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+The Project Gutenberg EBook of Lysis, by Plato
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+Title: Lysis
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+Author: Plato
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+Translator: Benjamin Jowett
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+</pre>
+ <p>
+ <br /><br />
+ </p>
+ <h1>
+ LYSIS
+ </h1>
+ <p>
+ <br />
+ </p>
+ <h2>
+ By Plato
+ </h2>
+ <p>
+ <br />
+ </p>
+ <h3>
+ Translated by Benjamin Jowett
+ </h3>
+ <p>
+ <br /> <br />
+ </p>
+ <hr />
+ <p>
+ <br /> <br />
+ </p>
+ <h3>
+ Contents
+ </h3>
+ <table summary="" style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto">
+ <tr>
+ <td>
+ <p class="toc">
+ <a href="#link2H_INTR"> INTRODUCTION. </a>
+ </p>
+ <p class="toc">
+ <a href="#link2H_4_0002"> LYSIS, OR FRIENDSHIP </a>
+ </p>
+ <p class="toc">
+ <a href="#link2H_4_0003"> PERSONS OF THE DIALOGUE </a>
+ </p>
+ </td>
+ </tr>
+ </table>
+ <p>
+ <br /> <br />
+ </p>
+ <hr />
+ <p>
+ <br /> <br /> <a name="link2H_INTR" id="link2H_INTR">
+ <!-- H2 anchor --> </a>
+ </p>
+ <h2>
+ INTRODUCTION.
+ </h2>
+ <p>
+ No answer is given in the Lysis to the question, 'What is Friendship?' any
+ more than in the Charmides to the question, 'What is Temperance?' There
+ are several resemblances in the two Dialogues: the same youthfulness and
+ sense of beauty pervades both of them; they are alike rich in the
+ description of Greek life. The question is again raised of the relation of
+ knowledge to virtue and good, which also recurs in the Laches; and
+ Socrates appears again as the elder friend of the two boys, Lysis and
+ Menexenus. In the Charmides, as also in the Laches, he is described as
+ middle-aged; in the Lysis he is advanced in years.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ The Dialogue consists of two scenes or conversations which seem to have no
+ relation to each other. The first is a conversation between Socrates and
+ Lysis, who, like Charmides, is an Athenian youth of noble descent and of
+ great beauty, goodness, and intelligence: this is carried on in the
+ absence of Menexenus, who is called away to take part in a sacrifice.
+ Socrates asks Lysis whether his father and mother do not love him very
+ much? 'To be sure they do.' 'Then of course they allow him to do exactly
+ as he likes.' 'Of course not: the very slaves have more liberty than he
+ has.' 'But how is this?' 'The reason is that he is not old enough.' 'No;
+ the real reason is that he is not wise enough: for are there not some
+ things which he is allowed to do, although he is not allowed to do
+ others?' 'Yes, because he knows them, and does not know the others.' This
+ leads to the conclusion that all men everywhere will trust him in what he
+ knows, but not in what he does not know; for in such matters he will be
+ unprofitable to them, and do them no good. And no one will love him, if he
+ does them no good; and he can only do them good by knowledge; and as he is
+ still without knowledge, he can have as yet no conceit of knowledge. In
+ this manner Socrates reads a lesson to Hippothales, the foolish lover of
+ Lysis, respecting the style of conversation which he should address to his
+ beloved.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ After the return of Menexenus, Socrates, at the request of Lysis, asks him
+ a new question: 'What is friendship? You, Menexenus, who have a friend
+ already, can tell me, who am always longing to find one, what is the
+ secret of this great blessing.'
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ When one man loves another, which is the friend&mdash;he who loves, or he
+ who is loved? Or are both friends? From the first of these suppositions
+ they are driven to the second; and from the second to the third; and
+ neither the two boys nor Socrates are satisfied with any of the three or
+ with all of them. Socrates turns to the poets, who affirm that God brings
+ like to like (Homer), and to philosophers (Empedocles), who also assert
+ that like is the friend of like. But the bad are not friends, for they are
+ not even like themselves, and still less are they like one another. And
+ the good have no need of one another, and therefore do not care about one
+ another. Moreover there are others who say that likeness is a cause of
+ aversion, and unlikeness of love and friendship; and they too adduce the
+ authority of poets and philosophers in support of their doctrines; for
+ Hesiod says that 'potter is jealous of potter, bard of bard;' and subtle
+ doctors tell us that 'moist is the friend of dry, hot of cold,' and the
+ like. But neither can their doctrine be maintained; for then the just
+ would be the friend of the unjust, good of evil.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Thus we arrive at the conclusion that like is not the friend of like, nor
+ unlike of unlike; and therefore good is not the friend of good, nor evil
+ of evil, nor good of evil, nor evil of good. What remains but that the
+ indifferent, which is neither good nor evil, should be the friend (not of
+ the indifferent, for that would be 'like the friend of like,' but) of the
+ good, or rather of the beautiful?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But why should the indifferent have this attachment to the beautiful or
+ good? There are circumstances under which such an attachment would be
+ natural. Suppose the indifferent, say the human body, to be desirous of
+ getting rid of some evil, such as disease, which is not essential but only
+ accidental to it (for if the evil were essential the body would cease to
+ be indifferent, and would become evil)&mdash;in such a case the
+ indifferent becomes a friend of the good for the sake of getting rid of
+ the evil. In this intermediate 'indifferent' position the philosopher or
+ lover of wisdom stands: he is not wise, and yet not unwise, but he has
+ ignorance accidentally clinging to him, and he yearns for wisdom as the
+ cure of the evil. (Symp.)
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ After this explanation has been received with triumphant accord, a fresh
+ dissatisfaction begins to steal over the mind of Socrates: Must not
+ friendship be for the sake of some ulterior end? and what can that final
+ cause or end of friendship be, other than the good? But the good is
+ desired by us only as the cure of evil; and therefore if there were no
+ evil there would be no friendship. Some other explanation then has to be
+ devised. May not desire be the source of friendship? And desire is of what
+ a man wants and of what is congenial to him. But then the congenial cannot
+ be the same as the like; for like, as has been already shown, cannot be
+ the friend of like. Nor can the congenial be the good; for good is not the
+ friend of good, as has been also shown. The problem is unsolved, and the
+ three friends, Socrates, Lysis, and Menexenus, are still unable to find
+ out what a friend is.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Thus, as in the Charmides and Laches, and several of the other Dialogues
+ of Plato (compare especially the Protagoras and Theaetetus), no conclusion
+ is arrived at. Socrates maintains his character of a 'know nothing;' but
+ the boys have already learned the lesson which he is unable to teach them,
+ and they are free from the conceit of knowledge. (Compare Chrm.) The
+ dialogue is what would be called in the language of Thrasyllus tentative
+ or inquisitive. The subject is continued in the Phaedrus and Symposium,
+ and treated, with a manifest reference to the Lysis, in the eighth and
+ ninth books of the Nicomachean Ethics of Aristotle. As in other writings
+ of Plato (for example, the Republic), there is a progress from unconscious
+ morality, illustrated by the friendship of the two youths, and also by the
+ sayings of the poets ('who are our fathers in wisdom,' and yet only tell
+ us half the truth, and in this particular instance are not much improved
+ upon by the philosophers), to a more comprehensive notion of friendship.
