandering spark out +of another private heart, glows and enlarges until it warms and beams +upon multitudes of men and women, upon the universal heart of all, and +so lights up the whole world and nature with its generous flames." + +It is by the regimen of domestic affection that the heart of man is best +composed and regulated. The home is the woman's kingdom, her state, +her world--where she governs by affection, by kindness, by the power of +gentleness. There is nothing which so settles the turbulence of a man's +nature as his union in life with a highminded woman. There he finds +rest, contentment, and happiness--rest of brain and peace of spirit. +He will also often find in her his best counsellor, for her instinctive +tact will usually lead him right when his own unaided reason might be +apt to go wrong. The true wife is a staff to lean upon in times of trial +and difficulty; and she is never wanting in sympathy and solace when +distress occurs or fortune frowns. In the time of youth, she is a +comfort and an ornament of man's life; and she remains a faithful +helpmate in maturer years, when life has ceased to be an anticipation, +and we live in its realities. + +What a happy man must Edmund Burke have been, when he could say of his +home, "Every care vanishes the moment I enter under my own roof!" And +Luther, a man full of human affection, speaking of his wife, said, "I +would not exchange my poverty with her for all the riches of Croesus +without her." Of marriage he observed: "The utmost blessing that God can +confer on a man is the possession of a good and pious wife, with whom +he may live in peace and tranquillity--to whom he may confide his whole +possessions, even his life and welfare." And again he said, "To rise +betimes, and to marry young, are what no man ever repents of doing." + +For a man to enjoy true repose and happiness in marriage, he must have +in his wife a soul-mate as well as a helpmate. But it is not requisite +that she should be merely a pale copy of himself. A man no more desires +in his wife a manly woman, than the woman desires in her husband a +feminine man. A woman's best qualities do not reside in her intellect, +but in her affections. She gives refreshment by her sympathies, rather +than by her knowledge. "The brain-women," says Oliver Wendell Holmes, +"never interest us like the heart-women." [205] Men are often so wearied +with themselves, that they are rather predisposed to admire qualities +and tastes in others different from their own. "If I were suddenly +asked," says Mr. Helps, "to give a proof of the goodness of God to us, I +think I should say that it is most manifest in the exquisite difference +He has made between the souls of men and women, so as to create the +possibility of the most comforting and charming companionship that the +mind of man can imagine." [206] But though no man may love a woman for her +understanding, it is not the less necessary for her to cultivate it on +that account. [207] There may be difference in character, but there must +be harmony of mind and sentiment--two intelligent souls as well as two +loving hearts: + + "Two heads in council, two beside the hearth, + Two in the tangled business of the world, + Two in the liberal offices of life." + +There are few men who have written so wisely on the subject of marriage +as Sir Henry Taylor. What he says about the influence of a happy union +in its relation to successful statesmanship, applies to all conditions +of life. The true wife, he says, should possess such qualities as will +tend to make home as much as may be a place of repose. To this end, she +should have sense enough or worth enough to exempt her husband as much +as possible from the troubles of family management, and more especially +from all possibility of debt. "She should be pleasing to his eyes and +to his taste: the taste goes deep into the nature of all men--love is +hardly apart from it; and in a life of care and excitement, that home +which is not the seat of love cannot be a place of repose; rest for +the brain, and peace for the spirit, being only to be had through the +softening of the affections. He should look for a clear understanding, +cheerfulness, and alacrity of mind, rather than gaiety and brilliancy, +and for a gentle tenderness of disposition in preference to an +impassioned nature. Lively talents are too stimulating in a tired man's +house--passion is too disturbing.... + + "Her love should be + A love that clings not, nor is exigent, + Encumbers not the active purposes, + Nor drains their source; but profers with free grace + Pleasure at pleasure touched, at pleasure waived, + A washing of the weary traveller's feet, + A quenching of his thirst, a sweet repose, + Alternate and preparative; in groves + Where, loving much the flower that loves the shade, + And loving much the shade that that flower loves, + He yet is unbewildered, unenslaved, + Thence starting light, and pleasantly let go + When serious service calls." [208] + +Some persons are disappointed in marriage, because they expect too +much from it; but many more, because they do not bring into the +co-partnership their fair share of cheerfulness, kindliness, +forbearance, and common sense. Their imagination has perhaps pictured +a condition never experienced on this side Heaven; and when real life +comes, with its troubles and cares, there is a sudden waking-up as from +a dream. Or they look for something approaching perfection in their +chosen companion, and discover by experience that the fairest of +characters have their weaknesses. Yet it is often the very imperfection +of human nature, rather than its perfection, that makes the strongest +claims on the forbearance and sympathy of others, and, in affectionate +and sensible natures, tends to produce the closest unions. + +The golden rule of married life is, "Bear and forbear." Marriage, like +government, is a series of compromises. One must give and take, refrain +and restrain, endure and be patient. One may not be blind to another's +failings, but they may be borne with good-natured forbearance. Of all +qualities, good temper is the one that wears and works the best in +married life. Conjoined with self-control, it gives patience--the +patience to bear and forbear, to listen without retort, to refrain until +the angry flash has passed. How true it is in marriage, that "the soft +answer turneth away wrath!" + +Burns the poet, in speaking of the qualities of a good wife, divided +them into ten parts. Four of these he gave to good temper, two to good +sense, one to wit, one to beauty--such as a sweet face, eloquent eyes, +a fine person, a graceful carriage; and the other two parts he divided +amongst the other qualities belonging to or attending on a wife--such +as fortune, connections, education [20that is, of a higher standard than +ordinary], family blood, &c.; but he said: "Divide those two degrees +as you please, only remember that all these minor proportions must +be expressed by fractions, for there is not any one of them that is +entitled to the dignity of an integer." + +It has been said that girls are very good at making nets, but that it +would be better still if they would learn to make cages. Men are often +as easily caught as birds, but as difficult to keep. If the wife cannot +make her home bright and happy, so that it shall be the cleanest, +sweetest, cheerfulest place that her husband can find refuge in--a +retreat from the toils and troubles of the outer world--then God help +the poor man, for he is virtually homeless! + +No wise person will marry for beauty mainly. It may exercise a powerful +attraction in the first place, but it is found to be of comparatively +little consequence afterwards. Not that beauty of person is to be +underestimated, for, other things being equal, handsomeness of form +and beauty of features are the outward manifestations of health. But to +marry a handsome figure without character, fine features unbeautified +by sentiment or good-nature, is the most deplorable of mistakes. As even +the finest landscape, seen daily, becomes monotonous, so does the most +beautiful face, unless a beautiful nature shines through it. The beauty +of to-day becomes commonplace to-morrow; whereas goodness, displayed +through the most ordinary features, is perennially lovely. Moreover, +this kind of beauty improves with age, and time ripens rather than +destroys it. After the first year, married people rarely think of +each other's features, and whether they be classically beautiful or +otherwise. But they never fail to be cognisant of each other's temper. +"When I see a man," says Addison, "with a sour rivelled face, I cannot +forbear pitying his wife; and when I meet with an open ingenuous +countenance, I think of the happiness of his friends, his family, and +his relations." + +We have given the views of the poet Burns as to the qualities necessary +in a good wife. Let us add the advice given by Lord Burleigh to his son, +embodying the experience of a wise statesman and practised man of the +world. "When it shall please God," said he, "to bring thee to man's +estate, use great providence and circumspection in choosing thy wife; +for from thence will spring all thy future good or evil. And it is an +action of thy life, like unto a stratagem of war, wherein a man can err +but once.... Enquire diligently of her disposition, and how her parents +have been inclined in their youth. [209] Let her not be poor, how generous +[20well-born] soever; for a man can buy nothing in the market with +gentility. Nor choose a base and uncomely creature altogether for +wealth; for it will cause contempt in others, and loathing in thee. +Neither make choice of a dwarf, or a fool; for by the one thou shalt +beget a race of pigmies, while the other will be thy continual disgrace, +and it will yirke [20irk] thee to hear her talk. For thou shalt find it to +thy great grief, that there is nothing more fulsome [20disgusting] than a +she-fool." + +A man's moral character is, necessarily, powerfully influenced by his +wife. A lower nature will drag him down, as a higher will lift him +up. The former will deaden his sympathies, dissipate his energies, and +distort his life; while the latter, by satisfying his affections, will +strengthen his moral nature, and by giving him repose, tend to energise +his intellect. Not only so, but a woman of high principles will +insensibly elevate the aims and purposes of her husband, as one of +low principles will unconsciously degrade them. De Tocqueville was +profoundly impressed by this truth. He entertained the opinion that man +could have no such mainstay in life as the companionship of a wife of +good temper and high principle. He says that in the course of his life, +he had seen even weak men display real public virtue, because they had +by their side a woman of noble character, who sustained them in their +career, and exercised a fortifying influence on their views of public +duty; whilst, on the contrary, he had still oftener seen men of great +and generous instincts transformed into vulgar self-seekers, by contact +with women of narrow natures, devoted to an imbecile love of pleasure, +and from whose minds the grand motive of Duty was altogether absent. + +De Tocqueville himself had the good fortune to be blessed with an +admirable wife: [2010] and in his letters to his intimate friends, he +spoke most gratefully of the comfort and support he derived from her +sustaining courage, her equanimity of temper, and her nobility of +character. The more, indeed, that De Tocqueville saw of the world and of +practical life, the more convinced he became of the necessity of healthy +domestic conditions for a man's growth in virtue and goodness. [2011] +Especially did he regard marriage as of inestimable importance in regard +to a man's true happiness; and he was accustomed to speak of his own +as the wisest action of his life. "Many external circumstances of +happiness," he said, "have been granted to me. But more than all, I have +to thank Heaven for having bestowed on me true domestic happiness, the +first of human blessings. As I grow older, the portion of my life which +in my youth I used to look down upon, every day becomes more important +in my eyes, and would now easily console me for the loss of all the +rest." And again, writing to his bosom-friend, De Kergorlay, he said: +"Of all the blessings which God has given to me, the greatest of all in +my eyes is to have lighted on Marie. You cannot imagine what she is in +great trials. Usually so gentle, she then becomes strong and energetic. +She watches me without my knowing it; she softens, calms, and +strengthens me in difficulties which disturb ME, but leave her serene." +[2012] In another letter he says: "I cannot describe to you the happiness +yielded in the long run by the habitual society of a woman in whose soul +all that is good in your own is reflected naturally, and even improved. +When I say or do a thing which seems to me to be perfectly right, I read +immediately in Marie's countenance an expression of proud satisfaction +which elevates me. And so, when my conscience reproaches me, her face +instantly clouds over. Although I have great power over her mind, I see +with pleasure that she awes me; and so long as I love her as I do now, +I am sure that I shall never allow myself to be drawn into anything that +is wrong." + +In the retired life which De Tocqueville led as a literary +man--political life being closed against him by the inflexible +independence of his character--his health failed, and he became ill, +irritable, and querulous. While proceeding with his last work, 'L'Ancien +Regime et la Revolution,' he wrote: "After sitting at my desk for five +or six hours, I can write no longer; the machine refuses to act. I am in +great want of rest, and of a long rest. If you add all the perplexities +that besiege an author towards the end of his work, you will be able to +imagine a very wretched life. I could not go on with my task if it +were not for the refreshing calm of Marie's companionship. It would be +impossible to find a disposition forming a happier contrast to my own. +In my perpetual irritability of body and mind, she is a providential +resource that never fails me." [2013] + +M. Guizot was, in like manner, sustained and encouraged, amidst his many +vicissitudes and disappointments, by his noble wife. If he was treated +with harshness by his political enemies, his consolation was in the +tender affection which filled his home with sunshine. Though his public +life was bracing and stimulating, he felt, nevertheless, that it was +cold and calculating, and neither filled the soul nor elevated the +character. "Man longs for a happiness," he says in his 'Memoires,' "more +complete and more tender than that which all the labours and triumphs of +active exertion and public importance can bestow. What I know to-day, +at the end of my race, I have felt when it began, and during its +continuance. Even in the midst of great undertakings, domestic +affections form the basis of life; and the most brilliant career has +only superficial and incomplete enjoyments, if a stranger to the happy +ties of family and friendship." + +The circumstances connected with M. Guizot's courtship and marriage are +curious and interesting. While a young man living by his pen in +Paris, writing books, reviews, and translations, he formed a casual +acquaintance with Mademoiselle Pauline de Meulan, a lady of great +ability, then editor of the PUBLICISTE. A severe domestic calamity +having befallen her, she fell ill, and was unable for a time to carry on +the heavy literary work connected with her journal. At this juncture a +letter without any signature reached her one day, offering a supply of +articles, which the writer hoped would be worthy of the reputation of +the PUBLICISTE. The articles duly arrived, were accepted, and +published. They dealt with a great variety of subjects--art, literature, +theatricals, and general criticism. When the editor at length recovered +from her illness, the writer of the articles disclosed himself: it was +M. Guizot. An intimacy sprang up between them, which ripened into mutual +affection, and before long Mademoiselle de Meulan became his wife. + +From that time forward, she shared in all her husband's joys and +sorrows, as well as in many of his labours. Before they became united, +he asked her if she thought she should ever become dismayed at the +vicissitudes of his destiny, which he then saw looming before him. She +replied that he might assure himself that she would always passionately +enjoy his triumphs, but never heave a sigh over his defeats. When M. +Guizot became first minister of Louis Philippe, she wrote to a friend: +"I now see my husband much less than I desire, but still I see him.... +If God spares us to each other, I shall always be, in the midst of every +trial and apprehension, the happiest of beings." Little more than six +months after these words were written, the devoted wife was laid in +her grave; and her sorrowing husband was left thenceforth to tread the +journey of life alone. + +Burke was especially happy in his union with Miss Nugent, a beautiful, +affectionate, and highminded woman. The agitation and anxiety of his +public life was more than compensated by his domestic happiness, which +seems to have been complete. It was a saying of Burke, thoroughly +illustrative of his character, that "to love the little platoon +we belong to in society is the germ of all public affections." His +description of his wife, in her youth, is probably one of the finest +word-portraits in the language:-- + +"She is handsome; but it is a beauty not arising from features, from +complexion, or from shape. She has all three in a high degree, but it is +not by these she touches the heart; it is all that sweetness of temper, +benevolence, innocence, and sensibility, which a face can express, that +forms her beauty. She has a face that just raises your attention at +first sight; it grows on you every moment, and you wonder it did no more +than raise your attention at first. + +"Her eyes have a mild light, but they awe when she pleases; they +command, like a good man out of office, not by authority, but by virtue. + +"Her stature is not tall; she is not made to be the admiration of +everybody, but the happiness of one. + +"She has all the firmness that does not exclude delicacy; she has all +the softness that does not imply weakness. + +"Her voice is a soft low music--not formed to rule in public assemblies, +but to charm those who can distinguish a company from a crowd; it has +this advantage--YOU MUST COME CLOSE TO HER TO HEAR IT. + +"To describe her body describes her mind--one is the transcript of +the other; her understanding is not shown in the variety of matters it +exerts itself on, but in the goodness of the choice she makes. + +"She does not display it so much in saying or doing striking things, as +in avoiding such as she ought not to say or do. + +"No person of so few years can know the world better; no person was ever +less corrupted by the knowledge of it. + +"Her politeness flows rather from a natural disposition to oblige, than +from any rules on that subject, and therefore never fails to strike +those who understand good breeding and those who do not. + +"She has a steady and firm mind, which takes no more from the solidity +of the female character than the solidity of marble does from its polish +and lustre. She has such virtues as make us value the truly great of +our own sex. She has all the winning graces that make us love even the +faults we see in the weak and beautiful, in hers." + +Let us give, as a companion picture, the not less beautiful delineation +of a husband, that of Colonel Hutchinson, the Commonwealth man, by his +widow. Shortly before his death, he enjoined her "not to grieve at the +common rate of desolate women." And, faithful to his injunction, instead +of lamenting his loss, she indulged her noble sorrow in depicting her +husband as he had lived. + +"They who dote on mortal excellences," she says, in her Introduction +to the 'Life,' "when, by the inevitable fate of all things frail, their +adored idols are taken from them, may let loose the winds of passion +to bring in a flood of sorrow, whose ebbing tides carry away the dear +memory of what they have lost; and when comfort is essayed to such +mourners, commonly all objects are removed out of their view which +may with their remembrance renew the grief; and in time these remedies +succeed, and oblivion's curtain is by degrees drawn over the dead face; +and things less lovely are liked, while they are not viewed together +with that which was most excellent. But I, that am under a command not +to grieve at the common rate of desolate women, [2014] while I am studying +which way to moderate my woe, and if it were possible to augment my +love, I can for the present find out none more just to your dear father, +nor consolatory to myself, than the preservation of his memory, which I +need not gild with such flattering commendations as hired preachers do +equally give to the truly and titularly honourable. A naked undressed +narrative, speaking the simple truth of him, will deck him with more +substantial glory, than all the panegyrics the best pens could ever +consecrate to the virtues of the best men." + +The following is the wife's portrait of Colonel Hutchinson as a +husband:-- + +"For conjugal affection to his wife, it was such in him as whosoever +would draw out a rule of honour, kindness, and religion, to be practised +in that estate, need no more but exactly draw out his example. Never +man had a greater passion for a woman, nor a more honourable esteem of +a wife: yet he was not uxorious, nor remitted he that just rule which +it was her honour to obey, but managed the reins of government with +such prudence and affection, that she who could not delight in such an +honourable and advantageable subjection, must have wanted a reasonable +soul. + +"He governed by persuasion, which he never employed but to things +honourable and profitable to herself; he loved her soul and her honour +more than her outside, and yet he had ever for her person a constant +indulgence, exceeding the common temporary passion of the most uxorious +fools. If he esteemed her at a higher rate than she in herself could +have deserved, he was the author of that virtue he doated on, while +she only reflected his own glories upon him. All that she was, was HIM, +while he was here, and all that she is now, at best, is but his pale +shade. + +"So liberal was he to her, and of so generous a temper, that he hated +the mention of severed purses, his estate being so much at her disposal +that he never would receive an account of anything she expended. So +constant was he in his love, that when she ceased to be young and lovely +he began to show most fondness. He loved her at such a kind and generous +rate as words cannot express. Yet even this, which was the highest love +he or any man could have, was bounded by a superior: he loved her in +the Lord as his fellow-creature, not his idol; but in such a manner as +showed that an affection, founded on the just rules of duty, far exceeds +every way all the irregular passions in the world. He loved God above +her, and all the other dear pledges of his heart, and for his glory +cheerfully resigned them." [2015] + +Lady Rachel Russell is another of the women of history celebrated for +her devotion and faithfulness as a wife. She laboured and pleaded for +her husband's