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+Project Gutenberg's A Girl's Student Days and After, by Jeannette Marks
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+Title: A Girl's Student Days and After
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+Author: Jeannette Marks
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+A Girl's Student Days and After
+
+By
+
+JEANNETTE MARKS, M. A.
+
+(_Wellesley_)
+
+_With an Introduction by_
+_MARY EMMA WOOLLEY, LL. D._
+_President of Mt. Holyoke College_
+
+_New York Chicago Toronto_
+_Fleming H. Revell Company_
+_London and Edinburgh_
+
+Copyright, 1911, by
+FLEMING H. REVELL COMPANY
+
+New York: 158 Fifth Avenue
+Chicago: 125 North Wabash Ave.
+Toronto: 25 Richmond Street, W.
+London: 21 Paternoster Square
+Edinburgh: 100 Princes Street
+
+_Inscribed
+to
+MARY EMMA WOOLLEY, LL. D._
+
+
+
+
+_Introduction_
+
+
+The school and college girl is an important factor in our life to-day.
+Around her revolve all manner of educational schemes, to her are open
+all kinds of educational opportunities. There was never an age in which
+so much thought was expended upon her, or so much interest felt in her
+development.
+
+There are many articles written and many speeches delivered on the
+responsibility of parents and teachers--it may not be amiss occasionally
+to turn the shield and show that some of the responsibility rests upon
+the girl herself. After all, she is the determining factor, for
+buildings and equipment, courses and teachers accomplish little without
+her coöperation.
+
+It is difficult for the "new girl," whether in school or college, to
+realize the extent to which the success of her school life depends upon
+herself. In a new environment, surrounded by what seem to her
+"multitudes" of new faces, obliged to meet larger demands under strange
+and untried conditions, she is quite likely to go to the other extreme
+and exaggerate her own insignificance. Sometimes she is fortunate enough
+to have an older sister or friend to help her steer her bark through
+these untried waters, but generally she must find her own bearings.
+
+To such a girl, the wise hints in the chapters which follow this
+introduction are invaluable, giving an insight into the meaning of
+fair-play in the classroom as well as on the athletic field; the
+relation between physical well-being and academic success; the
+difference between the social life that is _re_-creative and that which
+is "_nerves_-creative"; the significance of loyalty to the school and to
+the home; the way in which school days determine to a large degree the
+days that come after. These, and many other suggestions, wise and
+forceful, I commend not only to the new girl, but also to the "old
+girl" who would make her school and college days count for more both
+while they last and as preparation for the work that is to follow.
+
+ MARY E. WOOLLEY.
+
+ _Mt. Holyoke College_,
+ _South Hadley, Massachusetts._
+
+
+
+
+_CONTENTS_
+
+
+A WORD TO THE WISE 13
+
+I. THE IDEAL FRESHMAN 17
+
+II. THE GIRL AND THE SCHOOL 25
+
+III. FRIENDSHIPS 33
+
+IV. THE STUDENT'S ROOM 41
+
+V. THE TOOLS OF STUDY AND THEIR USE 54
+
+VI. THE JOY OF WORK 61
+
+VII. FAIR-PLAY 70
+
+VIII. THE RIGHT SORT OF LEISURE 78
+
+IX. THE OUTDOOR RUNWAY 88
+
+X. A GIRL'S SUMMER 99
+
+XI. FROM THE SCHOOL TO THE GIRL 107
+
+XII. THE WORK TO BE 115
+
+
+
+
+_A Word to the Wise_
+
+
+We train for basket-ball, golf, tennis or for whatever sport we have the
+most liking. Is there any reason why we should not use the same
+intelligence in the approach to our general school life? Is there any
+reason why we should make an obstacle race, however good and amusing
+exercise that may be, out of _all_ our school life? We don't expect to
+win a game with a sprained wrist or ankle, and there really is no reason
+why we should plan to sprain the back of school or college life by
+avoidable mistakes.
+
+The writer believes in the girl who has the capacity for making
+mistakes,--that headlong, energetic spirit which blunders all too
+easily. But the writer knows how much those mistakes hurt and how much
+energy might be saved for a life that, with just a pinch less of
+blunder, might be none the less savoury. School and college are no place
+for vocal soloists, and after some of us have sung so sweetly and so
+long at home, with every one saying, "Just hear Mary sing, isn't it
+wonderful!" it is rather trying, you know, to go to a place where vocal
+solos are not popular. And we wish some one--at least I did--had told us
+all about this fact as well as other facts of school life. Anyway it
+should be a comfort to have a book lying on the table in our school or
+college room, or at home, which will tell us why Mary, after having been
+a famous soloist at home made a failure or a great success in chorus
+work at school. Such a book is something like having a loaded gun in
+readiness for the robber. We may never use the shotgun or the book but
+they are there, with the reassuring sense of shot in the locker.
+
+It is something, is it not, to have a little book which will tell you
+how to get into school and how to get out (for at times there seem to be
+difficulties in both these directions)--in short, to tell you something
+of many things: your first year at school or college, your part in the
+school life, the friendships you will make, your study and how to work
+in it, the pleasure and right kind of spirit involved in work, the quiet
+times, as well as the jolly times, out-of-doors, your summers and how to
+spend them, what the school has tried to do for you; and, as you go out
+into the world, some of the aspects, whether you are to be wife,
+secretary or teacher, of the work which you will do. Of one thing you
+may be certain; that behind every sentence of this little book is
+experience, that here are only those opinions of which experience has
+made a good, wholesome zwieback.
+
+I wish to take this opportunity to thank my friend, Mrs. Belle Kellogg
+Towne, editor of _The Girls' Companion_ and _Young People's Weekly_,
+Chicago, for her coöperation in allowing me to use half the material in
+this little book; also Dr. C. R. Blackall, of Philadelphia.
+
+_Camp Runway._ J. M.
+
+
+
+
+I
+
+THE IDEAL FRESHMAN
+
+
+Freshman year, the beginning year, the year of new experiences, new
+delights, new work, new friends, new surroundings; the year that may
+mean much to a girl, that may answer some of the questions that have
+lain long in heart and mind, that will surely reveal her more clearly to
+herself, that may make her understand others better and help her to
+guess something of the riddle of the years to come!
+
+What has the student done to get ready for this year? If she were going
+camping she would know that certain things were necessary to make the
+expedition a success. With what excitement and pleasure, what thoughts
+of jolly camp-fires, deep, sweet-smelling forests, and long days afoot,
+she would prepare everything. She would not let any one else do this for
+her, for that would mean losing too much of the fun. But the _freshman
+year_, what about the thinking and planning for that, also an expedition
+into a new world, and a veritable adventure of a vast deal more
+importance than a few days or weeks of camping? Would she enter forests
+upon whose trees the camp-fires throw many shadows, follow the stream
+that cleaves its way through the woods, go along the runway of deer or
+caribou or moose, with a mind to all intents and purposes a blank? No,
+her mind would be vivid with thoughts and interests.
+
+With the same keen attention should she enter the new year at school or
+college, and as she passes through it, thinking about all that comes to
+her, she will find it growing less and less difficult and more and more
+friendly. She will consider what the freshman year is to be like, think
+of what sorts of girls she is to meet and make friends with, what the
+work will be, what she may expect in good times from this new adventure,
+and, thoughtful about it all, make the minimum of mistakes and get the
+maximum of benefit.
+
+Here come some of the girls who are entering school and college with
+her--bright-haired, dark-haired, rosy or pale, tall and thin, fat and
+short, clever and average, desirable and undesirable,--in fact, all
+sorts and conditions of girls. Who is to be the leader of them all? She
+is the _ideal freshman_, a nice, well-set-up girl who does not think too
+much of herself, who is not self-conscious, and who does not forget for
+what she is sent to school. Despite the temptations of school life she
+uses her days wisely and well. She does not isolate herself, for she
+sees the plan and value of the recreative side of school-days. She is
+already laying the foundations for a successful, useful, normal
+existence, establishing confidence at the outset and not handicapping
+herself through her whole course by making people lose their faith in
+her. Our _ideal freshman_ may be the girl who is to do distinguished
+work; she may be the student who does her best; and because it is her
+best, the work, though not brilliant, is distinguished by virtue of her
+effort. She may be the girl who is to make a happy home life through her
+poise and earnestness and common sense. Whoever she is, in any event in
+learning to do her best she is winning nine-tenths of the battle of a
+successful career. It is she, attractive, able, earnest, with the
+"fair-play" or team-play spirit in all she does, true to herself and to
+others, whom every school wants, whose unconscious influence is so great
+in building up the morale of any school. Mark this girl and follow her,
+for she is worthy of your hero worship.
+
+This is the girl who goes into school in much the same spirit that she
+would enter upon a larger life. She is not a prig and she is not a dig,
+but she knows there are responsibilities to be met and she meets them.
+She expects to have to think about the new conditions in which she finds
+herself and to adjust herself to them, and she does it. She knows the
+meaning of the team-play spirit and she takes her place quietly on the
+team, one among many, and both works and plays with respect for the
+rights and positions of others. It is in the temper of the words
+sometimes stamped upon the coins of our country--_E Pluribus Unum_--that
+she makes a success of her school life. She knows that not only is our
+country bigger than any one of its states, but also that every school is
+bigger than any one of its members whether teacher or student. In a
+small family at home conditions have been more or less made for her,
+just as they are for other girls. Yet she knows that the school life is
+complicated and complex, and it is impossible for her to feel neglected
+where a more self-centred or spoiled girl fails to see that in this new
+life she is called upon to play a minor part but nevertheless a part
+upon which the school must rely for its _esprit de corps_. She goes with
+ease from the somewhat unmethodical life of the home to the highly
+organized routine of the school because she understands the meaning of
+the word "team-play." She has the coöperative spirit.
+
+Yet there are other girls, too, in this school which the freshman is
+entering. There is the student who errs on the side of leading too
+workaday a life, and in so doing has lost something of the buoyancy and
+breadth and "snap" which would make her associations and her work
+fresher and more vigorous. "The Grind," she has been called, and if she
+recognize herself in this sketch, let her take care to reach out for a
+bigger and fuller life than she is leading. And there is, too, the
+selfish student whose "class-spirit" is self-spirit; and the girl who is
+not selfish but who uses herself up in too many interests, dramatic,
+athletic, society, philanthropic and in a dozen others. She is probably
+over-conscientious, a good girl in every way, but in doing too much she
+loses sight of the real aim of her school life. To these must be added
+another student,--the freshman who skims the surface, and is, when she
+gets out, where she was when she entered--no, not quite so far along,
+for she has slipped back. She is selfish, relying upon the patience and
+burden-bearing capacity of her father and mother, as well as the school.
+
+No doubt every girl would meet her obligations squarely if she realized
+what was the underlying significance of the freshman year; the school
+life would surely be approached with a conscientious purpose. What a
+girl gets in school will much depend upon what she has to give. No girl
+is there simply to have a good time or merely to learn things out of
+books. Nor is she there to fill in the interim between childhood and
+young womanhood, when one will go into society, another marry, and a
+third take up some wage-earning career. No, she is there to carry life
+forward in the deepest, truest sense; and the longer she can have to get
+an education and to make the best of the opportunities of school and
+college life, the richer and fuller her after-years will be. Both middle
+life and old age will be deeper and stronger. Let us think about these
+girls, let us think about what it means to be a freshman, and so lessen
+our difficulties and increase our pleasures; let us have a big
+conception,--a large ideal always at heart--of what the _first year_
+should be, and beginning well we shall be the more likely to end well.
+
+
+
+
+II
+
+THE GIRL AND THE SCHOOL
+
+
+Inside school or college the girl is in several ways responsible for the
+atmosphere. Merely in her conversation she can be of service or
+dis-service. It may be simply a good joke which she is telling, but if
+the joke misrepresents the school she will, perhaps, do lasting harm. If
+she is hypercritical--and there is nothing so contagious as
+criticism--she influences people in the direction of her thought; she
+sets a current of criticism in motion. A student frequently gives vent
+to an opinion that is only half-baked--it is well, by the way, to make
+zwieback of all our opinions before we pass them around as edible--about
+courses and instructors. She does not realize that some opinions to be
+worth anything must be the result of a long process of baking, that a
+nibble from the corner of a four months' or nine months' course will
+not, however understandingly it may be Fletcherized, tell you whether
+the course is going to be fruit cake, meringue or common soda crackers.
+She may think that she herself is so unimportant that what she says
+can't matter, or she may not mean what she says and be merely letting
+off steam. Nevertheless her influence is exerted. Some one showed an old
+lady, who had never been known to say anything in the least critical of
+any human being, the picture of a very fat man prominent in public life.
+She looked at it a moment, and then said sweetly: "My, isn't he plump!"
+If only there were more old and young ladies like that dear soul!
+
+There is another kind of conversation which may not be ill-natured and
+yet does harm. Idle gossiping, talking about things that are not worth
+while or speculating about affairs which are not our business and of
+which we know little or nothing. Akin to this is fashionably slangy
+conversation concerning the latest thing in books, magazine articles,
+trivial plays. For even the "tone" of school or college conversation a
+student is responsible. She can make her school seem cheap or
+cultivated. The remarks which visitors overhear as they go from room to
+room or from building to building are likely to indicate the "tone" of
+an institution. A catalogue may say all it pleases about a school but in
+the end the school is judged by the women it educates and sends out,
+even as a tree is known by its fruit. Cultivated, strong women are worth
+more in advertisement than all the printed material in the world,
+however laudatory.
+
+When a girl has received everything her Alma Mater has to give, she has
+no right to be untrue to its fundamental aims and ideals, or to
+misrepresent it in any way, either by what she says or by her own
+behaviour. Every student in a large institution is in a sense a
+pensioner. No student can pay for what is given to her. Is it not a poor
+return for her to be reflecting dishonour rather than honour upon her
+school?
+
+There is a certain social selfishness in the way some students take
+their opportunities for granted without realizing that there are
+thousands and hundreds of thousands of girls who would give all that
+they possess for a tithe of such riches. Also, because of the sacrifice
+which is being made for them at home girls are selfish in taking their
+school or college life carelessly. The school has to bear much of the
+responsibility for the individual failure. But of this the student who
+is failing rarely thinks. Parents hold an institution to blame if it
+does not do for their child what they expect it to do, when it may be
+the girl who is at fault.
+
+In the use she makes of her portion of inheritance, in the gift the
+school bestows on the student, there is a large social question
+involved. The school gives her of its wealth, the result of the
+accumulation of years and of the civic or philanthropic spirit of many
+men and women. This, if the girl's sense of responsibility is what it
+should be, she feels bound to increase and hand on. It is the old
+_noblesse oblige_ under new conditions of privilege.
+
+While she is still in school the girl discharges part of this obligation
+by realizing what is best for her school as an institution. A college or
+a big school is no place for vocal soloists. Its life is the life of an
+orchestra, of many instruments playing together. The student's sense of
+responsibility is shown by her attitude towards the corporate government
+and administration of the school. Instead of regarding the laws of her
+school as natural enemies, chafing against them, making fun of them or
+evading them if possible, she has a duty in fulfilling them. The
+consciousness of this responsibility is the very heart and soul of the
+student self-government movement, for it recognizes not only the
+obligation placed upon its members by an institution, but also the wide
+influence one girl may have on others. Student government knows that
+upper class girls can determine the spirit of the under classes. Even
+looking at the matter from the lightest point of view, respectful and
+law-abiding ways are always well-bred ways.
+
+When a student becomes an alumna she can discharge a large part of her
+great responsibility by realizing that it is not any longer so much a
+question of what her school can give her as of what she can give to her
+school. One thing she can always give it--that is, kindly judgment. And
+she can acknowledge that her ideas of what her Alma Mater is after her
+own school-days may not be correct. The school, sad to say, is sometimes
+placed in the position of the kindly old farmer who, hearing others call
+a certain man a liar, said: "Waal now, I wouldn't say he wuz a _liar_.
+That's a bit harsh. I'd say he handled the truth mighty careless-like."
+Schools find that some of their alumnæ handle the truth mighty
+careless-like.
+
+While she is still a student a girl's service to her school lies largely
+in her daily work, the mental muscle she puts into all that she does in
+the classroom and studies out of it. If because of her and a multiple of
+many girls like her, the college does not possess that _sine qua non_ of
+all the higher mental life, an intellectual atmosphere, it is the
+student's and her multiple's fault. "You may lead a horse to water but
+you cannot make it drink," may be an old adage, but it would be hard to
+improve upon it. You may set before students a veritable Thanksgiving
+feast of things intellectual, but if they have no eagerness, no appetite
+for them, the feast remains untouched. Energy and hunger of the mind,
+not the anxious hosts, will in the end decide whether that feast is or
+is not to be eaten.
+
+The school considers not only scholarship but also the sum of all that
+it is, its culture, its attainment, its moral force, as these elements
+are expressed in its living members, its students and its teachers--in
+short, its idealism. Idealism is having one's life governed by ideals,
+and an ideal is a perfect conception of that which is good, beautiful
+and true. If the girl's life is not governed by ideals, how, then, can
+the school hope to have its idealism live or grow? Frequently students
+think of the ideals of college or school as of something outside
+themselves, more or less intangible, with which they may or may not be
+concerned. Students cannot do their institution a greater injury than by
+harbouring such a thought, for if their sense of responsibility will
+only make the idea of the school personal, then indeed will the school
+be like that house upon which the rains descended and the winds blew but
+it fell not, for it was founded upon a rock.
+
+
+
+
+III
+
+FRIENDSHIPS
+
+
+Homesickness and friendships, how much and how vivid a part they play in
+the first year, or years, of school life! An old coloured physician was
+asked about a certain patient who was very ill. "I'll tell you de truf,"
+was the reply. "Widout any perception, Phoebe Pamela may die and she may
+get well; dere's considerable danger bofe ways." I will tell you one
+truth about the first year of school life: friends there will surely be,
+and homesickness there is likely to be,--there is "considerable danger
+both ways."
+
+Even if a girl has never been away from home before, it is possible that
+she will not suffer from homesickness. It is probable, however, that the
+new surroundings in which the girl finds herself, and the separation
+from those who are the centre of her personal life, will bring on an
+attack of this most painful malady. It takes time to fit comfortably
+into the new surroundings, and meanwhile everything is strange.
+Homesickness is not to be laughed at, but it must be less deadly, less
+fatal than some people think it, or there would not be so many
+recoveries. Girls often weep when they enter school, and then after the
+long dreary years are really over, lived through, and the poor forlorn
+freshman is metamorphosed into the senior, they weep again. Is it not
+strange that these seniors who wept on entering school should weep also
+when leaving it? It looks in the end as if Phoebe Pamela were sure to
+get well. Yet the effort to get well requires a fine effort at
+self-control,--an effort every girl is the better for making, although
+it may take everything plucky in a girl to "back up" her intention to
+remain in school. The earlier the student considers this question of
+homesickness the better. Let her face its possibilities before she goes
+away from home, and make up her mind, if she is attacked, resolutely to
+overcome it. If it comes, let her never give up the struggle, for, by
+giving in, she will only lose ground in every way, morally, socially,
+intellectually. By her cowardice she will part with what she can never
+recover later.
+
+Many temptations follow in the wake of homesickness, and the most
+serious of all is to make friends too rapidly. It may be laid down as a
+rule that a friendship formed on this stop-gap principle, and too
+rapidly, is not likely to endure. Such a friendship is not a sane or a
+wise relation, for friendship is like scholarship: if it is worth
+anything at all it comes slowly. Impulsive, quickly forced friendships
+are not wise investments; the very fact that they come so quickly
+implies an unbalanced state of idealizing, or lack of self-control. This
+does not mean that one is not to form pleasant acquaintances from the
+very beginning of the school life. Acquaintanceship always holds
+something in reserve and is the safest prelude to a deeper and more
+vital friendship.
+
+There is no denying that there is great temptation to violent
+admirations and attractions in school. In the first place, in school or
+college the girl is brought into contact with a large circle of people
+who are immensely interesting to her. The whole atmosphere is full of
+novelty, of the unusual. Some of the students and teachers whom she
+meets for the first time represent a broader experience, it may be, than
+her own home life has given her. They are often new types and new types
+are always interesting.
+
+I shall say nothing of the idealism of friendship--it plays its part in
+other books. It would seem sometimes as if almost too much emphasis had
+been placed upon the making of friendships in school,--friendship which
+is, after all, but a by-product, the most valuable it is true,
+nevertheless a by-product of the life. Wholly practical are the tests of
+friendship which I shall give. In the first place a friend is too
+absorbing who takes all of one's interest to the exclusion of
+everything else: there should be interest in other people, other
+activities as well as in one's work. Such a friendship can only make a
+girl forget for what she has come to school. The new relation which
+disposes one to look with less respect and affection upon one's own
+people and home--and they, be it remembered, have stood the most
+valuable test of all, the test of time--cannot be a good influence. It
+may be said in general that an association which is developing the less
+fine traits in one's character, giving emphasis to the less worthy
+sides, should be relinquished immediately, even at the cost of much
+heartache. The heartache will be only temporary; the bad influence might
+become permanent. On the other hand, since friendship is giving as well
+as taking, one does well to consider the fact that if one's own part in
+it does not tell for good, there is just as much reason for stopping the
+friendship where it is. Some of these associations--and this is a hard
+saying, I know--which seem everything at the time are nothing, as the
+years will prove. A girl idealizes, and idealizes those who are not
+worthy. Inevitably the day comes when she laughs at herself,--if she
+does not do worse and pity herself for having been such a goose.
+
+Only a few of the friendships made in school are destined to endure. One
+of the foremost of those that last is founded on similarity of interest.
+Perhaps it is the girl with whom one has worked side by side in the
+laboratory,--a relation formed slowly and on a permanent basis. Many of
+the best of friends have come together through community of interests,
+and this is a type of friendship for which men have a greater gift than
+women.
+
+There is still another type which develops because of some conspicuously
+noble or fine quality which proves attractive. Hero worship, this, which
+enlarges one's self through the admiration given to another. Then there
+is the friendship based on a purely personal attraction, with mutual
+respect and self-respect as its dedicated corner-stone. This does not
+mean that one cannot see any faults in the friend, or know that one's
+own are seen, without losing affection. There is always something flimsy
+and insecure about a friendship that simply idealizes. Any relation
+should be all the stronger for a frank acknowledgment of its
+imperfections. If a girl cares enough she will be willing to admit her
+own faults and wish to make herself more worthy to be a friend.
+
+And, finally, there is what might be called the lend-a-hand
+friendship,--the relation that springs into existence because of the
+need which is seen in another. It is not fair to make a packhorse of
+one's friend or to turn one's self into the leaning variety of plant,
+but it is fair and wise and right, if one is strong enough to accomplish
+the end in view, to lend a hand to another girl who is not making the
+best of herself.
+
+Have a good time but do not swear eternal allegiance in this first year
+to anybody, however wonderful she may seem. Hold yourself in reserve, if
+for no other reason, then on account of the old friends at home, whether
+they be kin or no-kin, for they have been true. And remember, as I have
+said before, friendship is like scholarship and must by its nature come
+slowly.
+
+
+
+
+IV
+
+THE STUDENT'S ROOM
+
+
+There has been a general improvement in student rooms, yet many rooms
+to-day have altogether too much in them: too many pictures, too many
+banners, too much furniture, too many hangings. The great fault of most
+rooms is this overcrowding. If we were only heroic enough to make a
+bonfire of nine-tenths of all they contain we should see suddenly
+revealed possibilities for something like the ideal room.
+
+One serious and obvious objection to the overcrowding of rooms is the
+hygienic. I am tempted to say that this is the most important objection:
+indeed, since health is more important than wealth, I will say so. A
+girl has neither the time nor the ability to keep so many articles in a
+room clean: and while she is busy attending to her studies, some
+cherished ornaments are not only laying up dust for the future, as a
+more regenerate life will lay up treasures, but also breeding germs,
+perhaps collecting the very germs which will take this girl away from
+school or college. Besides, bric-à-brac not only gathers dust and breeds
+germs but also wearies the nerves. It makes one tired to see so many
+things about, and tired to be held responsible for them. Without
+realizing it, we resist the amount of space they occupy and in their
+place want the air and sunshine. Subconsciously, most of us long to get
+rid of our bric-à-brac and then pull down the draperies that keep out
+the sunlight. The simpler the window draperies in a room, the more
+easily washed, the better and more attractive. For wholesome
+attractiveness there is no fabric that can excel a flood of warm
+sunshine. Any girl or woman who has curtains which she must protect from
+strong light by drawing down the shades is guilty of a household sin
+whose greatness she cannot know. That same sunshine, freely admitted,
+will do more to cleanse a house than all the soap, all the brooms, and
+even all the vacuum cleaners ever invented.
+
+The so-called beauty of a room should always give way before the hygiene
+of a room. Not only should the room be sensibly furnished so that it may
+have plenty of air and light, but closets should not contain articles of
+furniture which belong where the air can reach them. There is a
+difference between a room that is not orderly and one that is not clean.
+A room that contains unclean articles in drawers or closets, unclean
+floors, unclean rugs and hangings and unclean walls, should not be
+tolerated for an instant. If a girl turns a combination bedroom and
+study in school or college into a kitchen, if an ice-cream freezer
+occupies all the foreground of this place she calls home, and
+chafing-dishes with cream bottles, sardine tins, cracker boxes, paper
+bags full of stale biscuits, fruit skins, dish-cloths and
+grease-spotted walls, all the background, it is impossible to have a
+clean room to live in.
+
+The Golden Rule applies to rooms as well as to human beings and should
+read, "Do unto a room as you would it should do unto you." And not only
+for the sake of health should this Golden Rule for Rooms be observed but
+also for the sake of the college or school. The room that belongs to us
+only for a time should be as thoughtfully cared for as if it were our
+own personal property. There is something inconsistent, isn't there, in
+educating a girl in high thinking and fine ideals, if she is willing to
+live in a room that for uncleanliness many a woman in some crowded
+quarter of a city would consider a disgrace? Such contradiction in mind
+and surrounding is out of harmony with all one's ideal for a
+gentlewoman.
+
+Not only beauty is restful, peace-giving and peace-bringing, but so,
+also, are neatness and order. Orderliness helps to fit one for work.
+There is undoubtedly some connection between surroundings and one's
+mental state. In themselves disorder and confusion are irritating. The
+sight of a dirty child crying in the doorway of an untidy house suggests
+some connection between the wretchedness of the child and the squalor of
+the home. I often think of William Morris, the great craftsman and
+charming poet, who had much at heart the happiness of all people,
+especially the poor, and his exclamation, "My eye, how I do love
+tidiness!" To him, to the artist, it was, as it is, beautiful. George
+Eliot had to put even the pins in her cushion into some neat arrangement
+before she could sit down to write. Disorder wastes not only one's
+feelings and health, it also wastes one's time, for a lot of this
+commodity may be lost in looking for books, wraps, gloves and other
+things which are not put away properly.
+
+School ought to be a training for the life afterwards. That is why we go
+to school, isn't it? Why should a girl indulge herself in habits which
+will make against her usefulness in the life of the home or in whatever
+circumstance she may be? There is a certain disciplinary value in order.
+Every great military school has recognized this. Laxness in the care of
+one's room may mean the habit of laxness in other and more important
+ways. Disorderliness indicates a certain tendency in character, and if a
+girl allows that sort of thing to go on she is very likely to show it in
+other ways. Untidiness in any of one's personal habits--and what could
+be more personal than a room?--should be taken up and corrected even as
+one attempts to correct any weak point in one's character.
+
+Do you know what is always--that is, if it is in it at all--the most
+beautiful thing in a room? It is something which the Creator meant all
+mankind should have, rich and poor, old and young alike; it is something
+beyond the buying price of any wealth. It is the sunshine, more
+beautiful, more valuable than expensive hangings that shut it out.
+Perhaps it is partly because it is inexpensive, God-given to all people,
+that housewives frequently draw their curtains against it. If they had
+to pay more for it than for carpets and hangings, you may be very sure
+that a great many husbands and fathers would be overworking in order
+that their families might buy a whole display of sunshine instead of
+tapestries.
+
+Do you know what is the most helpful thing you can have in your room,
+the article without which you cannot live in it at all, no matter how
+fine the rugs and bric-à-brac may be? _Air!_ Air is the one thing which
+is almost instantly and absolutely indispensable to human life, for we
+breathe it in not only through our noses but also all over our skin.
+Every hundredth fraction of an inch of our bodies is feeding upon air,
+and the purer that air and the cooler the better and more invigorating
+food it provides for the skin surface as well as for the lungs. The
+mind, for it is housed in the body and its tenant, must depend for its
+vigour or tone upon the fresh air in school or college study. Even a
+very good head cannot work well set upon an anæmic body which is
+suffocating for want of good clean air. If you wish to do your best work
+and keep well, the first thing to do is not to open your books but to
+open your windows. After that the books and a reasonable number of hours
+of continuous study. American audience halls, pullmans, ordinary coaches
+and public buildings of all sorts, especially libraries, are notoriously
+overheated and unventilated. It is the intelligent American girl and
+woman who, beginning with the home, will correct this evil. The schools
+are, on the whole, in the forefront of the fresh air movement,
+especially the public schools. As every one knows, the public schools
+are establishing open air rooms for their children who need them.
+Although there is much to be said about what a room should contain to
+make it attractive, it should never be forgotten that sunshine and
+fresh air are more beautiful and more priceless than anything else which
+it can hold.
+
+The first object in furnishing a bare room is to make it
+habitable,--that is useful. Take the kitchen, for example, and
+usefulness is practically the sole object in fitting it up. And the
+curious thing about it all is that it cannot help being beautiful in a
+homely, motherly way, for it exemplifies one of the strongest elements
+of all beauty and that is _service_. The kitchen may be a very humble
+place but if more women would make a study of their kitchens and then
+take thought, it is likely that the rest of their houses would be in
+much better taste. A thing that is useful, even as with some well-worn
+homely old woman who has led a good and helpful life, always acquires a
+beauty of its own. It may be hard for girls to see this but it is there,
+and in time it will be seen. Just as it is essentially more beautiful to
+have a clean, strong body rather than a pretty face and a body that is
+not what it ought to be, so is it more truly beautiful to have articles
+of furnishing in our rooms, in study or kitchen, that are of
+indispensable genuine use.
+
+Take the gaudy ambitious study one girl has made for herself. It is
+defaced by the presence of articles of no value at all in the world of
+needs; there is nothing in it that is genuinely beautiful and nothing
+that is substantially useful. The furniture is almost too cheap to stand
+on its own legs, and the colours would certainly never wash and not even
+wear. This room is a junk-shop of new, useless, unattractive objects of
+no virtue,--in short, a most unpleasant place in which to live. Have you
+ever considered what gives even the simplest clothes for distinctive
+occasions a beauty of their own? It is fitness. And it is this same
+fitness which tells so much in furnishing a room. It might be said of
+certain dresses that they "go together," that is, they are harmonious,
+they belong together, they have, like some people, the beauty of
+agreeing with themselves, and a very desirable sort of beauty it is.
+Just as clothes are an expression of the people who wear them, so are
+rooms an expression of the people who live in them. No well-bred girl
+cares for tawdry, cheap, over-ornamented clothes. She is made
+uncomfortable even at the very thought of having to wear such things.
+She should suffer just as much discomfort on the score of a cheaply
+furnished (and by "cheap" here I do not mean inexpensive--whitewash and
+deal intelligently used may create a beautiful room), overcrowded and
+over-ornamented study.
+
+What is the meaning of the room which is your school centre for the time
+being? It is an intimate place where a girl may have her friends and
+good times; it is a retreat and it is a workshop. It is the girl's home
+centre away from home, the place from which she will lead her life, in
+its expression attractive or unattractive, like her or unlike her. To
+intend that this room in beauty, in cleanliness, in order, shall be the
+best expression possible of the girl's best self is the ideal to set for
+the school study.
+
+Get good materials and good colours. They need not be expensive.
+Remember that colours have to go together just as furniture has to do
+so. To have styles of furniture that clash or colours that do not
+harmonize will negative any care which the student may have taken in the
+selection of individual pieces or materials. To have too much with which
+to fill the room is a good deal worse than not to have enough. Much
+better it is to have a few things which are just what they should be
+than to have too many and those undesirable. To get a desk, if a girl
+can afford to do so, that she will be glad to keep her life long is a
+good beginning, and a comfortable chair that will be made doubly
+precious by all the school associations woven about it. And let her be
+careful about pictures for her walls and not crowd them with cheap and
+"fashionable" trash. Above all, let her remember that good taste,
+simplicity, careful selection, will do more to assure her the possession
+of an attractive room than all the money in the world can do.
+
+
+
+
+V
+
+THE TOOLS OF STUDY AND THEIR USE
+
+
+A girl ought to take up her study with the same sense of pleasure as
+that with which a strong workman enters his shop, knowing his tools and
+able to use them. Having good tools and knowing them is certainly part
+of the joy of work. And what are the tools the student must use? Well,
+for the average student, the one that is first and most important is
+_Good Health_. The mind is not as clear if the body is not in good
+health, clean within and without.
+
+The second set of tools consists of a different sort of equipment and
+apparatus, tools with which a girl must become familiar and which she
+must know how to use--_Books_, _Library_, _Laboratory_ and _Classroom_.
+Why shouldn't a student be just as able to use her books as a carpenter
+his plane or saw? One couldn't expect a fumbling carpenter or a clumsy
+seamstress to accomplish much work or good work. There are times when a
+girl need not claim to know anything but she must, at least, know where
+to find what she wants to know. This is the first lesson in the use of
+books; without knowledge of them or love for them, the student can't get
+along at all. And beyond this somewhat mechanical use of books there is
+a deeper and larger lesson to learn; to know that a book is not merely a
+page of print where information may be sought but that it is a mirror in
+which one finds the world, its wisdom, its joy, its sorrow, its divine
+adventures. Robert Southey, the friend of the poet Coleridge, has
+written beautifully on the subject in a little poem called "His Books."
+
+Another tool in the student's workshop is _Previously Acquired
+Knowledge_: that is, what one has in one's mind. Some people's minds are
+junk-shops. But a junk-shop is better than an empty shop. This
+previously acquired knowledge, if used rightly, becomes the tool of
+later courses, the servant of later years. Our stored-up facts--many of
+them--have not been an end in themselves. How could they be? For
+example, such things as paradigms and formulæ and long lists of names
+and dates, are tools pure and simple; but the student in the workshop
+must have them or she will be like a carpenter who had much to do but on
+coming to his bench found no tools there and so was idle all day.
