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Brown and the Online +Distributed Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net + + + + + + + + + + SESAME BOOKLETS + + + _LATEST ADDITIONS TO + SESAME BOOKLETS_ + + 41. Rab and his Friends. _Brown._ + 42. Marjorie Fleming. _Brown._ + 43. Poems of the East. + 44. Gems from Balzac. + 45. Thoughts from Tolstoi. + 46. Thoughts from Jerome K. Jerome. + 47. Thoughts from H. G. Wells. + 48. Thoughts from E. F. Benson. + 49. Thoughts from Augustine Birrell. + 50. Thoughts from G. K. Chesterton. + + + + +[Illustration] + + + + + SESAME BOOKLETS + + + The + Golden Link of + Friendship + + + George G. Harrap & Co. + 3 Portsmouth St. London + + + "_A link to bind when circumstances part; + A nerve of feeling stretched from heart to heart._" + + The Riverside Press Ltd., Edinburgh + + + + +Foreword + + +_Friendship is one of the most important things in the world. As a +factor in educating the mind, forming the character, guiding the will, +and shaping the destiny, the influence of Friendship can scarcely be +overrated. Friendship has made a man a hero, a saint, a demon!_ + +_It is to be hoped, therefore, that these Golden Thoughts on +Friendship--garnered from a wide field--will prove helpful and inspiring +and tend to create pure and noble ideals in the minds of readers._ + +_The touching story of David and Jonathan continues to possess a +surpassing charm for humanity; and the voyager over Life's ocean who +discovers a true friend discovers an island offering a safe, quiet haven +from every storm that blows, and which presents innumerable luscious +fruits and sweet-scented flowers for his refreshment and enjoyment._ + + _A. E. S._ + + + + +Birth of Friendship + + + Nature loves nothing solitary, and always reaches out to something + as a support, which ever in the sweetest friend is most delightful. + + _Cicero_ + + + + Great souls by instinct to each other turn, + Demand alliance, and in friendship burn. + + _Addison_ + + + The only way to have a friend, is to be one. + + _Emerson_ + + + Some friendships are made by _nature_, some by _contract_, some by + _interest_, and some by _souls_. + _Jeremy Taylor_ + + + The firmest friendships have been formed in mutual adversity, as + iron is most strongly united by the fiercest flame. + _Colton_ + + + Only that soul can be my friend which I encounter on the line of my + own march, that soul to which I do not decline and which does not + decline to me, but, native of the same celestial latitude, repeats + in its own all my experience. + _Emerson_ + + + + +Culture of Friendship + + + It is a friendly heart that has plenty of friends. + + _Thackeray_ + + + We have few friendships, because we are not willing to pay the price + of friendship. + _Hugh Black_ + + + Hand + Grasps hand, eye lights eye in good friendship, + And great hearts expand, + And grow one in the sense of this world's life. + + _Robert Browning_ + + + A friend whom you have been gaining during your whole life, you + ought not to be displeased with in a moment. A stone is many years + becoming a ruby; take care that you do not destroy it in an instant + against another stone. + _Saadi_ + + + Once let friendship be given that is born of God, nor time nor + circumstance can change it to a lessening; it must be mutual growth, + increasing trust, widening faith, enduring patience, forgiving love, + unselfish ambition--an affection built before the Throne, that will + bear the test of time and trial. + _Allan Throckmorton_ + + + A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a + friend that sticketh closer than a brother. + _Proverbs_ xviii. 24 + + + You'll never hope + To be such friends, for instance she and you, + As when you hunted cowslips in the woods + Or played together in the meadow hay. + Oh yes--with age, respect comes, and your worth + Is felt, there's growing sympathy of tastes, + There's ripened friendship, there's confirmed esteem. + + _Robert Browning_ + + + Plant thou the tree of friendship only; so shall thy heart's desire + bear fruit: + Uproot thou hatred's plant completely, or woes unnumbered thence may + shoot. + _Hafiz_ + + + + +Sacredness of Friendship + + + Friendship's an abstract of this noble flame, + 'Tis love refin'd, and purged from all its dross, + 'Tis next to angels' love, if not the same, + As strong in passion is, though not so gross. + + _Catherine Philips_ + + + Golden friendship is not a common thing to be picked up in the + street.... There are pearls of the heart, which cannot be thrown to + swine. + _Hugh Black_ + + + Friendship, peculiar boon of Heaven, + The noble mind's delight and pride, + To men and angels only given, + To all the lower world denied. + + _Samuel Johnson_ + + + O Friendship! thou divinest alchemist, that man should ever profane + thee! + _Douglas Jerrold_ + + + Pure friendship is something which men of inferior intellect can + never taste. + _De la Bruyère_ + + + The essence of friendship is entireness, a total magnanimity and + trust. It must not surmise or provide for infirmity. It treats its + object as a god that it may deify both. + _Emerson_ + + + For perfect friendship it may be said to require natures so rare and + costly, so well tempered each, and so happily adapted, and withal so + circumstanced that very seldom can its satisfaction be realised. + + _Emerson_ + + + Love shows me the opulence of nature, by disclosing to me in my + friend a hidden wealth, and I infer an equal depth of good in every + other direction. + _Emerson_ + + + Who talks of a _common_ friendship? There is no such thing in the + world. On earth no word is more sublime. Friendship is the nearest + thing we know to what religion is. God is love. + _Henry Drummond_ + + + "You will forgive me, I hope, for the sake of the friendship + between us, + Which is too true and too sacred to be so easily broken!" + + _Longfellow_ + + + He that wrongs his friend + Wrongs himself more, and ever bears about + A silent court of justice in his breast, + Himself the judge and jury, and himself + The prisoner at the bar, ever condemn'd: + And that drags down his life. + + _Tennyson_ + + + Friendship is the marriage of the soul. + + _Voltaire_ + + + + +Beauty of Friendship + + + A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature. + + _Emerson_ + + + The moment we indulge our affections, the earth is metamorphosed: + there is no winter, and no night: all tragedies, all ennuis vanish; + all duties even; nothing fills the preceding eternity but the forms + all radiant of beloved persons. + _Emerson_ + + + The only rose without thorns is friendship. + + _Mlle. de Scuderi_ + + + To the young friendship comes as the glory of spring, a very miracle + of beauty, a mystery of birth: to the old it has the bloom of + autumn, beautiful still, but with the beauty of decay. + _Hugh Black_ + + + The pledge of Friendship! it is still divine, + Though watery floods have quenched its burning wine; + Whatever vase the sacred drops may hold, + The gourd, the shell, the cup of beaten gold, + Around its brim the bond of Nature throws + A garland sweeter than the banquet's rose. + + _O. W. Holmes_ + + + O friend, my bosom said, + Through thee alone the sky is arched, + Through thee the rose is red; + All things through thee take nobler form, + And look beyond the earth, + The mill-round of our fate appears + A sun-path in thy worth. + Me too thy nobleness has taught + To master my despair; + The fountains of my hidden life + Are through thy friendship fair. + + _Emerson_ + + + Friend is a word of royal tone; + Friend is a poem all alone. + + _From the Persian_ + + + Happy is the house that shelters a friend! It might well be built + like a festal bower or arch, to entertain him a single day. + + _Emerson_ + + + Thick waters show no images of things; + Friends are each other's mirrors, and should be + Clearer than crystal, or the mountain-springs, + And free from clouds, design, or flattery. + For vulgar souls no part of friendship share; + Poets and friends are born to what they are. + + _Catherine Philips_ + + + + +Choice of Friendship + + + First on thy friend deliberate with thyself, + Pause, ponder, sift; not eager in the choice, + Nor jealous of the chosen: fixing, fix;-- + Judge before friendship, then confide till death. + + _Young_ + + + The highest friendship must always lead us to the highest pleasure. + + _Fielding_ + + + Friendship demands a religious treatment. We must not be wilful, we + must not provide. We talk of choosing our friends, but friends are + self-elected. Reverence is a great part of it. + _Emerson_ + + + Friendship with the upright; friendship with the sincere; and + friendship with the man of much observation: these are advantageous. + Friendship with the man of specious airs; friendship with the + insinuatingly soft; and friendship with the glib-tongued: these are + injurious. + _Confucius_ + + + Oh, be my friend, and teach me to be thine! + + _Emerson_ + + + My friends have come to me unsought; the great God gave them to me. + + _Emerson_ + + + The friends thou hast, and their adoption tried, + Grapple them to thy soul with hoops of steel; + But do not dull thy palm with entertainment + Of each new-hatch'd, unfledged comrade. + + _Shakespeare_ + + + He makes no friend who never made a foe. + + _Tennyson_ + + + Who friendship with a knave hath made + Is judg'd a partner in the trade. + + _Gay_ + + + A man's friends are his magnetisms. + + _Emerson_ + + + A good man is the best friend, and therefore soonest to be chosen, + longer to be retained, and, indeed, never to be parted with, unless + he cease to be that for which he was chosen. + + _Jeremy Taylor_ + + + Friendship sealed by companionship in sin will not last long. + + _Arnot_ + + + Eschew that friend, if thou art wise, + Who consorts with thy enemies. + _Saadi_ + + + Friendship requires a steady, constant, and unchangeable character, + a person that is uniform in his intimacy. + _Plutarch_ + + + + +Divine Friendship + + + Ye are My friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you. + + _John_ xv. 14 + + + His mouth is most sweet: yea, he is altogether lovely. This is my + beloved, and this is my friend, O daughters of Jerusalem. + + _Canticles_ v. 16 + + + He that loveth pureness of heart, for the grace of his lips the King + shall be his friend. + + _Proverbs_ xxii. 11 + + + It is said that when he came to die, the last words of the American + President Edwards, after bidding his weeping relatives good-bye, + were: "Now where is Jesus of Nazareth, my true and never-failing + Friend?" So saying he fell asleep. + _Anon_ + + + + +Reality of Friendship + + + Friendship is the ideal, friends are the reality; reality always + remains far apart from the ideal. + _Joseph Roux_ + + + They seem to take away the sun from the world who withdraw + friendship from life. + + _Cicero_ + + + You're my friend-- + What a thing friendship is, world without end! + How it gives the heart and soul a stir up! + + _Robert Browning_ + + + Friendship is Love without his wings! + + _Byron_ + + + I do not wish to treat friendships daintily, but with roughest + courage. When they are real, they are not glass threads or + frostwork, but the solidest thing we know. + + _Emerson_ + + + Nothing makes the earth seem so spacious as to have friends at a + distance; they make the latitudes and longitudes. + + _Henry D. Thoreau_ + + + O, weary hearts! O, slumbering eyes! + O, drooping souls, whose destinies + Are fraught with fear and pain, + Ye shall be loved again! + + No one is so accursed by fate, + No one so utterly desolate, + But some heart, though unknown, + Responds unto his own. + + Responds,--as if with unseen wings, + An angel touched its quivering strings; + And whispers, in its song, + Where hast thou stayed so long? + + _Longfellow_ + + + Friendship is a word the very sight of which in print makes the + heart warm. + _Augustine Birrell_ + + + Real friends are our greatest joy and our greatest sorrow. + + _Fénelon_ + + + Nature teaches beasts to know their friends. + + _Shakespeare_ + + + + +Worth of Friendship + + + True happiness consists not in the multitude of friends, but in the + worth and choice. + _Ben Jonson_ + + + Friendship, mysterious cement of the soul, + Sweetener of life, and solder of society, + I owe thee much: thou hast deserv'd from me + Far, far beyond what I can ever pay. + + _Blair_ + + + Not all the works of Science, Art, + Or Genius in this world are worth + One genuine sigh that from the heart + Friendship or Love draws freshly forth. + + _Thomas Moore_ + + + Friendship always benefits, while love sometimes injures. + + _Seneca_ + + + To have a friend is to have one of the sweetest gifts that life can + bring: to be a friend is to have a solemn and tender education of + soul from day to day. + _Anna R. Brown_ + + + Friendship is an allay of our sorrows, the ease of our passions, the + discharge of our oppressions, the sanctuary to our calamities, the + counsellor of our doubts, the clarity of our minds, the emission of + our thoughts, the exercise and improvement of what we meditate. + + _Jeremy Taylor_ + + + True friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom + known until it be lost. + _Colton_ + + + Friendship is an order of nobility; from its revelations we come + more worthily into nature. + _Emerson_ + + + Ah, how good it feels! the hand of an old friend. + + _Longfellow_ + + + He who has a thousand friends has not a friend to spare, + But he who has one enemy will meet him everywhere. + + _Oriental Proverb_ + + + Nor scour the seas, nor sift mankind, + A poet or a friend to find; + Behold, he watches at the door, + Behold his shadow on the floor. + + _Emerson_ + + + A friend who will not despise us for our weakness, nor disown us for + our sinfulness, nor tire of us for being troublesome, nor scoff at + us for our sensibility, but who will patiently hear our tale, fully + understand our regret, tenderly recognise our stumbling-blocks, and + be honest enough to tell us the truth, cost us what it may--oh, do + you not see what a real help he might be to us. + _Bishop Thorold_ + + + A friend + Welded into our life is more to us + Than twice five thousand kinsmen, one in blood. + + _Euripides_ + + + I used to think that friendship meant happiness: I have learnt that + it means discipline. + _Anna R. Brown_ + + + Dear is my friend--yet from my foe, as from my friend comes good: + My friend shows what I can do, and my foe what I should. + + _Schiller_ + + + We can live without a brother, but not without a friend. + + _German Proverb_ + + + Love is flower-like; + Friendship is like a sheltering tree. + + _Coleridge_ + + + You shall perceive how you mistake my fortunes; I am wealthy in my + friends. + _Shakespeare_ + + + A faithful friend is the medicine of life. + + _Ecclesiasticus_ + + + "I know and esteem you, and feel that your nature is noble, + Lifting mine up to a higher, a more ethereal level, + Therefore I value your friendship." + + _Longfellow_ + + + + +Disinterestedness of Friendship + + + In friendship, there is no commerce or business depending on the + same, but itself. + _Montaigne_ + + + You must therefore love me, myself, and not my circumstances, if we + are to be real friends. + _Cicero_ + + + I can never think of promoting my convenience at the expense of a + friend's interest and inclination. + _George Washington_ + + + There is possible to-day, as ever, a generous friendship which + forgets self.... The miracle of friendship has been too often + enacted on this dull earth of ours to suffer us to doubt either its + possibility or its wondrous beauty. + _Hugh Black_ + + + Friendship is like a debt of honour; the moment it is talked of, it + loses its real name and assumes the more ungrateful form of + obligation. + _Goldsmith_ + + + Have friends, not for the sake of receiving, but of giving. + + _Joseph Roux_ + + + Amongst true friends there is no fear of losing anything. + + _Jeremy Taylor_ + + + When men are friends, there is no need of justice; but when they are + just, they still need friendship. + _Aristotle_ + + + Better be a nettle in the side of your friend, than his echo. The + condition which high friendship demands is ability to do without it. + To be capable of that high office requires great and sublime parts. + There must be very two before there can be very one. + _Emerson_ + + + No friendship can excuse a sin. + + _Jeremy Taylor_ + + + Friendship is to be purchased only by friendship. A man must have + authority over others, but he can never have their heart but by + giving his own. + _Thomas Wilson_ + + + True friends visit us in prosperity only when invited, but in + adversity they come without invitation. + _Theophrastus_ + + + Now can there be a worse disgrace than this--that I should be + thought to value money more than the life of a friend? + + _Plato_ + + + Love took up the harp of life, and smote on all the chords with might; + Smote the chord of Self, that, trembling, passed in music out of + sight. + _Tennyson_ + + + True friendship's laws are by this rule express'd, + Welcome the coming, speed the parting guest. + + _Homer_ + + + + +Service of Friendship + + + The services which cement friendship are reciprocal services. + + _William Smith_ + + + Friends are to incite one another to God's works. + + _William Ellery Channing_ + + + I do then with my friends as I do with my books. I would have them + where I can find them. + _Emerson_ + + + A principal fruit of friendship is the use and discharge of the + fulness and swellings of the heart, which passions of all kinds do + cause and induce. + _Bacon_ + + + Most of our friendships lack the distinction of greatness, because + we are not ready for little acts of service. + _Hugh Black_ + + + Our friends interpret the world and ourselves to us, if we take them + tenderly and truly. + _A. Bronson Alcott_ + + + Faithful are the wounds of a friend, + But the kisses of an enemy are deceitful. + Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart: + So doth the sweetness of a man's friend by hearty counsel. + Iron sharpeneth iron; + So a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend. + + _Proverbs_ xxvii. 