release so long as she could do so with honour; but when +she saw that all was in vain, she collected her courage, and strove by +her example to strengthen the resolution of her dear lord. And when his +last hour had nearly come, and his wife and children waited to receive +his parting embrace, she, brave to the end, that she might not add +to his distress, concealed the agony of her grief under a seeming +composure; and they parted, after a tender adieu, in silence. After she +had gone, Lord William said, "Now the bitterness of death is passed!" +[2016] + +We have spoken of the influence of a wife upon a man's character. There +are few men strong enough to resist the influence of a lower character +in a wife. If she do not sustain and elevate what is highest in his +nature, she will speedily reduce him to her own level. Thus a wife may +be the making or the unmaking of the best of men. An illustration of +this power is furnished in the life of Bunyan. The profligate tinker had +the good fortune to marry, in early life, a worthy young woman of good +parentage. "My mercy," he himself says, "was to light upon a wife whose +father and mother were accounted godly. This woman and I, though we came +together as poor as poor might be [20not having so much household stuff as +a dish or a spoon betwixt us both], yet she had for her part, 'The Plain +Man's Pathway to Heaven,' and 'The Practice of Piety,' which her father +had left her when he died." And by reading these and other good books; +helped by the kindly influence of his wife, Bunyan was gradually +reclaimed from his evil ways, and led gently into the paths of peace. + +Richard Baxter, the Nonconformist divine, was far advanced in life +before he met the excellent woman who eventually became his wife. He was +too laboriously occupied in his vocation of minister to have any time to +spare for courtship; and his marriage was, as in the case of Calvin, as +much a matter of convenience as of love. Miss Charlton, the lady of his +choice, was the owner of property in her own right; but lest it should +be thought that Baxter married her for "covetousness," he requested, +first, that she should give over to her relatives the principal part of +her fortune, and that "he should have nothing that before her marriage +was hers;" secondly, that she should so arrange her affairs "as that +he might be entangled in no lawsuits;" and, thirdly, "that she should +expect none of the time that his ministerial work might require." These +several conditions the bride having complied with, the marriage took +place, and proved a happy one. "We lived," said Baxter, "in inviolated +love and mutual complacency, sensible of the benefit of mutual help, +nearly nineteen years." Yet the life of Baxter was one of great trials +and troubles, arising from the unsettled state of the times in which he +lived. He was hunted about from one part of the country to another, +and for several years he had no settled dwelling-place. "The women," he +gently remarks in his 'Life,' "have most of that sort of trouble, but my +wife easily bore it all." In the sixth year of his marriage Baxter was +brought before the magistrates at Brentford, for holding a conventicle +at Acton, and was sentenced by them to be imprisoned in Clerkenwell +Gaol. There he was joined by his wife, who affectionately nursed him +during his confinement. "She was never so cheerful a companion to me," +he says, "as in prison, and was very much against me seeking to be +released." At length he was set at liberty by the judges of the Court +of Common Pleas, to whom he had appealed against the sentence of the +magistrates. At the death of Mrs. Baxter, after a very troubled yet +happy and cheerful life, her husband left a touching portrait of the +graces, virtues, and Christian character of this excellent woman--one of +the most charming things to be found in his works. + +The noble Count Zinzendorf was united to an equally noble woman, who +bore him up through life by her great spirit, and sustained him in all +his labours by her unfailing courage. "Twenty-four years' experience has +shown me," he said, "that just the helpmate whom I have is the only one +that could suit my vocation. Who else could have so carried through my +family affairs?--who lived so spotlessly before the world? Who so wisely +aided me in my rejection of a dry morality?.... Who would, like she, +without a murmur, have seen her husband encounter such dangers by land +and sea?--who undertaken with him, and sustained, such astonishing +pilgrimages? Who, amid such difficulties, could have held up her head +and supported me?.... And finally, who, of all human beings, could so +well understand and interpret to others my inner and outer being as this +one, of such nobleness in her way of thinking, such great intellectual +capacity, and free from the theological perplexities that so often +enveloped me?" + +One of the brave Dr. Livingstone's greatest trials during his travels in +South Africa was the death of his affectionate wife, who had shared +his dangers, and accompanied him in so many of his wanderings. In +communicating the intelligence of her decease at Shupanga, on the River +Zambesi, to his friend Sir Roderick Murchison, Dr. Livingstone said: +"I must confess that this heavy stroke quite takes the heart out of +me. Everything else that has happened only made me more determined to +overcome all difficulties; but after this sad stroke I feel crushed and +void of strength. Only three short months of her society, after four +years separation! I married her for love, and the longer I lived with +her I loved her the more. A good wife, and a good, brave, kindhearted +mother was she, deserving all the praises you bestowed upon her at our +parting dinner, for teaching her own and the native children, too, at +Kolobeng. I try to bow to the blow as from our Heavenly Father, who +orders all things for us.... I shall do my duty still, but it is with a +darkened horizon that I again set about it." + +Sir Samuel Romilly left behind him, in his Autobiography, a touching +picture of his wife, to whom he attributed no small measure of the +success and happiness that accompanied him through life. "For the last +fifteen years," he said, "my happiness has been the constant study of +the most excellent of wives: a woman in whom a strong understanding, the +noblest and most elevated sentiments, and the most courageous virtue, +are united to the warmest affection, and to the utmost delicacy of mind +and heart; and all these intellectual perfections are graced by the most +splendid beauty that human eyes ever beheld." [2017] Romilly's affection +and admiration for this noble woman endured to the end; and when she +died, the shock proved greater than his sensitive nature could bear. +Sleep left his eyelids, his mind became unhinged, and three days after +her death the sad event occurred which brought his own valued life to a +close. [2018] + +Sir Francis Burdett, to whom Romilly had been often politically opposed, +fell into such a state of profound melancholy on the death of his wife, +that he persistently refused nourishment of any kind, and died before +the removal of her remains from the house; and husband and wife were +laid side by side in the same grave. + +It was grief for the loss of his wife that sent Sir Thomas Graham into +the army at the age of forty-three. Every one knows the picture of the +newly-wedded pair by Gainsborough--one of the most exquisite of that +painter's works. They lived happily together for eighteen years, and +then she died, leaving him inconsolable. To forget his sorrow--and, +as some thought, to get rid of the weariness of his life without +her--Graham joined Lord Hood as a volunteer, and distinguished himself +by the recklessness of his bravery at the siege of Toulon. He served all +through the Peninsular War, first under Sir John Moore, and afterwards +under Wellington; rising through the various grades of the service, +until he rose to be second in command. He was commonly known as the +"hero of Barossa," because of his famous victory at that place; and he +was eventually raised to the peerage as Lord Lynedoch, ending his days +peacefully at a very advanced age. But to the last he tenderly cherished +the memory of his dead wife, to the love of whom he may be said to have +owed all his glory. "Never," said Sheridan of him, when pronouncing his +eulogy in the House of Commons--"never was there seated a loftier spirit +in a braver heart." + +And so have noble wives cherished the memory of their husbands. There +is a celebrated monument in Vienna, erected to the memory of one of the +best generals of the Austrian army, on which there is an inscription, +setting forth his great services during the Seven Years' War, concluding +with the words, "NON PATRIA, NEC IMPERATOR, SED CONJUX POSUIT." When Sir +Albert Morton died, his wife's grief was such that she shortly followed +him, and was laid by his side. Wotton's two lines on the event have been +celebrated as containing a volume in seventeen words: + + "He first deceased; she for a little tried + To live without him, liked it not, and died." + +So, when Washington's wife was informed that her dear lord had suffered +his last agony--had drawn his last breath, and departed--she said: "'Tis +well; all is now over. I shall soon follow him; I have no more trials to +pass through." + +Not only have women been the best companions, friends, and consolers, +but they have in many cases been the most effective helpers of their +husbands in their special lines of work. Galvani was especially happy in +his wife. She was the daughter of Professor Galeazzi; and it is said to +have been through her quick observation of the circumstance of the leg +of a frog, placed near an electrical machine, becoming convulsed when +touched by a knife, that her husband was first led to investigate the +science which has since become identified with his name. Lavoisier's +wife also was a woman of real scientific ability, who not only shared +in her husband's pursuits, but even undertook the task of engraving the +plates that accompanied his 'Elements.' + +The late Dr. Buckland had another true helper in his wife, who assisted +him with her pen, prepared and mended his fossils, and furnished many of +the drawings and illustrations of his published works. "Notwithstanding +her devotion to her husband's pursuits," says her son, Frank Buckland, +in the preface to one of his father's works, "she did not neglect the +education of her children, but occupied her mornings in superintending +their instruction in sound and useful knowledge. The sterling value of +her labours they now, in after-life, fully appreciate, and feel most +thankful that they were blessed with so good a mother." [2019] + +A still more remarkable instance of helpfulness in a wife is presented +in the case of Huber, the Geneva naturalist. Huber was blind from his +seventeenth year, and yet he found means to study and master a branch +of natural history demanding the closest observation and the keenest +eyesight. It was through the eyes of his wife that his mind worked as if +they had been his own. She encouraged her husband's studies as a means +of alleviating his privation, which at length he came to forget; and his +life was as prolonged and happy as is usual with most naturalists. He +even went so far as to declare that he should be miserable were he to +regain his eyesight. "I should not know," he said, "to what extent +a person in my situation could be beloved; besides, to me my wife is +always young, fresh, and pretty, which is no light matter." Huber's +great work on 'Bees' is still regarded as a masterpiece, embodying a +vast amount of original observation on their habits and natural history. +Indeed, while reading his descriptions, one would suppose that they were +the work of a singularly keensighted man, rather than of one who had +been entirely blind for twenty-five years at the time at which he wrote +them. + +Not less touching was the devotion of Lady Hamilton to the service +of her husband, the late Sir William Hamilton, Professor of Logic and +Metaphysics in the University of Edinburgh. After he had been stricken +by paralysis through overwork at the age of fifty-six, she became hands, +eyes, mind, and everything to him. She identified herself with his work, +read and consulted books for him, copied out and corrected his lectures, +and relieved him of all business which she felt herself competent to +undertake. Indeed, her conduct as a wife was nothing short of heroic; +and it is probable that but for her devoted and more than wifely help, +and her rare practical ability, the greatest of her husband's works +would never have seen the light. He was by nature unmethodical and +disorderly, and she supplied him with method and orderliness. His +temperament was studious but indolent, while she was active and +energetic. She abounded in the qualities which he most lacked. He had +the genius, to which her vigorous nature gave the force and impulse. + +When Sir William Hamilton was elected to his Professorship, after a +severe and even bitter contest, his opponents, professing to regard him +as a visionary, predicted that he could never teach a class of students, +and that his appointment would prove a total failure. He determined, +with the help of his wife, to justify the choice of his supporters, +and to prove that his enemies were false prophets. Having no stock of +lectures on hand, each lecture of the first course was written out day +by day, as it was to be delivered on the following morning. His wife sat +up with him night after night, to write out a fair copy of the lectures +from the rough sheets, which he drafted in the adjoining room. "On some +occasions," says his biographer, "the subject of the lectures would +prove less easily managed than on others; and then Sir William would be +found writing as late as nine o'clock in the morning, while his faithful +but wearied amanuensis had fallen asleep on a sofa." [2020] + +Sometimes the finishing touches to the lecture were left to be given +just before the class-hour. Thus helped, Sir William completed his +course; his reputation as a lecturer was established; and he eventually +became recognised throughout Europe as one of the leading intellects of +his time. [2021] + +The woman who soothes anxiety by her presence, who charms and allays +irritability by her sweetness of temper, is a consoler as well as a true +helper. Niebuhr always spoke of his wife as a fellow-worker with him +in this sense. Without the peace and consolation which be found in her +society, his nature would have fretted in comparative uselessness. "Her +sweetness of temper and her love," said he, "raise me above the earth, +and in a manner separate me from this life." But she was a helper in +another and more direct way. Niebuhr was accustomed to discuss with his +wife every historical discovery, every political event, every novelty in +literature; and it was mainly for her pleasure and approbation, in +the first instance, that he laboured while preparing himself for the +instruction of the world at large. + +The wife of John Stuart Mill was another worthy helper of her husband, +though in a more abstruse department of study, as we learn from his +touching dedication of the treatise 'On Liberty':--"To the beloved and +deplored memory of her who was the inspirer, and in part the author, +of all that is best in my writings--the friend and wife, whose exalted +sense of truth and right was my strongest incitement, and whose +approbation was my chief reward, I dedicate this volume." Not less +touching is the testimony borne by another great living writer to the +character of his wife, in the inscription upon the tombstone of Mrs. +Carlyle in Haddington Churchyard, where are inscribed these words:--"In +her bright existence, she had more sorrows than are common, but also +a soft amiability, a capacity of discernment, and a noble loyalty of +heart, which are rare. For forty years she was the true and loving +helpmate of her husband, and by act and word unweariedly forwarded him +as none else could, in all of worthy that he did or attempted." + +The married life of Faraday was eminently happy. In his wife he found, +at the same time, a true helpmate and soul-mate. She supported, cheered, +and strengthened him on his way through life, giving him "the clear +contentment of a heart at ease." In his diary he speaks of his marriage +as "a source of honour and happiness far exceeding all the rest." After +twentyeight years' experience, he spoke of it as "an event which, more +than any other, had contributed to his earthly happiness and healthy +state of mind.... The union [20said he] has in nowise changed, except only +in the depth and strength of its character." And for six-and-forty years +did the union continue unbroken; the love of the old man remaining +as fresh, as earnest, as heart-whole, as in the days of his impetuous +youth. In this case, marriage was as-- + +"A golden chain let down from heaven, Whose links are bright and even; +That falls like sleep on lovers, and combines The soft and sweetest +minds In equal knots." + +Besides being a helper, woman is emphatically a consoler. Her sympathy +is unfailing. She soothes, cheers, and comforts. Never was this more +true than in the case of the wife of Tom Hood, whose tender devotion +to him, during a life that was a prolonged illness, is one of the most +affecting things in biography. A woman of excellent good sense, she +appreciated her husband's genius, and, by encouragement and sympathy, +cheered and heartened him to renewed effort in many a weary struggle for +life. She created about him an atmosphere of hope and cheerfulness, and +nowhere did the sunshine of her love seem so bright as when lighting up +the couch of her invalid husband. + +Nor was he unconscious of her worth. In one of his letters to her, when +absent from his side, Hood said: "I never was anything, Dearest, till +I knew you; and I have been a better, happier, and more prosperous man +ever since. Lay by that truth in lavender, Sweetest, and remind me of it +when I fail. I am writing warmly and fondly, but not without good +cause. First, your own affectionate letter, lately received; next, the +remembrance of our dear children, pledges--what darling ones!--of +our old familiar love; then, a delicious impulse to pour out the +overflowings of my heart into yours; and last, not least, the knowledge +that your dear eyes will read what my hand is now writing. Perhaps there +is an afterthought that, whatever may befall me, the wife of my bosom +will have the acknowledgment of her tenderness, worth, excellence--all +that is wifely or womanly, from my pen." In another letter, also written +to his wife during a brief absence, there is a natural touch, showing +his deep affection for her: "I went and retraced our walk in the park, +and sat down on the same seat, and felt happier and better." + +But not only was Mrs. Hood a consoler, she was also a helper of her +husband in his special work. He had such confidence in her judgment, +that he read, and re-read, and corrected with her assistance all that +he wrote. Many of his pieces were first dedicated to her; and her ready +memory often supplied him with the necessary references and quotations. +Thus, in the roll of noble wives of men of genius, Mrs. Hood will always +be entitled to take a foremost place. + +Not less effective as a literary helper was Lady Napier, the wife of Sir +William Napier, historian of the Peninsular War. She encouraged him to +undertake the work, and without her help he would have experienced great +difficulty in completing it. She translated and epitomized the immense +mass of original documents, many of them in cipher, on which it was in +a great measure founded. When the Duke of Wellington was told of the art +and industry she had displayed in deciphering King Joseph's portfolio, +and the immense mass of correspondence taken at Vittoria, he at first +would hardly believe it, adding--"I would have given 20,000L. to any +person who could have done this for me in the Peninsula." Sir William +Napier's handwriting being almost illegible, Lady Napier made out his +rough interlined manuscript, which he himself could scarcely read, and +wrote out a full fair copy for the printer; and all this vast labour she +undertook and accomplished, according to the testimony of her husband, +without having for a moment neglected the care and education of a large +family. When Sir William lay on his deathbed, Lady Napier was at the +same time dangerously ill; but she was wheeled into his room on a sofa, +and the two took their silent farewell of each other. The husband died +first; in a few weeks the wife followed him, and they sleep side by side +in the same grave. + +Many other similar truehearted wives rise up in the memory, to recite +whose praises would more than fill up our remaining space--such as +Flaxman's wife, Ann Denham, who cheered and encouraged her husband +through life in the prosecution of his art, accompanying him to Rome, +sharing in his labours and anxieties, and finally in his triumphs, and +to whom Flaxman, in the fortieth year of their married life, dedicated +his beautiful designs illustrative of Faith, Hope, and Charity, in +token of his deep and undimmed affection;--such as Katherine Boutcher, +"dark-eyed Kate," the wife of William Blake, who believed her husband to +be the first genius on earth, worked off the impressions of his plates +and coloured them beautifully with her own hand, bore with him in all +his erratic ways, sympathised with him in his sorrows and joys for +forty-five years, and comforted him until his dying hour--his last +sketch, made in his seventy-first year, being a likeness of himself, +before making which, seeing his wife crying by his side, he said, "Stay, +Kate! just keep as you are; I will draw your portrait, for you have ever +been an angel to me;"--such again as Lady Franklin, the true and noble +woman, who never rested in her endeavours to penetrate the secret of the +Polar Sea and prosecute the search for her long-lost husband--undaunted +by failure, and persevering in her determination with a devotion and +singleness of purpose altogether unparalleled;--or such again as the +wife of Zimmermann, whose intense melancholy she strove in vain to +assuage, sympathizing with him, listening to him, and endeavouring to +understand him--and to whom, when on her deathbed, about to leave him +for ever, she addressed the touching words, "My poor Zimmermann! who +will now understand thee?" + +Wives have actively helped their husbands in other ways. Before +Weinsberg surrendered to its besiegers, the women of the place asked +permission of the captors to remove their valuables. The permission was +granted, and shortly after, the women were seen issuing from the gates +carrying their husbands on their shoulders. Lord Nithsdale owed his +escape from prison to the address of his wife, who changed garments with +him, sending him forth in her stead, and herself remaining prisoner,--an +example which was successfully repeated by Madame de Lavalette. + +But the most remarkable instance of the release of a husband through the +devotion of a wife, was that of the celebrated Grotius. He had lain for +nearly twenty months in the strong fortress of Loevestein, near Gorcum, +having been condemned by the government of the United Provinces to +perpetual imprisonment. His wife, having been allowed to share his cell, +greatly relieved