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+Title: The Physical Life of Woman:
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+THE PHYSICAL LIFE OF WOMAN:
+
+ADVICE TO THE MAIDEN, WIFE AND MOTHER.
+
+
+
+
+PUBLISHERS' NOTICE.
+
+
+The extraordinary popularity achieved and maintained by Dr. GEO. H.
+NAPHEYS' _Physical Life of Woman_, places it beyond question among the
+classics of the English language. Convinced of its high literary as well
+as medical value, the present publishers have spared no pains or expense
+to place it before the public in the most attractive style.
+
+The _text_ has been most carefully revised and rewritten by the eminent
+author himself; extensive additions of important matter the fruit of
+three more years devoted to the study of the subject and the wants of
+readers, have been incorporated. In type, paper and binding, the most
+appropriate materials have been selected. And, to satisfy the repeated
+requests of purchasers, permission has been obtained from the author to
+insert his portrait, engraved on steel by one of the most skilful London
+artists.
+
+With these additions, the _Physical Life of Woman_ comes before the
+public with all the novelty and freshness of a new book, and also with
+the solid and substantial reputation for practical worth which its sales
+of nearly _fifty thousand_ copies a year for _three_ years guarantee to
+it.
+
+We add a
+
+
+SYNOPSIS OF THE BOOK.
+
+It treats of woman in her three great positions in life, as the MAIDEN,
+the WIFE, and the MOTHER.
+
+Under the first of these is discussed the mysterious change she
+undergoes when ripening from the indifferent girl to the tender and
+sensitive virgin. The dangers she runs at this critical epoch are
+carefully noted, and the rules to prevent and remedy them clearly set
+forth. The all-absorbing topic of _Love_, is next treated of in a pure
+and elevated style, but strictly from the physician's point of view, and
+many salutary hints are given to direct the passion to noble ends and in
+proper channels, and to teach the youthful reader how to shun
+unfortunate unions.
+
+In the part addressed to _Wives_ the health of the married couple is
+first considered as being essential to their happiness. Plainly, yet
+delicately, the rules that should govern them are laid down; the absence
+of children and their excessive numbers are both mentioned, as requiring
+appropriate correction, and an unsparing hand is laid upon certain
+prevalent social vices. A full discussion of the important topic of the
+inheritance of physical and mental traits will be found, and two most
+thorough and practical chapters on Pregnancy and Confinement are added,
+most invaluable to every young wife.
+
+The duties of the _Mother_ are next set forth, in nursing her child, and
+taking proper care of it, in training its budding powers, and also in
+giving her own attention to it in some of the more common diseases to
+which children are subject.
+
+The sections devoted to _Health in Marriage_ will be peculiarly welcome
+to many women suffering in health from they know not what exact cause,
+but really from some of those inward or local weaknesses which are here
+described. While to very many others who are approaching or about
+passing through the critical epoch of the _Change of Life_, the full and
+well-considered views of the author in the part devoted to that period
+will be read with benefit and gratitude.
+
+A carefully prepared Index and a copious list of authorities close the
+volume.
+
+
+[Transcriber's Note: In the Biographical Sketch section, an "a" with a
+macron has been marked as [=a] in this file.]
+
+
+
+
+THE
+PHYSICAL LIFE OF WOMAN:
+ADVICE TO THE
+MAIDEN, WIFE AND MOTHER.
+
+by
+GEORGE H. NAPHEYS, A.M., M.D.
+
+MEMBER OF THE PHILADELPHIA COUNTY MEDICAL SOCIETY; CORRESPONDING MEMBER
+OF THE GYNECOLOGICAL SOCIETY OF BOSTON; LATE CHIEF OF MEDICAL CLINIC OF
+THE JEFFERSON MEDICAL COLLEGE; AUTHOR OF "THE TRANSMISSION OF LIFE,"
+"THE PREVENTION AND CURE OF DISEASE," "MODERN MEDICAL THERAPEUTICS,"
+"LETTERS FROM EUROPE," ETC.
+
+
+"Je veux qu'une femme ait des clartes de tout."--Moliere.
+
+New Edition.
+
+WITH THE FINAL CORRECTIONS OF THE AUTHOR, AND A BIOGRAPHICAL SKETCH.
+
+PHILADELPHIA:
+DAVID McKAY, PUBLISHER,
+23 SOUTH NINTH STREET.
+1889.
+
+
+Entered according to Act of Congress, in the year 1878, BY D. G.
+BRINTON, in the Office of the Librarian of Congress, at Washington. All
+rights reserved.
+
+
+
+
+EDITOR'S PREFACE.
+
+
+In presenting a third edition of this work to the public, with the final
+changes and improvements of the author, the publishers have felt it a
+duty to attach to it a brief sketch of his life, which drew to so early
+and lamented a termination. The whole has also been submitted to a
+careful revision, in order that it might be brought down to the latest
+advances in the department of science of which it treats, and also to
+include in it the final suggestions of the author.
+
+While Dr. Napheys evidently considered the second edition of the present
+work as meeting closely the requirements of readers, and therefore left
+behind him no notes which would alter the general plan, a number of
+corrections and minor changes have been made in the text, various
+paragraphs have been materially modified, and the Appendix referring to
+authorities more or less altered.
+
+The continued popularity of the work has been shown, not only by the
+steady demand for it, but by the efforts of various authors to write
+imitations of it, and various publishers to issue mutilated and
+imperfect editions. Against these the present publishers would warn
+innocent purchasers. The present is the only edition containing the
+important additions and corrections made by the author during the latter
+years of his life; and none other was authorized by him.
+
+In its present form, _The Physical Life of Woman_ may justly claim to
+count among the classics of American literature. Its popularity
+increases with time, and none of the many similar works which have
+appeared have approached it in public estimation. It is believed that in
+the present edition no important scientific fact bearing upon the
+subject has been omitted, and the most recent developments of hygiene
+will be found discussed.
+
+1878.
+
+
+
+
+PREFACE TO THE SECOND STEREOTYPE EDITION.
+
+
+Three years have passed since the author of the present work ventured to
+lay it before the public, not without unusual anxiety as to the manner
+in which he had fulfilled a task he knew to be so fruitful of good
+results if well done. Those years of trial are over, and they have
+brought a recognition of his labors beyond his most sanguine dreams.
+Nearly _one hundred and fifty thousand copies_ of the work have been
+sold in that period; it has been separately republished both in Canada
+and England; it has been honored by a translation into German; the
+imitations of it which have been written form almost a small library;
+and, more to the satisfaction of the author than all this, it has
+received the highest praise both at home and abroad, from both the
+medical profession and the general learned world.
+
+The present new stereotype edition contains the result of three more
+years of study and experience, enlightened and aided by very many
+letters from readers, which served to point out wherein the previous
+edition fell short of their wants. The text has been carefully revised,
+and in large part wholly rewritten; nearly one hundred and fifty pages
+of selected new matter have been added; and the latest steps of medical
+science in this direction have been followed.
+
+Of the parts which are quite new, and which from the inquiries of
+numerous readers will add greatly to the value of the work, are the
+sections on the disturbances of the monthly function in girls, the care
+of the child, the management of diseases of children, the diseases
+incident to pregnancy, childbed, and nursing, etc.
+
+Indeed, in the present edition the author has aimed to omit nothing
+which can aid Woman in performing her full duty to herself and others,
+so far as that duty lies in the sphere of her Physical Life, whether she
+is called upon to act as Wife, Mother, Teacher, or Guide. His most
+ardent desire continues to be that the work will be found a sure and
+safe monitor amid the difficult duties of Maidenhood and Maternity.
+
+LONDON, ENGLAND, October, 1872.
+
+
+
+
+PREFACE TO THE FIRST EDITION.
+
+
+It seems well to offer, at the outset, a few words explanatory of the
+nature and object of this book. The author feels that its aim is novel,
+is daring, and will perhaps subject him to criticism. He therefore make
+his plea, _pro domo sua_, in advance.
+
+The researches of scientific men within the last few years have brought
+to light very many facts relating to the physiology of woman, the
+diseases to which she is subject, and the proper means to prevent those
+diseases. Such information, if universally possessed, cannot but result
+in great benefit to the individual and the commonwealth. The difficulty
+is to express one's self clearly and popularly on topics never referred
+to in ordinary social intercourse. But as the physician is obliged daily
+to speak in plain yet decorous language of such matters, the author felt
+that the difficulty was not unsurmountable.
+
+He is aware that a respectable though diminishing class in the community
+maintain that nothing which relates exclusively to either sex should
+become the subject of popular medical instruction. With every
+inclination to do this class justice, he feels sure that such an opinion
+is radically erroneous. Ignorance is no more the mother of purity than
+she is of religion. The men and women who study and practise medicine
+are not the worse, but the better, for their knowledge of such matters.
+So it would be with the community. Had every person a sound
+understanding of the relations of the sexes, one of the most fertile
+sources of crime would be removed.
+
+A brief appendix has been added, directed more especially to the
+professional reader, who may desire to consult some of the original
+authorities upon whom the author has drawn. And here he would ask from
+his fellow-members of the medical profession their countenance and
+assistance in his attempt to distribute sound information of this
+character among the people. None but physicians can know what sad
+consequences are constantly occurring from the want of it. * * *
+
+
+
+
+BIOGRAPHICAL SKETCH OF GEORGE HENRY NAPHEYS, M.D.
+
+
+Were man's life measured by his deeds, as the poet suggests, how brief
+would be the long years of many an octogenarian, and how extended the
+short span which has been allotted to not a few of the world's famous
+heroes!
+
+This oft-repeated thought strikes us forcibly in considering the
+biography of the subject of this sketch. Closing his life at an age when
+most professional men are but beginning theirs, he had already studied
+broadly, had traveled widely over two continents, had gained credit and
+fame by the sword and the pen, and had amassed a fund of erudition and
+experience which the more lethargic lives of most men fail to approach
+after twice his length of days. It is eminently appropriate that a
+record of his busy career should be attached to the works on which his
+celebrity is chiefly bound, and in which he most conspicuously displays
+that command of language and happy facility of imparting instruction
+for which he was so remarkable.
+
+GEORGE HENRY NAPHEYS (pronounced N[=a]'feez, the [=a] as in _fate_) was
+born in the city of Philadelphia, March 5th, 1842. His parents died
+while he was still at a tender age, and he was placed with some
+relatives who resided in the city. From early years he was characterized
+by quick perceptions and a retentive memory. In the Philadelphia High
+School, from which he received the academic degree of Master of Arts, he
+was considered the best scholar in his class, a marked distinction in
+view of the large numbers which attend that institution. Besides
+acquiring the usual studies of the High School, he gave considerable
+time to phonography, in which he became so skilled that he could report
+any ordinary speaker with entire accuracy. This subsequently proved a
+great advantage to him in his medical career.
+
+After his graduation he repaired to Hartford, Conn., where he was
+offered and accepted the position of private secretary to a gentleman of
+prominence in the literary and religious world.
+
+Thus he was engaged when the civil war broke out. With his natural
+warmth of feeling and strong emotions, he entered the fray among the
+first, and went out as Lieutenant, and subsequently as Captain, Company
+F, 10th Connecticut State Volunteers. The regiment was enlisted for nine
+months, and was dispatched to Louisiana, General Banks then commanding
+the Department. It participated in engagements near Baton Rouge and on
+the Red River, in which Captain Napheys always acquitted himself with
+bravery and credit.
+
+At the time the regiment was disbanded, an early preference for medical
+subjects led him to devote a year to the preliminary studies of that
+profession, but not waiting the full period required for a degree, he
+was appointed assistant medical officer on the U. S. steamer Mingo, of
+the South Atlantic Blockading Squadron. On her he passed a number of
+months, cruising off the coast of the Carolinas and Georgia, and
+ascended the St. John river.
+
+These active duties prevented him from receiving his degree of Doctor of
+Medicine until after the close of the war, when, in 1866, his diploma
+was conferred upon him by the Jefferson Medical College of Philadelphia,
+one of the most renowned institutions of our country.
+
+After graduation, he opened an office in Philadelphia, and connected
+himself with the clinics which are held at the College for the purpose
+of supplying medicine and medical advice to the poor gratuitously, as
+well as for giving students an opportunity of witnessing various forms
+of disease. The practical experience he gained in this manner was
+considerable, and his natural ability soon recommended him to the
+authorities of the institution, who appointed him Chief of Medical
+Clinic of the College, a position he held for several years.
+
+One of the advantages of this post was that it brought him into constant
+communion with many eminent medical men, and rendered him practically
+acquainted with their treatment of disease. His skill in phonography
+enabled him to take abundant notes of their lectures, and this led to
+his early connection with the periodical literature of the profession.
+Most of the reports he drew up were published in the _Medical and
+Surgical Reporter_, a weekly journal, devoted to medical science,
+published in Philadelphia. The series of reports commenced in April,
+1866, and continued, with slight interruptions, until June, 1870. They
+are characterized by a clear and correct style, and a manifestly
+thorough grasp of the numerous topics treated.
+
+The success which these ephemeral writings obtained turned his thoughts
+in the direction of authorship. His tastes and associations led him to
+employ his powers in two directions: first, in preparing for the general
+public a series of works which would acquaint them with anatomy,
+physiology, hygiene, sanitary science, nursing, and the management of
+disease, to the extent that intelligent general readers can and ought to
+know about these subjects; and secondly, in writing for professional men
+several treatises on the means of alleviating and curing diseases.
+
+In the prosecution of the first mentioned of these plans, he was early
+impressed with the utter absence of any treatise on the hygiene of the
+sexual life in either sex, written in the proper spirit by a scientific
+man. The field had been left to quacks or worse, who, to serve their
+own base ends, scattered inflammatory and often indecent pamphlets over
+the land; or else, had one or more of the points been handled by
+reputable writers, it was in such a vague and imperfect manner that the
+reader gained little benefit from the perusal. While all agreed that a
+sound treatise on these topics was most desirable, it had been openly
+averred that it could not be written in a proper style for the general
+public.
+
+Strong in the conviction that pure motives, literary tact, and the
+requisite scientific knowledge qualified him to undertake this difficult
+task, Dr. Napheys prepared, in the early months of 1869, his work on
+"The Physical Life of Woman." Proceeding with caution, he first
+submitted the MSS. to some professional friends, and profited by their
+suggestions. After the work was in type, and before publication, he sent
+complete copies to a number of gentlemen, eminent as medical teachers,
+clergymen, educators, and literateurs. Their replies left him in no
+doubt but that he had succeeded even beyond his anticipations. Almost
+unanimously the opinions were complimentary in the highest degree, and
+evidently written after a close examination of the book. As many of
+these have been printed to accompany the work, in the last and previous
+editions, it is needless to do more in this connection than to say that
+they were penned by such judges as Dr. W. A. Hammond, late
+Surgeon-General U. S. Army; Dr. Harvey L. Byrd, Professor in the Medical
+Department of Washington University, Md.; Dr. Edwin M. Snow, Health
+Officer of the City of Providence, R. I.; Rev. Henry Ward Beecher, Rev.
+Horace Bushnell, D.D., Rev. George A. Crooke, D.D., D.C.L., and others.
+
+On its appearance, the work was received with enthusiasm by both the
+medical press and the public. While a few journals and individuals were
+inclined to condemn it and censure the author, the intelligent and the
+pure-minded, on all sides, recognized in him the only writer who had yet
+appeared able to treat these delicate subjects with the dignity of
+science and the straightforwardness necessary for popular instruction.
+
+Satisfied that he had chosen the proper exercise for his talents, he
+composed and placed in the hands of his publisher, the following year,
+his not less extraordinary work, "The Transmission of Life," a treatise
+addressed to the male, as his previous one had been to the female sex.
+It was dedicated to the late Rev. John Todd, so well known for his
+interest in young men, and his "Student's Manual" and other works
+addressed to them. He accepted the dedication and addressed the author a
+letter, in which occurs the following high compliment to his work: "I am
+surprised at the extent and accuracy of your reading; the judiciousness
+of your positions and results; the clear, unequivocal, yet delicate and
+appropriate language used; and the amount of valuable information
+conveyed." Similar expressions poured in from many other distinguished
+critics, as, for instance, Dr. Noah Porter, President of Yale College;
+the Rev. Henry Clay Trumbull, the Rev. Abner Jackson, President of
+Trinity College, Hartford, etc.
+
+In the same year (1870) he brought out the first edition of his "Modern
+Therapeutics," a technical work, addressed to physicians. This was
+enlarged in successive editions, until in its present form, as continued
+by other hands in its latest editions, it comprises two parts of 600
+pages each. Although the author claimed little other originality in this
+work than the selection and arrangement of known facts, yet in these
+respects he displayed the strongly practical and original turn of his
+mind. As a student of the art of Therapeutics in large hospitals,
+clinics, and dispensaries, he had convinced himself that it is not by
+experiments on lower animals, nor yet on the human body in health, that
+the physician can attain the glorious power of alleviating pain and
+curing disease; it is only through the daily combat with sickness, by
+the bedside and in the consulting room. Chemistry and physiology, he
+believed, could teach but little in this branch; observation and
+experience everything. Hence, in his work on Therapeutics he announced
+himself as "aiming at a systematic analysis of all current and approved
+means of combating disease," selecting his formulae and therapeutical
+directions from the most eminent living physicians of all nations.
+
+This work was most favorably received by medical men; and, edited and
+revised by competent hands, continues to be regarded as one of the most
+valuable works in American medical literature. The unanimous opinion of
+the leading medical journals, as well as of its numerous purchasers,
+have testified to its real and great worth to the practitioner of
+medicine.
+
+Having thus established a wide, popular and professional reputation, one
+which would have guaranteed him a lucrative practice, it would have
+tempted another, no doubt, to make the most of this opportunity, so
+rarely granted a young physician. Not so was it with Dr. Napheys. No
+sooner had the three works mentioned been completed than he sailed for
+Europe, in order to familiarize himself with the famed schools of
+learning of the Old World and its rich stores of material for culture.
+The summer was that of the Franco-German war; and spending most of it in
+Paris, he was witness of several of the most exciting scenes which
+attended the dethronement of the Emperor. These he would describe
+afterwards with a vividness and power of language rarely excelled.
+
+The excitement of the period did not, however, withdraw his attention
+from the studies he had in view. These were partially indicated in a
+series of letters he contributed to various periodicals during his
+absence. While these letters were principally of a scientific character,
+it is noteworthy how the relations of medicine to the welfare of man
+always occupied his attention. Thus we find, in one sent from England,
+June, 1870, a description of the Liverpool Medical Missionary Society,
+a charity which combines religious instruction with medical advice; and
+again, he comments on the popular instruction in hygiene which was
+supplied at that period to the English workingmen by a committee of
+competent physicians, organized for that purpose. It was the author's
+purpose to collect and expand these letters into a volume, but the
+project was not carried out.
+
+The siege of Paris, which city he left in one of the last trains before
+the blockade commenced, and the prolongation of the war, induced him to
+return home. In the United States he found offers from several
+publishers awaiting him, which would more than occupy him for a full
+year. There was a new edition of his "Therapeutics" demanded, and a
+revision of both "The Physical Life of Woman" and "The Transmission of
+Life." A New England firm urgently pressed him to superintend the
+production of several hygienic works, and secured him as literary
+adviser to their house. He assumed the editorship of the "Half-Yearly
+Compendium of Medical Science," and also of a "Physician's Annual,"
+besides undertaking a number of articles for the periodical press, both
+scientific and popular.
+
+To this active literary life he devoted the year 1871; but at its close
+felt more strongly than ever that he must give himself several years of
+studious quiet, in order to accomplish his best. Refusing, therefore,
+any further engagements, he sailed for Europe again, late in 1871, and
+did not return this time until the spring of 1875. In this period, of
+more than three years, he visited almost all the principal cities of
+Europe, and enjoyed the friendship of many eminent men at London, St.
+Petersburg, Vienna, and Paris. Reading, visiting hospitals, and
+attending clinics, he accumulated a mass of material which he designed
+to work up into future literary enterprises.
+
+With these collected stores he returned to the United States early in
+1875, and set to work with his wonted energy. A new and much enlarged
+edition of the "Therapeutics" was sent to press; a "Handbook of Popular
+Medicine," designed to give, in simple language, the domestic treatment
+of disease, the rules for nursing the sick, selected receipts for diet
+and medicinal purposes, and the outlines of anatomy and physiology, was
+put in the hands of a publisher; a Synopsis of Pharmacy and Materia
+Medica, a work of enormous labor, was well under way; and other literary
+projects were actively planned; when, suddenly, the summons came which,
+in an instant, with the shears of fate, slit the strand of this
+activity. The rest of the story may be told in the words of the
+biographer appointed by the Medical Society of the County of
+Philadelphia to prepare a memoir of his life:--
+
+"While earnestly laboring to prepare for the press his literary
+collections, he suffered a severe blow by the sudden death of a person
+to whom he was deeply attached. Over-work and this emotional shock
+produced a result likely enough to occur in one of his ardent
+temperament. One afternoon, while engaged in writing, he fell,
+unconscious, from his chair, and for several days lay in a very critical
+condition. On recovering his powers, it was evident his brain had
+suffered a serious lesion. The old energy and love of labor had
+completely gone; even the capacity for work seemed absent. Marked
+melancholy followed, characterized before long by avoidance of friends
+and the loss of a desire of life. This occurred with increasing force
+until it led to his death, on July 1, 1876, through some toxic agent,
+the nature of which was not ascertained.
+
+"Thus early, and thus sadly, terminated a career of unusual brilliancy
+and promise.
+
+"It is probable that much that he has written will be read with pleasure
+and instruction by future generations; and the memory of his genial
+disposition, his entertaining conversation, and earnest sense of
+professional honor, will long be cherished by those of his
+contemporaries who enjoyed his friendship."--_Transactions of the
+Medical Society of the State of Pennsylvania_, vol. xi, p. 720.
+
+Various tributes were paid to his memory by the societies with which he
+was connected, and by the scientific journals to which he had been a
+contributor. One of these, after narrating some of the circumstances
+attending his decease, spoke as follows:--
+
+"Thus did our unfortunate associate close his short but brilliant
+career. The emotions, the tender sentiments he has described with such a
+magical pen, he felt himself with an unmatched keenness. They mastered
+his whole frame with an intensity surpassing all romance. His
+descriptions of the passions, descriptions which have been the wonder of
+thousands, such is their fire and temper, were not rhetorical studies,
+but the ebullition of a soul sensitive to their lightest breath, and not
+shunning their wildest tempests.
+
+"The genius which dictated the lines he has left us is not to be judged
+by the conventionalities which suit the cold temperaments of ordinary
+men; there is a strong vein of egotism in most devotion; but here was
+one who felt, 'all is lost, when love is lost.'"
+
+This extract well sets forth the extraordinary depth of his sentiments,
+and the fervor of his feelings. It may be added that these mental traits
+were not generally ascribed to him by casual or ordinary associates. He
+was, in manners and bearing, evidently not one who sought friendships or
+displayed to the general gaze the current of his thoughts. Consequently,
+of intimates he had but few, and was considered by those whose
+intercourse with him was superficial, to be much more of an intellectual
+than of an emotional type of character.
+
+This impression was doubtless increased by the strongly practical turn
+of his mind, which is conspicuous in all his works. He was the reverse
+of a dreamer and had little patience with theorists. In his professional
+study he always aimed at bringing into the strongest light the
+utilitarian aspect of medicine, its ameliorating power on humanity, its
+real efficacy in preserving or restoring health and limiting human
+misery. On this his theory of therapeutics was based, and, inspired by
+the same opinions, he was one of the most earnest advocates of the day
+of popularizing medical science in all its branches among the masses. In
+this effort he was at times severely criticized by that class of
+physicians--and they are by no means extinct--who think that medicine
+should be wrapped in mystery, and that the people should be kept in
+ignorance of themselves and of their own physical frailties, to the
+utmost possible extent. With these learned obscurantists Dr. Napheys had
+no patience, and naturally found but slight favor. Fortunately, they
+were in the decided minority, and, we are happy to add, even that
+minority is daily decreasing.
+
+Of the various learned societies to which he was attached may be
+mentioned the Philadelphia County Medical Society, the Franklin
+Institute of Philadelphia, and the Gynecological Society of Boston. His
+election as Corresponding Member to the latter body (which is an
+association of scientific men who make an especial study of the hygiene
+and diseases of women) took place shortly after the first publication of
+the _Physical Life of Woman_, and was meant as a direct tribute of
+respect to him as the author of that work, thus obtaining for it the
+testimony of the highest body in that specialty then existing in our
+land.
+
+The general plan on which Dr. Napheys prepared his sanitary writings was
+one eminently calculated to reconcile those who were most opposed to
+instructing the general public in such branches. While he confidently
+believed that vastly more harm than good is done by a prudish
+concealment of the physiology of sex and its relations to health, he
+also clearly recognized that such instruction should be imparted at the
+proper age and under certain limitations; while the general facts common
+to the species cannot be taught too generally, or made too familiar.
+Hence, he projected three books, one to be placed in the hands of young
+women, a second for youths, and a third for a general household book of
+reading and reference on medicine and hygiene. These three he completed
+in "The Physical Life of Woman," "The Transmission of Life," and the
+"Handbook of Popular Medicine."
+
+This plan, he believed, met all the objections to popular medical
+instruction, at least all well-grounded objections, while at the same
+time it did away with any necessity for concealing truths important to
+be known, for fear they should come to the knowledge of those for whom
+they were not designed, and on whose minds they might have a disturbing
+tendency.
+
+There can be no doubt but that both the plan and its execution were
+successful. The many letters he received, filled with thanks from
+private parties who had gained inestimable knowledge from these works,
+made rich compensation for the occasional severe strictures he received
+from those wedded to ancient ways, and who often condemned without even
+reading his works.
+
+The intelligent reading public, on whom, after all, the writer must
+depend for a verdict on his works, were unanimous in his favor. They
+bought them in quantities, and the writer of his life in the
+_Transactions of the Pennsylvania State Medical Society_, above quoted,
+who wrote in 1877, estimates that by that time over _a quarter of a
+million_ copies had been printed and sold. Translations were made into
+the German, and several editions pirated and printed in Canada and
+England. In fact, the works may now be considered to rank as classics in
+the language, and many years must go by before another such series can
+be written, on topics of this nature, with equal delicacy of touch and
+accuracy of knowledge.
+
+
+
+
+CONTENTS.
+
+
+INTRODUCTORY.
+ PAGE
+
+ Knowledge is safety--The peculiarities of sex--Examples of
+ individuals belonging to both sexes and to neither sex--The
+ sphere of woman 15-22
+
+
+Part I. THE MAIDEN.
+
+PUBERTY 22-52
+
+ What it means--Age when it arrives--Causes that hasten it--Causes
+ that delay it--Brunettes mature early--The signs of puberty--Its
+ dangers--Spinal disease--Green sickness--Hysterics--Secret bad
+ habits--Hygiene of puberty--Diet--Exercise--Clothing--Precautions
+ during the monthly changes--Between the monthly changes--What to
+ do when the changes are delayed--When they are painful--The age
+ of nubility.
+
+
+LOVE 52-89
+
+ Its power in life--What it is--It is necessary and it is
+ eternal--Of second marriages and of divorce--Courtship--Love at
+ first sight--How to choose a husband--Shall cousins marry?--Marriage
+ between different races and different nations--The proper age of a
+ husband--His temperament--His moral and mental character--Words of
+ warning--Signs of character on the body--The engagement--Concerning
+ long engagements--The right time of year to marry--The right time
+ in the month to marry--The wedding tour.
+
+
+Part II. THE WIFE.
+
+
+HINTS TO YOUNG WIVES 90-132
+
+ The wedding night--Should husband and wife sleep together or
+ apart?--The most healthful bed--The dignity and propriety of the
+ sexual instinct--The proper indulgence and the restraint
+ of sexual desire--Marital relations, when they should be
+ suspended--When they are painful--Barrenness, its causes and its
+ cures--Advice to wives who desire children--The limitation of
+ offspring--When it is proper--Justifiable means--Injurious
+ means--The crime of abortion--The nature of conception--Signs of
+ conception--How to retain the affections of a husband.
+
+
+INHERITANCE 132-166
+
+ The varieties of inheritance--The legacy of beauty--The
+ complexion--What physical qualities each parent bestows--The
+ inheritance of fertility and longevity--Even deformities
+ sometimes transmitted--How to have beautiful children--Talent and
+ genius may be transmitted--The physical traits of fathers in
+ daughters, and of mothers in sons--Examples--Influence of
+ education on inherited qualities--Transmission of disease--Of
+ mutilations--How to avoid inherited ill tendencies--The excess of
+ women--How to have boys or girls at will--Twins and triplets.
+
+
+PREGNANCY 167-218
+
+ Veneration of the pregnant woman--Signs of pregnancy--Quickening
+ --Mental changes--Miscarriage, its causes, symptoms, and
+ prevention--Mother's marks--What makes them?--How to avoid
+ them--Education of the child in the womb--Are double pregnancies
+ possible?--Instances of double children--Can a child cry in the
+ womb?--Is it a son or a daughter?--Are there twins present?--The
+ duration of pregnancy--How to calculate when the confinement will
+ come--Care of health during pregnancy--The food, clothing,
+ exercise, bathing, ventilation, and sleep--Effect on health of
+ body and mind--Relations of husband and wife during pregnancy.
+
+
+THE CONFINEMENT 219-242
+
+ Preparations for childbirth--The signs of approaching labor--The
+ symptoms of actual labor--Attention is required during labor--To
+ the mother--To the child--To have labor without pain--The risks
+ of childbed--Weight and length of new-born children--The duration
+ of labor--Stillborn children--Imprudence after childbirth--To
+ preserve the form after childbirth.
+
+
+Part III. THE MOTHER.
+
+
+NURSING 243-270
+
+ The duties and privileges of a mother--Hindrances to nursing, and
+ when it is improper--Rules for nursing--Influence of diet on the
+ mother's milk--Influence of pregnancy on the milk--The mother's
+ mind and her infant--Striking examples--Position of the mother
+ while nursing--Qualities of a good nursing mother--Excess and
+ deficiency of the milk--Wet-nursing by virgins, aged women, and
+ men--Rules for care of health while nursing--Relations of
+ husband and wife at this time--Over-nursing and the signs
+ of it--Directions for mothers who cannot nurse their own
+ children--How to select a wet-nurse.
+
+
+Part IV. THE CHILD.
+
+
+THE CARE OF INFANCY 271-324
+
+ The causes of infant mortality--Bringing up by hand--Weaning,
+ when and how to do it--Teething--Vaccination and re-vaccination
+ --The food of infants and children--Concerning sleep in
+ early life--The clothing of children, its pattern, amount,
+ and quality--Bathing, ventilation, and exercise in early
+ childhood--On learning to walk--The advantages of games and
+ plays--On training the sight and hearing.
+
+
+THE MANAGEMENT OF SOME DISEASES OF CHILDHOOD 325-350
+
+ How to recognize and treat croup--Head colds--Fits--Nose-bleed--
+ Worms--Bed-wetting--Looseness of the bowels--Indigestion--Hints
+ on home government--Is the race physically weaker?
+
+
+Part V. HEALTH IN MARRIAGE.
+
+
+DISEASES INCIDENT TO PREGNANCY 352-360
+
+ Morning sickness--Pain in the abdomen--Varicose veins--Piles--
+ Diarrhoea--Constipation--Cough--Wakefulness.
+
+
+DISEASES INCIDENT TO CHILDBED AND NURSING 361-385
+
+ Puerperal mania--White-flowing--Milk-leg--Inward weakness--
+ Various causes of weakness--Tight lacing one of them--Their
+ treatment--Gathered breasts--Cracked nipples.
+
+
+Part VI. THE SINGLE LIFE.
+
+
+ADVANTAGES AND DRAWBACKS OF 386-388
+
+
+Part VII. THE CHANGE OF LIFE.
+
+
+DISEASES AND HYGIENE OF 389-404
+
+ What it is--Age when it comes--Signs and symptoms--Effects on the
+ character--Those who suffer most--Diseases and discomforts
+ attending--Precautions and remedies.
+
+NOTES 405-420
+
+INDEX 420-426
+
+
+
+
+THE PHYSICAL LIFE OF WOMAN.
+
+
+_KNOWLEDGE IS SAFETY._
+
+'Knowledge is power,' said the philosopher. The maxim is true; but here
+is a greater truth: 'Knowledge is safety,'--safety amid the physical
+ills that beset us,--safety amid the moral pitfalls that environ us.
+
+Filled with this thought, we write this book. It is the Revelation of
+Science to Woman. It tells her, in language which aims at nothing but
+simplicity, the results which the study of her nature, as distinct from
+that of man, has attained. We may call it her physical biography.
+
+It is high time that such a book were written. The most absorbing
+question of the day is the 'Woman Question.' The social problems of
+chiefest interest concern her. And nowhere are those problems more
+zealously studied than in America, which has thrown aside the trammels
+of tradition, and is training its free muscles with intent to grapple
+the untried possibilities of social life. Who can guide us in these
+experiments? What master, speaking as one having authority, can advise
+us? There is such a guide, such a master. The laws of woman's physical
+life shape her destiny and reveal her future. Within these laws all
+things are possible; beyond them, nothing is of avail.
+
+Especially should woman herself understand her own nature. How many
+women are there, with health, beauty, merriment, ay, morality too, all
+gone, lost for ever, through ignorance of themselves! What spurious
+delicacy is this which would hide from woman that which beyond all else
+it behooves her to know? We repudiate it; and in plain, but decorous
+language,--truth is always decorous,--we purpose to divulge those
+secrets hidden hitherto under the technical jargon of science.
+
+
+THE DISTINCTION OF THE SEXES.
+
+The distinction of the sexes belongs neither to the highest nor to the
+lowest forms of existence. Animals and vegetables of the humblest
+character have no sex. So it is with spirits. Revelation implies that
+beyond this life sexual characteristics cease. On one occasion the
+Sadducees put this question to Christ: There was a woman who lawfully
+had seven husbands, one after the other; now, at the resurrection, which
+of these shall be her husband? or shall they all have her to wife? He
+replied that hereafter there shall be neither marrying nor giving in
+marriage, but that all shall be 'as the angels which are in heaven.'
+Sexuality implies reproduction, and that is something we do not
+associate with spiritual life.
+
+It further implies imperfection, which is equally far from our hopes of
+happiness beyond the grave. The polyp, which reproduces by a division of
+itself, is in one sense more complete than we are. The man is in some
+respects inferior to the woman; the woman in others is subordinate to
+man. A happy marriage, a perfect union, they twain one flesh, is the
+type of the independent, completed being. Without the other, either is
+defective. 'Marriage,' said Napoleon, 'is strictly indispensable to
+happiness.'
+
+There is, in fact, a less difference between the sexes than is generally
+believed. They are but slight variations from one original plan.
+Anatomists maintain, with plausible arguments, that there is no part or
+organ in the one sex but has an analogous part or organ in the other,
+similar in structure, similar in position. Just as the right side
+resembles the left, so does man resemble woman.
+
+Let us see what differences there really are:
+
+The frame of woman is shorter and slighter. In the United States the men
+average five feet eight inches in height, and one hundred and forty-five
+pounds in weight; the women, five feet two and a half inches in height,
+and one hundred and twenty-five pounds in weight. Man has broad
+shoulders and narrow hips; woman has narrow shoulders and broad hips.
+Her skull is formed of thinner bones, and is in shape more like that of
+a child. Its capacity, in proportion to her height, is very little less
+than in man,--about one-fiftieth, it is said,--which, so far as
+brain-power is concerned, may readily be made up by its finer texture.
+Her shoulders are set farther back than in the other sex, giving her
+greater breadth of chest in front. This is brought about by the
+increased length of her collar-bone; and this is the reason why she can
+never throw a ball or stone with the accuracy of a man. Graceful in
+other exercises, here she is awkward.
+
+Her contour is more rounded, her neck is longer, her skin smoother, her
+voice softer, her hair less generally distributed over the body, but
+stronger in growth than in man. She breathes with the muscles of her
+chest--he with those of his abdomen. He has greater muscular force--she
+more power of endurance. Beyond all else she has the attributes of
+maternity,--she is provided with organs to nourish and protect the child
+before and after birth.
+
+
+PERSONS OF BOTH SEXES AND OF NEITHER SEX.
+
+Nature is very sedulous in maintaining these differences. It is the
+rarest thing in the world to find a human being of doubtful sex. Many a
+physician disbelieves that there ever has been a person of both sexes--a
+true hermaphrodite. They are very scarce, but they do exist. There is
+one now living in Germany. It bears a female name, Catherine Hohmann.
+She was baptised and brought up a female; but Catherine is as much man
+as woman. The learned professor of anatomy, Rokitansky, of Vienna,
+asserts most positively that this is a real hermaphrodite. Her history
+is sad. Born in humble circumstances, when of marriageable age she loved
+a man, who wished her to emigrate with him to America. But when she
+disclosed to him her deformity, he broke off the engagement and deserted
+her. Then her affection became fixed on a young girl; but how could she
+make her suit to one apparently of her own sex? With passions that
+prompt her to seek both sexes, she belongs to neither. 'What shall I do
+here on earth?' she exclaimed, in tears, to a man of science who
+recently visited her. 'What am I? In my life an object of scientific
+experiment, and after my death an anatomical curiosity.'
+
+There are also persons--very few indeed--who have no sex at all. They
+are without organs and without passions. Such creatures seem to have
+been formed merely to show us that this much-talked-of difference of sex
+is, after all, nothing inherent in the constitution of things, and that
+individuals may be born, live and thrive, of both sexes, or of neither.
+
+
+THE SPHERE OF WOMAN.
+
+Our province lies within the physical sphere of woman. But we will here
+allow ourselves a momentary digression. It will be seen that while these
+differences are not radical, yet they are peculiarly permanent. They
+hint to us the mental and intellectual character of woman. What opinion
+should we hold on this much-vexed question?
+
+To this effect: The mental faculties of man and woman are unlike, but
+not unequal. Any argument to the contrary, drawn from the somewhat less
+weight of the brain of woman, is met by the fact that the most able men
+are often undersized, with small heads. The subordinate place which
+woman occupies in most states, arises partly from the fact that the part
+she plays in reproduction prevents her from devoting her whole time and
+energies to the acquisition of power, and partly from the fact that
+those faculties in which she is superior to man have been obscured and
+oppressed by the animal vigor and selfishness of the male. As
+civilisation advances, the natural rights of woman will be more and more
+freely conceded, until the sexes become absolutely equal before the law;
+and, finally, her superiority in many respects will be granted, and she
+will reap the benefits of all the advantages it brings, without desiring
+to encroach on those avocations for which masculine energy and strength
+are imperatively needed.
+
+The most peculiar features of woman's life are hers for a limited period
+only. Man is man for a longer time than woman is woman. With him it is a
+lifetime matter; with her it is but for a score of years or so. Her
+child-bearing period is less than half her life. Within this time she
+passes through all the phases of that experience which is peculiarly her
+own.
+
+And these phases, what are they? Nature herself defines them. They are
+three in number,--the Maiden, the Wife, and the Mother. In one and then
+another of this triad, her life passes. Each has its own duties and
+dangers; each demands its own precautions; each must be studied by
+itself.
+
+Let us at once commence this important study, and proceed in the order
+of time.
+
+
+
+
+THE MAIDEN.
+
+
+_PUBERTY._
+
+At a certain period in the life of the female, she ceases to be a girl,
+and becomes a _woman_. Hitherto she has felt no distinction between
+herself and the boys, her playmates. But now a crisis takes place, which
+is for ever after to hedge her round with a mysterious, invisible, but
+most real barrier from all _man_kind.
+
+This period is called _the age of puberty_. Its sign is a flow of blood
+recurring every month; its meaning, that the female has entered upon
+that portion of her life whose peculiar obligations are to the whole
+race--no longer to herself alone. The second part of her twofold nature
+is opened. Why is it that on her, the weaker sex, this extra burden is
+laid? Why this weakness, these pains, this recurring loss of vital
+fluid?
+
+Perhaps, as has been observed, it is a wise provision that she is thus
+reminded of her lowly duty, lest man should make her the sole object of
+his worship, or lest the pride of beauty should obscure the sense of
+shame. But this question concerns rather the moralist than the
+physician, and we cease asking _why_ it is, and shall only inquire
+_what_ it is.
+
+To this science returns a clear reply. In the anatomy of woman there are
+two small bodies, in shape and size like large almonds, called the
+ovaries. They lie one on each side of the womb, and are connected with
+it by tubes about four inches in length. These bodies are solid, but
+contain a great number of diminutive vesicles, which, by some mysterious
+law of nature, mature one at a time, every thirty days, for thirty years
+of woman's life. When mature, the vesicle separates from the ovary,
+traverses the tube into the womb, and is thence expelled and lost, or
+becomes, by contact with the other sex, the germ of a living being. This
+process is accompanied by a disturbance of the whole system. Wandering
+pains are felt; a sense of languor steals over the mind; the blood
+rushes with increased violence through the vessels, and more or less of
+it escapes from the veins, causing that change which we term
+_menstruation._
+
+The ancients had a tradition that in the beginning of things the world
+was made from an egg; the naturalists of past generations had this
+maxim: Everything living comes from an egg; and science to-day says the
+same. For this vesicle we have mentioned is in fact an _egg_, similar in
+structure to those which birds, fish, and turtles deposit. The only
+differences are, that the one is developed out of the body, the other
+within; the one has a shell, the other has none.
+
+Therefore physiologists give this definition: Menstruation is
+ovulation,--it is the laying of an egg.
+
+
+WHAT IS THE AGE OF PUBERTY?
+
+This has been a matter of careful study by physicians. They have
+collected great numbers of observations, and have reached this
+conclusion: In the middle portion of the temperate zone, the average age
+when the first period appears in healthy girls is fourteen years and six
+months. If it occurs more than six months later or earlier than this,
+then it is likely something is wrong, or, at least, the case is
+exceptional.
+
+Exceptional cases, where this average is widely departed from in
+apparently perfect health, are rare. But they do occur. We have known
+instances where the solicitude of parents has been excited by the long
+delay of this constitutional change, and others in which it has taken
+place at an almost tender age, without causing any perceptible injury to
+the general health.
+
+There is an instance recorded, on good authority, where a French child
+but three years old underwent all the physical changes incident to
+puberty, and grew to be a healthy woman. But what children can surpass
+the American in precocity? This French child-woman is quite left in the
+shade by one described in a recent number of a western medical journal,
+who _from her birth_ had regular monthly changes, and the full physical
+development which marks the perfect woman!
+
+Thus, sometimes, a wide deviation from the average age we have stated
+occurs, without having any serious meaning. Yet at no time is such a
+deviation to be neglected. In nine out of ten instances it is owing to
+some fault in the constitution, the health, or formation, which should
+be ascertained and corrected. Otherwise years of broken health and
+mental misery may be the sad results. Mothers, teachers, it is with you
+this responsibility rests. The thousands of wretched wives, who owe
+their wretchedness to a neglect of proper attention at this
+turning-point of their lives, warn you how serious is this
+responsibility.
+
+The foundation of old age, says a distinguished author, is laid in
+childhood; but the health of middle-life depends upon puberty. Never was
+there a truer maxim. The two years which change the girl to the woman
+often seal for ever the happiness or the hopeless misery of her whole
+life. They decide whether she is to become a healthy, helpful, cheerful
+wife and mother, or a languid, complaining invalid, to whom marriage is
+a curse, children an affliction, and life itself a burden.
+
+We reiterate our warning: Mothers, teachers, you to whom children are
+confided at this crisis of their lives, look well to it that you
+appreciate, understand, and observe the duties you have assumed. Let no
+false modesty prevent you from learning and enforcing those precautions,
+so necessary at this period of life.
+
+
+WHAT HASTENS AND WHAT RETARDS PUBERTY?
+
+As a rule, we find that those who develope early, fade early. A short
+childhood portends a premature old age. It often foreshadows, also, a
+feeble middle-life.
+
+Having ascertained, therefore, what is the average age at which puberty
+takes place with us, let us see what conditions anticipate or retard
+this age.
+
+The most important is _climate._
+
+In hot climates, man, like the vegetation, has a surprising rapidity of
+growth. Marriages are usual at twelve or fourteen years of age. Puberty
+comes to both sexes as early as at ten and eleven years. We even read in
+the life of Mohammed, that one of his wives, when but ten years of age,
+bore him a son. Let another dozen years pass, and these blooming maidens
+have been metamorphosed into wrinkled, faded old women. The beauty of
+their precocious youth has withered almost literally like a flower which
+is plucked.
+
+Very different is it in the cold and barren regions of the far north.
+There man, once more partaking of the nature of his surroundings, yields
+as slowly to the impulses of his passions as does the ice-bound earth to
+the slanting rays of the summer sun. Maturity, so quick to come, so
+swift to leave in the torrid heats, arrives, chilled by the long
+winters, to the girls of Lapland, Norway, and Siberia, only when they
+are eighteen and nineteen years of age. But, in return for this, they
+retain their vigor and good looks to a green old age.
+
+Between these extremes, including as they do the whole second decade of
+existence, this important change takes place normally in different
+latitudes. We have said that in the middle temperate zone the proper age
+is fourteen years and six months. Let us now see what conditions lead to
+deviations from this age in our climate.
+
+First on the list is that sacred fire handed down to us from our
+ancestors, which we call, in our material language, the _constitution._
+
+The females of certain races, certain families, it is often noticed,
+mature earlier than their neighbours. Jewesses, for example, are always
+precocious, earlier by one or two years. So are colored girls, and those
+of creole lineage. We can guess the reasons here. No doubt these
+children still retain in their blood the tropic fire which, at
+comparatively recent periods, their forefathers felt under the vertical
+rays of the torrid zone.
+
+Nor is this all. It is well ascertained, from numerous observations,
+that brunettes develope sooner than their blonde sisters; that those who
+will grow to be large women are slower than those whose stature will be
+small; that the dark-haired and black-eyed are more precocious in this
+respect than the light-haired and blue-eyed; that the fat, sluggish girl
+is more tardy than the slender, active one; that, in general, what is
+known as the nervo-bilious temperament is ever ahead of that called the
+lymphatic or phlegmatic.
+
+It is a familiar fact, that it is not a good sign to see this change
+before the usual average time. It betokens a weakly, excitable,
+diminutive frame. Hard labor, vigorous, regular muscular exertion--prime
+health, in other words--never tends to anticipate this epoch, but rather
+to retard it.
+
+With this warning fresh in our ears, let us now rehearse what causes
+constantly incline unduly to hasten puberty, and thus to forestall wise
+Nature in her plans for health and beauty. They are of two
+kinds,--physical and mental.
+
+Idleness of body, highly-seasoned food, stimulating beverages, such as
+beer, wine, liqueurs, and, in a less degree, coffee and tea, irregular
+habits of sleep,--these are the physical causes of premature
+development. But the mental causes are still more potent.
+
+Whatever _stimulates the emotions_ leads to an unnaturally early sexual
+life. Late hours, children's parties, sensational novels, 'flashy'
+papers, love stories, the drama, the ball-room, talk of beaux, love, and
+marriage,--that atmosphere of riper years which is so often and so
+injudiciously thrown around childhood,--all hasten the event which
+transforms the girl into the woman. A particular emphasis has been laid
+by some physicians on the power of music to awaken the dormant
+susceptibilities to passion, and on this account its too general or
+earnest cultivation by children has been objected to. Educators would do
+well to bear this caution in mind.
+
+How powerfully these causes work is evident when we compare the average
+age of puberty in large cities and in country districts. The females in
+the former mature from six to eight months sooner than those in the
+latter. This is unquestionably owing to their mode of life,--physically
+indolent, mentally over-stimulated. The result, too, is seen with
+painful plainness in comparing the sturdy, well-preserved farm-wife of
+thirty, with the languid, pale, faded city lady of the same age.
+
+
+THE CHANGES IT WORKS.
+
+Two short years change the awkward and angular girl of fourteen into the
+trim and graceful maiden of sweet sixteen. Wonderful metamorphosis! The
+magic wand of the fairy has touched her, and she comes forth a new
+being, a vision of beauty to bewitch the world.
+
+Let us analyze this change.
+
+The earliest sign of approaching puberty is a deposit of fat in the
+loose cellular tissue under the skin. This gives roundness to the form,
+and grace to the movements. According to a distinguished naturalist
+(Buffon), it is first observable by a slight swelling of the groins.
+Thence it extends over the whole body. The breasts especially receive
+additions, and develope to form the perfect bust.
+
+Parts of the body previously free from hair become covered with a soft
+growth, and that which covers the head acquires more vigor and gloss,
+usually becoming one or two shades darker. The eyes brighten, and
+acquire unwonted significance. These windows of the soul betray to the
+close observer the novel emotions which are arising in the mind within.
+
+The voice, too, shares in the transformation. The piping, slender
+articulation of the child gives way to the rich, melodious, soft voice
+of woman--the sweetest music man ever hears. To the student of humanity,
+to the observant physician, nothing is more symbolical of the whole
+nature than the voice. Would you witness a proof of its power? Watch
+how a person born blind unerringly discriminates the character of those
+he meets by this alone.
+
+Beyond all external modifications, we find others, which indicate how
+profound is the alteration now taking place. The internal organs of the
+body assume new functions and new powers. The taste for food changes,
+hinting that the system has demands hitherto unknown. Those organs we
+have adverted to, called the ovaries, increase in size, as also does the
+uterus. The very framework of the structure does not escape. The bones
+increase in weight, and those around the hips expand, and give the
+female her distinctive form, upon the perfection of which her life and
+that of her children depend.
+
+
+MENTAL CHANGES.
+
+Such are the changes which strike the eye. But there are others which
+are not less significant, and which demand far more urgently our
+watchful heed. New thoughts, strange desires, are invading the soul. A
+novel relation is assumed to the world. It is vague, misunderstood, but
+disturbing all the same.
+
+The once light-hearted girl inclines to reveries; she seeks solitude;
+her mother surprises her in causeless tears; her teacher discovers an
+unwonted inattention to her studies, a less retentive memory, a
+disinclination to mental labor; her father misses her accustomed
+playfulness; he, perhaps, is annoyed by her listlessness and inertia.
+What does it all mean? What is the matter with the girl?
+
+Mother, teacher, father, it is for you to know the answers to these
+questions. You have guarded this girl through years of helpless infancy
+and thoughtless childhood. At the peril of her life, and of what is of
+more value than life, do not now relax your vigilance. Every day the
+reaper Death reaps with his keen sickle the flowers of our land. The
+mothers weep, indeed; but little do they realize that it is because they
+have neglected to cherish them as was their duty, that the Lord of
+Paradise has taken them back unto Himself.
+
+
+THE COMPLETION OF PUBERTY.
+
+The symptoms increase until at length the system has acquired the
+necessary strength, and furnished itself with reserve forces enough to
+complete its transformation. Then the monthly flow commences.
+
+In thoroughly healthy girls it continues to recur at regular intervals,
+from twenty-five to thirty days apart. This is true of about three out
+of four. In others, a long interval, sometimes six months, occurs
+between the first and second sickness. If the general health be not _in
+the least_ impaired, this need cause no anxiety. Irregularities are
+found in the first year or two, which often right themselves afterwards.
+But whenever they are associated with the _slightest_ signs of mental or
+bodily disorder, they demand instant and intelligent attention.
+
+It used to be supposed that the periods of the monthly sickness were in
+some way connected with the phases of the moon. So general is this
+belief even yet in France, that a learned Academician not long since
+thought it worth while carefully to compare over four thousand
+observations, to see whether they did bear any relations to the lunar
+phases. It is hardly worth while to add that he found none.
+
+We have known perfectly healthy young women who were ill every sixteen
+days, and others in whom a period of thirty-five or thirty-six days
+would elapse. The reasons of such differences are not clear. Some
+inherited peculiarity of constitution is doubtless at work. Climate is
+of primary importance. Travellers in Lapland, and other countries in the
+far north, say that the women there are not regulated more frequently
+than three or four times a year. Hard labor and a phlegmatic temperament
+usually prolong the interval between the periodical illnesses.
+
+An equal diversity prevails in reference to the _length of time_ the
+discharge continues. The average of a large number of cases observed in
+healthy women, between the ages of fifteen and thirty-five, is four days
+and a fraction. In a more general way, we may say from two to six days
+is the proper duration. Should it diverge widely from this, then it is
+likely some mischief is at work.
+
+In relation to the _amount_ of the discharge, every woman is a law unto
+herself. Usually, it is four or five ounces in all. Habits of life are
+apt to modify it materially. Here, again, those exposed to prolonged
+cold and inured to severe labor escape more easily than their sisters
+petted in the lap of luxury. Delicate, feeble, nervous women--those, in
+other words, who can least afford the loss of blood--are precisely those
+who lose the most. Nature, who is no tender mother, but a stern
+step-mother, thus punishes them for disregarding her laws. Soft
+couches, indolent ease, highly spiced food; warm rooms, weak
+muscles,--these are the infractions of her rules which she revenges with
+vigorous, ay, merciless severity.
+
+It is well known, too, that excitement of the emotions, whether of
+anger, joy, grief, hatred, or love increases the discharge. Even the
+vulgar are aware of this, and, misinterpreting it as half-knowledge
+always does, suppose it a sign of stronger animal passions. It bears no
+such meaning. But the fact reads us a lesson how important it is to
+cultivate a placid mind, free from strong desire or fear, and to hold
+all our emotions in the firm leash of reason.
+
+Physicians attach great importance to the _character_ of the discharge.
+It should be thin, watery, dark-coloured, and never clot. If it clots,
+it is an indication that something is wrong.
+
+
+THE DANGERS OF PUBERTY.
+
+We have shown that there are constantly individual deviations, quite
+consistent with health, from any given standard. They only become
+significant of disease when they depart decidedly from the average,
+either in the frequency of the illness, its duration, the amount of the
+discharge, or the character. More or less pain, more or less prostration
+and general disturbances at these epochs, are universal and inevitable.
+They are part of the sentence which at the outset He pronounced upon the
+woman, when He said unto her, 'I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and
+thy conception.' Yet with merciful kindness He has provided means by
+which the pain may be greatly lessened, and the sorrow avoided; and
+that we may learn and observe these means, their neglect often increases
+a hundred-fold the natural suffering.
+
+At this critical period, the seeds of hereditary and constitutional
+diseases manifest themselves. They draw fresh malignancy from the new
+activity of the system. The first symptoms of tubercular consumption, of
+scrofula, of obstinate and disfiguring skin diseases, of hereditary
+insanity, of congenital epilepsy, of a hundred terrible maladies, which
+from birth have lurked in the child, biding the opportunity of attack,
+suddenly spring from their lairs, and hurry her to the grave or the
+madhouse. If we ask why so many fair girls of eighteen or twenty are
+followed by weeping friends to an early tomb, the answer is, chiefly
+from diseases which had their origin at the period of puberty.
+
+It is impossible for us here to rehearse all the minute symptoms, each
+almost trifling in itself, which warn the practised physician of the
+approach of one of these fearful foes in time to allow him to make a
+defence. We can do little more than iterate the warning, that whenever,
+at this momentous epoch, any disquieting change appears, be it physical
+or mental, let not a day be lost in summoning _skilled_, _competent_
+medical advice.
+
+There is, however, a train of symptoms so frequent, so insidious, so
+fruitful with agony of mind and body, that we shall mention them
+particularly. They illustrate, at once, how all-important is close
+observation, and how significant to the wise physician are trifles
+seemingly light as air.
+
+If you notice a girl of fourteen or sixteen, who, in walking, always
+gives one arm in preference to the other to her companion; if, in
+sleeping, she mostly lies on the same side; if, in sitting, she is apt
+to prefer a chair with a low back, and throws one arm over its back; if
+you perceive that she always sits with one foot a little in advance of
+the other; if she, on inquiry, confesses to slight, wandering pains in
+one side of her chest,--do not chide her for awkwardness. These are
+ominous portents. They mean _spinal disease_, than which a more fearful
+malady is hardly known to medicine.
+
+Not less stealthy is the approach of disease of the hip-joint, of white
+swelling of the knee, of consumption,--all curable if taken in hand at
+the very first, all well-nigh hopeless when they have once unmasked
+their real features.
+
+Apart from these general dangers, to which those of thoroughly sound
+constitutions are not exposed, there are disorders called functional, to
+which all are subject.
+
+
+GREEN SICKNESS.
+
+When we speak of the 'green sickness,' we mention perhaps the most
+common of all, and one of which every mother has heard. Doctors call it
+_chlorosis_, which also means _greenness_; for one of its most common
+and peculiar symptoms is a pale complexion with a greenish tinge.
+
+It never occurs except at or near the age of puberty, and was long
+supposed to be merely an impoverishment of the blood. Now, however, we
+have learned that it is a disease of the nervous system, and one very
+often confounded by physicians with other complaints.
+
+Its attack is insidious. A distaste for exertion and society, a fitful
+appetite, low spirits,--these are all the symptoms noticed at first.
+Then, one by one, come palpitation of the heart, an unhealthy
+complexion, irregularity, dyspepsia, depraved tastes,--such as a desire
+to eat slate-pencil dust, chalk, or clay,--vague pains in body and
+limbs, a bad temper; until the girl, after several months, is a peevish,
+wretched, troublesome invalid.
+
+Then, if a physician is called in, and gives her iron, and tells her
+nothing is the matter, or is himself alarmed, and imagines she has heart
+disease or consumption, it is a chance if she does not rapidly sink, out
+of mere fright and over-much dosing, into some fatal complaint. Let it
+be well understood that chlorosis, though often obstinate and obscure,
+is always curable if properly and promptly treated. The remedies must be
+addressed to the nervous system, and can be administered with
+intelligence only by a competent medical adviser. It can be prevented by
+a hygienic mode of life, and, as its most common causes are anxiety,
+home-sickness, want of exercise, or overwork at school, nothing is so
+salutary in its early stages as a change of air and scene, cheerful
+company, a tour to the mountains or some watering-place, and regular
+exercise.
+
+Many young women suffer considerable pain during their monthly illness.
+This may arise from many different causes, such as, congestion,
+inflammation, malformation, or a wrong position of the parts, or
+over-sensitive nerves. They can only be successfully treated when the
+cause is known; and they may rest assured that this suffering, in nearly
+every case, can be removed.
+
+Sometimes a girl grows to the age of eighteen or twenty without having
+her periodical changes. We have already said that this is not unusual in
+some climates and in some families; so, as long as the general health is
+good and the spirits cheerful,--always an important point,--it need
+cause no anxiety. But if the health grow poor, and especially if there
+be pains and weakness recurring monthly without discharge, then
+something is wrong, and the doctor should be consulted.
+
+
+HYSTERICS.
+
+There is a disease of the nerves to which girls about the age of puberty
+are very subject, particularly in the higher circles of society, where
+their emotions are over-educated and their organization delicate. It is
+called hysteria, and more commonly _hysterics_. Frequently it deceives
+both doctor and friends, and is supposed to be some dangerous complaint.
+Often it puts on the symptoms of epilepsy, or heart disease, or
+consumption. We have witnessed the most frightful convulsions in girls
+of fourteen or fifteen, which were brought on by this complaint.
+Sometimes it injures the mind; and it should always receive prompt and
+efficient attention, as it is always curable.
+
+This disease is apt to produce a similar affection in other girls of the
+same age who see the attacks. For this reason, hysterical girls should
+not be sent to large schools, but cured at home. Often a strong mental
+impression restores them. The anecdote is told of a celebrated surgeon
+(Boerhaave) who was called to a female seminary where there was a number
+of hysterical girls. He summoned them together, heated a number of iron
+instruments before their eyes, and told them that the first one who had
+a fit should be cauterized down the spine. They all recovered
+immediately.
+
+
+SECRET BAD HABITS.
+
+We now approach a part of our subject which we would gladly omit, did
+not constant experience admonish us of our duty to speak of it in no
+uncertain tone. We refer to the disastrous consequences on soul and body
+to which young girls expose themselves by exciting and indulging morbid
+passions. Years ago, Miss Catherine E. Beecher sounded a note of warning
+to the mothers of America on this secret vice, which leads their
+daughters to the grave, the madhouse, or, worse yet, the brothel.
+
+Gladly would we believe that her timely admonition had done away with
+the necessity for its repetition. But though we believe such a habit is
+more rare than many physicians suppose, it certainly exists to a degree
+that demands attention. Surgeons have recently been forced to devise
+painful operations to hinder young girls from thus ruining themselves;
+and we must confess that, in its worst form, it is absolutely incurable.
+
+The results of the constant nervous excitement which this habit produces
+are bodily weakness, loss of memory, low spirits, distressing
+nervousness, a capricious appetite, dislike of company and of study,
+and finally, paralysis, imbecility, or insanity. Let it not be supposed
+that there are many who suffer thus severely; but, on the other hand,
+let it be clearly understood that any indulgence whatever in these evil
+courses is attended with bad effects, especially because they create
+impure desires and thoughts, which will prepare the girl to be a willing
+victim to the arts of profligacy. There is no more solemn duty resting
+on those who have the charge of young females than to protect them
+against this vice.
+
+But, it is exclaimed, is it not dangerous to tell them anything about
+it? Such a course is unnecessary. Teach them that any handling of the
+parts, any indecent language, any impure thought, is degrading and
+hurtful. See that the servants, nurses, and companions with whom they
+associate are not debased; and recommend scrupulous cleanliness.
+
+If the habit is discovered, do not scold nor whip the child. It is
+_often_ a result of disease, and induced by a disagreeable local
+itching. Sometimes this is connected with a disorder of the womb, and
+very frequently with worms in the bowels. Let the case be submitted to a
+judicious, skilful medical adviser, and the girl will yet be saved. But
+do not shut your eyes, and refuse to see this fact when it exists.
+Mothers are too often unwilling to entertain for a moment the thought
+that their daughters are addicted to such a vice, when it is only too
+plain to the physician.
+
+
+THE HYGIENE OF PUBERTY.
+
+Concerning the maladies of puberty, we may broadly say, that if we are
+obliged to have recourse to medicine, it is because we have neglected
+hygiene. That the period requires assiduous care, we grant; but given
+that care, drugs will be needless.
+
+In a general way, we have already emphasized the danger of indolence and
+the benefits of exercise or labor; the perils of exciting the emotions,
+and the advantages of a placid disposition; the impropriety of premature
+development, and the wisdom of simplicity and moderation. This is an old
+story--a thrice-told tale. Let us go more into minutiae.
+
+One of the most frequent causes of disease, about the age of puberty, is
+_starvation_. Many a girl is starved to death. Food is given her, but
+not of the right quality, or in insufficient quantity, or at improper
+hours. The system is not nourished, and, becoming feeble, it is laid
+open to the attacks of disease, and to no form of disease more readily
+than to consumption.
+
+To correct this, let the food be varied, simply prepared, and abundant.
+Good fresh milk should be used daily, while tea and coffee should be
+withheld. Fat meats and vegetable oils, generally disliked by girls at
+this age, are exactly what they need; and were they partaken of more
+freely, there would be less inquiry at the druggists for cod-liver oil.
+
+A modern writer of eminence lays it down as one of the most common
+causes of consumption in young people, that just at the age when their
+physical system is undergoing such important changes, that invaluable
+article of diet, _milk_, is generally dropped, and nothing equally rich
+in nitrogen substituted in its place.
+
+_Exercise_, whether as games, the skipping rope, croquet, walking,
+dancing, riding, and calisthenics, or as regular labor, is highly
+beneficial, especially when it leads one into the fresh air, the
+sunshine, and the country. A particular kind of exercise is to be
+recommended for those whose chests are narrow, whose shoulders stoop,
+and who have a hereditary predisposition to consumption. If it is
+systematically practised along with other means of health, we would
+guarantee any child, no matter how many relatives have died of this
+disease, against its invasion. It is voluntary inspiration. Nothing is
+more simple. Let her stand erect, throw the shoulders well back, and the
+hands behind; then let her slowly inhale pure air to the full capacity
+of the lungs, and retain it a few seconds _by an increased effort_; then
+it may be slowly exhaled. After one or two natural inspirations, let her
+repeat the act, and so on for ten or fifteen minutes, twice daily. Not
+only is this simple procedure a safeguard against consumption, but, in
+the opinion of some learned physicians, it can even cure it when it has
+already commenced.
+
+At first the monthly loss of blood exhausts the system. Therefore,
+plenty of food, plenty of rest, plenty of sleep, are required. That
+ancient prejudice in favour of early rising should be discarded now, and
+the girl should retire early, and if she will, should sleep late. Hard
+study, care, or anxiety should be spared her. This is not the time for
+rigid discipline.
+
+_Clothing_ is a matter of importance, and, if we were at all sure of
+attention, there is much we would say of it. The thought seriously
+troubles us, that so long as women consent to deform themselves and
+sacrifice their health to false ideas of beauty, it is almost hopeless
+to urge their fitness for, and their right to a higher life than they
+now enjoy. No educated painter or sculptor is ignorant of what the model
+of female beauty is; no fashionable woman is content unless she departs
+from it as far as possible.
+
+Now beauty implies health, and ugliness of form is attained not only at
+the expense of aesthetics, but of comfort. The custom of fastening
+growing girls in tight corsets, of flattening their breasts with pads,
+of distorting their feet in small high-heeled shoes, and of teaching
+them to stoop and mince in gait, is calculated to disgust every observer
+of good sense and taste, and, what is of more consequence, to render
+these girls, when they become women, more liable to every species of
+suffering connected with child-bearing.
+
+The monthly change is the prelude to maternity. On its healthful
+recurrence depends present comfort and future health; and not these
+alone, but also happiness in marriage, easy child-beds, and the
+constitution of children to a degree the thoughtless girl and even the
+mature woman rarely understand. She, therefore, who neglects the due
+care of her own condition, violates a duty owed to others as well as
+herself. We would have mothers impress this on their daughters. Let no
+mistaken modesty prevent them.
+
+Especially at their commencement should the monthly changes be carefully
+watched. The mother should prepare her daughter's mind betimes for such
+an expected incident in her life, thus preventing a useless fright, or
+the employment of injurious means to stop what the child may look upon
+as an accident.
+
+Nor should the maternal care cease here. Such tender sympathy should
+exist on the one side, such trusting confidence on the other, that the
+mother should acquaint herself with every detail of each recurring
+period until the function is thoroughly established. She should inquire
+into the duration of each epoch, the abundance of the discharge, the
+presence of pain, and its effects on the general health. She should
+convince herself that all these do not vary from the standards of health
+we have previously laid down. Or should they do so, she should not delay
+to use the proper means to bring them to that standard.
+
+Long observation proves that if, during the first two or three years
+which follow the attainment of puberty, the health of the girl is
+successfully guarded, and this, her most important physical distinction,
+meets with no derangement, her life-long health is well-nigh secured;
+but, on the contrary, if she commences her sexual life with pain and
+disorder, she is likely to be a life-long sufferer.
+
+We are about to approach a topic of vital importance, therefore, in
+summing up as briefly as may be, the precautions necessary to attain
+this end. They can most conveniently be divided into those to be
+observed during the monthly changes, and those more general rules of
+health to be obeyed in the intervals of the periods.
+
+
+PRECAUTIONS DURING THE MONTHLY CHANGES.
+
+At the head of all cautions and warnings which we could give about the
+care of the health at these monthly periods, we put _rest_, _rest_,
+bodily and mental. _Do less than usual_, we say to all, whether the
+necessity for it is manifest or not. Over-exertion is a most fruitful
+cause of disease. Long walks, shopping, dancing, riding, hard work
+whether for pleasure or profit, should be avoided to the utmost.
+
+The advantages of rest cannot be over-estimated. A striking example of
+it occurs to our mind. Most readers are aware how toilsome are the lives
+of the Indian women among our Western tribes, and also how singularly
+easy and almost painless is their child-bearing. The pangs of travail
+are almost unknown to them. The cause of this has puzzled even
+physicians. We can tell them. It is because it is an inviolable, a
+sacred rule among all those tribes, for the woman, when having her
+monthly sickness, to drop all work, absent herself from the lodge, and
+remain in perfect rest as long as the discharge continues.
+
+Traces of this wide-spread custom among primitive people, extended
+themselves, are discoverable among civilized lands. The famous general
+council of the Christian Church held at Nice in the fourth century,
+passed a rule disapproving of women coming to church at the times of
+their menstrual sickness. The cold and dampness of large edifices, the
+mental excitement and its unfavourable effects and the exertion
+requisite for long walks to and fro, would justify this rule on purely
+hygienic grounds, and such may have caused its adoption.
+
+A moderate and uniform temperature favors health at such epochs; while
+exposure to heat or cold, and the drinking freely of iced water or
+stimulants should be shunned.
+
+The popular belief that bathing is hurtful, is correct so far as either
+cold or hot baths are concerned; but it is well to know, in the
+interests of comfort and cleanliness, that a moderately warm-bath, about
+80 deg. Fahr., _will do no injury_. Such a bath can be taken without any
+hesitation.
+
+We sanction, also, another well-known rule, and that is, that no
+purgative medicine should be taken immediately before or during the
+change. If called for by some other disorder, a mild laxative is all
+that should be administered, unless by the direction of a physician.
+
+
+PRECAUTIONS IN THE INTERVALS OF THE MONTHLY CHANGES.
+
+If girls suffer from irregularities in this respect, the causes can
+generally be found either in some affection threatening the general
+health, such as scrofula, consumption, green sickness, etc., or else in
+their mode of life. For the former, the family physician must be
+consulted; but if it is the latter which is at fault, the remedy is in
+the hands of the parents.
+
+Boarding-school life, city life, mental troubles--these are the three
+fertile sources of disturbances in the sexual functions of girlhood.
+
+No one rates at higher value than ourselves the training of the mind;
+but we do not hesitate a moment to urge that if perturbations of the
+functions become at all marked in a girl at school, she should be _taken
+away_. Better live at home in seeming idleness a year at that time of
+life, than become a dead-weight, through constant ill health, on her
+husband in after life.
+
+So of the unwholesome excitement of a city life. There is a poison in
+crowds, and it acts in a thousand unseen ways. With the ceaseless noise,
+the broken sleep, the late hours, the impure air, and the nervous
+tension which all these produce, it requires no strength of imagination
+to perceive that the city is not the best place for the delicate girl.
+
+We have mentioned _mental troubles_. Perhaps there are, among those who
+read this, some superficial enough to smile at the possibility of
+serious mental troubles in girlhood. There are, we know, many unfeeling
+enough to give them no attention when they do see them. But we have an
+unfailing witness in the sympathetic heart of the mother. She has not
+forgotten how bitter were the crosses of her own younger years; she
+knows that the sensitive soul of woman wakes early to the keenest
+appreciation of grief as well as joy. If anything, years blunt us, and
+the sorrows of youth are often the bitterest of our lives.
+
+Let the mother, therefore, read with her wondrous maternal instinct the
+trials of her daughter; let her become her most intimate confidant, and
+pour upon the wounded spirit that balm which none but a woman, and that
+woman a mother, knows how to apply. Such a relationship of mother and
+daughter is no less natural and wholesome than it is beautiful.
+
+
+WHEN THE CHANGES ARE DELAYED.
+
+In health an equal interval, or one nearly equal, elapses between the
+monthly illnesses. Often in the spring, however, their appearance
+anticipates the expected date of their occurrence, and in the autumn
+they are frequently a day or two late. These variations are owing to the
+temperature, heat accelerating and cold retarding the process of
+ovulation.