6, 9, 17 + + + Friendship is a disinterested commerce between equals. + + _Goldsmith_ + + + To take the advice of some few friends is ever honourable; for + lookers-on many times see more than gamesters, and the vale best + discovereth the hill. + _Bacon_ + + + Here around the ingle bleezing, + Wha sae happy and sae free; + Tho' the northern wind blaws freezing, + Frien'ship warms baith you and me. + + _Burns_ + + + Friends are the leaders of the bosom, being more ourselves than we + are, and we complement our affections in theirs. + _A. Bronson Alcott_ + + + Where you have friends you should not go to inns. + + _George Eliot_ + + + More things are wrought by prayer + Than this world dreams of. Wherefore, let thy voice + Rise like a fountain for me night and day. + For what are men better than sheep or goats + That nourish a blind life within the brain, + If, knowing God, they lift not hands of prayer + Both for themselves and those who call them friend? + + _Tennyson_ + + + If I mayn't tell you what I feel, what is the use of a friend? + + _Thackeray_ + + + I take of worthy men whate'er they give: + Their heart I gladly take, if not, their hand; + If that, too, is withheld, a courteous word, + Or the civility of placid looks. + + _Joanna Baillie_ + + + Friendship maketh a fair day in the affections, from storm and + tempest; but it maketh daylight in the understanding, out of + darkness and confusion of thoughts. + _Bacon_ + + + He who will not to friends' advice attend; + Must not complain when they him reprehend. + + _Saadi_ + + + There is no such flatterer as is a man's self, and there is no such + remedy against flattery of a man's self as the liberty of a friend. + + _Bacon_ + + + Let flattery, however, the bond-maid of vices, be far removed from + friendship, since it is not only unworthy of a friend, but of a free + man. + _Cicero_ + + + How were friendship possible? In mutual devotedness to the Good and + True: otherwise impossible, except as armed neutrality or hollow + commercial league. A man, be the heavens ever praised, is sufficient + for himself; yet were ten men, united in love, capable of being and + of doing what ten thousand singly would fail in. Infinite is the + help man can yield to man. + _Carlyle_ + + + A real friend is one who will tell you of your faults and follies in + prosperity, and assist you with his hand and heart in adversity. + + _Horace Smith_ + + + There be three sorts of friends: the first is like a torch we meet + in a dark street; the second is like a candle in a lanthorn that we + overtake; the third is like a link that offers itself to the + stumbling passenger. The met torch is the sweet-lipped friend, which + lends us a flash of compliment for the time, but quickly leaves us + to our former darkness. The over-taken lanthorn is the true friend, + which, though it promise but a faint light, yet it goes along with + us as far as it can to our journey's end. The offered link is the + mercenary friend, which though it be ready enough to do us service, + yet that service hath a servile relation to our bounty. + _Quarles_ + + + That which is most beneficent is also most excellent; and therefore + those friendships must needs be most perfect where the friends can + be most useful. + _Jeremy Taylor_ + + + I would not live without the love of my friends. + + _Keats_ + + + Every man has frequent grievances which only the solicitude of + friendship will discover and remedy, and which would remain forever + unheeded in the mighty heap of human calamity, were it only surveyed + by the eye of general benevolence equally attractive to every + misery. + _Samuel Johnson_ + + + There is no man that imparteth his joys to his friend, but he joyeth + the more; and no man that imparteth his griefs to his friend, but he + grieveth the less. + _Bacon_ + + + + +Devotion of Friendship + + + Friendship? two bodies and one soul. + + _Joseph Roux_ + + + It is easy to say how we love _new_ friends, and what we think of + them, but words can never trace out all the fibres that knit us to + the _old_. + _George Eliot_ + + + We still have slept together, + Rose at an instant, learn'd, play'd, eat together: + And wheresoe'er we went like Juno's swans, + Still we went coupled, and inseparable. + + _Shakespeare_ + + + Hold faithfulness and sincerity as first principles; have no friends + not equal to yourself. + _Confucius_ + + + Old friends are best. King James used to call for his old shoes. + They were easiest for his feet. + _John Selden_ + + + Men have sometimes exchanged names with their friends, as if they + would signify that in their friend each loved his own soul. + + _Emerson_ + + + A generous friendship no cold medium knows, + Burns with one love, with one resentment glows, + One should our interests and our passions be, + My friend must hate the man that injures me. + + _Pope_ + + + Keep thy friend under thy own life's key. + + _Shakespeare_ + + + Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for + his friends. + _John_ xv. 13 + + + The friendship of the pure-minded, whether in presence or absence, + is not such that they will find fault with thee behind thy back, and + die for thee in thy presence. + _Saadi_ + + + "Yes, we must ever be friends; and of all who offer you friendship + Let me be ever the first, the truest, the nearest and dearest!" + + _Longfellow_ + + + Friendship like love is but a name, + Unless to one you stint the flame. + The child, whom many fathers share, + Hath seldom known a father's care. + 'Tis thus in friendships; who depend + On many, rarely find a friend. + + _Gay_ + + + There must be many a pair of friends + Who, arm in arm, deserve the warm + Moon-births and the long evening-ends. + So, for their sake, be May still May! + + _Robert Browning_ + + + When two friends part, they should lock up each other's secrets and + exchange keys. + _Anon_ + + + + +Joy of Friendship + + + Life is to be fortified by many friendships. + To love, and to be loved, is the greatest happiness of existence. + + _Sydney Smith_ + + + The joy that comes from a true communion of heart with another is + perhaps one of the purest and greatest in the world. + _Hugh Black_ + + + What joy is better than the news of friends + Whose memories were a solace to me oft, + As mountain-baths to wild fowls in their flight. + + _Robert Browning_ + + + Stay is a charming word in a friend's vocabulary. + + _A. Bronson Alcott_ + + + Who is not ready to acknowledge that friendship is the delight of + youth, the pillar of age, the bloom of prosperity, the charm of + solitude, the solace of adversity, the best benefactor and comforter + in this vale of tears? + _Anon_ + + + + +Reasonableness of Friendship + + + However well proved a friendship may appear, there are confidences + which it should not hear, and sacrifices which should not be + required of it. + _Joseph Roux_ + + + Costly followers are not to be liked; lest while a man maketh his + train longer, he maketh his wings shorter. + _Bacon_ + + + Animals are such agreeable friends--they ask no questions, they pass + no criticisms. + _George Eliot_ + + + Except in cases of necessity, which are rare, leave your friend to + learn unpleasant truths from his enemies; they are ready enough to + tell them. + _Oliver Wendell Holmes_ + + + A true friend will appear such in leaving us to act according to our + intimate conviction,--will cherish this nobleness of sentiment, will + never wish to substitute his power for our own. + + _William Ellery Channing_ + + + The man who prefers his dearest friend to the call of duty will soon + show that he prefers himself to his dearest friend. + _F. W. Robertson_ + + + If you could keep your friend, approach him with a telescope, never + with the microscope. + _Anon_ + + + Give not thy friend so much power that if one day he should become a + foe, thou mayst not be able to resist him. + _Saadi_ + + + Don't flatter yourselves that friendship authorises you to say + disagreeable things to your intimates. On the contrary, the nearer + you come into relation with a person, the more necessary do tact and + courtesy become. + _Oliver Wendell Holmes_ + + + Keep your undrest, familiar style for strangers, but respect your + friend. + _Coventry Patmore_ + + + + +Profession of Friendship + + + Let us, then, be what we are, and speak what we think, and in all + things + Keep ourselves loyal to truth, and the sacred professions of + friendship. + _Longfellow_ + + + It is good discretion not to make too much of any man at first, + because one cannot hold out that proportion. + _Bacon_ + + + The man that hails you Tom or Jack, + And proves by thumps upon your back + How he esteems your merit, + Is such a friend that one had need + Be very much his friend indeed + To pardon or to bear it. + + _Cowper_ + + + I have not from your eyes that gentleness, + And show of love, as I was wont to have; + You bear too stubborn and too strange a hand, + Over your friend that loves you. + + _Shakespeare_ + + + When an enemy has tried every expedient in vain, he will pretend + friendship, and then, by this pretext, execute designs which no + enemy could have effected. + _Saadi_ + + + Worldly friendship is profuse in honeyed words, passionate + endearments, commendations of beauty, while true friendship speaks a + simple honest language. + _Francis de Sales_ + + + Ceremony and great professing renders friendship as much suspected + as it does religion. + _Wycherley_ + + + I am weary + Of the bewildering masquerade of Life, + Where strangers walk as friends and friends as strangers; + Where whispers overheard betray false hearts; + And through the mazes of the crowd we chase + Some form of loveliness, that smiles, and beckons, + And cheats us with fair words, only to leave us + A mockery and a jest; maddened, confused,-- + Not knowing friend from foe. + _Longfellow_ + + + + +Test of Friendship + + + A friend should be like money--tried before being required, not + found faulty in our need. + _Plutarch_ + + + He is our friend who loves more than admires us, and would aid us in + our great work. + _William Ellery Channing_ + + + Know this, that he that is a friend to himself, is a friend to all + men. + _Seneca_ + + + A friend is he who sets his heart upon us, is happy with us, and + delights in us; does for us what we want, is willing and fully + engaged to do all he can for us, on whom we can rely in all cases. + + _William Ellery Channing_ + + + To act the part of a true friend requires more conscientious feeling + than to fill with credit and complacency any other station or + capacity in social life. + _Mrs Ellis_ + + + There are no rules for friendship. It must be left to itself; we + cannot force it any more than love. + _Hazlitt_ + + + If thou wouldst get a friend, prove him first, and be not hasty to + credit him. For some man is a friend for his own occasion, and will + not abide in the day of trouble. + _Ecclesiasticus_ + + + When I see leaves drop from their trees in the beginning of autumn, + just such, think I, is the friendship of the world. Whilst the sap + of maintenance lasts, my friends swarm in abundance; but in the + winter of my need they leave me naked. He is a happy man that hath a + true friend at his need; but he is more truly happy that hath no + need of his friend. + _Warwick_ + + + As the yellow gold is tried in the fire, so the faith of friendship + must be seen in adversity. + _Ovid_ + + + True friendship, like a star, is made brilliant by the dark night. + + _Anon_ + + + + +Proof of Friendship + + + That friendship only is genuine when two friends, without speaking a + word to each other, can, nevertheless, find happiness in being + together. + _George Ebers_ + + + Promises may get friends, but it is performance that must nurse and + keep them. + _Owen Felltham_ + + + He is a friend who, in dubious circumstances, aids in deeds when + deeds are necessary. + _Plautus_ + + + In friendship your heart is like a bell struck every time your + friend is in trouble. + _Henry Ward Beecher_ + + + Let me be alone to the end of the world, rather than that my friend + should overstep by a word or a look his real sympathy. + _Emerson_ + + + The vital air of friendship is composed of confidence. + + _Joseph Roux_ + + + Friendship closes its eyes rather than see the moon eclipst; while + malice denies that it is ever at the full. + _J. C. and A. W. Hare_ + + + The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend. + + _Henry D. Thoreau_ + + + It is a proof of a man's fitness for friendship that he is able to + do without that which is cheap and passionate. A true friendship is + as wise as it is tender. + _Henry D. Thoreau_ + + + A foe to God was ne'er true friend to man, + Some sinister intent taints all he does. + + _Young_ + + + The silence of a friend commonly amounts to treachery. His not + daring to say anything in our behalf implies a tacit censure. + + _Hazlitt_ + + + Think not thy friend one who in fortune's hour + Boasts of his friendship and fraternity. + Him I call friend who sums up all his power + To aid thee in distress and misery. + _Saadi_ + + + + +Constancy of Friendship + + + A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. + + _Proverbs_ xvii. 17 + + + Oh happy days, oh early friends, + How Life since then hath lost its flowers! + But yet--tho' Time _some_ foliage rends, + The stem, the Friendship, still is ours; + And long may it endure, as green + And fresh as it hath always been! + + _Thomas Moore_ + + + A true friend is for ever a friend. + + _George MacDonald_ + + + Your friend has never really loved you, never quite trusted you, who + lightly lets himself think that you have drifted away from him. + + _Bishop Thorold_ + + + There are three faithful friends--an old wife, an old dog, and ready + money. + _Benjamin Franklin_ + + + Should auld acquaintance be forgot, + And never brought to mind? + Should auld acquaintance be forgot, + And days o' lang syne? + + _Burns_ + + + There is no treasure the which may be compared unto a faithful friend; + Gold soone decayeth, and worldly wealth consumeth and wasteth in the + winde: + But love once planted in a perfect and pure minde endureth weale or + woe; + The frownes of fortune, come they never so unkinde, cannot the same + overthrowe. + _Roxburghe Ballads_ + + + I am not of that feather to shake off + My friend when he must need me. + + _Shakespeare_ + + + The faults of our friends ought never to anger us so far as to give + an advantage to our enemies. + _Lord Chesterfield_ + + + Love is and was my Lord and King, + And in his presence I attend + To hear the tidings of my friend, + Which every hour his couriers bring. + + _Tennyson_ + + + So Life's year begins and closes; + Days, though short'ning, still can shine; + What though youth gave love and roses, + Age still leaves us friends and wine. + + _Thomas Moore_ + + + "Let all be forgotten between us-- + All save the dear old friendship, and that shall grow older and + dearer. + _Longfellow_ + + + + +Lack of Friends + + + It is a mere and miserable solitude to want true friends, without + which the world is but a wilderness. + _Bacon_ + + + Ill-starred, indeed, is he who injures men: + Is fortune adverse, he is friendless then. + + _Saadi_ + + + Those that want friends are cannibals of their own hearts. + Communicating a man's self to his friends redoubleth his joys and + cutteth griefs in halves. A friend is another _himself_. If a man + have not a friend, he may quit the world's stage! + _Bacon_ + + + A favourite has no friend. + + _Gray_ + + + It is only the great-hearted who can be true friends; the mean and + cowardly can never know what true friendship means. + + _Charles Kingsley_ + + + We walk alone in the world. Friends such as we desire are dreams and + fables. But a sublime hope cheers ever the faithful heart, that + elsewhere, in other regions of the universal power, souls are now + acting, enduring, and daring, which can love us and which we can + love. + _Emerson_ + + + + +Loss of Friendship + + + Alas! they had been friends in youth; + But whispering tongues can poison truth; + And constancy lives in realms above; + And life is thorny; and youth is vain; + And to be wroth with one we love + Doth work like madness in the brain. + + _Coleridge_ + + + Intimacies which increase vanity destroy friendship. + + _William Ellery Channing_ + + + Between friends, frequent reproofs make the friendship distant. + + _Confucius_ + + + Our friendships hurry to short and poor conclusions, because we have + made them a texture of wine and dreams, instead of the tough fibre + of the human heart. The laws of friendship are great, austere, and + eternal, of one web with the laws of nature and of morals. + + _Emerson_ + + + Each spoke words of high disdain + And insult to his heart's best brother: + They parted--ne'er to meet again! + But never either found another + To free the hollow heart from paining-- + They stood aloof, the scars remaining, + Like cliffs which had been rent asunder; + A dreary sea now flows between. + But neither heat, nor frost, nor thunder, + Shall wholly do away, I ween, + The marks of that which once hath been. + + _Coleridge_ + + + + +Loss of Friends + + + What greetings smile, what farewells wave, + What loved ones enter and depart! + The good, the beautiful, the brave, + The Heaven-lent treasures of the heart! + How conscious seems the frozen sod + And beechen slope whereon they trod! + The oak-leaves rustle, and the dry grass bends + Beneath the shadowy feet of lost or absent friends. + + _Whittier_ + + + O friend! O best of friends! Thy absence more + Than the impending night darkens the landscape o'er! + + _Longfellow_ + + + What shall I do, my friend, + When you are gone forever? + My heart its eager need will send + Through the years to find you never, + And how will it be with you, + In the weary world I wonder, + Will you love me with a love as true, + When our paths be far asunder? + + _Mary Clemmer_ + + + A man dies as he looses his friends. + + _Bacon_ + + + We call that person who has lost his father, an orphan; and a + widower, that man who has lost his wife.... And that man who has + known the immense unhappiness of losing his friend, by what name do + we call him?... Here every human language holds its peace in + impotence. + _Joseph Roux_ + + + The fallying out of faithful frends is the renuyng of love. + + _Richard Edwards_ + + + Alas! how light a cause may move + Dissension between hearts that love!-- + Hearts, that the world in vain had tried + And sorrow but more closely tied; + That stood the storm when waves were rough, + Yet in a sunny hour fall off:-- + Like ships that have gone down at sea, + When heaven is all tranquillity! + + _Thomas Moore_ + + + Waste not the hour of friendship; outside this House of Two Doors + Friends shall soon part asunder, no more together wending. + + _Hafiz_ + + + How are the mighty fallen in the midst of the battle! O Jonathan, + thou wast slain in thine high places. I am distressed for thee, my + brother Jonathan: Very pleasant hast thou been unto me: thy love to + me was wonderful, passing the love of women. + + 2 _Samuel_ i. 25, 26 + + + Some tears fell down my cheeks and then I smiled, + As those smile who have no face in the world + To smile back to them. I had lost a friend. + + _Mrs Browning_ + + + Forgive my grief for one removed, + Thy creature, whom I found so fair. + I trust he lives in thee, and there + I find him worthier to be loved. + + _Tennyson_ + + + To wail friends lost + Is not by much so wholesome--profitable, + As to rejoice at friends but newly found. + + _Shakespeare_ + + + That aching of the breast, the grandest pain that man endures, which + no other can assuage. + _Henry D. Thoreau_ + + + + +Immortality of Friendship + + + A day for toil, an hour for sport, + But for a friend is life too short. + + _Emerson_ + + + Let us lay hold of Friendship. In the eternal life shall we not have + friends for evermore? + _Anna R. Brown_ + + + Love is a sudden blaze which soon decays, + Friendship is like the sun's eternal rays. + + _Gay_ + + + Fast as the rolling seasons bring + The hour of fate to those we love, + Each pearl that leaves the broken string + Is set in friendship's crown above. + As narrower grows the earthly chain, + The circle widens in the sky; + These are our treasures that remain, + But those are stars that beam on high. + + _O. W. Holmes_ + + + True friendship between man and man is infinite and immortal. + + _Plato_ + + + Sweet human hand and lips and eye, + Dear heavenly friend that canst not die; + Strange friend, past, present and to be; + Loved deeplier, darklier understood; + Behold I dream a dream of good, + And mingle all the world with thee. + + Thy voice is on the rolling air; + I hear thee where the waters run; + Thou standest in the rising sun, + And in the setting thou art fair. + + _Tennyson_ + + + Not mine the sad and freezing dream + Of souls that, with their earthly mould, + Cast off the loves and joys of old,-- + * * * * * + No!--I have friends in Spirit Land,-- + Not shadows in a shadowy band, + Not _others_, but _themselves_ are they. + And still I think of them the same + As when the Master's summons came. + + _Whittier_ + + + The way is short, O friend, + That reaches out before us; + God's tender heavens above us bend, + His love is smiling o'er us; + A little while is ours + For sorrow or for laughter; + I'll lay the hand you love in yours + On the shore of the Hereafter. + + _Mary Clemmer_ + + + Yet less of sorrow lives in me + For days of happy commune dead; + Less yearning for the friendship fled, + Than some strong bond which is to be. + + _Tennyson_ + + + + +Index of Authors + + + Addison, 7 + + Alcott, A. B., 43, 44, 57 + + Anon, 26, 56, 57, 60, 68 + + Aristotle, 39 + + Arnot, 25 + + + Bacon, 42, 44, 46, 47, 51, 58, 61, 76, 77, 83 + + Baillie, Joanna, 46 + + Ballads, Roxburghe, 74 + + Beecher, H. W., 69 + + Birrell, Augustine, 30 + + Black, Hugh, 9, 13, 18, 38, 42, 56 + + Blair, 31 + + Brown, Anna R., 32, 35, 87 + + Browning, Robert, 9, 11, 27, 55, 57 + + Browning, Mrs, 85 + + Bruyère, De la, 14 + + Burns, 44, 73 + + Byron, 28 + + + Canticles, 26 + + Carlyle, 48 + + Channing, W. E., 42, 59, 65, 66, 79 + + Chesterfield, Lord, 75 + + Cicero, 7, 27, 37, 47 + + Clemmer, M., 82, 91 + + Coleridge, 35, 78, 80 + + Colton, 8, 32 + + Confucius, 22, 52, 79 + + Cowper, 62 + + + Drummond, Henry, 15 + + + Ebers, 68 + + Ecclesiasticus, 36, 67 + + Edwards, R., 83 + + Eliot, George, 45, 51, 58 + + Ellis, Mrs, 66 + + Emerson, 7, 8, 14, 15, 17, 19, 20, 22, 23, 24, 28, 33, 39, 42, 53, 69, + 78, 79, 87 + + Euripides, 34 + + + Felltham, Owen, 69 + + Fénelon, 30 + + Fielding, 21 + + Franklin, B., 73 + + + Gay, 24, 55, 87 + + Goldsmith, 38, 43 + + Gray, 77 + + + Hafiz, 12, 84 + + Hare, J. C. and A. W., 70 + + Hazlitt, 66, 71 + + Holmes, O. W., 18, 59, 60, 88 + + Homer, 41 + + + Jerrold, Douglas, 13 + + John, St, 25, 54 + + Johnson, Samuel, 13, 50 + + Jonson, Ben, 30 + + + Keats, 50 + + Kingsley, C., 77 + + + Longfellow, 15, 29, 33, 36, 54, 61, 64, 76, 82 + + + MacDonald, George, 73 + + Montaigne, 37 + + Moore, Thomas, 31, 72, 75, 84 + + + Ovid, 68 + + + Patmore, Coventry, 61 + + Persian, From the, 19 + + Philips, Catherine, 12, 20 + + Plato, 40, 88 + + Plautus, 69 + + Plutarch, 25, 65 + + Pope, 53 + + Proverb, German, 35 + + Proverb, Oriental, 33 + + Proverbs, The, 11, 26, 43, 72 + + + Quarles, 49 + + + Robertson, F. W., 59 + + Roux, Joseph, 27, 38, 51, 58, 70, 83 + + + Saadi, 10, 25, 47, 54, 60, 63, 71, 76 + + Sales, Francis de, 63 + + Samuel (Book of), 85 + + Schiller, 35 + + Scuderi, Mlle. de, 17 + + Selden, 52 + + Seneca, 31, 65 + + Shakespeare, 23, 30, 36, 52, 53, 62, 74, 86 + + Smith, Horace, 48 + + Smith, Sydney, 56 + + Smith, William, 41 + + + Taylor, Jeremy, 8, 24, 32, 39, 40, 50 + + Tennyson, 16, 24, 41, 45, 75, 86, 89, 91 + + Thackeray, 9, 46 + + Theophrastus, 40 + + Thoreau, Henry D., 28, 70, 86 + + Thorold, Bishop, 34, 73 + + Throckmorton, Allan, 10 + + + Voltaire, 16 + + + Warwick, 67 + + Washington, George, 37 + + Whittier, 81, 90 + + Wilson, Thomas, 40 + + Wycherley, 63 + + + Young, 21, 71 + + +HERE ENDS NUMBER TWELVE OF SESAME BOOKLETS + + + + +TRANSCRIBER'S NOTES: + + Text in italics is surrounded with underscores: _italics_. + + Spelling and punctuation have been retained from the original. + + + + + + +End of Project Gutenberg's The Golden Link of Friendship, by Various + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK THE GOLDEN LINK OF FRIENDSHIP *** + +***** This file should be named 37982-8.txt or 37982-8.