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(This file was produced from images +generously made available by The Internet Archive/American +Libraries.) + + + + + + +_ALICE COGSWELL BEMIS_ + + + + +ALICE COGSWELL BEMIS + +_A SKETCH BY A FRIEND_ + +[Illustration] + +_BOSTON_ +PRIVATELY PRINTED +1920 + + +_The Merrymount Press · Boston_ + +[Illustration] + + + + +ALICE COGSWELL BEMIS + + +Alice Cogswell Bemis came from a long line of good British stock. She +was in the eighth generation from John Cogswell, who was born at +Westbury Leigh, Wiltshire, in 1592. He was a man of standing and of +considerable inherited property. Among the latter were "The Mylls," +called "Ripond," situated in the parish of Fromen, Selwood, together +with the homestead and certain personal property. He married Elizabeth +Thompson, a daughter of the Vicar of Westbury parish. After twenty years +of married life, during which they had lived in the family homestead and +he had carried on his father's prosperous business, he decided to +emigrate to America, and on May 23, 1625, leaving one married daughter +in England, they embarked with their eight other children on the famous +ship, _The Angel Gabriel_. We find no mention of a special reason for +their leaving England, but it was probably the same that led many others +of their type to begin life afresh in the new world; here the +possibilities of the country to be developed were limitless, and +doubtless these offered a better outlook for their children, whose +welfare must have been uppermost in their thoughts and plans. + +The voyage of _The Angel Gabriel_ and its wreck off Pemaquid, on the +coast of Maine, in the frightful gale of August 15, 1625, are told in +the graphic story of the Rev. Richard Mather, who was a passenger on the +ship _James_, which sailed from England on the same day. The _James_ lay +at anchor off the Isles of Shoals while _The Angel Gabriel_ was off +Pemaquid. She was torn from her anchors and obliged to put to sea, but +after two days' terrible battling with storm and wave, reached Boston +harbor with "her sails rent in sunder, and split in pieces, as if they +had been rotten rags." Of _The Angel Gabriel_, he says: "It was burst in +pieces and cast away." Strong winds from the northeast and great tidal +waves made it a total wreck. John Cogswell and all his family were +washed ashore from the broken decks of their ship, but several others +lost their lives. Some of the many valuable possessions they had brought +with them never came to shore, but among the articles saved was a tent +which gave good service at once; this Mr. Cogswell pitched for a +temporary abiding place. As soon as possible he took passage for Boston, +where he made a contract with the captain of a small bark to sail for +Pemaquid and transport his family to Ipswich, Massachusetts, then a +newly settled town. + +The settlers of Ipswich at once appreciated these newcomers, and the +municipal records show that liberal grants of land were made to John +Cogswell. Among them was one spoken of as "Three hundred acres of land +at the further Chebokoe," which later was incorporated as a part of +Essex. Here in 1636 their permanent home was built, and here, covering a +period of over two hundred and fifty years, their descendants cultivated +the land. The Cogswells had brought with them several farm and household +servants, as well as valuable furniture, farming implements, and +considerable money. A log house was soon built, but the boxes containing +their many valuables were unopened until it was practicable for Mr. +Cogswell to build a frame house. A description of this remains, in which +we are told that it stood back from the highway, and was approached +through shrubbery and flowers. It is further said, that among the +treasures which were taken into the new home from the boxes were +several pieces of carved furniture, embroidered curtains, damask table +linen, and much silver plate; that there was a Turkish carpet, an +unusual treasure for those days, is well attested. Their descendants +still treasure relics of their ancestors, such as articles of personal +adornment, a quaint mirror, and an old clock. + +John Cogswell was the third original settler in that part of Ipswich +which is now Essex. His piety, his intelligence, and his comparative +wealth gave him a leading position in the town and the church. His name +is often seen in the records of Ipswich and always with the prefix +"Mr.," which, in those days, was a title of honor given to only a few +who were gentlemen of distinction. He died November 29, 1669, aged +seventy-seven years. His funeral procession traversed a distance of five +miles to the old North graveyard of the First Church, under an escort of +armed men as a protection against a possible attack of Indians. Three +years later the body of Mrs. Cogswell was laid beside her husband's. The +record that remains of her is: "She was a woman of sterling qualities +and dearly loved by all who knew her." Their son, William Cogswell, +seems to have had many of his father's traits and was one of the most +influential citizens of that period. To him was due the establishment of +the parish and church and the building of the meeting-house; and when, +according to the quaint custom of those days, the seats in the +meeting-house were assigned, his wife was given the place by the +minister's wife, a mark of greatest distinction. Two of his grandsons +were men of note. Colonel Nathaniel Wade was an officer in the +Revolutionary army and a personal friend of Washington and Lafayette. +Another, the Rev. Abiel Holmes, father of Dr. Oliver Wendell Holmes, was +a graduate of Yale, and received the degree of Doctor of Divinity from +Edinburgh. He was settled for many years over the First Church of +Cambridge. + +[Illustration: Cogswell House, Ipswich, Mass.] + +One of the deeds of land made to their children was to their son William +"on the south side of Chebacco River." The variation in the spelling of +this proper name is one of the many we find in early New England +records. At the same time a dwelling at Chebacco Falls was given to +Deacon Cornelius Waldo, who had married their daughter Hannah. In +direct line of descent from these two, and in the sixth generation from +the first Cogswell in America, was Ralph Waldo Emerson. Mrs. Bemis was +in the eighth generation, through the son William, and from him also was +descended Oliver Wendell Holmes, in the fifth generation. We cannot well +follow here the descendants of the other children of John and Elizabeth +Cogswell, but certain it is that in each of the generations to the +present day we find many well-educated men and women of character, with +a strong sense of their obligations as citizens, all doing good work for +the world in various lines of activity. They have verified what one has +written concerning John Cogswell and his family: "They were the first of +the name to reach these shores; the lapse of two hundred and fifty years +has given to them a numerous posterity, some of whom in each generation +have lived in eventful periods, have risen to eminence, and fulfilled +distinguished service in the history of the country." + + * * * * * + +[Illustration] + +With these rich inheritances as her birthright, with parents who +enforced and strengthened in their children the principles that they +themselves had been taught, Alice Cogswell was born in the family home +of her parents, Daniel and Mary Davis Randall Cogswell, at Ipswich, on +January 5, 1845. She was one of seven children, three of whom died very +young, and of the seven only her sister Lucy survived her. The mother +died when Alice was only four. Until the time of the father's death, +when she was eighteen and her sister three years older, several +different housekeepers were in charge of the home, and yet it appears +that these two young girls very early and in a way most unusual for any +so young, not only gave life and charm to the house, but directed and +controlled all its activities to a great extent. A cousin who was very +dear to Alice writes to her son of his memory of those days in the quiet +country home at Ipswich, giving a charming picture that shows the spirit +that prompted all her life to its end. He says: "Every one in Ipswich +who remembers her would speak of her sweet, cheery and generous spirit. +One of the very earliest of my childhood recollections is a little +incident that occurred when I could not have been more than four or five +years old. One day my mother let me go all by myself to Uncle +Cogswell's to see Cousin Alice. Our homes were rather near together but +it was to me then a journey of large proportions. At dinner I can +remember that I sat next Cousin Alice in a chair with two big books to +make it high enough. After dinner we went into the garden and picked a +basket of pears which she gave me to take home. This little visit was +like many others that followed and it is typical of all that she has +done throughout a long and useful life. Though I was only a little +fellow, I have a strong impression of an energetic, influential family, +full of good deeds, and of a large house with well stocked cellars and +larders that seemed to exist chiefly for the benefit of neighbors and +friends. Lucy and Alice were beautiful young women. Their mother died +when they were quite young, and while they were in their early 'teens' +they were in charge of the Cogswell home. This they made most +attractive. My boyhood impression is that they were always doing nice +things for people--always sending their friends baskets from their +larder. I have a wonderful impression of Uncle Cogswell's garden. As +gardens go nowadays it may not have been unusual, but to me it was a +rare spot. It contained choice varieties of currants, gooseberries, +pears and cherries. There may have been some apple trees, but I have the +feeling that apples were a trifle common to associate with his exotic +varieties. From the time of my father's death, which occurred when I was +eight years old, Cousin Alice seemed to assume a godmotherly interest in +me and my career. Three evenings a week I went to the Lowell Institute, +which kept me in town too late to go home to Ipswich, and she gave me a +key to her home in Newton and had a room always ready for my use. She +always took a generous interest in my work. Her moral support was +everything to me. She made me feel that my profession was worthy and +dignified." Many students whom she helped in later years would gladly +give the same testimony of support and encouragement received from her. + +The sisters attended the Ipswich Seminary, one of the famous schools of +New England in its day. Its principal, Mrs. Cowles, had an attractive +personality, a cultivated mind, and great force of character. Her +husband, Dr. Cowles, was a clergyman and a man of wide influence, though +because of his blindness he was not in the active ministry for many +years. In spite of this seemingly insurmountable obstacle he was a +constant student, especially of Greek and Hebrew, and wrote much of +value on the Old Testament. His presence added greatly to the household, +whose refined and stimulating atmosphere seems to have made as strong an +impression on the students as did the soundness of the teaching in the +classroom. The two sisters, Lucy and Alice, took the entire course of +study that the seminary offered. Alice graduated from it in 1864. Many +of its pupils became women of large influence in the world, and carried +from their life in the seminary a profound impression of the religious +influences that had surrounded them there. Their own thought and their +manner of life showed the lasting value of the emphasis that had been +laid in the school on the supreme importance of right living and right +thinking. Those who knew the sisters well recall the many times in after +years when, as they mentioned some wise rule for life, they prefaced it +with, "As Mrs. Cowles used to tell us," or "as Dr. Cowles said." One of +Mrs. Cowles's daughters now living writes of Alice: "I remember that she +was universally liked and loved." It was a happy school life and a +happy girlhood for both of these sisters. Notwithstanding their great +loss in having to grow to womanhood without their mother, a loss of +which they were always conscious, they had great compensation in their +close companionship with their father and with each other. Their father +gave them the best of instruction in things spiritual, and unusual +training in all practical matters, especially with regard to the value +of money, how to care for it and how to spend it, and then gave them a +much freer hand in the direction of many personal matters than most +girls of their age were accustomed to have; this freedom they used +wisely. One of them was once asked how they filled their days in times +that often seem very dull and uninteresting to the modern girl with her +round of engagements. The answer was, "We skated in winter and ran wild +in summer." What was said in jest was far from being the literal truth, +but it suggests the happy impression that their girlhood gave them of +genuine freedom guided by the wise counsels of others and their own good +sense. + +[Illustration] + +In June of 1864 Lucy Cogswell was married to Mr. George B. Roberts, and +their house became home to Alice. Mr. Roberts afterward built the house +on Craigie Street, Cambridge, in which they spent the rest of their +lives. It was here that the two generations met often while the Bemis +family lived in the east, and later when they came on from Colorado. The +relation between the sisters had hitherto been a particularly close one, +and was only strengthened by the happy new family ties that came to +each. To those who loved these sisters and saw both come to a time when +feebleness and physical restriction might have been before them, there +can be only rejoicing that they were spared any added weakness of body, +and that there was no clouding of their bright and active minds, no +abatement of interest in the life about them as long as they were here. +Mrs. Roberts had been in such delicate health for several years that it +did not seem possible that she would outlive her sister, but only two +months after their last parting, the great transition came to her also. + + * * * * * + +We are given a charming glimpse into the first meeting between Mr. and +Mrs. Bemis in some interesting reminiscences Mr. Bemis has recently +written for his grandchildren. He had been settled in business in St. +Louis for some years when Alice Cogswell, shortly after her sister's +marriage, went there to visit a very dear aunt, "Aunt Lucy Smyth." The +occasion of their meeting came through Mr. Bemis's first visit to Boston +in 1865, which, in his own words, "resulted in an important occurrence." +He met there a business connection, Mr. Zenas Cushing, who had become +Alice Cogswell's guardian on the death of her father; knowing that Mr. +Bemis was from St. Louis, Mr. Cushing gave him a letter of introduction +to his ward and bespoke his interest in her and his help in any business +advice she might need. Mr. Bemis tells his story thus: "Some three weeks +after my return from Boston I gave myself the pleasure of calling one +evening and presenting the letter. As I am writing these lines I can see +'Miss Cogswell' coming into the parlor where I was awaiting her. She was +dressed in the fashion of the day, having on a silk dress with a very +full skirt held out by a hoop-skirt of large dimensions. She met me +cordially and asked me to be seated and we talked for an hour of my +first trip to Boston, of her guardian and others. As I was leaving and +closing the gate I heard myself saying that I might marry that girl if I +could win her. It was not so-called 'love at first sight,' but it +ripened into love with a few subsequent calls. I think it was a very +fortunate circumstance that I met Alice Cogswell when I did." And very +fortunate for many others did this union prove. The outward condition of +their early lives was very different, but the two families from which +they came were alike in the standards which they held for themselves and +instilled into their children. + +The story of Mr. Bemis's early years is the familiar one of that type of +western pioneer to whom the whole country is deeply indebted. He was +born in Fitchburg, Massachusetts, on May 18, 1833, of parents who had +all the best inheritance to give their children, but few material +possessions. When he was an infant the family moved to a small village +in Chemung County, New York, where his mother's brother, Henry Farwell, +lived with his family. The relation between the two families was a close +one, and five years later it was decided that they should move together +to Illinois. Reports of its fertile soil and what it promised for the +future had come back to them by the slow and uncertain mails. They knew +that it offered more for themselves, and what was far more important to +them, for their children, than they could ever have in their present +surroundings. When they made the great change they knew well the dangers +and difficulties that must be met on the journey when taken under the +most favorable conditions. They knew, too, how these would be increased +in their case, as they were taking so many young children, eight in all; +but the courageous band to which they belonged were men and women of +industry and personal integrity, with a strong sense of real values, +who, having made their decision, took no reckoning of obstacles to the +end before them. + +It was a long, difficult journey. In a pleasant sketch of this that Mr. +Bemis has given, we have only the remembrance of such incidents as stay +in the memory of a child. There is no mention of hardships. He recalls +the covered wagon, but knows only from others of the slow journey to +Buffalo, thence by boat to Detroit, and the continued journey to +Chicago, then Fort Dearborn, where they did not remain for fear of +being eaten by mosquitoes or of having fever and ague, and so camped at +what is now Oak Park. Thence they moved on to Lighthouse Point, Ogle +County, Illinois, where the Bemis family found a temporary lodging in a +log cabin and the others lived in covered wagons until they had built a +comfortable cabin for themselves. + +From the beginning of the making of the new home on the empty prairie, +the children took their full share in the work it involved. Mr. Bemis +has told us that he was doing from one-half to two-thirds of a man's +work on the farm when he was twelve years old, the year in which his +wife was born into the well-established life of a fine old New England +town, rich for her in all the inheritances that seven generations gave; +all the way before her made as smooth as love and ample means could make +it. + +At the age of nineteen Mr. Bemis left the farm and began his business +career in Chicago as clerk to a shipping firm. After six years, with +only his own savings for his capital, and helped by the loan of some +machinery supplied by a cousin, he went to St. Louis and began the +business which has borne his name for over sixty years, a name that is +a synonym in all the business world for ability and integrity. His +success did not come by accident, or by any so-called good fortune, but +as the result of patience and perseverance, steadily following the +principles and the rules he laid down for himself very early in life. He +speaks with gratitude of the fact that he had to learn by force of +circumstances "the blessedness of drudgery and the value of time and +money in his long hours of work and in the closest practice of economy." + +We have seen how different were the outward circumstances of their early +lives. In temperament also Mr. and Mrs. Bemis differed much; but in +sympathy on all great matters, in their ideals of life, and their +unfailing recognition of their own personal obligation and duty, they +were always one. In the reminiscences he has written for his +grandchildren, Mr. Bemis says: "Parents can lay the foundation for each +child by their own life. They are giving daily examples by their actions +and by word of mouth. If parents are living well-ordered and Christian +lives, their children will be likely to follow their example. They will +know nothing else. Good boys and girls make good men and women. An +educated and scientific carpenter will hew and mortise the timbers to +fit the keys that bind the frame to a complete and solid house, so that +storm and winds pass it by unharmed. So with boys and girls; if their +characters are moulded in truth, mortised and keyed together with +obedience to God and man, when they become men and women they will +withstand the environment of bad persons and escape unscathed. Hence +their young lives, founded on the bedrock of Christian characters, are +well qualified to work out their own destiny and make their lives +whatever they will." + + * * * * * + +[Illustration] + +Mr. and Mrs. Bemis were married at the home of Mr. and Mrs. George B. +Roberts, in Cambridgeport, Massachusetts, on November 21, 1866, and went +directly to their new home in St. Louis. There the oldest son, Judson +Cogswell, was born in December of the following year; and there they +remained until they returned to Boston in 1870, when for business +reasons it became necessary for Mr. Bemis to have his headquarters in +that city. After the birth of the second son, Albert Farwell, they moved +to Newton, Massachusetts, where their three other children were born: +Maude, now Mrs. Reginald H. Parsons, Lucy Gardner, who lived less than +three years, and Alice, now Mrs. Frederick M. P. Taylor. Three of these +survived their mother and had long been established in their own homes +before she left them. To the father and mother was given the great +happiness of seeing each of these new households controlled by the same +standards of right and the same sense of personal and civic +responsibility on which they had built their own united lives. + +Mr. and Mrs. Bemis's home was in Newton for eleven years, and during +that time it was the centre for the family connection in New England and +for many friends. It was always rich in association for themselves and +family, and was made rich in the same way for many others. Family cares +that came upon Mrs. Bemis and the part she took in the life of the +church and the community made the years spent there the most active of +her life. After her removal to Colorado Springs, she showed in a +practical and liberal form her interest in the First Congregational +Church in that city, which the family attended, but she had such a +strong sentiment about the church at Newton and the experiences that +came to her while connected with it that she never removed her +membership; its pastor, Dr. Calkins, and his wife were among her most +valued friends. + + * * * * * + +In 1881 a serious throat trouble developed, and Mrs. Bemis was taken +south for the winter. She did not gain there, and the following year was +sent to Colorado Springs. Slight hope was then given to her family of +her living more than a few months, but the climate and the sunshine +effected what had seemed impossible, and within a few years she was able +to lead a comparatively normal life in the new home where she was +happily settled. A house was rented for the family until 1885, when the +one at 508 North Cascade Avenue was built. This was henceforth home to +her and to all the family as long as she was there with her welcome for +them, and it soon became a centre for a large number of friends who are +rich in memories of the unfailing welcome and genuine hospitality so +freely given them. These were not restricted to a limited number with +tastes and outward circumstances that were comparatively alike, but were +extended to a large circle that differed widely in both of these. The +sincerity, genuineness, and simplicity of the lives of those that made +this home created an atmosphere that was felt as soon as one entered it. + +Many of the younger generation both within and without the family circle +will have enduring memories of that house. Alan Gregg recalled in a few +words childhood memories that were common to many; writing from his post +in France he said: "Mrs. Bemis's death was a great surprise and shock, +and the long time that elapsed between knowing of her illness and her +death made me feel pretty far away. I remember her letting me play that +music box to my heart's content, and the way she made Gregg laugh at an +unexpected fall he took, instead of cry, better than anything else. She +could also do nice things for you without spilling over into +sentimentality." + +Her grandchildren's recollections of her will be mostly in connection +with events in their own homes, where her visits were looked for eagerly +by those on the Atlantic coast and those on the Pacific, but happily +some of them are old enough to remember and pass on to the others the +impression made on them and on other children in the family connection, +of the grandmother's great pleasure in being with them and her plans for +their comfort and happiness. They recall the perfect housekeeping, where +the wheels seemed to move easily and were always out of sight; the +daintiness of all its appointments, which was shown too in the dress and +personal adornments of her who made this home and of those who shared it +with her. Here she welcomed many of her old friends and also new +acquaintances with whom lasting friendships were formed; here the +children gathered around them a fine group of congenial companions who +became their lasting friends; here they grew to manhood and to +womanhood; from thence they were all married, and hither they all +returned many times, with wife, husbands, and