his solitude. She was permitted to go into the town +twice a week, and bring her husband books, of which he required a large +number to enable him to prosecute his studies. At length a large chest +was required to hold them. This the sentries at first examined with +great strictness, but, finding that it only contained books [20amongst +others Arminian books] and linen, they at length gave up the search, +and it was allowed to pass out and in as a matter of course. This led +Grotius' wife to conceive the idea of releasing him; and she persuaded +him one day to deposit himself in the chest instead of the outgoing +books. When the two soldiers appointed to remove it took it up, they +felt it to be considerably heavier than usual, and one of them asked, +jestingly, "Have we got the Arminian himself here?" to which the +ready-witted wife replied, "Yes, perhaps some Arminian books." The chest +reached Gorcum in safety; the captive was released; and Grotius escaped +across the frontier into Brabant, and afterwards into France, where he +was rejoined by his wife. + +Trial and suffering are the tests of married life. They bring out the +real character, and often tend to produce the closest union. They may +even be the spring of the purest happiness. Uninterrupted joy, like +uninterrupted success, is not good for either man or woman. When Heine's +wife died, he began to reflect upon the loss he had sustained. They had +both known poverty, and struggled through it hand-in-hand; and it was +his greatest sorrow that she was taken from him at the moment when +fortune was beginning to smile upon him, but too late for her to share +in his prosperity. "Alas I" said he, "amongst my griefs must I reckon +even her love--the strongest, truest, that ever inspired the heart +of woman--which made me the happiest of mortals, and yet was to me a +fountain of a thousand distresses, inquietudes, and cares? To entire +cheerfulness, perhaps, she never attained; but for what unspeakable +sweetness, what exalted, enrapturing joys, is not love indebted to +sorrow! Amidst growing anxieties, with the torture of anguish in my +heart, I have been made, even by the loss which caused me this anguish +and these anxieties, inexpressibly happy! When tears flowed over our +cheeks, did not a nameless, seldom-felt delight stream through my +breast, oppressed equally by joy and sorrow!" + +There is a degree of sentiment in German love which seems strange to +English readers,--such as we find depicted in the lives of Novalis, Jung +Stilling, Fichte, Jean Paul, and others that might be named. The German +betrothal is a ceremony of almost equal importance to the marriage +itself; and in that state the sentiments are allowed free play, whilst +English lovers are restrained, shy, and as if ashamed of their feelings. +Take, for instance, the case of Herder, whom his future wife first saw +in the pulpit. "I heard," she says, "the voice of an angel, and soul's +words such as I had never heard before. In the afternoon I saw him, +and stammered out my thanks to him; from this time forth our souls were +one." They were betrothed long before their means would permit them to +marry; but at length they were united. "We were married," says Caroline, +the wife, "by the rose-light of a beautiful evening. We were one heart, +one soul." Herder was equally ecstatic in his language. "I have a +wife," he wrote to Jacobi, "that is the tree, the consolation, and the +happiness of my life. Even in flying transient thoughts [20which often +surprise us], we are one!" + +Take, again, the case of Fichte, in whose history his courtship and +marriage form a beautiful episode. He was a poor German student, living +with a family at Zurich in the capacity of tutor, when he first made the +acquaintance of Johanna Maria Hahn, a niece of Klopstock. Her position +in life was higher than that of Fichte; nevertheless, she regarded him +with sincere admiration. When Fichte was about to leave Zurich, his +troth plighted to her, she, knowing him to be very poor, offered him +a gift of money before setting out. He was inexpressibly hurt by the +offer, and, at first, even doubted whether she could really love him; +but, on second thoughts, he wrote to her, expressing his deep thanks, +but, at the same time, the impossibility of his accepting such a gift +from her. He succeeded in reaching his destination, though entirely +destitute of means. After a long and hard struggle with the world, +extending over many years, Fichte was at length earning money enough to +enable him to marry. In one of his charming letters to his betrothed +he said:--"And so, dearest, I solemnly devote myself to thee, and thank +thee that thou hast thought me not unworthy to be thy companion on the +journey of life.... There is no land of happiness here below--I know it +now--but a land of toil, where every joy but strengthens us for greater +labour. Hand-in-hand we shall traverse it, and encourage and strengthen +each other, until our spirits--oh, may it be together!--shall rise to +the eternal fountain of all peace." + +The married life of Fichte was very happy. His wife proved a true and +highminded helpmate. During the War of Liberation she was assiduous +in her attention to the wounded in the hospitals, where she caught a +malignant fever, which nearly carried her off. Fichte himself caught the +same disease, and was for a time completely prostrated; but he lived for +a few more years and died at the early age of fifty-two, consumed by his +own fire. + +What a contrast does the courtship and married life of the blunt and +practical William Cobbett present to the aesthetical and sentimental +love of these highly refined Germans! Not less honest, not less true, +but, as some would think, comparatively coarse and vulgar. When he first +set eyes upon the girl that was afterwards to become his wife, she was +only thirteen years old, and he was twenty-one--a sergeant-major in a +foot regiment stationed at St. John's in New Brunswick. He was passing +the door of her father's house one day in winter, and saw the girl +out in the snow, scrubbing a washing-tub. He said at once to himself, +"That's the girl for me." He made her acquaintance, and resolved that +she should be his wife so soon as he could get discharged from the army. + +On the eve of the girl's return to Woolwich with her father, who was a +sergeant-major in the artillery, Cobbett sent her a hundred and fifty +guineas which he had saved, in order that she might be able to live +without hard work until his return to England. The girl departed, taking +with her the money; and five years later Cobbett obtained his discharge. +On reaching London, he made haste to call upon the sergeant-major's +daughter. "I found," he says, "my little girl a servant-of-all-work +[20and hard work it was], at five pounds a year, in the house of a Captain +Brisac; and, without hardly saying a word about the matter, she put +into my hands the whole of my hundred and fifty guineas, unbroken." +Admiration of her conduct was now added to love of her person, and +Cobbett shortly after married the girl, who proved an excellent wife. He +was, indeed, never tired of speaking her praises, and it was his pride +to attribute to her all the comfort and much of the success of his +after-life. + +Though Cobbett was regarded by many in his lifetime as a coarse, hard, +practical man, full of prejudices, there was yet a strong undercurrent +of poetry in his nature; and, while he declaimed against sentiment, +there were few men more thoroughly imbued with sentiment of the best +kind. He had the tenderest regard for the character of woman. He +respected her purity and her virtue, and in his 'Advice to Young +Men,' he has painted the true womanly woman--the helpful, cheerful, +affectionate wife--with a vividness and brightness, and, at the same +time, a force of good sense, that has never been surpassed by any +English writer. Cobbett was anything but refined, in the conventional +sense of the word; but he was pure, temperate, self-denying, +industrious, vigorous, and energetic, in an eminent degree. Many of his +views were, no doubt, wrong, but they were his own, for he insisted on +thinking for himself in everything. Though few men took a firmer grasp +of the real than he did, perhaps still fewer were more swayed by the +ideal. In word-pictures of his own emotions, he is unsurpassed. Indeed, +Cobbett might almost be regarded as one of the greatest prose poets of +English real life. + + + + +CHAPTER XII--THE DISCIPLINE OF EXPERIENCE. + + + + "I would the great would grow like thee. + Who grewest not alone in power + And knowledge, but by year and hour + In reverence and in charity."--TENNYSON. + + "Not to be unhappy is unhappynesse, + And misery not t'have known miserie; + For the best way unto discretion is + The way that leades us by adversitie; + And men are better shew'd what is amisse, + By th'expert finger of calamitie, + Than they can be with all that fortune brings, + Who never shewes them the true face of things."--DANIEL. + + "A lump of wo affliction is, + Yet thence I borrow lumps of bliss; + Though few can see a blessing in't, + It is my furnace and my mint." + --ERSKINE'S GOSPEL SONNETS. + + "Crosses grow anchors, bear as thou shouldst so + Thy cross, and that cross grows an anchor too."--DONNE. + + "Be the day weary, or be the day long, + At length it ringeth to Evensong."--ANCIENT COUPLET. + + +Practical wisdom is only to be learnt in the school of experience. +Precepts and instructions are useful so far as they go, but, without the +discipline of real life, they remain of the nature of theory only. The +hard facts of existence have to be faced, to give that touch of truth to +character which can never be imparted by reading or tuition, but only by +contact with the broad instincts of common men and women. + +To be worth anything, character must be capable of standing firm upon +its feet in the world of daily work, temptation, and trial; and able to +bear the wear-and-tear of actual life. Cloistered virtues do not count +for much. The life that rejoices in solitude may be only rejoicing in +selfishness. Seclusion may indicate contempt for others; though more +usually it means indolence, cowardice, or self-indulgence. To every +human being belongs his fair share of manful toil and human duty; and it +cannot be shirked without loss to the individual himself, as well as +to the community to which he belongs. It is only by mixing in the +daily life of the world, and taking part in its affairs, that practical +knowledge can be acquired, and wisdom learnt. It is there that we find +our chief sphere of duty, that we learn the discipline of work, and that +we educate ourselves in that patience, diligence, and endurance +which shape and consolidate the character. There we encounter the +difficulties, trials, and temptations which, according as we deal with +them, give a colour to our entire after-life; and there, too, we become +subject to the great discipline of suffering, from which we learn far +more than from the safe seclusion of the study or the cloister. + +Contact with others is also requisite to enable a man to know himself. +It is only by mixing freely in the world that one can form a proper +estimate of his own capacity. Without such experience, one is apt to +become conceited, puffed-up, and arrogant; at all events, he will remain +ignorant of himself, though he may heretofore have enjoyed no other +company. + +Swift once said: "It is an uncontroverted truth, that no man ever made +an ill-figure who understood his own talents, nor a good one who +mistook them." Many persons, however, are readier to take measure of the +capacity of others than of themselves. "Bring him to me," said a certain +Dr. Tronchin, of Geneva, speaking of Rousseau--"Bring him to me, that I +may see whether he has got anything in him!"--the probability being that +Rousseau, who knew himself better, was much more likely to take measure +of Tronchin than Tronchin was to take measure of him. + +A due amount of self-knowledge is, therefore, necessary for those who +would BE anything or DO anything in the world. It is also one of the +first essentials to the formation of distinct personal convictions. +Frederic Perthes once said to a young friend: "You know only too well +what you CAN do; but till you have learned what you CANNOT do, you will +neither accomplish anything of moment, nor know inward peace." + +Any one who would profit by experience will never be above asking for +help. He who thinks himself already too wise to learn of others, will +never succeed in doing anything either good or great. We have to keep +our minds and hearts open, and never be ashamed to learn, with the +assistance of those who are wiser and more experienced than ourselves. + +The man made wise by experience endeavours to judge correctly of the +thugs which come under his observation, and form the subject of his +daily life. What we call common sense is, for the most part, but the +result of common experience wisely improved. Nor is great ability +necessary to acquire it, so much as patience, accuracy, and +watchfulness. Hazlitt thought the most sensible people to be met with +are intelligent men of business and of the world, who argue from what +they see and know, instead of spinning cobweb distinctions of what +things ought to be. + +For the same reason, women often display more good sense than men, +having fewer pretensions, and judging of things naturally, by the +involuntary impression they make on the mind. Their intuitive powers are +quicker, their perceptions more acute, their sympathies more lively, and +their manners more adaptive to particular ends. Hence their greater tact +as displayed in the management of others, women of apparently slender +intellectual powers often contriving to control and regulate the +conduct of men of even the most impracticable nature. Pope paid a high +compliment to the tact and good sense of Mary, Queen of William III., +when he described her as possessing, not a science, but [21what was worth +all else] prudence. + +The whole of life may be regarded as a great school of experience, in +which men and women are the pupils. As in a school, many of the lessons +learnt there must needs be taken on trust. We may not understand them, +and may possibly think it hard that we have to learn them, especially +where the teachers are trials, sorrows, temptations, and difficulties; +and yet we must not only accept their lessons, but recognise them as +being divinely appointed. + +To what extent have the pupils profited by their experience in the +school of life? What advantage have they taken of their opportunities +for learning? What have they gained in discipline of heart and +mind?--how much in growth of wisdom, courage, self-control? Have +they preserved their integrity amidst prosperity, and enjoyed life in +temperance and moderation? Or, has life been with them a mere feast of +selfishness, without care or thought for others? What have they learnt +from trial and adversity? Have they learnt patience, submission, +and trust in God?--or have they learnt nothing but impatience, +querulousness, and discontent? + +The results of experience are, of course, only to be achieved by living; +and living is a question of time. The man of experience learns to rely +upon Time as his helper. "Time and I against any two," was a maxim +of Cardinal Mazarin. Time has been described as a beautifier and as a +consoler; but it is also a teacher. It is the food of experience, the +soil of wisdom. It may be the friend or the enemy of youth; and Time +will sit beside the old as a consoler or as a tormentor, according as it +has been used or misused, and the past life has been well or ill spent. + +"Time," says George Herbert, "is the rider that breaks youth." To +the young, how bright the new world looks!--how full of novelty, of +enjoyment, of pleasure! But as years pass, we find the world to be a +place of sorrow as well as of joy. As we proceed through life, many dark +vistas open upon us--of toil, suffering, difficulty, perhaps misfortune +and failure. Happy they who can pass through and amidst such trials with +a firm mind and pure heart, encountering trials with cheerfulness, and +standing erect beneath even the heaviest burden! + +A little youthful ardour is a great help in life, and is useful as an +energetic motive power. It is gradually cooled down by Time, no matter +how glowing it has been, while it is trained and subdued by experience. +But it is a healthy and hopeful indication of character,--to be +encouraged in a right direction, and not to be sneered down and +repressed. It is a sign of a vigorous unselfish nature, as egotism is +of a narrow and selfish one; and to begin life with egotism and +self-sufficiency is fatal to all breadth and vigour of character. Life, +in such a case, would be like a year in which there was no spring. +Without a generous seedtime, there will be an unflowering summer and an +unproductive harvest. And youth is the springtime of life, in which, if +there be not a fair share of enthusiasm, little will be attempted, +and still less done. It also considerably helps the working quality, +inspiring confidence and hope, and carrying one through the dry details +of business and duty with cheerfulness and joy. + +"It is the due admixture of romance and reality," said Sir Henry +Lawrence, "that best carries a man through life... The quality of +romance or enthusiasm is to be valued as an energy imparted to the human +mind to prompt and sustain its noblest efforts." Sir Henry always urged +upon young men, not that they should repress enthusiasm, but sedulously +cultivate and direct the feeling, as one implanted for wise and noble +purposes. "When the two faculties of romance and reality," he said, "are +duly blended, reality pursues a straight rough path to a desirable and +practicable result; while romance beguiles the road by pointing out its +beauties--by bestowing a deep and practical conviction that, even in +this dark and material existence, there may be found a joy with which a +stranger intermeddleth not--a light that shineth more and more unto the +perfect day." [211] + +It was characteristic of Joseph Lancaster, when a boy of only fourteen +years of age, after reading 'Clarkson on the Slave Trade,' to form the +resolution of leaving his home and going out to the West Indies to teach +the poor blacks to read the Bible. And he actually set out with a Bible +and 'Pilgrim's Progress' in his bundle, and only a few shillings in his +purse. He even succeeded in reaching the West Indies, doubtless very +much at a loss how to set about his proposed work; but in the meantime +his distressed parents, having discovered whither he had gone, had him +speedily brought back, yet with his enthusiasm unabated; and from that +time forward he unceasingly devoted himself to the truly philanthropic +work of educating the destitute poor. [212] + +There needs all the force that enthusiasm can give to enable a man to +succeed in any great enterprise of life. Without it, the obstruction +and difficulty he has to encounter on every side might compel him to +succumb; but with courage and perseverance, inspired by enthusiasm, +a man feels strong enough to face any danger, to grapple with any +difficulty. What an enthusiasm was that of Columbus, who, believing in +the existence of a new world, braved the dangers of unknown seas; and +when those about him despaired and rose up against him, threatening to +cast him into the sea, still stood firm upon his hope and courage until +the great new world at length rose upon the horizon! + +The brave man will not be baffled, but tries and tries again until +he succeeds. The tree does not fall at the first stroke, but only by +repeated strokes and after great labour. We may see the visible success +at which a man has arrived, but forget the toil and suffering and peril +through which it has been achieved. When a friend of Marshal Lefevre was +complimenting him on his possessions and good fortune, the Marshal said: +"You envy me, do you? Well, you shall have these things at a better +bargain than I had. Come into the court: I'll fire at you with a gun +twenty times at thirty paces, and if I don't kill you, all shall be your +own. What! you won't! Very well; recollect, then, that I have been shot +at more than a thousand times, and much nearer, before I arrived at the +state in which you now find me!" + +The apprenticeship of difficulty is one which the greatest of men +have had to serve. It is usually the best stimulus and discipline of +character. It often evokes powers of action that, but for it, would +have remained dormant. As comets are sometimes revealed by eclipses, +so heroes are brought to light by sudden calamity. It seems as if, in +certain cases, genius, like iron struck by the flint, needed the sharp +and sudden blow of adversity to bring out the divine spark. There are +natures which blossom and ripen amidst trials, which would only wither +and decay in an atmosphere of ease and comfort. + +Thus it is good for men to be roused into action and stiffened into +self-reliance by difficulty, rather than to slumber away their lives +in useless apathy and indolence. [213] It is the struggle that is the +condition of victory. If there were no difficulties, there would be +no need of efforts; if there were no temptations, there would be no +training in self-control, and but little merit in virtue; if there were +no trial and suffering, there would be no education in patience and +resignation. Thus difficulty, adversity, and suffering are not all evil, +but often the best source of strength, discipline, and virtue. + +For the same reason, it is often of advantage for a man to be under the +necessity of having to struggle with poverty and conquer it. "He who has +battled," says Carlyle, "were it only with poverty and hard toil, will +be found stronger and more expert than he who could stay at home +from the battle, concealed among the provision waggons, or even rest +unwatchfully 'abiding by the stuff.'" + +Scholars have found poverty tolerable compared with the privation of +intellectual food. Riches weigh much more heavily upon the mind. "I +cannot but choose say to Poverty," said Richter, "Be welcome! so that +thou come not too late in life." Poverty, Horace tells us, drove him +to poetry, and poetry introduced him to Varus and Virgil and Maecenas. +"Obstacles," says Michelet, "are great incentives. I lived for whole +years upon a Virgil, and found myself well off. An odd volume of Racine, +purchased by chance at a stall on the quay, created the poet of Toulon." + +The Spaniards are even said to have meanly rejoiced the poverty of +Cervantes, but for which they supposed the production of his great works +might have been prevented. When the Archbishop of Toledo visited the +French ambassador at Madrid, the gentlemen in the suite of the latter +expressed their high admiration of the writings of the author of 'Don +Quixote,' and intimated their desire of becoming acquainted with one +who had given them so much pleasure. The answer they received was, that +Cervantes had borne arms in the service of his country, and was now +old and poor. "What!" exclaimed one of the Frenchmen, "is not Senor +Cervantes in good circumstances? Why is he not maintained, then, out +of the public treasury?" "Heaven forbid!" was the reply, "that his +necessities should be ever relieved, if it is those which make him +write; since it is his poverty that makes the world