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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: What the Mother of a Deaf Child Ought to Know + +Author: John Dutton Wright + +Release Date: May 23, 2006 [EBook #18439] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK MOTHER OF A DEAF CHILD *** + + + + +Produced by Kathryn Lybarger, Martin Pettit and the Online +Distributed Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net + + + + + + + WHAT THE MOTHER OF A + DEAF CHILD OUGHT TO KNOW + + BY + + JOHN DUTTON WRIGHT + +FOUNDER AND PRINCIPAL OF THE WRIGHT ORAL SCHOOL FOR THE + DEAF, NEW YORK CITY; COLLABORATOR OF "THE LARYNGO- + SCOPE" AND THE "VOLTA REVIEW"; DIRECTOR OF THE + AMERICAN ASSOCIATION TO PROMOTE THE TEACHING + OF SPEECH TO THE DEAF; AUTHOR OF "EDUCA- + TIONAL NEEDS OF THE DEAF," FOR THE + GUIDANCE OF PHYSICIANS + + [Illustration: Logo] + + NEW YORK + FREDERICK A. STOKES COMPANY + PUBLISHERS + + + _Copyright, 1915, by_ + + FREDERICK A. STOKES COMPANY + + _All rights reserved, including that of translation + into foreign languages_ + + _March, 1915_ + + + TO MY WIFE + + AT WHOSE SUGGESTION THIS LITTLE BOOK + WAS WRITTEN IN ORDER THAT MOTHERS + MAY DO ALL IN THEIR POWER FOR + THEIR DEAF CHILDREN + + + + +CONTENTS + +CHAPTER PAGE + PREFACE ix-xix + + I. FACING THE FACTS 1 + + II. HOW SHALL THE MOTHER BEGIN HER PART OF THE WORK? 5 + + III. HOW SHALL THE MOTHER GET INTO COMMUNICATION + WITH HER DEAF CHILD? 13 + + IV. WHAT ABOUT THE BABY'S SPEECH? 20 + + V. DEVELOPING THE MENTAL FACULTIES 22 + + VI. DEVELOPING THE LUNGS 30 + + VII. THE CULTIVATION OF CREATIVE IMAGINATION 32 + + VIII. FURTHER TESTS OF HEARING 34 + + IX. THE DEVELOPMENT OF RESIDUAL HEARING 38 + + X. DEVELOPING THE POWER OF LIP-READING 43 + + XI. FORMING CHARACTER 47 + + XII. CULTIVATING THE SOCIAL INSTINCT 50 + + XIII. SOMETHING ABOUT SCHOOLS AND METHODS 53 + + XIV. THE PRESERVATION OF SPEECH. WHEN DEAFNESS + RESULTS FROM ACCIDENT OR ILLNESS AFTER INFANCY 58 + + XV. TEACHING LIP-READING 61 + + XVI. SCHOOL AGE 63 + + XVII. ORGANIZED EFFORTS BY PARENTS TO OBTAIN + BETTER EDUCATIONAL CONDITIONS 65 + +XVIII. A PERSONAL MATTER FOR EACH PARENT 68 + + XIX. DAY SCHOOLS 72 + + XX. THE DEAF CHILD AT FIVE YEARS OF AGE 73 + + XXI. SCHOOLS FOR THE HEARING AND PRIVATE GOVERNESSES 75 + + XXII. IMPORTANCE OF THE BEGINNING 80 + +XXIII. AVOID THE YOUNG AND INEXPERIENCED TEACHER 82 + + XXIV. ON ENTERING SCHOOL 83 + + XXV. DURING THE SCHOOL PERIOD 98 + + XXVI. DURING VACATION 101 + +XXVII. SOME NOTS 107 + + + + +PREFACE + + +The mother of a little deaf child once wrote as follows: + + + "As a mother of a deaf child, and one whose experience has been + unusual only in that it has been more fortunate than that of the + average mother so situated, I want to place before you (the + teachers of the deaf) a plea for the education of the parents of + little deaf children. + + "While you are laboring for the education of the deaf, and for + their sakes are training teachers to carry on the work, there are, + in almost every home that shelters a little deaf child, blunders + being made that will retard his development and hinder your work + for years to come--blunders that a little timely advice might + prevent. We parents are not willfully ignorant, not always stupidly + so; but that we are in most cases densely so, there can be no + doubt. + + "Can you for the moment put yourselves into our place? Suppose you + are just the ordinary American parents, perhaps living far from the + center of things. You know in a hazy way that there are deaf and + blind and other afflicted people--perhaps you have seen some of + them. + + "Now, into your home comes disease or a sudden awakening to the + meaning of existing conditions, and you find that _your_ child is + _deaf_. + + "At first your thought is of physicians; they fail you. Advice from + friends and advertisements from quacks pour in upon you; still you + find no comfort and no help. + + "You stop talking to the child. What is the use? He cannot hear + you! You pity him--oh, infinitely! And your pity takes the form of + indulgence. You love him and you long to understand him; but you + cannot interpret him and he feels the change, the helplessness in + your attitude toward him. You try one thing after another, + floundering desperately in your effort to discover what radical + step must be taken to meet this emergency. After a time you seize + upon the idea that seems to you the best. Probably it is to wait + until he is six or seven and then put him into an institution. But + while you wait for school age to arrive, you lose that close touch + with the soul of your child which may be established only in these + early years, for you have no adequate means of communication with + him--no way to win his confidence. Soon the child has passed this + stage, and no school can ever give him what you might and would + have given had you known how. + + "You who are trained teachers of the deaf can hardly realize the + need of advice about matters perfectly obvious to YOU; but the need + exists. May I tell you from my own experience a few of the things + about which you might advise--you, who know! + + "In the first place, suggest to parents that they make simple + tests of their children's hearing; and tell them how and why those + who are _partially_ deaf should be helped. + + "Then tell them to talk, and talk, and talk, to their little deaf + ones--to say everything and say it naturally. And tell them some + things in particular that should be said--commands, etc., and + _certainly_ 'I love you.' Tell them to speak in whole sentences. + Give them an idea of the possibilities of lip-reading. + + "Tell them that _by the expression of the face_ they may convey to + the deaf child the interest, approval, disapproval, etc., that they + would express to a hearing child in the tone of voice. + + "Tell them that there is _rarely_ an untrained person who can + _safely_ meddle with articulation. + + "Tell them that it is not true that all deaf children are bad; that + the deaf must learn obedience as others do. + + "Tell them the many things which you wish your pupils had learned + before they entered school. + + "Only this I beg of you--tell them! + "LUCILE M. MOORE." + + +For the sake of presenting the ideas contained in this little book in a +somewhat systematic manner it was best to arrange them on the +supposition that they would come to the notice of the mothers while +their children were yet less than two years of age. In many cases, +however, this will not be the case. When, therefore, the child is three, +four, or five years old when this falls into the hands of the mother, it +would still be well if she carried out the suggestions in the order in +which they are here arranged. With the maturity of mind and body that +comes with the added years, the child can pass through the earlier +stages of the training much more rapidly than can be the case with the +baby. Nevertheless, the preliminary steps should not be omitted. A child +of four can be carried in six months through the exercises that occupied +two years when begun with the child of twelve months, but the older +child should not be started with exercises suggested for the years after +two. + +Mothers of deaf children cannot be expected to be trained teachers of +the deaf. It would be useless, and, in fact, often unfortunate, to ask +them to attempt to teach articulation to their children. Even for them +to teach the children to write would usually be undesirable because the +greatest gain from the mother's efforts comes from the early +establishment of the speech-reading habit and _entire_ dependence upon +it. It is a very great help to have this habit fixed before writing is +taught. There is no haste about the child's learning to write. That is +easily and quickly accomplished when the proper time comes. The +difficult thing to do is, very fortunately, the thing the mother is best +fitted to accomplish, namely, to create in the child the ability to +interpret speech by means of the eye, and the habit of expecting to get +ideas by watching the face of a speaker. + +With these ideas in mind there has been careful avoidance in this +little book of any suggestion that the mother should be anxious about +the speech development of the child before five years of age. If she has +the patience and the time to follow the directions given, she will have +done her child a very great service; the greatest that lies within her +power; and she will have laid the foundation for a more rapid and better +development of speech than would have been possible without her +preliminary training. + +Not every mother will find it possible to carry out all the suggestions +offered in this little book, but no one should feel discouraged on that +account. It seemed best to offer too many suggestions rather than too +few, because these pages may fall into the hands of some mothers whose +situation is such that full advantage can be taken of every idea here +given. Presence of too much matter in the little book will not destroy +its usefulness in cases where only a portion can be applied, whereas the +lack of some of the ideas might limit its value in certain instances. +No one should give up in despair just because it is not possible to do +all that is here suggested. Something, at least, can be found here which +it is possible to do that will help very much. + +Sometimes, through a false sense of shame, or through ignorance of the +possibilities open to a deaf child, mothers have refused to admit that +their children were deaf, or to allow anything to be done for them, +until very valuable time has been lost. This is unfair to the child, and +very wrong. A mother should have only pity for the deaf child and +eagerness to aid him to overcome his handicap so far as possible. Delay +in frankly facing the facts and in taking all possible measures to +develop the remaining faculties will in the end only increase the +mother's shame and add to it the pangs of remorse. + +In a little book written to guide physicians in advising parents of deaf +children, I said: + +"The situation of a deaf child differs very much, from an educational +standpoint, from that of the little hearing child. Two hours a day +playing educational games in a kindergarten is as much as is usually +given, or is needful, for the little hearing child up to six or seven +years of age; and his mental development and success in after life will +not be seriously endangered if even that is omitted and he does not +begin to go to school until he is eight or nine. The hearing child of +eight who has never been in school and cannot read or write has, +nevertheless, without conscious effort, mastered the two most important +educational tasks in life. He has learned to speak and has acquired the +greater part of his working vocabulary. In other words, although he has +never been across the threshold of a school, his education is well +advanced for his years and mental development. + +"The situation of the uninstructed deaf child of eight is very +different. The task which it has taken the hearing child eight years to +accomplish, the deaf child of eight has not even begun. He cannot speak +a word; he does not even know that there is such a thing as a word. He +is eight years behind his hearing brother, and even if he starts now, +unless some means can be found for aiding him to overtake his brother +educationally, he will be only eight years old in education when he is +sixteen years of age. And when he is sixteen, the psychological period +will have passed for acquiring what he should have learned when he was +eight. The fact that the child is deaf does not exempt him from the +inexorable laws of mental psychology and heredity. In the development of +the human mind there is a certain period when all conditions are +favorable for the acquisition of speech and language. Unnumbered +generations of ancestors acquired speech and language at that stage of +their mental development, and this little deaf descendant's mind obeys +the law of inherited tendencies. + +"If the speech and language-learning period, from two years of age to +ten, is allowed to pass unimproved, the task of learning them later is +rendered unnecessarily difficult. + +"Therefore, in the case of the little deaf child, the years from two to +ten are crucial, and of far greater importance than the same period in +the case of the hearing child." + +Even though the child be totally deaf from birth, he can nevertheless be +taught to speak and to understand when others speak to him. He can be +given the same education that he would be capable of mastering if he +could hear. The mother need not be despairing nor heart-broken. A +prompt, brave, and intelligent facing of the situation will result in +making the child one to be proud of and to lean upon. + + JOHN D. WRIGHT. + +1 Mount Morris Park, West, New York City. +February, 1915. + + + + +WHAT THE MOTHER OF A DEAF CHILD OUGHT TO KNOW + +(_Mothers are strongly advised to read the Preface_) + + + + +I + +FACING THE FACTS + + +While deafness is a serious misfortune, it is neither a sin, nor a +disgrace, to be ashamed of. It is a handicap, to be sure, but one to be +bravely and cheerfully faced, for it does not destroy the chances for +happiness and success. It is cause for neither discouragement nor +despair. It will demand patient devotion and courageous effort to +overcome the disadvantage, but what mother is not willing to show these +in large measure for her child when the future holds assurance of +comfort and usefulness? + +The earlier that the facts are known and squarely faced, the better. It +is always wiser in life to prepare for the worst and gratefully accept +the best, than to refuse to acknowledge the possibility of the worst +until it is too late to remedy it, or at least to reduce it to its +lowest terms. + +When a mother first suspects that her child's hearing is not perfectly +normal, what should she do? Of course, first of all, the best available +ear specialist should be consulted at once in order to determine whether +the cause can be removed and normal hearing restored. Sometimes, +however, the specialists are uncertain of the outcome, and sometimes +their hopes are not realized. In the meantime, precious days and weeks +are passing in which something could be done for the little one +educationally, without in any way interfering with the medical efforts +at relief. The two things can be, and should be, carried on +simultaneously. If normal hearing is restored no harm has been done by +the educational training; in fact, the development of the child has been +advanced. On the other hand, if the hopes that were entertained are +disappointed, then precious and irrecoverable time has not been lost. + +The title presupposes that the mother has already accepted the fact that +her child's hearing is not perfect, and, for the sake of the child, it +is to be hoped that this knowledge came to her very promptly after the +occurrence of the deafness. + +One would naturally expect a mother, of her own accord, to carefully +test all the senses of her child by many simple and repeated exercises +during the first few months of its life. The many cases, however, in +which deafness on the part of a child has not been recognized, or at +least not acknowledged, by the mother till the third, fourth, or even +fifth year, show a strange neglect of a highly desirable investigation, +and a natural unwillingness to accept a truth, the possibility of which +must certainly have occurred to her long before. + +If she could only realize that she need not feel downcast and +heavy-hearted by reason of her little one's imperfect hearing; if she +could only know that she need not look forward to a life for him +different from that of other children; if she could understand that +training and education can enable him to overcome to an extraordinary +degree the disadvantage of deafness, she would set about the task with +cheerfulness and hope, and if she knew that the sooner she began, the +better it would be for the little one, she would not stubbornly refuse +for so long to acknowledge even the possibility of deafness. + + + + +II + +HOW SHALL THE MOTHER BEGIN HER PART OF THE WORK? + + +First of all, something like an inventory should be taken of the +faculties possessed by the child which he can use in working out his +problem. Has he good sight, normal smell, taste, muscular sense, and +memory? To what extent is his hearing impaired? Is there any possibility +of restoring it to normal acuteness, or of improving it, or of +preventing any further impairment? + +The completeness with which these questions can be answered depends, to +a considerable extent, on his age and his physical condition. We will +suppose that he is about fifteen months old and in good bodily +condition. If he is older, the same tests would be used to begin with, +though we could at once pass on to more complicated and difficult ones +that cannot as yet be used with the fifteen-months-old baby. + +First, with regard to sight. We wish to know if he can distinguish +reasonably small objects at reasonable distances; whether he can see +moderately small things at short distances; whether the angle of his +vision is normal. In other words, whether his range and angle of vision +are sufficient for all ordinary purposes. + +If he can recognize his father or mother or brothers and sisters at a +distance of a hundred feet he can see far enough for all practical +purposes. If he readily finds a small object like a pin or a small black +bead when dropped on the floor, his sight is sharp enough at short range +to serve his purposes. If his attention can be attracted by waving a +hand or a little flag or a flower fifty or sixty degrees on either side +of the direction in which he is looking, that is, two-thirds of the way +to the side of his head, his angle of vision is sufficiently wide. If he +can pick out from seven balls of worsted of the seven primary +colors--red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo, and violet--the ball +that matches another of the same color, he is at least not color-blind +and has a sufficient sense of color for the ordinary purposes of life. +It may be necessary to wait till eighteen months for a satisfactory +color test. Color blindness, when present, is usually most apparent in a +failure to distinguish between red and green, these two widely differing +colors seeming to produce the same impression upon the color-blind eye. +The child will be just as likely to choose a red ball to match the green +one in his hand as to select another red ball. But repeated tests should +be made before accepting color blindness as a fact, since sometimes the +brain can be educated to discriminate between red and green even when +the impressions have not the normal degree of difference. + +The tests for taste, smell, muscular sense, touch, and memory cannot be +made with much thoroughness or satisfaction till two years of age, +though observation will show a recognition by taste and smell of that +which is agreeable and that which is disagreeable. Accurate tests of +hearing cannot be made till the child is three or four, but it is +possible when he is twelve months old to determine whether the hearing +is normal or is seriously impaired, and it is very desirable that this +should be done. + +The expression "seriously impaired," when applied to the hearing of a +little child, must be given an entirely different interpretation than it +would have if used with reference to an adult who had previously had +normal hearing. A degree of impairment that would be unimportant in an +adult is a very serious matter in the case of a child. This is because +the ear is the natural teacher of speech and language. If the sounds of +speech are not clearly heard the imitation of them will always be +imperfect, and the acquisition of language will be impeded. If deafness +is so great that spoken words are not heard at all, then the child will +not learn to speak and to understand when spoken to unless specially +taught. A much slighter degree of deafness will prevent the proper +acquisition of speech and language than would in later life prevent the +comprehension of conversation in a familiar language. As even the child +of fifteen months would benefit from some modifications of the ordinary +treatment of a baby, if his hearing was not normally acute, it is to his +advantage to have the fact of his deafness known at once by those in +charge of him. + +It is not as easy as it might seem to the inexperienced to determine +even approximately the situation of a fifteen-months-old baby with +respect to its hearing. Our interest here is, of course, in the tests of +hearing that do not require special apparatus and special training. In +the case of a child less than two years of age we must rely upon merely +attracting his attention by various sounds, judging the effect upon him +by his expression and actions. We cannot, at that age, establish a +system of responses, nor expect him to imitate the sounds he hears. +Sounds should be used for testing that disturb only the air, and are +not sufficiently low and powerful to set in vibration the floor, chair, +or any other object with which he may be in contact. Deaf children +rapidly become abnormally sensitive to vibrations, which are to them +what noises are to us. A rather smooth, not too shrill, whistle is one +excellent sound to use. Not a fluttering whistle like the postman's, nor +a heavy tone like an organ pipe or bass horn. Clapping the hands is a +good initial test of a crude nature; then a moderate whistle, varying +the pitch, for sometimes high sounds are perceived, but not low ones, or +vice versa. Then a bell, such as a small table bell, the telephone, +electric door bell, etc. Lastly, the human voice in various pitches, +volumes, distances, and vowels. Little by little it can be determined +whether the child hears all the sounds, and if not, then which, if any, +he perceives. A totally deaf child may often deceive the investigator by +turning his head at the critical moment, apparently in response to the +sound that was made, while, on the other hand, a child very slightly +deaf, or not deaf at all, may completely ignore the sounds made for the +purpose of attracting his attention. Therefore, it takes time and +repeated tests under varying environments to gradually eliminate +possible errors and coincidences. + +It must be remembered that the intensity with which a sound affects the +ear varies inversely as the square of the distance from the ear to the +source of the sound. That is to say, if exactly the same sound is +repeated at half the distance, the intensity with which it reaches the +ear is four times as great as before, and if the distance is quartered, +the intensity is sixteen times as great. In other words, if "ah" is +spoken with a certain loudness eight inches from the child's ear, and +then again with exactly the same pitch and volume only two inches from +his ear, it will be sixteen times as loud to him as it was the first +time. + +These simple tests will serve to determine whether the child has, or has +not, a normal acuteness of hearing. They will not serve to determine +with any accuracy the degree of impairment, if it is found that the +hearing is impaired at all. More thorough tests will have to be +postponed till the child is two years old or more. But the moment that +impaired hearing is suspected, the best available ear specialist should +be consulted in order to determine whether the cause can be removed, or +measures taken to prevent a progressive increase in deafness. + +The visit to the otologist should be repeated at intervals of not more +than eight or ten months, even where there is no question of treatment, +in order that any change in the physical condition of the organs may be +promptly detected. + + + + +III + +HOW SHALL THE MOTHER GET INTO COMMUNICATION WITH HER DEAF CHILD? + + +Let it be assumed that when the child is fifteen months old it is fairly +well established that his hearing is somewhat below normal. Between +fifteen months and two years of age all that is said in this section +will apply equally to the child who is _feared_ to be _totally_ deaf and +to one who is known to possess some sound perception, though not a +normal degree of hearing. For, until he is old enough to respond to more +complete and accurate tests, we must not give up the idea that he may +have a sufficient remnant of hearing to be of great assistance to him in +the acquisition of speech and language, if it is only developed and +trained. + +Between the ages of twelve months and twenty-four months the child with +perfect hearing makes rapid progress in learning to understand what is +said to him, and by the time he is two years old has usually begun to +speak many words and sentences in a more or less imperfect way. This has +been accomplished principally by the mother's constant talking to her +baby. If she has had the good sense to always speak in simple but +complete sentences, and to avoid the foolish "baby talk" unfortunately +affected by some people in addressing little children, the results of +her daily and hourly talk is the possession by the child of a +considerable vocabulary of words whose meaning he knows, and a less +number that he is able himself to speak in a rather imperfect way. + +In what respects should the mother modify her treatment of the baby if +she suspects that his hearing is defective? She should not talk to him +any the less on this account, but, on the contrary, she should talk to +him more. She should, however, speak a little louder, a little nearer to +him, possibly a little more slowly and distinctly, exercising the +greatest caution, however, not to exaggerate speech into unnatural +facial contortions, or to accompany it by gestures. To fall into the +habit of mouthing and gesticulating, making faces and motions, will +defeat entirely the purpose of all efforts to develop an understanding +of speech by the child. Unfortunately, such exaggerated and absurd +speech is a natural and very prevalent fault. To avoid it is absolutely +necessary, but requires constant watchfulness, as there is a strong +temptation to try to make speech-reading easy for the child by opening +the mouth wide and making extraordinary movements of the tongue. + +The object aimed at is to lead the child to interpret natural, everyday +speech, and such facial contortions and exaggerations cut him off from +practice in reading natural speech. This point cannot be too strongly +emphasized. Speak naturally and normally _always_ to the deaf child. + +Above all, the mother should form the habit of watching his eyes and of +speaking as often as possible when his gaze is fixed upon her face. The +habit on his part of looking at the face of a speaker, and the habit on +his mother's part of observing his gaze and, when it wanders, of pausing +in her talk till he is looking at her again, are two very valuable aids +in the language development of the deaf child. In addition to always +raising her voice a little in speaking to her baby, the mother should +several times a day take him in her lap and sing to him, and talk to him +with her lips not far from his ear. Talk to him just as all mothers do +to their babies (but not with the mangled and distorted words called +"baby talk"), about the pussy, the dog, the bird, his foot, his toes, +his arms and hands and fingers; about his papa, brothers, sisters; about +the flowers, the grass, the trees, and a thousand other things. Say the +good old Mother Goose rhymes of "Patty Cake, Patty Cake, Baker's Man," +"This little pig went to market," etc., etc. But in all your frolics and +stories and songs, take the greatest care that he shall hear or see, or +better still, _both_ see _and_ hear, what you are saying. Gradually he +can be taught to understand many simple commands and questions just as +hearing babies learn them, by constant repetition at times and under +circumstances when the meaning is obvious. Such as "come," "go," "go to +papa," "come to mamma," "jump," "stop," "kiss mother," "pet pussy," +"pick up," "put down," "milk," "water," "bread" (the later in life that +he learns the meaning and taste of "candy" the better), "do you want +some bread?" "milk," "water," etc. "Bring my slippers," "bring my +shoes," "put on your hat," "take off your mittens," "wash your hands," +etc., etc., throughout the whole day. + +Very early the mother should learn to consider the direction from which +the light comes, and should be careful to take her position _facing_ the +main source of light which should come from _behind the child_. The eye +can be trained from the very beginning of attention to unconsciously +supplement an imperfect ear in comprehending spoken words. It is even +possible for the eye to perform the entire task of interpreting speech, +and, if the hearing is entirely lacking, the course outlined will result +in training the brain to interpret the movements of speech as seen by +the eye, as it would have been trained by the same procedure to +interpret the sounds of speech had the organ of transmission not been +injured. But the idea must be constantly in the mind of the mother that +her boy needs to _see_ the spoken word at the very moment _when the idea +that it represents is in his mind_, AS OFTEN as he would hear it if his +hearing were perfect. + +This one suggestion, if faithfully lived up to from the age of one year +to that of two years, would be almost enough. But there are other things +that the mother can do as the mental development of the baby increases +with each month of life. She should encourage him to babble and gurgle +and murmur, as much as possible, to laugh and crow and make all the +various baby noises that will train and develop his voice. Encourage +noisy, romping, rollicking games as he gets older, that make him shout +and call, for they are the natural and best voice exercises. + + + + +IV + +WHAT ABOUT THE BABY'S SPEECH? + + +The hearing baby babbles because he gets some pleasure from the sounds, +and also because he desires to imitate the sounds of speech he hears +around him. _He has his attention called constantly to sound._ The sense +of vibration is not as strong nor as instructive as that of sound, but +if _the attention_ of the child is early _called_ to it, a watchfulness +for vibration _from within himself_ as well as from without, can be +aroused, and a sensitiveness developed that would not have come as +early, if at all, without special, directive effort on the part of the +mother. She can lead her little one to oo-oo, and ee-ee, and mamma, and +bub-bub, etc., by doing these babblings herself while the baby is in her +arms and his tiny hands are wandering over her lips and face and throat. +These exercises will gradually bring a recognition on the part of the +child of the sensation of vibration that accompanies voice, and they +will give facility, coupled with the normal and natural intonations that +have been acquired when he was not conscious of any effort, that will +prepare him for a better and more fluent speech when the time comes for +more exact articulation training. + +But during the first two or three years of the child's life the +principal stress should be placed upon his learning to understand what +is said to him, without bothering much about his speaking himself. In +the case of the hearing child, the understanding of language comes +before he can himself utter it. This must also be the case with the deaf +child, and the period preceding utterance must be longer, by reason of +his handicap, than in the case of a child with normal hearing. + + + + +V + +DEVELOPING THE MENTAL FACULTIES + + +By the time he is two years old he has gained maturity and grasp enough +to play many little educational games with his mother and his little +brothers and sisters, or playmates. These games should be calculated to +develop his various faculties, his powers of observation, memory, and +concentration. To develop a faculty is really _to train the brain_. As a +matter of fact, we see and hear and taste and smell and feel with our +brains. The eye of a two-year-old child is practically as perfect an +optical instrument as the eye of a boy of ten, and yet how much more the +older boy seems to see. This is because his brain has been trained to +_interpret_ the impressions that even the baby eyes received but did not +understand. Of course, where the instrument is found to be imperfect we +can assist it by means of additional lenses, or perhaps by some one of +the skillful operations now performed by oculists, and, as the sight is +of such increased importance to a deaf child, the greatest care and +watchfulness should be given to his eyes. Do not let him sleep, or lie, +facing the sun, or any other powerful light, but throughout his life be +careful that all his use of eyesight be under conditions of ample and +well-directed light. Supposing that the simple tests referred to +heretofore have shown that the eyes, as optical instruments, are +sufficiently perfect, our efforts need to be to train the brain to take +cognizance of, and to interpret the impressions transmitted to it by the +eyes. We shall not be able to improve the working of the eye by our +efforts, but we can educate the brain. + +Color and form make the earliest appeal to the child's eyes, and we can +use them for our educational play. The duplicate set of worsted balls of +the seven primal colors can be increased to include easily +distinguishable shades. The child can be sent on entertaining voyages +of discovery around the room with a ball of a certain color to find +other objects similar in color in the rugs, books, chairs, dresses, +ties, etc. + +A game to develop observation of form can be made by collecting a group +of objects of varying shapes in a pile on the floor or a low table; +mother picks up some one of the objects, directs the attention of the +little one to it, and after he has observed it somewhat she puts it back +in the pile and moves all the objects about till they are well mixed up. +Ask the little fellow then to pick out the object mother held in her +hand a moment before. When he can do this by sight without difficulty, +have him shut his eyes, place an object in his little hands, teach him +to feel it over carefully, take it from him, and, while his eyes are +still closed, place it once more in the pile. Let him then open his eyes +and see if he can indicate the object he had previously held. When he +has mastered this, give the game another turn by asking him to find by +means of touch alone, while the eyes are still closed, the object that +he has been feeling, after it is restored to the pile of other objects. +Still another turn can be given by first letting him see the object, +without touching it, then having him close his eyes, and by touch alone +select it from the pile. A set of wooden forms, such as spheres, cubes, +pyramids, cones, cylinders, and similar, but truncated, forms, can be +obtained at any school supply store. To these can be added common +household objects such as small frames, vases, napkin rings, spoons, +forks, and other similar things, as well as some of the forms included +in a complete set of the Montessori material. + +The Montessori weighted forms are excellent for training his muscular +recognition of difference of weight, and an excellent way is to put +various quantities of birdshot into half a dozen exactly similar little +rubber balls that can be purchased at any toy store for two cents +apiece. Then hand the boy one of the weighted balls, and after he has +felt its weight put it back with the other similar-appearing balls and +see if he can again discover it. An outfit for training his tactile +sense can be made in any home by collecting duplicate pieces of cloth +having different textures; such as velvet, rough woolen tweeds or +homespun, silk, satin, cambric, muslin, etc., and pasting one set on +cards. Also by stretching on a wooden frame, strings of varying sizes, +weaves, and twists, and having a bunch of duplicates from which he can +select, by sight and touch alone, the pieces that correspond, each to +each, with those on the frame or on the cards. If there is a guitar, or +mandolin, or zither, or a piano, available, perhaps, by and by, the +mother can teach the child to recognize the difference in the vibratory +sensation perceived by his fingers touching the body of the instrument +when a low note and a high note are struck alternately. She can make a +game of this, too, by later having him close his eyes and place his +fingers in contact with the instrument and then tell her _approximately_ +what string or key she struck. The next step, if she can take it, is to +place his little hands upon her chest to feel the lowest notes of her +voice, and upon both the chest and the top of her head to feel the +highest, and endeavoring to get him to recognize the similarity in +vibratory sensation between what he now feels and what he previously +felt on the musical instruments. The last step in this series of +exercises to awaken a recognition of vibratory sensations is to lead him +to feel in his own chest and head the vibrations set up by his own voice +in shouting and laughing, crying or babbling. + +These hints that are so quickly and easily given, require weeks and +months of patient, _happy_ effort to carry out. Beware that no one of +them is repeated or continued so long at a time as to become a thing +dreaded and disliked. Remember that the attention of a little child is +like a constantly flitting butterfly that rests for only a moment or two +on anything before dancing away to something else. + +There are many little games with kindergarten materials that can be +used to develop the powers of attention, observation, imitation, and +obedience. The laying in simple designs, by watchful imitation of the +mother, of colored sticks, colored squares, etc.; the building with +colored blocks; stringing of _large_ beads; weaving with _wide_ strips +of colored paper simple designs that a mother could invent with the +material at hand or could learn from any kindergarten manual. The point +that must be firmly, but _pleasantly_, insisted upon in these exercises +is careful and obedient following by the child of the exact order of +movement and manner of placing adopted by the mother teacher. The entire +value of these exercises for the purpose she wishes to accomplish +depends upon _accurate observation_ by the child and _implicit +obedience_. + +The material outfit prepared and sold by the American exploiters of the +Montessori method is admirably adapted to the development of the budding +faculties of the child, and the mother who is trying to do all in her +power to prepare her little one to benefit to the greatest possible +extent from the professional instruction that must come later, will make +no mistake in supplying herself with the set of materials, and making +herself intelligent on their use by the child. + + + + +VI + +DEVELOPING THE LUNGS + + +The tendency of the deaf child is to grow up with less development of +lungs and of the imagination than hearing children. In order to overcome +this tendency the child must be encouraged and _taught_ to play games +and use toys that will exercise the lungs and develop the power of +imaginative thought. + +In order to expand and strengthen the lungs through the child's play, +supply him with the brightly colored paper wind-mills that he can set +whirling by blowing lustily; also the rubber balloon toys, even though +the torturing squeak of the toys is only heard by those in the vicinity +and not by himself. An especially good exercise for the gentle and +long-continued control of breath results from the toy blow pipes with +conical wire bowls by means of which light, celluloid balls of bright +colors are kept suspended in the air, dancing on the column of breath +blown softly through the tube. The more steadily the child blows, the +more mysteriously the ball remains at a fixed point, whirling rapidly +but without any apparent support. + +Blowing soap bubbles, especially trying to blow big ones, is very useful +as well as interesting. + +For physical development in which the lungs come in for their share and +the sense of mechanical rhythm is fostered, an excellent exercise is +marching in step to the stroke of the drum, proud in Boy Scout uniform. +Dancing is a very desirable accomplishment for the deaf child. + +Tops and tenpins cultivate dexterity, as do playing ball and rolling +hoop. + + + + +VII + +THE CULTIVATION OF CREATIVE IMAGINATION + + +This can be greatly helped by early use on the part of the child of +colored modeling wax to reproduce objects and animals, and to construct +models of imaginary houses, yards, trees, etc. A sand pile, or a large, +shallow sand box, perhaps five feet square, with sides six inches high, +and completely lined with enamel cloth to make it watertight, is a +wonderful implement for constructive play on the part of the child. +Whole villages of farms, fields, and forests, ponds and brooks, roads +and railroads, can be made here in miniature. + +Building blocks of wood or stone; the metal construction toy called +"Mechano"; dolls, doll houses, furniture, and equipment, are valuable, +but they should be simple, inexpensive and not fragile. + +Cut-up picture puzzles, painting books, tracing slates with large