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diff --git a/12042-0.txt b/12042-0.txt new file mode 100644 index 0000000..cdb2060 --- /dev/null +++ b/12042-0.txt @@ -0,0 +1,2948 @@ +*** START OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK 12042 *** + +THE VALUE OF A PRAYING MOTHER + +BY ISABEL C. BYRUM + +GOSPEL TRUMPET COMPANY + +First Printing 1911 + + + + +PREFACE. + +This book has a purpose: it is sent forth as precious seed, with the +prayer that it will fall into "good soil" in many hearts and bring forth +an hundredfold. + +All parents with natural affection desire the best things for their +children. Such fathers and mothers have high hopes that from their home +will go forth noble men and women--yes, even heroes. Many fail to +realize the attainment of this ideal in their children, because of a +lack of the knowledge necessary to bring about the desired development +in the child-life. + +The following pages were written with the fervent hope that they would, +at least in some measure, be a help in developing the young lives +entrusted to your care. If your harvest-time is past; if your children +have grown up and have left the old home, you may be able to help some +one who still has little ones to train. + +One object in relating actual experiences was that the reader might be +guided in the application of those principles of child-training which, +if merely stated in the abstract, might be hard to understand and +difficult of application. The principles herein stated are not mere +theories, but they have the commendation of having stood the test of +use. Two other objects of this simple story of home life are that the +thoughtful mother may get a view of the effects of certain extreme +environments on the child-life and, by observing the substantial results +accomplished by a praying mother, she may discover the secret of +success. + +The incidents of this little home story are all true, even to minute +details, as far as memory serves one of the actors in this drama of home +life after the lapse of many years; but as most of the principal +characters are still living, the correct names have, for the most part, +been withheld. Should one of your children ask, "Mama, who was Bessie +Worthington?" you can truthfully answer, "She was a little girl who +lived in Michigan; and she and her papa and mama are still living." + +If, by reading this little book, any mother shall see wherein she can +improve upon her past teaching, and thus be able to do more for the +spiritual and moral well-being of her children, the writer will feel +amply rewarded. May the blessing of God attend it as it goes forth. + + Yours in Him, + Isabel C. Byrum. + + + + +CONTENTS. + + CHAPTER I. + Two Scenes + + CHAPTER II. + A Praying Mother + + CHAPTER III. + Early Training + + CHAPTER IV. + God's Care + + CHAPTER V. + Consecration + + CHAPTER VI. + Conscience + + CHAPTER VII. + A Downward Step + + CHAPTER VIII. + A Wise Decision + + CHAPTER IX. + Self-Control + + CHAPTER X. + Parental Control + + CHAPTER XI. + Christian Experience + + CHAPTER XII. + The Beautiful Secret + + CHAPTER XIII. + Blessing and Trial + + CHAPTER XIV. + The Surprise Party + + CHAPTER XV. + Leroy's Healing + + CHAPTER XVI. + Explaining the Divine Life + + CHAPTER XVII. + Temptations + + CHAPTER XVIII. + Answers to Prayer + + CHAPTER XIX. + Lost in the Woods + + CHAPTER XX. + Novel-Reading + + CHAPTER XXI. + Glad Tidings + + CHAPTER XXII. + The Meetings + + CHAPTER XXIII. + Bessie Sees Her Duty + + CHAPTER XXIV. + Reverie + + CHAPTER XXV. + A Plea to Mothers + + CHAPTER XXVI. + Parental Duty + + CHAPTER XXVII. + Useful Hints + + + + +THE VALUE OF A PRAYING MOTHER + + + + +CHAPTER I. + + +TWO SCENES. + +How delightful to step into the home where God is counselor of both +parent and child! How blessed the companionship in such a home! There +God counsels in sweet, tender tones. He teaches his will and gives the +needed wisdom. God is man's truest and best teacher. James says, "If any +of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally +... and it shall be given him." Be the home ever so beautiful, if it is +not a house of prayer, it is not a place of true happiness. Parents +should often commune with the Lord; especially the mother, with her many +cares and perplexities, if she would do justice to the little ones +entrusted to her care. + +A beautiful picture now comes to my mind--a picture of an ideal mother +of olden time. She dwelt in Ramah of Palestine. Her lonely home nestled +among the lonely hills. She loved to commune with the Lord, for deep in +her bosom she carried a sorrow that only he could help her to bear. Her +home lacked that sweet sunlight which innocent childhood brings. She +longed and prayed for a little life to guide and direct in the ways of +the Lord. + +Once every year she went with her husband to Shiloh, where sacrifices +were offered, and there publicly worshiped the Lord. When at the house +of the Lord one day, she prayed long and earnestly that God would grant +the desire of her heart. "O Lord of hosts," she prayed, "if thou wilt +indeed look on the affliction of thine handmaid, and remember me, and +not forget thine handmaid, but wilt give unto thine handmaid a man +child, then I will give him unto the Lord all the days of his life, and +there shall no razor come upon his head." + +A scene like this must have been rare even to the priest of God; for he +mistook this sad woman for one drunken with wine. She begged him not to +look upon her as such. When the man of God saw by her modest, earnest +words that she was not drunken as he had supposed, he changed his +reproof into a blessing. "Go in peace," he said, "and the God of Israel +grant thy petition that thou hast asked of him." With perfect confidence +that God had heard and answered prayer, the woman arose and returned +with her husband to their home in Ramah. + +The next year she did not go up to Shiloh; for God had granted her +petition and had given her a little son. Her husband was willing for her +to remain at home, but he cautioned her not to forget her promise to the +Lord. He feared, perhaps, that the mother might become so attached to +her child that she would be unwilling to part with him as she had +promised. His warning was unnecessary. + +As soon as Samuel (for this is what the mother named her son) was old +enough to be useful, she took him to the house of God and presented him +to the Lord. It must have sounded to the aged priest (who soon would +have to cease his work upon earth) like a voice from heaven, when the +happy mother, pointing to her child, said: "For this child I prayed; and +the Lord hath given me my petition which I asked of him: therefore also +I have lent him to the Lord; as long as he liveth he shall be lent to +the Lord." + +Again the mother prays; this time not in sorrow, but from a heart filled +with thanksgiving. She feels no regret because of her vow. Her child +became a great blessing to many people, and the Lord gave her other sons +and daughters to cheer her heart. + +By reading the story we find that "the child Samuel grew and was in +favor both with the Lord and also with men." Why was this? In answer to +his devoted mother's prayer, the Holy Spirit hovered over that child, +shielding him from the cruel darts and arrows of the enemy. He had been +taught the ways of the Lord from his cradle and his life was fully +consecrated to God. + +A different scene comes before me now--a scene that brings a shudder. +Upon a ship sailing along the shores of France were a man and his wife +on their way to join a band of villainous people in India. Being on a +secret mission, they traveled slowly and carefully. It was a tedious and +dangerous journey. One stormy day, on the Bay of Biscay, a child was +born to them. + +No loving welcome from the lips of a prayerful parent awaited this poor +little innocent child; instead, curses were his portion, and, by the +order of his mother, he was cast aside in a pile of rubbish to die. By +chance the father passed that way and, finding his child's poor little +perishing form, picked it up, took it to his wife, and commanded her to +see that it was cared for. + +As the child grew and developed in this atmosphere of sin and +degradation, is it strange that he partook of his parents' nature and +developed even worse habits than they? Unless the proper home influence +is thrown around a child, he can not help suffering from the inherited +sins of his parents. + +When this child became a man, he knew nothing of virtue and honesty. +His life was enveloped in a shroud of darkest crimes. Leaving India, he +went to Europe and from there sailed to America. Each year found him +better acquainted with court proceedings and prison walls. It was a +common thing for him to break into a man's house and steal every +valuable that he could find. + +I recently met this man and heard from his own lips the dark story of +his life. As he was relating an account of a desperate burglary, I asked +him what he would have done if the man of the house had awakened. +"Please do not ask me." he answered. "I was always armed, and a man's +life was no more to me than a dog's. There are scenes that I can not, I +dare not, recall, for I am a changed man now." + +Thank God, he is a changed man. He had not been too vile for God to +find. Jesus had cleansed his heart from all desire to do evil. Having +confessed his crimes and given himself up to be punished, he had been +sent to prison, but because of good behavior had been soon pardoned. He +is now spending his life among the lower class, whom he understands so +well and pities so much, trying to show them the way of salvation. + +Note the atmosphere that surrounded the cradle of each of the babes of +whom we have been speaking. In the first home we find prayer, love, +hope, and tenderness; in the last, sin, hatred, crime, and villainy. Oh +that mothers everywhere would take warning! If only these two pictures +could be framed and hung in the recesses of every mother's heart where +they might teach their silent lesson! If only mothers might see how +powerful for good or evil is their influence; how the affections and the +mental powers may be moulded by prayer and maternal love, and how the +groundwork for the future of the child may be laid in its early +training! + +A sensible mother has a charm and wields an influence that takes a fast +hold on the hearts of those who are dear to her. The kindly sympathy of +youth, the deep affection of manhood, can be traced to influences that +began at mother's knee. + +What true, prayerful mother does not feel as her child closely nestles +to her bosom that she is invested with a divine, mysterious power, an +influence which she can not understand? Then it is that she sees her +imperfections and longs for wisdom to know how to guide her child. God +alone can supply that understanding. She is her child's book of wisdom, +love, and, beauty, but she should be of God's writing. + + + + +CHAPTER II. + + +A PRAYING MOTHER. + +Still another mother comes before my mind--an earnest, zealous, pious +mother, who fashioned her life and example continually by God's Word and +endeavored daily to teach her children the deep truths of salvation in +language so simple that they could understand, to seek out the causes of +their failures and discouragements, and to give them timely advice and +instruction. + +As I trace a few of her experiences, which are all true incidents, I +trust they may sink into some perplexed mother's heart and enable her to +wield the instruments of love and prayer about her darlings and to be +more able to guide their tender hearts in the right course. + +Mrs. Worthington lived in the great city of Chicago, in a small cottage +on Portland Avenue near Thirty-first Street. Nothing about the dwelling +was elaborate; everything was simple, but very neat. Pretty vines +trailed gracefully over the porch and windows, and a few flower beds +filled up the dull nooks and corners. In front of the house was a grassy +lawn enclosed by a picket fence. Here the children could play apart from +the rough waifs that thronged the street. Within the cottage the same +quiet taste was in evidence. + +Every day in her cozy sitting-room Mrs. Worthington talked with her +little girls, Bessie and Louise. In times of trouble and perplexity she +bowed with them in prayer. How much the children enjoyed their mother's +comradeship and counsel! The mother realized the importance of these +early impressions made on the child's mind. She had promised God to do +all in her power to train her children for heaven. She had commenced +early, even from the time she had first looked into the depths of their +innocent eyes. + +She had taught them that when any trouble arose between them, they were +to kneel in prayer and ask God to help the one who had done wrong. Once +she heard Bessie say, "Louise, I have prayed for you three times, and I +believe I shall have to pray for you again." Louise was not a bad child; +she had as sweet and happy a disposition as Bessie; but, as with all +small children, little difficulties arose between them. + +Wishing to know what her two little girls would do on such an occasion, +she watched them. Bessie quietly took her little sister's hand, lead her +aside, and knelt with her in prayer. Then with all earnestness she +prayed, "O Lord, help Louise to to be good, for Jesus' sake. Amen." The +prayer, though short, was effectual; for both went back to their play +with happy faces, and they had no more trouble that day. + + + + +CHAPTER III. + + +EARLY TRAINING. + +As the daily teaching continued, Mrs. Worthington taught her children +many helpful lessons. She told them of the great necessity of a Savior +and of his mission to humanity. She taught them how God looked upon +disobedience, and always illustrated her talks with interesting Bible +stories and their every-day experiences. In this way she taught them not +only the evil effects of wrong-doing but also the sure reward of +right-doing. + +One summer, while the family was spending their vacation in Michigan at +the pretty country home of an aunt, something happened that helped the +children to apprehend their mother's meaning. This incident, although in +some measure painful to Mrs. Worthington, impressed the lesson upon +their young minds almost better than anything else could have. + +The house was situated upon a hill that sloped gradually down to the +shore of a lake. In many ways this lake was very attractive, especially +to the two little girls, who were then at the ages of two and four +years. Mrs. Worthington carefully warned the children of the danger of +playing near the lake shore; but, not realizing the greatness of their +temptation, she trusted them too far. Time after time they made their +way down to the water's edge. Something must be done; but what? + +One morning Mr. Worthington noticed his little daughters standing in +front of the house. Although he could not hear their words, he clearly +perceived that they were talking about a trip to the forbidden lake. +They hesitated some time, but at last walked slowly down the hillside to +the lake. Again they hesitated. Finally descending the steps of the +boat-house, they stepped into the sparkling water. How dainty the +ripples about their feet, and how clear the water! + +"Surely there can be no harm or danger," thought Bessie; but she +remembered the oft-repeated warnings of her parents and aunt. The +shells lost their beauty when she remembered hearing her father say that +bears sometimes travel up and down the shores. What if a bear should +some that morning? She gave a quick, searching glance among the trees, +but, seeing nothing, she tried to forget about bears. She might have +been able to forget about them, but she could not forget that she was +disobedient. Her conscience would not let her; the more she tried to +forget, the louder it talked. She was just about to take her little +sister back to the house, when she heard a rustling among the branches +of a tall tree directly above the path over which she must pass. The +next moment she thought she heard a low growl. "O Louise," she cried, "I +do believe that is the bear papa told us about." The tree then began to +sway from side to side and they heard another growl, louder than the +first. Seizing her little sister's hand, Bessie hastened to help her out +of the water. By this time both were thoroughly frightened; for while +visiting one of the parks in Chicago once, they had seen a bear hug his +keeper until he could not stand. Bessie remembered the incident and +tried to help Louise to hurry; but when the tree shook again, this time +just above her, she screamed wildly and ran a few steps alone. When she +got past the danger-point her reason returned, and, looking back, she +saw her sister's great danger, as she stood just beneath the fatal tree. +Rushing back, she almost carried Louise (while the growling continued), +and they were soon up the hill. In the house they told of their strange +experience, the substance of the story being, "The bear; The bear!" + +Mr. Worthington soon joined the excited circle and secretly explained to +his wife that he had been the supposed bear and that he had taken this +course to teach the children a lesson. His plan was successful, for +after that the children did not care to go to the lake alone. + +Mrs. Worthington, however, was very sad because her children had been +deceived. Unlike her husband, who was not a Christian, she believed in +keeping the confidence of her children and in praying with them when +they were disobedient. She decided to be more prompt and watchful in the +future and to shield them from temptation as much as possible. + +She improved the opportunity for some wholesome instruction. From the +stories of Jonah and King Saul she brought forth some excellent lessons +on disobedience. She told the children that, although they might think +when tempted to disobey that nobody saw them, yet there was one whose +eye was ever beholding their deeds, whether good or bad. Then she knelt +in prayer with her children, praying with a full heart to that God who +is everywhere present and from whom all our strength must come, that he +would teach her how to guide the precious souls entrusted to her care. + + + + +CHAPTER IV. + + +GOD'S CARE. + +Considering this mother's deep piety, do you think it strange that she +saw God's hand in everything that befell her, and ascribed praise to him +for it all? + +After the return of the family to their home in Chicago the father +became very ill. His sickness was so severe and