rich!" [214] + +It is not prosperity so much as adversity, not wealth so much as +poverty, that stimulates the perseverance of strong and healthy natures, +rouses their energy and developes their character. Burke said of +himself: "I was not rocked, and swaddled, and dandled into a legislator. +'NITOR IN ADVERSUM' is the motto for a man like you." Some men only +require a great difficulty set in their way to exhibit the force of +their character and genius; and that difficulty once conquered becomes +one of the greatest incentives to their further progress. + +It is a mistake to suppose that men succeed through success; they much +oftener succeed through failure. By far the best experience of men +is made up of their remembered failures in dealing with others in +the affairs of life. Such failures, in sensible men, incite to better +self-management, and greater tact and self-control, as a means of +avoiding them in the future. Ask the diplomatist, and he will tell you +that he has learned his art through being baffled, defeated, thwarted, +and circumvented, far more than from having succeeded. Precept, study, +advice, and example could never have taught them so well as failure has +done. It has disciplined them experimentally, and taught them what to +do as well as what NOT to do--which is often still more important in +diplomacy. + +Many have to make up their minds to encounter failure again and again +before they succeed; but if they have pluck, the failure will only serve +to rouse their courage, and stimulate them to renewed efforts. Talma, +the greatest of actors, was hissed off the stage when he first appeared +on it. Lacordaire, one of the greatest preachers of modern times, only +acquired celebrity after repeated failures. Montalembert said of +his first public appearance in the Church of St. Roch: "He failed +completely, and on coming out every one said, 'Though he may be a man of +talent, he will never be a preacher.'" Again and again he tried until he +succeeded; and only two years after his DEBUT, Lacordaire was preaching +in Notre Dame to audiences such as few French orators have addressed +since the time of Bossuet and Massillon. + +When Mr. Cobden first appeared as a speaker, at a public meeting in +Manchester, he completely broke down, and the chairman apologized for +his failure. Sir James Graham and Mr. Disraeli failed and were derided +at first, and only succeeded by dint of great labour and application. +At one time Sir James Graham had almost given up public speaking in +despair. He said to his friend Sir Francis Baring: "I have tried it +every way--extempore, from notes, and committing all to memory--and +I can't do it. I don't know why it is, but I am afraid I shall never +succeed." Yet, by dint of perseverance, Graham, like Disraeli, lived +to become one of the most effective and impressive of parliamentary +speakers. + +Failures in one direction have sometimes had the effect of forcing the +farseeing student to apply himself in another. Thus Prideaux's failure +as a candidate for the post of parish-clerk of Ugboro, in Devon, led to +his applying himself to learning, and to his eventual elevation to the +bishopric of Worcester. When Boileau, educated for the bar, pleaded his +first cause, he broke down amidst shouts of laughter. He next tried the +pulpit, and failed there too. And then he tried poetry, and succeeded. +Fontenelle and Voltaire both failed at the bar. So Cowper, through his +diffidence and shyness, broke down when pleading his first cause, though +he lived to revive the poetic art in England. Montesquieu and Bentham +both failed as lawyers, and forsook the bar for more congenial +pursuits--the latter leaving behind him a treasury of legislative +procedure for all time. Goldsmith failed in passing as a surgeon; but +he wrote the 'Deserted Village' and the 'Vicar of Wakefield;' whilst +Addison failed as a speaker, but succeeded in writing 'Sir Roger de +Coverley,' and his many famous papers in the 'Spectator.' + +Even the privation of some important bodily sense, such as sight or +hearing, has not been sufficient to deter courageous men from zealously +pursuing the struggle of life. Milton, when struck by blindness, "still +bore up and steered right onward." His greatest works were produced +during that period of his life in which he suffered most--when he was +poor, sick, old, blind, slandered, and persecuted. + +The lives of some of the greatest men have been a continuous struggle +with difficulty and apparent defeat. Dante produced his greatest work in +penury and exile. Banished from his native city by the local faction +to which he was opposed, his house was given up to plunder, and he was +sentenced in his absence to be burnt alive. When informed by a friend +that he might return to Florence, if he would consent to ask for pardon +and absolution, he replied: "No! This is not the way that shall lead me +back to my country. I will return with hasty steps if you, or any other, +can open to me a way that shall not derogate from the fame or the +honour of Dante; but if by no such way Florence can be entered, then to +Florence I shall never return." His enemies remaining implacable, Dante, +after a banishment of twenty years, died in exile. They even pursued +him after death, when his book, 'De Monarchia,' was publicly burnt at +Bologna by order of the Papal Legate. + +Camoens also wrote his great poems mostly in banishment. Tired of +solitude at Santarem, he joined an expedition against the Moors, in +which he distinguished himself by his bravery. He lost an eye when +boarding an enemy's ship in a sea-fight. At Goa, in the East Indies, he +witnessed with indignation the cruelty practised by the Portuguese on +the natives, and expostulated with the governor against it. He was in +consequence banished from the settlement, and sent to China. In the +course of his subsequent adventures and misfortunes, Camoens suffered +shipwreck, escaping only with his life and the manuscript of his +'Lusiad.' Persecution and hardship seemed everywhere to pursue him. +At Macao he was thrown into prison. Escaping from it, he set sail +for Lisbon, where he arrived, after sixteen years' absence, poor and +friendless. His 'Lusiad,' which was shortly after published, brought +him much fame, but no money. But for his old Indian slave Antonio, who +begged for his master in the streets, Camoens must have perished. [215] As +it was, he died in a public almshouse, worn out by disease and hardship. +An inscription was placed over his grave:--"Here lies Luis de Camoens: +he excelled all the poets of his time: he lived poor and miserable; and +he died so, MDLXXIX." This record, disgraceful but truthful, has since +been removed; and a lying and pompous epitaph, in honour of the great +national poet of Portugal, has been substituted in its stead. + +Even Michael Angelo was exposed, during the greater part of his life, +to the persecutions of the envious--vulgar nobles, vulgar priests, and +sordid men of every degree, who could neither sympathise with him, nor +comprehend his genius. When Paul IV. condemned some of his work in 'The +Last Judgment,' the artist observed that "The Pope would do better +to occupy himself with correcting the disorders and indecencies which +disgrace the world, than with any such hypercriticisms upon his art." + +Tasso also was the victim of almost continual persecution and calumny. +After lying in a madhouse for seven years, he became a wanderer over +Italy; and when on his deathbed, he wrote: "I will not complain of +the malignity of fortune, because I do not choose to speak of the +ingratitude of men who have succeeded in dragging me to the tomb of a +mendicant." + +But Time brings about strange revenges. The persecutors and the +persecuted often change places; it is the latter who are great--the +former who are infamous. Even the names of the persecutors would +probably long ago have been forgotten, but for their connection with the +history of the men whom they have persecuted. Thus, who would now have +known of Duke Alfonso of Ferrara, but for his imprisonment of Tasso? Or, +who would have heard of the existence of the Grand Duke of Wurtemburg of +some ninety years back, but for his petty persecution of Schiller? + +Science also has had its martyrs, who have fought their way to light +through difficulty, persecution, and suffering. We need not refer again +to the cases of Bruno, Galileo, and others, [216] persecuted because +of the supposed heterodoxy of their views. But there have been other +unfortunates amongst men of science, whose genius has been unable to +save them from the fury of their enemies. Thus Bailly, the celebrated +French astronomer [21who had been mayor of Paris], and Lavoisier, the +great chemist, were both guillotined in the first French Revolution. +When the latter, after being sentenced to death by the Commune, asked +for a few days' respite, to enable him to ascertain the result of some +experiments he had made during his confinement, the tribunal refused +his appeal, and ordered him for immediate execution--one of the judges +saying, that "the Republic had no need of philosophers." In England +also, about the same time, Dr. Priestley, the father of modern +chemistry, had his house burnt over his head, and his library destroyed, +amidst shouts of "No philosophers!" and he fled from his native country +to lay his bones in a foreign land. + +The work of some of the greatest discoverers has been done in the midst +of persecution, difficulty, and suffering. Columbus, who discovered +the New World and gave it as a heritage to the Old, was in his lifetime +persecuted, maligned, and plundered by those whom he had enriched. Mungo +Park's drowning agony in the African river he had discovered, but which +he was not to live to describe; Clapperton's perishing of fever on the +banks of the great lake, in the heart of the same continent, which +was afterwards to be rediscovered and described by other explorers; +Franklin's perishing in the snow--it might be after he had solved +the long-sought problem of the North-west Passage--are among the most +melancholy events in the history of enterprise and genius. + +The case of Flinders the navigator, who suffered a six years' +imprisonment in the Isle of France, was one of peculiar hardship. In +1801, he set sail from England in the INVESTIGATOR, on a voyage of +discovery and survey, provided with a French pass, requiring all French +governors [21notwithstanding that England and France were at war] to give +him protection and succour in the sacred name of science. In the course +of his voyage he surveyed great part of Australia, Van Diemen's Land, +and the neighbouring islands. The INVESTIGATOR, being found leaky and +rotten, was condemned, and the navigator embarked as passenger in the +PORPOISE for England, to lay the results of his three years' labours +before the Admiralty. On the voyage home the PORPOISE was wrecked on a +reef in the South Seas, and Flinders, with part of the crew, in an open +boat, made for Port Jackson, which they safely reached, though distant +from the scene of the wreck not less than 750 miles. There he procured a +small schooner, the CUMBERLAND, no larger than a Gravesend sailing-boat, +and returned for the remainder of the crew, who had been left on the +reef. Having rescued them, he set sail for England, making for the Isle +of France, which the CUMBERLAND reached in a sinking condition, being +a wretched little craft badly found. To his surprise, he was made a +prisoner with all his crew, and thrown into prison, where he was treated +with brutal harshness, his French pass proving no protection to him. +What aggravated the horrors of Flinders' confinement was, that he knew +that Baudin, the French navigator, whom he had encountered while making +his survey of the Australian coasts, would reach Europe first, and claim +the merit of all the discoveries he had made. It turned out as he had +expected; and while Flinders was still imprisoned in the Isle of France, +the French Atlas of the new discoveries was published, all the points +named by Flinders and his precursors being named afresh. Flinders was at +length liberated, after six years' imprisonment, his health completely +broken; but he continued correcting his maps, and writing out his +descriptions to the last. He only lived long enough to correct his +final sheet for the press, and died on the very day that his work was +published! + +Courageous men have often turned enforced solitude to account in +executing works of great pith and moment. It is in solitude that the +passion for spiritual perfection best nurses itself. The soul communes +with itself in loneliness until its energy often becomes intense. But +whether a man profits by solitude or not will mainly depend upon his +own temperament, training, and character. While, in a large-natured man, +solitude will make the pure heart purer, in the small-natured man it +will only serve to make the hard heart still harder: for though solitude +may be the nurse of great spirits, it is the torment of small ones. + +It was in prison that Boetius wrote his 'Consolations of Philosophy,' +and Grotius his 'Commentary on St. Matthew,' regarded as his masterwork +in Biblical Criticism. Buchanan composed his beautiful 'Paraphrases +on the Psalms' while imprisoned in the cell of a Portuguese monastery. +Campanella, the Italian patriot monk, suspected of treason, was immured +for twenty-seven years in a Neapolitan dungeon, during which, deprived +of the sun's light, he sought higher light, and there created his +'Civitas Solis,' which has been so often reprinted and reproduced in +translations in most European languages. During his thirteen years' +imprisonment in the Tower, Raleigh wrote his 'History of the World,' a +project of vast extent, of which he was only able to finish the first +five books. Luther occupied his prison hours in the Castle of Wartburg +in translating the Bible, and in writing the famous tracts and treatises +with which he inundated all Germany. + +It was to the circumstance of John Bunyan having been cast into gaol +that we probably owe the 'Pilgrim's Progress.' He was thus driven in +upon himself; having no opportunity for action, his active mind +found vent in earnest thinking and meditation; and indeed, after +his enlargement, his life as an author virtually ceased. His 'Grace +Abounding' and the 'Holy War' were also written in prison. Bunyan lay +in Bedford Gaol, with a few intervals of precarious liberty, during not +less than twelve years; [217] and it was most probably to his prolonged +imprisonment that we owe what Macaulay has characterised as the finest +allegory in the world. + +All the political parties of the times in which Bunyan lived, imprisoned +their opponents when they had the opportunity and the power. Bunyan's +prison experiences were principally in the time of Charles II. But in +the preceding reign of Charles I., as well as during the Commonwealth, +illustrious prisoners were very numerous. The prisoners of the former +included Sir John Eliot, Hampden, Selden, Prynne [218] [21a most voluminous +prison-writer], and many more. It was while under strict confinement +in the Tower, that Eliot composed his noble treatise, 'The Monarchy +of Man.' George Wither, the poet, was another prisoner of Charles the +First, and it was while confined in the Marshalsea that he wrote his +famous 'Satire to the King.' At the Restoration he was again imprisoned +in Newgate, from which he was transferred to the Tower, and he is +supposed by some to have died there. + +The Commonwealth also had its prisoners. Sir William Davenant, because +of his loyalty, was for some time confined a prisoner in Cowes Castle, +where he wrote the greater part of his poem of 'Gondibert': and it +is said that his life was saved principally through the generous +intercession of Milton. He lived to repay the debt, and to save Milton's +life when "Charles enjoyed his own again." Lovelace, the poet and +cavalier, was also imprisoned by the Roundheads, and was only liberated +from the Gatehouse on giving an enormous bail. Though he suffered and +lost all for the Stuarts, he was forgotten by them at the Restoration, +and died in extreme poverty. + +Besides Wither and Bunyan, Charles II. imprisoned Baxter, Harrington +[21the author of 'Oceana'], Penn, and many more. All these men solaced +their prison hours with writing. Baxter wrote some of the most +remarkable passages of his 'Life and Times' while lying in the King's +Bench Prison; and Penn wrote his 'No Cross no Crown' while imprisoned in +the Tower. In the reign of Queen Anne, Matthew Prior was in confinement +on a vamped-up charge of treason for two years, during which he wrote +his 'Alma, or Progress of the Soul.' + +Since then, political prisoners of eminence in England have been +comparatively few in number. Among the most illustrious were De Foe, +who, besides standing three times in the pillory, spent much of his +time in prison, writing 'Robinson Crusoe' there, and many of his best +political pamphlets. There also he wrote his 'Hymn to the Pillory,' and +corrected for the press a collection of his voluminous writings. [219] +Smollett wrote his 'Sir Lancelot Greaves' in prison, while undergoing +confinement for libel. Of recent prison-writers in England, the best +known are James Montgomery, who wrote his first volume of poems while a +prisoner in York Castle; and Thomas Cooper, the Chartist, who wrote his +'Purgatory of Suicide' in Stafford Gaol. + +Silvio Pellico was one of the latest and most illustrious of the prison +writers of Italy. He lay confined in Austrian gaols for ten years, eight +of which he passed in the Castle of Spielberg in Moravia. It was there +that he composed his charming 'Memoirs,' the only materials for which +were furnished by his fresh living habit of observation; and out of even +the transient visits of his gaoler's daughter, and the colourless events +of his monotonous daily life, he contrived to make for himself a little +world of thought and healthy human interest. + +Kazinsky, the great reviver of Hungarian literature, spent seven years +of his life in the dungeons of Buda, Brunne, Kufstein, and Munkacs, +during which he wrote a 'Diary of his Imprisonment,' and amongst +other things translated Sterno's 'Sentimental Journey;' whilst Kossuth +beguiled his two years' imprisonment at Buda in studying English, so as +to be able to read Shakspeare in the original. + +Men who, like these, suffer the penalty of law, and seem to fail, at +least for a time, do not really fail. Many, who have seemed to fail +utterly, have often exercised a more potent and enduring influence upon +their race, than those whose career has been a course of uninterupted +success. The character of a man does not depend on whether his efforts +are immediately followed by failure or by success. The martyr is not +a failure if the truth for which he suffered acquires a fresh lustre +through his sacrifice. [2110] The patriot who lays down his life for his +cause, may thereby hasten its triumph; and those who seem to throw their +lives away in the van of a great movement, often open a way for those +who follow them, and pass over their dead bodies to victory. The triumph +of a just cause may come late; but when it does come, it is due as much +to those who failed in their first efforts, as to those who succeeded in +their last. + +The example of a great death may be an inspiration to others, as well as +the example of a good life. A great act does not perish with the life of +him who performs it, but lives and grows up into like acts in those who +survive the doer thereof and cherish his memory. Of some great men, it +might almost be said that they have not begun to live until they have +died. + +The names of the men who have suffered in the cause of religion, of +science, and of truth, are the men of all others whose memories are +held in the greatest esteem and reverence by mankind. They perished, +but their truth survived. They seemed to fail, and yet they eventually +succeeded. [2111] Prisons may have held them, but their thoughts were not +to be confined by prison-walls. They have burst through, and defied the +power of their persecutors. It was Lovelace, a prisoner, who wrote: + + "Stone walls do not a prison make, + Nor iron bars a cage; + Minds innocent and quiet take + That for a hermitage." + +It was a saying of Milton that, "who best can suffer best can do." The +work of many of the greatest men, inspired by duty, has been done amidst +suffering and trial and difficulty. They have struggled against the +tide, and reached the shore exhausted, only to grasp the sand and +expire. They have done their duty, and been content to die. But death +hath no power over such men; their hallowed memories still survive, +to soothe and purify and bless us. "Life," said Goethe, "to us all is +suffering. Who save God alone shall call us to our reckoning? Let not +reproaches fall on the departed. Not what they have failed in, nor +what they have suffered, but what they have done, ought to occupy the +survivors." + +Thus, it is not ease and facility that tries men, and brings out the +good that is in them, so much as trial and difficulty. Adversity is the +touchstone of character. As some herbs need to be crushed to give forth +their sweetest odour, so some natures need to be tried by suffering to +evoke the excellence that is in them. Hence trials often unmask +virtues, and bring to light hidden graces. Men apparently useless and +purposeless, when placed in positions of difficulty and responsibility, +have exhibited powers of character before unsuspected; and where we +before saw only pliancy and self-indulgence, we now see strength, +valour, and self-denial. + +As there are no blessings which may not be perverted into evils, so +there are no trials which may not be converted into blessings. All +depends on the manner in which we profit by them or otherwise. Perfect +happiness is not to be looked for in this world. If it could be secured, +it would be found profitless. The hollowest of all gospels is the +gospel of ease and comfort. Difficulty, and even failure, are far +better teachers. Sir Humphry Davy said: "Even in private life, too much +prosperity either injures the moral man, and occasions conduct which +ends in suffering; or it is accompanied by the workings of envy, +calumny, and malevolence of others." + +Failure improves tempers and strengthens the nature. Even sorrow is in +some mysterious way linked with joy and associated with tenderness. John +Bunyan once said how, "if it were lawful, he could even pray for greater +trouble, for the greater comfort's sake." When surprise was expressed at +the patience of a poor Arabian woman under heavy affliction, she said, +"When we look on God's face we do not feel His hand." + +Suffering is doubtless as divinely appointed as joy, while it is much +more influential as a discipline of character. It chastens and sweetens +the nature, teaches patience and resignation, and promotes the deepest +as well as the most exalted thought. [2112] + + "The best of men + That e'er wore earth about Him was a sufferer; + A soft, meek, patient, humble, tranquil spirit + The first true gentleman that ever breathed." [2113] + +Suffering may be the appointed means by which the highest nature of man +is to be disciplined and developed. Assuming happiness to be the end of +being, sorrow may be the indispensable condition through which it is to +be reached. Hence St. Paul's noble paradox descriptive of the