and +simple designs cultivate observation and ingenuity. Kaleidoscopes and +stereoscopes are excellent, but moving pictures are so trying upon the +eyes, and the air of the theaters is so bad, that a deaf child whose +eyes are his only salvation, and whose health is doubly important, +should not even know of their existence till he is seven or eight years +old. + + + + +VIII + +FURTHER TESTS OF HEARING + + +But, as soon as the mother finds her little child sufficiently mature to +benefit by the sense training described above, whether it be at twenty +or, as is more likely, at from twenty-four to thirty months, she can +begin to make a more complete and accurate determination of the degree +of his deafness, for now she can establish a system of responses on the +part of the child that will show her when he perceives the sounds she +uses in her tests. + +In order to be certain that the little one knows what she wishes of him, +she must begin with some sensation that she is sure he feels. We will +assume that he has as yet no speech, and cannot count, at least does not +know the names of the numbers. Let the mother pat him once on the +shoulder and then cause him to hold up one of his little fingers. Then +pat him twice, and make him hold up two fingers, then three times and +have him put up three fingers. Now return to one pat and one finger, +repeat two pats and the holding up of two of his fingers, and three pats +and three fingers. Go over and over this little game until he has +grasped the idea and will hold up as many fingers as he feels pats. +Simple as the idea seems, it will often take a bright child some time to +realize what you want him to do. But you are _sure_ that he feels the +pats, whereas, if you began at once with sounds, you could not know +whether his failure to respond was because he did not hear, or through +not understanding what you expected of him. He will weary of the +exercise soon, and then mother may as well turn to something else till +he has rested. + +Having established this system of response on his part to sensations +perceived, it is not difficult to shift from the number of pats to the +number of times he hears a noise. This once accomplished, tests can be +made with sounds of different kinds, different pitch, and different +volume, varying the distance, the instruments, and the vowel when the +articulate sounds are reached. He can be shown a whistle, then, when it +is blown behind his back, he will hold up as many fingers as the times +it was blown, if he perceives the sound. He can be asked to distinguish +between a whistle, a little bell, and the clapping of the hands. When he +is successful in that, the vowel sounds may be uttered not far from his +ear, but behind him. Begin with "ah" (ä), as this is the most open and +strongest; then try "oh" (o with macron), which is not easily confused +with ä. Then ee (e with macron). If, after a time, a distance and a +degree of loudness are found that enable him to recognize these sounds +with unfailing accuracy, or at least 90 per cent. of the time, then +other sounds can be added, such as aw (a with diaresis below), (a with +breve) (as in hat), (i with macron) (as in ice), oo (as in cool), ow (as +in owl). Using these sounds at different pitches, and with different +intensities and distances, a sufficiently accurate estimate can be +formed of the degree of his hearing power so far as his present needs +are concerned. + + + + +IX + +THE DEVELOPMENT OF RESIDUAL HEARING + + +If any ability to perceive sounds is found, every effort should be made +to lead the child to use it, and as the most essential use of hearing is +in the comprehension of spoken language, the principal effort should be +made along that line. + +Take three objects, the names of which are short, with the principal +vowels quite easily distinguished. A little toy street car, a cap, and a +toy sheep, would do nicely to begin with, as the three words, "car," +"cap," and "sheep," are not easily confused. Place two of the objects +before him, the car and the sheep, and speak the name of one of them, +"car," we will say, loudly and distinctly close to his ear, but in such +a way that he cannot see your mouth. Then show him the car. Repeat it +with "sheep" and show him the sheep. Repeat "car," and take his little +hand, put it on the car. Then "sheep," and make him put his hand on the +sheep. Continue this process until he will indicate to you the object +you name. When he makes only occasional mistakes with two objects, add +the cap. When he can get the right one about 90 per cent. of the time, +then take three new words, returning occasionally to the first three. +Very soon his own name and those of others, with photographs to enable +him to indicate which, will prove of interest to him. When he has +successfully learned to distinguish a few single words, a beginning can +be made on short sentences. Commands that he can execute are convenient. +"Shut your eyes," "Open your mouth," "Clap your hands," can follow drill +on the three words, "eyes," "mouth," "hands." "Open the window," "Shut +the window," "Open the book," "Shut the book," "Open the door," etc. +"Stand up," "Sit down." When this beginning has been made, the road is +open to the gradual increase in a hearing vocabulary, but do not +attempt so much at once as to confuse and discourage the child. + +The suggestions already made should be studiously followed throughout +his whole childhood. If his hearing is not too seriously impaired, he +will begin to attempt to imitate spoken sounds by the time he is +twenty-four to thirty months old. But his ability to imitate sounds is +not an accurate measure of his ability to hear. He may perceive the +sounds much better than he is able to reproduce them. Distinct utterance +comes slowly to the child with normal hearing, and still more slowly and +imperfectly to the child whose hearing is not good. But the continued +effort to make him hear _words and sentences_ is a very valuable +exercise for him and should be faithfully continued till he is old +enough to respond to the tests of hearing as outlined and it has been +definitely proved that he cannot possibly tell whether ä, or (o with +macron) or (e with macron) is said, no matter how loud or how near the +ear the sound is uttered. + +The question will naturally arise as to whether the child's hearing of +speech can be aided by an electric or mechanical device. When it is +possible to make the child perceive the sound of the vowels with the +unaided voice uttered very near the ear, I believe it to be better, at +first, not to interpose any artificial device. But I have found that +sometimes, in cases where the sound perception was not at first +sufficient to enable the child to distinguish even the most dissimilar +vowel sounds, although uttered loudly close to the ear, I could awaken +the attention of the child to sound, and stimulate the dormant power by +the use of an Acousticon. After a few months I have been able to +dispense with the instrument and use only the unaided voice at close +range. Later, when some vocabulary has been acquired through these +auricular exercises, it is often desirable to return to the Acousticon +and teach the child to use it, in _order to extend the distance at which +sounds can be heard_. By the use of the Acousticon, it then becomes +possible to communicate by means of the ear without speaking at such +short range. It is not easy, however, to induce a child to use an +Acousticon at all times, whereas an adult will take the time and trouble +necessary to become accustomed to the instrument, and will put up with +the slight inconveniences inseparable from its use. + + + + +X + +DEVELOPING THE POWER OF LIP READING + + +In this effort to develop the hearing, however, the necessity must not +be forgotten of also training the brain to associate ideas with what the +eye sees on the lips when words are spoken. In the case of the very +slightly deaf child, this visual training is not quite so important as +the auricular training, but when there is much deafness it is the more +important of the two. The comprehension of much language can be given to +the little deaf child by constantly talking just as any mother does to +her hearing baby, only being always careful to take a position facing +the main source of light, which should come _from behind the child_. + +The hearing child arrives at the association of meaning with the sounds +of words only after very many repetitions. How often must the child hear +"Mamma," "Look at mamma," "See, here is mamma," "Mamma is coming," +"Mamma is here," "Where is mamma?" "Do you love mamma?" "Mamma loves +baby," etc., etc., from morning to night, day after day, week after +week. The mother does it for pleasure; to play with and pet the dear +baby. She does not think of it as a teaching exercise, but it is a very +important one. The deaf baby will learn gradually to associate a meaning +with the various sequences of movement of the lips, if a little care is +taken to watch his eyes and to speak when they are directed toward the +speaker, and to stand in such relation to the light that it falls upon +the speaker's face. The speech should be the same as to the hearing +child, but it takes a little more care and watchfulness to have the deaf +child _see_ the same word or phrase as _many times_ as the hearing child +hears it. If it is spoken when the baby is not looking, it does not +help. + +When the little one is learning to walk, the mother says, "Come to +mamma," "Go to daddy," and gradually he learns "come" and "go." She has +him play hide and seek with another child, and she says, "Where is Tom?" +"Where is the baby's mouth?" "Where is the baby's nose?" etc., and by +and by he knows "where" and "mouth" and "nose," and the names of his +playmates or brothers and sisters. When he is sitting on the floor she +picks him up, saying "up." When she puts him from her lap to the floor +she says "down." If he is naughty she says "naughty," and perhaps spats +his little hands, and so on through the day. A little care on her part, +a little added thought and watchfulness, perhaps a few more repetitions, +and little by little she will find her deaf baby learning to look at her +always, and to understand much that is said to him. She must all this +time remember, also, that the shades of feeling, pleasure, +disappointment, approval, disapproval, doubt, certainty, love, anger, +joy, which are largely conveyed to the hearing child by intonation of +voice, must be conveyed to the deaf baby by facial expression and +manner. They become very keen at interpreting moods by the look. Let +the face be sunny and kind and INTERESTED, if possible. The first +indication of impatience, of being bored and weary, will destroy much of +one's influence with the deaf child. + +Sometimes it is harder to disguise one's feelings in the face than in +the voice. Do not be caught unawares. Interest, cheerfulness, and +patience are tremendous forces to help the little deaf child. + +Some one has said: + + + "When you consent, consent cordially; + When you refuse, refuse finally; + When you punish, punish good-naturedly." + + + + +XI + +FORMING CHARACTER + + +And now that the little one is two or three years old, it may be well to +say a few words about his general training in character and habits. +There is a strong, and a not unnatural tendency to maintain an attitude +toward the deaf child that differs from that maintained by sensible +mothers toward their other children. They often set up a different +standard of conduct and of obligation for the afflicted child. His +brothers and sisters are taught to always defer to his wishes; even to +the extent of yielding to improper and selfish demands on his part, and +conceding that they have no rights where he is concerned. He is not +required to perform the little duties demanded of the other children. He +is given privileges which the others do not, and which no one of them, +including himself, should enjoy. He grows tyrannical, domineering, and +selfish. The mother says: "Poor little chap; he has trouble enough, we +must do all in our power to make up to him for what he misses by reason +of his deafness." This is, however, a shortsighted, and really a cruel +policy. It lays up much misery for his future, and in the end proves a +serious handicap to one who needs to have as few additional difficulties +as possible. Though it may seem hard-hearted, it is really kinder to put +him on the same basis as any other child. Make him do everything +possible for himself. Insist upon his being independent; dressing +himself as soon as he is able, buttoning his own shoes, and performing +all the little self-help acts that the wise mother demands of all her +children. Make no distinction in the treatment accorded him. Ask the +same services, reward right actions and punish wrongdoing as impartially +as if he was not deaf, only being sure that he clearly connects the +punishment with the wrong act. This, in the case of a deaf child, +requires a little more care than with a hearing child. Train him to be +thoughtful for the comfort of others, and respectful of their rights, +just as you insist that the others observe his rights. He cannot be +argued with, object lessons and example must be the means of teaching +him manners and morals. + + + + +XII + +CULTIVATING THE SOCIAL INSTINCT + + +Between the ages of two and four years all the games and exercises +heretofore described can continue to be used, together with others +increasingly difficult and complicated, as the child's mind develops and +his powers of observation, attention, and memory increase. Take very +special care that he learns all the childhood games that other children +know and enjoy. Devote yourself more to him in this respect than you +would in the case of another child. Encourage the neighbors' children to +come and play with him by making it especially pleasant for them. Teach +them yourself to play "Hide the Thimble," "Hide and Seek," "Drop the +Handkerchief," "Going to Jerusalem," "Old Maid," "Bean Bag." Follow the +Leader is an excellent game by which to teach watchfulness and +imitation. Cat and Mouse, Hot Potato, Ring on a String, are all games +that can be played by groups and cultivate quickness. Ping Pong Football +is excellent as a lung developer. That is the choosing of sides and +trying to blow a ping pong ball between the goal posts formed by a pair +of salt shakers at opposite ends of a table. Or blowing a feather across +a sheet by opposing sides. Encourage good, romping, noisy games in which +the children naturally laugh and shout. They are the best of +voice-developing exercises, and by such means, and his long-distance +shouting and calling to his playmates, the little hearing child gains +much of his lung and voice power. In all his games, as in all his other +activities, take very _special_ pains to talk to him, using the +regulation expressions and training him to watch for the "It's your +turn," or "Now, Tom," "Ready," "Whose turn is it?" etc., etc. + +If the foregoing suggestions have been carefully carried out since he +was twelve months old, he will long ago have arrived unconsciously at +the knowledge that all things, and all actions, and all feelings, have +names, and that the mouth always makes the same sequence of movements +for the same thing. In the babbling exercises recommended, he will +gradually come to utter many of the vowel and consonant sounds of his +native language; especially those that are made by the lips, and by +evident positions of the tongue. Those sounds that require hidden +positions of the organs, such as the sound of C and K in cat and ark, or +G in go and dog, or ng in long, he is unlikely to have stumbled upon. +These can be taught when the proper time comes, but their absence for +the present need cause no anxiety. In fact, up to the time when he is +three and a half or four years old, the matter of speaking is not one to +be much troubled about. If the conception of language has been given him +through lip-reading, and some ability to understand the necessary +language of his daily life, his future success is assured. + + + + +XIII + +SOMETHING ABOUT SCHOOLS AND METHODS + + +Till the child is at least four years old, the proper place for him is +at home, and if he must be sent to one of the large public schools for +the deaf it should not be till he is five or even six years of age. + +But during these years the mother can gain much knowledge that will help +her by visiting as many schools for the deaf as possible. There are +about a hundred and fifty such schools in the United States and eight in +Canada. They vary in size, in character, and in methods of instruction +employed. There are public boarding schools, and public day schools, +free to the resident of the state, or city, in which they are located. +There are private boarding and day schools, maintained by charity, or by +the tuition fees. Some of each class are oral schools; that is, they +employ only speech methods of instruction, without any signs or finger +spelling. Others are called "Combined" schools; that is, they permit, +and in some exercises encourage, the use of finger spelling and gestural +signs, while they also give some instruction by the speech method. There +are sectarian and non-sectarian schools, both oral and combined. + +A very considerable number of schools for the deaf in the United States +and Canada still use manual, or silent, methods of instruction, at least +in part. But the speech, or oral, method is steadily growing in +popularity, and gradually supplanting manual spelling and gestural +signs. The time will certainly come when the public will be too +intelligent to any longer tolerate the use between teacher and pupil, or +between any employee and the pupils, in a school for the deaf, any +system of manual communication. + +_Every deaf child, no matter if born totally deaf and of a low order of +intelligence, can be given as much education by the exclusive use of the +speech method as it can by any manual, or silent, method or by a +combination of the speech and the silent method._ This is not the mere +expression of an opinion, but the statement of a fact; a fact firmly +established by actual results in state institutions where, +unfortunately, the law requires the admission of pupils too poorly +equipped intellectually to belong in a school with normally bright +children. In addition to acquiring all the education of which his mental +endowment makes him capable, he can be taught to speak and to understand +when spoken to. The degree of perfection attainable depends upon the +ability of the child, the skill of the teaching, and especially upon +_the environment_ in which the child passes its formative educational +years. The probability of the child's acquiring a maximum proficiency in +speaking and in understanding others when they speak, is lessened in +direct proportion to the extent to which he is permitted to use the +silent or manual means of communication. In the so-called "combined" +schools, the _environment_ is largely manual. A visit to the +playgrounds, the baseball fields, the shops, dining rooms, and +dormitories of "combined" schools will disclose the pupils using silent +means of communication, not only between themselves, _but with those in +charge of them. They do not think in spoken forms, but in finger +spelling and signs_. The powerful influence of environment in those +schools is _against_ the acquisition of the speech and lip-reading +habit. + +The mother who has faithfully followed the suggestions offered in the +foregoing pages will be able to appreciate what she sees on visiting the +schools, and will gain much more from such visits than one who is +entirely inexperienced in the problem. Every mother should make it her +business to visit at least one _purely oral_ school, in order that she +may make herself thoroughly intelligent on what may be expected of a +deaf child. + +Unfortunately, pure oral schools are not as plentiful as "combined" +schools, but it will well repay any parent to make a journey, even +across the continent, if necessary, in order to study the workings of +some good, purely oral, school. Do not be satisfied with a visit to the +nearest "combined" school. + +_You owe it to your child_ to make yourself thoroughly intelligent as to +the _possibilities_ open to a deaf child. You will not be intelligent +till you have personally visited some good _purely oral_ school. + +The number, character, location, etc., of the schools are constantly +changing. A descriptive list of all schools corrected to date will be +gladly supplied by the author to any one requesting it. + + + + +XIV + +THE PRESERVATION OF SPEECH + +WHEN DEAFNESS RESULTS FROM ACCIDENT OR ILLNESS AFTER INFANCY + + +Up to this point it has been assumed that deafness occurred before the +age of two years, and before the child had begun to speak. In cases +where, through accident or illness, impairment of hearing has come after +the child has begun to talk, the mother should bend all her efforts upon +keeping the speech of her child. The younger the child, the more +difficult is the task. Without the greatest vigilance and increasing +attention, the speech of a little child who has become deaf will fade +rapidly away, until it is lost entirely, and must be artificially +recreated when he is old enough to grasp the complicated ideas involved +in speech teaching to the deaf. But by persistently encouraging him to +talk, and never, even for a day, allowing him to lapse into silence, and +_by not accepting careless and faulty utterance, but pretending not to +understand till the child speaks distinctly and correctly_, the natural +speech, which was his before deafness occurred, can be preserved, and +the speech habit thoroughly fixed. If, by good luck, the little one has +learned to read even a simple primer before becoming deaf, it will be +much easier to prevent a loss of speech. For this reading can be made an +excuse for frequently using his speech. But when the child cannot read, +the mother must depend entirely upon inducing him to talk to her, +refusing to give him anything, or grant his request, till he asks for it +in good spoken form; showing him pictures, playing games, frolicking +with him; doing everything that a mother's love and ingenuity can +suggest, to keep him talking all day long. + +The tendency of the child will be to drop, or slur, the final syllables +of the words; to leave off the sound of final _ed_; to lose the +sharpness of the _s_; to blur the _l_; and sometimes to lose the sound +of _k_ and _c_. But, if he has learned to read, by pointing to these +letters in the words he has spoken imperfectly, he will correct his own +mistake. Prompt and increasing attention to the little fellow's speech +during the first year after deafness occurs will usually serve to fix +correct habits for life. + + + + +XV + +TEACHING LIP READING + + +All that has been said about training the little deaf child to read the +lip movements and associate them with the names of things and of +actions, will apply also to the little boy who has suddenly been made +deaf, after speech has been learned. Be careful that he is looking at +you always when you speak to him or reply to some question he has asked, +but speak just as you would have done before he became deaf. You may +have to repeat things to him very often at first, but do not permit any +sign of impatience in your face. Do not let him get the idea that it is +a hardship to talk to him. Remember that you are changing his manner of +understanding speech over to another way, and that his present and +future happiness depends very greatly on the thoroughness and promptness +with which it is done. In all dealings with a deaf child the mother +should remember that the child draws his impressions of the character +and the feelings of those about him from the expression of their faces, +and many almost unconscious little acts and gestures. Avoid very +carefully any appearance of being impatient, or bored, or contemptuous +at his failures. Try to understand the difficulties under which he is +working to maintain his place in the world. Do not humor his whims, or +spoil him by indulgence, yet treat him with the greatest consideration +and fairness. Above all, be cheerful and, at least apparently, +interested in his doings and sayings. + + + + +XVI + +SCHOOL AGE + + +The question of what is "school age" for a deaf child is answered very +differently by different people. Most of the state institutions for the +deaf in the United States, Canada, and Europe will not admit children +younger than six years of age. Seven years is still the age of admission +in some institutions, but the tendency is to lower the age limit. In +some schools children of five are admitted, in a few those as young as +four, and in two or three small schools babies of two and three are +received. Any statement here must, therefore, be taken as only the +expression of the author's opinion, resulting from more than twenty-five +years of active teaching, combined with wide observation. + +It would appear that, where home conditions are not bad, either +physically or morally, the proper place for the little deaf child till +he is nearly, or quite, five, is with his mother. Very much can be done +for the little one before he is five to prepare him for the instruction +which should be given at that age, but it is possible for the mother to +do what is necessary, and even the simplest home conditions are +preferable for very little children to the institutional environment. It +is impossible, in a school of from one hundred to five hundred pupils, +to create a real home environment, such as the very little child should +have. It is really a pity that the child of five should have to be +placed in the institutional environment as it at present exists. If the +legislative bodies of our states, and the gentlemen who manage the +schools, could only be induced to adopt the cottage plan of housing in +small units, the disadvantages of institutional life would be enormously +reduced. + + + + +XVII + +ORGANIZED EFFORTS BY PARENTS TO OBTAIN BETTER EDUCATIONAL CONDITIONS + + +It should be possible for every taxpayer in every state who has a deaf +child and who has not the means or the wish to place that child in a +private school, to have the child educated in a free public school as +completely by the speech method as his hearing children are educated by +that method. He should not be compelled to send his child out of the +state or else subject him to the influence of signs and finger spelling, +with the probability that he will leave school a deaf mute. +Unfortunately, in many states, this is not possible at present. But if +the parents of deaf children would organize themselves into "Parents' +Associations" and send representatives to the governors and legislative +committees; and arrange for demonstrations by orally educated deaf +children from pure oral schools; and carry on an active campaign of +enlightenment and of agitation, the present state of affairs would soon +cease to exist. + +I wish to make an urgent plea for the energetic efforts of all parents +of deaf children to improve the speech-teaching conditions in their +respective localities. At present, very far from all that is possible is +being done to give deaf children a ready command of spoken English, and +a working ability to understand when spoken to. The persons who have the +most at stake in this matter, and who should be most active and +persistent in demanding from the school authorities and legislatures +better facilities for the acquisition of speech by deaf children, are +the parents of those children. In each locality these parents should +organize into "Parents' Associations." These local associations should, +in turn, be connected by a statewide organization composed of +representatives from each local association. These state organizations +could then be combined by representation in a national organization of +all the parents of deaf children in the United States. Such complete +organization once effected, the reasonable demands made in the interests +of better results in speech teaching would quickly be complied with by +the respective schools and the legislatures or boards of directors that +control them. The associations could induce their local papers to aid in +a campaign to educate public opinion by printing facts concerning what +is done elsewhere. If all parents of deaf children only knew what might +be accomplished, and were so organized as to permit them to present +their wishes forcibly to those able to change conditions, the deaf child +would quickly come into his own. + + + + +XVIII + +A PERSONAL MATTER FOR EACH PARENT + + +Let some parent in each locality make it his or her business to get the +names and addresses of all other parents of deaf children in the +vicinity. Induce them to come together some evening and choose a +chairman and an executive committee of three. Let these four people make +a point of studying the education of the deaf as conducted in the most +advanced communities. Let the executive committees of the several local +associations get together once or twice a year for a sort of state +convention of parents. Let them invite leading educators to address +them, and let them appoint committees to visit schools in other states +where different methods are employed. If such a movement was once +started there would be found plenty of subject-matter for discussion, +and plenty of opportunities to work for a betterment of conditions. The +author of this little book would be glad to give any aid in his power to +such a movement, and to place the results of his twenty-five years of +experience at the disposal of any parent, or parents' organization. + +The first efforts should be directed to inducing, or compelling, the +so-called "Combined Schools" for the deaf throughout the United States +to wholly segregate at least a small oral department from the manually +taught pupils. The orally taught pupils should never come in contact +during their school life, either in the shops, dining rooms, +playgrounds, or schoolrooms, with those pupils with whom finger spelling +and signs are employed. All employees, whether superintendents, +teachers, supervisors, teachers of trades, or servants, who have to do +with the orally taught pupils should be _compelled_ to use only speech +and lip reading (and writing, if absolutely necessary) under penalty of +dismissal for failing to do so. Only by means of such segregation, and +the enforcement of speech as a universal medium of communication, can +the appropriations for oral work be made really productive of good +results in what are now called "Combined Schools." This can be done on a +small scale at the beginning, with the little entering beginners. Then +if all beginners are put into this oral department it will gradually +grow at the expense of the manual department, until, after a period of +eight or ten years, the entire school will have become oral. + +This is the only method of procedure by which satisfactory results in +speech teaching for practical purposes can be obtained in return for the +generous appropriations that the states make. It has been fully +demonstrated by actual operation in the state of Pennsylvania, where the +largest school for the deaf in the world has in this manner been changed +from a "Combined School" to a pure oral school. + +_All_ the deaf children in the State of Massachusetts are now taught +wholly by the oral method. If that polyglot and heterogeneous +population can be so treated, there is no state in the Union where the +same could not be done if there were the desire and the ambition to do +it. + +In many states deaf children have been, either by definite statement, or +by tacit understanding, exempted from the enforcement of the compulsory +education law. This is all wrong. They need the protection of that +excellent law even more than the hearing child, and if the law for +compulsory education does not, in fact, apply to them, it should at once +be amended to do so. + + + + +XIX + +DAY SCHOOLS + + +The parents are the ones most interested in this matter, and it is +through their efforts alone that improvement can be brought about. In +Massachusetts, New York, New Jersey, Wisconsin, Michigan, Illinois, +Ohio, Washington, Oregon, Texas, Missouri, and California, free public +oral day schools have been established. This movement has reached its +highest development in Wisconsin and Michigan. In Wisconsin there are +twenty-four such schools scattered throughout the state, and in Michigan +fourteen. New schools are opened by the Board of Education under +prescribed conditions upon the request of a certain number of parents of +deaf children. Such a law should be on the statute books of every state, +and will be when the parents of deaf children organize and demand it. + + + + +XX + +THE DEAF CHILD AT FIVE YEARS OF AGE + + +When the little child that has been deaf from infancy is five years of +age, he should be placed in a _purely oral school_ for the deaf, if such +a thing is possible. + +The child who has become deaf by illness or accident after speech has +been acquired, should be placed under experienced instruction by the +speech method _at once_. + +To quote once more from my little book of suggestions to physicians: + +"If the proper school for the little hearing child of five did not +happen to exist in his immediate neighborhood, no one would think of +insisting upon the necessity of sending the little one away to a distant +boarding school. But that is what must be done in the case of the little +deaf child, if precious and irrecoverable years are not to be lost. It +is often a difficult matter to persuade a mother to sacrifice her own +personal happiness and comfort in having the little child with her, and +to look far enough into the future to see that a true and unselfish love +for the child requires her to entrust him to the care of others during +those early and crucial years." + + + + +XXI + +SCHOOLS FOR THE HEARING AND PRIVATE GOVERNESSES + + +If no oral day or boarding school is available near at hand, the mother +should have the far-sighted love that is unselfish, and the courage to +part with her little five-year-old child during the months of the school +year, and place him in some one of the distant schools where he can live +and be taught in a purely oral environment. There are two alternatives +to this, each of which is sometimes attempted, but both are undesirable. +First the mother not infrequently attempts to have her child educated in +the schools for hearing children. This is very unsatisfactory and even +dangerous, for if persisted in it results in wholly inadequate progress, +uneven development, bad speech, irretrievable loss of time, and often in +a complete nervous breakdown. This may not come for some years, but the +nervous system, once undermined by the excessive strain of trying to +keep up under impossible conditions, can never be fully repaired. Here +is what a _partially_ deaf woman writes of her experience as a child: + +"When I was three and one-half years old scarlet fever left me almost +totally deaf. My father was a physician. He was urged to send me to a +school for the deaf, but his medical training told him that what was +needed was association with speaking children, if I were to retain my +speech, for at that time the oral method was unknown in our state. So I +went to school with hearing children. Unless you have been deaf, you +will not understand the misery in this statement. A little, lonely deaf +child, I went to a public school, hearing practically nothing of the +teachers' instructions or the pupils' recitations. Of the torture of +that deaf childhood I will not speak. You all know how cruel children +may be, and a deaf child among hearing children often suffers untold +torments." + +The second alternative is to seek some person who will teach the child +in his own home. This, too, is very unsatisfactory, and involves loss of +time and opportunity that can never be recovered. + +In the first place, the beginning years of a deaf child's educational +life are the most important of all. They are crucial. It is then he +requires the highest skill, the greatest experience, and the most +perfect conditions. The best teachers can seldom, if ever, be induced to +teach a single child in its home. Usually these teachers are more or +less inferior. But even the best teacher in the world cannot do for a +little deaf child in his home what she could accomplish for him in a +well-organized and properly conducted school. + +Neither the intellect nor the character of the deaf child can be as +successfully developed, after five years of age, by a private teacher in +his home as in a good school. + +The following elements are essential for the highest educational welfare +of a deaf child: + +_First._ The stimulus and incentive of association and competitive +companionship. + +_Second._ The contact with more than one mind and more than one speaker. + +_Third._ The avoidance of becoming dependent upon some one as an +interpreter, and the cultivation of independence and self-reliance +through constant practice with various teachers. + +_Fourth._ A fully equipped and trained organization, providing a +complete and uninterrupted education under one head. + +_Fifth._ Regularity of life, and the subordination of all living +conditions to the highest educational advantage (a thing utterly +incompatible with home conditions). + +These most necessary conditions are not possible of attainment through +private instruction in the home. The child who is kept at home and given +private instruction too often grows up to be timid, self-distrustful, +and unfitted to cope with the difficulties and oppositions of the +world. He falls an easy prey to temptation and is quickly discouraged by +obstacles. Very often he is selfish, narrow, and overbearing. Not having +those about him of his own age and with the same desires, he has become +accustomed to having people yield to his whims and fancies as child +playmates would not yield. He is more or less excluded from the plays +and pleasures of childhood. All those about him have an advantage over +him. + +On the other hand, the tendencies of the school-bred child are to be +simple, natural, and childlike. His inclination to moodiness and +suspiciousness is much less. He is happier. He becomes self-reliant, +independent, and respectful of the rights of others. He is less petulant +and more obedient. The wisest parents do not educate their hearing +children at home, nor should they attempt it with a deaf child. + + + + +XXII + +IMPORTANCE OF THE BEGINNING + + +I wish to lay very special stress upon the necessity _at the beginning_ +of the most expert and experienced instruction that is attainable. If +circumstances make it impossible to give to the child the best _all_ the +time, then he should have the best at the start rather than later. Every +effort and every sacrifice that are ever going to be made for the +child's sake should be at the beginning of his school training, and not +delayed till he is older. The years from five to eight or ten will +determine his future success. If he has poor teaching during these early +years, even the best teaching later will not be able to make up the loss +entirely. But if he has good teaching during the first few years, then +less expert teaching later cannot do him as much harm as it otherwise +would. The early years are his most crucial period, and the best efforts +should be expended then instead of when he is twelve or fourteen. + + + + +XXIII + +AVOID THE YOUNG AND INEXPERIENCED TEACHER + + +Between the ages of five and ten avoid the young and inexperienced +teacher and the amateur as you would the plague. Unfortunately, the idea +is prevalent that _any one_ can teach a little child, but that it takes +experience to teach the older pupils. This is a disastrous fallacy. +Young and inexperienced women are too often quite ready to assume the +great responsibility of teaching a little deaf child. They rush in where +angels might well fear to tread. Unfortunately, parents, and even school +superintendents, are often too ready to permit them to do this dangerous +thing. + + + + +XXIV + +ON ENTERING SCHOOL + + +Through the courtesy of the _Volta Review_, in which her article +appeared, and of the author, Miss Eleanor B. Worcester, a teacher of the +deaf for many years, and at one time the principal of a school, I am +able to include the following very sensible and valuable advice for the +guidance of mothers when their children enter school. + + +THE FIRST YEAR AT SCHOOL + +BY ELEANOR B. WORCESTER + + +At last the time has come when you feel that it is best for your boy to +study with other children. And since your own town does not offer him a +suitable opportunity, it is necessary to send the little fellow to one +of the well-known boarding schools, where trained and wise men and women +are devoting their thought and energy to giving every advantage of +education, comfort, and happiness to the little people under their care. + +You have already decided, after much thought and the writing of many +letters--perhaps after a visit to the school you incline to most--just +where it is best that the child shall go. + +You have studied carefully all the directions about clothing