so long continued that +poverty began to threaten them. Mr. Worthington could not take the +resigned view of their circumstances that his wife took, but often gave +way to complaining. But Mrs. Worthington thanked God that things were no +worse and ever encouraged her husband with the promises that God would +provide. + +At last Christmas morning came and found them in extreme poverty. Mr. +Worthington still weak from his illness, but able to go around a little, +came in from his morning walk very gloomy and feeling that his friends +were very few. "This is the saddest Christmas I have ever known," he +said to Mrs. Worthington. "It is almost more than I can bear to know +that I have nothing to give the children today, and barely enough in the +house to eat. I did not realize it so keenly until I saw an old man +trudging along Thirty-first Street with a large pack upon his back. That +man was surely going to surprise some of his friends. How much we need a +friend like that!" "Never mind," said Mrs. Worthington softly; "God has +promised to be a friend in time of need, and I believe he will care for +us today." + +As she finished speaking, a rap was heard at the door. Mr. Worthington +arose slowly, wondering who could be their early caller. When he opened +the door, he was greatly surprised to see the aged man with the pack and +to find him to be his own father. Mr. Worthington had entered the house +too soon to see his father turn the corner and enter the yard. + +As the large burden was laid upon the floor and unpacked, there seemed +to be no end to the good things. A turkey, cake, pies, in fact, all that +was needful for a generous Christmas dinner, as well as a gift for each +one. It was a very thankful family that gathered around the table that +day. + + + + +CHAPTER V. + + +CONSECRATION. + +In regard to her children, Mrs. Worthington had passed through a deep +consecration. She fully realized that they were only lent her by the +Lord, entrusted to her care to be trained for usefulness in his service, +and she was determined to do all in her power to prepare them as the +Lord intended. In all sincerity, she had placed her children upon the +altar of consecration, promising God never to let her will interfere +with his designs concerning them. + +I do not think a child of God ever makes a consecration that is not +tested in some form or other. This mother's consecration was tested. + +A wealthy aunt, having lost all her children and being very lonely, +thought to fill the vacancy in her heart and home by adopting a little +child. After several vain attempts to find a suitable child, she sought +the home of her niece, Mrs. Worthington. She came with many misgivings. +When she made her errand known, her niece said: "Auntie, my children are +no longer mine; I have given them to the Lord, and whatever is his will +concerning them shall be mine. You will have to obtain my husband's +consent." Thus far Aunt A. was delighted with her success, and she +eagerly sought the father. She tried to point out to Mrs. Worthington, +who was heartbroken at the prospect of losing her child, how abundantly +able she (the aunt) was to provide for the child and spoke of the +extreme poverty of the Worthington home. The mother knew all this, but +she knew too that God's Spirit does not always rule in wealthy homes. +Would she do right to let her child slip from under her parental care? +Many thoughts of this nature surged through her brain, and many +temptations to say no came to her; but instead of giving a decisive +answer she sought counsel from the all-wise Counselor. While in prayer +she thought of faithful Abraham's trial regarding Isaac, and she felt +that God was just as able to carry her through temptation or test, if +she submitted all to his will. + +Mr. Worthington gave his consent for one of the children to go for a +visit. The aunt having chosen Bessie, hasty preparations were made for +their departure. As the mother kissed her curly-haired little girl +good-by, her heart seemed bursting with sorrow. She tried to control her +feelings, but only God knew the wound that her aunt's parting words +made. "Use your influence in my behalf, Niece, with your husband, in +case we want to keep Bessie," she had said, and then the great train +moved slowly from the station. Abraham was all the mother could think of +on her return home. Oh! would God give her back her child? + +Letter after letter came, each telling how fond the aunt and her husband +were of Bessie and how happy she was in her new home, but not a word +about her return. Four, five, six weeks passed. Then one day a letter +came stating that they had decided not to adopt a child now and that, as +Bessie was getting homesick, the parents might expect her home the next +day. Then, it had been only a test! Oh, how glad Mrs. Worthington was +that she had been faithful. Yes, her God was the very same God that +Abraham had served centuries before. It was hard to wait until +train-time the next day. When once more the loving mother held her +darling child in her arms, the tears that could not flow for weeks +streamed freely. + +Bessie was glad to be at home again. After the cold, formal, loveless +life at her aunt's, she appreciated her own humble home more than ever +before. + +But a far greater test was waiting the dear mother--one that would call +for more than human strength to bear. + +After Bessie's return Mrs. Worthington put forth every effort to teach +her children more about heavenly things. She bore in mind the +scripture, "Train up a child in the way it should go; and when it is +old, it will not depart from it." As she did not want to fail along this +line, she spent every spare moment with her children. And she seldom let +them go from home to visit unaccompanied by her; but one day, being very +busy, she let them go alone to their grandmother's. The distance was not +great, and Bessie, now nearly six years old, knew the way perfectly. All +would have been well had their grandmother been at home. She being away, +the girls stopped to watch some children at play. These children were +breaking old bottles that they had picked up in the alley. As the little +girls stood watching the sport, a large brown bottle was brought forth +and with a heavy stroke of the hammer was broken. Small pieces of the +glass flew in every direction. One piece struck Louise on the palm of +the hand just below the thumb, knocking off the skin, but not producing +a wound deep enough to bleed. Her grandmother, who appeared on the +scene just at this time, examined the wound. She though it would soon be +all right, but bound it up with a cloth to satisfy the child. The +children played as usual and then returned home in time for supper. + +When they came in, their mother, who had been very busy through the day +at housecleaning, was preparing a hasty supper, and she gave them no +special attention. The family were soon seated around the supper-table. +They had not been there long until Mrs. Worthington noticed that Louise +was not eating. She asked the child why she did not eat, but received no +reply. On being asked if her throat was sore, Louise nodded her head. +Still the mother did not think the child's condition serious; and, after +pinning a flannel around the child's neck, she did the evening work and +prepared to attend a prayer-meeting. She had noticed the rag upon +Louise's hand, but Bessie had laughed about the little cut and said, +"Grandma tied it up just to please Louise." + +Although the meeting that night was unusually good, Mrs. Worthington +could not forget the expression on her child's face as they had kissed +each other good-by. It seemed to be before her all the time; so she +really felt relieved when the meeting closed and she could return. + +Upon entering her home she immediately asked her husband, "How is +Louise?" He answered that she had been very naughty and cross and that +he had been obliged to punish her. This news increased the mother's +fears. Feeling of the child's head, she found it hot and feverish. + +As Louise continued to grow worse, at two o'clock in the morning Mrs. +Worthington thought it best to examine the child's throat; but when the +mother asked the little girl to open her mouth, she said, "Mama, I +can't." + +"What!" exclaimed the mother, "you can not open your mouth! Why, child, +what is the matter with you?" Although Louise tried repeatedly to open +her mouth, she could force her teeth apart only about an eighth of an +inch, and only with great difficulty could she speak. + +By this time Mr. Worthington had fully awakened to the fact that +something serious was troubling his child, and he sprang to her side. As +soon as possible they summoned a doctor. He found that the cut on her +hand had caused lockjaw, but said that there was no cause for alarm. The +parents, however, felt very anxious and called in several doctors for +consultation. They found that it was too late to do anything for the +child. "The course of this disease," said the doctors, "is usually very +rapid; and we are sorry that we can offer no hope." + +When Mrs. Worthington heard the doctors' verdict, anguish such as she +had never experienced before filled her soul. Her thoughts went back to +the previous night. Oh! why had she not examined the child closely +then? In her distress she cried to the Lord, saying, "Dear Lord, what +can this mean? Must I go through another test with one of my children? +If so, help me to say amen to thy will!" + +Everything possible was done for the comfort of the little sufferer. The +little life was swiftly nearing its close. Even when the doctors +injected medicine into her arm to relieve her pain, she did not murmur. +Forgetful for a moment of her suffering, she looked into her mother's +eyes and said, "Mama, I love you"; then turning to her father, "Papa, I +love you"; and then to the doctors and friends, "I like all these +folks." + +What a beautiful testimony? She had only kindly feelings in her heart +for all, even for the doctors, who seemed to be her enemies. Her words +were as a message sent from God as they fell into that mother's heart. +They seemed as sweet incense and a soothing balm to her troubled spirit. +Gazing into the child's face, the mother read of the tender, +compassionate love of God for suffering humanity; she read of the depth +of Christ's love for the innocent and pure; and, by the heavenly smile +that lighted the little face as her darling sank into unconsciousness, +she saw that the child realized her Savior's presence. + +Slowly the tide is going out; the soul of the child is passing from the +mother's presence into life immortal. "O my darling, speak to me once +more!" The large blue eyes slowly unclose; a look of disappointment +comes into them as she says, "Where has Jesus gone?" The dear eyes +softly close; she sinks again into unconsciousness; the beautiful +expression of happiness returns; the mother knows that her darling is in +the arms of Jesus and is content. + +Mrs. Worthington did not sorrow as those who have no hope; for she knew +that her heavenly Father knew best, and she could look up with +confidence and say, "The Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away: +blessed be the name of the Lord." With the father it was different. Up +to this time he had never had any serious thoughts of a future life. He +knew that his wife was a good woman, but he considered her religious +views rather strange. She had seen so much error among the popular +religious denominations and had felt such bondage when meeting with +them, that she worshiped with a few spiritual people in a little +prayer-meeting. Because of this peculiarity, he had even feared that her +mind was affected; but now, when he saw her fortitude under deep trial, +he felt that surely there was an unseen power supporting her--a power +that he secretly longed to possess, although the time for attaining it +he set indefinitely in the future. + +As Louise had been his idol, his grief was deep. It stirred his whole +being. Her last testimony had convinced him that there is a Savior, that +he is interested in mankind, and that he is able to keep in every +affliction. Standing by the cold, lifeless form of his little daughter, +he promised God that he would meet her in heaven. + +After these things Mrs. Worthington realized more keenly than ever the +value of confidence between children and parents. With renewed energy +she sought daily to strengthen that cord which now seemed to her almost +divine. Her daily talks now contained a richer and deeper meaning to +Bessie, whose understanding of heavenly things was growing clearer since +her sister's death. Through her mother's teaching she gained a knowledge +of God and spiritual life that would have taken her many, many years to +comprehend had she been left to herself. + +Mrs. Worthington was surprised and pleased to note Bessie's confidence +in her mother's teaching. One day, in answer to the assertion of a +little neighbor girl that Louise was not alive, but dead and buried, +Bessie said, "I know Sister's body is dead and buried, but her soul is +living with Jesus. He was waiting for her when she died and took her +soul away with him." + +"I am glad, my child," said her mother, sometime after this +conversation, "that you love to come to me with things that trouble you; +for as you're going to school now, you can not help hearing and seeing +many things that I would rather keep from you until you're older. You'll +see and hear many things that you should allow no place in your life; +but if you'll always come to me, I'll instruct you so that they'll not +be harmful to you. When I was a child, how I longed for some one in whom +I could confide! My mother was a good woman, but she didn't realize how +I often longed to unburden my heart to her. Father understood this +desire, and we often had confidential talks. + +"I shall never forget my gratitude when he took me upon his knee one day +and told me about many dangers young girls must meet and explained how I +might avoid them. His words were just in time; for I had often been +allowed to spend the evening at the home of a little friend, who, like +myself, was not taught how to meet danger. At first our play had been +innocent sports, but a short time before my father's talk a cousin had +come to board with the family and attend school. He at once encouraged +us to play a game of cards with him. As I knew nothing of the evil of +card-playing, I was eager to learn; for he gave me much praise and +allowed me to win very often, always rewarding me with a pile of candy. +The appearance of so much candy in my possession had led to my father's +talk. As father unfolded the nature of card-playing and gambling, a +horror for them that has never left me came into my heart. After this I +often sought my father's counsel; his faithful admonitions and tender +words of encouragement caused me to have more and more confidence in +him." + +Mrs. Worthington sighed deeply as she continued, "The memory of my dear +father is sacred, Bessie. Many times I've thanked the Lord that my +father knew the worth of prayer and the value of the confidence of his +children. He helped me to tide over the most critical period of my life, +and I love to recall the encouragement of his devoted life." + + + + +CHAPTER VI. + + +CONSCIENCE. + +One day when Bessie was about eight years old, she said: "Mama, you've +often told me that if I'd listen to the voice of conscience it would +keep me out of danger. What is conscience? I don't understand." + +"My dear child," answered her mother, "your happiness depends upon a +pure conscience, one that is void of offense. By the Lord's help, I will +gladly explain. Conscience is that which causes us to feel bad when we +do what we've been taught to be wrong. At first it is very tender and +active. Then, no matter how enticing the temptation, the conscience will +warn one not to yield. You've heard your conscience speaking to you, +haven't you, Bessie?" + +"Yes, Mama," answered Bessie; "that was why I wanted to know more about +it. I thought at first it was some person speaking; but when I +remembered you had told me that we each have a conscience to tell us to +do right, I knew it must be the voice of conscience." + +"When it speaks, you must listen," said Mrs. Worthington. "Give heed to +its warnings. This little story will show you how careful we should be +to heed the warning voice of conscience. + +"'Wishing to arise at an early hour each morning, a gentleman purchased +an alarm-clock. He took it home, and, having set it, went to bed and +slept soundly. In the morning, to the gentleman's great delight, the +clock aroused him, so that he was able to get to work in time. + +"'For a time he would spring out of bed as soon as the alarm sounded, +and the clock never failed to wake him. One morning, however, on hearing +the clock sound its usual alarm, he awoke, but, feeling a little sleepy, +he lay back on his pillow, thinking that he would get up in a short +time. In a few minutes he fell asleep, and did not awake again until +very late. He dressed hastily, and, missing his breakfast, hurried away +to his work. He resolved not to be so foolish again, and for a time did +better; but in a few days he had again overslept. He became more and +more neglectful, failing time after time to heed the alarm. At length it +only partially aroused him, and he soon slumbered again. Day by day it +disturbed him less, until at last it did not arouse him at all, although +it sounded as loudly as ever.' + +"So will it be with your conscience. If you don't heed its voice, you'll +hear it speaking less loudly each day until its voice will at last cause +you no discomfort. You'll then be in a very dangerous moral condition. +No one but God can help you out. This is one reason why, Bessie, many +people can do things that you can not. + +"Satan aimed his first blow at the conscience; for if he can silence it, +then he can lead the soul deeper and deeper into sin." + + + + +CHAPTER VII. + + +A DOWNWARD STEP. + +"I have good news for you, Bessie," said Mrs. Worthington as Bessie came +skipping into the room from her play. "Your papa and I have decided to +leave our little home here in Chicago and buy a home in Michigan." + +"Oh, how nice!" exclaimed Bessie, who was still in her eighth year. +"Shall we live with Aunt Emma again?" + +"Yes, or rather she will live with us," said her mother, smiling. "Your +auntie's health is very poor, and she is tired of the responsibility of +farming; so we'll relieve her." + +The following weeks were happy ones for Bessie. The Lord