+
+A fourth tool for the girl in her study--one that cannot be deliberately
+acquired, as information or apparatus or even health can be--is
+_Experience_. This is the most valuable tool of all--one's experience of
+travel, with people, in responsibility, in love, in joy, in sorrow, in
+any kind of work. The girls who are the most interesting in the
+classroom are the girls who are not contenting themselves with apparatus
+alone but whose minds are flexible with experience, who bring all of
+themselves, their life, to bear upon the work. A certain well-known
+minister had prepared a sermon for his usual Sunday engagement, but
+half an hour before service another text came into his mind. He could
+not forget it, so he jotted down notes and preached the new sermon
+instead of the one that had been prepared. This sermon made a great
+impression on all who heard it, and the minister himself said of it that
+some people would declare that it had been thought out in half an hour,
+but that really he had put fifty years of his life into it. The sharper
+and better the tools, the finer the character of the work. If experience
+has been observed and retained, and previously acquired knowledge is
+ready for service, and hand and mind know how to use books, and the
+student is in good condition physically, then the excellence of that
+girl's work in the class and out can be guaranteed.
+
+And now what are the uses of the work which these tools can accomplish
+for us? Coleridge wrote in his poem, "Work Without Hope,"
+
+ "Work without Hope draws nectar in a sieve,
+ And Hope without an object cannot live."
+
+The only hope that can last is hope that is not wholly centred in
+ourselves, but has some thought for others and our service to them. Work
+devoid of inspiration and ideals, work done merely for one's self, study
+pursued with only a degree as an end or for the sake of "pay" as a
+teacher, turns school and college into a market-place, a place of
+barter, where in exchange for so much energy and so much money we may
+acquire a certain position and livelihood. Only that work in which one
+has the consciousness of being, or becoming, useful to others, brings
+joy that will endure. What do we think of the minister who is without a
+sense of consecration? The responsibility of the student or the teacher
+is quite as large, the opportunity for service quite as wonderful. One
+of our greatest English poets, William Wordsworth, exclaimed: "I wish to
+be considered as a teacher, or as nothing!" The calling of the teacher,
+of the student, has through all time been thought a high one,--one that
+has drawn to itself fine and unselfish spirits. The life of the student,
+no matter how necessary to the world its market-places are, never has
+been and never can be a life of barter, of trade.
+
+The wealth that comes to the student should not be an exclusive
+possession. It may be bought at a large price but it can never be sold.
+It must be given away, or shared, for it is wealth which carries with it
+a sense of social responsibility. It is enjoyed for a double purpose,
+not only for the sake of the happiness it brings to us but also for the
+sake of the joy or help it may bring to others. Millions of girls covet
+the opportunities that come to a few in school and college, many of them
+who far more greatly deserve this privilege than we. Indeed, what have
+most of us done to merit the right to all that we have? The only way in
+which we can show our sense of justice is by taking our privileges as
+something to share with others. The girl who has health, pleasant
+surroundings and work worth doing, has all a human being has a right to
+expect. She ought always to be happy, always rejoicing in her work and
+always eager to divide her wealth with others.
+
+The redeeming feature of royalties has been their sense of
+responsibility for their subjects! In great disasters, or calamities,
+their first thought has been to go to the relief of the people. The King
+and Queen of Italy are noble examples of this courage and unselfishness.
+In America the only "privileged" class is the highly educated. It is
+they from whom _noblesse oblige_ must be expected, who will show in all
+emergencies their sense of responsibility, who will share all that they
+have with others. A girl will be happy, she will grow, she will be a
+leverage power for good with those among whom she lives, only in so far
+as she uses her tools of knowledge in the service of others, and shapes
+all that she does towards some humanly useful end.
+
+
+
+
+VI
+
+THE JOY OF WORK
+
+
+If one is in good condition, the exercise of any physical power is a
+pleasure. It is a pleasure to run, to sing, to dance, to climb
+mountains, to row, to swim; it is a pleasure to shout for nothing else
+than for the pure joy of letting off surplus energy. In the world of
+animals, the horse and dog, to take only two illustrations, abound in
+this enjoyment of physical energy. The horse paws the ground and snorts
+and whinnies and loves the fastest road pace you will let him take. The
+dog leaps in the air, jumps fences, barks, and races around madly,
+sometimes after nothing at all.
+
+But the highest power of which human beings are possessed is not the
+power of the body. It is the power of the mind. Yet many of us
+throughout our school and college life not only do not wish to use this
+power but even rebel against it. "What," some girls are saying to
+themselves, "enjoy the work of a classroom? Who ever heard of such a
+thing!" Yes, just that. And if we don't enjoy the work of a classroom,
+even an indifferently good one, there is something the matter with us,
+or the subject should not have a place on any curriculum. Every mental
+exercise should be full of the keenest pleasure, of intellectual
+pleasure.
+
+Our schools and colleges to-day are very much richer in the joy of
+everything else--in beautiful surroundings, in freer and fuller athletic
+and outdoor life, in a more varied and delightful social life--than they
+were fifty or even twenty-five years ago. But it is a question whether
+the joy of intellectual work has kept pace with this joy of life in its
+other aspects. Sometimes it almost seems as if intellectual eagerness
+were in inverse ratio to the ease and fullness of the opportunities we
+have. At least many fair-minded girls have seen the predicament in
+which the teacher is placed. The man who makes a vase for the use and
+pleasure of others may rejoice not only in his own workmanship but also
+in the thought of the service and delight he is giving to others. That
+is, his pleasure is twofold. The teacher who is deprived of some
+response of joy in the work he is doing is a workman deprived of his
+rights. To those girls who are thinking of becoming teachers this should
+be a sobering thought.
+
+Missionary teachers, with their students eager to get anything they have
+to give, are not to be pitied. Our schools and their groups of teachers
+in isolated and uncultivated parts of the West and South are not to be
+pitied. Even if education is with them shorn of much that gives it
+charm, the opportunities that come are prized. Students and teachers
+have intellectual joy in the work they do, and without that the greatest
+university in the world might as well, or better, be a district school,
+for then the work done would be truly useful. It is the teacher who has
+to put much of her time and energy into making a subject superficially
+attractive enough for a student to elect it, who is to be pitied. A
+classroom full of blasé girls whose minds need to be tickled before
+there is the least expression of intellectual mirth upon their faces, is
+an ordeal not lightly to be met except by the professional joker or
+academic tumbler.
+
+Girls often become impatient with themselves, and that is one reason why
+there is so little joy in work for them. Think of Helen Keller as a
+famous example of this joy in work under the most adverse circumstances.
+What could be greater than her handicap? Shut away from the world by
+deaf ears and blind eyes and, for a while, by inability to speak, she
+has nevertheless shown a keenness of pleasure and intellectual
+acquisition that shames us who have all our senses in their fullness.
+Think of her patient, unremitting delving, of the digging up, up, up to
+get to the light which most human beings are privileged to enjoy with
+no effort at all! The mind that accepts this wealth with no thought, no
+sense of responsibility, is a trifler with riches that are about us for
+God-given purposes. Think of the way in which Stevenson and John Richard
+Green and George Eliot rose above their ill-health and did their work in
+despite of it! Perhaps some of us have superb health and have never made
+any conscious effort to use that gift for a high end.
+
+Girls grow impatient with themselves when they wouldn't be impatient
+with a little child. Yet the mind has to be trained even as we train a
+child; it has to be brought back and back, again and again to the thing
+to be done. After the asking of a simple question, oftentimes a whole
+class will look confounded, because they have some strange notion that
+thinking means getting hold of something very far away and difficult to
+grasp. All that the first effort in thought denotes is taking a hold of
+that which is nearest and following it up. It is the old story of
+Theseus following his clue of thread, the slender thing in his hand, by
+which he was guided out of the labyrinth and to the broad sea of
+adventure.
+
+There are difficulties in the doing of any work that is worth while. It
+would be a poor adviser who painted the student's way as a path of
+roses. First and foremost, one's own inertia interferes with the joy of
+work. Some one has defined the lazy man as one who doesn't want to do
+anything at all, and the indolent man as one who doesn't want to do
+anything that he doesn't want to do. Then, too, there are certain
+allurements and distractions in school life which are a hindrance to our
+joy in an intellectual task. And there is the very natural
+disinclination to the drudgery involved in all hard labour. No work that
+is worth while is without drudgery. Lack of encouragement from older
+people is one serious difficulty some girls have to meet. There is a
+type of older person who is sure that using the mind will harm that
+precious article. And, finally, there is our inexperience, our own lack
+of comprehension, our own purposeless and formless lives.
+
+Joy in work should not be altogether conditional upon one's sense of
+ease or upon what is called success. Seeming success is not always
+success. Often the most valuable lessons come from failures. Robert
+Browning, the poet, speaks again and again of the noble uses of failure.
+Let me quote one stanza from one of his greatest poems, "Rabbi Ben
+Ezra":
+
+ "Then, welcome each rebuff
+ That turns earth's smoothness rough,
+ Each sting that bids nor sit nor stand, but go!
+ Be our joys three-parts pain!
+ Strive and hold cheap the strain;
+ Learn, nor account the pang; dare, never grudge the throe!"
+
+You can't learn to walk if you haven't tumbled down a good deal in doing
+it. It is often failure that means ultimate success. Of course if a
+girl keeps on saying: "Oh, what's the use?" about everything she does
+and all her failures, there isn't any use. In weak moments that sort of
+thing can be said of every great and worth-while experience, of love, of
+joy, of sorrow, of work. But a girl who allows herself to take this
+attitude is a "quitter," and doesn't know the first principles of
+playing the game.
+
+Part of the joy of work consists in the mere delight of intellectual
+exercise, delight in thinking a thing out. That is the way we develop
+ourselves mentally, just as we develop ourselves physically through
+sports. The mind that thinks is capable of deeper and broader thinking.
+Thinking begets thought. A muscle that is left without exercise softens
+and finally atrophies. The same is true of mental muscle. If this
+strength is left unused it is gradually lost and cannot be recovered.
+Mental concentration, the thought that is so strenuous that everything
+else is shut out, strengthens the mind. In this wonderful old world no
+new land has been discovered without physical effort. There is no
+country of the mind which can be entered without a similar effort.
+
+And there is another and very important joy in work--the sense that one
+is being equipped for the work of the world, for usefulness. The mere
+feeling that one's powers are being developed brings joy with it. There
+is still another joy which every one of us must covet--the sense of
+entering into the intellectual riches of the world, its wonders of
+science and art and letters, with the feeling that we have a part in a
+great treasure, a treasure which, unlike gold and precious stones, men
+have never been able to gauge or to exhaust. Such gold and silver as we
+take from that adventure cannot be lost or stolen from us. It remains
+with us to the very last, and with it no life can ever become really
+poor, or dull, or old.
+
+
+
+
+VII
+
+FAIR-PLAY
+
+
+Few students realize how closely a classroom resembles a commonwealth.
+To most of us it seems a place into which we go to have a certain amount
+got out of us, or put into us. This conception of the classroom is
+unworthy the modern girl who has, otherwise, a fine understanding of the
+meaning of team-play, of playing all together for a common end, a game
+or a republic united by a tacit compact.
+
+Does the average student feel responsibility for the game of basket-ball
+or lawn hockey which she is playing? The first thought of the girl in
+answering this is that it was a foolish question even to ask. Of course
+she does. But for her classroom? No, that is a different sort of game,
+in which the responsibility lies all on the shoulders of the instructor.
+It is a one-woman or a one-man game, and very often the students are
+but spectators, cheering or indifferent, approving or disapproving. The
+pupil does not hold herself accountable for this game; it is the teacher
+who makes the class "go," who extracts from each student the information
+bottled up in her, together, often, with a good deal of carbon
+dioxide,--a process difficult and hard as drawing a swollen cork out of
+a soda-water bottle. Finally, with a sort of noble rebound of effort,
+the exhausted instructor is to put a vast deal of information back into
+the girl before the student claps her book together and rushes pell-mell
+to the next classroom, there to be similarly uncorked, if the teacher
+has learned the art and her mental muscle is sufficient.
+
+Such a conception of a classroom is not fair-play. The teacher, like the
+coxswain of a college crew, may have rowed over the same course and she
+may know it well enough to cover it in the dark; she may have won
+distinction upon it, may be the fittest person in all the states of the
+Union to cover it again, but if she has not a good or a winning crew to
+coach, she will never win any race, even the shortest. No instructor has
+shoulders equal to such a multiple burden as coaching, steering and
+doing all the rowing, too. To play any classroom game in this spirit is
+to be dead weight for every one else embarked upon the same adventure.
+It is not fair-play.
+
+By such an attitude on the part of merely one student in the class,
+every other student associated with her loses, for the girl who will not
+lift her own weight the others must carry. If that student were playing
+in that spirit on the basket-ball team, do you suppose that the coach,
+or the captain, would let her stay on? Not for a moment; off she would
+go and very much humiliated, too. If it is a discussion, the touch and
+go of the whole recitation will depend upon the presence of the
+team-play, or fair-play, spirit in the course. The instructor may do her
+best but if there is no play-the-game in that classroom, she might just
+as well fold up her tent, like the proverbial Arab, "and silently steal
+away." It is not that any recitation need be a brilliant affair--if most
+of them depended upon that for existence they would scarcely exist at
+all--but there must be an honest, earnest, responsible effort to make
+the best of the hour. Good will inevitably come from the clarifying
+effort to express thought, and the leading from thought to thought as
+the work goes forward.
+
+The basket-ball team cannot win, or even play, unless all the members
+are playing together. Each one is needed despite the fact that she may
+not be one of the chief or best players. Just so does the class need all
+its students. If a girl is only average, it is not fair-play for her to
+sit back and do nothing; neither is it fair-play for her to monopolize
+the attention if she happens to be more than commonly able. It is not
+fair-play to laugh at the girl who is at a disadvantage, or to appear
+bored. It is unfair to the individual, to the classroom in general and
+to the instructor. The least she can do in this class game is to give
+her whole and her courteous attention.
+
+Think of all the practice games in which the average athletic team takes
+part. What can be said for the student who comes into the classroom
+unprepared to lift her own weight, unprepared to help others? When one
+comes to think about it from the fair-play point of view there is
+nothing to be said for her. Nor is it fair-play for a girl to allow
+herself to get into such a state physically that she is unable to study.
+How often and often have fudge-heads--due to an application to too much
+sugar and not to books--sitting row after row killed a school or even a
+whole college! Before a class tempered by fudge and not by wholesome
+outdoor living and conscientious devotion to work, the teacher might
+better put away her notes and close her book. Nothing can happen through
+or over that barricade of fudge-heads.
+
+And it is not fair-play to cram because of time lost, or for any other
+cause. The only end of cramming is that the student soon forgets all
+that has been learned. Alone by normal, slow acquisition and all the
+associations formed in such learning can information come to us to stay.
+It may not be particularly wicked to cram if one has plenty of time to
+waste, but it is foolish unless one has.
+
+There is a kind of gossip in which a girl takes part, made up of
+snap-shot judgments of the classroom, idle carping about some little
+unimportant point, expression of wounded vanity and unfair talk, which
+may mean a tremendous loss of prestige for a really admirable course; it
+may mean that girls, who would naturally go into it because of their
+liking or gift for the work, do not go or go in a critical and
+unsympathetic attitude. If there is a complaint to be made about any
+course it should be made to the responsible person concerned, and that
+is usually the teacher. Anything else is not fair-play. In the
+classroom the instructor is the "coach" of the game and she is the
+person with whom to talk. It is needless to say that if a girl is
+putting nothing into a course she cannot expect to get anything out of
+it, or to complain because things do not "go." If she wants them to "go"
+why does she not help, and have the profit of taking something away from
+the work as interest on her effort? A girl gets dividends only from work
+into which she has put some brain-capital.
+
+And the people at home? Is it fair-play to them, when they are making
+sacrifices of money or of happiness to keep the daughter at school, for
+her not to put good work into her study and play her part faithfully in
+the classroom game? So many things have to be taken into consideration
+of which we are not likely to think. There is the girl herself, the
+other girls with whom she is working, the instructor, the people at
+home, the institution that is providing an expensive equipment or plant
+through the philanthropic efforts of others or the taxation of the
+public. If the girl does not play her part fairly, there is a rather big
+reckoning against her, is there not?
+
+
+
+
+VIII
+
+THE RIGHT SORT OF LEISURE
+
+
+The right sort of leisure ought to help as much in the development of
+the girl as the right sort of work. If it is leisure worthy the name, it
+will bring refreshment; it will not leave one physically and mentally
+jaded. Neither mind nor body should ever be exhausted because of the way
+in which freedom has been used. Leisure is as important to work as work
+is to leisure. A person who has not worked cannot appreciate freedom,
+while the one who has had no leisure is not best fitted for work. "All
+work and no play makes Jack a dull boy;" it is just as true that it
+makes Jill a dull girl. The girl who works all the time, not realizing
+the importance of free moments, becomes fagged in body and mind. She is
+a tool that is dull, and would do well to remember that even a machine
+is better for an occasional rest.
+
+Some mistaken ideas about leisure have grown up, making it difficult to
+say anything on this subject without being misunderstood. Stories--whole
+books of them--about "spreads" and more or less lawless escapades in
+school and college, have given girls and other people, too, the
+impression that this is the sort of thing school leisure is. Nothing
+could be farther from the truth. Midnight feasts may occur in school,
+and most of us, unless we are too good to be average girls, have taken
+part in them. But such stories are vicious, for they misrepresent the
+life by suggesting that eating inferior and unwholesome food is the real
+freedom most girls desire. There is something repulsive in the very
+thought. Feasts that leave a girl with a coated tongue and a dull head
+and Monday "blues" do not fairly represent school or college leisure.
+Good times that interfere with good work have no place in ideally free
+hours. But, indeed, the odours from the chafing-dishes do suggest that
+some of the girls are trying to put into literal execution the wish of
+a great German professor in Oxford. The professor, eager to try a dish
+he saw on the hotel bill of fare, but with his English and German verbs
+not quite disentangled, said to the waiter, "Hereafter I vish to become
+a Velsh Rabbit." Perhaps becoming a Welsh rarebit represents the height
+of some girls' ideals, but this is hard to believe.
+
+The possession of leisure depends to a great extent upon the will power.
+The girl who has never learned to say "No," who has no power of
+selection, cannot expect to have any hours for her own use. She is
+quarry for every idle suggestion, every social engagement, every
+executive "job" which pursues her. The girl who engages all her time
+socially cannot have a sense of leisure, for she turns her playtime into
+but another schedule, to be met as inexorably as her academic courses.
+Her days become a formidable array of "dates," often stretching ahead
+for weeks. Even if girls are not determined to have it for themselves,
+they should give to others some opportunity for freedom, and should
+respect their possible desire for solitude. The girl who engages or
+annexes every particle of time, her own or that of some one else with
+whom she comes in contact, is making leisure an impossibility. The girl
+who leaves no margin cannot hope for even the spirit of freedom.
+
+Many students excuse themselves for much executive work in school and
+college on the ground that it is done in their leisure. That girl is a
+goose who allows herself through any sense of self-importance, or
+irreplaceable usefulness, to be so involved in executive work that all
+other aspects of her school life are slighted. If she refuses to be
+swamped by such "jobs" she can have the happiness of reflecting that
+probably some girls who need the training far more than she does are
+doing the work. To every girl will come the opportunity right along for
+"managing"; club and social work will bring it, and a good-sized family
+will bring it as nothing else can. But school leisure she will not have
+again. The whole aim of the school is to enrich the lives of its
+students, and it knows all too well that that student who does not keep
+for herself the leisure upon which body and mind and soul must feed is
+indeed poor.
+
+There is one way in which leisure is very generally misspent in
+school--and alas, outside, too!--not in managing one's own affairs, but
+in managing and discussing the affairs of others. At such times the
+remarks may be superlatively pleasant, but they are more often
+superlatively disagreeable. It may be said with truthfulness that they
+are almost never moderate or just. Everything is all black or all white,
+with no gray. It makes one think of the little girl with a curl in the
+middle of her forehead:
+
+ "When she was good, she was very, very good,
+ And when she was bad, she was horrid."
+
+But, alas! the poor wretches discussed are not allowed even the natural
+and somewhat happy human alternation between badness and goodness. No,
+indeed, they are monsters of a desperate character--they may at the
+moment be broken-heartedly conscious of their own faults--or they are
+shining six-winged angels. And, woe! this sort of thing comes almost as
+hard upon the angels. They can't endure it; so much goodness breaks down
+their wing arches, and the glorious ones crumple together like
+tissue-paper.
+
+And upon the girls busily engaged in creating angels of loveliness and
+gargoyles of ugliness, this sort of conversation works havoc. It does
+not invigorate them, it does not inspire them. It belittles their
+minds--thank fortune, that making kindling wood of the characters of
+other people does do this!--and stunts their finer feelings. This sin,
+that they "do by two and two," they pay for one by one. Gentle and
+considerate feelings are lost, time is wasted, a vicious habit,--almost
+no habit is more vicious,--is acquired. Such gossip can never become a
+pure enjoyment; it remains at the best an ignoble, discreditable
+excitement. Rolling these sweet morsels under their tongues, a taste for
+ill-natured or exaggerated comment fixes itself in their mouths. Even if
+they have consciences that, like good mothers, will occasionally wash
+their mouths out with soap, they retain the disturbing memory of unkind,
+coarse, or foolish words.
+
+Yet school should be the last place in which to indulge in idle talk.
+Such indulgence is against all the idealism of student life. Idle or
+meddlesome talk never helps any one, either the one who talks or the one
+who is discussed. If you have anything to say about other people, and if
+going to them will help you, the only friendly thing to do--it is not an
+easy thing--is to speak to the people concerned. If we really knew how
+to put ourselves in other people's places, no unkind, unfriendly words
+would ever be spoken again. There would be things hard to bear
+said--rebuke or reproof are never easy to receive--but nothing
+unfriendly. Think how idle, ill-natured talk flows around the world, and
+then think what a different world it would be if there were none of it!
+It is to human life what the blights, the scales, the insect pests are
+to tree and flower. Fortunately, as people grow older they come to think
+themselves less infallible, and as they grow wiser they become more
+tender and more lenient in their judgments.
+
+In companionship whose leisure interests are good there is a sense of
+freedom filled full and running over, of minds and hearts doubly rich,
+of good times doubly jolly. But on the whole, girls have too little
+absolute solitude; there is scarcely a girl in twenty, except the "dig,"
+who is alone at all. One trouble with dormitory school life is that it
+fosters leisure-wasting and time-wasting "gang" habits. A girl so
+surrounded never wants to be alone a moment, either indoors or out. With
+such, the blessing and blessedness of solitude should be learned, for
+solitude rightly used makes strong men and women.
+
+The woman who has leisure has a grasp upon time, is master of it instead
+of being mastered by it. It is the girl whirled around in a squirrel
+cage of pointless weekly and Sunday engagements who is oppressed and
+mastered by her lack of freedom. And then there is the hard-pressed
+future; we must lay up some leisure for that. The time when one is most
+hurried is the time when one most needs the sense of freedom. The story
+of the old Quaker lady who had so much to do she didn't know where to
+begin, and so took a nap, is profoundly full of wisdom. When the old
+lady woke up she found she had plenty of time after all, not because she
+had done anything but because she had come again into a leisurely frame
+of mind.
+
+Leisure means neither a blank mind nor an empty hand. It means a holiday
+taken with an eager mind, with eyes keen in their delight and knowledge,
+with hands capable of some beauty or some use. All of us have leisure
+to think, but not all of us think. Some of us, if friends come in
+unexpectedly, will quickly pick up something and pretend to be busy.
+When Watt sat by the fire watching the steam from the teakettle lift the
+lid, he was not precisely idle. The powerful, indispensable steam-engine
+was the result. One reason, aside from all religious considerations, why
+we need a quiet Sunday, is that we may have that sense of freedom which
+feeds mind and body, and even the crumbs of whose profitableness have
+made the world rich in great inventions, in great pictures, in wonderful
+books.
+
+
+
+
+IX
+
+THE OUTDOOR RUNWAY
+
+
+After Nebuchadnezzar came in from eating grass there had taken place in
+that potentate a great change for the good. One of the factors in this
+betterment may have been the grass itself. The grass-cure has always
+been popular and always will be, for it is just as good for the tired
+mind as it is for the tired body. Nowadays every big school and every
+college provide a grass-cure for students who are out at elbows with
+their nerve sleeves, or who have not sufficient muscle to make them fit,
+or who are overworking or need toning up in any way. There is more and
+more recognition of the fact that a school course which is taken at the
+expense of health is not worth having. And side by side with this
+wholesome admission has come a great awakening in the last fifteen years
+to the curative value of the _outdoor runway_, whether that runway be a
+field track, energetic walking in a park or campus, or a cross country
+run.
+
+Some girls--and there are more girls of this type than there are
+boys--put in their outdoor life as a stop-gap. It is inconceivable that
+this should be true, yet it is true. Apathetically the students have
+exercised sixty minutes, considering this minimum quite sufficient. Not
+a particle of zest do they reveal in the exercise taken. They do not
+seem to know or they do not care that the fields and woods should be
+full, not only of health and all that goes with it, including success,
+but also of the best of friends who all have their good points worthy of
+notice and imitation, in quick leap, cheerful voice and blithe song.
+What are sixty minutes in this great outdoor runway? Not a tithe of the
+twenty-four hours and at best only half of what the minimum should be.
+Exercise should be taken even if nothing else in the school life is.
+And I say this advisedly, for health is the basis on which not only the
+future of the woman's life must depend but also that of the race. Good
+health, the inheritance of it, its maintenance and increase, neither the
+girl nor her parents can ever hold as too sacred a trust. That it is a
+sacred trust the schools are recognizing more and more, and provisions
+are being made, especially in the public schools, for the defective in
+health as well as for the strong. The outdoor school, at first an object
+that attracted universal attention, is now being taken quite for
+granted. Foolish the girl who does not learn to take the outdoor runway
+for granted, too, and go out to it in high spirits to learn its wisdom,
+to take part in its joys and to receive its health.
+
+It may be accepted as a new axiom--the more exercise the less fool.
+Strong, able muscles, steady nerves (and let us remember that nerves
+depend for their tone on the muscular condition), a clean skin open at
+all its pores and doing its eliminative work thoroughly, and clean
+strong vitals make up the kind of beauty within the reach of all
+womanhood, and the physical beauty which she should most desire. The day
+is coming when our ideal of what is physically perfect--not spiritually,
+for Christianity has carried us beyond anything that Greece ever
+knew--will be more like the Greek in its entirety, its emphasis upon the
+harmony of the whole body. The body is a mechanism to be exquisitely
+cared for--self-running, it is true, and yet in need of intelligent
+attention. Think of the care an engineer gives his engine, and it is by
+no manner of means so wonderfully and so intricately fashioned as these
+bodies of ours on which our happiness, our working ability, even our
+very goodness depend. Health as a safeguard to one's whole moral being
+is coming into more and more recognition, and not only as a safeguard
+but also as a cultivator of all that is best in us spiritually. There
+are people very ill, or permanent invalids, whose great victory it is
+to be among the saints of the earth, but that it is easier to be good
+when one is well no one will deny. Every big school has now its class or
+classes in corrective or medical gymnastics, in which stooping
+shoulders, ewe necks, curved spines, flat insteps, small waists and
+narrow chests are rectified as far as possible in the limited hours of
+the school days.
+
+The time is coming when parents will consider it a disgrace to allow
+their children to be physically undeveloped. The physician, always in
+advance of the community for which he cares, sees how grave in moral or
+intellectual import physical defects may be. The educational world,
+alive to new messages for the reconstruction of its educational ideal,
+begins also to place more and more emphasis upon the physical care and
+development of its students--and not by any manner of means for physical
+reasons only but because the whole girl or the whole boy is better
+spiritually and mentally for having a body that is strong and well. The
+whole being keeps better time, just as a watch does, for having clean
+works. No one has the right to shut out the fresh air or the sunshine;
+no girl should remain undeveloped physically through lack of exercise
+when she could, through exercise, make herself strong. Even to abuse her
+feet, the important centre of many important nerves, by tight shoes, is
+wrong; so is it to rack her spine and upset or throw out of position all
+the delicate and wonderfully fashioned organs of the abdominal cavity by
+the wearing of high French heels. Undoubtedly, however, American
+motherhood and girlhood represent something more and more intelligent;
+indeed, in physical culture women are beginning to keep step with men,
+and it is upon this fact that school and college depend in their
+splendid efforts to make the sum of feminine vitality, despite the
+pressure of modern civilization, plus rather than minus.
+
+_The more exercise the less fool_; and it is worth remembering that the
+daily exercise, the plunge into cool or clean air, as well as the plunge
+into water, is a wit sharpener, and will do more for a student in the
+long run than "digging" possibly can. _Mens sana in corpore sano_ may be
+an old saying but it is still new enough to be repeated with vigour to
+certain people. Let us get out-of-doors and have our wits sharpened and
+see more, and do more, and be more! No one can permanently starve her
+whole body for the want of fresh air and exercise, which are the body's
+birthright, and expect to have a clear head or do well-balanced and
+helpful work in the home, or in school, or in some wage-earning career.
+If the girl attempt this impossibility she will be like the frog which
+jumped up one foot and fell back two. She will get to the bottom soon
+enough, the bottom of the class or the bottom of her health account, but
+she will never get to the top of anything. Any success, if by chance it
+should come to her, resting on a basis of ill health or indifference to
+her physical fitness for living and working, will be like the house
+built upon the sands. Before the girl is twenty, before she is
+twenty-five--the earlier the better--she should recognize this fact and
+begin to establish her life on the bed rock of health.
+
+It is true, too, ninety-nine times out of a hundred, that the country
+boy and the country girl are more resourceful than their city cousins.
+Out-of-doors they have had to use their wits and have not been spoiled
+by all the appliances of city life. Out-of-doors, too, they have made
+invaluable friendships with bird and squirrel and rabbit and deer,
+friendships whose intelligent wood-life has taught them much.
+Self-reliance is one of the lessons of the outdoor runway; and wisdom
+and inspiration come from it when they are needed. About this truth the
+work of the poet Wordsworth is one long poem. Again and again he writes
+of the perfect woman shaped by the influences of nature. Of her he
+says:
+
+ "Three years she grew in sun and shower;
+ Then Nature said, 'A lovelier flower
+ On earth was never sown;
+ This child I to myself will take;
+ She shall be mine, and I will make
+ A lady of my own.
+
+ "'Myself will to my darling be
+ Both law and impulse: and with me
+ The girl in rock and plain,
+ In earth and heaven, in glade and bower,
+ Shall feel an overseeing power
+ To kindle and restrain.
+
+ "'She shall be sportive as the fawn
+ That wild with glee across the lawn
+ Or up the mountain springs;
+ And hers shall be the breathing balm,
+ And hers the silence and the calm
+ Of mute, insensate things.
+
+ "'The floating clouds their state shall lend
+ To her; for her the willow bend;
+ Nor shall she fail to see
+ Even in the motions of the storm
+ Grace that shall mould the maiden's form
+ By silent sympathy.
+
+ "'The stars of midnight shall be dear
+ To her; and she shall lean her ear
+ In many a secret place
+ Where rivulets dance their wayward round,
+ And beauty born of murmuring sound
+ Shall pass into her face!'"
+
+No one can afford to neglect all the spiritual influence of nature, and
+the only way to receive it is to go to nature. Purity of mind, a clean
+conception of God's creative plan, a more active intellectual life are
+all there for the girl who will seek them. She cannot afford _not_ to go
+back to nature for these helps, for every woman is in some sense a
+burden bearer, and she must needs know all she can of what life means in
+order to bear these burdens well.
+
+There are various kinds of outdoor life, some one of which is within
+reach of every human being, even if they are cripples. Probably most
+girls when the outdoor life of school and college is spoken of think
+that athletics is meant. That is one part of the outdoor runway, and
+since it is provided in every school, and insisted upon, but little
+about it need be said. It is doing its work with more and more
+inspiration, as the response to its ideals comes in. And it does
+something more in every well-equipped school than merely make a girl use
+her legs and arms: it gives her a large, sane ideal of health and
+provides her with the means of keeping well. There is no more useful
+profession for the woman seeking one that is useful as well as
+remunerative than physical culture.
+
+There is another aspect of the outdoor runway of which less is said. I
+mean gardening, or the care of live stock of some kind, or bee culture.
+This is practical remunerative work which for the girl living at home
+and going to school should serve famously as a grass-cure; it would keep
+her out-of-doors with profit to both her health and her purse. And then
+there is another kind of grass-cure: the outdoor life out-of-doors, to
+be taken in long country walks, in fishing expeditions, in picnics, in
+camping or wherever roads, hills, meadows and brooks lead. Finally,
+there is the outdoor life indoors. This life insists upon windows open
+to the air and open to the sunshine, and this life every one of us may
+have all the time.
+
+
+
+
+X
+
+A GIRL'S SUMMER
+
+
+Any girl who settles down to a summer with the idea of doing nothing, or
+in an aimless, not-knowing-what-to-do-next fashion, lessens her
+opportunities for pleasure. Pleasure is not idleness, although in the
+minds of a great many people who have not thought very much it is. The
+right sort of leisure is full of opportunities for doing interesting
+things.
+
+There are some girls who look upon their summers as an escape from the
+slavery of their school year. There are others who think of their
+summers as something to be endured until they can go back to the more or
+less selfish freedom of the school. Neither is the right way. The summer
+ought not to be an entirely frivolous season, neither ought it to be too
+workaday. If a girl has work to do, everything should be so arranged as
+not to deprive the vacation of its recreative side. On the other hand
+the summer should be all the happier because of a definite object to be
+accomplished. Something is wrong with a girl unless she finds both
+summer and winter full of opportunity and pleasure.
+
+No one can possibly do all the delightful or useful things which may be
+done in a single summer. In these months there is opportunity for growth
+just as in the winter--perhaps more opportunity physically. And
+intellectually there is much to be seen and observed. For the girl who
+can, it is well to plan to be out-of-doors as much as possible. For
+some, there are opportunities for camping, for long walks, for
+gardening, to learn how to do certain physically useful things, to row,
+swim and ride. Only an extraordinary emergency would deprive a girl of
+all the out-of-door exercise which she needs. If she isn't able to be by
+the sea or in the mountains, in almost all cities there is opportunity
+for exercise and games. With a short car ride she can go to golf links,
+to tennis courts, into the country. In many semi-citified homes there
+is space for a girl to do some gardening, one of the most profitable of
+pleasures, good for the girl and good for the home. Many homes would be
+much more attractive if there were more of the garden spirit in them.