+
+Such slight irregularities need not give rise to anxiety; but if there
+is an unwonted delay, combined with other symptoms of ill-health, as
+headache, pain in the side and back, a sense of languor and exhaustion,
+loss of appetite, and nausea, and fitful sleep, then it is important
+that some steps be taken to bring on the courses. For this purpose,
+soaking the feet in hot-mustard water, a tumbler of hot ginger or
+camomile-tea, a brisk walk, or a gentle laxative will generally be found
+sufficient. Gently kneading the lower abdomen and loins is a familiar,
+and if intelligently done, a safe means for the same purpose.
+
+More violent means than these should be eschewed. Whichever are used
+subsequent to their employment, rest, in a recumbent position, in a
+warm room should be secured.
+
+
+WHEN THE CHANGES ARE PAINFUL.
+
+There are wide individual differences in this respect. Some young women
+suffer much from local pains, headache and languor at such epochs,
+without apparently losing anything in general health; others experience
+no distress whatever.
+
+The causes of painful periods are various. Sometimes they depend on a
+tendency to rheumatism or to ague. Over-work, or excessive devotion to
+social duties and pleasures, is often their source. Cold and damp are
+common incidental causes. Green sickness and general debility are
+sometimes to blame.
+
+Of course the treatment must depend on which one of these is present. It
+is a good rule, however, always to wear flannel next the skin; also, to
+avoid exposure to the weather for several days before the change is
+expected. A large, hot, linseed-meal poultice, over which a
+dessert-spoonful of laudanum has been sprinkled, or a large
+mustard-plaster, spread on the lower abdomen, will afford much relief. A
+hot brick or bottle of hot water wrapped in flannel, and applied to the
+small of the back, is often of great service. Rest in bed is always to
+be recommended. A tea-spoonful of sweet spirits of nitre will sometimes
+bring early relief.
+
+But if these simple means are not sufficient, it would be better to
+consult a physician.
+
+A common belief is that such troubles are cured by marriage. Sometimes
+they are, but we do not approve the remedy. The state of marriage
+should be entered upon in perfect health and full vigor. Upon it
+depends the health of future generations, and it were better for them
+did only those assume its bonds who are able to endow their children
+with sound physical frames.
+
+
+THE AGE OF NUBILITY.
+
+It does not follow, because a girl is capable of marriage, that she is
+fit for it. Science teaches us many valid objections to too early
+unions. It goes farther, and fixes a certain age at which it is wisest
+for woman to marry. This age is between twenty and twenty-five years.
+
+Anatomists have learned that after puberty the bones of a woman's body
+undergo important modifications to fit her for child-bearing. This
+requires time, and before twenty the process is not completed. Until the
+woman is perfect herself, until her full stature and completed form are
+attained, she is not properly qualified to assist in perpetuating the
+species.
+
+We might urge that up to this moment neither does her self-knowledge
+qualify her to choose a life-companion, nor can her education be
+finished, nor is her experience sufficient for her to enter on the
+duties of a matron. But we do not appeal to these arguments. There are
+others still more forcible. If her own health, life, and good looks are
+of value to her, if she has any wish for healthy, sound minded children,
+she will refrain from premature nuptials.
+
+A too youthful wife finds marriage not a pleasure but a pain. Her
+nervous system is prostrated by it; she is more liable to weakness and
+diseases of the womb; and if of a consumptive family, she runs great
+risk of finding that fatal malady manifest itself after a year or two of
+wedded life. It is very common for those who marry young to die young.
+
+From statistics which have been carefully compiled, it is proven that
+the first labors of very young mothers are much more painful, tedious,
+and dangerous to life, than others. As wives, they are frequently
+visited either with absolute sterility, and all their lives must bear
+the reproach of barren women, or, what to many is hardly less
+distasteful, they have an excessively numerous family.
+
+What adds to their sufferings in the latter event, is that the children
+of such marriages are rarely healthy. They are feeble, sickly,
+undersized, often with some fault of mind or body, which is a cross to
+them and their parents all their lives. They inherit more readily the
+defects of their ancestors, and, as a rule, die at earlier years than
+the progeny of better-timed unions.
+
+These considerations are formidable enough, it would seem, to prevent
+young girls from marrying, without the need of a law, as exists in some
+countries. Moreover, they are not imaginary, but real, as many a woman
+finds out to her cost.
+
+The objections to marriage after the age of twenty-five are less cogent.
+They extend only to the woman herself. She should know that the first
+labors of wives over thirty are nearly _twice_ as fatal as those between
+twenty and twenty-five. Undoubtedly nature points to the period between
+the twentieth and twenty-fifth year as the fittest one for marriage in
+the woman.
+
+
+
+
+_LOVE._
+
+
+ITS POWER ON HUMANITY.
+
+Love, pure love, true love, what can we say of it? The dream of youth;
+the cherished reminiscence of age; celebrated in the songs of poets;
+that which impels the warrior to his most daring deeds; which the
+inspired prophet chooses to typify the holiest sentiments,--what new
+thing is it possible to say about this theme?
+
+Think for a moment on the history or the literature of the world. Ask
+the naturalist to reveal the mysteries of life; let the mythologist
+explain the origin and meaning of all unrevealed religions; look within
+at the promptings of your own spirit, and this whole life of ours will
+appear to you as one grand epithalamium.
+
+The profoundest of English poets has said--
+
+ 'All thoughts, all passions, all delights,
+ Whatever stirs this mortal frame,
+ All are but ministers of Love,
+ And feed his sacred flame.'
+
+That life which is devoid of love is incomplete, sterile,
+unsatisfactory. It fails of its chiefest end. Nature, in anger, blots it
+out sooner, and it passes like the shadow of a cloud, leaving no trace
+behind. Admirable as it may be in other respects, to the eye of the
+statesman, the physician, the lover of his species, it remains but a
+fragment, a torso.
+
+Love is one thing to a woman, another to a man. To him, said Madame de
+Stael, it is an episode; to her, it is the whole history of life. A
+thousand distractions divert man. Fame, riches, power, pleasure, all
+struggle in his bosom to displace the sentiment of love. They are its
+rivals, not rarely its masters. But woman knows no such distractions.
+One passion only sits enthroned in her bosom; one only idol is enshrined
+in her heart, knowing no rival, no successor. This passion is love! This
+idol is its object.
+
+This is not fancy, not rhetoric; it is the language of cold and exact
+science, pronounced from the chair of history, from the bureau of the
+statistician, from the dissecting table of the anatomist. We shall
+gather up their well-weighed words, and present them, not as fancy
+sketches, but as facts.
+
+This deep, all-absorbing, single, wondrous love of woman, is something
+that man cannot understand. This sea of unfathomed depth is to him a
+mystery. The shallow mind sees of it nothing but the rippling waves, the
+unstable foam-crests dashing hither and thither, the playful ripples of
+the surface, and, blind to the still and measureless waters beneath,
+calls woman capricious, uncertain,--_varium et mutabile_. But the
+thinker and seer, undeceived by such externals, knows that beneath this
+seeming change is stability unequaled in the stronger sex, a power of
+will to which man is a stranger, a devotion and purpose which strike him
+with undefined awe.
+
+Therefore, in the myths and legends which the early races framed to
+express their notions of divine things,--the Fates, who spin and snip
+the thread of life; the Norns, who
+
+ Lay down laws,
+ And select life
+ For the children of time--
+ The destinies of men,--
+
+are always females. The seeresses and interpreters of oracles--those
+who, like the witch of Endor, could summon from the grave the shades of
+the departed--were women.
+
+Therefore, also, modern infidelity, going back, as it ever does, to the
+ignorance of the past, and holding it up as something new, makes woman
+the only deity. Comte and his disciples, having reasoned away all gods,
+angels, and spirits, and unable to still the craving for something to
+adore, agree to meet once a week to worship--woman. The French
+revolutionists, having shut up the churches and abolished God by a
+decree of the Convention, set up in His stead--a woman.
+
+We could never exhaust this phase of world-history. Everywhere we see
+the unexpected hand of Love moulding, fashioning all things. The
+fortunes of the individual, the fate of nations, the destinies of races,
+are guided by this invisible thread. Let us push our inquiries as to the
+nature of this all-powerful agent.
+
+
+WHAT IS LOVE?
+
+It has a divided nature. As we have an immortal soul, but a body of
+clay; as the plant roots itself in decaying earth, but spreads its
+flowers in glorious sunlight,--so love has a physiological and a moral
+nature. It is rooted in that unconscious law of life which bids us
+perpetuate our kind; which guards over the conservation of life; which
+enforces, with ceaseless admonition, that first precept which God gave
+to man before the gates of Eden had been closed upon him: 'Be thou
+fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth.' Nothing but a spurious
+delicacy, or an ignorance of facts, can prevent our full recognition
+that love looks to marriage, and marriage to offspring, as a natural
+sequence.
+
+Do we ask proofs of this? We have them in abundance. Those unfortunate
+beings who are chosen by Oriental custom to guard the seraglios undergo
+a mutilation which disqualifies them from becoming parents. Soon all
+traces of passion, all regard for the other sex, all sentiments of love,
+totally disappear. The records of medicine contain not a few cases where
+disease had rendered it necessary to remove the ovaries from women. At
+once a change took place in voice, appearance, and mind. They spoke like
+men, a slender beard commenced on their faces, a masculine manner was
+conspicuous in all their motions, and every thought of sexual love
+passed away for ever. These are the results in every case. What do they
+signify? Undoubtedly that the passion of love is dependent upon the
+capacity of having offspring, and that such was the intention of Nature
+in implanting in our bosom this all-powerful sentiment.
+
+But this is not all. Nature, as beneficent to those who obey her
+precepts as she is merciless to those who disregard them, has added to
+this sentiment of love a physical pleasure in its gratification,--an
+honourable and proper pleasure, which none but the hypocrite or the
+ascetic will affect to condemn, none but the coarse or the lewd will
+regard as the object of love. There is, indeed, a passion which is the
+love of the body. We call it by its proper name of _lust_. There is
+another emotion, for which the rich tongue of the ancient Greeks had a
+word, to which we have nothing to correspond. Call it, if you will,
+Platonic love, and define it to be an exalted friendship. But understand
+that neither the one nor the other is _love_, in the true sense of the
+word, and that _both_ are inferior to it.
+
+Does the father, watching, with moistened eyes, his child at its
+mother's breast; does the husband, bending with solicitude over the
+sick-bed of his wife; does the wife, clinging to her husband through
+evil report and good report, through broken fortunes and failing health,
+indicate no loftier emotion than _lust_, no warmer sentiment than
+_friendship_? What ignorance, what perversity is so gross as not to
+perceive something here nobler than either? Do you say that such scenes
+are, alas, rare? We deny it. We see them daily in the streets; we meet
+them daily in our rounds. Admitted, by our calling, to the sacred
+precincts of many houses in the trying hours of sickness and death, we
+speak advisedly, and know that this is the prevailing meaning of love in
+domestic life.
+
+A warm, rich affection blesses the one who gives and the one who
+receives. Character developes under it as the plant beneath the
+sunlight. Happiness is an unknown word without it. Love and marriage are
+the only normal conditions of life. Without them, both man and woman for
+ever miss the best part of themselves. They suffer more, they sin more,
+they perish sooner. These are not hasty assertions. As a social law, let
+it be well understood that science pronounces that
+
+
+LOVE IS A NECESSITY.
+
+The single life is forced upon many of both sexes, in our present social
+condition. Many choose it from motives of economy, from timidity, or as
+a religious step, pleasing to God. The latter is a notion which probably
+arose from a belief that, somehow, celibacy, strictly observed, means
+chastity. It simply means continence. The chastest persons have been,
+and are, not the virgins and celibates, but the married. When this truth
+is known better, we shall have fewer sects and more religion.
+
+We know women who refrain from marrying to keep out of trouble. The old
+saying is, that every sigh drives a nail in one's coffin. They are not
+going to worry themselves to death bearing children and nursing them! It
+is too great a risk, too much suffering. How often have we been told
+this! Yet how false the reasoning is! Very carefully prepared statistics
+show that between the ages of twenty and forty-five years, more
+unmarried women die than married, and few instances of remarkable
+longevity in an old maid are known. The celebrated Dr. Hufeland,
+therefore, in his treatise on the _Art_ _of Prolonging Life_, lays it
+down as a rule, that to attain a great age, one must be married.
+
+As for happiness, those who think they can best attain it outside the
+gentle yoke of matrimony are quite as wide of the mark. Their selfish
+and solitary pleasures do not gratify them. With all the resources of
+clubs, billiard-rooms, saloons, narcotics, and stimulants, single men
+make but a mock show of satisfaction. At heart every one of them envies
+his married friends. How much more monotonous and more readily exhausted
+are the resources of woman's single life! No matter what 'sphere' she is
+in, no matter in what 'circle' she moves, no matter what 'mission' she
+invents, it will soon pall on her. Would you see the result? We invoke
+once more those dry volumes, full of lines and figures, on vital
+statistics. Stupid as they look, they are full of the strangest stories;
+and what is more, the stories are all true. Some of them are sad
+stories, and this is one of the saddest: Of those unfortunates who, out
+of despair and disgust of the world, jump from bridges, or take arsenic,
+or hang themselves, or in other ways rush unbidden and unprepared before
+the great Judge of all, _nearly two-thirds_ are unmarried, and in some
+years nearly _three-fourths_. And of those other sad cases--dead, yet
+living--who people the madhouses and asylums, what of them? Driven crazy
+by their brutal husbands, do you suggest? Not at all! In France,
+Bavaria, Prussia, Hanover, four out of every five are unmarried; and
+throughout the civilised world there are everywhere three or four single
+to one married woman in the establishments for the insane, in
+proportion to the whole number of the two classes above twenty-one years
+of age.
+
+Other women decline to marry because they have, forsooth, a 'life work'
+to accomplish. Some great project fills their mind. Perchance they
+emulate Madame de Stael, and would electrify the country by their novel
+views in politics; or they have a literary vein they fain would exploit;
+or they feel called upon to teach the freedmen, or to keep their
+position as leaders of fashion. A husband would trammel them. If they
+did marry, they would take the very foolish advice of a contemporary,
+and go through life with an indignant protest at its littleness. Let
+such women know that they underrate the married state, its powers and
+its opportunities. There are no loftier missions than can there be
+carried out, no nobler games than can there be played. When we think of
+these objections, coming, as they have to us, from high-spirited,
+earnest girls, the queens of their sex, our memory runs back to the
+famous women of history, the brightest jewels in the coronet of time,
+and we find as many, ay, more, married women than single who pursued to
+their ends mighty achievements.
+
+If you speak of Judith and Joan of Arc, who delivered their fatherlands
+from the enemy by a daring no man can equal, we shall recall the
+peaceful victories of her, wife of the barbarian Chlodwig, who taught
+the rude Franks the mild religion of Nazareth, and of her who extended
+from Byzantium the holy symbol of the cross over the wilds of Russia.
+The really great women of this age, are they mostly married or single?
+They are mostly married, and they are good wives and tender mothers.
+
+What we have just written, we read to an amiable woman.
+
+'But,' she exclaimed, 'what have you to say to her whom high duties or a
+hard fate condemns to a single life, and to the name of the old maid?'
+
+Alas! what can we say to such? We feel that
+
+ 'Earthlier happy is the rose distilled,
+ Than that which, withering on the virgin thorn,
+ Grows, lives, and dies in single blessedness.'
+
+Yet there is ever a blessing in store for those who suffer here, and the
+hope of the future must teach them to bear the present.
+
+
+LOVE IS ETERNAL.
+
+We have said love is a necessity in the life of either man or woman to
+complete their nature. Its effects, therefore, are eternal. We do not
+intend this as a figure of speech. It is a sober statement of
+physiology.
+
+From the day of marriage the woman undergoes a change in her whole
+structure. She is similar to her former self, but not the same. It is
+often noticed that the children of a woman in her second marriage bear a
+marked resemblance to her first husband. In the inferior races and lower
+animals this obscure metamorphosis is still more apparent. A negress who
+has borne her first child to a white man, will ever after have children
+of a color lighter than her own. Count Strzelewski, in his Travels in
+Australia, narrates this curious circumstance: A native woman who has
+once had offspring by a white man, can never more have children by a
+male of her own race. Dr. Darwin relates that a male zebra was once
+brought to England, and a hybrid race, marked by the zebra's stripes,
+was produced from certain mares. Always after, the colts of those mares
+bore the marks of the zebra on their skins. In some way the female is
+profoundly altered throughout her whole formation, and entirely
+independent of her will, by the act of marriage, and the alteration is
+never effaced.
+
+If the body is thus influenced, shall not the far more susceptible mind
+and spirit be equally impressed?
+
+Another common observation supports what we say, and extends it farther.
+Not the woman alone,--the man also undergoes a change, and loses a
+portion of his personality in his mate. They two are one, not merely in
+a moral sense. We constantly notice a decided resemblance in old couples
+who have passed, say, two score years together. They have grown to look
+alike in form, feature, and expression. That for so long a time they
+have breathed the same air, eaten the same fare, and been subjected to
+the same surroundings, explains this to some extent. But the greater
+part of the change flows from mental sources. They have laughed and wept
+together; they have shared the same joys and pleasures; a smile or a
+tear on the face of one has evoked a corresponding emotion and
+expression on the face of the other. Their co-partnership has become a
+unity. Even without speaking, they sympathize. Their souls are
+constantly _en rapport_. The man is as different as the woman from his
+former self.
+
+
+OF SECOND MARRIAGES.
+
+Science, therefore, seems to say to woman, 'Your first husband is your
+eternal husband.' How, then, about second marriages? Are we to say that
+they are not advisable?
+
+Let us not answer hastily. It is yet to be seen whether ill-assorted
+marriages produce those impressions we have mentioned. They may, indeed,
+on the body, while the mind is free. One must remember, also, that the
+exigencies of social life must be consulted. If a woman cannot love two
+men equally,--and she cannot,--other motives, worthy of all respect,
+justify her in entering the marriage life a second time. Then, the
+higher refinements of the emotions are not given to all alike, nor do
+they come at the same age to all. True love may first dawn upon a woman
+after one or two husbands have left her a widow. Orphan children,
+widow-hood, want of property, or the care of property,--these are sad
+afflictions to the lonely woman. Do not blame her if she accepts a
+husband as a guardian, a protector, whom she can no longer receive to
+her arms as a lover. She is right.
+
+We cherish the memory of a lady of strong character, who died past
+eighty. She had survived three husbands. 'The first,' she said, 'I
+married for love, the second for position, the third for friendship. I
+was happy with them all.' But when, in her mortal illness, this
+venerable friend sank into the delirium which preceded death, she
+constantly called out the name of her first husband only. More than
+half a century had not effaced the memory of those few years of early
+love. This is fidelity indeed.
+
+
+OF DIVORCE.
+
+He of Nazareth laid down the law that whoever puts away his wife for any
+cause except adultery, and marries again, commits adultery; and that
+whatever woman puts away her husband for any cause save adultery, and
+marries again, herself commits adultery.
+
+This has been found a hard saying.
+
+John Milton wrote a book to show that the Lawgiver did not mean what He
+said, but something quite different. Modern sects, calling themselves
+_Christians_, after this Lawgiver, dodge the difficulty, and refer it to
+State legislatures. State legislatures, not troubling themselves at all
+about any previous law or lawgiver, allow dozens of causes--scores of
+them--as perfectly valid to put asunder those whom God has joined
+together.
+
+Science, which never finds occasion to disagree with that Lawgiver of
+Nazareth, here makes His words her own.
+
+Whether we look at it as a question in social life, in morals, or in
+physiology, the American plan of granting absolute divorces is
+dangerous, and destructive to what is best in life. It leads to hasty,
+ill-assorted matches, to an unwillingness to yield to each other's
+peculiarities, to a weakening of the family ties, to a lax morality.
+Carry it a trifle farther than it now is in some of the Western States,
+and marriage will lose all its sacredness, and degenerate into a
+physical union, not nobler than the crossing of flies in the air.
+
+Separation of bed and board should always be provided for by law; and
+whether single, married, or separated, the woman should retain entire
+control of her own property. But in the eyes of God and nature, a woman
+or a man with two faithful spouses living, to each of whom an eternal
+fidelity has been plighted, is a monster.
+
+
+OF A PLURALITY OF WIVES OR HUSBANDS.
+
+What has been said of divorce applies with tenfold force to the custom
+of a woman living as wife to several men, or of a man as husband to
+several women. We should not speak of these customs, but that we know
+both exist in America, not among the notoriously wicked, but among those
+who claim to be the peculiarly good--the very elect of God. They
+prevail, not as lustful excesses, but as religious observances.
+
+It is worth while to say that such practices lead to physical
+degradation. The woman who acknowledges more than one husband is
+generally sterile; the man who has several wives has usually a weakly
+offspring, principally males. Nature attempts to check polygamy by
+reducing the number of females, and failing in this, by enervating the
+whole stock. The Mormons of Utah would soon sink into a state of Asiatic
+effeminacy were they left to themselves.
+
+
+COURTSHIP.
+
+A wise provision of nature ordains that _woman shall be sought_. She
+flees, and man pursues. The folly of modern reformers, who would annul
+this provision, is evident. Were it done away with, man, ever prone to
+yield to woman's solicitations, and then most prone when yielding is
+most dangerous, would fritter away his powers at an early age, and those
+very impulses which nature has given to perpetuate the race would bring
+about its destruction.
+
+To prevent such a disaster, woman is endowed with a sense of shame, an
+invincible modesty, her greatest protection, and her greatest charm. Let
+her never forget it, never disregard it; for without it she becomes the
+scorn of her own sex and the jest of the other.
+
+The urgency of man and the timidity of woman are tempered by the period
+of courtship.
+
+This, as it exists in the United States, is something almost peculiar to
+Americans. On the continent of Europe, girls are shut up in convents or
+in seminaries, or are kept strictly under the eyes of their parents
+until marriage, or, at any rate, betrothal. The liberty usual in America
+is something unheard-of and inconceivable there. In Spain a duenna, in
+France some aunt or elderly cousin, in Germany some similar person,
+makes it her business to be present at every interview which a young
+lady has with an admirer. He never dreams of walking, driving, or going
+out of an evening with her alone. It is taken for granted that, should
+he invite her for such a purpose, the mother or aunt is included in the
+party. They would look on the innocent freedom of American girls as
+simply scandalous.
+
+We have had opportunities to see society in these various countries, and
+have failed to perceive that the morality of either sex is at all
+superior to what it is with us, while the effect of cloister-like
+education on young women is to weaken their self-reliance, and often
+prepare them for greater extravagances when marriage gives them liberty.
+
+With us, the young woman is free until her wedding day. After that
+epoch, she looks forward to withdrawing more or less from society, and
+confining her thoughts to family matters. In France, Spain, or Italy, in
+the wealthier classes, precisely the contrary is the rule. Marriage
+brings deliverance from an irksome espionage and numberless fetters; it
+is the avenue to a life in public and independent action. How injurious
+to domestic happiness this is, can readily be imagined.
+
+It is true that the liberty of American girls occasionally leads to
+improprieties. But, except in certain great cities, such instances are
+rare. The safeguards of virtue are knowledge and self-command, not
+duennas and _jalousies_. Let mothers properly instruct their daughters,
+and they need have no apprehension about their conduct.
+
+The period of courtship is one full of importance. A young woman of
+unripe experience must decide from what she can see of a man during the
+intercourse of a few months, whether he will suit her for a
+life-companion. She has no knowledge of human nature; and what would it
+avail her if she had, when at such a time a suitor is careful only to
+show his eligible traits? 'Go a-courting,' said old Dr Franklin, in his
+homely language, 'in your everyday clothes.' Not one man out of a
+thousand is honest enough to take his advice.
+
+It is useless for her to ask aid of another. She must judge for herself.
+What, then, is she to do?
+
+There is a mysterious instinct in a pure-minded woman which is beyond
+all analysis,--a tact which men do not possess, and do not readily
+believe in. At such a crisis this instinct saves her. She feels in a
+moment the presence of a base, unworthy nature. An unconscious repulsion
+is manifest in her eye, her voice. Where a suitor is not a man of low
+motive, but merely quite incongruous in temper and disposition, this
+same instinct acts, and the man, without being able to say just why,
+feels that he is laboring in vain. If he blindly insists in his wooing,
+he has no one to chide but himself when he is finally discarded.
+
+But if the man is worthy, and suitable, does this blessed instinct
+whisper the happy news with like promptness to the maiden's soul? Ah!
+that raises another issue. It brings us face to face with that difficult
+question of
+
+
+LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT.
+
+Jung Stilling, a German author of note, a religious enthusiast, and full
+of queer fancies, was, when young, a tutor in a private family. On one
+occasion his employer took him to a strange house, and introduced him
+to a roomful of company. Stilling had not contemplated marriage; but, in
+the company, he saw, for the first time, a young woman who he felt was
+his destined wife. Walking across the room, he addressed her with the
+utmost simplicity, telling her that an inward monitor advised him that
+she, of all womankind, was his predestined helpmeet. She blushed, was
+confused, but presently confessed that she had experienced the same
+conviction on first beholding him. They married, and the most curious
+part of the tale remains to tell,--it is, that they proved a happy,
+well-matched couple.
+
+We do not advise others to follow their example. Not many souls are
+capable of such reciprocity. Choosing an associate for life is too
+serious a business to be made the affair of a moment. Reason,
+reflection, thought, prayer,--these are aids in such a momentous
+question not to be lightly thrown aside. Many a passing fancy, many an
+evanescent preference, catches for a moment the new-fledged affections.
+But for the long and tedious journey of life we want a love rooted in
+knowledge.
+
+We are not blind to the fact, that often from the first interview the
+maiden feels an undefined spell thrown around her by him who will become
+her husband. She feels differently in his presence; she watches him with
+other eyes than she has for the rest of men. She renders no account to
+herself of this emotion; she attempts no analysis of it; she does not
+acknowledge to herself that it exists. No matter. Sooner or later, if
+true to herself, she will learn what it is, and it will be a guide in
+that moment, looked forward to with mingled hopes and fears, when she
+is asked to decide on the destiny, the temporal and eternal destiny, of
+two human lives.
+
+That she may then decide aright, and live free from the regrets of a
+false step at this crisis of life, we shall now rehearse what medical
+science has to say about
+
+
+HOW TO CHOOSE A HUSBAND.
+
+ 'Choose well. Your choice is
+ Brief, and yet endless.'
+
+Woman holds as an inalienable right, in this country, the privilege of
+choice. It is not left to notaries, or parents, to select for her, as is
+the custom in some other parts of the world.
+
+First comes the question of relationship. A school-girl is apt to see
+more of her cousins than of other young men. Often some of them seek at
+an early hour to institute a far closer tie than that of blood. Is she
+wise to accept it?
+
+
+SHALL COUSINS MARRY?
+
+Hardly any point has been more warmly debated by medical men. It has
+been said that in such marriages the woman is more apt to be sterile;
+that if she have children, they are peculiarly liable to be born with
+some defect of body or mind,--deafness, blindness, idiocy, or lameness;
+that they die early; and that they are subject, beyond others, to fatal
+hereditary diseases, as cancer, consumption, scrofula, etc.
+
+An ardent physician persuaded himself so thoroughly of these evils
+resulting from marriage of relatives, that he induced the Legislature
+of Kentucky to pass a law prohibiting it within certain degrees of
+consanguinity. Many a married couple have been rendered miserable by the
+information that they had unwittingly violated one of nature's most
+positive laws. Though their children may be numerous and blooming, they
+live in constant dread of some terrible outbreak of disease. Many a
+young and loving couple have sadly severed an engagement, which would
+have been a prelude to a happy marriage, when they were informed of
+these disastrous results.
+
+For all such we have a word of consolation. We speak it authoritatively,
+and not without a full knowledge of the responsibility we assume.
+
+The risk of marrying a cousin, even a first cousin, is greatly
+diminished, provided there is no decided hereditary taint in the family.
+And when such hereditary taint does exist, the danger is little more
+than in marrying into any other family where it is also found. Indeed, a
+certain German author has urged the propriety of such unions, where the
+family has traits of mental or physical excellence, as a means of
+preserving and developing them!
+
+So far as sterility is concerned, an examination of records shows, that
+whereas in the average of unions one women in _eight_ is barren, in
+those between relatives but one in _ten_ is so. And as for the early
+deaths of children, while, on an average, fifteen children in a hundred
+die under seven years, in the families of nearly-related parents but
+twelve in a hundred is the mortality as shown by French statistics.
+
+The investigations about idiotic and defective children are by no means
+satisfactory, and are considered by some of the most careful writers as
+not at all proving a greater tendency to such misfortunes in the
+offspring of cousins. Among a thousand idiotic children recently
+examined in Paris, not one was descended from a healthy consanguinity.
+
+But as few families are wholly without some lurking predisposition to
+disease, it is not well, as a rule, to run the risk of developing this
+by too repeated unions. Stock-breeders find that the best specimens of
+the lower animals are produced by crossing nearly-related individuals a
+certain number of times; but that, carried beyond this, such unions lead
+to degeneracy and sterility. Such, also, has been the experience of many
+human families.
+
+How slight a cause even of that most insidious disease, consumption,
+such marriages are, may be judged from the fact, that of a thousand
+cases inquired into by Dr. Edward Smith, in only six was there
+consanguinity of parents.
+
+
+THE MIXTURE OF RACES.
+
+Mankind, say the school geographies, is divided into five races, each
+distinguished by its own color. They are the white, the black, the red,
+the yellow, and the brown races. In this country, practically, we have
+to do with but the white and black races; and the question is constantly
+asked, Shall we approve of marriages between them? Shall a white woman
+choose a black man to be her husband?
+
+We are at the more pains to answer this, because recently a writer--and
+this writer a woman, and this woman one of the most widely known in our
+land--has written a novel intended to advocate the affirmative of this
+question. Moreover, it is constantly mooted in certain political
+circles, and is one of the social problems of the day.
+
+The very fact that it is so much discussed, shows that such a union runs
+counter to a strong prejudice. Such aversions are often voices of
+nature, acting as warnings against acts injurious to the species. In
+this instance it is not of modern origin, created by peculiar
+institutions. Three centuries ago, Shakspeare, who had probably never
+seen a score of negroes in his life, with the divination of genius, felt
+the repugnance which a refined woman would feel to accepting one as her
+husband. The plot of one of his plays turns on it. He makes Iago say of
+Desdemona:
+
+ 'Not to affect many proposed matches
+ Of her own clime, complexion, and degree;
+ Whereto, we see, in all things nature tends:
+ Foh! one may smell in such a will most rank,
+ Foul disproportions, thoughts unnatural.'
+
+It is, indeed, 'nature erring from itself' which prompts to these
+marriages. They are not sterile, but the children are sickly and
+short-lived. Very few mulattoes reach an old age.
+
+Then it is well known that the black race cannot survive a northern
+climate. Dr. Snow, of Providence, Rhode Island, who has given great
+attention to the study of statistics, says emphatically that, in New
+England, the colored population inevitably perish in a few generations,
+if left to themselves. This debility no woman should wish to give to
+her children.
+
+A mental inferiority is likewise apparent. Friends of the negro are
+ready to confess this, but attribute it to his long and recent period of
+servitude. We deal with facts only. The inferiority is there, whatever
+be its cause; and she who would willingly curse her offspring with it,
+manifests indeed 'thoughts unnatural.'
+
+The children born of a union of the black and red race, negroes and
+Indians, are on the contrary, remarkable for their physical vigor and
+mental acuteness; though, of course, the latter is limited to the
+demands of a semi-barbarous life.
+
+
+SHOULD NATIVE WOMEN MARRY FOREIGNERS?
+
+When we narrow the question of race to that of nationality, entirely new
+elements come in.
+
+In speaking of the intermarriage of relatives, we showed that a certain
+number of such unions in healthy stocks was advantageous rather than
+otherwise, but that too many of them lead to deterioration. This law can
+be applied to nations. Historians have often observed that the most
+powerful states of the world arose from an amalgamation of different
+tribes. Rome, Greece, England, are examples of this. On the other hand,
+France, Russia, Spain, China, Persia, which have suffered no such
+crosses of blood, are either stationary, or depend for their progress on
+foreigners.
+
+Physicians have contributed other curious testimony on this point, the
+bearing of which they themselves have not understood. Marriages between
+nationalities of the same race are more fertile, and the children more
+vigorous, than those between descendants of the same nation. For
+instance, it has been proved that if two descendants of the Pilgrim
+Fathers in Massachusetts marry, they will probably have but three
+children; while, if one of them marries a foreigner, the children will
+number five or six.
+
+So it is well ascertained that in the old and stationary communes of
+France, where the same families have possessed their small farms for
+generation after generation, the marriages have become gradually less
+and less productive, until it has seriously interfered with the quota
+those districts send to the army.
+
+American women have suffered many hard words because they do not have
+more children. Several New England writers have accused them of very bad
+practices, which we shall mention hereafter. But the effect of the law
+of production just now laid down has been quite overlooked.
+
+As it is best that there should be four or five children in a family in
+ordinary circumstances, the union of American and foreign blood is very
+desirable. We need to fuse in one the diverse colonies of the white race
+annually reaching our shores. A century should efface every trace of the
+German, the Irish, the Frenchman, the English, the Norwegian, and leave
+nothing but the American. To bring about this happy result, free
+intermarriage should be furthered in every possible way.
+
+
+THE AGE OF THE HUSBAND.
+
+The epoch of puberty comes to a boy at about the same age as it does to
+a girl,--fourteen or fifteen years. And an even greater period passes
+between this epoch and the age it is proper for a man to marry,--his age
+of nubility.
+
+Not only has he a more complete education to obtain, not only a
+profession or trade to learn, and some property to accumulate, some
+position to acquire, ere he is ready to take a wife, but his physical
+powers ripen more slowly than those of woman. He is more tardy in
+completing his growth, and early indulgence more readily saps his
+constitution.
+
+We have placed the best age for woman to marry between twenty and
+twenty-five years; for similar reasons, man is best qualified to become
+a husband between twenty-three and thirty-three years.
+
+Previous to the twenty-third year, many a man is incapable of producing
+healthy children. If he does not destroy his health by premature
+indulgence, he may destroy his happiness by witnessing his children a
+prey to debility and deformity. An old German proverb says, 'Give a boy
+a wife, and a child a bird, and death will soon knock at the door.' Even
+an author so old as Aristotle warns young men against early marriage,
+under penalty of disease and puny offspring.
+
+From the age of thirty-three to fifty years, men who carefully observe
+the laws of health do not feel any weight of years. Nevertheless, they
+are past their prime. Then, also, with advancing years, the chances of
+life diminish, and the probability increases that they will leave a
+young family with no natural protector. The half-century once turned,
+their vigor rapidly diminishes. The marriages they then contract are
+either sterile, or yield but few and sickly children. Many an old man
+has shortened his life by late nuptials; and the records of medicine
+contain accounts of several who perished on the very night of marriage.
+
+The relative age of man and wife is next to be considered. Nature fits
+woman earlier for marriage, and hints thereby that she should, as a
+rule, be younger than her husband. So, too, the bard of nature speaks:
+
+ 'Let still the woman take
+ An elder than herself; so wears she to him,
+ So sways she level in her husband's heart.'
+
+The woman who risks her happiness with a man many years younger than
+herself, violates a precept of life; and when her husband grows
+indifferent, or taunts her with her years, or seeks companions of more
+suitable age, she is reaping a harvest sown by her own hand.
+
+So commonly do such matches turn out badly, that in 1828 the kingdom of
+Wuertemberg prohibited unions where the woman was more than twelve years
+the senior, except by special dispensation.
+
+After forty-five years, most women cannot hope for children. A marriage
+subsequent to this period can at best be regarded as a close friendship.
+Marriage in its full meaning has no longer an existence.
+
+The relative age of man and wife has another influence, and quite a
+curious one. It influences the sex of the children. But this point we
+reserve for discussion on a later page.
+
+The folly of joining a young girl to an old man is happily not so common
+in America as in Europe. It would be hard to devise any step more
+certain to bring the laws of nature and morality into conflict.
+
+ 'What can a young lassie do wi' an auld man?'
+
+What advice can we give to a woman who barters her youthful charms for
+the fortune of an aged husband? Shall we be cynical enough to agree with
+'auld Auntie Katie?'
+
+ 'My auld Auntie Katie upon me takes pity;
+ I'll do my endeavor to follow her plan:
+ I'll cross him, and rack him, until I heart-break him,
+ And then his auld brass will buy me a new pan.'
+
+No! She has willingly accepted a responsibility. It is her duty to bear
+it loyally, faithfully, uncomplainingly to the end.
+
+Let us sum up with the maxim, that the husband should be the senior, but
+that the difference of age should not be more than ten years.
+
+
+WHAT SHOULD BE HIS TEMPERAMENT?
+
+It is often hard to make out what doctors mean by _temperaments_. It is
+supposed that our mental and physical characters depend somehow on the
+predominance of some organ or system which controls the rest. Thus a
+person who is nervous, quick, sensitive to impressions, is said to have
+a _nervous_ temperament; one who is stout, full-blooded, red-faced, has
+a _sanguine_ temperament; a thin, dark-featured, reticent person, is of
+a _bilious_ temperament; while a pale, fat, sluggish nature, is called
+_phlegmatic_, or _lymphatic._
+
+In a general way these distinctions are valuable, but they will not bear
+very exact applications. They reveal in outline the constitution of mind
+and body; and what is to our present purpose, they are of more than
+usual importance in the question of selecting a husband.
+
+Nature, hating incongruity, yet loves variety. She preserves the limits
+of species, but within those limits she seeks fidelity to one type.
+Therefore it is that in marriage a person inclines strongly to one of a
+different temperament--to a person quite unlike himself.
+
+So true is this, that a Frenchman of genius, Bernardin de St. Pierre,
+vouches for this anecdote of himself. He was in a strange city, visiting
+a friend whom he had not seen for years. The friend's sister was of that
+age when women are most susceptible. She was tall, a blonde, deliberate
+in motion, with blue eyes and fair hair. In a jesting way, St. Pierre,
+who had never seen her before, and knew nothing of her personal life,
+said,--
+
+'Mademoiselle, you have many admirers. Shall I describe him on whom you
+look with most favor?'
+
+The lady challenged him to do so.
+
+'He is short in stature, of dark complexion, dark hair and eyes, slight
+in figure, active and nervous in all his movements.'
+
+The lady blushed to her eyes, and cast a glance of anger at her brother,
+who, she thought, had betrayed her secret. But no! St. Pierre's only
+informant was his deep knowledge of the human heart.
+
+This instinct is founded upon the truth that the perfect temperament is
+that happily balanced one which holds all the organs in equilibrium,--in
+which no one rules, where all are developed in proportion. Nature ever
+strives to realize this ideal. She instills in the nervous temperament a
+preference for the lymphatic; in the sanguine, a liking for the bilious
+constitution. The offspring should combine the excellencies of both, the
+defects of neither. We do well to heed her admonitions here, and to bear
+in mind that those matches which combine opposite temperaments, are, as
+a rule, the most fortunate.
+
+
+THE MORAL AND MENTAL CHARACTER.
+
+Very few words are necessary here. We have already said we speak as
+physicians, not as moralists. But there are some false and dangerous
+ideas abroad, which it is our duty as physicians to combat.
+
+None is more false, none more dangerous, than that embodied in the
+proverb, 'A reformed rake makes the best husband.' What is a rake? A man
+who has deceived and destroyed trusting virtue,--a man who has entered
+the service of the devil to undermine and poison that happiness in
+marriage, which all religion and science are at such pains to cultivate.
+We know him well in our capacity as physicians. He comes to us
+constantly the prey to loathsome diseases, the results of his vicious
+life; which diseases he will communicate to his wife, for they are
+contagious, and to his children, for they are hereditary; and which no
+reform can purge from his system, for they are ineradicable.
+
+Is this the man a pure woman should take to her arms? Here repentance
+avails nothing. We have witnessed the agony unspeakable which
+overwhelmed a father when he saw his children suffering under horrible
+and disgusting diseases, the penalty of his early sins.
+
+Very few men of profligate lives escape these diseases. They are
+alarmingly prevalent among the 'fast' youths of our cities. And some
+forms of them are incurable by any effort of skill. Even the approach of
+such men should be shunned,--their company avoided.
+
+A physician in central Pennsylvania lately had this experience: A young
+lady of unblemished character asked his advice for a troublesome
+affection of the skin. He examined it, and to his horror recognised a
+form of one of the loathsome diseases which curse only the vilest or the
+most unfortunate of her sex. Yet he could not suspect this girl. On
+inquiry, he found that she had a small but painful sore on her lip,
+which she first noticed a few days after being at a picnic with a young
+man. Just as he was bidding her good-night, he had kissed her on the
+lips.
+
+At once everything was clear. This young man was a patient of the
+physician. He was a victim to this vile disease, and even his kiss was
+enough to convey it.
+
+The history of the sixteenth century contains the account of an Italian
+duke, who on one occasion was forced by his ruler to reconcile himself
+with an enemy. Knowing he could not escape obedience, he protested the
+most cheerful willingness, and in the presence of the king embraced his
+enemy, and even kissed him on the lips. It was but another means of
+satisfying his hatred. For he well knew that his kiss would taint his
+enemy's blood with the same poison that was undermining his own life.
+
+How cautious, therefore, should a woman be in granting the most innocent
+liberties! How solicitous should she be to associate with the purest
+men!
+
+Would that we could say that these dangerous and loathsome diseases are
+rare! But, alas! daily professional experience forbids us to offer this
+consolation. Every physician in our large cities, and even in smaller
+towns, knows that they are fearfully prevalent.
+
+We have been consulted by wives, pure, innocent women, for complaints
+which they themselves, and sometimes their children, suffered from, the
+nature of which we dared not tell them, but which pointed with fatal
+finger to the unfaithfulness of the husband. How utterly was their
+domestic happiness wrecked when they discovered the cause of their
+constant ill-health!
+
+Nor are such occurrences confined to the humbler walks of life. There,
+perhaps, less than in any other do they occur. It is in the wealthy, the
+luxurious, the self-indulgent class that they are found.
+
+Are we asked how such a dreadful fate can be averted?
+
+There are, indeed, certain signs and marks which such diseases leave
+with which physicians are conversant. As if nature intended them as
+warnings, they are imprinted on the most visible and public parts of the
+body. The skin, the hair, the nose, the voice, the lines on the face,
+often divulge to the trained observer, more indubitably than the
+confessional, a lewd and sensual life.
+
+Such signs, however, can only be properly estimated by the medical
+counselor, and it would be useless to rehearse them here. Those women
+who would have a sure guide in choosing a man to be their husband, have
+they not Moses and the prophets? What is more, have they not Christ and
+the apostles? Rest assured that the man who scoffs at Christianity, who
+neglects its precepts and violates its laws, runs a terrible risk of
+bringing upon himself, his wife, and his children, the vengeance of
+nature, which knows justice but not mercy. Rest assured that the man who
+respects the maxims of that religion, and abstains from all uncleanness,
+is the only man who is worthy the full and confiding love of an
+honorable woman.
+
+
+THE SYMBOLISM OF THE HUMAN BODY.
+
+Philosophers say that every idle word which is spoken continues to
+vibrate in the air through all infinity. So it is with the passions and
+the thoughts. Each impresses on the body some indelible mark, and a long
+continuance of similar thoughts leaves a visible imprint.
+
+Under the names of phrenology, physiognomy, palmistry, and others,
+attempts have been made at divers times to lay down fixed principles by
+which we could judge of men by their outsides; but only vague results
+have been obtained. A learned German author, of high repute in exact
+science, has gone a different way to work. He has studied the body as a
+whole, and sought with the eye of an anatomist how different avocations,
+passions, temperaments, habits, mould and fashion the external parts of
+man. His results are embraced in a curious volume which he entitles _The
+Symbolism of the Human Body_. We shall borrow some hints from it,
+germane to our present theme.
+
+As to size, large-bodied and large-boned men possess greater energy, a
+more masculine character, but often less persistence, and are usually
+devoid of the more delicate emotions. Fat people are good-tempered, but
+indolent; thin people, full of life, but irascible.
+
+The neck is a significant part of the body. View it from in front, and
+it discloses the physical constitution. There are the conduits of the
+food and the air; there, the great blood-vessels pass to the head, and
+its base is modified by their form as they pass from the heart. When
+broad and full, it denotes a vigorous physical life,--a plethoric
+constitution. A distinguished teacher of midwifery, Professor Pajot of
+Paris, says that when he sees one of those necks full in front, like
+that of Marie Antoinette, as shown in her portraits, he prepares himself
+to combat childbed convulsions. That queen, it is well-known, nearly
+perished with them.
+
+The back of the neck contains the vertebral column, and is close to the
+brain. It reveals the mental constitution. The short round neck of the
+prize-fighter betrays his craft. The slender, arched, and graceful neck
+of the well-proportioned woman is the symbol of health and a
+well-controlled mind. Burke, in his _Essay on the Beautiful_, calls it
+the most beauteous object in nature. It is a common observation, that a
+sensual character is shown by the thick and coarse development of this
+portion of the body.
+
+The hair, also, has a significance. Fine whitish hair, like that of a
+child, goes with a simple, child-like disposition; black hair denotes a
+certain hardness of character; red hair has long been supposed to be
+associated with a sensual constitution, but it rather indicates a
+physical weakness,--a tendency to scrofula. This is, however, a tendency
+merely. Thin hair is often the result of protracted mental labor, though
+many other causes produce it.
+
+Every great man, says Herder, has a glance which no one can imitate. We
+may go farther, and say that every man of decided character reveals it
+in his eyes. They are the most difficult organs for the hypocrite to
+control. Beware of the man who cannot look you in the eyes, and of him
+in whose eyes there lurks an expression which allures yet makes you
+shudder. The one has something he dares not tell you, the other
+something you dare not listen to.
+
+Symmetry, strength, grace, health,--these are admirable qualities in a
+man. From the remotest ages they have been the marks of heroes.
+Secondary though they are to moral and mental qualities, they should be
+ever highly valued. A _manly_ man! Nature designs such to be the sires
+of future generations. No danger that we shall fall to worshiping
+physical beauty again. The only fear is that in this lank, puny, scrawny
+generation of ours, we shall, out of vanity, underrate such beauty. Let
+it be ever remembered that this is the ideal, from which any departure
+is deterioration.
+
+
+THE ENGAGEMENT.
+
+When our grandmothers were engaged, the minister rose in his pulpit on
+Sunday morning, before the assembled congregation, and proclaimed the
+'banns,' stating that if any one knew just cause or lawful impediment
+why the lovers should not be married, he should state it there and then.
+Sometimes a great hubbub was created when some discarded suitor rose,
+forbidding the banns, and claimed that the capricious maiden had
+previously promised herself to him. Perhaps it was to avoid such an
+uncomfortable check on the freedom of flirtation that the ancient custom
+was dropped.
+
+Certain it is, that to be 'engaged' sits very lightly on the minds of
+both young men and maidens now-a-days. We know some of either sex who
+make it a boast how often they have made and unmade this slender tie. It
+is a dangerous pastime. 'The hand of little use hath the daintier
+touch,' and they who thus trifle with their affections will end by
+losing the capacity to feel any real affection at all.
+
+Undoubtedly there occur instances where a woman has pledged herself in
+all seriousness, and afterwards sees her affianced in a light which
+warns her that she cannot be happy with him,--that the vows she will be
+called upon to pronounce at the altar will be hollow and false. What is
+she to do?
+
+We are not inditing the decrees of the Court of Love. Here is the advice
+of another to her hand:
+
+ 'First to thine own self be true,
+ And then it follows, as the night the day,
+ That thou canst ne'er be false to any man.'
+
+
+CONCERNING LONG ENGAGEMENTS.
+
+They are hurtful, and they are unnecessary. Is love so vagrant that it
+must be tied by such a chain? Better let it go. True love asks no oath;
+it casteth out fear, and believes without a promise.
+
+There are other reasons, sound physiological reasons, which we could
+adduce, if need were, to show that the close personal relations which
+arise between persons who are engaged should not be continued too long a
+time. They lead to excitement and debility, sometimes to danger and
+disease. Especially is this true of nervous, excitable, sympathetic
+dispositions.
+
+If we are asked to be definite, and give figures, we should say that a
+period not longer than a year, nor shorter than three months, should
+intervene between the engagement and the marriage.
+
+
+THE RIGHT TIME OF YEAR TO MARRY.
+
+Woman, when she marries, enters upon a new life, and a trying one. Every
+advantage should be in her favour. The season is one of those
+advantages. Extreme heat and extreme cold both wear severely on the
+human frame. Mid-winter and mid-summer are, therefore, alike
+objectionable, especially the latter.
+
+Spring and fall are usually chosen, as statistics show, and the
+preference is just. On the whole, the spring is rather to be recommended
+than the autumn. In case of a birth within the year, the child will have
+attained sufficient age to weather its period of teething more easily
+ere the next summer.
+
+
+THE RIGHT TIME IN THE MONTH TO MARRY.
+
+We mean the woman's own month, that which spans the time between her
+periodical sicknesses, be it two or five weeks. Let her choose a day
+about equidistant from two periods. The reasons for this we shall
+specify hereafter.
+
+
+THE WEDDING TOUR.
+
+Custom prescribes a journey immediately after marriage, of a week or a
+month or two. It is an unwise provision. The event itself is disturbance
+enough for the system; and to be hurried hither and thither, stowed in
+narrow berths and inconvenient carriages, troubled with baggage, and
+annoyed by the importunities of cabmen, waiters, and hangers-on of every
+description, is enough, in ordinary times, to test the temper of a
+saint.
+
+The foundation of many an unhappy future is laid on the wedding tour.
+Not only is the young wife tried beyond all her experience, and her
+nervous system harassed, but the husband, too, partakes of her weakness.
+Many men, who really love the women they marry, are subject to a slight
+revulsion of feeling for a few days after marriage. 'When the veil
+falls, and the girdle is loosened,' says the German poet Schiller, 'the
+fair illusion vanishes.' A half regret crosses their minds for the jolly
+bachelorhood they have renounced. The mysterious charms which gave their
+loved one the air of something more than human, disappear in the prosaic
+sunlight of familiarity.
+
+Let neither be alarmed, nor lose their self-control. Each requires
+indulgence, and management, from the other; both should demand from
+themselves patience and self-command. A few weeks, and this danger is
+over; but a mistake now is the mistake of a lifetime. More than one
+woman has confessed to us that her unhappiness commenced from her
+wedding tour; and when we inquired more minutely, we have found that it
+arose from an ignorance and disregard of just such little precautions as
+we have been referring to.
+
+Yet it is every way advisable that the young pair should escape the
+prying eyes of friends and relatives at such a moment. Let them choose
+some quiet resort, not too long a journey from home, where they can
+pass a few weeks in acquiring that more intimate knowledge of each
+other's character as essential to their future happiness.
+
+
+
+
+THE WIFE.
+
+
+_THE WEDDING NIGHT._
+
+We now enter upon the consideration of the second great period in the
+life of Woman. The maiden becomes a Wife. She is born into a new world.
+She assumes new relationships,--the sweetest, and, at the same time, the
+most natural of which she is capable.
+
+The great object of the conjugal union is the transmission of life,--a
+duty necessary in order to repair the constant ravages of death, and
+thus perpetuate the race. In the fulfilment of this sublime obligation,
+woman plays the more prominent part, as she is the source and depositary
+of the future being. It is of moment, therefore, that she should not be
+altogether ignorant of the nature and responsibilities of her position.
+Ignorance here means suffering, disease, and sometimes death. Let us
+then interrogate science in regard to these matters, among the most
+interesting of all human concerns.
+
+The initiation into marriage, like its full fruition, maternity, is
+attended with more or less suffering. Much, however, may be done to
+avert and to lessen the pain which waits upon the first step in this new
+life. For this purpose, regard must be had to the selection of the day.
+We have said that a time about midway between the monthly recurring
+periods is best fitted for the consummation of marriage. As this is a
+season of sterility, it recommends itself on this account, in the
+interest of both the mother and offspring. The first nuptial relations
+should be fruitless, in order that the indispositions possibly arising
+from them shall have time to subside before the appearance of the
+disturbances incident to pregnancy. One profound change should not too
+quickly succeed the other. About the tenth day after menstruation should
+therefore be chosen for the marriage ceremony.
+
+It sometimes happens that marriage is consummated with difficulty. To
+overcome this, care, management, and forbearance should always be
+employed, and anything like precipitation and violence avoided. Only the
+consequences of unrestrained impetuosity are to be feared. In those rare
+cases in which greater resistance is experienced than can be overcome by
+gentle means, the existence of a condition contrary to nature may be
+suspected. Violence can then only be productive of injury, and is not
+without danger. Medical art should be appealed to, as it alone can
+afford assistance in such an emergency.
+
+Although the first conjugal approaches are ordinarily accompanied by
+slight flooding, a loss of blood does not always occur. Its absence
+proves nothing. The appearance of blood was formerly regarded as a test
+of virginity. The Israelites, Arabs, and others carefully preserved and
+triumphantly exhibited the evidence of it as an infallible sign of the
+virtue of the bride. They were in error. Its presence is as destitute of
+signification as its absence; for it is now well known that widows, and
+wives long separated from their husbands, often have a like experience.
+The temperament is not without its influence. In those of lymphatic
+temperament, pale blondes, who often suffer from local discharge and
+weakness, the parts being relaxed, there is less pain and little or no
+haemorrhage. In brunettes, who have never had any such troubles, the case
+is reversed. The use of baths, unguents, etc., by the young wife,
+however serviceable they might prove, is obviously impracticable. This
+great change sometimes also produces swelling and inflammation of the
+glands of the neck.
+
+Marital relations ordinarily continue during the first few weeks to be
+more or less painful. General constitutional disturbance and disorders
+of the nervous system often result. These troubles are all increased by
+the stupid custom of hurrying the bride from place to place, at a time
+when the bodily quiet and the mental calmness and serenity so desirable
+to her should be the only objects in view. Too frequent indulgence at
+this period is a fruitful source of various inflammatory diseases, and
+often occasions temporary sterility and ill-health. The old custom
+requiring a three days' separation after the first nuptial approach was
+a wise one, securing to the young wife the soothing and restoring
+influence of rest. Nothing was lost by it, and much gained.
+
+In a little while, however, all irritation should subside, and no
+suffering or distress of any kind, whether general or local, should
+attend upon the performance of this important function. The presence of
+suffering now becomes indicative of disease. Of this we will speak
+hereafter.
+
+
+SHALL HUSBAND AND WIFE OCCUPY THE SAME ROOM AND BED?
+
+One-third of life is passed in sleep. This period of unconsciousness and
+rest is necessary for the renewal of vital strength, and upon its proper
+management depends much of the health not merely of the husband and
+wife, but of their offspring. A great deal has been written upon the
+effect on health and happiness of occupying separate apartments,
+separate beds in the same apartment, or the same bed. This vexed
+question it is impossible to settle by absolute rules, suitable to all
+cases. In general, it may be asserted that there are no valid
+physiological reasons for desiring to change the custom which now
+prevails in this and most other countries. When both parties are in good
+health, and of nearly the same age, one bed-chamber, if sufficiently
+roomy, may be used without any disadvantage to either. Such an
+arrangement is also to be commended, because it secures closer
+companionship, and thus developes and sustains mutual affection.
+
+It is said that in Zurich, in the olden time, when a quarrelsome couple
+applied for a divorce, the magistrate refused to listen to them at
+first. He ordered that they should be shut up together in one room for
+three days, with one bed, one table, one plate, and one cup. Their food
+was passed in by attendants, who neither saw nor spoke to them. On the
+expiration of the three days, it was usual to find that neither of them
+wanted a separation.
+
+As before stated, there are conditions under which sleeping together is
+prejudicial to the health. A certain amount of fresh air during the
+night is required by every one. Re-breathed air is poisonous. During
+sleep constant exhalations take place from the lungs and from the skin,
+which are injurious if absorbed. A room twelve feet square is too small
+for two persons, unless it is so thoroughly ventilated that there is a
+constant change of air. In fact, a sleeping apartment for two persons
+should contain an air-space of at least twenty-four hundred cubic feet,
+and the facilities for ventilation should be such that the whole amount
+will be changed in an hour,--that is, at the rate of forty cubic feet
+per minute; for it has been ascertained that twenty cubic feet of fresh
+air a minute are required for every healthy adult.
+
+Very young and very old people should never occupy the same bed. When
+the married couple hold the relation to each other, in regard to age, of
+grandfather and granddaughter, separate apartments should be insisted
+upon.
+
+Certain diseases can be produced by sleeping together. The bed of a
+consumptive, it is well known, is a powerful source of contagion. In
+Italy it is the custom, after death, to destroy the bed-clothes of
+consumptive patients. Tubercular disease has, within the past few years,
+been transferred from men to animals by inoculation. Authentic cases are
+upon record of young robust girls of healthy parentage, marrying men
+affected with consumption, acquiring the disease in a short time, and
+dying, in some instances, before their husbands. In these significant
+cases, the sickly emanations have apparently been communicated during
+sleep. When, therefore, either husband or wife is known to have
+consumption, it would be highly imprudent for them to pass the long
+hours of the night either in the same bed or in the same room.
+
+
+WHAT KIND OF BED IS MOST HEALTHFUL?
+
+Feather-beds are not conducive to the health of either sex. Mattresses
+made of wool, or of wool and horsehair, are much better. The bed should
+be opened, and its contents exposed to the air and sunlight, once every
+year. Beds long saturated with the night exhalations of their occupants
+are not wholesome. A number of ancient writers have alleged--and it has
+been reasserted by modern authorities--that sleeping on sponge is of
+service to those who desire to increase their families. The mattresses
+of compressed sponge recently introduced, therefore, commend themselves
+to married people thus situated. Hemlock boughs make a bed which has a
+well-established reputation for similar virtues.
+
+The odor of cone-bearing trees has a well-known influence upon the
+fruitfulness of wedlock. Those who live in pine forests have ordinarily
+large families of children.
+
+Excessive clothing at night is highly injurious. So also is a fire in
+the bed-room, except in case of sickness. If the body be too much heated
+during sleep, perspiration occurs, or the action of the heart is
+increased, and the whole economy becomes excited. Either condition
+prevents sound sleep and reinvigoration of the body. Wives in feeble
+health, and those liable to attacks of flooding, should therefore have a
+particular regard to the quantity of clothing on their beds.
+
+
+THE DIGNITY AND PROPRIETY OF THE SEXUAL INSTINCT.
+
+A distinguished medical writer has divided women into three classes in
+regard to the intensity of the sexual instinct. He asserts that a larger
+number than is generally supposed have little or no sexual feeling. A
+second class of women, more numerous than these, but still small as
+compared with the whole of their sex, are more or less subject to strong
+passion. Those of the first class can no more form an idea of the
+strength of the impulse in other women, than the blind can of colors.
+They therefore often err in their judgments. The third class comprises
+the vast majority of women, in whom the sexual appetite is as moderate
+as all other appetites.
+
+It is a false notion, and contrary to nature, that this passion in a
+woman is a derogation to her sex. The science of physiology indicates
+most clearly its propriety and dignity. There are wives who plume
+themselves on their repugnance or their distaste for their conjugal
+obligations. They speak of their coldness and of the calmness of their
+senses, as if these were not defects. Excepting those afflicted with
+vices of conformation, or with disorders of sensibility,--which amount
+to the same thing,--all wives are called upon to receive and pay the
+imposts of love; and those who can withdraw themselves from the
+operation of this mysterious law without suffering and with
+satisfaction, show themselves by that fact to be incomplete in their
+organization, and deficient in the special function of their being.
+There should be no passion for one which is not shared by both.
+Generation is a duty. The feeling which excites to the preservation of
+the species is as proper as that which induces the preservation of the
+individual. Passionate, exclusive, and durable love for a particular
+individual of the opposite sex, it has been well said, is characteristic
+of the human race, and is a mark of distinction from other animals. The
+instinct of reproduction in mankind is thus joined to an affectionate
+sentiment, which adds to its sweetness and prolongs infinitely its
+duration.
+
+Many physiologists have assigned to the feelings an important _role_ in
+conception, the possibility of which has even been doubted if there be
+no passion on the side of the woman. Although this extreme view is not
+tenable in the light of modern research, yet all recent authorities
+agree that conception is more assured when the two individuals who
+co-operate in it participate at the same time in the transports of which
+it is the fruit. It is also without doubt true that the disposition of
+the woman at that time has much power in the formation of the foetus,
+both in modifying its physical constitution and in determining the
+character and temperament of its mind. The influence, long ago
+attributed by Shakspeare to 'a dull, stale, tired bed' in creating a
+'tribe of fops,' is not a mere poet's fancy.
+
+In this manner also may be explained the results of prolonged continence
+upon the offspring, for desires are usually vivid in proportion to the
+previous period of rest. The father of Montaigne, returning after an
+absence of thirty-two years, during which he was engaged in the wars of
+Italy, begot his son, so justly celebrated in French literature. The
+father of J. J. Rousseau, after a considerable absence in
+Constantinople, brought to his wife the reward of a long fidelity.
+
+Sexual passion exerts, therefore, a marked influence upon the future
+being before conception, by the impression made upon the elements which
+come together to form it. The question now occurs; What effect does its
+presence and gratification produce upon the parents? We answer; It is a
+natural and healthful impulse. Its influence is salutary. A marked
+improvement in the physical condition of delicate women often follows a
+happy marriage. This sometimes occurs even in those cases where, from
+the nature of the disorder, the reverse might be expected. The utility
+of the passions, well directed, has become a maxim in medicine as in
+morality. And what passion is more important and fervent than that of
+which we write? The fathers in medicine, and their modern followers,
+agree in ascribing to the pleasures of love, indulged in with
+moderation, activity and lightness of the body, vigor and vivacity of
+the mind.
+
+Music, apart from its immense influence on the nervous system in
+general, seems sometimes to exercise a special action on the sexual
+instinct. Science possesses at the present day some facts beyond
+dispute, which prove the great power of music in this respect.
+
+
+ON THE INDULGENCE AND THE RESTRAINT OF SEXUAL DESIRE.
+
+The act of generation is a voluntary one. But nature has so placed it
+under the empire of pleasure, that the voice of discretion is no longer
+heard, and the will is often led captive. Hence it is well, for hygienic
+reasons, to consider its laws.
+
+The too frequent repetition of the reproductive act is known to be
+followed by consequences injurious to the general health. Too rigid
+continence is not unattended, in many constitutions, with danger, for
+the victory over passion may be dearly bought. Science recommends the
+adoption of a wise mean between two extremes equally destructive. By
+following her counsel, women may escape from the hysterical and other
+disorders which often wait as well upon excess as upon too great denial
+of that passion, which claims satisfaction as a natural right.
+
+As men have made laws upon all subjects, we need not be surprised to
+learn that they have legislated upon this. History informs us that the
+legislators of ancient times have not failed to occupy themselves with
+this grave question of conjugal economy. The ordinances of Solon
+required that the married should acquit themselves of their duties at
+least three times a month; those of Zoroaster prescribed once a week.
+Mohammed ordered that any wife neglected by her husband longer than a
+week could demand and obtain a divorce. It is not, however, in these,
+and other enactments which might be quoted, that guidance is to be
+sought. The principles derived from nature and experience are more
+valuable than human laws, however venerable; for these too often serve
+only to reflect the profound ignorance of their makers.
+
+Moderation should here prevail. Health is thus preserved and
+strengthened, and the gratification doubled. The art of seasoning
+pleasures in general, consists in being avaricious with them. To abstain
+from enjoyment, is the philosophy of the sage, the epicurism of reason.
+
+Proper self-denial in the gratification of the wants of physical love is
+a source of good, not only to the individual practising it, but to the
+community, as we shall show hereafter. It may be observed for one's own
+profit only, or for the benefit of another. The latter is in the end
+more conducive to self-interest than the former. A double advantage is
+derived therefrom,--gratitude and sympathy returned, and increase of
+appetite and of power for future enjoyment. Excess of indulgence results
+in the pain of surfeit and the extinction of affection. Earnest love,
+satisfying itself with small gratifications, is a more copious source of
+happiness than that frequently quenched by full gratification.
+
+What, then, is this moderation which both Hygeia and Venus command?
+Here, again, invariable rules are not possible. Science rarely lays down
+laws so inflexible as those of the Medes and Persians. She designates
+limits. The passage between Scylla and Charybdis is often a wide one.
+The folly of the ancient statutes which have been referred to, consists
+mainly in their failure to recognise the diverse influence of age,
+temperament, seasons, etc.
+
+It almost appears as if there were but one _season_ for generation, that
+in which the sun re-warms and vivifies the earth, trees dress in
+verdure, and animals respire the soft breath of spring. Then every
+living thing reanimates itself. The impulse of reproduction is excited.
+Now, also, its gratification is most beneficial to the individual and to
+the species. Children conceived in the spring time have greater
+vitality, are less apt to die during infancy, than those conceived at
+any other time of the year. The statistics of many thousand cases,
+recently carefully collated in England, prove this beyond peradventure.
+It is well known that a late calf, or one born at the end of the summer,
+is not likely to become a well-developed and healthy animal. This has
+been attributed to the chilling influence of approaching winter; but it
+is capable of another and, perhaps, a truer explanation. Nature's
+impulses, therefore, in the spring of the year are for the good of the
+race, and may then be more frequently indulged without prejudice to the
+individual. Summer is the season which agrees the least with the
+exercise of the generative functions. The autumn months are the most
+unfruitful. Then, also, derangements of the economy are readily excited
+by marital intemperance.
+
+The _temperaments_ exert over reproduction, as over all the other
+functions of the body, a powerful influence. Love is said to be the
+ruling passion in the sanguine temperament, as ambition is in the
+bilious. There is also in some cases a peculiar condition of the nervous
+system which impels to, or diverts from, sexual indulgence. In some
+women, even in moderation, it acts as a poison, being followed by
+headache and prostration, lasting for days.
+
+With advancing years, the fading of sexual desire calls attention to the
+general law, that animals and plants, when they become old, are dead to
+reproduction. What in early life is followed by temporary languor, in
+matured years is succeeded by a train of symptoms much graver and more
+durable.
+
+Those who are in feeble health, and particularly those who have delicate
+chests, ought to be sober in the gratification of love. Sexual
+intercourse has proved mortal after severe haemorrhages.
+
+All organized beings are powerfully affected by propagation. Animals
+become depressed and dejected after it. The flower which shines so
+brilliantly at the moment of its amours, after the consummation of that
+act, withers and falls. It is wise, therefore, in imparting life, to
+have a care not to shorten one's own existence. Nothing is more certain
+than that animals and plants lessen the duration of their lives by
+multiplied sexual enjoyments. The abuse of these pleasures produces
+lassitude and weakness. Beauty of feature and grace of movement are
+sacrificed. When the excess is long continued, it occasions spasmodic
+and convulsive affections, enfeeblement of the senses, particularly that
+of sight, deprivation of the mental functions, loss of memory,
+pulmonary consumption and death. One of the most eminent of living
+physiologists has asserted that 'development of the individual and the
+reproduction of the species stand in a reverse ratio to each other,' and
+that 'the highest degree of bodily rigor is inconsistent with more than
+a very modest indulgence in sexual intercourse.'
+
+The general principles we have just enunciated are of great importance
+in the regulation of the health. They are more suggestive and useful
+than the precise rules which have from time to time been laid down on
+this subject.
+
+
+TIMES WHEN MARITAL RELATIONS SHOULD BE SUSPENDED.
+
+There are times at which marital relations are eminently improper. We
+are told, I Cor. vii. 3, 4, that neither husband nor wife has the power
+to refuse the conjugal obligation when the debt is demanded. But there
+are certain legitimate causes for denial by the wife.
+
+A condition of intoxication in the husband is a proper ground for
+refusal. Fecundation taking place while either parent has been in this
+state has produced idiots and epileptics. This has happened again and
+again. The cases on record are so numerous and well-authenticated, as to
+admit of no doubt in regard to the fatal effect upon the mind of the
+offspring of conception under such circumstances.
+
+Physical degeneracy is also often a consequence of procreation during
+the alcoholic intoxication of one or both parents. A peculiar arrest of
+growth and development of body and mind takes place, and, in some
+instances, the unfortunate children, although living to years of
+manhood, remain permanent infants, just able to stand by the side of a
+chair, to utter a few simple sounds, and to be amused with childish
+toys.
+
+During convalescence from a severe sickness, or when there is any local
+or constitutional disease which would be aggravated by sexual
+intercourse, it should be abstained from. There is reason for believing
+that a being procreated at a period of ill-humour, bodily indisposition,
+or nervous debility, may carry with it, during its whole existence, some
+small particles of these evils. When there exists any contagious
+disease, refusals are of course valid, and often a duty to the unborn.
+Poverty, or the wish to have no more children, can only be exceptionally
+allowed as a reason for the denial of all conjugal privileges.
+
+The opinion that sexual relations practised during the time of the
+menses engender children liable to scrofulous disease, is a mere popular
+prejudice. But there are other and better-founded reasons for continence
+during these periods.
+
+The question of intercourse during pregnancy and suckling will come up
+for consideration when speaking of these conditions hereafter.
+
+
+CONDITIONS WHEN MARITAL RELATIONS ARE PAINFUL.
+
+Nature has not designed that a function of great moment to the human
+race--one involving its very existence--should be attended with pain.
+The presence of pleasure is indicative of health, its absence of
+disease. But to a woman who has systematically displaced her womb by
+years of imprudence in conduct or dress, this act, which should be a
+physiological one, and free from any hurtful tendencies becomes a source
+of distress and even of illness. The diseases of the womb which
+sometimes follow matrimony are not to be traced to excessive indulgence
+in many cases, but to indulgence _to any extent_ by those who have
+altered the natural relation of the parts before marriage. A prominent
+physician, Prof. T. Gaillard Thomas, of New York, has said that 'upon a
+woman who has enfeebled her system by habits of indulgence and luxury,
+pressed her uterus entirely out of its normal place, and who perhaps
+comes to the nuptial bed with some marked uterine disorder, the result
+of imprudence at menstrual epochs, sexual intercourse has a _poisonous_
+influence. The taking of food into the stomach exerts no hurtful
+influence on the digestive system; but the taking of food by a
+dyspeptic, who has abused and injured that organ, does so.'
+
+When excessive pain exists, and every attempt occasions nervous
+trepidation and apprehension, it is absolutely certain that there is
+some diseased condition present, for which proper advice should be
+secured at once. Delay in doing so will not remove the necessity for
+medical interference in the end, while it will assuredly aggravate the
+trouble. Prompt intelligent aid, on the contrary, is usually followed by
+the happiest results in such cases.
+
+
+STERILITY.
+
+Wives who never become mothers are said to be sterile or barren. This
+condition is frequently a cause of much unhappiness. Fortune may favor
+the married couple in every other respect, yet if she refuse to accord
+the boon of even a single heir to heart and home, her smiles will bear
+the aspect of frowns. It is then of some interest to inquire into the
+causes of this condition, and how to prevent or remedy their operation.
+
+Dr. Duncan, of Edinburgh, has shown, by elaborate research, that in
+those wives who are destined to have children, there intervenes, on the
+average, about seventeen months between the marriage ceremony and the
+birth of the first child, and that the question whether a woman will be
+sterile is decided in the first three years of married life. If she have
+no children in that time, the chances are thirteen to one against her
+ever having any. In those cases, therefore, in which the first three
+years of married life are fruitless, it is highly desirable for those
+wishing a family to ascertain whether or not the barrenness is dependent
+upon any defective condition capable of relief.