had been good +to her in many ways. He had given her a little baby brother to love and +care for, and now she was about to have a pleasant home in the country. +She had not forgotten the good times she had enjoyed on the farm with +her little sister, and she was very eager for the month of August to +come, the time when the family was to move. At last the time came to +start. With beating heart Bessie counted the hours that must pass before +she could run in the orchard and eat the luscious fruit. + +It was late in the afternoon when the Worthington family arrived at +their new home. The greetings over, Bessie was contemplating a ramble +where she had noticed some large red apples hanging; but just then her +aunt said, "Bessie, you must not pick any of the fruit on the place this +summer, as the farm is rented and the fruit does not belong to us." This +was such a disappointment to the little girl that she could not restrain +her tears. + +As the days passed by, she often looked longingly toward the tree where +hung the beautiful apples, but she never once thought of pulling one, +for her mother had carefully taught her the great evil of stealing. "But +oh!" thought Bessie, "if only one of the apples would fall upon the +ground, I could pick it up, and I wouldn't be stealing it." With this +wish in her heart, she daily watched the trees in hopes that just one +would fall. + +At last her hope was realized. Walking through the orchard one day after +a hard wind-storm, she spied several large red apples lying in the soft +sand. With a fast-beating heart, she hastened to pick them all up; and, +placing them carefully in her apron, she hurried to the house, oft +repeating to herself, "I didn't steal them, for the wind blew them off." + +As she entered the house, she began to tell how she came by the apples, +but stopped in dismay, for she saw her mother's look of disapproval. +Very tenderly Mrs. Worthington took her little daughter aside and, +sitting down by her, said: "My dear, you don't understand what you've +done: those apples are as truly stolen as if you had picked them from +the tree. You must take them to Mrs. S. and explain that you didn't +know you were stealing them. Taking little things and trying to ease the +conscience by saying, 'It doesn't amount to anything,' causes the +conscience to fall asleep and to cease its activity. Thus the evil habit +of taking what doesn't belong to us becomes a part of our nature, and +step by step we fall into greater sin. + +"I once heard of a young man who was about to be hanged upon the +gallows. Just before the fatal moment he received permission to speak to +any of his friends, if he desired. Calling for his aunt, who had reared +him, he moved forward as if to speak to her, but instead he bit off her +ear. Amid the exclamations of horror that followed, the young man said: +'You think what I have done is cruel. Let me tell you that, had my aunt +done her duty by me, I should not be here today. Had she taken the pains +to inquire where I obtained the lead pencils, knives, handkerchiefs, and +other small articles which I brought home from time to time; had she +not accepted the flimsy excuse that I had found them; had she warned me +of my danger, and not praised me for "finding" the things I had +stolen,--I might have escaped this awful end.' + +"So, Bessie, you can see the danger of allowing anything like +this--though it does appear a trifle--to pass by unnoticed. You may go +and return the apples to Mrs. S., who is now in the orchard." + +The lesson was severe and lasting; and as Bessie returned the apples to +their rightful owner, it settled deep into her heart. + +Parents, beware. Through neglect, the habit of lying begins. An untruth +is passed over carelessly and the child allowed to cover up its sins +without realizing their sinfulness. Likewise, many other evil habits +that have wrecked lives and brought sorrow and disgrace into homes may +be traced to the same carelessness on the part of parents and friends. + + + + +CHAPTER VIII. + + +A WISE DECISION. + +The lake in front of the Worthington home, though nearly five miles in +length, had too small a harbor to permit the entrance of the large +Chicago boats. It was therefore necessary, each evening in summer, for +small steamboats to gather up the fruit from the farms along the lake +and to carry it to the nearest port for large steamers. It was +interesting to see the piles of berry crates loaded upon the steamer +from the docks extending out into the lake. At such times a crowd of +young people frequently arranged to go for a pleasant ride on Lake +Michigan, and a few times Bessie had gone. + +There was to be such an excursion on the occasion of which I wish to +speak, and the young people expected to attend a circus in a city close +to the haven to which they were going. Bessie wished very much to go. +She soon obtained her father's consent, but went to her mother with many +misgivings, for she knew that her mother never went to a circus and that +she had always spoken against her going at other times. + +Mrs. Worthington was very busy, but she always had time to advise her +daughter and to hear her requests. She listened carefully to every word +her daughter had to say, and then remained silent for a few minutes. At +length she said: "Bessie, there are many things to consider about your +going. You know how I love to have you go for a ride on the water when I +know you are in good company. I also love to have you attend places of +interest to you, when I know there's nothing to defile your mind or lead +you from the path of purity. But, Daughter, there are many things in the +world that look beautiful to the eye but tend to lead the soul astray. +Do you think Jesus would go to a circus? Do you think you could get any +good should you go? You have passed your tenth birthday. I think you're +old enough to take this matter to God in prayer and let him decide it +for you. Go and ask him to direct you to some passage of Scripture that +will open your understanding and help you to know what he wants you to +do." + +"Oh, mama," said Bessie, who had felt strange about the matter, "please +tell me yes or no, and I'll say no more about it." + +"No, Bessie; it will, in many ways, be better for you to do as I've +said," answered her mother tenderly but decisively. + +Very reluctantly Bessie left the room, and, taking her Bible, whispered +a prayer that she might open it to something that would help her to +decide. As she opened the book, her eyes fell upon these words: "Vanity +of vanities, saith the preacher, vanity of vanities; all is vanity." +Hurriedly she turned the pages, thinking that she might perhaps have +opened to that passage anyway. Next she read, "I said in mine heart, Go +to now, I will prove thee with mirth; therefore, enjoy pleasure: and +behold this also is vanity." Returning to her mother, she read the +words, but ended by saying, "I might have turned to that anyway." + +"Bessie," said Mrs. Worthington, "those words were written by the wisest +man the world has ever known, one who had the privilege of enjoying +every known pleasure under the sun. But when he had tried them all, he +sat down and wrote the words you have just read, and also said, 'All is +vanity and vexation of spirit.' Now you have my view of the subject, and +you have Solomon's; but if you are still in doubt, go and pray." + +Bessie was not satisfied. She slipped away the second time and fell upon +her knees. She cried, "O Lord, you once answered Gideon with a sign; now +please give me a sign and help me to know whether I should stay at home +or not. If you don't want me to go, make it rain." Though simple and +short, the prayer came from the heart. She was determined to know God's +will concerning her; and to such God never turns a deaf ear. + +The next morning she went to the door and looked at the sky. The day was +perfect. The sun was shining brightly, and a cool, gentle breeze was +blowing. Just one tiny cloud was in the sky, and that seemed to be +floating toward the sun. As she watched the cloud, she saw it gradually +increase in size, and at last down came the rain in great drops. Nothing +further was needed to convince Bessie that God wanted her to remain at +home; and now her staying was no longer a cross to her. + +She ran to her father and explained that God did not want her to go, +telling him about her prayer and its answer. Her childish words and +simple faith touched her father's proud heart, but all he said was, +"It's all right, Bessie; but you'll go down to the landing and say +good-by to your friends, won't you?" + +As she told the girls why she could not go with them and watched the +gay party leave the shore, she was not sad, but happy. She kept thinking +how kind the dear Lord had been to answer her prayer so wonderfully. +When bedtime came, she rested sweetly, having no wounded conscience to +trouble or accuse her. + +But how about the excursion party? They had an ideal trip on Lake +Michigan, attended the show, and started to return. The breeze that had +been so gently blowing through the day began to increase at sunset, and +by the late hour of their return it had become a gale. But not realizing +the fierceness of the storm, they started home. When they reached their +own harbor, they found that they could not enter with safety; so they +anchored the boat and spent the remainder of the night on the wildly +tossing waves. In the morning the wind gradually died away, and the +weary, seasick crowd made their way home. + +When Bessie learned of their serious experience, she appreciated more +than ever the Lord's goodness in leading her to stay at home. + + + + +CHAPTER IX. + + +SELF-CONTROL. + +Mrs. Worthington was greatly encouraged when she saw what a blessing her +little girl had received from what appeared to be a sore trial. She felt +that the time was opportune to plant the seed of self-control within the +young heart. In a little while she found an opportunity to begin. + +"Bessie," she began when ready for the talk, "I have some important +things to tell you today. I wish to speak of your future. There comes a +time in the life of every girl when she must change from childhood to +womanhood; she can not always remain a child. Until this time arrives, +she is very dependent and must lean entirely upon her parents' advice; +but as her mind begins to mature, she should be taught the necessity of +weighing matters well and of finding out God's will. + +"Until the present time all you have done has been at the suggestion of +your parents, but it will be different in the future. With your +teaching, you are able to look to God for a part of your direction. I +shall continue to advise, and, if necessary, to punish you; but I want +you to take things to the Lord in prayer and become satisfied within +your heart that my advice is according to the Word of God. You must not +think you haven't needed the teaching and the guidance you've had thus +far in life; and you'll need more careful training than you've ever had. +The point I want to impress upon your mind is that there's an element +within you, called self, that you must learn to control. At times self +will arise and cause you to feel that you know some things even better +than Mama. That is the time to remember that Mama has had more +experience than you; that her judgment is better than yours; and that +you must rely upon it until God helps you to see a matter as she sees +it. That was the way you gained the blessing from that experience a few +days ago. In this way you will learn the lessons that are so important +to your future. + +"There are many other things, my dear, that I want to talk to you about +soon, but you must be patient a little longer. In the meantime, however, +you may ask me any question you please, and I'll answer you. Don't go to +other girls with these things, but come to me. I'm always glad to +explain to you anything that seems strange. When you're old enough to +desire the knowledge and to form the questions, you're old enough to +receive an answer to your questions. Come to me often: what seems +strange to both of us we can take to God in prayer, and let him teach +us. + +"Another thing you must do is to turn away from bad associates. Avoid +girls who say, 'I'll tell you something if you'll promise not to tell +your mother.' Remember that anything you could not tell me would not be +worth hearing; for it's sure to be something unclean or vulgar. +Conversing with such girls won't help you to draw close to the Lord nor +to know his will concerning you. Much less would it help you to meditate +upon the pure and holy things of God. To elevate your soul, Bessie, you +must become serious, and seek only those companions whose conversation +is kind, gentle, and modest. I believe your desire is to become more +like Jesus and to prepare for heaven. So, my child, meditate upon God, +and you will grow in the grace and knowledge of Christ. Misspent moments +are so much of life and character thrown away; be careful to use them +all in God's service. + +"Here's a little poem you may learn. It may help you to control self and +to value your moments as you should." + + +MY MOMENTS. + +_Oh, my precious little moments, + Gliding now so swiftly by; +May I each one spend for Jesus + Ere I see them past me fly. + +May I lade each one with something + To be borne to God above, +Fill each full of deeds worth counting, + That will prove my perfect love. + +For I would not have them enter + Through those portals bright and fair +Bearing not a single token + For my Master waiting there. + +Golden moments, as you carry + Trophies on your upward flight, +Take my character to Jesus; + For I've kept it clean and white._ + + + + +CHAPTER X. + + +PARENTAL CONTROL. + +Mrs. Worthington was not only a prayerful mother, but a mother wise in +home government. Her wisdom, however, came from God. Many a time she +felt incapable of giving the advice her young daughter needed; but she +always remembered the scripture which reads, "If any of you lack wisdom, +let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth +not; and it shall be given." After she had spent a season in prayerful +meditation, God would supply the words and understanding. Thus she could +say with the apostle Paul, that her strength was made perfect in +weakness, because her dependence was in Christ. + +O mothers, let us learn that God, the Author of home and families, is +always interested in the quality and the training of the children. He +does not create to cast aside. Neither does anything come by chance. He +wills that each tender human plant be nourished and cherished until +well fitted to fill its place and calling in life. In childhood's +dependent days, the parents should be all to the children that they can +not be to themselves. It is not enough that your child be well fed and +clothed; its young mind must be guided into proper channels. What work +is more noble, more elevating than the teaching of the undeveloped mind? +Let not the duties of life nor the claims of society so press upon you +as to cause you to neglect your child's character or its education in +either temporal or spiritual matters. + +As Solomon says, "Take away the little foxes that destroy the vines." It +is the little things passed carelessly by that grow larger and larger, +and stronger and stronger, within the young heart until at last the +unsuspecting parents awake in alarm to behold their child in dreadful +bondage. Beware! Guard your child every moment it is under your care. +You can not go as companion to your child upon the street or to school, +but your influence may attend his every path through life. Do not be +discouraged should you hear him use a slang word, but take him at once +and tenderly tell him what slang phrases will lead to. Do not speak +harshly, but explain in the most loving manner possible. In this way you +will cultivate in him a distaste for impure language. A pure, refined +nature will be the result. Moreover, as that child realizes through your +faithful instruction, the true meaning of sin, he will make you his +confidant and will come to you rather than seek the counsel of younger +companions. Thus you will be able to control his mind and to instil +within his mind pure and upright desires. + +Within your home is the place to shine for God. There is no greater +field of labor. A Christian mother's influence among the young can not +be too highly valued. No one can fill your place in the hearts of your +children. Another can provide their temporal needs, but nobody can take +the place of Mother. No one else can enter into the daily trials as you +can. Nothing else can soothe the wounded feelings as well as a tender +embrace or a word from mother. Be liberal, dear mothers, with these +tokens of sympathy, so sweet to your child; and think not for one moment +that you are not fulfilling God's plan concerning you or that moments +thus spent are wasted. It is only a short time at best that we can be +blessed with the privilege of instructing our children. + + + + +CHAPTER XI. + + +CHRISTIAN EXPERIENCE. + +As Bessie grew older, Mrs. Worthington chose the twilight hour for +confidential talks with her daughter. Both looked forward to these times +with pleasure. Each evening after the daily duties were ended, Bessie +might be found sitting at her mother's feet. Here she related the many +happenings of the day and in turn received instruction and advice from +the one who held her confidence. Here the mother taught her child the +secret of true devotion. She instructed Bessie that prayer, good +reading, and meditation are the keys to use to unlock God's great +storehouse of blessings. She pointed to the Bible as a pattern by which +to fashion one's life, pointing out to her the many scriptures bearing +upon different subjects and telling her how every modest, earnest +Christian ought to dress and act in order to adorn the gospel of +Christ. She encircled the word "purity" with such a halo of glory that +she awakened within the heart of her child a determination ever to live +so pure a life that she would not only keep herself stainless but also +help others to that sacred and elevated plane. + +Upon one of these occasions, when Bessie was in her twelfth year, she +said: "Mama, why don't we go to the meetings that are being held at the +schoolhouse on Sunday? The girls have asked me several times, and I have +told them I didn't know. They have a minister from a distance, and he +has taken the names of all who want to join the church." + +"That is a deep subject, my child," said Mrs. Worthington. "I