Christian +life,--"as chastened, and not killed; as sorrowful, yet always +rejoicing; as poor, yet making many rich; as having nothing, and yet +possessing all things." + +Even pain is not all painful. On one side it is related to suffering, +and on the other to happiness. For pain is remedial as well as +sorrowful. Suffering is a misfortune as viewed from the one side, and a +discipline as viewed from the other. But for suffering, the best part of +many men's nature would sleep a deep sleep. Indeed, it might almost +be said that pain and sorrow were the indispensable conditions of some +men's success, and the necessary means to evoke the highest development +of their genius. Shelley has said of poets: + + "Most wretched men are cradled into poetry by wrong, + They learn in suffering what they teach in song." + +Does any one suppose that Burns would have sung as he did, had he +been rich, respectable, and "kept a gig;" or Byron, if he had been a +prosperous, happily-married Lord Privy Seal or Postmaster-General? + +Sometimes a heartbreak rouses an impassive nature to life. "What does +he know," said a sage, "who has not suffered?" When Dumas asked Reboul, +"What made you a poet?" his answer was, "Suffering!" It was the death, +first of his wife, and then of his child, that drove him into solitude +for the indulgence of his grief, and eventually led him to seek and find +relief in verse. [2114] It was also to a domestic affliction that we owe +the beautiful writings of Mrs. Gaskell. "It was as a recreation, in the +highest sense of the word," says a recent writer, speaking from personal +knowledge, "as an escape from the great void of a life from which +a cherished presence had been taken, that she began that series of +exquisite creations which has served to multiply the number of our +acquaintances, and to enlarge even the circle of our friendships." [2115] + +Much of the best and most useful work done by men and women has been +done amidst affliction--sometimes as a relief from it, sometimes from a +sense of duty overpowering personal sorrow. "If I had not been so great +an invalid," said Dr. Darwin to a friend, "I should not have done nearly +so much work as I have been able to accomplish." So Dr. Donne, speaking +of his illnesses, once said: "This advantage you and my other friends +have by my frequent fevers is, that I am so much the oftener at the +gates of Heaven; and by the solitude and close imprisonment they reduce +me to, I am so much the oftener at my prayers, in which you and my other +dear friends are not forgotten." + +Schiller produced his greatest tragedies in the midst of physical +suffering almost amounting to torture. Handel was never greater than +when, warned by palsy of the approach of death, and struggling with +distress and suffering, he sat down to compose the great works which +have made his name immortal in music. Mozart composed his great operas, +and last of all his 'Requiem,' when oppressed by debt, and struggling +with a fatal disease. Beethoven produced his greatest works amidst +gloomy sorrow, when oppressed by almost total deafness. And poor +Schubert, after his short but brilliant life, laid it down at the early +age of thirty-two; his sole property at his death consisting of his +manuscripts, the clothes he wore, and sixty-three florins in money. Some +of Lamb's finest writings were produced amidst deep sorrow, and Hood's +apparent gaiety often sprang from a suffering heart. As he himself +wrote, + + "There's not a string attuned to mirth, + But has its chord in melancholy." + +Again, in science, we have the noble instance of the suffering +Wollaston, even in the last stages of the mortal disease which afflicted +him, devoting his numbered hours to putting on record, by dictation, the +various discoveries and improvements he had made, so that any knowledge +he had acquired, calculated to benefit his fellow-creatures, might not +be lost. + +Afflictions often prove but blessings in disguise. "Fear not the +darkness," said the Persian sage; it "conceals perhaps the springs of +the waters of life." Experience is often bitter, but wholesome; only +by its teaching can we learn to suffer and be strong. Character, in +its highest forms, is disciplined by trial, and "made perfect through +suffering." Even from the deepest sorrow, the patient and thoughtful +mind will gather richer wisdom than pleasure ever yielded. + +"The soul's dark cottage, batter'd and decayed, Lets in new light +through chinks that Time has made." + +"Consider," said Jeremy Taylor, "that sad accidents, and a state of +afflictions, is a school of virtue. It reduces our spirits to soberness, +and our counsels to moderation; it corrects levity, and interrupts +the confidence of sinning.... God, who in mercy and wisdom governs the +world, would never have suffered so many sadnesses, and have sent them, +especially, to the most virtuous and the wisest men, but that He intends +they should be the seminary of comfort, the nursery of virtue, the +exercise of wisdom, the trial of patience, the venturing for a crown, +and the gate of glory." [2116] + +And again:--"No man is more miserable than he that hath no adversity. +That man is not tried, whether he be good or bad; and God never crowns +those virtues which are only FACULTIES and DISPOSITIONS; but every act +of virtue is an ingredient unto reward." [2117] + +Prosperity and success of themselves do not confer happiness; indeed, +it not unfrequently happens that the least successful in life have the +greatest share of true joy in it. No man could have been more +successful than Goethe--possessed of splendid health, honour, power, and +sufficiency of this world's goods--and yet he confessed that he had not, +in the course of his life, enjoyed five weeks of genuine pleasure. +So the Caliph Abdalrahman, in surveying his successful reign of fifty +years, found that he had enjoyed only fourteen days of pure and genuine +happiness. [2118] After this, might it not be said that the pursuit of +mere happiness is an illusion? + +Life, all sunshine without shade, all happiness without sorrow, all +pleasure without pain, were not life at all--at least not human life. +Take the lot of the happiest--it is a tangled yarn. It is made up +of sorrows and joys; and the joys are all the sweeter because of the +sorrows; bereavements and blessings, one following another, making us +sad and blessed by turns. Even death itself makes life more loving; it +binds us more closely together while here. Dr. Thomas Browne has argued +that death is one of the necessary conditions of human happiness; and +he supports his argument with great force and eloquence. But when death +comes into a household, we do not philosophise--we only feel. The eyes +that are full of tears do not see; though in course of time they come to +see more clearly and brightly than those that have never known sorrow. + +The wise person gradually learns not to expect too much from life. +While he strives for success by worthy methods, he will be prepared for +failures, he will keep his mind open to enjoyment, but submit patiently +to suffering. Wailings and complainings of life are never of any use; +only cheerful and continuous working in right paths are of real avail. + +Nor will the wise man expect too much from those about him. If he would +live at peace with others, he will bear and forbear. And even the best +have often foibles of character which have to be endured, sympathised +with, and perhaps pitied. Who is perfect? Who does not suffer from +some thorn in the flesh? Who does not stand in need of toleration, of +forbearance, of forgiveness? What the poor imprisoned Queen Caroline +Matilda of Denmark wrote on her chapel-window ought to be the prayer of +all,--"Oh! keep me innocent! make others great." + +Then, how much does the disposition of every human being depend upon +their innate constitution and their early surroundings; the comfort +or discomfort of the homes in which they have been brought up; their +inherited characteristics; and the examples, good or bad, to which they +have been exposed through life! Regard for such considerations should +teach charity and forbearance to all men. + +At the same time, life will always be to a large extent what we +ourselves make it. Each mind makes its own little world. The cheerful +mind makes it pleasant, and the discontented mind makes it miserable. +"My mind to me a kingdom is," applies alike to the peasant as to the +monarch. The one may be in his heart a king, as the other may be a +slave. Life is for the most part but the mirror of our own individual +selves. Our mind gives to all situations, to all fortunes, high or low, +their real characters. To the good, the world is good; to the bad, it +is bad. If our views of life be elevated--if we regard it as a sphere of +useful effort, of high living and high thinking, of working for others' +good as well as our own--it will be joyful, hopeful, and blessed. If, +on the contrary, we regard it merely as affording opportunities for +self-seeking, pleasure, and aggrandisement, it will be full of toil, +anxiety, and disappointment. + +There is much in life that, while in this state, we can never +comprehend. There is, indeed, a great deal of mystery in life--much that +we see "as in a glass darkly." But though we may not apprehend the full +meaning of the discipline of trial through which the best have to pass, +we must have faith in the completeness of the design of which our little +individual lives form a part. + +We have each to do our duty in that sphere of life in which we have +been placed. Duty alone is true; there is no true action but in its +accomplishment. Duty is the end and aim of the highest life; the +truest pleasure of all is that derived from the consciousness of +its fulfilment. Of all others, it is the one that is most thoroughly +satisfying, and the least accompanied by regret and disappointment. In +the words of George Herbert, the consciousness of duty performed "gives +us music at midnight." + +And when we have done our work on earth--of necessity, of labour, of +love, or of duty,--like the silkworm that spins its little cocoon and +dies, we too depart. But, short though our stay in life may be, it is +the appointed sphere in which each has to work out the great aim and +end of his being to the best of his power; and when that is done, the +accidents of the flesh will affect but little the immortality we shall +at last put on: + + "Therefore we can go die as sleep, and trust + Half that we have + Unto an honest faithful grave; + Making our pillows either down or dust!" + + + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[Footnote 101: Sackville, Lord Buckhurst, Lord High Treasurer under Elizabeth and +James I.] + +[Footnote 102: 'Life of Perthes,' ii. 217.] + +[Footnote 103: Lockhart's 'Life of Scott.'] + +[Footnote 104: Debate on the Petition of Right, A.D. 1628.] + +[Footnote 105: The Rev. F. W. Farrer's 'Seekers after God,' p. 241.] + +[Footnote 106: 'The Statesman,' p. 30.] + +[Footnote 107: 'Queen of the Air,' p. 127] + +[Footnote 108: "Instead of saying that man is the creature of Circumstance, it would +be nearer the mark to say that man is the architect of Circumstance. It +is Character which builds an existence out of Circumstance. Our strength +is measured by our plastic power. From the same materials one man builds +palaces, another hovels: one warehouses, another villas. Bricks +and mortar are mortar and bricks, until the architect can make them +something else. Thus it is that in the same family, in the same +circumstances, one man rears a stately edifice, while his brother, +vacillating and incompetent, lives for ever amid ruins: the block of +granite, which was an obstacle on the pathway of the weak, becomes a +stepping-stone on the pathway of the strong."--G. H. Lewes, LIFE OF +GOETHE.] + +[Footnote 109: Introduction to 'The Principal Speeches and Addresses of H.R.H. the +Prince Consort' [101862], pp. 39-40.] + +[Footnote 1010: Among the latest of these was Napoleon "the Great," a man of +abounding energy, but destitute of principle. He had the lowest opinion +of his fellowmen. "Men are hogs, who feed on gold," he once said: "Well, +I throw them gold, and lead them whithersoever I will." When the Abbe de +Pradt, Archbishop of Malines, was setting out on his embassy to Poland +in 1812, Napoleon's parting instruction to him was, "Tenez bonne table +et soignez les femmes,"--of which Benjamin Constant said that such an +observation, addressed to a feeble priest of sixty, shows Buonaparte's +profound contempt for the human race, without distinction of nation or +sex.] + +[Footnote 1011: Condensed from Sir Thomas Overbury's 'Characters' [101614].] + +[Footnote 1012: 'History of the Peninsular War,' v. 319.--Napier mentions another +striking illustration of the influence of personal qualities in young +Edward Freer, of the same regiment [10the 43rd], who, when he fell at the +age of nineteen, at the Battle of the Nivelle, had already seen more +combats and sieges than he could count years. "So slight in person, and +of such surpassing beauty, that the Spaniards often thought him a girl +disguised in man's clothing, he was yet so vigorous, so active, so +brave, that the most daring and experienced veterans watched his looks +on the field of battle, and, implicitly following where he led, +would, like children, obey his slightest sign in the most difficult +situations."] + +[Footnote 1013: When the dissolution of the Union at one time seemed imminent, and +Washington wished to retire into private life, Jefferson wrote to him, +urging his continuance in office. "The confidence of the whole Union," +he said, "centres in you. Your being at the helm will be more than an +answer to every argument which can be used to alarm and lead the people +in any quarter into violence and secession.... There is sometimes an +eminence of character on which society has such peculiar claims as to +control the predilection of the individual for a particular walk of +happiness, and restrain him to that alone arising from the present and +future benedictions of mankind. This seems to be your condition, and +the law imposed on you by Providence in forming your character and +fashioning the events on which it was to operate; and it is to motives +like these, and not to personal anxieties of mine or others, who have +no right to call on you for sacrifices, that I appeal from your former +determination, and urge a revisal of it, on the ground of change in the +aspect of things."--Sparks' Life of Washington, i. 480.] + +[Footnote 1014: Napier's 'History of the Peninsular War,' v. 226.] + +[Footnote 1015: Sir W. Scott's 'History of Scotland,' vol. i. chap. xvi.] + +[Footnote 1016: Michelet's 'History of Rome,' p. 374.] + +[Footnote 1017: Erasmus so reverenced the character of Socrates that he said, when +he considered his life and doctrines, he was inclined to put him in the +calendar of saints, and to exclaim, "SANCTE SOCRATES, ORA PRO NOBIS." +(Holy Socrates, pray for us!)] + +[Footnote 1018: "Honour to all the brave and true; everlasting honour to John Knox +one of the truest of the true! That, in the moment while he and his +cause, amid civil broils, in convulsion and confusion, were still but +struggling for life, he sent the schoolmaster forth to all corners, and +said, 'Let the people be taught:' this is but one, and, and indeed, an +inevitable and comparatively inconsiderable item in his great message to +men. This message, in its true compass, was, 'Let men know that they are +men created by God, responsible to God who work in any meanest moment +of time what will last through eternity...' This great message Knox did +deliver, with a man's voice and strength; and found a people to believe +him. Of such an achievement, were it to be made once only, the results +are immense. Thought, in such a country, may change its form, but +cannot go out; the country has attained MAJORITY thought, and a certain +manhood, ready for all work that man can do, endures there.... The +Scotch national character originated in many circumstances: first of +all, in the Saxon stuff there was to work on; but next, and beyond all +else except that, is the Presbyterian Gospel of John Knox."--(Carlyle's +MISCELLANIES, iv. 118.)] + +[Footnote 1019: Moore's 'Life of Byron,' 8vo. ed. p.484.--Dante was a religious +as well as a political reformer. He was a reformer three hundred years +before the Reformation, advocating the separation of the spiritual from +the civil power, and declaring the temporal government of the Pope to +be a usurpation. The following memorable words were written over five +hundred and sixty years ago, while Dante was still a member of the Roman +Catholic Church:--"Every Divine law is found in one or other of the two +Testaments; but in neither can I find that the care of temporal matters +was given to the priesthood. On the contrary, I find that the first +priests were removed from them by law, and the later priests, by command +of Christ, to His disciples."--DE MONARCHIA, lib. iii. cap. xi. + +Dante also, still clinging to 'the Church he wished to reform,' thus +anticipated the fundamental doctrine of the Reformation:-"Before the +Church are the Old and New Testament; after the Church are traditions. +It follows, then, that the authority of the Church depends, not on +traditions, but traditions on the Church."] + +[Footnote 1020: 'Blackwood's Magazine,' June, 1863, art. 'Girolamo Savonarola.'] + +[Footnote 1021: One of the last passages in the Diary of Dr. Arnold, written the +year before his death, was as follows:--"It is the misfortune of France +that her 'past' cannot be loved or respected--her future and her present +cannot be wedded to it; yet how can the present yield fruit, or the +future have promise, except their roots be fixed in the past? The evil +is infinite, but the blame rests with those who made the past a dead +thing, out of which no healthful life could be produced."--LIFE, ii. +387-8, Ed. 1858.] + +[Footnote 1022: A public orator lately spoke with contempt of the Battle of +Marathon, because only 192 perished on the side of the Athenians, +whereas by improved mechanism and destructive chemicals, some 50,000 +men or more may now be destroyed within a few hours. Yet the Battle of +Marathon, and the heroism displayed in it, will probably continue to +be remembered when the gigantic butcheries of modern times have been +forgotten.] + +[Footnote 111: Civic virtues, unless they have their origin and consecration in +private and domestic virtues, are but the virtues of the theatre. He who +has not a loving heart for his child, cannot pretend to have any true +love for humanity.--Jules Simon's LE DEVOIR.] + +[Footnote 112: 'Levana; or, The Doctrine of Education.'] + +[Footnote 113: Speaking of the force of habit, St. Augustine says in his +'Confessions' "My will the enemy held, and thence had made a chain for +me, and bound me. For of a froward will was a lust made; and a lust +served became custom; and custom not resisted became necessity. By which +links, as it were, joined together [11whence I called it a chain] a hard +bondage held me enthralled."] + +[Footnote 114: Mr. Tufnell, in 'Reports of Inspectors of Parochial School Unions in +England and Wales,' 1850.] + +[Footnote 115: See the letters [11January 13th, 16th, 18th, 20th, and 23rd, 1759], +written by Johnson to his mother when she was ninety, and he himself was +in his fiftieth year.--Crokers BOSWELL, 8vo. Ed. pp. 113, 114.] + +[Footnote 116: Jared Sparks' 'Life of Washington.'] + +[Footnote 117: Forster's 'Eminent British Statesmen' [11Cabinet Cyclop.] vi. 8.] + +[Footnote 118: The Earl of Mornington, composer of 'Here in cool grot,' &c.] + +[Footnote 119: Robert Bell's 'Life of Canning,' p. 37.] + +[Footnote 1110: 'Life of Curran,' by his son, p. 4.] + +[Footnote 1111: The father of the Wesleys had even determined at one time to +abandon his wife because her conscience forbade her to assent to his +prayers for the then reigning monarch, and he was only saved from the +consequences of his rash resolve by the accidental death of William +III. He displayed the same overbearing disposition in dealing with his +children; forcing his daughter Mehetabel to marry, against her will, a +man whom she did not love, and who proved entirely unworthy of her.] + +[Footnote 1112: Goethe himself says--"Vom Vater hab' ich die Statur, Des Lebens +ernstes Fuhren; Von Mutterchen die Frohnatur Und Lust zu fabuliren."] + +[Footnote 1113: Mrs. Grote's 'Life of Ary Scheffer,' p. 154.] + +[Footnote 1114: Michelet, 'On Priests, Women, and Families.'] + +[Footnote 1115: Mrs. Byron is said to have died in a fit of passion, brought on by +reading her upholsterer's bills.] + +[Footnote 1116: Sainte-Beuve, 'Causeries du Lundi,' i. 23.] + +[Footnote 1117: Ibid. i. 22.] + +[Footnote 1118: Ibid. 1. 23.] + +[Footnote 1119: That about one-third of all the children born in this country die +under five years of age, can only he attributable to ignorance of the +natural laws, ignorance of the human constitution, and ignorance of +the uses of pure air, pure water, and of the art of preparing and +administering wholesome food. There is no such mortality amongst the +lower animals.] + +[Footnote 1120: Beaumarchais' 'Figaro,' which was received with such enthusiasm in +France shortly before the outbreak of the Revolution, may be regarded as +a typical play; it represented the average morality of the upper as well +as the lower classes with respect to the relations between the sexes. +"Label men how you please," says Herbert Spencer, "with titles of +'upper' and 'middle' and 'lower,' you cannot prevent them from being +units of the same society, acted upon by the same spirit of the age, +moulded after the same type of character. The mechanical law, that +action and reaction are equal, has its moral analogue. The deed of one +man to another tends ultimately to produce a like effect upon both, be +the deed good or bad. Do but put them in relationship, and no +division into castes, no differences of wealth, can prevent men from +assimilating.... The same influences which rapidly adapt the individual +to his society, ensure, though by a slower process, the general +uniformity of a national character.... And so long as the assimilating +influences productive of it continue at work, it is folly to suppose +any one grade of a community can be morally different from the rest. In +whichever rank you see corruption, be assured it equally pervades all +ranks--be assured it is the symptom of a bad social diathesis. Whilst +the virus of depravity exists in one part of the body-politic, no other +part can remain healthy."