+But if there is no chance for this, there can always be physical
+culture, an opportunity to build one's self up in health, to live sanely
+and wisely, to get plenty of sleep, and to take corrective exercise. In
+physical culture a girl should find out what she most needs--almost any
+gymnastic instructor in school or college would be glad to outline
+work--and then in ten or fifteen minute exercises develop herself along
+those lines.
+
+For the girl with means there is the chance for travel, a splendid
+opportunity to cultivate many virtues of which the young traveller
+seldom thinks: patience, adaptability, seeing the bright side of things.
+Travelling may be made a very important part of education. It is too bad
+that some people of limited horizon take it simply as a chance to
+aggrandize themselves, something to boast about and with which to bore
+their friends by repeated accounts of what they did "abroad." The great
+Doctor Samuel Johnson, the compiler of the famous dictionary and author
+of "Rasselas," heartily disliked young travellers, for, he said, "They
+go too raw to make any great remarks." Travelling, if it is what it
+should be, is an educational opening. In this way can be gained a
+background for history, for literature, for sociology, and a vivid and
+living knowledge of geography. Merely running about with a guide-book
+will not achieve these ends, although a guide-book is a very important
+asset: sympathy, trying to understand what one sees, will. Travelling
+takes away provincialism because it broadens the outlook. In a very real
+sense the world becomes one's home.
+
+The girl who is not able to move about or actually travel may travel in
+books. She should be ashamed to read what is harmful or merely cheap,
+but further than that it may not much matter. Let her read the Little
+Books, if she wishes, and the Great Little Books. As surely as the
+magnet swings towards the pole will the Great Little Books take her to
+the Great Big Books. She will be drawn on and up in her reading, and
+will have cultivated a love for reading which is far more important than
+perfunctory knowledge of the classics.
+
+Just as any books that are good point towards books that are better, so
+should the good work of a girl's school year be turning her mind towards
+the future and her work as a mature woman. In the summer she has time to
+assimilate all she has done, to get her bearings, and to plan wisely for
+the year, or years, to come. For a girl of strong physique the summer
+vacation gives an opportunity to add towards what she is going to do
+eventually; to specialize in some line of work, to take a library, or
+scientific, course. Many girls, however, who wish to spend their summer
+in this fashion ought not to consider it, for they are not strong
+enough. It is well for them to remember that it is the quality of work
+that counts rather than the quantity. Often the quality of a girl's work
+for an ensuing school year depends upon her freedom from study during
+the summer. Students should be very sure, if they undertake work in the
+summer, that it is not done simply from a nervous desire to go on
+regardless of the quality of the work done. But for those in perfect
+health this is an opportunity to try their powers in different ways in
+order to discover what it is they really wish to do. A summer so spent
+may keep many a girl from slipping into teaching just because it seems
+the only thing she can do. Such a salvation will be twofold, for it will
+save not only the girl, but also a profession overcrowded with loveless
+followers. There are so many needs to be filled by a woman's work that
+it is her duty to look for some vocation for which she is truly adapted,
+to get out of the ruts of those professions into which women flock
+because they have no initiative.
+
+Often a girl thinks only of what she will do with her own summer without
+thinking of what she will do with her mother's or her father's summer.
+For nine or ten months they have been thinking of what they could do for
+her. Sometimes girls do not realize the actual need of help and of
+companionship which those at home feel, and the older people are too
+unselfish to force this need upon their juniors. Between the
+unselfishness of those who are older and the self-centredness of those
+who are younger, there is often sad havoc made in a home. A girl who,
+after a year's absence and all that has been done for her, can't adjust
+herself to those who need her, has still something to learn.
+
+If older people cannot do without the buoyancy of the young, the young
+cannot very well afford to forget the mother and father who have much,
+although no word may be didactically spoken, to teach them. Let the
+girl take her summer not only as an opportunity to grow closer to her
+family but also as a chance to learn home-making, to train herself in
+the practical things of the home. This practical training is often a
+very valuable supplement to the school work. The time is passed when the
+learned woman who is unable to do anything for herself is the ideal--if
+she ever has been that. The inability to make a home for herself, to do
+all the necessary things daintily, detracts from a woman's power. In
+practical ways a woman should be both dainty and capable. Parents, as
+well as girls, sometimes forget or do not clearly recognize the fact
+that no school, no college, can take the place of the home, that schools
+are not primarily schools in home-making, but rather schools of general
+education. The summer is a good time for the girl to find her place
+again in the home life, and for both parents and children to rejoice in
+the pleasures of the home--pleasures and opportunities which no
+institutional life can give.
+
+
+
+
+XI
+
+FROM THE SCHOOL TO THE GIRL
+
+
+What the school is able to do for the girl depends very largely upon the
+girl herself. The majority of people with whom she comes in contact do
+not take that into consideration, and the school is held unfairly
+responsible for the girl. All any school can do is to use the material
+it finds. Some one has said, with harsh but true emphasis, that a
+college does not make a fool, it simply helps in the development of one.
+As an illustration of its limitations, a school sends out two girls from
+the same class; one girl it is proud to have taken as a type, the other
+it is sorry to have represent it. Yet both have been under exactly the
+same influence. Students do not realize how fearfully at their mercy a
+school is, or that, so far as reputation is concerned, it is they who
+make or mar its credit.
+
+If the school training is worth anything at all, it makes the most of
+unpromising material. Its really discouraging experience is not with the
+girl of limited ability who gives her best and so in some sense gets the
+best, but with the student who doesn't give her best and who, because of
+her own indifference, is always misrepresenting the training she is
+receiving. No school ever wishes to have its ideals confused by a vulgar
+display of wealth or by loud or conspicuous behaviour. Yet many a
+school, with ideals all that they should be, is misjudged in public
+places because of some thoughtless or unreliable girls. This doesn't
+seem like fair-play or team-play, does it? The fineness of life ought to
+be felt and expressed in student behaviour. Yet how often it is not!
+
+Another way in which the ideals of a school or college are
+misrepresented is by lack of intellectual integrity. Any school informed
+with a large spirit wishes to meet its students on a platform of
+absolute trust,--a platform which makes precautions against dishonesty
+unnecessary. Just so long as a school must be vigilant in order to keep
+a few students from unfair behaviour, just so long is it prevented from
+meeting them all on a basis of absolute trust. Why should girls excuse
+themselves for classroom dishonesty? What would they think of a girl who
+cheated in basket-ball? Would they condone that? Until student
+government has recognized absolute intellectual integrity as a part of
+its ideas, it will not have achieved its end. The rock on which all
+scholarship is founded is honour. Lack of honour is fatal to its ideal.
+"Cribbing," often excused by people who do not stop to think, is the
+small beginning of a big evil.
+
+Many a large institution is like an anxious mother, not always
+infallible in wisdom, but personally interested in and eager for the
+success of the individual. A successful girl brings credit to her
+school, for she demonstrates, as nothing else can, the fact that the
+school is achieving its purpose in service to the community. How much
+this encouragement is needed, girls do not realize, for they do not know
+all the difficulties which institutions, especially technical and
+collegiate, have to meet in sending their students out into the world.
+In finding a position for a student, the school has to consider the
+whole girl. It may care greatly for an attractive personality and yet
+see that its possessor is lacking in qualities of faithfulness and
+accuracy, and that with its utmost endeavour it has never been able to
+correct these faults. On the other hand, the school may have those
+students whose manners, whose dress, whose personality, whose spelling,
+whose awkwardly expressed notes, whose lack of promptness, make against
+success in any capacity.
+
+Another point for which the school looks in recommending its students is
+physical fitness, which shows itself in many different ways: in voice,
+in carriage, in attractiveness, in staying power. One teacher who had
+an excellent record as a student and was, besides, a fine girl, had so
+unpleasant and absurd a voice that her students were in a continual
+state of amusement and would learn nothing from her. A great many
+teachers have lost in power because of a poor voice, strident, or
+lifeless, or husky, or falsetto. A poor enunciation, or words that do
+not carry, are ineffectual means by which to reach a class, to hold a
+customer, or to introduce one's self favourably to the interest of
+others. For a girl who is going to have any part in public life--and
+most girls do nowadays--a good voice is an absolute essential. And it is
+well for us to remember that the voice is not something superficial, but
+that it is the expression of that which is within.
+
+Another way in which physical fitness shows itself is in the carriage. A
+girl who carries herself with erectness and energy brings a certain
+conviction with her of fitness for many things, of self-respect, of
+ability, and reveals in her bearing something of her mind as well as of
+her body. We are always tempted to think a person who "slumps"
+physically may slump in other ways. A good carriage, good voice, and
+strong, clean, digestive system are far more important than beauty of
+features.
+
+There is another matter at which the school in placing its students must
+look. To be a desirable candidate for a good position a girl need not be
+expensively gowned, but she must be daintily and freshly dressed.
+Immaculate shirt waist, a plain, well-made skirt, with good shoes,
+stockings and gloves and a quiet, pretty hat, are all any woman needs in
+meeting her business obligations. And that daintiness which she shows in
+her dress she must show in her person too, in clean skin and
+finger-nails, good teeth, and smooth, attractively arranged hair.
+
+It is very important for the interests of a school, as well as for the
+individual, to place its students advantageously. To have them succeed
+widens its sphere of usefulness and influence and opens new channels of
+service. Every college puts itself to considerable expense in looking
+out for the interests of its students, for the glory of a great school
+lies not only in the people whom it collects into its midst, but even
+more in those whom it sends out. A girl has no right to go so lightly
+through her school life that she fails to see in it all the
+self-sacrifice and effort and ambitions that have gone into the building
+up of what is her privilege and opportunity. In so far as she does this
+she fails in the team-play spirit. Why should a girl think that she can
+spend her father's money, or the means of her school, thoughtlessly?
+What would happen to her if she did this with the funds of her
+basket-ball team? Yet girls waste the resources of their school by
+carelessness with its property, a carelessness that collectively mounts
+up into thousands of dollars, and never once stop to think how
+difficult every big school finds it to make ends meet.
+
+Before it is too late, at least now that she is leaving school, let her
+stop to realize that a great deal of the work for an institution is
+along the line of self-sacrifice, in the gifts given, in the work of its
+administrators and teachers. This unselfishness means a financial loss,
+for business ability might be invested in more lucrative ways; it means
+a social sacrifice, for there is a certain kind of impersonality which
+is demanded in work that deals with a continually changing community; it
+means risk in the great strain put upon physical and nervous strength;
+it means forgetting one's self; for the true teacher is willing to be
+forgotten when she has served others. What a school may accomplish for
+its students is its only compensation for all this self-sacrifice.
+
+
+
+
+XII
+
+THE WORK TO BE
+
+
+One of the qualities a girl who has completed her school or college life
+needs to show for a few months more than anything else is the quality of
+adjustment, for she will find that she must continually adjust herself
+to new conditions whether they be of the home or elsewhere. All the time
+through school she has been in some sense a centre of interest. Her
+class has been an important factor in the academic life. When she has
+gone home it has been as a school or college girl, and she has been of
+interest because she brought that life into the home. But now the
+attitude of others towards her is different. She ceases to be the centre
+of attention, and for her a day of serious readjustment is at hand.
+Perhaps in her own estimate she has seemed even more important than she
+really was. She is likely now to swing from a sense of self-importance
+to an injured feeling of insignificance, and to a conviction that people
+can get along quite as well without her. Up to this time when she has
+gone home she has been an honoured visitor. But now that she is at home
+to stay, instead of becoming the centre she is merely part of the family
+circle with its obligation of doing for others. Her presence in the
+household is no longer a novelty.
+
+The swift change from a highly-organized, methodical life to the life of
+the home where there is not so much method, is hard for a girl. One
+reason it is difficult is that while she may be accomplishing a great
+deal that is useful, she seems to be doing nothing and to get nowhere.
+She feels as if she were in the midst of a conflict of duties. In school
+she has had implanted in her the idea that she must accomplish some
+definite thing, and between this objective and the irregular demands of
+the home there appears to be more or less clashing. She is confronted by
+a problem not easy for any one to solve: how to keep her definiteness
+of aim and work, and yet not be self-centred.
+
+Oftentimes when a girl fails to adjust herself to the home life, her
+family and friends feel that she is rather selfish in her desire to
+carry out her own aims rather than to give them up for new demands.
+Frequently the family is as much to blame for not realizing that the
+girl needs to be helped back into the old life as the girl is for not
+being able to help herself. In the home the spirit of team-play is much
+needed. Quite as much as the girl, the family has a lesson to learn in
+the art of adjustment and in remembering that this grown-up child isn't
+just the same individual she was when she went away several years ago.
+They need to realize that the girl may be able to give more to the home
+life than she ever did before, but that it will be given in a somewhat
+different way.
+
+While she is learning the difficult art of finding her place again, a
+great deal depends upon the individual girl, not only in the home but
+in the community at large. Sometimes she needs to be reminded that
+although she may have had more advantages than those left at home, that
+doesn't necessarily make her a superior person. A girl who is inclined
+either to pity or to admire herself too greatly should give herself a
+vigorous shaking. In the long run she will find it easier to do that on
+her own account than to have others do it for her. The friends at home,
+or in the church, or in the town, with education of a different kind
+coming to them, may have quite as much and more to give her than she to
+give them. One indicator of a really cultivated woman is her power to
+adapt herself to the circumstances in which she is placed. A gentlewoman
+never calls attention to the difference between herself and somebody
+else. The woman of broad culture is the one who makes everybody feel at
+home with her. If a girl's education has been worth anything at all, it
+should give her not a superior, set-aside feeling, but a desire to be
+more friendly and useful wherever she may be, and, not placing too much
+stress on externals, to look for essentials, to get the full value from
+every person and from every experience with which she comes in contact.
+
+Girls go to so many different kinds of homes that it is unlikely that
+they will meet the same sorts of difficulties. There is the girl who
+goes into the society home, where it is impossible for her to carry out
+her ideals without conflict with its social standards. On the other
+hand, there is the girl who goes into the very simple home where all the
+stress is upon the domestic side of life. And there is the girl who has
+to provide part of the family income. Very likely she has the hardest
+problem of all. She enters upon some new work, and nine times out of ten
+the way is not made easy for her; she is a novice with all the hardships
+that come to the novice. Perhaps in the beginning she has met a very
+real perplexity in hardly knowing what line of work to take up. She has
+no particular interest, no especial talent, no brilliant record, no
+powerful friends, no money with which to establish herself. With her it
+must be as it is with thinking: she must seize hold of the thing nearest
+her. What seems to her a temporary and unsatisfactory expedient will in
+many cases open out a path leading to something much broader. At least
+she may remember this as consolation: that even that experience of
+uncertainty, of indecision, is a part of education, and out of it,
+rightly and bravely met, will come some richness for her future life.
+
+The beginning of a work, teaching or anything else, may have to be
+rather irksome, indeed, may be exceedingly difficult,--an experience
+that will perhaps test staying power to the utmost. When it is too late
+to give due appreciation we realize that the work in school which was
+planned for us and arranged with our physical and mental well-being in
+view was, after all, not so hard as we thought it at the time. We wish
+that we had enjoyed our leisure more and complained less.
+
+From the point of view of fatigue, as a secretary, a clerk, a trained
+nurse, a teacher, a social worker, the burden may be so great that the
+girl is disheartened. She is all the more disheartened because, knowing
+that a useful life is a strong, steady pull, the way before her seems
+interminable. If she carries her whip inside her--this counsel is not
+for those of us who are lazy--she does well to remember that there is a
+point beyond which fatigue should not be borne, that is, when it
+overdraws her capital of health and nervous energy. Raising pigs is
+preferable to a so-called high profession when pig-raising is happily
+joined with a reasonable amount of health and security. The pigs and
+health together can always pay mortgages and buy necessities for those
+dependent upon us and for ourselves. The high calling without health is
+like a wet paper-bag: it will hold nothing.
+
+The girl meets with another difficulty in finding out that in almost any
+line of work a great deal of time is needed for the mastery of what seem
+the simplest principles. No one wants the girl who hasn't had
+experience, and nobody seems disposed to take her and give her that
+experience. However, we all find some one who is hardy enough or kind
+enough to try us; and as every year now there is more effort put into
+finding the work girls are most suited to do, there is no excuse for
+slipping into teaching as a last resort. Not unnaturally we sometimes
+distrust ourselves, especially in taking up an occupation to which we
+are not accustomed. And in her new work the girl, uncertain of her
+ability to master what she has undertaken, is placed in a position in
+which she has the encouragement of neither the school nor the home.
+Before, she has put much of the responsibility for her work and life
+upon parents and instructors. Now she has to be her own judge and pass
+judgment on herself and her work. She has, too, not only to lift her
+own weight but the weight of others as well. As she longs for
+coöperation, good will and encouragement the value of the team-play
+spirit has never seemed so great before.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+We do not need to be told to remember the happy and easy experiences of
+life. No girl forgets them. What we do need is some one to tell us where
+the hard places will be, to warn us, to stiffen our courage and to point
+clearly to the uses of hard work and adversity. And although this may
+seem like placing another straw on the poor camel's back, it is now time
+to say that in her life-work, whether it be in her home or outside, a
+girl should be very clear in her mind what her aims and purposes are. If
+she is working solely for the praise and commendation of others, she
+will often be grievously disappointed. Not in recognition does real
+reward lie, but in the work itself. If she wins great popularity she is
+likely to find that there is nothing that shifts so quickly and is such
+a quicksand. If material wealth is her sole object she will harden into
+the thing she seeks and add but another joyless barbarian to a modern
+world congratulating itself that barbarism is a thing of the past, and
+yet presenting the spectacle of a mammon worship such as has never been
+seen before. If gold is her end, and not the means to a nobler end, then
+she will find herself constantly sacrificing higher issues to that, and
+lowering her one-time ideals. Truly the woman who marries solely for the
+comforts of a home, the woman who teaches, or nurses for "pay" alone,
+has her reward, and that is in self-destruction. She is a carrier of
+barbarism, not of culture; of disease, not of health; of tribulation,
+not of joy. The only real reward there can be lies in the idealism, the
+joy, the strength of the work done and in a mind and heart conscious of
+having done their best.
+
+
+THE END
+
+
+
+
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+<h1><i>A Girl's Student Days and After</i></h1>
+
+<h3><i>By</i></h3>
+
+<h2><i>JEANNETTE MARKS, M. A.</i></h2>
+
+<h3>(<i>Wellesley</i>)</h3>
+
+<p class="center">
+<i>With an Introduction by</i><br />
+<i>MARY EMMA WOOLLEY, LL. D.</i><br />
+<i>President of Mt. Holyoke College</i><br />
+<br />
+<i>New York Chicago Toronto</i><br />
+<i>Fleming H. Revell Company</i><br />
+<i>London and Edinburgh</i><br />
+</p>
+
+<p class="center">
+Copyright, 1911, by<br />
+FLEMING H. REVELL COMPANY<br />
+<br />
+New York: 158 Fifth Avenue<br />
+Chicago: 125 North Wabash Ave.<br />
+Toronto: 25 Richmond Street, W.<br />
+London: 21 Paternoster Square<br />
+Edinburgh: 100 Princes Street<br />
+</p>
+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<h4><i>Inscribed</i></h4>
+<h4><i>to</i></h4>
+<h2><i>MARY EMMA WOOLLEY, LL. D.</i></h2>
+
+
+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_7" id="Page_7">[Pg 7]</a></span></p>
+<h2><a name="Introduction" id="Introduction"></a><i>Introduction</i></h2>
+
+
+<p>The school and college girl is an important factor in our life to-day.
+Around her revolve all manner of educational schemes, to her are open
+all kinds of educational opportunities. There was never an age in which
+so much thought was expended upon her, or so much interest felt in her
+development.</p>
+
+<p>There are many articles written and many speeches delivered on the
+responsibility of parents and teachers&mdash;it may not be amiss occasionally
+to turn the shield and show that some of the responsibility rests upon
+the girl herself. After all, she is the determining factor, for
+buildings and equipment, courses and teachers accomplish little without
+her co&ouml;peration.</p>
+
+<p>It is difficult for the "new girl," whether in school or college, to
+<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_8" id="Page_8">[Pg 8]</a></span>realize the extent to which the success of her school life depends upon
+herself. In a new environment, surrounded by what seem to her
+"multitudes" of new faces, obliged to meet larger demands under strange
+and untried conditions, she is quite likely to go to the other extreme
+and exaggerate her own insignificance. Sometimes she is fortunate enough
+to have an older sister or friend to help her steer her bark through
+these untried waters, but generally she must find her own bearings.</p>
+
+<p>To such a girl, the wise hints in the chapters which follow this
+introduction are invaluable, giving an insight into the meaning of
+fair-play in the classroom as well as on the athletic field; the
+relation between physical well-being and academic success; the
+difference between the social life that is <i>re</i>-creative and that which
+is "<i>nerves</i>-creative"; the significance of loyalty to the school and to
+the home; the way in which school days determine to a large degree the
+days that come after. These, and many other suggestions, wise and
+<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_9" id="Page_9">[Pg 9]</a></span>forceful, I commend not only to the new girl, but also to the "old
+girl" who would make her school and college days count for more both
+while they last and as preparation for the work that is to follow.</p>
+
+<div class="poem"><div class="stanza">
+<span class="i22"><span class="smcap">Mary</span> E. <span class="smcap">Woolley</span>.<br /></span>
+</div><div class="stanza">
+<span class="i6"><i>Mt. Holyoke College,</i><br /></span>
+<span class="i0"><i>South Hadley, Massachusetts.</i><br /></span>
+</div></div>
+
+
+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_11" id="Page_11">[Pg 11]</a></span></p>
+<h2><a name="CONTENTS" id="CONTENTS"></a><i>CONTENTS</i></h2>
+
+
+
+
+<div class='center'>
+<table border="0" cellpadding="4" cellspacing="0" summary="">
+<tr><td align='left'>A Word to the Wise</td><td align='right'><a href="#Page_13">13</a></td></tr>
+<tr><td align='left'>I. The Ideal Freshman</td><td align='right'><a href="#Page_17">17</a></td></tr>
+<tr><td align='left'>II. The Girl and the School</td><td align='right'><a href="#Page_25">25</a></td></tr>
+<tr><td align='left'>III. Friendships</td><td align='right'><a href="#Page_33">33</a></td></tr>
+<tr><td align='left'>IV. The Student's Room</td><td align='right'><a href="#Page_41">41</a></td></tr>
+<tr><td align='left'>V. The Tools of Study and Their Use</td><td align='right'><a href="#Page_54">54</a></td></tr>
+<tr><td align='left'>VI. The Joy of Work</td><td align='right'><a href="#Page_61">61</a></td></tr>
+<tr><td align='left'>VII. Fair-Play</td><td align='right'><a href="#Page_70">70</a></td></tr>
+<tr><td align='left'>VIII. The Right Sort of Leisure</td><td align='right'><a href="#Page_78">78</a></td></tr>
+<tr><td align='left'>IX. The Outdoor Runway</td><td align='right'><a href="#Page_88">88</a></td></tr>
+<tr><td align='left'>X. A Girl's Summer</td><td align='right'><a href="#Page_99">99</a></td></tr>
+<tr><td align='left'>XI. From the School to the Girl</td><td align='right'><a href="#Page_107">107</a></td></tr>
+<tr><td align='left'>XII. The Work to Be</td><td align='right'><a href="#Page_115">115</a></td></tr>
+</table></div>
+
+
+
+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_13" id="Page_13">[Pg 13]</a></span></p>
+<h2><a name="A_Word_to_the_Wise" id="A_Word_to_the_Wise"></a><i>A Word to the Wise</i></h2>
+
+
+<p>We train for basket-ball, golf, tennis or for whatever sport we have the
+most liking. Is there any reason why we should not use the same
+intelligence in the approach to our general school life? Is there any
+reason why we should make an obstacle race, however good and amusing
+exercise that may be, out of <i>all</i> our school life? We don't expect to
+win a game with a sprained wrist or ankle, and there really is no reason
+why we should plan to sprain the back of school or college life by
+avoidable mistakes.</p>
+
+<p>The writer believes in the girl who has the capacity for making
+mistakes,&mdash;that headlong, energetic spirit which blunders all too
+easily. But the writer knows how much those mistakes hurt and how much
+energy might be saved for a life that, with just a pinch less of
+blunder, might be none the less savoury. School and college are no place
+for<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_14" id="Page_14">[Pg 14]</a></span> vocal soloists, and after some of us have sung so sweetly and so
+long at home, with every one saying, "Just hear Mary sing, isn't it
+wonderful!" it is rather trying, you know, to go to a place where vocal
+solos are not popular. And we wish some one&mdash;at least I did&mdash;had told us
+all about this fact as well as other facts of school life. Anyway it
+should be a comfort to have a book lying on the table in our school or
+college room, or at home, which will tell us why Mary, after having been
+a famous soloist at home made a failure or a great success in chorus
+work at school. Such a book is something like having a loaded gun in
+readiness for the robber. We may never use the shotgun or the book but
+they are there, with the reassuring sense of shot in the locker.</p>
+
+<p>It is something, is it not, to have a little book which will tell you
+how to get into school and how to get out (for at times there seem to be
+difficulties in both these directions)&mdash;in short, to tell you something
+of<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_15" id="Page_15">[Pg 15]</a></span> many things: your first year at school or college, your part in the
+school life, the friendships you will make, your study and how to work
+in it, the pleasure and right kind of spirit involved in work, the quiet
+times, as well as the jolly times, out-of-doors, your summers and how to
+spend them, what the school has tried to do for you; and, as you go out
+into the world, some of the aspects, whether you are to be wife,
+secretary or teacher, of the work which you will do. Of one thing you
+may be certain; that behind every sentence of this little book is
+experience, that here are only those opinions of which experience has
+made a good, wholesome zwieback.</p>
+
+<p>I wish to take this opportunity to thank my friend, Mrs. Belle Kellogg
+Towne, editor of <i>The Girls' Companion</i> and <i>Young People's Weekly</i>,
+Chicago, for her co&ouml;peration in allowing me to use half the material in
+this little book; also Dr. C. R. Blackall, of Philadelphia.</p>
+
+<p><i>Camp Runway.</i> J. M.</p>
+
+
+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_17" id="Page_17">[Pg 17]</a></span></p>
+<h2><a name="I" id="I"></a>I</h2>
+
+<h3>THE IDEAL FRESHMAN</h3>
+
+
+<p>Freshman year, the beginning year, the year of new experiences, new
+delights, new work, new friends, new surroundings; the year that may
+mean much to a girl, that may answer some of the questions that have
+lain long in heart and mind, that will surely reveal her more clearly to
+herself, that may make her understand others better and help her to
+guess something of the riddle of the years to come!</p>
+
+<p>What has the student done to get ready for this year? If she were going
+camping she would know that certain things were necessary to make the
+expedition a success. With what excitement and pleasure, what thoughts
+of jolly camp-fires, deep, sweet-smelling forests, and long days afoot,
+she would prepare everything. She would not let any one else do this for
+her, for that would mean<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_18" id="Page_18">[Pg 18]</a></span> losing too much of the fun. But the <i>freshman
+year</i>, what about the thinking and planning for that, also an expedition
+into a new world, and a veritable adventure of a vast deal more
+importance than a few days or weeks of camping? Would she enter forests
+upon whose trees the camp-fires throw many shadows, follow the stream
+that cleaves its way through the woods, go along the runway of deer or
+caribou or moose, with a mind to all intents and purposes a blank? No,
+her mind would be vivid with thoughts and interests.</p>
+
+<p>With the same keen attention should she enter the new year at school or
+college, and as she passes through it, thinking about all that comes to
+her, she will find it growing less and less difficult and more and more
+friendly. She will consider what the freshman year is to be like, think
+of what sorts of girls she is to meet and make friends with, what the
+work will be, what she may expect in good times from this new adventure,
+and,<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_19" id="Page_19">[Pg 19]</a></span> thoughtful about it all, make the minimum of mistakes and get the
+maximum of benefit.</p>
+
+<p>Here come some of the girls who are entering school and college with
+her&mdash;bright-haired, dark-haired, rosy or pale, tall and thin, fat and
+short, clever and average, desirable and undesirable,&mdash;in fact, all
+sorts and conditions of girls. Who is to be the leader of them all? She
+is the <i>ideal freshman</i>, a nice, well-set-up girl who does not think too
+much of herself, who is not self-conscious, and who does not forget for
+what she is sent to school. Despite the temptations of school life she
+uses her days wisely and well. She does not isolate herself, for she
+sees the plan and value of the recreative side of school-days. She is
+already laying the foundations for a successful, useful, normal
+existence, establishing confidence at the outset and not handicapping
+herself through her whole course by making people lose their faith in
+her. Our <i>ideal freshman</i> may be the girl who is to do distinguished
+work; she may be the student<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_20" id="Page_20">[Pg 20]</a></span> who does her best; and because it is her
+best, the work, though not brilliant, is distinguished by virtue of her
+effort. She may be the girl who is to make a happy home life through her
+poise and earnestness and common sense. Whoever she is, in any event in
+learning to do her best she is winning nine-tenths of the battle of a
+successful career. It is she, attractive, able, earnest, with the
+"fair-play" or team-play spirit in all she does, true to herself and to
+others, whom every school wants, whose unconscious influence is so great
+in building up the morale of any school. Mark this girl and follow her,
+for she is worthy of your hero worship.</p>
+
+<p>This is the girl who goes into school in much the same spirit that she
+would enter upon a larger life. She is not a prig and she is not a dig,
+but she knows there are responsibilities to be met and she meets them.
+She expects to have to think about the new conditions in which she finds
+herself and to adjust herself to them, and she does it. She<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_21" id="Page_21">[Pg 21]</a></span> knows the
+meaning of the team-play spirit and she takes her place quietly on the
+team, one among many, and both works and plays with respect for the
+rights and positions of others. It is in the temper of the words
+sometimes stamped upon the coins of our country&mdash;<i>E Pluribus Unum</i>&mdash;that
+she makes a success of her school life. She knows that not only is our
+country bigger than any one of its states, but also that every school is
+bigger than any one of its members whether teacher or student. In a
+small family at home conditions have been more or less made for her,
+just as they are for other girls. Yet she knows that the school life is
+complicated and complex, and it is impossible for her to feel neglected
+where a more self-centred or spoiled girl fails to see that in this new
+life she is called upon to play a minor part but nevertheless a part
+upon which the school must rely for its <i>esprit de corps</i>. She goes with
+ease from the somewhat unmethodical life of the home to the highly
+organized routine<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_22" id="Page_22">[Pg 22]</a></span> of the school because she understands the meaning of
+the word "team-play." She has the co&ouml;perative spirit.</p>
+
+<p>Yet there are other girls, too, in this school which the freshman is
+entering. There is the student who errs on the side of leading too
+workaday a life, and in so doing has lost something of the buoyancy and
+breadth and "snap" which would make her associations and her work
+fresher and more vigorous. "The Grind," she has been called, and if she
+recognize herself in this sketch, let her take care to reach out for a
+bigger and fuller life than she is leading. And there is, too, the
+selfish student whose "class-spirit" is self-spirit; and the girl who is
+not selfish but who uses herself up in too many interests, dramatic,
+athletic, society, philanthropic and in a dozen others. She is probably
+over-conscientious, a good girl in every way, but in doing too much she
+loses sight of the real aim of her school life. To these must be added
+another student,&mdash;the freshman who skims the surface, and is,<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_23" id="Page_23">[Pg 23]</a></span> when she
+gets out, where she was when she entered&mdash;no, not quite so far along,
+for she has slipped back. She is selfish, relying upon the patience and
+burden-bearing capacity of her father and mother, as well as the school.</p>
+
+<p>No doubt every girl would meet her obligations squarely if she realized
+what was the underlying significance of the freshman year; the school
+life would surely be approached with a conscientious purpose. What a
+girl gets in school will much depend upon what she has to give. No girl
+is there simply to have a good time or merely to learn things out of
+books. Nor is she there to fill in the interim between childhood and
+young womanhood, when one will go into society, another marry, and a
+third take up some wage-earning career. No, she is there to carry life
+forward in the deepest, truest sense; and the longer she can have to get
+an education and to make the best of the opportunities of school and
+college life, the richer and fuller her after-years will be. Both middle
+life and<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_24" id="Page_24">[Pg 24]</a></span> old age will be deeper and stronger. Let us think about these
+girls, let us think about what it means to be a freshman, and so lessen
+our difficulties and increase our pleasures; let us have a big
+conception,&mdash;a large ideal always at heart&mdash;of what the <i>first year</i>
+should be, and beginning well we shall be the more likely to end well.</p>
+
+
+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_25" id="Page_25">[Pg 25]</a></span></p>
+<h2><a name="II" id="II"></a>II</h2>
+
+<h3>THE GIRL AND THE SCHOOL</h3>
+
+
+<p>Inside school or college the girl is in several ways responsible for the
+atmosphere. Merely in her conversation she can be of service or
+dis-service. It may be simply a good joke which she is telling, but if
+the joke misrepresents the school she will, perhaps, do lasting harm. If
+she is hypercritical&mdash;and there is nothing so contagious as
+criticism&mdash;she influences people in the direction of her thought; she
+sets a current of criticism in motion. A student frequently gives vent
+to an opinion that is only half-baked&mdash;it is well, by the way, to make
+zwieback of all our opinions before we pass them around as edible&mdash;about
+courses and instructors. She does not realize that some opinions to be
+worth anything must be the result of a long process of baking, that a
+nibble from<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_26" id="Page_26">[Pg 26]</a></span> the corner of a four months' or nine months' course will
+not, however understandingly it may be Fletcherized, tell you whether
+the course is going to be fruit cake, meringue or common soda crackers.
+She may think that she herself is so unimportant that what she says
+can't matter, or she may not mean what she says and be merely letting
+off steam. Nevertheless her influence is exerted. Some one showed an old
+lady, who had never been known to say anything in the least critical of
+any human being, the picture of a very fat man prominent in public life.
+She looked at it a moment, and then said sweetly: "My, isn't he plump!"