+ This, however, is far from being cleared of its perplexity. Two notions
+ appear to be struggling or balancing in the mind of Socrates:&mdash;First,
+ the sense that friendship arises out of human needs and wants; Secondly,
+ that the higher form or ideal of friendship exists only for the sake of
+ the good. That friends are not necessarily either like or unlike, is also
+ a truth confirmed by experience. But the use of the terms 'like' or 'good'
+ is too strictly limited; Socrates has allowed himself to be carried away
+ by a sort of eristic or illogical logic against which no definition of
+ friendship would be able to stand. In the course of the argument he makes
+ a distinction between property and accident which is a real contribution
+ to the science of logic. Some higher truths appear through the mist. The
+ manner in which the field of argument is widened, as in the Charmides and
+ Laches by the introduction of the idea of knowledge, so here by the
+ introduction of the good, is deserving of attention. The sense of the
+ inter-dependence of good and evil, and the allusion to the possibility of
+ the non-existence of evil, are also very remarkable.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ The dialectical interest is fully sustained by the dramatic
+ accompaniments. Observe, first, the scene, which is a Greek Palaestra, at
+ a time when a sacrifice is going on, and the Hermaea are in course of
+ celebration; secondly, the 'accustomed irony' of Socrates, who declares,
+ as in the Symposium, that he is ignorant of all other things, but claims
+ to have a knowledge of the mysteries of love. There are likewise several
+ contrasts of character; first of the dry, caustic Ctesippus, of whom
+ Socrates professes a humorous sort of fear, and Hippothales the flighty
+ lover, who murders sleep by bawling out the name of his beloved; there is
+ also a contrast between the false, exaggerated, sentimental love of
+ Hippothales towards Lysis, and the childlike and innocent friendship of
+ the boys with one another. Some difference appears to be intended between
+ the characters of the more talkative Menexenus and the reserved and simple
+ Lysis. Socrates draws out the latter by a new sort of irony, which is
+ sometimes adopted in talking to children, and consists in asking a leading
+ question which can only be answered in a sense contrary to the intention
+ of the question: 'Your father and mother of course allow you to drive the
+ chariot?' 'No they do not.' When Menexenus returns, the serious dialectic
+ begins. He is described as 'very pugnacious,' and we are thus prepared for
+ the part which a mere youth takes in a difficult argument. But Plato has
+ not forgotten dramatic propriety, and Socrates proposes at last to refer
+ the question to some older person.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ SOME QUESTIONS RELATING TO FRIENDSHIP.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ The subject of friendship has a lower place in the modern than in the
+ ancient world, partly because a higher place is assigned by us to love and
+ marriage. The very meaning of the word has become slighter and more
+ superficial; it seems almost to be borrowed from the ancients, and has
+ nearly disappeared in modern treatises on Moral Philosophy. The received
+ examples of friendship are to be found chiefly among the Greeks and
+ Romans. Hence the casuistical or other questions which arise out of the
+ relations of friends have not often been considered seriously in modern
+ times. Many of them will be found to be the same which are discussed in
+ the Lysis. We may ask with Socrates, 1) whether friendship is 'of similars
+ or dissimilars,' or of both; 2) whether such a tie exists between the good
+ only and for the sake of the good; or 3) whether there may not be some
+ peculiar attraction, which draws together 'the neither good nor evil' for
+ the sake of the good and because of the evil; 4) whether friendship is
+ always mutual,&mdash;may there not be a one-sided and unrequited
+ friendship? This question, which, like many others, is only one of a laxer
+ or stricter use of words, seems to have greatly exercised the minds both
+ of Aristotle and Plato.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ 5) Can we expect friendship to be permanent, or must we acknowledge with
+ Cicero, 'Nihil difficilius quam amicitiam usque ad extremum vitae
+ permanere'? Is not friendship, even more than love, liable to be swayed by
+ the caprices of fancy? The person who pleased us most at first sight or
+ upon a slight acquaintance, when we have seen him again, and under
+ different circumstances, may make a much less favourable impression on our
+ minds. Young people swear 'eternal friendships,' but at these innocent
+ perjuries their elders laugh. No one forms a friendship with the intention
+ of renouncing it; yet in the course of a varied life it is practically
+ certain that many changes will occur of feeling, opinion, locality,
+ occupation, fortune, which will divide us from some persons and unite us
+ to others. 6) There is an ancient saying, Qui amicos amicum non habet. But
+ is not some less exclusive form of friendship better suited to the
+ condition and nature of man? And in those especially who have no family
+ ties, may not the feeling pass beyond one or a few, and embrace all with
+ whom we come into contact, and, perhaps in a few passionate and exalted
+ natures, all men everywhere? 7) The ancients had their three kinds of
+ friendship, 'for the sake of the pleasant, the useful, and the good:' is
+ the last to be resolved into the two first; or are the two first to be
+ included in the last? The subject was puzzling to them: they could not say
+ that friendship was only a quality, or a relation, or a virtue, or a kind
+ of virtue; and they had not in the age of Plato reached the point of
+ regarding it, like justice, as a form or attribute of virtue. They had
+ another perplexity: 8) How could one of the noblest feelings of human
+ nature be so near to one of the most detestable corruptions of it?
+ (Compare Symposium; Laws).
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Leaving the Greek or ancient point of view, we may regard the question in
+ a more general way. Friendship is the union of two persons in mutual
+ affection and remembrance of one another. The friend can do for his friend
+ what he cannot do for himself. He can give him counsel in time of
+ difficulty; he can teach him 'to see himself as others see him'; he can
+ stand by him, when all the world are against him; he can gladden and
+ enlighten him by his presence; he 'can divide his sorrows,' he can 'double
+ his joys;' he can anticipate his wants. He will discover ways of helping
+ him without creating a sense of his own superiority; he will find out his
+ mental trials, but only that he may minister to them. Among true friends
+ jealousy has no place: they do not complain of one another for making new
+ friends, or for not revealing some secret of their lives; (in friendship
+ too there must be reserves;) they do not intrude upon one another, and
+ they mutually rejoice in any good which happens to either of them, though
+ it may be to the loss of the other. They may live apart and have little
+ intercourse, but when they meet, the old tie is as strong as ever&mdash;according
+ to the common saying, they find one another always the same. The greatest
+ good of friendship is not daily intercourse, for circumstances rarely
+ admit of this; but on the great occasions of life, when the advice of a
+ friend is needed, then the word spoken in season about conduct, about
+ health, about marriage, about business,&mdash;the letter written from a
+ distance by a disinterested person who sees with clearer eyes may be of
+ inestimable value. When the heart is failing and despair is setting in,
+ then to hear the voice or grasp the hand of a friend, in a shipwreck, in a
+ defeat, in some other failure or misfortune, may restore the necessary
+ courage and composure to the paralysed and disordered mind, and convert
+ the feeble person into a hero; (compare Symposium).
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ It is true that friendships are apt to be disappointing: either we expect
+ too much from them; or we are indolent and do not 'keep them in repair;'
+ or being admitted to intimacy with another, we see his faults too clearly
+ and lose our respect for him; and he loses his affection for us.