their own sons and +daughters for happy family reunions. + +In this home the saddest as well as the most joyful experiences of her +life came to her. The former were borne with the calmness and strength +shown only by those with great capacity for suffering and great power of +self-control. The hardest trial that she had ever known was at a time +when she had little physical strength to meet it. After a year with the +family in Colorado, the eldest son, Judson, was sent to a manual +training school at St. Louis, Missouri, where there were many family +friends. He was a lad of much promise, a great reader, with varied gifts +and tastes. He had a very social nature and a warm interest in people, +was noble in character, and deep in his affections. The separation was +very hard for his mother, but it was met with the unselfishness she +always showed when her children's interests were to be considered. She +herself chose it, as she wanted him to have this special kind of +training that could not be found nearer home. In the second year of his +absence he was taken suddenly ill with pneumonia. His parents were +summoned at once, and his father arrived before his death, but his +mother could not reach St. Louis till some hours later. The loss of the +little daughter Lucy, who had died in Newton of scarlet fever, was still +fresh in her memory when the new sorrow came. This was borne +wonderfully, but it changed all life for her as nothing else ever did. +In 1904 came the third break in the family circle, when Mrs. Parsons +with her beautiful little girl, Alice Loraine, nearly three years old, +the first granddaughter in the family, was visiting her grandparents in +Colorado Springs. No child could have been more tenderly loved and cared +for than she, but nothing could avert the fatal illness that developed +soon after their arrival. + + * * * * * + +During the years that followed her going west, Mrs. Bemis spent only one +summer there. For several successive seasons she went with her children +to Minnetonka in Minnesota; but it was not possible for Mr. Bemis to be +with them there more than he was during the winter, because of its +distance from Boston, and a happy change came to all when later Mrs. +Bemis had gained enough to make it safe for her to spend some months of +each year by the sea on Cape Ann, where the family had headquarters for +many summers. Twice she went abroad with her children; first during the +summer of 1891 and five years later for a year of study and extended +travel for her daughters. Marjorie Gregg, who knew her well, recalling +her many journeys, says: "Few not loving travel for its own sake could +or would have taken so many long journeys. The trips east in the spring +and back to Colorado in the autumn became a habit, and she carried them +out with precision and determination that did not ignore discomforts; +she saw these, felt them and mentioned them, but never feared or +regarded them. She planned and packed and made all arrangements without +confusion or mistakes; never 'took it out' on other people, but refused +help even in late years. It would be impossible to count up the miles +travelled, the time spent on Pullman cars, the trunks packed--all not +because of _Wanderlust_, curiosity, or restlessness, but for love of +family--that she and her children might be with their father half of +each year and that she might keep close to her sister and nieces, whose +relation to 'Aunt Alice' was as close as if the two families had lived +in the same town. Later Grandpa and Grandma Bemis journeyed together +indefatigably." + +When Mr. Bemis laid aside many of the details of his business, they +chose Lake Mohonk, New York, for their summer home, and the last seven +summers of her life were spent very happily there; so happily, that each +year they engaged the same rooms for the following season and said they +meant to do this as long as they lived. It became a real home to them. +Mr. and Mrs. Smiley, wonderful host and hostess to all, were soon their +warm personal friends, and many pleasant acquaintances with guests were +renewed each year. Among their most valued friends there was Dr. Faunce, +president of Brown University, who conducted the Sunday services year +after year. They considered his sermons as among the best and most +helpful they ever heard, and after each season thought and talked much +of them, always looking forward to the coming of the summer Sundays, +their brightest days at Mohonk. Here every condition met their tastes +and their needs; the great beauty of the place itself, the quiet and +peace of the house, the wise and unusual way in which it is ordered, all +combined to give them an ideal residence for the summer. The fact that +young people of a fine type were always there added much to Mrs. Bemis's +pleasure. She enjoyed watching their sports and their life in the open. +Her windows overlooked the lake, and she sat there hour after hour +watching the parties coming and going in boats and climbing the hills. +Her delight in the beauties of the whole picture before her, than which +there are few to compare with it the world over, grew steadily with each +day there. Just before leaving Mohonk for the last time, she wrote to a +young cousin: "I wish I could transport you all here. I have always said +that I would like to live on a beautiful estate and have no care of it; +and here I have been for seven summers and no place by any possibility +could be finer. Mr. Smiley did not spoil nature but kept its wonderful +beauty and added to it." + + * * * * * + +During the last years they were together, Mr. and Mrs. Bemis made +several interesting trips to California and to Seattle, to be with their +daughter, Mrs. Parsons. The mere recital of all these journeyings may +give the impression that the life in Colorado Springs was a very broken +one, but it did not seem so to her friends there, for at each return it +was resumed so quickly and so quietly that they think of it rather as +continuous. No friend and no interest she had in any work that helped on +the general welfare was ever ignored or forgotten by her wherever she +might be. + +Probably there has never been any one in Colorado Springs with so many +enforced absences and the same limitations of strength who has done as +much as she in enriching individual lives with friendship and the +community life with sympathy and generous material aid. Nothing that she +counted a duty sat lightly on her mind or conscience. + +Miss Ellen T. Brinley, who was for many years a friend and neighbor of +Mrs. Bemis, wrote shortly after her death: "She was a real New Englander +of a type all too rare in these degenerate days. For many years she was +not very strong, and yet she was one of the least self-indulgent people +that ever lived. Wealth to her was not a reason for luxury and pleasure +seeking, but an opportunity for helping others--with a lack of +ostentation characteristic of her whole nature. She was truly a secret +helper. That the young should have their chance in life and that the +paths of the needy should be made more easy, became increasingly the +object of her life. Colorado College and the Young Women's Christian +Association were the two organizations in Colorado Springs whose welfare +she had most at heart, and for them she was constantly devising liberal +things. In the wakeful hours of the night, she planned to relieve the +sufferings of others, and her spirit of good will came from no weak +sentimentality. She was a woman of good judgment, an incisive mind, and +a strong character. She was a wonderfully loyal friend and her daily +life centred in her own family circle, in a few personal friendships, +and in the benevolence which was her avocation." + +[Illustration] + +Even her closest friends knew but little of her constant and quiet deeds +of kindness, and that rarely from her directly. It could never be said +of her that she was "confidential with her left hand." From the +recipients of her generosity more is known than could have been learned +from her. Often with an apology lest she might seem to intrude, she +learned if friends, and sometimes mere acquaintances and even strangers, +needed assistance at a time when she knew an emergency had come to them, +and often asked others to be the means of meeting such needs, not +letting it be known whence the help came. "Just tell them you have it to +give away," she would often say. Sometimes she gave to personal friends +a check, asking that they spend it as they thought best in ministering +to others. + +This was done for many years to some who were in close touch with the +students of Colorado College. "Don't take the trouble to give an account +of this," she would say, "only be sure that it goes where it is really +needed." But when the account was rendered, she wanted to hear all that +could be told of the circumstances of each one who had been helped, and +often arranged that certain of these should have further assistance. To +a number this was voluntarily continued during their professional +studies. The following, from a letter to her son in 1908, shows her +sympathetic understanding of the students whom she helped: + +"I wonder if I told you that the suit that you left here I gave to Mrs. +S---- for one of the college boys. The lining was greatly worn and so I +pinned on an envelope with $5.00 in it and she gave it to a very needy +fellow who is working and attending college. She had a letter from him +and from the mother. I am going to send her letter and some other +letters from other boys to whom the President has given a little from +time to time from a little that I gave him early in the winter. I want +you to read them, for I don't think that any of us realize how brave +these poor students are, and really they are the ones whom we hear of +later; the rich men's sons fall short in some way." + + * * * * * + +Mrs. Bemis was one of a group of women who, in the spring of 1889, +organized the Women's Education Society of Colorado College. The +resolutions passed by its executive board at the time of her death so +adequately express her relation to the Society that they are here quoted +in full: + +"The Executive Board of the Women's Educational Society wishes to place +on record its sense of irreparable loss in the passing of Alice Cogswell +Bemis. + +"Her association with the work of the Society has extended over a long +period of years, and her part in it has always been characterized by +fidelity to the purpose of the organization and keen discrimination in +the execution of the trust. She brought to the problems confronting the +Board rare insight and judgment, and her business acumen was +invaluable. + +"Many students of Colorado College are personally indebted to her for +the removal of obstacles in the way of the successful prosecution of +their work in which her interest was vital and perennial. A story of +genuine need never failed to elicit her assistance. Of her general +constructive planning for the many-sided life of the young women, Bemis +Hall and Cogswell Theatre are enduring evidence. + +"The Board has lost a useful member, her friends a wise counselor, and +philanthropic agencies a generous helper to whom worthy cause or person +never appealed in vain." + +Another organization to which she contributed much pleasure and from +which she received the same is the Art Club of Colorado Springs. A group +of women whose personal relation to her was close and increasingly dear +as the years passed, formed its membership. They met twice a month at +each other's houses, read, and studied pictures, finding, as one says, +"an alleviation not unwelcome in that life where tuberculosis and the +gold fever of the early days alternately possessed the atmosphere." The +Art Club owed much of its genuine life to Mrs. Bemis; her interest in +art, her keenness to acquire and classify the knowledge that she loved, +was as strong as her friendship and neighborliness. The utmost +hospitality to invalid strangers was part and parcel of those Colorado +Springs early days, and in goodness to obscure invalids and in lending a +hand in hard times no one could tell the extent of her benefactions. + +All that Mrs. Bemis did will never be known, and what she gave was never +told at the time unless it seemed best for obvious reasons that her +identification with a good movement should be made public. The +unsolicited gifts must have been manifold compared with those she gave +in response to appeals. It was always easy to approach her for any good +cause. If she gave, it was always with good will; if she declined to do +so, a distinct reason for the refusal was stated; and she was as careful +not to pauperize by giving as she was not to withhold where it was due, +and was entirely free from the bitterness common to a certain type of +persons who are wont to think that their generosity is being imposed +upon. She often afforded amusement to her friends by the way in which +she prefaced an offer of help with a seeming apology. She even seemed +at times to call those who were working in a good cause to account +because its pressing needs had not been met, and then met them herself. + +A notable instance of this was her gift of the gymnasium to the Young +Women's Christian Association. When the present Association building was +erected she gave generously to the building fund. A gymnasium was +greatly needed then, but no money was available for it. A space was left +on the lot that had been purchased in the hope that a building might be +put there later. Very soon the growth of the work showed that no +gymnasium adequate even for the present demands could be built on that +limited space. The girls of the Association clamored for it and the +members of the board, who even more than they knew how much it was +needed, were heavy hearted. No one spoke of the situation to Mrs. Bemis +until she herself broached it to one of the board in a tone that, to one +who did not know her, might have seemed a reprimand. She prefaced what +was on her mind thus: "I do not approve at all of your putting up a +building on that small space. You ought to buy that lot to the north." +The board member could but agree. The protest was again made, and the +board member could only repeat her agreement, but knew from the manner +of approach to the subject that something was back in Mrs. Bemis's mind +that she would have to tell, though she wished it might be known without +her telling it! And then it came. She would like to see that lot when no +one would know that she was looking at it, and if it wasn't too much +trouble, could it be arranged for her to do this? It was planned that +she should go early one Sunday morning to the building, when very few +were in the lower rooms. She looked out on the vacant space and said, +"Don't you see _it will not do at all_?" Within twenty-four hours she +asked some one to negotiate for the purchase of the lot at the north and +gave it to the Association, adding a check that made possible the +present beautiful gymnasium. She dismissed with no mistaken emphasis the +proposal that this should bear her name. Her pleasure in the building +was great, and in expressing this pleasure she always seemed only to be +commending the Association for having it. Her part in it seemed nothing +to her. "Others have had to do all the work," she would say if her gift +was mentioned. + +When Bemis Hall, the main residence for girls at Colorado College, was +being built, it was found that by excavating under the dining-room there +would be space for a theatre, in which the students could give plays and +various college meetings might be held. This was done, and the room was +named Cogswell Theatre in her honor. It must be admitted that the latter +was done under protest, although aided and abetted by some of her +family. "What would my ancestors say to having a theatre bear their +name!" she said, laughing. Among the memories of the past nine years to +those who have enjoyed that little theatre, none is happier than that of +seeing the faces of two very dear friends following each word and +movement on the stage, laughing at times till the tears came, and giving +over and over their entire approval of the existence of the theatre, +with no further protest against its name. These two friends rarely +missed seeing whatever was presented on that stage, though seldom +tempted by public entertainments to give up their quiet evenings at +home. Indeed, everything in that beautiful hall named for Mr. +Bemis--whose generosity, to the college is there made known only in +part--seemed to give them pleasure, and no one else will ever cross its +threshold who can receive just the kind of welcome they always found +awaiting them. + +While the number of organizations which Mrs. Bemis helped is not known, +and it is impossible to mention those which for many years counted on +her interest and liberal support, one must be noted as showing her +abiding interest in all that related to her native town and the region +about it. This is the Ipswich Historical Society, which was organized in +1890, and of which she was the first life member. On its twenty-fifth +anniversary, in response to what was only a printed appeal, she sent the +first substantial gift of money it received. Within a few months of her +death, learning that a fireproof building for the Society had been +proposed, she wrote to Mr. T. Franklin Waters, its president, asking for +particulars of the plan under consideration, and on receipt of his reply +sent a check for so large a proportion of the estimated cost that she +was asked to consent to have the building named for her. Following a +determination made long before that her gifts should not be made +conspicuous in any way, she would not consent to this. + + * * * * * + +Mrs. Bemis was as quick, open, and generous in her recognition of what +others did along philanthropic lines as she was reticent concerning her +own good deeds. This was especially noticeable in her attitude toward +all the private and public benefactions of her husband and children. Her +quiet satisfaction in these was beautiful to see. Her children received +all sympathy and encouragement in every good work they undertook, but +she never assumed the right to dictate in these matters or took any +credit to herself for anything they did, not thinking of the power of +her example and the life-long training she had given them. + +Her recognition of all her husband's benefactions and her sympathy in +his planning for them were unfailing. One of the most important and far +reaching of these was in connection with a work along social lines in +the town of Bemis, Tennessee, where his firm had built a cotton mill. +From the inception of the town the need of this work was much in the +thought of their son, who has since succeeded his father as president +of their company, and whose practical interest in the betterment of all +social relations, especially of those between the employer and the +employed, is widely known. Together they carried out their ideals in the +new town of Bemis. The operators were those known in the south as poor +whites. The opening of the mill gave to these people an undreamed of +opportunity to earn money. It also offered to them a great privilege and +at the same time a possibility of great danger. The privilege was that +of being able for the first time in their lives to command money and to +use it so that it would make them better and happier; the danger was +that they might use it so that moral deterioration would follow. Both +these possibilities were foreseen in the first plans for the town, and +provision was made for the physical, mental, and spiritual needs of the +people that would as far as possible avert the danger. A social worker +was engaged to live as a friend among the people, and a church, school, +and library were provided for them. Mrs. Bemis had much pleasure in +following every step in the development of this work, while careful to +disclaim any credit for its success, again not thinking what her +encouragement and coöperation meant to both husband and son. But they +and all her children pay her full tribute for the stimulus of example +and for the sympathy shown in every good work to which they put their +hands. + + * * * * * + +This woman of many noble traits was especially endowed with the rare +gift of loyal and understanding friendship. Her relation to kindred and +personal friends brought to her and to them an unusual degree of +happiness. This was so great a factor in her life that it may seem as if +special mention of many of these friends should be made in even so brief +a sketch as this. But they themselves will realize how impossible this +would be because the circle to which they belong is so large. She was +not blind to the failings of her friends, but was clear in her +comprehension of their fundamental traits, and her love for them, her +strong though often undemonstrative interest in them, never abated. +While she added to their number many times during her stay in different +places, no new friend or new interest ever took the place of an old one. +Her generous heart had room for all whom she took to it. + +Her correspondence with friends was surprisingly large in view of the +frequency of her letters to her own immediate circle; when the family +became widely scattered this might easily have been made an excuse for +dropping much of the general correspondence, but instead of that it grew +as the circle of her interest widened. No one was neglected and all +letters were written with her own hand. During the last years of her +life much of her mail that was not personal became a distinct burden +with its increasing appeals from all directions, but she conscientiously +attended to it all herself. An abundance of good common sense helped her +to ignore many of these, but any that could not be laid aside lightly +she investigated in a way that took much time and strength. + +Her outspoken nature and uncompromising mind often made her draw hard +and fast lines in no unmistakable way as to conduct that met her +approval or condemnation, but she asked no one to come up to any +standard higher than she had laid down for herself. She wanted above all +things to be just, and few people are so essentially just as she was. To +quote a friend, "her judgment of character was clear, just, and +vigorous." + +One fixed habit of her mind must not be overlooked: this was +unwillingness to accept any help in whatever she could possibly do +herself. Many friends thought this a failing and frequently told her so. +They were wont to rebel against the fact that they could not serve her, +while she was a past master in the art of serving others. Her swift +motions and deft hands, impelled by her quick mind, would outwit half a +dozen people who were looking for means by which to circumvent her. No +amount of urging could lead her to agree to be waited upon if that could +be avoided, and she often refused to accept ministrations at times when +it seemed to others that they were necessary to her comfort. But even at +such times she would withhold no service for another. Whatever mention +the Recording Angel may make of this failing, it will be very brief +compared with what is written of the countless deeds of love and of +kindness for others with which she filled her days. + + * * * * * + +Fortunately, many letters to the family and other friends have been +kept. They are singularly like her; never diffuse, but with that rare +and happy characteristic of telling concretely and clearly what was of +most interest to those to whom they were written, and never letting +irrelevant generalities take the place of matters of importance. In +reading these letters consecutively we are struck by the naïve and +unconscious way in which she reveals much of herself. They contain few +allusions to her own discomforts, but abound in sympathy for any that +have come to those to whom she is writing; they show how her happiness +never depended on anything that she might obtain for herself, while she +magnifies whatever others do for her. Social gatherings that brought old +friends and new together she enjoyed in a simple, whole-hearted way; she +cordially approved of fun and encouraged it by giving and taking it, but +never seemed to seek diversion. Her happiness came from what was close +at hand, especially in the simple every day gifts that are bestowed on +us all. Among her papers is found this "Line of Cheer:" + + "_I love the air of hill and sea + That puts its crispness into me. + I love the smiling of the sky + That sets its twinkle in mine eye. + I love the vigor of the gale + That lends me strength where mine doth fail. + I love the golden light of day + That makes my jaded spirit gay. + I love the dark of night whose guest + I find myself when I would rest. + And gratitude doth hold me thrall + Unto the Giver of them all._" + +A few sentences taken at random from the letters show that this +expressed what was in her mind: "The day has been beautiful. You know +this is the rainless season and the hills, as we came along, were all +brown, no green grass anywhere, but the trees are beautiful with very +full leafage, showing that the air is very moist.... I wish that you +could see 'The Springs' now it is so very beautiful.... I have some dear +little finches building in their evergreen trees. I think that there are +several pairs. Tell Gregg that I can look from my chamber window +directly into a robin's nest." + +In one of her letters to her grandchildren she says: "I went down to the +Young Women's Christian Association rooms yesterday afternoon to take +tea and hear the report of those who have been raising money to support +the work there. Some little girls were having their gymnastic