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + http://www.gutenberg.org/3/7/9/8/37982/ + +Produced by Chris Curnow, David E. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: The Golden Link of Friendship + +Author: Various + +Release Date: November 11, 2011 [EBook #37982] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK THE GOLDEN LINK OF FRIENDSHIP *** + + + + +Produced by Chris Curnow, David E. Brown and the Online +Distributed Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net + + + + + + +</pre> + + +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_cover.png" alt="" /></div> +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_end_paper.png" alt="" /></div> +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">SESAME BOOKLETS</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center"><span class="big"><i>LATEST ADDITIONS TO</i><br /> +<i>SESAME BOOKLETS</i></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> + +<tr><td> +41. Rab and his Friends. <i>Brown.</i><br /> +42. Marjorie Fleming. <i>Brown.</i><br /> +43. Poems of the East.<br /> +44. Gems from Balzac.<br /> +45. Thoughts from Tolstoi.<br /> +46. Thoughts from Jerome K. Jerome.<br /> +47. Thoughts from H. G. Wells.<br /> +48. Thoughts from E. F. Benson.<br /> +49. Thoughts from Augustine Birrell.<br /> +50. Thoughts from G. K. Chesterton.</td></tr></table> +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_1" id="Page_1">[Pg 1]</a></span></p> +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_2" id="Page_2">[Pg 2]</a></span></p> + + + +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_005.png" alt="" /></div> + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_3" id="Page_3">[Pg 3]</a></span></p> + +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_006.png" alt="" /></div> + +<p class="center">SESAME BOOKLETS</p> +<p> </p> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">The</span><br /> +<span class="giant">Golden Link of<br /> +Friendship</span></p> +<p> </p> +<p class="center">George G. Harrap & Co.<br /> +3 Portsmouth St. London</p> +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_4" id="Page_4">[Pg 4]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +"<i>A link to bind when circumstances part;<br /> +A nerve of feeling stretched from heart to heart.</i>"</td></tr></table> + +<p class="center">The Riverside Press Ltd., Edinburgh</p> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_5" id="Page_5">[Pg 5]</a></span></p> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco1.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Foreword</span></p> + + +<p class="cap"><i>FRIENDSHIP is one of the most important things in the world. As a +factor in educating the mind, forming the character, guiding the will, +and shaping the destiny, the influence of Friendship can scarcely be +overrated. Friendship has made a man a hero, a saint, a demon!</i></p> + +<p><i>It is to be hoped, therefore, that these Golden Thoughts on +Friendship—garnered from a wide field—will prove helpful and inspiring</i> +<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_6" id="Page_6">[Pg 6]</a></span><i>and tend to create pure and noble ideals in the minds of readers.</i></p> + +<p><i>The touching story of David and Jonathan continues to possess a +surpassing charm for humanity; and the voyager over Life's ocean who +discovers a true friend discovers an island offering a safe, quiet haven +from every storm that blows, and which presents innumerable luscious +fruits and sweet-scented flowers for his refreshment and enjoyment.</i></p> + +<p class="right"><i>A. E. S.</i></p> + + + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_7" id="Page_7">[Pg 7]</a></span></p> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco2.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Birth of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Nature loves nothing solitary, and always reaches out to something +as a support, which ever in the sweetest friend is most delightful.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Cicero</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Great souls by instinct to each other turn,<br /> +Demand alliance, and in friendship burn.</td></tr></table> +<p class="bqright"><i>Addison</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">The only way to have a friend, is to be one.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_8" id="Page_8">[Pg 8]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">Some friendships are made by <i>nature</i>, some by <i>contract</i>, some by +<i>interest</i>, and some by <i>souls</i>.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Jeremy Taylor</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">The firmest friendships have been formed in mutual adversity, as +iron is most strongly united by the fiercest flame.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Colton</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Only that soul can be my friend which I encounter on the line of my +own march, that soul to which I do not decline and which does not +decline to me, but, native of the same celestial latitude, repeats +in its own all my experience.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + + + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_9" id="Page_9">[Pg 9]</a></span></p> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco1.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Culture of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">It is a friendly heart that has plenty of friends.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Thackeray</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">We have few friendships, because we are not willing to pay the price +of friendship.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Hugh Black</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +<span style="margin-left: 7em;">Hand</span><br /> +Grasps hand, eye lights eye in good friendship,<br /> +And great hearts expand,<br /> +And grow one in the sense of this world's life.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Robert Browning</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_10" id="Page_10">[Pg 10]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">A friend whom you have been gaining during your whole life, you +ought not to be displeased with in a moment. A stone is many years +becoming a ruby; take care that you do not destroy it in an instant +against another stone.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Saadi</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Once let friendship be given that is born of God, nor time nor +circumstance can change it to a lessening; it must be mutual growth, +increasing trust, widening faith, enduring patience, forgiving love, +unselfish ambition—an affection built before the Throne, that will +bear the test of time and trial.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Allan Throckmorton</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_11" id="Page_11">[Pg 11]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a +friend that sticketh closer than a brother.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Proverbs</i> xviii. 24</p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +<span style="margin-left: 5em;">You'll never hope</span><br /> +To be such friends, for instance she and you,<br /> +As when you hunted cowslips in the woods<br /> +Or played together in the meadow hay.<br /> +Oh yes—with age, respect comes, and your worth<br /> +Is felt, there's growing sympathy of tastes,<br /> +There's ripened friendship, there's confirmed esteem.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Robert Browning</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_12" id="Page_12">[Pg 12]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Plant thou the tree of friendship only; so shall thy heart's desire bear fruit:<br /> +Uproot thou hatred's plant completely, or woes unnumbered thence may shoot.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Hafiz</i></p> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco2.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Sacredness of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Friendship's an abstract of this noble flame,<br /> +<span style="margin-left: 1em;">'Tis love refin'd, and purged from all its dross,</span><br /> +'Tis next to angels' love, if not the same,<br /> +<span style="margin-left: 1em;">As strong in passion is, though not so gross.</span></td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Catherine Philips</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_13" id="Page_13">[Pg 13]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">Golden friendship is not a common thing to be picked up in the +street.... There are pearls of the heart, which cannot be thrown to +swine.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Hugh Black</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Friendship, peculiar boon of Heaven,<br /> +<span style="margin-left: 1em;">The noble mind's delight and pride,</span><br /> +To men and angels only given,<br /> +<span style="margin-left: 1em;">To all the lower world denied.</span></td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Samuel Johnson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">O Friendship! thou divinest alchemist, that man should ever profane +thee!</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Douglas Jerrold</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_14" id="Page_14">[Pg 14]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">Pure friendship is something which men of inferior intellect can +never taste.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>De la Bruyère</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">The essence of friendship is entireness, a total magnanimity and +trust. It must not surmise or provide for infirmity. It treats its +object as a god that it may deify both.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">For perfect friendship it may be said to require natures so rare and +costly, so well tempered each, and so happily adapted, and withal so +circumstanced that very seldom can its satisfaction be realised.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_15" id="Page_15">[Pg 15]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">Love shows me the opulence of nature, by disclosing to me in my +friend a hidden wealth, and I infer an equal depth of good in every +other direction.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Who talks of a <i>common</i> friendship? There is no such thing in the +world. On earth no word is more sublime. Friendship is the nearest +thing we know to what religion is. God is love.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Henry Drummond</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +"You will forgive me, I hope, for the sake of the friendship between us,<br /> +Which is too true and too sacred to be so easily broken!"</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Longfellow</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_16" id="Page_16">[Pg 16]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +<span style="margin-left: 3em;">He that wrongs his friend</span><br /> +Wrongs himself more, and ever bears about<br /> +A silent court of justice in his breast,<br /> +Himself the judge and jury, and himself<br /> +The prisoner at the bar, ever condemn'd:<br /> +And that drags down his life.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Tennyson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Friendship is the marriage of the soul.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Voltaire</i></p> + + + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_17" id="Page_17">[Pg 17]</a></span></p> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco1.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Beauty of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">The moment we indulge our affections, the earth is metamorphosed: +there is no winter, and no night: all tragedies, all ennuis vanish; +all duties even; nothing fills the preceding eternity but the forms +all radiant of beloved persons.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">The only rose without thorns is friendship.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Mlle. de Scuderi</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_18" id="Page_18">[Pg 18]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">To the young friendship comes as the glory of spring, a very miracle +of beauty, a mystery of birth: to the old it has the bloom of +autumn, beautiful still, but with the beauty of decay.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Hugh Black</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +The pledge of Friendship! it is still divine,<br /> +Though watery floods have quenched its burning wine;<br /> +Whatever vase the sacred drops may hold,<br /> +The gourd, the shell, the cup of beaten gold,<br /> +Around its brim the bond of Nature throws<br /> +A garland sweeter than the banquet's rose.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>O. W. Holmes</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_19" id="Page_19">[Pg 19]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +O friend, my bosom said,<br /> +Through thee alone the sky is arched,<br /> +Through thee the rose is red;<br /> +All things through thee take nobler form,<br /> +And look beyond the earth,<br /> +The mill-round of our fate appears<br /> +A sun-path in thy worth.<br /> +Me too thy nobleness has taught<br /> +To master my despair;<br /> +The fountains of my hidden life<br /> +Are through thy friendship fair.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Friend is a word of royal tone;<br /> +Friend is a poem all alone.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>From the Persian</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_20" id="Page_20">[Pg 20]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">Happy is the house that shelters a friend! It might well be built +like a festal bower or arch, to entertain him a single day.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Thick waters show no images of things;<br /> +Friends are each other's mirrors, and should be<br /> +Clearer than crystal, or the mountain-springs,<br /> +And free from clouds, design, or flattery.<br /> +For vulgar souls no part of friendship share;<br /> +Poets and friends are born to what they are.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Catherine Philips</i></p> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_21" id="Page_21">[Pg 21]</a></span></p> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco2.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Choice of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +First on thy friend deliberate with thyself,<br /> +Pause, ponder, sift; not eager in the choice,<br /> +Nor jealous of the chosen: fixing, fix;—<br /> +Judge before friendship, then confide till death.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Young</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">The highest friendship must always lead us to the highest pleasure.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Fielding</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_22" id="Page_22">[Pg 22]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">Friendship demands a religious treatment. We must not be wilful, we +must not provide. We talk of choosing our friends, but friends are +self-elected. Reverence is a great part of it.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco3.png" alt="" /></div> + +<p class="blockquot">Friendship with the upright; friendship with the sincere; and +friendship with the man of much observation: these are advantageous. +Friendship with the man of specious airs; friendship with the +insinuatingly soft; and friendship with the glib-tongued: these are +injurious.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Confucius</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_23" id="Page_23">[Pg 23]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">Oh, be my friend, and teach me to be thine!</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">My friends have come to me unsought; the great God gave them to me.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +The friends thou hast, and their adoption tried,<br /> +Grapple them to thy soul with hoops of steel;<br /> +But do not dull thy palm with entertainment<br /> +Of each new-hatch'd, unfledged comrade.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Shakespeare</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_24" id="Page_24">[Pg 24]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">He makes no friend who never made a foe.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Tennyson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Who friendship with a knave hath made<br /> +Is judg'd a partner in the trade.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Gay</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">A man's friends are his magnetisms.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">A good man is the best friend, and therefore soonest to be chosen, +longer to be retained, and, indeed, never to be parted with, unless +he cease to be that for which he was chosen.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Jeremy Taylor</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_25" id="Page_25">[Pg 25]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">Friendship sealed by companionship in sin will not last long.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Arnot</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Eschew that friend, if thou art wise,<br /> +Who consorts with thy enemies.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Saadi</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Friendship requires a steady, constant, and unchangeable character, +a person that is uniform in his intimacy.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Plutarch</i></p> + + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco1.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Divine Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Ye are My friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>John</i> xv. 14</p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_26" id="Page_26">[Pg 26]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">His mouth is most sweet: yea, he is altogether lovely. This is my +beloved, and this is my friend, O daughters of Jerusalem.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Canticles</i> v. 16</p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">He that loveth pureness of heart, for the grace of his lips the King +shall be his friend.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Proverbs</i> xxii. 11</p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">It is said that when he came to die, the last words of the American +President Edwards, after bidding his weeping relatives good-bye, +were: "Now where is Jesus of Nazareth, my true and never-failing +Friend?" So saying he fell asleep.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Anon</i></p> + + + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_27" id="Page_27">[Pg 27]</a></span></p> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco2.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Reality of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Friendship is the ideal, friends are the reality; reality always +remains far apart from the ideal.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Joseph Roux</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">They seem to take away the sun from the world who withdraw +friendship from life.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Cicero</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +<span style="margin-left: 4em;">You're my friend—</span><br /> +What a thing friendship is, world without end!<br /> +How it gives the heart and soul a stir up!</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Robert Browning</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_28" id="Page_28">[Pg 28]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">Friendship is Love without his wings!</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Byron</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">I do not wish to treat friendships daintily, but with roughest +courage. When they are real, they are not glass threads or +frostwork, but the solidest thing we know.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Nothing makes the earth seem so spacious as to have friends at a +distance; they make the latitudes and longitudes.