have often +wished to explain to you my reasons for not attending the public +services held in our neighborhood by the different denominations, but +have feared you were still too young to understand, for the matter seems +hard even for some older persons to comprehend. But I will tell you and +trust the Lord to make it plain. + +"My parents taught me that it was my duty to attend religious services +at least once a week. This I did, and professed to be a Christian until +I was a young woman. I knew that I loved the Lord and wanted to do +right, but found that I could not always do right in my own strength. I +was daily doing things that displeased the Lord. I became so troubled +about my condition that one day I went to the minister, and, telling him +how I felt, requested him to pray for me and to help me to get a real +Bible experience. In answer to my request, he only smiled and said, 'You +are too particular. You might as well try to split a hair as to try to +live a holy life in this world.' + +"As I returned home that day, I was very sad indeed. Oh, how much I +longed to be like Jesus, whom God had given me as an example! I knew the +Bible taught that if we expect to enter heaven we must live a pure and +holy life. I was determined to do this--but how was I to do it? To whom +could I go for help? Most of the church-members were so worldly-minded +they thought of little else than a good time, and the few spiritual ones +were afraid to tell how they felt, for fear of their minister's +displeasure. + +"At last I decided to seek from God and his Word what my soul was +longing for. As I sought, I began to see I had been deceived. I found +that as God looked upon mankind, he could see only two classes of +people--the righteous and sinners; and I saw that I was a sinner. + +"By reading the twelfth chapter of First Corinthians, I learned that +Christ's body is the church; that to become a member of the church my +name must be written in heaven; that every Christian in the world is my +brother or sister in Christ; the Lamb's book of life is the only +class-book in which our names need to be recorded; and that our names +are removed only because of our turning again to sin. To me these +thoughts were both new and marvelous. I saw that every saved person in +the different denominations is a Christian and a member of God's true +church, but I knew that such persons were unable to worship God aright +for fear of displeasing their ministers or of breaking some of the +church-rules. And when I read in 2 Cor. 6:14 that we are not to be +unequally yoked together with unbelievers, I felt that I must come out +and stand alone. This I promised God to do at any cost, and asked him to +give me a Bible experience. He answered my prayer; and I was so happy +that I walked the floor for a long time, clapping my hands and praising +God. + +"Because of the course I had taken many misunderstood me and thought I +was partially insane. Even your dear papa thinks so still, but I dare +not grieve God by going back. + +"I have had some dreams that have greatly encouraged me. The first was +given while I was wondering why I could not find any one who believed +the whole Bible. I seemed to be standing in a meeting-house; the service +was ended and nearly every one had gone home. I noticed a woman in great +distress. Going to her, I found that she had a very sore hand and that +she was alone, with no one to help her home through the darkness. With +her consent, I quickly picked her up in my arms and carried her safely +through a long, dark, narrow passage. As we passed along, I spoke words +of encouragement to her. Suddenly we came out into a large open field +carpeted with flowers, and there I laid her down, saying, 'How nicely we +have gotten along alone.' Then I awoke. + +"For some time I could not see the meaning of the dream. At last I +understood that the afflicted woman was I myself and that the Savior +wanted to carry me through the dark and dangerous way of life alone. + +"At another time I dreamed I was riding on a locomotive. Again I was +alone. The seat that I was sitting on was so small I had to be very +careful lest I be injured by the machinery around me. I didn't think of +danger while the train was in motion; but as it drew up at a certain +station, I began to consider my position. The thought came, 'What will +people think of me? They will certainly say I am stealing a ride.' I +remembered my ticket, and, placing my hand upon it, I felt satisfied. At +the next station I could see inside of the passenger coaches. I had a +good view of the passengers in one of the coaches, and I recognized the +prominent members of the denomination I had lately left. As they sat in +their cushioned seats, carelessly talking to one another, they all +seemed happy and contented. My own condition then arose before me, and I +felt lonely indeed and thought, 'I will step down from my little seat +and enter the coach with the rest.' I was just about to do this--even +had my hand upon the door knob--when I realized that I had left my +dress in the little seat, and again I awoke. + +"The dream seemed very plain in every way. My ticket was my experience +and title to heaven, and the dress left up in the tiny seat was the robe +of Christ's righteousness. While alone and contented, I was all right, +but to return to the denomination would mean to leave both robe and +title behind. + +"Still, God has given me some devoted Christian friends, who are willing +to live as the Bible directs, and with these I worship as you know, +dear, in our little weekly prayer-meetings. I trust that some day your +father will see and will understand me better, and that we can worship +God together. But I will be faithful even though I should be forced to +walk alone. + +"Now, dear, I trust you can see that the true church is Christ's body +and that every soul is a member as long as he continues to live a pure +and holy life. Whether he is a member of some sect or not, sin will cut +him off; and if he continues to profess as I did, he is a hypocrite in +God's sight. 'Come out from among them and be ye separate' is a command +that every Christian should obey." + + + + +CHAPTER XII. + + +THE BEAUTIFUL SECRET. + +The mother's talks about her own Christian experience enabled Bessie to +understand the beautiful secret of salvation--an influence that was to +beautify her character and to mold her whole subsequent career. Bessie's +developing mind was able to grasp firmly the golden thread of religious +truth, which, unraveling from the tangle of sectism, had guided her +faithful mother into the fulness of divine truth. + +Thus it was-- + + _In the gentle hush of evening, + When the sun sank in the west; + When the little bird was nestling + In its quiet, sheltered nest; + When the stars were brightly shining + From the lofty sky above, + Bessie learned the lovely secret + Of her Savior's perfect love._ + + _In the twilight's deep'ning shadows, + At her loving mother's feet, + Sat she often on a hassock, + Hearing words of counsel sweet. + Sacred season was this hour + To the twain in waiting there, + Each the burden of the other + Sought to know and ofttimes share. + + As the loving mother listened + To the record of the day, + To the questions of her daughter-- + Spoken oft in childish way, + She in tenderness instructed + With the wisdom of the Lord, + Gained by prayer and careful study + Of his precious, holy Word. + + There the character was strengthened; + Bessie's heart was made to feel + Greater love for her Creator, + For his work a deeper zeal. + And she saw God's plan for pardon, + To the feet of Jesus came, + And was able, like her mother, + Full salvation then to claim._ + + _Ah! fond mother, learn the secret + That will win thy children dear; + Draw them gently to thy bosom, + Ever seek their hearts to cheer. + From thy home exclude all worry, + Fretful cares, and sad'ning gloom; + But God's sunshine bid a welcome, + Let it shine in ev'ry room_. + + _As a spring within a desert, + Thou mayst water each plant small; + But the plant itself must blossom-- + Thou canst tend it, that is all. + Tiny human plants will flourish + In an atmosphere like this, + And will yield good, fruitful blossoms + That will bring true happiness_. + + _Children always thirst for knowledge, + And ere long 'tis surely gained; + If not from a faithful mother, + 'Tis from evil source obtained. + Blameless never is the mother + Who will not the trouble take + To instruct her precious children, + Close companions of them make_. + + _Like a florist wise and zealous, + Guard thou well each blossom fair, + Lest the perfume and the sweetness + Vanish for the lack of care. + Choose thou then some place at even + When the daily toils are done, + Where life's many cares and blessings + May be numbered one by one. + + God will give thee wisdom, mother, + To supply thine ev'ry need, + As thou givest wholesome knowledge, + When the childish voices plead. + Their young minds, so pure, unfolding, + Will reveal the secret fair + That will prove how great the value + Of a mother's love and pray'r._ + + + + +CHAPTER XIII. + + +BLESSING AND TRIAL. + +Now that Bessie had learned the secret of a Christian life, she longed +to see others enjoying the love of God. She felt the greatest burden for +her father. Oh, if she could see him enjoying salvation! She often +poured out her desire in prayer, with childlike trust and confidence. +God heard her prayers. + +One morning as she was passing the barn on her way to school, she heard +some strange sounds. Peering through a window, she beheld a sight that +made her wonder if she saw aright. There stood her beloved father, great +tears streaming from his eyes, his countenance beaming with heavenly +peace and joy, and praises to God pouring from his lips. What did it +mean? In a weak voice she said, "Papa dear, what is the matter!" + +Turning he exclaimed: "Oh, Bessie, God has saved me! I am so happy! Run +quick and tell your mother!" Bessie ran to the house to tell the glad +news, but her father was there nearly as soon, saying, "Oh, I'm saved! +You're right, wife. I know now that you're right, and I see things just +as you do! I'm so happy and feel so different. Oh, help me to praise the +dear Lord." + +Let us leave them in their happiness and follow Bessie to school. Her +father's words rang as sweet music in her ears. How good the dear Lord +was to answer her in her father's behalf! She felt that no good thing +would be withheld from them that walk uprightly. But Bessie was soon to +meet a severe and unexpected trial. + +Her mother had made her a school-dress. Though neat and pretty, it was +of a material commonly used for men's shirts. Bessie knew this, but +thought nothing of it until some of her schoolmates gathered round her +at recess and said, "O girls, Bessie has a new dress like her father's +shirt." Another said, "Perhaps it is his shirt." The remarks were +certainly unkind, and Bessie felt them keenly; but she laughed and said, +"Yes; I know it." Nothing more was said. But oh, that dress! How she +disliked to wear it! At times she could hardly start to school with it +on; but then she would think, "I know Mama thought it was pretty when +she got it for me; and I thought it was nice until the girls made those +remarks. I will try to like it for Mama's sake." + +With such thoughts in her mind she returned home from school one +evening. When she reached the house, she saw that no one was at home; +but, knowing where the key was kept, she easily gained admittance. +Finding herself alone in the house, she thought: "Now is the time to +learn to like my dress, and I'm going to do it. Mother shall not know +how I have felt about it." She hastened into the parlor and stood before +a large mirror. + +Now, Bessie knew that she did not have a pretty face, and she had gained +the victory over that; but she did want to feel that her clothes looked +well on her, and that was the battle she meant to fight that evening. As +she slowly turned from side to side viewing herself intently, she liked +the dress better and better. At last she thought it very pretty and +becoming, and she knelt down and thanked God for giving it to her. As +she changed it for her work-dress, she wondered why she had allowed the +children's remarks to affect her so much and had not appreciated the +dress more. No more remarks were ever made about the dress, and Bessie +continued to admire it until it was worn out. No one but herself and the +Lord knew of the struggle through which she passed. + +Through the trial concerning the dress, Bessie learned several valuable +lessons: first, the less notice one takes of unkindness, the better; +second, God's grace can keep in time of temptation; third, one should +not murmur because of persecution; and, last, and best of all, God +usually gives his children some great blessing before a severe trial, +and the close relationship between the two makes them almost one in +effect. She could now say with real appreciation: + + _A little trial often tries, + But proves a blessing in disguise. + Just as the rough rock holds the gem, + The trial holds my diadem_. + +But a still greater trial was awaiting her. Bessie had a thirst for +knowledge. She was doing well in school and wanted to do better. Instead +of taking exercise during the daily intermissions, she often spent them +in hard study. Her system, naturally frail, could not stand the strain. +She contracted a fever and for three months despaired of life. In the +third month dropsy of the chest set in; and, on account of smothering +spells, she had to be bolstered up in bed with pillows. + +One day as Mrs. Worthington stood beside her child she felt that God +wanted to heal her. Kneeling beside the bed, she prayed, "Dear Lord, +heal my child, and grant that she may be spared to work for thee." From +that time Bessie began to improve. She had no more smothering spells, +and before long she was well and strong. + +Bessie found a blessing even in this trial. She saw that, had she been +able to push ahead as she had desired, she might have lost sight of +Jesus, and she now understood that her Savior cared for her body as well +as for her soul. + + + + +CHAPTER XIV. + + +THE SURPRISE PARTY. + +As soon as Bessie was strong enough to go out, she was invited to stay +all night with a friend. She supposed she was to be the only guest, but +found that a surprise had been planned for her. A goodly number of her +friends and schoolmates were present. + +The young folks spent a few hours very pleasantly in playing games, and +Bessie enjoyed that part of the evening very much. But late in the +evening some one proposed dancing, and the boys began to choose their +partners. A very strange feeling came over Bessie when some one asked +her to dance. She shook her head and said, "No; I do not know how to +dance." Several urged her to try, but she said, "No; I would rather +not." + +She was the only one that did not dance. As she sat watching the others, +she wondered if it were right for boys and girls to act as these were +acting. She had never heard that it is wrong to dance, but it did not +look or seem right to her. She decided that on reaching home she would +ask her mother. + +When Bessie got home the next morning, her mother asked, "Well, dear, +did you have a good time?" + +"Oh, yes," answered Bessie; "most of the time I did." Then she told +about the surprise party and about all that had happened, and concluded +by asking, "Mama, is it right to dance?" + +"I have been thinking for a long time, Bessie, that I ought to have a +talk with you about dancing and tell you of some of the evils to which +it leads," answered her mother. "Dancing is an amusement that many girls +consider very attractive. When asked why they think so, they hardly know +what to answer, but generally speak of the music and the graceful +motions." + +"Oh, Mama, the motions they made at the party last night were anything +but graceful. I know you wouldn't have allowed me to do as they did, +and I don't want to. It wasn't modest. I never want to go to a dance +again." + +"I'm so glad, Bessie, you feel as you do about dancing; but, dear, to +those who learn, there is something very fascinating about it. Some +girls have said they would rather dance than eat; and, with a great +many, I believe it is true. + +"Men of low character and of evil inclinations regard the dance-hall as +a favorable place to betray unsuspecting girls and frequent it for that +very purpose. Their victims are usually the sweetest and most trusting +girls. Their beauty attracts undesirable attention, and their ignorance +makes them an easy prey. O Bessie, there are so many unprincipled men in +the world who love to win and betray the confidence of young innocent +girls. + +"Philosophers tell us that 'perfect happiness comes only from a pleasure +attractive to our moral nature in its purity and perfection. If we +delight in pleasures of the other sort, our moral natures are degraded.' + +"You have noticed the immodest positions taken by those who dance, and +you feel a deep sense of shame for them. Should you try to partake of +their pleasure, your moral nature would be degraded, and you would in +time lose that sense of shame and be as eager for the pleasure as any of +the others. Thus yielding, one step at a time, you would cease to look +upon the dance as immodest and would find real enjoyment in it, and +perhaps would be led into greater sin. It is in this way that many girls +lose their virtue. Then they are shunned by their old associates, who +are really but a step higher in morality. Forsaken by friends, hopeless +as to their future, deserted even by those who wrought their downfall, +these poor girls sink lower and lower, and lead lives of shame and +misery. + +"No spiritual-minded person will take part in worldly amusements, for he +can not enjoy them. Christians who indulge in dancing turn away from +God and seek fellowship with the world. Such are sure to lose the grace +of God from their hearts." + + + + +CHAPTER XV. + + +LEROY'S HEALING. + +Bessie's little brother, Leroy, now past five years of age, was far from +being rugged. Though he had a full, round face and a large head, his +body was emaciated and did not develop properly. He could go only a few +steps without falling. He had fainting spells, which gradually increased +in frequency and duration. + +Many times as Mrs. Worthington looked at her poor little boy, she lifted +her heart to God in earnest prayer to know his will concerning the +child. Many friends remarked that she would never be able to bring him +up; but she knew that, if for the best, God could heal the child and +give him right development. + +At last his illness became very serious. One night his head was burning +with fever, while his body was cold and clammy. It seemed but a question +of time until he would pass away. + +As Mrs. Worthington looked at her child, she remembered the words, +"Man's extremity is God's opportunity," and "The prayer of faith shall +save the sick." She wondered why God had brought them to her mind. She +began to ask herself: "Do I believe that God can heal that child? If it +is God's will to take him, can I submit?" To the first question she +answered, "Yes; God made him," and to the second, "Thy will be done, O +God." Then she breathed an earnest prayer for his healing. The sweet +assurance came that her prayer was answered; that the child would grow +well and strong. She felt that she could lie down by his side and trust +him in the hands of the One who gave him. + +She placed a wet cloth on his head, lay down by his side, and knew no +more until the next morning. Both slept soundly. When she awoke, she +saw that the child was breathing naturally and that the fever was +entirely gone. Then she fully realized that God had healed him. With a +grateful heart she thanked the Lord for his tender love. It was indeed +true that Leroy was well. About ten o'clock his mother carried him to +the lake and, having Bessie to row the boat, gave him a pleasant +boat-ride. The fever never returned; his head stopped growing; and he +became a strong, healthy boy. The friends who had thought that he would +surely die said they could not understand the change that had taken +place, but Mrs. Worthington understood, and gave God all the praise. + + + + +CHAPTER XVI. + + +EXPLAINING THE DIVINE LIFE. + +After Bessie's conversion Mrs. Worthington's talks to her were often on +the subject of the divine life within--how to care for it and nourish +it, so that it might not die nor become blighted. She sometimes compared +the young Christian's experience to that of a new-born babe. "You know," +said she, "the little one must be carefully fed, and tenderly guarded +against everything harmful. Even a slight breeze blowing upon its little +body, if unprotected, might result in death. But as the child grows +older and stronger, it gradually becomes accustomed to the rude elements +about it and can, with comparative safety, be brought in contact with +them. The Christ life, new-born in the human heart, is just as sensitive +and needs the same tender care. Guard it carefully, Bessie. It must be +constantly nourished by prayer and the Word of God. Seek to become +established by the grace of sanctification; then you will be better +able to meet temptation and persecution. Christ is your shepherd, and he +wants to lead you, his lamb, into green pastures and beside still +waters. + +"A person may profess to be a Christian, Bessie; but unless he has a +change of heart and affections, he is what the Bible terms a wolf in +sheep's clothing, and not one of the gentle lambs of the Savior's fold. +The profession does not amount to anything when the heart is full of +envy, hatred, jealousy, love of self, and a drawing toward the world. A +person with a profession only, may appear for a time to be quite +lamb-like; but sooner or later the old nature will manifest itself, for +it can not be hidden long." + +"I think, Mama," said Bessie, "I understand you--but you spoke of the +experience of sanctification; please tell me what that means." + +As briefly as possible, the mother explained that the second cleansing +of the heart takes away that evil nature which causes man to want to +disobey God. + +Not long after this talk Bessie had an experience in school that helped +her to comprehend her mother's words. To be put back in her studies was +hard, but to have to give up her old teacher, to whom she was strongly +attached, was harder still. Her regret on the latter account, however, +was of short duration; for her new teacher was even more lovable than +the old one, and, best of all, she was a Christian. She and Bessie not +only got along well, but became warm friends and enjoyed sweet +fellowship in the Spirit. One day, however, something happened that +severely tested their love, but, in the end, only deepened it. + +Bessie's seatmate, a girl named Nora, about Bessie's own age, was very +mischievous. She did so many things deserving punishment that the +teacher was often perplexed to know what course to take with her. Some +one has said that "misery likes company." This was certainly true of +Nora. She knew that the teacher and Bessie were good friends, and she +longed to see Bessie get into trouble and receive some punishment. +Knowing that Bessie tried hard to obey the rules of the school, Nora saw +that she should have to lay some cunning plan or she should not realize +her wish. She began to watch for an opportunity. + +A streamlet ran past the schoolhouse. While Bessie and Nora were playing +near it one day, Bessie fell down in some mud. Just as she fell, the +school-bell rang and they had to hurry back to their lessons. Fearing +that some of the mud might have splattered on her face, Bessie asked if +her face was clean. Nora answered quickly, "Oh yes; do hurry up." Nora +felt that her chance had come, and she made up her mind to get her +seatmate into trouble, if possible. Hurrying into the schoolroom, she +whispered to one of the boys, telling him to ask Bessie as she passed +what was the matter with her face, but to say nothing more. When Bessie +came down the aisle, she saw this boy looking at her with an amused +expression, and gave him close attention. As she passed him, he +whispered, "Bessie, what is the matter with your face?" and then turned +quickly away. Fully convinced that her face was dirty, Bessie sat down +very much ashamed. Nora knew how her seatmate would feel and prepared +herself for the question that she was sure would be asked. As it was +time for the writing-lesson, she stuck her finger in inks of different +colors; and, when Bessie asked where her face was dirty, she quickly +pointed out the places, each time leaving a large spot of ink. Bessie, +wholly unconscious of the ink-spots on her face, thought what a dreadful +sight she must be, and asked permission of the teacher to wash. When the +teacher turned, she saw, not mud, but ugly ink-spots. Supposing that +Bessie had put them there, she shook her head. Her surprise was great. +She felt that she ought to do something about it; but, being undecided, +she turned away. + +Bessie became much worried; for many eyes were turned upon her, and some +of the pupils were laughing. She wanted to hide, but could not, and kept +wondering why a little mud should cause so much amusement. One girl, +Anna, tried secretly to pass her a wet handkerchief, but this Nora +quickly caught from her and hid. Poor Bessie was now ready to cry, and +again asked permission to wash her face; but her teacher answered, "No; +you must go to writing." + +Bessie naturally had a high temper and was inclined to be stubborn when +she felt that she was being imposed upon; but she had always held her +temper in subjection, as she knew it to be wrong to give way to anger. +On this occasion, however, it seemed impossible to control herself. When +the teacher said, "Go to writing," Bessie obeyed; but she was so angry +that she hardly knew what she was doing. Suddenly she thought, "If I +daub a lot of ink on my face, perhaps she will let me wash"; and she +rubbed some on with her finger. But alas! this did not work as she had +expected. The teacher saw her put it on and concluded that she had put +the other on also; so she said, "Bessie, you may go and sit in my +chair." As she said this, all the stubbornness in Bessie's nature arose. +She did not move; and when the teacher said sternly, "Are you going to +obey?" she shook her head and caught hold of the seat. At this moment +Nora whispered, "If that were me, she'd make me go." The teacher heard +the words and looked first at Nora and then at Bessie. She hesitated for +a moment, then walked over to Bessie, took her by the shoulders and +jerked her from the seat, and then dragged her up to the chair and set +her down, telling her to study. "I have no book," retorted Bessie. The +teacher ordered one brought, and, leaving her, went to her other duties. + +What a moment for Bessie! Too angry to study, she sat there thinking of +the dreadful scene she had created. Her heart burned with shame. Oh! +what could she do? + +Anna, the girl who had tried to hand her the wet handkerchief, had +noticed all of Nora's actions and had determined to help Bessie, if +possible. On pretext of looking up a word in the dictionary, Anna went +forward, laid a wet rag where Bessie could reach it, and returned to her +seat. Bessie eagerly took the rag and rubbed her face. She was surprised +to see the different colors of ink appear upon it. How they came to be +there she did not know; but she did not think about them long, for +something far worse began to trouble her. She knew that she had lost the +grace of God out of her heart. Oh, how wretched she felt! Would God +forgive her again? Yes; she knew he would; for she had read that, "The +Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart, and saveth such as be +of a contrite spirit." This thought was a great comfort to her. But, oh! +what about her teacher? How could her teacher ever love and respect her +again? She would ask her pardon as soon as possible, but would she +forgive her? + +It was not long until the teacher went to her desk for something, but +she took no notice of Bessie. Beaching out very timidly, Bessie touched +her and said, "O Miss Harrington, won't you please forgive me?" But the +teacher pretended not to hear her, and turned quickly away. The next +thought was, "What will Mama think and say? Oh, if only she did not have +to know about it!" With these thoughts coursing through her mind, Bessie +was unable to study; and by the time school closed, she was in great +distress. + +After closing the school, the teacher paid no attention to Bessie for +some time; but when she had finished her evening duties and all the +pupils except Nora, Anna, and Bessie had left the building, she turned +to Bessie, fell upon her knees, and threw both arms around her. Bessie +sobbed, "Oh, please forgive me! please forgive me!" For some time the +teacher made no reply, and Nora muttered, "Catch me asking her +forgiveness!" At last the teacher, looking up through tearful eyes, +said, "Bessie dear, it is you who must forgive me. I should have been a +better example to you this afternoon. Let us pray." Then two sad hearts +were lifted to God in humble, earnest prayer that he would forgive them +for Jesus' sake. God heard their prayers, gave back the sweet peace that +they had lost out of their souls, and bound their hearts together in +Christian love and fellowship. + +Nora went her way, provoked with her seatmate and angry because the joke +had not worked quite as she had expected. Anna, slipping her arm through +Bessie's walked home with her and told her all that Nora had done. +Bessie was surprised. She understood why things had taken the course +they had; but, knowing it was really Satan, who had been trying to +overthrow her own soul, she did not censure her seatmate. + +Her only thought now was of how sad her mother would feel. Bessie +decided that the occurrence was too dreadful to tell her about and that +she would keep it a secret. This was her decision until she saw her +mother coming down the walk to meet her. Having always told her mother +everything, Bessie did not know how it would seem to keep a secret from +her; so when they met, she forgot all about her decision and began at +once to tell her mother all that had happened. + +Mrs. Worthington listened very carefully to Bessie's story and then +said: "Bessie, I am so glad you have told me all this yourself, and have +held nothing back nor blamed Nora. God will take care of the matter, and +I believe that your lesson is a lasting one. And now, my child; you can +see your great need of sanctification. Had that ugliness and +stubbornness been taken out of your heart, you would have been spared +much suffering. I trust that you will earnestly seek and obtain this +grace." + +It was well that Bessie told her mother everything, for Nora did all in +her power to circulate the story and to make it as bad as possible. +Nora's mother, thinking it best to tell Mrs. Worthington about Bessie's +misbehavior, made a special call at the Worthington home for that +purpose. Bessie's mother listened to what her neighbor's story was and +then smilingly replied, "Yes, I know all about it; Bessie told me before +she reached home. I am so glad that I have the confidence of my child. +We are companions; I love her company, and she loves mine." These words +sounded strange to the visitor. She could not understand. "It seems +strange," said she, "that Bessie loves to stay at home and to be with +you so much. Doesn't she ever get lonesome? Nora is restless and tired +when she has to stay at home, and says I am too old for her." + +Ah! here was the secret of the difference between the two girls. One +mother had allowed her daughter to choose her own company and had not +inquired into their plays and talks; whereas the other knew the secrets +of her child's heart and could advise and instruct her in any matter. +Between Bessie and her mother there was a tie of which Nora and her +mother knew nothing. "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when +he is old he will not depart from it." Prov. 22:6. + + + + +CHAPTER XVII. + + +TEMPTATIONS. + +At Christmas time Bessie received the following letter from one of her +friends: + + Dear Bessie: + + I have long wondered what to send you as a Christmas gift, + and it seemed a hard problem to solve. I fear you will + wonder at what I am sending; but, knowing that you are + nearly thirteen years old and must be growing very fast, I + have decided to send you a corset. I hope you will like and + appreciate it enough to wear it. + + Lovingly your friend, + + Lizzie. + +On receiving the package, Bessie looked at the corset and said, "Mama, +shall I wear it?" + +Mrs. Worthington looked anxiously at her daughter; for she knew that +Bessie would have strong temptations along this line, as she did not +have a pretty form, and was growing rapidly. She had hoped, however, +that the subject would not be mentioned for some time. Silently she +breathed a little prayer for wisdom to answer the question, and then +said: + +"Bessie, God used great wisdom in forming your body. He knew just what +shape it would have to be in order to perform its natural functions. Do +you think it would be proper to try to change it? Do you wonder why +something snug around your waist could be harmful? Listen, dear, and I +will tell you. Let us take the corset and examine it. It certainly looks +very innocent and pretty, but just see how stiff it is. These steel ribs +and this whalebone make it more like a piece of harness than anything +else I can think of. When worn about the waist, it produces pressure +upon the vital organs and thus deforms the body. These long strings at +the back are often drawn so tightly as to cause the misplacement and +derangement of those organs whose functions are most necessary to health +and happiness. As a consequence, many a woman has to suffer long years +of torture. + +"Many women say they don't wear the corset tight, and think, therefore, +that no harm results; but, let one of them put a snug-fitting bandage on +any other part of the body, and she will see how quickly the muscles of +that part will weaken and decrease in size. Should a young woman who has +never worn a corset attempt to wear one about her waist as loosely as +they are ever worn, she would, if honest with herself, cast it aside as +an abominable thing. + +"The reason why Lizzie wants you to begin wearing a corset while you're +young is that, if you'll bind your waist before you've reached your full +growth, your waist will never attain the size it would have attained +under natural conditions. In other words, you would be deformed." + +"I don't think I shall ever wear it, Mama, if that's the effect it has +upon the body. If God takes such particular care of us that he numbers +our very hairs, he must be very much grieved to see any one put a corset +about her waist." + +"I'm glad for your decision, my child, but you'll soon meet greater +temptations. Some mothers don't think it worth while to warn their girls +of the dangers that threaten them in regard to love and marriage; but I +want to see you, Bessie, fully prepared, so that you may safely pass +this dangerous period. + +"Most girls at your age have some strange idea regarding love. In the +schoolroom, perhaps, a girl notices some particular boy who has a +winning way. At first she simply thinks he is nice; is glad to see him +promoted, receive honor, etc. Gradually her mind becomes filled with +queries concerning his opinion of her. She dares not own that she loves +to appear well in his eyes, but it is true nevertheless. During his +absence she misses him, and upon his return her heart beats with +emotion. If he pays her little attentions, she dwells upon them until +she becomes eager for them. Her playmates notice a change in her, for +she can no longer hide her feelings. She blushes when mention is made +of her preference for him. The couple seek to be together as much as +possible, and are soon meeting together secretly. When reproved, they +may promise not to let the thing happen again, only to repeat it in a +short time. The secrecy of these meetings make them more enjoyable, and +their length and frequency are unconsciously increased. + +"Satan, who is never asleep upon such occasions, makes reproof his +companion to push them forward. Friendly warnings are unheeded; and if +force be used to prevent the meetings, the couple may think of eloping. +They may not have thought of marriage until this time; but when the girl +realizes what she has done, she consents to the hasty marriage. Such +marriages, Bessie, seldom result happily. + +"The place to stop was at the beginning. She should have gained control +of her wandering affections. Young girls who lavish their love upon boys +of their own age or older lose relish for other things, and their minds +become dwarfed and weakened by being taxed with thoughts that are not +fit for them to consider at so early an age. + +"It is all right to form in your mind an ideal for your affections, if +you