given in +the school catalogue, and have made sure that every little blouse or +stocking has its owner's name written or sewed fast on it, and that all +the small garments are in perfect order and ready for use. + +But have you thought how your own attitude toward this change in your +boy's life is unconsciously preparing him either to rebel against and +fear school, or to look forward to going there as one of the most +delightful and interesting events of his life? + +I know that it is impossible for you to avoid dreading the day when your +child must go among strangers, but I beg you not to let him see what +your feeling is. It will take all your resolution and all your courage +to wear not only a cheerful face, but a happy one; but you must make +your boy feel that a very delightful time is coming. + +If you go about the necessary preparations as you might if he were going +to the show or on a visit, he will enter into the spirit of things with +enthusiasm; but if you once let him find you crying over his packing he +will immediately jump to the conclusion that some dreadful thing is in +prospect, and will be entirely prepared to be frightened at being left +at school, and to break your heart by clinging to you and begging to go +home again. And, more than this, he will be far more likely to be +homesick. + +So, since you know it is best for him to be in school, and that it is +the only possible road to happiness and usefulness, why not lead him to +anticipate the going; to look forward to it as a treat, and to feel that +to be a schoolboy is really the great end of existence? + +One of the first steps in this direction will be to help him understand +a little what kind of a place he is bound for. + +Very likely the school you have decided on publishes an illustrated +catalogue, and weeks before school opens begin to show him the pictures +of the school buildings and grounds, and make him understand that on a +certain day in September, which you mark on the calendar with bright +crayon, you and he will go there. Let him see one of the little white +beds where he will sleep after you return home, the sunny dining room +where he will eat his morning porridge and his Sunday ice cream; the +playground full of rollicksome youngsters, with whom he will seesaw and +play tag by and by, and the busy schoolroom, where so many delightful +and interesting things are sure to happen. + +Talk about all these things often and brightly and you will find that +school has become a most desirable and fascinating place, and that every +night there will be a great satisfaction in climbing on a chair to +scratch off from the calendar another day done before the joy of going +there. + +Then you can buy such delightful things to be put into that waiting +trunk--things often to be looked at, but never to be used till that +wonderful place is reached--long red and blue pencils, with rubbers on +the ends; boxes of writing paper, all gay with pictures and exactly +right for the first letters home; a foot rule, and, if you are a truly +brave mother, a real jackknife to sharpen the same red and blue pencils +and add to the joy of living. + +It is absorbing work, too, to mark them all with one's name, so they may +never be mistaken for any other little boy's property, and to make a +place for a new toy or two, though if you are wise you will not buy many +playthings now, but will save them to send later, one by one, by parcel +post, to be received with a joy it is a pity you cannot be there to +see, it will be so out of proportion to any other pleasure you could +give by such simple means. + +Of course, you must have some kodak pictures taken--ever so many of +them--showing the family, the house, and the pets, as well as the boy +himself. These are to be kept, too, to go in letters. They will be not +only very precious possessions, but if they are labeled carefully they +will be extremely useful in the classroom when your boy begins to learn +to speak the names of the people at home. + +Since they are to be used for this double purpose, be sure that each +member of the family group is very distinctly marked, or the names of +Aunt Mary and sister Helen may get hopelessly mixed in the boy's mind! + +Finally, the last little garment and the last package is in the trunk, +the last day is scratched off the calendar, and the boy himself is on +the train. And now let me tell you something that you will not +believe--that you will even resent, but which is perfectly true, and +which I hope will comfort you a little when you say good-by to the +boy--and that is this: it really is very unusual for a little child from +five to eight years old to be homesick at school. There are so many +distractions, so many new and curious things to see, so many interesting +things to do, and there are so many other children all friendly and all +happy, that even if your boy cries when you leave him, the probabilities +are high that before you reach the station he will be playing--shyly or +uproariously, as temperament may decide--but certainly happily, with +some new-found friend. + +One of the most delightful things about a school for deaf children is +the way all the other pupils welcome, pet, and look out for a newcomer. +Every one makes much of him, and it would be hard indeed to be lonely +long in the midst of so much attention and friendliness. + +And now a word about letters. + +Before you sent the boy to school I hope you didn't fail to teach him to +recognize the written names of the different members of the family, so +that he might be sure to understand whom his first letters came from. +And don't forget that he will be eager for letters! Too many mothers +feel that it is useless to write to their children during their first +year away from them. They are so sure that no word from them can be +understood that they content themselves with sending inquiries to the +proper authorities, and an occasional picture postcard to the children +themselves, and fail to realize how soon their little boy or girl grasps +the fact that the other children have real letters in envelopes, and +that these come from home, or how sharp a disappointment it is when day +after day goes by and brings them nothing. + +If you could see, as I have seen, a letter, so worn that it was cracked +on all its folds and dingy with much handling, carried day after day +inside a little blouse, or guimpe, and put under the pillows every +night, you would understand a little what those pieces of paper, covered +with very imperfectly understood characters, but carrying love and +remembrance from home, mean, even before the children can read them. +And very soon, if you are an observant mother, your child will really be +able to read them. + +For example, your boy's first letter may be something like this: + + + "DEAR MAMMA: + + "I am well. I love you. HARRY." + + +When you answer it you might say, with the certainty that every word +would be understood: + + + "DEAR HARRY: + + "Mamma loves you. Papa is well. Mamma and Papa love you. + + "Good-by. MAMMA." + + +Not a very satisfactory letter, do you say? Perhaps not to you, but most +delightful and understandable to the little boy to whom it is written. +And if a little later you follow it with another containing one of the +kodak pictures of the cat, with "Tommy" written under it, accompanying +such a note as this, not only your little boy, but his teacher will +bless you: + + + "DEAR HARRY: + + "Mamma is well. Papa is well. Mamma and Papa love you. Tommy loves + you, too. Tommy is the cat. Tommy wants to see you. + + "Good-by. MAMMA." + + +I have written these two notes not as models to be copied, but to show +you how with a little thought and care you may ring the changes on +almost every sentence that your boy learns; and make use of every new +word, giving him a great deal of pleasure and helping to fix the phrases +in his mind and to make him realize that they are really valuable +additions to his means of communication. But I do not mean that you +should confine your letters entirely to words and sentences that the +child already knows. In fact, new expressions, if they are short and +simple, and if the main part of your letter is made up of things the +child understands at once, will add very much to the interest of your +letter. He will be eager to know what the strange words mean, and the +new nouns, verbs, and adjectives will go immediately to swell his +vocabulary. + +Like any child just learning to talk, your little boy will at first use +nouns, when later he will use pronouns, so in your earliest letters to +him you will be surer of making yourself understood if you do the same. +Probably, too, with the exception of two or three sentences like "I am +well. I love you," you will notice that all his statements are written +in the past tense, and that will be a guide to you to confine your own +remarks to the past, for the most part, till you notice that he has +begun to use the future and the present himself. Watch his letters +carefully and adapt your own language forms to his. + +There are two things that, as a general rule, I would advise you not to +write about, and these are any illnesses in the family and--that supreme +joy of school life--the box you are planning to send. + +My reasons for this taboo are that even very little children are often +made unhappy and anxious, sometimes for days, if they know there is +sickness at home, while in the second place boxes are so often delayed +that they become the source of much disturbance of mind when the +expressman fails to bring them. + +I knew a little girl who watched every delivery for a week and cried +after every one because the box her mother had promised her did not +appear. So let illness and boxes go unmentioned till you can write +something like this, "Papa was sick last week. He is well now. He goes +to the office every day." And after the box has had time to reach its +destination you can say, "Mamma sent a box to you Wednesday. She put two +handkerchiefs, some new shoes, six oranges, and some money in the box. +Papa gave the money to you." + +If you are like most mothers, before many weeks have gone by you will be +eager to visit your boy and see for yourself how he is getting on; +whether he is really as happy as the letters from school assure you he +is; what he is learning in class, and whether he has blankets enough on +his bed and sugar enough on his oatmeal. + +But before the letter announcing the day of your arrival is posted or +your ticket is bought, sit down by the fire and think the matter over. + +You have confidence in the school, else you would never have sent your +boy there; and you have been told repeatedly either that the little +fellow is happy and well or, it may be, that he was rather homesick at +first, but has now settled down to a very comfortable and contented +state of mind and is doing well in class. + +Now, if you go to see him too soon after he has left home there will +really be a good deal more danger that the boy will be homesick after +you leave him than there was when you took him to school in September, +even if he has been quite happy up to the time of your visit. + +In the first place, he will think, drawing his conclusions from visits +that he may have made before, that school is over and that you have +come to take him home. So it will be a great surprise and shock when you +go away without him. And in any case, after the separation of some +weeks, his love for you will make him want to be with you, and he will +really suffer when you say good-by. + +So, if I were you, I would wait till after the Christmas holidays before +going for my visit. By that time he will be fully settled in his new +life and will look on it as an established part of existence. He will +know from observation that other mothers come for a little while and +then go home again without taking their children with them, and his +advance in understanding will make it much easier to explain to him that +your visit is temporary and will not make any radical change in his own +life. + +The delay will mean a good deal of self-sacrifice for you, but may very +possibly save your boy from a sharp attack of homesickness, while later +in the year this danger will usually have disappeared, and your visit +will bring nothing but pleasure to you both and will help to make +school what you want it to be--a place where all sorts of delightful +things are constantly sure to happen. + + + + +XXV + +DURING THE SCHOOL PERIOD + + +But the opportunities and obligations of the parents of deaf children to +aid in their education by no means cease when the children enter school. + +Throughout the entire period of school life, and even after their +children leave school, the parents can be of very great assistance to +them. During the time that the school is in session, if the child is +away from home, the parents should write not less than once a week, and +oftener if possible. These letters should contain all the little +happenings at home, no matter how insignificant and uninteresting they +may seem. If these things are expressed in simple language, using short +sentences and common words, the letters will be one of the most +efficient means of aiding the children to an ability to read, that the +teacher possesses. The child is full of eager curiosity to know the +smallest details of the familiar home life. He will exert his mind more +to dig out the meaning of the language of home letters than he will to +understand a story in a reader. Miss Worcester has suggested one or two +little letters that would do during the first half year at school. By +the beginning of the second year it would be helpful if the letters read +something like this: + + + "MY DEAR BOY: + + "We got your nice letter. Thank you for it. We always like to know + what you do at school. We like to know the names of your + schoolmates. We are glad when you tell us about your books and your + teachers. Mother, Tom, Jane and I are well. We talk about you + often. We are glad you can go to school. A cat frightened the hens. + The hens ran. The cat was naughty. I drove the cat away. I think + the cat wanted to eat the little chickens. + + "Tom hid behind the door. He jumped out quickly. He frightened + Jane. She screamed. He laughed. Jane cried. Mother scolded Tom + because he made Jane cry. Tom said Jane was a baby. Jane said Tom + was a bad boy. Then Jane laughed. She forgave Tom. Tom said he was + sorry. + + "We all love you. + + "Good-by. + + "Your loving + "FATHER." + + +Each year the letters can be a little more grown up and they should +always be frequent. + + + + +XXVI + +DURING VACATION + + +When vacation time comes and the children come home for the summer, the +home folks will probably have some trouble at first in understanding +their imperfect speech. Do not be discouraged. The speech will steadily +improve from year to year, and you will soon be able to comprehend it, +even when it is very faulty. But do not accept from the child anything +except the best speech he is capable of. When the boy first arrives you +will, probably, not know just how much to expect of him. To begin with, +it will do him no harm to ask him to repeat what he says, even if you +really did understand him the first time. He will probably speak much +more distinctly the second time than he did the first, and you will see +that you can demand of him more than you at first thought he could do. +He will not be discouraged by being asked to repeat. He is used to it. +The price of good speech, like the price of liberty, is eternal +vigilance. During the school period, teachers and parents should give +unremitting attention to demanding of the children, _every time they +speak_, the best enunciation of which they are at that time capable. + +If you do not understand the boy, or he does not understand you, do not +let him resort to gestures, nor use them yourself. Give him pencil and +paper, if necessary. It will not be necessary often or long, and each +day occasions of difficulty will grow fewer. + +Provide some useful and helpful occupation for the child for at least a +part of each day. Do not let him play at random all the time. Continue a +certain regularity of life in the matter of meals and getting up and +going to bed. Insist upon respectful behavior and good manners. He has +these demanded of him at school. Do not let him return in the fall +having lost much that he had gained during the preceding year. + +When he is at home keep him in touch with the activities and the topics +of discussion in the family circle. Do not let him withdraw or feel shut +out. This will take a good deal of effort and self-denial and patience, +but in the long run it will repay the parents. Failure to do this will +eventually bring sorrow to all concerned. Train the other children to do +their share of this. Insist upon their telling the deaf one their plans +and their doings. Unless some care is taken he will see the others going +without knowing where or why, he will sometimes lose pleasures because +he did not hear the talk that was going on around him and no one thought +to tell him. This has a tendency to make him bitter and unsocial. + +From the very beginning of spoken intercourse with the deaf child the +greatest care should be taken to speak NATURALLY to him. Avoid entirely +all exaggeration of lip movement and mouth opening. Speak a little +slowly, perhaps, and always distinctly, but never with facial +contortions and waving hands. The aim of his oral training is to enable +him to understand the ordinary speech of people when they speak to him, +and to do this he requires an immense amount of practice, just as the +hearing child requires a great deal of practice for years before he can +understand what people are saying to him. If you speak to him in a +different way from that employed when speaking to others he will learn +to understand that, but not your ordinary manner of speaking. He will +also imitate it himself. The Chinaman speaks and understands only +"Pidgin" English because only "Pidgin" English has been used in +communicating with him. If people had spoken to the Chinaman as they do +to other people he would have gradually acquired good English. + +So it is with the deaf child. If you want him to gradually learn to +understand the ordinary intercourse of life, you must exercise him in it +for years. You must not expect him to get much at first, any more than +you expect the baby to understand to start with. But each month he will +gain more, and by the time he is sixteen or seventeen he will have very +nearly overtaken his hearing brother. But if you always address him with +a yawning mouth and flopping tongue and lips, and use deaf-mute English +to him, he will progress in his understanding and use of that, but it is +not what you wish him to acquire. Be patient, be gentle, be untiring and +unremitting in your efforts, but BE NATURAL. _Keep your eyes on his eyes +and speak only when his gaze is upon your face._ + + +Before closing I ought to say that (more is the pity) there are many +persons who live by trading upon the ignorance and credulity of the +unfortunate. The deaf and the friends of the deaf fall an easy prey to +the advertisements of quack remedies, ear drums, etc., that are always +useless and sometimes actually dangerous. The American Medical +Association has had the courage to issue a pamphlet in which these fake +cures are described and exposed, and every deaf person, and parent of a +deaf child, should have one of these pamphlets. The title is "Deafness +Cure Fakes," and can be obtained by writing to the American Medical +Association, 535 North Dearborn Street, Chicago, Illinois. + +Any one who has read these pages will easily see that the suggestions +are all aimed to secure for the deaf a treatment similar in kind, though +somewhat different in degree, to that accorded the normal hearing +person. The tendency has been to differentiate the deaf too much from +the hearing. By adopting the procedure of pure oralism, effectively +applied under _real oral conditions_, uncontaminated, during the +educational period from five to twenty years of age, by finger spelling +or signs, the deaf will be far more fully restored to a normal position +in the social and industrial world than they can ever be by the silent +methods at present so largely used during their most impressionable +years. + + + + +XXVII + +SOME NOTS + + +Do not be downcast. + +Deafness does not, necessarily, bring dumbness. + +Do not consider the deaf child as different from other children. + +Do not cease talking to him. + +Do not speak with exaggerated facial movements. + +Do not exempt him from the duties and tasks and obedience properly +demanded of all children. + +Do not let him grow selfish. + +Do not let him grow indifferent. + +Do not be in haste. + +Do not show impatience. + + + + + +End of the Project Gutenberg EBook of What the Mother of a Deaf Child Ought +to Know, by John Dutton Wright + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK MOTHER OF A DEAF CHILD *** + +***** This file should be named 18439-8.txt or 18439-8.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + http://www.gutenberg.org/1/8/4/3/18439/ + +Produced by Kathryn Lybarger, Martin Pettit and the Online +Distributed Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: What the Mother of a Deaf Child Ought to Know + +Author: John Dutton Wright + +Release Date: May 23, 2006 [EBook #18439] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK MOTHER OF A DEAF CHILD *** + + + + +Produced by Kathryn Lybarger, Martin Pettit and the Online +Distributed Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net + + + + + + +</pre> + + + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_iii" id="Page_iii">[Pg iii]</a></span></p> +<h1>WHAT THE MOTHER OF A DEAF CHILD OUGHT TO KNOW</h1> + + +<h3>BY</h3> + +<h2>JOHN DUTTON WRIGHT</h2> + +<h4>FOUNDER AND PRINCIPAL OF THE WRIGHT ORAL SCHOOL FOR THE<br /> +DEAF, NEW YORK CITY; COLLABORATOR OF "THE LARYNGO-<br /> +SCOPE" AND THE "VOLTA REVIEW"; DIRECTOR OF THE<br /> +AMERICAN ASSOCIATION TO PROMOTE THE TEACHING<br /> +OF SPEECH TO THE DEAF; AUTHOR OF "EDUCA-<br /> +TIONAL NEEDS OF THE DEAF," FOR THE<br /> +GUIDANCE OF PHYSICIANS</h4> + +<p class="center"><img src="images/003.png" width='123' height='150' alt="Publisher's logo" /></p> + +<p class='tbrk'> </p> + +<h3>NEW YORK</h3> +<h2>FREDERICK A. STOKES COMPANY</h2> +<h3>PUBLISHERS</h3> + +<p class='tbrk'> </p> + +<hr class='smler' /> + +<p class='tbrk'> </p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_iv" id="Page_iv">[Pg iv]</a></span></p> + +<h4><i>Copyright, 1915, by</i></h4> + +<h3><span class="smcap">Frederick A. Stokes Company</span></h3> + +<h4><i>All rights reserved, including that of translation into foreign +languages</i></h4> + +<p class='tbrk'> </p> + +<h4><i>March, 1915</i></h4> + +<p class='tbrk'> </p> + +<hr class='smler' /> + +<p class='tbrk'> </p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_v" id="Page_v">[Pg v]</a></span></p> + +<h3>TO MY WIFE</h3> + +<h4>AT WHOSE SUGGESTION THIS LITTLE BOOK<br /> +WAS WRITTEN IN ORDER THAT MOTHERS<br /> +MAY DO ALL IN THEIR POWER FOR<br /> +THEIR DEAF CHILDREN</h4> + +<p class='tbrk'> </p> + +<hr class='smler' /> + +<p class='tbrk'> </p> + +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_vii" id="Page_vii">[Pg vii]</a></span></p> + +<h2>CONTENTS</h2> + +<div class="index"> +<ul> +<li><span class="mono">CHAPTER</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#PREFACE">PREFACE</a></span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#I">I.</a></span> <span class="smcap">Facing the Facts</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#II">II.</a></span> <span class="smcap">How Shall the Mother Begin Her Part of the Work?</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#III">III.</a></span> <span class="smcap">How Shall the Mother Get Into Communication With Her Deaf Child?</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#IV">IV.</a></span> <span class="smcap">What About the Baby's Speech?</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#V">V.</a></span> <span class="smcap">Developing the Mental Faculties</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#VI">VI.</a></span> <span class="smcap">Developing the Lungs</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#VII">VII.</a></span> <span class="smcap">The Cultivation of Creative Imagination</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#VIII">VIII.</a></span> <span class="smcap">Further Tests of Hearing</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#IX">IX.</a></span> <span class="smcap">The Development of Residual Hearing</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#X">X.</a></span> <span class="smcap">Developing the Power of Lip-reading</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#XI">XI.</a></span> <span class="smcap">Forming Character</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#XII">XII.</a></span> <span class="smcap">Cultivating the Social Instinct</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#XIII">XIII.</a></span> <span class="smcap">Something About Schools and Methods</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#XIV">XIV.</a></span> <span class="smcap">The Preservation of Speech. When Deafness Results From Accident Or Illness After Infancy</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#XV">XV.</a></span> <span class="smcap">Teaching Lip-reading</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#XVI">XVI.</a></span> <span class="smcap">School Age</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#XVII">XVII.</a></span> <span class="smcap">Organized Efforts by Parents To Obtain Better Educational Conditions</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#XVIII">XVIII.</a></span> <span class="smcap">A Personal Matter for Each Parent</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#XIX">XIX.</a></span> <span class="smcap">Day Schools</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#XX">XX.</a></span> <span class="smcap">The Deaf Child at Five Years of Age</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#XXI">XXI.</a></span> <span class="smcap">Schools for the Hearing and Private Governesses</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#XXII">XXII.</a></span> <span class="smcap">Importance of the Beginning</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#XXIII">XXIII.</a></span> <span class="smcap">Avoid the Young and Inexperienced Teache</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#XXIV">XXIV.</a></span> <span class="smcap">On Entering School</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#XXV">XXV.</a></span> <span class="smcap">During the School Period</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#XXVI">XXVI.</a></span> <span class="smcap">During Vacation</span></li> +<li><span class="mono"> <a href="#XXVII">XXVII.</a></span> <span class="smcap">Some Nots</span></li> +</ul> +</div> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_ix" id="Page_ix">[Pg ix]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="PREFACE" id="PREFACE"></a>PREFACE</h2> + +<p>The mother of a little deaf child once wrote as follows:</p> + +<blockquote><p>"As a mother of a deaf child, and one whose experience has been +unusual only in that it has been more fortunate than that of the +average mother so situated, I want to place before you (the +teachers of the deaf) a plea for the education of the parents of +little deaf children.</p> + +<p>"While you are laboring for the education of the deaf, and for +their sakes are training teachers to carry on the work, there are, +in almost every home that shelters a little deaf child, blunders +being made that will retard his development and hinder your work +for years to come—blunders that a little timely advice might +prevent. We parents are not willfully ignorant, not always stupidly +so; but that we<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_x" id="Page_x">[Pg x]</a></span> are in most cases densely so, there can be no +doubt.</p> + +<p>"Can you for the moment put yourselves into our place? Suppose you +are just the ordinary American parents, perhaps living far from the +center of things. You know in a hazy way that there are deaf and +blind and other afflicted people—perhaps you have seen some of +them.</p> + +<p>"Now, into your home comes disease or a sudden awakening to the +meaning of existing conditions, and you find that <i>your</i> child is +<i>deaf</i>.</p> + +<p>"At first your thought is of physicians; they fail you. Advice from +friends and advertisements from quacks pour in upon you; still you +find no comfort and no help.</p> + +<p>"You stop talking to the child. What is the use? He cannot hear +you! You pity him—oh, infinitely! And your pity takes the form of +indulgence. You love him and you long to understand him; but you +cannot interpret him and he feels the change, the helplessness<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_xi" id="Page_xi">[Pg xi]</a></span> in +your attitude toward him. You try one thing after another, +floundering desperately in your effort to discover what radical +step must be taken to meet this emergency. After a time you seize +upon the idea that seems to you the best. Probably it is to wait +until he is six or seven and then put him into an institution. But +while you wait for school age to arrive, you lose that close touch +with the soul of your child which may be established only in these +early years, for you have no adequate means of communication with +him—no way to win his confidence. Soon the child has passed this +stage, and no school can ever give him what you might and would +have given had you known how.</p> + +<p>"You who are trained teachers of the deaf can hardly realize the +need of advice about matters perfectly obvious to <span class="smcap">you</span>; but the need +exists. May I tell you from my own experience a few of the things +about which you might advise—you, who know!</p> + +<p>"In the first place, suggest to parents that<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_xii" id="Page_xii">[Pg xii]</a></span> they make simple +tests of their children's hearing; and tell them how and why those +who are <i>partially</i> deaf should be helped.</p> + +<p>"Then tell them to talk, and talk, and talk, to their little deaf +ones—to say everything and say it naturally. And tell them some +things in particular that should be said—commands, etc., and +<i>certainly</i> 'I love you.' Tell them to speak in whole sentences. +Give them an idea of the possibilities of lip-reading.</p> + +<p>"Tell them that <i>by the expression of the face</i> they may convey to +the deaf child the interest, approval, disapproval, etc., that they +would express to a hearing child in the tone of voice.</p> + +<p>"Tell them that there is <i>rarely</i> an untrained person who can +<i>safely</i> meddle with articulation.</p> + +<p>"Tell them that it is not true that all deaf children are bad; that +the deaf must learn obedience as others do.</p> + +<p>"Tell them the many things which you wish your pupils had learned +before they entered school.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_xiii" id="Page_xiii">[Pg xiii]</a></span></p> + +<p>"Only this I beg of you—tell them!</p> + +<p class='right'>"<span class="smcap">Lucile M. Moore</span>."</p></blockquote> + +<p>For the sake of presenting the ideas contained in this little book in a +somewhat systematic manner it was best to arrange them on the +supposition that they would come to the notice of the mothers while +their children were yet less than two years of age. In many cases, +however, this will not be the case. When, therefore, the child is three, +four, or five years old when this falls into the hands of the mother, it +would still be well if she carried out the suggestions in the order in +which they are here arranged. With the maturity of mind and body that +comes with the added years, the child can pass through the earlier +stages of the training much more rapidly than can be the case with the +baby. Nevertheless, the preliminary steps should not be omitted. A child +of four can be carried in six months through the exercises that occupied +two years when begun with the child of twelve<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_xiv" id="Page_xiv">[Pg xiv]</a></span> months, but the older +child should not be started with exercises suggested for the years after +two.</p> + +<p>Mothers of deaf children cannot be expected to be trained teachers of +the deaf. It would be useless, and, in fact, often unfortunate, to ask +them to attempt to teach articulation to their children. Even for them +to teach the children to write would usually be undesirable because the +greatest gain from the mother's efforts comes from the early +establishment of the speech-reading habit and <i>entire</i> dependence upon +it. It is a very great help to have this habit fixed before writing is +taught. There is no haste about the child's learning to write. That is +easily and quickly accomplished when the proper time comes. The +difficult thing to do is, very fortunately, the thing the mother is best +fitted to accomplish, namely, to create in the child the ability to +interpret speech by means of the eye, and the habit of expecting to get +ideas by watching the face of a speaker.</p> + +<p>With these ideas in mind there has been<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_xv" id="Page_xv">[Pg xv]</a></span> careful avoidance in this +little book of any suggestion that the mother should be anxious about +the speech development of the child before five years of age. If she has +the patience and the time to follow the directions given, she will have +done her child a very great service; the greatest that lies within her +power; and she will have laid the foundation for a more rapid and better +development of speech than would have been possible without her +preliminary training.</p> + +<p>Not every mother will find it possible to carry out all the suggestions +offered in this little book, but no one should feel discouraged on that +account. It seemed best to offer too many suggestions rather than too +few, because these pages may fall into the hands of some mothers whose +situation is such that full advantage can be taken of every idea here +given. Presence of too much matter in the little book will not destroy +its usefulness in cases where only a portion can be applied, whereas the +lack of some of the ideas might<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_xvi" id="Page_xvi">[Pg xvi]</a></span> limit its value in certain instances. +No one should give up in despair just because it is not possible to do +all that is here suggested. Something, at least, can be found here which +it is possible to do that will help very much.</p> + +<p>Sometimes, through a false sense of shame, or through ignorance of the +possibilities open to a deaf child, mothers have refused to admit that +their children were deaf, or to allow anything to be done for them, +until very valuable time has been lost. This is unfair to the child, and +very wrong. A mother should have only pity for the deaf child and +eagerness to aid him to overcome his handicap so far as possible. Delay +in frankly facing the facts and in taking all possible measures to +develop the remaining faculties will in the end only increase the +mother's shame and add to it the pangs of remorse.</p> + +<p>In a little book written to guide physicians in advising parents of deaf +children, I said:</p> + +<p>"The situation of a deaf child differs very much, from an educational +standpoint, from<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_xvii" id="Page_xvii">[Pg xvii]</a></span> that of the little hearing child. Two hours a day +playing educational games in a kindergarten is as much as is usually +given, or is needful, for the little hearing child up to six or seven +years of age; and his mental development and success in after life will +not be seriously endangered if even that is omitted and he does not +begin to go to school until he is eight or nine. The hearing child of +eight who has never been in school and cannot read or write has, +nevertheless, without conscious effort, mastered the two most important +educational tasks in life. He has learned to speak and has acquired the +greater part of his working vocabulary. In other words, although he has +never been across the threshold of a school, his education is well +advanced for his years and mental development.</p> + +<p>"The situation of the uninstructed deaf child of eight is very +different. The task which it has taken the hearing child eight years to +accomplish, the deaf child of eight has not even begun. He cannot speak +a word; he does not<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_xviii" id="Page_xviii">[Pg xviii]</a></span> even know that there is such a thing as a word. He +is eight years behind his hearing brother, and even if he starts now, +unless some means can be found for aiding him to overtake his brother +educationally, he will be only eight years old in education when he is +sixteen years of age. And when he is sixteen, the psychological period +will have passed for acquiring what he should have learned when he was +eight. The fact that the child is deaf does not exempt him from the +inexorable laws of mental psychology and heredity. In the development of +the human mind there is a certain period when all conditions are +favorable for the acquisition of speech and language. Unnumbered +generations of ancestors acquired speech and language at that stage of +their mental development, and this little deaf descendant's mind obeys +the law of inherited tendencies.</p> + +<p>"If the speech and language-learning period, from two years of age to +ten, is allowed to pass unimproved, the task of learning them later is +rendered unnecessarily difficult.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_xix" id="Page_xix">[Pg xix]</a></span></p> + +<p>"Therefore, in the case of the little deaf child, the years from two to +ten are crucial, and of far greater importance than the same period in +the case of the hearing child."</p> + +<p>Even though the child be totally deaf from birth, he can nevertheless be +taught to speak and to understand when others speak to him. He can be +given the same education that he would be capable of mastering if he +could hear. The mother need not be despairing nor heart-broken. A +prompt, brave, and intelligent facing of the situation will result in +making the child one to be proud of and to lean upon.</p> + +<p class='right'>JOHN D. WRIGHT.</p> + +<p>1 Mount Morris Park, West, New York City.<br /> + February, 1915.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_1" id="Page_1">[Pg 1]</a></span></p> + +<h1>WHAT THE MOTHER OF A DEAF CHILD OUGHT TO KNOW</h1> + +<h3>(<i>Mothers are strongly advised to read the Preface</i>)</h3> + +<p class='tbrk'> </p> +<h2><a name="I" id="I"></a>I</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">Facing the Facts</span></h3> + + +<p>While deafness is a serious misfortune, it is neither a sin, nor a +disgrace, to be ashamed of. It is a handicap, to be sure, but one to be +bravely and cheerfully faced, for it does not destroy the chances for +happiness and success. It is cause for neither discouragement nor +despair. It will demand patient devotion and courageous effort to +overcome the disadvantage, but what mother is not willing to show these +in large measure for her child when the future holds assurance of +comfort and usefulness?</p> + +<p>The earlier that the facts are known and squarely faced, the better. It +is always wiser<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_2" id="Page_2">[Pg 2]</a></span> in life to prepare for the worst and gratefully accept +the best, than to refuse to acknowledge the possibility of the worst +until it is too late to remedy it, or at least to reduce it to its +lowest terms.</p> + +<p>When a mother first suspects that her child's hearing is not perfectly +normal, what should she do? Of course, first of all, the best available +ear specialist should be consulted at once in order to determine whether +the cause can be removed and normal hearing restored. Sometimes, +however, the specialists are uncertain of the outcome, and sometimes +their hopes are not realized. In the meantime, precious days and weeks +are passing in which something could be done for the little one +educationally, without in any way interfering with the medical efforts +at relief. The two things can be, and should be, carried on +simultaneously. If normal hearing is restored no harm has been done by +the educational training; in fact, the development of the child has been +advanced. On the other hand, if the hopes that<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_3" id="Page_3">[Pg 3]</a></span> were entertained are +disappointed, then precious and irrecoverable time has not been lost.</p> + +<p>The title presupposes that the mother has already accepted the fact that +her child's hearing is not perfect, and, for the sake of the child, it +is to be hoped that this knowledge came to her very promptly after the +occurrence of the deafness.