+
+The age of a wife at the time of marriage has much to do with the
+expectation of children. As the age increases over twenty-five years,
+the interval between the marriage and the birth of the first child is
+lengthened. For it has been ascertained that not only are women most
+fecund from twenty to twenty-four, but that they begin their career of
+child-bearing sooner after marriage than their younger or elder sisters.
+Early marriages (those before the age of twenty) are sometimes more
+fruitful than late ones (those after twenty-four). The interesting
+result has further been arrived at in England, that about one in
+fourteen of all marriages of women between fifteen and nineteen are
+without offspring; that wives married at ages from twenty to twenty-four
+inclusive, are almost all fertile; and that after that age the chances
+of having no children gradually increases with the greater age at the
+time of marriage.
+
+There are two kinds of sterility which are physiological, natural to all
+women,--that of young girls before puberty, and that of women who are
+past the epoch of the cessation of the menses. In some very rare cases,
+conception takes place after cessation. In one published case, it
+occurred nine months afterwards, and in another eighteen months. In some
+very rare cases, also, conception has taken place before the first
+menstruation.
+
+The older a woman is at the time of her marriage, the longer deferred is
+the age at which she naturally becomes sterile. She bears children later
+in life, in order to compensate, as it were, for her late commencement.
+But although she continues to have children until a more advanced age
+than the earlier married, yet her actual child-bearing period is
+shorter. Nature does not entirely make up at the end of life for the
+time lost from the duties of maternity in early womanhood; for the
+younger married have really a longer era of fertility than the older,
+though it terminates at an earlier age.
+
+A wife who, having had children, has ceased for three years to conceive,
+will probably bear no more, and the probability increases as time
+elapses. After the first, births take place with an average interval, in
+those who continue to be fertile, of about twenty months.
+
+Nursing women are generally sterile, above all, during the first months
+which follow accouchement, because the vital forces are then
+concentrated on the secretion of the milk. In a majority of instances,
+when suckling is prolonged to even nineteen or twenty months, pregnancy
+does not take place at all until after weaning.
+
+Climate has also an influence upon the fertility of marriages. In
+southern regions more children are born, fewer in northern. The number
+of children is in inverse proportion to the amount of food in a country
+and in a season. In Belgium, the higher the price of bread the greater
+the number of children, and the greater the number of infant deaths.
+
+The seasons exert a power over the increase of population. The spring of
+the year, as has already been stated, is the most favourable to
+fecundity. It is not known whether day and night have any effect upon
+conception.
+
+The worldly condition seems to have much to do with the size of a
+family. Rich and fashionable women have fewer children than their poor
+and hard-worked neighbours. Wealth and pleasure seem to be often gladly
+exchanged for the title of mother.
+
+But it is our more particular object now to inquire into the _causes of
+absolute sterility_ in individual cases, rather than to discuss the
+operation of general laws upon the fertility of the community at large,
+however inviting such a discussion may be. When marriages are fruitless,
+the wife is almost always blamed. It is not to be supposed that she is
+always in fault. Many husbands are absolutely sterile; for it is a
+mistake to consider that every man must be prolific who is vigorous and
+enjoys good health. Neither does it follow, because a woman has never
+given birth to a living child, that she has not conceived. About one
+marriage in eight is unproductive of living children, and therefore
+fails to add to the population. The seeds of life have, however, been
+more extensively sown among women than these figures would seem to
+indicate. If the life of an infant for a long time after birth is a
+frail one, before birth its existence is precarious in the extreme. It
+often perishes soon after conception. A sickness, unusually long and
+profuse, occurring in a young married woman a few days beyond the
+regular time, is often the only evidence she will ever have that a life
+she has communicated has been ended almost as soon as begun. A tendency
+to miscarriage may therefore be all that stands in the way of a family.
+This is generally remediable.
+
+It is a well-known fact that frigidity is a frequent cause of
+barrenness, as well as a barrier to matrimonial happiness. Its removal,
+so desirable, is in many cases possible by detecting and doing away with
+the cause. The causes are so various, that their enumeration here would
+be tedious and unprofitable, for most of them can only be discovered
+and remedied by a practical physician who has studied the particular
+case under consideration. So also in regard to the various displacements
+and diseases of the womb preventing conception. Proper medical treatment
+is usually followed by the best results.
+
+While the fact that pleasure is found in the marital relation is a
+favourable augury for impregnation, it has been long noticed that
+Messalinas are sterile. It was observed in Paris, that out of one
+thousand only six bore children in the course of a year, whereas the
+ordinary proportion in that city for that time is three and a half
+births for every one hundred of the population.
+
+In some women, nothing seems amiss but too intense passion. Such cases
+are much more rare than instances of the opposite extreme producing the
+same effect.
+
+A condition of debility, or the presence of certain special poisons in
+the blood, may prevent conception, or, what is to all intents the same
+thing, cause miscarriage. Many apparently feeble women have large
+families. But in numerous instances a tonic and sometimes an alternative
+constitutional treatment is required before pregnancy will take place.
+On the contrary, there are well-authenticated cases of women who were
+stout and barren in opulence becoming thin and prolific in poverty.
+
+The stimulus of novelty to matrimonial intercourse imparted by a short
+separation of husband and wife, is often salutary in its influence upon
+fertility.
+
+To show upon what slight constitutional differences infertility often
+depends, it is merely necessary to allude to the fact, known to every
+one, that women who have not had children with one husband often have
+them with another. This condition of physiological incompatibility is
+evidently not altogether one of the emotional nature, for it is observed
+in animals, among whom it is by no means rare to find certain males and
+females who will not breed together, although both are known to be
+perfectly fruitful with other females and males. The ancients, believing
+that sterility was more common with couples of the same temperament and
+condition, advised, with Hippocrates, that blonde women should unite
+with dark men, thin women with stout men, and _vice versa._
+
+Barren women should not despair. They sometimes become fecund after a
+long lapse of years. In other words, they are sterile only during a
+certain period of their lives, and then, a change occurring in their
+temperament with age, they become fruitful. History affords a striking
+example of this eccentricity of generation, in the birth of Louis XIV.,
+whom Anne of Austria, Queen of France brought into the world after a
+sterility of twenty-two years. Catherine de Medicis, wife of Henry II.,
+became the mother of ten children after a sterility of ten years. Dr.
+Tilt, of London, mentions the case of a woman who was married at
+eighteen, but although both herself and her husband enjoyed habitual
+good health, conception did not take place until she was forty-eight,
+when she bore a child. Another case is reported where a well-formed
+female married at nineteen, and did not bear a child until she had
+reached her fiftieth year.
+
+Families often suffer from the effects of sterility. Civilised nations
+never do. Recent researches have been carefully instituted in several
+countries to determine the exact power of the human race to preserve its
+numbers against the ravages of death. It has been ascertained that
+during periods of peace the population can be maintained to the same
+point by the additions made to it through the procreating capacity of
+only one-half of the women in the community. Nature, therefore, has made
+ample provision for preventing a decrease of population through failure
+of reproduction.
+
+She has also instituted laws to prevent its undue increase. It would
+seem as if the extension of material mental and social comfort and
+culture has a tendency to render marriage less prolific, and population
+stationary or nearly so. So evident is this tendency, that it has been
+laid down as a maxim in sociology by Sismondi, that 'where the number of
+marriages is proportionally the greatest, where the greatest number of
+persons participate in the duties and the virtues and the happiness of
+marriage, the smaller number of children does each marriage produce.'
+Thus, to a certain extent, does nature endorse the opinions of those
+political economists who assert that increase of population beyond
+certain limits is an evil happily averted by wars, famines, and
+pestilences, which hence become national blessings in disguise. She,
+however, points to the extension of mental and moral education and
+refinement as gentler and surer means of reducing plethoric population
+than those suggested by Malthus and Mill.
+
+Many causes of sterility, it will therefore be seen, are beyond the
+power of man to control. They operate on a large scale for the good of
+the whole. With these we have little concern. But there are others which
+may be influenced by intelligent endeavor. Some have been already
+alluded to, and the remedy suggested; but we will proceed to give more
+specific
+
+
+ADVICE TO WIVES WHO DESIRE TO HAVE CHILDREN.
+
+It has long been known that menstruation presents a group of phenomena
+closely allied to fecundity. The first eruption of the menses is an
+unequivocal sign of the awakening of the faculty of reproduction. The
+cessation of the menstrual epochs is a sign equally certain of the loss
+of the faculty of reproduction. When conception has taken place, the
+periodical flow is interrupted. Labor occurs at about the time in which
+the menses would have appeared. In short, it is a fact, now completely
+established, that the time immediately before, and particularly that
+after the monthly sickness, is the period the most favorable to
+fecundation. It is said that, by following the counsel to this effect
+given him by the celebrated Fernel, Henry II., the King of France,
+secured to himself offspring after the long sterility of his wife before
+referred to. Professor Bedford, of New York, says that he can point to
+more than one instance in which, by this advice, he has succeeded in
+adding to the happiness of parties who for years had been vainly hoping
+for the accomplishment of their wishes.
+
+Repose of the woman, and, above all, sojourn on the bed after the act of
+generation, also facilitates conception. Hippocrates, the great father
+of medicine, was aware of this, and laid stress upon it in his advice to
+sterile wives.
+
+The womb and the breasts are bound together by very strong sympathies:
+that which excites the one will stimulate the other. Dr. Charles Loudon
+mentions that four out of seven patients, by acting on this hint, became
+mothers. A similar idea occurred to the illustrious Marshall Hall, who
+advised the application of a strong infant to the breast. Fomentations
+of warm milk to the breasts and the corresponding portion of the spinal
+column, and the use of the breast-pump two or three times a day, just
+before the menstrual period, have also been recommended by good medical
+authorities. Horseback exercise, carried to fatigue, seems occasionally
+to have conduced to pregnancy.
+
+The greatest hope of success against sterility is to change the dominant
+state of the constitution. But this can only be effected under suitable
+medical advice. The treatment of sterility--thanks to the recent
+researches of Dr. Marion Sims--is much more certain than formerly; and
+the intelligent physician is now able to ascertain the cause, and point
+out the remedy, where before all was conjecture and experiment. The
+sterile wife should, herefore, be slow in abandoning all hope of ever
+becoming a mother.
+
+
+ON THE LIMITATION OF OFFSPRING.
+
+No part of our subject is more delicate than this. Very few people are
+willing to listen to a dispassionate discussion of the propriety or
+impropriety of limiting within certain bounds the number of children in
+a family. On the one side are many worthy physicians and pious
+clergymen, who, without listening to any arguments, condemn every effort
+to avoid large families; on the other, are numberless wives and
+husbands, who turn a deaf ear to the warnings of doctors and the
+thunders of divines, and, eager to escape a responsibility they have
+assumed, hesitate not to resort to the most dangerous and immoral means
+to accomplish this end.
+
+We ask both parties to lay aside prejudice and prepossession, and
+examine with us this most important social question in all its bearings.
+
+Let us first inquire whether there is such a thing as
+_over-production_--having _too many_ children. Unquestionably there is.
+Its disastrous effects on both mother and children are known to every
+intelligent physician. Two-thirds of all cases of womb disease, says Dr.
+Tilt, are traceable to child-bearing in feeble women. Hardly a day
+passes that a physician in large practice does not see instances of
+debility and disease resulting from over-much child-bearing. Even the
+lower animals illustrate this. Every farmer is aware of the necessity of
+limiting the offspring of his mares and cows. How much more severe are
+the injuries inflicted on the delicate organization of woman! A very
+great mortality, says Dr. Duncan of Edinburgh, attends upon
+confinements when they become too frequent.
+
+The evils of a too rapid succession of pregnancies are likewise
+conspicuous in the children. There is no more frequent cause, says Dr.
+Hillier,--whose authority in such matters none will dispute,--of rickets
+than this. Puny, sickly, short-lived offspring follows over-production.
+Worse than this, the carefully compiled statistics of Scotland show that
+such children are peculiarly liable to idiocy. Adding to an already
+excessive number, they come to over-burden a mother already overwhelmed
+with progeny. They cannot receive at her hands the attention they
+require. Weakly herself, she brings forth weakly infants. 'Thus,'
+concludes Dr. Duncan, 'are the accumulated evils of an excessive family
+manifest.'
+
+Apart from these considerations, there are certain social relations
+which have been thought by some to advise small families. When either
+parent suffers from a disease which is transmissible, and wishes to
+avoid inflicting misery on an unborn generation, it has been urged that
+they should avoid children. Such diseases not unfrequently manifest
+themselves after marriage, which is answer enough to the objection that
+if they did not wish children they should not marry. There are also
+women to whom pregnancy is a nine months' torture, and others to whom it
+is nearly certain to prove fatal. Such a condition cannot be discovered
+before marriage, and therefore cannot be provided against by a single
+life. Can such women be asked to immolate themselves?
+
+It is strange, says that distinguished writer, John Stuart Mill, that
+intemperance in drink, or in any other appetite, should be condemned so
+readily, but that incontinence in this respect should always meet not
+only with indulgence but praise. 'Little improvement' he adds, 'can be
+expected in morality until the producing too large families is regarded
+with the same feeling as drunkenness, or any other physical excess.' A
+well-known medical writer, Dr. Drysdale, in commenting on these words,
+adds: 'In this error, if error it be, I also humbly share.'
+
+'When dangerous prejudices,' says Sismondi, the learned historian of
+southern Europe, 'have not become accredited, when our true duties
+towards those to whom we give life are not obscured in the name of a
+sacred authority, no married man will have more children than he can
+bring up properly.'
+
+Such is the language of physicians and statesmen; but a stronger appeal
+has been made for the sake of morality itself. The detestable crime of
+_abortion_ is appallingly rife in our day; it is abroad in our land to
+an extent which would have shocked the dissolute women of pagan Rome.
+Testimony from all quarters, especially from New England, has
+accumulated within the past few years to sap our faith in the morality
+and religion of American women. This wholesale, fashionable murder, how
+are we to stop it? Hundreds of vile men and women in our large cities
+subsist by this slaughter of the innocents, and flaunt their ill-gotten
+gains--the price of blood--in our public thoroughfares. Their
+advertisements are seen in the newspapers; their soul and body
+destroying means are hawked in every town. With such temptation strewn
+in her path, what will the woman threatened with an excessive family
+do? Will she not yield to evil, and sear her conscience with the
+repetition of her wickedness? Alas! daily experience in the heart of a
+great city discloses to us only too frequently the fatal ease of such a
+course.
+
+In view of the injuries of excessive child-bearing on the one hand, and
+of this prevalent crime on the other, a man of genius and sympathy, Dr.
+Raciborski of Paris, took the position that the avoidance of offspring
+to a certain extent is not only legitimate, but should be recommended as
+a measure of public good. 'We know how bitterly we shall be attacked,'
+he says, 'for promulgating this doctrine; but if our ideas only render
+to society the services we expect of them, we shall have effaced from
+the list of crimes the one most atrocious without exception, that of
+child-murder, before or after birth, and we shall have poured a little
+happiness into the bosoms of despairing families, where poverty is
+allied to the knowledge that offspring can be born only to prostitution
+or mendicity. The realization of such hopes will console us under the
+attacks upon our doctrines.'
+
+It has been eagerly repeated by some, that the wish to limit offspring
+arises most frequently from an inordinate desire of indulgence. We reply
+to such, that they do not know the human heart, and that they do it
+discredit. More frequently the wish springs from a love of children. The
+parents seek to avoid having more than they can properly nourish and
+educate. They do not wish to leave their sons and daughters in want.
+'This,' says a writer in _The Nation_ (of New York), in an article on
+this interesting subject,--'this is not the noblest motive of action, of
+course, but there is something finely human about it.'
+
+'Very much indeed is it to be wished,' says Dr. Edward Reich, after
+reviewing the multitudinous evils which result to individuals and
+society from a too rapid increase in families, 'that the function of
+reproduction be placed under the dominion of the will.'
+
+Men are very ready to find an excuse for self-indulgence; and if they
+cannot get one anywhere else, they seek it in religion. They tell the
+woman it is her duty to bear all the children she can. They refer her to
+the sturdy, strong-limbed women of early times, to the peasant women of
+northern Europe, who emigrate to America, and ask and expect their wives
+to rival them in fecundity. Such do not reflect that they have been
+brought up to light indoor employment, that their organization is more
+nervous and frail, that they absolutely have not the stamina required
+for many confinements.
+
+Moreover, they presume too much in asking her to bear them. 'If a woman
+has a right to decide on any question,' said a genial physician in the
+Massachusetts Medical Society a few years since, 'it certainly is as to
+how many children she shall bear.' 'Certainly,' say the editors of a
+prominent medical journal, 'wives have a right to demand of their
+husbands at least the same consideration which a breeder extends to his
+stock.' 'Whenever it becomes unwise that the family should be
+increased,' says Sismondi again, '_justice_ and _humanity_ require that
+the husband should impose on himself the same restraint which is
+submitted to by the unmarried.'
+
+An eminent writer on medical statistics, Dr. Henry MacCormac, says: 'The
+brute yields to the generative impulse when it is experienced. He is
+troubled by no compunction about the matter. Now, a man ought not to act
+like a brute. He has reason to guide and control his appetites. Too
+many, however, forget, and act like brutes instead of as men. It would,
+in effect, prove very greatly conducive to man's interests were the
+generative impulses placed absolutely under the sway of right reason,
+chastity, forecast, and justice.'
+
+There is no lack of authorities, medical and non-medical, on this point.
+Few who weigh them well will deny that there is such a thing as too
+large a family; that there does come a time when a mother can rightfully
+demand rest from her labours, in the interest of herself, her children,
+and society. When is this time? Here again the impossibility meets us of
+stating a definite number of children, and saying, 'This many and no
+more.' As in every other department of medicine, averages are of no
+avail in guiding individuals. There are women who require no limitation
+whatever. They can bear healthy children with rapidity, and suffer no
+ill results. There are others--and they are the majority--who should use
+temperance in this as in every other function; and there are a few who
+should bear no children at all. It is absurd for physicians or
+theologians to insist that it is either the physical or moral duty of
+the female to have as many children as she possibly can have. It is
+time that such an injurious prejudice was discarded, and the truth
+recognised, that while marriage looks to offspring as its natural
+sequence, there should be inculcated such a thing as marital continence,
+and that excess here as elsewhere is repugnant to morality, and is
+visited by the laws of physiology with certain and severe punishment on
+parent and child.
+
+Continence, self-control, a willingness to deny himself,--that is what
+is required from the husband. But a thousand voices reach us from
+suffering women in all parts of our land that this will not suffice;
+that men refuse thus to restrain themselves; that it leads to a loss of
+domestic happiness and to illegal amours, or that it is injurious
+physically and mentally,--that, in short, such advice is useless,
+because impracticable.
+
+To such sufferers we reply that Nature herself has provided to some
+extent against over-production, and that it is well to avail ourselves
+of her provisions. It is well known that women when nursing rarely
+become pregnant, and for this reason, if for no other, women should
+nurse their own children, and continue the period until the child is at
+least a year old. Be it remembered, however, that nursing, continued too
+long, weakens both mother and child, and, moreover, ceases to accomplish
+the end for which we now recommend it.
+
+Another provision of nature is, that for a certain period between her
+monthly illnesses every woman is sterile. The vesicle which matures in
+her ovaries, and is discharged from them by menstruation, remains some
+days in the womb before it is passed forth and lost. How long its stay
+is we do not definitely know, and probably it differs in individuals.
+From ten to twelve days at most are supposed to elapse after the
+_cessation_ of the flow before the final ejection of the vesicle. For
+some days after this the female is incapable of reproduction. But for
+some days _before_ her monthly illness she is liable to conception, as
+for that length of time the male element can survive. This period,
+therefore, becomes a variable and an undetermined one, and even when
+known, its observation demands a large amount of self-control.
+
+There is one method widely in use in this country for the limitation of
+offspring which deserves only the most unqualified condemnation, which
+is certain to bring upon the perpetrators swift and terrible
+retribution, and which is opposed to every sentiment of nature and
+morality. We mean
+
+
+THE CRIME OF ABORTION.
+
+_From the moment of conception_ a new life commences; a new individual
+exists; another child is added to the family. The mother who
+deliberately sets about to destroy this life, either by want of care, or
+by taking drugs, or using instruments, commits as great a crime, is just
+as guilty, as if she strangled her new-born infant, or as if she
+snatched from her own breast her six-months' darling and dashed out its
+brains against the wall. Its blood is upon her head, and as sure as
+there is a God and a judgment, that blood will be required of her. The
+crime she commits is _murder_, _child-murder_,--the slaughter of a
+speechless, helpless being, whom it is her duty, beyond all things else,
+to cherish and preserve.
+
+This crime is common; it is fearfully prevalent. Hundreds of persons are
+devoted to its perpetration. It is their trade. In nearly every village
+its ministers stretch out their bloody hands to lead the weak woman to
+suffering, remorse, and death. Those who submit to their treatment are
+not generally unmarried women who have lost their virtue, but the
+mothers of families, respectable _Christian_ matrons, members of
+churches, and walking in the better classes of society.
+
+We appeal to all such with earnest and with threatening words. If they
+have no feeling for the fruit of their womb, if maternal sentiment is so
+callous in their breasts, let them know that such produced abortions are
+the constant cause of violent and dangerous womb diseases, and
+frequently of early death; that they bring on mental weakness, and often
+insanity; that they are the most certain means to destroy domestic
+happiness which can be adopted. Better, far better, to bear a child
+every year for twenty years than to resort to such a wicked and
+injurious step; better to die, if needs be, in the pangs of childbirth,
+than to live with such a weight of sin on the conscience.
+
+There is no need of either. By the moderation we have mentioned, it is
+in the power of any woman to avoid the evils of an excessive family,
+without injury and without criminality.
+
+We feel obliged to speak in plain language of this hidden sin, because
+so many are ignorant that it is a sin. Only within a few years have
+those who take in charge the public morals spoken of it in such terms
+that this excuse of ignorance is no longer admissible.
+
+Bishop Coxe, of New York, in a pastoral letter, the late Archbishop
+Spaulding, Catholic Primate of the United States, in an address at the
+close of a recent Provincial Council at Baltimore, the Old and New
+School Presbyterian Churches, at a meeting in Philadelphia, have all
+pronounced the severest judgments against those guilty of antenatal
+infanticide. Appeals through the press have been made by physicians of
+high standing, and by eminent divines, which should be in the hands of
+every one.
+
+The chiefest difficulty hitherto has been, that while women were warned
+against the evils of abortion, they were offered no escape from the
+exhaustion and dangers of excessive child-bearing. This difficulty we
+have fully recognised and fairly met, and, we believe, in such a manner
+that neither the accuracy of our statements nor the purity of our
+motives can be doubted. Should our position be attacked, however, the
+medical man must know that in opposing our views, he opposes those of
+the most distinguished physicians in Europe and in America; and the
+theologian should be warned that, when a neglect of physical laws leads
+to moral evil, the only way to correct this evil is to remedy the
+neglect. In this case the neglect is over-production; the evil is
+abortion.
+
+
+NATURE OF CONCEPTION.
+
+The theories which have been advanced to explain the manner in which the
+human species is continued and reproduced are very numerous. Including
+the hypotheses of the ancient philosophers, some two hundred and fifty
+have been promulgated by the greatest thinkers of all times. The older
+ones do not deserve mention, as they are replete with absurdities. Such,
+for instance, is that of Pythagoras, which supposed that a vapor
+descended from the brain and formed the embryo. The Scythians therefore
+took blood from the veins behind the ears to produce impotence and
+sterility. Modern science has shown the total error of this and many
+other views formerly entertained on this subject. Has galvanism or
+electricity any share in the mysterious function? Some among the modern
+physiologists have supposed that there is an electrical or magnetic
+influence which effects generation. Even within a few months, Dr. Harvey
+L. Byrd, Professor of Obstetrics in the Medical Department of Washington
+University of Baltimore, has asserted that he has 'every reason for
+believing that fecundation or impregnation is always an electrical
+phenomenon; ... it results from the completion of an electric
+circle,--the union of positive and negative electricities.' This,
+however, is not accepted by all as the dictum of modern science.
+Physiology has clearly established that the new being is the result of
+contact between the male element, an independent, living animal, on the
+one part, and the female element, a matured egg, on the other, involving
+the union of the contents of two peculiar cells. Without such contact,
+fecundation cannot take place.
+
+The only matter of practical moment in connection with this most
+interesting function which we have to announce, is the influence of the
+mind on the offspring at the time of generation. This influence has long
+been remarked in regard to animals as well as men. Jacob was aware of it
+when he made his shrewd bargain with Laban for 'all the speckled and
+spotted cattle' as his hire. For we are told that then 'Jacob took him
+rods of green poplar, and of the hazel and chestnut tree, and pilled
+white strakes in them, and made the white appear which was in the rods.
+And he set the rods which he had pilled before the flocks in the gutters
+in the watering-troughs, when the flocks came to drink, that they should
+conceive when they came to drink. And the flocks conceived before the
+rods, and brought forth cattle ringstraked, speckled, and spotted. And
+Jacob did separate the lambs, and set the faces of the flocks towards
+the ringstraked and all the brown in the flock of Laban; and he put his
+own flocks by themselves, and put them not unto Laban's cattle. And it
+came to pass, whenever the stronger cattle did conceive, that Jacob laid
+the rods before the eyes of the cattle in the gutters, that they might
+conceive among the rods. But when the cattle were feeble, he put them
+not in: so the feebler were Laban's, and the stronger Jacob's.'
+
+The impressions conveyed to the brain through the sense of sight are
+here asserted by the writer of Genesis to have influenced the system of
+the ewes so that they brought forth young marked in the same manner as
+the rods placed before their eyes. It is not said that there was any
+miraculous interposition; but the whole account is given as if it were
+an everyday, natural, and well-known occurrence.
+
+The Greeks, a people renowned for their physical beauty, seemed to be
+aware of the value of mental impressions; for in their apartments they
+were lavish of statues and paintings representing the gods and
+goddesses, delineated in accordance with the best models of art.
+
+Dionysus, tyrant of Syracuse, caused the portrait of the beautiful Jason
+to be suspended before the nuptial bed, in order to obtain a handsome
+child.
+
+The following is related of the celebrated Galen:--A Roman magistrate,
+little, ugly, and hunch-backed, had by his wife a child exactly
+resembling the statue of AEsop. Frightened at the sight of this little
+monster, and fearful of becoming the father of a posterity so deformed,
+he went to consult Galen, the most distinguished physician of his time,
+who counseled him to place three statues of love around the conjugal
+bed, one at the foot, the others, one on each side, in order that the
+eyes of his young spouse might be constantly feasted on these charming
+figures. The magistrate followed strictly the advice of the physician,
+and it is recorded that his wife bore him a child surpassing in beauty
+all his hopes.
+
+The fact that the attributes of the child are determined to an important
+extent by the bodily and mental condition of the parents at the time of
+conception, explains the marked difference almost constantly observed
+between children born to the same parents, however strong the family
+likeness may be among them. The changes constantly going on in the
+physical, intellectual, and emotional states of the parents, produce a
+corresponding alteration in offspring conceived at successive intervals.
+Twins generally resemble each other very closely in every respect.
+
+Inasmuch, therefore, as the moment of generation is of much more
+importance than is commonly believed in its effect upon the moral and
+physical life of the future being, it is to be wished that parents would
+pay some attention to this subject. It is the moment of creation,--that
+in which the first vital power is communicated to the new creature. Not
+without reason has nature associated with it the highest sensual
+exaltation of our existence. Dr. Hufeland, the author of _The Art of
+Prolonging Life_, has said, 'In my opinion it is of the utmost
+importance that this moment should be confined to a period when the
+sensation of collected powers, ardent passion, and a mind cheerful and
+free from care, invite to it on both sides.'
+
+
+SIGNS OF FRUITFUL CONJUNCTION.
+
+There are some women in whom the act of conception is attended with
+certain sympathetic affections, such as faintness, vertigo, etc., by
+which they know that it has taken place.
+
+Swelling of the neck was regarded in ancient times as a sign of
+conception. Its truthfulness has been reaffirmed by modern authorities.
+
+It has also been asserted that impregnation generally excites a
+universal tremor in all parts of the body, and that it is associated
+with more than an ordinary degree of pleasure.
+
+It must not be supposed, however, that enjoyment and impregnation bear
+necessarily to each other the relation of cause and effect, although
+this is the popular opinion. From too implicit a reliance upon this
+current belief, wives are often incredulous as to their true condition.
+
+It is a fact that in some cases sickness at the stomach manifests itself
+almost simultaneously with the act of fecundation. Authentic instances
+are on record of wives reckoning their confinement nine months from the
+first feeling of nausea, without ever making a mistake.
+
+In conclusion, it may be said that peculiar sensations are often
+experienced, frequently of a character difficult to explain; and many
+modern authors attach to them a marked value. In this manner it is
+possible for a woman to be satisfied at the moment as to the change
+which has taken place; yet the evidence is often deceptive, and
+sometimes nothing peculiar is noticed.
+
+From the period of conception the mother has no direct knowledge of the
+process that is going on within, excepting by the effects of the
+increasing pressure upon other parts, until 'quickening' takes place,
+which belongs to another part of our subject.
+
+The signs and symptoms of pregnancy will be explained in full when we
+come to treat of the pregnant condition in a future chapter.
+
+
+HOW TO RETAIN THE AFFECTIONS OF A HUSBAND.
+
+Ah! this is a secret indeed!--worth the wand of the magician, the lamp
+of Aladdin, or the wishing-cap of the fairy. What could any of these
+give in exchange for the love of a husband? Yet this pearl of great
+price, how often is it treated as lightly and carelessly as if it was
+any bauble of Brummagem!
+
+'My husband,' we have heard young wives say, 'why, it is his duty to
+love me. Why did he marry me if he is not going to love me, love me
+fondly, love me ever?'
+
+Yes, we all know
+
+ Love the gift, is love the debt.
+
+But in this world of ours it is often hard to get one's own; and when
+got, our care must never cease, lest it be wrested from us. The plant
+you bought at the greenhouse, and that now blossoms on your window-sill,
+became yours by purchase, but it has required your daily care to keep it
+alive and persuade it to unfold its blossoms. Infinitely more delicate
+is this plant of love. It, too, you purchased. You gave in exchange for
+it your own heart. It too, you must daily tend with constant solicitude,
+lest it wither and die.
+
+In this country, some women think that anything is good enough to wear
+at home. They go about in slatternly morning dresses, unkempt hair, and
+slippers down at heel. 'Nobody will see me,' they say 'but my husband.'
+Let them learn a lesson from the wives of the Orient.
+
+In those countries a married woman never goes abroad except in long
+sombre robes and thick veil. An English lady visiting the wife of one of
+the wealthy merchants, found her always in full dress, with toilet as
+carefully arranged as if she were going to a ball.
+
+'Why!' exclaimed the visitor, at length, 'is it possible that you take
+all this trouble to dress for nobody but your husband?'
+
+'Do, then,' asked the lady in reply, 'the wives of Englishmen dress for
+the sake of pleasing other men?'
+
+The visitor was mute.
+
+Not that we would wish our women to be for ever in full costume at home.
+That would be alarming. But she who neglects neatness in attire, and,
+above all, cleanliness of person, runs a great danger of creating a
+sentiment of disgust in those around her. Nothing is more repugnant to
+the husband's senses than bad odors, and, for reasons which every woman
+knows, women who neglect cleanliness are peculiarly liable to them. When
+simple means do not remove them, recourse should be promptly had to a
+medical adviser.
+
+So it is with bad breath. This sometimes arises from neglect of the
+teeth, sometimes from diseases of the stomach, lungs, etc. A man of
+delicate olfactories is almost forced to hold at arm's length a wife
+with a fetid breath.
+
+There are some women--we have treated several--who are plagued with a
+most disagreeable perspiration, especially about the feet, the arms,
+etc. Such should not marry until this is cured. It is a rule among army
+surgeons, to be chary about giving men their discharge from military
+service on surgeon's certificate. But fetid feet are at times so
+horribly offensive, that they are considered an allowable cause for
+discharge. No doubt, in some of our States they would be received as a
+valid ground for divorce!--certainly with quite as much reason as many
+of the grounds usually alleged.
+
+In short, the judicious employment of all the harmless arts of the
+toilet, and of those numerous and effective means which modern science
+offers, to acquire, to preserve, and to embellish beauty, is a duty
+which woman, whether married or single, should never neglect. With very
+little trouble, the good looks and freshness of youth can be guarded
+almost to old age; and, even when hopelessly gone, simple and harmless
+means are at hand to repair the injuries of years, or at least to
+conceal them. But this is an art which would require a whole volume to
+treat of, and which we cannot here touch upon.
+
+
+INHERITANCE.
+
+We now come to the consideration of a very wonderful subject,--that of
+inheritance. It is one of absorbing interest, both because of the
+curious facts it presents, and of the great practical bearing it has
+upon the welfare of every individual.
+
+In order to the better understanding of this matter, it is necessary
+at the outset to make a distinction between four kinds or varieties of
+inheritance. The most generally recognised is _direct inheritance_,--that
+in which the children partake of the qualities of the father and
+mother. But a child may not resemble either parent, while it bears a
+striking likeness to an uncle or aunt. This constitutes _indirect_
+inheritance. Again, a child may be more like one of its grandparents
+than either its father or mother. Or, what is still more astonishing,
+it may display some of the characteristics possessed only by a
+remote ancestor. This form of inheritance is known by the scientific
+term _atavism_, derived from the Latin word _atavus_, meaning an
+ancestor. It is curious to note in this connection that sometimes a son
+resembles more closely his maternal than his paternal grandsire in some
+male attribute,--as a peculiarity of beard, or certain diseases confined
+to the male sex. Though the mother cannot possess or exhibit such male
+qualities, she has transmitted them through her blood, from her father to
+her son.
+
+The fourth variety of inheritance is that in which the child resembles
+neither parent, but the first husband of its mother. A woman contracting
+a second marriage, transmits to the offspring of that marriage the
+peculiarities she has received through the first union. Breeders of
+stock know this tendency, and prevent their brood-mares, cows, or sheep
+from running with males of an inferior stock. Thus the diseases of a man
+may be transmitted to children which are not his own. Even though dead,
+he continues to exert an influence over the future offspring of his
+wife, by means of the ineffaceable impress he had made in the conjugal
+relation upon her whole system, as we have previously mentioned. The
+mother finds in the children of her second marriage
+
+ '... the touch of a vanished hand,
+ And the sound of a voice that is still.'
+
+A child may therefore suffer through the operation of this mysterious
+and inexorable law, for sins committed not by its own father, but by the
+first husband of its mother. What a serious matter, then, is that
+relation between the sexes called marriage! How far-reaching are its
+responsibilities!
+
+A distinction must here be drawn between hereditary transmission and the
+possession of qualities at birth, which have not been the result of any
+impression received from the system of father or mother, but due to
+mental influences or accidents operating through the mother. A child may
+be born idiotic or deformed, not because either parent or one of its
+ancestors was thus affected, but from the influence of some severe
+mental shock received by the mother during her pregnancy. This subject
+of maternal impressions will come up for separate consideration in the
+discussion of pregnancy. Again, a child may be epileptic, although there
+is no epilepsy in the family, simply because of the intoxication of the
+father or mother at the time of the intercourse resulting in conception.
+Such cases are not due to hereditary transmission, for that cannot be
+hereditary which has been possessed by neither the parents nor any other
+relatives.
+
+In considering the effects of inheritance, we will first pass in review
+those connected with the physical constitution. These are exceedingly
+common and universally known. Fortunately, not merely are evil qualities
+inherited, but beauty, health, vigor, and longevity also.
+
+
+BEAUTY.
+
+Good looks are characteristic of certain families. Alcibiades, the
+handsomest among the Grecians of his time, descended from ancestors
+remarkable for their beauty. So well and long has the desirable
+influence of inheritance in this respect been recognised, that there
+existed in Crete an ancient law which ordained that each year the most
+beautiful among the young men and women should be chosen and forced to
+marry, in order to perpetuate the type of their beauty. Irregularities
+of feature are transmitted from parent to child through many
+generations. The aquiline nose has existed some centuries, and is yet
+hereditary in the Bourbon family. The hereditary under-lip of the House
+of Hapsburg is another example. When the poet Savage speaks of
+
+ 'The tenth transmitter of a foolish face,'
+
+he scarcely exaggerates what is often seen in families where some
+strongly-marked feature or expression is long predominant or reappears
+in successive generations.
+
+
+NECK AND LIMBS.
+
+The form and length of the neck and limbs are frequently hereditary, as
+is also the height of the body. The union of two tall persons engenders
+tall children. The father of Frederick the Great secured for himself a
+regiment of men of gigantic stature, by permitting the marriage of his
+guards only with women of similar height. A tendency to obesity often
+appears in generation after generation of a family. Yet such cases are
+within the reach of medical art.
+
+
+COMPLEXION.
+
+Even the complexion is not exempt from this influence. Blondes
+ordinarily procreate blondes, and dark parents have dark-skinned
+children. An union in marriage of fair and dark complexions results in
+an intermediate shade in the offspring. Not always, however; for it has
+been asserted that the complexion chiefly follows that of the father.
+The offspring of a black father and a white mother is much darker than
+the progeny of a white father and a dark mother. In explanation of this
+fact, it has been said that the mother is not impressed by her own
+color, because she does not look upon herself, while the father's
+complexion attracts her attention, and thus gives a darker tinge to the
+offspring. Black hens frequently lay dark eggs; but the reverse is more
+generally found to be the case.
+
+
+PHYSICAL QUALITIES TRANSMITTED BY EACH PARENT.
+
+In general, it may be said that there exists a tendency on the part of
+the father to transmit the external appearance, the configuration of the
+head and limbs, the peculiarities of the senses and of the skin and the
+muscular condition; while the size of the body, and the general
+temperament or constitution of the child, are derived from the mother.
+Among animals, the mule, which is the produce of the male ass and the
+mare, is essentially a modified ass having the general configuration of
+its sire, but the rounded trunk and larger size of its dam. On the other
+hand, the hinny, which is the offspring of the stallion and the she-ass,
+is essentially a modified horse, having the general configuration of the
+horse, but being a much smaller animal than its sire, and therefore
+approaching the dam in size as well as in the comparative narrowness of
+its trunk. The operation of this principle, though general, is not
+universal. Exceptions may easily be cited. In almost every large family
+it will be observed that the likeness to the father predominates in some
+children, while others most resemble the mother. It is rare to meet with
+instances in which some distinctive traits of both parents may not be
+traced in the offspring.
+
+
+HAIR.
+
+Peculiarities in the colour and structure of the hair are transmitted.
+Darwin mentions a family in which, for many generations, some of the
+members had a single lock differently coloured from the rest of the
+hair.
+
+
+TEMPERAMENT.
+
+The law of inheritance rules in regard to the production of the
+temperament. The crossing of one temperament with another in marriage,
+produces a modification in the offspring generally advantageous.
+
+
+FERTILITY.
+
+A peculiar aptitude for procreation is sometimes hereditary. The
+children of prolific parents are themselves prolific. It is related that
+a French peasant woman was confined ten times in fifteen years. Her
+pregnancies, always multiple, produced twenty-eight children. At her
+last confinement she had three daughters, who all lived, married, and
+gave birth to children,--the first to twenty-six, the second to
+thirty-one, and the third to twenty-seven. On the contrary, sometimes a
+tendency to sterility is found fixed upon certain families, from which
+they can only escape by the most assiduous care.
+
+
+LONGEVITY.
+
+In the vegetable kingdom, the oak inherits the power to live many years,
+while the peach-tree must die in a short time. In the animal kingdom,
+the robin becomes grey and old at ten years of age; the rook caws
+lustily until a hundred. The ass is much longer-lived than the horse.
+The mule illustrates in a striking manner the hereditary tendency of
+longevity. It has the size of the horse, the long life of the ass. The
+weaker the ass, the larger, the stronger, and the shorter-lived and more
+horse-like the mule. It is also a curious and instructive fact, that
+this animal is the toughest after it has passed the age of the horse:
+the inherited influence of the horse having been expended, the vitality
+and hardiness of the ass remain.
+
+It is universally conceded, that longevity is the privileged possession
+of some lineages. That famous instance of old age, Thomas Parr, the
+best authenticated on record, may be mentioned in illustration. It is
+vouched for by Harvey, the distinguished discoverer of the circulation
+of the blood. Parr died in the reign of Charles the First, at the age of
+152, after having lived under nine sovereigns of England. He left a
+daughter aged 127. His father had attained to a great age, and his
+great-grandson died at Cork at the age of 103.
+
+
+DEFORMITIES.
+
+Deformities are undoubtedly sometimes transmitted to the progeny. It is
+by no means rare to find that the immediate ancestors of those afflicted
+with superfluous fingers and toes, club-feet, or hare-lips, were also
+the subjects of these malformations. There are one or two families in
+Germany whose members pride themselves upon the possession of an extra
+thumb; and there is an Arab chieftain whose ancestors have from time
+immemorial been distinguished by a double thumb upon the right hand.
+Darwin gives many similar instances. A case of curious displacement of
+the knee-pans is recorded, in which the father, sister, son, and the son
+of the half-brother by the same father, had all the same malformation.
+
+
+PERSONAL PECULIARITIES.
+
+Gait, gestures, voice, general bearing, are all inherited. Peculiar
+manners, passing into tricks, are often transmitted, as in the case,
+often quoted, of the father who generally slept on his back with his
+right leg crossed over the left, and whose daughter, whilst an infant
+in the cradle, followed exactly the same habit, though an attempt was
+made to cure her. Left-handedness is not unfrequently hereditary. It
+would be very easy to go on multiplying instances, but we forbear.
+
+
+HOW TO HAVE BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN.
+
+A practical question now naturally suggests itself. How can the vices of
+conformation be avoided, and beauty secured? The art of having handsome
+children, known under the name of _callipaedia_, has received much
+attention, more, perhaps, in years gone by than of late. The noted Abbot
+Quillet wrote a book in Latin on the subject. Many other works, in which
+astrology plays a prominent part, were written on this art in the
+sixteenth and seventeenth centuries.
+
+We have already stated that well-formed parents will transmit these
+qualities to their children, with scarcely an exception. Like begets
+like. Unfortunately, all parents are not beautiful. Yet all desire
+beautiful offspring. The body of the child can be influenced by the mind
+of the parent, particularly of the mother. A mind habitually filled with
+pleasant fancies and charming images is not without its effect upon the
+offspring.
+
+The statues of Apollo, Castor and Pollux, Venus, Hebe, and the other
+gods and goddesses which were so numerous in the gardens and public
+places in Greece, reproduced themselves in the sons and daughters of the
+passers-by. We know also that marriages contracted at an age too early
+or too late, are apt to give imperfectly-developed children. The
+crossing of temperaments and of nationalities beautifies the offspring.
+The custom which has prevailed, in many countries, among the nobility,
+of purchasing the handsomest girls they could find for their wives, has
+laid the foundation of a higher type of features among the ruling
+classes. To obtain this desired end, conception should take place only
+when both parents are in the best physical condition, at the proper
+season of the year, and with mutual passion. (We have already hinted how
+this can be regulated.) During pregnancy the mother should often have
+some painting or engraving representing cheerful and beautiful figures
+before her eyes, or often contemplate some graceful statue. She should
+avoid looking at, or thinking of ugly people, or those marked with
+disfiguring diseases. She should take every precaution to escape injury,
+fright, and disease of any kind, especially chicken-pox, erysipelas, or
+such disorders as leave marks on the person. She should keep herself
+well nourished, as want of food nearly always injures the child. She
+should avoid ungraceful positions and awkward attitudes, as by some
+mysterious sympathy these are impressed on the child she carries. Let
+her cultivate grace and beauty in herself at such a time, and she will
+endow her child with them. As anger and irritability leave imprints on
+the features, she should maintain serenity and calmness.
+
+
+INHERITANCE OF TALENT AND GENIUS.
+
+The effects of inheritance are perhaps more marked upon the mind than
+upon the body. This need not surprise us. If the peculiar form of the
+brain can be transmitted, the mental attributes, the result of its
+organization, must necessarily also be transmitted.
+
+It is a matter of daily observation, that parents gifted with bright
+minds, cultivated by education, generally engender intelligent children;
+while the offspring of those steeped in ignorance are stupid from birth.
+It may be objected, that men the most remarkable in ancient or modern
+times, as Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, Shakspeare, Milton, Buffon,
+Cuvier, etc., have not transmitted their vast intellectual powers to
+their progeny. In explanation, it has been stated that what is known as
+genius is not transmissible. The creation of a man of genius seems to
+require a special effort of Nature, after which, as if fatigued, she
+reposes a long time before again making a similar effort. But it may
+well be doubted whether even those complex mental attributes on which
+genius and talent depend are not inheritable, particularly when both
+parents are thus endowed. That distinguished men do not more frequently
+have distinguished sons, may readily be accounted for when it is
+recollected that the inherited character is due to the combined
+influence of both parents. The desirable qualities of the father may
+therefore be neutralized in the offspring by the opposite or defective
+qualities of the mother. That contrasts in the disposition of parents
+are rather the rule than the exception, we have already shown. Every one
+tends to unite himself in friendship or love with a different character
+from his own, seeking thereby to supplement the qualities in which he
+feels his own nature to be deficient. The mother, therefore, may weaken,
+and perhaps obliterate, the qualities transmitted by the father. Again,
+the influence of some remote ancestors may make itself felt upon the
+offspring through the operation of the law of atavism, before alluded
+to, and thus prevent the children from equaling their parents in their
+natural endowments. Notwithstanding the workings of these opposing
+forces, and others which might be mentioned, we find abundant
+illustration of the hereditary nature of talent and character.
+
+Of six hundred and five names occurring in a biographical dictionary
+devoted to men distinguished as great founders and originators, between
+the years 1453 and 1853, there were, as has been pointed out by Mr.
+Galton, no less than one hundred and two relationships, or one in six.
+Walford's _Men of the Time_ contains an account of the distinguished men
+in England, the Continent, and America, then living. Under the letter A
+there are eighty-five names, and no less than twenty-five of these, or
+one in three and a half, have relatives also in the list; twelve of them
+are brothers, and eleven fathers and sons. In Bryan's _Dictionary of
+Painters_, the letter A contains three hundred and ninety-one names of
+men, of whom sixty-five are near relatives, or one in six; thirty-three
+of them are fathers and sons, and thirty are brothers. In Fetis's
+_Biographie Universelle des Musiciens_, the letter A contains five
+hundred and fifteen names, of which fifty are near relatives, or one in
+ten. Confining ourselves to literature alone, it has been found that it
+is one to six and a half that a very distinguished literary man has a
+very distinguished literary relative; and it is one to twenty-eight that
+the relation is father and son, or brother and brother, respectively.
+Among the thirty-nine Chancellors of England, sixteen had kinsmen of
+eminence; thirteen of them had kinsmen of great eminence. These thirteen
+out of thirty-nine, or one in three, are certainly remarkable instances
+of the influence of inheritance. A similar examination has been
+instituted in regard to the judges of the Supreme Court of
+Massachusetts, and other American States, with like results. The Greek
+poet AEschylus counted eight poets and four musicians among his
+ancestors. The greater part of the celebrated sculptors of ancient
+Greece descended from a family of sculptors. The same is true of the
+great painters. The sister of Mozart shared the musical talent of her
+brother. As there are reasons, to be detailed hereafter, for believing
+that the influence of the mother is even greater than that of the
+father, how vastly would the offspring be improved if distinguished men
+united themselves in marriage to distinguished women for generation
+after generation!
+
+
+INFLUENCE OF FATHERS OVER DAUGHTERS; OF MOTHERS OVER SONS.
+
+We have already called attention to the parts of the physical
+organization transmitted by the father and by the mother. It would seem,
+moreover, that each parent exercises a special influence over the child
+according to its sex. The father transmits to the daughters the form of
+the head, the framework of the chest and of the superior extremities,
+while the conformation of the lower portion of the body and the inferior
+extremities is transmitted by the mother. With the sons this is
+reversed. They derive from the mother the shape of the head and of the
+superior extremities, and resemble the father in the trunk and inferior
+extremities. From this it therefore results, that boys procreated by
+intelligent women will be intelligent, and that girls procreated by
+fathers of talent will inherit their mental capacity. The mothers of a
+nation, though unseen and unacknowledged in the halls of legislation,
+determine in this subtle manner the character of the laws.
+
+History informs us that the greater part of the women who have been
+celebrated for their intelligence, reflected the genius of their
+fathers. Arete, the most celebrated woman of her time, on account of the
+extent of her knowledge, was the daughter of the distinguished
+philosopher Aristippus, disciple of Socrates. Cornelia, the mother of
+the Gracchi, was a daughter of Scipio. The daughter of the Roman emperor
+Caligula was as cruel as her father. Marcus Aurelius inherited the
+virtues of his mother, and Commodus the vices of his. Charlemagne shut
+his eyes upon the faults of his daughters, because they recalled his
+own. Genghis-Khan, the renowned Asiatic conqueror, had for his mother a
+warlike woman. Tamerlane, the greatest warrior of the fourteenth
+century, was descended from Genghis-Khan by the female side. Catherine
+de Medicis was as crafty and deceitful as her father, and more
+superstitious and cruel. She had two sons worthy of herself,--Charles
+IX., who shot the Protestants, and Henry III., who assassinated the
+Guises. Her daughter, Margaret of Valois, recalled her father by her
+gentle manners. The cruel deeds of Alexander VI., the dark records of
+which will for ever stain the pages of history, are only rivaled in
+atrocity by those of his children, the infamous Borgias. Arete, Hypatia,
+Madame de Stael, and George Sand,--all four had philosophers for their
+fathers. The mother of Bernardo Tasso had the gift of poetry. Buffon
+often speaks of the rich imagination of his mother. The poet Burns,
+'Rare Ben Jonson,' Goethe, Walter Scott, Byron, and Lamartine,--all were
+born of women remarkable for their vivacity and brilliancy of language.
+Byron, in his journal, attributes his hypochondria to a hereditary taint
+derived from his mother, who was its victim in its most furious form;
+and her father 'was strongly suspected of suicide.' He was said to have
+resembled more his maternal grandfather than any of his father's family.
+The daughter of Moliere was like her father in her wit and humor.
+Beethoven had for a maternal grandmother an excellent musician. The
+mother of Mozart gave the first lessons to her son. A crowd of composers
+have descended from John Sebastian Bach, who long stood unrivaled as a
+performer on the organ, and composer for that instrument. It may be
+remarked here, that it is almost invariably true that the ability or
+inability to acquire a knowledge of music is derived from the ancestry.
+Parents who cannot turn a tune or tell one note from another, bring
+forth children equally unmoved 'with concord of sweet sounds.' Examples
+could easily be adduced at still greater length, illustrating the direct
+influence of the father over the daughter, and of the mother over the
+son. Those given will suffice.
+
+
+INFLUENCE Of EDUCATION OVER INHERITED QUALITIES.
+
+In correcting the evil effects of inheritance on the mind, education
+plays a very important part. A child born with a tendency to some vice
+or intellectual trait, may have this tendency entirely overcome, or at
+least modified, by training. So, also, virtues implanted by nature may
+be lost during the plastic days of youth, in consequence of bad
+associations and bad habits.
+
+Education can therefore do much to alter inherited mental and moral
+qualities. Can it be invoked to prevent the transmission of undesirable
+traits, and secure the good? Everything that we have at birth is a
+heritage from our ancestors. Can virtuous habits be transmitted? Can we
+secure virtues in our children by possessing them ourselves? Science
+sadly says, through her latest votaries, that we are scarcely more than
+passive transmitters of a nature we have received, and which we have no
+power to modify. It is only after exposure during several generations to
+changed conditions or habits, that any modification in the offspring
+ensues. The son of an old soldier learns his drill no more quickly than
+the son of an artisan. We must therefore come to the conclusion with Mr.
+Galton, that to a great extent our own embryos have sprung immediately
+from the embryos whence our parents were developed, and these from the
+embryos of their parents, and so on for ever. Hence we are still
+barbarians in our nature. We show it in a thousand ways. Children, who
+love to dig and play in the dirt, have inherited that instinct from
+untold generations of ancestors. Our remote forefathers were barbarians,
+who dug with their nails to get at the roots on which they lived. The
+delicately-reared child reverts to primeval habits. In like manner, the
+silk-haired, parlor-nurtured spaniel springs from the caressing arms of
+its mistress, to revel in the filth of the roadside. It is the breaking
+out of inherited instinct.
+
+
+TRANSMISSION OF DISEASE.
+
+Perhaps the most important part of the subject of inheritance, is that
+which remains for us to consider in relation to the transmission of
+disease, or of a predisposition to it.
+
+Consumption,--that dread foe of modern life,--is the most frequently
+encountered of all affections as the result of inherited predisposition.
+Indeed some of the most eminent physicians have believed it is never
+produced in any other way. Heart disease, disease of the throat,
+excessive obesity, affections of the skin, asthma, disorders of the
+brain and nervous system, gout, rheumatism, and cancer, are all
+hereditary. A tendency to bleed frequently, profusely and
+uncontrollably, from trifling wounds, is often met with as a family
+affection.
+
+The inheritance of diseased conditions is also _influenced by the sex_.
+A parent may transmit disease exclusively to children of the same sex,
+or exclusively to those of the opposite sex. Thus, a horn-like
+projection on the skin peculiar to the Lambert family was transmitted
+from the father to his sons and grandsons alone. So mothers have through
+several generations transmitted to their daughters alone supernumerary
+fingers, color-blindness, and other deformities and diseases. As a
+general rule, any disease acquired during the life of either parent,
+strongly tends to be inherited by the offspring of the same sex rather
+than the opposite. We have spoken of the apparently reverse tendency in
+regard to the transmission of genius and talent.
+
+
+ARE MUTILATIONS INHERITABLE?
+
+How, it may be inquired, is it in regard to the inheritance of parts
+mutilated and altered by injuries and disease during the life of either
+parent? In some cases mutilations have been practised for many
+generations, without any inherited result. Different races of men have
+knocked out their upper teeth, cut off the joints of their fingers, made
+immense holes through their ears and nostrils, and deep gashes in
+various parts of their bodies, and yet there is no reason for supposing
+that these mutilations have been inherited. The _Comprachicos_, a
+hideous and strange association of men and women, existed in the
+seventeenth century, whose business it was to buy children and make of
+them monsters. Victor Hugo, in a recent work, has graphically told how
+they took a face and made of it a snout, how they bent down growth,
+kneaded the physiognomy, distorted the eyes, and in other ways
+disfigured 'the human form divine,' in order to make fantastic
+playthings for the amusement of the noble-born. But history does not
+state that these deformities were inherited; certainly no race of
+monsters has resulted. The pits from small-pox are not inherited, though
+many successive generations must have been thus pitted by that disease
+before the beneficent discovery of the immortal Jenner. Children born
+with scars left by pustules have had small-pox in the womb, acquired
+through the system of the mother. On the other hand, the lower animals,
+cats, dogs, and horses, which have had their tails and legs artificially
+altered or injured, have produced offspring with the same condition of
+parts. A man who had his little finger on the right hand almost cut off,
+and which in consequence grew crooked, had sons with the same finger on
+the same hand similarly crooked. The eminent physiologist Dr.
+Brown-Sequard mentions, that many young guinea-pigs inherited an
+epileptic tendency from parents which had been subjected to an operation
+at his hands resulting in the artificial production of fits; while a
+large number of guinea-pigs bred from animals which had not been
+operated on were not thus affected. At any rate, it cannot but be
+admitted that injuries and mutilations which cause disease, are
+occasionally inherited. But many cases of deformities existing at birth,
+as hare-lip, are not due to inheritance, although present in the father.
+They arise from a change effected in the child while in the womb,
+through an impression made upon the mind of the mother, as will be shown
+hereafter.
+
+
+LATE MANIFESTATIONS OF THE EFFECTS OF INHERITANCE.
+
+Not only are diseases inherited which make their appearance at birth,
+but those which defer their exhibition until a certain period of life
+corresponding with that at which they showed themselves in the parents.
+Thus in the Lambert family, before referred to, the porcupine
+excrescence on the skin began to grow in the father and sons at the same
+age, namely, about nine weeks after birth. In an extraordinary hairy
+family, which has been described, children were produced during three
+generations with hairy ears: in the father, the hair began to grow over
+his body at six years old; in his daughter somewhat earlier, namely, at
+one year; and in both generations the milk teeth appeared late in life,
+the permanent teeth being deficient. Greyness of hair at an unusually
+early age has been transmitted in some families. So, also, has the
+premature appearance of baldness.
+
+
+HOW TO AVOID THE TENDENCY OF INHERITANCE.
+
+These facts suggest the practical consideration, that in those diseases
+the predisposition to which alone is inherited, and which break out only
+after a lapse of time, it is often altogether possible to prevent the
+predisposition being developed into positive disease. Thus, for
+instance, the inherited tendency to _consumption_ remains asleep in the
+system until about the age of puberty, or later. Therefore, by the use
+of a diet in which animal food forms a large portion, properly
+regulated, and systematic exercise in the open air, the practice of the
+long inhalations before recommended, warm, comfortable clothing,
+together with a residence, if practicable, during the changeable and
+inclement seasons of the year, in an equable climate, we can often
+entirely arrest the development of the disease. Prevention here is not
+only better than cure, but often all that is possible. Those in whom the
+disease has become active, must too often, like those who entered
+Dante's infernal regions, 'abandon hope.' Let our words of caution
+therefore be heeded.
+
+When there is reason to believe that an individual possesses an inherent
+tendency to any disease, it is the duty of the medical adviser to study
+the constitution of the patient thoroughly, and after such study to
+recommend those measures of prevention best suited to avert the
+threatened disorder. Above all, let the physician look closely to the
+child at the period of life when any grave constitutional inheritable
+disease attacked the parent. This supervision should be carried into
+adult years, for there are instances on record of inherited diseases
+coming on at an advanced age, as in that of a grandfather, father, and
+son, who all became insane and committed suicide near their fiftieth
+year. Gout, apoplexy, insanity, chronic disease of the heart, epilepsy,
+consumption, asthma, and other diseases, are all more or less under the
+control of preventive measures. Some hereditary diseases, such as idiocy
+and cancer, we are impotent to prevent, in the present state of our
+knowledge.
+
+A singular fact in connection with the transmission of disease is the
+readiness with which a whole generation is passed over, the affection
+appearing in the next. A father or mother with consumption may in some
+instances have healthy children, but the grandchildren will die of the
+disease. Nature kindly favors one generation, but only at the expense of
+the next.
+
+Some diseases require, in addition to the general means of prevention to
+be found in a strict observance of the laws of health, some special
+measures in order to effectually ward off their appearance. But the
+extent of this work will not admit of their discussion. Already, indeed,
+have we unduly, perhaps, extended our remarks upon inheritance. The
+interest and importance of the facts must be our justification.
+
+
+WHY ARE WOMEN REDUNDANT?
+
+It cannot be without interest to look into the relative proportion of
+men and women now living. It will interest us still more to inquire into
+the reason why one sex preponderates over the other in numbers. This
+done, we will answer the question; Is the production of sex at all under
+the influence of the human will?
+
+The female sex is the more numerous in all thickly populated parts of
+the world where we have trustworthy statistics. In Austria, England, and
+Wales, there are nearly one hundred and five women for every one hundred
+men. In Sweden they are as one hundred and nine to one hundred. In all
+cities the disproportion is greater than in the country. In London there
+are one hundred and thirteen women to every one hundred men; and in the
+large towns of Sweden they stand as one hundred and sixteen to one
+hundred.
+
+This is not true, however, of newly-populated regions. The relative
+difference is reversed in recent and thinly-settled localities. In our
+Western States, for instance, the number of the men exceeds that of the
+women. In California they are as three to one; in Nevada as eight to
+one; in Colorado, twenty to one. In the State of Illinois there were,
+according to a recent United States census, ninety-three thousand more
+men than women. In Massachusetts, on the contrary, there are between
+fifty and sixty thousand more women than men.
+
+The disproportion of men to women in new countries is due to the
+disinclination of women to emigrate. They are also unfitted for the
+hardships of pioneer life.
+
+How is this general preponderance in the number of women produced? Is it
+because there are more girls born than boys? Not at all. The statistics
+of over fifty-eight millions of persons show that there are one hundred
+and six living boys born to every one hundred girls. In the state of
+Rhode Island, for instance, the proportion for three years, from 1853 to
+1855, was one thousand and sixty-four boys born to one thousand girls.
+But now we meet with the wonderful arrangement of nature, that a larger
+proportional number of male infants die during the first year of their
+lives than of females. In the second year, the mortality, though less
+excessive, still remains far greater on the male side. It subsequently
+decreases, and at the age of four or five years is nearly equal for both
+sexes. In after life, from the age of fifteen to forty, the mortality is
+something greater among women, but not sufficiently so to make the
+number of the two sexes equal. The greater tendency of male offspring to
+die early is seen even before birth, for more male children are
+still-born than female,--namely, as three to two. For this reason, the
+term 'the stronger sex,' applied to men, has been regarded by some
+authors as a misnomer. They are physically weaker in early life, and
+succumb more readily to noxious influences.
+
+Having thus pointed out that there are more women actually living in the
+world than men, although a larger number of boys are born than girls, we
+will consider for a moment some of the laws of nature which determine
+the number of the sexes. Without giving the figures,--which would make
+dry reading,--we will state in brief the conclusions derived from many
+observations, extending over many years and many nationalities. The
+relative age of the parents has an especial influence upon the sex of
+the children. Seniority on the father's side gives excess of male
+offspring. Equality in the parents' age gives a slight preponderance of
+female offspring. Seniority on the mother's side gives excess of female
+offspring. This tallies with the fact that in all civilized countries,
+as has been stated, the proportion of male births is greater than that
+of females; for, in accordance with the customs of society, the husband
+is generally older than the wife. A curious instance, in confirmation
+of this law, has recently come under our observation. A patient, married
+for the second time, is ten years older than her husband. She has two
+children by him, both girls. Singular to relate, her former husband was
+ten years older than herself, and by him she had four children, of whom
+three were boys, the fourth (a girl) having a twin brother.
+
+Still, the relative age is not the sole cause which fixes the sex of the
+child. Its operation is sometimes overruled by conflicting agencies. In
+some districts of Norway, for example, there has been a constant
+deficiency in boys, while in others the reverse has been the case. The
+circumstance is well known, that after great wars, and sometimes
+epidemics, in which a disproportionate number of men have died, more
+boys are born than usual. Men who pass a sedentary life, and especially
+scholars who exhaust their nervous force to a great extent, beget more
+girls than boys. So, also, a very advanced age on the man's side
+diminishes the number of males among the offspring. The quantity and the
+quality of the food; the elevation of the abode; the conditions of
+temperature; the parents' mode of life, rank, religious belief,
+frequency of sexual intercourse,--have all been shown to be causes
+contributing to the disproportion of the sexes, besides the relative
+ages of the parents.
+
+Some writers have stated that a southerly or warm and humid constitution
+of the year is most favorable to the birth of female infants, while in
+cold and dry years most males are produced. This statement has not been
+supported by trustworthy statistics in regard to the human race, but in
+respect of domestic animals the agriculturists of France have long
+observed that the season has much to do with the sex. When the weather
+is dry and cold, and the wind northerly, mares, ewes, and heifers
+produce more males than when the opposite meteorological condition
+prevails.
+
+The saying among nurses, that 'This is the year for sons or daughters,'
+is based upon the erroneous supposition that mothers bring forth more
+male infants in one year than in another.
+
+That, however, which concerns us the most in this connection, is the
+question:
+
+
+CAN THE SEXES BE PRODUCED AT WILL?
+
+This question was asked many centuries ago. It was a hard one, and
+remained without a satisfactory answer until quite recently. Science has
+at last replied to it with authority. M. Thury, Professor in the Academy
+of Geneva, has shown how males and females may be produced in accordance
+with our wishes.
+
+Some families are most anxious for male offspring, others ardently
+desire daughters. And would it not often be a matter of national concern
+to control the percentage of sexes in the population? Is it not a
+'consummation most devoutly to be wished,' to bring about that Utopian
+condition when there would be no sighing maids at home, nor want of
+warriors in the field? The discussion of this subject is therefore
+important and allowable.
+
+It has been observed that queen-bees lay female eggs first, and male
+eggs afterwards. So with hens: the first-laid eggs give female, the
+last male products. Mares shown the stallion late in their periods, drop
+horse-colts rather than fillies.
+
+Professor Thury, from the consideration of these and other like facts,
+formed this law for stock-raisers: 'If you wish to produce females, give
+the male at the first signs of heat; if you wish males, give him at the
+end of the heat.' But it is easy to form a theory. How was this law
+sustained in practice? We have now in our possession the certificate of
+a Swiss stock-grower, son of the President of the Swiss Agricultural
+Society, Canton de Vaud, under date of February 1867, which says:
+
+'In the first place, on twenty-two successive occasions I desired to
+have heifers. My cows were of Schurtz breed, and my bull a pure Durham.
+I succeeded in these cases. Having bought a pure Durham cow, it was very
+important for me to have a new bull, to supersede the one I had bought
+at great expense, without leaving to chance the production of a male. So
+I followed accordingly the prescription of Professor Thury, and the
+success has proved once more the truth of the law. I have obtained from
+my Durham bull six more bulls (Schurtz-Durham cross) for fieldwork; and
+having chosen cows of the same color and height, I obtained perfect
+matches of oxen. My herd amounted to forty cows of every age.
+
+'In short, I have made in all twenty-nine experiments after the new
+method, and in every one I succeeded in the production of what I was
+looking for--male and female. I had not one single failure. All the
+experiments have been made by myself, without any other person's
+intervention; consequently, I do declare that I consider as real and
+certainly perfect the method of Professor Thury.'
+
+A perfectly trustworthy observer communicates by the _Medical and
+Surgical Reporter_ of Philadelphia for May 2, 1868, the results of
+similar experiments on animals, with like conclusions.
+
+The plan of M. Thury was also tried on the farms of the late Emperor of
+the French, with, it is asserted, the most unvarying success.
+
+What is the result of the application of this law to the human race? Dr.
+F. J. W. Packman, of Wimborne, has stated in the _Lancet_, that, 'in the
+human female, conception in the first half of the time between menstrual
+periods produces female offspring, and male in the latter. When a female
+has gone beyond the time she calculated upon, it will generally turn out
+to be a boy.'
+
+In the Philadelphia _Medical and Surgical Reporter_ for February 8,
+1868, a respectable physician writes that, in numerous instances that
+have come under his observation, Professor Thury's theory has proved
+correct, 'Whenever intercourse has taken place in from two to six days
+after the cessation of the menses, girls have been produced; and
+whenever intercourse has taken place in from nine to twelve days after
+the cessation of the menses, boys have been produced. In every case I
+have ascertained not only the date at which the mother placed
+conception, but also the time when the menses ceased, the date of the
+first and subsequent intercourse for a month or more after the
+cessation of the menses,' etc.
+
+Again, a physician writes to the same journal for June 20, 1868,
+recording the result of his own experience.
+
+A farmer in Louisiana states, in the _Turf, Field, and Farm_, in support
+of this law, that 'I have already been able in many cases to guess with
+certainty the sex of a future infant. More than thirty times, among my
+friends, I have predicted the sex of a child before its birth, and the
+event proved nearly every time that I was right.'
+
+The wife, therefore, who would wish, as Macbeth desired of his, to
+
+ 'Bring forth men-children only,'
+
+should avoid exposing herself to conception during the early part of the
+time between her menstrual periods.
+
+The prediction of the sex of the child before birth can now be with some
+accuracy made by the intelligent and skilful physician. The method of
+doing so will be mentioned in treating of pregnancy.
+
+
+TWIN-BEARING.
+
+As a rule, a woman has one child at a time. Twins, when they occur, are
+looked upon with disfavor by most people. There is a popular notion that
+they are apt to be wanting in physical and mental vigor. This opinion is
+not without foundation. A careful scientific examination of the subject
+has shown, that of imbeciles and idiots a much larger proportion is
+actually found among the twins born than in the general community. In
+families where twinning is frequent, bodily deformities likewise occur
+with frequency. Among the relatives of imbeciles and idiots,
+twin-bearing is common. In fact, the whole history of twin-births is of
+an exceptional character, indicating imperfect development and feeble
+organization in the product, and leading us to regard twins in the human
+species as a departure from the physiological rule, and therefore
+injurious to all concerned. Monsters born without brains have rarely
+occurred except among twins.
+
+The birth of twins occurs once in about eighty deliveries. A woman is
+more apt to have no children than to have more than one at a time. In
+view of the increased danger to both mother and child, this rarity of a
+plural birth is fortunate.
+
+
+WHY ARE TWINS BORN?
+
+What are the causes or favouring circumstances bringing about this
+abnormal child-bearing? For it is brought about by the operation of
+laws. It is not an accident. There are no accidents in nature. By some
+it is supposed to be due to the mother, by some to the father. There are
+facts in favour of both opinions. Certain women married successively to
+several men have always had twins, while their husbands with other wives
+have determined single births. Certain men have presented the same
+phenomenon. We can scarcely cite an example more astonishing than that
+of a countryman who was presented to the Empress of Russia in 1755. He
+had had two wives. The first had fifty-seven children in twenty-one
+confinements; the second, thirty-three in thirteen. All the confinements
+had been quadruple, triple, or double. A case has come under our own
+observation in which the bearing of twins has seemed to be due to a
+constitutional cause. The wife has nine children. The first was a single
+birth, a girl; the others were all twin-births, and boys.
+
+It has been asserted that compound pregnancies are more frequent in
+certain years than in others. But that which seems to exert the greatest
+actual influence over the production of twins is the age of the mother.
+Very extensive statistics have demonstrated that, from the earliest
+child-bearing period until the age of forty is reached, the fertility of
+mothers in twins gradually increases. Between the ages of twenty and
+thirty, fewest wives have twins. The average age of the twin-bearer is
+older than the general run of bearers. It is well known that by far the
+greater number of twins are born of elderly women. While three-fifths of
+all births occur among women under thirty years of age, three-fifths of
+all the twins are born to those over thirty years of age. Newly-married
+women are more likely to have twins at the first labour the older they
+are. The chance that a young wife from fifteen to nineteen shall bear
+twins is only as one to one hundred and eighty-nine; from thirty-five to
+thirty-nine the chance is as one to forty-five,--that is, the wives
+married youngest have fewest twins; and there is an increase as age
+advances, until forty is reached.
+
+Race seems to have some influence over plural births. They occur
+relatively oftener among the Irish than among the English.
+
+
+INFLUENCE OF TWIN-BEARING ON SIZE OF FAMILIES.
+
+Do women bearing twins have in the end larger families than those never
+having but one at a time? Popular belief would answer this question in
+the affirmative. Such a reply would also seem to receive support from
+the fact, well established, that twins are more frequently additions to
+an already considerable family than they are either the first of a
+family or additional to a small family. But statistics have not answered
+this question as yet positively. They seem, however, in favour of the
+supposition that twin-bearing women have larger families than their
+neighbors.
+
+Women are more apt to have twins in their first pregnancy than any
+other, but after the second confinement the bearing of twins increases
+in frequency with the number of the pregnancy. It becomes, therefore, an
+indication of an excessive family, and is to be deplored.
+
+
+MORE THAN TWO CHILDREN AT A BIRTH.
+
+Cases of the birth of more than two children at a time are still less
+frequently met with than twins. They are scarcely ever encountered,
+excepting in women who have passed their thirtieth year. Such cases are
+all more or less unfortunate both for the mother and the children.
+
+
+THREE AT A BIRTH.