don't have in mind some particular person; but your common sense +should be your guide. Two rowboats passing each other upon the water are +all right as long as they are far enough apart; but let these boats +drift or be guided too close together, and there is great danger of a +collision. Your affections are to you what the rudder is to the boat, +and reason is your pilot. They will guide you aright if you will let +them." + +"Mama," said Bessie, "there's a girl in our school, only a few months +older than I, that says she is to be married in a short time. The man +she's to marry is nearly twice as old as she is, too. We told her that +she ought to wait until she wore long dresses before she talked about +getting married. Don't you think that is dreadful?" + +"Yes, dear, it is. No girl should ever be married while she is so +young." + + + + +CHAPTER XVIII. + + +ANSWERS TO PRAYER. + +During the summer Bessie's cousin John and a boy friend came to visit +her. They spent many pleasant hours on the lake. One day while they were +about two miles from home, a fierce storm arose. They noticed the sky +growing dark and tried very hard to reach home; but, when still some +distance from the shore, they could see that instead of making any +headway they were drifting before the wind. + +It was a serious moment. As the great waves dashed up over them, each +adding to the amount of water in the boat, Bessie looked first at her +cousin toiling away at the oars, the great drops of perspiration +coursing down his face, then at their friend nearly wild with terror, +and then at the western sky. "John," said she to her cousin, "I believe +that's rain coming toward us." Until then the boy, who was a little +older than Bessie, had been brave; but as he turned to look, his face +blanched with terror, and he said, "Bessie, if that is rain, it will +certainly sink our boat; for, see, it is nearly half full of water now." + +The situation was certainly critical, but Bessie felt that it was not +the time to despair. She remembered that in olden times Jesus had calmed +the sea. Believing that he could still do the same, she prayed for help +from heaven. Then, encouraging her cousin to do his best, she, assisted +by their friend, began to bale out the water as rapidly as they could. +In a few moments the great drops of rain were dashing down upon them. +Without speaking, all kept at their work for what seemed to them an +hour, but which was really but a short time. Suddenly it ceased raining; +and, looking about them, they saw that the lake was perfectly +quiet--not a ripple could be seen. With trembling voice Bessie said, +"John, God must have sent the rain to quiet the water, for I asked him +to help us." It was a very wet but thankful crowd that reached home that +night. + +In the spring that Bessie was fourteen years old, her father sold the +beautiful home where she had spent so many happy days, and bought a +tract of land in a dense wood farther up the lake. On account of the +dense forest, the place appeared very dismal. As the purchaser of their +old home wanted possession as soon as possible, Mr. Worthington had time +to build only a barn before removing his family. In this building they +lived during the first summer. Though these circumstances were +discouraging, the Worthingtons tried hard to be brave. By fall a house +was ready for them. + +Many good things were lacking in this new forest home; but God knew +this, and he put it into the hearts of friends and neighbors to supply +the family with fruit and vegetables and also chickens. So generously +were these supplied that there was no lack. + +During the winter following much wood was cut, hauled, and piled out +along the roadside in front of the house; but still there was standing +timber nearly everywhere one might look, and to the south and west it +extended for many miles. + +The next summer Bessie learned how dangerous an enemy a large forest +could become. There was so little rain during the hot months that things +became dry and brittle. One day she heard the cry of "Fire! Fire!" +Looking away to the southwest, she beheld a sight that made her feel +faint with fear. The woods were ablaze, and the fire was coming directly +toward her home. + +Her father came to her, explained their danger, told her to warn her +mother and then to do all she could to put out any sparks that might +fall around the woodpiles, house, or barn. This said, he hastened to +join the men in their desperate battle with the fire. When Bessie +entered the house, she saw her mother weeping over her little baby, who +had been born during the winter months and who had known nothing but +sickness and suffering. When Mrs. Worthington heard the news, she +continued to weep, and said, "Well, dear, do all you can to put out the +sparks; for I think your little brother is dying, and I can not leave +him." + +By much hard work, the fire was held in check until evening. Bessie made +her rounds with a pail of water and a dipper until her eyes became so +painful on account of the smoke and heat that she was forced to lie down +on the ground until they quit hurting. As soon as possible, however, she +returned to her task, informing her mother frequently of the progress of +the fire. + +At last word came that nothing more could be done; that the house could +not be saved. Seeing that further effort was useless and that each +moment increased the danger of their own lives, the men left off +fighting the fire, in order to save themselves and to help, if possible, +the Worthington family. They soon reached the house. The next question +was, where to go. The lake seemed to be the nearest place of safety. +Confusion was everywhere, but through it all Mrs. Worthington sat +quietly holding her dying baby. + +"O Mama," said Bessie, "aren't you going with the rest?" + +"No," answered her mother positively; "I shall remain right here with my +dying child. I can not move him now and add to his suffering. I know +that God can take care of me here as well as anywhere else. Why, Bessie, +where is your faith? God can yet send rain and put out the fire." + +"Oh! but if God doesn't send rain, you will burn up; for the fire is +almost here," cried Bessie. "Do come as far from the house as you can, +won't you?" + +"No, Bessie, I told you, no. I shall sit just where I am," answered Mrs. +Worthington; and Bessie knew that it would be useless to press the +matter further. + +With throbbing heart Bessie ran to her room, which was already getting +hot from the fire: she fell upon her knees by the window where she could +see the flames leaping from tree to tree, and began to call mightily +upon God. "O God!" she prayed, "do send rain or change the wind." After +repeating this prayer several times, she noticed some large drops of +water upon the window pane. She knew what it meant: once before God had +sent rain to help her in time of danger. Hastening down stairs, she +said, "Mama, it's raining." "Thank God!" said Mrs. Worthington, "I knew +he wouldn't let baby and me burn up." + +By that time the rain was pouring down; the wind had ceased; and the +danger was over. The rain did not put out the fire, but so checked it +that, by hard work, it could be kept under control until it died out. + +Little Clement lived only a short time after the fire; but just before +he died, he looked into his weeping mother's face and smiled three +times. As he had never smiled before, Mrs. Worthington always thought +that God took that way to encourage her heart. + + + + +CHAPTER XIX. + + +LOST IN THE WOODS. + +As Leroy was too young to drive the cows home in the evening, Bessie +enjoyed many a long walk in search of them. One evening she had some +difficulty in finding them. It was one of those evenings when everything +is quiet and sound travels a long distance. After listening carefully +for the tinkling of the cow-bells, Bessie was bewildered, for she could +seemingly hear them in every direction. At last, thinking she had +located the sound, she set out in that direction. When she had walked +about two miles, she stopped to listen again. The bells were still +tinkling, but they seemed to be just as far away. She knew, though, that +the cows sometimes went a long distance. She had been following the +road, but thinking the sound came from the woods, she started off in +that direction. She saw that the sun was just going down behind the +trees; that she was on an unfamiliar path, and was getting farther and +farther from home. But she must get the cows, and on she went, stopping +now and then to locate the sound of the bells. + +She suddenly found herself standing upon a point of land where a deep, +wide ravine extended on either side. The distance across the ravine she +could not see on account of the shadow and the trees. What should she +do? A few minutes previously she had thought about its being late, but +had hoped to find the cows and to make them guide her home. This hope +failing, she did not know what to do. The bells were still tinkling +ahead of her; but she did not dare to try to cross the ravine in the +darkness, now fast gathering around her, and how could she return +through those dense woods! She thought of calling for help, but as +quickly realized how useless the effort would be, since there were no +houses near. + +As she stood wondering what to do, these words from a psalm she had +committed to memory a short time before, came to her mind: "If I say, +Surely the darkness shall cover me; even the night shall be light about +me. Yea, the darkness hideth not from thee; but the night shineth as the +day; the darkness and the light are both alike to thee." Two more +precious promises came to her mind: "I will guide thee with mine eye" +and "He leadeth me beside still waters." Oh, what encouragement those +words were to Bessie! Surely God would guide her home. With a thankful +heart, Bessie started to return. As she had passed through several +clearings in her search for the cows, she had no little difficulty in +finding her way; but the moon rose early and gave her considerable +light, and as she neared home, she began to recognize some familiar +objects. + +But, in the meantime, how were her parents feeling? The cows returned +early and were milked. Mrs. Worthington wondered why Bessie did not come +with them, but thought she might have been delayed and would come soon. +She prepared supper; but when she got it ready, Bessie was still absent. + +"What can be keeping Bessie tonight?" Mrs. Worthington said anxiously to +her husband. "She should have come home an hour ago." + +"Oh, I suppose she has stopped somewhere to play," said Mr. Worthington +carelessly. + +"No; I don't think so," replied his wife. "Bessie always tries to be +prompt, and I'm afraid something has happened. If she doesn't come soon, +you had better go to look for her." + +"Well, wait until dark," said Mr. Worthington; "and, if she isn't here +then, I'll get some men and we'll search in different directions. Did +you notice which way she went!" + +"No," answered his wife, "but I think she went east." + +At dark Mr. Worthington started out with the searching party. Mrs. +Worthington tried not to worry; but when nine o'clock passed and +half-past nine came, she felt a great anxiety creeping into her heart. +Many times she offered an earnest prayer for Bessie's protection. After +putting Leroy to bed she stationed herself in front of the house to +watch. + +About ten o'clock some one returned to say that he could find no trace +of Bessie. + +With straining eyes, Mrs. Worthington looked in the direction in which +Bessie had gone, and at last thought that she could see some one +approaching. As the figure drew nearer, she could see that it was her +child, and with a glad cry ran to meet her. "O Bessie," cried the +mother, "what has happened to detain you? Your father and a company of +men are out searching the woods for you. Dear child, where have you +been?" + +Bessie was very tired and hungry; but she related all that had happened +and said: "I'm sorry I couldn't go farther; for I believe the cows were +just a short distance beyond the point where I turned back. But I did +not dare to cross the swampy place and go into the woods on the other +side." + +"Why, the cows have been home a long, long time, Bessie; and that is +what had made your delay seem so strange," said her mother. "But were +you not afraid, dear, when you found that you were so far from home!" + +Bessie explained how she had felt and how the Lord had encouraged her +and helped her to be brave. + +"What time was that?" asked her mother; and when she learned, she said, +"Bessie, that was when I was so earnestly praying for you. Surely our +God is a mighty God and one who is ever faithful." + +When the searching party returned, they were all glad to know that +Bessie was safe at home. + + + + +CHAPTER XX. + + +NOVEL-READING. + +As Bessie approached her sixteenth year, Mrs. Worthington became very +anxious about her. The mother thought that she could notice a change in +her daughter's actions and disposition. Instead of being confiding and +happy, she seemed listless, forgetful, and nervous. At first the mother +could not understand this change; but by close observation she found +that her daughter was indulging in light reading. + +Some magazines and weekly papers containing continued love-stories had +found their way into the Worthington home. At first they were not +attractive to Bessie. She would merely glance through the pages; but she +gradually came to overlook the good, substantial reading and to enjoy +the part that stimulated the romantic and imaginative part of her +nature. The effect upon her mental and moral powers was much the same +as that produced upon the digestive organs by rich and stimulating +foods. Her mind was thus weakened and robbed of its relish for wholesome +reading. She was ever looking forward for something to excite or satisfy +her abnormal desire for the romantic or the dreadful. + +As soon as Mrs. Worthington realized her daughter's danger, she sought +an opportunity to instruct her on the dangers of novel-reading. "Some +effects of novel-reading," said she, "are worse even than those produced +by dancing. Many novels are hurtful because of the many false ideas +interwoven in the stories. Some novels attract the pure-minded by their +morality; but it is unsafe to read them, for the reason I have already +given you, and because, as with any bad habit, the exciting influences +must be constantly increased. In this way some persons are deceived and +drawn into many of Satan's snares. + +"In most novels there is much that is good and true; but the immoral, +the worldly, and the untrue are so interwoven with it that the reader +unconsciously finds himself taking pleasure in thoughts which, before he +began reading novels, would have been disgusting. In this way the +reader's sense of right is lowered and an appetite created--an appetite +that can not be satisfied; the more it is fed, the more depraved and +exacting it becomes. Gradually the desire for the romantic increases +until the novel-reader longs to have a romance of her own. Her sense of +duty is so blunted and her better judgment so blinded that she often +agrees to a secret marriage with some one who is wholly unfit to be her +life companion. It is in this way that many a girl has been deceived and +led into sin. Many times, too, habits have been formed, from which +nothing but the grace of God could deliver. In looking back over a +wasted life, many a person can see that his or her downfall had its +origin in the first novel. + +"My dear child, there are many good books that you will find both +helpful and interesting, but the Bible should be the pattern of your +life. Let it be the principal food for your mind and soul. Your time all +belongs to God, and you should waste none of it in reading unwholesome +literature." + +As Mrs. Worthington finished speaking, she was glad to see a changed +look in Bessie's face. She knew that God was talking to her daughter; +and as she arose to go, she said: "Bessie, do not forget from whom you +may expect strength. I am praying that God will entirely take away the +unnatural appetite which you have been fostering." + +It was not long until Bessie rejoiced in full deliverance from her taste +for novel-reading, and her interest in her mother's talks returned. As +they read the Bible together and praised God for the precious truths it +contained, cherishing them within their hearts as priceless treasures, +Bessie's understanding seemed to open, and she was able to comprehend +many of the deep truths of God's Word. The reading of God's Word gave +her such unbounding joy, such complete spiritual happiness, that nothing +could compare with it. Its truths, so simple and yet so grand, were at +once a guide and a reproof to keep her feet from straying from the +narrow way. + + + + +CHAPTER XXI. + + +GLAD TIDINGS. + +In a small house about two miles from Bessie's home lived a very old +lady. She loved the Lord and enjoyed telling of his goodness and of his +dealings with her. Bessie, who was now about sixteen years of age, +enjoyed these talks very much. + +One day while Bessie and her mother were visiting this aged saint, she +brought forth a much-worn paper and handed it to Mrs. Worthington, +saying, "My daughter sent me this paper. You may take it home, if you +like," she continued; "but I must ask you to return it, as my daughter +wants it again." As Mrs. Worthington took the paper, Bessie saw at the +top of the page, in large letters, "The Gospel Trumpet." After reading a +few minutes Mrs. Worthington exclaimed: "This paper is certainly the +work of a people who understand the plan of salvation. Things are fully +explained here that have been plain to me for years--things that I +dared not mention publicly lest I be thought fanatical." + +On their return home Mrs. Worthington said: "It must have been in answer +to prayer that Sister Moore let me see that paper. I have prayed for +many years that God would help me to find a people who were not afraid +to preach his whole Word. I believe we have found them. Who knows but +this is God's way of starting a series of meetings here. Oh, the +wonderful God we serve! I shall subscribe for the paper at once and also +send my poem on sectism to see if they will publish it." The +subscription was sent, and the poem soon appeared in the paper. + +Mrs. Worthington was truly thankful to find that God had others in the +world who were willing to teach the whole Bible without construing any +part to suit their own ideas. + +It was not long until a testimony