</p> + +<p>One would naturally expect a mother, of her own accord, to carefully +test all the senses of her child by many simple and repeated exercises +during the first few months of its life. The many cases, however, in +which deafness on the part of a child has not been recognized, or at +least not acknowledged, by the mother till the third, fourth, or even +fifth year, show a strange neglect of a highly desirable investigation, +and a natural unwillingness to accept a truth, the possibility of which +must certainly have occurred to her long before.</p> + +<p>If she could only realize that she need not feel downcast and +heavy-hearted by reason of her little one's imperfect hearing; if she +could<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_4" id="Page_4">[Pg 4]</a></span> only know that she need not look forward to a life for him +different from that of other children; if she could understand that +training and education can enable him to overcome to an extraordinary +degree the disadvantage of deafness, she would set about the task with +cheerfulness and hope, and if she knew that the sooner she began, the +better it would be for the little one, she would not stubbornly refuse +for so long to acknowledge even the possibility of deafness.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_5" id="Page_5">[Pg 5]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="II" id="II"></a>II</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">How Shall the Mother Begin Her Part of the Work</span>?</h3> + + +<p>First of all, something like an inventory should be taken of the +faculties possessed by the child which he can use in working out his +problem. Has he good sight, normal smell, taste, muscular sense, and +memory? To what extent is his hearing impaired? Is there any possibility +of restoring it to normal acuteness, or of improving it, or of +preventing any further impairment?</p> + +<p>The completeness with which these questions can be answered depends, to +a considerable extent, on his age and his physical condition. We will +suppose that he is about fifteen months old and in good bodily +condition. If he is older, the same tests would be used to begin with, +though we could at once pass on to more complicated and difficult ones +that<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_6" id="Page_6">[Pg 6]</a></span> cannot as yet be used with the fifteen-months-old baby.</p> + +<p>First, with regard to sight. We wish to know if he can distinguish +reasonably small objects at reasonable distances; whether he can see +moderately small things at short distances; whether the angle of his +vision is normal. In other words, whether his range and angle of vision +are sufficient for all ordinary purposes.</p> + +<p>If he can recognize his father or mother or brothers and sisters at a +distance of a hundred feet he can see far enough for all practical +purposes. If he readily finds a small object like a pin or a small black +bead when dropped on the floor, his sight is sharp enough at short range +to serve his purposes. If his attention can be attracted by waving a +hand or a little flag or a flower fifty or sixty degrees on either side +of the direction in which he is looking, that is, two-thirds of the way +to the side of his head, his angle of vision is sufficiently wide. If he +can pick out from seven balls of worsted<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_7" id="Page_7">[Pg 7]</a></span> of the seven primary +colors—red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo, and violet—the ball +that matches another of the same color, he is at least not color-blind +and has a sufficient sense of color for the ordinary purposes of life. +It may be necessary to wait till eighteen months for a satisfactory +color test. Color blindness, when present, is usually most apparent in a +failure to distinguish between red and green, these two widely differing +colors seeming to produce the same impression upon the color-blind eye. +The child will be just as likely to choose a red ball to match the green +one in his hand as to select another red ball. But repeated tests should +be made before accepting color blindness as a fact, since sometimes the +brain can be educated to discriminate between red and green even when +the impressions have not the normal degree of difference.</p> + +<p>The tests for taste, smell, muscular sense, touch, and memory cannot be +made with much thoroughness or satisfaction till two years of age, +though observation will show a recognition<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_8" id="Page_8">[Pg 8]</a></span> by taste and smell of that +which is agreeable and that which is disagreeable. Accurate tests of +hearing cannot be made till the child is three or four, but it is +possible when he is twelve months old to determine whether the hearing +is normal or is seriously impaired, and it is very desirable that this +should be done.</p> + +<p>The expression "seriously impaired," when applied to the hearing of a +little child, must be given an entirely different interpretation than it +would have if used with reference to an adult who had previously had +normal hearing. A degree of impairment that would be unimportant in an +adult is a very serious matter in the case of a child. This is because +the ear is the natural teacher of speech and language. If the sounds of +speech are not clearly heard the imitation of them will always be +imperfect, and the acquisition of language will be impeded. If deafness +is so great that spoken words are not heard at all, then the child will +not learn to speak and to understand when spoken to unless specially +taught. A much slighter de<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_9" id="Page_9">[Pg 9]</a></span>gree of deafness will prevent the proper +acquisition of speech and language than would in later life prevent the +comprehension of conversation in a familiar language. As even the child +of fifteen months would benefit from some modifications of the ordinary +treatment of a baby, if his hearing was not normally acute, it is to his +advantage to have the fact of his deafness known at once by those in +charge of him.</p> + +<p>It is not as easy as it might seem to the inexperienced to determine +even approximately the situation of a fifteen-months-old baby with +respect to its hearing. Our interest here is, of course, in the tests of +hearing that do not require special apparatus and special training. In +the case of a child less than two years of age we must rely upon merely +attracting his attention by various sounds, judging the effect upon him +by his expression and actions. We cannot, at that age, establish a +system of responses, nor expect him to imitate the sounds he hears. +Sounds should be used for testing<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_10" id="Page_10">[Pg 10]</a></span> that disturb only the air, and are +not sufficiently low and powerful to set in vibration the floor, chair, +or any other object with which he may be in contact. Deaf children +rapidly become abnormally sensitive to vibrations, which are to them +what noises are to us. A rather smooth, not too shrill, whistle is one +excellent sound to use. Not a fluttering whistle like the postman's, nor +a heavy tone like an organ pipe or bass horn. Clapping the hands is a +good initial test of a crude nature; then a moderate whistle, varying +the pitch, for sometimes high sounds are perceived, but not low ones, or +vice versa. Then a bell, such as a small table bell, the telephone, +electric door bell, etc. Lastly, the human voice in various pitches, +volumes, distances, and vowels. Little by little it can be determined +whether the child hears all the sounds, and if not, then which, if any, +he perceives. A totally deaf child may often deceive the investigator by +turning his head at the critical moment, apparently in response to the +sound that was<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_11" id="Page_11">[Pg 11]</a></span> made, while, on the other hand, a child very slightly +deaf, or not deaf at all, may completely ignore the sounds made for the +purpose of attracting his attention. Therefore, it takes time and +repeated tests under varying environments to gradually eliminate +possible errors and coincidences.</p> + +<p>It must be remembered that the intensity with which a sound affects the +ear varies inversely as the square of the distance from the ear to the +source of the sound. That is to say, if exactly the same sound is +repeated at half the distance, the intensity with which it reaches the +ear is four times as great as before, and if the distance is quartered, +the intensity is sixteen times as great. In other words, if "ah" is +spoken with a certain loudness eight inches from the child's ear, and +then again with exactly the same pitch and volume only two inches from +his ear, it will be sixteen times as loud to him as it was the first +time.</p> + +<p>These simple tests will serve to determine whether the child has, or has +not, a normal<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_12" id="Page_12">[Pg 12]</a></span> acuteness of hearing. They will not serve to determine +with any accuracy the degree of impairment, if it is found that the +hearing is impaired at all. More thorough tests will have to be +postponed till the child is two years old or more. But the moment that +impaired hearing is suspected, the best available ear specialist should +be consulted in order to determine whether the cause can be removed, or +measures taken to prevent a progressive increase in deafness.</p> + +<p>The visit to the otologist should be repeated at intervals of not more +than eight or ten months, even where there is no question of treatment, +in order that any change in the physical condition of the organs may be +promptly detected.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_13" id="Page_13">[Pg 13]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="III" id="III"></a>III</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">How Shall the Mother Get into Communication with her Deaf Child</span>?</h3> + + +<p>Let it be assumed that when the child is fifteen months old it is fairly +well established that his hearing is somewhat below normal. Between +fifteen months and two years of age all that is said in this section +will apply equally to the child who is <i>feared</i> to be <i>totally</i> deaf and +to one who is known to possess some sound perception, though not a +normal degree of hearing. For, until he is old enough to respond to more +complete and accurate tests, we must not give up the idea that he may +have a sufficient remnant of hearing to be of great assistance to him in +the acquisition of speech and language, if it is only developed and +trained.</p> + +<p>Between the ages of twelve months and twenty-four months the child with +perfect hearing<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_14" id="Page_14">[Pg 14]</a></span> makes rapid progress in learning to understand what is +said to him, and by the time he is two years old has usually begun to +speak many words and sentences in a more or less imperfect way. This has +been accomplished principally by the mother's constant talking to her +baby. If she has had the good sense to always speak in simple but +complete sentences, and to avoid the foolish "baby talk" unfortunately +affected by some people in addressing little children, the results of +her daily and hourly talk is the possession by the child of a +considerable vocabulary of words whose meaning he knows, and a less +number that he is able himself to speak in a rather imperfect way.</p> + +<p>In what respects should the mother modify her treatment of the baby if +she suspects that his hearing is defective? She should not talk to him +any the less on this account, but, on the contrary, she should talk to +him more. She should, however, speak a little louder, a little nearer to +him, possibly a little more slowly and distinctly, exercising the +greatest<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_15" id="Page_15">[Pg 15]</a></span> caution, however, not to exaggerate speech into unnatural +facial contortions, or to accompany it by gestures. To fall into the +habit of mouthing and gesticulating, making faces and motions, will +defeat entirely the purpose of all efforts to develop an understanding +of speech by the child. Unfortunately, such exaggerated and absurd +speech is a natural and very prevalent fault. To avoid it is absolutely +necessary, but requires constant watchfulness, as there is a strong +temptation to try to make speech-reading easy for the child by opening +the mouth wide and making extraordinary movements of the tongue.</p> + +<p>The object aimed at is to lead the child to interpret natural, everyday +speech, and such facial contortions and exaggerations cut him off from +practice in reading natural speech. This point cannot be too strongly +emphasized. Speak naturally and normally <i>always</i> to the deaf child.</p> + +<p>Above all, the mother should form the habit of watching his eyes and of +speaking as often<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_16" id="Page_16">[Pg 16]</a></span> as possible when his gaze is fixed upon her face. The +habit on his part of looking at the face of a speaker, and the habit on +his mother's part of observing his gaze and, when it wanders, of pausing +in her talk till he is looking at her again, are two very valuable aids +in the language development of the deaf child. In addition to always +raising her voice a little in speaking to her baby, the mother should +several times a day take him in her lap and sing to him, and talk to him +with her lips not far from his ear. Talk to him just as all mothers do +to their babies (but not with the mangled and distorted words called +"baby talk"), about the pussy, the dog, the bird, his foot, his toes, +his arms and hands and fingers; about his papa, brothers, sisters; about +the flowers, the grass, the trees, and a thousand other things. Say the +good old Mother Goose rhymes of "Patty Cake, Patty Cake, Baker's Man," +"This little pig went to market," etc., etc. But in all your frolics and +stories and songs, take the greatest care that he shall hear<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_17" id="Page_17">[Pg 17]</a></span> or see, or +better still, <i>both</i> see <i>and</i> hear, what you are saying. Gradually he +can be taught to understand many simple commands and questions just as +hearing babies learn them, by constant repetition at times and under +circumstances when the meaning is obvious. Such as "come," "go," "go to +papa," "come to mamma," "jump," "stop," "kiss mother," "pet pussy," +"pick up," "put down," "milk," "water," "bread" (the later in life that +he learns the meaning and taste of "candy" the better), "do you want +some bread?" "milk," "water," etc. "Bring my slippers," "bring my +shoes," "put on your hat," "take off your mittens," "wash your hands," +etc., etc., throughout the whole day.</p> + +<p>Very early the mother should learn to consider the direction from which +the light comes, and should be careful to take her position <i>facing</i> the +main source of light which should come from <i>behind the child</i>. The eye +can be trained from the very beginning of attention to unconsciously +supplement an imperfect ear in com<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_18" id="Page_18">[Pg 18]</a></span>prehending spoken words. It is even +possible for the eye to perform the entire task of interpreting speech, +and, if the hearing is entirely lacking, the course outlined will result +in training the brain to interpret the movements of speech as seen by +the eye, as it would have been trained by the same procedure to +interpret the sounds of speech had the organ of transmission not been +injured. But the idea must be constantly in the mind of the mother that +her boy needs to <i>see</i> the spoken word at the very moment <i>when the idea +that it represents is in his mind</i>, <span class="smcap">as often</span> as he would hear it if his +hearing were perfect.</p> + +<p>This one suggestion, if faithfully lived up to from the age of one year +to that of two years, would be almost enough. But there are other things +that the mother can do as the mental development of the baby increases +with each month of life. She should encourage him to babble and gurgle +and murmur, as much as possible, to laugh and crow and make all the +various baby noises that will train and develop<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_19" id="Page_19">[Pg 19]</a></span> his voice. Encourage +noisy, romping, rollicking games as he gets older, that make him shout +and call, for they are the natural and best voice exercises.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_20" id="Page_20">[Pg 20]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="IV" id="IV"></a>IV</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">What About the Baby's Speech</span>?</h3> + +<p>The hearing baby babbles because he gets some pleasure from the sounds, +and also because he desires to imitate the sounds of speech he hears +around him. <i>He has his attention called constantly to sound.</i> The sense +of vibration is not as strong nor as instructive as that of sound, but +if <i>the attention</i> of the child is early <i>called</i> to it, a watchfulness +for vibration <i>from within himself</i> as well as from without, can be +aroused, and a sensitiveness developed that would not have come as +early, if at all, without special, directive effort on the part of the +mother. She can lead her little one to oo-oo, and ee-ee, and mamma, and +bub-bub, etc., by doing these babblings herself while the baby is in her +arms and his tiny hands are wandering over her lips and face and throat. +These exercises will gradually bring a recogni<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_21" id="Page_21">[Pg 21]</a></span>tion on the part of the +child of the sensation of vibration that accompanies voice, and they +will give facility, coupled with the normal and natural intonations that +have been acquired when he was not conscious of any effort, that will +prepare him for a better and more fluent speech when the time comes for +more exact articulation training.</p> + +<p>But during the first two or three years of the child's life the +principal stress should be placed upon his learning to understand what +is said to him, without bothering much about his speaking himself. In +the case of the hearing child, the understanding of language comes +before he can himself utter it. This must also be the case with the deaf +child, and the period preceding utterance must be longer, by reason of +his handicap, than in the case of a child with normal hearing.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_22" id="Page_22">[Pg 22]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="V" id="V"></a>V</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">Developing the Mental Faculties</span></h3> + +<p>By the time he is two years old he has gained maturity and grasp enough +to play many little educational games with his mother and his little +brothers and sisters, or playmates. These games should be calculated to +develop his various faculties, his powers of observation, memory, and +concentration. To develop a faculty is really <i>to train the brain</i>. As a +matter of fact, we see and hear and taste and smell and feel with our +brains. The eye of a two-year-old child is practically as perfect an +optical instrument as the eye of a boy of ten, and yet how much more the +older boy seems to see. This is because his brain has been trained to +<i>interpret</i> the impressions that even the baby eyes received but did not +understand. Of course, where the instrument is found to be imperfect we +can assist it by means of addi<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_23" id="Page_23">[Pg 23]</a></span>tional lenses, or perhaps by some one of +the skillful operations now performed by oculists, and, as the sight is +of such increased importance to a deaf child, the greatest care and +watchfulness should be given to his eyes. Do not let him sleep, or lie, +facing the sun, or any other powerful light, but throughout his life be +careful that all his use of eyesight be under conditions of ample and +well-directed light. Supposing that the simple tests referred to +heretofore have shown that the eyes, as optical instruments, are +sufficiently perfect, our efforts need to be to train the brain to take +cognizance of, and to interpret the impressions transmitted to it by the +eyes. We shall not be able to improve the working of the eye by our +efforts, but we can educate the brain.</p> + +<p>Color and form make the earliest appeal to the child's eyes, and we can +use them for our educational play. The duplicate set of worsted balls of +the seven primal colors can be increased to include easily +distinguishable shades. The child can be sent on entertaining<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_24" id="Page_24">[Pg 24]</a></span> voyages +of discovery around the room with a ball of a certain color to find +other objects similar in color in the rugs, books, chairs, dresses, +ties, etc.</p> + +<p>A game to develop observation of form can be made by collecting a group +of objects of varying shapes in a pile on the floor or a low table; +mother picks up some one of the objects, directs the attention of the +little one to it, and after he has observed it somewhat she puts it back +in the pile and moves all the objects about till they are well mixed up. +Ask the little fellow then to pick out the object mother held in her +hand a moment before. When he can do this by sight without difficulty, +have him shut his eyes, place an object in his little hands, teach him +to feel it over carefully, take it from him, and, while his eyes are +still closed, place it once more in the pile. Let him then open his eyes +and see if he can indicate the object he had previously held. When he +has mastered this, give the game another turn by asking him to find by +means of<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_25" id="Page_25">[Pg 25]</a></span> touch alone, while the eyes are still closed, the object that +he has been feeling, after it is restored to the pile of other objects. +Still another turn can be given by first letting him see the object, +without touching it, then having him close his eyes, and by touch alone +select it from the pile. A set of wooden forms, such as spheres, cubes, +pyramids, cones, cylinders, and similar, but truncated, forms, can be +obtained at any school supply store. To these can be added common +household objects such as small frames, vases, napkin rings, spoons, +forks, and other similar things, as well as some of the forms included +in a complete set of the Montessori material.</p> + +<p>The Montessori weighted forms are excellent for training his muscular +recognition of difference of weight, and an excellent way is to put +various quantities of birdshot into half a dozen exactly similar little +rubber balls that can be purchased at any toy store for two cents +apiece. Then hand the boy one of the weighted balls, and after he has +felt its weight<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_26" id="Page_26">[Pg 26]</a></span> put it back with the other similar-appearing balls and +see if he can again discover it. An outfit for training his tactile +sense can be made in any home by collecting duplicate pieces of cloth +having different textures; such as velvet, rough woolen tweeds or +homespun, silk, satin, cambric, muslin, etc., and pasting one set on +cards. Also by stretching on a wooden frame, strings of varying sizes, +weaves, and twists, and having a bunch of duplicates from which he can +select, by sight and touch alone, the pieces that correspond, each to +each, with those on the frame or on the cards. If there is a guitar, or +mandolin, or zither, or a piano, available, perhaps, by and by, the +mother can teach the child to recognize the difference in the vibratory +sensation perceived by his fingers touching the body of the instrument +when a low note and a high note are struck alternately. She can make a +game of this, too, by later having him close his eyes and place his +fingers in contact with the instrument and then tell her <i>approximately</i> +what string or key she<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_27" id="Page_27">[Pg 27]</a></span> struck. The next step, if she can take it, is to +place his little hands upon her chest to feel the lowest notes of her +voice, and upon both the chest and the top of her head to feel the +highest, and endeavoring to get him to recognize the similarity in +vibratory sensation between what he now feels and what he previously +felt on the musical instruments. The last step in this series of +exercises to awaken a recognition of vibratory sensations is to lead him +to feel in his own chest and head the vibrations set up by his own voice +in shouting and laughing, crying or babbling.</p> + +<p>These hints that are so quickly and easily given, require weeks and +months of patient, <i>happy</i> effort to carry out. Beware that no one of +them is repeated or continued so long at a time as to become a thing +dreaded and disliked. Remember that the attention of a little child is +like a constantly flitting butterfly that rests for only a moment or two +on anything before dancing away to something else.</p> + +<p>There are many little games with kindergar<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_28" id="Page_28">[Pg 28]</a></span>ten materials that can be +used to develop the powers of attention, observation, imitation, and +obedience. The laying in simple designs, by watchful imitation of the +mother, of colored sticks, colored squares, etc.; the building with +colored blocks; stringing of <i>large</i> beads; weaving with <i>wide</i> strips +of colored paper simple designs that a mother could invent with the +material at hand or could learn from any kindergarten manual. The point +that must be firmly, but <i>pleasantly</i>, insisted upon in these exercises +is careful and obedient following by the child of the exact order of +movement and manner of placing adopted by the mother teacher. The entire +value of these exercises for the purpose she wishes to accomplish +depends upon <i>accurate observation</i> by the child and <i>implicit +obedience</i>.</p> + +<p>The material outfit prepared and sold by the American exploiters of the +Montessori method is admirably adapted to the development of the budding +faculties of the child, and the mother who is trying to do all in her +power to prepare<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_29" id="Page_29">[Pg 29]</a></span> her little one to benefit to the greatest possible +extent from the professional instruction that must come later, will make +no mistake in supplying herself with the set of materials, and making +herself intelligent on their use by the child.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_30" id="Page_30">[Pg 30]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="VI" id="VI"></a>VI</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">Developing the Lungs</span></h3> + +<p>The tendency of the deaf child is to grow up with less development of +lungs and of the imagination than hearing children. In order to overcome +this tendency the child must be encouraged and <i>taught</i> to play games +and use toys that will exercise the lungs and develop the power of +imaginative thought.</p> + +<p>In order to expand and strengthen the lungs through the child's play, +supply him with the brightly colored paper wind-mills that he can set +whirling by blowing lustily; also the rubber balloon toys, even though +the torturing squeak of the toys is only heard by those in the vicinity +and not by himself. An especially good exercise for the gentle and +long-continued control of breath results from the toy blow pipes with +conical wire bowls by means of which light, celluloid balls of bright +colors<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_31" id="Page_31">[Pg 31]</a></span> are kept suspended in the air, dancing on the column of breath +blown softly through the tube. The more steadily the child blows, the +more mysteriously the ball remains at a fixed point, whirling rapidly +but without any apparent support.</p> + +<p>Blowing soap bubbles, especially trying to blow big ones, is very useful +as well as interesting.</p> + +<p>For physical development in which the lungs come in for their share and +the sense of mechanical rhythm is fostered, an excellent exercise is +marching in step to the stroke of the drum, proud in Boy Scout uniform. +Dancing is a very desirable accomplishment for the deaf child.</p> + +<p>Tops and tenpins cultivate dexterity, as do playing ball and rolling +hoop.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_32" id="Page_32">[Pg 32]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="VII" id="VII"></a>VII</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">The Cultivation of Creative Imagination</span></h3> + +<p>This can be greatly helped by early use on the part of the child of +colored modeling wax to reproduce objects and animals, and to construct +models of imaginary houses, yards, trees, etc. A sand pile, or a large, +shallow sand box, perhaps five feet square, with sides six inches high, +and completely lined with enamel cloth to make it watertight, is a +wonderful implement for constructive play on the part of the child. +Whole villages of farms, fields, and forests, ponds and brooks, roads +and railroads, can be made here in miniature.</p> + +<p>Building blocks of wood or stone; the metal construction toy called +"Mechano"; dolls, doll houses, furniture, and equipment, are valuable, +but they should be simple, inexpensive and not fragile.</p> + +<p>Cut-up picture puzzles, painting books, trac<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_33" id="Page_33">[Pg 33]</a></span>ing slates with large and +simple designs cultivate observation and ingenuity. Kaleidoscopes and +stereoscopes are excellent, but moving pictures are so trying upon the +eyes, and the air of the theaters is so bad, that a deaf child whose +eyes are his only salvation, and whose health is doubly important, +should not even know of their existence till he is seven or eight years +old.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_34" id="Page_34">[Pg 34]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="VIII" id="VIII"></a>VIII</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">Further Tests of Hearing</span></h3> + +<p>But, as soon as the mother finds her little child sufficiently mature to +benefit by the sense training described above, whether it be at twenty +or, as is more likely, at from twenty-four to thirty months, she can +begin to make a more complete and accurate determination of the degree +of his deafness, for now she can establish a system of responses on the +part of the child that will show her when he perceives the sounds she +uses in her tests.</p> + +<p>In order to be certain that the little one knows what she wishes of him, +she must begin with some sensation that she is sure he feels. We will +assume that he has as yet no speech, and cannot count, at least does not +know the names of the numbers. Let the mother pat him once on the +shoulder and then cause him<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_35" id="Page_35">[Pg 35]</a></span> to hold up one of his little fingers. Then +pat him twice, and make him hold up two fingers, then three times and +have him put up three fingers. Now return to one pat and one finger, +repeat two pats and the holding up of two of his fingers, and three pats +and three fingers. Go over and over this little game until he has +grasped the idea and will hold up as many fingers as he feels pats. +Simple as the idea seems, it will often take a bright child some time to +realize what you want him to do. But you are <i>sure</i> that he feels the +pats, whereas, if you began at once with sounds, you could not know +whether his failure to respond was because he did not hear, or through +not understanding what you expected of him. He will weary of the +exercise soon, and then mother may as well turn to something else till +he has rested.</p> + +<p>Having established this system of response on his part to sensations +perceived, it is not difficult to shift from the number of pats to the +number of times he hears a noise. This<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_36" id="Page_36">[Pg 36]</a></span> once accomplished, tests can be +made with sounds of different kinds, different pitch, and different +volume, varying the distance, the instruments, and the vowel when the +articulate sounds are reached. He can be shown a whistle, then, when it +is blown behind his back, he will hold up as many fingers as the times +it was blown, if he perceives the sound. He can be asked to distinguish +between a whistle, a little bell, and the clapping of the hands. When he +is successful in that, the vowel sounds may be uttered not far from his +ear, but behind him. Begin with "ah" (ä), as this is the most open and +strongest; then try "oh" (ō), which is not easily confused with ä. +Then ee (ē). If, after a time, a distance and a degree of loudness +are found that enable him to recognize these sounds with unfailing +accuracy, or at least 90 per cent. of the time, then other sounds can be +added, such as aw (a̤), ă (as in hat), ī (as in ice), oo (as in +cool), ow (as in owl). Using these sounds at different pitches, and with +different intensities and distances, a<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_37" id="Page_37">[Pg 37]</a></span> sufficiently accurate estimate +can be formed of the degree of his hearing power so far as his present +needs are concerned.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_38" id="Page_38">[Pg 38]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="IX" id="IX"></a>IX</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">The Development of Residual Hearing</span></h3> + +<p>If any ability to perceive sounds is found, every effort should be made +to lead the child to use it, and as the most essential use of hearing is +in the comprehension of spoken language, the principal effort should be +made along that line.</p> + +<p>Take three objects, the names of which are short, with the principal +vowels quite easily distinguished. A little toy street car, a cap, and a +toy sheep, would do nicely to begin with, as the three words, "car," +"cap," and "sheep," are not easily confused. Place two of the objects +before him, the car and the sheep, and speak the name of one of them, +"car," we will say, loudly and distinctly close to his ear, but in such +a way that he cannot see your mouth. Then show him the car. Repeat it +with "sheep" and show him the sheep. Repeat<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_39" id="Page_39">[Pg 39]</a></span> "car," and take his little +hand, put it on the car. Then "sheep," and make him put his hand on the +sheep. Continue this process until he will indicate to you the object +you name. When he makes only occasional mistakes with two objects, add +the cap. When he can get the right one about 90 per cent. of the time, +then take three new words, returning occasionally to the first three. +Very soon his own name and those of others, with photographs to enable +him to indicate which, will prove of interest to him. When he has +successfully learned to distinguish a few single words, a beginning can +be made on short sentences. Commands that he can execute are convenient. +"Shut your eyes," "Open your mouth," "Clap your hands," can follow drill +on the three words, "eyes," "mouth," "hands." "Open the window," "Shut +the window," "Open the book," "Shut the book," "Open the door," etc. +"Stand up," "Sit down." When this beginning has been made, the road is +open to the gradual increase in a hearing vocabulary, but<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_40" id="Page_40">[Pg 40]</a></span> do not +attempt so much at once as to confuse and discourage the child.</p> + +<p>The suggestions already made should be studiously followed throughout +his whole childhood. If his hearing is not too seriously impaired, he +will begin to attempt to imitate spoken sounds by the time he is +twenty-four to thirty months old. But his ability to imitate sounds is +not an accurate measure of his ability to hear. He may perceive the +sounds much better than he is able to reproduce them. Distinct utterance +comes slowly to the child with normal hearing, and still more slowly and +imperfectly to the child whose hearing is not good. But the continued +effort to make him hear <i>words and sentences</i> is a very valuable +exercise for him and should be faithfully continued till he is old +enough to respond to the tests of hearing as outlined and it has been +definitely proved that he cannot possibly tell whether ä, or ō or +ē is said, no matter how loud or how near the ear the sound is +uttered.</p> + +<p>The question will naturally arise as to<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_41" id="Page_41">[Pg 41]</a></span> whether the child's hearing of +speech can be aided by an electric or mechanical device. When it is +possible to make the child perceive the sound of the vowels with the +unaided voice uttered very near the ear, I believe it to be better, at +first, not to interpose any artificial device. But I have found that +sometimes, in cases where the sound perception was not at first +sufficient to enable the child to distinguish even the most dissimilar +vowel sounds, although uttered loudly close to the ear, I could awaken +the attention of the child to sound, and stimulate the dormant power by +the use of an Acousticon. After a few months I have been able to +dispense with the instrument and use only the unaided voice at close +range. Later, when some vocabulary has been acquired through these +auricular exercises, it is often desirable to return to the Acousticon +and teach the child to use it, in <i>order to extend the distance at which +sounds can be heard</i>. By the use of the Acousticon, it then becomes +possible to communicate by means of the ear without<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_42" id="Page_42">[Pg 42]</a></span> speaking at such +short range. It is not easy, however, to induce a child to use an +Acousticon at all times, whereas an adult will take the time and trouble +necessary to become accustomed to the instrument, and will put up with +the slight inconveniences inseparable from its use.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_43" id="Page_43">[Pg 43]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="X" id="X"></a>X</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">Developing the Power of Lip Reading</span></h3> + +<p>In this effort to develop the hearing, however, the necessity must not +be forgotten of also training the brain to associate ideas with what the +eye sees on the lips when words are spoken. In the case of the very +slightly deaf child, this visual training is not quite so important as +the auricular training, but when there is much deafness it is the more +important of the two. The comprehension of much language can be given to +the little deaf child by constantly talking just as any mother does to +her hearing baby, only being always careful to take a position facing +the main source of light, which should come <i>from behind the child</i>.</p> + +<p>The hearing child arrives at the association of meaning with the sounds +of words only after very many repetitions. How often must the child hear +"Mamma," "Look at mamma," "See,<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_44" id="Page_44">[Pg 44]</a></span> here is mamma," "Mamma is coming," +"Mamma is here," "Where is mamma?" "Do you love mamma?" "Mamma loves +baby," etc., etc., from morning to night, day after day, week after +week. The mother does it for pleasure; to play with and pet the dear +baby. She does not think of it as a teaching exercise, but it is a very +important one. The deaf baby will learn gradually to associate a meaning +with the various sequences of movement of the lips, if a little care is +taken to watch his eyes and to speak when they are directed toward the +speaker, and to stand in such relation to the light that it falls upon +the speaker's face. The speech should be the same as to the hearing +child, but it takes a little more care and watchfulness to have the deaf +child <i>see</i> the same word or phrase as <i>many times</i> as the hearing child +hears it. If it is spoken when the baby is not looking, it does not +help.</p> + +<p>When the little one is learning to walk, the mother says, "Come to +mamma," "Go to daddy," and gradually he learns "come" and "go."