+
+The births of triplets are not exclusively confined to women above
+thirty years, but in those younger they are so rare as to be great
+curiosities. Neither are they apt to occur in the first pregnancy. In
+this respect they differ from twins, who, as has just been said, are
+peculiarly prone to make their appearance at the first childbirth. Only
+four cases of treble births occurred among the 36,000 accouchements
+which have taken place in the Hospice de Maternite of Paris in a
+determined time. Out of 48,000 cases of labor in the Royal Maternity
+Charity in London, only three triplets occurred. History informs us that
+the three Roman brothers, the Horatii, were triplets. They fought and
+conquered the three Curiatii of Alba (667 B. C.) who were likewise
+triplets.
+
+As an interesting fact in connection with this subject, we may mention
+that in the St. Petersburg Midwives' Institute, between 1845-59, there
+were three women admitted, who, in their fifteenth pregnancies, had
+triplets, and each had triplets three times in succession. Happily, the
+fifteenth pregnancy is not reached by most women.
+
+
+FOUR AT A BIRTH.
+
+Instances of quadruplets are fewer than triplets. But four vigorous
+infants have been born at one birth.
+
+
+FIVE AT A BIRTH.
+
+The birth of _five_ living children at a time is very exceptional, and
+is usually fatal to the offspring. A remarkable case of this kind is
+reported in a late medical journal. A woman aged thirty, the wife of a
+laborer, and the mother of six children, was taken in labor about the
+seventh month of her pregnancy. Five children, and all alive, were given
+birth to,--three boys and two girls. Four of the children survived an
+hour, and died within a few moments of each other. The fifth, a female,
+and the last born, lived six hours, and was so vigorous that,
+notwithstanding its diminutive size, hopes were entertained of its
+surviving.
+
+Another case is reported in a recent French medical journal. The woman
+was forty years old. She had had twins once, and single children five
+times. On her seventh pregnancy, when five months gone, she was as large
+as women usually are at the end of their full term. At the close of the
+month she was delivered of five children. They were all born alive, and
+lived from four to seven minutes. All five children were males, well
+built and as well developed as foetuses of five and one-half months
+usually are in a single birth. The woman made a good recovery. Other
+cases of five at a birth might be quoted. They are known to medical
+science as very singular and noteworthy occurrences.
+
+
+INCREDIBLE NUMBERS.
+
+Some books speak of seven, eight, nine, ten, and more, children at a
+birth. But these statements are so marvelous, so incredible, and
+unsupported by proper testimony, that they do not merit any degree of
+confidence. The climax of such extraordinary assertions is reached, and
+a good illustration of the credulity of the seventeenth century
+furnished, by a writer named Goftr. This traveller, in 1630, saw a
+tablet in a church at Leusdown (Lausdunum), about five miles from the
+Hague, with an inscription stating that a certain illustrious countess,
+whose name and family he records, brought forth at one birth, in the
+fortieth year of her age, in the year 1276, 365 infants. They were all
+baptized by Guido, the Suffragan. The males were called John, and the
+females Elizabeth. They all, with their mother, died on the same day,
+and were buried in the above-mentioned church. This monstrous birth was
+said to have been caused by the sin of the countess in insulting a poor
+woman with twins in her arms, who prayed that her insulter might have at
+one birth the same number of children as there were days in the year. Of
+course, notwithstanding the story being attested by a tablet in a
+church, it must be placed among the many other instances of superstition
+afforded by an ignorant and credulous era.
+
+We may remark, in closing this subject, that fewer plural births come to
+maturity than pregnancies with single children. Miscarriages are
+comparatively more frequent in such pregnancies than in ordinary ones.
+
+
+
+
+PREGNANCY
+
+
+_VENERATION FOR THE PREGNANT._
+
+We have been considering woman hitherto as maiden and wife. She now
+approaches the sacred threshold of maternity. She is with child. In no
+period of her life is she the subject of an interest so profound and
+general. The young virgin and the new wife have pleased by their grace,
+spirit, and beauty. The pregnant wife is an object of active benevolence
+and religious respect. It is interesting to note how, at all times and
+in all countries, she has been treated with considerate kindness and
+great deference. She has been made the subject of public veneration, and
+sometimes even of religious worship. At Athens and at Carthage the
+murderer escaped from the sword of justice if he sought refuge in the
+house of a pregnant woman. The Jews allowed her to eat forbidden meats.
+The laws of Moses pronounced the penalty of death against all those who
+by bad treatment or any act of violence caused a woman to abort.
+Lycurgus compared women who died in pregnancy to the brave dead on the
+field of honour, and accorded to them sepulchral inscriptions. In
+ancient Rome, where all citizens were obliged to rise and stand during
+the passage of a magistrate, wives were excused from rendering this mark
+of respect, for the reason that the exertion and hurry of the movement
+might be injurious to them in the state in which they were supposed to
+be. In the kingdom of Pannonia all enceinte women were in such
+veneration, that a man meeting one on the road was obliged, under
+penalty of a fine, to turn back and accompany and protect her to her
+place of destination. The Catholic Church has in all times exempted
+pregnant wives from fasts. The Egyptians decreed, and in most Christian
+countries the law at the present time obtains, that if a woman shall be
+convicted of an offence the punishment of which is death, the sentence
+shall not be executed if it be proved that she is pregnant.
+
+
+SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS OF PREGNANCY.
+
+1. The sign most commonly relied upon is the _cessation of the monthly
+sickness_. The wife who misses the expected return of her illness, is
+apt to conclude that conception has taken place. This sign is far from
+being an infallible one.
+
+It should be borne in mind that young married women sometimes have a
+slight show for two or three periods after their first impregnation.
+Ignorance of this fact has very frequently led to a miscalculation of
+the time of confinement. On the other hand, the menses will sometimes
+become arrested soon after marriage, and continue so for one or two
+months, without there existing any pregnancy. The temporary
+disappearance of the monthly sickness in such cases is due to the
+profound impression made upon the system by the new relations of the
+individual.
+
+It not unfrequently happens that menstruation continues with regularity
+during the whole period of pregnancy. Exceptional cases are given by
+distinguished writers on midwifery, of women menstruating during their
+pregnancy, and at no other time.
+
+As a general rule, when a healthy wife misses her monthly sickness, she
+is pregnant. But this symptom, though a strong one, must be supported by
+others before it can be regarded as establishing anything.
+
+2. _Morning sickness_ is a very common, a very early, and, in the
+opinion of most mothers, a very conclusive symptom of pregnancy. We have
+already had occasion to remark that it sometimes makes its appearance
+almost simultaneously with conception. It usually comes on in the first
+few weeks, and continues until the third or fourth month or until
+quickening. This symptom is apt to be a troublesome one. Often the
+vomiting is slight, and immediately followed by relief. But it may
+produce violent and ineffectual straining for some time. It is, however,
+not to be called a disease: unless it proceeds to an exhausting degree,
+it must be looked upon as favorable and salutary. There is an old and
+true proverb, that 'a sick pregnancy is a safe one.' The absence of
+nausea and vomiting is a source of danger to the mother and child. Women
+who habitually fail to experience them, are exceedingly apt to miscarry.
+In such cases medical skill should be invoked to bring about the return
+of these symptoms, of such importance to healthful pregnancy.
+
+Morning sickness is therefore a very general, almost constant,
+accompaniment of the pregnant condition; and great dependence may be
+placed upon it as a sign.
+
+3. _Changes in the breasts_ are valuable as symptoms. They become larger
+and firmer, and the seat of a pricking or stinging sensation. The
+nipples are swollen, prominent, and sometimes sore or painful. The veins
+beneath the skin appear more conspicuous, and of a deeper blue than
+ordinary. The peculiar circles of rose-coloured skin which surround the
+nipples increase in extent, change to a darker color, and become covered
+with a number of little elevations. Subsequently, numerous mottled
+patches, or round spots of a whitish hue, scatter themselves over the
+outer part of this circle.
+
+The time at which these changes make their appearance is variable. They
+may begin to develope themselves in two or three weeks, oftener not
+until the second or third month, and in women of a delicate build,
+sometimes not until the latter end of pregnancy. Occasionally no
+alteration whatever occurs in the breasts until after confinement, in
+which cases the secretion of milk is delayed for several days after the
+birth of the child. In some rare instances the breasts never assume
+maternal proportions, and the mother is debarred from the pleasure and
+duty of nursing her own child.
+
+4. _Quickening_ is the next symptom we will consider. By this term is
+meant the arrival of that time when the mother first becomes conscious
+by the movements of the child of its presence. The ancients thought that
+then life was imparted to the new being. Modern physiology emphatically
+condemns this absurdity. The embryo is as much alive in the very
+earliest moments of pregnancy as at any future stage of its existence.
+Let every woman therefore remember that she who produces abortion is
+equally guilty in the eyes of science and of Heaven, whether the act be
+committed before or after the period of quickening.
+
+How is quickening produced? Undoubtedly by the movements of the child.
+So soon as its nervous and muscular systems become sufficiently
+developed to enable it to move its limbs, the mother, if the movements
+be sufficiently active, is rendered sensible of her situation. But the
+muscular contractions may not be strong enough to impart any sensation
+to the mother. In many cases in which they are too feeble to be noticed
+by herself, the skilled accoucheur is capable of recognizing them. And
+the movements of the foetus may be excited in various ways known to
+physicians.
+
+_Time of quickening._--This symptom usually occurs about the middle of
+pregnancy, near the eighteenth week. Some women feel the movements of
+the foetus as early as the third month of pregnancy, others not till the
+sixth month. Cases occur in which no movement whatever is felt until the
+eighth or ninth month, or even not at all. It has been suggested that a
+foetus which does not indicate its presence in this way is a kind of
+'Lazy Lawrence,' too indolent to move. Certainly, many of both sexes
+exhibit after birth such indomitable love of repose, that it can readily
+be supposed they were equally passive in foetal life.
+
+The non-occurrence of this sign may, however, be due to the debility of
+the young child, or to a want of sensibility in the walls of the womb
+itself.
+
+A woman may be deceived, and suppose she has quickened, when her
+sensations are to be traced to flatulence of the bowels, or perhaps a
+dropsical effusion. Many ludicrous instances of self-deception are on
+record. The historian Hume states that Queen Mary, in her extreme desire
+to have issue, so confidently asserted that she felt the movements of
+the child, that public proclamation was made of the interesting event.
+Despatches were sent to foreign courts; national rejoicings were had;
+the sex of the child was settled, for everybody was certain it was going
+to be a male; and Bonner, Bishop of London, made public prayers, saying
+that Heaven would pledge to make him beautiful, vigorous, and witty. But
+all those high hopes and eager expectations were destined never to be
+realized. The future disclosed that the supposed quickening was merely a
+consequence of disordered health, and commencing dropsy.
+
+Some women possess the power of imitating the movements of a foetus, by
+voluntary contraction of the abdominal muscles. A well-known colored
+woman of Charleston, 'Aunt Betty,' had a great reputation as having
+'been pregnant for fifteen years.' She made a good deal of money, by
+exhibiting to physicians and medical students who were curious, the
+pretended movements of her unborn child. She was repeatedly presented to
+the medical classes in the city. No pregnancy existed, as was revealed
+by a _post-mortem_ examination. She imposed upon the credulous by the
+habit she had acquired of jerking her muscles at pleasure, and thus
+closely simulating the movements of an embryo.
+
+5. _Changes in the abdomen._--In the first two months of pregnancy the
+abdomen is _less_ prominent than usual: it recedes, and presents a flat
+appearance. The navel is also drawn in and depressed. About the third
+month a swelling frequently shows itself in the lower part of the
+abdomen, and then diminishes, thus leading the wife to suppose that she
+was mistaken in her condition, for she finds herself at the fourth month
+smaller than at the third. After this, however, there is a gradual
+increase in the size and hardness of the abdomen. What is of more value,
+is the peculiar form of the swelling. It is pear-shaped, and is thus
+distinguished from the swelling of dropsy and other affections. The
+navel begins to come forward, and finally protrudes. The pouting
+appearance it then presents is very characteristic.
+
+In this connection it may be remarked that, towards the change of life,
+childless married women often think they perceive that 'hope deferred'
+is about to be gratified. An enlargement of the abdomen takes place at
+this time, from a deposit of fatty matter. The nervous perturbations and
+the cessation of the menses, which are natural to this period, are
+looked upon as confirmations of the opinion that pregnancy exists. But
+the day of generation with them has passed. These symptoms herald the
+approach of the winter of life, which brings with it death to the
+reproductive system.
+
+6. _Changes in the skin._--The alterations occurring in the skin are
+worth observing. Those women who have a delicate complexion and are
+naturally pale take a high color, and vice versa. In some cases a
+considerable quantity of hair appears on those parts of the face
+occupied by the beard in men; it disappears after labor, and returns on
+every subsequent pregnancy. Oftentimes the skin becomes loose and
+wrinkled, giving a haggard, aged air to the face, and spoiling good
+looks. Women who ordinarily perspire freely, have now a dry, rough skin;
+whereas those whose skin is not naturally moist, have copious
+perspiration, which may be of a peculiarly strong odor. Copper-colored
+or yellow blotches sometimes appear upon the skin, mole spots become
+darker and larger, and a dark ring developes itself beneath the eyes.
+The whole appearance is thus in many cases altered. On the other hand,
+obstinate, long-existing skin affections sometimes take their departure
+during pregnancy, perhaps never to return. These alterations do not
+occur in all women, nor in all pregnancies of the same woman.
+
+7. We may now group together a number of less important and less
+constant signs, such as _depraved appetite_, _longings for unnatural
+food_, _excessive formation of saliva in the mouth_, _heartburn, loss of
+appetite_ in the first two or three months, succeeded by a voracious
+desire for food, which sometimes compels the woman to rise at night in
+order to eat, _toothache_, _sleepiness_, _diarrhoea_, _palpitation of the
+heart_, _pain in the right side_, etc. These, when they occur singly,
+are of little value as evidence.
+
+Among these, that of _depraved appetite_ is by far the most important,
+and may be regarded as quite significant. A married woman in her
+ordinary health, suddenly feeling this morbid taste for chalk, charcoal,
+slate pencil, and other unusual articles of food, may look upon it as a
+strong presumptive evidence of impregnation.
+
+When any or all of this group of symptoms accompany the ceasing to be
+'regular,' the morning sickness, the changes in the breasts and the
+other signs which have been enumerated, the wife may be quite sure that
+she is pregnant.
+
+8. _Changes in the mind._--The most wonderful of all the changes which
+attend pregnancy are those in the nervous system. The woman is rendered
+more susceptible, more impressible. Her character is transformed. She is
+no longer pleasant, confiding, gentle, and gay. She becomes hasty,
+passionate, jealous, and bitter. But in those who are naturally fretful
+and bad-tempered a change for the better is sometimes observed, so that
+the members of the household learn from experience to hail with delight
+the mother's pregnancy as a period when clouds and storms give place to
+sunshine and quietness. In some rare cases, also, pregnancy confers
+increased force and elevation to the ideas, and augmented power to the
+intellect.
+
+As this book is written for women only, we do not mention any of the
+signs or symptoms of pregnancy which medical men alone can recognize. We
+will merely state that there are many other signs besides these referred
+to, of great value to the doctor. One, the sound of the heart of the
+child, which the practised ear can detect at about the fifth month, is
+positive and conclusive.
+
+
+MISCARRIAGE.
+
+Miscarriage is a fruitful source of disease, and often of danger, to
+wives. It also causes a frightful waste of human life. Unborn thousands
+annually die in this manner.
+
+_Frequency._--Miscarriage is by no means a rare occurrence. Statistics
+show that thirty-seven out of one hundred mothers miscarry before they
+attain the age of thirty years. But this accident is much more apt to
+occur during the latter than during the first half of the child-bearing
+period; and therefore it is estimated that ninety out of one hundred of
+all women who continue in matrimony until the change of life, miscarry.
+
+_Influence of age of mother._--A woman who marries at forty is very much
+disposed to miscarry; whereas, had she married at thirty, she might have
+borne children when older than forty. As a mother approaches the end of
+her child-bearing period, it is likely that she will terminate her
+career of fertility with a premature birth. The last pregnancies are not
+only most commonly unsuccessful, but there is also reason to believe
+that the occurrence of idiocy in a child may be associated with the
+circumstance of its being the last-born of its mother. It has been
+asserted, in this connection, that men of genius are frequently the
+first-born. First pregnancies are also fraught with the danger of
+miscarriage, which occurs more often in them than in others, excepting
+the latest. A woman is particularly apt to miscarry with her first
+child, if she be either exceedingly nervous or full-blooded.
+
+_Influence of period of pregnancy._--Miscarriage is most frequent in the
+earlier months of pregnancy--from the first to the third. It is also
+very prone to happen about the sixth month. Habit makes itself felt
+here; for women who have many times experienced this sad accident,
+encounter it nearly always at the same epoch of their pregnancy.
+
+_How early can the child live?_--The infant is incapable, as a rule, of
+an independent existence, if brought into the world before the end of
+the sixth month. The law of France regards a child born one hundred and
+eighty days after wedlock as not only capable of living, but as
+legitimate and worthy of all legal and civil rights. There are many
+cases mentioned, by the older medical writers, of children born previous
+to this period living. One of the most curious is that recorded by Van
+Swieten. The boy Fortunio Liceti was brought into the world before the
+sixth month, in consequence of a fright his mother had at sea. When
+born, it is said, he was the size of a hand, and his father placed him
+in an oven, for the purpose, probably, it has been suggested, of making
+him _rise_. Although born prematurely, he died late, for we are told
+that he attained his seventy-ninth year. Professor Gunning S. Bedford of
+New York records the case of a woman in her fourth confinement, who,
+before she had completed her sixth month, was delivered of a female
+infant weighing two pounds nine ounces. The surface of the body was of a
+scarlet hue. It breathed, and in a short time after birth cried freely.
+After being wrapped in soft cotton, well lubricated with warm sweet-oil,
+it was fed with the mother's milk, by having a few drops at a time put
+into its mouth. At first it had great difficulty in swallowing, but
+gradually it succeeded in taking sufficient nourishment, and is now a
+vigorous, healthy young woman.
+
+_Dangers to mother._--Wives are too much in the habit of making light of
+miscarriages. They are much more frequently followed by disease of the
+womb than are confinements at full terms. There is a greater amount of
+injury done to the parts than in natural labor. While after confinement
+ample time is afforded by a long period of repose for the bruised and
+lacerated parts to heal, after a miscarriage no such rest is obtained.
+Menstruation soon returns; conception may quickly follow. Unhappily,
+there is no custom requiring husband and wife to sleep apart for a month
+after a miscarriage, as there is after a confinement. Hence, especially
+if there be any pre-existing uterine disease, or a predisposition
+thereto, miscarriage is a serious thing.
+
+_Causes._--The irritation of hemorrhoids or straining at stool will
+sometimes provoke an early expulsion of a child. Excessive intercourse
+by the newly married is a very frequent cause. Bathing in the ocean has
+been known to produce it. Nursing is exceedingly apt to do so. It has
+been shown by a distinguished medical writer, that, in a given number of
+instances, miscarriage occurred in seventeen per cent. of cases in which
+the woman conceived while nursing, and in only ten per cent. where
+conception occurred at some other time. A wife, therefore, who suspects
+herself to be pregnant, should wean her child. The extraction of a
+tooth, over-exertion and over-excitement, a fall, a blow, any violent
+emotion, such as anger, sudden and excessive joy, or fright, running,
+dancing, horseback exercise, or riding in a badly-built carriage over a
+rough road, great fatigue, lifting heavy weights, the abuse of purgative
+medicines, disease or displacement of the womb, small-pox, or a general
+condition of ill-health, are all fruitful and well-known exciting causes
+of this unfortunate mishap, in addition to those which have been before
+mentioned.
+
+_Prevention._--The eminent practitioner, Dr. Tilt, says, 'The way to
+prevent miscarriage is to lead a quiet life, particularly during those
+days of each successive month when, under other circumstances, the woman
+would menstruate; and to abstain during those days not only from long
+walks and parties, but also from sexual intercourse.'
+
+It is especially desirable to avoid a miscarriage in the first
+pregnancy, for fear that the habit of miscarrying shall then be set up,
+which it will be very difficult to eradicate. Therefore newly-married
+women should carefully avoid all causes which are known to induce the
+premature expulsion of the child. If it should take place in spite of
+all precautions, extraordinary care should be exercised in the
+subsequent pregnancy, to prevent its recurrence. Professor Bedford of
+New York has said he has found that an excellent expedient in such cases
+is, as soon as pregnancy is known to exist, 'to interdict sexual
+intercourse until after the fifth month; for if the pregnancy pass
+beyond this period, the chances of miscarriage will be much diminished.'
+
+If the _symptoms of miscarriage_, which may be expressed in the two
+words _pain_ and _flooding_, should make their appearance, the doctor
+ought at once to be sent for, the wife awaiting his arrival in a
+recumbent position. He may even then be able to avert the impending
+danger. At any rate, his services are as necessary, and often even more
+so, as in a labor at full term.
+
+
+MOTHER'S MARKS.
+
+It is a popular belief that the imagination of the mother affects the
+child in the womb. It is asserted that infants are often born with
+various marks and deformities corresponding in character with objects
+which had made a vivid impression on the maternal mind during pregnancy.
+This is a subject of great practical interest. We shall therefore give
+it the careful attention which it deserves.
+
+We have already discussed the operation of the laws of inheritance. It
+was then stated that the whole story of maternal influence had not been
+told--that the mother could communicate qualities she never possessed.
+The potency of imagination at the time of conception over the child has
+been mentioned. It is now our design to consider its effects, during the
+period of pregnancy, upon the physical structure and the mental
+attributes of the offspring. We shall have occasion hereafter, in
+speaking of nursing, to illustrate the manner in which the child may be
+affected by maternal impressions acting through the mother's milk. What
+can be more wonderful than this intimate union between the mother and
+her child? It is only equaled by that mysterious influence of the
+husband over the wife, by which he so impresses her system that she
+often comes in time to resemble him both in mental and physical
+characteristics, and even transmits his peculiarities to her children by
+a second marriage. Father, mother, and child are one.
+
+We wish here to premise that our remarks will be based upon the
+conclusions of skilled and scientific observers only, whose position and
+experience no medical man will question. All the instances to be related
+are given upon unimpeachable authority. They are not the narrations of
+ignorant, credulous people; they are all fully vouched for. We record
+here, as elsewhere, only the sober utterances of science. The great
+importance and utility of an acquaintance with them will be patent to
+every intelligent man and woman.
+
+The effect of the mind upon the body is well known. Strong,
+long-continued mental emotion may induce or cure disease. Heart disease
+may be produced by a morbid direction of the thoughts to that organ.
+Warts disappear under the operation of a strong belief in the efficacy
+of some nonsensical application. In olden time, scrofula, or the 'king's
+evil', was cured by the touch of the king. The mind of the patient, of
+course, accomplished the cure. Under the influence of profound mental
+emotion, the hair of the beautiful Marie Antoinette became white in a
+short time. During the solitary voyage of Madame Condamine down the wild
+and lonely Amazon, a similar change took place. Many other instances
+might be adduced; but those given are sufficient to show that strong and
+persistent mental impressions will exert a mysterious transforming power
+over the body. These facts will pave the way to the consideration of
+corresponding effects, through the mother's mind, upon the development
+of the unborn child, forming a part of herself _in utero._
+
+_Influence of mind of mother on form and color of infant._--There are
+numerous facts on record which prove that _habitual_, long-continued
+mental conditions of the mother at an early period of pregnancy, induce
+deformity or other abnormal development of the infant.
+
+Professor William A. Hammond of New York relates the following striking
+case, which occurred in his own experience, and which scarcely admits of
+a doubt as to the influence of the maternal mind over the physical
+structure of the foetus.
+
+A lady in the third month of her pregnancy was very much horrified by
+her husband being brought home one evening with a severe wound of the
+face, from which the blood was streaming. The shock to her was so great
+that she fainted, and subsequently had a hysterical attack, during which
+she was under Dr. Hammond's care. Soon after her recovery she told him
+that she was afraid her child would be affected in some way, and that
+even then she could not get rid of the impression the sight of her
+husband's bloody face had made upon her. In due time the child, a girl,
+was born. She had a dark red mark upon the face, corresponding in
+situation and extent with that which had been upon her father's face.
+She also proved to be idiotic.
+
+Professor Dalton of New York states that the wife of the janitor of the
+College of Physicians and Surgeons of that city, during her pregnancy,
+dreamed that she saw a man who had lost a part of the ear. The dream
+made a great impression upon her mind, and she mentioned it to her
+husband. When her child was born, a portion of one ear was deficient,
+and the organ was exactly like the defective ear she had seen in her
+dream. When Professor Dalton was lecturing upon the development of the
+foetus as affected by the mind of the mother, the janitor called his
+attention to the foregoing instance. The ear looks exactly as if a
+portion had been cut off with a sharp knife.
+
+Professor J. Lewis Smith of Bellevue Hospital Medical College, New York,
+has met with the following cases:--An Irishwoman, of strong emotions and
+superstitions, was passing along a street, in the first months of her
+pregnancy, when she was accosted by a beggar, who raised her hand,
+destitute of thumb and fingers, and in 'God's name' asked for alms. The
+woman passed on, but, reflecting in whose name money was asked, felt
+that she had committed a great sin in refusing assistance. She returned
+to the place where she had met the beggar, and on different days, but
+never afterwards saw her. Harassed by the thought of her imaginary sin,
+so that for weeks, according to her statement, she was distressed by it,
+she approached her confinement. A female infant was born, otherwise
+perfect, but lacking the fingers and thumb of one hand. The deformed
+limb was on the same side, and it seemed to the mother to resemble
+precisely that of the beggar. In another case which Professor Smith met,
+a very similar malformation was attributed by the mother of the child to
+an accident occurring, during the time of her pregnancy, to a near
+relative, which necessitated amputation. He examined both of these
+children with defective limbs, and has no doubt of the truthfulness of
+the parents. In May, 1868, he removed a supernumerary thumb from an
+infant, whose mother, a baker's wife, gave the following history:--No
+one of the family, and no ancestor, to her knowledge, presented this
+deformity. In the early months of her pregnancy she sold bread from the
+counter, and nearly every day a child with a double thumb came in for a
+penny roll, presenting the penny between the thumb and the finger. After
+the third month she left the bakery, but the malformation was so
+impressed upon her mind, that she was not surprised to see it reproduced
+in her infant.
+
+In all these cases the impression was produced in the early months of
+pregnancy; but many have been recorded in which malformations in the
+infant appeared distinctly traceable to strong mental emotions of the
+mother only a few months previous to confinement, these impressions
+having been persistent during the remaining period of the pregnancy, and
+giving rise to a full expectation on the part of the mother that the
+child would be affected in the particular manner which actually
+occurred. Professor Carpenter, the distinguished physiologist, is
+personally cognisant of a very striking case of the kind which occurred
+in the family of a near connection of his own.
+
+All the above instances have been those of the effects of persistent
+mental emotion. But it is also true that _violent and sudden emotion_ in
+the mother leaves sometimes its impress upon the unborn infant, although
+it may be quickly forgotten.
+
+It is related on good authority that a lady, who during her pregnancy
+was struck with the unpleasant view of leeches applied to a relative's
+foot, gave birth to a child with the mark of a leech coiled up in the
+act of suction on the intended spot.
+
+Dr. Delacoux of Paris says that, in the month of January 1825, he was
+called to attend a woman in the village of Batignoles, near Paris, who
+the evening before had been delivered of a six months' foetus, horribly
+deformed. The upper lip was in a confused mass with the jaw and the
+gums, and the right leg was amputated at the middle, the stump having
+the form of a cone. The mother of this being, who was a cook, one
+morning, about the third month of her pregnancy, on entering the house
+where she was employed, was seized with horror at the sight of a porter
+with a hare-lip and an amputated leg.
+
+At a meeting of the Society of Physicians at Berlin, in August 1868,
+Herr Dupre stated that a woman saw, in the first weeks of her third
+pregnancy, a boy with a hare-lip; and not only was the child she then
+carried born with a frightful hare-lip, but also three children
+subsequently. Another one, a woman in the fifth week of pregnancy, saw a
+sheep wounded, and with its bowels protruding. She was greatly shocked,
+and did not recover her composure for several days. She was delivered at
+term of a child, in other respects well developed, but lacking the walls
+of the abdomen.
+
+Many remarkable instances have been collected of the power of
+_imagination_ over the unborn offspring.
+
+Ambrose Pare, the illustrious French surgeon of the sixteenth century,
+in one of his treatises devotes a chapter to the subject of 'monsters
+which take their cause and shape from imagination,' and was evidently a
+strong believer in this influence.
+
+A black child is generally believed to have been born to Marie Therese,
+the wife of Louis XIV., in consequence of a little negro page in her
+service having started from a hiding-place and stumbled over her dress
+early in her pregnancy. This child was educated at the convent of Moret,
+near Fontainebleau, where she took the veil, and where, till the shock
+of the Revolution, her portrait was shown.
+
+Examples are given by authors of the force of _desires_ in causing
+deformities in infants, and the formation upon them of fruits, such as
+apples, pears, grapes, and others, which the mother may have longed for.
+
+The following is related upon excellent medical authority:--A woman gave
+birth to a child with a large cluster of globular tumours growing from
+the tongue, and preventing the closure of the mouth, in color, shape,
+and size exactly resembling our common grapes; and with a red
+excrescence from the chest, as exactly resembling in figure and
+appearance a turkey's wattles. On being questioned before the child was
+shown to her, she answered, that while pregnant she had seen some
+grapes, longed intensely for them, and constantly thought of them; and
+that she was also once attacked and much alarmed by a turkey-cock.
+
+Dr. Demangeon of Paris quotes, in his work on the Imagination, the
+_Journal de Verdun_, as mentioning the case of a child, born at Blois,
+in the eyes of which the face of a watch was distinctly seen. The image
+was situated around the pupil, and the figures representing the hours
+were plainly perceived. The mother had experienced a strong desire to
+see a watch while she was pregnant with this child.
+
+Professor Dalton says, in his _Human Physiology_, that 'there is now
+little room for doubt that various deformities and deficiencies of the
+foetus, conformably to the popular belief, do really originate in certain
+cases from nervous impressions, such as disgust, fear, or anger,
+experienced by the mother.' We will now consider the
+
+_Influence of the mind of the mother on the mind of the infant_; which
+subject we have not yet touched upon, having confined ourselves to the
+influence of the maternal mind over the form and color of the unborn
+child. It will not be necessary to illustrate at length this branch of
+our topic. Instances are sufficiently common and well known. Dr. Seguin
+of New York, in his work on Idiocy, gives several cases in which there
+was reason to believe that fright, anxiety, or other emotions in the
+mother, had produced idiocy in the offspring. As he remarks,
+'Impressions will sometimes reach the foetus in its recess, cut off its
+legs or arms, or inflict large flesh wounds before birth,--inexplicable
+as well as indisputable facts, from which we surmise that idiocy holds
+unknown though certain relations to maternal impressions.'
+
+We have given many strong cases and most excellent authority for the
+doctrine that the _purely mental_ influence of the mother may produce
+bodily and mental changes in the unborn infant. But the child is also
+affected by _physical impressions_ made upon the mother.
+
+Dr. Russegger reports that a woman, who had already borne four healthy
+children, was, in the seventh month of her pregnancy, bitten in the
+right calf by a dog. The author saw the wound made by the animal's
+teeth, which wound consisted of three small triangular depressions, by
+two of which the skin was only slightly ruffled; a slight appearance of
+blood was perceptible in the third. The woman was at the moment of the
+accident somewhat alarmed, but neither then nor afterwards had any fear
+that her foetus would be affected by the occurrence. Ten weeks after she
+was bitten, the woman bore a healthy child, which, however, to the
+surprise of every person, had three marks corresponding in size and
+appearance to those caused by the dog's teeth in the mother's leg, and
+consisting, like those, of one large and two smaller impressions. The
+two latter, which were pale, disappeared in five weeks; the larger one
+had also become less, and was not so deep colored as it was at birth. At
+the time of writing, the child was four months old.
+
+Dr. S. P. Crawford of Greenville, Tennessee, reports in a recent number
+of the _Nashville Journal of Medicine_, the following sad case:--A lady,
+in the last stage of pregnancy, was burned by the explosion of a
+kerosene-oil can. She lived twelve hours after the accident. The face,
+legs, arms, and abdomen were badly burned. The movements of the child
+were felt three or four hours after the accident. A short time before
+the death of the mother she gave birth to the child at full maturity,
+but still-born. It bore the mark of the fire corresponding to that of
+the mother. Its legs, arms, and abdomen were completely blistered,
+having all the appearance of a recent burn.
+
+These instances of a decided influence exerted upon the body and mind of
+the child in the womb, by physical and mental impressions made upon the
+mother, might be doubled or trebled. They are as numerous as they are
+wonderful. Physiologists of the present day do not hesitate to admit the
+existence of the influence we have been discussing. Reason also comes to
+the support of facts, to demonstrate and establish its reality. For, if
+a sudden and powerful emotion of the mind can so disturb the stomach and
+heart as to cause vomiting and fainting, is it not probable that it can
+affect the womb and the impressible being within it? Pregnancy is a
+function of the woman as much as digestion or pulsation of the heart;
+and if the latter are controlled by moral and mental impressions, why
+should not the former be also?
+
+_In what manner does this influence of the maternal mind act?_--Through
+the blood of the mother. Only a very delicate membrane separates the
+vital fluid of the mother from that of the infant in her womb. There is
+a constant interchange of the blood in its body with that in hers
+through this exceedingly thin membrane; and thus all nervous impressions
+which have produced an alteration of either a temporary or permanent
+character in the circulating fluid of the mother, are communicated to
+the child. Since the mother, as has been shown, can transmit through her
+blood certain characteristics of mind and body not her own,--for
+instance, a disease peculiar to a male from her father to her son, or
+the physical and mental traits of her first husband to the children by
+her second,--it does not seem at all strange that she should through
+this same medium, her blood, impart other peculiarities which have made
+a strong impression upon her mind. Anatomy and physiology therefore
+fully explain and account for this seemingly mysterious influence.
+
+The view here stated, and indorsed by modern science, is one which ought
+to have great weight with the mother, her relatives and friends. The
+_practical conclusion_ which it suggests is, that as during pregnancy
+there is unusual susceptibility to mental impressions, and as these
+impressions may operate on the fragile structure of the unborn being,
+this tendency should be well considered and constantly remembered, not
+only by the woman herself, but by all those who associate or are thrown
+in contact with her. Upon the care displayed in the management of the
+corporeal and mental health of the mother during the whole period of
+pregnancy, the ultimate constitution of the offspring greatly depends.
+All the surroundings and employments of the pregnant woman should be
+such as conduce to cheerfulness and equanimity. Above all, she should
+avoid the presence of disagreeable and unsightly objects. Vivid and
+unpleasant impressions should be removed as soon as possible by quiet
+diversion of the mind. All causes of excitement should be carefully
+guarded against.
+
+In leaving the subject of maternal impressions, we will call attention
+to the manifest difference in extent and degree between the influence of
+the father and that of the mother over the offspring. That of the father
+ceases with impregnation. That of the mother continues during the whole
+term of pregnancy, and, as we shall shortly see, even during that of
+nursing.
+
+
+EDUCATION OF THE CHILD IN THE WOMB.
+
+The outlines drawn by the artist Flaxman are esteemed the most perfect
+and graceful in existence. From earliest childhood he manifested a
+delight in drawing. His mother, a woman of refined and artistic tastes,
+used to relate that for months previous to his birth she spent hours
+daily studying engravings, and fixing in her memory the most beautiful
+proportions of the human figure as portrayed by masters. She was
+convinced that the genius of her son was the fruit of her own
+self-culture. What a charming idea is this! What an incentive to those
+about to become mothers, to cultivate refinement, high thoughts, pure
+emotions, elevated sentiments! Thus they endow their children with what
+no after education can give them.
+
+The plastic brain of the foetus is prompt to receive all impressions. It
+retains them, and they become the characteristics of the child and the
+man. Low spirits, violent passions, irritability, frivolity, in the
+pregnant woman, leave indelible marks on the unborn child. So do their
+contraries; and thus it becomes of the utmost moment that during this
+period all that is cheerful, inspiring, and elevating should surround
+the woman. Such emotions educate the child: they form its disposition,
+they shape its faculties, they create its mental and intellectual
+traits. Of all education, this is the most momentous.
+
+
+CAN A WOMAN BECOME AGAIN PREGNANT DURING PREGNANCY?
+
+Can a woman during pregnancy conceive, and add a second and younger
+child to that already in the womb?
+
+It is not uncommon in the canine race for a mother to give birth at the
+same time to dogs of different species, showing conclusively the
+possibility, in these animals, of one conception closely following
+another. So a mare has been known to produce within a quarter of an
+hour, first a horse, and then a mule. And in the human race cases are
+on record in which women have had twins, of which the one was white and
+the other colored, in consequence of intercourse on the same day with
+men of those two races. Dr. Henry relates that in Brazil a Creole woman,
+a native, brought into the world at one birth three children of three
+different colors,--white, brown, and black,--each child exhibiting the
+features peculiar to the respective races.
+
+In all such instances the two conceptions followed each other very
+rapidly, the offspring arriving at maturity together, and being born at
+the same accouchement. But more curious and wonderful examples of second
+and concurrent pregnancies have been published than these--as, for
+instance, those in which a child bearing all the attributes of a foetus
+at full term is born two, three, four, and even five, months after the
+first, which appeared also to have been born at full term. Marie Anne
+Bigaud, aged thirty-seven, gave birth, April 30, 1748, to a living boy
+at full term, and on the ensuing September 16, to a living girl, which
+was recognised, by the size and well-developed condition of its body and
+limbs, to have been also carried until full term. This fact was observed
+by Professor Eisenman, and by Leriche, surgeon-major of the military
+hospital of Strasbourg. It will be noticed that there was an interval of
+four and a half months between the two accouchements. The first child
+lived two and a half months, and the second a year. In this instance
+there was not a double womb, as might perhaps be supposed, for after
+the mother's death an examination proved that the uterus was single.
+
+Another case of this kind is the following:--Benoite Franquet of Lyons
+brought into the world a girl on January 20, 1780, and five months and
+six days afterwards a second girl, also apparently at term, and well
+nourished. Two years later these two children were presented, with their
+certificates of baptism, to two notaries of Lyons, MM. Caillot and
+Desurgey, in order that the fact might be placed on record and vouched
+for, because of its value in legal medicine.
+
+The number of the entirely authenticated cases now known of the birth of
+fully developed children within from two to five months of each other,
+can leave no doubt as to the possibility of such an occurrence. The only
+question which remains is in regard to the periods of conception. Are
+the two children in such cases twins, conceived at the same time, but
+the growth of the last-born so retarded that it did not arrive at
+maturity until a number of months after its fellow? or, Has a second
+conception taken place at an interval of several months after the first?
+If this latter view be true, then, in the instance of Marie Anne Bigaud,
+above related, the second child must have been conceived after the first
+had quickened. Then, also, two children of different ages, the offspring
+of different fathers, may exist in the womb at the same time. The weight
+of scientific observation and authority has now established the fact
+that, in very rare instances, a second conception may take place during
+pregnancy. It must not be understood as necessarily following from this
+statement, that when two children are born at the same time,--one fully
+developed, and the other small and apparently prematurely born,--the two
+were conceived at different times. The smaller may have been blighted
+and its growth hindered by the same causes which bring about such
+effects in cases of single births of incompletely developed children. A
+similar supposition may account for the birth of a second child within a
+month or two after the first, for the first may have been prematurely
+born, and the second carried to full term. But no such supposition can
+explain the cases referred to, and others which might be mentioned, in
+which the interval has been five or six months, each child presenting
+every indication of perfect maturity. The only explanation possible in
+such instances, which, as has been said, are well authenticated,
+although few in number, is, that a second pregnancy has occurred during
+the first.
+
+The above facts would seem sufficiently wonderful. There are others,
+however, of the same nature still more so. In some instances, the
+product of the second conception, instead of developing independently of
+the first, has become attached to it, and the phenomenon has been
+presented of the growth of a child within a child--a foetus within a
+foetus. Such a singular occurrence has been lately recorded in a German
+journal. A correspondent of the _Dantzic Gazette_ states that on Sunday,
+February 1, 1869, at Schliewen, near Dirschau, 'a young and blooming
+shepherd's wife was delivered of a girl, otherwise sound, but having on
+the lower part of her back, between the hips, a swelling as big as two
+good-sized fists, through the walls of which a well-developed foetus may
+be felt. Its limbs indicate a growth of from five to six months, and its
+movements are very lively. The father called in the health commissioner,
+Dr. Preuss, from Dirschau, and begged him to remove the swelling
+together with the foetus. The doctor, however, after a careful
+examination, declared that there was a possibility in this extraordinary
+case of the child within the swelling coming to fruition. Its existence
+and active motions were palpable to all present. No physician could be
+justified in destroying this marvelous being. It ought rather to be
+protected and cherished. The new-born girl, notwithstanding her strange
+burden, is of unusual strength and beauty, and takes the breast very
+cheerfully.'
+
+We find something further in regard to this singular birth in the _Weser
+Zeitung_ of February 20, 1869. It quotes from the _Dantzic Gazette_ some
+remarks by the health commissioner, Dr. Preuss of Dirschau, in which the
+doctor declares the facts contained in the report given above to be
+correct. He was summoned on the 1st of February to the child, and saw
+the vigorous movements, and felt the members of a foetus within the
+swelling, as described. It was evidently a double creation. The case
+thus far, though rare, is not unique. 'But what is novel, and hitherto
+perfectly unnoticed in medical literature, is the fact that not only the
+girl, which has been carried its full term, is alive to-day, but the
+foetus within the swelling has also, in the eleven days after birth,
+further developed, and palpably increased in size. The swelling is now
+four and a half inches long, three and a half inches wide, and high and
+pear-shaped; the head lies underneath on the left, the body towards the
+right.'
+
+Further particulars and the latest intelligence we have concerning the
+progress of this case are to the effect that the child was brought by
+special request before the Natural History Society of Dantzic, and
+thence the mother went to Berlin for medical advice.
+
+
+MORAL ASPECTS OF THIS QUESTION.
+
+Upon proper judgment and discrimination in the application of the facts
+we have just been dwelling upon, may depend a wife's honor, and the
+happiness of the dearest social relations. We will suppose an example. A
+husband, immediately after the impregnation of his wife, is obliged to
+quit her, and remains absent a year. In the meanwhile she gives birth to
+two children, at an interval of a number of weeks. The question will
+then come up, Whether, under such circumstances, it is possible for her
+to do so consistently with conjugal purity.
+
+It will be recollected that, in speaking of twins, we remarked that it
+was not very uncommon for an interval of days or weeks to elapse between
+the births, and it has just been stated that impregnation during
+pregnancy is extremely rare. The presumption, therefore, in the case
+supposed, is as very many to one that the two births were the result of
+a twin pregnancy. In the absence of any other evidence against the
+wife's chastity, it should not even be called in question. This decision
+receives the support of the maxim in law that a reasonable doubt is the
+property of the accused, and of the Christian principle that it is
+better that ninety-nine guilty should escape than that one innocent
+should be condemned. Hence the teachings of science and of human and
+divine law all coincide to protect the sacred rights and the precious
+interests at stake against an unjust suspicion, which even the doctrine
+of chances would render untenable.
+
+
+CAN A CHILD CRY IN THE WOMB?
+
+There are some cases, recorded on undoubted authority, in which the
+child has been heard to cry while in the womb. These are very
+exceptional. Under ordinary circumstances, it is impossible for the
+child either to breathe or cry, because of the absence of air. It is
+only when the bag of membranes has been torn, and the mouth of the child
+is applied at or near the neck of the uterus, that this can take place.
+The infant is not unfrequently heard to cry just before birth, after
+labor has commenced, but before the extrusion of the head from the womb,
+in consequence of the penetration of air into the uterine cavity.
+
+
+IS IT A SON OR DAUGHTER?
+
+It is a common saying among nurses, that there is a difference in the
+size and form of the pregnant woman, according to the sex she carries.
+This may well be doubted. Neither is it true that one sex is more
+active in its 'movements' than the other. It is quite possible, however,
+for a wife to know the sex of the foetus, if she can tell about what time
+in her month conception took place. If it occurred directly after a
+monthly sickness, the child is a girl; if directly before, it is a boy.
+When a woman is 'out' in her reckoning, and goes beyond the period of
+her expected confinement, it will ordinarily turn out to be a boy. The
+skilful doctor can, in the later months of pregnancy, settle the
+question of sex in some cases. The beats of the foetal heart are more
+frequent in females than in males. The average frequency of pulsations
+of twenty-eight female foetuses has been found to be one hundred and
+forty-four in the minute, the lowest figure being one hundred and
+thirty-eight; of twenty-two male foetuses, one hundred and twenty, the
+lowest figure being one hundred and twelve. Therefore, when the
+pulsations of the heart of the child in the womb are counted,--as can
+easily be done by a practised medical ear during the last months of
+pregnancy,--and are found to be over one hundred and thirty in a minute,
+it is a daughter; if under one hundred and thirty, a son. In this
+manner, the sex of an unborn child can be predicted with tolerable
+accuracy, excepting only when illness of the foetus has deranged the
+action of its heart.
+
+
+ARE THERE TWINS PRESENT?
+
+Certain signs lead to the suspicion of twins, such as being unusually
+large, and the fact that the increase in size has been more than
+ordinarily rapid. Sometimes also the abdomen is divided into two
+distinct portions by a perpendicular fissure. In other cases the
+movements of a child can be felt on each side at the same time. And in
+twin pregnancies the morning sickness is apt to be more distressing, and
+all the other discomforts incident to this condition increased. But
+these signs and symptoms, when present in any given case, are not
+conclusive, for they may be noticed when there is only one child. The
+doctor has one characteristic and infallible sign by which he can
+ascertain whether the woman be pregnant with twins. It is furnished to
+him again by the art of listening,--or auscultation, as it is
+technically called,--the same that, as we have already seen, may enable
+him to determine the sex of the child. When the beatings of two foetal
+hearts are heard on opposite portions of the abdomen, the nature of the
+pregnancy is apparent.
+
+
+LENGTH OF PREGNANCY.
+
+What is the ordinary duration of pregnancy? Almost every woman considers
+herself competent to make the answer--nine months. She may be surprised
+to learn, however, that such an answer is wanting in scientific
+precision. It is too indefinite, and is erroneous. There is a great
+difference between the calendar and the lunar month. Each lunar month
+having twenty-eight days, the period of nine lunar months is two hundred
+and fifty-two days. Nine calendar months, including February, represent,
+on the contrary, two hundred and seventy-three days. Now the average
+duration of pregnancy is two hundred and eighty days, that is forty
+weeks, or ten lunar months.
+
+While most extended observations have shown that as a general rule,
+forty weeks, or two hundred and eighty days, is the true period of
+pregnancy, are we justified in the conclusion that this is its
+invariable duration? This important question, upon the answer to which
+so often depend the honor of families, the rights of individuals, and
+sometimes the interests of nationalities, has been in all times the
+subject of careful research by physicians, philosophers, and
+legislators. On the one side, have been those who contend that the laws
+of nature are invariable, and that the term of pregnancy is fixed and
+immutable. On the other side, have been those who assert that the epoch
+of accouchement can be greatly advanced or retarded by various causes,
+some of which are known, and others not yet appreciated. Abundant and
+satisfactory testimony has proved that the prolongation of pregnancy
+beyond the ordinary period of two hundred and eighty days, or forty
+weeks, is possible. Nor is this contrary to what is observed in regard
+to other functions of the human body. There is no process depending upon
+the laws of life which is absolutely invariable either as to the period
+of its appearance or duration. It is known, as we have already pointed
+out, that puberty may be advanced or retarded; the time at which the
+change of life occurs in women, as we shall have occasion hereafter to
+show, is also subject to variation; and it is a matter of common
+observation with mothers, that the period of teething is sometimes
+strangely hurried or delayed. A certain degree of variability,
+therefore, being frequently observed, and entirely compatible with
+health, in the various other natural processes, why should that of
+pregnancy form an exception, and be invariably fixed in its duration?
+And observation upon the lower animals affords most convincing evidence
+that nature is not controlled by any uniform law in reference to the
+length of pregnancy. In the cow, the usual period of whose pregnancy is
+the same as in the human female, instances of calving six weeks beyond
+the ordinary term are not at all uncommon.
+
+As an illustration of the great interest sometimes attaching to the
+inquiry under discussion, we may cite the celebrated Gardner Peerage
+Case, tried by the House of Lords in 1825. Allen Legge Gardner
+petitioned to have his name inscribed as a peer on the Parliament Roll.
+He was the son of Lord Gardner by his second wife. There was another
+claimant for the peerage, however,--Henry Fenton Iadis,--on the ground,
+as alleged, that he was the son of Lord Gardner by his first and
+subsequently divorced wife. Medical and moral evidence was adduced to
+establish that the latter was illegitimate. Lady Gardner, the mother of
+the alleged illegitimate child, parted from her husband on the 30th of
+January, 1802, he going to the West Indies, and not again seeing his
+wife until the 11th of July following. The child whose legitimacy was
+called in question was born on the 8th of December of that year. The
+plain medical query therefore arose, Whether this child born either
+three hundred and eleven days after intercourse (from January 30th to
+December 8th), or one hundred and fifty days (from July 11th to December
+8th), could be the son of Lord Gardner. As there was no pretence that
+there was a premature birth, the child having been well developed when
+born, the conception must have dated from January 30th. The medical
+question was therefore narrowed down to this: Was the alleged protracted
+pregnancy (three hundred and eleven days) consistent with experience?
+Sixteen of the principal obstetric practitioners of Great Britain were
+examined on this point. Eleven concurred in the opinion that natural
+pregnancy might be protracted to a period which would cover the birth of
+the alleged illegitimate child. Because, however, of the moral evidence
+alone, which proved the adulterous intercourse of Lady Gardner with a
+Mr. Iadis, the House decided that the title should descend to the son of
+the second Lady Gardner.
+
+There is on record one fact, well observed, which establishes beyond
+cavil the possibility of the protraction of pregnancy beyond two hundred
+and eighty days, or forty weeks. The case is reported by the learned Dr.
+Desormeaux of Paris, and occurred under his own notice in the Hopital de
+Maternite of that city. A woman, the mother of three children, became
+insane. Her physician thought that a new pregnancy might re-establish
+her intellectual faculties. Her husband consented to enter on the
+register of the hospital each visit he was allowed to make her, which
+took place only every three months. So soon as evidence of pregnancy
+showed itself, the visits were discontinued. The woman was confined two
+hundred and ninety days after conception.
+
+The late distinguished Professor Charles D. Meigs of Philadelphia
+published a case, which he deems entirely trustworthy, of the
+prolongation of pregnancy to four hundred and twenty days, or sixty
+weeks. Dr. Atlee reports two cases, which nearly equaled three hundred
+and fifty-six days each. Professor Simpson of Edinburgh records, as
+having occurred in his own practice, cases in which the period reached
+three hundred and thirty-six, three hundred and thirty-two, three
+hundred and twenty-four, and three hundred and nineteen days. In the
+Dublin _Quarterly Journal of Medical Science_ a case of protracted
+pregnancy is related by Dr. Joynt. The evidence is positive that the
+minimum duration must have been three hundred and seventeen days, or
+about six weeks more than the average. Dr. Elsaesser found, in one
+hundred and sixty cases of pregnancy, eleven protracted to periods
+varying from three hundred to three hundred and eighteen days.
+
+In treating of the subject of miscarriage, we mentioned instances,
+recorded by physicians of skill and probity, proving beyond a shade of
+doubt that a woman may give birth to a living child long before the
+expiration of the forty weeks. The Presbytery of Edinburgh, Scotland,
+some time since decided in favor of the legitimacy of an infant born
+alive, within twenty-five weeks after marriage, to the Rev. Fergus
+Jardine.
+
+One of the most enlightened countries in Europe has, in view of the
+facts in reference to the extreme limits of pregnancy, enacted, in the
+Code Napoleon, that a child born within three hundred days after the
+departure or death of the husband, or one hundred and eighty days after
+marriage, shall be considered legitimate. The law further states that a
+child born after more than three hundred days shall not be necessarily
+declared a bastard, but its legitimacy may be contested. The Scotch
+legislation on this subject is very similar to the French.
+
+
+CAUSES OF PROTRACTED PREGNANCY.
+
+It has been asserted by some that an infant is born at ten or eleven
+months because at nine months it has not acquired the growth which
+is necessary in order to induce the womb to dislodge it. The popular
+notion is, that a child carried beyond the usual term must necessarily
+be a large one. Rabelais has reflected this common opinion in his
+celebrated romance entitled 'Gargantua,' in which he represents the
+royal giant of that name as having been carried by his mother,
+Gargamelle, eleven months. When born, the child was so vigorous that he
+sucked the milk from ten nurses. He lived for several centuries, and at
+last begot a son, Pantagruel, as wonderful as himself. Such reasoning
+cannot, however, be seriously maintained, as many children carried
+longer than nine months have not been more fully developed than some
+born a few weeks prematurely; and the size of the child has nothing to
+do with the bringing on of labor, as we shall show hereafter. Protracted
+pregnancies are caused by a defect in the energy of the womb, induced
+by moral as well as physical influences. As a rule, a woman who leads a
+regular life, and observes the physiological laws of her being, which
+laws it has been our aim to point out, will be confined at the term that
+nature usually marks out, that is, at the expiration of two hundred and
+eighty days, or forty weeks, from conception.
+
+This brings us to the consideration of the question,
+
+
+HOW TO CALCULATE THE TIME OF EXPECTED LABOR.
+
+Many rules for this purpose have been laid down. We shall merely give
+one, the most satisfactory and the most easily applied. It was suggested
+by the celebrated Professor Naegele of Heidelberg, and is now generally
+recommended and employed by physicians. The point of departure in making
+the calculation is _the day of the disappearance of the last monthly
+sickness_; three months are subtracted, and seven days added. The result
+corresponds to the day on which labor will commence, and will be found
+to be two hundred and eighty days from the time of conception, if that
+event has occurred, as ordinarily, immediately after the last menstrual
+period. Suppose, for instance, the cessation of the last monthly
+sickness happened on the 14th day of January; subtract three months, and
+we have October 14; then add seven days, and we obtain the 21st day of
+the ensuing October (two hundred and eighty days from January 14) as the
+time of the expected confinement. This method of making the 'count' may
+be relied upon with confidence, and only fails, by a few days, in those
+exceptional cases in which conception takes place just before the
+monthly period, or during the menstrual flow.
+
+
+CARE OF HEALTH DURING PREGNANCY.
+
+This subject, the proper management of the health from conception to
+childbirth, is worthy of careful consideration. The condition of
+pregnancy, though not one of disease, calls for peculiar solicitude,
+lest it should lead to some affection in the mother or in the child. For
+it ought to be remembered that the welfare of a new being is now in the
+balance. The woman has no longer an independent existence. She has
+entered upon the circle of her maternal duties. She became a mother when
+she conceived. The child, though unborn, lives within her; its life is a
+part of her own, and so frail, that any indiscretion on her part may
+destroy it. The danger to the child is not imaginary, as the large
+number of miscarriages and still-births proves.
+
+All mothers desire to have healthy, well-formed, intelligent children.
+How few conduct themselves in such a manner as to secure a happy
+development of their offspring! Puny, deformed, and feeble-minded
+infants are daily ushered into the world because of a want of knowledge,
+or a sinful neglect of those special measures imperatively demanded in
+the ordering of the daily life, by the changed state of the system
+consequent upon pregnancy. We shall therefore point out those laws which
+cannot be infringed with impunity, and indicate the diet, exercise,
+dress, and, in general, the conduct most favorable to the mother and
+child during this critical period, in which the wife occupies, as it
+were, an intermediate state between health and sickness.
+
+
+FOOD.
+
+The nourishment taken during pregnancy should be abundant, but not, in
+the early months, larger in quantity than usual. Excess in eating or
+drinking ought to be most carefully avoided. The food is to be taken at
+shorter intervals than is common, and it should be plain, simple, and
+nutritious. Fatty articles, the coarser vegetables, highly salted and
+sweet food, if found to disagree, as is often the case, should be
+abstained from. The flesh of young animals--as lamb, veal, chicken, and
+fresh fish--is wholesome, and generally agrees with the stomach. Ripe
+fruits are beneficial. The diet should be varied as much as possible
+from day to day. The craving which some women have in the night or early
+morning may be relieved by a biscuit, a little milk, or a cup of coffee.
+When taken a few hours before rising, this will generally be retained,
+and prove very grateful, even though the morning sickness be
+troublesome. Any food or medicine that will confine or derange the
+bowels is to be forbidden. The taste is, as a rule, a safe guide, and it
+may be reasonably indulged. But inordinate, capricious desires for
+improper, noxious articles, should of course, be opposed. Such longings,
+however, are not often experienced by those properly brought up. It is a
+curious fact, that the modification in the digestive system during
+pregnancy is sometimes so great that substances ordinarily the most
+indigestible are eaten, without any inconvenience, and even with
+benefit, while the most healthful articles become hurtful, and act like
+poison.
+
+As pregnancy advances, particularly after the sixth month, a larger
+amount of food, and that of a more substantial character, will be
+required. The number of meals in the day should then be increased,
+rather than the quantity taken at each meal.
+
+
+CLOTHING.
+
+The dress during pregnancy should be loose and comfortable, nowhere
+pressing tightly or unequally. The word _enceinte_, by which a pregnant
+woman is designated, meant, originally, without a cincture,--that is,
+unbound. The Roman matrons, so soon as they conceived, were obliged to
+remove their girdles. Lycurgus caused the enactment of the Spartan law,
+that pregnant women should wear large dresses, so as not to prejudice
+the free development of the precious charges of which nature had
+rendered them the momentary depositaries. Stays or corsets may be used,
+in a proper manner, during the first five or six months of pregnancy,
+but after that they should either be laid aside, or worn very loosely.
+Any attempt at concealing pregnancy, by tight lacing and the application
+of a stronger busk, cannot be too severely condemned. By this false
+delicacy the mother is subjected to great suffering, and the child
+placed in jeopardy. The shape of the stays should be moulded to that of
+the changing figure, and great care should be taken that they do not
+depress the nipple or irritate the enlarging breasts.
+
+The amount of clothing should be suited to the season, but rather
+increased than diminished, owing to the great susceptibility of the
+system to the vicissitudes of the weather. It is especially important
+that flannel drawers should be worn during advanced pregnancy, as the
+loose dress favors the admission of cold air to the unprotected parts of
+the body. A neglect of this precaution sometimes leads to the
+establishment of the painful disease known as rheumatism of the womb.
+
+Pressure upon the lower limbs, in the neighborhood of the knee or the
+ankle joint, should be avoided, more particularly towards the last
+months. It is apt to produce enlargement and knotting of the vein,
+swelling and ulcers of the legs, by which many women are crippled during
+their pregnancies, and sometimes through life. Therefore the garters
+should not be tightly drawn, and gaiters should not be too closely
+fitted, while yet they should firmly support the ankle.
+
+
+EXERCISE.
+
+Moderate exercise in the open air is proper and conducive to health
+during the whole period of pregnancy. It should never be so active nor
+so prolonged as to induce fatigue. Walking is the best form of exercise.
+Riding in a badly-constructed carriage, or over a rough road, or upon
+horseback, as well as running, dancing, and the lifting or carrying of
+heavy weights, should be scrupulously avoided, as liable to cause
+rupture, severe flooding, and miscarriage. During the early months, in
+particular, extraordinarily long walks and dancing ought not to be
+indulged in. Journeys are not to be taken while in the pregnant state.
+Railway travelling is decidedly objectionable. The vibratory motion of
+the cars is apt to produce headache, sickness at the stomach, faintness,
+and premature labor. All these precautions are especially to be observed
+in the first pregnancy.
+
+We must not be understood as condemning exercise and fresh air. They are
+of the greatest importance to mother and child. But the amount of
+exercise should be regulated by the dictates of common sense and the
+woman's own sensations. If she can only walk a short distance each day
+with comfort, let that suffice. She should not force herself to go to a
+certain place nor to promenade during a certain time in the twenty-four
+hours. So soon as fatigue is felt, the walk should cease. Let the walks
+be frequent and short, rather than few and long. They should also be
+made as pleasant as possible, by companionship and surroundings that
+will occupy the feelings and imagination in an agreeable manner with new
+and cheerful impressions. A tendency to indolence is to be combated. A
+gently active life is best calculated to preserve the health of the
+mother and her unborn child. But with even the most robust a moderation
+of the ordinary pursuits and avocations is called for. The nervous and
+delicate cannot make with safety their customary daily exertions in the
+performance of their household or social duties and pleasures.
+
+Towards the end of pregnancy the wife should economize her forces. She
+should not remain long standing or kneeling, nor sing in either of these
+postures.
+
+
+BATHING.
+
+Those who have not been accustomed to bathing should not begin the
+practice during pregnancy, and in any case great care should be
+exercised during the latter months. It is better to preserve cleanliness
+by sponging with tepid water than by entire baths. Foot-baths are always
+dangerous. Sea-bathing sometimes causes miscarriage, but sea air and the
+sponging of the body with salt water are beneficial. The shower-bath is
+of course too great a shock to the system, and a very warm bath is too
+relaxing. In some women of a nervous temperament, a lukewarm bath taken
+occasionally at night during pregnancy has a calming influence. This is
+especially the case in the first and last month. But women of a
+lymphatic temperament and of a relaxed habit of body are always injured
+by the bath.
+
+
+VENTILATION.
+
+We have spoken of the benefits of outdoor air during pregnancy.
+Attention should also be directed to keeping the atmosphere in the
+sitting and sleeping rooms of the house fresh. This can only be
+accomplished by constantly changing it. The doors and windows of every
+room, while unoccupied, should be kept thrown open in the summer-time,
+and opened sufficiently often in the winter to wash out the apartments
+several times a day with fresh air. The extremes of heat and cold are
+to be, with equal care, avoided. The house should be kept light. Young
+plants will not grow well in the dark. Neither will the young child nor
+its mother flourish without sunlight. The ancients were so well aware of
+this, that they constructed on the top of each house a solarium, or
+solar air-bath, where they basked daily, in thin attire, in the direct
+rays of the sun.
+
+
+SLEEP.
+
+During pregnancy a large amount of sleep is required. It has a sedative
+influence upon the disturbed nervous system of the mother. It favors, by
+the calmness of all the functions which attends it, the growth of the
+foetus. Neither the pursuit of pleasure in the evening, nor the
+observance of any trite maxims in regard to early rising in the morning,
+should be allowed to curtail the hours devoted to slumber. Pregnant
+women have an instinctive desire to lie abed late, which, like the other
+promptings of nature during this period, should not be disregarded. At
+least eight hours out of the twenty-four can be profitably spent in bed.
+No night-watching ought ever to be undertaken during pregnancy.
+
+Feather beds should be avoided. The heat which they maintain about the
+body is inconvenient and dangerous, predisposing to flooding and
+exhausting perspirations. The hair or sponge mattress is to be
+preferred. The bed-clothing should not be too heavy. Blankets are to be
+employed rather than coverlids, as they are lighter and more permeable
+to perspiration. The mattress and cover should be well aired during the
+day. The sleeping-room should be capacious and well ventilated, and no
+curtains permitted about the bed.
+
+Occasional rest is also necessary in the daytime. A nap of an hour or
+two upon a sofa or lounge will then prove very refreshing. In the
+earlier months of pregnancy it will tend to prevent miscarriage, and in
+the latter months to relieve the distress consequent upon the increased
+size of the womb. It is not unusual, as the close of pregnancy
+approaches, for a feeling of suffocation to ensue when the woman
+attempts to lie down. This may be overcome by supporting the back and
+shoulders with cushions and pillows. Or a bed-chair may be employed.
+This, if well constructed and covered, will often be found very grateful
+at night, in the last few weeks of pregnancy.
+
+
+THE MIND.
+
+A tranquil mind is of the first importance to the pregnant woman. Gloomy
+forebodings should not be encouraged. Pregnancy and labor are not, we
+repeat, diseased conditions. They are healthful processes, and should be
+looked upon as such by every woman. Bad labors are very infrequent. It
+is as foolish to dread them, as it is for the railway traveller to give
+way to misgivings in regard to his safety. Instead of desponding,
+science bids the woman to look forward with cheerfulness and hope to the
+joys of maternity.
+
+The bad effects of fear upon the mother's mind are illustrated by
+Plutarch, who, in his Life of Publicola, mentions that, 'at a time when
+a superstitious fear overran the city of Rome, all the women then
+pregnant brought forth imperfect children, and were prematurely
+delivered.' But we have already spoken, in treating of mothers' marks,
+of the influence of mental emotions over the unborn child, and the
+necessity of avoiding their exciting causes.
+
+Because of their deleterious tendency, severe study as well as arduous
+and protracted manual labor ought to be avoided. The nervous systems of
+many women are also injuriously affected during pregnancy by perfumes,
+which at other times are agreeable and innocuous. It is therefore
+prudent not only to exclude all offensive scents, but also to abstain
+from the strong odors of various strong perfumes, eau-de-cologne, and of
+flowers. Large bouquets often cause feelings of faintness, and sometimes
+temporary loss of consciousness. The extreme liability of the nervous
+system of the pregnant woman to be affected injuriously to herself and
+child by scenes of suffering or distress, and by disgusting or frightful
+objects, cannot be too strongly impressed upon every one. She should be
+protected from all that will disturb her, and should be constantly
+treated with soothing and encouraging kindness. Her manifestations of
+irritability, her caprices, her melancholy anticipations, are not to be
+scoffed at, but combated with a mixture of reasoning and patient
+forbearance. On her part, she should endeavour to co-operate with those
+around her, in sedulously shunning all injurious influences, and in
+banishing as quickly as possible all improper longings. She should
+remember that, although she herself may escape mischief from them, her
+child may suffer. She is the custodian of interests dearer to her than
+her own.
+
+
+RELATION OF HUSBAND AND WIFE DURING PREGNANCY.
+
+During those days when the wife, if she were not pregnant, would have
+been 'unwell,' marital intercourse should be abstained from. It is then
+injurious to the mother, and dangerous to the life of the child, as it
+is liable to excite miscarriage. But if this habitual epoch of the
+monthly sickness be avoided, there is no reason why passion should not
+be gratified in moderation and with caution during the whole period of
+pregnancy. There is one exception to be made to this general course of
+conduct. In those cases in which a miscarriage has occurred in the first
+pregnancy, every precaution should be employed--for reasons which have
+been dwelt upon in a previous article--to prevent its happening again
+after the second conception. Under such exceptional circumstances,
+therefore, the husband and wife should sleep apart during the first five
+months of pregnancy. After that period their ordinary relations may be
+resumed. When a miscarriage has taken place, intercourse should not be
+permitted within a month of the accident. The observance of this
+direction is of the utmost importance. Its neglect is the frequent cause
+of severe and intractable diseases of the womb.
+
+
+EFFECT OF PREGNANCY ON HEALTH.
+
+We have had occasion to remark that pregnancy is not a condition of
+disease. It is not only an evidence of health, but during its
+continuance it confers increased physical vigor. As a rule, a woman
+enjoys _better health_ during her pregnancy than at any other time; she
+is less liable to contagious and other maladies; she is less apt to die
+than at any other period of her life; and her general constitution seems
+also then to receive a favorable impress, for wives and mothers live
+longer than celibates. It is wisely decreed that when woman is engaged
+in this, to her, anxious stage of reproduction, she shall not be exposed
+to the pains and dangers of disease, and that those great covenants of
+nature--marriage and child-bearing--shall be rewarded by added strength
+and length of days.
+
+There are certain disorders incident, in exceptional cases, to
+pregnancy, of which we shall shortly speak. In general, however, we
+repeat that this condition is one of extraordinary health. More than
+this, in numerous instances it exerts an ameliorating influence upon
+pre-existing diseases, suspending their march, or bringing about a
+decidedly curative effect. Thus, various obstinate chronic affections of
+the skin, of the womb and ovaries, and of the brain and nervous system,
+frequently get well during pregnancy; and it is well known to every
+physician, that by the judicious management of this state, and of the
+lying-in period, troublesome displacements of the womb may be arrested.
+
+It should nevertheless ever be recollected that the condition of
+pregnancy is one of excitement and enhanced susceptibility to
+impressions of all kinds. For this reason a change in the habits of
+life is necessary; and the importance of the directions laid down for
+the care of the health during this period, cannot be too strongly
+insisted upon.
+
+The diseases to which the wife is exposed during pregnancy will be
+treated of in the chapter on 'Health in Marriage.'
+
+
+
+
+CONFINEMENT.
+
+
+_PREPARATIONS FOR CHILDBIRTH._
+
+Certain foolish preparations are sometimes made by wives, with the best
+intentions. Perhaps one of the most common and absurd of these is the
+local use of sweet oil, in order to facilitate the dilatation of the
+parts, for which purpose it is perfectly inert. There are, however, some
+wise and even necessary precautions which every wife should know and
+employ, to guard against unpleasant and dangerous complications in
+childbirth.
+
+In particular, _the condition of the breasts_ towards the close of
+pregnancy demands attention. Scarcely any pain in the lying-in chamber
+is greater or more difficult to bear than that which the young mother
+suffers from excoriated nipples. This troublesome and often very
+intractable affection is nearly always the consequence of the want of
+care previous to confinement. During the latter part of pregnancy the
+nipples sometimes become sunken or flat, being retracted as the breasts
+increase in size, because of the want of elasticity on the part of the
+milk tubes. In order to remedy this fault, we have known a breast-pump
+or puppy to be applied. Such treatment is dangerous, as it may excite
+premature contraction of the womb, and miscarriage. Nipple-shields,
+with broad bases and openings, should always be obtained. They are safe,
+and effectually secure the prominence of the nipples, when worn
+constantly, day and night, during the last month or so of pregnancy.
+Wives who have never had children ought to take special care to
+ascertain before labor whether this depressed condition of the nipples
+exists, and to correct it in the manner indicated.
+
+In the first pregnancy it is also important to _harden the nipples_.
+This may be done by occasionally gently rubbing them between the thumb
+and finger, and by bathing them twice a day during the last six weeks
+with tincture of myrrh, or with a mixture of equal parts of brandy and
+water, to which a little alum has been added. This procedure will render
+the surfaces less sensitive to the friction of the child's mouth, and
+thus avert the distress so often occasioned in the first confinement by
+tenderness of the nipples.
+
+If the nipples be rough or nodulated in appearance, like a strawberry or
+a raspberry, they are more apt to become excoriated or fissured than if
+they present a smooth surface. Under such circumstances, make a solution
+of the sulphate of zinc, of the strength of one grain to the ounce of
+rose water, in a wide-mouthed bottle, then tilt the bottle upon the
+nipple, and allow it to remain there for a few minutes several times a
+day. Simple tenderness of the nipples and slight fissures may be averted
+by the application either of a lotion of borax (two scruples of borax in
+three ounces of water, and an ounce of glycerine), of the honey of
+borax, or of the tincture of catechu, and by protecting the parts from
+the pressure of the stays and the friction of the flannel vest.
+
+It is of the greatest moment to the comfort of the mother, that all
+affections of the nipples should be prevented or remedied before labor;
+for the treatment of sore nipples when the child is at the breast is
+often unsatisfactory, while the suffering they occasion is very great,
+even sometimes giving rise to mammary abscess.