lessons +and were having a very jolly time. At last the leaves are all off of the +trees and I think the little wayside flowers must have had their noses +pinched last night by Jack Frost." + +Her interest not only in the beauty of the world about her but in what +others are doing to make it bring forth and bud for the good of mankind +is shown over and over: "Alice is happy," she writes, "to have the +weather warmer for her garden. She thinks that her vegetables have had +too much hail and cold weather, but the last two days have been fine. +The country here responds very quickly to showers, the trees and grass +now are in perfection and the whole town is beautifully dressed. I have +never seen it looking better notwithstanding the dandelions." + +The family letters abound in allusions to the grandchildren and touch +upon all the varied interests of her children; many were written +directly to the grandchildren. It was beautiful to see the joy those +little people brought to her, and it was characteristic of her that, +never thinking of what might be considered as due her, she was surprised +when a second grandchild was given her name. + +On March 5, 1909, she writes: "I was so pleased this morning to have a +telegram about the new little girl, and you were fooling Farwell about +the name; I can't believe that she is named already and for me. If she +really has the name of Alice, I hope that she will be a better woman +than I have been. I am crazy to see her and am wondering if she looks as +little Faith did and has as much hair. Oh dear! the distance is +tremendous sometimes. I do wish that I had a home nearer my family. + +"What did 'Sister' say? What did Alan say and do?... My best love and +congratulations to each. I am so glad to have another granddaughter." + +Each one of the grandchildren had a special place in her thought and +affections, and was beautiful to her. "The children are well and really +pretty,--but not in pictures," she writes once. + +The strength of her hands was largely used in knitting dainty garments +for the children and their mothers. During her last summer she spoke of +this to a friend, as if apologizing for not working solely for our +soldiers, instead of indulging herself in doing what she did for her +own, who "seemed to like what she made for them." This is the only +self-indulgence that is mentioned in all the letters that have been read +in preparing this sketch. Remembering how large were her gifts to war +relief compared to what she ever spent for herself, one can think only +with delight that she had the pleasure of weaving so many loving +thoughts for those dearest to her into her last gifts to them. + +The following shows a tact that often wins where criticism would lose: +"It was Maude's birthday yesterday ... two friends came to dinner. The +second maid had the misfortune to fall down, or rather turn her ankle +standing up, and she had to be put to bed. The cook is a good-natured +girl and she thought that she could wait on the table. I did not think +much of her ability, but thanked her, gave her a few instructions, and +told her to put on a white waist and wear a good white apron. Well I was +repaid for not showing any doubt to her, for she waited very well +indeed, and all went merry as a _birthday_ bell." + +She does not hesitate to criticize herself, even to the point of placing +herself in a ridiculous light, one of the hallmarks never found on +small souls. For instance, she once wrote: "You will be interested in my +yesterday afternoon exploits. I started to crochet a white hand-bag, +like one that Mrs. S---- is making, and after I had done quite a lot, I +found a mistake away back and so went to work and took it out. Then I +thought I would fill one of my fountain pens, and when I thought that I +had been unusually expeditious and neat, I looked in the glass and found +my best white waist splashed up with the ink. Wasn't I a very +low-spirited woman! This morning I am trying to reduce the brilliant +color of the spots by putting on salt and lemon and putting in the sun, +but I know not if they will go, _but I consider them a disgrace to Alice +Cogswell Bemis_." + +The letters give glimpses of many personal gifts that were so well +concealed from all except those to whom they were made. It is shown that +these were not given impulsively, but were carefully thought out and +almost invariably planned to meet what seemed to her a definite need. +For example: "I have told Mrs. Gregg about my plan for a trip for Gregg +and herself and offered to pay all the expense.... I will enclose a +check which you can fill out as I have no idea how much it will cost. At +any rate please use it and send Gregg away for a while; it will be a +benefit to him to travel and be away from servants. Let him look after +himself." + +She rarely gives advice, but frequently makes friendly suggestions +backed by the material wherewithal necessary to carry them out. "I have +been sorry to know that Gregg has been having so much cold; it came to +me one night that perhaps it would do him good to take a trip down to +Hampton. I remember that Mrs. B---- had a son with General Armstrong at +Hampton, teaching typesetting, and she went down to see him. She told me +of some people who went down there every year to avoid the snows because +they never had catarrhal troubles at Hampton. She said that it was a +fine climate, so I wondered ... if it would not do Gregg good to go down +there and live in the open air of that lovely region for several weeks." + +In writing to her son in February, 1907, of the laying of the +corner-stone of Bemis Hall, at Colorado College, she makes no allusion +to the gift that made this building possible, and says only: "I suppose +Gregg wrote you or Sister that I helped lay the corner-stone of the new +hall yesterday morning. Mrs. S., one of the 1908 Class, and myself +patted on the cement. Gregg remarked if Daddy and Alan had been there, +there would have been a lot more put on. The wind was very chilly +yesterday, but we were not there very long and we were fairly well +wrapped." + + * * * * * + +Mrs. Bemis had an attack of appendicitis while in Boston in the autumn +of 1910, which made an immediate operation necessary. When she was able +to be moved, Mr. and Mrs. Taylor took her to Asheville for the winter, +as she was not strong enough for the longer trip to Colorado; but the +weather there that year was very unfortunate for an invalid, and later +they went to Atlantic City. Here Mr. Bemis joined them; he now was able +to make business arrangements that relieved him of the many details he +had long carried, and a new era in the family life was begun--the +happiest of all. + +From that time all enforced separations were over, and he was with his +wife continuously wherever it was best for her to be. When, after a +year, she was able to return to Colorado Springs, she was very happy to +be again in her home, and the old life among friends was resumed as +always, quickly and happily. + + * * * * * + +Birthdays and wedding anniversaries were gala days in the family, +especially Mr. Bemis's birthday, when there was always a large dinner +party with intimate friends added to the family group. Fun and abounding +cheer were invariably among the good things provided. As these days came +around there was no abatement of interest in them and of cheerful +outward observance. + +For many years very definite plans were made by the children for the +golden wedding of their father and mother, on November 21, 1916. That +was to be the crowning day of all the family days, and though Mrs. Bemis +sometimes protested against planning for it, saying that she couldn't +expect to see that day, as it approached she took much pleasure in the +plans her children made for it. They were all to come home, each +bringing one or more of the grandchildren. Their mother was to have no +care whatever in connection with the celebration. Mrs. Taylor, the only +one whose home was in Colorado Springs, made arrangements to have the +family dinner in her own house and later in the evening a reception for +friends. + +The summer of 1916 was passed as usual at Mohonk, and was followed by +the stay of some weeks in Boston that Mr. and Mrs. Bemis made each +autumn. While there, Mrs. Bemis had a fall, which later proved to have +serious effects. This was barely a month before the golden wedding, and +though she tried to treat it lightly and took the journey to Colorado +Springs, on arriving there she consulted her physician, who said that a +surgical operation was necessary. She wanted to postpone it until after +the golden wedding celebration, but he was not willing to risk any +delay, and on November 16 she went through the ordeal. The convalescence +was more rapid than the family had dared to hope, but they knew that the +situation was still serious when the wedding day came. To them fell the +delicate task of planning to observe it so that Mrs. Bemis would not +know it was done with anxious hearts, and of making it only a time of +rejoicing, and withal to do this in a way that would not tax her in the +least. + +There was an early dinner for old and young, with one vacant place, in +the family home. Letters, telegrams, and whatever else had been written +for the occasion were read, and then all went to the hospital for a +short call. Five grandchildren were there, representing each of the +three families; with Mr. Bemis and their parents they entered the +invalid's room in procession. Each child carried a long-stemmed golden +chrysanthemum, the girls dressed in white with yellow ribbon bows on +their hair, the boys wearing yellow neckties; the older ones each gave +her a few words of greeting as cheerfully as if they had come with light +hearts from a feast where there was no shadow. "Just like the Bemises," +it was said. + +She was able to listen to a number of letters and telegrams and to enjoy +some of the flowers that had been sent in great abundance to the house. +In writing of that day, one of her children says: "I shall never forget +her face looking so thin and delicate but so beaming with happiness and +the humorous twinkle of her eyes behind her spectacles. Grandpa walked +at the head of the procession looking very proud and happy and making a +great tramping and show at keeping time. Dorée Taylor's golden curls +were like sunshine, and we were all so happy to think that in spite of +all our fears Mama Bemis was still with us. How glad we all are that we +had that happy time together!" + +All her good pluck and its continuance in the days that followed had its +good result. At first the convalescence was surprisingly rapid, and in a +few weeks she was able to leave the hospital and begin the climb back to +her old strength. It was a trying winter, but a trip to California +helped her much, so that when she reached Mohonk for her last stay there +the gain was marked and she moved about with ease. One of her friends +who spent the summer near her states that she spoke often of this gain, +and showed her old cheer and interest in all that affected her friends +and in the stirring events throughout the world and especially in the +great war into which we had entered; and that she talked more often than +was her wont of the inner life and of the inevitable change--the great +adventure--and the revelations it would bring. She spoke as if she +thought it might come to her in the near future, but always with a quiet +acceptance of it as one experience in the continuous life. + +For one reason only she would have it delayed, that her husband might +not have to take the rest of his journey alone. This wish was not +fulfilled, for the transition came quickly. She was spared what would +have been difficult for one with her independent spirit--a long time of +physical dependence on others. On October 9 she left Boston with her +husband for Colorado. A slight cold which she had seemed better on +reaching Chicago, but on arriving home it increased, and though she +tried to ignore it for a day or two, she was obliged to call her +physician. It soon proved very serious; double pneumonia developed +rapidly, and on the 18th, with her husband and all her children around +her, she passed peacefully and without pain into the fuller life. + +A brief service was held in the First Congregational Church of Colorado +Springs on the afternoon of the following day, and in the evening Mr. +Bemis and all his family left for the east with the body which, on +October 23, was laid in the Newton Cemetery beside those of her two +children. The funeral was held at two o'clock on the afternoon of that +day in the chapel of the Newton Cemetery. Friends and relatives from +many directions were gathered there, and the chancel was filled with +flowers sent from far and near. + +It was one of New England's most glorious autumn days. Though there was +no wind, the bright leaves fell in abundance quietly and steadily in the +warm sunshine. + +The service was conducted by the Rev. James B. Gregg, D.D., for over +thirty years a personal friend of the family, and bound to Mr. and Mrs. +Bemis by a very close and tender tie in the marriage of their son to his +daughter Faith. He was also their pastor in Colorado Springs for +twenty-seven years. The service was very simple, consisting only of +wisely chosen selections from the Bible, full of tenderness and of joy +and faith in the eternal, followed by an uplifting and strengthening +prayer that Dr. Gregg had written for that special service. + + * * * * * + +This brief sketch of one into whose life came far more than the +ordinary measure of happiness, and who had the heart and the will to +bring all the happiness she could to others, is all too inadequate; the +only justification for its existence lies in the hope that it may, in +some degree, suggest to her children's children and to those who come +after them, the personality that was so dear and so human to those who +knew her, so unselfish and so thoughtful for others, so mindful of the +fact that this life of ours is only a stewardship. + + + + + +End of the Project Gutenberg EBook of Alice Cogswell Bemis, by Anonymous + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK ALICE COGSWELL BEMIS *** + +***** This file should be named 33713-8.txt or 33713-8.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + http://www.gutenberg.org/3/3/7/1/33713/ + +Produced by The Online Distributed Proofreading Team at +http://www.pgdp.net. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Alice Cogswell Bemis + A Sketch by a Friend + +Author: Anonymous + +Release Date: September 12, 2010 [EBook #33713] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK ALICE COGSWELL BEMIS *** + + + + +Produced by The Online Distributed Proofreading Team at +http://www.pgdp.net. (This file was produced from images +generously made available by The Internet Archive/American +Libraries.) + + + + + + +</pre> + + + +<h1><i>ALICE COGSWELL BEMIS</i></h1> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /> +<h2>ALICE COGSWELL BEMIS</h2> + +<h3><i>A SKETCH BY A FRIEND</i></h3> + +<div class="figcenter" style="width: 172px;"> +<img src="images/i003.jpg" width="172" height="124" alt="" title="" /> +</div> + +<p class="center"> +<i>BOSTON</i><br /> +PRIVATELY PRINTED<br /> +1920<br /> +</p> + +<h4> +<i>The Merrymount Press · Boston</i></h4> + +<div class="figcenter" style="width: 429px;"> +<img src="images/i006.jpg" width="429" height="600" alt="" title="" /> +</div> + + + +<hr style="width: 65%;" /><p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_1" id="Page_1">[Pg 1]</a></span></p> +<h2>ALICE COGSWELL BEMIS</h2> + + +<p>Alice Cogswell Bemis came from a long line of good British stock. She +was in the eighth generation from John Cogswell, who was born at +Westbury Leigh, Wiltshire, in 1592. He was a man of standing and of +considerable inherited property. Among the latter were "The Mylls," +called "Ripond," situated in the parish of Fromen, Selwood, together +with the homestead and certain personal property. He married Elizabeth +Thompson, a daughter of the Vicar of Westbury parish. After twenty years +of married life, during which they had lived in the family homestead and +he had carried on his father's prosperous business, he decided to +emigrate to America, and on May 23, 1625, leaving one married daughter +in England, they embarked with their eight other children on the famous +ship, <i>The Angel Gabriel</i>. We find no mention of a special reason for +their leaving England, but it was probably the same that led many others +of their type to begin life afresh in the new world; here the +possibilities of the country to be developed were limitless, and +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_2" id="Page_2">[Pg 2]</a></span>doubtless these offered a better outlook for their children, whose +welfare must have been uppermost in their thoughts and plans.</p> + +<p>The voyage of <i>The Angel Gabriel</i> and its wreck off Pemaquid, on the +coast of Maine, in the frightful gale of August 15, 1625, are told in +the graphic story of the Rev. Richard Mather, who was a passenger on the +ship <i>James</i>, which sailed from England on the same day. The <i>James</i> lay +at anchor off the Isles of Shoals while <i>The Angel Gabriel</i> was off +Pemaquid. She was torn from her anchors and obliged to put to sea, but +after two days' terrible battling with storm and wave, reached Boston +harbor with "her sails rent in sunder, and split in pieces, as if they +had been rotten rags." Of <i>The Angel Gabriel</i>, he says: "It was burst in +pieces and cast away." Strong winds from the northeast and great tidal +waves made it a total wreck. John Cogswell and all his family were +washed ashore from the broken decks of their ship, but several others +lost their lives. Some of the many valuable possessions they had brought +with them never came to shore, but among the articles saved was a tent +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_3" id="Page_3">[Pg 3]</a></span>which gave good service at once; this Mr. Cogswell pitched for a +temporary abiding place. As soon as possible he took passage for Boston, +where he made a contract with the captain of a small bark to sail for +Pemaquid and transport his family to Ipswich, Massachusetts, then a +newly settled town.</p> + +<p>The settlers of Ipswich at once appreciated these newcomers, and the +municipal records show that liberal grants of land were made to John +Cogswell. Among them was one spoken of as "Three hundred acres of land +at the further Chebokoe," which later was incorporated as a part of +Essex. Here in 1636 their permanent home was built, and here, covering a +period of over two hundred and fifty years, their descendants cultivated +the land. The Cogswells had brought with them several farm and household +servants, as well as valuable furniture, farming implements, and +considerable money. A log house was soon built, but the boxes containing +their many valuables were unopened until it was practicable for Mr. +Cogswell to build a frame house. A description of this remains, in which +we are told that it stood back from the highway, and was approached +through shrubbery and flowers. It is further said, that among the +<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_4" id="Page_4">[Pg 4]</a></span>treasures which were taken into the new home from the boxes were +several pieces of carved furniture, embroidered curtains, damask table +linen, and much silver plate; that there was a Turkish carpet, an +unusual treasure for those days, is well attested. Their descendants +still treasure relics of their ancestors, such as articles of personal +adornment, a quaint mirror, and an old clock.</p> + +<p>John Cogswell was the third original settler in that part of Ipswich +which is now Essex. His piety, his intelligence, and his comparative +wealth gave him a leading position in the town and the church. His name +is often seen in the records of Ipswich and always with the prefix +"Mr.," which, in those days, was a title of honor given to only a few +who were gentlemen of distinction. He died November 29, 1669, aged +seventy-seven years. His funeral procession traversed a distance of five +miles to the old North graveyard of the First Church, under an escort of +armed men as a protection against a possible attack of Indians. Three +years later the body of Mrs. Cogswell was laid beside her husband's. The +record that remains of her is: "She was a woman of sterling qualities +and dearly loved by all who knew her." Their son, William Cogswell, +seems to have had many of his father's traits and was one of the most +influential citizens of that period. To him was due the establishment of +the parish and church and the building of the meeting-house; and when, +according to the quaint custom of those days, the seats in the +meeting-house were assigned, his wife was given the place by the +minister's wife, a mark of greatest distinction. Two of his grandsons +were men of note. Colonel Nathaniel Wade was an officer in the +Revolutionary army and a personal friend of Washington and Lafayette. +Another, the Rev. Abiel Holmes, father of Dr. Oliver Wendell Holmes, was +a graduate of Yale, and received the degree of Doctor of Divinity from +Edinburgh. He was settled for many years over the First Church of +Cambridge.</p> + +<div class="figcenter" style="width: 650px;"> +<img src="images/i011.jpg" width="650" height="424" alt="Cogswell House, Ipswich, Mass." title="" /> +<span class="caption">Cogswell House, Ipswich, Mass.</span> +</div><p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_5" id="Page_5">[Pg 5]</a></span></p> + +<p>One of the deeds of land made to their children was to their son William +"on the south side of Chebacco River." The variation in the spelling of +this proper name is one of the many we find in early New England +records. At the same time a dwelling at Chebacco Falls was given to +Deacon Cornelius Waldo, who had married<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_6" id="Page_6">[Pg 6]</a></span> their daughter Hannah. In +direct line of descent from these two, and in the sixth generation from +the first Cogswell in America, was Ralph Waldo Emerson. Mrs. Bemis was +in the eighth generation, through the son William, and from him also was +descended Oliver Wendell Holmes, in the fifth generation. We cannot well +follow here the descendants of the other children of John and Elizabeth +Cogswell, but certain it is that in each of the generations to the +present day we find many well-educated men and women of character, with +a strong sense of their obligations as citizens, all doing good work for +the world in various lines of activity. They have verified what one has +written concerning John Cogswell and his family: "They were the first of +the name to reach these shores; the lapse of two hundred and fifty years +has given to them a numerous posterity, some of whom in each generation +have lived in eventful periods, have risen to eminence, and fulfilled +distinguished service in the history of the country."</p> + +<hr style='width: 45%;' /> + +<div class="figcenter" style="width: 472px;"> +<img src="images/i016.jpg" width="472" height="600" alt="" title="" /> +</div><p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_7" id="Page_7">[Pg 7]</a></span></p> + +<p>With these rich inheritances as her birthright, with parents who +enforced and strengthened in their children the principles that they +themselves had been taught, Alice Cogswell was born in the family home +of her parents, Daniel and Mary Davis Randall Cogswell, at Ipswich, on +January 5, 1845. She was one of seven children, three of whom died very +young, and of the seven only her sister Lucy survived her. The mother +died when Alice was only four. Until the time of the father's death, +when she was eighteen and her sister three years older, several +different housekeepers were in charge of the home, and yet it appears +that these two young girls very early and in a way most unusual for any +so young, not only gave life and charm to the house, but directed and +controlled all its activities to a great extent. A cousin who was very +dear to Alice writes to her son of his memory of those days in the quiet +country home at Ipswich, giving a charming picture that shows the spirit +that prompted all her life to its end. He says: "Every one in Ipswich +who remembers her would speak of her sweet, cheery and generous spirit. +One of the very earliest of my childhood recollections is a little +incident that occurred when I could not have been more than four or five +years old. One day my mother let me go all by myself to Uncle +Cogswell's<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_8" id="Page_8">[Pg 8]</a></span> to see Cousin Alice. Our homes were rather near together but +it was to me then a journey of large proportions. At dinner I can +remember that I sat next Cousin Alice in a chair with two big books to +make it high enough. After dinner we went into the garden and picked a +basket of pears which she gave me to take home. This little visit was +like many others that followed and it is typical of all that she has +done throughout a long and useful life. Though I was only a little +fellow, I have a strong impression of an energetic, influential family, +full of good deeds, and of a large house with well stocked cellars and +larders that seemed to exist chiefly for the benefit of neighbors and +friends. Lucy and Alice were beautiful young women. Their mother died +when they were quite young, and while they were in their early 'teens' +they were in charge of the Cogswell home. This they made most +attractive. My boyhood impression is that they were always doing nice +things for people—always sending their friends baskets from their +larder. I have a wonderful impression of Uncle Cogswell's garden. As +gardens go nowadays it may not have been unusual, but to me it was a +rare spot. It<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_9" id="Page_9">[Pg 9]</a></span> contained choice varieties of currants, gooseberries, +pears and cherries. There may have been some apple trees, but I have the +feeling that apples were a trifle common to associate with his exotic +varieties. From the time of my father's death, which occurred when I was +eight years old, Cousin Alice seemed to assume a godmotherly interest in +me and my career. Three evenings a week I went to the Lowell Institute, +which kept me in town too late to go home to Ipswich, and she gave me a +key to her home in Newton and had a room always ready for my use. She +always took a generous interest in my work. Her moral support was +everything to me. She made me feel that my profession was worthy and +dignified." Many students whom she helped in later years would gladly +give the same testimony of support and encouragement received from her.