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Henry D. Thoreau</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_29" id="Page_29">[Pg 29]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +O, weary hearts! O, slumbering eyes!<br /> +O, drooping souls, whose destinies<br /> +Are fraught with fear and pain,<br /> +Ye shall be loved again!<br /> +<br /> +No one is so accursed by fate,<br /> +No one so utterly desolate,<br /> +But some heart, though unknown,<br /> +Responds unto his own.<br /> +<br /> +Responds,—as if with unseen wings,<br /> +An angel touched its quivering strings;<br /> +And whispers, in its song,<br /> +Where hast thou stayed so long?</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Longfellow</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_30" id="Page_30">[Pg 30]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">Friendship is a word the very sight of which in print makes the +heart warm.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Augustine Birrell</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Real friends are our greatest joy and our greatest sorrow.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Fénelon</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Nature teaches beasts to know their friends.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Shakespeare</i></p> + + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco1.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Worth of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">True happiness consists not in the multitude of friends, but in the +worth and choice.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Ben Jonson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_31" id="Page_31">[Pg 31]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Friendship, mysterious cement of the soul,<br /> +Sweetener of life, and solder of society,<br /> +I owe thee much: thou hast deserv'd from me<br /> +Far, far beyond what I can ever pay.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Blair</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Not all the works of Science, Art,<br /> +Or Genius in this world are worth<br /> +One genuine sigh that from the heart<br /> +Friendship or Love draws freshly forth.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Thomas Moore</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Friendship always benefits, while love sometimes injures.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Seneca</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_32" id="Page_32">[Pg 32]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">To have a friend is to have one of the sweetest gifts that life can +bring: to be a friend is to have a solemn and tender education of +soul from day to day.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Anna R. Brown</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Friendship is an allay of our sorrows, the ease of our passions, the +discharge of our oppressions, the sanctuary to our calamities, the +counsellor of our doubts, the clarity of our minds, the emission of +our thoughts, the exercise and improvement of what we meditate.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Jeremy Taylor</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">True friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom +known until it be lost.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Colton</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_33" id="Page_33">[Pg 33]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">Friendship is an order of nobility; from its revelations we come +more worthily into nature.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Ah, how good it feels! the hand of an old friend.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Longfellow</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +He who has a thousand friends has not a friend to spare,<br /> +But he who has one enemy will meet him everywhere.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Oriental Proverb</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Nor scour the seas, nor sift mankind,<br /> +A poet or a friend to find;<br /> +Behold, he watches at the door,<br /> +Behold his shadow on the floor.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_34" id="Page_34">[Pg 34]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">A friend who will not despise us for our weakness, nor disown us for +our sinfulness, nor tire of us for being troublesome, nor scoff at +us for our sensibility, but who will patiently hear our tale, fully +understand our regret, tenderly recognise our stumbling-blocks, and +be honest enough to tell us the truth, cost us what it may—oh, do +you not see what a real help he might be to us.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Bishop Thorold</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +<span style="margin-left: 8em;">A friend</span><br /> +Welded into our life is more to us<br /> +Than twice five thousand kinsmen, one in blood.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Euripides</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_35" id="Page_35">[Pg 35]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">I used to think that friendship meant happiness: I have learnt that +it means discipline.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Anna R. Brown</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Dear is my friend—yet from my foe, as from my friend comes good:<br /> +My friend shows what I can do, and my foe what I should.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Schiller</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">We can live without a brother, but not without a friend.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>German Proverb</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Love is flower-like;<br /> +Friendship is like a sheltering tree.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Coleridge</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_36" id="Page_36">[Pg 36]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">You shall perceive how you mistake my fortunes; I am wealthy in my +friends.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Shakespeare</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">A faithful friend is the medicine of life.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Ecclesiasticus</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +"I know and esteem you, and feel that your nature is noble,<br /> +Lifting mine up to a higher, a more ethereal level,<br /> +Therefore I value your friendship."</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Longfellow</i></p> + + + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_37" id="Page_37">[Pg 37]</a></span></p> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco2.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Disinterestedness of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">In friendship, there is no commerce or business depending on the +same, but itself.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Montaigne</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">You must therefore love me, myself, and not my circumstances, if we +are to be real friends.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Cicero</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">I can never think of promoting my convenience at the expense of a +friend's interest and inclination.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>George Washington</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_38" id="Page_38">[Pg 38]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">There is possible to-day, as ever, a generous friendship which +forgets self.... The miracle of friendship has been too often +enacted on this dull earth of ours to suffer us to doubt either its +possibility or its wondrous beauty.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Hugh Black</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Friendship is like a debt of honour; the moment it is talked of, it +loses its real name and assumes the more ungrateful form of +obligation.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Goldsmith</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Have friends, not for the sake of receiving, but of giving.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Joseph Roux</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_39" id="Page_39">[Pg 39]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">Amongst true friends there is no fear of losing anything.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Jeremy Taylor</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">When men are friends, there is no need of justice; but when they are +just, they still need friendship.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Aristotle</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Better be a nettle in the side of your friend, than his echo. The +condition which high friendship demands is ability to do without it. +To be capable of that high office requires great and sublime parts. +There must be very two before there can be very one.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_40" id="Page_40">[Pg 40]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">No friendship can excuse a sin.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Jeremy Taylor</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Friendship is to be purchased only by friendship. A man must have +authority over others, but he can never have their heart but by +giving his own.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Thomas Wilson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">True friends visit us in prosperity only when invited, but in +adversity they come without invitation.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Theophrastus</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Now can there be a worse disgrace than this—that I should be +thought to value money more than the life of a friend?</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Plato</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_41" id="Page_41">[Pg 41]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Love took up the harp of life, and smote on all the chords with might;<br /> +Smote the chord of Self, that, trembling, passed in music out of sight.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Tennyson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +True friendship's laws are by this rule express'd,<br /> +Welcome the coming, speed the parting guest.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Homer</i></p> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco1.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Service of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">The services which cement friendship are reciprocal services.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>William Smith</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_42" id="Page_42">[Pg 42]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">Friends are to incite one another to God's works.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>William Ellery Channing</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">I do then with my friends as I do with my books. I would have them +where I can find them.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">A principal fruit of friendship is the use and discharge of the +fulness and swellings of the heart, which passions of all kinds do +cause and induce.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Bacon</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Most of our friendships lack the distinction of greatness, because +we are not ready for little acts of service.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Hugh Black</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_43" id="Page_43">[Pg 43]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">Our friends interpret the world and ourselves to us, if we take them +tenderly and truly.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>A. Bronson Alcott</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Faithful are the wounds of a friend,<br /> +But the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.<br /> +Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart:<br /> +So doth the sweetness of a man's friend by hearty counsel.<br /> +Iron sharpeneth iron;<br /> +So a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Proverbs</i> xxvii. 6, 9, 17</p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Friendship is a disinterested commerce between equals.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Goldsmith</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_44" id="Page_44">[Pg 44]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">To take the advice of some few friends is ever honourable; for +lookers-on many times see more than gamesters, and the vale best +discovereth the hill.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Bacon</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Here around the ingle bleezing,<br /> +Wha sae happy and sae free;<br /> +Tho' the northern wind blaws freezing,<br /> +Frien'ship warms baith you and me.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Burns</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Friends are the leaders of the bosom, being more ourselves than we +are, and we complement our affections in theirs.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>A. Bronson Alcott</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_45" id="Page_45">[Pg 45]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">Where you have friends you should not go to inns.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>George Eliot</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +More things are wrought by prayer<br /> +Than this world dreams of. Wherefore, let thy voice<br /> +Rise like a fountain for me night and day.<br /> +For what are men better than sheep or goats<br /> +That nourish a blind life within the brain,<br /> +If, knowing God, they lift not hands of prayer<br /> +Both for themselves and those who call them friend?</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Tennyson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_46" id="Page_46">[Pg 46]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">If I mayn't tell you what I feel, what is the use of a friend?</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Thackeray</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +I take of worthy men whate'er they give:<br /> +Their heart I gladly take, if not, their hand;<br /> +If that, too, is withheld, a courteous word,<br /> +Or the civility of placid looks.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Joanna Baillie</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Friendship maketh a fair day in the affections, from storm and +tempest; but it maketh daylight in the understanding, out of +darkness and confusion of thoughts.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Bacon</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_47" id="Page_47">[Pg 47]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +He who will not to friends' advice attend;<br /> +Must not complain when they him reprehend.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Saadi</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">There is no such flatterer as is a man's self, and there is no such +remedy against flattery of a man's self as the liberty of a friend.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Bacon</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Let flattery, however, the bond-maid of vices, be far removed from +friendship, since it is not only unworthy of a friend, but of a free +man.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Cicero</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_48" id="Page_48">[Pg 48]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">How were friendship possible? In mutual devotedness to the Good and +True: otherwise impossible, except as armed neutrality or hollow +commercial league. A man, be the heavens ever praised, is sufficient +for himself; yet were ten men, united in love, capable of being and +of doing what ten thousand singly would fail in. Infinite is the +help man can yield to man.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Carlyle</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">A real friend is one who will tell you of your faults and follies in +prosperity, and assist you with his hand and heart in adversity.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Horace Smith</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_49" id="Page_49">[Pg 49]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">There be three sorts of friends: the first is like a torch we meet +in a dark street; the second is like a candle in a lanthorn that we +overtake; the third is like a link that offers itself to the +stumbling passenger. The met torch is the sweet-lipped friend, which +lends us a flash of compliment for the time, but quickly leaves us +to our former darkness. The over-taken lanthorn is the true friend, +which, though it promise but a faint light, yet it goes along with +us as far as it can to our journey's end. The offered link is the +mercenary friend, which though it be ready enough to do us service, +yet that service hath a servile relation to our bounty.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Quarles</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_50" id="Page_50">[Pg 50]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">That which is most beneficent is also most excellent; and therefore +those friendships must needs be most perfect where the friends can +be most useful.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Jeremy Taylor</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">I would not live without the love of my friends.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Keats</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Every man has frequent grievances which only the solicitude of +friendship will discover and remedy, and which would remain forever +unheeded in the mighty heap of human calamity, were it only surveyed +by the eye of general benevolence equally attractive to every +misery.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Samuel Johnson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_51" id="Page_51">[Pg 51]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">There is no man that imparteth his joys to his friend, but he joyeth +the more; and no man that imparteth his griefs to his friend, but he +grieveth the less.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Bacon</i></p> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco3.png" alt="" /></div> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco2.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Devotion of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Friendship? two bodies and one soul.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Joseph Roux</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">It is easy to say how we love <i>new</i> friends, and what we think of +them, but words can never trace out all the fibres that knit us to +the <i>old</i>.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>George Eliot</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_52" id="Page_52">[Pg 52]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +<span style="margin-left: 2em;">We still have slept together,</span><br /> +Rose at an instant, learn'd, play'd, eat together:<br /> +And wheresoe'er we went like Juno's swans,<br /> +Still we went coupled, and inseparable.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Shakespeare</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Hold faithfulness and sincerity as first principles; have no friends +not equal to yourself.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Confucius</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Old friends are best. King James used to call for his old shoes. +They were easiest for his feet.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>John Selden</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_53" id="Page_53">[Pg 53]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">Men have sometimes exchanged names with their friends, as if they +would signify that in their friend each loved his own soul.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +A generous friendship no cold medium knows,<br /> +Burns with one love, with one resentment glows,<br /> +One should our interests and our passions be,<br /> +My friend must hate the man that injures me.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Pope</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Keep thy friend under thy own life's key.