+ Friendships may be too violent; and they may be too sensitive. The egotism
+ of one of the parties may be too much for the other. The word of counsel
+ or sympathy has been uttered too obtrusively, at the wrong time, or in the
+ wrong manner; or the need of it has not been perceived until too late. 'Oh
+ if he had only told me' has been the silent thought of many a troubled
+ soul. And some things have to be indicated rather than spoken, because the
+ very mention of them tends to disturb the equability of friendship. The
+ alienation of friends, like many other human evils, is commonly due to a
+ want of tact and insight. There is not enough of the Scimus et hanc veniam
+ petimusque damusque vicissim. The sweet draught of sympathy is not
+ inexhaustible; and it tends to weaken the person who too freely partakes
+ of it. Thus we see that there are many causes which impair the happiness
+ of friends.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ We may expect a friendship almost divine, such as philosophers have
+ sometimes dreamed of: we find what is human. The good of it is necessarily
+ limited; it does not take the place of marriage; it affords rather a
+ solace than an arm of support. It had better not be based on pecuniary
+ obligations; these more often mar than make a friendship. It is most
+ likely to be permanent when the two friends are equal and independent, or
+ when they are engaged together in some common work or have some public
+ interest in common. It exists among the bad or inferior sort of men almost
+ as much as among the good; the bad and good, and 'the neither bad nor
+ good,' are drawn together in a strange manner by personal attachment. The
+ essence of it is loyalty, without which it would cease to be friendship.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Another question 9) may be raised, whether friendship can safely exist
+ between young persons of different sexes, not connected by ties of
+ relationship, and without the thought of love or marriage; whether, again,
+ a wife or a husband should have any intimate friend, besides his or her
+ partner in marriage. The answer to this latter question is rather
+ perplexing, and would probably be different in different countries
+ (compare Sympos.). While we do not deny that great good may result from
+ such attachments, for the mind may be drawn out and the character enlarged
+ by them; yet we feel also that they are attended with many dangers, and
+ that this Romance of Heavenly Love requires a strength, a freedom from
+ passion, a self-control, which, in youth especially, are rarely to be
+ found. The propriety of such friendships must be estimated a good deal by
+ the manner in which public opinion regards them; they must be reconciled
+ with the ordinary duties of life; and they must be justified by the
+ result.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yet another question, 10). Admitting that friendships cannot be always
+ permanent, we may ask when and upon what conditions should they be
+ dissolved. It would be futile to retain the name when the reality has
+ ceased to be. That two friends should part company whenever the relation
+ between them begins to drag may be better for both of them. But then
+ arises the consideration, how should these friends in youth or friends of
+ the past regard or be regarded by one another? They are parted, but there
+ still remain duties mutually owing by them. They will not admit the world
+ to share in their difference any more than in their friendship; the memory
+ of an old attachment, like the memory of the dead, has a kind of
+ sacredness for them on which they will not allow others to intrude.
+ Neither, if they were ever worthy to bear the name of friends, will either
+ of them entertain any enmity or dislike of the other who was once so much
+ to him. Neither will he by 'shadowed hint reveal' the secrets great or
+ small which an unfortunate mistake has placed within his reach. He who is
+ of a noble mind will dwell upon his own faults rather than those of
+ another, and will be ready to take upon himself the blame of their
+ separation. He will feel pain at the loss of a friend; and he will
+ remember with gratitude his ancient kindness. But he will not lightly
+ renew a tie which has not been lightly broken...These are a few of the
+ Problems of Friendship, some of them suggested by the Lysis, others by
+ modern life, which he who wishes to make or keep a friend may profitably
+ study. (Compare Bacon, Essay on Friendship; Cic. de Amicitia.)
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ <a name="link2H_4_0002" id="link2H_4_0002">
+ <!-- H2 anchor --> </a>
+ </p>
+ <div style="height: 4em;">
+ <br /><br /><br /><br />
+ </div>
+ <h1>
+ LYSIS, OR FRIENDSHIP
+ </h1>
+ <p>
+ <a name="link2H_4_0003" id="link2H_4_0003">
+ <!-- H2 anchor --> </a>
+ </p>
+ <div style="height: 4em;">
+ <br /><br /><br /><br />
+ </div>
+ <h2>
+ PERSONS OF THE DIALOGUE:
+ </h2>
+ <h3>
+ Socrates, who is the narrator, Menexenus, Hippothales, Lysis, Ctesippus.
+ </h3>
+ <p>
+ <br /> <br />
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ SCENE: A newly-erected Palaestra outside the walls of Athens.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I was going from the Academy straight to the Lyceum, intending to take the
+ outer road, which is close under the wall. When I came to the postern gate
+ of the city, which is by the fountain of Panops, I fell in with
+ Hippothales, the son of Hieronymus, and Ctesippus the Paeanian, and a
+ company of young men who were standing with them. Hippothales, seeing me
+ approach, asked whence I came and whither I was going.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I am going, I replied, from the Academy straight to the Lyceum.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then come straight to us, he said, and put in here; you may as well.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Who are you, I said; and where am I to come?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ He showed me an enclosed space and an open door over against the wall. And
+ there, he said, is the building at which we all meet: and a goodly company
+ we are.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And what is this building, I asked; and what sort of entertainment have
+ you?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ The building, he replied, is a newly erected Palaestra; and the
+ entertainment is generally conversation, to which you are welcome.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Thank you, I said; and is there any teacher there?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, he said, your old friend and admirer, Miccus.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Indeed, I replied; he is a very eminent professor.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Are you disposed, he said, to go with me and see them?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, I said; but I should like to know first, what is expected of me, and
+ who is the favourite among you?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Some persons have one favourite, Socrates, and some another, he said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And who is yours? I asked: tell me that, Hippothales.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ At this he blushed; and I said to him, O Hippothales, thou son of
+ Hieronymus! do not say that you are, or that you are not, in love; the
+ confession is too late; for I see that you are not only in love, but are
+ already far gone in your love. Simple and foolish as I am, the Gods have
+ given me the power of understanding affections of this kind.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Whereupon he blushed more and more.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Ctesippus said: I like to see you blushing, Hippothales, and hesitating to
+ tell Socrates the name; when, if he were with you but for a very short
+ time, you would have plagued him to death by talking about nothing else.