</p> + +<p>The sisters attended the Ipswich Seminary, one of the famous schools of +New England in its day. Its principal, Mrs. Cowles, had an attractive +personality, a cultivated mind, and great force of character. Her +husband, Dr. Cowles, was a clergyman and a man of wide influence, though +because of his blindness he was not in the active<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_10" id="Page_10">[Pg 10]</a></span> ministry for many +years. In spite of this seemingly insurmountable obstacle he was a +constant student, especially of Greek and Hebrew, and wrote much of +value on the Old Testament. His presence added greatly to the household, +whose refined and stimulating atmosphere seems to have made as strong an +impression on the students as did the soundness of the teaching in the +classroom. The two sisters, Lucy and Alice, took the entire course of +study that the seminary offered. Alice graduated from it in 1864. Many +of its pupils became women of large influence in the world, and carried +from their life in the seminary a profound impression of the religious +influences that had surrounded them there. Their own thought and their +manner of life showed the lasting value of the emphasis that had been +laid in the school on the supreme importance of right living and right +thinking. Those who knew the sisters well recall the many times in after +years when, as they mentioned some wise rule for life, they prefaced it +with, "As Mrs. Cowles used to tell us," or "as Dr. Cowles said." One of +Mrs. Cowles's daughters now living writes of Alice: "I remember that she +was universally<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_11" id="Page_11">[Pg 11]</a></span> liked and loved." It was a happy school life and a +happy girlhood for both of these sisters. Notwithstanding their great +loss in having to grow to womanhood without their mother, a loss of +which they were always conscious, they had great compensation in their +close companionship with their father and with each other. Their father +gave them the best of instruction in things spiritual, and unusual +training in all practical matters, especially with regard to the value +of money, how to care for it and how to spend it, and then gave them a +much freer hand in the direction of many personal matters than most +girls of their age were accustomed to have; this freedom they used +wisely. One of them was once asked how they filled their days in times +that often seem very dull and uninteresting to the modern girl with her +round of engagements. The answer was, "We skated in winter and ran wild +in summer." What was said in jest was far from being the literal truth, +but it suggests the happy impression that their girlhood gave them of +genuine freedom guided by the wise counsels of others and their own good +sense.</p> + +<div class="figcenter" style="width: 429px;"> +<img src="images/i021.jpg" width="429" height="600" alt="" title="" /> +</div> + +<p>In June of 1864 Lucy Cogswell was married<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_12" id="Page_12">[Pg 12]</a></span> to Mr. George B. Roberts, and +their house became home to Alice. Mr. Roberts afterward built the house +on Craigie Street, Cambridge, in which they spent the rest of their +lives. It was here that the two generations met often while the Bemis +family lived in the east, and later when they came on from Colorado. The +relation between the sisters had hitherto been a particularly close one, +and was only strengthened by the happy new family ties that came to +each. To those who loved these sisters and saw both come to a time when +feebleness and physical restriction might have been before them, there +can be only rejoicing that they were spared any added weakness of body, +and that there was no clouding of their bright and active minds, no +abatement of interest in the life about them as long as they were here. +Mrs. Roberts had been in such delicate health for several years that it +did not seem possible that she would outlive her sister, but only two +months after their last parting, the great transition came to her also.</p> + +<hr style='width: 45%;' /> + +<p>We are given a charming glimpse into the first meeting between Mr. and +Mrs. Bemis in some<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_13" id="Page_13">[Pg 13]</a></span> interesting reminiscences Mr. Bemis has recently +written for his grandchildren. He had been settled in business in St. +Louis for some years when Alice Cogswell, shortly after her sister's +marriage, went there to visit a very dear aunt, "Aunt Lucy Smyth." The +occasion of their meeting came through Mr. Bemis's first visit to Boston +in 1865, which, in his own words, "resulted in an important occurrence." +He met there a business connection, Mr. Zenas Cushing, who had become +Alice Cogswell's guardian on the death of her father; knowing that Mr. +Bemis was from St. Louis, Mr. Cushing gave him a letter of introduction +to his ward and bespoke his interest in her and his help in any business +advice she might need. Mr. Bemis tells his story thus: "Some three weeks +after my return from Boston I gave myself the pleasure of calling one +evening and presenting the letter. As I am writing these lines I can see +'Miss Cogswell' coming into the parlor where I was awaiting her. She was +dressed in the fashion of the day, having on a silk dress with a very +full skirt held out by a hoop-skirt of large dimensions. She met me +cordially and asked me to be seated and we talked for an hour of my<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_14" id="Page_14">[Pg 14]</a></span> +first trip to Boston, of her guardian and others. As I was leaving and +closing the gate I heard myself saying that I might marry that girl if I +could win her. It was not so-called 'love at first sight,' but it +ripened into love with a few subsequent calls. I think it was a very +fortunate circumstance that I met Alice Cogswell when I did." And very +fortunate for many others did this union prove. The outward condition of +their early lives was very different, but the two families from which +they came were alike in the standards which they held for themselves and +instilled into their children.</p> + +<p>The story of Mr. Bemis's early years is the familiar one of that type of +western pioneer to whom the whole country is deeply indebted. He was +born in Fitchburg, Massachusetts, on May 18, 1833, of parents who had +all the best inheritance to give their children, but few material +possessions. When he was an infant the family moved to a small village +in Chemung County, New York, where his mother's brother, Henry Farwell, +lived with his family. The relation between the two families was a close +one, and five years later it was decided that they should move together +to<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_15" id="Page_15">[Pg 15]</a></span> Illinois. Reports of its fertile soil and what it promised for the +future had come back to them by the slow and uncertain mails. They knew +that it offered more for themselves, and what was far more important to +them, for their children, than they could ever have in their present +surroundings. When they made the great change they knew well the dangers +and difficulties that must be met on the journey when taken under the +most favorable conditions. They knew, too, how these would be increased +in their case, as they were taking so many young children, eight in all; +but the courageous band to which they belonged were men and women of +industry and personal integrity, with a strong sense of real values, +who, having made their decision, took no reckoning of obstacles to the +end before them.</p> + +<p>It was a long, difficult journey. In a pleasant sketch of this that Mr. +Bemis has given, we have only the remembrance of such incidents as stay +in the memory of a child. There is no mention of hardships. He recalls +the covered wagon, but knows only from others of the slow journey to +Buffalo, thence by boat to Detroit, and the continued journey to +Chicago, then Fort Dearborn,<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_16" id="Page_16">[Pg 16]</a></span> where they did not remain for fear of +being eaten by mosquitoes or of having fever and ague, and so camped at +what is now Oak Park. Thence they moved on to Lighthouse Point, Ogle +County, Illinois, where the Bemis family found a temporary lodging in a +log cabin and the others lived in covered wagons until they had built a +comfortable cabin for themselves.</p> + +<p>From the beginning of the making of the new home on the empty prairie, +the children took their full share in the work it involved. Mr. Bemis +has told us that he was doing from one-half to two-thirds of a man's +work on the farm when he was twelve years old, the year in which his +wife was born into the well-established life of a fine old New England +town, rich for her in all the inheritances that seven generations gave; +all the way before her made as smooth as love and ample means could make +it.</p> + +<p>At the age of nineteen Mr. Bemis left the farm and began his business +career in Chicago as clerk to a shipping firm. After six years, with +only his own savings for his capital, and helped by the loan of some +machinery supplied by a cousin, he went to St. Louis and began the +business<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_17" id="Page_17">[Pg 17]</a></span> which has borne his name for over sixty years, a name that is +a synonym in all the business world for ability and integrity. His +success did not come by accident, or by any so-called good fortune, but +as the result of patience and perseverance, steadily following the +principles and the rules he laid down for himself very early in life. He +speaks with gratitude of the fact that he had to learn by force of +circumstances "the blessedness of drudgery and the value of time and +money in his long hours of work and in the closest practice of economy."</p> + +<p>We have seen how different were the outward circumstances of their early +lives. In temperament also Mr. and Mrs. Bemis differed much; but in +sympathy on all great matters, in their ideals of life, and their +unfailing recognition of their own personal obligation and duty, they +were always one. In the reminiscences he has written for his +grandchildren, Mr. Bemis says: "Parents can lay the foundation for each +child by their own life. They are giving daily examples by their actions +and by word of mouth. If parents are living well-ordered and Christian +lives, their children will be likely to follow their example. They will +know<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_18" id="Page_18">[Pg 18]</a></span> nothing else. Good boys and girls make good men and women. An +educated and scientific carpenter will hew and mortise the timbers to +fit the keys that bind the frame to a complete and solid house, so that +storm and winds pass it by unharmed. So with boys and girls; if their +characters are moulded in truth, mortised and keyed together with +obedience to God and man, when they become men and women they will +withstand the environment of bad persons and escape unscathed. Hence +their young lives, founded on the bedrock of Christian characters, are +well qualified to work out their own destiny and make their lives +whatever they will."</p> + +<hr style='width: 45%;' /> + +<div class="figcenter" style="width: 370px;"> +<img src="images/i031.jpg" width="370" height="600" alt="" title="" /> +</div><p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_19" id="Page_19">[Pg 19]</a></span></p> + +<p>Mr. and Mrs. Bemis were married at the home of Mr. and Mrs. George B. +Roberts, in Cambridgeport, Massachusetts, on November 21, 1866, and went +directly to their new home in St. Louis. There the oldest son, Judson +Cogswell, was born in December of the following year; and there they +remained until they returned to Boston in 1870, when for business +reasons it became necessary for Mr. Bemis to have his headquarters in +that city. After the birth of the second son, Albert Farwell, they moved +to Newton, Massachusetts, where their three other children were born: +Maude, now Mrs. Reginald H. Parsons, Lucy Gardner, who lived less than +three years, and Alice, now Mrs. Frederick M. P. Taylor. Three of these +survived their mother and had long been established in their own homes +before she left them. To the father and mother was given the great +happiness of seeing each of these new households controlled by the same +standards of right and the same sense of personal and civic +responsibility on which they had built their own united lives.</p> + +<p>Mr. and Mrs. Bemis's home was in Newton for eleven years, and during +that time it was the centre for the family connection in New England and +for many friends. It was always rich in association for themselves and +family, and was made rich in the same way for many others. Family cares +that came upon Mrs. Bemis and the part she took in the life of the +church and the community made the years spent there the most active of +her life. After her removal to Colorado Springs, she showed in a +practical and liberal form her interest in the First Congregational<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_20" id="Page_20">[Pg 20]</a></span> +Church in that city, which the family attended, but she had such a +strong sentiment about the church at Newton and the experiences that +came to her while connected with it that she never removed her +membership; its pastor, Dr. Calkins, and his wife were among her most +valued friends.</p> + +<hr style='width: 45%;' /> + +<p>In 1881 a serious throat trouble developed, and Mrs. Bemis was taken +south for the winter. She did not gain there, and the following year was +sent to Colorado Springs. Slight hope was then given to her family of +her living more than a few months, but the climate and the sunshine +effected what had seemed impossible, and within a few years she was able +to lead a comparatively normal life in the new home where she was +happily settled. A house was rented for the family until 1885, when the +one at 508 North Cascade Avenue was built. This was henceforth home to +her and to all the family as long as she was there with her welcome for +them, and it soon became a centre for a large number of friends who are +rich in memories of the unfailing welcome and genuine hospitality so +freely given them. These were not restricted to a limited number with<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_21" id="Page_21">[Pg 21]</a></span> +tastes and outward circumstances that were comparatively alike, but were +extended to a large circle that differed widely in both of these. The +sincerity, genuineness, and simplicity of the lives of those that made +this home created an atmosphere that was felt as soon as one entered it.</p> + +<p>Many of the younger generation both within and without the family circle +will have enduring memories of that house. Alan Gregg recalled in a few +words childhood memories that were common to many; writing from his post +in France he said: "Mrs. Bemis's death was a great surprise and shock, +and the long time that elapsed between knowing of her illness and her +death made me feel pretty far away. I remember her letting me play that +music box to my heart's content, and the way she made Gregg laugh at an +unexpected fall he took, instead of cry, better than anything else. She +could also do nice things for you without spilling over into +sentimentality."</p> + +<p>Her grandchildren's recollections of her will be mostly in connection +with events in their own homes, where her visits were looked for eagerly +by those on the Atlantic coast and those on the Pacific, but happily +some of them are old enough<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_22" id="Page_22">[Pg 22]</a></span> to remember and pass on to the others the +impression made on them and on other children in the family connection, +of the grandmother's great pleasure in being with them and her plans for +their comfort and happiness. They recall the perfect housekeeping, where +the wheels seemed to move easily and were always out of sight; the +daintiness of all its appointments, which was shown too in the dress and +personal adornments of her who made this home and of those who shared it +with her. Here she welcomed many of her old friends and also new +acquaintances with whom lasting friendships were formed; here the +children gathered around them a fine group of congenial companions who +became their lasting friends; here they grew to manhood and to +womanhood; from thence they were all married, and hither they all +returned many times, with wife, husbands, and their own sons and +daughters for happy family reunions.</p> + +<p>In this home the saddest as well as the most joyful experiences of her +life came to her. The former were borne with the calmness and strength +shown only by those with great capacity for suffering and great power of +self-control. The hardest<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_23" id="Page_23">[Pg 23]</a></span> trial that she had ever known was at a time +when she had little physical strength to meet it. After a year with the +family in Colorado, the eldest son, Judson, was sent to a manual +training school at St. Louis, Missouri, where there were many family +friends. He was a lad of much promise, a great reader, with varied gifts +and tastes. He had a very social nature and a warm interest in people, +was noble in character, and deep in his affections. The separation was +very hard for his mother, but it was met with the unselfishness she +always showed when her children's interests were to be considered. She +herself chose it, as she wanted him to have this special kind of +training that could not be found nearer home. In the second year of his +absence he was taken suddenly ill with pneumonia. His parents were +summoned at once, and his father arrived before his death, but his +mother could not reach St. Louis till some hours later. The loss of the +little daughter Lucy, who had died in Newton of scarlet fever, was still +fresh in her memory when the new sorrow came. This was borne +wonderfully, but it changed all life for her as nothing else ever did. +In 1904 came the third break in the family circle, when Mrs. Par<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_24" id="Page_24">[Pg 24]</a></span>sons +with her beautiful little girl, Alice Loraine, nearly three years old, +the first granddaughter in the family, was visiting her grandparents in +Colorado Springs. No child could have been more tenderly loved and cared +for than she, but nothing could avert the fatal illness that developed +soon after their arrival.</p> + +<hr style='width: 45%;' /> + +<p>During the years that followed her going west, Mrs. Bemis spent only one +summer there. For several successive seasons she went with her children +to Minnetonka in Minnesota; but it was not possible for Mr. Bemis to be +with them there more than he was during the winter, because of its +distance from Boston, and a happy change came to all when later Mrs. +Bemis had gained enough to make it safe for her to spend some months of +each year by the sea on Cape Ann, where the family had headquarters for +many summers. Twice she went abroad with her children; first during the +summer of 1891 and five years later for a year of study and extended +travel for her daughters. Marjorie Gregg, who knew her well, recalling +her many journeys, says: "Few not loving travel for its own sake could<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_25" id="Page_25">[Pg 25]</a></span> +or would have taken so many long journeys. The trips east in the spring +and back to Colorado in the autumn became a habit, and she carried them +out with precision and determination that did not ignore discomforts; +she saw these, felt them and mentioned them, but never feared or +regarded them. She planned and packed and made all arrangements without +confusion or mistakes; never 'took it out' on other people, but refused +help even in late years. It would be impossible to count up the miles +travelled, the time spent on Pullman cars, the trunks packed—all not +because of <i>Wanderlust</i>, curiosity, or restlessness, but for love of +family—that she and her children might be with their father half of +each year and that she might keep close to her sister and nieces, whose +relation to 'Aunt Alice' was as close as if the two families had lived +in the same town. Later Grandpa and Grandma Bemis journeyed together +indefatigably."</p> + +<p>When Mr. Bemis laid aside many of the details of his business, they +chose Lake Mohonk, New York, for their summer home, and the last seven +summers of her life were spent very happily there; so happily, that each +year they engaged<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_26" id="Page_26">[Pg 26]</a></span> the same rooms for the following season and said they +meant to do this as long as they lived. It became a real home to them. +Mr. and Mrs. Smiley, wonderful host and hostess to all, were soon their +warm personal friends, and many pleasant acquaintances with guests were +renewed each year. Among their most valued friends there was Dr. Faunce, +president of Brown University, who conducted the Sunday services year +after year. They considered his sermons as among the best and most +helpful they ever heard, and after each season thought and talked much +of them, always looking forward to the coming of the summer Sundays, +their brightest days at Mohonk. Here every condition met their tastes +and their needs; the great beauty of the place itself, the quiet and +peace of the house, the wise and unusual way in which it is ordered, all +combined to give them an ideal residence for the summer. The fact that +young people of a fine type were always there added much to Mrs. Bemis's +pleasure. She enjoyed watching their sports and their life in the open. +Her windows overlooked the lake, and she sat there hour after hour +watching the parties coming and going in boats and climbing<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_27" id="Page_27">[Pg 27]</a></span> the hills. +Her delight in the beauties of the whole picture before her, than which +there are few to compare with it the world over, grew steadily with each +day there. Just before leaving Mohonk for the last time, she wrote to a +young cousin: "I wish I could transport you all here. I have always said +that I would like to live on a beautiful estate and have no care of it; +and here I have been for seven summers and no place by any possibility +could be finer. Mr. Smiley did not spoil nature but kept its wonderful +beauty and added to it."</p> + +<hr style='width: 45%;' /> + +<p>During the last years they were together, Mr. and Mrs. Bemis made +several interesting trips to California and to Seattle, to be with their +daughter, Mrs. Parsons. The mere recital of all these journeyings may +give the impression that the life in Colorado Springs was a very broken +one, but it did not seem so to her friends there, for at each return it +was resumed so quickly and so quietly that they think of it rather as +continuous. No friend and no interest she had in any work that helped on +the general welfare was ever ignored or forgotten by her wherever she +might be.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_28" id="Page_28">[Pg 28]</a></span></p> + +<p>Probably there has never been any one in Colorado Springs with so many +enforced absences and the same limitations of strength who has done as +much as she in enriching individual lives with friendship and the +community life with sympathy and generous material aid. Nothing that she +counted a duty sat lightly on her mind or conscience.</p> + +<p>Miss Ellen T. Brinley, who was for many years a friend and neighbor of +Mrs. Bemis, wrote shortly after her death: "She was a real New Englander +of a type all too rare in these degenerate days. For many years she was +not very strong, and yet she was one of the least self-indulgent people +that ever lived. Wealth to her was not a reason for luxury and pleasure +seeking, but an opportunity for helping others—with a lack of +ostentation characteristic of her whole nature. She was truly a secret +helper. That the young should have their chance in life and that the +paths of the needy should be made more easy, became increasingly the +object of her life. Colorado College and the Young Women's Christian +Association were the two organizations in Colorado Springs whose welfare +she had most at heart, and for them she was constantly devising liberal +things. In the wakeful hours of the night, she planned to relieve the +sufferings of others, and her spirit of good will came from no weak +sentimentality. She was a woman of good judgment, an incisive mind, and +a strong character. She was a wonderfully loyal friend and her daily +life centred in her own family circle, in a few personal friendships, +and in the benevolence which was her avocation."