appeared from a minister living a few +miles away; and, agreeably with Mrs. Worthington's request, a series of +meetings was started in the neighborhood. + + + + +CHAPTER XXII. + + +THE MEETINGS. + +The news of the good meetings spread rapidly, and the attendance +constantly increased. The gospel as preached was a new message to the +people, and yet it was the very same that Jesus and his disciples +taught. Every point of doctrine presented had a "thus saith the Lord" to +confirm it. + +Many saw that the Bible had been misunderstood and had been misconstrued +by mankind to prove minor points, while the deep and vital truths had +been so covered over with prejudice and unbelief that the majority of +the people were blind to the true meaning of the Word; and that, in +their confusion, each had gone to the denomination that seemed most +nearly to correspond to his clouded views. It was also clearly shown +that there is no way to heaven except the straight and narrow way that +Jesus taught, and that God's Word is the only true measure of a +Christian experience. + +Mrs. Worthington felt now that her cup of joy was full since she could +hear the way of salvation and the true church explained from the pulpit +just as God had revealed them to her. She was also glad that Bessie, who +was now old enough to understand deep spiritual truths for herself, was +in perfect harmony and fellowship with her. + +About forty souls were saved in the meetings; some gained the experience +of sanctification; and the Spirit of the Lord worked mightily upon the +hearts of many others. + +Oh, the deep and wonderful love of God! Oh, the richness and fulness of +his grace! How glorious Bessie now found her walk with God! How +precious to commune with him and feel that she was growing deeper into +his love! Truly it was a taste of heaven! + + + + +CHAPTER XXIII. + + +BESSIE SEES HER DUTY. + +Among those converted in the meetings was a girl a little younger than +Bessie. Her name was Cora. Being an orphan and living in the home of an +infidel uncle, where she had no one to understand or sympathize with her +views, she often sought Bessie for counsel and advice. The uncle did not +oppose his niece, but others in his family did. + +As time went on, the two girls became anxious to be doing something for +the Lord. While they were pondering over the matter, a company of +ministers came to the place to hold another series of meetings. From +them the girls learned that _The Gospel Trumpet_ was published by +consecrated labor, that the workers received no stated salary, but that +they trusted the Lord for their food and clothing. + +It seemed a strange story to the girls, but Cora felt that she should +like to go and help in the work. Though her uncle was not pleased with +her plan, yet finally, after he had investigated and had found the place +respectable, he gave his consent. It was several months, however, before +she expected to leave. Toward the close of this time Bessie began to +feel some anxiety for her friend, and one day said to her, "Cora, do you +really want to go to _The Gospel Trumpet_ office to work? Now, if you +don't want to go, God will not be pleased with your service." "Bessie, I +have lost all desire to go," Cora answered. "It seems to me that God is +calling you instead of me. You could be a much greater help than I, +because you have known and understood this truth all your life." + +If Bessie had received a severe blow, it could not have hurt her more. +Her precious mother! How could she leave her! Many of her cherished +hopes for the future arose before me. Her plan, to do all she could for +her mother in her declining years, came up before her; and as she +thought of it, she became very sad. When the two girls parted at the +door, Bessie's heart was very heavy; and when she was at last alone, she +wept bitterly. She remembered that she had consecrated to do anything +the Lord might require of her, but she did not see how she could do +this. For many days Bessie bore this heavy burden; and, not being +strong, she began to fail in health. From appearances, she had a +malignant form of quick consumption. The course of the disease was +rapid, and in a few weeks she was not only confined to her bed, but +seemingly very near death. Mr. Worthington desired to consult a +physician, but reluctantly heeded to Bessie's earnest entreaties to let +her trust the Lord. She said to her father, "I know that God would heal +me, if for the best; and, if not, I would rather die." And she added +mentally, "I would rather die than to leave home." + +Bessie at last became so low that she could not be left alone night or +day. As her mother sat beside her one day, holding her hand, she said: +"I believe, dear, that God wants to heal you and use you for himself. I +feel like asking our elder, Sister Smith, to come and anoint you with +oil according to Jas. 5:14, 15. I am sure God will heal you." + +Sister Smith was brought as soon as possible; but, to Mrs. Worthington's +surprise, she did not offer to anoint Bessie until the next day. She +said: "I can not understand this case. There is something here that +seems very strange. Bessie appears to be perfectly resigned to die, but +she only answers yes or no to my questions. I shall talk to her again." +Returning to the bedside, she said, "My dear, if God heals you, are you +willing to leave your father, mother, and home to preach the +gospel"--but she got no farther. Bessie, with all the emphasis she +could command in her weak state, interrupted, "No; I will never preach." + +"Ah! there is the point in your consecration that you have not reached," +replied Sister Smith. "You must be willing to do anything that will +bring the most honor to God's name, and to work where he can get the +most glory out of your service. It may be the Lord will never require +you to preach; but he wants the willingness on your part, just as much +as if he wanted to make a minister of you." + +It was some time before Bessie could answer; but when she did, it was to +say that she would do anything, only that she must know that it was God +who required it. + +"God will make you to know that," said Sister Smith; "and now I feel +that everything is out of the way, and we can ask God to heal you." + +As she applied the oil and called earnestly upon God, there seemed to be +a heavenly atmosphere filling the room. Bessie felt a soothing +sensation passing through her body; and when the prayer was ended, she +felt perfectly well, though exceedingly weak. Her strength soon +returned, however, and it was not long until the Lord told her plainly +that he wanted her at _The Gospel Trumpet_ office. She remembered her +consecration and felt willing in her heart to obey; but she shrank from +telling her parents. For two weeks she endured severe mental suffering. +She tried to gain sufficient courage to speak to her mother about the +call, but her tongue refused to form the words. One day while she and +her mother were in the cosy sitting-room, Mrs. Worthington said, +"Bessie, I believe that God wants you at _The Gospel Trumpet_ office and +that he has used Cora's plan and your sickness to show you your duty." +Looking up through eyes filled with tears, Bessie related all that God +had revealed to her. A great calm then came into her soul. + +But the test was not entirely over. Mr. Worthington must be told, +and--would he be willing? Embracing the first opportunity, Bessie told +him her plans and begged his approval upon them; but his reply nearly +crushed her. + +"Bessie," said her father, "if you must leave us, you may go; but I have +one thing to say and I mean it. If you go, you can never return; for +your going is heartless indeed. I can not see why you should choose to +go from your comfortable home and those who love you so dearly, and +leave your mother, who so much needs your help." + +"Father, Father!" exclaimed Bessie, "Oh, don't talk that way! You know +how much I love you all. You know I never wanted to leave home before; +and if you won't let me return, what shall I do?" + +As she stood there before her father almost broken-hearted, a sweet +voice whispered, "I will be with thee; be not afraid." The words sounded +like music in her soul and reminded her of her recent decision to obey +the Lord at any cost; and she said quietly: + +"Well, Father, if you refuse to let me return home, it will have to be +that way; but I must obey the Lord, and he has called me into his +service" + +"Very well," he answered, "but remember my words," and he left her. + +Seeking her mother, Bessie told her of the interview and of her father's +refusal to allow her to return home. For a moment they stood looking at +one another; and then, with great tears filling her eyes, her mother +said: + +"Remember the words of Jesus, 'There is no man that hath left house, or +parents, or brethren, or wife, or children, for the kingdom of God's +sake, who shall not receive manifold more in this present time, and in +the world to come life everlasting.' Dear, child, I know your dutiful +nature, and how you long to obey your parents; but the Bible says to +obey them in the Lord. When you have to choose whom you will serve, God +or your parents, you must choose the Lord." + +"I will obey God," said Bessie quietly; and she began at once to prepare +to leave home. + +When all was ready and the morning of departure had come, Mr. +Worthington went out to prepare to take his daughter to the train. He +had been very silent all the morning, but Bessie's heart was so full +that she had taken little notice of his behavior. Oh, how she longed for +his consent for her to return! Her mother gave her every encouraging +word possible. At last they looked out and saw that the horse was ready. +As Bessie picked up her last bundle, the door opened, and her father, +stepping in quickly, caught her in his arms. "O my child," he sobbed, +"will you forgive me and come back as soon as the Lord will let you? I +didn't mean what I said; but it is so hard to give you up. If you need +anything, write to me at once and let me know about it, won't you?" and +he tenderly kissed her. Bessie's heart was filled with joy, and she +said that he could expect her home just as soon as the Lord would let +her come. + +"Read 1 Cor. 10:13 and Jas. 1:12 just as soon as you have time, dear," +whispered Mrs. Worthington in her daughter's ear as she kissed her again +before she jumped into the buggy beside her father. Then they drove away +from the home and the mother that were so dear to Bessie's heart. + +Very few words were spoken on the way to town, and after a long ride +Bessie found herself on the train. It all seemed like a terrible dream; +but there was a sweet peace and quietness in her soul, and her father's +loving words rang again and again in her ears. + + + + +CHAPTER XXIV. + + +REVERIE. + +In the days that followed Bessie's arrival at the _Trumpet_ office, she +found many ways in which she could help spread the gospel. She found, +too, that she could preach in a way that was not at all distasteful to +her; for she could set up many lines of type to be used in printing the +gospel message in the _Trumpet_, which was carrying light and truth into +many homes and preaching to hungry souls. But oh, how often she thought +of the dear ones at home and of how they were missing her! + +One evening, when she sought her room and sat down beside the window, as +she had so often done at home, she began to review her life. As the soft +shadows gathered slowly about her, she seemed to be at home again close +beside her mother's knee, listening to her tender, loving words of +sympathy and advice. Bessie could now see what they had been worth to +her. They not only had prepared her for a common sphere in life, but had +given her a thorough understanding of God's great plan of salvation. As +she recalled her mother's prayers and talks, she realized that, through +them, she had many times escaped what other girls had ignorantly +blundered into, and had been spared a great many of the bitter sorrows +that come into the lives of girls not taught at their mother's knee. In +her thankfulness, she offered a fervent prayer to her heavenly Father +that many more earnest, noble, and prayerful mothers might be found to +guide their children through the critical period of childhood. + +After three months Bessie returned home for a short visit with her +parents. Upon her arrival she not only found a loving and tender +welcome, but also learned that both her parents had accepted her call as +from God. After a happy visit of two weeks she returned to her work. +With the blessing of God upon her labors, we shall here bid her +good-by. + +In conclusion, we wish to say that what she became was principally in +answer to her faithful mother's prayers. Had she been left--as many +girls are--without a mother's tender love and confidence, mingled with +many earnest prayers, she would have fallen into temptations that she +never knew. She had fully proved the worth of a praying mother. + + + + +CHAPTER XXV. + + +A PLEA TO MOTHERS. + +Home as God intended it is built upon the corner-stone of virtue and +prayer. It makes no difference how beautiful the house nor how grand its +contents, if the mother is a woman who does not care for God or virtue, +the corner-stone of that home is lacking. Such a home can not stand when +trial and temptation enter. + +A stream never rises above its source, nor a home above the ideals of +its founders. No matter how humble the home, do not belittle its +possibilities. Anything so sacred as home can command heaven's choicest +and best blessings. The humblest cabin may contain that element which +makes home the shrine of happiness and the temple of peace, and will +cause it to send forth saints and heroes. + +Oh that parents, especially mothers, could realize their influence in +the home, their power to direct the young minds around them into the +proper channel! Let us so educate and train the children that they will +be able to get the greatest good from their natural endowment and that +they may use it in such a manner as will bring the most glory to God. So +train them and so live before them in the home that in after-years they +will say with pleasure: "This precept was always taught me by my +parents. Father and Mother's holy example has been a priceless +birthright to me." + +This is true parenthood. It should be the ideal in every home. By this I +mean parents who realize their responsibility and have their children's +best interest at heart; parents who will sacrifice any pleasure of their +own for the benefit and happiness of their little ones; parents who will +not only bid their children a hearty welcome into the world, but will +care for their future from that moment, and who have the love and +respect of their entire household. + +You may say that parents like these are few and hard to find. True, but +it is equally so that, with proper knowledge and understanding, many +would approach this standard. Perhaps some have allowed years to slip +carelessly by and their darlings to pass seemingly beyond their control. +To such I would say, It is never too late to pray. + +Observe the wayward boy whose chief inheritance is a wild, wilful +nature. He is nearing his fourteenth birthday. Having been allowed to +have his own way while small, he has cultivated an ungovernable desire +to do as he pleases. Let the mother of that boy cease her old habit of +saying, "I don't know what will become of that boy! I don't understand +how he can treat me so rudely. I've done all I can, and he just grows +worse," and take a more rational method. Have you gone to that boy and +told him the sweet, simple story of Jesus and why he came from his +beautiful home; that a part of his mission was to teach you how to make +your home after the pattern of his heavenly home; that his heart is +touched with compassion when he beholds any one in trouble; that he is +grieved because you have made a mistake; but that you are sorry and are +decided to do your duty? Have you told the boy all that? Have you knelt +beside his bed at night with your tear-dimmed eyes pressed upon his +hand, and told him the great dangers that are before him, even +surrounding him, and informed him how to avoid them? Have you told him +that he is at the most critical time in his life, that a mistake now +will mean a life of suffering for both him and you, and that he can with +you begin over and remove some of his past mistakes? Have you talked +thus to your boy? If not, why not? It is your privilege as well as your +duty. + + + + +CHAPTER XXVI. + + +PARENTAL DUTY. + +The first duty of father and mother to their child is to see that they +are a unit on family government. Second, they must study themselves and +their failures, trying to make the weak places strong. Third, study the +disposition of the child, gain an understanding of its inner life, and +find out what pleases and displeases it; and, while cultivating the +good, hold in check the bad. A mother should understand her children +better than any one else. If she is a thoughtful mother, she knows not +only the surroundings of her children, but many of the impressions that +she has stamped upon their undeveloped minds. + +Children are not putty that can be moulded into any form to suit our +fancy, but there is a method by which we can fashion their young lives. +Much patience, devotion to the child, and fervent prayer will be +needful to accomplish anything worth while. + +Every parent should see that their attitude toward their children is +what it should be. Consider their feelings and show them respect, +remembering that they have rights upon which you must not intrude; but +never loosen the reigns of home government. Make any rules that you +think practicable and necessary; explain each rule carefully to your +child, giving your reason for making it, and then demand obedience. +Never, unless for some special reason, ignore any good rule. Should your +child happen to break one of these rules, do not punish without first +finding out the cause. He may not have understood your meaning, or he +may have forgotten. Take him quietly aside; and, after finding out why +he has disobeyed, gently tell him again your reasons for making the +rules and the necessity of his obedience. You might have to do this +several times, but do not excuse him too long. When it is necessary to +punish, ask for wisdom from above, and then punish in a way that he will +understand you and remember the punishment. When you make a statement, +stand by it, if possible, unless you see error in it. If such be the +case, confess