+ Indeed, Socrates, he has literally deafened us, and stopped our ears with
+ the praises of Lysis; and if he is a little intoxicated, there is every
+ likelihood that we may have our sleep murdered with a cry of Lysis. His
+ performances in prose are bad enough, but nothing at all in comparison
+ with his verse; and when he drenches us with his poems and other
+ compositions, it is really too bad; and worse still is his manner of
+ singing them to his love; he has a voice which is truly appalling, and we
+ cannot help hearing him: and now having a question put to him by you,
+ behold he is blushing.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Who is Lysis? I said: I suppose that he must be young; for the name does
+ not recall any one to me.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Why, he said, his father being a very well-known man, he retains his
+ patronymic, and is not as yet commonly called by his own name; but,
+ although you do not know his name, I am sure that you must know his face,
+ for that is quite enough to distinguish him.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But tell me whose son he is, I said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ He is the eldest son of Democrates, of the deme of Aexone.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Ah, Hippothales, I said; what a noble and really perfect love you have
+ found! I wish that you would favour me with the exhibition which you have
+ been making to the rest of the company, and then I shall be able to judge
+ whether you know what a lover ought to say about his love, either to the
+ youth himself, or to others.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Nay, Socrates, he said; you surely do not attach any importance to what he
+ is saying.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Do you mean, I said, that you disown the love of the person whom he says
+ that you love?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ No; but I deny that I make verses or address compositions to him.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ He is not in his right mind, said Ctesippus; he is talking nonsense, and
+ is stark mad.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ O Hippothales, I said, if you have ever made any verses or songs in honour
+ of your favourite, I do not want to hear them; but I want to know the
+ purport of them, that I may be able to judge of your mode of approaching
+ your fair one.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Ctesippus will be able to tell you, he said; for if, as he avers, the
+ sound of my words is always dinning in his ears, he must have a very
+ accurate knowledge and recollection of them.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, indeed, said Ctesippus; I know only too well; and very ridiculous the
+ tale is: for although he is a lover, and very devotedly in love, he has
+ nothing particular to talk about to his beloved which a child might not
+ say. Now is not that ridiculous? He can only speak of the wealth of
+ Democrates, which the whole city celebrates, and grandfather Lysis, and
+ the other ancestors of the youth, and their stud of horses, and their
+ victory at the Pythian games, and at the Isthmus, and at Nemea with four
+ horses and single horses&mdash;these are the tales which he composes and
+ repeats. And there is greater twaddle still. Only the day before yesterday
+ he made a poem in which he described the entertainment of Heracles, who
+ was a connexion of the family, setting forth how in virtue of this
+ relationship he was hospitably received by an ancestor of Lysis; this
+ ancestor was himself begotten of Zeus by the daughter of the founder of
+ the deme. And these are the sort of old wives' tales which he sings and
+ recites to us, and we are obliged to listen to him.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ When I heard this, I said: O ridiculous Hippothales! how can you be making
+ and singing hymns in honour of yourself before you have won?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But my songs and verses, he said, are not in honour of myself, Socrates.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ You think not? I said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Nay, but what do you think? he replied.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Most assuredly, I said, those songs are all in your own honour; for if you
+ win your beautiful love, your discourses and songs will be a glory to you,
+ and may be truly regarded as hymns of praise composed in honour of you who
+ have conquered and won such a love; but if he slips away from you, the
+ more you have praised him, the more ridiculous you will look at having
+ lost this fairest and best of blessings; and therefore the wise lover does
+ not praise his beloved until he has won him, because he is afraid of
+ accidents. There is also another danger; the fair, when any one praises or
+ magnifies them, are filled with the spirit of pride and vain-glory. Do you
+ not agree with me?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, he said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And the more vain-glorious they are, the more difficult is the capture of
+ them?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I believe you.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ What should you say of a hunter who frightened away his prey, and made the
+ capture of the animals which he is hunting more difficult?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ He would be a bad hunter, undoubtedly.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes; and if, instead of soothing them, he were to infuriate them with
+ words and songs, that would show a great want of wit: do you not agree.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And now reflect, Hippothales, and see whether you are not guilty of all
+ these errors in writing poetry. For I can hardly suppose that you will
+ affirm a man to be a good poet who injures himself by his poetry.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Assuredly not, he said; such a poet would be a fool. And this is the
+ reason why I take you into my counsels, Socrates, and I shall be glad of
+ any further advice which you may have to offer. Will you tell me by what
+ words or actions I may become endeared to my love?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ That is not easy to determine, I said; but if you will bring your love to
+ me, and will let me talk with him, I may perhaps be able to show you how
+ to converse with him, instead of singing and reciting in the fashion of
+ which you are accused.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ There will be no difficulty in bringing him, he replied; if you will only
+ go with Ctesippus into the Palaestra, and sit down and talk, I believe
+ that he will come of his own accord; for he is fond of listening,
+ Socrates. And as this is the festival of the Hermaea, the young men and
+ boys are all together, and there is no separation between them. He will be
+ sure to come: but if he does not, Ctesippus with whom he is familiar, and
+ whose relation Menexenus is his great friend, shall call him.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ That will be the way, I said. Thereupon I led Ctesippus into the
+ Palaestra, and the rest followed.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Upon entering we found that the boys had just been sacrificing; and this
+ part of the festival was nearly at an end. They were all in their white
+ array, and games at dice were going on among them. Most of them were in
+ the outer court amusing themselves; but some were in a corner of the
+ Apodyterium playing at odd and even with a number of dice, which they took
+ out of little wicker baskets. There was also a circle of lookers-on; among
+ them was Lysis. He was standing with the other boys and youths, having a
+ crown upon his head, like a fair vision, and not less worthy of praise for
+ his goodness than for his beauty. We left them, and went over to the
+ opposite side of the room, where, finding a quiet place, we sat down; and
+ then we began to talk. This attracted Lysis, who was constantly turning
+ round to look at us&mdash;he was evidently wanting to come to us. For a
+ time he hesitated and had not the courage to come alone; but first of all,
+ his friend Menexenus, leaving his play, entered the Palaestra from the
+ court, and when he saw Ctesippus and myself, was going to take a seat by
+ us; and then Lysis, seeing him, followed, and sat down by his side; and
+ the other boys joined. I should observe that Hippothales, when he saw the
+ crowd, got behind them, where he thought that he would be out of sight of
+ Lysis, lest he should anger him; and there he stood and listened.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I turned to Menexenus, and said: Son of Demophon, which of you two youths
+ is the elder?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ That is a matter of dispute between us, he said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And which is the nobler? Is that also a matter of dispute?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, certainly.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And another disputed point is, which is the fairer?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ The two boys laughed.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I shall not ask which is the richer of the two, I said; for you are
+ friends, are you not?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Certainly, they replied.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And friends have all things in common, so that one of you can be no richer
+ than the other, if you say truly that you are friends.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ They assented. I was about to ask which was the juster of the two, and
+ which was the wiser of the two; but at this moment Menexenus was called
+ away by some one who came and said that the gymnastic-master wanted him. I
+ supposed that he had to offer sacrifice. So he went away, and I asked
+ Lysis some more questions. I dare say, Lysis, I said, that your father and
+ mother love you very much.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Certainly, he said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And they would wish you to be perfectly happy.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But do you think that any one is happy who is in the condition of a slave,
+ and who cannot do what he likes?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I should think not indeed, he said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And if your father and mother love you, and desire that you should be
+ happy, no one can doubt that they are very ready to promote your
+ happiness.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Certainly, he replied.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And do they then permit you to do what you like, and never rebuke you or
+ hinder you from doing what you desire?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, indeed, Socrates; there are a great many things which they hinder me
+ from doing.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ What do you mean? I said. Do they want you to be happy, and yet hinder you
+ from doing what you like? for example, if you want to mount one of your
+ father's chariots, and take the reins at a race, they will not allow you
+ to do so&mdash;they will prevent you?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Certainly, he said, they will not allow me to do so.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Whom then will they allow?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ There is a charioteer, whom my father pays for driving.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And do they trust a hireling more than you? and may he do what he likes
+ with the horses? and do they pay him for this?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ They do.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But I dare say that you may take the whip and guide the mule-cart if you
+ like;&mdash;they will permit that?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Permit me! indeed they will not.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then, I said, may no one use the whip to the mules?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, he said, the muleteer.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And is he a slave or a free man?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ A slave, he said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And do they esteem a slave of more value than you who are their son? And
+ do they entrust their property to him rather than to you? and allow him to
+ do what he likes, when they prohibit you? Answer me now: Are you your own
+ master, or do they not even allow that?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Nay, he said; of course they do not allow it.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then you have a master?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, my tutor; there he is.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And is he a slave?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ To be sure; he is our slave, he replied.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Surely, I said, this is a strange thing, that a free man should be