</p> + +<div class="figcenter" style="width: 445px;"> +<img src="images/i043.jpg" width="445" height="600" alt="" title="" /> +</div><p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_29" id="Page_29">[Pg 29]</a></span></p> + +<p>Even her closest friends knew but little of her constant and quiet deeds +of kindness, and that rarely from her directly. It could never be said +of her that she was "confidential with her left hand." From the +recipients of her generosity more is known than could have been learned +from her. Often with an apology lest she might seem to intrude, she +learned if friends, and sometimes mere acquaintances and even strangers, +needed assistance at a time when she knew an emergency had come to them, +and often asked others to be the means of meeting such needs, not +letting it be known whence the help came. "Just tell them you have it to +give away," she would often say. Sometimes she gave to personal friends +a check,<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_30" id="Page_30">[Pg 30]</a></span> asking that they spend it as they thought best in ministering +to others.</p> + +<p>This was done for many years to some who were in close touch with the +students of Colorado College. "Don't take the trouble to give an account +of this," she would say, "only be sure that it goes where it is really +needed." But when the account was rendered, she wanted to hear all that +could be told of the circumstances of each one who had been helped, and +often arranged that certain of these should have further assistance. To +a number this was voluntarily continued during their professional +studies. The following, from a letter to her son in 1908, shows her +sympathetic understanding of the students whom she helped:</p> + +<p>"I wonder if I told you that the suit that you left here I gave to Mrs. +S—— for one of the college boys. The lining was greatly worn and so I +pinned on an envelope with $5.00 in it and she gave it to a very needy +fellow who is working and attending college. She had a letter from him +and from the mother. I am going to send her letter and some other +letters from other boys to whom the President has given a little from +time to time from a little that I gave him early in the<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_31" id="Page_31">[Pg 31]</a></span> winter. I want +you to read them, for I don't think that any of us realize how brave +these poor students are, and really they are the ones whom we hear of +later; the rich men's sons fall short in some way."</p> + +<hr style='width: 45%;' /> + +<p>Mrs. Bemis was one of a group of women who, in the spring of 1889, +organized the Women's Education Society of Colorado College. The +resolutions passed by its executive board at the time of her death so +adequately express her relation to the Society that they are here quoted +in full:</p> + +<p>"The Executive Board of the Women's Educational Society wishes to place +on record its sense of irreparable loss in the passing of Alice Cogswell +Bemis.</p> + +<p>"Her association with the work of the Society has extended over a long +period of years, and her part in it has always been characterized by +fidelity to the purpose of the organization and keen discrimination in +the execution of the trust. She brought to the problems confronting the +Board rare insight and judgment, and her business acumen was +invaluable.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_32" id="Page_32">[Pg 32]</a></span></p> + +<p>"Many students of Colorado College are personally indebted to her for +the removal of obstacles in the way of the successful prosecution of +their work in which her interest was vital and perennial. A story of +genuine need never failed to elicit her assistance. Of her general +constructive planning for the many-sided life of the young women, Bemis +Hall and Cogswell Theatre are enduring evidence.</p> + +<p>"The Board has lost a useful member, her friends a wise counselor, and +philanthropic agencies a generous helper to whom worthy cause or person +never appealed in vain."</p> + +<p>Another organization to which she contributed much pleasure and from +which she received the same is the Art Club of Colorado Springs. A group +of women whose personal relation to her was close and increasingly dear +as the years passed, formed its membership. They met twice a month at +each other's houses, read, and studied pictures, finding, as one says, +"an alleviation not unwelcome in that life where tuberculosis and the +gold fever of the early days alternately possessed the atmosphere." The +Art Club owed much of its genuine life to Mrs. Bemis; her interest in +art,<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_33" id="Page_33">[Pg 33]</a></span> her keenness to acquire and classify the knowledge that she loved, +was as strong as her friendship and neighborliness. The utmost +hospitality to invalid strangers was part and parcel of those Colorado +Springs early days, and in goodness to obscure invalids and in lending a +hand in hard times no one could tell the extent of her benefactions.</p> + +<p>All that Mrs. Bemis did will never be known, and what she gave was never +told at the time unless it seemed best for obvious reasons that her +identification with a good movement should be made public. The +unsolicited gifts must have been manifold compared with those she gave +in response to appeals. It was always easy to approach her for any good +cause. If she gave, it was always with good will; if she declined to do +so, a distinct reason for the refusal was stated; and she was as careful +not to pauperize by giving as she was not to withhold where it was due, +and was entirely free from the bitterness common to a certain type of +persons who are wont to think that their generosity is being imposed +upon. She often afforded amusement to her friends by the way in which +she prefaced an offer of help with<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_34" id="Page_34">[Pg 34]</a></span> a seeming apology. She even seemed +at times to call those who were working in a good cause to account +because its pressing needs had not been met, and then met them herself.</p> + +<p>A notable instance of this was her gift of the gymnasium to the Young +Women's Christian Association. When the present Association building was +erected she gave generously to the building fund. A gymnasium was +greatly needed then, but no money was available for it. A space was left +on the lot that had been purchased in the hope that a building might be +put there later. Very soon the growth of the work showed that no +gymnasium adequate even for the present demands could be built on that +limited space. The girls of the Association clamored for it and the +members of the board, who even more than they knew how much it was +needed, were heavy hearted. No one spoke of the situation to Mrs. Bemis +until she herself broached it to one of the board in a tone that, to one +who did not know her, might have seemed a reprimand. She prefaced what +was on her mind thus: "I do not approve at all of your putting up a +building on that small space. You ought to buy that lot to the<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_35" id="Page_35">[Pg 35]</a></span> north." +The board member could but agree. The protest was again made, and the +board member could only repeat her agreement, but knew from the manner +of approach to the subject that something was back in Mrs. Bemis's mind +that she would have to tell, though she wished it might be known without +her telling it! And then it came. She would like to see that lot when no +one would know that she was looking at it, and if it wasn't too much +trouble, could it be arranged for her to do this? It was planned that +she should go early one Sunday morning to the building, when very few +were in the lower rooms. She looked out on the vacant space and said, +"Don't you see <i>it will not do at all</i>?" Within twenty-four hours she +asked some one to negotiate for the purchase of the lot at the north and +gave it to the Association, adding a check that made possible the +present beautiful gymnasium. She dismissed with no mistaken emphasis the +proposal that this should bear her name. Her pleasure in the building +was great, and in expressing this pleasure she always seemed only to be +commending the Association for having it. Her part in it seemed nothing +to her. "Others<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_36" id="Page_36">[Pg 36]</a></span> have had to do all the work," she would say if her gift +was mentioned.</p> + +<p>When Bemis Hall, the main residence for girls at Colorado College, was +being built, it was found that by excavating under the dining-room there +would be space for a theatre, in which the students could give plays and +various college meetings might be held. This was done, and the room was +named Cogswell Theatre in her honor. It must be admitted that the latter +was done under protest, although aided and abetted by some of her +family. "What would my ancestors say to having a theatre bear their +name!" she said, laughing. Among the memories of the past nine years to +those who have enjoyed that little theatre, none is happier than that of +seeing the faces of two very dear friends following each word and +movement on the stage, laughing at times till the tears came, and giving +over and over their entire approval of the existence of the theatre, +with no further protest against its name. These two friends rarely +missed seeing whatever was presented on that stage, though seldom +tempted by public entertainments to give up their quiet evenings at +home. Indeed, everything in that beautiful<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_37" id="Page_37">[Pg 37]</a></span> hall named for Mr. +Bemis—whose generosity, to the college is there made known only in +part—seemed to give them pleasure, and no one else will ever cross its +threshold who can receive just the kind of welcome they always found +awaiting them.</p> + +<p>While the number of organizations which Mrs. Bemis helped is not known, +and it is impossible to mention those which for many years counted on +her interest and liberal support, one must be noted as showing her +abiding interest in all that related to her native town and the region +about it. This is the Ipswich Historical Society, which was organized in +1890, and of which she was the first life member. On its twenty-fifth +anniversary, in response to what was only a printed appeal, she sent the +first substantial gift of money it received. Within a few months of her +death, learning that a fireproof building for the Society had been +proposed, she wrote to Mr. T. Franklin Waters, its president, asking for +particulars of the plan under consideration, and on receipt of his reply +sent a check for so large a proportion of the estimated cost that she +was asked to consent to have the building named for her. Following<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_38" id="Page_38">[Pg 38]</a></span> a +determination made long before that her gifts should not be made +conspicuous in any way, she would not consent to this.</p> + +<hr style='width: 45%;' /> + +<p>Mrs. Bemis was as quick, open, and generous in her recognition of what +others did along philanthropic lines as she was reticent concerning her +own good deeds. This was especially noticeable in her attitude toward +all the private and public benefactions of her husband and children. Her +quiet satisfaction in these was beautiful to see. Her children received +all sympathy and encouragement in every good work they undertook, but +she never assumed the right to dictate in these matters or took any +credit to herself for anything they did, not thinking of the power of +her example and the life-long training she had given them.</p> + +<p>Her recognition of all her husband's benefactions and her sympathy in +his planning for them were unfailing. One of the most important and far +reaching of these was in connection with a work along social lines in +the town of Bemis, Tennessee, where his firm had built a cotton mill. +From the inception of the town the need of this work was much in the +thought of their son, who<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_39" id="Page_39">[Pg 39]</a></span> has since succeeded his father as president +of their company, and whose practical interest in the betterment of all +social relations, especially of those between the employer and the +employed, is widely known. Together they carried out their ideals in the +new town of Bemis. The operators were those known in the south as poor +whites. The opening of the mill gave to these people an undreamed of +opportunity to earn money. It also offered to them a great privilege and +at the same time a possibility of great danger. The privilege was that +of being able for the first time in their lives to command money and to +use it so that it would make them better and happier; the danger was +that they might use it so that moral deterioration would follow. Both +these possibilities were foreseen in the first plans for the town, and +provision was made for the physical, mental, and spiritual needs of the +people that would as far as possible avert the danger. A social worker +was engaged to live as a friend among the people, and a church, school, +and library were provided for them. Mrs. Bemis had much pleasure in +following every step in the development of this work, while careful to +disclaim any credit for its success, again not<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_40" id="Page_40">[Pg 40]</a></span> thinking what her +encouragement and coöperation meant to both husband and son. But they +and all her children pay her full tribute for the stimulus of example +and for the sympathy shown in every good work to which they put their +hands.</p> + +<hr style='width: 45%;' /> + +<p>This woman of many noble traits was especially endowed with the rare +gift of loyal and understanding friendship. Her relation to kindred and +personal friends brought to her and to them an unusual degree of +happiness. This was so great a factor in her life that it may seem as if +special mention of many of these friends should be made in even so brief +a sketch as this. But they themselves will realize how impossible this +would be because the circle to which they belong is so large. She was +not blind to the failings of her friends, but was clear in her +comprehension of their fundamental traits, and her love for them, her +strong though often undemonstrative interest in them, never abated. +While she added to their number many times during her stay in different +places, no new friend or new interest ever took the place of an old one. +Her generous heart had room for all whom she took to it.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_41" id="Page_41">[Pg 41]</a></span></p> + +<p>Her correspondence with friends was surprisingly large in view of the +frequency of her letters to her own immediate circle; when the family +became widely scattered this might easily have been made an excuse for +dropping much of the general correspondence, but instead of that it grew +as the circle of her interest widened. No one was neglected and all +letters were written with her own hand. During the last years of her +life much of her mail that was not personal became a distinct burden +with its increasing appeals from all directions, but she conscientiously +attended to it all herself. An abundance of good common sense helped her +to ignore many of these, but any that could not be laid aside lightly +she investigated in a way that took much time and strength.</p> + +<p>Her outspoken nature and uncompromising mind often made her draw hard +and fast lines in no unmistakable way as to conduct that met her +approval or condemnation, but she asked no one to come up to any +standard higher than she had laid down for herself. She wanted above all +things to be just, and few people are so essentially just as she was. To +quote a friend, "her judgment of character was clear, just, and +vigorous."<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_42" id="Page_42">[Pg 42]</a></span></p> + +<p>One fixed habit of her mind must not be overlooked: this was +unwillingness to accept any help in whatever she could possibly do +herself. Many friends thought this a failing and frequently told her so. +They were wont to rebel against the fact that they could not serve her, +while she was a past master in the art of serving others. Her swift +motions and deft hands, impelled by her quick mind, would outwit half a +dozen people who were looking for means by which to circumvent her. No +amount of urging could lead her to agree to be waited upon if that could +be avoided, and she often refused to accept ministrations at times when +it seemed to others that they were necessary to her comfort. But even at +such times she would withhold no service for another. Whatever mention +the Recording Angel may make of this failing, it will be very brief +compared with what is written of the countless deeds of love and of +kindness for others with which she filled her days.</p> + +<hr style='width: 45%;' /> + +<p>Fortunately, many letters to the family and other friends have been +kept. They are singularly like her; never diffuse, but with that rare +and happy<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_43" id="Page_43">[Pg 43]</a></span> characteristic of telling concretely and clearly what was of +most interest to those to whom they were written, and never letting +irrelevant generalities take the place of matters of importance. In +reading these letters consecutively we are struck by the naïve and +unconscious way in which she reveals much of herself. They contain few +allusions to her own discomforts, but abound in sympathy for any that +have come to those to whom she is writing; they show how her happiness +never depended on anything that she might obtain for herself, while she +magnifies whatever others do for her. Social gatherings that brought old +friends and new together she enjoyed in a simple, whole-hearted way; she +cordially approved of fun and encouraged it by giving and taking it, but +never seemed to seek diversion. Her happiness came from what was close +at hand, especially in the simple every day gifts that are bestowed on +us all. Among her papers is found this "Line of Cheer:"</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">"<i>I love the air of hill and sea</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>That puts its crispness into me.</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>I love the smiling of the sky</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>That sets its twinkle in mine eye.</i><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_44" id="Page_44">[Pg 44]</a></span><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>I love the vigor of the gale</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>That lends me strength where mine doth fail.</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>I love the golden light of day</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>That makes my jaded spirit gay.</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>I love the dark of night whose guest</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>I find myself when I would rest.</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>And gratitude doth hold me thrall</i><br /></span> +<span class="i0"><i>Unto the Giver of them all.</i>"<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>A few sentences taken at random from the letters show that this +expressed what was in her mind: "The day has been beautiful. You know +this is the rainless season and the hills, as we came along, were all +brown, no green grass anywhere, but the trees are beautiful with very +full leafage, showing that the air is very moist.... I wish that you +could see 'The Springs' now it is so very beautiful.... I have some dear +little finches building in their evergreen trees. I think that there are +several pairs. Tell Gregg that I can look from my chamber window +directly into a robin's nest."</p> + +<p>In one of her letters to her grandchildren she says: "I went down to the +Young Women's Christian Association rooms yesterday afternoon to take +tea and hear the report of those who have been raising money to support +the work there.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_45" id="Page_45">[Pg 45]</a></span> Some little girls were having their gymnastic lessons +and were having a very jolly time. At last the leaves are all off of the +trees and I think the little wayside flowers must have had their noses +pinched last night by Jack Frost."</p> + +<p>Her interest not only in the beauty of the world about her but in what +others are doing to make it bring forth and bud for the good of mankind +is shown over and over: "Alice is happy," she writes, "to have the +weather warmer for her garden. She thinks that her vegetables have had +too much hail and cold weather, but the last two days have been fine. +The country here responds very quickly to showers, the trees and grass +now are in perfection and the whole town is beautifully dressed. I have +never seen it looking better notwithstanding the dandelions."</p> + +<p>The family letters abound in allusions to the grandchildren and touch +upon all the varied interests of her children; many were written +directly to the grandchildren. It was beautiful to see the joy those +little people brought to her, and it was characteristic of her that, +never thinking of what might be considered as due her, she was surprised +when a second grandchild was given her name.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_46" id="Page_46">[Pg 46]</a></span></p> + +<p>On March 5, 1909, she writes: "I was so pleased this morning to have a +telegram about the new little girl, and you were fooling Farwell about +the name; I can't believe that she is named already and for me. If she +really has the name of Alice, I hope that she will be a better woman +than I have been. I am crazy to see her and am wondering if she looks as +little Faith did and has as much hair. Oh dear! the distance is +tremendous sometimes. I do wish that I had a home nearer my family.</p> + +<p>"What did 'Sister' say? What did Alan say and do?... My best love and +congratulations to each. I am so glad to have another granddaughter."</p> + +<p>Each one of the grandchildren had a special place in her thought and +affections, and was beautiful to her. "The children are well and really +pretty,—but not in pictures," she writes once.</p> + +<p>The strength of her hands was largely used in knitting dainty garments +for the children and their mothers. During her last summer she spoke of +this to a friend, as if apologizing for not working solely for our +soldiers, instead of indulging herself in doing what she did for her<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_47" id="Page_47">[Pg 47]</a></span> +own, who "seemed to like what she made for them." This is the only +self-indulgence that is mentioned in all the letters that have been read +in preparing this sketch. Remembering how large were her gifts to war +relief compared to what she ever spent for herself, one can think only +with delight that she had the pleasure of weaving so many loving +thoughts for those dearest to her into her last gifts to them.</p> + +<p>The following shows a tact that often wins where criticism would lose: +"It was Maude's birthday yesterday ... two friends came to dinner. The +second maid had the misfortune to fall down, or rather turn her ankle +standing up, and she had to be put to bed. The cook is a good-natured +girl and she thought that she could wait on the table. I did not think +much of her ability, but thanked her, gave her a few instructions, and +told her to put on a white waist and wear a good white apron. Well I was +repaid for not showing any doubt to her, for she waited very well +indeed, and all went merry as a <i>birthday</i> bell."</p> + +<p>She does not hesitate to criticize herself, even to the point of placing +herself in a ridiculous<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_48" id="Page_48">[Pg 48]</a></span> light, one of the hallmarks never found on +small souls. For instance, she once wrote: "You will be interested in my +yesterday afternoon exploits. I started to crochet a white hand-bag, +like one that Mrs. S—— is making, and after I had done quite a lot, I +found a mistake away back and so went to work and took it out. Then I +thought I would fill one of my fountain pens, and when I thought that I +had been unusually expeditious and neat, I looked in the glass and found +my best white waist splashed up with the ink. Wasn't I a very +low-spirited woman! This morning I am trying to reduce the brilliant +color of the spots by putting on salt and lemon and putting in the sun, +but I know not if they will go, <i>but I consider them a disgrace to Alice +Cogswell Bemis</i>."