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Shakespeare</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_54" id="Page_54">[Pg 54]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for +his friends.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>John</i> xv. 13</p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">The friendship of the pure-minded, whether in presence or absence, +is not such that they will find fault with thee behind thy back, and +die for thee in thy presence.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Saadi</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +"Yes, we must ever be friends; and of all who offer you friendship<br /> +Let me be ever the first, the truest, the nearest and dearest!"</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Longfellow</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_55" id="Page_55">[Pg 55]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Friendship like love is but a name,<br /> +Unless to one you stint the flame.<br /> +The child, whom many fathers share,<br /> +Hath seldom known a father's care.<br /> +'Tis thus in friendships; who depend<br /> +On many, rarely find a friend.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Gay</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +There must be many a pair of friends<br /> +Who, arm in arm, deserve the warm<br /> +Moon-births and the long evening-ends.<br /> +So, for their sake, be May still May!</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Robert Browning</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_56" id="Page_56">[Pg 56]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">When two friends part, they should lock up each other's secrets and +exchange keys.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Anon</i></p> + +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco3.png" alt="" /></div> + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco1.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Joy of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Life is to be fortified by many friendships.<br /> +To love, and to be loved, is the greatest happiness of existence.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Sydney Smith</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">The joy that comes from a true communion of heart with another is +perhaps one of the purest and greatest in the world.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Hugh Black</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_57" id="Page_57">[Pg 57]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +What joy is better than the news of friends<br /> +Whose memories were a solace to me oft,<br /> +As mountain-baths to wild fowls in their flight.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Robert Browning</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Stay is a charming word in a friend's vocabulary.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>A. Bronson Alcott</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Who is not ready to acknowledge that friendship is the delight of +youth, the pillar of age, the bloom of prosperity, the charm of +solitude, the solace of adversity, the best benefactor and comforter +in this vale of tears?</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Anon</i></p> + + + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_58" id="Page_58">[Pg 58]</a></span></p> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco2.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Reasonableness of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">However well proved a friendship may appear, there are confidences +which it should not hear, and sacrifices which should not be +required of it.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Joseph Roux</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Costly followers are not to be liked; lest while a man maketh his +train longer, he maketh his wings shorter.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Bacon</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Animals are such agreeable friends—they ask no questions, they pass +no criticisms.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>George Eliot</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_59" id="Page_59">[Pg 59]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">Except in cases of necessity, which are rare, leave your friend to +learn unpleasant truths from his enemies; they are ready enough to +tell them.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Oliver Wendell Holmes</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">A true friend will appear such in leaving us to act according to our +intimate conviction,—will cherish this nobleness of sentiment, will +never wish to substitute his power for our own.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>William Ellery Channing</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">The man who prefers his dearest friend to the call of duty will soon +show that he prefers himself to his dearest friend.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>F. W. Robertson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_60" id="Page_60">[Pg 60]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">If you could keep your friend, approach him with a telescope, never +with the microscope.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Anon</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Give not thy friend so much power that if one day he should become a +foe, thou mayst not be able to resist him.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Saadi</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Don't flatter yourselves that friendship authorises you to say +disagreeable things to your intimates. On the contrary, the nearer +you come into relation with a person, the more necessary do tact and +courtesy become.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Oliver Wendell Holmes</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_61" id="Page_61">[Pg 61]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">Keep your undrest, familiar style for strangers, but respect your +friend.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Coventry Patmore</i></p> + + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco1.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Profession of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Let us, then, be what we are, and speak what we think, and in all things<br /> +Keep ourselves loyal to truth, and the sacred professions of friendship.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Longfellow</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">It is good discretion not to make too much of any man at first, +because one cannot hold out that proportion.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Bacon</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_62" id="Page_62">[Pg 62]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +The man that hails you Tom or Jack,<br /> +And proves by thumps upon your back<br /> +How he esteems your merit,<br /> +Is such a friend that one had need<br /> +Be very much his friend indeed<br /> +To pardon or to bear it.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Cowper</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +I have not from your eyes that gentleness,<br /> +And show of love, as I was wont to have;<br /> +You bear too stubborn and too strange a hand,<br /> +Over your friend that loves you.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Shakespeare</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_63" id="Page_63">[Pg 63]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">When an enemy has tried every expedient in vain, he will pretend +friendship, and then, by this pretext, execute designs which no +enemy could have effected.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Saadi</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Worldly friendship is profuse in honeyed words, passionate +endearments, commendations of beauty, while true friendship speaks a +simple honest language.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Francis de Sales</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Ceremony and great professing renders friendship as much suspected +as it does religion.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Wycherley</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_64" id="Page_64">[Pg 64]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +<span style="margin-left: 9em;">I am weary</span><br /> +Of the bewildering masquerade of Life,<br /> +Where strangers walk as friends and friends as strangers;<br /> +Where whispers overheard betray false hearts;<br /> +And through the mazes of the crowd we chase<br /> +Some form of loveliness, that smiles, and beckons,<br /> +And cheats us with fair words, only to leave us<br /> +A mockery and a jest; maddened, confused,—<br /> +Not knowing friend from foe.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Longfellow</i></p> + + + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_65" id="Page_65">[Pg 65]</a></span></p> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco2.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Test of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">A friend should be like money—tried before being required, not +found faulty in our need.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Plutarch</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">He is our friend who loves more than admires us, and would aid us in +our great work.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>William Ellery Channing</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Know this, that he that is a friend to himself, is a friend to all +men.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Seneca</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_66" id="Page_66">[Pg 66]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">A friend is he who sets his heart upon us, is happy with us, and +delights in us; does for us what we want, is willing and fully +engaged to do all he can for us, on whom we can rely in all cases.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>William Ellery Channing</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">To act the part of a true friend requires more conscientious feeling +than to fill with credit and complacency any other station or +capacity in social life.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Mrs Ellis</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">There are no rules for friendship. It must be left to itself; we +cannot force it any more than love.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Hazlitt</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_67" id="Page_67">[Pg 67]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">If thou wouldst get a friend, prove him first, and be not hasty to +credit him. For some man is a friend for his own occasion, and will +not abide in the day of trouble.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Ecclesiasticus</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">When I see leaves drop from their trees in the beginning of autumn, +just such, think I, is the friendship of the world. Whilst the sap +of maintenance lasts, my friends swarm in abundance; but in the +winter of my need they leave me naked. He is a happy man that hath a +true friend at his need; but he is more truly happy that hath no +need of his friend.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Warwick</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_68" id="Page_68">[Pg 68]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">As the yellow gold is tried in the fire, so the faith of friendship +must be seen in adversity.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Ovid</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">True friendship, like a star, is made brilliant by the dark night.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Anon</i></p> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco3.png" alt="" /></div> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco1.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Proof of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">That friendship only is genuine when two friends, without speaking a +word to each other, can, nevertheless, find happiness in being +together.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>George Ebers</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_69" id="Page_69">[Pg 69]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">Promises may get friends, but it is performance that must nurse and +keep them.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Owen Felltham</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">He is a friend who, in dubious circumstances, aids in deeds when +deeds are necessary.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Plautus</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">In friendship your heart is like a bell struck every time your +friend is in trouble.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Henry Ward Beecher</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Let me be alone to the end of the world, rather than that my friend +should overstep by a word or a look his real sympathy.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_70" id="Page_70">[Pg 70]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">The vital air of friendship is composed of confidence.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Joseph Roux</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Friendship closes its eyes rather than see the moon eclipst; while +malice denies that it is ever at the full.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>J. C. and A. W. Hare</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Henry D. Thoreau</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">It is a proof of a man's fitness for friendship that he is able to +do without that which is cheap and passionate. A true friendship is +as wise as it is tender.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Henry D. Thoreau</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_71" id="Page_71">[Pg 71]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +A foe to God was ne'er true friend to man,<br /> +Some sinister intent taints all he does.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Young</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">The silence of a friend commonly amounts to treachery. His not +daring to say anything in our behalf implies a tacit censure.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Hazlitt</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Think not thy friend one who in fortune's hour<br /> +Boasts of his friendship and fraternity.<br /> +Him I call friend who sums up all his power<br /> +To aid thee in distress and misery.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Saadi</i></p> + + + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_72" id="Page_72">[Pg 72]</a></span></p> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco2.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Constancy of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Proverbs</i> xvii. 17</p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Oh happy days, oh early friends,<br /> +How Life since then hath lost its flowers!<br /> +But yet—tho' Time <i>some</i> foliage rends,<br /> +The stem, the Friendship, still is ours;<br /> +And long may it endure, as green<br /> +And fresh as it hath always been!</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Thomas Moore</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_73" id="Page_73">[Pg 73]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">A true friend is for ever a friend.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>George MacDonald</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Your friend has never really loved you, never quite trusted you, who +lightly lets himself think that you have drifted away from him.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Bishop Thorold</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">There are three faithful friends—an old wife, an old dog, and ready +money.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Benjamin Franklin</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Should auld acquaintance be forgot,<br /> +And never brought to mind?<br /> +Should auld acquaintance be forgot,<br /> +And days o' lang syne?</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Burns</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_74" id="Page_74">[Pg 74]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +There is no treasure the which may be compared unto a faithful friend;<br /> +Gold soone decayeth, and worldly wealth consumeth and wasteth in the winde:<br /> +But love once planted in a perfect and pure minde endureth weale or woe;<br /> +The frownes of fortune, come they never so unkinde, cannot the same overthrowe.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Roxburghe Ballads</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +I am not of that feather to shake off<br /> +My friend when he must need me.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Shakespeare</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_75" id="Page_75">[Pg 75]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">The faults of our friends ought never to anger us so far as to give +an advantage to our enemies.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Lord Chesterfield</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Love is and was my Lord and King,<br /> +<span style="margin-left: 1em;">And in his presence I attend</span><br /> +<span style="margin-left: 1em;">To hear the tidings of my friend,</span><br /> +Which every hour his couriers bring.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Tennyson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +So Life's year begins and closes;<br /> +Days, though short'ning, still can shine;<br /> +What though youth gave love and roses,<br /> +Age still leaves us friends and wine.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Thomas Moore</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_76" id="Page_76">[Pg 76]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +"Let all be forgotten between us—<br /> +All save the dear old friendship, and that shall grow older and dearer.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Longfellow</i></p> + + +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco3.png" alt="" /></div> + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco1.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Lack of Friends</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">It is a mere and miserable solitude to want true friends, without +which the world is but a wilderness.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Bacon</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Ill-starred, indeed, is he who injures men:<br /> +Is fortune adverse, he is friendless then.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Saadi</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_77" id="Page_77">[Pg 77]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">Those that want friends are cannibals of their own hearts. +Communicating a man's self to his friends redoubleth his joys and +cutteth griefs in halves. A friend is another <i>himself</i>. If a man +have not a friend, he may quit the world's stage!</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Bacon</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">A favourite has no friend.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Gray</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">It is only the great-hearted who can be true friends; the mean and +cowardly can never know what true friendship means.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Charles Kingsley</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_78" id="Page_78">[Pg 78]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">We walk alone in the world. Friends such as we desire are dreams and +fables. But a sublime hope cheers ever the faithful heart, that +elsewhere, in other regions of the universal power, souls are now +acting, enduring, and daring, which can love us and which we can +love.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco2.png" alt="" /></div> + +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Loss of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Alas! they had been friends in youth;<br /> +But whispering tongues can poison truth;<br /> +And constancy lives in realms above;<br /> +And life is thorny; and youth is vain;<br /> +And to be wroth with one we love<br /> +Doth work like madness in the brain.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Coleridge</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_79" id="Page_79">[Pg 79]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">Intimacies which increase vanity destroy friendship.