+
+There are certain _articles of clothing_ and _dressings for the bed_
+which should be cared for in advance, in order that they may be ready
+when required.
+
+The mother should be provided with short-gowns, to be worn over the
+chemise instead of the ordinary night-gowns. It is of consequence to
+procure a proper _bandage_. It should be made of heavy muslin, neither
+too coarse nor too fine; an ordinarily good quality of unbleached muslin
+is the best. The material is to be cut bias, about one and a quarter
+yard in length, and from twelve to eighteen inches in breadth, varying,
+of course, with the size of the person. It should be just large enough
+to encircle the body after confinement, with a margin of a couple of
+inches, and to extend down below the fulness of the hips. The
+measurement should be taken, and the bandage made to fit, when four and
+a half months advanced. It should be narrow above, wider below, and
+gored in such a manner that it will be a little narrower at the lower
+extremity than a few inches above, so as to prevent it, when adjusted,
+from sliding upwards. A bandage constructed in this manner will be very
+comfortable; and is not apt to become displaced, after application, as
+is invariably the case when a towel or a straight piece of muslin is
+used. The way in which it is to be applied will be detailed hereafter.
+
+The _child's clothing_ should consist first of a piece of flannel or
+some woollen material for a binder. This should be from four to six
+inches in width, and from twelve to sixteen inches in length; that is to
+say, wide enough to extend from the armpits to the lower part of the
+abdomen, and long enough to go once and a half times around the child,
+having the double fold to come over the abdomen. There should be no
+embroidery about this. A shirt, which it is desirable should be woollen,
+is to be provided to place over the binder. It should be made to come up
+tolerably high in the neck, and to extend down the arm. Neither it nor
+any other portion of the child's clothing should be starched. The
+petticoat, which may be open its whole length behind, is to be put over
+the shirt; two may be used--a short and a long one. Next comes the
+child's ordinary frock or slip, and above this an apron to protect the
+dress from the frequent discharges from the stomach. Then a shawl, of
+flannel or any other warm material, is to be provided, to throw over the
+shoulders if the weather be cold. Socks, and pieces of old soft linen,
+free from stiffening, for napkins or diapers, complete the child's
+outfit.
+
+For the _permanent and temporary dressing of the bed_ there should be
+provided a piece of impervious cloth (oiled silk is the neatest) about a
+yard square; a piece of ordinary table oil-cloth or rubber-cloth; a
+number of old sheets and comfortables, and a piece of thick carpet. The
+manner in which these are to be used will be explained shortly.
+
+A pair of small rounded scissors; a package of large pins, one and a
+half inches in length, for the bandage of the mother, and smaller ones
+for that of the child; some good linen bobbin for the doctor to tie the
+navel-string; good toilet soap and fine surgical sponge for washing the
+child; a piece of soft linen or muslin for dressing the navel; a box of
+unirritating powder; and a pile of towels,--should all be had and laid
+aside many weeks before they are wanted. These, together with the
+material for dressing the bed, the child's clothing, and the mother's
+bandage, ought to be placed together in a basket got for the purpose, in
+order that they may all be easily and certainly found at a time when
+perhaps the hurry and excitement of the moment would render it difficult
+otherwise to collect them all immediately.
+
+
+SIGNS OF APPROACHING LABOR.
+
+One of the earliest of the preliminary signs of the coming on of
+confinement occurs about two weeks before that event. It is a dropping
+or subsidence of the womb. The summit of that organ then descends, in
+most cases, from above to below the umbilicus, and the abdomen becomes
+smaller. The stomach and lungs are relieved from pressure, the woman
+breathes more freely, the sense of oppression which troubled her
+previously is lost, and she says she feels 'very comfortable.' This
+sensation of lightness and buoyancy increases, and a few days before the
+setting in of labor she feels so much better that she thinks she will
+take an extra amount of exercise. The mother of a number of children is
+acquainted with this sign, but the wife with her first child may exert
+herself unduly in the house or outdoors, and induce labor when in the
+street or away from home. Hence the importance of a knowledge of this
+premonitory symptom.
+
+A second precursory sign of labor is found in the increased fulness of
+the external parts, and an augmented mucous secretion, which may amount
+even to a discharge resembling whites, and requiring the wearing of a
+napkin. This symptom is a good one, indicating a disposition to
+relaxation, and promising an easy time.
+
+The third preliminary sign which we shall mention, is the change in the
+mental state of the pregnant woman. She has a feeling of anxiety and of
+fidgetiness, sometimes accompanied with depression of spirits. This
+condition of emotional distress, modified in particular cases by reason,
+self-control, and religion, may continue for several days, perhaps, when
+
+
+THE SYMPTOMS OF ACTUAL LABOR
+
+make their appearance. The first of these is generally the 'show.' It is
+the discharge of the plug of mucus which has occupied the neck of the
+womb up to this time, and is ordinarily accompanied by a little blood.
+Perhaps before this, or perhaps not for some hours after, the 'pains'
+will develope themselves. These recur periodically, at intervals of an
+hour or half an hour at the outset, and are 'grinding' in character.
+_True_ labor pains are distinguished from _false_ by the fact that they
+are felt in the back, passing on to the thighs, while false pains are
+referred to the abdomen; by their intermittent character, the spurious
+pains being more or less continuous; and by the steady increase in their
+frequency and severity. In case of doubt as to their exact nature, the
+doctor should be summoned, who will be able to determine positively
+whether labor has begun.
+
+The other symptoms which point to the actual commencement of labor are a
+frequent desire to empty the bowels and bladder, nausea and vomiting,
+which, in the early part of confinement, is a good sign; shiverings,
+unattended with any sensation of cold; and, finally, the rupture and
+discharge of the contents of the 'bag of waters.'
+
+Before passing on to the consideration of the management of the
+confinement into which the wife has now entered, a few words may be
+appropriately said upon the
+
+
+CAUSE OF LABOR.
+
+Neither the size nor the vigor of the child has any influence in
+bringing about delivery at full term. The ancient theory--which received
+the support of the distinguished naturalist Buffon--that the infant was
+the active agent in causing its own expulsion, is an exploded one. It
+was asserted by some that hunger excited the foetus to struggle to free
+itself from the womb; others were disposed to attribute its efforts to
+accomplish its entrance into the world, to the need of respiration which
+it experienced. But all these ingenious theories, which presupposed the
+embryo to be actuated by the same feelings which would influence a grown
+person if shut up in such a confined abode, are unsatisfactory, and not
+tenable. It is well known that the child may die in the womb, without
+retarding or interfering in any way with the coming on of the process of
+labor. This fact alone shows that the foetus is, or at any rate may be,
+absolutely passive either in regard to the induction or advancement of
+delivery. The determining cause of labor is seated in the womb itself.
+The contractions of this organ occasion the 'pains' and expel the child,
+assisted by the muscles of the abdomen and the diaphragm. That the
+assistance of the latter forces is not necessary, is conclusively proved
+by the occurrence of childbirth after the decease of the mother. For
+instance, a case is on record in which labor commenced and twins were
+born after the mother had been dead for three days.
+
+
+CARE DURING LABOR.
+
+We will suppose labor to have commenced. The _preparation of the bed_
+for the occupancy of the mother is now to be attended to. As she is to
+lie on the _left side_ of the bed, this is the side, and the only one,
+which is to be dressed for the occasion. In order to do so, remove the
+outer bed-clothes one at a time, folding them neatly on the right side
+of the bed so that they can easily be drawn over when desired. The
+_permanent dressing_ is to be placed beneath the lower sheet and upon
+the mattress. A soft impervious cloth--which, in speaking of the
+preparation for confinement, we directed to be procured--is placed next
+to the surface of the bed. The upper edge should be nearly as high as
+the margin of the bolster, and it should extend down to a distance at
+least a foot below the level of the hips, so as to certainly protect the
+bed from the discharges. Upon the top of this a blanket or sheet is
+laid, and the whole fastened by pins. The lower sheet of the bed, which
+had been turned over to the right side, to permit the application of the
+dressing, is now to be replaced. Over the position of this permanent
+dressing, on the top of the bed-sheet, a neatly-folded sheet, with the
+folded edge down, is adjusted and pinned in its place. It is upon this
+sheet that the patient is to be drawn up after her confinement, which
+will take place upon the _temporary dressing_ of the bed now to be
+arranged. It consists of an oil-cloth, which should extend up beyond the
+lower edge of the permanent dressing, overlapping the folded sheet which
+has been placed above it, and should fall over the side and bottom of
+the bed. A comfortable or any soft absorbent material is placed over
+this impervious cloth and covered with a folded sheet, completing the
+temporary dressing. The bed-clothes may now be adjusted, concealing the
+dressings from view until they are wanted. The valances at the foot of
+the bed should be raised, and a piece of carpet placed on the floor. The
+bed should have no foot-board, or a very low one.
+
+_The dress of the mother._--Either a folded sheet should be adjusted
+around the waist as the only skirt, so as not to interfere with the
+walking, or a second chemise should be put on, with the arms outside the
+sleeves, to extend from the waist to the feet. Then the chemise next the
+body should be drawn up and folded high up around the breast. It should
+be plaited neatly along the back, and brought forward and fastened by
+pins. This should be thoroughly done, so that the linen may not be found
+wet nor soiled when it is drawn down after confinement. A wrapper or
+dressing-gown may be worn during the first stage of labor, before it is
+necessary to go to bed. When, however, that time comes, the wife will
+take her place on her left side on the temporary dressing, with a sheet
+thrown over her, her head on a pillow so situated that her body will be
+bent well forward, and her feet against the bed-post. A sheet should be
+twisted into a cord and fastened to the foot of the bed, for her to
+seize with her hands during the accession of the 'bearing-down pains.'
+Care should be taken to have a number of napkins, a pot of fresh lard,
+and the basket containing the scissors, ligature, bandage, etc.--which
+have been previously enumerated in the remarks on preparations for
+childbirth--at hand, for the use of the doctor.
+
+We have now noted all that it is useful for the wife to know in regard
+to the preparation for and management of confinement, when a physician
+is in attendance, as, for obvious reasons, he should always be. In some
+instances, however, the absence of the doctor is unavoidable, or the
+labor is completed before his arrival. As a guide to the performance of
+the necessary duties of the lying-in room under such circumstances, we
+give some
+
+
+HINTS TO ATTENDANTS.
+
+The room during confinement should be kept quiet. Too many persons must
+not be allowed in it, as they contaminate the air, and are apt by their
+conversation to disturb the patient, either exciting or depressing her.
+So soon as the head is born, it should be immediately ascertained
+whether the neck is encircled by the cord; if so, it should be removed
+or loosened. The neglect of this precaution may result fatally to the
+infant, as happened a short time since in our own practice; the infant,
+born a few minutes before our arrival, being found strangled with the
+cord about its neck. It is also of importance at once to allow of the
+entrance of air to the face, to put the finger in the mouth to remove
+any obstruction which may interfere with respiration, and to lay the
+babe on its right side, with the head removed from the discharges. The
+cord should not be tied until the infant is heard to cry. The ligature
+is to be applied in the following manner:--A piece of bobbin is thrown
+around the navel-string, and tied with a double knot at the distance of
+three fingers' breadth from the umbilicus; a second piece is tied an
+inch beyond the first, and the cord divided with the scissors between
+the two, care being taken not to clip off a finger or otherwise injure
+the unsuspecting little infant, as has occurred in careless hands more
+than once. When the child is separated from the mother, a warm blanket
+or a piece of flannel should be ready to receive it. In taking hold of
+the little stranger, it may slip out of the hands and be injured. To
+guard against this accident, which is very apt to occur with awkward or
+inexperienced persons, always seize the back portion of the neck in the
+space bounded by the thumb and first finger of one hand, and grasp the
+thighs with the other. In this way it may be safely carried. It should
+be transferred, wrapped up in its blanket, to some _secure_ place, and
+never put in an arm-chair, where it may be crushed by some one who does
+not observe that the chair is already occupied. The head of the child
+should not be so covered as to incur any danger of suffocation.
+
+
+ATTENTION TO THE MOTHER.
+
+When the after-birth has come away, the mother should be drawn up a
+short distance--six or eight inches--in bed, and the sheet which has
+been pinned around her, together with the temporary dressing of the bed
+removed, a clean folded sheet being introduced under the hips. The parts
+should be gently washed with warm water and a soft sponge or a cloth,
+after which an application of equal parts of claret wine and water will
+prove pleasant and beneficial. We have also found the anointing of the
+external and internal parts with goose grease, which has been thoroughly
+washed in several hot waters, to be very soothing and efficient in
+speedily allaying all irritation. This ought all to be done under cover,
+to guard against the taking of cold. The chemise pinned up around the
+breast should now be loosened, and the woman is ready for the
+application of the bandage, which is to be put on next the skin. If
+properly and nicely adjusted, it will prove very grateful. The
+directions for making it have already been given. In order to apply it,
+one half of its length should be folded up into plaits, and the mother
+should lie on her left side; lay the plaited end of the bandage
+underneath the left side of the patient, carrying it as far under as
+possible, and draw the loose end over the abdomen; then let the mother
+roll over on her back upon the bandage, and draw out the plaited end. If
+the abdominal muscles are much relaxed and the hip-bones prominent, a
+compress of two or three towels will be wanted. The bandage should be
+first tightened in the middle by a pin applied laterally, for strings
+should never be employed. The pins should be placed at intervals of
+about an inch. The lower portion of the bandage should be made quite
+tight, to prevent it slipping up. The mother is now ready to be drawn up
+in bed upon the permanent dressing: this should be done without any
+exertion on her part. A napkin should be laid smoothly _under_ the hips
+(never folded up), to receive the discharges. If she prefer to lie on
+her left side, place a pillow behind her back.
+
+
+ATTENTION TO THE CHILD.
+
+The baby may now be washed and dressed. Before beginning, everything
+that is wanted should be close at hand, namely a basin of warm water, a
+large quantity of lard or some other unctuous material, soap, fine
+sponge, and a basket containing the binder, shirt, and other articles of
+clothing. First rub the child's body thoroughly with lard. The covering
+can only be removed in this way; the use of soap alone will have no
+effect unless the friction be so great as to take off also the skin. The
+nurse should take a handful of lard and rub it in with the palm of the
+hand, particularly in the flexures of the joints. In anointing one part,
+the others should be covered, to prevent the child from taking cold. If
+the child is thus made perfectly clean, do not use any soap and water,
+because the skin is left in a more healthful condition by the lard, and
+there is risk of the child's taking cold from the evaporation of the
+water. But the face may be washed with soap and water, great care being
+taken not to let the soap get into the child's eyes, which is one of the
+most frequent causes of sore eyes in infants. The navel-string is now to
+be dressed. This is done by wrapping it up in a circular piece of soft
+muslin, well oiled, with a hole in its centre. The bandage is next to be
+applied. The object of its use is to protect the child's abdomen against
+cold, and to keep the dressing of the cord in its position. The nature,
+shape, and size of the binder have been described. It should be pinned
+in front, three pins being generally sufficient. The rest of the
+clothing before enumerated is then put on.
+
+The child is now to be _applied to the breast at once_. This is to be
+done, for three reasons. First, it very often prevents flooding, which
+is apt otherwise to occur. Secondly, it tends to prevent milk fever, by
+averting the violent rush of the milk on the third day, and the
+consequent engorgement of the breast and constitutional disturbance.
+The third reason is, that there is always a secretion in the breast from
+the first, which it is desirable for the child to have; for it acts as a
+cathartic, stimulating the liver, and cleansing the bowels from the
+secretions which fill them at the time of birth. There is generally
+sufficient nourishment in the breasts for the child for the first few
+days. The mother may lie on the one side or the other, and receive the
+child upon the arm of that upon which she is lying. If the nipple be not
+perfectly drawn out so that the child can grasp it in its mouth, the
+difficulty may be overcome by filling a porter-bottle with hot water,
+emptying it, and then placing the mouth of the bottle immediately over
+the nipple. This will cause, as the bottle cools, a sufficient amount of
+suction to elevate the sunken nipple. The bottle should then be removed
+and the child substituted,--a little sugar and water or sweetened milk
+being applied, if necessary, to tempt the child to take the breast.
+
+
+FURTHER ATTENTION TO THE MOTHER.
+
+The patient should be cleansed every _four or five hours_. A soft
+napkin, wet with warm soap and water, should for this purpose be passed
+underneath the bed-clothing, without exposing the surface to a draft of
+air. After using the soap and water, apply again the dilute claret wine
+and the goose grease. Much of the safety of the mother depends upon the
+observation of cleanliness. The napkin should not be allowed to remain
+so long as to become saturated with the discharges.
+
+The mother should maintain rigidly the recumbent position for the first
+few days, not raising her shoulders from the pillow for any purpose, and
+should abstain from receiving visitors, and from any social conversation
+for the first twenty-four hours.
+
+For the first three or four days, until the milk has come and the milk
+fever passed, the mother should live upon light food,--oatmeal gruel,
+tea and toast, panada, or anything else of little bulk and unstimulating
+character. Afterwards the diet may be increased by the addition of
+chicken, lamb, mutton or oyster broth, buttered toast, and eggs. The
+object of light nourishment at first is to prevent the too rapid
+secretion of milk, which might be attended with evil local and
+constitutional effects. If, however, the mother be in feeble health, it
+will be necessary from the outset that she shall be supported with
+nourishing concentrated food. _Beef-tea_ will then be found very
+serviceable, particularly if made according to the following
+recipe:--Take a pound of fresh beef from the loins or neck. Free it
+carefully from all fat. Cut it up into fine pieces, and add a very
+little salt and five grains of unbroken black pepper. Pour on it a pint
+of cold water, and _simmer_ for forty minutes. Then pour off the liquor,
+place the meat in a cloth, and, after squeezing the juice from it into
+the tea, throw it aside. Return to the fire, and boil for ten minutes.
+
+After the first week, the diet of the lying-in woman should always be
+nutritious, though plain and simple. The development of the mammary
+glands, the production of the mammary secretion, and the reduction which
+takes place in the size of the womb, all require increased nourishment,
+that they may be properly performed.
+
+After the third or fourth day _the dress should be changed_. The dress
+worn during labor, if our directions have been carried out, will not
+have been soiled. The clothing should be changed without uncovering the
+person, and without raising the head from the pillow. Pull the bed-gown
+from over each arm, and draw it out from under the body. Then unfasten
+the chemise in front and draw it down underneath her so that it can be
+removed from below, as it should not be carried over the head. Place her
+arms in the sleeves of the clean chemise, throw its body over her head,
+and, without lifting her shoulders from the bed, draw it down. Then
+change the bed-gown in the same manner.
+
+In changing the upper sheet, it should be pulled off from below, and the
+clean one carried down in its place from above, underneath the other
+clothing, which can be readily accomplished by plaiting the lower half.
+In introducing a clean under-sheet, one side of it should be plaited and
+placed under the patient, lying on her left side; when she turns on her
+back, the plaits can then be readily drawn out. These directions, though
+apparently trivial, are important. The object is to guard against the
+great danger to which the mother is exposed by sitting up in bed for
+even a few minutes during the first week.
+
+_Cathartic medicine_ should not be administered the first, the third, or
+any other day after confinement, unless it is needed. If the patient is
+perfectly comfortable, has no pain in the abdomen, no headache, and is
+well in every respect, she should be let alone, even if her bowels have
+not been moved. If a laxative be called for, citrate of magnesia is much
+pleasanter and equally as efficacious as the castor-oil so frequently
+administered on this occasion.
+
+
+TO HAVE LABOR WITHOUT PAIN.
+
+Is it possible to avoid the throes of labor, and have children without
+suffering? This is a question which science answers in the affirmative.
+Medical art brings the waters of Lethe to the bedside of woman in her
+hour of trial. Of late years chloroform and ether have been employed to
+lessen or annul the pains of childbirth, with the same success that has
+attended their use in surgery. Their administration is never pushed so
+as to produce complete unconsciousness, unless some operation is
+necessary, but merely so as to diminish sensibility and render the pains
+endurable. These agents are thus given without injury to the child, and
+without retarding the labor or exposing the mother to any danger. When
+properly employed, they induce refreshing sleep, revive the drooping
+nervous system, and expedite the delivery.
+
+They should never be used in the absence of the doctor. He alone is
+competent to give them with safety. In natural, easy, and short labor,
+where the pains are readily borne, they are not required. But in those
+lingering cases in which the suffering is extreme, and, above all, in
+those instances where instruments have to be employed, ether and
+chloroform have a value beyond all price.
+
+
+MORTALITY OF CHILDBED.
+
+_The number of the pregnancy_ affects the danger to be expected from
+lying-in. It has been declared by excellent authority, that the
+mortality of first labors, and of childbed fever following first labors
+is about twice the mortality attending all subsequent labors
+collectively. After the ninth labor the mortality increases with the
+number. A woman having a large family, therefore, comes into greater and
+increasing risk as she bears her ninth and successive children.
+
+_The age of the woman_ also affects the mortality accompanying
+confinement. The age of least mortality is near twenty-five years. On
+either side of this, mortality increases with the diminution or increase
+of age. The age of the greatest safety in confinement therefore
+corresponds to the age of greatest fecundity. And during the whole of
+child-bearing life, safety in labor is directly as fecundity, and _vice
+versa_. Hence modern statistics prove the correctness of the saying of
+Aristotle, that 'to the female sex premature wedlock is peculiarly
+dangerous, since, in consequence of anticipating the demands of nature,
+many of them suffer greatly in childbirth, and many of them die.' As the
+period from twenty to twenty-five is the least dangerous for childbirth,
+and as first labors are more hazardous than all others before the ninth,
+it is important that this term of least mortality be chosen for entering
+upon the duties of matrimony. This we have already pointed out in
+speaking of the age of nubility.
+
+_The sex of the child_ is another circumstance affecting the mortality
+of labor. Professor Simpson of Edinburgh has shown that a greater
+proportion of deaths occurs in women who have brought forth male
+children.
+
+_The duration of labor_ also influences the mortality of lying-in. The
+fatality increases with the length of the labor. It must be recollected,
+however, that the duration of labor is only an inconsiderable part of
+the many causes of mortality in childbirth.
+
+
+WEIGHT AND LENGTH OF NEW-BORN CHILDREN
+
+The average weight of infants of both sexes at the time of birth is
+about seven pounds. The average of male children is seven and one-third
+pounds; of female, six and two-thirds pounds. Children which at full
+term weigh less than five pounds are not apt to thrive, and usually die
+in a short time.
+
+The average length at birth, without regard to sex, is about twenty
+inches, the male being about half an inch longer than the female.
+
+In regard to the relation between the size of the child and the age of
+the mother, the interesting conclusion has been arrived at, that the
+average weight and length of the mature child gradually increases with
+the age of the mother up to the twenty-fifth year. Mothers between the
+ages of twenty-five and twenty-nine have the largest children. From the
+thirtieth year they gradually diminish. The first child of a woman is of
+comparatively light weight. The first egg of a fowl is smaller than
+those which follow.
+
+The new-born children in our Western States seem to be larger than the
+statistics show them to be in the various States of Europe, and
+apparently even than in our Eastern States. In the Report on Obstetrics
+of the Illinois State Medical Society for 1868, it is stated that
+Quincy, Ill., produced during the year six male children whose average
+weight at birth was thirteen and a quarter pounds, the smallest weighing
+twelve pounds, and the largest seventeen and a half, which was born at
+the end of four hours' labor, without instrumental or other
+interference. A recent number of a Western medical journal reports the
+birth at Detroit, in February last, of a well-formed male infant
+twenty-four and a-half inches long, weighing sixteen pounds. The woman's
+weight, _after labor_, is stated as only ninety-two pounds. An English
+physician delivered a child by the forceps which weighed seventeen
+pounds twelve ounces, and measured twenty-four inches. These are the
+largest well-authenticated new-born infants on record.
+
+
+DURATION OF LABOR.
+
+The length of a natural labor may be said to vary between two and
+eighteen hours. The intervals between the pains are such, however, that
+the actual duration of suffering, even in the longest labor, is
+comparatively very short. The first confinement is much longer than
+subsequent ones.
+
+The _sex_ of the child has some influence on the duration of labor.
+According to Dr. Collins of the Lying-in Hospital of Dublin, the average
+with _male_ births is one hour and four minutes longer than with
+_female_. The _weight_ of the child also affects the time of labor.
+Children weighing over eight pounds average four hours and eight minutes
+longer in birth than those of less than eight pounds weight.
+
+
+STILL-BIRTHS.
+
+The statistics of nearly fifty thousand deliveries which occurred at the
+Royal Maternity Charity, London, show a percentage of nearly five
+still-born, or one in twenty-seven.
+
+There are more boys still-born than girls. We have already spoken of the
+fact that male births are more tedious, and that a larger number of
+males die in the first few years of life than females. This series of
+misfortunes has been attributed to the large size which the male foetus
+at birth possesses over the female.
+
+
+IMPRUDENCE AFTER CHILDBIRTH.
+
+After the birth of the child at full term, or at any other period of
+pregnancy, the womb, which had attained such wonderful proportions in a
+few months, begins to resume its former size. This process requires at
+least six weeks after labor for its full accomplishment. Rest is
+essential during this period. A too early return to the ordinary active
+duties of life retards or checks this restoration to normal size, and
+the womb being heavier, exposes the woman to great danger of uterine
+displacements. Nor are these the only risks incurred by a too hasty
+renewal of active movements. The surface, the substance, and the lining
+membrane of the womb are all very liable, while this change from its
+increased to its ordinary bulk is occurring, to take on inflammation
+after slight exposure. The worst cases of uterine inflammation and
+ulceration are thus caused. A 'bad getting-up,' prolonged debility,
+pain, and excessive discharge, are among the least penalties consequent
+upon imprudence after confinement. It is a mistake to suppose that
+hard-working women in the lower walks of life attend with impunity to
+their ordinary duties a few days after confinement. Those who suffer
+most from falling of the womb and other displacements are the poor, who
+are obliged to get up on the ninth day and remain upright, standing or
+walking for many hours with an over-weighted womb. Every physician who
+has practised much among the poor, has remarked upon the great frequency
+of diseases of the womb, which is to be attributed to the neglect of
+rest, so common among them, after childbirth. If this be true of
+vigorous women accustomed to a hardy life, how much more apt to suffer
+from this cause are the delicately nurtured, whose systems are already,
+perhaps, deteriorated, and little able to resist any deleterious
+influences!
+
+A mother should remain in bed for at least two weeks after the birth of
+the child, and should not return to her household duties under a month;
+she should also take great pains to protect herself from cold, so as to
+escape the rheumatic affections to which at this time she is
+particularly subject. If these directions were generally observed, there
+would be less employment for physicians with diseases peculiar to
+women, and fewer invalids in our homes.
+
+
+TO PRESERVE THE FORM AFTER CHILDBIRTH.
+
+This is a matter of great anxiety with many women; and it is proper that
+it should be, for a flabby, pendulous abdomen is not only destructive to
+grace of movement and harmony of outline, but is a positive
+inconvenience.
+
+To avoid it, be careful not to leave the bed too early. If the walls of
+the abdomen are much relaxed, the bed should be kept from two to three
+weeks. Gentle frictions daily with spirits and water will give tone to
+the muscles. But the most important point is to wear for several months
+a _well-fitting_ bandage--not a towel pinned around the person, but a
+body-case of strong linen, cut bias, setting snugly to the form, but not
+exerting unpleasant pressure. The pattern for this has already been
+given.
+
+
+
+
+THE MOTHER.
+
+
+_MATERNAL DUTIES AND PRIVILEGES._
+
+It has been well said by Madame Sirey, that women who comprehend well
+their rights and duties as mothers of families, certainly cannot
+complain of their destiny. If there exists any inequality in the means
+of pleasure accorded to the two sexes, it is in favor of the woman. The
+mother who lives in her children and her grandchildren has the peculiar
+privilege of not knowing the grief of becoming old.
+
+'So low down in the scale of creation as we can go,' says Professor
+Laycock of Edinburgh, 'wherever there is a discoverable distinction of
+sex, we find that maternity is the first and most fundamental duty of
+the female. The male never in a single instance, in any organism,
+whether plant or animal, contributes nutrient material.'
+
+Among the Romans, it was enacted that married women who had borne three
+children, or if freed-women, four, had special privileges of their own
+in cases of inheritance, and were exempted from tutelage. Juvenal has
+recorded the reverence paid in Rome to the newly-made mother, and the
+sign by which her house was designated and protected from rude
+intruders, namely, by the suspension of wreaths over the door.
+
+At various times, and in different countries, legislators have made laws
+discriminating in favor of matrons, justly regarding the family as the
+source of the wealth and prosperity of the State.
+
+Louis XIV. granted, by the edict of 1666, certain pensions to parents of
+ten children, with an increase for those who had twelve or more.
+
+
+NURSING.
+
+So soon as the infant is born, it ought to be placed at the breast. From
+this source it should receive its _only_ nourishment during the first
+four or six months, and in many cases the first year, of its life. The
+child which the mother has carried for nine months and brought with
+suffering into the world, still depends upon her for its existence. At
+the moment of its birth her duties to the infant, instead of ceasing,
+augment in importance. The obligation is imposed upon her of nourishing
+it with _her own_ milk, unless there are present physical conditions
+rendering nursing improper, of which we are about to speak. It is well
+known that the artificial feeding of infants is a prominent cause of
+mortality in early life. The foundlings of large cities furnish the most
+striking and convincing proof of the great advantages of nursing over
+the use of artificially-prepared food. On the continent of Europe, in
+Lyons and Parthenay, where foundlings are wet-nursed from the time they
+are received, the deaths are 33.7 and 35 per cent. In Paris, Rheims, and
+Aix, where they are wholly dry-nursed, their deaths are 50.3, 63.9, and
+80 per cent. In New York city, the foundlings, numbering several hundred
+a year, were, until recently, dry-nursed, with the fearful and almost
+incredible mortality of nearly one hundred per cent. The employment of
+wet-nurses has produced a much more favorable result. Therefore, if for
+any reason the mother cannot nurse her own child, a hired wet-nurse
+should be procured. This brings us to the consideration of
+
+
+HINDRANCES TO NURSING, AND WHEN IT IS IMPROPER.
+
+Women who have never suckled often experience difficulty in nursing, on
+account of the sunken and flat condition of the nipple. We have pointed
+out the causes of this depression, and how by early attention before the
+birth of the infant it may be prevented. If, however, these precautions
+have been neglected, and it is found that the nipple is not sufficiently
+prominent to be grasped by the child's mouth, it may be drawn out by a
+common breast-pump, by suction with a tobacco-pipe, by the use of the
+hot-water bottle in the manner described, or by the application of an
+infant a little older. Neither the child nor the mother should be
+constantly fretted in such cases by frequent ineffectual attempts at
+nursing. Such unremitting attention and continual efforts produce
+nervousness and loss of sleep, and result in a diminution of the
+quantity of the milk. The child should not be put to the breast oftener
+than once in an hour and a half or two hours. By the use of the
+expedients mentioned, the whole difficulty will be overcome in a few
+days.
+
+_Delay in applying the child to the breast_ is a common cause of
+trouble. After it has been fed for several days with the spoon or
+bottle, it will often refuse to suck. When nursing is deferred, the
+nipple also becomes tender. For these reasons, as well as the others
+detailed in our directions for the care of the new-born infant, the
+child should always, in say from two to three hours after labor, be
+placed at the breast.
+
+_Ulcerated and fissured nipples_ should be treated by the doctor in
+attendance. As it is highly desirable, and nearly always possible, to
+avoid them, we would again call attention to the manner of doing so,
+indicated in a previous article. Fissured nipples sometimes do harm to
+the infant, by causing it to swallow blood, disturbing in this way the
+digestion. But all these local interferences with nursing can generally
+be obviated in the course of a few weeks, and rarely entirely prevent
+the exercise of this maternal pleasure and duty.
+
+But there are certain _physical conditions which necessitate the
+employment of a hired wet-nurse_, or weaning. If the mother belongs to a
+consumptive family, and is herself pale, emaciated, harassed by a cough,
+and exhausted by suckling, wet-nursing is eminently improper. A
+temporary loss of strength under other circumstances should not induce a
+mother at once to wean her child; for it is often possible, by the
+judicious use of tonics, nourishing food, and stimulants, to entirely
+restore the health with the child at the breast. It should always be
+recollected, however, that the milk of those in decidedly infirm health
+is incapable of properly nourishing the child. Professor J. Lewis Smith
+of New York quotes, in his recent work on Diseases of Children, several
+instructive cases which show the danger sometimes attending suckling,
+and which may imperatively demand its discontinuance. 'A very
+light-complexioned young mother, in very good health, and of a good
+constitution, though somewhat delicate, was nursing for the third time,
+and, as regarded the child, successfully. All at once this young woman
+experienced a feeling of exhaustion. Her skin became constantly hot;
+there were cough, oppression, night-sweats; her strength visibly
+declined, and in less than a fortnight she presented the ordinary
+symptoms of consumption. The nursing was immediately abandoned, and from
+the moment the secretion of milk had ceased, all the troubles
+disappeared.' Again: 'A woman of forty years of age having lost, one
+after another, several children, all of which she had put out to nurse,
+determined to nurse the last one herself. This woman being vigorous and
+well built, was eager for the work, and, filled with devotion and
+spirit, she gave herself up to the nursing of her child with a sort of
+fury. At nine months she still nursed him from fifteen to twenty times a
+day. Having become extremely emaciated, she fell all at once into a
+state of weakness, from which nothing could raise her, and two days
+after the poor woman died of exhaustion.'
+
+It does not always follow, that because the mother is sick the child
+should be taken from the breast. It is only necessary in those
+affections in which there is great depression of the vital powers, or
+in which there is danger of communicating the disease to the child. In
+the city, where artificially-fed infants run great risks, extreme
+caution should be exercised in early weaning.
+
+_Inflammation of either of the breasts_ necessitates the removal of the
+infant from the affected side, and its restriction to the other. As the
+inflammation gets well and the milk reappears, the first of it should
+always be rejected, as it is apt to be thick and stringy, after which
+nursing may be resumed.
+
+
+RULES FOR NURSING.
+
+The new-born child should be nursed about every second hour during the
+day, and not more than once or twice at night. Too much ardor may be
+displayed by the young mother in the performance of her duties. Not
+knowing the fact that an infant quite as frequently cries from being
+overfed as from want of nourishment, she is apt to give it the breast at
+every cry, day and night. In this manner her health is broken down, and
+she is compelled perhaps to wean her child, which, with more prudence
+and knowledge, she might have continued to nurse without detriment to
+herself. It is particularly important that the child shall acquire the
+habit of not requiring the breast more than once or twice at night.
+This, with a little perseverance, can readily be accomplished, so that
+the hours for rest at night, so much needed by the mother, may not be
+interfered with. Indeed, if the mother does not enjoy good health, it is
+better for her not to nurse at all at night, but to have the child fed
+once or twice with a little cow's milk. For this purpose, take the
+upper third of the milk which has stood for several hours and dilute it
+with water, in the proportion of one part of milk to two of water.
+
+In those cases in which the milk of the mother habitually disagrees with
+the infant, the attention of the doctor should at once be called to the
+circumstance. A microscopic examination will reveal to the intelligent
+practitioner the cause of the difficulty, and suggest the remedy.
+
+It may be well here to mention--as, judging from the practice of many
+nurses and mothers, it seems to be a fact not generally known or
+attended to--that human milk contains _all that is required_ for the
+growth and repair of the various parts of the child's body. It should
+therefore be the sole food in early infancy.
+
+
+INFLUENCE OF DIET ON THE MOTHER'S MILK.
+
+Certain articles of food render the milk acid, and thus induce colicky
+pains and bowel complaints in the child. Such, therefore, as are found,
+in each individual case, to produce indigestion and an acid stomach in
+the mother, should be carefully avoided by her.
+
+_Retention of the milk in the breasts_ alters its character. The longer
+it is retained, the weaker and more watery it becomes. An acquaintance
+with this fact is of practical importance to every mother; for it
+follows from it, that the milk is richer the oftener it is removed from
+the breast. Therefore, if the digestion of the child is disordered by
+the milk being too rich, as sometimes happens, the remedy is to give it
+the breast less frequently by which not only is less taken, but the
+quality is also rendered poorer. On the contrary, in those instances in
+which the child is badly nourished and the milk is insufficient in
+quantity, it should be applied oftener, and the milk thus rendered
+richer.
+
+The milk which last flows is always the richest. Hence, when two
+children are nursed, the first is the worse served.
+
+
+INFLUENCE OF PREGNANCY ON THE MILK.
+
+Menstruation is ordinarily absent, and pregnancy therefore impossible,
+during the whole course of nursing, at least during the first nine
+months. Sometimes, however, mothers become unwell at the expiration of
+the sixth or seventh month; in rare instances, within the first five or
+six weeks after confinement. When the monthly sickness makes its
+appearance without any constitutional or local disturbance, it is not
+apt to interfere with the welfare of the infant. When, on the contrary,
+the discharge is profuse, and attended with much pain, it may produce
+colic, vomiting, and diarrhoea in the nursling. The disturbance in the
+system of the child ordinarily resulting from pregnancy in the mother is
+such that, as a rule, it should be at once weaned so soon as it is
+certain that pregnancy exists. The only exceptions to this rule are
+those cases in the city, during the hot months, in which it is
+impossible either to procure a wet-nurse or to take the child to the
+country to be weaned. In cold weather an infant should certainly be
+weaned, if it has attained its fifth or sixth month, and the mother has
+become pregnant.
+
+
+INFLUENCE OF THE MOTHER'S MIND OVER THE NURSING CHILD.
+
+We have spoken, in treating of mothers' marks, of the influence of the
+mother's mind upon her unborn offspring. The influence of the maternal
+mind does not cease with the birth of the child. The mother continues
+during the whole period of nursing powerfully to impress, through her
+milk, the babe at her breast. It is well established, that mental
+emotions are capable of changing the quantity and quality of the milk,
+and of thus rendering it hurtful, and even dangerous, to the infant.
+
+_The secretion of milk may be entirely stopped_ by the action of the
+nervous system. Fear, excited on account of the child which is sick or
+exposed to accident, will check the flow of milk, which will not return
+until the little one is restored in safety to the mother's arms.
+Apprehension felt in regard to a drunken husband, has been known to
+arrest the supply of this fluid. On the other hand, the secretion is
+often augmented, as every mother knows, by the _sight_ of the child,
+nay, even by the _thought_ of him, causing a sudden rush of blood to the
+breast known to nurses as the _draught_. Indeed a strong desire to
+furnish milk, together with the application of the child to the breast,
+has been effectual in bringing about its secretion in young girls, old
+women, and even men.
+
+Sir Astley Cooper states that 'those passions which are generally
+sources of pleasure, and which when moderately indulged are conducive to
+health, will, when carried to excess, alter, and even entirely check the
+secretion of milk.'
+
+But the fact which it is most important to know is, that _nervous
+agitation may so alter the quality of the milk as to make it poisonous_.
+A fretful temper, fits of anger, grief, anxiety of mind, fear, and
+sudden terror, not only lessen the quantity of the milk, but render it
+thin and unhealthful, inducing disturbances of the child's bowels,
+diarrhoea, griping, and fever. Intense mental emotion may even so alter
+the milk as to cause the death of the child. A physician states, in the
+_Lancet_, that, having removed a small tumour from behind the ear of a
+mother, all went on well until she fell into a violent passion. The
+child being suckled soon afterwards, it died in convulsions. Professor
+Carpenter records in his Physiology two other fatal instances: in one,
+the infant put to the breast immediately after the receipt of
+distressing news by the mother, died in her arms in the presence of the
+messenger of the ill-tidings; in the other, the infant was seized with
+convulsions on the right side and paralysis on the left, on sucking
+directly after the mother had met with an agitating occurrence. Another
+case of similar character may be mentioned. A woman while nursing became
+violently excited on account of a loss she had just met with from a
+theft. She gave her child the breast while in an intense passion. The
+child first refused, but ultimately took it, when severe vomiting
+occurred. In the course of some hours the child took the other breast,
+was attacked at once with violent convulsions, and died in spite of all
+that could be done for it.
+
+The following cases are related by Professor Carpenter as occurring
+within his own knowledge. They are valuable as a warning to nursing
+mothers to avoid all exciting or depressing passions. A mother of
+several healthy children, of whom the youngest was a vigorous infant a
+few months old, heard of the death from convulsions of the infant child
+of an intimate friend at a distance, whose family had increased in the
+same manner as her own. The unfortunate circumstance made a strong
+impression on her mind, and being alone with her babe, separated from
+the rest of her family, she dwelt upon it more than she otherwise would
+have done. With her mind thus occupied, one morning, shortly after
+nursing her infant, she laid it in its cradle, asleep and apparently in
+perfect health. Her attention was soon attracted to it by a noise. On
+going to the cradle she found it in a convulsion, which lasted only a
+few moments, and left it dead. In the other case, the mother had lost
+several children in early infancy, from fits. One infant alone survived
+the usually fatal period. While nursing him, one morning she dwelt
+strongly upon the fear of losing him also, although he appeared to be a
+very healthy child. The infant was transferred to the arms of the nurse.
+While the nurse was endeavouring to cheer the mother by calling her
+attention to the thriving appearance of her child, he was seized with a
+convulsion, and died almost instantly in her arms. Under similar
+circumstances, a child should not be nursed by its mother, but by one
+who has reared healthy children of her own and has a tranquil mind.
+
+An interesting illustration of the powerful sedative action of the
+mother's milk--changed in consequence of great mental distress--upon the
+impressible nervous system of the infant, is furnished by a German
+physician. 'A carpenter fell into a quarrel with a soldier billeted in
+his house, and was set upon by the latter with his drawn sword. The wife
+of the carpenter at first trembled from fear and terror, and then
+suddenly threw herself furiously between the combatants, wrested the
+sword from the soldier's hand, broke it in pieces, and threw it away.
+During the tumult, some neighbors came in and separated the men. While
+in this state of strong excitement, the mother took up her child from
+the cradle, where it lay playing and in the most perfect health, never
+having had a moment's illness. She gave it the breast, and in so doing
+sealed its fate. In a few minutes the infant left off sucking, became
+restless, panted, and sank dead upon its mother's bosom. The physician,
+who was instantly called in, found the child lying in the cradle as if
+asleep, and with its features undisturbed; but all his resources were
+fruitless. It was irrevocably gone.'
+
+Professor William A. Hammond of New York mentions, in a recent number of
+the _Journal of Psychological Medicine_, several instances, from his own
+practice, of affections in the child caused by the mother's milk. 'A
+soldier's wife, whilst nursing her child, was very much terrified by a
+sudden thunderstorm, during which the house where she was then quartered
+was struck by lightning. The infant, which had always been in excellent
+health, was immediately attacked with vomiting and convulsions, from
+which it recovered with difficulty.' 'A lady, three weeks after
+delivery, was attacked with puerperal insanity. She nursed her child but
+once after the accession of the disease, and in two hours subsequently
+it was affected with general convulsions, from which it died during the
+night. Previous to this event it had been in robust health.'
+
+Again, Dr. Seguin of New York relates, in his work on Idiocy, a number
+of cases of _loss of mind_ produced by the altered state of the mother's
+milk. 'Mrs. B. came out from a ball-room, gave the breast to her baby,
+three months old: he was taken with spasms two hours after, and since is
+a confirmed idiot and epileptic.'
+
+'In a moment of great anxiety Mrs. C. jumped into a carriage with her
+suckling, a girl of fifteen months, so far very intelligent and
+attractive. The child took the breast only once in a journey of twenty
+miles, but before arriving at destination she vomited several times,
+with no interruption but that of stupor, and after an acute fever the
+little girl settled down into the condition of a cripple and idiot.'
+
+The celebrated physician Boerhaave mentions the milk of an angry nurse
+as among the causes of _epilepsy._
+
+These facts show the importance of a placid mind and cheerful temper in
+the mother while nursing.
+
+
+POSITION OF THE MOTHER WHILE NURSING.
+
+The habit of nursing a child while sitting up in bed or half reclining
+upon a lounge is a wrong one. Such a position is injurious to the
+breasts, hurtful to the woman's figure, and apt to cause backache. When
+in bed, the mother ought always to be recumbent while the child is at
+the breast, held upon the arm of the side upon which she lies. When out
+of bed, she should sit upright while nursing.
+
+
+QUANTITY OF MILK REQUIRED BY THE INFANT.
+
+The amount of milk furnished every day by a healthy woman has been
+estimated at from a quart to three pints. An infant one or two months of
+age takes about two wine-glassfuls, or three ounces, every meal; that
+is, as it sucks every two hours, excepting when asleep, about five
+half-pints during the twenty-four hours. When it attains the age of
+three months, it thrives well on five meals a day, the quantity taken at
+each meal then, the stomach being more capacious, amounting to about
+half a pint. A child above three months of age ordinarily requires three
+pints daily.
+
+A healthy mother is fully capable of furnishing this quantity of milk
+per day, and of affording the child all the nourishment it needs until
+four or six months after birth.
+
+The quantity of the mother's milk varies according to many
+circumstances. It is most abundant and also most nutritious in nursing
+women between the ages of fifteen and thirty; least so, in those from
+thirty-five to forty. There is likewise a great difference in different
+women in this respect; and in the same woman varying conditions of
+health influence the amount of milk secreted.
+
+
+THE QUALITIES OF A GOOD NURSING MOTHER
+
+are well described by Professor J. Lewis Smith. 'The best wet-nurses are
+usually robust, without being corpulent. Their appetite is good, and
+their breasts are distended, from the number and large size of the
+blood-vessels and milk-ducts. There is but a moderate amount of fat
+around the gland, and tortuous veins are observed passing over it. Such
+nurses do not experience a feeling of exhaustion, and do not suffer from
+lactation. The nutriment which they consume is equally expended on their
+own sustenance and the supply of milk. There are other good wet-nurses
+who have the physical condition described, but whose breasts are small.
+Still the infant continues to suck till it is satisfied, and it thrives.
+The milk is of good quality, and it appears to be secreted mainly during
+the time of suckling. Other mothers evidently decline in health during
+the time of nursing. They furnish milk of good quality and in abundance,
+and their infants thrive; but it is at their own expense. They
+themselves say, and with truth, that what they eat goes to milk. They
+become thinner and paler, are perhaps troubled with palpitation, and are
+easily exhausted. They often find it necessary to wean before the end of
+the usual period of lactation. There is another class whose health is
+habitually poor, but who furnish the usual quantity of milk without the
+exhaustion experienced by the class just described. The milk of these
+women is of poor quality. It is abundant, but watery. Their infants are
+pallid having soft and flabby fibre.'
+
+
+OVER-ABUNDANCE OF MILK.
+
+An excessive amount of milk often distends the breasts of those women
+who are prone to have long and profuse monthly sickness. It is also apt
+to occur in those subject to bleeding piles. It may be produced by any
+excitement of the womb or ovaries, and by over-nursing. In these cases
+there is usually a constant oozing away and consequent loss of milk. The
+mother is troubled by this over-flow, because it keeps her clothing wet;
+and the child suffers because of the unnutritious, watery character of
+the milk under such circumstances.
+
+This over-abundant supply may be moderated and the quality improved by
+diminishing the quantity of drink, and by the use of preparations of
+iron. Fifteen drops of the muriatic tincture of iron, taken three times
+a day in a little sweetened water, through a glass tube, will be useful.
+It will lessen the amount of the milk, and make it richer. So soon as
+these objects are accomplished, the medicine should be discontinued; as,
+if taken too long, it may so much diminish the milk as to necessitate
+weaning. The application of a cloth, wrung out in cold water, around the
+nipples is also of value. It is to be removed so soon as it becomes
+warm, and reapplied. In those cases in which the trouble seems to be not
+so much an over-supply as an inability to retain the milk, the
+administration of tonics addressed to the nervous system, and the local
+use of astringents and of collodion around the nipples, will overcome
+the difficulty; but these remedies can only be employed successfully by
+the physician. And to him alone should be entrusted the use of those
+medicines which directly diminish the amount of milk secreted within the
+breasts. The expedients we have mentioned are the only ones which can be
+safely employed by the mother herself in this annoying affection.
+
+
+SCANTINESS OF MILK.
+
+Some mothers have habitually an insufficiency of milk. They are most
+numerous in large cities, and among working women whose daily
+occupations require a separation from the infant. Indigestion, and the
+want of a proper amount of nourishing food, cause a diminution in the
+quantity of milk. So also do over-feeding and gormandizing. Age lessens
+the secretion of milk, as has been already mentioned. Those who first
+bear children late in life, have less milk for them than they who begin
+earlier. In some cases want of milk in the breasts seems to be due to
+its reabsorption. In such instances it may make its appearance at
+distant parts. Thus, a case has been recorded of the coughing up of milk
+following sudden arrest of the secretion, and others in which it
+presented itself as an exudation in the groins.
+
+In the treatment of a scanty formation of milk, one of the best measures
+which can be resorted to is the frequent application of the child to the
+breast. In addition, the flow may be increased by milking the breasts by
+means of the thumb and finger, suction through a tobacco-pipe, or the
+breast-pump, or by the use of another infant. Friction of the breasts,
+and forcible drawing upon the nipples, will make them sore, and so
+irritate them as to defeat the object in view. A change of scene, fresh
+air, and outdoor exercise, attention to personal cleanliness, and the
+improvement of the general health, all increase the quantity, and
+produce a favourable effect upon the quality, of the milk. A sojourn at
+the sea-side often promotes an abundant secretion of milk. The diet
+should be regulated by the condition of the constitution. By those who
+are weak and pale, a large proportion of meat is required. On the
+contrary, those who are full-blooded and corpulent should restrict the
+amount of their animal food, and take more exercise in the open air.
+Oatmeal gruel enjoys a reputation for increasing the flow of milk. A
+basin of it sometimes produces an immediate effect. The same is true of
+cow's milk. Porter or ale once or twice a day, in those with reduced
+systems and impaired digestion and appetite, will be found useful.
+Anise, fennel, and caraway-seeds, given in soup, act sometimes as
+stimulants upon the secretion of milk. The application of a poultice
+made from the pulverized leaves of the castor-oil plant is a most
+efficient remedy when milk fails to make its appearance in the breast in
+sufficient quantity after confinement.
+
+
+WET-NURSING BY VIRGINS, AGED WOMEN, AND MEN.
+
+As a rule, the secretion of milk is limited to one sex, and in that is
+confined to a short period after childbirth. But there are many cases on
+record of the flowing of milk in women not recently mothers, in girls
+before the age of puberty, in aged women, and even in individuals of the
+male sex. In such instances, the secretion is induced by the combined
+influence, acting through the nervous system, of a strong desire for its
+occurrence, of a fixed attention towards the mammary glands, and of
+suction from the nipples.
+
+Travellers among savage nations report many examples of such unnatural
+nursing. Dr. Livingstone says he has frequently seen in Africa a
+grandchild suckled by a grandmother. Dr. Wm. A. Gillespie, of Virginia
+records, in the _Boston Medical and Surgical Journal_, the case of a
+widow, aged about sixty, whose daughter having died, leaving a child two
+months old, took the child and tried to raise it by feeding. The child's
+bowels became deranged, and being unable to procure a nurse, and her
+breasts being large and full, he advised her to apply the child, in hopes
+milk would come. She followed his advice perseveringly, and, to her
+astonishment, a plentiful secretion of milk was the result, with which
+she nourished the child, which afterwards became strong and healthy. A
+similar instance, still more remarkable, is recorded of a woman at
+seventy years, who twenty years wet-nursed a grandchild after her last
+confinement.
+
+Cases of nursing in the opposite extreme of life are also well
+authenticated. The distinguished French physician Baudelocque has
+related that of a deaf and dumb girl, eight years old, who, by the
+repeated application to her breast of a young infant, which her mother
+was suckling, had sufficient milk to nourish the child for a month,
+while the mother was unable to nurse it on account of sore nipples. The
+little girl was shown to the Royal Academy of Surgery on the 16th of
+February, 1783. The quantity of milk was such, that by simply pressing
+the breast it was made to flow out in the presence of the Academy, and
+on the same day, at the house of Baudelocque, before a large class of
+pupils. Again, an interesting case is known of a young woman, who, in
+consequence of the habit of applying the infant of her mistress to her
+breast in order to quiet it, caused a free secretion of milk. In the
+Cape de Verde Islands, it is stated that virgins, old women, and even
+men, are frequently employed as wet-nurses. Humboldt speaks of a man,
+thirty-two years old, who gave the breast to his child for five months.
+Captain Franklin saw a similar case in the Arctic regions. Professor
+Hall presented to his class in Baltimore a negro, fifty-five years old,
+who had been the wet-nurse of all the children of his mistress.
+
+Instances of powers of _prolonged nursing_ in mothers are not uncommon.
+Indeed it is the habit among some nations to suckle children until they
+are three or four years of age, even though another pregnancy may
+intervene, so that immediately one child is succeeded at the breast by
+another. In those who have thus unnaturally excited the mammary glands,
+an irrepressible flow sometimes continues after the demand for it has
+ceased. Dr. Green published, some years ago, in the _New York Journal of
+Medicine and Surgery_, the case of a woman, aged forty-seven, the
+mother of five children, who had had an abundant supply of milk for
+_twenty-seven years_ consecutively. A period of exactly four years and a
+half occurred between each birth, and the children were permitted to
+take the breast until they were running about at play. At the time when
+Dr. G. wrote, she had been nine years a widow, and was obliged to have
+her breasts drawn daily, the secretion of milk being so copious. When,
+therefore, it is desirable, on account of the feebleness of the child,
+to protract the period of nursing, a wet-nurse should relieve the mother
+at the end of twelve or fifteen months.
+
+
+RULES FOR CARE OF HEALTH WHILE NURSING.
+
+From what we have previously said of the influence of the nervous system
+over the quantity and quality of the milk, and the instances we have
+adduced of the danger to the infant of all violent passions--such as
+anger, terror, anxiety, and grief--on the part of the mother, it will be
+apparent that it is of the greatest moment, during the whole course of
+nursing, to maintain a tranquil state of mind. Pleasing and peaceful
+emotions favor the normal secretion of milk, and go far towards securing
+the health of the child. When strongly affected by any powerful
+feelings, mothers should not give the breast, but should wait until they
+have calmed down to their usual tenor of temper. A case is related of a
+woman who was always excited by a highly electrical state of the
+atmosphere, and particularly during stormy weather. If when thus
+influenced she nursed her child he was sure to fall into convulsions;
+while, if she delayed doing so until this nervous excitement had passed,
+no unpleasant symptoms occurred. But we have already dwelt at length
+upon this subject in speaking of the influence of the mind of the mother
+over the child at her breast, and need not therefore recur to it. The
+_food_ while nursing must be nutritious and varied, though simple and
+unstimulating; and should consist both of meat and vegetables, soups,
+fish, flesh, and fowl, either in combination or succession. When the
+digestion requires stimulation and aid, a glass of mild ale twice a day
+will be useful. Wines, brandy, and whisky should not be taken without
+the advice of a physician. Moderate exercise in the open air and regular
+habits are necessary. A defective or excessive diet, fatigue, loss of
+rest at night, and irregularities and excesses of all kinds are
+unfavorable to mother and child. The proper methods of combating a
+tendency to over-abundance or to scantiness of milk have been alluded
+to. Medicines, unless prescribed by the medical attendant, should rarely
+or never be taken during this period, as many of them enter the milk and
+may thus affect the child.
+
+
+RELATIONS OF HUSBAND AND WIFE DURING NURSING.
+
+After a natural and healthful confinement, the nurse usually remains
+with the mother for a period of four weeks. During the whole of this
+time the husband should occupy a separate apartment, and, according to
+some physicians, this separation should be protracted during the entire
+period of nursing. But this is unusual, and in most cases unnecessary.
+Only those women who are warned by the recurrence of their monthly
+illness that they are liable to another pregnancy immediately, should
+insist on such an ascetic rule as this.
+
+Unquestionably the quality of the milk is much deteriorated by a
+conception; and therefore, both in the interest of the mother and child,
+the husband should renounce his usual privileges at such times.
+
+Most women do not have their periodical illness, and consequently are
+not liable to a second pregnancy, before seven months have elapsed after
+childbirth. There are, however, numerous exceptions to this rule, and it
+is impossible to foretell who will and who will not be the exception.
+
+Moreover, as any excitement of the passions alters to some extent the
+secretion of the breasts, often to the injury of the child, it is every
+way advisable that great temperance be exercised in all cases in the
+marital relations at these epochs.
+
+
+SIGNS OF OVER-NURSING.
+
+The symptoms of over-nursing may be enumerated as follows:--Aching pain
+in the back; often, pain across the shoulders, and on the top of the
+head or forehead; marked paleness of the face; inability to sleep;
+frightful dreams when sleep does come; great debility; extreme
+depression of the spirits; disorders of the sight, and mental
+disturbances, which take on the form of melancholia, the delusions
+relating mostly to subjects of a religious character, to the effect that
+the unpardonable sin has been committed, and the like. The headache is
+situated on the top of the head, and this spot may be noticed to be
+perceptibly hotter to the touch than other parts of the head. These
+symptoms indicate that the process of nursing is making too great a
+drain upon the system.
+
+A woman in ordinary health will generally be able to suckle her child
+for twelve months without experiencing any bad effects. When the child
+is kept at the breast much beyond this time, most mothers render
+themselves liable to the injurious consequences we have mentioned. Some,
+indeed, cannot furnish the child all the nourishment it needs longer
+than three or four months, without detriment to themselves. In such
+cases, by feeding the child two or three times a day, the mother may be
+relieved of the burden of its entire support, and may thus be enabled to
+continue nursing. The proper food for infants, under these
+circumstances, will be shortly mentioned. The prostrating effects of
+nursing upon the body and mind of the mother are in some, though
+comparatively rare, instances so marked, as to render it altogether
+improper from the commencement.
+
+The treatment of the condition of system described as resulting from
+over-nursing is, if it cannot be remedied by partially feeding the
+infant and the use of tonics, to remove the child from the breast
+altogether, and either procure a wet-nurse for it, or wean it. The
+wet-nurse is greatly to be preferred; and the preference is the
+stronger, the younger the child. We have already alluded to the great
+difficulty of rearing children from birth by the hand. But after the
+infant has attained the age of several months, the danger of artificial
+feeding is much lessened, provided that the weaning does not take place
+during hot weather. This brings us to the consideration of the regimen
+of the mother who cannot nurse her own child, of the rules for the
+selection of a wet-nurse, of the directions for bringing up by hand, and
+of the proper method of weaning. These subjects we will now take up in
+the order mentioned.
+
+
+DIRECTIONS FOR MOTHERS WHO CANNOT NURSE THEIR OWN CHILDREN.
+
+There are many reasons why a mother should, if possible, nurse her own
+child. 'One of the principal is,' says the distinguished Dr. Tilt, 'that
+as nursing, generally speaking, prevents conception up to the tenth
+month, so it prevents the ruin of the mother's constitution by the too
+rapid bringing forth of children, and, we might even add, prevents a
+deterioration of the race, by the imperfect bringing up of this
+too-fast-got family.'
+
+The same author appropriately adds: 'But while advocating maternal
+nursing, we must not forget that woman is not now the Eve of a primeval
+world; that human nature, wherever it is now met, in barbarous tribes or
+in civilised communities, is frequently so deteriorated, so diseased or
+prone to disease, that, by nursing, a mother may sometimes undermine her
+own frail constitution for the sake of giving an imperfect sustenance,
+and perhaps a poisonous heritage, to her babe.'
+
+Some mothers, however anxiously they may wish to do so, cannot nurse
+their children. They are shut out from this charming and tender
+experience in the life of a woman. The milk that comes is not
+sufficient, and quickly disappears. Because of the influence of the mind
+of the mother over the child at her breast, to which we have before
+called attention, women who are very hysterical and nervous, subject to
+violent perturbations of the mind, should not, particularly if there be
+any family tendency to insanity, expose the child to the mischievous
+effects latent in their milk. So, also, the presence of certain diseases
+forbids wet-nursing. Thus it is ordinarily prohibited by consumption,
+scrofula, skin affections of long standing, and cancer. In consumption,
+all efforts to suckle are frequently equally fatal to the mother and
+child. Even a strong hereditary predisposition to this disease may
+render it advisable, in the opinion of the family physician,--who should
+always be consulted in such a case,--to counteract the family taint by
+giving the milk of the healthiest nurse that can be procured. The
+condition of the nipples and of the breast may not permit of nursing. We
+have pointed out how best to guard against such an occurrence, in
+treating of the care of the nipples during pregnancy.
+
+She who is to be debarred from nursing her own child should take care
+that it is not allowed to approach her breasts, as sometimes the mental
+and physical excitement caused by such an approach is of an injurious
+and lasting character.
+
+Ordinarily, if this direction be followed out, the mother will have
+little trouble in regard to herself. Under such circumstances, the
+chief danger is to the child. Hence the importance of knowing
+
+
+HOW TO SELECT A WET-NURSE.
+
+The choosing of a wet-nurse is a matter of great moment and
+responsibility. She should not be over thirty years of age, and should,
+if possible, be one who has previously suckled and had charge of
+children. Her own infant should be under the age of six months, for when
+above that age the milk sometimes disagrees with her new-born charge.
+One who has had several children should be preferred, because her milk
+is richer than after the first confinement.
+
+The doctor should always examine carefully into the condition of the
+nurse's health, and into the quality and quantity of her milk. Various
+diseases and taints of the system are so hidden, while yet communicable
+to the child, that the knowledge and skill of a professional expert are
+required for their detection, and the protection of the nursling. In
+testing the quality of the milk, the experienced physician allows a
+little to rest on his finger nail, and by its examination readily
+decides as to its richness and fitness to nourish the little applicant
+for food. It is not necessary that the breasts should be large, as those
+of moderate size often furnish a sufficient amount of milk. But it is
+important that the nipples should be well developed. Those wet-nurses
+should be preferred in whom large blood-vessels are seen prominently
+passing in blue lines over the surface of the breasts. The possession of
+a vigorous, healthful infant is a good recommendation for a nurse, but
+care should be taken to ascertain that it is her _own_, as nurses have
+been known to borrow for such an occasion and so obtain credit not
+justly their due.
+
+The moral and mental as well as physical characteristics should be
+considered. Temperance and cleanliness are indispensable in a wet-nurse,
+and the want of either should be an imperative reason for rejection.
+Equanimity of temper, cheerfulness, and an open, frank, affectionate
+disposition, are of course greatly to be desired.
+
+If the nurse becomes 'unwell,' shall the child be taken from her? Should
+the monthly sickness reappear early, and both nurse and child be in good
+health, suckling may be continued. But when the return happens about the
+ninth or tenth month, the child should be weaned or the nurse changed.
+There is no physiological reason for preventing the nurse from living
+matrimonially; but if pregnancy occurs, the child should be taken from
+her.
+
+The same rules that we have laid down for the mother for the care of her
+health while nursing, are of course applicable to the hired wet-nurse,
+and should be insisted upon and enforced.
+
+_Changing a nurse._--When it becomes necessary to change a nurse, for
+any of the reasons above mentioned, it may be done without injury to the
+child. For fear of the effect of the unwelcome tidings upon the mind of
+the nurse, and the possible influence upon the milk, she should not be
+informed of the projected change until a successor has been secured to
+take her place at once. In choosing the second nurse, the same
+precautions should be had as in the selection of the first.
+
+
+
+
+THE CHILD.
+
+
+_THE CARE OF INFANCY._
+
+By infancy we mean that portion of the life of the child between birth
+and the completion of the teething--about two and a half years. The care
+of this period of human life is entrusted to the mother. It forms an
+important era in the physical life of woman. Its discussion is therefore
+germane to our subject. In order that the young mother may fully
+appreciate the responsibilities of her position, she should know
+something of the liability of infants to sickness and death.
+
+Out of one thousand children born, one hundred and fifty die within the
+first year, and one hundred and thirteen during the next four years.
+Thus two hundred and sixty-three, or _more than one-fourth, die within
+five years after birth_. Between the ages of five and ten, thirty-five
+die. During the next five years eighteen more are recorded on the
+death-list. Hence, at fifteen years of age only six hundred and
+eighty-five remain out of the one thousand born. When these figures are
+considered, and the additional fact that out of those who survive very
+many bear permanent marks of imperfect nourishment or of actual disease,
+the consequence of maladies contracted in early life, the importance of
+our present inquiry--the care of infancy--will be apparent to all
+mothers.
+
+The younger the infant, the greater the danger of death. _One-tenth of
+all children born die within the first month after birth_, and four
+times as many as during the second month.
+
+The mortality is much larger in cities than in the country. In Dublin,
+during 1867, very nearly one-third of all the persons who died were
+under five years of age. In the same year forty-three per cent. of those
+who died in the eight principal towns of Scotland were children below
+the age of five. In Philadelphia, during the same year, forty-five per
+cent. of all the deaths were of children under five years of age. In New
+York fifty-three per cent. of the total number of deaths occur under the
+age of five years, and twenty-six per cent. under the age of one year.
+
+The danger of death lessens as the period of puberty approaches. Yet,
+even in the last years of childhood there is a greater liability to
+disease and a larger proportionate loss of life than during youth or
+middle age.
+
+
+CAUSES OF INFANT MORTALITY.
+
+What are the causes of this startling mortality of infant life? Why does
+one child out of ten die in the first month, and only three out of four
+live to be five years old? And what are the means of prevention?
+
+Some of the causes which are active in producing this mortality among
+the little ones cannot be successfully opposed after birth. Such, for
+instance, are imperfect and vicious developments of internal organs
+existing when born. These malformations often result from inflammation
+while in the womb, excited by some taint of the mother's blood, or by
+some agitation of her nervous system. Means of prevention in those cases
+are therefore to be directed to the mother, in the manner indicated in
+treating of pregnancy. But other causes of death begin to act only after
+birth, and are to a greater or less extent avoidable. These are largely
+traceable to ignorance, negligence, and vice.
+
+One cause of death to which infants are peculiarly liable, and which
+alone is said to have destroyed forty thousand children in England
+between the years 1686 and 1799, is being _overlain_ by the parents. For
+this reason, some physicians caution the mother against having the
+infant in bed with her while she sleeps.
+
+The frightful waste of life caused by bringing children up by hand has
+been mentioned, and the importance of avoiding it when possible.
+
+The natural feebleness of the system of infants is the reason why they
+succumb so easily to any malady. Deaths from any given disease are more
+numerous among infants than children, and among children than adults.
+Hence the importance of timely corrective measures in infantile
+affections; hence, also, the need that mothers should know and practise
+the means best adapted to preserve the health of their frail charges.
+
+These means we shall proceed to give in detail, commencing with
+directions for
+
+
+BRINGING UP BY HAND.
+
+We have already alluded to the great danger to the child, particularly
+in a city, that is artificially fed from birth. But as there are many
+mothers who are unable, on account of the expense, to have a wet-nurse
+for the child they cannot suckle themselves, we will give such
+directions in regard to the diet as are best calculated to lessen the
+risk invariably incurred under such circumstances.
+
+The child's food should be of the best quality, and prepared with the
+most scrupulous attention to cleanliness. The milk of the cow is
+preferable to that of the ass or of the goat, the former of which it is
+difficult to procure, and the latter having a disagreeable odour. For a
+child under three months of age, cow's milk should be used as the only
+food. It should be fresh, and if possible from one cow. When of the
+ordinary richness, it is to be diluted with an equal quantity of water
+or thin barley-water. If, however, the first milking can be obtained,
+which is more watery, and bears a closer resemblance in its chemical
+composition to human milk, but little dilution will be required. If
+green and acrid stools make their appearance, accompanied by emaciation
+and vomiting, the milk must be more diluted, and given less frequently.
+If the symptoms of indigestion do not yield, milk containing an excess
+of cream should be used. To procure it, allow fresh milk to stand for
+two or three hours, and remove the upper third, to which add two or
+three parts of warm water or barley-water, after having dissolved in it
+a little sugar of milk. Should this food also disagree, any of the
+preparations we are about to mention may be prepared and tried.
+
+Professor Falkland recommends the following method of preparing milk for
+infants, as affording a product more nearly like the natural
+secretion:--'One third of a pint of pure milk is allowed to stand until
+the cream has risen. The latter is removed, and to the blue milk thus
+obtained about a square inch of rennet is to be added, and the
+milk-vessel placed in warm water. In about five minutes the curd will
+have separated, and the rennet, which may again be repeatedly used,
+being removed, the whey is carefully poured off, and immediately heated
+to boiling, to prevent it becoming sour. A further quantity of curd
+separates, and must be removed by straining through calico. In
+one-quarter of a pint of this hot whey three-eighths of an ounce of milk
+sugar are to be dissolved; and this solution, along with the cream
+removed from the one-third of a pint of milk, must be added to half a
+pint of new milk. This will constitute the food for an infant from five
+to eight months old for twelve hours; or, more correctly speaking, it
+will be one-half of the quantity required for twenty-four hours. It is
+absolutely necessary that a fresh quantity should be prepared every
+twelve hours; and it is scarcely necessary to add, that the strictest
+cleanliness in all the vessels used is indispensable.'
+
+Dr. J. Forsyth Meigs directs the following article of diet as one which
+he has found to agree better with the digestive system of the infant
+than any other kind of food:--'A scruple of gelatine (or a piece two
+inches square of the flat cake in which it is sold) is soaked for a
+short time in cold water, and then boiled in half a pint of water, until
+it dissolves--about ten or fifteen minutes. To this is added, with
+constant stirring, and just at the termination of the boiling, the milk
+and arrowroot, the latter being previously mixed into a paste with a
+little cold water. After the addition of the milk and arrowroot, and
+just before the removal from the fire, the cream is poured in, and a
+moderate quantity of loaf sugar added. The proportions of milk, cream,
+and arrowroot must depend on the age and digestive powers of the child.
+For a healthy infant, within the month, I usually direct from three to
+four ounces of milk, half an ounce to an ounce of cream, and a
+tea-spoonful of arrowroot to half a pint of water. For older children,
+the quantity of milk and cream should be gradually increased to a half
+or two-thirds milk, and from one to two ounces of cream. I seldom
+increase the quantity of gelatine or arrowroot.'
+
+The egg is a valuable article of food for infants and young children,
+especially in conditions of debility. It should be given nearly raw, and
+is best prepared by placing it in boiling water for two minutes. It is
+then easily digested.
+
+Beef-tea, prepared in the manner described on page 234, is highly
+nutritious and useful as a food for infants: if it produce a laxative
+effect, it should be discontinued. When the child shows signs of
+weakness or of a scrofulous condition its nutrition will be improved by
+mingling with its food a small piece of butter or mutton suet.
+
+During the first four or five months the food should be thin, and taken
+through a teat, thus preventing the stuffing of the infant.
+
+On attaining the age of twelve or fifteen months, infants are usually
+able to digest ordinary wholesome solid food, neatly and well cooked,
+when mashed or cut into fine pieces.
+
+An article of food employed for the diarrhoea of infants is prepared as
+follows:--'A pound of dry wheat flour of the best quality is packed
+snugly in a bag and boiled three or four hours. When it is taken from
+the bag it is hard, resembling a piece of chalk, with the exception of
+the exterior, which is wet, and should be removed. The flour grated from
+the mass should be used the same as arrowroot or rice.'
+
+Infants nourished by prepared food thrive well enough during cool
+weather, but during the warm months of the year they are exceedingly
+liable to bowel complaint, of which large numbers of the spoon-fed
+infants of cities die each summer season. Hence the importance of taking
+them into the country; and keeping them there until the return of cool
+weather lessens the danger of city life.
+
+
+WEANING.