</p> + +<p>The letters give glimpses of many personal gifts that were so well +concealed from all except those to whom they were made. It is shown that +these were not given impulsively, but were carefully thought out and +almost invariably planned to meet what seemed to her a definite need. +For example: "I have told Mrs. Gregg about my plan for a trip for Gregg +and herself and offered<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_49" id="Page_49">[Pg 49]</a></span> to pay all the expense.... I will enclose a +check which you can fill out as I have no idea how much it will cost. At +any rate please use it and send Gregg away for a while; it will be a +benefit to him to travel and be away from servants. Let him look after +himself."</p> + +<p>She rarely gives advice, but frequently makes friendly suggestions +backed by the material wherewithal necessary to carry them out. "I have +been sorry to know that Gregg has been having so much cold; it came to +me one night that perhaps it would do him good to take a trip down to +Hampton. I remember that Mrs. B—— had a son with General Armstrong at +Hampton, teaching typesetting, and she went down to see him. She told me +of some people who went down there every year to avoid the snows because +they never had catarrhal troubles at Hampton. She said that it was a +fine climate, so I wondered ... if it would not do Gregg good to go down +there and live in the open air of that lovely region for several weeks."</p> + +<p>In writing to her son in February, 1907, of the laying of the +corner-stone of Bemis Hall, at Colorado College, she makes no allusion +to the<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_50" id="Page_50">[Pg 50]</a></span> gift that made this building possible, and says only: "I suppose +Gregg wrote you or Sister that I helped lay the corner-stone of the new +hall yesterday morning. Mrs. S., one of the 1908 Class, and myself +patted on the cement. Gregg remarked if Daddy and Alan had been there, +there would have been a lot more put on. The wind was very chilly +yesterday, but we were not there very long and we were fairly well +wrapped."</p> + +<hr style='width: 45%;' /> + +<p>Mrs. Bemis had an attack of appendicitis while in Boston in the autumn +of 1910, which made an immediate operation necessary. When she was able +to be moved, Mr. and Mrs. Taylor took her to Asheville for the winter, +as she was not strong enough for the longer trip to Colorado; but the +weather there that year was very unfortunate for an invalid, and later +they went to Atlantic City. Here Mr. Bemis joined them; he now was able +to make business arrangements that relieved him of the many details he +had long carried, and a new era in the family life was begun—the +happiest of all.</p> + +<p>From that time all enforced separations were over, and he was with his +wife continuously<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_51" id="Page_51">[Pg 51]</a></span> wherever it was best for her to be. When, after a +year, she was able to return to Colorado Springs, she was very happy to +be again in her home, and the old life among friends was resumed as +always, quickly and happily.</p> + +<hr style='width: 45%;' /> + +<p>Birthdays and wedding anniversaries were gala days in the family, +especially Mr. Bemis's birthday, when there was always a large dinner +party with intimate friends added to the family group. Fun and abounding +cheer were invariably among the good things provided. As these days came +around there was no abatement of interest in them and of cheerful +outward observance.</p> + +<p>For many years very definite plans were made by the children for the +golden wedding of their father and mother, on November 21, 1916. That +was to be the crowning day of all the family days, and though Mrs. Bemis +sometimes protested against planning for it, saying that she couldn't +expect to see that day, as it approached she took much pleasure in the +plans her children made for it. They were all to come home, each +bringing one or more of the grandchildren. Their mother was to have no +care whatever in connection<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_52" id="Page_52">[Pg 52]</a></span> with the celebration. Mrs. Taylor, the only +one whose home was in Colorado Springs, made arrangements to have the +family dinner in her own house and later in the evening a reception for +friends.</p> + +<p>The summer of 1916 was passed as usual at Mohonk, and was followed by +the stay of some weeks in Boston that Mr. and Mrs. Bemis made each +autumn. While there, Mrs. Bemis had a fall, which later proved to have +serious effects. This was barely a month before the golden wedding, and +though she tried to treat it lightly and took the journey to Colorado +Springs, on arriving there she consulted her physician, who said that a +surgical operation was necessary. She wanted to postpone it until after +the golden wedding celebration, but he was not willing to risk any +delay, and on November 16 she went through the ordeal. The convalescence +was more rapid than the family had dared to hope, but they knew that the +situation was still serious when the wedding day came. To them fell the +delicate task of planning to observe it so that Mrs. Bemis would not +know it was done with anxious hearts, and of making it only a time of +rejoicing, and<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_53" id="Page_53">[Pg 53]</a></span> withal to do this in a way that would not tax her in the +least.</p> + +<p>There was an early dinner for old and young, with one vacant place, in +the family home. Letters, telegrams, and whatever else had been written +for the occasion were read, and then all went to the hospital for a +short call. Five grandchildren were there, representing each of the +three families; with Mr. Bemis and their parents they entered the +invalid's room in procession. Each child carried a long-stemmed golden +chrysanthemum, the girls dressed in white with yellow ribbon bows on +their hair, the boys wearing yellow neckties; the older ones each gave +her a few words of greeting as cheerfully as if they had come with light +hearts from a feast where there was no shadow. "Just like the Bemises," +it was said.</p> + +<p>She was able to listen to a number of letters and telegrams and to enjoy +some of the flowers that had been sent in great abundance to the house. +In writing of that day, one of her children says: "I shall never forget +her face looking so thin and delicate but so beaming with happiness and +the humorous twinkle of her eyes behind<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_54" id="Page_54">[Pg 54]</a></span> her spectacles. Grandpa walked +at the head of the procession looking very proud and happy and making a +great tramping and show at keeping time. Dorée Taylor's golden curls +were like sunshine, and we were all so happy to think that in spite of +all our fears Mama Bemis was still with us. How glad we all are that we +had that happy time together!"</p> + +<p>All her good pluck and its continuance in the days that followed had its +good result. At first the convalescence was surprisingly rapid, and in a +few weeks she was able to leave the hospital and begin the climb back to +her old strength. It was a trying winter, but a trip to California +helped her much, so that when she reached Mohonk for her last stay there +the gain was marked and she moved about with ease. One of her friends +who spent the summer near her states that she spoke often of this gain, +and showed her old cheer and interest in all that affected her friends +and in the stirring events throughout the world and especially in the +great war into which we had entered; and that she talked more often than +was her wont of the inner life and of the inevitable change—the great +adventure—and the revelations<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_55" id="Page_55">[Pg 55]</a></span> it would bring. She spoke as if she +thought it might come to her in the near future, but always with a quiet +acceptance of it as one experience in the continuous life.</p> + +<p>For one reason only she would have it delayed, that her husband might +not have to take the rest of his journey alone. This wish was not +fulfilled, for the transition came quickly. She was spared what would +have been difficult for one with her independent spirit—a long time of +physical dependence on others. On October 9 she left Boston with her +husband for Colorado. A slight cold which she had seemed better on +reaching Chicago, but on arriving home it increased, and though she +tried to ignore it for a day or two, she was obliged to call her +physician. It soon proved very serious; double pneumonia developed +rapidly, and on the 18th, with her husband and all her children around +her, she passed peacefully and without pain into the fuller life.</p> + +<p>A brief service was held in the First Congregational Church of Colorado +Springs on the afternoon of the following day, and in the evening Mr. +Bemis and all his family left for the east with the body which, on +October 23, was laid in<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_56" id="Page_56">[Pg 56]</a></span> the Newton Cemetery beside those of her two +children. The funeral was held at two o'clock on the afternoon of that +day in the chapel of the Newton Cemetery. Friends and relatives from +many directions were gathered there, and the chancel was filled with +flowers sent from far and near.</p> + +<p>It was one of New England's most glorious autumn days. Though there was +no wind, the bright leaves fell in abundance quietly and steadily in the +warm sunshine.</p> + +<p>The service was conducted by the Rev. James B. Gregg, D.D., for over +thirty years a personal friend of the family, and bound to Mr. and Mrs. +Bemis by a very close and tender tie in the marriage of their son to his +daughter Faith. He was also their pastor in Colorado Springs for +twenty-seven years. The service was very simple, consisting only of +wisely chosen selections from the Bible, full of tenderness and of joy +and faith in the eternal, followed by an uplifting and strengthening +prayer that Dr. Gregg had written for that special service.</p> + +<hr style='width: 45%;' /> + +<p>This brief sketch of one into whose life came far<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_57" id="Page_57">[Pg 57]</a></span> more than the +ordinary measure of happiness, and who had the heart and the will to +bring all the happiness she could to others, is all too inadequate; the +only justification for its existence lies in the hope that it may, in +some degree, suggest to her children's children and to those who come +after them, the personality that was so dear and so human to those who +knew her, so unselfish and so thoughtful for others, so mindful of the +fact that this life of ours is only a stewardship.</p> + + + + + + + + +<pre> + + + + + +End of the Project Gutenberg EBook of Alice Cogswell Bemis, by Anonymous + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK ALICE COGSWELL BEMIS *** + +***** This file should be named 33713-h.htm or 33713-h.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + http://www.gutenberg.org/3/3/7/1/33713/ + +Produced by The Online Distributed Proofreading Team at +http://www.pgdp.net. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Alice Cogswell Bemis + A Sketch by a Friend + +Author: Anonymous + +Release Date: September 12, 2010 [EBook #33713] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ASCII + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK ALICE COGSWELL BEMIS *** + + + + +Produced by The Online Distributed Proofreading Team at +http://www.pgdp.net. (This file was produced from images +generously made available by The Internet Archive/American +Libraries.) + + + + + + +_ALICE COGSWELL BEMIS_ + + + + +ALICE COGSWELL BEMIS + +_A SKETCH BY A FRIEND_ + +[Illustration] + +_BOSTON_ +PRIVATELY PRINTED +1920 + + +_The Merrymount Press . Boston_ + +[Illustration] + + + + +ALICE COGSWELL BEMIS + + +Alice Cogswell Bemis came from a long line of good British stock. She +was in the eighth generation from John Cogswell, who was born at +Westbury Leigh, Wiltshire, in 1592. He was a man of standing and of +considerable inherited property. Among the latter were "The Mylls," +called "Ripond," situated in the parish of Fromen, Selwood, together +with the homestead and certain personal property. He married Elizabeth +Thompson, a daughter of the Vicar of Westbury parish. After twenty years +of married life, during which they had lived in the family homestead and +he had carried on his father's prosperous business, he decided to +emigrate to America, and on May 23, 1625, leaving one married daughter +in England, they embarked with their eight other children on the famous +ship, _The Angel Gabriel_. We find no mention of a special reason for +their leaving England, but it was probably the same that led many others +of their type to begin life afresh in the new world; here the +possibilities of the country to be developed were limitless, and +doubtless these offered a better outlook for their children, whose +welfare must have been uppermost in their thoughts and plans. + +The voyage of _The Angel Gabriel_ and its wreck off Pemaquid, on the +coast of Maine, in the frightful gale of August 15, 1625, are told in +the graphic story of the Rev. Richard Mather, who was a passenger on the +ship _James_, which sailed from England on the same day. The _James_ lay +at anchor off the Isles of Shoals while _The Angel Gabriel_ was off +Pemaquid. She was torn from her anchors and obliged to put to sea, but +after two days' terrible battling with storm and wave, reached Boston +harbor with "her sails rent in sunder, and split in pieces, as if they +had been rotten rags." Of _The Angel Gabriel_, he says: "It was burst in +pieces and cast away." Strong winds from the northeast and great tidal +waves made it a total wreck. John Cogswell and all his family were +washed ashore from the broken decks of their ship, but several others +lost their lives. Some of the many valuable possessions they had brought +with them never came to shore, but among the articles saved was a tent +which gave good service at once; this Mr. Cogswell pitched for a +temporary abiding place. As soon as possible he took passage for Boston, +where he made a contract with the captain of a small bark to sail for +Pemaquid and transport his family to Ipswich, Massachusetts, then a +newly settled town. + +The settlers of Ipswich at once appreciated these newcomers, and the +municipal records show that liberal grants of land were made to John +Cogswell. Among them was one spoken of as "Three hundred acres of land +at the further Chebokoe," which later was incorporated as a part of +Essex. Here in 1636 their permanent home was built, and here, covering a +period of over two hundred and fifty years, their descendants cultivated +the land. The Cogswells had brought with them several farm and household +servants, as well as valuable furniture, farming implements, and +considerable money. A log house was soon built, but the boxes containing +their many valuables were unopened until it was practicable for Mr. +Cogswell to build a frame house. A description of this remains, in which +we are told that it stood back from the highway, and was approached +through shrubbery and flowers. It is further said, that among the +treasures which were taken into the new home from the boxes were +several pieces of carved furniture, embroidered curtains, damask table +linen, and much silver plate; that there was a Turkish carpet, an +unusual treasure for those days, is well attested. Their descendants +still treasure relics of their ancestors, such as articles of personal +adornment, a quaint mirror, and an old clock. + +John Cogswell was the third original settler in that part of Ipswich +which is now Essex. His piety, his intelligence, and his comparative +wealth gave him a leading position in the town and the church. His name +is often seen in the records of Ipswich and always with the prefix +"Mr.," which, in those days, was a title of honor given to only a few +who were gentlemen of distinction. He died November 29, 1669, aged +seventy-seven years. His funeral procession traversed a distance of five +miles to the old North graveyard of the First Church, under an escort of +armed men as a protection against a possible attack of Indians. Three +years later the body of Mrs. Cogswell was laid beside her husband's. The +record that remains of her is: "She was a woman of sterling qualities +and dearly loved by all who knew her." Their son, William Cogswell, +seems to have had many of his father's traits and was one of the most +influential citizens of that period. To him was due the establishment of +the parish and church and the building of the meeting-house; and when, +according to the quaint custom of those days, the seats in the +meeting-house were assigned, his wife was given the place by the +minister's wife, a mark of greatest distinction. Two of his grandsons +were men of note. Colonel Nathaniel Wade was an officer in the +Revolutionary army and a personal friend of Washington and Lafayette. +Another, the Rev. Abiel Holmes, father of Dr. Oliver Wendell Holmes, was +a graduate of Yale, and received the degree of Doctor of Divinity from +Edinburgh. He was settled for many years over the First Church of +Cambridge. + +[Illustration: Cogswell House, Ipswich, Mass.] + +One of the deeds of land made to their children was to their son William +"on the south side of Chebacco River." The variation in the spelling of +this proper name is one of the many we find in early New England +records. At the same time a dwelling at Chebacco Falls was given to +Deacon Cornelius Waldo, who had married their daughter Hannah. In +direct line of descent from these two, and in the sixth generation from +the first Cogswell in America, was Ralph Waldo Emerson. Mrs. Bemis was +in the eighth generation, through the son William, and from him also was +descended Oliver Wendell Holmes, in the fifth generation. We cannot well +follow here the descendants of the other children of John and Elizabeth +Cogswell, but certain it is that in each of the generations to the +present day we find many well-educated men and women of character, with +a strong sense of their obligations as citizens, all doing good work for +the world in various lines of activity. They have verified what one has +written concerning John Cogswell and his family: "They were the first of +the name to reach these shores; the lapse of two hundred and fifty years +has given to them a numerous posterity, some of whom in each generation +have lived in eventful periods, have risen to eminence, and fulfilled +distinguished service in the history of the country." + + * * * * * + +[Illustration] + +With these rich inheritances as her birthright, with parents who +enforced and strengthened in their children the principles that they +themselves had been taught, Alice Cogswell was born in the family home +of her parents, Daniel and Mary Davis Randall Cogswell, at Ipswich, on +January 5, 1845. She was one of seven children, three of whom died very +young, and of the seven only her sister Lucy survived her. The mother +died when Alice was only four. Until the time of the father's death, +when she was eighteen and her sister three years older, several +different housekeepers were in charge of the home, and yet it appears +that these two young girls very early and in a way most unusual for any +so young, not only gave life and charm to the house, but directed and +controlled all its activities to a great extent. A cousin who was very +dear to Alice writes to her son of his memory of those days in the quiet +country home at Ipswich, giving a charming picture that shows the spirit +that prompted all her life to its end. He says: "Every one in Ipswich +who remembers her would speak of her sweet, cheery and generous spirit. +One of the very earliest of my childhood recollections is a little +incident that occurred when I could not have been more than four or five +years old. One day my mother let me go all by myself to Uncle +Cogswell's to see Cousin Alice. Our homes were rather near together but +it was to me then a journey of large proportions. At dinner I can +remember that I sat next Cousin Alice in a chair with two big books to +make it high enough. After dinner we went into the garden and picked a +basket of pears which she gave me to take home. This little visit was +like many others that followed and it is typical of all that she has +done throughout a long and useful life. Though I was only a little +fellow, I have a strong impression of an energetic, influential family, +full of good deeds, and of a large house with well stocked cellars and +larders that seemed to exist chiefly for the benefit of neighbors and +friends. Lucy and Alice were beautiful young women. Their mother died +when they were quite young, and while they were in their early 'teens' +they were in charge of the Cogswell home. This they made most +attractive. My boyhood impression is that they were always doing nice +things for people--always sending their friends baskets from their +larder. I have a wonderful impression of Uncle Cogswell's garden. As +gardens go nowadays it may not have been unusual, but to me it was a +rare spot. It contained choice varieties of currants, gooseberries, +pears and cherries. There may have been some apple trees, but I have the +feeling that apples were a trifle common to associate with his exotic +varieties. From the time of my father's death, which occurred when I was +eight years old, Cousin Alice seemed to assume a godmotherly interest in +me and my career. Three evenings a week I went to the Lowell Institute, +which kept me in town too late to go home to Ipswich, and she gave me a +key to her home in Newton and had a room always ready for my use. She +always took a generous interest in my work. Her moral support was +everything to me. She made me feel that my profession was worthy and +dignified." Many students whom she helped in later years would gladly +give the same testimony of support and encouragement received from her. + +The sisters attended the Ipswich Seminary, one of the famous schools of +New England in its day. Its principal, Mrs. Cowles, had an attractive +personality, a cultivated mind, and great force of character. Her +husband, Dr. Cowles, was a clergyman and a man of wide influence, though +because of his blindness he was not in the active ministry for many +years. In spite of this seemingly insurmountable obstacle he was a +constant student, especially of Greek and Hebrew, and wrote much of +value on the Old Testament. His presence added greatly to the household, +whose refined and stimulating atmosphere seems to have made as strong an +impression on the students as did the soundness of the teaching in the +classroom. The two sisters, Lucy and Alice, took the entire course of +study that the seminary offered. Alice graduated from it in 1864. Many +of its pupils became women of large influence in the world, and carried +from their life in the seminary a profound impression of the religious +influences that had surrounded them there. Their own thought and their +manner of life showed the lasting value of the emphasis that had been +laid in the school on the supreme importance of right living and right +thinking. Those who knew the sisters well recall the many times in after +years when, as they mentioned some wise rule for life, they prefaced it +with, "As Mrs. Cowles used to tell us," or "as Dr. Cowles said." One of +Mrs. Cowles's daughters now living writes of Alice: "I remember that she +was universally liked and loved." It was a happy school life and a +happy girlhood for both of these sisters. Notwithstanding their great +loss in having to grow to womanhood without their mother, a loss of +which they were always conscious, they had great compensation in their +close companionship with their father and with each other. Their father +gave them the best of instruction in things spiritual, and unusual +training in all practical matters, especially with regard to the value +of money, how to care for it and how to spend it, and then gave them a +much freer hand in the direction of many personal matters than most +girls of their age were accustomed to have; this freedom they used +wisely. One of them was once asked how they filled their days in times +that often seem very dull and uninteresting to the modern girl with her +round of engagements. The answer was, "We skated in winter and ran wild +in summer." What was said in jest was far from being the literal truth, +but it suggests the happy impression that their girlhood gave them of +genuine freedom guided by the wise counsels of others and their own good +sense. + +[Illustration] + +In June of 1864 Lucy Cogswell was married to Mr. George B. Roberts, and +their house became home to Alice. Mr. Roberts afterward built the house +on Craigie Street, Cambridge, in which they spent the rest of their +lives. It was here that the two generations met often while the Bemis +family lived in the east, and later when they came on from Colorado. The +relation between the sisters had hitherto been a particularly close one, +and was only strengthened by the happy new family ties that came to +each. To those who loved these sisters and saw both come to a time when +feebleness and physical restriction might have been before them, there +can be only rejoicing that they were spared any added weakness of body, +and that there was no clouding of their bright and active minds, no +abatement of interest in the life about them as long as they were here. +Mrs. Roberts had been in such delicate health for several years that it +did not seem possible that she would outlive her sister, but only two +months after their last parting, the great transition came to her also. + + * * * * * + +We are given a charming glimpse into the first meeting between Mr. and +Mrs. Bemis in some interesting reminiscences Mr. Bemis has recently +written for his grandchildren. He had been