<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_45" id="Page_45">[Pg 45]</a></span> She has +him play hide and seek with another child, and she says, "Where is Tom?" +"Where is the baby's mouth?" "Where is the baby's nose?" etc., and by +and by he knows "where" and "mouth" and "nose," and the names of his +playmates or brothers and sisters. When he is sitting on the floor she +picks him up, saying "up." When she puts him from her lap to the floor +she says "down." If he is naughty she says "naughty," and perhaps spats +his little hands, and so on through the day. A little care on her part, +a little added thought and watchfulness, perhaps a few more repetitions, +and little by little she will find her deaf baby learning to look at her +always, and to understand much that is said to him. She must all this +time remember, also, that the shades of feeling, pleasure, +disappointment, approval, disapproval, doubt, certainty, love, anger, +joy, which are largely conveyed to the hearing child by intonation of +voice, must be conveyed to the deaf baby by facial expression and +manner. They become very keen at interpreting moods<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_46" id="Page_46">[Pg 46]</a></span> by the look. Let +the face be sunny and kind and <span class="smcap">interested</span>, if possible. The first +indication of impatience, of being bored and weary, will destroy much of +one's influence with the deaf child.</p> + +<p>Sometimes it is harder to disguise one's feelings in the face than in +the voice. Do not be caught unawares. Interest, cheerfulness, and +patience are tremendous forces to help the little deaf child.</p> + +<p>Some one has said:</p> + +<div class="poem"> +<div class='stanza'><div>"When you consent, consent cordially;</div> +<div>When you refuse, refuse finally;</div> +<div>When you punish, punish good-naturedly."</div></div> +</div> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_47" id="Page_47">[Pg 47]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="XI" id="XI"></a>XI</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">Forming Character</span></h3> + +<p>And now that the little one is two or three years old, it may be well to +say a few words about his general training in character and habits. +There is a strong, and a not unnatural tendency to maintain an attitude +toward the deaf child that differs from that maintained by sensible +mothers toward their other children. They often set up a different +standard of conduct and of obligation for the afflicted child. His +brothers and sisters are taught to always defer to his wishes; even to +the extent of yielding to improper and selfish demands on his part, and +conceding that they have no rights where he is concerned. He is not +required to perform the little duties demanded of the other children. He +is given privileges which the others do not, and which no one of them, +including himself, should enjoy. He grows tyrannical,<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_48" id="Page_48">[Pg 48]</a></span> domineering, and +selfish. The mother says: "Poor little chap; he has trouble enough, we +must do all in our power to make up to him for what he misses by reason +of his deafness." This is, however, a shortsighted, and really a cruel +policy. It lays up much misery for his future, and in the end proves a +serious handicap to one who needs to have as few additional difficulties +as possible. Though it may seem hard-hearted, it is really kinder to put +him on the same basis as any other child. Make him do everything +possible for himself. Insist upon his being independent; dressing +himself as soon as he is able, buttoning his own shoes, and performing +all the little self-help acts that the wise mother demands of all her +children. Make no distinction in the treatment accorded him. Ask the +same services, reward right actions and punish wrongdoing as impartially +as if he was not deaf, only being sure that he clearly connects the +punishment with the wrong act. This, in the case of a deaf child, +requires a little more care than with a<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_49" id="Page_49">[Pg 49]</a></span> hearing child. Train him to be +thoughtful for the comfort of others, and respectful of their rights, +just as you insist that the others observe his rights. He cannot be +argued with, object lessons and example must be the means of teaching +him manners and morals.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_50" id="Page_50">[Pg 50]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="XII" id="XII"></a>XII</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">Cultivating the Social Instinct</span></h3> + +<p>Between the ages of two and four years all the games and exercises +heretofore described can continue to be used, together with others +increasingly difficult and complicated, as the child's mind develops and +his powers of observation, attention, and memory increase. Take very +special care that he learns all the childhood games that other children +know and enjoy. Devote yourself more to him in this respect than you +would in the case of another child. Encourage the neighbors' children to +come and play with him by making it especially pleasant for them. Teach +them yourself to play "Hide the Thimble," "Hide and Seek," "Drop the +Handkerchief," "Going to Jerusalem," "Old Maid," "Bean Bag." Follow the +Leader is an excellent game by which to teach watchfulness and +imitation. Cat and Mouse,<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_51" id="Page_51">[Pg 51]</a></span> Hot Potato, Ring on a String, are all games +that can be played by groups and cultivate quickness. Ping Pong Football +is excellent as a lung developer. That is the choosing of sides and +trying to blow a ping pong ball between the goal posts formed by a pair +of salt shakers at opposite ends of a table. Or blowing a feather across +a sheet by opposing sides. Encourage good, romping, noisy games in which +the children naturally laugh and shout. They are the best of +voice-developing exercises, and by such means, and his long-distance +shouting and calling to his playmates, the little hearing child gains +much of his lung and voice power. In all his games, as in all his other +activities, take very <i>special</i> pains to talk to him, using the +regulation expressions and training him to watch for the "It's your +turn," or "Now, Tom," "Ready," "Whose turn is it?" etc., etc.</p> + +<p>If the foregoing suggestions have been carefully carried out since he +was twelve months old, he will long ago have arrived unconsciously at +the knowledge that all things, and all ac<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_52" id="Page_52">[Pg 52]</a></span>tions, and all feelings, have +names, and that the mouth always makes the same sequence of movements +for the same thing. In the babbling exercises recommended, he will +gradually come to utter many of the vowel and consonant sounds of his +native language; especially those that are made by the lips, and by +evident positions of the tongue. Those sounds that require hidden +positions of the organs, such as the sound of C and K in cat and ark, or +G in go and dog, or ng in long, he is unlikely to have stumbled upon. +These can be taught when the proper time comes, but their absence for +the present need cause no anxiety. In fact, up to the time when he is +three and a half or four years old, the matter of speaking is not one to +be much troubled about. If the conception of language has been given him +through lip-reading, and some ability to understand the necessary +language of his daily life, his future success is assured.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_53" id="Page_53">[Pg 53]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="XIII" id="XIII"></a>XIII</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">Something About Schools and Methods</span></h3> + +<p>Till the child is at least four years old, the proper place for him is +at home, and if he must be sent to one of the large public schools for +the deaf it should not be till he is five or even six years of age.</p> + +<p>But during these years the mother can gain much knowledge that will help +her by visiting as many schools for the deaf as possible. There are +about a hundred and fifty such schools in the United States and eight in +Canada. They vary in size, in character, and in methods of instruction +employed. There are public boarding schools, and public day schools, +free to the resident of the state, or city, in which they are located. +There are private boarding and day schools, maintained by charity, or by +the tuition fees. Some of each class are oral schools; that is, they +employ only speech methods of<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_54" id="Page_54">[Pg 54]</a></span> instruction, without any signs or finger +spelling. Others are called "Combined" schools; that is, they permit, +and in some exercises encourage, the use of finger spelling and gestural +signs, while they also give some instruction by the speech method. There +are sectarian and non-sectarian schools, both oral and combined.</p> + +<p>A very considerable number of schools for the deaf in the United States +and Canada still use manual, or silent, methods of instruction, at least +in part. But the speech, or oral, method is steadily growing in +popularity, and gradually supplanting manual spelling and gestural +signs. The time will certainly come when the public will be too +intelligent to any longer tolerate the use between teacher and pupil, or +between any employee and the pupils, in a school for the deaf, any +system of manual communication.</p> + +<p><i>Every deaf child, no matter if born totally deaf and of a low order of +intelligence, can be given as much education by the exclusive use of the +speech method as it can by any manual, or silent, method or by a +combination of the speech and the silent method.</i><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_55" id="Page_55">[Pg 55]</a></span> This is not the mere +expression of an opinion, but the statement of a fact; a fact firmly +established by actual results in state institutions where, +unfortunately, the law requires the admission of pupils too poorly +equipped intellectually to belong in a school with normally bright +children. In addition to acquiring all the education of which his mental +endowment makes him capable, he can be taught to speak and to understand +when spoken to. The degree of perfection attainable depends upon the +ability of the child, the skill of the teaching, and especially upon +<i>the environment</i> in which the child passes its formative educational +years. The probability of the child's acquiring a maximum proficiency in +speaking and in understanding others when they speak, is lessened in +direct proportion to the extent to which he is permitted to use the +silent or manual means of communication. In the so-called "combined" +schools, the <i>environment</i> is largely manual. A<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_56" id="Page_56">[Pg 56]</a></span> visit to the +playgrounds, the baseball fields, the shops, dining rooms, and +dormitories of "combined" schools will disclose the pupils using silent +means of communication, not only between themselves, <i>but with those in +charge of them. They do not think in spoken forms, but in finger +spelling and signs.</i> The powerful influence of environment in those +schools is <i>against</i> the acquisition of the speech and lip-reading +habit.</p> + +<p>The mother who has faithfully followed the suggestions offered in the +foregoing pages will be able to appreciate what she sees on visiting the +schools, and will gain much more from such visits than one who is +entirely inexperienced in the problem. Every mother should make it her +business to visit at least one <i>purely oral</i> school, in order that she +may make herself thoroughly intelligent on what may be expected of a +deaf child.</p> + +<p>Unfortunately, pure oral schools are not as plentiful as "combined" +schools, but it will well repay any parent to make a journey, even<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_57" id="Page_57">[Pg 57]</a></span> +across the continent, if necessary, in order to study the workings of +some good, purely oral, school. Do not be satisfied with a visit to the +nearest "combined" school.</p> + +<p><i>You owe it to your child</i> to make yourself thoroughly intelligent as to +the <i>possibilities</i> open to a deaf child. You will not be intelligent +till you have personally visited some good <i>purely oral</i> school.</p> + +<p>The number, character, location, etc., of the schools are constantly +changing. A descriptive list of all schools corrected to date will be +gladly supplied by the author to any one requesting it.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_58" id="Page_58">[Pg 58]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="XIV" id="XIV"></a>XIV</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">The Preservation of Speech</span></h3> + +<h4>WHEN DEAFNESS RESULTS FROM ACCIDENT OR ILLNESS AFTER INFANCY</h4> + +<p>Up to this point it has been assumed that deafness occurred before the +age of two years, and before the child had begun to speak. In cases +where, through accident or illness, impairment of hearing has come after +the child has begun to talk, the mother should bend all her efforts upon +keeping the speech of her child. The younger the child, the more +difficult is the task. Without the greatest vigilance and increasing +attention, the speech of a little child who has become deaf will fade +rapidly away, until it is lost entirely, and must be artificially +recreated when he is old enough to grasp the complicated ideas involved +in speech teaching to the deaf. But by persistently encouraging him<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_59" id="Page_59">[Pg 59]</a></span> to +talk, and never, even for a day, allowing him to lapse into silence, and +<i>by not accepting careless and faulty utterance, but pretending not to +understand till the child speaks distinctly and correctly</i>, the natural +speech, which was his before deafness occurred, can be preserved, and +the speech habit thoroughly fixed. If, by good luck, the little one has +learned to read even a simple primer before becoming deaf, it will be +much easier to prevent a loss of speech. For this reading can be made an +excuse for frequently using his speech. But when the child cannot read, +the mother must depend entirely upon inducing him to talk to her, +refusing to give him anything, or grant his request, till he asks for it +in good spoken form; showing him pictures, playing games, frolicking +with him; doing everything that a mother's love and ingenuity can +suggest, to keep him talking all day long.</p> + +<p>The tendency of the child will be to drop, or slur, the final syllables +of the words; to leave off the sound of final <i>ed</i>; to lose the +sharpness<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_60" id="Page_60">[Pg 60]</a></span> of the <i>s</i>; to blur the <i>l</i>; and sometimes to lose the sound +of <i>k</i> and <i>c</i>. But, if he has learned to read, by pointing to these +letters in the words he has spoken imperfectly, he will correct his own +mistake. Prompt and increasing attention to the little fellow's speech +during the first year after deafness occurs will usually serve to fix +correct habits for life.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_61" id="Page_61">[Pg 61]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="XV" id="XV"></a>XV</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">Teaching Lip Reading</span></h3> + +<p>All that has been said about training the little deaf child to read the +lip movements and associate them with the names of things and of +actions, will apply also to the little boy who has suddenly been made +deaf, after speech has been learned. Be careful that he is looking at +you always when you speak to him or reply to some question he has asked, +but speak just as you would have done before he became deaf. You may +have to repeat things to him very often at first, but do not permit any +sign of impatience in your face. Do not let him get the idea that it is +a hardship to talk to him. Remember that you are changing his manner of +understanding speech over to another way, and that his present and +future happiness depends very greatly on the thoroughness and promptness +with which it is done. In all deal<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_62" id="Page_62">[Pg 62]</a></span>ings with a deaf child the mother +should remember that the child draws his impressions of the character +and the feelings of those about him from the expression of their faces, +and many almost unconscious little acts and gestures. Avoid very +carefully any appearance of being impatient, or bored, or contemptuous +at his failures. Try to understand the difficulties under which he is +working to maintain his place in the world. Do not humor his whims, or +spoil him by indulgence, yet treat him with the greatest consideration +and fairness. Above all, be cheerful and, at least apparently, +interested in his doings and sayings.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_63" id="Page_63">[Pg 63]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="XVI" id="XVI"></a>XVI</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">School Age</span></h3> + +<p>The question of what is "school age" for a deaf child is answered very +differently by different people. Most of the state institutions for the +deaf in the United States, Canada, and Europe will not admit children +younger than six years of age. Seven years is still the age of admission +in some institutions, but the tendency is to lower the age limit. In +some schools children of five are admitted, in a few those as young as +four, and in two or three small schools babies of two and three are +received. Any statement here must, therefore, be taken as only the +expression of the author's opinion, resulting from more than twenty-five +years of active teaching, combined with wide observation.</p> + +<p>It would appear that, where home conditions are not bad, either +physically or morally, the<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_64" id="Page_64">[Pg 64]</a></span> proper place for the little deaf child till +he is nearly, or quite, five, is with his mother. Very much can be done +for the little one before he is five to prepare him for the instruction +which should be given at that age, but it is possible for the mother to +do what is necessary, and even the simplest home conditions are +preferable for very little children to the institutional environment. It +is impossible, in a school of from one hundred to five hundred pupils, +to create a real home environment, such as the very little child should +have. It is really a pity that the child of five should have to be +placed in the institutional environment as it at present exists. If the +legislative bodies of our states, and the gentlemen who manage the +schools, could only be induced to adopt the cottage plan of housing in +small units, the disadvantages of institutional life would be enormously +reduced.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_65" id="Page_65">[Pg 65]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="XVII" id="XVII"></a>XVII</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">Organized Efforts by Parents to Obtain Better Educational Conditions</span></h3> + +<p>It should be possible for every taxpayer in every state who has a deaf +child and who has not the means or the wish to place that child in a +private school, to have the child educated in a free public school as +completely by the speech method as his hearing children are educated by +that method. He should not be compelled to send his child out of the +state or else subject him to the influence of signs and finger spelling, +with the probability that he will leave school a deaf mute. +Unfortunately, in many states, this is not possible at present. But if +the parents of deaf children would organize themselves into "Parents' +Associations" and send representatives to the governors and legislative +committees; and arrange for demonstrations by orally educated deaf +children from<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_66" id="Page_66">[Pg 66]</a></span> pure oral schools; and carry on an active campaign of +enlightenment and of agitation, the present state of affairs would soon +cease to exist.</p> + +<p>I wish to make an urgent plea for the energetic efforts of all parents +of deaf children to improve the speech-teaching conditions in their +respective localities. At present, very far from all that is possible is +being done to give deaf children a ready command of spoken English, and +a working ability to understand when spoken to. The persons who have the +most at stake in this matter, and who should be most active and +persistent in demanding from the school authorities and legislatures +better facilities for the acquisition of speech by deaf children, are +the parents of those children. In each locality these parents should +organize into "Parents' Associations." These local associations should, +in turn, be connected by a statewide organization composed of +representatives from each local association. These state organizations +could then be combined by repre<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_67" id="Page_67">[Pg 67]</a></span>sentation in a national organization of +all the parents of deaf children in the United States. Such complete +organization once effected, the reasonable demands made in the interests +of better results in speech teaching would quickly be complied with by +the respective schools and the legislatures or boards of directors that +control them. The associations could induce their local papers to aid in +a campaign to educate public opinion by printing facts concerning what +is done elsewhere. If all parents of deaf children only knew what might +be accomplished, and were so organized as to permit them to present +their wishes forcibly to those able to change conditions, the deaf child +would quickly come into his own.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_68" id="Page_68">[Pg 68]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="XVIII" id="XVIII"></a>XVIII</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">A Personal Matter for Each Parent</span></h3> + +<p>Let some parent in each locality make it his or her business to get the +names and addresses of all other parents of deaf children in the +vicinity. Induce them to come together some evening and choose a +chairman and an executive committee of three. Let these four people make +a point of studying the education of the deaf as conducted in the most +advanced communities. Let the executive committees of the several local +associations get together once or twice a year for a sort of state +convention of parents. Let them invite leading educators to address +them, and let them appoint committees to visit schools in other states +where different methods are employed. If such a movement was once +started there would be found plenty of subject-matter for discussion, +and plenty of opportunities to work for a better<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_69" id="Page_69">[Pg 69]</a></span>ment of conditions. The +author of this little book would be glad to give any aid in his power to +such a movement, and to place the results of his twenty-five years of +experience at the disposal of any parent, or parents' organization.</p> + +<p>The first efforts should be directed to inducing, or compelling, the +so-called "Combined Schools" for the deaf throughout the United States +to wholly segregate at least a small oral department from the manually +taught pupils. The orally taught pupils should never come in contact +during their school life, either in the shops, dining rooms, +playgrounds, or schoolrooms, with those pupils with whom finger spelling +and signs are employed. All employees, whether superintendents, +teachers, supervisors, teachers of trades, or servants, who have to do +with the orally taught pupils should be <i>compelled</i> to use only speech +and lip reading (and writing, if absolutely necessary) under penalty of +dismissal for failing to do so. Only by means of such segregation, and +the en<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_70" id="Page_70">[Pg 70]</a></span>forcement of speech as a universal medium of communication, can +the appropriations for oral work be made really productive of good +results in what are now called "Combined Schools." This can be done on a +small scale at the beginning, with the little entering beginners. Then +if all beginners are put into this oral department it will gradually +grow at the expense of the manual department, until, after a period of +eight or ten years, the entire school will have become oral.</p> + +<p>This is the only method of procedure by which satisfactory results in +speech teaching for practical purposes can be obtained in return for the +generous appropriations that the states make. It has been fully +demonstrated by actual operation in the state of Pennsylvania, where the +largest school for the deaf in the world has in this manner been changed +from a "Combined School" to a pure oral school.</p> + +<p><i>All</i> the deaf children in the State of Massachusetts are now taught +wholly by the oral<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_71" id="Page_71">[Pg 71]</a></span> method. If that polyglot and heterogeneous +population can be so treated, there is no state in the Union where the +same could not be done if there were the desire and the ambition to do +it.</p> + +<p>In many states deaf children have been, either by definite statement, or +by tacit understanding, exempted from the enforcement of the compulsory +education law. This is all wrong. They need the protection of that +excellent law even more than the hearing child, and if the law for +compulsory education does not, in fact, apply to them, it should at once +be amended to do so.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_72" id="Page_72">[Pg 72]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="XIX" id="XIX"></a>XIX</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">Day Schools</span></h3> + +<p>The parents are the ones most interested in this matter, and it is +through their efforts alone that improvement can be brought about. In +Massachusetts, New York, New Jersey, Wisconsin, Michigan, Illinois, +Ohio, Washington, Oregon, Texas, Missouri, and California, free public +oral day schools have been established. This movement has reached its +highest development in Wisconsin and Michigan. In Wisconsin there are +twenty-four such schools scattered throughout the state, and in Michigan +fourteen. New schools are opened by the Board of Education under +prescribed conditions upon the request of a certain number of parents of +deaf children. Such a law should be on the statute books of every state, +and will be when the parents of deaf children organize and demand it.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_73" id="Page_73">[Pg 73]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="XX" id="XX"></a>XX</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">The Deaf Child at Five Years of Age</span></h3> + +<p>When the little child that has been deaf from infancy is five years of +age, he should be placed in a <i>purely oral school</i> for the deaf, if such +a thing is possible.</p> + +<p>The child who has become deaf by illness or accident after speech has +been acquired, should be placed under experienced instruction by the +speech method <i>at once</i>.</p> + +<p>To quote once more from my little book of suggestions to physicians:</p> + +<p>"If the proper school for the little hearing child of five did not +happen to exist in his immediate neighborhood, no one would think of +insisting upon the necessity of sending the little one away to a distant +boarding school. But that is what must be done in the case of the little +deaf child, if precious and irrecoverable years are not to be lost. It +is often a difficult<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_74" id="Page_74">[Pg 74]</a></span> matter to persuade a mother to sacrifice her own +personal happiness and comfort in having the little child with her, and +to look far enough into the future to see that a true and unselfish love +for the child requires her to entrust him to the care of others during +those early and crucial years."</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_75" id="Page_75">[Pg 75]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="XXI" id="XXI"></a>XXI</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">Schools for the Hearing and Private Governesses</span></h3> + +<p>If no oral day or boarding school is available near at hand, the mother +should have the far-sighted love that is unselfish, and the courage to +part with her little five-year-old child during the months of the school +year, and place him in some one of the distant schools where he can live +and be taught in a purely oral environment. There are two alternatives +to this, each of which is sometimes attempted, but both are undesirable. +First the mother not infrequently attempts to have her child educated in +the schools for hearing children. This is very unsatisfactory and even +dangerous, for if persisted in it results in wholly inadequate progress, +uneven development, bad speech, irretrievable loss of time, and often in +a com<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_76" id="Page_76">[Pg 76]</a></span>plete nervous breakdown. This may not come for some years, but the +nervous system, once undermined by the excessive strain of trying to +keep up under impossible conditions, can never be fully repaired. Here +is what a <i>partially</i> deaf woman writes of her experience as a child:</p> + +<p>"When I was three and one-half years old scarlet fever left me almost +totally deaf. My father was a physician. He was urged to send me to a +school for the deaf, but his medical training told him that what was +needed was association with speaking children, if I were to retain my +speech, for at that time the oral method was unknown in our state. So I +went to school with hearing children. Unless you have been deaf, you +will not understand the misery in this statement. A little, lonely deaf +child, I went to a public school, hearing practically nothing of the +teachers' instructions or the pupils' recitations. Of the torture of +that deaf childhood I will not speak. You all know how cruel children +may be, and a deaf child<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_77" id="Page_77">[Pg 77]</a></span> among hearing children often suffers untold +torments."</p> + +<p>The second alternative is to seek some person who will teach the child +in his own home. This, too, is very unsatisfactory, and involves loss of +time and opportunity that can never be recovered.</p> + +<p>In the first place, the beginning years of a deaf child's educational +life are the most important of all. They are crucial. It is then he +requires the highest skill, the greatest experience, and the most +perfect conditions. The best teachers can seldom, if ever, be induced to +teach a single child in its home. Usually these teachers are more or +less inferior. But even the best teacher in the world cannot do for a +little deaf child in his home what she could accomplish for him in a +well-organized and properly conducted school.</p> + +<p>Neither the intellect nor the character of the deaf child can be as +successfully developed, after five years of age, by a private teacher in +his home as in a good school.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_78" id="Page_78">[Pg 78]</a></span></p> + +<p>The following elements are essential for the highest educational welfare +of a deaf child:</p> + +<p><i>First.</i> The stimulus and incentive of association and competitive +companionship.</p> + +<p><i>Second.</i> The contact with more than one mind and more than one speaker.</p> + +<p><i>Third.</i> The avoidance of becoming dependent upon some one as an +interpreter, and the cultivation of independence and self-reliance +through constant practice with various teachers.</p> + +<p><i>Fourth.</i> A fully equipped and trained organization, providing a +complete and uninterrupted education under one head.</p> + +<p><i>Fifth.</i> Regularity of life, and the subordination of all living +conditions to the highest educational advantage (a thing utterly +incompatible with home conditions).</p> + +<p>These most necessary conditions are not possible of attainment through +private instruction in the home. The child who is kept at home and given +private instruction too often grows up to be timid, self-distrustful, +and unfitted to<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_79" id="Page_79">[Pg 79]</a></span> cope with the difficulties and oppositions of the +world. He falls an easy prey to temptation and is quickly discouraged by +obstacles. Very often he is selfish, narrow, and overbearing. Not having +those about him of his own age and with the same desires, he has become +accustomed to having people yield to his whims and fancies as child +playmates would not yield. He is more or less excluded from the plays +and pleasures of childhood. All those about him have an advantage over +him.</p> + +<p>On the other hand, the tendencies of the school-bred child are to be +simple, natural, and childlike. His inclination to moodiness and +suspiciousness is much less. He is happier. He becomes self-reliant, +independent, and respectful of the rights of others. He is less petulant +and more obedient. The wisest parents do not educate their hearing +children at home, nor should they attempt it with a deaf child.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_80" id="Page_80">[Pg 80]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="XXII" id="XXII"></a>XXII</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">Importance of the Beginning</span></h3> + +<p>I wish to lay very special stress upon the necessity <i>at the beginning</i> +of the most expert and experienced instruction that is attainable. If +circumstances make it impossible to give to the child the best <i>all</i> the +time, then he should have the best at the start rather than later. Every +effort and every sacrifice that are ever going to be made for the +child's sake should be at the beginning of his school training, and not +delayed till he is older. The years from five to eight or ten will +determine his future success. If he has poor teaching during these early +years, even the best teaching later will not be able to make up the loss +entirely. But if he has good teaching during the first few years, then +less expert teaching later cannot do<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_81" id="Page_81">[Pg 81]</a></span> him as much harm as it otherwise +would. The early years are his most crucial period, and the best efforts +should be expended then instead of when he is twelve or fourteen.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_82" id="Page_82">[Pg 82]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="XXIII" id="XXIII"></a>XXIII</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">Avoid the Young and Inexperienced Teacher</span></h3> + +<p>Between the ages of five and ten avoid the young and inexperienced +teacher and the amateur as you would the plague. Unfortunately, the idea +is prevalent that <i>any one</i> can teach a little child, but that it takes +experience to teach the older pupils. This is a disastrous fallacy. +Young and inexperienced women are too often quite ready to assume the +great responsibility of teaching a little deaf child. They rush in where +angels might well fear to tread. Unfortunately, parents, and even school +superintendents, are often too ready to permit them to do this dangerous +thing.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_83" id="Page_83">[Pg 83]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="XXIV" id="XXIV"></a>XXIV</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">On Entering School</span></h3> + +<p>Through the courtesy of the <i>Volta Review</i>, in which her article +appeared, and of the author, Miss Eleanor B. Worcester, a teacher of the +deaf for many years, and at one time the principal of a school, I am +able to include the following very sensible and valuable advice for the +guidance of mothers when their children enter school.</p> + +<p class='tbrk'> </p> + +<h3><span class="smcap">The First Year at School</span></h3> + +<h4>BY ELEANOR B. WORCESTER</h4> + +<p>At last the time has come when you feel that it is best for your boy to +study with other children. And since your own town does not offer<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_84" id="Page_84">[Pg 84]</a></span> him a +suitable opportunity, it is necessary to send the little fellow to one +of the well-known boarding schools, where trained and wise men and women +are devoting their thought and energy to giving every advantage of +education, comfort, and happiness to the little people under their care.</p> + +<p>You have already decided, after much thought and the writing of many +letters—perhaps after a visit to the school you incline to most—just +where it is best that the child shall go.</p> + +<p>You have studied carefully all the directions about clothing given in +the school catalogue, and have made sure that every little blouse or +stocking has its owner's name written or sewed fast on it, and that all +the small garments are in perfect order and ready for use.</p> + +<p>But have you thought how your own attitude toward this change in your +boy's life is unconsciously preparing him either to rebel against and +fear school, or to look forward to<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_85" id="Page_85">[Pg 85]</a></span> going there as one of the most +delightful and interesting events of his life?</p> + +<p>I know that it is impossible for you to avoid dreading the day when your +child must go among strangers, but I beg you not to let him see what +your feeling is. It will take all your resolution and all your courage +to wear not only a cheerful face, but a happy one; but you must make +your boy feel that a very delightful time is coming.</p> + +<p>If you go about the necessary preparations as you might if he were going +to the show or on a visit, he will enter into the spirit of things with +enthusiasm; but if you once let him find you crying over his packing he +will immediately jump to the conclusion that some dreadful thing is in +prospect, and will be entirely prepared to be frightened at being left +at school, and to break your heart by clinging to you and begging to go +home again. And, more than this, he will be far more likely to be +homesick.</p> + +<p>So, since you know it is best for him to be in school, and that it is +the only possible road<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_86" id="Page_86">[Pg 86]</a></span> to happiness and usefulness, why not lead him to +anticipate the going; to look forward to it as a treat, and to feel that +to be a schoolboy is really the great end of existence?</p> + +<p>One of the first steps in this direction will be to help him understand +a little what kind of a place he is bound for.</p> + +<p>Very likely the school you have decided on publishes an illustrated +catalogue, and weeks before school opens begin to show him the pictures +of the school buildings and grounds, and make him understand that on a +certain day in September, which you mark on the calendar with bright +crayon, you and he will go there. Let him see one of the little white +beds where he will sleep after you return home, the sunny dining room +where he will eat his morning porridge and his Sunday ice cream; the +playground full of rollicksome youngsters, with whom he will seesaw and +play tag by and by, and the busy schoolroom, where so many delightful +and interesting things are sure to happen.</p> + +<p>Talk about all these things often and brightly<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_87" id="Page_87">[Pg 87]</a></span> and you will find that +school has become a most desirable and fascinating place, and that every +night there will be a great satisfaction in climbing on a chair to +scratch off from the calendar another day done before the joy of going +there.</p> + +<p>Then you can buy such delightful things to be put into that waiting +trunk—things often to be looked at, but never to be used till that +wonderful place is reached—long red and blue pencils, with rubbers on +the ends; boxes of writing paper, all gay with pictures and exactly +right for the first letters home; a foot rule, and, if you are a truly +brave mother, a real jackknife to sharpen the same red and blue pencils +and add to the joy of living.</p> + +<p>It is absorbing work, too, to mark them all with one's name, so they may +never be mistaken for any other little boy's property, and to make a +place for a new toy or two, though if you are wise you will not buy many +playthings now, but will save them to send later, one by one, by parcel +post, to be received with a joy it is a pity you cannot be there to +see,<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_88" id="Page_88">[Pg 88]</a></span> it will be so out of proportion to any other pleasure you could +give by such simple means.</p> + +<p>Of course, you must have some kodak pictures taken—ever so many of +them—showing the family, the house, and the pets, as well as the boy +himself. These are to be kept, too, to go in letters. They will be not +only very precious possessions, but if they are labeled carefully they +will be extremely useful in the classroom when your boy begins to learn +to speak the names of the people at home.