+ governed by a slave. And what does he do with you?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ He takes me to my teachers.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ You do not mean to say that your teachers also rule over you?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Of course they do.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then I must say that your father is pleased to inflict many lords and
+ masters on you. But at any rate when you go home to your mother, she will
+ let you have your own way, and will not interfere with your happiness; her
+ wool, or the piece of cloth which she is weaving, are at your disposal: I
+ am sure that there is nothing to hinder you from touching her wooden
+ spathe, or her comb, or any other of her spinning implements.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Nay, Socrates, he replied, laughing; not only does she hinder me, but I
+ should be beaten if I were to touch one of them.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Well, I said, this is amazing. And did you ever behave ill to your father
+ or your mother?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ No, indeed, he replied.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But why then are they so terribly anxious to prevent you from being happy,
+ and doing as you like?&mdash;keeping you all day long in subjection to
+ another, and, in a word, doing nothing which you desire; so that you have
+ no good, as would appear, out of their great possessions, which are under
+ the control of anybody rather than of you, and have no use of your own
+ fair person, which is tended and taken care of by another; while you,
+ Lysis, are master of nobody, and can do nothing?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Why, he said, Socrates, the reason is that I am not of age.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I doubt whether that is the real reason, I said; for I should imagine that
+ your father Democrates, and your mother, do permit you to do many things
+ already, and do not wait until you are of age: for example, if they want
+ anything read or written, you, I presume, would be the first person in the
+ house who is summoned by them.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Very true.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And you would be allowed to write or read the letters in any order which
+ you please, or to take up the lyre and tune the notes, and play with the
+ fingers, or strike with the plectrum, exactly as you please, and neither
+ father nor mother would interfere with you.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ That is true, he said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then what can be the reason, Lysis, I said, why they allow you to do the
+ one and not the other?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I suppose, he said, because I understand the one, and not the other.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, my dear youth, I said, the reason is not any deficiency of years, but
+ a deficiency of knowledge; and whenever your father thinks that you are
+ wiser than he is, he will instantly commit himself and his possessions to
+ you.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I think so.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Aye, I said; and about your neighbour, too, does not the same rule hold as
+ about your father? If he is satisfied that you know more of housekeeping
+ than he does, will he continue to administer his affairs himself, or will
+ he commit them to you?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I think that he will commit them to me.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Will not the Athenian people, too, entrust their affairs to you when they
+ see that you have wisdom enough to manage them?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And oh! let me put another case, I said: There is the great king, and he
+ has an eldest son, who is the Prince of Asia;&mdash;suppose that you and I
+ go to him and establish to his satisfaction that we are better cooks than
+ his son, will he not entrust to us the prerogative of making soup, and
+ putting in anything that we like while the pot is boiling, rather than to
+ the Prince of Asia, who is his son?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ To us, clearly.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And we shall be allowed to throw in salt by handfuls, whereas the son will
+ not be allowed to put in as much as he can take up between his fingers?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Of course.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Or suppose again that the son has bad eyes, will he allow him, or will he
+ not allow him, to touch his own eyes if he thinks that he has no knowledge
+ of medicine?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ He will not allow him.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Whereas, if he supposes us to have a knowledge of medicine, he will allow
+ us to do what we like with him&mdash;even to open the eyes wide and
+ sprinkle ashes upon them, because he supposes that we know what is best?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ That is true.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And everything in which we appear to him to be wiser than himself or his
+ son he will commit to us?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ That is very true, Socrates, he replied.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then now, my dear Lysis, I said, you perceive that in things which we know
+ every one will trust us,&mdash;Hellenes and barbarians, men and women,&mdash;and
+ we may do as we please about them, and no one will like to interfere with
+ us; we shall be free, and masters of others; and these things will be
+ really ours, for we shall be benefited by them. But in things of which we
+ have no understanding, no one will trust us to do as seems good to us&mdash;they
+ will hinder us as far as they can; and not only strangers, but father and
+ mother, and the friend, if there be one, who is dearer still, will also
+ hinder us; and we shall be subject to others; and these things will not be
+ ours, for we shall not be benefited by them. Do you agree?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ He assented.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And shall we be friends to others, and will any others love us, in as far
+ as we are useless to them?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Certainly not.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Neither can your father or mother love you, nor can anybody love anybody
+ else, in so far as they are useless to them?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ No.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And therefore, my boy, if you are wise, all men will be your friends and
+ kindred, for you will be useful and good; but if you are not wise, neither
+ father, nor mother, nor kindred, nor any one else, will be your friends.
+ And in matters of which you have as yet no knowledge, can you have any
+ conceit of knowledge?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ That is impossible, he replied.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And you, Lysis, if you require a teacher, have not yet attained to wisdom.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ True.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And therefore you are not conceited, having nothing of which to be
+ conceited.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Indeed, Socrates, I think not.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ When I heard him say this, I turned to Hippothales, and was very nearly
+ making a blunder, for I was going to say to him: That is the way,
+ Hippothales, in which you should talk to your beloved, humbling and
+ lowering him, and not as you do, puffing him up and spoiling him. But I
+ saw that he was in great excitement and confusion at what had been said,
+ and I remembered that, although he was in the neighbourhood, he did not
+ want to be seen by Lysis; so upon second thoughts I refrained.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ In the meantime Menexenus came back and sat down in his place by Lysis;
+ and Lysis, in a childish and affectionate manner, whispered privately in
+ my ear, so that Menexenus should not hear: Do, Socrates, tell Menexenus
+ what you have been telling me.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Suppose that you tell him yourself, Lysis, I replied; for I am sure that
+ you were attending.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Certainly, he replied.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Try, then, to remember the words, and be as exact as you can in repeating
+ them to him, and if you have forgotten anything, ask me again the next
+ time that you see me.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I will be sure to do so, Socrates; but go on telling him something new,
+ and let me hear, as long as I am allowed to stay.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I certainly cannot refuse, I said, since you ask me; but then, as you
+ know, Menexenus is very pugnacious, and therefore you must come to the
+ rescue if he attempts to upset me.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, indeed, he said; he is very pugnacious, and that is the reason why I
+ want you to argue with him.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ That I may make a fool of myself?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ No, indeed, he said; but I want you to put him down.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ That is no easy matter, I replied; for he is a terrible fellow&mdash;a
+ pupil of Ctesippus. And there is Ctesippus himself: do you see him?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Never mind, Socrates, you shall argue with him.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Well, I suppose that I must, I replied.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Hereupon Ctesippus complained that we were talking in secret, and keeping
+ the feast to ourselves.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I shall be happy, I said, to let you have a share. Here is Lysis, who does
+ not understand something that I was saying, and wants me to ask Menexenus,
+ who, as he thinks, is likely to know.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And why do you not ask him? he said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Very well, I said, I will; and do you, Menexenus, answer. But first I must
+ tell you that I am one who from my childhood upward have set my heart upon
+ a certain thing. All people have their fancies; some desire horses, and
+ others dogs; and some are fond of gold, and others of honour. Now, I have
+ no violent desire of any of these things; but I have a passion for
+ friends; and I would rather have a good friend than the best cock or quail
+ in the world: I would even go further, and say the best horse or dog. Yea,
+ by the dog of Egypt, I should greatly prefer a real friend to all the gold
+ of Darius, or even to Darius himself: I am such a lover of friends as
+ that. And when I see you and Lysis, at your early age, so easily possessed
+ of this treasure, and so soon, he of you, and you of him, I am amazed and
+ delighted, seeing that I myself, although I am now advanced in years, am
+ so far from having made a similar acquisition, that I do not even know in
+ what way a friend is acquired. But I want to ask you a question about
+ this, for you have experience: tell me then, when one loves another, is
+ the lover or the beloved the friend; or may either be the friend?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Either may, I should think, be the friend of either.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Do you mean, I said, that if only one of them loves the other, they are
+ mutual friends?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, he said; that is my meaning.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But what if the lover is not loved in return? which is a very possible
+ case.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Or is, perhaps, even hated? which is a fancy which sometimes is
+ entertained by lovers respecting their beloved. Nothing can exceed their
+ love; and yet they imagine either that they are not loved in return, or
+ that they are hated. Is not that true?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, he said, quite true.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ In that case, the one loves, and the other is loved?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then which is the friend of which? Is the lover the friend of the beloved,
+ whether he be loved in return, or hated; or is the beloved the friend; or
+ is there no friendship at all on either side, unless they both love one