settled in business in St. +Louis for some years when Alice Cogswell, shortly after her sister's +marriage, went there to visit a very dear aunt, "Aunt Lucy Smyth." The +occasion of their meeting came through Mr. Bemis's first visit to Boston +in 1865, which, in his own words, "resulted in an important occurrence." +He met there a business connection, Mr. Zenas Cushing, who had become +Alice Cogswell's guardian on the death of her father; knowing that Mr. +Bemis was from St. Louis, Mr. Cushing gave him a letter of introduction +to his ward and bespoke his interest in her and his help in any business +advice she might need. Mr. Bemis tells his story thus: "Some three weeks +after my return from Boston I gave myself the pleasure of calling one +evening and presenting the letter. As I am writing these lines I can see +'Miss Cogswell' coming into the parlor where I was awaiting her. She was +dressed in the fashion of the day, having on a silk dress with a very +full skirt held out by a hoop-skirt of large dimensions. She met me +cordially and asked me to be seated and we talked for an hour of my +first trip to Boston, of her guardian and others. As I was leaving and +closing the gate I heard myself saying that I might marry that girl if I +could win her. It was not so-called 'love at first sight,' but it +ripened into love with a few subsequent calls. I think it was a very +fortunate circumstance that I met Alice Cogswell when I did." And very +fortunate for many others did this union prove. The outward condition of +their early lives was very different, but the two families from which +they came were alike in the standards which they held for themselves and +instilled into their children. + +The story of Mr. Bemis's early years is the familiar one of that type of +western pioneer to whom the whole country is deeply indebted. He was +born in Fitchburg, Massachusetts, on May 18, 1833, of parents who had +all the best inheritance to give their children, but few material +possessions. When he was an infant the family moved to a small village +in Chemung County, New York, where his mother's brother, Henry Farwell, +lived with his family. The relation between the two families was a close +one, and five years later it was decided that they should move together +to Illinois. Reports of its fertile soil and what it promised for the +future had come back to them by the slow and uncertain mails. They knew +that it offered more for themselves, and what was far more important to +them, for their children, than they could ever have in their present +surroundings. When they made the great change they knew well the dangers +and difficulties that must be met on the journey when taken under the +most favorable conditions. They knew, too, how these would be increased +in their case, as they were taking so many young children, eight in all; +but the courageous band to which they belonged were men and women of +industry and personal integrity, with a strong sense of real values, +who, having made their decision, took no reckoning of obstacles to the +end before them. + +It was a long, difficult journey. In a pleasant sketch of this that Mr. +Bemis has given, we have only the remembrance of such incidents as stay +in the memory of a child. There is no mention of hardships. He recalls +the covered wagon, but knows only from others of the slow journey to +Buffalo, thence by boat to Detroit, and the continued journey to +Chicago, then Fort Dearborn, where they did not remain for fear of +being eaten by mosquitoes or of having fever and ague, and so camped at +what is now Oak Park. Thence they moved on to Lighthouse Point, Ogle +County, Illinois, where the Bemis family found a temporary lodging in a +log cabin and the others lived in covered wagons until they had built a +comfortable cabin for themselves. + +From the beginning of the making of the new home on the empty prairie, +the children took their full share in the work it involved. Mr. Bemis +has told us that he was doing from one-half to two-thirds of a man's +work on the farm when he was twelve years old, the year in which his +wife was born into the well-established life of a fine old New England +town, rich for her in all the inheritances that seven generations gave; +all the way before her made as smooth as love and ample means could make +it. + +At the age of nineteen Mr. Bemis left the farm and began his business +career in Chicago as clerk to a shipping firm. After six years, with +only his own savings for his capital, and helped by the loan of some +machinery supplied by a cousin, he went to St. Louis and began the +business which has borne his name for over sixty years, a name that is +a synonym in all the business world for ability and integrity. His +success did not come by accident, or by any so-called good fortune, but +as the result of patience and perseverance, steadily following the +principles and the rules he laid down for himself very early in life. He +speaks with gratitude of the fact that he had to learn by force of +circumstances "the blessedness of drudgery and the value of time and +money in his long hours of work and in the closest practice of economy." + +We have seen how different were the outward circumstances of their early +lives. In temperament also Mr. and Mrs. Bemis differed much; but in +sympathy on all great matters, in their ideals of life, and their +unfailing recognition of their own personal obligation and duty, they +were always one. In the reminiscences he has written for his +grandchildren, Mr. Bemis says: "Parents can lay the foundation for each +child by their own life. They are giving daily examples by their actions +and by word of mouth. If parents are living well-ordered and Christian +lives, their children will be likely to follow their example. They will +know nothing else. Good boys and girls make good men and women. An +educated and scientific carpenter will hew and mortise the timbers to +fit the keys that bind the frame to a complete and solid house, so that +storm and winds pass it by unharmed. So with boys and girls; if their +characters are moulded in truth, mortised and keyed together with +obedience to God and man, when they become men and women they will +withstand the environment of bad persons and escape unscathed. Hence +their young lives, founded on the bedrock of Christian characters, are +well qualified to work out their own destiny and make their lives +whatever they will." + + * * * * * + +[Illustration] + +Mr. and Mrs. Bemis were married at the home of Mr. and Mrs. George B. +Roberts, in Cambridgeport, Massachusetts, on November 21, 1866, and went +directly to their new home in St. Louis. There the oldest son, Judson +Cogswell, was born in December of the following year; and there they +remained until they returned to Boston in 1870, when for business +reasons it became necessary for Mr. Bemis to have his headquarters in +that city. After the birth of the second son, Albert Farwell, they moved +to Newton, Massachusetts, where their three other children were born: +Maude, now Mrs. Reginald H. Parsons, Lucy Gardner, who lived less than +three years, and Alice, now Mrs. Frederick M. P. Taylor. Three of these +survived their mother and had long been established in their own homes +before she left them. To the father and mother was given the great +happiness of seeing each of these new households controlled by the same +standards of right and the same sense of personal and civic +responsibility on which they had built their own united lives. + +Mr. and Mrs. Bemis's home was in Newton for eleven years, and during +that time it was the centre for the family connection in New England and +for many friends. It was always rich in association for themselves and +family, and was made rich in the same way for many others. Family cares +that came upon Mrs. Bemis and the part she took in the life of the +church and the community made the years spent there the most active of +her life. After her removal to Colorado Springs, she showed in a +practical and liberal form her interest in the First Congregational +Church in that city, which the family attended, but she had such a +strong sentiment about the church at Newton and the experiences that +came to her while connected with it that she never removed her +membership; its pastor, Dr. Calkins, and his wife were among her most +valued friends. + + * * * * * + +In 1881 a serious throat trouble developed, and Mrs. Bemis was taken +south for the winter. She did not gain there, and the following year was +sent to Colorado Springs. Slight hope was then given to her family of +her living more than a few months, but the climate and the sunshine +effected what had seemed impossible, and within a few years she was able +to lead a comparatively normal life in the new home where she was +happily settled. A house was rented for the family until 1885, when the +one at 508 North Cascade Avenue was built. This was henceforth home to +her and to all the family as long as she was there with her welcome for +them, and it soon became a centre for a large number of friends who are +rich in memories of the unfailing welcome and genuine hospitality so +freely given them. These were not restricted to a limited number with +tastes and outward circumstances that were comparatively alike, but were +extended to a large circle that differed widely in both of these. The +sincerity, genuineness, and simplicity of the lives of those that made +this home created an atmosphere that was felt as soon as one entered it. + +Many of the younger generation both within and without the family circle +will have enduring memories of that house. Alan Gregg recalled in a few +words childhood memories that were common to many; writing from his post +in France he said: "Mrs. Bemis's death was a great surprise and shock, +and the long time that elapsed between knowing of her illness and her +death made me feel pretty far away. I remember her letting me play that +music box to my heart's content, and the way she made Gregg laugh at an +unexpected fall he took, instead of cry, better than anything else. She +could also do nice things for you without spilling over into +sentimentality." + +Her grandchildren's recollections of her will be mostly in connection +with events in their own homes, where her visits were looked for eagerly +by those on the Atlantic coast and those on the Pacific, but happily +some of them are old enough to remember and pass on to the others the +impression made on them and on other children in the family connection, +of the grandmother's great pleasure in being with them and her plans for +their comfort and happiness. They recall the perfect housekeeping, where +the wheels seemed to move easily and were always out of sight; the +daintiness of all its appointments, which was shown too in the dress and +personal adornments of her who made this home and of those who shared it +with her. Here she welcomed many of her old friends and also new +acquaintances with whom lasting friendships were formed; here the +children gathered around them a fine group of congenial companions who +became their lasting friends; here they grew to manhood and to +womanhood; from thence they were all married, and hither they all +returned many times, with wife, husbands, and their own sons and +daughters for happy family reunions. + +In this home the saddest as well as the most joyful experiences of her +life came to her. The former were borne with the calmness and strength +shown only by those with great capacity for suffering and great power of +self-control. The hardest trial that she had ever known was at a time +when she had little physical strength to meet it. After a year with the +family in Colorado, the eldest son, Judson, was sent to a manual +training school at St. Louis, Missouri, where there were many family +friends. He was a lad of much promise, a great reader, with varied gifts +and tastes. He had a very social nature and a warm interest in people, +was noble in character, and deep in his affections. The separation was +very hard for his mother, but it was met with the unselfishness she +always showed when her children's interests were to be considered. She +herself chose it, as she wanted him to have this special kind of +training that could not be found nearer home. In the second year of his +absence he was taken suddenly ill with pneumonia. His parents were +summoned at once, and his father arrived before his death, but his +mother could not reach St. Louis till some hours later. The loss of the +little daughter Lucy, who had died in Newton of scarlet fever, was still +fresh in her memory when the new sorrow came. This was borne +wonderfully, but it changed all life for her as nothing else ever did. +In 1904 came the third break in the family circle, when Mrs. Parsons +with her beautiful little girl, Alice Loraine, nearly three years old, +the first granddaughter in the family, was visiting her grandparents in +Colorado Springs. No child could have been more tenderly loved and cared +for than she, but nothing could avert the fatal illness that developed +soon after their arrival. + + * * * * * + +During the years that followed her going west, Mrs. Bemis spent only one +summer there. For several successive seasons she went with her children +to Minnetonka in Minnesota; but it was not possible for Mr. Bemis to be +with them there more than he was during the winter, because of its +distance from Boston, and a happy change came to all when later Mrs. +Bemis had gained enough to make it safe for her to spend some months of +each year by the sea on Cape Ann, where the family had headquarters for +many summers. Twice she went abroad with her children; first during the +summer of 1891 and five years later for a year of study and extended +travel for her daughters. Marjorie Gregg, who knew her well, recalling +her many journeys, says: "Few not loving travel for its own sake could +or would have taken so many long journeys. The trips east in the spring +and back to Colorado in the autumn became a habit, and she carried them +out with precision and determination that did not ignore discomforts; +she saw these, felt them and mentioned them, but never feared or +regarded them. She planned and packed and made all arrangements without +confusion or mistakes; never 'took it out' on other people, but refused +help even in late years. It would be impossible to count up the miles +travelled, the time spent on Pullman cars, the trunks packed--all not +because of _Wanderlust_, curiosity, or restlessness, but for love of +family--that she and her children might be with their father half of +each year and that she might keep close to her sister and nieces, whose +relation to 'Aunt Alice' was as close as if the two families had lived +in the same town. Later Grandpa and Grandma Bemis journeyed together +indefatigably." + +When Mr. Bemis laid aside many of the details of his business, they +chose Lake Mohonk, New York, for their summer home, and the last seven +summers of her life were spent very happily there; so happily, that each +year they engaged the same rooms for the following season and said they +meant to do this as long as they lived. It became a real home to them. +Mr. and Mrs. Smiley, wonderful host and hostess to all, were soon their +warm personal friends, and many pleasant acquaintances with guests were +renewed each year. Among their most valued friends there was Dr. Faunce, +president of Brown University, who conducted the Sunday services year +after year. They considered his sermons as among the best and most +helpful they ever heard, and after each season thought and talked much +of them, always looking forward to the coming of the summer Sundays, +their brightest days at Mohonk. Here every condition met their tastes +and their needs; the great beauty of the place itself, the quiet and +peace of the house, the wise and unusual way in which it is ordered, all +combined to give them an ideal residence for the summer. The fact that +young people of a fine type were always there added much to Mrs. Bemis's +pleasure. She enjoyed watching their sports and their life in the open. +Her windows overlooked the lake, and she sat there hour after hour +watching the parties coming and going in boats and climbing the hills. +Her delight in the beauties of the whole picture before her, than which +there are few to compare with it the world over, grew steadily with each +day there. Just before leaving Mohonk for the last time, she wrote to a +young cousin: "I wish I could transport you all here. I have always said +that I would like to live on a beautiful estate and have no care of it; +and here I have been for seven summers and no place by any possibility +could be finer. Mr. Smiley did not spoil nature but kept its wonderful +beauty and added to it." + + * * * * * + +During the last years they were together, Mr. and Mrs. Bemis made +several interesting trips to California and to Seattle, to be with their +daughter, Mrs. Parsons. The mere recital of all these journeyings may +give the impression that the life in Colorado Springs was a very broken +one, but it did not seem so to her friends there, for at each return it +was resumed so quickly and so quietly that they think of it rather as +continuous. No friend and no interest she had in any work that helped on +the general welfare was ever ignored or forgotten by her wherever she +might be. + +Probably there has never been any one in Colorado Springs with so many +enforced absences and the same limitations of strength who has done as +much as she in enriching individual lives with friendship and the +community life with sympathy and generous material aid. Nothing that she +counted a duty sat lightly on her mind or conscience. + +Miss Ellen T. Brinley, who was for many years a friend and neighbor of +Mrs. Bemis, wrote shortly after her death: "She was a real New Englander +of a type all too rare in these degenerate days. For many years she was +not very strong, and yet she was one of the least self-indulgent people +that ever lived. Wealth to her was not a reason for luxury and pleasure +seeking, but an opportunity for helping others--with a lack of +ostentation characteristic of her whole nature. She was truly a secret +helper. That the young should have their chance in life and that the +paths of the needy should be made more easy, became increasingly the +object of her life. Colorado College and the Young Women's Christian +Association were the two organizations in Colorado Springs whose welfare +she had most at heart, and for them she was constantly devising liberal +things. In the wakeful hours of the night, she planned to relieve the +sufferings of others, and her spirit of good will came from no weak +sentimentality. She was a woman of good judgment, an incisive mind, and +a strong character. She was a wonderfully loyal friend and her daily +life centred in her own family circle, in a few personal friendships, +and in the benevolence which was her avocation." + +[Illustration] + +Even her closest friends knew but little of her constant and quiet deeds +of kindness, and that rarely from her directly. It could never be said +of her that she was "confidential with her left hand." From the +recipients of her generosity more is known than could have been learned +from her. Often with an apology lest she might seem to intrude, she +learned if friends, and sometimes mere acquaintances and even strangers, +needed assistance at a time when she knew an emergency had come to them, +and often asked others to be the means of meeting such needs, not +letting it be known whence the help came. "Just tell them you have it to +give away," she would often say. Sometimes she gave to personal friends +a check, asking that they spend it as they thought best in ministering +to others. + +This was done for many years to some who were in close touch with the +students of Colorado College. "Don't take the trouble to give an account +of this," she would say, "only be sure that it goes where it is really +needed." But when the account was rendered, she wanted to hear all that +could be told of the circumstances of each one who had been helped, and +often arranged that certain of these should have further assistance. To +a number this was voluntarily continued during their professional +studies. The following, from a letter to her son in 1908, shows her +sympathetic understanding of the students whom she helped: + +"I wonder if I told you that the suit that you left here I gave to Mrs. +S---- for one of the college boys. The lining was greatly worn and so I +pinned on an envelope with $5.00 in it and she gave it to a very needy +fellow who is working and attending college. She had a letter from him +and from the mother. I am going to send her letter and some other +letters from other boys to whom the President has given a little from +time to time from a little that I gave him early in the winter. I want +you to read them, for I don't think that any of us realize how brave +these poor students are, and really they are the ones whom we hear of +later; the rich men's sons fall short in some way." + + * * * * * + +Mrs. Bemis was one of a group of women who, in the spring of 1889, +organized the Women's Education Society of Colorado College. The +resolutions passed by its executive board at the time of her death so +adequately express her relation to the Society that they are here quoted +in full: + +"The Executive Board of the Women's Educational Society wishes to place +on record its sense of irreparable loss in the passing of Alice Cogswell +Bemis. + +"Her association with the work of the Society has extended over a long +period of years, and her part in it has always been characterized by +fidelity to the purpose of the organization and keen discrimination in +the execution of the trust. She brought to the problems confronting the +Board rare insight and judgment, and her business acumen was +invaluable. + +"Many students of Colorado College are personally indebted to her for +the removal of obstacles in the way of the successful prosecution of +their work in which her interest was vital and perennial. A story of +genuine need never failed to elicit her assistance. Of her general +constructive planning for the many-sided life of the young women, Bemis +Hall and Cogswell Theatre are enduring evidence. + +"The Board has lost a useful member, her friends a wise counselor, and +philanthropic agencies a generous helper to whom worthy cause or person +never appealed in vain." + +Another organization to which she contributed much pleasure and from +which she received the same is the Art Club of Colorado Springs. A group +of women whose personal relation to her was close and increasingly dear +as the years passed, formed its membership. They met twice a month at +each other's houses, read, and studied pictures, finding, as one says, +"an alleviation not unwelcome in that life where tuberculosis and the +gold fever of the early days alternately possessed the atmosphere." The +Art Club owed much of its genuine life to Mrs. Bemis; her interest in +art, her keenness to acquire and classify the knowledge that she loved, +was as strong as her friendship and neighborliness. The utmost +hospitality to invalid strangers was part and parcel of those Colorado +Springs early days, and in goodness to obscure invalids and in lending a +hand in hard times no one could tell the extent of her benefactions. + +All that Mrs. Bemis did will never be known, and what she gave was never +told at the time unless it seemed best for obvious reasons that her +identification with a good movement should be made public. The +unsolicited gifts must have been manifold compared with those she gave +in response to appeals. It was always easy to approach her for any good +cause. If she gave, it was always with good will; if she declined to do +so, a distinct reason for the refusal was stated; and she was as careful +not to pauperize by giving as she was not to withhold where it was due, +and was entirely free from the bitterness common to a certain type of +persons who are wont to think that their generosity is being imposed +upon. She often afforded amusement to her friends by the way in which +she prefaced an offer of help with a seeming apology. She even seemed +at times to call those who were working in a good cause to account +because its pressing needs had not been met, and then met them herself. + +A notable instance of this was her gift of the gymnasium to the Young +Women's Christian Association. When the present Association building was +erected she gave generously to the building fund. A gymnasium was +greatly needed then, but no money was available for it. A space was left +on the lot that had been purchased in the hope that a building might be +put there later. Very soon the growth of the work showed that no +gymnasium adequate even for the present demands could be built on that +limited space. The girls of the Association clamored for it and the +members of the board, who even more than they knew how much it was +needed, were heavy hearted. No one spoke of the situation to Mrs. Bemis +until she herself broached it to one of the board in a tone that, to one +who did not know her, might have seemed a reprimand. She prefaced what +was on her mind thus: "I do not approve at all of your putting up a +building on that small space. You ought to buy that lot to the north." +The board member could but agree. The protest was again made, and the +board member could only repeat her agreement, but knew from the manner +of approach to the subject that something was back in Mrs. Bemis's mind +that she would have to tell, though she wished it might be known without +her telling it! And then it came. She would like to see that lot when