</p> + +<p>Since they are to be used for this double purpose, be sure that each +member of the family group is very distinctly marked, or the names of +Aunt Mary and sister Helen may get hopelessly mixed in the boy's mind!</p> + +<p>Finally, the last little garment and the last package is in the trunk, +the last day is scratched off the calendar, and the boy himself is on +the train. And now let me tell you something that you will not +believe—that you will even resent, but which is perfectly true, and +which I hope will comfort you a little when you<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_89" id="Page_89">[Pg 89]</a></span> say good-by to the +boy—and that is this: it really is very unusual for a little child from +five to eight years old to be homesick at school. There are so many +distractions, so many new and curious things to see, so many interesting +things to do, and there are so many other children all friendly and all +happy, that even if your boy cries when you leave him, the probabilities +are high that before you reach the station he will be playing—shyly or +uproariously, as temperament may decide—but certainly happily, with +some new-found friend.</p> + +<p>One of the most delightful things about a school for deaf children is +the way all the other pupils welcome, pet, and look out for a newcomer. +Every one makes much of him, and it would be hard indeed to be lonely +long in the midst of so much attention and friendliness.</p> + +<p>And now a word about letters.</p> + +<p>Before you sent the boy to school I hope you didn't fail to teach him to +recognize the written names of the different members of the family, so +that he might be sure to understand<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_90" id="Page_90">[Pg 90]</a></span> whom his first letters came from. +And don't forget that he will be eager for letters! Too many mothers +feel that it is useless to write to their children during their first +year away from them. They are so sure that no word from them can be +understood that they content themselves with sending inquiries to the +proper authorities, and an occasional picture postcard to the children +themselves, and fail to realize how soon their little boy or girl grasps +the fact that the other children have real letters in envelopes, and +that these come from home, or how sharp a disappointment it is when day +after day goes by and brings them nothing.</p> + +<p>If you could see, as I have seen, a letter, so worn that it was cracked +on all its folds and dingy with much handling, carried day after day +inside a little blouse, or guimpe, and put under the pillows every +night, you would understand a little what those pieces of paper, covered +with very imperfectly understood characters, but carrying love and +remembrance from home, mean, even before the children can<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_91" id="Page_91">[Pg 91]</a></span> read them. +And very soon, if you are an observant mother, your child will really be +able to read them.</p> + +<p>For example, your boy's first letter may be something like this:</p> + +<blockquote><p>"<span class="smcap">Dear Mamma</span>:</p> + +<p>"I am well. I love you. <span class="smcap">Harry</span>."</p></blockquote> + +<p>When you answer it you might say, with the certainty that every word +would be understood:</p> + +<blockquote><p>"<span class="smcap">Dear Harry</span>:</p> + +<p>"Mamma loves you. Papa is well. Mamma and Papa love you.</p> + +<p>"Good-by. <span class="smcap">Mamma</span>."</p></blockquote> + +<p>Not a very satisfactory letter, do you say? Perhaps not to you, but most +delightful and understandable to the little boy to whom it is written. +And if a little later you follow it with another containing one of the +kodak pictures of the cat, with "Tommy" written under it, accompanying +such a note as this, not only your little boy, but his teacher will +bless you:<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_92" id="Page_92">[Pg 92]</a></span></p> + +<blockquote><p>"<span class="smcap">Dear Harry</span>:</p> + +<p>"Mamma is well. Papa is well. Mamma and Papa love you. Tommy loves +you, too. Tommy is the cat. Tommy wants to see you.</p> + +<p>"Good-by. <span class="smcap">Mamma</span>."</p></blockquote> + +<p>I have written these two notes not as models to be copied, but to show +you how with a little thought and care you may ring the changes on +almost every sentence that your boy learns; and make use of every new +word, giving him a great deal of pleasure and helping to fix the phrases +in his mind and to make him realize that they are really valuable +additions to his means of communication. But I do not mean that you +should confine your letters entirely to words and sentences that the +child already knows. In fact, new expressions, if they are short and +simple, and if the main part of your letter is made up of things the +child understands at once, will add very much to the interest of your +letter. He will be eager to know what the strange words mean, and the +new<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_93" id="Page_93">[Pg 93]</a></span> nouns, verbs, and adjectives will go immediately to swell his +vocabulary.</p> + +<p>Like any child just learning to talk, your little boy will at first use +nouns, when later he will use pronouns, so in your earliest letters to +him you will be surer of making yourself understood if you do the same. +Probably, too, with the exception of two or three sentences like "I am +well. I love you," you will notice that all his statements are written +in the past tense, and that will be a guide to you to confine your own +remarks to the past, for the most part, till you notice that he has +begun to use the future and the present himself. Watch his letters +carefully and adapt your own language forms to his.</p> + +<p>There are two things that, as a general rule, I would advise you not to +write about, and these are any illnesses in the family and—that supreme +joy of school life—the box you are planning to send.</p> + +<p>My reasons for this taboo are that even very little children are often +made unhappy and<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_94" id="Page_94">[Pg 94]</a></span> anxious, sometimes for days, if they know there is +sickness at home, while in the second place boxes are so often delayed +that they become the source of much disturbance of mind when the +expressman fails to bring them.</p> + +<p>I knew a little girl who watched every delivery for a week and cried +after every one because the box her mother had promised her did not +appear. So let illness and boxes go unmentioned till you can write +something like this, "Papa was sick last week. He is well now. He goes +to the office every day." And after the box has had time to reach its +destination you can say, "Mamma sent a box to you Wednesday. She put two +handkerchiefs, some new shoes, six oranges, and some money in the box. +Papa gave the money to you."</p> + +<p>If you are like most mothers, before many weeks have gone by you will be +eager to visit your boy and see for yourself how he is getting on; +whether he is really as happy as the letters from school assure you he +is; what he is learning in class, and whether he has blankets<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_95" id="Page_95">[Pg 95]</a></span> enough on +his bed and sugar enough on his oatmeal.</p> + +<p>But before the letter announcing the day of your arrival is posted or +your ticket is bought, sit down by the fire and think the matter over.</p> + +<p>You have confidence in the school, else you would never have sent your +boy there; and you have been told repeatedly either that the little +fellow is happy and well or, it may be, that he was rather homesick at +first, but has now settled down to a very comfortable and contented +state of mind and is doing well in class.</p> + +<p>Now, if you go to see him too soon after he has left home there will +really be a good deal more danger that the boy will be homesick after +you leave him than there was when you took him to school in September, +even if he has been quite happy up to the time of your visit.</p> + +<p>In the first place, he will think, drawing his conclusions from visits +that he may have made before, that school is over and that you have<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_96" id="Page_96">[Pg 96]</a></span> +come to take him home. So it will be a great surprise and shock when you +go away without him. And in any case, after the separation of some +weeks, his love for you will make him want to be with you, and he will +really suffer when you say good-by.</p> + +<p>So, if I were you, I would wait till after the Christmas holidays before +going for my visit. By that time he will be fully settled in his new +life and will look on it as an established part of existence. He will +know from observation that other mothers come for a little while and +then go home again without taking their children with them, and his +advance in understanding will make it much easier to explain to him that +your visit is temporary and will not make any radical change in his own +life.</p> + +<p>The delay will mean a good deal of self-sacrifice for you, but may very +possibly save your boy from a sharp attack of homesickness, while later +in the year this danger will usually have disappeared, and your visit +will bring nothing but pleasure to you both and will help<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_97" id="Page_97">[Pg 97]</a></span> to make +school what you want it to be—a place where all sorts of delightful +things are constantly sure to happen.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_98" id="Page_98">[Pg 98]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="XXV" id="XXV"></a>XXV</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">During the School Period</span></h3> + +<p>But the opportunities and obligations of the parents of deaf children to +aid in their education by no means cease when the children enter school.</p> + +<p>Throughout the entire period of school life, and even after their +children leave school, the parents can be of very great assistance to +them. During the time that the school is in session, if the child is +away from home, the parents should write not less than once a week, and +oftener if possible. These letters should contain all the little +happenings at home, no matter how insignificant and uninteresting they +may seem. If these things are expressed in simple language, using short +sentences and common words, the letters will be one of the most +efficient means of aiding the children to an ability to read, that the +teacher possesses.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_99" id="Page_99">[Pg 99]</a></span> The child is full of eager curiosity to know the +smallest details of the familiar home life. He will exert his mind more +to dig out the meaning of the language of home letters than he will to +understand a story in a reader. Miss Worcester has suggested one or two +little letters that would do during the first half year at school. By +the beginning of the second year it would be helpful if the letters read +something like this:</p> + +<blockquote><p>"<span class="smcap">My Dear Boy</span>:</p> + +<p>"We got your nice letter. Thank you for it. We always like to know +what you do at school. We like to know the names of your +schoolmates. We are glad when you tell us about your books and your +teachers. Mother, Tom, Jane and I are well. We talk about you +often. We are glad you can go to school. A cat frightened the hens. +The hens ran. The cat was naughty. I drove the cat away. I think +the cat wanted to eat the little chickens.</p> + +<p>"Tom hid behind the door. He jumped out quickly. He frightened +Jane. She screamed. He laughed. Jane cried. Mother scolded Tom +because he made Jane cry. Tom said Jane was a baby.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_100" id="Page_100">[Pg 100]</a></span> Jane said Tom +was a bad boy. Then Jane laughed. She forgave Tom. Tom said he was +sorry.</p> + +<p>"We all love you.</p> + +<p>"Good-by.</p> + +<p class='right'>"Your loving <br /> +"<span class="smcap">Father</span>."</p></blockquote> + +<p>Each year the letters can be a little more grown up and they should +always be frequent.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_101" id="Page_101">[Pg 101]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="XXVI" id="XXVI"></a>XXVI</h2> + +<h3><span class="smcap">During Vacation</span></h3> + +<p>When vacation time comes and the children come home for the summer, the +home folks will probably have some trouble at first in understanding +their imperfect speech. Do not be discouraged. The speech will steadily +improve from year to year, and you will soon be able to comprehend it, +even when it is very faulty. But do not accept from the child anything +except the best speech he is capable of. When the boy first arrives you +will, probably, not know just how much to expect of him. To begin with, +it will do him no harm to ask him to repeat what he says, even if you +really did understand him the first time. He will probably speak much +more distinctly the second time than he did the first, and you will see +that you can demand of him more than you at first thought he could do. +He will not be dis<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_102" id="Page_102">[Pg 102]</a></span>couraged by being asked to repeat. He is used to it. +The price of good speech, like the price of liberty, is eternal +vigilance. During the school period, teachers and parents should give +unremitting attention to demanding of the children, <i>every time they +speak</i>, the best enunciation of which they are at that time capable.</p> + +<p>If you do not understand the boy, or he does not understand you, do not +let him resort to gestures, nor use them yourself. Give him pencil and +paper, if necessary. It will not be necessary often or long, and each +day occasions of difficulty will grow fewer.</p> + +<p>Provide some useful and helpful occupation for the child for at least a +part of each day. Do not let him play at random all the time. Continue a +certain regularity of life in the matter of meals and getting up and +going to bed. Insist upon respectful behavior and good manners. He has +these demanded of him at school. Do not let him return in the fall +having lost much that he had gained during the preceding year.<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_103" id="Page_103">[Pg 103]</a></span></p> + +<p>When he is at home keep him in touch with the activities and the topics +of discussion in the family circle. Do not let him withdraw or feel shut +out. This will take a good deal of effort and self-denial and patience, +but in the long run it will repay the parents. Failure to do this will +eventually bring sorrow to all concerned. Train the other children to do +their share of this. Insist upon their telling the deaf one their plans +and their doings. Unless some care is taken he will see the others going +without knowing where or why, he will sometimes lose pleasures because +he did not hear the talk that was going on around him and no one thought +to tell him. This has a tendency to make him bitter and unsocial.</p> + +<p>From the very beginning of spoken intercourse with the deaf child the +greatest care should be taken to speak <span class="smcap">naturally</span> to him. Avoid entirely +all exaggeration of lip movement and mouth opening. Speak a little +slowly, perhaps, and always distinctly, but never with facial +contortions and waving hands. The<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_104" id="Page_104">[Pg 104]</a></span> aim of his oral training is to enable +him to understand the ordinary speech of people when they speak to him, +and to do this he requires an immense amount of practice, just as the +hearing child requires a great deal of practice for years before he can +understand what people are saying to him. If you speak to him in a +different way from that employed when speaking to others he will learn +to understand that, but not your ordinary manner of speaking. He will +also imitate it himself. The Chinaman speaks and understands only +"Pidgin" English because only "Pidgin" English has been used in +communicating with him. If people had spoken to the Chinaman as they do +to other people he would have gradually acquired good English.</p> + +<p>So it is with the deaf child. If you want him to gradually learn to +understand the ordinary intercourse of life, you must exercise him in it +for years. You must not expect him to get much at first, any more than +you expect the baby to understand to start with. But<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_105" id="Page_105">[Pg 105]</a></span> each month he will +gain more, and by the time he is sixteen or seventeen he will have very +nearly overtaken his hearing brother. But if you always address him with +a yawning mouth and flopping tongue and lips, and use deaf-mute English +to him, he will progress in his understanding and use of that, but it is +not what you wish him to acquire. Be patient, be gentle, be untiring and +unremitting in your efforts, but <span class="smcap">be natural</span>. <i>Keep your eyes on his eyes +and speak only when his gaze is upon your face.</i></p> + +<p class='tbrk'> </p> + +<p>Before closing I ought to say that (more is the pity) there are many +persons who live by trading upon the ignorance and credulity of the +unfortunate. The deaf and the friends of the deaf fall an easy prey to +the advertisements of quack remedies, ear drums, etc., that are always +useless and sometimes actually dangerous. The American Medical +Association has had the courage to issue a pamphlet in which these fake +cures are described and ex<span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_106" id="Page_106">[Pg 106]</a></span>posed, and every deaf person, and parent of a +deaf child, should have one of these pamphlets. The title is "Deafness +Cure Fakes," and can be obtained by writing to the American Medical +Association, 535 North Dearborn Street, Chicago, Illinois.</p> + +<p>Any one who has read these pages will easily see that the suggestions +are all aimed to secure for the deaf a treatment similar in kind, though +somewhat different in degree, to that accorded the normal hearing +person. The tendency has been to differentiate the deaf too much from +the hearing. By adopting the procedure of pure oralism, effectively +applied under <i>real oral conditions</i>, uncontaminated, during the +educational period from five to twenty years of age, by finger spelling +or signs, the deaf will be far more fully restored to a normal position +in the social and industrial world than they can ever be by the silent +methods at present so largely used during their most impressionable +years.</p> + +<hr /> +<p><span class='pagenum'><a name="Page_107" id="Page_107">[Pg 107]</a></span></p> +<h2><a name="XXVII" id="XXVII"></a>XXVII</h2> + +<h3>SOME NOTS</h3> + +<p>Do not be downcast.</p> + +<p>Deafness does not, necessarily, bring dumbness.</p> + +<p>Do not consider the deaf child as different from other children.</p> + +<p>Do not cease talking to him.</p> + +<p>Do not speak with exaggerated facial movements.</p> + +<p>Do not exempt him from the duties and tasks and obedience properly +demanded of all children.</p> + +<p>Do not let him grow selfish.</p> + +<p>Do not let him grow indifferent.</p> + +<p>Do not be in haste.</p> + +<p>Do not show impatience.</p> + + + + + + + + +<pre> + + + + + +End of the Project Gutenberg EBook of What the Mother of a Deaf Child Ought +to Know, by John Dutton Wright + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK MOTHER OF A DEAF CHILD *** + +***** This file should be named 18439-h.htm or 18439-h.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + http://www.gutenberg.org/1/8/4/3/18439/ + +Produced by Kathryn Lybarger, Martin Pettit and the Online +Distributed Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: What the Mother of a Deaf Child Ought to Know + +Author: John Dutton Wright + +Release Date: May 23, 2006 [EBook #18439] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ASCII + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK MOTHER OF A DEAF CHILD *** + + + + +Produced by Kathryn Lybarger, Martin Pettit and the Online +Distributed Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net + + + + + + + WHAT THE MOTHER OF A + DEAF CHILD OUGHT TO KNOW + + BY + + JOHN DUTTON WRIGHT + +FOUNDER AND PRINCIPAL OF THE WRIGHT ORAL SCHOOL FOR THE + DEAF, NEW YORK CITY; COLLABORATOR OF "THE LARYNGO- + SCOPE" AND THE "VOLTA REVIEW"; DIRECTOR OF THE + AMERICAN ASSOCIATION TO PROMOTE THE TEACHING + OF SPEECH TO THE DEAF; AUTHOR OF "EDUCA- + TIONAL NEEDS OF THE DEAF," FOR THE + GUIDANCE OF PHYSICIANS + + [Illustration: Logo] + + NEW YORK + FREDERICK A. STOKES COMPANY + PUBLISHERS + + + _Copyright, 1915, by_ + + FREDERICK A. STOKES COMPANY + + _All rights reserved, including that of translation + into foreign languages_ + + _March, 1915_ + + + TO MY WIFE + + AT WHOSE SUGGESTION THIS LITTLE BOOK + WAS WRITTEN IN ORDER THAT MOTHERS + MAY DO ALL IN THEIR POWER FOR + THEIR DEAF CHILDREN + + + + +CONTENTS + +CHAPTER PAGE + PREFACE ix-xix + + I. FACING THE FACTS 1 + + II. HOW SHALL THE MOTHER BEGIN HER PART OF THE WORK? 5 + + III. HOW SHALL THE MOTHER GET INTO COMMUNICATION + WITH HER DEAF CHILD? 13 + + IV. WHAT ABOUT THE BABY'S SPEECH? 20 + + V. DEVELOPING THE MENTAL FACULTIES 22 + + VI. DEVELOPING THE LUNGS 30 + + VII. THE CULTIVATION OF CREATIVE IMAGINATION 32 + + VIII. FURTHER TESTS OF HEARING 34 + + IX. THE DEVELOPMENT OF RESIDUAL HEARING 38 + + X. DEVELOPING THE POWER OF LIP-READING 43 + + XI. FORMING CHARACTER 47 + + XII. CULTIVATING THE SOCIAL INSTINCT 50 + + XIII. SOMETHING ABOUT SCHOOLS AND METHODS 53 + + XIV. THE PRESERVATION OF SPEECH. WHEN DEAFNESS + RESULTS FROM ACCIDENT OR ILLNESS AFTER INFANCY 58 + + XV. TEACHING LIP-READING 61 + + XVI. SCHOOL AGE 63 + + XVII. ORGANIZED EFFORTS BY PARENTS TO OBTAIN + BETTER EDUCATIONAL CONDITIONS 65 + +XVIII. A PERSONAL MATTER FOR EACH PARENT 68 + + XIX. DAY SCHOOLS 72 + + XX. THE DEAF CHILD AT FIVE YEARS OF AGE 73 + + XXI. SCHOOLS FOR THE HEARING AND PRIVATE GOVERNESSES 75 + + XXII. IMPORTANCE OF THE BEGINNING 80 + +XXIII. AVOID THE YOUNG AND INEXPERIENCED TEACHER 82 + + XXIV. ON ENTERING SCHOOL 83 + + XXV. DURING THE SCHOOL PERIOD 98 + + XXVI. DURING VACATION 101 + +XXVII. SOME NOTS 107 + + + + +PREFACE + + +The mother of a little deaf child once wrote as follows: + + + "As a mother of a deaf child, and one whose experience has been + unusual only in that it has been more fortunate than that of the + average mother so situated, I want to place before you (the + teachers of the deaf) a plea for the education of the parents of + little deaf children. + + "While you are laboring for the education of the deaf, and for + their sakes are training teachers to carry on the work, there are, + in almost every home that shelters a little deaf child, blunders + being made that will retard his development and hinder your work + for years to come--blunders that a little timely advice might + prevent. We parents are not willfully ignorant, not always stupidly + so; but that we are in most cases densely so, there can be no + doubt. + + "Can you for the moment put yourselves into our place? Suppose you + are just the ordinary American parents, perhaps living far from the + center of things. You know in a hazy way that there are deaf and + blind and other afflicted people--perhaps you have seen some of + them. + + "Now, into your home comes disease or a sudden awakening to the + meaning of existing conditions, and you find that _your_ child is + _deaf_. + + "At first your thought is of physicians; they fail you. Advice from + friends and advertisements from quacks pour in upon you; still you + find no comfort and no help. + + "You stop talking to the child. What is the use? He cannot hear + you! You pity him--oh, infinitely! And your pity takes the form of + indulgence. You love him and you long to understand him; but you + cannot interpret him and he feels the change, the helplessness in + your attitude toward him. You try one thing after another, + floundering desperately in your effort to discover what radical + step must be taken to meet this emergency. After a time you seize + upon the idea that seems to you the best. Probably it is to wait + until he is six or seven and then put him into an institution. But + while you wait for school age to arrive, you lose that close touch + with the soul of your child which may be established only in these + early years, for you have no adequate means of communication with + him--no way to win his confidence. Soon the child has passed this + stage, and no school can ever give him what you might and would + have given had you known how. + + "You who are trained teachers of the deaf can hardly realize the + need of advice about matters perfectly obvious to YOU; but the need + exists. May I tell you from my own experience a few of the things + about which you might advise--you, who know! + + "In the first place, suggest to parents that they make simple + tests of their children's hearing; and tell them how and why those + who are _partially_ deaf should be helped. + + "Then tell them to talk, and talk, and talk, to their little deaf + ones--to say everything and say it naturally. And tell them some + things in particular that should be said--commands, etc., and + _certainly_ 'I love you.' Tell them to speak in whole sentences. + Give them an idea of the possibilities of lip-reading. + + "Tell them that _by the expression of the face_ they may convey to + the deaf child the interest, approval, disapproval, etc., that they + would express to a hearing child in the tone of voice. + + "Tell them that there is _rarely_ an untrained person who can + _safely_ meddle with articulation. + + "Tell them that it is not true that all deaf children are bad; that + the deaf must learn obedience as others do. + + "Tell them the many things which you wish your pupils had learned + before they entered school. + + "Only this I beg of you--tell them! + "LUCILE M. MOORE." + + +For the sake of presenting the ideas contained in this little book in a +somewhat systematic manner it was best to arrange them on the +supposition that they would come to the notice of the mothers while +their children were yet less than two years of age. In many cases, +however, this will not be the case. When, therefore, the child is three, +four, or five years old when this falls into the hands of the mother, it +would still be well if she carried out the suggestions in the order in +which they are here arranged. With the maturity of mind and body that +comes with the added years, the child can pass through the earlier +stages of the training much more rapidly than can be the case with the +baby. Nevertheless, the preliminary steps should not be omitted. A child +of four can be carried in six months through the exercises that occupied +two years when begun with the child of twelve months, but the older +child should not be started with exercises suggested for the years after +two. + +Mothers of deaf children cannot be expected to be trained teachers of +the deaf. It would be useless, and, in fact, often unfortunate, to ask +them to attempt to teach articulation to their children. Even for them +to teach the children to write would usually be undesirable because the +greatest gain from the mother's efforts comes from the early +establishment of the speech-reading habit and _entire_ dependence upon +it. It is a very great help to have this habit fixed before writing is +taught. There is no haste about the child's learning to write. That is +easily and quickly accomplished when the proper time comes. The +difficult thing to do is, very fortunately, the thing the mother is best +fitted to accomplish, namely, to create in the child the ability to +interpret speech by means of the eye, and the habit of expecting to get +ideas by watching the face of a speaker. + +With these ideas in mind there has been careful avoidance in this +little book of any suggestion that the mother should be anxious about +the speech development of the child before five years of age. If she has +the patience and the time to follow the directions given, she will have +done her child a very great service; the greatest that lies within her +power; and she will have laid the foundation for a more rapid and better +development of speech than would have been possible without her +preliminary training. + +Not every mother will find it possible to carry out all the suggestions +offered in this little book, but no one should feel discouraged on that +account. It seemed best to offer too many suggestions rather than too +few, because these pages may fall into the hands of some mothers whose +situation is such that full advantage can be taken of every idea here +given. Presence of too much matter in the little book will not destroy +its usefulness in cases where only a portion can be applied, whereas the +lack of some of the ideas might limit its value in certain instances. +No one should give up in despair just because it is not possible to do +all that is here suggested. Something, at least, can be found here which +it is possible to do that will help very much. + +Sometimes, through a false sense of shame, or through ignorance of the +possibilities open to a deaf child, mothers have refused to admit that +their children were deaf, or to allow anything to be done for them, +until very valuable time has been lost. This is unfair to the child, and +very wrong. A mother should have only pity for the deaf child and +eagerness to aid him to overcome his handicap so far as possible. Delay +in frankly facing the facts and in taking all possible measures to +develop the remaining faculties will in the end only increase the +mother's shame and add to it the pangs of remorse. + +In a little book written to guide physicians in advising parents of deaf +children, I said: + +"The situation of a deaf child differs very much, from an educational +standpoint, from that of the little hearing child. Two hours a day +playing educational games in a kindergarten is as much as is usually +given, or is needful, for the little hearing child up to six or seven +years of age; and his mental development and success in after life will +not be seriously endangered if even that is omitted and he does not +begin to go to school until he is eight or nine. The hearing child of +eight who has never been in school and cannot read or write has, +nevertheless, without conscious effort, mastered the two most important +educational tasks in life. He has learned to speak and has acquired the +greater part of his working vocabulary. In other words, although he has +never been across the threshold of a school, his education is well +advanced for his years and mental development. + +"The situation of the uninstructed deaf child of eight is very +different. The task which it has taken the hearing child eight years to +accomplish, the deaf child of eight has not even begun. He cannot speak +a word; he does not even know that there is such a thing as a word. He +is eight years behind his hearing brother, and even if he starts now, +unless some means can be found for aiding him to overtake his brother +educationally, he will be only eight years old in education when he is +sixteen years of age. And when he is sixteen, the psychological period +will have passed for acquiring what he should have learned when he was +eight. The fact that the child is deaf does not exempt him from the +inexorable laws of mental psychology and heredity. In the development of +the human mind there is a certain period when all conditions are +favorable for the acquisition of speech and language. Unnumbered +generations of ancestors acquired speech and language at that stage of +their mental development, and this little deaf descendant's mind obeys +the law of inherited tendencies. + +"If the speech and language-learning period, from two years of age to +ten, is allowed to pass unimproved, the task of learning them later is +rendered unnecessarily difficult. + +"Therefore, in the case of the little deaf child, the years from two to +ten are crucial, and of far greater importance than the same period in +the case of the hearing child." + +Even though the child be totally deaf from birth, he can nevertheless be +taught to speak and to understand when others speak to him. He can be +given the same education that he would be capable of mastering if he +could hear. The mother need not be despairing nor heart-broken. A +prompt, brave, and intelligent facing of the situation will result in +making the child one to be proud of and to lean upon. + + JOHN D. WRIGHT. + +1 Mount Morris Park, West, New York City. +February, 1915. + + + + +WHAT THE MOTHER OF A DEAF CHILD OUGHT TO KNOW + +(_Mothers are strongly advised to read the Preface_) + + + + +I + +FACING THE FACTS + + +While deafness is a serious misfortune, it is neither a sin, nor a +disgrace, to be ashamed of. It is a handicap, to be sure, but one to be +bravely and cheerfully faced, for it does not destroy the chances for +happiness and success. It is cause for neither discouragement nor +despair. It will demand patient devotion and courageous effort to +overcome the disadvantage, but what mother is not willing to show these +in large measure for her child when the future holds assurance of +comfort and usefulness? + +The earlier that the facts are known and squarely faced, the better. It +is always wiser in life to prepare for the worst and gratefully accept +the best, than to refuse to acknowledge the possibility of the worst +until it is too late to remedy it, or at least to reduce it to its +lowest terms. + +When a mother first suspects that her child's hearing is not perfectly +normal, what should she do? Of course, first of all, the best available +ear specialist should be consulted at once in order to determine whether +the cause can be removed and normal hearing restored. Sometimes, +however, the specialists are uncertain of the outcome, and sometimes +their hopes are not realized. In the meantime, precious days and weeks +are passing in which something could be done for the little one +educationally, without in any way interfering with the medical efforts +at relief. The two things can be, and should be, carried on +simultaneously. If normal hearing is restored no harm has been done by +the educational training; in fact, the development of the child has been +advanced. On the other hand, if the hopes that were entertained are +disappointed, then precious and irrecoverable time has not been lost. + +The title presupposes that the mother has already accepted the fact that +her child's hearing is not perfect, and, for the sake of the child, it +is to be hoped that this knowledge came to her very promptly after the +occurrence of the deafness. + +One would naturally expect a mother, of her own accord, to carefully +test all the senses of her child by many simple and repeated exercises +during the first few months of its life. The many cases, however, in +which deafness on the part of a child has not been recognized, or at +least not acknowledged, by the mother till the third, fourth, or even +fifth year, show a strange neglect of a highly desirable investigation, +and a natural unwillingness to accept a truth, the possibility of which +must certainly have occurred to her long before. + +If she could only realize that she need not feel downcast and +heavy-hearted by reason of her little one's imperfect hearing; if she +could only know that she need not look forward to a life for him +different from that of other children; if she could understand that +training and education can enable him to overcome to an extraordinary +degree the disadvantage of deafness, she would set about the task with +cheerfulness and hope, and if she knew that the sooner she began, the +better it would be for the little one, she would not stubbornly refuse +for so long to acknowledge even the possibility of deafness. + + + + +II + +HOW SHALL THE MOTHER BEGIN HER PART OF THE WORK? + + +First of all, something like an inventory should be taken of the +faculties possessed by the child which he can use in working out his +problem. Has he good sight, normal smell, taste, muscular sense, and +memory? To what extent is his hearing impaired? Is there any possibility +of restoring it to normal acuteness, or of improving it, or of +preventing any further impairment? + +The completeness with which these questions can be answered depends, to +a considerable extent, on his age and his physical condition. We will +suppose that he is about fifteen months old and in good bodily +condition. If he is older, the same tests would be used to begin with, +though we could at once pass on to more complicated and difficult ones +that cannot as yet be used with the fifteen-months-old baby. + +First, with regard to sight. We wish to know if he can distinguish +reasonably small objects at reasonable distances; whether he can see +moderately small things at short distances; whether the angle of his +vision is normal. In other words, whether his range and angle of vision +are sufficient for all ordinary purposes. + +If he can recognize his father or mother or brothers and sisters at a +distance of a hundred feet he can see far enough for all practical +purposes. If he readily finds a small object like a pin or a small black +bead when dropped on the floor, his sight is sharp enough at short range +to serve his purposes. If his attention can be attracted by waving a +hand or a little flag or a flower fifty or sixty degrees on either side +of the direction in which he is looking, that is, two-thirds of the way +to the side of his head, his angle of vision is sufficiently wide. If he +can pick out from seven balls of worsted of the seven primary +colors--red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo, and violet--the ball +that matches another of the same color, he is at least not color-blind +and has a sufficient sense of color for the ordinary purposes of life. +It may be necessary to wait till eighteen months for a satisfactory +color test. Color blindness, when present, is usually most apparent in a +failure to distinguish between red and green, these two widely differing +colors seeming to produce the same impression upon the color-blind eye. +The child will be just as likely to choose a red ball to match the green +one in his hand as to select another red ball. But repeated tests should +be made before accepting color blindness as a fact, since sometimes the +brain can be educated to discriminate between red and green even when +the impressions have not the normal degree of difference. + +The tests for taste, smell, muscular sense, touch, and memory cannot be +made with much thoroughness or satisfaction till two years of age, +though observation will show a recognition by taste and smell of that +which is agreeable and that which is disagreeable. Accurate tests of +hearing cannot be made till the child is three or four, but it is +possible when he is twelve months old to determine whether the hearing +is normal or is seriously impaired, and it is very desirable that this +should be done. + +The expression "seriously impaired," when applied to the hearing of a +little child, must be given an entirely different interpretation than it +would have if used with reference to an adult who had previously had +normal hearing. A degree of impairment that would be unimportant in an +adult is a very serious matter in the case of a child. This is because +the ear is the natural teacher of speech and language. If the sounds of +speech are not clearly heard the imitation of them will always be +imperfect, and the acquisition of language will be impeded. If deafness +is so great that spoken words are not heard at all, then the child will +not learn to speak and to understand when spoken to unless specially +taught. A much slighter degree of deafness will prevent the proper +acquisition of speech and language than would in later life prevent the +comprehension of conversation in a familiar language. As even the child +of fifteen months would benefit from some modifications of the ordinary +treatment of a baby, if his hearing was not normally acute, it is to his +advantage to have the fact of his deafness known at once by those in +charge of him. + +It is not as easy as it might seem to the inexperienced to determine +even approximately the situation of a fifteen-months-old baby with +respect to its hearing. Our interest here is, of course, in the tests of +hearing that do not require special apparatus and special training. In +the case of a child less than two years of age we must rely upon merely +attracting his attention by various sounds, judging the effect upon him +by his expression and actions. We cannot, at that age, establish a +system of responses, nor expect him to imitate the sounds he hears. +Sounds should be used for testing that disturb only the air, and are +not sufficiently low and powerful to set in vibration the floor, chair, +or any other object with which he may be in contact. Deaf children +rapidly become abnormally sensitive to vibrations, which are to them +what noises are to us. A rather