+
+This should take place when the child is about twelve months of
+age--sometimes a few months earlier, often a few later. If the mother's
+health be good, and her milk abundant, it may be deferred until the
+canine teeth appear--between the fifteenth and twentieth month. The
+child will then have sixteen teeth with which it can properly masticate
+soft solid food.
+
+_Time of the year for._--The infant should not be taken from the breast
+during or immediately preceding warm weather. If the mother, either on
+account of sickness or failure in her breast-milk, is obliged during the
+summer to give up nursing, she should at once procure a wet-nurse. If
+she cannot, the child must be sent into the country. To wean an infant
+in the city in hot weather, is to expose it to almost certain death.
+
+_Proper method._--The process of weaning should be a very slow one. No
+definite day should be fixed for it. Little by little, from week to
+week, the amount of spoon-food is to be increased and the nursing
+lessened--being first given up at night. The breast should never be
+suddenly denied to a child unaccustomed to artificial food, but be
+displaced by degrees, by the bottle and the spoon. This gradual change
+will neither fret the child nor annoy the mother, as sudden weaning
+always does.
+
+The infant may begin to be accustomed to artificial food at the age of
+four months. At first, only diluted cow's milk should be given it
+occasionally between the times of nursing. In a tumbler one-third full
+of water dissolve a tea-spoonful of sugar of milk; add to the sweetened
+water an equal quantity of fresh cow's milk; then, if the child's stools
+are at all green, mix with this two tea-spoonfuls of lime water. Instead
+of pure water, barley-water made in the usual way, and boiled to the
+consistency of milk, may be employed in this preparation--being added,
+while still warm, to an equal amount of milk. Or, toast-water may be
+substituted as a diluter of the milk. Cow's milk should not be boiled,
+if it can be preserved in any other way. As the infant advances in
+months, some solid food may be allowed. After six months, pap, made with
+stale bread and tops and bottoms, is proper once or twice a day.
+Beef-tea, made according to the recipe we have given, and chicken, lamb,
+or mutton broth, may now also be occasionally taken. As the quantity of
+milk diminishes towards the close of the first year, the spoon-food
+should be resorted to more frequently to supply the want. Solid food
+ought not to be given before the child is a year old.
+
+The breasts usually cause little trouble when the weaning is performed
+in the gradual manner which has been recommended. The mother should
+during this time drink as little as possible, refrain from stimulating
+food, and take occasionally a little cream of tartar, citrate of
+magnesia, or a seidlitz powder. If the breasts continue to fill with
+milk, _they should not be drawn_. The 'drying up of the milk' may be
+facilitated by gently rubbing the breasts several times a day with
+camphorated oil, made by dissolving over the fire, in a saucer of sweet
+oil, as much camphor as it will take up. Tea made from the marshmallow
+has also been recommended for this purpose.
+
+
+TEETHING.
+
+The period at which the teeth first make their appearance is not a fixed
+one. It varies considerably even within the limits of perfect health.
+It may be said, as a rule, that the babe begins to cut its teeth at the
+age of six or seven months. Quite frequently, however, the first teeth
+appear as early as the fourth month, or are delayed until the eighth. In
+some instances children come into the world with their teeth already
+cut. This is said to have been the case with Louis XIV. and with
+Mirabeau. King Richard the Third is another example. Shakspeare makes
+the Duke of York refer to this circumstance in these words:
+
+ 'Marry, they say my uncle grew so fast,
+ That he could gnaw a crust at two hours old:
+ 'Twas two full years ere I could get a tooth.'
+
+It does not follow that children whose teeth show themselves early, will
+have, therefore, a quicker general development. Such cases are merely
+instances of irregularity in the time of dentition, and carry with them
+no particular significance. Irregularities in regard to the order in
+which the teeth are cut are also of frequent occurrence.
+
+While, therefore, it cannot be maintained that all healthy children cut
+their teeth in a certain regular order and time, yet it is certain that
+those children who follow the general rule which prevails in this
+respect, suffer least from the difficulties and effects of dentition. As
+all mothers desire to know at what time they may expect the teeth, we
+will state the rule of their development in the great majority of cases.
+
+The lower teeth generally precede those of the upper jaw by two to three
+months.
+
+The twenty milk-teeth usually appear in the five following groups:--
+
+_First_, Between the fourth and eighth months of life the two lower
+front middle teeth appear almost simultaneously; then a pause of from
+three to nine weeks ensues.
+
+_Second_, Between the eighth and tenth months of life the five upper
+front teeth appear, following shortly upon each other, the two central
+preceding the two on each side of them. Another pause of from six to
+twelve weeks succeeds.
+
+_Third_, Between the twelfth and sixteenth months of life six teeth
+appear nearly at once. They are first the two front grinding teeth in
+the upper jaw, leaving a space between them and the front teeth which
+before appeared; next the two lower front teeth, situated one on each
+side of the central ones, which were the first to appear; and, lastly,
+the two front grinders of the lower jaw. A pause until the eighteenth
+month now ensues.
+
+_Fourth_, Between the eighteenth and twenty-fourth months of life the
+canine teeth cut through (the upper ones are called eye-teeth). Again a
+pause until the thirtieth month.
+
+_Fifth_, Between the thirtieth and thirty-sixth months the second four
+grinders finally make their appearance.
+
+This concludes the first teething. The child has now twenty milk-teeth.
+
+We have mentioned that children are sometimes born with teeth. It is
+also true that sometimes they never acquire any. Instances are on record
+of adults who have never cut any teeth. Dentition has been known to
+take place very late in life. A case is related, on excellent authority,
+of an old lady aged eighty-five, who cut several teeth after attaining
+that age.
+
+
+APPEARANCE OF THE PERMANENT TEETH.
+
+Between the fifth and sixth years of life the second dentition begins.
+The front grinders are the ones first cut through. Between the sixth and
+tenth years all the front teeth appear, followed by the canines before
+the twelfth year. At this time the second grinders show themselves; and
+finally, between the sixteenth and twenty-fourth year, the wisdom-teeth
+complete the dental furniture of the mouth.
+
+
+VACCINATION.
+
+This operation, to which every infant should be subjected, is one of
+great practical importance. The attempt has been made of late to shake
+the public faith in its efficacy, and to revive the old fabulous stories
+and foolish notions as to the production of serious affections of the
+blood and skin in this manner. At the same time, the increasing
+frequency and virulence of small-pox are becoming only too evident. We
+therefore consider it our duty, in treating of the maternal management
+of infancy, to lay some stress upon the necessity for vaccination as a
+preservative of life and health. If observation and experience ever
+taught anything, they have taught the protective power of this operation
+against the most loathsome and one of the most fatal diseases that ever
+afflicted the human race. And that mother who is careless and
+indifferent in this matter neglects for her children a means of
+preventing disfigurement and saving life, compared with which all other
+means are scarcely worthy of mention.
+
+In order to appreciate the value of vaccination, it is only necessary to
+consider what small-pox was before its discovery,--to look at that
+disease through the eyes of our fathers and grandfathers. Until the
+close of the last century it was the most terrible of all the ministers
+of death. It filled the churchyards with corpses. When Jenner published
+his great discovery, about seventy years ago, the annual death-rate from
+small-pox in England was estimated at three thousand in the million of
+population. In other countries of Europe the rate reached as high as
+four thousand in the million. And these fatal cases must be multiplied
+by five or six, to give the entire number of persons annually attacked
+by the disease. It spared neither high nor low. Macaulay informs us that
+Queen Mary, the wife of William III., fell a victim to it. Those in whom
+the disease did not prove fatal, carried about with them the hideous
+traces of its malignity; for it 'turned the babe into a changeling at
+which the mother shuddered,' and made 'the eyes and cheeks of the
+betrothed maiden objects of horror to the lover.' Few escaped being
+attacked by this fell disease. Nearly one-tenth of all the persons who
+died in London during the last century died of this one cause. Children
+were peculiarly its victims. In some of the great cities of England more
+than one-third of all the deaths among children under ten years of age
+arose from small-pox. Two-thirds of all the applicants for relief at
+the Hospital for the Indigent Blind had lost their sight by small-pox.
+The number of hopeless deafened ears, crippled joints, and broken-down
+constitutions from the same cause cannot be accurately computed, but was
+certainly very large. Vaccination is all that now stands between us and
+all these horrors of the last century.
+
+Is the strength of this barrier doubted?--Its efficacy is readily
+proved. In England, during the twelve years (1854-1865) in which
+vaccination has been to a certain extent compulsory, the average annual
+rate of deaths by small-pox has been two hundred and two in the million
+of population. Contrast this with the annual death-rate of three
+thousand to the million, which was the average of thirty years previous
+to the introduction of vaccination. Mr. John Simon, medical officer of
+Her Majesty's Privy Council, one of the best statisticians in England,
+has collected a formidable array of figures, 'to doubt which would be to
+fly in the face of the multiplication-table.' From his mountain-height
+of statistics Mr. Simon says: 'Wheresoever vaccination falls into
+neglect, small-pox tends to become again the same frightful pestilence
+it was in the days before Jenner's discovery; and wherever it is
+universally and properly performed, small-pox tends to be of as little
+effect as any extinct epidemic of the Middle Ages.'
+
+Are other diseases ever produced by vaccination?--The popular belief
+would answer this question in the affirmative. All affections of the
+skin and swelling's of the glands noticed in children soon after
+vaccination, are attributed by parents in many cases to this operation.
+They forget that such diseases are met with constantly in infancy and
+childhood, as often among the unvaccinated as the vaccinated.
+Observation does not show that they occur with greater frequency among
+the vaccinated. An English physician has been at the trouble to examine
+and record a thousand cases of skin disease in children: he found no
+evidence whatever that vaccination disposes the constitution to such
+affections. It has been stated with apparent justness, that parental
+complaints of this kind frequently arise from their unwillingness to
+believe there is anything wrong in their offspring. Hence, when other
+diseases follow, vaccination gets blamed for what is really and truly
+due to other causes. So far from doing any harm to the system, it has
+been observed in those countries where vaccination has been most
+thoroughly practised, that, leaving small-pox out of the question, there
+have been fewer deaths from other maladies. This is especially true of
+two of the most important classes of diseases, namely, scrofulous
+affections and low fever. For this reason, some medical statisticians
+have attributed to vaccination an indirect protective influence against
+these disorders.
+
+At what _age_ should the child be vaccinated?--If the health permit, the
+operation should always be performed in very early infancy. The chief
+sufferers from small-pox are young children. One-fourth of all who die
+from this fatal disease in England are children under the age of one
+year. In Scotland, where until recently vaccination has been much more
+neglected than in England, the proportion even amounted to nearly
+one-third; and of these, one-fourth were under the age of three months.
+The great risk, particularly in large towns, where small-pox is seldom
+absent, of delaying vaccination is obvious. City children, if hearty,
+should be vaccinated when a month or six weeks old. Rarely or never
+ought it to be delayed beyond two or three months. This early period of
+life is also particularly suitable to vaccination, because the
+accompanying fever will then be over before the disturbing influence of
+teething begins.
+
+
+RE-VACCINATION.
+
+If the first vaccination be found imperfect in character, that is, if it
+has not properly 'taken,' the operation should be repeated at the
+earliest opportunity. It has been recommended, in all cases, to perform
+a second vaccination not later than the sixth or eighth year. If
+small-pox be prevailing, it is proper to vaccinate all who have not been
+vaccinated within three or four years. In any event, re-vaccination at
+or after the period of puberty is of extreme importance. It will give
+additional security even to those whose original vaccination was
+perfect. In some cases, the susceptibility to small-pox is not wholly
+exhausted by one vaccination. Inasmuch as it is desirable for every one
+to escape this disease, even in its most modified form, re-vaccination
+should always be performed, as it affords a very sure and trustworthy
+means of such escape. After successful re-vaccination, small-pox, even
+in its mildest shape, is rarely met with. In girls especially, in whom
+the changes which occur at puberty are most marked, re-vaccination
+should be performed about the age of fourteen.
+
+
+GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT.
+
+During infancy the body grows with great rapidity. About the end of the
+third year one-half of the adult height of the body is attained. After
+this period growth is more gradual; for in order to reach the remaining
+half, about eighteen years more are required. At twenty years of age the
+height is somewhat more than three and a half times that at birth, and
+the weight about twenty times. Development does not go on at an equal
+rate in all parts of the body. The lower limbs, small at birth, increase
+proportionally more rapidly, while the head, relatively large at birth,
+developes more slowly. The muscular system is gradually strengthened. At
+the end of the third month the infant is able, if in good health,
+readily to support its head; at the fourth month it can be held upright;
+at the ninth month it crawls about the floor; by the end of the year it
+is able with assistance to step; and between one and two years, at
+different times, according to its vigor and activity, it acquires the
+power of standing and walking alone. The periods of greatest and least
+growth of the child are, on the one hand, spring and summer; on the
+other, autumn and winter. It has long been known that animals grow more
+rapidly in the spring than at any other season of the year. This has
+been attributed to the abundance of herbage they are then able to
+obtain. It has been ascertained by actual measurement, that children
+grow chiefly in the spring.
+
+At six months of age the child begins to lisp, and at twelve months it
+is usually able to utter distinct and intelligible sounds of one or two
+syllables. The development of the senses and of the mind proceeds
+gradually. The sense of hearing is more active and further advanced than
+that of sight. Sounds are appreciated sooner than light or bright
+colored objects. The next sense which is developed is perhaps that of
+taste; then follow smell and touch.
+
+
+THE FOOD OF INFANTS AND CHILDREN.
+
+The diet of children is frequently improper either in regard to
+quantity, quality, or variety. In 1867, a committee, of which Professor
+Austin Flint, Jr., was chairman, was appointed in New York city to
+revise the 'Dietary Table of the Children's Nurseries on Randall's
+Island.' In the report rendered, attention was forcibly called to the
+fact that in childhood 'the demands of the system for nourishment are in
+excess of the waste, the extra quantity being required for growth and
+development. If the proper quantity and variety of food be not provided,
+full development cannot take place, and the children grow up, if they
+survive, into young men and women, incapable of the ordinary amount of
+labor, and liable to diseases of various kinds. This is frequently
+illustrated in the higher walks of life, particularly in females; for
+many suffer through life from improper diet in boarding schools, due to
+false and artificial notions of delicacy or refinement. After a certain
+period of improper and deficient diet in children, the appetite becomes
+permanently impaired, and the system is rendered incapable of
+appropriating the amount of matter necessary to proper development and
+growth.'
+
+Charlotte Bronte has drawn, in _Jane Eyre_, a graphic and
+physiologically true picture of the effects upon young girls of
+long-continued insufficiency of food. Let mothers bear in mind that
+proper food cannot be too abundantly eaten by children, and that the
+greatest danger to which they are exposed arises from defective
+nutrition. We would again urge the value of a large amount of _milk_ in
+the dietary of young people. The disorders of the bowels, which are not
+uncommon in infancy and childhood, are due to errors in diet by which
+improper food is supplied, and not to an excess of simple and proper
+nourishment.
+
+We have already given some directions for the preparation of infants'
+food in treating of 'bringing-up by hand.' In addition to the various
+substitutes for the mother's milk there mentioned, we wish to note that
+known as _Liebig's soup_. This great chemist thus describes the method
+of making it:
+
+'Half an ounce of wheat flour, half an ounce of malt meal, and seven and
+a half grains of bicarbonate of potass, are weighed off. They are first
+mixed by themselves, then with the addition of one ounce of water, and
+lastly, of five ounces of milk. This mixture is then heated upon a slow
+fire, being constantly stirred until it begins to get thick. At this
+period the vessel is removed from the fire, and the mixture is stirred
+for five minutes, is again heated and again removed when it gets thick,
+and, lastly, it is heated till it boils. This soup is purified from bran
+by passing it through a fine sieve (a piece of fine muslin), and now it
+is ready for use.'
+
+Barley-malt can be obtained at any brewery. First, it is separated from
+the impurities, and then ground in an ordinary coffee-mill to a coarse
+meal. Care should be taken to get the common fresh wheat-flour, _not the
+finest_, because the former is richest in starch.
+
+In practice, the troublesome weighing of the materials may be dispensed
+with, as a heaped table-spoonful of wheat-flour weighs pretty nearly
+half an ounce, and a like table-spoonful of malt-meal, not quite as
+heaped, weighs also half an ounce. The bicarbonate of potass can be
+obtained from the druggist put up in powders of seven and a half grains,
+each ready for use. The amount of water and of milk prescribed can be
+attained with sufficient accuracy by means of the table-spoon; two
+table-spoonfuls will give the quantity of water (one ounce), and ten
+table-spoonfuls the quantity of milk (five ounces). These directions
+will enable any sensible mother to make the preparation without
+difficulty. The soup tastes tolerably sweet, and, when diluted with
+water, may be given to very young infants.
+
+Although the method of preparing Liebig's soup is a somewhat tedious
+one, yet, as it is a combination which has long been so highly
+recommended by physicians of the largest experience for having visibly
+saved the lives of many wasting children, it deserves a trial in all
+cases in which the ordinary kinds of food disagree.
+
+On page 276 are recorded the directions given by Dr. J. Forsyth Meigs
+for an article of diet, consisting of gelatine and arrowroot, which he
+prefers to all other kinds of artificial infant food. Another method of
+preparing a useful arrowroot mixture is as follows:--
+
+Place a tea-spoonful of arrowroot in a porcelain vessel, with as much
+cold water as will make it into a fine dough; then add a cupful of
+boiling milk or of beef-tea; stir the mixture a little, and allow it to
+boil for a few minutes until the whole acquires the consistency of a
+fine light jelly.
+
+The _manner_ in which nutriment is administered to infants is not
+immaterial. The custom of feeding them from a small spoon, or from a cup
+with a snout, is objectionable. The use of a sucking-bottle most nearly
+imitates the way in which nature designed the nursling to obtain its
+nourishment. By the act of sucking, the muscles of the face are
+exercised in an equal manner, and the saliva is mixed with the food to
+an extent which is not possible if any other mode of feeding be resorted
+to. Children drink very readily out of the perforated rubber nipples,
+which are now so popular for this purpose: they are made to fit over the
+mouth of the bottle, and are especially to be recommended on account of
+their cleanliness. The bottle should never be refilled until both it and
+the rubber cap have been thoroughly cleansed in warm water. A white
+glass bottle only should be employed in order that any want of
+cleanliness may readily be detected. It should be recollected that milk
+very quickly sours when kept in this way in a warm room; it is therefore
+better always to empty the bottle and fill it afresh each time it is
+given to the child, rather than to wait until its contents are exhausted
+before replenishing it.
+
+We have hitherto been treating mainly of the diet proper for the first
+year of life. In the second year children may be permitted to have soft,
+finely-cut meat. Fresh ripe fruit in season ordinarily agrees
+excellently well. But boiled green vegetables and husk fruits are very
+apt to cause indigestion and diarrhoea. Fruit for children should be
+freed from the stones and skins; which latter are indigestible, and
+often do harm.
+
+As an example of a diet suitable for a child two years of age we append
+the following:--In the mornings, between six and seven o'clock in
+summer, or between seven and eight in winter, milk-gruel; between nine
+and ten o'clock, a piece of wheat bread with a little butter on it; at
+twelve o'clock, well-prepared beef-tea, or chicken, lamb, mutton broth,
+or meat with a little gravy; or in place of the meat, a meal-broth
+prepared with eggs, but with very little fat; green vegetables to be
+allowed very rarely, and in very small quantities. At this noon meal a
+mealy well-mashed potato is unobjectionable; so also is rice pudding for
+a change. In the afternoon, between three and four, bread and milk, with
+the addition in summer of fresh ripe fruit; in the evening, at seven,
+bread and milk.
+
+It will be observed that this dietetic table calls for five meals a day.
+Should the child eat so frequently? We answer yes. But the meals should
+be at regular intervals. A child, in order to replace the waste of the
+system, and to furnish over and above sufficient material to build up
+the growing body, requires a much larger proportionate amount of food
+than an adult. It also requires its food at shorter intervals. By
+observing the hours for meals stated above, _regularity_, which is of so
+much importance to the health of the digestive organs, will be secured.
+If a young child be allowed only the three ordinary meals of the family,
+it will crave for something between times, and too often have its
+craving met with a piece of cake or other improper food. Its appetite
+for dinner or supper will in this manner be destroyed, and the stomach
+and the general health suffer.
+
+After the third or fourth year children are able to eat all kinds of
+vegetables. They may then very appropriately be allowed to eat at the
+table with the family. It is only necessary to refuse them very salt,
+sour, and highly-spiced victuals. Of all others they may partake in
+moderation. Neither wine nor any malt liquor should be given them. Tea
+and coffee are also, to say the least, unnecessary. They should have a
+regular luncheon between the meals which are furthest apart. This must
+be at a regular hour, and consist of bread and butter, with milk or
+water.
+
+Pains should be taken to see that children do not fall into the habit
+of eating rapidly. Too often this pernicious habit, so destructive to
+healthy digestion, is formed in early life, and becomes the source of
+that dyspepsia which is the bane of so many lives. Food that is gulped
+down enters the stomach unmasticated, and unmixed with the secretions of
+the mouth. A dog may bolt his food without injury, but a human being
+cannot.
+
+A child should be taught to eat everything that is wholesome, and not be
+permitted to become finical or fastidious in its appetite. It ought not,
+however, to be forced to eat any particular article for which it is
+found that there is an invincible dislike. Variety of diet is good for a
+child, after the second or third year.
+
+
+THE POSITION OF THE CHILD WHEN FED.
+
+An infant, no matter how young, should not receive its meals when lying.
+Its head should always be raised in the nurse's arm, if it be too young
+to support it itself. The practice of _jolting_ and _dandling_ the
+infant after eating is a wrong one. Rest of the body should be secured
+by placing the child on a bed, or holding it on the mother's knee, for a
+half hour or so. Observe the inclination which all animals show for
+repose and sleep after a full repast, and respect the same inclination
+in the infant.
+
+In our remarks upon bathing we pointed out the importance of the mother
+herself performing for her child this office. So again, in connection
+with children's food, we must notice the necessity of the mother being
+always present at their meals, in order that they may be taught to take
+them quietly, with cleanliness and without hurry. Such advice is not
+needed by the poor nor by women of moderate fortune, who ordinarily have
+their children constantly under their eyes. But affluence brings with it
+many occupations which are frequently deemed of more moment than
+presiding over a child's dinner.
+
+
+CONCERNING SLEEP IN EARLY LIFE.
+
+There is a natural desire for much sleep during infancy, childhood, and
+youth; and there is reason for its free indulgence. Infants pass the
+greater portion of both day and night in sleep. Children up to the age
+of six years require, as a rule, twelve hours of repose at night,
+besides an hour or more in the middle of the day. About the sixth year
+the noon nap may be discontinued, but the night sleep ought not to be
+abridged before the tenth year, and then only to a moderate extent until
+the age of puberty. From this time the period of slumber may be
+gradually reduced to nine or ten hours. No further diminution should be
+attempted until the completion of growth, when another hour or two may
+be taken away, leaving about eight hours of daily sleep as the proper
+amount during middle life.
+
+It is wrong, therefore, to wake a young child in the morning. It should
+be allowed to sleep as long as it will, which will be until the wants of
+the system are satisfied, if it be not aroused by noise or light.
+
+When after a few months the infant is awake a considerable portion of
+the day, it should be brought into the habit of taking its second sleep
+near the middle of the day, say from eleven to one o'clock, and again,
+from half an hour to an hour, about three o'clock. It should not be
+permitted a nap later than this in the afternoon, as it would be very
+apt to cause a disturbed night. Although some physicians recommend that
+the sleep during the day be discontinued after the infant has attained
+the age of fifteen months, the wisdom of such advice may well be
+doubted. As soon as the child begins to walk, not only are its movements
+very constant and active, but its mind is busily employed and its
+nervous system excited. It therefore thrives better if its day be
+divided into two by sleep for an hour or two.
+
+_Should the infant sleep alone?_--We have mentioned the danger of being
+overlain to which it is exposed when in bed with its mother or nurse. On
+the other hand, it must be remembered that an infant keeps warm with
+difficulty even when well covered, and that contact with the mother's
+body is the best way of securing its own warmth. Hence, during the first
+months the child had better be allowed to sleep with its mother. How,
+then, can the risk of being suffocated, which is no imaginary one, be
+lessened? The following rules are those given by a physician of
+reputation, to prevent an infant from being accidentally overlain.
+
+'Let the baby while asleep have plenty of room in the bed. Do not allow
+him to be too near, or, if this be unavoidable from the small size of
+the bed, let his face be turned to the opposite side. Let him lie
+fairly, either on his side or on his back. Be careful to ascertain that
+his mouth be not covered with the bed-clothes. Do not smother his face
+with clothes, as a plentiful supply of pure air is as necessary as when
+he is awake. Never let him lie low in the bed. Let there be no pillow
+near the one his head is resting on, lest he roll to it and bury his
+head in it. Remember a young child has neither the strength nor the
+sense to get out of danger; and if he unfortunately either turn on his
+face or bury his head in a pillow that is near, the chances are that he
+will be suffocated, more especially as these accidents usually occur at
+night, when the mother or the nurse is fast asleep. Never entrust him at
+night to a young, giddy, and thoughtless servant. A foolish mother
+sometimes goes to sleep while allowing her child to continue sucking.
+The unconscious babe, after a time, loses the nipple, and buries his
+head in the bed-clothes. She awakes in the morning, finding, to her
+horror, a corpse by her side! A mother ought therefore never to go to
+sleep until her child has ceased sucking.'
+
+When a couple of months have elapsed, the child, if a healthy one, may
+sleep alone. What the child sleeps in is not a matter of great moment,
+provided it has a sufficiency of clothing, and be not exposed to
+currents of air. A large clothes-basket will serve all the purposes of a
+crib. The mistake is often made of burying the child under too heavy a
+mass of bed-clothes in a warm room when asleep. And this inconsistency
+is committed by the very mothers who scantily clad the child during the
+day in order to inure it to the cold. The great transition from its
+wrappings by night to those by day is injurious to the health and
+comfort of the infant.
+
+'In arranging night coverings, the soft feather-bed is very often
+estimated as nothing; or, in other words, the same provision of blankets
+is considered indispensable, whether we lie upon a hard mattress or
+immersed in down. The mother, looking only to the covering laid over the
+child, forgets those on which it lies, although in reality the latter
+may be the warmer of the two. An infant deposited in a downy bed has at
+least two-thirds of its body in contact with the feathers, and may thus
+be perspiring at every pore, when, from its having only a single
+covering thrown over it, the mother may imagine it to be enjoying the
+restorative influence of agreeable slumber. In hot weather much mischief
+might be done by an oversight of this kind.'
+
+It is of course essential to the health and comfort of the infant that
+its bed and bed-clothing be kept perfectly dry and sweet. They should
+frequently be taken out and exposed to the air.
+
+A child should be accustomed early to sleep in a darkened room. Plutarch
+praises the women of Sparta for, among other things, teaching their
+children not to be afraid in the dark. He says they 'were so careful and
+expert, that without swaddling-bands their children were all straight
+and well proportioned; and they brought them up not to be afraid in the
+dark or of being alone, and never indulged them in crying, fretfulness,
+and ill-humour; upon which account Spartan nurses were often bought by
+people of other countries.'
+
+_Position in sleeping._--It has long been a popular opinion that the
+position of our bodies at night, with reference to the cardinal points
+of the compass, has some influence on the health. This belief has
+recently been corroborated by some observations made by a prominent
+physician, Dr. Henry Kennedy. In an essay on the 'Acute Affections of
+Children,' published in the Dublin _Quarterly Journal of Medical
+Science_, he states that for several years he has put in force in his
+practice a plan of treatment by means of the position of the patient,
+and often with very marked results. He asserts that, in order to ensure
+the soundest sleep, the head should lie to the north. Strange as this
+idea may at first sight appear, it has more in it than might be
+supposed. There are known to be great electrical currents always
+coursing in one direction around the globe. In the opinion of Dr.
+Kennedy there is no doubt that our nervous systems are in some
+mysterious way connected with this universal agent, as it may be called,
+electricity. He relates several cases of acute diseases in children, in
+which, by altering the position of the body so that the patient should
+lie from north to south instead of from east to west, quiet sleep was
+induced. This plan of invoking sleep is often successful; but not always
+so, for all are not equally susceptible. It applies likewise to adults.
+It is not so striking in its effects on the poorer as on the richer
+classes of society. This is what might be expected, for it cannot be
+doubted that the nervous system in the middle and upper ranks is always
+in a much more sensitive state than with their poorer brethren. It is
+worth noting, that even in healthy persons sleep will often be absent or
+of a broken kind, from the cause of which we are now speaking. It is
+very common to hear people saying they can never sleep in a strange bed.
+Although many causes may conspire to this, Dr. Kennedy cannot doubt that
+amongst these ought to be placed the one to which we are now drawing
+attention.
+
+
+THE CLOTHING OF INFANTS AND YOUNG CHILDREN.
+
+A fertile cause of disease and death is to be found in the negligence or
+ignorance displayed in regard to the dress of children. And it is not
+the poorly attired, but nearly always the fashionably robed child, which
+suffers the most. To parental vanity can be traced many a catarrh on the
+chest or the inflammation of the bowels which has resulted in death.
+Most mothers appear to be ignorant of the fact that children are
+exceedingly susceptible to the influence of cold. The returns of the
+Registrar-General of England show that a very cold week always greatly
+increases the mortality of the very young. While adults carefully
+protect themselves against every change of the weather, and against
+currents of air, children, who most need such protection, are too often
+neglected.
+
+The warmth of the infant's body is best secured by that of the nurse,
+and by warm clothing. It is more effectually and healthfully provided
+for in this manner than by confining the child to a warm atmosphere.
+Young children should never be dressed _decollete_--in low necks and
+short sleeves. That fashion is a dangerous one which leaves the neck,
+shoulders, and arms uncovered. To this irrational custom may be traced a
+vast amount of the suffering and many of the deaths of early life;
+doubtless, also, in many cases it lays the foundation of consumption,
+which manifests itself a little later. But, it is said, the child will
+be 'hardened' by having its chest and limbs thus exposed. The surest and
+safest way to harden the child is to so care for it that it shall pass
+through its first months and years of life without any ailment. Every
+mother should see to it, that her charge is so clothed that every part
+of the body is effectually protected from dampness and cold. She can
+then best secure for it a hardened constitution by carrying it daily
+into the sunlight of the open air.
+
+_The material_ of the clothing should be such as will unite lightness
+with warmth. Flannel and calico are therefore to be preferred. At first,
+as the skin of the child is very delicate, a shirt of fine linen may be
+interposed between it and the flannel. But, after the first few months,
+the gentle friction of fine soft flannel next the skin is desirable, as
+it stimulates the circulation of the blood on the surface of the body,
+and promotes health. Flannel under-clothing should be continued all the
+year, during the summer months a very light texture being used. When the
+dress of the child is shortened, care must be taken that the feet are
+well covered with soft stockings of cotton or woollen (which in winter
+should extend up above the knees), and with light leather shoes.
+
+The _night-dress_, at least during cold weather, is best made of
+flannel, thin or thick according to the climate. It has been recommended
+that, after the child is somewhat advanced, the night-clothes be
+constructed in the form of night-pants, so that it may not be exposed if
+the bed-clothing be thrown off. Every article of dress worn during the
+day ought to be removed at night.
+
+The rule in regard to the _quantity of clothing_ is, that it should be
+in sufficient amount to preserve due warmth. It must therefore be
+regulated by the season of the year and the state of the weather. We
+have mentioned the fatal practice of leaving bare at all seasons of the
+year the upper part of the chest and arms of the little one, while the
+rest of the body is warmly clad. We can scarcely speak too emphatically
+nor too often of the danger to which the mother thus exposes that life,
+which it is her duty to wisely and safely conduct through the period of
+dependent infancy and childhood. It is of course possible for the child
+to be too closely enveloped, and the skin thus rendered highly
+susceptible to the impressions of cold. The prevalent error, however, at
+the present time, is in the direction of too scanty clothing.
+
+_The make of the dress_ should be loose and easy, so as to permit of the
+free movement of all portions of the body; it should be cut high in the
+neck, and with sleeves to the wrists; its construction should be simple,
+so that it may be quickly put off and on; and the fastenings employed
+should, as far as possible, be tapes, not pins. In the clothing of
+children the laws of hygiene, and not the code of fashion, should direct
+the shape and style.
+
+
+THE BATHING OF INFANTS AND YOUNG CHILDREN.
+
+Many advantages attach to the daily use of the bath for infants. It
+secures cleanliness, strengthens the nervous system, and preserves from
+colds and coughs.
+
+We have already endeavoured to impress upon the mind of the reader the
+great susceptibility to cold which exists in early life. On this account
+the water for the bath should be warm (96 deg. or 98 deg.) for the first few
+weeks of infancy, especially during the winter season. Gradually the
+temperature may be reduced to that of the apartment, never to actual
+coldness. It is as foolish and hazardous to attempt to 'harden' infants
+by plunging them into cold water, as it is by carrying them with
+uncovered necks, chests, and limbs into the keen and damp air. Knowledge
+of these facts would bring safety to many children who now suffer,
+because of the dangerous ignorance of mothers in regard to the
+susceptibility of the infant organisation.
+
+An infant should be immersed in its tub every morning. Besides the
+regular morning bath, it is often advisable to put the child for a few
+minutes in tepid water in the evening. This will quiet the nervous
+system, and induce sleep. The bath should not be too long a one, for
+fear of exciting perspiration; nor, for the same reason, should the
+water be too warm. If the child be of a delicate constitution, the
+evening bath will be especially useful, and can be made more so by the
+addition of two table-spoonfuls of salt to the water necessary for the
+bath.
+
+The time immediately after nursing or feeding is not proper for bathing.
+An hour or two after a meal should be allowed to elapse. Neither should
+a bath ever be given in a cold room. Even in a warm atmosphere, care
+should be taken, both after and during the ablution, that the wet skin
+of the infant be not exposed to the air. Its body should be completely
+immersed; it should not be held up out of the water, nor, if it be old
+enough, allowed to stand or sit in the tub. It is well also to have a
+warm blanket in which to receive the child as it comes dripping from the
+bath. It should be wrapped up in this for a few minutes, to absorb a
+part of the moisture. Then a portion of the body should be uncovered at
+a time, and dried before exposing the rest.
+
+_Drying the skin._--For this purpose a piece of soft flannel will be
+found serviceable. By gently rubbing the surface of the body with it the
+skin will be warmed and stimulated, and the resulting glow will be as
+agreeable to the child as is that in the adult which follows the Turkish
+bath. The actual grooming of the human body is very useful to improve
+the health of scrofulous children.
+
+At first from three to five minutes will be a sufficiently long
+immersion. In a little while, however, this period may be lengthened,
+all the precautions mentioned against injurious exposure being observed.
+
+The lukewarm daily bath, taken either in the morning or evening, ought
+to be continued until at least the age of four years. If, after the
+fourth or fifth year, ablutions of the entire body be resorted to only
+every second or third day, the practice should be commenced of sponging
+the chest every morning with cold, or alternately with cold and hot
+water, followed by brisk frictions.
+
+Soap is to be used but sparingly in the bath of young children. It must
+be of the blandest and purest quality. Various eruptions are caused by
+the employment of impure soaps, and even by the excessive application of
+the best kind.
+
+In illustration of the importance of our present subject, we may state
+that Dr. Hufeland, to whose admirable work on the art of prolonging life
+we have before alluded, lays down, as one of the means which lengthen
+life, the care of the skin. He dwells upon the benefit of paying such
+attention to it from infancy that it may be kept in a lively, active,
+and useful condition.
+
+The power of the bath to ward off disease in childhood is not
+sufficiently appreciated by parents. Properly managed, it soothes, but
+never increases, any internal irritation which may exist, and often does
+away with the necessity of resorting to the administration of drugs. If
+due attention were paid to the condition of the skin in early life, many
+of the most common ailments of childhood would be averted. The daily
+employment of the bath, and scrupulous attention to cleanliness of the
+person and clothing, would materially lessen the demand both for
+purgative medicines and for soothing syrups.
+
+One word more in regard to the washing of the infant. The mother
+herself, if she be in health, should always perform this office, and not
+entrust it to the child's nurse. Plutarch awards high praise to Cato
+the censor, for his invariable custom of being present when his child
+was washed. Every mother, at least, would do well to follow the example
+of this old Roman. It will give her the opportunity to detect many
+incipient affections which would for a long while escape her attention
+if she saw the child only when dressed. The mother will also take pains
+to engage the mind of the little one, and render the bath a source of
+amusement to it.
+
+After the fourth or fifth year, two or three baths a week during the
+colder seasons of the year will be sufficient to keep the skin clean,
+and properly active. During the summer, however, a daily bath is of
+great advantage to children, and ought not to be neglected.
+
+Swimming is very useful and very invigorating to the health of both
+sexes. It is desirable that children be taught this art.
+
+The importance of the _culture of the skin_ to the well-being of infancy
+and childhood cannot be brought too prominently to the notice of all
+mothers. We have therefore endeavoured to give some useful hints in
+regard both to the preservation of its cleanliness, and to the
+prevention, by means of garments and warming, of its exposure to too
+great changes of temperature.
+
+By proper attention to the skin in the manner pointed out, many of the
+eruptions with which children are afflicted might be prevented. The
+appearance of these the mother ought to regard as a great calamity, for
+they are often difficult of cure, and render the child an object of
+disgust. She ought also to look upon them as the mischievous
+consequences of the neglect of those laws of health which it is her duty
+to learn and observe.
+
+
+AIR AND VENTILATION IN CHILDHOOD.
+
+Fresh air is necessary for the robust development of infancy and
+childhood. Infants born in the summer season should be carried out daily
+when the weather is pleasant, from the second or third day after birth.
+Those born in the winter should be kept in the house for two or three
+months before being introduced to the outer world on some sunny noonday.
+Older children can scarcely pass too much time in the open air.
+
+A change in the dress must, of course, be made before exposing the child
+to the outdoor air. The head should be covered, and the chest and limbs
+well protected from the cold.
+
+As a rule, a child ought to be carried out, or permitted, when old
+enough, to walk out, at least once every pleasant day during the year.
+The time of the day is to be varied with the season. In the winter, the
+middle of the day is to be chosen; in summer, the early portion of the
+forenoon, a few hours after sunrise.
+
+Children show very quickly, even when in ill-health, the beneficial
+results of a ride or walk. It quiets the irritability to which they are
+liable, more effectually than any other procedure. For a delicate child,
+or one recovering from sickness, fresh air and sunshine are the best
+tonics which can be administered. A fretful, peevish child will soon
+learn to look forward to its daily jaunt on the street or road, and will
+be quieted by it for the rest of the day.
+
+At all times of the year regard must be had to the state of the weather.
+The infant ought never to be taken out on a wet day. Exposure to a damp
+atmosphere is one of the most powerful causes of catarrh on the chest
+and inflammation of the lungs, to which young children are so subject. A
+very high wind, even though the day be bright and dry, is injurious to a
+young infant, as it has been known to suspend its breathing for a time,
+which accident might, if not at once observed, bring about a fatal
+result.
+
+Besides fresh air, _light_ is an indispensable requisite to the health
+of children. Nothing can compensate for the absence of its beneficial
+effects. It is to be remembered, however, that during the first week or
+two the eyes of the new-born babe are not strong enough to bear the full
+glare of light. The first eight days of its existence should be spent in
+a half-darkened room. Gradually the apartment may be brightened, until
+finally, after about two weeks, the young eyes become entirely
+accustomed to the light, and may be exposed to it without injury. A
+neglect of this precaution is one of the most common causes of the bad
+inflammation of the eyes so frequently met with among young infants.
+After the sight has become quite strong, a bright room will strengthen
+the eyes, not weaken them; for light is the natural stimulant of the
+eye, as exercise is of the muscles, or food of the stomach.
+
+Scrofulous diseases are the heritage of those children who are deprived
+of a plentiful supply of pure air and light. A distinguished writer upon
+the laws of health ascribes to the careful avoidance of the salutary
+influence of air and light by so many young girls, who are fearful of
+walking out while the sun is powerful, much of their sickly appearance,
+the loss of consistency of their bones, and their being able to afford
+but a deformed temple to the immortal soul.
+
+Humboldt states that, during a five years' residence in South America,
+he never saw any national deformity amongst the men or women belonging
+to the Carif, Muyscas, Indian, Mexican, or Peruvian races. If parents in
+our own country were to accustom their daughters from an early age to
+daily exercise in the open air and sunlight, there would be fewer weak
+backs requiring the support of apparatus from the surgical-instrument
+maker, and less pallor in lips and cheeks to be remedied by iron from
+the shop of the apothecary.
+
+
+EXERCISE IN CHILDHOOD.
+
+The first exercise which a child obtains, is had of course in its
+nurse's arms. Are there any directions, then, to be noticed in regard to
+the _manner of carrying an infant_?--Dr. Eberle gives the following
+useful advice upon this subject:--'The spine and its muscles seldom
+acquire sufficient strength and firmness before the end of the third
+month to enable the child to support its body in an upright position
+without inconvenience or risk of injury. Until this power is manifestly
+acquired, the infant should not be carried or suffered to sit with its
+body erect, without supporting it in such a manner as to lighten the
+pressure made on the spine, and aid it in maintaining the upright
+posture of its head and trunk; therefore, at first (a few days after
+birth), the infant should be taken from its cradle or bed two or three
+times daily and laid on its back upon a pillow, and carried gently about
+the chamber. After the third or fourth week, the child may be carried in
+a reclining posture on the arms of a careful nurse, in such a manner as
+to afford entire support both to body and head. This may be done by
+reclining the infant upon the forearm, the hand embracing the upper and
+posterior part of the thighs, whilst its body and head are supported by
+resting against the breast and arm of the nurse. When held in this way,
+it may be gently moved from side to side, or up and down, while it is
+carefully carried through a well-ventilated room.'
+
+After the child is three months old, it will probably have become strong
+enough to maintain itself in a sitting position. It may then be carried
+about in this upright posture, with the spine and head carefully
+supported by the nurse, which aid ought not to be withdrawn until the
+age of six or seven months.
+
+'In _lifting_ young children,' as has been well observed by Dr. Barlow,
+'the nurse should be very careful never to lay hold of them by the arms,
+as is sometimes thoughtlessly done; but always to place the hands, one
+on each side of the chest, immediately below the armpits. In infancy the
+sockets of the joints are so shallow, and the bones so feebly bound
+down and connected with each other, that dislocation and even fracture
+of the collar-bone may easily be produced by neglecting this rule. For
+the same reason, it is a bad custom to support a child by one or even by
+both arms, when he makes his first attempt to walk. The grand aim which
+the child has in view, is to preserve his equilibrium. If he is
+partially supported by one arm, the body inclines to one side, and the
+attitude is rendered most unfavorable to the preservation of his natural
+balance; and consequently, the moment the support is in the least
+relaxed, the child falls over and is caught up with a jerk. Even when
+held by both arms, the attitude is unnatural and unfavorable to the
+speedy attainment of the object. To assist the child, we ought to place
+one hand on each side of the chest in such a way as to give the
+slightest possible support, and to be ready instantly to give more if he
+lose his balance. When this plan is followed, all the attitudes and
+efforts of the child are in a natural direction; and success is attained
+not only sooner, but more gracefully, than by any ill-judged support
+given to one side.
+
+'There is one very common mode of exercising infants, which we think
+deserves particular notice: we mean the practice of hoisting or raising
+them aloft in the air. This practice is of such venerable antiquity, and
+so universal, that it would be vain to impugn it. The pleasure, too,
+which most children evince under it, seems to show that it cannot be so
+objectionable as a cursory observer would be disposed to consider it.
+Still there are hazards which ought not to be overlooked. The risk of
+accident is one of some amount: children have slipped from the hands,
+and sustained serious injury. Some people are so energetic as to throw
+up children and catch them in descending. This rashness there can be no
+hesitation in reprobating; for, however confident the person may be of
+not missing his hold, there must ever be risks of injury from the
+concussion suffered in the descent, and even from the firmness of the
+grasp necessary for recovering and maintaining the hold. The motion of
+the body, too, has a direct tendency to induce vertigo; and when the
+liability of the infant brain to congestion and its consequences is
+considered, when the frequency of hydrocephalus in infants is borne in
+mind, an exercise which impels blood to the brain will not be regarded
+as wholly insignificant. There is one more objection which seems not to
+have attracted attention. The hold taken of the child in the act of
+hoisting him is by the hand grasping the chest. The fingers and thumb,
+placed on each side of the breast-bone, compress the ribs; and any one
+with the hand so placed will at once perceive that if the pressure were
+strong, and the resistance from the elasticity of the ribs weak, the
+impression on the chest resulting would correspond exactly with the
+deformity named chicken-breast. That any force is ever used capable of
+inducing speedily such a change, is in the highest degree improbable;
+but that reiterated pressure of this kind, however slight, would in a
+weakly child have power to impress and distort the chest, few, we
+imagine, will doubt.'
+
+
+LEARNING TO WALK.
+
+When two or three months old, the infant may be placed on a soft
+mattress upon the floor or on the carpet. He can then toss his limbs
+about without danger, and develope the powers of his muscular system.
+
+'The best mode of teaching a child how to walk,' says Dr. Bull, 'is to
+let it teach itself; and this it will do readily enough. It will first
+learn to crawl: this exercises every muscle in the body, does not
+fatigue the child, throws no weight upon the bones, but imparts vigor
+and strength, and is thus highly useful. After a while, having the
+power, it will wish to do more. It will endeavor to lift itself upon its
+feet by the aid of a chair; and though it fail again and again in its
+attempts, it will still persevere until it accomplish it. By this, it
+learns first to raise itself from the floor; and secondly, to stand, but
+not without keeping hold of the object on which it has seized. Next it
+will balance itself without holding, and will proudly and laughingly
+show that it can stand alone. Fearful, however, as yet of moving its
+limbs without support, it will seize a chair or anything else near it,
+when it will dare to advance as far as the limits of its support will
+permit. This little adventure will be repeated day after day with
+increased exultation; when, after numerous trials, he will feel
+confident of his power to balance himself, and he will run alone. Now
+time is required for this gradual self-teaching, during which the
+muscles and bones become strengthened; and when at last called upon to
+sustain the weight of the body, are fully capable of doing so.'
+
+It is not merely want of strength which prevents an infant from walking
+at first. The natural shape of the legs renders it impossible. The feet
+are turned in so that the inner sides look upwards. When placed upon its
+feet, therefore, the soles will not rest upon the ground. In a short
+time the position of the feet changes, and they become fitted for the
+purposes of support and locomotion. When he begins to walk, the child
+should have shoes with tolerably broad soles, which ought to be at least
+half an inch longer than the foot.
+
+The first efforts of the little one to support and propel itself are to
+be carefully watched, but not unnecessarily interfered with; neither
+frightened by expressions of fear, nor rendered timid by too frequent
+warnings.
+
+
+ADVANTAGES OF GAMES AND PLAYS.
+
+The first seven years of life should be one grand holiday for all sports
+and amusements which will bring into play the muscles, and divert at the
+same time the mind. Time cannot be more usefully employed than in thus
+laying the foundation of health, upon which alone can rest the physical,
+mental, and moral well-being of after-life.
+
+No greater mistake can be made by parents than to deprive the young of
+the innocent pleasures of childhood. Yet there are persons occasionally
+met with who think it their duty to check the natural lightness and
+gaiety of heart of their children for fear that they shall become too
+fond of pleasure. In this way great harm is done to both mind and body,
+and the very fault created which it is desired to avoid.
+
+The wise parent sees in the games and plays of childhood not only
+necessary recreation and exercise, but a valuable means of education--of
+moral, mental, and physical training. He also seeks to impress early
+upon the young mind that play is most enjoyed when it has been earned by
+work, and that pleasure flies from those who continually pursue it.
+
+The faculties of _memory_ and _attention_ can be called upon and
+developed by proper games in a most satisfactory manner. These exercises
+are all the more effective because the pleasure conceals, as it were,
+the mental labor, and the intellectual efforts are made, in a sense,
+unconsciously, though none the less efficiently.
+
+Certain plays form a valuable means of educating the eyes and other
+senses. Such, for instance, are the toys which represent objects of
+natural history or of different trades and arts; the pictures which
+teach through the quick eye of the child what no dry descriptions could
+ever convey; and the games which develope closeness of observation and
+habits of order. A genial French physician has happily said, 'Every time
+I see a toy based on the reproduction of a scientific fact or of an
+industrial process, and which pleases while it enlightens, I feel a
+sentiment of real gratitude to him who has designed it.'
+
+We are glad to see that each year more and more attention is being paid
+to the utilization, as it were, of the games of infancy. Although all
+education can never be made a play, all play can be made an effective
+education. Do not therefore, reader, restrict the games of your
+children, but direct them; do not render them less amusing, but seek to
+make them more instructive.
+
+The schooling afforded by instructive plays should be the only schooling
+of the first seven years of life. Late springs produce the most abundant
+harvests in the mind as in the field. Precocious and delicate children
+especially should be kept from a too early and close application to
+books. By means of healthful and instructive games and sports; by visits
+to workshops and factories where familiar objects are made; and by a
+cultivation of the sense of the beautiful in nature and art, more can be
+done towards securing a sound mind in a sound body than by the easier
+and more common method of sending the child to school almost as soon as
+it can walk.
+
+
+IMPORTANCE OF TEACHING CHILDREN HYGIENIC HABITS.
+
+The force of habits should never be lost sight of by those having the
+charge of children. They constitute a power of which parents should
+early avail themselves. J. J. Rousseau has said, 'The only habit which
+one ought to permit the child, is of not contracting any.' But this is
+impossible and undesirable. When it is remembered that _a good habit is
+just as hard to break as a bad one_, the importance of seeking from the
+very cradle to frame good habits is evident. It is easy to create, but
+difficult to reform. What then are some of the principal hygienic habits
+which it is desirable to teach children?
+
+First we will mention, _a liking for proper food at regular times_. The
+indigestion, or weakness of digestion, from which many children suffer,
+is in some cases hereditary or the result of feeble health. But most
+frequently it is the effect of bad management. The giving to the child
+of pastry and cakes at meals instead of simple and nutritious food, the
+encouragement of capriciousness of appetite instead of teaching it to
+like everything that is healthful, and the neglect to inculcate the
+habit of eating at regular hours, these are the principal causes of many
+cases of diarrhoea, vomitings, weak appetite, colicky pains, and
+indigestion among children.
+
+The daily use of at least a sponge-bath of the entire person is an
+excellent habit. Cold water should be employed after the fifth or sixth
+year. This simple practice of a cold sponge-bath every morning, if more
+generally taught children, would avert many a cold and rheumatic attack
+in after life.
+
+The habit of quenching the thirst with only simple drinks, milk and
+water, should be early and thoroughly formed. No American mother would
+think of giving spirits to her child, excepting under medical advice;
+but many permit almost from infancy the use of tea and coffee. These
+drinks are not only unnecessary in childhood, but to a certain extent
+injurious. They excite the nervous system and disorder the digestion.
+Before the age of puberty, neither tea nor coffee should be allowed.
+
+
+ON THE TRAINING OF THE SPECIAL SENSES.
+
+The special senses, sight, hearing, smell, taste, and touch, have been
+called the windows of the soul, by which it observes what passes
+without. The most noble and intellectual of these are the sight and
+hearing. Neither of them receives the attention at the hands of parents
+and educators which it should. Indeed, the Indians who yet inhabit our
+western plains, have better eyes and ears than we. The reason of this is
+evident. The savage is obliged to make other use of his eyes than to
+dreamily admire the beautiful landscape, and other use of his ears than
+to listen to the singing of birds and the murmuring of wind and stream.
+These senses are the defenders of his life. He depends upon them for
+food, clothing, and protection against his enemies. Hence, urged by
+necessity, he trains them from infancy, and brings them to a perfection
+which astonishes us. It will be said, however, that we in our civilized
+life, have no need of any such acuteness of sense. True, but we cannot
+avoid the consciousness that our organs of sight and hearing do not
+afford us the service they ought, and that they commence to fail us too
+early. The remedy is to be sought in the training of the special senses
+in early life. These senses, which are the first of our faculties to
+form and develope, should be the first to be educated; yet, as has been
+well said, they are nearly the only ones which are forgotten, or at
+least they are the most neglected.
+
+The education of a sense has been compared to the education of a
+child,--it has its physical, its intellectual, and its moral side. It is
+necessary to maintain the organ in a condition of health in order that
+it may perform its work well; this is the physical education of the
+sense. The mind must learn to properly elaborate the impressions thus
+conveyed to it, this is the intellectual education of the sense.
+Finally, in the service of morality and justice, these impressions ought
+to be turned to the advantage of the good and the beautiful, this is the
+moral education of the sense. The subject of the training of the special
+senses is therefore, when properly viewed, a serious and most important
+one. It might well demand more attention at our hands than we have space
+to give it here. We will make our remarks as concise and practical as
+possible commencing first with
+
+
+THE TRAINING OF THE SENSE OF SIGHT.
+
+A recent French writer on the hygiene of the sight has brought forward
+striking evidence in support of his statement, that in our time the
+sense of sight is growing markedly weaker. The number of the
+near-sighted is augmenting, as is also the number of those who become
+'far-sighted' before old age. Cases of debility and disease of the eyes
+seem to be multiplying at a rate which should awaken general attention
+to this matter. The causes are to be found in the neglect, often the
+hurtful management, of the eyesight of children; in the influence of
+improperly regulating artificial light; and in the injury done by bad
+printer's ink and paper.
+
+In the education of the child's eyesight, _acuteness_ of vision is one
+of the first objects to be sought for. That this is largely a matter of
+training is apparent from the fact that persons in certain professions
+can readily distinguish objects too small or too distant for ordinary
+eyes. Children brought up in the country or at the sea-side, have a
+power of vision unknown to city children, with their limited range of
+observation. But it is not only necessary that the eyes should be able
+to make out the forms of distant or small objects, but that they should
+be quick to detect shades of color and delicacies of outline. The child
+should be stimulated and encouraged to make efforts in this direction.
+Here, also, there is room for the skill of the intelligent toy-maker,
+for toys can be made very useful educators.
+
+One of the forms of sensorial _memory_ which it is most desirable to
+develope is that of objects seen, that is to say, the fixing in the
+thoughts, to be brought up before the mind's eye when wanted, the
+recollection of visual impressions. This embraces the memory of forms,
+of dimensions, of the relations between various objects and between
+different parts of the same object, and of colors. When applied to
+places it is what is known as _local_ memory, applied to the human face,
+it is the memory of _physiognomy_; applied to objects, it is _graphic_
+or _descriptive_ memory; applied to colors, it is _chromatic_ memory.
+
+_Local_ memory is sometimes developed to an extraordinary degree. It is
+only necessary for some persons to have once traversed a locality, a
+street, a city, in order to preserve of it a most minute and vivid
+recollection. This topographical memory is enjoyed by a number of the
+inferior animals; the elephant, the dog, and the horse, for instance,
+are well-known as being capable of noticing a road taken and of
+returning by it, of recognising readily a place once seen, and of
+showing a tendency to stop of their own accord at places where they have
+been arrested or kept. This local memory, useful as it is to every one,
+is necessary to the painter who draws upon it for the elements of his
+artistic creations.
+
+The faculty of recollecting faces is a peculiar one, and possessed by
+different persons in vastly different degrees. There are those who
+recognise invariably every face they have once seen, and who by a simple
+effort can at any time recall with the utmost distinctness the features
+of the absent. On the other hand, there are those so wanting in this
+special form of memory that they are constantly exposed to serious
+social inconveniences, and, for fear of failing in politeness, often
+salute perfect strangers. The ancient Greeks possessed to an
+extraordinary degree the power of seizing and retaining types of face
+and form; it is to this, doubtless, that they owe, to a great extent,
+their unapproached excellence in sculpture and painting.
+
+_Graphic_ or _descriptive_ memory is that which photographs, as it were,
+upon the brain the visual impressions that objects have made upon the
+retina, in such a manner that the thought can reconstruct them ideally.
+This, in particular, is the form of memory required by designers of all
+kinds, and, like the other forms of visual memory, is susceptible of
+education. The child is first taught to copy with his pencil and produce
+exact _imitations_ of the objects about him. Then, little by little, he
+is to be taught in closing his eyes to reconstruct mentally the contours
+of objects, at first simple, then more complicated, and finally to
+penetrate into their details and give to the fictitious mental image all
+the relief of reality. This exercise not merely trains the child in
+correct observation, but quickly leads to the conquest of descriptive
+memory.
+
+_Chromatic_ memory, or the memory of colors, is a form of visual memory
+different from those we have enumerated. It is more difficult, perhaps,
+and technical than the others. The attention of the child should early
+be directed to the colors of natural and artificial objects, and he
+should be encouraged to imitate them.
+
+But it is not our intention to go further into this important subject,
+the education of the sense of sight. Our space will not permit it. By
+these few elementary remarks, we have merely wished to remind parents
+that they can do much towards the development of this important faculty
+in their children.
+
+
+TO PREVENT NEAR-SIGHTEDNESS.
+
+Near-sightedness is, as we have said, greatly increasing. In Germany,
+this is particularly the case, and has led there to a careful study of
+the subject within the last few years.
+
+Near-sightedness, like most of the disorders of the eyesight, is to be
+traced to causes which act during childhood, _and which causes are all
+entirely preventable_. Imperfect lighting of rooms in which children
+study or play is one of the chief among these preventable causes. When
+the windows are improperly constructed or placed, or when the artificial
+light is faulty in school-rooms, the book is naturally brought close to
+the eyes in order that it may be more easily read. The consequence of
+this is either that near-sightedness is quickly produced, or that the
+eyes soon become fatigued and permanently weakened. No less injurious is
+the effort to read 'between the lights' or before the fire. School-books
+with too small type, and school-desks which are too low or too far from
+the seats, are the direct cause of much mischief to many young eyes. Let
+parents, therefore, see to it that the school-rooms to which they send
+their children are clearly and properly lighted, that the books which
+they study are printed in a bold, clear type, and that no reading or
+study is permitted by a flickering or a dim light, nor before a desk or
+table which forbids a tolerably erect position of the head and
+shoulders.
+
+
+THE EDUCATION OF THE SENSE OF HEARING.
+
+The education of this sense is second only in importance to that of the
+sight. First of all, attention should be directed to the preservation of
+the _health_ of the organ.
+
+Many cases of deafness among children originate in long standing
+diseases of the nose and throat; others in obstinate skin affections;
+while not a few are caused by a want of cleanliness, which permits of
+the accumulation of wax in the passage of the ear.
+
+The sensibility of the nerve which conveys impressions of sound from the
+ear to the brain can be greatly increased by exercise and training, when
+the organ is in a condition of health. It can be so highly developed
+that the ear will readily catch very feeble sounds.
+
+A learned physician has recently pointed out with some force that
+sufficient attention is not paid to the conformation of the pavilion of
+the ear. Upon this conformation much of the delicacy of hearing depends.
+The hats which children wear, usually compress and deform the pavilion.
+Physiologists have shown that it ought to make an angle of about thirty
+degrees with the skull, in order to best collect sonorous vibrations.
+This angle is very much diminished by our artificial head-dresses, and
+to the detriment of acuteness of hearing.
+
+Can education do much for the improvement of hearing? Everyday
+experience answers in the affirmative. There is an exercise which cannot
+be too highly commended to parents, which consists in inducing in play
+their children, even those very young, to detect from as far as they can
+faint and fading sounds. It is a game which amuses them much, and it is
+a pleasing sight to see the rivalry of several young children, each of
+whom with head bent forward, is earnestly trying to distinguish a
+receding sound longer than its fellows. A little ingenuity will readily
+devise amusing and useful plays with this object in view.
+
+The training of the remaining special senses is of comparatively minor
+importance to that of those we have been considering, and need not
+detain us. We will only remind the reader of the wonderful adroitness
+and delicacy of touch possessed by the blind as an example of what this
+sense is capable of when educated.
+
+
+
+
+HOME MANAGEMENT OF SOME COMMON DISEASES OF CHILDREN.
+
+
+CROUP.
+
+Although this disease is said to be more severe in Europe than in our
+own country, and more frequent in our northern than in our southern
+States, most American mothers, in all parts of the country, know and
+dread its alarming and often fatal attacks. It is a disease of
+childhood, but not of early infancy, being rarely met with under the
+first or after the tenth year of life.
+
+Children who have once had this affection are very liable to another
+attack upon exposure to any of the causes which excite it. It has been
+noticed also that croup runs in certain families, and not unfrequently,
+children of a ruddy complexion and of a fleshy and apparently vigorous
+appearance are those most subject to it.
+
+Among the _causes of croup_, which should be specially guarded against
+by mothers of croupy children, are checking of the perspiration, sudden
+alterations in the dress, change of climate, and even in some cases a
+residence at the sea-side. Croup also often follows measles, and at
+times is epidemic.
+
+The unmistakable _symptoms of croup_ quickly show themselves at the
+outset of the disease. Sometimes a sore throat, a short, dry cough, and
+a slight harshness of breathing, usher in the affection; in other
+instances, that which first attracts attention is hoarseness in the cry
+or tone of the voice, attended with, or quickly followed by,
+feverishness, thirst, and dulness, or fretfulness; while in another
+class of cases the disease suddenly developes itself without any
+noticeable premonitory signs. In all these cases the characteristic
+symptoms of the disease commonly make their appearance at night. The
+child's sleep is disturbed by a peculiar clanging cough, which, when
+once heard, will ever afterwards be remembered and easily recognised.
+The skin becomes hot and dry, the breathing difficult, the cough more
+frequent, and the child is soon awakened, frightened, and struggling for
+breath. With flushed face and staring eyes, the little sufferer starts
+up, grasping the throat with the hand as if seeking to remove some
+encircling pressure which is choking it. Each drawing in of the breath
+is attended with a hissing sound, the redness of the face and neck
+increases, and speech becomes impossible. This attack may pass off in a
+few minutes, or be prolonged, with varying degrees of intensity, for an
+hour. Almost invariably, however, it is followed by a period of relief,
+in some instances so complete as to deceive the anxious relatives into
+the belief that the disease is over and the child safe. This false
+confidence is, unfortunately, generally soon rudely dissipated by a
+return of the attack in all its first violence.
+
+The disease attains its height by the end of the second, or at the
+latest the close of the third day. The fever is now the hottest, the
+tongue becomes white, the face and forehead red and covered with
+perspiration, the lips at times purple, the veins of the neck and
+temples distended, the countenance distressed, and the voice whispered
+or suppressed. The cough is now also most frequent and noisy; its
+peculiar sound has been compared to that made by a fowl when caught in
+the hand. The thirst is great, but swallowing difficult. The child often
+inserts its fingers in the mouth as if trying to clutch something which
+closes the air passages. These symptoms may either increase to the rapid
+exhaustion of the patient or take a favorable turn. One of the first
+evidences of the latter is a change in the character of the cough,
+which, although it may not lessen in force or frequency, becomes lower
+in tone, less dry, and finally moist.
+
+The _treatment_ should be most prompt, active, and energetic. Few
+diseases require, for the safety of the patient, such quick and
+efficient aid at the outset. Prepare at once sufficient hot water for a
+bath, and make a fire in the room. In the meanwhile, immerse the child's
+arms in some hot water, and apply cloths, wrung thoroughly dry from it,
+to the throat. Give the child a tea-spoonful of powdered alum in a
+little syrup, molasses and water, or honey. Repeat the dose in a quarter
+of an hour if full vomiting be not excited by the first tea-spoonful. So
+soon as the warm bath is ready (the water should have the temperature
+of 98 deg. Fahrenheit), place the child in it, and keep up the heat of the
+bath by the occasional addition of hot water. Have hot towels in
+readiness to dry the skin completely, and a warm blanket in which to
+wrap the patient. See that the temperature of the room is raised to
+about 66 deg. Fahrenheit, and that it does not fall below this. Moisten the
+air by putting a kettle of boiling water on the fire and diffusing the
+steam from it by means of a long roll of paper fixed to the spout.
+
+The warm bath and the emetic will usually relieve the breathing; but no
+matter how complete this relief may appear to be, nor how quietly the
+little one may sleep, it must be carefully watched all night, so that
+the first return of unfavorable symptoms may be promptly treated. In all
+instances also, however favorably the case may progress, the patient
+must be confined to bed for several days, and the temperature of the
+room, and the moisture of the air, carefully maintained, as directed for
+the first treatment of the attack. If the child has had previous
+attacks, or if the weather be cold and inclement, it should be kept in
+this warm moist atmosphere for two weeks. Were these precautions known
+and heeded we should have to lament fewer fatal cases of croup.
+
+Of course in this, as in all other serious diseases, skilled medical
+advice should be secured as quickly as possible. We have given the above
+directions, not only for those so situated that they cannot secure
+medical aid, but also for all others, in order that no valuable time may
+be lost in commencing the treatment, that the efforts of the physician
+may be intelligently seconded and carried out, and that the importance
+of _promptness_ at the outset, and _prolonged care_ during
+convalescence, maybe impressed upon every mother who consults these
+pages.
+
+
+HEAD COLDS.
+
+Young infants are very liable to take cold when being washed, or carried
+about the house into rooms and passages of different temperatures. This
+cold often shows itself by sneezing and "snuffles" in the nose. In a
+short time a discharge from the nostrils appears, the eyes become
+watery, and the voice sounds "through the nose." The skin is hotter than
+natural, and the infant cross. If the child be able to talk, it will
+complain of headache, some soreness in the limbs and back, and of a
+burning, uncomfortable feeling in the nose. These symptoms last for
+three or four days, when in mild ordinary cases they begin to disappear.
+After one or more attacks of this kind the child is very liable to a
+return on every slight exposure to cold.
+
+The _treatment_ required in these cases is mild and simple, but must not
+be neglected. A warm bath should be taken at bed-time for a number of
+days; the patient should be kept in an even temperature and out of
+draughts. The best relief to the distress in the nose, from which the
+child suffers, is afforded by dipping a hollow sponge in hot water,
+squeezing it nearly dry, and applying it over the nose and forehead. The
+common domestic practice of greasing the nose is also beneficial. The
+wearing of a flannel cap until the disease is cured is a remedy
+strongly recommended by the late Dr. Meigs. A flannel cap will also
+often prevent the recurrence of the complaint in those very subject to
+it.
+
+
+FITS.
+
+Infants and young children are much more liable to fits and convulsions
+than adults. The causes which excite them are numerous, and should be
+generally known, that they may be as far as possible avoided.
+
+Many infants are born with a tendency to fits. The children of feeble
+parents, or of those who have married very early or very late in life,
+are apt to be afflicted with a predisposition to them. Great fright or
+severe shock received by the mother during the latter months of her
+pregnancy may give rise to convulsions in the child soon after birth.
+
+Pale, badly nourished, soft, flabby children, and those of a sensitive,
+nervous temperament, are more liable to fits than those who are ruddy
+and hardy. Hence we find convulsions more common and fatal among the
+poor and miserable than among the 'well-to-do' and comfortable. City
+children are more subject to the complaint than the country born and
+bred.
+
+Fits are very frequent among infants while teething. In such cases
+lancing the gum secures immediate relief. Another cause of fits, and one
+which every mother should know, is the giving of meat to the child
+before its teeth are cut. In such cases the attack is sudden, and often
+very severe. Children most affected in this way by animal food are those
+with water on the brain, and those of a very delicate constitution. The
+juice or broth of meat is in some such instances sufficient to produce
+fits. The remedy consists in the institution of a milk diet. In all
+doubtful cases avoid a meat diet in any form, and watch the result.
+
+Strong mental emotions, such as fright, shame, or anger, may cause a fit
+in a child. A nurse in England threatened to throw a child out of the
+window if he did not stop crying; the little boy fell at once into
+convulsions, from which he died.
+
+Among other known causes of fits are confinement to heated, badly
+ventilated rooms, tight bandaging, and sudden exposure to severe cold or
+heat.
+
+In treating of the influence of the mother's mind over the nursing child
+(p. 251), we mentioned a number of instances of children thrown into
+convulsions by changes in the quality of the milk caused by the mental
+emotion of the mother. The importance of the subject induces us to quote
+here the corroborating remarks of Dr. Churchill, in the last edition of
+his standard work on diseases of children. 'During the first year of
+life, convulsions may not unfrequently be traced to the milk of the
+mother or nurse disagreeing with the infant, or having been disordered
+temporarily by fright, passion, or suffering. Soemmering mentions a
+curious case of a woman whose milk agreed with her own child, but caused
+convulsions in all others. M. Guersant relates the instance of a woman
+deserted by her husband, and in her distress her infant had an attack
+each time it took the breast. Dr. Underwood mentions a mother who nursed
+her child immediately after witnessing a sudden death; the child was
+attacked by convulsions, after which it remained comatose for thirty-six
+hours, but ultimately recovered. Numerous cases are on record of
+convulsions supervening upon violent passion in the nurse. I have
+witnessed more than one case resulting from the mother suckling her
+child during a time of severe affliction and distress.'
+
+We deem it useless to describe a fit. Almost every one has seen it, and
+at once recognises it. We shall proceed, therefore, at once to the
+_treatment._
+
+When a child is attacked with a fit the dress should be loosened, all
+tight bandages and pins removed, and plenty of fresh air admitted into
+the room. It should not be held upright in the arms, but placed in a
+lying position. A warm bath (that most useful remedy in so many of the
+ailments of children) should be speedily prepared, and the child
+immersed for a few minutes, then removed, dried, and wrapped in a
+blanket. A hot mustard foot-bath is also of service. The cause of the
+fit should be at once sought, for upon it will of course depend to a
+great extent the treatment required. If the child be teething, and the
+gums be found to be red and swollen, they should be lanced. If the child
+has eaten too much, or of improper food, an emetic should be given. A
+little mustard and salt mixed in a tumbler of warm water affords a
+ready, safe, and effectual emetic.
+
+The dashing of cold water upon the face will sometimes promptly end the
+fit. The application of powdered ice in a bladder, or of cold water
+cloths to the head, is of service where the face is much flushed and the
+movements very violent.
+
+Children subject to fits should live in a well warmed house. By this we
+do not mean that the rooms and hall ways should be kept hot, still less
+that they should be close and improperly ventilated. The temperature of
+the bed-room should not be lower than 70 degrees, and great care should
+be taken during cold weather to avoid chilling the child outdoors.
+
+Rubbing of the child's body once a day with good salad oil is an
+excellent and readily applied remedy in these cases. The little patients
+do not ordinarily object to it. As it is a procedure calculated to
+improve the general health, we strongly recommend every mother whose
+child has frequent fits, to try it.
+
+The dress of the child should be warm, loose, and comfortable. Perfect
+quietness is important for a time after attacks. Do not excite the child
+by seeking to amuse it. Let it sleep as much as it will.
+
+In those cases in which a fit has been followed by weakness of the
+limbs, medical assistance will of course be procured. As a rule,
+recovery in such instances is slow, but, when properly directed,
+perfect. Change of scene, country air, and exercise, friction of the
+body with a flesh-brush or salt towel, salt water baths, and
+electricity, are all valuable agents towards cure.
+
+
+NOSE-BLEED.
+
+Bleeding from the nose may be produced by a blow or by over-exercise of
+the child at play. In either case the trouble is usually a trifling
+one. Some children, however, are liable to attacks of nose-bleed coming
+on without any assignable causes. One of the consequences of scarlet
+fever and whooping cough is sometimes a tendency to repeated and serious
+spells of bleeding from the nose.