+ another?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ There would seem to be none at all.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then this notion is not in accordance with our previous one. We were
+ saying that both were friends, if one only loved; but now, unless they
+ both love, neither is a friend.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ That appears to be true.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then nothing which does not love in return is beloved by a lover?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I think not.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then they are not lovers of horses, whom the horses do not love in return;
+ nor lovers of quails, nor of dogs, nor of wine, nor of gymnastic
+ exercises, who have no return of love; no, nor of wisdom, unless wisdom
+ loves them in return. Or shall we say that they do love them, although
+ they are not beloved by them; and that the poet was wrong who sings&mdash;
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ 'Happy the man to whom his children are dear, and steeds having single
+ hoofs, and dogs of chase, and the stranger of another land'?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I do not think that he was wrong.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ You think that he is right?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then, Menexenus, the conclusion is, that what is beloved, whether loving
+ or hating, may be dear to the lover of it: for example, very young
+ children, too young to love, or even hating their father or mother when
+ they are punished by them, are never dearer to them than at the time when
+ they are being hated by them.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I think that what you say is true.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And, if so, not the lover, but the beloved, is the friend or dear one?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And the hated one, and not the hater, is the enemy?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Clearly.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then many men are loved by their enemies, and hated by their friends, and
+ are the friends of their enemies, and the enemies of their friends. Yet
+ how absurd, my dear friend, or indeed impossible is this paradox of a man
+ being an enemy to his friend or a friend to his enemy.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I quite agree, Socrates, in what you say.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But if this cannot be, the lover will be the friend of that which is
+ loved?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ True.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And the hater will be the enemy of that which is hated?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Certainly.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yet we must acknowledge in this, as in the preceding instance, that a man
+ may be the friend of one who is not his friend, or who may be his enemy,
+ when he loves that which does not love him or which even hates him. And he
+ may be the enemy of one who is not his enemy, and is even his friend: for
+ example, when he hates that which does not hate him, or which even loves
+ him.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ That appears to be true.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But if the lover is not a friend, nor the beloved a friend, nor both
+ together, what are we to say? Whom are we to call friends to one another?
+ Do any remain?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Indeed, Socrates, I cannot find any.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But, O Menexenus! I said, may we not have been altogether wrong in our
+ conclusions?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I am sure that we have been wrong, Socrates, said Lysis. And he blushed as
+ he spoke, the words seeming to come from his lips involuntarily, because
+ his whole mind was taken up with the argument; there was no mistaking his
+ attentive look while he was listening.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I was pleased at the interest which was shown by Lysis, and I wanted to
+ give Menexenus a rest, so I turned to him and said, I think, Lysis, that
+ what you say is true, and that, if we had been right, we should never have
+ gone so far wrong; let us proceed no further in this direction (for the
+ road seems to be getting troublesome), but take the other path into which
+ we turned, and see what the poets have to say; for they are to us in a
+ manner the fathers and authors of wisdom, and they speak of friends in no
+ light or trivial manner, but God himself, as they say, makes them and
+ draws them to one another; and this they express, if I am not mistaken, in
+ the following words:&mdash;
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ 'God is ever drawing like towards like, and making them acquainted.'
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I dare say that you have heard those words.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, he said; I have.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And have you not also met with the treatises of philosophers who say that
+ like must love like? they are the people who argue and write about nature
+ and the universe.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Very true, he replied.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And are they right in saying this?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ They may be.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Perhaps, I said, about half, or possibly, altogether, right, if their
+ meaning were rightly apprehended by us. For the more a bad man has to do
+ with a bad man, and the more nearly he is brought into contact with him,
+ the more he will be likely to hate him, for he injures him; and injurer
+ and injured cannot be friends. Is not that true?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, he said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then one half of the saying is untrue, if the wicked are like one another?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ That is true.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But the real meaning of the saying, as I imagine, is, that the good are
+ like one another, and friends to one another; and that the bad, as is
+ often said of them, are never at unity with one another or with
+ themselves; for they are passionate and restless, and anything which is at
+ variance and enmity with itself is not likely to be in union or harmony
+ with any other thing. Do you not agree?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, I do.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then, my friend, those who say that the like is friendly to the like mean
+ to intimate, if I rightly apprehend them, that the good only is the friend
+ of the good, and of him only; but that the evil never attains to any real
+ friendship, either with good or evil. Do you agree?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ He nodded assent.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then now we know how to answer the question 'Who are friends?' for the
+ argument declares 'That the good are friends.'
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, he said, that is true.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, I replied; and yet I am not quite satisfied with this answer. By
+ heaven, and shall I tell you what I suspect? I will. Assuming that like,
+ inasmuch as he is like, is the friend of like, and useful to him&mdash;or
+ rather let me try another way of putting the matter: Can like do any good
+ or harm to like which he could not do to himself, or suffer anything from
+ his like which he would not suffer from himself? And if neither can be of
+ any use to the other, how can they be loved by one another? Can they now?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ They cannot.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And can he who is not loved be a friend?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Certainly not.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But say that the like is not the friend of the like in so far as he is
+ like; still the good may be the friend of the good in so far as he is
+ good?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ True.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But then again, will not the good, in so far as he is good, be sufficient
+ for himself? Certainly he will. And he who is sufficient wants nothing&mdash;that
+ is implied in the word sufficient.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Of course not.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And he who wants nothing will desire nothing?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ He will not.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Neither can he love that which he does not desire?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ He cannot.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And he who loves not is not a lover or friend?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Clearly not.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ What place then is there for friendship, if, when absent, good men have no
+ need of one another (for even when alone they are sufficient for
+ themselves), and when present have no use of one another? How can such
+ persons ever be induced to value one another?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ They cannot.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And friends they cannot be, unless they value one another?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Very true.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But see now, Lysis, whether we are not being deceived in all this&mdash;are
+ we not indeed entirely wrong?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ How so? he replied.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Have I not heard some one say, as I just now recollect, that the like is
+ the greatest enemy of the like, the good of the good?&mdash;Yes, and he
+ quoted the authority of Hesiod, who says:
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ 'Potter quarrels with potter, bard with bard, Beggar with beggar;'
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ and of all other things he affirmed, in like manner, 'That of necessity
+ the most like are most full of envy, strife, and hatred of one another,
+ and the most unlike, of friendship. For the poor man is compelled to be
+ the friend of the rich, and the weak requires the aid of the strong, and
+ the sick man of the physician; and every one who is ignorant, has to love
+ and court him who knows.' And indeed he went on to say in grandiloquent
+ language, that the idea of friendship existing between similars is not the
+ truth, but the very reverse of the truth, and that the most opposed are
+ the most friendly; for that everything desires not like but that which is
+ most unlike: for example, the dry desires the moist, the cold the hot, the
+ bitter the sweet, the sharp the blunt, the void the full, the full the
+ void, and so of all other things; for the opposite is the food of the
+ opposite, whereas like receives nothing from like. And I thought that he
+ who said this was a charming man, and that he spoke well. What do the rest
+ of you say?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I should say, at first hearing, that he is right, said Menexenus.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then we are to say that the greatest friendship is of opposites?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Exactly.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, Menexenus; but will not that be a monstrous answer? and will not the
+ all-wise eristics be down upon us in triumph, and ask, fairly enough,
+ whether love is not the very opposite of hate; and what answer shall we
+ make to them&mdash;must we not admit that they speak the truth?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ We must.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ They will then proceed to ask whether the enemy is the friend of the
+ friend, or the friend the friend of the enemy?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Neither, he replied.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Well, but is a just man the friend of the unjust, or the temperate of the
+ intemperate, or the good of the bad?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I do not see how that is possible.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And yet, I said, if friendship goes by contraries, the contraries must be
+ friends.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ They must.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then neither like and like nor unlike and unlike are friends.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I suppose not.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And yet there is a further consideration: may not all these notions of
+ friendship be erroneous? but may not that which is neither good nor evil