smooth, not too shrill, whistle is one +excellent sound to use. Not a fluttering whistle like the postman's, nor +a heavy tone like an organ pipe or bass horn. Clapping the hands is a +good initial test of a crude nature; then a moderate whistle, varying +the pitch, for sometimes high sounds are perceived, but not low ones, or +vice versa. Then a bell, such as a small table bell, the telephone, +electric door bell, etc. Lastly, the human voice in various pitches, +volumes, distances, and vowels. Little by little it can be determined +whether the child hears all the sounds, and if not, then which, if any, +he perceives. A totally deaf child may often deceive the investigator by +turning his head at the critical moment, apparently in response to the +sound that was made, while, on the other hand, a child very slightly +deaf, or not deaf at all, may completely ignore the sounds made for the +purpose of attracting his attention. Therefore, it takes time and +repeated tests under varying environments to gradually eliminate +possible errors and coincidences. + +It must be remembered that the intensity with which a sound affects the +ear varies inversely as the square of the distance from the ear to the +source of the sound. That is to say, if exactly the same sound is +repeated at half the distance, the intensity with which it reaches the +ear is four times as great as before, and if the distance is quartered, +the intensity is sixteen times as great. In other words, if "ah" is +spoken with a certain loudness eight inches from the child's ear, and +then again with exactly the same pitch and volume only two inches from +his ear, it will be sixteen times as loud to him as it was the first +time. + +These simple tests will serve to determine whether the child has, or has +not, a normal acuteness of hearing. They will not serve to determine +with any accuracy the degree of impairment, if it is found that the +hearing is impaired at all. More thorough tests will have to be +postponed till the child is two years old or more. But the moment that +impaired hearing is suspected, the best available ear specialist should +be consulted in order to determine whether the cause can be removed, or +measures taken to prevent a progressive increase in deafness. + +The visit to the otologist should be repeated at intervals of not more +than eight or ten months, even where there is no question of treatment, +in order that any change in the physical condition of the organs may be +promptly detected. + + + + +III + +HOW SHALL THE MOTHER GET INTO COMMUNICATION WITH HER DEAF CHILD? + + +Let it be assumed that when the child is fifteen months old it is fairly +well established that his hearing is somewhat below normal. Between +fifteen months and two years of age all that is said in this section +will apply equally to the child who is _feared_ to be _totally_ deaf and +to one who is known to possess some sound perception, though not a +normal degree of hearing. For, until he is old enough to respond to more +complete and accurate tests, we must not give up the idea that he may +have a sufficient remnant of hearing to be of great assistance to him in +the acquisition of speech and language, if it is only developed and +trained. + +Between the ages of twelve months and twenty-four months the child with +perfect hearing makes rapid progress in learning to understand what is +said to him, and by the time he is two years old has usually begun to +speak many words and sentences in a more or less imperfect way. This has +been accomplished principally by the mother's constant talking to her +baby. If she has had the good sense to always speak in simple but +complete sentences, and to avoid the foolish "baby talk" unfortunately +affected by some people in addressing little children, the results of +her daily and hourly talk is the possession by the child of a +considerable vocabulary of words whose meaning he knows, and a less +number that he is able himself to speak in a rather imperfect way. + +In what respects should the mother modify her treatment of the baby if +she suspects that his hearing is defective? She should not talk to him +any the less on this account, but, on the contrary, she should talk to +him more. She should, however, speak a little louder, a little nearer to +him, possibly a little more slowly and distinctly, exercising the +greatest caution, however, not to exaggerate speech into unnatural +facial contortions, or to accompany it by gestures. To fall into the +habit of mouthing and gesticulating, making faces and motions, will +defeat entirely the purpose of all efforts to develop an understanding +of speech by the child. Unfortunately, such exaggerated and absurd +speech is a natural and very prevalent fault. To avoid it is absolutely +necessary, but requires constant watchfulness, as there is a strong +temptation to try to make speech-reading easy for the child by opening +the mouth wide and making extraordinary movements of the tongue. + +The object aimed at is to lead the child to interpret natural, everyday +speech, and such facial contortions and exaggerations cut him off from +practice in reading natural speech. This point cannot be too strongly +emphasized. Speak naturally and normally _always_ to the deaf child. + +Above all, the mother should form the habit of watching his eyes and of +speaking as often as possible when his gaze is fixed upon her face. The +habit on his part of looking at the face of a speaker, and the habit on +his mother's part of observing his gaze and, when it wanders, of pausing +in her talk till he is looking at her again, are two very valuable aids +in the language development of the deaf child. In addition to always +raising her voice a little in speaking to her baby, the mother should +several times a day take him in her lap and sing to him, and talk to him +with her lips not far from his ear. Talk to him just as all mothers do +to their babies (but not with the mangled and distorted words called +"baby talk"), about the pussy, the dog, the bird, his foot, his toes, +his arms and hands and fingers; about his papa, brothers, sisters; about +the flowers, the grass, the trees, and a thousand other things. Say the +good old Mother Goose rhymes of "Patty Cake, Patty Cake, Baker's Man," +"This little pig went to market," etc., etc. But in all your frolics and +stories and songs, take the greatest care that he shall hear or see, or +better still, _both_ see _and_ hear, what you are saying. Gradually he +can be taught to understand many simple commands and questions just as +hearing babies learn them, by constant repetition at times and under +circumstances when the meaning is obvious. Such as "come," "go," "go to +papa," "come to mamma," "jump," "stop," "kiss mother," "pet pussy," +"pick up," "put down," "milk," "water," "bread" (the later in life that +he learns the meaning and taste of "candy" the better), "do you want +some bread?" "milk," "water," etc. "Bring my slippers," "bring my +shoes," "put on your hat," "take off your mittens," "wash your hands," +etc., etc., throughout the whole day. + +Very early the mother should learn to consider the direction from which +the light comes, and should be careful to take her position _facing_ the +main source of light which should come from _behind the child_. The eye +can be trained from the very beginning of attention to unconsciously +supplement an imperfect ear in comprehending spoken words. It is even +possible for the eye to perform the entire task of interpreting speech, +and, if the hearing is entirely lacking, the course outlined will result +in training the brain to interpret the movements of speech as seen by +the eye, as it would have been trained by the same procedure to +interpret the sounds of speech had the organ of transmission not been +injured. But the idea must be constantly in the mind of the mother that +her boy needs to _see_ the spoken word at the very moment _when the idea +that it represents is in his mind_, AS OFTEN as he would hear it if his +hearing were perfect. + +This one suggestion, if faithfully lived up to from the age of one year +to that of two years, would be almost enough. But there are other things +that the mother can do as the mental development of the baby increases +with each month of life. She should encourage him to babble and gurgle +and murmur, as much as possible, to laugh and crow and make all the +various baby noises that will train and develop his voice. Encourage +noisy, romping, rollicking games as he gets older, that make him shout +and call, for they are the natural and best voice exercises. + + + + +IV + +WHAT ABOUT THE BABY'S SPEECH? + + +The hearing baby babbles because he gets some pleasure from the sounds, +and also because he desires to imitate the sounds of speech he hears +around him. _He has his attention called constantly to sound._ The sense +of vibration is not as strong nor as instructive as that of sound, but +if _the attention_ of the child is early _called_ to it, a watchfulness +for vibration _from within himself_ as well as from without, can be +aroused, and a sensitiveness developed that would not have come as +early, if at all, without special, directive effort on the part of the +mother. She can lead her little one to oo-oo, and ee-ee, and mamma, and +bub-bub, etc., by doing these babblings herself while the baby is in her +arms and his tiny hands are wandering over her lips and face and throat. +These exercises will gradually bring a recognition on the part of the +child of the sensation of vibration that accompanies voice, and they +will give facility, coupled with the normal and natural intonations that +have been acquired when he was not conscious of any effort, that will +prepare him for a better and more fluent speech when the time comes for +more exact articulation training. + +But during the first two or three years of the child's life the +principal stress should be placed upon his learning to understand what +is said to him, without bothering much about his speaking himself. In +the case of the hearing child, the understanding of language comes +before he can himself utter it. This must also be the case with the deaf +child, and the period preceding utterance must be longer, by reason of +his handicap, than in the case of a child with normal hearing. + + + + +V + +DEVELOPING THE MENTAL FACULTIES + + +By the time he is two years old he has gained maturity and grasp enough +to play many little educational games with his mother and his little +brothers and sisters, or playmates. These games should be calculated to +develop his various faculties, his powers of observation, memory, and +concentration. To develop a faculty is really _to train the brain_. As a +matter of fact, we see and hear and taste and smell and feel with our +brains. The eye of a two-year-old child is practically as perfect an +optical instrument as the eye of a boy of ten, and yet how much more the +older boy seems to see. This is because his brain has been trained to +_interpret_ the impressions that even the baby eyes received but did not +understand. Of course, where the instrument is found to be imperfect we +can assist it by means of additional lenses, or perhaps by some one of +the skillful operations now performed by oculists, and, as the sight is +of such increased importance to a deaf child, the greatest care and +watchfulness should be given to his eyes. Do not let him sleep, or lie, +facing the sun, or any other powerful light, but throughout his life be +careful that all his use of eyesight be under conditions of ample and +well-directed light. Supposing that the simple tests referred to +heretofore have shown that the eyes, as optical instruments, are +sufficiently perfect, our efforts need to be to train the brain to take +cognizance of, and to interpret the impressions transmitted to it by the +eyes. We shall not be able to improve the working of the eye by our +efforts, but we can educate the brain. + +Color and form make the earliest appeal to the child's eyes, and we can +use them for our educational play. The duplicate set of worsted balls of +the seven primal colors can be increased to include easily +distinguishable shades. The child can be sent on entertaining voyages +of discovery around the room with a ball of a certain color to find +other objects similar in color in the rugs, books, chairs, dresses, +ties, etc. + +A game to develop observation of form can be made by collecting a group +of objects of varying shapes in a pile on the floor or a low table; +mother picks up some one of the objects, directs the attention of the +little one to it, and after he has observed it somewhat she puts it back +in the pile and moves all the objects about till they are well mixed up. +Ask the little fellow then to pick out the object mother held in her +hand a moment before. When he can do this by sight without difficulty, +have him shut his eyes, place an object in his little hands, teach him +to feel it over carefully, take it from him, and, while his eyes are +still closed, place it once more in the pile. Let him then open his eyes +and see if he can indicate the object he had previously held. When he +has mastered this, give the game another turn by asking him to find by +means of touch alone, while the eyes are still closed, the object that +he has been feeling, after it is restored to the pile of other objects. +Still another turn can be given by first letting him see the object, +without touching it, then having him close his eyes, and by touch alone +select it from the pile. A set of wooden forms, such as spheres, cubes, +pyramids, cones, cylinders, and similar, but truncated, forms, can be +obtained at any school supply store. To these can be added common +household objects such as small frames, vases, napkin rings, spoons, +forks, and other similar things, as well as some of the forms included +in a complete set of the Montessori material. + +The Montessori weighted forms are excellent for training his muscular +recognition of difference of weight, and an excellent way is to put +various quantities of birdshot into half a dozen exactly similar little +rubber balls that can be purchased at any toy store for two cents +apiece. Then hand the boy one of the weighted balls, and after he has +felt its weight put it back with the other similar-appearing balls and +see if he can again discover it. An outfit for training his tactile +sense can be made in any home by collecting duplicate pieces of cloth +having different textures; such as velvet, rough woolen tweeds or +homespun, silk, satin, cambric, muslin, etc., and pasting one set on +cards. Also by stretching on a wooden frame, strings of varying sizes, +weaves, and twists, and having a bunch of duplicates from which he can +select, by sight and touch alone, the pieces that correspond, each to +each, with those on the frame or on the cards. If there is a guitar, or +mandolin, or zither, or a piano, available, perhaps, by and by, the +mother can teach the child to recognize the difference in the vibratory +sensation perceived by his fingers touching the body of the instrument +when a low note and a high note are struck alternately. She can make a +game of this, too, by later having him close his eyes and place his +fingers in contact with the instrument and then tell her _approximately_ +what string or key she struck. The next step, if she can take it, is to +place his little hands upon her chest to feel the lowest notes of her +voice, and upon both the chest and the top of her head to feel the +highest, and endeavoring to get him to recognize the similarity in +vibratory sensation between what he now feels and what he previously +felt on the musical instruments. The last step in this series of +exercises to awaken a recognition of vibratory sensations is to lead him +to feel in his own chest and head the vibrations set up by his own voice +in shouting and laughing, crying or babbling. + +These hints that are so quickly and easily given, require weeks and +months of patient, _happy_ effort to carry out. Beware that no one of +them is repeated or continued so long at a time as to become a thing +dreaded and disliked. Remember that the attention of a little child is +like a constantly flitting butterfly that rests for only a moment or two +on anything before dancing away to something else. + +There are many little games with kindergarten materials that can be +used to develop the powers of attention, observation, imitation, and +obedience. The laying in simple designs, by watchful imitation of the +mother, of colored sticks, colored squares, etc.; the building with +colored blocks; stringing of _large_ beads; weaving with _wide_ strips +of colored paper simple designs that a mother could invent with the +material at hand or could learn from any kindergarten manual. The point +that must be firmly, but _pleasantly_, insisted upon in these exercises +is careful and obedient following by the child of the exact order of +movement and manner of placing adopted by the mother teacher. The entire +value of these exercises for the purpose she wishes to accomplish +depends upon _accurate observation_ by the child and _implicit +obedience_. + +The material outfit prepared and sold by the American exploiters of the +Montessori method is admirably adapted to the development of the budding +faculties of the child, and the mother who is trying to do all in her +power to prepare her little one to benefit to the greatest possible +extent from the professional instruction that must come later, will make +no mistake in supplying herself with the set of materials, and making +herself intelligent on their use by the child. + + + + +VI + +DEVELOPING THE LUNGS + + +The tendency of the deaf child is to grow up with less development of +lungs and of the imagination than hearing children. In order to overcome +this tendency the child must be encouraged and _taught_ to play games +and use toys that will exercise the lungs and develop the power of +imaginative thought. + +In order to expand and strengthen the lungs through the child's play, +supply him with the brightly colored paper wind-mills that he can set +whirling by blowing lustily; also the rubber balloon toys, even though +the torturing squeak of the toys is only heard by those in the vicinity +and not by himself. An especially good exercise for the gentle and +long-continued control of breath results from the toy blow pipes with +conical wire bowls by means of which light, celluloid balls of bright +colors are kept suspended in the air, dancing on the column of breath +blown softly through the tube. The more steadily the child blows, the +more mysteriously the ball remains at a fixed point, whirling rapidly +but without any apparent support. + +Blowing soap bubbles, especially trying to blow big ones, is very useful +as well as interesting. + +For physical development in which the lungs come in for their share and +the sense of mechanical rhythm is fostered, an excellent exercise is +marching in step to the stroke of the drum, proud in Boy Scout uniform. +Dancing is a very desirable accomplishment for the deaf child. + +Tops and tenpins cultivate dexterity, as do playing ball and rolling +hoop. + + + + +VII + +THE CULTIVATION OF CREATIVE IMAGINATION + + +This can be greatly helped by early use on the part of the child of +colored modeling wax to reproduce objects and animals, and to construct +models of imaginary houses, yards, trees, etc. A sand pile, or a large, +shallow sand box, perhaps five feet square, with sides six inches high, +and completely lined with enamel cloth to make it watertight, is a +wonderful implement for constructive play on the part of the child. +Whole villages of farms, fields, and forests, ponds and brooks, roads +and railroads, can be made here in miniature. + +Building blocks of wood or stone; the metal construction toy called +"Mechano"; dolls, doll houses, furniture, and equipment, are valuable, +but they should be simple, inexpensive and not fragile. + +Cut-up picture puzzles, painting books, tracing slates with large and +simple designs cultivate observation and ingenuity. Kaleidoscopes and +stereoscopes are excellent, but moving pictures are so trying upon the +eyes, and the air of the theaters is so bad, that a deaf child whose +eyes are his only salvation, and whose health is doubly important, +should not even know of their existence till he is seven or eight years +old. + + + + +VIII + +FURTHER TESTS OF HEARING + + +But, as soon as the mother finds her little child sufficiently mature to +benefit by the sense training described above, whether it be at twenty +or, as is more likely, at from twenty-four to thirty months, she can +begin to make a more complete and accurate determination of the degree +of his deafness, for now she can establish a system of responses on the +part of the child that will show her when he perceives the sounds she +uses in her tests. + +In order to be certain that the little one knows what she wishes of him, +she must begin with some sensation that she is sure he feels. We will +assume that he has as yet no speech, and cannot count, at least does not +know the names of the numbers. Let the mother pat him once on the +shoulder and then cause him to hold up one of his little fingers. Then +pat him twice, and make him hold up two fingers, then three times and +have him put up three fingers. Now return to one pat and one finger, +repeat two pats and the holding up of two of his fingers, and three pats +and three fingers. Go over and over this little game until he has +grasped the idea and will hold up as many fingers as he feels pats. +Simple as the idea seems, it will often take a bright child some time to +realize what you want him to do. But you are _sure_ that he feels the +pats, whereas, if you began at once with sounds, you could not know +whether his failure to respond was because he did not hear, or through +not understanding what you expected of him. He will weary of the +exercise soon, and then mother may as well turn to something else till +he has rested. + +Having established this system of response on his part to sensations +perceived, it is not difficult to shift from the number of pats to the +number of times he hears a noise. This once accomplished, tests can be +made with sounds of different kinds, different pitch, and different +volume, varying the distance, the instruments, and the vowel when the +articulate sounds are reached. He can be shown a whistle, then, when it +is blown behind his back, he will hold up as many fingers as the times +it was blown, if he perceives the sound. He can be asked to distinguish +between a whistle, a little bell, and the clapping of the hands. When he +is successful in that, the vowel sounds may be uttered not far from his +ear, but behind him. Begin with "ah" (ae), as this is the most open and +strongest; then try "oh" (o with macron), which is not easily confused +with ae. Then ee (e with macron). If, after a time, a distance and a +degree of loudness are found that enable him to recognize these sounds +with unfailing accuracy, or at least 90 per cent. of the time, then +other sounds can be added, such as aw (a with diaresis below), (a with +breve) (as in hat), (i with macron) (as in ice), oo (as in cool), ow (as +in owl). Using these sounds at different pitches, and with different +intensities and distances, a sufficiently accurate estimate can be +formed of the degree of his hearing power so far as his present needs +are concerned. + + + + +IX + +THE DEVELOPMENT OF RESIDUAL HEARING + + +If any ability to perceive sounds is found, every effort should be made +to lead the child to use it, and as the most essential use of hearing is +in the comprehension of spoken language, the principal effort should be +made along that line. + +Take three objects, the names of which are short, with the principal +vowels quite easily distinguished. A little toy street car, a cap, and a +toy sheep, would do nicely to begin with, as the three words, "car," +"cap," and "sheep," are not easily confused. Place two of the objects +before him, the car and the sheep, and speak the name of one of them, +"car," we will say, loudly and distinctly close to his ear, but in such +a way that he cannot see your mouth. Then show him the car. Repeat it +with "sheep" and show him the sheep. Repeat "car," and take his little +hand, put it on the car. Then "sheep," and make him put his hand on the +sheep. Continue this process until he will indicate to you the object +you name. When he makes only occasional mistakes with two objects, add +the cap. When he can get the right one about 90 per cent. of the time, +then take three new words, returning occasionally to the first three. +Very soon his own name and those of others, with photographs to enable +him to indicate which, will prove of interest to him. When he has +successfully learned to distinguish a few single words, a beginning can +be made on short sentences. Commands that he can execute are convenient. +"Shut your eyes," "Open your mouth," "Clap your hands," can follow drill +on the three words, "eyes," "mouth," "hands." "Open the window," "Shut +the window," "Open the book," "Shut the book," "Open the door," etc. +"Stand up," "Sit down." When this beginning has been made, the road is +open to the gradual increase in a hearing vocabulary, but do not +attempt so much at once as to confuse and discourage the child. + +The suggestions already made should be studiously followed throughout +his whole childhood. If his hearing is not too seriously impaired, he +will begin to attempt to imitate spoken sounds by the time he is +twenty-four to thirty months old. But his ability to imitate sounds is +not an accurate measure of his ability to hear. He may perceive the +sounds much better than he is able to reproduce them. Distinct utterance +comes slowly to the child with normal hearing, and still more slowly and +imperfectly to the child whose hearing is not good. But the continued +effort to make him hear _words and sentences_ is a very valuable +exercise for him and should be faithfully continued till he is old +enough to respond to the tests of hearing as outlined and it has been +definitely proved that he cannot possibly tell whether ae, or (o with +macron) or (e with macron) is said, no matter how loud or how near the +ear the sound is uttered. + +The question will naturally arise as to whether the child's hearing of +speech can be aided by an electric or mechanical device. When it is +possible to make the child perceive the sound of the vowels with the +unaided voice uttered very near the ear, I believe it to be better, at +first, not to interpose any artificial device. But I have found that +sometimes, in cases where the sound perception was not at first +sufficient to enable the child to distinguish even the most dissimilar +vowel sounds, although uttered loudly close to the ear, I could awaken +the attention of the child to sound, and stimulate the dormant power by +the use of an Acousticon. After a few months I have been able to +dispense with the instrument and use only the unaided voice at close +range. Later, when some vocabulary has been acquired through these +auricular exercises, it is often desirable to return to the Acousticon +and teach the child to use it, in _order to extend the distance at which +sounds can be heard_. By the use of the Acousticon, it then becomes +possible to communicate by means of the ear without speaking at such +short range. It is not easy, however, to induce a child to use an +Acousticon at all times, whereas an adult will take the time and trouble +necessary to become accustomed to the instrument, and will put up with +the slight inconveniences inseparable from its use. + + + + +X + +DEVELOPING THE POWER OF LIP READING + + +In this effort to develop the hearing, however, the necessity must not +be forgotten of also training the brain to associate ideas with what the +eye sees on the lips when words are spoken. In the case of the very +slightly deaf child, this visual training is not quite so important as +the auricular training, but when there is much deafness it is the more +important of the two. The comprehension of much language can be given to +the little deaf child by constantly talking just as any mother does to +her hearing baby, only being always careful to take a position facing +the main source of light, which should come _from behind the child_. + +The hearing child arrives at the association of meaning with the sounds +of words only after very many repetitions. How often must the child hear +"Mamma," "Look at mamma," "See, here is mamma," "Mamma is coming," +"Mamma is here," "Where is mamma?" "Do you love mamma?" "Mamma loves +baby," etc., etc., from morning to night, day after day, week after +week. The mother does it for pleasure; to play with and pet the dear +baby. She does not think of it as a teaching exercise, but it is a very +important one. The deaf baby will learn gradually to associate a meaning +with the various sequences of movement of the lips, if a little care is +taken to watch his eyes and to speak when they are directed toward the +speaker, and to stand in such relation to the light that it falls upon +the speaker's face. The speech should be the same as to the hearing +child, but it takes a little more care and watchfulness to have the deaf +child _see_ the same word or phrase as _many times_ as the hearing child +hears it. If it is spoken when the baby is not looking, it does not +help. + +When the little one is learning to walk, the mother says, "Come to +mamma," "Go to daddy," and gradually he learns "come" and "go." She has +him play hide and seek with another child, and she says, "Where is Tom?" +"Where is the baby's mouth?" "Where is the baby's nose?" etc., and by +and by he knows "where" and "mouth" and "nose," and the names of his +playmates or brothers and sisters. When he is sitting on the floor she +picks him up, saying "up." When she puts him from her lap to the floor +she says "down." If he is naughty she says "naughty," and perhaps spats +his little hands, and so on through the day. A little care on her part, +a little added thought and watchfulness, perhaps a few more repetitions, +and little by little she will find her deaf baby learning to look at her +always, and to understand much that is said to him. She must all this +time remember, also, that the shades of feeling, pleasure, +disappointment, approval, disapproval, doubt, certainty, love, anger, +joy, which are largely conveyed to the hearing child by intonation of +voice, must be conveyed to the deaf baby by facial expression and +manner. They become very keen at interpreting moods by the look. Let +the face be sunny and kind and INTERESTED, if possible. The first +indication of impatience, of being bored and weary, will destroy much of +one's influence with the deaf child. + +Sometimes it is harder to disguise one's feelings in the face than in +the voice. Do not be caught unawares. Interest, cheerfulness, and +patience are tremendous forces to help the little deaf child. + +Some one has said: + + + "When you consent, consent cordially; + When you refuse, refuse finally; + When you punish, punish good-naturedly." + + + + +XI + +FORMING CHARACTER + + +And now that the little one is two or three years old, it may be well to +say a few words about his general training in character and habits. +There is a strong, and a not unnatural tendency to maintain an attitude +toward the deaf child that differs from that maintained by sensible +mothers toward their other children. They often set up a different +standard of conduct and of obligation for the afflicted child. His +brothers and sisters are taught to always defer to his wishes; even to +the extent of yielding to improper and selfish demands on his part, and +conceding that they have no rights where he is concerned. He is not +required to perform the little duties demanded of the other children. He +is given privileges which the others do not, and which no one of them, +including himself, should enjoy. He grows tyrannical, domineering, and +selfish. The mother says: "Poor little chap; he has trouble enough, we +must do all in our power to make up to him for what he misses by reason +of his deafness." This is, however, a shortsighted, and really a cruel +policy. It lays up much misery for his future, and in the end proves a +serious handicap to one who needs to have as few additional difficulties +as possible. Though it may seem hard-hearted, it is really kinder to put +him on the same basis as any other child. Make him do everything +possible for himself. Insist upon his being independent; dressing +himself as soon as he is able, buttoning his own shoes, and performing +all the little self-help acts that the wise mother demands of all her +children. Make no distinction in the treatment accorded him. Ask the +same services, reward right actions and punish wrongdoing as impartially +as if he was not deaf, only being sure that he clearly connects the +punishment with the wrong act. This, in the case of a deaf child, +requires a little more care than with a hearing child. Train him to be +thoughtful for the comfort of others, and respectful of their rights, +just as you insist that the others observe his rights. He cannot be +argued with, object lessons and example must be the means of teaching +him manners and morals. + + + + +XII + +CULTIVATING THE SOCIAL INSTINCT + + +Between the ages of two and four years all the games and exercises +heretofore described can continue to be used, together with others +increasingly difficult and complicated, as the child's mind develops and +his powers of observation, attention, and memory increase. Take very +special care that he learns all the childhood games that other children +know and enjoy. Devote yourself more to him in this respect than you +would in the case of another child. Encourage the neighbors' children to +come and play with him by making it especially pleasant for them. Teach +them yourself to play "Hide the Thimble," "Hide and Seek," "Drop the +Handkerchief," "Going to Jerusalem," "Old Maid," "Bean Bag." Follow the +Leader is an excellent game by which to teach watchfulness and +imitation. Cat and Mouse, Hot Potato, Ring on a String, are all games +that can be played by groups and cultivate quickness. Ping Pong Football +is excellent as a lung developer. That is the choosing of sides and +trying to blow a ping pong ball between the goal posts formed by a pair +of salt shakers at opposite ends of a table. Or blowing a feather across +a sheet by opposing sides. Encourage good, romping, noisy games in which +the children naturally laugh and shout. They are the best of +voice-developing exercises, and by such means, and his long-distance +shouting and calling to his playmates, the little hearing child gains +much of his lung and voice power. In all his games, as in all his other +activities, take very _special_ pains to talk to him, using the +regulation expressions and training him to watch for the "It's your +turn," or "Now, Tom," "Ready," "Whose turn is it?" etc., etc. + +If the foregoing suggestions have been carefully carried out since he +was twelve months old, he will long ago have arrived unconsciously at +the knowledge that all things, and all actions, and all feelings, have +names, and that the mouth always makes the same sequence of movements +for the same thing. In the babbling exercises recommended, he will +gradually come to utter many of the vowel and consonant sounds of his +native language; especially those that are made by the lips, and by +evident positions of the tongue. Those sounds that require hidden +positions of the organs, such as the sound of C and K in cat and ark, or +G in go and dog, or ng in long, he is unlikely to have stumbled upon. +These can be taught when the proper time comes, but their absence for +the present need cause no anxiety. In fact, up to the time when he is +three and a half or four years old, the matter of speaking is not one to +be much troubled about. If the conception of language has been given him +through lip-reading, and some ability to understand the necessary +language of his daily life, his future success is assured. + + + + +XIII + +SOMETHING ABOUT SCHOOLS AND METHODS + + +Till the child is at least four years old, the proper place for him is +at home, and if he must be sent to one of the large public schools for +the deaf it should not be till he is five or even six years of age. + +But during these years the mother can gain much knowledge that will help +her by visiting as many schools for the deaf as possible. There are +about a hundred and fifty such schools in the United States and eight in +Canada. They vary in size, in character, and in methods of instruction +employed. There are public boarding schools, and public day schools, +free to the resident of the state, or city, in which they are located. +There are private boarding and day schools, maintained by charity, or by +the tuition fees. Some of each class are oral schools; that is, they +employ only speech methods of instruction, without any signs or finger +spelling. Others are called "Combined" schools; that is, they permit, +and in some exercises encourage, the use of finger spelling and gestural +signs, while they also give some instruction by the speech method. There +are sectarian and non-sectarian schools, both oral and combined. + +A very considerable number of schools for the deaf in the United States +and Canada still use manual, or silent, methods of instruction, at least +in part. But the speech, or oral, method is steadily growing in +popularity, and gradually supplanting manual spelling and gestural +signs. The time will certainly come when the public will be too +intelligent to any longer tolerate the use between teacher and pupil, or +between any employee and the pupils, in a school for the deaf, any +system of manual communication. + +_Every deaf child, no matter if born totally deaf and of a low order of +intelligence, can be given as much education by the exclusive use of the +speech method as it can by any manual, or silent, method or by a +combination of the speech and the silent method._ This is not the mere +expression of an opinion, but the statement of a fact; a fact firmly +established by actual results in state institutions where, +unfortunately, the law requires the admission of pupils too poorly +equipped intellectually to belong in a school with normally bright +children. In addition to acquiring all the education of which his mental +endowment makes him capable, he can be taught to speak and to understand +when spoken to. The degree of perfection attainable depends upon the +ability of the child, the skill of the teaching, and especially upon +_the environment_ in which the child passes its formative educational +years. The probability of the child's acquiring a maximum proficiency in +speaking and in understanding others when they speak, is lessened in +direct proportion to the extent to which he is permitted to use the +silent or manual means of communication. In the so-called "combined" +schools, the _environment_ is largely manual. A visit to the +playgrounds, the baseball fields, the shops, dining rooms, and +dormitories of "combined" schools will disclose the pupils using silent +means of communication, not only between themselves, _but with those in +charge of them. They do not think in spoken forms, but in finger +spelling and signs_. The powerful influence of environment in those +schools is _against_ the acquisition of the speech and lip-reading +habit. + +The mother who has faithfully followed the suggestions offered in the +foregoing pages will be able to appreciate what she sees on visiting the +schools, and will gain much more from such visits than one who is +entirely inexperienced in the problem. Every mother should make it her +business to visit at least one _purely oral_ school, in order that she +may make herself thoroughly intelligent on what may be expected of a +deaf child. + +Unfortunately, pure oral schools are not as plentiful as "combined" +schools, but it will well repay any parent to make a journey, even +across the continent, if necessary, in order to study the workings of +some good, purely oral, school. Do not be satisfied with a visit to the +nearest "combined" school. + +_You owe it to your child_ to make yourself thoroughly intelligent as to +the _possibilities_ open to a deaf child. You will not be intelligent +till you have personally visited some good _purely oral_ school. + +The number, character, location, etc., of the schools are constantly +changing. A descriptive list of all schools corrected to date will be +gladly supplied by the author to any one requesting it. + + + + +XIV + +THE PRESERVATION OF SPEECH + +WHEN DEAFNESS RESULTS FROM ACCIDENT OR ILLNESS AFTER INFANCY + + +Up to this point it has been assumed that deafness occurred before the +age of two years, and before the child had begun to speak. In cases +where, through accident or illness, impairment of hearing has come after +the child has begun to talk, the mother should bend all her efforts upon +keeping the speech of her child. The younger the child, the more +difficult is the task. Without the greatest vigilance and increasing +attention, the speech of a little child who has become deaf will fade +rapidly away, until it is lost entirely, and must be artificially +recreated when he is old enough