+
+The _treatment_ in these cases consists in quieting the alarm of the
+child if it be frightened, and in applying cold water or pounded ice to
+the nose and forehead and to the back of the neck. It is because of its
+coldness that the key placed down the back, as so commonly advised in
+domestic practice, does good.
+
+An exaggerated idea of the amount of blood lost is often a cause of
+distress to parents. They forget that the child has been bleeding in a
+vessel of water, and that a very little blood darkly colors a large
+quantity of water.
+
+Bleeding from the nose is sometimes a favorable symptom, as when it
+occurs during a fever, or when in girls approaching womanhood it
+precedes the expected signs of puberty. It is an unfavorable symptom,
+however, in scrofulous children and in girls affected with
+green-sickness, as in these instances it aggravates the existing
+disorders.
+
+In those rare cases of protracted bleeding which resist the remedies we
+have mentioned, it may be necessary for the surgeon to plug the
+nostrils, both in front and at their opening into the throat.
+
+This extreme measure is fortunately scarcely ever called for, and can
+only be carried out by the physician.
+
+
+WORMS.
+
+Children are often thought to have worms when entirely free from them.
+There is hardly a symptom of any disease which has not been supposed by
+some to be a sign of the presence of worms. A child suffering from some
+other complaint is, therefore, not unfrequently dosed with vermifuges to
+its injury. We can give the mother one symptom of worms which is
+infallible. It is the only one upon which she can rely, namely, the
+detection of worms in the stools of the child. Until these expelled
+intruders are actually found she should be slow to believe that the
+child is thus affected, and still slower to give worm medicine. Before
+beginning treatment, let the mother wait until the need of it is made
+out by the result of the examination we have mentioned.
+
+The _treatment_ of the ordinary worms to which children are subject is
+simple and usually speedily efficacious. Commence with a dose of Epsom
+salts, of magnesia, or of cream of tartar, as may be preferred. The next
+day administer a vermifuge, of which the best and pleasantest is
+_santonine_. Obtain from the druggist three or four three-grain powders
+of this medicine. Give the half or the whole of one of these powders,
+according to the age of the child, at bed-time. The next morning
+administer a purgative dose of oil or salts. Repeat this treatment every
+other day until three doses of santonine have been taken. Or, from two
+to six grains, according to the age of the patient, may be dissolved in
+two table-spoonsful of castor-oil, and a tea-spoonful given every hour
+until it operates.
+
+An excellent domestic remedy for worms, one which was a great favorite
+with the celebrated Dr. Rush of Philadelphia, is common salt. For a
+child two or three years old, the proper dose is a tea-spoonful mixed in
+a wine-glassful of water. When the child can be got to take it in
+sufficient quantity, this remedy is a very efficient one.
+
+Most cases of supposed worms in children are best treated by regulating
+the diet, by attention to the air and exercise of the child, by warm
+baths, and by endeavoring to improve the appetite, the digestion, and
+the strength. The food should be plain and unirritating (bread, milk,
+rice, arrowroot, chicken, lamb or mutton broth, beef-tea, mutton chop,
+young chicken); the meals should be taken in smaller quantities than
+usual, and at regular intervals. Sweets and confectionery should be
+forbidden, and but few vegetables permitted for awhile. A perseverance
+in this regimen for a short time will usually cure the little patient
+without the necessity of resorting to any vermifuge.
+
+Worms are most frequent between the ages of three and ten years. Girls
+are oftener affected than boys. A tendency to worms is hereditary. Cases
+occur more frequently during the spring and autumn than during the other
+seasons. A residence in cold, damp, unhealthy situations leads to their
+production in many instances.
+
+
+BED-WETTING.
+
+This troublesome disorder is not unfrequently met with in children--more
+especially boys--under twelve years of age. It is a mistake to suppose,
+as is done by some parents, that slothfulness or negligence is the
+invariable and only cause of this infirmity; on this point Dr. Vogel
+says:--'In most cases which I have observed, the children through their
+own sense of honor or on account of repeated punishments, had a lively
+interest in avoiding the accident, and yet were unable to do this
+without appropriate treatment pursued for months, and even years.' Dr.
+Tanner states:--'Very frequently this affection is the consequence of
+bad habits; being favored by the free use of fluids during the after
+part of the day, by exposure to cold in the night, and by lying on the
+back.'
+
+The presence of worms in the bowels is one of the causes of this
+annoying ailment, and they should be sought for in all cases. Stone in
+the bladder sometimes occasions the affection, but in such instances
+other symptoms will soon point to the true nature of the trouble.
+
+This subject is one of an importance which demands some attention from
+us in a work for parents. In the language of Dr. Vogel, 'the effects of
+this malady are unpleasant, for the psychical development in particular
+suffers. The repeated punishments which these children undergo blunt
+their sense of honor considerably; they become cowardly and deceitful,
+and have no personal spirit. If great and expensive cleanliness is not
+practised, the bed, and even the whole room, acquires a urinous odor,
+which contaminates the atmosphere and begets conditions by no means
+favorable to healthy growth. Such children may be ultimately attacked by
+indolent ulcers on the nates and lower extremities, the results of
+urinous excoriations.'
+
+The only _symptom_ ordinarily present is that the child towards morning
+or in the middle of the night wets the bed without waking. This may
+happen several times during the sleep, and recur every night. In some
+cases the act takes place only every other night, but it is rare that
+there is an interval of more than one night.
+
+The _cause_ of this failing is sometimes very simple and one easily
+remedied; for it is often the result of neglecting to take young
+children up once during the many hours they require for sleep. By
+attention to this matter and to the diet, the habit may be speedily
+broken. Unfortunately most cases are not so quickly amenable to
+treatment.
+
+In the _treatment_ of this infirmity, corporal punishment should not be
+thought of. It is useless, cruel, and unnatural. The child might as well
+be punished because it squints or has club-foot.
+
+Care must be taken to see that the little patient eats or drinks nothing
+for several hours before bed-time. The child should also be awakened a
+little before midnight, and at a very early hour in the morning, and
+made to empty its bladder. It is of great importance to get the child to
+sleep upon its side or face, as lying upon the back is sure to increase
+the trouble. Indeed, it is frequently observed that the child always
+remains clean when it is prevented from turning upon its back during
+sleep. The difficulty lies in the prevention. The plan of tying a cloth
+or towel around the child with a knot over the spinal column, to awaken
+it by the pain when it rolls over upon the back, so often proposed,
+seems good advice easily followed. But practically it fails, as it is
+impossible, without making the bandage too tight, to keep it in place.
+The benefit which, in some instances, has followed the employment of a
+succession of small blisters directly over the lower part of the spinal
+column, is doubtless due to their forcing the child to sleep upon the
+face or side. The remedy is somewhat a painful one, but should be tried
+in obstinate cases.
+
+The child's general health, if enfeebled, should be improved by cold
+baths, bitter tonics, and if possible a change of air. In no case should
+any mechanical means be employed to arrest the infirmity. Serious and
+even fatal results have followed such attempts.
+
+If the precautions and simple remedies we have mentioned fail, recourse
+must be had to the family physician. The drugs which are of benefit are
+too powerful to be entrusted to any other hands. The hygienic method of
+cure we have pointed out will, if instituted early, be effectual in all
+excepting very obstinate cases, which latter indeed sometimes resist for
+a long time the best efforts of medical skill.
+
+
+LOOSENESS OF THE BOWELS.
+
+Children under one year of age should have two movements of the bowels
+in the twenty-four hours, and those from one to three years at least
+one stool a day.
+
+A slight attack of looseness is often beneficial if it passes away
+within a day or two. It is easy, however, for such an attack to become
+hurtful, especially if the food be improper, or the weather warm. A
+looseness which is of no consequence in the winter may well excite
+uneasiness during the summer months.
+
+Diarrhoea in a healthy child is ordinarily preceded by vomiting. If the
+diarrhoea persist long, the little patient is much prostrated by it, and
+rapidly reduced in flesh. Such an attack should never, therefore, be
+neglected.
+
+In the case of an infant not weaned, it should be removed from the
+breast for half a day or more, that the stomach may have little or
+nothing to do. Barley or rice water, or ordinary water, may be given in
+small quantities at a time to relieve the thirst. This in many cases
+will be all the treatment required.
+
+In the case of an elder child, all meat and vegetables should be at once
+forbidden, and the only food allowed for a day or two must be rice and
+milk, arrowroot, or milk and water.
+
+The dose of castor oil which is so frequently given by nurses in these
+cases under the impression that the oil is 'healing,' is only of service
+when the diarrhoea has been caused by food of improper quality or
+quantity. It then aids nature in her efforts to get rid of the offending
+matter, which by its irritation is doing the mischief. In such instances
+one dose of the oil is quite sufficient. It has no 'healing' virtues,
+and should not be repeated from day to day.
+
+Children who are teething are frequently affected with looseness. A warm
+bath every evening, and attention to the gums, will be ordinarily all
+that is required in these cases, at least during the cold months. It is
+of the utmost importance, however, during the summer that such patients,
+if living in the city, should be at once removed into the country;
+otherwise their lives are in danger.
+
+Looseness of the bowels in children is usually best treated by careful
+management of the clothing and diet, by attention to all that affects
+the health, and by avoiding as much as possible the administration of
+medicines. No case should be allowed, however, to run on without seeking
+competent medical advice.
+
+An excellent remedy for the diarrhoea of children is the subnitrate of
+bismuth.
+
+This medicine may be disguised in the food, as in a case narrated by Dr.
+Inmann. A lad about ten years old was brought to him by an aunt, who
+stated that the boy suffered much from diarrhoea, and was emaciating
+visibly; that he would not try any domestic remedy, was an obstinate
+fellow, and determined to take no medicine. After sending the lad to
+another room the doctor recommended the lady to get some white bismuth
+and give it to the cook, telling her to mix a large pinch of it with
+some butter, and to send in the bread and butter so arranged that the
+lady would know which was for the boy. This was done. The lad was duly
+drugged without his knowledge, and the diarrhoea stopped in two days.
+
+
+INDIGESTION.
+
+Infants and young children suffer often from indigestion, or
+_dyspepsia_, as well as adults. One of the most frequent signs of this
+disorder is vomiting. But every infant which throws up its milk is not
+suffering from indigestion. Vomiting is sometimes a sign of health, and
+shows that the stomach is vigorous enough to free itself promptly from
+excess of food. The child is thus saved from the effects of
+over-feeding. The obvious remedy is to diminish the quantity of milk
+taken at each nursing or meal.
+
+But vomiting from over-feeding is very different from that caused by
+irritation of the stomach, which causes it to reject proper food. The
+common sense of the mother will enable her easily to distinguish between
+the two sorts. In the former, the child remains cheerful, happy, and
+well nourished, scarcely changing countenance even while the
+superabundant milk is being returned from its stomach. In the latter,
+the child soon becomes pale, feeble, and distressed looking.
+Over-feeding, if persisted in, may occasion indigestion.
+
+Indigestion during the first year of life shows itself by languor,
+pallor, and evident discomfort. The child wishes to be constantly at the
+breast, and suckles eagerly, but vomits the milk shortly after, usually
+curdled. The bowels are either constipated or too loose. The most
+prominent and often the only symptoms are this alternation of vomiting
+and an eager desire to take the breast, associated with loss of flesh
+and strength. The child is evidently not nourished by the food it takes,
+and if relief be not afforded it sinks, and dies from starvation in the
+course of a month or two.
+
+Children who are _weaned abruptly, and at a very early period_, are
+liable to a serious form of indigestion, which may come on in a few days
+after weaning, or not for several weeks.
+
+Older children are liable to slight attacks of indigestion, which are
+attended with vomiting or purging, or both, for a few days, when the
+stomach recovers its health. In some cases, however, the derangement
+continues longer, the child then losing its appetite, and suffering from
+colic, and becoming fretful, pale, and weak. The breath becomes sour,
+and the passages green. Such cases require careful watching and
+treatment, especially during the hot weather of the summer.
+
+In infants at the breast indigestion is usually caused by giving the
+breast too often or by an excess or change in the quality of the milk.
+Errors in diet on the part of the mother, and other faults which we have
+pointed out in our chapter on nursing, are the most frequent causes of
+this ailment. In children who are weaned the causes are almost
+invariably improper food or food taken too frequently, or in too large
+quantities. The hint should be taken when a child rejects its food, to
+change it, or give it less. Instead of this, too frequently the child is
+urged to take more, and thus derange the stomach.
+
+The _treatment_ of indigestion in childhood is usually easy and
+satisfactory. The first thing is to look to and regulate the quantity
+and quality of the food. If it be due to excess of food, this is easily
+remedied. If due to improper quality, change it promptly. When the
+mother's health is such that her milk is found to frequently or
+constantly disagree with her child, a suitable wet-nurse must be
+procured.
+
+In most cases the attack is mild, and readily yields to a few hours'
+abstinence from food. As it often happens, especially in
+artificially-fed infants, that the gastric juice is more acid than it
+should be, great benefit is derived from the use of _precipitated chalk
+or carbonate of soda_. A few grains of either of these, given several
+times a day for a few days, will be found to effect a surprising change
+and alone restore the appetite and digestion.
+
+In older children an attack of indigestion should be the signal for
+putting them upon a simpler and more restricted diet for a time. Milk,
+eggs, arrowroot, tapioca, sago, panada, &c., are better than animal
+food. If the child becomes much weakened, jellies, chicken, lamb,
+mutton, or oyster broth, beef tea, or wine whey, should be given to
+check the tendency to exhaustion.
+
+We repeat, that most cases of indigestion in infants and children yield
+promptly to an immediate change in the diet, without medicine.
+
+
+HINTS ON HOME GOVERNMENT.
+
+On this subject, as it may be regarded as outside of our domain of
+hygiene, we have but few words to say. We wish, however, in the
+interests of medicine and hygiene, to insist upon the necessity of
+training children to prompt, implicit obedience to the parental voice.
+As physicians, we have seen the spoilt, undisciplined child, when sick,
+rebellious alike to persuasion and command, refusing food and medicine,
+revolting against the slightest examination, and by its violence and
+capriciousness, converting a slight illness into a dangerous one. For a
+child unaccustomed to obedience there is no proper treatment possible
+when sick; nor when well is there any proper care possible for the
+preservation of the health. What it wants, and not what it ought to
+have, is given it, and every one knows that a child's instincts are no
+guide to health. With health, happiness is sacrificed also. There is no
+surer way of making a child miserable than by accustoming it to obtain
+all it wishes, and to encounter no will but its own. Its desires grow by
+what they feed upon. As a French writer on education has well expressed
+it: 'At first it will want the cane you hold in your hand, then your
+watch, then the bird it sees flying in the air, and then the star
+twinkling overhead. How, short of omnipotence, is it possible to gratify
+its ever-growing wants?' Accustom the child to hear 'no' and 'must,' but
+let these hard words be softened by voice and manner--an art in which
+every true mother excels.
+
+But, on the other hand, do not harass the child by needless
+restrictions, nor worry it by excess of management. We desire to call
+attention here to the words of an eminent English divine and learned
+writer, Archbishop Whately:--
+
+'Most carefully should we avoid the error which some parents, not
+(otherwise) deficient in good sense commit, of imposing gratuitous
+restrictions and privations, and purposely inflicting needless
+disappointments, for the purpose of inuring children to the pains and
+troubles they will meet with in after life. Yes; be assured they _will_
+meet with quite _enough_ in every portion of life, including childhood,
+without your strewing their paths with thorns of your own providing. And
+often enough you will have to limit their amusements for the sake of
+needful study, to restrain their appetites for the sake of health, to
+chastise them for faults, and in various ways to inflict pain or
+privations for the sake of avoiding some greater evils. Let this always
+be explained to them whenever it is possible to do so; and endeavor in
+all cases to make them look on the parent as never the _voluntary_ giver
+of anything but good. To any hardships which they are convinced you
+inflict reluctantly, and to those which occur through the dispensation
+of the All-wise, they will more easily be trained to submit with a good
+grace, than to any gratuitous sufferings devised for them by fallible
+man. To raise hopes on purpose to produce disappointment, to give
+provocation merely to exercise the temper, and, in short, to inflict
+pain of any kind, merely as a training for patience and fortitude--this
+is a kind of discipline which man should not presume to attempt. If such
+trials prove a discipline not so much of cheerful fortitude as of
+resentful aversion and suspicious distrust of the parent as a capricious
+tyrant, you will have only yourself to thank for the result.' It is a
+matter of common observation that those who complain of their fortune
+and lot in life have often to complain only of their own conduct. The
+same is true of those who complain of their children. They have
+themselves only to blame in each case.
+
+Parents who do not appreciate the responsibilities of their position
+usually err on the side of over-indulgence to their children; on the
+contrary, those fully alive to the importance of home discipline often
+err on the side of over-regulation. To the latter, we commend the reply
+of an old lady to the anxious inquiry made by the mother of a too
+rigorously disciplined child as to what course should be pursued, 'I
+recommend, my dear, a little wholesome neglect.'
+
+Lessons of truthfulness; of fortitude in bearing pain and
+disappointment; of the duty of right doing, because it is right and not
+because it is the best policy; of frugality and industry; of
+self-denial, contentment, and charity, should be early impressed upon
+the plastic mind of infancy. We wish also, in this connection, to quote
+the words of a wise physician and observer of men, that 'the little
+child who is brought up to repeat short and simple prayers at his
+mother's knees, has a rule of conduct thereby instilled into him which
+will probably never be forgotten; and, in after life he may not only
+look back to these beginnings with feelings of reverence and love, but
+the recollection of them may serve to strengthen him in some good
+resolution, and help him to resist many a powerful temptation.'
+
+We have had occasion frequently in various parts of this work to point
+out the intimate relations which exist between the physical and mental
+nature of parents and their offspring. Like parent, like child. The same
+close connection and sympathy extends to the moral and religious
+character; hence that direction and training which relies largely upon
+the _force of parental example_ is the most effective method of home
+government. Virtuous precepts, or rigidly enforced rules of conduct,
+avail little unless the parent keeps the path to which he points the
+child.
+
+'Well, upon my word, Mrs. Primrose, you have the handsomest children in
+the whole country.' 'Ah! neighbor,' replied the wife of the Vicar of
+Wakefield, 'they are as heaven made them--handsome enough if they be
+good enough--handsome is that handsome does.'
+
+
+IS THE RACE DEGENERATING?
+
+This is a question which perplexes some minds in our times. A German
+author of note has recently written a volume to prove that each
+generation is feebler than the preceding. Old physicians say that in
+their youth diseases of exhaustion were rarer than now-a-days. For this
+our habits of life, the pressure on our nervous systems, the prevalence
+of hereditary diseases, and the excessive use of narcotics and
+stimulants, are held responsible. 'The fathers,' say these croakers,
+'have eaten sour grapes, and the children's teeth are set on edge.'
+
+We attach little weight to these gloomy views. There are plenty of facts
+on the other side. The suits of old armour still preserved in our
+museums prove that, as a rule, we have slightly gained in weight and
+size. Tables of life insurance companies and reports of statistics show
+that the average length of human life is greater than it ever was. Dr.
+Charles D. Meigs used to state in his lectures that the size of the head
+of American infants at birth is somewhat greater than in the Old World.
+
+That there are more numerous diseases than formerly, is not true; but it
+is true that we know more, for we have learned to detect them more
+readily and to examine them more minutely. This is especially true of
+such as are peculiar to women. Within the last ten or twenty years so
+much that is of sovereign importance has been contributed to this
+department of medical science, that it is hardly possible for one to
+become an expert in it unless he gives it his whole attention.
+
+To avoid the tendency to debilitated frames and chronic diseases, woman
+should therefore learn not only the laws of her own physical life, but
+the relations in which she stands to the other sex. Thus she can guard
+her own health, and preserve her offspring from degeneracy. It is only
+by enlightenment, and the extension of knowledge on the topics relating
+to soundness of body and mind, that we can found rational hopes of a
+permanent and wide-spread improvement of the race.
+
+Some have maintained, not understanding the bearing of the facts, that
+such degeneracy is more conspicuous in the frame of woman than anywhere
+else. They quote the narratives of travellers, who describe with what
+fortitude--we might almost say with what indifference--the Indian women,
+and those of other savage races, bear the pangs of childbirth, and how
+little the ordeal weakens them. A squaw will turn aside for an hour or
+two when on the march, bear a child, wash it in some stream, bind it on
+the top of her load, and shouldering both, quietly rejoin the vagrant
+troop. Our artificial life seems indeed, in this respect, to be to
+blame; but if we look closer, we can learn that these wild women often
+perish alone, that they are rarely fertile, that unnatural labors are
+not unknown, and that the average duration of their life is decidedly
+less than among the females in civilised States.
+
+
+
+
+HEALTH IN MARRIAGE.
+
+
+_THE PERILS OF MATERNITY._
+
+In the early part of this work we quoted some authorities to show that
+those women who choose single life as their portion do not escape the
+ills of existence, nor do they protract their days, but, on the
+contrary, as shown by extensive statistics, are more prone to affections
+of the mind, and die earlier. While, therefore, nature thus rewards
+those who fulfil the functions of their being, by taking part in the
+mysterious processes of reproduction, and perpetuating the drama of
+existence, it is true also that she associates these privileges with
+certain deprivations and suffering. We do not wish to throw around the
+married state any charms which are not its own. Rather is it our aim to
+portray with absolute, and therefore instructive, fidelity all that this
+condition offers of unfavorable as well as favorable aspects.
+
+Let us say at once, maternity has its perils,--perils as peculiar and as
+inevitable as those which pertain to single life. Our present purpose is
+to mention these, and by stating their nature and what are their causes,
+so far as known, to put married women on their guard against them. Some
+are almost trifling, at least not involving danger to life; others most
+harassing to the sufferer and to her friends.
+
+We shall now consider the principal diseases to which married women are
+exposed from pregnancy, from childbirth, and from nursing.
+
+
+DISEASES OF PREGNANCY.
+
+In treating of pregnancy we have pointed out that it was a healthy and
+happy condition to most women. The exceptional cases are mainly those in
+which the health is injured by mental trouble or anxiety. Thus the young
+and delicate girl newly married is full of vague alarms in regard to the
+pains and dangers of her untried path to maternity. She frets herself
+and embitters her life during those months in which tranquility is of
+the utmost importance. Is it surprising, then, that her health should be
+disordered, and that she should suffer from some of the diseases
+incident to the pregnant state?
+
+Again, the mother of a large family, but the mistress of a small income,
+is distressed by the thought of additional expense, which it seems to
+her, particularly in her nervous state, impossible to meet. This
+condition of protracted anxiety is ill fitted to enable her to resist
+any tendency to disease to which she may be exposed. Indeed, prolonged
+vexation from these and other causes not unfrequently tend to _puerperal
+mania_ (a disease of which we shall shortly have something to say), or
+to some other nervous affection.
+
+The wife during pregnancy should therefore be treated with unusual
+kindness by those about her, and every attempt made to soften her lot.
+The erroneous impression prevails among some that the pregnant wife
+should enure herself to toil and hardship. This notion is doubtless due
+to the observation that domestic animals that are subjected to a life of
+labor bring forth their young with little suffering. 'The cow in the
+country farm living unfettered in the meadow until the day of calving,
+has in general a safe and easy labor. The poor beast, on the contrary,
+which is kept in a town dairy, has a time so incredibly dangerous that
+the proprietor generally sells off his stock every year, and replaces it
+with cows in calf; such cows not being put into the stalls till within
+six or eight days of the expected period of labor. The deduction from
+this is that an artificial mode of life--a life maintained by improper
+food, and without a sufficient supply of pure air, or a due amount of
+exercise--has a most deleterious influence upon the process of labor;
+and not that a toilsome existence, embittered with all the pains and
+anxieties of poverty, gives comparative immunity from danger in the hour
+of childbirth.' One of the discomforts of pregnancy is--
+
+
+MORNING SICKNESS.
+
+This affection, when confined, as is usually the case, to the morning
+and early part of the day, rarely requires much medical care. Its
+absence, which, as we have said, is a frequent cause of miscarriage, is
+more to be regretted than its presence especially as it is apt to be
+replaced by more serious troubles.
+
+Relief will be afforded by washing the face and hands in cold water, and
+taking a cup of milk or a little coffee and a biscuit or sandwich,
+_before raising the head from the pillow_ in the morning, remaining in
+bed about a quarter of an hour after this early meal; then dressing
+quickly, and immediately going out for a half-hour's walk. Rest in a
+half-recumbent posture during the day, particularly after meals, is
+beneficial. The affection is mostly a nervous one, and is best combated
+by eating. The food should be plain and unirritating, but nutritious,
+and should be taken frequently, in small quantities at a time.
+
+When the nausea and vomiting are excessive, and continue during the day,
+there is generally some disordered condition of the digestive apparatus.
+
+This may be corrected by taking at night a tea-spoonful of the
+confection of senna, a pleasant preparation of this ordinarily
+disagreeable medicine, and by drinking three times a day, before each
+meal, a wine-glassful of a tea made with columbo. Half an ounce of
+powdered columbo should be added, for this purpose, to a pint of boiling
+water.
+
+Dr. John H. Griscom of New York recommends the bromide of potassium,
+which is a harmless medicine for domestic practice, as affording the
+most useful means of arresting the nausea attendant on pregnancy.
+
+The following prescription may be compounded by any druggist, and will
+often be found very effective:
+
+ Take of Bromide of Potassium, two drachms,
+ Cinnamon water, three fluid ounces.
+
+Of this a dessert spoonful may be taken two or three times a day. It may
+be used with confidence as an entirely safe and harmless remedy in this
+troublesome affection.
+
+A prescription frequently ordered for the nausea of pregnancy by the
+late distinguished Dr. Meigs, consisted of equal parts of sweet tincture
+of rhubarb and compound tincture of gentian--a dessert spoonful to be
+taken after meals.
+
+_Pain in the abdomen_, caused by the distension of its walls, may be
+relieved by the application of equal parts of sweet oil and laudanum.
+
+Another common and annoying, but rarely dangerous, trouble during
+pregnancy is--
+
+
+VARICOSE VEINS.
+
+The veins of the legs become distended, knotted, and painful. Women who
+have borne a number of children suffer most from this affection. It
+seldom attacks those passing through their first pregnancies. It
+ordinarily first shows itself during the second pregnancy, and becomes
+rapidly worse during the third or fourth.
+
+Although it is difficult to cure this disease during the continuance of
+the pregnancy, much can be done to prevent its occurrence, and to
+relieve it when present. Tight garters worn below the knee, and closely
+laced corsets, tend to cause and increase this swollen condition of the
+veins. Neither should be used during pregnancy.
+
+Relief is best afforded to the suffering parts by means of a well-made
+and adjusted _elastic stocking_, which may be readily procured from a
+druggist or surgical instrument maker. In severe cases it may be
+necessary for the patient to keep herself as much as possible in the
+recumbent position on the bed or sofa. In all cases the feet should be
+supported when seated, so as to keep the blood from further distending
+the already swollen veins.
+
+
+PILES.
+
+That painful condition of the veins of the lower bowel known as
+haemorrhoids, or piles, is a not unfrequent annoyance to pregnant women.
+Sometimes it is caused by prolonged constipation. During the period of
+pregnancy, therefore, constipation should be guarded against.
+
+Ordinarily the piles are small, and of little consequence beyond the
+slight uneasiness they occasion. The trifling loss of blood from them is
+of no account, and often beneficial. The case is different, however,
+when the piles are large and painful, and give rise to much pain and
+copious bleeding. They then require prompt treatment.
+
+In the _treatment_ of piles the first point to be aimed at is to keep
+the bowels moderately open. It must not be forgotten, however, that
+during pregnancy only the mildest of purgatives are ever to be given.
+Castor oil, although a disagreeable, is a most excellent prescription in
+these cases. A small dose, repeated when necessary, will be found to
+act most kindly. If this remedy be too repugnant to the patient, small
+quantities of citrate of magnesia, or of cream of tartar, or of some of
+the natural mineral waters, may be employed. Small injections of
+lukewarm water are also of great service, and may be tried instead of
+laxatives.
+
+After every movement the parts should be well sponged with cold water,
+and an ointment of galls and opium, procured from the druggist, applied.
+
+If the parts become very much inflamed, warm poultices or hot chamomile
+solutions should be used, and the patient kept in bed until the
+inflammation subsides.
+
+No attempt is to be made to effect the radical cure of piles during
+pregnancy. Any such attempt, besides being dangerous, is unnecessary,
+for the piles usually disappear of their own accord after the
+confinement. Every effort to make the sufferer more comfortable in the
+manner we have suggested is, however, right and safe.
+
+
+DIARRHOEA.
+
+Some women always suffer from looseness of the bowels during pregnancy;
+others are very liable to attacks of it during this period, either
+coming on without any assignable cause or easily excited by any slight
+indiscretion in eating. In many instances these attacks alternate with
+constipation or with morning sickness.
+
+The diarrhoea, if at all severe or prolonged, should not be allowed to go
+on unchecked, for it quickly weakens the patient and predisposes her to
+abortion. The foetus is especially endangered when the passages are
+attended with much bearing-down pain. In some exceptional cases,
+however, a slight diarrhoea seems to be beneficial, for every attempt to
+remove it appears to do harm; but these instances are very rare.
+
+The _treatment_ required is a simple, and must be a cautious one.
+Ordinarily no medicine will be needed. If the patient will merely
+confine herself to milk and arrowroot and rice for twenty-four hours a
+cure will be effected in mild cases. When it is apparent that the attack
+has been caused by improper food, a table-spoonful of castor-oil or a
+tea-spoonful or two of tincture of rhubarb will remove the offending
+material in the bowels, upon the presence of which the diarrhoea depends.
+A small injection of a tea-spoonful of rice water and thirty or forty
+drops of laudanum will often speedily arrest the excessive discharges,
+and relieve the pain.
+
+
+CONSTIPATION.
+
+No woman while pregnant should allow several days to elapse without a
+movement from the bowels. The symptoms of constipation, slight at the
+outset, soon cause great inconvenience. Among the effects, which, sooner
+or later, show themselves, may be feverishness, sleeplessness, headache,
+distressing dreams, sickness at the stomach, severe bearing-down pains,
+and piles.
+
+Medicines are rarely required in the treatment of constipation, and the
+pregnant woman should never take an active purgative, excepting under
+medical advice. Outdoor exercise and regularity in soliciting nature's
+calls, together with a change in the diet, will usually have the desired
+effect. Brown bread, wheaten grits, oatmeal gruel, ripe fruits, fresh
+vegetables, stewed prunes, or prunes soaked in olive oil, baked apples,
+figs, tamarinds, honey, and currant jelly, are all laxative articles
+which should be tried.
+
+In some instances a tumbler of cold water drunk the last thing at night,
+and another the first thing in the morning, will act in a most
+satisfactory manner. If the constipation should resist these safe and
+homely remedies, which will rarely be found the case, then medical
+assistance should be called in. On no account should the wife herself,
+or in accordance with the counsel of any non-medical friend, resort to
+purgative drugs.
+
+
+COUGH.
+
+A troublesome cough sometimes affects delicate, nervous women during the
+early months of pregnancy. If it be not very frequent nor severe, it
+requires no attention, as it will pass away of itself in a short time.
+When, however, it disturbs the sleep at night, renders the patient
+anxious, and causes headache and weariness, it is time to do something
+for it. It may, indeed, be so violent as to threaten abortion on account
+of the forcible concussion of the abdomen it produces.
+
+A tea-spoonful of paregoric occasionally repeated during the day will be
+found a most efficient soothing remedy.
+
+
+WAKEFULNESS.
+
+Sleeplessness, always distressing, is particularly so to pregnant women.
+If prolonged, it leads to serious consequences. It should receive,
+therefore, the most prompt attention.
+
+The _causes_ of sleeplessness during pregnancy are numerous. Dyspepsia
+is one of them. Whenever indigestion is present the diet should be plain
+and simple, and everything avoided which produces heartburn, sourness,
+or flatulency. It is important also not to take tea or coffee late in
+the afternoon or evening--a late cup of either being a frequent cause in
+itself of sleeplessness.
+
+Sometimes the reason for the wakefulness will be found in a want of
+exercise or too constant confinement to closely-heated rooms. Or, it may
+be that exciting novels are read late in the evening. Perhaps the
+evening meal is too heavy and taken too late.
+
+The _treatment_ of sleeplessness consists first, of course in the
+removal of the apparent cause. The patient should have a regular hour
+for retiring, which should be an early one. The bed-room should be
+quiet, well ventilated, and slightly warmed. The bed coverings must not
+be too heavy nor the pillows too high.
+
+A warm bath of the temperature of 90 to 96 degrees Fahrenheit, taken
+just before going to bed, often invites sleep. A rapid sponging of the
+body with warm water may have the same effect. A tumbler of cold water,
+when the skin is hot and dry, swallowed at bed-time, sometimes affords
+relief. If the bowels are constipated relief should be sought in the
+manner we have just mentioned in speaking of constipation.
+
+When there is nervous excitement at night, and the means we have advised
+fail to propitiate 'nature's soft nurse,' there is a sedative medicine
+which may be used with safety and effect--it is bromide of potassium.
+The same proportion which we have given for the treatment of morning
+sickness (see page 355) may be now used. Have the three-ounce mixture
+put up by the druggist, and take a dessert-spoonful or a table-spoonful
+just before bed-time. It frequently acts almost as if by magic. On no
+account should recourse be had to opiates or dangerous sedative drugs.
+
+
+DISEASES OF CHILDBED.
+
+Childbirth being a healthful physiological condition, is usually neither
+attended nor followed by mischievous results. Occasionally, however, the
+mother suffers in consequence of the prolonged or difficult character of
+her labor. The longer the labor the greater the danger to both mother
+and child. Thus childbirth pangs prolonged beyond twenty-four or
+thirty-six hours are much more apt to be attended with danger or
+followed by disease than those terminated within a few hours.
+
+The following aphorisms were laid down by the late distinguished
+Professor James Y. Simpson, namely:--
+
+The mother is more liable to suffer under diseases of the womb after
+long than after short labors. The child for some time after birth is
+more liable to disease and death, in proportion as the labor has been
+longer in its duration. First labors are longer in duration than
+subsequent ones, and in a proportionate degree more complicated and
+dangerous to mother and child. Male births are longer in duration than
+female births, and in a proportionate degree more complicated and
+dangerous to mother and child.
+
+Many tedious confinements, however, are happily terminated without the
+slightest injury to mother or child. Whenever the labor has been
+unusually prolonged, unusual care and caution should be exercised in the
+treatment of the mother and infant for many weeks after the event.
+
+One of the most distressing affections to which women are exposed from
+childbirth is
+
+
+PUERPERAL MANIA.
+
+This is a variety of insanity which attacks some women shortly after
+childbirth, or at the period of weaning a child. The period of attack is
+uncertain, as it may manifest itself first in a very few days, or not
+for some months after the confinement. Its duration is likewise very
+variable. In most instances a few weeks restore the patient to herself;
+but there are many cases where judicious treatment for months is
+required, and there are a few where the mental alienation is permanent,
+and the wife and mother is never restored to her sanity.
+
+The question has been much discussed, Whether such a condition is to be
+imputed to a hereditary tendency to insanity in the family, and also
+whether a mother who has had such an attack is liable to transmit to
+her children, male or female, any greater liability to mental disease.
+We are well aware what deep importance the answers to these inquiries
+have to many a parent; and in forming our replies, we are guided not
+only by our own experience, but by the recorded opinion of those members
+of our profession who have given the subject close and earnest
+attention. To the first query, the reply must be made that in one-half,
+or nearly one-half, of the cases of this variety of insanity there is
+traceable a hereditary tendency to aberration of mind. Usually one or
+more of the direct progenitors, or of the near relatives of the patient,
+will be found to have manifested unmistakable marks of unsoundness of
+mind. In the remaining one-half cases no such tendency can be traced,
+and in these it must be presumed that the mania is a purely local and
+temporary disorder of the brain. The incurable cases are usually found
+in the first class of patients, as we might naturally expect.
+
+The likelihood of the children, in turn, inheriting any such
+predisposition, depends on the answer to the inquiry we first put. If
+the mania itself is the appearance of a family malady, then the chances
+are that it will pass downward with other transmissible qualities. But
+if the mania arise from causes which are transitory, then there is no
+ground for alarm.
+
+An inquiry still more frequently put to the physician by the husband and
+by the patient herself after recovery, is, Whether an attack at one
+confinement predisposes her to a similar attack at a subsequent similar
+period. There is considerable divergence of opinion on this point. Dr.
+Gooch, an English physician of wide experience, is very strenuous in
+denying any such increased likelihood, while an American obstetrician of
+note is quite as positive in taking the opposite view. The truth of the
+matter undoubtedly is, that where the mania is the exhibition of
+hereditary tendency, it is apt to recur; but where it arises from
+transient causes, then it will only occur again if such causes exist.
+
+
+THE IMPORTANCE OF PREVENTION.
+
+Here, therefore, we perceive the importance of every woman, who has had,
+or who fears to have, one of these distressing experiences, being put on
+her guard against disregarding those rules of health the neglect of
+which may result so disastrously. One of the most powerful of these
+causes is _exhaustion_. We mean this in its widest sense, mental or
+physical. In those instances where mania appears at weaning, it is
+invariably where the child has been nursed too long, or where the mother
+has not had sufficient strength to nourish it without prostrating
+herself. It should be observed as a hygienic law, that no mother should
+nurse her children after she has had one attack of mania. The mere
+nervous excitement is altogether too much for her. She must once and for
+ever renounce this tender pleasure. We even go so far as to recommend
+that no woman in whose family a mental taint is hereditary shall nurse
+her children.
+
+Anxiety, low spirits, unusual weakness from any cause, are powerful
+predisposing causes; and therefore in all cases, especially in those
+where the family or personal history leads one to fear such an attack,
+they should be avoided. The diet should be nourishing and abundant, but
+not stimulating. Cheerful society and surroundings should be courted,
+and indulgences in any single train of ideas avoided. As for directions
+during the attack, they are unnecessary, as to combat it successfully
+often tasks the utmost skill of the physician; and it will be for him to
+give these directions.
+
+
+WHITE-FLOWING.
+
+This affection, though not confined to married women, is quite common
+during pregnancy and after confinement. There are few married women who
+pass through their lives without at some time or other having suffered
+from it.
+
+We will consider first that _form of white discharge which affects
+pregnant women_. It ordinarily comes on during the latter half of
+pregnancy. Not only does it occasion much inconvenience, but it may,
+when copious, seriously weaken the system and impair the health.
+
+The best treatment consists in a regulated, but supporting, diet without
+stimulants, the avoidance of all marital relations, plenty of rest in
+bed or on a sofa, a warm hip bath every morning, and the use of
+injections. One of the best injections for this purpose is made by
+adding a table-spoonful of lead-water to a pint of water, and injecting
+the whole twice a day, by means of a rubber, hard-ball syringe. As this
+solution will stain the body-linen, due precautions should be taken.
+Instead of this injection, a small tea-spoonful of alum dissolved in a
+pint of water and injected once a day may be used.
+
+We will now say a few words upon the _form of white-flowing which
+affects women after childbirth_. It is a common result of too frequent
+confinements or of successive abortions. In women of a tendency to
+consumption it has been observed that white-flowing is more apt to arise
+in connection with child-bearing. Prolonged nursing, resulting in great
+debility of the mother, often produces very profuse white discharges.
+
+In warm countries this affection is much more frequent than elsewhere.
+Moist and damp climates are said also to render women particularly prone
+to it.
+
+The _treatment_ must have regard to the general health of the patient.
+The mode of life must be regulated. A change of scene, if it can be
+procured, is often of the greatest benefit. Baths are also very useful.
+They may be taken in the form of a 'sponge bath,' or 'hip bath.' If the
+former be preferred, the patient should every morning, in a warm room,
+sponge the whole body, at first with tepid water and, after a time, with
+cold, the skin being well dried and rubbed with a coarse towel. The
+hip-bath may be employed either of simple, or of salt, or of medicated
+water. It should be at first warm, and afterwards cold. The skin is to
+be well rubbed after the hip as after the sponge-bath. The hip-bath may
+be medicated with three or four table-spoonfuls of alum, or with a
+quarter of a pound of common household soda.
+
+In connection with this treatment, injections should be employed in the
+manner just directed for the white-flowing of pregnancy.
+
+
+MILK-LEG.
+
+This affection usually appears about ten days or two weeks after
+confinement. The first symptoms which show themselves are general
+uneasiness, chills, headache, and a quickened pulse. Then pains in the
+groin, extending down the thigh and leg of that side are complained of.
+Soon the whole limb becomes enlarged, hot, white, and shining.
+Feverishness and sleeplessness now naturally show themselves.
+
+The disease rarely lasts more than two or three weeks, although the limb
+remains stiff, perhaps, for a number of weeks longer. It is painful, but
+not dangerous--rarely proving fatal.
+
+When one leg is recovering, the disease sometimes attacks the other, and
+runs through the same course.
+
+The treatment consists in enveloping the limb in turpentine stupes,
+followed by the application of poultices to the groin and a light diet
+at first. So soon as the severity of the attack is over, tonics and a
+generous diet should be given. The limb is then to be painted with
+tincture of iodine, or rather a mixture of one part of the tincture of
+iodine with two parts of alcohol, and afterwards wrapped in a flannel
+bandage.
+
+The term 'milk-leg' has been applied to this inflammation, for such it
+is, from the notion that in some way the milk was diverted from the
+breasts to the limb causing the white swelling. It is scarcely
+necessary to say this theory is entirely erroneous.
+
+
+INWARD WEAKNESS.
+
+Many, we may say most, married women whose health is broken down by some
+disease peculiar to their sex, refer the commencement of their suffering
+to some confinement or premature birth. Perhaps, in four cases out of
+five, this breaking down is one of the symptoms of a displacement of the
+internal organs,--a malposition, in other words, of the uterus. This is
+familiarly known as an 'inward weakness;' and many a woman drags through
+years of misery caused by a trouble of this sort.
+
+It is true that these malpositions occur in unmarried women, and
+occasionally in young girls. But it is also true that their most
+frequent causes are associated with the condition of maternity. The
+relaxation of the ligaments or bands which hold the uterus in its place,
+which takes place during pregnancy and parturition, predisposes to such
+troubles. It requires time and care for these ligaments to resume their
+natural strength and elasticity after childbirth. Then, too, the walls
+of the abdomen are one of the supports provided by nature to keep all
+the organs they contain in proper place by a constant elastic pressure.
+When, as in pregnancy, these walls are distended and put on the strain,
+suddenly to be relaxed after confinement, the organs miss their support,
+and are liable to take positions which interfere with the performance of
+their natural functions. Therefore we may rightly place the greater
+tendency of married women to this class of diseases among the perils of
+maternity.
+
+Within the last fifteen years, probably no one branch of medical science
+has received greater attention at the hands of physicians than this of
+diseases of women. Many hitherto inexplicable cases of disease, much
+suffering referred to other parts of the system, have been traced to
+local misfortunes of the character we have just described. Medical works
+are replete with cases of the highest interest illustrative of this. We
+are afraid to state some of the estimates which have been given of the
+number of women in this country who suffer from these maladies; nor do
+we intend to give in detail the long train of symptoms which
+characterize them. Such a sad rehearsal would avail little or nothing to
+the non-medical reader. It is enough to say, that the woman who finds
+herself afflicted by manifold aches and pains, without obvious cause;
+who suffers with her head and her stomach and her nerves; who discovers
+that, in spite of the precepts of religion and the efforts of will, she
+is becoming irritable, impatient, dissatisfied with her friends, her
+family, and herself; who is, in short, unable any longer to perceive
+anything of beauty and of pleasure in this world, and hardly anything to
+hope for in the next,--this woman, in all probability, is suffering from
+a displacement or an ulceration of the uterus. Let this be relieved, and
+her sufferings are ended. Often a very simple procedure can do this. We
+recall to mind a case described in touching language by a distinguished
+teacher of medicine. It is of an interesting young married lady, who
+came from the Southern States to consult him on her condition. She could
+not walk across the room without support, and was forced to wear, at
+great inconvenience to herself, an abdominal supporter. Her mind was
+confused, and she was the victim of apparently causeless unpleasant
+sensations. She was convinced that she had been, and still was,
+deranged.
+
+The physician could discover nothing wrong about her system other than a
+slight falling of the womb. This was easily relieved. She at once
+improved in body and mind, soon was able to walk with ease and freedom,
+and once more enjoyed the pleasure of life. In a letter written soon
+after her return home, she said, 'This beautiful world, which at one
+time I could not look upon without disgust, has become once more a
+source of delight.' How strongly do these deeply felt words reveal the
+difference between her two conditions!
+
+There is one source of great comfort in considering these afflictions.
+It is, that they are in the great majority of cases traceable to
+
+
+CAUSES WHICH ARE AVOIDABLE.
+
+Most of them are the penalties inflicted by stern nature on infractions
+of her laws. Hence the great, the unspeakable, importance of women being
+made aware of the dangers to which they are exposed, and being fully
+informed how to avoid them. This task we now assume.
+
+There is, we concede, a tendency in the changes which take place during
+pregnancy and parturition to expose the system to such accidents. But
+this tendency can be counteracted by care, and by the avoidance of
+certain notorious and familiar infractions of the laws of health. It is
+usually not until she gets up and commences to go about the house, that
+the woman feels any pain referable to a displaced womb. Very frequently
+the origin of it is leaving the bed too soon, or attempting to do some
+work, too much for her strength, shortly after a premature birth or a
+confinement. Not only should a woman keep her bed, as a rule, for
+nineteen days after every abortion and every confinement, but for weeks
+after she commences to move about she should avoid any severe muscular
+exertion, especially lifting, long walks, straining, or working on the
+sewing-machine. Straining at stool is one of the commonest causes. Many
+women have a tendency to constipation for weeks or months after
+childbirth. They are aware that it is unfavorable to health, and they
+seek to aid nature by violent muscular effort. They cannot possibly do a
+more unwise act. Necessarily the efforts they make press the womb
+forcibly down, and its ligaments being relaxed, it assumes either
+suddenly on some one well-remembered occasion, or gradually after a
+succession of efforts, some unnatural position. The same reasoning
+applies to relieving the bladder, which is connected in some persons
+with undue effort.
+
+Constipation, if present, must, and almost always can, be relieved by a
+judicious diet, and the moderate use of injections. These simple methods
+are much to be preferred to purgative medicines, which are rarely
+satisfactory if they are continued for much time. When anything more is
+needed, we recommend a glass of some laxative mineral water, which
+should be taken before breakfast.
+
+For the difficulty with the bladder we mentioned, diet is also
+efficacious. It is familiarly known that several popular articles of
+food have a decided action in stimulating the kidneys: for instance,
+asparagus and water-melon. Such articles should be freely partaken, and
+their effect can be increased by some vegetable infusion, taken
+warm,--as juniper-tea or broom-tea. The application to the parts of a
+cloth wrung out in water as hot as it can conveniently be borne, is also
+a most excellent assistant to nature.
+
+Similar strains on the muscles of the abdomen are consequent on violent
+coughing and vomiting. Therefore these should be alleviated, as they
+always can be, by some anodyne taken internally. Any medical man is
+familiar with many such preparations, so that it seems unnecessary to
+give any formula, particularly as it would have to be altered, more or
+less, to suit any given case.
+
+
+OTHER CAUSES OF INWARD WEAKNESS.
+
+Women of languid disposition and relaxed muscles are frequently urged to
+'take exercise,' and to 'go to work.' Their condition sometimes excites
+censure rather than commiseration, because it is thought that they do
+not exert, and thus strengthen, themselves as much as they should. We
+are quite as much in favour of work and vigorous muscles as any one. But
+often it were the most foolish advice possible to give a woman, to tell
+her to seek active exercise. It is just what she should avoid, as it may
+ultimately give rise to that very trouble which, now only threatening,
+is the cause of her listlessness. Many instances are familiar to every
+physician of extensive experience, where a long walk, a hard day's work,
+a vigorous dance in the evening, or a horseback ride, has left behind it
+a uterine weakness which has caused years of misery. Especially after
+confinement or premature delivery it is prudent for a woman to avoid any
+such exertion for months and months. Moderate employment of her muscles
+in any light avocation, short walks and drives, fresh air, with
+judicious exercise,--these are well enough in every instance, but beyond
+them there is danger. We know too well that advice like this will sound
+like mockery to some who read these lines. They have to work, and work
+hard; they have no opportunity to spare themselves; the iron hand of
+necessity is upon them, and they must obey. We can but sympathize with
+them, and cheer them with the consolation that many a woman has borne
+all this and lived to a healthy and happy old age. Nature has surrounded
+the infinitely delicate machinery of woman's organization with a
+thousand safeguards, but for all that, the delicacy remains; and it is
+because so many women are forced to neglect their duties to their
+ownselves, that so many thousands walk the streets of our great cities,
+living martyrs.
+
+But no. We must modify what we have just written. In justice to our own
+sex, and in all truthfulness, we cannot allow the blame to be removed
+altogether from women themselves. They alone are responsible for one of
+the most fruitful causes of their wretchedness. The theme is a
+threadbare one. We approach it without hardly any hope that we shall do
+good by repeated warnings utterly monotonous and tiresome. But still
+less can we feel comfortable in mind to pass it over in silence. We
+refer to the foolish and injurious pressure which is exerted on the
+lower part of the chest and the abdomen by tight corsets, belts, and
+bands to support the under-clothing; in other words,
+
+
+TIGHT LACING.
+
+Why it is, by what strange freak of fashion and blindness to artistic
+rules, women of the present day think that a deformed and
+ill-proportioned waist is a requisite of beauty, we do not know.
+Certainly they never derived such an idea from a contemplation of those
+monuments of perfect beauty bequeathed to posterity by the chisels of
+Attic artists, nor from those exquisite figures which lend to the canvas
+of Titian and Raphael such immortal fame. Look, for instance, at that
+work of the former artist, now rendered so familiar by the
+chromo-lithographic process, called 'Titian's Daughter.' It is the
+portrait of a blonde-haired maiden holding aloft a trencher heaped with
+fruits. She turns her face to the beholder, leaning slightly backward to
+keep her equilibrium. Her waist is encircled by a zone of pearls; and it
+is this waist we would have our readers observe with something more than
+an aesthetic eye. It is the waist of health as well as beauty. Narrower
+than either the shoulders or the hips, it is yet anything than that
+'wasplike waist,' which is so fashionable a deformity. With such a
+waist, a woman is fitted to pass through her married state with health
+and pleasure. There is little fear that she will be the tenant of
+doctors' chairs, and the victim of drugs and instruments. Let women aim
+at beauty, let them regard it as a matter of very high importance, worth
+money and time and trouble, and we will applaud them to the echo. But
+let them not mistake deformity, vicious shape, unnatural and injurious
+attitudes, and hurtful distortions for beauty. That not only degrades
+their physical nature, but it lowers their tastes, and places them in
+aesthetics on a level with the Indian squaw who flattens her head and
+bores her nose, and with the Chinese woman who gilds her teeth, and
+compresses her foot into a shapeless mass. True beauty is ever
+synonymous with health; and the woman who, out of subservience to the
+demands of fashion, for years squeezes her waist and flattens her
+breast, will live to rue it when she becomes a mother. Away, then, with
+tight corsets and all similar contrivances.
+
+Of a similar objectionable character are many of the devices which
+ignorant men connected with the medical profession urge upon the public
+for the sake of remedying curvature of the spine, restoring the figure,
+or supporting the abdomen. Not a few of such braces and supporters are
+seriously dangerous. A good brace, well-fitting, carefully adjusted,
+suited to the particular case, is often of excellent service; but the
+majority of them do not answer this description. Our advice is, that no
+girl, and still more no mother, should wear one of these without it is
+fitted upon her by an experienced hand. We have known more than one
+instance where the binder put on after childbirth has been wrongly
+placed, and pinned so firmly that it has resulted in producing falling
+of the womb. This, too, should be sedulously looked after.
+
+All these are causes which are strictly under the control of the woman
+herself. They are therefore such as she should have in mind and be on
+her guard against. There are others, but they are less frequent, which
+are beyond her power; and it would be labor lost, therefore, for us to
+mention them.
+
+Equally vain would it be for us to speak of the various means by which
+difficulties of this nature are removed. Probably no one branch of
+medical surgery has been more assiduously cultivated than this; and the
+number of supporters, pessaries, braces, and levers which have been
+recently brought before the medical profession for this purpose is
+simply appalling. There are women and men who make it their business to
+carry them through the country and sell them on commission. We
+distinctly warn our readers against this class. They are almost
+invariably ignorant and unscrupulous, rich in promises, and regardless
+of performances. She who patronizes them will be sure to lose her money,
+and will be lucky if she does not forfeit her health also.
+
+The most we shall do is to give some advice how to treat such complaints
+on principles of hygiene. And indeed this means nearly one-half the
+battle. For without these simple cares, treatment of any kind is
+useless, and sure to fail; and with them, many complaints are remedied
+as well as avoided.
+
+
+THE HYGIENIC TREATMENT OF INWARD WEAKNESS.
+
+The first point we would urge is, that the woman who finds herself thus
+afflicted should seek to have such a position that she can _rest_. If
+she is burdened with family cares, let her, if possible, diminish or
+escape them for a time. A rest of a month or two, not at a fashionable
+watering-place, nor at a first-class hotel in some noisy city, but in
+quiet lodgings, or with some sympathizing friend, will be of great
+advantage. This she should obtain without travelling too far. Prolonged
+motion in railway carriages is in every instance injurious. If it must
+be undertaken, for instance, in order to consult a qualified physician
+or to reach some friends, the modern appliances of comfort, such as
+air-cushions, foot-rests, and head-supports, should be provided. They
+cost but little, and to the invalid their value is great. No such
+journey should be undertaken at or near the time when the monthly
+illness might come on, as the suffering is always greater at these
+periods.
+
+The pleasant associations which group themselves around a _happy home_
+are an important element in the treatment of diseases which, like these,
+are so intimately connected with the mind and nervous system. It will
+not do heedlessly to throw such advantages away. When the home _is_
+pleasant, and rest can there be had, the patient, in the majority of
+instances, will do well to abide there. But when this is not the case,
+for any reason, be it domestic infelicities, in which the husband has a
+share,--be it disagreeable relatives, or importunate and tedious
+visitors,--then the sooner such a mental weight is removed or avoided
+the better.
+
+The _diet_ is a very common subject of error. It is popularly supposed
+that everybody who is weak should eat a 'strengthening' diet,--meat
+three times a day,--eggs, ale, and beef-tea to any extent. This is a
+great error. Frequently such a diet has just the contrary effect from
+what is expected. The patient becomes dyspeptic, nervous, and more
+debilitated than ever. The rule is, that only that diet is strengthening
+which is thoroughly digested, and taken up in the system. Frequently, we
+may say in the majority of cases, a small amount of animal food,
+especially game, fowls, fish, and soups, with fresh vegetables, and ripe
+fruits, will be far more invigorating than heavier foods. Pastry, cakes,
+and confectionery should be discarded, and great regularity in the hours
+of meals observed. Stimulants of all kinds are, as a rule, unnecessary,
+and highly spiced food is to be avoided. There is an old German proverb
+which says, 'Pepper helps a man on his horse, and a woman to her grave.'
+This is much too strong; but we may avail ourselves, in this connection,
+of the grain of truth that it contains.
+
+_Cleanliness_, in its widest sense, is an important element in the
+treatment. Not only should the whole surface of the body be thoroughly
+washed several times a week, but the whole person should be _soaked_ by
+remaining in the water for an hour or more. This has an excellent
+effect, and is far from unpleasant. It was regarded in the days of
+ancient Rome as such a delightful luxury, and such a necessity, indeed,
+that every municipality erected public bathing establishments, with
+furnaces to heat the water to such a temperature that persons could
+remain in it for several hours without inconvenience.
+
+The use of public baths is almost unknown in this country; but, in place
+of them, every modern house of even moderate pretensions has its own
+bath-room, so that the custom of cleanliness might appear to be hardly
+less general among all classes than in old Rome.
+
+The difficulty is, that so few people appreciate that to thoroughly
+cleanse the skin, still more for the bath to have a medicinal effect, it
+must be prolonged far beyond the usual time we allow it. The European
+physicians, who, as a rule, attach much greater importance to this than
+ourselves, require their patients to remain immersed two, three, four,
+and occasionally even ten or twelve hours daily! This is said to have
+most beneficial results; but who would attempt to introduce it in this
+country?
+
+Local cleanliness is of equal importance. This is obtained by means
+of----
+
+
+INJECTIONS AND IRRIGATIONS
+
+of simple water, or of some infusion or solution. The use of the syringe
+as an article of essential service in preserving the health of married
+women should never be overlooked. Even when they are aware of no
+tendency to weakness or unusual discharge, it should be employed once or
+twice a week; and when there is debility or disease of the parts
+actually present, it is often of the greatest service.
+
+There are many varieties of female syringes now manufactured and sold,
+some of which are quite worthless. Much the most convenient, cleanly,
+and efficient is the self-injecting india-rubber syringe, which is
+worked by means of a ball held in the hand, and which throws a constant
+and powerful stream. They come neatly packed in boxes, occupying small
+space, and readily transported from place to place. Much depends on
+knowing how to apply them. The patient should be seated on the edge of a
+low chair or stool with a hard seat, immediately over a basin. The tube
+should then be introduced as far as possible without causing pain, and
+the liquid should be thrown up for five or ten minutes. About one or two
+quarts may be used of a temperature, in ordinary cases, a little lower
+than that of the apartment. Water actually cold is by no means to be
+recommended, in spite of what some physicians say to the contrary. It
+unquestionably occasionally leads to those very evils which the
+judicious use of the syringe is intended to avoid.
+
+No fluid but water should be used in ordinary cases. When, however,
+there is much discharge, a pinch of powdered alum can be dissolved in
+the water; and when there is an unpleasant odor present, a sufficient
+amount of solution of permanganate of potash may be added to the water,
+to change it to a light pink color. This latter substance is most
+admirable in removing all unpleasant odors; but it will stain the
+clothing, and must on that account be employed with caution.
+
+We will add a few warnings to what we have just said about injections.
+There are times when they should be omitted,--as for instance during the
+periodical illness, when the body is either chilled or heated, and
+generally when their administration gives pain. There are also some
+women in whom the mouth of the womb remains open, especially those who
+have borne many children. In such cases, the liquid used is liable to be
+thrown into the womb itself, and may give rise to serious troubles.
+These should either omit the use of the syringe altogether, or obtain
+one of those which throw the water backward and not forward. This
+variety is manufactured and sold by various dealers.
+
+_Irrigations_ are more convenient in some respects than injections. They
+are administered in the following manner:--A jar holding about a gallon
+of water, simple or medicated, as may be advisable, is placed upon a
+table or high stand. A long india-rubber tube is attached to the bottom
+of the jar, ending in a metallic tube, and furnished with a stopcock.
+The patient seats herself on the edge of a chair over a basin,
+introduces the tube, and turns the stopcock. The liquid is thus thrown
+up in a gentle, equable stream, without any exertion on her part. No
+assistant is required, and the force and amount of the liquid can be
+exactly graduated by elevating or lowering the jar, or by turning the
+stopcock. When there is much debility, or when it is desirable to apply
+the liquid for a long time, this method is much preferable to syringing.
+The necessary apparatus can readily be obtained in any large city. It
+has, however, the drawback that the jar is large, and not convenient to
+carry on journeys.
+
+We shall close this chapter on Health in Marriage by a few words on some
+of the _ailments to which mothers are subject while nursing._
+
+
+GATHERED BREASTS.
+
+Gathering of the breasts may occur at any time during the period of
+nursing, but it is most frequently met with within the first three
+months after childbirth, and is more common after the first than after
+subsequent confinements. All women are more or less liable to it, but
+those who are weakly, and particularly those who are scrofulous, are
+most prone to its attacks.
+
+The _causes_ of inflammation of the breast are numerous. It may be
+created by a blow or fall, by a cold, by mental excitement, by
+indiscretions in eating or drinking, and by moving the arms too much
+when the breasts are enlarged, but its most common cause is undue
+accumulation of milk in the breasts. Dr. Bedford is of the opinion that
+in nineteen cases out of twenty it is the result of carelessness--of
+neglect in not having the breasts properly drawn. 'For example, the
+child may be delicate, and not able to extract the milk; or the nurse,
+in the gratification of some ancient prejudice derived from a remote
+ancestry, does not think it proper to allow the infant to be put to the
+breast for two or three days after its birth. In this way, the milk
+ducts become greatly distended, inflammation ensues, which, if not
+promptly arrested, terminates in suppuration.'
+
+Often the love of pleasure brings with it this punishment to the nursing
+mother who neglects her maternal duties. During an evening spent in
+society or at the theatre the breasts cannot be relieved in the manner
+required for the preservation of their health.
+
+Soreness of the nipples, which renders suckling painful, often leads the
+mother to avoid putting the child to the breast as often as she should.
+It is only when forced by the pain in the over-distended parts that she
+can summon courage to permit of their being emptied. This partial and
+irregular nursing is very dangerous, and cannot fail, in most cases, to
+lead to the very painful affection of which we are now speaking.
+
+No nursing mother is safe whose breasts are not properly and daily
+emptied. If this cannot be done by the child, another infant should be
+applied, or a small puppy, either of which expedients is preferable to a
+breast-pump, which, however, is much better than neither. If the tender
+or chapped condition of the nipples interferes with free nursing, this
+condition must be promptly remedied. When undue accumulation of milk is
+threatened gentle friction of the breasts with sweet oil and camphor is
+also of service; and they should be supported by means of a handkerchief
+placed under them and tied over the shoulders.
+
+It must not be forgotten, however, that though _gentle_ rubbing afford
+relief to the breasts when they are hard, knotty, and over-distended,
+any friction is injurious if gathering has actually commenced. In all
+cases, therefore, it is of importance to distinguish between
+over-distension (which may _lead_ to inflammation) and a condition of
+already established gathering of the breasts. This it is not difficult
+to do. In the former case the skin is pale, there is little or no
+tenderness, and the hardness is evenly diffused over the whole of the
+breast; whereas, when gathering has taken place there is a blush of
+redness on some portion of the breast, which is always painful to the
+touch, and which will be found to be particularly hard and sore in some
+one spot.
+
+The _symptoms_ of gathered breasts we have just described in part. The
+severity of the symptoms will depend upon the extent and depth of the
+inflammation. The affection is always ushered in by shivering, followed
+by fever and a shooting pain in the breasts. A small, hard, painful
+swelling will be noticed in the breast even before the skin shows any
+sign of redness. This swelling increases in size and the suffering
+becomes very great and difficult to bear, preventing sleep and
+prostrating the whole system. The secretion of milk is suspended at
+least during the first active stage of the disease.
+
+The object of _treatment_ is to prevent the formation of an abscess by
+subduing the inflammation as speedily as possible. This is to be sought
+first by keeping the breast as nearly empty as possible. For this reason
+the child should be assiduously applied to the affected rather than to
+the well side, although suckling will be painful. Indeed, it is better,
+if it can be done, to procure an older child and let it keep the milk
+under. When, however, the inflammation is fully established, the pain
+will compel the restriction of the child to the well side. The
+application of warmth is both grateful to the part and beneficial. This
+may be done by means of poultices or fomentations, or by immersing a
+wooden bowl in hot water and putting the breast, wrapped in flannel,
+within it. This latter means will be found an easy and agreeable one of
+keeping up the application of dry heat. The bowels should be briskly
+purged by a dose of citrate of magnesia or cream of tartar. The diet
+must be mild, and the breasts supported in a sling. If, in spite of all
+these efforts, an abscess actually forms, the attending physician will
+doubtless advise its immediate opening, to which advice the patient
+should accede, as that is the course which will afford her quicker and
+more effectual relief than she can hope for from nature's unaided
+efforts at effecting a discharge of the pent-up matter.
+
+It is interesting for the mother to know that if her child be
+still-born, or if unfortunately she be unable from any of the reasons
+mentioned in our chapter on Hindrances to Nursing to give the breast at
+all to her child, she is not liable to gathering on this account. This
+is contrary to what might be expected. It is not the mother who is
+unable to nurse at all who suffers, but she who does so in an
+unsatisfactory manner and who fails to have her breasts properly
+emptied.
+
+The first milk which makes its appearance in the breast towards recovery
+from inflammation is likely to be stringy and thick, and should,
+therefore, be rejected before nursing is resumed.
+
+
+
+
+THE SINGLE LIFE.
+
+
+A few words, ere we pass to another branch of our subject, on the
+physical relations of her who by choice or other reasons never marries.
+It is a common observation among physicians who have devoted themselves
+to the study of woman's physical nature, that, in spite of those perils
+of maternity which we have taken no pains to conceal, the health of
+single women during the child-bearing period is, as a general rule, not
+better, not even so good, as that of their married sisters. Those
+insurance companies who take female risks, do not ask any higher premium
+for the married than the unmarried.
+
+Various suggestions have been made to account for this unexpected fact.
+Some writers have pointed out that in many diseases marriage exerts a
+decidedly curative influence, especially in chronic nervous ailments.
+Chorea, for instance, or St. Vitus's dance, as it is popularly termed,
+has been repeatedly cured by marriage. As a rule, painful menstruation,
+which always arises from some defect or disease of the ovaries or
+adjacent organs, is improved, and often completely removed, by
+the same act. There are, as is well known, a whole series of
+emotional disorders,--hysteria, and various kinds of mania and
+hallucination,--which are almost exclusively confined to single persons,
+and only occur in the married under exceptional circumstances. An
+instance has lately been detailed in the medical journals by a Prussian
+physician, of a case of undoubted hereditary insanity which was greatly
+benefited--indeed temporarily cured--by a fortunate nuptial relation. Few
+who have watched a large circle of lady acquaintances but will have
+observed that many of them increased in flesh and improved in health when
+they had been married some months. An English writer of distinction
+accounts for these favourable results in a peculiar manner. Success, he
+says, is always a tonic, and the best of tonics. Now, to women, marriage
+is a success. It is their aim in social life; and this accomplished,
+health and strength follow. We are not quite ready to subscribe to such a
+sweeping assertion, but no doubt it is applicable in a limited number of
+cases. Our own opinion is, that nature gave to each sex certain
+functions, and that the whole system is in better health when all parts
+and powers fulfil their destiny.
+
+Common proverbs portray the character of the spinster as peevish,
+selfish, given to queer fancies, and unpleasant eccentricities. In many
+a case we are glad to say this is untrue. Instances of noble devotion,
+broad and generous sympathy, and distinguished self-sacrifice, are by no
+means rare in single women. But take the whole class, the popular
+opinion, as it often is, must be granted to be correct. Deprived of the
+natural objects of interest, the sentiments are apt to fix themselves on
+parrots and poodles, or to be confined within the breast, and wither
+for want of nourishment. Too often the history of those sisterhoods who
+assume vows of singleness in the interest of religion, presents to the
+physician the sad spectacle of prolonged nervous maladies, and to the
+Christian that of a sickly sensibility.
+
+In this connection we may answer a question not unfrequently put to the
+medical attendant. Are those women who marry late in their sexual life
+more apt to bear living children than the married of the same age; and
+are they more likely to prolong their child-bearing period by their
+deferred nuptials? To both these inquiries we answer No. On the
+contrary, the woman who marries a few years only before her change of
+life, is almost sure to have no children who will survive. She is
+decidedly less apt to have any than the woman of the same age who
+married young. If, therefore, love of children and a desire for
+offspring form, as they rightly should, one of the inducements to marry,
+let not the act be postponed too long, or it will probably fail of any
+such result.
+
+
+
+
+THE CHANGE OF LIFE.
+
+
+After a certain number of years, woman lays aside those functions with
+which she had been endowed for the perpetuation of the species, and
+resumes once more that exclusively individual life which had been hers
+when a child. The evening of her days approaches; and if she has
+observed the precepts of wisdom, she may look forward to a long and
+placid period of rest, blessed with health,--honored, yes, loved with a
+purer flame than any which she inspired in the bloom of youth and
+beauty. Those who are familiar with the delightful memoirs of Madame
+Swetchine or Madame Recamier will not dispute even so bold an assertion
+as this.
+
+But ere this haven of rest is reached, there is a crisis to pass which
+is ever the subject of anxious solicitude. Unscientific people, in their
+vivid language, call it _the change of life_; physicians know it as the
+_menopause_--the period of the cessation of the monthly flow. It is the
+epoch when the ovaries cease producing any more ova, and the woman
+becomes therefore incapable of bearing any more children.
+
+The age at which it occurs is very variable. In this country from
+forty-five to fifty is the most common. Instances are not at all
+unusual when it does not appear until the half century has been turned;
+and we have known instances where women past sixty still continued to
+have their periodical illnesses.
+
+Examples of very early cessation are more rare. We do not remember to
+have met any, in our experience, earlier than thirty years, but others
+have observed healthy women as young as twenty-eight in whom the flow
+had ceased.
+
+The physical change which is most apparent at this time is the tendency
+to grow stout. The fat increases as the power of reproduction decreases.
+And here a curious observation comes in. We have said that when the girl
+changes to a woman, a similar deposit of fat takes place (though less in
+amount), which commences at the loins. This is the first sign of
+puberty. In the change of life the first sign is visible at the lower
+part of the back of the neck, on a level with the bones known as the two
+lowest cervical vertebrae. Here commences an accumulation of fat, which
+often grows to form two distinct prominences, and is an infallible index
+of the period of a woman's life.
+
+The breasts do not partake of this increase, but become flat and hard,
+the substance of the gland losing its spongy structure. The legs and
+arms lose their roundness of outline, and, where they do not grow fat,
+dry up, and resemble those of the other sex. The abdomen enlarges, even
+to the extent occasionally of leading the wife to believe that she is to
+be a mother,--a delusion sometimes strengthened by the absence of the
+monthly sickness. Finally, a perceptible tendency to a beard at times
+manifests itself, the voice grows harder, and the characteristics of the
+female sex become less and less distinct.
+
+Some who are more fortunate than their neighbours do not experience the
+least discomfort at the change of life. They simply note that at the
+expected time the illness does not appear, and for ever after they are
+free from it. These are the exceptions. More commonly, marked
+alterations in the health accompany this important crisis, and call for
+sedulous hygienic care. It is gratifying to know that nearly all these
+threatening affections can be avoided by such care, as they depend upon
+causes under the control of the individual. Another fact, to which we
+have already referred, is full of consolation. It is an unexpected
+fact--one that we should hardly credit, did it not rest on statistical
+evidence of the most indisputable character. The popular opinion, every
+one knows, is, that the period of the change of life is one peculiarly
+dangerous to women. If this is so, we might expect that, if the number
+of deaths between the ages of forty and fifty years in the two sexes be
+compared, we should find that those of females far exceed those of
+males. This is, however, not the case. On the contrary, the deaths of
+the males exceed in number those of the females.
+
+Hasty readers may draw a false conclusion from this statement. They may
+at once infer that the change of life merits little or no attention, if
+it thus in nowise increases the bills of mortality. This would be a
+serious error. All intelligent physicians know that there are in very
+many cases a most unpleasant train of symptoms which characterize this
+epoch in the physical life of woman. They are alarming, painful, often
+entailing sad consequences, though rarely fatal. All physicians are,
+however, not intelligent; and there are too many who are inclined to
+ridicule such complaints, to impute them to fancy, and to think that
+they have done their full duty when they tell the sufferer that such
+sensations are merely indicative of her age, and that in a year or two
+they will all pass away. Such medical attendants do not appreciate the
+gravity of the sufferings they have been called to relieve. Says a
+distinguished writer on the subject, after entering into some details in
+the matter: 'I would not dwell on things apparently so trivial as these,
+had I not seen some of the worst misery this world witnesses induced
+thereby.' Such a conviction should be in the mind of the physician, and
+lead him to attach their full weight to the vague, transitory, unstable,
+but most distressing symptoms described to him.