--SOCIAL STATICS, chap. xx. 7.] + +[Footnote 1121: Some twenty-eight years since, the author wrote and published the +following passage, not without practical knowledge of the subject; and +notwithstanding the great amelioration in the lot of factory-workers, +effected mainly through the noble efforts of Lord Shaftesbury, the +description is still to a large extent true:--"The factory system, +however much it may have added to the wealth of the country, has had a +most deleterious effect on the domestic condition of the people. It has +invaded the sanctuary of home, and broken up family and social ties. +It has taken the wife from the husband, and the children from their +parents. Especially has its tendency been to lower the character of +woman. The performance of domestic duties is her proper office,--the +management of her household, the rearing of her family, the economizing +of the family means, the supplying of the family wants. But the factory +takes her from all these duties. Homes become no longer homes. Children +grow up uneducated and neglected. The finer affections become blunted. +Woman is no more the gentle wife, companion, and friend of man, but his +fellow-labourer and fellow-drudge. She is exposed to influences which +too often efface that modesty of thought and conduct which is one of the +best safeguards of virtue. Without judgment or sound principles to guide +them, factory-girls early acquire the feeling of independence. Ready to +throw off the constraint imposed on them by their parents, they leave +their homes, and speedily become initiated in the vices of their +associates. The atmosphere, physical as well as moral, in which they +live, stimulates their animal appetites; the influence of bad example +becomes contagious among them and mischief is propagated far and +wide."--THE UNION, January, 1843.] + +[Footnote 1122: A French satirist, pointing to the repeated PLEBISCITES and +perpetual voting of late years, and to the growing want of faith +in anything but votes, said, in 1870, that we seemed to be rapidly +approaching the period when the only prayer of man and woman would be, +"Give us this day our daily vote!"] + +[Footnote 1123: "Of primeval and necessary and absolute superiority, the relation +of the mother to the child is far more complete, though less seldom +quoted as an example, than that of father and son.... By Sir Robert +Filmer, the supposed necessary as well as absolute power of the father +over his children, was taken as the foundation and origin, and thence +justifying cause, of the power of the monarch in every political state. +With more propriety he might have stated the absolute dominion of a +woman as the only legitimate form of government."--DEONTOLOGY, ii. 181.] + +[Footnote 121: 'Letters of Sir Charles Bell,' p. 10. [122: 'Autobiography of Mary +Anne Schimmelpenninck,' p. 179.] + +[Footnote 123: Dean Stanley's 'Life of Dr. Arnold,' i. 151 [12Ed. 1858].] + +[Footnote 124: Lord Cockburn's 'Memorials,' pp. 25-6.] + +[Footnote 125: From a letter of Canon Moseley, read at a Memorial Meeting held +shortly after the death of the late Lord Herbert of Lea.] + +[Footnote 126: Izaak Walton's 'Life of George Herbert.'] + +[Footnote 127: Stanley's 'Life and Letters of Dr. Arnold,' i. 33.] + +[Footnote 128: Philip de Comines gives a curious illustration of the subservient, +though enforced, imitation of Philip, Duke of Burgundy, by his +courtiers. When that prince fell ill, and had his head shaved, he +ordered that all his nobles, five hundred in number, should in like +manner shave their heads; and one of them, Pierre de Hagenbach, to prove +his devotion, no sooner caught sight of an unshaven nobleman, than +he forthwith had him seized and carried off to the barber!--Philip de +Comines [12Bohn's Ed.], p. 243.] + +[Footnote 129: 'Life,' i. 344.] + +[Footnote 1210: Introduction to 'The Principal Speeches and Addresses of H.R.H. the +Prince Consort,' p. 33.] + +[Footnote 1211: Speech at Liverpool, 1812.] + +[Footnote 131:In the third chapter of his Natural History, Pliny relates in what +high honour agriculture was held in the earlier days of Rome; how the +divisions of land were measured by the quantity which could be ploughed +by a yoke of oxen in a certain time [13JUGERUM, in one day; ACTUS, at one +spell]; how the greatest recompence to a general or valiant citizen +was a JUGERUM; how the earliest surnames were derived from agriculture +(Pilumnus, from PILUM, the pestle for pounding corn; Piso, from PISO, +to grind coin; Fabius, from FABA, a bean; Lentulus, from LENS, a lentil; +Cicero, from CICER, a chickpea; Babulcus, from BOS, &c.); how the +highest compliment was to call a man a good agriculturist, or a good +husbandman (LOCUPLES, rich, LOCI PLENUS, PECUNIA, from PECUS, &c.); +how the pasturing of cattle secretly by night upon unripe crops was a +capital offence, punishable by hanging; how the rural tribes held the +foremost rank, while those of the city had discredit thrown upon them as +being an indolent race; and how "GLORIAM DENIQUE IPSAM, A FARRIS HONORE, +'ADOREAM' APPELLABANT;" ADOREA, or Glory, the reward of valour, being +derived from Ador, or spelt, a kind of grain.] + +[Footnote 132: 'Essay on Government,' in 'Encyclopaedia Britannica.'] + +[Footnote 133: Burton's 'Anatomy of Melancholy,' Part i., Mem. 2, Sub. 6.] + +[Footnote 134: Ibid. End of concluding chapter.] + +[Footnote 135: It is characteristic of the Hindoos to regard entire inaction as +the most perfect state, and to describe the Supreme Being as "The +Unmoveable."] + +[Footnote 136: Lessing was so impressed with the conviction that stagnant +satisfaction was fatal to man, that he went so far as to say: "If the +All-powerful Being, holding in one hand Truth, and in the other +the search for Truth, said to me, 'Choose,' I would answer Him, 'O +All-powerful, keep for Thyself the Truth; but leave to me the search for +it, which is the better for me.'" On the other hand, Bossuet said: "Si +je concevais une nature purement intelligente, il me semble que je n'y +mettrais qu'entendre et aimer la verite, et que cela seul la rendrait +heureux."] + +[Footnote 137: The late Sir John Patteson, when in his seventieth year, attended an +annual ploughing-match dinner at Feniton, Devon, at which he thought it +worth his while to combat the notion, still too prevalent, that because +a man does not work merely with his bones and muscles, he is therefore +not entitled to the appellation of a workingman. "In recollecting +similar meetings to the present," he said, "I remember my friend, John +Pyle, rather throwing it in my teeth that I had not worked for nothing; +but I told him, 'Mr. Pyle, you do not know what you are talking about. +We are all workers. The man who ploughs the field and who digs the hedge +is a worker; but there are other workers in other stations of life as +well. For myself, I can say that I have been a worker ever since I have +been a boy.'... Then I told him that the office of judge was by no means +a sinecure, for that a judge worked as hard as any man in the country. +He has to work at very difficult questions of law, which are brought +before him continually, giving him great anxiety; and sometimes the +lives of his fellow-creatures are placed in his hands, and are dependent +very much upon the manner in which he places the facts before the jury. +That is a matter of no little anxiety, I can assure you. Let any man +think as he will, there is no man who has been through the ordeal +for the length of time that I have, but must feel conscious of the +importance and gravity of the duty which is cast upon a judge."] + +[Footnote 138: Lord Stanley's Address to the Students of Glasgow University, on his +installation as Lord Rector, 1869.] + +[Footnote 139: Writing to an abbot at Nuremberg, who had sent him a store of +turning-tools, Luther said: "I have made considerable progress in +clockmaking, and I am very much delighted at it, for these drunken +Saxons need to be constantly reminded of what the real time is; not that +they themselves care much about it, for as long as their glasses are +kept filled, they trouble themselves very little as to whether clocks, +or clockmakers, or the time itself, go right."--Michelet's LUTHER [13Bogue +Ed.], p. 200.] + +[Footnote 1310: "Life of Perthes," ii. 20.] + +[Footnote 1311: Lockhart's 'Life of Scott' [138vo. Ed.], p. 442.] + +[Footnote 1312: Southey expresses the opinion in 'The Doctor', that the character +of a person may be better known by the letters which other persons write +to him than by what he himself writes.] + +[Footnote 1313: 'Dissertation on the Science of Method.'] + +[Footnote 1314: The following passage, from a recent article in the PALL MALL +GAZETTE, will commend itself to general aproval:--"There can be no +question nowadays, that application to work, absorption in affairs, +contact with men, and all the stress which business imposes on us, +gives a noble training to the intellect, and splendid opportunity for +discipline of character. It is an utterly low view of business which +regards it as only a means of getting a living. A man's business is his +part of the world's work, his share of the great activities which render +society possible. He may like it or dislike it, but it is work, and as +such requires application, self-denial, discipline. It is his drill, and +he cannot be thorough in his occupation without putting himself into it, +checking his fancies, restraining his impulses, and holding himself to +the perpetual round of small details--without, in fact, submitting to +his drill. But the perpetual call on a man's readiness, sell-control, +and vigour which business makes, the constant appeal to the intellect, +the stress upon the will, the necessity for rapid and responsible +exercise of judgment--all these things constitute a high culture, though +not the highest. It is a culture which strengthens and invigorates if it +does not refine, which gives force if not polish--the FORTITER IN RE, if +not the SUAVITER IN MODO. It makes strong men and ready men, and men of +vast capacity for affairs, though it does not necessarily make refined +men or gentlemen."] + +[Footnote 1315: On the first publication of his 'Despatches,' one of his friends +said to him, on reading the records of his Indian campaigns: "It seems +to me, Duke, that your chief business in India was to procure rice and +bullocks." "And so it was," replied Wellington: "for if I had rice and +bullocks, I had men; and if I had men, I knew I could beat the enemy."] + +[Footnote 1316: Maria Edgeworth, 'Memoirs of R. L. Edgeworth,' ii. 94.] + +[Footnote 1317: A friend of Lord Palmerston has communicated to us the following +anecdote. Asking him one day when he considered a man to be in the prime +of life, his immediate reply was, "Seventy-nine!" "But," he added, with +a twinkle in his eye, "as I have just entered my eightieth year, perhaps +I am myself a little past it."] + +[Footnote 1318: 'Reasons of Church Government,' Book II.] + +[Footnote 1319: Coleridge's advice to his young friends was much to the same +effect. "With the exception of one extraordinary man," he says, "I have +never known an individual, least of all an individual of genius, healthy +or happy without a profession: i.e., some regular employment which does +not depend on the will of the moment, and which can be carried on so +far mechanically, that an average quantum only of health, spirits, and +intellectual exertion are requisite to its faithful discharge. Three +hours of leisure, unalloyed by any alien anxiety, and looked forward +to with delight as a change and recreation, will suffice to realise +in literature a larger product of what is truly genial, than weeks +of compulsion.... If facts are required to prove the possibility of +combining weighty performances in literature with full and independent +employment, the works of Cicero and Xenophon, among the ancients--of +Sir Thomas More, Bacon, Baxter, or [13to refer at once to later and +contemporary instances] Darwin and Roscoe, are at once decisive of the +question."--BIOGRAPHIA LITERARIA, Chap. xi.] + +[Footnote 1320: Mr. Ricardo published his celebrated 'Theory of Rent,' at the +urgent recommendation of James Mill [13like his son, a chief clerk in the +India House], author of the 'History of British India.' When the 'Theory +of Rent' was written, Ricardo was so dissatisfied with it that he wished +to burn it; but Mr. Mill urged him to publish it, and the book was a +great success.] + +[Footnote 1321: The late Sir John Lubbock, his father, was also eminent as a +mathematician and astronomer.] + +[Footnote 1322: Thales, once inveighing in discourse against the pains and care men +put themselves to, to become rich, was answered by one in the company +that he did like the fox, who found fault with what he could not obtain. +Thereupon Thales had a mind, for the jest's sake, to show them the +contrary; and having upon this occasion for once made a muster of all +his wits, wholly to employ them in the service of profit, he set a +traffic on foot, which in one year brought him in so great riches, that +the most experienced in that trade could hardly in their whole lives, +with all their industry, have raked so much together. +--Montaignes ESSAYS, Book I., chap. 24.] + +[Footnote 1323: "The understanding," says Mr. Bailey, "that is accustomed to +pursue a regular and connected train of ideas, becomes in some measure +incapacitated for those quick and versatile movements which are learnt +in the commerce of the world, and are indispensable to those who act a +part in it. Deep thinking and practical talents require indeed habits of +mind so essentially dissimilar, that while a man is striving after the +one, he will be unavoidably in danger of losing the other." "Thence," +he adds, "do we so often find men, who are 'giants in the closet,' prove +but 'children in the world.'"--'Essays on the Formation and Publication +of Opinions,' pp.251-3.] + +[Footnote 1324: Mr. Gladstone is as great an enthusiast in literature as +Canning was. It is related of him that, while he was waiting in his +committee-room at Liverpool for the returns coming in on the day of the +South Lancashire polling, he occupied himself in proceeding with the +translation of a work which he was then preparing for the press.] + +[Footnote 141: James Russell Lowell.] + +[Footnote 142: Yet Bacon himself had written, "I would rather believe all the +faiths in the Legend, and the Talmud, and the Alcoran, than that this +universal frame is without a mind."] + +[Footnote 143: Aubrey, in his 'Natural History of Wiltshire,' alluding to Harvey, +says: "He told me himself that upon publishing that book he fell in his +practice extremely."] + +[Footnote 144: Sir Thomas More's first wife, Jane Colt, was originally a young +country girl, whom he himself instructed in letters, and moulded to +his own tastes and manners. She died young, leaving a son and three +daughters, of whom the noble Margaret Roper most resembled More himself. +His second wife was Alice Middleton, a widow, some seven years older +than More, not beautiful--for he characterized her as "NEC BELLA, +NEC PUELLA"--but a shrewd worldly woman, not by any means disposed to +sacrifice comfort and good cheer for considerations such as those which +so powerfully influenced the mind of her husband.] + +[Footnote 145: Before being beheaded, Eliot said, "Death is but a little word; +but ''tis a great work to die.'" In his 'Prison Thoughts' before his +execution, he wrote: "He that fears not to die, fears nothing.... There +is a time to live, and a time to die. A good death is far better and +more eligible than an ill life. A wise man lives but so long as his life +is worth more than his death. The longer life is not always the better."] + +[Footnote 146: Mr. J. S. Mill, in his book 'On Liberty,' describes "the masses," as +"collective mediocrity." "The initiation of all wise or noble things," +he says, "comes, and must come, from individuals--generally at first +from some one individual. The honour and glory of the average man is +that he is capable of following that imitation; that he can respond +internally to wise and noble things, and be led to them with his eyes +open.... In this age, the mere example of nonconformity, the mere +refusal to bend the knee to custom, is itself a service. Precisely +because the tyranny of opinion is such as to make eccentricity a +reproach, it is desirable, in order to break through that tyranny, that +people should be eccentric. Eccentricity has always abounded when and +where strength of character has abounded; and the amount of eccentricity +in a society has generally been proportional to the amount of genius, +mental vigour, and moral courage which it contained. That so few now +dare to be eccentric, marks the chief danger of the time."--Pp. 120-1.] + +[Footnote 147: Mr. Arthur Helps, in one of his thoughtful books, published in 1845, +made some observations on this point, which are not less applicable now. +He there said: "it is a grievous thing to see literature made a vehicle +for encouraging the enmity of class to class. Yet this, unhappily, is +not unfrequent now. Some great man summed up the nature of French novels +by calling them the Literature of Despair; the kind of writing that I +deprecate may be called the Literature of Envy.... Such writers like +to throw their influence, as they might say, into the weaker scale. But +that is not the proper way of looking at the matter. I think, if they +saw the ungenerous nature of their proceedings, that alone would stop +them. They should recollect that literature may fawn upon the masses +as well as the aristocracy; and in these days the temptation is in the +former direction. But what is most grievous in this kind of writing is +the mischief it may do to the working-people themselves. If you have +their true welfare at heart, you will not only care for their being +fed and clothed, but you will be anxious not to encourage unreasonable +expectations in them--not to make them ungrateful or greedy-minded. +Above all, you will be solicitous to preserve some self-reliance in +them. You will be careful not to let them think that their condition can +be wholly changed without exertion of their own. You would not desire to +have it so changed. Once elevate your ideal of what you wish to happen +amongst the labouring population, and you will not easily admit anything +in your writings that may injure their moral or their mental character, +even if you thought it might hasten some physical benefit for them. That +is the way to make your genius most serviceable to mankind. Depend upon +it, honest and bold things require to be said to the lower as well as +the higher classes; and the former are in these times much less likely +to have, such things addressed to them."-Claims of Labour, pp. 253-4.] + +[Footnote 148: 'Memoirs of Colonel Hutchinson' [14Bohn's Ed.], p. 32.] + +[Footnote 149: At a public meeting held at Worcester, in 1867, in recognition of +Sir J. Pakington's services as Chairman of Quarter Sessions for a period +of twenty-four years, the following remarks, made by Sir John on the +occasion, are just and valuable as they are modest:-"I am indebted for +whatever measure of success I have attained in my public life, to a +combination of moderate abilities, with honesty of intention, firmness +of purpose, and steadiness of conduct. If I were to offer advice to any +young man anxious to make himself useful in public life, I would sum up +the results of my experience in three short rules--rules so simple that +any man may understand them, and so easy that any man may act upon them. +My first rule would be--leave it to others to judge of what duties you +are capable, and for what position you are fitted; but never refuse to +give your services in whatever capacity it may be the opinion of others +who are competent to judge that you may benefit your neighbours or your +country. My second rule is--when you agree to undertake public duties, +concentrate every energy and faculty in your possession with the +determination to discharge those duties to the best of your ability. +Lastly, I would counsel you that, in deciding on the line which you will +take in public affairs, you should be guided in your decision by that +which, after mature deliberation, you believe to be right, and not +by that which, in the passing hour, may happen to be fashionable or +popular."] + +[Footnote 1410: The following illustration of one of his minute acts of kindness is +given in his biography:--"He was one day taking a long country walk near +Freshford, when he met a little girl, about five years old, sobbing over +a broken bowl; she had dropped and broken it in bringing it back from +the field to which she had taken her father's dinner in it, and she said +she would be beaten on her return home for having broken it; when, with +a sudden gleam of hope, she innocently looked up into his face, and +said, 'But yee can mend it, can't ee?' + +"My father explained that he could not mend the bowl, but the trouble he +could, by the gift of a sixpence to buy another. However, on opening his +purse it was empty of silver, and he had to make amends by promising to +meet his little friend in the same spot at the same hour next day, and +to bring the sixpence with him, bidding her, meanwhile, tell her mother +she had seen a gentleman who would bring her the money for the bowl next +day. The child, entirely trusting him, went on her way comforted. On +his return home he found an invitation awaiting him to dine in Bath the +following evening, to meet some one whom he specially wished to see. He +hesitated for some little time, trying to calculate the possibility of +giving the meeting to his little friend of the broken bowl and of still +being in time for the dinner-party in Bath; but finding this could +not be, he wrote to decline accepting the invitation on the plea of 'a +pre-engagement,' saying to us, 'I cannot disappoint her, she trusted me +so implicitly.'"] + +[Footnote 1411: Miss Florence Nightingale has related the following incident as +having occurred before Sebastopol:--"I remember a sergeant who, on +picket, the rest of the picket killed and himself battered about the +head, stumbled back to camp, and on his way picked up a wounded man +and brought him in on his shoulders to the lines, where he fell down +insensible. When, after many hours, he recovered his senses, I believe +after trepanning, his first words were to ask after his comrade, 'Is he +alive?' 'Comrade, indeed; yes, he's alive--it is the general.' At that +moment the general, though badly wounded, appeared at the bedside. 'Oh, +general, it's you, is it, I brought in? I'm so glad; I didn't know your +honour. But, ----, if I'd known it was you, I'd have saved you all the +same.' This is the true soldier's spirit." + +In the same letter, Miss Nightingale says: "England, from her grand +mercantile and commercial successes, has been called sordid; God knows +she is not. The simple courage, the enduring patience, the good sense, +the strength to suffer in silence--what nation shows more of this in +war than is shown by her commonest soldier? I have seen men dying of +dysentery, but scorning to report themselves sick lest they should +thereby throw more labour on their comrades, go down to the trenches and +make the trenches their deathbed. There is nothing in history to compare +with it...."] + +"Say what men will, there is something more truly Christian in the man +who gives his time, his strength, his life, if need be, for something +not himself--whether he call it his Queen, his country, or his +colours--than in all the asceticism, the fasts, the humiliations, and +confessions which have ever been made: and this spirit of giving one's +life, without calling it a sacrifice, is found nowhere so truly as in +England."] + +[Footnote 1412: Mrs. Grote's 'Life of Ary Scheffer,' pp. 154-5.] + +[Footnote 1413: The sufferings of this noble woman, together with those of her +unfortunate husband, were touchingly described in a letter afterwards +addressed by her to a female friend, which was published some years ago +at Haarlem, entitled, 'Gertrude von der Wart; or, Fidelity unto Death.' +Mrs. Hemans wrote a poem of great pathos and beauty, commemorating the +sad story in her 'Records of Woman.'] + +[Footnote 151: 'Social Statics,' p. 185.] + +[Footnote 152: "In all cases," says Jeremy Bentham, "when the power of the will can +be exercised over the thoughts, let those thoughts be directed towards +happiness. Look out for the bright, for the brightest side of things, +and keep your face constantly turned to it.... A large part of existence +is necessarily passed in inaction. By day [15to take an instance from the +thousand in constant recurrence], when in attendance on others, and time +is lost by being kept waiting; by night when sleep is unwilling to +close the eyelids, the economy of happiness recommends the occupation of +pleasurable thought. In walking abroad, or in resting at home, the mind +cannot be vacant; its thoughts may be useful, useless, or pernicious to +happiness. Direct them aright; the habit of happy thought will spring up +like any other habit." DEONTOLOGY, ii. 105-6.] + +[Footnote 153: The following extract from a letter of M. Boyd, Esq., is given by +Earl Stanhope in his 'Miscellanies':--"There was a circumstance told me +by the late Mr. Christmas, who for many years held an important official +situation in the Bank of England. He was, I believe, in early life a +clerk in the Treasury, or one of the government offices, and for some +time acted for Mr. Pitt as his confidential clerk, or temporary private +secretary. Christmas was one of the most obliging men I ever knew; and, +from the, position he occupied, was constantly exposed to interruptions, +yet I never saw his temper in the least ruffled. One day I found him +more than usually engaged, having a mass of accounts to prepare for one +of the law-courts--still the same equanimity, and I could not resist the +opportunity of asking the old gentleman the secret. 