+If only there were more old and young ladies like that dear soul!</p>
+
+<p>There is another kind of conversation which may not be ill-natured and
+yet does harm. Idle gossiping, talking about things that are not worth
+while or speculating about affairs which are not our business and of
+which we know little or nothing. Akin to this is fashionably slangy
+conversation concerning<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_27" id="Page_27">[Pg 27]</a></span> the latest thing in books, magazine articles,
+trivial plays. For even the "tone" of school or college conversation a
+student is responsible. She can make her school seem cheap or
+cultivated. The remarks which visitors overhear as they go from room to
+room or from building to building are likely to indicate the "tone" of
+an institution. A catalogue may say all it pleases about a school but in
+the end the school is judged by the women it educates and sends out,
+even as a tree is known by its fruit. Cultivated, strong women are worth
+more in advertisement than all the printed material in the world,
+however laudatory.</p>
+
+<p>When a girl has received everything her Alma Mater has to give, she has
+no right to be untrue to its fundamental aims and ideals, or to
+misrepresent it in any way, either by what she says or by her own
+behaviour. Every student in a large institution is in a sense a
+pensioner. No student can pay for what is given to her. Is it not a poor
+return<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_28" id="Page_28">[Pg 28]</a></span> for her to be reflecting dishonour rather than honour upon her
+school?</p>
+
+<p>There is a certain social selfishness in the way some students take
+their opportunities for granted without realizing that there are
+thousands and hundreds of thousands of girls who would give all that
+they possess for a tithe of such riches. Also, because of the sacrifice
+which is being made for them at home girls are selfish in taking their
+school or college life carelessly. The school has to bear much of the
+responsibility for the individual failure. But of this the student who
+is failing rarely thinks. Parents hold an institution to blame if it
+does not do for their child what they expect it to do, when it may be
+the girl who is at fault.</p>
+
+<p>In the use she makes of her portion of inheritance, in the gift the
+school bestows on the student, there is a large social question
+involved. The school gives her of its wealth, the result of the
+accumulation of years and of the civic or philanthropic spirit of many<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_29" id="Page_29">[Pg 29]</a></span>
+men and women. This, if the girl's sense of responsibility is what it
+should be, she feels bound to increase and hand on. It is the old
+<i>noblesse oblige</i> under new conditions of privilege.</p>
+
+<p>While she is still in school the girl discharges part of this obligation
+by realizing what is best for her school as an institution. A college or
+a big school is no place for vocal soloists. Its life is the life of an
+orchestra, of many instruments playing together. The student's sense of
+responsibility is shown by her attitude towards the corporate government
+and administration of the school. Instead of regarding the laws of her
+school as natural enemies, chafing against them, making fun of them or
+evading them if possible, she has a duty in fulfilling them. The
+consciousness of this responsibility is the very heart and soul of the
+student self-government movement, for it recognizes not only the
+obligation placed upon its members by an institution, but also the wide
+influence one<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_30" id="Page_30">[Pg 30]</a></span> girl may have on others. Student government knows that
+upper class girls can determine the spirit of the under classes. Even
+looking at the matter from the lightest point of view, respectful and
+law-abiding ways are always well-bred ways.</p>
+
+<p>When a student becomes an alumna she can discharge a large part of her
+great responsibility by realizing that it is not any longer so much a
+question of what her school can give her as of what she can give to her
+school. One thing she can always give it&mdash;that is, kindly judgment. And
+she can acknowledge that her ideas of what her Alma Mater is after her
+own school-days may not be correct. The school, sad to say, is sometimes
+placed in the position of the kindly old farmer who, hearing others call
+a certain man a liar, said: "Waal now, I wouldn't say he wuz a <i>liar</i>.
+That's a bit harsh. I'd say he handled the truth mighty careless-like."
+Schools find that some of their alumn&aelig; handle the truth mighty
+careless-like.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_31" id="Page_31">[Pg 31]</a></span></p>
+
+<p>While she is still a student a girl's service to her school lies largely
+in her daily work, the mental muscle she puts into all that she does in
+the classroom and studies out of it. If because of her and a multiple of
+many girls like her, the college does not possess that <i>sine qua non</i> of
+all the higher mental life, an intellectual atmosphere, it is the
+student's and her multiple's fault. "You may lead a horse to water but
+you cannot make it drink," may be an old adage, but it would be hard to
+improve upon it. You may set before students a veritable Thanksgiving
+feast of things intellectual, but if they have no eagerness, no appetite
+for them, the feast remains untouched. Energy and hunger of the mind,
+not the anxious hosts, will in the end decide whether that feast is or
+is not to be eaten.</p>
+
+<p>The school considers not only scholarship but also the sum of all that
+it is, its culture, its attainment, its moral force, as these elements
+are expressed in its living members, its students and its teachers&mdash;in
+short, its idealism.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_32" id="Page_32">[Pg 32]</a></span> Idealism is having one's life governed by ideals,
+and an ideal is a perfect conception of that which is good, beautiful
+and true. If the girl's life is not governed by ideals, how, then, can
+the school hope to have its idealism live or grow? Frequently students
+think of the ideals of college or school as of something outside
+themselves, more or less intangible, with which they may or may not be
+concerned. Students cannot do their institution a greater injury than by
+harbouring such a thought, for if their sense of responsibility will
+only make the idea of the school personal, then indeed will the school
+be like that house upon which the rains descended and the winds blew but
+it fell not, for it was founded upon a rock.</p>
+
+
+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_33" id="Page_33">[Pg 33]</a></span></p>
+<h2><a name="III" id="III"></a>III</h2>
+
+<h3>FRIENDSHIPS</h3>
+
+
+<p>Homesickness and friendships, how much and how vivid a part they play in
+the first year, or years, of school life! An old coloured physician was
+asked about a certain patient who was very ill. "I'll tell you de truf,"
+was the reply. "Widout any perception, Phoebe Pamela may die and she may
+get well; dere's considerable danger bofe ways." I will tell you one
+truth about the first year of school life: friends there will surely be,
+and homesickness there is likely to be,&mdash;there is "considerable danger
+both ways."</p>
+
+<p>Even if a girl has never been away from home before, it is possible that
+she will not suffer from homesickness. It is probable, however, that the
+new surroundings in which the girl finds herself, and the separation
+from those who are the centre of her personal life, will bring on an
+attack of this most painful<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_34" id="Page_34">[Pg 34]</a></span> malady. It takes time to fit comfortably
+into the new surroundings, and meanwhile everything is strange.
+Homesickness is not to be laughed at, but it must be less deadly, less
+fatal than some people think it, or there would not be so many
+recoveries. Girls often weep when they enter school, and then after the
+long dreary years are really over, lived through, and the poor forlorn
+freshman is metamorphosed into the senior, they weep again. Is it not
+strange that these seniors who wept on entering school should weep also
+when leaving it? It looks in the end as if Phoebe Pamela were sure to
+get well. Yet the effort to get well requires a fine effort at
+self-control,&mdash;an effort every girl is the better for making, although
+it may take everything plucky in a girl to "back up" her intention to
+remain in school. The earlier the student considers this question of
+homesickness the better. Let her face its possibilities before she goes
+away from home, and make up her mind, if she is attacked, resolutely to
+overcome<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_35" id="Page_35">[Pg 35]</a></span> it. If it comes, let her never give up the struggle, for, by
+giving in, she will only lose ground in every way, morally, socially,
+intellectually. By her cowardice she will part with what she can never
+recover later.</p>
+
+<p>Many temptations follow in the wake of homesickness, and the most
+serious of all is to make friends too rapidly. It may be laid down as a
+rule that a friendship formed on this stop-gap principle, and too
+rapidly, is not likely to endure. Such a friendship is not a sane or a
+wise relation, for friendship is like scholarship: if it is worth
+anything at all it comes slowly. Impulsive, quickly forced friendships
+are not wise investments; the very fact that they come so quickly
+implies an unbalanced state of idealizing, or lack of self-control. This
+does not mean that one is not to form pleasant acquaintances from the
+very beginning of the school life. Acquaintanceship always holds
+something in reserve and is the safest prelude to a deeper and more
+vital friendship.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_36" id="Page_36">[Pg 36]</a></span></p>
+
+<p>There is no denying that there is great temptation to violent
+admirations and attractions in school. In the first place, in school or
+college the girl is brought into contact with a large circle of people
+who are immensely interesting to her. The whole atmosphere is full of
+novelty, of the unusual. Some of the students and teachers whom she
+meets for the first time represent a broader experience, it may be, than
+her own home life has given her. They are often new types and new types
+are always interesting.</p>
+
+<p>I shall say nothing of the idealism of friendship&mdash;it plays its part in
+other books. It would seem sometimes as if almost too much emphasis had
+been placed upon the making of friendships in school,&mdash;friendship which
+is, after all, but a by-product, the most valuable it is true,
+nevertheless a by-product of the life. Wholly practical are the tests of
+friendship which I shall give. In the first place a friend is too
+absorbing who takes all of one's interest to the exclusion of
+everything<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_37" id="Page_37">[Pg 37]</a></span> else: there should be interest in other people, other
+activities as well as in one's work. Such a friendship can only make a
+girl forget for what she has come to school. The new relation which
+disposes one to look with less respect and affection upon one's own
+people and home&mdash;and they, be it remembered, have stood the most
+valuable test of all, the test of time&mdash;cannot be a good influence. It
+may be said in general that an association which is developing the less
+fine traits in one's character, giving emphasis to the less worthy
+sides, should be relinquished immediately, even at the cost of much
+heartache. The heartache will be only temporary; the bad influence might
+become permanent. On the other hand, since friendship is giving as well
+as taking, one does well to consider the fact that if one's own part in
+it does not tell for good, there is just as much reason for stopping the
+friendship where it is. Some of these associations&mdash;and this is a hard
+saying, I know&mdash;which seem everything at the time are<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_38" id="Page_38">[Pg 38]</a></span> nothing, as the
+years will prove. A girl idealizes, and idealizes those who are not
+worthy. Inevitably the day comes when she laughs at herself,&mdash;if she
+does not do worse and pity herself for having been such a goose.</p>
+
+<p>Only a few of the friendships made in school are destined to endure. One
+of the foremost of those that last is founded on similarity of interest.
+Perhaps it is the girl with whom one has worked side by side in the
+laboratory,&mdash;a relation formed slowly and on a permanent basis. Many of
+the best of friends have come together through community of interests,
+and this is a type of friendship for which men have a greater gift than
+women.</p>
+
+<p>There is still another type which develops because of some conspicuously
+noble or fine quality which proves attractive. Hero worship, this, which
+enlarges one's self through the admiration given to another. Then there
+is the friendship based on a purely personal<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_39" id="Page_39">[Pg 39]</a></span> attraction, with mutual
+respect and self-respect as its dedicated corner-stone. This does not
+mean that one cannot see any faults in the friend, or know that one's
+own are seen, without losing affection. There is always something flimsy
+and insecure about a friendship that simply idealizes. Any relation
+should be all the stronger for a frank acknowledgment of its
+imperfections. If a girl cares enough she will be willing to admit her
+own faults and wish to make herself more worthy to be a friend.</p>
+
+<p>And, finally, there is what might be called the lend-a-hand
+friendship,&mdash;the relation that springs into existence because of the
+need which is seen in another. It is not fair to make a packhorse of
+one's friend or to turn one's self into the leaning variety of plant,
+but it is fair and wise and right, if one is strong enough to accomplish
+the end in view, to lend a hand to another girl who is not making the
+best of herself.</p>
+
+<p>Have a good time but do not swear eternal<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_40" id="Page_40">[Pg 40]</a></span> allegiance in this first year
+to anybody, however wonderful she may seem. Hold yourself in reserve, if
+for no other reason, then on account of the old friends at home, whether
+they be kin or no-kin, for they have been true. And remember, as I have
+said before, friendship is like scholarship and must by its nature come
+slowly.</p>
+
+
+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_41" id="Page_41">[Pg 41]</a></span></p>
+<h2><a name="IV" id="IV"></a>IV</h2>
+
+<h3>THE STUDENT'S ROOM</h3>
+
+
+<p>There has been a general improvement in student rooms, yet many rooms
+to-day have altogether too much in them: too many pictures, too many
+banners, too much furniture, too many hangings. The great fault of most
+rooms is this overcrowding. If we were only heroic enough to make a
+bonfire of nine-tenths of all they contain we should see suddenly
+revealed possibilities for something like the ideal room.</p>
+
+<p>One serious and obvious objection to the overcrowding of rooms is the
+hygienic. I am tempted to say that this is the most important objection:
+indeed, since health is more important than wealth, I will say so. A
+girl has neither the time nor the ability to keep so many articles in a
+room clean: and while she is busy attending to her studies, some
+cherished<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_42" id="Page_42">[Pg 42]</a></span> ornaments are not only laying up dust for the future, as a
+more regenerate life will lay up treasures, but also breeding germs,
+perhaps collecting the very germs which will take this girl away from
+school or college. Besides, bric-&agrave;-brac not only gathers dust and breeds
+germs but also wearies the nerves. It makes one tired to see so many
+things about, and tired to be held responsible for them. Without
+realizing it, we resist the amount of space they occupy and in their
+place want the air and sunshine. Subconsciously, most of us long to get
+rid of our bric-&agrave;-brac and then pull down the draperies that keep out
+the sunlight. The simpler the window draperies in a room, the more
+easily washed, the better and more attractive. For wholesome
+attractiveness there is no fabric that can excel a flood of warm
+sunshine. Any girl or woman who has curtains which she must protect from
+strong light by drawing down the shades is guilty of a household sin
+whose greatness she cannot know. That<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_43" id="Page_43">[Pg 43]</a></span> same sunshine, freely admitted,
+will do more to cleanse a house than all the soap, all the brooms, and
+even all the vacuum cleaners ever invented.</p>
+
+<p>The so-called beauty of a room should always give way before the hygiene
+of a room. Not only should the room be sensibly furnished so that it may
+have plenty of air and light, but closets should not contain articles of
+furniture which belong where the air can reach them. There is a
+difference between a room that is not orderly and one that is not clean.
+A room that contains unclean articles in drawers or closets, unclean
+floors, unclean rugs and hangings and unclean walls, should not be
+tolerated for an instant. If a girl turns a combination bedroom and
+study in school or college into a kitchen, if an ice-cream freezer
+occupies all the foreground of this place she calls home, and
+chafing-dishes with cream bottles, sardine tins, cracker boxes, paper
+bags full of stale biscuits, fruit skins, dish-cloths<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_44" id="Page_44">[Pg 44]</a></span> and
+grease-spotted walls, all the background, it is impossible to have a
+clean room to live in.</p>
+
+<p>The Golden Rule applies to rooms as well as to human beings and should
+read, "Do unto a room as you would it should do unto you." And not only
+for the sake of health should this Golden Rule for Rooms be observed but
+also for the sake of the college or school. The room that belongs to us
+only for a time should be as thoughtfully cared for as if it were our
+own personal property. There is something inconsistent, isn't there, in
+educating a girl in high thinking and fine ideals, if she is willing to
+live in a room that for uncleanliness many a woman in some crowded
+quarter of a city would consider a disgrace? Such contradiction in mind
+and surrounding is out of harmony with all one's ideal for a
+gentlewoman.</p>
+
+<p>Not only beauty is restful, peace-giving and peace-bringing, but so,
+also, are neatness and order. Orderliness helps to fit one for<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_45" id="Page_45">[Pg 45]</a></span> work.
+There is undoubtedly some connection between surroundings and one's
+mental state. In themselves disorder and confusion are irritating. The
+sight of a dirty child crying in the doorway of an untidy house suggests
+some connection between the wretchedness of the child and the squalor of
+the home. I often think of William Morris, the great craftsman and
+charming poet, who had much at heart the happiness of all people,
+especially the poor, and his exclamation, "My eye, how I do love
+tidiness!" To him, to the artist, it was, as it is, beautiful. George
+Eliot had to put even the pins in her cushion into some neat arrangement
+before she could sit down to write. Disorder wastes not only one's
+feelings and health, it also wastes one's time, for a lot of this
+commodity may be lost in looking for books, wraps, gloves and other
+things which are not put away properly.</p>
+
+<p>School ought to be a training for the life afterwards. That is why we go
+to school,<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_46" id="Page_46">[Pg 46]</a></span> isn't it? Why should a girl indulge herself in habits which
+will make against her usefulness in the life of the home or in whatever
+circumstance she may be? There is a certain disciplinary value in order.
+Every great military school has recognized this. Laxness in the care of
+one's room may mean the habit of laxness in other and more important
+ways. Disorderliness indicates a certain tendency in character, and if a
+girl allows that sort of thing to go on she is very likely to show it in
+other ways. Untidiness in any of one's personal habits&mdash;and what could
+be more personal than a room?&mdash;should be taken up and corrected even as
+one attempts to correct any weak point in one's character.</p>
+
+<p>Do you know what is always&mdash;that is, if it is in it at all&mdash;the most
+beautiful thing in a room? It is something which the Creator meant all
+mankind should have, rich and poor, old and young alike; it is something
+beyond the buying price of any wealth. It is the sunshine, more
+beautiful, more valuable<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_47" id="Page_47">[Pg 47]</a></span> than expensive hangings that shut it out.
+Perhaps it is partly because it is inexpensive, God-given to all people,
+that housewives frequently draw their curtains against it. If they had
+to pay more for it than for carpets and hangings, you may be very sure
+that a great many husbands and fathers would be overworking in order
+that their families might buy a whole display of sunshine instead of
+tapestries.</p>
+
+<p>Do you know what is the most helpful thing you can have in your room,
+the article without which you cannot live in it at all, no matter how
+fine the rugs and bric-&agrave;-brac may be? <i>Air!</i> Air is the one thing which
+is almost instantly and absolutely indispensable to human life, for we
+breathe it in not only through our noses but also all over our skin.
+Every hundredth fraction of an inch of our bodies is feeding upon air,
+and the purer that air and the cooler the better and more invigorating
+food it provides for the skin surface as well as for the lungs. The
+mind, for it is<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_48" id="Page_48">[Pg 48]</a></span> housed in the body and its tenant, must depend for its
+vigour or tone upon the fresh air in school or college study. Even a
+very good head cannot work well set upon an an&aelig;mic body which is
+suffocating for want of good clean air. If you wish to do your best work
+and keep well, the first thing to do is not to open your books but to
+open your windows. After that the books and a reasonable number of hours
+of continuous study. American audience halls, pullmans, ordinary coaches
+and public buildings of all sorts, especially libraries, are notoriously
+overheated and unventilated. It is the intelligent American girl and
+woman who, beginning with the home, will correct this evil. The schools
+are, on the whole, in the forefront of the fresh air movement,
+especially the public schools. As every one knows, the public schools
+are establishing open air rooms for their children who need them.
+Although there is much to be said about what a room should contain to
+make it attractive, it should<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_49" id="Page_49">[Pg 49]</a></span> never be forgotten that sunshine and
+fresh air are more beautiful and more priceless than anything else which
+it can hold.</p>
+
+<p>The first object in furnishing a bare room is to make it
+habitable,&mdash;that is useful. Take the kitchen, for example, and
+usefulness is practically the sole object in fitting it up. And the
+curious thing about it all is that it cannot help being beautiful in a
+homely, motherly way, for it exemplifies one of the strongest elements
+of all beauty and that is <i>service</i>. The kitchen may be a very humble
+place but if more women would make a study of their kitchens and then
+take thought, it is likely that the rest of their houses would be in
+much better taste. A thing that is useful, even as with some well-worn
+homely old woman who has led a good and helpful life, always acquires a
+beauty of its own. It may be hard for girls to see this but it is there,
+and in time it will be seen. Just as it is essentially more beautiful to
+have a clean, strong body rather than a pretty face and a body<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_50" id="Page_50">[Pg 50]</a></span> that is
+not what it ought to be, so is it more truly beautiful to have articles
+of furnishing in our rooms, in study or kitchen, that are of
+indispensable genuine use.</p>
+
+<p>Take the gaudy ambitious study one girl has made for herself. It is
+defaced by the presence of articles of no value at all in the world of
+needs; there is nothing in it that is genuinely beautiful and nothing
+that is substantially useful. The furniture is almost too cheap to stand
+on its own legs, and the colours would certainly never wash and not even
+wear. This room is a junk-shop of new, useless, unattractive objects of
+no virtue,&mdash;in short, a most unpleasant place in which to live. Have you
+ever considered what gives even the simplest clothes for distinctive
+occasions a beauty of their own? It is fitness. And it is this same
+fitness which tells so much in furnishing a room. It might be said of
+certain dresses that they "go together," that is, they are harmonious,
+they belong together, they have, like some people,<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_51" id="Page_51">[Pg 51]</a></span> the beauty of
+agreeing with themselves, and a very desirable sort of beauty it is.
+Just as clothes are an expression of the people who wear them, so are
+rooms an expression of the people who live in them. No well-bred girl
+cares for tawdry, cheap, over-ornamented clothes. She is made
+uncomfortable even at the very thought of having to wear such things.
+She should suffer just as much discomfort on the score of a cheaply
+furnished (and by "cheap" here I do not mean inexpensive&mdash;whitewash and
+deal intelligently used may create a beautiful room), overcrowded and
+over-ornamented study.</p>
+
+<p>What is the meaning of the room which is your school centre for the time
+being? It is an intimate place where a girl may have her friends and
+good times; it is a retreat and it is a workshop. It is the girl's home
+centre away from home, the place from which she will lead her life, in
+its expression attractive or unattractive, like her or unlike her. To
+intend that this room in beauty, in cleanliness,<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_52" id="Page_52">[Pg 52]</a></span> in order, shall be the
+best expression possible of the girl's best self is the ideal to set for
+the school study.</p>
+
+<p>Get good materials and good colours. They need not be expensive.
+Remember that colours have to go together just as furniture has to do
+so. To have styles of furniture that clash or colours that do not
+harmonize will negative any care which the student may have taken in the
+selection of individual pieces or materials. To have too much with which
+to fill the room is a good deal worse than not to have enough. Much
+better it is to have a few things which are just what they should be
+than to have too many and those undesirable. To get a desk, if a girl
+can afford to do so, that she will be glad to keep her life long is a
+good beginning, and a comfortable chair that will be made doubly
+precious by all the school associations woven about it. And let her be
+careful about pictures for her walls and not crowd them with cheap and
+"fashionable"<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_53" id="Page_53">[Pg 53]</a></span> trash. Above all, let her remember that good taste,
+simplicity, careful selection, will do more to assure her the possession
+of an attractive room than all the money in the world can do.</p>
+
+
+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_54" id="Page_54">[Pg 54]</a></span></p>
+<h2><a name="V" id="V"></a>V</h2>
+
+<h3>THE TOOLS OF STUDY AND THEIR USE</h3>
+
+
+<p>A girl ought to take up her study with the same sense of pleasure as
+that with which a strong workman enters his shop, knowing his tools and
+able to use them. Having good tools and knowing them is certainly part
+of the joy of work. And what are the tools the student must use? Well,
+for the average student, the one that is first and most important is
+<i>Good Health</i>. The mind is not as clear if the body is not in good
+health, clean within and without.</p>
+
+<p>The second set of tools consists of a different sort of equipment and
+apparatus, tools with which a girl must become familiar and which she
+must know how to use&mdash;<i>Books</i>, <i>Library</i>, <i>Laboratory</i> and <i>Classroom</i>.
+Why shouldn't a student be just as able to use her books as a carpenter
+his plane or saw? One couldn't expect a fumbling carpenter or a<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_55" id="Page_55">[Pg 55]</a></span> clumsy
+seamstress to accomplish much work or good work. There are times when a
+girl need not claim to know anything but she must, at least, know where
+to find what she wants to know. This is the first lesson in the use of
+books; without knowledge of them or love for them, the student can't get
+along at all. And beyond this somewhat mechanical use of books there is
+a deeper and larger lesson to learn; to know that a book is not merely a
+page of print where information may be sought but that it is a mirror in
+which one finds the world, its wisdom, its joy, its sorrow, its divine
+adventures. Robert Southey, the friend of the poet Coleridge, has
+written beautifully on the subject in a little poem called "His Books."</p>
+
+<p>Another tool in the student's workshop is <i>Previously Acquired
+Knowledge</i>: that is, what one has in one's mind. Some people's minds are
+junk-shops. But a junk-shop is better than an empty shop. This
+previously acquired knowledge, if used rightly, becomes<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_56" id="Page_56">[Pg 56]</a></span> the tool of
+later courses, the servant of later years. Our stored-up facts&mdash;many of
+them&mdash;have not been an end in themselves. How could they be? For
+example, such things as paradigms and formul&aelig; and long lists of names
+and dates, are tools pure and simple; but the student in the workshop
+must have them or she will be like a carpenter who had much to do but on
+coming to his bench found no tools there and so was idle all day.</p>
+
+<p>A fourth tool for the girl in her study&mdash;one that cannot be deliberately
+acquired, as information or apparatus or even health can be&mdash;is
+<i>Experience</i>. This is the most valuable tool of all&mdash;one's experience of
+travel, with people, in responsibility, in love, in joy, in sorrow, in
+any kind of work. The girls who are the most interesting in the
+classroom are the girls who are not contenting themselves with apparatus
+alone but whose minds are flexible with experience, who bring all of
+themselves, their life, to bear upon the work. A certain well-known
+minister had prepared<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_57" id="Page_57">[Pg 57]</a></span> a sermon for his usual Sunday engagement, but
+half an hour before service another text came into his mind. He could
+not forget it, so he jotted down notes and preached the new sermon
+instead of the one that had been prepared. This sermon made a great
+impression on all who heard it, and the minister himself said of it that
+some people would declare that it had been thought out in half an hour,
+but that really he had put fifty years of his life into it. The sharper
+and better the tools, the finer the character of the work. If experience
+has been observed and retained, and previously acquired knowledge is
+ready for service, and hand and mind know how to use books, and the
+student is in good condition physically, then the excellence of that
+girl's work in the class and out can be guaranteed.</p>
+
+<p>And now what are the uses of the work which these tools can accomplish
+for us? Coleridge wrote in his poem, "Work Without Hope,"<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_58" id="Page_58">[Pg 58]</a></span></p>
+
+<div class="poem"><div class="stanza">
+<span class="i0">"Work without Hope draws nectar in a sieve,<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">And Hope without an object cannot live."<br /></span>
+</div></div>
+
+<p>The only hope that can last is hope that is not wholly centred in
+ourselves, but has some thought for others and our service to them. Work
+devoid of inspiration and ideals, work done merely for one's self, study
+pursued with only a degree as an end or for the sake of "pay" as a
+teacher, turns school and college into a market-place, a place of
+barter, where in exchange for so much energy and so much money we may
+acquire a certain position and livelihood. Only that work in which one
+has the consciousness of being, or becoming, useful to others, brings
+joy that will endure. What do we think of the minister who is without a
+sense of consecration? The responsibility of the student or the teacher
+is quite as large, the opportunity for service quite as wonderful. One
+of our greatest English poets, William Wordsworth, exclaimed: "I wish to
+be considered as a teacher, or as nothing!" The calling of the<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_59" id="Page_59">[Pg 59]</a></span> teacher,
+of the student, has through all time been thought a high one,&mdash;one that
+has drawn to itself fine and unselfish spirits. The life of the student,
+no matter how necessary to the world its market-places are, never has
+been and never can be a life of barter, of trade.</p>
+
+<p>The wealth that comes to the student should not be an exclusive
+possession. It may be bought at a large price but it can never be sold.
+It must be given away, or shared, for it is wealth which carries with it
+a sense of social responsibility. It is enjoyed for a double purpose,
+not only for the sake of the happiness it brings to us but also for the
+sake of the joy or help it may bring to others. Millions of girls covet
+the opportunities that come to a few in school and college, many of them
+who far more greatly deserve this privilege than we. Indeed, what have
+most of us done to merit the right to all that we have? The only way in
+which we can show our sense of justice is by taking our privileges as
+something to share with others.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_60" id="Page_60">[Pg 60]</a></span> The girl who has health, pleasant
+surroundings and work worth doing, has all a human being has a right to
+expect. She ought always to be happy, always rejoicing in her work and
+always eager to divide her wealth with others.</p>
+
+<p>The redeeming feature of royalties has been their sense of
+responsibility for their subjects! In great disasters, or calamities,
+their first thought has been to go to the relief of the people. The King
+and Queen of Italy are noble examples of this courage and unselfishness.
+In America the only "privileged" class is the highly educated. It is
+they from whom <i>noblesse oblige</i> must be expected, who will show in all
+emergencies their sense of responsibility, who will share all that they
+have with others. A girl will be happy, she will grow, she will be a
+leverage power for good with those among whom she lives, only in so far
+as she uses her tools of knowledge in the service of others, and shapes
+all that she does towards some humanly useful end.</p>
+
+
+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_61" id="Page_61">[Pg 61]</a></span></p>
+<h2><a name="VI" id="VI"></a>VI</h2>
+
+<h3>THE JOY OF WORK</h3>
+
+
+<p>If one is in good condition, the exercise of any physical power is a
+pleasure. It is a pleasure to run, to sing, to dance, to climb
+mountains, to row, to swim; it is a pleasure to shout for nothing else
+than for the pure joy of letting off surplus energy. In the world of
+animals, the horse and dog, to take only two illustrations, abound in
+this enjoyment of physical energy. The horse paws the ground and snorts
+and whinnies and loves the fastest road pace you will let him take. The
+dog leaps in the air, jumps fences, barks, and races around madly,
+sometimes after nothing at all.</p>
+
+<p>But the highest power of which human beings are possessed is not the
+power of the body. It is the power of the mind. Yet many of us
+throughout our school and college life not only do not wish to use this<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_62" id="Page_62">[Pg 62]</a></span>
+power but even rebel against it. "What," some girls are saying to
+themselves, "enjoy the work of a classroom? Who ever heard of such a
+thing!" Yes, just that. And if we don't enjoy the work of a classroom,
+even an indifferently good one, there is something the matter with us,
+or the subject should not have a place on any curriculum. Every mental
+exercise should be full of the keenest pleasure, of intellectual
+pleasure.</p>
+
+<p>Our schools and colleges to-day are very much richer in the joy of
+everything else&mdash;in beautiful surroundings, in freer and fuller athletic
+and outdoor life, in a more varied and delightful social life&mdash;than they
+were fifty or even twenty-five years ago. But it is a question whether
+the joy of intellectual work has kept pace with this joy of life in its
+other aspects. Sometimes it almost seems as if intellectual eagerness
+were in inverse ratio to the ease and fullness of the opportunities we
+have. At least many fair-minded girls<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_63" id="Page_63">[Pg 63]</a></span> have seen the predicament in
+which the teacher is placed. The man who makes a vase for the use and
+pleasure of others may rejoice not only in his own workmanship but also
+in the thought of the service and delight he is giving to others. That
+is, his pleasure is twofold. The teacher who is deprived of some
+response of joy in the work he is doing is a workman deprived of his
+rights. To those girls who are thinking of becoming teachers this should
+be a sobering thought.</p>
+
+<p>Missionary teachers, with their students eager to get anything they have
+to give, are not to be pitied. Our schools and their groups of teachers
+in isolated and uncultivated parts of the West and South are not to be
+pitied. Even if education is with them shorn of much that gives it
+charm, the opportunities that come are prized. Students and teachers
+have intellectual joy in the work they do, and without that the greatest
+university in the world might as well, or better, be a district school,
+for then the work done<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_64" id="Page_64">[Pg 64]</a></span> would be truly useful. It is the teacher who has
+to put much of her time and energy into making a subject superficially
+attractive enough for a student to elect it, who is to be pitied. A
+classroom full of blas&eacute; girls whose minds need to be tickled before
+there is the least expression of intellectual mirth upon their faces, is
+an ordeal not lightly to be met except by the professional joker or
+academic tumbler.</p>
+
+<p>Girls often become impatient with themselves, and that is one reason why
+there is so little joy in work for them. Think of Helen Keller as a
+famous example of this joy in work under the most adverse circumstances.
+What could be greater than her handicap? Shut away from the world by
+deaf ears and blind eyes and, for a while, by inability to speak, she
+has nevertheless shown a keenness of pleasure and intellectual
+acquisition that shames us who have all our senses in their fullness.
+Think of her patient, unremitting delving, of the digging up, up, up to
+get to<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_65" id="Page_65">[Pg 65]</a></span> the light which most human beings are privileged to enjoy with
+no effort at all! The mind that accepts this wealth with no thought, no
+sense of responsibility, is a trifler with riches that are about us for
+God-given purposes. Think of the way in which Stevenson and John Richard
+Green and George Eliot rose above their ill-health and did their work in
+despite of it! Perhaps some of us have superb health and have never made
+any conscious effort to use that gift for a high end.</p>
+
+<p>Girls grow impatient with themselves when they wouldn't be impatient
+with a little child. Yet the mind has to be trained even as we train a
+child; it has to be brought back and back, again and again to the thing
+to be done. After the asking of a simple question, oftentimes a whole
+class will look confounded, because they have some strange notion that
+thinking means getting hold of something very far away and difficult to
+grasp. All that the first effort in thought denotes is<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_66" id="Page_66">[Pg 66]</a></span> taking a hold of
+that which is nearest and following it up. It is the old story of
+Theseus following his clue of thread, the slender thing in his hand, by
+which he was guided out of the labyrinth and to the broad sea of
+adventure.</p>
+
+<p>There are difficulties in the doing of any work that is worth while. It
+would be a poor adviser who painted the student's way as a path of
+roses. First and foremost, one's own inertia interferes with the joy of
+work. Some one has defined the lazy man as one who doesn't want to do
+anything at all, and the indolent man as one who doesn't want to do
+anything that he doesn't want to do. Then, too, there are certain
+allurements and distractions in school life which are a hindrance to our
+joy in an intellectual task. And there is the very natural
+disinclination to the drudgery involved in all hard labour. No work that
+is worth while is without drudgery. Lack of encouragement from older
+people is one serious difficulty some girls have to meet.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_67" id="Page_67">[Pg 67]</a></span> There is a
+type of older person who is sure that using the mind will harm that
+precious article. And, finally, there is our inexperience, our own lack
+of comprehension, our own purposeless and formless lives.</p>
+
+<p>Joy in work should not be altogether conditional upon one's sense of
+ease or upon what is called success. Seeming success is not always
+success. Often the most valuable lessons come from failures. Robert
+Browning, the poet, speaks again and again of the noble uses of failure.