your fault. If your child does not show you due respect +and obedience, there is a cause for it, and it is your duty to find out +what that cause is. + +All children have to contend with bad qualities that have been +inherited. Do not flatter yourself that because the child is yours it +will escape temptation; for all must be tempted, if they would be +strong. Teach your children, according to their ability to comprehend, +all that they should know to be able to shun evil. Do not think that +because your child has inherited some moral weakness, you are helpless +to teach him to overcome it. You can explain to him his danger and tell +him what yielding to the temptations that come to him because of this +weakness will lead to. Point out the effect of this sin upon the one +from whom it was inherited. Tell the child that the only chance to +overcome this inherited tendency will be by constantly avoiding those +things that will lead to temptation. You may find the task difficult and +you may sometimes feel disheartened, but you must put that wayward child +of yours right, if possible, or God will hold you accountable. Perhaps +the inherited sin may lie at your own door. If it does, you will +understand better how to help him from under its power. + +In the public school, on the street, and in his various associations, +your child will be exposed to the evil of hearing impure language from +vile lips; and if he be not warned, who can blame him for listening? +Your home teaching must overbalance all that he hears outside. + +Should some question concerning the mysteries of his own body or of his +own origin be aroused in his mind by impure stories or by any other +cause, you must at once arise to meet the difficulty before harm is +done that will be very difficult to overcome. But some mother will say: +"I do not know what answer to make my child when he asks questions of +such a delicate nature. Would it not be best to leave his mind free from +these ideas until he is older?" Doubtless it would, if the child would +be contented to wait; but when he has learned enough to ask the +question, he is able to tell whether you speak the truth when you say +you do not know, and he will not be satisfied by the flimsy pretest, +"Oh, run away and don't bother me; I'm too busy." + +Above all else, keep the confidence of your child, so that he will come +to you with every trouble of life. Confidence of children in their +parents is a gift from God. All children have it at first. See the +tottering baby cling to its mother for support; watch it run to her when +it is frightened. Can it not have the same confidence when it is older? +I answer from experience that it can and should. Truth inspires trust +in your child. If you do not think it best to answer all his questions +fully at the time when he asks them, tell him at least enough to satisfy +his curiosity, and promise him that, if this remains a secret between +you and him, he may come to you whenever he wants more information. Do +not be afraid of having secrets with your child. The matter may be +trifling, but the fact that he is helping you to keep secrets will teach +him to value his word and will increase his confidence in you. On the +other hand, if you tell him an untruth, do not think that he will come +to you again. No, he will doubtless go to some friend who he thinks will +tell him, and thus get his young mind tainted with impure thoughts. And +little better in results than telling an untruth is putting the child +off till some future time. These questions must be met when they arrive. + +You may say, "I don't know how much to tell at any one time." Wisdom is +necessary here. No more should be told than will satisfy the present +curiosity of the child. A few questions on your part will readily +discover what information he has gained and how much he wishes to know. + +A boy of scarce six summers once came to his mother with a question of +life. The mother was shocked; but, offering an earnest prayer for +wisdom, she questioned the child and found that he had heard remarks +made by older boys. As his mind was developed enough to comprehend part +of their conversation, his curiosity was aroused. Having perfect +confidence in his mother, he had sought her for an explanation of the +points that perplexed him. As simply as possible, that mother gave the +information, ending with the words, "Now, darling, this is to be a +perfect secret between us; and when you are old enough, I will tell you +more." Years passed by until the boy was in his eleventh year; then he +once more went to his mother for information. "Mama," he began, "do you +remember the time you told me a secret?" She answered that she did, and +he continued: "Well, I have kept that secret. I have never mentioned it +to any one. And do you remember that you said some time you would tell +me more?" When she answered, "Yes," he said quickly, "Don't you think +I'm old enough now?" In answer, the mother put her arms about him and +said, "My son, you shall hear all you wish to hear. What is it, dear?" +Then as each question came, she gave him a satisfactory answer, and +ended by saying, "Whenever you want to know more, come to me, and I will +tell you." That boy continued to go to his mother; and when he entered +the most trying period of his life, her advice kept him from the dangers +into which so many fall. In hours of trial she was able to point him to +the Savior. Never neglect the duty of warning your child of danger. + +Teaching of this kind will endear you to your children long after you +are resting in the grave. They will recount, "My mother told me this. +My father taught me that. They must have understood God's plan of +salvation, or they would never have known how to tell me these things." +But the task will require your highest talents. Sympathy and love, +constant watchfulness, and earnest prayer will be the most needful. +Since the child does not know himself, you must learn to know him. You +must search for the secret springs that govern his actions and for the +master key that will unlock his heart. + +One dear young woman, relating her experience to me, said: "My mother +died when I was only six years old; but I know she must have been a +Christian, because some friends who knew her told me of her devoted life +and of earnest pleadings for her children when she saw that she must +leave them. All that I can remember about her was seeing her bowing in +prayer or talking to us children. There are desires in my nature that I +know must have been planted within me in answer to her prayer. After +her death I was cast out upon the world. I went to live with a very +ungodly family, but that sense of right and wrong within me made me shun +and despise their evil ways. I loved to read my Bible. From it I learned +that, if I would gain heaven, I must forsake sin and live a pure life. +To live such a life was a pleasure until I found that the denomination +whose meetings I attended would not allow me to say much about a holy +life, because their creed did not teach it. Then I promised the Lord +that I would be a Christian if I had to be one all by myself. This was +not necessary, for I found many true Christians who believed all that +the Bible teaches." + +That mother's prayers had fashioned and governed the life of her +daughter long before the child was able to understand her mother's +meaning. Parents can not begin too early to win the child's love and +confidence, and they should spare no pains to maintain these to mature +years. Those who do will find that their children will never, even to +old age, fail to come to them for sympathy and advice. Children so +reared will always love and honor their father and mother as the Bible +says they should, and will look upon their parents' lives as examples +for them to imitate. See to it that you show yourself a good pattern, in +thought, word, and deed, for them to follow. + + + + +CHAPTER XXVII. + + +USEFUL HINTS. + +There is no definite rule whereby parents may control their home, except +to seek advice from God, for no two families have the same environment. +Any method that will bring about the desired result may be applied; but +the method must be systematic and thorough. A positive attitude is good, +and should be encouraged, but harshness ought never to be used. The +latter will tend to discouragement and resentment in the child, while +the former will teach the difference between right and wrong. + +Be charitable to your children in regard to their faults and failings, +so that they may learn by your example to be charitable to each other +and to their fellows. Teach them the blessings that charity will bring +to them; show them that it is the greatest of God's gifts and that +without it they will meet many buffetings from their contact with the +world. Remember that Paul speaks of it as "the more excellent way" and +admonishes us to desire it above all things else. + +Children must have entertainment. Rich and costly furniture, elaborate +parties, or even guests are not necessary. Children may be entertained +in a very simple manner. What child does not enjoy the old-fashioned +game of hide-and-seek, tag, or some such innocent amusement with Papa +and Mama? It may take a little of your time, but what of that? Do all +you can to make your home the happiest place on earth for your children. + +"Yes," says one, "that will do while the children are little; but just +wait until they grow up, and then they will seek other company." I did +not say that they must always stay with you. Of course they will desire +to go from home sometimes. What I mean is that we can make home so +attractive that they will note the difference between it and the outside +world. The interest we take in them will constrain them to remain at +home and to return when away from it. Home! Oh that beautiful word! +Poets have written about it, choirs have sung about it, but who can +fathom the meaning of that little word, home! None but the child who has +been taught to revere, cherish, and enjoy it, and then looking back +remembers the happy years spent in the home circle. + +I think that I hear a father say, "When I return from my work, I am so +tired I can not stand the children's noise." Is that so? Do you not love +your children, and are you not working for their welfare! If so, do you +not think that a little less labor with your hands and a little time +spent with them would be more profitable? Perhaps a little romp or chat +with them would rest you. Try it anyway. You who are desk workers can +afford it: it will help you to cast off the responsibilities of the day +and the better prepare you for the morrow. A romp with the children is +not lost; but, on the other hand, is a benefit for both parent and +child. Thoughtful parents can think of many things that will increase +the interest in home and will draw them closer to their children. + +Sometimes it is good for the children to visit their friends, but +parents should always be acquainted with these friends. Never let your +child go where games are played that you would not allow played in your +own home. Here is where conscience and confidence will help you. Be +cautious about allowing your child to go somewhere to stay all night. In +this way many a child has learned evil practises and in some cases been +ruined. Then, too, it draws his mind away from the home circle. + +"But," you say, "all this I have done, and yet my children are now +forgetful of it all. They are indulging in many things that they were +taught to be harmful to the soul." My dear friend, can you not remember +when this state of things began? Can you not point to a time when there +was a drifting from your home circle? when home life began to seem too +narrow for your child? when he began to crave the association of others +more than that of his own brothers and sisters? Did you at that time +lift up your home banner and shield? Did you tell him of the rapids in +the distance? "No," you falteringly answer; "I thought there could be no +harm in allowing him to mingle with his chums at school and to visit +them in their homes. I was afraid to be too particular, lest he should +think me too strict with him." Ah! friend, that was your golden +opportunity, and you failed to see it. After instructing the child, you +should have bowed with him in prayer, giving him over to God's keeping. +Then, if he chose to go--remembering that your prayers were following +him--nine chances out of ten he would have returned with words similar +to those spoken by a youth who had been permitted to attend a party. In +answer to his father's question he said, "Yes; I had a good time, but I +have better times at home." "Better times at home!" Think of it, +parents! Is it not worth some self-denial, some sacrifices, on pour +part, to have your home spoken of in this manner? + +"Yes," says a mother, "that is all right when both parents are in +harmony and have salvation; but suppose that the parents are poor and +that one is unsaved?" I have seen just such homes as this governed in +the manner whereof I speak. God gave more grace and strength to the +saved companion; and, although there were many difficulties to +encounter, yet the saved one was able to influence the home for God. +"All things are possible to him that believeth," said Christ in olden +times, and his statement is still true. + +Again, I hear a parent whose loved companion has recently died say, +"What can I do now to train my children aright?" There comes before my +mind a beautiful scene of a faithful mother with her son and daughter +whom she had brought up to God's glory. She was left alone with these +two precious ones to guide and rear to manhood and womanhood. She bade +adieu to the words "I can't" and with determination went about her task. +As God never lets such zeal go without assistance, this mother found +help in time of need. Another scene which I love to recall is that of a +devoted father and by his side his two motherless daughters just +entering womanhood. He gives them every spare moment that he has, and +both are real examples of trust and purity. + +In your zeal to find entertainment for your children, do not forget that +they must have employment. See that every member of your household has +certain work to do. This work should be suited to the years and the +strength of the individual and, if possible, to his likes and dislikes. +Work of the proper kind will strengthen the muscles, improve the health, +keep out many evils, and create in the young a desire to help bear the +burdens of life. Periods of rest may be made profitable by having on +hand as much wholesome literature as you are able to secure. By this +means much useful knowledge may be stored. The reading need not be +confined wholly to religious works; reliable treatises on science, art, +mechanics, cooking, chemistry, domestic economy, health, etc., are all +profitable if not indulged in to the exclusion of religious literature. +If you trust God, he will help you to know what to do. + +A lady once said, "Our children are what we make them, and we get out of +them just what we put in." These words contain much truth. God holds all +parents, according to their light and understanding, responsible for the +training of their children. + +If you have a preference among your children, never reveal it. On the +contrary, endeavor to place the less favored ahead in your care and +attention. You can justly do this, for the favorite will get all the +attention he deserves anyway. I well remember a case where the mother's +favorite son brought sorrow and shame to the entire household by +stealing from his own father, simply because she had humored and petted +him in childhood. Parents can not be too careful in this respect. + +Many a mother does not realize how highly her children value her +opinion. A boy had met with an accident that somewhat disfigured him for +a time. While he was preparing to leave for school, his mother said, +"You will no doubt be made sport of today; are you able to bear it?" His +answer was, "Oh, I don't care what any one says about me but you; but if +you were to make fun of me, I couldn't stand it." + +SWEET GEM OF THE HOME. + + _Thou formal home, so graced, so blest, + With earthly treasures rare; + Within thy portals we expect + All graces rich and fair. + + We gaze, we search, but all in vain; + The gem we love so well, + "Sweet innocence," doth not remain, + Nor in thy chambers dwell. + + Thy children, as the world they greet, + Are bearing tales of thee; + "I was not warned," they oft repeat, + Nor taught at Mother's knee. + + Sweet Innocence, thou heav'nly grace, + Rich gem from God above! + Thy touch upon the human face + Reveals but peace and love. + + Thy treasures richer far than gold, + Thy gifts of greatest worth, + Might grace our homes, except for sin, + Whose curse now sweeps the earth. + + We look for thee within the maid, + With beauty, grace, and charm, + But find thy flight she hath not stayed, + Nor doth she feel alarm. + + Then in the lad, whose noble brow + Thy presence might suggest; + With closer view we must allow + By thee he is not blest. + + E'en when we look within the child + And laud his graces sweet, + We find his mind so soon defiled + For thee 'tis no retreat. + + "And why?" we ask, "oh! why is this? + Such need and dearth abound. + Oh! why in homes of promised bliss + May not this gem be found?" + + The mystery, so deep, so great, + Is simply lack of prayer; + Is bidding timely warning wait + For daily toil and care. + + Allowing things that crumble, waste, + Our whole attention claim, + We cause sweet Innocence in haste + To leave our homes to shame. + + But thee, sweet grace, we find in some-- + Thank God thou art not lost!-- + We see thee in the Christian home + As royal guest and host. + + We note the mother as she pleads + For counsel from God's throne, + Then goes with wisdom that she needs + And strength to make it known. + + We watch the child in this true home, + And in its face so fair + We recognise what doth become + A faithful mother's prayer. + + Sweet Innocence! may we extol, + Within the home, thy art; + Thy power to beautify the soul, + To teach the pure in heart. + + Thou gift divine! thou fairest gem! + Thy presence may we crave, + That thou mayst grace our diadem + In life beyond the grave. + + Reveal, O grace, unto the world + Thy beauties rich and rare, + That all may understand and know + What mothers find in prayer_. + + + + + + + + +End of Project Gutenberg's The value of a praying mother, by Isabel C. 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