to grasp the complicated ideas involved +in speech teaching to the deaf. But by persistently encouraging him to +talk, and never, even for a day, allowing him to lapse into silence, and +_by not accepting careless and faulty utterance, but pretending not to +understand till the child speaks distinctly and correctly_, the natural +speech, which was his before deafness occurred, can be preserved, and +the speech habit thoroughly fixed. If, by good luck, the little one has +learned to read even a simple primer before becoming deaf, it will be +much easier to prevent a loss of speech. For this reading can be made an +excuse for frequently using his speech. But when the child cannot read, +the mother must depend entirely upon inducing him to talk to her, +refusing to give him anything, or grant his request, till he asks for it +in good spoken form; showing him pictures, playing games, frolicking +with him; doing everything that a mother's love and ingenuity can +suggest, to keep him talking all day long. + +The tendency of the child will be to drop, or slur, the final syllables +of the words; to leave off the sound of final _ed_; to lose the +sharpness of the _s_; to blur the _l_; and sometimes to lose the sound +of _k_ and _c_. But, if he has learned to read, by pointing to these +letters in the words he has spoken imperfectly, he will correct his own +mistake. Prompt and increasing attention to the little fellow's speech +during the first year after deafness occurs will usually serve to fix +correct habits for life. + + + + +XV + +TEACHING LIP READING + + +All that has been said about training the little deaf child to read the +lip movements and associate them with the names of things and of +actions, will apply also to the little boy who has suddenly been made +deaf, after speech has been learned. Be careful that he is looking at +you always when you speak to him or reply to some question he has asked, +but speak just as you would have done before he became deaf. You may +have to repeat things to him very often at first, but do not permit any +sign of impatience in your face. Do not let him get the idea that it is +a hardship to talk to him. Remember that you are changing his manner of +understanding speech over to another way, and that his present and +future happiness depends very greatly on the thoroughness and promptness +with which it is done. In all dealings with a deaf child the mother +should remember that the child draws his impressions of the character +and the feelings of those about him from the expression of their faces, +and many almost unconscious little acts and gestures. Avoid very +carefully any appearance of being impatient, or bored, or contemptuous +at his failures. Try to understand the difficulties under which he is +working to maintain his place in the world. Do not humor his whims, or +spoil him by indulgence, yet treat him with the greatest consideration +and fairness. Above all, be cheerful and, at least apparently, +interested in his doings and sayings. + + + + +XVI + +SCHOOL AGE + + +The question of what is "school age" for a deaf child is answered very +differently by different people. Most of the state institutions for the +deaf in the United States, Canada, and Europe will not admit children +younger than six years of age. Seven years is still the age of admission +in some institutions, but the tendency is to lower the age limit. In +some schools children of five are admitted, in a few those as young as +four, and in two or three small schools babies of two and three are +received. Any statement here must, therefore, be taken as only the +expression of the author's opinion, resulting from more than twenty-five +years of active teaching, combined with wide observation. + +It would appear that, where home conditions are not bad, either +physically or morally, the proper place for the little deaf child till +he is nearly, or quite, five, is with his mother. Very much can be done +for the little one before he is five to prepare him for the instruction +which should be given at that age, but it is possible for the mother to +do what is necessary, and even the simplest home conditions are +preferable for very little children to the institutional environment. It +is impossible, in a school of from one hundred to five hundred pupils, +to create a real home environment, such as the very little child should +have. It is really a pity that the child of five should have to be +placed in the institutional environment as it at present exists. If the +legislative bodies of our states, and the gentlemen who manage the +schools, could only be induced to adopt the cottage plan of housing in +small units, the disadvantages of institutional life would be enormously +reduced. + + + + +XVII + +ORGANIZED EFFORTS BY PARENTS TO OBTAIN BETTER EDUCATIONAL CONDITIONS + + +It should be possible for every taxpayer in every state who has a deaf +child and who has not the means or the wish to place that child in a +private school, to have the child educated in a free public school as +completely by the speech method as his hearing children are educated by +that method. He should not be compelled to send his child out of the +state or else subject him to the influence of signs and finger spelling, +with the probability that he will leave school a deaf mute. +Unfortunately, in many states, this is not possible at present. But if +the parents of deaf children would organize themselves into "Parents' +Associations" and send representatives to the governors and legislative +committees; and arrange for demonstrations by orally educated deaf +children from pure oral schools; and carry on an active campaign of +enlightenment and of agitation, the present state of affairs would soon +cease to exist. + +I wish to make an urgent plea for the energetic efforts of all parents +of deaf children to improve the speech-teaching conditions in their +respective localities. At present, very far from all that is possible is +being done to give deaf children a ready command of spoken English, and +a working ability to understand when spoken to. The persons who have the +most at stake in this matter, and who should be most active and +persistent in demanding from the school authorities and legislatures +better facilities for the acquisition of speech by deaf children, are +the parents of those children. In each locality these parents should +organize into "Parents' Associations." These local associations should, +in turn, be connected by a statewide organization composed of +representatives from each local association. These state organizations +could then be combined by representation in a national organization of +all the parents of deaf children in the United States. Such complete +organization once effected, the reasonable demands made in the interests +of better results in speech teaching would quickly be complied with by +the respective schools and the legislatures or boards of directors that +control them. The associations could induce their local papers to aid in +a campaign to educate public opinion by printing facts concerning what +is done elsewhere. If all parents of deaf children only knew what might +be accomplished, and were so organized as to permit them to present +their wishes forcibly to those able to change conditions, the deaf child +would quickly come into his own. + + + + +XVIII + +A PERSONAL MATTER FOR EACH PARENT + + +Let some parent in each locality make it his or her business to get the +names and addresses of all other parents of deaf children in the +vicinity. Induce them to come together some evening and choose a +chairman and an executive committee of three. Let these four people make +a point of studying the education of the deaf as conducted in the most +advanced communities. Let the executive committees of the several local +associations get together once or twice a year for a sort of state +convention of parents. Let them invite leading educators to address +them, and let them appoint committees to visit schools in other states +where different methods are employed. If such a movement was once +started there would be found plenty of subject-matter for discussion, +and plenty of opportunities to work for a betterment of conditions. The +author of this little book would be glad to give any aid in his power to +such a movement, and to place the results of his twenty-five years of +experience at the disposal of any parent, or parents' organization. + +The first efforts should be directed to inducing, or compelling, the +so-called "Combined Schools" for the deaf throughout the United States +to wholly segregate at least a small oral department from the manually +taught pupils. The orally taught pupils should never come in contact +during their school life, either in the shops, dining rooms, +playgrounds, or schoolrooms, with those pupils with whom finger spelling +and signs are employed. All employees, whether superintendents, +teachers, supervisors, teachers of trades, or servants, who have to do +with the orally taught pupils should be _compelled_ to use only speech +and lip reading (and writing, if absolutely necessary) under penalty of +dismissal for failing to do so. Only by means of such segregation, and +the enforcement of speech as a universal medium of communication, can +the appropriations for oral work be made really productive of good +results in what are now called "Combined Schools." This can be done on a +small scale at the beginning, with the little entering beginners. Then +if all beginners are put into this oral department it will gradually +grow at the expense of the manual department, until, after a period of +eight or ten years, the entire school will have become oral. + +This is the only method of procedure by which satisfactory results in +speech teaching for practical purposes can be obtained in return for the +generous appropriations that the states make. It has been fully +demonstrated by actual operation in the state of Pennsylvania, where the +largest school for the deaf in the world has in this manner been changed +from a "Combined School" to a pure oral school. + +_All_ the deaf children in the State of Massachusetts are now taught +wholly by the oral method. If that polyglot and heterogeneous +population can be so treated, there is no state in the Union where the +same could not be done if there were the desire and the ambition to do +it. + +In many states deaf children have been, either by definite statement, or +by tacit understanding, exempted from the enforcement of the compulsory +education law. This is all wrong. They need the protection of that +excellent law even more than the hearing child, and if the law for +compulsory education does not, in fact, apply to them, it should at once +be amended to do so. + + + + +XIX + +DAY SCHOOLS + + +The parents are the ones most interested in this matter, and it is +through their efforts alone that improvement can be brought about. In +Massachusetts, New York, New Jersey, Wisconsin, Michigan, Illinois, +Ohio, Washington, Oregon, Texas, Missouri, and California, free public +oral day schools have been established. This movement has reached its +highest development in Wisconsin and Michigan. In Wisconsin there are +twenty-four such schools scattered throughout the state, and in Michigan +fourteen. New schools are opened by the Board of Education under +prescribed conditions upon the request of a certain number of parents of +deaf children. Such a law should be on the statute books of every state, +and will be when the parents of deaf children organize and demand it. + + + + +XX + +THE DEAF CHILD AT FIVE YEARS OF AGE + + +When the little child that has been deaf from infancy is five years of +age, he should be placed in a _purely oral school_ for the deaf, if such +a thing is possible. + +The child who has become deaf by illness or accident after speech has +been acquired, should be placed under experienced instruction by the +speech method _at once_. + +To quote once more from my little book of suggestions to physicians: + +"If the proper school for the little hearing child of five did not +happen to exist in his immediate neighborhood, no one would think of +insisting upon the necessity of sending the little one away to a distant +boarding school. But that is what must be done in the case of the little +deaf child, if precious and irrecoverable years are not to be lost. It +is often a difficult matter to persuade a mother to sacrifice her own +personal happiness and comfort in having the little child with her, and +to look far enough into the future to see that a true and unselfish love +for the child requires her to entrust him to the care of others during +those early and crucial years." + + + + +XXI + +SCHOOLS FOR THE HEARING AND PRIVATE GOVERNESSES + + +If no oral day or boarding school is available near at hand, the mother +should have the far-sighted love that is unselfish, and the courage to +part with her little five-year-old child during the months of the school +year, and place him in some one of the distant schools where he can live +and be taught in a purely oral environment. There are two alternatives +to this, each of which is sometimes attempted, but both are undesirable. +First the mother not infrequently attempts to have her child educated in +the schools for hearing children. This is very unsatisfactory and even +dangerous, for if persisted in it results in wholly inadequate progress, +uneven development, bad speech, irretrievable loss of time, and often in +a complete nervous breakdown. This may not come for some years, but the +nervous system, once undermined by the excessive strain of trying to +keep up under impossible conditions, can never be fully repaired. Here +is what a _partially_ deaf woman writes of her experience as a child: + +"When I was three and one-half years old scarlet fever left me almost +totally deaf. My father was a physician. He was urged to send me to a +school for the deaf, but his medical training told him that what was +needed was association with speaking children, if I were to retain my +speech, for at that time the oral method was unknown in our state. So I +went to school with hearing children. Unless you have been deaf, you +will not understand the misery in this statement. A little, lonely deaf +child, I went to a public school, hearing practically nothing of the +teachers' instructions or the pupils' recitations. Of the torture of +that deaf childhood I will not speak. You all know how cruel children +may be, and a deaf child among hearing children often suffers untold +torments." + +The second alternative is to seek some person who will teach the child +in his own home. This, too, is very unsatisfactory, and involves loss of +time and opportunity that can never be recovered. + +In the first place, the beginning years of a deaf child's educational +life are the most important of all. They are crucial. It is then he +requires the highest skill, the greatest experience, and the most +perfect conditions. The best teachers can seldom, if ever, be induced to +teach a single child in its home. Usually these teachers are more or +less inferior. But even the best teacher in the world cannot do for a +little deaf child in his home what she could accomplish for him in a +well-organized and properly conducted school. + +Neither the intellect nor the character of the deaf child can be as +successfully developed, after five years of age, by a private teacher in +his home as in a good school. + +The following elements are essential for the highest educational welfare +of a deaf child: + +_First._ The stimulus and incentive of association and competitive +companionship. + +_Second._ The contact with more than one mind and more than one speaker. + +_Third._ The avoidance of becoming dependent upon some one as an +interpreter, and the cultivation of independence and self-reliance +through constant practice with various teachers. + +_Fourth._ A fully equipped and trained organization, providing a +complete and uninterrupted education under one head. + +_Fifth._ Regularity of life, and the subordination of all living +conditions to the highest educational advantage (a thing utterly +incompatible with home conditions). + +These most necessary conditions are not possible of attainment through +private instruction in the home. The child who is kept at home and given +private instruction too often grows up to be timid, self-distrustful, +and unfitted to cope with the difficulties and oppositions of the +world. He falls an easy prey to temptation and is quickly discouraged by +obstacles. Very often he is selfish, narrow, and overbearing. Not having +those about him of his own age and with the same desires, he has become +accustomed to having people yield to his whims and fancies as child +playmates would not yield. He is more or less excluded from the plays +and pleasures of childhood. All those about him have an advantage over +him. + +On the other hand, the tendencies of the school-bred child are to be +simple, natural, and childlike. His inclination to moodiness and +suspiciousness is much less. He is happier. He becomes self-reliant, +independent, and respectful of the rights of others. He is less petulant +and more obedient. The wisest parents do not educate their hearing +children at home, nor should they attempt it with a deaf child. + + + + +XXII + +IMPORTANCE OF THE BEGINNING + + +I wish to lay very special stress upon the necessity _at the beginning_ +of the most expert and experienced instruction that is attainable. If +circumstances make it impossible to give to the child the best _all_ the +time, then he should have the best at the start rather than later. Every +effort and every sacrifice that are ever going to be made for the +child's sake should be at the beginning of his school training, and not +delayed till he is older. The years from five to eight or ten will +determine his future success. If he has poor teaching during these early +years, even the best teaching later will not be able to make up the loss +entirely. But if he has good teaching during the first few years, then +less expert teaching later cannot do him as much harm as it otherwise +would. The early years are his most crucial period, and the best efforts +should be expended then instead of when he is twelve or fourteen. + + + + +XXIII + +AVOID THE YOUNG AND INEXPERIENCED TEACHER + + +Between the ages of five and ten avoid the young and inexperienced +teacher and the amateur as you would the plague. Unfortunately, the idea +is prevalent that _any one_ can teach a little child, but that it takes +experience to teach the older pupils. This is a disastrous fallacy. +Young and inexperienced women are too often quite ready to assume the +great responsibility of teaching a little deaf child. They rush in where +angels might well fear to tread. Unfortunately, parents, and even school +superintendents, are often too ready to permit them to do this dangerous +thing. + + + + +XXIV + +ON ENTERING SCHOOL + + +Through the courtesy of the _Volta Review_, in which her article +appeared, and of the author, Miss Eleanor B. Worcester, a teacher of the +deaf for many years, and at one time the principal of a school, I am +able to include the following very sensible and valuable advice for the +guidance of mothers when their children enter school. + + +THE FIRST YEAR AT SCHOOL + +BY ELEANOR B. WORCESTER + + +At last the time has come when you feel that it is best for your boy to +study with other children. And since your own town does not offer him a +suitable opportunity, it is necessary to send the little fellow to one +of the well-known boarding schools, where trained and wise men and women +are devoting their thought and energy to giving every advantage of +education, comfort, and happiness to the little people under their care. + +You have already decided, after much thought and the writing of many +letters--perhaps after a visit to the school you incline to most--just +where it is best that the child shall go. + +You have studied carefully all the directions about clothing given in +the school catalogue, and have made sure that every little blouse or +stocking has its owner's name written or sewed fast on it, and that all +the small garments are in perfect order and ready for use. + +But have you thought how your own attitude toward this change in your +boy's life is unconsciously preparing him either to rebel against and +fear school, or to look forward to going there as one of the most +delightful and interesting events of his life? + +I know that it is impossible for you to avoid dreading the day when your +child must go among strangers, but I beg you not to let him see what +your feeling is. It will take all your resolution and all your courage +to wear not only a cheerful face, but a happy one; but you must make +your boy feel that a very delightful time is coming. + +If you go about the necessary preparations as you might if he were going +to the show or on a visit, he will enter into the spirit of things with +enthusiasm; but if you once let him find you crying over his packing he +will immediately jump to the conclusion that some dreadful thing is in +prospect, and will be entirely prepared to be frightened at being left +at school, and to break your heart by clinging to you and begging to go +home again. And, more than this, he will be far more likely to be +homesick. + +So, since you know it is best for him to be in school, and that it is +the only possible road to happiness and usefulness, why not lead him to +anticipate the going; to look forward to it as a treat, and to feel that +to be a schoolboy is really the great end of existence? + +One of the first steps in this direction will be to help him understand +a little what kind of a place he is bound for. + +Very likely the school you have decided on publishes an illustrated +catalogue, and weeks before school opens begin to show him the pictures +of the school buildings and grounds, and make him understand that on a +certain day in September, which you mark on the calendar with bright +crayon, you and he will go there. Let him see one of the little white +beds where he will sleep after you return home, the sunny dining room +where he will eat his morning porridge and his Sunday ice cream; the +playground full of rollicksome youngsters, with whom he will seesaw and +play tag by and by, and the busy schoolroom, where so many delightful +and interesting things are sure to happen. + +Talk about all these things often and brightly and you will find that +school has become a most desirable and fascinating place, and that every +night there will be a great satisfaction in climbing on a chair to +scratch off from the calendar another day done before the joy of going +there. + +Then you can buy such delightful things to be put into that waiting +trunk--things often to be looked at, but never to be used till that +wonderful place is reached--long red and blue pencils, with rubbers on +the ends; boxes of writing paper, all gay with pictures and exactly +right for the first letters home; a foot rule, and, if you are a truly +brave mother, a real jackknife to sharpen the same red and blue pencils +and add to the joy of living. + +It is absorbing work, too, to mark them all with one's name, so they may +never be mistaken for any other little boy's property, and to make a +place for a new toy or two, though if you are wise you will not buy many +playthings now, but will save them to send later, one by one, by parcel +post, to be received with a joy it is a pity you cannot be there to +see, it will be so out of proportion to any other pleasure you could +give by such simple means. + +Of course, you must have some kodak pictures taken--ever so many of +them--showing the family, the house, and the pets, as well as the boy +himself. These are to be kept, too, to go in letters. They will be not +only very precious possessions, but if they are labeled carefully they +will be extremely useful in the classroom when your boy begins to learn +to speak the names of the people at home. + +Since they are to be used for this double purpose, be sure that each +member of the family group is very distinctly marked, or the names of +Aunt Mary and sister Helen may get hopelessly mixed in the boy's mind! + +Finally, the last little garment and the last package is in the trunk, +the last day is scratched off the calendar, and the boy himself is on +the train. And now let me tell you something that you will not +believe--that you will even resent, but which is perfectly true, and +which I hope will comfort you a little when you say good-by to the +boy--and that is this: it really is very unusual for a little child from +five to eight years old to be homesick at school. There are so many +distractions, so many new and curious things to see, so many interesting +things to do, and there are so many other children all friendly and all +happy, that even if your boy cries when you leave him, the probabilities +are high that before you reach the station he will be playing--shyly or +uproariously, as temperament may decide--but certainly happily, with +some new-found friend. + +One of the most delightful things about a school for deaf children is +the way all the other pupils welcome, pet, and look out for a newcomer. +Every one makes much of him, and it would be hard indeed to be lonely +long in the midst of so much attention and friendliness. + +And now a word about letters. + +Before you sent the boy to school I hope you didn't fail to teach him to +recognize the written names of the different members of the family, so +that he might be sure to understand whom his first letters came from. +And don't forget that he will be eager for letters! Too many mothers +feel that it is useless to write to their children during their first +year away from them. They are so sure that no word from them can be +understood that they content themselves with sending inquiries to the +proper authorities, and an occasional picture postcard to the children +themselves, and fail to realize how soon their little boy or girl grasps +the fact that the other children have real letters in envelopes, and +that these come from home, or how sharp a disappointment it is when day +after day goes by and brings them nothing. + +If you could see, as I have seen, a letter, so worn that it was cracked +on all its folds and dingy with much handling, carried day after day +inside a little blouse, or guimpe, and put under the pillows every +night, you would understand a little what those pieces of paper, covered +with very imperfectly understood characters, but carrying love and +remembrance from home, mean, even before the children can read them. +And very soon, if you are an observant mother, your child will really be +able to read them. + +For example, your boy's first letter may be something like this: + + + "DEAR MAMMA: + + "I am well. I love you. HARRY." + + +When you answer it you might say, with the certainty that every word +would be understood: + + + "DEAR HARRY: + + "Mamma loves you. Papa is well. Mamma and Papa love you. + + "Good-by. MAMMA." + + +Not a very satisfactory letter, do you say? Perhaps not to you, but most +delightful and understandable to the little boy to whom it is written. +And if a little later you follow it with another containing one of the +kodak pictures of the cat, with "Tommy" written under it, accompanying +such a note as this, not only your little boy, but his teacher will +bless you: + + + "DEAR HARRY: + + "Mamma is well. Papa is well. Mamma and Papa love you. Tommy loves + you, too. Tommy is the cat. Tommy wants to see you. + + "Good-by. MAMMA." + + +I have written these two notes not as models to be copied, but to show +you how with a little thought and care you may ring the changes on +almost every sentence that your boy learns; and make use of every new +word, giving him a great deal of pleasure and helping to fix the phrases +in his mind and to make him realize that they are really valuable +additions to his means of communication. But I do not mean that you +should confine your letters entirely to words and sentences that the +child already knows. In fact, new expressions, if they are short and +simple, and if the main part of your letter is made up of things the +child understands at once, will add very much to the interest of your +letter. He will be eager to know what the strange words mean, and the +new nouns, verbs, and adjectives will go immediately to swell his +vocabulary. + +Like any child just learning to talk, your little boy will at first use +nouns, when later he will use pronouns, so in your earliest letters to +him you will be surer of making yourself understood if you do the same. +Probably, too, with the exception of two or three sentences like "I am +well. I love you," you will notice that all his statements are written +in the past tense, and that will be a guide to you to confine your own +remarks to the past, for the most part, till you notice that he has +begun to use the future and the present himself. Watch his letters +carefully and adapt your own language forms to his. + +There are two things that, as a general rule, I would advise you not to +write about, and these are any illnesses in the family and--that supreme +joy of school life--the box you are planning to send. + +My reasons for this taboo are that even very little children are often +made unhappy and anxious, sometimes for days, if they know there is +sickness at home, while in the second place boxes are so often delayed +that they become the source of much disturbance of mind when the +expressman fails to bring them. + +I knew a little girl who watched every delivery for a week and cried +after every one because the box her mother had promised her did not +appear. So let illness and boxes go unmentioned till you can write +something like this, "Papa was sick last week. He is well now. He goes +to the office every day." And after the box has had time to reach its +destination you can say, "Mamma sent a box to you Wednesday. She put two +handkerchiefs, some new shoes, six oranges, and some money in the box. +Papa gave the money to you." + +If you are like most mothers, before many weeks have gone by you will be +eager to visit your boy and see for yourself how he is getting on; +whether he is really as happy as the letters from school assure you he +is; what he is learning in class, and whether he has blankets enough on +his bed and sugar enough on his oatmeal. + +But before the letter announcing the day of your arrival is posted or +your ticket is bought, sit down by the fire and think the matter over. + +You have confidence in the school, else you would never have sent your +boy there; and you have been told repeatedly either that the little +fellow is happy and well or, it may be, that he was rather homesick at +first, but has now settled down to a very comfortable and contented +state of mind and is doing well in class. + +Now, if you go to see him too soon after he has left home there will +really be a good deal more danger that the boy will be homesick after +you leave him than there was when you took him to school in September, +even if he has been quite happy up to the time of your visit. + +In the first place, he will think, drawing his conclusions from visits +that he may have made before, that school is over and that you have +come to take him home. So it will be a great surprise and shock when you +go away without him. And in any case, after the separation of some +weeks, his love for you will make him want to be with you, and he will +really suffer when you say good-by. + +So, if I were you, I would wait till after the Christmas holidays before +going for my visit. By that time he will be fully settled in his new +life and will look on it as an established part of existence. He will +know from observation that other mothers come for a little while and +then go home again without taking their children with them, and his +advance in understanding will make it much easier to explain to him that +your visit is temporary and will not make any radical change in his own +life. + +The delay will mean a good deal of self-sacrifice for you, but may very +possibly save your boy from a sharp attack of homesickness, while later +in the year this danger will usually have disappeared, and your visit +will bring nothing but pleasure to you both and will help to make +school what you want it to be--a place where all sorts of delightful +things are constantly sure to happen. + + + + +XXV + +DURING THE SCHOOL PERIOD + + +But the opportunities and obligations of the parents of deaf children to +aid in their education by no means cease when the children enter school. + +Throughout the entire period of school life, and even after their +children leave school, the parents can be of very great assistance to +them. During the time that the school is in session, if the child is +away from home, the parents should write not less than once a week, and +oftener if possible. These letters should contain all the little +happenings at home, no matter how insignificant and uninteresting they +may seem. If these things are expressed in simple language, using short +sentences and common words, the letters will be one of the most +efficient means of aiding the children to an ability to read, that the +teacher possesses. The child is full of eager curiosity to know the +smallest details of the familiar home life. He will exert his mind more +to dig out the meaning of the language of home letters than he will to +understand a story in a reader. Miss Worcester has suggested one or two +little letters that would do during the first half year at school. By +the beginning of the second year it would be helpful if the letters read +something like this: + + + "MY DEAR BOY: + + "We got your nice letter. Thank you for it. We always like to know + what you do at school. We like to know the names of your + schoolmates. We are glad when you tell us about your books and your + teachers. Mother, Tom, Jane and I are well. We talk about you + often. We are glad you can go to school. A cat frightened the hens. + The hens ran. The cat was naughty. I drove the cat away. I think + the cat wanted to eat the little chickens. + + "Tom hid behind the door. He jumped out quickly. He frightened + Jane. She screamed. He laughed. Jane cried. Mother scolded Tom + because he made Jane cry. Tom said Jane was a baby. Jane said Tom + was a bad boy. Then Jane laughed. She forgave Tom. Tom said he was + sorry. + + "We all love you. + + "Good-by. + + "Your loving + "FATHER." + + +Each year the letters can be a little more grown up and they should +always be frequent. + + + + +XXVI + +DURING VACATION + + +When vacation time comes and the children come home for the summer, the +home folks will probably have some trouble at first in understanding +their imperfect speech. Do not be discouraged. The speech will steadily +improve from year to year, and you will soon be able to comprehend it, +even when it is very faulty. But do not accept from the child anything +except the best speech he is capable of. When the boy first arrives you +will, probably, not know just how much to expect of him. To begin with, +it will do him no harm to ask him to repeat what he says, even if you +really did understand him the first time. He will probably speak much +more distinctly the second time than he did the first, and you will see +that you can demand of him more than you at first thought he could do. +He will not be discouraged by being asked to repeat. He is used to it. +The price of good speech, like the price of liberty, is eternal +vigilance. During the school period, teachers and parents should give +unremitting attention to demanding of the children, _every time they +speak_, the best enunciation of which they are at that time capable. + +If you do not understand the boy, or he does not understand you, do not +let him resort to gestures, nor use them yourself. Give him pencil and +paper, if necessary. It will not be necessary often or long, and each +day occasions of difficulty will grow fewer. + +Provide some useful and helpful occupation for the child for at least a +part of each day. Do not let him play at random all the time. Continue a +certain regularity of life in the matter of meals and getting up and +going to bed. Insist upon respectful behavior and good manners. He has +these demanded of him at school. Do not let him return in the fall +having lost much that he had gained during the preceding year. + +When he is at home keep him in touch with the activities and the topics +of discussion in the family circle. Do not let him withdraw or feel shut +out. This will take a good deal of effort and self-denial and patience, +but in the long run it will repay the parents. Failure to do this will +eventually bring sorrow to all concerned. Train the other children to do +their share of this. Insist upon their telling the deaf one their plans +and their doings. Unless some care is taken he will see the others going +without knowing where or why, he will sometimes lose pleasures because +he did not hear the talk that was going on around him and no one thought +to tell him. This has a tendency to make him bitter and unsocial. + +From the very beginning of spoken intercourse with the deaf child the +greatest care should be taken to speak NATURALLY to him. Avoid entirely +all exaggeration of lip movement and mouth opening. Speak a little +slowly, perhaps, and always distinctly, but never with facial +contortions and waving hands. The aim of his oral training is to enable +him to understand the ordinary speech of people when they speak to him, +and to do this he requires an immense amount of practice, just as the +hearing child requires a great deal of practice for years before he can +understand what people are saying to him. If you speak to him in a +different way from that employed when speaking to others he will learn +to understand that, but not your ordinary manner of speaking. He will +also imitate it himself. The Chinaman speaks and understands only +"Pidgin" English because only "Pidgin" English has been used in +communicating with him. If people had spoken to the Chinaman as they do +to other people he would have gradually acquired good English. + +So it is with the deaf child. If you want him to gradually learn to +understand the ordinary intercourse of life, you must exercise him in it +for years. You must not expect him to get much at first, any more than +you expect the baby to understand to start with. But each month he will +gain more, and by the time he is sixteen or seventeen he will have very +nearly overtaken his hearing brother. But if you always address him with +a yawning mouth and flopping tongue and lips, and use deaf-mute English +to him, he will progress in his understanding and use of that, but it is +not what you wish him to acquire. Be patient, be gentle, be untiring and +unremitting in your efforts, but BE NATURAL. _Keep your eyes on his eyes +and speak only when his gaze is upon your face._ + + +Before closing I ought to say that (more is the pity) there are many +persons who live by trading upon the ignorance and credulity of the +unfortunate. The deaf and the friends of the deaf fall an easy prey to +the advertisements of quack remedies, ear drums, etc., that are always +useless and sometimes actually dangerous. The American Medical +Association has had the courage to issue a pamphlet in which these fake +cures are described and exposed, and every deaf person, and parent of a +deaf child, should have one of these pamphlets. The title is "Deafness +Cure Fakes," and can be obtained by writing to the American Medical +Association, 535 North Dearborn Street, Chicago, Illinois. + +Any one who has read these pages will easily see that the suggestions +are all aimed to secure for the deaf a treatment similar in kind, though +somewhat different in degree, to that accorded the normal hearing +person. The tendency has been to differentiate the deaf too much from +the hearing. By adopting the procedure of pure oralism, effectively +applied under _real oral conditions_, uncontaminated, during the +educational period from five to twenty years of age, by finger spelling +or signs, the deaf will be far more fully restored to a normal position +in the social and industrial world than they can ever be by the silent +methods at present so largely used during their most impressionable +years. + + + + +XXVII + +SOME NOTS + + +Do not be downcast. + +Deafness does not, necessarily, bring dumbness. + +Do not consider the deaf child as different from other children. + +Do not cease talking to him. + +Do not speak with exaggerated facial movements. + +Do not exempt him from the duties and tasks and obedience properly +demanded of all children. + +Do not let him grow selfish. + +Do not let him grow indifferent. + +Do not be in haste. + +Do not show impatience. + + + + + +End of the Project Gutenberg EBook of What the Mother of a Deaf Child Ought +to Know, by John Dutton Wright + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK MOTHER OF A DEAF CHILD *** + +***** This file should be named 18439.txt or 18439.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + http://www.gutenberg.org/1/8/4/3/18439/ + +Produced by Kathryn Lybarger, Martin Pettit and the Online +Distributed Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. 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