+Let me quote one stanza from one of his greatest poems, "Rabbi Ben
+Ezra":</p>
+
+<div class="poem"><div class="stanza">
+<span class="i0">"Then, welcome each rebuff<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">That turns earth's smoothness rough,<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">Each sting that bids nor sit nor stand, but go!<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">Be our joys three-parts pain!<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">Strive and hold cheap the strain;<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">Learn, nor account the pang; dare, never grudge the throe!"<br /></span>
+</div></div>
+
+<p>You can't learn to walk if you haven't tumbled down a good deal in doing
+it. It is often failure that means ultimate success. Of<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_68" id="Page_68">[Pg 68]</a></span> course if a
+girl keeps on saying: "Oh, what's the use?" about everything she does
+and all her failures, there isn't any use. In weak moments that sort of
+thing can be said of every great and worth-while experience, of love, of
+joy, of sorrow, of work. But a girl who allows herself to take this
+attitude is a "quitter," and doesn't know the first principles of
+playing the game.</p>
+
+<p>Part of the joy of work consists in the mere delight of intellectual
+exercise, delight in thinking a thing out. That is the way we develop
+ourselves mentally, just as we develop ourselves physically through
+sports. The mind that thinks is capable of deeper and broader thinking.
+Thinking begets thought. A muscle that is left without exercise softens
+and finally atrophies. The same is true of mental muscle. If this
+strength is left unused it is gradually lost and cannot be recovered.
+Mental concentration, the thought that is so strenuous that everything
+else is shut out, strengthens the mind. In<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_69" id="Page_69">[Pg 69]</a></span> this wonderful old world no
+new land has been discovered without physical effort. There is no
+country of the mind which can be entered without a similar effort.</p>
+
+<p>And there is another and very important joy in work&mdash;the sense that one
+is being equipped for the work of the world, for usefulness. The mere
+feeling that one's powers are being developed brings joy with it. There
+is still another joy which every one of us must covet&mdash;the sense of
+entering into the intellectual riches of the world, its wonders of
+science and art and letters, with the feeling that we have a part in a
+great treasure, a treasure which, unlike gold and precious stones, men
+have never been able to gauge or to exhaust. Such gold and silver as we
+take from that adventure cannot be lost or stolen from us. It remains
+with us to the very last, and with it no life can ever become really
+poor, or dull, or old.</p>
+
+
+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_70" id="Page_70">[Pg 70]</a></span></p>
+<h2><a name="VII" id="VII"></a>VII</h2>
+
+<h3>FAIR-PLAY</h3>
+
+
+<p>Few students realize how closely a classroom resembles a commonwealth.
+To most of us it seems a place into which we go to have a certain amount
+got out of us, or put into us. This conception of the classroom is
+unworthy the modern girl who has, otherwise, a fine understanding of the
+meaning of team-play, of playing all together for a common end, a game
+or a republic united by a tacit compact.</p>
+
+<p>Does the average student feel responsibility for the game of basket-ball
+or lawn hockey which she is playing? The first thought of the girl in
+answering this is that it was a foolish question even to ask. Of course
+she does. But for her classroom? No, that is a different sort of game,
+in which the responsibility lies all on the shoulders of the instructor.
+It is a one-woman or a one-man<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_71" id="Page_71">[Pg 71]</a></span> game, and very often the students are
+but spectators, cheering or indifferent, approving or disapproving. The
+pupil does not hold herself accountable for this game; it is the teacher
+who makes the class "go," who extracts from each student the information
+bottled up in her, together, often, with a good deal of carbon
+dioxide,&mdash;a process difficult and hard as drawing a swollen cork out of
+a soda-water bottle. Finally, with a sort of noble rebound of effort,
+the exhausted instructor is to put a vast deal of information back into
+the girl before the student claps her book together and rushes pell-mell
+to the next classroom, there to be similarly uncorked, if the teacher
+has learned the art and her mental muscle is sufficient.</p>
+
+<p>Such a conception of a classroom is not fair-play. The teacher, like the
+coxswain of a college crew, may have rowed over the same course and she
+may know it well enough to cover it in the dark; she may have won
+distinction upon it, may be the fittest person in<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_72" id="Page_72">[Pg 72]</a></span> all the states of the
+Union to cover it again, but if she has not a good or a winning crew to
+coach, she will never win any race, even the shortest. No instructor has
+shoulders equal to such a multiple burden as coaching, steering and
+doing all the rowing, too. To play any classroom game in this spirit is
+to be dead weight for every one else embarked upon the same adventure.
+It is not fair-play.</p>
+
+<p>By such an attitude on the part of merely one student in the class,
+every other student associated with her loses, for the girl who will not
+lift her own weight the others must carry. If that student were playing
+in that spirit on the basket-ball team, do you suppose that the coach,
+or the captain, would let her stay on? Not for a moment; off she would
+go and very much humiliated, too. If it is a discussion, the touch and
+go of the whole recitation will depend upon the presence of the
+team-play, or fair-play, spirit in the course. The instructor may do her
+best but if there is no play-the-game in that classroom,<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_73" id="Page_73">[Pg 73]</a></span> she might just
+as well fold up her tent, like the proverbial Arab, "and silently steal
+away." It is not that any recitation need be a brilliant affair&mdash;if most
+of them depended upon that for existence they would scarcely exist at
+all&mdash;but there must be an honest, earnest, responsible effort to make
+the best of the hour. Good will inevitably come from the clarifying
+effort to express thought, and the leading from thought to thought as
+the work goes forward.</p>
+
+<p>The basket-ball team cannot win, or even play, unless all the members
+are playing together. Each one is needed despite the fact that she may
+not be one of the chief or best players. Just so does the class need all
+its students. If a girl is only average, it is not fair-play for her to
+sit back and do nothing; neither is it fair-play for her to monopolize
+the attention if she happens to be more than commonly able. It is not
+fair-play to laugh at the girl who is at a disadvantage, or to appear
+bored. It is unfair to the individual,<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_74" id="Page_74">[Pg 74]</a></span> to the classroom in general and
+to the instructor. The least she can do in this class game is to give
+her whole and her courteous attention.</p>
+
+<p>Think of all the practice games in which the average athletic team takes
+part. What can be said for the student who comes into the classroom
+unprepared to lift her own weight, unprepared to help others? When one
+comes to think about it from the fair-play point of view there is
+nothing to be said for her. Nor is it fair-play for a girl to allow
+herself to get into such a state physically that she is unable to study.
+How often and often have fudge-heads&mdash;due to an application to too much
+sugar and not to books&mdash;sitting row after row killed a school or even a
+whole college! Before a class tempered by fudge and not by wholesome
+outdoor living and conscientious devotion to work, the teacher might
+better put away her notes and close her book. Nothing can happen through
+or over that barricade of fudge-heads.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_75" id="Page_75">[Pg 75]</a></span></p>
+
+<p>And it is not fair-play to cram because of time lost, or for any other
+cause. The only end of cramming is that the student soon forgets all
+that has been learned. Alone by normal, slow acquisition and all the
+associations formed in such learning can information come to us to stay.
+It may not be particularly wicked to cram if one has plenty of time to
+waste, but it is foolish unless one has.</p>
+
+<p>There is a kind of gossip in which a girl takes part, made up of
+snap-shot judgments of the classroom, idle carping about some little
+unimportant point, expression of wounded vanity and unfair talk, which
+may mean a tremendous loss of prestige for a really admirable course; it
+may mean that girls, who would naturally go into it because of their
+liking or gift for the work, do not go or go in a critical and
+unsympathetic attitude. If there is a complaint to be made about any
+course it should be made to the responsible person concerned, and that
+is<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_76" id="Page_76">[Pg 76]</a></span> usually the teacher. Anything else is not fair-play. In the
+classroom the instructor is the "coach" of the game and she is the
+person with whom to talk. It is needless to say that if a girl is
+putting nothing into a course she cannot expect to get anything out of
+it, or to complain because things do not "go." If she wants them to "go"
+why does she not help, and have the profit of taking something away from
+the work as interest on her effort? A girl gets dividends only from work
+into which she has put some brain-capital.</p>
+
+<p>And the people at home? Is it fair-play to them, when they are making
+sacrifices of money or of happiness to keep the daughter at school, for
+her not to put good work into her study and play her part faithfully in
+the classroom game? So many things have to be taken into consideration
+of which we are not likely to think. There is the girl herself, the
+other girls with whom she is working, the instructor, the people at
+home, the institution that is providing an expensive<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_77" id="Page_77">[Pg 77]</a></span> equipment or plant
+through the philanthropic efforts of others or the taxation of the
+public. If the girl does not play her part fairly, there is a rather big
+reckoning against her, is there not?</p>
+
+
+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_78" id="Page_78">[Pg 78]</a></span></p>
+<h2><a name="VIII" id="VIII"></a>VIII</h2>
+
+<h3>THE RIGHT SORT OF LEISURE</h3>
+
+
+<p>The right sort of leisure ought to help as much in the development of
+the girl as the right sort of work. If it is leisure worthy the name, it
+will bring refreshment; it will not leave one physically and mentally
+jaded. Neither mind nor body should ever be exhausted because of the way
+in which freedom has been used. Leisure is as important to work as work
+is to leisure. A person who has not worked cannot appreciate freedom,
+while the one who has had no leisure is not best fitted for work. "All
+work and no play makes Jack a dull boy;" it is just as true that it
+makes Jill a dull girl. The girl who works all the time, not realizing
+the importance of free moments, becomes fagged in body and mind. She is
+a tool that is dull, and would do well to remember that even a machine
+is better for an occasional rest.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_79" id="Page_79">[Pg 79]</a></span></p>
+
+<p>Some mistaken ideas about leisure have grown up, making it difficult to
+say anything on this subject without being misunderstood. Stories&mdash;whole
+books of them&mdash;about "spreads" and more or less lawless escapades in
+school and college, have given girls and other people, too, the
+impression that this is the sort of thing school leisure is. Nothing
+could be farther from the truth. Midnight feasts may occur in school,
+and most of us, unless we are too good to be average girls, have taken
+part in them. But such stories are vicious, for they misrepresent the
+life by suggesting that eating inferior and unwholesome food is the real
+freedom most girls desire. There is something repulsive in the very
+thought. Feasts that leave a girl with a coated tongue and a dull head
+and Monday "blues" do not fairly represent school or college leisure.
+Good times that interfere with good work have no place in ideally free
+hours. But, indeed, the odours from the chafing-dishes do suggest that
+some<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_80" id="Page_80">[Pg 80]</a></span> of the girls are trying to put into literal execution the wish of
+a great German professor in Oxford. The professor, eager to try a dish
+he saw on the hotel bill of fare, but with his English and German verbs
+not quite disentangled, said to the waiter, "Hereafter I vish to become
+a Velsh Rabbit." Perhaps becoming a Welsh rarebit represents the height
+of some girls' ideals, but this is hard to believe.</p>
+
+<p>The possession of leisure depends to a great extent upon the will power.
+The girl who has never learned to say "No," who has no power of
+selection, cannot expect to have any hours for her own use. She is
+quarry for every idle suggestion, every social engagement, every
+executive "job" which pursues her. The girl who engages all her time
+socially cannot have a sense of leisure, for she turns her playtime into
+but another schedule, to be met as inexorably as her academic courses.
+Her days become a formidable array of "dates," often stretching<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_81" id="Page_81">[Pg 81]</a></span> ahead
+for weeks. Even if girls are not determined to have it for themselves,
+they should give to others some opportunity for freedom, and should
+respect their possible desire for solitude. The girl who engages or
+annexes every particle of time, her own or that of some one else with
+whom she comes in contact, is making leisure an impossibility. The girl
+who leaves no margin cannot hope for even the spirit of freedom.</p>
+
+<p>Many students excuse themselves for much executive work in school and
+college on the ground that it is done in their leisure. That girl is a
+goose who allows herself through any sense of self-importance, or
+irreplaceable usefulness, to be so involved in executive work that all
+other aspects of her school life are slighted. If she refuses to be
+swamped by such "jobs" she can have the happiness of reflecting that
+probably some girls who need the training far more than she does are
+doing the work. To every girl will come the opportunity right along for
+"managing";<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_82" id="Page_82">[Pg 82]</a></span> club and social work will bring it, and a good-sized family
+will bring it as nothing else can. But school leisure she will not have
+again. The whole aim of the school is to enrich the lives of its
+students, and it knows all too well that that student who does not keep
+for herself the leisure upon which body and mind and soul must feed is
+indeed poor.</p>
+
+<p>There is one way in which leisure is very generally misspent in
+school&mdash;and alas, outside, too!&mdash;not in managing one's own affairs, but
+in managing and discussing the affairs of others. At such times the
+remarks may be superlatively pleasant, but they are more often
+superlatively disagreeable. It may be said with truthfulness that they
+are almost never moderate or just. Everything is all black or all white,
+with no gray. It makes one think of the little girl with a curl in the
+middle of her forehead:</p>
+
+<div class="poem"><div class="stanza">
+<span class="i0">"When she was good, she was very, very good,<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">And when she was bad, she was horrid."<br /></span>
+</div></div>
+
+<p>But, alas! the poor wretches discussed are not<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_83" id="Page_83">[Pg 83]</a></span> allowed even the natural
+and somewhat happy human alternation between badness and goodness. No,
+indeed, they are monsters of a desperate character&mdash;they may at the
+moment be broken-heartedly conscious of their own faults&mdash;or they are
+shining six-winged angels. And, woe! this sort of thing comes almost as
+hard upon the angels. They can't endure it; so much goodness breaks down
+their wing arches, and the glorious ones crumple together like
+tissue-paper.</p>
+
+<p>And upon the girls busily engaged in creating angels of loveliness and
+gargoyles of ugliness, this sort of conversation works havoc. It does
+not invigorate them, it does not inspire them. It belittles their
+minds&mdash;thank fortune, that making kindling wood of the characters of
+other people does do this!&mdash;and stunts their finer feelings. This sin,
+that they "do by two and two," they pay for one by one. Gentle and
+considerate feelings are lost, time is wasted, a vicious habit,&mdash;almost
+no habit is more vicious,&mdash;is acquired.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_84" id="Page_84">[Pg 84]</a></span> Such gossip can never become a
+pure enjoyment; it remains at the best an ignoble, discreditable
+excitement. Rolling these sweet morsels under their tongues, a taste for
+ill-natured or exaggerated comment fixes itself in their mouths. Even if
+they have consciences that, like good mothers, will occasionally wash
+their mouths out with soap, they retain the disturbing memory of unkind,
+coarse, or foolish words.</p>
+
+<p>Yet school should be the last place in which to indulge in idle talk.
+Such indulgence is against all the idealism of student life. Idle or
+meddlesome talk never helps any one, either the one who talks or the one
+who is discussed. If you have anything to say about other people, and if
+going to them will help you, the only friendly thing to do&mdash;it is not an
+easy thing&mdash;is to speak to the people concerned. If we really knew how
+to put ourselves in other people's places, no unkind, unfriendly words
+would ever be spoken again. There would be things hard to bear<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_85" id="Page_85">[Pg 85]</a></span>
+said&mdash;rebuke or reproof are never easy to receive&mdash;but nothing
+unfriendly. Think how idle, ill-natured talk flows around the world, and
+then think what a different world it would be if there were none of it!
+It is to human life what the blights, the scales, the insect pests are
+to tree and flower. Fortunately, as people grow older they come to think
+themselves less infallible, and as they grow wiser they become more
+tender and more lenient in their judgments.</p>
+
+<p>In companionship whose leisure interests are good there is a sense of
+freedom filled full and running over, of minds and hearts doubly rich,
+of good times doubly jolly. But on the whole, girls have too little
+absolute solitude; there is scarcely a girl in twenty, except the "dig,"
+who is alone at all. One trouble with dormitory school life is that it
+fosters leisure-wasting and time-wasting "gang" habits. A girl so
+surrounded never wants to be alone a moment, either indoors or out. With
+such, the blessing and blessedness of solitude should<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_86" id="Page_86">[Pg 86]</a></span> be learned, for
+solitude rightly used makes strong men and women.</p>
+
+<p>The woman who has leisure has a grasp upon time, is master of it instead
+of being mastered by it. It is the girl whirled around in a squirrel
+cage of pointless weekly and Sunday engagements who is oppressed and
+mastered by her lack of freedom. And then there is the hard-pressed
+future; we must lay up some leisure for that. The time when one is most
+hurried is the time when one most needs the sense of freedom. The story
+of the old Quaker lady who had so much to do she didn't know where to
+begin, and so took a nap, is profoundly full of wisdom. When the old
+lady woke up she found she had plenty of time after all, not because she
+had done anything but because she had come again into a leisurely frame
+of mind.</p>
+
+<p>Leisure means neither a blank mind nor an empty hand. It means a holiday
+taken with an eager mind, with eyes keen in their delight and knowledge,
+with hands capable<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_87" id="Page_87">[Pg 87]</a></span> of some beauty or some use. All of us have leisure
+to think, but not all of us think. Some of us, if friends come in
+unexpectedly, will quickly pick up something and pretend to be busy.
+When Watt sat by the fire watching the steam from the teakettle lift the
+lid, he was not precisely idle. The powerful, indispensable steam-engine
+was the result. One reason, aside from all religious considerations, why
+we need a quiet Sunday, is that we may have that sense of freedom which
+feeds mind and body, and even the crumbs of whose profitableness have
+made the world rich in great inventions, in great pictures, in wonderful
+books.</p>
+
+
+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_88" id="Page_88">[Pg 88]</a></span></p>
+<h2><a name="IX" id="IX"></a>IX</h2>
+
+<h3>THE OUTDOOR RUNWAY</h3>
+
+
+<p>After Nebuchadnezzar came in from eating grass there had taken place in
+that potentate a great change for the good. One of the factors in this
+betterment may have been the grass itself. The grass-cure has always
+been popular and always will be, for it is just as good for the tired
+mind as it is for the tired body. Nowadays every big school and every
+college provide a grass-cure for students who are out at elbows with
+their nerve sleeves, or who have not sufficient muscle to make them fit,
+or who are overworking or need toning up in any way. There is more and
+more recognition of the fact that a school course which is taken at the
+expense of health is not worth having. And side by side with this
+wholesome admission has come a great awakening in the last fifteen years
+to<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_89" id="Page_89">[Pg 89]</a></span> the curative value of the <i>outdoor runway</i>, whether that runway be a
+field track, energetic walking in a park or campus, or a cross country
+run.</p>
+
+<p>Some girls&mdash;and there are more girls of this type than there are
+boys&mdash;put in their outdoor life as a stop-gap. It is inconceivable that
+this should be true, yet it is true. Apathetically the students have
+exercised sixty minutes, considering this minimum quite sufficient. Not
+a particle of zest do they reveal in the exercise taken. They do not
+seem to know or they do not care that the fields and woods should be
+full, not only of health and all that goes with it, including success,
+but also of the best of friends who all have their good points worthy of
+notice and imitation, in quick leap, cheerful voice and blithe song.
+What are sixty minutes in this great outdoor runway? Not a tithe of the
+twenty-four hours and at best only half of what the minimum should be.
+Exercise should be taken even if nothing else in the<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_90" id="Page_90">[Pg 90]</a></span> school life is.
+And I say this advisedly, for health is the basis on which not only the
+future of the woman's life must depend but also that of the race. Good
+health, the inheritance of it, its maintenance and increase, neither the
+girl nor her parents can ever hold as too sacred a trust. That it is a
+sacred trust the schools are recognizing more and more, and provisions
+are being made, especially in the public schools, for the defective in
+health as well as for the strong. The outdoor school, at first an object
+that attracted universal attention, is now being taken quite for
+granted. Foolish the girl who does not learn to take the outdoor runway
+for granted, too, and go out to it in high spirits to learn its wisdom,
+to take part in its joys and to receive its health.</p>
+
+<p>It may be accepted as a new axiom&mdash;the more exercise the less fool.
+Strong, able muscles, steady nerves (and let us remember that nerves
+depend for their tone on the muscular condition), a clean skin open at
+all<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_91" id="Page_91">[Pg 91]</a></span> its pores and doing its eliminative work thoroughly, and clean
+strong vitals make up the kind of beauty within the reach of all
+womanhood, and the physical beauty which she should most desire. The day
+is coming when our ideal of what is physically perfect&mdash;not spiritually,
+for Christianity has carried us beyond anything that Greece ever
+knew&mdash;will be more like the Greek in its entirety, its emphasis upon the
+harmony of the whole body. The body is a mechanism to be exquisitely
+cared for&mdash;self-running, it is true, and yet in need of intelligent
+attention. Think of the care an engineer gives his engine, and it is by
+no manner of means so wonderfully and so intricately fashioned as these
+bodies of ours on which our happiness, our working ability, even our
+very goodness depend. Health as a safeguard to one's whole moral being
+is coming into more and more recognition, and not only as a safeguard
+but also as a cultivator of all that is best in us spiritually. There
+are people very<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_92" id="Page_92">[Pg 92]</a></span> ill, or permanent invalids, whose great victory it is
+to be among the saints of the earth, but that it is easier to be good
+when one is well no one will deny. Every big school has now its class or
+classes in corrective or medical gymnastics, in which stooping
+shoulders, ewe necks, curved spines, flat insteps, small waists and
+narrow chests are rectified as far as possible in the limited hours of
+the school days.</p>
+
+<p>The time is coming when parents will consider it a disgrace to allow
+their children to be physically undeveloped. The physician, always in
+advance of the community for which he cares, sees how grave in moral or
+intellectual import physical defects may be. The educational world,
+alive to new messages for the reconstruction of its educational ideal,
+begins also to place more and more emphasis upon the physical care and
+development of its students&mdash;and not by any manner of means for physical
+reasons only but because the whole girl or the whole boy is better
+spiritually<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_93" id="Page_93">[Pg 93]</a></span> and mentally for having a body that is strong and well. The
+whole being keeps better time, just as a watch does, for having clean
+works. No one has the right to shut out the fresh air or the sunshine;
+no girl should remain undeveloped physically through lack of exercise
+when she could, through exercise, make herself strong. Even to abuse her
+feet, the important centre of many important nerves, by tight shoes, is
+wrong; so is it to rack her spine and upset or throw out of position all
+the delicate and wonderfully fashioned organs of the abdominal cavity by
+the wearing of high French heels. Undoubtedly, however, American
+motherhood and girlhood represent something more and more intelligent;
+indeed, in physical culture women are beginning to keep step with men,
+and it is upon this fact that school and college depend in their
+splendid efforts to make the sum of feminine vitality, despite the
+pressure of modern civilization, plus rather than minus.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_94" id="Page_94">[Pg 94]</a></span></p>
+
+<p><i>The more exercise the less fool</i>; and it is worth remembering that the
+daily exercise, the plunge into cool or clean air, as well as the plunge
+into water, is a wit sharpener, and will do more for a student in the
+long run than "digging" possibly can. <i>Mens sana in corpore sano</i> may be
+an old saying but it is still new enough to be repeated with vigour to
+certain people. Let us get out-of-doors and have our wits sharpened and
+see more, and do more, and be more! No one can permanently starve her
+whole body for the want of fresh air and exercise, which are the body's
+birthright, and expect to have a clear head or do well-balanced and
+helpful work in the home, or in school, or in some wage-earning career.
+If the girl attempt this impossibility she will be like the frog which
+jumped up one foot and fell back two. She will get to the bottom soon
+enough, the bottom of the class or the bottom of her health account, but
+she will never get to the top of anything. Any success, if by chance it
+should come to her, resting<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_95" id="Page_95">[Pg 95]</a></span> on a basis of ill health or indifference to
+her physical fitness for living and working, will be like the house
+built upon the sands. Before the girl is twenty, before she is
+twenty-five&mdash;the earlier the better&mdash;she should recognize this fact and
+begin to establish her life on the bed rock of health.</p>
+
+<p>It is true, too, ninety-nine times out of a hundred, that the country
+boy and the country girl are more resourceful than their city cousins.
+Out-of-doors they have had to use their wits and have not been spoiled
+by all the appliances of city life. Out-of-doors, too, they have made
+invaluable friendships with bird and squirrel and rabbit and deer,
+friendships whose intelligent wood-life has taught them much.
+Self-reliance is one of the lessons of the outdoor runway; and wisdom
+and inspiration come from it when they are needed. About this truth the
+work of the poet Wordsworth is one long poem. Again and again he writes
+of the perfect woman shaped by the influences of nature. Of her he
+says:<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_96" id="Page_96">[Pg 96]</a></span></p>
+
+<div class="poem"><div class="stanza">
+<span class="i0">"Three years she grew in sun and shower;<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">Then Nature said, 'A lovelier flower<br /></span>
+<span class="i2">On earth was never sown;<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">This child I to myself will take;<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">She shall be mine, and I will make<br /></span>
+<span class="i2">A lady of my own.<br /></span>
+</div><div class="stanza">
+<span class="i0">"'Myself will to my darling be<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">Both law and impulse: and with me<br /></span>
+<span class="i2">The girl in rock and plain,<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">In earth and heaven, in glade and bower,<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">Shall feel an overseeing power<br /></span>
+<span class="i2">To kindle and restrain.<br /></span>
+</div><div class="stanza">
+<span class="i0">"'She shall be sportive as the fawn<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">That wild with glee across the lawn<br /></span>
+<span class="i2">Or up the mountain springs;<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">And hers shall be the breathing balm,<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">And hers the silence and the calm<br /></span>
+<span class="i2">Of mute, insensate things.<br /></span>
+</div><div class="stanza">
+<span class="i0">"'The floating clouds their state shall lend<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">To her; for her the willow bend;<br /></span>
+<span class="i2">Nor shall she fail to see<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">Even in the motions of the storm<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">Grace that shall mould the maiden's form<br /></span>
+<span class="i2">By silent sympathy.<br /></span>
+</div><div class="stanza">
+<span class="i0">"'The stars of midnight shall be dear<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">To her; and she shall lean her ear<br /></span>
+<span class="i2">In many a secret place<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">Where rivulets dance their wayward round,<br /></span>
+<span class="i0">And beauty born of murmuring sound<br /></span>
+<span class="i2">Shall pass into her face!'"<br /></span>
+</div></div>
+
+<p>No one can afford to neglect all the spiritual<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_97" id="Page_97">[Pg 97]</a></span> influence of nature, and
+the only way to receive it is to go to nature. Purity of mind, a clean
+conception of God's creative plan, a more active intellectual life are
+all there for the girl who will seek them. She cannot afford <i>not</i> to go
+back to nature for these helps, for every woman is in some sense a
+burden bearer, and she must needs know all she can of what life means in
+order to bear these burdens well.</p>
+
+<p>There are various kinds of outdoor life, some one of which is within
+reach of every human being, even if they are cripples. Probably most
+girls when the outdoor life of school and college is spoken of think
+that athletics is meant. That is one part of the outdoor runway, and
+since it is provided in every school, and insisted upon, but little
+about it need be said. It is doing its work with more and more
+inspiration, as the response to its ideals comes in. And it does
+something more in every well-equipped school than merely make a girl use
+her legs<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_98" id="Page_98">[Pg 98]</a></span> and arms: it gives her a large, sane ideal of health and
+provides her with the means of keeping well. There is no more useful
+profession for the woman seeking one that is useful as well as
+remunerative than physical culture.</p>
+
+<p>There is another aspect of the outdoor runway of which less is said. I
+mean gardening, or the care of live stock of some kind, or bee culture.
+This is practical remunerative work which for the girl living at home
+and going to school should serve famously as a grass-cure; it would keep
+her out-of-doors with profit to both her health and her purse. And then
+there is another kind of grass-cure: the outdoor life out-of-doors, to
+be taken in long country walks, in fishing expeditions, in picnics, in
+camping or wherever roads, hills, meadows and brooks lead. Finally,
+there is the outdoor life indoors. This life insists upon windows open
+to the air and open to the sunshine, and this life every one of us may
+have all the time.</p>
+
+
+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_99" id="Page_99">[Pg 99]</a></span></p>
+<h2><a name="X" id="X"></a>X</h2>
+
+<h3>A GIRL'S SUMMER</h3>
+
+
+<p>Any girl who settles down to a summer with the idea of doing nothing, or
+in an aimless, not-knowing-what-to-do-next fashion, lessens her
+opportunities for pleasure. Pleasure is not idleness, although in the
+minds of a great many people who have not thought very much it is. The
+right sort of leisure is full of opportunities for doing interesting
+things.</p>
+
+<p>There are some girls who look upon their summers as an escape from the
+slavery of their school year. There are others who think of their
+summers as something to be endured until they can go back to the more or
+less selfish freedom of the school. Neither is the right way. The summer
+ought not to be an entirely frivolous season, neither ought it to be too
+workaday. If a girl has work to do, everything should be so arranged as
+not to deprive the vacation of its recreative side.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_100" id="Page_100">[Pg 100]</a></span> On the other hand
+the summer should be all the happier because of a definite object to be
+accomplished. Something is wrong with a girl unless she finds both
+summer and winter full of opportunity and pleasure.</p>
+
+<p>No one can possibly do all the delightful or useful things which may be
+done in a single summer. In these months there is opportunity for growth
+just as in the winter&mdash;perhaps more opportunity physically. And
+intellectually there is much to be seen and observed. For the girl who
+can, it is well to plan to be out-of-doors as much as possible. For
+some, there are opportunities for camping, for long walks, for
+gardening, to learn how to do certain physically useful things, to row,
+swim and ride. Only an extraordinary emergency would deprive a girl of
+all the out-of-door exercise which she needs. If she isn't able to be by
+the sea or in the mountains, in almost all cities there is opportunity
+for exercise and games. With a short car ride she can go to golf links,
+to tennis courts, into the<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_101" id="Page_101">[Pg 101]</a></span> country. In many semi-citified homes there
+is space for a girl to do some gardening, one of the most profitable of
+pleasures, good for the girl and good for the home. Many homes would be
+much more attractive if there were more of the garden spirit in them.
+But if there is no chance for this, there can always be physical
+culture, an opportunity to build one's self up in health, to live sanely
+and wisely, to get plenty of sleep, and to take corrective exercise. In
+physical culture a girl should find out what she most needs&mdash;almost any
+gymnastic instructor in school or college would be glad to outline
+work&mdash;and then in ten or fifteen minute exercises develop herself along
+those lines.</p>
+
+<p>For the girl with means there is the chance for travel, a splendid
+opportunity to cultivate many virtues of which the young traveller
+seldom thinks: patience, adaptability, seeing the bright side of things.
+Travelling may be made a very important part of education. It is too bad
+that some people of limited horizon<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_102" id="Page_102">[Pg 102]</a></span> take it simply as a chance to
+aggrandize themselves, something to boast about and with which to bore
+their friends by repeated accounts of what they did "abroad." The great
+Doctor Samuel Johnson, the compiler of the famous dictionary and author
+of "Rasselas," heartily disliked young travellers, for, he said, "They
+go too raw to make any great remarks." Travelling, if it is what it
+should be, is an educational opening. In this way can be gained a
+background for history, for literature, for sociology, and a vivid and
+living knowledge of geography. Merely running about with a guide-book
+will not achieve these ends, although a guide-book is a very important
+asset: sympathy, trying to understand what one sees, will. Travelling
+takes away provincialism because it broadens the outlook. In a very real
+sense the world becomes one's home.</p>
+
+<p>The girl who is not able to move about or actually travel may travel in
+books. She should be ashamed to read what is harmful<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_103" id="Page_103">[Pg 103]</a></span> or merely cheap,
+but further than that it may not much matter. Let her read the Little
+Books, if she wishes, and the Great Little Books. As surely as the
+magnet swings towards the pole will the Great Little Books take her to
+the Great Big Books. She will be drawn on and up in her reading, and
+will have cultivated a love for reading which is far more important than
+perfunctory knowledge of the classics.</p>
+
+<p>Just as any books that are good point towards books that are better, so
+should the good work of a girl's school year be turning her mind towards
+the future and her work as a mature woman. In the summer she has time to
+assimilate all she has done, to get her bearings, and to plan wisely for
+the year, or years, to come. For a girl of strong physique the summer
+vacation gives an opportunity to add towards what she is going to do
+eventually; to specialize in some line of work, to take a library, or
+scientific, course. Many girls, however, who wish to spend their summer<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_104" id="Page_104">[Pg 104]</a></span>
+in this fashion ought not to consider it, for they are not strong
+enough. It is well for them to remember that it is the quality of work
+that counts rather than the quantity. Often the quality of a girl's work
+for an ensuing school year depends upon her freedom from study during
+the summer. Students should be very sure, if they undertake work in the
+summer, that it is not done simply from a nervous desire to go on
+regardless of the quality of the work done. But for those in perfect
+health this is an opportunity to try their powers in different ways in
+order to discover what it is they really wish to do. A summer so spent
+may keep many a girl from slipping into teaching just because it seems
+the only thing she can do. Such a salvation will be twofold, for it will
+save not only the girl, but also a profession overcrowded with loveless
+followers. There are so many needs to be filled by a woman's work that
+it is her duty to look for some vocation for which she is truly adapted,
+to get out of the ruts of those<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_105" id="Page_105">[Pg 105]</a></span> professions into which women flock
+because they have no initiative.</p>
+
+<p>Often a girl thinks only of what she will do with her own summer without
+thinking of what she will do with her mother's or her father's summer.
+For nine or ten months they have been thinking of what they could do for
+her. Sometimes girls do not realize the actual need of help and of
+companionship which those at home feel, and the older people are too
+unselfish to force this need upon their juniors. Between the
+unselfishness of those who are older and the self-centredness of those
+who are younger, there is often sad havoc made in a home. A girl who,
+after a year's absence and all that has been done for her, can't adjust
+herself to those who need her, has still something to learn.</p>
+
+<p>If older people cannot do without the buoyancy of the young, the young
+cannot very well afford to forget the mother and father who have much,
+although no word may be didactically spoken, to teach them. Let<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_106" id="Page_106">[Pg 106]</a></span> the
+girl take her summer not only as an opportunity to grow closer to her
+family but also as a chance to learn home-making, to train herself in
+the practical things of the home. This practical training is often a
+very valuable supplement to the school work. The time is passed when the
+learned woman who is unable to do anything for herself is the ideal&mdash;if
+she ever has been that. The inability to make a home for herself, to do
+all the necessary things daintily, detracts from a woman's power. In
+practical ways a woman should be both dainty and capable. Parents, as
+well as girls, sometimes forget or do not clearly recognize the fact
+that no school, no college, can take the place of the home, that schools
+are not primarily schools in home-making, but rather schools of general
+education. The summer is a good time for the girl to find her place
+again in the home life, and for both parents and children to rejoice in
+the pleasures of the home&mdash;pleasures and opportunities which no
+institutional life can give.</p>
+
+
+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_107" id="Page_107">[Pg 107]</a></span></p>
+<h2><a name="XI" id="XI"></a>XI</h2>
+
+<h3>FROM THE SCHOOL TO THE GIRL</h3>
+
+
+<p>What the school is able to do for the girl depends very largely upon the
+girl herself. The majority of people with whom she comes in contact do
+not take that into consideration, and the school is held unfairly
+responsible for the girl. All any school can do is to use the material
+it finds. Some one has said, with harsh but true emphasis, that a
+college does not make a fool, it simply helps in the development of one.