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>William Ellery Channing</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Between friends, frequent reproofs make the friendship distant.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Confucius</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">Our friendships hurry to short and poor conclusions, because we have +made them a texture of wine and dreams, instead of the tough fibre +of the human heart. The laws of friendship are great, austere, and +eternal, of one web with the laws of nature and of morals.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_80" id="Page_80">[Pg 80]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Each spoke words of high disdain<br /> +And insult to his heart's best brother:<br /> +They parted—ne'er to meet again!<br /> +But never either found another<br /> +To free the hollow heart from paining—<br /> +They stood aloof, the scars remaining,<br /> +Like cliffs which had been rent asunder;<br /> +A dreary sea now flows between.<br /> +But neither heat, nor frost, nor thunder,<br /> +Shall wholly do away, I ween,<br /> +The marks of that which once hath been.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Coleridge</i></p> + + + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_81" id="Page_81">[Pg 81]</a></span></p> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco1.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Loss of Friends</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +What greetings smile, what farewells wave,<br /> +What loved ones enter and depart!<br /> +The good, the beautiful, the brave,<br /> +The Heaven-lent treasures of the heart!<br /> +How conscious seems the frozen sod<br /> +And beechen slope whereon they trod!<br /> +The oak-leaves rustle, and the dry grass bends<br /> +Beneath the shadowy feet of lost or absent friends.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Whittier</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_82" id="Page_82">[Pg 82]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +O friend! O best of friends! Thy absence more<br /> +Than the impending night darkens the landscape o'er!</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Longfellow</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +What shall I do, my friend,<br /> +When you are gone forever?<br /> +My heart its eager need will send<br /> +Through the years to find you never,<br /> +And how will it be with you,<br /> +In the weary world I wonder,<br /> +Will you love me with a love as true,<br /> +When our paths be far asunder?</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Mary Clemmer</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_83" id="Page_83">[Pg 83]</a></span></p> + +<p class="center">A man dies as he looses his friends.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Bacon</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="blockquot">We call that person who has lost his father, an orphan; and a +widower, that man who has lost his wife.... And that man who has +known the immense unhappiness of losing his friend, by what name do +we call him?... Here every human language holds its peace in +impotence.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Joseph Roux</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">The fallying out of faithful frends is the renuyng of love.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Richard Edwards</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_84" id="Page_84">[Pg 84]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Alas! how light a cause may move<br /> +Dissension between hearts that love!—<br /> +Hearts, that the world in vain had tried<br /> +And sorrow but more closely tied;<br /> +That stood the storm when waves were rough,<br /> +Yet in a sunny hour fall off:—<br /> +Like ships that have gone down at sea,<br /> +When heaven is all tranquillity!</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Thomas Moore</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Waste not the hour of friendship; outside this House of Two Doors<br /> +Friends shall soon part asunder, no more together wending.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Hafiz</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_85" id="Page_85">[Pg 85]</a></span></p> + +<p class="blockquot">How are the mighty fallen in the midst of the battle! O Jonathan, +thou wast slain in thine high places. I am distressed for thee, my +brother Jonathan: Very pleasant hast thou been unto me: thy love to +me was wonderful, passing the love of women.</p> + +<p class="bqright">2 <i>Samuel</i> i. 25, 26</p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Some tears fell down my cheeks and then I smiled,<br /> +As those smile who have no face in the world<br /> +To smile back to them. I had lost a friend.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Mrs Browning</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_86" id="Page_86">[Pg 86]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Forgive my grief for one removed,<br /> +Thy creature, whom I found so fair.<br /> +I trust he lives in thee, and there<br /> +I find him worthier to be loved.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Tennyson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +<span style="margin-left: 2em;">To wail friends lost</span><br /> +Is not by much so wholesome—profitable,<br /> +As to rejoice at friends but newly found.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Shakespeare</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">That aching of the breast, the grandest pain that man endures, which +no other can assuage.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Henry D. Thoreau</i></p> + + + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_87" id="Page_87">[Pg 87]</a></span></p> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco2.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Immortality of Friendship</span></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +A day for toil, an hour for sport,<br /> +But for a friend is life too short.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Emerson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Let us lay hold of Friendship. In the eternal life shall we not have +friends for evermore?</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Anna R. Brown</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Love is a sudden blaze which soon decays,<br /> +Friendship is like the sun's eternal rays.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Gay</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_88" id="Page_88">[Pg 88]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Fast as the rolling seasons bring<br /> +The hour of fate to those we love,<br /> +Each pearl that leaves the broken string<br /> +Is set in friendship's crown above.<br /> +As narrower grows the earthly chain,<br /> +The circle widens in the sky;<br /> +These are our treasures that remain,<br /> +But those are stars that beam on high.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>O. W. Holmes</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">True friendship between man and man is infinite and immortal.</p> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Plato</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_89" id="Page_89">[Pg 89]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Sweet human hand and lips and eye,<br /> +Dear heavenly friend that canst not die;<br /> +Strange friend, past, present and to be;<br /> +Loved deeplier, darklier understood;<br /> +Behold I dream a dream of good,<br /> +And mingle all the world with thee.<br /> +<br /> +Thy voice is on the rolling air;<br /> +I hear thee where the waters run;<br /> +Thou standest in the rising sun,<br /> +And in the setting thou art fair.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Tennyson</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_90" id="Page_90">[Pg 90]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Not mine the sad and freezing dream<br /> +Of souls that, with their earthly mould,<br /> +Cast off the loves and joys of old,—<br /> + + <strong>·</strong> <strong>·</strong> <strong>·</strong> <strong>·</strong> <strong>·</strong><br/> + +No!—I have friends in Spirit Land,—<br /> +Not shadows in a shadowy band,<br /> +Not <i>others</i>, but <i>themselves</i> are they.<br /> +And still I think of them the same<br /> +As when the Master's summons came.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Whittier</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_91" id="Page_91">[Pg 91]</a></span></p> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +The way is short, O friend,<br /> +That reaches out before us;<br /> +God's tender heavens above us bend,<br /> +His love is smiling o'er us;<br /> +A little while is ours<br /> +For sorrow or for laughter;<br /> +I'll lay the hand you love in yours<br /> +On the shore of the Hereafter.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Mary Clemmer</i></p> + +<p> </p> +<table border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="1" summary="table"> +<tr><td> +Yet less of sorrow lives in me<br /> +<span style="margin-left: 1em;">For days of happy commune dead;</span><br /> +<span style="margin-left: 1em;">Less yearning for the friendship fled,</span><br /> +Than some strong bond which is to be.</td></tr></table> + +<p class="bqright"><i>Tennyson</i></p> + + + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_92" id="Page_92">[Pg 92]</a></span></p> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco1.png" alt="" /></div> +<p class="center"><span class="huge">Index of Authors</span></p> +<p> </p> + +<p> +<span class="smcap">Addison</span>, <a href="#Page_7">7</a><br /> +<br /> +Alcott, A. B., <a href="#Page_43">43</a>, <a href="#Page_44">44</a>, <a href="#Page_57">57</a><br /> +<br /> +Anon, <a href="#Page_26">26</a>, <a href="#Page_56">56</a>, <a href="#Page_57">57</a>, <a href="#Page_60">60</a>, <a href="#Page_68">68</a><br /> +<br /> +Aristotle, <a href="#Page_39">39</a><br /> +<br /> +Arnot, <a href="#Page_25">25</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Bacon</span>, <a href="#Page_42">42</a>, <a href="#Page_44">44</a>, <a href="#Page_46">46</a>, <a href="#Page_47">47</a>, <a href="#Page_51">51</a>, <a href="#Page_58">58</a>, <a href="#Page_61">61</a>, <a href="#Page_76">76</a>, <a href="#Page_77">77</a>, <a href="#Page_83">83</a><br /> +<br /> +Baillie, Joanna, <a href="#Page_46">46</a><br /> +<br /> +Ballads, Roxburghe, <a href="#Page_74">74</a><br /> +<br /> +Beecher, H. W., <a href="#Page_69">69</a><br /> +<br /> +Birrell, Augustine, <a href="#Page_30">30</a><br /> +<br /> +Black, Hugh, <a href="#Page_9">9</a>, <a href="#Page_13">13</a>, <a href="#Page_18">18</a>, <a href="#Page_38">38</a>, <a href="#Page_42">42</a>, <a href="#Page_56">56</a><br /> +<br /> +Blair, <a href="#Page_31">31</a><br /> +<br /> +Brown, Anna R., <a href="#Page_32">32</a>, <a href="#Page_35">35</a>, <a href="#Page_87">87</a><br /> +<br /> +Browning, Robert, <a href="#Page_9">9</a>, <a href="#Page_11">11</a>, <a href="#Page_27">27</a>, <a href="#Page_55">55</a>, <a href="#Page_57">57</a><br /> +<br /> +Browning, Mrs, <a href="#Page_85">85</a><br /> +<br /> +Bruyère, De la, <a href="#Page_14">14</a><br /> +<br /> +Burns, <a href="#Page_44">44</a>, <a href="#Page_73">73</a><br /> +<br /> +Byron, <a href="#Page_28">28</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Canticles</span>, <a href="#Page_26">26</a><br /> +<br /> +Carlyle, <a href="#Page_48">48</a><br /> +<br /> +<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_93" id="Page_93">[Pg 93]</a></span>Channing, W. E., <a href="#Page_42">42</a>, <a href="#Page_59">59</a>, <a href="#Page_65">65</a>, <a href="#Page_66">66</a>, <a href="#Page_79">79</a><br /> +<br /> +Chesterfield, Lord, <a href="#Page_75">75</a><br /> +<br /> +Cicero, <a href="#Page_7">7</a>, <a href="#Page_27">27</a>, <a href="#Page_37">37</a>, <a href="#Page_47">47</a><br /> +<br /> +Clemmer, M., <a href="#Page_82">82</a>, <a href="#Page_91">91</a><br /> +<br /> +Coleridge, <a href="#Page_35">35</a>, <a href="#Page_78">78</a>, <a href="#Page_80">80</a><br /> +<br /> +Colton, <a href="#Page_8">8</a>, <a href="#Page_32">32</a><br /> +<br /> +Confucius, <a href="#Page_22">22</a>, <a href="#Page_52">52</a>, <a href="#Page_79">79</a><br /> +<br /> +Cowper, <a href="#Page_62">62</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Drummond</span>, Henry, <a href="#Page_15">15</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Ebers</span>, <a href="#Page_68">68</a><br /> +<br /> +Ecclesiasticus, <a href="#Page_36">36</a>, <a href="#Page_67">67</a><br /> +<br /> +Edwards, R., <a href="#Page_83">83</a><br /> +<br /> +Eliot, George, <a href="#Page_45">45</a>, <a href="#Page_51">51</a>, <a href="#Page_58">58</a><br /> +<br /> +Ellis, Mrs, <a href="#Page_66">66</a><br /> +<br /> +Emerson, <a href="#Page_7">7</a>, <a href="#Page_8">8</a>, <a href="#Page_14">14</a>, <a href="#Page_15">15</a>, <a href="#Page_17">17</a>, <a href="#Page_19">19</a>, <a href="#Page_20">20</a>, <a href="#Page_22">22</a>, <a href="#Page_23">23</a>, <a href="#Page_24">24</a>, <a href="#Page_28">28</a>, <a href="#Page_33">33</a>, <a href="#Page_39">39</a>, <a href="#Page_42">42</a>, <a href="#Page_53">53</a>, <a href="#Page_69">69</a>, <a href="#Page_78">78</a>, <a href="#Page_79">79</a>, <a href="#Page_87">87</a><br /> +<br /> +Euripides, <a href="#Page_34">34</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Felltham</span>, Owen, <a href="#Page_69">69</a><br /> +<br /> +Fénelon, <a href="#Page_30">30</a><br /> +<br /> +Fielding, <a href="#Page_21">21</a><br /> +<br /> +Franklin, B., <a href="#Page_73">73</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Gay</span>, <a href="#Page_24">24</a>, <a href="#Page_55">55</a>, <a href="#Page_87">87</a><br /> +<br /> +<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_94" id="Page_94">[Pg 94]</a></span>Goldsmith, <a href="#Page_38">38</a>, <a href="#Page_43">43</a><br /> +<br /> +Gray, <a href="#Page_77">77</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Hafiz</span>, <a href="#Page_12">12</a>, <a href="#Page_84">84</a><br /> +<br /> +Hare, J. C. and A. W., <a href="#Page_70">70</a><br /> +<br /> +Hazlitt, <a href="#Page_66">66</a>, <a href="#Page_71">71</a><br /> +<br /> +Holmes, O. W., <a href="#Page_18">18</a>, <a href="#Page_59">59</a>, <a href="#Page_60">60</a>, <a href="#Page_88">88</a><br /> +<br /> +Homer, <a href="#Page_41">41</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Jerrold</span>, Douglas, <a href="#Page_13">13</a><br /> +<br /> +John, St, <a href="#Page_25">25</a>, <a href="#Page_54">54</a><br /> +<br /> +Johnson, Samuel, <a href="#Page_13">13</a>, <a href="#Page_50">50</a><br /> +<br /> +Jonson, Ben, <a href="#Page_30">30</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Keats</span>, <a href="#Page_50">50</a><br /> +<br /> +Kingsley, C., <a href="#Page_77">77</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Longfellow</span>, <a href="#Page_15">15</a>, <a href="#Page_29">29</a>, <a href="#Page_33">33</a>, <a href="#Page_36">36</a>, <a href="#Page_54">54</a>, <a href="#Page_61">61</a>, <a href="#Page_64">64</a>, <a href="#Page_76">76</a>, <a href="#Page_82">82</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">MacDonald</span>, George, <a href="#Page_73">73</a><br /> +<br /> +Montaigne, <a href="#Page_37">37</a><br /> +<br /> +Moore, Thomas, <a href="#Page_31">31</a>, <a href="#Page_72">72</a>, <a href="#Page_75">75</a>, <a href="#Page_84">84</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Ovid</span>, <a href="#Page_68">68</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Patmore</span>, Coventry, <a href="#Page_61">61</a><br /> +<br /> +Persian, From the, <a href="#Page_19">19</a><br /> +<br /> +<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_95" id="Page_95">[Pg 95]</a></span>Philips, Catherine, <a href="#Page_12">12</a>, <a href="#Page_20">20</a><br /> +<br /> +Plato, <a href="#Page_40">40</a>, <a href="#Page_88">88</a><br /> +<br /> +Plautus, <a href="#Page_69">69</a><br /> +<br /> +Plutarch, <a href="#Page_25">25</a>, <a href="#Page_65">65</a><br /> +<br /> +Pope, <a href="#Page_53">53</a><br /> +<br /> +Proverb, German, <a href="#Page_35">35</a><br /> +<br /> +Proverb, Oriental, <a href="#Page_33">33</a><br /> +<br /> +Proverbs, The, <a href="#Page_11">11</a>, <a href="#Page_26">26</a>, <a href="#Page_43">43</a>, <a href="#Page_72">72</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Quarles</span>, <a href="#Page_49">49</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Robertson</span>, F. W., <a href="#Page_59">59</a><br /> +<br /> +Roux, Joseph, <a href="#Page_27">27</a>, <a href="#Page_38">38</a>, <a href="#Page_51">51</a>, <a href="#Page_58">58</a>, <a href="#Page_70">70</a>, <a href="#Page_83">83</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Saadi</span>, <a href="#Page_10">10</a>, <a href="#Page_25">25</a>, <a href="#Page_47">47</a>, <a href="#Page_54">54</a>, <a href="#Page_60">60</a>, <a href="#Page_63">63</a>, <a href="#Page_71">71</a>, <a href="#Page_76">76</a><br /> +<br /> +Sales, Francis de, <a href="#Page_63">63</a><br /> +<br /> +Samuel (Book of), <a href="#Page_85">85</a><br /> +<br /> +Schiller, <a href="#Page_35">35</a><br /> +<br /> +Scuderi, Mlle. de, <a href="#Page_17">17</a><br /> +<br /> +Selden, <a href="#Page_52">52</a><br /> +<br /> +Seneca, <a href="#Page_31">31</a>, <a href="#Page_65">65</a><br /> +<br /> +Shakespeare, <a href="#Page_23">23</a>, <a href="#Page_30">30</a>, <a href="#Page_36">36</a>, <a href="#Page_52">52</a>, <a href="#Page_53">53</a>, <a href="#Page_62">62</a>, <a href="#Page_74">74</a>, <a href="#Page_86">86</a><br /> +<br /> +Smith, Horace, <a href="#Page_48">48</a><br /> +<br /> +Smith, Sydney, <a href="#Page_56">56</a><br /> +<br /> +Smith, William, <a href="#Page_41">41</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_96" id="Page_96">[Pg 96]</a></span><span class="smcap">Taylor</span>, Jeremy, <a href="#Page_8">8</a>, <a href="#Page_24">24</a>, <a href="#Page_32">32</a>, <a href="#Page_39">39</a>, <a href="#Page_40">40</a>, <a href="#Page_50">50</a><br /> +<br /> +Tennyson, <a href="#Page_16">16</a>, <a href="#Page_24">24</a>, <a href="#Page_41">41</a>, <a href="#Page_45">45</a>, <a href="#Page_75">75</a>, <a href="#Page_86">86</a>, <a href="#Page_89">89</a>, <a href="#Page_91">91</a><br /> +<br /> +Thackeray, <a href="#Page_9">9</a>, <a href="#Page_46">46</a><br /> +<br /> +Theophrastus, <a href="#Page_40">40</a><br /> +<br /> +Thoreau, Henry D., <a href="#Page_28">28</a>, <a href="#Page_70">70</a>, <a href="#Page_86">86</a><br /> +<br /> +Thorold, Bishop, <a href="#Page_34">34</a>, <a href="#Page_73">73</a><br /> +<br /> +Throckmorton, Allan, <a href="#Page_10">10</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Voltaire</span>, <a href="#Page_16">16</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Warwick</span>, <a href="#Page_67">67</a><br /> +<br /> +Washington, George, <a href="#Page_37">37</a><br /> +<br /> +Whittier, <a href="#Page_81">81</a>, <a href="#Page_90">90</a><br /> +<br /> +Wilson, Thomas, <a href="#Page_40">40</a><br /> +<br /> +Wycherley, <a href="#Page_63">63</a><br /> +<br /> +<br /> +<span class="smcap">Young</span>, <a href="#Page_21">21</a>, <a href="#Page_71">71</a><br /> +</p> + +<p> </p> +<p> </p> + +<p class="center"><span class="big">HERE ENDS NUMBER TWELVE OF SESAME BOOKLETS</span></p> + +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_deco3.png" alt="" /></div> +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<div class="figcenter"><img src="images/i_end_paper.png" alt="" /></div> + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> + +<p class="center"><span class="huge">TRANSCRIBER'S NOTES:</span></p> +<p> </p> +<p class="center">Spelling and punctuation have been retained from the original.</p> + + + + + + + + +<pre> + + + + + +End of Project Gutenberg's The Golden Link of Friendship, by Various + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK THE GOLDEN LINK OF FRIENDSHIP *** + +***** This file should be named 37982-h.htm or 37982-h.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + http://www.gutenberg.org/3/7/9/8/37982/ + +Produced by Chris Curnow, David E. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: The Golden Link of Friendship + +Author: Various + +Release Date: November 11, 2011 [EBook #37982] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ASCII + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK THE GOLDEN LINK OF FRIENDSHIP *** + + + + +Produced by Chris Curnow, David E. Brown and the Online +Distributed Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net + + + + + + + + + + SESAME BOOKLETS + + + _LATEST ADDITIONS TO + SESAME BOOKLETS_ + + 41. Rab and his Friends. _Brown._ + 42. Marjorie Fleming. _Brown._ + 43. Poems of the East. + 44. Gems from Balzac. + 45. Thoughts from Tolstoi. + 46. Thoughts from Jerome K. Jerome. + 47. Thoughts from H. G. Wells. + 48. Thoughts from E. F. Benson. + 49. Thoughts from Augustine Birrell. + 50. Thoughts from G. K. Chesterton. + + + + +[Illustration] + + + + + SESAME BOOKLETS + + + The + Golden Link of + Friendship + + + George G. Harrap & Co. + 3 Portsmouth St. London + + + "_A link to bind when circumstances part; + A nerve of feeling stretched from heart to heart._" + + The Riverside Press Ltd., Edinburgh + + + + +Foreword + + +_Friendship is one of the most important things in the world. As a +factor in educating the mind, forming the character, guiding the will, +and shaping the destiny, the influence of Friendship can scarcely be +overrated. Friendship has made a man a hero, a saint, a demon!