no +one would know that she was looking at it, and if it wasn't too much +trouble, could it be arranged for her to do this? It was planned that +she should go early one Sunday morning to the building, when very few +were in the lower rooms. She looked out on the vacant space and said, +"Don't you see _it will not do at all_?" Within twenty-four hours she +asked some one to negotiate for the purchase of the lot at the north and +gave it to the Association, adding a check that made possible the +present beautiful gymnasium. She dismissed with no mistaken emphasis the +proposal that this should bear her name. Her pleasure in the building +was great, and in expressing this pleasure she always seemed only to be +commending the Association for having it. Her part in it seemed nothing +to her. "Others have had to do all the work," she would say if her gift +was mentioned. + +When Bemis Hall, the main residence for girls at Colorado College, was +being built, it was found that by excavating under the dining-room there +would be space for a theatre, in which the students could give plays and +various college meetings might be held. This was done, and the room was +named Cogswell Theatre in her honor. It must be admitted that the latter +was done under protest, although aided and abetted by some of her +family. "What would my ancestors say to having a theatre bear their +name!" she said, laughing. Among the memories of the past nine years to +those who have enjoyed that little theatre, none is happier than that of +seeing the faces of two very dear friends following each word and +movement on the stage, laughing at times till the tears came, and giving +over and over their entire approval of the existence of the theatre, +with no further protest against its name. These two friends rarely +missed seeing whatever was presented on that stage, though seldom +tempted by public entertainments to give up their quiet evenings at +home. Indeed, everything in that beautiful hall named for Mr. +Bemis--whose generosity, to the college is there made known only in +part--seemed to give them pleasure, and no one else will ever cross its +threshold who can receive just the kind of welcome they always found +awaiting them. + +While the number of organizations which Mrs. Bemis helped is not known, +and it is impossible to mention those which for many years counted on +her interest and liberal support, one must be noted as showing her +abiding interest in all that related to her native town and the region +about it. This is the Ipswich Historical Society, which was organized in +1890, and of which she was the first life member. On its twenty-fifth +anniversary, in response to what was only a printed appeal, she sent the +first substantial gift of money it received. Within a few months of her +death, learning that a fireproof building for the Society had been +proposed, she wrote to Mr. T. Franklin Waters, its president, asking for +particulars of the plan under consideration, and on receipt of his reply +sent a check for so large a proportion of the estimated cost that she +was asked to consent to have the building named for her. Following a +determination made long before that her gifts should not be made +conspicuous in any way, she would not consent to this. + + * * * * * + +Mrs. Bemis was as quick, open, and generous in her recognition of what +others did along philanthropic lines as she was reticent concerning her +own good deeds. This was especially noticeable in her attitude toward +all the private and public benefactions of her husband and children. Her +quiet satisfaction in these was beautiful to see. Her children received +all sympathy and encouragement in every good work they undertook, but +she never assumed the right to dictate in these matters or took any +credit to herself for anything they did, not thinking of the power of +her example and the life-long training she had given them. + +Her recognition of all her husband's benefactions and her sympathy in +his planning for them were unfailing. One of the most important and far +reaching of these was in connection with a work along social lines in +the town of Bemis, Tennessee, where his firm had built a cotton mill. +From the inception of the town the need of this work was much in the +thought of their son, who has since succeeded his father as president +of their company, and whose practical interest in the betterment of all +social relations, especially of those between the employer and the +employed, is widely known. Together they carried out their ideals in the +new town of Bemis. The operators were those known in the south as poor +whites. The opening of the mill gave to these people an undreamed of +opportunity to earn money. It also offered to them a great privilege and +at the same time a possibility of great danger. The privilege was that +of being able for the first time in their lives to command money and to +use it so that it would make them better and happier; the danger was +that they might use it so that moral deterioration would follow. Both +these possibilities were foreseen in the first plans for the town, and +provision was made for the physical, mental, and spiritual needs of the +people that would as far as possible avert the danger. A social worker +was engaged to live as a friend among the people, and a church, school, +and library were provided for them. Mrs. Bemis had much pleasure in +following every step in the development of this work, while careful to +disclaim any credit for its success, again not thinking what her +encouragement and cooeperation meant to both husband and son. But they +and all her children pay her full tribute for the stimulus of example +and for the sympathy shown in every good work to which they put their +hands. + + * * * * * + +This woman of many noble traits was especially endowed with the rare +gift of loyal and understanding friendship. Her relation to kindred and +personal friends brought to her and to them an unusual degree of +happiness. This was so great a factor in her life that it may seem as if +special mention of many of these friends should be made in even so brief +a sketch as this. But they themselves will realize how impossible this +would be because the circle to which they belong is so large. She was +not blind to the failings of her friends, but was clear in her +comprehension of their fundamental traits, and her love for them, her +strong though often undemonstrative interest in them, never abated. +While she added to their number many times during her stay in different +places, no new friend or new interest ever took the place of an old one. +Her generous heart had room for all whom she took to it. + +Her correspondence with friends was surprisingly large in view of the +frequency of her letters to her own immediate circle; when the family +became widely scattered this might easily have been made an excuse for +dropping much of the general correspondence, but instead of that it grew +as the circle of her interest widened. No one was neglected and all +letters were written with her own hand. During the last years of her +life much of her mail that was not personal became a distinct burden +with its increasing appeals from all directions, but she conscientiously +attended to it all herself. An abundance of good common sense helped her +to ignore many of these, but any that could not be laid aside lightly +she investigated in a way that took much time and strength. + +Her outspoken nature and uncompromising mind often made her draw hard +and fast lines in no unmistakable way as to conduct that met her +approval or condemnation, but she asked no one to come up to any +standard higher than she had laid down for herself. She wanted above all +things to be just, and few people are so essentially just as she was. To +quote a friend, "her judgment of character was clear, just, and +vigorous." + +One fixed habit of her mind must not be overlooked: this was +unwillingness to accept any help in whatever she could possibly do +herself. Many friends thought this a failing and frequently told her so. +They were wont to rebel against the fact that they could not serve her, +while she was a past master in the art of serving others. Her swift +motions and deft hands, impelled by her quick mind, would outwit half a +dozen people who were looking for means by which to circumvent her. No +amount of urging could lead her to agree to be waited upon if that could +be avoided, and she often refused to accept ministrations at times when +it seemed to others that they were necessary to her comfort. But even at +such times she would withhold no service for another. Whatever mention +the Recording Angel may make of this failing, it will be very brief +compared with what is written of the countless deeds of love and of +kindness for others with which she filled her days. + + * * * * * + +Fortunately, many letters to the family and other friends have been +kept. They are singularly like her; never diffuse, but with that rare +and happy characteristic of telling concretely and clearly what was of +most interest to those to whom they were written, and never letting +irrelevant generalities take the place of matters of importance. In +reading these letters consecutively we are struck by the naive and +unconscious way in which she reveals much of herself. They contain few +allusions to her own discomforts, but abound in sympathy for any that +have come to those to whom she is writing; they show how her happiness +never depended on anything that she might obtain for herself, while she +magnifies whatever others do for her. Social gatherings that brought old +friends and new together she enjoyed in a simple, whole-hearted way; she +cordially approved of fun and encouraged it by giving and taking it, but +never seemed to seek diversion. Her happiness came from what was close +at hand, especially in the simple every day gifts that are bestowed on +us all. Among her papers is found this "Line of Cheer:" + + "_I love the air of hill and sea + That puts its crispness into me. + I love the smiling of the sky + That sets its twinkle in mine eye. + I love the vigor of the gale + That lends me strength where mine doth fail. + I love the golden light of day + That makes my jaded spirit gay. + I love the dark of night whose guest + I find myself when I would rest. + And gratitude doth hold me thrall + Unto the Giver of them all._" + +A few sentences taken at random from the letters show that this +expressed what was in her mind: "The day has been beautiful. You know +this is the rainless season and the hills, as we came along, were all +brown, no green grass anywhere, but the trees are beautiful with very +full leafage, showing that the air is very moist.... I wish that you +could see 'The Springs' now it is so very beautiful.... I have some dear +little finches building in their evergreen trees. I think that there are +several pairs. Tell Gregg that I can look from my chamber window +directly into a robin's nest." + +In one of her letters to her grandchildren she says: "I went down to the +Young Women's Christian Association rooms yesterday afternoon to take +tea and hear the report of those who have been raising money to support +the work there. Some little girls were having their gymnastic lessons +and were having a very jolly time. At last the leaves are all off of the +trees and I think the little wayside flowers must have had their noses +pinched last night by Jack Frost." + +Her interest not only in the beauty of the world about her but in what +others are doing to make it bring forth and bud for the good of mankind +is shown over and over: "Alice is happy," she writes, "to have the +weather warmer for her garden. She thinks that her vegetables have had +too much hail and cold weather, but the last two days have been fine. +The country here responds very quickly to showers, the trees and grass +now are in perfection and the whole town is beautifully dressed. I have +never seen it looking better notwithstanding the dandelions." + +The family letters abound in allusions to the grandchildren and touch +upon all the varied interests of her children; many were written +directly to the grandchildren. It was beautiful to see the joy those +little people brought to her, and it was characteristic of her that, +never thinking of what might be considered as due her, she was surprised +when a second grandchild was given her name. + +On March 5, 1909, she writes: "I was so pleased this morning to have a +telegram about the new little girl, and you were fooling Farwell about +the name; I can't believe that she is named already and for me. If she +really has the name of Alice, I hope that she will be a better woman +than I have been. I am crazy to see her and am wondering if she looks as +little Faith did and has as much hair. Oh dear! the distance is +tremendous sometimes. I do wish that I had a home nearer my family. + +"What did 'Sister' say? What did Alan say and do?... My best love and +congratulations to each. I am so glad to have another granddaughter." + +Each one of the grandchildren had a special place in her thought and +affections, and was beautiful to her. "The children are well and really +pretty,--but not in pictures," she writes once. + +The strength of her hands was largely used in knitting dainty garments +for the children and their mothers. During her last summer she spoke of +this to a friend, as if apologizing for not working solely for our +soldiers, instead of indulging herself in doing what she did for her +own, who "seemed to like what she made for them." This is the only +self-indulgence that is mentioned in all the letters that have been read +in preparing this sketch. Remembering how large were her gifts to war +relief compared to what she ever spent for herself, one can think only +with delight that she had the pleasure of weaving so many loving +thoughts for those dearest to her into her last gifts to them. + +The following shows a tact that often wins where criticism would lose: +"It was Maude's birthday yesterday ... two friends came to dinner. The +second maid had the misfortune to fall down, or rather turn her ankle +standing up, and she had to be put to bed. The cook is a good-natured +girl and she thought that she could wait on the table. I did not think +much of her ability, but thanked her, gave her a few instructions, and +told her to put on a white waist and wear a good white apron. Well I was +repaid for not showing any doubt to her, for she waited very well +indeed, and all went merry as a _birthday_ bell." + +She does not hesitate to criticize herself, even to the point of placing +herself in a ridiculous light, one of the hallmarks never found on +small souls. For instance, she once wrote: "You will be interested in my +yesterday afternoon exploits. I started to crochet a white hand-bag, +like one that Mrs. S---- is making, and after I had done quite a lot, I +found a mistake away back and so went to work and took it out. Then I +thought I would fill one of my fountain pens, and when I thought that I +had been unusually expeditious and neat, I looked in the glass and found +my best white waist splashed up with the ink. Wasn't I a very +low-spirited woman! This morning I am trying to reduce the brilliant +color of the spots by putting on salt and lemon and putting in the sun, +but I know not if they will go, _but I consider them a disgrace to Alice +Cogswell Bemis_." + +The letters give glimpses of many personal gifts that were so well +concealed from all except those to whom they were made. It is shown that +these were not given impulsively, but were carefully thought out and +almost invariably planned to meet what seemed to her a definite need. +For example: "I have told Mrs. Gregg about my plan for a trip for Gregg +and herself and offered to pay all the expense.... I will enclose a +check which you can fill out as I have no idea how much it will cost. At +any rate please use it and send Gregg away for a while; it will be a +benefit to him to travel and be away from servants. Let him look after +himself." + +She rarely gives advice, but frequently makes friendly suggestions +backed by the material wherewithal necessary to carry them out. "I have +been sorry to know that Gregg has been having so much cold; it came to +me one night that perhaps it would do him good to take a trip down to +Hampton. I remember that Mrs. B---- had a son with General Armstrong at +Hampton, teaching typesetting, and she went down to see him. She told me +of some people who went down there every year to avoid the snows because +they never had catarrhal troubles at Hampton. She said that it was a +fine climate, so I wondered ... if it would not do Gregg good to go down +there and live in the open air of that lovely region for several weeks." + +In writing to her son in February, 1907, of the laying of the +corner-stone of Bemis Hall, at Colorado College, she makes no allusion +to the gift that made this building possible, and says only: "I suppose +Gregg wrote you or Sister that I helped lay the corner-stone of the new +hall yesterday morning. Mrs. S., one of the 1908 Class, and myself +patted on the cement. Gregg remarked if Daddy and Alan had been there, +there would have been a lot more put on. The wind was very chilly +yesterday, but we were not there very long and we were fairly well +wrapped." + + * * * * * + +Mrs. Bemis had an attack of appendicitis while in Boston in the autumn +of 1910, which made an immediate operation necessary. When she was able +to be moved, Mr. and Mrs. Taylor took her to Asheville for the winter, +as she was not strong enough for the longer trip to Colorado; but the +weather there that year was very unfortunate for an invalid, and later +they went to Atlantic City. Here Mr. Bemis joined them; he now was able +to make business arrangements that relieved him of the many details he +had long carried, and a new era in the family life was begun--the +happiest of all. + +From that time all enforced separations were over, and he was with his +wife continuously wherever it was best for her to be. When, after a +year, she was able to return to Colorado Springs, she was very happy to +be again in her home, and the old life among friends was resumed as +always, quickly and happily. + + * * * * * + +Birthdays and wedding anniversaries were gala days in the family, +especially Mr. Bemis's birthday, when there was always a large dinner +party with intimate friends added to the family group. Fun and abounding +cheer were invariably among the good things provided. As these days came +around there was no abatement of interest in them and of cheerful +outward observance. + +For many years very definite plans were made by the children for the +golden wedding of their father and mother, on November 21, 1916. That +was to be the crowning day of all the family days, and though Mrs. Bemis +sometimes protested against planning for it, saying that she couldn't +expect to see that day, as it approached she took much pleasure in the +plans her children made for it. They were all to come home, each +bringing one or more of the grandchildren. Their mother was to have no +care whatever in connection with the celebration. Mrs. Taylor, the only +one whose home was in Colorado Springs, made arrangements to have the +family dinner in her own house and later in the evening a reception for +friends. + +The summer of 1916 was passed as usual at Mohonk, and was followed by +the stay of some weeks in Boston that Mr. and Mrs. Bemis made each +autumn. While there, Mrs. Bemis had a fall, which later proved to have +serious effects. This was barely a month before the golden wedding, and +though she tried to treat it lightly and took the journey to Colorado +Springs, on arriving there she consulted her physician, who said that a +surgical operation was necessary. She wanted to postpone it until after +the golden wedding celebration, but he was not willing to risk any +delay, and on November 16 she went through the ordeal. The convalescence +was more rapid than the family had dared to hope, but they knew that the +situation was still serious when the wedding day came. To them fell the +delicate task of planning to observe it so that Mrs. Bemis would not +know it was done with anxious hearts, and of making it only a time of +rejoicing, and withal to do this in a way that would not tax her in the +least. + +There was an early dinner for old and young, with one vacant place, in +the family home. Letters, telegrams, and whatever else had been written +for the occasion were read, and then all went to the hospital for a +short call. Five grandchildren were there, representing each of the +three families; with Mr. Bemis and their parents they entered the +invalid's room in procession. Each child carried a long-stemmed golden +chrysanthemum, the girls dressed in white with yellow ribbon bows on +their hair, the boys wearing yellow neckties; the older ones each gave +her a few words of greeting as cheerfully as if they had come with light +hearts from a feast where there was no shadow. "Just like the Bemises," +it was said. + +She was able to listen to a number of letters and telegrams and to enjoy +some of the flowers that had been sent in great abundance to the house. +In writing of that day, one of her children says: "I shall never forget +her face looking so thin and delicate but so beaming with happiness and +the humorous twinkle of her eyes behind her spectacles. Grandpa walked +at the head of the procession looking very proud and happy and making a +great tramping and show at keeping time. Doree Taylor's golden curls +were like sunshine, and we were all so happy to think that in spite of +all our fears Mama Bemis was still with us. How glad we all are that we +had that happy time together!" + +All her good pluck and its continuance in the days that followed had its +good result. At first the convalescence was surprisingly rapid, and in a +few weeks she was able to leave the hospital and begin the climb back to +her old strength. It was a trying winter, but a trip to California +helped her much, so that when she reached Mohonk for her last stay there +the gain was marked and she moved about with ease. One of her friends +who spent the summer near her states that she spoke often of this gain, +and showed her old cheer and interest in all that affected her friends +and in the stirring events throughout the world and especially in the +great war into which we had entered; and that she talked more often than +was her wont of the inner life and of the inevitable change--the great +adventure--and the revelations it would bring. She spoke as if she +thought it might come to her in the near future, but always with a quiet +acceptance of it as one experience in the continuous life. + +For one reason only she would have it delayed, that her husband might +not have to take the rest of his journey alone. This wish was not +fulfilled, for the transition came quickly. She was spared what would +have been difficult for one with her independent spirit--a long time of +physical dependence on others. On October 9 she left Boston with her +husband for Colorado. A slight cold which she had seemed better on +reaching Chicago, but on arriving home it increased, and though she +tried to ignore it for a day or two, she was obliged to call her +physician. It soon proved very serious; double pneumonia developed +rapidly, and on the 18th, with her husband and all her children around +her, she passed peacefully and without pain into the fuller life. + +A brief service was held in the First Congregational Church of Colorado +Springs on the afternoon of the following day, and in the evening Mr. +Bemis and all his family left for the east with the body which, on +October 23, was laid in the Newton Cemetery beside those of her two +children. The funeral was held at two o'clock on the afternoon of that +day in the chapel of the Newton Cemetery. Friends and relatives from +many directions were gathered there, and the chancel was filled with +flowers sent from far and near. + +It was one of New England's most glorious autumn days. Though there was +no wind, the bright leaves fell in abundance quietly and steadily in the +warm sunshine. + +The service was conducted by the Rev. James B. Gregg, D.D., for over +thirty years a personal friend of the family, and bound to Mr. and Mrs. +Bemis by a very close and tender tie in the marriage of their son to his +daughter Faith. He was also their pastor in Colorado Springs for +twenty-seven years. The service was very simple, consisting only of +wisely chosen selections from the Bible, full of tenderness and of joy +and faith in the eternal, followed by an uplifting and strengthening +prayer that Dr. Gregg had written for that special service. + + * * * * * + +This brief sketch of one into whose life came far more than the +ordinary measure of happiness, and who had the heart and the will to +bring all the happiness she could to others, is all too inadequate; the +only justification for its existence lies in the hope that it may, in +some degree, suggest to her children's children and to those who come +after them, the personality that was so dear and so human to those who +knew her, so unselfish and so thoughtful for others, so mindful of the +fact that this life of ours is only a stewardship. + + + + + +End of the Project Gutenberg EBook of Alice Cogswell Bemis, by Anonymous + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK ALICE COGSWELL BEMIS *** + +***** This file should be named 33713.txt or 33713.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + http://www.gutenberg.org/3/3/7/1/33713/ + +Produced by The Online Distributed Proofreading Team at +http://www.pgdp.net. 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