+
+
+SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS.
+
+We shall speak of the various signs and symptoms which occur at and mark
+the change; and in commencing so to do, we call attention to an
+interesting illustration of the rhythm which controls the laws of life.
+As in old age, when we draw near the last scene of all, we re-enter
+childhood, and grow into second infancy, so the woman, finishing her
+pilgrimage of sexual life, encounters the same landmarks and stations
+which greeted her when she first set out. She obeys at eve the voice of
+her own nature which she obeyed at prime. The same diseases and
+disorders, the same nervous and mental sensations, the same pains and
+weaknesses which preceded the first appearance of her monthly illness,
+will in all probability precede its cessation. Even those affections of
+the skin or of the brain, as epilepsy, which were suffered in childhood,
+and which disappeared as soon as the periodical function was
+established, may be expected to reappear when the function has reached
+its natural termination. Therefore if a woman past the change notices
+that she suffers from bleeding at the nose, headache, boils, or some
+skin disease, let her bethink herself whether it is not a repetition of
+some similar trouble with which she was plagued before the eventful
+period which metamorphosed her from a girl into a woman.
+
+So true is what we have just said, that in detailing the symptoms which
+frequently occur at the change of life, we could turn back to the
+previous pages where we discussed the dangers of puberty, and repeat
+much that we there said as of equal application here. For instance, the
+green-sickness, _chlorosis_, is by no means exclusively a disease of
+girls. It may occur at any period of child-bearing life, but is much
+more frequent at the _beginning_ and the _end_ of this term. Hardly any
+one has watched women closely without having observed the peculiar tint
+of skin, the debility, the dislike of society, the change of temper, the
+fitful appetite, the paleness of the eye, and the other traits that show
+the presence of such a condition of the nervous system in those about
+renouncing their powers of reproduction. The precautions and rules which
+we before laid down, can be read with equal profit in this connection.
+
+In addition to these symptoms, which in a measure belong to the
+individual's own history, there are others of a general character which
+betoken the approaching change. One of them is an increasing
+irregularity in the monthly appearance. This is frequently accompanied
+with a sinking sensation,--a 'feeling of goneness,' as the sufferer
+says--at the pit of the stomach, often attended by flushes of heat,
+commencing at the stomach and extending over the whole surface of the
+body. The face, neck, and hands are suffused at inopportune moments, and
+greatly to the annoyance of the sufferer. This is sometimes accompanied
+by a sense of fulness in the head, a giddiness, and dulness of the
+brain, sometimes going so far as to cause an uncertainty in the step, a
+slowness of comprehension, and a feeling as if one might fall at any
+moment in some sort of a fit.
+
+This is not the worst of it. These physical troubles react upon the
+mind. An inward nervousness, intensely painful to bear, is very sure to
+be developed. She fears she will be thought to have taken liquor, and to
+be overcome with wine; she grows more confused, and imagines that she is
+watched with suspicious and unkind eyes, and often she worries herself
+by such unfounded fancies into a most harassing state of mental
+distress. Society loses its attractions, and solitude does but allow her
+opportunity to indulge to a still more injurious extent such brooding
+phantasms. Every ache and pain is magnified. Does her heart palpitate,
+as it is very apt to do? Straightway she is certain that she has some
+terrible disease of that organ, and that she will drop down dead some
+day in the street. Is one of her breasts somewhat sore, which, too, is
+not unusual? She knows at once it is a cancer, and suffers an agony of
+terror from a cause wholly imaginary.
+
+Vibrating between a distressing excitement and a gloomy depression, her
+temper gives way; and even the words of the Divine Master lose their
+influence over her. She becomes fretful, and yet full of remorse for
+yielding to her peevishness; she seeks for sympathy, without being able
+to give reasons for needing it; she annoys those around her by
+groundless fears, and is angered when they show their annoyance. In
+fine, she is utterly wretched, without any obvious cause of
+wretchedness.
+
+This is a dark picture, but it is a true one--inexorably true. Let us
+hasten to add that such a mental condition is, however, neither a
+necessary nor a frequent concomitant of the change. We depict it, so
+that friends and relatives may better appreciate the sufferings of a
+class too little understood, and so that women themselves, by knowing
+the cause of such complaints, and the sad results which flow from them,
+may make the more earnest efforts to avoid them.
+
+Other symptoms are, a sense of choking, a feeling of faintness, shooting
+pains in the back and loins, creepings and chilliness, a feeling as if a
+hand were applied to the back or the cheek, a fidgety restlessness,
+inability to fix the mind on reading or in following a discourse, and a
+loss of control over the emotions, so that she is easily affected to
+tears or to laughter. All these merely indicate that nature is employing
+all her powers to bring about that mysterious transformation in the
+economy by which she deprives the one sex for ever of partaking in the
+creative act after a certain age, while she only diminishes the power of
+the other.
+
+
+EFFECTS ON THE CHARACTER.
+
+The effects on the character of this 'grand climacteric' are often
+marked. Not unfrequently the woman becomes more masculine in thought and
+habit, as has been admirably described by Dr. Tilt:--'There are almost
+always while the change is progressing various forms of nervous
+irritability and some amount of confusion and bewilderment, which seem
+to deprive women of the mental endowments to which they had acquired a
+good title by forty years' enjoyment. They often lose confidence in
+themselves, are unable to manage domestic or other business, and are
+more likely to be imposed on either within or without the family circle.
+When the change is effected, the mind emerges from the clouds in which
+it has seemed lost. Thankful that they have escaped from real
+sufferings, women cease to torture themselves with imaginary woes, and
+as they feel the ground grow steadier underfoot, they are less dependent
+on others--for, like the body, the mental faculties then assume a
+masculine character. The change of life does not give talents, but it
+often imparts a firmness of purpose to bring out effectively those that
+are possessed, whether it be to govern a household, to preside in a
+drawing-room, or to thread and unravel political entanglements. When
+women are no longer hampered by a bodily infirmity periodically
+returning, they have more time at their disposal, and for obvious
+reasons they are less subject to be led astray by a too ardent
+imagination, or by wild flights of passion.'
+
+Changes in the moral character also frequently show themselves, and for
+a time astonish friends and relatives. These shades of moral insanity
+all disappear in a little while, if there be no family tendency to
+insanity to prolong and intensify them.
+
+
+THOSE WHO SUFFER MOST.
+
+Those women especially may anticipate serious trouble at this epoch in
+whom the change at puberty was accompanied by distressful and obstinate
+disorders,--those in whom the menstrual periods have usually been
+attended with considerable pain and prostration, and those in whose
+married life several abortions or several tedious and unnatural labors
+have occurred; also those who from some temporary cause are reduced in
+health and strength,--as from repeated attacks of intermittent fever, or
+disorders of the liver and digestive organs. Still more predisposed are
+they who are subject to some of those displacements or local ulcerations
+which we have mentioned in our chapter on Health in Marriage. It becomes
+of great consequence, that any such deviation from the healthy standard
+shall be corrected before a woman reaches this trying passage in her
+career.
+
+The constitution and temperament have much to do with the liability to
+disease and suffering during the change of life. Those of weak
+constitutions sometimes fail of the necessary stamina to carry them
+easily through the trials of this transition period. It has been
+remarked that the _lymphatic_ temperament is the most favorable to an
+easy change. Women with this temperament suffer less from nervous or
+bilious disorders, and quickly show signs of having been benefited by
+what has occurred. Those of a _sanguine_ temperament are more liable to
+floodings and to head symptoms; but such disorders with them usually
+readily yield to treatment. The _bilious_ temperament predisposes to
+disorders of the stomach and liver at this epoch; while the union of the
+nervous with the bilious temperament seems to predispose to mental
+diseases. The most suffering at this time of life is experienced by
+women of a _nervous_ temperament.
+
+The social position exerts an influence on the pain and the tendency to
+disease at this epoch. The poor who are forced to labor beyond their
+strength and who are exhausted by fatigue, anxiety, and want, suffer
+much. So also do those who have recently been exposed to some great
+sorrow. As the poet says:--
+
+ Danger, long travel, want, or woe,
+ Soon change the form that best we know----
+ For deadly fear can time out-go,
+ And blanch at once the hair.
+ Hard toil can roughen form and face,
+ And want can quell the eye's bright grace,
+ Nor does old age a wrinkle trace
+ More deeply than despair.
+
+The occupations of women also have an influence upon the change of life.
+Washerwomen are said in particular to suffer more than others on account
+of the exposure to which they are subject by their trade. Those who are
+confined many hours a day in close or damp rooms are unfavorably
+situated for passing through the various stages of the 'grand
+climacteric.' The rich, with plenty of time and means to care for
+themselves, often blindly or obstinately create an atmosphere about them
+and follow a mode of life, quite as deleterious as the enforced
+surroundings of their poorer sisters.
+
+
+
+
+DISEASES AND DISCOMFORTS.
+
+In rather more than one out of every four cases the change of life is
+either ushered in or accompanied by considerable flooding. When this
+occurs at the regular period, and is not in sufficient quantity to cause
+debility, and is not associated with much pain, it need not give rise to
+any alarm. It is an effort of nature to relieve the impending plethora
+of the system, to drain away the excessive amount of blood which would
+otherwise accumulate by the cessation of the flow. When it is remembered
+that every month, for some thirty years of life, the woman of forty-five
+has been moderately bled, we need not wonder that suddenly to break off
+this long habit would bring about a plethora, which would in turn be the
+source of manifold inconveniences to the whole system. Therefore this
+flooding may be regarded as a wise act of nature, and, as such, allowed
+to take its course so long as it is not attended with the symptoms
+mentioned above. When this is the case, however, the doctor should be
+consulted, as then the bleeding may be from inflammation or ulceration,
+or even from that dreaded foe to life, cancer.
+
+Instead of finding this exit, the blood occasionally is thrown off by
+bleeding at the nose, or is spat up from the lungs, or is passed from
+bleeding piles. Due caution must be used about stopping such discharges
+too promptly. Rest, cool drinks, and the application of cold to the
+parts, are generally all that is needed.
+
+We have just spoken of cancer. This is a subject of terror to many
+women, and their fears are often increased and deliberately played upon
+by base knaves who journey about the country calling themselves 'cancer
+doctors,' and professing to have some secret remedy with which they work
+infallible cures. It should be generally known that all such pretensions
+are false. It is often a matter of no little difficulty, requiring an
+experienced eye, to pronounce positively whether a tumour or ulcer is
+cancerous. These charlatans have no such ability; but they pronounce
+every sore they see a cancer, and all their pretended cures are of
+innocent, non-malignant disorders. Cancers are more apt to develope
+themselves at this period. Their seat is most frequently in the womb or
+the breast, and they are said to be especially liable to arise in those
+women who have suffered several abortions or unnatural labours.
+Undoubtedly they are more frequent in the married than the unmarried,
+and they evidently bear some relation to the amount of disturbance which
+the system has suffered during childbirth, and the grief and mental pain
+experienced. For this reason a celebrated teacher of obstetrics insists
+upon classing them among nervous diseases. The surgeon alone can cure
+them, and he but rarely. Medicine is of no avail, however long and
+painstaking have been its searches in this direction. A touching story
+is related in this connection of Raymond Sully, the celebrated
+philosopher. When a young man, he was deeply impressed with the beauty
+of a lady, and repeatedly urged his suit, which she as persistently
+repelled, though it was evident she loved him. One day, when he insisted
+with more than usual fervor that she should explain her mysterious
+hesitation, she drew aside the folds of her dress and exposed her
+breast, partly destroyed by a cancer. Shocked and horrified, but unmoved
+in his affection, he rushed to the physicians and demanded their aid.
+They replied they could give none. He determined to find a cure, if he
+had to seek in all parts of the earth. He visited the learned doctors of
+Africa and Asia, and learned many wonderful things--even, it was said,
+the composition of the philosopher's stone itself; but what he did not
+find, and what has never yet been found, was what he went forth to
+seek--a cure for cancer.
+
+At this time, too, tumors or swellings of the ovaries are apt to
+commence. They are nearly always preceded by scanty or painful
+menstruation; and this, therefore, it is the duty of every woman, as she
+values the preservation of her future health, to remedy by every means
+in her power.
+
+Generally, from the commencement of the change of life commences also a
+steady diminution of the sexual passions, and soon after this period
+they quite disappear. Sometimes, however, the reverse takes place, and
+the sensations increase in intensity, occasionally exceeding what they
+even were before. This should be regarded with alarm. It is contrary to
+the design of nature, and can but mean that something is wrong.
+Deep-seated disease of the uterus or ovaries is likely to be present, or
+an unnatural nervous excitability is there, which, if indulged, will
+bring about dangerous consequences. Gratification, therefore, should be
+temperate, and at rare intervals, or wholly denied.
+
+
+PRECAUTIONS AND REMEDIES.
+
+To guard against the dangers of this epoch, those general rules of
+health which we have throughout insisted upon should be rigidly
+observed. If during the whole of her sexual life the woman has been
+diligent in observing the laws of health, she has little to fear at this
+period. Some simple remedies will suffice to allay the disagreeable
+symptoms; and the knowledge that most of them are temporary, common to
+her sex, and not significant of any peculiar malady, will aid her in
+opposing their attacks on her peace of mind. When plethora, flooding,
+or congestion is apparent, the food should be light, chiefly vegetable,
+and moderate in quantity. Liquors, wines, strong tea, coffee, and
+chocolate should be avoided; an occasional purgative or a glass of some
+laxative mineral water should be taken, and cool bathing regularly
+observed. Exercise should be indulged in with caution, and care taken to
+avoid excitement, severe mental or bodily effort, and exhaustion. If the
+system is debilitated, and the danger is rather from a want of blood
+than too much blood, nourishing food, tonic medicines, and perhaps some
+stimulant, are called for. When the perspiration is excessive, flannel
+should be worn next the skin in the daytime, and a flannel night-dress
+at night. A tepid bath before retiring is also useful. The 'goneness'
+and other unpleasant sensations referred to the pit of the stomach may
+be much relieved by wearing a well-made spice-plaster over the stomach,
+or binding there a bag of gum camphor; or if these fail, an opium
+plaster will hardly fail to be of service. Internally, we think, nothing
+at all is needed; but as something must be taken, let it not be spirits
+or wine, but half a tea-spoonful of aromatic spirits of ammonia in a few
+table-spoonfuls of water. There is too much of a tendency among some
+women to seek alleviation in intoxicating compounds, 'bitters,'
+'tonics,' and so forth, at such times. They can only result in injury,
+and should be shunned. The pains in the back and loins often
+experienced, can generally be removed by rubbing the parts with hot
+mustard-water and taking a gentle purgative, or by placing against the
+lower part of the spine a hot brick wrapped in a flannel cloth wrung
+out in warm water or laudanum and water.
+
+Once safely through this critical period, the woman has a better chance
+for long life and a green old age than the man of equal years. Tables of
+human life show this conclusively. With the sweet consciousness of duty
+performed, she is now prepared to assist others by intelligent advice,
+cheerful counsel, and tender offices; she can now surround herself with
+that saintly halo of kind words and good works which wins a worthier
+love than passion offers; and, passing onward to the silence of eternal
+rest, she will leave in the memory of all who knew her, pleasant
+impressions and affectionate reminiscences.
+
+
+
+
+NOTES.
+
+
+P. 20. HERMAPHRODITES AND ASEXUALISM.--Rokitansky decides Hohmann to be
+a case of _hermaphrodita vera lateralis_, and all who examine her say
+the same. See _Wiener Medicin. Wochenschrift_, October, 1868, and the
+_Medical and Surgical Reporter_, vol. xix. p. 487. A marked case of
+asexualism, proven so by a _post mortem_ examination, is reported in the
+_Buffalo Medical and Surgical Journal_ for April, 1869, p. 338; and
+another in the _Medical Times and Gazette_ of about the same date. We
+might refer to many more recent and authentic cases.
+
+P. 25. AGE OF PUBERTY.--See case by Dr. T. H. Twiner, in the _Richmond
+and Louisville Medical Journal_, March, 1869, Raciborski, _De la
+Menstruation et de l'Age Critique chez la Femme_, p. 130. The quotation
+(p. 26) is from Dr. Edward Smith, _Cyclical Changes in Health and
+Disease_,--a profound work. Raciborski is the principal authority for
+this and the following section. Our own inquiries fully confirm his
+statements.
+
+P. 32. INFLUENCE OF THE MOON ON MENSTRUATION.--On this question, see the
+researches of M. Parchappe, _Comptes Rendus de l'Academie des Sciences_,
+tom. xvi. p. 550. See also Dr. Shrye, _Tractatus de Fluxu Menstruo_, in
+the _Acta Lipsiensia_ for 1686, p. 111; Dr. W. Charleton, _Inquisitio
+Physica de Causis Catameniorum_, p. 78; and Galen, _De Diebus
+Decretoriis_, lib. iii., for other curious particulars.
+
+P. 37. CHLOROSIS.--For the pathology of this disease, see Dr. Gaillard
+Thomas, _Diseases of Women_, p. 625, and Dr. C. H. Bauer, in the
+_Weiner Medicin. Zeitung_, No. 33, 1868. Occasionally the change at
+puberty leads to an affection very closely resembling typhoid fever, but
+which is strictly due to the sexual crisis; and often goitre commences
+at this period. See a review of Raciborski, in the _Bulletin de
+Therapeutique_, June, 1869.
+
+P. 39. MASTURBATION IN GIRLS.--See Miss Catherine E. Beecher, _Letters
+to the People on Health and Happiness_, p. 159. The late medical
+literature on the subject is abundant. See _Ueber die Behandlung der
+Masturbation bei kleinen Maedchen, Journal juer Kinderkrankheiten_, Bd.
+li. p. 360; H. R. Storer, _Western Journal of Medicine_, July, 1868; and
+_Journal of the Gynecological Society_, vol. i. No. 1.
+
+Pp. 50, 51. PREMATURE MARRIAGES.--See Dr. Duncan, _Fecundity,
+Fertility_, etc., p. 241; Reich, _Natur und Gesundheitslehre des
+Ehelichen Lebens_, p. 518.
+
+P. 56. HOLY LOVE.--The distinction between [Greek: haghape] and [Greek:
+irhohe] is too familiar to all scholars to need extended mention. See
+Trench, _Synonyms of the New Testament, sub voce._
+
+Pp. 57, 58. SINGLE LIFE IN ITS RELATION TO SANITY AND MORTALITY.--The
+extraordinary statements in the text are vouched for by Dr. Casper,
+_Medicinische Statistik_, vol. ii. p. 164, and Dr. Reich, _Geschichte,
+Natur, und Gesundheitslehre des Ehelichen Lebens_, pp. 510, 511. We have
+compared the reports of a number of asylums for the insane, and find the
+proportions very nearly as great as stated by these authorities.
+
+P. 70. INTERMARRIAGE OF RELATIVES.--The view we advocate on this point,
+we know, is neither the received nor the popular one. In the middle ages
+it was forbidden to intermarry within the seventh degree of
+consanguinity; but this and all other regulations were based on
+theological and political, not physiological, grounds. Among others, Dr.
+Nathan Allen has insisted on the danger of consanguineous marriages
+(_Journal of Psychological Medicine_, Volume ii). But other very careful
+and recent students adopt the view of our text: for instance, Dr. F. J.
+Behrend, _Journal fuer Kinderkrankheiten_, December, 1868, p. 316; Dr. A.
+Voisin, in the reports of the _Paris Academie de Medecin_,1864, 1865,
+and 1868; and Dr. H. Gaillard, in the last edition (1868) of the
+_Dictionnaire de Medecine et de Chirurgie Pratique_. All the statements
+in the text are supported with incontrovertible evidence by these
+writers. If we are asked how to meet the seemingly alarming array of
+allegations by Dr. Bemiss, the Kentucky physician referred to in the
+_Transactions of the American Medical Association_ for 1859, we would
+refer to Dr. Behrend's articles, where the researches of Bemiss are
+severely criticised. For Dr. Edward Smith's assertion, see his _Essay on
+Consumption_, p. 244 (Philadelphia, 1865).
+
+P. 80. COMMUNICATION OF VENEREAL DISEASES.--Many instances are recorded
+where a drinking-glass, a spoon, a fork, or a handkerchief has infected
+innocent persons with these terrible diseases (see Cullerier, _Atlas of
+Venereal Diseases_, p. 43). They are communicated from the male to the
+female, or from the female to the male, with equal facility, and either
+parent can transmit them to the children. The physician referred to is
+Dr. Sigmund, in the _Humboldt Medical Archives_, 1868.
+
+P. 83. SYMBOLISM.--See Dr. Carus, _Symbolik der Menschlichen Gestalt_,
+the most scientific work ever written on physiognomy, phrenology, and
+allied subjects.
+
+Pp. 90, 91.--See Raciborski, _De la Puberte et de l'Age Critique chez la
+Femme_, p. 133; Tilt, _Uterine Therapeutics_, p. 315.
+
+P. 94. CONTAGION OF PHTHISIS.--See Dr. William A. Hammond's _Treatise on
+Hygiene_, p. 438, for air-space required by a healthy person. The
+contagion of phthisis is maintained by many authorities--among others,
+Dr. W. W. Gerbard (see Pennsylvanian Hospital Reports for 1868, p.
+266). Professor Castan has recently collected, in the _Montpelier
+Medicale_, a variety of facts, which seem to show that tuberculosis may
+be communicated from a diseased to a healthy person by transpiration,
+breathed air, and living together (_Press and Circular_, March 10,
+1869). In regard to the inoculation of tubercle, we have reference to
+the well-known experiments of M. Villemin, of the Hopital Val-de-Grace,
+Paris. In this connection we may record an instance of recent medical
+heroism. M. Lespiaud, attached to the surgical department of the
+Val-de-Grace, in presence of several of his colleagues, extracted
+granular matter from the body of a phthisical subject, and introduced it
+under his own integument. This zealous investigator into the etiology of
+tuberculosis has thus exposed himself in a courageous way for the
+benefit of science, to the effects of a most dangerous and merciless
+disease.
+
+P. 96. THE DIGNITY AND PROPRIETY OF THE SEXUAL INSTINCT.--Dr. Edward
+John Tilt is the medical writer referred to (see _Uterine Therapeutics_,
+pp. 95, 313). See also Bosquet, _Noveau Tableau de l'Amour Conjugal_,
+vol. ii. p. 2, etc.; Rousel, _Systeme Physique et Moral de la Femme_, p.
+211; Menville, _Histoire Medicale et Philosophique de la Femme_, vol. i.
+p. 36 et seq.; Raciborski, _De la Puberte_, etc., p. 45.
+
+P. 99. ON THE INDULGENCE AND RESTRAINT OF SEXUAL DESIRE.--Menville, vol.
+ii. p. 91; Bosquet, vol. ii. p. 280; _Economy of Life--or, Food, Repose,
+and Love_, by George Miles. Dr. Edward Smith, in his valuable work on
+_Cyclical Changes in Health and Disease_, has collected extensive
+statistics showing the effect of the time of conception on the viability
+of the foetus. The quotation is from Carpenter's _Human Physiology_, p.
+753.
+
+P 103. See _Lancet_ for March 6, 1869, p. 337, for report of discussion
+in the Pathological Society of London upon the physical degeneracy
+resulting from procreation during intoxication. Authorities could be
+cited at length upon this subject, but it is not necessary. See
+Huleland's _Art of Prolonging Life_, p. 207.
+
+Pp. 106-114. STERILITY.--For statistics referred to, see Dr. Matthews
+Duncan, _Fecundity, Fertility, and Sterility_ (Edinburgh, 1866), p. 181
+_et seq._; Dr. Tilt, _Uterine Therapeutics_, p. 291; Dr. Edward Reich,
+_Gesundheitslehre des Ehelichen Lebens_, Th. ii.
+
+Dr. J. Marion Sims, _On the Microscope as an Aid in the Diagnosis and
+Treatment of Sterility_, _New York Medical Journal_, January 1869, p.
+406; Charles Darwin, _The Variation of Animals and Plants under
+Domestication_, vol. ii. p. 198; _Philadelphia Medical and Surgical
+Reporter_, November 2, 1867, p. 384; A. Debay, _Hygiene et Physiologie
+du Mariage_, p. 288 (Paris, Quarante-quatrieme edition); Raciborski, _De
+la Puberte_, etc., p. 451; Virey, _De la Femme sous ses Rapports Phys._,
+etc., p. 332; Dr. Gunning S. Bedford, _The Principles and Practice of
+Obstetrics_, p. 107.
+
+P. 115. THE LIMITATION OF OFFSPRING.--We have taken great pains to avoid
+giving false or dangerous impressions in this section. The references in
+the order of quotation are:--Dr. Tilt, _Hand-Book of Uterine
+Therapeutics_, p. 317; Dr. Duncan, _Fecundity, Fertility, Sterility, and
+Allied Topics_, pp. 289, 290; Dr. Hillier, _Diseases of Children_, p.
+114; John Stuart Mill, _Principles of Political Economy_, p. 591; Dr.
+Drysdale, _London Medical Press and Circular_, December, 1868, p. 478;
+Raciborski, _De l'Age Critique chez la Femme_, p. 484; _The Nation_,
+June 1869; Dr. Edward Reich, _Natur und Gesundheitslehre des Ehelichen
+Lebens_, p. 493; _Boston Medical and Surgical Journal_, February 1867;
+_Philadelphia Medical and Surgical Reporter_, vol. xix. p. 305;
+Sismondi, _Principles of Political Economy_, book vii. chap. v.; Dr.
+MacCormac, in _London Medical Press and Circular_, March 1869, p. 244;
+Dr. Gaillard Thomas, _Diseases of Women_, p. 58; _Leavenworth Medical
+Herald_, April, 1867; Dr. N. K. Bowling, in _The Nashville Journal of
+Medicine and Surgery_, October 1868. We have rather let others speak
+than spoken ourselves, and have collected the opinions of many most
+distinguished physicians and statesmen, who thus pronounce against
+excessive child-bearing. Any intelligent physician will acknowledge the
+weight to be assigned to such names.
+
+P. 128. SIGNS OF FRUITFUL CONJUNCTION.--Carpenter, _Human Physiology_,
+p. 772; Dr. Gunning S. Bedford, _Principles and Practice of Obstetrics_,
+p. 304; Menville, vol. i p. 295; Montgomery, _Signs and Symptoms of
+Pregnancy_, p. 90.
+
+P. 132. INHERITANCE.--Darwin, _Animals and Plants under Domestication_,
+pp. 42, 473; Sir Henry Holland's _Medical Notes and Reflections_, p. 30;
+Pritchard, _Researches into the Physical History of Mankind_, vol. ii.
+p. 551; Carpenter, _Human Physiology_, p. 779; A. Debay, _Hygiene et
+Physiologie du Mariage_, p. 173; Fleurens, _De la Longevite et de la
+Quantie de Vie sur le Globe_, p. 256 (Paris, 1860); Hufeland, _Art of
+Prolonging Life_, pp. 91, 206; Hammond's _Hygiene_, p. 116; _American
+Journal of Medical Sciences_, July, 1865, p. 82; Francis Galton, _On
+Hereditary Talent and Character_, in _Macmillan's Magazine_, vol. xii.
+pp. 157, 318; Madden, _The Infirmities of Genius_, vol. ii. p. 107;
+_Lancet_, December 22, 1868, p. 825; _The British Medical Journal_,
+January 11, 1868, p. 25; Dr. Prosper Lucas, _Traite de l'Heredite
+Naturelle_; Victor Hugo, _L'Homme qui Rit_, le seconde chapitre
+preliminaire; Watson's _Practice_, p. 1153; Dr. Daniel G. Brinton,
+_Guide-Book to Florida and the South_, Pt. iii.; Dr. J. V. C. Smith,
+_Physical Indications of Longevity in Man._
+
+P. 163. PLURAL BIRTHS.--Duncan, _Fecundity, Fertility, and Sterility_,
+p. 69; Ramsbotham, _System of Obstetrics_, p. 461; _Philadelphia Medical
+and Surgical Reporter_, vol. xix. p. 508, xx. p. 98.
+
+P. 167. PREGNANCY.--Menville, i. p. 299; Dr. Gunning S. Bedford, _System
+of Obstetrics_, p. 144 et seq.; Montgomery, _Signs and Symptoms of
+Pregnancy_; Dr. Edward Rigby, _System of Midwifery_, p. 47.
+
+P. 180. MOTHERS' MARKS.--See a very interesting article by Professor Wm.
+A. Hammond, in _The Quarterly Journal of Psychological Medicine and
+Medical Jurisprudence_, January, 1868, p. 1, in which he says, in
+regard to the influence of the maternal mind over the foetus _in utero_:
+'The chances of these instances, and others which I have mentioned,
+being due to coincidence, are infinitesimally small; and though I am
+careful not to reason upon the principle of _post hoc ergo propter hoc_,
+I cannot--nor do I think any other person can, no matter how logical may
+be his mind--reason fairly against the connection between cause and
+effect in such cases. The correctness of the facts only can be
+questioned: if these be accepted, the probabilities are thousands of
+millions to one, that the relation between the phenomena is correct.'
+See also Dr. J. Lewis Smith, _Diseases of Infancy and Childhood_, 1869,
+p. 21; _Philadelphia Medical and Surgical Reporter_, vol. xix. p. 359.
+
+Pp. 192-197. CONCURRENT PREGNANCIES.--Raciborski, _De la Puberte_, etc.,
+p. 491; Dr. Gunning S. Bedford, _System of Obstetrics_, p. 442; _Dict.
+des Sciences Medicales_, t. L. iii.; _Lancet_, August, 1856, p. 131;
+Carpenter, _Human Physiology_, p. 779; Beck's _Elements of Medical
+Jurisprudence_, art. 'Superfoetation;' Rokitansky, _Pathological
+Anatomy_; _Philadelphia Medical and Surgical Reporter_, May 1, 1869, p.
+335.--Professor Pancost removed some years since, from the cheek of a
+child some months old, a rudimentary second child.
+
+P. 198. CAN THE FOETUS CRY IN UTERO?--Dr. Bedford Obstetrics, p. 264;
+_Lancet_, January 23, 1869.
+
+P. 199. IS IT A SON OR DAUGHTER?--_Philadelphia Medical and Surgical
+Reporter_, vol. xvii. p. 495; Dr. Frankenhauser, in the _Monatschrift
+fuer Geburtskunde_; Dr. Packman, _On Impregnation_, _Lancet_, July 18,
+1863.
+
+P. 202. GARDNER PEERAGE CASE.--Dr. Bedford, _System of Obstetrics_, p.
+299.
+
+P. 204. PROLONGED PREGNANCIES.--Taylor, _Medical Jurisprudence_, p. 586;
+_Report of Proceedings against the Rev. Fergus Jardine_ (Edinburgh,
+1839).
+
+P. 207. CARE OF HEALTH DURING PREGNANCY.--Churchill, _On Women_, p. 451;
+Menville, ii. 114; Tilt's _Elements of Health_, p. 271.
+
+P. 236. TO HAVE LABOR WITHOUT PAIN.--Professor T. Gaillard Thomas says,
+'The rule should be to employ an anaesthetic in every case of labor,
+_during the second stage_, unless some contra-indication exists. After a
+delivery, under its influence patients recover more rapidly, are freer
+from complications, and show fewer signs of prostration.' See _Lecture
+on the Management of Women after Parturition_, in the _Richmond and
+Louisville Medical Journal_, February, 1869, p. 145.
+
+P. 238. WEIGHT AND LENGTH OF NEW-BORN CHILDREN--_Philadelphia Medical
+and Surgical Reporter_, vol. xix. p. 388; Carpenter, _Human Physiology_,
+p. 810; Ramsbotham, _Obstetrics_, p. 111; _Detroit Review of Medicine
+and Pharmacy_, March, 1869, p. 150.
+
+P. 271. THE CHILD.--Dr. J. Lewis Smith, _A Treatise on the Diseases of
+Infancy and Childhood_, 1869, p. 28 _et seq._; Dr. Thomas Hillier,
+_Clinical Treatise on the Diseases of Children_, p. 17; Dr. Edward
+Smith, _Cyclical Changes in Health and Disease_; Dr. John Marshall,
+_Outlines of Physiology, Human and Comparative_, pp. 761, 765, 998; Dr.
+Charles A. Cameron, _Lectures on the Preservation of Health_, 1868, p.
+174; Dr. Charles J. B. Williams, _Principles of Medicine_, p. 480; Dr.
+J. Forsyth Meigs, _Diseases of Children_; Dr. E. J. Tilt, _Elements of
+Health and Principles of Female Hygiene_, p. 50 _et seq._; Dr. Andrew
+Combe, _The Management of Infancy_, p. 73 _et seq._ (ninth ed.
+Edinburgh, 1860), _Report of Board of Health of Philadelphia_ for 1868,
+p. 43; _British and Foreign Medico-Chirurgical Review_, April 1868, pp.
+382, 454; _Southern Journal of the Medical Sciences_, November, 1867, p.
+555; Dr. Thomas Hawkes Tanner, _Practice of Medicine_, p. 108; Dr.
+William A. Hammond, _Treatise on Hygiene_, p. 95 _et seq._;
+_Philadelphia Medical and Surgical Reporter_, vol. xvi. p. 530, xix. pp.
+37, 59, 119, 134, 382; Edward C. Seaton, M.D., _A Hand-Book of
+Vaccination_; Professor J. B. Fonssagrives, _L'Education Physique des
+Filles; Le Role des meres dans les maladies des Enfants_; Sir James Y.
+Simpson, _Selected Obstetrical and Gynecological Works_, etc., etc.
+
+
+
+
+INDEX.
+
+
+Abdomen, changes in, during pregnancy, 173
+ pain in, during pregnancy, 355
+
+Abortion, crime of, how to stop, 122
+ evils of, 123
+
+Advantages of the games and plays of children, 314
+
+Advice to wives who desire to have children, 113
+
+After birth, 230
+
+Age of husband, 75
+ nubility, 50
+ puberty, 23, 25
+
+Air and ventilation during infancy, 307
+
+Air space required in bed-room, 94
+
+Anger, effect of, on the mother's milk, 252
+
+Appetite, depraved, a sign of pregnancy, 175
+
+Approaching labor, signs of, 223
+
+Arrowroot, how to prepare, for children, 275, 291
+
+Articles wanted for confinement, 221
+
+Atavism explained, 133
+
+Attendants during confinement, hints for, 229
+
+Avoidance of hereditary tendencies, 151
+
+
+'Bad-getting-up,' causes of, 241
+
+Bandage after confinement, how to make, 221
+ how to apply, 230
+
+Barrenness, its causes and cure, 106
+
+Bath, hour of, for infants, 303
+ drying of the skin after, 304
+ during pregnancy, 212
+ value of, in infantile diseases, 305
+
+Beautiful children, how to have, 140
+
+Beauty, inheritance of, 135
+
+Bedroom, size of, for the married, 94
+
+Bed-wetting, causes and cure, 337
+
+Bed, for married persons, 95
+ clothing, 96
+ the most healthful, 95
+ in confinement, how to 'dress it', 222
+
+Binder, how to make, 221
+
+Births, relative proportion of male to female, 54
+
+Blondes, age of puberty of, 28
+
+Boarding school life, effect of, on girls, 47, 289
+
+Body, changes in, at puberty, 30
+ symbolism of, 83
+
+Bowel complaints of children, 339
+
+Boys, more born than girls, 154
+
+Braces, abdominal, 376
+
+Breasts, attention required towards the end of pregnancy, 219
+ changes in, during pregnancy, 170
+ first application of child to, 232
+ inflammation and abscess of, 382
+ management after confinement, 246
+
+Bringing up by hand, 274
+
+Brunettes, age of puberty of, 28
+
+
+Care of infancy, 271
+
+Carrying an infant, manner of, 309
+
+Celibacy not chastity, 57
+ results of, 58
+
+Change of life, regimen and perils of, 389
+
+Changes, the monthly, precautions during, 45
+ precautions in the intervals of, 46
+ when delayed, 48
+ painful, 49
+ worked by puberty, 30
+
+Child, the, 271
+ attention to, at birth, 231
+ can it cry before birth?, 198
+ education, of before birth, 191
+
+Child-bearing, excessive, 115
+
+Childbed, diseases of, 361
+ mortality of, 237
+
+Childbirth, imprudence after, 240
+ preparations for, 219
+ to preserve form after, 242
+
+Children, bathing of, 303
+ bed for, 297
+ clothing of, 300
+ decreased number of, 73
+ diet for, 288
+ new-born, weight and length of, 238
+ three and more at a birth, 164
+
+Children's diseases, home management of, 325
+
+Chlorosis, 36
+
+Choice of a husband, 69
+
+City life, effect of, on puberty, 29, 47
+
+Cleanliness, curative influence of, 378
+ importance of, to wives, 131
+
+Climate, effect of, on puberty, 27
+
+Clothing at puberty, 43
+ at confinement, 227
+ during pregnancy, 209
+ of new-born infants, 222
+ of young children, 300
+
+Cold, effect of, on infants, 300
+
+Color of infant, influence of mind of mother on, 182
+
+Completion of puberty, 32
+
+Complexion, 136
+ inheritance of, 125
+
+Conception, is it possible during pregnancy?, 192
+ nature of, 125
+ signs of, 128
+
+Confinement, bed for, 226
+ day of, how to calculate, 206
+ dress for, 227
+ hints for attendants at, 229
+ imprudence after, 240
+ preparations for, 219
+
+Constipation of pregnancy, 358
+
+Constitution, effect of the, on puberty, 21
+ on change of life, 398
+
+Consumption, 41, 71, 94, 148, 151
+
+Continence demanded from husbands, 121
+
+Cough of pregnancy, 359
+
+Count, how to make the, 206
+
+Country life, effect of, on puberty, 29
+
+Courtship, 65
+
+Cousins, shall they marry?, 69
+
+Crime of abortion, 122
+
+Croup, home treatment of, 325
+
+Culture of the skin, 306
+
+
+Dangers of puberty, 35
+
+Daughters, influenced by fathers, 144
+
+Deformities, are they hereditary?, 139
+
+Degeneracy, cause of, 349
+ of the human race, a query, 348
+
+Diet for infants, 274, 288
+ children, 292
+ the pregnant, 208
+
+Diarrhoea during pregnancy, 357
+ of infants, 339
+
+Directions for mothers who cannot nurse their own children, 267
+
+Dignity and propriety of the sexual instinct, 96
+
+Disease, communication of, 80
+
+Diseases, hereditary, 148
+ of children, home management of, 325
+ of wives and mothers, 352
+
+Distinction of the sexes, 18
+
+Divorce, unnatural and improper, 63
+
+Dress, attention to, during pregnancy, 209
+ for confinement, 227
+
+Dressing of the new-born child, 231
+
+Drying up of the milk, 258, 279
+
+Duration of labor, 239
+
+Dyspepsia of children, 342
+
+
+Ear, the hygiene of, in childhood, 323
+
+Education, influence of, over hereditary qualities, 147
+ of the child in the womb, 191
+ special senses in children, 318
+
+Emotion, influence of, on unborn child, 185
+
+Emotions, stimulation of, effects of, on puberty, 29
+
+Engagement, the, 85
+
+Engagements, long, 86
+
+Epilepsy, a cause of, 255
+
+Eruptions of childhood, how to prevent, 106
+
+Eternity of love, 60
+
+Exercise at puberty, 42
+ during pregnancy, 210
+ of children, 309
+
+Excessive child-bearing, 115
+
+Eyes, the education of, in childhood, 319
+
+
+Falling of the womb, 368
+
+False labor pains, 225
+
+Fathers, influence of, on daughters, 144
+
+Feeding of infants, manner of, 291
+
+Fertility, hereditary, 138
+ laws of, 109
+
+First application of child to breasts, 232
+ cares to the child newly born, 231
+ mother after childbirth, 230
+ labors, 51
+ seven years of life, 314
+
+Fits of children, home treatment of, 330
+
+Flat nipples, how to remedy, 245
+
+Food, during pregnancy, 207
+ of infants and children, 288
+ bill of fare for, 292
+
+Foreigners, should native women marry, 73
+
+Form, to preserve after confinement, 242
+
+Frigidity, 109
+
+
+Galen, anecdote of, 127
+
+Games and plays, advantages of, 314
+
+Gardner, Lord, the case of, 202
+
+Garters, danger of, during pregnancy, 355
+
+Gathered breasts, 382
+
+Goftr, story of, 166
+
+Government of children, hints on, 344
+
+Green sickness, 36
+
+Growth of children, 287
+
+
+Habits, dangers and advantages of, 316
+
+Hair, its significance, 84
+ transmission of, 137
+
+Hardening of infants, dangerous theories on the, 303
+
+Hearing, the training of, in children, 323
+
+Head colds of children, home treatment of, 329
+
+Health, care of, during pregnancy, 207
+ effect of pregnancy on, 216
+ in marriage, 351
+
+Hereditary diseases, 148
+ qualities influenced by education, 147
+
+Hermaphrodite, a true, 20
+
+Hindrances to nursing, 245
+
+Hints for attendants at confinement, 229
+
+Home government, hints on, 344
+ management of some common children's diseases, 325
+ treatment of female ailments, 377
+
+Husband, age of, 75
+ and wife, during pregnancy, 216
+ shall they occupy same room and bed, 93
+ character of, 79
+ how to choose, 69
+ retain the affections of, 130
+
+Husbands, plurality of, 64
+
+Hygiene of puberty, 41
+ the monthly periods, 45
+ pregnancy, 207
+ of infancy, 271
+ of the special senses, 318
+
+Hygienic habits, importance of teaching children, 316
+ treatment of inward weakness, 377
+
+Hysterics, 38
+
+
+Imagination of mother, influence of, on unborn child, 186
+
+Imprudence after childbirth, 240
+
+Indigestion of childhood, 342
+
+Indulgence and restraint of sexual desire, 99
+
+Infancy, care of, 271
+ deaths in, 272
+
+Infant, first clothing of, 222
+ washing of, 231
+ how to carry, 309
+ lift, 310
+ teach to walk, 313
+
+Infants' food, 288
+
+Inheritance, 132
+ how to avoid evil tendencies of, 151
+ how to have beautiful children, 140
+ influence of education over, 147
+ each parent over, 144
+ of beauty, 135
+ of diseases, 148
+ of longevity, 138
+ of mutilations, 149
+ of personal qualities, 139
+ of physical " , 136
+ of talent and genius, 141
+ of temperament, 137
+ late manifestations of, 151
+ the effects of, 151
+
+Injections, 379
+
+Injurious exercises for infants, 311
+
+Intemperance, of several kinds, 117
+
+Intermarriage of relatives, 69
+
+Inward weakness, 368
+
+Irregularities, causes of, 46
+
+Irrigations, 381
+
+
+Knowledge, safety in, 17
+
+
+Labor, cause of, 225
+ duration of, 239
+ dress during, 227
+ false and true, 225
+ how to calculate time of, 170
+ how to have, without pain, 236
+ mortality of, 237
+ signs of approaching, 223
+ symptoms of actual, 224
+
+Late manifestations of the effects of inheritance, 151
+
+Late marriages, offspring of, 388
+
+Length of pregnancy, 200
+
+Liebig's soup for infants, 289
+
+Lifting an infant, manner of, 310
+
+Light, necessity of, for children, 308
+
+Limitation of offspring, 115
+
+Long engagements, 86
+
+Longevity, hereditary, 138
+
+Longings in pregnancy, 186
+
+Love, at first sight, 67
+ differs from lust, 50
+ is a necessity, 57
+ is eternal, 60
+ its power on humanity, 52
+ what is it?, 54
+
+Looseness of bowels in children, 339
+ during pregnancy, 357
+
+Lying-in room, the management of, 226
+
+
+Maiden, the, 23
+
+Manner of feeding infants, 291
+
+Mania, puerperal, 362
+
+Marital relations, times to suspend, 103
+ when painful, 92, 104
+
+Marriage, age for, 50
+ health in, 351
+ time of month for, 87
+ year for, 87
+
+Marriages, second, 62
+
+Maternity, duties and privileges of, 243
+ perils of, 352
+
+Matrimony, necessity of, for happiness, 58
+
+Matron, the happy, 243
+
+Memory, visual, cultivation of, in childhood, 320
+
+Men, as wet-nurses, 260
+
+Menstruation explained, 24
+
+Mental impressions, effect of, on hysterics, 39
+ on unborn children, 180
+ troubles of girlhood, 47
+
+Milk, mother's, effect of anger on, 253
+ effect of retention in the breasts, 249
+ influence of diet on, 249
+ pregnancy on, 250
+ over-abundance of, 258
+ scantiness of, 259
+ quantity required by infant, 256
+ when poisonous, 252
+ value as food, 42
+
+Milk-leg, causes and treatment of, 367
+
+Mind, changes in, at puberty, 31
+ during pregnancy, 175, 214
+ influence of over conception, 126
+ nursing child, 251
+ unborn child, 182
+
+Miscarriage, 176
+ causes and dangers of, 178
+ frequency of, 176
+ influence of age of mother on, 177
+ prevention of, 179
+ symptoms of, 180
+
+Mixture of races by marriage, 71
+
+Month, right time of the, to marry, 87
+
+Monthly changes, precautions in the intervals of, 46
+ precautions during, 45
+ when delayed, 48
+ when painful, 49
+
+Moon, connection of monthly periods with, 32
+
+Morning sickness of pregnancy, 169, 353
+
+Mortality of childbed, 237
+ comparative, of the two sexes in early life, 154
+
+Mortality of infants, causes of, 271
+ relative to married life, 57
+
+Mother, the, 243
+ diseases of, 361
+ duties of, towards daughters at puberty, 44
+ influence of, over sons, 144
+ position in nursing, 225
+ who is unable to nurse her child, 267
+
+Mothers' marks, 180
+
+Music, influence of, 99
+
+Mutilations, are they inheritable?, 149
+
+
+Native women, shall they marry foreigners?, 73
+
+Near-sightedness, how to prevent, 322
+
+Neck, form of, 83
+ its significance, 84
+
+New-born babe, first cares for, 231
+ weight and length of, 238
+
+Night dress of children, 301
+ covering of children, 298
+ the wedding, 91
+
+Nipples, how to harden, 220
+
+Nose-bleed in childhood, 333
+
+Nubility, the age of, 50
+
+Nursing, 244
+ care of health during, 263
+ diseases of, 382
+ hindrances to, 245
+ position during, 225
+ prolonged, 262
+ rules for, 248
+ when improper, 245
+
+Nursing mother, qualities of good, 257
+
+
+Offspring, the limitation of, 115
+ influenced by the mind, 126
+
+Over-nursing, signs of, 265
+
+Overlaying of children, deaths from, 273
+
+Over-production, evils of, 115
+ remedies for, 121
+
+Ovulation, the meaning of, 24
+
+
+Painful monthly changes, causes and treatment, 49
+
+Pains of labor, true and false, 225
+
+Painless labors, how to have, 236
+
+Parr, Thomas, the long life of, 139
+
+Pendulous abdomen after confinement, how to escape, 242
+
+Perils of maternity, 352
+
+Persons of both sexes, and of neither sex, 20
+
+Perspiration, fetid, 131
+
+Phases, the three, of woman's life, 22
+
+Piles, during pregnancy, 356
+
+Plays, the, of children, advantages of, 314
+
+Plural births, 163
+
+Plurality of wives or husbands, 64
+
+Position of child while eating, 294
+ of child while sleeping, 299
+
+Position of mother while nursing, 255
+
+Precautions necessary at the time of the monthly changes, 45
+
+Precocity, remarkable instances of, 25
+
+Pregnancy, 167
+ bathing during, 212
+ care of health during, 207
+ causes of protracted, 205
+ can a woman again become pregnant during, 192
+ clothing during, 209
+ diseases of, 352
+ double, 192
+ effect of, on the health, 216
+ exercise during, 210
+ food during, 208
+ influence of, on the milk of nursing mother, 250
+ length of, 200
+ relation of husband and wife during, 216
+ signs and symptoms of, 168
+ sleep during, 213
+ ventilation of sleeping-room during, 212
+
+Premature marriages, 50
+
+Preparations for confinement, 219
+
+Prolific wives, 115
+
+Puerperal mania, 362
+
+
+Qualities transmitted by parents, 132
+
+Quantity of milk required by infant, 256
+
+Quickening, as a sign of pregnancy, 170
+ flatulence mistaken for, 172
+ how caused, 171
+ time of, 171
+
+
+Race, the human, is it degenerating?, 348
+
+Races, mixture of, 71
+
+Relation of husband and wife during pregnancy, 216
+ nursing, 264
+
+Relative age of man and wife, 76
+ proportion of men and women living, 153
+
+Religion, mistaken notions of, 57
+
+Rest, after delivery, 241
+ during pregnancy, 211
+
+Re-vaccination, 286
+
+Right time of the month to marry, 87
+ time of the year to marry, 87
+
+
+Schooling, the, of the first seven years of life, 316
+
+Scrofulous diseases, a cause of, 309
+
+Second marriages, 62
+
+Secret bad habits, 39
+
+Self-deceptions regarding pregnancy, 172
+
+Senses, training of the special, in childhood, 318
+
+Sex of child, how to predict before birth, 198
+
+Sexes, distinction of, 18
+ laws which determine the relative numbers of the, 155
+ persons of both and of neither, 20
+ production of, at will, 157
+
+Sexual desire, indulgence and restraint of, 99
+ moderation in, 100
+ instinct, dignity and propriety of, 96
+ false notions about, 97
+ desire, influence of on offspring, 98
+
+Sexuality, what it implies, 18
+
+Sickness, morning, during pregnancy, 353
+ during labor, 225
+
+Signs of approaching labor, 223
+ puberty, 30
+ conception, 128
+ over-nursing, 265
+ pregnancy, 168
+
+Sight, the training of, in childhood, 319
+
+Single life, the, 386
+ in its relation to sanity and mortality, 57
+
+Skin, changes in, during pregnancy, 174
+ culture, of, in infancy, 306
+
+Sleep, amount required in early life, 295
+ at puberty, 42
+ during pregnancy, 213
+ position in, 299
+
+Sleeplessness during pregnancy, 360
+
+Small pox, death rate from, 283
+ the only preventive against, 284
+
+Son or daughter?, 198
+
+Sore nipples, 246
+
+Soup, Liebig's, 289
+
+Sphere of woman, 21
+
+Spinal disease, 36
+
+Spring-time, 101
+
+Spurious labor pains, 225
+
+Stages of labor, 123
+
+Starvation of girls, 41
+
+Sterility, 106
+ how to remedy, 113
+
+Still-births, 240
+
+Stilling Jung, anecdote of, 67
+
+Stimulation of the emotions, dangers of, at puberty, 29
+
+St. Pierre, anecdote of, 78
+
+Sully Raymond, anecdote of, 401
+
+Swimming, benefit of, 306
+
+Symbolism of the human body, 83
+
+Syringes, and how to use them, 379
+
+
+Talent, hereditary, 141
+
+Teething, period of, 279
+
+Temperament, transmission of, 137
+
+Temperaments, explained, 77
+ influence of, 101
+ in marriage, 77
+
+Things wanted during confinement, 221
+
+Tight-lacing, 43, 374
+
+Time of expected labor, how to calculate it, 206
+ of the year to marry, 87
+ of the month to marry, 87
+
+Times when marital relations should be suspended, 103
+
+Toilet, innocent arts of, 132
+
+Tour, the wedding, 87
+
+Toys, a mean of infantile education, 315
+
+Twins, how to predict, 199
+ why born, 161
+
+Twin-bearing, 160
+ influence of, on size of families, 163
+
+Thury, Prof., discovery of, 157
+
+
+Unborn child, education of, 191
+
+
+Vaccination, age for, 285
+ importance of, 282
+
+Varicose veins of pregnancy, 355
+
+Ventilation of sleeping rooms during pregnancy, 212
+
+Virgins, wet-nursing by, 260
+
+Voice, change in, at puberty, 30
+
+
+Wakefulness of pregnancy, 360
+
+Walk, how to teach a child to, 313
+
+Washing of the new-born infant, 231
+
+Weakness, inward, 368
+
+Weaning, 277
+
+Wedding tour, the, 87
+ night, the, 91
+
+Weight and length of new-born children, 238
+
+Wet-nurse, how to select, 269
+
+Wet-nursing by virgins and men, 260
+
+White-flowing, 365
+
+Wives famous in history, 59
+ plurality of, 64
+
+Woman, the three phases in the life of, 22
+ physical differences from man, 19
+ sphere of, 21
+ to be sought, 65
+
+Womb, falling of, 368
+
+Worms of children, home treatment of, 335
+
+Women, diseases peculiar to, 352
+ treatment of, 377
+ why redundant, 153
+
+
+Young wives, 50
+ mothers, 51
+
+Year, right time of, to marry, 87
+
+
+Zurich, curious custom in, 93
+
+
+
+
+TESTIMONIALS
+
+OF
+
+EMINENT MEN AND OF THE PRESS
+
+TO THE
+
+PHYSICAL LIFE OF WOMAN
+
+AND ITS AUTHOR.
+
+
+Of the _very numerous_ testimonials in our hands we select those of
+earlier date in preference, as showing the acumen of the writers and the
+warmth with which they welcomed the book.
+
+
+FROM WILLIAM A. HAMMOND, M.D.,
+
+Late Surgeon-General of U. S. Army; Professor of Diseases of the Mind
+and Nervous System and of Clinical Medicine in the Bellevue Hospital
+Medical College, New York.
+
+
+NEW YORK, Aug. '69.
+
+DR. NAPHEYS--
+
+_Dear Sir_: I have read with much interest and satisfaction your very
+admirable book on "The Physical Life of Woman." I am glad that the
+subject has been taken up by one who shows himself so thoroughly
+qualified for the task, and I trust the instruction and advice contained
+in the volume will reach every woman in the land.
+
+Yours, sincerely,
+
+WILLIAM A. HAMMOND.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM REV. HENRY WARD BEECHER.
+
+BROOKLYN, N. Y., Sept. 1869.
+
+DR. GEO. H. NAPHEYS--
+
+_Dear Sir_: I have examined your volume: "The Physical Life of Woman,"
+and desire to thank you for performing a work so long needed, so
+difficult to perform, and now, at length, so well done by you. Every
+mother should have this book, nor should she suffer a child to be
+married without the knowledge which this work contains. Thousands have
+dragged through miserable lives and many have perished for want of such
+knowledge. It is to be hoped, too, now that these delicate topics have
+been so modestly and plainly treated, that your work will supersede the
+scores of ill-considered and often mischievous treatises addressed "to
+the married," which too often serve the lusts of men under the pretence
+of virtue.
+
+HENRY WARD BEECHER.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM REV. HORACE BUSHNELL, D.D.
+
+HARTFORD, CONN., Sept. 1869.
+
+GEO. H. NAPHEYS, M.D.--
+
+_Dear Sir_: I have read a large part of your book with interest. I
+shrink from expressing any estimate of it as respects its physiological
+merit, but it seems to be a book well studied, and it is written with
+much delicacy and a careful respect, at all points, to the great
+interests of morality. It will certainly be a great help to intelligence
+on the subject, and ought, therefore, to be correspondingly useful.
+
+Very respectfully yours,
+
+HORACE BUSHNELL.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM HARVEY L. BYRD, M.D.,
+
+Professor of Obstetrics in the Medical Department of Washington
+University of Baltimore, Maryland.
+
+BALTIMORE, Sept. 1869.
+
+DR. GEO. H. NAPHEYS, Philadelphia--
+
+_Dear Sir_: I have examined with much pleasure and satisfaction your
+work on "The Physical Life of Woman," and do not hesitate to commend it
+most warmly to our countrywomen, for whose benefit it is intended. I
+congratulate you on the felicitous manner in which you have treated so
+difficult a subject, and would recommend it to the public as supplying a
+want that has long been felt in this country.
+
+_Omne verum utile dictu_, and what can be more proper or more useful
+than that woman should be made acquainted with the great laws of her
+being and the duties for which she was created?
+
+Very respectfully, your obed't servant,
+
+HARVEY L. BYRD.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+EXTRACT FROM LETTER RECEIVED FROM EDWIN M. SNOW, M.D., OF PROVIDENCE,
+RHODE ISLAND.
+
+PROVIDENCE, Sept. 1869.
+
+DR. NAPHEYS--
+
+_Dear Sir_: I have examined with much interest the advance sheets of
+your book, "The Physical Life of Woman:" I am highly pleased with it.
+The advice given seems to me to be generally correct, and judiciously
+expressed; and, in my opinion, the wide circulation of the book would be
+a benefit to the community,
+
+Truly yours,
+
+EDWIN M. SNOW.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM REV. GEORGE ALEX. CROOKE, D.D., D.C.L.
+
+PHILADELPHIA, Sept. 1869.
+DR. GEO. H. NAPHEYS--
+
+_Dear Sir_: I have carefully read your work entitled "The Physical Life
+of Woman," and, as the result, I must candidly say that I believe the
+information it contains is well calculated to lessen suffering and
+greatly benefit the human race. I know there are some falsely fastidious
+persons who would object to any work of the kind, but "to the pure all
+things are pure." You have done your part fearlessly and well, and in a
+popular manner, and I trust that your work may be productive of all the
+good you design by its publication.
+
+Very faithfully,
+GEO. ALEX. CROOKE.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+OPINION OF LLOYD P. SMITH, Esq.
+
+Librarian Philadelphia Library.
+
+LIBRARY CO. OF PHILADELPHIA, FIFTH ST. BEL. CHESTNUT, PHILADELPHIA,
+Sept. 1869.
+
+It is an open question whether books de _secretis mulierum_ should be
+written for the general public; but there is no doubt that, when they
+are written, it should be done by the regular faculty, and not by
+ignorant quacks. Dr. Napheys' "Physical Life of Woman" shows not only
+the scientific attainments of the author, but also a wide range of
+miscellaneous reading. The delicate subjects treated of are handled with
+a seriousness and earnestness becoming their importance, and the
+author's views are expressed in excellent English.
+
+LLOYD P. SMITH.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+OPINION OF S. W. BUTLER, M.D.
+
+Editor of the Philadelphia "Medical and Surgical Reporter."
+
+I have carefully examined "The Physical Life of Woman," and find it a
+work at once thoroughly representing modern science, and eminently
+adapted for family instruction. It is well suited to female readers, to
+whom it is especially addressed both in the matter it contains and in
+the delicacy with which points relating to their physiological life are
+mentioned.
+
+S. W. BUTLER.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+EXTRACT FROM LETTER RECEIVED FROM JOHN H. GRISCOM, M.D.
+
+NEW YORK, Sept. 1869.
+DR NAPHEYS--
+
+_My Dear Sir_: The "Physical Life of Woman" is a very scientific and
+intellectually written work, and contains almost all the physiological
+and sanitary facts and directions needed for the preservation of the
+health and longevity of the maiden, wife, and mother. It must prove
+attractive and useful for any lady who reads it.
+
+Your sincere friend,
+JOHN H. GRISCOM.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM THE NATIONAL BAPTIST, PHILA., DEC. 30, 1869
+
+We join in the cordial welcome which this book has received. There is no
+other work which tells so well just what every woman--and every
+considerate man also--ought to know. Maternity is the one great function
+of woman, according to God's ordinance, and for this marvelous and holy
+mission her physical, intellectual, and moral constitution has been
+designed. Dr. Napheys, in his wise "Advice to maiden, wife, and mother,"
+passes in review the cardinal facts respecting woman's physical life.
+The book is written in a very clear and simple style, so that no one can
+misunderstand it, while there is nothing to disturb or offend the most
+sensitive. A judicious mother would do her maturing daughters great
+service by first carefully reading this volume herself, and then have
+them read it under her guidance.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+OPINION OF MRS. R. B. GLEASON, M.D.
+
+ELMIRA, N. Y., Sept. 1869.
+
+The advance sheets of "The Physical Life of Woman" have been read with
+much interest. In this book Dr. Napheys has well met a real need of the
+age. There are many things incident to woman's physical organization
+which she needs to know, and concerning which she still does not want to
+ask a physician, and may not have one at hand when she most desires the
+information. This book can be easily read and perfectly understood by
+those not familiar with medical terms. All matters of delicacy are
+treated with freedom, and still with a purity of thought and expression
+which is above criticism.
+
+For many years we have been often asked for just such a book, and shall
+gladly commend it to the many wives and mothers who want for themselves
+and grown-up daughters such a book of helps and hints for home life.
+
+MRS. R. B. GLEASON.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM PROFESSOR JOHN S. HART, LL.D.
+
+STATE NORMAL SCHOOL, TRENTON, N. J.
+GEO. H. NAPHEYS, M.D.--
+
+_Dear Sir_: I have read with attention the advance sheets of your book,
+"The Physical Life of Woman:" and take pleasure in saying that you have
+handled a most difficult and important subject with equal delicacy and
+ability.
+
+Yours truly,
+JOHN S. HART.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+OPINION OF MARK HOPKINS, D.D., LL.D.,
+
+President of Williams College.
+
+"Your book is conscientiously written, and will be likely to do good."
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM THE N. Y. EVANGELIST, NOV. 18, 1869.
+
+This is a plain and practical treatise, prepared by a physician of skill
+and experience, in which he aims to furnish information to women, in
+their peculiar conditions and relations, married and single, so as to
+enable them to preserve their own health, and perform their duties to
+themselves and their children. The most delicate subjects are treated in
+language so chaste as not to offend any pure mind.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+OPINION OF DR. R. SHELTON MACKENZIE.
+
+PHILADELPHIA, Oct. 1869.
+
+"Believing that such a work as Dr. Napheys' 'Physical Life of Woman,'
+giving a great deal of valuable information, explicitly and delicately,
+is likely to be of very essential importance to the fair sex, I cannot
+hesitate to express my favorable opinion of its object and execution."
+
+ * * * * *
+
+LETTER RECEIVED FROM REV. GEO. BRINGHURST,
+
+Rector of the P. E. Church of the "Messiah," Philadelphia.
+
+PHILADELPHIA, Sept. 1869.
+DR. GEO. H. NAPHEYS--
+
+_My Dear Sir_: I have perused with considerable care and pleasure the
+work on the "Physical Life of Woman," and feel no hesitation in
+pronouncing it admirably composed, honest, succinct, refined, and worthy
+of the companionship of every lady of this age. I hail its appearance
+with gratitude, and look upon it as a valuable contribution to those
+efforts which are making in various directions to elevate the tone of
+morals of the nineteenth century, and to enable mothers to discharge
+faithfully the duties they owe their children.
+
+Sincerely yours,
+GEORGE BRINGHURST.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM H. N. EASTMAN, M.D.,
+
+Professor of Practical Medicine in Geneva Medical College.
+
+GENEVA, Sept. 1869.
+GEO. H. NAPHEYS, M.D.--
+
+_Dear Sir_: I have just completed a careful reading of your advance
+sheets of "The Physical Life of Woman," and I unhesitatingly pronounce
+it an admirable work, and one especially needed at this time. The book
+is written in a chaste, elevated, and vigorous style, is replete with
+instruction indispensable to the welfare and happiness of woman, and
+should be placed in the hands of every mature maiden and matron in our
+land.
+
+H. N. EASTMAN.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+EDITORIAL FROM PHILADELPHIA MEDICAL AND SURGICAL REPORTER.
+
+It is a singular fact, that in this country, most of the works on
+medical and hygienic matters have been written by irregular
+practitioners in order to help on its legs some ism or pathy of their
+own. The public is really desirous of information about the great
+questions of life and health. It buys whatever is offered it, and cannot
+tell of course the tares from the wheat. In fact, as we have said, there
+has been very little wheat offered it. Scientific physicians do not seem
+to have taken the pains in this country, as in Germany, to expand sound
+medical information among the people.
+
+We therefore welcome all the more warmly a work which, under any
+circumstances, would command our praise, advance sheets of which are now
+before us. The author is Dr. George H. Napheys, of this city, well
+known to all the readers of the "Reporter" as a constant contributor to
+its pages for a number of years, a close student of therapeutics, and a
+pleasing writer. The title of the book is "The Physical Life of Woman:
+advice to the Maiden, Wife, and Mother." It is a complete manual of
+information for women, in their peculiar conditions and relations,
+married and single.
+
+The style is simple, agreeable, and eminently proper and delicate,
+conspicuously so when treating of such difficult topics to handle in a
+popular book, yet so necessary to be handled, as the marital relations
+of husband and wife, the consummation of marriage, etc.
+
+We do not doubt that this work will find as large a sale both in and out
+of the profession in this country, as the works of Bock and Klencke in
+Germany, and of Tilt and Chavasse in England.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM THE NASHVILLE JOURNAL OF MEDICINE AND SURGERY FOR NOVEMBER, 1869.
+
+The outside of this book is more stylish and artistic than any the
+market has owed to the press this season. The type and paper of the
+inside are in keeping with the elegant exterior. The work contains much
+valuable matter, in a style peculiarly attractive. It is intended to
+treat woman as a rational being, to let her know much about herself as a
+woman, that from this knowledge she may prevent and therefore escape
+much of the suffering endured by her sex.
+
+And who can do this but a physician? This may be regarded as the first
+attempt of the kind in this country.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM THE MEDICAL RECORD, NEW YORK, JAN. 15, 1870.
+
+Doctor Napheys, in his work on "The Physical Life of Woman," has
+acquitted himself with infinite credit. The subject, which for a work of
+its size takes a very wide range, is treated in choice, nay elegant
+language, and we have not noticed a single expression upon the most
+delicate matter that could offend the most refined taste. There are,
+too, a great many interesting historical facts connected with the
+general topic, both in an ethical and physiological point of view, which
+show much discrimination in their production, and a good amount of
+sterling scholarship. To the medical reader there are many points in the
+book that are worthy of attention, prominent among which are remarks
+bearing upon the right of limitation of offspring. We sincerely hope
+that, for the real benefit of American women, it may meet with a hearty
+reception, and be productive of great good, in preventing many of those
+disorders now so rife in the community, which are solely the result of
+ignorance of the ordinary laws of female hygiene.
+
+No one, however scrupulous, need fear to admit the work within the pale
+of his family circle, and place it, with confidence, in the hands of his
+daughters.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM THE NEW YORK MEDICAL GAZETTE, JAN. 8, 1870.
+
+Though professedly written for popular instruction, this little book
+will not fail to instruct as well the professional reader. We cordially
+recommend the perusal of Dr. Napheys' book to every woman seeking a
+fuller acquaintance with her physical organism.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM THE BOSTON MEDICAL AND SURGICAL JOURNAL, NOV. 25, 1869.
+
+Most valuable for the perusal of mothers, and of those fathers who may
+be equal to the task of advising sons liable to commit matrimony. The
+style--of the text--is unexceptionable. Words are not wasted, and those
+used are to the point. The volume is not a mere _resume_ of others'
+opinions; but the author has made the topics of which he treats his own.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM THE CHICAGO MEDICAL EXAMINER OF NOV. 1869.
+
+This work is written in a plain and pleasing style, well calculated both
+to please and instruct. There is nothing of the _sensational_ or
+imaginative character in it. On the contrary, its teachings are in
+strict accordance with scientific facts and good sense. Though designed
+specially for females, yet a careful perusal would be productive of much
+benefit to both sexes.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM THE METHODIST HOME JOURNAL, DEC. 4, 1860.
+
+Hitherto, the subjects so honestly and so skilfully treated in this
+volume have, to a very great extent, been ruled out of the realm of
+popular knowledge, and information of this class sought only in a
+clandestine manner. The people have suffered by deplorable ignorance on
+those topics, which should be as familiar to us as the alphabet. Dr.
+Napheys, by his scientific handling of the physiological points which
+relate to health, training, and development, has rendered a great
+service to the world. This, the press, and public men, have not been
+slow to acknowledge. The book has gained unqualified praise, and well
+deserves it.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM THE PRESBYTERIAN, OF PHILADELPHIA, DEC. 4, '69.
+
+A book which treats wisely and delicately of very important subjects,
+and subjects which ought to be treated by competent hands, instead of
+being left to quacks and the venders of nostrums. Dr. Napheys is
+evidently a conscientious and intelligent physician, and his counsels
+are such as may be put in the hands of all persons needing such
+counsels. We commend it for its judicious exposition of the laws of
+nature.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM THE NEW YORK CHRISTIAN UNION, JAN. 8, 1870.
+
+Society owes a debt of gratitude to this brave and scientific physician
+for the unexceptionable way in which he has performed a work that has,
+up to the publication of this book, been a paramount need, not to be
+satisfied anywhere in the English language. If the volume contained only
+the chapter on the influence of the mother's mind upon her unborn child,
+we would recommend its purchase by every family in the United States.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM THE PHILA. EVENING TELEGRAPH, OCT. 6, 1869.
+
+This is a work by a physician of reputation on the hygiene of woman,
+designed for popular use, and introducing a variety of topics not
+generally discussed outside of regular scientific medical works. Dr.
+Napheys writes with dignity and earnestness, and there is not a chapter
+in his book that may not be read by persons of both sexes. Of course
+such a work as this is intended for men and women of mature years, and
+it is not suitable to be left lying about for the gratification of idle
+curiosity. The author has been careful to write nothing that can
+possibly give offence, and he conveys much sound instruction that, if
+heeded by those to whom it is particularly addressed, will save much
+suffering.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM THE INDEPENDENT, NEW YORK, NOV. 11, 1869.
+
+It required a brave but sensitively pure man to provide for the want
+which existed for some reliable medical instruction upon points which
+every woman and every married man ought to know, and few do. Dr. Napheys
+we do not know personally. But his book is at once brave and pure. It is
+written in such a spirit that she who really desires to learn the truths
+of which she cannot with justice to herself or others be ignorant, may
+do so without being shocked; while he who hopes to stimulate a vicious
+imagination by its perusal will turn from its pages disappointed away.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM REV. HENRY CLAY TRUMBULL,
+
+Secretary of New England Department of Missions of the American
+Sunday-school Union.
+
+HARTFORD, CT., Oct. 1869.
+
+GEO. H. NAPHEYS, M.D.--
+
+_My Dear Sir_: Understanding, from my long acquaintance with you, your
+thoroughness of mental culture, your delicacy of sentiment, and your
+sound good sense, I was prepared to approve heartily the tone and style
+of your new work, "The Physical Life of Woman," when its advance sheets
+were first placed in my hands.
+
+A close examination of it convinces me that it is a book which can be
+read by every woman to her instruction and advantage. Its manner is
+unexceptionable. Its style is remarkably simple. Its substance evidences
+your professional knowledge and your extensive study. I believe it needs
+only to be brought to notice to commend itself widely. I think you have
+done an excellent work in its preparation.
+
+Sincerely your friend,
+
+H. CLAY TRUMBULL.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+FROM THE REV. W. H. H. MURRAY,
+
+Pastor of the Park Street Church, Boston, Mass.
+
+DEC. 2, 1871.
+
+It is with sincere gratitude to the author that I give my endorsement to
+the book entitled "The Physical Life of Woman." Never was such a work
+more needed anywhere, or in any age, than it is in America at this time.
+I should rejoice at its introduction among the people until every wife
+and mother in the country and the world had a copy in her possession. In
+it the author has indeed given needed instruction and warning. He
+deserves the thanks of every Christian and well-wisher of the race.
+
+W. H. H. MURRAY.
+
+
+
+
+
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