_ + +_It is to be hoped, therefore, that these Golden Thoughts on +Friendship--garnered from a wide field--will prove helpful and inspiring +and tend to create pure and noble ideals in the minds of readers._ + +_The touching story of David and Jonathan continues to possess a +surpassing charm for humanity; and the voyager over Life's ocean who +discovers a true friend discovers an island offering a safe, quiet haven +from every storm that blows, and which presents innumerable luscious +fruits and sweet-scented flowers for his refreshment and enjoyment._ + + _A. E. S._ + + + + +Birth of Friendship + + + Nature loves nothing solitary, and always reaches out to something + as a support, which ever in the sweetest friend is most delightful. + + _Cicero_ + + + + Great souls by instinct to each other turn, + Demand alliance, and in friendship burn. + + _Addison_ + + + The only way to have a friend, is to be one. + + _Emerson_ + + + Some friendships are made by _nature_, some by _contract_, some by + _interest_, and some by _souls_. + _Jeremy Taylor_ + + + The firmest friendships have been formed in mutual adversity, as + iron is most strongly united by the fiercest flame. + _Colton_ + + + Only that soul can be my friend which I encounter on the line of my + own march, that soul to which I do not decline and which does not + decline to me, but, native of the same celestial latitude, repeats + in its own all my experience. + _Emerson_ + + + + +Culture of Friendship + + + It is a friendly heart that has plenty of friends. + + _Thackeray_ + + + We have few friendships, because we are not willing to pay the price + of friendship. + _Hugh Black_ + + + Hand + Grasps hand, eye lights eye in good friendship, + And great hearts expand, + And grow one in the sense of this world's life. + + _Robert Browning_ + + + A friend whom you have been gaining during your whole life, you + ought not to be displeased with in a moment. A stone is many years + becoming a ruby; take care that you do not destroy it in an instant + against another stone. + _Saadi_ + + + Once let friendship be given that is born of God, nor time nor + circumstance can change it to a lessening; it must be mutual growth, + increasing trust, widening faith, enduring patience, forgiving love, + unselfish ambition--an affection built before the Throne, that will + bear the test of time and trial. + _Allan Throckmorton_ + + + A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a + friend that sticketh closer than a brother. + _Proverbs_ xviii. 24 + + + You'll never hope + To be such friends, for instance she and you, + As when you hunted cowslips in the woods + Or played together in the meadow hay. + Oh yes--with age, respect comes, and your worth + Is felt, there's growing sympathy of tastes, + There's ripened friendship, there's confirmed esteem. + + _Robert Browning_ + + + Plant thou the tree of friendship only; so shall thy heart's desire + bear fruit: + Uproot thou hatred's plant completely, or woes unnumbered thence may + shoot. + _Hafiz_ + + + + +Sacredness of Friendship + + + Friendship's an abstract of this noble flame, + 'Tis love refin'd, and purged from all its dross, + 'Tis next to angels' love, if not the same, + As strong in passion is, though not so gross. + + _Catherine Philips_ + + + Golden friendship is not a common thing to be picked up in the + street.... There are pearls of the heart, which cannot be thrown to + swine. + _Hugh Black_ + + + Friendship, peculiar boon of Heaven, + The noble mind's delight and pride, + To men and angels only given, + To all the lower world denied. + + _Samuel Johnson_ + + + O Friendship! thou divinest alchemist, that man should ever profane + thee! + _Douglas Jerrold_ + + + Pure friendship is something which men of inferior intellect can + never taste. + _De la Bruyere_ + + + The essence of friendship is entireness, a total magnanimity and + trust. It must not surmise or provide for infirmity. It treats its + object as a god that it may deify both. + _Emerson_ + + + For perfect friendship it may be said to require natures so rare and + costly, so well tempered each, and so happily adapted, and withal so + circumstanced that very seldom can its satisfaction be realised. + + _Emerson_ + + + Love shows me the opulence of nature, by disclosing to me in my + friend a hidden wealth, and I infer an equal depth of good in every + other direction. + _Emerson_ + + + Who talks of a _common_ friendship? There is no such thing in the + world. On earth no word is more sublime. Friendship is the nearest + thing we know to what religion is. God is love. + _Henry Drummond_ + + + "You will forgive me, I hope, for the sake of the friendship + between us, + Which is too true and too sacred to be so easily broken!" + + _Longfellow_ + + + He that wrongs his friend + Wrongs himself more, and ever bears about + A silent court of justice in his breast, + Himself the judge and jury, and himself + The prisoner at the bar, ever condemn'd: + And that drags down his life. + + _Tennyson_ + + + Friendship is the marriage of the soul. + + _Voltaire_ + + + + +Beauty of Friendship + + + A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature. + + _Emerson_ + + + The moment we indulge our affections, the earth is metamorphosed: + there is no winter, and no night: all tragedies, all ennuis vanish; + all duties even; nothing fills the preceding eternity but the forms + all radiant of beloved persons. + _Emerson_ + + + The only rose without thorns is friendship. + + _Mlle. de Scuderi_ + + + To the young friendship comes as the glory of spring, a very miracle + of beauty, a mystery of birth: to the old it has the bloom of + autumn, beautiful still, but with the beauty of decay. + _Hugh Black_ + + + The pledge of Friendship! it is still divine, + Though watery floods have quenched its burning wine; + Whatever vase the sacred drops may hold, + The gourd, the shell, the cup of beaten gold, + Around its brim the bond of Nature throws + A garland sweeter than the banquet's rose. + + _O. W. Holmes_ + + + O friend, my bosom said, + Through thee alone the sky is arched, + Through thee the rose is red; + All things through thee take nobler form, + And look beyond the earth, + The mill-round of our fate appears + A sun-path in thy worth. + Me too thy nobleness has taught + To master my despair; + The fountains of my hidden life + Are through thy friendship fair. + + _Emerson_ + + + Friend is a word of royal tone; + Friend is a poem all alone. + + _From the Persian_ + + + Happy is the house that shelters a friend! It might well be built + like a festal bower or arch, to entertain him a single day. + + _Emerson_ + + + Thick waters show no images of things; + Friends are each other's mirrors, and should be + Clearer than crystal, or the mountain-springs, + And free from clouds, design, or flattery. + For vulgar souls no part of friendship share; + Poets and friends are born to what they are. + + _Catherine Philips_ + + + + +Choice of Friendship + + + First on thy friend deliberate with thyself, + Pause, ponder, sift; not eager in the choice, + Nor jealous of the chosen: fixing, fix;-- + Judge before friendship, then confide till death. + + _Young_ + + + The highest friendship must always lead us to the highest pleasure. + + _Fielding_ + + + Friendship demands a religious treatment. We must not be wilful, we + must not provide. We talk of choosing our friends, but friends are + self-elected. Reverence is a great part of it. + _Emerson_ + + + Friendship with the upright; friendship with the sincere; and + friendship with the man of much observation: these are advantageous. + Friendship with the man of specious airs; friendship with the + insinuatingly soft; and friendship with the glib-tongued: these are + injurious. + _Confucius_ + + + Oh, be my friend, and teach me to be thine! + + _Emerson_ + + + My friends have come to me unsought; the great God gave them to me. + + _Emerson_ + + + The friends thou hast, and their adoption tried, + Grapple them to thy soul with hoops of steel; + But do not dull thy palm with entertainment + Of each new-hatch'd, unfledged comrade. + + _Shakespeare_ + + + He makes no friend who never made a foe. + + _Tennyson_ + + + Who friendship with a knave hath made + Is judg'd a partner in the trade. + + _Gay_ + + + A man's friends are his magnetisms. + + _Emerson_ + + + A good man is the best friend, and therefore soonest to be chosen, + longer to be retained, and, indeed, never to be parted with, unless + he cease to be that for which he was chosen. + + _Jeremy Taylor_ + + + Friendship sealed by companionship in sin will not last long. + + _Arnot_ + + + Eschew that friend, if thou art wise, + Who consorts with thy enemies. + _Saadi_ + + + Friendship requires a steady, constant, and unchangeable character, + a person that is uniform in his intimacy. + _Plutarch_ + + + + +Divine Friendship + + + Ye are My friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you. + + _John_ xv. 14 + + + His mouth is most sweet: yea, he is altogether lovely. This is my + beloved, and this is my friend, O daughters of Jerusalem. + + _Canticles_ v. 16 + + + He that loveth pureness of heart, for the grace of his lips the King + shall be his friend. + + _Proverbs_ xxii. 11 + + + It is said that when he came to die, the last words of the American + President Edwards, after bidding his weeping relatives good-bye, + were: "Now where is Jesus of Nazareth, my true and never-failing + Friend?" So saying he fell asleep. + _Anon_ + + + + +Reality of Friendship + + + Friendship is the ideal, friends are the reality; reality always + remains far apart from the ideal. + _Joseph Roux_ + + + They seem to take away the sun from the world who withdraw + friendship from life. + + _Cicero_ + + + You're my friend-- + What a thing friendship is, world without end! + How it gives the heart and soul a stir up! + + _Robert Browning_ + + + Friendship is Love without his wings! + + _Byron_ + + + I do not wish to treat friendships daintily, but with roughest + courage. When they are real, they are not glass threads or + frostwork, but the solidest thing we know. + + _Emerson_ + + + Nothing makes the earth seem so spacious as to have friends at a + distance; they make the latitudes and longitudes. + + _Henry D. Thoreau_ + + + O, weary hearts! O, slumbering eyes! + O, drooping souls, whose destinies + Are fraught with fear and pain, + Ye shall be loved again! + + No one is so accursed by fate, + No one so utterly desolate, + But some heart, though unknown, + Responds unto his own. + + Responds,--as if with unseen wings, + An angel touched its quivering strings; + And whispers, in its song, + Where hast thou stayed so long? + + _Longfellow_ + + + Friendship is a word the very sight of which in print makes the + heart warm. + _Augustine Birrell_ + + + Real friends are our greatest joy and our greatest sorrow. + + _Fenelon_ + + + Nature teaches beasts to know their friends. + + _Shakespeare_ + + + + +Worth of Friendship + + + True happiness consists not in the multitude of friends, but in the + worth and choice. + _Ben Jonson_ + + + Friendship, mysterious cement of the soul, + Sweetener of life, and solder of society, + I owe thee much: thou hast deserv'd from me + Far, far beyond what I can ever pay. + + _Blair_ + + + Not all the works of Science, Art, + Or Genius in this world are worth + One genuine sigh that from the heart + Friendship or Love draws freshly forth. + + _Thomas Moore_ + + + Friendship always benefits, while love sometimes injures. + + _Seneca_ + + + To have a friend is to have one of the sweetest gifts that life can + bring: to be a friend is to have a solemn and tender education of + soul from day to day. + _Anna R. Brown_ + + + Friendship is an allay of our sorrows, the ease of our passions, the + discharge of our oppressions, the sanctuary to our calamities, the + counsellor of our doubts, the clarity of our minds, the emission of + our thoughts, the exercise and improvement of what we meditate. + + _Jeremy Taylor_ + + + True friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom + known until it be lost. + _Colton_ + + + Friendship is an order of nobility; from its revelations we come + more worthily into nature. + _Emerson_ + + + Ah, how good it feels! the hand of an old friend. + + _Longfellow_ + + + He who has a thousand friends has not a friend to spare, + But he who has one enemy will meet him everywhere. + + _Oriental Proverb_ + + + Nor scour the seas, nor sift mankind, + A poet or a friend to find; + Behold, he watches at the door, + Behold his shadow on the floor. + + _Emerson_ + + + A friend who will not despise us for our weakness, nor disown us for + our sinfulness, nor tire of us for being troublesome, nor scoff at + us for our sensibility, but who will patiently hear our tale, fully + understand our regret, tenderly recognise our stumbling-blocks, and + be honest enough to tell us the truth, cost us what it may--oh, do + you not see what a real help he might be to us. + _Bishop Thorold_ + + + A friend + Welded into our life is more to us + Than twice five thousand kinsmen, one in blood. + + _Euripides_ + + + I used to think that friendship meant happiness: I have learnt that + it means discipline. + _Anna R. Brown_ + + + Dear is my friend--yet from my foe, as from my friend comes good: + My friend shows what I can do, and my foe what I should. + + _Schiller_ + + + We can live without a brother, but not without a friend. + + _German Proverb_ + + + Love is flower-like; + Friendship is like a sheltering tree. + + _Coleridge_ + + + You shall perceive how you mistake my fortunes; I am wealthy in my + friends. + _Shakespeare_ + + + A faithful friend is the medicine of life. + + _Ecclesiasticus_ + + + "I know and esteem you, and feel that your nature is noble, + Lifting mine up to a higher, a more ethereal level, + Therefore I value your friendship." + + _Longfellow_ + + + + +Disinterestedness of Friendship + + + In friendship, there is no commerce or business depending on the + same, but itself. + _Montaigne_ + + + You must therefore love me, myself, and not my circumstances, if we + are to be real friends. + _Cicero_ + + + I can never think of promoting my convenience at the expense of a + friend's interest and inclination. + _George Washington_ + + + There is possible to-day, as ever, a generous friendship which + forgets self.... The miracle of friendship has been too often + enacted on this dull earth of ours to suffer us to doubt either its + possibility or its wondrous beauty. + _Hugh Black_ + + + Friendship is like a debt of honour; the moment it is talked of, it + loses its real name and assumes the more ungrateful form of + obligation. + _Goldsmith_ + + + Have friends, not for the sake of receiving, but of giving. + + _Joseph Roux_ + + + Amongst true friends there is no fear of losing anything. + + _Jeremy Taylor_ + + + When men are friends, there is no need of justice; but when they are + just, they still need friendship. + _Aristotle_ + + + Better be a nettle in the side of your friend, than his echo. The + condition which high friendship demands is ability to do without it. + To be capable of that high office requires great and sublime parts. + There must be very two before there can be very one. + _Emerson_ + + + No friendship can excuse a sin. + + _Jeremy Taylor_ + + + Friendship is to be purchased only by friendship. A man must have + authority over others, but he can never have their heart but by + giving his own. + _Thomas Wilson_ + + + True friends visit us in prosperity only when invited, but in + adversity they come without invitation. + _Theophrastus_ + + + Now can there be a worse disgrace than this--that I should be + thought to value money more than the life of a friend? + + _Plato_ + + + Love took up the harp of life, and smote on all the chords with might; + Smote the chord of Self, that, trembling, passed in music out of + sight. + _Tennyson_ + + + True friendship's laws are by this rule express'd, + Welcome the coming, speed the parting guest. + + _Homer_ + + + + +Service of Friendship + + + The services which cement friendship are reciprocal services. + + _William Smith_ + + + Friends are to incite one another to God's works. + + _William Ellery Channing_ + + + I do then with my friends as I do with my books. I would have them + where I can find them. + _Emerson_ + + + A principal fruit of friendship is the use and discharge of the + fulness and swellings of the heart, which passions of all kinds do + cause and induce. + _Bacon_ + + + Most of our friendships lack the distinction of greatness, because + we are not ready for little acts of service. + _Hugh Black_ + + + Our friends interpret the world and ourselves to us, if we take them + tenderly and truly. + _A. Bronson Alcott_ + + + Faithful are the wounds of a friend, + But the kisses of an enemy are deceitful. + Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart: + So doth the sweetness of a man's friend by hearty counsel. + Iron sharpeneth iron; + So a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend. + + _Proverbs_ xxvii. 6, 9, 17 + + + Friendship is a disinterested commerce between equals. + + _Goldsmith_ + + + To take the advice of some few friends is ever honourable; for + lookers-on many times see more than gamesters, and the vale best + discovereth the hill. + _Bacon_ + + + Here around the ingle bleezing, + Wha sae happy and sae free; + Tho' the northern wind blaws freezing, + Frien'ship warms baith you and me. + + _Burns_ + + + Friends are the leaders of the bosom, being more ourselves than we + are, and we complement our affections in theirs. + _A. Bronson Alcott_ + + + Where you have friends you should not go to inns. + + _George Eliot_ + + + More things are wrought by prayer + Than this world dreams of. Wherefore, let thy voice + Rise like a fountain for me night and day. + For what are men better than sheep or goats + That nourish a blind life within the brain, + If, knowing God, they lift not hands of prayer + Both for themselves and those who call them friend? + + _Tennyson_ + + + If I mayn't tell you what I feel, what is the use of a friend? + + _Thackeray_ + + + I take of worthy men whate'er they give: + Their heart I gladly take, if not, their hand; + If that, too, is withheld, a courteous word, + Or the civility of placid looks. + + _Joanna Baillie_ + + + Friendship maketh a fair day in the affections, from storm and + tempest; but it maketh daylight in the understanding, out of + darkness and confusion of thoughts. + _Bacon_ + + + He who will not to friends' advice attend; + Must not complain when they him reprehend. + + _Saadi_ + + + There is no such flatterer as is a man's self, and there is no such + remedy against flattery of a man's self as the liberty of a friend. + + _Bacon_ + + + Let flattery, however, the bond-maid of vices, be far removed from + friendship, since it is not only unworthy of a friend, but of a free + man. + _Cicero_ + + + How were friendship possible? In mutual devotedness to the Good and + True: otherwise impossible, except as armed neutrality or hollow + commercial league. A man, be the heavens ever praised, is sufficient + for himself; yet were ten men, united in love, capable of being and + of doing what ten thousand singly would fail in. Infinite is the + help man can yield to man. + _Carlyle_ + + + A real friend is one who will tell you of your faults and follies in + prosperity, and assist you with his hand and heart in adversity. + + _Horace Smith_ + + + There be three sorts of friends: the first is like a torch we meet + in a dark street; the second is like a candle in a lanthorn that we + overtake; the third is like a link that offers itself to the + stumbling passenger. The met torch is the sweet-lipped friend, which + lends us a flash of compliment for the time, but quickly leaves us + to our former darkness. The over-taken lanthorn is the true friend, + which, though it promise but a faint light, yet it goes along with + us as far as it can to our journey's end. The offered link is the + mercenary friend, which though it be ready enough to do us service, + yet that service hath a servile relation to our bounty. + _Quarles_ + + + That which is most beneficent is also most excellent; and therefore + those friendships must needs be most perfect where the friends can + be most useful. + _Jeremy Taylor_ + + + I would not live without the love of my friends. + + _Keats_ + + + Every man has frequent grievances which only the solicitude of + friendship will discover and remedy, and which would remain forever + unheeded in the mighty heap of human calamity, were it