+As an illustration of its limitations, a school sends out two girls from
+the same class; one girl it is proud to have taken as a type, the other
+it is sorry to have represent it. Yet both have been under exactly the
+same influence. Students do not realize how fearfully at their mercy a
+school is, or that, so far as reputation is concerned, it is they who
+make or mar its credit.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_108" id="Page_108">[Pg 108]</a></span></p>
+
+<p>If the school training is worth anything at all, it makes the most of
+unpromising material. Its really discouraging experience is not with the
+girl of limited ability who gives her best and so in some sense gets the
+best, but with the student who doesn't give her best and who, because of
+her own indifference, is always misrepresenting the training she is
+receiving. No school ever wishes to have its ideals confused by a vulgar
+display of wealth or by loud or conspicuous behaviour. Yet many a
+school, with ideals all that they should be, is misjudged in public
+places because of some thoughtless or unreliable girls. This doesn't
+seem like fair-play or team-play, does it? The fineness of life ought to
+be felt and expressed in student behaviour. Yet how often it is not!</p>
+
+<p>Another way in which the ideals of a school or college are
+misrepresented is by lack of intellectual integrity. Any school informed
+with a large spirit wishes to meet its students on a platform of
+absolute trust,&mdash;a platform<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_109" id="Page_109">[Pg 109]</a></span> which makes precautions against dishonesty
+unnecessary. Just so long as a school must be vigilant in order to keep
+a few students from unfair behaviour, just so long is it prevented from
+meeting them all on a basis of absolute trust. Why should girls excuse
+themselves for classroom dishonesty? What would they think of a girl who
+cheated in basket-ball? Would they condone that? Until student
+government has recognized absolute intellectual integrity as a part of
+its ideas, it will not have achieved its end. The rock on which all
+scholarship is founded is honour. Lack of honour is fatal to its ideal.
+"Cribbing," often excused by people who do not stop to think, is the
+small beginning of a big evil.</p>
+
+<p>Many a large institution is like an anxious mother, not always
+infallible in wisdom, but personally interested in and eager for the
+success of the individual. A successful girl brings credit to her
+school, for she demonstrates, as nothing else can, the fact that the<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_110" id="Page_110">[Pg 110]</a></span>
+school is achieving its purpose in service to the community. How much
+this encouragement is needed, girls do not realize, for they do not know
+all the difficulties which institutions, especially technical and
+collegiate, have to meet in sending their students out into the world.
+In finding a position for a student, the school has to consider the
+whole girl. It may care greatly for an attractive personality and yet
+see that its possessor is lacking in qualities of faithfulness and
+accuracy, and that with its utmost endeavour it has never been able to
+correct these faults. On the other hand, the school may have those
+students whose manners, whose dress, whose personality, whose spelling,
+whose awkwardly expressed notes, whose lack of promptness, make against
+success in any capacity.</p>
+
+<p>Another point for which the school looks in recommending its students is
+physical fitness, which shows itself in many different ways: in voice,
+in carriage, in attractiveness,<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_111" id="Page_111">[Pg 111]</a></span> in staying power. One teacher who had
+an excellent record as a student and was, besides, a fine girl, had so
+unpleasant and absurd a voice that her students were in a continual
+state of amusement and would learn nothing from her. A great many
+teachers have lost in power because of a poor voice, strident, or
+lifeless, or husky, or falsetto. A poor enunciation, or words that do
+not carry, are ineffectual means by which to reach a class, to hold a
+customer, or to introduce one's self favourably to the interest of
+others. For a girl who is going to have any part in public life&mdash;and
+most girls do nowadays&mdash;a good voice is an absolute essential. And it is
+well for us to remember that the voice is not something superficial, but
+that it is the expression of that which is within.</p>
+
+<p>Another way in which physical fitness shows itself is in the carriage. A
+girl who carries herself with erectness and energy brings a certain
+conviction with her of fitness<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_112" id="Page_112">[Pg 112]</a></span> for many things, of self-respect, of
+ability, and reveals in her bearing something of her mind as well as of
+her body. We are always tempted to think a person who "slumps"
+physically may slump in other ways. A good carriage, good voice, and
+strong, clean, digestive system are far more important than beauty of
+features.</p>
+
+<p>There is another matter at which the school in placing its students must
+look. To be a desirable candidate for a good position a girl need not be
+expensively gowned, but she must be daintily and freshly dressed.
+Immaculate shirt waist, a plain, well-made skirt, with good shoes,
+stockings and gloves and a quiet, pretty hat, are all any woman needs in
+meeting her business obligations. And that daintiness which she shows in
+her dress she must show in her person too, in clean skin and
+finger-nails, good teeth, and smooth, attractively arranged hair.</p>
+
+<p>It is very important for the interests of a<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_113" id="Page_113">[Pg 113]</a></span> school, as well as for the
+individual, to place its students advantageously. To have them succeed
+widens its sphere of usefulness and influence and opens new channels of
+service. Every college puts itself to considerable expense in looking
+out for the interests of its students, for the glory of a great school
+lies not only in the people whom it collects into its midst, but even
+more in those whom it sends out. A girl has no right to go so lightly
+through her school life that she fails to see in it all the
+self-sacrifice and effort and ambitions that have gone into the building
+up of what is her privilege and opportunity. In so far as she does this
+she fails in the team-play spirit. Why should a girl think that she can
+spend her father's money, or the means of her school, thoughtlessly?
+What would happen to her if she did this with the funds of her
+basket-ball team? Yet girls waste the resources of their school by
+carelessness with its property, a carelessness that collectively mounts
+up into thousands of<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_114" id="Page_114">[Pg 114]</a></span> dollars, and never once stop to think how
+difficult every big school finds it to make ends meet.</p>
+
+<p>Before it is too late, at least now that she is leaving school, let her
+stop to realize that a great deal of the work for an institution is
+along the line of self-sacrifice, in the gifts given, in the work of its
+administrators and teachers. This unselfishness means a financial loss,
+for business ability might be invested in more lucrative ways; it means
+a social sacrifice, for there is a certain kind of impersonality which
+is demanded in work that deals with a continually changing community; it
+means risk in the great strain put upon physical and nervous strength;
+it means forgetting one's self; for the true teacher is willing to be
+forgotten when she has served others. What a school may accomplish for
+its students is its only compensation for all this self-sacrifice.</p>
+
+
+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_115" id="Page_115">[Pg 115]</a></span></p>
+<h2><a name="XII" id="XII"></a>XII</h2>
+
+<h3>THE WORK TO BE</h3>
+
+
+<p>One of the qualities a girl who has completed her school or college life
+needs to show for a few months more than anything else is the quality of
+adjustment, for she will find that she must continually adjust herself
+to new conditions whether they be of the home or elsewhere. All the time
+through school she has been in some sense a centre of interest. Her
+class has been an important factor in the academic life. When she has
+gone home it has been as a school or college girl, and she has been of
+interest because she brought that life into the home. But now the
+attitude of others towards her is different. She ceases to be the centre
+of attention, and for her a day of serious readjustment is at hand.
+Perhaps in her own estimate she has seemed even more important than she
+really was. She is likely<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_116" id="Page_116">[Pg 116]</a></span> now to swing from a sense of self-importance
+to an injured feeling of insignificance, and to a conviction that people
+can get along quite as well without her. Up to this time when she has
+gone home she has been an honoured visitor. But now that she is at home
+to stay, instead of becoming the centre she is merely part of the family
+circle with its obligation of doing for others. Her presence in the
+household is no longer a novelty.</p>
+
+<p>The swift change from a highly-organized, methodical life to the life of
+the home where there is not so much method, is hard for a girl. One
+reason it is difficult is that while she may be accomplishing a great
+deal that is useful, she seems to be doing nothing and to get nowhere.
+She feels as if she were in the midst of a conflict of duties. In school
+she has had implanted in her the idea that she must accomplish some
+definite thing, and between this objective and the irregular demands of
+the home there appears to be more or less clashing. She is confronted by
+a<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_117" id="Page_117">[Pg 117]</a></span> problem not easy for any one to solve: how to keep her definiteness
+of aim and work, and yet not be self-centred.</p>
+
+<p>Oftentimes when a girl fails to adjust herself to the home life, her
+family and friends feel that she is rather selfish in her desire to
+carry out her own aims rather than to give them up for new demands.
+Frequently the family is as much to blame for not realizing that the
+girl needs to be helped back into the old life as the girl is for not
+being able to help herself. In the home the spirit of team-play is much
+needed. Quite as much as the girl, the family has a lesson to learn in
+the art of adjustment and in remembering that this grown-up child isn't
+just the same individual she was when she went away several years ago.
+They need to realize that the girl may be able to give more to the home
+life than she ever did before, but that it will be given in a somewhat
+different way.</p>
+
+<p>While she is learning the difficult art of finding her place again, a
+great deal depends<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_118" id="Page_118">[Pg 118]</a></span> upon the individual girl, not only in the home but
+in the community at large. Sometimes she needs to be reminded that
+although she may have had more advantages than those left at home, that
+doesn't necessarily make her a superior person. A girl who is inclined
+either to pity or to admire herself too greatly should give herself a
+vigorous shaking. In the long run she will find it easier to do that on
+her own account than to have others do it for her. The friends at home,
+or in the church, or in the town, with education of a different kind
+coming to them, may have quite as much and more to give her than she to
+give them. One indicator of a really cultivated woman is her power to
+adapt herself to the circumstances in which she is placed. A gentlewoman
+never calls attention to the difference between herself and somebody
+else. The woman of broad culture is the one who makes everybody feel at
+home with her. If a girl's education has been worth anything at all, it
+should give her not<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_119" id="Page_119">[Pg 119]</a></span> a superior, set-aside feeling, but a desire to be
+more friendly and useful wherever she may be, and, not placing too much
+stress on externals, to look for essentials, to get the full value from
+every person and from every experience with which she comes in contact.</p>
+
+<p>Girls go to so many different kinds of homes that it is unlikely that
+they will meet the same sorts of difficulties. There is the girl who
+goes into the society home, where it is impossible for her to carry out
+her ideals without conflict with its social standards. On the other
+hand, there is the girl who goes into the very simple home where all the
+stress is upon the domestic side of life. And there is the girl who has
+to provide part of the family income. Very likely she has the hardest
+problem of all. She enters upon some new work, and nine times out of ten
+the way is not made easy for her; she is a novice with all the hardships
+that come to the novice. Perhaps in the beginning she has met a very
+real perplexity in hardly knowing<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_120" id="Page_120">[Pg 120]</a></span> what line of work to take up. She has
+no particular interest, no especial talent, no brilliant record, no
+powerful friends, no money with which to establish herself. With her it
+must be as it is with thinking: she must seize hold of the thing nearest
+her. What seems to her a temporary and unsatisfactory expedient will in
+many cases open out a path leading to something much broader. At least
+she may remember this as consolation: that even that experience of
+uncertainty, of indecision, is a part of education, and out of it,
+rightly and bravely met, will come some richness for her future life.</p>
+
+<p>The beginning of a work, teaching or anything else, may have to be
+rather irksome, indeed, may be exceedingly difficult,&mdash;an experience
+that will perhaps test staying power to the utmost. When it is too late
+to give due appreciation we realize that the work in school which was
+planned for us and arranged with our physical and mental well-being in
+view was, after all, not so hard as we thought<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_121" id="Page_121">[Pg 121]</a></span> it at the time. We wish
+that we had enjoyed our leisure more and complained less.</p>
+
+<p>From the point of view of fatigue, as a secretary, a clerk, a trained
+nurse, a teacher, a social worker, the burden may be so great that the
+girl is disheartened. She is all the more disheartened because, knowing
+that a useful life is a strong, steady pull, the way before her seems
+interminable. If she carries her whip inside her&mdash;this counsel is not
+for those of us who are lazy&mdash;she does well to remember that there is a
+point beyond which fatigue should not be borne, that is, when it
+overdraws her capital of health and nervous energy. Raising pigs is
+preferable to a so-called high profession when pig-raising is happily
+joined with a reasonable amount of health and security. The pigs and
+health together can always pay mortgages and buy necessities for those
+dependent upon us and for ourselves. The high calling without health is
+like a wet paper-bag: it will hold nothing.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_122" id="Page_122">[Pg 122]</a></span></p>
+
+<p>The girl meets with another difficulty in finding out that in almost any
+line of work a great deal of time is needed for the mastery of what seem
+the simplest principles. No one wants the girl who hasn't had
+experience, and nobody seems disposed to take her and give her that
+experience. However, we all find some one who is hardy enough or kind
+enough to try us; and as every year now there is more effort put into
+finding the work girls are most suited to do, there is no excuse for
+slipping into teaching as a last resort. Not unnaturally we sometimes
+distrust ourselves, especially in taking up an occupation to which we
+are not accustomed. And in her new work the girl, uncertain of her
+ability to master what she has undertaken, is placed in a position in
+which she has the encouragement of neither the school nor the home.
+Before, she has put much of the responsibility for her work and life
+upon parents and instructors. Now she has to be her own judge and pass
+judgment on herself and her<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_123" id="Page_123">[Pg 123]</a></span> work. She has, too, not only to lift her
+own weight but the weight of others as well. As she longs for
+co&ouml;peration, good will and encouragement the value of the team-play
+spirit has never seemed so great before.</p>
+
+<hr style='width: 45%;' />
+
+<p>We do not need to be told to remember the happy and easy experiences of
+life. No girl forgets them. What we do need is some one to tell us where
+the hard places will be, to warn us, to stiffen our courage and to point
+clearly to the uses of hard work and adversity. And although this may
+seem like placing another straw on the poor camel's back, it is now time
+to say that in her life-work, whether it be in her home or outside, a
+girl should be very clear in her mind what her aims and purposes are. If
+she is working solely for the praise and commendation of others, she
+will often be grievously disappointed. Not in recognition does real
+reward lie, but in the work itself. If she wins great popularity she is
+likely to find that there<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_124" id="Page_124">[Pg 124]</a></span> is nothing that shifts so quickly and is such
+a quicksand. If material wealth is her sole object she will harden into
+the thing she seeks and add but another joyless barbarian to a modern
+world congratulating itself that barbarism is a thing of the past, and
+yet presenting the spectacle of a mammon worship such as has never been
+seen before. If gold is her end, and not the means to a nobler end, then
+she will find herself constantly sacrificing higher issues to that, and
+lowering her one-time ideals. Truly the woman who marries solely for the
+comforts of a home, the woman who teaches, or nurses for "pay" alone,
+has her reward, and that is in self-destruction. She is a carrier of
+barbarism, not of culture; of disease, not of health; of tribulation,
+not of joy. The only real reward there can be lies in the idealism, the
+joy, the strength of the work done and in a mind and heart conscious of
+having done their best.</p>
+
+
+<h3>THE END</h3>
+
+
+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_125" id="Page_125">[Pg 125]</a></span></p>
+
+<h2>GIFT BOOKS, ESSAYS, Etc.</h2>
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+
+
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+
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+
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+to Be," the author writes in a practical yet interesting way of
+wellnigh every phase of the girl and her school.</p></div>
+
+
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+
+
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+
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+
+<hr style="width: 65%;" />
+<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_126" id="Page_126">[Pg 126]</a></span></p>
+<h2><a name="FICTION" id="FICTION"></a>FICTION</h2>
+
+
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+
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+
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+
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+
+
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+
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+
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+
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+
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+
+
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+
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+
+
+<p><br /><br /><i>ISLA MAY MULLINS</i></p>
+
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+
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+
+
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+
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+
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+
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+
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+
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+
+
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+
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+
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+
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+
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+
+<pre>
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+A Girl's Student Days and After
+
+By
+
+JEANNETTE MARKS, M. A.
+
+(_Wellesley_)
+
+_With an Introduction by_
+_MARY EMMA WOOLLEY, LL. D._
+_President of Mt. Holyoke College_
+
+_New York Chicago Toronto_
+_Fleming H. Revell Company_
+_London and Edinburgh_
+
+Copyright, 1911, by
+FLEMING H. REVELL COMPANY
+
+New York: 158 Fifth Avenue
+Chicago: 125 North Wabash Ave.
+Toronto: 25 Richmond Street, W.
+London: 21 Paternoster Square
+Edinburgh: 100 Princes Street
+
+_Inscribed
+to
+MARY EMMA WOOLLEY, LL. D._
+
+
+
+
+_Introduction_
+
+
+The school and college girl is an important factor in our life to-day.
+Around her revolve all manner of educational schemes, to her are open
+all kinds of educational opportunities. There was never an age in which
+so much thought was expended upon her, or so much interest felt in her
+development.
+
+There are many articles written and many speeches delivered on the
+responsibility of parents and teachers--it may not be amiss occasionally
+to turn the shield and show that some of the responsibility rests upon
+the girl herself. After all, she is the determining factor, for
+buildings and equipment, courses and teachers accomplish little without
+her cooeperation.
+
+It is difficult for the "new girl," whether in school or college, to
+realize the extent to which the success of her school life depends upon
+herself. In a new environment, surrounded by what seem to her
+"multitudes" of new faces, obliged to meet larger demands under strange
+and untried conditions, she is quite likely to go to the other extreme
+and exaggerate her own insignificance. Sometimes she is fortunate enough
+to have an older sister or friend to help her steer her bark through
+these untried waters, but generally she must find her own bearings.
+
+To such a girl, the wise hints in the chapters which follow this
+introduction are invaluable, giving an insight into the meaning of
+fair-play in the classroom as well as on the athletic field; the
+relation between physical well-being and academic success; the
+difference between the social life that is _re_-creative and that which
+is "_nerves_-creative"; the significance of loyalty to the school and to
+the home; the way in which school days determine to a large degree the
+days that come after. These, and many other suggestions, wise and
+forceful, I commend not only to the new girl, but also to the "old
+girl" who would make her school and college days count for more both
+while they last and as preparation for the work that is to follow.
+
+ MARY E. WOOLLEY.
+
+ _Mt. Holyoke College_,
+ _South Hadley, Massachusetts._
+
+
+
+
+_CONTENTS_
+
+
+A WORD TO THE WISE 13
+
+I. THE IDEAL FRESHMAN 17
+
+II. THE GIRL AND THE SCHOOL 25
+
+III. FRIENDSHIPS 33
+
+IV. THE STUDENT'S ROOM 41
+
+V. THE TOOLS OF STUDY AND THEIR USE 54
+
+VI. THE JOY OF WORK 61
+
+VII. FAIR-PLAY 70
+
+VIII. THE RIGHT SORT OF LEISURE 78
+
+IX. THE OUTDOOR RUNWAY 88
+
+X. A GIRL'S SUMMER 99
+
+XI. FROM THE SCHOOL TO THE GIRL 107
+
+XII. THE WORK TO BE 115
+
+
+
+
+_A Word to the Wise_
+
+
+We train for basket-ball, golf, tennis or for whatever sport we have the
+most liking. Is there any reason why we should not use the same
+intelligence in the approach to our general school life? Is there any
+reason why we should make an obstacle race, however good and amusing
+exercise that may be, out of _all_ our school life? We don't expect to
+win a game with a sprained wrist or ankle, and there really is no reason
+why we should plan to sprain the back of school or college life by
+avoidable mistakes.
+
+The writer believes in the girl who has the capacity for making
+mistakes,--that headlong, energetic spirit which blunders all too
+easily. But the writer knows how much those mistakes hurt and how much
+energy might be saved for a life that, with just a pinch less of
+blunder, might be none the less savoury. School and college are no place
+for vocal soloists, and after some of us have sung so sweetly and so
+long at home, with every one saying, "Just hear Mary sing, isn't it
+wonderful!" it is rather trying, you know, to go to a place where vocal
+solos are not popular. And we wish some one--at least I did--had told us
+all about this fact as well as other facts of school life. Anyway it
+should be a comfort to have a book lying on the table in our school or
+college room, or at home, which will tell us why Mary, after having been
+a famous soloist at home made a failure or a great success in chorus
+work at school. Such a book is something like having a loaded gun in
+readiness for the robber. We may never use the shotgun or the book but
+they are there, with the reassuring sense of shot in the locker.
+
+It is something, is it not, to have a little book which will tell you
+how to get into school and how to get out (for at times there seem to be
+difficulties in both these directions)--in short, to tell you something
+of many things: your first year at school or college, your part in the
+school life, the friendships you will make, your study and how to work
+in it, the pleasure and right kind of spirit involved in work, the quiet
+times, as well as the jolly times, out-of-doors, your summers and how to
+spend them, what the school has tried to do for you; and, as you go out
+into the world, some of the aspects, whether you are to be wife,
+secretary or teacher, of the work which you will do. Of one thing you
+may be certain; that behind every sentence of this little book is
+experience, that here are only those opinions of which experience has
+made a good, wholesome zwieback.
+
+I wish to take this opportunity to thank my friend, Mrs. Belle Kellogg
+Towne, editor of _The Girls' Companion_ and _Young People's Weekly_,
+Chicago, for her cooeperation in allowing me to use half the material in
+this little book; also Dr. C. R. Blackall, of Philadelphia.
+
+_Camp Runway._ J. M.
+
+
+
+
+I
+
+THE IDEAL FRESHMAN
+
+
+Freshman year, the beginning year, the year of new experiences, new
+delights, new work, new friends, new surroundings; the year that may
+mean much to a girl, that may answer some of the questions that have
+lain long in heart and mind, that will surely reveal her more clearly to
+herself, that may make her understand others better and help her to
+guess something of the riddle of the years to come!
+
+What has the student done to get ready for this year? If she were going
+camping she would know that certain things were necessary to make the
+expedition a success. With what excitement and pleasure, what thoughts
+of jolly camp-fires, deep, sweet-smelling forests, and long days afoot,
+she would prepare everything. She would not let any one else do this for
+her, for that would mean losing too much of the fun. But the _freshman
+year_, what about the thinking and planning for that, also an expedition
+into a new world, and a veritable adventure of a vast deal more
+importance than a few days or weeks of camping? Would she enter forests
+upon whose trees the camp-fires throw many shadows, follow the stream
+that cleaves its way through the woods, go along the runway of deer or
+caribou or moose, with a mind to all intents and purposes a blank? No,
+her mind would be vivid with thoughts and interests.
+
+With the same keen attention should she enter the new year at school or
+college, and as she passes through it, thinking about all that comes to
+her, she will find it growing less and less difficult and more and more
+friendly. She will consider what the freshman year is to be like, think
+of what sorts of girls she is to meet and make friends with, what the
+work will be, what she may expect in good times from this new adventure,
+and, thoughtful about it all, make the minimum of mistakes and get the
+maximum of benefit.
+
+Here come some of the girls who are entering school and college with
+her--bright-haired, dark-haired, rosy or pale, tall and thin, fat and
+short, clever and average, desirable and undesirable,--in fact, all
+sorts and conditions of girls. Who is to be the leader of them all? She
+is the _ideal freshman_, a nice, well-set-up girl who does not think too
+much of herself, who is not self-conscious, and who does not forget for
+what she is sent to school. Despite the temptations of school life she
+uses her days wisely and well. She does not isolate herself, for she
+sees the plan and value of the recreative side of school-days. She is
+already laying the foundations for a successful, useful, normal
+existence, establishing confidence at the outset and not handicapping
+herself through her whole course by making people lose their faith in
+her. Our _ideal freshman_ may be the girl who is to do distinguished
+work; she may be the student who does her best; and because it is her
+best, the work, though not brilliant, is distinguished by virtue of her
+effort. She may be the girl who is to make a happy home life through her
+poise and earnestness and common sense. Whoever she is, in any event in
+learning to do her best she is winning nine-tenths of the battle of a
+successful career. It is she, attractive, able, earnest, with the
+"fair-play" or team-play spirit in all she does, true to herself and to
+others, whom every school wants, whose unconscious influence is so great
+in building up the morale of any school. Mark this girl and follow her,
+for she is worthy of your hero worship.
+
+This is the girl who goes into school in much the same spirit that she
+would enter upon a larger life. She is not a prig and she is not a dig,
+but she knows there are responsibilities to be met and she meets them.
+She expects to have to think about the new conditions in which she finds
+herself and to adjust herself to them, and she does it. She knows the
+meaning of the team-play spirit and she takes her place quietly on the
+team, one among many, and both works and plays with respect for the
+rights and positions of others. It is in the temper of the words
+sometimes stamped upon the coins of our country--_E Pluribus Unum_--that
+she makes a success of her school life. She knows that not only is our
+country bigger than any one of its states, but also that every school is
+bigger than any one of its members whether teacher or student. In a
+small family at home conditions have been more or less made for her,
+just as they are for other girls. Yet she knows that the school life is
+complicated and complex, and it is impossible for her to feel neglected
+where a more self-centred or spoiled girl fails to see that in this new
+life she is called upon to play a minor part but nevertheless a part
+upon which the school must rely for its _esprit de corps_. She goes with
+ease from the somewhat unmethodical life of the home to the highly
+organized routine of the school because she understands the meaning of
+the word "team-play." She has the cooeperative spirit.
+
+Yet there are other girls, too, in this school which the freshman is
+entering. There is the student who errs on the side of leading too
+workaday a life, and in so doing has lost something of the buoyancy and
+breadth and "snap" which would make her associations and her work
+fresher and more vigorous. "The Grind," she has been called, and if she
+recognize herself in this sketch, let her take care to reach out for a
+bigger and fuller life than she is leading. And there is, too, the
+selfish student whose "class-spirit" is self-spirit; and the girl who is
+not selfish but who uses herself up in too many interests, dramatic,
+athletic, society, philanthropic and in a dozen others. She is probably
+over-conscientious, a good girl in every way, but in doing too much she
+loses sight of the real aim of her school life. To these must be added
+another student,--the freshman who skims the surface, and is, when she
+gets out, where she was when she entered--no, not quite so far along,
+for she has slipped back. She is selfish, relying upon the patience and
+burden-bearing capacity of her father and mother, as well as the school.
+
+No doubt every girl would meet her obligations squarely if she realized
+what was the underlying significance of the freshman year; the school
+life would surely be approached with a conscientious purpose. What a
+girl gets in school will much depend upon what she has to give. No girl
+is there simply to have a good time or merely to learn things out of
+books. Nor is she there to fill in the interim between childhood and
+young womanhood, when one will go into society, another marry, and a
+third take up some wage-earning career. No, she is there to carry life
+forward in the deepest, truest sense; and the longer she can have to get
+an education and to make the best of the opportunities of school and
+college life, the richer and fuller her after-years will be. Both middle
+life and old age will be deeper and stronger. Let us think about these
+girls, let us think about what it means to be a freshman, and so lessen
+our difficulties and increase our pleasures; let us have a big
+conception,--a large ideal always at heart--of what the _first year_
+should be, and beginning well we shall be the more likely to end well.
+
+
+
+
+II
+
+THE GIRL AND THE SCHOOL
+
+
+Inside school or college the girl is in several ways responsible for the
+atmosphere. Merely in her conversation she can be of service or
+dis-service. It may be simply a good joke which she is telling, but if
+the joke misrepresents the school she will, perhaps, do lasting harm. If
+she is hypercritical--and there is nothing so contagious as
+criticism--she influences people in the direction of her thought; she
+sets a current of criticism in motion. A student frequently gives vent
+to an opinion that is only half-baked--it is well, by the way, to make
+zwieback of all our opinions before we pass them around as edible--about
+courses and instructors. She does not realize that some opinions to be
+worth anything must be the result of a long process of baking, that a
+nibble from the corner of a four months' or nine months' course will
+not, however understandingly it may be Fletcherized, tell you whether
+the course is going to be fruit cake, meringue or common soda crackers.
+She may think that she herself is so unimportant that what she says
+can't matter, or she may not mean what she says and be merely letting
+off steam. Nevertheless her influence is exerted. Some one showed an old
+lady, who had never been known to say anything in the least critical of
+any human being, the picture of a very fat man prominent in public life.
+She looked at it a moment, and then said sweetly: "My, isn't he plump!"
+If only there were more old and young ladies like that dear soul!
+
+There is another kind of conversation which may not be ill-natured and
+yet does harm. Idle gossiping, talking about things that are not worth
+while or speculating about affairs which are not our business and of
+which we know little or nothing. Akin to this is fashionably slangy
+conversation concerning the latest thing in books, magazine articles,
+trivial plays. For even the "tone" of school or college conversation a
+student is responsible. She can make her school seem cheap or
+cultivated. The remarks which visitors overhear as they go from room to
+room or from building to building are likely to indicate the "tone" of
+an institution. A catalogue may say all it pleases about a school but in
+the end the school is judged by the women it educates and sends out,
+even as a tree is known by its fruit. Cultivated, strong women are worth
+more in advertisement than all the printed material in the world,
+however laudatory.
+
+When a girl has received everything her Alma Mater has to give, she has
+no right to be untrue to its fundamental aims and ideals, or to
+misrepresent it in any way, either by what she says or by her own
+behaviour. Every student in a large institution is in a sense a
+pensioner. No student can pay for what is given to her. Is it not a poor
+return for her to be reflecting dishonour rather than honour upon her
+school?
+
+There is a certain social selfishness in the way some students take
+their opportunities for granted without realizing that there are
+thousands and hundreds of thousands of girls who would give all that
+they possess for a tithe of such riches. Also, because of the sacrifice
+which is being made for them at home girls are selfish in taking their
+school or college life carelessly. The school has to bear much of the
+responsibility for the individual failure. But of this the student who
+is failing rarely thinks. Parents hold an institution to blame if it
+does not do for their child what they expect it to do, when it may be
+the girl who is at fault.
+
+In the use she makes of her portion of inheritance, in the gift the
+school bestows on the student, there is a large social question
+involved. The school gives her of its wealth, the result of the
+accumulation of years and of the civic or philanthropic spirit of many
+men and women. This, if the girl's sense of responsibility is what it
+should be, she feels bound to increase and hand on. It is the old
+_noblesse oblige_ under new conditions of privilege.
+
+While she is still in school the girl discharges part of this obligation
+by realizing what is best for her school as an institution. A college or
+a big school is no place for vocal soloists. Its life is the life of an
+orchestra, of many instruments playing together. The student's sense of
+responsibility is shown by her attitude towards the corporate government
+and administration of the school. Instead of regarding the laws of her
+school as natural enemies, chafing against them, making fun of them or
+evading them if possible, she has a duty in fulfilling them. The
+consciousness of this responsibility is the very heart and soul of the
+student self-government movement, for it recognizes not only the
+obligation placed upon its members by an institution, but also the wide
+influence one girl may have on others. Student government knows that
+upper class girls can determine the spirit of the under classes. Even
+looking at the matter from the lightest point of view, respectful and
+law-abiding ways are always well-bred ways.
+
+When a student becomes an alumna she can discharge a large part of her
+great responsibility by realizing that it is not any longer so much a
+question of what her school can give her as of what she can give to her
+school. One thing she can always give it--that is, kindly judgment. And
+she can acknowledge that her ideas of what her Alma Mater is after her
+own school-days may not be correct. The school, sad to say, is sometimes
+placed in the position of the kindly old farmer who, hearing others call
+a certain man a liar, said: "Waal now, I wouldn't say he wuz a _liar_.
+That's a bit harsh. I'd say he handled the truth mighty careless-like."
+Schools find that some of their alumnae handle the truth mighty
+careless-like.
+
+While she is still a student a girl's service to her school lies largely
+in her daily work, the mental muscle she puts into all that she does in
+the classroom and studies out of it. If because of her and a multiple of
+many girls like her, the college does not possess that _sine qua non_ of
+all the higher mental life, an intellectual atmosphere, it is the
+student's and her multiple's fault. "You may lead a horse to water but
+you cannot make it drink," may be an old adage, but it would be hard to
+improve upon it. You may set before students a veritable Thanksgiving
+feast of things intellectual, but if they have no eagerness, no appetite
+for them, the feast remains untouched. Energy and hunger of the mind,
+not the anxious hosts, will in the end decide whether that feast is or
+is not to be eaten.
+
+The school considers not only scholarship but also the sum of all that
+it is, its culture, its attainment, its moral force, as these elements
+are expressed in its living members, its students and its teachers--in
+short, its idealism. Idealism is having one's life governed by ideals,
+and an ideal is a perfect conception of that which is good, beautiful
+and true. If the girl's life is not governed by ideals, how, then, can
+the school hope to have its idealism live or grow? Frequently students
+think of the ideals of college or school as of something outside
+themselves, more or less intangible, with which they may or may not be
+concerned. Students cannot do their institution a greater injury than by
+harbouring such a thought, for if their sense of responsibility will
+only make the idea of the school personal, then indeed will the school
+be like that house upon which the rains descended and the winds blew but
+it fell not, for it was founded upon a rock.
+
+
+
+
+III
+
+FRIENDSHIPS
+
+
+Homesickness and friendships, how much and how vivid a part they play in
+the first year, or years, of school life! An old coloured physician was
+asked about a certain patient who was very ill. "I'll tell you de truf,"
+was the reply. "Widout any perception, Phoebe Pamela may die and she may
+get well; dere's considerable danger bofe ways." I will tell you one
+truth about the first year of school life: friends there will surely be,
+and homesickness there is likely to be,--there is "considerable danger
+both ways."
+
+Even if a girl has never been away from home before, it is possible that
+she will not suffer from homesickness. It is probable, however, that the
+new surroundings in which the girl finds herself, and the separation
+from those who are the centre of her personal life, will bring on an
+attack of this most painful malady. It takes time to fit comfortably
+into the new surroundings, and meanwhile everything is strange.