'Well, Mr. Boyd, +you shall know it. Mr. Pitt gave it to me:--NOT TO LOSE MY TEMPER, +IF POSSIBLE, AT ANY TIME, AND NEVER DURING THE HOURS OF BUSINESS. My +labours here [15Bank of England] commence at nine and end at three; and, +acting on the advice of the illustrious statesman, I NEVER LOSE MY +TEMPER DURING THOSE HOURS.'"] + +[Footnote 154: 'Strafford Papers,' i. 87.] + +[Footnote 155: Jared Sparks' 'Life of Washington,' pp. 7, 534.] + +[Footnote 156: Brialmont's 'Life of Wellington.'] + +[Footnote 157: Professor Tyndall, on 'Faraday as a Discoverer,' p. 156.] + +[Footnote 158: 'Life of Perthes,' ii. 216.] + +[Footnote 159: Lady Elizabeth Carew.] + +[Footnote 1510: Francis Horner, in one of his letters, says: "It is among the +very sincere and zealous friends of liberty that you will find the most +perfect specimens of wrongheadedness; men of a dissenting, provincial +cast of virtue--who [15according to one of Sharpe's favourite phrases] +WILL drive a wedge the broad end foremost--utter strangers to all +moderation in political business."--Francis Horner's LIFE AND +CORRESPONDENCE [151843], ii. 133.] + +[Footnote 1511: Professor Tyndall on 'Faraday as a Discoverer,' pp. 40-1.] + +[Footnote 1512: Yet Burke himself; though capable of giving Barry such excellent +advice, was by no means immaculate as regarded his own temper. When +he lay ill at Beaconsfield, Fox, from whom he had become separated by +political differences arising out of the French Revolution, went down +to see his old friend. But Burke would not grant him an interview; +he positively refused to see him. On his return to town, Fox told his +friend Coke the result of his journey; and when Coke lamented Burke's +obstinacy, Fox only replied, goodnaturedly: "Ah! never mind, Tom; I +always find every Irishman has got a piece of potato in his head." +Yet Fox, with his usual generosity, when he heard of Burke's impending +death, wrote a most kind and cordial letter to Mrs. Burke, expressive of +his grief and sympathy; and when Burke was no more, Fox was the first +to propose that he should be interred with public honours in Westminster +Abbey--which only Burke's own express wish, that he should be buried at +Beaconsfield, prevented being carried out.] + +[Footnote 1513: When Curran, the Irish barrister, visited Burns's cabin in 1810, he +found it converted into a public house, and the landlord who showed it +was drunk. "There," said he, pointing to a corner on one side of the +fire, with a most MALAPROPOS laugh-"there is the very spot where Robert +Burns was born." "The genius and the fate of the man," says Curran, +"were already heavy on my heart; but the drunken laugh of the landlord +gave me such a view of the rock on which he had foundered, that I could +not stand it, but burst into tears."] + +[Footnote 1514: The chaplain of Horsemongerlane Gaol, in his annual report to the +Surrey justices, thus states the result of his careful study of the +causes of dishonesty: "From my experience of predatory crime, founded +upon careful study of the character of a great variety of prisoners, +I conclude that habitual dishonesty is to be referred neither to +ignorance, nor to drunkenness, nor to poverty, nor to overcrowding in +towns, nor to temptation from surrounding wealth--nor, indeed, to any +one of the many indirect causes to which it is sometimes referred--but +mainly TO A DISPOSITION TO ACQUIRE PROPERTY WITH A LESS DEGREE OF LABOUR +THAN ORDINARY INDUSTRY." The italics are the author's.] + +[Footnote 1515: S. C. Hall's 'Memories.'] + +[Footnote 1516: Moore's 'Life of Byron,' 8vo. Ed., p. 182.] + +[Footnote 1517: Captain Basil Hall records the following conversation with +Scott:-"It occurs to me," I observed, "that people are apt to make too +much fuss about the loss of fortune, which is one of the smallest of the +great evils of life, and ought to be among the most tolerable."--"Do you +call it a small misfortune to be ruined in money-matters?" he asked. +"It is not so painful, at all events, as the loss of friends."--"I grant +that," he said. "As the loss of character?"--"True again." "As the loss +of health?"--"Ay, there you have me," he muttered to himself, in a +tone so melancholy that I wished I had not spoken. "What is the loss of +fortune to the loss of peace of mind?" I continued. "In short," said he, +playfully, "you will make it out that there is no harm in a man's being +plunged over-head-and-ears in a debt he cannot remove." "Much depends, +I think, on how it was incurred, and what efforts are made to redeem +it--at least, if the sufferer be a rightminded man." "I hope it does," +he said, cheerfully and firmly.--FRAGMENTS OF VOYAGES AND TRAVELS, 3rd +series, pp. 308-9.] + +[Footnote 1518: "These battles," he wrote in his Diary, "have been the death of +many a man, I think they will be mine."] + +[Footnote 1519: Scott's Diary, December 17th, 1827.] + +[Footnote 161: From Lovelace's lines to Lucusta [16Lucy Sacheverell], 'Going to the +Wars.'] + +[Footnote 162: Amongst other great men of genius, Ariosto and Michael Angelo +devoted to her their service and their muse.] + +[Footnote 163: See the Rev. F. W. Farrar's admirable book, entitled 'Seekers after +God' [16Sunday Library]. The author there says: "Epictetus was not a +Christian. He has only once alluded to the Christians in his works, and +then it is under the opprobrious title of 'Galileans,' who practised a +kind of insensibility in painful circumstances, and an indifference to +worldly interests, which Epictetus unjustly sets down to 'mere habit.' +Unhappily, it was not granted to these heathen philosophers in any true +sense to know what Christianity was. They thought that it was an attempt +to imitate the results of philosophy, without having passed through the +necessary discipline. They viewed it with suspicion, they treated it +with injustice. And yet in Christianity, and in Christianity alone, +they would have found an ideal which would have surpassed their loftiest +anticipations."] + +[Footnote 164: Sparks' 'Life of Washington,' pp. 141-2.] + +[Footnote 165: Wellington, like Washington, had to pay the penalty of his adherence +to the cause he thought right, in his loss of "popularity." He was +mobbed in the streets of London, and had his windows smashed by the mob, +while his wife lay dead in the house. Sir Walter Scott also was hooted +and pelted at Hawick by "the people," amidst cries of "Burke Sir +Walter!"] + +[Footnote 166: Robertson's 'Life and Letters,' ii. 157.] + +[Footnote 167: We select the following passages from this remarkable report of +Baron Stoffel, as being of more than merely temporary interest:--Who +that has lived here [16Berlin] will deny that the Prussians are energetic, +patriotic, and teeming with youthful vigour; that they are not corrupted +by sensual pleasures, but are manly, have earnest convictions, do not +think it beneath them to reverence sincerely what is noble and lofty? +What a melancholy contrast does France offer in all this? Having sneered +at everything, she has lost the faculty of respecting anything. +Virtue, family life, patriotism, honour, religion, are represented to a +frivolous generation as fitting subjects of ridicule. The theatres have +become schools of shamelessness and obscenity. Drop by drop, poison is +instilled into the very core of an ignorant and enervated society, which +has neither the insight nor the energy left to amend its institutions, +nor--which would be the most necessary step to take--become better +informed or more moral. One after the other the fine qualities of the +nation are dying out. Where is the generosity, the loyalty, the charm of +our ESPRIT, and our former elevation of soul? If this goes on, the +time will come when this noble race of France will be known only by its +faults. And France has no idea that while she is sinking, more earnest +nations are stealing the march upon her, are distancing her on the +road to progress, and are preparing for her a secondary position in the +world. + +"I am afraid that these opinions will not be relished in France. However +correct, they differ too much from what is usually said and asserted at +home. I should wish some enlightened and unprejudiced Frenchmen to come +to Prussia and make this country their study. They would soon discover +that they were living in the midst of a strong, earnest, and intelligent +nation, entirely destitute, it is true, of noble and delicate feelings, +of all fascinating charms, but endowed with every solid virtue, and +alike distinguished for untiring industry, order, and economy, as well +as for patriotism, a strong sense of duty, and that consciousness of +personal dignity which in their case is so happily blended with respect +for authority and obedience to the law. They would see a country with +firm, sound, and moral institutions, whose upper classes are worthy of +their rank, and, by possessing the highest degree of culture, +devoting themselves to the service of the State, setting an example of +patriotism, and knowing how to preserve the influence legitimately their +own. They would find a State with an excellent administration where +everything is in its right place, and where the most admirable order +prevails in every branch of the social and political system. Prussia +may be well compared to a massive structure of lofty proportions and +astounding solidity, which, though it has nothing to delight the eye +or speak to the heart, cannot but impress us with its grand symmetry, +equally observable in its broad foundations as in its strong and +sheltering roof. + +"And what is France? What is French society in these latter days? A +hurly-burly of disorderly elements, all mixed and jumbled together; a +country in which everybody claims the right to occupy the highest posts, +yet few remember that a man to be employed in a responsible position +ought to have a well-balanced mind, ought to be strictly moral, to +know something of the world, and possess certain intellectual powers; a +country in which the highest offices are frequently held by ignorant and +uneducated persons, who either boast some special talent, or whose +only claim is social position and some versatility and address. What a +baneful and degrading state of things! And how natural that, while it +lasts, France should be full of a people without a position, without a +calling, who do not know what to do with themselves, but are none the +less eager to envy and malign every one who does.... + +"The French do not possess in any very marked degree the qualities +required to render general conscription acceptable, or to turn it to +account. Conceited and egotistic as they are, the people would object +to an innovation whose invigorating force they are unable to comprehend, +and which cannot be carried out without virtues which they do not +possess--self-abnegation, conscientious recognition of duty, and a +willingness to sacrifice personal interests to the loftier demands +of the country. As the character of individuals is only improved by +experience, most nations require a chastisement before they set about +reorganising their political institutions. So Prussia wanted a Jena to +make her the strong and healthy country she is."] + +[Footnote 168: Yet even in De Tocqueville's benevolent nature, there was a +pervading element of impatience. In the very letter in which the above +passage occurs, he says: "Some persons try to be of use to men while +they despise them, and others because they love them. In the services +rendered by the first, there is always something incomplete, rough, and +contemptuous, that inspires neither confidence nor gratitude. I should +like to belong to the second class, but often I cannot. I love mankind +in general, but I constantly meet with individuals whose baseness +revolts me. I struggle daily against a universal contempt for my fellow, +creatures."--MEMOIRS AND REMAINS OF DE TOCQUEVILLE, vol. i. p. 813. +[Footnote 16Letter to Kergorlay, Nov. 13th, 1833].] + +[Footnote 169: Gleig's 'Life of Wellington,' pp. 314, 315.] + +[Footnote 1610: 'Life of Arnold,' i. 94.] + +[Footnote 1611: See the 'Memoir of George Wilson, M.D., F.R.S.E.' By his sister +[Footnote 16Edinburgh, 1860].] + +[Footnote 1612: Such cases are not unusual. We personally knew a young lady, a +countrywoman of Professor Wilson, afflicted by cancer in the breast, +who concealed the disease from her parents lest it should occasion them +distress. An operation became necessary; and when the surgeons called +for the purpose of performing it, she herself answered the door, +received them with a cheerful countenance, led them upstairs to her +room, and submitted to the knife; and her parents knew nothing of the +operation until it was all over. But the disease had become too deeply +seated for recovery, and the noble self-denying girl died, cheerful and +uncomplaining to the end. + +[Footnote 1613: "One night, about eleven o'clock, Keats returned home in a state +of strange physical excitement--it might have appeared, to those who did +not know him, one of fierce intoxication. He told his friend he had +been outside the stage-coach, had received a severe chill, was a little +fevered, but added, 'I don't feel it now.' He was easily persuaded to go +to bed, and as he leapt into the cold sheets, before his head was on +the pillow, he slightly coughed and said, 'That is blood from my mouth; +bring me the candle; let me see this blood' He gazed steadfastly for +some moments at the ruddy stain, and then, looking in his friend's face +with an expression of sudden calmness never to be forgotten, said, +'I know the colour of that blood--it is arterial blood. I cannot +be deceived in that colour; that drop is my death-warrant. I must +die!'"--Houghton's LIFE OF KEATS, Ed. 1867, p. 289. + +In the case of George Wilson, the bleeding was in the first instance +from the stomach, though he afterwards suffered from lung haemorrhage +like Keats. Wilson afterwards, speaking of the Lives of Lamb and Keats, +which had just appeared, said he had been reading them with great +sadness. "There is," said he, "something in the noble brotherly love of +Charles to brighten, and hallow, and relieve that sadness; but Keats's +deathbed is the blackness of midnight, unmitigated by one ray of light!"] + +[Footnote 1614: On the doctors, who attended him in his first attack, mistaking the +haemorrhage from the stomach for haemorrhage from the lungs, he wrote: +"It would have been but poor consolation to have had as an epitaph:-- + + "Here lies George Wilson, + Overtaken by Nemesis; + He died not of Haemoptysis, + But of Haematemesis."] + +[Footnote 1615: 'Memoir,' p. 427.] + +[Footnote 171: Jeremy Taylor's 'Holy Living.'] + +[Footnote 172: 'Michelet's 'Life of Luther,' pp. 411-12.] + +[Footnote 173: Sir John Kaye's 'Lives of Indian Officers.'] + +[Footnote 174: 'Deontology,' pp. 130-1, 144.] + +[Footnote 175: 'Letters and Essays,' p. 67.] + +[Footnote 176: 'Beauties of St. Francis de Sales.'] + +[Footnote 177: Ibid.] + +[Footnote 178: 'Life of Perthes,' ii. 449.] + +[Footnote 179: Moore's 'Life of Byron,' 8vo. Ed., p. 483.] + +[Footnote 181: Locke thought it of greater importance that an educator of youth +should be well-bred and well-tempered, than that he should be either a +thorough classicist or man of science. Writing to Lord Peterborough on +his son's education, Locke said: "Your Lordship would have your son's +tutor a thorough scholar, and I think it not much matter whether he be +any scholar or no: if he but understand Latin well, and have a general +scheme of the sciences, I think that enough. But I would have him +WELL-BRED and WELL-TEMPERED."] + +[Footnote 182: Mrs. Hutchinson's 'Memoir of the Life of Lieut.-Colonel Hutchinson,' +p. 32.] + +[Footnote 183: 'Letters and Essays,' p. 59.] + +[Footnote 184: 'Lettres d'un Voyageur.'] + +[Footnote 185: Sir Henry Taylor's 'Statesman,' p. 59.] + +[Footnote 186: Introduction to the 'Principal Speeches and Addresses of His Royal +Highness the Prince Consort,' 1862.] + +[Footnote 187: + + "When in disgrace with fortune and men's eyes, + I all alone beween my outcast state, + And troubled deaf heaven with my bootless cries, + And look upon myself and curse my fate; + WISHING ME LIKE TO ONE MORE RICH IN HOPE, + Featured like him, like him with friends possessed, + Desiring this man's art, and that man's scope, + With what I most enjoy, contented least; + Yet in these thoughts, MYSELF ALMOST DESPISING, + Haply I think on thee," &c.--SONNET XXIX. + + "So I, MADE LAME by sorrow's dearest spite," &c.--SONNET XXXVI] + +[Footnote 188: "And strength, by LIMPING sway disabled," &c.--SONNET LXVI. + + "Speak of MY LAMENESS, and I straight will halt."--SONNET LXXXIX.] + +[Footnote 189: + + "Alas! 'tis true, I have gone here and there, + And MADE MYSELF A MOTLEY TO THE VIEW, + Gored mine own thoughts, sold cheap what is most dear, + Made old offences of affections new," &c.--SONNET CX. + + "Oh, for my sake do you with fortune chide! + The guilty goddess of my harmful deeds, + That did not better for my life provide, + THAN PUBLIC MEANS, WHICH PUBLIC MANNERS BREED; + Thence comes it that my name receives a brand, + And almost thence my nature is subdued, + To what it works in like the dyer's hand," &c.--SONNET CXI.] + +[Footnote 1810: + + "In our two loves there is but one respect, + Though in our loves a separable spite, + Which though it alter not loves sole effect; + Yet doth it steal sweet hours from love's delight, + I may not evermore acknowledge thee, + Lest MY BEWAILED GUILT SHOULD DO THEE SHAME."--SONNET XXXVI.] + +[Footnote 1811: It is related of Garrick, that when subpoenaed on Baretti's trial, +and required to give his evidence before the court--though he had been +accustomed for thirty years to act with the greatest self-possession in +the presence of thousands--he became so perplexed and confused, that he +was actually sent from the witness-box by the judge, as a man from whom +no evidence could be obtained.] + +[Footnote 1812: Mrs. Mathews' 'Life and Correspondence of Charles Mathews,' [18Ed. +1860: p. 232.] + +[Footnote 1813: Archbishop Whately's 'Commonplace Book.'] + +[Footnote 1814: Emerson is said to have had Nathaniel Hawthorne in his mind when +writing the following passage in his 'Society and Solitude:'--"The most +agreeable compliment you could pay him was, to imply that you had not +observed him in a house or a street where you had met him. Whilst +he suffered at being seen where he was, he consoled himself with the +delicious thought of the inconceivable number of places where he was +not. All he wished of his tailor was to provide that sober mean of +colour and cut which would never detain the eye for a moment.... He +had a remorse, running to despair, of his social GAUCHERIES, and walked +miles and miles to get the twitchings out of his face, and the starts +and shrugs out of his arms and shoulders. 