+ still in some cases be the friend of the good?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ How do you mean? he said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Why really, I said, the truth is that I do not know; but my head is dizzy
+ with thinking of the argument, and therefore I hazard the conjecture, that
+ 'the beautiful is the friend,' as the old proverb says. Beauty is
+ certainly a soft, smooth, slippery thing, and therefore of a nature which
+ easily slips in and permeates our souls. For I affirm that the good is the
+ beautiful. You will agree to that?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ This I say from a sort of notion that what is neither good nor evil is the
+ friend of the beautiful and the good, and I will tell you why I am
+ inclined to think so: I assume that there are three principles&mdash;the
+ good, the bad, and that which is neither good nor bad. You would agree&mdash;would
+ you not?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I agree.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And neither is the good the friend of the good, nor the evil of the evil,
+ nor the good of the evil;&mdash;these alternatives are excluded by the
+ previous argument; and therefore, if there be such a thing as friendship
+ or love at all, we must infer that what is neither good nor evil must be
+ the friend, either of the good, or of that which is neither good nor evil,
+ for nothing can be the friend of the bad.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ True.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But neither can like be the friend of like, as we were just now saying.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ True.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And if so, that which is neither good nor evil can have no friend which is
+ neither good nor evil.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Clearly not.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then the good alone is the friend of that only which is neither good nor
+ evil.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ That may be assumed to be certain.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And does not this seem to put us in the right way? Just remark, that the
+ body which is in health requires neither medical nor any other aid, but is
+ well enough; and the healthy man has no love of the physician, because he
+ is in health.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ He has none.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But the sick loves him, because he is sick?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Certainly.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And sickness is an evil, and the art of medicine a good and useful thing?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But the human body, regarded as a body, is neither good nor evil?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ True.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And the body is compelled by reason of disease to court and make friends
+ of the art of medicine?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then that which is neither good nor evil becomes the friend of good, by
+ reason of the presence of evil?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ So we may infer.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And clearly this must have happened before that which was neither good nor
+ evil had become altogether corrupted with the element of evil&mdash;if
+ itself had become evil it would not still desire and love the good; for,
+ as we were saying, the evil cannot be the friend of the good.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Impossible.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Further, I must observe that some substances are assimilated when others
+ are present with them; and there are some which are not assimilated: take,
+ for example, the case of an ointment or colour which is put on another
+ substance.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Very good.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ In such a case, is the substance which is anointed the same as the colour
+ or ointment?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ What do you mean? he said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ This is what I mean: Suppose that I were to cover your auburn locks with
+ white lead, would they be really white, or would they only appear to be
+ white?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ They would only appear to be white, he replied.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And yet whiteness would be present in them?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ True.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But that would not make them at all the more white, notwithstanding the
+ presence of white in them&mdash;they would not be white any more than
+ black?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ No.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But when old age infuses whiteness into them, then they become
+ assimilated, and are white by the presence of white.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Certainly.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Now I want to know whether in all cases a substance is assimilated by the
+ presence of another substance; or must the presence be after a peculiar
+ sort?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ The latter, he said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then that which is neither good nor evil may be in the presence of evil,
+ but not as yet evil, and that has happened before now?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And when anything is in the presence of evil, not being as yet evil, the
+ presence of good arouses the desire of good in that thing; but the
+ presence of evil, which makes a thing evil, takes away the desire and
+ friendship of the good; for that which was once both good and evil has now
+ become evil only, and the good was supposed to have no friendship with the
+ evil?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ None.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And therefore we say that those who are already wise, whether Gods or men,
+ are no longer lovers of wisdom; nor can they be lovers of wisdom who are
+ ignorant to the extent of being evil, for no evil or ignorant person is a
+ lover of wisdom. There remain those who have the misfortune to be
+ ignorant, but are not yet hardened in their ignorance, or void of
+ understanding, and do not as yet fancy that they know what they do not
+ know: and therefore those who are the lovers of wisdom are as yet neither
+ good nor bad. But the bad do not love wisdom any more than the good; for,
+ as we have already seen, neither is unlike the friend of unlike, nor like
+ of like. You remember that?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, they both said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And so, Lysis and Menexenus, we have discovered the nature of friendship&mdash;there
+ can be no doubt of it: Friendship is the love which by reason of the
+ presence of evil the neither good nor evil has of the good, either in the
+ soul, or in the body, or anywhere.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ They both agreed and entirely assented, and for a moment I rejoiced and
+ was satisfied like a huntsman just holding fast his prey. But then a most
+ unaccountable suspicion came across me, and I felt that the conclusion was
+ untrue. I was pained, and said, Alas! Lysis and Menexenus, I am afraid
+ that we have been grasping at a shadow only.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Why do you say so? said Menexenus.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I am afraid, I said, that the argument about friendship is false:
+ arguments, like men, are often pretenders.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ How do you mean? he asked.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Well, I said; look at the matter in this way: a friend is the friend of
+ some one; is he not?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Certainly he is.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And has he a motive and object in being a friend, or has he no motive and
+ object?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ He has a motive and object.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And is the object which makes him a friend, dear to him, or neither dear
+ nor hateful to him?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I do not quite follow you, he said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I do not wonder at that, I said. But perhaps, if I put the matter in
+ another way, you will be able to follow me, and my own meaning will be
+ clearer to myself. The sick man, as I was just now saying, is the friend
+ of the physician&mdash;is he not?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And he is the friend of the physician because of disease, and for the sake
+ of health?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And disease is an evil?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Certainly.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And what of health? I said. Is that good or evil, or neither?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Good, he replied.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And we were saying, I believe, that the body being neither good nor evil,
+ because of disease, that is to say because of evil, is the friend of
+ medicine, and medicine is a good: and medicine has entered into this
+ friendship for the sake of health, and health is a good.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ True.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And is health a friend, or not a friend?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ A friend.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And disease is an enemy?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then that which is neither good nor evil is the friend of the good because
+ of the evil and hateful, and for the sake of the good and the friend?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Clearly.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then the friend is a friend for the sake of the friend, and because of the
+ enemy?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ That is to be inferred.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then at this point, my boys, let us take heed, and be on our guard against
+ deceptions. I will not again repeat that the friend is the friend of the
+ friend, and the like of the like, which has been declared by us to be an
+ impossibility; but, in order that this new statement may not delude us,
+ let us attentively examine another point, which I will proceed to explain:
+ Medicine, as we were saying, is a friend, or dear to us for the sake of
+ health?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And health is also dear?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Certainly.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And if dear, then dear for the sake of something?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And surely this object must also be dear, as is implied in our previous
+ admissions?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And that something dear involves something else dear?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But then, proceeding in this way, shall we not arrive at some first
+ principle of friendship or dearness which is not capable of being referred
+ to any other, for the sake of which, as we maintain, all other things are
+ dear, and, having there arrived, we shall stop?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ True.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ My fear is that all those other things, which, as we say, are dear for the
+ sake of another, are illusions and deceptions only, but where that first
+ principle is, there is the true ideal of friendship. Let me put the matter
+ thus: Suppose the case of a great treasure (this may be a son, who is more
+ precious to his father than all his other treasures); would not the
+ father, who values his son above all things, value other things also for
+ the sake of his son? I mean, for instance, if he knew that his son had
+ drunk hemlock, and the father thought that wine would save him, he would
+ value the wine?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ He would.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And also the vessel which contains the wine?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Certainly.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But does he therefore value the three measures of wine, or the earthen
+ vessel which contains them, equally with his son? Is not this rather the
+ true state of the case? All his anxiety has regard not to the means which
+ are provided for the sake of an object, but to the object for the sake of
+ which they are provided. And although we may often say that gold and
+ silver are highly valued by us, that is not the truth; for there is a
+ further object, whatever it may be, which we value most of all, and for
+ the sake of which gold and all our other possessions are acquired by us.