+Homesickness is not to be laughed at, but it must be less deadly, less
+fatal than some people think it, or there would not be so many
+recoveries. Girls often weep when they enter school, and then after the
+long dreary years are really over, lived through, and the poor forlorn
+freshman is metamorphosed into the senior, they weep again. Is it not
+strange that these seniors who wept on entering school should weep also
+when leaving it? It looks in the end as if Phoebe Pamela were sure to
+get well. Yet the effort to get well requires a fine effort at
+self-control,--an effort every girl is the better for making, although
+it may take everything plucky in a girl to "back up" her intention to
+remain in school. The earlier the student considers this question of
+homesickness the better. Let her face its possibilities before she goes
+away from home, and make up her mind, if she is attacked, resolutely to
+overcome it. If it comes, let her never give up the struggle, for, by
+giving in, she will only lose ground in every way, morally, socially,
+intellectually. By her cowardice she will part with what she can never
+recover later.
+
+Many temptations follow in the wake of homesickness, and the most
+serious of all is to make friends too rapidly. It may be laid down as a
+rule that a friendship formed on this stop-gap principle, and too
+rapidly, is not likely to endure. Such a friendship is not a sane or a
+wise relation, for friendship is like scholarship: if it is worth
+anything at all it comes slowly. Impulsive, quickly forced friendships
+are not wise investments; the very fact that they come so quickly
+implies an unbalanced state of idealizing, or lack of self-control. This
+does not mean that one is not to form pleasant acquaintances from the
+very beginning of the school life. Acquaintanceship always holds
+something in reserve and is the safest prelude to a deeper and more
+vital friendship.
+
+There is no denying that there is great temptation to violent
+admirations and attractions in school. In the first place, in school or
+college the girl is brought into contact with a large circle of people
+who are immensely interesting to her. The whole atmosphere is full of
+novelty, of the unusual. Some of the students and teachers whom she
+meets for the first time represent a broader experience, it may be, than
+her own home life has given her. They are often new types and new types
+are always interesting.
+
+I shall say nothing of the idealism of friendship--it plays its part in
+other books. It would seem sometimes as if almost too much emphasis had
+been placed upon the making of friendships in school,--friendship which
+is, after all, but a by-product, the most valuable it is true,
+nevertheless a by-product of the life. Wholly practical are the tests of
+friendship which I shall give. In the first place a friend is too
+absorbing who takes all of one's interest to the exclusion of
+everything else: there should be interest in other people, other
+activities as well as in one's work. Such a friendship can only make a
+girl forget for what she has come to school. The new relation which
+disposes one to look with less respect and affection upon one's own
+people and home--and they, be it remembered, have stood the most
+valuable test of all, the test of time--cannot be a good influence. It
+may be said in general that an association which is developing the less
+fine traits in one's character, giving emphasis to the less worthy
+sides, should be relinquished immediately, even at the cost of much
+heartache. The heartache will be only temporary; the bad influence might
+become permanent. On the other hand, since friendship is giving as well
+as taking, one does well to consider the fact that if one's own part in
+it does not tell for good, there is just as much reason for stopping the
+friendship where it is. Some of these associations--and this is a hard
+saying, I know--which seem everything at the time are nothing, as the
+years will prove. A girl idealizes, and idealizes those who are not
+worthy. Inevitably the day comes when she laughs at herself,--if she
+does not do worse and pity herself for having been such a goose.
+
+Only a few of the friendships made in school are destined to endure. One
+of the foremost of those that last is founded on similarity of interest.
+Perhaps it is the girl with whom one has worked side by side in the
+laboratory,--a relation formed slowly and on a permanent basis. Many of
+the best of friends have come together through community of interests,
+and this is a type of friendship for which men have a greater gift than
+women.
+
+There is still another type which develops because of some conspicuously
+noble or fine quality which proves attractive. Hero worship, this, which
+enlarges one's self through the admiration given to another. Then there
+is the friendship based on a purely personal attraction, with mutual
+respect and self-respect as its dedicated corner-stone. This does not
+mean that one cannot see any faults in the friend, or know that one's
+own are seen, without losing affection. There is always something flimsy
+and insecure about a friendship that simply idealizes. Any relation
+should be all the stronger for a frank acknowledgment of its
+imperfections. If a girl cares enough she will be willing to admit her
+own faults and wish to make herself more worthy to be a friend.
+
+And, finally, there is what might be called the lend-a-hand
+friendship,--the relation that springs into existence because of the
+need which is seen in another. It is not fair to make a packhorse of
+one's friend or to turn one's self into the leaning variety of plant,
+but it is fair and wise and right, if one is strong enough to accomplish
+the end in view, to lend a hand to another girl who is not making the
+best of herself.
+
+Have a good time but do not swear eternal allegiance in this first year
+to anybody, however wonderful she may seem. Hold yourself in reserve, if
+for no other reason, then on account of the old friends at home, whether
+they be kin or no-kin, for they have been true. And remember, as I have
+said before, friendship is like scholarship and must by its nature come
+slowly.
+
+
+
+
+IV
+
+THE STUDENT'S ROOM
+
+
+There has been a general improvement in student rooms, yet many rooms
+to-day have altogether too much in them: too many pictures, too many
+banners, too much furniture, too many hangings. The great fault of most
+rooms is this overcrowding. If we were only heroic enough to make a
+bonfire of nine-tenths of all they contain we should see suddenly
+revealed possibilities for something like the ideal room.
+
+One serious and obvious objection to the overcrowding of rooms is the
+hygienic. I am tempted to say that this is the most important objection:
+indeed, since health is more important than wealth, I will say so. A
+girl has neither the time nor the ability to keep so many articles in a
+room clean: and while she is busy attending to her studies, some
+cherished ornaments are not only laying up dust for the future, as a
+more regenerate life will lay up treasures, but also breeding germs,
+perhaps collecting the very germs which will take this girl away from
+school or college. Besides, bric-a-brac not only gathers dust and breeds
+germs but also wearies the nerves. It makes one tired to see so many
+things about, and tired to be held responsible for them. Without
+realizing it, we resist the amount of space they occupy and in their
+place want the air and sunshine. Subconsciously, most of us long to get
+rid of our bric-a-brac and then pull down the draperies that keep out
+the sunlight. The simpler the window draperies in a room, the more
+easily washed, the better and more attractive. For wholesome
+attractiveness there is no fabric that can excel a flood of warm
+sunshine. Any girl or woman who has curtains which she must protect from
+strong light by drawing down the shades is guilty of a household sin
+whose greatness she cannot know. That same sunshine, freely admitted,
+will do more to cleanse a house than all the soap, all the brooms, and
+even all the vacuum cleaners ever invented.
+
+The so-called beauty of a room should always give way before the hygiene
+of a room. Not only should the room be sensibly furnished so that it may
+have plenty of air and light, but closets should not contain articles of
+furniture which belong where the air can reach them. There is a
+difference between a room that is not orderly and one that is not clean.
+A room that contains unclean articles in drawers or closets, unclean
+floors, unclean rugs and hangings and unclean walls, should not be
+tolerated for an instant. If a girl turns a combination bedroom and
+study in school or college into a kitchen, if an ice-cream freezer
+occupies all the foreground of this place she calls home, and
+chafing-dishes with cream bottles, sardine tins, cracker boxes, paper
+bags full of stale biscuits, fruit skins, dish-cloths and
+grease-spotted walls, all the background, it is impossible to have a
+clean room to live in.
+
+The Golden Rule applies to rooms as well as to human beings and should
+read, "Do unto a room as you would it should do unto you." And not only
+for the sake of health should this Golden Rule for Rooms be observed but
+also for the sake of the college or school. The room that belongs to us
+only for a time should be as thoughtfully cared for as if it were our
+own personal property. There is something inconsistent, isn't there, in
+educating a girl in high thinking and fine ideals, if she is willing to
+live in a room that for uncleanliness many a woman in some crowded
+quarter of a city would consider a disgrace? Such contradiction in mind
+and surrounding is out of harmony with all one's ideal for a
+gentlewoman.
+
+Not only beauty is restful, peace-giving and peace-bringing, but so,
+also, are neatness and order. Orderliness helps to fit one for work.
+There is undoubtedly some connection between surroundings and one's
+mental state. In themselves disorder and confusion are irritating. The
+sight of a dirty child crying in the doorway of an untidy house suggests
+some connection between the wretchedness of the child and the squalor of
+the home. I often think of William Morris, the great craftsman and
+charming poet, who had much at heart the happiness of all people,
+especially the poor, and his exclamation, "My eye, how I do love
+tidiness!" To him, to the artist, it was, as it is, beautiful. George
+Eliot had to put even the pins in her cushion into some neat arrangement
+before she could sit down to write. Disorder wastes not only one's
+feelings and health, it also wastes one's time, for a lot of this
+commodity may be lost in looking for books, wraps, gloves and other
+things which are not put away properly.
+
+School ought to be a training for the life afterwards. That is why we go
+to school, isn't it? Why should a girl indulge herself in habits which
+will make against her usefulness in the life of the home or in whatever
+circumstance she may be? There is a certain disciplinary value in order.
+Every great military school has recognized this. Laxness in the care of
+one's room may mean the habit of laxness in other and more important
+ways. Disorderliness indicates a certain tendency in character, and if a
+girl allows that sort of thing to go on she is very likely to show it in
+other ways. Untidiness in any of one's personal habits--and what could
+be more personal than a room?--should be taken up and corrected even as
+one attempts to correct any weak point in one's character.
+
+Do you know what is always--that is, if it is in it at all--the most
+beautiful thing in a room? It is something which the Creator meant all
+mankind should have, rich and poor, old and young alike; it is something
+beyond the buying price of any wealth. It is the sunshine, more
+beautiful, more valuable than expensive hangings that shut it out.
+Perhaps it is partly because it is inexpensive, God-given to all people,
+that housewives frequently draw their curtains against it. If they had
+to pay more for it than for carpets and hangings, you may be very sure
+that a great many husbands and fathers would be overworking in order
+that their families might buy a whole display of sunshine instead of
+tapestries.
+
+Do you know what is the most helpful thing you can have in your room,
+the article without which you cannot live in it at all, no matter how
+fine the rugs and bric-a-brac may be? _Air!_ Air is the one thing which
+is almost instantly and absolutely indispensable to human life, for we
+breathe it in not only through our noses but also all over our skin.
+Every hundredth fraction of an inch of our bodies is feeding upon air,
+and the purer that air and the cooler the better and more invigorating
+food it provides for the skin surface as well as for the lungs. The
+mind, for it is housed in the body and its tenant, must depend for its
+vigour or tone upon the fresh air in school or college study. Even a
+very good head cannot work well set upon an anaemic body which is
+suffocating for want of good clean air. If you wish to do your best work
+and keep well, the first thing to do is not to open your books but to
+open your windows. After that the books and a reasonable number of hours
+of continuous study. American audience halls, pullmans, ordinary coaches
+and public buildings of all sorts, especially libraries, are notoriously
+overheated and unventilated. It is the intelligent American girl and
+woman who, beginning with the home, will correct this evil. The schools
+are, on the whole, in the forefront of the fresh air movement,
+especially the public schools. As every one knows, the public schools
+are establishing open air rooms for their children who need them.
+Although there is much to be said about what a room should contain to
+make it attractive, it should never be forgotten that sunshine and
+fresh air are more beautiful and more priceless than anything else which
+it can hold.
+
+The first object in furnishing a bare room is to make it
+habitable,--that is useful. Take the kitchen, for example, and
+usefulness is practically the sole object in fitting it up. And the
+curious thing about it all is that it cannot help being beautiful in a
+homely, motherly way, for it exemplifies one of the strongest elements
+of all beauty and that is _service_. The kitchen may be a very humble
+place but if more women would make a study of their kitchens and then
+take thought, it is likely that the rest of their houses would be in
+much better taste. A thing that is useful, even as with some well-worn
+homely old woman who has led a good and helpful life, always acquires a
+beauty of its own. It may be hard for girls to see this but it is there,
+and in time it will be seen. Just as it is essentially more beautiful to
+have a clean, strong body rather than a pretty face and a body that is
+not what it ought to be, so is it more truly beautiful to have articles
+of furnishing in our rooms, in study or kitchen, that are of
+indispensable genuine use.
+
+Take the gaudy ambitious study one girl has made for herself. It is
+defaced by the presence of articles of no value at all in the world of
+needs; there is nothing in it that is genuinely beautiful and nothing
+that is substantially useful. The furniture is almost too cheap to stand
+on its own legs, and the colours would certainly never wash and not even
+wear. This room is a junk-shop of new, useless, unattractive objects of
+no virtue,--in short, a most unpleasant place in which to live. Have you
+ever considered what gives even the simplest clothes for distinctive
+occasions a beauty of their own? It is fitness. And it is this same
+fitness which tells so much in furnishing a room. It might be said of
+certain dresses that they "go together," that is, they are harmonious,
+they belong together, they have, like some people, the beauty of
+agreeing with themselves, and a very desirable sort of beauty it is.
+Just as clothes are an expression of the people who wear them, so are
+rooms an expression of the people who live in them. No well-bred girl
+cares for tawdry, cheap, over-ornamented clothes. She is made
+uncomfortable even at the very thought of having to wear such things.
+She should suffer just as much discomfort on the score of a cheaply
+furnished (and by "cheap" here I do not mean inexpensive--whitewash and
+deal intelligently used may create a beautiful room), overcrowded and
+over-ornamented study.
+
+What is the meaning of the room which is your school centre for the time
+being? It is an intimate place where a girl may have her friends and
+good times; it is a retreat and it is a workshop. It is the girl's home
+centre away from home, the place from which she will lead her life, in
+its expression attractive or unattractive, like her or unlike her. To
+intend that this room in beauty, in cleanliness, in order, shall be the
+best expression possible of the girl's best self is the ideal to set for
+the school study.
+
+Get good materials and good colours. They need not be expensive.
+Remember that colours have to go together just as furniture has to do
+so. To have styles of furniture that clash or colours that do not
+harmonize will negative any care which the student may have taken in the
+selection of individual pieces or materials. To have too much with which
+to fill the room is a good deal worse than not to have enough. Much
+better it is to have a few things which are just what they should be
+than to have too many and those undesirable. To get a desk, if a girl
+can afford to do so, that she will be glad to keep her life long is a
+good beginning, and a comfortable chair that will be made doubly
+precious by all the school associations woven about it. And let her be
+careful about pictures for her walls and not crowd them with cheap and
+"fashionable" trash. Above all, let her remember that good taste,
+simplicity, careful selection, will do more to assure her the possession
+of an attractive room than all the money in the world can do.
+
+
+
+
+V
+
+THE TOOLS OF STUDY AND THEIR USE
+
+
+A girl ought to take up her study with the same sense of pleasure as
+that with which a strong workman enters his shop, knowing his tools and
+able to use them. Having good tools and knowing them is certainly part
+of the joy of work. And what are the tools the student must use? Well,
+for the average student, the one that is first and most important is
+_Good Health_. The mind is not as clear if the body is not in good
+health, clean within and without.
+
+The second set of tools consists of a different sort of equipment and
+apparatus, tools with which a girl must become familiar and which she
+must know how to use--_Books_, _Library_, _Laboratory_ and _Classroom_.
+Why shouldn't a student be just as able to use her books as a carpenter
+his plane or saw? One couldn't expect a fumbling carpenter or a clumsy
+seamstress to accomplish much work or good work. There are times when a
+girl need not claim to know anything but she must, at least, know where
+to find what she wants to know. This is the first lesson in the use of
+books; without knowledge of them or love for them, the student can't get
+along at all. And beyond this somewhat mechanical use of books there is
+a deeper and larger lesson to learn; to know that a book is not merely a
+page of print where information may be sought but that it is a mirror in
+which one finds the world, its wisdom, its joy, its sorrow, its divine
+adventures. Robert Southey, the friend of the poet Coleridge, has
+written beautifully on the subject in a little poem called "His Books."
+
+Another tool in the student's workshop is _Previously Acquired
+Knowledge_: that is, what one has in one's mind. Some people's minds are
+junk-shops. But a junk-shop is better than an empty shop. This
+previously acquired knowledge, if used rightly, becomes the tool of
+later courses, the servant of later years. Our stored-up facts--many of
+them--have not been an end in themselves. How could they be? For
+example, such things as paradigms and formulae and long lists of names
+and dates, are tools pure and simple; but the student in the workshop
+must have them or she will be like a carpenter who had much to do but on
+coming to his bench found no tools there and so was idle all day.
+
+A fourth tool for the girl in her study--one that cannot be deliberately
+acquired, as information or apparatus or even health can be--is
+_Experience_. This is the most valuable tool of all--one's experience of
+travel, with people, in responsibility, in love, in joy, in sorrow, in
+any kind of work. The girls who are the most interesting in the
+classroom are the girls who are not contenting themselves with apparatus
+alone but whose minds are flexible with experience, who bring all of
+themselves, their life, to bear upon the work. A certain well-known
+minister had prepared a sermon for his usual Sunday engagement, but
+half an hour before service another text came into his mind. He could
+not forget it, so he jotted down notes and preached the new sermon
+instead of the one that had been prepared. This sermon made a great
+impression on all who heard it, and the minister himself said of it that
+some people would declare that it had been thought out in half an hour,
+but that really he had put fifty years of his life into it. The sharper
+and better the tools, the finer the character of the work. If experience
+has been observed and retained, and previously acquired knowledge is
+ready for service, and hand and mind know how to use books, and the
+student is in good condition physically, then the excellence of that
+girl's work in the class and out can be guaranteed.
+
+And now what are the uses of the work which these tools can accomplish
+for us? Coleridge wrote in his poem, "Work Without Hope,"
+
+ "Work without Hope draws nectar in a sieve,
+ And Hope without an object cannot live."
+
+The only hope that can last is hope that is not wholly centred in
+ourselves, but has some thought for others and our service to them. Work
+devoid of inspiration and ideals, work done merely for one's self, study
+pursued with only a degree as an end or for the sake of "pay" as a
+teacher, turns school and college into a market-place, a place of
+barter, where in exchange for so much energy and so much money we may
+acquire a certain position and livelihood. Only that work in which one
+has the consciousness of being, or becoming, useful to others, brings
+joy that will endure. What do we think of the minister who is without a
+sense of consecration? The responsibility of the student or the teacher
+is quite as large, the opportunity for service quite as wonderful. One
+of our greatest English poets, William Wordsworth, exclaimed: "I wish to
+be considered as a teacher, or as nothing!" The calling of the teacher,
+of the student, has through all time been thought a high one,--one that
+has drawn to itself fine and unselfish spirits. The life of the student,
+no matter how necessary to the world its market-places are, never has
+been and never can be a life of barter, of trade.
+
+The wealth that comes to the student should not be an exclusive
+possession. It may be bought at a large price but it can never be sold.
+It must be given away, or shared, for it is wealth which carries with it
+a sense of social responsibility. It is enjoyed for a double purpose,
+not only for the sake of the happiness it brings to us but also for the
+sake of the joy or help it may bring to others. Millions of girls covet
+the opportunities that come to a few in school and college, many of them
+who far more greatly deserve this privilege than we. Indeed, what have
+most of us done to merit the right to all that we have? The only way in
+which we can show our sense of justice is by taking our privileges as
+something to share with others. The girl who has health, pleasant
+surroundings and work worth doing, has all a human being has a right to
+expect. She ought always to be happy, always rejoicing in her work and
+always eager to divide her wealth with others.
+
+The redeeming feature of royalties has been their sense of
+responsibility for their subjects! In great disasters, or calamities,
+their first thought has been to go to the relief of the people. The King
+and Queen of Italy are noble examples of this courage and unselfishness.
+In America the only "privileged" class is the highly educated. It is
+they from whom _noblesse oblige_ must be expected, who will show in all
+emergencies their sense of responsibility, who will share all that they
+have with others. A girl will be happy, she will grow, she will be a
+leverage power for good with those among whom she lives, only in so far
+as she uses her tools of knowledge in the service of others, and shapes
+all that she does towards some humanly useful end.
+
+
+
+
+VI
+
+THE JOY OF WORK
+
+
+If one is in good condition, the exercise of any physical power is a
+pleasure. It is a pleasure to run, to sing, to dance, to climb
+mountains, to row, to swim; it is a pleasure to shout for nothing else
+than for the pure joy of letting off surplus energy. In the world of
+animals, the horse and dog, to take only two illustrations, abound in
+this enjoyment of physical energy. The horse paws the ground and snorts
+and whinnies and loves the fastest road pace you will let him take. The
+dog leaps in the air, jumps fences, barks, and races around madly,
+sometimes after nothing at all.
+
+But the highest power of which human beings are possessed is not the
+power of the body. It is the power of the mind. Yet many of us
+throughout our school and college life not only do not wish to use this
+power but even rebel against it. "What," some girls are saying to
+themselves, "enjoy the work of a classroom? Who ever heard of such a
+thing!" Yes, just that. And if we don't enjoy the work of a classroom,
+even an indifferently good one, there is something the matter with us,
+or the subject should not have a place on any curriculum. Every mental
+exercise should be full of the keenest pleasure, of intellectual
+pleasure.
+
+Our schools and colleges to-day are very much richer in the joy of
+everything else--in beautiful surroundings, in freer and fuller athletic
+and outdoor life, in a more varied and delightful social life--than they
+were fifty or even twenty-five years ago. But it is a question whether
+the joy of intellectual work has kept pace with this joy of life in its
+other aspects. Sometimes it almost seems as if intellectual eagerness
+were in inverse ratio to the ease and fullness of the opportunities we
+have. At least many fair-minded girls have seen the predicament in
+which the teacher is placed. The man who makes a vase for the use and
+pleasure of others may rejoice not only in his own workmanship but also
+in the thought of the service and delight he is giving to others. That
+is, his pleasure is twofold. The teacher who is deprived of some
+response of joy in the work he is doing is a workman deprived of his
+rights. To those girls who are thinking of becoming teachers this should
+be a sobering thought.
+
+Missionary teachers, with their students eager to get anything they have
+to give, are not to be pitied. Our schools and their groups of teachers
+in isolated and uncultivated parts of the West and South are not to be
+pitied. Even if education is with them shorn of much that gives it
+charm, the opportunities that come are prized. Students and teachers
+have intellectual joy in the work they do, and without that the greatest
+university in the world might as well, or better, be a district school,
+for then the work done would be truly useful. It is the teacher who has
+to put much of her time and energy into making a subject superficially
+attractive enough for a student to elect it, who is to be pitied. A
+classroom full of blase girls whose minds need to be tickled before
+there is the least expression of intellectual mirth upon their faces, is
+an ordeal not lightly to be met except by the professional joker or
+academic tumbler.
+
+Girls often become impatient with themselves, and that is one reason why
+there is so little joy in work for them. Think of Helen Keller as a
+famous example of this joy in work under the most adverse circumstances.
+What could be greater than her handicap? Shut away from the world by
+deaf ears and blind eyes and, for a while, by inability to speak, she
+has nevertheless shown a keenness of pleasure and intellectual
+acquisition that shames us who have all our senses in their fullness.
+Think of her patient, unremitting delving, of the digging up, up, up to
+get to the light which most human beings are privileged to enjoy with
+no effort at all! The mind that accepts this wealth with no thought, no
+sense of responsibility, is a trifler with riches that are about us for
+God-given purposes. Think of the way in which Stevenson and John Richard
+Green and George Eliot rose above their ill-health and did their work in
+despite of it! Perhaps some of us have superb health and have never made
+any conscious effort to use that gift for a high end.
+
+Girls grow impatient with themselves when they wouldn't be impatient
+with a little child. Yet the mind has to be trained even as we train a
+child; it has to be brought back and back, again and again to the thing
+to be done. After the asking of a simple question, oftentimes a whole
+class will look confounded, because they have some strange notion that
+thinking means getting hold of something very far away and difficult to
+grasp. All that the first effort in thought denotes is taking a hold of
+that which is nearest and following it up. It is the old story of
+Theseus following his clue of thread, the slender thing in his hand, by
+which he was guided out of the labyrinth and to the broad sea of
+adventure.
+
+There are difficulties in the doing of any work that is worth while. It
+would be a poor adviser who painted the student's way as a path of
+roses. First and foremost, one's own inertia interferes with the joy of
+work. Some one has defined the lazy man as one who doesn't want to do
+anything at all, and the indolent man as one who doesn't want to do
+anything that he doesn't want to do. Then, too, there are certain
+allurements and distractions in school life which are a hindrance to our
+joy in an intellectual task. And there is the very natural
+disinclination to the drudgery involved in all hard labour. No work that
+is worth while is without drudgery. Lack of encouragement from older
+people is one serious difficulty some girls have to meet. There is a
+type of older person who is sure that using the mind will harm that
+precious article. And, finally, there is our inexperience, our own lack
+of comprehension, our own purposeless and formless lives.
+
+Joy in work should not be altogether conditional upon one's sense of
+ease or upon what is called success. Seeming success is not always
+success. Often the most valuable lessons come from failures. Robert
+Browning, the poet, speaks again and again of the noble uses of failure.
+Let me quote one stanza from one of his greatest poems, "Rabbi Ben
+Ezra":
+
+ "Then, welcome each rebuff
+ That turns earth's smoothness rough,
+ Each sting that bids nor sit nor stand, but go!
+ Be our joys three-parts pain!
+ Strive and hold cheap the strain;
+ Learn, nor account the pang; dare, never grudge the throe!"
+
+You can't learn to walk if you haven't tumbled down a good deal in doing
+it. It is often failure that means ultimate success. Of course if a
+girl keeps on saying: "Oh, what's the use?" about everything she does
+and all her failures, there isn't any use. In weak moments that sort of
+thing can be said of every great and worth-while experience, of love, of
+joy, of sorrow, of work. But a girl who allows herself to take this
+attitude is a "quitter," and doesn't know the first principles of
+playing the game.
+
+Part of the joy of work consists in the mere delight of intellectual
+exercise, delight in thinking a thing out. That is the way we develop
+ourselves mentally, just as we develop ourselves physically through
+sports. The mind that thinks is capable of deeper and broader thinking.
+Thinking begets thought. A muscle that is left without exercise softens
+and finally atrophies. The same is true of mental muscle. If this
+strength is left unused it is gradually lost and cannot be recovered.
+Mental concentration, the thought that is so strenuous that everything
+else is shut out, strengthens the mind. In this wonderful old world no
+new land has been discovered without physical effort. There is no
+country of the mind which can be entered without a similar effort.
+
+And there is another and very important joy in work--the sense that one
+is being equipped for the work of the world, for usefulness. The mere
+feeling that one's powers are being developed brings joy with it. There
+is still another joy which every one of us must covet--the sense of
+entering into the intellectual riches of the world, its wonders of
+science and art and letters, with the feeling that we have a part in a
+great treasure, a treasure which, unlike gold and precious stones, men
+have never been able to gauge or to exhaust. Such gold and silver as we
+take from that adventure cannot be lost or stolen from us. It remains
+with us to the very last, and with it no life can ever become really
+poor, or dull, or old.
+
+
+
+
+VII
+
+FAIR-PLAY
+
+
+Few students realize how closely a classroom resembles a commonwealth.
+To most of us it seems a place into which we go to have a certain amount
+got out of us, or put into us. This conception of the classroom is
+unworthy the modern girl who has, otherwise, a fine understanding of the
+meaning of team-play, of playing all together for a common end, a game
+or a republic united by a tacit compact.
+
+Does the average student feel responsibility for the game of basket-ball
+or lawn hockey which she is playing? The first thought of the girl in
+answering this is that it was a foolish question even to ask. Of course
+she does. But for her classroom? No, that is a different sort of game,
+in which the responsibility lies all on the shoulders of the instructor.
+It is a one-woman or a one-man game, and very often the students are
+but spectators, cheering or indifferent, approving or disapproving. The
+pupil does not hold herself accountable for this game; it is the teacher
+who makes the class "go," who extracts from each student the information
+bottled up in her, together, often, with a good deal of carbon
+dioxide,--a process difficult and hard as drawing a swollen cork out of
+a soda-water bottle. Finally, with a sort of noble rebound of effort,
+the exhausted instructor is to put a vast deal of information back into
+the girl before the student claps her book together and rushes pell-mell
+to the next classroom, there to be similarly uncorked, if the teacher
+has learned the art and her mental muscle is sufficient.
+
+Such a conception of a classroom is not fair-play. The teacher, like the
+coxswain of a college crew, may have rowed over the same course and she
+may know it well enough to cover it in the dark; she may have won
+distinction upon it, may be the fittest person in all the states of the
+Union to cover it again, but if she has not a good or a winning crew to
+coach, she will never win any race, even the shortest. No instructor has
+shoulders equal to such a multiple burden as coaching, steering and
+doing all the rowing, too. To play any classroom game in this spirit is
+to be dead weight for every one else embarked upon the same adventure.
+It is not fair-play.
+
+By such an attitude on the part of merely one student in the class,
+every other student associated with her loses, for the girl who will not
+lift her own weight the others must carry. If that student were playing
+in that spirit on the basket-ball team, do you suppose that the coach,
+or the captain, would let her stay on? Not for a moment; off she would
+go and very much humiliated, too. If it is a discussion, the touch and
+go of the whole recitation will depend upon the presence of the
+team-play, or fair-play, spirit in the course. The instructor may do her
+best but if there is no play-the-game in that classroom, she might just
+as well fold up her tent, like the proverbial Arab, "and silently steal
+away." It is not that any recitation need be a brilliant affair--if most
+of them depended upon that for existence they would scarcely exist at
+all--but there must be an honest, earnest, responsible effort to make
+the best of the hour. Good will inevitably come from the clarifying
+effort to express thought, and the leading from thought to thought as
+the work goes forward.
+
+The basket-ball team cannot win, or even play, unless all the members
+are playing together. Each one is needed despite the fact that she may
+not be one of the chief or best players. Just so does the class need all
+its students. If a girl is only average, it is not fair-play for her to
+sit back and do nothing; neither is it fair-play for her to monopolize
+the attention if she happens to be more than commonly able. It is not
+fair-play to laugh at the girl who is at a disadvantage, or to appear
+bored. It is unfair to the individual, to the classroom in general and
+to the instructor. The least she can do in this class game is to give
+her whole and her courteous attention.
+
+Think of all the practice games in which the average athletic team takes
+part. What can be said for the student who comes into the classroom
+unprepared to lift her own weight, unprepared to help others? When one
+comes to think about it from the fair-play point of view there is
+nothing to be said for her. Nor is it fair-play for a girl to allow
+herself to get into such a state physically that she is unable to study.
+How often and often have fudge-heads--due to an application to too much
+sugar and not to books--sitting row after row killed a school or even a
+whole college! Before a class tempered by fudge and not by wholesome
+outdoor living and conscientious devotion to work, the teacher might
+better put away her notes and close her book. Nothing can happen through
+or over that barricade of fudge-heads.
+
+And it is not fair-play to cram because of time lost, or for any other
+cause. The only end of cramming is that the student soon forgets all
+that has been learned. Alone by normal, slow acquisition and all the
+associations formed in such learning can information come to us to stay.
+It may not be particularly wicked to cram if one has plenty of time to
+waste, but it is foolish unless one has.
+
+There is a kind of gossip in which a girl takes part, made up of
+snap-shot judgments of the classroom, idle carping about some little
+unimportant point, expression of wounded vanity and unfair talk, which
+may mean a tremendous loss of prestige for a really admirable course; it
+may mean that girls, who would naturally go into it because of their
+liking or gift for the work, do not go or go in a critical and
+unsympathetic attitude. If there is a complaint to be made about any
+course it should be made to the responsible person concerned, and that
+is usually the teacher. Anything else is not fair-play. In the
+classroom the instructor is the "coach" of the game and she is the
+person with whom to talk. It is needless to say that if a girl is
+putting nothing into a course she cannot expect to get anything out of
+it, or to complain because things do not "go." If she wants them to "go"
+why does she not help, and have the profit of taking something away from
+the work as interest on her effort? A girl gets dividends only from work
+into which she has put some brain-capital.
+
+And the people at home? Is it fair-play to them, when they are making
+sacrifices of money or of happiness to keep the daughter at school, for
+her not to put good work into her study and play her part faithfully in
+the classroom game? So many things have to be taken into consideration
+of which we are not likely to think. There is the girl herself, the
+other girls with whom she is working, the instructor, the people at
+home, the institution that is providing an expensive equipment or plant
+through the philanthropic efforts of others or the taxation of the
+public. If the girl does not play her part fairly, there is a rather big
+reckoning against her, is there not?
+
+
+
+
+VIII
+
+THE RIGHT SORT OF LEISURE
+
+
+The right sort of leisure ought to help as much in the development of
+the girl as the right sort of work. If it is leisure worthy the name, it
+will bring refreshment; it will not leave one physically and mentally
+jaded. Neither mind nor body should ever be exhausted because of the way
+in which freedom has been used. Leisure is as important to work as work
+is to leisure. A person who has not worked cannot appreciate freedom,
+while the one who has had no leisure is not best fitted for work. "All
+work and no play makes Jack a dull boy;" it is just as true that it
+makes Jill a dull girl. The girl who works all the time, not realizing
+the importance of free moments, becomes fagged in body and mind. She is
+a tool that is dull, and would do well to remember that even a machine
+is better for an occasional rest.
+
+Some mistaken ideas about leisure have grown up, making it difficult to
+say anything on this subject without being misunderstood. Stories--whole
+books of them--about "spreads" and more or less lawless escapades in
+school and college, have given girls and other people, too, the
+impression that this is the sort of thing school leisure is. Nothing
+could be farther from the truth. Midnight feasts may occur in school,
+and most of us, unless we are too good to be average girls, have taken
+part in them. But such stories are vicious, for they misrepresent the
+life by suggesting that eating inferior and unwholesome food is the real
+freedom most girls desire. There is something repulsive in the very
+thought. Feasts that leave a girl with a coated tongue and a dull head
+and Monday "blues" do not fairly represent school or college leisure.
+Good times that interfere with good work have no place in ideally free
+hours. But, indeed, the odours from the chafing-dishes do suggest that
+some of the girls are trying to put into literal execution the wish of
+a great German professor in Oxford. The professor, eager to try a dish
+he saw on the hotel bill of fare, but with his English and German verbs
+not quite disentangled, said to the waiter, "Hereafter I vish to become
+a Velsh Rabbit." Perhaps becoming a Welsh rarebit represents the height
+of some girls' ideals, but this is hard to believe.