'God may forgive sins,' he +said, 'but awkwardness has no forgiveness in heaven or earth.'"] + +[Footnote 1815: In a series of clever articles in the REVUE DES DEUX MONDES, +entitled, 'Six mille Lieues a toute Vapeur,' giving a description of his +travels in North America, Maurice Sand keenly observed the comparatively +anti-social proclivities of the American compared with the Frenchman. +The one, he says, is inspired by the spirit of individuality, the other +by the spirit of society. In America he sees the individual absorbing +society; as in France he sees society absorbing the individual. "Ce +peuple Anglo-Saxon," he says, "qui trouvait devant lui la terre, +l'instrument de travail, sinon inepuisable, du mons inepuise, s'est mis +a l'exploiter sous l'inspiration de l'egoisme; et nous autres Francais, +nous n'avons rien su en faire, parceque NOUS NE POUVONS RIEN DANS +L'ISOLEMENT.... L'Americain supporte la solitude avec un stoicisme +admirable, mais effrayant; il ne l'aime pas, il ne songe qu'a la +detruire.... Le Francais est tout autre. Il aime son parent, son ami, +son compagnon, et jusqu'a son voisin d'omnibus ou de theatre, si sa +figure lui est sympathetique. Pourquoi? Parce qu'il le regarde et +cherche son ame, parce qu'il vit dans son semblable autant qu'en +lui-meme. Quand il est longtemps seul, il deperit, et quand il est +toujours seul, it meurt."] + +All this is perfectly true, and it explains why the comparatively +unsociable Germans, English, and Americans, are spreading over the +earth, while the intensely sociable Frenchmen, unable to enjoy life +without each other's society, prefer to stay at home, and France fails +to extend itself beyond France.] + + +[Footnote 1816: The Irish have, in many respects, the same strong social instincts +as the French. In the United States they cluster naturally in the towns, +where they have their "Irish Quarters," as in England. They are even +more Irish there than at home, and can no more forget that they are +Irishmen than the French can that they are Frenchmen. "I deliberately +assert," says Mr. Maguire, in his recent work on 'The Irish in America,' +"that it is not within the power of language to describe adequately, +much less to exaggerate, the evils consequent on the unhappy tendency +of the Irish to congregate in the large towns of America." It is this +intense socialism of the Irish that keeps them in a comparatively +hand-to-mouth condition in all the States of the Union.] + +[Footnote 1817: 'The Statesman,' p. 35.] + +[Footnote 1818: Nathaniel Hawthorne, in his 'First Impressions of France and +Italy,' says his opinion of the uncleanly character of the modern Romans +is so unfavourable that he hardly knows how to express it "But the +fact is that through the Forum, and everywhere out of the commonest +foot-track and roadway, you must look well to your steps.... Perhaps +there is something in the minds of the people of these countries that +enables them to dissever small ugliness from great sublimity and beauty. +They spit upon the glorious pavement of St. Peter's, and wherever else +they like; they place paltry-looking wooden confessionals beneath its +sublime arches, and ornament them with cheap little coloured prints of +the Crucifixion; they hang tin hearts, and other tinsel and trumpery, at +the gorgeous shrines of the saints, in chapels that are encrusted with +gems, or marbles almost as precious; they put pasteboard statues of +saints beneath the dome of the Pantheon;--in short, they let the +sublime and the ridiculous come close together, and are not in the least +troubled by the proximity."] + +[Footnote 1819: Edwin Chadwick's 'Address to the Economic Science and Statistic +Section,' British Association [18Meeting, 1862].] + +[Footnote 191: 'Kaye's 'Lives of Indian Officers.'] + +[Footnote 192: Emerson, in his 'Society and Solitude,' says "In contemporaries, it +is not so easy to distinguish between notoriety and fame. Be sure, then, +to read no mean books. Shun the spawn of the press or the gossip of the +hour.... The three practical rules I have to offer are these:--1. Never +read a book that is not a year old; 2. Never read any but famed books; +3. Never read any but what you like." Lord Lytton's maxim is: "In +science, read by preference the newest books; in literature, the +oldest."] + +[Footnote 193: A friend of Sir Walter Scott, who had the same habit, and prided +himself on his powers of conversation, one day tried to "draw out" a +fellow-passenger who sat beside him on the outside of a coach, but +with indifferent success. At length the conversationalist descended to +expostulation. "I have talked to you, my friend," said he, "on all the +ordinary subjects--literature, farming, merchandise, gaming, game-laws, +horse-races, suits at law, politics, and swindling, and blasphemy, and +philosophy: is there any one subject that you will favour me by opening +upon?" The wight writhed his countenance into a grin: "Sir," said he, +"can you say anything clever about BEND-LEATHER?" As might be expected, +the conversationalist was completely nonplussed.] + +[Footnote 194: Coleridge, in his 'Lay Sermon,' points out, as a fact of history, +how large a part of our present knowledge and civilization is owing, +directly or indirectly, to the Bible; that the Bible has been the main +lever by which the moral and intellectual character of Europe has been +raised to its present comparative height; and he specifies the marked +and prominent difference of this book from the works which it is the +fashion to quote as guides and authorities in morals, politics, and +history. "In the Bible," he says, "every agent appears and acts as a +self-substituting individual: each has a life of its own, and yet all +are in life. The elements of necessity and freewill are reconciled in +the higher power of an omnipresent Providence, that predestinates the +whole in the moral freedom of the integral parts. Of this the Bible +never suffers us to lose sight. The root is never detached from +the ground, it is God everywhere; and all creatures conform to His +decrees--the righteous by performance of the law, the disobedient by the +sufferance of the penalty."] + +[Footnote 195: Montaigne's Essay [19Book I. chap. xxv.]--'Of the Education of +Children.'] + +[Footnote 196: "Tant il est vrai," says Voltaire, "que les hommes, qui sont +audessus des autres par les talents, s'en RAPPROCHENT PRESQUE TOUJOURS +PAR LES FAIBLESSES; car pourquoi les talents nous mettraient-ils +audessous de l'humanite."--VIE DE MOLIERE.] + +[Footnote 197: 'Life,' 8vo Ed., p. 102.] + +[Footnote 198: 'Autobiography of Sir Egerton Brydges, Bart.,' vol. i. p. 91.] + +[Footnote 199: It was wanting in Plutarch, in Southey [19'Life of Nelson'], and in +Forster [19'Life of Goldsmith']; yet it must be acknowledged that personal +knowledge gives the principal charm to Tacitus's 'Agricola,' Roper's +'Life of More,' Johnson's 'Lives of Savage and Pope,' Boswell's +'Johnson,' Lockhart's 'Scott,' Carlyle's 'Sterling,' and Moore's +'Byron,'] + +[Footnote 1910: The 'Dialogus Novitiorum de Contemptu Mundi.'] + +[Footnote 1911: The Life of Sir Charles Bell, one of our greatest physiologists, +was left to be written by Amedee Pichot, a Frenchman; and though Sir +Charles Bell's letters to his brother have since been published, his +Life still remains to be written. It may also be added that the best +Life of Goethe has been written by an Englishman, and the best Life of +Frederick the Great by a Scotchman.] + +[Footnote 1912: It is not a little remarkable that the pious Schleiermacher should +have concurred in opinion with Goethe as to the merits of Spinoza, +though he was a man excommunicated by the Jews, to whom he belonged, and +denounced by the Christians as a man little better than an atheist. "The +Great Spirit of the world," says Schleiermacher, in his REDE UBER DIE +RELIGION, "penetrated the holy but repudiated Spinoza; the Infinite was +his beginning and his end; the universe his only and eternal love. He +was filled with religion and religious feeling: and therefore is it +that he stands alone unapproachable, the master in his art, but +elevated above the profane world, without adherents, and without even +citizenship."] + +Cousin also says of Spinoza:--"The author whom this pretended atheist +most resembles is the unknown author of 'The Imitation of Jesus +Christ.'"] + +[Footnote 1913: Preface to Southeys 'Life of Wesley' [191864].] + +[Footnote 1914: Napoleon also read Milton carefully, and it has been related of +him by Sir Colin Campbell, who resided with Napoleon at Elba, that +when speaking of the Battle of Austerlitz, he said that a particular +disposition of his artillery, which, in its results, had a decisive +effect in winning the battle, was suggested to his mind by the +recollection of four lines in Milton. The lines occur in the sixth book, +and are descriptive of Satan's artifice during the war with Heaven. + + "In hollow cube + Training his devilish engin'ry, impal'd + On every side WITH SHADOWING SQUADRONS DEEP + TO HIDE THE FRAUD." + +"The indubitable fact," says Mr. Edwards, in his book 'On Libraries,' +"that these lines have a certain appositeness to an important manoeuvre +at Austerlitz, gives an independent interest to the story; but it is +highly imaginative to ascribe the victory to that manoeuvre. And for +the other preliminaries of the tale, it is unfortunate that Napoleon had +learned a good deal about war long before he had learned anything about +Milton."] + +[Footnote 1915: 'Biographia Literaria,' chap. i.] + +[Footnote 1916: Sir John Bowring's 'Memoirs of Bentham,' p. 10.] + +[Footnote 1917: Notwithstanding recent censures of classical studies as a useless +waste of time, there can be no doubt that they give the highest +finish to intellectual culture. The ancient classics contain the most +consummate models of literary art; and the greatest writers have been +their most diligent students. Classical culture was the instrument with +which Erasmus and the Reformers purified Europe. It distinguished +the great patriots of the seventeenth century; and it has ever since +characterised our greatest statesmen. "I know not how it is," says an +English writer, "but their commerce with the ancients appears to me to +produce, in those who constantly practise it, a steadying and composing +effect upon their judgment, not of literary works only, but of men and +events in general. They are like persons who have had a weighty and +impressive experience; they are more truly than others under the empire +of facts, and more independent of the language current among those with +whom they live."] + +[Footnote 1918: Hazlitt's TABLE TALK: 'On Thought and Action.'] + +[Footnote 201: Mungo Park declared that he was more affected by this incident than +by any other that befel him in the course of his travels. As he lay +down to sleep on the mat spread for him on the floor of the hut, his +benefactress called to the female part of the family to resume their +task of spinning cotton, in which they continued employed far into the +night. "They lightened their labour with songs," says the traveller, +"one of which was composed extempore, for I was myself the subject of +it; it was sung by one of the young women, the rest joining in a chorus. +The air was sweet and plaintive, and the words, literally translated, +were these: 'The winds roared, and the rains fell. The poor white man, +faint and weary, came and sat under our tree. He has no mother to bring +him milk, no wife to grind his corn.' Chorus--'Let us pity the white +man, no mother has he!' Trifling as this recital may appear, to a person +in my situation the circumstance was affecting in the highest degree. I +was so oppressed by such unexpected kindness, that sleep fled before my +eyes."] + +[Footnote 202: 'Transformation, or Monte Beni.'] + +[Footnote 203: 'Portraits Contemporains,' iii. 519.] + +[Footnote 204: Mr. Arthur Helps, in one of his Essays, has wisely said: "You +observe a man becoming day by day richer, or advancing in station, +or increasing in professional reputation, and you set him down as a +successful man in life. But if his home is an ill-regulated one, +where no links of affection extend throughout the family--whose former +domestics [20and he has had more of them than he can well remember] look +back upon their sojourn with him as one unblessed by kind words or +deeds--I contend that that man has not been successful. Whatever good +fortune he may have in the world, it is to be remembered that he has +always left one important fortress untaken behind him. That man's life +does not surely read well whose benevolence has found no central home. +It may have sent forth rays in various directions, but there should have +been a warm focus of love--that home-nest which is formed round a good +mans heart."--CLAIMS OF LABOUR.] + +[Footnote 205: "The red heart sends all its instincts up to the white brain, to be +analysed, chilled, blanched, and so become pure reason--which is just +exactly what we do NOT want of women as women. The current should run +the other way. The nice, calm, cold thought, which, in women, shapes +itself so rapidly that they hardly know it as thought, should always +travel to the lips VIA the heart. It does so in those women whom +all love and admire.... The brain-women never interest us like the +heart-women; white roses please less than red."--THE PROFESSOR AT THE +BREAKFAST TABLE, by Oliver Wendell Holmes.] + +[Footnote 206: 'The War and General Culture,' 1871.] + +[Footnote 207: "Depend upon it, men set more value on the cultivated minds than on +the accomplishments of women, which they are rarely able to appreciate. +It is a common error, but it is an error, that literature unfits women +for the everyday business of life. It is not so with men. You see +those of the most cultivated minds constantly devoting their time and +attention to the most homely objects. Literature gives women a real +and proper weight in society, but then they must use it with +discretion."--THE REV. SYDNEY SMITH.] + +[Footnote 208: 'The Statesman,' pp. 73-75.] + +[Footnote 209: Fuller, the Church historian, with his usual homely mother-wit, +speaking of the choice of a wife, said briefly, "Take the daughter of a +good mother."] + +[Footnote 2010: She was an Englishwoman--a Miss Motley. It maybe mentioned that +amongst other distinguished Frenchmen who have married English wives, +were Sismondi, Alfred de Vigny, and Lamartine.] + +[Footnote 2011: "Plus je roule dans ce monde, et plus je suis amene a penser qu'il +n'y a que le bonheur domestique qui signifie quelque chose."--OEUVRES ET +CORRESPONDENCE.] + +[Footnote 2012: De Tocqueville's 'Memoir and Remains,' vol. i. p. 408.] + +[Footnote 2013: De Tocqueville's 'Memoir and Remains,' vol. ii. p. 48.] + +[Footnote 2014: Colonel Hutchinson was an uncompromising republican, thoroughly +brave, highminded, and pious. At the Restoration, he was discharged from +Parliament, and from all offices of state for ever. He retired to his +estate at Owthorp, near Nottingham, but was shortly after arrested and +imprisoned in the Tower. From thence he was removed to Sandown Castle, +near Deal, where he lay for eleven months, and died on September +11th, 1664. The wife petitioned for leave to share his prison, but was +refused. When he felt himself dying, knowing the deep sorrow which +his death would occasion to his wife, he left this message, which was +conveyed to her: "Let her, as she is above other women, show herself on +this occasion a good Christian, and above the pitch of ordinary women." +Hence the wife's allusion to her husband's "command" in the above +passage.] + +[Footnote 2015: Mrs. Lucy Hutchinson to her children concerning their father: +'Memoirs of the Life of Col. Hutchinson' [20Bohn's Ed.], pp. 29-30.] + +[Footnote 2016: On the Declaration of American Independence, the first John Adams, +afterwards President of the United States, bought a copy of the 'Life +and Letters of Lady Russell,' and presented it to his wife, "with an +express intent and desire" [20as stated by himself], "that she should +consider it a mirror in which to contemplate herself; for, at that time, +I thought it extremely probable, from the daring and dangerous career +I was determined to run, that she would one day find herself in the +situation of Lady Russell, her husband without a head:" Speaking of his +wife in connection with the fact, Mr. Adams added: "Like Lady Russell, +she never, by word or look, discouraged me from running all hazards for +the salvation of my country's liberties. She was willing to share +with me, and that her children should share with us both, in all the +dangerous consequences we had to hazard."] + +[Footnote 2017: 'Memoirs of the Life of Sir Samuel Romily,' vol. i. p. 41.] + +[Footnote 2018: It is a singular circumstance that in the parish church of St. +Bride, Fleet Street, there is a tablet on the wall with an inscription +to the memory of Isaac Romilly, F.R.S., who died in 1759, of a broken +heart, seven days after the decease of a beloved wife--CHAMBERS' BOOK OF +DAYS, vol. ii. p. 539.] + +[Footnote 2019: Mr. Frank Buckland says "During the long period that Dr. Buckland +was engaged in writing the book which I now have the honour of editing, +my mother sat up night after night, for weeks and months consecutively, +writing to my father's dictation; and this often till the sun's rays, +shining through the shutters at early morn, warned the husband to cease +from thinking, and the wife to rest her weary hand. Not only with her +pen did she render material assistance, but her natural talent in +the use of her pencil enabled her to give accurate illustrations and +finished drawings, many of which are perpetuated in Dr. Buckland's +works. She was also particularly clever and neat in mending broken +fossils; and there are many specimens in the Oxford Museum, now +exhibiting their natural forms and beauty, which were restored by +her perseverance to shape from a mass of broken and almost comminuted +fragments."] + +[Footnote 2020: Veitch's 'Memoirs of Sir William Hamilton.'] + +[Footnote 2021: The following extract from Mr. Veitch's biography will give one an +idea of the extraordinary labours of Lady Hamilton, to whose unfailing +devotion to the service of her husband the world of intellect has been +so much indebted: "The number of pages in her handwriting," says Mr. +Veitch,--"filled with abstruse metaphysical matter, original and quoted, +bristling with proportional and syllogistic formulae--that are still +preserved, is perfectly marvellous. Everything that was sent to the +press, and all the courses of lectures, were written by her, either to +dictation, or from a copy. This work she did in the truest spirit of +love and devotion. She had a power, moreover, of keeping her husband up +to what he had to do. She contended wisely against a sort of energetic +indolence which characterised him, and which, while he was always +labouring, made him apt to put aside the task actually before +him--sometimes diverted by subjects of inquiry suggested in the course +of study on the matter in hand, sometimes discouraged by the difficulty +of reducing to order the immense mass of materials he had accumulated +in connection with it. Then her resolution and cheerful disposition +sustained and refreshed him, and never more so than when, during the +last twelve years of his life, his bodily strength was broken, and his +spirit, though languid, yet ceased not from mental toil. The truth is, +that Sir William's marriage, his comparatively limited circumstances, +and the character of his wife, supplied to a nature that would have been +contented to spend its mighty energies in work that brought no reward +but in the doing of it, and that might never have been made publicly +known or available, the practical force and impulse which enabled him +to accomplish what he actually did in literature and philosophy. It was +this influence, without doubt, which saved him from utter absorption +in his world of rare, noble, and elevated, but ever-increasingly +unattainable ideas. But for it, the serene sea of abstract thought might +have held him becalmed for life; and in the absence of all utterance of +definite knowledge of his conclusions, the world might have been left to +an ignorant and mysterious wonder about the unprofitable scholar."] + +[Footnote 211: 'Calcutta Review,' article on 'Romance and Reality of Indian Life.'] + +[Footnote 212: Joseph Lancaster was only twenty years of age when [21in 1798: he +opened his first school in a spare room in his father's house, which was +soon filled with the destitute children of the neighbourhood. The room +was shortly found too small for the numbers seeking admission, and one +place after another was hired, until at length Lancaster had a special +building erected, capable of accommodating a thousand pupils; outside of +which was placed the following notice:--"All that will, may send their +children here, and have them educated freely; and those that do not +wish to have education for nothing, may pay for it if they please." Thus +Joseph Lancaster was the precursor of our present system of National +Education.] + +[Footnote 213: A great musician once said of a promising but passionless +cantatrice--"She sings well, but she wants something, and in that +something everything. If I were single, I would court her; I would marry +her; I would maltreat her; I would break her heart; and in six months +she would be the greatest singer in Europe!"--BLACKWOOD'S MAGAZINE.] + +[Footnote 214: Prescot's 'Essays,' art. Cervantes.] + +[Footnote 215: A cavalier, named Ruy de Camera, having called upon Camoens to +furnish a poetical version of the seven penitential psalms, the poet, +raising his head from his miserable pallet, and pointing to his faithful +slave, exclaimed: "Alas! when I was a poet, I was young, and happy, and +blest with the love of ladies; but now, I am a forlorn deserted wretch! +See--there stands my poor Antonio, vainly supplicating FOURPENCE to +purchase a little coals. I have not them to give him!" The cavalier, +Sousa quaintly relates, in his 'Life of Camoens,' closed his heart +and his purse, and quitted the room. Such were the grandees of +Portugal!--Lord Strangford's REMARKS ON THE LIFE AND WRITINGS OF +CAMOENS, 1824.] + +[Footnote 216: See chapter v. p. 125.] + +[Footnote 217: A Quaker called on Bunyan one day with "a message from the Lord," +saying he had been to half the gaols of England, and was glad at last +to have found him. To which Bunyan replied: "If the Lord sent thee, you +would not have needed to take so much trouble to find me out, for He +knew that I have been in Bedford Gaol these seven years past."] + +[Footnote 218: Prynne, besides standing in the pillory and having his ears cut off, +was imprisoned by turns in the Tower, Mont Orgueil [21Jersey], Dunster +Castle, Taunton Castle, and Pendennis Castle. He after-wards pleaded +zealously for the Restoration, and was made Keeper of the Records +by Charles II. It has been computed that Prynne wrote, compiled, and +printed about eight quarto pages for every working-day of his life, from +his reaching man's estate to the day of his death. Though his books +were for the most part appropriated by the trunkmakers, they now command +almost fabulous prices, chiefly because of their rarity.] + +[Footnote 219: He also projected his 'Review' in prison--the first periodical of +the kind, which pointed the way to the host of 'Tatlers,' 'Guardians,' +and 'Spectators,' which followed it. The 'Review' consisted of 102 +numbers, forming nine quarto volumes, all of which were written by De +Foe himself, while engaged in other and various labours.] + +[Footnote 2110: A passage in the Earl of Carlisles Lecture on Pope--'Heaven was +made for those who have failed in this world'--struck me very forcibly +several years ago when I read it in a newspaper, and became a rich vein +of thought, in which I often quarried, especially when the sentence +was interpreted by the Cross, which was failure apparently."--LIFE AND +LETTERS OF ROBERTSON [21of Brighton], ii. 94.] + +[Footnote 2111: + + "Not all who seem to fail, have failed indeed; + Not all who fail have therefore worked in vain: + For all our acts to many issues lead; + And out of earnest purpose, pure and plain, + Enforced by honest toil of hand or brain, + The Lord will fashion, in His own good time, + [21Be this the labourer's proudly-humble creed,] + Such ends as, to His wisdom, fitliest chime + With His vast love's eternal harmonies. + There is no failure for the good and wise: + What though thy seed should fall by the wayside + And the birds snatch it;--yet the birds are fed; + Or they may bear it far across the tide, + To give rich harvests after thou art dead." + POLITICS FOR THE PEOPLE, 1848.] + +[Footnote 2112: "What is it," says Mr. Helps, "that promotes the most and the +deepest thought in the human race? It is not learning; it is not the +conduct of business; it is not even the impulse of the affections. It +is suffering; and that, perhaps, is the reason why there is so much +suffering in the world. The angel who went down to trouble the waters +and to make them healing, was not, perhaps, entrusted with so great +a boon as the angel who benevolently inflicted upon the sufferers the +disease from which they suffered."--BREVIA.] + +[Footnote 2113: These lines were written by Deckar, in a spirit of boldness equal +to its piety. Hazlitt has or said of them, that they "ought to +embalm his memory to every one who has a sense either of religion, or +philosophy, or humanity, or true genius."] + +[Footnote 2114: Reboul, originally a baker of Nismes, was the author of many +beautiful poems--amongst others, of the exquisite piece known in this +country by its English translation, entitled 'The Angel and the Child.'] + +[Footnote 2115: 'Cornhill Magazine,' vol. xvi. p. 322.] + +[Footnote 2116: 'Holy Living and Dying,' ch. ii. sect. 6.] + +[Footnote 2117: Ibid., ch. iii. sect. 6.] + +[Footnote 2118: Gibbon's 'Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire,' vol. x. p. 40.] + + + + + +End of the Project Gutenberg EBook of Character, by Samuel Smiles + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK CHARACTER *** + +***** This file should be named 2541.txt or 2541.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + http://www.gutenberg.org/2/5/4/2541/ + +Produced by Sean Hackett + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. 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