only surveyed + by the eye of general benevolence equally attractive to every + misery. + _Samuel Johnson_ + + + There is no man that imparteth his joys to his friend, but he joyeth + the more; and no man that imparteth his griefs to his friend, but he + grieveth the less. + _Bacon_ + + + + +Devotion of Friendship + + + Friendship? two bodies and one soul. + + _Joseph Roux_ + + + It is easy to say how we love _new_ friends, and what we think of + them, but words can never trace out all the fibres that knit us to + the _old_. + _George Eliot_ + + + We still have slept together, + Rose at an instant, learn'd, play'd, eat together: + And wheresoe'er we went like Juno's swans, + Still we went coupled, and inseparable. + + _Shakespeare_ + + + Hold faithfulness and sincerity as first principles; have no friends + not equal to yourself. + _Confucius_ + + + Old friends are best. King James used to call for his old shoes. + They were easiest for his feet. + _John Selden_ + + + Men have sometimes exchanged names with their friends, as if they + would signify that in their friend each loved his own soul. + + _Emerson_ + + + A generous friendship no cold medium knows, + Burns with one love, with one resentment glows, + One should our interests and our passions be, + My friend must hate the man that injures me. + + _Pope_ + + + Keep thy friend under thy own life's key. + + _Shakespeare_ + + + Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for + his friends. + _John_ xv. 13 + + + The friendship of the pure-minded, whether in presence or absence, + is not such that they will find fault with thee behind thy back, and + die for thee in thy presence. + _Saadi_ + + + "Yes, we must ever be friends; and of all who offer you friendship + Let me be ever the first, the truest, the nearest and dearest!" + + _Longfellow_ + + + Friendship like love is but a name, + Unless to one you stint the flame. + The child, whom many fathers share, + Hath seldom known a father's care. + 'Tis thus in friendships; who depend + On many, rarely find a friend. + + _Gay_ + + + There must be many a pair of friends + Who, arm in arm, deserve the warm + Moon-births and the long evening-ends. + So, for their sake, be May still May! + + _Robert Browning_ + + + When two friends part, they should lock up each other's secrets and + exchange keys. + _Anon_ + + + + +Joy of Friendship + + + Life is to be fortified by many friendships. + To love, and to be loved, is the greatest happiness of existence. + + _Sydney Smith_ + + + The joy that comes from a true communion of heart with another is + perhaps one of the purest and greatest in the world. + _Hugh Black_ + + + What joy is better than the news of friends + Whose memories were a solace to me oft, + As mountain-baths to wild fowls in their flight. + + _Robert Browning_ + + + Stay is a charming word in a friend's vocabulary. + + _A. Bronson Alcott_ + + + Who is not ready to acknowledge that friendship is the delight of + youth, the pillar of age, the bloom of prosperity, the charm of + solitude, the solace of adversity, the best benefactor and comforter + in this vale of tears? + _Anon_ + + + + +Reasonableness of Friendship + + + However well proved a friendship may appear, there are confidences + which it should not hear, and sacrifices which should not be + required of it. + _Joseph Roux_ + + + Costly followers are not to be liked; lest while a man maketh his + train longer, he maketh his wings shorter. + _Bacon_ + + + Animals are such agreeable friends--they ask no questions, they pass + no criticisms. + _George Eliot_ + + + Except in cases of necessity, which are rare, leave your friend to + learn unpleasant truths from his enemies; they are ready enough to + tell them. + _Oliver Wendell Holmes_ + + + A true friend will appear such in leaving us to act according to our + intimate conviction,--will cherish this nobleness of sentiment, will + never wish to substitute his power for our own. + + _William Ellery Channing_ + + + The man who prefers his dearest friend to the call of duty will soon + show that he prefers himself to his dearest friend. + _F. W. Robertson_ + + + If you could keep your friend, approach him with a telescope, never + with the microscope. + _Anon_ + + + Give not thy friend so much power that if one day he should become a + foe, thou mayst not be able to resist him. + _Saadi_ + + + Don't flatter yourselves that friendship authorises you to say + disagreeable things to your intimates. On the contrary, the nearer + you come into relation with a person, the more necessary do tact and + courtesy become. + _Oliver Wendell Holmes_ + + + Keep your undrest, familiar style for strangers, but respect your + friend. + _Coventry Patmore_ + + + + +Profession of Friendship + + + Let us, then, be what we are, and speak what we think, and in all + things + Keep ourselves loyal to truth, and the sacred professions of + friendship. + _Longfellow_ + + + It is good discretion not to make too much of any man at first, + because one cannot hold out that proportion. + _Bacon_ + + + The man that hails you Tom or Jack, + And proves by thumps upon your back + How he esteems your merit, + Is such a friend that one had need + Be very much his friend indeed + To pardon or to bear it. + + _Cowper_ + + + I have not from your eyes that gentleness, + And show of love, as I was wont to have; + You bear too stubborn and too strange a hand, + Over your friend that loves you. + + _Shakespeare_ + + + When an enemy has tried every expedient in vain, he will pretend + friendship, and then, by this pretext, execute designs which no + enemy could have effected. + _Saadi_ + + + Worldly friendship is profuse in honeyed words, passionate + endearments, commendations of beauty, while true friendship speaks a + simple honest language. + _Francis de Sales_ + + + Ceremony and great professing renders friendship as much suspected + as it does religion. + _Wycherley_ + + + I am weary + Of the bewildering masquerade of Life, + Where strangers walk as friends and friends as strangers; + Where whispers overheard betray false hearts; + And through the mazes of the crowd we chase + Some form of loveliness, that smiles, and beckons, + And cheats us with fair words, only to leave us + A mockery and a jest; maddened, confused,-- + Not knowing friend from foe. + _Longfellow_ + + + + +Test of Friendship + + + A friend should be like money--tried before being required, not + found faulty in our need. + _Plutarch_ + + + He is our friend who loves more than admires us, and would aid us in + our great work. + _William Ellery Channing_ + + + Know this, that he that is a friend to himself, is a friend to all + men. + _Seneca_ + + + A friend is he who sets his heart upon us, is happy with us, and + delights in us; does for us what we want, is willing and fully + engaged to do all he can for us, on whom we can rely in all cases. + + _William Ellery Channing_ + + + To act the part of a true friend requires more conscientious feeling + than to fill with credit and complacency any other station or + capacity in social life. + _Mrs Ellis_ + + + There are no rules for friendship. It must be left to itself; we + cannot force it any more than love. + _Hazlitt_ + + + If thou wouldst get a friend, prove him first, and be not hasty to + credit him. For some man is a friend for his own occasion, and will + not abide in the day of trouble. + _Ecclesiasticus_ + + + When I see leaves drop from their trees in the beginning of autumn, + just such, think I, is the friendship of the world. Whilst the sap + of maintenance lasts, my friends swarm in abundance; but in the + winter of my need they leave me naked. He is a happy man that hath a + true friend at his need; but he is more truly happy that hath no + need of his friend. + _Warwick_ + + + As the yellow gold is tried in the fire, so the faith of friendship + must be seen in adversity. + _Ovid_ + + + True friendship, like a star, is made brilliant by the dark night. + + _Anon_ + + + + +Proof of Friendship + + + That friendship only is genuine when two friends, without speaking a + word to each other, can, nevertheless, find happiness in being + together. + _George Ebers_ + + + Promises may get friends, but it is performance that must nurse and + keep them. + _Owen Felltham_ + + + He is a friend who, in dubious circumstances, aids in deeds when + deeds are necessary. + _Plautus_ + + + In friendship your heart is like a bell struck every time your + friend is in trouble. + _Henry Ward Beecher_ + + + Let me be alone to the end of the world, rather than that my friend + should overstep by a word or a look his real sympathy. + _Emerson_ + + + The vital air of friendship is composed of confidence. + + _Joseph Roux_ + + + Friendship closes its eyes rather than see the moon eclipst; while + malice denies that it is ever at the full. + _J. C. and A. W. Hare_ + + + The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend. + + _Henry D. Thoreau_ + + + It is a proof of a man's fitness for friendship that he is able to + do without that which is cheap and passionate. A true friendship is + as wise as it is tender. + _Henry D. Thoreau_ + + + A foe to God was ne'er true friend to man, + Some sinister intent taints all he does. + + _Young_ + + + The silence of a friend commonly amounts to treachery. His not + daring to say anything in our behalf implies a tacit censure. + + _Hazlitt_ + + + Think not thy friend one who in fortune's hour + Boasts of his friendship and fraternity. + Him I call friend who sums up all his power + To aid thee in distress and misery. + _Saadi_ + + + + +Constancy of Friendship + + + A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. + + _Proverbs_ xvii. 17 + + + Oh happy days, oh early friends, + How Life since then hath lost its flowers! + But yet--tho' Time _some_ foliage rends, + The stem, the Friendship, still is ours; + And long may it endure, as green + And fresh as it hath always been! + + _Thomas Moore_ + + + A true friend is for ever a friend. + + _George MacDonald_ + + + Your friend has never really loved you, never quite trusted you, who + lightly lets himself think that you have drifted away from him. + + _Bishop Thorold_ + + + There are three faithful friends--an old wife, an old dog, and ready + money. + _Benjamin Franklin_ + + + Should auld acquaintance be forgot, + And never brought to mind? + Should auld acquaintance be forgot, + And days o' lang syne? + + _Burns_ + + + There is no treasure the which may be compared unto a faithful friend; + Gold soone decayeth, and worldly wealth consumeth and wasteth in the + winde: + But love once planted in a perfect and pure minde endureth weale or + woe; + The frownes of fortune, come they never so unkinde, cannot the same + overthrowe. + _Roxburghe Ballads_ + + + I am not of that feather to shake off + My friend when he must need me. + + _Shakespeare_ + + + The faults of our friends ought never to anger us so far as to give + an advantage to our enemies. + _Lord Chesterfield_ + + + Love is and was my Lord and King, + And in his presence I attend + To hear the tidings of my friend, + Which every hour his couriers bring. + + _Tennyson_ + + + So Life's year begins and closes; + Days, though short'ning, still can shine; + What though youth gave love and roses, + Age still leaves us friends and wine. + + _Thomas Moore_ + + + "Let all be forgotten between us-- + All save the dear old friendship, and that shall grow older and + dearer. + _Longfellow_ + + + + +Lack of Friends + + + It is a mere and miserable solitude to want true friends, without + which the world is but a wilderness. + _Bacon_ + + + Ill-starred, indeed, is he who injures men: + Is fortune adverse, he is friendless then. + + _Saadi_ + + + Those that want friends are cannibals of their own hearts. + Communicating a man's self to his friends redoubleth his joys and + cutteth griefs in halves. A friend is another _himself_. If a man + have not a friend, he may quit the world's stage! + _Bacon_ + + + A favourite has no friend. + + _Gray_ + + + It is only the great-hearted who can be true friends; the mean and + cowardly can never know what true friendship means. + + _Charles Kingsley_ + + + We walk alone in the world. Friends such as we desire are dreams and + fables. But a sublime hope cheers ever the faithful heart, that + elsewhere, in other regions of the universal power, souls are now + acting, enduring, and daring, which can love us and which we can + love. + _Emerson_ + + + + +Loss of Friendship + + + Alas! they had been friends in youth; + But whispering tongues can poison truth; + And constancy lives in realms above; + And life is thorny; and youth is vain; + And to be wroth with one we love + Doth work like madness in the brain. + + _Coleridge_ + + + Intimacies which increase vanity destroy friendship. + + _William Ellery Channing_ + + + Between friends, frequent reproofs make the friendship distant. + + _Confucius_ + + + Our friendships hurry to short and poor conclusions, because we have + made them a texture of wine and dreams, instead of the tough fibre + of the human heart. The laws of friendship are great, austere, and + eternal, of one web with the laws of nature and of morals. + + _Emerson_ + + + Each spoke words of high disdain + And insult to his heart's best brother: + They parted--ne'er to meet again! + But never either found another + To free the hollow heart from paining-- + They stood aloof, the scars remaining, + Like cliffs which had been rent asunder; + A dreary sea now flows between. + But neither heat, nor frost, nor thunder, + Shall wholly do away, I ween, + The marks of that which once hath been. + + _Coleridge_ + + + + +Loss of Friends + + + What greetings smile, what farewells wave, + What loved ones enter and depart! + The good, the beautiful, the brave, + The Heaven-lent treasures of the heart! + How conscious seems the frozen sod + And beechen slope whereon they trod! + The oak-leaves rustle, and the dry grass bends + Beneath the shadowy feet of lost or absent friends. + + _Whittier_ + + + O friend! O best of friends! Thy absence more + Than the impending night darkens the landscape o'er! + + _Longfellow_ + + + What shall I do, my friend, + When you are gone forever? + My heart its eager need will send + Through the years to find you never, + And how will it be with you, + In the weary world I wonder, + Will you love me with a love as true, + When our paths be far asunder? + + _Mary Clemmer_ + + + A man dies as he looses his friends. + + _Bacon_ + + + We call that person who has lost his father, an orphan; and a + widower, that man who has lost his wife.... And that man who has + known the immense unhappiness of losing his friend, by what name do + we call him?... Here every human language holds its peace in + impotence. + _Joseph Roux_ + + + The fallying out of faithful frends is the renuyng of love. + + _Richard Edwards_ + + + Alas! how light a cause may move + Dissension between hearts that love!-- + Hearts, that the world in vain had tried + And sorrow but more closely tied; + That stood the storm when waves were rough, + Yet in a sunny hour fall off:-- + Like ships that have gone down at sea, + When heaven is all tranquillity! + + _Thomas Moore_ + + + Waste not the hour of friendship; outside this House of Two Doors + Friends shall soon part asunder, no more together wending. + + _Hafiz_ + + + How are the mighty fallen in the midst of the battle! O Jonathan, + thou wast slain in thine high places. I am distressed for thee, my + brother Jonathan: Very pleasant hast thou been unto me: thy love to + me was wonderful, passing the love of women. + + 2 _Samuel_ i. 25, 26 + + + Some tears fell down my cheeks and then I smiled, + As those smile who have no face in the world + To smile back to them. I had lost a friend. + + _Mrs Browning_ + + + Forgive my grief for one removed, + Thy creature, whom I found so fair. + I trust he lives in thee, and there + I find him worthier to be loved. + + _Tennyson_ + + + To wail friends lost + Is not by much so wholesome--profitable, + As to rejoice at friends but newly found. + + _Shakespeare_ + + + That aching of the breast, the grandest pain that man endures, which + no other can assuage. + _Henry D. Thoreau_ + + + + +Immortality of Friendship + + + A day for toil, an hour for sport, + But for a friend is life too short. + + _Emerson_ + + + Let us lay hold of Friendship. In the eternal life shall we not have + friends for evermore? + _Anna R. Brown_ + + + Love is a sudden blaze which soon decays, + Friendship is like the sun's eternal rays. + + _Gay_ + + + Fast as the rolling seasons bring + The hour of fate to those we love, + Each pearl that leaves the broken string + Is set in friendship's crown above. + As narrower grows the earthly chain, + The circle widens in the sky; + These are our treasures that remain, + But those are stars that beam on high. + + _O. W. Holmes_ + + + True friendship between man and man is infinite and immortal. + + _Plato_ + + + Sweet human hand and lips and eye, + Dear heavenly friend that canst not die; + Strange friend, past, present and to be; + Loved deeplier, darklier understood; + Behold I dream a dream of good, + And mingle all the world with thee. + + Thy voice is on the rolling air; + I hear thee where the waters run; + Thou standest in the rising sun, + And in the setting thou art fair. + + _Tennyson_ + + + Not mine the sad and freezing dream + Of souls that, with their earthly mould, + Cast off the loves and joys of old,-- + * * * * * + No!--I have friends in Spirit Land,-- + Not shadows in a shadowy band, + Not _others_, but _themselves_ are they. + And still I think of them the same + As when the Master's summons came. + + _Whittier_ + + + The way is short, O friend, + That reaches out before us; + God's tender heavens above us bend, + His love is smiling o'er us; + A little while is ours + For sorrow or for laughter; + I'll lay the hand you love in yours + On the shore of the Hereafter. + + _Mary Clemmer_ + + + Yet less of sorrow lives in me + For days of happy commune dead; + Less yearning for the friendship fled, + Than some strong bond which is to be. + + _Tennyson_ + + + + +Index of Authors + + + Addison, 7 + + Alcott, A. B., 43, 44, 57 + + Anon, 26, 56, 57, 60, 68 + + Aristotle, 39 + + Arnot, 25 + + + Bacon, 42, 44, 46, 47, 51, 58, 61, 76, 77, 83 + + Baillie, Joanna, 46 + + Ballads, Roxburghe, 74 + + Beecher, H. W., 69 + + Birrell, Augustine, 30 + + Black, Hugh, 9, 13, 18, 38, 42, 56 + + Blair, 31 + + Brown, Anna R., 32, 35, 87 + + Browning, Robert, 9, 11, 27, 55, 57 + + Browning, Mrs, 85 + + Bruyere, De la, 14 + + Burns, 44, 73 + + Byron, 28 + + + Canticles, 26 + + Carlyle, 48 + + Channing, W. E., 42, 59, 65, 66, 79 + + Chesterfield, Lord, 75 + + Cicero, 7, 27, 37, 47 + + Clemmer, M., 82, 91 + + Coleridge, 35, 78, 80 + + Colton, 8, 32 + + Confucius, 22, 52, 79 + + Cowper, 62 + + + Drummond, Henry, 15 + + + Ebers, 68 + + Ecclesiasticus, 36, 67 + + Edwards, R., 83 + + Eliot, George, 45, 51, 58 + + Ellis, Mrs, 66 + + Emerson, 7, 8, 14, 15, 17, 19, 20, 22, 23, 24, 28, 33, 39, 42, 53, 69, + 78, 79, 87 + + Euripides, 34 + + + Felltham, Owen, 69 + + Fenelon, 30 + + Fielding, 21 + + Franklin, B., 73 + + + Gay, 24, 55, 87 + + Goldsmith, 38, 43 + + Gray, 77 + + + Hafiz, 12, 84 + + Hare, J. C. and A. W., 70 + + Hazlitt, 66, 71 + + Holmes, O. W., 18, 59, 60, 88 + + Homer, 41 + + + Jerrold, Douglas, 13 + + John, St, 25, 54 + + Johnson, Samuel, 13, 50 + + Jonson, Ben, 30 + + + Keats, 50 + + Kingsley, C., 77 + + + Longfellow, 15, 29, 33, 36, 54, 61, 64, 76, 82 + + + MacDonald, George, 73 + + Montaigne, 37 + + Moore, Thomas, 31, 72, 75, 84 + + + Ovid, 68 + + + Patmore, Coventry, 61 + + Persian, From the, 19 + + Philips, Catherine, 12, 20 + + Plato, 40, 88 + + Plautus, 69 + + Plutarch, 25, 65 + + Pope, 53 + + Proverb, German, 35 + + Proverb, Oriental, 33 + + Proverbs, The, 11, 26, 43, 72 + + + Quarles, 49 + + + Robertson, F. W., 59 + + Roux, Joseph, 27, 38, 51, 58, 70, 83 + + + Saadi, 10, 25, 47, 54, 60, 63, 71, 76 + + Sales, Francis de, 63 + + Samuel (Book of), 85 + + Schiller, 35 + + Scuderi, Mlle. de, 17 + + Selden, 52 + + Seneca, 31, 65 + + Shakespeare, 23, 30, 36, 52, 53, 62, 74, 86 + + Smith, Horace, 48 + + Smith, Sydney, 56 + + Smith, William, 41 + + + Taylor, Jeremy, 8, 24, 32, 39, 40, 50 + + Tennyson, 16, 24, 41, 45, 75, 86, 89, 91 + + Thackeray, 9, 46 + + Theophrastus, 40 + + Thoreau, Henry D., 28, 70, 86 + + Thorold, Bishop, 34, 73 + + Throckmorton, Allan, 10 + + + Voltaire, 16 + + + Warwick, 67 + + Washington, George, 37 + + Whittier, 81, 90 + + Wilson, Thomas, 40 + + Wycherley, 63 + + + Young, 21, 71 + + +HERE ENDS NUMBER TWELVE OF SESAME BOOKLETS + + + + +TRANSCRIBER'S NOTES: + + Text in italics is surrounded with underscores: _italics_. + + Spelling and punctuation have been retained from the original. + + + + + + +End of Project Gutenberg's The Golden Link of Friendship, by Various + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK THE GOLDEN LINK OF FRIENDSHIP *** + +***** This file should be named 37982.txt or 37982.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + http://www.gutenberg.org/3/7/9/8/37982/ + +Produced by Chris Curnow, David E. 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