+
+The possession of leisure depends to a great extent upon the will power.
+The girl who has never learned to say "No," who has no power of
+selection, cannot expect to have any hours for her own use. She is
+quarry for every idle suggestion, every social engagement, every
+executive "job" which pursues her. The girl who engages all her time
+socially cannot have a sense of leisure, for she turns her playtime into
+but another schedule, to be met as inexorably as her academic courses.
+Her days become a formidable array of "dates," often stretching ahead
+for weeks. Even if girls are not determined to have it for themselves,
+they should give to others some opportunity for freedom, and should
+respect their possible desire for solitude. The girl who engages or
+annexes every particle of time, her own or that of some one else with
+whom she comes in contact, is making leisure an impossibility. The girl
+who leaves no margin cannot hope for even the spirit of freedom.
+
+Many students excuse themselves for much executive work in school and
+college on the ground that it is done in their leisure. That girl is a
+goose who allows herself through any sense of self-importance, or
+irreplaceable usefulness, to be so involved in executive work that all
+other aspects of her school life are slighted. If she refuses to be
+swamped by such "jobs" she can have the happiness of reflecting that
+probably some girls who need the training far more than she does are
+doing the work. To every girl will come the opportunity right along for
+"managing"; club and social work will bring it, and a good-sized family
+will bring it as nothing else can. But school leisure she will not have
+again. The whole aim of the school is to enrich the lives of its
+students, and it knows all too well that that student who does not keep
+for herself the leisure upon which body and mind and soul must feed is
+indeed poor.
+
+There is one way in which leisure is very generally misspent in
+school--and alas, outside, too!--not in managing one's own affairs, but
+in managing and discussing the affairs of others. At such times the
+remarks may be superlatively pleasant, but they are more often
+superlatively disagreeable. It may be said with truthfulness that they
+are almost never moderate or just. Everything is all black or all white,
+with no gray. It makes one think of the little girl with a curl in the
+middle of her forehead:
+
+ "When she was good, she was very, very good,
+ And when she was bad, she was horrid."
+
+But, alas! the poor wretches discussed are not allowed even the natural
+and somewhat happy human alternation between badness and goodness. No,
+indeed, they are monsters of a desperate character--they may at the
+moment be broken-heartedly conscious of their own faults--or they are
+shining six-winged angels. And, woe! this sort of thing comes almost as
+hard upon the angels. They can't endure it; so much goodness breaks down
+their wing arches, and the glorious ones crumple together like
+tissue-paper.
+
+And upon the girls busily engaged in creating angels of loveliness and
+gargoyles of ugliness, this sort of conversation works havoc. It does
+not invigorate them, it does not inspire them. It belittles their
+minds--thank fortune, that making kindling wood of the characters of
+other people does do this!--and stunts their finer feelings. This sin,
+that they "do by two and two," they pay for one by one. Gentle and
+considerate feelings are lost, time is wasted, a vicious habit,--almost
+no habit is more vicious,--is acquired. Such gossip can never become a
+pure enjoyment; it remains at the best an ignoble, discreditable
+excitement. Rolling these sweet morsels under their tongues, a taste for
+ill-natured or exaggerated comment fixes itself in their mouths. Even if
+they have consciences that, like good mothers, will occasionally wash
+their mouths out with soap, they retain the disturbing memory of unkind,
+coarse, or foolish words.
+
+Yet school should be the last place in which to indulge in idle talk.
+Such indulgence is against all the idealism of student life. Idle or
+meddlesome talk never helps any one, either the one who talks or the one
+who is discussed. If you have anything to say about other people, and if
+going to them will help you, the only friendly thing to do--it is not an
+easy thing--is to speak to the people concerned. If we really knew how
+to put ourselves in other people's places, no unkind, unfriendly words
+would ever be spoken again. There would be things hard to bear
+said--rebuke or reproof are never easy to receive--but nothing
+unfriendly. Think how idle, ill-natured talk flows around the world, and
+then think what a different world it would be if there were none of it!
+It is to human life what the blights, the scales, the insect pests are
+to tree and flower. Fortunately, as people grow older they come to think
+themselves less infallible, and as they grow wiser they become more
+tender and more lenient in their judgments.
+
+In companionship whose leisure interests are good there is a sense of
+freedom filled full and running over, of minds and hearts doubly rich,
+of good times doubly jolly. But on the whole, girls have too little
+absolute solitude; there is scarcely a girl in twenty, except the "dig,"
+who is alone at all. One trouble with dormitory school life is that it
+fosters leisure-wasting and time-wasting "gang" habits. A girl so
+surrounded never wants to be alone a moment, either indoors or out. With
+such, the blessing and blessedness of solitude should be learned, for
+solitude rightly used makes strong men and women.
+
+The woman who has leisure has a grasp upon time, is master of it instead
+of being mastered by it. It is the girl whirled around in a squirrel
+cage of pointless weekly and Sunday engagements who is oppressed and
+mastered by her lack of freedom. And then there is the hard-pressed
+future; we must lay up some leisure for that. The time when one is most
+hurried is the time when one most needs the sense of freedom. The story
+of the old Quaker lady who had so much to do she didn't know where to
+begin, and so took a nap, is profoundly full of wisdom. When the old
+lady woke up she found she had plenty of time after all, not because she
+had done anything but because she had come again into a leisurely frame
+of mind.
+
+Leisure means neither a blank mind nor an empty hand. It means a holiday
+taken with an eager mind, with eyes keen in their delight and knowledge,
+with hands capable of some beauty or some use. All of us have leisure
+to think, but not all of us think. Some of us, if friends come in
+unexpectedly, will quickly pick up something and pretend to be busy.
+When Watt sat by the fire watching the steam from the teakettle lift the
+lid, he was not precisely idle. The powerful, indispensable steam-engine
+was the result. One reason, aside from all religious considerations, why
+we need a quiet Sunday, is that we may have that sense of freedom which
+feeds mind and body, and even the crumbs of whose profitableness have
+made the world rich in great inventions, in great pictures, in wonderful
+books.
+
+
+
+
+IX
+
+THE OUTDOOR RUNWAY
+
+
+After Nebuchadnezzar came in from eating grass there had taken place in
+that potentate a great change for the good. One of the factors in this
+betterment may have been the grass itself. The grass-cure has always
+been popular and always will be, for it is just as good for the tired
+mind as it is for the tired body. Nowadays every big school and every
+college provide a grass-cure for students who are out at elbows with
+their nerve sleeves, or who have not sufficient muscle to make them fit,
+or who are overworking or need toning up in any way. There is more and
+more recognition of the fact that a school course which is taken at the
+expense of health is not worth having. And side by side with this
+wholesome admission has come a great awakening in the last fifteen years
+to the curative value of the _outdoor runway_, whether that runway be a
+field track, energetic walking in a park or campus, or a cross country
+run.
+
+Some girls--and there are more girls of this type than there are
+boys--put in their outdoor life as a stop-gap. It is inconceivable that
+this should be true, yet it is true. Apathetically the students have
+exercised sixty minutes, considering this minimum quite sufficient. Not
+a particle of zest do they reveal in the exercise taken. They do not
+seem to know or they do not care that the fields and woods should be
+full, not only of health and all that goes with it, including success,
+but also of the best of friends who all have their good points worthy of
+notice and imitation, in quick leap, cheerful voice and blithe song.
+What are sixty minutes in this great outdoor runway? Not a tithe of the
+twenty-four hours and at best only half of what the minimum should be.
+Exercise should be taken even if nothing else in the school life is.
+And I say this advisedly, for health is the basis on which not only the
+future of the woman's life must depend but also that of the race. Good
+health, the inheritance of it, its maintenance and increase, neither the
+girl nor her parents can ever hold as too sacred a trust. That it is a
+sacred trust the schools are recognizing more and more, and provisions
+are being made, especially in the public schools, for the defective in
+health as well as for the strong. The outdoor school, at first an object
+that attracted universal attention, is now being taken quite for
+granted. Foolish the girl who does not learn to take the outdoor runway
+for granted, too, and go out to it in high spirits to learn its wisdom,
+to take part in its joys and to receive its health.
+
+It may be accepted as a new axiom--the more exercise the less fool.
+Strong, able muscles, steady nerves (and let us remember that nerves
+depend for their tone on the muscular condition), a clean skin open at
+all its pores and doing its eliminative work thoroughly, and clean
+strong vitals make up the kind of beauty within the reach of all
+womanhood, and the physical beauty which she should most desire. The day
+is coming when our ideal of what is physically perfect--not spiritually,
+for Christianity has carried us beyond anything that Greece ever
+knew--will be more like the Greek in its entirety, its emphasis upon the
+harmony of the whole body. The body is a mechanism to be exquisitely
+cared for--self-running, it is true, and yet in need of intelligent
+attention. Think of the care an engineer gives his engine, and it is by
+no manner of means so wonderfully and so intricately fashioned as these
+bodies of ours on which our happiness, our working ability, even our
+very goodness depend. Health as a safeguard to one's whole moral being
+is coming into more and more recognition, and not only as a safeguard
+but also as a cultivator of all that is best in us spiritually. There
+are people very ill, or permanent invalids, whose great victory it is
+to be among the saints of the earth, but that it is easier to be good
+when one is well no one will deny. Every big school has now its class or
+classes in corrective or medical gymnastics, in which stooping
+shoulders, ewe necks, curved spines, flat insteps, small waists and
+narrow chests are rectified as far as possible in the limited hours of
+the school days.
+
+The time is coming when parents will consider it a disgrace to allow
+their children to be physically undeveloped. The physician, always in
+advance of the community for which he cares, sees how grave in moral or
+intellectual import physical defects may be. The educational world,
+alive to new messages for the reconstruction of its educational ideal,
+begins also to place more and more emphasis upon the physical care and
+development of its students--and not by any manner of means for physical
+reasons only but because the whole girl or the whole boy is better
+spiritually and mentally for having a body that is strong and well. The
+whole being keeps better time, just as a watch does, for having clean
+works. No one has the right to shut out the fresh air or the sunshine;
+no girl should remain undeveloped physically through lack of exercise
+when she could, through exercise, make herself strong. Even to abuse her
+feet, the important centre of many important nerves, by tight shoes, is
+wrong; so is it to rack her spine and upset or throw out of position all
+the delicate and wonderfully fashioned organs of the abdominal cavity by
+the wearing of high French heels. Undoubtedly, however, American
+motherhood and girlhood represent something more and more intelligent;
+indeed, in physical culture women are beginning to keep step with men,
+and it is upon this fact that school and college depend in their
+splendid efforts to make the sum of feminine vitality, despite the
+pressure of modern civilization, plus rather than minus.
+
+_The more exercise the less fool_; and it is worth remembering that the
+daily exercise, the plunge into cool or clean air, as well as the plunge
+into water, is a wit sharpener, and will do more for a student in the
+long run than "digging" possibly can. _Mens sana in corpore sano_ may be
+an old saying but it is still new enough to be repeated with vigour to
+certain people. Let us get out-of-doors and have our wits sharpened and
+see more, and do more, and be more! No one can permanently starve her
+whole body for the want of fresh air and exercise, which are the body's
+birthright, and expect to have a clear head or do well-balanced and
+helpful work in the home, or in school, or in some wage-earning career.
+If the girl attempt this impossibility she will be like the frog which
+jumped up one foot and fell back two. She will get to the bottom soon
+enough, the bottom of the class or the bottom of her health account, but
+she will never get to the top of anything. Any success, if by chance it
+should come to her, resting on a basis of ill health or indifference to
+her physical fitness for living and working, will be like the house
+built upon the sands. Before the girl is twenty, before she is
+twenty-five--the earlier the better--she should recognize this fact and
+begin to establish her life on the bed rock of health.
+
+It is true, too, ninety-nine times out of a hundred, that the country
+boy and the country girl are more resourceful than their city cousins.
+Out-of-doors they have had to use their wits and have not been spoiled
+by all the appliances of city life. Out-of-doors, too, they have made
+invaluable friendships with bird and squirrel and rabbit and deer,
+friendships whose intelligent wood-life has taught them much.
+Self-reliance is one of the lessons of the outdoor runway; and wisdom
+and inspiration come from it when they are needed. About this truth the
+work of the poet Wordsworth is one long poem. Again and again he writes
+of the perfect woman shaped by the influences of nature. Of her he
+says:
+
+ "Three years she grew in sun and shower;
+ Then Nature said, 'A lovelier flower
+ On earth was never sown;
+ This child I to myself will take;
+ She shall be mine, and I will make
+ A lady of my own.
+
+ "'Myself will to my darling be
+ Both law and impulse: and with me
+ The girl in rock and plain,
+ In earth and heaven, in glade and bower,
+ Shall feel an overseeing power
+ To kindle and restrain.
+
+ "'She shall be sportive as the fawn
+ That wild with glee across the lawn
+ Or up the mountain springs;
+ And hers shall be the breathing balm,
+ And hers the silence and the calm
+ Of mute, insensate things.
+
+ "'The floating clouds their state shall lend
+ To her; for her the willow bend;
+ Nor shall she fail to see
+ Even in the motions of the storm
+ Grace that shall mould the maiden's form
+ By silent sympathy.
+
+ "'The stars of midnight shall be dear
+ To her; and she shall lean her ear
+ In many a secret place
+ Where rivulets dance their wayward round,
+ And beauty born of murmuring sound
+ Shall pass into her face!'"
+
+No one can afford to neglect all the spiritual influence of nature, and
+the only way to receive it is to go to nature. Purity of mind, a clean
+conception of God's creative plan, a more active intellectual life are
+all there for the girl who will seek them. She cannot afford _not_ to go
+back to nature for these helps, for every woman is in some sense a
+burden bearer, and she must needs know all she can of what life means in
+order to bear these burdens well.
+
+There are various kinds of outdoor life, some one of which is within
+reach of every human being, even if they are cripples. Probably most
+girls when the outdoor life of school and college is spoken of think
+that athletics is meant. That is one part of the outdoor runway, and
+since it is provided in every school, and insisted upon, but little
+about it need be said. It is doing its work with more and more
+inspiration, as the response to its ideals comes in. And it does
+something more in every well-equipped school than merely make a girl use
+her legs and arms: it gives her a large, sane ideal of health and
+provides her with the means of keeping well. There is no more useful
+profession for the woman seeking one that is useful as well as
+remunerative than physical culture.
+
+There is another aspect of the outdoor runway of which less is said. I
+mean gardening, or the care of live stock of some kind, or bee culture.
+This is practical remunerative work which for the girl living at home
+and going to school should serve famously as a grass-cure; it would keep
+her out-of-doors with profit to both her health and her purse. And then
+there is another kind of grass-cure: the outdoor life out-of-doors, to
+be taken in long country walks, in fishing expeditions, in picnics, in
+camping or wherever roads, hills, meadows and brooks lead. Finally,
+there is the outdoor life indoors. This life insists upon windows open
+to the air and open to the sunshine, and this life every one of us may
+have all the time.
+
+
+
+
+X
+
+A GIRL'S SUMMER
+
+
+Any girl who settles down to a summer with the idea of doing nothing, or
+in an aimless, not-knowing-what-to-do-next fashion, lessens her
+opportunities for pleasure. Pleasure is not idleness, although in the
+minds of a great many people who have not thought very much it is. The
+right sort of leisure is full of opportunities for doing interesting
+things.
+
+There are some girls who look upon their summers as an escape from the
+slavery of their school year. There are others who think of their
+summers as something to be endured until they can go back to the more or
+less selfish freedom of the school. Neither is the right way. The summer
+ought not to be an entirely frivolous season, neither ought it to be too
+workaday. If a girl has work to do, everything should be so arranged as
+not to deprive the vacation of its recreative side. On the other hand
+the summer should be all the happier because of a definite object to be
+accomplished. Something is wrong with a girl unless she finds both
+summer and winter full of opportunity and pleasure.
+
+No one can possibly do all the delightful or useful things which may be
+done in a single summer. In these months there is opportunity for growth
+just as in the winter--perhaps more opportunity physically. And
+intellectually there is much to be seen and observed. For the girl who
+can, it is well to plan to be out-of-doors as much as possible. For
+some, there are opportunities for camping, for long walks, for
+gardening, to learn how to do certain physically useful things, to row,
+swim and ride. Only an extraordinary emergency would deprive a girl of
+all the out-of-door exercise which she needs. If she isn't able to be by
+the sea or in the mountains, in almost all cities there is opportunity
+for exercise and games. With a short car ride she can go to golf links,
+to tennis courts, into the country. In many semi-citified homes there
+is space for a girl to do some gardening, one of the most profitable of
+pleasures, good for the girl and good for the home. Many homes would be
+much more attractive if there were more of the garden spirit in them.
+But if there is no chance for this, there can always be physical
+culture, an opportunity to build one's self up in health, to live sanely
+and wisely, to get plenty of sleep, and to take corrective exercise. In
+physical culture a girl should find out what she most needs--almost any
+gymnastic instructor in school or college would be glad to outline
+work--and then in ten or fifteen minute exercises develop herself along
+those lines.
+
+For the girl with means there is the chance for travel, a splendid
+opportunity to cultivate many virtues of which the young traveller
+seldom thinks: patience, adaptability, seeing the bright side of things.
+Travelling may be made a very important part of education. It is too bad
+that some people of limited horizon take it simply as a chance to
+aggrandize themselves, something to boast about and with which to bore
+their friends by repeated accounts of what they did "abroad." The great
+Doctor Samuel Johnson, the compiler of the famous dictionary and author
+of "Rasselas," heartily disliked young travellers, for, he said, "They
+go too raw to make any great remarks." Travelling, if it is what it
+should be, is an educational opening. In this way can be gained a
+background for history, for literature, for sociology, and a vivid and
+living knowledge of geography. Merely running about with a guide-book
+will not achieve these ends, although a guide-book is a very important
+asset: sympathy, trying to understand what one sees, will. Travelling
+takes away provincialism because it broadens the outlook. In a very real
+sense the world becomes one's home.
+
+The girl who is not able to move about or actually travel may travel in
+books. She should be ashamed to read what is harmful or merely cheap,
+but further than that it may not much matter. Let her read the Little
+Books, if she wishes, and the Great Little Books. As surely as the
+magnet swings towards the pole will the Great Little Books take her to
+the Great Big Books. She will be drawn on and up in her reading, and
+will have cultivated a love for reading which is far more important than
+perfunctory knowledge of the classics.
+
+Just as any books that are good point towards books that are better, so
+should the good work of a girl's school year be turning her mind towards
+the future and her work as a mature woman. In the summer she has time to
+assimilate all she has done, to get her bearings, and to plan wisely for
+the year, or years, to come. For a girl of strong physique the summer
+vacation gives an opportunity to add towards what she is going to do
+eventually; to specialize in some line of work, to take a library, or
+scientific, course. Many girls, however, who wish to spend their summer
+in this fashion ought not to consider it, for they are not strong
+enough. It is well for them to remember that it is the quality of work
+that counts rather than the quantity. Often the quality of a girl's work
+for an ensuing school year depends upon her freedom from study during
+the summer. Students should be very sure, if they undertake work in the
+summer, that it is not done simply from a nervous desire to go on
+regardless of the quality of the work done. But for those in perfect
+health this is an opportunity to try their powers in different ways in
+order to discover what it is they really wish to do. A summer so spent
+may keep many a girl from slipping into teaching just because it seems
+the only thing she can do. Such a salvation will be twofold, for it will
+save not only the girl, but also a profession overcrowded with loveless
+followers. There are so many needs to be filled by a woman's work that
+it is her duty to look for some vocation for which she is truly adapted,
+to get out of the ruts of those professions into which women flock
+because they have no initiative.
+
+Often a girl thinks only of what she will do with her own summer without
+thinking of what she will do with her mother's or her father's summer.
+For nine or ten months they have been thinking of what they could do for
+her. Sometimes girls do not realize the actual need of help and of
+companionship which those at home feel, and the older people are too
+unselfish to force this need upon their juniors. Between the
+unselfishness of those who are older and the self-centredness of those
+who are younger, there is often sad havoc made in a home. A girl who,
+after a year's absence and all that has been done for her, can't adjust
+herself to those who need her, has still something to learn.
+
+If older people cannot do without the buoyancy of the young, the young
+cannot very well afford to forget the mother and father who have much,
+although no word may be didactically spoken, to teach them. Let the
+girl take her summer not only as an opportunity to grow closer to her
+family but also as a chance to learn home-making, to train herself in
+the practical things of the home. This practical training is often a
+very valuable supplement to the school work. The time is passed when the
+learned woman who is unable to do anything for herself is the ideal--if
+she ever has been that. The inability to make a home for herself, to do
+all the necessary things daintily, detracts from a woman's power. In
+practical ways a woman should be both dainty and capable. Parents, as
+well as girls, sometimes forget or do not clearly recognize the fact
+that no school, no college, can take the place of the home, that schools
+are not primarily schools in home-making, but rather schools of general
+education. The summer is a good time for the girl to find her place
+again in the home life, and for both parents and children to rejoice in
+the pleasures of the home--pleasures and opportunities which no
+institutional life can give.
+
+
+
+
+XI
+
+FROM THE SCHOOL TO THE GIRL
+
+
+What the school is able to do for the girl depends very largely upon the
+girl herself. The majority of people with whom she comes in contact do
+not take that into consideration, and the school is held unfairly
+responsible for the girl. All any school can do is to use the material
+it finds. Some one has said, with harsh but true emphasis, that a
+college does not make a fool, it simply helps in the development of one.
+As an illustration of its limitations, a school sends out two girls from
+the same class; one girl it is proud to have taken as a type, the other
+it is sorry to have represent it. Yet both have been under exactly the
+same influence. Students do not realize how fearfully at their mercy a
+school is, or that, so far as reputation is concerned, it is they who
+make or mar its credit.
+
+If the school training is worth anything at all, it makes the most of
+unpromising material. Its really discouraging experience is not with the
+girl of limited ability who gives her best and so in some sense gets the
+best, but with the student who doesn't give her best and who, because of
+her own indifference, is always misrepresenting the training she is
+receiving. No school ever wishes to have its ideals confused by a vulgar
+display of wealth or by loud or conspicuous behaviour. Yet many a
+school, with ideals all that they should be, is misjudged in public
+places because of some thoughtless or unreliable girls. This doesn't
+seem like fair-play or team-play, does it? The fineness of life ought to
+be felt and expressed in student behaviour. Yet how often it is not!
+
+Another way in which the ideals of a school or college are
+misrepresented is by lack of intellectual integrity. Any school informed
+with a large spirit wishes to meet its students on a platform of
+absolute trust,--a platform which makes precautions against dishonesty
+unnecessary. Just so long as a school must be vigilant in order to keep
+a few students from unfair behaviour, just so long is it prevented from
+meeting them all on a basis of absolute trust. Why should girls excuse
+themselves for classroom dishonesty? What would they think of a girl who
+cheated in basket-ball? Would they condone that? Until student
+government has recognized absolute intellectual integrity as a part of
+its ideas, it will not have achieved its end. The rock on which all
+scholarship is founded is honour. Lack of honour is fatal to its ideal.
+"Cribbing," often excused by people who do not stop to think, is the
+small beginning of a big evil.
+
+Many a large institution is like an anxious mother, not always
+infallible in wisdom, but personally interested in and eager for the
+success of the individual. A successful girl brings credit to her
+school, for she demonstrates, as nothing else can, the fact that the
+school is achieving its purpose in service to the community. How much
+this encouragement is needed, girls do not realize, for they do not know
+all the difficulties which institutions, especially technical and
+collegiate, have to meet in sending their students out into the world.
+In finding a position for a student, the school has to consider the
+whole girl. It may care greatly for an attractive personality and yet
+see that its possessor is lacking in qualities of faithfulness and
+accuracy, and that with its utmost endeavour it has never been able to
+correct these faults. On the other hand, the school may have those
+students whose manners, whose dress, whose personality, whose spelling,
+whose awkwardly expressed notes, whose lack of promptness, make against
+success in any capacity.
+
+Another point for which the school looks in recommending its students is
+physical fitness, which shows itself in many different ways: in voice,
+in carriage, in attractiveness, in staying power. One teacher who had
+an excellent record as a student and was, besides, a fine girl, had so
+unpleasant and absurd a voice that her students were in a continual
+state of amusement and would learn nothing from her. A great many
+teachers have lost in power because of a poor voice, strident, or
+lifeless, or husky, or falsetto. A poor enunciation, or words that do
+not carry, are ineffectual means by which to reach a class, to hold a
+customer, or to introduce one's self favourably to the interest of
+others. For a girl who is going to have any part in public life--and
+most girls do nowadays--a good voice is an absolute essential. And it is
+well for us to remember that the voice is not something superficial, but
+that it is the expression of that which is within.
+
+Another way in which physical fitness shows itself is in the carriage. A
+girl who carries herself with erectness and energy brings a certain
+conviction with her of fitness for many things, of self-respect, of
+ability, and reveals in her bearing something of her mind as well as of
+her body. We are always tempted to think a person who "slumps"
+physically may slump in other ways. A good carriage, good voice, and
+strong, clean, digestive system are far more important than beauty of
+features.
+
+There is another matter at which the school in placing its students must
+look. To be a desirable candidate for a good position a girl need not be
+expensively gowned, but she must be daintily and freshly dressed.
+Immaculate shirt waist, a plain, well-made skirt, with good shoes,
+stockings and gloves and a quiet, pretty hat, are all any woman needs in
+meeting her business obligations. And that daintiness which she shows in
+her dress she must show in her person too, in clean skin and
+finger-nails, good teeth, and smooth, attractively arranged hair.
+
+It is very important for the interests of a school, as well as for the
+individual, to place its students advantageously. To have them succeed
+widens its sphere of usefulness and influence and opens new channels of
+service. Every college puts itself to considerable expense in looking
+out for the interests of its students, for the glory of a great school
+lies not only in the people whom it collects into its midst, but even
+more in those whom it sends out. A girl has no right to go so lightly
+through her school life that she fails to see in it all the
+self-sacrifice and effort and ambitions that have gone into the building
+up of what is her privilege and opportunity. In so far as she does this
+she fails in the team-play spirit. Why should a girl think that she can
+spend her father's money, or the means of her school, thoughtlessly?
+What would happen to her if she did this with the funds of her
+basket-ball team? Yet girls waste the resources of their school by
+carelessness with its property, a carelessness that collectively mounts
+up into thousands of dollars, and never once stop to think how
+difficult every big school finds it to make ends meet.
+
+Before it is too late, at least now that she is leaving school, let her
+stop to realize that a great deal of the work for an institution is
+along the line of self-sacrifice, in the gifts given, in the work of its
+administrators and teachers. This unselfishness means a financial loss,
+for business ability might be invested in more lucrative ways; it means
+a social sacrifice, for there is a certain kind of impersonality which
+is demanded in work that deals with a continually changing community; it
+means risk in the great strain put upon physical and nervous strength;
+it means forgetting one's self; for the true teacher is willing to be
+forgotten when she has served others. What a school may accomplish for
+its students is its only compensation for all this self-sacrifice.
+
+
+
+
+XII
+
+THE WORK TO BE
+
+
+One of the qualities a girl who has completed her school or college life
+needs to show for a few months more than anything else is the quality of
+adjustment, for she will find that she must continually adjust herself
+to new conditions whether they be of the home or elsewhere. All the time
+through school she has been in some sense a centre of interest. Her
+class has been an important factor in the academic life. When she has
+gone home it has been as a school or college girl, and she has been of
+interest because she brought that life into the home. But now the
+attitude of others towards her is different. She ceases to be the centre
+of attention, and for her a day of serious readjustment is at hand.
+Perhaps in her own estimate she has seemed even more important than she
+really was. She is likely now to swing from a sense of self-importance
+to an injured feeling of insignificance, and to a conviction that people
+can get along quite as well without her. Up to this time when she has
+gone home she has been an honoured visitor. But now that she is at home
+to stay, instead of becoming the centre she is merely part of the family
+circle with its obligation of doing for others. Her presence in the
+household is no longer a novelty.
+
+The swift change from a highly-organized, methodical life to the life of
+the home where there is not so much method, is hard for a girl. One
+reason it is difficult is that while she may be accomplishing a great
+deal that is useful, she seems to be doing nothing and to get nowhere.
+She feels as if she were in the midst of a conflict of duties. In school
+she has had implanted in her the idea that she must accomplish some
+definite thing, and between this objective and the irregular demands of
+the home there appears to be more or less clashing. She is confronted by
+a problem not easy for any one to solve: how to keep her definiteness
+of aim and work, and yet not be self-centred.
+
+Oftentimes when a girl fails to adjust herself to the home life, her
+family and friends feel that she is rather selfish in her desire to
+carry out her own aims rather than to give them up for new demands.
+Frequently the family is as much to blame for not realizing that the
+girl needs to be helped back into the old life as the girl is for not
+being able to help herself. In the home the spirit of team-play is much
+needed. Quite as much as the girl, the family has a lesson to learn in
+the art of adjustment and in remembering that this grown-up child isn't
+just the same individual she was when she went away several years ago.
+They need to realize that the girl may be able to give more to the home
+life than she ever did before, but that it will be given in a somewhat
+different way.
+
+While she is learning the difficult art of finding her place again, a
+great deal depends upon the individual girl, not only in the home but
+in the community at large. Sometimes she needs to be reminded that
+although she may have had more advantages than those left at home, that
+doesn't necessarily make her a superior person. A girl who is inclined
+either to pity or to admire herself too greatly should give herself a
+vigorous shaking. In the long run she will find it easier to do that on
+her own account than to have others do it for her. The friends at home,
+or in the church, or in the town, with education of a different kind
+coming to them, may have quite as much and more to give her than she to
+give them. One indicator of a really cultivated woman is her power to
+adapt herself to the circumstances in which she is placed. A gentlewoman
+never calls attention to the difference between herself and somebody
+else. The woman of broad culture is the one who makes everybody feel at
+home with her. If a girl's education has been worth anything at all, it
+should give her not a superior, set-aside feeling, but a desire to be
+more friendly and useful wherever she may be, and, not placing too much
+stress on externals, to look for essentials, to get the full value from
+every person and from every experience with which she comes in contact.
+
+Girls go to so many different kinds of homes that it is unlikely that
+they will meet the same sorts of difficulties. There is the girl who
+goes into the society home, where it is impossible for her to carry out
+her ideals without conflict with its social standards. On the other
+hand, there is the girl who goes into the very simple home where all the
+stress is upon the domestic side of life. And there is the girl who has
+to provide part of the family income. Very likely she has the hardest
+problem of all. She enters upon some new work, and nine times out of ten
+the way is not made easy for her; she is a novice with all the hardships
+that come to the novice. Perhaps in the beginning she has met a very
+real perplexity in hardly knowing what line of work to take up. She has
+no particular interest, no especial talent, no brilliant record, no
+powerful friends, no money with which to establish herself. With her it
+must be as it is with thinking: she must seize hold of the thing nearest
+her. What seems to her a temporary and unsatisfactory expedient will in
+many cases open out a path leading to something much broader. At least
+she may remember this as consolation: that even that experience of
+uncertainty, of indecision, is a part of education, and out of it,
+rightly and bravely met, will come some richness for her future life.
+
+The beginning of a work, teaching or anything else, may have to be
+rather irksome, indeed, may be exceedingly difficult,--an experience
+that will perhaps test staying power to the utmost. When it is too late
+to give due appreciation we realize that the work in school which was
+planned for us and arranged with our physical and mental well-being in
+view was, after all, not so hard as we thought it at the time. We wish
+that we had enjoyed our leisure more and complained less.
+
+From the point of view of fatigue, as a secretary, a clerk, a trained
+nurse, a teacher, a social worker, the burden may be so great that the
+girl is disheartened. She is all the more disheartened because, knowing
+that a useful life is a strong, steady pull, the way before her seems
+interminable. If she carries her whip inside her--this counsel is not
+for those of us who are lazy--she does well to remember that there is a
+point beyond which fatigue should not be borne, that is, when it
+overdraws her capital of health and nervous energy. Raising pigs is
+preferable to a so-called high profession when pig-raising is happily
+joined with a reasonable amount of health and security. The pigs and
+health together can always pay mortgages and buy necessities for those
+dependent upon us and for ourselves. The high calling without health is
+like a wet paper-bag: it will hold nothing.
+
+The girl meets with another difficulty in finding out that in almost any
+line of work a great deal of time is needed for the mastery of what seem
+the simplest principles. No one wants the girl who hasn't had
+experience, and nobody seems disposed to take her and give her that
+experience. However, we all find some one who is hardy enough or kind
+enough to try us; and as every year now there is more effort put into
+finding the work girls are most suited to do, there is no excuse for
+slipping into teaching as a last resort. Not unnaturally we sometimes
+distrust ourselves, especially in taking up an occupation to which we
+are not accustomed. And in her new work the girl, uncertain of her
+ability to master what she has undertaken, is placed in a position in
+which she has the encouragement of neither the school nor the home.
+Before, she has put much of the responsibility for her work and life
+upon parents and instructors. Now she has to be her own judge and pass
+judgment on herself and her work. She has, too, not only to lift her
+own weight but the weight of others as well. As she longs for
+cooeperation, good will and encouragement the value of the team-play
+spirit has never seemed so great before.
+
+ * * * * *
+
+We do not need to be told to remember the happy and easy experiences of
+life. No girl forgets them. What we do need is some one to tell us where
+the hard places will be, to warn us, to stiffen our courage and to point
+clearly to the uses of hard work and adversity. And although this may
+seem like placing another straw on the poor camel's back, it is now time
+to say that in her life-work, whether it be in her home or outside, a
+girl should be very clear in her mind what her aims and purposes are. If
+she is working solely for the praise and commendation of others, she
+will often be grievously disappointed. Not in recognition does real
+reward lie, but in the work itself. If she wins great popularity she is
+likely to find that there is nothing that shifts so quickly and is such
+a quicksand. If material wealth is her sole object she will harden into
+the thing she seeks and add but another joyless barbarian to a modern
+world congratulating itself that barbarism is a thing of the past, and
+yet presenting the spectacle of a mammon worship such as has never been
+seen before. If gold is her end, and not the means to a nobler end, then
+she will find herself constantly sacrificing higher issues to that, and
+lowering her one-time ideals. Truly the woman who marries solely for the
+comforts of a home, the woman who teaches, or nurses for "pay" alone,
+has her reward, and that is in self-destruction. She is a carrier of
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