+ Am I not right?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, certainly.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And may not the same be said of the friend? That which is only dear to us
+ for the sake of something else is improperly said to be dear, but the
+ truly dear is that in which all these so-called dear friendships
+ terminate.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ That, he said, appears to be true.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And the truly dear or ultimate principle of friendship is not for the sake
+ of any other or further dear.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ True.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then we have done with the notion that friendship has any further object.
+ May we then infer that the good is the friend?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I think so.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And the good is loved for the sake of the evil? Let me put the case in
+ this way: Suppose that of the three principles, good, evil, and that which
+ is neither good nor evil, there remained only the good and the neutral,
+ and that evil went far away, and in no way affected soul or body, nor ever
+ at all that class of things which, as we say, are neither good nor evil in
+ themselves;&mdash;would the good be of any use, or other than useless to
+ us? For if there were nothing to hurt us any longer, we should have no
+ need of anything that would do us good. Then would be clearly seen that we
+ did but love and desire the good because of the evil, and as the remedy of
+ the evil, which was the disease; but if there had been no disease, there
+ would have been no need of a remedy. Is not this the nature of the good&mdash;to
+ be loved by us who are placed between the two, because of the evil? but
+ there is no use in the good for its own sake.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I suppose not.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then the final principle of friendship, in which all other friendships
+ terminated, those, I mean, which are relatively dear and for the sake of
+ something else, is of another and a different nature from them. For they
+ are called dear because of another dear or friend. But with the true
+ friend or dear, the case is quite the reverse; for that is proved to be
+ dear because of the hated, and if the hated were away it would be no
+ longer dear.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Very true, he replied: at any rate not if our present view holds good.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But, oh! will you tell me, I said, whether if evil were to perish, we
+ should hunger any more, or thirst any more, or have any similar desire? Or
+ may we suppose that hunger will remain while men and animals remain, but
+ not so as to be hurtful? And the same of thirst and the other desires,&mdash;that
+ they will remain, but will not be evil because evil has perished? Or
+ rather shall I say, that to ask what either will be then or will not be is
+ ridiculous, for who knows? This we do know, that in our present condition
+ hunger may injure us, and may also benefit us:&mdash;Is not that true?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And in like manner thirst or any similar desire may sometimes be a good
+ and sometimes an evil to us, and sometimes neither one nor the other?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ To be sure.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But is there any reason why, because evil perishes, that which is not evil
+ should perish with it?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ None.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then, even if evil perishes, the desires which are neither good nor evil
+ will remain?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Clearly they will.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And must not a man love that which he desires and affects?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ He must.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then, even if evil perishes, there may still remain some elements of love
+ or friendship?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But not if evil is the cause of friendship: for in that case nothing will
+ be the friend of any other thing after the destruction of evil; for the
+ effect cannot remain when the cause is destroyed.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ True.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And have we not admitted already that the friend loves something for a
+ reason? and at the time of making the admission we were of opinion that
+ the neither good nor evil loves the good because of the evil?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Very true.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But now our view is changed, and we conceive that there must be some other
+ cause of friendship?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I suppose so.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ May not the truth be rather, as we were saying just now, that desire is
+ the cause of friendship; for that which desires is dear to that which is
+ desired at the time of desiring it? and may not the other theory have been
+ only a long story about nothing?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Likely enough.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But surely, I said, he who desires, desires that of which he is in want?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And that of which he is in want is dear to him?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ True.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And he is in want of that of which he is deprived?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Certainly.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then love, and desire, and friendship would appear to be of the natural or
+ congenial. Such, Lysis and Menexenus, is the inference.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ They assented.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then if you are friends, you must have natures which are congenial to one
+ another?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Certainly, they both said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And I say, my boys, that no one who loves or desires another would ever
+ have loved or desired or affected him, if he had not been in some way
+ congenial to him, either in his soul, or in his character, or in his
+ manners, or in his form.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Yes, yes, said Menexenus. But Lysis was silent.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then, I said, the conclusion is, that what is of a congenial nature must
+ be loved.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ It follows, he said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then the lover, who is true and no counterfeit, must of necessity be loved
+ by his love.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Lysis and Menexenus gave a faint assent to this; and Hippothales changed
+ into all manner of colours with delight.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Here, intending to revise the argument, I said: Can we point out any
+ difference between the congenial and the like? For if that is possible,
+ then I think, Lysis and Menexenus, there may be some sense in our argument
+ about friendship. But if the congenial is only the like, how will you get
+ rid of the other argument, of the uselessness of like to like in as far as
+ they are like; for to say that what is useless is dear, would be absurd?
+ Suppose, then, that we agree to distinguish between the congenial and the
+ like&mdash;in the intoxication of argument, that may perhaps be allowed.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Very true.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ And shall we further say that the good is congenial, and the evil
+ uncongenial to every one? Or again that the evil is congenial to the evil,
+ and the good to the good; and that which is neither good nor evil to that
+ which is neither good nor evil?
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ They agreed to the latter alternative.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then, my boys, we have again fallen into the old discarded error; for the
+ unjust will be the friend of the unjust, and the bad of the bad, as well
+ as the good of the good.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ That appears to be the result.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But again, if we say that the congenial is the same as the good, in that
+ case the good and he only will be the friend of the good.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ True.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ But that too was a position of ours which, as you will remember, has been
+ already refuted by ourselves.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ We remember.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Then what is to be done? Or rather is there anything to be done? I can
+ only, like the wise men who argue in courts, sum up the arguments:&mdash;If
+ neither the beloved, nor the lover, nor the like, nor the unlike, nor the
+ good, nor the congenial, nor any other of whom we spoke&mdash;for there
+ were such a number of them that I cannot remember all&mdash;if none of
+ these are friends, I know not what remains to be said.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ Here I was going to invite the opinion of some older person, when suddenly
+ we were interrupted by the tutors of Lysis and Menexenus, who came upon us
+ like an evil apparition with their brothers, and bade them go home, as it
+ was getting late. At first, we and the by-standers drove them off; but
+ afterwards, as they would not mind, and only went on shouting in their
+ barbarous dialect, and got angry, and kept calling the boys&mdash;they
+ appeared to us to have been drinking rather too much at the Hermaea, which
+ made them difficult to manage&mdash;we fairly gave way and broke up the
+ company.
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ I said, however, a few words to the boys at parting: O Menexenus and
+ Lysis, how ridiculous that you two boys, and I, an old boy, who would fain
+ be one of you, should imagine ourselves to be friends&mdash;this is what
+ the by-standers will go away and say&mdash;and as yet we have not been
+ able to discover what is a friend!
+ </p>
+ <p>
+ <br /><br /><br /><br />
+ </p>
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